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Women Buy More Tech Than Men

Computerguy5 writes "According to a Consumer Electronics Association (CEA) study, released at this past Consumer Electronics Show (CES), women accounted for $55 billion of the $96 billion dollar market. 40 percent of women surveyed responded that they were treated better when accompanied by a man. CNN reports on the findings."

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  1. Yeah, but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    Yeah, but those electronics usually involve the settings: Slow, Medium, and Fast! :D

    1. Re:Yeah, but... by gricholson75 · · Score: 5, Funny

      Yeah, but those electronics usually involve the settings: Slow, Medium, and Fast! :D
      except for the Elvis edition, it's settings are:
      Love me tender, Don't be cruel, and Jailhouse rock.

    2. Re:Yeah, but... by val1s · · Score: 5, Funny

      in related new men buy more flowers than women...

    3. Re:Yeah, but... by saden1 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Who in here tells their significant other to get them anything but gadgets as gifts?

      I my world a gift giver has two options.
      1) Get me something electronic.
      2) Get me gift certificate to an electronic store.

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    4. Re:Yeah, but... by smallfeet · · Score: 2, Interesting
      Spend more may not mean buy more. Do men just spend their money more wisely? Are we better electronic shoppers?

      Nay

    5. Re:Yeah, but... by Patik · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Since I'm picky about my electronics and gift certificates are rather impersonal coming from my girlfriend and immediate family, I use the opportunity to get things I wouldn't normally buy for myself, like clothes. Yeah, I know a lot of people here probably don't care about what they wear, but it's nice to get a few new items a couple times a year to keep the wardrobe up to date. Besides, they have better fashion sense than I do.

  2. no surprise... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    Men earn money, women spend it.

    If I didn't have a woman to remind me, I wouldn't even remember to buy food!

    1. Re:no surprise... by RussP · · Score: 5, Informative

      According to Warren Farrell in The Myth of Male Power (an amazing book), the amount of retail space devoted to women's products is SEVEN times that devoted to men's.

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    2. Re:no surprise... by skahshah · · Score: 3, Funny

      Women have 50 pairs of shoes/handbags etc. because those are not meant to be used more than once! I know. I have been married.

  3. Well, duh! by TopShelf · · Score: 3, Funny

    Men use duct tape, thus extending the life of certain pieces of equipment that thus don't require replacing...

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    1. Re:Well, duh! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      you'd never catch me putting duct tape on my certain piece of equipment

    2. Re:Well, duh! by kfg · · Score: 5, Funny

      On the other hand men will throw out a brand new shirt because "it broke."

      i.e., a button fell off.

      KFG

    3. Re:Well, duh! by jawtheshark · · Score: 5, Funny
      No. Men will recycle that said shirt as a rag to clean their hands on if they have been working on the engine of their car. Nothing goes to waste with a man. ;-)

      At least it is better than a woman that buys a pair of shoes and never wears it because the colour really doesn't go with any of her clothes. Of course, she might just look for clothes that go with the shoes, but don't count on it. Oh, and she will categorically refuse to throw the shoes away (or give them to charity).

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    4. Re:Well, duh! by kfg · · Score: 5, Funny

      Oh sure, if it's a flannel shirt he'll use it as an oil rag (unless he just wraps a strip of duct tape around his chest to keep it closed), but not a dress shirt, or even an Oxford.

      They make really lousy oil rags. Trust me. I know. I've. . .

      Ummmmm, ok, maybe he would try to use it as an oil rag the, first time.

      KFG

    5. Re:Well, duh! by kfg · · Score: 2, Funny

      . . . big bond fire...

      Ah, you bought some of those too?

      KFG

    6. Re:Well, duh! by wkitchen · · Score: 3, Informative

      Yeah, they suck as oil rags. But they're good for applying wood stain.

  4. Unbelievable by Simon+Garlick · · Score: 4, Funny

    I'm sure that there must be SOME link between the headline and the article... but I'm buggered if I can see what it is.

    1. Re:Unbelievable by double-oh+three · · Score: 2, Informative

      "women accounted for $55 billion of the $96 billion dollar market." Do the math.

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    2. Re:Unbelievable by Peaker · · Score: 4, Insightful

      His point is that it means that women spent more money on tech, not that they bought more tech.

      You do the math :)

  5. that tells me by gnudutch · · Score: 5, Funny

    that tells me that the men are finding the better deals.

    1. Re:that tells me by Garridan · · Score: 5, Funny

      Or, that women desire to have a different iBook for everything in their wardrobe...

    2. Re:that tells me by jrockway · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I have a "friend" who constantly tells me how good he is because he got his computer so cheaply. "My PC31337 RAM was only like 50 cents a stick man, I have 40 gigs!!! I overclocked my Athlon 1000+ to 3700+ speeds, man! w00t." Good work.

      I'm the kind of person who will pay a little more to know that if the part is defective I can return it without too much fuss. That, and by the time I get the $5 back by rebate it's taken about 2 hours of my time. Not worth it.

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  6. You guys laugh, but this doesn't surprise me by MC_Cancer_Pants · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I see women buy technology all of the time. Most of the time, they're not sure what it does, so they buy it anyway. I could see a lot of women walking into compusa and buying somthing they absolutely have no use for.

    1. Re:You guys laugh, but this doesn't surprise me by Limburgher · · Score: 5, Funny
      I've seen this, in fact I used to work at a CompUSA in IL. This lady bought a CDR labeling kit, and a bunch of labels, like 35 bucks. . .so she could write on the labels with a Sharpie and press them on, rather than, oh, I dunno, writing on the CDR itself with said sharpie.

      Dumbass. Then again, her husband bought the Jaguar upgrade. . . for his WinXP laptop. . .

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    2. Re:You guys laugh, but this doesn't surprise me by bakes · · Score: 5, Interesting

      That's due to a fundamental difference between men's and women's attitude to money.

      A man will spend $2 on a $1 item because he needs it.
      A woman will spend $1 on a $2 item she doesn't need because it's on sale.

      (Not my gag, but I don't know the source)

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    3. Re:You guys laugh, but this doesn't surprise me by snarkh · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And you sold those things to them, right?

    4. Re:You guys laugh, but this doesn't surprise me by Little+Hamster · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Being female, I'd say it's more like

      A woman will spend $2 on a $1 item because it looks better than the $1 one.

      Just look at who's buying all those expensive shoes and clothes.

    5. Re:You guys laugh, but this doesn't surprise me by TheLoneDanger · · Score: 3, Funny

      I think of my own reasoning for buying videogames. I bought the console so I could play the games. Now I have to buy many games to justify spending the money on the console. In some cases, I've bought the games before I had the console. I also have to buy DVDs to justify spending money on multimedia equipment.

      That probably gets women as mystified as I was when a female friend said that I could/should buy a pair of shoes if I bought a few less DVDs. Me: But I've got shoes. I'm wearing them.

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    6. Re:You guys laugh, but this doesn't surprise me by JudgeFurious · · Score: 4, Funny

      It's possible to sell someone AOL? I thought it was something you just noticed you had one day like Herpes.

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    7. Re:You guys laugh, but this doesn't surprise me by madcow_ucsb · · Score: 2, Funny

      A man will spend $2 on a $1 item because he needs it.
      A woman will spend $1 on a $2 item she doesn't need because it's on sale.


      Not only that, but now she has an unexpected extra $1 that she can use that for something else!

  7. ok ?? by Billly+Gates · · Score: 2, Funny

    In other news woman talk about their feelings more then men and men watch more football then woman.

    Oh and the sky is blue. News at 11.

    1. Re:ok ?? by Kris_J · · Score: 3, Interesting
      Also, 80% of men find that they get better service if they wear a suit -- the other 20% either don't own a suit or never leave the house with anything else on.

      "Are you judging that by it's cover? Because I don't think you're supposed to do that."

  8. Tom Peters is right! by EmbeddedJanitor · · Score: 4, Insightful
    "Management Guru" Tom Peters said this and is right. Yet,... product design continues to be male-driven. Many electronic products are designed like F250 trucks instead of light SUVs. This makes them female-hostile (and often hostile for people with smaller hands etc).

    If you have not done so yet, get a woman in your product design team.

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    1. Re:Tom Peters is right! by dnoyeb · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Yes I recall when working for one of the big 3 as an Engineer we all joked about how all our wives, etc. were the ones driving the big trucks though we had bought them for ourselves.

      Yet the radio buttons still could not be pushed with a finger-nailed hand...

      Plus women simply outnumber men, and not as many are in jail as men.

      Nevertheless, I don't believe this for 1 second. They must be stretching the definition of 'tech.'

      In my experience, even when women posses tech, it was purchased by a man.

    2. Re:Tom Peters is right! by metlin · · Score: 4, Interesting

      There is a reason for this, one that anyone taking even the most basic Human Factors class is taught -- most of the data available on human factors is based on either military experiments or from Universities, which employ undergrads. Most willing undergrad participants for these experiments tend to be male.

      Both of these largely tend to show a niche-section of the population, and the data has a tendency to lean towards the male populace.

      Its not just a question of design, its also limited data availability. Go look at Salvendy et al or any book on Engineering Psychology - you will realize that what really makes a strong case for you is the data thats available to you.

    3. Re:Tom Peters is right! by EmbeddedJanitor · · Score: 4, Interesting
      How do you define "tech"? Pretty much everything in our lives and everything we buy is technology including clothing, food, medicines,... Without technology we'd be living in trees.

      Even with a more restrictive definition of technology, I would not be suprised to learn that females dominate tech purchases. I'm in the electronics industry and I see more women moving into positions like manufacturing management, parts procurement etc which involve the spending of big dollars. In fact, thinking further, more than 50% of the people I know in these roles are women. And before someone starts getting silly, none of them are butch type with "Dad" tatoos.

      Even on the home front, the lady of the house often has the veto power on the purchase of that new DVD home theatre etc, and she does not get the testosterone fuelled rush from all those blinking LEDs etc.

      Tom Peters came up with some interesting numbers for the female buying power in what might be considered bloke domain. Women purchase well more than 50% of car stuff: cars, tyres, car services.

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    4. Re:Tom Peters is right! by chunkwhite86 · · Score: 2, Funny

      "Management Guru" Tom Peters said this and is right. Yet,... product design continues to be male-driven. Many electronic products are designed like F250 trucks instead of light SUVs. This makes them female-hostile (and often hostile for people with smaller hands etc).

      There are exceptions to this. Products that are sleek, sexy, and work great. Apple iPod and iBook, for example.

      But your are right about most things. The PS2 looks like something out of a Terminator movie, as do most l33t g4m3r computer cases. Even the ubiquitous TI-83 calculator has an industrial look to it.

      I think male design teams are afraid to use a woman's perspective in their designs, for fear of their product looking like a hello kitty dildo or something.

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    5. Re:Tom Peters is right! by strider_starslayer · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I can't help but argue with this; My aunt buys a lot more 'tech' (If by tech were refering to power tools and vehicles) then me and my dad put together. I had ocassion to ask her what she looks for when she goes out to buy something, she looks at several factors- the Most Important being 'how much time will it save her'- Hence when she buys things she often gets the jigsaw with the largest number of horses, the planer with the biggest acceptance surface, the nailgun with the quickest solinoid recharge rate; She specifically AVOIDS any of the 'female geared' technology, which kick down the horsepower to the point where it's easier to do it by hand, and use a 'pretty looking' coloured case that'll loose its colour in three weeks of constant use, and break after 5.

      I imagine that this anecdote is true of most female buyers, they don't want 'female geared' technology- espically if 'female geared' is advertiser speak for 'cheaper and less durable, but prettier looking'- they want devices that will make them able to do projects faster and easier- and that's what power tools and 'tech' in the home improvment catagory allready is!

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    6. Re:Tom Peters is right! by EmbeddedJanitor · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Unfortunately I think you're using a male biased view. ie "female geared" == weak and pink. I bet these "female geared" devices were designed by men for women. Females are far more practical than males, IMHO, when it comes to purchases. Your aunt has very practical selection criteria. She didn't choose based on blinking LEDs. Probably most power tool sales to men are not based on practical requirements, but on ego-enhancing ones.

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  9. Oooh Shiny! by Quirk · · Score: 5, Funny
    "...that they were treated better when accompanied by a man.

    Tech salespeople would rather sell to a man than a woman because women don't go all glassy eyed and impressionable around bright, shiny things.

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    1. Re:Oooh Shiny! by be-fan · · Score: 2, Informative

      I think you parsed that sentence wrong. He implied that men do get all glassy eyed and impressionable over shiny things. Slashdot is entirely consistent with this conjecture.

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    2. Re:Oooh Shiny! by JediTrainer · · Score: 4, Funny

      women don't go all glassy eyed and impressionable around bright, shiny things.

      You've never seen a woman near a jewellery store or something?

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    3. Re:Oooh Shiny! by gct · · Score: 3, Funny

      That is, of course, unless the bright, shiny thing is a particular carbon molecule contained in a blue Tiffany's box...

    4. Re:Oooh Shiny! by nordicfrost · · Score: 2, Informative
      I'm just going to be an asshole and quote my own post from another topic: OK. So my GF, who liked the iPod and nothing more, did not represent a large part of urban females when she yelled out "ooooooh! it's in PINK, it's in PINK" and "it's even smaller" and "look at that arm strap, now I can jog with it" (1) and " 'only' a thousand songs, I don't have more than a hundre to job to what would I need more than a thousand songs for" (2)?


      See? They're not so different...

  10. What? by svvampy · · Score: 2, Insightful

    What /.ers consider "Tech" is a small subset of "Consumer Electronics"

    1. Re:What? by sonoluminescence · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So you're saying hair dryers might be considered tech?

      Suddenly the story starts to make sense

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  11. Radio Shack data is wrong. by bstadil · · Score: 3, Interesting
    Radio Shack's customers have shifted from 20 percent female seven years ago to 40 percent female today.

    I refuse to believed this. I go to Radio Shack fairly often and you rarely see any women in the shops.

    I think there is an agenda behind this "Report",

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    1. Re:Radio Shack data is wrong. by brian+woolstrum · · Score: 5, Funny

      Radio Shack???? Oh, yeah the Sprint Cell Phone store
      now I remember.

    2. Re:Radio Shack data is wrong. by rootofevil · · Score: 3, Funny

      i refuse to believe you.

      i walk by radio shack often. and i never see ANYBODY in there.

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    3. Re:Radio Shack data is wrong. by Avoid_F8 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'm sure the statistics are correct, and they're not too surprising. I mean, look at what's advertized on Radio Shack commercials. Toys, cell phone services, headphones, pocket organizers, etc. seem to be what attracts "normal" people (including most women) to their stores. I don't see many advertized deals on single capacitors, motors, diodes, switches, transformers, or the like.

    4. Re:Radio Shack data is wrong. by Psykechan · · Score: 2, Funny

      Everytime I go into a Radio Shack there's always a woman in there. Unfortunately it's because I went in there.

  12. My own personal experience... by lukewarmfusion · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I don't buy a ton of tech stuff - but I have it. Gifts, building my own stuff, whatever. My fiancee buys a lot, though - laptop, PDA, camera, etc.

    Her sister walked into Best Buy and despite my specific instructions, let the salesguy talk her into a much worse digital camera for $100 more. On another occasion, she was talked into a TV tuner card and a "special cable" that she couldn't use without an additional upgrade from her old video card... I wouldn't be surprised if she ended up buying Mac software for her Windows XP box.

    It's not just tech, either - lots of women are conned at car dealerships or other sales places. Even if she's smart - she's probably too trusting.

    1. Re:My own personal experience... by Spoing · · Score: 4, Funny
      1. Her sister walked into Best Buy and despite my specific instructions, let the salesguy talk her into a much worse digital camera for $100 more. On another occasion, she was talked into a TV tuner card and a "special cable" that she couldn't use without an additional upgrade from her old video card... I wouldn't be surprised if she ended up buying Mac software for her Windows XP box.

      Pah! That has little to do with women vs. men. Most of the advice I give to anyone is ignored...even when I'm asked for opinions first.

      The conversion now goes something like this;

      1. Them: "Should I get a Widget?"
      2. Me: "What are you planning on doing?"

        Them: "No, seriously, should I get a Widget?"

        Me: "Well, if you are asking you're probably planning on getting one. If you're planning on getting one, you have probably already picked one out."

        Them: "There's this one..."

        Me: "Buy it."

        Them: "I'm asking for your opinion."

        Me: "Do you really want my opinion?"

        Them: "Yes."

        Me: "No, you want someone to tell you to buy something you've already chosen. Since you won't listen to me -- nobody does -- why not just buy what you wanted to in the first place?"

        Them: "Well, I wouldn't ask if I didn't want your opinion. I don't know a thing about Widgets, and you do!"

        (Long Q & A on what they are looking for and suggestions on what are the better choices.)

        Me: "OK, from what you said and what I know about the Wankel Widget Mark III you're looking at...I suggest you wait 6 months and ask me again. No matter what, though, that Wankel Widget is a waste of time and money. The Bolox Widget ZX is 1/4 the price and does about the same thing...though even that's a waste of money right now. Sorry."

        Them: "B-but...the Wankel Widget is so cool looking. It does everything."

        Me: "You asked my opinion, and from what you've said, it's not only useless but a waste of your time and money. Wait 6 months and things might improve."

        Them: "You know...I think I am going to get the Widget."

        Me: "See, I told you nobody listens to me. Go buy it."

        Them: "Hmmmmm...." (They go buy it and tell me in a few months that it was an 'OK' or 'poor' choice.)

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  13. Equal Opportunity by buddydawgofdavis · · Score: 5, Funny

    Nearly three-quarters of women surveyed by the industry group complained about being ignored, patronized or offended by sales people when shopping for electronics.

    At least the sales staff a Fry's Electronics don't discriminate; they'll ignore you reguardless of your gender :)

    1. Re:Equal Opportunity by fufighter · · Score: 2, Funny

      as an employee of Fry's Electronics I have nothing but one thing to say... your absolutely correct! hey, I dont care, I work in the back moving boxes around.

    2. Re:Equal Opportunity by edalytical · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I know you work in the back, but you must have some friend who work on the floor. Do they get paid by how many customer they avoid? Seriously though.

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    3. Re:Equal Opportunity by sirsex · · Score: 2, Funny

      (i>but you must have some friend who work on the floor

      No, from the service I am pretty sure no one works on the floor at all.

    4. Re:Equal Opportunity by Guppy06 · · Score: 4, Funny

      "Nearly three-quarters of women surveyed by the industry group complained about being ignored, patronized or offended by sales people when shopping for electronics."

      Payback's a bitch, ain't it?

  14. bitch make me a sandwich. by Malicious · · Score: 2, Funny
    This just proves that geeks have their women whipped.

    Hon, can you go to the shop and pick me up *insert gadget/techno babble here*

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    1. Re:bitch make me a sandwich. by Daengbo · · Score: 3, Funny

      That's why you have to train them: I suggest the electronic collar with remote.


      Relax! It's a joke...

  15. Re:Women spend more money on tech? by cheerios · · Score: 4, Insightful

    we DO spend more time shopping and finding sales [/gross generalization]... and buying technology isn't like buying cars... it's not like there's a lot of haggling going on, so I'd think it's fair to say they'd get the same bang for their buck. I don't walk out of best buy feeling cheated, although I have experienced the "oh, you're a girl, you don't know what it MEANS when I say 4.2 GHz or DDR or anything FANCY like that... here let me show you the pretty PURPLE computer..." phenomenon. Trick is... ignore the sales-people, or bring a male for decoy-work.

  16. It may come as a shock.... by jkabbe · · Score: 5, Interesting

    This might be a surprise to those here but sometimes girls will buy stuff for guys.

    A guy who buys a girl an electronic gift is being "insensitive".

    A girl who buys a guy an electronic gift is a total babe.

    So maybe all that extra spending is just gifts.

    1. Re:It may come as a shock.... by Joe+Tie. · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Not to mention mothers buying gifts for their kids.

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    2. Re:It may come as a shock.... by Jeff+DeMaagd · · Score: 2, Interesting


      A girl who buys a guy an electronic gift is a total babe.

      Assuming they know enough. I wouldn't expect most guys to know what kind of shoes to buy, and I wouldn't expect most women to know what kind of hardware to buy. As much as a lot of guys would think all the shoes are the same, a lot of women that I know would think all the computer processors are the same.

    3. Re:It may come as a shock.... by prufrax · · Score: 2, Insightful

      This might be a surprise to those here but sometimes us girls are just as interested in tech gadgets as guys.

  17. Lego's new strategy by bstadil · · Score: 3, Insightful
    In the same "unbaised" survey it was revealed that an astounding 85% of all Toys were bought by Grown-ups.

    As a consequence Lego will now ditch the silly little colored blocks and design more Adult like products. Inflatable dolls for dad and longer more sturdy colored artifacts for mom.

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  18. Cellphones by SugoiMonkey · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Women probably buy more cell phones than men; and I'm sure that cell phones make up a large portion of the tech market.

  19. Sadly so by AlecC · · Score: 4, Interesting

    40 percent of women surveyed responded that they were treated better when accompanied by a man./em?

    I have a classic household. I earn the dough, she runs the house. We work together with the kids (now 18 and 16). We are both happy with this arrangement. I am a geek - Linux, Windows, C, Java, that is my territory. She runs the house - including plumbing, electricity, and all that it takes to make the house work. We have had extensions to the house - we agree it, she gets the contractors to do it, I pay. All fine.

    Except, will the contractors, or any workman we call in, listen to her? Will pigs fly? Over and over again I have to relay *her* orders to the contractors - because they won't obey a female voice. It makes my blood boil, over and over again, when I have to phone some stupid contractor to tell him, in a bass voice, what my wife has told him contralto, and been ignored.

    OK, our household is eccenrtic (for a lot more than is in this post). But WTF cannot contractors respect the pover of the the chequebook (checkbook) and DO WHAT THEY ARE PAID FOR!

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    1. Re:Sadly so by dvdeug · · Score: 5, Insightful

      But WTF cannot contractors respect the pover of the the chequebook (checkbook) and DO WHAT THEY ARE PAID FOR!

      They are. You are enabling their behavior. You could fire them, or you could just let them screw up and refuse to pay them, or most effectively, chew them out for ignoring your wife and refuse to repeat it. If they want it repeated, let her repeat it.

    2. Re:Sadly so by IamLarryboy · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Here is why.

      People naturally stereotype people. We have to. It is simply not possible to live without putting people into boxes. Where I live I assume that anyone I meet will speak English. This could very possible be not true but none the less I do not enquire what language someone would prefer to converse in I just speak English. Similarly, I assume that when it comes to computers people are idiots. I know very well that some are not but it has been my overwhelming experience that it is easier to assume stupidity and work up. Stereotyping is a fact of life. GET OVER IT!

      I would wager that these contracters do not stereotype your wife out of any superiority complex, sexism, or any other nefarius motive. Rather my money says that it has merely been their experience that women ARE generally less competent than men when it comes to construction. Is this really so hard to believe? They discriminate as a matter of efficiency and accuracy not to serve their egos.

      woosh. (the sound of my karma being flushed down the toilet)

    3. Re:Sadly so by Ironica · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Stereotyping is a fact of life. GET OVER IT!

      Stereotyping, or prejudice, as you're describing it, isn't the same as the situation the parent was describing.

      Assuming that someone speaks English in a predominantly-English speaking area/country/store/whatever is a reasonable prejudice (in the classic sense of the word). It is not reasonable to ask each person what language they want to use before using it. It is also reasonable to treat people who walk into your store as potential customers, and probably reasonable to treat strangers on a dark street with some caution.

      On the other hand, failing to hear someone because of what they look like is a non-functional prejudice. It's not that they *ask* him and not his wife because they assume he will know and she won't. It's that she *tells* them something and they simply ignore it until he repeats it. It's like assuming that someone does *not* speak English because they look Asian, and not noticing when they talk to you in a perfect American accent.

      women ARE generally less competent than men when it comes to construction.

      Based on...? When it comes to how they want a house extension to work, women usually have a *much* better idea of what will work for the family than men do. They spend more time in the house and have to use a greater percentage of it. Most men have no experience with construction, and sometimes will *pretend* to understand or know things they don't to protect a macho idea that they're supposed to know this thing.

      They discriminate as a matter of efficiency and accuracy not to serve their egos.

      It is not more efficient to have to get instructions twice, the second time from someone who is not there in front of you.

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    4. Re:Sadly so by jesse.k · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I find your gross generalization to be highly uninformed due to your typical slashdot yuppie nerd values where people who work in the area of physical labor are seen as incompetant because they don't work jobs where they sit at a computer and read slashdot all day.

      My father is a general contractor specializing in home repair and remodel. A good deal of his customers are women and I can say for a fact that he listens to and follows the wishes of all his customers to a T. He's even fired sub-contractors for such behavior as you've described.

      I'm not one to deny that there certainly are problem contractors like you've described but I find it reprehensible that you still deal in uninformed stereotypes.

  20. I see this as a temporary problem by 0x0d0a · · Score: 3, Interesting

    People tend to be pretty sensitive about their purchasing experiences when shopping. With cars, there are usually a lot of competitors within easy driving range. If a woman feels peeved that she's not being properly treated, she simply won't shop at that store. The free market should take care of things, to be honest.

    I'm not married, but I suspect that if I was and was talking to a furniture salesman at an interior furnishings store with my wife, the wife is more likely to be addressed by default. I suspect the salesman would end up speaking more to whoever is asking more questions, in the end. I don't find the concept of this particularly offensive or irritating.

    My guess about the feature list: as Slashdotters love to note about tech items, many technology products have bullet points and specs listed that are not particularly useful in actually judging the limitations and capabilities of the product. For some reason, some quirk of the male and female psyche, I rarely see females proudly enumerating, showing off products to their friends based on bullet points. I *do* see guys doing this. Hence, different bullet points being handed to the men. It's just something that the salesman (or -woman, given the context of this article) hopes will sell an item more effectively.

    1. Re:I see this as a temporary problem by dvdeug · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I suspect the salesman would end up speaking more to whoever is asking more questions, in the end.

      I've heard of a couple cases where the woman had to use the guy as an intercom, because the salesman would ignore her, despite the fact that she was clearly the one who knew what was going on.

    2. Re:I see this as a temporary problem by Ironica · · Score: 2, Insightful

      People tend to be pretty sensitive about their purchasing experiences when shopping. With cars, there are usually a lot of competitors within easy driving range. If a woman feels peeved that she's not being properly treated, she simply won't shop at that store. The free market should take care of things, to be honest.

      *If* someone offers an alternative. In a world where 1% of female respondents think that electronic products are actually geared toward them, this probably means that 1% of women want the same things from products that the men in the focus groups do, and that no one is trying to sell women any electronics.

      You can't choose an alternative that doesn't exist. Yes, Airport Honda lost my business by ignoring me when I walked in and barely responding when I asked anything, and Santa Monica Honda gained a customer for life by greeting me at the door and talking to *me*, the person asking the questions, instead of my then-fiance. But what if every Honda dealer within a reasonable distance of where I lived had treated me the same way? What would I have done then? No one else was offering the car I wanted. Instead, I probably would have done my best to brazen it out with the most convenient location, using my SO as a mouthpiece when absolutely necessary. Which is what a lot of women end up doing with a lot of different types of business.

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  21. It can be frustrating... by bperkins · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I few years ago my fiance was shopping for a new computer, which she wanted to buy from Dell. I told her that she shouldn't buy a P4 because the performance advatage was minimal and the Rumbus ram was expensive.

    She bought the p4 anyway, because it came in black.

    1. Re:It can be frustrating... by be-fan · · Score: 4, Funny

      She probably was wondering what the hell this "Rumbus RAM" was, since the box listed "Rambus RAM" and concluded tahat you didn't have the foggiest clue what you were talking about :)

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  22. Who let them out of the kitchen? by micahmicahmicah · · Score: 2, Funny

    I actually know quite a few gadget girls. But I've yet to find one who could link up their GP32 with mine.

  23. Ignorance Is Bliss by maliabu · · Score: 2, Insightful

    i think it's true that women buy more than men.

    personally (male) before i put my money down for anything, i need to think over and over again, because i just read on Slashdot that version 2 of xx is coming out soon etc etc.. so with all these sources of information, i usually end up buying nothing.

    my wish list so far:
    1. PDA (palm or PPC? WiFi, CF, SD...?)
    2. DVD-Writer (which brand? how fast?)
    3. Mini PC (get 400MHZ FSB or wait for 433)?
    4. LCD (15" or 17", what response time, what res?)
    5. CPU (AMD or Intel? 32bit or 64Bit? 128K or 256K cache?)
    6. CPU Fan (80mm or 120mm?)

    the list can go on, and i haven't bought any of the above yet, although the list started about 2 years ago.

  24. Stupid Statistics by The+Dark · · Score: 3, Insightful

    "Nearly three-quarters of women surveyed by the industry group complained about being ignored, patronized or offended by sales people when shopping for electronics."
    Probably three-quarters of men would complain about the same thing.
    "40 percent of women surveyed responded that they were treated better when accompanied by a man."
    Does that mean that 60 percent were treated better when they weren't accompanied by a man?

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    1. Re:Stupid Statistics by the_mad_poster · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Does that mean that 60 percent were treated better when they weren't accompanied by a man?

      Theoretically, there would be three options, not two: being treated better, worse, and the same. Of course, since the other two options (better and the same) could be viewed as either neutral or better, that means that no matter how the breakdown works, the odds are STILL in favor of a woman NOT taking a man along, which directly invalidates what the article is trying to quietly suggest: that women are better off being accompanied by a man when making a tech purchase.

      Some other questionable "factoids":

      ...women are involved in almost 75 percent of all electronics purchases...

      Meaning what, exactly? How much are they involved EXCLUSIVELY in? What are they buying? Who are they buying for?

      Radio Shack's customers have shifted from 20 percent female seven years ago to 40 percent female today.

      Has Radio Shack's marketing changed? Has it's product changed? Locations?

      Every time you go to these places, they think women don't know anything, and they don't tell you the same features as they would when my husband goes with me.

      That doesn't hold with the marketing complaint from earlier. Are they targetting something they feel will appeal more to the demographic? What, specifically, are they saying?

      I don't usually even bother reading anything like this, especially studies, when they're in major news organizations. There's never any context provided to suggest the data has any validity or, worse, any meaning what-so-ever. People never question the fact that the numbers don't mean anything beyond what the writer is suggesting (typically, suggesting without any REAL evidence), so they keep doing it. CNN: The New American Tabloid.

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  25. Companies changed strategy: Products for kitchen.. by janbjurstrom · · Score: 5, Insightful
    (From the article):
    Sharp redesigned its flat-panel TVs two years ago with women in mind. /.../ Last Mother's Day, a Circuit City ad prominently featured one of the sleek TVs in a kitchen.
    Sony's products targeting women include its LIV line, /.../ CD players for the kitchen and shower radios /.../. The smaller designs should fit better in a home -- characteristics desired by consumers in general and women in particular, said Ellen Glassman, a director of design at Sony.

    Well isn't that some sad, stereotyped shit(?) According to the article, women complained about being patronized in tech stores. But what the hell kind of image of women do the tech manufacturers have?

    1. "Well, these 'women' are always in the kitchen, right?!"
    2. "True dat, so why not refit our gadgets so they match kitchen cabinets and stuff!"
    3. "We've got it! Profit!"

    What's the word I'm looking for ... unzeitgeistful?
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  26. Very telling... by Aardpig · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I've just had a quick scan through the initial (100 or so) responses to this story. It seems there is little variation between the responses; most of them fall into one of the following categories:

    • Women account for more spending because they buy lots of vibrators,
    • Women account for more spending because they are buying gifts for their tech-savvy boyfriends/husbands; they don't buy for themselves,
    • Although women account for more spending, here is an amusing anecdote which discusses why the are too stupid to be trusted to spend wisely

    None of these responses really makes any serious attempt to address the issues behind the story. Instead, they appear to regard the story as an attack on their technical savvy, and by association an attack on their manliness. This may explain why so many responses proceed to trash either the figures quoted, or women themselves. Is it any wonder why so many men on /. complain about not getting laid?

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    1. Re:Very telling... by toniintc · · Score: 2, Informative

      Oddly enough, I didn't find myself wondering that at all. It seemed patently evident.

      As a woman, I can attest to the uneven treatment. Women begrudingly learn to live with it at least in part. I live in a medium size town where alernatives to a given establishment might not be plentiful.

      That said, many of the male generated responses to this story are symptomatic of the problem, as Aardpig infers. The products purchased really aren't the issue - I can go just about anywhere but the most female-targed businesses and within as long as it takes to fire up my laptop, locate someone willing to treat me in a codescending fashion. Having this happen in a location that parallels my job experience (network admin) is indeed particularly frustrating, but never surprising.

      It all revolves around social attitudes - 50 years ago nobody complained about this type of behavior because it was the expected norm - "Now honey, don't you have a husband to help you with that?" We've obviously come a long way, but we have a long way to go. Frankly, I doubt it will be erased in my lifetime, if ever in whole. Men are men - sorry guys, but your need to grunt and proclaim your superiority is inbred or something. 75% of the responses here prove that!

  27. blabla by illumen · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Interestingly I am often treated better when with a woman.

    More women approach me when I am out with some friends who are girls.

    Whether it is at the pub, or shopping.

    I think one reason is that girls are less afraid, and guys are attracted to the women.

    As for women being treated better with a guy, probably something similar is happening. For some reason couples are just treated better.

    Or it could be that the people serving hate women. Or women are worse customers to the servers. Or all of these reasons and more.

    People treat me a lot better when I don't have a beard too.

    The world is a strange place. Lick a mirror with your tongue.

  28. My company sells to more men by Larry+David · · Score: 2, Informative

    We have a saying around here, stolen from the movie 'The Boiler Room'... and that is Don't Pitch the Bitch.

    Crude, but women are such a fucking hassle when you're trying to sell stuff at a higher price than they think its worth. Men are a lot easier to cajole, and don't keep throwing up concerns or calling you every day to see why you didn't do what you promised yet. Men are definitely a lot easier to scam.

  29. What really pisses me off... by RevRa · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Is that I am more of a tech nerd than 95% of the guys I know, and every time I walk into a computer store, jiffy lube, or hardware store, the people there treat me like a slobbering 2 year old.

    I swear this conversation happened about 3 weeks ago:

    [sales rep-tile] "Can I help you?"
    [me] "Nah, I'm just looking for a network card."
    [sales rep-tile] "This is a good one, and we can put it in for you."
    [me] "Oh, I'll just put it in myself."
    [sales rep-tile] "Now sweetheart that's very complicated, are you sure you should try that?"

    Sometimes it's difficult to refrain from telling them to kiss my ass.

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    1. Re:What really pisses me off... by Al-Hala · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Then don't hold back :)

      Show them your cognitive abilities by calling for the manager and pointing out that he's just lost a customer due to the reptile's inept turn of phrase.

      I love it when a sterotype bites someone on the ass.

    2. Re:What really pisses me off... by obey13 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      This bias is apparently not just limited to sale reps and the like but also to 99% of Slashdot users.

      -Alex(andra)

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    3. Re:What really pisses me off... by Al-Hala · · Score: 4, Insightful

      From what I've seen in real life, if the sales lizard has this attitude at the START of a conversation, sweet reason will rarely make any sort of positive change.

      And yes, I've been (and still am) in management, I've done the salesfloor (seven years in retail, three in industrial).

      The way to encourage staff(remember, their actions reflect on the company)to keep up this sort of attitude is to not give feedback. Personally, (no suprise) I welcome feedback from my customers.

      Do you really think this sales staff member realized the error of his ways that night? Or that she might mention it in a wider setting (like this one)?

    4. Re:What really pisses me off... by dandelion_wine · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You speak the truth. When it comes to changing employee behaviour, taking him to task is the way.

      Unfortunate double-bind for the female shopper, though. Whether she snaps at him or takes it to his boss, she's just a "bitch". A guy calls the man out and he's standing up for himself.

  30. Wife's electronics easily outweight mine. by openmtl · · Score: 2, Interesting
    I agree and hope retailers make it easier: I'd also go out on a limb to say that the biggest purchase in many lives is the family home and its fairly well decided on by the wife.

    Its also full of electronic gadgets from microwaves, TV, DVD, Video, Sat, ovens, washing machine/dryers, dishwasher, burglar alarms, WIFI/cable, dimmers, coffee/tea makers, breadmaker, mixers, fridge, freezer, printers, blenders, grillers, icemakers, water coolers, games consoles and air-con.

    Now we geeks may think that after spending 5 hours evaluating various models of MP3 players before we make out informed decision that we are kings of technology: think again. In sheer tonnage the wife's purchasing decisions in electronics (or rather stuff that uses electricity) easily outweighs and out-costs the few gadgets we get left to decide to buy. We're just the grunt labour who have to cart this stuff home and install it and truthfully being a geek, I prefer to work out how to install something that someone else has bought as the shopping side of things can burn you out.

    Nuff said as I still have to adjust declination on sat-dish as its not tracking all the arc right and still haven't replaced the soap dispenser on the dishwasher and the SCART switcher has lost audio on one socket. Labour saving ? A husband's work is never finished !

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  31. How you define tech by ca1v1n · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Anything that is more than twice as powerful as what you could get for the same money three years ago. Alternatively, anything that costs less than half what it did three years ago.

  32. Re:Women spend more money on tech? by mroch · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Women like to see things physically before they buy them. It's been a big thing with online shopping the past few years. Women have just recently started to outnumber men in ecommerce sales. I don't know about the stuff you buy, but I can normally find a better deal online from places like NewEgg than at the friendly, local Best Buy.

  33. Stereotypes... by Boricle · · Score: 2, Informative
    My mother has a wonderful workshop. Angle grinder, Hammer Drill, Jigsaw, blah blah blah. Put up the shelves for all my step-fathers orchids (using the hammer drill).

    My step-father on the other hand, can't change a light globe and when asked by my mother for a Hammer Drill for her birthday, didn't know what one was and I haven't taught him how to use the memories or key-lock on his mobile phone because its too complicated for him.

    That said, my father makes an excellent salesman, whereas my mother (when she tried it) was average at it.

    Sometimes people don't fit into the stereotypes - sometimes they do - stereotypes can make things easier (the first question asked when getting presents for children is "boy or girl?") but also limit the options you have.

    I wonder if the the fact that some women have problems dealing with technology sales people is because most of them are male, and are typically used to dealing with males in technology areas. This is changing, but it won't happen immediately. The stereotypes may be plain wrong, but still take a while to change.

    1. Re:Stereotypes... by dandelion_wine · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The stereotypes may be plain wrong, but still take a while to change.

      That's if they're wrong. Exceptions don't disprove stereotypes -- they are noteworthy because they are exceptional.

  34. Sexism ahoy! by Dixie_Flatline · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Holy moly is this place awfully sexist or what?

    Don't get me wrong. I have a sense of humour, and I enjoy jokes about the stereotypes that are associated with men AND women, but I'm suprised at how unsympathetic most people posting here are.

    When my girlfriend goes out and gets treated poorly at a computer or electronics store, it pisses both of us off. It's totally unreasonable. We both make a living as programmers, but she's the one with the Master's degree in CS, while I have a lowly Bachelor's. There's no reason to treat us differently. She knows as much as I do. (More, obviously, given our educational differences.)

    I've never really understood how people can put up with widespread sexism. These women are our wives, daughters, mothers and sisters. When they get treated poorly, I get angry about it. Don't any of you care that if/when you get a girlfriend, some retarded drone that works a low-paying retail job in some warehouse store thinks that he's so much better than the person that you've decided is a worthwhile human being that you like to spend time with that he's going to insult her intelligence?

    C'mon. Stop with the 'go make me a sammich, beyotch!' jokes. They're an insult to men and women alike.

    1. Re:Sexism ahoy! by natmsincome.com · · Score: 3, Interesting

      What is it about people and degrees?

      When people make comments about people with high degrees knowing more or being smarting I think I live in a different world.

      Tafe: Practical.
      Bachelor: General overall knowledge in a specific field.
      Masters: Detailed knowledge in a specilised field.
      Phd: Research knowledge in a single topic/idea.

      Having a higher education doesn't mean you know more or are smarter it just confirms that you had the potental.

      If you don't agree with me then why do they have Honarary Docterates?

      Also at each level you become more specialised which is great if that area is needed but it isn't transferable to another "universe of discourse".

      I guess I have a somewhat jaded view since my Grandfather wrote the coricumem for a University and all my uncles and Aunties on my Fathers side have multiple letters after their names and they are all screwed up and see schrinks at least once a month.

      Summing up:
      *The smater you are the higher you can get in the educational game.[1]
      *Being higher in the educational game doesn't MAKE you smarter.[1]

      [1] For thoes of you who did logic at Uni this is also known as "The Fallacy of the Consequent" http://www.fallacyfiles.org/commcond.html

  35. Re:Women spend more money on tech? by janbjurstrom · · Score: 2, Informative

    I dunno, when it comes to buying new boxen, every (male) geek friend I know spend endless amounts of time (only online though) on research, comparisons, searching for deals, etc. Although the same goes for the, sadly few, geek women I know. But then, if I was offered a 4.2 GHz, that's an impulse buy right there ;)

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  36. men know too many clueless women by visionsofmcskill · · Score: 2, Insightful

    the biggest issue isnt so much a stereotype... it's that the vast majority of women want nothing to do with cars and computer internals. In the same way men who know britney spears social life or who watch soap operas are also unexpected.

    Cahnces are many ladies will assume i know nothing about lots of "pop-cutlture" stuff... and will be surprised if i do.

    And most men who do techy jobs, tend not to see to many women with any degree of know-how above ctrl-alt-delete (sometimes even thats a stretch)

    Not that any moron you be con-descedning... but if youve ever done half the support calls i have.... most women i help are far less prone to knowing where the run menu is... how to type into the command line.... etc...

    Is it biast? partialy... is it right? no.... but is it understandable why someone might expect that you may not be inclined towards tech given their experience? You say 95% of the guys you know are less skilled at tech... but how many of them (percentage wise) wouldnt know what/where "run" is?

    this is not to be confused with good customer service, the rule of thumb there is to let the customer show you how ignorant they are BEFORE you talk down to them.

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    1. Re:men know too many clueless women by shadowbearer · · Score: 2, Interesting

      It has *everything* to do with good customer service;

      It's rude, ignorant, inexcusable behavior from someone who has not the slightest concept of what being a gentleman is. I blame TV :)

      I've fired people for that sort of crap.

      My advice is to take your business elsewhere.

      SB

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    2. Re:men know too many clueless women by shadowbearer · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Well, pardon the troll remark. As a AC post, it came across that way. I don't post AC and I have little respect for those who do.

      There is no *solid* definition. However, I'll offer a few thoughts:

      Treat *everyone* as equals; even (and especially) your enemies.

      Be firm in your beliefs, easy in your convictions, merciless to those who show no mercy to others, and merciful to those trapped within situations they don't control.

      Courtesy to others, at all times; even when insulted. Yet stand up for insults against others, up to and including the point of kicking ass :)

      Share always the best knowledge or wisdom you have; if shown you are wrong, concede gracefully. If you think you're right, fight for your convictions.

      Always buy the first drink. If you can't, buy the second.

      Learn all you can, share more.

      Hold no grudges, given that they mend their ways. If they don't, show no mercy. When attacked, respond at or below the level offered.

      Those who are helpless don't deserve pity; they deserve help. Give it to them, if they will accept it. If not, treat them with polite courtesy despite their failings.

      Those who would exploit others deserve mercy, but only after you've defeated them, and only if they're willing to accept it. If they're not willing, they probably deserve death.

      Judgement: I hear a lot of crap about "Who are you to judge -topic-person-situation-". This is sheer bullshit. We each and all make judgements all our lives, often from second to second. It's why *insert deity here* gave us the capability. OIOW, it's why we developed intelligence in the first place.
      Feel free to judge. Just try to judge wisely. If you fail, you fail. It happens. Humans are faulty. Try, or try not. (God? Bog? Who? Giving the Ultimate Judgement to God, the Authorities, or whomever is passing the buck. You're the person on the spot. Deal with it. )

      The Best Rule, tho, is probably the Golden One. Treat others how you would want to be treated - with a caveat - if you were in their situation.

      There is no black and white definition. I do, however, think that Heinlein came the closest. Nevermind those "old style" (wtf that is) definitions. :) - mind you, I grew up under "old style" courtesy, and I have my disagreements with some of it's tenants, too. I don't agree with everything Heinlein said, either. I make up my own mind.

      I will say this, tho. I've met *very few* women in the last 35+ years who *did not* like having doors opened for them; I've also met few men who don't appreciate it. Those I've met who did, generally, IMO, have some sort of internal conflict with themselves. This attitude rarely steers me wrong; a simple "Thank You" from a stranger for a simple act of kindness is more precious than a thousand thank you's from any charity donation.

      Read into it what you will. You have to find your own path. The important thing to remember is that you have the ability to make your own choices. It can steer you wrong, but if I read you right, you're on a good path already.

      If a lot of this seems contradictory, it's because human beings are so. This is merely advice freely given for the asking. It has no more value than you read into it. *What* you read into it, and how you act on it, is your responsibility alone. :) Just remember: You asked ;) I can't teach you *how* to be a "gentleman"; I can only tell you what I think one should be, and why. There's an important lesson in that.

      I could add a lot more, but it's late and I have to sleep. :) This topic can, and has been debated to death. That's why I suggested you look into it on your own. Form your own opinions. Become a freethinker. It's an important step.

      SB
      (Who is not a perfect gentleman, and who knows that striving to be one can lead me down the wrong path. I guess that's why I hate working retail sales so much :) -but- the path is the important part, not the destination.

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  37. Well, maybe... by lurker412 · · Score: 4, Funny

    Statistics show that 94.52% of all surveys that do not give details on sample size and sampling methods are bogus. Trust me.

  38. Women buy more tech FOR men by humankind · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Women are the more substantive consumers over man. Who do you think they're buying the "tech" for?

  39. Male vs. Female Responses by Jonathan+Quince · · Score: 3, Funny
    Sometimes it's difficult to refrain from telling them to kiss my ass.

    A man wouldn't refrain.

    There's your problem.

    (Of course, if you want to be extra manly, pop 'em one in the jaw for insulting a lady. It is, after all, the chivalrous course of action in when faced with such discourtesy.)

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  40. Is this a joke? by timestocome · · Score: 5, Informative
    Reading the comments posted here I can't help but wonder if it isn't the same patronizing clerks in the stores who wrote these comments.

    Here is a clue, I have a Master's in Computational Physics and I spend a lot on tech gadgets and computers. Imagine that a 42 year old, little old lady who does something besides buy gadgets for her husband.

    I have been so patronized in tech stores I do almost all my tech shopping online now.

    "No I do not need a large LCD to draw pictures on, I need it to see physics simulations."

    "No I don't need a pop-up blocker, I use Linux and OSX, I out grew Windows when it was on version 3.11"

    "No I don't need your over priced warrenty, if it breaks I'll fix it myself."

    If it is true that women do most of the spending on tech stuff, then I expect like me they are doing most of it online and these patronizing boys will before too long all be unemployeed.

    1. Re:Is this a joke? by timestocome · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Yes, I am. When my husband and I shop together at the tech stores the clerks answer my questions to them to him. They don't ask him if he wants a large monitor to do graphics. When we went to the Apple store the clerks came over to ask if he needed help and ignored me. It is the same at car dealerships to and unfortunately you can't buy cars online like you can computers and electronics.

    2. Re:Is this a joke? by UserChrisCanter4 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      At the risk of sounding offensive, I might point out that a lot of your responses are ludicrously condescending to a person who's simply making a couple of assumptions based on the vast majority of their customer base, male or female. I work in a repair center at a major retail electronics business (poke through my posts if you really care which one), and while I wouldn't say that it qualifies me as any sort of expert, it does pay decently enough for a crappy college town to keep me from needing student loans. Please understand that I am not condescending to women, but I do dumb things down. Guess what, I dumb things down for men, too, because about 95% of the populace doesn't care about tech enough to bother learning. It just isn't a passion in their life like it is to a lot of /. folk. That said:

      In sales, the goal is to phrase any question as an open-ended one, discouraging a "yes" or "no" answer and encouraging a conversation. It helps the sales person learn a bit about you (which helps them make a recommendation to their average customer. You are obviously not their average customer, but they have no way of knowing either way).

      Consider your responses, and the likely questions posed to you by the salesperson.

      "No I do not need a large LCD to draw pictures on, I need it to see physics simulations."
      Coming right out and asking, "why do you want this?" is an offensive statement to a person of either gender, so any salesperson in this situation is going to ask about a function used by the majority of the public. Drawing pictures or editing pictures or photographs is something almost any customer probably uses their computer for at least some of the time. If you do, that salesperson can ask about other things you do, and it opens up the conversation. If you don't (you obviously use it for physics simulations) it tells the employee other things about you (you know your shit, and on the outside chance that you're someone looking for a computer but who only cares about visualizing physics sims and NOT the hardware itself, they have a good idea of the sort of hardware you'd need). This is not an attempt to patronize you. Now, a person phrasing it with a patronizing tone to their voice, definitely, but almost any salesperson, knowledgeable or no, is going to ask you a similar question.

      No I don't need a pop-up blocker, I use Linux and OSX, I out grew Windows when it was on version 3.11
      This is a bit more off-the-wall. Again, laws of statisitics show that somewhere over 90% of the computer-using populace is running Windows, most of them likely IE. A pop-up blocker might be a wortwhile thing to those people, assuming they didn't already use one of the 90-jillion freeware products that do the same. This is a bit more into sleazy add-on territory IMHO, since it wouldn't be something any decent salesperson would point you toward unless your conversation steered toward web browsing or internet services, or something of the sort. Since a lot of stores nowadays seem to push ISPs as one of their products (and a lot of those pricier ISPs use pop-up blocking as one of their "premium" services that set them apart), it might just be a really clumsy attempt to segue into them selling you an ISP. I highly doubt you actually say, to their face, "I use Linux and OSX; I outgrew Windows when it was on 3.11", I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, because getting extra crap pushed on you is irritating. If you do, I might ask why you would direct such hostility toward a likely non-commissioned salesperson who is required to offer such services to customers in order to retain his or her job.

      No I don't need your over priced warrenty, if it breaks I'll fix it myself.
      I would crack up if you made this response to a person regarding anything other than maybe a television, CRT monitor, or stereo amp (the things easily repaired with a soldering iron and a little troubleshooting). I would hope to god that you weren't buying a retai

  41. Machines are not misogynist by deevise · · Score: 5, Informative
    Thank Buddha that someone finally addressed how ridiculous the posts to this topic have been to date!

    At issue here is that there are a large group of people that on occasion get at best dismissed and at worst harassed when buying tech products.
    Ask me how many times a sales guy can't look me in the eye cause my tits are too distracting, or how many times my product choices are second guessed simply cause I'm wearing a skirt, and I then have to go and recite all the specs of the product from memory IN ADDITION to the competing products to prove that believe it or not, I'm not an impulse tech shopper and fully research and plan all of my purchases. (actually, I enjoy that part, cause the sales 'dudes' then shut up fast and realize they've been outclassed, hopefully learning it's bad sales strategy to have any preconceptions of their customers).
    Also fortunate in this sense, bricks and mortars RARELY have the best prices and online stores have yet to discriminate in the least when I purchase all the tech products for my document imaging business and my personal armory of gadgets.

    Motivational quote for the day: Try thinking of women as more than brainless bank account draining bimbos and maybe you'll find one that's not.

  42. Why I shop online. by i+love+pineapples · · Score: 5, Interesting

    My whole life is computers. I have been taking apart/breaking/tinkering with/programming computers since my father brought home a Commodore 64 all those years ago. It pisses me off to no end when some slick haired little sales moron assumes I know less about computers than my boyfriend, who doesn't even understand why he needs to keep up on the latest XP patches and wondered why his computer kept rebooting after leaving it on his school's network without patches or a firewall.

    I finally got fed up years ago when, while browsing laptops, some sly salesguy looking for his commission paid more attention to the guy I was with, who was about to run over to the console games section and had no interest in computers, than me, the potential sale. He instead pointed me to the dayglo ibooks and wouldn't answer any of my questions, all while chatting it up with my friend about processors. I made it very clear to his manager that I was very ready to make a pretty large purchase at his store, but since his salespeople weren't willing to give me the time of day I'd be taking my business elsewhere. About a week later I faxed the store a copy of my invoice for a $3000 custom job, plus oodles of accessories and software. I got an apology and a ~$10 gift certificate about a month later. I gave the card to my dad and optioned not to return.

  43. Interesting Story - Lots of stupid posts! by rueger · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Gawd - I can't recall the last time that a Slashdot discussion has so little of value in the follow up posts.

    Surely anyone in the tech business should be considering why the 50% of the population without testicles is treated so shabbily. I mean, even car dealers eventually figured that one out and ditched the "little woman" attitudes.

    I take great pride in watching my wife in big box electronic stores, dealing with sales drones who obviously know significantly less than she does. And it's not because she's a super tech geek (sure, she can upgrade gear but mostly she just wants every new toy and gadget), it's because so many of those guys don't have friggin' clue and make their living by bullshitting the customer.

    Think about it - if the retail electronics culture consistently insults female customers, it's likely that the same attitudes show up at the corporate level. How about we survey a few dozen female execs and see how often they've walked away from million dollar tech purchases because the sales guys treated them like Barbie.

    1. Re:Interesting Story - Lots of stupid posts! by zakezuke · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I was just discussing this issue with my sister... basicly it had to do more with sexism at the mechanic. Basicly I decided to do a minor study... I'd say three mechanics. Brake job... new shocks... windshield replacement.

      Test...
      Woman getting estimate
      man getting estimate
      man and woman getting estimate, followed by query.

      In all three cases... the lady recieved estimates roughly 50% higher then mine. When confronted with the price diffrence... they basicly said, "oh, but her problem was diffrent then yours and required more work" When I pointed out it was the same damn car the nice mechanic said "must have been a diffrent guy". When I pointed out they were all signed by the same person... each responce was slightly diffrent, but basicly involved grunts.

      While I didn't do a large enough sample to trully get accuracy... I was looking for some justification for my belief that women just get shafted by mechanics.

      Brakes were most interesting, as the woman's estimated told her she needed rear shoes and stated they were 35% and should be replaced as long as it was there. Mine was 75%. The rear shoes were new... brand new, new drums shoes and piston.

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  44. My Response by brunes69 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Disclaimer: I am totally not sexist. In fact, I am very liberal and pro-womens (and everyones) rights.

    But people who are uptight about things like this really irk me. There's a reason many stereotypes exist, and that's because they're mostly based around at least a portion of truth.

    It is a statistical (and biological) fact that men are more inclined to be adept at technical things. This in *NO WAY* suggests that there aren't also many, many adept women as well. But going by numbers alone, given a male and a female, odds are much higher that the male is more technicly adept then the female.

    The converse is also true. If I walk into the appliance department of Sears with my SO, guess who the salesman goes after? Not me, thats for sure. Same with other household amenities.

    No, I don't get offended when the salesman approaches my SO instead of me. And I wouldn't be offended if they assumed I knew jack shit about it either, because they'd likely be right. Just like someone would likely be right assuming my SO knows jack shit about computers.

    Truth is, most people *want* to be helped when purchasing this type of stuff. The salesman is just doing his job. Hell, half the salesmen in the PC sections treat me like a fool as well. Maybe because most PC buyers don't know anything about them?

    People get offended too easily nowadays.

  45. It's called Christmas shopping by Blue+Booger · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I don't know about your house, but at mine, the woman buys all the gifts. Christmas, birthday, weddings, etc. And since I'm a geek, a lot of my friends are geeks, too. So tech stuff is a good bet when it comes to gifts. I imagine that women do BUY more tech, but I would like to see a survey on who USES more tech!

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  46. Beware the messenger by pipingguy · · Score: 4, Funny

    CEA study? I'm sure this analysis was unbiased and only considered opinions from appropriate participants. Plus, kdkgjdjig

    Whoops, sorry, I got an orgasm while washing my hair.

  47. Note: by purduephotog · · Score: 4, Funny

    The previous posters will not have any problem keeping a woman entertained.... although should they continously buy gifts that meet the afore mentioned speed settings... they may not keep them long.

  48. Re:It's the CELL PHONES!!! by deepfusion · · Score: 2, Funny

    What? I have to really struggle to think of someone I know who doesn't own a cell phone, male or female. The reason they spend more money in that category is due the fact women just don't know when to shut the hell up. Trust me, it's the reason men are labeled as poor listeners, after thousands of years of evolution we developed this ability to 'tune-out and nod our heads' just to keep our sanity. That and the fact we could no longer just knock them out with our clubs and drag them back to the cave any longer. :-(

  49. 75% negative reaction? by miu · · Score: 4, Insightful
    Nearly three-quarters of women surveyed by the industry group complained about being ignored, patronized or offended by sales people when shopping for electronics.

    I'd say 100% of customers (male and female) at Fry's Electronics would report at least one of those responses from sales people.

    Hmm, and I've had rude sales people at Radio Shack, Circuit City, Best Buy, and pretty much all of em. I'm sure that sales people are more likely to be patronizing to a woman buying technology - but I think the 75% mistreatment number is a bit of misleading hyperbole because it fails to account for the fact that low level retail sales is generally carried out by surly teens who hate their job.

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  50. Nope, it'll do by rueger · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Check out this Sample Size Calculator.

    In a nutshell, for 150,000,000 you need a sample of about a 1000 people to get a representative result.

    1. Re:Nope, it'll do by Profane+Motherfucker · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There's nearly 300,000,000 people living in the US. That link isn't bad at all. Further, since CNN doesn't link to the actual study, the fact that it was a telephone interview completely ignores some five percent of the population that has cellular phones only. People with mobiles are all but completely ignored by most telephone surveys. So are most unlisted numbers. The poor don't have telephones in the same proportion as the rest of the US, neither do the young. Hence, the sample size is 1/2 what it needs to be based on the link, and there's a number of flaws in using telephone interviews.

      It drives me fucking nuts when I don't have enough information to find the actual study. I don't trust some motherfucker at CNN to read the report better than I can read it myself.

  51. Re:Long live masculinity by Dixie_Flatline · · Score: 3, Insightful

    It's clear that more or less, you're an idiot. A sexist one at that. It would take too long to respond to the massive amount of drivel that you clearly spent a lot of time typing, but I will correct one particular point.

    'Materialism' is a desire to have physical things - materials. 'Material' is derived from the latin 'materialis' (and the french 'materia') meaning 'stuff'. 'Mater' means 'mother'.

    That's the problem with people like you. You never actually do your research, and are content to merely blather on mindlessly with no idea of what's actually going on.

    I'll leave you and your misogeny alone now.

  52. Re:Yeah, but... (flamebait) by DarthWiggle · · Score: 4, Funny

    // begin obvious
    who in here has a significant other?
    // end obvious

    // begin disclaimer
    no, no, I know that _some_ slashdotters have mates.
    // end disclaimer

    // begin snickering
    *snicker
    // end snickering

  53. Re:makes sense by Bi()hazard · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Actually, the modern high heeled shoe was develped by a woman-Catherine de Medici. She used them due to her short stature, and introduced them to the European aristocracy, who found them fashionable. Popularity declined temporarily in the 17th century when the English Parliament punished as witches all women who used high heels to seduce men into marrying them.

    More primitive types of high heels were used widely in ancient Egypt, classical Greece, and medieval Japan. For more details see this article.

    The pushup bra was invented by a man-Howard Hughes commissioned a team of engineers to assist his actress for a role in a Hollywood movie.

    However, the vibrator was invented by a man, for men: Joseph Mortimer Granville invented the vibrator in the 1880s, initially for male skeletal muscle treatment. There was the even less appealing 1918 "Prostate Gland Warmer and Recto Rotor," advertised as "the latest and most efficient invention for the quick relief of piles, constipation, and prostate trouble." Male doctors treating women for "hysteria" adapted the invention to their own needs with much greater success. Physicians ranging from Hippocrates to Freud believed they had to coax the wandering womb back to its proper place or size with "massage treatments." The Greek physician Galen (AD 129-c. 216) noted that: "Following the warmth of the remedies and arising from the touch of the genital organs required by the treatment, there followed twitchings...From that time on she was free of all the evil she felt."

    Doctors used vibrators to automate medical massages of the "hysterical region" because not all women are hot. As James Marion Sims put it in 1884, "If there was anything I hated, it was investigating the organs of the female pelvis." Sims was an Alabama slave owner who experimented on slave women (some purchased expressly for this purpose) in his own backyard "hospital" during 1845-49. While doggedly pursuing a cure for vesico-vaginal fistula, he operated unsuccessfully and without anesthesia on dozens of slave women before inventing the speculum, which allowed him to operate with much higher rates of success.

    Read more here and here.

    According to Betty Dodson, feminist author and sex therapist, vibrators were also commonly used in barber shops as a treatment for baldness ("Trust men to use it on the wrong end!" she says.) Dodson maintains she was the first feminist to publicly introduce electric vibrators to women solely for orgasmic benefits. "My boyfriend first introduced me to the Oster vibrator in 1966. He was getting his scalp massaged by a barber when he thought, 'This would be great for clitoral stimulation' and he bought one from a Barbershop supply store." In 1971 Dodson began to teach masturbation workshops, focusing on how to use a vibrator.

    But it was women, not the patriarchy, that objected-Dodson claims she faced opposition by some of the more mainstream feminists, who didn't like her reliance on a sex aid. She explains, "They wanted to have true love and romantic orgasms with Ms. or Mr. Right, not independent orgasms with a damn machine! However, there were many housewives in the city and suburbs who were more than interested in what I had to say about female masturbation."

    We even get some contributions from the experts-Candida Royalle, best known for her feminist porn films, has created the Natural Contours vibrator, a curved device designed to mould itself to the shape of the vulva.

    Unfortunately, the vibrator still remains controversial. In 1998, the US state of Alabama passed a law banning vibrators. It was deemed obscene to sell or manufacture a sexual device which was considered to be "harmful", with 1 year hard labour or a $10,000 fine as punishment. This law was similar to those in 5 o

  54. Man's Engineering by TimeForGuinness · · Score: 2, Informative
    Doesn't it go something like this:

    If it rattles and it shouldn't, then use duct tape. If it is suppose to rattle and doesn't, then use WD-40.

  55. Re:Long live masculinity by Mad+Leper · · Score: 3, Interesting

    (I'm gonna get flamed, but it's late, I'm cranky, and a little venting of one's spleen can be therapeutic)

    Can't agree with all of what you had to say, but your reference to the constant propaganda against men that passes as "advertising" is spot on.

    I wish I could be trusted to give cold medicine to my kids or feed them dinner, but according to the message I get from the media I'm just a stupid man that should know better than to try to do a Woman's job.

    Give this a try, next time you see an ad on TV, mentally switch the gender of the subject from male to female. Funny how easily and quickly the word "sexist" springs to mind....

  56. Geeks are "normal", normals are weird by Doc+Ruby · · Score: 4, Insightful

    In my experience, the normals ask geeks for tech buying advice to reach out to geeks, not to get help. Most people are so intimidated by tech that when they finally feel confident enough to bring new gear into their lives, it's a breakthrough. So when they talk to a geek about it, they're trying to get social acceptance in what they think are the geek's own terms. "Should I get X?" really means "do you like me now that I like X?". Geeks typically don't decode short sentences, especially when the immediate meaning is simple among geeks. So we talk about the tech, when the normals are really talking about the people. Combine that with the common geek insecurity when talking about people, and it's no wonder these conversations go nowhere.

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  57. Your reply: by jeko · · Score: 3, Funny

    "Yeah, I hate complicated stuff. Finishing up my master's in EE damn near killed me, and you wouldn't believe how complicated THAT got. Of course, now I can get a real job that doesn't involve wearing a nametag."

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  58. Untrue! by coyotecult · · Score: 2, Interesting

    My boyfriend got me a nice new soundcard for my birthday, and I gave him mass lovings for it. (But I got it to work with my Linux. A girl's gotta have her pride.)

  59. I think the REAL question is... by paulyt10 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Who do the women buy the tech gadgets for? More likely than not they are buying them for husbands/boyfriends/relatives/etc, I think the survey should be revamped to see the percentage of women that buy the tech gadgets for themselves.

  60. This is the ONLY time I really need my bf... by lazypenguingirl · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I've been a long time (like over a year+) slashdot lurker, and this topic has so moved me to create an account and post.

    I am a female, I have a network of four linux-loving computers, and comparatively, my boyfriend (bless his little lovely heart)... is largely computer illiterate. But I really need him at times to be taken seriously, both at stores and with phone tech support. I order all my computer parts online now. The one recent purchase I've made at a store, I became very hostile with the salesman at Best Buy who was treating me like a child, despite my repeated firm protestations of "I know exactly what I'm looking for, please back off already." He finally backed off only when my bf who had been in the game section turned the corner and asked, "Hon, have you found what you were looking for yet?" The attitude women reported in the article is very much obvious with tech support too. I've had harrowing experiences with tech support over a lemon laptop. Ironically, in all the months it took that to be straightened out, the only time I was taken seriously was by a woman tech support person (although a few years back I had a dead sound card, told the male tech support person exactly the problem and how I arrived at it, and he simply said, "I love people like you, we'll send the replacement out today"). Now, even when dealing with tech support I make my bf take the phone and he tells them what I say, because they tend to take him more seriously than me saying the exact same thing. Having me sitting next to him relaying my commentary rather than being on the phone myself makes that significant of a difference. And I resent it. I know as geeks we all hate dealing with tech support and pushy electronics store people... let me tell you, it's a thousand times worse and more insulting when you are a female and they treat you like a baby because of it. After dedicating so many years of my life to developing my computer skills, that treatment infuriates me. I seriously like to live by the philosophy that there is more difference within the sexes than between them. Unfortunately, that view is not held by most of the world... particularly men when it comes to women in technology.

    1. Re:This is the ONLY time I really need my bf... by Blkdeath · · Score: 4, Insightful
      The attitude women reported in the article is very much obvious with tech support too.

      Don't be offended. Nobody is taken seriously by tech support. {sigh} If only I were kidding...

      Being a man, and having a rather deep voice so as to be obviously male, I'm still not taken seriously. Big companies always want to pass the buck, etc. I take it with a grain of salt and occasionally I get someone understanding, compassionate, and at that moment not worried about their CST or daily rating or up-coming performance review or "Is the prick supervisor listening in on calls today?" who leaves the script alone and actually helps me. No, women in my experience don't tend to be more compassionate than men. They're all drones. :/

      Regarding your other experiences, I find that saddening. I treat all customers the same; I'm there to ascertain their needs, sell them what they need, and a little bit of what I can get away with. If any customer, regardless of sex, creed, colour, height, or eye colour asks me for a GeForce FX5200 with 128MB of DDR - by joe they'll be invoiced, thanked, and happy(?) with their new video card in short order! You know what you want? I don't have to work for it? Yay! Why waste time patronizing a person who's already got their mind set? You'll just waste a lot of time losing a sale. Duh?

      Unfortunately, that view is not held by most of the world... particularly men when it comes to women in technology.

      Now here's where I have to reel you in some. :) That coin has two sides, my friend. I've known my share of women in technology who were embittered by men to the point of sheer blindness. It got to the point with some that they would refuse to accept any knowledge, experience, or advice (even when asked) from any man that didn't coincide with their pre-established viewpoint. "But according to the specs, the PS/2 ports are interchangable!" "Yes," I replied, "electrically they are, but that doesn't mean they'll function properly when reversed." Boy, was I ever cursed at. By the time she was finished chewing on my head I was practically a wife-beating pedophile. To the best of my knowledge, she finally checked the connections (a 10 second excersize that could have avoided a 30 minute battle royale) and lived happily ever after.

      Other women have adapted such a deep persecution complex that they're incommunicable. I've had technical discussions and arguments with many peers; some of them women. But do you know how frustrating it is to be told that you're only claiming you're correct because "I'm a woman and you don't think I know what I'm talking about!"?!? It's indefensible! At first I'd spout empirical evidence about former arguments, I'd unleash a plethora of facts supporting my point, and as a last resort I'd compromise and find strengths in their argument in order to placate them. "Well, you're partly right, but in this specific instance ... "

      Often times I've seen technically inclined, extremely bright, well educated, highly experienced women shunned from technical groups because of that very attitude. At some point, a lot of people (men included) have to step back and consider how much of their strife is brought upon themselves.

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  61. ofcorse they do by floydman · · Score: 2

    espically when it has to do with vibrators for joysticks..;)

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  62. You know it might be insightful... by aepervius · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Who is using the electronic Women buy ? Is it the same as for the flower Men buy (i.e. : not for them but for their female companions)? Are they using the electronic they buy or do they gift it ?

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  63. A woman's perspective by Curare · · Score: 3, Insightful
    I am a woman.

    I read slashdot. I care about Linux and SCO issues. I build my own computers, link my PDA to the wireless network I've set up in my house, and argue kernels with men.

    I DON'T watch anime, play Counterstrike, download pr0n, or try to out-class my fellow geeks by way of computing power or unnecessary bandwidth. These tend to be, though not always, hobbies of male geeks. I DO like jewelry, shopping for shoes, romance, clothes, cooking, chatting, and cute guys. Because of these traits, many people underestimate my technical knowledge.

    One nice thing about the liberation of women is that I can appreciate technology without trying to be your typical male geek. I can go try on sixteen pairs of shoes, then come home and program my heart out.

    I don't see that in many of these replies. What I see is that because we like to buy things other than technology, or because we like to use technology as a means to socialize or have fun (as with cell phones), we can't possibly be as tech-savvy as you slashdotters assume YOU are. I can see the brain waves now. "Oh, these women! They must be buying little TVs for their kitchen, pink vibrators, presents for their geeky boyfriends, or electronic beepy collars for their fuzzy kittens!" Why? Why can't you accept that we see technology just as you do? That we're out there looking for the newest video card or USB hub?

    Watch out, guys, the boundaries of geekdom are expanding. Women are discovering the utter coolness of technology. We can afford it. We can buy it for ourselves. And we can understand how to use it.

    Honestly, I'm embarassed. I thought the slashdot community was more enlightened than this.

    1. Re:A woman's perspective by freakygirl · · Score: 2, Informative
      Sing it sister.

      I'm a Unix Sysadmin and a woman. And being a female Unix Sysadmin is not a rare encounter where I come from. There are 10 other women Unix admins in my department of 30. At my last job, there were 4 women Unix admins and 1 man, it was definitely a "Girl's Ghetto". You want DNS, NIS, NIS+, SAMBA, NFS, iPlanet web/app/directory server, MQ, Squid Proxy, VCS, Oracle, EMC Timefinder with SRDF, Websphere, Policy Director setup for ya'?? Hey, I'm your girl, I can fix you up right. You want that on a Solaris Starfire, HP-UX SuperDome, or AIX p690? No need to look any further, here I am, laying it down, ifconfig'ing it up.

      I'm a wife. I'm a geekgrrl. I've been a tech-head from practically the cradle. I played Pong at age 5. Pacman at age 10. I hounded my single-parent mom for a Commodore 64 with 1541 disk drive and phone cradle modem (Q!) at age 12 and used it all the way into college using Broderbund word processing software and GEOS to write my papers (BTW it still works and my husband and I play Radar Rat Race on it for kicks every once in a while). I loved Macs in high school and when I could afford it, I traded up to a Mac Centris with 28.8 Hayes modem mid-college and loaded that puppy with Adobe Photoshop, Infini-D, and muchos mejores. Post-college I bought a Umax S900, which is currently on our network running a hacked version of Mac 10.2 OS X.

      I research and buy all my own tech goodies, like my Sharp Zaurus Linux PDA, except for when they're given to me from my wish list, like my Logitech RF rechargeable mouse/keyboard. I build my own Win XP (for my Win only games and for work) and Linux machines and hack my own kernel for specialty apps like AirSnort. I have an Axis 2100 network cam running Linux with add-on external microphone speakers setup so that I can watch and bug my cats into action from afar. I DIG TECH. And me being a woman shouldn't make one diff to you other tech heads. I could very likely kick your butt or very likely give you a run for your money in a match of Killer Instict as Maya. I love my Gamecube and my Xbox. I play online MMORPG's like Star Wars Galaxies. I GET TECH, all on my little girly own.

      I am kind of apalled at all the sexist shopping jokes this thread has taken. If you'd ask my husband, he would tell you that he probably fits the description of a metrosexual. He has more jackets, shoes, shirts, cologne, hair product than I do and he's a tech-head for IBM doing mail, network and server administration.

      If you're a man or a woman out there making sexist stereotypical jokes about who buys what, knock it off would you?! Quit insulting the intelligence of all your fellow tech-heads.

      Grab some enlightenment, sit down and shutup.
  64. I've been a girl tech... by LadyShiva · · Score: 2, Informative

    ..and wow, it was hard to train the MCSE guys I worked with to try listening to what they called "the ditzy secretaries" for a change. My tickets went down and my sector of 1500 computers+ was measurably quieter. All from listening and doing 5-15 minutes of training.

    I currently shop online not just because the prices are better, but because I'm sick of dealing with the MCSE techs at Best Buy, CompUSA, etc, who think just because I'm there with my husband discussing specs, they need to contribute to the conversation. But to my husband's credit, he's good about laughing in their face and turning back to me when they are being obnoxious. I'm also the one walking up with the box to the cashier--little pet peeve of mine.

    What -I- run at work:
    Several iSeries mainframes
    Several Suns
    Several HP-UXs
    Several AIXs
    Several Linux
    LOTS of Wintels

    What we have (collectively) at home:
    An AS400 (mine)
    Several Suns
    A DEC Alpha
    A wireless network
    Various PCs with various OS's
    C64

  65. tee hee, giggle giggle by FrenchyinCT · · Score: 2, Informative

    Dunno, I can't say as I've ever felt like I was being treated like a moron just because I'm a chickie-boo. Not even when I ACTED like a dumb little chickie-boo doing undercover work to scope out the competition for the computer company I work for. OTOH, there have been several times I've wanted to throttle the shit out of some noodlehead at Circuit City, Best Buy, Nobody Beats The Wiz, etc. because they didn't know SHTML from shinola...