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Google Challenging Proposition 8

theodp writes "Coming the day after it announced layoffs and office closures, Google's California Supreme Court filing arguing for the overturn of Proposition 8, which asks the Court not to harm its ability to recruit and retain employees, certainly could have been better timed. Google's support of same-sex marriage puts it on the same page with Dan'l Lewin, Microsoft's man in Silicon-Valley, who joined other tech leaders last October to denounce Prop 8 in a full-page newspaper ad. But oddly, Microsoft HR Chief Mike Murray cited religious beliefs for his decision to contribute $100,000 to 'Yes On 8', surprising coming from the guy who had been charged with diversity and sensitivity training during his ten-year Microsoft stint. "

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  1. I don't get it by stoolpigeon · · Score: 3, Interesting

    why could the timing have been better? how are the two related?

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    1. Re:I don't get it by mrchaotica · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Google is claiming it's bad because it makes it harder to hire [gay] people, but it just laid off a bunch of people so it's not doing any hiring anyway.

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    2. Re:I don't get it by DurendalMac · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Yeah, same here. I don't see how this affects their ability to hire anyone, gay or straight. Prop 8 is bullshit, but this doesn't seem to have any real relation to it.

    3. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Gay's will be reluctant to move to california

    4. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Yeah, instead they'll move to one of all those other states where the voters have approved gay marriage.

      Oh wait...

    5. Re:I don't get it by ucblockhead · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The law will last a lot longer than this current recession.

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    6. Re:I don't get it by jellomizer · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Well just because they laid off people it doesn't mean they are not hiring. In a changing economy you need people with different skill sets. And most people can't or are not willing to adjust to the different jobs.

      For example are you willing to quit your tech job, and do a marketing job for less money. or would you rather loose your job in hopes of finding an other one.

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    7. Re:I don't get it by clone53421 · · Score: 5, Funny

      Unless Google is marrying them, I don't see how that works.

      I mean, that old joke about being married to your job... it's only a joke.

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    8. Re:I don't get it by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      So Google doesn't hire anyone who lives outside California?

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    9. Re:I don't get it by ZorbaTHut · · Score: 1

      Which isn't even necessarily true. Google just laid off a bunch of people who presumably were not performing up to spec, but if an all-star programmer applied, they'd be foolish not to hire them.

      Admittedly, I've felt Google hiring has been kind of foolish for a while, though :)

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    10. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Informative

      As a gay software engineer, I would be a lot more interested in moving to Massachusetts or Connecticut partially because they allow for same-sex marriage.

    11. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 5, Insightful

      simple, where would you rather work? Company A where your marriage is legal, you get benefits and tax breaks for that... or Company B where you and your husband/wife are legally "just good friends".

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    12. Re:I don't get it by camperdave · · Score: 4, Funny

      Being a web based company, they only want people with surfing experience.

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    13. Re:I don't get it by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      Many of Google major offices are in California though. As well California is where a lot of Tech people go for work. Pop 8 will spread gay tech people outside of California into other states/countries which are more accepting which may not be strong tech sector community where it isn't profitable to put locations in such areas. They are a minority group but say adding 2% extra to your hiring pool is better then loosing 2% of your pool.

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    14. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

      So how are you enjoying Leopard?

    15. Re:I don't get it by cbrocious · · Score: 1

      Yea, this is bullshit. There aren't any tech companies in Massachusetts that Google is competing with for employees. None at all.

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    16. Re:I don't get it by Phroggy · · Score: 1

      Gay people living in other states may not want to move to California to work for Google, if they know they won't be able to marry someone of the same sex there. Google doesn't care whether they're gay as long as it doesn't affect their work; Google just wants to hire the best people, and if the best people happen to be gay and turn down the job because of Prop 8, then Google has to settle for someone else.

      Obviously not all gay people would balk at moving to California because of Prop 8. I know a straight couple who have been living together in California for about 10 years now, and they don't seem to have any interest in getting married, even though they certainly could. Also, not all of the best people that Google could hire are gay (I'm sure most aren't), but as long as the numbers are above zero, it's a potential issue for the company.

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    17. Re:I don't get it by santiagoanders · · Score: 0, Troll

      As a supporter of Proposition 8, I would be a lot more interested in moving to a state that does not allow for same-sex marriage.

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    18. Re:I don't get it by clone53421 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Company A where your marriage is legal

      Google didn't pass the law. Google also isn't confined to California:

      Google has offices around the globe, from Bangalore to Zurich, but regardless of where we are, we nurture an invigorating, positive environment by hiring talented, local people who share our commitment to creating search perfection and want to have a great time doing it.

      In other words, if you live in California, the law is the law. Don't blame Google for it. In fact, if you feel like you're forced to move because of the law, you could probably ask to be transferred to another Google location.

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    19. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullshit. Try working at Google for a while. It's got turn-over. You get burnt out and find a job elsewhere were you don't work 16 hour days.

    20. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes - but have they seen this:
      http://littlurl.com/au5sq

    21. Re:I don't get it by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Gay people living in other states may not want to move to California to work for Google

      They don't have to.

      Browse U.S. openings

              * California - Irvine
              * California - Mountain View
              * California - San Francisco
              * California - San Bruno (YouTube)
              * California - Santa Monica
              * Colorado - Boulder
              * Georgia - Atlanta
              * Illinois - Chicago
              * Iowa - Council Bluffs
              * Massachusetts - Boston/Cambridge
              * New York - New York
              * North Carolina - Lenoir
              * Oregon - The Dalles
              * Pennsylvania - Pittsburgh
              * South Carolina - Charleston
              * Texas - Austin
              * Washington - Seattle/Kirkland
              * Washington D.C.
              * Multiple locations (includes telecommuting)

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    22. Re:I don't get it by FireStormZ · · Score: 4, Insightful

      How does this law hurt Googles ability to hire? seriously? Does this law prevent Google from giving same sex partner benefits?

      Under the guise of 'hurts hiring' one could wax a whole bunch of laws that should be in place. Laws *dont* exist to serve corperate interest... okay, okay laws *should* not exist to serve corperate interest.

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    23. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 3, Insightful

      who's blaming google? But damned if I'm going to live somewhere where my marriage may or may not be legal. Any company from that state would have to work a LOT harder then those in states/countries where I don't need to worry about stuff like that.

      and that is their point. To attract GLBT employees to their Cali locations they need to offer FAR more then other companies do.

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    24. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And the rest of us would be happy for bigots like you to leave. I suggest going one further and leave the country.

    25. Re:I don't get it by Propaganda13 · · Score: 0, Troll

      where you and your husband/wife are legally "just good friends".

      Is that the correct pc term nowadays? I have trouble keeping track.

      Hey Bob, how's that husband/wife of yours? I heard he got laid off at Google.

    26. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      Wow, a genuine optimist!

    27. Re:I don't get it by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Many of Google major offices are in California though. As well California is where a lot of Tech people go for work.

      So Google.California competes with EveryOtherTechCompany.California, who also has to follow Prop 8.

      Pop 8 will spread gay tech people outside of California into other states/countries which are more accepting which may not be strong tech sector community where it isn't profitable to put locations in such areas.

      Why would someone who was in the tech field move to a location where it wasn't profitable to put a tech company? Do they want to be unemployed? They could just move to any one of numerous other locations where Google has offices. Hell, they could telecommute from anywhere in the world if they wanted to.

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    28. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 1

      it hurts their ability to hire because they need to offer more benefits/salary then companies not in Cali... assuming they can even attract the GLBT talent they are looking for at any price. I know many Canadian GLBT folk who would never move anywhere in the states now, regardless of wage, simply because there is now precedent for a state revoking marriages and removing benefits... even if they were to go to a state where it is currently legal, that may not last.

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    29. Re:I don't get it by FireStormZ · · Score: 1

      Google Cambridge
      5 Cambridge Center, Floors 3-6.
      Cambridge, MA 02142

      Seems they already can compete for MA employees..

      Should all companies get to repeal laws that might make their life harder or just the companys you like or laws you hate?

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    30. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Work for Google somewhere else, then.

    31. Re:I don't get it by FireStormZ · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      Many companies in states without same sex marriage provide same sex benefits. And Google is more than welcome to recognize any marriage it pleases, it can even have anniversary parties..

      This is just a cooperation pushing its personal politics and just because many agree with it does not make that any more acceptable.

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    32. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 1

      ya, I hear that there are no tech jobs in Canada eh?

      it is amazing the lengths people will go to to get a job somewhere that respects their basic human rights...

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    33. Re:I don't get it by Theaetetus · · Score: 5, Insightful

      As a supporter of Proposition 8, I would be a lot more interested in moving to a state that does not allow for same-sex marriage.

      Many of us normal folks would be willing to throw in a few bucks for your one-way ticket to Iran.

    34. Re:I don't get it by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

      If the layoff is driven by poor performance rather than changing needs, it would call into question Google's rather elaborate hiring process.

    35. Re:I don't get it by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      As I keep telling others, I'm sure the ancient Romans said similar things just before the Dark Ages.

      Don't be so sure this recession is temporary or short.

    36. Re:I don't get it by Firehed · · Score: 1

      And in precisely how many states is gay marriage legally acknowleged? I may be mistaken, but I believe the answer is one (Mass.), with three or four others allowing Civil Unions couples the same benefits as married couples without calling it a marriage.

      It may fail to give Google an advantage over most of the country, but I don't think it really hurts them.

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    37. Re:I don't get it by corbettw · · Score: 5, Insightful

      There's also a subset of people who are straight, but would not feel comfortable moving to a state/country that tramples on the civil rights of a minority. Can't forget about them.

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    38. Re:I don't get it by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      Should all companies get to repeal laws that might make their life harder or just the companys you like or laws you hate?

      They should certainly get to try. Geez, pull the stick out.

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    39. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 2, Insightful

      can google provide their GLBT employees with state and federal marriage level tax breaks? how about visitation rights in the hospital? or inheritance rights?

      cause I know a few companies over here where GLBT folks can get those...

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    40. Re:I don't get it by Grishnakh · · Score: 2, Insightful

      This is just a cooperation pushing its personal politics and just because many agree with it does not make that any more acceptable.

      So I guess when Mr. Schindler's company sheltered Jews from the Nazis, that was also "pushing personal politics" and similarly unacceptable to you?

    41. Re:I don't get it by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Marketing jobs usually pay more than tech jobs, I think. However, even if I were to take one rather than lose my current tech job, I'm sure I would be a very poor performer as marketing and schmoozing simply aren't my forte.

    42. Re:I don't get it by Phroggy · · Score: 1

      Not all positions are available in all locations. The job you want may only be offered in Mountain View. For example, if you want to work in AdWords customer service, you can't do it in The Dalles, because that facility is just a datacenter.

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    43. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Google is claiming it's bad because it makes it harder to hire [gay] people

      This is the part I didn't understand. In what way does this Proposition 8 have any influence of their hiring?

    44. Re:I don't get it by Dan667 · · Score: 1

      A good company will always hire very high caliber talent if they can find them, even in a bad economy. They pay for themselves very quickly and make the company money.

    45. Re:I don't get it by Albanach · · Score: 1

      You were considering applying but hadn't taken time to read their diversity statement, or their culture page? I'm guessing you wouldn't have enjoyed working for a company that is "aggressively non-discriminatory" and which considers "diversity and inclusion" as fundamental. Don't think this will represent any great loss for you, indeed it might have saved you wasting your time.

      Nonetheless, I think if Google have a problem with God, it's only with your God. My God would rather I leave the judging of others up to him/her while I stick to loving my neigbour.

    46. Re:I don't get it by supernova_hq · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I hate responding to anymous cowards, but this is a statement to all of slashdot. Every time one of these laws comes out that most people (on slashdot at least) find morally wrong, there are calls for change and for people with power to make the change happen.

      News Flash: GOOGLE HAS POWER!

      So why the hell are people bitching about a company doing something RIGHT in regards to changing laws?
      With the amount of power Google has (not to mention their marketing business), you should be counting your lucky big toes that they aren't trying to legalize snooping, etc. In fact they tend to do the OPPOSITE (well, except for China).

      Sorry for the rant, but if you guys are going to bitch for change, then don't bitch when someone tries to make it happen!

    47. Re:I don't get it by FireStormZ · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      So much of this is bunk.. (other than the 'tax breaks')

      Visitation rights: before I was married to my wife I was not only granted visitation I was her medical proxy! Marriage is not required for that

      Inheritance: Do you need to be married to write a will?

      Do you know what hurts employment in California? insanely high taxes, wasteful spending and over regulation but if a company sued about that they would be 'evil'

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    48. Re:I don't get it by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      I'm sure people said the same thing when interracial marriage was a hot topic. Are you against that too? It's against many religions' teachings.

    49. Re:I don't get it by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      Except every state that has put it to a vote so far as declared that marriage is limited to one man and one woman.
      I think Massachusetts is the only state that has same sex marriage at this time. Even Vermont only has civil unions.

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    50. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 2, Insightful

      tell google to move the job I was hired for then?

      tell google to let me telecommute every day from another state then?

      or just tell google that I'm going to do the same job for their competitor elsewhere?

      not all jobs can be just picked up and moved to another state. Hardware support, you can't be hired on as a tech for their Cali based servers and live in Canada can you?

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    51. Re:I don't get it by supernova_hq · · Score: 1

      Citation Needed

    52. Re:I don't get it by supernova_hq · · Score: 1

      If Google is successful in reversing Proposition 8, people may be less reluctant to move there. I'm sure lots still won't, but some will.

    53. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 0
      "I know many Canadian GLBT folk who would never move anywhere in the states now, regardless of wage, simply because there is now precedent for a state revoking marriages and removing benefits... even if they were to go to a state where it is currently legal, that may not last."

      Might it also have to do with the fact they are Canadian, and from a whole fucking other country than California?!?!

      Most people in the world don't move from country to country do they? Don't most people stay their live (aside from vacation) in the country of birth? Gay or straight?

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    54. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

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    55. Re:I don't get it by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      What other states?
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_marriage_legislation_in_the_United_States_by_state
      So far only three states have same sex marriage. The majority of states have outright banned it.

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    56. Re:I don't get it by BobReturns · · Score: 1

      I don't think anyone is trying to blame google for the law.
      And as for moving away from the law, I doubt many people are willing to move quite as far as Bangalore.

    57. Re:I don't get it by Quiet_Desperation · · Score: 1

      And of course Google will never hire anyone ever again, right?

      An American company actually does something involving looking at the long term, and they get criticized. Go figure.

    58. Re:I don't get it by Phroggy · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      There's also a subset of people who are straight, but would not feel comfortable moving to a state/country that tramples on the civil rights of a minority. Can't forget about them.

      Nor can you forget the subset of people who would not feel comfortable moving to a state/country that permits same-sex marriage. It hasn't been legal in most societies throughout thousands of years of history, and a lot of people don't think abruptly reversing this policy is a good idea. Enough people, in fact, that they managed to get Prop8 passed in the first place.

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    59. Re:I don't get it by Ethanol-fueled · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I know, especially the good human families with one man and four women at once.

      I think that your straight-faced belief in fairy tales might have something to do with Google not wanting to hire you. Cuz, ya know, most of us quit believing in Santy Claus when we were, oh, 5 or 6. Because your so-called "talents" obviously don't include rational thought. Or I just got whooshed.

      Either way, just sayin ;)

    60. Re:I don't get it by narcc · · Score: 1

      Billions of theists disagree with you. Though I'm curious as to how Google is discriminating against people who hold your particular set of beliefs.

    61. Re:I don't get it by Em+Ellel · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Should all companies get to repeal laws that might make their life harder or just the companys you like or laws you hate?

      Well, in a country where churches get to make the laws, corporations should get to repeal them. Sounds like its only fair.

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      Efficient indeed.

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    62. Re:I don't get it by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1, Insightful

      So, exactly how many places are there that recognize "marriages" between two people of the same sex?

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    63. Re:I don't get it by FireStormZ · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Nice subtle link into Goodwin! When in doubt compare someone to a nazi!

      but the equivalent for Google is to provide benefits and compensate for any 'tax penalties' gay employees might face. Did Schindler sue the government or just use his personal wealth to help people?

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    64. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "simple, where would you rather work? Company A where your marriage is legal, you get benefits and tax breaks for that... or Company B where you and your husband/wife are legally "just good friends"."

      Err...isn't it the company that is offering benefits? I don't think that is a state mandated thing, still pretty much voluntary isn't it? So...Google could offer any benefits it wanted right?

      And the state has to do with taxes....Google has nothing to do with that. So, I guess that one might hold water....homosexuals that wanted marriage tax breaks might go somewhere it is legal, but, heck...there are only a couple states in the union that recognize that...

      I doubt anyone that wants to live and work in CA is gonna move JUST for that...

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    65. Re:I don't get it by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      Yeah, instead they'll move to one of all those other states where the voters have approved gay marriage.

      Whether "voters approved" it or not is irrelevant, what is relevant is legality. And, yes, aside from that, people moving because they prefer jobs where same-sex marriage is legal, or not being willing to move to California to accept jobs at Google from places that gay marriage is already legal, like the states of Massachussetts and Connecticut, or the countries of the Netherlands, Belgium, Spain, Canada, South Africa, Norway, and Nepal, is precisely the point: Google's recruitment for jobs located in California isn't restricted to people that already live in California or even the United States. Sure, in some of those places Google already has offices and may hire people, and it certainly could, at some cost, move functions from California to those places. But to say there is no impact is nonsense.

    66. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 1

      Im going to guess you were not a same sex couple at a religious hospital? (and before someone replies with "then why did you go to a religious hospital?!", sometimes people have an accident and need to go to the emergency room... you generally go to the closest one, even if they think you are dirty sinners who will go right to the guts of hell). Same sex couples have and ARE being denied visitation rights to partners because they are not married.

      and you may want to check your federal and state based inheritance laws to see just how often the word "marriage" and "spouse" come up. I will give you a hint, it's a LOT! Know what happens to your social security when you are not married when you die? it goes poof... if you are married it goes to your spouse. If you are "married" you are taxed FAR less on any estate that goes to your spouse... but your "good friend" will see about half of it go to the city/state/feds.

      there are also little things like "not everyone has a will". If you are married and dont have one, your spouse is made your next of kin... no marriage and ho knows who will get it by default.

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    67. Re:I don't get it by VeNoM0619 · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Plain and simple: marriage is a religious belief. Last I checked Seperation of church and state should still be held. So tell the government to quit recognizing ALL marriages.

      The idea of tieing yourself to another human being legally is a gut wrenching thought (and from hearing those who are/have been married, I am safe on these assumptions anyways). Especially from a male perspective where if he (OR HER) fucks it up, HE will lose 50% of his stuff, and be forced to pay child support for the next few decades, and HE will lose custody of ALL their children.

      Call me old fashioned, but I'm for equal rights... which strangely seems to piss a few women off.

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    68. Re:I don't get it by russotto · · Score: 1

      Should all companies get to repeal laws that might make their life harder or just the companys you like or laws you hate?

      It's a refreshing change from companies (and large industry assocations) _passing_ laws which make their lives easier at my expense. However, in an ideal world, it would only be laws I hate, though that wouldn't limit it all THAT much :-)

    69. Re:I don't get it by xouumalperxe · · Score: 1

      It's husband/wife, if you're a gay/lesbian, respectively. Nothing PC about it. Of course, the OP could just have used "spouse", but whatever.

    70. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "and that is their point. To attract GLBT employees to their Cali locations they need to offer FAR more then other companies do."

      Your whole premise seems to be for companies like google, for some reason to want to attract homosexual employees?

      Shouldn't they be trying to hire the best technical people out there.....regardless of their sexual persuasion, race or sex?? Why would they want to attract someone 'because' of their sexual persuasion? Seems that would be discriminatory against non-homosexual types???

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    71. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 1

      several countries and a handful of states. Follow the link to google above and do a search.

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    72. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow, a genuine optimist!

      Funny, I had the opposite thought.

    73. Re:I don't get it by Associate · · Score: 1

      You forgot trolling and fishing.

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    74. Re:I don't get it by riceboy50 · · Score: 1

      MTV Networks has been giving benefits to life partners since long before homosexual marriage was briefly legalized, and they haven't stopped since it was overturned.

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    75. Re:I don't get it by Capt.DrumkenBum · · Score: 0

      "you can't be hired on as a tech for their Cali based servers and live in Canada can you?"

      Sure toy can, but the commute is a bitch. :)

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    76. Re:I don't get it by faraway · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I'm not really sure you live in a very diverse area. I've worked in semiconductors, and know plenty of people in the software business. Gay's are not a minority. Most gays are usually quite well educated, which is more than I can say regarding the majority of Americans.

      Gays are a minority in America. They're not a minority in higher-level jobs requiring an education.

    77. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 1

      they wouldn't be going after someone because they are GLBT, but if the best person for the job IS glbt and either refuses to move to Cali, or requires a far higher package, then they may have to go wit the second or third best person for the job.

      end result, either they end up with a sub-par workforce, of they end up paying significantly more for the workforce they want because of this law... either way, costs them money.

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    78. Re:I don't get it by vux984 · · Score: 1

      Shouldn't they be trying to hire the best technical people out there.....regardless of their sexual persuasion, race or sex??

      Yes.

      Why would they want to attract someone 'because' of their sexual persuasion?

      They don't.

      But guess what, some the best technical people out there happen to be gay (lesbian, black, jewish, or any other minotiry).

      If the most qualified person your headhunter can find happens to be gay, its going to be a lot harder to convince him to relocate to California now.

    79. Re:I don't get it by Capt.DrumkenBum · · Score: 1

      In above... toy := you

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    80. Re:I don't get it by faraway · · Score: 3, Informative

      Actually, judging by semiconductor, which is a mix 90% mix of Asian/Indian, 10% White (of which a lot are european immigrants).

      And by software, when I dropped by the MS campus in Mountain View I was amazed to see the huge number of Russians and Indians.

      High tech jobs have a lot of country to country moving.

    81. Re:I don't get it by bigstrat2003 · · Score: 1

      Many of us folks would like it if you didn't drag this thread down into flaming. I understand you disagree with him: so do I. Nonetheless it's pointless to turn this into personal attack time.

      For that matter, he has a valid point. If one tries to argue that Google should oppose this for practical reasons, that falls flat on its face, because there will be just as many people who would want to work for them because of a lack of gays as there will be gays who don't want to work there. Practicality doesn't enter the equation here, this is a moral issue.

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    82. Re:I don't get it by DragonWriter · · Score: 2, Informative

      So, exactly how many places are there that recognize "marriages" between two people of the same sex?

      Countries on every continent except, IIRC, Australia and South America, and two US states (Massachussetts and Connecticut), and ISTR seeing New York recently adopt a policy of recognizing out-of-state marriages of that type though it doesn't perform them.

    83. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      [...] but it just laid off a bunch of people [...]

      Really? 'Cause I just read the articles and they said they're eliminating 100 (in-house) recruiting positions and expect most of them to find other positions within Google.

      It also said it'll close several offices, which will effect 70 engineers. They are giving the engineers a chance to relocate, so they're not laying them off, but they acknowledge that relocation doesn't fly with some people. So, all together, there's 170 people being effected, most of which won't be out of a job, but will have either a new position or a new office to report into. I'd find that hard to call that a "bunch of people" in relation to Google's size, even if they were all out of work. At least, compared to the news such as Circuit City is going under and 30,000 will be out of jobs.

      [...] so it's not doing any hiring anyway.

      Their press release stated they're still hiring but not as fast as they where before.

      They are, however, eliminating a lot of contractor positions, which is probably far more significant than their own internal changes. But I suppose it's all relative. If Google laid off even one person, it's probably be news because of Googles success.

    84. Re:I don't get it by bigstrat2003 · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Moderators: grow a pair, and stop abusing your power. As much as I disagree with this poster's opinion, it is not trolling to point out the serious flaw in the "opposing Prop 8 is practical for them" argument.

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    85. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 2, Informative

      cause the US is the only country in the world with tech jobs?

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    86. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 3, Insightful
      "Gays are a minority in America. They're not a minority in higher-level jobs requiring an education."

      Well, we're talking about a law here, that will effect everyone out there, NOT just the people in higher level jobs, so we are indeed talking about CA and even larger, America in general.

      If they were not a minority, these laws would not be passed and existing ones would be overturned.

      Personally? I don't think any breaks should be given to anyone just for being married or having kids. It makes those that are not...effectively subsidizing the behavior of those that do. So, no...I don't think tax breaks should be there for anyone as a 'couple', straight or gay. If you work...you pay.

      While homosexuals are a very vocal minority out there...you can't kid yourself in thinking they are anything but a minority, and a fairly small one at that with regards to humans in general.

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    87. Re:I don't get it by FireStormZ · · Score: 1

      "Im going to guess you were not a same sex couple at a religious hospital? "

      We were unmarried but it was a religious hospital... saint something or other... but the laws regarding visitation and proxy don't know gender or religion Catholic hospitals have to obey them just as county hospitals would. Yes its a pain filling out and filing a piece of paper but it does get the 'I cant visit' out of the way.

      "Same sex couples have and ARE being denied visitation rights to partners because they are not married."

      No they are being denied because they are not married and *have not filled out medical proxy paper work* if you really want to serve the homosexual community regarding this please at least tell them of the rights they do have rather than just tell them they dont have any.

      "and you may want to check your federal and state based inheritance laws to see just how often the word "marriage" and "spouse" come up."

      Marriage creates a 'default' set of conditions for inheritance it does *not* supersede a will

      "there are also little things like "not everyone has a will"."

      Not everyone has insurance either that does not mean they *cant* have it.

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    88. Re:I don't get it by Teun · · Score: 2, Informative

      It may well be, but, I fail to see how gay marriage affects the ability of a company to hire and retain employees?!?!?

      I mean, gays are such a minority out there,

      You clearly mis a few points.
      First; gays are very much above average represented in the arts and design world.
      Second; gays might be a minority but there are very many more than you seem to think, even outside of the world of arts.

      is whether they can marry such a big deal with respect to employment? Won't they, like anyone else...go to where the jobs are? It isn't like they can marry everywhere else in the US, and will leave CA in droves.

      There is a way above average number of gays in California and other places with the type of employment that the high tech and entertainment industry offers.
      That's no doubt a prime reason why the Californian industry is strong in these fields and vice versa, one comes with the other.

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    89. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "Actually, judging by semiconductor, which is a mix 90% mix of Asian/Indian, 10% White (of which a lot are european immigrants).

      And by software, when I dropped by the MS campus in Mountain View I was amazed to see the huge number of Russians and Indians.

      High tech jobs have a lot of country to country moving.

      "

      I'm assuming 'semiconductor' is a company in the US?

      If so..it sounds like your example just means when people DO move between countries, in the tech world...they all seem to move mostly to the US?

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    90. Re:I don't get it by Achromatic1978 · · Score: 1

      Google providing compensation for federal and state issues to only LGBT employees would last a good hour or so before someone raced, rightly, to a lawyer and sued them for sexual discrimination (even if such discrimination was done in the "spirit" of equality).

    91. Re:I don't get it by znerk · · Score: 1

      Most people in the world don't move from country to country do they? Don't most people stay their live (aside from vacation) in the country of birth? Gay or straight?

      Might wanna check your migration figures against the facts and statistics in Europe. If I understand it correctly, many people bounce between countries several times throughout their lifetimes on that side of the pond...

      Comparatively speaking, the United States is fairly large, landmass-wise (Texas is bigger than several European countries), so us "Americans" might not think of leaving the country as a viable employment search. In smaller countries, one might have to show their passport 3 or more times on a 6-hour drive. I don't know about you, but if the money was right, I wouldn't hesitate to push a 90+ minute daily commute, assuming I wouldn't just up stakes and move to someplace closer - i like my commute to be 10 minutes or less, and have moved across town, even to another state for exactly that reason.

      In other words, don't show off your lack of culture. The world is more than just this hemisphere, and if you pay attention, national boundaries are becoming less important to everyone except the politicians. Welcome to the global community.

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    92. Re:I don't get it by Sique · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Yes, homosexuality was forbidden in the late Roman Empire. They were growing and expanding while homosexuality was considered normal and morally ok.

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    93. Re:I don't get it by Skrynesaver · · Score: 2, Insightful

      They can however marry in other countries and may opt to remain in those countries rather than travel to a medieval theocracy for employment. Thus reducing Google's ability to recruit internationally.

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    94. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "If the most qualified person your headhunter can find happens to be gay, its going to be a lot harder to convince him to relocate to California now."

      I doubt that seriously...I mean, even with this law...CA seems to cater to the homosexual crowd more than most states today.

      And hell...what states in the US grant homosexual marriage anyway? MA?? That's about it, right?

      Given that...I kinda doubt this is going to hurt their ability to recruit homosexual people.

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    95. Re:I don't get it by cheshiremoe · · Score: 1

      That is why it is important for there to be national legislation legalizing it in all states. If you move to a different state for a job should not mean that your marriage does not hold up in the eyes of the law. And don't tell me that devoted gay couples will get the same rights/benefits if you call it civil unions as my wife and I get. It is inherit that people will treat civil unions differently, .

    96. Re:I don't get it by Achromatic1978 · · Score: 1

      So...Google could offer any benefits it wanted right?

      Not if it intends to selectively offer benefits to people on the grounds of sexual orientation... they have a phrase for that...

    97. Re:I don't get it by Chees0rz · · Score: 1

      Those 2 google links indicate office closures (redeployment of engineers, not firing) and the firing of 100 HR personel....It even says they are still hiring (just at a slower rate)

      I move to have your logic stricken from the record.

    98. Re:I don't get it by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Those people are religious fundamentalists, not exactly the kind of people you want working for you if you're looking for smart people...

    99. Re:I don't get it by SupremoMan · · Score: 1

      As a heterosexual I pick Company B!

    100. Re:I don't get it by SpecBear · · Score: 1

      The California Supreme Court has previously ruled that same-sex couples were entitled to marriage rights under the equal protection clause of the state constitution. Prop 8 reverses this, and presents two problems for an employer's attempt to recruit anyone from out of state who is homosexual.

      First, people who are married will be highly unlikely to relocate to a state where their marriage won't be recognized.

      Secondly, and more seriously, if Prop 8 stands then it will set the precedent that particular group can be stripped of constitutional rights by a simple majority vote. If gays can have their marriage rights taken away by referendum, then any other rights assured by the state constitution are also up for grabs. People will likely be averse to moving to a state where their basic rights are subject to the whims of voters.

    101. Re:I don't get it by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 4, Informative

      What has struck me as ironic is Christians citing monogamous heterosexual marriage as something ordained by God, when the monogamous part of it was in fact pressed upon the Hebrews and other subjected people of the Roman Empire.

      Marriage was first and foremost about kinship ties and property rights in most civilizations, not about procreation.

    102. Re:I don't get it by Sparr0 · · Score: 4, Informative

      This law prevents Google from giving same sex partners benefits for the same price. Insuring two unmarried people is far more expensive than two married people.

    103. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But are you willing to chip in to send everyone to Iran that you disagree with?

      Because in the case of Prop 8. That's a majority of the voters of California.

      If the majority determines what is normal and right and wrong (and they do) then you should buy yourself a one-way ticket.

    104. Re:I don't get it by McBeer · · Score: 2, Informative

      Its not just tax breaks. It's

      • Automatic Inheritance
      • Automatic Housing Lease Transfer
      • Burial Determination
      • Child Custody
      • Crime Victim's Recovery Benefits
      • Divorce Protections
      • Domestic Violence Protection
      • Exemption from Property Tax on Partner's Death
      • Immunity from Testifying Against Spouse
      • Insurance Breaks
      • Joint Adoption and Foster Care
      • Joint Bankruptcy
      • Joint Parenting (Insurance Coverage, School Records)
      • Medical Decisions on Behalf of Partner
      • Certain Property Rights
      • Reduced Rate Memberships
      • Sick Leave to Care for Partner
      • Visitation of Partner's Children
      • Visitation of Partner in Hospital or Prison
      • Wrongful Death (Loss of Consort) Benefits
      • Access to Military Stores
      • Assumption of Spouse's Pension
      • Bereavement Leave
      • Immigration
      • Insurance Breaks
      • Medical Decisions on Behalf of Partner
      • Sick Leave to Care for Partner
      • Social Security Survivor Benefits
      • Sick Leave to Care for Partner
      • Tax Breaks
      • Veteran's Discounts
      • Hospital/Prison Visitiation

      And probably more that I'm not aware of.

      Having these benefits makes living in California a more attractive proposition to Gay people and, as such, working for Google in California a more attractive proposition. Ergo, proposition 8 has economically harmed Google and they are well within thier rights to make a fuss about it.

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    105. Re:I don't get it by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      If you are going to be working in senior management or close to it, the "another Google location" thing doesn't necessarily work.

    106. Re:I don't get it by khallow · · Score: 1

      Boston, Massachusetts is the largest competitor for Silicon Valley. And homosexuals seem more common in educated and high tech careers than in the general population. Further, it doesn't strike me that gay marriage will remain in its current state. I think Google has the right idea.

    107. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sure google can honor any marriage that it wants to, but when a same sex partner applies to use medical benefits that google says they should have the insurance company IS going to say, this is not a legally recognized marriage. We will not cover these charges. Should google then pick up the tab just because they disagree with the current law. Isn't it better for a corporation to try to correct a law that prevents someone from providing for their wife/husband?

    108. Re:I don't get it by Teun · · Score: 1

      Do you know what hurts employment in California? insanely high taxes, wasteful spending and over regulation.

      Exactly, that ban on gay marriages is over regulation, the state should not get involved in these private matters.
      A couple is a couple, regardless of colour, religion, nationality or sex.

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    109. Re:I don't get it by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      It is profitable to be next to your competitors. You are competing against them no matter where you are at. However clustering in an area allows for people with particular skills to move in the area. If they quit, lied off, competitor goes out of business in that area then there is a pool of people with the skill sets desired and their roots are set in that area.

      I worked for a company that was 30 miles away from my areas tech sectors. While it was a great place to work they had a hard time finding and keeping people there, as it was too far from other opportunities.

      Why do you think most of the Banks are Centered based in Boston, or Insurance companies mainly in Hartford. Why car companies are in Detroit.

      When there is a lot of competition for good talent in an area, they tend to attract a lot of good people. So the not a good for for say a Google, may be an excellent employee for a smaller company near by.

      It does make business sense. Vs going say in the middle of nowhere and trying to find good people so you can only pickup what you can get, vs an area where you have a pool of people to choose from.

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    110. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "That is why it is important for there to be national legislation legalizing it in all states. If you move to a different state for a job should not mean that your marriage does not hold up in the eyes of the law. And don't tell me that devoted gay couples will get the same rights/benefits if you call it civil unions as my wife and I get. It is inherit that people will treat civil unions differently, ."

      I'm vehemently opposed to most any national legislation. One of the things that make the US great, is the (slipping) states rights element of our country. If you don't like how things are in your state...move to one that is more like you!! We're a diverse nation, and different areas have different feelings, needs and beliefs.

      That being said, as I'd mentioned in another post. I'm pretty much against ALL couples special tax breaks. I don't think we should give tax breaks to manipulate behavior, like marriage or tax breaks for kids. Those that don't do those thing, don't get the breaks, and effectively subsidize those other behaviors. I think we could actually take those breaks away, and make it more equitable on an individual basis.

      I'm against adding another category to the pile.

      But as far as marriage...well, aside from the finanical aspect of it, since it has been around, sure...grandfather it in, but, I don't want to make more 'special' unions out there. What's next? People that are just roommates (no sex) need special provisions. Are we limiting it to just people that fornicate with each other? That seems hardly fair? And why just 2 people? Why not allow people with bigamist beliefs in on the party, and give them special rights and tax breaks?

      Frankly, I'm tired of all these special, new categories of people(s)...and every one demanding special rights for this and that....

      Fuck it all....make everyone be recognized and judged, and taxes on an individual basis. Now THAT is equality across the board, no?

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    111. Re:I don't get it by p0tat03 · · Score: 1

      Laws *dont* exist to serve corperate interest... okay, okay laws *should* not exist to serve corperate interest.

      No, we absolutely should cater to corporate interests on the caveat that those interests benefit the people. Creating employment is a net benefit to the people (depending on what you're giving up in exchange), and IMHO there shouldn't be opposition to lawmaking for the sake of companies simply because they are corporations. Let each proposal be judged on its own merit.

    112. Re:I don't get it by reallyjoel · · Score: 2, Informative

      you can't kid yourself in thinking they are anything but a minority, and a fairly small one at that with regards to humans in general.

      10% is not so small..

    113. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you can't kid yourself in thinking they are anything but a minority, and a fairly small one at that with regards to humans in general

      10% is small?

    114. Re:I don't get it by Pollardito · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Personally? I don't think any breaks should be given to anyone just for being married or having kids. It makes those that are not...effectively subsidizing the behavior of those that do.

      we "subsidize" all sorts of behaviors, and in this case that behavior is the reason that each one of us is alive. I don't have a problem with tax breaks for those people that are having kids, but if that's what we're doing then those tax breaks should be specifically for that and not just for getting married (which is already a good financial strategy).

    115. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Better check your history again... you may find the fact don't fit your prejudices

    116. Re:I don't get it by FireStormZ · · Score: 1

      Wait this law also keeps Canadians out... wow that's a two-fer...

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    117. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 0, Troll
      "First; gays are very much above average represented in the arts and design world. Second; gays might be a minority but there are very many more than you seem to think, even outside of the world of arts."

      So what? Blacks are very much above average represented in the NBA. And while they may be a minority, there are very many more than you seem to think...etc..etc.

      So, should be give them special rights above others?

      I'm not going to argue quotas and such here...but, the point is, that sure, there are higher representations of some people over others in some areas...and so what? It surely isn't the basis for putting those people for whatever reason above other just because of the way they look, or behave or what they prefer to fuck when the lights are out.

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    118. Re:I don't get it by Teun · · Score: 1
      And since when do you need marriage to procreate???
      And since when is removing these restrictions on tax breaks (main practical excuse for marriage) going to incite people to suddenly turn gay?

      You must be from one of these states where sexual education is frowned upon...

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    119. Re:I don't get it by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So Basically, You'd prefer to discriminate based on religious Belief? I would have thought that the opposite of intolerance would be tolerance, but what do I know? You'd probably just attach a dismissive label to me to avoid having to think about the consequences of my ideas.

      If all you do is hate those that hate you, and love those that love you, then you're not really doing anything constructive to change the situation.

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    120. Re:I don't get it by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      If the best person for the job refuses to move to Cali because of, oh, say taxes or housing costs, the same argument applies. The government isn't obligated to make the best candidate for your opening want to move to your state.

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    121. Re:I don't get it by F3V0H1B · · Score: 1

      I find these pictures amazing and think this should be the future of businesses:

      http://freshpics.blogspot.com/2007/02/google-offices.html

      I wouldn't be surprised if Google doesn't add a wedding chapel to their offices.

    122. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 2, Insightful
      "we "subsidize" all sorts of behaviors, and in this case that behavior is the reason that each one of us is alive. I don't have a problem with tax breaks for those people that are having kids, but if that's what we're doing then those tax breaks should be specifically for that and not just for getting married (which is already a good financial strategy)."

      But why give a break for having kids? I mean, in general for humans, it is natural to fuck, and that results in having kids. I seriously doubt that it every comes up where deciding upon having kids whether that will help with the coming tax years. I just can't picture:

      "Hon, I'd like to have another kid...think we should? I dunno hon, but, before you take that rubber off, lets go downstairs and consult our 1040 instructional form, and see what the tax benefits are? What?? We can get how much for procreating tonight?? Rip off that rubber lover, and put that thing in me!!"

      I dunno...I just don't picture that happening. I think with everyone, that tax break is something that is discovered LONG after the minutes of passion have subsided. So, if that's the case...why do we keep the break? It certainly isn't an incentive to have kids. And yet, it DOES still have the effect of those who have none, or less kids....are subsidizing those that do have more kids. That just doens't seem fair to me....especially in light of the fact that people have and will fuck, and have kids if the tax break were revoked tomorrow!!

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    123. Re:I don't get it by Just+Some+Guy · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Most gays are usually quite well educated, which is more than I can say regarding the majority of Americans.

      Perhaps the gays down at the steel plant might be more prone to keep quiet about it because it's less tolerated in that environment?

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    124. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Most of Europe is pretty much all for it:
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same_sex_marriage

      The larger parts of the rest of the world that's not Northern America or Europe has more pressing issues to think about like poverty and violence.

    125. Re:I don't get it by DamnStupidElf · · Score: 1

      The heteros would just have to have way more sex and kids. Sounds fine to me.

    126. Re:I don't get it by lwsimon · · Score: 4, Informative

      We are not talking about a law here, we're talking about a constitutional amendment.

      The courts have no authority to change a state's constitution.

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    127. Re:I don't get it by clone53421 · · Score: 1
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    128. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "Might wanna check your migration figures against the facts and statistics in Europe. If I understand it correctly, many people bounce between countries several times throughout their lifetimes on that side of the pond...

      Comparatively speaking, the United States is fairly large, landmass-wise (Texas is bigger than several European countries), so us "Americans" might not think of leaving the country as a viable employment search. In smaller countries, one might have to show their passport 3 or more times on a 6-hour drive. I don't know about you, but if the money was right, I wouldn't hesitate to push a 90+ minute daily commute, assuming I wouldn't just up stakes and move to someplace closer - i like my commute to be 10 minutes or less, and have moved across town, even to another state for exactly that reason.

      In other words, don't show off your lack of culture. The world is more than just this hemisphere, and if you pay attention, national boundaries are becoming less important to everyone except the politicians. Welcome to the global community."

      Well, when I answer, I am generally doing so with a US centric perspective. This is, after all, a US centric site.

      That being said...with the installation of the EU, I think of the EU more and more, as an analog of the US. Each of those little countries is analgous more and more these days, to a state in the US...so, I don't think as much in terms of people hopping around the EU as going really from country to country, but, more like how people in the US move from state to state.

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    129. Re:I don't get it by lwsimon · · Score: 1

      By definition, a constitutional amendment is indeed legal.

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    130. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow, how discriminatory can we get? Like it or not, the gay people are not being oppressed. They can have sex with each other, they can raise kids if they want, and in many states they receive the same benefits as married couples. The fight here is for the name "marriage". Marriage was historically a Jewish and then Catholic tradition that represented the union between husband and wife. It has predated the United States by thousands of years. Now when the United States declared independence, it's population wasn't very big. With the Louisianan purchase, we had vast amounts of land with very few people. This is why the government decided to recognize marriage and give benefits to married couples: it wanted to populate the land. Now the gay people want to change the meaning of marriage and extend it to themselves. That's why people support proposition eight. Not because their prejudice. But because they want to preserve the historical religious meaning of the word "marriage". The same sort of fight would be going on if the Government decided to use the name "Allah" instead of "President".

    131. Re:I don't get it by GayBliss · · Score: 1

      I mean, gays are such a minority out there, is whether they can marry such a big deal with respect to employment? Won't they, like anyone else...go to where the jobs are? It isn't like they can marry everywhere else in the US, and will leave CA in droves.

      But if the state had gay marriage, it would be an added incentive to want to move there for gay people, so it's not so much that they are disadvantaged with respect to the rest of the country, but they could have a substantial advantage if they allowed it. It would definitely be a big plus for me.

      I moved to another country (Spain) for gay marriage. Not because I wanted to get married, but because I like living in a country that doesn't allow bigotry to rule.

    132. Re:I don't get it by Ricomyer · · Score: 1

      Billions? Name one major religion which thinks gay marriage is a good thing. Before the sexual revolution virutally all theists thought gay marriage was a crazy idea. The Google corp's official stance seems to be to fight against religion, at least in this way. But basically it just ticks me off when I find out money I helped a company make has been given to hurt society.

    133. Re:I don't get it by jellomizer · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Laws *dont* exist to serve corperate interest
      What are corporations...
      A bunch of people working.
      I haven't seen a corporation that had 0 human influence, and all the money never went to a human.
      People get money in the end and they spend it to other people.

      You can't put a dollar bill on an alter and expect the earth to magically give you a bottle of soda pop, and absorbed the dollar into the earth. That dollar that you put in a vending machine pays for a person to build vending machines, repair the vending machine, the people who makes the bottles, the people to makes the soda, the people who collect/mine the raw material to make everything.

      Our current problem with the economy is the people who have the money do not want to spend it as they expect they will not get a fare return for what they spend so they sit on it. As well as some people made so much money that they would rather have it sit then moving as they already have enough for their needs, and the amount that they make takes away from people who would spend it faster.

      Corporations are people and laws are for the people.

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    134. Re:I don't get it by CaptCovert · · Score: 1

      Considering all of the lawsuits we see these days over larger inheritances, the concept of an 'ironclad will' seems a bit out of touch, doesn't it?

    135. Re:I don't get it by pizzach · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Personally? I don't think any breaks should be given to anyone just for being married or having kids. It makes those that are not...effectively subsidizing the behavior of those that do.

      I think the tax breaks were originally written when the females didn't usually work, so there was less family income to support everyone. I think it is also supposed to be a cultural incentive for people to get married and build the "ideal" American family. *shug*

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    136. Re:I don't get it by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Sorry if I wasn't clear; what I meant was not about homosexuality, but the idea that the recession will be over soon (as in a few years).

    137. Re:I don't get it by Just+Some+Guy · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Nor can you forget the subset of people who would not feel comfortable moving to a state/country that permits same-sex marriage.

      Damn skippy you can. Forty years ago it was illegal in many places for a black to marry a white. We threw that out because it was just plain wrong. I'm sure that pissed off a lot of people, but that was their problem. In forty years, we'll marvel that we still kept laws barring gays from doing the same.

      I'm a straight white Christian conservative, but John and Bob getting married isn't going to un-marry me from my wife. If one man loves another how I love my wife, I can't think of any reason why I should be allowed to keep them apart.

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    138. Re:I don't get it by mrchaotica · · Score: 1

      Look, I was just explaining the blurb-writer's reasoning to stoolpigeon. If you have a problem with that reasoning, don't take it out on me!

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    139. Re:I don't get it by mcgrew · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I think that your straight-faced belief in fairy tales might have something to do with Google not wanting to hire you.

      I think if 1) you find a single religious person working at google your hypothesis is shredded and 2) I've never seen an amployment app that asked about religion (of course, I've never applied for a job at a church, temple, or synagogue either).

      I know, especially the good human families with one man and four women at once.

      I think that's actually a reason many oppose prop 8. If the definition of marriage is changed from "a man and a woman" to "two people", that makes it easier to change to "a man and three women" or "three people" or "a man and his horny goat".

      IMO government should stay out of the marriage business period.

    140. Re:I don't get it by TooMuchToDo · · Score: 1

      Typically, the law is written by those with enough "donations" or "campaign contributions". In this case, I don't feel so bad about a tech juggernaut trying to change the law.

    141. Re:I don't get it by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      I'm sure if it was possible at the time, he would have sued because that has a much broader effect than just using your personal wealth to help a handful of people. Unfortunately, at that time, that would have earned him a one-way trip to a prison camp. These days, as bad as our government is, it's not THAT bad, and suing frequently is an effective way of changing government policy.

    142. Re:I don't get it by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      Yeah, instead they'll move to one of all those other states where the voters have approved gay marriage. Oh wait...

      I used to work for a network security company. Google hired away about five people from that company. The company is based out of Massachusetts. One person just left the same company. He is gay. He took a job with another company that would let him move to Massachusetts (from Michigan). You don't think Google has a vested interest in getting unconstitutional laws overturned so they are not at a disadvantage when trying to recruit people like my former co-worker?

    143. Re:I don't get it by mrchaotica · · Score: 1

      It's not my logic, it's theodp's. I was just explaining what he wrote. If you have a problem with it, take it up with him!

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    144. Re:I don't get it by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1

      So, exactly how many places are there that recognize "marriages" between two people of the same sex?

      Right now, I think that there are a few European countries, Canada, and the States of Massachusetts and New Jersey. Several other states have lawsuits on the way.

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    145. Re:I don't get it by msuarezalvarez · · Score: 1

      It hasn't been legal in most societies throughout thousands of years of history

      You should really read some history, you know...

    146. Re:I don't get it by netcrusher88 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      We don't subsidize kids to encourage having kids, you idiot. We subsidize kids because kids are expensive, and it's beneficial to society at large that the kids grow up educated (guess what? people without kids subsidize public schools too) and well taken care of rather than illiterate and malnourished.

      We subsidize marriage (and make it somewhat difficult to dissolve) because it is (in theory) a stable relationship, and stable relationships are good for society as a whole, just ask a sociologist. It is particularly good for children to have parents who are in a stable relationship (just ask any kid whose parents are divorced), and encouraging marriage is the easiest way to ensure that.

      By the way, (just at the general audience) this isn't a valid argument against gay marriage. Gays can adopt, and many do - it's still beneficial for adopted kids to be in a stable family, regardless of the gender of their adopted parents.

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    147. Re:I don't get it by compro01 · · Score: 1

      I'm vehemently opposed to most any national legislation. One of the things that make the US great, is the (slipping) states rights element of our country. If you don't like how things are in your state...move to one that is more like you!! We're a diverse nation, and different areas have different feelings, needs and beliefs.

      Thing being, if one state makes law allowing this, it become a de facto national law, due to the full faith and credit clause. Just take a vacation to whatever state allows it, then come back, and they have to respect that state's marriage.*

      *I'm ignoring the defense of marriage act, being as I'm quite sure that it will be tossed out whenever someone fights it in court.

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    148. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, exactly how many places are there that recognize "marriages" between two people of the same sex?

      In Britain we call them civil partnerships. They have exactly the same legal benefits and protections as marriage.

      The only difference is the label, chosen not to upset the religious folk.

    149. Re:I don't get it by blueskies · · Score: 1

      Work for Google somewhere else, then.

      somewhat an argument from lack of imagination.

      I can't think of any other way to solve this problem so just live with it and do {overly burdensome alternative}.

    150. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While I disagree that Iran would be the best choice, I agree with the sentiment. Please provide a link for my PayPal donation to help send this type of person off-planet at the earliest available opportunity...

    151. Re:I don't get it by ifdef · · Score: 1

      Not sure what you mean here. Blacks already have the right to marry one another. In fact, it's usually not considered to be a "special" right at all.

    152. Re:I don't get it by msuarezalvarez · · Score: 1

      So those rights should also be not given to heterosexual couples which cannot produce offspring?

    153. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "A couple is a couple, regardless of colour, religion, nationality or sex."

      Well, with the arguments about the civil matters....why stop at a couple?

      What about people forming communes? Why limit the number of partners to 2?

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    154. Re:I don't get it by TooMuchToDo · · Score: 1

      Marriage creates a 'default' set of conditions for inheritance it does *not* supersede a will

      In the broader context, I think same-sex couples are entitled to the same "default" set of conditions that heterosexual couples are offered. Hopefully, as older, more conservative individuals die off (being replaced by a moderate middle-aged population and a more tolerant youth population), same-sex marriages will be recognized without an issue.

      And please spare me the religious bent. I don't need to hear about how some sky wizard says "This is right, this is wrong" and the populace of Earth needs to obey.

    155. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "you can't kid yourself in thinking they are anything but a minority, and a fairly small one at that with regards to humans in general."

      Actually, it is a statistical fact that 8-10% of humans identify as LGBT. Sure , 1 in 10 is a minority, yet wasn't there a time when 1 in 10 people in the US were Irish? Could you then say that the abuses of the 19th century against Irish immigrant workers was OK? Nowadays, people look down on abuses in the past that seemed OK at the time.

      I feel like in twenty or fifty or one hundred years people will be looking down on our behavior and saying, "Wow, they denied this right to 10% of their population in 2009." How about we take a lesson from history, and

      GIVE RESPECT TO EVERYONE.

      oh and this should not be a slashdot topic. Very little technical news here.

    156. Re:I don't get it by blueskies · · Score: 1

      I'm guessing you are from one of the flyover states and never thought about how taxes are done when you deal with domestic partner situations?

      This is just a cooperation pushing its personal politics and just because many agree with it does not make that any more acceptable.

      Yeah, if corporations keep pushing "personal" politics, they might some day try to get Congress to give them tax breaks, limited monopolies, and/or other special benefits. Google is setting a terrible and self-serving precedent here1!!!!

    157. Re:I don't get it by TooMuchToDo · · Score: 1

      Epic fail dude. Next Google won't hire me because I don't believe in Santa Claus.

    158. Re:I don't get it by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      What's wrong with simply outlawing discrimination on the basis of marital status? Why should married people get tax breaks or any other perks?

    159. Re:I don't get it by pdabbadabba · · Score: 2, Insightful

      What are these "special rights" you speak of?

    160. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "Thing being, if one state makes law allowing this, it become a de facto national law, due to the full faith and credit clause. Just take a vacation to whatever state allows it, then come back, and they have to respect that state's marriage.*

      I don't think that's working out on this issues. MA has legalized homosexual marriages, yet no other states are having to recognize them, in fact, many are doing like CA and passing amendments and laws to specifically ban them. So a homosexual 'married' couple from MA, moves to CA now...are they still married in the eyes of the law? Nope....

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    161. Re:I don't get it by Ethanol-fueled · · Score: 0, Troll

      I don't hate anybody.

      I do dislike those who wish to deny others equal rights on the basis of their belief in fairy tales. I am not against a man being allowed to have four wives so long as a woman may have four husbands(or four wives, for that matter). The concept of male and female isn't as black-and-white as we'd like that to be, and if we perceive ourselves to be "above" the other animals then we should be more tolerant about naturally-occuring diversity.

      Getting back on track, I believe it is appropriate to discriminate in certain cases. 99.9999999 people who voted for prop 8 did so for religious reasons. A medical doctor who shuns evolution could make the mistake of haphazardly spawning drug resistant bacteria through careless administration of medicine. I'd be more than happy to hire a person believes in a god which is an allegorical projection of their hopes and dreams as opposed to a vengeful god who shat out the earth in 7 days or whatever.

    162. Re:I don't get it by bdenton42 · · Score: 1

      So, if that's the case...why do we keep the break? It certainly isn't an incentive to have kids. And yet, it DOES still have the effect of those who have none, or less kids....are subsidizing those that do have more kids. That just doens't seem fair to me.

      It's a giant ponzi scheme. People without kids do not contribute as much to the future tax base.

    163. Re:I don't get it by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1

      Visitation rights: before I was married to my wife I was not only granted visitation I was her medical proxy! Marriage is not required for that

      Yes, only a legal document that needs to be drawn up, if you happen to be of the same sex. Separate and unequal. And, if you don't have that piece of paper, there is not a judge in the land that will side with you if his/her family goes to court to have their choice codified.

      Inheritance: Do you need to be married to write a will?

      The point is, if you're "married", you don't need to.

      Do you think making same-sex couples jump through unnecessary hoops to gain the "same" rights as opposite-sex couples is a good thing? Or are you just using a wall of "it's possible to erect a complicated legal framework that approximates marriage" to hide your bigotry?

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    164. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      Sure they can. They just call it something like 'declare a benefits partner'. This could be generic enough for ALL couples, straight or homosexual.

      Franky I say that is discriminatory. Why stop at only allowing ONE partner? How about a group of roomates?

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    165. Re:I don't get it by blueskies · · Score: 1

      That way it's easy to avoid temptation which might weaken your marriage. Just think how strong your marriage would be in Iran!

    166. Re:I don't get it by novakyu · · Score: 1

      Countries on every continent except, IIRC, Australia and South America, and two US states (Massachussetts and Connecticut), and ISTR seeing New York recently adopt a policy of recognizing out-of-state marriages of that type though it doesn't perform them.

      Countries on every continent? Do you have a source for that?

      Somehow, I doubt Arab countries or even some Asian countries (none of which you listed as exception) would be receptive to gay couples. People who come out in those countries risk ostracism at best and their lives at worst. I seriously doubt recognition of their "marriage" in those places would come before tolerance of their life style.

    167. Re:I don't get it by FireStormZ · · Score: 1

      Where did I say anything about religion? someone said you have to be married to visit at a catholic hospital and I pointed out my then gf had me as her proxy at a catholic hospital.

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    168. Re:I don't get it by causality · · Score: 1

      What has struck me as ironic is Christians citing monogamous heterosexual marriage as something ordained by God, when the monogamous part of it was in fact pressed upon the Hebrews and other subjected people of the Roman Empire.

      Marriage was first and foremost about kinship ties and property rights in most civilizations, not about procreation.

      Not to mention that back then, in that culture, most marriages were arranged by the parents.

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    169. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >but it just laid off a bunch of people so it's not doing any hiring anyway right now.

      there, fixed that for you...

    170. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      he could go to France too.

    171. Re:I don't get it by WCguru42 · · Score: 1

      I'm sure people said the same thing when interracial marriage was a hot topic. Are you against that too? It's against many religions' teachings.

      Serious question, Is that true? I've never heard of that but I'm not claiming to be well informed in the various religions of the world.

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    172. Re:I don't get it by Score+Whore · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I'd be really interested in seeing an analysis of your "most gays are usually quite well educated" (I'm ignoring the weasel worsd of "most" and "usually", either you have a point or you don't.) My guess is that you probably don't hang out with a lot of poorly educated individuals across all walks of American life. If you did, I suspect that you'd find that gays or no better educated than any other group.

      On a different topic, I'm curious as to why Google would think that Prop 8 would prevent them from offering any benefits they desired? All it does is define what a marriage is. If Google wants to offer insurance benefits that include gay partners, well they can do so.

    173. Re:I don't get it by Sique · · Score: 1

      For most of the time the Romans were correct. Their Empire was about to fall and rose again and again by reinventing itself. And even the end of the West Roman part of the Empire wasn't the end of it all, the Eastern part was alive and kicking for another millenium.

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    174. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And many of us not so normal folks would rather that "normal folks" were not so often ignorant bigots.

    175. Re:I don't get it by jythie · · Score: 5, Informative

      Apparently CA has two different types of amendment procedures with one having a MUCH lower barrier to pass.
       
      One is simple referendum (and thus just needs 50% of the vote) while the other is a more involved process that requires legislative support.
       
      The court case is going over which type of amendment prop-8 was and thus was the method used to pass it valid.

    176. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's also a subset of people who would not feel comfortable moving to a state which heavily infringes on their 2nd Amendment rights but I don't see Google trying to fix that.

    177. Re:I don't get it by jythie · · Score: 1

      Considering it was not all that long ago that there was serious national debate concerning if blacks should be allowed to marry non-blacks,....

    178. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, it is not a statistical fact. The 10% figure was taken from the California penal system where everyone who had homosexual contact, voluntary OR NOT, was counted. Every other sample places the percentage at around 3-5% for those who prefer the company of the same sex.

    179. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      By the way, (just at the general audience) this isn't a valid argument against gay marriage. Gays can adopt, and many do - it's still beneficial for adopted kids to be in a stable family, regardless of the gender of their adopted parents.

      Citation?

    180. Re:I don't get it by TooMuchToDo · · Score: 1

      I assumed you were identifying the hospital as a religious organization to somehow justify your opinion. If that's not the case, my mistake.

    181. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 1

      exactly, why stop at 2? custom? religion? I would love to see people realize that love doesn't get weaker when shared, it gets stronger.

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    182. Re:I don't get it by Xtravar · · Score: 1

      Well, in a country where churches get to make the laws, corporations should get to repeal them. Sounds like its only fair.

      I'm no fan of this proposition 8, nor do I live in California, but it seems like the anti-gay-marriage crowd won fair and square. A church didn't dictate the law, the people did.

      IMO it's not really Google's place to bring forth this lawsuit. It'll be interesting to watch, but I think it's bad policy to start rooting for the corporate overturn of democratic laws.

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    183. Re:I don't get it by PachmanP · · Score: 2, Funny

      "Hon, I'd like to have another kid...think we should? I dunno hon, but, before you take that rubber off, lets go downstairs and consult our 1040 instructional form, and see what the tax benefits are? What?? We can get how much for procreating tonight?? Rip off that rubber lover, and put that thing in me!!"

      I am soooo hot right now! Is she wearing horn rimmed glasses? OMG...

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    184. Re:I don't get it by jythie · · Score: 2, Informative

      Actually there WAS legislation that used to allow this case, specifically states were required to respect each other's marriage laws.. so once one state allowed gay marriage if you got married there and moved your marriage would still be valid in your new home. Even reverting the law to before the Federal Defense of Marriage Act would do the trick.

    185. Re:I don't get it by mcgrew · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Damn straight. I'm a hetero who can't find a suitable woman to marry, how is that different from a gay not being able to find a suitable woman to marry?

      I can see tax breaks for people with children, but NOT for marital status. If I were married I'd have someone with another income to help me with my bills. Married people should be paying higher taxes, not lower.

      Actually I don't believe marriage should enter into taxation at all, nor should it enter into any of the other things that gays (perhaps rightfully, perhaps not) complain about. Except perhaps they should pass a law outlawing discrimination on the basis of marital status.

      Single people are discriminated against regardless of sexual orientation.

    186. Re:I don't get it by Tauvix · · Score: 2, Informative

      I'm not sure how you can say "such a minority out there" as San Fransisco and LA are the 2nd and 3rd largest population of homosexuals in the country, and CA may actually have the largest overall population in total.

      Overall, current estimates of the population that identify in some way as gay (Gay, Lesbian, Bi, Transgendered, etc) range up to 5%, that number actually increases if you ask people if they have felt attraction to a member of the same gender (link). According to demographics, black or hispanic people account for 13% and 14% of the population respectively (link), yet if this were a law revoking the right of black people to marry, there would be a revolt. Yet, that was what was just done to gay people in CA.

    187. Re:I don't get it by lwsimon · · Score: 1

      Then they're challenging the process, not the content of the law. It doesn't matter who it is going to affect, except with that very narrow question.

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    188. Re:I don't get it by WCguru42 · · Score: 1

      Nonetheless, I think if Google have a problem with God, it's only with your God. My God would rather I leave the judging of others up to him/her while I stick to loving my neigbour.

      Good call. From my perspective as a Catholic all this ballyhoo about gay marriage and other attacks on people who aren't "good enough" is a joke. As far as Christianity goes, the most important law is to love one another. It's not attack the gays or attack people you think are more sinful than you. It's love one another, short and sweet. All this harkening back to an old book of laws should not be relevant to the most recent and important commandment of loving one another.

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    189. Re:I don't get it by AndersOSU · · Score: 2, Informative

      Under the law, the federal defense of marriage act, they're not considered married if they move out of MA.

      Under the constitution, specifically the full faith and credit clause, they should be.

      The issue as to whether a gay couple married in MA is married in other states is unresolved until someone decides to sue a state that doesn't recognize their marriage.

    190. Re:I don't get it by jythie · · Score: 1

      This is specifically due to the Defense of Marriage act with exempted gay marriage from the requirements of inter-state marriage laws.
       
      Any other type of marriage (such as age, family relationship, etc), states are required to respect eachother's laws.

    191. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Incorrect. It is NOT a statistical fact that 8-10% of humans identify as LGBT. It is more like 3%. (http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070514213700AAL4Jhk) And give me that Kinsey Report line of crap.

    192. Re:I don't get it by WillyDavidK · · Score: 1

      you completely misunderstood his post. He was talking about the recession, and saying that the Roman's may have said the same thing just before the Dark Ages that we are now about our recession.

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    193. Re:I don't get it by wealthychef · · Score: 1
      The court case is going over which type of amendment prop-8 was and thus was the method used to pass it valid.

      Then why is google's argument that it harms their ability to hire people being offered? What has that got to do with the method used to pass the amendment?

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    194. Re:I don't get it by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      I'm not saying you shouldn't try to get Prop 8 overturned if you think it's a bad law. I'm just saying I don't buy the argument that it negatively affects Google.

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    195. Re:I don't get it by plurgid · · Score: 1

      Homeboy, WE SHOULD subsidize marriage (gay OR straight), because it is primarily an institution designed to enable a stable environment for raising children.

      Children who will become the doctor that cures your cancer when you're in your 60's, mister eternal bachelor.

      There is a LOT of social value in raising and providing for the next generation. After all, someone did it for you.

    196. Re:I don't get it by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      For most of the time the Romans were correct. Their Empire was about to fall and rose again and again by reinventing itself.

      Just like how the US economy has reinvented itself a few times, first with an internet bubble, then with a housing bubble? What if we can't come up with another bubble this time?

      And even the end of the West Roman part of the Empire wasn't the end of it all, the Eastern part was alive and kicking for another millenium.

      I'm sure the people on the Western side were really comforted by this fact while Rome was getting sacked by invaders. Maybe we'll get lucky and part of the US will secede, and do OK economically while the rest crashes and burns.

      I'm not trying to argue with you, just pointing out the flip side.

    197. Re:I don't get it by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Wait, nobody told you? "Equal but different" can never work!

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    198. Re:I don't get it by Phroggy · · Score: 1

      It hasn't been legal in most societies throughout thousands of years of history

      You should really read some history, you know...

      I'm certainly not suggesting that there hasn't been homosexuality, or that same-sex marriage has never been legal anywhere. Wikipedia acknowledges that same-sex unions have existed throughout history, although "it should be noted these relationships were generally substantially different from traditional marriage."

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    199. Re:I don't get it by Teun · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So, should be give them special rights above others?

      No, the state (you) should stop taking their rights like an equal opportunity to get married.

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    200. Re:I don't get it by sfcat · · Score: 1

      But they are the 3rd largest minority. There are about 2 1/2 times as many gays in the US as Asians. And about the same number of gays as African-Americans. How would it look if someone tried to pass a law that said Asians or African-Americans couldn't get married? City hall would be in flames in minutes if anyone tried that. Like it or not, gays are not a small minority.

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    201. Re:I don't get it by Chris+Burke · · Score: 1

      Did Schindler sue the government or just use his personal wealth to help people?

      If Schindler had thought petitioning the government would have been a good way to get positive change, instead of a good way to get arrested and have all his employees shipped off to the camps, then he probably would have done both. :P

      Since this isn't Nazi Germany, why settle for the lesser good of helping a small number of people in secret, when they can try to improve things for everyone in the state?

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    202. Re:I don't get it by jythie · · Score: 1

      It applies because the simple procedure is generally reserved for low impact amendments and clarifications.
       
          Google's claim is that such a change has significant effects beyond a clarification and thus should require the full process.

    203. Re:I don't get it by jythie · · Score: 1

      The choice of process is partly based on how much effect it has, or more specifically the content and it's effects determines which process to use.

    204. Re:I don't get it by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      Shouldn't they be trying to hire the best technical people out there.....regardless of their sexual persuasion, race or sex?? Why would they want to attract someone 'because' of their sexual persuasion? Seems that would be discriminatory against non-homosexual types???

      If the best technical person happens to be gay, then Google is at a disadvantage compared to a company based in MA.

    205. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bump, I strongly agree...

    206. Re:I don't get it by mr_matticus · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      While homosexuals are a very vocal minority out there...you can't kid yourself in thinking they are anything but a minority, and a fairly small one at that with regards to humans in general.

      At 10-13% of US society, they are a bigger minority than the African-American population, all Asian minorities, Native Americans, and just about any other ethnic minority in this country.

      The only one that is larger is the Hispanic and Latino block, which taken together, is 15%.

      What exactly do you consider to be anything but a "fairly small" minority? There are more gays than Catholics. This is a single, blatant, discriminatory issue with a simple fix. Google doesn't actually care about their hiring. This is a social issue in which anyone with the means and desire will participate--and 51% majority or not, you don't get to deny others rights because you find them personally uncomfortable. It really is that simple, and it doesn't matter how many propositions or court cases it takes. The answer is clear.

    207. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Those people are MOSTLY religious, not necessarily fundamentalists. There is a big difference there. Take the Mormons and Catholics (since they got a lot of the flack over this), The Mormon affiliated BYU is fairly well regarded school, as are BC, Notre Dame, and a number of other Catholic universities.

      Realistically, what in the computer tech world conflicts with religion? I realize cosmologists and biotech ethics disagreements are there. I can also see issues on video game plot ideas, but in the computer hardware/software world, I don't see how one's faith (or lack thereof) should make a difference.

    208. Re:I don't get it by Heather+D · · Score: 1

      The more I hear about this sort of drivel the more I am inclined to agree. I supported the intent of gay rights for many years and I still do but removing govt. from the marriage institution altogether makes so much more sense. As long as this remains the law in so many areas it is difficult to take the concept of freedom of religion seriously. The US may not have an official state religion but it certainly does have a de-facto one.

      That said a certain amount of subsidization of families does not pose a problem to me. More practically, Govt. will probably always support this sort of thing especially in nations where population growth is nearly negative. I have no problem with civil unions, even those that contain such 'pro-child' language, but we should leave marriage to the religions and other private groups that want them.

    209. Re:I don't get it by znerk · · Score: 1

      The problem here would be that by causing such an uproar over "preserving" the "sanctity" of marriage, all that has occurred is that the concept of "marriage" has been demeaned by the very people claiming to want to protect it. If nowhere else (yet), it is now seen in my household as nothing more than a means to an end; it's a tax dodge and a deduction on the insurance premiums.

      We have "civil unions" that supposedly do roughly the same thing, in a legal sense... in some places, with differing implementations, and only in certain circumstances... "Here, just make sure to wear your yellow star at all times, keeping it visible from all directions, ok? We'll round all of you up and shoot you later, but for now, you just run along and play nice, and we'll all pretend you're not a loathsome and disgusting second-class citizen."

      Face it, marriage as an institution is already dead. We need to just get over it, decide that any group of two or more consenting adults can incorporate and/or contract to share living space/living expenses/a bed, and be done with it. What is marriage, at its essence? Is it not simply two adults incorporating (becoming a single legal entity)? Oh, my, yes... Do explain to me how your deity gives a whoop-tee-do about our legal system, and how that should matter to me (who doesn't believe in your worship object anyway). Am I supposed to believe that there's an actual, justifiable reason that the legal and financial benefits accruing to bi-gendered contracted couples shouldn't apply to any other groupings who adhere to the same life choices (share living space, share expenses, love and cherish one another) just because their "equipment" may not match someone's ideals? Oh, and please do whip out the procreation argument, I'd love to throw the baby-factory welfare mentality back into your face. Personally, I don't see any issues at all with same-sex marriage, plural marriage, or even the old-fashioned marriage of one man and one woman - they should all receive the same treatment on the insurance paperwork and tax filings. Some people's prejudices about adoption suitability aside, what's the difference? Let people become a single legal entity with whomever they want to, and get your paperwork out of my bedroom. What I do with my life, right up to the point where it interferes with someone else's life, is my own business.

      Sorry for ranting, but I just have to share my outrage at the people who are "defending the sanctity of marriage" by keeping people from getting married. This makes almost as much sense as a screen door on a submarine, and is almost as useful as an ejection seat in a helicopter. When religious doctrine becomes a legal issue, things just get stupid.

      As I have said before, "welcome to the global community". Hopefully, we can pull our collective heads out of our asses and start thinking about the issues that are actually important.

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    210. Re:I don't get it by Tenek · · Score: 1
      You could have said the same thing about overturning slavery in the 1800's. Also historical, also supported by social conservatives, also doomed to eventual failure. The people who oppose gay marriage are dying off and being replaced by the more open-minded. Apparently a small majority of Californians prefer to be dragged kicking and screaming into the 21st century.

      That said, I highly doubt Google has a leg to stand on... if it gets overturned it'll be because it was ruled a revision, not because it was harmful to the economy.

    211. Re:I don't get it by DrgnDancer · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Well, we're talking about a law here, that will effect everyone out there, NOT just the people in higher level jobs, so we are indeed talking about CA and even larger, America in general.

      Google's challenge to that law is based upon their desire to hire highly educated elites, therefore the GP's point is valid. Whether his point is true or not may be arguable, but if we accept that gays are not in the minority, or are a larger and significantly more important minority among the highly educated elite, then the GP's right. The law may apply equally, but Google's interest is only in how it applies to people they want to hire.

      Now whether Gays are less of a minority among educated elites is a question that I can't answer. I also don't know whether Google has any standing to bring a lawsuit based on their hope to be a more desirable employer to potential gay employees. Personally I'm completely confused by the whole issue. Why would we NOT allow gay people to marry. It's a legal contract that allows two people to bond themselves for certain legal purposes, why can't any two (or for that matter, more than two) people enter into it? Religions are of course free to define their own marriage definitions for the purpose of performing the ceremony, but as a legal institution who cares? As a Pagan I know plenty of couples (gay and straight) that we religiously consider "married" who are not legally married, and I think we all know couples (all straight except in Mass, or Cali) who are legally married but have never been inside a church or other religious ceremony to confirm it.

      Why should anyone except the people getting married, and in a religious context the person performing the marriage, care what sex the participants are?

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    212. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I like that your argument relies on the notion that it'd be wrong to sue Nazi Germany for their discrimination - it's amusing in its prima facie stupidity. It's not nearly as amusing that your various bigoted posts are modded to +3.

    213. Re:I don't get it by mr_matticus · · Score: 1

      Minor correction: more LGBT than than everyone but Catholics and Baptists. I added the percentages incorrectly. There are more "out" homosexuals (not including bisexuals) than Episcopalians and Presbyterians combined.

    214. Re:I don't get it by Sique · · Score: 1

      Yes, because traditional marriage was about inheritance of the family wealth. With no offspring, there was no reason to ponder about inheritance.

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    215. Re:I don't get it by DougF · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Thing being, if one state makes law allowing this, it become a de facto national law, due to the full faith and credit clause.

      I disagree. Many states have laws and regulations that are not respected in other states, including the regulation of various practices, such a medicine, for example. Just because a Nurse Practicioner is legally allowed to dispense Category III narcotics in one state does NOT give him/her the right to dispense in another state. In some states, Nurse Practitioners can establish their own clinics and operate independently, but they cannot take their license and operate independently in the state of Georgia where Nurse Practitioners must, by law, be attached to a doctor's certificate to practice. (My wife is a Nurse Practitioner who just spent 5 years working to get Georgia to allow NPs to dispense medicine under their own license.)

      Marriage is not a right, it's a privilege extended by the state to certain qualified individuals. As such, it is regulated and constrained by the state. There are legal age, competency, and exclusion restrictions (e.g. you can't marry someone under age 16, you can't marry someone who is insane, and/or you can't marry your sibling) that are well within the government's purview to impose on the general population.

      The question in California is: Can the people impose upon the general population a restriction if a majority believe that restriction is a benefit to the population as a whole? The answer is always yes, they can. That's the whole point of having a democracy. As of now, the majority of Californians believe that heterosexual marriage is a benefit for society, and that homosexual marriage is NOT a benefit to society. So, if the majority of people living in California wish to change their constitution so as to constrain qualifications for a marriage license to heterosexual individuals, it's their right to do so. Until homosexuals can prove to the satisfaction of the majority of the people that homosexual marriage is a benefit for society, it's unlikely to change. And one sure way to entrench the mindset of the people proposing the change, is to attack their institutions of worship, as some radical factions have done.

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    216. Re:I don't get it by PPalmgren · · Score: 1

      A logical and often-stated reason for the tax breaks for hetero couples and children is that they are contributing to the future of the species. One of the arguments against same-sex civil unions is that they do not contribute to the future of the species/nation because they can't produce children. There's a lot of if's and but's to this line, like adoption, but its a hotly debated issue that doesn't really have any sound evidence for or against it on either side that doesn't cancel out. Since the beginning of civilization, groups of people have adopted practices that benefit the group rather than the individual in the long term in the form of law or religion. Since it is presently undeterminable if rewarding same-sex marriage is beneifical to the species, the natural reaction is to resist that change. FYI, regarding "subsidizing" families as a single, I'm a single guy and I feel that in the long term, I am the burden on society because I am a net loss, not the families.

    217. Re:I don't get it by feed_me_cereal · · Score: 1

      If you count civil unions, then he can also throw in the two remaining continents (unless you want to also count Antarctica) and several more states.

      South Africa and Nepal were the latest to join, bringing Asia and Africa to the list.

      Here's your source:

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_marriage

      I'll never understand why people don't at least check wikipedia before demanding a source... and yes, the wikipedia article cites its own sources on the particular issues of Africa and Asia.

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    218. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Actually, they cannot.

      Let's play that scenario, Google offering benefits for you and your spouse, or, if you're gay, your permanent partner. Immediately, people who are not married but in a heterosexual relationship would challenge this on grounds of unequal treatment. So Google would have to offer it to everyone who has some sort of partner.

      I guess I'm not the only one who could see how to abuse this system.

      If there is no "official" document that states that someone is your "official" partner, they can't really offer this kind of benefit or they'd be facing a lot of expense when their employees start to abuse this system.

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    219. Re:I don't get it by toadlife · · Score: 1

      You must be from one of these states where education is frowned upon...

      Fixed that for you.

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    220. Re:I don't get it by kwerle · · Score: 1

      In other words, if you live in California, the law is the law. Don't blame Google for it. In fact, if you feel like you're forced to move because of the law, you could probably ask to be transferred to another Google location.

      Yeah! Separate but equal! That's the ticket!

    221. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If they were not a minority, these laws would not be passed and existing ones would be overturned.

      The passing of this law was mostly successful due to a huge ad campaign funded by members of the LDS church which accounts for less than 5% of the population in California.

      When the Minority is loud enough they can get laws passed.

    222. Re:I don't get it by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      there are only a couple states in the union that recognize that...

      At first, there were only a couple states in the union that allowed interracial marriage. Being at the start of something by definition means there's not a lot of it.

      I doubt anyone that wants to live and work in CA is gonna move JUST for that...

      Yet now they don't want to live and work in CA because of that. Google has to offer more $$ to them in order to get over this disincentive. Keep in mind the Boston area has a very large homosexual population, as well a very large number of tech jobs.

    223. Re:I don't get it by znerk · · Score: 1

      Call me old fashioned, but I'm for equal rights... which strangely seems to piss a few women off.

      Signed. It is now practically a requirement to have a two-earner household if you want to be able to afford a family - thus making absolutely sure that a woman's place is *not* in the kitchen - it's out there in the workforce, so the family can afford to have someone else watch the kids.

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    224. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Who's talking about special rights? Actually, if I'm not entirely mistaken, prop 8 revolves around gay marriage. In other words, the right that the non-minority has. Unless there's something that wasn't told yet, all they want is the same right. Not something special on top of that.

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    225. Re:I don't get it by OeLeWaPpErKe · · Score: 5, Insightful

      "tolerance" : an intolerant, and dangerous contradiction

      Can someone please explain to me how there can be tolerance against gays, muslims and mexicans ?

      Mexicans are massively (and I mean massively) against gay marriage. That's a fact, treat it as you will.

      If you are publicly against the massacring of gays in a muslim state, you run yourself the risk of getting killed for it. Worse than that fact in and of itself, is that most moslims support that (and no "only in muslim-majority countries" is no serious objection : that's like saying you only kill when you're sure the other guy ends up dead).

      These tolerance ideas are nice and all, but how do they work ? They are self-inconsistent. Are you tolerant to christianity and islam ? Are you tolerant to their intolerance towards gays ? Are you aware of the different treatment of gays in various cultures (e.g. massacring them islam-style, ignoring and generally having nothing to do with them jesus-style, and let's not start claiming these 2 are the worst, just, for example, look up how imperial japan (the party that's really the only political party in japan is a big fan of imperial days)

      And this is keeping it politely. After all, there are many ideologies, including some truly horrendous monstrosities like islam. How about the variant of protestantism that fought a civil war for slavery ? How about muslim slave trade, an essential part of the islamic religion for over 1400 years ? How about nazi's ? Should you be tolerant to them ?

      And if the answer is "you shouldn't be tolerant to intolerance" ... where do you go with that. It's beyond obvious that large amounts of the muslim world are horribly intolerant, and so are the large majority of it's inhabitants. How do you plan to change their mind (note that most of them would respond violently to any attempt to change their mind), and most of their governments and police forces won't let you try in the first place ...

      So what do you do if you "do not tolerate the intolerant" ? Do you attack muslims in the US ? (Neo-)nazi's in the US ? Elsewhere ? Do you enforce what basically amounts to US law with an army world-wide ?

    226. Re:I don't get it by znerk · · Score: 1

      I don't think as much in terms of people hopping around the EU as going really from country to country, but, more like how people in the US move from state to state.

      My point exactly, except that it's getting to be the case in more places than just the EU. Boundaries are meaning less and less, as people start to figure out that this rock only has so much living space on it.

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    227. Re:I don't get it by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      By definition, a constitutional amendment in California can not be made by a simple 50%+ majority in a proposition. Ergo, prop 8 isn't a constitutional amendment.

    228. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Be reasonable. You didn't sue the Nazi government when you tried to protect your workers. You can (still) do that in the US and actually get away with it...

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    229. Re:I don't get it by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      Anyone who bases their views of political issues such as gay marriage on faith are, by my definition at least, religious fundamentalists, incapable of independent thought. Not being capable of independent thought goes hand in hand with lack of intelligence.

      Really, what do you have against gay marriage? Is it hurting you in some mysterious way? Is "god" going to punish you if you don't stop it? Does it affect your own (eventual) marriage in some way? (if it does, you should probably get a divorce anyways btw)

      BTW, modding down and replying as an ac i see...

    230. Re:I don't get it by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      So Google.California competes with EveryOtherTechCompany.California, who also has to follow Prop 8.

      That's not what the suit's about. It's about their competition with EveryOtherTechCompany.MA.

      They could just move to any one of numerous other locations where Google has offices.

      Thus costing Google more money that someone working locally. They have to move the job & equipment to those other locations. (Imagine a situation where the Cambridge, MA office is full, yet their new hire is going to work there because of prop 8. They now have to rent more office space, while a desk in CA remains empty.)

      Hell, they could telecommute from anywhere in the world if they wanted to.

      See above. Converting an on-site job to telecommuting is not without cost, nor is it even possible with some jobs. Thus costing Google more money

    231. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      I dimly remember that one or two EU coutries (Netherlands? Does anyone know?) actually allow gay marriages, or something named differently (IIRC the RC church has the copyright on the term marriage, or something like that, in some countries around here) to the same effect, and, again IIRC, most EU countries honor the marriages of other member countries.

      So, essentially, you have a place to escape to. It's probably not comfortable to abandon everything and move to another continent, but I can well see how people who really want to be wanted where they live don't care about that. Immigration is much easier in the EU, too, especially if you're highly qualified you're welcomed with open arms.

      Our Pharma and Chem industries are very interested in hiring abroad. And they do.

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    232. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      If the majority of people were married gay, then the human population would go extinct.

      Every time I read something like this, I wonder if that was really such a bad thing...

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    233. Re:I don't get it by DrgnDancer · · Score: 1

      "Great Nation" or "Superpower" power status is indeed cyclical, but it's fairly arguable as to whether the US has reached the end of its cycle yet. Most historical "superpowers" have held onto their status for a century or two at the least. The US has only held the status about 50 years. It's possible that the US will have an especially short run, or that the cycle is speeding up due to globalism and the increasing interconnection of the world; but it's equally possible that the US has another 50 years at least left in her shadow over international politics.

      Even if have reached the "end of our rope" metaphorically it's hardly the end of the world. Rome was buried after her Fall, but no major power since then has been. Of the "Great Nations" of the last 5-6 hundred years England, France, and Germany are all still first world countries with strong economies and significant influence in the world; and Spain and the Netherlands (the two earliest of the "Modern Great Nations") remain first world countries with slightly less international influence. None of them is a "poor" country, all of them remain plenty strong enough to keep themselves protected and their economies going strong. I think claims of the US being destroyed in some "Sacking of Rome" like complete dissolution are pretty far fetched. In 20 years the US may or may not wield the kind of power it does now, but it is highly unlikely to be some kind of third world backwater or overrun by "Barbarians".

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    234. Re:I don't get it by ljgshkg · · Score: 1

      See, the real point about having benefit and tax breaks for family is because they "generate new local population" (or at least, governments hope to increase such chance). Otherwise, they won't be getting that kinda tax break or benefits, nor does it really make sense to have it.

      Putting the definition of marrage aside, same sex union shouldn't be getting the kind of tax breaks or benefits that you're talking about. Yea, if they adopt a child, may be they can get some child benefit, but then those funding serves a different purpose than "family" benefits. It's not about "human right" or if those are marrage or not. It's about why those benefits are imposed in the first place. You don't serve the purpose, you shouldn't get the benefit.

    235. Re:I don't get it by Moofie · · Score: 1

      Hold on.

      You're telling me that the software business has more than 50% gays? That's simply delusional.

      I think Google is right on point on this issue, but your argument is just silly.

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    236. Re:I don't get it by Homr+Zodyssey · · Score: 1

      Would someone please explain to me what this "tax break" is that everyone keeps talking about? Is this a california thing? I'm married and I don't get any kind of tax break.

      Now, until 2001, there was a Marriage Tax Penalty, and some legislation has been passed that tries to mitigate it. This does make it possible for a married couple of disparate incomes to pay less taxes than if they filed seperately. But most of you are complaining about situations where two people make comparable incomes.

      The gay marriage debate is not about tax-breaks. Its about well-defined rights to decision making in emergencies, and shared property, and government supported stability.

    237. Re:I don't get it by hInstance · · Score: 1

      I'm vehemently opposed to most any national legislation. One of the things that make the US great, is the (slipping) states rights element of our country. If you don't like how things are in your state...move to one that is more like you!! We're a diverse nation, and different areas have different feelings, needs and beliefs.

      Exactly -- if everybody in your state believes that Catholics shouldn't be allowed to have so many kids, then put it on the ballot! Why should the federal government interfere with the rights of individual states?

      And how is it the business of the feds if residents of the Northwest don't want to share water fountains with Canadian immigrants? Let them go to California if they don't like it! (Of course, it sucks if you're both gay _and_ Canadian...)

    238. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As a supporter of Proposition 8, I would be a lot more interested in moving to a state that does not allow for same-sex marriage.

      Many of us normal folks would be willing to throw in a few bucks for your one-way ticket to Iran.

      And there's your problem right there. This is, at its heart, an issue about people trying to change other's beliefs. Why should he have to move to Iran just because your opinion is different from his?

      You cannot change his viewpoint by attacking him and calling him not "normal." Really, it is you that is not "normal" because if you were in the majority where the rest of the norm is, the issue wouldn't continue to be voted down.

      If you really want to change his mind, you're going to have to work a lot harder than just calling names.

    239. Re:I don't get it by Idiomatick · · Score: 1

      Thats not even remotely true... In america's history after the europeans took over fine. But globaly since civilization started not rly.

    240. Re:I don't get it by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      While I admit I'm having trouble finding good sources, I did find one survey that shows that 89% of GLBT people have at least received some college/university education. This is opposed to a mere 20% of the general population for the same year according to NCES.

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    241. Re:I don't get it by dalerb · · Score: 5, Informative

      The court case is going over which type of amendment prop-8 was and thus was the method used to pass it valid.

      Prop 8 was introduced as an amendment: it added language to the California state constitution. Amendments require only a simple majority vote to pass.

      The other type of constitutional change is a revision: striking language or significantly changing the language in the state constitution. A revision requires a 2/3 majority vote to pass.

      Because the California state constitution already has an equal protection clause (the clause which the California Supreme Court used to declare gay marriage legal), the addition of Prop 8 to the constitution would seem to place it at contradiction with itself.

      What the opponents are arguing is that for Prop 8 to be valid it would have to be a revision: striking the language in the equal protection clause and adding the language that the banners of gay marriage want.

      Convincing 2/3 of Californians to strike the equal protection clause from their constitution is a much more daunting task than getting 50% of them to say, ick, we don't like gay marriage. Ban it please.

    242. Re:I don't get it by bugs2squash · · Score: 2, Funny

      I thought in fairy tales it was one woman and seven men

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    243. Re:I don't get it by CrkHead · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If they were not a minority, these laws would not be passed and existing ones would be overturned

      A founding principle of our republic is minority rights and majority rule. I think that gets overlooked at times.

    244. Re:I don't get it by Homr+Zodyssey · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Who passed a law saying Gays couldn't get married?

      I've always had a problem with this characterization of this debate. Noone has said that a gay man cannot get married. They've simply said he cannot marry another man. I'm straight. I'm not allowed to marry another man either. I don't have any right that the gay man doesn't have

      Don't misunderstand me. The pro-prop 8 people are wrong too. There's no way that two men getting married is going to diminish my marriage in any way.

      What I think people should realize it that this is a gender issue. Men can marry women, but women can't. Therefore, men have a right that women don't have. This is illegal according to Civil Rights Act of 1964!

    245. Re:I don't get it by FearForWings · · Score: 1

      If you actually cared to look into the matter you'd find the 10% figure a general reference to the Kinsey Reports, and not some bs about rape in prisons.

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    246. Re:I don't get it by Surt · · Score: 1

      You don't hire 10,000 superstars. There aren't that many. To imagine that googles hiring process hasn't been figured out by the applicant pool would be foolish. It is very, very hard to keep from hiring nimrods, and the faster you hire the harder it is. Google hired a lot of people very fast, they hired a bunch of nimrods. Like every other company, Google is then faced with the challenge of getting rid of them.

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    247. Re:I don't get it by alienunknown · · Score: 2, Interesting

      you can't kid yourself in thinking they are anything but a minority, and a fairly small one at that with regards to humans in general.

      I don't think that is true. It is just that most people who are gay don't say anything about it. They might be married, or they are worried about losing their family, friends, being kicked out of their Church, being fired or even worried about being physically assaulted and abused.

      I am gay and what amazed me most when I was younger was how many "straight" guys out there that are gay.

      There are so many "straight" guys out there (not sure about women) who are married or have girlfriends and have a lot of anonymous gay sex behind their partners back. I think that it is quite awful for someone to do this, but it happens. It actually happens quite a lot.

      Until being gay is 100% accepted in society I don't think we will ever truly know how many people in society are gay. And not to mention how many people swing both ways. I think people who think that gays are a very small minority are being insular and naive. Hang around the gay community in your area for a while and you will know what I mean :)

    248. Re:I don't get it by Surt · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That's probably not true. They are mostly interested in hiring smart people, which includes many gays but fewer religious bigots. Prop 8 means those gays are going to MA, while the bigots hang around CA. Bummer for CA employers.

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    249. Re:I don't get it by Em+Ellel · · Score: 1

      I'm no fan of this proposition 8, nor do I live in California, but it seems like the anti-gay-marriage crowd won fair and square.

      Not exactly "fair and square". I do live in CA and saw what happened, which was basically this: church dumped a whole lot of money into busing people from outside and going around and lying to people to scare them into voting for it. Nobody actually thought people would be THIS stupid to believe that if prop 8 did not pass, schools would be "REQUIRED TO TEACH GAY SEX IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOLS" or any other such nonsense, but hey, we passed DMCA, we passed Patriot Act, and now we passed Prop 8. With proper application of lies, half-truths, and lack of scruples, people can be scared into anything. And now there are many people going around saying they voted for prop 8 but now that they understand what it is, they would not have. Too late, suckers.

      A church didn't dictate the law, the people did.

      IMO it's not really Google's place to bring forth this lawsuit. It'll be interesting to watch, but I think it's bad policy to start rooting for the corporate overturn of democratic laws.

      Several churches and religious organizations were suing CA government over gay marriage in 2008 when the court ruled that gay marriage ban was discrimination. Why should churches get the right to sue and other businesses like Google not get the same rights (what are they, gay?!)

      Personally I think it IS a good policy to let ANYONE bring up objection to injustices they see - be they valid or not - and the the proper court of law sort it out - thats why we have courts. Maybe if some people stood up against injustice in Germany in the 30's, world would have been a much different place...

      -Em

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    250. Re:I don't get it by fugue · · Score: 1

      10% is a minority. 50% is almost a majority, you incompetent moron.

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    251. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, if Prop. 8 is overturned gays would also get free free movie admission every Tuesday as well...it's all part of our 'secret agenda'

    252. Re:I don't get it by Score+Whore · · Score: 1

      California has civil unions, so your argument is flawed.

    253. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nor can you forget the subset of people who would not feel comfortable moving to a state/country that does not permit slavery. It has been legal in most societies throughout thousands of years of history, and a lot of people don't think abruptly reversing this policy is a good idea. Enough people, in fact, that they managed to secede from the Union to continue owning slaves in the first place.

      A few words tweaks are always fun, historical accuracy being ignored, of course.

    254. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Marriage was first and foremost about kinship ties and property rights in most civilizations, not about procreation.

      Ahem. What's the Latin for 'Bullshit'?

      Marriage in classical civilizations of the Mediterranean absolutely had to do with procreation... as well as inheritance rights and class distinction and all that other stuff.

      Check the Leges Juliae under Augustus if you don't believe me.

    255. Re:I don't get it by mdf356 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      About the tax thing: you're right, until GWB and Congress changed tax law in 2001 there was a tax penalty for being married, if both spouses worked. Now that it's gone, there's effectively a "single person" tax penalty -- that is, take any two single people who are employed and not married; if they went and got married to each other they'd then pay less in taxes.

      Given all the other financial benefits of being married (actually about the same as living together) I really wish the tax code would go back to the Marriage penalty; it's more fair.

      If there were a marriage penalty again, gay marriage would have the interesting property that gay people would be asking to pay more in taxes to have a legal union (just like before 2001). And yet, I'm sure most of them would do it, since the marriage decision isn't (usually) about finances anyways.

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    256. Re:I don't get it by HandleMyBidness · · Score: 1

      More to the point, the simple way to amend the constitution is if the ballot measure is essentially a new issue. This requires 50% of the vote.

      As the supreme court in CA tossed out the previous law banning same sex marriage as unconstitutional under the civil rights portions this 'new' issue is rightfully being challenged as an attempt to circumvent the procedure.

      Prop 8 should have required 2/3.

    257. Re:I don't get it by bigstrat2003 · · Score: 1

      They are mostly interested in hiring smart people, which includes many gays but fewer religious bigots.

      This statement reveals a great deal of prejudice on your part, you know. Stupid ideas can reside in the head of any person, whether that person be stupid themselves or not. There's no real reason to believe that CA will see any decline in the number of smart people living there.

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    258. Re:I don't get it by cp.tar · · Score: 1

      Raising children costs money. Children are future taxpayers.
      In effect, you are subsidizing future taxpayers.

      Consider it an investment.

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    259. Re:I don't get it by Score+Whore · · Score: 1

      But as far as marriage...well, aside from the finanical aspect of it, since it has been around, sure...grandfather it in, but, I don't want to make more 'special' unions out there. What's next? People that are just roommates (no sex) need special provisions. Are we limiting it to just people that fornicate with each other? That seems hardly fair? And why just 2 people? Why not allow people with bigamist beliefs in on the party, and give them special rights and tax breaks?

      This is the only reason I'm in favor of Prop 8: Gays are asking for "equality" while denying it to other pairings that they cannot present a coherent argument against. What I mean is that, other than "we say so", they cannot present a reason why two men should be able to marry but two siblings should not. As long as the argument is treat us special, but don't treat them special -- then I see no reason to make the marriage clubhouse any bigger than it is now.

    260. Re:I don't get it by couchslug · · Score: 1

      "Those people are religious fundamentalists, not exactly the kind of people you want working for you if you're looking for smart people..."

      Even the smart ones are still Taliban under the skin.

      I'd be fine with (legal) arrangements that discourage them from applying for tech jobs or any other jobs. They can go work for a mega-church/Christian madrassah. I'm straight, but I support freedom including sexual freedom, and that means supporting the civil liberties and rights of the Fags God Hates. It's not discrimination if what you do with a company that belongs to you offends people and makes them not want to work there.

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    261. Re:I don't get it by gamanimatron · · Score: 1

      Why should anyone except the people getting married, and in a religious context the person performing the marriage, care what sex the participants are?

      Arguments over "morality" and folks that want to impose their world-view on others aside, the American government decided a long time ago to subsidize behavior that is believed to lead to a more stable, successful society. So marriage (among many other things like home ownership and entrepreneurial activity) gets a few different kinds of tax break - income, inheritance, automatic legal standing, etc.

      Nothing prevents gays from getting married (religiously) in any state in the union right now. But the government won't give any of the associated tax breaks because (a) there was no provision for it originally and (b) apparently, nobody has successfully demonstrated that gay marriage provides enough additional stability or growth potential to the society that it is worthwhile for your (and my) taxes to subsidize the practice.

      This is an economic issue with moral dimensions, not the other way 'round.

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    262. Re:I don't get it by rev063 · · Score: 3, Informative

      If Google wants to offer insurance benefits that include gay partners, well they can do so.

      That's not quite true -- although as a state issue, Prop 8 doesn't have anything to do with this. Like hundreds of other benefits, health insurance has a FEDERAL tax benefit tied to marriage. Even if an employer offers insurance to a same-sex partner, that partner has to pay tax on the full retail value of that insurance, as if it were income. Only a married partner can receive health insurance without the additional tax burden. Because insurance on the retail market is so expensive, the additional tax often makes the insurance unaffordable (as I can attest from experience).

      That's one reason the marriage issue is so important to same-sex couples. Many federal benefits are tied up with the act of marriage, in law.

    263. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Remember, smart people are very good at justifying things that they've come to believe for stupid reasons. I think most conservative ideas are stupid, but it would be ignorant of me to think that conservative people are stupid.

    264. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, but then they get out of college and it drops to like, 2%.

    265. Re:I don't get it by JWW · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That's what I keep thinking on this. If the state court nullifies an amendment to the state constitution, which was passed according to that constitution, they will have effectively given themselves unlimited lawmaking powers by fiat.

      If Google, or anyone else, wants to stop this they have to go to federal court, because to ask the state court to throw out the law is to as them to throw out the state constitution. That precedent would be exceedingly dangerous. If I were a CA resident and the state supreme court threw out a legally passed constitutional amendment, the next amendment I'd propose would be one that throws out the current members of that court.

      The only valid path I see for people against prop 8 is to get the Federal courts to declare it unconstitutional within the framework of the US Constitution, thus superceeding it being able to be in the California constitution.

    266. Re:I don't get it by BuckDefiant · · Score: 3, Informative
      Let's get the context straight:

      U.S. Self-identifying:

      • GLB: Not 10%, more like 2%. Twice as many gays as lesbians. Self-promoting, media myth.[2]
      • Jews: ~2%
      • Mormons: ~2%
      • Episcopalian/Anglican: ~2% [1]

      [1] http://www.adherents.com/rel_USA.html#religions

      [2] "The most widely accepted study of sexual practices in the United States is the National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS). The NHSLS found that 2.8 percent of the male, and 1.4 percent of the female, population identify themselves as gay, lesbian, or bisexual. See Laumann, et al., The Social Organization of Sex: Sexual Practices in the United States (1994). This amounts to nearly 4 million openly gay men and 2 million women who identify as lesbian.[8]" http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview/id/478685.html

      Homosexual Groups Back Off From "10 Percent" Myth A coalition of leading pro-homosexual activist groups has now admitted in a legal brief that only "2.8 percent of the male, and 1.4 percent of the female, population identify themselves as gay, lesbian, or bisexual."[1] http://www.rr-bb.com/showthread.php?t=69577

      *Second, sexual behavior researcher, Tom Smith of the University of Chicago authored a study two years ago entitled "Adult Sexual Behavior in 1989: Number of Partners Frequency and Risk." His study resulted in a figure of "less than 1% exclusively homosexual."

    267. Re:I don't get it by Schickeneder · · Score: 1

      There are a few problems in your post. Why would gays be any more educated than non-gays? I can't imagine why there would be any link whatsoever to support that--except for perhaps some anecdotal evidence from your experience working in California. If they're not a minority, then that necessarily means they are a majority. If that's the case then they deserve the consequences of prop 8 because they were too lazy or indifferent to get out and vote. Then again, I shouldn't blame them, they were probably too busy working at their higher-level jobs to vote. A better perspective would probably be something like this: People who are more educated would have the confidence and ability to make their views heard, and would, perhaps, be less reluctant to reveal their sexual preference. That could also explain why gays are occasionally characterized as the "vocal minority." If the gays feel terribly repressed in CA I guess it's time to move because the population trends and ideologies implied by the voting demographics of California aren't likely to change any time soon. The people that discourage expression of same gender-expression are reproducing much more rapidly than those that encourage it (which for the most part, obviously, can't reproduce). That is assuming their children adopt similar views.

    268. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And what right don't they have?? Anybody can choose to marry.

    269. Re:I don't get it by sexconker · · Score: 2, Funny

      Hot stuff, comin' through!

      There's a spark in your hair!
      Get it, get it!

      We work hard, we play hard.

      Etc.

    270. Re:I don't get it by LackThereof · · Score: 1

      It isn't like they can marry everywhere else in the US, and will leave CA in droves.

      No, but California has just joined the ranks of states which explicitly forbid same sex marriage in the state constitution. This is a lot different than just not having a law either way on the matter (which is still the situation in a number of states).

      It's worth noting that before the passage of prop 8, the state was one of the few explicitly allowing same-sex marriage. Not civil unions or some form of marriage-under-a-different-name-so-you-remember-it's-not-really-marriage-you-can't-really-be-in-love-you-freaks, but actual marriage.

      This could also prevent same sex couples, who already have a legitimate marriage from a state like Massachusetts or Connecticut, from relocating to California, impairing Google's out-of-state job recruitment.

      I'm not saying this will scare off all gay people, or even most, but a non-trivial number of gay couples will probably be leaving the state or choosing not to enter it.

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    271. Re:I don't get it by sfcat · · Score: 1

      That's very clever, maybe you should tell the anti-prop 8 people about that argument.

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    272. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's actually easier in a lot of places in CA if you're gay. You don't have to be married to get the health insurance / other benefits for your partner.

      If you're straight, you have to be married, or your partner has to be a senior and at least x years older than you.

      Straight people should get the same rights. We should get benefits for our partners even if we're not married. (I'm all against the idea of marriage in general.)

    273. Re:I don't get it by Bill,+Shooter+of+Bul · · Score: 1

      Above all else, it's nice to see the change in tone. Many anti prop 8-ers are turning their scorn on those who Believe in God. I'm sure they did make up a majority of those that voted for it. But as I said earlier, being mad at them isn't likely to change their minds.

      There is a difference between not hiring someone because they are not good at the tasks they are being hired to perform, and making requirements on their philosophical outlook. There are also more than two perceptions of Deities than what you mentioned (New age pseudo spiritualism and evil traffic cop). I think its very interesting which two extremes you mentioned, but that's beside the point.

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    274. Re:I don't get it by Xtravar · · Score: 1

      Shenanigans aside, I don't think it's fair to compare it to the DMCA or Patriot Act where elected officials made the decision.

      The people voted for this proposition, which I assume was described in English (and perhaps a multitude of other languages, being California...) on the ballot.

      Democracy is what it is. I'm not here to argue about its flaws.

      I agree that it's a good policy to let anyone bring up any objection they want in court. In fact, I'm happy when courts strike down laws.

      However, regardless of what actually happened, it's going to look like a corporation is trying to fight the will of the people brought about through a legitimate democratic process.

      As some have pointed out, if Google won in this instance, where would we draw the line on such grievances? A corporation could sue about minimum wage or fair labor laws restricting their ability to "recruit and retain employees".

      IMO the whole process would be better taken up with the legislature. Google can certainly afford lobbying and propaganda - where were their buses bringing people to the polling places?

      In fact, maybe they don't really care about gays, but want to set a precedent so they can throw out any law which does not suit them.

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    275. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      So let's see ... no human society anywhere has equated homosexual relationships with marriage. Every human society has had some version of heterosexual marriage. This, of course, could not possibly indicate that human civilization needs, perhaps even relies on, relatively stable heterosexual relationships to produce offspring and civilize the little beasts.

      If human civilization relies on heterosexual marriage, as flawed and imperfect as that institution is, then our arrogant postmodern notion that we know more, and are better people, than anyone else who ever lived anywhere would need to be re-examined.

      In the name of toleration, we will not tolerate that idea!

    276. Re:I don't get it by LackThereof · · Score: 1

      No influence on their hiring, however it does have an influence on their prospective hires. Particularly those from out of state.

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    277. Re:I don't get it by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      What's English for "poor reading comprehension"? More to the point, what does "foremost" mean?

      The Leges Juliae was addressing sexuality in this case, as well, not strictly procreation. Look at the very quote you linked me to:

      By the terms of the Lex Julia, senators and their descendants are forbidden to marry freedwomen, or women who have themselves followed the profession of the stage, or whose father or mother has done so; other freeborn persons are forbidden to marry a common prostitute, or a procuress, or a woman manumitted by a procurer or procuress, or a woman caught in adultery, or one condemned in a public lawsuit, or one who has followed the profession of the stage....

      This looks like a restriction based on class and sexual purity (the Romans were neurotic about purity.)

    278. Re:I don't get it by nut · · Score: 1

      Links or STFU

      He's right, please post references to support figures and statistics

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    279. Re:I don't get it by symbolic · · Score: 1

      You've cited all of one such civilization.

    280. Re:I don't get it by dwpro · · Score: 1

      Wow. First a troll mod on a guy that states a differing opion, then an insightful mod on a "think my way or gtfo" with an ad-hominem tossed in response.
       
      Pretty hypocritical if tolerance is the basis for your righteous indignation, no?

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    281. Re:I don't get it by severoon · · Score: 1

      TFA summary says: ...Google's...filing...certainly could have been better timed. Isn't the timing of the filing perfectly appropriate? The only way it could have been timed better is if they'd filed it before they had to do layoffs, etc...but it probably wouldn't have prevented them, and that doesn't make now a bad time to file it, exactly.

      Poor use of words in TFA summary, methinks.

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    282. Re:I don't get it by Surt · · Score: 1

      I'm afraid it's an experiential correlation. Nearly all religious bigots I've met have had only a rudimentary reasoning ability. Whereas many homosexuals I've met have held advanced degrees (and nearly all college degrees). College degrees are surprisingly uncommon amongst the religious bigot population.

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    283. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      All I can say is that both churches and corporations should all go to hell and take a back seat to the people of this country.

    284. Re:I don't get it by jhcurtis · · Score: 1

      Or thrown out. The people of California have voted repeatedly that gay marriage is a none starter. It can be argued that the incessant screaming for "equal rights" has done more harm to the gay agenda than not. 30 states have passed and implemented laws banning gay marriage. These laws were a response to the Mass. courts imposing gay marriage on the people there. The fact is that everywhere that anti-gay marriage laws have made it to the ballot, the measure has passed and been implemented. If the CA supreme court overturns this amendment, I would expect to see a new amendment which would allow CA citizens to through out those same supreme court justices.

    285. Re:I don't get it by TempeTerra · · Score: 1

      Most gays are usually quite well educated... Gays are a minority in America. They're not a minority in higher-level jobs requiring an education.

      Didn't you just say that the majority of highly educated workers are gay? Am I misreading something? Are we using a definition of 'minority' I'm not familiar with?

      I find it offensive* that you're making gross generalisations about gay people, positive or not. My experience of homosexuals has been that they are people like any others, who find members of the same sex sexually attractive. Since any statistics on homosexuality will be based on self reporting, I think they would show how comfortable different demographics feel about revealing their sexuality more than anything else.

      *Not very offensive. This is the internet. If I was actually offended that easily my head would have exploded some time in 1997.

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    286. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why hello there, troll!

    287. Re:I don't get it by narcc · · Score: 1

      Believe it or not, you're the only person I've been in contact with who is against gay marriage. What are your reasons and how do you think gay marriage will affect you personally? I only ask because I honestly don't understand the opposition.

    288. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What has struck me as ironic is Christians citing monogamous heterosexual marriage as something ordained by God, when the monogamous part of it was in fact pressed upon the Hebrews and other subjected people of the Roman Empire.

      Marriage was first and foremost about kinship ties and property rights in most civilizations, not about procreation.

      whats the source on this? I'm truly interested to know!

    289. Re:I don't get it by jhcurtis · · Score: 1

      You have a point as far as you go here. The problem is that the federal tax code does not acknowledge gay marriages. Sorry. Changing CA laws on marriage will not get you the federal tax benefit.

    290. Re:I don't get it by toriver · · Score: 1

      Not to mention that gays and lesbians aren't sterile. It is perfectly possible for a gay man and/or woman to have sex with someone of the opposite sex and have a baby - they are just veeeery unlikely to, or at least to enjoy the experience if they do.

      And yes, parenthood is a social mechanism more than a biological one among humans, though the default is that they are the same.

    291. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Aren't the numbers higher for homosexuality and bisexuality if we talk about actual behaviour, not self-determined grouping?

    292. Re:I don't get it by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      By definition, a constitutional amendment is indeed legal.

      Uh, the issue of legality in the GP is that of gay marriage in locations other than California, not the issue of the legality of Prop. 8.

      OTOH, a constitutional amendment is not, in California, "by definition...legal". In fact, there are different legal procedures required for Constitutional amendments and revisions in California, and if something passed as (and with the procedures of) an initiative constitutional amendment makes changes that can only be made by a legislative constitutional revision, it is not legal. (There are, additionally, other explicit limits on what Constitutional amendments can do in California.) That's the principal ground on which Prop. 8 is being challenged, BTW, so in addition to completely missing the point of the post you were responding to, you are also completely wrong insofar as your post applies to the subject of the thread.

      (There is actually at least one still-applicable limit on federal Constitutional amendments, too, so even if you missed the topic of the thread, you'd still be wrong, unless you were talking about some other constitution.)

    293. Re:I don't get it by Xest · · Score: 1

      It's because skilled gay people are more likely to keep the fuck away from California or perhaps even the US as a whole as a result, that's the problem.

    294. Re:I don't get it by UltraAyla · · Score: 1

      Well, if I remember the reports correctly, they didn't lay anyone off, they just closed the offices. But still, they are cutting costs.

    295. Re:I don't get it by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      The court case is going over which type of amendment prop-8 was and thus was the method used to pass it valid.

      Then why is google's argument that it harms their ability to hire people being offered?

      Because to have standing to sue, in general, there must not merely be an alleged violation of the law, but the person bringing the case has to must have experienced some harm attributable to the alleged violation of the law. If they didn't allege a harm resulting from Prop. 8, they couldn't challenge it even if they presented an airtight, unassailable case that the proposition itself was unquestionably invalid.

    296. Re:I don't get it by TempeTerra · · Score: 1

      Sorry, I guess my comment was redundant. I looked downthread for replies about minority/most... guess I didn't look far enough ;) congratulations on getting so many replies.

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    297. Re:I don't get it by jhcurtis · · Score: 1

      "yet if this were a law revoking the right ..." Funny that the "right" that is being "revoked" was entirely the creation of 4 judges who overturned an existing law banning recognition of gay marriages. Those same 4 judges then created the entire mess of people thrown into limbo over the status of their "marriages" when the court refused to stay their ruling until after the election. Remember that Prop. 8 was already on the ballot when they overturned the existing law. Also, the state allowed the proposition to go forth as a standard proposition requiring 50% when they certified it for the ballot. It was only after they lost that the idea that it was a rewrite came up. Sounds to me like playing the game, losing, then demanding that the rules be changed retroactively to benefit themselves.

    298. Re:I don't get it by harperska · · Score: 1

      If a law (or constitutional amendment) was passed that made it so that the NBA couldn't give the same benefits to black players as white players, and hence making it harder for them to recruit black players, you can bet your ass that they would fight that law/amendment as hard as they possibly could.

    299. Re:I don't get it by Em+Ellel · · Score: 1

      Shenanigans aside, I don't think it's fair to compare it to the DMCA or Patriot Act where elected officials made the decision.

      The people voted for this proposition, which I assume was described in English (and perhaps a multitude of other languages, being California...) on the ballot.

      Contrary to popular opinion, elected officials are people, and are just as susceptible to being lied to and scared into doing things as the rest of us.

      I agree that it's a good policy to let anyone bring up any objection they want in court. In fact, I'm happy when courts strike down laws.

      However, regardless of what actually happened, it's going to look like a corporation is trying to fight the will of the people brought about through a legitimate democratic process.

      I am not sure how you reconcile those two statements as they seem contradict each other. Either you are for allowing them to bring up objection in court or you are not. You can't pick and choose who is allowed and who is not.

      As some have pointed out, if Google won in this instance, where would we draw the line on such grievances? A corporation could sue about minimum wage or fair labor laws restricting their ability to "recruit and retain employees".

      I never really understood the whole "where do you draw the line" FUD. It is about the stupidest argument ever. You draw the line where it makes sense. That's what the court is for. They draw the line and they keep re-drawing this line as things change. That is how we ended up with slaves freed, women being allowed to vote, and interracial couples being allowed to marry among many other things.

      Also, I do not see a problem with any of the examples you cited as these things occur on regular basis (how do you think those minimum wage and fair labor laws come about in the first place?)

      IMO the whole process would be better taken up with the legislature. Google can certainly afford lobbying and propaganda - where were their buses bringing people to the polling places?

      Why should they bully and coerce people when they can go to the court system, which is designed specifically for this sort of thing?

      In fact, maybe they don't really care about gays, but want to set a precedent so they can throw out any law which does not suit them.

      So? I am not sure what precedent you are talking about - they are not the first corporation to challenge the law that affects them and not going to be the last one. You also seem to be missing the point that they do NOT have the power to throw out any law, they, (along with anyone else), can just bring it up to court and let them decide.

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    300. Re:I don't get it by DragonWriter · · Score: 2, Informative

      Prop 8 was introduced as an amendment: it added language to the California state constitution. Amendments require only a simple majority vote to pass.

      The other type of constitutional change is a revision: striking language or significantly changing the language in the state constitution. A revision requires a 2/3 majority vote to pass.

      This is wrong in two ways -- it gets wrong what the difference between an amendment and a revision is, and gets wrong what it takes to pass each:
      (1) The difference between an amendment and a revision is not whether they add, strike, or significantly change language in the Constitution, its whether the change would affect the "underlying principles" of the Constitution,
      (2) Both an amendment and a revision require only a simple majority to approve, but only an amendment can be valid if initiated by citizen initiative. A revision requires either a legislative submission to the voters or a constitutional convention, followed by approval of the voters.

    301. Re:I don't get it by Arterion · · Score: 1

      Yeah, anyone remember Abraham, father of the Abrahamic religions? That's Judaism, Christianity, and Islam. Also all monotheistic.

      Just pointing out that he had concubines, and that was perfectly acceptable then.

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    302. Re:I don't get it by TempeTerra · · Score: 1

      Most people in the world don't move from country to country do they? Don't most people stay their live (aside from vacation) in the country of birth? Gay or straight?

      Many people move to the most lucrative economy where they can get a work permit, particularly when young and unattached. If you're in America you probably see almost entirely people coming in. I'm in London and there's hardly an Englishman to be seen because anyone from the EU can work here (No, I'm not English either. Yes, I'm part of the problem. Yes, I'm being bigoted for effect)

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    303. Re:I don't get it by dogmatixpsych · · Score: 2, Informative

      "At 10-13% of US society"

      Please cite your source for this. Preferably something with a good stratified random sample of a few thousand people. That 10% number (and bumping it to 13% is really stretching it) came from old Kinsey reports. His estimates have been shown to be grossly overstated. The actual value (according to a 2005 CDC report) is between 1-2%. That is a small minority.

    304. Re:I don't get it by kilodelta · · Score: 1

      As a gay systems and telecom person who lives in RI I can tell you that marriage equality will hit either Maine or Rhode Island or both next.

      At the last Marriage Equality RI rally I attended (The one just after Prop 8 passed in CA) I was very vocal. When one of the speakers said we'll have marriage equality in RI within the next 3 years I shouted "This YEAR!" I don't think they expected that.

      I hope some day we look back at this and realize that religion is bunk.

    305. Re:I don't get it by Arterion · · Score: 1

      Remember, Alan Turing was gay.

      And I have my suspicions about Ada Lovelace. Have you seen a picture of her?

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    306. Re:I don't get it by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      Countries on every continent? Do you have a source for that?

      No. Which is why I didn't say that.

      I said every continent except South America and Australia, and I really meant to include Antarctica, which doesn't have any countries. And, I'll admit, given the preliminary status that Nepal is in (order of the highest court that has not yet been implemented), it is arguably still a slight exaggeration.

      Still, there are several European countries, Canada, South Africa, and a couple US states. Its hardly as if talented people with means who want to be in a place where same-sex marriage is recognized don't have places they could go, making Prop. 8 a barrier to Google seeking to attract those people to work in California.

    307. Re:I don't get it by Arterion · · Score: 1

      The bottom line is, Google wants the best people. If they're gay, Google doesn't want to have to say, "Hey, we really want you to come work here, but oh by the way, your marriage is going to be null and void if you do."

      They're thinking ahead. They see the trend that gay marriages and civil unions are becoming reality. And don't be so US-centric: A lot of other nations allow gay marriages/unions, and Google probably hires internationally. It would be a shame to have some of the brightest folks turn Google down because if they accepted, they'd lose some of their basic rights.

      Even if you aren't gay, what if you have or will have children? They could turn out to be gay, and you wouldn't want to have moved to a place where they are specifically discriminated against in the laws. Just a thought.

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    308. Re:I don't get it by BuckDefiant · · Score: 1

      How would one objectively know? With data uncertainity, go with what's actually reported/observed, not conjectured.

    309. Re:I don't get it by _Sharp'r_ · · Score: 1

      There is a major flaw in your argument.

      Homosexuals in California already have the exact same legal ability to take advantage of all the above based on state law that non-homosexuals do. The actual argument here is whether they get to call it "marriage" or not. That's it. The whole thing is over one group wanting to redefine a word and another group wanting to keep the old definition. There are no other legal implications in state law.

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    310. Re:I don't get it by jo_ham · · Score: 1

      But it sure as shit can't hurt. :)

    311. Re:I don't get it by Score+Whore · · Score: 1

      Other than five months between June and November, there was no gay marriage in California. But I'm almost certain that lots of gays were in California before that time. So I'm not sure what is different? I mean, prior to May 15, 2008 everybody understood that California only recognized marriages between a man and a woman. So what is different now than on May 14, 2008?

    312. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > We don't subsidize kids to encourage having kids, you idiot.

      Actually that's just why they are subsidized, there is a compelling state interest to people having children. Lets not forget that any city/state/country/etc that doesn't have growth will eventually die and the subsidization through tax credits and free education help reduce the costs involved and thus encourage growth.

    313. Re:I don't get it by DaHat · · Score: 1

      Tell that to Jerry Brown, California's attorney general: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/01/14/AR2009011402930.html

    314. Re:I don't get it by dogmatixpsych · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "I think people who think that gays are a very small minority are being insular and naive."

      Or, we accept the best research available that shows that at most, homosexual individuals make up about 2% of the U.S. population. That is a very small minority. Could the number be higher than that? Certainly. However, no well-designed study yet has shown higher percents than that. In the future, even if the percent increases, it doesn't mean past research was wrong - people change.

    315. Re:I don't get it by DaHat · · Score: 1

      I'm afraid that I'm going to have to throw the BS flag on that one.

      Are you telling us that a company the size of Google doesn't have the clout with insurance companies to be able to offer their employees whatever policy Google so wants?

      I'll tell ya a little secret... companies don't provide insurance because they are forced to by law or because it makes them feel good, they do it to attract and retain employees.

      Depending on the size of the company different options can be had, more often than not the larger the company the better the insurance is offered. Why? Given their buying power they can pretty much dictate to a prospective insurance company what they want... or better yet, be self-insured and write their own plan and turn management over to a third party.

    316. Re:I don't get it by Shin-LaC · · Score: 1

      Actually, I've tried asking some twenty-somethings whose parents divorced when they were kids, and they vehemently opposed the idea that the family environment they grew up in was anything less than perfect.

      The idea that a married couple is better for kids has about as much currency as the idea that a heterosexual couple is better for kids (ie, it's widely held by the general population, but it's unmentionable in polite company amongst educated people).

      Scientific evidence doesn't matter, either, and not just because of the epistemological weakness of sociology as a field, but most importantly because everyone's position is rooted in strong emotional reasons.

    317. Re:I don't get it by Xtravar · · Score: 1

      Contrary to popular opinion, elected officials are people, and are just as susceptible to being lied to and scared into doing things as the rest of us.

      Except laws enacted by elected officials are viewed entirely different from laws enacted by democratic process. If 9 out of 10 people in a group say they want to go to McDonald's but 1 says he wants to go to Burger King, the 1 is out. However, if they pick that 1 to decide, then they all go to Burger King and the 9 talk dirty about 1's judgment and don't pick him next time.

      I am not sure how you reconcile those two statements as they seem contradict each other. Either you are for allowing them to bring up objection in court or you are not. You can't pick and choose who is allowed and who is not.

      Let me clarify. I'm all for challenging authority; however, their argument is weak and opens legal precedence for other similar grievances. If California judges side with them, there will be even more flack about "unelected liberal activist judges".

      I never really understood the whole "where do you draw the line" FUD. It is about the stupidest argument ever. You draw the line where it makes sense. That's what the court is for. They draw the line and they keep re-drawing this line as things change. That is how we ended up with slaves freed, women being allowed to vote, and interracial couples being allowed to marry among many other things.

      Also, I do not see a problem with any of the examples you cited as these things occur on regular basis (how do you think those minimum wage and fair labor laws come about in the first place?)

      ... if there were a consensus of where to draw the line, don't you think that proposition 8 would have passed or failed unanimously? There's a reason we have bureaucracy and processes in place. IF Google gets away with this argument, then that ruling will give strength to other similar arguments toward abolishing workers' rights, and because NOBODY "draws the line where it makes sense" in the same place, judges tend to side with legal precedence.

      Why should they bully and coerce people when they can go to the court system, which is designed specifically for this sort of thing?

      ... why should they waste government time and money with a ridiculous court case when they could have just helped the cause democratically in the first place?

      So? I am not sure what precedent you are talking about - they are not the first corporation to challenge the law that affects them and not going to be the last one. You also seem to be missing the point that they do NOT have the power to throw out any law, they, (along with anyone else), can just bring it up to court and let them decide.

      An objective court shouldn't see the difference between throwing out one law and throwing out another law because a company claims they cannot recruit and retain employees. It really matters not that you like one law and don't like another one.

      That's what we want, right? Blind justice. Objective judges who apply the law equally.

      Oh forget it. We aren't going to agree on this one.

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    318. Re:I don't get it by dogmatixpsych · · Score: 0, Troll

      "all they want is the same right"

      I'm sorry, but that's incorrect. They already have the right to marry. What gays are fighting for is to change the meaning of marriage to include a relationship between same-sex individuals. That is a major change in the definition of marriage. Gays don't want the same right, they want a new right. Same-sex marriage has never been a right. This isn't just a semantic issue, this has to do with the foundation of civilized society (read the U.N.'s Declaration on Human Rights, for example).

    319. Re:I don't get it by dogmatixpsych · · Score: 1

      "Medieval theocracy"

      I'm sorry if your country is a little backward. I live in the U.S. and live in a secular representative democracy (or democratic republic).

    320. Re:I don't get it by Sparr0 · · Score: 1

      Unless you can provide supporting documentation, I stand firm by the position that no matter how much clout or negotiating power you have, the same amount of clout results in a lower price to insure a married couple than to insure two "unrelated" people, as is the case for "normal" insurance rates. Yes, Google can probably get a lower rate for a gay couple than a smaller company can get for a straight couple, but with the same amount of negotiating power Google can get an even lower rate for their married straight employees.

    321. Re:I don't get it by NiteShaed · · Score: 5, Informative

      Homosexual Groups Back Off From "10 Percent" Myth A coalition of leading pro-homosexual activist groups has now admitted in a legal brief that only "2.8 percent of the male, and 1.4 percent of the female, population identify themselves as gay, lesbian, or bisexual."[1] http://www.rr-bb.com/showthread.php?t=69577 [rr-bb.com]

      Wait, did you just seriously, and with a straight face use a link to "Rapture Ready" to support an argument? RR is NOT a trusted source of information for anyone other than those who are expecting that they are going to vanish from the earth to sit with Jesus while the rest of us fight a massive war, apparently for the entertainment of god and his new raptured buddies.

      Oh, but it gets better. That page seems to just draw from a page at traditionalvalues.org, entitled Homosexual Urban Legends, The Series. Now, this charming piece of work is by "The Traditional Values Coalition", which is catagorized by the Southern Poverty Law Center as a hate group.

      Might as well post links to Stormfront.org for "the real truth about blacks and jews".

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    322. Re:I don't get it by b4dc0d3r · · Score: 1

      How can this be off topic? I don't see how California's laws affect the hiring ability of Google.

      In theory, a gay couple might refuse to work at Google on principal, but likewise in theory Google could open an office in a gay-friendly state. And in theory allowing gay marriage might attract gays there to work (some of whom might be smarter than their hetero peers, giving google a benefit over hiring straight employees), and likewise they could be dumber.

      Cayenne8, I have read your recent posting history. You seem libertarian to a fault, and very much for personal responsibility, but your salary has made you seem insensitive to other people. If you could soften your delivery I'm sure it would be easier to digest a good point. Or maybe you genuinely don't care, in which case you continue to be moderated appropriately. You see, I believe that caring about the future of a country involves caring about the future of her people.

      I too would like to know how Google really means to make this make sense.

    323. Re:I don't get it by DDHoward · · Score: 1

      Convincing 2/3 of Californians to strike the equal protection clause

      Actually, the 2/3 vote comes from the state legislature, not the citizens. Once 2/3 of the legislature approve the revision, it is then placed on the ballot, where a simple majority vote is needed. Unless I completely missed something.

    324. Re:I don't get it by __aajwxe560 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I understand your point and personally believe two people in marriage should pay the same identical taxes as if they were single, but just to stimulate the contrary side of why to consider taxing married people less, and government motivation:

      - Married people are less of an overall burden on society due to being healthier (not that marriage in and of itself necessarily improves health). So, why not tax them less?

      - Less overall risk due to higher statistical stability of someone married, as seen by lower insurance rates. Government loves a stable populous paying their taxes, and less likely to revolt or cause other issues, thus less statistical need to pay for any legal enforcement for them.

      - Married people often have children. A country wants children for the sake of competing with other countries in terms of economic nationalism. In fact, gay people whom may not conceive through whatever means may adopt abandoned children in society, actually helping out overall.

      Again, I agree with you, but I acknowledge their could be a purpose to encouraging marriage through taxes or however.

    325. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      As a supporter of Proposition 8, I would be a lot more interested in moving to a state that does not allow for same-sex marriage.

      Many of us normal folks would be willing to throw in a few bucks for your one-way ticket to Iran.

      Those bigots are all happy as all "heck" to support Iran's heteronormative policy until they learn that Iran's social healthcare plan pays for sex changes...

    326. Re:I don't get it by MorePower · · Score: 1

      Its still not a 'special' right though. If same-sex marriage became legal, everyone would gain the right to marry someone of the same sex.

      Of course, straight people probably wouldn't want to actually exercise that right, but we would have it. It wouldn't be all that useful to us, but then neither is the right to marry opposite-sex people very useful to gays.

      Saying gays want a 'special' right implies that only they will receive it, when in fact it would mean more freedom for everyone. Why would anyone oppose more freedom?

    327. Re:I don't get it by HiThere · · Score: 1

      If I'm remembering my history correctly, you are misdating things. During the Roman Republic (well, the late Roman Republic) marriage was only common among the Patricians and was almost unheard of among the Pleblians. It was almost entirely concerned with inheritable property, but as a result it also involved chastity, etc. The Pleblians didn't have much inheritable property, so they didn't generally worry about such things. (Some merchants, of course, *did* have inheritable property...so it wasn't strictly Patrician.)

      Among the Patricians it was, as you suggest, arranged by their families. Among the Plebeians...it was much more like today. (There may have been no official marriage, but there was community recognition of partnerships...and they could be dissolved when "irreconcilable differences" occurred.

      Then there were the slaves. The slaves didn't even have the "right" to choose their sexual partners. And early christianity in Rome was originally most common among the slaves. So early christians didn't practice marriage, or fidelity, but looked up to them as aristocratic virtues.

      (Most christian history is from Rome. The beliefs of the followers who remained in Judea was called Nestorianism [if not precisely that, something like it], I think, and was wiped out by a Roman army commanded by a christian general. [I'm presuming that this was after Constantine recognized christianity as not only an official religion, but as the official religion of the Roman empire. But I've never really checked out the dates.])

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    328. Re:I don't get it by HiThere · · Score: 1

      AGGH! Hit the wrong button.

      One needs to remember that the Roman Republic didn't fall until Julius C. crossed the Rubicon, defied the Senate, and captured Rome. This was only slightly before year 0. So most of these habits can be presumed to have continued. Augustus made notable efforts to "reform the morals" of the citizenry, but he met with massive resistance. Even his own family publicly flouted his orders. And the importance of the Arena was growing, even as Agustus tried to stand for morality. (Rome never became quite as "politicized" over the Arena as Byzantium did, but the phrase "bread and circuses" is still live, a witness to its impress on the mass consciousness.)

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    329. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Prop 8 means those gays are going to MA, while the bigots hang around CA. Bummer for CA employers.

      Bullshit. First off, it ain't happening - go ahead, name a tech company from MA. I'll wait.

      Yeah, that's what I thought.

      Second off, you really think that the home of the Puritans is really going to keep gay marriage legal? The only reason gay marriage hasn't been outlawed in MA is because of the clusterfuck that is their state government. Pretty much every poll of MA citizens shows that gay marriage is not supported.

    330. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1

      Well, apparently you weren't told. There is no rights differential. Heterosexuals and homosexuals all have the right to marry. Homosexuals generally choose not to, because they prefer someone of the same sex. In other words, noone has the right to marry someone of the same sex, whether he is gay or straight. Heterosexuals do not have more rights.

    331. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1

      If Google wants to offer insurance benefits that include gay partners, well they can do so.

      That's not quite true -- although as a state issue, Prop 8 doesn't have anything to do with this. Like hundreds of other benefits, health insurance has a FEDERAL tax benefit tied to marriage. Even if an employer offers insurance to a same-sex partner, that partner has to pay tax on the full retail value of that insurance, as if it were income. Only a married partner can receive health insurance without the additional tax burden. Because insurance on the retail market is so expensive, the additional tax often makes the insurance unaffordable (as I can attest from experience).

      That's one reason the marriage issue is so important to same-sex couples. Many federal benefits are tied up with the act of marriage, in law.

      So the answer is to get government out of the business of taxation. Not to call something what it is not. Whatever the virtues or vices of homosexual relationships, one thing that they cannot be is marriage. Just as a relationship between two men cannot be an alarm clocks or a French hen, neither can it accurately be called a marriage.

    332. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      This is such an odd way to argue that case that I honestly had to consider a moment to find a rebuttal. It's so inhuman that I honestly had to ponder how to word my reply without being insulting. It's like saying that abortion should be illegal for women because it's illegal for men too and they don't really complain about that.

      Hey, I have a splendid idea. How about outlawing heterosexual marriage and only allowing homosexual relationships? That would be fair according to your logic, because it applies to everyone and everyone has the same rights.

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    333. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Why would anyone oppose more freedom?

      Ask your government. I don't know.

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    334. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Now, this charming piece of work is by "The Traditional Values Coalition", which is catagorized by the Southern Poverty Law Center as a hate group.

      And "The Southern Poverty Law Center" is categorized by The Traditional Values Coalition as poor on facts and substance. So what?

    335. Re:I don't get it by skam240 · · Score: 1

      That's ridiculous. So if the state of Oregon amends their constitution to advocate the killing of Jews the courts don't have the ability to change that? That's not true at all. The courts have every right to change a states constitution. How you got modded 5 informative is beyond me.

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    336. Re:I don't get it by jonadab · · Score: 1

      > I think the tax breaks were originally written when the females didn't usually work,

      In which case, it's not really relevant any more.

      However, the tax breaks for being married are more than offset by the government handouts a woman gets if she has kids without being married. If we're going to do away with the one, we should nix the other as well.

      > I think it is also supposed to be a cultural incentive for people
      > to get married and build the "ideal" American family. *shug*

      That's *NOT* a good reason to get married.

      I'm starting to think the ideal thing would be to declare that marriage is a religious practice and none of the government's %#@! business.

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    337. Re:I don't get it by Golddess · · Score: 1

      I fail to see how gay marriage [...] affects the ability of a company to hire and retain employees?!?!?

      My best guess? Google's health insurance coverage. If you can't get married then you can't get your same-sex partner insured on your policy. Outside of that I can't imagine what getting married would have to do with hiring employees.

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    338. Re:I don't get it by skam240 · · Score: 1

      I don't understand your reasoning here. How is the state court nullifying the amendment different then the federal court nullifying it? Why should it matter whether it is the federal or state court that nullifies an amendment?

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    339. Re:I don't get it by novakyu · · Score: 1

      Now I see what you said. "Countries in every continent", as in if a single country in Asia, say, Singapore allows gay marriage, you say what sounds similar to "Asia allows gay marriage".

      That's a great way to produce apparent majority-backed world approval of gay marriage where no such thing exists.

      According to the source your sibling poster cited, the majority of Europe would have voted yes on Prop. 8, or at least there is a significant doubt to whether they would have said no on Prop. 8. Prop. 8 leaves open possibilities of civil union, so counting civil union as marriage is cheating.

      This majority gets even steeper in other continents, but of course, by saying that "countries in every continent" (with few exceptions you do cite) allows gay marriage, you build an apparent image of widespread agreement.

    340. Re:I don't get it by jonadab · · Score: 1

      > This is a gender issue. Men can marry women, but women can't. Therefore, men have a right that women don't have.

      That's a specious sophistry. Men and women both can marry someone of the opposite gender, but not someone of the same gender. The only way you can get a right men have that women don't out of that is to *define* the right itself in terms of a specific gender. If you're going to do that, you may as well just say men have the legal right to swear under oath that they are genetically male, and women don't.

      If you want to get upset about double standards, try this one: men can also go nude from the waist up in public (at least in most jurisdictions), and women aren't supposed to do that (same caveat). Of course, there are *reasons* (perhaps even good ones) why this is the way it is (though, frankly, I would not be in the least bothered by a law requiring everyone, including men, to wear clothes that cover the torso when going out in public), but it nonetheless *is* a legal restriction placed on women that's not placed on men.

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    341. Re:I don't get it by jhcurtis · · Score: 1

      Actually, it can. There is such a thing as backlash. The pressure to change the meaning of a word that has so much history for the religious has created an environment where people who were neutral in the past have become polarized against gay marriage. When the MA courts forced gay marriage upon the people there, they created a groundswell of resistance that has lead to 40 states enacting bans on gay marriage. Many prominent gays have stated that pushing too fast for gay marriage has set the movement back at least 20 years. I believe this to be true.

    342. Re:I don't get it by Mr.+Mikey · · Score: 1

      The courts have no authority to change a state's constitution.

      True, but that's not what they did. Instead, they ruled on a matter of Constitutionality, namely "Is a ban on same-sex marriage consistent with the State Constitution?"

      They ruled that it wasn't... and it is precisely their task to rule on questions of this kind.

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    343. Re:I don't get it by jonadab · · Score: 1

      > At 10-13% of US society

      Oh, get real. If 13% of US society were gay, I'd have encountered a few hundred more of them over the years. As it stands, I know (err, "know of" is closer actually) two (one male and one female, as it happens; the male is someone I've only met once, and the female is someone whose lesbianism *may* be an affectation, though it's hard to be sure), discounting national celebrities. Even if 99% of all gays are totally "in the closet", which may have made sense in the fifties but seems like an unrealistically high number these days... even then, they're still more like half a percent of the total population, using a *conservative* estimate of how many observably-heterosexual people I have encountered over the last three decades.

      There are probably more celibates than gays. And if you think *they* don't experience discrimination...

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    344. Re:I don't get it by mabhatter654 · · Score: 1

      Actually for many, many years there was a marriage "penalty" because the tax man assumed married people without kids had slightly fewer bills (only 1 rent, shared expenses,etc) so you lost about half a single credit being married. They only changed the tax tables in the last few years.

      The REAL benefit to being married is mutual property. The idea that "we" own a car so both people help make payments: and "we" are a family, so I can work and pay for you to go to school while my insurance covers my "responsibilities". Being married opens doors for home loans because it's a binding legal partnership.. like a mini company. It's those economic things that make one man-one woman marriage valuable to building careers and wealth single people don't get.

    345. Re:I don't get it by jonadab · · Score: 1

      > So the answer is to get government out of the business of taxation.

      As good as that sounds, I'm afraid it's not terribly realistic.

      Taking the discrimination based on marital status out of tax law might be a somewhat more viable option, but in that case I'd argue that we should *also* take the discrimination based on marital status out of welfare law (i.e., stop giving extra handouts to single mothers that wedded mothers can't get) at the same time.

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    346. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, are my civil rights being violated because I can't enter a women's locker room?

    347. Re:I don't get it by mabhatter654 · · Score: 1

      The state subsidizes kids because they are expensive and the state puts all sorts of restrictions on how much you have to feed them and where they sleep at night and how old they have to be before you can send them to work in the mines. Get the idea. "Single People" make all sorts of rules on how people raise their kids. Also, MY kids will be paying for YOUR Social Security in addition to mine when fewer people are working than drawing.. better hope they work really hard!

    348. Re:I don't get it by mabhatter654 · · Score: 1

      Google's problem is not even the issue of marriage... their problem is that the California law, just like the Michigan law I voted against 2 years ago goes way further than marriage. In Michigan the change goes so far that insurance companies don't have to cover the "+1" additional person option many companies had to get around the marriage issue. The Michigan law says that ONLY MARRIAGE can be considered... that was immediately extrapolated by the state to include housing, adoption, insurance benefits... etc. Many things like the "don't ask, don't tell" era "+1" health insurance negotiated in the State's own union contracts were immediately, summarily revoked under this amendment as "illegal".

      Get the idea. This is not just about marriage, but about telling private companies what benefits THEY can offer THEIR employees and customers.. and it interferes with already established contracts that go back a dozen years, causing those employees to go elsewhere for work because of the change in circumstance... really think about that. This was the intended effect.

    349. Re:I don't get it by NiteShaed · · Score: 3, Informative

      You know, most people grow out of saying "I know you are but what am I?" as a rebuttal by the time they can type....

      Fine though. This is from your link:

      The Southern Poverty Law Center always has to pump up some new boogie man to justify its existence. If none is available at the moment, they look for the nearest Christian group and label it racist, bigoted or a hate group.

      These liberal lawyers owe many of the people on its list of hate groups an apology because all that their organizations have done is resist the imposition of anti-Christian regulations and statutes on free people.

      So let's take a look at a few of the poor innocent folks that the SPLC is so wrongly vilifying.
      Sample of groups listed on the SPLC site:
      Westboro Baptist Church (of godhatesfags.com fame, among others)
      Aryan Nations Youth Action Corps
      National Knights of the Ku Klux Klan
      Northern Hammerskins (racist skinhead crew)

      I find it interesting that rather than try to distance themselves from the groups on the SLPC's list, these folks just scream liberal-conspiracy and claim that the list targets innocent conservative groups. I've got news for you, the conservative movement really doesn't need these kinds of "conservatives".

      By the way, why does anyone have to "resist the imposition of anti-Christian regulations and statutes on free people."? If you want to live your life and base your decisions on Christian values, go ahead. That's not what this means though, does it. It means that people who want to force their religion on others get mad when they're told to stop. Freedom to practice your religion does not include the right to make others live by the tenets you follow. It only allows you to follow those tenets yourself.

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    350. Re:I don't get it by Dun+Malg · · Score: 1

      That's what I keep thinking on this. If the state court nullifies an amendment to the state constitution, which was passed according to that constitution,

      So what you're saying is that if 50% of the population decides that (say) "Negroes cannot own real estate", then the court has no standing to toss the amendment? This is simply untrue. A constitutional amendment that's passed by simple majority through the proposition process can only change the constitution in a limited way. It's the court's job to strike down amendments that reach beyond their allowable limits. Simple majority cannot strike or substantially alter the effect of other language in the constitution. Prop 8 is at odds with the equal protection clause, taking an all-encompassing rule and limiting its application by essentially adding "except fags when they want to get married".

      they will have effectively given themselves unlimited lawmaking powers by fiat.

      Engage in hyperbole much? Saying "no that's not allowed, follow the rules" is hardly unlimited lawmaking powers.

      If Google, or anyone else, wants to stop this they have to go to federal court, because to ask the state court to throw out the law is to as them to throw out the state constitution.

      No, it's asking them to enforce the state constitution by not allowing a bunch of fucktard religious assholes turn a subset of the population into second class citizens with a simple majority vote. Such a change requires not just a media blitz of lies and pandering to the ignorant, but involvement of the legislature and/or a constitutional convention--- and even then ought to explode on contact with the 14th Amd at the federal level.

      If I were a CA resident and the state supreme court threw out a legally passed constitutional amendment, the next amendment I'd propose would be one that throws out the current members of that court.

      Then you'd be no better than the jerks who think that because their religious principles have a place in the constitution. The constitution (state or local) is not a pizza party where toppings are decided by a show of hands and, if you don't like pepperoni, you're SOL. The constitution is designed to prevent the tyranny of the idiotic majority, and even includes safeguards against such idiots skullfucking the constitution itself. The courts invalidating improper amendments is one such safeguard. Seriously, you ought to understand how the system works before you attempt to criticize it.

      The only valid path I see for people against prop 8 is to get the Federal courts to declare it unconstitutional within the framework of the US Constitution, thus superceeding it being able to be in the California constitution.

      So you're saying that 14th amendment of the federal constitution is at odds with prop 8, but that prop 8 isn't at odds with a similar clause in the state constitution?

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    351. Re:I don't get it by Dun+Malg · · Score: 1

      I am gay and what amazed me most when I was younger was how many "straight" guys out there that are gay.

      There are so many "straight" guys out there (not sure about women) who are married or have girlfriends and have a lot of anonymous gay sex behind their partners back.

      Is it not possible that Gay-to-Straight is a continuum and not a binary condition? A married man who like homosexual sex is not automatically 100% gay. I know it's common for gays to regard self-proclaimed bisexuals as "unable to accept their homosexuality", but really, that's about as ignorant and bigoted as a religious fundie who thinks homosexuality is simply a bad habit that can be unlearned.

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    352. Re:I don't get it by Repossessed · · Score: 1

      Those numbers (the NHSLS ones) are for actual incidences within the last year for the surveyed people. The long term numbers from the same survey are 4.9% and 4.1%. That doesn't include virgins and closet cases, though it doesn't factor in 'experimenting' either. Next time look up the study instead pof taking the word of some random netizen.

      (That includes this time).

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    353. Re:I don't get it by Dun+Malg · · Score: 1

      My guess is that you probably don't hang out with a lot of poorly educated individuals across all walks of American life. If you did, I suspect that you'd find that gays or no better educated than any other group.

      Actually, it might be hard to really find that. Uneducated ignorant gays are harder to find because they tend to pretend to be straight. They believe their minister, who tells them that "faggotry" is a sin.

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    354. Re:I don't get it by Dun+Malg · · Score: 1

      ...and negroes had their own drinking fountains, cafeterias, and schools. The real fight is against the "separate but equal" thing.

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    355. Re:I don't get it by Dun+Malg · · Score: 1

      So, should be give them special rights above others?

      It's not a "special" right to be able to marry one's partner, unless you think that the Mormon take on marriage is the One True Way that ought to be enshrined in law. My religion says gays can marry. Why is my religion "special" and all those bullshit bronze age craphole religions are "regular"? Fuck that.

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    356. Re:I don't get it by Dun+Malg · · Score: 1

      "all they want is the same right" I'm sorry, but that's incorrect. They already have the right to marry. What gays are fighting for is to change the meaning of marriage to include a relationship between same-sex individuals. That is a major change in the definition of marriage. Gays don't want the same right, they want a new right. Same-sex marriage has never been a right. This isn't just a semantic issue, this has to do with the foundation of civilized society

      Bullshit. It's an imposition of someone else's bullshit religious definition of marriage. My religion says gays can marry, and I daresay my religion is far more civilized than any of the hypocrite asshole religions that think that simply having been around scaring people into certain behaviors for a long time somehow makes them the "foundation of civilized society".

      (read the U.N.'s Declaration on Human Rights, for example).

      Article 16 of the UNDHR says fuck-all about gender. It speaks of family, but likewise makes no stipulation that "family" must arise from copulation, rather than (say) adoption.

      Besides, the UNDHR is utter bullshit anyway. Half the crap in there fails the very definition of "rights" and is instead a thinly veiled parade of socialist impositions. Article 25 is a real winner:

      "Everyone has the right to a standard of living adequate for the health and well-being of himself and of his family, including food, clothing, housing and medical care and necessary social services, and the right to security in the event of unemployment, sickness, disability, widowhood, old age or other lack of livelihood in circumstances beyond his control."

      Those are not so much "rights" as they are obligations imposed upon the farmer, tailor, carpenter, doctor, and the tax payer in general. There is no freedom if you cannot choose to not feed your starving neighbor, even though you have enough food to do so. Society isn't about being a bunch of good little fucking robots because some asshole in a funny hat said you have to. Society is about helping one another by choice.

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    357. Re:I don't get it by davidphogan74 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I was just skimming the thread, and saw a bunch of mundane nonsense, but this post, wow. I didn't click on the parent post until I saw it deconstructed. Nice work, all it proves is maybe 2.3% of males have admitted to dating a same-sex partner in a survey in the past decade, maybe.

      It leaves an interesting margin of error all the way around. Thank you /., (Score:5, Informative) could mean something again. I wish I had mod points today.

    358. Re:I don't get it by Dun+Malg · · Score: 2, Interesting

      "Medieval theocracy" I'm sorry if your country is a little backward. I live in the U.S. and live in a secular representative democracy (or democratic republic).

      It ought to be secular, but really isn't. When 70%+ of the electorate thinks that being an avowed atheist disqualifies a person from being president... you might live in a theocracy.
      When a bunch of theocratic assholes like the Mormons get to have their definition of marriage enshrined in law... you might live in a theocracy.

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    359. Re:I don't get it by khanyisa · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Absolutely - Michael Ramsden has pointed out that "tolerating" something is actually quite a derogatory stance - I'd rather have someone disagree with me or agree with me than tolerate me - it implies a patronizing attitude.

    360. Re:I don't get it by pizzach · · Score: 1

      My point was that the tax breaks are a leftover from a previous time, not whether they are good or bad. Arguing about it is outside of the scope of my post.

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    361. Re:I don't get it by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      Read "The Institution of Marriage in Rabbinic Times," by Isaiah Gafni, in "The Jewish Family," edited by David Kraemer. As the early church became increasingly Roman and less and less Jewish, Paul was cited as part of argument against polygamy. However, polygamy remained a practice in parts of the early church for some time.

    362. Re:I don't get it by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      Many of the aforementioned rights are not state rights. And there are, in fact, rights not give by domestic partnership: they cannot file joint state tax returns, and their earnings are not classified as community property for state tax purposes. Additionally, when they travel out of state, their status within the State of California may have some effect on their rights. (This has not been tested by precedent, as far as I know.)

    363. Re:I don't get it by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      Exactly. The legal fees and filing costs to assemble all the contractual relationships that are automatically created by marriage can cost thousands of dollars and days of time.

    364. Re:I don't get it by funwithBSD · · Score: 1

      Yes, except for the fact that a California law will not override the Defense of Marriage Act signed by Clinton in the 90's.

      There is NO legal difference between the current "civil union" law and the marriage rights granted by the court as far as California benefits are concerned.

      Prop 8 took away nothing, they get no benefit from the FEDERAL taxes because DOMA overrules the state laws and the tax law remains the same.

      Overturn DOMA, and both civil union and married people will get the same rights. Don't overturn it and they will never have the same rights no matter what the California courts or laws say.

      In fact, they likely are shooting themselves in the foot. Obama could likely issue a executive order saying that civil unions are to be treated the same as marriages and the problem is resolved.

      But Obama is unlikely to suggest overturning DOMA because he does not support gay marriage:

      http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesbianactivism/p/BarackObama.htm

      he does seem fine with Civil Unions.

      We have voted on this 3 times, and this is the first time I voted for the measure. Not because I don't think gays should or should not marry, but because the courts stepped on the will of the people.

      And in doing so they did a great disservice to the very people they intended to protect. Had they waited a few more years for society to adapt and come around on the issue it would have been resolved. Waiting would make no difference, as the state cannot override DOMA.

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    365. Re:I don't get it by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      The primary reason that Google is opposing Proposition 8 is that they believe it is wrong and discriminatory. They say as much in their announcement. The business argument is a secondary one.

    366. Re:I don't get it by funwithBSD · · Score: 1

      The only flaw in that is that Civil Unions == Marriage from the viewpoint of State law.

      So there is no argument that they are treated differently under State law.

      Federal law is another case.

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    367. Re:I don't get it by mr_matticus · · Score: 1

      I refer to the McWhirter-Sanders study (1990) on the subject, as your CDC study curiously is not cited. It is indeed a Kinsey Institute study, but not a Kinsey study. If you can refer to a more recognized, professional institution studying sexual behavior, please do. In the study, nearly 14% of respondents had "more than incidental" homosexual relations. Assuming each one of those is a potential marriage, 13% of the population has potentially been impacted. This is the high end of the figure.

      There is also a 2008 Joseph Fried study on the subject indicating a total percentage of approximately 9.8% (broken down among political affiliations for the curious) homosexual relationship experience.

      http://www.law.ucla.edu/williamsinstitute/publications/SameSexCouplesandGLBpopACS.pdf

      Self-identified population is over 4%; this is a fraction of the actual number and recognizes its own internal problems in methodology.

      Your essential mistake is in assuming that only "out" and fully homosexual individuals may wish to marry. Instead, the figure should include anyone who has had more than an incidental same-sex relationship (i.e. everyone but the one-time "experiments"), and thus you are grossly underestimating the percentage. Still, the essential point, that it is a "very small" minority, is simply invalid. They're almost all "very small" minorities; even if you use an overly conservative 5% figure, you've still got a population larger than almost any individual ethnic or religious minority in this country.

    368. Re:I don't get it by serutan · · Score: 1

      I think I see where you're coming from but I don't think tolerance is the logical contradiction you make it out to be. It's not an abstraction where anything goes and criticizing anybody is wrong. In practical terms it means we reach a consensus about what is tolerable and what isn't. Slavery is not a tolerable practice in today's world. Neither is cannibalism or having sex with three-year-olds. Certain things we just don't tolerate, but the idea is to keep that range of intolerance narrow and as well defined as possible, keep it as much a consensus as possible, and not use one group's rulebook as the standard.

    369. Re:I don't get it by ShakaUVM · · Score: 1

      >>Christians citing monogamous heterosexual marriage as something ordained by God, when the monogamous part of it was in fact pressed upon the Hebrews

      In Old Testament Judaism, it was certainly anything but monogamous. A lot of their social system wouldn't have worked under monogamy. For example, widows were taken care of by being married off to the younger brother of the deceased husband. It wasn't anything kinky (though it may seem that way to us), but a way of making sure these people were taken care of, and didn't starve to death. Then you have countless other examples, with Abraham and Solomon being the most famous examples of non-monogaminity. Maimondes believed that only kings (like Solomon... dunno what he made of Abraham) could have concubines, though this belief of his might have been in reaction to the cultural norms of his time. Most Jewish scholars disagree, IIRC.

      All that said, you have to remember that Christians believe in this guy named Jesus, who, among other things, did an Expounding of the Law, in which he talked about Jewish laws, and why and how they should be followed. ("You have heard it said that X, but I say to you Y...", that sort of stuff.) He said that the intention was for one man and one woman, which is why you hear Christians saying this. Jesus said a number of things like that, like that Divorce was given to man since man was imperfect, not because Divorce was a good thing. It's actually quite interesting.

      That said, Paul said that you could be a polygamist and still be a Christian, so a thorough reading of the Christian Bible would result in something like, "Monogamy is preferred, but Polygamy is not going to send you to hell", or something like that.

      >>Marriage was first and foremost about kinship ties and property rights in most civilizations, not about procreation.

      If you're talking Jewish civilization, it really was about procreation. Do you remember God's promise to Abraham? If you believe in me, your offspring will be more numerous than the stars in the heavens. I think it really is important to look at Judaism through the lens of procreation - be fruitful and multiply is the only way that Judaism spreads. They don't proselytize.

      It also explains why homosexuality is an abomination.

    370. Re:I don't get it by Surt · · Score: 1

      Actuis, Alterno, Ensco ... sure many of the big names are in CA or WA, but MA has plenty of medium sized players.

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    371. Re:I don't get it by DaHat · · Score: 1

      Pick a side and stick with it will you? Originally you said:

      > This law prevents Google from giving same sex partners benefits for the same price. Insuring two unmarried people is far more expensive than two married people.

      Only to respond to my argument with:

      > Unless you can provide supporting documentation, I stand firm by the position that no matter how much clout or negotiating power you have, the same amount of clout results in a lower price to insure a married couple than to insure two "unrelated" people, as is the case for "normal" insurance rates.

      This article is about Google, not smaller third companies. Pick one, not both.

      Re: Supporting documentation... it's interesting that you expect me to prove the cost savings of bulk purchasing power, something that is well known not only in the insurance industry but in the economy as a whole. Instead... I suggest you do your own research into what major companies offer for same sex domestic partners... such as Microsoft and Google.

    372. Re:I don't get it by akayani · · Score: 1

      As gay man I thank God i didn't marry any of my BFs! I've never got to keep the dogs or cats without marriage. Maybe I could have demanded visiting rights? People who live together should have whatever status they require to feel secure. Just don't go asking me to 'marry you'!

    373. Re:I don't get it by mcnellis · · Score: 1

      "Gays can adopt" Well, in the states that haven't banned that ... seriously how the fuck can people make such bigoted laws like this? I thought we fixed that bullshit in the 60s.

    374. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. Anecdotal evidence
      2. "a *conservative* estimate of how many observably-heterosexual people"
      3. Broadly and idiotically misstating quote ("if 13% of US society were gay")
      4. "Even if 99% of all gays are totally "in the closet"...they're still more like half a percent of the total population" when at least 4% of 2008 voters told CNN they were gay.... ...yep, you're a troll or an idiot!

    375. Re:I don't get it by davidkv · · Score: 1

      For me, tolerance is about tolerating different beliefs, no matter how much I may disagree with them. It's about letting other people lead their lives as they wish. As long as they don't harm anyone else against their will.

      It has nothing to do with sweeping generalisations of others.

    376. Re:I don't get it by Score+Whore · · Score: 1

      I responded to the claim that there was no way to "prove" a relationship by pointing out that CA has a means to do so. Your post is entirely non-responsive to the question.

      However, if you want to eliminate separate but equal, then you might want to start with the arguments made by those who are for gay marriage. There isn't a single argument in favor of gay marriage that doesn't apply 100% to incestuous or plural marriages. Until the "Equality for All" crowd actually include all in their equality or figure out an objective argument to differentiate themselves, there is no particular reason to care about their manipulative tactics and arguments.

      Finally, something you might want to think about: forming a relationship is something you can do just because you exist, having everyone else recognize that relationship is a privilege. There is no right to have the rest of the world recognize every personality trait as equal in nature to every other personality trait.

    377. Re:I don't get it by kklein · · Score: 1

      Click here.

      Scroll down to "education."

      Seriously, that's a very well-known statistic.

    378. Re:I don't get it by Sparr0 · · Score: 1

      I never said anything about smaller companies.

      "Normal" price for insurance for a married couple vs an unmarried couple is significantly different. Whatever Google's bargaining power with an insurance company, they can negotiate equally lower prices for both sorts. Which means that it still costs them more money to hire (and provide benefits for) a gay employee, and that is the basis of this story.

    379. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      Nope...if you are a guy. and You suck one dick...

      You are gay.

      You either suck dick...or you do not, there is no in between.

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    380. Re:I don't get it by WNight · · Score: 1

      But stoning people for sex is A-OK. As is bringing children up to believe in a sky-fairy that wants them to kill for the forces of good.

      How about we ditch this fake tolerance stuff and just mock the people who believe in stupid shit? Instead we're supposed to pretend that grown-ups are sane even when they believe in a cross between Santa and Charles Manson (he doesn't exist, but he's sure you should kill in his name).

      The only important thing is that intolerance be based on real reasons, and acted upon at proper levels. I do not tolerate religious people (in general) because they are incapable of understanding cause and effect, the problems with faith, the problems inherent in trusting a human-written book claiming to be the word of god, etc, etc. I don't want them burned at the stake, merely not in my home, business, or school, and not mucking with the laws. I feel similarly about the Time-Cube guy, for similar reality denying reasons.

    381. Re:I don't get it by WNight · · Score: 1

      But the "Traditional Values" Coalition is religious, and thus liars. Why anyone felt the need to go beyond that is baffling.

      Religious fundies preaching their brand of genocide. Better than all the other brands of genocide. Yawn.

    382. Re:I don't get it by WNight · · Score: 2, Insightful

      But we don't subsidize expensive parts of child-rearing half as often as allow (which is like encourage for people who don't need much) people to have more, which is what the other guy was talking about.

      If we really want kids to go to school why do we arrange to give their parent's arcane tax breaks instead of just making schools free? If we want to make sure they eat well why do we send their parent's money for cigarettes and alcohol instead of having free food kiosks?

      Whatever the intention may be, it just serves to make children significantly cheaper for poor parents, insignificantly cheaper for richer parents, and do absolutely nothing to get the benefits to the children. It's like sending aid to refuge camps, via the dictator who put the people there...

    383. Re:I don't get it by CodyRazor · · Score: 1

      I think anyone with one quater of a working brain can infer that when they refer to "gays getting married" it implies two of the same sex. Do you know any gay men that want to marry women?

      Your bringing up some kind of irrelivant symantics issue, trying to say that all have equal rights. The issue is being able to marry who you want, and gays do not have that right, whereas straight men and women happen to. I have no idea what the point of what your trying to do is.

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    384. Re:I don't get it by WNight · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Okay. The right to marry a woman is one that everyone should have. Many feel a baby is essential to a family and if they cannot or choose not to carry one themselves, they should have the right to marry a woman to do so.

      The right to marry a man is one that anyone should have. On average men are larger, stronger, and earn more. If one desired feelings of physical or financial safety, perhaps while raising a child they themselves had, inherited (god-parent), or adopted, they should have the right to marry a man to help with the financial burden and protecting the child.

      Also, you wouldn't swear to your genetic status, it'd be tested.

      As for clothing restrictions on women, where it's being fought it's being fought on gender equality grounds. As a restriction that's placed on women, but not men, and not for a compelling reason to society, it is unreasonable and is being struck down. Other stupid laws, or legal systems that cling to them, will follow.

    385. Re:I don't get it by u38cg · · Score: 1

      Bit of a strawman, there, as suing the government of the day would have simply resulted in a free single fare ticket for the trip of a lifetime. And I don't really see why Google should have to compensate different employees differently because of their personal choices outside work.

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    386. Re:I don't get it by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      I don't think any breaks should be given to anyone just for being married or having kids.

      Those kids will pay our pensions when we'll be wry and old. And don't start waffling about your pensions being backed by funds. Because even those funds won't be worth anything if there's nobody around to perform any work.

      So there is actually a good case to be made to encourage people (who are biologically able to ...) to have kids.

      So, no...I don't think tax breaks should be there for anyone as a 'couple', straight or gay.

      I agree here. But if they've got kids, they should get a tax break IMHO. Oh, and please allow gay couples to adopt.

    387. Re:I don't get it by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      simple, where would you rather work? Company A where your marriage is legal, you get benefits and tax breaks for that... or Company B where you and your husband/wife are legally "just good friends".

      But how would California treat marriages concluded in other States? Aren't States supposed to recognize each other's administrative acts? So, couldn't you just fly over to Nevada, get married there, and come back?

    388. Re:I don't get it by Genda · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I saw a PBS program interviewing an anthropologist who's been studying baboons for the last 30 years. What was especially fascinating is that unlike other famous primate researchers who loved their objects of study, he admitted that for the most part he despised baboons. In his words "For the most part, they're machiavellian bastards." The alpha males pound on the betas, who pound on the lesser males, who pound on the females, who pound on the adolescents, and so it goes all the way to infants. No surprise, baboons suffer from all the stress diseases found in human beings. The only members of a baboon troup who seem not to suffer, are the Alpha males. As you can see, human beings have traveled a lesser distance from their primate relatives than they would like to admit.

      We can no longer afford to be driven by stupid, primitive, urges, not when the reptile brain being goaded has it's finger on the button which launches nukes, bio and chemo weapons, and god knows what other kinds of mass destruction. Xenophobia, Fundamentalist Magical Thinking, Bigotry based on any race, creed, religion, or sexual/gender expression, is simply an indulgence which our society can no longer afford.

      What makes America great, is that human freedom, and the right to be, outweighs fear, and prejudice, and ignorance. You have the right not to agree with what people say or do... If you find pork or shellfish unclean, don't eat them. That doesn't give you the right, to go around killing others for eating those things, it doesn't even give you the right to legislate the rights of others away. Everyone is born into a culture. Each culture has an innate sense of what it finds taboo, unacceptable, and morally proper. However, those various taboos, differ from culture to culture (a pretty good hints that such behaviors have no basis in universal absolutes.) If we're going to live on the same planet, we can't go around paving our beliefs over the bodies of others. That's how wars start, and I'd be very happy to end the global conversation "I'm right and I'm perfectly willing to kill you to prove it" once and for all.

    389. Re:I don't get it by master_p · · Score: 1

      That's what you get for living in America: company policy dictates every aspect of your life.

      In Europe, if you live in a country that recognizes gay marriages, the company has nothing to say about that.

    390. Re:I don't get it by jonasj · · Score: 1

      I'm not really sure you live in a very diverse area. I've worked in semiconductors, and know plenty of people in the software business. Gay's are not a minority. Most gays are usually quite well educated, which is more than I can say regarding the majority of Americans.

      Gays are a minority in America. They're not a minority in higher-level jobs requiring an education.

      I don't get it. Are you seriously saying that most (or half of) people working in higher-level jobs are gay? That there are as many or more gays as not working in those jobs? Or does the word "minority" have some unique meaning here that I'm totally unaware of?

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    391. Re:I don't get it by OeLeWaPpErKe · · Score: 1

      For me, tolerance is about tolerating different beliefs, no matter how much I may disagree with them. It's about letting other people lead their lives as they wish. As long as they don't harm anyone else against their will.

      It has nothing to do with sweeping generalisations of others.

      Muslims harm others against their will all the time. So do Buddhists, Hindus, Christians, Jews and every last flying spaghetti monster believer. So does every other ideology. And even when ideologies are not involved, one can find trivial examples of people who do not follow your rule : So does the police. So does the army. So do parents with their children.

      And if they (parents/army/police) didn't, the only law that would carry any weight is the law of the jungle.

      Do you understand the problem with the answer you've given ? It does not provide an actual course of action in any meaningful sense of the word, and does not survive even a basic analysis.

      Obviously one can make generalizations about others. If we couldn't do that we couldn't have science at all. All muslims believe islam is just, therefore all muslims believe slavery is just. Let's not forget that mohamed is not, at all, like Jesus. Today, in ANY state, muslim or not, he would be shot on sight, he was a massacring thief, guilty of half a dozen religious genocides, hundreds of stealings and killings. Nobody, not even ahmadinejad would tolerate that kind of behavior in anyone. Muslims, however find his conduct praiseworthy. Why ? Because he won (well, mostly, and obviously it stopped when he got older, but ...). Such a statement is the same as saying that cherries are red. It's stating the properties of a known, well-defined object, nothing more.

      Allow me to ask you a question. Suppose you have a daughter. A muslim kidnaps her and puts her "to work" in a brothel. What is the correct course of action ? (note that this does not qualify as "harm" in sharia, after all, nothing illegal happened, so there cannot be harm)

      1) use whatever means and whatever violence necessary to enforce YOUR ideas about the treatment of people on them. Calling the police is obviously in this category.

      But make no mistake about what you're doing. You're using (potentially lethal) violence against someone who did something that's perfectly okay by his own standards.

      2) you work within the boundaries of his ideology to recover her, and give up on your own ideology. A practical application would be that you do not tell anyone, certainly not tell the police, and attempt to buy her back.

      3) you do nothing.

      Obviously the only marginally tolerant course of action is 2 or 3.

      Do tell what you do in this case. Are you tolerant ? Or are you violently intolerant ? Do you enlist the aid of the largest army in the world in forcing your rules, your beliefs, on others or not ?

    392. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, um, of those three, Google can only find Ensco. And it's not located in Massachusetts: it's located in Virginia.

      So, try again.

    393. Re:I don't get it by OeLeWaPpErKe · · Score: 1

      What makes America great, is that human freedom, and the right to be, outweighs fear, and prejudice, and ignorance. You have the right not to agree with what people say or do... If you find pork or shellfish unclean, don't eat them. That doesn't give you the right, to go around ...

      In other words, what makes America great is the enforcement of a Christian (protestant to be exact) ruleset, not just on the inhabitants of America where a big part of that specific ideology is enforced, but on the inhabitants of the whole world a part of it is enforced (what do you think the American fleet is doing all around the world) (and no I don't disagree with it's presence, quite the opposite, I believe that without that fleet there would hardly be any international trade at all).

      If we're going to live on the same planet, we can't go around paving our beliefs over the bodies of others. That's how wars start, and I'd be very happy to end the global conversation "I'm right and I'm perfectly willing to kill you to prove it" once and for all.

      This runs afoul of one of the basic principles of our world : evolution. After all, everybody knows that due to the basic economic problem (everybody wants everything, but the only things available are those made available by other humans, and therefore not everybody can have everything), there is NO way to end wars (not having wars requires people VOLUNTARY starving due to being outcompeted for scarce resources, what are the chances of that happening any time soon ?).

      Unless that voluntary starvation starts occuring in a big way, it would be foolish in the extreme to wait for resources to actually run out before starting wars. In order to conquer as big a part of the available resources as possible, you'd want to start wars as soon as you could possibly win them (let's put it this way : "hamas-style").

      If there is enough food, well distributed, evolution states that the population will increase until it meets the limits of the food availability (this certainly happened, and is continuing, in Gaza). Therefore the human population is always a few tiny percentage points away from letting at least a few people starve, but in practice quite a number of people would starve.

      As demonstrated in the past. Massive economic growth (outpacing human population growth, ie. the worst performing region must have an annual growth > 1.5%) can temporarily end wars. Some 10-30 years or so. After that, wars restart.

      But hey ... suppose we don't have kids, which would prevent the above necessity ? Then we die alone and forgotten of hunger, unable to care for ourselves. The space we occupy on earth would quickly be "conquered" or "settled" by a group that DOES have kids.

      Do we voluntarily end population growth ? Then we will be outcompeted by another group of humans who does not do so, and we'll VERY quickly find ourselves a minority, that is exposed to the wars the other group creates anyway. (this is essentially what happened to the Serbs in Kosovo, or the Jews in Gaza)

      Let the state control population ? We all know what sort of laws are necessary for doing that (after all, it has to involve killing babies because they're not "approved" by the state). Those laws would NOT be part of "what makes america great".

    394. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      On a different topic, I'm curious as to why Google would think that Prop 8 would prevent them from offering any benefits they desired? All it does is define what a marriage is. If Google wants to offer insurance benefits that include gay partners, well they can do so

      Google, like many companies, does offer health insurance benefits to same-sex partners. However, a lot of gay people with partners do not take advantage of the benefit because of tax reasons. If you're married, the money paid by your employer for your health insurance is not regarded as income for tax purposes. If you're not married, it *is* taxable.

      Separate is not equal...

    395. Re:I don't get it by mauronr · · Score: 1

      On hiring/layoffs, as all crisis in the past, this one will eventually settle and after it does companies (current ans new ones) will start hiring again.

      And when they do, they don't want to be prevented from hiring skilled people just because she/he is married to someone of the same sex.

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    396. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Good points, but the delivery made me think of Jeff Foxworthy. For that, I wish you were modded down.

    397. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      So someone would finally go to the movies again, theaters can sell their overpriced popcorn and hollywood can at least claim that some people watched the crap they crank out now. It's win-win, what else would you want?

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    398. Re:I don't get it by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      And if the answer is "you shouldn't be tolerant to intolerance" ... where do you go with that.

      To the end.

      To what do you do if you "do not tolerate the intolerant" ? Do you attack muslims in the US ? (Neo-)nazi's in the US ?

      First of all, it's s/US/my country/. But otherwise - no, I do not attack them physically (well, I will do so to those who physically attack others), but I certainly do fight against their ideology, and the attempts to enshrine it as law or enforce it otherwise (i.e. some places have Muslim "morality squads" raping women who "asked for it by dressing immodestly").

      Do you enforce what basically amounts to US law with an army world-wide ?

      This one's harder. On one hand, I'm not a great believer into moral relativism (I do acknowledge that is is objectively the case, but as a human being, I nonetheless regard the moral and ethical principles of my own - Western - culture as leading to less suffering overall, and thus superior). However, the point is not to enforce the law for the sake of doing so - the point is to reduce the suffering. And you can't do so by occupying countries and imposing values that are presently foreign to them by force - they will just revolt, and then you'll have to find them, producing even more suffering in the process.

      No, what we actually need is a "cultural assault" from the outside to get our message across, combined with some form of progressorship to accelerate the natural development of less developed cultures, and to nudge it away from the more destructive dead-ends on the way that we've been in ourselves (such as totalitarianism in all its forms - bolshevism, fascism, Nazism).

    399. Re:I don't get it by davidkv · · Score: 1

      I consider hypothetical questions like that of little use. Anyone trying to harm me or my kids in a serious way would certainly not be tolerated to do so. I think most people would agree on that.

      I have no problems at all with any of the muslim, ahteist or gay people that I know. They live their life without harming other people (to the extent that one can do that reasonably).

      Again, it's about tolerating different views on life, even if you disagree wholeheartedly with some of those views.
      If most people would do that, we would have a lot less problems in our society.

      One of the biggest problems today is religious politicians trying to turn their own moral values into law, and by that limiting other peoples personal freedom.

    400. Re:I don't get it by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      It seems to me a bit of a contradiction on your claim that Jewish marriage was primarily about procreation when you observe that it actually performed a role for providing what were essentially social services, caring for widows, maintaining the extended kinship network, etc. While Judaism actually did have some periods of proselytization, you are, I think, right in noting Judaism's emphasis on procreation. But that was partially orthogonal, at least in antiquity, to the social function of marriage.

    401. Re:I don't get it by ShakaUVM · · Score: 1

      >>It seems to me a bit of a contradiction on your claim that Jewish marriage was primarily about procreation when you observe that it actually performed a role for providing what were essentially social services, caring for widows, maintaining the extended kinship network, etc

      It was both. If a widow married a younger brother, the younger brother was not only obligated to take care of her, but to also have babies with her. I don't think it gets clearer than that... Onan's sin wasn't what it is normally thought of... it was because he was essentially refusing to make a baby in this situation, so God struck him down in the story.

    402. Re:I don't get it by kazoolist · · Score: 1

      Then you are unreasonably picky or massively ill-informed. Even with proposition 8 in place, homosexual couples in domestic partnership are still effectively granted every benefit a heterosexual married couple has. The ONLY differences are the name of the institution and that domestic partnerships aren't recognized outside the state.

    403. Re:I don't get it by kazoolist · · Score: 1

      The above two comments are what I resent most about the gay marriage debate. Those of us opposed to gay marriage are flippantly referred to being outside the group of "normal folks" and called "religious bigots." In fact, we're the normal ones. California had a vote, and the gay marriage opponents were the majority. And we're not bigots. We don't hate gay people. We just think there is value in having marriages be only between opposite sex people. We don't deserve to be flown to Iran or having you call us names.

    404. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      Whats even more disturbing is getting your entire world view from wikipedia.

    405. Re:I don't get it by Surt · · Score: 1

      The problem is, you've aligned yourself, whether thoughtfully or not, with the people who opposed interracial marriage. You're on the side of evil, and you are both a bigot and surrounded by more bigots. You want to oppress a minority with your religious majority views. That's what the taliban is all about, Mr. Kazoolist Talibani.

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    406. Re:I don't get it by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      Yes, that's exactly what I did. I know nothing about the Southern Poverty Law Center. Couldn't possibly have heard about them anywhere else, and I definitely didn't pick the Wikipedia link because it's a short summary, which seems to be pretty accurate in this case, for the benefit of anyone who just wants a quick overview.

      By the way, the groups I listed came from SLPC's website, not Wikipedia, and the quotation that I used came from plnix0's link. So, actually, there's no mention of or reference to Wikipedia in the post you're replying to.

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    407. Re:I don't get it by lwsimon · · Score: 1

      Are you impaired?

      Its a constitutional amendment. If it was already consistent with what's in there, they wouldn't have to amend it, now would they?

      Some of the others have raised valid points about the procedure to modify the CA Constitution, and whether or not it creates a contradiction.

      You, however, seem to be incapable of understanding what we're talking about.

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    408. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      How exactly is that bigoted?

      Ignoring the implication that it is some sort of retribution towards gays, how can you justify that it is bigoted? You can't, at least not without inferring some malicious intent toward gays. However, many states who banned the gay from adopting don't even consider gayness in the first place. These don't let straight people adopt when they are single outside of some rare circumstances usually surrounding a familiar relationship with the child. If I was to say the best environment for an adopted child is with a family that can support the child who are legally married to show stability in their relationship and who own their own home or have a credit rating capable of owning a home, and no serious criminal convictions in their past, then the question of Gay never comes up. Sure, gays who aren't legally married will be excluded in that, but so will known child molesters, single people with no relations to the child, drug dealers, convicted felons, bankrupt people, poor people who don't pay their bills and so on. If that was law, how could you justify it as bigoted?

    409. Re:I don't get it by Alsee · · Score: 1

      Yeah, you really need to work on your reading comprehension. Nowhere did he say or imply "majority".

      Although I will point out that such majorities are rapidly approaching. In the US approval of interracial marriage polled at about 20% when it the Supreme Court legalized it nationwide, and approval of interracial marriage only broke the 50% majority approval level in 1994.

      In the US acceptance of gay marriage is rising about TWICE as fast as interracial marriage gained acceptance. Acceptance of gay marriage will hit majority level in California within a year or so, and it will have nationwide majority acceptance not long after that.

      It's a simple fact of demographics. The younger generation overwhelmingly accepts gay marriage as a civil rights and equal rights issue, and opposition is overwhelmingly concentrated in the older and senior generation. Some in the older generation are slowly becoming more comfortable with the idea, and those that aren't are just plain dying out at a faster rate. It is the exact same thing that happened with interracial marriage. The war is effectively over. The younger generation wins, PERIOD. Even if that means they have to bury the older generation to do it.

      I haven't looked into any sort of international figures on gay marriage, but it is blatantly obvious that things are only going in one direction. A slow steady stream of countries are switching to recognize gay marriage as an equal rights civil rights issue. It's a clear step by step progression towards majority.

      I'm sure Islamic theocratic nations will in particular steadfastly remain on the no-gay-marriage side for the foreseeable future, however I would not exactly consider them a positive credit for the team of nations denying gay marriage.

      The law has absolutely no business examining the race, gender, or religion of people to discriminate different treatment under the law. In the US it is impossible to write a constitutionally valid marriage law excluding interracial marriage because the law should not and CANNOT examine the races of marriage applicants as a basis to grant or deny marriages. In the exact same way and for the exact same reason, it is impossible to write a constitutionally marriage law excluding gay marriage because the law should not and cannot examine the genders of marriage applicants as a basis to grant or deny marriages.

      You probably agree that the law should be blind to race and gender and religion, yet you run into a logical conflict when you want marriage law to examine races to ban interracial marriage or you want the law to examine genders to ban gay marriage.

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    410. Re:I don't get it by Alsee · · Score: 1

      I think he kinda butchered his point.

      Rather than talking about "smart people", I will personally refer to computer programmers (which presumably would be the smart people he intended to refer to).

      As a group computer programmers, gay or not, are far more accepting of gays and gay marriage than the average public. As a group, programmers are far less religious or religiously fundamentalist than the average public. Even the slightest familiarity with Slashdot should be sufficient to essentially establish those two points.

      So setting aside his "smartness" reference, yes, perspective Google employees are indeed particularly likely to be gay or to be affirmatively concerned with gay-as-a-civil-rights-issue, and for Google to have an almost nonexistent problem of religious fundamentalists wanting avoiding a gay marriage state.

      One could engage in some interesting discussion and speculation why the gay-acceptance/gay-rights correlation and unreligious correlation are true for programmers as a group, but the whys don't really matter to this particular point.

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    411. Re:I don't get it by Alsee · · Score: 1

      I agree the Iran comment was unfair, but I did find it funny. Anywho...

      California had a vote, and the gay marriage opponents were the majority.

      In 1968 the public polling on interracial marriage was 20% approve, 74% disapprove.

      In fact interracial marriage only reached 50% a democratic majority vote support in 1994.

      No, you do not get to 51%-majority-vote on civil rights and Constitutional issues. The reason the interracial marriage bans were nationally struck down in 1968 was because of the Equal Protection Clause of the US Constitution. The law cannot use race, gender, or religion as a basis for discriminating different governmental treatment. It is impossible to write a constitutionally valid law excluding interracial marriage because the law cannot examine the races of individuals applying for marriage, and use that as a basis to discriminate which applications are approved by law or rejected by law. In exactly the same way and for exactly the same reason, it is impossible to write a valid marriage law that excludes gay couples. It is wrong and unconstitutional for the law to examine the genders of marriage applicants as a basis to discriminate legally approved marriages vs legally denied marriages.

      You probably agree that the law should be blind to race, gender, and religion. Wanting to to make an exception for marriage law, wanting to the law to examine the genders of marriage applicants in order to deny gay marriages, that is legally no different than examining the races of marriage applicants to exclude interracial marriage.

      You can't have both. You can't have the law be blind to race/gender/religion, and simultaneously have the law examine the genders of marriage applicants to exclude matching-gender marriage applications.

      We don't hate gay people. We just think there is value in having marriages be only between opposite sex people.

      Do you have any doubt that some opponent of interracial marriage said essentially the same thing at some point? Why would your comment there have any more weight than the equivalent comment on racial marriage have had then?

      There is almost no argument against gay marriage that doesn't translate directly into an identical argument that was used somewhere somewhen by someone against interracial marriage. Virtually the only line of argument unique to gay marriage are those relating to the inability of a gay couple to directly conceive children. And all of those arguments fall flat at the mention of infertile couples and postmenopausal women and the like. We routinely grant marriages to couples who will not or cannot conceive children on their own.

      Go ahead, try it as a game. Aside from fertility, see how many gay marriage arguments you can think of, and for each one try translating gender into race and any other minimally necessary translations, and see how many of your own arguments could equally have been claimed against interracial marriage.

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    412. Re:I don't get it by Alsee · · Score: 1

      one-way ticket to Iran.

      Oh come now.... lets be generous and make it a round trip ticket with a year layover. There is the remote possibility that he would actually learn something.

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    413. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1
      Granted, human nature does tend toward lying, but I wouldn't go so far as to say that honesty is "inhuman". Regardless of one's opinion of homosexual relationships, calling one a marriage is a lie.

      And no, abortion is not illegal for men. There are many men who perform abortions. That's not the only way in which your analogy fails, however.

      Your last example is interesting. Outlawing heterosexual marriage would have the same effect as legislating the term "marriage" for homosexual relationships. The effect would be in statue only. Heterosexual marriages would not cease to exist; they would simply be illegal. Likewise, legislation cannot bring homosexual marriage, a contradiction in terms, into existence.

      You are obviously confusing egalitarianism with justice. No, it would not be fair to outlaw marriage and only permit homosexual relationships. While everyone under such a law would have equality under the law -- everyone would be legally permitted to engage in homosexual relationships and noone would be permitted to marry -- equality is far from a decent standard for justice. Equality just means everyone's chains are the same length.

    414. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1
      Or better yet, take the welfare out of the law -- it has no place there.

      As good as that sounds, I'm afraid it's not terribly realistic.

      Why not? In the specific case of the income tax, which is the main tax where this particular "discrimination" arises, it is certainly realistic. We've only had an income tax for fewer than 100 years anyway. Why should it be seen as necessary?

      In the more general sense, eliminating government may be a more realistic goal than you realize. Certainly there is a lot of opposition to such an idea, but education, in theory, can overcome that. There are no real practical barriers to a market anarchy where individual liberty abounds. Any service or product which people now expect the government to provide is by definition a service or product which is in demand and thus one which private individuals and groups would provide on the market. For those without money, charity would abound in a free society where those inclined to give would have much more of their own of which to give.

    415. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1

      You know, most people grow out of saying "I know you are but what am I?" as a rebuttal by the time they can type....

      You missed the point completely. I was refuting your fallacious appeal to authority argument. Appealing to the SPLC is just as bad as quoting the TVC in the first place.

      By the way, why does anyone have to "resist the imposition of anti-Christian regulations and statutes on free people."?

      This is not the position of the TVC, but the answer is because all government is of violence and theft and is hence anti-Christian. But you don't have to be Christian to realize that.

    416. Re:I don't get it by Xest · · Score: 1

      Because back then that was the default state and California was on a positive slope away from discrimination.

      Now however it looks like the trend is reversing and California is moving towards an agenda of greater discrimination.

      Being somewhere progressive is a lot more attractive than being somewhere that's going downhill.

    417. Re:I don't get it by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      And we're not bigots. We don't hate gay people. We just think there is value in having marriages be only between opposite sex people

      Okay, taking your comment at face value. What non-religious based or non-"ewww, gay sex" based argument do you have for why marriages should be restricted to only opposite sex people?

    418. Re:I don't get it by FireStormZ · · Score: 1

      Actually no, my argument is that comparing Schindler who lost his fortune and riksed his life is made less when comparing it to Google posting a frivilous law suit..

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    419. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1

      I find it interesting that rather than try to distance themselves from the groups on the SLPC's list, these folks just scream liberal-conspiracy and claim that the list targets innocent conservative groups.

      Oh, and the TVC does distance itself from groups like the Aryan Nation:

      As Don Feder has observed: âoeWhat makes the Southern Poverty Law Center particularly odious is its habit of taking legitimate conservatives and jumbling them with genuine hate groups (the Klan, Aryan Nation, skinheads, etc.), to make it appear that thereâ(TM)s a logical relationship between say, opposing affirmative action and lynching, or demands for an end to government services for illegal aliens and attacks on dark-skinned immigrants.â

    420. Re:I don't get it by OeLeWaPpErKe · · Score: 1

      First of all, it's s/US/my country/. But otherwise - no, I do not attack them physically (well, I will do so to those who physically attack others), but I certainly do fight against their ideology, and the attempts to enshrine it as law or enforce it otherwise (i.e. some places have Muslim "morality squads" raping women who "asked for it by dressing immodestly").

      You might want to watch what's happening in Europe ... in "the most tolerant country on earth" (the Netherlands) gays are killed in public parks in the capital city by muslims.

      They are literally using babies as a weapon. And without direct violence against them, your convincing doesn't stand a chance.

    421. Re:I don't get it by OeLeWaPpErKe · · Score: 1

      You're afraid of the question, but you do answer it : when your ideology conflicts with another one, you use violence to enforce your "vision on life" :

      I consider hypothetical questions like that of little use. Anyone trying to harm me or my kids in a serious way would certainly not be tolerated to do so. I think most people would agree on that.

      I suggest you do not go into a mosque and listen to what they're saying there. You won't like it, and one look at the crowd will tell you that the violence islam so clearly calls for will not stay nice and theoretical in their books.

      Why do you have to beat around the bush so badly ? You would use violence to defend your view of life. Simple as that.

      You would even (try to) use said violence against them in "their countries".

    422. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Equality, or let's say fairness, justness or whatever you prefer to call it when everyone is allowed to gain the same benefits, first of all means that everyone has the same right. Now, you claim that everyone already has the same rights because homosexuals as well as heterosexuals can marry someone from the opposite sex, but neither group is allowed to marry someone from the same sex.

      Either you fail to see why this is not fair, or you try to twist it to have an argument. You have two groups. You give both groups the same right. The problem with it is that one group can actually benefit from this right, one group cannot. You deny both groups another right, and again, one group is harmed by not having this right while the other group is not affected by not having this right.

      One thing I have to admit, it is hard to come up with a sensible counter example to visualize why this doesn't mean fair and equal treatment of heterosexuals and homosexuals. Mostly because this is about the only minority group that I could think of that gets actually discriminated against in such a way.

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    423. Re:I don't get it by DaHat · · Score: 1

      > Whatever Google's bargaining power with an insurance company, Which means that it still costs them more money to hire a gay employee

      My god are you thick, you've never negotiated for something in your life have you? How about seen the results of such a thing? Google through its shear mass can tell an insurance company what they are willing to pay (ie same cost for married vs same sex coupled)... and if the insurance company refuses... they move on to another company.

      It's called doing business... or do you just take the first offer handed to you?

      Did you know it tends to cost more to insure a smoker vs a non-smoker? Unless the company negotiates that cost away... last company I worked for did just that... they opted to have a single rate within the company, smoker or non.

      If that poo-dunk little company of ~150 people in South Dakota can do that... lord knows Google can do far more.

      Granted this is /. ... I've been nice and tried to explain things in a simple way to you and yet you refuse to listen or comprehend... which is why this conversation ends now.

    424. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You engage in a vigorous campaign of economic/cultural warfare. You don't force it upon them, you just say, "Hey, look, here you can do X, Y and Z that you couldn't do back over there."

      If they want it, they will come.

    425. Re:I don't get it by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      The incentives of tax money are a moot point. Nature, not tax breaks encourage people to have kids. People will fuck, they always will....and they will have kids as a result.

      They did in droves before the concept of a tax break, they will if it is repealed.

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    426. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      So your saying Google, a large corporation is claiming that it is harmed by the way something was done because it amended the state's constitution through the very same existing laws that lead to the smoking ban in public restaurants and such.

      So if we don't like the idea of a corporation attempting to limit the power of the people of a state, then we should boycott Google. Ok, I just changed all my default search pages to something else now. I don't use anything else they offer. But I'm seriously wondering how anyone could think this is a good thing? A company attempting to limit the established rights of a state that existed well before the company was thought of let alone materialized. The content of the prop 8 doesn't really matter because and all the other laws made by amending the constitution in this way will be at risk of invalidation too. I wonder if the "oh gays need to marry" crowd have thought about all they could be destroying? Since 2000 alone, props 32, 35, 39, 42, 43, 48, 58, 59, 60, 60a, 71, 2006 1a, 99, 2008's 8, 9, and 11. Some of those amendments consist of limits on eminent domain seizures for private companies, I'm sure walmart or sleazy company would have standing on that. Some of them deal with political redistricting and Gerrymandering or open government and making sure the public has transparent access to information about what their state is doing, then there's the balanced budget act and all.

      Virtually any constitutional amendment passed by voter referendum would be invalid and unless the courts are willing to selectively administrate justice, they will fall on the first challenge from anyone who can claim standing. I guess all I can say is good going Google, Do no evil right, just make it as easy as possible for others to.

    427. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1
      You still don't seem to understand. I don't "deny" anyone any right. Human beings cannot grant or deny rights. I believe that people should keep all the rights they have, but I refuse to make up other "rights" and pretend that they exist.

      You essentially claim that people should be able to marry regardless of gender, i.e. that any person, male or female, has the right to marry a man, and vice versa. This argument is comparable to the claim that everyone should have the right to be (naturally) 7 feet tall. The physical fact is that not everyone is 7 feet tall, whether he has the "right" to be or not. Likewise, a male is not physically capable of marrying a male; only a female can accomplish that task.

      Let's say the government gives out "7 foot tall licenses" or "certificates of being 7 feet tall" to every 7-foot-tall person who applies for one. Over time, government passes laws which treat people with these certificates differently than people without them, and people clamor for equality. The shorter population demands that "certificates of being 7 feet tall" be granted to anyone who applies and finally a circuit court proclaims that the government must certify anyone who applies as being 7 feet tall, regardless of qualifications.

      My argument is that a 5-foot tall lady who bears a government-granted "certificate of being 7 feet tall" is still 5 feet tall.

    428. Re:I don't get it by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      From your own link:

      On the other hand, arguments from authority are an important part of informal logic. Since we cannot have detailed knowledge of a great many topics, we must often rely on the judgments of those who do. There is no fallacy involved in simply arguing that the assertion made by an authority is true, in contrast to claiming that the authority is infallible in principle and can hence be exempted from criticism: It can be true, the truth can merely not be proven, or made probable by attributing it to the authority, and the assumption that the assertion was true might be subject to criticism and turn out to have actually been wrong. If a criticism appears that contradicts the authority's statement, then merely the fact that the statement originated from the authority is not an argument for ignoring the criticism.

      I did not assert that the SLPC is infallible. The SLPC specializes in identifying and tracking hate groups, it is perfectly reasonable to use them as a reference in this instance. You're attempting to use "appeal to authority" in such a broad manner that the only arguments and evidence that can be used are those you have first hand knowledge of, and it's impossible to have an expert level of first hand knowledge on every topic.

      This is not the position of the TVC, but the answer is because all government is of violence and theft and is hence anti-Christian. But you don't have to be Christian to realize that.

      That's as stupid a comment as saying that all government is loving and benevolent. Firstly, without any government, you have anarchy. Adolescent "Red Dawn" style fantasies aside, chances are you, like most people, would be considerably worse off without it. Secondly, Christians are not an oppressed minority. Their religious views carry too much weight in law and government, not too little. Keep your religion to yourself, practice it as you wish, and nobody will care what you want to believe. But again and again the Christian right attempts to force it's teachings on those of us who consider it just another superstition, and then cry oppression when we call them on it. Keep your religion out of my life, thanks.

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    429. Re:I don't get it by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      Okay, they do in a different page. If they were concerned about it, they probably should have included it in the article that was posted here earlier, but in reading a few of their articles I now understand consistency is not really their concern, other than a consistent theme of attacking everyone who's not so far to the right that they're about to fall off the map. Believe it or not, I'm not planning on reading every article that appears on that site. Most of what I've read is a combination of paranoia and flat out stupidity, and I'm not going to waste any more time on them than is necessary to get an idea of who they are.
      Follow your religion all you want, but those of us who don't belong to it don't appreciate you attempting to codify your unsubstantiated beliefs into our legal and political systems, and that's clearly a major goal of the Traditional Values Coalition.

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    430. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Maybe we define marriage differently, since I see no physical reason why anyone should not be able to marry anyone else. Care to share your definition?

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    431. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      Well, you see, the equal protection is still there even with marriage being defined between a man and a woman.

      Whether your gay straight or like to practice bestiality doesn't matter because you still have the right to marry a person of the opposite sex. The state laws say nothing of love and it is not a requirement to get married so saying that based on some religious artifact of love you would be discriminated from isn't really a valid option. Gays would still have the exact same right as anyone else to marry a person of the opposite sex. Because they choose not to do that is their own willingly Secession from the practice not the state discriminating towards them.

    432. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      The point he made was that being gay or straight, you both have the same rights- to marry someone of the opposite sex. Neither of you can marry someone of the same sex nor can you marry another species nor can you marry objects. From an equal perception, you aren't prohibited from marrying anything that anyone else isn't prohibited from marrying therefore there can't be any discrimination.

      The problem arises when you examine why people would want to get married. However, the law doesn't place any obligations or requirements in this way. You are not required to love your (future) spouse, your not required to remain faithful (except in Tennessee), your not required to even live in the same house or take the same last name. So what the gays really want isn't equal rights but a separate but similar right to do something that no one can do right now (except in a few states).

      This is something that pisses me off. It isn't discrimination any more then not wearing shoes and seeing a sign that says no shirt, no shoes, no service. Because you black, straight, gay, biracial or foreign doesn't matter and is no specific discrimination based on those grounds. The entire claim of not being equal is a convoluted attempt to capitalize on the feelings of remorse when we really did discriminate against people. But gays aren't being required to sit at the back of the bus, they don't have to use special drinking fountains or side service doors to enter establishments, they aren't being denied jobs that white people are doing, and you don't have white dude dressing in pillowcases coming around at 3 in the morning to put you in your place.

    433. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      Don't be so quick to assume I was speaking against you.

      But you did pull information from his links to pit them against each other.

    434. Re:I don't get it by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      You said:

      Whats even more disturbing is getting your entire world view from wikipedia.

      You for some reason decided to pronounce that I get my "entire world view" from wikipedia. This was both unwarranted and unfounded.

      But you did pull information from his links to pit them against each other.

      What?
      Yes, I pulled information from his links, why wouldn't I?

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    435. Re:I don't get it by cp.tar · · Score: 1

      Yes. At least those who have not yet heard of contraception, which I find an amazing concept.

      No-one (or at least no-one sane) will decide to have another kid just to get a tax break. However, when funds are tight, that break can mean the difference between another child and an abortion, if it so happened that the contraceptives failed.

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    436. Re:I don't get it by Ihmhi · · Score: 1

      Right, because our orphanages aren't full yet.

    437. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      This has nothing to do with telling private companies what they can offer. It has to do with telling them what they are required to offer. Ohio has a ban on same sex marriage written in much the same ways as Michigan and CA's laws are and we can find insurance offering coverage or people living together but not married. The city of Columbus Ohio offers this to all their employees.

      The entire "telling private companies" bit is nothing but FUD designed to get people like you who wouldn't pay attention to the law's actual working and intent to vote against it. The only marriage can be considered part is dealing with laws that mandate coverage to certain people. Currently under most state laws, employers are required to cover the spouse and children of someone who is eligible if the employer provides insurance and insurance companies are required to offer coverage to them too. If an insurance company want to extend coverage to other people living in the same dwelling, they are more then allowed to. You just can't force them to cover a Civil union like you can with Marriage. And as we have seen in Ohio, the free market has stepped up and provided coverage and city government as well as large corporations are doing business with them so much that it's hard to find a company that doesn't have a policy similar (even if it isn't the one your employer offers).

    438. Re:I don't get it by Mr.+Mikey · · Score: 1

      Earlier that year, the California State Supreme Court ruled that, based on the text of the State Constitution, there was no justification for barring same-sex couples from the institution of marriage.

      Proposition 8 was put on the ballot, and passed by about 53% of the vote.

      However, there are several questions as to whether or not that Proposition was valid, both from the standpoint of whether or not this particular change qualifies as an Amendment or a Revision (which requires a 2/3 vote of the Legislature to get on the ballot, vs. a simple petition requirement as is the case for an Amendment), and there is a question as to whether or not the text of this Amendment is a valid change to the Constitution on legal grounds (in case you didn't know, not every change, via any language, is permissible).

      No, I am not impaired. Thanks for asking. I've lived in California for about twenty years. How about you?

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    439. Re:I don't get it by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      They are literally using babies as a weapon. And without direct violence against them, your convincing doesn't stand a chance.

      Don't worry, I personally am quite ready to meet violence with violence, deadly if need be. I firmly believe that the Good Guys have the right to defend themselves against the Bad Guys (and I know where the line is, without all that PC crap).

      That said, yeah, Western Europe needs to learn that lesson still. Eastern one is thinking more clearly when it comes to this.

    440. Re:I don't get it by davidkv · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I've been to a mosque, and I've listened to what's been said there. Have you?

      You seem to be on a mission to propagate misconceptions about islam. Fact is that most muslims are like everyone else. They want to live their life in peace.

      I agree that a lot of intolerance comes from religious teachings. In my view the dominant religions are often the worst, i.e. christianity here in the western world.
      As long as we keep church and state well separated that shouldn't need to pose a big problem. The law should not be based on religious views.

      As for your assumptions about me I can only tell you that you are wrong.

    441. Re:I don't get it by Sparr0 · · Score: 1

      What makes you think the company was paying the same price for the insurance just because the cost passed on to the smoking employees was the same? I have seen the same thing done at multiple employers, and it always involved the company subsidizing the insurance. Which, once again, means it costs the company more to hire that person.

    442. Re:I don't get it by CodyRazor · · Score: 1

      Clearly you have no idea what a lot of gay people have to suffer through. I didn't finish my high school education because I was forced out of my school due to death threats. That made it difficult as fuck to get in to university but I finally managed to. You really have no clue of what you are talking about.

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    443. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      I originally was adding to your rant. Then I noticed (through your own admission) that you based your reply on the same Wikipedia rants. You said

      I find it interesting that rather than try to distance themselves from the groups on the SLPC's list, these folks just scream liberal-conspiracy and claim that the list targets innocent conservative groups. I've got news for you, the conservative movement really doesn't need these kinds of "conservatives".

      which made it appear that you have never visited the website or invested any time in attempting to see what they are doing. They have distanced themselves from those groups and you can find where they do on their websites. Further more, in order for your comment to be true, you would have had to soley rely on the Wikipedia entry knowing that it could have been created by anyone and even biased as examples of corruption on wikipedia have shown in the past. Well, that or your willing to ignore what you have found at other sites just to make the comment. I don't expect you to agree with them or anything, but I do expect you or anyone willing to make a comment to get their information from a source that doesn't have tenured professors with fake degrees and fake jobs living in mom's basement in KY or secrete editing groups pushing political motivations over facts. I mean even the policy of not posting something unless it cited from somewhere else is void when the article explaining Wikipedia's entry on something was used to justify the entry.

    444. Re:I don't get it by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      Are you actually reading this thread? The comment you quoted above is a direct response to a page from the "The Traditional Values Coalition" website, not Wikipedia.
      The only Wikipedia reference that I used was to an article that contains cites that the SLPC categorizes them as a hate group. This is not open to discussion, the SLPC absolutely does categorize "The Traditional Values Coalition" as a hate group.

      About the only thing that makes sense about your post is your name.

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    445. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      Are you actually reading this thread? The comment you quoted above is a direct response to a page from the "The Traditional Values Coalition" website, not Wikipedia.
      The only Wikipedia reference that I used was to an article that contains cites that the SLPC categorizes them as a hate group. This is not open to discussion, the SLPC absolutely does categorize "The Traditional Values Coalition" as a hate group.

      Yep, I'm reading the thread and as I noted, your response relied solely on the Wikipedia entry listed otherwise you would have known that they distanced themselves from those groups. You in essence based your entire reply off of wikipedia and fell into the comment I was making about your parent.

      About the only thing that makes sense about your post is your name.

      Yep, so how does it feel to be corrected by a dumass?

    446. Re:I don't get it by jbr439 · · Score: 1

      With the obvious exception of the gays at the Springfield steel plant.

    447. Re:I don't get it by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      Yep, I'm reading the thread and as I noted, your response relied solely on the Wikipedia entry listed otherwise you would have known that they distanced themselves from those groups. You in essence based your entire reply off of wikipedia and fell into the comment I was making about your parent.

      Okay, at this point I don't think you even read the post you responded to, let alone the thread. What part of "The comment you quoted above is a direct response to a page from the "The Traditional Values Coalition" website, not Wikipedia" do you not understand? I never claimed to have read every page on their site, nor do I have any intention of doing so. I was replying to the link that was provided. Wikipedia had nothing to do with it.

      Yep, so how does it feel to be corrected by a dumass?

      Since it hasn't happened yet, I wouldn't know. The only thing that I've learned is that arguing with a self-proclaimed dumbass is a pointless endeavor.

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    448. Re:I don't get it by superstition222 · · Score: 1

      Tolerance is a level of homophobic prejudice, according to the Homophobia Scale by Dr. Dorothy Riddle. http://allies.tamu.edu/resources/riddle.htm

    449. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      DO you even know who you are replying to? The part that I quoted was pure opinion belonging to you, not "The Traditional Values Coalition". Here let me check....... Yep, A href=http://slashdot.org/comments.pl?sid=1094531&cid=26505523 >

      I find it interesting that rather than try to distance themselves from the groups on the SLPC's list, these folks just scream liberal-conspiracy and claim that the list targets innocent conservative groups. I've got news for you, the conservative movement really doesn't need these kinds of "conservatives".

      That's what I quoted.

      Perhaps if your claiming that is directly from "The Traditional Values Coalition" website, you could provide a link of something to the page with it on it. As I said before, Your comment shows the lack of accurate information just as much as the parent. You see, first of all, in order to distance themselves from the other hate groups, they would have to have a closer relationship with them before hand. That doesn't seem to be the case but you worded your reply to indicate that there was a problem with them making remarks about a group the were currently close to by proximity of an attack on their character instead of saying we need to get further away from these groups that we aren't close to in the first place. Of course anyone who knows anything about both groups know that is a incorrect statement.

      Maybe your just not smart enough to know what your doing.

    450. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      Umm.. Yea, When I was in school, I was actually shot at twice and stabbed once because I refused to join a gang. I'm not trying to take away from your "I'm gay and I was threatened" but call me when someone acts on it. Your in no different of a position then anyone else who choses to act in a way that is different then everyone else. Your still not being discriminated against though. Those were the actions of thugs who didn't know enough to know they were the ones in the wrong. It wasn't an institutionalized policy to threat the life of ever queer in the school, you didn't have a separate drinking fountain or have to go into the side door. In fact, you left school on your own choice, you could have just as easily transfered to another school or take a private school option.

      Now when I say you chose to act different, I wasn't talking about homosexuality being a choice. I do think it is a choice but the point was that you acted in a way that was different then others and you were singled out because of it. In my case, Not joining a gang after being asked to is like killing one of their members and spitting on their colors. You think someone wanted to kill you, you should have walking in my shoes. Luckily, my size made a lot of the punks back down like little Sissie bitches and I surrounded myself with other muscular people whenever possible. In your case, letting other know you wanted to be or where gay made some redneck poke fun at you and you got scared. I was scared too but I grew a pair of balls and took care of business. The best thing you could have done was the exact same thing. It one thing for a big guy to smack the shit out of someone, their friend will understand why they got their asses kicked. It's another to get bitch slapped into next week by a homo you were making fun of 5 seconds before losing consciousness.

      Anyways, in the eyes of the law, the school, the diner you ate supper at, the movie theater you got your entertainment from and all the rest treated you just like everyone else. It's been 20 or so years since I was in high school. Most everyone I feared is either dead or in jail. Everyone you feared has grown up and realized they were fucking idiots. It may take 20 years for that to happen but you can't claim discrimination over it. Sure, people are bigoted, you would probably even call me bigoted if you got to know my views on homosexuality but I would never intentionally hurt you or threaten to(physically) without provocation.

    451. Re:I don't get it by wombert · · Score: 1
      That's a specious sophistry. Men and women both can marry someone of the opposite gender, but not someone of the same gender. The only way you can get a right men have that women don't out of that is to *define* the right itself in terms of a specific gender.

      There was a similar argument for laws against interracial marriage as well - since no one was allowed to marry outside their race, it was argued, it was not discriminating against any one race. Everyone still had an equal right to marry someone, and all were equally limited to their own race. However, the California Supreme Court rejected this argument in the 1948 Perez v. Sharp decision, which is what the court used as precedent in the recent ruling legalizing same-sex marriage. It didn't matter that the law was not singling out any one race to discriminate against; simply having race as a limiting factor was considered an unreasonable restriction on the right to marry.

      The Perez case described the "right to marry" as follows:

      the essence of the right to marry is freedom to join in marriage with the person of one's choice

      Just as a person cannot help that the one person they choose to marry is of a different race, some cannot help the fact that the one person they choose to marry is of the same gender. Limiting one's available choice for marriage based on gender should be considered, according to CA's equal protection statutes, just as discriminatory as limiting it based on race.

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    452. Re:I don't get it by OeLeWaPpErKe · · Score: 1

      If you really did visit one, and actually went to the trouble of actually asking some questions you wouldn't say something like that. You wouldn't even dare do that of course. Intimidation and nice words are all it takes to tell a delusional mind, afraid to examine it's own thinking, to check it's own assumptions.

      Why don't you go to a mosque and ask what 5:51 means in the quran ... why there is a "divine punishment" (and a worldly one, which could mean execution) for any muslim that doesn't act racist to anyone not sharing their ideology ...

      Why don't you ask their opinion of the slave driving nature of a certain prophet. Of his many wars, and his many religious genocides. Is this man to be admired, or is he a monster ?

      And when the inevitable answer comes about admiration, why don't you ask them whether the specific acts of religious genocide are admirable or not.

      Clearly you are VERY comfortable asking these kinds of questions to Christians. So let's not kid ourselves about your motivations here : you're a coward. Nothing more. A weak, delusional coward, able but entirely unwilling to critically examine his assumptions about the world and about it's people.

      That type of attitude is, of course, the very definition of racism. But it's also very politically correct.

      Let's not kid ourselves that there's anything tolerant about your attitude. It's just "popular" racism : you avoid all the difficult questions about the guys that openly kill the most little girls.

    453. Re:I don't get it by lsatenstein · · Score: 0

      There is proof that once an islamic (non-modern muslim) community gets to be 2.9% of the population, then they will begin to teach intolerance and insist on Sharia law). Exampls is Denmark and France. In so far as tolerating other religions, there is none. So if other religions are not tolerated, then gays, lesbians and physically deformed people are next.

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    454. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1
      Christian views carry far too little weight in law and government. If government were Christian, it would, by definition, be honest and not corrupt. A government which was Christian would allow you to do virtually anything you want, as long as you did not violate the rights of others. I don't see why you should be so opposed to that. Ultimately, it would not exist because government itself relies on the use of force against innocents. Regardless of whether you believe in its teachings, Christianity is not your enemy unless you use violence to make it your enemy.

      You say "the Christian right" attempts to force its teachings on you, but what's the difference between them and you? You also attempt to force your teachings, your religious belief that theft and murder are acceptable, on all of us. Keep your religion out of my life.

    455. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1
      Actually, they do so in the article posted earlier, too (the SPLC, they say, "mixes church groups and religious conservative organizations in with the Ku Klux Klan and Nazis").

      Follow your religion all you want, but those of us who don't belong to it don't appreciate you attempting to codify your unsubstantiated beliefs into our legal and political systems

      I should be the one saying that to you, since you're the one who wants to "codify your unsubstantiated beliefs into our legal and political systems". Nothing in my religion makes me want to do such a thing to you. I'm the one who wants to stop anyone from doing that to anyone else. You seem to be confusing me and the TVC. Try understanding my position before trying to use it as a basis to criticize me.

    456. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1
      You know as well as I that the definition of marriage has historically and traditionally involved a man and a woman and that it is recently that certain people have tried to redefine the word. Two examples which come reasonably close to a traditionally accepted definition:

      From The Collaborative International Dictionary of English v.0.48 [gcide]: Marriage \Mar"riage\, n. [OE. mariage, F. mariage. See {Marry}, v. t.] 1. The act of marrying, or the state of being married; legal union of a man and a woman for life, as husband and wife; wedlock; matrimony. [1913 Webster]

      From Bouvier's Law Dictionary, Revised 6th Ed (1856) [bouvier]: MARRIAGE. A contract made in due form of law, by which a free man and a free woman reciprocally engage to live with each other during their joint lives, in the union which ought to exist between husband and wife. By the terms freeman and freewoman in this definition are meant, not only that they are free and not slaves, but also that they are clear of all bars to a lawful marriage. Dig. 23, 2, 1; Ayl. Parer. 359; Stair, Inst. tit. 4, s. 1; Shelford on Mar. and Div. c. 1, s. 1.

      I will not bother to attempt a full definition, but suffice it to say that a marriage is a relationship between a man and a woman who are united as husband and wife. Nevertheless, I would not be terribly hurt, although I would disagree, if you wanted to use a different definition of the word, if you did not seek to use the power of government to enforce your definition on people against their will. Your use of violent force (through your agent, the government) is my main quarrel with you.

    457. Re:I don't get it by zobier · · Score: 1

      Single people are discriminated against regardless of sexual orientation.

      Married people are discriminated against too.
      E.g. Who will be willing to pull longer hours at work, a married or single person?
      Nearly everyone is discriminated against in one way or another.

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    458. Re:I don't get it by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      Oh for crying out loud.
      You said:

      Whats even more disturbing is getting your entire world view from wikipedia.

      in a response to *my* post. Go to your post, click on "parent" and you will get my post. This implies that you were telling *me* that I get my entire worldview from wikipedia, which I do not.

      Next, you're correct, I did say "I find it interesting that rather than try to distance themselves from the groups on the SLPC's list, these folks just scream liberal-conspiracy and claim that the list targets innocent conservative groups. I've got news for you, the conservative movement really doesn't need these kinds of "conservatives"". This was in a direct response to this:

      The Southern Poverty Law Center always has to pump up some new boogie man to justify its existence. If none is available at the moment, they look for the nearest Christian group and label it racist, bigoted or a hate group.

      These liberal lawyers owe many of the people on its list of hate groups an apology because all that their organizations have done is resist the imposition of anti-Christian regulations and statutes on free people.

      This quote was taken from the link in the post I was replying to, *not* wikipedia.

      Perhaps if your claiming that is directly from "The Traditional Values Coalition" website, you could provide a link of something to the page with it on it.

      No, I said it was a direct response to a quote taken from the other poster's link. If you were actually reading this thread, you'd have had no problem following that link.

      As I said before, Your comment shows the lack of accurate information just as much as the parent.

      My comment was my commentary on the page that the parent referenced on "The Traditional Values Coalition" website. Are you suggesting that "The Traditional Values Coalition" is not qualified to put forth it's own opinions?

      You see, first of all, in order to distance themselves from the other hate groups, they would have to have a closer relationship with them before hand.

      The "relationship" is that they have been grouped together by the SLPC. The article on their own website complains about liberals dumping them together, but mainly complains that the SLPC "owe many of the people on its list of hate groups an apology because all that their organizations have done is resist the imposition of anti-Christian regulations and statutes on free people", rather than saying something like, "Please don't lump us in with clansmen, we're not the same".

      That doesn't seem to be the case but you worded your reply to indicate that there was a problem with them making remarks about a group the were currently close to by proximity of an attack on their character instead of saying we need to get further away from these groups that we aren't close to in the first place

      I didn't say that they were actively working with any of the other groups. In the context of the thread, which again, you don't seem to have read very carefully, they have been grouped together and in their own response they did nothing to refute the notion that they're not a hate group, nor do they say anything to imply that they disapprove of the other groups that they're listed with.

      Of course anyone who knows anything about both groups know that is a incorrect statement.

      What on earth are you talking about? Reading "The Traditional Values Coalition" website does nothing to make me think that the SLPC assessment is incorrect. The SLPC however does have a great deal of experience in identifying and tracking various hate-groups.

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    459. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Don't cling too much to words. Words are only a way of defining a state without having to repeat the whole wording over and over again. Definitions can be adjusted to changing requirements.

      But ok, keep that definition of marriage, redo all laws and remove "marriage", "married" and similar references to the sacred word and replace it by a word that is defined as the union between two people. Satisfied?

      Somehow I doubt it. I'm fairly sure that a lot of people, especially the religious kind, would be really irate about their "marriage" being no longer seen as something special by the law and replaced with it being a subset of a mere "civil union" (or whatever term the law would have to use if it was to avoid "marriage" because "marriage" cannot include two people of the same sex).

      Basically what it comes down to is the question what harm is done when two homosexual people want to do the same heterosexual people do: Declare that they want to commit to a single partner they love.

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    460. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 1

      Basically what it comes down to is the question what harm is done when two homosexual people want to do the same heterosexual people do: Declare that they want to commit to a single partner they love.

      They have the right to do that. What they don't have the right to do is to force others to 1.) recognize their relationship as legitimate and 2.) call it a marriage. Harm is done when they do so.

    461. Re:I don't get it by diagonal_mambo · · Score: 1

      So the argument goes that we can't prove that gay marriage is good, on the whole, for society, so until then, we'll deny them their proper rights.

      Equal rights benefits society. It doesn't matter if it benefits me directly. I'm not a woman, but I feel that gender equality has made the world a better place to live. What would it matter to me if women couldn't work or vote? I'd have fewer people with a valid opinion to disagree with, I'd have less competition in the job market, and I'd be able to rest safe in the knowledge that my biggest rival from high school will be tasked with reproduction.

      Equality is not something we introduced for pragmatism. We didn't give women or blacks the right to vote because we needed more people with a voice to agree that white christian males are the thing to be. We did it because it's the right thing to do. Society recognised this. Society has benefited.

    462. Re:I don't get it by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      How does it harm anyone if their relationship is considered legitimate? What damage is done that way?

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    463. Re:I don't get it by diagonal_mambo · · Score: 1

      These laws were a response to the Mass. courts imposing gay marriage on the people there.

      Great, so now we're just imposing anti-gay marriage laws on homosexuals. It's okay, they're a minority! We don't have to care about them!

      The fact is that everywhere that anti-gay marriage laws have made it to the ballot, the measure has passed and been implemented.

      Given this, I think it's about time that we realised these issues should never come to a vote. They don't need to. They should be thrown out the minute they're proposed. It's shows a blatant disregard for the principles of equality and the separation of church and state.

      Yes, I said it. This is important. The religious views of any group, no matter how large, must never be allowed to infringe upon the right of another, no matter how small. If everyone in California were against gay marriage save for one gay couple, their rights must take priority over the religious views or personal discomfort of the rest.

    464. Re:I don't get it by novakyu · · Score: 1

      The law has absolutely no business examining the race, gender, or religion of people to discriminate different treatment under the law.

      Rather, I would say that the law (i.e. the government) has no business meddling with "marriage", period. Let them leave "marriages" to people who have traditionally administered it (priests, reverends, sea captains, and other positions of respect and honor). If an Episcopal priest wants to marry two men, well, let him (and let his congregation decide whether that's acceptable or not).

      Prop. 8 was not an "equal rights issue". It was a struggle over naming a particular group of people. Calling this equal rights issue is analogous to saying that both people living in the New York city and Philadelphia has "equal right" to call themselves "New Yorker". Maybe they do, maybe they don't—but then, what's in a name?

      If what the opponents of Prop. 8 really wanted was equal rights (because, yes, there are some crucial legal differences between "marriage" and "civil union"), they should have pushed for a proposition of their own, declaring legal equality of marriage and civil union, and spouse and a partner in civil union. By demanding that the definition of "marriage" be extended to cover gay couples, what they are effectively trying to do is change every contract out there written with the word "marriage" in them (and not explicitly defined as a man and woman within the contract, because at one point it was unthinkable that it could be anything else).

      Maybe you think that's a good thing, changing other people's agreements, after the fact, perhaps against their wishes (after all, the whole thing started with a lawsuit involving a country club that didn't want spousal benefits to a gay couple, I think), perhaps not.

      But for my part, I think the government should stay out of the business of meddling with contracts between private persons—and the only way they can do that and maintain equal rights for everyone (after all, we do all want equal rights for everyone) is by defining a new word for this particular family relationship between one person and another—and probably abolish the legal meaning of "marriage"—and let it keep its traditional meaning in the context of a traditional family.

    465. Re:I don't get it by davidkv · · Score: 1

      Now you're just being sad.

      You know as well as I that the old testament contains lots of really ugly, violent and weird stuff. Does that mean that most christians agree with its contents? No. Exactly.

      The same thing applies to most muslims. Try getting to know some, discuss with them and you'll soon realize that they're not that different from you.

      Since this thread has gone sour, name calling and projections have taken over, let's put and end to it now.

    466. Re:I don't get it by CodyRazor · · Score: 1

      lol nevermind I assumed you were someone worth responding to, sorry.

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    467. Re:I don't get it by Alsee · · Score: 1

      I would say that the law (i.e. the government) has no business meddling with "marriage"

      I agree that would fix the problem as I see it.
      I have no opposition to that as a solution, though I don't really push for it either. I have pretty significant libertarian leanings, but I think libertarianism can at times get a bit radical with the "nuke the universe and contract will rebuild and fix everything" fundamentalism :)

      Anywho, the fact is that marriage law does currently exist. And so long as it does, I believe my constitutional argument stands. None of the law, marriage law or otherwise, can examine race gender or religion as a basis for differential government treatment. This is why the interracial marriage bans were invalidated. The law, marriage law or otherwise, cannot examine race as a basis to grant or deny applicants. The law, marriage law or otherwise, cannot examine gender as a basis to grant or deny applicants. Any marriage law trying to deny gay marriages fails for the same reason a marriage law trying to deny interracial marriage fails.

      Prop. 8 was not an "equal rights issue".

      The law was attempting to engage in gender based discrimination, identical to the race based discrimination to exclude interracial marriage. There is no means to identify and exclude mixed race couples without examining their races. There is no means to identify and exclude same gender couples without examining their genders.

      If what the opponents of Prop. 8 really wanted was equal rights (because, yes, there are some crucial legal differences between "marriage" and "civil union"), they should have pushed for a proposition of their own, declaring legal equality of marriage and civil union

      If what [mixed race couples] really wanted was equal rights (because, yes, there are some crucial legal differences between "marriage" and "civil union"), they should have pushed for a proposition of their own, declaring legal equality of marriage and civil union?????

      Do you not see a problem with that?

      By demanding that the definition of "marriage" be extended to cover gay couples, what they are effectively trying to do is change every contract out there written with the word "marriage" in them

      By demanding that the definition of "marriage" be extended to cover [mixed race] couples, what they are effectively trying to do is change every contract out there written with the word "marriage" in them?????

      Do you not see a problem with that?

      Maybe you think that's a good thing, changing other people's agreements, after the fact

      Sometimes parties run into unforeseen implications of what they did write into their contract.

      If someone writes a contract about serving alcohol, and that contract obviously has some clause referring to minors, and if the legally defined age for "minors" changes, then the effects of that contract obviously have an unanticipated adjustment to apply that new age threshold.

      With interracial or gay marriage it's even more fundamental. Nothing actually changes.

      Some parties may think interracial couples are marriages and other parties may think interracial couples are not marriages. So long as their contract is relying upon the legal definition of marriage, and so long as the law is defining what marriage is, then those parties are contracting to the legal definition of marriage no matter what that is and no matter what they would wish it to be.

      At the time a contract is written someone may dislike interracial couples getting married. His state may currently have a law on the books containing text saying that interracial couples do not constitute a valid marriage. He may assume that means that interracial couples are not marriages. He is in error. The portion of the state law claiming interracial couples are not married is unconstitutional. That segment of text in the law is invalid. That segment of text is legally null and void. It doesn't actually exist. It's not actually law and it ha

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    468. Re:I don't get it by butterflysrage · · Score: 1

      taxes and housing are universal, they apply equally to all... Prop 8 picked one group of people to discriminate against and no others.

      the govt IS obligated to be equal in their pain-in-the-backside laws... you can't make things harder one one group just because you don't like em. "All men created equal"... so if it was "no one can marry in Cali" that would be ok.

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    469. Re:I don't get it by tripdizzle · · Score: 1

      No, they fired all those people so they can hire gays and pay them less, because "gay" is the new "woman" as far as pay rate is concerned. /sarcasm

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    470. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      lol nevermind I assumed you were someone worth responding to, sorry.

      Translation: If you don't feel sorry for me and accept my anecdotal evidence the way I intended it to be presented, I'm taking my ball and going home.

      Listen, what you described is little more then people reacting negetively because you ended up being different from them. Is it right? No, but that doesn't make it discrimination any differently then anyone else who grows up in an imperfect world. Try taking a walk through east LA or Compton with your first buckled. I guarantee that when someone hassles you, it won't be because your gay, it will be because your different and unknown. Don't confuse your condition as being the only thing worth worrying about or as being significantly different from anyone else. It still doesn't makes it discrimination only in the same vein as it does for everyone else who acts different.

    471. Re:I don't get it by plnix0 · · Score: 0

      Can you even read? I said that harm is done by forcing other people to consider the relationship legitimate, not when the relationship is considered legitimate.

    472. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is equal. Both gay and straight people are allowed to marry anyone who is of the opposite sex, who is old enough, and who agrees to the marriage.

      In contrast, taxation is not equal: rich people are taxed at a much higher rate, because "they should have to give more" and "they don't deserve to have so much wealth".

    473. Re:I don't get it by novakyu · · Score: 1

      This could, of course, go on forever, since we both seem to have our minds set on one side of the issue (and two libertarians are allowed to disagree on many specific topics).

      I just want to note that allowing interracial marriage (I doubt this was a problem in even all of the U.S. as gay marriage is and was at one point) was far less change, if any, to marriage than specifically defining marriage to include same-sex couples.

      Interracial marriage has existed ALL THE TIME, even in the Bible. A lot of notable marriages in the Bible are marriage between people of two different ethnicity. Racism is a rather absurd phenomenon that arose in the modern times with the rise of western empires—and as fads come, fads go as well.

      Gay marriage, on the other hand, is unheard of in all recorded history. Joining two men (or two women) in a state-recognized union is a change significant enough that people who feel that such extension of the word "marriage" makes the word itself meaningless have, at least, a justifiable reason. It's like if Canadians and Mexicans or Brazilians went around calling themselves "American". Some citizens of United States will feel that's not right, and as much as one could argue that Brazilians have as much title to word "American", common sense says the word "American" should be reserved for people whom that word has traditionally referred to.

      In any case, this will be my last response on this thread. You can have the final word on Slashdot if you wish, but if you want to make a point to which you expect a reply, please send me an email instead.

    474. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      but in Michigan, this was specifically the argument that the Attorney General used against the State's own negotiated union contracts. They were HIGHLY specific that any same sex or opposite sex "arrangement" (civil union, or just living together) was covered under the change. Like I said, 60 days after the amendment went live they started in on openly negotiated contracts that had been standing for up to 10 years having nothing to do with "civil unions".. they were the "don't ask, don't tell" nod to allow insurance/benefit sharing without actually being a union or saying the "gay" work... The enforcement was specifically anti-not-marriage... the AG even stated as much to the newspapers .. and everybody cheered. The word was out that such things were out of bounds to any company that wanted to unilaterally ban them.... i.e. interference in private contracts, insurance policies already negotiated.

      I voted against the amendment and told my wife that was exactly how it would be used... 60 days later they proved me right. Frankly if they want to protect "marriage" stop allowing divorced lawyers, judges, senators to serve... as used to be the case, and throw adulterers in jail as sex offenders like the law says. Stop allowing people to marry after the second marriage, and stop them living together and making babies out of wedlock after the first... stop no-fault divorce, because that only hurts the party that didn't cheat... At least the gays take marriage seriously. my mother-in-law is on her fourth husband, my father was married 3 times, and I just got done changing the name of a lady at work for the 3 time because she can't decide if she's married or not... But sure.. the gays are the real problem!!

    475. Re:I don't get it by OeLeWaPpErKe · · Score: 1

      So christianity and islam are the same ? I'll phone Osama and tell him the pope thinks he should stop. Since it's "all the same" he will stop immediately. Clearly no other course of action would be reasonable given that they're the same thing.

      Now obviously the above won't happen, and I'll tell you why it won't happen : it's a lie.

      In the VERY best case you're argument is a "tu quoque", and nothing more. But since it's also a fallacy by itself, it's just you excusing massacring behavior on the part of muslims, just because it's politically correct.

      Why don't you ask those "not at all different muslims" how they feel about the many religious genocides comitted by their prophet, or those by saladin, or those by khomeini, or ... Then ask a few christians about the behavior of the (christian) hitler. Or any other massacrer figure out of christian history.

      All are massacrers. You will however note the difference : Christians will not accept a massacrer's behavior as good, and worthy of imitation, no matter who he is, no matter what country or system he created. Muslims will accept massacring behavior because if they didn't, they wouldn't be muslims at all.

      Go ahead, ask them about the religious genocides their "prophet" comitted. You will see, VERY clearly, the differences between muslims and christians.

      That's of course the problem : massacring innocents was a central part of islam from day 1. Jesus didn't hurt a fly, in fact quite the opposite.

      Conclusion : they are not the same.

      And you can make the same argument about Hinduism : it cannot be seriously argued that it is an "accident" or "cultural thing" that so many muslims are massacrers.

    476. Re:I don't get it by davidkv · · Score: 1

      I'm not excusing anything. I'm advocating tolerance towards people with other beliefs. It's what we're discussing, right?

      I suggest you try discussing the matter with some muslims. I can assure you that the absolute majority will disapprove of violence in most ways.

      Implying that christianity hasn't "hurt a fly" is just ridiculous.

      Most religions have a lot of blood in their tracks. I attribute most of that to intolerance, which in turn comes mostly from fear.

      Prejudice tends to fuel fear and intolerance.

    477. Re:I don't get it by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Married people are discriminated against too. E.g. Who will be willing to pull longer hours at work, a married or single person?

      Whather or not you're willing to do something has absoilutely nothing to do with discrimination whatever. I'm single, if I volunteer to put in longer hours (I won't, poking another hole in your argument) I'm not being discriminated against, I volunteered. Neither is the married guy, he had the chance to volunteer but didn't because of his family. That's
      his personal choice, not discrimination.

      It's discrimination only if I'm forced to do something you're not, or forbidden from doing something you have permission for.

      Actually single people are discriminated against here, too - if somebody needs to go out of town for a week, the single guy is the one getting stuck with it.

    478. Re:I don't get it by CodyRazor · · Score: 1

      Translation: Derka derka durrrrr

      Yeah, i guess i should stop complaining about being discriminated against because others are too. Wtf? from what you said your a homophobic tool with an insecurity problem for which you have to conpensate by acting tough on the internet. Wow im so impressed that you made those punks back down like sissy bitches cause your so big. You must be so huge and manly. lol ok i've had enough.

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    479. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Marriage is not a civil right. There is a nice document written about two hundred thirty years ago that states exactly what your rights are.

    480. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      Yeah, i guess i should stop complaining about being discriminated against because others are too.

      Your not being discriminated by in any way that impedes your rights. You have a few idiots who don't have any power over you being idiots and that's it. It is no different then anyone else in life. It's not like institutionalized racism where laws and businesses treat you differently. Get over it, being threatened is something everyone has to deal with at some point in their life.

      Wtf? from what you said your a homophobic tool with an insecurity problem for which you have to conpensate by acting tough on the internet.

      Don't conflate my position into something else because you don't like the way it sounds. I know that's a pattern for you and your type (as demonstrated already with your "poor me, I'm different therefore discriminated against") but stop it. People don't like it when others twist things in order to portrey themselves as the underdog. I said homosexuality is a choice, not that I don't agree with it or people who make that choice. It is a choice after all, Sex is a choice and the defining factor in homosexuality is sex and the people having or trying to have it. We prosecute people for Rape because it is a choice to have sex that both people need to agree to.

      Wow im so impressed that you made those punks back down like sissy bitches cause your so big. You must be so huge and manly. lol ok i've had enough.

      Look, I didn't mean to turn you on. I am huge and manly, and that really has nothing to do with what we are talking about. It did help me in my situation but I could have just as easily been a puss about it too. Of course size and strength doesn't matter when bullets and knives are coming at you. But if you didn't want to hear the story, you should have came around claiming you ran and hid because a couple of assholes didn't like you being different from them and expect a sympathetic ear from me. I'm not feeling sorry for you because you made some choices that others don't like. Even if you can't help being queer, you made the choice to inform them of that fact in order for them to threaten you because of it which means you were trying to appear different. Get over it.

    481. Re:I don't get it by u-235-sentinel · · Score: 1

      Don't misunderstand me. The pro-prop 8 people are wrong too. There's no way that two men getting married is going to diminish my marriage in any way.

      Would this include polygamy? I mean would it diminish marriage in any way? It is illegal also which I'm curious as to why.

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    482. Re:I don't get it by u-235-sentinel · · Score: 1

      Under the guise of 'hurts hiring' one could wax a whole bunch of laws that should be in place. Laws *dont* exist to serve corperate interest... okay, okay laws *should* not exist to serve corperate interest.

      IANAL however I have been researching on California's .gov web site for marriage laws and was surprised to learn that domestic partner laws provide the same benefits as a heterosexual marriage. The only thing missing is the federal government doesn't recognize the partnership.

      I would be interested in hearing the real argument for homosexual marriage.

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    483. Re:I don't get it by CodyRazor · · Score: 1

      derka derka durrrr

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    484. Re:I don't get it by FireStormZ · · Score: 1

      I am personally of the mind that we do away with Government marriage, period. Marriage is/should be an commitment to a person, community, and God not one to a state..

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    485. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      why could the timing have been better? how are the two related?

      From the summary:

      Coming the day after it announced layoffs and office closures, Google's California Supreme Court filing arguing for the overturn of Proposition 8, which asks the Court not to harm its ability to recruit and retain employees, certainly could have been better timed.

      Reading comprehension FTW.

    486. Re:I don't get it by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      Let them leave "marriages" to people who have traditionally administered it (priests, reverends, sea captains, and other positions of respect and honor).

      Marriage has traditionally been a function of the civic authorities in Western society; religious involvement increased during the middle ages (and, of course, there was no modern separation of church and state, so the religious and civic regulation blended together) but even so was never a pre-eminently religious institution, merely one that was both civic and religious simultaneously, and even in the religious component in the West (at least, within Christianity) marriage, as a sacrament, was (and is still, at least in the Catholic Church) unique among sacraments in that it is administered by the two people who become married, not by a religious authority figure.

      Government has as much claim to marriage as religion does; religion certainly has no superior claim on the term. Already, civic and religious marriage are separate institutions. Certainly, this is muddled by policy in which the state allows religious leaders to solemnize the marriage-under-the-law, and the fact that this is often done in coordination with their role in solemnize marriage-within-the-church, but the two are completely different things.

    487. Re:I don't get it by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      So your saying Google, a large corporation is claiming that it is harmed by the way something was done because it amended the state's constitution through the very same existing laws that lead to the smoking ban in public restaurants and such.

      No, I'm saying Google is claiming it was harmed by a provision which it claims was implemented contrary to the Constitution. The harm itself is not the whole of the claim. (And, as others have pointed out, Google is filing an amicus brief here, so standing isn't technically an issue, but the same factors that affect standing speak to the interest of the filer and thus the weight given to their claims.)

      A company attempting to limit the established rights of a state that existed well before the company was thought of let alone materialized.

      California has no "established rights" to implement Constitutional changes in a manner inconsistent with the provisions of the Constitution governing changes, which is the basis on which Prop. 8 is being challenged.

      Virtually any constitutional amendment passed by voter referendum would be invalid and unless the courts are willing to selectively administrate justice, they will fall on the first challenge from anyone who can claim standing.

      Uh, no. Standing is what it takes to get into court to even present a claim that something was done unlawfully. A particularized harm is usually a requirement to have standing. Having standing doesn't mean you win, it just means you get to be heard.

    488. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      No, I'm saying Google is claiming it was harmed by a provision which it claims was implemented contrary to the Constitution. The harm itself is not the whole of the claim. (And, as others have pointed out, Google is filing an amicus brief here, so standing isn't technically an issue, but the same factors that affect standing speak to the interest of the filer and thus the weight given to their claims.)

      Well, actually, it is a corporation attempting to over turn a law that was lawfully enacted by a legitimate process already on the books well before the one law it takes issue with came about. This is in effect the same as I put it. If it was Time Warner or Enron everyone would be in a hissy over this. But because they support the idea that Google is attempting to push, they don't seem to care at all that a corporation is attempting to overturn the voice of the people.

      California has no "established rights" to implement Constitutional changes in a manner inconsistent with the provisions of the Constitution governing changes, which is the basis on which Prop. 8 is being challenged.

      Well, no. The laws in which the constitution was changed were/are in the constitution itself and have existed for many years. The California constitution claims it need a higher vote of affirmation if the constitution is changed in specific ways that change the meaning of an existing provision. Prop 8 did not do that, the opponents to prop 8 are relying the earlier wording of the court which claimed that the CA constitution didn't give the people of California the ability to distinguish between hetero and homosexual marriages and claiming that prop 8 changes specific intent in the constitution so it required a more stringent vote. However, not having an ability does not mean an ability was prohibited in the constitution, and whether you support prop 8 or not, you can't deny the fact that a corporation is attempting to squelch the spoken will of the people for it's own gain.

      Uh, no. Standing is what it takes to get into court to even present a claim that something was done unlawfully. A particularized harm is usually a requirement to have standing. Having standing doesn't mean you win, it just means you get to be heard.

      Yes, I know but that was not the point of what I just said. The point was unless the court is willing to selectively administrate justice, this challenge will fail. If the state supreme court is willing to selectively administrate justice and go against the will of the people enacted by a valid democratic process that is present and proscribed in the state constitution, we should expect impeachments of members of the courts because they are clearly attempting to push a goal other then the rule of law as create in a free and open and democratic process.

    489. Re:I don't get it by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      Well, actually, it is a corporation attempting to over turn a law that was lawfully enacted by a legitimate process already on the books well before the one law it takes issue with came about.

      Whether or not it was "lawfully enacted by a legitimate process" is specifically the issue in dispute. If it was a constitutional revision, as Google and others challenging the law claim, then it was not "lawfully enacted" at all, and the process was not legitimate.

      Sure, it was on the books, but for a different class of Constitutional changes.

      (Sure, the fact that California has two different classes of Constitutional changes, with different required processes, with a boundary that is difficult to unequivocally resolve short of taking the issue to court is a problem, but its not a problem that is Google's fault.)

      California constitution claims it need a higher vote of affirmation if the constitution is changed in specific ways that change the meaning of an existing provision.

      No, it doesn't. A revision does not require a "higher vote of affirmation" than an amendment: both require a simple majority vote. A revision, however, must be proposed by the legislature or a Constitutional convention, while an amendment, which may be proposed by the means required for a revision, may also be proposed by a citizen initiative. Prop 8 was proposed as a citizen initiative, and therefore was only validly proposed if it is properly classes as an "amendment" and not a "revision". Further, the California Constitution does not specify what constitutes the difference between a revision and an amendment in the way you suggest. In fact, it does not explicitly specify the difference at all, the meaning of the terms "revision" and "amendment" have been elucidated through case law. You're not very far from the substance of the distinction though, which has been held to be an effect on the "underlying principles" of the Constitution (which is different than changing the meaning of an existing provision, but broadly similar.)

      Prop 8 did not do that

      Whether Prop 8 did that is specifically the question in dispute. It certainly is intended to alter the scope of the current equal protection clause of the state Constitution as effects what has been held for generations to be a fundamental right, that to marry, so there is at least a colorable argument that it is a revision applying either the actual "underlying principles" test or your proposed "change the meaning of an existing provision" test.

      and whether you support prop 8 or not, you can't deny the fact that a corporation is attempting to squelch the spoken will of the people for it's own gain.

      Since every person (including the owners of corporations acting through those corporations) has a right to see the government limited to acting in accordance to the Constitution, particularly when government action would affect them detrimentally, whether or not the action is popular, I see no reason to be concerned that Google or anyone else is suing to get the State to comply with the Constitution in the manner in which laws of any level, including changes to the Constitution, are enacted.

      The point was unless the court is willing to selectively administrate justice, this challenge will fail.

      You present no reason to believe that is the case; particularly, you present no reason to believe that the challenge by others which Google has supported with its filing does not characterize the legal situation correctly.

    490. Re:I don't get it by OeLeWaPpErKe · · Score: 1

      No we were discussing "tolerance" to people who massacre gays, jews and others. Who do not just say this, but actually do so in many parts of the world.

      Muslims today are what the nazi's were in 1939. The "miserable" and "oppressed" "victims" (read some newspapers from the era), who've started the crimes that our children will - if they're not killed by them - forever hold against any politician they don't like, and a headscarf will be about as socially accepted as naming your kid "adolf" and having the "socialist moustache" (which was very popular in the 1930's to show how "you cared")

      You were discussing how we should tolerate "islam". Now obviously this means tolerating honor-killings. Tolerating racism. Tolerating religious genocide (and celebrating religious genocide). Tolerating slavery. Tolerate the descrution of the church-state barrier. Tolerate a totalitarian ideology. Tolerate muslims killing ex-muslims. They're all part of the definition of that word.

      That's what you're discussing. The only argument that you have is that "islam" is something completely different than history, and their own holy texts, and their behavior around the world, and even in america itself.

      "Most religions" : you sound like you would be hard-pressed to even name 3 of them, and their central figures.

    491. Re:I don't get it by davidkv · · Score: 1

      You're still missing the whole point.
      Tolerance has nothing to do with allowing violence against others. It's about tolerating different beliefs, ideas and cultures.

    492. Re:I don't get it by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      I don't think any really good parallels exist: everything is really different now, with fast transportation, communications, shipping, etc., none of which existed much like this 100 years ago.

      No, I don't think some foreign power is going to come and sack the USA, like they did in Rome. But one parallel I just thought of might be China: long ago (> 1000 years), it was a sort of super-power: they sent ships around the world, and were a major power while Europe was probably going through the Dark Ages. What happened to them? They seemed to have devolved as a society, became insular, had a lot of infighting, and by about 50 years ago, were a backwards 3rd-world country with a lot of people and no technology or industry. Of course, that's changed a lot in the past 30 years, but that's beside the point.

      I think something like that might happen to the USA. I also think it's possible parts of it might break away, as internal frictions become too great, and the economy is too broken to be fixed nationwide, so certain regions might decide to break out on their own, such as California, the South, the Pacific Northwest, the Southwest, etc. Remember also, countries like England, France, Germany, Spain, etc. are much smaller than the USA, and have much more homogeneous populations, not that subject to internal strife or balkanization. We've had internal frictions for as long as we've been a country, and it hasn't gotten any better: rural vs. urban, liberal vs. conservative, also different regions have very different outlooks and ideas, and even speak different languages (pretty soon, most people in Arizona and southern California will be Spanish-speaking, not English).

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  3. I must need new contacts by thewils · · Score: 2, Funny

    I read that as Google Challenging Preparation H

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    1. Re:I must need new contacts by ryanvm · · Score: 3, Funny

      I'll challenge Preparation H too. It tastes disgusting and doesn't work at all. I may as well shove the tube up my ass for all the good it does.

    2. Re:I must need new contacts by corbettw · · Score: 1

      Makes you wonder what they plan on doing to the employees who weren't laid off.

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    3. Re:I must need new contacts by kindbud · · Score: 2, Funny

      These are not the 'rhoids you're looking for.

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    4. Re:I must need new contacts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I can see the relation. Practicioners of Same Sex marriage may need Prep-H.

    5. Re:I must need new contacts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, seeing as how Preparations A through G failed, I'm not sure why Preparation H should be beyond scrutiny.

    6. Re:I must need new contacts by slater86 · · Score: 1

      I must say, this challenge does feel good...on the whole.

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  4. Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by dch24 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I'll get modded down in 5 ... 4 ... 3 ...

    1. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Were aware that hes LD.......Oh I didnt see the S.

    2. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by eln · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I don't know why you would get modded down for that, since it's true. I find the LDS church's actions regarding Prop 8 to be highly inappropriate. I was a member of that church for a long time, and although they were clearly very conservative, they never made a real effort to influence voting on any particular issue since the ERA amendment in the 70s. That they would go so far to defeat this particular bill, in my mind, puts them in the same category as those evangelical churches who were telling their parishioners that voting Democrat would endanger their immortal souls.

      In my opinion, churches that take stances on political issues like that should lose their tax-exempt status, as the clause under which they are tax exempt clearly prohibits political activism.

    3. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That means that obviously he must be excluded if you want to have diversity.
      Everyone knows that the only way to have diversity is to exclude members of LDS or other organizations that believe something contrary to the accepted standard.

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    4. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by MozeeToby · · Score: 5, Insightful

      In my opinion, churches that take stances on political issues like that should lose their tax-exempt status, as the clause under which they are tax exempt clearly prohibits political activism.

      The problem is, this isn't really a political issue, it is a social issue. I'm certainly not saying I agree with them, I was very dissapointed when my home state passed a law similar to prop 8 a few years ago.

      IMHO, marriage is a personal (and sometimes religious) choice, and as such the government should just stay out of it. I don't know where religios people get off trying to tell gay people that they don't have the right to share insurance, file taxes together, and visit each other in the hospital; which are about the only rights being legally married entitles you to anyway.

      Just change the wording in all the laws from marriage to civil union and be done with it. If you want to get married, go to a church that will marry you, but don't expect the government to recognize it, and that goes for both straight and gay couples. If you want the rights legally married people currently have, go fill out the paperwork for a civil union at the courthouse, and that also goes for both straight and gay couples.

    5. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The LDS church doesn't try to influence politics in the realm of economy, war, labor laws, taxes, etc (many things that directly effect the actual organisation that is the church). There is only one area that the church gets in politics for, and that is things regarded as a threat to the family, which is most important to the church. That is definitely not the same as denouncing an entire political platform. And frankly same sex marriage is a religious issue that has proded its way into politics because of the way government deals with marriage. A church shouldn't lose tax-exemption over a religious issue.

    6. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A church should lose tax exempt status anyway, but if it's something you can vote on then it's a political issue.

    7. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 2, Informative

      In my opinion, churches that take stances on political issues like that should lose their tax-exempt status, as the clause under which they are tax exempt clearly prohibits political activism.

      As someone who has done treasury work for a tax-exempt ecclesiastical organization (aka a 'church'), I can tell you that churches can't take stances on specific ballot initiatives or political candidates.

      What they can say is things like 'We don't believe in gay marriage and we think nobody should support legislation or political candidates that support gay marriage' or 'Most of our members tell us that they won't be voting for Proposition 8'.

      It's a fine line, but technically what they can't say is 'We do not support Prop 8'.** But, they can say anything just short of that.

      ** Note that this is only an example and I realize that Prop 8 is not a ballot issue at this point, so at this point they can say/do whatever they want WRT Prop 8 specifically.

    8. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      Just change the wording in all the laws from marriage to civil union and be done with it.

      Too complicated. Just let any two adults get married (modulo consanguinity or whatever). Marriage is something that most be recognized across state lines, while civil union is not. How'd you like for some california couple to go to utah and, when one of them ends up in the hospital, be told that he has to leave because he isn't legally a spouse? That's like blacks on the 60s who couldn't stay at a motel for fear of being murdered.

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    9. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Altus · · Score: 1

      As long as marriage confers legal rights it is a political issue, there is no getting around that.

      Personally I agree with you about civil unions, I used to espouse that view myself, but then I tried to imagine being the politician who puts this piece of legislation on the table.

      The next day on Rush: Politician X is trying to pass a law to outlaw marriage! Conservatives everywhere must ban together to end his career and preserve the sanctity of the American marriage.

      It would be career suicide.

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    10. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by commodoresloat · · Score: 1, Interesting

      In my opinion, churches that take stances on political issues like that should lose their tax-exempt status, as the clause under which they are tax exempt clearly prohibits political activism.

      Perhaps I'll get modded down for this, but I'll agree and raise you one -- I think churches should lose their tax-exempt status regardless of whether they take stances on political issues. The separation of church and state is possible without treating churches as if they are not a part of the society they generate income from. The Constitution says the state shall not respect an establishment of religion; it does not say that attaching the label "religion" to anyone relieves them of basic social responsibilities. Appraise the Lord!

    11. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by courtjester801 · · Score: 1

      The LDS church often times tries to influence politics; Utah is a prime example of that. Nearly every law or bill has a corresponding brief from the church. That's why tax exempt status should be removed.

    12. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by fyoder · · Score: 5, Insightful

      And frankly same sex marriage is a religious issue that has proded its way into politics because of the way government deals with marriage.

      Exactly. That's why the government should have nothing to do with marriage and churches should have nothing to do with legal rights associated with what we'll call a civil union. Any church of any creed, catholic, wiccan, psychodelic cyberparish of the new voudon, whatever, can perform or not perform marriages for whomever and excluding whomever they wish. But the partnership with all the legal ramifications would be the civil union, and being a secular, government thing, it would not be allowed to discriminate. If a couple wanted both then they would have to see both the priest (or priestess) and the appropriate representative of secular authority for two different ceremonies.

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    13. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's like blacks on the 60s who couldn't stay at a motel for fear of being murdered.

      ...what?

    14. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by daveywest · · Score: 1

      I'm also LDS, and I agree with the church's two positions:

      1.) Marriage is a religious institution between a man and a woman.

      2.) Sex outside of marriage is a sin regardless of who is involved (man, woman, another man, another woman, children, sheep, etc.).

      But, I also agree with the church's position that laws should protect the rights of those who don't believe as I do. In other words, I support civil unions, but I will resist attempts to redefine the word "marriage".

    15. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

      Sure because the economy, war, labor laws and taxes can't be as big a threat to the family as a gay couple you don't even know taking marriage vows.

    16. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      The problem is, this isn't really a political issue, it is a social issue.

      Whether same-sex relationships should occur is a social issue, without being a political issue.

      Whether same-sex couples are given the same treatment under the law, without unequal or supposedly "separate but equal" treatment under the law, is a political issue.

      Prop. 8 relates to the second, not the first, and is therefore political. Of course one's view on the social issue is likely to color one's view on the political issue, but that doesn't stop the political issue from being a political issue.

    17. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by bmajik · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I don't know where religios people get off trying to tell gay people that they don't have the right to share insurance, file taxes together, and visit each other in the hospital; which are about the only rights being legally married entitles you to anyway.

      Well, I cannot speak for all religous people. And I happen to agree with you -- it shouldn't matter what religious people think of how any two people want to spend their time.

      The problem is that being married has a specific set of legal implications that cause people to be required to legally act in certain compliant ways.

      Because the government regulates all kinds of different businesses limiting their ability to discriminate, who and who may not enter into a legally defined/protected class is very much a political issue and very MUCH affects those who for whatever reason may want to continue to act in a discriminatory manner.

      Essentially what it boils down to in my mind is that somepeople want to continue to discriminate. Government codification of homosexual marraige as a protected legal institution will either immeidately or slowly destroy the legal ability to discriminate against homosexuals.

      You may think that is a great outcome and is reason alone for allowing it. I happen to be a very strong proponent of individual rights and think _all_ anti-discrimination laws are unethical and amount to tremendous invasion of someone's right to conduct their affairs, friendships, and business as they see fit.

      Essentially, do you think Bible Thumper Baptists' Mutual Insurance should be legally obligated to take homosexual married couples as clients? If so, support legalized gay marraige.

      When you consider the fan-out-effects of what amounts to defining gay couples as a legally protected class, there _are_ non homosexuals who WILL be forced to act in violation of their religious beleifs. The same goes for requiring doctors to perform abortions -- something else that many religous conservatives are against.

      In my libertarian fantasy land, the way to solve problems like this is to ensure that monopoly and cartels do not take root. That way, for every discriminatory entity out there, many more can compete with it on a non-discriminatory (or counter-actingly discriminatory) basis. All customers are served and no-one acts in opposition to their own values under coercion.

      Furthermore, since the government must serve _all_ people, some people will want to work or be served bythe government, and others will want to exclude those people. The government must side with the minority interest (which is usually inclusive) but will upset the majority. A practical solution is to reduce the scope and function of government as much as possible, so that the interactions of people with different value systems are not fought within the ranks of a singular beaurocratic governance which must be black and white on all such issues, but are instead not fought at all or are fought in a place where competition and specialization are vibrant and mutually productive.

      The current idea of governance -- everything must be decided for everyone, and at a high level -- will always alienate and upset _somebody_. People have this idea that the government is the avenue for inflicting their value system on everyone. Apart from "murdering is bad" and "stealing/destroying somebody else's property bad", Americans don't actually have a huge set of values upon which they overwhelmingly agree.

      Legislating minutae of values will continue to be a point of strife and bitterness in the US.

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    18. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Wordplay · · Score: 1

      In other words, I support civil unions, but I will resist attempts to redefine the word "marriage".

      ...and that's the saddest thing about this. For those who aren't outright bigoted (and I'm sure many of the supporters of Prop 8 are fairly reasonable people) it comes down to semantics. It's about "marriage," the word as it applies to the sacrament, not "marriage," the civil concept.

      I'm wholly in the camp that believes that gov't should only endorse civil unions (in exactly the same way they endorse marriages, but getting away from the name of the sacrament). Unfortunately, I also agree with one of the posters above that it'd be suicide to introduce.

      Perhaps a compromise would be to change the laws such that they recognize a "civil marriage," a concept to be kept distinct from marriage-the-sacrament.

      That is basically the status quo, but perhaps it's all in the wording.

    19. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      This is a constitutional issue. Amend the constitution to prohibit discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and be done with it. The states are required to respect one another's laws. They clearly aren't doing this. Obviously this is one of those cases where the federal government has to step in. But the government was supposed to have been designed to protect minorities and unpopular views.

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    20. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      In addition, the government decides what is or is not a religion, thus providing an unfair advantage to any religion which is branded as such. But then, we should really be eliminating any subsidy that doesn't benefit all the people. A strong case can be made that giving a tax cut to organized Christianity is harmful to the entire world...

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    21. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by zaft · · Score: 1

      In my opinion, churches that take stances on political issues like that should lose their tax-exempt status, as the clause under which they are tax exempt clearly prohibits political activism.

      There's nothing wrong with churches being tax exempt and being political. The restrictions are against PARTISAN politics. There's a really, really big difference. Your opinion would seem to be that churches have no right to participate in public discussions at all.

    22. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by fulldecent · · Score: 1

      There shouldn't be a tax exempt status.

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    23. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If marriage is a religious institution, what business is of the government's to define it one way or another?

      If it is a purely religious union, then marriage should be wholly outside the domain of the government and from the government's purview. They should only recognize civil unions and nothing else.

    24. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by im_thatoneguy · · Score: 1

      I find this line of reasoning hillarious. I agree with it. But it's just so comical that it's the new mainstream solution.

      The religious right have been argueing that if we let gays marry it will destroy the institution of marriage. I never understood how... but now I do. The anti gay-marriage movement is going to accomplish what gay marriage never could have or attempted to do legally redefine marriage as anything anybody wants to call it.

      In a "civil union" nation I can marry a mug of water if I feel like it--and nobody can legally claim that they're "married". This is the nightmare scenario that anti-gay-marriage lobbiests have feared more than anything.

      I hope we do move to a secular non-government enforced marriage system. If only because I'll be laughing at the irony the rest of my life.

    25. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by CODiNE · · Score: 1

      In my opinion, churches that take stances on political issues like that should lose their tax-exempt status, as the clause under which they are tax exempt clearly prohibits political activism.

      The IRS would seem to agree with you.
      An example. (Random google find, it mentions many churches being investigated)

      I've heard there's now hundreds of cases like these going on with the IRS removing tax exempt status from many churches nation wide. It's about time, religion and politics have been strongly mixed throughout history and the United States has been no exception. Many churches you go inside and they'll start straight out telling you who and what to vote for. Ministers can't sell the votes of their congregations without becoming a political organization as much as they might like to believe otherwise.

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    26. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by fyoder · · Score: 1

      In a "civil union" nation I can marry a mug of water if I feel like it

      That might be taking it a little far, but taking this sort of contract of association out of the hands of religion and putting it more into the territory of contract law, we might require civil unions to be exclusive contracts, but not restrict the number of parties in the contract. Somewhat ironically, perhaps, this would better serve the paleomormon looking to have more than one wife.

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    27. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by TooMuchToDo · · Score: 1

      Giving a tax break to any organized religion that can than take that money and fund campaigns such as the LDS church did is harmful to the world.

    28. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Essentially, do you think Bible Thumper Baptists' Mutual Insurance should be legally obligated to take homosexual married couples as clients? If so, support legalized gay marraige.

      When you consider the fan-out-effects of what amounts to defining gay couples as a legally protected class, there _are_ non homosexuals who WILL be forced to act in violation of their religious beleifs.

      So if someone has a religious belief that they must not serve a customer who is black, or customers who are an interracial couple, you don't think they should be fired from their waiter job for that? Because the "religious belief" excuse won't save them on that.

      The same goes for requiring doctors to perform abortions -- something else that many religous conservatives are against.

      Huh? When has a doctor EVER been required to perform an abortion who didn't want to? That would be idiotic, and a breach of medical protocol, since someone opposed to abortion certainly wouldn't be trained in the proper procedure for doing one, and it would be lunacy to have a doctor performing procedures he's not trained for.

      What has made headlines is pharmacists being required to provide contraception to customers, against their religious beliefs. Again, that's too fucking bad: providing medications is what the job requires, and your religious beliefs don't mean you can tell customers what things they can and can't buy. Would you support allowing Scientologist pharmacists to refuse to dispense anti-depressants to customers, and instead give them pamphlets encouraging them to join Scientology? This situation is easily solved, though: give employers the power to hire and fire whoever they want. If an employee (pharmacist) refuses to do his job properly, causing customers to complain or take their business across the street, Walgreens/CVS should be allowed to fire his ass, and should be immune from a lawsuit from him alleging religious discrimination. Now, if Joe's Pharmacy is owned by a guy who doesn't like contraception, and he supports his pharmacists refusing to dispense it, I don't see a problem with that, because many of his customers will simply not go there any more, and take their business to someplace that doesn't force their crazy religious beliefs on them. Employees should NEVER be allowed to dictate policy to their employer. That's insane.

    29. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by blueskies · · Score: 1

      There is only one area that the church gets in politics for, and that is things regarded as a threat to the family, which is most important to the church.

      Which is why they are crazy and non-rational. They clearly have a religion based on pumping out as many children as possible. Having the heathens enter into 'families' that aren't reproducing HELPS them!!

    30. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Archangel+Michael · · Score: 1

      "I don't know where religios people get off trying to tell gay people that they don't have the right to share insurance, file taxes together, and visit each other in the hospital; which are about the only rights being legally married entitles you to anyway."

      I'm "religious" and I actually agree. I think the state should have NO regard to the marital status of anyone, nor say what is or isn't "marriage". I think everybody should define it the way they want to define it. LDS can go back to Polygamy even. Angelina Jolie can marry her brother even.

      There is no reason why the state should be involved in any way shape or form. Period.

      And that also means the state can't tell companies to give insurance to "domestic partners" or "gays" or even "Heterosexuals". This would mean each company would define benefits according to its own rules!

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    31. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by ak3ldama · · Score: 1

      IMHO, marriage is a personal (and sometimes religious) choice, and as such the government should just stay out of it.

      Which is why there should be no such tax breaks!

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    32. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Archangel+Michael · · Score: 1

      "Just let any two adults get married (modulo consanguinity or whatever). "

      Really? You would allow people to marry their sister (or brother)? Cousin?

      And why we're at it, why not allow for Polygamy? Isn't that more acceptable world wide than Gay Marriage?

      If you don't want limits, then really stand up for NO LIMITS. Else it becomes a battle of defining marriage, and then it why not say "marriage is between one man, one woman" ??

      You see, the issue becomes one of defining it according to political AND religious ideology, and there is no "good" solution that doesn't exclude someone for something. The moment you accept exclusion of one, then the debate DOES revolve around where to draw that line.

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    33. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In my opinion, churches that take stances on political issues like that should lose their tax-exempt status, as the clause under which they are tax exempt clearly prohibits political activism.

      Actually, the IRS code does allow churches, and other tax exempt organizations for that matter, to voice opinion/take action on items of legislation. However, the time/effort involved cannot be a significant portion of what the organization does. Support of a candidate or party is strictly prohibited.

    34. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      Just out of curiosity, do you also have a problem with non-Mormon (or non-Christian, or non-Abrahamic religion) marriages in general? If "marriage" is specifically a religious descriptor, then isn't marriage of someone from outside the religion, such as an atheist, or a Wiccan, or a Hindu, just as much an affront to "God's" wishes as a gay marriage?

      By the way, I'm not looking to beat up on you here, I really am curious as this always seemed like it should be a flaw in the "marriage is religious" argument and I wonder how people reconcile it.

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    35. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The LDS church donated no money to any campaign. It's members did.

    36. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by JesseMcDonald · · Score: 1

      If they're going to be truly religion-neutral, civil unions shouldn't be limited to "a couple" -- all numbers and combinations of individuals should be eligible.

      Personally I'd rather that the implications of a civil union be limited to just the tax aspects. Shared insurance is a matter between the insurer and the one(s) paying for the insurance; whether hospital visits are permitted should be up to the hospital, with input from the person receiving care. (The latter could be arranged in advance; e.g. a card or letter of introduction provided to family members.) Neither requires any official recognition from the government.

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    37. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by DaFallus · · Score: 1

      I don't know where religios people get off trying to tell gay people that they don't have the right to share insurance, file taxes together, and visit each other in the hospital; which are about the only rights being legally married entitles you to anyway.

      I remember listening to people calling up the radio stations because Bill White, mayor of Houston, was discussing how idiotic the proposed (at the time, now unfortunately a reality) Texas constitutional ban of gay marriage. People would call in and make the most illogical arguments against gay marriage and Bill White would literally call them an idiot or moron to their face (or ears).

      I think what the entire argument boils down to is the old adage that people fear what they don't understand. They see these people who are different from them, just like foreigners with different accents, languages, and skin color, and they just lose it. They can't handle the fact that these people who are attracted to and have sex with members of the same sex want to participate in something that traditionally has been only for "normal" heterosexual people. These same people either don't understand the difference between a religious marriage and a civil union or they think homosexuals are just trying to take advantage of the legal benefits associated with marriage (taxes, etc). It isn't that different from the opposition to the woman's rights movement or the civil rights movement. People are just scared and dumb. I think that once most of the stuck-up-their-ass baby-boomer dinosaurs die off this will become less of a problem, at least until we reach the next social milestone.

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    38. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by hansamurai · · Score: 1

      I also hope you're against government bailouts too of corporations. I'm for the separation of church and state and corporation and state.

    39. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      From a strictly utilitarian perspective, the churches are generally more efficient in helping the needy than the government. The Constitution bans a STATE CHURCH, i.e. Church of England, Church of Scotland, etc. By no means did the founders consider churches just another business. They held services in the Capitol in DC, so the founders were quite fine with churchmen attempting to influence the flock.

    40. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I find the LDS church's actions regarding Prop 8 to be highly inappropriate.

      At first I had the same feeling as you here. Upon reflection, however, I came to conclusion that any church should have a right to have a say when the measure at hand would affect them (which is the same thing that Google is doing here). In this case the LDS Church could construe this as a defense to maintain their right to exclude homosexuals from their marriage ceremonies (which I believe should be in their right).

      A bill that I believe would be more ideal in this situation is one that defines marriage in terms of the individuals getting married AND the institution performing the ceremony. Essentially it would be, any institution that can perform a marriage can include/exclude any people wishing to be married (so I guess this would include polygamy then). It would protect churches, like the LDS Church, from performing marriages that violate their doctrine, and allow individuals to marry whomever they please, so long as they can find an institution to perform the marriage.

    41. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      [citation needed]

    42. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Sique · · Score: 1

      In a "civil union" nation I can marry a mug of water if I feel like it--and nobody can legally claim that they're "married".

      If you get the mug to sign the papers, it would be possible, yes.

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    43. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by cadience · · Score: 1

      This Is how it is done in Mexico; there are two ceremonies. Yep - I imported ;-)

    44. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Theaetetus · · Score: 1
      Quoted out of order for clarity:

      I don't know where religios people get off trying to tell gay people that they don't have the right to share insurance, file taxes together, and visit each other in the hospital; which are about the only rights being legally married entitles you to anyway.

      There are more - intestate inheritance free from probate, automatic legal and medical proxy for an incapacitated spouse, protection of the Family Medical Leave Act to take time off work to care for an injured spouse without getting fired, etc.

      If you want to get married, go to a church that will marry you, but don't expect the government to recognize it, and that goes for both straight and gay couples. If you want the rights legally married people currently have, go fill out the paperwork for a civil union at the courthouse, and that also goes for both straight and gay couples.

      That's the current situation, though you don't realize it. If you go to a church, you have a wedding and afterwards are in wedlock. You must go to the town clerk or courthouse to fill out the marriage certificate. If you don't, you are not married, you are merely wed. Likewise, you can be married without ever setting foot in a church - in which case, you are not wed.
      But very few people recognize the difference. That said...

      IMHO, marriage is a personal (and sometimes religious) choice, and as such the government should just stay out of it...Just change the wording in all the laws from marriage to civil union and be done with it.

      Can't. Marriage is a sacred institution, with many centuries of tradition and societal prestige. It's so important that many people are willing to enshrine discrimination into their Constitutions. Civil unions lack that prestige and tradition. Removing marriage and just giving everyone civil unions would be deprivation of a property right without due process and violate the Constitution.
      It has to be marriage for everyone. No way around it.

    45. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wonder what it would look like on a 1040:

      "Divorced" "Single" "Civil-Unioned"

    46. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I suspect you do not know the word "consanguinity". Here's a wiki link: consanguinity.

    47. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by bugs2squash · · Score: 1

      Perhaps people should be able to incorporate as a company together and enjoy the benefits previously defined for married couples. Heck, if they incorporated nowadays they probably wouldn't pay any tax.

      I wish I could mod up JesseMcDonald, he/she took the thoughts right out of my head.

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    48. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Surt · · Score: 1

      Most anti-8 people I've talked to are all in favor of NO LIMITS, but there are many who feel that the disgusting pedophilia popular among the polygamists would be bad for the cause, and favor fighting one battle at a time. Yes, MLK should have stood up for gays as well as blacks, but you know, he had his own priorities.

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    49. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      From a BYU Professor...

      Proposition 8 seems straight forward: Should gay couple marriages be granted the same legal status as heterosexual marriages? As framed by opponents to Prop. 8, if you vote yes, you don't want equal rights for gay couples. If you vote no, you do want equal rights for gay couples. However, a "yes" vote on proposition 8 is not as simple as a desire to deny rights to gay couples. If gay marriage were legally sanctioned and given the exact same legal standing as heterosexual marriage, Christian churches are concerned that they will not be able to exercise their freedom of religion "rights" in applying a moral code with regard to their services and facilities. Let me give a specific example.

      In 2006, Catholic Charities closed down their adoption services in Massachusetts because they lost the ability to apply their moral code with regard to their adoption services. Under Massachusetts state law (now that gay marriage is legal), any agency performing adoptions requires a state license, and the license would have been revoked if Catholic Charities did not allow gay couples to adopt. Rather than fighting the legal battles, Catholic Charities decided to close because it would take ''too much time and energy."

      The Catholic Church, our church, and other Christian churches have large adoption agencies in California. If Proposition 8 had passed it would have infringed on these Church adoption agencies' "rights" to place adoptive children in homes of their choosing. The Catholic Church initiated the coalition of Christian churches in support of Prop. 8 not long after it closed its adoption services in Massachusetts; I suspect this was a catalyst. The point is that granting gay couple marriages the same legal status as those of heterosexual couples has resulted in what Christian churches believe is an infringement of their religious rights to apply their moral code in their adoption services.

      This issue (along with the definition of marriage issue) was probably enough to get Christian churches to support Proposition 8. But I think there were also concerns that what happened in adoption services could possibly spillover into other church activities where the state grants licenses (e.g., education-related activities, marriage licenses). These are likely unfounded concerns but they are concerns nonetheless.

      So whose rights trump? I personally think it is fairly easy to argue that, generally speaking, individual rights should outweigh religious freedom rights if individual rights are being denied. However, in this particular case the 2003 Domestic Partnership Act in the state of California (Family Code 297.5) provided in broad and sweeping terms the following: "Registered domestic partners shall have the same rights, protections, and benefits, and shall be subject to the same responsibilities, obligations, and duties under law, whether they derive from statutes, administrative regulations, court rules, government policies, common law, or any other provisions or sources of law, as are granted to and imposed upon spouses." Multiple California Supreme Court Justices and legal scholars have written that under California law, same-sex unions are "legal unions with all the substantive benefits of opposite-sex legal unions."
      This information was widely shared among the Christian community before the Proposition 8 vote.
      (Note: you stated in your initial email that "the realistic alternative [to gay marriage] is institutionally demanded promiscuity;" in California that is not the case; your son could enter into a legal union with all of the rights, responsibilities, and obligations of heterosexual unions).

      Most Christians voted for Proposition 8 with the knowledge that gay couples have the same legal rights as heterosexual couples with one exception: their unions cannot legally be referred to as "marriage." This seems like a minor distinction, but as we both know, this issue matters to both sides for different reasons. For Christians, the word "marriage

    50. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by daveywest · · Score: 1

      A lot of times, people think Mormons (especially our missionaries) are out saying, "We're right; every one else is wrong." That's not really the case. I firmly believe all religious truth comes from one source. I also believe there are other forces corrupting or manipulating that truth and that is why there are so many different religions.

      I'm a Mormon because I've found the church's teachings answer more spiritual questions than anything else I've seen, and that includes recognizing that other religions teach true principles.

      So, back to my original post, "Marriage is a religious institution between a man and a woman," regardless of who preforms the ceremony. I also believe those with the proper authority can bind a husband and wife beyond "death do us part." If you'd like some better answers to "what mormons believe", I'd suggest you check out mormon.org.

    51. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      A lot of times, people think Mormons (especially our missionaries) are out saying, "We're right; every one else is wrong." That's not really the case. I firmly believe all religious truth comes from one source.

      But isn't that contradictory? If religious truth comes from one source, and that source is the Book of Mormon, then "We're right; every one else is wrong" is exactly what you're saying.

      So, back to my original post, "Marriage is a religious institution between a man and a woman," regardless of who preforms the ceremony. I also believe those with the proper authority can bind a husband and wife beyond "death do us part."

      Okay, but if the marriage is performed by someone who denies the one source of religious truth, then how do they have *any* authority to perform a marriage at all? How is a marriage performed by and for people who deny your one true source any less problematic when they're heterosexual than when they're homosexual? If you told me that you don't accept *any* marriage that's not conducted by your church, I'd understand, but I really don't get picking and choosing which unsanctified marriages to like or dislike....

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    52. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by howlingmadhowie · · Score: 1

      that's what it's like in germany.

    53. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Dirtside · · Score: 1

      I hope it's as simple as changing what word the government uses to refer to what they currently call "marriage." Somehow I think the bigotry underlying this whole debacle won't go away just because we stop using that word in a legal context.

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    54. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't see why it should matter if he is LDS. Don't persecute people for their beliefs or you are just as guilty of discrimination as they are.

      Historically the LDS church has already been on the receiving end of discriminatory laws(the extermination order for example). The US told the LDS chuch what to do concerning marriage ~200 years ago. The people of then decided that plural marriage was evil and threatened to take over all of the LDS church's assets if they were not immediately discontinued. They even sent out an army to make sure that the law was being followed.

      The common answer from everyone for this malady is just to remove marriage from the governments regulation. That comes with it's own problems that I'm not sure that we are prepared to face. If you think that conservatives are outraged over same sex marriage, you'll see even more panic over plural and animal "union".

      I will say this, most of the reasons that people say gay marriage is needed are crap. for example (taken from above)

      Hospitals: most hospitals are scared of lawsuits and have changed their rules to allow almost anyone into the hospital room with their friend, relative, partner etc. There are still rules regarding age (no babies for infection reasons) and the number of people in the room is limited.
      Honestly, if someone tried to forcibly remove you from seeing someone in the hospital just call your lawyer, it'll get worked out really fast.

      Insurance: Whomever the insured lists as the beneficiary of the insurance gets it, period. The only problem arises when you want to go to court and fight over who should get it.

      Child custody: Almost all states allow for joint custody of a child between partners. yes there is a little bit more paperwork (and probably a lawyer fee) involved. The same paperwork is required for (strait) adopting parents as well. Careful planning for tragedy will allow for the child to remain in the custody of the surviving parent. Custody is only an issue when there is ambiguity surrounding the child's surviving guardian.

      If these really are problems it wouldn't be very hard to get a law passed changing all of these things. Historically securing gay rights has met with much less resistance than gay marriage.

      Even if the government removes itself from marriage most of these things will be unchanged from the way they are now. Paperwork will still have to be filed and lawyers will still have to be paid.

      Let face it, being different isn't easy (and when it does become easy are you really all that different?).

    55. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      prop 8 did not take away hospital visitation, insurance, joint state taxes NOR ANY OTHER right. In fact, all of those rights are still (and were already) guaranteed in California under other legislation and civil unions.

      Prop 8 simply preserved the definition of marriage as between a man and a woman, protecting the rights of those who believe that marriage is between a man and a woman. If the term marriage is applied to gay unions, then Churches can be sued for not performing gay marriage against their conscience, schools are required to teach that it is the same as heterosexual marriage if they teach about marriage, and religious adoption services are required to place children for adoption in gay homes against their conscience or shut down altogether. (ALL of those things have already happened in other states where gay "marriage" is recognized). THAT is discrimination.

      Prop 8 took no rights away. It simply protects religions and individuals from being discriminated against by the government. Anyone who expresses belief that homosexuality is wrong is labeled as spewing hate speech.

      The "No on prop 8" people have resorted to threats, violence, and intimidation. Now I ask, who are the people who are really discriminating? It's the people who are attacking the religious folks, not the religious folks who are trying to protect their right to believe and act according to their conscience.

    56. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Thalaric · · Score: 1

      In California same sex couples can already

      share insurance, file taxes together, and visit each other in the hospital

      due to domestic partnership law. In fact the only difference between domestic partnership and marriage is on a federal level, which won't be affected one bit by passing same sex marriage in California because it's still not recognized federally and available across all states.

      This entire debate is really semantics.

    57. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow...given how little you appear to understand about the law, politics and tax exemption (and probably life in general) I'm rather glad you left the church.

    58. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you get the mug to sign the papers, it would be possible, yes.

      I might just be missing something, but under this solution "marriage" would be a purely religious/social thing, right? Wouldn't that mean there would be no papers to be signed (or any that need to be signed anyway)?

    59. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      Okay, replying to myself....

      A lot of times, people think Mormons (especially our missionaries) are out saying, "We're right; every one else is wrong." That's not really the case. I firmly believe all religious truth comes from one source.

      Re-reading this, I think I misunderstood what you meant. Are you saying that, in a way, all religions are right, and that this overall "religious truth" is divinely inspired by the same source, but carried by different belief systems? If so, what is the purpose of multiple religions, and why choose one over another if they're all inspired by the same base "truth"? At that point, why Mormon over Unitarian for instance? How do you account for irreconcilable contradictions between various religions? It seems to me that to choose a particular religion implies that you believe that one to be true, and the others to be flawed at best, or just flat out false.

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    60. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by commodoresloat · · Score: 1

      It's a far cry from being "quite fine with churchmen attempting to influence the flock" to giving the churchmen billions of dollars in subsidies and saying "do what thou wilt" with it, which is what we do every year that we don't collect taxes from them. They may be more efficient at helping the needy on a dollar to dollar basis, but surely you don't think every dollar the government hands the churches goes directly to helping the needy? I could be supportive of tax breaks to faith based programs that specifically help people while still collecting taxes on the income of the institutions themselves, but that's not the situation here.

    61. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by commodoresloat · · Score: 1

      The Church made a pretty unambiguous call (practically a demand) to its members to contribute; this becomes a matter of splitting hairs.

    62. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by commodoresloat · · Score: 1

      Good point; that would seem to go directly against the establishment clause, since by determining that the LDS is a religion and that, say, the LSD is not a religion, the government has "respected an establishment of religion." Somebody needs to tell Newdow to quit whining about taking "so help me God" out of official shibboleths and spend his time pressing this issue instead....

    63. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by bmajik · · Score: 1

      So if someone has a religious belief that they must not serve a customer who is black, or customers who are an interracial couple, you don't think they should be fired from their waiter job for that? Because the "religious belief" excuse won't save them on that.

      Correct. That is an example of what I meant by _all_ anti-discrimination laws. Legally, I think people should be allowed to be bigots. No matter what the law says, you won't change their hearts or their minds with coercion. You'll create lasting bitterness, however.

      The key is to ensure that bigots do not have a monopoly on _power_. Government often grants power to some and restricts it from others. Government tends to protect encumbents and encumbents tend to protect government. This cycle has to be fought at every turn so that when an entrenched business has a backwards racist policy, new competing businesses are not hampered from entering the market and blacks have a valid way of entering the workforce in that industry.

      What has made headlines is pharmacists being required to provide contraception to customers, against their religious beliefs. Again, that's too fucking bad: providing medications is what the job requires, and your religious beliefs don't mean you can tell customers what things they can and can't buy.

      The _government_ requiring someone to act against their beleifs is generally best avoided.

      Would you support allowing Scientologist pharmacists to refuse to dispense anti-depressants to customers, and instead give them pamphlets encouraging them to join Scientology?

      Yes.

      This situation is easily solved, though: give employers the power to hire and fire whoever they want. If an employee (pharmacist) refuses to do his job properly, causing customers to complain or take their business across the street, Walgreens/CVS should be allowed to fire his ass, and should be immune from a lawsuit from him alleging religious discrimination.

      Exactly. Because I beleive this (anyone can fire anyone's ass for any reason and have better lawsuit immunity than they do today), I can also support the above points of view: pharmacists ought to be allowed to not sell drugs they are morally against. Doctors should be free to not perform procedures they are morally against. Bigots ought to be free to not serve people they do not like.

      Maximum freedom for all people. The government stays out of the business of picking winners and losers, and of forcing ideologies on resistant people.

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    64. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by daveywest · · Score: 1

      I think you've started to grasp the idea I was (poorly) expressing. We don't think truth comes from the Book of Mormon, but we recognize it as a pure testament of Christianity. Truth comes from God. On a very basic level, I believe all good knowledge comes from God. That includes all scientific, medical, technological, etc. knowledge in the world. Its a lot easier to reconcile scientific discoveries with spiritual knowledge when you recognize God knows and understand all those things on a level we don't even know exists.

      As to other religions, there is a quote I once heard that sums up a lot of religion: "the philosophies of men mingled with scripture."

      Let me give you an example where we feel like we have a better understanding than most of the world. Mormons believe in an afterlife that extends beyond the traditional heaven/hell of most Christian teachings. Yes there is a heaven/hell, but we call them Paradise and Spirit Prison respectively. Even those who go to hell have the opportunity to accept Christ and be redeemed. Beyond that, there is a final judgment beyond just the your either good or bad idea of heaven vs. hell. Look in 1 Corinthians 15:41-42. It talks about the resurection being graded as either of the sun, the moon, or the stars. That's three levels it describes being in glory. If heaven or hell is all there is, then at minimum, there is a level of glory not explained by most religions. (Not to mention, most don't exactly describe hell being a glorious place.)

      The one thing Mormons (missionaries or your friends) as a whole really want is for the world to listen to what we have to teach, then take that up with God. Personally, I have faith that the things I'm taught are true, so its really up to me whether I'll act on that knowledge.

    65. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      I dunno, still sounds an awful lot like "We're right and you're wrong" to me.

      The one thing Mormons (missionaries or your friends) as a whole really want is for the world to listen to what we have to teach, then take that up with God. Personally, I have faith that the things I'm taught are true, so its really up to me whether I'll act on that knowledge.

      Of course, everyone wants to be heard. Just keep in mind though that very few people other than other Mormons care what you have to say. Your "truth" is their "delusion". Just as you aren't likely to be swayed by Hindus, or Wiccans or Satanists, nobody else is likely to be swayed by you. And for that very reason, the non-religious don't want your religion in law that affects the rest of us.

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    66. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Alsee · · Score: 1

      I noticed that elsewhere you suggested eliminating any government/legal status of marriage. That would be a pretty radical and complex change to pull off, but I absolutely agree that would solve the problem as far as I am concerned. Some churches would preform gay marriages, some would preform polygamist marriages, some would preform incestuous marriages, and you know that somewhere some church is going to preform a marriage involving a goat. And most of the people complaining about the definition of marriage now are going to rant even louder. Well, people have every right to believe what they like, and to say what they like, so as far as I'm concerned they can keep believing and keep complaining and the problem is solved so long as no one is hijacking the force of government to write and impose discrimination in the law. The government can put up a public water fountain, or the government can *not* put up a public water fountain, but the government cannot put up a public drinking fountain and slap a "whites only" sign on in, and then proceed to imprison any blacks who use it.

      I agree hat eliminating all laws officially granting and recognizing marriages is a legally valid option to resolve the problem. However there currently do exist such laws, and the rest of my post is going to confine itself to addressing the situation where they do exist and for so long as they continue to exist.

      If you don't want limits

      There are legally valid laws, and there are unconstitutional, invalid, laws. There are a variety of ways that valid laws can be written, a variety of things they can can be written to include or to exclude. The law can and routinely does recognize a legal distinction between minors and adults. The law CAN be written to limit marriages to adults. The law CAN be written with no such limit, written to allow 4-year-olds to marry, however if you propose such a thing I am going to vote against you. The law can and routinely does distinguish between humans and animals. Animals have no constitutional right to equal treatment under the law. You COULD write a valid law granting some sort of marriage involving animals, however if you propose such a thing I am going to vote against you. Just because it is a potentially VALID law does not make it a good or reasonable law.

      This is about valid law vs invalid law.

      There is no way you can write a valid law granting legal marriage to a white couples, while denying a marriage license to an otherwise identical interracial couple.

      The Constitution's Equal Protection Clause guarantees equal treatment under the law, equal civil rights. The law cannot examine people race, gender, or religion, as a basis to discriminate treatment under the law. The law can discriminate between minor and adult, but it cannot discriminate black vs white or male vs female or Catholic vs Protestant vs Jewish. I suspect you agree that is right and good, that as far as the law goes it should treat people as people, legally blind to race and gender and religion.

      You cannot write a law granting marriages and denying interracial marriage because the law cannot examine the races of marriage applicants as a basis to discriminate acceptable vs unacceptable marriage applications.

      The Constitutional basis controlling interracial marriage law applies EXACTLY to gay marriage as well.

      You cannot write a law granting marriages and denying gay marriage because the law cannot examine the genders of marriage applicants as a basis to discriminate acceptable vs unacceptable marriage applications.

      So long as the government hands out marriage licenses, they can no more use gender examination to deny gay marriages than it can use racial examination to deny interracial marriage.

      Any jurisdiction currently denying gay marriage applicants is in violation f the law. In violation of constitutional law. In 1968 numerous states had laws denying interracial marriage. Then, exactly as now, such couples are legally entitled to sue the state under the Equal Pr

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    67. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by tylernt · · Score: 1

      The LDS church donated no money to any campaign. It's members did.

      The Church made a pretty unambiguous call (practically a demand) to its members to contribute; this becomes a matter of splitting hairs.

      Unless the Church threatened disciplinary action against non-contributing members (i.e., duress), this isn't much of an argument.

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    68. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Alsee · · Score: 1

      I think you have a reasonable but misplaced argument.

      defining gay couples as a legally protected class

      Not at all. You actually made an argument about marriage as a legally protected class. It has no particular relevance to gays per se being permitted or denied marriages.

      Bible Thumper Baptists' Mutual Insurance [] legally obligated to take homosexual married couples as clients?

      The exact same thing would apply to interracial marriage, or to some religion that rejects marriages preformed on Tuesdays.

      The gay marriage issue is fundamentally about government action and governmental discrimination. It is impossible to write a marriage law denying interracial marriage applicants. The Equal Protection Clause of the Constitutional prohibits the government from examining applicant's races as a basis to discriminate approved vs denied applicants. Equal protection prohibits the law from examining gender or race as a basis for legal treatment. Any law attempting to exclude gay marriages is simply invalid, for the exact same reason as a law trying to exclude interracial marriages.

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    69. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Alsee · · Score: 1

      That means that obviously he must be excluded if you want to have diversity.
      Everyone knows that the only way to have diversity is to exclude members of LDS or other organizations that believe something contrary to the accepted standard.

      What a load of crap.

      He did not say anyone must be excluded from anything.
      He mentioned someone's affiliation with a group/ideology, which can at times provide useful context. If someone is a Scientologist, I am going to be rather skeptical of anything they say regarding psychologists. If someone is a member of the KKK, well then my personal choice is not to waste much time on their ideological-bullshit on anything relating to race.

      Note that my comment here really shouldn't be taken as relating to the LDS in particular. I am specifically bitch-slapping at the parent poster trying to make some persecuted-by-diversity whine.

      If some asshat wants to prohibit interracial marriage, I respect their right to believe what they want and I respect their right to speak, however that does not mean I have to respect THEM and it does not mean I have to respect that belief. If someone wants to prohibit interracial marriage, then they are an asshole, an idiot, and I will neither tolerate not permit them to attempt to use the force of government to legally discriminate/oppress others.

      Tolerance of speech, tolerance of beliefs, but no, no tolerance of that sort abusing of physical or legal force against others.

      If some asshat wants to prohibit gay marriage, I respect their right to believe what they want and I respect their right to speak, however that does not mean I have to respect THEM and it does not mean I have to respect that belief. If someone wants to prohibit gay marriage.... well lets be generous and say they have not properly considered the logic and legal basis and Constitutional Rights of what they wish to do. I will neither tolerate not permit them to attempt to use the force of government to legally discriminate/oppress others.

      Legally, Constitutionally, there is no difference between the cases of interracial marriage and gay marriage.

      The law should not, must not, and under the Constitution CANNOT, discriminate legal treatment on the basis of race, gender, or religion.

      You can no more write a marriage law denying gay marriages for the exact same reason you can't write a law denying interracial marriages. There's just no way to write a Constitutionally valid law to accomplish it. The law cannot examine the races of marriage applicants as a basis to discriminate which applications to approve and which to reject. You cannot examine the genders of marriage applicants to discriminate which applications to approve and which to reject.

      The law must be blind to race, gender, and religion. The law must ignore such factors for all civil rights and in all legal treatment.

      Almost everyone will agree with the statement hat the law should be blind to race gender and religion, and then they choke on the logic of actually living up to that princpal, they choke on logic when it comes to actually making marriage law blind to race gender and religion. They just really really dislike interracial/gay marriage, so let's just throw Equal Protection out the window, lets have marriage law discriminate on the basis of race/gender/religion just because interracial/gay marriages are really icky and I really really don't want those people getting married - screw civil rights and screw equal protection under the law.

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    70. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If a couple wanted both then they would have to see both the priest (or priestess) and the appropriate representative of secular authority for two different ceremonies.

      This makes a lot of sense.

      At first.

      Then you start thinking, "Why should the state have any ceremony at all?" Why should the state recognize any such thing as marriage or civil union? If you want to throw your lots in with each other, start a company.

      Ah, but what about children?

      Oh, that's right. There are important reasons for the state to recognize marriage. Or are there?

      Are marriages a better way of dealing with custody than corporations? Why?

      If you feel that there is some quality of a "marriage" that is better suited to the custody of children than a "corporation" can you explain it? Or do you start getting into the philosophical, bordering on religious?

      If there really is something about a marriage that is better than a corporation, is there something about a stable marriage that is better than a dissolved marriage? Better than just living together? Better than not living together exactly, but sleeping with each other exclusively?

      Is there something better about 10 year-old marriages than 2 year-old marriages? Marriages with one stay-at-home spouse? Marriages in apartments vs. single-family homes?

      I challenge you to explain what interest the state has in recognizing any marriage? Why can't family court and corporate court be the same?

      I think there is a value and a purpose to marriage that can't be matched by a corporation. That value and purpose is not served by a same-sex marriage. It doesn't matter if the marriage is recognized by a priest or a county clerk.

      I don't see why the state would have any interest at all recognizing such a thing as marriage if it did not have some value to the state (ie, the population).

      You might also note that state definition of marriage and church definition of marriage are not necessarily the same. There have been some high profile convictions lately of people who performed or condoned marriages sanctioned by their church that the state characterized as "bigomy" or even "rape." Meeting the church's definition did not necessarily meet the state's definition.

      Marriage certificates are not issued by churches. Requirements for marriage certificates are generally not required by churches.

    71. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      that would be because the majority population has a shared culture and mindset as well as religion. Being a Mormon from Wisconsin living in Utah, I can tell who is from Utah and not in general.

    72. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by superstition222 · · Score: 1

      Two flaws: 1. Marriage is already civil. There is no litmus test for eligibility based in religion. A Buddhist can marry a Muslim at a courthouse and no one cares. 2. The scorched earth policy (destroy an institution rather than extend is to gays) is absurd, albeit popular. It's what my university did to prevent the partners of gay employees from being listed in the directory. The university stopped listing the spouses of hetero employees.

    73. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm a member of the LDS church and I don't care if we lose our tax status. I am also against constitutional amendments. The problem here is that government grants special privileges to those who are married. I am all for removing all tax benefits to married couples and extending visitation, benefits, and all other privileges to civil unions.

      However, the heart of this movement extends beyond simple monetary advantages and attempts to strike at the heart of traditional values. If the homosexuals were allowed to completely have their way the result would force churches to marry any and all who came calling, in which lawsuits would result from refusal to do so. Allowing governments or courts to dictate to churches whom they must marry is tyranny.

      When the government seeks to uphold the supposed rights of a deviant minority and dictate to private organizations how they run their affairs, the organizations affected have every right to encourage action.

    74. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by courtjester801 · · Score: 1

      Here's an example from today's Salt Lake Tribune: http://www.sltrib.com/ci_11522479

    75. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I can give you a reason, probably people are fed up with Mormons getting blamed for this passing when the black community (70+% support) delivered more votes for 8. Check the California census numbers for both groups.

    76. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      So basically you think that employers should be forced to accept employees doing whatever the hell they want if it's because of their religious beliefs?

      You're nuts.

    77. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by bmajik · · Score: 1

      Reading Comprehension FAIL

      anyone can fire anyone's ass for any reason and have better lawsuit immunity than they do today

      See what I wrote in the post you responded to?

      I don't think the _government_ should force people to do anything. I think if you work for a place you ought to be able to tell your boss you're not going to do something... and it should be between you and your boss. The state shouldn't get involved.

      Of course, going hand in hand with this is that your boss ought to be able to tell you to sod off for not doing your job. You don't get to claim some special protection because of your religion -- if your boss wants to fire you, they get to.

      I'm in favor of both. Either one by itself would suck.

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    78. Re:Mike Murray is LDS (mormon) by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Sounds great to me; I just didn't see that stated clearly before.

      The problem I see is that the religionists will claim "discrimination", first-amendment rights, or some such silliness, and that their bosses shouldn't be able to fire them. And the way the court systems and law in this country is going, I definitely don't see things going towards the libertarian principle we both apparently favor.

  5. depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    If you're one of those dumbshit gay hating jesusbots, I guess that's evil.

    But really, if Jesus were to come back today and see what those guys were calling a religion based on his teachings, he'd be totally fucking pissed.

    1. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      In California, civil unions have the same protection/rights as marriage. The gay community is not denied any rights or privilages. They want marriage because (1) its the common term in legal documents, so it could exclude rights by mistake (2) a social perspective.

      The Jewish definition of marriage has been defined for thousands of years. It has a meaning at both the church and state level, which is the problem. Many people do not like the government redefining a religious term. An overwhelming majority of anti-gay marriage voters are for a separation of the terms and the granting of equal rights, but this is not acceptable by the gay community. This makes it messy, hence the majority voting for Prop8.

      P.S. I voted for Prop8, live in Bay Area, had gay teachers/classmates/friends, etc. If the government would stop using the term marriage, I would have voted for 100% equality.

    2. Re:Depends by CopaceticOpus · · Score: 5, Insightful

      That's the problem - marriage is a religious term for many people. And yet, recognizing marriages for some people and civil unions for others is never going to be truly equal.

      The solution is easy! Don't recognize marriages at all. Recognize all pairings between two people as civil unions, regardless of the genders involved. People can call them marriages and debate the meaning of that all they like, but the government stays out of the debate. The only reason the government is involved at all is because of the legal and economic implications of these unions.

    3. Re:Depends by CannonballHead · · Score: 2, Informative

      Two comments. First - the New Testament part of the Bible also condemns homosexuality.

      Second. Some argue about the degradation/deterioration of the family in a nation being correlated to its demise (e.g., Rome's "family values" got pretty bad, especially as it applied to mistresses/prostitutes/marriage/kids). Saying it doesn't affect (or, as you more strongly put it, "harm") anyone but the two people involved is, IMO, an understatement. You may as well say that prostitution or gambling doesn't affect anyone but those directly involved. Family, friends, acquaintances (kids, in the gay marriage case?) are all affected.

      Whether or not the effect is bad is partially what should be considered, too.

      It's also interesting (I guess this makes #3) to point out that not allowing gay marriage doesn't mean gays can't live together; it means the government doesn't recognize it as a marriage. Which is, by this time, almost a name-only thing. I am guessing it has similar arguments (the non-legalizing it) as not allowing polygamy and bestiality to be legal marriage unions. Except homosexuals can be domestic partners, polygamists cannot be domestic partners with 2+ others, and you can't be a domestic partner of a cat.

      Short version: there's a lot more to it than "it's between the two men or women, it doesn't affect anyone or anything else, so why is it illegal?"

    4. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The new part is loving and forgiving if there is repentance which means a turning away from the sinful lifestyle. Homosexuality, like adultery is explicitly spoken against as something that would keep you out of heaven in both the old and new parts.

      I don't see it as a moral issue but as an issue of protection myself. How someone else gets married won't directly affect me or make me get another cold or anything. But I think it will harm them.

      Suicide is illegal in this country. Why? You don't hurt anyone else. But you cause harm to yourself, in this case ending your life. In the case of homosexuality you cause harm to yourself, in this case eternal separation from God. I personally see that as even more dramatic harm than ending your life. So, while it doesn't directly affect me I will not encourage a behavior which I believe causes irreparable and permanent harm to the one doing it. I will instead try to help discourage people from it. That may be by voting for a law prohibiting it or it may be by trying to convince someone my position is correct. If the law allows them to marry persuasion is my only tool left and I'll use it. Until then I'll try to use the law.

    5. Re:Depends by WiiVault · · Score: 1

      Seriously, as a hispanic American I can attest to the amount of kissing I have seen between my male family members (usually on the cheek). Ironically enough most of whom oppose gay marriage.

    6. Re:Depends by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

      You've got it backwards. If government wasn't involved in marriage, gays could marry without a problem.

    7. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In our culture, heterosexual women kiss each other. So, again, so what?

      citation wanted

    8. Re:Depends by OrlandoEsperanto · · Score: 1

      The depth of your scholarly analysis of this deep-seated and complicated cultural issue has convinced me.

    9. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That reminds like when gay marriage opposition says: "Oh come one, what will they do next, marry their dog or a goat?"

      Marrying a goat is not the same as marrying a gay partner.

      The gay partner is human, and the goat isn't.

      Yes to rights for humans!

    10. Re:Depends by Microlith · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Which is, by this time, almost a name-only thing.

      No, it's not. There are a lot of both state and federal laws that require having a legally recognized marriage.

      Some argue about the degradation/deterioration of the family in a nation being correlated to its demise

      I'd argue that the slow erosion of rights, and the utter contempt for the constitution shown lately is far more indicative of the slow demise of a nation than gays wanting to marry. Allowing gays to marry should be a given, and the idiots pursuing this amendment should instead focus on protecting the rights of others. Except they don't care about the rights of others, as we've seen.

      "it's between the two men or women, it doesn't affect anyone or anything else, so why is it illegal?"

      There is, but only for those who stop and think about the issue. For those who pursued the amendment, their thought was "a man and a man getting married just isn't right" and they stop thinking there. If you press them, they'll spout some misleaing nonsense that you highlighted, or they'll refer back to their religious texts.

      It's not simple. But those who pursue this law made it out to be.

    11. Re:Depends by bluie- · · Score: 1

      I hate the whole situation. Our government should definitely not be allowed to give different rights to gay people. If two gay guys want to be together, the government should not be able to do a damn thing to stop it, and they should have the same rights. At the same time, the government should not be able to tell a church what to do. The problem is the word marriage. It means different things to different people, but religious people see it as, well, religious, and gay people see it as a term that means they are only equal when they can get it.

      I say keep the government out of the business of deciding who can get married, and instead say any two people can have a union. If a church wants to marry any two given people, good for them, let them perform their magic voodoo and make it cool with god. If it wants to deny two people, so be it. What should really matter legally is the union.

      This way there would be no argument over the government redefining anything, and everyone's rights could be guaranteed. It would also make it easier to spot who is truly prejudiced against gay people and who just wants "married" to always mean a religious joining between a man and a woman. If you were against granting a union to two gay people, then there is no other explanation other than prejudice.

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    12. Re:Depends by drinkypoo · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It's also interesting (I guess this makes #3) to point out that not allowing gay marriage doesn't mean gays can't live together; it means the government doesn't recognize it as a marriage. Which is, by this time, almost a name-only thing.

      You won't be allowed to see your same-sex partner in the hospital dying, because you're not "family"...

      You're not entitled to any kind of partner benefits (e.g. insurance of any kind) because you're not "family"...

      You're forced to live different from other people because you don't obey a certain religious belief. That's the textbook definition of religious discrimination and anyone ought to be able to see that it's a violation of the constitution.

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    13. Re:Depends by aePrime · · Score: 1

      Two comments. First - the New Testament part of the Bible also condemns homosexuality.

      [Citation Needed]

    14. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In response to the degradation/deterioration of the family and so called family values-

      I think it's a cop-out to blame that on gays and gay marriage. I don't have any data to back this up but I'm pretty sure it has to do more with a culture that is very self centered and vain. To busy with our own lives/jobs/careers to be bothered with taking care of kids so we dump them off at school and daycare and expect them to raise themselves. This is also partly due to the fact that in most cases, a single income cannot support a family, so its partially economic. Throw in the fact that we're also a very litigious culture and refuse to take responsibility for our own actions and its no surprise that "family values" are being eroded.

      But its much easier to blame it on the gays, regardless of the fact that homosexuality has been around for thousands of years.

    15. Re:Depends by nick.ian.k · · Score: 1

      It's also interesting (I guess this makes #3) to point out that not allowing gay marriage doesn't mean gays can't live together; it means the government doesn't recognize it as a marriage. Which is, by this time, almost a name-only thing. I am guessing it has similar arguments (the non-legalizing it) as not allowing polygamy and bestiality to be legal marriage unions. Except homosexuals can be domestic partners, polygamists cannot be domestic partners with 2+ others, and you can't be a domestic partner of a cat.

      The obvious solution here would be for the government to not have these various categories of relationships and have one generic "life partner" heading (for things like hospital visitation rights), and leave the marriage/whatever bit up to whatever ritual house or other sort of whim to define it within their own respective pool.

      This would also be great because the whole "tax breaks for the married" bit is ridiculous. What, you pay less because you won the love sweepstakes? You pay more back in when you lose and get divorced? Assinine.

    16. Re:Depends by kanweg · · Score: 1

      Freedom of religions == desire to control other people's life (and without any shred of evidence for your flavour of religion. BTW, which of the thousands of religions do you have, in all good for even more gods. Let me guess, the only right one?).

      Bert
      Who regrets there is no hell

    17. Re:Depends by taliesinangelus · · Score: 1

      Two comments. First - the New Testament part of the Bible also condemns homosexuality.

      Erm, not exactly in all cases. The Koine Greek word in most caes has a meaning a lot more akin to pedophilia.

    18. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you are a preacher of mercy, do not preach an imaginary but the true mercy. If the mercy is true, you must therefore bear the true, not an imaginary sin. God does not save those who are only imaginary sinners. Be a sinner, and let your sins be strong, but let your trust in Christ be stronger, and rejoice in Christ who is the victor over sin, death, and the world. We will commit sins while we are here, for this life is not a place where justice resides. We, however, says Peter (2. Peter 3:13) are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth where justice will reign. It suffices that through Godâ(TM)s glory we have recognized the Lamb who takes away the sin of the world. No sin can separate us from Him, even if we were to kill or commit adultery thousands of times each day. Do you think such an exalted Lamb paid merely a small price with a meager sacrifice for our sins? Pray hard for you are quite a sinner.

    19. Re:Depends by Gospodin · · Score: 1

      A person marrying a goat doesn't harm me.

      Wow. I was about to use this as a reductio ad absurdum, then you went ahead and did it for me. Do you know why people want marriage rights? Because they bring with them other rights, like insurance, social security benefits, health care powers, etc. Do you seriously think that setting up a system where a goat receives social security benefits when its human "husband" dies would not hurt you? Use your imagination a tiny bit and imagine the possible abuse.

      As for gay marriage specifically, you've hit on exactly the problem. Once you concede that, what principle prevents any old arrangement - marrying your sister, marrying a goat, marrying a group of people, whatever? All the arguments used in support of gay marriage could be used to support any of these arrangements.

      ...some people think the world will come to an end of two people of the same sex get married.

      Lots of people who oppose gay marriage don't think the world will end if it's allowed. You're just choosing that language to make them sound like raving lunatics. But if the cost/benefit of a policy (taking justice and fairness into account as a benefit, of course) adds up to a net cost, rational opposition is possible.

      Incidentally, I'm not sure where I personally stand on this. I guess my own cost/benefit calculations comes out very close to zero.

      As another aside, there are raving lunatics on both sides of this debate. Lately I've been hearing that Prop 8 opponents have been creating maps highlighting locations of homes of Prop 8 supporters, together with thinly veiled personal threats against their safety. I sure wouldn't want to associate myself with that crowd.

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    20. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Quoting the bible are we? The biggest work of fiction in history.

    21. Re:Depends by SignalFreq · · Score: 1

      The Jewish definition of marriage has been defined for thousands of years. It has a meaning at both the church and state level, which is the problem. Many people do not like the government redefining a religious term. An overwhelming majority of anti-gay marriage voters are for a separation of the terms and the granting of equal rights, but this is not acceptable by the gay community. This makes it messy, hence the majority voting for Prop8.

      P.S. I voted for Prop8, live in Bay Area, had gay teachers/classmates/friends, etc. If the government would stop using the term marriage, I would have voted for 100% equality.

      The Buddhist definition of marriage has been defined for thousands of years. It is considered a personal and individual concern. It is not considered a religious duty or a sacrament ordained in heaven. Many people do not like Judaism redefining a social term. An overwhelming majority of anti-gay marriage voters are hypocrites, trying to force their beliefs on others but at the same time claiming equality for all. They drum up support for their beliefs using misleading statements like "Vote yes on prop 8 or the government will teach your second grader about gay sex" . They claim moral superiority while utilizing false, misleading advertising. This makes it messy, hence the majority voting for Prop8 feeling they were tricked into supporting it.

      P.S. I voted no on Prop8, I don't live in the Bay Area, I don't have gay teachers/classmates/friends, etc. If the religious right would stop trying to claim ownership of words, I would respect them more.

    22. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

      Two comments. First - the New Testament part of the Bible also condemns homosexuality.

      THIS is your justification to outlaw gay marriage?

      According to BibleBabble, here are some more rules the bible lays out:

      Don't let cattle graze with other kinds of Cattle (Leviticus 19:19)

      Don't have a variety of crops on the same field. (Leviticus 19:19)

      Don't wear clothes made of more than one fabric (Leviticus 19:19)

      Don't cut your hair nor shave. (Leviticus 19:27)

      Any person who curseth his mother or father, must be killed. (Leviticus 20:9) Have you ever done that?

      If a man cheats on his wife, or vise versa, both the man and the woman must die. (Leviticus 20:10). I wonder if Dr. Laura would like that one to be enforced?

      If a man sleeps with his father's wife... both him and his father's wife is to be put to death. (Leviticus 20:11)

      If a man sleeps with his wife and her mother they are all to be burnt to death. (Leviticus 20:14)

      If a man or woman has sex with an animal, both human and animal must be killed. (Leviticus 20:15-16). I guess you should kill the animal since they were willing participants. Are they crazy?

      If a man has sex with a woman on her period, they are both to be "cut off from their people" (Leviticus 20:18)

      Psychics, wizards, and so on are to be stoned to death. (Leviticus 20:27)

      If a priest's daughter is a whore, she is to be burnt at the stake. (Leviticus 21:9)

      People who have flat noses, or is blind or lame, cannot go to an altar of God (Leviticus 21:17-18)

      Anyone who curses or blasphemes God, should be stoned to death by the community. (Leviticus 24:14-16)

      Anyone who dreams or prophesizes anything that is against God, or anyone who tries to turn you from God, is to be put to death. (Deuteronomy 13:5)

      If anyone, even your own family suggests worshipping another God, kill them. (Deuteronomy 13:6-10)

      If you find out a city worships a different god, destroy the city and kill all of it's inhabitants... even the animals. (Deuteronomy 13:12-15)

      Kill anyone with a different religion. (Deuteronomy 17:2-7)

      How about: "When men fight with one another, and the wife of the one draws near to rescue her husband from the hand of him who is beating him, and puts out her hand and seizes him by the private parts, then you shall cut off her hand." -- Deuteronomy 25:11-12" I.E. if you're in a fight with another man and your wife touches him to help you, she should get her hand cut off!

      I swear, there sure is a lot of selective reading of the Bible when it comes to homosexuality.

    23. Re:Depends by OrlandoEsperanto · · Score: 1

      I don't think it is that ironic unless the cheeks your family members are kissing aren't on each other's faces.

    24. Re:Depends by bendodge · · Score: 1

      I'd like to point out that the Old Testament does too. And for those who want a citation:

      Genesis 18-19 (OT)
      Romans 1 (NT)

      Romans 1:25-32
      Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

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    25. Re:Depends by Rycross · · Score: 1

      Speaking as someone coming from a fairly fundamentalist Christian family (and no, I'm not anymore, please don't flame me for beliefs I don't hold, I am an atheist), I can give a little perspective on this.

      The idea is that marriage is somehow a holy and God-blessed institution, and a foundation of society, so anything that perverts or attacks this has an overall damaging effect to the moral fabric of society. Fundamentals tend to view morality and religion as a sort-of proxy war between good and evil, and, more specifically, God and Satan. Marriage and family tends to be considered a fundamental pillar of God's "plan," and so the fundamentals tend to treat anything that they perceive as an attack on it seriously. In so many words, I was specifically told that same-sex marriage (and, yes, divorce too) was a literal attack by Satan on God's sacred institution, and that the consequences was moral degeneracy in the world (souls lost to Satan).

      It doesn't make sense to you, either because you don't believe in Satan or because you're framing it in a different way than they are. You are more concerned about what is going on in the world, right now. The fundamentalists involved in this tend to be more concerned about this worlds' affect on the afterlife; whether or not war is going on is an important issue, but not necessarily as important as to whether billions of souls will be subjected to eternal torment.

      Of course, fundamentalists are a minority. So why are the majority turning out against this? Well, because fundamentalists are very good at controlling the subject, and framing the situation.

      The way they frame this to the majority is that "they" want to promote their "choices" over yours. In effect, they are provoking an instinctual defense response. There is an in-group and an out-group, and the out-group wants to take something away from the in-group or hurt them. This is also why they don't like homosexual-related education in health and psychology classes in schools. They view them as a "recruitment" tool - propaganda to coerce children over to the other side.

      Again, the reason that you do not think this is a big issue is because you have not framed the situation as an in-group and out-group. Despite not being a homosexual (I'm assuming), you likely don't consider them to be all that different from yourself, and likely feel that they don't particularly care about your marriage rights, and only want their own. Eliminate the perceived conflict, and you eliminate the defense-response.

      Unfortunately, the default reaction is to insult or belittle the anti-homosexual-marriage side, which only makes them feel like they are under attack, and as a side consequence, strengthens their resolve, because Christianity in particular explicitly says that if you are being attacked, insulted or persecuted then you are blessed and doing the Right Thing. A far more effective method of combating this is to come off as conclusive and eliminate their basic assumptions: you have to re-frame the situation. So many people are simply terrible at this, however, while for the religious leaders it comes naturally.

      A lot of the community here acts like House: it doesn't matter whether you're nice, only that you're right. It works
      well in a TV show, but unfortunately not so much for the real world.

    26. Re:Depends by riceboy50 · · Score: 1

      You hit the nail on the head for the difference-making margin. I can't believe more people aren't talking about this.

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    27. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Two comments. First - the New Testament part of the Bible also condemns homosexuality.

      I have a book that condems religion therefor by the same logic, religion should not be allowed under the law.

      QED

    28. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Fine. It indirectly affects people around you... TONS of things indirectly affect people around you. The shirt you wear. The conversation you have in a bar that is overheard... etc.

      Those indirect affects are absolutely trumped by those who are DIRECTLY affected.

      Your point does not really fly with me...

      The existence of a gay marriage disturbs people??? Well ok then... Short people disturb me. They should be illegal... Same, albiet extreme, dumb argument.

    29. Re:Depends by Rycross · · Score: 1

      That argument isn't going to work against fundamentalists. Christians believe that the New Testament supersedes the Old Testament, so those laws are no longer valid. However homosexuality is also condemned in the New Testament, which basically means that the rule is still in effect.

      The idea that we should be pushing is that the bible in question is an intersection of the "Word of God" not a subset, because I think you'll find that's a lot more palatable to moderate Christians.

    30. Re:Depends by Nimey · · Score: 1

      It's not a name-only thing. If you're not legally married, you don't have visitation rights in the hospital, and you can't make healthcare decisions for your SO, and so on.

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    31. Re:Depends by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      The problem with this is that it discriminates against people who want to have plural marriages (or plural unions, if you prefer). Some religions advocate plural marriages, such as Christianity (it appears all over in the Old Testament) and Mormonism (until they changed their theology to be allowed statehood for Utah).

      IMO, the government should stay out of marriage altogether, and instead it should be treated as a contract between willing parties, regardless of their number.

    32. Re:Depends by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Second. Some argue about the degradation/deterioration of the family in a nation being correlated to its demise (e.g., Rome's "family values" got pretty bad, especially as it applied to mistresses/prostitutes/marriage/kids). Saying it doesn't affect (or, as you more strongly put it, "harm") anyone but the two people involved is, IMO, an understatement. You may as well say that prostitution or gambling doesn't affect anyone but those directly involved. Family, friends, acquaintances (kids, in the gay marriage case?) are all affected.

      That's too bad. Do you want freedom, or do you want religious institutions telling you how to live? If you're in favor of banning prostitution or gambling because of their negative effects on relatives and friends and society in general, then you can't truthfully claim to be a "free society", or a country that values freedom. And if you don't believe in freedom, then you have no place to complain if the government restricts something that you like to do, because some other people say it's bad for you or society. So, for instance, if your religion is banned, because people like me think it's bad for your children, then you really have no cause to complain.

      As a patriot who believes in freedom, I don't feel it's my place to tell anyone how to live their lives, no matter how distasteful it may be to me.

    33. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Whether or not the effect is bad

      Bad by whose criteria? Side-effects may occur that evangelicals find 'bad,' but agnostics and atheists wouldn't care about. It's good to consider the possible negative externalities, but, ultimately, this debate should be about the rights of the individuals wanting to get married.

    34. Re:Depends by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

      The solution is easy! Don't recognize marriages at all.

      Yeah. Easy.
      "Hey everyone, your holy unions have all been nullified. Have a good day!"
      That won't lead to a riot...

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    35. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What kind of stupidity makes people follow the book when it comes to gay marriage being wrong but won't advocate killing gay people when it explicitly states so. Why is it reasonable to pick and choose from it when it agrees with you?

      I'll never understand how people manage too convince themselves religion is in any way sensible or sane.

    36. Re:Depends by dlcarrol · · Score: 1

      1 Corinthians 6:8-10 (New International Version)

      8 Instead, you yourselves cheat and do wrong, and you do this to your brothers.

      9 Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders

      10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.

    37. Re:Depends by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Plus what about all the people who are against Gay Marriage that now may not want to work at Google at all because of it's political stance? Apparently Google isn't concerned about that talent pool.

      This is exactly right. Google should also rethink its stance on supporting interracial marriage, and hiring people who have married partners of other races, as this will alienate people like yourself who are against interracial marriage.

    38. Re:Depends by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      So will you complain if a bunch of Muslims vote to make it illegal for women to show their faces in public, and they also vote to make it illegal to practice your religion? If so, you're a hypocrite.

    39. Re:Depends by CopaceticOpus · · Score: 4, Insightful

      No, it's like this:

      "Hey everyone, your marriage is now only recognized as a civil union by the United States. However, it is still recognized as a marriage by your church, your friends, your family, and your God."

    40. Re:Depends by Jim+Robinson+Jr. · · Score: 1

      I don't get it. Of all the things going on in the World today, I don't get why this is such a hot issue. Actually, I don't get why folks are so opposed to it. It doesn't cause them any harm.

      While that may feel socially good, that is unfortunately NOT accurate in the macro societal sense.

      It doesn't matter what I personally believe, the issues are the same.

      1. Do I get to enforce my beliefs upon society at large?

      2. Am I forced to accept your beliefs when they are contradictory with my own?

      It's nothing more complex than that, and our country was founded on some great principles, namely that of "majority rules" and "minority rights", to help mediate these two opposing perspectives.

      In this particular case, a large percentage of the people of California - the clear majority - spoke out against a change that they didn't want. Why they voted this way doesn't matter, only that the majority voted to keep the current status.

      So, should anyone have the right to overturn the results of a valid ballot count? Note that there is no question of win-versus-lose. The counts are not in question. If the proposition was legally on the ballot, it was voted for in a legal election, the count was conducted in a fair and impartial manner, and the proposition passed, then it passed and there is nothing that *should* be done. There is simply too much at stake to risk setting that precedent.

      How does this hurt us? Any time a few people can overturn the will of the people is our problem because it reduces the value of our entire system of government.

    41. Re:Depends by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

      a marriage. Which is, by this time, almost a name-only thing. I am guessing it has similar arguments (the non-legalizing it) as not allowing polygamy and bestiality to be legal marriage unions. Except homosexuals can be domestic partners

      Civil unions do not yet have all the rights afforded to "marriage", hence all the judges saying that it's discriminating against people based on sexual orientation not to let them marry.

      I think it's discriminating against civil unions based on religious belief, but I have no legal authority, and heck, I think that consenting adults should be free to have more than one mate, as long as everyone involved is ok with it, so what do I know.

      And btw, cats are legally property, so by the original meaning of marriage, you're already their husband. Where do you think the term "animal husbandry" came from? Marriage is taking the legal ownership of a woman, which was by then a special kind of cattle. So when people want to go back to the good old days of marriage, I look at them funny.

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    42. Re:Depends by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      No, it's not. There are a lot of both state and federal laws that require having a legally recognized marriage.

      Solved quite easily by a global search-and-replace of "marriage" with "civil union" (ok, search-and-replace wouldn't work, but that's the idea anyway).

      Or, more likely since we're talking about the government, they would create a new law stating that all old laws pertaining to marriage are extended to apply to civil unions. Then get rid of "marriage" altogether and let the churches call it whatever they want.

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    43. Re:Depends by Phantom+of+the+Opera · · Score: 1

      Two comments. First - the New Testament part of the Bible also condemns homosexuality.

      That would cause people to be against same sex marriage. It also condemns eating shellfish, but there isn't a law against that. Sexuality of course is a more charged issue, so I can see why it would win out. It says to me, though, that people already didn't like the idea of homosexuality, and looked for anything that would support that existing feeling. They don't care about shellfish, so they don't go looking for (or particularly care about) reasons to not eat it.

    44. Re:Depends by AdamTrace · · Score: 1

      Wait a sec...

      If I'm disobedient to my parents, I am "worthy of death"?!

      Holy crap.

    45. Re:Depends by speaktruth · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      Hmmm...actually I'm pretty sure that the proponents of Prop 8 worked with in the purview of the constitutional legal system to pass such a law. Maybe we should talk about the rather unconstitutional actions of the opponents and their terrorism against groups who supported Prop 8. Also, what is missing in this entire issue, so far as I can see, is any rational deliberative discourse about rights in general. This word, right, is by far one of the least understood and yet widely used. What is a right, what is the source of it, and how do you reconcile instances where the exercise of YOUR rights infringe on another's ability to exercise THEIR rights (this is clearly that type of issue)?

    46. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are wrong. According to the California Family Code http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=fam&group=00001-01000&file=297-297.5, you do get to visit your same-sex partner in the Hospital. Let me quote for those who are too lazy to read it themselves:

      297.5. (a) Registered domestic partners shall have the same rights,
      protections, and benefits, and shall be subject to the same
      responsibilities, obligations, and duties under law, whether they
      derive from statutes, administrative regulations, court rules,
      government policies, common law, or any other provisions or sources
      of law, as are granted to and imposed upon spouses.

      Why do pro-Gay people want to lie about this... perhaps it's because, regardless of Prop 8, that they do have all the legal rights in California but that isn't good enough---they want to force people to change how they think about homosexuality?

    47. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You won't be allowed to see your same-sex partner in the hospital dying, because you're not "family"...

      This is B.S. don't believe it.

      You're not entitled to any kind of partner benefits (e.g. insurance of any kind) because you're not "family"...

      Every insurance form I have ever filled out has the designated beneficiary to fill out as well.

      You're forced to live different from other people because you don't obey a certain religious belief. That's the textbook definition of religious discrimination and anyone ought to be able to see that it's a violation of the constitution.

      You're forced to not be yourself? Sounds like other issues are involved.

      Next please.

    48. Re:Depends by CannonballHead · · Score: 1

      You won't be allowed to see your same-sex partner in the hospital dying, because you're not "family"...

      Actually did not know this one. I do think a civil union should entitle one to that...

      You're not entitled to any kind of partner benefits (e.g. insurance of any kind) because you're not "family"...

      You're not? That's weird. I could have gotten insurance for my spouse if she was my domestic partner. There were separate forms and such, but it was definitely an option. As were other forms of "dependent" people.

      You're forced to live different from other people because you don't obey a certain religious belief. That's the textbook definition of religious discrimination and anyone ought to be able to see that it's a violation of the constitution.

      Um... define different? See, here's where I think there's a problem. What IS religiou discrimination? Is anti-homosexuality actually only a religious belief? Pretty soon, ALL morals will be melted down to "religious" belief. Or, the other side is that morals are what society decides they are, right? If there's no higher power to decide, then it seems like the majority rules. Well, so far in California, the majority HAS ruled, and it gets put down to religious belief anyway. What happened to the social-determination of national ethics?

      Inevitably, bad stuff gets brought up at this point. "So, the majority should be able to rule that murder is ok?" Well, some atheists I've talked to do think that. Most religious people do not. So the burden is not on the religious person to say where morals/ethics come from, the burden is on the non-religious person.

      So here's the bottom line question. If something like gay marriage (or marrying an animal, polygamy, or any other range of that sort of thing) should be legal because it shouldn't be not-legal due to religious belief, then where do any of our laws come from? Not democracy, apparently, as California's voters have tried that and people still don't like it.

      Rationalism? Whose rationalism, then, and why is your non-religious rationality better than my religious rationality?

      Nature? Well, as far as I can tell, if you take an evolutionary stance when looking at the world, homosexuality is just not the way to go. It's generally not what happens in nature, and besides that, reproduction is what the theory of evolution is founded on anyway, and reproduction has to be done with strange means in the case of homosexual couples. My understanding of a boiling down evolution was that the easier it is to reproduce (or perhaps, the fewest amount of variables necessary) made the race more likely to survive. Man+Woman = reproduction. Man+Man requires a Woman (and a lot of technology) to reproduce. 2 So, if you do want to say that no-homosexual-marriage is religious discrimination, then I would be interested to hear where you think ethics/morals should be decided. The only one I can think of is rationalism, but then it comes down to who is doing the rationalizing, because one can logically arrive to different conclusions, especially on social issues.

    49. Re:Depends by blueskies · · Score: 1

      Two comments. First - the New Testament part of the Bible also condemns homosexuality.

      The bible says a lot of things you feel free to ignore. Walter Wink says it best: http://www.soulforce.org/article/homosexuality-bible-walter-wink

      And while the Old Testament accepted divorce, Jesus forbade it. In short, of the sexual mores mentioned here, we only agree with the Bible on four of them, and disagree with it on sixteen!

      Surely no one today would recommend reviving the levirate marriage. So why do we appeal to proof texts in Scripture in the case of homosexuality alone, when we feel perfectly free to disagree with Scripture regarding most other sexual practices?

    50. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      All the arguments used in support of gay marriage could be used to support any of these arrangements.

      And all the arguments against could be used against interracial marriage, marriage between people of different nationalities, marriage between people of different religions but that's all fine?

      You can't possibly argue that the right for gays to marry will somehow extend too allow people to marry goats. That's like saying because if we give women the right to vote then that same argument will extend to infants.

      Don't be absurd.

    51. Re:Depends by Archangel+Michael · · Score: 1

      I would even add that nobody is thinking beyond the two people being "married", is very short sighted. There are cases where the two women get "pregnant" and have a kid. The kid naturally bonds with one "Mom" more than the other "mom". There is further complication when the one "Mom" dies, and the other "mom" has to care for the child, knowing that the kid bonded with the other.

      This is NOT trivial. It may be "rare" but it isn't trivial. We have all sorts of laws in place because of exceptions to rules that nobody thought through.

      One further note, I don't know why Government is even involved in marriage, which is a sacred (religious) institution, not a civil one. The ONLY reason the state is involved now, harkens back to Rome and the Roman Church being functionally one. Personally I'd like the state out of declaring anything "holy" (including holidays)!

      I want all Athiest government employees to work 7/365, without regard to any "holiday". I want mail on Sunday, and Christmas!

      People have long taken for granted religious institutions in civil law. Including prohibiting polygamy, which has more status than Homosexual Marriage throughout history!

      So, it isn't about defining marriage.

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    52. Re:Depends by DigitAl56K · · Score: 1

      That depends. If you are against gay marriage, they are evil.

      Not so. However, perhaps they are evil if you are against the First and Fourteenth Amendments:

      Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

      No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.

    53. Re:Depends by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      You're not? That's weird. I could have gotten insurance for my spouse if she was my domestic partner. There were separate forms and such, but it was definitely an option. As were other forms of "dependent" people.

      Some insurance companies/plans do offer domestic partner coverage, but that is a decision between them and your employer over cost.

      What IS religiou discrimination? Is anti-homosexuality actually only a religious belief

      The argument is that marriage is between a man and a woman. That understanding is largely a religious one. The modern concept of marriage in Western society is based on (ancient) Greek and Roman ceremonies intended to establish property rights. But the idea that it must be between and a man and a woman is indeed religious, as is so much else in our culture. The answer (to my mind) is to altogether eliminate the places where law and religion intersect. Why, for example, do we in fact need marriage or civil unions? Marriage is between partners and their community. What we really need is an established legal mechanism for conferring the varied and individual rights normally granted when married to parties of our choice regardless of sexual orientation or indeed the nature of our personal relationships.

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    54. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, I don't get why folks are so opposed to it. It doesn't cause them any harm.

      Because it provides the illusion of control.

      Religion provides all kinds of little rituals (e.g. praying) that allow people to pretend they have control over all the outside influences in their life: it's basically the same idea as wearing lucky socks on the day your boss is deciding whether to give you a pay raise.

      So, why hurt an already persecuted minority in order to achieve the illusion of control? Just ask Dick Cheney why he likes hunting and having people tortured - because inflicting pain gives him a sense of power (the whole illusion of control thing).

      Some people are repulsed by the idea of inflicting suffering on others - but not the conservative Christians. For the consevative Christians, persecuting a downtrodden minority gives them a powerful jolt of the illusion of control (without any distracting ethical qualms).

      Conservative Christians pretend that if they can just prevent gay people from actually saying that they are married (even if they actually are) then the world will be all wonderful (for the conservative Christians, at least).

    55. Re:Depends by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

      No, it's like this:

      "Hey everyone, your marriage is now only recognized as a civil union by the United States. However, it is still recognized as a marriage by your church, your friends, your family, and your God."

      Even if this is what you say, they will parse it as what I said.
      It's not that easy to quell the mob.

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    56. Re:Depends by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      You may as well say that prostitution or gambling doesn't affect anyone but those directly involved. Family, friends, acquaintances (kids, in the gay marriage case?) are all affected.

      Why is it legal to commit adultery? I suffered more from my ex-wife's adultery than I ever suffered from anything else.

      Or more to the point: why is it llegal to fuck your congressman's wife but illegal to pay her for it?

    57. Re:Depends by Steve525 · · Score: 1

      Ah, the old polygamy straw man argument.

      Legally speaking, all of marriage laws (inheritance, sharing resources, etc.) assume a contract between two people. Can you imagine the legal mess we'd have if marriages were between 3 or me people? Imagine what custody battles, etc. would be like. The courts would be incredible bogged down trying to sort all the issues out. For same sex marriages, all the current laws and precedents are just fine, since the laws pertaining to marriage are already gender neutral. (Well, except for the laws about who can marry who).

      Practically speaking, polygamy is unstable. People don't share wives/husbands well. It would be very rare for such unions to last. In the past, polygamy only worked because the women were, in effect, owned by the men. Today, there aren't many people who would choose to enter a union with multiple wives/husbands, as long as we enforce equality. Do you really want to loose 2/3 of your assets (and pay twice the alimony) if you get divorced?

      No, I'm sorry, polygamy is a legal mess, and no one (except a few crazies) is asking for it anyway. That's completely different than same sex marriages where there are plenty asking for it, and there are no significant legal issues.

    58. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Saying it doesn't affect (or, as you more strongly put it, "harm") anyone but the two people involved is, IMO, an understatement.

      I think "harm" has a quite universal meaning and doesn't mean "affect". It means "to cause injury".

      I don't see how NOT discriminating against people causes more injury than discriminating against some people, whatever the specific case may be.

    59. Re:Depends by NoobixCube · · Score: 1

      I've always thought the governments of the world should legalise same-sex civil unions, and leave the idea of "marriage" up to the various religions and their denominations. I honestly can't see the current Pope flip-flopping any time soon, so he could just disallow gay marriage in the Catholic church, and excommunicate the gay parishioners (they're going to Hell according to him, anyway, right?) and his conscience would stay nice and clean and holier-than-thou.

      My opinion of religion, in general, isn't a high one, so I'm hoping my opinion is a nice middle ground between what I'd like to see (vacant lots where all the churches/mosques/synagogues/whatever are) and what most religious groups want (no gay marriages, and in some cases making homosexuality a punishable crime).

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    60. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The reason why I am opposed to it is because not having it could force churches who are opposed to it on moral grounds to perform same sex marriages.

    61. Re:Depends by mcgrew · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Gay Marriage" obfuscates the real problem - discrimination against single people. Outlaw discrimination on the basis of marital status and you have no need for gay marriage, and people won't get married just for tax beaks, etc.

      There are elderly people who love each other very much but divorce because one gets ill and runs up huge bills. Why should the spouse suffer?

      When I got divorced, the part of my pension earned during marriage is "joint property" according to Illinois law. IMO that's insane and unfair, it isn't 1955 any more, women work these days, too.

    62. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem I see is that the term "Marriage" is currently a secular term. Just like Christmas has become secular (federal holidays and everything).

      That being said, I feel religion should have nothing to do with the debate over gay marriage (from the aspect of legal marriage). Any debate should strictly look at the the negative ramifications are, and what they (reasonably) could be.

      The debates commonly seem to go to extremes in pointing out examples. Over and over again, I hear reference to scripture or someone stating that soon people should be able to marry their pets...

      In addition, the debate over if there are children, who do they live with... etc, this is currently an issue with hetero couples. If this is a valid argument, should the same question be used to outlaw divorce.

      The reason that laws and insurance policies were created for heterosexual families was a crucial need in societies for families to have these services. This need is just as necessary by homosexual couples. Most of the ability for these couples to obtain the protection of these laws and the policies is based on the term Marriage. Base on this ambiguity and requirement of the term Marriage, I understand the push for legal homosexual marriage, for nothing else but to obtain the same rights.

      To be honest, I wish that the legal term for marriage were changed to civil union. I feel that legal definitions would be a lot easier if the overlap between Church and State were removed. Leave the term Marriage to religion, and make laws that only reference to civil unions.

      I am not a Christian. I do see some of the morals in Christian scripture, but scripture should have nothing to do with my life.

      I do approve of companies such as Google supporting gay marriage based on the need to recruit employees. This is something that "directly" affects their company.

      I would support a hetero or gay couple that wants to get married (if I were asked to & knew someone involved), because it directly affects the couple.

      I know there are many dimension to this issue, but I think little to no direct affect would be on most of the people attempting to prevent gay marriage.

      Discuss the issues, not your beliefs. I am neither for or against gay marriage, more out of apathy. I do get frustrated when people attempt to impose their belief on others and/or do not have a intelligently formulated argument. With that being said, I hope I didn't make too many typo's or grammatical errors.

    63. Re:Depends by Gospodin · · Score: 1

      And all the arguments against could be used against interracial marriage, marriage between people of different nationalities, marriage between people of different religions but that's all fine?

      I don't think there's a good parallel here, but just for the sake of argument let's say you're right. I still would prefer not to force a major change to the culture just hoping that it doesn't become the camel's nose under the tent. We're not starting from a position of trying to figure out the best definition of marriage. We're starting from one in which we have a long-standing cultural idea of marriage. It has gone through various adjustments over time, but one constant has been that it's between one man and one woman. Wars have been fought over this standard. (I ignore here the edge cases of Guinean tribes or whatever with different standards. That's fine, but it isn't Western culture and we're under no obligation to accommodate it.) So I think the burden of proof is entirely on those arguing for the change.

      You can't possibly argue that the right for gays to marry will somehow extend too allow people to marry goats.

      Pretty funny saying that since the parent of my post did exactly that.

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    64. Re:Depends by CannonballHead · · Score: 1

      It's harder than that, though. Why can't I just marry everyone I know, and thus get all the benefits? I know that's "ridiculous" and a "silly example," but I think it would become very real. The question isn't necessarily a moral or religious one, but simply this - where IS the line drawn. It has to be drawn somewhere, or the government will have to recognize dogs as legal marriage partners, which elevates them to the same status, which means they can have life insurance, which means when a car hits the dog the insurance company pays $500,000 and the driver gets sued for murder..

      If we altogether eliminate intersection of law and religion, we are left with no moral or ethic standing at all, unless it's simple democracy that chooses it. But that won't work either, as people are religious and thus vote religious. So we're left with oligarchy. They differ in opinions and backgrounds as well, so even they are tainted. Monarchy?

      Question still stands, IM[H]O - where do any laws that deal with any form of social morality stand? Even punishment of crime is a moral issue, is it not? What punishment is fair to the crime, and why. There's an inherent authority question there.

    65. Re:Depends by mdmkolbe · · Score: 1

      It is to the advantage the extremists on both sides to keep calling it marriage. For those against gay marriage, it calls up the religious connection. For those in favor of gay marriage, calling it "marriage" rather than just "civil union" calls up emotional responses (e.g. "the right to marry" draws more emotion than "the right to civilly unite"). It also gives it more credibility, avoids the second class overtones of "civil union", makes it harder for other people to claim they are "not really" married.

      Both sides are using it as a rhetorical trick.

    66. Re:Depends by CannonballHead · · Score: 1

      I do find it slightly entertaining that you allowed him to generalize the entire Bible in about 10 words, and yet I bring up something specific and a citation is needed...

      Greeks had a word "pornea" that referred to a lot of stuff, including homosexuality, immorality, adultery, etc. The Greeks did not appear to be particularly AGAINST pornea, but New Testament writers used it to refer to things

      In addition to the Corinthians passage already cited, I'd bring up Romans 1.

      26 For this reason(AV) God gave them up to(AW) dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; 27 and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another,(AX) men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.

      I'm not sure it can be any clearer. Men (and women, respectively) giving up natural relations with women and committing "shameless acts" with men. Pretty clear to me. Especially since Paul is talking very specifically about human depravity in the chapter.

    67. Re:Depends by CannonballHead · · Score: 1

      But its much easier to blame it on the gays, regardless of the fact that homosexuality has been around for thousands of years.

      Well, I mentioned it since we're specifically talking about homosexuality, are we not?

      But since you press me, yes. Divorce, adultery, polygamy, bestiality, homosexuality, bisexuality, transvestites, cross-dressers, murder, and many other things contribute to degeneration of the family unit.

      As to it being around for thousands of years, I fail to see how that applies to much of anything - nothing is really new, is it? Especially not the rise of nations and the fall of nations, nor is the degeneration of the family unit, or morality, or ethics, etc.

      But I guess if it's been around long enough, it's probably fine. Of course, that does not appear to apply to religion, hm? People like to blame everything on that (including Prop 8 and its associated evils?). Regardless of the fact that religion has been around for thousands of years. (not to say I condone all religions... most definitely not)

    68. Re:Depends by BenFenner · · Score: 1

      Actually, I don't get why folks are so opposed to it. It doesn't cause them any harm.

      I'm completely against the sort of legal discrimination involved with Prop 8, but as a former social Darwinist (go look it up) and a critical thinker, I can play devil's advocate here.


      It does cause them harm.

      For those who don't let religion or something else cloud their thinking on this issue, one could still argue allowing homosexuals to marry, or cohabitate, or continue with their lifestyle would cause the greater human race harm.

      The far reaching consequences of this trend are obviously unknown, but one could suppose that it is not in our best interests from a species survival standpoint.

      No judgment on their action necessary. It just doesn't seem to be a step in the right direction from an evolutionarily point of view.

      I'll say it again, I don't hold this belief any longer, but to write off every person who is against homosexual marriage so easily ignores extremely intelligent, well intentioned people (how ever few that may be).

    69. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm an Atheist, and I can give you my view on why I am not so keen on same-sex marriage being exactly the same as the traditional marriage. I assume we're talking about both sides having the exact same marriage laws applied to them, correct?

      It's called Common Law Marriage. The current laws that apply to opposite sex couples are total BS. We've got laws (they vary by state) that say if a man and woman live together a certain length of time they are legally married. Or if a man helps raise a woman's child for a certain length of time the courts will decide he's legally the father and has to pay child support, sometimes until the kid is 28 years old now. These laws aren't cool for hedrosexual "couples"

      Now reverse that and apply the same laws to same-sex couples. If two men live together for a certain length of time the laws can say they are legally married. If your roommate has a kid you bring dinner home to every once in awhile the courts can decide you are now it's second Dad. Do you want your roommate legally married to you?

      You'd probably think that is a ridiculous example. And for the time being it would be, nobody would apply it seriously. But once a few generations go by people's values change, and such laws for same sex "couples" could be put into practice.

    70. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's also interesting (I guess this makes #3) to point out that not allowing gay marriage doesn't mean gays can't live together; it means the government doesn't recognize it as a marriage. Which is, by this time, almost a name-only thing.

      So, basically you're making a "separate-but-equal" argument? IIRC, there was a big to-do over that sort of thinking about midway through the last century in this country and a few years later in South Africa? If it's not OK to exclude a class of people based on an arbitrary characteristic such as race, why is it OK to exclude another class of people for a different arbitrary characteristic?

    71. Re:Depends by Tenek · · Score: 1

      I can. Fundamentalists don't want civil unions either, and they won't be happy until being gay is a capital offense. Compromise with people who are opposed to your mere existence is not going to fly.

    72. Re:Depends by CannonballHead · · Score: 1
      Many of them are unashamedly taken out of context (e.g., not shaving/not cutting hair was a specific Nazarite vow that could be taken, it wasn't just a generic ceremonial law). Since it's obvious this was taken from a list of "stupid Bible quotes," I'll move on.

      As to the laws no longer being valid, that's sorta true but not really the way you explained it. The NT didn't "supersede" it in that it abolished it, but rather rendered it ineffective and unnecessary, because Christ conquered death/grave and fulfilled the law. It's kind of a long story. Roughly 66 books long.

      It's also interesting to note that the Bible is quite clear that the OT laws never saved anyone, but only pointed out the need to be saved. Unfortunately, most of the time, I think most people that comment on the Bible are like me if I commented on scientific fiction novels. I have no clue what is in the novels and no clue really what I'm talking about, so I'd be going mostly based off of wikipedia pages with citations necessary :)

    73. Re:Depends by Jonah+Bomber · · Score: 1

      Just to be clear, the New Testament doesn't prohibit the consumption of shellfish. In fact, it basically says, "You don't have to stick to those old rules about what you can't eat anymore" (Acts 10:13).

    74. Re:Depends by Sique · · Score: 1

      Second. Some argue about the degradation/deterioration of the family in a nation being correlated to its demise (e.g., Rome's "family values" got pretty bad, especially as it applied to mistresses/prostitutes/marriage/kids).

      Which is contradicted by the actual history. The Roman Empire was about to climb to the height of its power when people complained about the demise of family values and raising decadency. It was coming to an end (at least in its western part), when homosexuality was considered a crime.

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    75. Re:Depends by Sique · · Score: 1

      It's pretty easy. Dogs can not consent into a contract.

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    76. Re:Depends by syates21 · · Score: 1

      bunch of FUD about things people supposedly can't do if they don't have the label/approval of "marriage" applied to their relationship
      All of this is of course patently untrue, since California already grants these rights (among others) to partners in a Domestic Partnership.
      Don't take my word for it though:
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_partnership_in_California

    77. Re:Depends by Steve525 · · Score: 1

      I generally agree with you. This is absolutely the fairest solution. However, I think those who oppose gay marriage will then say "Why do I need to give up anything?" I don't agree with them, but that's what you'll hear.

      One of the strongest arguments for gay marriage is "who is it hurting?" By causing a change in traditional marriage people can then actually point to something. (People point to something now, but most of those arguments are, quite frankly, bogus).

    78. Re:Depends by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      Why can't I just marry everyone I know, and thus get all the benefits?

      You cite this as a ridiculous example, but ideally you should be allowed to. Marriage should be a secular contract like any other contract. If you want to draw up a contract determining legal rights of inheritance, visitation, etc, you should have every right to without interference.

      The use of animals as an example, on the other hand, is always absurd. They have no standing at law, so, with extraodinarily limited exceptions, any use of them in argument is nothing more than a distraction from the actual issue at hand. If animals ever have standing in contract law, this argument can be revisited. Until that time, it is irrelevant.

      To answer your question, morality is ever-shifting. It is always determined by present circumstances within a government. Ideally law would be based on rational reasoning, but that requires a rational populace. Humans are only rational in small quantities, so the basis of laws will always be arbitrary, capricious, and subjective. A basis in morality is no basis at all, because morality is based entirely on opinion. Unfortunately, that's what we have as humans, and as such governments and laws will be flawed for the forseeable future.

      There, should be enough in the above statements to piss almost everyone off. :)

    79. Re:Depends by armitage787 · · Score: 1

      You forget that while in the New Testament Jesus is all loving, but he also hates. He hates sin. The bible clearly says in the old and new testament that homosexuality is a sin. This does not mean that we should hate homosexuals though. Jesus always loved the person, he detests the act.

    80. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There's something I don't get either; but it's the opposite of your confusion. So perhaps our comments will meet and annihilate, and we'll come to a reasonable understanding.

      Homosexuality has been taboo for as long as we have records [citation needed]. I think the main reason for it is just that for a country to survive, historically, they need to have *as many children as possible*, both to work the fields and to fight. It had to do with survival. If they permitted homosexuality, then they were down two people who weren't contributing their fair share to the survival of the tribe. Outside of the "modern West", communities still understand this, since a family will see children as their retirement plan, and as people to help work the family business or farm (have you ever played Agricola?).

      People, such as yourself, today like to blame "religion" for these problems, but I think you're just taking a shortcut in your analysis in looking for something to blame.

      Today, a lot of people have pension plans, and the gov't goes a long way towards taking care of the elderly. We have machines who are far more efficient at harvesting fields than young fingers. However, with our modernization, we've introduced a significant new factor: democracy.

      Imagine you have a viewpoint that you would like to establish as law. Well, you need people to vote your way. What is the easiest way to influence the vote? Simple! There is a STRONG correlation between your vote, and your children's vote. So if you want to protect yourself from being voted out of your own possessions, you might want to consider having more children. If you have doubts, consider how many countries PAY couples to have more children? There's a Jan8 article in the Economist about Quebec doing this. The Catholic church prohibits contraception because of this. Europe is concerned about the high birth rates of their immigrants because of this. Etc Etc ETc. It's competition via demographics.

      My point is, your fecundity still matters.

      What I'm confused about is that homosexuality has only been somewhat "public" for the last couple decades or so. On the other hand, homosexuality has been taboo for millennia. So why do gay rights activists expect to change an entire culture after only a couple of decades???

    81. Re:Depends by Fjandr · · Score: 1

      So why do we appeal to proof texts in Scripture, when we feel perfectly free to disagree with Scripture regarding other practices?

      Fixed, and answered in a word: Hypocrisy.

    82. Re:Depends by Rycross · · Score: 1

      Yep, my point was that no-one is going to be convinced by throwing out a huge lists of Old Testament passages and saying "Well then you'd have to follow these too!" other than people who are already on your side. Back in my Christian days (an agnostic/athiest these days), I and other Christians would just roll my eyes at these sorts of things. Not that I particularly cared whether homosexuals got married, and was rather supportive of the idea, but it didn't stop them from throwing this stuff at me in a holier-than-thou way.

    83. Re:Depends by Trillian_1138 · · Score: 1

      I've posted this elsewhere in this thread, but I'm trying to reply to people who are posting politely on the side of either anti-gay marriage, or on the fence:

      Basically, the government should not be in the business of regulating the behavior of consenting adults or discriminating based on said behavior. That's the one core issue for me that makes gay marriage very different from marrying a goat (or a minor).

      As for marrying your sister, or a group of people, I (again) can't see why the government should be in the business of telling consenting adults what they can and can't do. That isn't to say marrying your sister is a good idea, or that I'd ever be interesting in a group relationships, but I don't understand the moral or legal ground to object to such unions.

      -Trillian

    84. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You won't be allowed to see your same-sex partner in the hospital dying, because you're not "family"...

      This is not true and not part of any law. Hospitals have varying policies on visiting patients in every stage of health or dying as a friend, family member, same-sex partner etc. You should really be saying that you, as a same-sex partner, will not have any power of attorney as it applies to medical decisions unlike a spouse or family member.

    85. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You won't be allowed to see your same-sex partner in the hospital dying, because you're not "family"...

      Hospitals are private institutions.

      You're not entitled to any kind of partner benefits (e.g. insurance of any kind) because you're not "family"...

      Health insurance is a private institution.

      You're forced to live different from other people because you don't obey a certain religious belief. That's the textbook definition of religious discrimination and anyone ought to be able to see that it's a violation of the constitution.

      The constitution does not obligate PRIVATE INSTITUTIONS to respect your religious beliefs, but rather ensures that no law shall be passed showing favor to a particular religious establishment (where 'establishment' is meant in the same sense as "this establishment doesn't serve niggers!"), as the founding fathers did not want to recreate the Church of England (nor the Roman Catholic Church for that matter).

      Proposition 8 wouldn't have gained the steam that it did had gays framed the issue properly. Instead, they got painted as trying to push through more of the liberal-progressive agenda -- and wouldn't you know it but Californians aren't as down with that as SF/Berkeley limosine-liberals like to think. Imagine that.

    86. Re:Depends by Trillian_1138 · · Score: 1

      I really want to disagree with you, because I'm very opposed to Prop 8, but the arguments put forth in the lawsuits to overturn prop 8 do seem somewhat weak...

      Which isn't to say the part of me ruled by emotions doesn't want them to win...

      -Trillian

    87. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Second. Some argue about the degradation/deterioration of the family in a nation being correlated to its demise (e.g., Rome's "family values" got pretty bad, especially as it applied to mistresses/prostitutes/marriage/kids).

      Seems to me that Rome fell a short time after Christianity took root and some ill-advised wars occurred!

    88. Re:Depends by JesseMcDonald · · Score: 1

      Do you know why people want marriage rights? Because they bring with them other rights, like insurance, social security benefits, health care powers, etc.

      The powers you list are the cause of the problem here, not the attributes of those being married:

      Legally, shared insurance shouldn't have anything to do with marriage. This is a private matter between the insurance agency and whoever is paying for the insurance.

      Social security "benefits" obviously shouldn't exist to begin with, so there's no point in addressing them.

      Power-of-attorney, inheritance, etc. are separate civil matters only applicable to those legally recognized as "persons", and again have nothing to do with marriage despite frequent association.

      If a human wanted to grant a goat the hospital visitation rights normally accorded to family members, that should be entirely up to the hospital and the patient; the same applies to visiting humans of either gender.

      Once you concede that, what principle prevents any old arrangement - marrying your sister, marrying a goat, marrying a group of people, whatever?

      Exactly so -- there is no reasonable, religion-neutral objection to such arrangements.

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      "The state is that great fiction by which everyone tries to live at the expense of everyone else." - Bastiat
    89. Re:Depends by JesseMcDonald · · Score: 1

      Recognize all pairings between two people as civil unions...

      should be:

      Recognize all groupings between two or more people as civil unions...

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      "The state is that great fiction by which everyone tries to live at the expense of everyone else." - Bastiat
    90. Re:Depends by bugs2squash · · Score: 1

      At least part of this should be seen as the fault of a fucked-up medical system where you need to be married to a wage earner to be worthy of medical attention. Hopefully that will change in the US soon.

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      Nullius in verba
    91. Re:Depends by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      You're not? That's weird. I could have gotten insurance for my spouse if she was my domestic partner. There were separate forms and such, but it was definitely an option. As were other forms of "dependent" people.

      That's private insurance. However, there's this thing called Social Security. If you die, your spouse gets yours. If a gay person dies, their "spouse" gets nothing because they weren't legally married. There's a great many similar benefit systems set up that only give benefits to married couples

      Is anti-homosexuality actually only a religious belief?

      Pretty much, yeah. Try to come up with an argument against homosexuality that doesn't involve religion at all, yet would not ban heterosexual activities.

      Pretty soon, ALL morals will be melted down to "religious" belief.

      You've got that backwards. Religions were created to codify morality.

      Well, some atheists I've talked to do think that.

      And lots of religious fouls I've talked to think that murder should be legal. As long as you're murdering "bad" people. "Bad" being someone gay, or of a different religion.

      If something like gay marriage (or marrying an animal, polygamy, or any other range of that sort of thing)

      Question: Why do anti-gay marriage folks seem to not understand the concept of "consenting adult"? [humor]Is that why Catholic priests ran into that whole "molestation problem"[/humor]

      Man+Woman = reproduction. Man+Man requires a Woman (and a lot of technology) to reproduce.

      So infertile couples, couples who decide to not have children, and any women over about 45 should not be allowed to marry?

    92. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      On the first part no. They are welcome to vote for a woman to wear whatever they want. I have to imagine that vote would fail but it is their right to bring up the vote if they feel there is a safety issue for the women.

      On the second part no, the constitution expressly prohibits such a vote. I wouldn't vote to prohibit anyone else from practicing their religion so I'm not a hypocrite. I'm unaware of the "homosexual religion" so your strawman fails.

    93. Re:Depends by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      However homosexuality is also condemned in the New Testament,

      As mentioned above, [Citation Needed]

    94. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >>You won't be allowed to see your same-sex partner in the hospital dying, because you're not "family"...

      No marriage needed, just sign paperwork granting guardian privileges to anyone you like in case you are incapacitated. The hospital has no right to stop anyone from entering the room you request if you are not.

      >>You're not entitled to any kind of partner benefits (e.g. insurance of any kind) >>because you're not "family"...
      The reason these benefits were ever granted was to make it easier for 'families' to raise children because one partner can stay home and not work while the other works.
      This is not remotely a reason to have legal homosexual marriages. I mean what if I want to have my employer pay for my girlfriends health care, or my dogs, or my grandmother? Is just any relationship to me a good enough reason to be counted under my insurance? No. The whole point is people who are together for the purpose of having children. Why do I have to 'marry' only one person for that matter, why not everyone in my apartment building?
      The real reason that the homosexual activists want 'gay marriage' and not just civil unions is because they want to shove their religious belief, that homosexual sex is not wrong down people's throats. They want to insist that their ACTIONS are not wrong and in fact are perfectly normal and that anyone who says or acts in a way that indicates otherwise is a horrible evil bigot who deserves to be imprisoned and punished.
      If anyone can't see that that is sheer and utter religious discrimination against the constitution they are they are blind.

      No action you take should ever qualify you as belong to a minority group, you can always change your actions. Having a preference should not qualify you as a member of a protected minority group. People have inclinations and preferences for all kinds of things. Some to do drugs, some to steal , some to commit murder. Why is it that when that inclination is to have weird sexual practices that all the sudden makes their actions worth legal protection. I mean if I prove kleptomania is 100% caused by genetics I wonder how many people would advocate removing those evil laws against theft, because after all it is just natural to steal.

    95. Re:Depends by Gospodin · · Score: 1

      Basically, the government should not be in the business of regulating the behavior of consenting adults or discriminating based on said behavior. That's the one core issue for me that makes gay marriage very different from marrying a goat (or a minor).

      Sure, I get that argument, and it's compelling (I held that position myself in my younger, more radical days). Two problems, though.

      First, as I posted a few minutes ago, we're not starting ab initio. We have a long-standing cultural institution to deal with that I think ought to get the benefit of the doubt. Only if the arguments on the other side are so compelling as to constitute an emergency should we consider a change.

      Second, the ideal of the government staying out of all transactions between consenting adults has to be considered in the context of all the other rights, expectations, benefits, etc. that the government already mediates. Maybe a perfect world would be one in which the government truly does stay out of all of these things. But removing it from the business of regulating marriage, when it also confers other rights based on marriage, is a recipe for the abuse of those rights.

      By the way, just to throw some other wrenches into the discussion: what constitutes a "minor"? What about "legally incompetent" adults? If the government is not to regulate transactions between consenting adults, does that mean they can't charge sales tax if I sell something to my neighbor? What about if I start a business and sell the same thing? Can I perform surgery without a license, as long as the patient agrees? (What if I lie about it? Lying isn't a crime. So how would you prevent this?)

      Basically, while the strict libertarian position has nice internal consistency, there's really no way we're getting there from here. So it can't work as the basis of an argument for gay marriage.

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      ...following the principles of Heisenburger's Uncertain Cat...
    96. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If this is as big of a problem as people make it out to be then they should work to get a ballot measure making it illegal to discriminate between marriages and civil unions. Once the word marriage was removed from the measure it would greatly improve its chances of passing.

      I keep seeing ballots measures to make gay marriage legal and they keep turning it down. If they just removed the word marriage from the proposition, they could get a lot of these rights

    97. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have to remember this is a state's rights issue. An individual state is allowed to come up with laws that another state might hate so long as the state and federal constitutions do not explicitly give the power to the federal government.

      In the case of a headcovering or any other "decency" legislation it would definitely be a state's rights issue.

      In the case of marriage the argument may be made that it should be federally resolved so there is an even playing field for taxes. However, our current tax system is extra-constitutional already so that might be a hard sell.

      In the case of restricting which religions can be practiced that is already a federal matter based on the bill of rights which trumps all others.

    98. Re:Depends by Surt · · Score: 1

      You should get a better translation, that is way off. The actual translation is bloodlust not lust, it's a reference to those who would be violent with others, thus deserving only death themselves. Seriously, learn latin and read something closer to the original.

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      "Who is the Journal of Quantum Physics going to believe?" --Stephen Hawking
    99. Re:Depends by Emperor+Zombie · · Score: 1

      So they can't go to heaven. Where does it say in the Bible that they can't get married?

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    100. Re:Depends by Gospodin · · Score: 1

      "...shared insurance shouldn't have anything to do with marriage..." "...'benefits' obviously shouldn't exist..." "...inheritance, etc. are [you mean 'should be' here; inheritance law strongly favors family relationships] separate civil matters..." "...that should be entirely up to the hospital and the patient..."

      That's all great, and maybe you're right that things "should" all be this way. But they aren't. So what's the point of this argument?

      [T]here is no reasonable, religion-neutral objection to such arrangements.

      Well, gosh, I guess you've declared yourself the winner then. Congrats.

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      ...following the principles of Heisenburger's Uncertain Cat...
    101. Re:Depends by Surt · · Score: 1

      It's still 1955 for plenty of women, who continue to be discriminated against in employment and educational opportunities. In nearly all marriages, even today, the woman earns less partly because of child rearing duties (and expectations, etc). To deny them the fair split of the marital income would be grossly unfair.

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      "Who is the Journal of Quantum Physics going to believe?" --Stephen Hawking
    102. Re:Depends by Rycross · · Score: 1

      Citations were provided in those other threads.

    103. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Is anti-homosexuality actually only a religious belief?

      Definitely not, but that doesn't really matter. It's reinforced by and qualified by religion instead of just plain ignorance and biggotry. So because it's qualified by religion, you are entitled to challenge that position. Like if say racism was qualified because of a persons beliefs about genetic makeup you can target those misconceptions.

      Pretty soon, ALL morals will be melted down to "religious" belief.

      Why?

      Or, the other side is that morals are what society decides they are, right? If there's no higher power to decide, then it seems like the majority rules. Well, so far in California, the majority HAS ruled, and it gets put down to religious belief anyway. What happened to the social-determination of national ethics?

      Just because the majority decides upon something doesn't make it right, it just means it's popular. While obviously in a democracy majority should decide what is law and what is not. However that doesn't leave it closed for criticism, in a democracy debate is healthy and the majority position changes over time. Otherwise we would simply keep electing the same party over and over again.

      Inevitably, bad stuff gets brought up at this point. "So, the majority should be able to rule that murder is ok?" Well, some atheists I've talked to do think that. Most religious people do not.

      In war murder is ok, the death penalty is ok in a lot of places and so on. The concept of "is murder ok" is a lot more common than you think. My personal stand is that murder is only ever ok in self defense as the other party has already decided murder is ok for you.

      The majority should in a democratic society be able to rule whatever they want, but it doesn't mean I'm forced to follow the rulings although if I choose not too I accept the consequences.

      The majority ruling on something doesn't qualify it as being right or wrong in any way. Laws don't qualify themselves as in "it's immoral to jay walk because it's against the law", no it's against the law too jay walk nothing more or less. All a majority ruling does is establish a societal norm, like electing the Nazi party to power.

      So the burden is not on the religious person to say where morals/ethics come from, the burden is on the non-religious person.

      I don't undersand that argument at all. Just because atheists don't have religious people don't have a book that spells out what is right or wrong doesn't mean you can't reason about it. "What wouldn't I want to happend too me?", works fine in almost all cases. I think religious people find atheism confusing in the regard that there's no agreed upon ruled as atheists aren't a unified group, we don't share common ideas, background or quite honestly anything at all. Your books don't cover every case of right or wrong in the world, especially not in a modern world. I don't think you consult a priest/rabi/imman every time you have a dilemma, you reason about what is right or wrong (not even that it's really intuitive). Atheism doesn't mean you lack concepts sympathy, love, duty and so on.

      So here's the bottom line question. If something like gay marriage (or marrying an animal, polygamy, or any other range of that sort of thing) should be legal because it shouldn't be not-legal due to religious belief, then where do any of our laws come from? Not democracy, apparently, as California's voters have tried that and people still don't like it.

      It's undemocratic to analyzing something because it happens too be passed as law. I doubt you like every law there is wherever you live and question them from your point of view in the hope that you can convince people your point of view is better. Laws needs to be improved upon, tested, removed, solidifed through debate. How about just the plain fact that people die and the morals and values o

    104. Re:Depends by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      It's harder than that, though. Why can't I just marry everyone I know, and thus get all the benefits? I know that's "ridiculous" and a "silly example," but I think it would become very real.

      Well, group marriages are the next frontier. At the moment they will have to pass numerically bigoted laws about how many people you can be permitted to confer these rights onto :)

      If we altogether eliminate intersection of law and religion, we are left with no moral or ethic standing at all, unless it's simple democracy that chooses it.

      We make it difficult to make laws because laws are not desirable. The more laws you have the more you're admitting that, basically, you've fucked up. You don't need laws if your people are living in harmony because you're leading them into a future that they want to live in. Conversely, a government which exists to self-perpetuate depends on laws to control people. The more laws and regulations you have on the books, the more likely that any given individual is guilty of something and that gives you a handle to push them around with.

      A law against murder does not need to be explained in terms of the ten commandments to make sense any more than a law against perjury (although both of them are in fact in the ten commandments... but anyway.) They are inconvenient to a society. A law against men entering a formal social contract with other men, or against women doing such with women, has to be explained in terms of its value to society. If someone doesn't want to marry your gender, passing a law saying they can't marry theirs isn't going to bring them around, and it's unclear what problem allowing homosexuals to marry could create that would not also be created by allowing them to cohabit. (What problems those would be are unclear to me. But I'm sure lots of people around here have theories. Crazy, wacky, nutso theories.)

      Question still stands, IM[H]O - where do any laws that deal with any form of social morality stand? Even punishment of crime is a moral issue, is it not? What punishment is fair to the crime, and why. There's an inherent authority question there.

      Well, we supposedly outlaw cruel punishment. Cruelty doesn't help anything. It's not going to aid in rehabilitation. Unfortunately, we're not really interested in rehabilitation anyway.

      See, social morality is really a myth. It's the kind of thing that people bring up in your HOA to force you to paint your fence white. What we really have is social convenience. It's not convenient to have people murdered, raped, etc because of the disruption it causes to society. Whether you think it is wrong on a personal level is entirely irrelevant because laws are not supposed to be about such subjective things; from a completely objective standpoint, the disruption caused by the murder of practically any individual in any society is greater than, usually, readily apparent alternatives. The same thing is true (though on a less viscerally reactive level) of forcing people to follow zoning restrictions or to park no more than however many inches from the curb. These laws are not about what someone things ought to be the case. They are based either on what needs to be the case to keep society functioning, or of course on selfishness. There's plenty of greed encoded in law.

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      "You're right," Fisheye says. "I should have set it on 'whip' or 'chop.'"
    105. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's because we're all socialists, one way or another. Liberals are often *material* socialists - in a sense, sacrificing individual material and property freedoms for the benefit of the whole or avoidance of harm to that whole.

      Conservatives are "socialists" too, except in the moral sense, for lack of a better word. To a conservative, marrying (and thus implying bestiality) is an individual freedom that ultimately harms society. Thus he advocates a moral socialism where you must sacrifice the right to marry a goat for the benefit of society.

    106. Re:Depends by mvdwege · · Score: 1

      Surely Paul wrote in Greek? But the point stands, translators have their own agenda. Which is why ordination requires academic study, including Hebrew, Greek and Latin, in my country. A reverend is expected to be able to form his own opinion from the original texts.

      Mart

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    107. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I still would prefer not to force a major change to the culture just hoping that it doesn't become the camel's nose under the tent. We're not starting from a position of trying to figure out the best definition of marriage. We're starting from one in which we have a long-standing cultural idea of marriage. It has gone through various adjustments over time, but one constant has been that it's between one man and one woman. Wars have been fought over this standard. (I ignore here the edge cases of Guinean tribes or whatever with different standards. That's fine, but it isn't Western culture and we're under no obligation to accommodate it.) So I think the burden of proof is entirely on those arguing for the change.

      The western culture you are talking about is in mostly American culture, Europe is far more accepting towards gay marriage or at the very least treating gays form/informal partnership equal to marriage in law. Canada has no problems with gay marriage.

      The argument that war has been fought over a standard means that theres an opposing side that has a different opinion. Unless you believe the winning side is always the one that's right (as in the good guys are always the victors) the whole argument is void. People go to war for a lot of reasons and I can think of many that are quite bad, no amount of resolve and belief in the people fighting the wars will really change that.

      Now I can appreciate your reluctance towards change that affect your culture even if I myself have an completely opposite position in these matters, as I have no interest in tradition. I find it far more reasonable than the religious arguments, even if I don't agree with your position in general.

      You should however at least grant them the partnership benefits of people who are married even if you call it something completely different and there's no formal joining.

      Now I don't for a second believe letting gays people get married will affect your culture in any significant way, especially not in a negative way when it means more acceptance towards gays. Though I don't feel marriage is important in the issue but how the law favors one union over another.

    108. Re:Depends by Alsee · · Score: 1

      Hmmm...actually I'm pretty sure that the proponents of Prop 8 worked with in the purview of the constitutional legal system to pass such a law.

      It doesn't mean squat if they followed proper state legal procedures for modifying the state constitution. All state laws and all state constitutions are subject to the US Constitution. Under the Equal Protection Clause of the US Constitution the law cannot discriminate on the basis of race, gender, or religion.

      There is simply no way to write a valid law granting marriages that does not also grant interracial marriages. Any attempt by the law to examine the races of the marriage applicants to discriminate between approved and rejected marriages would be invalid. The portion of the law examining the races of the marriage applicants is null and void.

      There is simply no way to write a valid law granting marriages that does not also grant gay marriages. Any attempt by the law to examine the genders of the marriage applicants to discriminate between approved and rejected marriages would be invalid. The portion of the law examining the genders of the marriage applicants is null and void.

      There is simply no way to write a valid law granting marriages that does not also grant interfaith marriages. Any attempt by the law to examine the religions of the marriage applicants to discriminate between approved and rejected marriages would be invalid. The portion of the law examining the religions of the marriage applicants is null and void.

      The exact same legal basis that struck down dozens of state laws barring interracial marriages applies to gay marriages. It is no more possible to to legally exclude gay marriages than it is possible to legally exclude interracial marriage.

      And legalities aside, people may still be fighting the battles but the war is over. In 1948 when a California court issues the first ever ruling in support of interracial marriage (equivalent to the Massachusetts ruling in support of the first gay marriage), public opinion was 92% against interracial marriages. In 1968 when the US Supreme Court forcibly imposed interracial marriage rights nation wide, public approval for interracial marriage polled at 20%. Hell, even as recently as 1994 public approval for interracial marriage was still polling was below 50%.

      Gay marriage is following nearly the exact same course interracial marriage took, both legally and socially. However acceptance of gay marriage is far higher than it was for interracial marriage, and in fact the acceptance rate for gay marriage is rising roughly twice as fast as interracial marriage was accepted.

      In both cases the younger generation overwhelmingly saw/sees it as a civil rights and equal rights issue, accepting such marriages. In both cases it is and was senior citizens most opposed. The war is over. In a war of generational shift, the old discrimination and the old generation always lose. The younger generation always wins, even if they ave to bury the older generation to do it. The older generation racist opponents of interracial marriage just plain die faster. Opposition to gay marriage is primarily in the oldest population, and they are just plain dying down their percentages. The under 35 population overwhelmingly accept gay marriage, and the overall social acceptance of gay marriage has been increasing by almost 2% per year. California is currently in the process of crossing the 50% threshold right now, an the nation as a whole will be bumping up on the 50% level by the time the next two presidential elections roll around.

      There is no way to fight a generational shift. The war is over. Gay marriage is taking the same course as interracial marriage, and those who dogmatically oppose it will just plain die out as the racists against interracial marriage have been dying out. Approval of interracial marriage was 20% when the courts nationally affirmed it. Even without the courts, the flat out majority vote is rapidly and unstoppably shifting in support of equal gay marriage rights.

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    109. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Perhaps if the government said "we will no longer offer marriages, only civil unions," then the private institutions would have to toe the line and make sure their documents are up to snuff. No retroactive changes are required. No "holy union" is affected.

    110. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The first is not true. Hospitals make up their own rules as to who is or is not allowed to visit under any circumstances. A hospital could only allow same-sex partners if they like and refuse any others.

      I have verified this personally.

    111. Re:Depends by Arterion · · Score: 1

      Biblically, we all are worthy of death because of the sin of Adam and Eve:

      Genesis 1

      19 By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return."

      20 Adam [c] named his wife Eve, [d] because she would become the mother of all the living.

      21 The LORD God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them. 22 And the LORD God said, "The man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil. He must not be allowed to reach out his hand and take also from the tree of life and eat, and live forever."

      Furthermore, we all have sinned:

      Romans 3

      23 for all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God

      And only he without sin may cast the first stone:

      John 8

      7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, âoeHe who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her."

      I don't see how that one passage particularly condemns homosexuality.

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    112. Re:Depends by Arterion · · Score: 1

      It's more like,

      "Hi, this is the Government. We were wrong for butting into your religions rites, and have decided to back out. Have a nice day."

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    113. Re:Depends by bnenning · · Score: 1

      At least part of this should be seen as the fault of a fucked-up medical system where you need to be married to a wage earner to be worthy of medical attention. Hopefully that will change in the US soon.

      I wish. Unfortunately McCain was the only one who wanted to even take tiny steps away from the idiotic system of tying health insurance to employers, while Obama wants to make it more pervasive.

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    114. Re:Depends by Alsee · · Score: 1

      a civil union

      A Jewish man and a Christian woman go down to city hall and get a civil union preformed by a judge. A civil union is a marriage.

      it seems like the majority rules. Well, so far in California, the majority HAS ruled

      Might I remind you that in 1968, when the Supreme Court struck down all anti-interracial-marriage laws nationwide, "majority rules" and "democratic majority vote" was 20% in support of equal interracial marriage civil rights and 74% opposed? States all across the country had democratic majority vote laws against interracial marriage.

      Gay marriage cannot be legally denied on the exact same basis interracial marriage cannot be denied. Under the Equal Protection Clause of the US Constitution is it impossible to write a law that examines the races of marriage applicants in order to discriminate which applicants are approved by law and which are denied by law. Under the Equal Protection Clause you cannot discriminate on the basis of race, gender, or religion. The must be blind to race, gender, and religion. You cannot write a marriage law that examines the religions of marriage applicants in order to discriminate acceptable same-faith marriages from unacceptable inter-faith marriages. And you cannot examine the genders of marriage applicants as a basis to discriminate which marriage applicants to approve or deny under the law.

      If something like gay marriage (or marrying an animal

      Gay marriage cannot be denied by law under the US Constitution on the exact same basis that interracial marriage cannot be denied by law.

      If you wanted to pass a law allowing marriages to animals, well that would be a Constitutionally permissible law, but animals have Equal Protection entitlement to such right to such civil rights, and I for one would most certainly vote against your marriage-to-animals proposal.

      polygamy

      The law cannot discriminate on the basis of race,
      the law cannot discriminate on the basis of gender,
      the law cannot discriminate on the basis of religion,
      but the law most certainly can distinguish between the numbers one, two, and three. Just because you can cast one vote for president does not mean the law must to permit you to cast three votes for president.

      By the way, for forgot to mention the marrying-children one.
      And of course the law can and does distinguish between adults and minors. And yeah, I'd kinda sorta slightly vote against it if you proposed changing the law so that four year olds could get married.

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    115. Re:Depends by Shin-LaC · · Score: 1

      You're forced to live different from other people because you don't obey a certain religious belief. That's the textbook definition of religious discrimination and anyone ought to be able to see that it's a violation of the constitution.

      Hold your horses! For that, you'd have to demonstrate that you are being discriminated *purely* because you follow/don't follow a specific religion. Otherwise, one might argue that putting murderers in jail is religious discrimination because, hey, some religions forbid murder! But of course, that's not the *only* reason to prosecute murderers.
      Considering that there are homophobes from all religious and irreligious backgrounds, it'd be hard to argue that opposition to gay marriage is a purely religious issue. You might seek a historical connection to the cultural influence of some religions, but that's not enough: once religious ideas have moved into a general cultural background, they're not covered by religious discrimination any more. You're going to have to look elsewhere in the law, or perhaps to pass new laws.

    116. Re:Depends by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      No, it's like this: "Hey everyone, your marriage is now only recognized as a civil union by the United States. However, it is still recognized as a marriage by your church, your friends, your family, and your God."

      And when you travel to a foreign country that uses "marriage" as a legal term (most of them) and you only have proof of a civil union and are denied rights as a result? As soon as a law was passed regarding marriage it became a legal term and as such it is subject to the constitution in its entirety including nondiscrimination clauses. It's a better solution than trying to make up new terms and getting the rest of the world to change (as the EU has already tried).

    117. Re:Depends by roadkill-maker · · Score: 1

      The new part is loving and forgiving if there is repentance which means a turning away from the sinful lifestyle. Homosexuality, like adultery is explicitly spoken against as something that would keep you out of heaven in both the old and new parts.

      You have no actual evidence that, if God does exist, he doesn't like homosexuality. All you have is one book written by humans

      Suicide is illegal in this country. Why? You don't hurt anyone else. But you cause harm to yourself, in this case ending your life. In the case of homosexuality you cause harm to yourself, in this case eternal separation from God. I personally see that as even more dramatic harm than ending your life. So, while it doesn't directly affect me I will not encourage a behavior which I believe causes irreparable and permanent harm to the one doing it. I will instead try to help discourage people from it. That may be by voting for a law prohibiting it or it may be by trying to convince someone my position is correct. If the law allows them to marry persuasion is my only tool left and I'll use it. Until then I'll try to use the law.

      You are of the opinion that homosexuality is harmful. If, however, you wish to live in a free country, then as long as a person is not causing you harm, you cannot punish them for living differently.

    118. Re:Depends by registrar · · Score: 1

      As a fairly conservative, married, straight Christian, I'm comfortable with gay marriage being legalised. It doesn't affect me a great deal either way. I feel pretty strongly about letting people do as they please, and recognise that a liberal approach to law benefits me just as much as anyone else.

      I also tend to think that gay people probably make fairly ordinary parents. Not especially good, not especially bad, just middle-of-the-road.

      But. The argument that sexuality (homo- or otherwise) is a purely private matter that can be conducted in privacy is just wrong. There are clearly private aspects of sex, but there are also ways it impacts other people. And some of those impacts might be negative, and they might also be correlated or even causally related to homosexuality.

      For example, it is a possibility, at least theoretically, that gay parents might typically be inferior to straight parents. And if they are, there might be a case for legal or social discrimination. I'm not going to make that argument, because even if I thought it true, there are bigger moral problems to address---alcohol, obesity, education, violence.

      It really ticks me off when people say "it's just a private matter, so everyone do what I want." Even though I agree with your conclusion, it isn't just a private matter. You still actually have to argue your case... and being rude about the Bible doesn't count either.

    119. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      damn straight the government should be out of the marriage business. It should be a matter between a couple and their church. Then the free market can decide. Your church doesn't let you marry? Change your church.

    120. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Simply false. In the state of California, civil unions already enjoy those rights. You will find few people in CA disagree with it.

      Marriage is an institution centered on a reproductive unit. Religion adopted it, not created it.

      As for the prop itself, people voted for it for a wide range of reasons. You'll find many that have no problem with gay marriage but are tired of the CA courts undoing our democratic process. And now here we go again. If it is such a bad idea, convince the people of this state, rather than continually ignoring them.

      (Before any of you start ranting about the state constitution, this was an amendment to it.)

      Oh, and next time tell that idiot Newsome to shut the hell up. He's the reason it won.

    121. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "If, however, you wish to live in a free country, then as long as a person is not causing you harm, you cannot punish them for living differently."

      I agree which is why I would prefer government stay out of both suicide and marriage. But since they have their nose in it I want a say in what it means.

    122. Re:Depends by 4D6963 · · Score: 1

      Twilight Zone? More like Gulliver's Travels, with the egg ends war.

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    123. Re:Depends by ShakaUVM · · Score: 1

      >>You won't be allowed to see your same-sex partner in the hospital dying, because you're not "family"...

      Nope, civil unions in California are accorded all the rights of marriage. So all your examples don't work.

      The only difference between a civil union and a marriage in California is the name. Gay people want their Civil Unions to be called "Marriage", and religious people don't.

      >>That's the textbook definition of religious discrimination and anyone ought to be able to see that it's a violation of the constitution.

      The only actual discrimination I've seen in the gay marriage issue is against Christians.

    124. Re:Depends by theArtificial · · Score: 0

      While I agree with most of what you stated you might be surprised to find out that in 2007 the ratio of women in college versus men in the US was 60/40.
      CSMonitor.com

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    125. Re:Depends by Surt · · Score: 1

      There's still plenty of bias, just because they can get in doesn't mean they have equal treatment.

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    126. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If anything, it's the religion redefining a secular term. Marriage existed before and apart from Judaism.

      Do you ever wonder if people marry in Japan? Chinese marriage has been around for thousands of years, too. Perhaps you think we shouldn't call it "marriage" but something else? How about Hindu marriage? What about Roman marriage? Should we rewrite history books to say that Romans had civil unions? My parents and their parents were married (yes, married) in civil ceremonies in the atheist Soviet Union. Where do you get off saying that their unions were something other than marriages because they weren't religious ones?

      Marriage may be a Judeo-Christian term to you. To many other people, it's not.

    127. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Technically speaking, Mormons still believe in polygamy, but don't practice it. The theology didn't change, but after the Supreme Court upheld the anti-polygamy laws in 1890, the Church officially stopped performing new polygamous marriages. Basically, the Church today teaches plural marriage can only be practiced when specifically authorized by God, and God likes us to obey the law.

    128. Re:Depends by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1
      If that's your beef, then the state should get out of the marriage business altogether. It should be "civil unions" for everybody (whether gay or straight), and marriage should become a purely religious thing without any state involvment, and no need for a prior "marriage license".

      Separation of Church and State, y'a know.

    129. Re:Depends by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      A person marrying a goat doesn't harm me.

      But it might harm the goat, hehe. And how do you make sure the goat is consenting?

      What, you're afraid your little snowflake will see two people of the same sex kissing each other and think , "Hmmmmm, I'll kiss my buddy Rod!" Again, so what? In many cultures, heterosexual MEN kiss each other.

      And in today's world, people don't wait until they're married before kissing each other. So, forbidding gay marriage does stop exactly what?

    130. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ahh the old "legal mess" straw man argument. Say what you will but contracts between multiple parties have been happening since there were first lawyers. In fact, having a contract (pre-nup) would keep the mess to a minimum should break-ups occur.

    131. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      With civil unions giving homosexuals every legal right and opportunity that marriage affords heterosexuals what would be the reason that marriage would be so important to homosexuals?

      The answer is that the majority of homosexuals don't care about marriage and that this issue is, by and large, not an issue of "marriage" but one of politics.

      Liberal, homosexual progressives (with their Liberal religion) are trying impose their "progressive" ideas on to people that don't think the way they do.

      Seriously, do they think that Mormons (of which I am not one) are the only people that voted against Prop 8? I would guess that Mormons represented less than 10% of the vote against Prop 8. For example, 80% of blacks that voted actually voted against Prop 8. Perhaps we should start persecuting blacks the way Prop 8 supporters are persecuting Mormons?

      On to Google. Here is the real problem we should all have regardless of our political agendas. The result of a vote by the people in this country should be the final say in what direction the constituents participating in that vote should have. The result of the vote is reflective of what the people that voted want.

      If Google is participating in usurping the result of this vote then they are undermining the very foundation of what makes this country as great as it is. Free, public elections.

      Shame on them if this is really the case.

    132. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The flipside is that insurance companies would be forced to cover homosexual couples, even if its a non-profit quaker, or mennonite insurance, so in protecting one person's rights you are trampling on another's. This is the concern I think with gay marriage, is you have to infringe SOMEONE's rights so since the majority is not homosexual its easier to side with them.

    133. Re:Depends by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      Easier solution.

      Do not have the government recognize marriages or civil unions. Why does the government need to care about whether I'm married.

      As far as taxes/benefits/etc go - just refer to adults living at the same mailing address. For things like custody/etc, why not have standard contractual agreements that individuals can choose to enter into, and also legal conventions. If two people live together without getting married and comingle their finances, and then have a child together - it isn't like the courts don't know how to handle the situation just because they weren't "married."

      I don't think we need government regulating marriage any more than we need government regulating baptism, confession, or whatever other religious ceremony individuals might choose to participate in.

    134. Re:Depends by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      Yup. I'm a proponent of striking the word "marriage" and "spouse" from every law out there. The laws should be written in a way that they don't depend on what is fundamentally a cultural and religious institution to operate.

      Why should "spouses" benefit at all from Social Security when somebody dies? Why not just write it to cover any adult living at the same address who meets certain qualifications for financial dependence? If somebody doesn't pursue career opportunities so that they can care for their sick single father, and depends on their social security income to help bridge the gap, then why shouldn't they get whatever would otherwise go to his wife when he dies?

    135. Re:Depends by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

      It's more like,

      "Hi, this is the Government. We were wrong for butting into your religions rites

      You have that upside down.
      The religious are messing with the government, and this will only spur them on.

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    136. Re:Depends by Gospodin · · Score: 1

      The western culture you are talking about is in mostly American culture, Europe is far more accepting towards gay marriage or at the very least treating gays form/informal partnership equal to marriage in law. Canada has no problems with gay marriage.

      Europe has a slightly longer tradition than the past couple of decades. While some European laws give gay partnerships legal status, this is not the same thing as saying that European culture is completely accepting of gay marriage. Ask some French (or French-Canadian) villager how he feels about it and let me know. It's not much different from America (esp. in rural areas; city folk are probably more accepting).

      Now I don't for a second believe letting gays people get married will affect your culture in any significant way, especially not in a negative way when it means more acceptance towards gays. Though I don't feel marriage is important in the issue but how the law favors one union over another.

      Your second sentence is the reason why I can't give much weight to your first. I think marriage is important.

      European culture is dying off. Europeans aren't reproducing fast enough to replace their own population. While I don't think this is directly attributable to gay marriage, I do think that a common factor probably explains the decline of marriage, the (relative) acceptance of non-traditional "families", and the decline in childbirth. I think it's a disaster. Europe's in real trouble in 50 years. I don't wish it on them (you, I guess), but I really don't want that future for America.

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    137. Re:Depends by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      For those who pursued the amendment, their thought was "a man and a man getting married just isn't right" and they stop thinking there.

      Indeed, and the euphemism for that is "family values", which is what GP used.

    138. Re:Depends by Scroatzilla · · Score: 1

      An excellent point, drinkypoo. I would add a more generic argument, which is that the government's involvement in defining "family" or "marriage" is simply a flavor of the government exerting too much control over individuals' assets.

    139. Re:Depends by dlcarrol · · Score: 1

      Perhaps I was wrong, but I read the "Citation Needed" as a request for citations that the OT/NT look poorly upon homosexuality. Such was my post.

      The second part of the GP I did not undertake to prove. Since your response did follow with a biblical inquiry, I'll stick with that.

      To the point, the bible doesn't explicitly say they can't get married. It doesn't need to. The Judaic law taught that practicing homosexuals were an abomination ("evil") and were to be killed with sufficient evidence. It holds marriage as a positive good.

      While I've probably just been pWNED, your question is as silly (from a biblical perspective) as asking why a "practicing murderer" cannot be installed as a pastor/bishop/elder/overseer. That it might still happen in some case is irrelevant.

      As to the gist of your question, though: All laws legislate morality, the only question is which morality we legislate. All morality is inexorably derived from authority, and the reigning idea of $deity is ever the authority. Hence the shift in our laws as the nation becomes less Christianized. Protesting that secular humanism/atheism recognizes no $deity is just a special case of the above axiom.

    140. Re:Depends by Emperor+Zombie · · Score: 1

      You bring up murderers as an example, but a person convicted of murder can still get married, right? Where's the proposition outlawing marriage for convicted criminals?

      The question isn't whether the Bible considers homosexuality a sin, but why Christians have decided to focus almost exclusively on this one particular sin.

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    141. Re:Depends by dzfoo · · Score: 1

      Ok, how about this:
      "Oh come on, what will they do next, marry their parents, sisters, or children?"

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    142. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You won't be allowed to see your same-sex partner in the hospital dying, because you're not "family"...

      Nobody ever did a DNA test to see if I was really the spouse of the patient I was visiting. Or the brother, or the uncle, or the aunt. And nobody ever asked me if it was ok if the child I never want to see again could visit me in the hospital.

      It is silly to try to make that into a gay rights issue. It isn't a gay rights issue. If you think it is a stupid policy, work to change the policy, not your marital status.

      You're not entitled to any kind of partner benefits (e.g. insurance of any kind) because you're not "family"...

      What does marital status have to do with the beneficiary of an insurance policy? Some people name their cats as their beneficiaries. On the forms I filled out it never asked for my spouse's name. It just asked for the name of my beneficiary.

      These silly whinings about discrimination are tiring.

      If something is broken, fix it. Change those policies. Don't launch a multi-billion dollar campaign to change your marital status.

      Unless, of course, this never really was about hospital visitation rights, insurance beneficiaries, and all those other fake complaints. Straw men arguments only weaken your position.

    143. Re:Depends by DanielLC · · Score: 1

      It's also interesting (I guess this makes #3) to point out that not allowing gay marriage doesn't mean gays can't live together; it means the government doesn't recognize it as a marriage. Which is, by this time, almost a name-only thing.

      You won't be allowed to see your same-sex partner in the hospital dying, because you're not "family"...

      You're not entitled to any kind of partner benefits (e.g. insurance of any kind) because you're not "family"...

      You're forced to live different from other people because you don't obey a certain religious belief. That's the textbook definition of religious discrimination and anyone ought to be able to see that it's a violation of the constitution.

      http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=fam&group=00001-01000&file=297-297.5 See section 297.5 . It is, indeed, a name-only thing.

    144. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is time for a little communism to takeover these tech companies and fire their board of directors and upper management. Then resale the company. If the 18K funny boy marriages want their kids then go straight. Like you said civil rights or civil war and I am happy take you up on it.

    145. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Typical argument of person that has only listened to media, has not read Bible, has not idea of basis or US of A, has not knowledge of outcomes of children raised in non-married homes.Marriage was instituted by (try reading Genesis the Bible book, not the insult in a homo magazine) God, not man, not government and was defined as one man & one women for life, without sex before or outside marriage. That makes marriage of a sexual pervert and anything else wrong at least 4 different ways.
      You could try for legislation to name fortran as C but fortran still would not be C, so why do you think God's marriage should by legislation be defined as marriage plus sexual perversity? Maybe we could cure another cultural problem by defining drunken airline pilots as airline pilots in good standing, even if they can't stand due to alcohol?
      All of the Bible is against homosexual activities. ALL, not just book Romans. Bestiality is name of all those sexual activities with animals and sheep with pretty eyes and is specifically mentioned in Bible repeatedly.

      US of A is place to be for people, goal of immigrants, land of equality for immigrants & women (women are not property here) only due to Holy Bible & cartainly not due to Catholics.

      Read history books written 100 years ago, before liberals did current revision of north American history. Read Bible, study Bible, see how Old Testament foretells New Testament.

      Then make your arguments that is good to raise children in house with 3 fathers, a gerbil and a goat. Plus 4 to 12 lovers each month. Cite CDC statistics how children do as well in houses of sexual perverts if you can.

    146. Re:Depends by superstition222 · · Score: 1

      Hello. Marriage is civil already. No one asks a couple what religion they are and saying a Buddhist can't marry a Muslim at a courthouse. There is nothing to "solve" other than the illogical arguments made by the anti-marriage crowd.

    147. Re:Depends by dlcarrol · · Score: 1

      With respect: no, that's not the question. This is a new question. That said, it is a valid one.

      Christians (in the main) interpret the bible to see that homosexuality-- a specific sin pattern, to be at direct odds with the nature of marriage.

      As referenced in other places in this thread, the confusion here is with regards to the legal status of marriage and the religious meaning of it. In my opinion, the state ought not be involved in it at all. Since they are, now it becomes part of my business (as it will/may effect me).

      Formulated this way, it becomes part of a broader question on the role of the state. Most who hold to a stronger role of the state to establish positive morality (I do not) would add greater pressure here. Those of us who do not hold to that role of the state could also object to those that would seek to make us an all-inclusive, gender-neutral utopia for the same reason: your particular view of a positive morality is objectionable.

      Thus, we're stuck with asking two things, both of which sum up this problem concisely:

      a) why should the state be involved at all?

      b) If (a) doesn't solve it, now we have the current issue of whose morality we implement. Morality is always a question of authority, and God is the greatest authority.

      QED.

    148. Re:Depends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Divorce, adultery, polygamy, bestiality, homosexuality, bisexuality, transvestites, cross-dressers, murder, and many other things contribute to degeneration of the family unit.

      Maybe not so much... looks to me like the Bible condones multiple wives:

      Deuteronomy, Chapter 25 (New International Version)

        5 If brothers are living together and one of them dies without a son, his widow must not marry outside the family. Her husband's brother shall take her and marry her and fulfill the duty of a brother-in-law to her. 6 The first son she bears shall carry on the name of the dead brother so that his name will not be blotted out from Israel.

        7 However, if a man does not want to marry his brother's wife, she shall go to the elders at the town gate and say, "My husband's brother refuses to carry on his brother's name in Israel. He will not fulfill the duty of a brother-in-law to me." 8 Then the elders of his town shall summon him and talk to him. If he persists in saying, "I do not want to marry her," 9 his brother's widow shall go up to him in the presence of the elders, take off one of his sandals, spit in his face and say, "This is what is done to the man who will not build up his brother's family line." 10 That man's line shall be known in Israel as The Family of the Unsandaled.

      Not only is a man required to marry his brother's wife in the event of his brother's death, there is public shame in refusing to do so! In addition, nowhere is it mentioned that more than one wife is prohibited... so tell me where the Bible says polygamy is wrong? After all, how can one be required to marry one's brother's wife, and yet restricted from having more than one wife? what if you were already married when your brother died?

    149. Re:Depends by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      You want to ban homosexuality (and homo marriage) because of your religious beliefs alone. That makes you a hypocrite.

    150. Re:Depends by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Regular hetero marriage is already a "legal mess" because of all the divorces. So based on your logic, we should just eliminate marriage, because it's too much of a strain on the court system.

      And for the Christians out there, polygamy was perfectly fine in the Bible, so if you believe in the Bible, it's hypocritical for you to not also support polygamy.

    151. Re:Depends by Trillian_1138 · · Score: 1

      First, as I posted a few minutes ago, we're not starting ab initio. We have a long-standing cultural institution to deal with that I think ought to get the benefit of the doubt. Only if the arguments on the other side are so compelling as to constitute an emergency should we consider a change.

      Fair enough, although I don't know if I'd go so far as to say only an emergency should change longstanding cultural institutions. But marriage as 'one man, one woman' isn't a longstanding cultural institution, unless 'longstanding' is taken to mean 'the last generation or so.' While marriage has certainly historically meant 'men and women' and not 'men and men' or 'women and women,' ideas about divorce, property rights, the number of wives allowable, whether or not love was important, and so on have all changed substantially. So I think it's unfair to view same-sex marriage an upset to a "long-standing cultural institution" but say granting women property rights in marriage, the ability to refuse sex, heck, being viewed as more than property themselves, were part of that long-standing institution.

      Second, the ideal of the government staying out of all transactions between consenting adults has to be considered in the context of all the other rights, expectations, benefits, etc. that the government already mediates. Maybe a perfect world would be one in which the government truly does stay out of all of these things. But removing it from the business of regulating marriage, when it also confers other rights based on marriage, is a recipe for the abuse of those rights.

      Again, I think you have a good point - "my right to swing my arm ends at your nose," and so on. But I don't see how same-sex marriage is a recipe for "the abuse of those rights." And I think that society and government should lean toward having to prove something is harmful, not requiring proponents to have to prove it's safe. (I say "in general" because I do agree in things like food and drugs, it is the responsibility of the proponent to first prove it's safe beyond some reasonable doubt.)

      By the way, just to throw some other wrenches into the discussion: what constitutes a "minor"? What about "legally incompetent" adults? If the government is not to regulate transactions between consenting adults, does that mean they can't charge sales tax if I sell something to my neighbor? What about if I start a business and sell the same thing? Can I perform surgery without a license, as long as the patient agrees? (What if I lie about it? Lying isn't a crime. So how would you prevent this?)

      I don't see how that throws a wrench into the discussion at all. I'm operating from the standpoint that gay men and women are in their right minds. Going from there, they fall under the category of 'consenting adults.' We already have to deal with issues of minors and legally incompetent adults in terms of marriages, and I dont' see how gay marriage would change that.

      Furthermore, I didn't say "transactions between consenting adults," I said "behavior of." I know it's a fine distinction, but I'd argue marriage isn't transactional, but behavioral. As such, it wouldn't fall under the same realm as regulating sales tax.

      But we've drifted from the realm of gay marriage - you said "Once you concede that, what principle prevents any old arrangement - marrying your sister, marrying a goat, marrying a group of people, whatever? All the arguments used in support of gay marriage could be used to support any of these arrangements." and I presented a counter-argument that, I believe, could not be used to argue in favor of marrying a goat or a minor. And I still don't understand the moral or legal grounds for prohibiting gay marriage, or group marriage, and I don't think you've put forth a compelling argument.

      -Trillian

  6. Re:Gaygle by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
  7. Not Particularly Inconsistent by weston · · Score: 5, Insightful

    surprising coming from the guy who had been charged with diversity and sensitivity training during his ten-year Microsoft stint

    It's surprising only if you assume that anybody who believes the term marriage should remain gender heterogenous must also think the murder of Matthew Shephard was a really good idea.

    I didn't vote yes on 8, but I know a lot of people who did, and their decision had little to do with any lack of sensitivity or exposure to diversity.

    1. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I know a lot of people who did, and their decision had little to do with any lack of sensitivity or exposure to diversity.

      Then what did it have to do with? Not trolling or anything, I'm genuinely curious. I can't think of anything outside of "Because God said so" or "Fags are gross".

    2. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Reality+Master+201 · · Score: 0, Troll

      Yeah, basically those two things are what it really does all boil down to. They'll wiggle about trying to call you intolerant for not tolerating their attempts to use the machinery of government to restrict the rights of others, or whatever other dishonest bullshit they feel compelled to spew. But basically it's fags are gross and/or the bible says so.

    3. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by profplump · · Score: 1

      If the word "marriage" isn't important then why do you care if gays use it?

      If the word "marriage" is important then how can you argue that it isn't important to allow gays to use it? Did you miss the outcome of that whole "separate but equal" bit last time around, when we tried to claim that it was okay to deny a group of citizens access to certain government services, so long as we provided them a different set of equivalent services, and the judicial system overwhelming decided that wasn't acceptable?

    4. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by weston · · Score: 1

      They'll wiggle about trying to call you intolerant for not tolerating their attempts to use the machinery of government

      Way to imply anyone that doesn't agree with you is acting in bad faith.

      Almost everybody involved in this case is trying to get the machinery of government involved to reflect their particular morality here. The only people who have a position that doesn't involve this are those who advocate separating government involvement with the term marriage entirely.

    5. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Creepy+Crawler · · Score: 1

      "Separate but equal" was never overturned. Instead, the Supremes said that they arent equal.

      Their judgment left open a true Separate but equal ruling, in which 2 parties (races, nationality, color, sexual preference) could be discriminated against, but under equal grounds. Like bathrooms... (yeah, lame example).

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    6. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by cabjf · · Score: 1

      Except in this case it is the exact same set of services applied the exact same way. I hear that argument come up a lot, but the fact is that forcing a group of people to use separate but "equal" schools, restrooms, etc is very different than creating a new right.

      A better comparison would be prohibition. Everyone had their right to drink taken away. The people who liked alcohol were upset, but the people who did not like alcohol were quite happy. It was the same restriction of a right applied equally across the population though.

    7. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Reality+Master+201 · · Score: 1

      Almost everybody involved in this case is trying to get the machinery of government involved to reflect their particular morality here. The only people who have a position that doesn't involve this are those who advocate separating government involvement with the term marriage entirely.

      Actually, I think marriage shouldn't be something government regulates. I don't even thing we need civil unions - we can and should handle all legal functions of marriage differently (contractual arrangements or whatever).

      Also, I wasn't implying that people who don't agree with me are acting in bad faith. I'm sure there's lots of folks out there who don't realize their dislike of gays actually boils down to "fags are icky," but that's really what it is.

    8. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Diversity and sensitivity training teach tolerance not acceptance. In the workplace you must tolerate other peoples differences, but you don't have to accept them as right or moral.

    9. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      I didn't vote yes on 8, but I know a lot of people who did, and their decision had little to do with any lack of sensitivity or exposure to diversity.

      What did it have to do with, then?

    10. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Tumbleweed · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I didn't vote yes on 8, but I know a lot of people who did, and their decision had little to do with any lack of sensitivity or exposure to diversity.

      Having religious reasons behind ones bigotry doesn't change the fact that it's bigotry. See also: Middle East.

    11. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Did you miss the outcome of that whole "separate but equal" bit last time around

      Actually, this is not a "separate but equal" issue. Gays currently have the same and equal right as everyone else to marry someone of the opposite sex. It is not government's fault that they are unable to avail themselves of that right.

      What they want is a new right--the right to marry someone of the same sex. We shouldn't pretend that isn't something new.

    12. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by blueturffan · · Score: 1

      Having religious reasons behind ones bigotry doesn't change the fact that it's bigotry. See also: Middle East.

      Am I the only one that saw the irony in this statement?

    13. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by linzeal · · Score: 1

      Yeah, see the problem with bigotry isn't the lone bigot, it is the culture out there that facilitates bigotry in the first place. I paraphrase; as I remember it, Nietzsche in Beyond Good and Evil said that altruism is a disease of the ego and that those who would be allowed to feign altruistic motives to serve their own ends are the ultimate abominations a society can create. All this talk of protecting the "sanctity of marriage" when they typically have the highest divorce rates, is laughable. Don't even get me started comparing conservative heterosexual christian household's sexual abuse rates with those raised in any type of homosexual household. One significant problem with theists as I see it is they believe too much in divine explanations for things that at some point they lose the ability to see the effect of their wills on themselves and others. They are malformed individuals with god complexes who rightfully should be shamed in public for their views that harm others through the veneration of ignorance and the catastrophes that such confused ideology causes. Inexcusably they were allowed to prop up GWB and get him elected without a major news outlet questioning the sanity and judgment of a man who claims to speak to a divine being. Anyone who claims such nonsense is mentally ill.

    14. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by weston · · Score: 1

      Then what did it have to do with? Not trolling or anything, I'm genuinely curious. I can't think of anything outside of "Because God said so" or "Fags are gross".

      "Because God said so" might be one way of boiling it down for some of the voters, in some cases directly, in some cases through some authority they recognized, and in some cases as a highly reduced expression that's not a particularly good vessel for a general philosophy of sexuality that underlies some conservative religious moral codes.

      Still, I'm pretty confident that's not the whole story. In my conversations with people, a recurring (if not universal) theme was an acknowledgment that everybody should have legal tools they need to build the domestic life that they find most suits them -- if my experience was representative of the overall population, I can almost guarantee you that any proposition to eliminate domestic partnerships or civil unions or what have you wouldn't have had *half* the support Prop 8 did. And a near universal theme was that nobody should be threatened or beaten or denied housing or employment because they're gay (though some were really uncomfortable with open sexuality in general in the workplace). So this is definitely not "gay people are icky subhumans."

      So what made pro prop 8 folks break in the direction of support if they felt pulled in both directions? Most of them wouldn't have put it the way I'm about to, but the biggest thread I pulled out of the conversations is this:

      Marriage really isn't simply a personal matter. It's also a community matter in a lot of ways that isn't simply a recognition of legal rights, it's also a form of moral approval regarding the relationship. You can argue that it shouldn't be like this, but it's essentially a social reality at the moment. It works fine as long as you have communities with more or less homogenous values, but it's also now a reality that we don't. So if the state expands the definition of marriage to gender homogenous relationships, it is extending moral approbation to the relationships, and moreover, any citizen of the state will also be compelled as members of the state community to either similarly extend that approval or abandon a conception of marriage that involves communal approval. The later, by the way, is what some people seem to mean when they talk about this damaging marriage.

      I suspect some people react violently to the idea that anybody might withhold approbation from gays. Leaving aside that demands for acceptance/tolerance vs essentially forced approbation are pretty much on entirely different planes, I see even a bifurcation on the approbation plane: a willingness to accept that marriage needs to be not the only way to get social approbation (if not moral) if marriage is going to continue to exist in a value heterogenous society, so it's really not going to work that way.

      Not everybody had thought this out and framed it quite the way I did. Hell, I'm not sure I did a good job at actually trying to pull this out, and even the most articulate people I talked with had some trouble teasing this out. I think that's one reason you get a lot of people saying "I'm just uncomfortable with it" or "God said so" (or, conversely "Stop the hate"). I do also know people for whom it was, more or less a matter of delegating the decision to people they'd already recognized as spiritual authorities (or they just said they thought and prayed about it and felt intuitive signals that supporting 8 was the right choice). But the majority of people I know were familiar enough with some of the actual dilemmas gay people face they really couldn't let it go at that without grappling with the tension between those real problems and their own moral philosophy.

      I can't say if this is actually reflective of Prop 8 voters as a whole. Just my experience. The plural of anecdote is not data, YMMV, offer void in Alabama.

    15. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by NeoOokami · · Score: 1

      Taking it the other extreme isn't any better really. I realize that someone can think that marriage should be between a man and woman only and at the same time really not want to hate on homosexuals. Even then though, it's inherently pretty surprising for someone to be in charge of diversity understanding and still be a proponent of seperate and equal. Something that's pretty ingrained in this country by now as not being such.

    16. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by TooMuchToDo · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I didn't vote yes on 8, but I know a lot of people who did, and their decision had little to do with any lack of sensitivity or exposure to diversity.

      It probably had more to do with their lack of education, conservative leaning, or religions affiliation:

      http://ballotpedia.org/wiki/index.php?title=California_Proposition_8_(2008)#Demographics

    17. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      nope I think the only one that didn't see it was that guy.

    18. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by cpt+kangarooski · · Score: 1

      Actually, this is not a "separate but equal" issue. Gays currently have the same and equal right as everyone else to marry someone of the opposite sex. It is not government's fault that they are unable to avail themselves of that right.

      That's a facile and discredited argument. Back in the 60's, Virginia argued that whites and blacks each had the same right to only marry people of their own race, and that therefore their prohibition on interracial marriage wasn't discriminatory. The Supreme Court made short work of that load of crap.

      The issue here is that there is a fundamental right to marry, which ought only to be restricted where that restriction is for a sufficiently important purpose, and where the means of the restriction accomplish that purpose, but do not cause any unnecessary burden on people unrelated to that purpose.

      So, for example, there's a good reason to not permit marriages where one or both spouses don't consent to the marriage. Requiring consent would accomplish this, and wouldn't burden anyone unduly. Thus, consent is a restriction of marriage which is valid. And incidentally, because we consider minors unable to consent, that's where the age requirement comes from. Ditto why you can't marry an animal, but could, presumably, marry a sapient alien (Lacking real aliens, fictional examples include Superman marrying Lois Lane, or Mr. Spock's parents).

      What good reason is there to require that spouses be of opposite genders? We know it cannot involve procreation, since the restriction doesn't impair a sterile opposite gender couple from marrying, etc. We know it cannot involve child rearing, since opposite gender childless couples, couples with no minor children, and unfit parents are free to marry, and since same sex couples who are good parents would be prevented from marrying despite ability. We know it's not because homosexuality is illegal, because it is protected by the Constitution.

      Frankly, I'm at a loss to see what good reason we have to prohibit it, where that reason would be advanced by the prohibition, and would not cause an undue burden on others. Got any suggestions?

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    19. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by deraj123 · · Score: 1

      I don't even thing we need civil unions - we can and should handle all legal functions of marriage differently (contractual arrangements or whatever).

      Then there are a lot of questions that need answering. When I'm in the hospital, who has the right to come in and see me? For inheritance, who is my next of kin? Who gets to decide to take me off the ventilator when I'm in a coma? Do my wife and I file taxes separately? This doesn't make much sense to me, because all of our other finances are completely combined - attempting to separate things for the sake of taxes would be horrendously complicated. As long as government recognizes family relationships in any sense, it needs to recognize some mechanism for establishing a new one in a "union" type manner. We have adoptions for establishing new parent-child relationships, but nothing for two people who wish to live together as family and consider themselves as "next of kin" to each other (except marriage/civil unions, but you're proposing to do away with that).

    20. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's a facile and discredited argument. Back in the 60's, Virginia argued that whites and blacks each had the same right to only marry people of their own race, and that therefore their prohibition on interracial marriage wasn't discriminatory.

      Your analogy is imperfect. Race of the partners is not an essential element of the definition of marriage. Until recently (say the last 10 years), almost no one would deny that an essential element of the Western definition of marriage would require that partners be of differing sexes.

      Those who argue for a right for "gay marriage" are really advocating a radical redefinition of Western marriage. Once one starts this redefinition, how does one argue that marriage must be confined to just two partners? Why can't 10 people all marry each other if they consent? And if the essential issue is consent, how can one deny marriage between infertile consenting siblings? And who are we to restrict the definition of marriage to consenting humans? Why can't we redefine marriage to include "marriage" to a cartoon character (here)?

      If we as a society want to redefine marriage, we should do so through legislation and/or the ballot box with careful consideration of the consequences and implications. We should not do so through false claims that this is a civil rights issue.

    21. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Tumbleweed · · Score: 1

      >>Having religious reasons behind ones bigotry doesn't change the fact that it's bigotry. See also: Middle East.

      >Am I the only one that saw the irony in this statement?

      So you think killing people in the name of Islam, the "religion of peace" makes sense? Well good on you, then.

    22. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by cpt+kangarooski · · Score: 1

      Race of the partners is not an essential element of the definition of marriage.

      Other than that marriage is a union of multiple people as spouses, there really is no "essential element."

      Marriage has been around since time immemorial, but in different times and cultures, it has been quite different. In some cultures, it was okay to marry your sibling, in other cultures it was considered incestuous and illegal to marry someone who was only related to you via someone else's marriage (e.g. if Alice married Bob, Alice's sister Carol could not marry Bob's brother Dave; likewise, if Bob died, Alice couldn't marry Dave either). Marriageable ages have been all over the map, as have what social castes you're allowed to find a spouse in. Marriages of three or more people are known in some parts of the world, but in some cases people can't marry one another because they're of the wrong religion. Or worse, marriages might not be recognized merely because both spouses aren't of the right religion. In about half the US states, it's illegal to marry a first cousin, but in the other half, it is legal (and such marriages are recognized even where they couldn't be performed).

      In the US, it doesn't matter what religions think. If a particular church wants to recognize some marriages and not recognize others, that's fine; it just has no legal weight.

      The law, however, is founded on principles of individual rights, not historical custom or religious belief. Prohibitions against interracial marriage predate our country, but the mere fact that they were traditional didn't matter one iota in the end. Doing a stupid, bigoted thing for a long time doesn't validate it; it just reveals that there have been a lot of stupid, bigoted people. Calling upon that history is just trying to justify jumping off a bridge because all the other kids are doing it too.

      The law says that there is a fundamental right to marry. The law says that fundamental rights should not be infringed, barring a sufficiently compelling reason, where the infringement is necessary in light of that reason, and where the infringement doesn't impair any more rights than necessary.

      In the case of the existing prohibition against marrying without consent, we have those things, and the prohibition can stand. In the case of existing prohibition against marrying someone of the same gender, there's simply no good reason, no way the prohibition can effectuate it, and no way to avoid causing undue harm. I dare you to show otherwise.

      Once one starts this redefinition, how does one argue that marriage must be confined to just two partners?

      First, it's not a redefinition. No one has any problem understanding the idea of a group marriage, and such marriages are not just known in the present day, but across the world, and through history. There are group marriages in the Bible. So don't start with your 'redefinition' crap.

      The last Supreme Court opinion on this issue was Reynolds v. US, back in the 19th century. It is one of their most infamous, odious opinions, in the company of Plessy, Dred Scott, Bowers, and others. The gist of it was that group marriages were inherently uncivilized and despotic.

      So sure, if someone wants to raise the issue, why the hell shouldn't we address it? If there is a good reason to prohibit it, what is it? The best I can think of is that it would put a burden on the legislature to restructure family and inheritance law. But administrative convenience is clearly no justification for infringing on a fundamental right. Lacking a good reason to oppose it -- and ickyness is not a good reason -- what is the harm in allowing it?

      Especially since you cannot prohibit people from cohabitating in the same manner, if they're so inclined. Marriage, from a legal perspective, deals with recognizing the union, and granting various perks (e.g. spousal privilege in evidence law). I doubt that you have a moral opposition with granting group spouses a tax break, and you can't prevent the thing you might dis

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    23. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Are you sure? It would seem to.

      To deny others happiness when it's none of your business doesn't strike me as sensitive at all.

    24. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by dangitman · · Score: 1

      It's surprising only if you assume that anybody who believes the term marriage should remain gender heterogenous must also think the murder of Matthew Shephard was a really good idea.

      That doesn't make any sense. There are many kinds of discrimination, and you don't have to be at the level of justifying murder to be a discriminator.

      Anybody who voted for Proposition 8 is discriminating, whether they believe they have good intentions or not. It simply is discrimination, by definition. You are saying that one group of society should have fewer rights than another group of society. That's discrimination.

      I didn't vote yes on 8, but I know a lot of people who did, and their decision had little to do with any lack of sensitivity or exposure to diversity.

      Right. As this demonstrates, people with plenty of exposure to diversity can still be bigots and discriminators. That's not surprising at all. Many people have lots of exposure to mathematics, but still don't "get it."

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    25. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by ShakaUVM · · Score: 1

      >>I paraphrase; as I remember it, Nietzsche in Beyond Good and Evil said that altruism is a disease of the ego and that those who would be allowed to feign altruistic motives to serve their own ends are the ultimate abominations a society can create

      So in that case, all Christians should have voted for Prop 8, since voting against Prop 8 would have been an altruistic endeavor from the people who currently hold cultural hegemony in California.

      >>All this talk of protecting the "sanctity of marriage" when they typically have the highest divorce rates, is laughable

      Pretty much every stat on that page has issues with it. When you compare atheists vs. the general population (of which about 80% is Christian), you have a lot more important confounding factors (like SES and education) than religion. Also, claims that Christians do X at the same rate as the general population are ridiculous when you consider most of America IS Christian. There's been a longstanding belief that being Christian doesn't change teenage sex rates... when someone finally realized this problem with it and only examined self-described "devout" Christians vs the general population, there was about a three year difference in when the populations had sex for the first time. In a nutshell, almost all studies in this area use bad stats.

      >>They are malformed individuals with god complexes who rightfully should be shamed in public

      Yes, yes. Christians who believe in humility have so much more of a problem with hubris than sane, intellectual atheists like Hitchens or Dawkins. :p

    26. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, their decision was based in fear - of gays, or God, or (quite likely) both.

      Frightened little piss-ants like those people just plain shit me - they hold back progress for everyone.

    27. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Perhaps these friends of your friends didn't have a lack of exposure to diversity, but to me, by definition, they have a lack of sensitivity to it. And I'm not saying their evil, either. Neither was the righter of this post. I would be disturbed, however, if the director of diversity and sensitivity training at my company publicly supported such a prop as this.

      I don't really understand your point here, it's sort of a reverse-Godwin-ing, or a Godwin tagging. You're saying, "You disagree with me, you're comparing me to Hitler!" when no one has done anything remotely close to that.

    28. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Then what was their reason?

    29. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Those polling results say both males and females voted in preference of the 'No' option. What genders had a plurality for 'Yes'? CA is such a weird state.

    30. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Theaetetus · · Score: 1
      Realizing that, as you've said, this isn't your position and simply that of your neighbors:

      Marriage really isn't simply a personal matter. It's also a community matter in a lot of ways that isn't simply a recognition of legal rights, it's also a form of moral approval regarding the relationship.

      So it's "I peek into your bedroom and don't like what I see, so therefore, I'm going to try to ban you from having a family in whatever legal way I can."

      No matter what words you couch it in, this is identical to the sentiments expressed in the Loving v. Virginia era to keep blacks and whites from marrying. You're talking about mostly-homogenous communities, not wanting to extend moral approbation to those darkies. It was wrong then, and it's wrong now.

    31. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is no redefinition going on

      In the context of Western marriage (and the US is based on Western culture), there most certainly is. Homosexual "marriage" has not been recognized in the West until very recently, and then "marriage" had to be redefined to entail more than the union of one man and one woman.

      And you know the interesting thing about fundamental rights, such as marriage? Well, I'll let the Supreme Court say it: "One's right to life, liberty, and property, to free speech, a free press, freedom of worship and assembly, and other fundamental rights may not be submitted to vote; they depend on the outcome of no elections."

      There is a fundamental right for any two consenting adults who wish to marry to do so? Really? And what is the historical basis for this supposed right? I think you'd be sorely pressed to find any claim for such a right in the 18th, 19th and most of the 20th centuries. It is very unconvincing to assert that a right is "fundamental" if it has only been "discovered" in the last few years.

    32. Re:Not Particularly Inconsistent by cpt+kangarooski · · Score: 1

      In the context of Western marriage

      Well that is a ridiculous thing to say. Marriage is marriage; it's a human institution, it seems to have been around through all our history and probably beyond, and though it may differ here and there, no one has any trouble recognizing it in other cultures.

      You're trying to redefine the entire, expansive concept to just what is currently on the books. You only want those marriages recognized as presently are, and so you narrow your view so that those are the only ones you are willing to consider in the first place! It's idiotic. For example, it is currently snowing here. If I were asked to describe the weather for where I live, I'd say that it was somewhat hot in the summer, cold in the winter, mild in spring and fall, with no season being particularly dry or wet. But apparently you, with your self-imposed blinkers on, would only take into account the weather you could see out the window right now, and you'd say that it snows all year long, and never does anything else.

      There is a fundamental right for any two consenting adults who wish to marry to do so?

      No, there is a fundamental right for any person to marry any other. That right is subject to certain limitations, but the limitations have to be for sufficiently compelling purposes, actually accomplish those purposes, and not cause undue harm. A requirement of consent amongst the partners is one such limitation, and it appears to be well-founded. A requirement that the partners be of opposite genders is another such limitation, but it appears to lack any sort of foundation at all; there's no good reason for it, it doesn't accomplish anything, and it causes a lot of harm. The old requirement (which had a long history dating back centuries, so I would be unsurprised to discover you supported it) that the partners be of the same race, was ultimately abolished in part on the grounds that had no good reason to exist, and caused a lot of harm.

      I think you'd be sorely pressed to find any claim for such a right in the 18th, 19th and most of the 20th centuries.

      Ah, so now you're saying that marriage is and can only ever be that which it was between, say, 1700 and 1967? That's truly bizarre. Especially since you're unavoidably supporting the idea that the state can prohibit interracial marriages, since, after all, the rationale used to abolish that ban was the same.

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  8. Color me perplexed. by MyLongNickName · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Put aside whatever your thoughts on whether same-sex marriage should be legal or not. Try to look at this from a systems standpoint.

    First, we have a court decision allowing gay marriage. Then, we get a proposition that the voters decide that it should be illegal. Here, we have a very classic case of the voters' wishes versus the concept of legal rights which should not be subject to democratic vote. One side claims that marriage is an inalienable right regardless of gender, and the other side which says this isn't the case. Very deep stuff.

    Now, stirring up the issue are corporations. Where in the hell do corporations belong in this? I am of the classical view that corporations are there to make and distribute money. I've never been comfortable with corporations lobbying lawmakers. I have never been comfortable with corporations donating to causes. Let them make and distribute wealth and let individuals make those choices.

    When corporations get involved with government, it gets ugly. Same with church and state. So regardless of my feelings on Google's position, my thought is they should shut up. If individuals in Google want to take a stand, fine. But when it becomes Google versus the voters, I become uneasy.

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    1. Re:Color me perplexed. by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1, Interesting

      First, we have a court decision allowing gay marriage. Then, we get a proposition that the voters decide that it should be illegal. Here, we have a very classic case of the voters' wishes versus the concept of legal rights which should not be subject to democratic vote. One side claims that marriage is an inalienable right regardless of gender, and the other side which says this isn't the case. Very deep stuff.

      Keep in mind that the proposition was put forward as one type of amendment (needing 50% to pass) but acts like the other kind (needing 66%), so prop 8 may be invalid on its face.

      So regardless of my feelings on Google's position, my thought is they should shut up. If individuals in Google want to take a stand, fine. But when it becomes Google versus the voters, I become uneasy.

      Why should corps be silent on issues that affect them? The problem with corps is undue influence, not them speaking in the first place.

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    2. Re:Color me perplexed. by MyLongNickName · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Why should corps be silent on issues that affect them? The problem with corps is undue influence, not them speaking in the first place.

      By the very nature of multi-billion dollar corporations, they have undue influence.

      And the lack of gay marriage is putting Google at a competitive disadvantage.... who are they at a disadvantage compared to? Their competitors in Alabama?

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    3. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Actually.

      First we had an implied definition of marriage as between one man and one woman.

      Then Californians voted to explicitly define marriage as between one man and one woman.

      Then the courts stepped in the first time.

    4. Re:Color me perplexed. by jjohnson · · Score: 1

      I am of the classical view that corporations are there to make and distribute money.

      So when Yahoo hands over subscriber information to the Chinese government so that dissidents can be arrested and tortured, you're okay with that? Since protecting subscribers falls outside the ambit of making and distributing money, it's okay for them to help a repressive regime quell dissent at the cost of people's lives?

      The problem with your purist (or perhaps minimalist) view of corporations is that many are large or pervaisve enough to have a significant impact on the social fabric. When GM closes a plant, it can destroy a town. When Enron manipulated energy markets, California suffered. Conversely, when Google extends benefits to same sex partners, it has a huge impact in normalizing gay relationships. Large corporations have large social footprints, and that effect is ignored at the peril of becoming a society shaped by corporate policies rather than democratic expression.

      That's not to say that corporations shouldn't primarily make money. But there's a balance to be achieved between not interfering with their money making, and dealing with their impact on the society in which they exist, and on which they depend for their livelihood.

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    5. Re:Color me perplexed. by rm999 · · Score: 1

      "Why should corps be silent on issues that affect them?"

      It's a stretch in this case. The cost of lobbying is probably more than the potential benefit. I'd like to add that proposition 8 didn't even make civil unions illegal, just marriage (it seems like a big legal gray area).

      The problem is that it's unfair to the shareholders who are opposed to gay marriage; these people are also paying for the lobbyists. I agree with GP, it's not a company's - especially a public company's - job to influence the government for ideological reasons. While I completely back Google's cause, it's a line that gets crossed way too much.

    6. Re:Color me perplexed. by Microlith · · Score: 1

      I'd like to add that proposition 8 didn't even make civil unions illegal, just marriage (it seems like a big legal gray area).

      Note that civil unions are not equal in terms of the rights granted to them.

      And at the very least, the legal equivalent in California is invalid outside of the state, so if you want to move you're fucked.

    7. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I disagree with this. A corporation can express some sort of support for political issues, but it's when corporations try to circumvent the political system that it becomes and issue. It's not like they're working directly with legislators trying to get laws written their way. There has to be a productive way in which a corporation can engage with our legal system.

    8. Re:Color me perplexed. by MyLongNickName · · Score: 1

      Regarding the Yahoo case. Yahoo must choose between following the law or not doing business there. They do not have the choice to disobey but try to make a buck.

      Second point - GM doesn't care about the town. Nor should they. That should be up to the people of that town and its government to figure out. Saying to GM "hey.... be a good guy... don't shut down the plant even though you are losing money" is not a viable option. You might wish for corporations to behave "ethically" but decades of experience have taught me this does not happen.

      When Enron behaved "unethically", I blame our government for not regulating business properly. Saying "hey companies... act ethically please" ain't going to work. I have no power over Enron or any other company. Government, working properly, should keep these things in check.

      We, through government, should tell corporations what limits they may operate in. From an environmental standpoint, from a discriminatory standpoint, that should be decided by us. Not left up to individual companies. I don't believe this should be heavy handed, but leaving it up to individual companies is foolish. Company A decides to save money by polluting is at a competitive advantage over Company B who decides to be environmentally friendly. Basically you advocate penalizing ethical behavior.

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    9. Re:Color me perplexed. by Ricomyer · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      You are totally right. Corporations should be neutral in culture wars. Individuals like the religious HR guy from Microsoft can make their individual choices, but if Google is going to discriminate against those who actually have faith, they are going to lose me as a customer.

    10. Re:Color me perplexed. by skeeto · · Score: 0, Troll

      When corporations get involved with government, it gets ugly. Same with church and state. So regardless of my feelings on Google's position, my thought is they should shut up.

      Of course, as you indirectly mention, the Mormon Church should shut up too. From Utah, they launched a huge multi-million dollar campaign to support "Yes on 8" in California. Check out this Google Trends for some interesting insight.

      http://www.google.com/trends?q=proposition+8

      That's right. The largest group of people looking up information online on California's Proposition 8 were mormons from Salt Lake City, UT!

      Religion needs to back the hell down.

    11. Re:Color me perplexed. by megamerican · · Score: 1

      Why should the state decide who can marry and who can't regardless of sexual preference?

      It would be pretty easy to amend the tax code to reflect this. It is already illegal to lie on your tax forms anyway.

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    12. Re:Color me perplexed. by CannonballHead · · Score: 1

      Why should corps be silent on issues that affect them? The problem with corps is undue influence, not them speaking in the first place.

      I could just as well ask, why should churches? We all know the stories of LBGT's (or whatever the acronym is now) trying to force this or that church (or other social/community organization like Boy Scouts) to have to allow them to do this or that function. In the name of equality/non-discrimination.

      If being tax-exempt means that the government can tell you to do anything they want, then there's a problem, especially since corporations that DO pay taxes get told what to do, too... a catch 22 pretty soon. :)

    13. Re:Color me perplexed. by Quiet_Desperation · · Score: 1

      Of course, as you indirectly mention, the Mormon Church should shut up too. From Utah, they launched a huge multi-million dollar campaign [huffingtonpost.com] to support "Yes on 8" in California. Check out this Google Trends for some interesting insight.

      This baffles me more than anything else in the whole issue.

      Some minister somewhere endorses Candidate X in a local election, and you've Homeland Security paratrooping agents in to investigate. An entire Church spends millions influencing an election and... what? Is there even a hint of investigation? Am I just not finding the news stories?

    14. Re:Color me perplexed. by WiiVault · · Score: 1

      The difference I see between this and the usually corporate lobbying is that this is transparent. Google is not trying to hide their position at all.

    15. Re:Color me perplexed. by CFTM · · Score: 1

      Being a shareholder of a company is a decision that an individual makes. I can choose to be a shareholder in a company for any number of reasons, just as I can choose to buy a specific product for any number of reasons. Shareholders have absolutely no play in this conversation. If you disagree with Google's stance, sell your share in the company and refuse to support them any longer but they are not a church and they are not a tax free institution.

      Now, the Mormon Church, should not have been supporting proposition eight. This has nothing to do with their view point, and everything to do with the fact that they are categorized as a tax exempt institution and as such do not have the right to support political causes of any kind. I know of no such exemptions for corporations thus they should be entitled to express their viewpoint in the matter.

      Corporations who supported it are entitled to support it just as Google was entitled to fight against it.

    16. Re:Color me perplexed. by PMuse · · Score: 1

      When corporations get involved with government, it gets ugly. . . . So regardless of my feelings on Google's position, my thought is they should shut up.

      Very well put. Pretty much perfectly put, in fact.

      I, for one would like to see Prop 8 reversed, but I simultaneously would prefer that Google-the-company would stay out of social issues. The googlers are more than welcome to weigh in on those in their own capacities.

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    17. Re:Color me perplexed. by homer_s · · Score: 2, Insightful

      By the very nature of multi-billion dollar corporations, they have undue influence.

      So, you'd also argue that billionaires should stay out of these things? What about highly intelligent people - they would have undue influence as well.
      What about gifted orators?

    18. Re:Color me perplexed. by CFTM · · Score: 1

      It's quite simple really: Basic civil liberties for all. Treat all members of society as though they are the same and stop forcing religious viewpoints in to CIVIL discussions.

    19. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are "Gayglers" (Gay people who work at Google, yes that's what they call themselves, look it up). They are unhappy. Google wants to help them. Google tries to help its employees, unlike other companies who put money towards getting laws passed against them. Companies cannot put a good amount of money towards political campaigns if they are filed as certain non-profit orgs (Mormon church = example of potential problem).

      So why does it make you uneasy? They're seeking to help people repeal a law by helping organize, while other companies (even above non-profit) have put out millions of dollars to have the law put in place.

    20. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Apparently they're at a competitive disadvantage to their competitors in Massachusetts and Connecticut, since those are the only two states in the US that allow gay marriage. Competitors such as... uh...

      And in both those states, popular opinion is against gay marriage (just like in California) but in the case of Massachusetts the people have never been allowed to vote on the issue and in Connecticut it hasn't had time to make it to the ballot.

      I guess Google has finally decided to ditch their "don't be evil" slogan: there's nothing more evil than trying to overturn the will of the people after a democratic vote. The people have spoken. Google should live with it.

      Really, the idea that they're at a competitive disadvantage is ridiculous. Given the choice between California and Massachusetts, who in their right mind would choose Massachusetts?!

    21. Re:Color me perplexed. by Microlith · · Score: 4, Insightful

      if Google is going to discriminate against those who actually have faith, they are going to lose me as a customer.

      If denying others equal rights by codifying your beliefs into the laws of this nation is a defining factor of your faith, then it is a terrible faith indeed.

    22. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Churches shouldn't have anything to say about moral issues? That's odd. It seems like that should be right in their ballpark.

    23. Re:Color me perplexed. by khallow · · Score: 1

      As far as I can tell, the Church didn't spend a cent though it's possible its facilities were used for fund raising. It's completely legal for some group of people who happens to network through a religion to raise money and attempt to influence an election in another part of the country.

    24. Re:Color me perplexed. by Simulant · · Score: 1

      Like it or not:

      "Despite not being natural persons, corporations are recognized by the law to have rights and responsibilities like actual people" (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Corporation)

      And since they have a loud (the loudest?) voice in our government, I'm happy to see one take a stand for human rights for a change.

      To all you faithful, this has nothing to do with faith. Get over it.

    25. Re:Color me perplexed. by samkass · · Score: 1

      Then the courts stepped in the first time

      because in the United States a slim majority CANNOT remove other citizen's basic rights. The entire Proposition 8 debacle was against California's constitution. I'm sure someone's going to argue for a re-interpretation of the constitution that allows prop 8 to stand, but it's pretty clear that a major change in the constitution isn't something that a slim plurality of California residents can decide in a proposition.

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    26. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No. First we had the voters decide it should be illegal (prop 22), THEN we have a court decision allowing gay marriage. Then, we get a proposition that the voters decide that it should be illegal. (again)

    27. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The Mormon church, headquartered in Utah, got prop 8 on the ballot and passed (by a slim margin). The California constitution is clear on not banning gay marriage. So, in fact, a constitutional revision, not merely an amendment, would be necessary to enact the change the Mormon church wants to see in California.

      I am with you on the separation of church and state (as were the founders). Wish it were so. But some religious institutions want to use the government to enforce their religion on others.

      Google, on the other hand, wants to have the best employees possible. And thus supports human rights for the many people of California. Win-win.

    28. Re:Color me perplexed. by Leafheart · · Score: 1

      Do they want? If so, go for it?

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    29. Re:Color me perplexed. by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      That's the sort of crap that made me dismiss religion when I was in my teens (quite some time ago), despite being raised in a deeply Christian family. How can you pick and choose which religious guidelines are relevant? The part of the Bible that talks about the "abomination" of a man laying with another man is the same part that says not to eat pork or wear multi-fiber clothing. It's Leviticus, and no Christian that I know follows the rules laid out in Leviticus. Furthermore, that's the Old Testament, which Christians supposedly say is not the current "law". Christians don't sacrifice goats and doves. They eat pork. We pretty much all agree that there's no such thing as sorcery, and hence the rules forbidding it are rather irrelevant. They don't avoid shaving. I've never done a formal survey, but I'm pretty sure plenty of Christians bang their spouses even when they're on the rag.

      Granted, there are some Christian sects which follow Leviticus to a T, but most do not. They use whatever rationalizations, wiggle room, or outright denial to justify the rules they agree with, and dismiss whichever they do not.

      Beyond that, it's not the law's place to govern sin. If it did, then lying, premarital sex, coitus sans sheet, masturbation, "pulling out", envy, wrath, greed, gluttony, lust, sloth, and pride should all be illegal. It should be illegal to be a religion other than Christian, which is worshiping "false gods". Those are far more pervasive problems after all. If you believe homosexuality is a sin, fine, but remember a) we're all sinners, and b) others are free to sin, and it's God's place to judge them. It's their responsibility to stop, not your responsibility to make them. Believe me, they all know you think they're sinning. You've done your job. Now let people make their own decisions, the same way we all respect your right to have faith in whatever loose translation of the work of fiction you see fit to believe.

    30. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      First, we have a court decision allowing gay marriage. Then, we get a proposition that the voters decide that it should be illegal. Here, we have a very classic case of the voters' wishes versus the concept of legal rights which should not be subject to democratic vote. One side claims that marriage is an inalienable right regardless of gender, and the other side which says this isn't the case. Very deep stuff.

      What we have a case is. 1 voter wants 1 thing. Another voter wants the opposite. Voter a claims its his legal right and should not be subject to voter b's vote. Voter b says, no there is no legal protections afforded you under our current laws and so yea its up to a vote whether you like it or not. And a lot more things too.. gays and not blacks and women. A lot of black people are deeply offended when people try and say they are.

    31. Re:Color me perplexed. by CFTM · · Score: 1

      If you're a tax exempt church you are not to campaign politically on any issue. That is the law in the state of California. If you don't want to be Tax Exempt, by all means go say and support the causes that you want but if you want to maintain that fun little status, STFU and sit down.

    32. Re:Color me perplexed. by NeoOokami · · Score: 1

      I find it interesting how trying to reacquire rights stripped from individuals can be spun to "discrimination." No where is there any talk of Google having a problem with those that have faith, nor wanting to deny them anything. (Other than the "right" to take away rights from others.) I actually have faith in humanity, but sometimes I wonder if it's misplaced.

    33. Re:Color me perplexed. by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      I'm not so sure. We don't have any problems with churches getting involved with government on social issues or donating to causes, so I don't see why corporations shouldn't have the same ability. The problem, of course, is that churches are corporations too, but get a lot of breaks that other corporations don't, just because of their religious nature. Maybe churches should be subject to all the same rules that other corporations are (such as taxation).

    34. Re:Color me perplexed. by msuarezalvarez · · Score: 1

      In what way is Google trying to discriminate against those who actually have faith (whatever that may mean)? By opposing those that are trying to discriminate against another group?

    35. Re:Color me perplexed. by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

      What about gifted orators?

      I think we all know the cunning linguists' position in this.

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    36. Re:Color me perplexed. by stephentyrone · · Score: 1

      I guess Google has finally decided to ditch their "don't be evil" slogan: there's nothing more evil than trying to overturn the will of the people after a democratic vote. The people have spoken. Google should live with it.

      If "the people" (meaning 50% of the minority of the population that actually turned out to vote) passed a ballot initiative that condemned you to death, would you accept their judgement?

    37. Re:Color me perplexed. by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      So if the voters approved a proposition requiring all IT workers to be sold into slavery, then that would be OK with you as long as a majority voted yes?

    38. Re:Color me perplexed. by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      If they're all above the age of consent, and all consent, then what business is it of mine?

      I don't particularly like the fact that ugly and stupid people are allowed to breed, but I don't see anyone seriously proposing we ban that just because it offends me.

    39. Re:Color me perplexed. by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      I agree completely. Supposedly, the OT doesn't apply any more, so it's OK to eat pork and shave, or even eat bats if you really want (which the OT claims are a type of bird). However, I challenge anyone to find a Christian church that doesn't claim that tithing is still necessary, even though that's also part of the same OT where all these other obsolete laws are found.

    40. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Google extends benefits to same-sex couples regardless of legal status, I think. Companies that do not, and are not forced to by law, have less overhead.

    41. Re:Color me perplexed. by Archangel+Michael · · Score: 1

      "Why should corps be silent on issues that affect them? "

      Same reason why you probably don't want church's speaking to those same issues. EXACT same reason.

      What if GOOGLE took a stand against gay marriage, because it would increase "costs" associated with benefits? Would you support Google's outspokeness then? Or is free speech only if you agree with what is being said?

      This is the problem with political expediency, if it good for the goose, it is good for the gander (keeping with the sex theme).

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    42. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't know. Their competitors in Germany? Denmark? Canada? Norway? France? The UK? ...

    43. Re:Color me perplexed. by JesseMcDonald · · Score: 1

      So you're saying that you, as an individual, are a customer of Google? What kind of advertising do you buy from them?

      If you're one of their commercial customers, it would be hypocritical to boycott them for getting involved in the "culture wars" based on your own personal feelings regarding the same. If you think they shouldn't get involved, then your decisions should likewise be neutral.

      Also, failing to act in accordance with the beliefs of others is not a form of discrimination. E.g. those who eat meat are not discriminating against vegetarians. Those who argue/vote against Prop 8 are not discriminating against those whose philosophical and/or religious beliefs require them to support it. Tolerance goes both ways.

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    44. Re:Color me perplexed. by Thunderstruck · · Score: 2

      If denying others equal rights by codifying your beliefs into the laws of this nation
      The laws of this nation are not at issue here. The issue is Proposition 8. This law applies only to California, and reflects the unique society and culture of the citizens of California.

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    45. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      equal rights? So, following you logic... If I insist that I am a female, and I feel I have the *right* to be a female. Then a law should be passed saying "John is a female", else you are "denying others equal rights by codifying your beliefs"

    46. Re:Color me perplexed. by Quiet_Desperation · · Score: 1

      Numbers like that for a single group from another freaking state are way out of line. It stinks.

    47. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Corporations are people too. Yes, it's a grotesque use of laws intended to free slaves. Yes, I think it's really wrong. But they're considered legal people and, as such, they have the right to lobby and push for laws just like any other legal person.

      You want to stop this, get the court ruling that made them people overturned.

    48. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Then a law should be passed saying "John is a female"

      Wrong, the proper response is - who cares. As long as nobody's being forced into something they don't want, you can call yourself a girl, and call yourself a john. Whatever flips your skirt up.

    49. Re:Color me perplexed. by Arterion · · Score: 1

      Classic "in a perfect world" argument. Sure, what you're saying would be absolutely true in a perfect world. But in reality, corporations make the most successful lobbyists, and have the most influence over government.

      So I agree with you, but UNTIL THE DAY COMES that corporations don't lobby anymore, you can't fault Google for playing by the current rules.

      In other words, if the bad guys are going to lobby for bad stuff, then the good guys ought to be able to lobby for good stuff, until we can just end lobbying all together. It's the idea of fighting fire with fire, also; if you can't be 'em, join 'em.

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    50. Re:Color me perplexed. by Arancaytar · · Score: 1

      The solution to this dilemma is quite simple: Democracy stops where human rights begin. Do what you want as long as you do no harm. That's why I don't think the voters have any rights in this matter.

      If democracy becomes two wolves and a sheep deciding what's for dinner (or, just hypothetically, two Europeans and an African deciding who sits in the back of the bus, or, even more hypothetically, three heterosexuals and two homosexuals deciding who gets to marry whom), then this democracy is broken.

      It is true that the government should represent the will of the people. But giving this will ultimate authority is to take the average of all humans and ascribe mythical powers of omniscience and wisdom to it. The average human is neither. He is in fact a small-minded anti-intellectual who is easily influenced by the television. This is why there are Constitutions, bicameral governments and written laws: Because deciding all this by general referenda, especially among an uneducated populace, leads to the majority (or the ones with the biggest ad budget) using its influence to boss everyone else around.

      (In conclusion, because no argument is complete without Godwin's Law: People voted for Hitler and Mussolini. Enthusiastically.)

    51. Re:Color me perplexed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I couldn't have said it better. This is about people's rights. It wasn't that long ago that interracial marriage was illegal in many states. So how is this any different? To deny people a right everyone else has based on their race is unconstitutional, it's also unconstitutional to deny the same rights based on gender.

      To me this is a purely constitutional and human rights issue. It doesn't matter if what other people do goes against someone's faith. If we outlawed everything that goes against any religious belief, we wouldn't have any rights at all!

      People are free to believe whatever they want (As mentioned in the Constitution which they seem to ignore when it applies to the rights of others!), but that doesn't mean they have the right to impose their beliefs upon the rest of society.

    52. Re:Color me perplexed. by MyLongNickName · · Score: 1

      The solution to this dilemma is quite simple: Democracy stops where human rights begin. Do what you want as long as you do no harm. That's why I don't think the voters have any rights in this matter.

      Please at least try to read the post before responding. The point had NOTHING to do with which side is right. It has to do with whether Google should be involved in fighting for EITHER side. You missed the entire point of the thread.

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    53. Re:Color me perplexed. by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Beyond that, it's not the law's place to govern sin. If it did, then the separation of church and state is a lie .

      There, fixed.

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    54. Re:Color me perplexed. by dangitman · · Score: 1

      but if Google is going to discriminate against those who actually have faith, they are going to lose me as a customer.

      WTF? Where is there even the slightest hint that Google is interested in discriminating against people of faith?

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    55. Re:Color me perplexed. by ShakaUVM · · Score: 1

      >>It's Leviticus, and no Christian that I know follows the rules laid out in Leviticus

      It's also in the New Testament, along with prohibitions against adultery, bestiality, prostitution, etc., which Christians do follow.

      There's a reasonably good overview of it here:
      http://www.evergreensgv.org/audio/081026_2nd.mp3

    56. Re:Color me perplexed. by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      The laws of this nation are not at issue here. The issue is Proposition 8. This law applies only to California, and reflects the unique society and culture of the citizens of California.

      It reflects the unique (well, sadly, not so much) bigotry of the citizens of California, not their "society and culture". The latter aren't affected in any way by allowing homosexual marriage. Otherwise you could make the argument that, say, the pro-slavery laws of the CSA also reflected its "unique society and culture".

    57. Re:Color me perplexed. by Scroatzilla · · Score: 1

      It sounds to me like Google wishes to be able to offer non-discriminatory benefits to all of its employees to me. In turn, this would make it a more attractive workplace to a wider pool of people.

      Google then has more people to choose from when recruiting new employees, enhancing their ability to choose the best possible person for the job because they are choosing from a wider population.

      The better/more talented their workforce, the more money they will make.

    58. Re:Color me perplexed. by Alsee · · Score: 1

      if Google is going to discriminate against those who actually have faith

      Whether it's gay marriage or interracial marriage at issue, your statement is ridiculous.

      First of all, many people of faith agree with Google and support gay marriage, just as many people of faith supported interracial marriage.
      (In fact "those who actually have faith" currently support gay marriage at about DOUBLE the rate they supported interracial marriage when it was nationally legalized in 1968.)

      Secondly, it's hysterical how people try to claim that REMOVING discrimination from the law is discrimination. A marriage law that examines the races of marriage applicants as a basis to legally grant or deny that marriage application is discrimination. REMOVING the examination of race from marriage applications, treating marriage applications identically regardless of the races of individuals involved, that is by definition an absence of discimination. A marriage law that examines the genderss of marriage applicants as a basis to legally grant or deny that marriage application is discrimination. REMOVING the examination of gender from marriage applications, treating marriage applications identically regardless of the genders of individuals involved, that is by definition an absence of discimination.

      Your post is not different, and it is just as comical, as someone wanting to prohibit interracial marriage and whinging that HE is somehow being discriminated against because Google opposes the ban on interracial marriage. Absolutely no difference whatsoever.

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    59. Re:Color me perplexed. by Alsee · · Score: 1

      What about highly intelligent people - they would have undue influence as well.

      What planet are you living on?
      And can I immigrate?

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    60. Re:Color me perplexed. by superstition222 · · Score: 1

      Society revolves around money. To understand politics, there is one mantra "follow the money". This includes the politics of religious entities like the Vatican.

  9. WTF? by clone53421 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    "harm its ability to recruit and retain employees"? How the bloody hell does someone being unable to marry someone else prevent you from employing them?

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    1. Re:WTF? by ericrost · · Score: 1

      Because a homosexual person might not relocate to a state where their partner can't get their health insurance.

    2. Re:WTF? by bcmm · · Score: 1

      It makes people not want to live in California.

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    3. Re:WTF? by JimFive · · Score: 1

      "harm its ability to recruit and retain employees"? How the bloody hell does someone being unable to marry someone else prevent you from employing them?

      Assuming that California's law is similar to Michigan's the answer is: By making it impossible to provide same-sex partner insurance benefits.
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    4. Re:WTF? by CannonballHead · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I guess this.

      [Prop 8 would have a harmful effect on this, that, ... ] and on California's ability to attract and retain a diverse mix of employees from around the world.

      I guess Google is arguing that California won't attract gays (ha, haven't they heard of that small, country town, San Francisco?) therefore the huge gay talent pool will be lost?

      IMO, Google is acting strangely. I personally voted for Prop 8 but I understand a business's ability to say who or what they will hire and what they will allow of their employees ... but Google isn't just doing corporate policy here.

    5. Re:WTF? by Jeff+Hornby · · Score: 1

      Because that superstar gay propgrammer who currently lives somewhere where gay marriage is legal might not want to move to California. Heck I'm straight (as much as that matters for someone who hangs out on Slashdot) and I'm not sure I'd want to move to some backwater that was so reactionary as to not allow gay marriage.

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    6. Re:WTF? by rhsanborn · · Score: 1

      Recruit and retain, not hire. They are saying that California is making itself a less desirable state to live in a for a certain set of the population. This set may be less inclined to move to or stay in California to work at google if they feel that they don't have the same rights in the state as they would have elsewhere.

    7. Re:WTF? by halivar · · Score: 1

      Marital status does not prevent a company from extending health benefits to gay (or straight unmarried, for that matter) couples. Unless California is different than other states in this regard.

    8. Re:WTF? by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Google employs people all across the globe. Nobody has to move to California just to work for Google.

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    9. Re:WTF? by clone53421 · · Score: 1
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    10. Re:WTF? by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      That's not Google's fault, and any other California employer would be forced to follow the same law. You'd have to move out of California to find an employer who didn't have to obey Prop 8, and as I've said multiple other times, Google has offices outside of California.

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    11. Re:WTF? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 5, Informative

      It affects lots of things, such as adoption, hospital visits, and survivorship. how'd you like to live with someone for 40 years and lose your house when he dies because you can't automatically inherit the place of residence? There are lots of benefits to marriage that gays are being denied.

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    12. Re:WTF? by Mesa+MIke · · Score: 1

      > California is making itself a less desirable state to live in..

      So, what's new?

    13. Re:WTF? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      I don't like the prop 8 BS, but part of the reason I'm not in cali now is their bizarre obsession with guns. I can't own scary looking firearms? Morons.

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    14. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't like the prop 8 BS, but part of the reason I'm not in cali now is their bizarre obsession with guns. I can't own scary looking firearms? Morons.

      Yes, it's their bizarre obsession with guns......

    15. Re:WTF? by halivar · · Score: 1

      Huh? I could list my garbage collector as my beneficiary, if I wanted to, and nothing could stop me. Is this illegal in California? Do California hospitals refuse admittance to gay people who are insured by their partner's work place? Of all the controversies you list here, adoption is the only one that is not surmountable by a modicum of forward planning.

    16. Re:WTF? by phorm · · Score: 1

      Also pensions, etc, which there are often a gov't portion and a employer/employee contribution. That might very well be an important topic to a big corp or at least an employee thereof.

      If "Company X" has a large business presence in "state Y", but "person Z" had a partner that's going to be screwed out pension/etc if he lives in "Y", he might decide to find work in an alternate location that has more flexible laws, but where X doesn't have a strong business presence.

    17. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Their headquarters is in California. So the majority (or at least a very large minority) of its engineering positions, and nearly all of its executives, are in California. Gay people who want full legal rights, or straight people who are appalled by a state that doesn't grant full legal rights to others, may have a slight bias to live elsewhere, and therefore to work elsewhere.

      The location a company is in, including the legal climate of that jurisdiction, absolutely has an impact on a company's ability to hire.

    18. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ever heard of a Will?

    19. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In California NONE of these are even in play. Domestic partners have full legal rights.

    20. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are completely wrong as far as California law is concerned. In CA, a registered domestic partnership has all the same rights as a spouse. THIS IS THE TRUTH. Read the California law here:
      http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/cgi-bin/displaycode?section=fam&group=00001-01000&file=297-297.5

    21. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You may be correct in that homosexuals don't enjoy some of the same benefits as others but you used a very bad example.

      If you have been in a marriage-like relationship for 40 years with someone and you didn't do the small things needed to protect your interest then you are stupid.

      My wife and I are reflected as joint owners on all real property that can be titled be it houses, cars, boats, etc. We both have wills, power of attorneys, etc. which homosexual couples could also do and basically have the same rights and protection that we have.

      Why would you not do it and force your mate to wait 6 months for the estate to clear?

    22. Re:WTF? by Tringard · · Score: 1

      I don't think that is true, the vast majority of the benefits that come with marriage (including those you listed) can be found by pursuing a Civil Union in California. There is really only the concern that the lack of the title "marriage" is socially demeaning which, as I understand it, was the main argument by the courts in their majority ruling that led to the creation of Prop 8.

    23. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But how does that affect Google?

      Homosexuals won't want to live in California, therefore Google won't be able to hire them? Is that it?

      Google isn't adopting, doing hospital visits, or expecting its employees' estates.

    24. Re:WTF? by IorDMUX · · Score: 1

      It affects lots of things, such as adoption, hospital visits, and survivorship. how'd you like to live with someone for 40 years and lose your house when he dies because you can't automatically inherit the place of residence? There are lots of benefits to marriage that gays are being denied.

      Regardless of what you think/believe/wish/want on the issue of Proposition 8, it is important to get the basic facts straight. In CA (which is the only place where the exact issue known as Proposition 8 applies), all the rights you mentioned and more are given to both heterosexual "spouses" and homosexual "domestic partners".

      There is no distinction between the two as far as rights are concerned in CA law. The issue that Proposition 8 addressed was the use and application of the term "marriage" in state law.

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    25. Re:WTF? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      well they're the ones flipping out over guns based on how scary they look while ignoring traditional firearms that do the same thing. Meanwhile, an illegal in SF can gat a family in a shelter and all that happens to them is they get a plane ride home.

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    26. Re:WTF? by BobReturns · · Score: 1

      While I agree that you could name your garbage collector as your beneficiary, in practice I doubt you already have a will - very few people younger than 40 do.
      Normally, this isn't a problem - your next of kin would be the person you're married to. However, in a gay couple, forbidden from getting married the next of kin could be someone completely different (probably a parent). I've already read more than one account of this causing serious problems. A guy losing his and his dead partner's home to the partner's estranged and disapproving parents for example.

    27. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You are aware that you can fix that in your title? When we went through it there was a section where you could make it to where anyone could be a partner in the title.

    28. Re:WTF? by BradMajors · · Score: 1

      And it would cause some non-homosexual persons to relocate to California because California does not have gay marriage.

      Since the majority of persons in the United States are opposed to gay marriage surely Google should be opposed to gay marriage because it would enable them to hire more employees.

    29. Re:WTF? by nbates · · Score: 1

      But it is still on Google's interest to make a stand about this kind of laws and mindset spreading.

      And also, Google may be defending some of its current employees and expressing the point of view of the majority of his employees.

      The "if you don't like this then move to another place" argument is very simplistic. Some people rather fight something they don't like instead of running away (and remember that Google is just people).

    30. Re:WTF? by fluxrad · · Score: 1

      how'd you like to live with someone for 40 years and lose your house when he dies because you can't automatically inherit the place of residence?

      You don't need new laws to fix that. You need a better lawyer and/or real estate agent. If you establish yourselves as joint tenants with rights of survivorship then whoever dies first leaves the property to the other. Unmarried couples do this all the time.

      Put another way, the problem involving gays and lesbians not being able to visit each other in the hospital or other rights of survivorship is a contractual one. Most gays/lesbians want to address that issue via marriage and its surrounding privileges. By redefining the classical definition of marriage, they hope to bring about the implied contractual changes that come with it. Without stating my beliefs on gay marriage (for or against), I think these particular issues are better addressed in the realm of contract law itself. As an adult, I should be able to leave my house to whomever I choose. I should also be able to specify hospital visits from whoever I choose. Marriage has got nothing to do with it.

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    31. Re:WTF? by tool462 · · Score: 1

      Actually, this brings up an interesting thought. What if Google is more concerned about retention of current employees than attraction of new ones? CA has a reputation for being one of the more gay-friendly states, with the Bay area in particular being very accommodating. The passage of Prop 8 is one of the biggest steps in the opposite direction to happen in CA in recent history. I could very easily see this causing a sufficient level of anger and frustration that many gays and gay-rights supporters would choose to leave to some other state with greener pastures (like MA or NH). Even if these other states don't necessarily have more rights for gays now, their future prospects may seem brighter. If enough of Google's employees are fed up enough to jump ship, it could be a concern for them.

    32. Re:WTF? by bugs2squash · · Score: 1

      In Georgia (and other places too) it's pretty hard to cut your spouse out of your inheritance, even by leaving a will.

      So it's not just about having a default place for money to go to, it's a strongly maintained financial bond.

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    33. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I still don't understand why hospitals use such silly criteria for deciding who can visit patients. I have to be "family" to visit someone in the hospital. It seems like people could be reasonable and decide as a group who gets to spend the limited visiting time allowed due to someones health. If they were sick and at home it would happen that way. That means that if the choice of hospitals is silly so is using that a reason to extend "marriage" in any fashion. (Oh and you can be married and lose access to assets if there isn't a will. It happened to a friend of mine when she was a young mother and the court split her deceased husband's half of their assets between her and her children with the court as conservator for the kids. So how is that a reason to allow gay marriages.) If you want to support something, use some sensible reasons.

    34. Re:WTF? by Arterion · · Score: 1

      You're not thinking about it fairly.

      You need to enumerate a list of every right marriage grants. Then the total cost to obtain them all.

      THEN, write down every one of those same rights you can also get through other legal means. THEN the cost.

      If the list of rights you can get through "other legal means", OR the total cost of obtaining those rights is higher through "other legal means" than through marriage, then you have a disparity between gay and straight relationships that is discriminatory.

      I think you'd find it takes a lot more than a "modicum" of planning to emulate marriage rights.

      If you really don't think that someone who lived in a jurisdiction where their marriage was legal, and all the rights of marriage was available to them at the low, low price of a marriage license wouldn't SERIOUSLY think twice about moving to a place where all that was throw out the window -- just for a job -- then maybe you should be huh'ing yourself.

      Were the shoe on the other foot, and Google operated where straight marriages were void, then no one would be thinking twice about this, because no one (straight) would want to move to where their marriage was void.

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    35. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If I recall correctly, California law says that civil unions get all the rights of married couples. It's the federal level in which the differences pile up.

      So I'm not sure the above examples are correct. Right to access to wealth left by a dying partner without taxation might be a federal issue, but it doesn't keep someone from a hospital visit, and there's no federal influence for adoptions unless you are trying to file taxes as joint marriage and show dependents. But I think single people can file showing dependents as well.

      So I think there's some muddying up of what "privileges" are being denied here.

    36. Re:WTF? by ral8158 · · Score: 1

      You realize that if they are hiring, for say, a management position in California, that the person chosen to be hired for that job can't just work at another office or telecommunicate, right?

    37. Re:WTF? by ral8158 · · Score: 1

      What else should happen to said illegal? They should be put in front of the firing squad for trying to survive or even if they work hard to support their family?

    38. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      how'd you like to live with someone for 40 years and lose your house when he dies because you can't automatically inherit the place of residence?

      If you've lived with someone for 40 years and expect to inherit property from them, you'd be foolish not to have a will.

    39. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe you should.. you know.. write some legal documents? Like.. a will. and a "living" will.

      Is saving a few bucks on lawyers really so important that it justifies crapping in the eye of millions of peoples' religious beliefs?

    40. Re:WTF? by Reservoir+Penguin · · Score: 1

      Lawyers aren't cheap you know. Why do gay couples have to spend good money on what hetero couples get automatically? And really, not all gays are well-off and educated. Gay janitors may not even have money to hire a lawyer to write-up a detailed contract and will.

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    41. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Which of those rights have homosexual couples lost due to Prop 8?

    42. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not in California; Civil unions are given all the rights of marriage here.

      This however doesn't apply federally, but the Federal government doesn't recognize same sex marriages anyway (Defense of marriage act). Prop 8, other than a semantic issue in terms of what a marriage is called, didn't actually revoke any economic rights.

    43. Re:WTF? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      They don't - marriage transfers across state lines, while civil unions don't.

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    44. Re:WTF? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      Yeah, because being a triggerhappy thug is a good paying career.

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    45. Re:WTF? by ral8158 · · Score: 1

      Yeah, because everyone who immigrates to the US illegally is a triggerhappy thug. I guess we shouldn't give anyone who immigrates illegally any benefit of the doubt before they actually commit a crime--clearly, the only people worth that are born here!

    46. Re:WTF? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      Yeah, because everyone who immigrates to the US illegally is a triggerhappy thug.

      I was referencing a specific triggerhappy thug from a month or two back.

      I guess we shouldn't give anyone who immigrates illegally any benefit of the doubt before they actually commit a crime--clearly, the only people worth that are born here!

      Basically - if you come here illegally, you should get booted back out. The only people worth keeping are the ones who actually are here legally - imagine that!

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  10. Easy... by djupedal · · Score: 1

    > Microsoft HR Chief Mike Murray cited religious beliefs for his decision to contribute $100,000 to 'Yes On 8'

    Follow the money...

    And remember, investing in MS risks having your money used against you in the marketplace.

    1. Re:Easy... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The inclusion of Mike Murray's stance on Prop 8 in TFS is entirely superfluous to the story about Google's amicus brief. According to his LinkedIn profile, Mr. Murray was last employed by Microsoft in 1999. The story really has nothing to do with Microsoft. In fact, aside from a controversial decision in 2005 to withdraw support from a gay rights bill in Washington state, Microsoft has consistently supported anti-discriminatory legislation which is also reflected in their corporate policies as well. They were probably one of the first major corps. that provides domestic partner benefits and includes sexual orientation as part of its anti discrimination and harassment policies.

  11. Supplementing the summary by Daniel+Weis · · Score: 5, Informative

    "Proposition 8 was a California ballot proposition in the November 4, 2008, general election. It changed the state Constitution to restrict the definition of marriage to opposite-sex couples and eliminated same-sex couples' right to marry, thereby overriding portions of the ruling of In re Marriage Cases."

    Wikipedia Source

    Google's argument can be summarized as such: The law deters gays and lesbians from taking up residence in California, which is where the majority of Google's employees work. Thus the law is detrimental to Google in that its gay/lesbian employees may want to leave and prospective employees who happen to be gay/lesbian will have more hoops to jump through to work for Google.

    This is particularly bad timing for such a thing as Google is in the process of laying off workers (though it is a very small number - something like 100) and if they are in a position where they have to layoff employees, why are they even talking about hiring employees? Of course the answer to this is simple - Google hopes to grow and something like this will be pertinent in the future - but some people are very shortsighted and will not recognize this.

    1. Re:Supplementing the summary by hansamurai · · Score: 1

      Well, for one they're laying off recruiters, not engineers. There's no reason they can't continue hiring engineers (at a slower pace) while still laying off in other areas. That's actually what's happening where I work now.

    2. Re:Supplementing the summary by SparkleMotion88 · · Score: 1

      I can't help but shake the feeling that Google's stated motivation for opposing this law isn't really valid anyway. Let A be the set of people who will not live in California if same-sex marriage is not allowed (e.g. homosexuals who want to get married, extreme gay sympathizers). Let B be the set of people who will not live in California if same-sex marriage is allowed (e.g. religious types). Google asserts that there are more people in set A than in set B. Is there any logic to back up this claim? It seems to go against my observations (though I've spent my entire life in the south and the midwest). Maybe Google wouldn't want to hire anyone in set B anyway?

    3. Re:Supplementing the summary by mkbc · · Score: 1

      I just don't understand why high tech firms wouldn't instead invest more in virtual teaming technology. Why does a Google employee have to be in California anyways? Does Google creativity involve indoctrination that could only take place in a "cool" office workspace? How diverse a workforce can you have if you want everyone to live the California lifestyle? California doesn't appeal to everyone regardless of their stance on same-sex marriage.

    4. Re:Supplementing the summary by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Google's argument can be summarized as such: The law deters gays and lesbians from taking up residence in California, which is where the majority of Google's employees work. Thus the law is detrimental to Google in that its gay/lesbian employees may want to leave and prospective employees who happen to be gay/lesbian will have more hoops to jump through to work for Google.

      In 1999, the Montana legislature changed the speed limit for most rural roads (previously defined as "reasonable and prudent") to 75 MPH. This law deters speeders from taking up residence in Montana, which is where the majority of Corp. X's employees work. Thus the law is detrimental to Corp. X in that its speeder employees may want to move to Germany and prospective German employees who enjoy speeding will have more hoops to jump through to work for Corp. X.

    5. Re:Supplementing the summary by corbettw · · Score: 1

      Also, just because they're laying folks off in one division doesn't mean they're not actively hiring in others. In this case, they've laid off 100 full-time recruiters. Which reflects the fact that they've slowed their hiring, but not stopped it completely. And if they're hiring fewer people now than in the past, it makes it all the more important for them to find the right person for each job and to make sure that new hires exceed their already high standards. Having external constraints on their candidate pool, like they claim Prop 8 is, could be more detrimental to them now than when they were hiring like crazy, since each individual hired now represents a larger ratio of the total number of new hires in a year.

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    6. Re:Supplementing the summary by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      This is particularly bad timing for such a thing as Google is in the process of laying off workers (though it is a very small number - something like 100) and if they are in a position where they have to layoff employees, why are they even talking about hiring employees?

      The tight conditions that result in the need to layoff employees are the exact conditions in which it is most critical to be able to recruit and retain the best employees, since you need to get the most bang for your labor-cost buck, and can't afford to settle for second best or carry dead weight.

    7. Re:Supplementing the summary by CFTM · · Score: 1

      For starters, I think these sets are extremes anyways. As a resident of the state of California, I don't know a single person who was going to leave the state based on the results of proposition eight. That's not to say they are NOT out there, because I know they are, but that's to say it's a very slim segment of the population.

      It's not really about the hiring anyhow. It's an attempt by Google to get the proposition thrown out because it's an absurd proposition that was sold to the state by a bunch of hate mongers who gussied it up in the guise of "THINK OF THE CHILDREN!" when none of the issues raised by the Pro 8 side were even valid when looked at closely.

    8. Re:Supplementing the summary by faraway · · Score: 1

      The people in set B are working calls centers, and the checkout stand at Wal-Mart. Google needs educated workers. Gay might be a minority of the general population. They are, however, not a minority of the educated tech population.

    9. Re:Supplementing the summary by Alinabi · · Score: 1

      This is particularly bad timing for such a thing as Google is in the process of laying off workers

      Quite the opposite: since they are closing down offices elsewhere, a larger fraction of their work force will be concentrated in California and potentially inconvenienced by Prop 8.

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    10. Re:Supplementing the summary by nbates · · Score: 1

      You are correct in that. I would like to know the percentage of google's employees who are GLBT.

    11. Re:Supplementing the summary by faraway · · Score: 1

      Obviously enough that they're willing to put their money where their mouth is. Unless Google has a gay agenda?

    12. Re:Supplementing the summary by nbates · · Score: 1

      Maybe they are a shell corporation of the Velvet Mafia.

    13. Re:Supplementing the summary by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Well, from my experience in the IT field, most IT workers are either pro-gay (whether they're gay themselves or just know too many gay people to be anything but sympathetic to them) or don't really care at all who their coworkers make the bedsprings squeak with. The amount of people in IT (that I met at least) that shun or outright hate gay people can be measured in the single digits.

      And I live in a very, very conservative country. Let's put it that way, the Vatican might have more avid Roman Catholics (by percentage), but it would be a very close call.

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  12. No. by weston · · Score: 1

    The argument is more than a little weird and weak in the current climate, but what exactly would be wrong with taking a position with respect to the proposition?

    1. Re:No. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nothing wrong with taking a position, but the voting is already over.

  13. Depends by Samschnooks · · Score: 5, Interesting

    So are they being evil here or not? I'm confused.

    That depends. If you are against gay marriage, they are evil.

    I don't get it. Of all the things going on in the World today, I don't get why this is such a hot issue. Actually, I don't get why folks are so opposed to it. It doesn't cause them any harm.

    That's pretty much what the problem is with social value "problems" in this country: people sticking their noses in other people's business. Two people of the same sex getting married doesn't harm me. A person marrying a goat doesn't harm me. But yet, some people think the World will come to an end of two people of the same sex get married. So what? What harm does it cause you?! (I'm not speaking to the parent) What, you're afraid your little snowflake will see two people of the same sex kissing each other and think , "Hmmmmm, I'll kiss my buddy Rod!" Again, so what? In many cultures, heterosexual MEN kiss each other. In our culture, heterosexual women kiss each other. So, again, so what?

    Oh wait, your religious book doesn't like it...ooohhhhhh. Which part? The 'Old' part that I think is just Jewish Myth or the 'New' part that's completely loving and forgiving of all folks?

    If it weren't happening I would think it were a script from a Twilight Zone episode. You know, where it's set up where folks hate each other for completely ridiculous reasons to show a point of the script writers. In the old days it was Rod Serling - a Goddamn genius.

  14. benefits cost less by peter303 · · Score: 2, Informative

    DP partner benefits are taxable. Marriage benefits are not.
    Still that applies only to state taxes until federal Defense of Marriage is modified.

  15. Not just Republicans by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Plenty of gay hatred inside of Obamanation.

    Taking off the blinders and looking in the mirror is the first step in getting real.

    1. Re:Not just Republicans by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Plenty of gay hatred inside of Obamanation.

      Many people who voted yes on 8 do not hate homosexuals. Those that force this misconception hurt their own cause.

    2. Re:Not just Republicans by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 1

      Many people who voted yes on 8 do not hate homosexuals.

      I think that this is in fact true. However, I also think that most racists do not in fact hate people of another colour. They just consider them a lesser form of human life, unworthy of the rights that other enjoy. You don't have to be a member of the KKK to be a racist, and you don't have to be an evangelical preacher to be a bigot.

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    3. Re:Not just Republicans by msuarezalvarez · · Score: 1

      They do not hate them, but want them to live under their peculiar set of moral rules...

    4. Re:Not just Republicans by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem with all gay marriage proponents is that they are unable to admit that when the day is done homosexuality (and hence gay marriage) is a *behavior*, whereas the color of a person's skin is not.

      Perhaps that is the reason that a disproportionate number of African Americans were able to vote for proposition eight.

    5. Re:Not just Republicans by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      Interracial marriage is a behavior too. Do you think it should be banned?

  16. Huh?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    which asks the Court not to harm its ability to recruit and retain employees,

    Because the only qualified employees are gay employees even though they constitute at most 5% of the workforce?? Because google is company that *needs* to employ predominantly homosexual employees?? Because a corporate interest is more important than the people's right to amend their own constitution?? Because there has been a long previous history of history of handing out gay marriage certificates??

    FAIL

    1. Re:Huh?? by faraway · · Score: 1

      http://www.brookings.edu/articles/2002/winter_technology_florida.aspx

      Gays and Growth

      Perhaps our most striking finding is that a leading indicator of a metropolitan area's high-technology success is a large gay population. Frequently cited as a harbinger of redevelopment and gentrification in distressed urban neighborhoods, the presence of gays in a metro area signals a diverse and progressive environment and provides a barometer for a broad spectrum of amenities attractive to adults, especially those without children. To some extent, the gay and lesbian population represents what might be called the "last frontier" of diversity in our society.

      As table 1 shows, 11 of the top 15 high-tech metropolitan areas (column 1) also appear in the top 15 of the gay index (column 2). The five metro areas with the highest concentration of gay residentsâ"San Francisco, Washington, Austin, Atlanta, and San Diegoâ"are all among the nation's top 15 high-tech areas. In our statistical analyses, the gay index does better than other individual measures of social and cultural diversity as a predictor of high-tech location. The correlations are exceedingly high and consistently positive and significant. The results of a variety of multivariate regression analyses support this finding. The gay index is positively and significantly associated with the ability of a region both to attract talent and to generate high-tech industry.

      Gays predict not only the concentration of high-tech industry, but also its growth, as we found when we compared our gay index with the Milken Institute Tech-Growth Index, which measures growth in output of high-tech industries within metropolitan areas from 1990 to 1998 relative to the national growth rate in output of high-tech industries during the same period. Five of the cities in the top 10 in the Tech-Growth Index also rank in the top 10 for the gay index. What's more, the correlation between the gay index (measured in 1990) and the Milken Tech-Growth Index increases over time, suggesting that the benefits of diversity may actually compound as time goes on by increasing a region's high-tech prosperity.

      To counter the possibility that the influence of San Francisco (which ranks first on both the high-tech and gay indices) creates a false association between the two measures, we repeated the analyses without San Francisco. That second analysis strengthened slightly the influence of the gay index on high-tech growth, increasing our confidence that the concentration of gays predicts high-tech concentration and growth.

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      In terms of tech, they are a bigger group than "5%".

  17. its hard to remove politics from religion by circletimessquare · · Score: 0, Insightful

    its also hard to remove religion from politics

    they both play at the game of social mores and laws

    i'm not making an argument against you, i am in fact extending it by saying that all churches should have their tax exempt status revoked, regardless. and they should have never been tax exempt in the first place

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  18. Hope they win so taxes can be challenged next by xzvf · · Score: 4, Interesting

    If Google can win this lawsuit, then any action by Government can be challenged by the same basis. High taxes in California has caused a number of companies to move, and more importantly, a number of individuals. If not being able to hire talent because of gender based marriage gets legal protection, then taxes, school systems, real estate costs.... wow. Maybe I hope they don't win.

    1. Re:Hope they win so taxes can be challenged next by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If Google can win this lawsuit, then any action by Government can be challenged by the same basis.

      Proposition 8 wasn't an action of the government. It was an action of the voters of California. Personally, I voted against Prop 8 and while I was dismayed by the result, I know that this is going to be a non-issue within a decade or two. Gay marriage is increasingly accepted by America and that momentum isn't going to stop.

      But if Google wants to file suit on this, I'd guess the negative reaction to their attempt to thwart a decision directly voted on by the citizens of California will be far more detrimental to Google's well-being than Prop 8 itself ever will be. Courts should be very careful about presuming to overturn the results of a popular vote.

    2. Re:Hope they win so taxes can be challenged next by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > But if Google wants to file suit on this

      Google isn't filing suit on this; they're filing an amicus brief. I suspect that there will be literally thousands of amicus briefs in this case.

      > Courts should be very careful about presuming to overturn the results of a popular vote.

      Courts should faithfully discharge their constitution duties.

      The California constitution makes a distinction between a constitutional amendment and a constitutional revision. An amendment only requires a majority in a referendum, while a revision requires supermajorities in the legislature.

      The case against proposition 8 is that it is a revision, specifically that it revises the equal protection clause. The equal protection clause exists specifically to prevent the majority from choosing to erode the fundamental rights of a minority. As such, it would be meaningless if it could be circumvented by a simple majority vote.

      You can argue about whether proposition 8 is a revision or an amendment, but claims that a majority vote is final are assuming the antecedent. The entire crux of the case is whether or not a majority vote is actually sufficient under the California constitution.

    3. Re:Hope they win so taxes can be challenged next by Scroatzilla · · Score: 1

      It sounds as though you do not view this issue as a Civil Rights issue? This is really beyond economic issues; it is rights being taken away from human beings, in plain view of the public. We just simply can't be considered a free society if we discriminate against human beings because we find their lifestyle "yucky", or "against God's will", or whatever.

  19. Um... by kabocox · · Score: 1

    Didn't the CA public not want the Gay marriage thing in the first place? Wasn't something like some judges getting it in there? Considering CA may have been the only or one at least one of a handful to actually have a gay marriage thing in place, I seriously doubt any claims that it would hurt their ability to head hunt.

    Are you saying that the tiny percentage of the general population which is gay is so much better/more productive than the 99.99% of the other population it doesn't matter if you hurt the 99.99% productivity or your ability to hire out of that pool as that .01% of gay people that you can manage to hire is just that much better that its almost worth to piss off everyone else?

    If that were so, I'm sure straight managers would bend over for them. I'm sure that there exists some people that are just awesomely productive. To say that population is the gay population is humorous at best. You'd basically have to hunt each industry for their super geniuses to find them. I'm sure that the really high end head hunters could list who those people are and exactly how much that it would take to buy/rent their services. Are you going to be able to say that any given sub group of the population produces these people? Not without alot more data to back you up. (I'd actually be curious to the answer to that though.)

    1. Re:Um... by Dunbal · · Score: 0

      Are you saying that the tiny percentage of the general population which is gay is so much better/more productive than the 99.99% of the other population it doesn't matter if you hurt the 99.99%

            Please explain how allowing homosexuals to marry "hurts" non homosexuals?

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    2. Re:Um... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Please explain how not allowing homosexuals to "marry" hurts homosexuals (who, in California, get all the same rights and responsibilities of marriage via a "civil union").

    3. Re:Um... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You mean like their kids?

    4. Re:Um... by SydShamino · · Score: 1

      Didn't the CA public not want the Gay marriage thing in the first place?

      It seems that 52.3% of the voting public didn't want gay marriage. However, California law requires that some types of constitutional amendments be ratified by 66.6% of the population, not just 50%, because some things shouldn't be subject to majority vote. One of the legal challenges argues that this amendment is one of those types.

      that .01% of gay people

      Depending on the studies, somewhere between 1-3% of the population is gay. Your statistics are off by a factor of 100-300.

      piss off everyone else

      52.3% of the voting population voted for it. Your 99.99% statistic of "everyone else" is off by a factor of almost 2.

      your ability to hire out of that pool as that .01% of gay people that you can manage to hire is just that much better that its almost worth to piss off everyone else?

      /sarcasm/ Yeah, I hear they hire black people too, and even (*gasp*) Asians. Clearly they should stop doing that because it "pisses off people". /sarcasm/

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    5. Re:Um... by Microlith · · Score: 1

      Didn't the CA public not want the Gay marriage thing in the first place?

      Just a hair over 50% decided that they had some reason to poke their nose in other people's business, for specious reasoning over a word that carries distinct legal weight now denied to a non-trivial percentage of the populace.

      Wasn't something like some judges getting it in there?

      They didn't get it in there. They tried to strip gays of the right to marry via a law, and the judges said "you can't do that." Of course, enforcing the laws of this nation is only good when it goes the way you want so all the hyperconservatives suddenly declared them "activist judges" who were "forcing gay marriage" on the people of California.

      Are you saying that the tiny percentage of the general population which is gay is so much better/more productive than the 99.99% of the other population it doesn't matter if you hurt the 99.99% productivity or your ability to hire out of that pool as that .01% of gay people that you can manage to hire is just that much better that its almost worth to piss off everyone else?

      What the hell are you getting at here? That to protect the 97-98% of non-gays and keep them from getting upset, since that's the only -real- effect gay marriage has on them, that we should deny equal rights to the remaining chunk of the population, and that Google should just sit by and let California hold a law that holds some of its employees in needless contempt?

      Are you normally this ignorant, or do you just get ignorant when TEH GAYS come up in a discussion?

    6. Re:Um... by Microlith · · Score: 1

      - Separate != Equal. We learned this lesson almost sixty years ago!
      - DOMA still lords over people, denying them federal recognition of their marriage.
      - The Californian civil union does -not- apply outside of the state. If they leave, they're fucked.

      That people ask "how does maligning and holding gays in contempt, legally, hurt them" as a serious question makes me sick.

    7. Re:Um... by WiiVault · · Score: 1

      I don't mean to flame you, but I suspect you have limited exposure to gay people is you honostly believe that they make up .01% of the population. I would say its more like 1 in 10-20. In Cali it is most likely higher than the national average for a variety of reasons. Heck I bet its significantly higher than .01 in Utah.

    8. Re:Um... by haruchai · · Score: 1

      Are you saying that the tiny percentage of the general population which is gay is so much better/more productive than the 99.99% of the other population it doesn't matter if you hurt the 99.99% productivity or your ability to hire out of that pool as that .01% of gay people that you can manage to hire is just that much better that its almost worth to piss off everyone else?

      If that were so, I'm sure straight managers would bend over for them.

      If that's all it takes to get them to bend over, I would argue those managers weren't straight to begin with.

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    9. Re:Um... by MozeeToby · · Score: 1

      First and foremost, Homosexuals represent much more than .01% of the population. Most estimates put it closer to 5% and it would probably be higher yet if homosexuality were universally accepted.

      Second, just because the majority hold an opinion, doesn't mean that they are correct. Ever hear of the "Tyranny of the majority"? At the end of the cival war, most poeple still didn't think the slaves should be freed. During the civil rights movement, almost no one outside the black community thought that schools should be integrated.

      Maybe banning gay marriage won't hurt Google's headhunting abilities, but I can gaurantee one thing: Supporting Homosexual's rights will improve their ability to headhunt, both among homosexuals and those who believe homosexuals deserve equal rights.

    10. Re:Um... by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1

      Wasn't something like some judges getting it in there?

      Uh, judges don't "get it in there". Judges interpret the law. California's constitution at the time said that the state should provide equal rights under the law. Gay advocates argued that not allowing same-sex couples to marry was discriminatory. It was a logical legal conclusion. And this conclusion was overturned when the people chose to put discrimination against gay people into the constitution.

      Why do you think that judges are "getting it in there" when they are just making legal decisions? You may disagree with the consequences of the decision, but in that case, you should be unhappy with the stupid people who wrote the original law, not the unfortunate judges who have to try to make sense of it. Why do you dislike the idea of judges doing their job?

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    11. Re:Um... by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      What I question is not only the percentage of homosexuals (more than 0.01% of the population is gay), but also the amount of people that would be "pissed off" or at least somehow offended when homosexuals could marry. Personally? Hell, why should I keep 'em from making a terrible mistake? They wanna marry? Let them. Does it affect me? How so?

      If anything is around 0.01%, it's the amount of people that feel really strong against homosexual marriage. And, frankly, I don't give a shit about the religious freaks. They caused enough troubles and outright atrocities in history that I feel it's time we start to ignore them. Maybe they'll just go away eventually.

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  20. Other ways to attract prospective employees to CA by Flounder · · Score: 5, Insightful

    ...do something about the oppressive cost of housing in the bay area.

    ...do something about the oppressive taxes in California.

    ...do something about the oppressive traffic.

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  21. Re:Proposition 8 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    LOCK THE CASH BOXXXY

  22. I'm against the state marrying anyone by Microsift · · Score: 4, Insightful

    States don't marry people, churches do. When a couple goes before a justice of the peace and get married, they're really just entering a civil-union. The state has allowed religious officiants to create these unions as part of a church's marriage ceremony, but they are two distinct institutions. For instance if one get's married in the Catholic church, and later gets a civil divorce the church still views that person as being married. In order to get remarried in the Catholic church, you have to have the first marriage annulled by the church. Conversely, just having one's church marriage annulled doesn't leave one legally eligible for remarriage until they get a civil divorce.

    Of course the source of confusion is that the state refers to civil unions with the religious term marriage. When people hear about gay marriage being legalized, in their minds they think of the religious part of it, and no one likes the state messing around with their religion. If gays are allowed to get married, no church is obligated to marry them. There are plenty of churches that will (some already do) but the state can't mandate that a church violate its religious beliefs.

    Gays need to drop the gay-marriage campaign, and go for civil-unions which are identical, yet more palatable to the general(voting) public.

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    1. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by MozeeToby · · Score: 1

      That only works if you remove the marriage tag from same sex couples as well (and good luck getting that one through). Otherwise you end up with a 'seperate but equal' mentality, and we all know how well that has worked in the past.

    2. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by narcc · · Score: 1

      Not a bad idea. Keep things separate but equal.

    3. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by MozeeToby · · Score: 1

      That only works if you remove the marriage tag from non-same sex couples as well (and good luck getting that one through). Otherwise you end up with a 'seperate but equal' mentality, and we all know how well that has worked in the past.

      Damn no edit button!

    4. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Mr_Blank · · Score: 5, Informative

      I agree. Bump this post up.

            Let churches do church stuff. Let the state do state stuff. The two rarely need to meet, and definitely do not need to meet on this topic. Marriage is a religious pact between two people and their beliefs. Civil-union is a legal provided by the state to give any consenting adults right of attorney, inheritance, and other legal protections.

           

    5. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      States don't marry people, churches do.

      So, if I read you right, you're saying that if my church allowed gays to be married then that would be ok? After all, it's not your church. And churches have different beliefs. Would the same thing apply to back and white (or latino, or anything else) people?

      Or are you saying that only _some_ churches have the right to marry people?

    6. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Quiet_Desperation · · Score: 1, Informative

      States don't marry people, churches do.

      Yeah, a guy at my work got married at Our Lady Of City Hall. :-P If it's strictly religious, how do atheists and agnostics get married?

      Marriage has been a civil and social contract independent of religion for a long time now. The religious ceremony is distinct, and can be abandoned completely.

      Civil unions have nowhere near the same protections as civil marriage, and the Constitution shouldn't give a shit about how "palatable" something is to bigots.

    7. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So if a ship's captain, who works for The Gub'Mint, marries a sailor and a harlot, its not really a marriage? ... ok ... I see ... the ... logic?

    8. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      States don't marry people, churches do. When a couple goes before a justice of the peace and get married, they're really just entering a civil-union.

      No, they're getting married; states have a concept of marriage and churches do too - they're called the same thing, they're just separate because the institutions are.

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    9. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by jeff4747 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Gays need to drop the gay-marriage campaign, and go for civil-unions which are identical, yet more palatable to the general(voting) public.

      We tried "separate but equal" before. It doesn't work.

    10. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by drinkypoo · · Score: 1

      Gays need to drop the gay-marriage campaign, and go for civil-unions which are identical, yet more palatable to the general(voting) public.

      I agree, and furthermore I would go so far as to state that eliminating the legal concept of 'marriage' in favor of a 'civil union' that makes no restrictions on the nature of the participants save that they are of the legal age of majority and thus legally entitled to make their own decisions is a necessary step towards ensuring (or perhaps I should say instituting) the separation of church and state that is utterly essential to religious freedom in America.

      Let a man and a woman joined before God, or whoever else wants to, refer to themselves as "married" - so long as it is not a legal distinction, there will be little reason for anyone to be offended to the extent that they have to interfere with the unions of others.

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    11. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Jherek+Carnelian · · Score: 1

      Gays need to drop the gay-marriage campaign, and go for civil-unions which are identical, yet more palatable to the general(voting) public.

      The keyword is "identical" - so far, none of the gay civil union laws really are identical to marriage laws. For example, adoptions are extremely difficult - not because of the "gay thing" but because adoption laws don't recognize the civil union and thus only one member of the civil union is permitted to adopt the child on paper which then leads to all kinds of parental guardian issues, etc. Hospitals tend not to accept civil unions as making people "close relatives" for visitation purposes. It can be difficult to collect benefits like social security which are often based on one partner's contributions.

    12. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Paul+Carver · · Score: 1

      Ah yes, we should also enforce separate water fountains. It wouldn't hurt to require gays to ride in the back half of the bus either.

      I wonder, in this modern world should that extend to airplanes too? Separate but equal sections of airplanes for gay vs straight people.

      While we're at it we probably ought to make blacks separate but equal too. I wonder if that's enough categories. I guess my town should really have six schools for each grade level:

      White Straight
      White Gay
      Black Straight
      Black Gay
      "Other" Straight
      "Other" Gay

      On second though maybe that's a completely stupid idea and we ought to throw the whole "separate but equal" notion out the window.

    13. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by WiiVault · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The problem with your argument is that there are many churches that will marry gays, so clearly some religions don't mind the concept of marriage. It bugs the heck out of me when it is suggested that "religion" opposes gay marriage, no most churches do, but certainly not all. If you can find a church to marry you, then the state should accept that as a marriage after the civil proceedings.

    14. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by khallow · · Score: 1

      It also creates silly problems with the relevant law. Now every new law has to apply explicitly to both marriages and civil-unions in order for the the two to be identical. Even if intentions are uniformly good (and well, they are not), eventually someone will slip up and the symmetry will be broken.

    15. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And then next we can go ahead and the gays separate water fountains, cause I know a good part of the general public is afraid of catching the gay.

      I don't entirely disagree with you, people are frightened by the idea of gay "marriage" and yes civil unions would be much better. However, it must be civil unions for ALL or marriage for ALL. Separate-but-equal should not exist and can not work.

      Lastly, civil rights should never be about the discriminated group trying to be palatable and give in to the whims of the masses. Civil rights legislation have almost universally been decided by some governing body in opposition to the desires of the general voting public.

    16. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by RussellSHarris · · Score: 1

      I'm fine with that, so long as churches can marry people in the religious sense.

    17. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      You illustrate GP's point. The civil and religious aspects shouldn't be called by the same thing; it's confusing.

      When two people go to a justice of the peace, they should get a civil union. When they go to a church, they should get a marriage (subsequently followed by going to city hall and being united legally in a civil union, the same as they presently have to do – only presently it's called the same thing as the religious union, "marriage").

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    18. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      You need to get more creative with the rebuttals. This is not the same scenario. Having the government grant civil unions and religious institutions grant only marriages yet having them both be functionally the same thing is not at all similar to the "separate but equal" farce of the mid 1900's. They are two different things, yet the same thing. It's like having a legal guardian instead of a parent.

      "Separate but equal"..I'm so sick of people trying to beat me over the head with this line. We're not keeping people separated with this approach, we're COMPROMISING (an American tradition) with a solution that grants FUNCTIONAL EQUIVALENCE under different names. Mandate that marriage and civil unions are functionally equivalent, and opposing arguments will not have a leg to stand on. So PLEASE, Quit blabbering on about how this is just like the plight of minorities in years gone by and move towards a viable solution that works given all religious, social, etc parties involved.

    19. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by narcc · · Score: 1

      I see your point. Adding that many water fountains and restrooms would put too much of a burden on the average business.

    20. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by justleavealonemmmkay · · Score: 1

      States don't marry people, churches do. When a couple goes before a justice of the peace and get married, they're really just entering a civil-union

      Tens of millions of european couples would disagree with you.

    21. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Microsift · · Score: 1

      In Switzerland, if you want a church wedding, you have to get "married" twice, once at the city hall, once by the church. The church part is optional, but you aren't legally married unless you go to city hall.

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    22. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is ridiculous. Why should gays and lesbians have to change. They are the ones having their civil liberties smashed to pieces.

      If they want to get MARRIED they damn well have the right.

      This same kind of logic could be applied to "uppity colored folk" in the sixties who should have just accepted from different fountains, after all the water is the same.

    23. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 2, Informative

      Marriage is not a religious institution, the church coopted marriage, which was originally various more or less formal commitment ceremonies between lovers, or simply a contract between families. The churches and their religious minions are ignoring thousands of years of history prior to church marriages when they say only churches can marry people.
      Until the middle ages, the Christian church had nothing to do with marriages whatsoever.
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage#History

    24. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Citation?

    25. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So if we are letting states do state stuff and churches do church stuff, why are we making laws against gay *marriage*? Marriage is church stuff. Let the church sort out their own bigotry and leave state laws out of it.

    26. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by riyadth · · Score: 1

      I was married (and formed a civil union) in Turkey. While I don't believe the Turkish government will recognize same-sex marriages, I do believe that they have a more sensible attitude to marriage than the United States. The government simply does not recognize religious unions. In order to be "married", you must go through a civil ceremony. In my case, we opted for a private religious ceremony (for family reasons), followed the next day by the official civil ceremony. No problem for us, no problem for the government. I really dislike the fact that the term "marriage" is tightly coupled to religion. I would appreciate a less-encumbered word to describe my union, something that rolls off the tongue better than "civil union". Meanwhile, I'm doing my best to refer to my spouse as "partner". -- (void)

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    27. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So take it another step and find a church that allows polygamy or to marry your sibling, etc.

    28. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree. And everything that has anything to do with legal rights, inheritance, taxation, and so on should only honor the civil union.

      Then the Catholic church and the church of the gay Jesus have equal rights to call their holy union marriage.

    29. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      Nobody's talking about hetero-only bathrooms, or gay water fountains. Nobody's talking about gay seats on the bus, hetero-only movie theaters, or gay-free zones. Civil union is not "separate but equal," it's separation of Church and State -- something I think everyone can agree is a good thing (except perhaps the minority who believe their church should run the state).

    30. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by bruce_garrett · · Score: 1

      Say that's a really swell idea there Microsift. Except that a lot of the anti same-sex marriage amendments that have been passed also forbid civil unions as well. Some of them explicitly forbid any legal recognition of same-sex couples that in any way grants rights or privileges associated with marriage.

      Now...why would that be..if they're only getting hung up on a word. Simple. The word they're getting hung up on isn't "marriage" its "homosexuals".

      This fight isn't about marriage. It isn't about how the state does or does not recognize it. All the ersatz libertarian rhetoric about keeping the state out of marriage carefully misses the point. This is about hating homosexuals, nothing more, nothing less. Otherwise, there wouldn't be this scorched earth fight to deny same-sex couples any legal standing whatsoever. None of these anti same-sex marriage amendments would touch on that. In fact, nearly all of them do, and some of them, Like Virginia's go even further.

      Saying the state should stay out of the marriage business is a nice solution to some other issue, but not this one. This isn't about marriage. It's about the status of gay people in America.

    31. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      When a couple goes before a justice of the peace and get married, they're really just entering a civil-union. The state has allowed religious officiants to create these unions as part of a church's marriage ceremony, but they are two distinct institutions.

      Except 'marriage' is a legal term accepted by law in the US and around the world... so you may define it one way, but that doesn't matter to the courts or laws or reality.

      For instance if one get's married in the Catholic church...

      Who cares? Gays aren't fighting for the right to be married by the Catholic church they're fighting for equal rights with regard to the law.

      Of course the source of confusion is that the state refers to civil unions with the religious term marriage.

      No, the source of the confusion is politicians and religious leaders who exploit people's hatred and intolerance by claiming 'marriage' is a religious term only and the fact that it is used in thousands if not millions of laws can be safely ignored.

      Gays need to drop the gay-marriage campaign, and go for civil-unions which are identical, yet more palatable to the general(voting) public.

      Umm, yeah, then gays just need to go change those thousands of laws all around the country and in other countries and they'll have equal rights. You think that is in any way plausible?

    32. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by rho · · Score: 1

      Interestingly black turnout for the election was extremely high, and they voted overwhelmingly for Prop. 8. You'd think they'd recognize "separate but equal" if they saw it.

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    33. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by TheUglyAmerican · · Score: 1

      In fact the two should NOT meet due to separation of church and state.

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    34. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by jeff4747 · · Score: 0

      You can make the argument however you'd like. The result of a separate system for homosexuals is....a separate system for homosexuals. And as we discovered with segregation, separate is inherently unequal.

      While a separate system would not literally copy racial segregation, the inability to see how separate systems would be exploited is simply a lack of imagination.

    35. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Gays need to drop the gay-marriage campaign, and go for civil-unions which are identical, yet more palatable to the general(voting) public

      One of arguments I've heard against civil unions for gays and marriages for straights is discrimination. For example, a form for employment could have check-boxes [] single / [] married / [] civil-union. The only people who would be checking the civil-union box would be gay and therefore it would be very easy to discriminate against them. The status of "civil-union" vs "married" would appear on credit reports and tax forms, allowing discrimination against you when you're applying for financial loans.

      There are a lot of reasons why "separate but equal" isn't equal. It wasn't equal for blacks 30 years ago and it's not equal for gays today.

    36. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      You'd think they'd recognize "separate but equal" if they saw it.

      Most did, once they saw it in that light.

      Unfortunately, their churches and other religious leaders were doing their best to disguise this fact. Up to and including damning themselves (that whole "false witness" thing).

      However, drawing this difference on racial lines is a bit of an error. If you measure based on "religiousness" (church attendance, etc), then blacks voted for prop 8 in the same way that non-blacks did. It just so happens that blacks in CA are more likely to be very religious.

      The "no on 8" folks worked very hard in the White and Hispanic communities, but ignored the Black community. That was the error that allowed the proposition to pass

      And, btw, prop 8 is still not legal. It amends the CA constitution, which requires significantly more than a proposition (2/3rds majority in the statehouse and a constitutional convention.

    37. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem with this is that it encourages people to become members of the church.

      People want to get married, they don't want to get civilly unionised. It doesn't sound very romantic does it?

      If the government stops administering "marriage" and only administers "civil unions" the fashion will be to go to church to get a "marriage". Then you increase the number of idiots in the world because you increase the demand for complimentary goods like religious dogma.

    38. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In order to get remarried in the Catholic church, you have to have the first marriage annulled by the church.

      An annulment is a declaration that the earlier marriage was in fact not a marriage at all, so I'm not sure that the term "re-marriage" is appropriate. The fact that it is gratuitously abused as a "Catholic divorce" does not reflect well on the Church.

    39. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes it's easily plausible.

      It already happened in other areas for every single country that joined the European Union. That's because EU human-rights law trumps national law.

      What the UK did was leave all its existing law in place, but added a single new law saying "If anyone is ruled against through existing UK law, they can challenge in a higher court that EU law takes precedence and would have allowed them, and they will win, and this will be a binding precedent for the future."

      It's a mechanism that has worked fine so far. Programmers would call it "lazy evaluation". The US has the same common-law and precedent rules as the UK, so it'd work fine in the US as well. It's roughly similar to how the constitution trumps other laws as well.

    40. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "... civil-unions which are identical ..."
      No, they're not. There are nearly 200 legal benefits bestowed upon married people in California that are not granted to people in civil unions. Even if the state were to make them identical, asking the person you're in love with, "Will you civil union with me?" ain't quite so romantic.

      The bottom line is, how does who you want to marry make any difference to me?

    41. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      It already happened in other areas for every single country that joined the European Union. That's because EU human-rights law trumps national law.

      Yeah, so when that Swedish couple who have a civil Union in Sweden are visiting Alabama in the US. They get in a car accident and one of their kids is injured. Are you telling me they will have the same legal rights as a married couple from Sweden in the same situation? Because I don't believe that.

      EU laws override existing laws in member states, but that doesn't solve the problem for laws outside the EU. It's a small world these days and while it may not matter if a gay couple is married or has a civil union when they visit Egypt or France, it may matter a lot when they visit the US or Canada or Australia.

    42. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by JesseMcDonald · · Score: 1

      This wouldn't be "separate but equal". Couples from more restrictive religious backgrounds would also have to file for a civil union to get the same benefits. Essentially, the law would be neutral regarding the concept of "marriage"; that term would become merely a label or certification bestowed by any number of private organizations, with no legal consequences whatsoever.

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    43. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But that is the point. Let churches decide individually. Some will marry gays, some will not.
      Either way, under the LAW you can only have a civil union. If you are married via a church, then you are married within that church/denomination. If an individual church wants to "marry" gays, then they can, but just as an individual church marrying man+woman, it is still considered a civil union under the law.

    44. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So that means if a gay couple want to marry in a church that allows gay marriages it's illegal for that church to be recognized and do it in California?

      *THAT'S* why the state and church are arguing about this, not just gay people and not-gay people.

    45. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      Who says it's a separate system for homosexuals? It's a separate system for everyone. Look, I'm all in favor of gay marriage, but I have to admit, it's mostly chasing windmills. If you refer to an elephant as a dog, that doesn't change the fact that it's still an elephant. If a civil union grants all the benefits of marriage, you're married, no matter what anybody else calls it. Marriage is a commitment of one person to another, THAT is the basis, and if you have that, you have a marriage. That one has all the benefits that the state sees fit to grant such unions, regardless of what the state calls them, means that they are not "separate," they ARE equal.

      "Separate but equal" was a very different thing altogether. You might as well complain about the fact that married/civil unionized people get more rights than single people, like immunity against testifying against their spouses, or a discount on healthcare, or insurance or anything else. WTF is that about? Why should I be penalized just because I don't want to risk having half of my property taken away in the event that things don't work out?

      Anyway, as I said, I'm in favor of gay marriage; I just think there are bigger things to worry about than what we legally call the relationship between two people.

    46. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Quiet_Desperation · · Score: 0

      But the one that counts *legally* is the civil aspect. Civil unions do not have nearly the same rights as marriages, so they are not an adequate substitute. The religious aspect of marriage is just something many folks add on. The state merely tolerates it and allows the ceremony to be performed that way.

    47. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      While that has always been my point of view as a card-carrying homosexual, you should try it out. If you think the god-fearing citizenry get concerned by allowing gays to marry, see what happens when you voice your opinion that marriages as a legal term should be abolished.
      The overriding problem is that for many people, faith > logic.

    48. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, if I, an atheist, get married it isn't really marriage in your eyes?

      Well, fuck you.

      Marriage is no longer a religious thing, and hasn't been for a long time.

      As for civil unions: Separate but equal is not equal.

    49. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      If a civil union grants all the benefits of marriage, you're married, no matter what anybody else calls it

      In theory.

      In theory, separate schools, bathrooms and drinking fountains were equal. But human beings being human beings, one ended up being better than another.

      Why should I be penalized just because I don't want to risk having half of my property taken away in the event that things don't work out?

      If you aren't committed enough to her so that you have this concern, you don't gain the benefits of committing to her.

      And if this really is your concern, date women who make more money than you (lawyers, managers, etc). Then you get 1/2 her stuff.

    50. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      Couples from more restrictive religious backgrounds would also have to file for a civil union to get the same benefits.

      In theory. Reality is that since one is still called "marriage", so it will be considered superior.

    51. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If marriage is only a church thing, what reason would you have to recogize marriages performed in other religions - they're just made up mumbo-jumbo, aren't they?

      What if the couple next to you is another religion? Are they living in sin? Are their children bastards?

      What if you stop going to church? Are you divorced?

    52. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by StikyPad · · Score: 1

      Married service members also make more than single ones. Which is basically bullshit. But all of those grievances are more significant than the way you keep making inapplicable analogies between marriage and water fountains, because the ones I listed actually exist. The difference between a civil union and a marriage is in name only, and any problems that may cause down the line are speculative at best.

      Why is a married person a different class of citizen in the first place? Just because 70% of them are supporting the legal industry by getting divorced? The fact that I don't foresee myself ever asking for a divorce doesn't change the probability that the marriage won't last. It's turtles all the way down.

    53. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      The difference between a civil union and a marriage is in name only, and any problems that may cause down the line are speculative at best.

      And when the original court decision came down that actually created "separate but equal", everyone thought they would actually be equal.

      It's foolish to ignore what happened in that situation just because it's inconvenient. It's exactly the same theory, that separate can be equal.

      In reality, the only way to make this work is to do a global search-and-replace changing marriage to civil union, and then another large batch of laws making it illegal to discriminate based on 'married" or not.

      Alternatively, we forget all the word bullshit and just call it marriage

      Fact is, calling it "Civil Union" won't satisfy the people opposed to gay marriage. Most of them object to the first word, not the second

    54. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Churches, as employers, are subject to the laws in the land. Their members have every right to object to laws that can force them to operate against their religious conviction.

    55. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, let's provide separate institutions and facilities for these people. Such facilities will, of course, respect their equality with the rest of us, but will provide an apartness that will allow all of us good and just people to not have to worry about all of the ickyness that those people do sometimes bring to bear. ...

      There are two words that you need to read: segregation and apartheid

      They mean essentially the same thing (although the second is in Afrikaans), and I'm so confident in your mental faculties I'm going to let you figure out the rest. Specifically, how completely fucking insane the notion of either of these two things are with respect to human rights and the application of law. I will give you a hint: they are fundamentally incompatible with the rule of law.

    56. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      It's the same in most secular countries.

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    57. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Then you should call the union between a man and a woman a civil union too, and only marriage in case they get married by some church.

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    58. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Peter+La+Casse · · Score: 1

      So take it another step and find a church that allows polygamy or to marry your sibling, etc.

      I think both of those things are wrong, but we'd be better off if we didn't try to prohibit them legally. People can already enter into contracts with as many consenting adults as they want, and marriage is essentially a contract. As a bonus, the ability for people to have many "spouses" would lead to the decoupling of health insurance from employment.

    59. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Peter+La+Casse · · Score: 1

      except perhaps the minority who believe their church should run the state

      This group is actually the majority. Fortunately they have different churches.

    60. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You do realize that it's called "marriage" for straight couples even in the law, right? I'm perfectly happy with (by law) either "everyone gets marriages" or "everyone gets civil unions," but not "straight people get marriages but gay people get civil unions"; that would just be "separate but equal."

      Churches/Temples/Etc. can do whatever they want; I couldn't care less. The problem is they're trying to get our laws to line up with their religions.

    61. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by kaidadragonfly · · Score: 1

      If they must be equal, why call them something different?

      You call them something different, because you feel like discriminating against one group, over the other, and while you will give them similar rights, you refuse to fully acknowledge that their relationship is on equal footing with "real" marriage.

      Or do you think "I'm married," "Oh, are you really married, or is it just a civil union" would never happen?

    62. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by dangitman · · Score: 1

      States don't marry people, churches do.

      Not the entire truth. There are many individual marriage celebrants who have nothing to do with the churches. So, it's not just up to the churches.

      If we are to disconnect the term "marriage" from government definition - then it should be free for everybody to use, not just the churches. I should be allowed to proclaim myself as married to the sky, if I want to, with as much legal ramification as it should have if the church were to proclaim it. That is, none at all.

      The church doesn't own words.

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    63. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ..did you even begin to read what he said? How in god's name did you get modded insightful?

    64. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Gays need to drop the gay-marriage campaign, and go for civil-unions which are identical, yet more palatable to the general(voting) public.

      Yes, indeed. We can have 2 separate but equal things. Marriage and civil unions. While we're at it, we might as well have separate but equal water fountains. You know, I don't want to infringe on the rights of blacks to have public water available because I support that right, but it offends my sensibilities to have them use ours.

      Separate but equal. We have tried this before. FAIL.

    65. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      Gays need to drop the gay-marriage campaign, and go for civil-unions which are identical, yet more palatable to the general(voting) public.

      Or even better: drop straight marriage too. The state should only do civil unions for everybody, nothing more. Marriage should only be a religious affair, without any state involvment.

      Btw, what would happen if somebody founded a religion forbidding marriage between people of different skin color, and lobbied the state to make such marriages illegal as it would violate their religious belief? Think about it.

    66. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The argument, like all libertarian-tainted speculations, is full of beans.

      What is a church? I can, within 2-3 hours, rent a building on Main Street somewhere, file for tax-exempt status, and thus beget my own church -- my own religion even. Anyone else can easily do the same. Such proliferation would quickly lead to chaos and social unrest as each of these ad hoc religious organizations vied for patronage by appealing to some public whim.

      Since the very first civilizations emerged thousand of years ago, a crucial function of the state has been to regulate marriage. These libertarians are only calling for a social experiment that is bound to fail but, until it does so, will plunge society into a long period of confused degradation.

      Technocrats should keep to their business of transmitting bits and joining networks, and leave the morality to those who can fathom the reality of the human mind.

    67. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're sort of right. It would be more accurate to say "*many* religions don't support gay marriage". That being said, should the government really be in the business of legally sanctifying religious social contracts? I mean, I wouldn't join a religion which discriminated against people, but other people have the right to do so. However, it's not the state's right to discriminate against homosexuals.

      To counter your argument, lets say that there was no religion that recognized gay marriage in a particular state. Not likely, even in Utah, but still, imagine. Would the state then not have the civic responsibility to recognize gay and heterosexual unions equally? Of course not!

      Call them all "marriages" are call them all "civil unions", but don't have one which a certain part of the population is unable to participate in.

    68. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In theory. Reality is that since one is still called "marriage", so it will be considered superior.

      Yes, and in Christian societies, baptism is considered superior to a bris. Who cares what religious people think is superior? As long as the government is ignorant of marriage, that's all that should matter.

    69. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Scroatzilla · · Score: 1

      I agree with the notion that, on the surface, this is really a game of semantics.

      However, let's not divert from the issue at hand. This is a civil rights issue that has legal ramifications. This is about honoring the stability of loving relationships, and understanding the ultimate benefits to society of monogamous relationships. It is also about the individual freedom to control your assets with respect to a relationship that you choose to engage in.

      The Church (as a generic term for over-zealous Judeo Christian entities) is the entity that is claiming that it has a monopoly on the concept of "marriage". This stems directly from Theocratic states, where the church and the state are the same. They are not the same here in the US.

    70. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by WiiVault · · Score: 1

      Agreed, I may have been unclear. I certainly think the state should allow them the same rights even without a church.

    71. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The thing is that we don't want any church or religion to be a part of the state, or the system.

    72. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The problem with your argument is that there are many churches that will marry gays, so clearly some religions don't mind the concept of marriage.

      Name one that's anywhere near mainstream. Here, I'll even define mainstream for you: at least 1% of the population must belong to it.

      Hell, I'd be amazed if you name enough churches that support gay marriage to even make it to 1%.

      A few strange cults may allow it, but there are no mainstream religions that do.

    73. Re:I'm against the state marrying anyone by znerk · · Score: 1

      Damn no edit button!

      Allow me to point out the "Preview" button...

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  23. Shutup and just be a business by FireStormZ · · Score: 1

    sheesh can businesses just stay out of crap, their money being in the system is more than half the problem..

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    1. Re:Shutup and just be a business by WiiVault · · Score: 1

      We all have a right to protect the civil rights of our fellow citizens. Were California to declare blacks 1/3rd of a person I would hope similar action would arise.

    2. Re:Shutup and just be a business by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      If churches can stay out, we may talk. You remember, separation of church and state? So far (unfortunately, btw) I haven't heard about a separation of business and state.

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  24. In one word by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    YES!

  25. Here's an idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Focus on your own damn family.

  26. Democracy in action by usul294 · · Score: 1

    If you don't like the outcome of a straight up or down referendum, challenge it in court, great precedent there. On the other hand, if something is wrong, it doesn't matter how many people agree with a wrong view, they are still wrong. It is interesting to think what would have happened if the black turnout hadn't been so extraordinary thanks to Obama, I seem to remember exit polls saying that most african american voters voted against gay marriage. That being said, I'm all for gay marriage, do what makes you happy, it ain't hurting anyone.

    1. Re:Democracy in action by internerdj · · Score: 2, Interesting

      "On the other hand, if something is wrong, it doesn't matter how many people agree with a wrong view, they are still wrong."
      Just curious, how do we define wrong in an unambiguous, culturally- and time-insensitive manner?

    2. Re:Democracy in action by BobReturns · · Score: 1

      Mathematically :p

    3. Re:Democracy in action by MyLongNickName · · Score: 1

      Out of curiosity, why did you add me to your foe list?

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    4. Re:Democracy in action by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      As usual. Wrong is everything I'm opposing. :)

      Snideness aside. Wrong is everything that hurts people without protecting others. That's my point of view. Yours may be different, and I think you (anyone, not you personally) have the right to have a different one.

      Personally, I think it is wrong to limit anyone's freedom as long as him enjoying his freedom does not limit anyone elses. This is quite tricky at times (who defines what limits whose freedom how?), but in most cases it's a pretty good way to find out what's wrong and what's right.

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    5. Re:Democracy in action by Alsee · · Score: 1

      Just curious, how do we define wrong in an unambiguous, culturally- and time-insensitive manner?

      Oh, that's easy:
      I do what I want and you do what I tell you.

      ;)

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    6. Re:Democracy in action by internerdj · · Score: 1

      A negative comment about the tech industry in the state of Alabama. The older I get the less I care to hear people spreading the stereotype that southerners are idiots. But I'm willing to change your status if I misunderstood what you meant.

  27. this is huge economically by commodoresloat · · Score: 1

    Google's basic argument is correct; they're probably hoping to highlight the more far-reaching economic implications, however. It's not just about Google's ability to hire competitively. The whole state of California just said "no" to billions of dollars in revenue that we were already seeing start to come in during the period when marriage was legal for all. It's just too bad the "No on 8" campaign was so lousy; it would have been really smart for them to highlight this point themselves during the campaign and actually tried to defeat Prop 8 directly rather than fighting through the courts now, which is pissing a lot of people off, even some who voted No to begin with.

    1. Re:this is huge economically by lucas_picador · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Speaking as an American expat now living in Canada, crap like this is a big cause of the accelerating brain drain of educated, talented people (gay and otherwise) moving north to find civilization. In a few decades, you can expect the US to be even more dominated by the Sarah Palin crowd, with Canada having swiped a significant chunk of the US's triple-digit-IQ population.

      And that is why Google is concerned. They're not sure how much innovation they'll be able to maintain when their head of R&D is Joe the Plumber.

  28. 0.21% of California Married Couples are Geniuses! by TheNarrator · · Score: 0, Troll

    Before Prop 8 there were 10,000 married gay couples, 0.21% of all California married couples who also apparently happen to have some kind of genius programming talent that makes Google desperate enough to support the prop 8 repeal.

    I'm not against gay marriage I just think it's a big religious fundamentalist vs counter-culture circle jerk over what might as well be imaginary skittle sh*ting unicorns.

    It seems that someone at Google found themselves unable to resist joining in yet another round of the great culture war circle jerk of negligible impact on the real world known as prop 8 while meanwhile we have two wars going, the economy that is spiraling into depression, banks are stealing the wealth of this country, and California is about to go BROKE. In fact the governor used his state of the state speech to talk about the enormous budget crisis we are now facing. All public works projects in California have stopped!!!! And all anyone wants to talk about is freakin' prop 8!

  29. "charged with diversity and sensitivity training" by aardwolf64 · · Score: 2, Funny

    "charged with diversity and sensitivity training"

    So, he was charged with giving someone a class on diversity and sensitivity? I agree, the people that teach those classes should be punished...

  30. What's wrong with Massachusetts? by hargrand · · Score: 1

    Question: If Google is really concerned about this, why don't they close down their California offices and move to Massachusetts where gay marriage is a recognized as legal and valid?

    Answer: They're just grandstanding.

    1. Re:What's wrong with Massachusetts? by LunaticTippy · · Score: 1

      Moving many thousands of employees and all that equipment would cost billions of dollars, disrupt operations for years, result in extreme turnover, result in numerous problems due to leases and contracts being broken, etc.

      All wasted if MA decides to ban gay marriage.

      Your question cannot have been serious. I have a question: Why don't you believe in fighting for ideals? Do you meekly run away from anything that isn't going your way?

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    2. Re:What's wrong with Massachusetts? by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      Question: If Google is really concerned about this, why don't they close down their California offices and move to Massachusetts where gay marriage is a recognized as legal and valid?

      Answer: They're just grandstanding.

      I think you have failed to think things through.

      Possible Answer (1): Because that would have substantial costs (including in retaining key staff that prefer the current location), which would outweigh the benefits.

      Possible Answer (2): It takes time to plan and execute such a move. Who says they aren't doing the planning for that (or a move to somewhere else) in parallel with challenging the Prop 8?

    3. Re:What's wrong with Massachusetts? by hargrand · · Score: 1

      First, my question was rhetorical (a point you seemed to have missed), just as I believe Google's actions in this regard are rhetorical. I can't see that Google has any standing to bring any kind of legal challenge to this. Maybe they can file some sort of amicus brief when the case get heard, but ultimately Google isn't going to be participating at any level in any kind of gay marriage any more than it participates in traditional marriage. I don't seriously believe that this is anything more than a publicity stunt to get some number of its employees and members of the larger California community to feel good about Google.

      > Why don't you believe in fighting for ideals? Do you meekly run away from anything that isn't going your way?

      Actually I do believe in fighting for my ideals and I know something about doing so. I've served in the US military for almost 20 years. I have lived by my oath to support and defend the Constitution of the United States of America against all enemies foreign and domestic, and I see my post here as continuing in that tradition. Google challenging the will of the people of California in court may be legal, but I don't see it as being particularly American.

    4. Re:What's wrong with Massachusetts? by jgtg32a · · Score: 1

      Because being in Massachusetts would harm its ability to recruit and retain employees even more than banning gay marriage

    5. Re:What's wrong with Massachusetts? by LunaticTippy · · Score: 1

      I think there is nothing more American than fighting for what you believe in. A strong America needs citizens to struggle with issues like these. I don't know when, if ever, it is time to stop trying. I salute the few lonely souls left who pursue Prohibition, even if I don't agree with them. It can be frustrating that the battle is never won sometimes (e.g. the abortion debate is older than I am and I am pushing 40) but asking Americans to give up based on one vote is insanity. Some people liken gay rights to the civil rights movement or suffrage. I don't agree, but I want them to continue fighting for what they believe in.

      I hope you can accept that all kinds of people with all kinds of ideas can be part of America and that they should all fight for what is important to them. This country was founded on rebelling against a controlling authoritarian regime and I want to see that live on.

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  31. tax filing status by Reality+Master+201 · · Score: 1

    The IRS doesn't recognize civil union, just married or not?

    1. Re:tax filing status by Mesa+MIke · · Score: 1

      The IRS doesn't recognize same-sex marriage, regardless of whether the state you live in does.

  32. He is Mormon. He was in my Mormon congregation. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Mike is a tremendous person who I respect immensely. He has never let money spoil his character which I find truly admirable. He is voluntarily on a church mission at his own expense. He is a very generous person and started a large micro-lending venture to help people throughout the world while allowing them the dignity of not taking handouts. Believe me when his stance is in support of his beliefs and not of hate. He is not a hateful man. I understand that you might see the LDS Church's views as hateful. We can agree to disagree and that is why this country is great. http://www.synergos.org/globalgivingmatters/features/0302murray.htm http://unitus.com/

  33. Religious belief by slmdmd · · Score: 0, Troll

    Belief is nothing but accepting some one's lie as truth. That is lieing to self.

  34. Parent has interesting point that I don't get. by Samschnooks · · Score: 1

    It has a meaning at both the church and state level, which is the problem. Many people do not like the government redefining a religious term. An overwhelming majority of anti-gay marriage voters are for a separation of the terms and the granting of equal rights, but this is not acceptable by the gay community.

    I am sorry, I still do not understand. Perhaps someone can explain this to me.

    1. Re:Parent has interesting point that I don't get. by Whorhay · · Score: 2, Interesting

      The religous conservative side argues that to them marriage has always meant a man and a woman.

      The group of people pushing for prop 8 want it to now mean two people, possibly of the same sex.

      The religous group finds this offensive because it would in their eyes devalue the term marriage.

      The pro-prop 8 group says this is silly and that the religous right should change their fundamental beliefs to accept them as equals.

      Another poster suggested that the Federal government and all the state governments should simply remove all instances of the word "marriage" and replace it with "civil union" and only issue "Civil Union" licenses from here on out. Convert all existing marriages to civil unions in the records. Let the religous people afraid of their term for a civil union between a man and a woman, marriage, from being altered and move on as a society. There are bigger things we can be debating than quibbling over the usage of a word.

    2. Re:Parent has interesting point that I don't get. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Prop 8 is what removed the right to same-sex marriage. The religious group is the pro-prop 8 group. You meant the anti-prop 8 group.

      Pro-prop 8 == against same-sex marriage

      Anti-prop 8 == for same-sex marriage

      CAPTCHA is "condemns".

  35. Democracy? by Mr.+Firewall · · Score: 1

    Funny, isn't it, how the Left is all in favor of Democracy... ...until the will of the People is against their agenda?

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    1. Re:Democracy? by Reality+Master+201 · · Score: 1

      Heh. 40 odd years ago, you'd be defending your state's right to jim crow laws over interference from the damn leftists.

    2. Re:Democracy? by pauljlucas · · Score: 1

      Funny, isn't it, how the Left is all in favor of Democracy... ...until the will of the People is against their agenda?

      Individual rights should never be subject to the tyranny of the majority. What somebody else does is none of your damn business.

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    3. Re:Democracy? by Mesa+MIke · · Score: 1

      Individual rights?
      This is about rights for groups of people, no?
      Rather than, "each individual has the right to...", it's about "each grouping of two people has the right to..."
      Where else in the laws of our country do we extend civil rights to groupings of people rather than to the individuals of the groups?

    4. Re:Democracy? by pHus10n · · Score: 1

      1) Google does have a point, but I don't think it's the right way to pursue it. By creating a hostile environment toward gay couples in California, this limits their talent pool in a way the company believes should be illegal. It doesn't matter if it's 1 potential employee or 10,000 -- they believe it's a discrimination that potentially affects them. Their lobbying is what I disagree with; not the principle.

      2) Many things were considered illegal, and were supported by the majority of the population, while still being morally wrong. Interracial marriage? Segregation (schools, bus seating, toilets and water fountains, etc)? How about women's suffrage? Just because the majority of the population at that moment says "no" doesn't mean that it's the morally right thing to do. I know, I know...."We the people" and the rest of the Constitution states that majority rules, but that doesn't give the majority OVERWRITING rights upon the minority. ALL men are created equal.

      3) I completely agree with an above poster -- religious and civil marriage are seperate things. The state should not be able to force a religion to marry anyone that violates their views, but in return, religious institutions/groups/individuals should NOT be able to return the favor either. Gay civil unions, with ALL the legal protections afforded heterosexual couples, should be allowed. Let Catholics/Protestants/etc keep the term "marriage" if they choose. It is now considered a primarily religious ceremony, and a seperation of church and state is the solution we need for this issue.

    5. Re:Democracy? by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 1

      Funny, isn't it, how the Left is all in favor of Democracy... ...until the will of the People is against their agenda?

      "Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well-armed lamb contesting the vote." - Benjamin Franklin

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    6. Re:Democracy? by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

      This is a silly distinction. We don't have the right of free speech because it's about a "grouping of two people" exchanging ideas?

    7. Re:Democracy? by Mesa+MIke · · Score: 1

      Each individual of the group has the right to Free Speech, regardless of which group he may be a member of.

      Homosexuals have the same right to marry (restricted to someone of the opposite sex) as any one else. Where is the discrimination?

      To claim that disallowing same-sex marriage constitutes discrimination is to assert that the grouping of the people is what's being discriminated against, not the individuals themselves.

    8. Re:Democracy? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Homosexuals have the same right to marry (restricted to someone of the opposite sex) as any one else. Where is the discrimination?

      50 years ago:

      Blacks have the same right to marry (restricted to someone of the same race) as any one else. Where is the discrimination?

    9. Re:Democracy? by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      Homosexuals have the same right to marry (restricted to someone of the opposite sex) as any one else. Where is the discrimination? To claim that disallowing same-sex marriage constitutes discrimination is to assert that the grouping of the people is what's being discriminated against, not the individuals themselves.

      If you want to put it that way, sure. It is illegal to legislatively group (or discriminate in the common parlance) based upon sex. As for the discrimination allow me to explain.

      Bob and Jim both want to marry Sue. When the law said Bob could and Jim could not and the only legal difference between Bob and Jim was their race, that was unconstitutional because the constitution prohibits making legal discrimination based upon race. The fact that Jim could marry Nancy and Bob could not, in no way mitigated the fact that he could not marry Sue. Claiming that both Bob and Jim could marry anyone of their own race was likewise did not make any difference.

      Now the argument is both Tom and Cindy want to marry Jennifer. It is legal for Tom to do so, but illegal for Jennifer and the only legal difference between the two of them is that Tom is one sex and Cindy is another. Do you see where this is going? Does it matter if Cindy can marry some other person? Nope, not legally. She's being banned from marrying Jennifer and that ban applies only to people of her sex. That's discrimination and every politician involved in the passing of Prop. 8 knew it was unconstitutional when they did it. You see they know it will be overturned, but in the mean time they want to delay things and make people angry so they can use that to get votes. Quite simply, if one person can marry someone and another can't marry that person there must be a criteria other than gender, religion, or race that legally differentiates the two people in question. If not, that's violating the US Constitution.

    10. Re:Democracy? by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

      "Homosexuals have the same right to marry (restricted to someone of the opposite sex) as any one else. Where is the discrimination?"

      By your logic, if the law said that you could only marry someone of the same sex, it wouldn't be discrimination, right?

    11. Re:Democracy? by n6kuy · · Score: 1

      It would be stupid, but it wouldn't be discrimination if it applied to every one equally.

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    12. Re:Democracy? by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

      But it really doesn't apply to everyone equally.

      If you create restrictions that as a practical matter only affect one group of people, it's still discrimination.

      You could pass a law outlawing any masturbation that involves a penis and say it's not discrimination against men because women can't masturbate with a penis either.

    13. Re:Democracy? by Mr.+Firewall · · Score: 1

      Individual rights should never be subject to the tyranny of the majority.

      You're right of course, but it's still funny how indivudual rights and the "tyranny of the majority" never seem to bother the Left when it's THEIR agenda being pushed.

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  36. Lack of imagination? by ClosedSource · · Score: 4, Insightful

    The idea was to put yourself in the position of gay couples. It wasn't that long ago that interracial marriages were illegal in many states.

    1. Re:Lack of imagination? by Enderandrew · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I'm straight, and a Christian and I'm all for allowing any consulting adults to do whatever they want in the privacy of their bedroom. My marriage isn't less valid because two men or two women decide to have sex with each other.

      Frankly I'm alarmed by the millions of people in this country who want Uncle Sam to regulate what is acceptable in their bedroom.

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    2. Re:Lack of imagination? by ClosedSource · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Actually, they just want Uncle Sam to regulate what is acceptable in other people's bedrooms. Which might be what you meant.

    3. Re:Lack of imagination? by ArcherB · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I'm straight, and a Christian and I'm all for allowing any consulting adults to do whatever they want in the privacy of their bedroom. My marriage isn't less valid because two men or two women decide to have sex with each other.

      Frankly I'm alarmed by the millions of people in this country who want Uncle Sam to regulate what is acceptable in their bedroom.

      I think the problem is with the word "marriage". To me and many others, marriage is a religious thing. Since religion has no place in government, I think the government should get out of the business of marriage altogether! I would be perfectly happy getting married by my pastor and having the government recognize my marriage as a "civil union". Civil unions can be between any two people who are willing to share in the responsibility of what we now call marriage.

      I feel the government would do well to:
      1) Convert all marriages to "civil unions".
      2) Revoke the governments recognition of marriage.
      3) Allow any two people (or three or four... I don't care) to enter into "civil unions", just as men and women are allowed to do today.

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    4. Re:Lack of imagination? by Achromatic1978 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I think the problem is with the word "marriage". To me and many others, marriage is a religious thing. Since religion has no place in government, I think the government should get out of the business of marriage altogether! I would be perfectly happy getting married by my pastor and having the government recognize my marriage as a "civil union". Civil unions can be between any two people who are willing to share in the responsibility of what we now call marriage.

      And that in itself is part of the problem. Marriage is a concept within most religions, it is not a concept, nor a word, created by religions. It has existed since well before the time of the (typically Christian) religions that rail against it being anything other than a ceremony in a church, before a pastor and God, between a male virgin and female virgin. (Apropos of homosexuality, many religious movements take inordinate offense to the concept of civil unions and similar.

    5. Re:Lack of imagination? by Hordeking · · Score: 1

      Actually, they just want Uncle Sam to regulate what is acceptable in other people's bedrooms. Which might be what you meant.

      Actually, Lawrence v Texas generally said that the government has to stay out of bedrooms (unless of course, it happens to be looking for drugs, because as we all know, drugs are the province of terrorists). It never said that the government has to recognize something. Personally, I'm for the abolition of marriage (except in a religious context). It does nothing but lead to legal trouble for people.

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    6. Re:Lack of imagination? by CrimsonAvenger · · Score: 1

      I'm straight, and a Christian and I'm all for allowing any consulting adults to do whatever they want in the privacy of their bedroom. My marriage isn't less valid because two men or two women decide to have sex with each other.

      Frankly I'm alarmed by the millions of people in this country who want Uncle Sam to regulate what is acceptable in their bedroom.

      Of course, this isn't about Uncle Sam. Nor is it about what is acceptable in your bedroom.

      What it is about is "marriage", which has nothing to do with "sex".

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    7. Re:Lack of imagination? by Abreu · · Score: 1

      I'm straight, and a Christian and I'm all for allowing any commited couple to receive the same legal recognition and protection my marriage enjoys.

      Frankly I'm alarmed by the millions of people in your country who want Uncle Sam to regulate what is acceptable in their bedroom.

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    8. Re:Lack of imagination? by Enderandrew · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I know you're expressing your personal opinion. My mother is an active advocate in the Christian Coalition. She is against a civil union compromise, as are most Christians I've spoken to. They want homosexuality to be persecuted on some level. Some people have even called for it to be criminalized.

      On what grounds may you ask? On the grounds that the Bible labels it a sin. They're specifically calling for legislation by dogmatic law.

      As for the semantics of religion, plenty of words (if not most) have multiple definitions, if not also varied connotations. You hold marriage to be a sacrament. To get a marriage certificate, you don't even need to be married in a church. Why not ask to outlaw any marriage that doesn't confine to your view of the sacrament?

      Homosexuality is mentioned briefly in the same early books of law that are largely ignored for their lack of relevance in a modern world. Divorce however is mentioned numerous times in the Bible as disrespect to the sacrament of marriage.

      Let me know when the Christian Coalition is going to push for divorce to be illegal.

      Furthermore, while you have a right to practice your sacrament in your particular faith, so do others. Freedom of religion protects everyone.

      Most Catholics insist that only Catholics may partake of communion. That doesn't stop me as a non-Catholic of partaking of communion. I violate their sense of sacrament, but what I do isn't illegal.

      On the same grounds, it shouldn't be illegal for two men or two women to be married.

      Civil rights isn't about advocating the rights of one group, or protecting one particular minority. It is about advocating equal rights for everyone.

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    9. Re:Lack of imagination? by Enderandrew · · Score: 1

      Touche.

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    10. Re:Lack of imagination? by Enderandrew · · Score: 1

      Talk to Orson Scott Card who thinks the only way to settle the gay marriage issue is to criminalize homosexuality.

      And this is coming from a guy with a screenname of EnderAndrew. I'm a fan of Orson Scott Card, because his books weren't black and white preachy texts of judgementalism. The Ender's Game series has an awful lot of tolerance and acceptance in them. But even a so-called open mind like his wants to see people put behind bars for sex between consenting adults.

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    11. Re:Lack of imagination? by Hordeking · · Score: 2, Interesting

      May I also point out that marriage is essentially irrelevant in today's world?

      The way kids and adults fuck around, why bother with marriage? A family doesn't require marriage, only a man and a woman.

      When the time comes, my own marriage will be noted in the front cover of a big Bible, as will any offspring. I don't need the big, bad gov't to recognize it.

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    12. Re:Lack of imagination? by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 1

      Marriage is fine as a super-category for a range of contractual and legal commitments. My wife is from another country: if it weren't for the federal recognition of our marriage, living in the same country would be very difficult. (The problem of "love exiles" - same-sex couples who cannot live together because they are of different nationalities - is unfortunately a problem that even state-recognized gay marriages doesn't solve yet.)

    13. Re:Lack of imagination? by deraj123 · · Score: 1

      I just have to chime in and agree with you. This sounds like one of the best options out there. If marriage is religious, then the government shouldn't be involved. If it's not religious, then there's really not much reason for not allowing any pairing people want.

      I think we have to look at what legal standing marriages currently give to people, and figure out how to reproduce that without the legacy tie-in to a religious construct.

    14. Re:Lack of imagination? by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

      The idea was to put yourself in the position of gay couples.

      Which is probably what is grossing out everybody.
      Well, 9/10th of everybody.

      What you want if you wish to get people on your side is warm fuzzies, not gross outs.

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    15. Re:Lack of imagination? by CrimsonAvenger · · Score: 1

      Talk to Orson Scott Card who thinks the only way to settle the gay marriage issue is to criminalize homosexuality.

      ...But even a so-called open mind like his wants to see people put behind bars for sex between consenting adults.

      I'll take your word that he's said this.

      However, one must keep in mind that this may not be a position he supports. Stating that "the only way to solve [insert problem of choice here] is [insert unpalatable solution of choice here]" doesn't actually imply support for the solution (nor does it imply that he does NOT support the solution). It may be a realistic estimate of what needs to be done to resolve the issue (especially since the alternative, while it would be popular among one segment of society, would be repugnant to another segment of society - the status quo ante at least has the virtue of being what we're all used to).

      Personally, I'd suspect that he'd be in favour of gay marriage, since the arguments floated to support the idea work equally well to support polygamy.

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    16. Re:Lack of imagination? by Paladin128 · · Score: 1

      I'm a conservative Roman Catholic, who views homosexual activity as mortally sinful, and would prefer to live in a traditional Catholic monarchy where the monarch is answerable only to God and the Pope. I don't expect anyone on Slashdot to see eye-to-eye with me here, and this is not the point that I wish to debate.

      I realize, however, I live in a modern, liberal, pluralistic republic, and will likely never get to live in a society that I want, therefore I am more than willing to compromise to be at peace with the rest of society. I feel in a secular republic, such as the US, the best solution is for the government to stay out of it -- best would be no legal recognition of marriage at all. Nor should it recognize anything resembling a civil union. Marriage, from a legal standpoint, should be built out of pre-existing contract law. Simple and elegant -- Catholics could have a standard marriage contract drawn up that would fit their framework, Jews could do the same, as could atheists, Freemasons, Jedi, etc. Employers would be free to do what they wish in terms of insurance -- if you don't like it, work somewhere else.

      Unfortunately, this would require serious amount of changes at the federal, state, and municpal laws, including modifications to the US constitution. I would certainly support this sort of effort, though it is unlikely to ever happen.

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    17. Re:Lack of imagination? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you want to remain a fan of Card, do yourself a favor and avoid his book "Empire." Horrible, horrible stuff. I swear it must be ghostwritten; that or Card's brain got eaten by The Mormonism.

    18. Re:Lack of imagination? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In fact, marriage to more than one partner is still illegal in most of the states (I think all of them!).

    19. Re:Lack of imagination? by Arcane_Rhino · · Score: 1

      I agree this would appear to solve all the problems. I would go one step further, however, and remove any sexual connotation. Any two people (per current convention) could enter into a legally binding contract to share benefits, obligations, and dependencies (off-spring).

      Marriage, a term and concept very important to some, would remain an institution of the Church, Temple, Mosque, Coven, or what-have-you. Whether your union was a Marriage or not would be determined and recognized by the people you associate with, not the State. The State's only compelling interest would be served: specifically, who is responsible for your affairs if you die or become incapacitated.

      Such an approach would be dispassionate and non-intrusive. Isn't this what we want from our Government?

    20. Re:Lack of imagination? by IthnkImParanoid · · Score: 1

      Maybe the idea is to say it often enough, and show it often enough, that it stops giving people the gross outs.

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    21. Re:Lack of imagination? by ljgshkg · · Score: 1

      Friend. You get the point, but you analyzed it incorrectly.

      Yes. Marriage itself (let's not talk about the word, as I don't know when it started to exist) exists well before the time of religions against it. But why? Why did it exist? It's because male and female "produce". To control the bloodstream identification and adding stability to the structure of the society, marriage is naturally borned as a social structure. It's not simply union, and it's not about love. It's more complex than that, serving a social purpose, and since far back in history, its pretty safe to assume it also represents coming up of new borned children in the future (that is, human nature, or animal nature, that attracts them to reproduce, or want to do so).

      The foundation of marriage, are the points I mensioned above, if not more. Not just union. And definitely, love is only a good-to-have element (love can be a driver, but it's definitely not a compusory part of it).

      Looking at the foundation of marriage, we can safely says it should be male and female. Now, let me put aside if I like same-sex-relationship or not. Marriage's foundation is clear. Union is union, and marriage is more than just that. People's thinking changed. Marriage is less stable than before, and love becomes a must element in most people's mind. But still, marriage is marriage. It's social structure that serves a purpose, it's not about love, though we all want to have this element in marriage. So, make up another term, or just use the term union if you want. But using the term marriage is not respecting the foundation and history of marriage.

      Now in government point of view. Government keep record of union/marriages because it provide more structured data about its people. It provide benefits to families because it helps people financially and allow them to more easily consider "producing" new children. Adopting child is something different and have different fund. Governments doesn't look at give birth and adopting child/raising child as the same thing. So in government's view theoretically, they are different.

      So from both the point of view of history/foundation of marriage, and the current point of view of governments and how they treate give-birth and adopt/raise child, both really doesn't treat marriage and union as the same thing.

      I don't like same-sex-relationship, not because of my religion nor philosophym, but because I'm disgusted when thinking about it, which is a nature of norm human, without adding any thought to it (just like how some same-sex-relationship people may be disgusted by opposite-sex-relationship).

      Now, let alone if I agree with same sex relationship or not. If these people are "proud" or think they're "right", free to create another term for it. Be proud of it (I don't care if I don't see it or pretent not to see it). But don't mess with something already have a definition for thousands of years.

      World change, thought change, philosophy change, doesn't mean you need to replace old terms, especially when it really are not the same thing. Create new terms, or use some other terms. We'll be more comfort about the terms used for thousands of years. And you are free to feel pround about your own term (if you feel so).

    22. Re:Lack of imagination? by rickb928 · · Score: 1

      This is where it breaks down so badly for Christians:

      "Homosexuality is mentioned briefly in the same early books of law that are largely ignored for their lack of relevance in a modern world. Divorce however is mentioned numerous times in the Bible as disrespect to the sacrament of marriage."

      If you want to offer the Bible as the arbiter of Christian thought regarding marriage and homosexuality, please be consistent, or leave the Bible out of it.

      Homosexuality is mentioned in the Bible as 'detestable' (Leviticus 20:13). It is this that guides many Christans view of homosexuality, though most do not go further and reach out to the gay community, offering understanding and acceptance despite their sin. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Good advice now as then.

      However, loving the sinner doesn't mean permitting their sinful ways to go unchallenged. If the gay community wants the legal and social advantages of marriage, there is probably a way to accomplish that. If they want their coupling to be called a 'marriage', they ask many of us to change our definition of that in a way we do not want to. Again, if they want the legal protections associated with marriage, perhaps that is the fight to be fought. Changing the definition of words is something else I think, though I could be wrong about this.

      Moses permitted Jews to give their wives a certificate of divorce, not because divorce was acceptable, but because the men's 'hearts were hard'. The commentary in Mathhew 19:3-11 could lead one to believe that divorce in Jesus' time was more prevalent than my Sunday School teachers let on. Just because God permits it, don't think He likes it. Genesis and Exodus are full of examples where God lets people do terrible things, and He did so to let them fully complete their depravity. Perhaps this is why such wicked men rise to positions of influence in the church, and then are exposed, eh?

      But back to the point; "On what grounds may you ask? On the grounds that the Bible labels it a sin. They're specifically calling for legislation by dogmatic law".

      No. When these issues are raised in our society, we are called to decide on them using our best judgement and hopefully honesty and fairness. If I'm a Christian, why should I be expected to set aside my moral and ethical underpinning and decide a question by *your* values? Similarly, why should I ask you to set aside your values and use mine? I recognize that in these issues, one view will prevail, so one of us will see our values upheld and the other see theirs discarded. Christians are pretty familiar with this, as the past two decades have seen American cast aside many Christian ethics and become more 'enlightened'. Our Post-Modern world is turning away from the Judeo-Christian bases for law and adopting something else.

      As a Christian, I struggle to make good decisions based on what I know and believe, and now how I've been wronged and diminished. Ain't easy.

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    23. Re:Lack of imagination? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Frankly, I'm more alarmed with the mix of church and state...

    24. Re:Lack of imagination? by mvdwege · · Score: 1

      If I'm a Christian, why should I be expected to set aside my moral and ethical underpinning and decide a question by *your* values?

      Because, unless the question impacts you personally, or is something you can do something about personally, the judgment is not yours to make. Arrogantly claiming that it is makes you a Pharisee.

      Rejoice. Your loud proclamation of your values has given you your reward. You can now continue to parade around in clothes that proclaim your righteousness, while at the same time looking down your nose at the Samaritans and the tax gatherers.

      Mart

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    25. Re:Lack of imagination? by symbolic · · Score: 1

      However, loving the sinner doesn't mean permitting their sinful ways to go unchallenged.

      But why only this sin? As others have pointed out, there is no consequence whatsoever for almost every other "detestable" behavior mentioned within the same context. The Bible isn't a "pick what's convenient for you and leave the rest" proposition, but that's the way that most modern Christians treat it.

    26. Re:Lack of imagination? by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      I think the problem is with the word "marriage". To me and many others, marriage is a religious thing. Since religion has no place in government, I think the government should get out of the business of marriage altogether! I would be perfectly happy getting married by my pastor and having the government recognize my marriage as a "civil union". Civil unions can be between any two people who are willing to share in the responsibility of what we now call marriage.

      I would love that too! Unfortunately, law after law in various states are written with the specific word "marriage" instead of civil union, and the solution isn't as easy as a pattern replacement. It's easier to change what the state considers marriage than it is to eliminate marriage from the state.

    27. Re:Lack of imagination? by Dirtside · · Score: 1

      So your problem is with the use of the word "marriage"... yet I'd bet dollars to donuts that you've used that word to refer to something besides the holy union of a man and woman before the eyes of some god or other. "He's married to his job," "It's a marriage between the marketing and sales departments," etc.

      And, not to be too blunt, but who are you to decide that I can't call the union between two atheists "marriage"? My wife and I had a wedding ceremony attended by a hundred of our family and friends, performed by a friend of ours (in California, any adult can legally solemnize a marriage, as long as you have two witnesses; you don't need to be an ordained minister or have a license or any such nonsense). We now have two kids and a house in the 'burbs. And because we're atheists, we can't call what we have "marriage" according to you?

      Frankly, if you're that obsessed with the word "marriage," you need to rethink your priorities. I think most of us can manage the mental distinction between "married before the eyes of God" and "married in the opinion of the state government".

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      "Destroy science and religion. Science would re-emerge exactly the same; but not religion." - Penn Jillette, paraphrased
    28. Re:Lack of imagination? by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

      The problem is that the homosexuality is mentioned little in the Bible - rather insignificant compared to the 10 commandments. Yet many Christians look the other way when it comes to other clear-cut sins.

      I believe they do this because their cultural opposition to homosexuality is the key driving force and then they look to the Bible for justification.

      It takes an all-knowing God to identify many Christians today since they certainly don't model their life after Jesus. They act more like modern-day pharisees.

    29. Re:Lack of imagination? by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

      I thought somebody might turn my comment into a joke, but I didn't think somebody would seriously misunderstand it. Surely you've heard the expression "put yourself in his position". Hint: it has nothing to do with posture.

    30. Re:Lack of imagination? by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      These days the male/female-only marriage argument carefully skirts around the religious definition, instead calling it 'traditional.' IE, marriage is a tradition, and that tradition must not change, at least not in a gay way.

    31. Re:Lack of imagination? by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      Orson Scott Card is Mormon, and the LDS church was the biggest sponsor of Proposition 8 to outlaw gay marriage. He's written a few columns in the Mormon Times, and an exact quote from one is: '"Gay marriage" is not bad because God forbids it. God forbids it because it is harmful for us, as a society and as individuals.'

      Reference

    32. Re:Lack of imagination? by rickb928 · · Score: 1

      I had to come back and read this.

      Which of any of serveral sins do you think are excused universally by Christians?

      Greed?

      Divorce?

      Pride?

      Would you like other examples?

      Note - I do not aspire to leadership within my church. I am unworthy. I pray for each of these examples and more, that they are lead to repentance, and that others do not follow their own desires to sin. And I'm at least as guilty as anyone. But to claim that Christians condone failure in their 'leaders'? We forgive them.

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  37. Ninnle Labs is joining the fight as well. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Ninnle Labs have stated their own intentions to step up to the plate and endorse marriage for all. Ninnle CEO P. O. Prune has a MtF daughter who wishes to remain with her partner of many years, and will require legal SSM to do so. There are kids involved, and they are adamant about both parents staying together. Ninnle crackers have already started attacks on LDS systems to find information about the amount of donations LDS gave to Prop 8 supporters.

  38. Get with it man! by WiiVault · · Score: 4, Funny

    Wait didn't you hear about the new Google Gay Marriage beta? Dude, seriously, get with the times! I'd be more than happy to share my invites.

    1. Re:Get with it man! by znerk · · Score: 1

      I just have to share my amusement at your excellent witticism. Assuming you are family (or related to some), I'll extend a warm and hearty chuckle in your direction.

      As an aside, one of my girlfriends and I are considering a civil union, because marriage is just a legal matter for us... we want the tax breaks, but the religious aspects don't mean diddly, and the fact that I am male and she is female shouldn't disqualify us from a CU, right? I mean, it's not just a way to label "gay marriage", is it? Should be fun to watch the HR department try to figure that one out on my tax form, though... hehehe.

      Besides, what are the legal aspects of recognizing a (predominantly) religious pairing ceremony? Why is there such a big difference between "Bill and Jane want to share living space and expenses" vs "Bob and Neal want to share living space and expenses"? I thought we had that whole "separation of church and state" thing... oh, wait. I see we now have an "Office for Faith-based Services". My bad.
       

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    2. Re:Get with it man! by WiiVault · · Score: 1

      Sadly they have yet to work out all the kinks, right now they are only supporting men, hence the name GMale. Female support is coming soon.

    3. Re:Get with it man! by jonaskoelker · · Score: 1

      Wait didn't you hear about the new Google Gay Marriage beta?

      I think lesbianism has been an integral part of Google image search for quite a while now...

  39. Microsoft's support of gay rights by Thai-Pan · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Was it really necessary to put an attack on one specific Microsoft employee who supported Prop 8? Microsoft has excellent benefits that are extended to same sex domestic partners. It seems kind of churlish to smear Microsoft by juxtaposing Google's corporate stance on the issue against one Microsoft employee's.

    Come on, there's plenty of other things to attack Microsoft over.

    1. Re:Microsoft's support of gay rights by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Mike Murray hasn't worked for Microsoft in 10 years.

    2. Re:Microsoft's support of gay rights by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Was it really necessary to put an attack on one specific Microsoft employee who supported Prop 8?

      Yes, because bigotry and hatred should not be tolerated. There's nothing dishonest about pointing out that a specific individual acts that way.

    3. Re:Microsoft's support of gay rights by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You must be new here :)

    4. Re:Microsoft's support of gay rights by icelator · · Score: 1

      also no matter who he works for or what he does, he has a right to his opinion, I disagree with it but he has the right to think that way.

    5. Re:Microsoft's support of gay rights by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, it is.

      Ignorant views should be always attacked, the people behind them noted and shunned.

      The effects of a society where ignorance is tolerated or accepted is documented though history: Witch-burning, lynch-mobbing, Jew-killing, race-hating, gay-bashing...

    6. Re:Microsoft's support of gay rights by superstition222 · · Score: 1

      Put an attack on? Smear? Since when is the truth a smear or an attack? The bottom line is that supporting Prop 8 is an attack on gays.

    7. Re:Microsoft's support of gay rights by Tuoqui · · Score: 1

      1) If they got $100k they can throw around like that they have to be some higher up in the Company.
      2) The guy was in charge of tolerance/diversity crap...

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  40. people are dumb by Reality+Master+201 · · Score: 5, Informative

    They get hung up on the word marriage.

    In reality, marriage under the law and marriage in a religious institution are different things with the same name. However, because many people do both things at once and because they don't distinguish between the two things, they get conflated.

    1. Re:people are dumb by Samschnooks · · Score: 1

      They get hung up on the word marriage.

      In reality, marriage under the law and marriage in a religious institution are different things with the same name. However, because many people do both things at once and because they don't distinguish between the two things, they get conflated.

      Ah! State Marriage: share property, insurance, etc...

      Religious Marriage : whatever they think God thinks it is.

      Got it!

    2. Re:people are dumb by stainless-steel-vash · · Score: 1

      That is exactly the issue, but here is the catch to the whole thing. Marriage (the religious institution)- if I as a member of any/or all churches believe it is permissible (namely that my personal god permits it) then it is allowable under god. I.E a religious marriage is ok. Most people other than fundies would have no real issue seeing it this way. Because if I can't follow my own beliefs then why should you be able to follow yours, or vice versa (no religion gets to tell another religion what they can/can't do)? Basically I get the spiritual benefit of the marriage, but no legal parts. So guess what? You can not deny anyone the right to a religious marriage if they can find a priest, monk, or other "holy" figure that will marry them. - I am ordained and I will marry whoever I want. Marriage (the legal institution)- if I as a member of society marry a person we share all things (money, property, etc) unless things are spelled out in a prenuptual agreement we have to determine who gets what when we split. This is why divorce lawyers are usually involved, and why prenups even exist. Legally anyone over 18 (an adult) or who has the consent of their parents can enter a legally binding agreement. Look at any other legally bindig contract and it will have the same kind of things as a marriage- we agree to the following terms....blah, blah, blah. This is a contract- the government itself issues the contract (you have to get it from a government employee) and a ship captain (?seriously, why?), or a justice of the peace can perform this. Basically I get the legal benefits of a marriage, divorced (yeah I meant to use that) from the holy/religious aspects of it. We have this thing called seperation of church and state...no state sponsored religion...so see point above- if your religion does not deny it, laws don't deny it, and it doesn't say kill puppies or children, then it is permissible. The only beef anyone can throw at this is that sodomy laws exist on most state law books, but how many people get arrested for that if it is consenting? Problem solved, there is no legal, ethical way to deny people the right to marry another human...if you want to talk animals, that is another story as most cultures (most) look down on that. Polygamy would fall under this same thing by the way...multi-party contracts do exist. If everyone involved is cool with it and knows what happens when the divorce comes then why not? On the only flip side- degredation of family values...I'm not legally married...is my son really missing out on anything? There are stats that gay couple stay together more frequently (stats have been run on this)- think about it...if you can be killed (yes, it's happened) just for asking someone out, wouldn't you stay with someone rather than be trying to find another relationship. And ultimately, the only difference in upbringing should be that they are probably more open to other peoples. Lets face it evil people raise usually raise evil children, it doesn't matter who they hump.

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    3. Re:people are dumb by deraj123 · · Score: 1

      Exactly. Really, the whole issue should be resolved by getting government out of the "marriage" business all together and just granting civil unions to any two people who care to declare themselves a union. Let religion have marriage.

    4. Re:people are dumb by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well there are many different angles to this topic.

      To certain people, gays will never be married. Its not just "a word". It is an attempted manipulation of a living language to get what some people want. In a dead language the definitions are set and clear. Ie. in the Koine Greek marriage was known and defined and understood as between a man and woman. It would have been idiotic to have said a man could "marry" another man. With a living language the definition of a word can move and breathe depending on how a person chooses to use that word.

      So what you get here is a word that is from a dead language. Or many dead languages with set definitions tied to definitions from the religious organizations and Jesus. And this word is translated into a "new" word in a living language.

      Now there is a conflict because of the manipulation attempts of the living language definition of a dead "set" language definition of a word.

      So its not getting "hung up" on a word. It is about more than realistically can be said or summed up on /. It is about keeping somethings defined as they are. It is about common sense. It is about not calling an ocean a mountain or calling a table a chair or calling an apple an orange. That is just idiotic waste of time.

      Yes, it may be fashionable to be so called "tolerant" in some circles. But these supposed "tolerant" folks are intolerant to those that express their disagreement, while generally speaking its those they accuse of intolerance who are the once tolerant to them expressing their views. Say what? but true.

    5. Re:people are dumb by Alsee · · Score: 1

      To certain people, gays will never be married.

      To certain people, blacks and whites will never be married.

      And that theme pretty well covers everything in your post.

      definitions are set and clear....
      So its not getting "hung up" on a word. It is about more than realistically can be said or summed up on /. It is about keeping somethings defined as they are.

      Yeah. It's about keeping things defined as they are. It is about the exact same people and the exact same logic and the exact same arguments to legally prohibit interracial marriage.

      It is about common sense.

      Right. The exact same "common sense" that said blacks and whites could not marry.

      not calling an ocean a mountain or calling a table a chair or calling an apple an orange.

      Right. We shouldn't call a black man with a white woman a "marriage", because it is apples and oranges. If two people love each other and are living together as a couple, well race or gender makes it apples and oranges.

      Yes, it may be fashionable to be so called "tolerant" in some circles.

      Yes, in some circles it is "fashionable" to be tolerant of interracial marriage.

      But these supposed "tolerant" folks are intolerant to those that express their disagreement

      It's funny how intolerant racist bigots have absolutely no understanding of the meaning of the word "tolerance", and try to play this persecution complex that other people are intolerant against them.

      I am quite tolerant of bigots and assholes. What I am not tolerant of is attempts by bigots and assholes to hijack the law to legally oppress people they don't like. THAT is intolerance. Hijacking the force of law to prohibit people from marrying because you dislike the respective races of the people involved, to prohibit people from marrying because you dislike the respective genders of the people involved, to prohibit people from marrying because you dislike the respective religions of the people involved, that is bigotry and asshattery, and moreover that is UNCONSTITUTIONAL.

      Under the US Constitution you cannot deny people equal treatment under the law on the basis or race, gender, or religion. You can choose to have a low granting civil marriages, or you can not have any government recognized marriage at all, however it is impossible to write a valid law granting marriages without also granting interracial marriages and same sex marriages and interfaith marriages. It is impossible to write a constitutional marriage law that examines the races of marriage applicants in order to exclude interracial marriage applicants.It is impossible to write a constitutional marriage law that examines the genders of marriage applicants in order to exclude same gender marriage applicants. It is impossible to write a constitutional marriage law that examines the religions of marriage applicants in order to exclude interfaith marriage applicants.

      The law is incapable of examining race, gender, or religion as a basis for discriminating which applicants are or are not permitted to marry.

      People are constitutionally entitled equal protection under the law. Race gender and religion are not permissible traits to examine in determining legal treatment.

      The law CAN and DOES discriminate on the basis of age. Minors can be treated differently under the law, minors do not have equal rights to drink, in work, or to marry. The law CAN and DOES discriminate between humans and animals, animals have almost no status of any sort under the law, and most certainly not any legal status to participate in marriage. Opponents of gay marriage who rant of such things don't understand the law, don't much care about legalities and logic, they are just offended by blacks people marrying white people and just insist it must be prohibited. Oh, I'm sorry.... I mean men marring men or women marrying women.

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    6. Re:people are dumb by kilodelta · · Score: 1

      No, they get hung up on the sexual acts between two men or two women. That's the major 'ick' factor underneath it all.

      I like John Corvino's way of dispelling the 'ick' factor. He says they use arguments like "The parts don't fit." and he just matter of fact says "Oh yes they do."

    7. Re:people are dumb by Arterion · · Score: 1

      Of course, a lot of people who are against gay marriage are ALSO against the separation of church and state. They'd like to see the government force others to comply with christian teachings.

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    8. Re:people are dumb by HappyEngineer · · Score: 1

      I've always thought that being hung up on the word "marriage" is the same as being hung up on the word "planet" when people passionately argued about whether or not Pluto was a planet.

      Pluto is still there. Homosexuals still live together and fight over who was supposed to wash the dishes last week you dirty lazy slob.

      Categorization is important, but I wish people would separate the issues and argue them separately.

    9. Re:people are dumb by nickruiz · · Score: 1

      The solution is easy! Don't recognize marriages at all. Recognize all pairings between two people as civil unions, regardless of the genders involved.

      In reality, marriage under the law and marriage in a religious institution are different things with the same name.

      As a Christian, I agree with your recommendations. What's wrong with the government issuing civil unions, and churches issuing out "marriages"? So if two people wanted to get married, they would have a religious ceremony at their church and establish a "covenant before God" and then would register for a civil union by their local justice of the peace. The "marriage" wouldn't be legally binding, but rather, religiously binding. The civil union would be the item seen as legitimate by the government and under that system, unions are treated equal.

      Maybe then the people that want to get "married" would take it more seriously and quit considering divorce as an option. Nonreligious people would simply opt not to get "married" because they are not placing vows in front of God.

    10. Re:people are dumb by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They're not hung up on the word "marriage" at all, they just pretend that they are. Look at the wording of these laws they keep getting passed. You'll read something like "this proposition will forbid marriage, civil union, and anything else similar to marriage, between two people of the same sex." All that it is about is that they don't want people to be gay.

      If it was just about marriage, it would be simple. We'd either allow civil unions, or we'd tell some of the religious fucks that some of the other religious people don't mind gay marriage at all, and so for the government to make a law would be the government expressing support for one religion's view over anothers, which would violate seperation of church and state.

  41. Proud to be a shareholder. by WiiVault · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Thanks Google for "Doing no evil". I'm also glad to see many other companies on board too. Apple and MS included.

  42. Re:0.21% of California Married Couples are Geniuse by Microlith · · Score: 1

    You're as bad as the above poster, who insisted that 99.99% of California was straight and opposed to gay marraige.

    Here's a suprising fact: The religious types don't care about any of the other issues, they only care about gay marriage, and fighting to keep a subsection of society under their thumb. The economy, business, and state government be damned (because they've got God and the coming rapture on their side!)

  43. Motive != Grounds by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If not being able to hire talent because of gender based marriage gets legal protection, then taxes, school systems, real estate costs.... wow.

    You've confused Google's motive for filing the motion with the legal grounds on which they challenge the proposition. The court doesn't care about why Google doesn't like the law (e.g. bad for business), they only care about why the law should be struck down (e.g unconstitutional).

  44. Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by StandardCell · · Score: 5, Insightful

    The real issue here is why the government is involved in the business of marriage to begin with. Government shouldn't be involved at all in the current fashion.

    What bothers me personally is this artificial dichotomy that people have created surrounding this issue on both sides. This isn't just about gays and lesbians. What about spinster sisters that simply live together and want their civil rights? Boyfriend and girlfriend forever? Polyamorists? Where are their rights? And what about states that automatically deem a couple to be in common-law marriage without them consciously having entered into that contract? None of these issues have been covered by the proponents or opponents of Prop 8.

    Marriage should be replaced by a comprehensive standard (but modifiable) civil contract between two or more consenting adults like any other business contract. Whether one goes to a church to get married, or to a lawyer's office, they can choose to call it what they will and associate as they want to, but that's separate from the contract. In effect, every "civil union" will be bound by a prenuptial agreement that must be consciously entered into by all parties that defines all of the criteria for what is currently deemed marriage. Assets coming into the marriage shouldn't be deemed automatic community property unless the parties choose this consciously. Child custody will always be split equally amongst the individuals unless otherwise specified in the contract or unless it can be clearly proven that harm is coming to the children from one or more of the parties; joint custody is implied even when they live together (since that's effectively the same thing, just that they're under the same roof). In addition, this will also function as a living and non-living will so that probate judges don't erode an inheritance for the state's benefit as opposed to the individual's benefit, and also to avoid conflicts with the families of the individuals involved. Also, just like a standard contract, individuals will not be entitled to things like lifetime alimony and must mitigate their "damages" by being obligated to find work and/or getting educated to find better work. The contract may be modified at any time with the consent of the parties. During a "divorce", the parties will be bound by the separation provisions of the agreement, thereby reducing the amount of time that lawyers and judges are involved, the amount of tax money spent on courts, and the amount of personal money spent on lawyers in protracted litigation. For those in current marriages, their marriages would be subject to the same standard civil contract rules with modifications from any pre-existing prenuptial agreements.

    Neither of the candidates in this presidential election nor any of the state or local candidates made any mention of the damage that the process of divorce has on families, and on individuals' wealth. Divorce is one of the biggest destroyers of wealth in society today and contributes to other societal problems such as childhood delinquency. Why not take on both the issue of civil rights and of divorce, and redefine fundamentally how society organizes itself? If people were forced to think carefully on what a marriage really is - a business transaction - then they might treat it as such. Wrap whatever other window dressing you like around it, but it all boils down to business at the end of the day.

    I'd say that if any corporations were truly progressive, they would push for this too. At the end of the day, this would be to their benefit when an employee "divorces" since there would be less time spent off of work. Too bad Google doesn't get this, and even more humorously undermines its own argument by laying off people. Mixing business and politics isn't smart business anyway, as being neutral on issues pisses off the least number of potential customers as I'm sure Google will lose a few of its customers. Unfortunately, everyone loses when we force these dichotomies down people's throats, and business money like Google's simply aggravates this.

    1. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by Microlith · · Score: 1

      The real issue here is why the government is involved in the business of marriage to begin with.

      Because it offers legal incentives for people who choose to engage in it. The problem here isn't a legal question, but an overly-emotional argument over the word "marriage" itself, the lequal inequities that result from legislation like this being a mere side-effect that doesn't concern those who pursued Prop. 8.

      What about spinster sisters that simply live together and want their civil rights?

      This isn't a question being raised at this time. Specious arguments like this are fielded by Prop. 8 supporters (most common being Daddy and Daughter want to marry) to distract from the question at hand, mainly by painting it as opening the gateway to incest.

      Boyfriend and girlfriend forever?

      Marriage has benefits conferred upon it specifically to discourage this. Why do you think gays want to get married?

      Polyamorists? Where are their rights?

      If the question comes up, we'll answer it (and hopefully on the side of them being free to choose how they live their life as they choose.)

      None of these issues have been covered by the proponents or opponents of Prop 8.

      Sure they have, mostly by supporters of Prop. 8 to discolor and trump up fears and smear opponents. Otherwise, they're completely not relevant to the question at hand.

    2. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by StandardCell · · Score: 1

      Because it offers legal incentives for people who choose to engage in it. The problem here isn't a legal question, but an overly-emotional argument over the word "marriage" itself, the lequal inequities that result from legislation like this being a mere side-effect that doesn't concern those who pursued Prop. 8.

      There should be be no legal incentive or disincentive for people to marry or not marry. It shouldn't be the government's business beyond the enforcement of any other standard legal contract with absolutely no special status. Again, you seem to focus on the word marriage when I'm saying you're engaged in entirely the wrong debate.

      Specious arguments like this are fielded by Prop. 8 supporters (most common being Daddy and Daughter want to marry) to distract from the question at hand, mainly by painting it as opening the gateway to incest.

      First off, it isn't a specious argument to ask for people who aren't in romantic relationships but otherwise cohabitate to ask for additional rights granted to those who are currently "married". I know two men who are likely never going to marry, but aren't gay and would like a say in the same aspects of their lives that a currently "married" couple would. In fact, it's the fundamental point of the debate - that marriage as it's currently defined abrogates the rights of many individuals within society. That includes those in straight, gay, transsexual, polyamorist or platonic relationships alike. Nobody is any more or less special than anyone else, so don't treat anyone more or less special. Period, no slippery slopes, no extras, just full equality.

      Marriage has benefits conferred upon it specifically to discourage this. Why do you think gays want to get married?

      Again, why should marriage confer special benefits if they don't want them? Did you ever think that maybe some people don't want those benefits or the responsibilities that come with them? This is why I specifically brought up the issue of states automatically deeming cohabitants as common-law married. People can ask for those rights if and when they want to. Why should they be "discouraged" in any way if they don't desire to be married? If you're of the age of majority, you choose who you want to be with and who you don't. That's part of being a grown-up, and living their life as they choose (as you yourself say below).

      If the question comes up, we'll answer it (and hopefully on the side of them being free to choose how they live their life as they choose.)

      It is an issue, but just not one covered by mainstream media or in the forefront of people's minds.

      Sure they have, mostly by supporters of Prop. 8 to discolor and trump up fears and smear opponents. Otherwise, they're completely not relevant to the question at hand.

      Show me one article for anyone on either side of Prop 8 discussing the destruction of wealth, or the negative side effects of the broader problem of divorce on children (and I don't mean those who say if Prop 8 is repealed that their families will be "broken up"). This is what I'm talking about. You're again misidentifying what I'm trying to argue - that marriage, as it's defined today, and regardless of whether it's among two straight or two gay people, has many other negative side effects that nobody seems to want to address.

    3. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Marriage has benefits conferred upon it specifically to discourage this. Why do you think gays want to get married?

      Here's an idea: when two people (same or opposite sex) come to the government and want all the perks and benefits of being "married", call it a "civil union". Let the churches call their unions "marriage"; they'll still have to come to the government to get their "civil union" (like they have to do anyway right now, except that the government calls it a "marriage" too, which is confusing because it isn't the same thing).

      That way, the churches can continue to claim that gay/lesbian "civil unions" are immoral and they aren't "marriages" (by their definition, even if the gay/lesbian couple is in a church that allows gay marriage), and it hurts nobody, because the government never defined "marriage" is – and as far as the government is concerned, there really is no difference between "civil union that church X says is a 'marriage'" and "civil union that church X says is immoral and not 'marriage'".

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    4. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by Whorhay · · Score: 1

      Gawdamnit, why don't I have mod points today?!?!

    5. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by GameMaster · · Score: 1

      I, whole heartedly, agree with this idea.

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    6. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by mdmkolbe · · Score: 1

      I don't necessarily agree or disagree with you, but you might want to avoid claiming that it "all boils down to business" while keeping your core argument.

      Otherwise it sounds like you're advocating/defending an attitude of "I hope you realize our marriage isn't personal, it's just business" to misquote whichever mobster movie said that first.

    7. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by endeavour31 · · Score: 1

      Do you really think forming a union based on contract law will decrease the divorce rate or assist people who at one time at least want to spend their lives together? Your quasi-intellectual and modular approach to redefining the family unit cannot cover all the complexities. Tell you what - go and prove to the rest of us that this system works. Walk the walk dude!

    8. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by blankinthefill · · Score: 1

      Why can't it cover all the complexities? There's a contract entered by two or more consenting adults. There you go. You cover whatever complexity there might be in your personal contract. Everything's covered. I'm not saying that it will help with divorce rates, but it will end laws like Prop 8 that are based of of religious beliefs and have no standing in an atheist government. And no matter what you think and argue, it was 100% the intent of the founding fathers that this county have an atheistic government. Also, I think the grandparent sounds a lot like Heinlein's "Contract marriages" from several of his books, and I think its a bloody great idea. People won't always want to live together, and humans are NOT monogamous animals. A contract so that people can split amicably after a time, or renew their contract if everything is going well, sounds like a wonderful idea to me. That, by the way, WOULD reduce divorce rates, and would also be a huge help for people in abusive relationships. Nothing should be so set in stone that its not possible to get out of it if one party, or both, so chooses. As a matter of fact, I think many people would agree that in such a case, it should be EASIER to get out.

    9. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by myowntrueself · · Score: 1

      I am not American and do not know much about your constitution but, is there not something to do with religious freedom... and if a marriage is a part of a religious institution how can congress make laws on it?

      Or is this sort of interference in religion ok at a state level?

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    10. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by concept14 · · Score: 1

      Nobody's religion is interfered with.

      Churches won't have to recognize the marriages of same-sex couples if it is against their beliefs -- just like they don't have to remarry divorced people if they have doctrines against divorce, or inter-faith couples.

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    11. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by concept14 · · Score: 1

      Here's an idea: when two people (same or opposite sex) come to the government and want all the perks and benefits of being "married", call it a "civil union". Let the churches call their unions "marriage"; they'll still have to come to the government to get their "civil union" (like they have to do anyway right now, except that the government calls it a "marriage" too, which is confusing because it isn't the same thing).

      That would be my second choice. My first choice would be to continue to call the legal institution marriage, and let the churches come up with a new term for their version. I'd hate to tell my atheist friends that their marriages should be demoted to civil unions.

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    12. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by myowntrueself · · Score: 1

      Churches won't have to recognize the marriages of same-sex couples if it is against their beliefs

      No, I mean the other way around.

      What if a religious group *had* wanted to recognise same-sex marriages *before* they became 'legal'?

      Surely any legislation *against* same sex marriages would have been unconstitutional all along?

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    13. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      While I understand your idea, I could see a few points for abuse. It would become trivially easy to abuse a system where more than two people can join such contracts, maybe with different partners separate from the ones they entered their first contract (why not? When you're "allowing" polygamy, you may as well allow poly-polygamy), and you'll soon see people who see it as a very tax friendly way to start businesses, clubs and other "special interest groups" that have nothing in common with what we consider now civil unions or marriages.

      Marriage is often not only a matter of being allowed to visit each other in hospitals and staying in the house you bought together. It's about inheritance and taxation. In some countries you get a nice pension if your partner dies (supposed to protect housewives without an income of their own), some countries have inheritance tax which is significantly lower if you're related/married to the person who died and so on. Marriage has some very real implications, not just some esotheric "feelgood rights" like being allowed to be with your partner when he dies in hospital or to retain custody of the children should he die.

      If you can somehow make sure that such a law cannot be exploited for tax evasion or similar, your idea sounds like a good plan.

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    14. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

      And what about states that automatically deem a couple to be in common-law marriage without them consciously having entered into that contract?

      South Africa has such a law, apparently. If you live together for 6 months, you're legally married. So I wonder how they'd handle the case of two men living together for such period.

      O, hehe, and whether it'll apply too if they lived together in the same house abroad, but then came back to the country...

    15. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Marriage is a covenant, not a contract.
      If you have a material breach of a contract, the other party has the right to terminate the contract.
      If you breach a clause of covenant, the other party does not have a right to break the covenant.

    16. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      There is a simple solution to that. Don't have so many laws that provide all kinds of loopholes to people because they are married.

      If you want to have joint taxes / etc, fine. However, let it be between any assemblage of people who want to combine their incomes. Don't make the tax law such that a rich person can pay 1000 poor people $1000 each and then claim $50M in deductions.

      Why do we need marriage codified into so many laws? Why should spouses get particular standing in an inerhitance hearing? Why should employers be required to offer benefits to spouses, but not roommates?

      If the laws were simplified so that they focus on what they were trying to accomplish without making cultural/religious assumptions then we wouldn't be in a mess arguing over the definition of "marriage."

    17. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      And why shouldn't a material breach be grounds for dissolving a marriage? If I enter into a marriage with fraudulent intent, shouldn't my spouse be entitled to soem kind of legal relief?

      I'm not sure why marriage is such a special case. You could write up boilerplate contracts as is done in all kinds of industries like real estate, and then people could pick the contract that fits their needs.

    18. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by Rich0 · · Score: 1

      Couldn't agree more. Why should single roommates be at a tax disadvantage compared to a married couple? Why should an estranged spouse have some kind of priority over a devoted child in an inheritance dispute?

      People should be free to govern their own lives as they see fit. Government should only step in to the extent necessary to protect third parties (particularly children). I'm not sure why the nuclear family needs to be a matter of law.

    19. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Some laws do make sense and are not just convenient loopholes, created by rich bastards for their own comfort. Inheritance laws do make sense, so you can stay in your home when your spouse dies, even though the inheritance procedure takes a while to complete. It's humane to let you stay at home instead of forcing you into a hotel while you're still dealing with the loss of your partner. Also, some provisions have to be made for people who do not leave a will, either because they forgot about it or because they died in an accident and couldn't make one yet. In this case, the law makes assumptions. They're not always right, but usually. The law assumes that you'd rather leave your house and everything you had to your spouse instead of some cousin you probably never met but who happens to be the only blood relative you have left.

      The same applies for decisions made in your name when you are unable to make them, because you're, say, in a coma. Again, it's more likely that your spouse makes decisions that are in accord with your wishes than some random relative that saw you last time ten years ago at some family reunion.

      So I guess marriage as a way to create an "artificial relationship" between people who are not related by blood but by decision makes sense in some cases.

      I do agree that filing jointly (and thus paying lower taxes) just because you're married makes no sense, because being married has no immediate positive impact on society or gives it anything "back". IMO, the money for kids should be increased but the filing jointly option for married couples should be removed. And the child support money should be tied to your kids' ability to stay out of trouble and to attend school. I'd even go so far to say that the better your kids perform the more money you should get, simply because someone holding a PhD in an important field is going to give back more to the country than someone vegg'ing away in a burger flipper job or worse.

      But I guess that's beyond the scope of this.

      Bottom line, there are a few reasonable things that should be tied to "marriage" (or whatever you want to call the union between two or more people for the reason of liking each other a lot). But I'd make sure the financial incentive is minimal at best.

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    20. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by superstition222 · · Score: 1

      Marriage is the recognition of the pair bond. It is designed to reinforce its strength by making it socially recognized. Polygamy and other forms of relationship are NOT relevant. That isn't saying the debate over whether or not other relationships should have some sort of legal recognition shouldn't be had. But, it's a straw man here, period. There are two pair bonds and two marriages: Same-sex and opposite sex. There is no rational justification for making one legal and the other not. The end.

    21. Re:Both sides of the Prop 8 debate are wrong by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Why? The various religious marriage ceremonies have been around much longer than the laws saying that your atheist friends could have a certificate that says "Marriage".

      Anyway, it isn't a demotion. If anything, they should be glad to have the religious connotations stripped out of their union.

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  45. all or nothing by Joe+the+Lesser · · Score: 1

    The church does not marry people legally at all dude, they do it spiritually, and the government gives them a 'license of union' or marriage license. If a church decides gays can marry then it would be a marriage, even if it's the church of the flying spaghetti monster.

    If the state can issue a marriage license for a straight couple, then they have to issue one for a gay couple (per my interpretation of 1st amendment).

    So either they allow gay marriage, or all marriages become legal civil unions and churches can call them whatever they want.

    And asking Gays to make it 'more palatable' with a different name is like asking women to say they don't have the right to 'vote', just the right to 'suggest'.

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    1. Re:all or nothing by Krater76 · · Score: 1

      And asking Gays to make it 'more palatable' with a different name is like asking women to say they don't have the right to 'vote', just the right to 'suggest'.

      QFT. I think everyone needs to be very observant of previous equal-rights movements, whether they be racial- or gender-based. Where there is inequality it won't stand and will change.

      To those who support Prop-8 type laws, ask yourself why? People made excuses for why segregated schools were ok, or women shouldn't vote, and at one time why wives shouldn't inherit property. These are the same pathetic arguments that permeate this argument.

      If you truly want see some of the rights that are stripped from someone who is a non-legal partner look at this appalling list.

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    2. Re:all or nothing by rho · · Score: 1

      "Appalling"?

      I looked for "Squeeze the jelly from their eyes!" but didn't see it. Maybe you list the appalling parts in a subsequent post?

      The hyperbole on both sides of this argument is pretty absurd.

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  46. What a stretch by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

    So supporting gay marriage somehow discriminates against those who believe in God? You probably work at a company that breaks a commandment at least a few times a week. But that's OK because it doesn't trigger your homophobia.

    1. Re:What a stretch by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "But that's OK because it doesn't trigger your homophobia."

      Please get your terminology correct. He didn't sound scared of homosexuals, he just seemed to be against their activities.

      There's a big difference.

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    2. Re:What a stretch by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

      "Please get your terminology correct."

      If you define homophobia as being afraid of homosexuals, than you and I are using the same terminology.

    3. Re:What a stretch by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What exactly are their activities? Marrying those of the same gender? Having sex with those of the same gender?

      If you're against these activities, you effectively are homophobic, as the reason why you're against them will ultimately boil down to fear in practically all cases.

  47. Re:"charged with diversity and sensitivity trainin by pak9rabid · · Score: 1

    Except these peeps

  48. Re:He is Mormon. He was in my Mormon congregation. by Lijemo · · Score: 1

    You can think and believe whatever you want to think and believe. I have no problem with that.

    The problem comes when you try to hijack the U.S. legislative system to force people who are not members of your religion to follow your religious strictures.

    A church should be able to determine under which conditions it's own members get married in (as long as they still have freedom of religion to leave the church if they choose.) It should NOT be able to determine whether non-members of the church can get married.

    How would you like it if your marriage was annulled because, say, the Catholics didn't approve of it?

  49. Marriage issues by phorm · · Score: 2, Interesting

    It seems that most who are against gay marriage are either generally anti-gay and/or rather religious (and still view marriage as a church, male+female institution).

    As a taxpayer, one thing that concerns me more is the current court cases (see BC, Canada) with polygamy.

    It seems to me that being married to multiple partners muddles the whole benefits/insurance/etc situation a lot more than gay marriages would.

  50. Mike by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    A list of stupid republican arguments against gay marriage

    1. Being gay is not natural. Real Americans always reject unnatural things like eyeglasses, polyester, and air conditioning.

    2. Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall.

    3. Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract.

    4. Straight marriage has been around a long time and hasn't changed at all; women are still property, blacks still can't marry whites, and divorce is still illegal.

    5. Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage were allowed; the sanctity of Britany Spears' 55-hour just-for-fun marriage would be destroyed.

    6. Straight marriages are valid because they produce children. Gay couples, infertile couples, and old people shouldn't be allowed to marry because our orphanages aren't full yet, and the world needs more children.

    7. Obviously gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children.

    8. Being gay is disgusting. Which is why lesbian porn isn't a 3.5 billion dollar a year industry.

    9. Gay marriage is not supported by religion. In a theocracy like ours, the values of one religion are imposed on the entire country. That's why we have only one religion in America.

    10. Children can never succeed without a male and a female role model at home. That's why we as a society expressly forbid single parents to raise children. (Obama is the proof for this one)

    11. Gay marriage will change the foundation of society; we could never adapt to new social norms. Just like we haven't adapted to cars, the service-sector economy, or longer life spans.

    1. Re:Mike by deraj123 · · Score: 2

      You know, if you'd left out the word "republican", you would probably come of sounding like you're making a point. As it is, you simply sound like you're a partisan republican-basher.

    2. Re:Mike by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      look a field of strawmen. try to give real discussion points. fail

  51. Re:"charged with diversity and sensitivity trainin by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    http://www.answers.com/charged

    First definition.

  52. Um by Technopaladin · · Score: 1

    First the history of Marriage is such that we are only dealing with RECENT tradition. Churchs and the state did NOT always do the marrying. Marriage predates Christianity by a fair amount and it seems from a historical standpoint that the first KNOWN marriages were usually enjoined privately with no legal(state) or Religious ceremony.

    Lastly I find telling people they shouldnt fight for the same rights and priviledges others hold is wrong. I say fight on! It appears they are in good company- Gandhi, Mandella, King Jr., Ironically Calvin, The founding Fathers(no taxation without reprensentation), pretty much any Civil Rights issue in history, ever.

    1. Re:Um by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It still is enjoined privately, in the catholic church at least -- marriage is a sacrament that is ministered (performed) by the two married parties to each other. All the other sacraments are performed by the priest on a person.

      Calvin and Luther insisted that marriage is a state thing, not a sacramental thing.

  53. Why is MIke Murray's Support Surprising? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    So, only religious beliefs that are in line with your way of thinking are OK? I thought all you "forward thinking" types value tolerance. Where is the tolerance for Mike's beliefs?

    1. Re:Why is MIke Murray's Support Surprising? by Zorque · · Score: 1

      My way of thinking IS tolerance. If someone is intolerant, I don't tolerate them. Simple as that.

  54. Oddities by flaming+error · · Score: 1

    But oddly, Microsoft HR Chief Mike Murray cited religious beliefs for his decision to contribute $100,000 to 'Yes On 8', surprising coming from the guy who had been charged with diversity and sensitivity training during his ten-year Microsoft stint. "

    What is so odd about a former "HR Chief" disagreeing with the official MicroSoft PR?

    What's odd to me is that he could blow $100,000.00 on this. Damn. I should get into the Human Resources business.

  55. you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by StandardDeviant · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Seriously? Jesus, try not to be completely dense. Imagine for a second that you have polka-dot skin, and place you'd like to work for happens to be in Plaidlandia, where people with polka-dot skin are reviled and discriminatory laws are written into the books against them. Would you take the job in Plaidlandia?

    You can fill in other involuntary attributes, places, and such above as needed until a light dawns in your head. (The part of me that thinks that subtly is lost on the clueless really wants to mutter something about being a Jewish, German-speaking chemist in 1933 and immigrating to Germany here, but that seems over the top. :P)

    Hell, I'm as straight as an arrow and Prop 8 gives me pause regards moving to silicon valley. I left Texas partially because I was tired of my work and income supporting an economy full of bigots with a government happy to cater to them, and moving to where a pile of assholes just wrote discrimination (of any sort, regardless of whether I would be affected by it) into their state constitution isn't high on my list of Good Moves.

    1. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "Hell, I'm as straight as an arrow and Prop 8 gives me pause regards moving to silicon valley. I left Texas partially because I was tired of my work and income supporting an economy full of bigots with a government happy to cater to them, and moving to where a pile of assholes just wrote discrimination (of any sort, regardless of whether I would be affected by it) into their state constitution isn't high on my list of Good Moves."

      But isn't that the GREAT thing about living in the states...and that the states make up the majority of their own rules?

      If you don't like the way things are in your state....MOVE to another one with more like minded people. As SWA says.."You are now free to move about the country".

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    2. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Chabo · · Score: 2, Informative

      Check out New Hampshire. There's some left-leaning people on the west side of the state, and some right-leaning people on the east side, but the whole state has a very libertarian attitude regardless of individual leanings, and there are a bunch of tech-related companies throughout the state.

      I just moved to California cause I was hired here, and while the weather is nice, I do miss the sensibility that I've enjoyed in New Hampshire. The only problem with it is that Massachusetts politics are starting to creep in like an infection.

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    3. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by causality · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      Seriously? Jesus, try not to be completely dense. Imagine for a second that you have polka-dot skin, and place you'd like to work for happens to be in Plaidlandia, where people with polka-dot skin are reviled and discriminatory laws are written into the books against them. Would you take the job in Plaidlandia?

      You can fill in other involuntary attributes, places, and such above as needed until a light dawns in your head. (The part of me that thinks that subtly is lost on the clueless really wants to mutter something about being a Jewish, German-speaking chemist in 1933 and immigrating to Germany here, but that seems over the top. :P)

      Hell, I'm as straight as an arrow and Prop 8 gives me pause regards moving to silicon valley. I left Texas partially because I was tired of my work and income supporting an economy full of bigots with a government happy to cater to them, and moving to where a pile of assholes just wrote discrimination (of any sort, regardless of whether I would be affected by it) into their state constitution isn't high on my list of Good Moves.

      What I don't understand is how this comes up at all. I'm straight, too, but I don't discuss my sex life with coworkers. It's just not their business. So, how are they being discriminated against unless they are bringing very personal and non-work-related matters to the office? Do homosexual people want to be able to discuss their intimate sex lives at work without repercussions? Because straight people cannot do that without fear of a sexual harassment lawsuit. Seems to me that equal, non-discriminatory treatment would mean that everyone leaves sexual, non-business matters at the door when they walk into the office. I suppose you can't have political movements and protests and large organizations and campaigns and controversy if it were done this way, and we act like we need those things for their own sake sometimes, so perhaps that's too simple?

      The only thing I can think of would be if there is a civil union or some other marriage analog that affects taxes or benefits like health insurance. In that case, however, the matter is between the individual employee and the company HR department. If anyone at the HR department cannot respect the privacy of employees, they need to be fired. Otherwise, I'm at a loss as to how this even comes up at all. To me this is very simple and seems to be much ado about nothing, perhaps just because the subject itself tends to be controversial.

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    4. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by KatAngel · · Score: 1

      I think the point is... if the laws are bad for homosexuals, homosexuals aren't going to live there in the first place. And you can't hire someone who's not there. Google is asking for a more inviting environment so that homosexual people will be more in the mind to move there if they're hired. It's about improving the pool of potential hirees.

      It has nothing to do with how the business treats homosexuals, but rather, whether or not they even have the opportunity to treat them in any way at all.

    5. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      It is not about hiring people already living in California and plan to stay there, but attracting new people to California, and keep the people there who lifestyle/future plans are in trouble.
      I think that is the concept you are missing.

      Most people don't want to live in areas they feel unwanted.

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    6. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by MakotoKamui · · Score: 1

      That is a pretty major issue you happen to bring up - benefits.
      Consider party 1 - a man and woman with a little certificate saying that they're going to stay with each other for as long as they both may live, or at least until the divorce settlement.
      Consider party 2 - two people of the same sex, minus the certificate, but wanting the same sort of relationship.

      If one of party 1 gets hired by a company like Google, the other member can get health insurance and other benefits. But, this only works if you have that little certificate. Party 2 can't get that certificate. Therefore, the worker's partner can't get benefits. Therefore, they need a higher salary to pay for those benefits.

      So, you're already automatically locking out some of your workforce by salary requirements.

      Next, imagine you have two choices for a place to work, in different countries, and you and your partner like to read. In one of those countries, they've started making laws about what people who like to read can and can't do. In the other, there are no such laws, or if there are, they embrace people who like to read.

      Where do you want to go work?

    7. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

      Seriously? Jesus, try not to be completely dense. Imagine for a second that you have polka-dot skin, and place you'd like to work for happens to be in Plaidlandia, where people with polka-dot skin are reviled and discriminatory laws are written into the books against them. Would you take the job in Plaidlandia?

      If I were a business in plainlandia, I would tally up the number of potential hires who are polka-dotted and those who are polka-phobe and I would let the bottom line decide if it's worth investing into a legal fight against polka-phobia.

      But if I were a business in plainlandia, I would also have a PR department telling me that it would be good to get some loud media attention for our Do No Evil motto the day after we just did a wee bit o' evil. Make sure all eyes are on our polka friendly demeanor, not our layoffs.

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    8. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by causality · · Score: 1

      I think the point is... if the laws are bad for homosexuals, homosexuals aren't going to live there in the first place. And you can't hire someone who's not there. Google is asking for a more inviting environment so that homosexual people will be more in the mind to move there if they're hired. It's about improving the pool of potential hirees. It has nothing to do with how the business treats homosexuals, but rather, whether or not they even have the opportunity to treat them in any way at all.

      The post to which I responded specifically mentioned discrimination and it was to this issue that I was speaking. I understand (at least mostly) how this article ended up on Slashdot. I did not understand the discrimination issue that the parent post (by StandardDeviant) raised.

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    9. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by frank_adrian314159 · · Score: 1

      What I don't understand is how this comes up at all. I'm straight, too, but I don't discuss my sex life with coworkers.

      Many of my co-workers have pictures of their families/long-term partners in their cubes/offices. Put one of those in your office if you're gay and you're automatically outed. Same with bringing something to company affairs (holiday celebrations, etc.). You probably would have no problem talking about your "hot date" with someone when in a corporate male-only group (and hopefully only with your close peers - you are right that the rest of us aren't interested). The bottom line is that most of us who have lives outside of the office are able to talk about them. As a straight person, I can see where someone's sexual orientation can leak out into the environment when just talking about everyday life. And even I, as a straight person can see that gay people just don't have that freedom without the chance of facing discrimination.

      And, as for your "separate but equal" suggestion about civil unions, that's never seemed to work out so well in the past. Somehow, although we usually get the separate part right, the equal part always seems to elude us.

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    10. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "If one of party 1 gets hired by a company like Google, the other member can get health insurance and other benefits. But, this only works if you have that little certificate. Party 2 can't get that certificate. Therefore, the worker's partner can't get benefits. Therefore, they need a higher salary to pay for those benefits."

      Hey...regardless of this prop...Google is STILL free to offer benefits to anyone or anyway they want. This isn't mandated by law. If they wanted to give benefits to a gay couple, with one of them working for them...they could now. If they wanted to allow any employee to declare ONE, or hell....5 people as 'dependents' or co-equals or partners or whatever, Google is fre to do so.

      Benefits like insurance and all...aren't mandated by law on how or if a company gives it out. Hell, in many states, companies, don't HAVE to offer benefits at all...

      So, this law has nothing to do with that argument.

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    11. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by causality · · Score: 1

      It is not about hiring people already living in California and plan to stay there, but attracting new people to California, and keep the people there who lifestyle/future plans are in trouble. I think that is the concept you are missing.

      Most people don't want to live in areas they feel unwanted.

      Please see my response to KatAngel. I understand why this article is on Slashdot. You are basically telling me why this article is on Slashdot. I understand that. Hopefully someone will read this and not make a third post telling me why this article/summary is on Slashdot or how this affects Google.

      The post to which I responded brought up a related but separate issue, which is that of workplace discrimination. I responded to that post and to that subject because in the case of homosexuals, I don't understand how their sex lives become workplace issues. It would have to become a workplace issue before anyone would know what they do behind closed doors in the privacy of their homes, and that would have to happen first before they could be discriminated against. So far no one has explained how this takes place or why the standard that heterosexual people are expected to follow (which amounts to "you do not discuss your sex life at work for fear of being fired or sued") should not apply equally to homosexual people.

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    12. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by ubercam · · Score: 1

      Am I the only one that read through that post and saw every instance of Plaidlandia as Philadelphia the first time round?

      I got to the end and thought, wow this guy sure has it in for Philly...

    13. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think you're missing the part where it's not about their sex life. It's about their life. I don't think anyone is talking about sex-talk at work. It's the things you don't think about because they're innocuous when you're straight (and that's the point)... Say, just stories or day to day small talk starting with "My wife/girlfriend" being very different when you're gay. Or say you leave your cell phone at home... your wife/girlfriend can bring it to you, and you don't have to think about "privacy." That's very different when you're gay.

      Anonymous for the sake of mod points issued.

    14. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by geobeck · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I think the point is... if the laws are bad for homosexuals, homosexuals aren't going to live there in the first place.

      Actually, I think the point is that Google is experiencing significant economic difficulties, and needs a big PR gimmick to bolster its marketing efforts. What better way to lure new customers than to support a civil rights-based lawsuit?

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    15. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by causality · · Score: 2, Informative

      That is a pretty major issue you happen to bring up - benefits. Consider party 1 - a man and woman with a little certificate saying that they're going to stay with each other for as long as they both may live, or at least until the divorce settlement. Consider party 2 - two people of the same sex, minus the certificate, but wanting the same sort of relationship.

      If one of party 1 gets hired by a company like Google, the other member can get health insurance and other benefits. But, this only works if you have that little certificate. Party 2 can't get that certificate. Therefore, the worker's partner can't get benefits. Therefore, they need a higher salary to pay for those benefits.

      So, you're already automatically locking out some of your workforce by salary requirements.

      Next, imagine you have two choices for a place to work, in different countries, and you and your partner like to read. In one of those countries, they've started making laws about what people who like to read can and can't do. In the other, there are no such laws, or if there are, they embrace people who like to read.

      Where do you want to go work?

      Please see this post and this post.

      Now, for what you bring up, I believe that is between the homosexual people and the (state) government. If they have some kind of civil union or other analog that is exactly like marriage in every way, then that neatly solves this problem by providing that "certificate" you mention. If not, then this is between them and Google and if Google wants their talents, Google certainly has the resources to make it worth their while. "Where do you want to go work?" sounds like a question that they could best answer after negotiation with Google.

      Personally I don't think your employer should even know whether you are married or not. They pay you, you work hard for them, it should end right there. Perhaps the practice of income taxation has made people accustomed to the routine collection of personal information not directly related to the actual business transaction taking place. But then, the only reason to have an income tax (as opposed to all other forms of taxation) is so that you can data mine and use carrot-and-stick methods to manipulate behavior. Not unlike the income tax, which was a "temporary wartime measure" (we fall for that one every time don't we?), employer-provided benefits are the direct result of a WWII wage freeze that required employers to use other methods to attract talent since they could not do so via competitive pay. That's possibly the only reason why you do not have a competitive market today in which any individual can obtain affordable health insurance. I'd rather people question the origin of these practices instead of worrying so much about the implementations.

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    16. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by causality · · Score: 1

      Many of my co-workers have pictures of their families/long-term partners in their cubes/offices. Put one of those in your office if you're gay and you're automatically outed. Same with bringing something to company affairs (holiday celebrations, etc.). You probably would have no problem talking about your "hot date" with someone when in a corporate male-only group (and hopefully only with your close peers - you are right that the rest of us aren't interested). The bottom line is that most of us who have lives outside of the office are able to talk about them. As a straight person, I can see where someone's sexual orientation can leak out into the environment when just talking about everyday life. And even I, as a straight person can see that gay people just don't have that freedom without the chance of facing discrimination.

      Perhaps I didn't think of that because I've always felt it was a bad idea to get too buddy-buddy with coworkers in a professional environment. I mean, everyone should be treated with kindness and understanding, but mixing business with your personal affairs tends to be more trouble than it's worth and just sounds like a bad idea. Anyone who's heard a few minutes of office gossip and decided they don't want any part of it can understand what I mean.

      It is interesting that you mention that they "just don't have that freedom". It's like the quote from the Zeitgeist II movie, "as soon as you clock in, you are walking into a dictatorship." I'd like to see more of them that are more "democratically" run, but a corporation is a dictatorship and you really don't have very many freedoms there. I've always thought this was hypocritical -- for example, if you really believe in the right to free speech, you believe in it for all people at all times; having "free speech zones" or in the case of the workplace, "non-free speech zones" means that you believe in it based on convenience, not principle. But then I understand what a "right" is and why it's not the same thing as a privilege.

      And, as for your "separate but equal" suggestion about civil unions, that's never seemed to work out so well in the past. Somehow, although we usually get the separate part right, the equal part always seems to elude us.

      That's possibly because we tend not to do things via simple, effective methods. You could simply pass a law stating that gay people in a civil union can call themselves "married" on any sort of official document, such as income tax forms. Then they are merely using an existing mechanism and the needless complication that creates opportunities for failure is neatly avoided, not to mention that this is less "separate" and more "equal". What will probably happen instead is a whole new special category will be created, with its own rules and regulations and expectations. If that happens, I think it will be subject to all of the failings that you bring up.

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    17. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by jythie · · Score: 1

      The problem is that normal workplace socalizing includes stuff like 'so what are you doing this weekend', and unfortunately I have seen cases were a simply response like "I am having dinner with my girlfriend (from a girl obviously)" resulting in people yelling and complaining about how the poor girl was bringing her homosexual agenda into the workplace by, well, admitting she is dating a girl.
       
      So in order for a gay person to avoid such stuff, they not only have to keep sexual details to themselves, but avoid quite a bit of casual workplace conversation that most people take for granted or outright lie.

    18. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Tauvix · · Score: 1

      It's not so much about bringing their sex lives to the office, but how about bringing their partner to the office Christmas party?

      When a man brings his female life partner to the Christmas party it's fine, when a man brings his male life partner to the Christmas party it's "Shoving your lifestyle choice in my face," as if they are going to strip and have sex on the buffet table.

      Somewhere along the way the religious definition of marriage got merged into the legal definition. Marriage in this country is less about religion, and entirely about legal status. If you want to say "Okay, then there should be Civil Unions" then convert everyone's marriage to a Civil Union, and leave marriage up to the religious folk. You want to be married, fine, go see a priest. You want to have some say in how your life partner is treated in the hospital? Get a civil union.

    19. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by jythie · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I can answer this one ^_^
       
      It's not their sex lives that lead to problems and discrimination. It's casual conversation like "I'm meeting my boyfriend/girlfriend for dinner" that people latch onto and then give the person a hard time for 'pushing their lifestyle'. The people who do the harrassing don't want gays around them PERIOD and the very knowledge that someone is gay is enough for them to claim an agenda or gross details.
       
        The only way to avoid it is to watch your smalltalk VERY carefully and never mention even having a significant other.
       
      Simple water cooler questions like 'so what did you do this weekend' become serious problems.

    20. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by geekgirlandrea · · Score: 1

      What I don't understand is how this comes up at all. I'm straight, too, but I don't discuss my sex life with coworkers. It's just not their business. So, how are they being discriminated against unless they are bringing very personal and non-work-related matters to the office? Do homosexual people want to be able to discuss their intimate sex lives at work without repercussions?

      Do your straight co-workers ever have pictures of their husband/wife and kids up in their cubicles? Do they ever casually mention going on a date or something? Do you live in an area where you are surrounded by other straight people and can go out with a heterosexual partner and have a nice time without worrying about getting beaten up for it? Is your appearance and demeanor socially normative for the gender you were assigned at birth? Even if it turns out everyone around you seems accepting of your heterosexuality, have you ever been afraid they would find out anyway because there was a prevailing social attitude against it or you'd had an unpleasant experience in the past, and there's no way to tell how a new person will be in advance? There are plenty of places where I wouldn't take a job for any amount of money, even if the particular employer were known to be entirely queer-friendly, and that has nothing to do with wanting to discuss my sex life (or, this being Slashdot, lack thereof...) at work and everything to do with not wanting to deal with being a lesbian in the Bible Belt.

    21. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      What I don't understand is how this comes up at all. I'm straight, too, but I don't discuss my sex life with coworkers

      Wow.....way to completely miss the point.

      Prop 8 hurts Google not because gays would have to hide their orientation.

      Prop 8 hurts Google because gays who wanted to move to CA before now do not want to move to CA in order to work for Google.

    22. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by jeff4747 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      If they have some kind of civil union or other analog that is exactly like marriage in every way, then that neatly solves this problem by providing that "certificate" you mention.

      We already did separate but equal. It doesn't work out

    23. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by geekgirlandrea · · Score: 1

      Perhaps I didn't think of that because I've always felt it was a bad idea to get too buddy-buddy with coworkers in a professional environment. I mean, everyone should be treated with kindness and understanding, but mixing business with your personal affairs tends to be more trouble than it's worth and just sounds like a bad idea. Anyone who's heard a few minutes of office gossip and decided they don't want any part of it can understand what I mean.

      You know, I've always felt the same way, but my straight co-workers have the freedom to choose their policy on that without as much to worry about as I do. I don't really know how much of my tendency to avoid anything that even hints of mixing my personal and professional life stems from fear of what effect it could have if co-workers knew how thoroughly queer I am.

    24. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by jschottm · · Score: 1

      I would also have a PR department telling me that it would be good to get some loud media attention for our Do No Evil motto the day after we just did a wee bit o' evil.

      Letting employees who are not actively needed go is not evil. It's perhaps sad and unfortunate but it's not evil.

    25. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by wastedlife · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So it is OK for a state to discriminate against a group of people? The only actual arguments I've seen against gay marriage are based on religious beliefs. With a supposed separation of church and state, a religious belief should not influence lawmaking, especially one that discriminates against certain people. I'm straight and married, but I firmly believe that straight or not, everyone has the right to be treated equally. If gay marriage is to be illegal, then all marriage should lose legal protections and benefits from the government.

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    26. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Many of my co-workers have pictures of their families/long-term partners in their cubes/offices. Put one of those in your office if you're gay and you're automatically outed.

      Really? Where do you work?

      You probably would have no problem talking about your "hot date" with someone when in a corporate male-only group (and hopefully only with your close peers - you are right that the rest of us aren't interested).

      If your "hot date" is a 300-lb. woman who bathes once a month and wears way too much makeup, I don't want to hear about her. If your "hot date" is a guy you met at tennis, I similarly don't want to hear it. There's a pattern to this phenomenon: I don't find either of them physically attractive.

      The bottom line is that most of us who have lives outside of the office are able to talk about them.

      I'm a straight male, so I can't speak for women. However, under no circumstances do I really care to hear someone (male or female) talking about having sex with their male partner; hearing someone talking about having sex with a woman, on the other hand, wouldn't bother me in the same way. I guess I'm discriminating against straight women and gay males?

    27. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by wastedlife · · Score: 1

      The problem is that since gay people aren't allowed to be married, Google can't give them the same benefits as a straight married employee. They dont want their employees to be forced to move to another state. They also dont want it to be difficult to convince someone to move there for employment because they will be not given the same benefits as a different group.

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    28. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Emperor+Zombie · · Score: 1

      You could simply pass a law stating that gay people in a civil union can call themselves "married" on any sort of official document, such as income tax forms.

      So instead of letting gays get married, we'll let them get married!
      Wait, what?

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    29. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by guest · · Score: 1

      Right, Google's afraid that people *will* move to another state, thus hurting their ability to hire talent, thus putting them at a competitive disadvantage... hence the lawsuit.

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    30. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by causality · · Score: 1

      Perhaps I didn't think of that because I've always felt it was a bad idea to get too buddy-buddy with coworkers in a professional environment. I mean, everyone should be treated with kindness and understanding, but mixing business with your personal affairs tends to be more trouble than it's worth and just sounds like a bad idea. Anyone who's heard a few minutes of office gossip and decided they don't want any part of it can understand what I mean.

      You know, I've always felt the same way, but my straight co-workers have the freedom to choose their policy on that without as much to worry about as I do. I don't really know how much of my tendency to avoid anything that even hints of mixing my personal and professional life stems from fear of what effect it could have if co-workers knew how thoroughly queer I am.

      I wish I had an answer to that for you, but you know the truth is that the answer to that is within you and can be learned when you obtain (as we all seek, in our own way) a stronger appreciation and knowledge of yourself. The closest I can come to answering that is to tell you that I am heterosexual and don't want my personal affairs to be anywhere near coworkers. I believe in being very close to people in a dynamic relationship and really know and appreciate them for who they are, and that if you don't intend to do this, there is not much of a point in relating to them. At work, you have casual acquaintances and you can only get to know them but so well before you encounter a "brick wall" in the form of non-business matters that are not appropriate for the workplace. Therefore, I am unable to fully relate to them in what I consider (in my personal opinion) to be a healthy, growing, satisfying way; as a result, I prefer not to do so at all (healthy joyous relationships are that important to me) even though I may appreciate and respect my coworkers a great deal.

      I've never felt that whom I am seeing or not seeing, or what I do with my free time (behind closed doors or otherwise) was appropriate for the workplace. I gain nothing from people knowing this when they are practically strangers and I stand to lose privacy and I stand to become entangled in the gossip mill against my will, so for me this is a no-brainer. I think the gossippers are very much like the people who are obsessed with the private lives of celebrities, the only difference between them being a matter of degree. Both seem to want to live vicariously and I recognize this as an unhealthy impulse that probably comes from a dissatisfaction with their lives. Taking part in this (and the mentality behind it) would be a step away from the healthy, strong life that I am building for myself. Not to mention that if someone feels that life is empty and unsatisfying, the solution is to learn to find meaning and joy, not to take an undue and unhealthy interest in the affairs of others.

      You may or may not have (relatively) unique reasons for doing so, but I believe you are making a wise decision.

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    31. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by causality · · Score: 1

      What I don't understand is how this comes up at all. I'm straight, too, but I don't discuss my sex life with coworkers

      Wow.....way to completely miss the point.

      Prop 8 hurts Google not because gays would have to hide their orientation.

      Prop 8 hurts Google because gays who wanted to move to CA before now do not want to move to CA in order to work for Google.

      Discussing a related but different point is not the same thing as missing the point. Please see this post, and this post and this post. It's okay to discuss various nuances of a complex issue. Really, it is. I say that with a smile.

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    32. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by JTorres176 · · Score: 1

      Seriously? Jesus, try not to be completely dense. Imagine for a second that you have polka-dot skin, and place you'd like to work for happens to be in Plaidlandia, where people with polka-dot skin are reviled and discriminatory laws are written into the books against them. Would you take the job in Plaidlandia?

      what if your family and friends already lived in Plaidlandia? What if the place you considered home, and everything you already knew, existed in this place whether you had polka-dot skin or not?

      This isn't a migrant group of people coming from some far away land and being denied rights. This is your neighbor, my brother, the girl from accounting, the guy who sold you your car... people who already live here in california who go to work and pay taxes just like I do, but don't get the same rights.

      Without laws providing rights to these people, they're unable to do things like share benefits after death, visit their loved ones in the hosptial, or practice power of attorney for their loved ones when they become unable to decide or speak for themselves. Without laws providing an equality to marriage (regardless of what you call it) to gay people, health insurance companies and federal benefits don't work with gay couples. It's a sad state of affairs that I hope passes soon. Not long ago, women couldn't vote. Not long ago, black people couldn't own property. Hopefully, not long from now, gays will be given civil rights also.

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    33. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's because marriage is a relgious institution at it's heart.

    34. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by RebootKid · · Score: 1

      Mod parent up please. I think that this is an ideal solution. Everyone is treated equally, and the religious aspect of joining two people in one is removed from the equation. the court is recognizing the legal union of two people, and that is what has all the rights, etc. the religious ceremony has no bearing on the legal aspect of things. It would take a while for peoples perception to catch up with reality, but it would work.

    35. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Um, you DO realize that despite prop 8, California STILL is still one of the best states for gays? That almost all of the urban areas of California voted NO on prop 8 and thus any place you're likely to get a tech job will be gay friendly?

    36. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by RebootKid · · Score: 1

      Couldn't agree more. Google is a business, and is acting the way many businesses these days are. it's controlling cost to make sure it remains profitable. That's not evil. Now, is this a PR stunt? Possibly. Does it matter much? Not really. It's still the right thing to do.

    37. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by glennpratt · · Score: 1

      What good do you do for yourself or society by moving to a place where the people are just like you?

      I'm guessing that wasn't your only reason for moving, but I just can't stand that reasoning from people of any persuasion. Being a Texan myself, I know I could run in a circle of friends almost regardless of my faith or lack there-of, orientation or music preference, while not self segregating to some other part of the country.

    38. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      What I don't understand is how this comes up at all. I'm straight, too, but I don't discuss my sex life with coworkers. It's just not their business. So, how are they being discriminated against unless they are bringing very personal and non-work-related matters to the office? Do homosexual people want to be able to discuss their intimate sex lives at work without repercussions? Because straight people cannot do that without fear of a sexual harassment lawsuit. Seems to me that equal, non-discriminatory treatment would mean that everyone leaves sexual, non-business matters at the door when they walk into the office. I suppose you can't have political movements and protests and large organizations and campaigns and controversy if it were done this way, and we act like we need those things for their own sake sometimes, so perhaps that's too simple?

      You are equating "gay marriage" with a sexual fetish, which is not what is at stake here at all, no more than traditional marriage is some strange sexual practice that no one talks about.

      And here's a short summary opinion piece on how marriages are more protected in law than civil unions: Link here

    39. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by mvdwege · · Score: 1

      Look, the only way a homosexual will keep his orientation out of a casual conversation is by staying in the closet. As a heterosexual, you may not realise just how peppered your speech is with references to your sexual preferences. Simple example: do you refer to your 'wife' or to your 'partner'?

      I'm straight myself, but when this issue came up, and I started thinking about it, it became fairly obvious fairly quickly that there is a heterosexual bias in my daily conversation. We tend not to think about it, as it is a majority bias, and thus mostly unconscious, but it is there.

      And you're not going to convince me things like talking about one's family life don't come up at work during water-cooler talk.

      Mart

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    40. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Score+Whore · · Score: 1

      ...and keep the people there who lifestyle/future plans are in trouble.

      This sounds like hyperbole. Gay marriage was only possible for about four or five months. Realistically, nothing is different now, re. lifestyle/future plans, than it was in March of last year. And it's better now than it was in March of, say 2002 since there are domestic partnerships that didn't exist before.

    41. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I am so tired of heterosexuals bringing up the details of their sex lives all the time. I should sue my boss - he mentioned that his wife was pregnant and that he was taking paternity leave around the time that she was due. That's NOT appropriate for the workplace. I am being harrassed.

      He wasn't the only one, either. Paul has pictures of his wife on his desk, and I think that is _disgusting._ I won't stand for it, I'm calling HR now.

      And Eric! He has as a 'wife,' too! He said he had to leave to take care of her, some bullshit about being in the hospital - but we know what they're really doing, those filthy heterosexuals.

      And then there's Liz, talking about going somewhere with her 'boyfriend' on the weekend. She's just flaunting it, you know.

      There's Jon - he's got pictures of some girl on his desk. Maybe it's his sister or something, but I'm starting to think that they're all over my workplace. I work with a bunch of perverts.

      Why, some of these pervs even go so far as to _date people in the workplace!_ I remember working with David and Maia - my boss told me they were MARRIED. UGH! I bet they totally got it on in the conference room!!

    42. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sadly this is not a reasonable solution since the USA has signed international treaties which include provisions about marriage. Ignoring these international treaties would violate the constitution. As a result, marriage must be accorded some sort of legal standing under the law. I suppose it's necessary to point out that these same international agreements don't address "civil unions", rendering the argument that civil unions are the same as marriage blatantly and obviously false.

    43. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by symbolic · · Score: 1

      That's the problem. It shouldn't be. It should be a civil action. This way, anyone that wants to include a religious ceremony as part of their marriage may do so, and leave everyone else the hell alone.

    44. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by toriver · · Score: 1

      So is the commandment to be fruitful, yet there are no laws mandating married couples to produce children.

      Conclusion: Marriage is a secular social institution and religions are full of poo.

    45. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Xest · · Score: 1

      "Hell, I'm as straight as an arrow and Prop 8 gives me pause regards moving to silicon valley."

      Same here, I'd certainly think twice about a state or nation that actively supports discrimination, because once the religious groups and such pushing this have achieved their goal of discrimination against one group, they then move on to the next.

      The religious groups pushing this aren't pushing it just because they despise gay marriage, it's a power grab simple as. These groups are the same as those that oppose women bishops and such in the UK also, they start with the easy targets to gain momentum then move up the line. That's why it must be stamped out now regardless of what your personal opinion about gay marriage is.

    46. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Arterion · · Score: 1

      Honestly, as a gay person who knows lots of other gay people, it's pretty easy to tell if someone is gay, even if you "leave the sex life at the door". Sexuality is a lot more pervasive than you seem to realize. What we call "gay" can mean a lot of things, only a few of which actually involve homosexual sex.

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    47. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by kilodelta · · Score: 1

      This is why the initiative process is so dangerous. Even though we don't yet have marriage equality here in RI I'm encouraged that in order to get a law passed or a change made to the state constitution, it needs to start in the legislature.

      That's the other thing, people think we live in a Democracy. No such thing is true, we live in a Representative Republic. Our founding fathers weren't stupid. They knew the dangers of the plebes voting. Bread and circuses anyone?

    48. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      ...With a supposed separation of church and state, a religious belief should not influence lawmaking, especially one that discriminates against certain people...

      Why do so many people seem to think that the "Separation of Church and State" was meant to inhibit the ability to pass legislation based on "belief"? Doesn't every group of people believe something (Not necessarily religious)?

      As far as I understand it, the idea of Separation of Church and State is to prevent a government from forcing *a particular* religious view down the throats of its citizenship.

    49. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Dirtside · · Score: 1

      So it is OK for a state to discriminate against a group of people?

      In general? Yes. Many states have laws prohibiting convicted felons from voting, for example. Most (probably all) states have laws requiring that anyone practicing medicine have a medical degree, which discriminates against the poor. Conversely, there are a lot of laws that allow certain groups advantages over others (such as the poor, minorities, etc.) Those laws discriminate against people who are not in those groups. And (in general) there's nothing wrong with that, although you can always argue whether any particular law is a good idea, but to argue that the government should never discriminate at all is absurd.

      What's not okay is discriminating against a group people for reasons that have no compelling state interest. If 99% of Californians think the law should say that Armenians should be expelled from California, that's not okay, because the state has no interest in doing such a thing.

      Laws that favor one group for a particular purpose or reason are quite common and, really, unremarkable in general.

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    50. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Shakrai · · Score: 1

      I do miss the sensibility that I've enjoyed in New Hampshire. The only problem with it is that Massachusetts politics are starting to creep in like an infection.

      That's one of the reasons I'm debating moving to Alaska or Montana instead of New Hampshire. Is New Hampshire still going to be New Hampshire in another decade or so?

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    51. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Chabo · · Score: 1

      I say you should move to New Hampshire in that case, so you can counteract the influx of former Massachusetts residents who want to make their new state just like their old one.

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    52. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by moosesocks · · Score: 1

      A better solution: Reclassify all marriages as civil unions. Given that marriage is a traditionally religious institution, the federal government should not have a hand in its regulation to start with.

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    53. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Dun+Malg · · Score: 1

      That's because marriage is a relgious institution at it's heart.

      No it's not. Pair bonding predates organized religion. Certain species are quite simply programmed to do it. The fact that religion decided to recognize it and codify it is unrelated.

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    54. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That makes a ton of sense, especially since most of the general American populace is against gay marriage. Yup, taking a political stance against popular sentiment is a great marketing tool for large corporations.

    55. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Shakrai · · Score: 1

      I say you should move to New Hampshire in that case, so you can counteract the influx of former Massachusetts residents who want to make their new state just like their old one.

      That's a decent point. I'm guessing though that the number of people who feel like you or I do are completely outnumbered by the number of people who want to live in Boston without having to pay to live in Boston. It would be kind of neat to actually have my vote mean something in a Presidential primary though.

      My girlfriend and I have talked about a number of different places that we would move to if we left NYS. Vermont, New Hampshire and Alaska seem to come up the most often. New Hampshire and Alaska appeal to me for the Libertarian streak that both states show. Vermont doesn't quite have the same thing but they do have their own independent streak and I rather like the way they handle "gun control". "Are you a felon? No? Here's your gun"

      My G/F has different motivations of course. She's in love with New England because of the small town atmosphere and in love with Alaska because of the sheer beauty of the place. We won't be making this decision for another year or so (she needs to finish her masters degree first) but the more I think about it the more I feel inclined to escape the grasp of the People's Republic of New York.

      I love Upstate New York but I have a sickening feeling that we are going to be dominated by NYC (even worse than usual) in the years to come. If the GOP doesn't manage to retake the NYS Senate by 2010 the Dems will have carte blanche to redraw the district lines as they see fit and that will be the end of any Upstate voice in Albany for a long time. *sigh*

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    56. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      Would you make the same argument regarding racism? If one state discriminates against blacks, won't allow them into certain/any schools, won't allow them to marry each other and/or people of other races, would you then tell those people to move to a state which has more "like minded" people? What if no such state exists? What if moving is not a possibility due to economy, family obligations, etc? Should they just buckle down and accept the discrimination?

    57. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by Mal-2 · · Score: 1

      If you're in California, then support Proposition 13. It's only fair, and very Discordian.

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    58. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by DanielLC · · Score: 1

      With a supposed separation of church and state, a religious belief should not influence lawmaking...

      The first amendment prevents lawmaking from influencing religious beliefs, not the other way around.

    59. Re:you don't understand how it's bad for hiring? by u-235-sentinel · · Score: 1

      So it is OK for a state to discriminate against a group of people? The only actual arguments I've seen against gay marriage are based on religious beliefs.

      When the government made polygamy illegal they said it was because they needed to protect morality basically. If that argument no longer applies then perhaps polygamy shouldn't be illegal either.

      I'm not talking about these weirdo's marrying you girls. I'm talking about adults wanting to be married (as in 18 and older).

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  56. 50%+ votes should not a constitution change make by jopie_b · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I for one find the concept that a state (or country) for that matter could change its constitution with a simple 50% majority vote deeply disturbing.
    Where I live (NL) --Yes, liberal bias on these issues because of nationality is noted -- a constitution change involves:
    - Find 2/3 majority vote in Congress;
    - than a 2/3 majority vote in Senate;
    - New elections (that means wait out the 4 year term);
    - new 2/3 majority vote in the newly elected Congress and ...
    - new 2/3 majority vote in the newly elected Senate.
    This prevents constitution amendments based on hype or 'in-vogueness' of an idea and it also allows for the legislation to mature.

    Of course the constitution deal does get clouded in package deals, as it will hardly be the only issue in an election. And yes it does make a constitution change slow as molasses, but it does look like a more even keeled process.

    BTW, does this mean a new 'reverse prop 8' amendment can be started up next week which will undo this change? A flip-flop constitution sounds like an interesting concept for /. (from a digital point of view ;-)

  57. Acceptance does not allow acceptance? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So someone thinks you can't have beliefs if you are involved with diversity and sensitivity? Are diverse beliefs and belief sensitivity not allowed in diversity and sensitivity?

  58. The people have spoken - get over it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Why does everybody automatically assume it's just religuous folk who are against gay marriage? I'm agnostic, and I'm not in favor of it. The reason is simple - marriage, as it is defined is between a man and a woman. Changing that definition to be between a man and a man, or a woman and a woman opens it up to other challenges. Why stop with m+m/w+w? Why can't a man marry multiple women? Why can't a woman marry multiple men? Polygamy is a more widely accepted in the world than homosexuality, so I think it's a legitimate argument to ask that if you redefine marriage to allow for homosexuals to marry, you have to go the next step.

    I'm all for gay rights. In terms of benefits, gay couples should get access to the same benefits as married couples. The state should be allowed to create "civil unions" that protects a gay couples rights.

    But to redefine an institution that has existed for 5000 as something it isn't is just wrong.

    Moreover, the attitude of supporters of Gay Marriage have done themselves a great disservice with their grand standing and claims that this is a "human rights" issue. Baloney. A gay man has the same exact right that a straight man has right now - to marry a member of the opposite sex. By trying to claim this is a human rights violation, and try to shame people are against it as being some sort of homophobe or bigot only makes your side look petty and grasping at straws.

    The people voted on it, it's law - get over it.

    1. Re:The people have spoken - get over it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why stop with m+m/w+w?

      Good question. Why stop there? How is not stopping there going to directly affect you?

      But to redefine an institution that has existed for 5000 as something it isn't is just wrong.

      How does the fact that it "existed for 5000" make it infallible? Why is redefining it wrong? Assuming you meant 5,000 years, fine - people 5,000 years ago wore robes and traveled around on the backs of animals. Change is bad, folks.

      The people voted on it, it's law - get over it.

      If slavery or black rights were put to a vote, they'd still be in the cotton fields.

      Baloney.

      Go back to bed, Bill.

  59. Re:Other ways to attract prospective employees to by khallow · · Score: 1

    Taxes can be addressed, but the other two are features of any wildly popular job market. People will keep coming until something "oppresses" them enough that they'll stay away.

  60. Google is more unipolar than commonly understood by StandardDeviant · · Score: 2, Interesting

    At least in my admittedly somewhat limited experience. I was looking for a full-timer gig last spring and it came down to Google and another place. Google wanted me to move to Cali for three months at the start of any engagement with them (I guess to give the kool-aid 90 days to work ;)). I got the impression that they were not very flexible about that, either (maybe it's different for international offices? I'm on the east coast of the US). So I can easily see the argument that the laws and environment of California would have a strong effect on their hiring operations, if the above is in fact par for the course.

  61. He is worth 9 figures by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Mike was at Apple and Microsoft at the boom times.

  62. You have to be kiding me by Sam36 · · Score: 0

    I can't believe this stuff is still going.

    Just watch the video over here in the top right: http://www.news10.net/news/story.aspx?storyid=51000&catid=2

    I don't even know what to think. If you think you have the right to push your beliefs on me because some scientist said that you were "born this way" then think again. I used to have sex with my animals on my farm. Was I born that way? Did I get any rights? NO. And you know what, I had to eventually accept that what I was doing was wrong. Jesus helps me with that. It is the same thing here. A bunch of whiners, trying to get as many people on their side so that way THEY won't feel so bad about it.

    This is all because of the way the government works things. Yet these people lash out at churches and communities demanding their "rights". I don't know what the heck they want but they can go crawl back to their beloved government and complain about the lack of equality in their civil unions.

    Laws like these will eventually force oppression on companies. What if you are a DJ and you are asked to play at a gay marriage but you refuse because it goes against what you believe? Will you be prosecuted? What if you run a wedding planning service and are forced to plan a gay wedding or risk a federal offense? This is not the america that I want!

    How I would really be ashamed to work at google. I am now ashamed to even use their products. Do you think that every one of their 20,000 employees agrees with this? Some big (gay) cheese at the top is trying to oppress everyone. Communists!

    Get the stupid government out of our lives!

  63. Sex Sex Sex by Dobeln · · Score: 1

    Gee, I wonder why people care about sex? It's not as if it's important or anything.

    Hint: People like normal sexuality (their sexuality), and see little reason to celebrate what is a distinct minority preference. And they certainly don't want their kids to turn gay. People want to have grandkids. There you have another strong preference.

    Finally, there is that whole "democracy" thing, I.e. not having the law written by judicial fiat. That principle alone is ten times as important as gay "marriage".

    1. Re:Sex Sex Sex by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Finally, there is that whole "democracy" thing, I.e. not having the law written by judicial fiat. That principle alone is ten times as important as gay "marriage".

      Good thing the United States isn't a true democracy, otherwise blacks would still be enslaved. Human rights are more important than the "democracy" you think we have.

    2. Re:Sex Sex Sex by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      People like normal sexuality (their sexuality), and see little reason to celebrate what is a distinct minority preference

      Which is good, since nobody is asking them to.

      And they certainly don't want their kids to turn gay.

      And nobody is going to make their kids turn gay either. It's impossible to "convince" somebody to become gay, you either are or you aren't. And even if this wasn't the case, two people of the same sex somewhere that you don't know being united under the law is the last thing that's going to change your kids sexual orientation.

    3. Re:Sex Sex Sex by Dobeln · · Score: 1

      Of course, any lawlessness could be justified by that argument. Still, lawlessness and liberalism are so closely intertwined that this should not really come as a surprise.

      (As a side note, claims of being democratic are problematic if a substantial portion of the population are enslaved...)

      (As a second side note, having your preferences catered to in all social institutions is not usually considered a "human right")

    4. Re:Sex Sex Sex by Dobeln · · Score: 1

      "Which is good, since nobody is asking them to."

      Yes, they are - they are asked to include behavior of which they disapprove in what they consider a sacred and important institution.

      "And nobody is going to make their kids turn gay either. It's impossible to "convince" somebody to become gay, you either are or you aren't"

      It is certainly possible to have people live out their gayness to a greater or a lesser extent. (See: American history before 1970).

  64. 'Republicans' tag by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Didn't the Democrats have the voting majority in popularity? Doesn't that mean that Democrats are the one that put this through? Or did we somehow subvert the authority of the majority and cause you to lose yet another election?

  65. Just wondering by kotorgeek56 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I am just wondering why this story was tagged as "Republican." I mean Prop 8 passed by about 600,000 votes or 4% of those voting and no one can say the Republicans normally can produce that kind of a majority in California. Clearly, more than just Republicans are against it.

    1. Re:Just wondering by jopie_b · · Score: 1

      I am just wondering why this story was tagged as "Republican." [...]

      Nothing to do with this story, every item this week has been tagged "Republican".

    2. Re:Just wondering by Uberbah · · Score: 1

      Just wondering how anyone could be so nieve. It wasn't just Mormons who voted for it, as blacks voted for it by 70% at the same time as they voted for Obama by 95%.

      But it was Republicans who pushed for the proposition in the first place and spend millions of dollars on flooding the airwaves with lying ads implying that homosexual marriage meant teaching homosexuality in school, and other crap like that.

    3. Re:Just wondering by CodeBuster · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Clearly, more than just Republicans are against it.

      Indeed, there are many citizens living in California who are of Mexican and Latin American descent. These people are mostly registered as Democrats and generally vote with the left on fiscal, social, and other issues. However, there is one caveat that some on the left forgot which is that many of these people are Catholic or were raised as such and even if they are not active in the church on a regular basis they still frame moral judgments within the context of church teachings. It is not hard to guess what the Catholic teachings on gay marriage are and yet many prop 8 supporters seemed to be surprised when this usually reliable constituency voted against them. Given the fact that such peoples are becoming an ever larger component of the California population the gap will probably only widen in the years ahead as the demographics continue to shift. The only hope for prop 8 supporters now is the state supreme court, if they fail to get it overturned there then California will remain a no gay marriage state for generations to come.

    4. Re:Just wondering by Alsee · · Score: 1

      California will remain a no gay marriage state for generations to come.

      Population demographics indicates otherwise. The younger generation is overwhelmingly in support of gay marriage as an equal rights civil rights issue, and opposition is overwhelmingly in the older generation and particularly senior citizens. The exact same thing happened with interracial marriage. The older generation slowly abandons the old discrimination, or they simply die out at a faster rate. Acceptance of gay marriage is rising by about 1.5% to 2% yearly. That is about double the rate that interracial marriage gained acceptance.

      Deeply Catholic immigrants notwithstanding, California is currently on the cusp of crossing over the 50% acceptance level, and the rest of the country will cross the 50% level in just a few years.

      Some significant data points - when the Supreme Court nationally legalized interracial marriage in 1968 it only polled about a 20% approval. The approval numbers for interracial marriage only crossed above the 50% mark in 1994. Public opinion on gay marriage is advancing so fast its threatening to leave the court system in the dust. It took 26 years for court legalized interracial marriage to reach 50% public acceptance. Gay marriage is beginning to look like it may be democratically approved before the Supreme Court even gets around to examining the constitutional arguments.

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    5. Re:Just wondering by CodeBuster · · Score: 1

      Deeply Catholic immigrants notwithstanding

      The Catholic Mexican and Latin American immigrants could be a larger factor than some might think. If you asked the Latino and Mexican American young people what their opinions were would they match with white suburban or black youth? I think that the religious factor is being underestimated by the prop 8 supporters. The types of urban, white, and well to do young voters who are more likely to support gay marriage are moving to other states to escape the high cost of housing and living in California and taking their families with them (150,000 now ex-Californians left the state this year). I agree that opinions are changing in other states, but I think that there is at least an equal chance that more minority births and immigration from Catholic Mexico and Latin American countries to south western states, and especially California, will keep prop 8 around for a while. Oh sure, you will have hard core and pro gay marriage areas in and around San Francisco and other wealthy coastal areas, but the inland parts of California, where many of the recent immigrants settle, will probably become more morally conservative in the decades ahead. The religion factor, which is a part of minority (or should I say majority now) culture, should not be underestimated (even gang members commonly have Jesus and other religious iconography tattoos as part of their overall look combined with their chain jewelry).

  66. Re:0.21% of California Married Couples are Geniuse by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Amen.

    The media whips people up into a frothy fervor precisely to attract add dollars and destract from the real threats to the media: Reduced spending.

    Of course, I might feel differently if I was one of the few actually impacted by Prop8 in some material way, but sheeze.. don't we have bigger fish to fry first?

  67. Gays have full rights. by Dobeln · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Gays of course have the right to marry. The opposite sex.

    Of course, that does not match their personal preference, but then again having your preferences catered to by the state isn't something you can count on when you are a distinct minority.

    1. Re:Gays have full rights. by bluie- · · Score: 1

      That's true, the state really shouldn't have to worry about those whiny minorities. Maybe blacks *prefer* to go to the same schools as whites, but as long as they get to go to school they shouldn't have to be catered to by the state.

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    2. Re:Gays have full rights. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      having your preferences catered to by the state isn't something you can count on when you are a distinct minority.

      Given the ease with which most gay people can pass for heterosexual, I'd suggest "indistinct minority" is a better phrase here.

    3. Re:Gays have full rights. by Steve525 · · Score: 1

      Jews of course have the right to pray. In a church.

      Of course, that does not match their personal preference, but then again having your preferences catered to by the state isn't something you can count on when you are a distinct minority.

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    4. Re:Gays have full rights. by Trillian_1138 · · Score: 1

      Gays of course have the right to marry. The opposite sex.

      Of course, that does not match their personal preference, but then again having your preferences catered to by the state isn't something you can count on when you are a distinct minority.

      I'd imagine you're aware of the usual response to that, but I think it's important enough that it bears repeating.

      Whether or not being gay is a preference/choice or biologically determined is is irrelevant to the arguments in favor of gay marriage. Regardless of the cause of homosexuality, the government should not be in the business of regulating the behavior of consenting adults or discriminating based on said behavior.

      In general, the argument for marriage only being valid for a man and a woman revolves around child-rearing. If that's the case, it's odd that so many of the legal and financial rights/privileges granted by marriage do not directly relate to child reading and, indeed, apply regardless of whether or not the married couple has children, ever plans to have children, or even can have children. For example, my mom is now past child-bearing age. Does that mean she shouldn't be allowed to get (re)married?

      So please don't act like qualifying homosexuality as a preference and talking about the rights of gay men and women to marry people of the opposite sex as if it takes the wind out of the sails of gay marriage proponents. It doesn't.

      -Trillian

      PS - As a side note, part of a well-functioning government's role is to protect minorities from tyranny of the majority. So while you're right, a minority population can't count on the state's protection, it's not unreasonable to expect such protection in the (theoretical) 'ideal' state.

    5. Re:Gays have full rights. by Dobeln · · Score: 1

      "I'd imagine you're aware of the usual response to that, but I think it's important enough that it bears repeating.

      Whether or not being gay is a preference/choice or biologically determined is is irrelevant to the arguments in favor of gay marriage."

      I don't really see any contradiction between something being a preference/choice or biologically determined (I consider all preferences and choices biologically determined).

      "Regardless of the cause of homosexuality, the government should not be in the business of regulating the behavior of consenting adults."

      That is of course a perfectly respectable libertarian standpoint, but most people are not libertarians. On the contrary, they have no problems with the government setting up institutions to promote what they consider pro-social virtues and behavior. Such as marriage.

      "If that's the case, it's odd that so many of the legal and financial rights/privileges granted by marriage do not directly relate to child reading and, indeed, apply regardless of whether or not the married couple has children, ever plans to have children, or even can have children. For example, my mom is now past child-bearing age. Does that mean she shouldn't be allowed to get (re)married?"

      Child rearing is one of the aspects behind people's support for marriage, but far from the only one. Marriage plays many other important roles in regulating the interaction of the sexes.

      "PS - As a side note, part of a well-functioning government's role is to protect minorities from tyranny of the majority [wikipedia.org]. So while you're right, a minority population can't count on the state's protection, it's not unreasonable to expect such protection in the (theoretical) 'ideal' state."

      Of course, one can count having ones preferences catered to an essential right, but I consider that attitude more than a little narcissistic.

    6. Re:Gays have full rights. by Dobeln · · Score: 1

      In your example, a person is singled out because of a trait, and is then systematically treated differently. This is not so for gays, who are treated the same as everyone else. (There is no prohibition for gays to marry, after all - then you might have a point).

    7. Re:Gays have full rights. by Dobeln · · Score: 1

      Allegory wars! Argument by allegory - powerful, and usually wrong (because the devil is always in the details, no?).

      More specifically, your example only works because we have hammered out a consensus (in the US) on the topics of freedom of conscience and religion, and the role of the state in those areas.

      That doesn't mean that the principles that we hold dear with regards to those areas can then be freely extrapolated to any area (such as marriage).

    8. Re:Gays have full rights. by Alsee · · Score: 1

      Gays of course have the right to marry. The opposite sex.

      Blacks of course have the right to marry. The same race.
      Which is exactly the same rights whites have, to marry the same race.

      You cannot write valid law denying gay marriage for exactly the the same reason you cannot write a valid law denying interracial marriages. Under the Equal Protection clause of the constitution you cannot use race, gender, or religion, as a basis to discriminate legal treatment.

      You cannot examine the races of marriage applicants in order to discriminate between same-race vs interracial applicants for approval or denial.

      You cannot examine the genders of marriage applicants in order to discriminate between hetero vs gay applicants for approval or denial.

      You cannot examine the religions of marriage applicants in order to discriminate between same-faith vs inter-faith applicants for approval or denial.

      Under the Constitution the law MUST be blind to race, gender, and religion.

      I'm sure you pretty much agree that that is a GOOD thing, except you want to carve out an exception for marriage law, just because you dislike certain people getting married. And that is no more reasonable and no more valid than the people who did (and still do) want to deny interracial marriage. No different. Writing gender-based-discrimination into the law is no better than writing race-based-discrimination into the law. The law SHOULD and MUST BE blind to race gender and religion of people.

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    9. Re:Gays have full rights. by dzfoo · · Score: 1

      So, begin gay is a race, gender or religion?

      And here I was thinking that it was a sexual preference.

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    10. Re:Gays have full rights. by Alsee · · Score: 1

      So, begin gay is a race, gender or religion?

      Perhaps it will be less confusion to you if you think "same gender marriage" rather than "gay marriage". You are not actually trying to deny gays the right to marry - you are fine with a gay woman marrying a gay man.

      What you are trying to do is IDENTICAL to the interracial marriage situation, based on gender rather than race. Note that the two sections below are identical, except that I substituted gender for race, and I wrote one with "they want" and the other with "you want".

      =======RACE=======
      Some people wanted to (and still want to!) deny interracial marriage.

      They want the law to examine the GENDERS of marriage applicants. They want the law to DISCRIMINATE different treatment of marriage applicants based on that racial examination, approving the applicants they like and denying the applicants they don't like.

      That is unconstitutional. You cannot use race, gender, or religion as basis to discriminate treatment under the law.

      =======GENDER=======

      You want to deny same gender marriage.

      You would need the law to examine the GENDERS of marriage applicants. You would need the law to DISCRIMINATE different treatment of marriage applicants based on that racial examination, approving the applicants you like and denying the applicants you don't like.

      That is unconstitutional. You cannot use race, gender, or religion as basis to discriminate treatment under the law.

      Trying to deny same gender marriages is legally identical to trying to deny mixed race marriages. You are merely swapping gender examination and gender-based discrimination for racial examination and race-based discrimination.

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      See? No difference, nothing more than race based discrimination vs gender based discrimination.

      In 1968 lots of stats had laws denying mixed race marriages, and they were all found unconstitutional, null and void. The legal basis and constitutional issues are identical. Trying to deny same gender marriages or trying to deny mixed faith marriages is no more constitutional than trying to deny interracial marriage. There is simply no way to write a constitutionally valid law that does what you want it to do.

      You probably agree that the law should be blind to race, gender, and religion. You are just running into a logical contradiction between that and what you want to put into marriage law. You can't have both. You either need to give up on banning same-ender marriage, or you need to abandon the principal of racial, gender, and religious equality under the law... and you would also have to successfully amend the Constitution to allow race/gender/religious discimination in the law.

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    11. Re:Gays have full rights. by Trillian_1138 · · Score: 1

      I don't really see any contradiction between something being a preference/choice or biologically determined (I consider all preferences and choices biologically determined).

      Again, I'm not really concerned with homosexuality being a choice, biologically determined, or a combination of the two - I don't think it factors into whether gay marriage should be legal.

      That is of course a perfectly respectable libertarian standpoint, but most people are not libertarians. On the contrary, they have no problems with the government setting up institutions to promote what they consider pro-social virtues and behavior. Such as marriage.

      But I'm not arguing about what people have a problem with, but what government should be doing. Obviously, you're right - people are often thrilled when government protects their definition of 'good' behavior. But that's not a response to the argument "The government should not be doing so."

      Child rearing is one of the aspects behind people's support for marriage, but far from the only one. Marriage plays many other important roles in regulating the interaction of the sexes.

      Again, I don't think you're responding to the crux of my argument, that the government should not be regulating the behavior of consenting adults (or in the interaction of the sexes).

      Of course, one can count having ones preferences catered to an essential right, but I consider that attitude more than a little narcissistic.

      I don't think I said "essential right" everywhere, but I would consider marriage between consenting adults an inherent right. And, in the same way religious minorities and people saying things others don't like are just as protected as religious majorities and people saying things others do like, so should those interested in marriages between consenting adults that the majority of the population would not enter into.

      -Trillian

  68. Typo in proposition 8 by kj_in_ottawa · · Score: 2, Funny

    Upon closer examination a typo was found in proposition 8 that limits marriage to being between one man and one wolfman.

    http://www.theonion.com/content/news_briefs/typo_in_proposition_8

  69. Re:I don't get it - serious question by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What stops Google from giving benefits anyway?

  70. Elimination by Dobeln · · Score: 1

    See, Gay Marriage doesn't threaten marriage, it just mandates its elimination. What's all the fuss about?

    1. Re:Elimination by Alsee · · Score: 1

      See, Gay Marriage doesn't threaten marriage, it just mandates its elimination.

      See, INTERRACIAL Marriage doesn't threaten marriage, it just mandates its elimination."

      One person gives an "IMHO" OPINION that the government should not be involved in legislating marriage.... an argument that I am certain he identically applies to the issue of interracial marriage... and of course some anti-marriage wackjob leaps to the absolutely insane strawman assertion that allowing gays equals "mandating" the elimination.

      Under the Equal Protection Clause of the Constitution the law is not allowed to use race gender and religion as a basis for discriminatory treatment under the law.

      A marriage law examining the races of marriage applicants in an attempt to deny interracial marriages is unconstitutional, invalid law. Yes, it is POSSIBLE to solve that invalid law problem by eliminating all marriage law, or we can simply solve that problem by removing racial examination from marriage law - which leaves no means for the law to exclude interracial marriages.

      The identical situation applies to gay marriage. A marriage law examining the genders of marriage applicants in an attempt to deny gay marriages is unconstitutional, invalid law. Yes, it is POSSIBLE to solve that invalid law problem by eliminating all marriage law, or we can simply solve that problem by removing gender examination from marriage law - which leaves no means for the law to exclude gay marriages.

      Although considering the way you jumped for someone's explicit OPINION for a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT WAY TO RESOLVE THE ISSUE into some sort of "gay marriage MANDATES elimination of marriage", it is probably a complete waste of time for me to even attempt to logically discuss the operation and basis of law, and the hows and whys of valid constitutional law vs invalid unconstitutional law.

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    2. Re:Elimination by Dobeln · · Score: 1

      He suggested solving the problem by abolishing marriage. I commented. Then you jump onto the stage, frothy mouth and all, and start gibbering about interracial marriage. What a spectacle! (Well, not really, but...)

    3. Re:Elimination by Alsee · · Score: 1

      I thought "Gay Marriage doesn't threaten marriage, it just mandates its elimination" was a pretty spectacular leap on your end, so perhaps I was indeed motivated to spectacularism in reply. Chuckle.

      (Spellcheck does not like the word "spectacularism". Stupid dictionaries.)

      I don't think I was "gibbering" about interracial marriage. I think I presented a valid Constitutional argument that the interracial marriage and gay marriage situations are functionally identical. Maybe I rushed over a bit, I had explained it elsewhere in more depth. Under the Equal Protection Clause the law is not to discriminate on the basis of race, gender, or religion. Short of a Constitutional amendment it is impossible to craft a valid law excluding same-gender couples for the exact same reason it's impossible to craft a valid law excluding mixed-race couple. You have to examine the applicants' races in order to exclude interracial couples, and you need to examine applicants' genders to exclude same-gender couples. Substitute gender for race and it's the identical logic. Short of a Constitutional amendment, gay marriage is and can-only-be legal.

      If you think I am in error I'd be interested to hear where. However calling it "gibberish" doesn't give me any hint where or how you think my reasoning fails.

      Do you agree that the law should be blind to race gender and religion?
      And if you do, how do propose to write a law excluding same-gender marriage applications when the law is blind to the genders of the applicants?

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  71. Yes on 8. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yes on 8 plus retroactive enforcement.

  72. Re:Other ways to attract prospective employees to by Whorhay · · Score: 1

    The cost of housing in the bay area isn't something the government can really control unless they step in and tell people they can't sell their property for more than some cap.

    The prices are through the roof because the amount of wealth introduced to the area and the number of people willing to leverage that wealth, or their next 30 years of productivity, in order to live there. If the cost of housing is too hgih for you to stomach don't live their. You can buy two or three times the house for a fifth of the money elsewhere in the country.

    I live in Alabama. My 1800 sq ft home was just over $120k three years ago. Today it's worth about the same amount as my area wasn't affected by the housing bubble. My Salary is $60k. I am by no means a superstar employee and am actually on the low end of the totem pole at my tech job. I have a less than fifteen minute commute through residential neighborhoods every morning. If I lived in San Jose I'd probably need between two to three times the salary just to scrape by and likely have a much longer and less pleasant commute.

  73. No State Institution of Marriage by fishbowl · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I don't think the state should "recognize" or "forbid" ANY "marriage."

    If two people want to enter into a contract that obligates them to sexual monogamy or establishes joint custody of children, etc., so be it, they should be able to do that. And if an insurer wants to give a discount for people in such relationships, then more power to them.

    But marriage shouldn't have any effect on how much tax you pay, and it should not elevate or abridge anyone's rights, ever.

    Traditional marriage favors certain classes of people over others: Good looking people with money and people with certain other social advantages, and people who choose to reproduce, are in a category that finds a natural fit for "marriage", where others do not. The idiom of marriage is simply not a context that fits well in a system of government that is aimed at equal protection and equality.

    It should not be an institution of the state *at all*, and if it were simply a social phenomenon, we wouldn't be having this argument -- and if the ideas behind conventional "marriage" were enforced by binding *contracts*, we would also see very different patterns in the realm known today as "divorce."

    I've just started telling people I don't "recognize" marriage using exactly the same talking points being used against "same sex" marriage, just leaving out the "same sex" parts.

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    1. Re:No State Institution of Marriage by GameMaster · · Score: 1

      I can understand the wish to recognize marriage in government. There is a significant amount of data that shows that stable family units are good for child development and thus good for society as a whole. The problem is that there are two types of marriage. There is legal marriage (the government recognizing a union for tax/benefits reasons) and there is religious marriage (the rules of which vary based on religious beliefs). The way I see it, if anyone can claim that their religious beliefs demand acceptance of same-sex marriage then the government has no business saying that marriage can only be between a man and a woman. That would represent the government suppressing someone's religious beliefs. By extension, at that point, the idea of equal rights would require the government to recognize same sex marriages in the same way it recognizes any other. Any attempt at creating a separate "civil union" is no different, and no less disgusting, than the concept of "separate but equal" was during the racial segregation period.

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    2. Re:No State Institution of Marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So which type of autist are you, and how long have you been a virgin?

    3. Re:No State Institution of Marriage by fishbowl · · Score: 1

      >So which type of autist are you, and how long have you been a virgin?

      I'll claim to be an assburger if it'll get me a job, but I haven't been a virgin since the late 1970s.

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  74. what does "x/y" have to do with the PC boogeyman? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You've never seen "x/y" as a shorthand for "X or Y" before, in any circumstance? How is that PC? idgi

  75. Your modulo by XanC · · Score: 1

    modulo consanguinity or whatever

    Just curious what your reasoning is here. Does this modulo extend to multiple partners? Animals? Why or why not?

    1. Re:Your modulo by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      More importantly, why do you give a shit? God forbid somebody do something in the privacy of their own home that you view as icky.

    2. Re:Your modulo by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      Does this modulo extend to multiple partners? Animals? Why or why not?

      Don't be a moron. I said any 2 adults. Why is it every time someone advocates gay marriage, you get some wingnut talking about marrying a goat? Consanguinity is a reasonable restriction - you don't want a high chance of the kids being inbred. Requiring man + woman is not - the relationships are just as stable, and they're only going to have kids by adoption anyway.

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    3. Re:Your modulo by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This discussion is not about what people (or animals) do in the privacy of their own home. It's about the state sanctioning of a union. Have your goat, but don't expect a tax break.

    4. Re:Your modulo by XanC · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Okay, you said any 2. But why are you imposing your values on everybody? Who gave you the right to say 2 is the magic number? And since we're already saying that marriage has nothing to do with procreation, which we are when we allow homosexual marriage, then why should inbreeding be a concern either?

    5. Re:Your modulo by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Okay, you said any 2. But why are you imposing your values on everybody? Who gave you the right to say 2 is the magic number? And since we're already saying that marriage has nothing to do with procreation, which we are when we allow homosexual marriage, then why should inbreeding be a concern either?

      Any number of willing adults.

      Why should the government care how many people you share your bed with?

      What is the purpose of government anyway? The maintenance of basic security and public order?

      Does 1 man having 2 wives or 2 men marrying make the country less secure or promote disorder? Only if the majority of the public disapproves of it and raises a ruckus.

      The fundamental belief structure of the US has been slowly leaning more and more left over the past 100 years. Why? Hard to say, but perhaps because information and education are more easily available to all classes of people?

    6. Re:Your modulo by Riktov · · Score: 1

      Why should marriage be tied to the issue of having children? The two acts are completely independent of each other, and an enlightened definition of marriage should thus pose no restrictions based on consanguinity. What if one or both are infertile?

      Preventing inbred children is a legitimate concern, but that is, and should be, out the reach of marriage laws.

    7. Re:Your modulo by Riktov · · Score: 1

      Two is, in fact, a somewhat magical number, and thus a legitimate condition for unions (of people or anything else). In a group of two, each member has one and only one partner.

      What if an outside agency (such as the police) is in a situation of having to notify or otherwise grant some priviledge to a person's spouse in an emergency? If the person has multiple spouses, which should come first? If one can't be tracked down, how many more should be tried?

      With just two people, one can't get jealous of the "other". Two or more can't conspire against others.

      As every software tester should know, there are three classes of numbers: zero, one, and more than one. And a partnership by definition is one to one, not zero, no more than one.

  76. Even worse... by Dobeln · · Score: 1

    ...Google is not arguing it's case to the voters. It is arguing for the benefit of a court, as if their recruitment issues could possibly have any bearing on the constitutionality of Prop 8.

  77. "discriminate against those who have faith" by Animaether · · Score: 2

    wow. just wow.

    I'm sorry, how exactly are they discriminating against those who quote have faith unquote?

    Given the context, I can only presume that you are referring to a having a religious faith belief in which marriage is reserved for a man and a woman and no other combination.
    That's all fine and well, but how is Google discriminating against those who have that belief? Are they blocking visitors who have that belief? Are they not hiring people who have that belief? Are they firing those who have that belief?

    There is no discrimination going on there. You are certainly more than free to withdraw yourself as one of their customers, but please don't delude yourself that this is about their decision to accept gay marriage - this is about *you* not being able to accept, or at least tolerate, that decision.

    Just for the record and because I don't feel like making another post on this...
        I don't believe in marriage between gay couples either. Marriage has become, in my opinion, a Christian religious institute, and as long as that particular religion says no to gay marriages, I think that's something we all must either accept - and work to change within that particular religion if one feels strongly enough to do so. ( I figure if 'your' religion says gay marriage is a no-no and you believe otherwise, then maybe you don't quite align with that particular religion.)
        However, I do strongly believe in legal partnerships between gay people with any and *all* rights (and responsibilities) that a marriage would give. That includes tax provisions, insurance provisions, benefits, adoption rights, and so forth and so on. All too often a legal partnership does not even come close to having the same rights (or responsibilities) that a marriage does, and that is truly a travesty that delineates once more the lack of separation of state and church (in many nations that claim to have or support such separation).

    Just my 2cts.

    1. Re:"discriminate against those who have faith" by garett_spencley · · Score: 1

      " I don't believe in marriage between gay couples either. Marriage has become, in my opinion, a Christian religious institute, and as long as that particular religion says no to gay marriages, I think that's something we all must either accept - and work to change within that particular religion if one feels strongly enough to do so. ( I figure if 'your' religion says gay marriage is a no-no and you believe otherwise, then maybe you don't quite align with that particular religion.)
              However, I do strongly believe in legal partnerships between gay people with any and *all* rights (and responsibilities) that a marriage would give. That includes tax provisions, insurance provisions, benefits, adoption rights, and so forth and so on. All too often a legal partnership does not even come close to having the same rights (or responsibilities) that a marriage does, and that is truly a travesty that delineates once more the lack of separation of state and church (in many nations that claim to have or support such separation)."

      Marriage, as an institution, predates Christianity. It is present in virtually every single culture and religion worldwide and has broad social and legal implications.

      Now, if you want to make the argument that "redefining" marriage is outside of the jurisdiction of government and should be left up to those members of faith who want to define it based on their personal beliefs then, fine. I can accept that. However, under that premise government needs to stop licensing marriage, and using the term "marriage" in legal proceedings. Every single "marriage" should become a "civil union", as far as the law is concerned, and every "civil union" must be given the same rights and privileges as married couples have today.

    2. Re:"discriminate against those who have faith" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Marriage has become, in my opinion, a Christian religious institute

      Wow, do you think they have marriages in India? Japan?

  78. Re:Other ways to attract prospective employees to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...do something about the oppressive cost of housing in the bay area. ...do something about the oppressive taxes in California. ...do something about the oppressive traffic.

    ...stop lighting the state on fire every other week.

  79. Best Law Ever by Hordeking · · Score: 1

    This law is probably one of the best I've ever seen. It is simple, short, clearly worded, we know who it effects in all cases. It also clears up a lot of issues.

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  80. Re:50%+ votes should not a constitution change mak by internerdj · · Score: 1

    Now I live in Alabama and judging from how many amendments we have, I think the procedure we use is sneak into the courthouse with a pen. It is much less of a hassle on the voters and lets our politicians do more important things like get into fist fights.

  81. Re:Steve Jobs plans "most unique" death ever by WindBourne · · Score: 1
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  82. Headline and summary a bit misleading... by BaronHethorSamedi · · Score: 2, Informative

    Google isn't formally challenging Prop 8 in court. (I don't think there's any way a corporation would have standing to do so.) They've signed an amicus brief in support of several other cases. An amicus brief only gets as much attention as the judge wants to give it; unlike briefs filed by actual parties, the court can disregard them entirely. Google has essentially just submitted a general statement on its position to the courts--not quite the same as mounting a "challenge" to the legislation.

  83. Re:Google is more unipolar than commonly understoo by clone53421 · · Score: 1

    Unless you were planning on staying in Cali, you probably wouldn't be paying taxes, adopting a child, visiting your spouse in the hospital, getting married, or doing any of the other things that might make life difficult for you as a gay person in California. Three months isn't really that long.

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  84. People are free to be perverts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    People are free to be perverts, but there are consequences. A perversion is something that is either not normal or deviant. Clearly if homosexuality was normal, the rectum would of evolved like a vagina by now. And it should go without saying, that gay sex acts that involve poop are deviant. I don't have any problems with gays, I just don't understand why homosexuality is as socially accepted as it is.

  85. The Lord is your sheppard by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

    I don't get it. Of all the things going on in the World today, I don't get why this is such a hot issue. Actually, I don't get why folks are so opposed to it. It doesn't cause them any harm.

    Sheep don't know why they're all running all of a sudden.
    They just run when the others run. That's how life works.

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  86. Prop 8 isn't all bad. by Hordeking · · Score: 1

    Yanno, the way proposition 8 is worded should impose that much impediment. Couldn't one half of the couple simply declare itself to be the opposite sex (I'm sure there's some legal mechanism now, due to transsexuals doing this somehow.)

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  87. animals are predictable by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

    They get hung up on the word marriage.

    In reality, marriage under the law and marriage in a religious institution are different things with the same name. However, because many people do both things at once and because they don't distinguish between the two things, they get conflated.

    But in reality the people who really really want gay marriage also want to gay marry in a church (they want what others have).

    And then things get territorial...

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    1. Re:animals are predictable by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

      I'm a straight male. I'm also an atheist. Legally, I can not be discriminated against due to my (lack of) religion.

      However, I can not get married in a Roman Catholic Cathedral, or a Jewish Temple, or a variety of other religion's places of worship

      If I really, really, really wanted to get married in their building, and I sued over it, I'd lose due to the first amendment rights those religions have.

      Religions would have the same right to reject gays that they have to reject atheists, or anyone else.

  88. Then support Lawrence Lessig by Yvanhoe · · Score: 1

    Yep. What is called lobbying in US is called bribery in most parts of the world. While I tend to agree with Google's position, it should not be able to interfere with the legislative process (note that here, they are doing a judicial action, not a legislative initiative). But if you want to forbid corporations influence on congress, support the campaign to change congress and stop voting for candidates according to their party, vote for those who commit at not using private funds for campaigning.

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  89. Off-topic much? by znerk · · Score: 1

    Your "littleurl" link points to http://youngfoxredux.blogspot.com/2009/01/take-walk-through-gaza.html - although I don't understand why you felt the need to hide that with a contrived url. I'm not saying your cause is unjust, or even that you'll ever see this now that you've drive-by spammed a forum with it (congrats, by the way, you gained a pageview due to my curiosity).

    For those who are curious but don't want to reward AC link spam with page hits, the referenced page talks about the atrocities in gaza, and calls for some political action amidst the finger-pointing propaganda.

    Come to think of it, we should all be this conscientious, and just have *one* page hit generated by random AC link spam, by someone who then reports what it is - that way, the spammer doesn't get a reward, and those of us with a curiosity bordering on OCD can be satisfied without having to click an "unknown" link.

    Please, don't let this post threadjack anything, I just wanted to point it out for what it was.

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    1. Re:Off-topic much? by clone53421 · · Score: 1

      Wow, I'm surprised you were brave enough to click it. I figured it was probably goatse.

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    2. Re:Off-topic much? by znerk · · Score: 1

      Well, running in a sandbox (ie, a virtual machine), I'm alright with whatever happens to my "surfing rig" - restoring from a snapshot fixes any issues, and there are no hardware concerns ;)

      As for goatse - well, after having seen it a few times, the burning retina sensation and nausea is barely noticeable.

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  90. The deal with marriage comes down to this... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There are two dimension to marriage. The cultural/religious and the legal. The legal dimension is at a government's discretion to deal with via due process, legislation, etc. Do what you want with that.

    The cultural/religious dimension is not ours to define or redefine. It crosses history and cultures. It doesn't belong to us.

    In addition the term "marriage" was associated with the religious dimension long before the legal so the term stays with the former.

    I would think that the religious dimension can and should be separated from the legal dimension if for no other reason than the separation of church and state.

  91. It's an ammendment... by HikingStick · · Score: 1

    The courts are constitutional offices. A court can rule that a law is unconstitutional if the law contradicts protections and definitions in the constitution. Once an ammendment is passed, it is treated with the same weight and force as the constitution (by definition, the ammendment adds to the original constitution). On what grounds could the courts side for Google? They certainly cannot cite constitutional grounds, since the ammendment passed.

    If the people of California do not like their constitution (as ammended), then they should take steps to repeal that ammendment (re-ammending the constitution).

    As a society, we have agreed upon this constitutional form of government. If it is to prevail, we cannot allow the courts to redefine the constitutions of the various states or this nation by simple judicial edict. If we were to allow that, then the courts would have supreme authority in our states and nation, and there would be no checks and balances. As constitutional offices, courts must abide by constitutional writ. Constitutions may be ammended, but that is typically far more difficult that passing a new law.

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    1. Re:It's an ammendment... by Todd+Knarr · · Score: 1

      An amendment becomes part of the constitution, yes. But unless it specifically says so, it also does not remove other parts of the constitution. So while for instance the amendment may prohibit issuing marriage license to same-sex couples, it doesn't relieve the state of the requirement elsewhere in the constitution to not grant privileges to some citizens not granted to all (CA Constitution Section 7 paragraph b: "A citizen or class of citizens may not be granted privileges or immunities not granted on the same terms to all citizens. Privileges or immunities granted by the Legislature may be altered or revoked.").

    2. Re:It's an ammendment... by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      The courts are constitutional offices. A court can rule that a law is unconstitutional if the law contradicts protections and definitions in the constitution. Once an ammendment is passed, it is treated with the same weight and force as the constitution (by definition, the ammendment adds to the original constitution). On what grounds could the courts side for Google?

      They made an amendment to the California state constitution that is blatantly against an amendment of the US constitution. Guess which one trumps the other?

    3. Re:It's an ammendment... by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      A court can rule that a law is unconstitutional if the law contradicts protections and definitions in the constitution. Once an ammendment is passed, it is treated with the same weight and force as the constitution (by definition, the ammendment adds to the original constitution).

      If validly passed, a constitutional amendment (one "n") or revision (the two are different things in California) does become part of the Constitution. However, the question here is whether Proposition 8 was validly passed -- it was passed as an amendment, the more minor form of Constitutional change under the CA Constitution, and the challenge that Google (and others) are making is that it is the kind of change that can only be passed as a revision because it affects the "underlying principles" of the Constitution. Since Proposition 8 was submitted as a citizen initiative, which is valid for an amendment, but not for a revision (which must be submitted either by the legislature or a constitutional convention), if it is the kind of change that requires a revision, it is invalid and has no force at all.

      Determining whether it is a valid amendment is a legal question within the well-established authority of the State Supreme Court.

      If the people of California do not like their constitution (as ammended), then they should take steps to repeal that ammendment (re-ammending the constitution).

      The Constitution of the State of California restricts how that Constitution can be amended or revised. If you do not like the way it does so, and that it sets up two different kinds of changes with different rules, you should take steps to change that Constitution.

      As a society, we have agreed upon this constitutional form of government.

      Yes, we have. The issue is whether Proposition 8 was validly approved given the terms of the State Constitution. Part of the whole Constitutional form of government is that the Constitution itself limits how it can be changed.

    4. Re:It's an ammendment... by HikingStick · · Score: 1

      But what in the U.S. Constitution is blatantly against the change to the California constitution?

      Paraphrasing: those powers not expressly provided to the Federal government are reserved for the States and the People.

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  92. Bzzzt Wrong: Re:I'm against the by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Let churches do church stuff. Let the state do state stuff.

    If that's what you want to do then fine, but remember this comes with a cost:

    If the state does not perform marriages and only recognizes civil unions then some things will need to be changed:

    1. Marriages can't be legally binding unions. Only a 'Civil Union' joins two individuals before the law.
    2. Churches and religious figures cannot perform legal ceremonies joining two individuals (ie: No doubling up on the marriage & civil union at the same time). Thus 'Civil Union' ceremonies would have to be performed by public servants, be they judges or some other appropriately certified individual.

    And don't forget, just because your church won't sanction a gay marriage, doesn't mean that other's won't.

    So what are you trying to accomplish by stopping the state from performing 'Marriages'? Are you going after the United Church of Christ next?

  93. Citation needed. by Ungrounded+Lightning · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Gays are a minority in America. They're not a minority in higher-level jobs requiring an education.

    That's a very strong assertion.

    What evidence is there that more than half of the people in "higher-level jobs requiring an education" are homosexual?

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    1. Re:Citation needed. by Tanktalus · · Score: 2, Funny

      Gives a whole new meaning to "Old Boys' Club", don't it?

    2. Re:Citation needed. by Ungrounded+Lightning · · Score: 1

      Gives a whole new meaning to "Old Boys' Club", don't it?

      Quite.

      Also: If the majority of executive suite jobs actually WERE filled with gays it would give educated heterosexuals with lower-level jobs an incentive to do all they can to run the gays out of the state, if they could manage it without driving the company out, too.

      Opening up half or more of the higher-level positions would vastly improve their chances for job advancement.

      So I suspect that such claims of high gay representation in high-level positions, if believed, will hurt, not help, the cause of those making them.

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    3. Re:Citation needed. by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Personal experience, mostly. I really get the impression every other programmer I met is gay or bisexual. And actually many of the better ones are.

      My theory runs along the lines that gays usually don't chase skirts during their high school years and, not wanting to be labeled a fag at school, focus on learning instead of going out. See it as some sort of being forced to be a nerd.

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    4. Re:Citation needed. by Opportunist · · Score: 1

      Don't think lemonparty, don't think lemonparty, don't think lemonparty....

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    5. Re:Citation needed. by dogmatixpsych · · Score: 1

      You can't bring too much logic into /. discussions; it causes some people's heads to implode. :)

    6. Re:Citation needed. by b4dc0d3r · · Score: 1

      New? I don't think so. *winks* Ever heard of Greek?

    7. Re:Citation needed. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And actually many of the better ones are.

      That's nice to know. (Gives me great hope for my future :P )

    8. Re:Citation needed. by u-235-sentinel · · Score: 1

      That's a very strong assertion.

      What evidence is there that more than half of the people in "higher-level jobs requiring an education" are homosexual?

      You presume he needs evidence to support his statement :-)

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  94. In other ironic news... by dbmasters · · Score: 1

    For the few days before the election hundred s of AdSense publishers were pissed off because AdWords advertisers were buying up every spot possible to show their pro-prop-8 ads all over the AdSense network...they were especially abundant on GLBT web sites, which I personally got a good chuckle out of.

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  95. That is dangerous thinking by Technopaladin · · Score: 1

    1. Its Defined NOW as man+woman might check your history books for previous definitions which include: Man+ many women, Man + Litle girls, Little boys + little girls and So on. The 5000 year old history you mention has had some DOOZY of Marriages which i kid you not include Marriage to GOD, Gods, and other forms that are worshipped. Other Awesome institutions people voted for- Slavery Segregation Teaching creationism No INTERRACIAL marriages Some really spectaculary stupid or evil politicians.

  96. its sad when by nimbius · · Score: 1

    basic human rights now require corporate firepower. i suppose its been effective up till now with foreign visas, daylight savings time, internet law to seek corporate masters though. maybe this will work too?

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  97. Get Real by Slasher+Dave · · Score: 1

    Wow, there sure are alot of assholes in Califoria.

    OR maybe they're not really jerks and revilers, just normal people tired of the tyranny of political correctness in this country.

    Time to stop labeling people who don't bow to the Gay movement as heartless abusers.

    1. Re:Get Real by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      "tired of the tyranny of political correctness in this country"

      So you've decided to replace it with your own brand of tyrrany?

      Nice going, Pol Pot.

      "Time to stop labeling people who don't bow to the Gay movement as heartless abusers."

      How dare you.

      They're not asking you to bow to anything, you divisive bigot. All they're demanding is the right to get up off their own knees and stand beside you as equals.

      What label would you use for anyone who would deny their fellow man such a right? How can you even imply that such a label is somehow unwarranted, or unearned?

      (And yes, I can say with resolute and immediate authority that California is, in fact, chock full of assholes, of every brand, stripe, and political leaning)

    2. Re:Get Real by Slasher+Dave · · Score: 1

      > So you've decided to replace it with your own brand of tyrrany?

      Um yeah, it's called DEMOCRACY ...

      > They're not asking you to bow to anything, you divisive bigot. All they're demanding is the right to get up off their own knees and stand beside you as equals.

      Right, marriage determines equality. Gotcha.

      > What label would you use for anyone who would deny their fellow man such a right? How can you even imply that such a label is somehow unwarranted, or unearned?

      The People of California? Sorry but different states think differently and I'm sorry if that offends you. But freaking out and yelling Biggot also probably doesn't help.

      > (And yes, I can say with resolute and immediate authority that California is, in fact, chock full of assholes, of every brand, stripe, and political leaning)

      Stay out of California I guess (and Arkansas, Georgia, Kentucky, Michigan, Mississippi, Montana, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon and Utah)

  98. Re:50%+ votes should not a constitution change mak by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 1

    Absolutely. The root cause of the entire Proposition 8 debacle was the naive and frankly dangerous way in which Californians make changes to their constitution. Constitutions are vitally important legal documents, any changes to which should be carefully debated, reviewed, revised and audited before being made.

    Even in countries that have referendums to change constitutions, both upper and lower houses of parliament, as well as the head of state and possibly the supreme court, must all sign off on any proposed amendment before it is sent for a general popular vote. Even then, many countries require a 60% majority in order for the amendment to be passed. In Germany, they don't even have referendums! In California, you need only find, persuade or trick 8% of the population into signing any old rag of a proposition, and it will be placed right there on a statewide ballot.

    The result is predictable. Demagoguery, emotion and populism rule at the Californian ballot box. Forget Proposition 8. Look at Proposition 2! Rules on poultry production?! I don't care what side of that debate you are on. A state constitution is not an appropriate place for any such legislation. But that's where it ended up.

    Such an outcome scrawled all over the pages of the Californian constitution makes me question just how serious Californians are about the legitimacy of their state and its rights. I ask, in all seriousness, whether such a state as this, which allows such capricious changes to its core laws, should be considered as a legitimate political entity? I note that the state cannot even balance its books, a task which is practically fundamental to the existence of any political body.

    In short, should Californians really be left to govern themselves anymore?

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  99. Gay Marriage by a+whoabot · · Score: 1

    Gay marriage is an issue of freedom of association and personal action and discrimination within government recognition of associations.

    Some people believe that there should be total freedom of personal action and of association, so long as you do not hurt of infringe anyone else's rights. On this view, there is, I believe, only two possible responses as to what the government should do about gay marriage: Recognize it, or not recognize any marriages whatsoever.

    But it does not end there: The same principle -- that people should be allowed to do whatever they want without infringing on the rights of others -- which forces this move, forces other things as well. For example, if multiple people wanted to get married (polygamy) they would be allowed. This is an issue right now in Canada/BC, where Winston Blackmore (a fundamentalist Mormon) and a an associate of his have been charged with the crime of polygamy. Note that no gay marriage advocacy groups have at all loudly stood up to defend these fundamentalists' non-mainstream marriage arrangements, even though the same argument they use to push for recognition of gay marriage can be used to push for recognition of polygamous marriage. It would also force recognition of incestuous marriage for example: A father and his daughter, assuming both of consensual age, for example, could both wish to get married, and their getting married wouldn't infringe on anyone else's right. Yet no groups demand for incest rights like they do for gay rights. This is because of hypocrisy: They are morally uncomfortable with incest just as other bigots are morally uncomfortable with homosexuality. And it does not stop at issues of marriage. The same principle would imply that for example suicide should be allowed, or assisted suicide. Or cannibalism (this was an issue in Germany recently where one man chose for himself to be killed and partially eaten by another; the cannibal was nonetheless convicted though he infringed no one's rights). Or the use of hard drugs must be allowed. One's use of cocaine does not infringe on anyone else's rights. But the reason prohibitions are made on substances like cocaine is because there is this thought that when it is allowed that so many get addicted to the drugs that the society/economy as it is begins to break down, and society should not be allowed to break down in this way. This brings you to a differing view than the one first mentioned: Here there are things which override individual freedoms of personal action and association, such as economic sufficiency of the political body as a whole.

    Well that's my view anyway: If you think that the government can prohibit things like drug use, or incest, or cannibalism, then you have no argument that they should not prohibit homosexuality because of gay rights, because that depends on there being underlying human freedoms which must respected in the first place! You have to bite the bullet so to speak.

    1. Re:Gay Marriage by toadlife · · Score: 2

      You are oversimplifying the issue. Things like drugs and polygamy and suicide are outlawed because, at some point a consensus was reached that those things did harm too much harm to society as a whole to be allowed.

      How much harm drugs, polygamy, or suicide do to our society is still debated, and I've heard rational (or at least semi-rational) arguments on both sides of those issues, but I have never ever heard a single rational argument as to how gay marriage harms our society.

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  100. some, maybe, but not all by Reality+Master+201 · · Score: 1

    I know at least two gay couples that would like to marry, and neither has any interest in doing so in a church.

    And, in fairness, there's nothing wrong with them wanting to get married in a church. If their church allows for that, then all's well. Gay marriage legislation should in no way require that clergy perform marriages for gay people.

    1. Re:some, maybe, but not all by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

      I know at least two gay couples that would like to marry, and neither has any interest in doing so in a church.

      The entire two gay couples you personally know are not in the "some" I mentioned? What a lovely and inconsequential anecdote.

      And, in fairness, there's nothing wrong with them wanting to get married in a church.

      I said they would get territorial, not that they would get fair.

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  101. Re:0.21% of California Married Couples are Geniuse by TooMuchToDo · · Score: 1

    Civil rights > Budget issues

  102. Not quite by name_already_taken · · Score: 1

    Huh? I could list my garbage collector as my beneficiary, if I wanted to, and nothing could stop me.

    The difference is that the garbage collector wouldn't be allowed to live in your house and claim it as their own until your will had gone been executed properly or gone through probate, and your remaining family members could challenge the validity of the will, keeping your beloved garbage collector out of the house for more time during his time of bereavement.

    For example, if your parents' house was only in your dad's name - Can you imagine, if your dad passed away and then your mother wasn't allowed to stay in the house for a month or two? That's what you're talking about.

    I have watched a friend be kicked out of his own house when his partner passed away. He was given 15 minutes, by his partner's daughter, to gather his things and get out. If they had been legally married, this could not have happened.

    The hospital visitation problem is a real issue. Married people have no problem visiting each other in a hospital, but a gay person's partner can be refused entry to their hospital room - for example by a family member who doesn't get along with the partner, unless some specific legal papers have been drawn up (you actually have to carry those papers with you). That's just not right.

    There are a lot of parts of legally recognized marriage that can be simulated through clever lawyering, but the simple matter is that there is no substitute.

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    1. Re:Not quite by halivar · · Score: 1

      He was given 15 minutes, by his partner's daughter, to gather his things and get out. If they had been legally married, this could not have happened.

      It can, and it does happen all the time. Even legal marriage, with it's default assumptions, is not replacement for specifying your own beneficiaries.

  103. From what I read... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Let's break it up:

    Google's California Supreme Court filing arguing for the overturn of Proposition 8...Google's support of same-sex marriage puts it on the same page with Dan'l Lewin, Microsoft's man in Silicon-Valley, who joined other tech leaders last October to denounce Prop 8 in a full-page newspaper ad.

    It's saying that Google is saying no to prop 8, which is very nice. It's good to see a big company doing this. Respect for all!

  104. Re:0.21% of California Married Couples are Geniuse by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Because FREEDOM is what the revolution was fought over. Freedom is what the civil war was all about. Freedom is the underpinning of the society of the United States. Unless there's freedom, then your whole house of cards is nothing but icing on manure.

  105. Re:He is Mormon. He was in my Mormon congregation. by stephentyrone · · Score: 1

    I understand that you might see the LDS Church's views as hateful. We can agree to disagree and that is why this country is great.

    No, we can't.

    Using the ballot proposition system to take explicitly take rights away from a minority group, when those rights pose no risk to anyone else's rights and are allowed to the majority is wrong, unethical, and of questionable legality.

    Funding groups that want to do so, on the basis of delusions in which an imaginary man in the sky tells you that said minority group is evil, is hateful at best, but probably more aptly described as psychopathic or paranoid-delusional.

  106. why just two people? by Reality+Master+201 · · Score: 1

    Why not a polygamous civil union? I mean, it's not my kind of thing (having one wife is enough work for me, thanks) but why limit it to just two people?

    1. Re:why just two people? by deraj123 · · Score: 1

      I have nothing against that. However, you would want to look at if the rights that come with it are still valid for 100 or 200 person unions (if you're not going to limit the number, you should consider worst case scenarios...).

  107. The voting may be over, but the wrangling isn't... by weston · · Score: 1

    The voting may be over, but court still has some right to review the law. The question is if they have any room left to maneuver and if they're inclined to do so. With the state constitution amended, I suspect they really have one option, and that's to find that the amendment Prop 8 enacts runs afoul of the U.S. Constitution, in which case, they'd be tossing the case up to the federal level. It's not clear the court would do this, however -- the court was pretty closely divided on the decision that overturned prop 22, and a second public referendum that amends the state constitution might be something one of the judges wouldn't be willing to overturn. On the other hand, there may be other ways to toss this into the federal system.

    In short, there are fewer options for prop 8 opponents, but it's not necessarily over.

  108. One day a man woke up by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... and decided he'd had enough. Things would have to change.

    He was bone-weary of discrimination and shame and reproach. The way he could feel people looking at him, mocking him -- sometimes subtly, sometimes not. The way people talked about him, about people like him. The sneering, caricatured representations in movies. Everywhere, the pressure, the rejection -- singling him out as a second-class citizen, as substandard, as (at best) silly and ridiculous, or (at worst) weak and deficient. Not good enough.

    But it was all ignorance and lies. He was born this way. God made him the way he was. He could never recall a time when he was any different. And no one had a right to say it was wrong.

    He'd tried to change, and his efforts had always failed. So, early in life, he'd accepted the way he was. He'd told his parents and friends that he was what he was, and they must accept him as such. Stop pressing him to change. The way he lived was natural to him, and he wasn't going to spend his life in misery and guilt trying to change something he not only was powerless to change, but had no real reason to change.

    So, now fed up, he found ways to take legal action, and political action. He formed PACs and organizations. It took years, and money, and a lot of hard work. But finally he had success.

    Victory came the year that his state's legislature passed, and the Supreme Court upheld, the "Bariatric Freedom Act." It was now there, set in law: anyone weighing under four thousand pounds must be called "thin," and must be protected from all forms of discrimination.

    The ramifications were instantaneous, and widespread.

    Medical research was funded for the purpose of proving that all weight-ranges were equally healthy. What were formerly viewed as health-risk factors were attributed to negative societal pressure and stereotyping. Medical groups redefined their weight charts and standards to accommodate and approve all weight-ranges equally.

    Clothing stores were required by law to carry shirts in sizes up to 10X, pants in sizes up to 125 waist, 27 inseam, and dresses up to size 75. It became illegal for WalMart, Kmart, or any other store, to charge more for "extra" sizes, since that category was rendered illegal. Any clothiers with terms like "big" and "large" in their titles found themselves athwart the law, with all people now legally "thin." Thousands of small clothing stores went out of business in the first year, and department stores took to selling only one pattern, since the size-range took up their entire department. (Then the government took over the clothing industry.)

    Businesses who used visual ads were required by law to prove that they employed models of every weight-range equally. Alternately, they were permitted to hire "blind," using a number system, contracting models sight-unseen. Gyms were required to install equipment equally accommodating every weight; their instructors were required to tell every customer that he was at his perfect weight, and shouldn't change. (The government took over that industry after three months.) Body-building competitions were required completely to rewrite their criteria, and closed down after one month.

    Surgeons who performed liposuction and other plastic surgeries were required to document recommending lipo-insertion surgery to patients who weighed under 4000 pounds.

    Airlines were required to install an equal amount of roomy, extra-size seats. This cut the amount of tickets they could sell per flight by 50%. They were also prohibited from raising prices to compensate. When every airline declared bankruptcy the following week, the government took over the airlines. Inter-state travel ground to a halt.

    Movie studios became vulnerable to lawsuits if their products contained language or materials discriminatory to "alternative bodystyles." Movies and TV shows went into production portraying the "ample" lifestyle as healthy, happy, normal and desirable.

    Gymnastic and other sports events were required to issue "weig

    1. Re:One day a man woke up by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Straw man arguments are lies.

  109. Marriage == religious? No. It's not ambiguous. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I disagree: that's not how we use the word. The terms "married," "marriage," etc. now have a very strong secular meaning. Words can mean more than one thing, and the primary meaning of "marriage" now is a legal status, a secular meaning. Whereas "civil union" is much more rarely heard. Try it yourself: if someone tells you that Sasha and Pat are married, honestly can you draw a reliable conclusion about whether they are religious or not? I can't. The concept of marriage is deeply engrained in American secular society and in law, and I don't think it's confusing anyone. We don't need to clarify that two people getting quote married unquote before a justice of the peace are not really getting married, just civilly joined.

    Also, IIRC, religious officiants cannot effect civil unions: rather the couple must get a marriage license just like anyone else. In other words, no one gets to override the state's opinion of who is married and who is not. Ask any breakaway polygamous Mormon sect whether I'm right.

    And I don't think you've described accurately how most religions work; for instance, if a married couple converted to Roman Catholicism, I don't think they would have to get re-married by a priest; rather the church would, I bet, recognize the state's authority to marry. So I don't think we have two systems shadowing each other. Though I bet you are right that it could get pretty complicated with annulments. Likewise if Alice had spouse B and spouse C, and if B was religiously joined to her, but C had a valid marriage license, I have no doubt to whom a judge would give the estate if Alice left no will and was accidentally run over by a coach.

    Since words can mean more than one thing, I'm comfortable with continuing to use the word "marriage" to represent a legal, secular concept and also letting the word have some religious shading. I don't think it's confusing at all. Birth and death are also terms with legal significance and meaning, and regarding which various religions make claims, but I think we all manage pretty well to infer the meaning from context.

  110. Mod parrent troll by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If the post had stopped after the first paragraph maybe it would have been insightful. But after that is it just a trollish personal attack.

  111. Re:0.21% of California Married Couples are Geniuse by tragedy+in+chaos · · Score: 1

    No, no... Googles intentions here are purely economically based.
    Gay marriage can save the economy.
    And yes, I know this for a fact, as Neil Patrick Harris said it himself.
    And when was the last time NPH was wrong?

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  112. There's a term for Murray's behavior... by macraig · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    But oddly, Microsoft HR Chief Mike Murray cited religious beliefs for his decision to contribute $100,000 to 'Yes On 8', surprising coming from the guy who had been charged with diversity and sensitivity training during his ten-year Microsoft stint.

    This is what we call cognitive dissonance... or disingenuity.

    The guy's delusional in any case, first for thinking there's some supernatural omnipotent creature that would actually give a crap about the sexual habits of mere ants, and second for thinking that some shards of literature from over 2000 years ago could actually be at all descriptive of the motives of this alleged supernatural omnipotent creature.

  113. Should we allow more than 1 wife too? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not sure how can you win in court against the law. Most of the laws are written based of majority, all the court supposed to do is rule according to those laws. If people passed prop. 8, that's a new law (and constitutional one too)... I mean the law which doesn't not allow person to have more than 1 husband/wife is also based on majority norms. Somehow I don't see Google going against that.

  114. Staes Rights by Slammer64 · · Score: 1

    What get's me is all the folks wanting to usurp the lawfully made decisions of the electorate of California. "We don't like this law, just because (supply a reason), so we'll throw it out, whether the voters who voted for it in the first place like it or not".

    1. Re:Staes Rights by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      What get's me is all the folks wanting to usurp the lawfully made decisions of the electorate of California. "We don't like this law, just because (supply a reason), so we'll throw it out, whether the voters who voted for it in the first place like it or not".

      States rights don't trump the US constitution. Even if half the state of Florida votes to make it illegal for blacks to vote, the federal government won't let the law stand. Sorry, but states rights only apply to items not enumerated in the Constitution. It's a valid issue of states rights if the feds butt in when there is no constitutional amendment, but that is not the case here.

    2. Re:Staes Rights by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The entire reason a government exists is to protect its citizens, and if it is instead repurposed to hinder their freedom, it is an invalid and unjust government.

    3. Re:Staes Rights by MilesAttacca · · Score: 1

      They can be trained to like the repeal of Prop 8, just like they were trained to like Prop 8 in the first place. All it takes is a little money, some scare-tactic pamphlets, and a TV commercial or three.

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  115. Google Should Stick To Search by WebmasterNeal · · Score: 1

    Perhaps I'm the 'minority' on slashdot but I think Google would be better off sticking to search engines and the web than getting into politics.

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  116. Remember the hype, forget the correction by MisterSquid · · Score: 1

    It is interesting to think what would have happened if the black turnout hadn't been so extraordinary thanks to Obama, I seem to remember exit polls saying that most african american voters voted against gay marriage.

    Those exit polls were exaggerated.

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    1. Re:Remember the hype, forget the correction by bnenning · · Score: 1

      Yes and no. Black voters were only somewhat more likely than average to vote for Proposition 8 (58% vs 52% according to your article), but they were substantially more likely to vote for it than was the average Obama voter. Still, probably not enough to swing the results.

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  117. Re:Other ways to attract prospective employees to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Oppressive"? I suspect you don't really know anything about oppression. The most simple and direct solution to the problems of housing costs and traffic are for you to leave. Go back to wherever you came from. Take all of your friends and family with you. And FYI, taxes in California aren't all that high and are clearly not high enough for state and local governments to fund the services we require of them.

  118. Re:Do no evil... by toadlife · · Score: 1

    Stand to Reason offer good arguments against "gay" marriage, for the good of society

    So what are those "good arguments", and why didn't they make them during the campaign for prop 8?

    Or are outright lies considered "good arguments" to you fundies?

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  119. How do they expect that argument to win? by mdmkolbe · · Score: 1

    Company XYZ: People don't like to come here and work for us because of Law FooBar (e.g. taxes to high, speed limit to low, handguns illegal, etc.), therefore the law is unconstitutional and the State Supreme Court should overturn it.

    Would anyone buy that line of reasoning about any other topic?

  120. Re:50%+ votes should not a constitution change mak by Tenek · · Score: 1

    The California constitution has two sorts of changes: amendments, which as previously noted require only a majority of voters, and revisions, which require the voter approval in addition to a 2/3 legislative majority in each house. Unfortunately, damned if I can figure out what it means to be a "revision" vs. an "amendment".

  121. The Bible doesn't have a problem with homosexuals by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... people do. Leviticus was defining rules for the Jews to differentiate themselves from the people around them. Those rules don't matter to most Jews now. (See Jews wearing cotton/polyester blends and eating shell fish). Why they ever mattered to Christians and Muslims is beyond me.

  122. You show exactly why gay marriage is a problem by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You say "I don't get why folks are so opposed to it. It doesn't cause them any harm".

    You know, if that were true, I don't think you'd find hardly any objection at all to gay marriage (except maybe a radical fringe). I personally believes gay relationships are wrong, but I don't think my will should be imposed on anybody. That's the great thing about this country, we have the freedom to undertake whatever actions in our private lives we want.

    However, in California, the same "benefits" that one gets from marriage, you can get from civil unions as well. Why then are homosexuals so adamant about getting "marriage"? This is the part that upsets people because the homosexuals are interfering with the private lives of religious people. Here are some examples:

    Adoption services:
    In Boston, Massachusetts (where gay marriage is now legal), Catholic Charities refused to place children with same-sex couples as required by Massachusetts law. After a legislative struggle â" during which the Senate president said he could not support a bill "condoning discrimination", they were forced to do adoptions for same-sex couples if they did adoption services. They declined and pulled out of the adoption business in 2006.
    Source: http://www.catholic.org/national/national_story.php?id=19017

    Medical services:
    A Christian gynecologist at North Coast Women's Care Medical Group in Vista, Calif., refused to give his patient in vitro fertilization treatment because she is in a lesbian relationship, and he claimed that doing so would violate his religious beliefs. (The doctor referred the patient to his partner, who agreed to do the treatment.) The woman sued under the stateâ(TM)s civil rights act. The California Supreme Court ruled just a short time ago that the woman's right to medical treatment trumps the doctor's religious beliefs. The doctor is forced to perform the insemination for the lesbians or be stripped of his medical license.
    http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-supreme19-2008aug19,0,2388017.story

    Housing:
    In New York City, Yeshiva University's Albert Einstein College of Medicine, a school under Orthodox Jewish auspices, banned same-sex couples from its married dormitory. New York does not recognize same-sex marriage, but in 2001, the state's highest court ruled Yeshiva violated New York City's ban on sexual orientation discrimination. Yeshiva now allows all couples in the dorm.
    http://www.jewishsf.com/content/2-0-/module/displaystory/story_id/15919/edition_id/311/format/html/displaystory.html
    http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9E02EEDD1E3CF936A15755C0A96E958260

    Private match making:
    eHarmony, a private business, might be forced to match gays against their will.
    http://www.onlinedatingmagazine.com/news2008/eharmonyclassacrtionlawsuit.html

  123. Tolerance != Acceptance by da007 · · Score: 1

    "But oddly, Microsoft HR Chief Mike Murray cited religious beliefs for his decision to contribute $100,000 to 'Yes On 8', surprising coming from the guy who had been charged with diversity and sensitivity training during his ten-year Microsoft stint."

    Just because he tolerates other lifestyles does not mean he should change his beliefs. As long as he's not endangering others, he has every right to express his opinion and his beliefs without being labeled as a bigot. Is his personal opinion less important just because he's not a minority?

    1. Re:Tolerance != Acceptance by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      Just because he tolerates other lifestyles does not mean he should change his beliefs. As long as he's not endangering others, he has every right to express his opinion and his beliefs without being labeled as a bigot.

      Paying people money to fund their attempt to pass unconstitutional laws to delay people from being able to exercise their fundamental rights is more than expressing an opinion, it is taking an action.

      Is his personal opinion less important just because he's not a minority?

      No, but his actions are un-American and bigoted. He's spending money to fight against freedom and to try to delay minorities from being able to exercise their rights. Saying you don't think homosexuals should get married is exercising your freedom of speech and I'll fight to protect his right to say it. Trying to prevent them from being able to do so by passing unconstitutional laws is something else entirely and I'll fight to protect the rights of those he's attacking.

    2. Re:Tolerance != Acceptance by da007 · · Score: 1

      After this, will you fight for the rights of the minority who are not "wired" for monogamy so they can exercise their right to multiple partner marriages?

    3. Re:Tolerance != Acceptance by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      After this, will you fight for the rights of the minority who are not "wired" for monogamy so they can exercise their right to multiple partner marriages?

      Personally, I have no problem with polygamy and don't see why it is illegal, but at least it is not so blatantly unconstitutional to ban polygamy. Polygamy involves multiple partners rather than dealing with the race, sex, or religion of the parties involved.I don't really care if people are "wired" for homosexuality or polygamy or if it is simply a lifestyle choice. I value freedom, and that means the freedom of people to choose to do whatever they bloody well want to so long as it is not taking away the freedoms of others. So sure, I'll fight for people's freedom to enter into polygamous relationships and still get married.

  124. Re:He is Mormon. He was in my Mormon congregation. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How would you like it if your marriage was annulled because, say, the Catholics didn't approve of it?

    Funny you should ask

    The linked Wikipedia section doesn't mention Catholics, but it does summarize the beginning and end of the practice of plural marriage among mormons and the major role played by law therein. Mormons are acutely aware of what it means to have religious practice circumscribed by legislation.

    Moreover, citing the Supreme Court of the United States, "laws are made for the government of actions, and while they cannot interfere with mere religious belief and opinions, they may with practices." The church's support of proposition 8 is fundamentally different from the people's opposition to the practice of polygamy in the 19th century: it was never the agenda of the mormons--the church or its members--to dictate what homosexuals do in private or how they might define their relationships. Proposition 8 is about the state granting recognition and privilege to the union of people, and doesn't claim the power to restrict same-sex couples in any practice whatsoever.

  125. A+ with a gold star! by rts008 · · Score: 1

    Concise, well thought out, simple to understand, truly captures the essence of group behavior.

    Very well done, Sir!!

    Yours is one of the more insightful comments I've seen on /. in a while.

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  126. Moral Free Politics by alexander_686 · · Score: 1

    I would disagree with you. This Monday, I might suggest that you contemplate where we would be if a Reverend had insisted that "Separate but Equal" was not. Saying that all people are equal came from a profoundly religious place. Political questions are rarely strictly technical question. Values and morality often come into play. To say that religion has no comment on politics would leave religion a shallow thing - just rites that one performs on the holy days. Politics would be equally improvised as well, having no moral compass. Freedom of Religion. Not Freedom from Religion. Love and Respect. Do not hate and condemn. Stepping off my soap box now.

  127. Re:50%+ votes should not a constitution change mak by __aabvlw4075 · · Score: 1

    Apparently, NL = The Netherlands, in case anyone else didn't know that...

  128. Worst possible thing that could happen. by LWATCDR · · Score: 1, Informative

    And if the over rule the amendment you will see a National Constitutional amendment and it will pass.
    Simple reason is that just about every politician including President Obama in the US has said that they believe that marriage is between a man and a woman. The then say that they also believe that is should be left up to each state.
    Well California voters have voted not once, not twice, but three times to not have gay marriage.
    This will prove that it can not be left up to the states and it will go national. So far only two states out of 50 have gay marriage and those have not put it up to a popular vote. Do the math and you will see that a national constitutional amendment would pass very easily. Once passed it would be very hard to get ride of.
     

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    1. Re:Worst possible thing that could happen. by amRadioHed · · Score: 1

      President Obama, like most sane politicians, also believes that an amendment regarding gay marriage would be inappropriate in the Constitution.

      Also the fact that a state is having trouble coming to a consensus on a state issue does not make it a national issue. Other states have not had problems and California will resolve the issue in time as well. And I'm quite certain California will eventually resolve the issue in favor of gay marriage. The gay marriage ban support is dropping quickly and the Prop 8 supporters lucked out this time because the opposition was poorly organized.

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    2. Re:Worst possible thing that could happen. by jythie · · Score: 1

      The support for a national one simply isn't there, and the support has been decreasing every year. The states that have pushed ammendements through locally know their window to do so is closing.
       
      Even the california one, if they had waited a few more years it probably would not have worked.

    3. Re:Worst possible thing that could happen. by jonadab · · Score: 1

      > Do the math and you will see that a national
      > constitutional amendment would pass very easily.

      It would only pass easily if you let the general public vote on it. I'm not convince the politicians would ever let that happen.

      > Once passed it would be very hard to get ride of.

      But if it does happen, can we next go for an amendment to make marriage last until death by definition?

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    4. Re:Worst possible thing that could happen. by Mr.+Mikey · · Score: 1

      Check again... President-Elect Obama has spoken out against Proposition 8. And, given our current troubles, I hardly think the Obama Administration is going to make a Constitutional Amendment for this, of all things, a priority.

      California voters can't vote something in which is un-Constitutional, no matter how many vote for it. We don't live in a pure democracy... a fact for which I am eternally grateful, as I don't want to end up being in the 49% of the population that can be held hostage by the other 51% in a pure democracy.

      It remains to be seen whether Proposition 8 was Constitutionally valid.

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    5. Re:Worst possible thing that could happen. by moosesocks · · Score: 1

      I should probably point out here that a constitutional amendment requires 2/3 of the states to approve it.

      I find it fairly unlikely that it would pass, especially given that the inclusion of the word "marriage" would almost certainly require the modification of the first amendment as well. There's very little room to wiggle around the fact that marriage is a religious institution.

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    6. Re:Worst possible thing that could happen. by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      "California voters can't vote something in which is un-Constitutional,"
      A constitutional amendment DEFINES what is constitutional. That is how you change the constitution.

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    7. Re:Worst possible thing that could happen. by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      Okay to pass it would take 2/3s right?
      So it would take 34 states to pass the law.
      43 states already have laws or amendments that ban gay marriage.
      In fact only 3 states have laws that allow it and those where not passed by popular vote.
      Do the math and you will see that a national amendment would pass probably tomorrow. And it would be very easy to pass.

      "Thirty-nine states already prohibit gay and lesbian couples from marrying with laws modeled after the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). Passed by Congress in 1996, the federal DOMA bars federal recognition of same-sex marriages and allows states to ignore gay marriages performed elsewhere. Four states (Maryland, New Hampshire, Wisconsin and Wyoming) have laws or court rulings prohibiting same-sex marriage that predate the federal DOMA. "

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    8. Re:Worst possible thing that could happen. by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      "But if it does happen, can we next go for an amendment to make marriage last until death by definition?"
      Yes you could. But that wouldn't pass.

      I swear didn't any of you people take a government class in High School?

      At one time the Constituion allowed slavery. That was changed by an amendment. Then the passed an amendment that made selling alcohol illegal. Then the passed one that made it legal again.
      The Constitution can be amended any way the people want.

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    9. Re:Worst possible thing that could happen. by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

      I suggest that check again. He has also stated that he believes that marriage is between a man and a woman. He will not push for it but also will not stop it.

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    10. Re:Worst possible thing that could happen. by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      California voters can't vote something in which is un-Constitutional, no matter how many vote for it. We don't live in a pure democracy... a fact for which I am eternally grateful, as I don't want to end up being in the 49% of the population that can be held hostage by the other 51% in a pure democracy.

      Prop 8 actually changed the constitution which makes it constitutional. If you read the ruling that overturned the last gay marriage ban law, it didn't list anything specific in the constitution to make it unconstitutional, it simple stated (with profound objections from the other justices) that the constitution didn't allow the discrimination of the sex of couples getting married. They injected a meaning to the state constitution that wasn't specifically listed and prop 8 does nothing but specifically lists inside the constitution what marriage is and who can do it.

      It remains to be seen whether Proposition 8 was Constitutionally valid.

      You really need to pay attention more. Prop 8 in itself isn't being constitutionally challenged. The way it amended the constitution is. The opposition is attempting to claim that the amount of votes for it aren't or shouldn't be enough to change the state constitution despite the constitution itself describing the exact ways it was and has been amended. A problem that will come of this is that all the other constitutional amendments from previous years will be up for grab or invalidation also. This means things like limits on emintent domain will fall, school funding, redistricting the political boundaries and many many more as well. There has been 15 other amendments since 2000 alone that will be invalidated as soon as anyone with standing challenges them. So if their challenge works, then when "evil Corp" decides your home would make a nice shopping mall, they can challenge the constitutional prohibition of using eminent domain to further private companies and make the city condemn your property to build the mall, factory or whatever they seem fit.

  129. Re:The voting may be over, but the wrangling isn't by jeff4747 · · Score: 1

    With the state constitution amended

    There's the problem right there.

    Prop 8 was a simple majority ballot proposition. Minor additions to the CA constitution are allowed using this method. Prop 8 supporters claim it's a minor addition.

    However, modifications of the CA constitution require a 2/3rd super majority in the statehouse to create a constitutional convention in order to modify the state's constitution.

    Since the CA constitution required recognition of gay marriage before, it requires modification in order to no longer recognize gay marriages (or so argue those who oppose prop 8).

    So the situation is not as cut-and-dry as you were thinking

  130. fascinating by Phantom+of+the+Opera · · Score: 1

    romans 1:26-1:27

    "And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet."

    The book indicates that women are meant to be used. The writing style indicates that it is written to a male audience. The passage below would seem to prohibit being effeminate. If that applies to women, its a much stranger culture than I'd realized.

    1 corinthians 6:9-6:10
    "Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,"

  131. Domestic Partnerships=Marriage in California by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_partnership_in_California

    California has had Domestic Partnerships since 1999. This has given gay couples the same protections under the law as married couples. The whole argument is not about rights being infringed. It is really about the word MARRIAGE.

  132. stratospheric whoosh by StandardDeviant · · Score: 2, Informative

    Whew, that's a level of whoosh I'm having a hard time distinguishing from trolling, but I'll make a go at explaining it. I'm not talking about workplace discrimination (which is a separate evil that I will leave aside for brevity), I'm talking about the laws of the society itself being altered by bigots to discriminate against a group of citizens. In my mind Prop 8 is functionally indistinguishable from the anti-mixed-race-marriage laws of the last century, which aptly met their demise in the 1967 Supreme Court decision Loving v. Virginia.

    Now I'm sure the nimrod brigade will respond with "BUT DUH STDDEV, WHY NO WORKPLACE IF GOOGLE COMPANY WORK WORK WORKPLACE DUH PC DUHHHHHH????". Let me try to fill in the very short lines and dots here: Google is a company whose primary operations are in California. If California passes laws that negatively impact the civil liberties of current or potential Google employees, Google is an interested party in trying to get those laws repealed because it places an artificial restraint on their already difficult job of finding the cream of the computing crop to solve hard problems. That supporting the efforts to repeal Prop 8 is a morally correct decision is just icing on the cake, from a business standpoint.

  133. What's the point? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    > You won't be allowed to see your same-sex partner in the hospital dying, because you're not "family"...

    What's the purpose of a family, then, when they won't raise kids? Some might and there are ways, but I doubt they refer to us as "breeders" because they plan to have kids. And what restrictions, if any, may the government place upon it?

    Couldn't the hospitals just change their rules? Doesn't the part about spousal rules make it just a matter of money? If that's true, won't non-gay people just marry in order to get more money or benefits? And won't that just lead to companies cutting all benefits for married people once they get too expensive?

    Finally where were the gay activists when the Mormon fundamentalists in the "polygamist cult" were being rounded up? If it's none of the government's business who you marry, why should they care how many people you marry? If it's none of their business, it should be none of their business, right?

  134. Hey jackass by copponex · · Score: 1, Troll

    The reason we supposedly fight wars is for the rights and freedoms of all men and women. If there was no constitution, there would be nothing worth fighting for. The "counter culture circle jerk" is probably the only reason you have the right to vote if you don't own property, or if you're black, or a woman, or a native American. The same circle jerk is the reason you don't work 16 hours a day from age 14 until you die of exposure to your work environment.

    But let me translate for you: shut the fuck up, you ungrateful little shit. People have fought and died for your rights and their own, which are far more important than money. Or at least they used to be.

    1. Re:Hey jackass by TheNarrator · · Score: 1

      If I said this kind of thing on a mormon message board I'm sure I'd get flamed just the same but with an opposite political narrative.

      You think I'm a brainwashed Rush Limbaugh listener. They'd think I'm a brainwashed left-winger atheist from the bay area.

      That's what 95% of people are because they don't actually dig into the details of things and just listen to people who do their thinking for them and tell them what to think about.

  135. Gay marriage is discriminatory! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Gays say that they are missing out on various benefits because they cannot get "married".
    They cite this as discrimination and unfair.

    Actually their push for "gay marriage" is discriminating against all those who are married in the traditional sense.
    How is this?

    Marriage at the moment gives certain benefits to those who are married.
    One man and one woman who are married get these benefits.
    Among other things this helps bring up kids and helps the society in the long term.

    However once an institution or policy is watered down, and watered down again and again it ends up meaning nothing and no one benefits.

    Let's say that "gay marriage" is made the same as marriage.
    It is a watering down of what marriage is.
    There will also be a watering down of the benefits given to all who are "married".

    Let's take it further into the future.
    It is not hard to see that there will be a push for other types of marriage now that the gate is open.
    There are those who want polygamy. There are those who want other types of "unions".
    Two men and one woman, two women and one man, three men, three women, any combination of four or five or six, etc.

    Once this happens there will be a further watering down of governmental "benefits" to all these "marriages" as it's now basically anything and everyone.
    In the end all benefits will cease. Those gays who wanted the benefits won't be getting them and those that were getting benefits will have lost them.

    If it is discrimination that people don't get benefits then gays pushing for marriage are actually pushing for the loss of the benefits currently given to those who get it. This is discrimination.

    Marriage is one man and one woman for life and open to children.
    Open to children has been taken away with contraception.
    For life has been taken away with divorce.
    The last plank to go is one man and one woman.

    I'm reminded of the movie "The Incredibles".
    Buddy selling his "super" inventions said he will sell them to all so that everyone is "super".
    Then he said, "and when everyone is super... no one will be".

    When everyone is married... no one will be.

  136. Let's try your statement a few different ways... by Xebikr · · Score: 1

    Those people are homosexual, not exactly the kind of people you want working for you if you're looking for smart people...
    Those people are black, not exactly the kind of people you want working for you if you're looking for smart people...
    Those people are women, not exactly the kind of people you want working for you if you're looking for smart people...
    Those people are athiests, not exactly the kind of people you want working for you if you're looking for smart people...
    Those people are Jewish, not exactly the kind of people you want working for you if you're looking for smart people...
    Those people are Swedes, not exactly the kind of people you want working for you if you're looking for smart people...

    Have you ever considered that your opinions may be considered bigoted?

  137. "Arab" isn't a continent. Rest of comment ignored by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    DUH.

    DUH.

    Oh, I forgot: DUH

  138. Follow the French by taniwha · · Score: 1

    they have this one nailed - everyone gets 2 marriages - first they go to the town hall and get hitched in the eyes of the state, then off to the religious institution (or not) of their choice to do it in front of their god.

    So "civil marriage" and "religious marriage", one has to do with the state, taxes, laws, etc etc (rendering unto Caesar if you will), the other to do with the religious side of things, if that's your thing.

    The real problem here is trying to conflate the two entities who tend to be involved with marriage

    The answer here is simple - the state gets to decide who's civilly married (they have human rights laws, etc etc), churches get to choose who they will do the god thing with - they're both forms of 'marriage', both valid within their own sphere - the state doesn't get to tell the churches who they can marry, but equally the churches don't get to tell the state. Equally churches don't hand out tax benefits, the state doesn't get to confer blessing from dieties

  139. The missing link here? by rts008 · · Score: 1

    Whether same-sex relationships should occur is a social issue, without being a political issue.

    40+ states having laws that specifically forbid sanction of same-sex relationships kind of argues against you.

    You are just arguing semantics at this point.

    Social issues are what drives politics, then react to politics in a negative feedback role.
    Social issues are what causes politics to happen in the first place.
    Politics result from the attempt to resolve social issues between groups/individuals.
    Think it through...

    Think of it like this:
    Social Issues are like parents, Politics are like the bastard step-children.

    They are linked, driving each other.

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    1. Re:The missing link here? by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      40+ states having laws that specifically forbid sanction of same-sex relationships kind of argues against you.

      No, it isn't.

      Whether the relationships should occur is a social (or moral) issue.

      Whether they should be recognized by the state is a political issue.

      Again, views of the former certainly color views of the latter. Note that I was responding to a post claiming that the state recognition issue was a social, not a political issue.

      You are just arguing semantics at this point.

      No, I'm not. I suspect that you just took made a kneejerk reaction to the first sentence of my post (the GP) without reading the next sentence (the first two sentences are the same social/political division as in the beginning of this post) or the post it was responding to (which characterized the state recognition issue as social.)

      Either that, or you read the post, and missed the whole point.

    2. Re:The missing link here? by rts008 · · Score: 1

      Either that, or you read the post, and missed the whole point.

      No, i am not interested in a faulty viewpoint. I read your post...completely.

      You are still focusing on the oddball leaf, instead of the tree-forget about the forest!

      To address you in a way that will not warp your mind:

      1.Whether the relationships should occur is a social (or moral) issue.

      2.Whether they should be recognized by the state is a political issue.
      (artistic license to adding #'s 1. and 2. to your quote just for clarity)

      *1. You are beating a dead horse=not productive, and social issues still drive politics.
      2. You miss the point that Society drives/forces/enables politics! WTF??!!??

      No, I'm not. I suspect that you just took made a kneejerk reaction to the first sentence of my post (the GP) without reading the next sentence (the first two sentences are the same social/political division as in the beginning of this post) or the post it was responding to (which characterized the state recognition issue as social.)

      Uhmmm...No.
      I have the parent, Gparent, the GGParent posts open here while replying:\
      'All your base belong to us.'

      *You are still neglecting Social Issues driving Politics, which SI's drive Politics.

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    3. Re:The missing link here? by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      You are still focusing on the oddball leaf, instead of the tree-forget about the forest!

      You clearly don't even know what "the forest" is. The post was a response to a very specific claim, and you aren't even disagreeing with waht I said.

      *1. You are beating a dead horse=not productive, and social issues still drive politics.

      For the first part of that, I don't know what "dead horse" you are referring to. For the second part, that's exactly what I said, in both GP and GGGP, so clearly you either aren't reading the posts you are responding to, or you are deliberately misrepresenting what you are responding to in order to present the exact same position as if it was a disagreement.

      2. You miss the point that Society drives/forces/enables politics! WTF??!!??

      You are repeating what you said at the end of #1; again, since I specifically said that views social issues drive views on political isssues, you are either not reading what you are responding to or misrepresenting it deliberately just to argue.

      In GP, I said:

      Whether the relationships should occur is a social (or moral) issue.

      Whether they should be recognized by the state is a political issue.

      Again, views of the former certainly color views of the latter.

      So, I didn't "miss" the fact that political views are driven by social views, I stated it explicitly. Earlier, in GGGP, I said (and this is the whole post) in response to the claim "The problem is, this isn't really a political issue, it is a social issue.":

      Whether same-sex relationships should occur is a social issue, without being a political issue.

      Whether same-sex couples are given the same treatment under the law, without unequal or supposedly "separate but equal" treatment under the law, is a political issue.

      Prop. 8 relates to the second, not the first, and is therefore political. Of course one's view on the social issue is likely to color one's view on the political issue, but that doesn't stop the political issue from being a political issue.

      So, even from the beginning, I explicitly noted that views of social issues drive views of political issues. The whole point I was making, and which missed, was responding to the claim that the issue involved in the law at issue here is not a political issue. I was at no point denying (indeed, consistently I have explicitly stated) that the views on the political issue here are driven by social views, I was merely responding to the claim that the issue is purely a social issue and not at all a political one.

      You should not talk about anyone else missing the forest.

      I have the parent, Gparent, the GGParent posts open here while replying.

      Then you either had them open without reading them, lack the ability to comprehend basic English, or are deliberately misrepresenting them.

  140. Re:The Bible doesn't have a problem with homosexua by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Wow.
    I bet you have a PhD in systematic theology.

  141. Seriously? by MrHyd3 · · Score: 0

    Google is doing this for exposure and that's it. Why tear apart a person (Microsoft guy) because he believes in something. When can people actually believe in something and not be called a HATEMONGER, Homophone, XenoPhobe, Racist?! I don't care if couples want to be together, but call it something else. I don't see straight people angry about the word GAY meaning homosexual when it used to mean "happy" or joyuous?!?! What about a PROP 8 to call GAYS something else because they took over the word GAY...see how dumB this all is? Move Along...

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  142. sorry but by Slasher+Dave · · Score: 1

    I see nothing inappropriate about a Church encouraging their members to be active in a current political issue and last time I checked people are free to donate to whatever cause they like.

    However, there have been some allegations of the church contacting non-members which must be reported to the state and wasn't.

  143. Re:Let's try your statement a few different ways.. by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

    None of those are choices you make in life. I did not choose to be born in Sweden, and cannot really do anything about it, a gay man did not choose to become gay, and cannot do anything about it. A religious fundamentalist chose to become one, and can do something about it, just like a racist chose to become one, and can do something about it.

    They may have been brainwashed as children or whatever, but that's really not an excuse for any kind of intelligent person to let such nonsense influence what rights other people should or should not have.

  144. Off-Topic Amicus Brief by maz2331 · · Score: 1

    The issue before the Court is whether the amendment passed is or is not a fundamental change to the state's form of government. Those require legislative approval, whereas other amendments do not.

    The potential impact on those affected by the amendment may be a valid political concern, but it is not a valid legal concern, nor does it have any bearing on the only possible reason to declare the amendment invalid.

    The only other possible claim is that it's invalid under the Federal constitution, in which case it will end up in a Federal court, and eventually be considered "valid" by SCOTUS by a 5-4 vote.

    There's a potential for some nasty backlash if the court does overturn this proposition as well - a possible voter backlash forcing the state legislature to vote the court as constituted out of existence or limiting it's jurisdiction radically.

    Using the judiciary to overturn any referendum that passes a majority vote is dangerous ground.

  145. Why bother? by polaris408 · · Score: 1

    I don't follow how the particular marital laws in a state would prohibit workers. Google is probably one of the best software companies in the US and probably the world. If people want to work there and are gay, I'm sure they'll be more than happy to forgo the term "married." California has laws already on the books that enable every other right they would get as a married couple.

    So why bother? The only other reason is that someone at Google wants to use their law team for political purposes, which I think shareholders won't be too happy about.

    1. Re:Why bother? by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      I don't follow how the particular marital laws in a state would prohibit workers.

      Who claims they do? It's not a matter of prohibiting workers, but making it harder for Google to hire and retain workers because of an unconstitutional law. Google is just claiming the effect upon their hiring gives them standing to sue and it is the unconstitutionality of the law that makes it illegal.

      If people want to work there and are gay, I'm sure they'll be more than happy to forgo the term "married."

      You may be sure, but it is the objective facts that matter, not your opinion.

      So why bother?

      Maybe they're tired of their top talent leaving and taking jobs with IT firms in Mass. Maybe they're doing this to try to stop some of those people from leaving. Maybe they're losing out when trying to recruit talent because people would rather move to other states or Europe because of anti-gay laws. Maybe none of these things have happened yet, but HR is concerned they will. Maybe Google is just using this as an excuse so they can get good press. Why do you care enough to post about it?

  146. Non-sequiter by Mesa+MIke · · Score: 1

    Me: "I don't think same-sex unions should be endorsed by the government."
    You: "People said the same thing about interracial marriages."
    Me: "So you think the government should approve of homosexual unions?"
    You: "Of course."
    Me: "People said the same thing about slavery."

    1. Re:Non-sequiter by ral8158 · · Score: 1

      So, in other words, any use of an example from history or a logical metaphor is automatically incorrect because you say so.
      I like your debate style.

    2. Re:Non-sequiter by n6kuy · · Score: 1

      My point is that because the prohibition of interracial marriage was a mistake, it's not automatically a mistake to prohibit marriage on some other basis.

      It's as much a non-sequiter as claiming that since it was a mistake for government to allow slavery, then it's also a mistake for government to allow anything else.

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      If you disagree with me on social issues, then it's pretty clear that you are a narrow-minded bigot.
  147. Re:Other ways to attract prospective employees to by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...do something about that oppressive sunlight

  148. Divorce as sin by xswl0931 · · Score: 1

    According to the Bible, the only acceptable reason for a divorce is if your spouse committed adultery. Otherwise, if you divorce and remarry, you've committed adultery yourself. Why doesn't the church fight as hard to enforce this rule of divorce as they fight to prevent marriage?

  149. Actually you get screwed by wsanders · · Score: 1

    Actually, you pay about 10 or 15% more in taxes when you get married but don't have kids, and both spouses have about the same income. Basically, the tax rate for Married Filing Jointly is higher for a given income than the same Single rate for 1/2 that income. Plus deductions for things like mortgage interest deductions, RothIRAs, charitable deductions, etc phase our for MFJ filers at less than 2X the caps for Single filers.

    So, yeah, unless you have kids, no one gets married for tax reasons.

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    1. Re:Actually you get screwed by Pollardito · · Score: 1

      You're right, sorry, I was including all the economic benefits of two people living together with marriage. While being married implies the other savings, you can get the savings living together sans marriage.

  150. In California by wsanders · · Score: 1

    In California domestic partnerships have pretty much the same rights as married couples; community property is IIRC one remaining gap.

    But, "separate but equal" is a discredited legal doctrine for almost everything else, why not marriage.

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  151. Re:Other ways to attract prospective employees to by mako1138 · · Score: 1

    As a Bay Area resident, let me say:

    Help! Help! I'm being oppressed!

    But seriously, it's not that bad.

  152. Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Insightful

    > The only actual arguments I've seen against gay marriage are based on religious beliefs.

    Okay, I'll bite. This is my opinion after some consideration, and I suspect my libertarian, pragmatic perspective will show. I am currently unpersuaded, but could be, to change my mind. I would welcome any calm discussion on the point.

    I support marriage as an important government interest, with appurtenant rights, benefits, and the like. The simplest reason is that marriage produces children, and provides a support structure in which they can be raised to responsible adults. We, as a society, acknowledge this. That's why we don't cede children to the state to raise in some nationwide program. That's why we return displaced children to foster families (albeit often imperfectly). Marriage is a family structure that grows the population and, this is important for the government, creates future citizens of the country in the most healthy way we have in widescale practice.

    There it is. The government of our society places a value on citizens for a future government. To encourage future citizens -- thus continuing the government and society -- the government provides benefits to its citizens who form the family structure. Yes, some married couples chose not to have children, or cannot. That does not, in any way, contradict the nuclear family's benefits and the government's interest in supporting them. These benefits have a dollar value attached. Tax credits, insurance breaks, free spousal benefits -- these are all provided to married couples at a cost to the government. In return, the average married couple provides children, which continue society.

    This is the secular, often unspoken purpose. There are societal reasons, including legitimatizing heredity, or religious reasons, but the reason the government supports marriage with rights and benefits is that it guarantees a future for the country.

    Gay couples cannot produce children. Any children present in a family headed by a gay couple are artificially placed and impossible without assistance from a third party. Considering our chromosomal structures, this is unlikely to change in the foreseeable future, with the possible exception of artificially created daughters for lesbian couples. Regardless, gay couples simply cannot reproduce. They can adopt -- as can single or heterosexual couples -- where the law permits. (I don't support impeding adoption for gays, by the way.)

    Gay couples are formed for societal, personal reasons that have nothing to do with marriage in the religious or governmental definitions. The congregation of gays as couples makes perfect sense to some of them. Love is, truly, blind. There is no need for marriage, of any type, for a gay couple to live out their life in harmony with each other. The drive for marriage arises for two reasons that I can understand:

    1) Societal acceptance and recognition on par with heterosexual marriages; and
    2) Access to rights and benefits accorded married partners

    The notion that gay couples desire government intervention and labeling to validate their relationship sickens me more than anything I hear from either side of this debate. My position is non-religious.

    The desire for a group of individuals to require society to extend a set of rights and privileges to them in exchange for... nothing is pure entitlement. At base, with religion and talk of rights placed aside, this is what we're talking about.

    Marriage as a right is a canard in this day and age, for governmental purposes. Marriage is still discriminatory as practiced by religious groups. If marriage as a right were at stake, the gay community should be outlawing religions that practice it. But it's not. Marriage as a government right doesn't exist.

    Anyone can be married by a religion, and happily so to the end of their days. The state chooses not to recognize some marriages, however, such as polyamorist marriages. The reason a seemingly child-buster like that is no

    1. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by meosborne · · Score: 1

      Your argument has a serious, fundamental flaw. I could possibly agree with it except that it is not applied across the board to all individuals, but instead singles out homosexuals. Please explain how an infertile heterosexual couple qualifies, and yet an infertile homosexual couple does not? Either couple requires third party help to obtain children and yet you accord the children of infertile heterosexuals as worthy of societal benefits and the children of infertile homosexuals are unworthy. Are the homosexuals children not part of the future society?

      You claim to not oppose adoption by homosexuals, but deny those children the protections marriage affords. It seems you care far more for what kinds of sexual organs the parents have than the actual children.

    2. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your argument has a serious, fundamental flaw. Please explain how an infertile heterosexual couple qualifies, and yet an infertile homosexual couple does not?

      I recognize that it's imperfect, but no system applied to hundreds of millions will handle every circumstance. Marriage might not be the right choice for many heterosexual couples, either. It is, I believe, still the best option for stable societal growth.

      You're completely correct that some couples cannot or choose not to have children. The tradeoff here is extending benefits to the largest group of people -- heterosexual couples -- with the potential to reproduce and raise children in the best way possible. The logical extension of this argument (mine) is to screen heterosexual couples for fertility and/or intent to reproduce prior to recognizing their marriage for government benefits. I believe the social pressure against that would be too great, and the cost of such screening probably outweighs the cost expended by the government on non-reproducing heterosexual married couples. But that's not to say it isn't a logical continuation. Anyway, no system of government incentive will be perfect. This one just seems to be working pretty well. Changing it, even in the year of change, is probably untenable.

      Either couple requires third party help to obtain children and yet you accord the children of infertile heterosexuals as worthy of societal benefits and the children of infertile homosexuals are unworthy. Are the homosexuals children not part of the future society?

      You're conflating child benefits with spousal benefits. Anyone who adopts, gay or straight, is eligible for child benefits, such as tax breaks and subsidized education. That's fine, and shouldn't be changed. It's closely tailored to children. What we're talking about is spousal rights. A single parent with a child (gay or straight) has full child benefits, just as a married, heterosexual couple has full child benefits.

      You claim to not oppose adoption by homosexuals, but deny those children the protections marriage affords. It seems you care far more for what kinds of sexual organs the parents have than the actual children.

      Again, see above. Child benefits for any guardians/parents of children, natural or adopted. Fine. Spousal benefits for the general population, gay or straight? No. No potential for children in gay marriages. Why incentivize it with tax dollars?

    3. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      Gay couples may not be able to reproduce on their own, but as you noted, and do not object to, they can adopt. Is this adoption not beneficial to society? If the child has been abandoned by its biological parents, don't the gay couple adopting that child provide a service to society as beneficial as that of couples having and raising children on their own? Is it then not only right that this couple receive the very same rights and benefits as other couples raising children?

      Also, with your argument, why would you support civil unions for these gay, supposedly childless couples, which confers mostly the same rights, except the name "marriage", or things like visitation rights in hospital stays outside of the territory where that civil union is recognized?

    4. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by Mr.+Mikey · · Score: 1

      There's another fundamental flaw in this argument... the assumption that same-sex couples aren't raising children right this very minute.

      They are.

      Indeed, a lesbian couple can (via artificial insemination, or even natural insemination) give birth and raise children.

      The "extending benefits to the largest group of people" argument works for, not against the legal recognition of same-sex couples via the institution of marriage. The "largest group" in this case is "couples", but you are trying to tell us that the "largest group" is actually "mixed-sex couples."

      The logic of this escapes me.

      There is a potential for same-sex couples to raise children. They're doing it right now.

      As for not restricting marriage to couples who are fertile and intend to reproduce - which would be the logical and consistent application of your "incentivize the production of children" stance - we used to require blood tests before marriage, so requiring a fertility test shouldn't be a problem, particularly for males.

      Nope, not buying it... it all sounds like just more attempts at giving bigotry a justification.

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      wants to be the first monkey to touch the monolith
    5. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Gay couples may not be able to reproduce on their own, but as you noted, and do not object to, they can adopt. Is this adoption not beneficial to society? If the child has been abandoned by its biological parents, don't the gay couple adopting that child provide a service to society as beneficial as that of couples having and raising children on their own? Is it then not only right that this couple receive the very same rights and benefits as other couples raising children?

      So, then, if we're talking about marriage and spousal rights for adoptive parents in a gay couple, that I can understand. But we're not. We're talking about a blanket extension for a group that is categorically unable to reproduce.

      Also, with your argument, why would you support civil unions for these gay, supposedly childless couples, which confers mostly the same rights, except the name "marriage", or things like visitation rights in hospital stays outside of the territory where that civil union is recognized?

      Because, as I pointed out, these rights have no tax cost. Who can visit a patient in a hospital doesn't require filing with the IRS, or otherwise represent a cost absorbed by society. Where I draw the line is the cost to society of marriage for spousal rights. Where there is no cost -- civil unions -- I'm fine.

      Finally, I hope you note a non-homophobic, non-religious argument against universal gay marriage. You may not agree with it (and I respect your right to disagree. I think reasonable minds can differ on this topic) but I hope you realize that someone who doesn't agree with you doesn't have to be a bigot or religious fundamentalist.

    6. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I would also add, because I keep forgetting to, that this argument seems to me to reduce to: "Because some heterosexual married couples do not have children, extending spousal tax-supported benefits to all heterosexual married couples who have, on the surface, the potential for childbearing is flawed. Therefore, you should extend spousal tax-supported benefits to all homosexual married couples who have no potential for childbearing."

      That makes no logical sense. The correct approach is to more narrowly tailor benefits to childbearing heterosexual married couples, rather than extend them to a group that cannot possibly create children without support.

    7. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      So, then, if we're talking about marriage and spousal rights for adoptive parents in a gay couple, that I can understand. But we're not. We're talking about a blanket extension for a group that is categorically unable to reproduce.

      You don't actually address the issue though.
      From your post:

      Marriage is a family structure that grows the population and, this is important for the government, creates future citizens of the country in the most healthy way we have in widescale practice.

      You state create specifically, but you also bring up "in a healthy way". If two straight parents created a child, but have no means of, or don't want to raise this child in a "healthy" manner, and a gay couple steps in to raise the child in a "healthy" manner, then why would that couple not deserve the rights, benefits, and protections as a couple that the couple who had the child, but gave it up, have?

      Because, as I pointed out, these rights have no tax cost. Who can visit a patient in a hospital doesn't require filing with the IRS, or otherwise represent a cost absorbed by society. Where I draw the line is the cost to society of marriage for spousal rights. Where there is no cost -- civil unions -- I'm fine.

      Civil unions, at least here (gay marriage should become legal this year if the parties can stop bickering, they all support it, except for the small christian democrats, who unfortunately are part of the government coalition), confer all the rights and benefits of marriage, except the name "marriage". There is no additional cost of marriage.

      Finally, I hope you note a non-homophobic, non-religious argument against universal gay marriage. You may not agree with it (and I respect your right to disagree. I think reasonable minds can differ on this topic) but I hope you realize that someone who doesn't agree with you doesn't have to be a bigot or religious fundamentalist.

      Homophopic, that's debatable. But in any case, your argument is certainly the argument of a cold-hearted penny-pusher.

    8. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You don't actually address the issue though.
      From your post:

      Marriage is a family structure that grows the population and, this is important for the government, creates future citizens of the country in the most healthy way we have in widescale practice.

      You state create specifically, but you also bring up "in a healthy way". If two straight parents created a child, but have no means of, or don't want to raise this child in a "healthy" manner, and a gay couple steps in to raise the child in a "healthy" manner, then why would that couple not deserve the rights, benefits, and protections as a couple that the couple who had the child, but gave it up, have?

      Because it requires both; it's a logical and: create the child and raise it in a healthy environment. Heterosexual couples can do both. And, more to the point, they are the only couple capable of reproducing, absent means available to single persons at prohibitively high cost.

      Civil unions, at least here (gay marriage should become legal this year if the parties can stop bickering, they all support it, except for the small christian democrats, who unfortunately are part of the government coalition), confer all the rights and benefits of marriage, except the name "marriage". There is no additional cost of marriage.

      Civil unions cannot file with the IRS as "Married, filing jointly", including a raft of deductions available to married couples unless their state recognizes gay marriages. You're incorrect on their equivalence for tax burden to the government and society as a whole.

      Homophopic, that's debatable. But in any case, your argument is certainly the argument of a cold-hearted penny-pusher.

      I have no fear of gays. If I did, I wouldn't be in favor of criminalizing discrimination based on sexual orientation, or desire for access to adoption rights for them. This may seem schizophrenic for you, but I reach my positions based on the principles I hold, which do not necessarily conform to a religious, political, or any other ideology. As far penny-pinchers go, I think you have it wrong. It's not that I don't want to spend my money. It's that I don't think the state (through me) should be able to spend your money.

    9. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is a potential for same-sex couples to raise children.

      Raise? Agreed. Produce? No. No more than a single person. And, accordingly, no more benefits than are accorded a single person with a child... that is, no tax-supported spousal benefits.

      Nope, not buying it... it all sounds like just more attempts at giving bigotry a justification.

      Bigotry:

      1. stubborn and complete intolerance of any creed, belief, or opinion that differs from one's own.

      I could accuse you of the same because you don't tolerate my argument or opinion, but I don't. I believe reasonable minds can -- will -- differ. I reached my position after a lot of independent thought, and without any religious fanaticism or influence. For that reason, I'm open to changing it, but I haven't heard a compelling argument yet. Gay marriage as a fundamental right? That would be something. As I pointed out, however, the notion of gay marriage as a "fundamental right" seems, to me, far too recent. How did everyone miss that right, while considering others, for thousands of years?

      Anyway, I reject your bigot tag as an easy way to dismiss me. Not everyone who disagrees with you is a bigot. Some just disagree. I have what I consider to be a reasonable position, and I'm open-minded. I wish I could say the same for everyone in the debate.

    10. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      Because it requires both; it's a logical and: create the child and raise it in a healthy environment. Heterosexual couples can do both. And, more to the point, they are the only couple capable of reproducing, absent means available to single persons at prohibitively high cost.

      Okay, taking your argument at face value I would assume you're also in favor of revoking the marriage license of a married couple who has not reproduced within a set number of years of getting married? Also, of course, any couple that would give up their child for adoption for whatever reason will lose their marriage license. And of course be required to pay back to the state any taxes lost because of this illegitimate marriage? Obviously, there would also have to be a fertility test in order to get the marriage license, and if one of the parties can not conceive children, they will of course be denied a marriage license?
      If you do not support the above, I can only conclude that you are a hypocrite, using the argument that marriage should exist only to encourage procreation to exclude gays from the institution of marriage for whatever other reason you may have.

      Civil unions cannot file with the IRS as "Married, filing jointly", including a raft of deductions available to married couples unless their state recognizes gay marriages. You're incorrect on their equivalence for tax burden to the government and society as a whole.

      I was speaking of local conditions here in Sweden, where civil unions do confer all the rights of marriage except the term "marriage".
      However, I can only assume that civil unions are valid for filing jointly for state and local taxes in the US states that have them?

    11. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by meosborne · · Score: 1

      Criminy, but you go to great lengths to support your illogic. Doesn't it make your head swim?

      So, children derive no benefits from marriage according to you. Or is it that they do, but only for an opposite-sex couple whether the children are naturally conceived or not. Your focus is NOT on the children, it is merely the gender of the parents.

      I think the term bigot applies. When given couples whose sole and only difference is that one is a same-gender couple you always choose to deny benefits to the same gender couple. Gender is the sole deciding factor. You justify this by simply saying that no system is perfect. Huh? I hope that you are never subjected to someone applying such logic to your life.

    12. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by meosborne · · Score: 1

      So, then, if we're talking about marriage and spousal rights for adoptive parents in a gay couple, that I can understand. But we're not. We're talking about a blanket extension for a group that is categorically unable to reproduce.

      This argument is NOT valid unless you apply to *all* couples who are "categorically unable to reproduce" which does, in fact, include some heterosexual couples. When you allow non-fertile heterosexual couples, but deny same-sex ones the rationale is solely gender, not fecundity. You are disingenuous. Your argument is simply non-rational at that point and you've crossed over the bigotry line.

      Why can't you just be honest and just say that you don't think that same-sex couples should have such rights instead of hiding behind straw men?

    13. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by meosborne · · Score: 1

      The correct approach is to more narrowly tailor benefits to childbearing heterosexual married couples, rather than extend them to a group that cannot possibly create children without support.

      Actually, since it would quite easy to implement, the correct thing would be to tailor benefits to any couple with children. Please explain how the manner in which the children arrive is even relevant. Children are children. Again and again you simply suspend all of your criteria when it would apply equally to heterosexual couples.

    14. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm going to reply to this one, for all three previous posts, since they're basically going after the same thing.

      First, tying benefits exclusively to children is impractical because it ignores the "raising in a nuclear family" aspect. The benefits are for heterosexual married couples because they 1) can reproduce, and 2) raise any children in a family setting. Simply making children the only criteria misses the upbringing aspect that the government also has a vested interest in seeing through. That's why I say married couples, and not couples with children. There's no commitment in a legal sense between two people with a child. The law imposes one with palimony to supplement a caregiving mother when the father is absent. The "cost" (I don't mean pure dollars here) to dissolve a marriage, particularly with children, is arduous, and rightfully so. The incentive is to keep the family together. Two parents, producing and raising children, is the ideal for the government. It's not always practical, may be downright unrealistic for certain individuals, but it's what the government wants to encourage.

      Marital benefits are the way it does it. Child benefits recognize that not all children are in nuclear families, for whatever reason (death of one spouse, for example), and still provides assistance for their upbringing. This is not the same as encouraging the family unit, which marital benefits do. Child benefits are universally extended to guardians and parents because the children, in fact, exist and require care. Marital benefits are extended to heterosexual married couples to foster both childbearing and raising. Gay couples simply cannot accomplish both.

      I know there's talk of artificial reproduction qualifying gay couples as equal to heterosexual, childbearing couples, but let's be realistic. A country simply cannot be sustained on artificial reproduction alone, at this time. If creches can grow children at a cost-effective rate in the future, we can revisit the point. For now, it's not perfect and there are some small, very small percentage of exceptions, but I'm going to work with heterosexual couples produce children, and homosexual couples do not.

      Which brings me to the second point. Yes, I agree that married heterosexual couples without the ability or will to produce children should not be afforded marital benefits. As I said in my response above, screening prior to marriage could catch a lot of that, and follow-up checking for children too. I don't advocate some things, like revoking benefits when children die (who says they won't have more?), but remember, the government is running this program. They are simply incapable of that level of micromanagement. A better way to do it would be to provide no marital benefits until the first child, then repay retroactively, and continue them going forward. Why not start with the default position being less costly to society?

      The answer, as I replied previously is that I don't believe this program would be supported by society as a whole. Just as California has chosen not to recognize gay marriage -- more than half the voters agreed, like it or not -- I don't think widespread revocation of marital benefits is simply palatable to society. That's just a realistic point of view. For the same reason, I don't think screening for fertility is going to gain widespread acceptance either.

      All these posts seem to suggest that if I'm not in favor of revoking marital rights to heterosexual married couples without children, I must be hypocritical for not wanting to extend them to homosexual couples. The resolution to overextending government benefits is not to extend them further, but to curtail them. The idea that "well, if we give them to some unqualifying people, we might as well give them to other unqualifying people too, or we'll be discriminating" is wrong. Recognizing that further extension is wrong answers the question before us: should gays be given government marital benefits?

    15. Re:Secular anti-gay marriage explanation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When given couples whose sole and only difference is that one is a same-gender couple you always choose to deny benefits to the same gender couple. Gender is the sole deciding factor.

      You missed the point. Gender is the sole deciding factor in whether children can be produced or not, and raised in a two-parent family, which is the government interest at stake. Gender is the predicate. The government interest is the consequence. We're talking about government benefits, so talk about the consequence.

  153. Everybody discriminates against groups of people. by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

    All the time.

    Don't agree?

    Think for a second, do you discriminate against Tweekers? Crackheads? Screaming preachers (whore mongers!)? Blithering morons?

    There are 'protected classes' of people that it is illegal to discriminate against. Race, creed and color are the classic protected group characteristics. Gender is a newer arrival.

    At its core the question is if fags are like blacks (inherent trait) or if they are like screaming preachers/morons/drunks (obnoxious choices, legal but disdained).

    I don't think most gays even want to get married. They just want what they can't have ('Reg can't have a baby, not having a womb which is nobodies fault, no even the Romans. But he can have the right to have babies...'). I say as they have legal 'domestic partnerships' then we must ether take away their 'shacked up gay couple benefits' or extend the same to co-habitating straight couples. Business will certainly go with the no-benes answer in most cases.

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  154. As someone who voted against Prop 8 by unassimilatible · · Score: 1

    on libertarian and constitutional grounds (i.e., constitutions are meant to define and limit government power, not limit citizen rights), I do think gays have been their own worst enemies on this. I am old enough to remember when the gays argued, "what I do on my own bedroom is my own business." And this made sense to me, just don't shove it in my face and ask me to approve. I don't know what my parents do in bed, and I still love them. Why do I need to know what you do in bed?

    But now, they want public ratification of their relationships; no longer are they arguing the bedroom thing (since Lawrence v Texas). And since civil unions are about giving gays the same legal rights, is this really about equal rights, or is it a symbolic thing about forcing the world to accept them and their agenda? Is this simply more tedious identity politics, "look and me, I am (fill in appropriate victocrat group)"?

    I can also fully understand Christians, as much as I think they have hijacked my Republican Party, and as much as I think they use pretextual arguments about this (i.e., "protecting marriage"); I do see how they might be concerned that they might be forced to accept gays as priests, rent rooms to them, etc, or be sued for discrimination. Even the article submitter expects the Christian Microsoft employee to abandon his beliefs and adopt submitter's views. Uh, mainstream Christians think homosexuality is a sin, like it or not. That's how it works in America, people can disagree with you. Once again, I keep hearing the Left say they are about dissent - until you dissent with them.

    Compare: Western Europe, where Christians can be tried for civil rights violations for calling homosexuality a sin. Which system do you prefer, liberty-minded Slashdotters?

    For the record, as a "small-l" libertarian, I think gays should be able to marry, or better yet, that the government should get out of the marriage business altogether, other than recording it to prevent stealth polygamy by one party. But as a libertarian, I think Christians should be able to deny gays from renting if they disprove of that lifestyle. Liberty for gays, liberty for Christians. It's actually one of those weird, anachronistic rights that nobody likes to emphasize, you know, the First Amendment, freedom of association?

    And anyone against granting them a right that never existed in the first place is a apparently homophobe. O rly? So I have to agree with your agenda or I hate you? I have to change thousands of years of tradition overnight or I hate gays? Nonsense.

    I do believe that gays have alienated a lot of people in a generally liberal state (funny how a majority of blacks and Hispanics were pro-Prop 8 - strange bedfellows there, Dems) who might be for them otherwise. But yelling at people that they must adopt your position is not winning hearts and minds. Neither is declaring a right by judicial fiat. You'd think they would have learned from 2004, when the Mass Supremes legalized gay marriage, and then 8 states adopted gay marriage bans in response - and GWB got reelected largely on a family values platform (a plurality of Bush voters in 2004 said this in exit polls). Yeah, that really helped the gay cause.

    The gays have acted horribly after this vote, whining, stomping their feet, refusing to respect the voters' decision, almost making me regret my vote. But I won't compromise my principles even if they are annoying as hell.

    As Nietzsche said, "At times one remains faithful to a cause only because its opponents do not cease to be insipid."

    The sad thing is, Cali is a liberal state. If the gays waited 5 or 10 years, instead of trying to bypass the democratic process through the courts, Californians would have probably have legalized gay marriage on their own. But the People don't like having key decisions made for them by unelected elites - the exact point that pro-choice, SCOTUS swing vote Sandra Day O'Connor made about Roe v. Wade.

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  155. Helping you get it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Speaking as someone who is against gay marriage, agnostic, and considered of reasonably competitive intelligence:

    Shove your generalizations. They're as offensive as some of what the religious fundamentalists are spouting.

    1. Re:Helping you get it. by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      As an agnostic, can you give one, single reason WHY not to allow gay marriage? How does it affect YOU? Why do you want to deny someone a right you enjoy because they happen to love a person of his/her own gender? What possible reason could there be if not religious, or just plain homophobic?

    2. Re:Helping you get it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What possible reason could there be if not religious, or just plain homophobic?

      There is more in heaven and earth than is dreamt of in your philosophy, Horatio.

  156. An NFL analogy; you don't mind an analogy, do you? by NotPeteMcCabe · · Score: 1
    I remember when the NFL was first discussing the challenge/review system. They interviewed one of the owners, who was voting against it, because the timeout was too valuable to risk giving away.

    My first thought was that he was obviously wrong. If you scored the game winning touchdown in the Super Bowl but the ref blew the call, it would be worth risking an entire season of timeouts to challenge the call. Sure, you wouldn't risk a timeout in the second half of the first game of the season to challenge the spot from 4th and 11 to 4th and 10. But clearly there would be plays on which the risk would be easily justified.

    But what I really thought was, why should that matter? Just because you don't think the play is a good idea, why should it be illegal? You're not forced to use it -- if you think it's a bad idea, why wouldn't you want other teams to have the chance to use it? I'm sure most coaches who think the quarterback option is a bad offense, but no one says it should be illegal. Or at least if they do, people laugh at them. Which is fun.

    The fundamental problem keeping America from an inclusive gay marriage policy is that people want very much to have their personal preferences made law. Whatever they like, they think that should be the law.

    And what they like, they get, primarily, from their parents' religion. Ultimately, it is this attitude -- My personal preferences should be made law -- which is the problem. It is this mindset which must be specifically fought against. If we can win that battle, the religious battle -- which we cannot win in any of our lifetimes -- will not matter.

  157. I'm sensing a bit of intolerance in that headline. by mosb1000 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    "But oddly, Microsoft HR Chief Mike Murray cited religious beliefs for his decision to contribute $100,000 to 'Yes On 8', surprising coming from the guy who had been charged with diversity and sensitivity training during his ten-year Microsoft stint."

    So now having a particular political opinion should disqualify you from being an HR director?! This whole debate if FUBAR. We are only 2 steps away from everyone being a complete hypocrite. Does anyone else see that there's something wrong with this picture?

    We have got to get rid of this whole government thing before it kills us all.

  158. Darwin disagrees with Google by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You cant bitch about teaching evolution in schools if you don't believe its pertinent when it concerns gays. You can't hijack the "word" marriage to mean something other than a contract between God and a Man and Woman. Although I do have friends who are married who don't believe in God, they produced, love, and raise the biological units they call children.


    Proponents of the gay agenda like to say their lifestyle is genetically determined and they don't have a choice in the matter. Most homosexuals reject God so they can't claim they were "created" the way they are. From this we can conclude that most agree with the tenets of Darwin's evolutionary theory.

    However, this position poses a logical contradiction. Just consider the basic scientific definition of Evolution, which is, according to the MedTerms Online Medical Dictionary: "the continuing process of change, especially in reference to natural selection."

    Under Darwin's process of natural selection, all "beings" -- as opposed to the outmoded religious idea of "creatures" -- are continually adapting to their natural environment in order to have a better chance of surviving. The weakest and most poorly adapted die off, while the strongest and most improved survive long enough to mate. Their offspring inherit their genes, and thus the species improves from one generation to the next.

    Darwin "noted that successful species produce more offspring in each generation than are needed to replace the adults who die . . . The species would thus have changed or evolved to favor traits that favor survival and reproduction," MedTerms explains.

    This means that not only must these beings be able to reproduce sexually, they must actually do so, for evolution to work as posited. Under evolution, then, successful reproduction is the key. Homosexuals would cease to exist because their sexual practices are such that they do not produce natural offspring.

    Therein lies the quandary, then, for the gay activist seeking to make his intellectual case for respectability based on science and genetics. These secular gods have abandoned him to oblivion. By their iron laws of Natural Selection, he cannot possibly exist, let alone be genetically preserved and determined.

    Hey Google, stop trying to influence democracy in action. I'm a upper level IQ programmer (135) with a family (who turned down a MENSA membership because they were boring) that solves intricate compsci problems everyday. Why would I want to work for a company that ignores natural selection? I have 50k in the bank that says I'm smarter than any two homosexual programmers you have and I can produce genetic offspring (I have two, both are gifted, one has a higher IQ than me) while they can't.

    1. Re:Darwin disagrees with Google by znerk · · Score: 1

      Your argument is false, based on improper data collection and hastily-constructed conjecture.

      Allow me to explain:

      Darwin's hypotheses apply to species, not individuals. Humans as a species have evolved to the point where we are now, and we will continue to adapt to our environment (or adapt it to ourselves, which ability is another adaptation). The same (demonstrably false) arguments you made in this post's parent could be used in exactly the same way you used them to disprove the existence of sterile drones in ant or bee colonies, which is quite obviously false. Similarly, mules cannot reproduce themselves, and yet they still somehow exist. Someone's sexual preferences do not magically disqualify them from being a capable care provider (whether for children or others), nor do they prevent someone from being a productive member of society.

      The key phrasing I will attack is as follows:

      This means that not only must these beings be able to reproduce sexually, they must actually do so, for evolution to work as posited. The species would thus have changed or evolved to favor traits that favor survival and reproduction.

      The first statement is completely false, as I explained in the paragraph above the quote. I will now explain to you how G/L/B/T humans do not violate the second statement in the quoted text.

      The produced offspring (in this case, humans with a preference for sexual relations with other same-gender humans (or is it a distaste for the opposite gender?)) are not necessarily able to reproduce themselves, this is true. However, their continuing presence in our species may actually indicate a need that their presence fulfills (via the same theories you are misusing). Please keep in mind that homosexuality is not new, there are documented cases from thousands of years ago.

      Oh, and on a personal note: my IQ is higher than yours by nearly a dozen points, despite your "50k in the bank" and my apparent financial lack; Furthermore, my testing was done by an actual testing center, not some ad-based website. Fortunately, I recognize that the testing criteria are flawed (as most experts agree), and I don't try to hold that up as an indicator of higher intelligence or fitness for a particular purpose. If I did, I might think myself better than you... oh, wait.

      Well-executed bullshit is still bullshit. Move along.

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  159. Hypocracy abounds. by mosb1000 · · Score: 1

    "his actions are un-American and bigoted"

    Some would make that claim about homosexuality. Others would (ironically) make that claim about about making that claim. What makes you such an expert?

    "Trying to prevent them from being able to do so by passing unconstitutional laws is something else entirely and I'll fight to protect the rights of those he's attacking."

    So, when you agree with the results of the democratic process, it's wrong for others to "take action", but when you disagree, it's ok to take to the streets? And somehow, he's the one that's causing the problem?! You need to think about the role of government in your life and come to a consistent position before you do something drastic like that. We don't actually need another civil war. . .

    1. Re:Hypocracy abounds. by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      "his actions are un-American and bigoted"

      Some would make that claim about homosexuality. Others would (ironically) make that claim about about making that claim. What makes you such an expert?

      Because America was founded upon the principal of individual freedom and religious freedom. You have to be pretty twisted in your thinking to be able to rationalize Proposition 8 as either since it is removing individual freedoms based upon some portion of the population's religious beliefs.

      "Trying to prevent them from being able to do so by passing unconstitutional laws is something else entirely and I'll fight to protect the rights of those he's attacking."

      So, when you agree with the results of the democratic process, it's wrong for others to "take action", but when you disagree, it's ok to take to the streets?

      Not at all. I believe in freedom and the constitution of the US and I'll fight to defend both. In this case, it is an attack on both, since this is a state passing laws that violate the US constitution by taking away freedoms specifically listed, such as the freedom from discrimination based upon sex. I'll fight to defend anyone's right to free speech as well as their equal right to legal institutions and protections under the constitution. Sorry, but a simple majority in a state cannot override the republic and the constitution. If they want to ban gay marriage they have to go through the proper motion and overturn the first amendment as well as the federal nondiscrimination laws, just as the 18th Amendment was repealed.

      And somehow, he's the one that's causing the problem?!

      He's the one fighting against personal freedom and freedom from government interference with religion. So, yeah, he's the one causing a problem, just as all the other people who fight against specific freedoms they dislike are causing problems. There's plenty of blame to go around, but in this instance, he's on the wrong side of the issue, the anti-freedom side.

      You need to think about the role of government in your life and come to a consistent position before you do something drastic like that. We don't actually need another civil war. . .

      My position is quite consistent and the fact that it does not line up with the opinions of either major party is evidence of that, rather than the converse. As for civil war, we may have never needed the first one, but we surely do need to fight, if not physically, to insure the freedom of all people regardless of whether or not we agree with the decisions they make or the ideals they hold. It is our duty as citizens as several founding fathers ordered us in no uncertain terms.

    2. Re:Hypocracy abounds. by mosb1000 · · Score: 1

      "Sorry, but a simple majority in a state cannot override the republic and the constitution. If they want to ban gay marriage they have to go through the proper motion and overturn the first amendment as well as the federal nondiscrimination laws, just as the 18th Amendment was repealed."

      Do you believe in the rule of law? All the laws were followed in passing prop 8. If the law says that a simple majority can approve the amendment, than that's how it is. If you think thats wrong, you have to pass an amendment to change the law. If you say that you would violently oppose these measures if they were passed, you can not also claim to be in favor of the rule of law. Your kind of thinking is what led to the civil war.

      It is not a consistent position. You claim that the law is the basis of your argument, but then say that you will oppose the result if you do not favor it. Your position contradicts itself. The only thing that's really consistent is your conviction to do what you think is right.

    3. Re:Hypocracy abounds. by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      Do you believe in the rule of law? All the laws were followed in passing prop 8. If the law says that a simple majority can approve the amendment, than that's how it is. If you think thats wrong, you have to pass an amendment to change the law.

      We already did, in the US constitution. Your assertion makes as much sense as claiming a city can legalize murder within its boundaries. It doesn't matter if they pass a law, since it is violates a higher law.

      If you say that you would violently oppose these measures if they were passed, you can not also claim to be in favor of the rule of law. Your kind of thinking is what led to the civil war.

      The rule of law is not always just and there are times when one has to fight to overthrow it, but in this case it is simply people within the law trying to weasel out of correctly passing and amendment to the US constitution in favor of changing state laws and counting on the courts to be slow in overturning the law they knew was unconstitutional when they passed.

      It is not a consistent position. You claim that the law is the basis of your argument, but then say that you will oppose the result if you do not favor it.

      No, I said respect for individual freedoms was the basis for my position and that currently the US constitution protects those freedoms as well. If you were to burn the constitution and write new laws I would not necessarily support them.

      The only thing that's really consistent is your conviction to do what you think is right.

      Nope, it is much more specific than that. I believe in and defend freedom, which was once an important American value and forms the basis for the US government.

    4. Re:Hypocracy abounds. by Xerolooper · · Score: 1

      Your assertion makes as much sense as claiming a city can legalize murder within its boundaries. It doesn't matter if they pass a law, since it is violates a higher law.

      States are allowed to make their own laws. The United States is a federation not a dictatorship. Murder was perhaps an unfortunate choice to look at since different states actually do have different punishments for this crime. I would be wary of comparing Homosexuality to a crime as well. Even though in the known human history it has been at times it is not currently and that way of thinking is counter productive.

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    5. Re:Hypocracy abounds. by mosb1000 · · Score: 1

      "I believe in and defend freedom, which was once an important American value and forms the basis for the US government."

      The Government operates by restricting freedom. Saying that the Government was ever intended to protect freedom is a contradiction. If you want freedom, the government can't help you. And if you think securing your freedom means restricting the freedom of others, you should understand when others feel the same way about your freedoms.

      "We already did, in the US constitution."

      The US constitution specifically grants the states the right to write laws. Marriage is not a right which is explicitly or implicitly (in my opinion) guaranteed anywhere in the constitution. This amendment to the state constitution is completely legal.

      "The rule of law is not always just"

      That's true, but if you think the law is important, you should follow it.

      "there are times when one has to fight to overthrow it"

      And this is one of those times?! Seriously?!!!! What are you thinking? This law doesn't take anything real away from anybody.

      It doesn't make any sense at all to complain that others are acting illegally, but then make plans to act illegally yourself. You must see that. Everyone thinks their way is the right way, this not something that is unique to you.

    6. Re:Hypocracy abounds. by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      States are allowed to make their own laws. The United States is a federation not a dictatorship.

      Dictatorship? I think a two-thirds majority of elected representatives is pretty hard to paint as a dictator. Sorry, states are only allowed to create laws that do not violate the federal constitution. Your claims simply don't change that.

  160. why does Mike have this funny idea... by Uberbah · · Score: 1

    ...that his religious beliefs should be a basis on what civil rights people should have?

    And do Mikes religious beliefs include stoning to death adulterers, people who eat pork, plant two different crops side by side, wear clothes made from different cloths, or people who work on Sunday?

    If Mike believes in 'traditional marriage' according to the Bible, how many wives does he have? How bout that sex-with-servants exception?

  161. intolerance of intolerance is not hypocrisy by Uberbah · · Score: 1

    "But oddly, Microsoft HR Chief Mike Murray cited religious beliefs for his decision to contribute $100,000 to 'Yes On 8', surprising coming from the guy who had been charged with diversity and sensitivity training during his ten-year Microsoft stint."

    Yes, that's as odd as him cracking Negro jokes from the old south.

  162. nonsense by Uberbah · · Score: 1

    There is only one side in the wrong here, and it's not 'teh gays'.

    Marriage should be replaced by a comprehensive standard (but modifiable) civil contract between two or more consenting adults like any other business contract.

    Then go ahead and fucking do it already, and stop using it as a red herring on the issue of gay marriage, and only gay marriage. You're putting the cart before the horse.

  163. Re:Everybody discriminates against groups of peopl by ral8158 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    At its core the question is if fags are like blacks (inherent trait) or if they are like screaming preachers/morons/drunks (obnoxious choices, legal but disdained).
    I definitely chose to be gay. There are so many exciting parts about being gay--the discrimination I face on an almost daily basis, the scarring childhood and the emotional issues that continue to this day because of it, and the lack of civil rights I have. It makes TOTAL SENSE that I'd make a conscious choice to experience those horrible things instead of just being another straight guy, despite the scientific evidence to the contrary.


    I don't think most gays even want to get married. They just want what they can't have ('Reg can't have a baby, not having a womb which is nobodies fault, no even the Romans. But he can have the right to have babies...').

    Um, gross generalization. I for one do want to get married to a man who I will love for the rest of my life, whether the law recognizes that or not. Do you know any, you know, gay people?

    I say as they have legal 'domestic partnerships' then we must ether take away their 'shacked up gay couple benefits' or extend the same to co-habitating straight couples. Business will certainly go with the no-benes answer in most cases.
    You mean the government should give straight couples common law marriages and the right to be married in the first place? Yeah clearly gay people have so many more 'shacked up couple benefits' than straight people. Like not being able to get married.

  164. ergo, some do and some don't by reiisi · · Score: 1

    By the infinities, man, "religion" is not a monolith.

    (Posting here mostly because the ACs are still at 0.)

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  165. Re:Wait... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So are they being evil here or not? I'm confused.

    Yes, yes they are.

  166. and the faggots are on him like stink on ass by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Is it any wonder steve jobs is dying of aids?

  167. Re:He is Mormon. He was in my Mormon congregation. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    UH, The church didn't force anyone to do anything. The citizens of California shot down gay marriage. Get the fuck over it. This is a democracy. More people disagree with you than agree.

    Damn people. Give it a fucking rest.

    Disclaimer: I don't care who marries who. But don't pretend this is anything other than democracy in action; right or wrong.

  168. Re:Wait... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Man, Com'n! Work is work, open to all, just hire anyway. Even though I am against gay marriages.

  169. Preferred People by njhunter · · Score: 1

    Does this mean that Google prefers gay people to Catholics, Blacks and Hispanics? Seems like Google is being anti-family, if that is the case. Google would like folks who will work twelve hour days, eat dinner at work and continue to work. Google is this Star Trek Enterprise world where you have the kids thrown in an episode, every once in a while. If Google is going to toss out this level of care, perhaps they need to look at an even larger picture. Their care for Africa is wonderful but one would have to take that perceived level of care with a grain of salt if Google doesn't have a bigger picture for humanity.

    1. Re:Preferred People by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      Does this mean that Google prefers gay people to Catholics, Blacks and Hispanics?

      Your question is flawed as stated because it implies gays cannot be half black half hispanic Catholic homosexuals. Fighting for the legal freedoms of one group in no way implies you prefer that group. It's like claiming because the police stop a white guy from shooting a black guy they prefer blacks, when in reality they're just trying to stop a shooting. Google is trying to stop government discrimination against a minority and they'd probably do the same thing to stop government discrimination against other minorities. If there was a law passed banning people of asian descent from marrying people of other ethnicities and it was making it hard for Google to recruit asians to the area, they'd probably try to get that overturned too. Would that mean they prefer asians over mormons who think such unions are immoral? No, because Google might just as easily work to fight laws discriminating against mormons on some other issue.

  170. Re:Wait... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Considering the divorce rate, perhaps we should outlaw all marriages.

  171. Re:50%+ votes should not a constitution change mak by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    California's constitution has a long history of being amended. I believe there are over 500 if not over 1000 amendments to it. Think of it more as a law code rather than anything special.

  172. Re:50%+ votes should not a constitution change mak by Opportunist · · Score: 1

    I like the "wait one term" part. At least it gives you, the voter, the ability to review your government's changes before they can take effect. In most countries the voters are often bullshitted into believing the crap they tell before elections just to learn that there's a difference between words before and actions after elections.

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  173. Blaming His bug on the bytes? by ClosedSource · · Score: 1

    "God forbids it because it is harmful for us, as a society and as individuals."

    Surely God could have forbid it by not designing beings who are capable of being attracted to the same sex. God in the eyes of many religions appears to be a typical PHB.

  174. Not a majority of voters, not even close by meosborne · · Score: 1

    That "majority of voters" is such hogwash. The CA constitution was amended by amended by a *minority* of voters, not a majority. Voters are those are eligible to vote not just those who actually cast a vote on a particular ballot.

    At the time of Prop 8, CA had 23,208,710 eligible voters. Of those only 6,838,107 actually voted to change the constitution. That's only 29.5% of actual voters. The process is a crock whether Prop 8 passed or not. Something as fundamental as a constitution should not changeable by a minority. Such a process can and will be abused.

    Note that the US constitution cannot be changed in this manner. It requires 2/3 of *all* eligible members of Congress and 3/4 of *all* states to explicitly vote yes, not just those who decide to case a vote. Any vote not cast is effectively a No.

    The framers of the US Constitution were much smarter and required an absolute super-majority of those eligible to make such fundamental changes.

  175. Please by meosborne · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Everyone was treated equally under miscegenation laws as well. Everyone could marry someone of the same race. If you preferred someone of a different race, well, "having your preferences catered to by the state isn't something you can count on when you are a distinct minority."

    1. Re:Please by lee1026 · · Score: 1

      Truth be told, equality was preserved under those laws. Equality is merely a necessary condition for justice, not a sufficient condition.

  176. Judicial Fiat? by meosborne · · Score: 1

    The CA Supreme court, who job it is to interpret the CA constitution, found that denying same-sex marriage was unconstitutional. Simply disagreeing with them doe snot that they made law by judicial fiat. Attack the ruling if you wish. They did make their arguments available. Refute them based on the CA constitution and prior CAS rulings.

    As for "democracy": The CA amendment process allows the CA constitution to be changed by a minority of eligible voters as was the case in Prop 8 where only 29.5% of eligible voters made a change to the constitution. That's not democracy, no matter what the subject matter of the ballot was or is.

  177. It wasn't a majority of eligible voters by meosborne · · Score: 1

    It was only 29.5% of the people (eligible voters) who made the change, not a majority. The process is flawed regardless of the amendment. If merely allow a simple majority of people who cast a ballot to change the constitution abuse is sure to follow.

  178. It was only 29.5% of eligible voters by meosborne · · Score: 1

    Because CA allows only a simple majority of cast ballots to change the constitution, 29.5% of actual eligible voters made the change in Prop 8. Yeah for democracy! Sigh. A minority was able to change the fundamental document of the state. Is that scary or what? Regardless of the subject matter.

  179. Yes it is. by mosb1000 · · Score: 1

    A statement that contradicts itself is a sure sign of hypocracy.

  180. just a name... by graincode · · Score: 1

    i'm a gay male, and i could care less about marriage. i think civil unions are the way to go.

    1. Re:just a name... by EQ · · Score: 1

      The primary objection from the religious and other opponents of Prop8 seems to be one of genuine concern that they would be forced into a "moral equivalence" demanded of them, which directly violates their religious belief in terms of homosexual acts being inherently disordered and sinful (which they are free to hold under the 1st amendment). And it is chilling that there are people who would force them to act against their conscience (so long as they stick to the "Its the sin, not the sinner" approach most mainstream opposition state as being their beleif). That is why the first amendment is first: freedom to practice one;s religion, and one's conscience should not be abridge any more than speech -- its that important and should be given that much deference before putting in legislation to regulate it. Liberal fascism is no prettier than any other kind.

      But gays should get the same legal rights as those who oppose them under the same doctrine. So who gets to force the other side to demolish their moral belief? Each side has a good case for being correct (from their own point of view), and each side forces something on the other that is abhorrent (to them).

      How about this?

      Cut the gordian knot.

      The government should not be involved in marriage at all, only in the civil relationship, and only insofar as they are of benefit to a society, and deserving of protections and/or benefits.

      When you get to the core of the marriage law, in terms of practical effects, its simply contract law governing the voluntary relationships.

      So I say get rid of government involvement in "marriage" COMPLETELY. That way there is nothing to argue about. Recognize Civil Unions ONLY.

      Abolish "Marriage" as a legal term, and simply set up partnership laws that establish certain contractual relationships and rights, including life-issues, insurance, inheritance, etc. Once these contracts are signed then the signees are eligible for governmental protection as deemed necessary by the government according to the type of contract they agree to. Dissolution of the contract is similarly goverened by well defined contract provisions in the law that are binding on all parties.

      Then the government can decide who is eligible to participate in those contract and benefitss, by determining which sorts of relationships are beneficial to society, and to what degree, so that qualifications, benefits and protections can be assigned properly.

      So if you wish to formalize your relationship in terms of religious or moral recognition, then you need only go to your Church, and you can be married. But to get the legal protections, you apply to the government. Render unto Caesar...

      In some ways, civil unions may be superior to marriage in that the legal language is much better scrutinized and much less loaded with traditions that may not make legal sense. And the contract can be of various degrees, instead of a "one size fits all" model.

      This means the religious can still get Married by the Church, which is where that sort of distinction makes a difference to them. The term "Marriage" then reverts to its original meaning, referring to the moral and sacramental nature of the relationship, not the legal one. Much like Catholics disagreeing with the legality and recognition of a divorce, and thus having their own "anullment" process, sacramental/moral Marriage would stay outside the government's purview. But the legal stuff is applied to all who qualify for it and sign up.

      Basically, if your religion does not recognize "gay" marriage, then that's fine, you go do your thing and you don't have to marry gays, nor recognize their marriage in another faith tradition. Same goes for those religions that do recongnize things liek Unitarians who go for nearly anything - which is were gays can go to get married. You both can disagree with each other about that, the same way you can disagree about Buddha Vs Jehova.

      And I should add, this is also fair to Atheists, in that they have the same standing as anyone else.

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  181. One is tolerant of people by Rix · · Score: 1

    Not skin colour, fiddly bits or where they like to put them, or their imaginary friends.

    I don't need to tolerate a cock in my ass to tolerate gay people, nor do I need to tolerate honour killings in order to tolerate fundamentalist Muslims.

  182. Why it is a hot political issue by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "I don't get it. Of all the things going on in the World today, I don't get why this is such a hot issue."

    US politics isn't left versus right politics.

    All continental US politics issues are really a power struggle between the religious memetic junk of yesteryear: religious reactionaries versus various dissenter religious sects who want utopia on earth. With Christianity usually allied with reactionaries and the right wing. And the various dissenter sects with the left. While many of you here view this event and "news" as proof of backward assed right wing religious types, it's really indicative of the non-stop onslaught of the dissenter sects with utopian visions, who have been winning the war for your minds consistently since the 1800s (go look up the history of where the pledge of allegiance for the USA came from and prepare to shit brix).

    If you want to read more about this go read the blog "Unqualified Reservations" by Mencius Moldbug. Link: http://unqualified-reservations.blogspot.com/ Or read Albion's Seed by the noted historian David Fischer for the ideological underpinning of America.

    This is merely another battle in the religious war, which has been re-branded as "culture war." Your personal values will guide you as to what is correct on this issue, but the reason it is a "big issue" is because it is a battleground between two religiously-influenced world views.

  183. '1984'? by socha23 · · Score: 1

    The sex instinct will be eradicated. Procreation will be an annual formality like the renewal of a ration card. We shall abolish the orgasm. Our neurologists are at work upon it now.

    Yeah, I know Orwell wasn't writing about pr0n, but still...

    1. Re:'1984'? by socha23 · · Score: 1

      Damn, wrong thread, I was trying to comment the article about chineese banning porn sites. Sorry for that.

  184. Re:Wait... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They are being evil, but not according to the poster, who too is evil.

  185. Re:Wait... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Google's rainbow colored logo takes on a whole new meaning..

  186. Re:Other ways to attract prospective employees to by sacrilicious · · Score: 1

    And FYI, taxes in California aren't all that high and are clearly not high enough for state and local governments to fund the services we require of them.

    Perhaps the totals of all types of taxes in Cal aren't high enough, but the distribution of the sources of those taxes is terribly skewed compared to most other states because of prop 13, which -- thirty years ago -- leveled property taxes at then-current levels. As a consequence, Cal is faced with the prospect of making up for the resulting massive deficit by increasing *other* kinds of taxes... and while property taxes at least vaguely approximate a "wealth" tax, and are therefor essentially progressive... the other compensating kinds of taxes are not, and are eating out the foundations of the infrastructure.

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  187. Absolutely False by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    These can be put in contract or negotiated.

  188. Why surprising? by Sconey · · Score: 1

    I don't understand why you think it would be "surprising" that someone charged with diversity and sensitivity training could be religiously against gay marriage. Just because gay marriage is against someone's religion doesn't mean they can't be sensitive about the issue.

  189. The gay lifestyle is destructive by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The gay lifestyle is destructive; the more you allow this society to make inroads to your culture the higher price you and your children will pay. Stop embracing this cancer as a symbiote, and start treating it like the disease it is.

  190. Re: Hypocracy[sic] abounds. by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

    The Government operates by restricting freedom. Saying that the Government was ever intended to protect freedom is a contradiction.

    Technically, according to the founders, the purpose of the government is to mitigate conflicts of rights between individuals, that is to pass laws to decide where a given action by one person infringes upon the rights of another. For example, the freedom to throw a punch generally ends when it connects with someone else's person or possessions.

    More importantly, the US government began by enumerating individual rights the government of the US were specifically banned from messing with. Such was their respect for individual freedoms

    The US constitution specifically grants the states the right to write laws. Marriage is not a right which is explicitly or implicitly (in my opinion) guaranteed anywhere in the constitution. This amendment to the state constitution is completely legal.

    The federal constitution specifies certain rights that cannot be infringed by the government and that includes by state governments. For example, state cannot pass laws that violate the first amendment restricting speech. When my state passed laws banning swearing in front of women, that law was challenged in the courts. It was overturned because it violated two items in the US constitution, both free speech and equal rights for women.

    The constitution bans discrimination by the government based upon race, religion and sex. That's why the state interracial marriage bans were struck down by the Supreme court in short order and that is why bans on same-gender marriages will be struck down as soon as they make it to through the courts.

    "The rule of law is not always just"

    That's true, but if you think the law is important, you should follow it.

    Ever heard of civil disobedience? It's how a lot of unjust laws in our country were overturned.

    "there are times when one has to fight to overthrow it"

    And this is one of those times?! Seriously?!!!! What are you thinking? This law doesn't take anything real away from anybody.

    I never said this was time to disobey the law, just fight against it, and I was thinking of fighting within the courts. It's not like it should take much, just get it into the supreme court as quickly as possible so justice can be done.

    I'm just sickened that so many people are so prejudiced and at the same time do not value freedom such that states could pass these laws in the first place. I think everyone who voted for one of these bans should stop using the word "freedom" when reciting the pledge. They can just be quiet when that part of the pledge comes up so as not to make hypocrites of themselves.

    It doesn't make any sense at all to complain that others are acting illegally, but then make plans to act illegally yourself.

    First, it was your assumption that I was advocating illegal behavior and second, they are acting illegally in passing a law. You don't see the contradiction in lawmakers intentionally writing laws they know are invalid after having sworn an oath to uphold the US constitution in order to get into office?

    Everyone thinks their way is the right way, this not something that is unique to you.

    Yeah, but people on the other side of this issue are on the anti-freedom side. They're fighting against the ideals upon which this nation was founded, ideals of individual freedom and no government mandates on the basis of religion. Equivocating that there are two sides is pointless and doesn't make the other side any more ethical or legal.

  191. Re:50%+ votes should not a constitution change mak by Alsee · · Score: 1

    For what it's worth,
    1) the process for amending the national constitution is roughly comparable to the difficult process you describe for NL constitutional amendments. The US constitution has only been amended f fairly small number of times in the last 200-odd years; and
    2) we don't really take state constitutions particularly seriously around here. State laws and state constitutions are subject to the US constitution, and that is where the question will ultimately have to go. The Contents of the California constitution won't mean squat when we get around to dealing with the issue at the US Constitutional level.

    Populationwise, California as part of the US is about equivalent to Gelderland province as a fraction of the Netherlands. Imagine Gelderland had a constitution relating to local laws, and that the Gelderland constitution was subject to the Netherlands' constitution. Screwing around with the Gelderland constitution would just be a big-sounding way of fighting over local laws. In a fundamentally national issue, any local battles and local results will be temporary and irrelevant once the battle really gets up to the national level.

    And yes it does make a constitution change slow as molasses

    Even slower over here.

    Individuals battle city and county government in court for for the right to marry.
    The local court fights and overrules the local government.
    The state courts fight and overrule the local courts.
    The state legislature fights and passes a law to overrule the state court.
    It goes to the state supreme court ruling the law violates the state constitution.
    A public inititive to change the state constitution to overrule the state supreme court.
    [[Note we are currently here]]
    A state court battle over bizarre issues for whether the state amendment was valid or not.
    It then moves to the federal courts...
    and the federal appeals courts...
    and then the US Supreme Court. And the US Supreme Court can either rule gay marriages nationally legal or not, or may rule on some stupid detail and send the issue back to the lower courts.... which just repeats several of the steps until the Supreme Court does actually rule on the real issue.

    Oh.... and I forgot that the national legislature already has passed a law trying to overrule the lower courts and attempting to premptively overrule the federal courts. And of course THAT law is going to have to be litigated in the federal courts. And the national legislature will get involved again when federal courts start ruling.

    But anyway, we haven't even begun anything for amending the real US Constitution. It will probably be a couple of years before we have an official Constitutional position on the issue, and only then that one side or the other would seriously try to initiate the difficult amendment process. And even then, it is almost certain to fail no matter which way things go. There are enough people in the middle and on both sides opposed to the drastic step of Constitutional Amendment to deadlock any amendment attempt by either side.

    So essentially we're waiting for the Supreme Court to hand down a US Constitutional ruling on the issue. And of course the US Constitution doesn't currently explicitly address the issue, meaning the judges will have to interpret and fuzzy principles and fuzzy rights from various sections of the constitution, so there will be enough wiggle room for judges to apply creative ideology in their reasoning. So the liberal judges will rule one way, and the conservative judges will rule the other way, and the one judge who is kinda-sorta in the middle will point to some random spot in the constitution and single handedly make up a rule for the nation. And any attempt to amend the Constitution to change that is going to fail.

    But in the long run even that isn't going to matter. It's a simple matter of population demographics. The younger generation is overwhelmingly in support or gay marriage, with the opposition being primarily by the older gener

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  192. No contradiction by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Does the HR chief at MS support discrimination based on sexual preference? Are the options for benefits different for married, single, or gay employees? What about wages, promotions, opportunities for employment in any of MS's jobs? Proximity of parking spaces, bathrooms, or other facilities? Age of company-issued equipment? Dangerous assignments?

    Do they limit who can be named as a beneficiary of company-provided insurance and other benefits. Are company party invites limited to legally-recognized spouses?

    What does prop 8 have to do with discrimination? I don't see it. Especially discrimination in the workplace.

  193. The real issue by EQ · · Score: 1

    Is whether its constitutional.

    I could give a crap less over Google whining bout how this impacts their hiring ability. Its completely irrelevant to the issue at hand.

    The issue at had is:

    Was the process a legal one, did it conform to state law?

    I have a feeling if the court overturns this on such a specious argument of wording, that you will see several of the justices who vote in favor of overturning will be removed via recall, and a far more hostile court will emerge.

    Don't subvert direct democracy as written into the Constitution of CA, and instead try to impose your will against those of the majority via the courts and judicial fiat.

    Prop-8's, get over it, you lost. Do not force this down the public's throat, you'll only force a bigger backlash than before.

    Try convincing 6% of the people that voted the other way, and you'll win the next time.

    Do the American thing, make your case to the public and try again!

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  194. Freedom by mosb1000 · · Score: 1

    Actually, you are on the anti-freedom side of this argument, because you advocate government action, and that entails the use of force against individuals.

    You say that your "right" to throw a punch ends where it contacts someone else. Why, then, is it okay for a police officer to do do the same? Surely their "rights" end there too. The government is a vessel for granting authority to certain individuals. This gay marriage thing is a prime example. Gay "couples" want the legal authority to exclude family members from hospital rooms, or the legal authority to sue their employer to offer their partner specific benefits. It is already messed up that straight couples can do this. I guess you want everyone to be in an equally fucked-up situation. I say "why bother". It's not a step toward freedom, it's a step away from it.

    1. Re:Freedom by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      Actually, you are on the anti-freedom side of this argument, because you advocate government action, and that entails the use of force against individuals.

      What a joke. Letting people decide for themselves, as individuals whether or not to get married is anti-freedom. You can rationalize anything to support your attempt to take away the freedoms of individuals to do things you don't personally approve of. You make me sick. Why don't you move to Iran?

      You say that your "right" to throw a punch ends where it contacts someone else. Why, then, is it okay for a police officer to do do the same?

      Umm, do you even know what you're talking about?

      The government is a vessel for granting authority to certain individuals.

      Way to fail civics class. The government's purpose, according to the founding fathers, is to mitigate disputes when individual rights conflict. They don't grant any rights and the constitution specifically states that people's rights and freedoms are inherent. The government just passes laws to specify when the action of one person is infringing on the rights of another. Please educate yourself.

      This gay marriage thing is a prime example. Gay "couples" want the legal authority to exclude family members from hospital rooms, or the legal authority to sue their employer to offer their partner specific benefits.

      Not at all. Gays are demanding their constitutionally protected equal rights to government services. The government created a legal status of marriage and conferred certain benefits to people who entered into it. Technically, the government should never have acknowledged marriage and no law that depends upon marriage should exist, but since it does, it must offer that service equally to everyone instead of offering it only to some citizens, because that preferential treatment is taking tax dollars from one group and giving it to another based upon illegal criteria (race, sex, or religion).

      Gay marriage has nothing to do with private businesses providing benefits and gay couples can already sue their employers for such discrimination (not that they have much chance of winning).

      I say "why bother". It's not a step toward freedom, it's a step away from it.

      Because it is equal rights for all, you know equality under the law one of the single most important principals of the founding fathers and why the cited the Magna Carta so many times?

  195. Not the business of Google by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Lest we forget, Google is in the business of selling on-line advertising, not in soliciting more privileges for gay people. As a publicly traded company, it seems to me it owes it to its share holders not to get involved in this one way or another, especially in light of the fact that more than half of the voters are in favor of Proposition 8. That puts Google at odds with a lot of Californians and, if similar elections across the country are any indication, at odds with a lot of Americans. How does that make good business sense?

  196. proposition 8 was fine. by Teriblows · · Score: 1

    like it or not, homosexuality is not skin color, it is not a benign superficial trait. it is in fact an abnormality. that being said, unlike other abnormalities like pedophilia it is relatively benign. its not entirely benign as it is fundamentally against a species to propagate itself, luckily its not contagious so theres no reason to fear it. that being said, its nothing like race at all. civil unions were enough and they should have left it at that. trying to redefine marriage which is clearly a heterosexual union was a mistake. and don't' get into the separate isn't equal thing. it is, or else women shouldn't have separate bathrooms:P

    1. Re:proposition 8 was fine. by ral8158 · · Score: 1

      How do you know it is not a benign superficial trait? Can you back this up with some research?
      Yeah, ex-gay materials from outside the scientific and psychology community doesn't count, coincidentally.
      Yeah, most of the recent studies done scientifically say that it is a natural occurrence. And that it has been shown to occur in over 300 animal species. Please educate yourself before you post.

  197. Re:Other ways to attract prospective employees to by superstition222 · · Score: 1

    In other words, "homosexuality is irrelevant". Yes, heard that one before, in innumerable forms.

  198. Insurance BENEFITS, not BENEFICIARIES by znerk · · Score: 1

    Most of you are missing the point on the insurance thing.

    It's not about assigning the benefits to whomever you'd like in the event of your death or whatnot...

    It's about whether your partner is AUTOMATICALLY OFFERED COVERAGE. Having insurance is important, no? Well, your spouse is automatically assumed, in most cases, to be covered under your policy. "Domestic partner"? Not so much.

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