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Post-Suicide Account Cracking?

An anonymous reader writes "A good friend of mine had her younger brother apparently commit suicide last week. He was a young, promising CS major who was close to being accepted into a very prestigious school. He was very into Linux as well as PHP/MySQL coding. He left absolutely nothing behind for the family as far as a death note or explanation, and there is some possibility that this was all somehow a tragic accident. The family is in a situation where proof of accidental death would change how this was viewed in terms of paying for parts of the funeral. More importantly, some members of the family are hoping to find something, anything, that might explain why this all went down. Since I'm the most computer-skilled person the family knows, they have asked me if I could help them try to find some information. My possible approaches are: his Linux laptop, his university, Gmail And Hotmail email accounts, and a second MySpace profile that apparently has been tagged as private. How ethical would it be to, say, try to crack his root password in a situation like this? I wouldn't attempt to crack a man's account for his wife because she thinks he is cheating on her, as his life is his own business. In death, would you have the same respect for a person's private thoughts? Secondly, If I contacted places like Google, MSN, the university, and MySpace, what are the odds that they would give me access to any of his accounts? I have links to obituaries and such to prove that he is indeed gone. Would it be a matter of not giving it to me (maybe only to the family), or is this something that they would not do at all? Any opinions on if I should do this and if so, how I should go about it?"

812 comments

  1. I have said it before by hansraj · · Score: 5, Insightful

    dead people don't really care, one way or another.

    1. Re:I have said it before by Bondolon · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Indeed, ethics is generally about social relations between people. One could make a case (maybe) that it's immoral to do this, but the only question of ethics I can see here is that of assisting a grieving family.

    2. Re:I have said it before by aliquis · · Score: 1

      Exactly, to late to do or say something to him, to late for him to care about what happens with anything.

      Personally I would be all ok if someone read all my notes, my e-mail, and whatever. Somehow I would actually be glad if someone took the time to look thru it.

      And if I would go encrypted disk I'd probably store my password so it could be found somewhere.

      But his computer is one thing, various services another. To get into his personal files may not be so hard and are probably possible to do, to get into various services probably not. I really hope they don't honor such requests actually.

    3. Re:I have said it before by ckaminski · · Score: 2

      If you have a death certificate and are next of kin and can reasonably prove the account belongs to who you say it does, they probably do not have a choice. A subpoena could probably compel them to provide you with access.

      But that's a lot of "ifs".

    4. Re:I have said it before by PlatyPaul · · Score: 1

      True, but you may choose to honor the person's wishes as you previously honored their corporeal being. Your legacy is still you.

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    5. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    6. Re:I have said it before by Applekid · · Score: 5, Insightful

      A subpoena could probably compel them to provide you with access. From the question it seems like it's related to a life insurance policy that doesn't pay on suicide, which is the norm. So, the family ought to do a cost-benefit analysis about renting lawyer time for said subpoenas versus getting what they stand to gain by proving it wasn't a premeditated suicide.
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    7. Re:I have said it before by noidentity · · Score: 1

      Personally I would be all ok if someone read all my notes, my e-mail, and whatever [after I am dead]. Somehow I would actually be glad if someone took the time to look thru it.

      Maybe you could even come up and thank them if you saw them doing that after you were dead. Oh, right, you'd be dead, so you couldn't care one way or another!

    8. Re:I have said it before by aliquis · · Score: 1

      But I can feel that it would make me glad NOW if someone did it THEN.

    9. Re:I have said it before by bryanp · · Score: 4, Informative

      From the question it seems like it's related to a life insurance policy that doesn't pay on suicide, which is the norm

      IANAL, but in many states life insurance still pays off on suicide as long as the policy has been in effect for a specific length of time (2 years in my state) and the death didn't involve a crime (OD on cocaine being a classic example).

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    10. Re:I have said it before by Atraxen · · Score: 3, Insightful

      True, but I'd take it one step further and say that ethics extends after death (in some ways) when someone's wishes are known. For example, consider organ donation; if the family knows that the person expressly wished for a certain type of burial, there's generally some consideration of their wishes in deciding whether to allow organ harvesting (and I'm not going into the ethics of when to override these wishes - too off-topic).

      So, I'd say that if the person never specified his accounts were in a metaphorical 'burn-box' when he died, it's up to the family to decide about his privacy (same as for organ donation, or releasing personal works/letters [e.g. Tolkien]). So, if the family is requesting it and you have no contrary knowledge of his wishes, I don't see any ethics problems.

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    11. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And if I would go encrypted disk I'd probably store my password so it could be found somewhere. If you're writing down your password, then why are you even bothering with an encrypted disk in the first place? If your information is important enough to merit encryption, then surely it is too important to leave such an obvious back door in your security 'lying' around.
    12. Re:I have said it before by MightyYar · · Score: 2, Funny

      Dear internet community:

      If I should apparently commit suicide and anyone has any reason to believe that it was not in fact suicide, please feel free to root through my shit. My passwords are all 12345.

      Now hold on while I go get me some autoerotic asphyxiation.

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    13. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      dead people don't really care, one way or another. They may not care, while now dead, but there are deep ethical concerns here. Very little attention has been given to he ethics of post-death, but an illustrative example might help show that you indeed do have ethical views about your person once you die: would you want someone to rape your dead body? Most people will say "no, absolutely not", but why? It's just your body. See, there are ethics after death.
    14. Re:I have said it before by Clover_Kicker · · Score: 1

      If you're writing down your password, then why are you even bothering with an encrypted disk in the first place? If your information is important enough to merit encryption, then surely it is too important to leave such an obvious back door in your security 'lying' around. Safety deposit box?
    15. Re:I have said it before by aliquis · · Score: 1

      But in the case of a (questionable) suicide in the family I find it sort of weird that someone actually care. I mean, I can understand why one care if it was an accident or not, and why and so on. But price? Who cares about lifeless possessions in a moment like that?

      But then I have no idea what it cost, and part of it are probably covered by taxes over here, so maybe it's a huge cost / makes a big difference.

    16. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      dead people don't really care, one way or another. Ghost

              I am thy father's spirit,
              Doom'd for a certain term to walk the night,
              And for the day confined to fast in fires,
              Till the foul crimes done in my days of nature
              Are burnt and purged away. But that I am forbid
              To tell the secrets of my prison-house,
              I could a tale unfold whose lightest word
              Would harrow up thy soul, freeze thy young blood,
              Make thy two eyes, like stars, start from their spheres,
              Thy knotted and combined locks to part
              And each particular hair to stand on end,
              Like quills upon the fretful porpentine:
              But this eternal blazon must not be
              To ears of flesh and blood. List, list, O, list!
              If thou didst ever thy dear father love--

      HAMLET

              O God!

      Ghost

              Revenge his foul and most unnatural murder.
    17. Re:I have said it before by kdemetter · · Score: 1

      i don't need your password . I'll just chroot into your system and change your pass .

    18. Re:I have said it before by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      A morning radio show here has a running bit about the "shovel buddy," the friend you trust implicitly who comes to your house after you die to bury all your porn so your family doesn't stumble across it.

    19. Re:I have said it before by moderatorrater · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Just don't forget to factor in the additional peace of mind of knowing that he didn't kill himself, or even knowing for sure either way. That can be worth a lot of money, too.

    20. Re:I have said it before by aliquis · · Score: 1

      Because it's not like I have plans over faked terrorism attacks against my own country on my machine or such. It would mostly be "because I can", and if someone just want to look around or steal it or whatever they are screwed. It's not like I have to be 100% bullet proof if the cops knock on my door, sure it would be preferable ;D, but I guess I can live with that risk, and I doubt they will take the time to look thru all my paper either.

      Information don't have to be important for you to encrypt it, you can encrypt it just because it makes it harder to find out WHAT information are indeed important. And much more troublesome to crack it all.

      Personally I'd prefer to encrypt all my im, e-mail, sip and other form of electronic communication just to fuck with whoever may be listening. Sad enough most other people don't seem to care so I can't.

    21. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      dead people don't really care, one way or another. But in this case is he actually dead? Is it inconsistent that he was

      close to being accepted into a very prestigious school yet he already had a university account? Irrespective, the ethical question stands.

    22. Re:I have said it before by msuarezalvarez · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You have probably never been in actual need.

    23. Re:I have said it before by johndiii · · Score: 5, Insightful

      From what I've read about similar cases in the past, you would need a power of attorney from the individual in question to get access to things like gmail and hotmail accounts. If he had a will, his executor might be able to get in.

      A subpoena would probably get you in, but a court is not going to issue one just because a person is dead and you want to make the family feel better. If there is some grounds to suspect some kind of criminal activity, or that his death might be murder, a subpoena might be issued - but it would get the police into those accounts, not his friend. If the friend could think of some grounds to sue his estate, discovery might require access to the accounts, and generate an appropriate court order. But for the case as stated, he's likely out of luck.

      I've left passwords and relevant access information so that this is not an issue. I do not have a problem with my family getting into my mail accounts, for instance, and they might need to pay some final bills. Some people, on the other hand, would have a problem with this. The accounts should not just be open to anyone who can prove that they guy is dead.

      I'm not a lawyer, of course. :-)

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    24. Re:I have said it before by rtb61 · · Score: 4, Informative

      The subpoenas should not be necessary. If you are the next of kin and heir to the deceased estate, the accounts are now yours, the computer is yours and all information there in is yours. So simply gain permission from the current owners and gain access. However if you are doing it for legal reasons be careful that your actions do not contaminate the evidence. It is most likely best for the family to seek the assistance of the police in further investigating the incident and ensuring any evidence uncovered remains valid.

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    25. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      FYI, it's safe deposit box, not safety deposit box.

    26. Re:I have said it before by bechamp1 · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Unless there's evidence that a person purposely overdosed on cocaine, the death would probably be ruled "accidental".

      I spent a morning on a coroner's jury hearing inquests a while back, and it was kinda interesting.

      Here's a description someone wrote up of their experience, and it was pretty similar to how mine went:

      http://www.omnux.com/kvandivo/jury/

    27. Re:I have said it before by megaditto · · Score: 1

      I don't think chroot does what you think it does.

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    28. Re:I have said it before by Comboman · · Score: 1
      From the question it seems like it's related to a life insurance policy that doesn't pay on suicide, which is the norm. So, the family ought to do a cost-benefit analysis about renting lawyer time for said subpoenas versus getting what they stand to gain by proving it wasn't a premeditated suicide.

      I can't imagine anything they could find by accessing these accounts that could prove he didn't commit suicide (though they could find something that suggests he was planning a suicide). Financially, they have nothing to gain and everything to lose, if the insurance company has already made up their mind. Emotionally, likewise, I think I'd rather no know.

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    29. Re:I have said it before by TheWanderingHermit · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Another example, which might be more germane to this situation, is Mark Twain. There are works of his that are still unpublished and are not to be published until 2010, 100 years after his death. Toward the end his writings became quite dark and his family held on to some with this request because they didn't want a slew of dark works to change his reputation.

      In this case, though, he didn't leave any requests where they could be easily found or with a lawyer. It's possible this guy could have left documents on his computers and we don't have clarification of whether the family has tried to read anything on his computers yet.

    30. Re:I have said it before by slonkak · · Score: 1

      My passwords are all 12345. I have that same combination on my luggage!
    31. Re:I have said it before by TheWanderingHermit · · Score: 1

      That sounds ALMOST like the kind of combination an idiot would pick for their luggage...

    32. Re:I have said it before by dougmc · · Score: 1
      Ethically, the family would probably be the ones to make that decision. But of course you have to be OK with it too if you're doing the work. It might be wise to talk to a lawyer and make *sure* there's no legal issues for you (ethical issues make you feel bad. legal issues put you in jail or debt.)


      Practically, the laptop should be easy to crack (you have physical access) unless the drive is encrypted.

      As for myspace, MSN, etc -- if the laptop has passwords or valid cookies saved by the browser, and you don't need a password to access them, that's easy. Otherwise, it's going to be very hard. myspace and others are unlikely to let you in without some sort of legal force like a subpoena. And this is exactly as it should be -- if it's easy, people will abuse it to crack the accounts of the living.

      Actually, some fools use the same passwords on lots of web sites, and you can get some sites to mail you your password, so if you can get access to that mail ...

      In any event, it sounds like the family has a good reason to want access to this stuff, and the guy is dead, so I wouldn't have an ethical problem with it. Well, I'm assuming that he was on good terms with his family -- if he hated his family, that might be a different case. ..

    33. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'd argue that it is impossible to 'rape' a dead body, in much the same way that it is impossible to rape a rock, since noone is getting raped. I'd prefer it if noone had sex with my corpse since it would upset my family, but if they wouldn't mind then neither would I (I might even appriciate the irony of the situation; I'd be getting more action dead than when I was alive).

    34. Re:I have said it before by FreetoGoodhome · · Score: 1

      The family needs to talk to their lawyer and the hacker needs to talk to his. Before the accounts are deleted. This situation is not unique.

    35. Re:I have said it before by Prosthetic_Lips · · Score: 1

      With the new US airport security, it doesn't matter what your combination is. If you lock your luggage, they'll just break it to look inside if they need / want to. I used to "lock" my suitcase just so it would have a little harder time accidentally opening. Now I have to leave everything unlocked.

    36. Re:I have said it before by trolltalk.com · · Score: 1

      dead people don't really care, one way or another.
      They may not care, while now dead, but there are deep ethical concerns here. Very little attention has been given to he ethics of post-death, but an illustrative example might help show that you indeed do have ethical views about your person once you die: would you want someone to rape your dead body? Most people will say "no, absolutely not", but why? It's just your body. See, there are ethics after death.

      If I die of some horrible communicable disease, I would like to think that ridding the world of a few necrophiliacs post-humously would be rather cool. How bad can it be, compared to the ass-reaming we get at tax time?

    37. Re:I have said it before by AutopsyReport · · Score: 0, Troll

      I disagree. When you register with Hotmail, MySpace, etc., they ask for your Next of Kin. And your Next of Kin could be anyone, it doesn't have to be a brother or sister. Since he didn't identify who his Next of Kin was in this case, the service provided is not going to just hand over the account details.

      Besides, wasn't there a similar situation with a deceased US soldier's Yahoo Mail account a while ago? If I recall, Yahoo forbid the family from accessing his account because it was his property.

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    38. Re:I have said it before by electrictroy · · Score: 2, Interesting

      A dead person has no rights. None. All that exists, legally, is the will which the state executes to its best ability. Unless this teenager had a will that said, "All my computers must be destroyed/accounts erased," then what remains of those accounts becomes the property of the parents/guardians. The family can do whatever they want with those items, including asking a stranger to hack the passwords.

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      The government is not your daddy. Its purpose is not to raid middle-class neighbors' wallets and give it to you.
    39. Re:I have said it before by kextyn · · Score: 2, Interesting

      When did these sites start asking for next of kin? I don't recall giving ANY website that information and I have a lot of accounts.

    40. Re:I have said it before by ari_j · · Score: 1

      Powers of attorney generally expire at death, as they grant the attorney-in-fact the authority to take actions on the principal's behalf, and the principal essentially, in a legal sense, ceases to exist at his death. After that, the estate is the legal entity in charge.

      The right thing to do depends on the jurisdiction, but generally there will be a procedure by which the personal representative (whether the dead guy^W^Wdecedent left a will naming an executor who acts as the personal representative or whether one is appointed in intestacy proceedings) can "collect" the property of the estate for distribution. Some places allow the personal representative to, for instance, present an affidavit to a bank and close out the decedent's bank accounts. This process might be used for e-mail accounts, as well.

      Look up the statutes in your local jurisdiction and, if you have any questions, talk to a lawyer. IAPNALIYJ (I am probably not a lawyer in your jurisdiction), so this of course is not legal advice, but just a friendly pointer toward where you want to look. :)

    41. Re:I have said it before by TheWanderingHermit · · Score: 1

      Along with the will, though, there can be trusts or other entities that exist. Yes, the dead person is gone without rights, but trusts could have been created with terms that control them as well. That's what we've done to handle things with our family and my will creates some trusts as well. This takes care of tangibles as well as some instructions for intangibles.

    42. Re:I have said it before by Stewie241 · · Score: 1

      How about correspondance related to a conflict that he was in the midst of? Or an email from someone that suggested there might be problems?

    43. Re:I have said it before by monkeySauce · · Score: 3, Informative

      Not it isn't. Plenty of life insurance policies cover suicide, but usually not in the first 1-few years the policy is in effect.

      My question is, why would a young unmarried person have a life insurance policy at all?

    44. Re:I have said it before by vux984 · · Score: 1

      But his computer is one thing, various services another. To get into his personal files may not be so hard and are probably possible to do, to get into various services probably not. I really hope they don't honor such requests actually.

      1) Once you've got his computer open, there are good odds you'll be able to find the passwords on it. Especially given how many people just have IE/Firefox save them. But also possibly stored in a file. Or in his 'address book'. etc.

      2) Once you've got his computer open, there are good odds you'll be able to use automated password recovery services to obtain the password. Often they just send an email with a link to another account. So if you have access through his computer to his 'main' email account, the rest fall down like dominos.

    45. Re:I have said it before by Dachannien · · Score: 1

      If that truly is the question here, the family probably only stands to lose here. If it was a suicide, there's a chance that cracking open these e-mails will uncover evidence of suicide. But even if the death was accidental, there's almost no chance that the e-mails could possibly reveal evidence of accidental death.

    46. Re:I have said it before by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Huh? I created a myspace profile to see a friend's profile, and it never asked for next of kin. If it does provide a space for that, it's certainly not required. Yahoo I'm fairly sure is the same as well.

    47. Re:I have said it before by Syberz · · Score: 1

      It actually sounds like this new fad that the kids have where they hang themselves in order to suffocate but then unhook themselves at the last moment. Apparently the lack of oxygen gives you quite a buzz... and brain damage but that part isn't why they do it. I can understand how someone can accidentally die from this and proving that it wasn't suicide would be complicated without some proof of the person practicing this. Such proof could be found in emails and such. Perhaps simply asking friends of the victim would yield answers, unless of course the victim was trying it out for the first time... then maybe browsing history could yield a clue but otherwise, good luck.

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    48. Re:I have said it before by Mister+Whirly · · Score: 1

      Even in regards to organ donation, if the family of the deceased does not want the organs donated, they can usually "trump" the wishes of the dead. I have read cases of it happening before. So apparently the wishes of someone alive can take precedence over the wishes of the dead, even if they are clearly and plainly stated in advance by the deceased. Some states have laws barring the family from making changes to provisions such as this, but in some cases the family has stopped organs from being donated.

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    49. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Another example, which might be more germane to this situation, is Mark Twain. There are works of his that are still unpublished and are not to be published until 2010, 100 years after his death. Toward the end his writings became quite dark and his family held on to some with this request because they didn't want a slew of dark works to change his reputation.


      Have you got a source for this? Wikipedia and Google are turning up nothing for me...
    50. Re:I have said it before by ProfessionalCookie · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It's all the other people that have email in his inbox, personal messages on his myspace etc. Breaking into someone's account, dead or not, doesn't just involve them- it involves everyone who trusts them.

      Unethical.

    51. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was bored one day, and read part of the EULA for some random account online, I think it was an email account, which mentioned that upon my death the account provider, Yahoo! etc, had the right and intention of shutting my account permanently, deleting the data, and even reusing that account name. So, if you tell the providers that someone is dead, they may delete what you're looking for out of hand. Try cracking it first.

    52. Re:I have said it before by WhiplashII · · Score: 1

      Not really true - I would much rather have a stranger go through my stuff than a family member. The stranger is unlikely to pass on inappropriate data he may find...

      Just because you are dead, that doesn't mean your wishes and desires are dead. You may not be able to voice them, but they still exist. We are programs, not hardware - the program cannot die, it can only be erased/not executed.

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    53. Re:I have said it before by nurb432 · · Score: 1

      No but the services and courts might, since you are technically violating some laws there.

      The people left behind may also care, depending on what data you find... You never know what secrets may be hiding in those files, both good and bad.

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    54. Re:I have said it before by kisrael · · Score: 1

      dead people don't really care, one way or another.

      Probably too late for me to have much of a say but:
      dead people, and specifically this dead person might not care,
      but people who are alive NOW but planning to be dead some day might care very much.
      Also people who know and cared for this now-dead person might care very much.

      You don't have to get into supernatural mumbojumbo to hold some level of "living on after death" in terms of the lingering impact you have on the culture or microculture around you, and that is why this very difficult problem matters.
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    55. Re:I have said it before by ktappe · · Score: 1

      If there is some grounds to suspect some kind of criminal activity, or that his death might be murder, a subpoena might be issued
      But suicide is still considered a crime--just ask Jack Kevorkian. As such, anything relating to the incident can be investigated. It should not take much lawyering along these lines to get those e-mail accounts opened up.
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    56. Re:I have said it before by hansraj · · Score: 1

      I would much rather have a stranger go through my stuff than a family member. Ah! But you are not dead you see.

      Just because you are dead, that doesn't mean your wishes and desires are dead. Oh yes, they are. There is no your xyz without a you
    57. Re:I have said it before by multimed · · Score: 1

      Besides, wasn't there a similar situation with a deceased US soldier's Yahoo Mail account a while ago? If I recall, Yahoo forbid the family from accessing his account because it was his property.
      I don't remember that case, but it seems pretty problematic to me especially if framed in the manner of "it was his property." If that's the legal box it fits in, then just like any physical property the inheritance can be determined based on the presence of a will and the probate laws of the state. Now if the accounts are instead, legally not property but a service contract between a person and the company, with terms that say in the event of death, it all gets deleted that's another story.
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    58. Re:I have said it before by Joe+Snipe · · Score: 1

      [citation needed]

      I would love to hear more of this, and just in case I added a note to phone for 2010.

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    59. Re:I have said it before by ktappe · · Score: 1

      Is it possible to moderate a post "classless"? Oh, wait, it'd get used too much to be of any use...

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    60. Re:I have said it before by ScuzzMonkey · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Anyone familiar with the American legal system should understand that legal and ethical are not the same thing. The ability to do a thing does not make it the right thing.

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    61. Re:I have said it before by Deadstick · · Score: 1
      #include "IANAL.h"

      If you are the next of kin and heir to the deceased estate, the accounts are now yours, the computer is yours and all information there in is yours.

      Not nearly that simple. Those assets will become your property after you've jumped through some hoops. The process of determining who is the heir is complicated when there is a will, and a flat-out clusterfuck when there isn't.

      In a case where the information in the computer may bear on legal proceedings, as I mention in another post, the probate judge can authorize access to the computer to a qualified person who can analyze it in the capacity of an expert witness, with his fee paid by the estate. He will be responsible for recovering and preserving any legal evidence he finds.

      rj

    62. Re:I have said it before by donweel · · Score: 1

      When I have purchased used computers with locked root passwords, I usually boot from disk and mount the filesystem of the machine. Then edit the password file. This you can hire a shop to do this, just prove who you are and why you need this done.

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    63. Re:I have said it before by WhiplashII · · Score: 1

      Perhaps legally, but in other real senses no. If you believe in an afterlife (and happen to be correct, of course) there is obviously a you. An afterlife can take many forms:

      If someone millennia from now figures out a way to read brainwaves and decode the original program, and someone finds a way to imprint that onto different hardware (like another body), and someone builds a REALLY big radio telescope, they could point the telescope at a black hole that has reflected your brainwaves from your last moments alive back to Earth, read in your brainwave, and put your program/soul/whatever into a new body.

      Anyway, being dead is not the disability that it once was...

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      while (sig==sig) sig=!sig;
    64. Re:I have said it before by casualsax3 · · Score: 3, Interesting
    65. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You better not provoke him. Once he gets started hacking into peoples systems with chroot, and change passes, there's no stopping him.

    66. Re:I have said it before by ElizabethGreene · · Score: 1
      • 1. Boot from install cd into "rescue mode"
      • 2. alt-f1
      • 3. mkdir /stuff
      • 4. mount -t ext3 /dev/sda1 /stuff
      • 5. chroot /stuff
      • 6. passwd joeguy
      • 7. reboot
      • 8. login as joeguy.

      It probably took longer to post the question to /. than to do, and chroot does exactly what he thinks it does.

      My brother-in-law passed away unexpectedly in 1995 at the age of 36. We were very close, and he was like a father to me. I helped clean out his office at work and at home. Going through his data wasn't an exercise in morbid voyeurism, it was an attempt to close some of the unfinished questions. A "If you are reading this..." letter would have been a great comfort, but there wasn't one.

      I'm going to write one of those letters right now.

      -ellie

    67. Re:I have said it before by ElizabethGreene · · Score: 1

      Finally, someone else that "Gets it." Have you considered signing up for Cryonics?

      -Ellie

      Full Disclosure: I am an option 2 funded member of the Cryonics Institute.

    68. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know a few families that take out small policies (5-10k) on their children just to cover the expenses of a funeral, any medical bills, cover any income lost for being out of work, etc. The cost as I understand it is a mere rounding error on the parents' policies, so I guess it makes sense.

      -K

    69. Re:I have said it before by sexconker · · Score: 1

      Surely you mean Samuel Clemens.

    70. Re:I have said it before by severoon · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yes, but in this case, the person-in-question may not have been of sound mind enough to have his wishes respected even in a legal context. In some cases, it is the respect for privacy / individualism / freedom of expression / etc that makes some individuals feel cut off from the world and plays a part in their decision to shoot up a school or take their own life.

      I'm not saying that we should do away with privacy or any of the things I mention above. However, sometimes between family members and friends there is a need to invade the personal space of others with caring intent—in fact, nature pretty much compels parents to begin their interactions with offspring in this way and gradually taper off as the child grows up (I feel this is relevant because I'm assuming the kid was still in their house, hadn't yet graduated high school). In many cases, the individual's crying out for a sign that someone actually cares enough to overstep usual boundaries...that's one of the main functions of parents.

      In this case, I think that TFA may have put undue attention on funeral costs—I'm sure that's a footnote to the family's real wish to answer their questions about what happened. They may feel a little guilty about invading his personal space posthumously, and I think these feelings are understandable but misplaced. If this was a suicide, it is definitely within reason that this kid's last authentic wish would be for someone to notice and figure out what was going on with him. If it wasn't a suicide, then I know I would certainly want that discovered and my family's pain somewhat tempered.

      I would be very interested if anyone who knows can post here: if someone dies, does their next of kin inherit their data? Shouldn't the online services like Myspace and Google open his accounts up for them?

      --
      but have you considered the following argument: shut up.
    71. Re:I have said it before by electrofelix · · Score: 1

      One would imagine that there is a significant difference mentally to a family knowing whether one of the members died through a deliberate act of suicide or by accidental means. The long term effects on the surviving family members of suicide victims can be quite catastrophic, leading to future depression and higher risk of suicide in other members of the family. Usually because they blame themselves for not preventing it. Taking that into consideration, I can understand why family members would hope that it wasn't suicide, never mind insurance.

    72. Re:I have said it before by Paperweight · · Score: 1

      Yes! But, of course alive people who have hidden sensitive data that they don't want people accessing after they're dead DO care.

    73. Re:I have said it before by BrainInAJar · · Score: 1

      Sad enough most other people don't seem to care so I can't.

      mac friends? point them at adium. PC friends (incl. open-source PC)? gaim proper.

      I have adium set up to automatically send OTR packets if the other side is capable, so my mom & I talk encrypted. She doesn't know or understand what it means even, but it's easy for her to use ( she has to do absolutely nothing ), so it works.

    74. Re:I have said it before by beckerist · · Score: 1

      Isn't attempted suicide a crime anyway? Seems like a convenient clause for the insurance companies.

    75. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Shortly after Microsoft had purchased Hotmail, I reported a spammer to his ISP. Something happened (hotmail was not particularly secure, or maybe someone in the abuse department was just an idiot), and the next thing I know Hotmail won't let me in because I allegedly violated their TOS. Even though I could prove who I was and that it was my account, Hotmail wouldn't even tell me _why_ the account was closed - "for privacy reasons".

      I'm very skeptical that even if they have a "next of kin" field, that they would share any information with the actual next of kin. The very best that could be done is to have the 'alternate email address' on some of these sites be that of a family member who could then request the password.

      The family will almost certainly have to resort to legal means (i.e. a subpoena) to get at the information.

    76. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know for a fact that Mutual of Omaha certainly does pay out on suicide but only if the policy has been in effect for two years.

    77. Re:I have said it before by iamacat · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Dead person does indeed have specific rights. For example copyrights are (unfortunately) preserved after death and assigned to the next of kin or more commonly the employer. The body is protected by law from desecration or medical use which has not been explicitly agreed upon by the deceased.

      But more importantly, this young man most probably used his computer and online accounts to communicate with living people. If he was having sex with some girl, she may not want that to be widely known. If he did a PHP project for some company, that project does not become family's property. Gmail is also not dead and it's not permissible to hack their account regardless if you theoretically have legal rights to the content within.

      That said, if your friend's brother was below 18, parents may have a legal right to use his accounts and even to have Google and MSN reset passwords to let them examine e-mail. Also, if the computer legally belongs to them, it could be legally permissible to hack local content. Even if not, it would be pretty much impossible to prosecute such activity that takes place entirely on and upon someone's own property. You may well find Gmail and MSN passwords in a swapfile or browser cache. Although it might be still illegal to login, again it would be undetectable.

    78. Re:I have said it before by aliquis · · Score: 1

      I was mostly talking about GPG, which most people find way to hard to understand and don't see the need for. Preferably they should get a password manager and unique passwords for all the 50-something webpages they sign up for aswell.

      I use adium, most (almost all) people here use MSN. Noone would want to use Pidgin in Windows, neither would I. Miranda or Trillian, but Astra in that case if it's faster which I have no idea if it is. Alpha software in any case, and closed beta.

      Yeah, I have adium set to use encryption by default aswell. But it's only used with one person.

      Same with IRC, most people don't see the need for an SSL encrypted network connection, some do. Some people use their own client-specific encryption on top of that aswell.

      In any case I think there people should start is in all e-mails, including all the password reminders and whatever. I'd also like it a lot if everyone had some sort of password protected certificate which they used on web logins, maybe =p, such as the ones you can create with SSH.
      I do understand people probably tell more secrets over IM than e-mail thought, but I guess it's even more tiresome to look thru aswell (thought some people probably type password: erti93j3er9e on MSN aswell.)

    79. Re:I have said it before by aliquis · · Score: 1

      1) Does firefox really store them in clear text? I doubted it did. But yes, maybe it log in automatically, or by cookie. How safe are firefox password storage if encrypted? Is it easy to move between computers? (I use 1password on OS X which I think uses some OS X builtin key manager, so my passwords are encrypted and password protected, I guess. I used to store them in a GPG-encrypted textfile, but then they wasn't unique for each web page.)

      2) True, speaking of which, I hate these stupid forced password reminder questions. I mean, how hard is it to get my moms name? Or my cats? Or my birth town? I guess one should just choose something and insert random data as answer ;D

    80. Re:I have said it before by flewp · · Score: 1

      The only thing I could see emails helping show it was accidental is if the deceased talked in those emails of looking forward to future plans or some such. Of course, that really isn't concrete proof, and only really circumstantial.

      --
      WWJD.... for a Klondike bar?
    81. Re:I have said it before by geekoid · · Score: 1

      Many work places offer it, and they don't like to pay on suicide at all.

      If it is a saving/life insurance then getting it young is a great way to say for latter years.

      I carry life insurance on my wife and kids, so maybe it was his parents policy?

      Lots of reasons.

      --
      The Kruger Dunning explains most post on /. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect
    82. Re:I have said it before by KillerBob · · Score: 1

      That's why it's important to discuss things like organ donation with your family... My family knows my wishes, and, having had it explained to them, they agree and have signed their cards as well.

      --
      If you believe everything you read, you'd better not read. - Japanese proverb
    83. Re:I have said it before by KillerBob · · Score: 1

      My question is, why would a young unmarried person have a life insurance policy at all?


      Because I have $30,000 in student debt left to pay off, and a good funeral usually costs about $10,000? I have a $50,000 policy in private insurance. It's also possible that there's a policy through his (former) employers... part of the benefits package where I work includes 2 years' life insurance coverage, or roughly $75,000 in additional coverage.
      --
      If you believe everything you read, you'd better not read. - Japanese proverb
    84. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not for your /. account it isn't.

      Damn you!

    85. Re:I have said it before by ottothecow · · Score: 1
      If you do not have a master password set on firefox, all saved passwords can be recovered like this:

      options: security: show passwords: show passwords

      The second show passwords button will prompt for master password if it exists and then display passwords to all saved accounts. If there is no master password, even if the password database is not cleartext, this is just as good.

      --
      Bottles.
    86. Re:I have said it before by Guido+del+Confuso · · Score: 1

      Still sort of monstrous, though.

    87. Re:I have said it before by AutopsyReport · · Score: 1

      Sorry, that was a typo.

      --

      For he today that sheds his blood with me shall be my brother.

    88. Re:I have said it before by misleb · · Score: 1

      If someone millennia from now figures out a way to read brainwaves and decode the original program, and someone finds a way to imprint that onto different hardware (like another body), and someone builds a REALLY big radio telescope, they could point the telescope at a black hole that has reflected your brainwaves from your last moments alive back to Earth, read in your brainwave, and put your program/soul/whatever into a new body.


      Ah, but this begs the question of what would happen if you ran your "program" on two or more different bodies at the same time. Presumably if you could copy your program to one new body, you could copy it to many, yes? Would "you" somehow be able to see out of two sets of eyes simultaneously? Or would each copy just act as a clone/twin of you without your actual consciousness? If you guess the former, then you have to figure out what is binding the two brains to allow "you" to experience them at the same time. Which is a bit of a paradox because then you have to admit some kind of higher consciousness that is at least partially independent of the program that you copied to the brains. And that contradicts the original assumption that "you" are just a program running on some hardware.
      --
      "THERE IS NO JUSTICE, THERE IS ONLY ME." -Death
    89. Re:I have said it before by AutopsyReport · · Score: 1

      As I just replied to the post above you, I made a typo.

      --

      For he today that sheds his blood with me shall be my brother.

    90. Re:I have said it before by vux984 · · Score: 1

      And remember, in this case, the goal really is not to retrieve the password, but merely to use it. If one were to visit gmail using his computer, and his password was saved, it really doesn't matter if you can find out what the password actually is. As long as firefox fills his credentials when I visit the gmail page I'm still into the account -- which in this case is all that matters.

    91. Re:I have said it before by MightyYar · · Score: 1

      A goodly bit out of my mouth (keyboard) is classless. I've cleared the lunch table more than a few times.

      By the way, would a classless mod be up or down?

      --
      W..w..W - Willy Waterloo washes Warren Wiggins who is washing Waldo Woo.
    92. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When you register with Hotmail, MySpace, etc., they ask for your Next of Kin.
      Bullshit. Go fuck yourself, idiot.
    93. Re:I have said it before by RockModeNick · · Score: 1

      One reason I can think of - employment. Life insurance through Target, where I worked, was amazingly inexpensive if you were young. A few dollars every other week for 100k coverage. It's so cheap it's almost silly not to get it.

    94. Re:I have said it before by WhiplashII · · Score: 1

      From my perspective, that would be perfectly fine to do - you would indeed have two different "you"s. It could be something akin to reproduction, but most likely that would be outlawed (because it would cause a cascade failure - the only people that would copy themselves obviously like to copy themselves, and so would do so until all resources are taken). My preferred implementation would be that you branch - in that your two running programs are generating experiences/memories, but that you could later rejoin and merge the two datasets (the programs probably don't change much, so you would just have both memories).

      Heaven will be an interesting place...

      --
      while (sig==sig) sig=!sig;
    95. Re:I have said it before by Blkdeath · · Score: 1

      Isn't attempted suicide a crime anyway? Seems like a convenient clause for the insurance companies.

      I don't recall the source, but a quote I heard once went along the lines of "Suicide; the only thing that's illegal to attempt, but legal if you succeed."

      --
      BD Phone Home!

      Shameless plug. Like you weren't expecting it.

    96. Re:I have said it before by Bastard+of+Subhumani · · Score: 2, Funny

      I know for a fact that Mutual of Omaha certainly does pay out on suicide
      Presumably not from personal experience?
      --
      Only three things are certain; death, taxes, and apocryphal quotations - Ben Franklin.
    97. Re:I have said it before by jimbolauski · · Score: 1

      Thinking about this like letters would make it easier to understand. If a person dies their next of kin would receive the letters, the people that sent the letters gave them to the deceased and have not right to them. Emails and my space postings are not the property of the person who is sending/posting them, they are the property of the parents and the parents can do with them what they choose.

      --
      Knowledge = Power
      P= W/t
      t=Money
      Money = Work/Knowledge so the less you know the more you make
    98. Re:I have said it before by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      I'll just chroot into your system and change your pass .
      Yeah? My system is 127.0.0.1 - go on, I dares ya!
      --
      Confucius say, "Find worm in apple - bad. Find half a worm - worse."
    99. Re:I have said it before by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Funerals are expensive, as are plots of land. Cremation is also not cheap, AFAIK. So yes, they do have more to worry about, but at the same time they need to make final arrangements for their son, and I don't think anyone wants to worry about going bankrupt on bury their son either..

      If the family can't afford it and does nothing, some states will just bury the body in some remote plot of land, likely without even a name on the marker.

    100. Re:I have said it before by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Your student debt is irrelevent. Unless you're planning on leaving a lot of money or your assets, it won't matter. They can't hold your parents responsible for your debts, so the only option would be to auction your stuff. Being that you're a young unmarried person, you probably don't really have anything your family would need. Obviously if you have kids it's different.. but if you don't and it's just you.. well, there's really no reason for you to have your own life insurance, unless you care about your parents getting your TV or something.

    101. Re:I have said it before by EvanED · · Score: 1

      Without getting into value judgments about the situation, you can get locks which you can safely put on your luggage. The TSA has master keys that will open them so they can still search, but it will at least prevent average Joe from getting in. They aren't expensive either.

    102. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      chroot does exactly what he thinks it does
      Well in your scenario above - given physical access to the system in question - perhaps it does.

      So in the event that MightyYar(622222) is kdemetter(965669)'s room-mate, you'd be almost as smart as you think you are, bitch.
    103. Re:I have said it before by bckrispi · · Score: 1

      The subpoenas should not be necessary. If you are the next of kin and heir to the deceased estate, the accounts are now yours.
      Sadly, that's not true. I had a good friend commit suicide about seven years ago. His parents requested access to his hotmail account to try and get some closure for their unanswered questions, but the request was refused. Their lawyer confirmed that they had no legal recourse to gain access.
      --
      Xenon, where's my money? -Borno
    104. Re:I have said it before by moxley · · Score: 1

      Yes, that is good advice, a good "bottom line" approach, definitely.

      But I also think that (in this situation) money is only one half of the equation. The thing that is likely really going to drive them to take whatever measures necessary (even if the cost of whatever legal services may be needed exceeds the amount of potential benefit) is that they will want to know for sure if their child killed himself; and if so, why...

      I have known people who have been in a similar situation, where a death was viewed as a suicide but no note was left and it may have been accidental - and after the initial shock and grief it was the not knowing; the "ifs and whys" that was torturous for them.

    105. Re:I have said it before by amuro98 · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I saw those, but realistically if the TSA has the masters, what are the chances other folks do as well?

      Granted, if someone just steals the suitcase outright, they can simply cut the lock off, bash it open, or just gut the bag like a fish.

      Makes me think buying locks is pretty much pointless nowadays.

    106. Re:I have said it before by Gogo0 · · Score: 1

      boot up with a bootdisc
      chroot to the hard drive partition
      $passwd root
      reboot into the actual system and login with the new root password

    107. Re:I have said it before by metachimp · · Score: 1

      How can you prove that an OD was not an accident vs. suicide?

      Either way, I'm sure that if it involved illegal activity on behalf of the insured it changes the landscape.

      --
      The system has failed you, don't fail yourself. --Billy Bragg
    108. Re:I have said it before by KillerBob · · Score: 3, Insightful

      And yet... for some reason... I have life insurance.

      Funny thing, that. It's a matter of personal preference. I do have a reason to have it. Whether you agree with it or not doesn't matter, does it? It's my money, after all.

      Besides which, how do you know that I'm the only signer for my student loan? It's possible to get a co-sign on something like that, if you go through a bank. Which, incidentally, you may have to do if the gov't won't approve you for it for one reason or another, like, say, you have too much wealth accumulated (material assets, specifically artwork, in my case), or you come from a family which is too wealthy (also the case).

      If you have a co-sign on your debt, then they can most certainly be held accountable for it, even if you happen to die.

      --
      If you believe everything you read, you'd better not read. - Japanese proverb
    109. Re:I have said it before by nahdude812 · · Score: 1

      I put florescent zip ties on my luggage to hold the zipper shut. If they want in, they can snip it easily enough, but I can tell that they've been in there (unless they're keeping a supply of florescent zip ties around to replace them with). This way my luggage isn't snoopable by regular handlers, and won't by happenstance come unzipped in transit.

      I use florescent because there's less chance they have that just sitting around to replace mine with. It also aids in locating your luggage when you go to pick it up at the baggage claim; unless you want some ugly luggage, chances are there's a few other people on your flight with fairly similar bags.

    110. Re:I have said it before by ElizabethGreene · · Score: 1

      I'm sorry you disagree with me Anon, but given the question, physical access to the box is assumed. I doubt the grieving parents will say "Can you look at Johnny's computer and see if he left any clues?...But, to make it interesting you have to exploit it remotely."

      This looks like fodder for an xkcd.com comic. ;)

      -ellie

    111. Re:I have said it before by coastwalker · · Score: 1

      Hack the account and find what you can. Do not be expected to be thanked for doing it - you may very well end up being hated by the family for revealing information. However it is the right thing to do. Asking questions should be what humans are about and who are we to deny humanity. Good luck.

      --
      Facts are history now plebs have politics for religion on social media.
    112. Re:I have said it before by Naturalis+Philosopho · · Score: 1

      A suicide note would prove intent.

    113. Re:I have said it before by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Well I certainly don't care if you choose to throw away your money. I just was pointing out reasons for others to not take your advice.

      As far as co-signing goes, again, I was aiming anything at you personally, just responding to your points. But co-signing is a bit different; they already assumed responsiblity for the debt, and why you end up not paying is mostly irrelevent.. If you co-sign for someone, you'd better be able to assume the debt at any time. If you can't, you shouldn't be co-signing.

      At any rate, co-signing is more of an edge case. When I got my student loans, the government gave my parents a loan totally seperate from mine loan. If I died, my parents would only be responsible for their own loan, not the loan that was in my name only. I would have liked to gotten life insurance to help my parents pay off their loan, since it was for my benefit, but being in college it wasn't really an option for me. Now that I'm more established, that is one of the reasons I have life insurance.

    114. Re:I have said it before by elessar12 · · Score: 0

      Valid point. Can I have his WoW account?

    115. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      that doesnt make sense
      suicide itself is illegal

    116. Re:I have said it before by EvanED · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I saw those, but realistically if the TSA has the masters, what are the chances other folks do as well?

      Probably pretty high. But as you point out with regards to just stealing the suitcase, you're trying to protect against a relatively limited form of crime of opportunism.

    117. Re:I have said it before by misleb · · Score: 1

      From my perspective, that would be perfectly fine to do - you would indeed have two different "you"s. It could be something akin to reproduction,


      I'm talking about from a subjective perspective. If I copy myself (that is to say, "my program") to another body, but am unable to experience that other body, then you can hardly say that "I" have been copied. I've merely been cloned. It is not the same thing.

      but most likely that would be outlawed (because it would cause a cascade failure - the only people that would copy themselves obviously like to copy themselves, and so would do so until all resources are taken)


      What's the advantage to copying yourself?

      My preferred implementation would be that you branch - in that your two running programs are generating experiences/memories, but that you could later rejoin and merge the two datasets (the programs probably don't change much, so you would just have both memories).


      You're avoiding my question. Which "branch" gets your subjective consciousness? You can't possibly expect to be able to experience both "yous" at the same time, can you? If so, what is the link between the two that allows you to be two different people at the same time?
      --
      "THERE IS NO JUSTICE, THERE IS ONLY ME." -Death
    118. Re:I have said it before by Man+On+Pink+Corner · · Score: 1

      They can't hold your parents responsible for your debts, so the only option would be to auction your stuff.

      <shrug> Maybe he wants to do the honorable thing and not stick society at large with his debts, in the event of his death.

    119. Re:I have said it before by element-o.p. · · Score: 1

      Now I have to leave everything unlocked.
      No you don't, as long as you don't mind buying new locks every time you go somewhere. I have considered, when traveling, locking all of my belongings with non-TSA approved locks just to make them go to the effort of breaking the locks. 'Course I'm just ornery :)
      --
      MCSE? No, sir...I don't do Windows. Yes, I am an idealist. What's your point?
    120. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Great, you listen to "alternative rock" shock jocks in the morning on your way to work. You must have a sub-100 IQ... so that makes you an IT guy.

    121. Re:I have said it before by Peganthyrus · · Score: 1

      Funerals are fucking expensive. Last weekend I was involved with making one happen; I think it cost > US$10000. Luckily this one was covered entirely by a couple insurance policies on the 96-year-old guest of honor, with no question about the cause of death.

      --
      egypt urnash minimal art.
    122. Re:I have said it before by sjames · · Score: 2, Interesting

      The personal property would go to whoever it's willed to or the next of kin if there's no will. That includes the laptop and everything on it.

      If he has work related files on his personal computer, those naturally were the employer's property and remain so. In that case, his (now former) employer may appreciate having them. The only way that would happen is if the family accesses the system.

      Overall, I'd say if the family wants access to the laptop that is fine to bypass the password unless the deceased left instructions to the contrary. Hacking into myspace, etc is right out, but if the user/pass is stored on the machine OR if they are willing to reset the password under those circumstances, it's certainly OK to help them with that.

      Things get tricky from there. Having access to those things may bring comfort and closure. Sometimes though, people find out things that way that they might wish they didn't know. A trusted 3rd party is sometimes a very good thing in those cases.

    123. Re:I have said it before by element-o.p. · · Score: 1

      chroot isn't a way to access a system remotely, but if he has physical access to the system (as the summary for this story suggests), then after booting with a live CD or floppy, chroot would be the next step that would allow you to change the root password.

      So you're right that chroot won't get him access to the laptop, but once he's in, chroot will let him change the password so he can get in next time.

      --
      MCSE? No, sir...I don't do Windows. Yes, I am an idealist. What's your point?
    124. Re:I have said it before by teknosapien · · Score: 1

      HAHA GADZOOKS GOOD NEIGHBOR

      --
      no matter how good it is, it is human nature always wants to make things better
    125. Re:I have said it before by ProfessionalCookie · · Score: 1

      "Comments are owned by the Poster"

    126. Re:I have said it before by sjames · · Score: 1

      Absolute proof of a negative is naturally impossible. However, evidence that he had recently made significant plans postdating his death would call it into question. People who intend to commit suicide often wrap up their affairs in some way or another (without being TOO obvious about it) such as not making plans.

    127. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That is a common myth. After two years, the majority of life insurance claims will pay out on suicide. The logic being that most individuals will not plan a suicide so far ahead.

    128. Re:I have said it before by WNight · · Score: 1

      I don't see the "Which branch gets your subjective consciousness" question in your original post. You asked if they believed copies would share a brain or not. They clearly answered not, then went on to other things.

      What sort of answer do you want? It seems pretty obvious. If we imagine a ctrl-c/v type copy and paste, the you who existed before the ctrl-c is of course the same one who exists after. And it's similarly easy to see that once I've scanned you, my later making a duplicate won't affect you at all. The 'you' who gets created may or may not know it's different (did everything else get duplicated? did you notice the copying?) but would be a different creature and thus about as likely to share a brain with you as a pine-cone would be.

      The objective answers seem all too obvious.

      But the sense of self is subjective. So that's where it gets fuzzy. Some people see brain-taping/cloning as immortality because they'd lose only tiny bits of their life at each death - others see anything that interrupts their consciousness, even for a second, as true death.

      Depends what you consider you, and what part of that you can explain as monkey goo and which parts you need to get metaphysical for.

    129. Re:I have said it before by Pseudonym · · Score: 1

      As far as I know, there are pretty much no jurisdictions left in the English-speaking world which consider attempted suicide a crime.

      It will, however, get you locked up, because you are a clear danger to yourself and/or others. In countries which understand public health, it will even get you psychiatric care.

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    130. Re:I have said it before by misleb · · Score: 1

      I don't see the "Which branch gets your subjective consciousness" question in your original post. You asked if they believed copies would share a brain or not. They clearly answered not, then went on to other things.


      I didn't mention branches because you hadn't brought it up yet. I did say consciousness, not brain.

      What sort of answer do you want? It seems pretty obvious. If we imagine a ctrl-c/v type copy and paste, the you who existed before the ctrl-c is of course the same one who exists after. And it's similarly easy to see that once I've scanned you, my later making a duplicate won't affect you at all. The 'you' who gets created may or may not know it's different (did everything else get duplicated? did you notice the copying?) but would be a different creature and thus about as likely to share a brain with you as a pine-cone would be.


      I didn't say anything about "sharing a brain." I'm talking about subjective consciousness. I'm wondering if you believe it is possible (at least in theory) to transfer your personal, subjective awareness from one brain to another. Personally, I think it would be incredibly cool, but not likely. Simply cloning my mind without transfering my subjective awareness seems rather pointless.

      The objective answers seem all too obvious.


      But I'm not asking about objective. I'm asking about the subjective.

      But the sense of self is subjective. So that's where it gets fuzzy. Some people see brain-taping/cloning as immortality because they'd lose only tiny bits of their life at each death


      I suspect that these people haven't really put much thought into the nature of subjective awareness. Unfortunately, I think people tend to identify too closely with they're specific memories and thought habits rather than the more mystical "I" that is able to experience these things.

      - others see anything that interrupts their consciousness, even for a second, as true death.


      Like sleep?

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    131. Re:I have said it before by dcsmith · · Score: 1

      If you have a death certificate and are next of kin and can reasonably prove the account belongs to who you say it does, they probably do not have a choice. A subpoena could probably compel them to provide you with access. But that's a lot of "ifs". You forgot this one - "if" that's what a subpoena actually did.
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    132. Re:I have said it before by Mobile+Mineral · · Score: 1

      So you don't mind me digging through all your e-mail and stuff once you're gone? Thinking about it right now I mean.

    133. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hang yourself to get high? Haven't these kids ever heard of booze and pot?

      Or at least huffing the gas out of the whipped cream can. Come on.

    134. Re:I have said it before by Refenestrator · · Score: 1

      Coup d'etat falls into the same category.

    135. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      yeah but his/her family might

    136. Re:I have said it before by pipingguy · · Score: 1

      Sometimes they are set up by parents.

    137. Re:I have said it before by mysidia · · Score: 1

      You're best off with a subpoena.

      Online services may deem the account terminates upon death.

      In some cases it will even be part of the TOS.

    138. Re:I have said it before by mysidia · · Score: 1

      Ah! But that will destroy the information you need to gain access to the system.

      See if you left the password intact, you could try to crack it.

      Now when you bootup and login with that password, you will find yourself with an error message that /root could not be mounted.

      Since the users home directory is on an encrypted filesystem. And a PAM module is used to automount said filesystem (utilizing the login password as the passphrase).

    139. Re:I have said it before by haakondahl · · Score: 1

      The time has come for you to learn to spell WHOSE.

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    140. Re:I have said it before by Tacvek · · Score: 1

      If you have a death certificate and are next of kin and can reasonably prove the account belongs to who you say it does, they probably do not have a choice. A subpoena could probably compel them to provide you with access. But that's a lot of "ifs". You forgot this one - "if" that's what a subpoena actually did. From your page:

      The official court order for a witness to appear and testify at a specific location, and/or produce documents in his or her possession that may be considered evidence Note the second part. It is rather important.
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    141. Re:I have said it before by aliquis · · Score: 1

      I hate to discuss the subject, but over here you pay some form of funeral fee within your taxes so that part are already covered. What you pay for are probably more things like flowers, dinner, coffin, stone. I guess one may also pay for the company which handle the actual funeral, maybe, I could ask my mom ..

      I googled it, seems like it's 13-18.000 on average here and 4.000+ for a stone, cheapest price for as basic as it can get around 4.000 (all prices in SEK). So 670-3700 $.

    142. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My question is, why would a young unmarried person have a life insurance policy at all? Anonymous for obvious reasons. As a serviceman in a very high-risk job, it comforts me to know that, should I die, I'll still be able to help provide for my aging parents and a brother who still has too many college loans. In addition, I have some money set aside for special causes I would like to advance whether or not it's during my lifetime (EFF, ACLU, American Atheists, Freedom from Religion Foundation).

      I certainly don't need life insurance, but $27/month for $600,000 in coverage, doing a job with probably a 5% fatality rate... not a bad deal, and it makes me feel good. I actually thought about it the last time I thought I was about to die.
    143. Re:I have said it before by plonk420 · · Score: 1

      my workplace has $10K or slightly more in life insurance for a few dollars a year.

    144. Re:I have said it before by WhiplashII · · Score: 1

      I'm talking about from a subjective perspective

      OK, so which "you" is you, the "you" you are now or the "you" you were this morning? Why should time be different than space? You are constantly changing, yet you consider the entire continuum from cradle to grave to be "you". Why not consider a copy "you"? Especially if you can merge back at some point?

      What's the advantage to copying yourself?

      That isn't the point, the point is that only people that see an advantage in copying themselves will copy themselves - leading to more people that see the advantage, and copy themselves. What is the point in a virus?

      You're avoiding my question.

      I'm not, you are just having trouble seeing my perspective (not being me!) - my answer is that they are both "you", just like your mother's baby was you even though you don't share any memories with it...

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    145. Re:I have said it before by misleb · · Score: 1

      OK, so which "you" is you, the "you" you are now or the "you" you were this morning? Why should time be different than space? You are constantly changing, yet you consider the entire continuum from cradle to grave to be "you". Why not consider a copy "you"?


      The question isn't whether or not I consider a copy of me to be me. The question is whether or not I can exerience being both at the same time. As far as I know, I can only subjectively experience being one person at a time. I never subjectively experience, in real time, being my copy. A copy of me would be separate person for all intents and purposes.

      Especially if you can merge back at some point?


      Why don't I try merging with you? You probably wouldn't like that much, woudl you? Especially if it was your body that had to be tossed out after the merge.

      Wouldn't you be concerned about killing the copy? Would you try merging two identical twins together? Identical twins are really just copies of each other that branched off much, much earlier. They seem to be two unique people. Wouldn't a copy made from myself now eventually be considered a unique person? Imagine making a copy of yourself and then sending it off to another country to have a life. Then you meet back with it 20 years later. You might fight over which one of you is the REAL you. Wouldn't that be awkward?

      What, in your opinion, would make a copy of you significantly different than a genetic twin of you? What if you were copied when you were very young? Maybe too young to even remember it happening. WOuld you still consider your copy to be you?

      I'm not, you are just having trouble seeing my perspective (not being me!) - my answer is that they are both "you", just like your mother's baby was you even though you don't share any memories with it...


      That's just it. I have no trouble seeing it from your perspective. This is one of those rare cases where I am unable to see it from my own perspective. As strange as that may sound. I simply cannot conceive of being two people at the same time. I know what it is like to have past versions of me. That's no problem because those versions of me no longer exist. There was never a point when two or more of those versions had to occupy the same moment in time.

      You try it. Try to imagine what it wold be like to make a copy of yourself. It sounds like you've only really considered what it would look like from the outside. From an objective perspective. Try thinking of it subjectively.

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      "THERE IS NO JUSTICE, THERE IS ONLY ME." -Death
    146. Re:I have said it before by ckaminski · · Score: 1

      From your own results, about 12-15 down the list:

      <quote>
      A court order commanding a person or entity either to surrender documents to the court or to testify.
      </quote>

    147. Re:I have said it before by ckaminski · · Score: 1

      Sorry, I get you. Yes, a subpoena on it's own could not compel them to do anything, the court would be the "compelling" party. Splitting hairs.

      HAND.

    148. Re:I have said it before by WNight · · Score: 1

      Well, so it's subjective. If you think you die when you sleep, you'll be the type who dies during a braintape. Instead, if you feel your consciousness continues through minor inconveniences you'll happily "survive".

      Your personality in the new body will likely feel complete with no gaps, but the original would feel the same way.

      So no, in an objective way that you could show the continuity of any given brain wave, the clone is not thinking your thoughts. But they're identical (in the beginning) to yours, so does it matter?

    149. Re:I have said it before by NerdyLove · · Score: 1

      If it was a typo, you'd have meant "Next of sin", "Next of gin", etc. What you had was a brsinfart.

    150. Re:I have said it before by fucksl4shd0t · · Score: 1

      My family would probably disown me if I wasn't an organ donor. Heh. I love these guys. ;)

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    151. Re:I have said it before by fucksl4shd0t · · Score: 1

      Actually, that's priceless. For everything else in this situation, there's Mastercard.

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    152. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Much cheaper to start a policy when you are young and in good health...

    153. Re:I have said it before by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      I would certainly do the honorable thing, except a large portion of society is sticking me with their debts.

      That said, insurance just means a different part of society pays. In the event someone doesn't have life insurance, lenders buy bad debt insurance. Of course their rates will depend on how many bad debts they build up.. which provides good motive to only give loans to people that have a good history of paying off debt.

    154. Re:I have said it before by misleb · · Score: 1

      Well, so it's subjective. If you think you die when you sleep, you'll be the type who dies during a braintape. Instead, if you feel your consciousness continues through minor inconveniences you'll happily "survive".


      You're still looking at it objectively. You're talking about what someone else might think. What would *you* experience? Whether not you believe "you" die when you sleep, the fact remains that when you wake up in the morning, there is a subjective consciousness that continues to be aware. Or at least I assume this is the case. Maybe you (and I am talking about you specifically) don't really have a self-aware subjective consciousness and are no more than a set of memories and personality traits acting out a life. I hope this is not true, but I'm starting to suspect that it is based on how closely associate your sense of self with a specific set of memories and personality traits. Don't make me think solipsist thoughts! It makes me feel lonely. ;-)

      So no, in an objective way that you could show the continuity of any given brain wave, the clone is not thinking your thoughts. But they're identical (in the beginning) to yours, so does it matter?


      Of course it matters! You're just creating a twin that branches off later than normal. That's not at all the same as giving me immortality.

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      "THERE IS NO JUSTICE, THERE IS ONLY ME." -Death
    155. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My parents forced me to get one which covered death, disability, and some other stuff, when I got a motorbike. (So in the instance of dismemberment, they could pay to make the necessary changes to our house, etc)

      I've heard of stuff like this before, and this could be the reason, or maybe it is a family plan type thing?

    156. Re:I have said it before by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My question is, why would a young unmarried person have a life insurance policy at all?

      The obvious reason is they ran into an insurance salesman with a good sales pitch and didn't know any better.

      The second reason is it's part of their standard benefits package. Both large companies I worked for provided life insurance in the amount of your annual salary.

    157. Re:I have said it before by WNight · · Score: 1

      I think this is subjective. If you believe you die during sleep, then what you call you did die as you see it. It was the awake consciousness of the day before. Maybe a lot like you today, but still as different as a taped and replayed clone.

      I agree that no number of braintapes (alone) is going to make me immortal. It may be used to create clones who believe that they are the original me who would feel as if immortal, but who would individually be mortal. You're right, it's not immortality. But the clone will feel like it was, and the clone will think it's me.

      I think it comes down to your motivation. If you're afraid to die, braintaping is not immortality because current you will die. If you're afraid to die without completing something, braintaping is immortality because you'll survive to accomplish it.

      As for me personally, maybe I am (just a collection of memories). As in, what is your personality except learned responses to stimuli? I don't believe it's qualitatively different. No soul or anything. So what am I except my stored programming?

      Are you sure "you", the conscious feelings, aren't just rebuilt when needed from your memories? Maybe you are only the bias between what could be done and what your memories incline you to do.

      You might be right that I don't have a specific consciousness but instead merely create a running dialog in my head of what I'd have had to be thinking to justify my actions.

      1) eat something
      2) ask why people eat -> hunger
      3) tell myself I was hungry and therefore ate

      At that, I could "die" every time I'm "swapped out". When my brain is working on walking it's not constructing this running narrative. Do I exist during this? My brain-stem is probably enough to keep me walking until I reach a corner.

      If I'm merely a pattern of solutions to problems then 'I' am no more alive than a database. But then you get into the lisp questions. If Data can contain programs, is it only data or is it frozen programs? Do I not exist (the data/program dichotomy) or am I merely swapped out (data/program similarity)? /ramble

    158. Re:I have said it before by misleb · · Score: 1

      As for me personally, maybe I am (just a collection of memories). As in, what is your personality except learned responses to stimuli? I don't believe it's qualitatively different. No soul or anything. So what am I except my stored programming?


      Certainly that is the ultimate question... "What am I?" Having personally experienced various hallucinogenic states that might be described as "ego-loss," I might suggest that there is something higher, more fundamental than mere personality traits. I hesitate to say "soul" because that is just so loaded with specific religious connotations. But I feel like there is a perspective... a point of view that has no inherent properties, dimensions, or personality.

      Are you sure "you", the conscious feelings, aren't just rebuilt when needed from your memories?


      Certainly my conscious feelings are rebuilt when needed. I just think there is something that is experiencing those feelings.

      Maybe you are only the bias between what could be done and what your memories incline you to do.


      Yes, I think "bias" might be a good word for it.

      You might be right that I don't have a specific consciousness but instead merely create a running dialog in my head of what I'd have had to be thinking to justify my actions.


      No, i don't think I am right about that. Normally you may only identify with your thoughts and rationalizations. But I think if you can manage to quiet those thoughts, you might find that there is something else experiencing them. And the act of experiencing causes more thoughts... but ultimately you are not your thoughts.

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      "THERE IS NO JUSTICE, THERE IS ONLY ME." -Death
  2. Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    His laptop is one thing, but I seriously doubt that Hotmail, Gmail, MySpace, or even his university are going to open access to his accounts for anything but a police investigation.

    1. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by ta+bu+shi+da+yu · · Score: 1

      I would have thought the executor of his estate would have access to this sort of information.

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    2. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by tgatliff · · Score: 3, Informative

      I disagree... A simple court order would open up any account they want. Why people go to these companies and ask "permission" is beyond me... That is why our legal system is there, and it is quite good at getting what it wants...

    3. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't do any cracking on your own. Talk to the authorities and get them involved. Otherwise they could likely pin it as murder on you Mr. Hacker, Cracker, Cyberbully, Dr. Kavorikian guy.

    4. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by greenfield · · Score: 2, Interesting

      A simple court order would open up any account they want. Why people go to these companies and ask "permission" is beyond me... Asking permission => Free

      A "simple" court order => Not free

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      --Sam

    5. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by ThirdPrize · · Score: 5, Informative

      A friend of mine died last year and, as long as you can provide the proper paperwork, his family got access to his hotmail account. i guess as long as they can tie the death certificate to the person in the e-mails then its not a problem.

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    6. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by jandrese · · Score: 1

      He may not even need help from them. Resetting the passwords on his laptop should be trivial (unless he was paranoid and encrypted everything), after that there's a decent chance his passwords are still cached in Firefox (just hope he didn't encrypt the password store--fortunately most people don't), you might be able to use that to log in and check his stuff.

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    7. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by tgatliff · · Score: 1

      Valid point... :)

    8. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by j-pimp · · Score: 1

      I disagree... A simple court order would open up any account they want. Why people go to these companies and ask "permission" is beyond me... That is why our legal system is there, and it is quite good at getting what it wants...

      Yes God forbid we try to solve problem on our own first without seeking the nanny state.

      Now, these entities might have policies that basically say, "get a court order so we can cover our ass." If you are sure this is the case, then by all means forgo asking the entity and go directly for the court order. However, don't go wasting the courts time and everyone's tax dollars unnecessarily.

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    9. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by j-pimp · · Score: 1

      Asking permission => Free

      A "simple" court order => Not free

      Amen.

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    10. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by rijrunner · · Score: 1

      Eh? gmail has a policy page for this exact situation..

          This is a pretty standard industry policy. Death certificate and proof that you are nearest relative or executor.

      http://www.howtoweb.com/cgi-bin/insider.pl?zone=361051

        Yahoo requires an order from the probate court, but that looks to be the most restrictive.

    11. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by rijrunner · · Score: 5, Informative

      http://mail.google.com/support/bin/answer.py?answer=14300

    12. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by xethair · · Score: 1

      Yeah, what is all this subpoena talk already? Take his computer, boot from a disk or alt drive, make sure his partitions are in the right places, chroot to his system, passwd to set the root and user passwords, then log in as him and see what you can get to. Probably should make copies of things like the history file first, so you can see as much as was there without the browser expiring records when you run it.

      After that, you think about asking gmail and such. You ask now and they may close the account before you access it. Remember those accounts are not ours in a propert sense. They exist at the pleasure of the provider and their generaly incredibly loose terms of service (we can do anything and you automatically agree by continuing use).

    13. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by ktappe · · Score: 1

      Yes God forbid we try to solve problem on our own first without seeking the nanny state.
      After what happened with Yahoo and the fallen soldier, the "nanny state" (nice loaded term there) is very much necessary. Yahoo told the family to go pound sand. Repeatedly. Even after public outcry. Dude, the government exists to help us when we need help, and this is one of those cases. That your extremist mind applied "nanny" to it is sad.
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    14. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you confuse legal civil actions among private parties with action form your "nanny" state. The court is there precisely to let people force the companies to respect their rights, without having to relay on a police investigation or other public (as in statal) act.

      private parties have to pay for the privilege of backing their private actions with the force of the law, so no tax is "wasted". quite the opposite in most cases, as the money payed for such order is a form of tribute (ie, TAX) apart from coverage of the courts expenses.

      so your libertarian rant is pure and utter bs.

      cheers.

    15. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by RiotingPacifist · · Score: 1

      Either that or they respect their user privacy to at least some extent, if it didn't require a court order, it would be far to easy to fake somebody's death to get their details.

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    16. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by DarrenBaker · · Score: 1

      Someone mod parent up... This is the answer to 90% of his question.

    17. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And what exactly is the basis for this court order?

    18. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by immcintosh · · Score: 1

      So once they tell you to go and pound sand (the OP clearly states he hasn't gotten that far), then you take it to the courts. Honestly, I think it's really ethically inexcusable to lawyer up without even ATTEMPTING to solve things decently and without undue conflict. If they're unreasonable about it, THAT is what the court system is for. If they wouldn't have been unreasonable about it, congratulations, you just abused the court system, wasted MY tax dollars, and made our whole corporate society just *that* much more litigious. Good job.

    19. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by moxley · · Score: 1

      ""Dude, the government exists to help us when we need help"" (said ktappe).

      Yeah - many times regardless of whatever we want or need said "help"

      (and that's just when they are being "helpful.")

    20. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by nahdude812 · · Score: 1

      The university might assist since they'll know he's actually dead. The agencies which have no form of personal relationship with him though won't know this, and should treat all such inquiries as if they are social engineering attacks until lawyers become involved.

      There was a deal a few years ago where a soldier who had been killed in Iraq had a Yahoo email account. Yahoo refused to give the family access, and I believe it was found that they didn't have any obligation to do so.

      These uninvolved companies don't know anything about their user or the user's wishes. Just because I'm deceased doesn't mean I want my estranged wife having a chance to dig through all my emails (not that I'm either deceased or have an estranged wife). For example, there could be evidence in the email which permits her to challenge the will I'd written, etc.

    21. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by j-pimp · · Score: 1

      Dude, the government exists to help us when we need help, and this is one of those cases. That your extremist mind applied "nanny" to it is sad.

      I'm using a term to evoke a specific point. Granted it was intended to mat that point emotionally and not intellectually. However, calling me an extremist was an emotional attack not an intellectual one.

      I am not against using the courts to solve problems. I am against using them as a first recourse, unless I am in a situation where that would be sensible. Now, your knowledge of experiences leads you to believe that asking yahoo directly would be a waste of time. However, after all that PR, they might have developed a new policy that would make a court order unnecessary. That being said, I would not fault you for going directly with a court order in this instance since you believe you would have to go that route eventually.

      My rule of thumb, give people a chance to do the right thing before you force them to. Corporations are made up of people, and if you misinterperate the 14th amendment correctly, corporations are people.

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      --- Justin Dearing http://www.justaprogrammer.net/ We're just programmers.
    22. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by HighPerformanceCoder · · Score: 1

      Anything unencrypted is pretty much fair game. Particularly email. Getting root access to a linux box when you have the hardware is fairly trivial, unless the deceased owner was so paranoid as to lock the BIOS, in which case moving the disk drive to another machine is fairly simple. Knoppix is a useful tool for this. Once access to the account is arranged, it maybe possible to gain access to Gmail etc accounts by means of stored passwords in the web browser. This may require some detective work to figure out exactly what browser is being used, but its not rocket science. One should also check accounts listed in .ssh/config as well. As for ethics - I would hope that someone does this to my machine after I'm gone. In particular looking for unfinished works. However, I suspect that I won't be sufficiently important for anyone to bother! Anything I really, really don't want read, I encrypt with GPG, and don't leave the password for that lying around.

    23. Re:Gmail, Hotmail, MySpace by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I disagree... A simple court order would open up any account they want. Why people go to these companies and ask "permission" is beyond me... That is why our legal system is there, and it is quite good at getting what it wants...

      Maybe, on the other hand, if you lawyer up and threaten me, I may hold you to the exact terms of the contract, which don't allow for inheritance.

      Or I'll make you get the executor named by a court. If you die without a will, that can take 6 months.

      Asking nicely works sometimes.

  3. Simple. by Spovednik · · Score: 0

    You. Don't.

  4. file a petition with a judge by thrillseeker · · Score: 4, Insightful

    a court order will streamline all this for you

    1. Re:file a petition with a judge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Focus on getting his email password first. The other passwords will likely be the same, unless he was particularly careful. If not, you can at least log into his other sites, select "forgot my password" and get a reset message sent to his mail account (assuming he used a real email address etc...).

    2. Re:file a petition with a judge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Or,

      as mentioned, mount his hdd somewhere accessible, change the copy the shadows file, put in known passwords there.

      Let the shadows file be cracked if needed whilst browsing the system.

      He most likly will be using firefox, and if your real lucky, he has stored his passwords, without setting a master password. You can then just 'view' the passwords to all those sites. If he does use a master password, it most likly be his user password (the shadow file that's being cracked). If not, well hey, you tried right. Then you really have to get court orders etc sorted.

      Same goes for his e-mail, if he uses thunderbird, chances are, he's not storing it in a master password (if he is, again, bad luck) just request new passwords from the sites, and they should enter his mailbox.

      Just my 0.02c

    3. Re:file a petition with a judge by ari_j · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I agree. Once someone in the family is formally appointed as his personal representative (whether because that person is named executor in his will or because that person petitions a court under the appropriate laws of your jurisdiction), get a written agreement with the personal representative as to what you are to do and the means you are to employ in doing it. Present a copy of the appointment and the agreement. Nobody is going to let you in based on the URL of an obituary, but with a photocopied court order you have a much better (albeit not 100%) shot.

      You may want to get a lawyer involved to further streamline the process.

    4. Re:file a petition with a judge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly, if all else fails, find two nice lawyers who will it for free, sue his estate and in discovery you can get all this, then "settle".

      R

    5. Re:file a petition with a judge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Get several copies of the death certificate as this is the proof you will need. Requests for access will need to come from the executor of the estate.

    6. Re:file a petition with a judge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Edited: if you are the executor of the deceased's estate , then a court order will streamline all this for you.

      Otherwise, they may very well refuse.

      ~

    7. Re:file a petition with a judge by thrillseeker · · Score: 1

      a court order will be valid for whomever is named in the court order

  5. Death certificate by Mag7 · · Score: 1

    This is really sad to hear.

    A death certificate from the next of kin opens many doors.

    They're not likely to help you since you're not a relative and certainly if all you do is point them to a link to an obituary.

    1. Re:Death certificate by smooth+wombat · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You beat me to the punch. Having worked in the financial sector for a time, a death certificate should do the trick.

      The catch will be is if the person signed up for accounts but didn't use his real name, address, etc. Then you may have a problem. Otherwise, submitting the certificate (more than likely official copies) should suffice to prove to the various places that the person is truly dead and you are doing a port mortem of his accounts.

      The family should be the ones contacting these places as they are next of kin.

      I know it's asking for trouble, but this is why all your accounts including username and password should be written down and stored in a separate location. Regardless if it's suicide or getting run over by a wildebeast, someone, somewhere, will need to be able to get into your accounts to clear things up.

      --
      We will bankrupt ourselves in the vain search for absolute security. -- Dwight D. Eisenhower
    2. Re:Death certificate by Narpak · · Score: 1

      Personally nothing would make me happier if I could arrange for some sort of death switch. So the moment I was utterly and permanently dead all my hard drives would fry and all my email accounts would be deleted. For me, personally, I really can't see any need for my family or friends to snoop around in my private files and notes. Not to mention that I don't want anyone to gain access to my rather indecent amount of freakazoid p0rn.

    3. Re:Death certificate by JustinOpinion · · Score: 2, Insightful

      My condolences to the family.

      I would say that a death certificate is a necessary, but by no means sufficient, piece of evidence.

      There was recently a death in my extended family. I have seen how, even with a death certificate and all official documents (police reports, etc.), it still took literally years to finalize routine things (closing accounts, transferring assets, dealing with insurance, etc.). So it turns out its quite long and complicated to even just do the "normal" things (that must be done when any person dies, and for which no one was really contesting anything... just following the protocol). So I can only imagine how difficult it will be in situations where things are unclear.

      For instance, if you show a death certificate to an email provider, what does that prove? It shows that someone died, but doesn't actually prove that it was the owner of the account that died. (Did he sign up with his real name, or fake details?) I can imagine an email provider requesting certain conditions (like waiting a year to make sure there is no activity on the account, and requiring some proof of connection between the person and the account).

      All this to say: prepare for a long and drawn-out ordeal. Finalizing a person's affairs is not a quick matter. (On the other hand, you might end up being lucky, and finding a "passwords.txt" file on his computer somewhere.)

    4. Re:Death certificate by smooth+wombat · · Score: 1

      You could always entrust that process to someone who you believe would carry out your wishes.

      Then again, that doesn't take care of your online accounts. They would need to take care of those as well. Which goes back to what I previously said: write down your information so someone can get to your stuff. In your case, the person would log onto your accounts, delete the information then close the accounts.

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      We will bankrupt ourselves in the vain search for absolute security. -- Dwight D. Eisenhower
    5. Re:Death certificate by neokushan · · Score: 1

      If you wanted to be elaborate, you could probably set your machine up to perform this task automatically upon logging in with a certain username/password, then have it in your will for someone to log in with that user.
      Or just have it in your will, as far as I'm aware, they're legally bound to do what's possible.

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    6. Re:Death certificate by Sfing_ter · · Score: 1

      Freud is working overtime here, did you really say "Port Mortem"? I believe this pertains to Necrophilia, and not after-life account cracking,(btw - one of Microsoft's subsidiary's, Necrosoft, has software for this, it's where WinME and soon Vista will go and their new game After-Life).

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      A computer once beat me at chess, but it was no match for me at kick boxing. Emo Philips
    7. Re:Death certificate by Jaqenn · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There were a few previous ask slashdots on this:

      http://ask.slashdot.org/article.pl?sid=07/01/10/0014220
      http://ask.slashdot.org/article.pl?sid=06/09/23/2334218

      If I recall the consensus was that anything you can hack together in software has a good chance of failing. Plus, honestly, do you really want to have tons of personal information waiting to go out any day that you forget to push the 'I'm not dead' button before you fall asleep?

      Go get a safe deposit box, fill it with stuff, and leave the key with a lawyer.

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    8. Re:Death certificate by evilandi · · Score: 2, Insightful

      A death certificate from the next of kin opens many doors.

      Correct answer. ISPs will serve up almost anything when presented with correct, verifiable death certificate and a letter from the correct, verifiable next of kin stating that person X is authorised to take over the deceased's logins.

      It is, sadly, a very slow process.

      I was in the unfortunate situation of having to re-establish control over a number of friends and family's domains when their registrant, a friend of mine from uni, died quite expectedly (had a massive birth defect, estimated TTL 2 years, actual TTL 35 years).

      The sad thing is that I am still very annoyed with my dead friend for not making better arrangements, given his condition. Which is definitely not how I want to remember him.

      My own will now gives instructions on how to recover my domain registry username/password.

      --
      Andrew Oakley - www.aoakley.com
    9. Re:Death certificate by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know it's asking for trouble, but this is why all your accounts including username and password should be written down and stored in a separate location. Regardless if it's suicide or getting run over by a wildebeast, someone, somewhere, will need to be able to get into your accounts to clear things up. That's a horrible move, security wise. Also, and it may seem a bit cold but, if I'm dead, I'm not going to care how much trouble others have in 'clearing things up' and it's not likely to cause me enough worry before death to want to compromise my security by writing down all my usernames and passwords.
    10. Re:Death certificate by evilandi · · Score: 1

      You clearly don't manage domains, email or web for your family.

      When I pop off, my daughter will need her email to continue working.

      --
      Andrew Oakley - www.aoakley.com
    11. Re:Death certificate by smooth+wombat · · Score: 1
      did you really say "Port Mortem"?


      Apparently I did. Good catch. Just goes to show that even with proofreading and using spellchecker in Fx, things still slip through.

      --
      We will bankrupt ourselves in the vain search for absolute security. -- Dwight D. Eisenhower
    12. Re:Death certificate by snl2587 · · Score: 1

      I know it's asking for trouble, but this is why all your accounts including username and password should be written down and stored in a separate location. Regardless if it's suicide or getting run over by a wildebeast, someone, somewhere, will need to be able to get into your accounts to clear things up.

      Yes, but what if what they find in your accounts are things you never wanted them to know?

    13. Re:Death certificate by Noexit · · Score: 1

      I agree with this sentiment. If the guy went to the trouble to lock all of his stuff away while he was alive, his privacy should be respected after he's gone.

      --

      Never argue with a man carrying a water buffalo

    14. Re:Death certificate by voice_of_all_reason · · Score: 1

      Do you do any writing?

      I'd certainly like any unfinished short stories I've been working on to be released in the event of my death rather than vanishing into nothingness.

    15. Re:Death certificate by xethair · · Score: 1

      Then you should encrypt it and not include that password. That kind of thing is too easy to set up nowadays, if you really need that option (most people in history haven't had it, except in leaving instructions and hoping they were followed).

    16. Re:Death certificate by RyuMaou · · Score: 1

      Actually, it's not that elaborate at all. The idea is an old one, made popular with spy novels and movies. It's called a "dead man switch". Basically, it's just software that you have to sign into and disable on a regular basis or it will perform some action, which could be to lock the machine and e-mail a trusted party the username and password.

      In fact, such software exists for Windoze machines, and I've used it. It's called "Dead Man Switch", or DMS for short. A quick Google for "dead man switch software windows" returned several places to download the software, including:
      http://www.pcworld.com/downloads/file/fid,23183-order,1-page,1-c,alldownloads/description.html

      Of course, none of that takes care of the original poster's problem.

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    17. Re:Death certificate by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      Or better yet, dont get a safe deposit box that costs you money that you have to travel to to update. Get a small waterproof/fireproof safe. put your crap in there and update it on a regular basis.

      If you have passwords you want to leave, have a master password you never use online to get into your list of passwords on your computer in encrypted form. leave detailed instructions in the safe for the next of kin to gain access.

      Far better solution, far cheaper, and you are more prone to keeping it updated than having to take an hour to go downtown to the bank to get access to the box.

      Leave a key with someone you trust OR better yet, tape the key in a folder in an envelope of your tax documents or other files that they will look for first.. Like a envelope labelled "WILL" they will find it there.

      Never give people money for no good reason. Banks and lawyers have enough already.

      --
      Do not look at laser with remaining good eye.
    18. Re:Death certificate by dhasenan · · Score: 1

      You could do some of this...

      If you have pop3 access to your email, or some equivalent, you can download all messages and have them deleted from the server. Set up a cronjob; if you don't log in after three days, do that, then 'rm -rf /home'.

      Doesn't stop any new email from getting in, of course; you'll have to rig up a script to send 'unsubscribe' to listserv@yiffyfurryporn.net.

    19. Re:Death certificate by gknoy · · Score: 1

      If, after you're dead, unsavory details about you surface ... will it hurt your feelings?

      If it's something that you'd rather never were found out, as others have said -- make it secret, and explicitly state that you'd like it destroyed. "Any drives with red circular labels on them shall be physically destroyed. I Swear that these drives will not contain anything which might indicate suicidal intents, but rather are just my porn which I'd rather my children never see." If you don't, how is it different from your "stash" of dirty magazines being discovered behind the water heater once you've died?

    20. Re:Death certificate by gknoy · · Score: 1

      I think it's a very good idea, actually.

      Write down your complex passwords, store them in a safe. (Just like using Bruce Schneier's crypto key safe software.) It's now just as safe as any of your OTHER vital information (SS card, passport, birth certificates, etc).

      From the perspective of a married person, I want to make sure that I don't have secrets of this sort from my wife. If I die, or she dies, it's much easier if the other can still access online banking sites, ISP account information, etc.

    21. Re:Death certificate by snl2587 · · Score: 1

      If, after you're dead, unsavory details about you surface ... will it hurt your feelings?

      No, but depending on your culture it might hurt your family.

      Where I live there was a high-profile case of a friend who destroyed all information of his deceased friend for this very reason. Turns out they were both from India and highly religious, so despite the deceased friend not requesting this the friend did it anyway. Had he not done it the family would have been "shamed" (although they apparently were anyway since he didn't do it discreetly).

      Also, not all companies are required to disclose passwords of the deceased, so simply using the death certificate may not even work.

      I'm just saying: hacking people's accounts after they die might not always be a good thing, or even harmless.

  6. Do it. by sm62704 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Your friend is gone; he no longer owns anything. His worldly possessions, including his accounts and passwords, belong to those he left behind. They have asked you to open the locked box, open it.

    There is no ethical delimma. You are being asked to open something by that something's owner. NOT cracking passwords would be wrong.

    --
    mcgrew's razor: Never attribute to stupidity that which can be explained by greedy self-interest
    1. Re:Do it. by Machtyn · · Score: 1

      It is similar to if the person left a locked box behind, or an even better analogy, a bank deposit box. The next of kin would show up at the bank with the appropriate documents showing the deceased is dead and they are the next of kin and the bank would oblige to open the box.

    2. Re:Do it. by sapone · · Score: 1

      But this is not about his worldly possessions, it's about his intellectual "possessions", letters he wrote and other products of the mind. Many people wish that noone will gain access to such intimate information, even after their death.

      When my great-aunt had died, my grandfather came over to us with a box containing letters. My parents have a stove with fire and all. My grandfather burned the letters, to fulfill a promise he gave my great-aunt.

    3. Re:Do it. by mpe · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Your friend is gone; he no longer owns anything. His worldly possessions, including his accounts and passwords, belong to those he left behind. They have asked you to open the locked box, open it.

      They probably actually belong to his "estate". If he made a will then it will explicitally list who the executors of his will are. Executors of a will have something similar to "power of attorney" when it comes to distributing a person's estate. Even if someone died "intestate" their estate still exists, where things can get complex is that the act of getting married can perform the equivalent of writing a will, where the terms an conditions depend in exactly where and when the marriage took place.
      Even if you are an executor (or working for an executor) AFAIK you can't investigate a death. But if your intent is to locate part of their estate then it's ok if you happen to stumble upon information relating to how someone died, though it might be a good idea to share any such information with the police and/or corronor.

    4. Re:Do it. by Narpak · · Score: 1

      I disagree. Personally I consider the wished of the decease to be paramount. Yes I do know that when you are dead it's supposed to not matter. But I really believe that when it comes to my accounts (wherever they are) is not something my family have any right to open; even if I die accidentally without any warning.

      Of course I realize people differ on this matter, but at the end of the day the wishes of the deceased should be honored. If I don't want anyone to go through my accounts, that should be honored; and if someone else have no objection to that; then that should be honored.

    5. Re:Do it. by jabuzz · · Score: 1

      Not quite, the executor of the will, turns up at the bank with proof that he is the executor, and takes posession of the contents of the box to distribute as per the will. If there is no will then the next of kin becomes that person by default.

      It sounds likely that this person did not leave a will, so the next of kin gets to do as they please.

    6. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Ethics is about more than ownership. There are such concepts as privacy, and respect. In particular, this doesn't seem to be in accordance with those ethics:

      The family is in a situation where proof of accidental death would change how this was viewed in terms of paying for parts of the funeral.


      It's hardly a wonder that the guy topped himself, with a family that wants to invade his privacy (most likely to find people to blame other than themselves) and to find ways to escape the funeral costs.
    7. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree. My best friend of many years killed himself and left no note. He had passworded everything on his computer but what we found on it afterwards helped alot of people to see things through his eyes and find peace. Dead people dont own any thing and if he left any thing behind, no matter how well hidden, it is likely he wanted it to be found.

    8. Re:Do it. by Saint+Fnordius · · Score: 1

      I think that's the more nuanced way of saying what he wrote, so it is ethical in that it is on behalf of the estate, and also ethical on behalf of forensics. Remember, the family also wants to find evidence of whether this was a suicide or an accidental death.

      There is no problem with cracking the contents of his computer. I also see no ethical issue with helping the executor to retrieve all records left on Google Mail or MySpace, as long as the executor is the one actually making the request. Otherwise the poster should get a limited power of attorney, really.

      I am only considering the ethical questions, mind you, not the legal ones.

    9. Re:Do it. by ytmstry · · Score: 1

      This is true. Before this though, the box can only be opened to search for a will and to have the contents cataloged and documented. If a will is found, it is the only thing allowed to be removed at this time, and a copy of it must be kept in the box still. All of this is done with an immediate family member, bank security officer, and a bank officer present.

    10. Re:Do it. by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1
      Consider this: they crack his system, and find some carefully hidden child porn collection (just an example...). Would anyone be better off for it?

      Remember, we all have skeletons in our closets. It does no good to drag them out even after the death of the owner - it may still hurt his relatives and other people who care.b

    11. Re:Do it. by evilandi · · Score: 1

      Exactly right. This isn't a moral question, it's a legal procedure. The legal procedure exists and is very well established.

      --
      Andrew Oakley - www.aoakley.com
    12. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If there is no ethical dilemma then it would not be wrong if he didn't crack the passwords. In other words, he is in a morally neutral situation (according to you) and therefore has no moral obligation to do anything besides what he is asked to do or prefers to do. Cracking the passwords would be the same as doing nothing.

    13. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just ask Anne Frank if anyone should read her diary or if her family should profit off a young girl's words.

    14. Re:Do it. by metamorphage · · Score: 1

      This isn't a question of law, it's a question of ethics. Certainly there's nothing illegal about what he's being asked to do, but thoughts don't transfer ownership simply because of death.

    15. Re:Do it. by dpilot · · Score: 1

      Wishes were expressed, and your grandfather fulfilled them.

      In the case here, there appear to be no wishes to fulfill. In such a case I would think that the family's wishes, within appropriate legal frameworks, apply. On the other hand, if the first thing you see in the guy's home directory is a file named, "In_the_event_of_my_death", then I'd think that it expresses the wishes of the deceased, even though it may have no legal standing. Still, that file should be the first, and perhaps only, thing read.

      Along this line, I keep all of my passwords in pwsafe/MyPasswordSafe, and the master password is only in my head. I should probably write some stuff down, put it in an envelope, and put that in the safety deposit box.

      --
      The living have better things to do than to continue hating the dead.
    16. Re:Do it. by penguin_dance · · Score: 1

      It sounds likely that this person did not leave a will, so the next of kin gets to do as they please.

      Not exactly--and IANAL. But if there was no will, the court will have to appoint an executor. If he's a minor, this will likely be one of his parents. A bank is not going to let you rifle through a safty deposit box unless you were already listed as an co-owner of that box or you are the executor.

      I hope the family can find peace. I suspect the family doesn't care as much about the insurance as they would just discovering that it was an accident or at least the "why" he would take his own life. I think they would more likely find evidence if he was planning to kill himself--if he wasn't then they won't find anything out of the ordinary. I don't think that will change the insurance's mind (and I agree they need to check their policy--suicide is sometimes covered if the policy has been in force 2 or more years) but it would bring them peace.

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    17. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If the guy has done something like viewed child porn, rape, murder, torture etc (probably repeatedly) or knowingly caused the death of someone online or other stuff (repeatedly), he probably doesn't want anyone to know. Or it's possible he just made a snap decision.

      If you found out your brother likes viewing kids being abused in Japanese anime yet has not harmed anyone in life let alone a kid plus he hasn't told anyone else of his shame, what would your perception of him be?

      I've read some horror stories of people killing themselves for no reason. One of the sources I remember clearly http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=504 (Spoiler warning for those that haven't read it)

      Good luck cracking, from experience, nothing I can say will stop the curious from seeking.

    18. Re:Do it. by dpilot · · Score: 1

      Have you explicitly stated that wish, so that your survivors know it, or can know it? Or are they supposed to know it through mental telepathy? Write it down, put in an envelope, mark it, "In the event of my death", and put it in a safe place where others will find it at the right time. Of course realize that what I said is not legally binding, and your survivors can glance at it and then do exactly as they please. If you want it to be legally binding, consult an attorney.

      No such wishes appear to have been expressed in the current case.

      --
      The living have better things to do than to continue hating the dead.
    19. Re:Do it. by fbjon · · Score: 1

      But if you don't make it clear what you wishes are in a will, then your wishes effectively don't exist, legally speaking, and probably practically speaking as well if you never mentioned it to anyone.

      --
      True confidence comes not from realising you are as good as your peers, but that your peers are as bad as you are.
    20. Re:Do it. by BytePusher · · Score: 1

      I agree with the parent post. In addition, I imagine that if he really did die of an accident he would have wanted to be vindicated.

      Also, as a young, intelligent and possibly depressed male(Thus probably seeking happiness) you may find some embarrassing things he would have not wanted seen. You might want to council his family to only allow his father dig into his accounts once you have access.

    21. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is not an ethical question. It is a legal question. However, to the extent one might suppose it an ethical question, investigating someone's private life, even if they are now deceased, requires a good reason. What evidence does the prober have that the death is non-self-inflicted? Is this evidence sufficient to warrant snooping into the decedent's private life? Would his parents/siblings/friends approve under the circumstances? And, straight back to the legal question, are the actions being undertaken by the prober, legal under the circumstances?

      I suspect looking into this guys private life is going to raise more questions than it answers. Be sure to have sound reason before doing so, not just a hunch.

    22. Re:Do it. by borcharc · · Score: 1

      Also if his parents have not filed a probate action they should immeasurably. Once you die your all of your property transfers to your estate, then the court appoints an executor. In most states the order appointing an executor will be enough to get you access to his hotmail, university, and myspace accounts as they are the estates property. This is the right way to do this and I would not tell anyone you are asking for access why you want it as it is frankly none of their business and the executor has the legal right to it and to appoint you to help.

    23. Re:Do it. by ultranova · · Score: 1

      Consider this: they crack his system, and find some carefully hidden child porn collection (just an example...). Would anyone be better off for it?

      Sure. If they find out, they can make sure that he's not buried within 100 kilometers of any schools. Just in case he, you know, rises as a zombie.

      You know that somewhere a politician is thinking of it just now.

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      Forget magic. Any technology distinguishable from divine power is insufficiently advanced.

    24. Re:Do it. by jnmontario · · Score: 1

      From a legal perspective - if he'd wanted them to look through his stuff, he could have left them a note or some instruction. If he left nothing and they're that curious I have to agree that a law-sanctioned order would make things easier when dealing with Google/Yahoo etc... If they suspect foul play make the law take care of the accounts that way they don't have to worry about ethics at all. That said, let's say that by cracking the passwords etc... that they find out he's into bestiality, or has a penchant for rough sex - is that going to make them think better of the deceased? Personally, I'd leave the accounts inactive and come to terms with the loss for fear that the memory may be tarnished by reading items that could be taken out of context.

    25. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your friend is gone; he no longer owns anything. His worldly possessions, including his accounts and passwords, belong to those he left behind. They have asked you to open the locked box, open it.

      There is no ethical delimma. You are being asked to open something by that something's owner. NOT cracking passwords would be wrong. Sorry, but there is an ethical dilemma. Because he holds the key.
    26. Re:Do it. by Ioldanach · · Score: 1

      Unfortunately the terms of service for some services specifically prohibits transfer of the account. Yahoo is particularly egregious, if they discover an account holder has died, the first thing they do is basically disable the account and set it to delete all its contents.

      Yahoo Terms of Service No Right of Survivorship and Non-Transferability. You agree that your Yahoo! account is non-transferable and any rights to your Yahoo! ID or contents within your account terminate upon your death. Upon receipt of a copy of a death certificate, your account may be terminated and all contents therein permanently deleted.

      So if there is doubt regarding the circumstances of the death, asking for a formal police investigation may be the only way to proceed, in order that the evidence not be tainted and external accounts not be deleted before evidence is gathered.

    27. Re:Do it. by voice_of_all_reason · · Score: 1

      He had passworded everything on his computer

      it is likely he wanted it to be found.

      lol wut?

    28. Re:Do it. by voice_of_all_reason · · Score: 1

      Technically, it opens the relatives up to charges because the laptop has just passed into their possession. Oops...

    29. Re:Do it. by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      They probably actually belong to his "estate".

      In other words, "those he left behind".

      --
      mcgrew's razor: Never attribute to stupidity that which can be explained by greedy self-interest
    30. Re:Do it. by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      Once you express an idea, it is no longer yours. Whether on paper or in a computer, if you write it down you should expect that someone some day may actually read it.

      Many people wish that no one will gain access to such intimate information, even after their death.

      Then they had better damned well express that wish to someone. You shouldn't assume without proof or witness that a person wished his papers private. If lacking evidence either way one should assume that either he wished them public or had no preference.

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    31. Re:Do it. by Deadstick · · Score: 1
      His worldly possessions, including his accounts and passwords, belong to those he left behind.

      They belong to his estate until such time as his property has been distributed to his heirs and the estate dissolved. Welcome to the world of laws and courts, and ignore them at your peril.

      rj

    32. Re:Do it. by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      I wasn't talking about law.

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      mcgrew's razor: Never attribute to stupidity that which can be explained by greedy self-interest
    33. Re:Do it. by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      If the guy has done something like viewed child porn, rape, murder, torture etc (probably repeatedly) or knowingly caused the death of someone online or other stuff (repeatedly), he probably doesn't want anyone to know.

      And my dad says "if frogs had wings they wouldn't bump their asses when they jumped, either." The biggest word in the English language is onlt two characters long.

      IF he didn't want anyone to see it, either he would have said something to someone.

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    34. Re:Do it. by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      He holds nothing. He no longer exists.

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    35. Re:Do it. by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      His estate IS "those he left behind".

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    36. Re:Do it. by DamienRBlack · · Score: 1

      There is no ethical delimma. You are being asked to open something by that something's owner. NOT cracking passwords would be wrong. Every one saying that opening his accounts is ethical hasn't thought this through. What about all the people who, thinking that he is gone, have sent emails of a private nature that they expect never to be read. If you think this is far fetched, (and it isn't, having myself had an unethical look-see at a dead friends gmail account) then what about messages that were sent while he was alive by people that are still living that were private. Secret lovers, sexual preference, bitter feuds... all this can come out about people who are still alive. These people care. Definitely unethical.
    37. Re:Do it. by Deadstick · · Score: 1
      Ummm, no. His estate is all the assets he owned, excluding certain items like property held in joint tenancy. It acts like an artificial person with most of the same legal rights and responsibilities he had in his lifetime. It may owe money and it may be owed money. It can sue and it can be sued. Its assets will eventually be distributed to various people, corporations and other entities in accordance with a large body of law. Once the estate has paid off the doctors and hospital that attended to his last illness, and the lawyers who probate the will, and his credit card bills and other loans, and quite a few other things, the executor (who may or may not be one of "those he left behind") will be permitted to distribute what's left in accordance with his will (or with still more laws if he didn't leave one).

      Of course, if somebody "leaves you behind" and you want to be responsible for whatever he owed, that's your business.

      rj

    38. Re:Do it. by ThreeGigs · · Score: 1

      His worldly possessions, including his accounts and passwords, belong to those he left behind.

      Um, close but no cigar.
      His MySpace account always has been and always will be owned by MySpace. Same with Hotmail and GMail, etc. Legally you cannot hack the passwords for those accounts. Now, if he had a domain, and paid for web hosting, that'd be different. Then you'd have a legal right to access those accounts. From experience, even writing in with a death certificate, etc., you won't be granted access to any of his online accounts from the big names. No GMail, Yahoo, MySpace, etc.

    39. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If this were 25 years ago, getting the passwords would be the same as reading the box of letters under his bed, or getting a message from the local self-storage to come pick up all his stuff because no one paid the bill.

    40. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Determining suicide or not is a job for an inquest and a judge, with all the powers and resources that come with that position. It's not the responsibility of some enthusiastic amateur, no matter how friendly they are with the family.

      Having said that -- as the parent says, there's no ethical dilemma here. He's dead, he no longer "owns" anything.

    41. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're forgetting that other people who are still alive may have personal messages in this guy's inbox or MySpace account. You're not just reading stuff that belongs to the dead person, you're reading confidential messages sent to him by trusting friends. Yes, this is unquestionably unethical. However, it may still be appropriate if it helps to work out why he took his life.

    42. Re:Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He exists in people's memories. And similarly in everything else he affected in the world. They would not seek the contents of his possesions otherwise.

      His body, too, continues to exist. Although it is no longer animate and instead becoming indistinguishable from its surroundings.

      Over time we all cease to exist. But usually it is a slow process. He exists, else we would not be talking about him. Even in the hypothetical, even though most of us do not know him.

      For instance, Plato still exists by his affect on our society and near all academic disciplines. Although by now it seems unlikely his physical body survives in any recognizable fashion.

    43. Re:Do it. by DiEx-15 · · Score: 1

      First let me say that I am sorry for your loss. I agree though that there is no ethical dilemma here because the family is asking for answers and your friend isn't here anymore to answer them.

      I suggest that you do look into your friend's computer and definitely get a court order to help get info from gmail and hotmail. That would work in order to prove that this isn't some sort of elaborate hoax.

      I sincerely hope that the answers will find resolution for yourself and the family of your friend.

    44. Re:Do it. by LittleBjorn · · Score: 1

      I see no glaring legal or ethical issues if the family is legitimately asking you to investigate.

      The only person's rights you would possibly be infringing upon would be the deceased, and the property rights (including all intellectual property) are now in the possession of the family (unless somehow contracted or willed away to someone else).

      As for the personal emails that other individuals have sent the deceased, they were voluntarily given to the deceased. If secrets were entrusted to the deceased, I would assume that email would not be a reasonably foreseeable means of keeping those secrets. Further, as far as criminal law goes, a person who gives information voluntarily and willingly given to a third party has no reasonable expectation of privacy (i.e., emails, phone number's dialed, garbage on the street, etc...).

      I'm not advocating one way or the other. Have the family pay for a lawyer to do a hour's research if they really want to know.

    45. Re:Do it. by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      You're forgetting that other people who are still alive may have personal messages in this guy's inbox or MySpace account

      And you're forgetting (as everyone seems to) that if you send someone an embarrassing email, it may become public anyway. He could have posted the details of his tawdry yet legal affair you had with your fat intern on conservapedia.

      If you want to keep something secret, don't tell anybody.

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    46. Re:Do it. by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      A memory of someone is not that someone. A person is far more than his body.

      Plato does not exist. All that is left is memories of memories of memories.

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  7. Cracking root password not necessary by pipatron · · Score: 4, Informative

    If you have physical access to his laptop, you can just boot with any linux live cd and mount the partitions without any access control. This will not work if he is using encryption, but unfortunately, few people do.

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    1. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by usermilk · · Score: 4, Informative

      Also, once you have access to his laptop files it is highly likely that he is already logged in to his social networking sites, gmail, hotmail, etc. If you're lucky he might have even saved the password.

    2. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by tgatliff · · Score: 1

      Exactly... I doubt he encrypted the partition, so if you just bring up the OS in single user mode you can pretty much get whatever you want. You can even reset the password if you choose.

      Even if he did encrypt his partitions, chances are he put the master key on a USB key somewhere. I suspect in his irrationally condition he was not thinking about proper security protection...

      Finally, I probably would try to brute force his root password just to find out what it was. It might help give you insight into his mindset at the time...

    3. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by Daas · · Score: 1

      Single-user mode ? Anyone ?

    4. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      The summary (did not read the article) states that there was no warning and good indications that accidental death was a possibility. They are after answers, not insights to his mindset.

      Just mount the partition with a liveCD, edit /etc/shadow (or /etc/passwd if he's a moron, which I doubt) and put your own password hash in.

      Of course if the drive is encrypted, you are most likely SOL.

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    5. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by Shadow+Wrought · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Google also tracks all sorts of web usage statistics for a logged in user, as well as from an IP standpoint. If you can get to the web the way he did you can probably find a lot of information on his previous searching habits, too.

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    6. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why not clone the cookies of his browser and put the replicas onto another computer account. I would hurry with that, if the cookies have a limited life time.

    7. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by auric_dude · · Score: 1

      You might be able to enter a fully encrypted Ubuntu system by changing the encrypted volume's password via this HowTo: http://ubuntuforums.org/showthread.php?s=0e63152c4ec03cb5696d99e8468cbfe7&t=670667&highlight=HOWTO%3A

    8. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by matt+me · · Score: 5, Informative

      Passwords in Firefox and Thunderbird are not encrypted, merely obfuscated. in edit / preferences / security / saved passwords in firefox it will display all passwords saved.

    9. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The parents both have good suggestions. Unfortunately, they're a bit vague on details.

      Here's a link that will show you how to modify the root password on the laptop: http://aplawrence.com/Linux/lostlinuxpassword.html

      I recommend the "linux init=/bin/bash" method if you're able.

      Once you've gotten root access, log in and change the password on the deceased accounts (if he had any. He might have normally logged in as root. Bad, but some people do it.)

      This site has general instructions on changing passwords at the command line (along with other info):

      http://lowfatlinux.com/linux-change-password-passwd.html

      Once you have his password changed, logout and log back in under his account. Startup X windows if it doesn't do it automatically (startx at the command line), and start up firefox. Using firefox, go to the social networking sites, and see if the browser auto-fills in the login or just lets you in (like gmail).

      Also, at this point, you should be able to look through the files, etc. I second the posts that say to remove offending material (unless directly related to his death).

      On distributions, like Ubuntu, that use sudo to access root commands you might have some issues with the above commands. I'd check with the forms for the installed distribution to make sure (you can tell them you forgot your admin password, and need to change it without reinstalling).

      Good luck. It's unfortunate business, but in my opinion, ethics are not the issue here, just technical knowledge.

    10. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by pipatron · · Score: 1

      Did you miss the part where he has to enter the current password?

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    11. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by Lars512 · · Score: 1

      If he has a bios password, he might need to get a service techie to reset the bios for him first.

      If there's more later that he needs access to, well, people often reuse passwords. There might then be a good case for taking the time to crack his root and user passwords to access other things (e.g. an online account not made in his real name). I'd also check his email for web-site subscriptions; he may reuse one or more passwords between sites too, and some will send it back in plaintext email.

    12. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I recommend against this because it destroys the original root password hash.

      Basically: the root password may be the same as other passwords.

      By keeping the password unchanged, you can attempt to run a password cracker later to find out what the original root password was.

      If you change the root pw without backing up /etc/shadow, then you have permanently destroyed that piece of information.

    13. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      True unless the passwords are ENCRYPTED with a MASTER PASSWORD.

    14. Re:Cracking root password not necessary by gumbo · · Score: 1

      Passwords in Firefox and Thunderbird are not encrypted, merely obfuscated. in edit / preferences / security / saved passwords in firefox it will display all passwords saved. They're only unencrypted if you don't turn on password encryption, which everyone should do. Set a master password, and then your saved Firefox passwords aren't available for the taking for anyone who happens to get access to your hard drive.
  8. No need to crack root... by Nutria · · Score: 4, Insightful
    Just boot it with a LiveCD, and it's all yours.

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    1. Re:No need to crack root... by martijnd · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Then try to get Firefox to start up with the original profile. You might be able to automatically login to his Gmail/Hotmail etc accounts.

    2. Re:No need to crack root... by gzipped_tar · · Score: 1

      This is feasible only if you can boot from his CD. Many people (me included), for security concerns, use a password to protect the BIOS settings and make it default to boot from local harddisk. In that case, you should crack his BIOS also. If this is true, you can still open the machine and remove his hard disk, mount it on your own machine, if the HDD is not encrypted.

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    3. Re:No need to crack root... by snowraver1 · · Score: 1

      Or simply reset the CMOS on the motherboard. BIOS passwords are useless.

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    4. Re:No need to crack root... by elrous0 · · Score: 1

      BIOS passwords are useless if you have physical access to the machine. It's a simple pin jump to clear it.

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    5. Re:No need to crack root... by Petaris · · Score: 1

      You can reset the BIOS too. Then you can clear the password for boot up and BIOS config. Also once you boot a live cd you can mount the root partition, chroot into it and reset the root password. ;) I've had to do that to reset a corrupted password before. If its a laptop its not always easy to find a box to hook it up to, or the IDE converter, maybe thats changed with SATA laptop drives though.

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    6. Re:No need to crack root... by Nimey · · Score: 1

      Assuming this guy didn't encrypt anything. He could have encrypted individual files or the entire /home filesystem.

      If he used a decent encryption program & didn't use passwords that were obvious or left where they could be found, you're pretty much SOL there.

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    7. Re:No need to crack root... by Stonent1 · · Score: 1

      Once booted, blank out the hashes in the shadow file (after you back it up). Then boot normally and log in as him.

    8. Re:No need to crack root... by Stonent1 · · Score: 1

      Not always. Dell laptops do not have the ability to bypass it without desoldering the chip or calling dell and convincing them to give you the override password for that computer.

    9. Re:No need to crack root... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      his question is not how to do it but should he do it or not. I am pretty sure he knows how to do it.

    10. Re:No need to crack root... by crakbone · · Score: 1

      short the battery for a second or two, you wont have to desolder it

    11. Re:No need to crack root... by tmalone · · Score: 1

      The fat end of a metal key works well for this, or at least it did on all the computers in my high school ten years ago. :)

    12. Re:No need to crack root... by kilgor · · Score: 1

      Chuckled a little bit at the irony of cracking a dead man's computer with a LIVE CD.

    13. Re:No need to crack root... by Leebert · · Score: 1

      Unless there is a LILO password:


      LILO: linux init=/bin/sh

      ...
      sh-3.1.17# mount -o remount,rw /
      sh-3.1.17# passwd

      ...
      sh-3.1.17# mount -o remount,ro /
      sh-3.1.17# exec /sbin/init

    14. Re:No need to crack root... by smoker2 · · Score: 1

      Why do that ?
      Just boot up and edit the kernel commands when prompted to choose a kernel (or during the short delay before the kernel loads). Simply add a 1 to the end of the command line and hit return. The system boots in single user mode (root) from where you can change his standard user passwd.

  9. It's illegal by ta+bu+shi+da+yu · · Score: 1

    I'd not try to crack online services. His Linux laptop is fair game though. In fact, probably not that hard to crack. Just boot it in runlevel 1, then change the password.

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    1. Re:It's illegal by tgatliff · · Score: 1

      I agree... Also, why try to "crack" his online accounts, as a simple court order can give you easy access to these. And I dont think that getting a judge to do this for you would be very difficult unless the guy specifically expressed he didn't want this to happen...

    2. Re:It's illegal by darguskelen · · Score: 1

      Yes, it's illegal to crack online accounts. However, if you contact the hosting companies, they should have policies for when a member dies and their accounts are needed by others.

    3. Re:It's illegal by LiENUS · · Score: 1

      Don't change his password, crack it and try it on his online accounts.

    4. Re:It's illegal by pla · · Score: 1

      I'd not try to crack online services.

      In similar cases in the past, online services have almost ubiquitously refused, until compelled by a court order, to help the next of kin access the deceased's account. Don't even bother asking - They'll just lock the account, preventing any attempts at cracking it.



      It's illegal

      IANAL, but no legal or ethical issue exists here (his heirs now "own" those accounts) - I see this as no different than helping a friend crack their own account after forgetting the password); other than simply not wanting to get involved with a family's grief, no reason exists not to try cracking anything that may answer the family's questions.

      And I'd lay much better odds on his GMail or private MySpace account answering those, than that he left something useful on a laptop.

      Consider your own machines and accounts - Or, take me as an example, if you like. For my laptop, everything even remotely personal on it lives in a TrueCrypt volume, with the password written nowhere except my own brain; and before I discovered TrueCrypt, I simply didn't keep anything personal on my computers at all. On my primary home PC, you'll find plenty of stuff my family wouldn't want to see (*cough*porn*cough*), but again, almost nothing personal. If, however, you look at my GMail accounts, you can find out pretty much everyone I know, most of my business dealings (excluding actual financial details, of course), most of my hobbies and interests, and probably something (not necessarily relevant, of course) from the previous few hours of my life.



      His Linux laptop is fair game though. In fact, probably not that hard to crack.

      Despite what I wrote above, I too would start with the laptop. At the very least, his browsing history will tell where he has gone recently. And if lucky, he lets his browser automatically log him in to most of the sites he visits, making "cracking" his online accounts as trivial as logging in as him and firing up FireFox.

    5. Re:It's illegal by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      You are assuming Ubuntu. All other distros that I've used (several) need a root password to access level 1.

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    6. Re:It's illegal by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      All other distros that I've used (several) need a root password to access level 1. Just add init=/bin/sh to the grub command line. Unless he has a grub password (very few people do...), this should let you in. I've helped numerous people back into their computer this way.
    7. Re:It's illegal by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      Hmm, that is good to know. I assume the MD5 hash you can save the grub password as is safe?

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    8. Re:It's illegal by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1
      Having a grub password at all (even if stored as cleartext) would be safe against this attack.

      However, as other people pointed out, the machine might still be cracked by booting off a CD (here a BIOS password would help), or by mounting the disk into another computer (here only the encryption of the whole partition might help. Just encrypting the grub password would be useless, as the attacker can directly go to the data that he wants.)

      So, hmmm, I cannot really think about an attack scenario where MD5 hashing the grub password might help...

    9. Re:It's illegal by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      That I understand. But any user who can get into the system enough to read /boot can read that hash, and if they break it they could (probably) set init as anything they want, which could exploit a potential flaw on some kind of security scheme.

      If I knew what said flaw in hypothetical scheme was, it wouldn't be so much of an issue. I'm just wondering if the hash itself is safe.

      but that brings up another point... what stops someone from booting from something else and just editing the grub config to remove the password? Doesn't seem that there is any real way to secure a system on boot from local access.

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    10. Re:It's illegal by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      That I understand. But any user who can get into the system enough to read /boot What do you mean by read/boot ? If you mean "read the hash", then presumably he is already root (I'd expect that the file containing the hash or cleartext password would be read-protected and owned by root at least!)

      If, on the other hand, you mean "get to a boot prompt", well, if grub is password protected, it won't allow you to read any file off the system either.

      If you mean something else, please explain what...

      I'm just wondering if the hash itself is safe. A hash collision has been found in MD5 (http://www.cryptography.com/cnews/hash.html). That means that somebody has produced two distinct messages which hash to the same value. However, this does not mean that he has an algorithm to produce a twin for any given text, or to produce a message for hash ("preimage attack"). So, it's still safe for the purpose of password hashing...

      what stops someone from booting from something else and just editing the grub config to remove the password? See my earlier message about that.
    11. Re:It's illegal by X0563511 · · Score: 1

      /boot, which (usually) contains the grub files (the has is stored in the grub menu config file) is USUALLY readable to all. Ubuntu/debian and friends usually store that as /boot/grub/menu.lst. The password hash is saved in the line "password --md5 HASHVALUEHERE" or, without hash, as "password PASSWORDVALUE" and the boot stanzas are proteced with "lock" if they require the password to be used.

      Thanks for the link to the MD5 collision info. Indeed, it still works for passwords.

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    12. Re:It's illegal by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      /boot, which (usually) contains the grub files Ok, I understood you now.

      Ubuntu/debian and friends usually store that as /boot/grub/menu.lst Well, in that case, you can protect just that one file.

      But then, as grub supports md5, you can just use it on top of file protection. It doesn't cost anything, even if it doesn't bring much either. And does help soften the blow if ever a kernel upgrade or something else accidentally leaves the menu.lst file world readable...

    13. Re:It's illegal by ta+bu+shi+da+yu · · Score: 1

      Early versions of Fedora didn't.

      However, you could always just rip out the hard drive and mount it on another Linux laptop.

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  10. Don't bother by bconway · · Score: 4, Informative

    How ethical would it be to, say, try to crack his root password in a situation like this?

    Take 5 seconds to boot into single-user mode, or mount the disk elsewhere sans password.

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    1. Re:Don't bother by nick13245 · · Score: 1

      Before you do anything, I'd make an image of all his computers, before doing anything with them. Just in case you accidentally delete something, you're not gonna have a chance to get that data back. The best way to work with the his machine (although this may not be entirely practical), is by mounting the image through a write block device. This will prevent any data from being written to his hard disk. I'd also make image the drive using the write block device. You can purchase a write block device, or if you can't afford it, just use Linux when mounting the drives and make sure you mount them read only. With regards to his Linux machine, just make sure you just don't clear his password hash to login. A lot of people use the same password for their machine, that they use on their online accounts. You should be able to use a tool like John the Ripper to crack his Linux passwords. If he used a Windows machine, it's a simple matter of dumping the lm hashes from the SAM file (if he was using Windows XP) and sending them through some rainbow tables. Since lm hashes are limited to under 7 characters, you should be able to crack it using a good set of rainbow tables in a few minutes (you can either purchase these online, or download them. You'll want a table that has a decent character set like Alpha-Numeric-Symbol-14-Space). Or you can just brute force it, and it should take under two weeks on a decently fast machine. Also, on any machine (linux or windows), just look around. See if there are any files that have his passwords stored. Look at his web browser. Check the history, and see what sites he's been to, Firefox or IE might have stored his passwords, in which case they can be easily recovered. Also, for windows there's a "protected storage" area in the registry that stores lots of passwords. There's lots of tools that can read this and dump it's contents. Just remember, you don't want to alter or delete any of the contents on his hard disk. You just want to examine them, and see what you can learn. If all else fails, just get a court order and send off password reset request...

    2. Re:Don't bother by Digital_Quartz · · Score: 1

      Erm... He said "How ethical?", not "How fast?". Believe it or not, these are not the same things.

    3. Re:Don't bother by ckthorp · · Score: 1

      Also, when you fire up the computer, disconnect it from the network (to stop NTP from "fixing" the clock) and set the clock back to the last-known login date and time. This will prevent the browser from clearing the cache and expiring the history.

    4. Re:Don't bother by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The article's about ethics, but if you honestly care about maintain information you should never boot the computer, but mount the disk read-only on another computer. Your trick is half assed.

    5. Re:Don't bother by rastoboy29 · · Score: 1

      Read his question more carefully, and try again.

      He said "ethical", not "difficult".

    6. Re:Don't bother by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      5 seconds? what distro are you running?

  11. eh? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    A good friend of mine had her younger brother apparently commit suicide last week

    You do realise that, in English, this sentence means the brother committed suicide at her behest, right?
    1. Re:eh? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe they are Japanese. I'm going to hell!

    2. Re:eh? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A good friend of mine had her younger brother apparently commit suicide last week
      You do realise that, in English, this sentence means the brother committed suicide at her behest, right?
      If he's having trouble with the the word "had" and all that it implies, what makes you think he'll understand "behest"?
  12. yes, but with conditions by whitroth · · Score: 1

    I'd say yes... but with sharp conditions: the *only* thing you look for are his words that might relate to his death. No just wandering around, looking for pr0n, or anything else. Intimate talk with someone... that's a *very* gray area, since loosing someone could have pushed this... or not.

    You, personally, should you take this job, should *only* tell *anyone* what you found that was relevant, and nothing else.

    Ever.

                mark

    1. Re:yes, but with conditions by eln · · Score: 4, Funny

      If this guy was any kind of good person at all, I'm sure he would have wanted to share his porn collection with the world after he was gone. Sure, maybe you shouldn't tell anyone where it came from if it's got porn featuring midgets, grannies, horses, or especially all three at once, but you should still post it on Slashdot^W^W^W^Wgive it to his close friends.

    2. Re:yes, but with conditions by jafiwam · · Score: 1

      I would think the same code that applies to dealing with a child's computer when you are helping the parent would apply here.

      In that situation, I always ask "how much do you want to know?" and let them decide if they want me to reveal the particular flavor of porn or whatever else they were in into.

      I've never had a parent say "i want to know", it's always "fix it and let them keep their privacy".

      That said, the goal is not just to recover a 1099 form or something, the goal is a peek into what someone was thinking. In that case, data from just about anywhere might be relevant.

      The thing is, all parties involved should go into it knowing and agreeing what the case is on that, rather than having the geek go looking, share, and then get bad feelings because that's not what people expected.

      That said... once the information is gained, the data should be wiped, not harvested for what might be useful for a geek later.

    3. Re:yes, but with conditions by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      I would think the same code that applies to dealing with a child's computer when you are helping the parent would apply here.

      In that situation, I always ask "how much do you want to know?" and let them decide if they want me to reveal the particular flavor of porn or whatever else they were in into.

      I've never had a parent say "i want to know", it's always "fix it and let them keep their privacy". A very smart approach. When I was younger I had some "adult images" on my computer that the technician found (this was pre-internet. I'd grabbed these off of local BBS's). They immediately called my mother to report it to her. While I was punished for this myself (afterall my mom now knew it and had to act on it), he was promptly chewed out as well for sticking his nose where it didn't belong.
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    4. Re:yes, but with conditions by esocid · · Score: 1

      If you've ever seen that british show coupling, you should know what a porn buddy is. And no, it isn't someone who watches porn with you. It's a friend who will go into your home and remove all your porn before you family has to find it. Sounds like a good job for the subby.

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    5. Re:yes, but with conditions by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      When I was younger I had some "adult images" on my computer that the technician found... Fortunately these were image of the opposite sex. Just imagine what could have happened if that was not the case, coming out is already hard as it is, it doesn't have to happen that way...

    6. Re:yes, but with conditions by Barny · · Score: 1

      Well, as a comp tech, my policy is "Don't search" and if you do accidentally find it while backing up data (yeah, I have to trawl through docs'n'settings a lot) "Don't look" and frankly "Don't care" flows on from either of those.

      Yes I have accidentally seen stuff, it happens, unless the customer asks for details, I ain't saying anything (excluding my requirement under Australian law to report child pornography), have had one case where the customer (the mother of the computer owner) demanded to know what a video file on their engaged daughters PC was, the resulting conversation about sea creatures and females was... uncomfortable.

      In short, I would recommend to the guy doing this recovery to have a member of the family present when accessing ANYTHING, and asking them before proceeding in anything (excluding technical process of course), that way there will be no nasty words or lawsuits later :)

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    7. Re:yes, but with conditions by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If this guy was any kind of good person at all, I'm sure he would have wanted to share his porn collection with the world after he was gone. Sure, maybe you shouldn't tell anyone where it came from if it's got porn featuring midgets, grannies, horses, or especially all three at once, but you should still post it on Slashdot^W^W^W^Wgive it to his close friends. totally agree.
    8. Re:yes, but with conditions by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Such a scenario has been catered for.

    9. Re:yes, but with conditions by viper66 · · Score: 1

      That show was awesome. I was just watching it on DVD last night, "The Melty Man Cometh".

    10. Re:yes, but with conditions by greysunrise · · Score: 1

      Plus, you can sell his lvl 70 Warlock.

    11. Re:yes, but with conditions by dreamer-of-rules · · Score: 1

      If it's gay porn, and he wasn't out, that is certainly relevant. Suicide rates among the young and in-the-closet are unfortunately high. My condolences.

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    12. Re:yes, but with conditions by wiredlogic · · Score: 1

      This was actually lifted from a SNL commercial.

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    13. Re:yes, but with conditions by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thats why before I die, must wipe Fedora and reinstall Windows.

  13. Providers providing passwords posthumously by ArcherB · · Score: 1

    , If I contacted places like Google, MSN, the university, and MySpace, what are the odds that they would give me access to any of his accounts? There was a situation similar to this where a soldier died in Iraq or Afghanistan and had emails to his parents on his Yahoo Mail account that were not sent yet. His parents wanted access to those emails but Yahoo refused to give the password up. I'm not sure how that one ended, but I believe that Yahoo gave in once the press got involved. Maybe google will help me out here.

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    1. Re:Providers providing passwords posthumously by ArcherB · · Score: 4, Informative

      Google is your friend! Here are some links to the story:

      Slashdot

      Another Slashdot.

      The Conclusion to the story.

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    2. Re:Providers providing passwords posthumously by gr8dude · · Score: 1

      How did they find out there were unsent emails in his "outbox" folder?

      Did he send them a letter to warn them an email is going to be on its way?

  14. what you'll need by corbettw · · Score: 1

    I've experienced something similar, and all I can say is that your privacy dies with you. Anything and everything you ever wrote, thought, or believed is now the property of your heirs (along with your other assets and debts). So good hunting, hopefully you'll find something that'll convince the insurance types this wasn't done on purpose (at least not by him). But make sure the family understands they may not like what they find out.

    As for getting access to his accounts, links to obituaries are useless, you'll need an actual death certificate, and possibly either a will or a ruling from a probate court stating that a certain person is to be given access to his stuff. That's how it works with banks, I imagine it's the same with email providers and such.

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    1. Re:what you'll need by djones101 · · Score: 1

      I've experienced something similar, and all I can say is that your privacy dies with you. Anything and everything you ever wrote, thought, or believed is now the property of your heirs (along with your other assets and debts). That is true if no will was prepared in advance. Wills do grant the power to transfer your assets, debts, and other such physical items to someone other than your heirs (look at all the trust funds setup after someone dies for starving children and the like). Also, should a will exist, it will still need to pass through probate, at which time someone (both creditors and heirs) can dispute the contents of the will and carve up the remains of the estate to their heart's content.
    2. Re:what you'll need by ICLKennyG · · Score: 2, Informative
      Not true, many debts and assets do not survive death. I agree in principal that there is little ethical delima in trying to open his digital life for closure of his survivors, but just thought I would indicate that many assets, debts, and obligations terminate the instant of death.

      The primary example here is credit card debt. The debt may reach the estate, but not the beneficiaries. I.E. I die with $10k in assets and $20k in debt. I leave a will saying everything goes to my son Jimmy. Jimmy will get nothing as the estate is consumed by the debt. But the $10k in remaining unsatisfied debt is not passed on, it is written down as a loss by the credit card company.

      Every provider is going to be different depending on use policies, jurisdiction, and security certifications desired by the party, however ultimately you can compell compliance through the method above. It doesn't hurt to ask, but expect to be turned down unless you have a death cirtificate and proof you are a parent (it seems from the article this was either a minor / major with no issue (wife/kids/etc).
    3. Re:what you'll need by vtcat · · Score: 1

      This is correct in most if not all US jurisdictions. Title to assets passes to the heirs upon death, subject to the claims of creditors (just like title to your car is in your name, subject to the lien of the bank).

      Legally, the search should be taken at the request of the administrator of the individual's estate. Also, the findings should be reported to that person, who can decide what to share with the rest of the family. If there are not enough assets to justify opening an estate, many US jurisdictions have a procedure for a "Small Estate" with simplified requirements which often do not require hiring a lawyer. Check with your local Probate or Surrogate Court or a local attorney.

      Ethically, the family/administrator has requested that you search for specific information, so there's no need to report embarrassing information unless it relates somehow to the death. A porn collection, probably not. Drug use, probably.

      At the administrator's request, you could reset the laptop's root password, then log in and open up the browser to see if the email and myspace passwords were saved. Make sure the police aren't still investigating before attempting this, or you could be tampering with evidence.

      If that doesn't work, the order appointing an administrator will go a long way in convincing any services that balk.

    4. Re:what you'll need by corbettw · · Score: 1

      Not true, many debts and assets do not survive death. The debts don't get passed on to the heirs, but they do get held against the estate (if any). That's what I was referring to when I mentioned debts surviving you. So basically, you stated you disagreed with me, then proceeded to offer an example of how I was correct. :)
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  15. I've often wondered about this myself by AbRASiON · · Score: 1

    What if I were to die in an accident or by my own hand or someone else?
    So many of us have our thoughts, feelings and memories digitally tied up in text, chat logs, emails etc.

    Is it ethical for someone else to have it? Yes it was meant to be private but that person is now gone, you could lose valuble memories for the rest of the family if pictures are not found.

    Example, I'm 30 and obviously a dork / geek (look where I'm posting) - the number of analogue photos of me after the age of 10 are slim at best, the quantity of digital photos of me that family and friends (which family know well!) have is pretty slim too.
    To be honest, in death I don't think I care who finds what in my stuff, I'm gone - it should be there for someone to take.

    Also on topic: how did this used to work previously? Lock boxes at the post office or bank, pin codes for bank accounts, car keys, safes, things like that?

    I honestly think it's a little sad that if I were to die, no one will flip through a nice book of pictures or read handwritten letters to or from me, they'll just have a DVD or two with some files on it, it doesn't seem the same.

    1. Re:I've often wondered about this myself by djones101 · · Score: 1

      As was mentioned above, a death certificate opens a wide swath of doors when someone passes away. Case in point is my grandfather, who just passed away last year. My mother was granted power of attorney before he passed away, but she also had official copies of his death certificate she would take with her to close out bank accounts, settle the credit accounts, etc. The problem is that it's a very long and laborious process (I'm still receiving mail for him, since I now live in his house, along with mail for his wife who passed away 5 years ago), and is something you only usually undertake (no pun intended) with official institutions, close friends, and family. Things such as high school reunion committees and Publisher's Clearing House tend to find their way into the trash can, since they're not worth wasting the postage on.

    2. Re:I've often wondered about this myself by thegrassyknowl · · Score: 1

      For those things that you don't want to waste the postage on I've heard that writing "Recipient deceased, return to sender" on the envelope in bold pen works quite well in getting the clearing houses and other junk to stop.

      Of course you would exercise some level of discretion there so as not to offend anyone.

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    3. Re:I've often wondered about this myself by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I honestly think it's a little sad that if I were to die, no one will flip through a nice book of pictures or read handwritten letters to or from me, they'll just have a DVD or two with some files on it, it doesn't seem the same.
      Touch wood and all but I'm fairly sure that that's a given.
    4. Re:I've often wondered about this myself by quanticle · · Score: 1

      Well, the standard thing to do is to file a will with the state. That way, if you die, you have a formal legal document spelling out your wishes as well as providing information that you wish your family to have. That information can include e-mail and online service passwords, computer passwords, etc.

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    5. Re:I've often wondered about this myself by leighton · · Score: 1

      I use this strategy on a regular basis, and it *usually* works. A few companies (Publishers' Clearing House, some singles company) simply will not give up, and it's very hard to get rid of mail addressed to "Resident." The Mail Preference Service also helps reduce the flow of junk.

  16. Go for it. by Rob+T+Firefly · · Score: 1

    As I see things, continuing to keep his secrets would not help anyone, while revealing them has a chance of helping those he left behind. I say, go for it.

    One document that's left for my family should something happen to me contains all my logins and passwords, as well as contact info for my most computer-able friends who will know what to do with it all. Your unfortunate situation would not have occurred had that person done something similar.

  17. Huh? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The only thing in that list in which the root password would be useful is the laptop, which you can just boot in in single user or even init=/bin/sh. Or remove the hard drive and access the data on another machine.

    His next of kin should be able to get his stuff from university easily enough - the same with gmail/hotmail/myspace though I would expect it to take them forever...

  18. Authorities by Mushdot · · Score: 1

    If the family don't think it was a suicide, surely the authorities would be brought in to investigate further, or have they already closed the case as a suicide?

    As for accessing his online accounts, again probably only the police would be able (if at all) to access that information.

    1. Re:Authorities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are more ways to die by yourself than just an on-purpose suicide. Sorry, but did he get off choking himself with a rope or huffing chemicals? Down that road silly Mushdot!

  19. Careful where you tread by realsilly · · Score: 1

    I understand you need to know, but you'd be stepping into a tough area to worm your way through.

    If the person was under 18, I think the parents would have better opportunity of getting access to these accounts with legal help. Probate courts might help also.

    I'm sure there would be some sort of precident for this situation.

    If you employ the help of hacks and get caught, even as justified your reasons are the reprecussions could be really ugly.

    Good Luck.

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  20. Dead people aren't here to care by Digana · · Score: 1

    He's dead. Gone. For all human purposes, ceased to exist.

    If you decide to not crack his accounts out of some sort of respect, then what you would be respecting would be your memory of him, not the man himself. He's not here anymore to care if you disrespect him or not.

    That being said, if you want access to his online haunts, my guess is that you would need something more substantial than links to obituaries. You would probably have to have some documents that demonstrate you're next of kin and a death certificate, depending how bureaucratic the companies that managed his information are (my guess is very bureaucratic).

    In order to rule out possible foul play (no suicide note?), I would say that you're morally obligated to do as much as you can to discover the circumstances of his death, or collaborate with the police to do it. If you find some brooding posts in MySpace, then you have good evidence that it probably was suicide. If not, get more suspicious.

    1. Re:Dead people aren't here to care by Jafafa+Hots · · Score: 1

      Stop it. You're being logical.

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    2. Re:Dead people aren't here to care by Digana · · Score: 1

      If this is supposed to be funny, then my sarcastometer is malfunctioning today.

      Otherwise, huh?

    3. Re:Dead people aren't here to care by ultranova · · Score: 1

      He's not here anymore to care if you disrespect him or not.

      So they all say. And then, one morning, they'll be found dead on their beds, their faces whiter than their sheets and locked into an expression of horror.

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  21. If you saw your friend again by Unlikely_Hero · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If you saw your friend again, would you be able to explain why you did it? Would he agree with your reasoning or would he feel you had violated his sovereignty? You can still respect him in death, what would he say?

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    1. Re:If you saw your friend again by Nimey · · Score: 5, Funny

      If he saw his friend again, he'd be more worried about protecting his braiiiins.

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    2. Re:If you saw your friend again by ThirdPrize · · Score: 1

      It not like his family (probably) haven't been through all his physical posessions looking for a reason.

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    3. Re:If you saw your friend again by esocid · · Score: 1

      Anyone who knows a thing or two would not use their real name for an email account used for any sort of content they don't want discovered. And no, I do nothing of the sort....

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    4. Re:If you saw your friend again by rob1980 · · Score: 1

      What sovereignty do you have when you are worm food?

      Answer: none.

    5. Re:If you saw your friend again by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If he saw his friend again, then that would happen after he died too. In other words, that would be after they both left this material world. And wherever that would be, they'd not care anymore about all this because it can't possibly mean anything to them anymore. But of course, this depends on what you believe happens after death. Just my two cents.

    6. Re:If you saw your friend again by avandesande · · Score: 1

      This is a nonsense hypothetical argument. All that is missing is an automobile analogy.

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    7. Re:If you saw your friend again by metamorphage · · Score: 1

      I wish I could mod you up past 5. Everyone seems to be concerned with the legal questions, but you're asking the right ones - this isn't a question of legality. One more to consider: what's more important, the rights of the deceased to keep possibly private information private, or the rights of the family to know what happened?

    8. Re:If you saw your friend again by darkmayo · · Score: 1

      Did your friend respect everyone who cares about him when he did this stupid selfish act? No he didn't, the least his friend can do is let the people who loved him have an idea what happened and potentially try to understand why he did it.

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    9. Re:If you saw your friend again by Junior+J.+Junior+III · · Score: 1

      If you saw your friend again, would you be able to explain why you did it? Would he agree with your reasoning or would he feel you had violated his sovereignty? You can still respect him in death, what would he say? OK, but what if you were asked to do this for a stranger, on a for-hire basis? What part does conscience play then? The explanation: "Someone said you were dead and paid me to crack your accounts." Is that good enough? What if someone comes to you and says they have something locked that belonged to a dead person? Do you just believe that the previous owner is deceased? Or do you require proof?
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    10. Re:If you saw your friend again by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As others have pointed out, legally everything the deceased used to own now belongs to his next of kin. It really is -their- decision. So, if he refuses, they might just find someone else to help them out, especially with money at stake and funerals are pretty expensive. I'm sure the deceased would not have wanted his family to go into debt as a result of him dying in an accident.

      The best way to protect his late friend's privacy would be by going through everything himself and only then turning it over to the family, instead of letting someone else handle it who might have slightly less concern about his friend's right to privacy.

      One more thing, how does this work legally? If he goes through these files and finds absolutely no evidence of suicidal tendencies, will that really help? Or will that just be ignored? Will any such evidence be admissible, even if it is accessed in an unsupervised situation? It will be much harder to argue after the fact that nothing was deleted or removed.

    11. Re:If you saw your friend again by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Rights are a legal issue. I suspect you are thinking of ethics. However, on of the most important rules for evaluating ethics is who you harm. You can't harm a dead person only the family. If you really want to frame this as a rights issue, then it's about law and the family owns his possessions (I assume he didn't have a will). Either way, what is done is what's best for the remaining family and the dead is largely irrelevant.

    12. Re:If you saw your friend again by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I used to request they bring me the deceased heart as proof, but one time they gave me a deer's heart instead. Oh my was that a mistake. I ended up eating poisoned apples in a magical forest inhabited by seven midget mineworkers.

    13. Re:If you saw your friend again by Culture20 · · Score: 1

      This is a nonsense hypothetical argument. All that is missing is an automobile analogy. This situation is no different than if your friend died after hiding his car keys. The car now falls to his heirs, and they are asking a locksmith (and maybe some P.I.'s) to open the car door for them.
    14. Re:If you saw your friend again by ktappe · · Score: 1

      If you saw your friend again, would you be able to explain why you did it?
      First of all, why are you pondering a moot question? Because it is certain he will not see his friend again, fettering his actions with this impossible scenario is illogical and obfuscative. But for a moment let's consider the question as if it weren't moot: If he did see his friend again, it's the friend who would have answering to do, considering how selfish an act suicide without a note is. Going thru his e-mails, even if it is immoral which I do not grant, pales in comparison to the suicide act. Further, going through the e-mails is a direct consequence of the suicide--if the friend didn't want those e-mails gone through he could have deleted them before killing himself or just maybe not killed himself.
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    15. Re:If you saw your friend again by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've not laughed that hard in a while, cheers!

    16. Re:If you saw your friend again by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nothing, he's dead. I don't see why that is hard to grasp for some people.

    17. Re:If you saw your friend again by Walter+Carver · · Score: 1

      That is an psycho-analitical comment :-P

      But, seriously, I agree with this point of view.

  22. Not a moral issue. by jcr · · Score: 1

    The deceased no longer owns anything, his heirs do. If his heirs want your help, there's no moral issue at all in doing so.

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    1. Re:Not a moral issue. by maxume · · Score: 1

      Sure there is a moral issue. If someone pays you to murder someone, you are still responsible for your actions. This is no different.

      The fact that the property now belongs to the heirs probably sets aside any legal issues, but being legal doesn't make something moral.

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    2. Re:Not a moral issue. by jcr · · Score: 1

      If someone pays you to murder someone,

      WTF?

      What does this have to do with the question at hand?

      -jcr

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    3. Re:Not a moral issue. by maxume · · Score: 1

      It's an example of doing something for someone else that is obviously not moral.

      You stated that it was moral to help the family simply because they asked. That isn't the case (it certainly could be moral, but the fact that they have the legal right to the information and have asked for help in obtaining are not the only considerations).

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    4. Re:Not a moral issue. by jcr · · Score: 1

      You stated that it was moral to help the family simply because they asked.

      Reading comprehension isn't your long suit, is it?

      I said that the deceased no longer owns the property in question, his heirs do. The question is whether it's moral to help the owners of the property to gain access to that property, which it obviously is.

      -jcr

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    5. Re:Not a moral issue. by maxume · · Score: 1

      It's my pin-striped suit.

      Your belief that the passing of the property to the survivors sets aside all moral issues regarding the deceased doesn't necessarily apply to everybody else. I would agree without hesitation that any professional code of ethics would have no problem with helping the survivors gain access to their property, but that's not what morality is about.

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    6. Re:Not a moral issue. by jcr · · Score: 1

      all moral issues regarding the deceased

      I don't know what kind of package deal you're trying to make here, but I was talking about access to property which had belonged to the deceased, and NOW belongs to his heirs. I have no idea where you came up with the rest of the things you're trying to bundle up with it.

      -jcr

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    7. Re:Not a moral issue. by maxume · · Score: 1

      I'm not trying to make any package deal. Given that it is the internet, I should have written "all moral issues regarding the property of the deceased".

      Decrypting information that happens to be stored on the property is like sharing a secret that your friend only told you, not like his mom reading a paper journal. The issue is muddled, not clear.

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    8. Re:Not a moral issue. by jcr · · Score: 1

      The issue is muddled, not clear.

      The issue is perfectly clear. The property rights of the deceased pass to his heirs.

      -jcr

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  23. Two possibilities by GlobalEcho · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Well, if it was suicide, and there was anything he didn't want people seeing, then he had his chance to delete it. If it was not suicide then I think you have to tread more carefully, but in the end the dead have no right to privacy (or reason to care).

    For FSM's sake, though, take a moment to "accidentally" delete his porn and such while you are going about this. That's just basic courtesy.

    1. Re:Two possibilities by smellsofbikes · · Score: 1

      Tangentially, I have a number of friends who have pacts with each other to try to make sure it's a friend who shows up first, and cleans out the things the family doesn't know about, generally involving a list of logins/passwords. If you have friends you trust, it's not a bad idea.

      Beyond that, I think it's critically important to have a will and a listing of investments and contact information for those investments. When my dad died, it took us over a year just to figure out what he had and where, and it was incredibly difficult -- effort you probably don't want to force your bereaved family to expend.

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    2. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For FSM's sake, though, take a moment to "accidentally" delete his porn

      Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Let's not do anything drastic.

    3. Re:Two possibilities by Colonel+Korn · · Score: 1

      the dead have no right to privacy (or reason to care). Okay, let's make a deal. I'll buy your argument, if in turn you agree to let me, on the day of your death, make everyone in the world think you were a horrible person and hate you for all time. Your family will wish they had never had anything to do with you. Your friends will be revolted to think that they ever met you. But it will be fine, because you won't be there to notice, right?
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    4. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      no right to privacy != right to make wild accusations

      Feel free to make everyone in the world think you were a horrible person and hate you for all time, if you find evidence to fit this claim.

    5. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do not assume someone who has committed suicide has put a lot of thought into other aspects of their decision, such as whether a cracker might go into their computer files. Also, suicide can be the end result of a deep depression. That depression can be acute (sudden onset) or slowly develop over a long time. There is no one way about these things. But, as with any disease, complications may develop suddenly, and the individual afflicted may not be prepared. Things can happen that are not expected, for many reasons. People who go to the hospital with a terminal illness often do not even do the basics when it comes to estate planning. So do not assume he would want anyone else to see his computer files. He may not have even thought about it. And that does not equal consent.

      I agree about the porn, although burning it to disc as archive is something I am sure any collector would approve.

    6. Re:Two possibilities by Bryce · · Score: 1

      For FSM's sake, though, take a moment to "accidentally" delete his porn and such while you are going about this. That's just basic courtesy. Not to mention a good way to put yourself on any suspect lists that might come up.

    7. Re:Two possibilities by DerekLyons · · Score: 1

      For FSM's sake, though, take a moment to "accidentally" delete his porn and such while you are going about this. That's just basic courtesy.

      It's also against the law - the contents of the hard drive belong to the estate.
    8. Re:Two possibilities by rrkap · · Score: 1

      For FSM's sake, though, take a moment to "accidentally" delete his porn and such while you are going about this. That's just basic courtesy.

      I was thinking that it would be far more lulzy to copy it to several digital picture frames and set them up around the memorial service.

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    9. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The first thing to find out is if there is still an open investigation being done by law enforcement. If there is, delete nothing and hand the equipment in question over to them for forensic analysis. Anything you do the system taints the evidence and has the posibility of making law enforcement wonder why you were deleting/changing anything. It also could make for reasonable doubt if the death is found to be a homicide and they put a suspect on trial.

      If as far as law enforcement and the medical examiner is concerned it was a suicide -- accidental or otherwise -- then what you delete or provide is between you and the family.

    10. Re:Two possibilities by OrugTor · · Score: 1

      Deleting data is unacceptable. The mission is to expose such information that would shed light on the death. Expose that which is relevant and leave the rest alone.

    11. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For FSM's sake, though, take a moment to "accidentally" delete his porn and such while you are going about this. That's just basic courtesy. Or make copies...
    12. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >but in the end the dead have no right to privacy (or reason to care).

      Hey, same thing for property, justice, etc. So, if I want ANYTHING of yours I can just kill you and then reason you don't have any reason to care about now being dead, now having lost your possessions to me, etc. So...when do you get your paycheck?

    13. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      in the end the dead have no right to privacy (or reason to care). But I'm dead and I care, you insensitive clod!
    14. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You post, therefore you are.

    15. Re:Two possibilities by WormholeFiend · · Score: 1

      It's also against the law - the contents of the hard drive belong to the estate.

      If it's pirated pr0n (or other pirated media), the estate definitely does not own it and can be deleted.

      If it's self-made pr0n, sure, the estate would own it, but how awkward would that be? (Or not awkward, you never know)

      If I was in the position of the password cracker and I found some self-made pr0n, I would at least put it all in one folder and label it accordingly, so that the estate can delete it all in one go if it's too unpalatable to them.

    16. Re:Two possibilities by cyberfunkr · · Score: 1

      Do NOT delete anything!

      If the whole point of this was supposed to be for discovery. If you delete the porn, then who is to say you didn't delete the email that confessed to the suicide?

      Good or bad, you have to leave everything intact if you expect to use any of these as "proof". Although it's beyond me how any of this will "prove" it's an accident.

      If it was an accident, then there will be nothing out of the ordinary.
      If it was suicide, and they left clues to the suicide, then it can at least prove what's already been decided.
      But a lack of suicide note in meat space, and lack of note in cyber space, does not mean they did not wanted to kill them self.

    17. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For FSM's sake, though, take a moment to "accidentally" delete his porn and such while you are going about this. That's just basic courtesy. And by "delete" I assume you actually meant "move to your own hard drive", right? Otherwise that's just a load of crazy talk!
    18. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For FSM's sake, though, take a moment to "accidentally" delete his porn and such while you are going about this. That's just basic courtesy.

      Not before making a backup copy, of course. Why let it go to waste?
    19. Re:Two possibilities by supernova_hq · · Score: 1

      Delete? DELETE? Try COPY!!!

    20. Re:Two possibilities by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's always the possibility that he hid an important clue stenographically in an image. I'd hold off on deleting anything right away.

  24. If you don't know; don't even try! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    This is IMO one of the silliest questions I've read on /. in some time now. Seeking help on /. for stuff like this is disturbing.

    But here is a well meant sound advice: If you don't know how to pull this off then don't even bother trying. Simply because in the process of "cracking" you might accidently destroy very precious data which another real computer expert would be able to retrieve. And should the family sometimes find out about a situation like that then you've really done some serious damage.

    For the record; you don't need to "crack" his root password on that linux box. Just boot using a rescue cd (knoppix, ubuntu, whatever) and you'll have full access. But seriously: leave this to someone who knows what he's doing.

    1. Re:If you don't know; don't even try! by diskis · · Score: 2, Informative

      Simply image the disk, and toy around with the copy. If you fail, make a new copy. That's how you learn data recovery.

    2. Re:If you don't know; don't even try! by bonehead · · Score: 1

      Most definitely crack his root and user passwords.

      I personally don't know of anybody who has a different password for each and every place they log in to. Myself as an example, if you were to obtain my password to my laptop, it would also get you into several of my online accounts. Of course, banking accounts and other important accounts get a better security effort than that, but, honestly, if someone manages to hijack my /. or digg accounts, it's not the end of the world. And, frankly, it's simply not worth my time to maintain a list of 100 different passwords to protect accounts that are just for fun and hold no critical personal data.

      So, yeah, in all likelihood, brute forcing the passwords on the laptop would probably open many, many more doors.

  25. Worth a try by Mutant321 · · Score: 1

    As far as the ethical situation, I think it's fine for you to go ahead and do this. Once someone is dead, their worldly possessions are handed over to their family. And since you have the family's blessing, you have nothing to worry about. This is one of the few situations where it's entirely ethical to access someone's private data.

    As for whether Google, etc. will help you... well, you can try. I would be pretty surprised though. They often don't help much with normal user requests, so this sort of stuff will be way outside the usual problems they deal with. University may be different though.

    1. Re:Worth a try by maxume · · Score: 1

      What if you don't agree that they family should have access to the data?

      It's ethical in a professional sense, but I'm not sure it is entirely ethical(i.e., the point can probably be debated).

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  26. IANAL... by gbrandt · · Score: 4, Insightful

    ...but...

    The belongings of the deceased become part of the estate. The estate, with a lack of a will, can go either to the 'state' or to the next of kin (depending where you live). The 'state' usually takes its taxes and give the rest to the next of kin. This means that the laptop and accounts now belong to the family (barring the EULA on myspace and google which, correct me if I'm wrong, state that the ownership resides with them). This means that you are cracking a laptop for an OWNER that no longer has a password (forgotten it, so to speak). There is no ethical issue here.

    Gregor

    1. Re:IANAL... by jesdynf · · Score: 1

      You've confused "legal" and "ethical". You've successfully demonstrated that there's no legal problem. You haven't spoken to ethics.

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    2. Re:IANAL... by MMC+Monster · · Score: 1

      Legally he is in the right to break the passwords on behalf of the next of kin.

      Ethically it seems fine by me, but I can understand how others feel it's a gray area.

      I personally have a few files on my system that are password-encrypted. Most (including my email accounts) my wife knows the password. There are a couple that she doesn't know the password to, for a very good reason. I would not want those files opened if I were to pass on.

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    3. Re:IANAL... by facemcgiblets · · Score: 1

      There is no ethical issue here. Your argument demonstrates there's no *legal* issue. The ethical issue remains - is it right to go poking around someone's private belongings; i.e., the stuff they don't want shared with anyone else?
    4. Re:IANAL... by nem75 · · Score: 1

      You haven't spoken to ethics.

      Of course he has. Allow me to point it out to you:

      There is no ethical issue here.

      You, on the other hand, have so far failed to show how this is not the case.

    5. Re:IANAL... by swillden · · Score: 1

      You haven't spoken to ethics.

      Of course he has. Allow me to point it out to you:

      There is no ethical issue here.

      You, on the other hand, have so far failed to show how this is not the case.

      An assertion is not an argument.

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    6. Re:IANAL... by MMC+Monster · · Score: 1

      I personally have a few files on my system that are password-encrypted. Most (including my email accounts) my wife knows the password. There are a couple that she doesn't know the password to, for a very good reason. I would not want those files opened if I were to pass on. Hence the ethically gray area, I guess. :-)
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    7. Re:IANAL... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree there's no ethical issue. There may or may not be a moral issue. But, the bigger question to me would be is there much chance of a benefit or will it just prolong the grief. I think whatever is found will just lead to more unanswered questions.

      My brother committed suicide 3 years ago. What was emphasized to me repeatedly in the support group I attended was that it really does no good to dwell on the "why" because I will never be able to definitively determine the answer. Asking "what if" I had done something different is another dead end.

      Your friends death is a tragedy that will probably never be explainable beyond some simple generalities (e.g. he had a depression problem). I think your friends' (and possibly your) time would be better spent with a counselor or a support group.

    8. Re:IANAL... by jesdynf · · Score: 1

      I'll not be trolled or bullied into trying to prove a negative. My original comment -- that the original poster had failed to answer the submitter's question (that spoke of ethics) with any information relevant to ethics -- stands.

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    9. Re:IANAL... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I disagree that there isn't an ethical issue here. I agree that if they get permission of the family they have as much authority as they could ever need. As you say, without a will stating otherwise, they *are* the owner. That's not the issue I'd be worried about.

      If I was asked to do this I would have a good, long chat with the family about the process, and remind them that you *don't*know* what you're going to find, and some of it may be unpleasant. I'm not talking about potentially embarrassing stuff (kinky porn?), which people will get over, but things that cut deeply. For example, what would be the reaction if you found out from e-mail messages or journaling that someone in the family had done something -- however small -- that finally pushed him over the edge to suicide? It could lead to some crushing guilt for the people involved, including for the person who ultimately uncovered the information.

      Or what if there was some other event which occurred that implicates someone from the family in something unsavory or even illegal? For the latter, you might even be obligated under the law to inform the authorities, and what a horrible ethical conundrum you would be in then. Worse, you would have the evidence in your hands and could be asked some pretty difficult questions about your involvement with its collection.

      Look, here's the point you may be missing: dream up the ABSOLUTE WORST POSSIBLE discovery, imagine several times worse than that (because it's unlikely you'll think of them all), and imagine that it all suddenly becomes real and you are in the middle. That is a possibility you MUST consider. You may be walking into a minefield.

      IANAL, in no way is what I'm describing supposed to be informed advice, and I know you are trying to help, but be very, very careful and make sure the communication with the family is as clear, comprehensive, and documented as is practical before doing anything at all. I'd be tempted to tell them that I won't do any searching of the contents for them, but only crack it open -- and I'd do it right there in front of them, so they would know that nothing inappropriate was done. It's up to them to look at what is there and deal with the consequences (i.e. take the "locksmith" approach).

      Digging out the information may find out the truth, but the truth can REALLY, REALLY, REALLY hurt sometimes, and even if you are ready for it some people in the family might not be, and you'll be blamed for uncovering it. Worst case, if they refuse to believe it, you might even be blamed for changing the data to look different from their expectations.

    10. Re:IANAL... by IronChef · · Score: 1

      I don't want to get into this specific argument, but I do want to say that "legal" is not always the same thing as "ethical." Don't blindly equate one to the other.

    11. Re:IANAL... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You've addressed the possibility of a legal issue, not the possibility of an ethical one.

    12. Re:IANAL... by nem75 · · Score: 1

      My original comment -- that the original poster had failed to answer the submitter's question (that spoke of ethics) with any information relevant to ethics -- stands.

      Question: "What's the situation legally, ethically etc. when I crack his accounts?"

      Answer: "Legally you are safe, ethically it is not an issue."

      That's a complete answer, like it or not. Just because you think that there is an ethical issue does not mean that anyone answering "in my opinion there is none" is not answering at all.

    13. Re:IANAL... by jesdynf · · Score: 1

      In my opinion, your statement is irrelevant.

      What?

      You expect me to explain why I've completely dismissed your statement? Present some reasoning as to why I've taken this position? Do, in fact, anything but just say your words don't matter and then speak about something tangental? (Bacon, by the way, is awesome, especially the maple kind.)

      If I fail to do so, would you believe that I'd failed to defend my position -- that my original statement was so content-free that it basically didn't speak to the issue at hand?

      That was my original complaint. Note that the complaint only merited the single line of text I gave it; this argument's grown a little longer than it really should've.

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    14. Re:IANAL... by n7ytd · · Score: 1

      When my grandfather passed away, my uncle's only advice to my grandmother was: "go to the bank, withdraw a bunch of money, and clean out the safe deposit box before they find out".

      Seemed insensitive at the time, but it was a prudent move for someone on social security who couldn't afford to have access to their (her) funds restricted at a time like that.

      Illegal? Ethical?

  27. simple by DragonTHC · · Score: 1

    mail or fax a copy of the death certificate along with the police report to whomever he had an account with. Explain the situation and I'm sure they will release the account to his parents.

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  28. Getting rid of passwords by ScepticOne · · Score: 2, Informative

    Boot Linux with init=/bin/sh, remount the root partition to readwrite, edit /etc/shadow to change the root password to be blank, remount / to readonly, reboot. If you login as him (similar method to blank his password), you might find that firefox (or konqueror if he used that) is remembering his passwords and logins.

    1. Re:Getting rid of passwords by jmv · · Score: 1

      ...and backup everything as soon as you got access to the HD content so you don't accidentally trash anything.

    2. Re:Getting rid of passwords by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is no need to edit /etc/shadow and blank the password you dumbass. Just type 'passwd' and change the root password to whatever you want.

  29. This reads like a sociology experiment.. by Tominva1045 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    This reads as if it were an attempt by a person working a maters's thesis to determine if a pro-linux, pro-privacy crowd would stick with their principles or instead defer to the humanity of helping a family get over a tagedy. Facinating...

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    1. Re:This reads like a sociology experiment.. by ScepticOne · · Score: 1

      If someone has made real efforts to make their system secure, they should have: a bios password (even if only on the bios settings), a boot loader password (so you can't tell the boot loader to add things to the kernel command line without a password), and will use a master password on their web browser if it is remembering login information.

      Anyone really serious would also have an encrypted hard drive.

      Against all this, you need a real professional. Not someone from whom you're likely to get free advice on slashdot.

    2. Re:This reads like a sociology experiment.. by haakondahl · · Score: 1

      To me it reads more like a Nigerian scam. "I am Doctor GuruGuru Samson, former Finance Minister of the Bank of WallaWalla. If you kind people will tell me how to break into Google, Yahoo, Hotmail, and Linux machines, that would be great."

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    3. Re:This reads like a sociology experiment.. by ClientNine · · Score: 1

      This reads as if it were an attempt by a person working a maters's thesis to determine if a pro-linux, pro-privacy crowd would stick with their principles or instead defer to the humanity of helping a family get over a tagedy.

      Given the shaky grasp of data integrity, control groups, and other scientific trappings usually displayed by the sociology crowd, you might be right.

      What makes this really smell like a soft-science thesis is that the whole thing hinges on the assumption that cracking a dead guy's laptop is inherently unethical. Which means the "scientist" doesn't understand the connection between pro-privacy crowds and the libertarian notion of "victimless crime isn't". In other words, the guy made a flawed base assumption that will totally ruin the integrity of his results-- and that is utterly typical sociology work.

    4. Re:This reads like a sociology experiment.. by miscz · · Score: 1

      Yup, it's easy to get everything you need once you have physical access to the computer, why would you contact Google if you can just change the user password and then do everything with his web browser which probably logs user automatically to all his webmail accounts.

    5. Re:This reads like a sociology experiment.. by DerekLyons · · Score: 1

      Slashdotters in general are very, er, 'flexible' when it comes to applying their principles to the real world.

    6. Re:This reads like a sociology experiment.. by Sylver+Dragon · · Score: 1

      You forgot pro-hacking.
      I'm willing to bet that the more technical savvy among Slashdot would be willing to point out hacking techniques and information, just for the asking. The assumption being that by exposing the flaws in the system, they will be fixed. Try passing off 'security through obscurity' as real security and you'll be lucky to make it out without a few burns.

      That said, assuming this is a real case, most of what is being asked for is easy and could be figured out with Google and a little logical thought.

      With physical access to the laptop, getting to the files is trivial unless they are encrypted. The steps for recovering a lost root password come up in Google really quick.

      The stuff from a University can be had by the parents for the asking. But it would have to be the parents with a Death Certificate, I can't see the University giving it out to a random person.

      MSN, Hotmail, MySpace, et al. have procedures for account recovery. If you know the account name and have control of the associated email address, resetting the password would be a matter of guessing the response to a personal question. Since the person in question is well known, this should be possible. Also, if you have the mailbox, the password may be lurking in it already.

      Also, I'd guess that MSN et al. has a procedure in place for this sort of thing. Email them and ask.

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  30. seriously by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My gut reaction would be to check with a lawyer to see if the family can request access to these reasons next of kin. The family could have very good legal grounds to get access to this information.

  31. Good qestion by broothal · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I don't have a good answer to your dilemma. However, it made me think. What is the best way to implement a Dead Man's Switch on personal data (laptop, online accounts etc). I for sure have some stuff that I wouldn't want anyone to see - even if I was dead (I was young and needed the money).

    BTW - Am I the only one having problems with the new Reply box? The nifty ajax based "preview post" always hangs and I'm forced to use the old one.

    1. Re:Good qestion by shadowcabbit · · Score: 1

      I wish I had mod points right now-- your question is good. I've been thinking about it as well.

      Part of the answer lies in an online storage facility. A power-off computer can't erase data, and if there's anything we've learned, it's that drives can be imaged non-destructively. You then have to make sure that said online storage is a) secure and b) can be controlled with a cron job etc. The obvious solution is a dedicated colocation host, but those trend towards the ridiculous end of the expensive spectrum depending on your reliability needs. You'd better be putting stuff like nuclear secrets or the like into a solution like that versus something slightly more mundane like your porn (no matter how kinky).

      The cheapest solution I can think of off the top of my head is to encrypt/TrueCrypt anything seriously sensitive, with a unique password only you know, and just swallow the inconvenience while you're alive.

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    2. Re:Good qestion by pla · · Score: 1

      What is the best way to implement a Dead Man's Switch on personal data (laptop, online accounts etc).

      Just store it using "real" encryption, and never write down the key.

      Yes, someday computers will advance to the point where they can crack it, but any interest in you will have long since vanished. Effectively, when you die and the key goes with you, anything encrypted with it reverts to nothing more than a random string of bits (for at least the next 20 years or so).



      BTW - Am I the only one having problems with the new Reply box?

      Nope - I have yet to get the damned thing to work. Haven't managed a single post using it, I always have to use the "old" form.

      Perhaps it would work better if I logged in before posting, but I almost never do - I read anonymously, and only log in when I post.

    3. Re:Good qestion by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      preview post seems to work okay for me

    4. Re:Good qestion by bonehead · · Score: 1

      I've actually given this some thought, and think I've come up with a pretty reliable plan.

      For performance reasons, I've left out encryption and instead rely on the data being stored on a physically hidden server. My suggestion is inside a wall in your house, where you can tap into the electrical wiring. This, combined with accessing the server over wifi means that there would be no visible cables to tip anyone off to the location of the server.

      Now add a script that will shut down the wifi connection if you don't log in and enter a password in 24 hours. Once this happens, bring the wifi back up for, say, 5 minutes at a time at specific intervals so you have a chance to abort the self-destruct sequence. If 7 entire days pass without you performing the abort, initiate a secure wipe of the hard drives, followed by powering down the machine. At this point, even the existence of the computer will go undetected until someone remodels the house, and it will contain nothing but blank, unformatted hard drives anyway.

      If you're concerned about the wifi being detected from outside the house, use a basement wall to hide the server in. I have an access point in my basement, and the surrounding soil renders it undetectable about 3 feet away from my house. Another thing that could be tacked on is keeping the wifi down normally, and bringing it up for a few seconds every 10 minutes or so to check for an indicator that you want to use the server. Would be simple enough to code a couple small apps to allow the server to poll your desktop machine to see if you've requested the wifi to stay up, and supplied proper credentials.

      All things considered, I think this plan would provide a pretty darn reliable way of making sure that your private data stays private, while also avoiding the performance penalties that would be inherent with encryption of offsite hosting.

    5. Re:Good qestion by ktappe · · Score: 1

      Am I the only one having problems with the new Reply box? No. It doesn't hang for me but it also will not allow me to enter multiple paragraphs--all CR's and LF's are removed and my posts become one long run-on paragraph. (This, for example, should be two lines down.)
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    6. Re:Good qestion by sheph · · Score: 1

      If it's something that you're ashamed of why don't you just delete it now. Not only that in this day and age where there really is no privacy it's worth considering that you wouldn't want to put anything on your system you don't want someone else to see as someone probably already has access to it now.

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    7. Re:Good qestion by deroby · · Score: 1

      Sure, and then you have a car-accident, spend 3 days in a coma, agonize the next 3 days about what to do next and eventually will need to choose whether to a) loose all the data b) let someone in on the secret and the 'activation' password.
      A week seems like a short amount of time in this case, then again, a month might be long enough to tip an 'investigative person' off.

      From a 'problem needs solution' point of view I like your plan (*), but I would change the 'self-destruct & power-off' into a mighty 'self-encrypt & lay low' process, using a self-destroying key that you have stored somewhere so unlikely that no-one else would come up with the idea to use it for that purpose... The first sentence of any given book might be a good idea, all words reversed and 133t capitalized for added bonus =)
      When you resurrect after a long time of absence you then still can get back to the data, although it might be inconvenient to get it back into it's "active" state. Like someone mentioned, maybe they'll find a way to decrypt the thing in 20 years, but in all likelihood nobody will care enough to spend the money and effort on it by then (**).
      Frankly, I'd be A LOT more concerned about losing the data when I'm "unavailable" for a while, than about making really, REALLY sure that everything is 100% gone when I die.

      *: if I'm dead, I'm dead and won't be able to care. My personal view on that topic aside, I have virtually nothing on my disks / accounts that would be 'life-destroying' if it fell into "the wrong hands", no (networked) computer is safe anyway.
      **: well, in my case I'd be very surprised if it wouldn't be like that; that said I most certainly don't want to look down on you or anyone else so please don't feel offended if you think otherwise.

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    8. Re:Good qestion by bonehead · · Score: 1

      You raise some very valid points. I guess the solution to be implemented depends a great deal on the nature of the data being protected. You would handle an embarrassing porn collection differently than, say, incriminating evidence that you, yourself, have been engaged in insider trading, which would in turn be handled differently than highly secret, irrefutable evidence that the head of the CIA has been embezzling from the government. (Ignoring for now the obvious question of why not just turn the info over to authorities immediately. For now, we'll assume there is a compelling reason that you have been forced to sit on it for awhile.)

      If you're porn gets wiped prematurely, eh, not the end of the world. In a case where losing the data would be truly damaging, a reasonably safe backup procedure could be put into place. Perhaps chop them up into 15 MB chunks, run through multiple levels of encryption, then email them to one or more gmail accounts via an anonymizing proxy. These gmail accounts have been, of course, set up from the an open wifi hotspot somewhere, and are untraceable to you. Depending on the nature of the data, I would be comfortable enough that nobody would ever make a connection between "0a8aff5a0f3@gmail.com" and my real life identity, particularly if I never access it through an IP that could be linked to me. Setting up a truly untraceable gmail account would probably require jumping through a few hoops, but I'm sure it could be done if the motivation were strong enough.

      Like you, I don't have anything on my computers that would be "life-destroying" if it "fell into the wrong hands". There are things, though, that I'd rather my mom not find if I were to die and she had to clean out my house. She's very old-school about a lot of things, while I'm much more open minded. There are aspects of my life that she simply need not know about.

      That said, your encrypt then shutdown solution would be entirely adequate for files that are merely "embarrassing". My original idea was spurred some time back by a discussion of how to store data in a way that would be undetected during a police raid (which I believe in turn stemmed from a conversation about recent RIAA actions and seizure of people's computers). The problem with encrypting the data is that a court could compel you to turn over the encryption keys. Wiping the drive means that there's nothing left to decrypt, although you'll probably have to resort to claiming something like "embarrassingly large midget-porn collection" to justify why you wiped the drives in the first place.

      That all said, this is all really just an interesting thought exercise for me. All of my data sits on unencrypted drives in computers that are in plain site. A few files might be embarrassing if the wrong person found them, but there's nothing I'm going to go to jail for.

  32. Legally possible by ingmar · · Score: 1

    First off: I am a lawyer, but not admitted to the bar anywhere in the US, so things might be different there. Generally, his heirs / estate should be able to get that kind of information. It probably involves notarized letters, perhaps even a court order, but it certainly can be done.

    As to his local linux box, unless he used encryption, that's fair game also. I see no moral problems with either.

    1. Re:Legally possible by TheRedSeven · · Score: 2, Funny

      First off: I am a lawyer... I see no moral problems... Mod parent -1 Redundant
    2. Re:Legally possible by zippthorne · · Score: 1

      My concern (I'm not a lawyer) would be chain of evidence. If the family friend gets the info and it proves it was accidental (not sure how, but the details were not revealed in the question), how can the insurance companies (or whomever would be paying for the funeral if accidental) believe it?

      I would think the best option, sadly, would be to pay whoever the police department uses to handle this type of evidence to take a look at the machine and email accounts.

      But as I am not a lawyer, I don't know if that's a valid concern.

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  33. A friend of yours? by wooden+pickle · · Score: 1

    "A good friend of mine had her younger brother apparently commit suicide last week."

    That's kinda crazy. My sister had me do lots of things I didn't want to do when I was growing up, but she never proposed suicide.

    1. Re:A friend of yours? by Porchroof · · Score: 1

      I was going to say something about that also. But I took the time to read the postings and found yours.

      Bad, bad English. But would you believe a lot of people think that way? That's why there's so much confusion in this world. No one knows what anyone is saying.

      But, hey, I'm told that spelling and grammar no longer matter in the modern world. I guess clear thinking also doesn't matter.

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    2. Re:A friend of yours? by gEvil+(beta) · · Score: 1

      But--But--But language evolves!!1!

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    3. Re:A friend of yours? by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 1

      Consider yourself lucky. Not only did my sister recommend suicide, but she even offered to write the note for me.

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  34. No by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It would be a huge invasion of privacy, even after his death, to go through all his private electronic information, he might have committed suicide for a reason he doesn't want to share with anyone else. I can't imagine losing a family member in such a way, but whatever they might find won't change the fact that he's gone, possibly even make matters worse.

  35. Be carefull by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Be very careful and prepared for what you might find...and let the family know, too. How will everyone react if you discover this person had a very dark-side and was into animal-sex, or gay-midget-porn? What would his mother think if there son ended up being someone they never really (or would want) to know?

    This reminds me of that movie with Robin Williams, where his job was to review the deceased's life images from a special implant. He would cut out material that might bring shame or embarrassment to the family.

    If it were me, I would seek the advice from law enforcement and probably talk to an attorney so you can be issued some form of legal trusteeship, or something like that. Imagine if you discover this person killed someone and you were the one responsible for it's discovery. Now the family sues you for trespassing or identity theft, some something like that.

    Just cover your ass and hope for the best, but be prepared for the worse.

  36. Do it by RiffRafff · · Score: 1

    ...this kind of stuff happens all the time (maybe not the suicide aspect of it). People die and their spouse has no idea how to access their financial records, etc. I've been called upon to dig that stuff out, too. I have no problem with it.

    I mean, after all, they're dead.

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  37. Go Ask Ashcroft by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The Department of Justice has everything on file...

  38. Passwords by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    First I would like to send my respects to you and the family. It is never easy to understand a situation like this.

    You will be able to crack the root password on the linux box easily since you are local. However gaining access to the remote sites such as Google, Myspace etc. Will be a little challenging.

    When you gain access to the root console try to boot x windows and see what stored passwords are available by simply visiting the sites he was a member of. If you can get into one of the mail boxes you maybe able to gain access to the rest of the accounts by sending yourself a password reset.

    You can also try to go through the secret questions menu that most popular sites offer and since you know the family and his habits, filling in the blanks shouldn't be to much of a challenge.

    If you would like some more help with this feel free to leave me a forwarding email address in your next post so I may contact you.

    Hope this helped.
    RMS

  39. Everything in Writing by necro81 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    If you do contact Google, MSN, etc., don't do it through electronic means. Don't even do it over the phone. Do it in writing. Yes, actual letters on paper sent via (registered) snail mail. Include copies of the death certificate, obituaries, etc. Don't use your name and address - you are nobody as far as legal standing is concerned. Channel all the communications through one of the parents - have them sign the letters, use their name and address.

    1. Re:Everything in Writing by SirSmiley · · Score: 1

      I had a colleague who lost his msn password (had it saved, had no idea what it was) and didnt setup alternate email address i went through msn recovery process and they send you some automated form, if you click on it , it tells you how to enter password to the secret question and if it worked, if not, please fill out some info to recover the password, the more info the easier to authenticate you Now this individual used his real name and real postal code to register so it made it easy...i put in his date of birth, postal code, name, and some email addresses that were on his contacts list. I think it also asked where his mother was born as one of his security questions. Needless to say i got a reset link and put a new password in, this took about 24 hours to complete from start to finish. Now if the individual didnt use any real info at all, you are screwed without a death certificate and a lawyer, but if you need into msn, give it a shot first

  40. Not to be indelicate... by syntap · · Score: 5, Funny

    A good friend of mine had her younger brother apparently commit suicide last week.

    ... but that sounds like a lot of words to describe a hit job. The political correctness is awesome though!

    1. Re:Not to be indelicate... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm glad I wasn't the only one humming the Soprano's soundtrack as I read the comments!

    2. Re:Not to be indelicate... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are usually symptoms to Depression, so you might not need to check his computer for evidence. If he gave away all his valuables to his friends, if he withdrew from things he used to enjoy, if he had wider mood swings... these things would be proof enough he took himself out. You wouldn't have to check his documents.

    3. Re:Not to be indelicate... by Cro+Magnon · · Score: 1
      It's especially interesting combined with this:

      there is some possibility that this was all somehow a tragic accident


      I think, if she HAD him commit suicide, it wasn't an accident.
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  41. FWIW by phagstrom · · Score: 1

    I do not see any ethical problems her. However if you start breaking into his online accounts, you may very well be faced with a whole lot of legal problems. As for the laptop, go for it. Privacy dies with the person IMHO. Same thing as when you read a dead relatives diary or something.

  42. Will? by Binder · · Score: 1

    Wether or not he had a will there will be someone who gains ownership of his possessions. In that case the laptop belongs to them... not to the deceased.

    As for hotmail et. al. you should probably hire a lawyer to pen a letter to the companies in question describing the situation. The transfer of ownership shouldn't be too difficult.

  43. sanitize his history and records by jollyreaper · · Score: 5, Informative

    In the military, there's the tradition of cleaning up a dead guy's locker before sending it home to his next of kin. Remove all skin mags, letters from local girlfriends if he has a wife back home, that sort of thing. Get rid of anything that might make them think less of the dead, they're already broken up about it as is. I'm sure the last thing this kid's family would want to find out about is his furry porn collection.

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    1. Re:sanitize his history and records by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No no no, if he was a furry then the family deserves to know, so they can burn all his belongings.

    2. Re:sanitize his history and records by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In the military, there's the tradition of cleaning up a dead guy's locker before sending it home to his next of kin. Remove all skin mags, letters from local girlfriends if he has a wife back home, that sort of thing. Get rid of anything that might make them think less of the dead, they're already broken up about it as is. I'm sure the last thing this kid's family would want to find out about is his furry porn collection. Wish i could mod the parent thread up, alas i am an AC.
    3. Re:sanitize his history and records by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If it was me, I would want to know where it was.

      After all, he could have had some good furry porn; Don't you think he would have wanted his family to enjoy it as much as he did?

    4. Re:sanitize his history and records by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sure the last thing this kid's family would want to find out about is his furry porn collection. Dude, crack his computer if ONLY FOR his furry porn collection.
    5. Re:sanitize his history and records by 10101001+10101001 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Get rid of anything that might make them think less of the dead, they're already broken up about it as is. I'm sure the last thing this kid's family would want to find out about is his furry porn collection.

      While I understand the feelings behind this, trying to hide the truth about someone to spare the family's feelings seems like a disservice to the family and to society in general. Should everyone think less of JFK if he was a furry porn freak? Or should people, possibly grugingly, accept that it was a part of this hypothetical JFK, and that as much as they might personally detest it, it's part of what made hypothetical JFK who he was.

      The fact that all the "bad" stuff keeps being whitewashed only furthers the belief that such things *are* "bad" regardless of how common it is--consider the open secret of marijuana and cocaine usage. Do realize, I'm not advocating to like furry porn or to use cocaine. I'm advocating the realization that there are a lot of things people do in their personal life that have very little influence over what they do in their public life. You can condemn a person for what they do in their personal or public life. But, perhaps, the realization that what people do in their personal life really doesn't hurt anyone and only affects them should really give more people pause to be so willing to condemn them purely because it has, in the past, been socially condemnable.

      Beyond that, whitewashing like that makes me condemn the military. It has the effect of one-on-one propaganda for the military, regardless of its intent.

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    6. Re:sanitize his history and records by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's not about white-washing history, it's about not rubbing salt in the wounds of those close to the deceased.

      "We regret to inform you that your husband has been killed in action. Oh, and he had sex with a hooker overseas three weeks ago while on duty. Have a nice day!"

    7. Re:sanitize his history and records by apt142 · · Score: 1

      I totally agree with this. The original poster should keep in mind that there are plenty of things in those accounts and on that computer that could potentially be damaging or embarrassing to the next of kin. Suicides tend to have more abnormal behavior before their deaths. So, the potential for this is likely to be higher than say an accident victim or a soldier killed in combat.

      Which raises the question: How much information is the OP willing to divulge to the family? By agreeing to access these account, the OP agrees to be a intermediary of some sort to the data. Whether that's handing over the keys or finding specific letters to the family.

      And that's a huge responsibility.

    8. Re:sanitize his history and records by Saint+Fnordius · · Score: 1

      Normally I would agree, but here it is still in question if the death was accidental or a suicide. Even the porn files could shed a light, and if anything were to be deleted the family would be left uncertain that maybe, maybe some vital piece of evidence was destroyed?

      Assuming he has power of attorney, he has an ethical obligation to help retrieve whatever records there are and not withhold any information. If he has no such power, then he should help the executors as best as he can within the legal framework of his country.

    9. Re:sanitize his history and records by mike2R · · Score: 1

      I disagree. In this situation what matters is the feelings of the immediate family; the effects on wider society can go take a running jump.

      Now it is definitely a big responsibility to take on yourself; to censor some things about the dead to avoid more grief for the family. But if you are in that position and find something you know will only make the family feel worse, then you have to make that decision.

      Exactly what you censor would depend on the people involved. Hopefully nothing, but you have to except the possibility you will find some very dark secret when poking through someone's effects, and be prepared to deal with it if it happens.

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    10. Re:sanitize his history and records by garett_spencley · · Score: 1

      I don't think it is reasonable for him to "filter" anything. He was asked to obtain information. IE: THE TRUTH. It is not up to him to decide what kind of information they should or should not be privy to. In fact, the way I see it, he should obtain access to the accounts and information in question on their behalf, but do no more than is required to fulfill that task. In other words, get them the files but don't read them unless it can't be avoided.

    11. Re:sanitize his history and records by couchslug · · Score: 1

      "I'm sure the last thing this kid's family would want to find out about is his furry porn collection."

      Don't be so sure. They might be in it. :)

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    12. Re:sanitize his history and records by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was gonna post, but this pretty much summarized it all for me.

      I'm sorta torn between this one, since the dead really don't give a damn, and the family does, but I still have a soft spot in my heart that says the dead still deserve dignity and privacy. Sanitizing things a bit is probably the most ethical thing you could do. But, note that there may be some hairy things you find in there that you will be troubled in sanitizing. That is, you may find out exactly WHY the suicide happened, but that exact reason may not be something the family really wants to know about. Gay relationship, guilt trip over a previous crime that was never convicted, or it may even be something seemingly silly and embarrasing like lament over penis size. I'm serious about this, people have been known to kill themselves for reasons much less than that.

      So my advice is, go for it, be ethical, and sanitize things. But be prepared in advance to know what to do (something only you can decide really) in the event that you find something you wish you never found.

    13. Re:sanitize his history and records by dpilot · · Score: 1

      We're not talking about any sort of historical figure here.
      Maybe the bar changes for this sort of thing once you're a public figure.
      Maybe such information does have historical import and needs to be preserved.
      But in this case, we don't have to answer those questions, because this is not a public figure.
      In such a case, the wishes of the deceased would come first, followed by the feelings of the family.

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    14. Re:sanitize his history and records by Schnapple · · Score: 2, Informative

      Should everyone think less of JFK if he was a furry porn freak?
      Should they? No. Would they? Uhh... yeah. J. Edgar Hoover has been rumored to have been a cross-dresser and it basically ruined his image forever. Nevermind that apparently it's not true, people just accept it to be true and that's basically the same thing (especially since people tend to take Wikipedia as gospel these days). It was even featured in one of the Naked Gun movies (people tend to take what's in a movie as the gospel as well).

      Now the J. Edgar Hoover thing is just a rumor and those are hard or impossible to stop or curtail (like the rumors that Lincoln was gay but in the case of stuff you can stop, I think you should. If the person that is the subject of this article is a furry (hypothetically, there's nothing about the story to suggest it, we're just throwing "what if?"s out there) it's one thing if everyone in town knows he's a furry, but it's another thing entirely if no one (outside of people who knew him by his Internet handle) knew it. Might as well keep that a secret, especially since, like the poster said, it would just be rubbing salt in the wounds.

      Yes, it would be wonderful if everyone could just accept what other people do but it would in all likelihood just upset the family more. It's like when you go to your grandfather's funeral and they go on and on about the good things he did, like build a treehouse for the local kids or how he taught Sunday School. They don't mention how most people thought he was an overbearing asshole and that he referred to anyone non-white by their corresponding racial slur. In their immediate death, you just focus on the positive aspects of their life.
    15. Re:sanitize his history and records by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Congratulations, most people would not have had the personal qualities needed to ask such a question. Proceed. As someone who has recently lost a family member unexpectedly I can truthfully say that knowing what really happened helped add closure to the tragic event. However, if your actions could have legal ramifications as regards the life insurance, then any such investigation needs to be conducted forensically, with every step taken and every piece of data recovered documented and verifiable. In addition you should make bit accurate copies of all data storage devices and work from the copies, keeping the originals untouched in case the insurance firms want to later independently verify your findings.

    16. Re:sanitize his history and records by Bob+The+Cowboy · · Score: 2, Informative

      Absolutely.

      Go read "Speaker for the Dead", by OSC.

      The truth of who someone was is important, and every scrap of that truth matters and will help you better understand them.

    17. Re:sanitize his history and records by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While I understand the feelings behind this, trying to hide the truth about someone to spare the family's feelings seems like a disservice to the family and to society in general. ... The fact that all the "bad" stuff keeps being whitewashed only furthers the belief that such things *are* "bad" regardless of how common it is

      If it was in the best interest of the family and society at large, why wouldn't the individual make such details public before death? More likely it does no disservice when private details are kept private postmortem. It has nothing to do with being bad, it has to do with the unknown intentions of the deceased. It stands to reason that if JFK didn't want people to know he was a furry while he was alive, he probably wouldn't want them to know upon his death.

      Beyond that, whitewashing like that makes me condemn the military. It has the effect of one-on-one propaganda for the military, regardless of its intent.

      Dude, you're confusing issues here. It's about brethren looking after one of their own, not military propaganda.

    18. Re:sanitize his history and records by mckinnsb · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I would agree with the parent post.

      Understand that if your going to crack into his laptop or recover his account information for his online services, you will be acting as an arbiter of knowledge (granted that you have permission) concerning the final moments before this person's death.

      A year ago my aunt committed suicide, and my mother asked me to crack into her laptop so that she could feel closer to her sister and understand more of what she was thinking before she died. I thought about it for a long time and then I went ahead and did it, managing also to recover her password. The password *itself* just so happened to be meaningful to the family, as was the desktop background she left up the day she died (it was a picture of her two children when they were young).

      On the other hand, when they asked me to recover deleted data, I decided not to return the deleted data (I actually denied that I could even do it), to the family. The reason was that she had written a lot of hastily thought out "hate notes" to some members of her family, and in the end she probably didn't mean what she said, because the text files were deleted.

      There weren't any "skin mags", but make sure that you don't hand over anything that will open old wounds - wounds that won't heal very easily, now that the person related to them is deceased. On the other hand, if you find touching things, hand them over.

      Also understand what this will do to you personally- it will put you in a position of knowing things that your family will not, if you have to hide things from them. That is its own particular burden, and its up to you to decide if you want to carry it. I did, but not everyone would make the same decision.

    19. Re:sanitize his history and records by jesdynf · · Score: 1

      While I understand the feelings behind this, trying to hide the truth about someone to spare the family's feelings seems like a disservice to the family and to society in general. Should everyone think less of JFK if he was a furry porn freak? Or should people, possibly grugingly, accept that it was a part of this hypothetical JFK, and that as much as they might personally detest it, it's part of what made hypothetical JFK who he was.


      If he managed to get Marilyn Monroe into a catgirl outfit, he's getting a 50' marble statue, no questions asked.
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    20. Re:sanitize his history and records by jackbird · · Score: 1

      J. Edgar Hoover has been rumored to have been a cross-dresser and it basically ruined his image forever. No, I think the whole running the FBI as his personal fiefdom; spying on and blackmailing the country's leadership; and generally trampling civil liberties for decades things did that for him. The cross-dressing was icing on the asbestos-and-plutonium PR cake.
    21. Re:sanitize his history and records by 10101001+10101001 · · Score: 1

      Should they? No. Would they? Uhh... yeah.

      I consciously wrote should instead of would for a reason. If we keep projecting how people will feel instead of how they should feel, we take towards projecting how they will feel as how they should feel. This, I realize, isn't a logic deduction. But, I believe it a valid observation of human behavior.

      J. Edgar Hoover has been rumored to have been a cross-dresser and it basically ruined his image forever.

      It's funny you say that because it only proves the point on two fronts. On the one front, by not being open, unfounded rumors can spread and be believed. And at the same time, Hoover wasn't ruined for the unethical and unconstitutional actions he committed, something that ruined many peoples lives and hurt society in general, but instead talk of cross-dressing, which even if it were true wouldn't have any meaningful significance.

      rumor[s] ... are hard or impossible to stop or curtail ... but in the case of stuff you can stop, I think you should. If the person that is the subject of this article is a furry (hypothetically, there's nothing about the story to suggest it, we're just throwing "what if?"s out there) it's one thing if everyone in town knows he's a furry, but it's another thing entirely if no one (outside of people who knew him by his Internet handle) knew it. Might as well keep that a secret, especially since, like the poster said, it would just be rubbing salt in the wounds.

      So, we should keep social taboos taboo. That way, people who engage in those taboos have a strong social demand to keep their activity/preference secret. And every time someone makes mention of that taboo and casts derision about it, they'll be pretty sure that they're rubbing the salt in the wounds of the living. Yes, let's keep rubbing the salt in the wound until a few commit suicide. And when the parents wonder why, we'll be sure it keep it secret that figurative little Johnny was gay, and he couldn't take all the mental abuse he was getting.

      Me? I'd rather if we stopped turning so much irrelevant stuff into salt. If you're a guy, yea, you probably have a skin mag. If you fear you might die any day, yea, you might well engage in more sex with strangers and sex out of wedlock. But, no, let's all pretend that it didn't happen so the wife or the girlfriend back home doesn't have to face reality. Hell, why not just say he's been sent away on assignment indefinitely, if we're going to intentional lie to avoid reality.

      Yes, it would be wonderful if everyone could just accept what other people do but it would in all likelihood just upset the family more. It's like when you go to your grandfather's funeral and they go on and on about the good things he did, like build a treehouse for the local kids or how he taught Sunday School. They don't mention how most people thought he was an overbearing asshole and that he referred to anyone non-white by their corresponding racial slur. In their immediate death, you just focus on the positive aspects of their life.

      Why? If I'm dead and I was an asshole, I'd want people to know I was an asshole; if I was alive, people would be more than willing to call me an asshole to others. The glowing crap that comes out of people's mouths to "honor" a person makes me sick. I'm not saying you go out of the way to denigrate a person. But a large part of a eulogy is to sumarize a person's life. If you make every dead person out to be angels, you're just fucking with history in a horrible way. You belittle the people who actually *do* deserve honor. And you pollute the sea of information on what things we really do need to improve upon by marginalizing the failings and the humanity of those you speak about. Is it any wonder that people are so warped in how they act towards others when nearly everyone that could be their role model is

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    22. Re:sanitize his history and records by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If he managed to get Marilyn Monroe into a catgirl outfit, he's getting a 50' marble statue

      And for the rest of us, there's Cialis.
    23. Re:sanitize his history and records by NeutronCowboy · · Score: 1

      I'm advocating the realization that there are a lot of things people do in their personal life that have very little influence over what they do in their public life.

      This is a very good point. Part of the reason that people want to protect the innocence of children, the honor of the dead soldier, the sanctity of marriage or the authority of police is because they believe that that is the natural state of children, soldiers, husbands and wives, police, etc. They completely miss the fact that children can be just as cruel as adults, soldiers can be dishonorable, and so on... Preserving these myths by destroying evidence to the contrary makes it that much harder to deal with the actual problems by marginalizing them. If only one soldier is into furry porn, it can be dismissed as an aberration. If 30% of all soldiers are into furry porn... well, I don't really know what that would be, but I'd want to have a more serious approach than "they're just deviants who need to be shunned".

      Whitewashing history is always done with a specific goal in mind. To quote Orwell: "He who controls the past, controls the future." I believe Stalin was a proponent of this as well.
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    24. Re:sanitize his history and records by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Is the ownership then transferred on those items?

    25. Re:sanitize his history and records by jollyreaper · · Score: 1

      The fact that all the "bad" stuff keeps being whitewashed only furthers the belief that such things *are* "bad" regardless of how common it is--consider the open secret of marijuana and cocaine usage. Do realize, I'm not advocating to like furry porn or to use cocaine. Heh, I'm just tickled that you made a moral equivalency between drug abuse and furry porn. :)
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    26. Re:sanitize his history and records by IonOtter · · Score: 1

      I'm sure the last thing this kid's family would want to find out about is his furry porn collection.

      Aside from the fact that you're obviously not dead, it sounds as if you're speaking from experience. Was it first-paw? ;)

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    27. Re:sanitize his history and records by Lost+Race · · Score: 1

      Excellent comment. Thanks for taking the time to write it.

  44. Google provide information about this in the Help by de_smudger · · Score: 1
  45. Legal perspective? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You could take the approach of looking at this from a legal perspective. My guess is that his accounts are now the responsibility of whoever inherits him, and they should be able to get (demand even) access to the accounts.

    There are various privacy issues involved, which I personally think should be respected, even if he's gone.

    Protecting his secrets isn't just about him. The argument of "he's not here; he doesn't care" doesn't work. He might have wished to keep things private, not just for himself, but to protect others from getting hurt etc.

    If I was in the middle of this, I'd probably hire a lawyer. Both to deal with legal issues of getting access to accounts, and also because I'd prefer it if the lawyer went through things, rather than someone closer to the passe family member.

    That way, you can have your cake and eat it too. You can get access to the information, but you also respect his privacy.

  46. It's not that simple by mario_grgic · · Score: 2, Insightful

    There is no evidence yet that the person didn't desire to make some things private and their wish should be respected even after death.

    You are making a mistake that because someone is dead (and hence obviously can't care) implies that they didn't care when they were alive.

    In absence of legal will it is hard to tell what the desire of the person was, but if someone wrote in their will that they want for example their laptop destroyed after their death, it would obviously make it un-ethical to ignore that wish and poke through their laptop.

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    1. Re:It's not that simple by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Lacking a will the assumption is that the next of kin decides what the deceased would want. In this case, they want his files.

    2. Re:It's not that simple by JayJay.br · · Score: 1

      I've done it. Once, asked by a family that's really close to me.

      It's surely not that simple to know a dead man's wishes. But in the case of suicide, any clue that helps the family understand the reason and circumstances serves as an enormous relief.

      That kind of info gets at least all the paranoia out of the family's heads. By paranoia I mean all the thoughts about the "why", "who", "what", "how" that everyone left behind here can't help thinking.

      As for the legal part (paying for the funeral, etc) I have no idea how it would work.

      Hope that helped.

    3. Re:It's not that simple by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why does it matter what he would have wanted? It's impossible for him to know either way. Who is being harmed? I don't know if you understand what death entails.

    4. Re:It's not that simple by sm62704 · · Score: 1

      There's no evidence he did, either. You can'r respect someone's wishes if he doesn't make those wishes known.

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    5. Re:It's not that simple by xZgf6xHx2uhoAj9D · · Score: 1

      He's not the only person to consider. Who do you think he was writing emails to? Himself? Alive people have some expectations of privacy.

    6. Re:It's not that simple by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      There is no evidence yet that the person didn't desire to make some things private and their wish should be respected even after death.

      The lack or evidence is not the same as evidence to the contrary. Even against his wishes, all posessions, like private diaries, belong to the estate. There is no ethical or moral problem in opening and determining the contents of anything that isn't specified otherwise, and here there are no specifications of the kind.

      In absence of legal will it is hard to tell what the desire of the person was, but if someone wrote in their will that they want for example their laptop destroyed after their death, it would obviously make it un-ethical to ignore that wish and poke through their laptop.

      And what does that have to do with this case or any relating to it? Someone died with no specific wishes made about their private diary and box of letters in the closet marked "private." What do you do? Is that answer any different if the diary and letters are kept in a computer or with an online service?

  47. The Executor fo the estate... by penguinbrat · · Score: 1

    Someone should have been made the "executor" of the estate or what not, when I had to do something very similar with my Uncle that passed away - for those that had the keys that were needed, a simple explanation of the situation *AND* the executor waiting in the wings to write a letter/etc.. is all it took. The most I had to go was one time actually having to get a letter - most places took my word on it, including a FRY's electronics store that switched the warranty and everything to my name on an expensive laptop that was purchased earlier.

    Essentially - someone should have been made legal guardian, if you will, of everything after the fact. This person is who holds the keys to everything - from I understand, IANAL, this person person more or less gets the power of attorney for everything. Probably defaults to parents or something if no one was specifically stated in a will or what not.

    1. Re:The Executor fo the estate... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The court order that is being spoken of is the "Letter of Authority" that will issue from the county probate court where the decedent resided to the person who applies to be the Administrator of the estate ("Executor" if there was a will). That person, holding that Letter of Authority will be able to do whatever the decedent could have done with the property. That LOA is the proof of the person's authority over all of the decedent's property and interests. Thats the legal answer... The moral one of what to do with the info he secreted away on his laptop is for someone smarter than I to parse. Good luck.

    2. Re:The Executor fo the estate... by sanjacguy · · Score: 1

      Exactly - you've got to get the executor of the estate involved, who should have full legal authority to allow you access.

  48. is police investigation active? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

    Its not legal to meddle with evidence.

    1. Re:is police investigation active? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm glad someone mentioned this.

      If the investigation is active, the police will (should) do all of these things through subpoenas (for the web identity/email) and digital forensics. If you fool with it you'll be part of the problem, not part of the solution.

      If it's inactive..fine, do what you have to do within the bounds of your morality. Cracking machines is the easy part, tread lightly with the online providers, go through them in writing as suggested by other posters.

  49. What if it were a diary.. by SpinningCone · · Score: 1

    imagine if this was not a laptop but a written diary instead, would you feel different? obviously it may contain personal thoughts and ideas and reading it may change your perception of the deceased however it may also tell you why they did what they did. as mentioned elsewhere in this thread cracking the laptop will be trivial with a live-CD. as for the ethics, if it were me I would do it. especially because they did not die of natural causes. as for the online accounts a death certificate and some legal footwork might get you their account, personally I would just hope they had some cookies for those sites and could log you on automatically (or even a password document).

  50. I call BS by haakondahl · · Score: 1

    I don't believe you. If this is actually a questionable case, the Police certainly know people who can do this, and they have legal advice. If you are on the level, you're going to need more than a lawyer.

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  51. Unless... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You said that the recently deceased was a CS major. If he was into cryptology, then he probably added encryption to his computer I.E. Truecrypt. If that's the case you will have a very VERY small chance of obtaining any information off of that computer.

  52. Gmail, Yahoo, etc shouldn't tell you by adam613 · · Score: 1

    The problem is, with free email services, there's no real proof that any given account belongs to a certain person. There are some interesting social engineering implications here...I'm envisioning calling up the Gmail people and claiming to be attempting to retrieve the account of someone who recently died ("I have the death certificate and everything!") when said account really belongs to someone else...

    1. Re:Gmail, Yahoo, etc shouldn't tell you by Phyrexicaid · · Score: 1

      The problem is, with free email services, there's no real proof that any given account belongs to a certain person. There are some interesting social engineering implications here...I'm envisioning calling up the Gmail people and claiming to be attempting to retrieve the account of someone who recently died ("I have the death certificate and everything!") when said account really belongs to someone else... Great point! I never thought about that. Perhaps free email services should have an option to "verify identity"?
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    2. Re:Gmail, Yahoo, etc shouldn't tell you by siriuskase · · Score: 1

      If the estate administrator has the right to go through the dead man'a mail, but google doesn't want to cooperate, then I think it would be ethical to guess at passwords, assuming you haven't tipped off Google to close the account. But, since Google doesn't know the real identity of the owner, they can't be sure he's dead, so I presume the account will be there to be cracked. One possiblitily is to get everyone who knows him well on IM, then try to answer the questions that "only he would know". If you have enough siblings and ex'es to help you, it might work.

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    3. Re:Gmail, Yahoo, etc shouldn't tell you by quanticle · · Score: 1

      That won't help if the password has been randomly generated, or is the result of abbreviating or modifying a nonsensical mnemonic.

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  53. Careful what you find by HairOfTheBambit · · Score: 1

    I'd be wary. You might find something that helps friends and family cope, but you could also find things which could cause a lot more hardships for them. People keeps things secret for reasons, and, without some type of "Data Will", they may want those things to remain secret forever. It no longer matters to the person who died, but there are dozens of things a person could keep secret that would cause grief to those around them. Is there anything on your computers that you wouldn't want your family to discover?

  54. Don't forget his porn folder... by rpp3po · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    and make copies for his family members. After all it is possible that unsatisfied sexual desires were partial reasons for his death. The family has a right to know. Also dig up his MMOG chat logs were he used to be a great hero instead of this promising CS major No. 374229. Even mentioning funeral costs is hypocrisy. You WONT have any additional proofs for an accident if you find NOTHING indicating a suicide on his computer. It more seems like a desperate try of affecting to be reasonable while preparing to rip apart his always intended private parts.

    1. Re:Don't forget his porn folder... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What if his computer contains an entry like:

      "Have a theory about thunderstorms producing electricity. Going to fly a kite later and see if it's true..."

      Then he gets hit by lightning (intentionally) and killed (unintentionally).

  55. Ask a lawyer by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yes, really.

    You're not going to get any advice any here that will be worthwhile, comments of course, but no proper legal advice.

    If you're in Britain a Solicitor should be able to tell you.

  56. Google accounts can be recovered by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
  57. Next of kin by maclizard · · Score: 0

    If I were you die today, then my wife(whom is my next of kin) would take on all my legal responsibilities. Therefore, as far as ethics are concerned the next of kin, or parents in this case, have the legal right to the information they are seeking. As far as contacting Google, MSN, etc... Good luck, its hard to prove something like ownership of a virtual location, plus some sites claim ownership of content hosted on their service.

  58. Rainbow Tables by JumboMessiah · · Score: 1

    First off, sorry about the loss. Even if the person isn't close to you personally, seeing how it affects the family is bad enough.

    My advice would be to start with the laptop. Boot it off a rescue cd or USB stick and grab all the personal account (including root) md5 hashes out of the /etc/shadow file.

    Then run those hashes through a rainbow crack to try and get some clear text representations of the hashes. Info on Rainbow Tables, here, here, and here.

    Boot the laptop to a prompt and try all the clear text representations for the accounts and see if any of them work. If they do, then great, you have the passwords.

    The passwords themselves are worthless on the laptop (you've already demonstrated you can snoop it without them, as you had to to obtain the hashes). Their value is in the fact that they _may_ have used the same passwords for their email, online accounts, etc.

    HTH

    1. Re:Rainbow Tables by adrenalinekick · · Score: 1

      MOD PARENT UP.

      Back up the shadow file - chances are good that he uses some of the same passwords on his system and on his gmail and myspace accounts.

      Use a LiveCD, make a copy of the shadow file and you can at least attempt to run a password cracker on it.

      Then you can play with resetting the root password in single user mode.

    2. Re:Rainbow Tables by zippthorne · · Score: 1

      Rainbow tables only find hash collisions not necessarily the original passwords.

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  59. Find out who owns the property / talk to a lawyer by Paul+Jakma · · Score: 1

    I have only the briefest knowledge of the field in my own country, never mind yours, however (presuming you're in country whose law is derived from the English common law system, e.g. the USA) it's likely all property of this man, his laptop and letters particularly, are now intestate. Likely some local authority will have assigned an administrator for the estate. If the young man was still a minor, these probably will be his parents.

    If you have their permission, or the permission of the person to whom the administrators have assigned the property (ie the new owners), you can do what you like. The dead have little privacy (indeed, no privacy at all in many places).

    To determine what you can do about online accounts, you should talk to a solicitor (i.e. a lawyer in the USA), preferably one who specialises in these things.

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  60. If it's ethical to do it just 'cos they're dead... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...then expect more clearings for executive action just before someone uses "they're dead anyway" as an excuse.

    Anyway, the submitter had something to do with the death and is posting in this very public place to plant evidence of good intent. Let's hope the prosecution - and it will come to that, if I have anything to do about it - read this comment and find out what I'm talking about.

  61. "Post-suicide" not "Suspicious death"? by whoda · · Score: 1

    Just from the submitters headline it seems he acknowledges that it was suicide.

    If it's possible it was a suspicious death/accident, then the Police should do an investigation for you.

  62. Potential can of worms. by PeanutButterBreath · · Score: 3, Informative

    Would snooping around on your laptop or rifling through your e-mail accounts allow someone to "understand" you? Are you confident that it would portray the facet of your personality that you wanted others to see?

    Obviously, this is a sad situation. I lost a sibling to suicide and the bottom line is that I don't think that any satisfactory answers can be had in a situation like this.

    Whether or not the privacy of the deceased should be respected might be an ethical dilemma. But I think that if we are realistic about our own selves and what we choose to share with friends, family or no-one at all, we have to admit that breaking into this mans files would almost certainly be a violation of his wishes, and likely raise more questions than it answers.

    Absent some purely administrative function like settling his accounts, I would not go this route.

    1. Re:Potential can of worms. by plasticsquirrel · · Score: 1

      Absolutely. If you want to understand why someone would commit suicide, then research suicide. The answers are typically the same -- a profound feeling of hopelessness, coupled with isolation or loneliness.

      If more people took the time to understand why others commit suicide, I think that it could be prevented in many cases. Simply making sure that people aren't completely isolated in social situations, or have a few friends, could make all the difference.

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    2. Re:Potential can of worms. by TheSync · · Score: 1

      People don't seem to recognize that depressed people just kill themselves. There is no "good reason", they just can't take being depressed any more - just living with the depression is "reason".

      Depression can be well hid. A friend of mine in college killed himself. No one of his friends knew he was depressed or suicidal. His housemates had no clue until they found the body (they even slept through the shotgun blast). It was quite a shock to find out from his parents that he had attempted suicide several times before.

      32,000 suicides occur in the US every year, nearly 90 a day. This is compared with 18,000 homicides per year.

  63. Gmail and all others have a process by RobbieCrash · · Score: 4, Informative

    Gmail has a process for this, as do all other freemail services. Gmail's is Here Googling for the others policies will yield results for the others as well.

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  64. Ask Slashdot? by thomasdn · · Score: 1

    Recently, I have seen quite a few "news" that were actually Ask Slashdot questions posted as news. Why is this not on Ask Slashdot?

  65. What if you findout about secrets of live people? by HaaPoo · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Like he has been sleeping with your girlfriend in the past?

  66. Recovering passwords from the dead by chrysrobyn · · Score: 1

    I was in the unfortunate position of recovering some passwords a few years ago -- the circumstances were different as natural causes were clear -- but the concept of the next of kin inheriting the accounts was very clear to me.

    First, boot the Linux box in single user mode, or off a USB key or CD. If you have the resources, back up the hard drive before you do anything. Second, change the password of the user account to something you know and can share with the family. Third, open Firefox, and if Password Exporter isn't installed, install it. Fourth, hope that the deceased used Firefox and had it remember every password.

    Having gone through this, I would worry that places like Google and Myspace would simply close the account if they found out someone was dead (and had proof like a death certificate) and not a court order to keep it open. Often they say the account and all associated IP is theirs anyway, so there's nothing to "inherit", although that's not a line of thinking I agree with. Some firms are very opposed to allowing their [property|products] cross generational lines like that. Credit cards are the most understandable example.

  67. Tread Carefully. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    My brother committed suicide.

    If this is anything like what happened in our case, the family is probably grasping at straws right now. It's not just a financial question -- it's a deeply emotional question. The result of a devastated family looking for some small glimpse of hope; trying to find some way to keep sane.

    Many people associate suicide with weakness and a state of permanent depression. Just 'giving up' on life. Families don't want to believe this about their loved ones, and will struggle to find some other way to frame their death.

    So -- cracking his accounts is not just about finances. It's very possibly about hope, whether false or not.

    The problem is the grief is the same no matter what the reason. The guy is still dead, and the family will still have to go through the grieving process.

    I ended up examining the contents of my brother's computer three years after he died. Even then it was difficult to see (for me and my parents), and I did come across stuff I didn't particularly want to know about. I decided not to tell my parents about the stash of photos downloaded off p2p, but I did share the essays and documents he had worked on in his last days.

    Legally I believe you have every right if you have the parents permission, but in doing this you have a certain emotional responsibility as well. That's where it gets fuzzy. Do I share everything I find? Do I know what I'm getting myself into? Is evidence of suicide just going to hurt the family more?

    It's been four years for me. I've since learned that suicide occurs in cases where one's problems outweigh the facilities to deal with them. That sort of realization along with lots of counseling have helped me. I wish all the best to your friends.

  68. What Google requires for this: by whoda · · Score: 4, Informative

    1. Your full name and contact information, including a verifiable email address.
    2. The Gmail address of the individual who passed away.
    3a. The full header from an email message that you have received at your verifiable email address, from the Gmail account in question. (To obtain the header from a message in Gmail, open the message, click 'More options,' then click 'Show original.' Copy everything from 'Delivered- To:' through the 'References:' line. To obtain headers from other webmail or email providers, please refer to http://www.spamcop.com/help_with_headers/)
    3b. The entire contents of the message.
    4. A copy of the death certificate of the deceased.
    5. A copy of the document that gives you Power of Attorney over the Gmail account.
    6. If you are the parent of the individual, please send us a copy of the Birth Certificate if the Gmail account owner was under the age of 18. In this case, Power of Attorney is not required.

    1. Re:What Google requires for this: by SwashbucklingCowboy · · Score: 1

      4 and 5 are in conflict. When someone is deceased any power of attorney they granted is no longer valid. Perhaps you meant the executor/personal representative of the estate?

    2. Re:What Google requires for this: by Andy+Somnifac · · Score: 1

      Could the estate not grant power of attorney to a third party?

    3. Re:What Google requires for this: by Saint+Fnordius · · Score: 1

      No, it means Google needs proof that you are either the executor of the estate or have been granted power of attorney by the executor. Quite simple, really.

    4. Re:What Google requires for this: by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1
      Hmmm interesting. So which of the numerous documents prove that the deceased actually owned the Gmail account that you attempt to get access to?

      Exactly: none does. 3 only proves that you know (knew...) the account owner, not that he is the person who claims he is.

      Ok, ok, if the account owner actually registered with his real-life name, this might make things easier, but alas, many people don't...

    5. Re:What Google requires for this: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A Power of Attorney becomes immediately invalid upon the death of the party for which the POA is granted. 4. and 5. are self-contradictory, in that by furnishing a death certificate, there can be no valid POA.

    6. Re:What Google requires for this: by SwashbucklingCowboy · · Score: 1

      Yes, that would work.

    7. Re:What Google requires for this: by SwashbucklingCowboy · · Score: 1

      If it's so simple then it should have been spelled out that way ;-)

    8. Re:What Google requires for this: by ktappe · · Score: 1

      3a. The full header from an email message that you have received at your verifiable email address, from the Gmail account in question. I know many people who delete messages as or soon after they receive them. It's also quite possible that the deceased would not have recently (or ever) e-mailed the individual with the power of attorney. And even if they had, what the heck does an e-mail header prove? This is a bizarre requirement and one I'd think any decent attorney could get around, so I cannot fathom why it's in there.
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    9. Re:What Google requires for this: by Saint+Fnordius · · Score: 1

      It was written by lawyers. Since when did they ever deal with "simple"? :P

    10. Re:What Google requires for this: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And then POST it to America... uh wtf! I know Google's based in America, but they do have an office in my country, at the very least.

  69. His Executor by Tsu+Dho+Nimh · · Score: 1
    The only person any business will listen to is the executor - in his case, probably a parent. Have the executor make contact and be able to provide proof of death.

    The problem will be proving that John Doe is the same as rarbazzle@gmail.com to get the contents.

  70. I saw this type of thing at AOL by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Way back in the day (90's) I worked at AOL. What you would need to get account access for a person who has died is the death certificate and power of attorney. They should have their lawyer handle this and call Google/Yahoo/MySpace whatever. These companies will have a policy in place just like AOL. You will have to jump through some hoops to get access to those accounts but it's doable.

  71. Other ways by LurkingAround · · Score: 1

    If you don't want to hack in, get the parents to contact the places they want to access and they may have to send a copy of the death certificate to validate the reasons, but I had to do this for the wife of a friend who passed to get access to files online that were important to the family. Once they received the paperwork the places she needed reset the passwords so she could log in and get what she needed.

  72. What is he going to do with any of it now? by namoom · · Score: 1

    This happened to me 2 years ago and in the end I couldn't crack any of his passwords in a reasonable amount of time so I went around and contacted each site i needed access to. He put his going away note on myspace and i found the only way to get any account access (not passwords) was court order. I went for 2 of his emails before using them to recover all the other info

  73. Settling affairs, your friends in probate court by siriuskase · · Score: 1, Insightful

    The administer/executor of his estate has the legal right to conduct business in his name for the purpose of settling his affairs. I would present the paperwork from the propate court to all those places you mentioned and procede to settle his affairs as you see fit.

    You may discover something that he did indeed mean to keep private. And, if there is an afterlife, he may care. If so, be like an ethical telephone engineer and behave as if you have no knowledge you aren't supposed to have.

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  74. Do it by Tridus · · Score: 1

    I don't know anything about the "how", as its thankfully never come up in my life. But asking if you should do it or not, I say yes.

    He's dead, unfortunately. Dead people don't care about privacy. His family however is alive, and going through a very difficult time. If something is in those accounts/files that can provide some answers about what happened, it would help them.

    That makes it worth at least trying.

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  75. Not deleted sectors by redelm · · Score: 1
    Agreed the suicide had the opportunity to put their affairs in order, so the property [files] is presumed to pass to estate and heiritors.

    However, this would not hold true for any material the deceased attempted or intended to delete. Deleted files and sectors are a clear example. History and cache are a grey area -- many people do not know they exist, so cannot make an intelligent decision.

  76. Bad idea by BJH · · Score: 1

    You do realise that without a court order, what you're suggesting is illegal?

    1. Re:Bad idea by Miseph · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It's actually a bit gray. If the deceased were not so then you would be entirely correct, as this would be unsolicited system intrusion. However, upon his death his possessions, including his various passwords and access to his accounts, became the responsibility of the executor (one would assume that either the mother or father took on this role, as it would be an exceptionally odd thing for a 21 year old to actually write up a will stating otherwise), who has since requested that the intrusion be done on what is, essentially, their property.

      What shocks me is that this was ruled a suicide without an inquest going through all of this already. That is a very radical conclusion to come to, and one with (as stated in the story) some pretty serious legal and financial ramifications; happy successful people don't just off themselves for no reason and without any sort of note or indication that things were not going quite so peachy as believed i am surprised that no investigation has been done if only to rule the possibility that it's an accident.

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    2. Re:Bad idea by Paul+Jakma · · Score: 1

      On what basis exactly? To the extent that those accounts belonged to the deceased, they now belong to the successors of his estate...

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    3. Re:Bad idea by acvh · · Score: 1

      Tell that to King Tut.

      Exactly when does graverobbing become archaeology?

    4. Re:Bad idea by rocker_wannabe · · Score: 1

      I agree completely. Without a suicide note or earlier confessions of suicidal thoughts it seems unlikely that the person did commit suicide. If he actually did commit suicide then it probably was triggered by something like anti-depressants which would make it murder in my opinion.

      I know this is cynical to even say but if the police don't have a lot of free time then they're going to make a decision that will create less hassle for themselves. Which is more likely? That the family will get a lawyer or that the insurance company will.

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    5. Re:Bad idea by tweak13 · · Score: 1

      This is one of the most ignorant comments I've ever seen on slashdot. People kill themselves every day to the complete surprise of friends and family. While it may be true that people who commit suicide often leave notes or previously reach out for help, that isn't always the case. I have no problem believing he killed himself without exhibiting any "warning signs," and without knowing more about the circumstances of his death it's impossible to form any kind of opinion on if his death was accidental.

    6. Re:Bad idea by Firethorn · · Score: 1

      I know this is cynical to even say but if the police don't have a lot of free time then they're going to make a decision that will create less hassle for themselves.

      Generally speaking, while an insurance company might be a bit more likely to have a lawyer on staff, a family can make a police officer's life MUCH more of a hassle than the insurance company. A lawyer costs money, even if he's staff. He could be doing something else, after all.

      On the other hand, you could have a family that's calling you up every day, visiting, writing letters, complaining, etc... And they're willing to 'work' pro-bono.

      The insurance company is much more likely to simply go 'meh' and pay off. They've done it before.

      Of course, I'm curious as to the method/cause of death. Did he shoot himself? Run his car into a bridge? Take too many pills? Slit his wrists?

      On the gun side, I think that it's fairly traditional, and regularly swept under the rug, for a police officer/military member/veteran/hunter type to off themself with a firearm, leave no note, but with cleaning supplies laid out. It's routinely called a 'cleaning accident'. I say that because I clean my guns regularly, and they don't get pointed at my head, much less have the trigger pulled, during any part of the operation. Step 1 is to unload/verify unloaded. Step 2 is generally to pull the bolt out/slide off of the gun. At that point, the gun is not going to fire. The last step would be to reload, in the case of my defensive weapons.

      So yes, I consider 99.99% of 'accidentally shot himself in the head while cleaning the gun' as a suicide.

      On the other types - well, there was a major star who died from drug interactions combined with unsafe dosages; but they don't think it was suicide. Slitting the wrists would be hard to wriggle out of. Is there the potential that he wasn't in his right mind?

      So many questions.

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    7. Re:Bad idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually an executor must be appointed by the judicial system. Most likely, in the absence of a will, the whole process moves to intestate which means the state has possession in effect.

    8. Re:Bad idea by Firethorn · · Score: 1

      My yardstick? When it's for 'science' rather than 'profit' it becomes science or investigation rather than graverobbing. It becomes archaeology when everybody who knew the individual in life, heck, when everyone who was alive when the individual was alive, has passed on. Bonus points for major culture shift, knowledge loss as well.

      So yes, extracting General Washington could be considered archaeology. Same with Lincoln.

      Still, the trouble with King Tut is the very mass of stuff Pharohs were buried with. It can provide clues into a culture that the bears no resemblance to it's descendants.

      At the same time, I think that respect should be shown. Make up a fake body to show to the public. Put the body and artifacts back when you're done(though adding preservative structures, coatings, containers is ok too).

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    9. Re:Bad idea by Kupek · · Score: 1

      A good friend of mine had her younger brother apparently commit suicide last week.
      Note "apparently." The poster did not mention any conclusions.
    10. Re:Bad idea by VeNoM0619 · · Score: 0

      So yes, I consider 99.99% of 'accidentally shot himself in the head while cleaning the gun' as a suicide. Or homicide...?
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    11. Re:Bad idea by rocker_wannabe · · Score: 1

      The point is that without leaving a suicide note or having confessed earlier to thoughts of suicide then it is LESS LIKELY that he actually committed suicide.

      This is obviously an emotional issue for you and I'm sorry if you have lost someone to suicide. It can't be pleasant to think about the "what ifs" after the fact.

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    12. Re:Bad idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      IANAL.

      I see no grey area in it at all. If I passed away (suspicious or otherwise) and I had a safe in my office, unless I had explicitly noted in my will otherwise it would be up the the executors of my estate on how to handle the issue and they would be well within their rights (and quite probably forced by probate court) to open the safe.

      Heck, thinking about it more, even if I had noted it in my will it is possible that probate could force the safe to be opened to determine the value of my estate.

    13. Re:Bad idea by phantomfive · · Score: 1

      happy successful people don't just off themselves for no reason and without any sort of note or indication that things were not going quite so peachy as believed I don't know about happy successful people, but in the US only one in three people write suicide notes. Happy people tend not to off themselves at all. However, it is pretty common for miserable people to live there lives acting happy (and then maybe wondering why no one understands them).
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    14. Re:Bad idea by joggle · · Score: 1

      You never know. One of the most popular, brightest students at my high school (graduating a couple of years before me) shot himself during his second year of college. The only thing that happened ahead of his suicide that anyone was aware of was that he went to his parents the day he shot himself and acted rather upset about not being able to live up to expectations (which was odd because he always excelled at everything).

      That was it. If it hadn't been for that one outburst no-one would have had a clue as to why he killed himself. It was really tragic too because he was a really nice, talented guy with tons of potential.

    15. Re:Bad idea by Abcd1234 · · Score: 1

      The point is that without leaving a suicide note or having confessed earlier to thoughts of suicide then it is LESS LIKELY that he actually committed suicide.

      Why? Given that most people *don't* leave notes prior to committing suicide, obviously that plays no part in it. And many (most?) depressed (actually, clinically depressed, not the stereotypical emo-teenager depressed) people spend their lives hiding what's actually going on in their heads from their friends and family (I've known more than one depressed person, and this has invariably been the pattern).

      Or do you have numbers to back up your seemingly baseless supposition?

    16. Re:Bad idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The coroner should release a report a month or two after the fact that details the results of the autopsy and provides the evidence to support a conclusion of suicide.

      People that appear happy and successful aren't always happy and successful and they do off themselves quite a bit. I've had two people close to me complete suicide and it came as a complete shock to everyone who knew them.

    17. Re:Bad idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "happy successful people don't just off themselves for no reason"

      Where do you find these "happy successful people"? Living a life where all you do is satisfy what others want is not my kind of happiness.

    18. Re:Bad idea by Ceriel+Nosforit · · Score: 1

      happy successful people don't just off themselves for no reason and without any sort of note or indication that things were not going quite so peachy as believed This unfortunately seems not to be so, due to long-term depression for one. A person can smile and socialize while feeling dead inside. - It's like a one of those sicknesses that has a person just disappear one day, and then to the shock of many it is reveiled that they have been ill for years.

      Depression can have a person feel very little joy over things that usually make people happy and content with life. One may forget that there are alternatives to constant emotional anguish, and that life isn't always pain.

      This may sound horrible, but depression is.
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    19. Re:Bad idea by rocker_wannabe · · Score: 1

      Here are some online references:

      WebMD
      Stop a Suicide

      The second link states that 70% of suicide victims tell someone about their plans or give warning signs. This number is probably low since people who actually commit suicide are probably surrounded by people who don't want to admit that they saw the signs and did nothing about it. I would think it would be obvious to anyone that a person SERIOUSLY contemplating suicide will act in a noticeably different way from someone who wants to live as long as possible. I left out some of the recognized signs of a potential suicide but I think its clear that there are always signs.

      Did any of your friends tell you that they had suicidal thoughts or show any of the signs? How many of your depressed friends or aquaintances actually committed suicide? Getting occasional thoughts of suicide or getting depressed occasionally is just part of life. It doesn't necessarily mean that they were close to committing suicide. It could just mean that they work in the IT field.

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    20. Re:Bad idea by sigdrifa · · Score: 1

      [...] happy successful people don't just off themselves for no reason and without any sort of note or indication [...] Possibly off-topic, but I wouldn't say that.
      I've seen it happen.
      Depressions are often a biological illness that needs treatment just like an ordinary cold does.
      In an early state of development it is way possible that nobody knows.
    21. Re:Bad idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      However, upon his death his possessions ... became the responsibility of the executor ... essentially, their property.


      You're so very nearly there, but it is not "essentially (or otherwise) their property," not yet anyway. The correct way to proceed would be for the executors to ask for an order to Gmail etc to issue a new password to them.

      I think you are correct that one should presumptively treat this as a case of accidental death until such time as suicide can be established. I believe this is the approach a coroner would take.

    22. Re:Bad idea by Abcd1234 · · Score: 1

      So, 70% "tell someone about their plans or give warning signs". And how many don't talk about it? Now how many miss the warning signs, or misunderstand them?

      My point is, just because they didn't recognize the signs, doesn't mean they weren't there. And if he genuinely gave no signs, doesn't mean it didn't happen. So to assume something mysterious and sinister is going on is silly, wishful thinking. Not to mention incredibly arrogant, given it involves questioning the conclusions of the ME.

  77. Expect no help from Google, MSN, etc. by Zontar_Thing_From_Ve · · Score: 1

    Family of deceased military members in Iraq and Afghanistan deal with this all the time. Kid gets killed and nobody knows how to get into his Yahoo (or whatever) email. From what I've read, with very very few exceptions, the service providers will say that they are truly very sorry for the loss, but there is nothing they can do to help you get into the account if the deceased did not tell you how to get into it. Unless maybe you can get a court order somehow ordering MSN, etc. to help you get into the accounts, expect no help there. The university might help you, maybe, with proof of death if a family member (not you) asks to get into his accounts there, but expect commercial companies to refuse to help you because of confidentiality policies they have in place. I'd politely suggest that you think about why you felt the need to ask a bunch of strangers, including me, whether it's ethical or not to crack the accounts. My personal feeling is that since the guy is dead, it's OK, but if you are old enough to post here intelligently about the situation, you should have enough of a sense of ethics to decide this kind of thing on your own without having a bunch of strangers tell you whether it's right or wrong.

    1. Re:Expect no help from Google, MSN, etc. by Rostin · · Score: 1

      "I'd politely suggest..."

      Why? What do you think is going on here? I'll take a stab.. There are definitely some situations when under the guise of seeking advice, a person is really looking for any rationale he can find to be relieved of what he knows to be his ethical responsibility. Is there something about this situation that leads you to believe that this or something similar is occuring?

      Feelings, I'll politely suggest to you, should not be the final arbiter of ethical decisions. We often feel guilty about or responsible for things we shouldn't, and vice versa. Asking for advice is one way to see our way clear of that. At least, that's the case when the advice is actual reasoning and not just more feelings.

  78. Put that in your will! by laughingcoyote · · Score: 1

    The good news is, you can!

    There would always be the possibility of putting those wishes in one's actual will. That would give a lot more legal "teeth" to those requests, and make it much more likely that they will indeed be carried out. It also allows exact specification of what is to be done in the "killswitch" process ("professionally wipe the hard drive of any computer I own without accessing or allowing access to any of the information on such drives, delete unread all data in the online account X with service provider Y, then close the account...") Especially with online providers, an actual request in a will would make them much more likely to comply.

    Putting it in the will also does make it a legally binding request, so that you do not have to rely on the goodwill of someone after your death but have made your wishes clear and binding. That is, after all, the purpose of a will.

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    1. Re:Put that in your will! by Narpak · · Score: 1

      I do not know if this is also true in my country, though I expect that it is so. However, that would entail that I list all my accounts somewhere while I am still alive something I generally disagree with. That being said this is probably exactly what I will do, when I get around to it (hey I am young, I got alllll the time in the world ;)

    2. Re:Put that in your will! by pjt33 · · Score: 1

      You could list your accounts in a file readable only by root (owner root, group narpak, permissions 420). Crucially you can still touch this file. Then have a root cron job which checks when the file was last modified. If more than two weeks ago, e-mail you a reminder to touch it. If more than four weeks ago, e-mail it to your executors. You could probably also touch it in your .profile so that you wouldn't have to manually touch it.

  79. Please offer my condolences. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I imagine every aspect of dealing with the affects of a loved one who (may have) committed suicide is torture. As others have suggested, you are in the position of determining what aspects of his digital life will be shared with the family, so good luck with figuring out that whole ethical issue.

    I don't think there's a moral dilemma with regard to examining his computer. If he left a note requesting a wipe of his system, or destroyed the hard drive, or encrypted anything he wanted nobody to know about, it might be another matter. But there is no such sanctity given to any physical items he had in his position, and comparing digital to physical security matters his family could access any safe deposit boxes, warehouse storage, bank accounts, etc... so, ethically speaking, privacy is for the living.

    I don't know what you'd have to do legally to access his online accounts, but ethically, I'd feel no particular compunction regarding accessing those either.

    It's a bit of a bummer to be giving this perspective, given my normal beliefs on privacy, but isn't computer-based information a vital part of a programmer's legacy? I don't know how much insight my own computer use would be into my personality, other than demonstrating a refreshing degree of normalcy yet to be suspected by the people around me, but wouldn't scrubbing it on my unfortunate demise be similar to tossing out unfinished drafts/unreleased poetry from an author, sketches from an artist, or such?

  80. technorati by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    just pay technorati a fee and get all this old blog posts.

  81. Anonymous Coward by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You finally dreamed up something you think will "make it on /."? Why else would anyone start here instead of with an attorney?

  82. As hard as it is to say this... by MozeeToby · · Score: 1

    Suicide is ugly. It tears the victim's survivors to pieces. They don't know what to think, what to feel. They want to be angry that the person would do this to them. They want to be sad that the person is gone. They feel guilty because they think there is something they should have done, should have noticed. Most of all, they want it to never have happened.

    Ask yourself if you really believe his death was an accident, because anything else you find is only going to hamper the family's pain (not just grief, pain. If you find an explanation it will only breed guilt or anger, they will take even longer to move through those emotions that they would have otherwise.

    I was married for two months when my father-in-law commited suicide last December. My wife still cries herself to sleep about once every other week. I understand that they want closure, but they aren't going to find it; and anything they do find will only make acceptance harder.

    1. Re:As hard as it is to say this... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree To Mozee. this will not serve your purpose . Let Go.

  83. Speak to a lawyer. by Carik · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Seriously. Speak to a lawyer, and then recommend a professional data recovery company to the family. You do not want to get involved with this. Best case, it turns out there's proof it was accidental. I'm not sure how that could be proved, but let's assume it was.

    Worst case, you find evidence of... something. Drug use, criminal activity, involvement with a cult, something like that. Whatever it was, it drove him to suicide. Now you're in the position of telling the family that their son/brother was doing something they wouldn't have approved of. Yes, they may be glad to know what really happened, but you'd better believe that things are going to be awkward with the family from now on.

    Or, possibly even worse than that... what if it turns out it was something the family did? Even if it wasn't anything illegal or even dishonest... do you want to be in the position of telling the parents that something they did caused their son to kill himself? I wouldn't. I wouldn't want to do that to my worst enemy, let alone people I liked.

    Speak to a lawyer to find out the legal issues and what is needed to get information from various hosting services, then suggest that the family contact a good data recovery firm. Have them hire a lawyer to get the data from the hosting services. No matter how much you want to help, restrict it to helping them find professionals to get the data, don't try to do it yourself.

    1. Re:Speak to a lawyer. by anomalous+cohort · · Score: 1

      Even better than speaking to a lawyer, just walk away. IANAL, but it is a forensic issue to investigate the cause of death, including any searches of any property like computers or accounts. What if the police decided to mount a criminal investigation and they encounter your snooping around? Do you really want to be in that situation? What if the deceased becomes a victim of identity fraud later? You will become the prime suspect. Besides, anything you encounter won't be admissible in court anyway.

      This smells like a set up. If the family really wants to know what is in this child's computer(s) and/or account(s), then have them seek credible council on the matter. This is really a forensics and/or probate issue. Don't get involved. If you do get involved and you end up in prison and the other inmates ask you what you are in for, you'll have to say "stupidity."

    2. Re:Speak to a lawyer. by Krater76 · · Score: 1

      Mod parent up, please.

      The OP needs to protect the rights of himself while protecting the integrity of any investigation. That means a licensed private investigator or firm that handles cases like this is the way to go. The OP sounds like a nice guy who wants to help out but the best thing he can do is investigate the options, give those to the family, and then step back and let them handle it.

      A good friend of mine had her younger brother apparently commit suicide...

      Ah, I see where this is going. The OP likes the girl and is trying to be a hero. Great angle but if he's just supportive and comforting that's the best way to get her to notice him. If something gets f'ed up he'll be the fool who caused her family more harm than good.

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    3. Re:Speak to a lawyer. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What if you found out that an uncle (who had 5 more kids) was molesting him. Would the family want to find that out?! Wouldn't you want that fucker to go to jail and get to be someone elses girlfriend?

    4. Re:Speak to a lawyer. by westlake · · Score: 1
      Seriously. Speak to a lawyer... You do not want to get involved with this. Best case, it turns out there's proof it was accidental. Worst case, you find evidence of... something. Drug use, criminal activity, involvement with a cult, something like that. Whatever it was, it drove him to suicide.

      This has the right feel to it.

      The amateur detective is best left to fiction. You have no way of knowing how deep the waters are here. How badly you could screw things up.

    5. Re:Speak to a lawyer. by Carik · · Score: 1

      Probably. But people are weird -- if you tell them the truth, rather than what they want to hear, they tend to get mad at you.

      Better that they hear it from a law enforcement professional then a friend. That also makes it more likely that the hypthetical uncle will go to jail, since there can't be any claims that a friend of the family altered the evidence, whatever it was.

  84. I don't think it's a big deal. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    But also I consider myself a decent person. I don't live up to some high standard, but if someone close to me were to find out my darkest secrets, I really wouldn't care.. There's no dirt on me.. There's nothing I'm ashamed of. What I also feel the need to mention is some of my best friends (whose passwords I know) have some very strange fetishes, and sure some of them initially shocked me once I found out, but you soon get over it, especially when you realize they are your best friend and it doesn't change that. Even though it my not be my "thing," I respect them and their enjoyments in life.

    I haven't done it yet, but I keep planning to put together a document containing a list of my usernames and passwords so that in the event that I die, my family can do what they want with them.

  85. on-line by Fuzzums · · Score: 1

    One other matter is, what is the "being-online-while-dead" protocol.

    Do you answer incoming messages on IQC when you're reading the old chats, do you send a mass-message to everybody in the list? Same goes for e-mail.

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  86. More Crime... by Maljin+Jolt · · Score: 2, Informative

    Dear anonymous reader,

    Your "good" friend may have murdered her brother as well. From what you say, a suicide is unlikely without some strong reason and without death note. If some information related to such crime is to be found on his account, not only you could be involved in murder case, but you may be in life danger yourself knowing some key information about it, just in case your "good" friend wants to clean up all traces.

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  87. Title change suggestion... by ZiggyStardust1984 · · Score: 1

    The current title doesn't follows the great /. tradition of nice, misleading, news titles. I suggest "LAMP may have lead to suicide of CS major"

  88. no problem... by spikenerd · · Score: 1

    Boot from a Knoppix or Ubuntu live CD
    sudo su
    mkdir /hda1
    mount /dev/hda1 /hda1
    cd /hda1
    explore away...

  89. The Right Way(TM) or The Wrong Way(R) by CrazyKen · · Score: 1
    Respect your deceased friends' privacy?... or help his living family members have peace of mind in terms of how he died? Tough questions, indeed. Being that he didn't leave a reason, it either was an accident (or a murder) or he doesn't want people to know -- not even his family. Also, since he's computer savvy, if it was suicide and he didn't want people to know, he would have covered those tracks. On the flip side, maybe he did leave a reason for someone to find, and that reason is buried deep in one of his various accounts, but he didn't want to make it easy for someone to find. So, since he's smart enough to cover his tracks (if he chose to do so), I don't think it would be much of an issue to gain access to those accounts.

    Gaining access to the laptop account should be fairly easy and straight forward. While most of us do have e-mail accounts from major public providers (Gmail, MSN, Yahoo!, Hotmail, etc.), they're all normally registered using an e-mail account from our ISP. With the permission and aid from his parents, you could contact said ISP and have his password changed. This can be done with you portraying to be him (The Wrong Way), or being honest with the ISP and informing them of the situation (The Right Way). The Wrong Way would probably yield better results with less hassle. Once you have access to his personal e-mail account supplied by his ISP, you can most likely gain access to the public accounts by going through the automated password reset feature (The Wrong Way), or you could contact the respective providers, inform them of the situation, and hope for the best (The Right Way). In this case, again, The Wrong Way will most likely yield better results. Gaining access to his university account will probably have to be done The Right Way only.

    I don't recommend trying to crack your way in to any of the public accounts. If you're caught, you'd have a hard time explaining it all to the authorities and his family will not be able to help much once the law is involved.

  90. On Asking the Question by genoese · · Score: 1

    It says very good things about you that you even stopped to ask the question. Many would not, either because they wanted to be a "hero" or because they were overwhelmed by the grief of the survivors. That being said, my bias would be to uncover as much information as could possibly be uncovered, especially seeing as how the circumstances of the deceased's passing are not yet entirely clear. As the attainment of said clarity is paramount for legal, moral, and psychological reasons (IMHO), I would view any action taken toward that goal as entirely appropriate.

  91. Possible way to get online passwords easilly by The+Solitaire · · Score: 1

    If you can get access to his laptop - and from what I've seen in this thread, that should be easy, then in Firefox - which, being a Linux user, I'd guess he was probably using - there's a way to get all of someone's saved passwords very quickly and easily. You just go to Tools -> Options -> Security -> Show Passwords -> Show Passwords, and there they all are, in plain-text. To be honest, I've always wondered about this option. Seems like a big security risk, on shared computers. Anyway, hope it's helpful for you.

    1. Re:Possible way to get online passwords easilly by damacus · · Score: 1

      Set a master password. Then you'll have to authenticate before you can see those or use them to log in to sites.

    2. Re:Possible way to get online passwords easilly by undertow3886 · · Score: 1

      It's because unless you are using a master password (in which case you'd need to enter it correctly after clicking "show passwords"), the data is stored unencrypted on disk anyway, just base64 encoded (obfuscated). You could go to the Firefox profile directly and un-base64 the file and see all the passwords. Having that option in the UI prevents the user from having a false sense of security that passwords are somehow safe even without a master password.

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  92. Don't contact GMail, Yahoo, etc. by rjamestaylor · · Score: 3, Informative

    You'll just invite delay and trouble by contacting service providers. Instead, change his laptop's root password (it's easy: at grub edit the default stanza and set init=/bin/bash and then boot; once in, use "passwd" to change the root passwd; next use "passwd username" to change his user's password; using the rescue environment is slightly more complicated). This assumes he is not using an encrypted FS, which is likely.

    Once you can boot into his user account, run the mail client(s) he has setup. They likely have the passwords stored. Voila, no need to contact the service providers.

    Ethical? Well, you'll want to check with his heirs, first, but assuming there is no resistance on that front, go for it. It's called archeology when we do it to the Pharaohs.

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    1. Re:Don't contact GMail, Yahoo, etc. by mariuszbi · · Score: 1

      AFAIK, you need a mount / -o remount,rw for passwd to really write the /etc/shadow file as / in being mounted ro in single

    2. Re:Don't contact GMail, Yahoo, etc. by darkmeridian · · Score: 1

      I would bit-copy all of the hard drive data first. Losing all of his digital information because of a boo-boo would really suck.

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    3. Re:Don't contact GMail, Yahoo, etc. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Resetting the passwords is one of the dumbest things you can do.

      Most people use the same or similar passwords for logons. Running the root or local user accounts through a cracker such as John the Ripper may give you all the information you need.

      I have used this technique before when Windows users sync their logon password with the password for their PGP disks.

      Once you've changed his password, it will be gone forever.

    4. Re:Don't contact GMail, Yahoo, etc. by rjamestaylor · · Score: 1

      this is true; thanks for pointing out that step!

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    5. Re:Don't contact GMail, Yahoo, etc. by rjamestaylor · · Score: 1

      Good point as well. In practice, though, the risk is low. Would suck that this would be that exception, though.

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    6. Re:Don't contact GMail, Yahoo, etc. by PhotoGuy · · Score: 2, Informative

      Just another tip; before overwriting any password, save the old /etc/passwd and /etc/shadow, in case you do want to brute-force the password later. His login password might be the same as the password he uses for email or other accounts that you otherwise couldn't crack easily. (It's easier to brute force a local /etc/shadow than a remote web site.)

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    7. Re:Don't contact GMail, Yahoo, etc. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I would suggest cracking his password instead of changing it.

      If you crack it you can try that password on other systems/logins as well which might be harder to "brute force". Its not uncommon for people to use a password on multiple locations.

    8. Re:Don't contact GMail, Yahoo, etc. by Squ33k · · Score: 1

      of course for the sake of contamination, remember to image the drive first, that way if you screw it up, your just messing up a copy :)

    9. Re:Don't contact GMail, Yahoo, etc. by rjamestaylor · · Score: 1

      of course for the sake of contamination, remember to image the drive first, that way if you screw it up, your just messing up a copy :) Very important point.
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  93. Proof of accident? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How would anything that he wrote before it happened prove that it was an accident? It's much more likely that you'll find proof that it was a suicide.

    Break into the computer if finding the reason for the suicide is important for the family, but be aware that finding his darkest thoughts (that weren't meant for anyone to read) may completely spoil the memory of their brother/son.

  94. What do you expect to find? by Talsan · · Score: 1

    If the police/coroner have already ruled the death a suicide, you are unlikely to find anything on the laptop or in one of his emails that would help overturn the ruling. If it's still under investigation, the family should talk to a lawyer about whether it's OK to do this, and what their responsibilities are, based on what could be found.

    The unfortunate truth about suicides is that it's rarely one thing that pushes someone to commit the act. It's an act of depression and desperation that was brewing for a long time.

    If you do decide to help, you need to realize that this could be very difficult for you, and depending on what you find, could severely strain your relationship with this family. Is this something you are prepared for?

  95. No victim, no crime by ClientNine · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Your ethics in this case extend to the living, not the dead. "First, do no harm..." might be a good motto here. You are going to be mucking about in some content that might not be what anyone is expecting, but there is a story there and the living want it told-- at least to them.

    So long as you are discreet and have the consent of the family, do what you need to do to bring them closure.

    I've lost a child. I can assure you that it is important to the family that the tragedy not be a pointless one. A tragedy happened, and at the very least they want to know that they handled it well, that perhaps they are wiser for it, SOMETHING. It's called closure, and it doesn't ease the loss but it does help with the frustration.

  96. yes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    My old college roommate also committed suicide last year, and I found myself in a similar situation, as the most computer-literate of his friends and family. I didn't think twice about helping his wife and family get into his accounts, his private server, and his email. There was a lot of stuff in there, such as work for his consulting clients, family photos, etc that were important for them to have, and it was good for everyone.

    Yes, getting a court order, death certificate, etc can help - but as far as getting into a computer that you've been given by the family (or a privately hosted machine), you should go ahead so long as you have the family's blessing.

    1. Re:yes by genoese · · Score: 1

      I see that you are a compassionate person, and I fully understand your actions, but it is also good to ask the question, though. It can be argued that suicide makes victims of the survivors, and hence they (IMHO) become entitled to anything that would help them cope in any way. It can also be argued that the deceased has a continuing right to privacy. I suppose much depends on one's view of suicide, as to whether it's a legitimate choice or a heinous act. In the interest of full disclosure, I hold the latter view, albeit with the caveat of being careful to judge only the act and not the person.

  97. some legal help by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I did something similar for a friend of the family. In my case the family approached me and extended a legal umbrella in the form of a power of attorney from the family lawyer in order to assist me in dealing with sysadmins and such. The family issued a limited POA that allowed me to access and view all computer related accounts. Hope this helps, sorry about your loss.

  98. After my best friend killed himself by Orion+Blastar · · Score: 3, Interesting

    his wife and family asked me to get into his Yahoo account and ICQ account. There was a secret answer that either resets the password or reveals the password. This was in 1999 so maybe security has changed. The user sets the secret answer. His was the original middle name of his mother. His family gave me a copy of his birth certificate and I got the answer off of it and got into his account on Yahoo and gave the password to his wife and reset his ICQ password and gave it to his wife as well. We couldn't find anything that triggered the suicide. But on his computer the police found in his web cache that he visited web sites about suicide and got an idea from one of them to use a shotgun on himself. He bought the shotgun, and left a credit card receipt in the box, according to his wife who told me what the police found.

    He was a brilliant C++ programmer and I had forwarded emails to him about jobs, and found that a year's worth of job possibilities and recruiter email hadn't been opened up and looked at by him. He just moved it to a different folder. Had he responded to any of them, his chances of finding another job would have been better.

    I'd explain more but it is too painful to talk about. There were alcohol and drug related abuses as well in his life. He drank a whole bottle of vodka before killing himself. He ignored phone calls and emails for months, and I couldn't contact him.

    Oh yeah if he uses Firefox, there is a reveal passwords option in the tools/options/security/show passwords box. You might be able to see what passwords he used, unless he wiped them out and also cleared his password history.

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  99. You can't prove a negative (accident) by lpontiac · · Score: 1

    I don't understand how you could prove that it truly was an accident.

    If it was suicide, you may be able to find some evidence of this, if he left a note, plans, etc behind in his accounts.

    If it truly was an accident, you'd find no such thing. However, it would also be possible for this to be a suicide, and he simply didn't commit any of his plans to electronic media.

    1. Re:You can't prove a negative (accident) by jdbo · · Score: 1

      He's not talking about scientific/mathematical "proof" here; he's talking about looking for circumstantial evidence, which can be used in legal arguments, and (more importantly) helping the family achieve a sense of closure.

      In this case, If he does NOT find any circumstantial evidence of suicidal depression/suicide planning/etc., then the family should assume that their son's death was a terrible accident, which should be dealt with in a different manner then a death by suicide. I terms of the grieving process, these sorts of unanswered questions can haunt the survivors for the rest of their lives, so any (sincere and earnest) source of closure is worthwhile.

      Furthermore, this knowledge will also help guide the family in terms of dealing with the police, insurance companies, informing extended family and friends, etc.

      This is a messy, human situation, not a logical proof. Don't expect that it can or should be treated as such.

    2. Re:You can't prove a negative (accident) by Doctor+Faustus · · Score: 1

      I don't understand how you could prove that it truly was an accident.
      My first thought from the post was that it could either been suicide by hanging or an accident in auto-erotic asphyxia. If you find evidence he was into the latter, that could help.

  100. Thoughts... by Bert64 · · Score: 2, Informative

    I doubt that gmail/hotmail/myspace etc will give you anything, tho if the death is suspicious the police could contact them.

    You wouldn't need to crack his root pass, you could just mount his drive in another machine and read his data from it, or change the password, assuming he hasn't encrypted the drive.

    You might be able to get into some of his accounts using information pulled from his laptop, and once you have one of his email accounts you might be able to get into other things using reset password links etc..

    Also, since you're working for his family, if he's used typically lame "security questions" like mothers maiden name and first pet etc, you should be able to get that information trivially.

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  101. Mod Parent UP by inasity_rules · · Score: 1

    Never underestimate the usefullness of an drive image, and therefore the ability to put the machine back exactly as it was.

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  102. What could prove it was an accident? by TorKlingberg · · Score: 1
    I don't see what could possible prove that is was an accident. There are many things that could indicate that is was not, but does anybody want that?

    Ethically, I don't think it's much of a problem. There has never been much issues with relatives breaking the locks of a dead guys house, locker, or safe deposit box. I see no reason a gmail account should be more secret than private letters in a drawer.

  103. Ethics by Bert64 · · Score: 1

    As for the ethical aspect...

    I would suggest his computer, the data on it and his online accounts etc, now belong to his family along with the rest of his belongings, in the absence of any will saying differently, so if the family want you to look at it that's their right.
    It's no different to someone who maintains a paper diary, it falls to their family after death who may or may not read it at their discretion.

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  104. Sorry..... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    But that's an asshole thing to do.

    Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

    Dickhead.

  105. Getting access to user accounts by dwmurray57 · · Score: 2, Informative

    Last year, one of my roomates died of an accidental medical overdose and since I didnt know any of her distant family I had to go thru the process of getting information from other sources. I had to get this in order to work with the Funeral costs and details. I needed to get access to her contacts and Emails from HOTMAIL and had no clue to her password. I contacted the Hotmail support and explained my situation. They asked me to provide a copy of her death ceritficate (as I was the one that handled the police / hospital / coroner aspect) I was deemed her legal representation. After supplying the document and proof of identication for myself, I was given a copy of her information and emails. It's not as complicated as it sounds, but whoever will ask a provider for the information also needs to be the person on the legal documentation otherwise the provider (most probably) refuse to supply the information. Hope this helps, Doug!

  106. please don't get married by Trailer+Trash · · Score: 1

    I wouldn't attempt to crack a man's account for his wife because she thinks he is cheating on her, as his life is his own business.

    Please never get married - at least not until you understand why "his life is his own business" is so terribly wrong.

    1. Re:please don't get married by dirtyhippie · · Score: 1

      But what if you find the man was cheating on her? Or you find some well hidden out of the mainstream kinky porn? Privacy is worth preserving, even after death. Don't put yourself in the awkward situation of knowing something about your friend's little brother that you have to either a) disclose to the family or b) keep to yourself forever.

      I mean, what are you searching for, a suicide note? People who leave suicide notes leave them in a place that folks can get them, not squirreled away on their computer or email account.

      Pay your respects, by respecting the man's privacy. Whether you want to explain that situation to the family or not, however, is up to you. You could always just claim you're not familiar with his linux distribution or it's beyond your skillset or etc.

  107. Possible account access from laptop by Digital_Quartz · · Score: 4, Informative

    As the parent said, booting the system from a live CD will let you in. If this person used Firefox's password manager (and assuming he didn't set a master password), you can reset his account's password from the live CD, then log into the laptop as him, and use Firefox to connect to hotmail, gmail, etc... You could even use Firefox's "Show Passwords" to recover the passwords, if needed.

    1. Re:Possible account access from laptop by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You should definitely Show Passwords as he was likely to use the same passwords again and again on various systems.

    2. Re:Possible account access from laptop by hackstraw · · Score: 1

      As the parent said, booting the system from a live CD will let you in.

      Doesn't anyone boot with init=/bin/sh anymore?

    3. Re:Possible account access from laptop by Solandri · · Score: 1

      Since there seem to be legal issues at stake, I'd recommend doing an image copy of the drive to a new drive, then using a live CD to hack into the new drive. That way the original drive is still in its "pristine" state should any legal issues arise from altering the files. Ideally you want to dd the entire partition(s), to also preserve any deleted data.

    4. Re:Possible account access from laptop by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Be careful! Booting a computer changes it - especially in the eyes of the law. If you want to use what you find as evidence, you'll need to follow some forensics procedures. Rule number 1, copy the hard disk, then boot that copy. That way if someone needs to reproduce your evidence you can give them the original untouched (except to make a copy) hard disk.... Unfortunately if you don't use some kind of write blocker, someone (insurance company?) can very easily challenge the evidence.

  108. Do you really by Pax00 · · Score: 1

    I think the real question is do you really want to know? does the family really want to know? Having this question answered could cause more harm than not knowing and allowing the family to come to their own reasons as to why. if he has attacked his family at all in any letters or posts there is no way for them to be able to fix what he may have felt they did wrong. personally I would let it be.

    1. Re:Do you really by pclminion · · Score: 1

      I think the real question is do you really want to know? does the family really want to know?

      Who the fuck is he to decide what the family wants to know? They have legal right to everything. If you have some kind of fucked up personal dilemma about doing the right thing, then don't do it, but for God's sake don't pretend to do it and serve as some sort of dire filter of information such that you (some ultimately irrelevant sliver of this family's life) are holding ultimate control over the facts. I really can't imagine anything more sick than that.

      If this was a suicide, and there was information he never wanted the world to see, he should have deleted it. If he didn't, then he made a mistake. There is no privacy in death.

  109. Shouldn't blank the password by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Don't just blank the password, save it for cracking. Even if you have access to the system, the password might be the same one used for online services.

    1. Re:Shouldn't blank the password by miscz · · Score: 1

      Once you have access to the web browser then most likely you can get dozen of passwords used to logging into websites which are probably all the same or there's just about 3-5 of them.

  110. "achievement depression" by peter303 · · Score: 1

    I got depressed a bit after every graduation. I evaluated myself on my academic prowess and graduation was the end of a stage. Fortunately there was soemthing new around the corner. I wonder if other nerds experienced this?

  111. Sadly experienced a similar situation recently by chrisgeleven · · Score: 1

    A cousin of mine that I was very close with committed suicide in January. It was absolutely heart wrenching. I had no clue she was in that much trouble (she had tried a year prior, but all indications from what I knew was that she was doing much better). I still wrestle to this day with the guilt of not being more involved. Which is why I helped in the situation below...at least I could say I did something.

    My uncle (her father) called me 2 or 3 days after she died and in a very rough phone call asked for my help (me being the computer guy in the family). He had literally just found out she had a myspace account, which had contained several recent blog posts regarding her struggles finding a job and some of her issues she had been dealing with. Nothing about her suicidal thoughts were written though.

    He had also heard she had wrote on her myspace blog really nice things about him and he wanted to read it with his own eyes. He also wanted to post a comment on her page, as in the days immediately after her death it became quite a memorial for all of us who knew her.

    The issue was she didn't allow comments without that person being a friend on her myspace account

    He had figured out how to create an account, so I had to break him the news that without my cousin's password, he wouldn't be approved to post on her myspace. Luckly, we figured out her password thanks to help from her partner and was able to get into my cousin's account to approve him.

    For me, the ethical thing to do was to allow her loving father to send one more message to her, to read about the love she had for him, and perhaps find some answers as to why she did what she did.

    Luckily it didn't have to get to the point of slaving the hard drive and hoping she saved the passwords in IE or Firefox. She had apparently shared some of her passwords with her partner. However, I was fully prepared to go all the way to requesting help from MySpace itself it that was what it took.

    She would have wanted it that way, I know it.

  112. In military service... by Deadstick · · Score: 4, Interesting
    ...when someone is killed in action or dies in any other manner while away from home, his personal effects are examined by an officer before being sent to the next of kin. The official purpose of this, and the legal justification for it, is to recover whatever government property the decedent had issued to him -- but the officer, in a totally off-the-books manner, also removes the things his survivors wouldn't want to get back. And in an overseas military environment, there are lots of those.

    I'd suggest something similar. Ask the probate judge to release the computers to a designated consultant, maybe a family friend, who has the technical chops to bypass the passwords (which, as others mention here, is not that big a job) and whose judgment they trust to preserve the decedent's privacy while he digs out anything that might help them.

    rj

  113. Profiles by letso · · Score: 1

    The easiest way to obtain passwords from websites, email providers and services in this case (and many other cases;) would be to hijack the Firefox and Thunderbird profiles, or equivalent, if the subject used something else for browsing/email. That way you not only get the stored passwords (most of the people store their passwords in these apps without a master password), but you also hijack their active sessions and cookies. Even if he didn't store his passwords, he probably didn't bother to clear all cookies before committing suicide. That being said, I think it's pretty ethically correct to do the family's will and give them the access they want to their son's information. Still I'm not sure how much his family will benefit from this information and if they're not better off without digging through his personal stuff now.

  114. A matter of ethos by g0bshiTe · · Score: 1

    The ethics are the guy has passed, all his personal property now belongs to his next of kin. If they have given you their permission then you have the ethical go ahead to proceed. I think you should in all likely hood prepare the family members before hand and inform them that in all likely hood you may find nothing more to give them closure.

    As for his gmail, and myspace accounts you would have a better time hacking them than getting permission from either to access the account, this may include the family. You would have the burden of proof to prove that user is deceased, and even then with a million or so users would they really care about that 1 account, since you aren't law enforcement or anything.

    My condolences on your loss.

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  115. Perhaps the wrong people to ask by SeePage87 · · Score: 1

    /. is notoriously full of atheists. You might get a bias sampling of answers. I'm not an atheist, so maybe I can balance it out.

    Many people use myspace as a kind of diary, and I think it is clearly immoral to read someone living's diary without their permission. As for a dead person, we read Anne Frank's all the time; you have to make the call as to whether they might want have wanted you to. Since you are sharing it to help those who he loved and who loved him, it would be difficult to believe he wouldn't.

  116. Oblig. Frontalot by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Best of all, your secret: nothing extant could extract it.
    By 2025 a children's Speak & Spell could crack it.

    You can't hide secrets from the future with math.
    You can try, but I bet that in the future they laugh
    at the half-assed schemes and algorithms amassed
    to enforce cryptographs in the past.

  117. when my daughter was murdered by drew30319 · · Score: 5, Interesting

    My daughter was murdered by her ex-boyfriend two years ago. I had recently given her a laptop in preparation for college and after the police were finished inspecting it for clues it was returned to me.

    Fortunately she had stayed logged in to her myspace account and I was able to use the "reveal asterisks" hack to reveal her password. That password led to other accounts & email accounts which then led to more passwords.

    Eventually I could access everything - to include the killer's accounts. It was very helpful for me to be able to know that my daughter was exactly who I thought she was and at the same time gain insight into the punk that murdered her.

    If there is the opportunity to give your friend some closure then I don't feel that a moral dilemma exists. The dead are just that... dead. The ones that are grieving and in pain are the living. If you can do something that may assuage their grief I feel you should.

    Just be aware that what might be revealed has the potential to cause more pain - but that's really your friend's decision.

    Good luck, and my condolences to your friend.

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    1. Re:when my daughter was murdered by Moe1975 · · Score: 1

      I am sorry to hear about your daughter.

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    2. Re:when my daughter was murdered by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sorry to hear of your tragedy. Hope you can find some peace.

    3. Re:when my daughter was murdered by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Me too and I really hope you murdered the shit out of that guy. Even if he is caught he will do a few years in prison, then what?

      Take care of things properly.

    4. Re:when my daughter was murdered by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have to agree, even though it is not always the best solution, as violence begets violence. It may also be beneath the man's dignity to do so. He may have many reasons, and valid ones, to not go that route.

      Personally, the type of person I am in that sense . . . I would not even go after the guy himself, I would shoot one of his family members stone cold dead, perhaps his mother or whoever he loves most, so that he can see what that feels like. That, however, would be the most primitive, the ugliest solution, and it would be wrong, but like I said, that is the type of person I am in that sense.

    5. Re:when my daughter was murdered by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Me too (i'm your parent poster). The only downside there is that you might have other family he would then go after.

      Cleanest way to go is just to to shoot him dead. Make him hurt first if you can, but just shoot him dead.

    6. Re:when my daughter was murdered by drachenstern · · Score: 1

      Wow, I would never want to have to live through that. It would seem from reading your post that you have found a tiny bit of closure, and for that for you I am happy. But to speak of offering condolences, I offer you mine, in the hopes that I should never have to live through the personal hell that you have had to live through.

      May you forever more always know only peace.

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  118. Presumption of Cause of Death by jbf · · Score: 1

    Since the stated purpose is to determine whether or not this was a suicide or an accident, and since the cause of death is not described, and since the payment arrangements are not described, let me start with some assumptions.

    1. Death was by traumatic injury.
    2. Payment from some third party (generally an insurance company) would depend on whether or not the cause of death was suicide.

    There is a rebuttable presumption in many states that death by traumatic injury is accidental, which shifts the burden of proof to the third party. If, in the course of litigating the claim against the third party, the third pleads/brings facts sufficient to overcome the presumption, you should get a subpoena that will open all the accounts for you. I'd avoid cracking the laptop myself if you're going to take this route: you want someone who appears unbiased to be looking through the files. Any destructive change may be considered destruction of evidence, and such would be construed as strongly as possible against the destroyer of that evidence.

    IANAL. YMMV. Law may vary in your state.

    1. Re:Presumption of Cause of Death by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      and since the cause of death is not described

      The cause of death is described in the first sentence:

      A good friend of mine had her younger brother apparently commit suicide last week.

      The dudes girlfriend convinced her younger brother to kill himself. No need to invade the brother's privacy, just turn your girlfriend in. Should be no problem to get the insurance company to pay after the criminal trial.

      Or maybe it's just bad grammar.

  119. Open it by beaverbrother · · Score: 1

    Personally, I would want people to see everything of my life they wanted to, raw. If you are troubled, you are probably struggling to get people to understand you, and you would probably really appreciate people trying.

  120. Dead people have no privacy rights. by Russ+Nelson · · Score: 1

    Dead people have no privacy rights.

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  121. Sounds fishy. by ShaggyBOFH · · Score: 1
    Am I the only one that thinks there's something odd? An anonymous reader posts to a geek site a heart wrenching story of death and is basically asking for hacking tips?

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  122. Do crack the root password by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There is a good chance that he recycled that password in many places. That will make it *much* easier to gain access to all of the online resources he used.

  123. Catch-22 by Peet42 · · Score: 1

    A good friend of mine died of a heart attack recently.

    I contacted an online directory that was listing him and asked that they took down his profile because he had died. "Sure", they replied, "just give us his password and the answer to his secret question"... :-(

  124. Hire a lawyer first! by AusIV · · Score: 1
    You state that "The family is in a situation where proof of accidental death would change how this was viewed in terms of paying for parts of the funeral." I assume this means there is some kind of life insurance policy or other legal entity that will pay for the funeral if it is found to be an accident.


    Anything you find in his computer will likely be inadmissible if you have to take a company to court. My advice would be to hire a lawyer before you even touch his computer. If they feel it's appropriate, they can hire a licensed expert to search through that information. With the nature of digital information, anything you find on his system could just as easily have been forged by you as found by you.

    The other thing to consider, is what evidence could you find? If he did in fact commit suicide, you may find a suicide note, that he visited suicide related websites, or some kind of correspondence with someone regarding suicide. He also might have covered his tracks.

    If this turned out to be an accident, what evidence could you possibly find on his computer? You may find a calendar indicating he had plans for later in the week, but it's my understanding that when men commit suicide it's often a compulsion, and not something they planned out very far ahead of time.

    If the family simply wants to know, you can find quite a bit of information on someone's computer. If this is to try and claim money in a court of law, the search needs to be done by a professional, but I have my doubts that a professional could prove anything other than suicide.

  125. A serious advice! by drolli · · Score: 1

    Dont take this things in your hands. If you have to ask Slashdot to determine wether to break into the accounts or not, then you are not the right person to do the job. You obviously have no experience in forensics (not computers) or investigations. And obviously it's neither your profession nor have you been involved with suicide cases regularly. There is no way you can handle this, get the right conclusion, stay within the correct legal procedures and not get hurt emotionally at the same time.

    Ask yourself: let's say you break into one of the accounts, the bring the evidence to court/the insurance etc. i can tell you, if you did it, it's most likely not to be used as evidence any more. Let's say you find it out. Are you trained in handling relatives? Let's say you find it out but don't want to tell it to the relatives? Do you know how to handle that? What about you? are you emotionally firm enough to really search for something like this?

  126. I've been through this... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    I actually had to do this for a family one time. The local police department didn't want anything to do with it -- the young man was in the armed forces and died in his residence due to a drug overdose. His parents knew he had been going through a divorce and wanted closure to make sure it wasn't because of his ex wife. As it turned out, he had been dabbling a lot in illegal drugs (as I found out through discovering lot of emails he had between some friends of his). It had apparently been going on for a while and they were satisfied knowing it wasn't his ex wife that had driven him to do a one-time overdose.

  127. We owe the dead by Myopic · · Score: 1

    "We owe respect to the living. To the dead we owe only truth." Voltaire

  128. If he didn't want them read... by Lilith's+Heart-shape · · Score: 1

    The way I see it, if this guy really didn't want people going through his computers after he had died, he would have wiped his MySpace profiles and overwrote the drives on all his computers with zeros in order to wipe out all data. He would also have done everything he could to get rid of anything he might have left behind on Google, MSN, etc.

    1. Re:If he didn't want them read... by akratic · · Score: 1

      You're assuming that the death was a suicide. The OP says that the reason for looking through the accounts is to find out whether the death was a suicide or an accident.

  129. single user mode ... by GodWasAnAlien · · Score: 1

    Use a boot cd, or add a '1' to command line arguments.

    If one has physical access to a machine, it makes little to prevent access at boot time, as you can boot from a rescue CD, or remove the hard drive and read it yourself.

    As for the google and hotmail accounts, email the admin there.

    No hacking required.

  130. If he saw his friend again... by Viol8 · · Score: 1

    ... he'd better start worrying because it means his friend is a resurrected zombie! Run!

    Seriously , if someone is dead they're dead. Gone. No more. And don't give that "soul gone to heaven" nonsense. If their left no will then any attempt at second guessing their wishes is a waste of time and effort.

  131. The dead have no rights. by harl · · Score: 1

    He's dead. He has no rights.

    I fail to see where the dilemma is. Is he going to get mad at you? Is he going to sue you? Is he going to press charges.

    If the estate says yes, which it appears to be doing, then there is no problem.

    This whole thing seems foolish.

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  132. Estate by CmdrPorno · · Score: 1

    If he has an estate (assets to pass to others), the attorney handling it can issue a subpoena to the service providers. (Getting them to comply may be another thing, but it's worth a shot).

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  133. Writing passwords down... by Firethorn · · Score: 1

    A safety deposit box isn't a bad idea for keeping your important records. In my safety deposit box, I keep the title to my house*, the title to my car, my will**, extra checks, passport, birth certificate, etc...

    Having a password list in there, in a sealed envelope for your executor isn't a bad idea. They're going to need a death cert and key to get in there anyways.

    *Yes, I'm unusual, I own my own house in the free and clear.
    **I have extra copies with my executor and in my house, in my records box.

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    1. Re:Writing passwords down... by edwdig · · Score: 1

      This may not be the case by you, but it is in New Jersey, so I'll give you a warning just in case.

      DO NOT put your original will in your safe deposit box. The will is needed to get access to the safe deposit box. The bank will not let someone in the safe deposit box without the paperwork to prove they are the executor. Getting that paperwork of course requires the original will.

      If the original will is in the safe deposit box, you have to go to court and get a court order to allow you access to the safe deposit box.

    2. Re:Writing passwords down... by pnutjam · · Score: 1

      A safe deposit box is a bad place for a will. You should make sure someone else you trust can legally access it if you keep your will there. Otherwise a death certificate and key is not enough, it has to go through probate court to prove ownership and by then you will is useless.

    3. Re:Writing passwords down... by Man+On+Pink+Corner · · Score: 1

      You can designate your executor with the bank in advance. That's what my mom did before she died; I was able to simply walk into the bank with her key and a loaded Glock and access the deposit box with no problems.

      In all seriousness, it does make life a lot easier for your survivors if you name them as heirs to your bank account(s).

    4. Re:Writing passwords down... by WNight · · Score: 1

      What does the glock have to do with this story?

    5. Re:Writing passwords down... by Man+On+Pink+Corner · · Score: 1

      It was an (obviously failed) attempt at humor. See, if you bring a gun, it doesn't matter whether you're authorized to acces... aw, never mind.

    6. Re:Writing passwords down... by WNight · · Score: 1

      I see. The fact that you actually had the key clouded it. :)

  134. what you might find by nategoose · · Score: 1

    When doing this you have to be ready for what you might find and how to handle it. It's likely that there's some stuff that his family would rather not know existed, like porn. There may also be evidence of some illegal activity, which may implicate people besides himself. How might you handle that? As far as actually doing the job, don't start with his accounts on sites. Start with his laptop and school accounts. You can ask the school for assistance and even if they have a policy against it if you ask they should make a backup and let a court decide if his parents get the data. If he's a minor this should probably be a sure thing. On his laptop, make a backup of the harddrive image. Then always work with a copy. It's likely that if you can run a web browser with his config files it might remember his passwords for the sites you are interested in, which would save you a lot of work. If he's uber security minded you're in for some hard work. With the sites he has accounts on you can try figuring out who else might have some sort of access already. If you found one MySpace friend on the private account you might persuade them to let you look at it through their account. Or maybe just give a summary of some stuff on it that they think might be of interest if they feel like some of it is secrets that should die with him. As far as trying to crack passwords for accounts, I have no suggestions. Try to work around having to do this.

  135. wow. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "proof of accidental death would change how this was viewed in terms of paying for parts of the funeral"

    nice family. tons of unconditional love, clearly.

  136. Make a backup first for god's sake! by CreatorOfSmallTruths · · Score: 1

    I don't know if anyone mentioned this first because of all the ajax hoopla we have in /. these days but for the love of god:
    *** Make a backup of everything before starting ***
    No matter what, these are the last things his family will have of him, and even if its painful to the level of not caring right now, they will want it in the future.

  137. An Adventure left behind. by KurtisKiesel · · Score: 1

    On a personal note. If I were to die, even more so if I were to kill myself, my passwords and permanent digital signature left behind for all time I consider to be a treasure hunt or challenge to those who are left with the ability to hack a password. And just to add to the trail. Some of my passwords have characters like "âOE" (homeplates) somewhere in the range of extended characters and behond in them. Good luck brute forcing those ones hackers. I will be laughing from beyond at anyone who tries to brute force any of my passwords... Laughing! Of course in 500 years brute force & other methods will probably have advanced guess them in milliseconds.

  138. Here's what I'd do by netruner · · Score: 1

    As much as I hate to say it, some of this will require an attorney. To get access to his Gmail, MySpace, etc. you will need to have his estate contact the operators of those services and explain the situation and make it part of an investigation. They may be understanding and cooperate, they may not in which case you'll need to get a court order.

    His PC, on the other hand, I would make an image of the HDD (ghost, acronis, etc.) and make a working copy to try to crack - if he was as good as he sounds, he may have experimented with countermeasures, and you wouldn't want one of those triggering a reformatting.

    Define up front who you're doing this for. Get written permission from his estate/family to break into his PC. Get written requirements on what you're to look for (which could include "everything") and find out what their limits are for disclosure. Example: if he was from an ultraconservative family and you found emails indicating that he was gay, would they want to know or not?

    The business you're stepping into is a dark one. This isn't a "cool" or some type of novelty. Trust me, dealing with secrets loses a lot of its appeal when the realization of the responsibility sets in. Be professional, be discrete and be honest.

    Oh, and another thing - just a personal note - I wouldn't take payment for these services.

    I hope this helps.

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  139. crack the password? Why not just use a live-CD? by Goeland86 · · Score: 1

    Why in the world would you go to the trouble of brute-forcing the passwords when you can simply pop an ubuntu CD in the drive, mount the filesystem and bypass the passwords entirely?
    It's something that's got me slightly puzzled, to be honest, but you can chroot into someone's root user account just by popping in any live cd. Short of having your root / home folders in a cryptoloop, any physical access to your machine can reveal all your files to someone stubborn (and smart) enough to want them.
    As far as ethics, what's the difference between looking through a deceased's computer files versus looking through all of his stuff in his college dorm room, finding the key for that safe-box he had? Just pop in the CD, hook an external drive, and backup all the files to it so the family can sort through it.

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  140. Legal != Ethical by Colonel+Korn · · Score: 1

    I think the ethics of this situation are debatable, and they're actually being debated in a few threads. Mostly, though, I see people here saying "the legal owner of the property said you should do it, so it's okay." If you said or thought that, I think you need to take a hard look at your mind and figure out why it is that you think that legality is the same as, or more important than, being ethical. These answers actually help me to put into perspective the way laws are presented in corporate environments, where they are typically called ethics but are anything but.

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    1. Re:Legal != Ethical by SuiteSisterMary · · Score: 1

      The ethics of the situation are simple. 'Digital' property is the same as all your other property; if you have something specific you want done with it, you'd best have a will, or something similar, that on your death, directs whatever to be done, be done.

      Otherwise, it devloves to the executor, or next of kin, or whatever happens with all your other stuff.

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  141. the windows weak spot... by afxgrin · · Score: 1

    If he has ANY Windows computer, you should run Cain and Able on it to see if he stored any passwords, even by accident on that machine. Or on any family member's computers.

    MSN log files, IRC log files, all that shit is gold.

    Ignore anyone here who suggests what you're doing is wrong. You're helping a friend out in a difficult time, bust out the l33t skills and crack this shit.

    Look for random scraps of paper around the desk, there might be passwords written on that. Especially if it's a worn looking piece of paper.

    Look in .conf files, and see if there's plain text passwords in any of those. Any password has a likelihood of being used for multiple accounts.

    Go through his browser's cache, history and cookies.

    Watch the movie Hackers, and go into his Garbage folder. :-)

    Run an undelete application that looks for files that he may have deleted, but only the reference data got removed.

    Get password files off that computer, and get them onto your computer, and run a brute force cracking app against it when you get desperate.

    Then try variants of the passwords that you do know. So if the password is "elephant", try "Elephant", "ElephanT", "3l3ph4nt", "3l3ph4nT" in other cases.

    If you can get into his email, you can probably get the passwords for accounts like MySpace by doing the "I Forgot my Password" option...

    Good luck, may the force be with, live long and prosper, in Soviet Russia computers hack you, a naked petrified hot gritted Portman welcomes the overlords, hack the planet!!

  142. Before making any changes by obi · · Score: 1

    Take an image of the harddrive, before making any changes. There's just so many ways to lose information (browser cache etc) when you're trying to do something like this.

  143. What's needed is a "Digital Executor" by bylo · · Score: 1

    Derek K. Miller on digital executors "Derek blogs about all aspects of his life, from his hometown of Burnaby B.C., to his kids, to his cancer. At the beginning of 2007, he was diagnosed with cancer and he's currently fighting stage 4 metastatic colorectal cancer. One of the things that Derek has been thinking about his digital legacy, and what should happen to our web presence when we die. Do we need to appoint a digital executor to oversee our online belongings? Someone who would know all of your passwords and keep up the payments for your domain name, for example, so your site would live on even after you have gone?"

  144. Code Comments by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I know it sounds like a strange thing to say, but as a former PHP/SQL programmer myself, programmers put much of who and what they are in their actual code. I have, on more than one occasion, vented about the frustration of work and even life in general inside of my actual scripts and code using comments (that are generally for helping other people understand your code). It is almost as if I thought that whoever was going to come behind me and work on my project might just understand my problems better than the average person (computer-geek elitism/isolationism). So, if I were you, thumb through his code comments - it seems like the least intrusive start. After all, code comments are meant to be read.

  145. Re:I have said it before-- Who knows WHAT the by davidsyes · · Score: 1

    Dead think? Has anyone gone, AND returned AND provide irrefutable, non-faith-based PROOF. Some deaths are violent, some peaceful. Death is a transition of SOME sort, and we don't know WHERE the soul/spirit/mind will go. Some believe untimely or painful or wrongful deaths cause the sould to be "hungry", evil, or grounded to Earth. So, depending on the cause of this person, he may or may NOT want people rifling through his computer.

    For legal, and mamby-pamby-assed humans-on-Earth reasons, it's either said, "Don't disrespect the dead", don't speak ill of the dead, or dig DEEP for whatever information can be found.

    NOT ONE OF US alive knows what the dead/departed/physically-separated think, know, or are located. NONE of us. But, human laws on privacy will generally prevail based on the locality.

    In some countries, suicide is (no disrespect intended) a grave insult, and the surviving family members are faced with the bill for dealing with processing the body, recording any facts, and so forth. So, the family may get more than they bargained for. Who knows what family secrets or privacy revelations may occur if information is leaked?

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  146. I recall the immortal words of Penn Jillette.... by argStyopa · · Score: 1

    ...in one column he talked about what he wanted to happen when he died -screw the $$, the house, the cars, he couldn't care less about those: JUST WIPE HIS LAPTOP PLEASE before it's given to any next-of-kin.

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    -Styopa
  147. Reliable and cheap online storage by uuxququex · · Score: 1
    Check out the fine people at rsync.net for reliable and cheap storage.

    Disclosure: I have nothing to do with them apart from being a very satisfied customer.

  148. Use Knoppix: SET his root passwd, don't crack it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You don't have to discover his root password, just set it to whatever you want, or remove it.

  149. Accessing the dead's information... by McPierce · · Score: 1

    My brother died the day after this past Christmas. While organizing his things, I had to shut down his internet account, his XM radio account, etc. It's a hard thing to do emotionally, but from a customer service perspective there was very little resistance from the service providers for this.

    What I would recommend is to protect their dignity, whatever you decide. If you find pornography, delete it. If you find sensitive documents beyond a possible suicide note, use your better judgement or let the family decide. But regarding your question about accessing their accounts, I feel it's okay to do so provided you're doing it for the family and not to be invasive.

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    Darryl L. Pierce "What do you care what people think, Mr. Feynman?"
  150. A word on archaeology by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Ethical? Well, you'll want to check with his heirs, first, but assuming there is no resistance on that front, go for it. It's called archeology when we do it to the Pharaohs.
    One person's archaeologist is another's grave robber.
  151. best quick way to get web passwords by Deanalator · · Score: 1

    A quick way to grab all of his saved passwords:

    1. mount whatever device his homedir is on
    2. copy off his .mozilla/ directory
    3. back up your own .mozilla directory to .mozilla.bak/ or something
    4. copy his .mozilla dir into your homedir
    5. open firefox
    6. edit > prefrences > security > saved passwords > show passwords

    That should give you a good enough head start to look into whatever websites he frequently visited. Also might be good to dump his entire homedir just to poke around for notes or papers he may have written recently. Using cp -p will preserve timestamp information.

    Also, to get access to his university accounts, if the password isn't in his list of saved web passwords, it should probably be in whatever email client he was using.

    Also, as a side note. Fuck ethics and morality. Any confusion or uncertainty over something like that has the potential of causing even worse long term damage to family members. Good luck.

  152. Perspective by SuiteSisterMary · · Score: 1

    If you do this to somebody dead 50,000 years, it's called paleontology.

    If you do this to somebody dead two thousand years, it's called archaeology.

    If you do this to somebody dead a hundred years, it's called historical research from primary sources. (Letters to and from dead folks are found and auctioned, or donated to museums or estate, all the time.)

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    1. Re:Perspective by SuiteSisterMary · · Score: 1

      Argh, correcting myself. Anthropology, not paleontology.

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  153. Oliver by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Should have used this service.

  154. Probate by John+Hasler · · Score: 1

    The executor or administrator of his estate has the right to gain access to his accounts. A court order from the probate court may be required to convince the service providers to cooperate.

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  155. If it were me by kikito · · Score: 1

    If it were me, i wouldnt mind. I would actually have left a bunch of carefully crafted trails, so you can deduce why everything happened. Unless I died by accident. Then you would have to do with my "If you are reading this and you are not me, then I assume you have cracked up my e-mail password" e-mail. Quite fun to write.

  156. Go to the providers... by Anonymous+Freak · · Score: 1

    While there have been multiple instances in the past of providers such as AOL and MSN refusing to give passwords to next of kin under the auspices that the account was licensed to the deceased, and the license does not survive death; you can always bring up that the deceased was a minor, therefore the account is legally licensed to the parents, not to the minor, so the parents, being the licensee, should be able to get the passwords reset.

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    The purpose of that site was not known.
    1. Re:Go to the providers... by shentino · · Score: 1

      Then the company could pull its "right to terminate" clause in its TOS, and point out that as a minor they have no right to an account without parental consent in the first place.

      *DELETE*

    2. Re:Go to the providers... by Anonymous+Freak · · Score: 1

      Yes, the parents did have to nominally give consent up front. That means that it is THEIR account, just as if they had created the account for themselves in the first place, and lost the password.

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      Another non-functioning site was "uncertainty.microsoft.com."
      The purpose of that site was not known.
    3. Re:Go to the providers... by shentino · · Score: 1

      I was referring to the TOS.

      Which, if broken (say, by unconsented signup by a minor), is usually grounds for deletion.

      I agree with great uncle post, that a subpoena is probably the best route.

  157. unethical by goodtrick · · Score: 1

    totally unethical If the person had wanted you to have the data they would have given it to you. Most email providers have clauses in their user agreement that the accounts are non-transferrable upon death, as they should. This is to protect privacy. Of course if you are a soldier killed in war, yahoo will happily ignore its privacy policies. http://yro.slashdot.org/article.pl?sid=05/01/12/1513231&tid=158

  158. Advice regarding the Linux laptop by JimMarch(equalccw) · · Score: 1

    I wouldn't try to "crack" the root password exactly. I'd pull the drive out and mount it externally in a USB chassis to another system running Linux, and access the contents of that drive from there.

    This will work as long as he didn't use whole-disk encryption...which is unlikely.

    If he kept his EMail archives locally in Evolution, Thunderbird or similar, getting to it will be fairly simple.

    You'll get this done faster if you have a Linux geek help you out. Try his school's Linux club, or a comp sci professor.

    As to data held in something like GMail or other online accounts, you might need to have somebody declared executor of his estate and then apply for access in writing to the data from the providers...suing if necessary I guess.

  159. Steal his identity by KevMar · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Lots of options here.

    first try to crack the passwords on his machine. If you can get any passwords in plain text write them down. He may have reused them. If you can get into his profile, its possible he set his cookies to auto login to his websites.

    Next try to get into his email. Call the provider and ask about your situation and find out what the rules are with out ever telling the operator your name or the account name. If the info they give you will not help you, hang up and call back pretending to be the deceased. They dont know he is dead yet.

    Get the birth cert, social security number, phone numbers and addresses (current and past), birthdate, drivers lic, mothers maiden name. Try calling from his home phone, or be near that phone when you make your call. Just pretend to be an average user that cant get into your email. Reset the password.

    Once you have the email account under your control you can just request a password reset from most of the other services.

    Basicly steal his identity, if they cant prove you are not him its hard for them to not let you in. Just play dumb. Dont say you forgot your password, tell them that your email is broken because your account won't work.

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  160. No cracking necessary by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    For the linux box you don't need to "crack" anything.

    Boot to linux rescue mode, mount the system drive, chroot it (# chroot /mnt/systemdrive or whatever) then:
    # passwd
    and set a new password,
    cd to /home
    ls to get a list of accounts

    reset the password for the rest of the accounts.

    then reboot and remove cd.

    It should take under 4 minutes (for 2 accounts) and require nothing more than a distro's install cd. You can do this using knoppix as well.

    Physical access pwns all.

    -AC

  161. Death Certificate & Executor by pw1972 · · Score: 1

    With a death certificate and whoever was designated as the executor of the estate, they should be able to contact any of the services(hotmail, gmail, etc), and get the passwords reset. Probably not a typical hotmail request, so it might take a while, but I would imagine this would work. It really will depend on your states laws though.

  162. His parents by jjshoe · · Score: 1

    His parents can work with each site to obtain a password. Most will do so with a death certificate and proof that you're the parents, like a birth certificate and a drivers license.

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  163. Do it by the book by Jimithing+DMB · · Score: 1

    I am not a lawyer but my advice to you is to very methodically contact any companies involved.

    You should identify yourself in any communications as "Joe Blow acting at the request of the executor of the estate of John Doe." Don't expect an e-mail to customer service to gain you access to accounts. Ask what you need to do. Most likely they'll want you to mail or fax a copy of a death certificate to a specific group within their company.

    If they stonewall you, then go to a judge and get a court order. Keep in mind that in this particular case you are investigating whether or not he killed himself. This means that a subpoena would be very appropriate and should be very easy to come by. If you have money but not time, hire a lawyer to do this. If you have time but not money then do a little preliminary research on how to file a subpoena then go to your local courthouse during a down time and chat up the clerks. Most of the time they are nice middle-aged to older ladies. Dress appropriately. That means at least a shirt and tie, maybe a sport coat. If you do not keep facial hair, be clean shaven. If you do keep facial hair, be sure it is cleanly trimmed. They should be able to help you file the documents with the court and have a judge consider them. It is very likely that the judge will issue the subpoena after reviewing your brief.

    Remember that at this point the wishes of your dead friend are determined by the executor of his estate which is most likely one or both of his parents. So if they say to do something then what they say is considered to be his wishes.

  164. don't ruin good evidence!! by nepeta · · Score: 1

    logging into his laptop directly, while extremely convenient, is just asking for evidence distruction!! you could squish SO MUCH -- the real password (should you choose to crack it later and find that it's something like "ihatemylife"), his browsing history, atime on files, etc. you've only got one copy... instead, why not just mirror the hd somewhere first and mess with that? if you've got a Unix-like OS, just (dd if=/dev/[hd] of=~/localfile && losetup /dev/loop0 ~/localfile) as root and then poke around all you want. (you could use Qemu to run the disk-file as a virtual machine.)

  165. Don't boot that disk! by dannycim · · Score: 1

    Do NOT boot your friend's machine. Make a full binary copy of the disk and then use that as source of forensic information.

    The swap area and free blocks may contain old and precious information. I've extracted account information from discarded disks which didn't live in files.

    Heck, your friend could have decided to write a suicide note and then deleted it.

  166. That is why my will states by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    quite clearly that no online accounts should be accessed.

    They don't need access to my personal correspondence and there will be zero confusion or ethical dilemmas. If they ignore it they will flat out know they are doing wrong and cannot justify it. I don't expect anyone to do that because I trust them, the point was simply to make my wishes clear.

    The police would of course be okayed to look at the info (they wouldn't need my "permission" anyways) if there was an investigation.

    But I simply do not like the idea of anyone rummaging through my personal contacts, there simply is no need (outside of a criminal investigation)

    Of course I am not going to commit suicide so that is a stipulation I suppose.

  167. screw that by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    you should bang her

  168. Simple Justification by sexconker · · Score: 1

    His private e-mails / blogs / documents may very well contain a will of some sort, or perhaps a note that contains his preference of burial/cremation/etc.

    It is your ethical and legal obligation to make a good faith effort to review his private documents.

  169. Next of kin by spineboy · · Score: 1

    I agree with the parent.

    I would think that all possessions, physical and intellectual, go to the next of kin. So if they WANT to crack the password encrypted files they should be able.

    Of course, if they decide not to in honoring the person's wishes, then so be it.

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  170. Proof by dbcad7 · · Score: 1

    My thought when I first read the original poster, was how do you prove "not suicide" ? ... I had not considered the foul play option... If that is a suspected possibility then he should not play Scooby-Do, but give the job over to the cops... If that is not a consideration, then basically he can only "prove" support for suicide with evidence, he can not prove "not suicide" by lack of evidence (he already has that)

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    1. Re:Proof by netsavior · · Score: 1

      can not prove "not suicide"

      In a court of law, yes.
      to an insurance company, I am not so sure. They basically get to say "no" until you either prove it on their terms or take them to court for breech of contract (which we have no idea what the contract says, it may have provisions for even "suspected" suicide).

  171. You have such an incorrect view . . . by Tanman · · Score: 1

    "happy successful people don't just off themselves for no reason and without any sort of note or indication that things were not going quite so peachy as believed"

    Ok, some corrections here:
    1. Happy people, successful or not, probably won't be committing suicide. Am I a happy person? As much as you might think you can deduce, no matter how well you know me, you cannot tell. So, the crux is that obviously, he wasn't happy and just put on a good show to make those around him comfortable.

    2. The vast majority of suicides leave no note. Of those who do, a very large percentage of those notes are attack notes meant to hurt those around them. If you've ever read one, the last thing they do is bring closure.

    3. If someone genuinely wants to die, they won't give a call for help. More likely, they'll just give it a go.

    4. If someone is depressed, they do indeed off themselves for no reason -- that is unless you count, "I have enough energy today to actually do something about it" as a reason.

    Suicide isn't like some movie story. It isn't romantic at all -- there is often no cry for help, usually no note, and almost always no closure for the victims (those left behind).

    1. Re:You have such an incorrect view . . . by Miseph · · Score: 1

      "1. Happy people, successful or not, probably won't be committing suicide. Am I a happy person? As much as you might think you can deduce, no matter how well you know me, you cannot tell. So, the crux is that obviously, he wasn't happy and just put on a good show to make those around him comfortable."

      So perhaps getting into his private life a little deeper than he had allowed would yield some sort of reason that he was unhappy. If it doesn't, then it does not rule out the possibility of suicide, but it does raise the bar on proving that it was. If they can't look into his private life and see any reason at all for him to have done it, even in hindsight, that's a pretty big evidential hurdle.

      "2. The vast majority of suicides leave no note. Of those who do, a very large percentage of those notes are attack notes meant to hurt those around them. If you've ever read one, the last thing they do is bring closure."

      i'm well aware that suicide notes are a fiction. As for the belligerent ones... I've written them, thanks for sharing.

      "3. If someone genuinely wants to die, they won't give a call for help. More likely, they'll just give it a go."

      Absolutely true, but that doesn't mean that they won't have done anything which, at least after the fact, appears to indicate their intent.

      "4. If someone is depressed, they do indeed off themselves for no reason -- that is unless you count, "I have enough energy today to actually do something about it" as a reason."

      If they were depressed, there should be some evidence indicating that. Even clear cut cases of clinical depression are often ignored for a long time before the light bulb goes off in somebody's head that a psychologist should get involved, but that doesn't mean that the signs and symptoms were ever invisible, just ignored.

      "Suicide isn't like some movie story. It isn't romantic at all -- there is often no cry for help, usually no note, and almost always no closure for the victims (those left behind)."

      I am aware, but thank you for clarifying that anyway.

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    2. Re:You have such an incorrect view . . . by Miseph · · Score: 1

      I just realized why you mentioned suicide notes at all... I meant notes as in "written private communications", I should have used a better term, given the context.

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  172. Yes, do it by irq · · Score: 1

    I say go for it wrt cracking his passwords and such. I see no moral issues as your intentions are noble and you were asked by his family. As for myspace et. al. giving you his password, definitely not going to happen. You need to be a Chinese government official to pull that off :)

  173. From Experience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've been in the unfortunate position in my proffesional capacity of having had to deal with similar circumstances. This advice pertains to the UK and milage may vary and IANAL...

    A member of staff committed suicide with little clue left as to the reason for the family. We were approached to see if they could access the persons e-mails and files to see if there were any clues - more for their peace of mind, but there was also a question mark over the case from the police for a while.

    The police never needed to approach us for access in the end, and the family were also satisfied without it, but we had to carefull examine to situation to be ready before that.

    The conclusion reached (after legal advice) was that the "appropriate authority" in the circumstances to decide on access or not was the executor of the will, pending the formal handing over of the persons effects to the people listed in the will or next of kin as appropriate. At which point the relevant authority would be passed on at the same time as part of the 'belongings' of the person.

    We therefore advised the executor of this and if it had been requested, access would have been arranged in "suitable circumstances" for the relevant authority to have access to the files. The "suitable circumstances" would have varied depending on any pending legal investigations and various other issues, but could have included a designated impatial witness to the access and/or copying the relevant content to a separate Read only media before making it available to the appropriate authority.

    In summary - tread VERY carefully, get legal advice, respect the wishes of the living, and be prepared for any access opeing a pandora's box which the family may prefer not to know about after all - and don't put yourself in the position of knowing something but facing the moral question of if to pass the info on or not!

  174. Accidents are boring. by Lilith's+Heart-shape · · Score: 1

    It was more entertaining to assume that it was a suicide.

  175. I had a similar circumstance.. by Skuld-Chan · · Score: 1

    With my brother - it was a tragedy for sure, but my advice would be to hire and retain a lawyer. You pretty much need one to sort out all the things he left behind anyhow since some debt collectors would love to have other family members pay off their debts.

    1. Re:I had a similar circumstance.. by freedom_india · · Score: 1

      Debt collectors cannot collect it from family members, especially credit card or personal loans taken.
      Neither can they snatch it from the dead person's estate.
      Because these types of loans are unsecured as per law, and that is the prime reason why the banks charge so much interest for them.
      If a bill collector does call and demands (distinction between expectation and demand), payment from family, call the FBI and tell them you are under threat by the Mafiosi. Simple. This type of call is racketeering.
      Banks know that very well, and that is why you always find such non-payments as NPA.

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      "Doing what i can, with what i have." ~ Burt Gummer
  176. Having a friend who committed suicide... by Garwulf · · Score: 1

    I get the feeling that most people here have never faced one of their friends or loved ones committing suicide. Unfortunately, I have experienced the former, and I can't imagine what it must be like for the latter.

    Suicide is the worst type of death to have to deal with, as it leaves everybody around the person in limbo. At least with an accidental death or a death by illness there is some comfort, either that the death was not intentional, or that the person went out fighting. But suicide, particularly when there is no note, leaves you none of that.

    I can't speak from a legal standpoint - among other things, I don't know what country you're in. But from a moral standpoint, since you have the blessings of the family, opening up those files and passwords is exactly the right thing to do, not only for your friend's family, but for yourself as well.

    In a very real way, regardless of how shocking what you might find may be, you can only make things better all round by doing this. It will bring everybody out of freefall.

    --
    Robert B. Marks
    Author, Demonsbane in Diablo Archive
  177. Apparent Suicide by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There's no delicate way to say this, but in cases of "apparent suicide" of young men, it's worth considering the possibility of autoerotic asphyxiation. It causes not insignificant numbers of young men to hang themselves to death each year unintentionally.

  178. Re:I have said it before-- Who knows WHAT the by h3llfish · · Score: 1

    >> NOT ONE OF US alive knows what the dead/departed/physically-separated think, know, or are located. NONE of us.

    Given the total lack of scientific evidence for an afterlife, I do think it's a pretty safe assumption that the dead don't care. To me, that assumption is as safe as my other assumption, that the sun will rise tomorrow. NOT ONE OF US knows for certain that it will - not for certain. But, based on the evidence available, let's just say that the odds look pretty good for sunshine.

    As a bit of unsolicited but hopefully constructive criticism, I have to say, capitalizing roughly every third word or so is going to cause some people to perceive you as a raving lunatic. I'm not one of those people, but... you might want to think about going a bit easier on the caps.

  179. Remembering Jim by 605dave · · Score: 1

    My dear friend Jim committed suicide two years ago. He was the god father of my son, and a partner in work and fun. He also introduced me to Slashdot, and ushered me through my newbie days.

    For some reason this thread just made me want to mention his name, so he is not forgotten.

    --
    Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a difficult battle. - Plato
    1. Re:Remembering Jim by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      He also introduced me to Slashdot, and ushered me through my newbie days.
      Bloody hell, I bet he's still warm!
      --
      Confucius say, "Find worm in apple - bad. Find half a worm - worse."
  180. Passwords were meant to keep you out! by GameboyRMH · · Score: 1

    I certainly wouldn't want anyone getting unauthorized access to my data after I'm dead. In fact, if I knew I was going to die, I'd delete all my online accounts and destroy all my hard drives, perhaps with the exception of anything that I would like to share or that others would find useful, which would be put on something unrestricted and readable, if it wasn't already publicly available. If he wanted something to be found, he would have left it where someone else could find it. If he deleted Suicide Note Draft.doc, it's because he didn't want anyone to see it.

    Maybe I'm weird but I'd roll in my grave if someone pwned my files when I was dead. I don't hide things I want to share, and I don't share things that are private, this is all very straightforward to me. I'm not trying to flame or troll or anything. This is just my opinion, and I welcome any comments on it, because I really don't get the general theme of "go ahead and break into the dead guy's personal files!" in this discussion.

    I'm also reading in this discussion that a relative can obtain a dead person's password from most services by submitting the appropriate paperwork. Where can I learn more about this? I will request that this not be possible for my accounts if necessary.

    --
    "When information is power, privacy is freedom" - Jah-Wren Ryel
  181. Boot linux single by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How is booting linux single and resetting the root passwd "cracking" the root password?

  182. Mod parent down by mbstone · · Score: 1

    How come people give mod points to IANALs who attempt legal advice?

  183. Melinda Gordon disagrees by svnt · · Score: 1

    No! I've never seen Ghost Whisperer.

    Yes! When cornered I blame my extensive knowledge of the show on my wife.

  184. Shameless IAAL Plug by mbstone · · Score: 1

    So you think you don't need a WILL because you're only 18, or 30?? I had a client who was 29 and in the middle of a divorce when he stroked out. Because the divorce wasn't finalized, his not-yet-ex-wife got his money and life insurance instead of his kid!! See a lawyer and have it done right (and BTW give the lawyer a sealed envelope with all your passwords and instructions for dealing with your data).

    1. Re:Shameless IAAL Plug by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Better yet, don't get married at all.

  185. You were the wrong person to ask by DThorne · · Score: 1

    Let's be clear - this person is dead. Any investigation of anything is only for the family(or whoever pays) and not for the deceased, so what he may have wanted is quite irrelevant *to you*. This is all about the living, not the dead.

    That said, IMHO it's inappropriate for them to ask you to prod around his private affairs just because 'you know computers'. It's not like that's a rare skill nowadays. I think they should be hiring a private investigator for this if it's all that important to them. It puts you in an awkward and potentially dubious position. What if you find a terrible secret? How does this impact your relationship with your friend?

    Nope. Consider doing their taxes for them perhaps. Let the professionals do their job.

    DT

  186. Was about ready to be accepted.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Think if he is a minor, then everything he had is property of the parents.

    If he was not then get a court order.

  187. Tragic tragic waste by Hognoxious · · Score: 3, Funny

    I've heard of such arrangements, but they didn't involve burying it.

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    Confucius say, "Find worm in apple - bad. Find half a worm - worse."
  188. Well, you've started in the right place by sentientbrendan · · Score: 1

    you're facing a difficult ethical dilemma, so clearly you made the right decision by asking for help from a bunch of anonymous internet forum morons.

    In addition to conspiracy theories about how Microsoft and the RIAA conspired to kill your friend's brother, you can expect to recieve such insightful gems on your crisis as, "in soviet Russia, myspace suicides you."

  189. I think his parents might have legal rights by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Ok, I admit I have only german law as a reference, but I can't think of any reason why this should be different in other jurisdictions. As far as I know, as long as he didn't leave a will stating that his accounts are to be deleted without anyone opening them upon his death, I think his parents are his legal heirs, provided he was not married and didn't specify otherwise in his will. So I think of they contact google, myspace and all the other places he held accounts at, and provide proof of his death and proof that they are the legal heirs, I think chances are very good they will be access to his accounts. Chances may be even better if they explain the circumstances as you did to us. I would try a few obvious passwords and ask around among his close friends if they have any suggestions, and then contact the companies as said above. As for the laptop, that's just the same. His parents inherit his laptop including all data on it and are free to do whatever they please. I haven't taken into account morality yet. From a moral point of view, if I were you (as his friend) I'd check out everything on my own first and make sure there was nothing that might make his family hold his memory in disregard but isn't really relevant, like his porn stash maybe... But don't just delete stuff, save it on a DVD, and should it become relevant you can "find" that disk later behind your desk or something. But apart from that I think it is more important to help the living cope. Your friend is dead now, no matter what, I don't think he will mind.

  190. Thoughts from a coroner by Pobjoy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    After reading the post and some of the replies I wanted to try and provide some insight on a few things. First of all I should mention that I'm a coroner in British Columbia, Canada, so not everything that applies here will apply in other jurisdictions. However I hope I can still be of some help. In regard to suicide vs. accident, there is typically a presumption against suicide and the coroner or medical examiner should have some substantial evidence if they are going to rule the death a suicide. Having said that, suicide is a lot more common than most people believe. For example, British Columbia has a population of a little over 4 million and we see approximately 500 suicides per year. Contrary to what some people are suggesting there is usualy no suicide note. Also, the person is not always known to be suicidal or even depressed. Sometimes a suicide comes as a complete surprise to family and friends. I would not say that this is the norm but it definitely happens. Evidence of a suicide can take several forms. Ideally there should be a history of some kind to support that the death was a suicide but I have had cases in which the circumstances of the death were such that it was unreasonable to conclude that the death was anything other than a suicide, even though the person had no history of depression, suicidal ideation or behaviour that suggested they might harm themselves. As far as the information on the computer, I have taken information from people's computers and in one case seized a computer to get further info from it. I do not see an ethical issue with this if it will help to determine the manner of death. My only suggestion is that the coroner or medical examiner should perhaps be contacted to see if they are willing to do this. They may not be willing to get involved if they feel that they already have sufficient evidence to classify the death. Also, I do not know if the coroner/ME in your area has the legal authority to do this. Still, if the family strongly believes that the death is an accident and not a suicide they should talk to the coroner/ME about their concerns. When family members have raised such concerns with me I have found that sometimes they have very useful information or insight that can have a significant impact on my investigation. Other times it is clear that they are just not willing or able to accept the truth. As far as legalities, I can tell you that here in BC (and I suspect in most cases) it is the same as most people have stated - the things that belonged to the decedent now belong to the estate. The executor or legal next of kin will likely have the legal authority to give you permission to do what you are talking about. Having said that, I will give the standard IANAL disclaimer along with a reminder that laws can of course vary from one jurisdiction to another. NOTE: sorry about the wall of text. This is my first Slashdot post and I haven't yet figured out how to make it appear in paragraphs the way I wrote it.

    1. Re:Thoughts from a coroner by Phroggy · · Score: 1

      NOTE: sorry about the wall of text. This is my first Slashdot post and I haven't yet figured out how to make it appear in paragraphs the way I wrote it. I recommend the "Plain Old Text" option. It will still allow you to insert HTML tags for things like bold/italic/etc., but will keep your paragraph spacing the way you entered it.
      --
      $x='S24;r)>63/* h@<5+oZ)32"5cz';$me='phroggy'x$];
      $x=~y+ -xz+\0-Tx+;print$_^chop$me for split'',$x;
    2. Re:Thoughts from a coroner by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      NOTE: sorry about the wall of text. This is my first Slashdot post and I haven't yet figured out how to make it appear in paragraphs the way I wrote it.

      You can use HTML BR tags as line breaks

    3. Re:Thoughts from a coroner by lawpoop · · Score: 1

      Thanks for posting expertise from a field not normally represented on slashdot! As far as paragraphs, use an HTML tag such as
      . It stands for break, as in line break, and two of them will put a blank line in your text.

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      Computers are useless. They can only give you answers.
      -- Pablo Picasso
    4. Re:Thoughts from a coroner by Pobjoy · · Score: 1

      Thanks for the tip!

      I'm enough of a geek to like Slashdot, but not enough to remember what little HTML I knew several years back :-)

  191. TO PREVENT MORE STUPID REPLIES... by AutopsyReport · · Score: 1

    As I said twice already, I made a typo. Obviously those services do NOT ask for next of kin.

    --

    For he today that sheds his blood with me shall be my brother.

    1. Re:TO PREVENT MORE STUPID REPLIES... by siriuskase · · Score: 0, Troll

      a typo? that's when you type "teh" instead of "the" or "fuck" instead of "truck" to give a couple of examples. I've reread your message a couple of times and can't find the typo.

      If I could figure out the type (oops, a typo), I could then figure out the intellegent statement you meant to make. But, I can't. Could it be that you actually made a stupid statement, not a type, I mean typo, at all?

      --
      If you must moderate, please moderate as irrelevent, not something bad, because I'm sure someone will find this interest
    2. Re:TO PREVENT MORE STUPID REPLIES... by AutopsyReport · · Score: 1

      You're a moron. I said "they ask for your Next of Kin" and what I meant to say was, "they DO NOT ask for your Next of Kin". Are you too stupid to read the rest of my message to understand the context? Obviously I wasn't trying to suggest that they do collect it.

      --

      For he today that sheds his blood with me shall be my brother.

  192. Image the drive(s), mount the images read-only by gknoy · · Score: 1

    ... don't do anything which could alter the drives. This means don't boot up his laptop, etc. Correspondingly, you probably don't want to log in to Myspace, as that might trigger "Oh, he was active ___" things in logs; I'd rely on Myspace (and so forth) to provide the data to you in a way which is forensically sound.

    Better yet, hire a computer forensics expert to advise you. (Local lawyers may know some good expert witnesses?)

    I'm not a forensic investigator, and I'm not even certain such policy as I mentioned is sufficient to prevent pooch-screwing the evidence (or lack thereof). Make sure you document everything you do, especially since if you've had access to it the insurance will question whether you deleted evidence of his suicidal intent. You, being a friend of the family, might not be sufficiently separated from the INTERESTS of the estate to be considered neutral enough.

    Get a lawyer, find out what they feel you need to do to establish that it wasn't suicide, and to protect the evidence from contamination.

    As for the ethics of {someone} poking in someone else's machine after death... I think that proving that there was no suicidal intent (and thereby greatly benefiting the survivors) seems like something I'd want people to do.

    Strange that the inquest (if there was one?) ruled it a suicide, though.

  193. Having been through this before... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I had a similar dilemma recently - the brother of friend of mine committed suicide, with no note left the parents or my friend, and they were in search of any information he'd posted online as to how he was, what the reason was, etc.
    Being asked to hack into his computer, hotmail account, etc I politely declined - instead opting to explain to them how I would go about it. As they were family, they were best placed to answer the password-reset questions hotmail asks you when you've forgotten your password (I would usually get this through a bit of social engineering) and they managed to get access. A 'boot-and-root' linux live-cd got them access to his laptop.
    I don't think they found anything which helped with their grief however - so whatever you do decide, any expectation that an answer will be found may end up hurting more.

  194. Call a Lawyer & the Police before touchingANYT by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    IANAL, but do have some very basic experience. AC because I am too lazy to sign up for an account, but I'm a regular reader :)

    Here in Canada, as soon as you have tampered with anything, the evidence is not admissible. When searching for evidence, the first thing we are required to do is notify the authorities, and they have a process which we follow. If you don't follow their process, any evidence you find is moot.

    The only reason I'm suggesting this, is in the off chance you find a death-threat letter in his email/IM history/etc. If it were to go to court (again, in Canada), the author of the death-threat-letter has a strong case against you, that you framed him and tampered with the evidence.

  195. But do you? by mstahl · · Score: 1

    What if you find out something you didn't care to know?

  196. Couple of thoughts by Dimitrii · · Score: 1

    0. You didn't ask for technical help, so I won't offer.

    1. The funeral payment help could be a relative that doesn't want to have anything to do with a suicide. That was the case with the one similar event I am familiar with. If there is no insurance that is being denied, or a murderer/negligent party, then legal issues of proof aren't necessary.

    2. I would take the advice that several offered to ask the family what they would want to know and what they wouldn't, before you start.

    3. Most importantly: Even if you believe that there is no afterlife and that therefor there is no privacy to intrude. Funeral rites are at least partially if not all for the living. We feel better that we will be treated properly if we see others being treated properly.

  197. depression by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This probably will be lost in the sea of comments, but I wanted to say one thing about a possible explanation.

    I am a fresh CS and Math double major from a Canadian university. I have been extremely successful in my courses, side projects, and I have landed a very good job.

    I should be happy right? well no, I am not. I am lonely, socaially awkward, and I don't feel like I fit in anywhere.

    To be frank, I have been fighting a depression and suicide for several years, and I have attempted to take my own life on a few occasions without explanation. This is the nature of the beast; there is no warning or explanation of why I felt this way.

    If he was like me, family are oblivious or are in denial to how he felt, and to them it would seem sudden and unexplainable.

    1. Re:depression by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      On the off chance you're reading a reply to an anonymous post in a sea of comments...

      I realize "seek professional help" seems like trite advice, and is probably redundant, but you should seriously consider therapy if you aren't already receiving it. It might give you more focus in dealing with the issues that get in your way of pursuing happiness, and if the source of your depression is partly chemical, gives you access to options that may help you deal with that aspect as well.

      A meaningful career is definitely a piece of the puzzle -- for some people, it becomes the whole puzzle -- but if you want social connections and have trouble forming them, or feel overwhelming anxiety around people, that really does make huge chunks of life suck. The answer to that is probably some combination of defining your interests and joining groups of people who share them, curbing your anxiety by realizing most people have anxiety around new people or groups (look at how common fear of public speaking is), and developing a strategy to deal with "small talk" (which is mostly about getting some general knowledge about sports and local events, being able to mention what you do for a living/any projects you're working on, and becoming a good listener).

      It probably doesn't hurt to try to keep something interesting going in your life (start reading a lengthy sci-fi/fantasy series, watching a multi-season DVD set with a long plot arc, etc.) and always having something decent on the horizon (a plan to attend DEFCON or HOPE, one or more front row tickets to a Roger Waters concert, a flight to Nevada to try one of those legal "ranches" outside Vegas... whatever floats your boat) just to help you get through the darker moments.

      You're treatable, and you're in a position in life where you can work, talk shit over with a therapist, and have some fun with the rest of it. It is worth the effort.

  198. Been in similar situation recently by Apogee · · Score: 1

    Maybe I can provide some insight, as a close colleague at work died last year in a tragic outdoor accident.

    Basically, what it boiled down to was as follows: The family/next of kin have right to access all of the deceased person's personal files, emails, etc. Company property is exempt of course - for IP reasons. The system administrators should release a copy of the person's email mailboxes, and all other relevant files to the next-of-kin, after examining that no business-relevant data goes out.

    They will not and should not release anything to you, you're (iirc) not related.

    I am sure there's a procedure in place at Gmail, etc. to deal with such a situation, as this is not the first time something like this happens.

    The more important question is: does the family really want the information? That's an ethical and moral question, and only they can answer that for themselves. So, if they ask you to hack the root account, it's OK for you to do so, but keep all you see private to the family and yourself, and don't force any information on family members who don't want to know. Let them decide.

    Disclaimer: I'm not in the US, and assume you are - so the legal implementation may vary.

  199. Privacy of the dead by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I fail to see how going trough his files and service accounts could prove that his death was accidental. Lack of a suicide note or plan won't convince insurance company that his death was an accident if they want to claim it was a suicide.

    If anything you could find proof that it was suicide. Maybe it would be better for his family to contact some kind of counselor before deciding if knowing is better than not knowing for sure. Funeral cost come and go but knowing wrong things lasts forever. If he did nothing that seems like preparation for leaving forever, I would think that he was not planing dying.

    As a strictly ethical problem, I believe that honestly questioning your moral right to see his personal information makes you a person who can be trusted with such a task. But do it only if you know you can keep his private things confidential. Nobody needs to ever know about what kind of porn he was into or if he did drugs. Those things are none of anyone's business. However, if you came across something indicating him of a crime, it would be up to you to decide if telling the police would be the only right thing to do. I would think that only violent crimes would be worth it. Broken or stolen things can be replaced, but physically hurt people deserve closure, even if their assailant was already dead.

  200. Some of you just don't think. by jotaeleemeese · · Score: 1

    And one day will get into trouble, or will create it for somebody else.

    A person I knew was having an affair with a woman without his wife knowing anything about it. After following the respective legal procedure somebody else was named the person responsible to execute the will, pay debts, etc. on behalf of this person when he died.

    Very sensibly (IMHO) he decided not to tell the wife about the extramarital life of this individual, all of which was documented to excruciating detail in one of the email accounts of the deceased person.

    Thanks to this, the wife kept an unblemished memory of her husband, was not consumed by the bitterness of betrayal and had a positive role model to present to her children.

    Just "hacking" (I would say cracking) the accounts would have most likely exposed a lot of innocent people to unnecessary pain (since after all knowing all this would have served no practical purpose).

    There are legal procedures in place for a reason. Only somebody monumentally careless can suggest to do things without weighing carefully the possible consequences.

    --
    IANAL but write like a drunk one.
  201. Then you let the courts decide.... by jotaeleemeese · · Score: 1

    ... and don't get on the way of complex ramifications of legal, moral and emotional character.

    --
    IANAL but write like a drunk one.
  202. Help Me Too . . . by MarkvW · · Score: 1

    I'm evil (not really). Please tell me how to do the same stuff you're telling the parent. I PROMISE, PROMISE I'll only do good things with it. Sincerely, Script Kiddie

  203. Of course, remote shutdown might be helpful. by Dopamine,+Redacted · · Score: 1

    I wish I could think of a modification of this that I could turn off (and save my data) if I ever got locked in a mental hospital for more than 7 days, but that didn't require me to tell anyone else about the server's existence. As I see it, I might have to be physically away, unexpectedly, and I'd want the option to risk exposure and save my data. That way, if I silently let it be deleted, I do so knowing that I'm saving my ass, rather than wishing I could stop it. Perhaps something like a modem/telephone based abort option, on the existing in-wall telephone wiring.

    1. Re:Of course, remote shutdown might be helpful. by bonehead · · Score: 1

      That could be implemented in asterisk in about 10 minutes, depending on the terms that you'd be allowed to use a phone at whatever place you're planning to get locked up.

      If you'll be allowed to just make calls at will, then you just need a simple script to let you enter a code on the telephone keypad to abort the self-destruct.

      If you think it's likely to be a jail where only collect calls are allowed (even for local calls), then you'll have to get more creative. Perhaps have it watch for incoming calls at a specific set of time intervals.... I'd have to give that one a little more thought.

      In whatever case, it would be a good idea to have an 800 number on that line. Oh, and be aware that if you're locked up, it's likely that your phone calls will be monitored, so design any voice prompts to sound benign.

  204. Just say no by rcallan · · Score: 1

    There's no way to gain anything from this scenario. Tell them to pay an unbiased, uninterested professional to do it. Imagine they give you the disk(s) and, however unlikely, it breaks while you're copying it. Imagine you find something really unflattering about the person. Imagine you find something that you think is relevant, but you're unsure of whether to tell them about it. There is nothing you could find on that disk that results in a positive outcome. Someone who does data recovery for a living will have the tools and experience to provide the best chances possible of finding what the family wants, _especially_ if they are going to use the findings for legal reasons/money.

  205. Re:I have said it before-- Who knows WHAT the by davidsyes · · Score: 1

    OK, *don't* mean to sound *like* Willaim *SHATNER*... I *might* get *used* to your sugg*estion*..

    *STILL*, *old friend*... *you've* managed to train just about everyone *else*, but you *KEEP* missing *the* *TARGET*....

    --
    Previously: "Linux... Toward the Sunrise..." Now: "Linux... Toward the-- No, now, part of Every Sunrise"
  206. Re:I have said it before-- Who knows WHAT the by davidsyes · · Score: 1

    i *don't* mean to sound like William 'billy' 'bill' 'willy' 'shat', *SHATNER*, and I *might* be able to follow your sug*gestion*...

    *But*, old *friend*... *You've* managed to *train* just about everyone else, but you keep *MISSING* the tar*get*...

    --
    Previously: "Linux... Toward the Sunrise..." Now: "Linux... Toward the-- No, now, part of Every Sunrise"
  207. this has already been covered in the press in 2004 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Back in 2004 a family tried to get access to their deceased sons account, he died in the line of duty as a marine.
    based on the actions taken by Yahoo at the time, i would assume any other business would also not give you access.
    here is reference to that story
    http://www.news.com/Yahoo-denies-family-access-to-dead-marines-e-mail/2100-1038_3-5500057.html

  208. Go for It by rzaks · · Score: 1

    I've thought about it before. I've debated the ethical issues with a far more disturbing post-death act: (http://rabidrabbits.baywords.com/2008/04/09/ok-i-get-organ-donors-but/). As a general rule though, providing comfort or, at least, truth to the living should always trump the "rights" of the dead.

    --
    Rabid Rabbits Sing of Portugal
  209. Re:I have said it before-- Who knows WHAT the by h3llfish · · Score: 1

    Hehe, I was literally LOL at this. Good one!

  210. Weegal by mrmeval · · Score: 1

    You will probably need all of this done in a manner acceptable to a court of law or whoever would be paying the funeral fees or both.

    Contact an attorney and have them do the paperwork correctly to get access to the websites. If a website fails to yield the data your attorney should be able to get a court order releasing it.

    On the linux issue if encryption was not used it's trivial to mount the drive on another linux box and search for relevant data. You may actually have to send this to a business that has the right credentials to be accepted by the court or other party mentioned above. Again bring this up with the attorney.

    This is all directed to the executor of his estate as they are the ones who 'become' him in the eyes of the law until all property is dispersed and contracts settled.

    --
    I'd go on a Vegan diet but the delivery time from Vega is too long. --brownkitty
  211. Not ethical by dindi · · Score: 1

    I do not find it ethical and would not do it. If he wanted to tell he would have. On the contrary maybe it sheds some light on possible criminal activity or connection to someone who suggested taking one's life. Hmm... maybe do it ....

  212. Social Engineering?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    sounds like an attempt from a person with little computer savvy to get information on how to crack into someones computer and social networking accounts. The writer is perhaps a jealous lover or a worried parent. a classic case of social engineering. If i am wrong then I am sorry, but think that this angle should be explored before a would-be white hat gets roped into a sorted situation.

  213. You asking the wrong questions. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Everyone is trying to give good legal advice, but is legal advice really what you need.

    Never ask a question you don't want the answer too. Are you prepared to learn the truth, if and when you get access.

    When you speak of your friend, you promote only the good memories. You seek to find any answer, but the obvious one. Are you sure your friend did not commit suicide? If you are not ready to face that possible outcome, just stop.

    The most common underlying disorder for suicide victims is depression. This friend of yours had demons, we all do. Do not pretend you are ready to face your fiends demons, until you have faced your own.

    If ethics is the only road block to cracking the root password, then you are not ready. If this was a good friend, did you recognize any of the warning signs of depression and suicide?

    Do some research on suicide first. Reflect on your time you spent with your fiend. Was the warning signs present, and did you just not see them.

    Are you ready to face your demons?

  214. Re: by clint999 · · Score: 0

    dead people don't really care, one way or another.

  215. Why do single people have life insurance? by lullabud · · Score: 1

    Because we like to ride fast motorcycles, drive fast cars, and jump out of planes, which all present a possibility of becoming slightly less than dead.

  216. LiveCD is little help with encrypted data by lullabud · · Score: 1

    A LiveCD will not enter the password to the keychain for you... It won't type his PGP passphrase for you. It won't find his TrueCrypt disks for you.

  217. good points, but no need to crack the passwords by trick-knee · · Score: 1

    yes, since his property is disposed of according to legal protocol (including a possible will), the new owner of his accounts should have access to them. that might be problematic and take a long time, given the reticence I would expect from a company like myspace or google.

    otoh, just pop a live CD into the laptop drive and take a look around the hard drive. *then* we'll see how geeky he is: did he encrypt the filesystem?

    if he's like me, he'll have a file or directory with all the passwords of his bazillion accounts so that he doesn't have to commit them to memory and/or change everything en masse.

    1. Re:good points, but no need to crack the passwords by fucksl4shd0t · · Score: 1

      I would argue that this is perfectly ok for any death, if you are family and/or requested by family in a trusting relationship. Just like it's ok to peek into somebody's room and make sure there isn't a live animal that needs caring after the person died....

      --
      Like what I said? You might like my music
    2. Re:good points, but no need to crack the passwords by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree with you, but it has been proven time and again that a person who dies still can have privacy rights, why is beyond me. Even though they can never use it again, most companies are reluctant to give this information out. Hopefully as you pointed out, there is a file where he has hidden all his password and sign in info. And no I do not think that it is a bad thing to attempt to find out for the family what may have caused this to happen. I would hate to see them suffer anymore than they have to. If there is a way to find out, then they should do it.

  218. Post-Suicide Account Cracking? by jhy001 · · Score: 1

    It seems to me the accounts are the deceased's property, and could be subject to the family getting a power of attorney over them. I don't know the precedents, but it sounds like they would exist. Having the power of attorney over the deceased's property should compel any agency to "give up the goods".

  219. depending on the situation... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If it really is for a legal matter, the evidence must be properly preserved in order for it to be admissible. You may want to make an image of the drive using dd or dd_rescue via a knoppix livecd (so you won't even have to mount the drive), though you may want to let the police handle it. I believe the program they use for imaging and preservation of evidence in the case of computer crimes is EnCase. In the event that you decide to go with dd or dd_rescue, you will be able to mount the image later, even perform data recovery on it, to some extent....

  220. Ethically simple by lordlod · · Score: 1

    I've been in a very similar situation and actually help the police recover information from a friends computer.

    I believe that the ethics of this are fairly simple, the dead man is gone. His happiness and desires are no longer important.

    The family is still around, their happiness and desires are important. If you can help provide information, by whatever means, that gives them some kind of closure or helps them in any way; do so.

  221. Just went through this situation. by Arcane · · Score: 1

    I just went through this with a friend whose ex-husband did a "death by hibachi" routine. There were 2 young children involved, no death/burial financial issues to resolve. There was no question about it being a suicide, since it is difficult to rent a cargo van and light a BBQ grill inside it after you seal it up. There were questions about whether there were other accounts or information on his computer.

    My agreement with her was that I would look through the system and find everything that I could. One condition: Unless it was absolutely necessary I would not share the info with her. I would not share any personal information such as journaling or email, and only if it was legally beneficial or financially necessary would I tell her. She agreed.

    As it ended up, all I found were a lot of word docs ranting and raving in a manner consistent to a bi-polar that had stopped taking his meds and started taking a lot of other crap that was non-prescription. None of the info was going to be of any positive result. Of all the crap, a single picture of he and his son taken a few days prior to his death was all that was turned over.

    After doing a shred and reformat, I loaded it with XP Pro, since it had Vista on it. After fighting with the non-XP friendly video (Compaq/NVidia), I gave the system back for the kids to use.

    Unless you find anything that is of a certain positive result, nothing is worth recovering. If you don't have the relationship and agreement, don't get involved.

  222. Dead Man's Switch by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Two options:
    1)secure encryption that (most likely) won't be broken in the lifetime of anyone you know (use a good passphrase)

    2)
    a)Get a secure online server somewhere - no web or mail, etc...just ssh (again, secure passphrase).
    b)Write a script that that runs a multi-pass wipe over the (already encrypted as per #1, above) files you want destroyed UNLESS a certain file exists.
    c)Have a cron job run the script every day.
    d)Have another cron job run every X days to delete the file that prevents file wipeage.
    e)Don't forget to recreate the file every X days, or your files get wiped.
    f)Rest in peace.

  223. I had to do something like this... by maxcelcat · · Score: 1

    A couple of years ago, a friend of mine, and member of a group I ran, was killed in a car accident. The guy was a promising artist, and only 21 :-(

    He was also the holder of our group's domain name and web site, which we needed to rescue. In the end, with help from his dad, the web hoster in question gave us a new password. There was some back and forth, while we provided them with as much info as we had about the domain and so forth. In the end we rescued a couple of his sites as well as ours, which his family was delighted about...

    So, I think approaching the organisations in question, and being as open as possible, seems like your best bet.

    Good luck.

  224. Just some more wisdom... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Lots of great advice here, including booting live CDs, or removing the hard disks and plugging them into another computer as a slave drive. Then, carefully move or rename password files, edit /etc/shadow, etc. Be careful not to delete saved passwords, as in "wands", "wallets", "keychains", etc., which could help you get into email and online accounts (ebay, amazon, myspace, twitter, etc.)

    As a somewhat older person who has had to deal with death of close loved ones, I can tell you it is a very difficult position. I would NOT abdicate to a recovery company or lawyers or other 3rd parties. You may discover something less than wonderful about your friend's brother, and since he is sadly gone, you have a responsibility (in my opinion) to try to make the best of things for the living loved ones. Yes, I am saying I would wipe anything questionable or that would create more sadness in the family. Try to make the best of things. It's a heavy burden, but if you approach it carefully and with much tact, you will be a great help and blessing in the healing process. There is NOTHING to be gained by exposing anything negative you may find.

    If you find a clear suicide note, you probably have little choice in passing it along, but if the death looked and was ruled accidental, I would have to think long and hard about possibly keeping the note a secret. But hopefully you won't have to be burdened with that decision.

    If I died, I would want someone to dig into my stuff, emails, whatever, as much as they wanted to. That would be part of my will, and I would hope to leave things as easy as possible for people to deal with.

  225. The ethics of it, and the relieving your mind part by JoClay · · Score: 1

    I am both a geek and an ordained clergy person, and a Religious Studies professor, and I am also a mom and a sister, cousin, niece, etc. Wearing all those hats, I think that someone who can sensitively get into those accounts and figure out if it was or wasn't suicide could help the family in peace of mind, which is way beyond just helping pay for the funeral. But it needs to be someone who will not disclose the info in any hurtful way, someone who is very discreet and also insightful. Just as we love to have the physical hand written love letters and such of our ancestors, his relatives have the same need to have his electronic files, just as they would unquestionably have his files if they were in a file cabinet in an office. That's how I see it, anyway.

  226. A suggestion by Edam · · Score: 1

    First, may I offer my sympathy regarding your friend and her brother. Suicide is a tragic, tragic thing. I know from personal experience that it leaves you with a lot of unanswered questions. I wish all the best to her family.

    Regarding gaining access to their websites, etc, hHere is what I suggest:

    1) Get access to their email account(s).

    This should be fairly easy for "regular" email accounts - if they use Windows to collect mail, their passwords will probably be kept by their email software.

    Universities are going to be easier to talk to and more prepared to co-operate than companies (like MySpace, MSN, etc). Try speaking to someone at the University face to face about gaining access to their email account there.

    I'm not sure what I'd suggest about MSN/Hotmail email accounts though - they might be more problematic to gain access to.

    2) Go to the sites you want access to, such as MySpace for example, and go through their "forgotten password" procedures to have the website's password emailled to the email accounts you have access to.

    Once again, I wish you and their family all the best.

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  227. I'd prefer my data to be disposed of, too by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I am surprised to see so few people supporting the deceased person's privacy. For example, I certainly don't think anyone else should have access to very personal email exchanges. If I was having an affair, maybe I'd like to keep that a secret as well, even after I'm dead, out of respect for everyone else. Anything that I didn't publish or share I would consider mine, and I wouldn't want it to fall into anyone else's hands. I hope none of this will be my concern anytime soon, but just as a precaution I did add "please delete" to some personal folders, such as some of my nude pix from the time when I was more into online dating... ;)

  228. what is the link with technology .. ? by rs232 · · Score: 1

    "He was very into Linux as well as PHP/MySQL coding"

    Oh, well .. lets rewrite the headline to 'PHP/MySQL drove my younger brother to suicide' ..

    Hey, kdawson, this place used to be about technology ..

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  229. The linux box is easy to crack by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    boot with a install disc.
    Slack is the best, just mount his drive and you got full access.

    The service providers may allow you access to his other accounts if you get his parents to call their tech support with his obituary etc.. Proof..

    good luck, I had a friend that died but nobody ever bothered checking his stuff out. Probably for the best as there were things nobody needed to find.

    l8r

  230. Yes, but be aware... by docwatson223 · · Score: 1

    If it would help bring closure to your family, then please don't wait and start cracking right away. The downside is that you might find out about a person *none* of you knew. Tread carefully but diligently.

  231. ethics, here? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Coming to slashdot for ethical advice is like going to burger king for a healthy meal. It's likely you'll get the opposite to what you asked for.

  232. Cost-benefit analysis by Logi · · Score: 1

    From the question it seems like it's related to a life insurance policy that doesn't pay on suicide, which is the norm. So, the family ought to do a cost-benefit analysis...
    I find it inordinately sad if, after their son's/brother's death, the family gets together to do a cost-benefit analysis. There are much more important things to worry about here. By the tone of the original posting, thankfully, I believe the family is human enough to understand this.
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  233. Don't do it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

    IANAL but have dealt with a recent suicide.

    Suicide has to be proven by some means otherwise it will be ruled an accidental death. If there was no note, message or legal conversation indicating suicide it will likely be ruled an accidental death. That's not to say it won't be a fight to get life insurance to help defer funeral costs; we are six months into it and still dealing with them.

  234. Privacy by h-xman · · Score: 1

    Majority seem to think it's OK to crack his accounts etc. - I am not sure about it. I do understand that grieving parents need to know... but it's questionable - do they have right to know everything? People seem to think that anything that belonged to deceased is now some kind of property left for next of kin. But emails and stuff like that are not property that can be inherited... I think. It's not just about deceased person - it's also about people he communicated with. It's also about their privacy. If they had secrets they wanted to share with deceased - well it should go to the grave with him. These emails were meant for him - and only for him. No one else has any right to read them. I mean... I don't know about laws but morally... it seems to be wrong to read someone else's emails - no matter that he is no longer with us. You can inherit assets but I don't think it's about personal and private communication.

  235. Do it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

    I'm way late in replying, but the suicide could have been, at one point in my life, me. I know for a fact that I'd want someone to care enough to dig through my stuff to find out why and what happened.

    There's a GRUB/LILO trick to get root access. I don't remember the full details but it involves editing the bootup line and changing the init script to =/bin/bash and remounting the hard drive.

    If this guy was anything like me, you'll probably find some kind of message fairly quickly. The point of making the note hard to get at would be to prove that someone gave enough of a damn to get at the file.

  236. I think you're begging the question. by fugue · · Score: 1

    Legally, the people with the guns dictate what rights the rest of us have (and they take a few extra rights for themselves). But this wasn't a question of what is legal, but a question of what is ethical and respectful. Don't confuse those.

    No, I don't have much of an opinion on the OP's question. I'm not a very private person, but others are, and I would respect the wishes of the dead if I knew them.

    However, I have a huge problem with people speaking for the dead, or others who can't speak for themselves. "He would have wanted ..." is a lot like "Protect the children!" (or "The American People want...", I guess). There are a couple of people I'd trust to speak for me after my death, in that I'd expect them to get a few things wrong but I wouldn't mind too much. Of course, those people are the least likely to claim to be able to speak for me...

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  237. Get a lawyer involved. Duh. by jlenn0n · · Score: 0

    A lawyer would write the letters necessary to have passwords reset on the public accounts for the family to access. You're not going to find evidence of accidental death in the computer (unless he programmed with some AI, which killed him). A lawyer would also be able to work with the Medical Examiner to see what could be done.

    Doing anything else is just asking "i need someone who can hax0r gmail and my buddy's laptop". Go read skript-kiddie boards and stop wasting our time.

    And seriously. If I see a response about "they can't afford a funeral, let alone a lawyer", then you guys are truly hopeless if you don't know to call your local bar association for help.

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  238. My experience and comments by thallanor · · Score: 1

    I have been faced with this situation myself. My best friend committed suicide just two weeks before he was to emigrate from the UK to Canada. He never gave off any sense that this was something he would do or even consider, and so when it happened and I flew to the UK for his funeral, his family and friends asked me to see what I could find. I managed to access most things, and was unable to find a motive for his actions, though did find ample evidence indicating it had been well-planned and thought out for weeks, if not months. It did bring some closure though, even if the exact reason is still not known. I still have a 2 GB PGP-encrypted archive though that was created that evening... I am still wanting to some day be able to find out what might be in there. While my response is a bit long-winded, I guess my point is that it really depends on the situation. Different factors will influence whether it is the right or wrong decision. You'll have to decide that on your own though. Gut feeling is something I found important to listen to in my situation.

  239. DO NOT try this at home, boys and girls... by bwcbwc · · Score: 1

    If this relates to a legal matter, the only way you should even touch this person's computer is if you can be certified as an expert witness. Otherwise all you are doing is evidence tampering. As usual, talk to a lawyer.

    As far as accessing this person's user accounts, you're in a similar situation to the RIAA, except at least you have the real person's name, not just John Doe. If you make any attempt to access their accounts without express permission of the service providing the account, you are at a minimum in violation of their terms of service. You could also be up for charges of identity theft. Once again, talk to a lawyer.

    If you do decide to go ahead with this, make sure you have a neutral witness with you that is capable of confirming the chain of custody of anything you find. Once again, talk to a lawyer.

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  240. Why? by bwcbwc · · Score: 1

    Maybe his parents got conned into buying something like the "Gerber Life Grow-up plan"...

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  241. cracking a linux password is easy by kesuki · · Score: 1

    if you have access to the physical hardware, and know which password encryption method was used, and can write to the shadow file, you can generate a new password, and overwrite into the shadow, his root password, all with a recovery/repair cd/ disk image.

    I've forgotten a root password once (but it was on a bsd machine) so i just copied over my user account password in the shadow file, then set a new root password. it was easier for me because i knew a password on the system, the point is it's easy to generate a password with the correct crypto, if you have access to the shadow file, which most system recovery discs will easily give you access to.

  242. The problem is not in the cracking attempt by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I believe this whole problem can be passed away.
    If the guy didn't leave a note or anything that can be used to prove suicide, I believe it's the insurers' problem to prove it, not the family's problem to disprove it.
    So, as to say, the insurance must be paid, unless the insurer can prove it was a suicide, not the other way around.
    Anyway, someone specialized (police and/or a lawyer) should be consulted.
    IANAL, so take this with a truckload of salt.

  243. Time Limit by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There is a time limit on free services such as gmail before they expire and are deleted through non use. Therefore you may want to check the date from which those accounts have not been accessed since they may have already not been accessed for a while before the event occurred.

  244. DO NOT CONTAMINATE THE EVIDENCE!!! by Squ33k · · Score: 1

    If this is becomes a criminal matter, be sure to document every action you take, including deleting anything. not doing so will defiantly contaminate the evidence. I have worked in a computer forensics lab as an intern and if you honestly thing there is any chance of foul play, I would not touch any of it, at least until the investigators have said they won't do anything. Failing that hash, image, and rehash the hard drive. I suggest using SMART Linux of Helix, both of these have been certified to be used in forensic capacity by at least certain agencies. the most important thing is to not contaminate any of the evidence. Image the hard drive to an external device, then do all searching off of that device. Be sure to hash using MD5 or SHA, and be sure to do so before and after touching anything. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING YOU DO, PERIOD. Also take pictures of anything you do the the hardware. I can tell you right now, if it comes down to it, a defense lawyer will tear up any digital evidence presented that could possibly be contaminated. So document everything you do, and do the utmost to protect the integrity of the drive. Don't be an idiot and take any curtsies and delete any porn files, what will the deceased care, he is dead after all. this will just contaminate the evidence, investigators regularly come across this stuff, unless it depicts illegal acts, they don't care, but they will notice deletion of files which is suspicious and is contamination of the evidence. Sorry for anoymous post, first time posting here.

  245. I feel like devil's advocate, but I will anyway by garaged · · Score: 1

    do you realize that you only need to mount the disk (read-only preferable) on another box to read the contents, no need for crack, you can crack all the accounts to search for possible passwords for other services, but the data is easily readable

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