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eBay : Where "Opt-out" Means "Keep Trying"

Cadrys writes "Like anybody tired of spam, junk mail, and telemarketers, I opted out of all of the above when I signed onto eBay. Today I got this letter (text below) where they decided--for me--to reset my preferences. " I got the same letter today, which really irritated me. I had *purposfully* said no to most of the "notifications", and just because I haven't opted in to what they want doesn't mean they have the right to change my preferences. I mean, that's why they are my preferences. So, today, eBay lost at least me as customer. .

<Quoted letter follows>

Dear cadrys,

Several times a month, eBay sends out valuable email communications with news, offers and special events that help you buy and sell. Unfortunately, we have noticed that an error occurred during your registration process that prevented you from receiving these communications. Many of your Notification Preference defaults were set to "no" rather than to "yes", which means that unlike other eBay members, you're not receiving these types of communications.

We'd like to resolve this problem quickly and efficiently. Therefore, on 1/8/01, we returned all your Notification Preferences to the standard default of "yes" to put you in line with the rest of the eBay community. However, we want you to choose your Notification Preferences rather than rely on our standard defaults and will therefore not include you in any communications until 1/23/01. This will provide you with some time to evaluate these choices and modify your Notification Preferences. You will, however, continue to receive certain administrative emails that are part of executing your eBay transactions.

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300 comments

  1. Re:everyone's perfect except them by A+coward+on+a+mouse · · Score: 1

    Maybe you're right, maybe the preferences were destroyed after the registration process. If that's the case, though, eBay is lying about it, because they say in the email that the error occurred during the registration process. I guess we get a choice of lies: either they lied when they offered the users the opt-out choice, or they're lying now about the reason for which they've reset the users' preferences to "Spam Lover".

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  2. At a certain point, it just gets fucking annoying! by unquiet · · Score: 1
    Deleting obvious spam only takes a few seconds, but we have to do it over and over, day after day, forever amen.

    Plus there are still some people without fat pipes. Add in the cumulative time it takes to download all that shit.

    Then there are those times when we're concentrating on code or whatever over on screen four, but expecting an important email. Whatever indicates that you've got mail, so you break your concentration, switch to screen one and read "Get rich quick by flogging your dog in the privacy of your own home" or some such shit. It would be as if some dirtbag kept knocking on your door, at random, for no reason, every freaking day, for ever and ever.

    Add it all up. That's a lot of time stolen from our lives by bastards who will never have to answer for it. Maybe I've just been online for too many years but I could murder a spammer in cold blood this morning and sleep well tonight, knowing that I had done the human race a favor.

    For all of that, when people you know use bad email etiquette, it's even more annoying.

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  3. Re:Way to go, ace. by Anonymvs+Cowardvs · · Score: 1


    In fact, eBay had more than a drive die. They had a whole mess of problems lately; see the message at that link beginning with "Letter from Meg". Entire systems and their spares all going crunch.

    I've got those options all off at eBay as well, and I've just gone and checked and they're still all off, and I've received no mail. Hey, maybe they were telling the truth! But that doesn't make a very good story.

    My favorite part is the bit about eBay not having a right to do that. IDT"right"MWYTIM.

  4. Somebody messed with the db? by _14k4 · · Score: 1

    Looks like somebody forgot a WHERE statement and updated everybodies colums with a Y instead of what they used to be ..

    Nice way to try and cover it tho ...

    He's having a nice time at work.

    _14k4

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  5. Re:So. by Eggplant62 · · Score: 2
    The issue is having to worry about them doing this more in the future. Now, I do think its a bit reactionary to drop them for one instance of this, as it may well be some legit problem, but if it were to occur repeatedly?
    See my previous comment regarding this behavior being well-documented by members of news.admin.net-abuse.email. It has happened in the past, it's still happening.

    If it looks like pink meat, smells like pink meat, then it must be spam!
  6. "Preferences campaign" by Haight6716 · · Score: 1

    Here's my (somewhat edited) original post to a 'well known' anti-spam list about my experience with this. For the non-spam-savvy, note also the first line of the spam itself (last line of this message) - a "web bug" tracking link which will notify ebay if the spam was received - without the user's permission. We should not put up with spam from big companies (mainsleaze) any more than we should spam from 'make money fast' fly-by-night spammers. This professional bulk mailer (not ebay) is already listed on ORBS.

    Date: Tue, 2 Jan 2001 10:00:16 -0800
    Sender: Spam Prevention Discussion List [munge]
    From: Julian Haight <[munge]>
    Subject: SPAM: ebay's "preferences campaign"

    I just got a response to a spam report I filed because ebay "forgot" my no-spam preferences again. I thought it was interesting that attached to the "fix it yourself" form letter (we won't stop spamming until you change your prefs back again) was this little note, apparently added by someone at the bulk-for-hire site as they forwarded the complaint on to ebay:

    "Another spam complaint from the preferences campaign."

    I found it particularly interesting that they are referring to it as the "preferences campaign". This is probably old news to most, but I don't think ebay can really deny they're spamming.

    Happy new year all - I think 2001 will be the year of mainsleaze.

    -=Julian=-
    (spamcop owner/admin)

    For reference:

    [snip to avoid slashdot's lame "lameness filter"]
    ..
    From: eBay SPAMMED Mail <spam@ebay.com>
    ..
    If you would not like to receive notices about special offers, promotions, and other such notices please change your notification preferences. To do this first go to this web page and login:
    ..
    James P. S.
    eBay Senior Customer Support Representative
    ..
    Original Message Follows:

    Another spam complaint from the preferences campaign.

    From: Julian Haight [mailto:julian.14567850@spamcop.net]
    To: abuse@ann0.com; postmaster@ann0.com

    ..
    [snip to avoid slashdot's lame "lameness filter"]
    ..
    Subject: Important Information from eBay
    From: "eBay Announcements"
    ..
    We'd like to resolve this problem quickly and efficiently. Therefore, on 12/19/00, we returned all your Notification Preferences to the standard default of "yes" to put you in line with the rest of the eBay community.
    ..

    <BODY> <IMG SRC='http://adfarm.mediaplex.com/ad/tr/*munge*?con f=1&Unique_ID=eBay_conf_user' BORDER=0 HEIGHT=1 WIDTH=1>

  7. Re:Right. by festers · · Score: 1

    I just love a good post that generalizes every /. geek out there. Thanks pal. Never mind that I *don't* go to the movies, *won't* buy DVDs until the DeCSS fiasco is over, and I will stop using eBay if I get that email. No big loss for me, I have plenty of other "shiny new things" to keep me occupied. Don't try to make yourself feel better about your own weak will by claiming everyone suffers from the same affliction.


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  8. At least they were polite enough to *tell* you... by XDG · · Score: 1
    OK. So they reset the preferences to try to get you receiving the mail they want you to get. At least they had the courtesy to e-mail you and tell you, thus giving the option to opt out again if you choose. They even reminded you that it ought to be your choice.

    If this happened again in another couple months or even in the next year, I think there would be cause to complain, but balancing their desire for e-mailing you against your desire not to get it, this seems like a reasonable approach. They want to mail you, they warn you they'll start, if it's important enough, you set your preferences to stop it again.

    It's fun to bash, but remember all the companies that change policies or release data without giving any warning. Consider this one a victory for corporate responsibility.

    XDG

  9. Re:"Your selection is an error" by Fishstick · · Score: 2

    Hmm... when I got mine today it sounded like they thought there was some error in their system that didn't even present me the option of opting-out and so defaulted to 'no'.

    To be honest, I don't remember - it was a while ago that I first signed up. If I did opt out, and now I have a couple weeks to opt-out again - it's not really that big a deal, is it? It would be different if they re-sent every e-mail they think I was supposed to get over the last six months. They reset my prefs to receive, they are going to hold off until 1/23 to start sending mail, and it took me a total of 15 seconds to go to my prefs page and turn them all off again.

    How exactly is this evil enough to be a /. story

    Egghead sent me a nice mail saying noone every really got my credit card even though 7300 people have reported fraud on their cards after the egghead crack, but /. doesn't think that is news?

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  10. Re:If you hate spam by rkent · · Score: 2
    Okay, on the off chance that you're serious, I'll bite.

    Whatever you do, please do not respond to spam via email. I noticed your page gave other options like customer service numbers and faxes, and that's great. But if you reply to spam, it just confirms that there's a real, live person reading this email and gaurantees that you'll be kept on the list.

    Furthermore, many times spammers spoof addresses, and some innocent sap could get your flaming responses. A lot of good that would do...

  11. Re:I too will suspend my account by Chilblain · · Score: 1

    I have recieved the same email many others have, from ebay about the offers they did not sign up for, and I too shall terminate my E-Bay account. i encourage others to do the same until E-Bay Realizes that when you opt-out, they should stay the hell out. If incidences like this are allowwed to continue, we may be forced to read page after page of junkmail we decided not to get in the first place. This is not the future I look forward to. Even if you do not recieve this email, unite with the others and boycott E-Bay until an official apology is made.

  12. Re:you're not a customer by A+coward+on+a+mouse · · Score: 1

    What the fsck are you talking about? Did I say information wants to be free? Have you found postings to that effect on my user page? Idiot.

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  13. and in Palm Beach.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5
    Quoted letter follows

    01/07/01

    Dear Floridian Voter,

    Every four years, the Government holds an election. Unfortunately, we at the Democratic Party have noticed that an error occurred during your voting process which may have prevented you from voting Democrat. Your Voting Preference was "Republican" rather than "Democrat", which means that Al Gore was not receiving your vote.

    We'd like to resolve this problem quickly and efficiently. Therefore, on 11/8/00, we began reinterpreting all your Voting Preferences to the standard default of "Democrat" to put you in line with the rest of our community.

    However, we want you to choose your Voting Preferences rather than rely on our standard defaults and will therefore not include you in any communications until the next election. This will provide you with some time to evaluate these choices and modify your Voting Preferences. Your November Vote will, however, continue to be counted for Al Gore in our continuing recount effort.

  14. Re:My experiences... by dorkie · · Score: 1

    Ebay's problems: EBay Crashes for Nearly 11 Hours - January 4, 2001, 5:19 AM PST .

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  15. Re:Subscribe eBay admins to some other lists by Kazymyr · · Score: 1

    Won't work. Most respectable mailing lists, unlike ebay, use double opt-in. Ebay is one of those that seem to use double opt-out :)

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  16. an "error" occured during your registration by corvi42 · · Score: 1
    what's that? our email list isn't big enough?

    UPDATE userprefs SET spam=1

    oops, I forgot the where clause, oh well it must have been a registration error

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    1. Re:an "error" occured during your registration by smack_attack · · Score: 2

      HAHA, anyone who has ever screwed up and forgotten the WHERE clause has to appreciate this. Except me of course... I have never done that, really.

  17. Nothin' new by testy · · Score: 1

    AOL and a few other places have been doing this for years. I mention AOL because, unlike eBay, they are equally famous for not informing the users of the changes made.

  18. Re:"Your selection is an error" by peeping_Thomist · · Score: 1

    Egghead sent me a nice mail saying noone every really got my credit card even though 7300 people have reported fraud on their cards after the egghead crack, but /. doesn't think that is news?

    The crucial question is whether 7300 out of several million is out of line with typical rates of reported credit card fraud. I understood the Egghead letter to be saying that it wasn't out of line, and that therefore there's no evidence yet of a problem.

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  19. Re:Glad I am not dating them by Plum · · Score: 1

    And later... "Thank you for letting us know whether or not you would like to have sex. Your preference has been recorded. Please note that it may take 14 days for us to decide whether or not we heard you. In the meantime, let's screw."

  20. Living Large by TheTiGuR · · Score: 1

    Doesn't it seem that as companies grow larger and larger, they feel they can be more and more liberal with thier customers and expect to get away with it?

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    1. Re:Living Large by Mancide · · Score: 1

      Kinda like the "confirm before you delete this read-only file" option... they want to make sure that the people who need this the most don't just kill the communication without knowing what it is...

      I'm sure there is a valid reason for doing this, but I've not gotten this email, and I know I opted-out of third party emails...

      It's still not /spam/... you did sign up, and maybe they updated the information they are sending in these emails and want everyone to give it a try... but this probably isn't the most "slashdot-friendly" way to go about it, but most of their users probably suffer from the "flashing 12:00 syndrome" and never bother to change the defaults and this is what they were hoping for...

      At least they did warn you they changed settings....

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    2. Re:Living Large by Mancide · · Score: 2

      This isn't spam mail that they are setting back to yes. This is the notifications that you have been outbid, your auction has ended, and your invoice has been processed. I'm sure that they have an autocheck that puts these back to keep customers from missing valuable communications and not spam.

      I haven't receieved anything unwanted from eBay, the only time I get mail from them is these notifications that i've been out bid, my invoice was processed, an auction ended etc...

      I think the person who wrote this in isn't reading to what exactly these prefrences send them, and they are trying to make eBay seem spam friendly...

      Just my two cents...

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    3. Re:Living Large by Cadrys · · Score: 3
      Bzzt, wrong. The "preferences" in question were questions such as: (paraphrased from market-speak)

      --May we give out your phone number to telemarketers?
      --May we give out your street address to bulk mailers?
      --May we give out your email address to 3rd parties for spamming?

      AS WELL AS the options for "you've been outbid," "your auction has ended," etc. ALL of these preferences--both desirable and not--had been set to 'yes'

      So the person who sent this in [me] read exactly what the preferences sent them, and reacted accordingly.

      (and no, I haven't gotten "spam" from them before either, as I had already set these preferences before. Saying that "an error has occurred" to change them is FUD, pure and simple.)

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    4. Re:Living Large by Mancide · · Score: 1

      It's odd only selected person's are getting this... maybe this was a pure and simple fuckup and the data was corrupted so they defaulted it back to "normal" as I've not gotten this mail, but I've gotten other auction correspondence...

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    5. Re:Living Large by dinotrac · · Score: 2

      The unfortunate thing, if you read some of the comments below, is that many people are perfectly willing to let them get away with it. People like using eBay and get some good deals, so they will tolerate ridiculous business practices.

      This is also the ultimate irony whenever "privacy and the internet" become hot topics on some news show. The fact is, most of us willingly give away sensitive information without thinking twice. How many people, for example, fill out those contest entry forms set out at shopping malls, etc.

      In the end, you only know that you have convictions when they get inconvenient.

    6. Re:Living Large by pallex · · Score: 1

      "It's still not /spam/"

      Its bizarre just how many people dont know what spam is, isnt it! Spam is bulk, unsolicited commercial email. What the hell has that got to do with a company altering a few options?

    7. Re:Living Large by cicho · · Score: 1

      A lot! You specify that you don't want to receive certain (or any) types of communication from a company. The company reverts your settings and begin sending those communications anew. That's - precisely - spam.

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    8. Re:Living Large by Oloryn · · Score: 1
      I'm sure that they have an autocheck that puts these back to keep customers from missing valuable communications and not spam.

      But they've provided a method for customers to decline those communications, so they obviously realize some people don't want them. Why provide the option and then turn around and negate the user's choice?

  21. Ebay is not at fault but they're no friend of mine by cavemanf16 · · Score: 1
    I cannot blame Ebay for 'errors' with their system, which sounds pretty bogus to me from the way the email was written, but I can blame them for poor customer service.

    But who can blame them. Most of the tech stock market and the brand new corporate websites are taking a severe beating on The Street. Now is the time for desperate measures, because most of the dot-coms out there won't last through the end of 2001. So what Ebay did is completely typical of the current dot-com struggle to stay alive.

    So what do we do as consumers? Well, like Smith&Wesson (who thought trying to implement an unpopular, at least with their customers, child safety lock on all new handguns they made) would solve their problems with both the pro-guns and anti-guns groups, they instead ended up hurting themselves by doing so. They disregarded what their paying customer's really wanted and needed from their company. Their sales this year were down (15% or more, I think), and it was because most of their customers didn't agree with their actions.

    So in regards to Ebay, we don't have to go marching around Washington all day and night to get the point out that spam is bad. Just quietly sign off of Ebay and go elsewhere. They'll get the picture soon enough, or they'll lose profits quickly. (And in this dot-com survival game right now, not getting the picture soon enough results in no more company).

  22. eBay by ThePixel · · Score: 1

    if you read the privacy policy, it'll become very apparent to you that they are not in buisiness in the interest of the customer... and it has always been that way.
    .e.
    www.perceive.net

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  23. Re: Then post with your real e-mail by IanCarlson · · Score: 1

    Yes, I understand what eBay did. However, the result of these actions are just one e-mail message to delete and a little bit of time spent setting their profile back. Sure, it wasn't right, but eBay wouldn't dare try it again. Especially since most of the users who got the e-mail will just revert to their original mail-box friendly settings.

    I don't see why it's worth a Slashdot story and so much venom. It would be a bigger issue if every user of eBay was going to be spammed into oblivion effective immediately. You won't recieve eBay spam until 1/23.

    Now, if they do it again, I'll be happy to change my song. Another eBay spam and I will personally be the first to suggest crucifixion of the genius behind this situation.

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  24. This doesn't bother me one iota by erat · · Score: 1

    First off, they're giving you time to re-opt-out of the mailings. They are not sending any mail to you (despite re-setting all of the choices to "yes") until you have passed the date by which you can set your choices back to "no". That's fair warning.

    Second, even if they pull this on you every month, you still have a choice of opting out, and besides, that's one email instead of the 50-100 you would have gotten per month if you would have kept the options set to "yes".

    I can deal with this. Even monthly. eBay is THE auction site on the Internet, and to date I have had 0 bad experiences with them (one idiot that sold me a hands-free kit for my mobile phone pocketed 80% of what I paid for shipping and then sent my item in the slowest, cheapest manner possible, but that's my only beef; every other experience I've had with eBay has been stellar).

    Spam mail sucks, and I'd like to see it go away. However, my anti-spam measures are not quite as extreme as those of others. I do not kid myself into thinking I can just opt out of junk email any more than I think I can opt out of junk snail mail. Unless you pick up and move, then don't leave any kind of trail leading to where you went, it's impossible to shake this stuff. I can fight it and get pissed off over and over again, or I can meet these spammers half way and control the flood.

    I'll opt for control.

  25. I too will suspend my account by Neter · · Score: 1


    I have all of my preferences set to "NO" on eBay. If I get this email today (like a few other people that I talk to have) I will be suspending my account as well...

    1. Re:I too will suspend my account by Vincent+Bernat · · Score: 1
      If you aren't running your own mail server you might not get the total satisfaction of giving them an SMTP protocol error, but dropping their mail unceremoniously into a bit bucket is certainly still worthwhile.

      You can still send a fake bounce message.

    2. Re:I too will suspend my account by crucini · · Score: 2

      May I recommend that instead of abandoning Ebay, you pester them to help you? If you walk away, your message is lost in the noise.
      Why not phone them and ask them to honor your preferences? They will tell you to go to a certain web page, etc., but tell them 'I already did that and your mail says an error occurred. So I want you to do it for me.'
      The cost of handling a single support call is more than they'd make from spamming 1000 people.

    3. Re:I too will suspend my account by kevinank · · Score: 1

      Dude, you know you can get rid of that '-1' rating just by getting a new account don't you?

      Why I bother using local mail filters *WHEN YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD I'M NOT INTERESTED IN YOUR PRODUCT OR SERVICE* and don't want to see it in my mailbox period?

      I just consider it pragmatic. Why not dump someone's mail if you have already told them that you aren't interested in their mail. It is a lot easier to just stop it than get upset over it.

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    4. Re:I too will suspend my account by Myxx · · Score: 1

      Absolutely...when I was in tech support it cost our company something on the order of $7 just for saying "Thank you for calling MCI Internet tech support..." This was when you calculate everything in like the phone lines, your salary, the computers, the electricity, the printing of the advertisements etc. If you call I can guarantee you that something will get done. Nothing is more effective than filling up a phone queue for a week or two. Just be kind to the people who answer the phone.

      If there were a better place to do auctions than EBay, why aren't you already there?

      I wish everyone were so principled about things in their everyday life like they are when it comes to SPAM. The same people cancelling EBay are the same ones who fire up Napster and say "When they start charging for it I will just go to something else." You are right to be upset, but do you want to change it or do you just want to have a hissy fit?

      Please note that I am not directing this to the above poster, but to folks in general in this whole thread.


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    5. Re:I too will suspend my account by kevinank · · Score: 1

      Invest some time in learning about local mail filters. Why bother unsubscribing from a thousand different mailing lists, each with its own interface when you can simply refuse mail from their domain or mail that matches any regular expression in any header field.

      If you aren't running your own mail server you might not get the total satisfaction of giving them an SMTP protocol error, but dropping their mail unceremoniously into a bit bucket is certainly still worthwhile.

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  26. So, let's get this straight... by TDScott · · Score: 1

    They altered your preferences, and started sending you unsolicited mail? That's got to be against some privacy/spam law somewhere.

    Alternatively, why not complain to SpamCop? It is technically unsolicited mail...

    1. Re:So, let's get this straight... by Bluesee · · Score: 1

      So what you are saying is, in effect, that they have increased the value of their customer information list because if the guy doesn't set the preferences back within 24 hours, and they take an additional 14 days to reset it, then they obtain a window where they can send out all this information for, oh, I don't know, about 10000 soon-to-be-spammed customers?

      I think that's what you're saying... and no, this cannot be legal. Um, maybe it can. I don't recall Congress passing any specific laws forbidding re-setting preferences or specifically protecting ppl from this sort of think, er, thing.

      Then again, I am not a Legislator.

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    2. Re:So, let's get this straight... by crucini · · Score: 2

      Sorry to be pedantic, but I think the expression son-of-a-female-dog is redundant. Barring outlandish genetic experiments and test tube puppies, anyone who is the son of a dog is necessarily the son of two dogs, a stud and a bitch.
      Horses mate with asses to produce mules, but I haven't heard of dogs mating with any other species to produce offspring.
      So in the future you can say son-of-a-dog or maybe just dogson.

    3. Re:So, let's get this straight... by BigBlockMopar · · Score: 2

      You know, the people that just totally turn off their brain when they sit in front of a computer?

      You know, like my roommate's girlfriend, who enters your e-mail address into every one of these stupid little websites that sends you a card and sells the collected list of addresses?

      "Oh, look! It's a picture of a puppy sleeping on a sofa! And the caption is so funny! Oh, that's so cute! I have to send that to Lawrence, even though he's a cat person, he's like that so much!"

      <sigh> She complains about the amount of spam she gets, and yet she merrily enters her real unobfuscated e-mail address into every website, newsgroup, *everything*. She hasn't yet made the connection.

      And she's on her last year of some sort of computer diploma from some community college. Of course, it's not because she has any interest or aptitude in computers, it's because she can make "so much money" in computers. Jesus wept.

      And, no, I didn't just discover the HTML <i> tag. That's really how she talks.

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    4. Re:So, let's get this straight... by Faulty+Dreamer · · Score: 1

      Does her head bounce back and forth as she talks too? Sounds like a couple of women (and I use that term very loosely, insert loose joke here) I know too.

      Not to be harsh, but the people that think they are going to get rich just because they have a "COMPUTER DEGREE" from some community college are precisely the people that aren't going to make any money. There are a lot of those 'degrees' that can be earned without learning anything more about computers than how to market speak computer jargon. I had a boss that was that way. Head of IT, yet he couldn't figure out the simplest of computer concepts without at least two of the help desk people there to tell him how to do it. But he had a DEGREE in computers, so he had to know what he was doing!

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    5. Re:So, let's get this straight... by BigBlockMopar · · Score: 2

      Does her head bounce back and forth as she talks too? Sounds like a couple of women (and I use that term very loosely, insert loose joke here) I know too.

      You got it, Pontiac!

      She's 27 and has a 6-year-old son. She lives on welfare and drives a 1986 Beretta. Her dream car is a Chevrolet full-size pickup truck, but there ain't no way in hell she's gonna drive a GMC pickup truck.

      <sigh> At least she's trying to do something, though. She frustrates me, but at least she's trying to do something with her life.

      Not to be harsh, but the people that think they are going to get rich just because they have a "COMPUTER DEGREE" from some community college are precisely the people that aren't going to make any money. There are a lot of those 'degrees' that can be earned without learning anything more about computers than how to market speak computer jargon.

      This is at least part of why I've eschewed structured, formal education myself.

      I'm into computers because between them and my cars, they're the passions of my life. I'm also very much into professional and high end audio and video electronics, especially antique stuff.

      I contrast the fact that every spare moment, I'm doing something that has to do with one of those fields, to the community college type who has no original thoughts or even the instinctive understanding that most Slashdot readers would probably take for granted.

      A revelation to me is that I can finally use the old Chevette engine kicking around in the garage - to replace the worn-out Tecumseh on my 1973 Ariens snowblower. All it takes is to weld in a 7" stretch to the chassis between the blower and the drive subassembly, it's really cool, and it's cheaper than to replace the dual-shaft Tecumseh.

      A revelation to me is that, in high school, rather than writing a little Pascal program to make a Macintosh play Chopsticks as a mandated "Write a program to make the computer play music" assignment, I could hook three 5.25" full-height Shugart floppy disk drives to my trusty old TI-99/4A, and write an assembly language program to make them play Flight of the Bumblebees. In three part harmony. I got an A+, though the teacher wasn't happy about giving it to me. (And, I admit, I got help: I needed someone to translate the sheet music into frequencies and durations, since I don't know how to read sheet music.)

      A revelation is realizing that you *can* mass produce a surface-mount radar buffer board with the small production facilities at work and no real SMT assembly equipment by ...well, that's a secret. Non-disclosure agreement.

      To Jen, a revelation is that you need to put real-mode CD-ROM drivers onto your startup diskette before you format the hard drive and try to install Windows 95 from CD. (No, neither the Windows 95B edition, nor her motherboard, support a boot off CD-ROM.) Sure, when we've been new to any operating system, we've all done stupid things like this. But the astute *test* the machine's ability to workably boot prior to formatting the drive...

      I had a boss that was that way. Head of IT, yet he couldn't figure out the simplest of computer concepts without at least two of the help desk people there to tell him how to do it. But he had a DEGREE in computers, so he had to know what he was doing!

      Oh no, and in a position of power. That must have been a frustrating workplace.

      Listen, I like my boss. I don't like badmouthing him. But, let's face it, you need to, every now and then. This guy feels qualified to talk about computers. He's *literally* never done a clean install of Windows since he installed Windows 3.1. When Windows 95 came out, he upgraded. When that crashed, he actually spent the time to fix it. Then he bought Partition Magic, and mirrored it across to a bigger drive. Then a few years later, another bigger drive. Now, he's got probably the world's only Windows 2000 Professional system that is running in a 6 gigabyte drive under FAT16. I've never seen so many partitions in my life.

      Every time the computer hiccups (which is often, as you can imagine), he storms into my office, looking for some troubleshooting disk. My standard answer, of course, is that he should format the drive, reinstall Windows, and then his apps. Of course, he refuses: it'll take way too long. A whole morning, if he does it slowly. Then, he'll spend 2 days trying to get Windows to run without crashing, and consider himself to have come out ahead.

      He actually copied the entire registry out of my box once - even though our machines have nothing remotely similar in hardware or software.

      On one hand, the dogged determination is amazing. On the other hand, well... you know.

      He demanded root access to the Linux server I set up. I just told him that he had it. Sure enough, go through the history file on his account, and there are commands like "dir c:", "win", "scandisk c:", and my favorite, "why the f**k isnt this computer working". Of course, the computer was fine, but he's obviously never seen any UNIX before.

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    6. Re:So, let's get this straight... by ZxCv · · Score: 1

      They altered your preferences, and started sending you unsolicited mail?

      No, they altered his preferences and have "given" him about 2 weeks to change them back before they go into effect. Underhanded and wrong, sure. But at least they are giving him the chance to undo it before it goes into effect... The only problem being when he might have to go through this again should he change his preferences back.

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    7. Re:So, let's get this straight... by Faulty+Dreamer · · Score: 3

      This sounds very much like those spammers that offer an "unsubscribe" option in their unsolicited emails. You know, where they send you to a site to unsubscribe which really means you just put your email into a "yep, this one really exists" list and you will now get about four times as many emails from them?

      Ebay is giving you the illusion of opting out of their emails, while still preserving their right to make sure you get everything they want you too (by claiming a glitch in the system no less). It's really quite ingenious. The average user would probably figure that there really was a glitch in the system and just shrug it off, meanwhile recieving a bunch of emails and saying, "Didn't I say no to this?" At least, I know quite a number of people that wouldn't be bright enough to connect the few. You know, the people that just totally turn off their brain when they sit in front of a computer? The ones that have to retrained on how to use it every day when they get to work because, "this computer stuff is hard"?

      Of course it backfires when there is someone there with more than half of a clue, but they are going to risk that as most of their customers won't have that half a clue.

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    8. Re:So, let's get this straight... by Faulty+Dreamer · · Score: 1

      Definitely sounds like my ex-boss (I left that place for the sake of my sanity). And that girl definitely sounds like the women I was talking about too.

      I've never been much of a school person myself either. But I've probably got as much overall knowledge, and way more practical (as in usuable) knowledge than most of the college going bookworm types. Of course, I'm just a regular bookworm type.

      BTW, nice rant. Doesn't it feel good to vent?

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    9. Re:So, let's get this straight... by BigBlockMopar · · Score: 2

      Definitely sounds like my ex-boss (I left that place for the sake of my sanity). And that girl definitely sounds like the women I was talking about too.

      You mean, there's more of them? [sigh] The world is definitely in trouble.

      I've never been much of a school person myself either. But I've probably got as much overall knowledge, and way more practical (as in usuable) knowledge than most of the college going bookworm types. Of course, I'm just a regular bookworm type.

      Nope. As I see it, if I'd gone to university for Electical Engineering, I'd be getting paid exactly what I am now, I'd have less practical experience, and I'd have a debt. However, I make more money than we pay the engineers (of approximately my age) here. And, to boot, they usually end up asking me questions about how to design such-and-such a circuit. In trade, while I can do resonance and other fairly involved calculations, I usually just pawn it off on them, feigning ignorance. :)

      BTW, nice rant. Doesn't it feel good to vent?

      Thanks, yeah, it does. I need to do it every now and then. And, let me tell you, it's been a tough week. AutoCAD 14 and Mechanical Desktop on a Pentium 133 notebook. With Windows 2000. And I'm expected to support that. Hell, I can't even pretend to look surprised that you-know-who can't make it work.

      It's like loading up a Ford Model T with the world's largest fishing sinker collection and then trying to take it out onto the Santa Monica Freeway.

      [sigh]

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    10. Re:So, let's get this straight... by Faulty+Dreamer · · Score: 1
      It's like loading up a Ford Model T with the world's largest fishing sinker collection and then trying to take it out onto the Santa Monica Freeway.

      Ouch. I had one of those days myself today. We had a plant-wide meeting and I had to sit at the "executive" table. Of course, the only people that wouldn't sit there and shut up through the entire meeting was the rest of the idiots sitting at that table. What a bunch of babies. They all wanted to talk about shit that they felt was waaaaaay more important than the stuff the meeting was about (you know, quality control, getting communications better, things like that). They had to talk about their goddamned boats, a RVs and four wheelers and shit.

      Oh, sorry, I guess ranting is contagious.;-)

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    11. Re:So, let's get this straight... by mirrorz · · Score: 1

      very strange how these business live off of advertising sales based on "supposed" customers

    12. Re:So, let's get this straight... by JCCyC · · Score: 2
      This sounds very much like those spammers that offer an "unsubscribe" option in their unsolicited emails. You know, where they send you to a site to unsubscribe which really means you just put your email into a "yep, this one really exists" list and you will now get about four times as many emails from them?

      Yep. I'm probably being the victim of that right now (I do remember opting out of some spam recently, and the spam I receive skyrocketed). It might have been that son-of-a-female-dog that de-spamproofs people's e-mail in /. too.

      I'm very much inclined to obliterate all my e-mail addresses and go to Sneakemail.

  27. you misunderstand. its in the interest of fairness by fluxs · · Score: 1

    they're affraid that the preferences you set initially did not actually reflect you, the voter ^H^H^H^H^H^H^customer's true intention. so they're going to give you the opportunity to to try again and again until the selections they^H^H^H^H^H you really intended is assured. it's all in the interest of fairness of course.

  28. Still staying by Fervent · · Score: 4
    So, today, eBay lost at least me as customer. .

    Not me. The cost-value ratio of selling stuff on eBay still continues to be the best I've ever seen. I've reached dozens of buyers for used computer equipment easily and cheaply.

    You have to the weigh the sheer convenience of getting good money for your stuff (without going through a middleman) vs. a single irritating email. If their service is strong enough, which it is, I can let this one go.

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    1. Re:Still staying by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      Which I find funny, as the few times that I have checked ebay for something, I have usually found bidding going above retail price, and not even for hard to find items.

      Thats not to say that there are not values there but thats usually exclusively with used merchandise...and then you run intot he area of buying other peoples troubles (which I will do sometimes, but I prefer to be able to hold the product and look at it, at a minimum, before shelling out money)

      Course... no value is highenough for me to do buisness with companies which I know to be engaging in unethical buisness practices... like this.

      -Steve

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      "I opened my eyes, and everything went dark again"
    2. Re:Still staying by Alan · · Score: 1

      Disclaimer: Not a recipiant of the letter

      I think I'd cancel my account for nothing more than the fact that they showed the ARROGANCE of this action. They are basically saying that they can make your choices for you, when they chose. Sure, maybe you're making $1000/day from them, they are still showing that they feel the customers choices (NO, I don't want to recieve spam) don't matter and they can play Big Brother with their users should they feel they want to.

      I'm a server admin and I own the server that my users use, and theorectically have the right to do whatever I want with it, including canceling accounts, reading email, snooping at files, or shutting down domains. Why don't I do this? Well, eithics for one, but also I don't consider that MY RIGHT to do. Sure, sometimes it'd be fun, but in reality, it's simply NOT MY RIGHT TO DO. Ditto with ebay.

      My $0.02

    3. Re:Still staying by shepd · · Score: 1

      While I have not received such a message either, I also don't plan to cancel. Ebay, in my opinion, is decent in all other respects.

      But, I, as a consumer, in addition to the right of choice, have the right to complain. If I receive this email, I plan to respond. I'll probably phone 'em. If I don't get a live person, then I'll send a letter. That way _someone_, _somewhere_ is going to get my message. An email is worthless -- I don't know how many companies on the 'net I've emailed and never gotten a response from.

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      If you could be told what you can see or read, then it follows that you could be told what to say or think - BoC
    4. Re:Still staying by xercist · · Score: 1

      That's why they can keep spamming their own customers at their plesure -- because most people don't like it, but arn't determined to stand up for themselves, and show the company they won't get business this way.

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    5. Re:Still staying by Zachary+Kessin · · Score: 4
      Well in life from time to time you have to deal with people who annoy you. If you want to sell stuff online you have several options (Ebay, Amazon, Yahoo and Others) None are perfect, the Question you have to ask yourself, is what I get from using this service worth taking the bad parts too?

      I can only say that for me it is sometimes worth using EBay. You may decide to use a different online auction or none at all.

      There are things I don't like about many stores and services I use, I deal and if they are bad enough I go elsewhere if I can.

      The cure of the ills of Democracy is more Democracy.

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    6. Re:Still staying by Black+Parrot · · Score: 1

      > > So, today, eBay lost at least me as customer. .

      > You have to the weigh the sheer convenience of getting good money for your stuff (without going through a middleman) vs. a single irritating email.

      Ah, it's good to see that there are still smart customers out there.

      BTW, I just added you to the International Spam Distribution Company's mailing list. You'll be hearing about lots of bargin prices and MAKE MONEY FAST! opportunities from them, too.

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    7. Re:Still staying by cicho · · Score: 1

      It doesn't only take half a second. Depending on your connectjon speed, it will take up to a few seconds to receive the message. Seeing that it's from eBay, you'll probably read it before you delete it. (In fact, deleting it without reading is going to cause you even more grief in this case.) So you read it, then delete it. Much more than half a second, and then you either repeat the procedure for each and every eBay message they choose to spam you with, OR you take even more time to go to the web site, log on, and change your prefs again. They're not getting your money, but they *are* getting some of your time and some of your attention.

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      "Only the small secrets need to be protected. The big ones are kept secret by public incredulity." - Marshall McLuhan
    8. Re:Still staying by jbrians · · Score: 1

      I agree. What they did was pretty slimy and underhanded. We certainly don't want to encourage this sort of corporate behavior, but it is only spam. It takes half a second to delete it. -Brian

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  29. She Didnt REALLY mean NO, Your Honor by somethingwicked · · Score: 5
    I don't think this line of reasoning would work in court very well:

    Yes, Your Honor, She said "NO!" to all my come-ons.

    But most of the other girls I have asked have said YES, so her answer MUST have been an error.

    So I just put her in line with the rest of the community...and well, you know

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    1. Re:She Didnt REALLY mean NO, Your Honor by nlvp · · Score: 1

      She said "No", but since I'd forgotten to set the default to "Yes", I assumed that she would have said "Yes" had I answered for her. Since I didn't give her the chance to let me answer for her, I assumed that had I given her the chance, that's the way she would have gone. Yr'honor'sir.

  30. me too by austad · · Score: 2

    I got one also. I replied with a very nasty letter and a threat to report them to MAPS and ORBS. If I receive anything else from them, I will definitely stop using them and happily report them to the blackhole lists.

    When people say "don't send me any shit", it means "don't send me any shit". I guess they don't really know what that means.

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    1. Re:me too by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      I have to agree.... the MAPS RBL that is used to stop web site traffic just goes too far. Its a bad idea.

      However... the Maps email RBLs are not the same beast and IMHO are completely legitimate and a "good idea", and one that works. I would wholeheartedly support such a listing.

      (noite I said MAPS, not ORBS, who has proven to be a "Good idea" with a piss poor implimentation and "y hand" additions that go too far and make them useless)

      -Steve

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      "I opened my eyes, and everything went dark again"
    2. Re:me too by xinit · · Score: 1
      We're sorry, but in your post to slashdot, it appears that an error occured during posting that kept the default, standard eBay post of "eBay is great" from appearing in your message, and instead, the erroneous message above was received.

      Since this is obviously an error, we have censore^H^H^H^H^H^H^Hcorrected the problem. Now everything is double plus good.

      The past was erased, the erasure was forgotten, the lie became truth.

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  31. This is not spam by brundlefly · · Score: 1

    I have a problem with our terms here. We need to stop calling this spam. It's not spam because you gave them your email address. True, you asked them not to send you any email, but you still gave them your address, knowing that if the situation warranted it they would be able to send you mail. Well, the situation warranted it (in their minds) so they sent you mail.

    It's annoying, but it's not spam. It's just you doing business with a company who sometimes conducts business in a way you find irritating.

    That's very different from someone you don't know mining your email address to send you mail on topics they have no idea whether or not you will be interested in, purely for the sake of profiting on the 1/100,000th customer.

    1. Re:This is not spam by sqlrob · · Score: 1

      No, It's SPAM.

      SPAM == Unsolicited Commercial E-mail.

      If you checked "NO" on the preferences, anything they send you is unsolicited.

    2. Re:This is not spam by norrisd · · Score: 1

      Oh, I'm sorry, e-bay is mail-raping us.

  32. Kind of like... by Black+Parrot · · Score: 5

    This is kind of like when that Hot Babe opts out of a torrid sexual encounter at your place. You wait five minutes, quaff another brewsky, and ask again.

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    1. Re:Kind of like... by connorbd · · Score: 1

      Of course, you might get away with it if she was polite about it, but what eBay seems to be doing is the equivalent of groping you after you slapped it...

      /Brian

    2. Re:Kind of like... by Technician · · Score: 2

      Hmm, Maybe it's time to ask "what part of NO do you not understand"

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    3. Re:Kind of like... by GungaDan · · Score: 1

      Alternate headline: EBay mail-rapes users.

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  33. Sent off a litttle cease and desist note to ebay by Intrinsic · · Score: 1
    here is a message you sent to a customer about resetting his prefs:

    Dear cadrys,

    Several times a month, eBay sends out valuable email communications with news, offers and special events that help you buy and sell. Unfortunately, we have noticed that an error occurred during your registration process that prevented you from receiving these communications. Many of your Notification Preference defaults were set to "no" rather than to "yes", which means that unlike other eBay members, you're not receiving these types of communications.

    We'd like to resolve this problem quickly and efficiently. Therefore, on 1/8/01, we returned all your Notification Preferences to the standard default of "yes" to put you in line with the rest of the eBay community. However, we want you to choose your Notification Preferences rather than rely on our standard defaults and will therefore not include you in any communications until 1/23/01. This will provide you with some time to evaluate these choices and modify your Notification Preferences. You will, however, continue to receive certain administrative emails that are part of executing your eBay transactions

    I Scott Larson, really do not appearicate resetting someones prefs without their permission, the whole point of user prefs is to make your own decisions about what spam mail you do and do not want. please contact me on your resolution with this issue, what you plan on doing in the future, because if this is the attiude your company has on users and their prefs then I do not want to be apart of it and will be terminating my account. If I do not receive a response in one week, I will be contacting your company by other means.

    Sincerly,
    Scott Larson
    Sonic solutions
    Trinsic@cubedd.com

  34. I didn't even get a notice by Potent · · Score: 1

    They evidently changed mine without even giving me the courtesy of an email about it. I just checked and found all of my prefs set to "Yes" (at least the spam-related stuff.) I just love the line that popped up after I submitted the changes: "Your preferences have been saved. Please note that changes to your preferences may take approximately 14 days to be reflected in our communication to you." Still, where else can you go? No other auction house has as much stuff for sale or as many potential buyers for whatever you are trying to sell. :|

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  35. Hanging .PLChad by Super1-Dave · · Score: 1
    You obviously have failed to fully click through on your preferences in violation of our acceptable use policy therefor we are going to chose for you...

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  36. typical knee-jerk reaction by J.J. · · Score: 1

    You know, if I were a troll, I'd be in hog heaven. this is typical slashdot knee-jerk BS.

    I finally signed up for an ebay account a few weeks ago.

    And I didn't receive this e-mail.

    Is it possible, just for a second, that, God forbid, they're telling the truth, and some mysterious "error" DID occur when you signed up?

    Imagine this: monthly (annual, bi-annual, first, whatever) audit shows that for the users that created accounts from the period of A to B, there is an abnormal number of users who selected to recieve no communications at all. After a bit of checking it turns out that sure enough, there was a problem. So now you have this block of thousands of users whose communications preferences you don't know. What do you do?

    Ignore it? Yeah, the PHBs will love that.

    Send an e-mail explaining that there was an error, and ask them to review their 'communication preferences'? Won't work, because folks like my Mom will get lost, quickly.

    Send an e-mail explaining that there was an error, set them back to defaults, and apologize? This, to me, seems like the best option, because if you turned the settings off, then you obviously wanted them off, and will go through the trouble to turn them off again. Unlike my mom, who doesn't know one way or the other.

    Suck it up, folks.

    J.J.

  37. Re:Such a difficult Task... by unicaller · · Score: 1

    Not only that in most states if you own your house YOU pay to have your trash picked up. So there wasting your money.

  38. How about returning the favor...? by CRM+Slave · · Score: 1

    If even twenty or so /. ers set up anonymous accounts and sent a steady stream of "You maybe receiving this email in error. If you do not want to receive this message, please delete and hope you don't get it again." to ebay support for a day or two - just enough to cost them a little money by tying up their tech resources, not a DoS attack - do you think they would get the msg.? We do have legal ways of fighting back...

    If I didn't love you, I'd hate you...

  39. Re:No notice here, they didn't touch my account by rawburt · · Score: 1

    I find it more odd that you question why people make their own choices.

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  40. Stolen directly from the Hormel Website by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1
    From http://www.spam.com/ci/ci_in.htm

    We do not object to use of this slang term to describe
    UCE, although we do object to the use of our product
    image in association with that term.
    Also, if the term is
    to be used, it should be used in all lower-case letters to
    distinguish it from our trademark SPAM, which should
    be used with all uppercase letters.

  41. Re:When you receive the emails... by Coolfish · · Score: 1

    it isn't junk mail. junk mail is unsolicited, ie you had no previous business contact with the company. Even though you said you would rather not receive mail from them, they can still (legally) send you stuff.

  42. pouting faux-boycotts by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 4
    The reason that you hear a lot of that sort of "they just lost me!" grandstanding is two-fold:

    For one thing, people, especially geeks, are extremely loath to admit their own powerlessness and inefficacy in a situation. Even the passing gesture of non-consumption, as inauthentic and short-lived as it is, seems like a response of some sort. The fact that most of us are essentially at the whim of the big players of the system in which we choose to participate is an uncomfortable one.

    The second reason is political - the libertarian credo is that the market will resolve all such behaviors. Admitting that the market couldn't do so in any given situation would be a sort of sacrilige, and could lead to such horrors as the European privacy legislations, trade practice controls and other frightening instances of useful public policy.

    1. Re:pouting faux-boycotts by Lemmy+Caution · · Score: 5
      However, many defenders of the libertarian credo imply that either some optima will be achieved by market pressures, or that a viable alternative will always be created in the market. At its most basic, this overlooks network effects and entry barrier costs. Network effects are especially powerful in more technologically advanced markets - if 80 percent of your infrastructure already relies on a vendor, platform, or standard, producers which don't have access to those standards will not be able to offer a viable choice, and a consumer will not be reasonably able to avoid sourcing from those producers. Just like the only way to avoid taxes is to live a below-the-poverty-line Unabomber-like existence in the woods, the only way to completely step out of the emerging lock-in of proprietary systems, platforms, and protocols is to simply buy nothing: in terms of the practical demands of day to day life, it isn't really an option.

      Ironically, you've mentioned an example for which real-life free-market analogs exist. Even if you don't use a microsoft product, you pay the "Microsoft tax" for systems from well over 95% of the vendors (the exceptions are out of the mainstream market, and due to economies of scale often not even any cheaper) because of the dynamics of contractual agreements between producers - no government involved. Unlike the public sector, where you can actually vote and even run for a seat on the school board 9and probably win,) there is virtually no chance of you being able to change the relationships between the Microsofts and Dells and Intels and Compaqs and IBMS and the like.

    2. Re:pouting faux-boycotts by seichert · · Score: 1
      he second reason is political - the libertarian credo is that the market will resolve all such behaviors. Admitting that the market couldn't do so in any given situation would be a sort of sacrilige, and could lead to such horrors as the European privacy legislations, trade practice controls and other frightening instances of useful public policy.

      The libertarian credo does not in anyway imply that the market will always give you exactly what you want. However, it does imply that this disgruntled customer has the right to stop patronizing eBay and consider patronizing a competitor. There is no guarantee that this customer will ever find the "perfect" online auction site. It is hard to find any perfect product or service. However, in a free market there are many alternatives and I am therefore free to chose the one that I consider best.

      Government, on the other hand, offers no such choice. If I think that my government run schools are poor I can't withhold my tax money. I still have to pay, regardless of the quality I perceive in them. The more control the government asserts over the market the less choice I have.
      Stuart Eichert

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  43. After a period of inactivity by Grand+Facade · · Score: 1

    they slam your settings to get you to visit their site. This happened to me on Amazon as well and I have seen it happen to others. Instead of spewing they could send a notice that their records indicate that you have not visited their site in X days and ask to click on link to verify your continued interest and keep you in the DB.
    However the marketing machine does not want to give you the opportunity to be removed from their DB they want to keep you and get you to visit their site regularly. So they send spew, and send you on a goose chase around their site to try and find where to unsubscribe. Hopfully you will give up before you luck into the place where they have hidden the unsubscribe stuff, only to find that you need a password for an account that you [did not create/don't remember] to reset your preferences.
    After the third try, I sent them a cease and desist order informing them that further non-administrative messages sent to any of my addresses (and listed said addresses) from them or any of their "affiliates" would be read at a rate of $20 per line at 60 char (max) per line including headers. And that any bill for such not paid in full by 30 days after submission, would be followed by small claims action as well as steps being taken to submit them to global spam filtering solutions. Included my full name and contact info and noted the date, county, and state.
    I recieved a personal response that my addresses had been removed within hours! I have not heard from them again nor will I ever do business with them again.
    As far a E-bay goes, I do not find it usefull in any way, unless I was one of those persons who will drive 20 miles to save a dime. I'm sure there are exceptions such as hobbyists and collectors who are willing to spend a great deal of time rooting around, dealing with the spew from E-bay, getting their address harvested by lurking lusers, dealing with the fraud and other pitfalls just to find a deal on that one unique item in a million pieces of shit. (Ah, the thrill of the hunt!)

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  44. Maybe they meant it when they said "error"... by drteknikal · · Score: 1

    I haven't received this message from eBay, and I opted out of virtually all their message types. I can certainly see that someone who registered back when they were rolling out then rolling back their new software might have registered some preferences that the database can't deal with.

    I buy a LOT on eBay, and I sell occasionally, too. I've got a good feedback rating, and they haven't seen fit to fuck with me yet.

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  45. Re:"Your selection is an error" by NeMon'ess · · Score: 3
    You're wrong. There was no error. This was purposeful. I got this email as well. Do you know what it says on their website when changing preferences back? "May take up to two weeks for changes to be applied" Do you know what two of the options are that were changed to "YES" are??? "Sell my information to junk mailers" and "Sell my information to telemarketers"

    I am incensed that ebay did this. If I get a single ebay type ad from anyone I'm calling them if I can find a number on their site.

    In the unlikely chance there was actually an error, ebay should have given warning of the change to allow for confirmation that my settings were in order.

  46. Re:Such a difficult Task... by Todd+Knarr · · Score: 1

    Main difference: snail-mail spam has been pretty much steady in volume for a decade or so now. That's because it costs the sender to send it. Not as much as a regular letter, no, but it still costs so they can't send out unlimited amounts of it.

    E-mail spam, OTOH, doesn't cost them a dime to send, and the volume keeps growing every month. Why not, after all there's no reason to not send it, no cost to sending it to people who don't want it. I want my mailbox to be usable.

    Of course, some filters do help. For example, one generates a permanent transient delivery error on any mail that isn't addressed to me. That makes a lot of the spam the spammer's problem, but I still have to dispose of a couple dozen pieces every day that get through.

  47. Re:you're not a customer by A+coward+on+a+mouse · · Score: 1

    Who cares about eBay's source of revenue? Is that my problem? Even if the ads were their only source of revenue (which it isn't), your argument amounts to corporate welfare.

    Imagine this: I offer you a free ice cream cone. As part of the offer, I give you the option to choose whether you want to give me your car. Like any sane individual, you say "No, you can't have my car, not for a stupid ice cream cone." I then decide I really need the money from selling your car, so I just take it.

    According to your logic, you should accept this treatment because stealing your car is my only source of revenue. The point I'm trying to make is twofold: First, a company's business plan and revenue model are not the customer's responsibility. Second, a customer's personal information is something of value. If a company says they are not going to sell your personal information, but then does it anyway, they have stolen something from you. You can tolerate it if you want to, but the rest of us have every right to complain if we don't like it.

    my $0.02 (US, or about $0.025 Canadian)

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  48. Re:What's the big deal? by MarchingAnts · · Score: 1

    Exactly. There unspoken attitude is that that "no doesn't really mean no" and you're not "normal" if you don't want to recieve email advertisements. Like they said (italics mine): Therefore, on 1/8/01, we returned all your Notification Preferences to the standard default of 'yes' to put you in line with the rest of the eBay community" Great. Is this the marketing dept.'s great idea? Peer pressure? What's next? "e*bay: If you don't like ads, you're a freaking Commie!"? Oh, how gracious of them to notify you before they change the default preferences you asked for! It's the same ol' rule of CYA they're practicing here, folks.

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  49. I bought a CD from Wesley Willis. by Brian+Knotts · · Score: 1
    But I handed him the $20 personally (for the t-shirt, too, of course), so I figure he didn't give any to RIAA.

    His show really whipped a donkey's ass, incidentally.

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  50. Unsolicited Commercial Email? by sharkey · · Score: 1

    Anyone else think this sounds like spam? Has anyone who received reported it as such?

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  51. I'm one of eBay's best customers by slickwillie · · Score: 2

    It must be true, since I got an email from them that started out "as one of our best customers we'd like to offer you ... blahblahblah...".

    The only time I ever visited their site was when I followed a direct link to:
    BadKitty stuff.

  52. "Put you in line" by sharkey · · Score: 1

    Is this the line with blindfolds, cigarettes and last requests? Is there a drummer rolling out a slow, measured beat?

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  53. Re:Why, exactly, is this surprising? by RareHeintz · · Score: 1
    Indeed. Your response is observant and reasoned.

    But I think part of the point is that "wrong" was not defined in terms of what the user might want, but what eBay would want, without thought of the user. It seems unlikely (to me anyway, but I don't think I'm unreasonable in this belief) that if the error had been the other way (people who didn't want email accidentally getting the "send me mail" bit set) that eBay would have sent an email, taken any action, or even acknowledged the problem. I bet they'd even lie about the existence of the problem, if some observant user(s) turned it up.

    The problem isn't that they're out to make money - that's a fine goal. The problem is that they are willing to ignore consumer benefit and do things like send spam and invade privacy to do it, and they don't spend time in prison for it.

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  54. The meaning of the e-mail by javert · · Score: 1

    I think the actual meaning of that e-mail is not that your selection of "no" is an error but rather that the standard defaults (which should have been all yes) were set to no for some reason when you filled out the form. Since most people get sucked into spam by ignorance of the option to disable it, they assumed that you should've been ignorant and gotten sucked into spam as well, except that they made a mistake with the defaults, and therefore are now correcting it. It's either that or they're trying to make up a lame excuse to put everyone on their spam list...

  55. My what prompt service you have... by Q-Hack! · · Score: 1

    I just went back to ebay to re-opt-out, this is what they sent me...

    "Thank you for letting us know which types of eBay communications you'd like to receive."

    "Your preferences have been saved. Please note that changes to your preferences may take approximately 14 days to be reflected in our communication to you."

    14 days... doesn't that seem a bit much for an online service? I could understand 24 hours maybe, but 14 days??? I suppose they have to snail mail each of there departments just to make sure.

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  56. Re:Just Over One Piece of Mail?!? by IanCarlson · · Score: 1

    "Breach of Trust"?

    I hate to sound Troll-ish, but what are you doing trusting a corporation like eBay in the first place?

    Right now, there's no evidence that this was done with malice. It seems like there is malice from the outside, but who knows what the person who set this plan into action was thinking.

    Like I've said, when they do it for a second time, despite user uproar, then they're evil. This is a minor inconvience, like a speeding ticket, a headache, or a "News Flash" during your favorite show and probably shouldn't provoke you to cancel your eBay account. Despite their current stupidity stint, I still think that the services they provide are top-quality, and I'm not going to inconvience myself further by throwing that service away just because of a single bad decision on the company's part.

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  57. Not unlike... by beland · · Score: 1

    ...cdnow.com, where I clicked all of the "opt out of spam" boxes, and yet continue to get weekly updates I care not about. Mental note: complain to the humans there.

  58. I can see it now... by Captain+Spam · · Score: 2
    It'll happen eventually...

    Dear eBay customer,

    Our service allows netizens to bid for various items via auction. This allows them to buy rare items if they place a bid higher than other users' bids. Unfortunately, we have noticed that you have not placed a bid in the past few weeks.

    Effective immediately, we have placed and won numerous bids using the credit card information we have on your file. You shall be billed for them within the month. We hope you enjoy using eBay!

    -eBay Support

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  59. Re:Right. by greydmiyu · · Score: 1

    eBay won't suffer from this, and I wouldn't be surprised if you frequent their site again within a few months.

    If he is anything like me, no, he won't. When Amazon decided to do their BS patent work against bn.com guess who has gotten every dime of my internet business since then. Right, bn.com.

    If eBay pulls that shit on me, not that they will since my account has been inactive for over a year, they'll get the same treatment. I want computer equipment I can go to Yahoo! or Egghead or several other difference places to buy and sell. There are loads of specialized auction sites out there that one can quite happily not go to eBay.

    Passively support the use of Microsoft products? Uhm, well, let's see. This post is composed in Opera under Linux running KDE2. Oh, and it is IDing itself as Mozilla 4.76, not IE.

    Me thinks the "weak-willed" comment wasn't directed at technophiles in general, but one in particular named "MAJ Rantage" on /.

    Simply put there are some things you do NOT let slide. And calling that spamming a "Service" is one of them.

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  60. Re:"Your selection is an error" by clyons · · Score: 1
    Kinda reminds me of The Foolproof Ballot for Palm Beach County. You know what you want. You choose what you want. Ut's just that in the end, someone "helps" you make a "better" choice.

    Didn't realize that Katherine Harris was eBay's CIO.

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  61. Slippery slope... by 109+97+116+116 · · Score: 1
    When they said:

    "Unfortunately, we have noticed that an error occurred during your registration process..."

    They basically legitimized data alteration without permission from the user.

    Cracking is also alteration of data without permission from the user so where does the line get drawn?

  62. Re:"Your selection is an error" by SquadBoy · · Score: 1

    I just yesterday got a shiney new card to replace the one that I had used on Egghead before no strangeness on it but the bank just sent it out anyway. Pretty cool of the bank so yea they (egghead) at some point reported the problem to the bank because I did not.

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  63. Opt out by Revidy · · Score: 1

    I was searching some news articles and apparently this has become somewhat of a hot topic on various news pages. There is an article, http://news.cnet.com/news/0-1007-201-4423010-0.htm l?tag=pt.abc.tech..ne_4423010, on cnet about it and it is on the ABCNews page.

  64. Re:NANAE kooks by Eggplant62 · · Score: 1

    Christ, another Slashdot troll. Who let you fuck heads onto of the Slashdot severs? Why don't you stagger off and write some whining little troll to your message board and leave the rest of the net alone. We don't give a shit about you.

    Meow.

  65. I also did NOT receive this email, however . . . by whistler-z · · Score: 1

    I also did NOT receive this email, however I went and checked my preferences at Ebay "just in case". Lo and behold, the fact that I didn't get the email is irrelevant, because all of my preferences have been reset.

    I would suggest that everyone who is registered with Ebay check their preferences "just in case", as the absense of the email does not necessarily mean that your preferences were not changed.

  66. Re:This doesn't bother me one iota - It bugs me by Xenomech · · Score: 1

    First off, they're giving you time to re-opt-out of the mailings. They are not sending any mail to you (despite re-setting all of the choices to "yes") until you have passed the date by which you can set your choices back to "no". That's fair warning.

    Second, even if they pull this on you every month, you still have a choice of opting out, and besides, that's one email instead of the 50-100 you would have gotten per month if you would have kept the options set to "yes".

    I can deal with this. Even monthly



    First: 'Re-opting-out' is not 'opting-out'. Opting-out is a one time thing. It's not fair warning unless they state on the page you opt-out that "This opting-out is only temporary. You will automatically be opted-in after X months".

    Second: Would you still deal with it if is were biweekly? Or weekly? Or every other day? Or every day? Or every hour? Or every half hour?... Where does it stop?

    "No" means "No". It does not mean "No, but, in a little, while assume I meant 'Yes' and tell me to say 'No' again if I *really* meant 'No' the first time".

    Some of us don't want any unsolicited email in our inboxes. Even one a month is too much when you specifically asked not to get it. And then it's one a month from this company, one a month from that... It adds up. The worst attitude to take would be to simply bend over and say "It's only once a month. It's not so bad, really." There should be absolutely no tolerance for this kind of crap.

    IMHO, the best thing to do in this situation is for everyone who got this email to reply to it and demand Ebay change the settings back to 'No' instead of giving Ebay the pleasure of having you visit their site.

  67. Re:No notice here, they didn't touch my account by Rurik · · Score: 1

    Well, not that I question it, just trying to see it from eBay's point of view. I don't think that this is such a serious case that everyone is blowing it up to be. Some manager does a sql query, and sees a bunch of records 0'd out, and believes that it could have been caused by a system error.

  68. Re:Such a difficult Task... by A+coward+on+a+mouse · · Score: 1

    Your "let-them-hit-delete" attitude totally misses the point. Not everyone is just exactly like you, you know. Many people, including most Europeans, pay per-minute or per-byte for Internet access. If I were one of these people, it would enrage me to have to buy additional connect time or transfer bandwidth just to get the headers of all the spam to delete it.

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  69. Re:Way to go, ace. by PsionicMan · · Score: 1
    I didn't get an email either.

    Damn... I guess he's becoming a paranoid through osmosis. I mean, what with the constant barrage of comments about Foo Company's latest Bar a secret plot to overthrow the constitution, it seems likely that some of it would have rubbed of on Hemos.

    I would imagine that he got an email, a story submission from someone who also got it, and then automatically assumed that the whole world must have, too.

    Shit does happen to systems every day, and backups aren't always available/up-to-the-minute.

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  70. Dot-Com Community! by BigBlockMopar · · Score: 2

    No, they altered his preferences and have "given" him about 2 weeks to change them back before they go into effect. Underhanded and wrong, sure.

    Come on, how can you question this?

    After all, Ebay is, like, one of ten Dot-Coms that is financially viable and one of two that actually turns a profit.

    How can you question their motives?

    If ya want this Internet thing ta work, mebbe that's a part of it all.

    Just as long as they don't send *me* a notice like that.

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  71. ebay by bigredneck66 · · Score: 1

    Just shift all the spam to Ebay or to Hotmail. All that is needed is another email address and then you can change your Ebay account to send mail to the new email address, and from there forward back to Ebay.

  72. everyone's perfect except them by mjgamble · · Score: 1
    I see. No one has ever had a bug in their program or a database corruption problem. Here's how I read their email:

    Sorry, we've had some internal problems in the past and we can't tell what your email setting were. We default everyone to be notified, so we are setting the users we believe got corrupted back to the default. You have two weeks to take the 1 minute to log into our site before we start sending you our "spam".


    How horrible is this? Most places would've just turned the spam faucet back to full and left you wondering how it happened. I am sure at the IT level someone wrote it as I did, but by the time it got through the legal and marketing departments, it looks like the email you got. And just for reference, I have all my email prefs turned off as well and did not get this message, so it definitely isn't happening to all their users. If I had to guess, it was probably the early adopters that are getting these messages because their email choices probably changed somewhere along the way.
    1. Re:everyone's perfect except them by Xenomech · · Score: 1

      The proper action for EBay would have been to email everyone affected and ask them to please opt back in if they had opted in before, giving them a link in the email to make it easy for them. This benefits Ebay and the users.

      Instead, they did the opposite: Force people who opted out to opt back in against their will, then tell them if they really opted out to try and find their settings on the website and opt out again. This benefits only Ebay.

  73. Re:Such a difficult Task... by prisoner · · Score: 1

    I don't disagree with you. I've given up on hotmail as the tidal wave of spam keeps rising and it's a shame. Hotmail was very convenient. The snail spam just pisses me off as I know that the same crap is delivered to all of the houses in the area and 99.999999% of them pitch it and off it goes to the dump. I'm not especially worried about the environment but that seems like a tremendous waste of resources for naught.

  74. OK, it really sucks that they did this, but... by ubernostrum · · Score: 2

    As worded, they're not doing anythiing illegal (though IANAL...just one in training). Look at the message again:

    "Many of your Notification Preference defaults were set to "no" rather than to "yes", which means that unlike other eBay members, you're not receiving these types of communications."

    This is saying that when you registered, their registration form was screwed up, and the default settings on items was "no". Then they realize the error, and notice that, oddly enough, everything is set to "no". So they wonder (in pure self-interest, but if you expect anything more of them you're an idiot) if maybe you did accept the defaults blindly, in which case you'd be saying "yes" to everything. So they change the settings and send you an email, because if you really want everything set to "no", you can go reset everything how you want it.

    And I know that this may seem an invasion of your privacy here, or a violation of their policies, but it really isn't; there was an error in the defaults, and you chose settings that were remarkably in line with what those erroneous defaults were. They can't find out if you wanted it some other way, because as the settings stand, they can't send you an email to find out. So they err on the side of finding out what really happened, change your settings so they can email you, and then email you.

    Is this legal? Probably. Does it violate any policies anywhere? Probably not. Is it rife with possibilities for abuse? Yeah, and that sucks. Is it simply an act of blatant self-interest? Yeah, but they're a corporation and we're a capitalistic society. If you want them to do something else, become a business ethics consultant.


  75. Re:Way to go, ace. by kevkar · · Score: 1
    Lost Data? Just reading the letter:

    an error occurred during your registration process that prevented you from receiving these communications. Many of your Notification Preference defaults were set to "no" rather than to "yes"

    indicates that they didn't lose any data, how else would they know your preferences were originally "no"?

    Why be complacent.
    kevin

  76. Re:"Your selection is an error" by flink · · Score: 1

    The same thing hapenned to me with the CD Universe break in awhile back. The only difference is that my bank, Bank Boston (Now Fleet) charged my account for 2-day rushing me a new card I didn't ask for. Not only that, but the card number in question was expired, but they replaced my _new_ card anyway. Check your next bank statement carefully.

  77. Don't be an idiot by 13013dobbs · · Score: 1

    Do you even know what ORBS is for? Theya re for open relays. Unless eBay is using an open relay to send their shit, ORBS doesn't want to hear your complaint. If you are gong to bitch, at least be smart enough to bitch at the right people.

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  78. Re:This doesn't bother me one iota - It bugs me by erat · · Score: 1

    One question: what have you done to stop junk mail from coming to your home? Anything?

  79. Sue? by Galvatron · · Score: 4

    If they reset your preferences, and THEN told you, isn't this a violation of their privacy policy? Presumably they did this because they had a really big customer looking to buy their email list, and so they reset everyone's preferences, sold the list, and then let people switch back. So can't Ebay get caught in a class action suit for contract violation?

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  80. The DMA is like that, too by Animats · · Score: 2

    The Direct Marketing Association's Mail Preference Service is like that. You have to tell them every few years to turn you off again.

  81. Re:"Your selection is an error" by BeefyBoy · · Score: 1

    It's typical for a business to do this. You sign up to use a service so they can say F&*# You anytime. I've seen places where you sign up, select NO for every piece of email and you still get a ton of crap in your mail box. We soend to much time typing "REMOVE" in an email just to keep our inbox free of junk. Suspend your account and go to another site

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  82. Re:What about wolves by crucini · · Score: 2

    Damn, there goes my theory. And I was so hoping to free our language of one awkward construct. Damn you, wolves, for injecting real-world complexity into a nice theory!

  83. Columbia House by cavemanf16 · · Score: 1
    eBay aren't the only ones who fail to understand what 'opting-out' really means. It means that although I want access to their site, I don't want to be bombarded with emails every week. Columbia House apparently does not get this. I just last night had to go to their website (of which I *used* to be a member, and supply a bogus email address, because rather than providing me with information about my account that was relavent, they kept sending me promotional emails every week, even though I unchecked all of their email options. (I'm sure they had a disclaimer saying they sent out email every week somewhere, but I'm sorry if I don't have the time to read 10 pages of legal notices - and understand every last word of legal mumbo-jumbo.) Unfortunately they lost my business because of their unrelenting use of email and snail mail spam.

    I do realize that they now have a program in which you never receive spam, but based on their past performance of customer service (I had to return CD's and DVD's numerous times even after choosing 'send nothing at this time' on their website) I cancelled their service. I understood the buy five CD's in two years commitment that signing up for their service entailed. I fulfilled my end of the bargain. I thought that once I had done so, and even before that I would have been shown so common decency and trust to not be bombarded with advertisement after advertisement.

    In conclusion, buy things from the little guy who will give you the courtesy and respect that should be a given. Sure it may cost more, but you'll be showing the big corporations what still really matters to customers: CUSTOMER SERVICE!

  84. Don't worry Hemos! by 4n0nYm0u5+C0w4rD · · Score: 1

    I won't tell everyone that the only junk ya sell is stuff from EverQuest :) Seems like a good way to make money while playing games, you must have made $50 already!
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  85. yuck by RainbowSix · · Score: 1

    I guess I'm going to have to "opt-out" of ebay entirely also.
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  86. Re:Right. by Zakk · · Score: 1

    Of course any individual is individually powerless (usually) against large corporations, governments, etc. But! You have to act as if you would if your lonely voice actually "mattered." You rely on the fact that if everyone acts similarly, your voice will be heard as a part of the group voice. I think your cynicism is just a bit too overboard...individual decisions do matter when they are examined in the context of the group response because they comprise the group response. I for one will continue to react to corporations as if the CEO was a personal friend. When millions of my closest friends and I act together it has the same effect.

  87. Error? by clockwork18 · · Score: 1

    I don't quite get why they decided to call this an error... It's not like some computer-gremlin magically adjusted all of the prefs to no. This is unfortunate, as these sorts of computer-gremlins would provide excellent excuses in the IT world...

    1. Re:error? by xinit · · Score: 1

      Well, it's never happened before - everyone ELSE let's us email them - why don't YOU?!?

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  88. It's not that big, let it slide? by clyons · · Score: 1
    In the time it took you to load /. and post the story, you could have gone to e-bay and flipped the switches off.

    We shouldn't *HAVE* to. If it were truly an error, why would the "correction" be to simply put us "in line with the rest of the eBay community"? Even if there *IS* nothing dirty going, the wording of their letter is damnable.

    Not that I don't see how it's a stupid action, I just think you two are whining a little too much about it.

    Why not complain now? Is this not the time to do so, BEFORE this is considered an acceptable practice? It's much harder to get rid of a practice once too many people (or companies) come to believe such a practice is acceptable.

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  89. The end of innocence by Geek+Dash+Boy · · Score: 1
    This is happening more and more with web sites that hold your personal info. Very few sites give you the option to remove your info from their database ("Cancel Your Account").

    In a way it's an end of innocence... we have given our names, mailing addresses, phone numbers, and e-mail addresses freely in the hopes of having a convenient place to order (or bid on, or sell) items online, and now that info is being abused.

    What's the solution? Change your real info on those sites to bogus info (preferably to the mailing address of someone you don't like... *grin*).

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    1. Re:The end of innocence by Grab · · Score: 1

      Well, that's why my "spam account" (which I use for signing up to this stuff) is on Hotmail. I don't really care how much it clogs up Hotmail's servers... :->

      Grab.

    2. Re:The end of innocence by wcb4 · · Score: 1

      You could always edit your preferences to all Yesses, and change your email address to root@127.0.0.1.
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    3. Re:The end of innocence by iamriley · · Score: 1

      Change your real info on those sites to bogus info...

      I did that with my Amazon site when they had their TOS change a while back. Unfortunately, they can still count it among their accounts, which means that it still looks good on paper to stockholders. Also, if Amazon ever changed their ways and I decided to sign up again, I would have to create a new account. There is no way that their user base can shrink.

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    4. Re:The end of innocence by Sly+Mongoose · · Score: 1

      Change your real info on those sites to bogus info (preferably to the mailing address of someone you don't like...

      I use a unique userid for each company I do business with. If they (or anyone else) starts to spam me at that address, I use the aliases file to redirect the mail back to them. If they continue to spam me, they actually spam their own customer service department. Or sales, or the CEO or whoever's e-mail addy I can find. Or all of the above.

  90. How to get signed off of ebay? by outofoptions · · Score: 1

    When I got the message, I tried to find a way to deactivate my account. I can't find one. I was leary about signing on to start with becasue you agree to 'endemnify(sp?)' them. (this thing needs a spell checker) I've heard that means if they get sued and lose, YOU pay.

  91. Re:Such a difficult Task... by I_hate_spam · · Score: 1

    Pressing delete isn't that difficult but that's not why I fight spam. spam is theft of service, pure and simple. If someone sends me junk paper mail at least they've had to pay the USPS to bring it to me. However they can send me spam daily and, except for the one time cost of their spamware or the occasional account setup when their previous ISP kicked their spamming ass off, it costs them virtually nothing. It costs me. I pay for my access and even if one has an unlimited account, spam costs ISPs money and they do pass those costs on. How would you feel if the postal service delivered junk mail to you postage due? After all, you can just drop in into the trash...

  92. "Your selection is an error" by Grab · · Score: 5

    Nice to see that selecting "no" is an error! :-) What's next then? Maybe they'll have a "no" option in the sign-up, but when you click "Submit", it'll come up with "Error - you failed to fully sign up for mailbox-clogging shite. Please try again."

    Grab.

    1. Re:"Your selection is an error" by crucini · · Score: 2
      Yeah, maybe my $1,000,000 bid will actually be just an error from now on.

      That might be the solution. What if a few hundred people sent Ebay email saying in effect, "your preferences on myhobbysite.org have been accidentally set to 'No test bids'. We are turning them back on so you can be the same as the rest of the myhobbysite.org community. If you want to opt out, etc. We will randomly place a test bid of approx. 1,000,000 on several thousand auctions a day."
      Turnabout is fair play.
    2. Re:"Your selection is an error" by corbettw · · Score: 2

      Re-read the text:"Unfortunately, we have noticed that an error occurred during your registration process that prevented you from receiving these communications. Many of your Notification Preference defaults were set to "no" rather than to "yes", which means that unlike other eBay members, you're not receiving these types of communications."

      Notice they reference the defaults. They're not saying "Your lips say no, but your eyes say yes." They're saying "We didn't give you the oppurtunity to say yes or no, so for now we'll assume you meant "yes", but won't follow up on that assumption until you've had time to tell us what you meant."

      If this were anything more than them making sure their customers aren't "victims" of a system error, you'd expect *a lot* of people to get this email. I'm an eBay user, and I didn't get one. Neither did anyone I asked about this.

      I hardly see where this makes eBay into some evil nemesis. And it's sure as hell not stuff that matters.

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    3. Re:"Your selection is an error" by telstar · · Score: 1

      Yeah, maybe my $1,000,000 bid will actually be just an error from now on.

    4. Re:"Your selection is an error" by Fishstick · · Score: 1

      >whether 7300 out of several million is out of line with typical rates of reported credit card fraud

      Yah, see your point. They said out of 3 million cards they have in their system (scary enough), only 7,500 users have reported any fraud (about 1/4 of one percent), none of which appears to be directly attributable to the break-in.

      So, I guess they're saying 99.75% of the credit cards in their database for sure weren't disclosed and they have no proof that the rest were really related to their problem. That's still not good enough for me and I wanted to delete my account/CC# from their system, although there doesn't appear to be a way to do that from their website, and I am too lazy to sit on hold for 1/2 hour to talk to someone about it. I haven't seen any strange activity on the card (company card) so I guess I'll let it go.

      My point was that this at least seemed like a better story than e-bay resetting a bunch of account options.

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  93. Re:Unfortunately.... by TekPolitik · · Score: 1
    First, I do think that Ebay has a right to change your user preferences when they feel like it, as long as you still have the option to change them back; it's their server. Yes, it's a stupid little thing only meant to increase their own ad revenue, but legally, they've done nothing wrong.

    Firstly, it may be their server, but the rest of the network, the servers receiving the email and the email addresses are not theirs, and they have absolutely no right over those things. The boundary of their own network is the boundary of their "rights" (corporations don't have rights, but that's another story).

    Secondly, this would be illegal under every single spam related bill ever introduced into Congress, even the DMA sponsored ones.

  94. Hilarious by ReadbackMonkey · · Score: 1

    That is the funniest thing I've read all day.

  95. Re:SPAM - your last line of defense! by deadl0ck · · Score: 1

    I do this also. But there are some sites that don't get "user unknown" messages.

    There are two sites that have been sending my family email for over a year after I removed the alias. I even resorted to blocking the IP to the mail server, they then move the mail server.

    Once your on the NSync (my daughter of course ;), mailing list, your on for life. They will hunt you down!


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  96. Use sneakemail by pointwood · · Score: 2

    As always, sneakemail becomes handy.

    Sneakemail gives you the control over your email-address back - it lets you decide who gets to send you email. If somebody screws you (by sending spam, etc.), you just cancels that email-address.

    Greetings Joergen

  97. Re:Way to go, ace. by hidden · · Score: 1

    I'd buy that theory, except for all that "bringing you in line" crap... that doesn't sound very much like just replacing lost data...

  98. My experiences... by dagoalieman · · Score: 2

    While I remember opting out of everything (as the only good spam is that in a ziploc baggie with an m-150 firecracker tied to your enemy's light socket..), I never got this message.

    They at least gave you time to reset your preferences- I get the impression that possibly a file system went corrupt, so they just reset everyone's profiles to their ideal profile, and then let you reset it if you wanted to (but prayed you let them send spam.)

    Ebay's been good to me- recently had to appeal a non-paying bidder warning where the putz had an invalid email address and never contacted me, and they responded quickly, professionally, etc.

    Anyone had any other bad experiences with Ebay itself? Or good ones? Almost everyone I know is fairly impartial...

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    1. Re:My experiences... by animallogic · · Score: 1
      Yeah, I once found my ideal edit card (Targa 2000 Pro) for ultra cheap and some bastard got it at a higher price than me!

      Damn you Ebay!

    2. Re:My experiences... by GlassUser · · Score: 1
      File system went corrupt? They said in the letter that they noticed that his preference were already set to "no." They could actually read his profile, they just chose to consider a response that they didn't like as an "error."

  99. A case for government intervention? by kadehje · · Score: 2

    I think that this is another of where some (gasp!) government regulation is required in regards to privacy on the Internet.

    Government should not dictate specific policies in regards to what companies can or cannot do with customer information, but should require that companies doing business on the Web create their own policies and post them in "laymen's terms" on their Web site. Companies should be obligated to link to this policy as well as other Terms and Conditions on all pages of a site, or at the very least on all pages that request users for personal information or that allow a user to consummate a transaction. There should be some standard elements in regards to what a policy must address: use of cookies, "web bugs" and other automated tracking devices; how databases containing credit card numbers, e-mail addresses and other user-provided information are accessed, stored, and protected; to whom and under what circumstances this information can be provided to third parties.

    I feel that the government should not dictate privacy policy, but must enforce whatever policy is generated by the private sector. For example, if General Motors were to not pay to repair a broken transmission on a 2000 Chevrolet with 5000 miles on it, the owner of that car could take GM to court. The owner would show the warranty stating that all major parts of the car were guaranteed for 3 years and 36,000 miles, and since the car was bought with the understanding that GM would honor this warranty for the stated term, the judge would order GM to pay for the required repairs. Yet the government has to this date done very little to make sure promises made by web sites like "we'll never sell or give out your e-mail address or credit card information" are upheld. Since promises like these are crucial to many online transactions, it is imperitive that the government step in and make sure these promises are kept and punish violators harshly enough to deter future violations.

    Moreover, the government should give consumers recourse in the event that a company's privacy policy change. Customers should be given the right to insist that all information given to the company under previous privacy policies be removed on pain of serious fines and other penalties. Granted, enforcing such a regulation may be difficult, but many reputable companies would comply, and most others would follow if a violator were to receive a multi-million dollar fine from a judge.

    Those who are completely against government regulation would say that consumers will reward those companies with the "best" privacy policies with their business and walk away from those with less favorable policies. If all companies were honest in their policies and these policies were permanent, then I would tend to agree with this viewpoint. However, without some recourse against a bait-and-switch tactic, consumers can get screwed. Sure, if a company suddenly says "the sale or distribution of all credit card information provided by our customers is fair game" in its privacy policy, people will probably stop shopping there. But what about everyone who bought from there before the change, under the assurance that their information would remain private? This company can still profit from these previous customers. Companies should not benefit from this type of exploitation, and without government intervention, there is little to ensure that these rogue companies can't benefit.

    The Egghead.com case is probably one of the most underreported privacy violations in some time. This is why I said before that the goverment should not only require companies to state when they release information to third parties, but also to detail the procedures they use to protect the information from being stolen. While I don't know statistics in regards to how frequently fraud occurs on credit cards, I would tend to believe the fact that 7300 cardholders reported possible fradulent activity out of 1.5 million or so is a coincidence; this is a rate of roughly 0.5 percent. If these figures are true, then I would believe that this fraudulent activity would have occurred regardless of whether these people shopped at egghead.com. However, the more important fact is that many more people's cards could have been affected, and that something needs to be done to ensure that another similar (and possibly more damaging) incident does not occur with another major commerce site.

    I hope that maybe as the more well-known companies like Amazon.com, egghead.com, and Ebay are coming under fire for these sorts of privacy issues, people will start to take notice and demand that new legislation be passed to outlaw this sort of fraud or that existing statues are interpreted by the courts to cover privacy promises on the Web in the way that warranties and other promises are covered in the physical world.

  100. Every proposed bill would have made this illegal by TekPolitik · · Score: 1

    It's worth noting that this would be illegal under every single spam related bill ever introduced into Congress, even the DMA sponsored ones.

  101. Think i heard something like this by 11thangel · · Score: 1

    Didnt' AT&T do something like that? Where they call you about long distance and "no" seems to sound like "yes" over the amazingly staticy yet advertised by them as crystal clear phone? What's next? Smoking or non-smoking: oh, i'm sure you meant to say smoking, i'll just set you up there anyway.

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  102. Re: Then post with your real e-mail by IanCarlson · · Score: 1

    It's no big secret that Slashdot is a spammer haven, and the e-mail addresses here are quite often harvested. To try to cut down on the spam that I get, I put a "NOSPAM" in my e-mail address.

    E-Bay sent a single message to its users who didn't want constant updates. Sure, it's an inconvience, but we're talking about a single e-mail message. If I were to remove the "NOSPAM" from my e-mail address, my incoming message queue size would increase exponentially.

    You said it yourself, "post with your real email address and let us spam you". "Us" doesn't sound like the single message that E-Bay sent out. I don't agree with what E-Bay did, but it's not like they flooded your Inbox, cancelled your credit card, and killed your houseplants.

    It's not the same thing, Anonymous Coward.

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  103. Re:You do have filters in your e-mail program... by A+coward+on+a+mouse · · Score: 1

    At the risk of repeating myself, here goes:

    Your "let-them-hit-delete" attitude totally misses the point. Not everyone is just exactly like you, you know. Many people, including most Europeans, pay per-minute or per-byte for Internet access. If I were one of these people, it would enrage me to have to buy additional connect time or transfer bandwidth just to get the headers of all the spam to delete it.

    There, I repeated myself. I guess that's what happens when we take risks.

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  104. error? by bmongar · · Score: 1
    Unfortunately, we have noticed that an error occurred during your registration process that prevented you from receiving these communications

    I guess clicking no is an error now.

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  105. Benefit of the doubt by tbo · · Score: 2

    Maybe--just maybe--eBay is telling the truth, and there was some kind of error that corrupted the preferences of some of their users. They set them back to default, and emailed them to let them know. They also instituted a grace period so that you would have time to change the preferences before being deluged with spam. A few people here have stated that they didn't receive the email, even though they had the "No spam" options selected. That kind of supports the limited preferences corruption theory.

    It's also possible that they're doing this as an experiment with a limited section of their customer base, to see how people react.

    Unfortunately, you don't know, so, until you do, don't overreact. Email them to find out why, instead of going nuts on them...

  106. Don't be so surprised... by Sits · · Score: 1
    If they were going to stick to their own rules you wouldn't have received the mail saying that they reset your perferences (because you probably didn't sign up to those email notices). If they are going to force feed you spam you would have thought they would have at least done it right and caused a huge backlash... Oh? They managed that anyway.

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  107. Most people take the easy route. by HoaryCripple · · Score: 1

    It's easy to admit powerlessness. Please walk the path less travelled and fight harder against the power. Be it through civil disobiedence (read: piracy) or some other means such as an absolute refusal to use products by certain vendors. We are, in the end, not powerless --just lazy. Alternatives exist for almost everything. We just have to look hard and re-train to use these alternative resources.

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  108. Re:bcentral anyone? by animallogic · · Score: 1
    Okay, you must have used Bcentral to try and support your online presence.

    Unless you paid for Bcentral (theres a freebie plan and a payment plan), you have no right to complain about wether or not they keep their databases intact!

    It's free...

  109. Re:SPAM - your last line of defense! by C.Su · · Score: 1

    I like your idea, in fact, I admit to doing something similar:

    cccsd0000@domain.name.com

    ccc=user-initials (supports multiple users) and sd=spam-drop. Once the S/N ratio gets to low, I just create 'cccsd0001@domain.name.com' and drop the 'cccsd0000' alias. So on and so forth.

    I like your idea of a unique address for each potential spammer as it provides a greater level of control over filtering. However, I think that it may be a bit too much trouble for me.

    Either way, it's a hack. What we need are more jail terms for spammers!

  110. Re:That "default" spam opt-outer in full by Black+Parrot · · Score: 1

    Your post has me fearful over what the next Slashdot poll is going to look like.

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  111. if i actually believed any of you who said by AshleyB · · Score: 1

    you would actually stop using Ebay over this, I would probably just ask "How long before you crawl under your bed with your laptop, writing to Slashdot to save you from the next eeeeeeeeeeeeevil marketing scheme that some corporation has come up with to *gasp* send you an e-mail!"

    I can see that some people witin this community have already taken to the idea that the benefits of the internet are a god-given right to them now (along with the right to not only free speech but to have that speech heard, health-care and recreational drugs) and they should not be bothered with those things that keep the good deals and web sites like ebay flowing (advertising, customer targeting, etc.)

    Wake up from your Star Trek view of reality; you just don't say "Brewski" and have one materialize in your hand with no other consequences; commerce drives the internet and when you get a good deal those people that gave you said deal will always have a way of extracting something valuable to them from you.

    1. Re:if i actually believed any of you who said by AshleyB · · Score: 1

      actually, it's more like business taking a cool toy and pouring ungodly amounts of money into it making it even cooler. THEN, they pour so much money into it that they start to control it and hence the position we are heading towards now.

      The internet hasn't become the ubiquitous force it has today by impressive technical innovation alone; more like companies stepping all over themselves to innovate and improve it...so they will have the upper hand in controlling it.

    2. Re:if i actually believed any of you who said by buss_error · · Score: 1
      commerce drives the internet

      Sure, that's why all the B2B sites are doing so well and not one has ever gone out of business.

      CONTENT drives the internet. Johnney-come-lately "business" driving the internet is a load of C. R. A. P.

      Business is taking over the internet because there is a profit to be made from clueless AOHell'ers, they can move ads SOOO much cheaper, and it is more effecient to operate over the internet than, say, a fax or a letter.

      Like any cool toy, the internet will have business looking at it until they break it or own it utterly. Won't be long now....

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  112. Get in line! by Booker · · Score: 3
    Unfortunately, we have noticed that an error occurred during your registration process

    An error? Oh, so de-selecting spam was an error on my part I guess...
    we returned all your Notification Preferences to the standard default of "yes" to put you in line with the rest of the eBay community


    Oh good, just what I wanted. Join the hive!

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    1. Re:Get in line! by Black+Parrot · · Score: 1
      > An error? Oh, so de-selecting spam was an error on my part I guess...

      No, the error was theirs. They meant to offer
      Opt out of our spam distribution sytem? __No __no
      BTW, that letter was really lame. Never was there a species more bent on self justification than Humaniti.

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  113. Procmail is the answer! by curious.corn · · Score: 1

    Just filter the mosquitoes out of existence!!
    While you're at it, send a complaint @ abuse.net! Whoa... get 'em blacklisted!
    Yeah, cool...

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  114. SPAM - your last line of defense! by Macka · · Score: 3


    Like many folks I have permanent Internet access, so I have a Linux box that acts a Firewall, fileserver, email host, etc, etc.

    Unlike most ISP's I get a static IP address, and have registered my own domain, so what I do is every time I have to give out my email for something, I invent a new email address and then just alias it to my real one which I keep secret. Take yesterday for example. I just got a new phone from CarPhoneWarehouse - they wanted an email address from me, so I invented "cpw1" and popped it in the aliases DB when I got home. This has two benefits:

    1) If I start getting SPAM addressed to "cpw1", then I know who the villain is who gave it away.

    2) All I have to do to stop it is to remove "cpw1" as an alias and they instantly hit the bit bucket.

    :-)

    Macka

  115. Ebay Stock Up 9% by mosch · · Score: 3

    AP - Investors, having learned that Ebay is willing to engage in annoying practices that help them retain market presence, upgraded their price points for Ebay. At time of this press release Ebay's stock is up 9%.

    In other news, Ebay CEO Meg Whitman took a break from the work involved in attempting to become the Asian Internet Auction leader, to cry over the loss of one customer.

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  116. In other news by iamriley · · Score: 1

    droogie73(210) lost his perfect feedback rating.

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  117. Good point, but: by crucini · · Score: 5
    The fact that most of us are essentially at the whim of the big players of the system in which we choose to participate is an uncomfortable one.

    Your mailbox is at the whim of any idiot with an internet connection. As long as a person's emotional well-being is linked to the contents of his mailbox, he is doomed to frequent bouts of anger. That's why I think the 'war on spam' is ultimately a dead end - there's always one more idiot ready to spam.
    The guy who wrote '7 Habits of Highly Effective People' (what's his name?) talks about reducing your circle of concern to match your circle of influence. You can control your mail server and filtering software; you can't control the internet.
    The MPAA executive has a heart attack because he can't control the spread of information on the internet. The geek has a heart attack because he can't control the flow of mail into his system.
    Maybe there's a parallel with household phones. In the 1970's it was normal that if you dialled a house a loud alarm-like bell went off, and the occupants dropped whatever they were doing and answered the caller. That worked until it was systematically abused by pranksters and telemarketers. Now the norm is for an answering machine to screen the call, and increasingly caller ID is required.
    Any protocol which allows you to make me jump via remote control is broken and will be exploited eventually.
  118. Where's the MAPS Black-Hole list on this? by Ungrounded+Lightning · · Score: 2

    ... on 1/8/01, we returned all your Notification Preferences to the standard default of "yes" to put you in line with the rest of the eBay community. However, we want you to choose your Notification Preferences rather than rely on our standard defaults and will therefore not include you in any communications until 1/23/01. This will provide you with some time to evaluate these choices and modify your Notification Preferences. You will, however, continue to receive certain administrative emails that are part of executing your eBay transactions.

    Sounds like an invitation to have MAPS black-hole them - maybe immediately, certainly after 1/23.

    But this is so blatantly improper that I can't help but wonder if it's a hoax. Has eBay offended someone who wants to give them grief? (Like maybe somebody in France who wants to collect WWII souvineers?)

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  119. Re:If you hate spam by LennyDotCom · · Score: 1

    Yes replying to spam e-mail is usualy useless
    they don't even bother to monitor replies
    99% of the time they just bounce

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  120. No need to boycott, just use an opt-out mail add. by knarf · · Score: 1

    There's no need to boycott eBay on this (and other) sleazy behaviour. I mean, you knew up-front, when you registered, that they would probably be less than 100% honest. So, you did not give them your real, day-to-day address... Instead, they got stuck with a temporary address, which is only enabled if/when you're active on eBay. For the rest of the time, that address is commented out in your aliases, or .procmailrc, or whatever you use to separate the dead from the living.

    At least, that's what I did when I signed up. As soon as I did, the spam started coming (from eBay itself as well as from the usual suspects), but it did not get across the threshold of port 25 on my box. Sorry mailer, address unknown, return to sender...

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  121. Speechless by TVOJ · · Score: 1
    I'm continually blown away at how brazenly the "brand-name" web sites pull this kind of stuff. (Remember Amazon's updated privacy policy...)

    I suppose you should thank EBay for correcting your "mistake" in judgement.

    I have my own domain name with a single mail queue...each time I give out my email I give a different addr with identifying information. It's always interesting to see who spams me in spite of their stated policy.

  122. Re:Right. by MAJ+Rantage · · Score: 1

    Well then, sir, I salute you. However, I believe you to be the exception rather than the rule. :)

  123. you're not a customer by corrosiv · · Score: 1

    Do you pay for any services? Yeah it sucks that they want to pump ads into your face, but that is their only source of revenue. You'd have a right to complain if you were paying for their service.

    my $0.02 (Canadian)

    corrosiv
    1. Re:you're not a customer by xercist · · Score: 3

      "their only source of revenue"? No, it isn't. They charge for each item put up for bid. A company that makes money on spam alone wouldn't do as well as ebay...I hope...

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    2. Re:you're not a customer by rprycem · · Score: 1

      ??? Last time I checked I had to pay ebay for every sale...

  124. Apples and Oranges by MAJ+Rantage · · Score: 1
    Hemos getting upset because a corporation decides to disregard his preferences (which said corporation provides as a customer convenience -- not a right) resulting in some additional e-mail is NOT the same as:
    • Fighting for the same rights accorded to individuals of different skin color or ethnicity
    • Fighting against corporate negligence which results in the deaths of consumers
    • Fighting for liberty against a monarchist government which allows for no representation of its subjects
    If one cannot see the difference between the two, then we have entered the black and white world of Idealism.
  125. Not the first time eBay has 'ebayed' preferences by rnews · · Score: 2
    This is at least the 4th, and perhaps the 5th time eBay has "ebayed" user preferences, according to the abuse desk at one of their upstreams.

    eBay has apparently done it to more victims this time around, however. I think preferences are going to be ebayed other places as well if eBay continues to get away with their lies.

    Hmm, would any speakers of colloquial Russian care to comment on the meaning of the term "ebayed"?

    sidebar:

    eBay usually sends their spam through spammer-for-hire Annuncio, like they did this time. (For those sins, among others, Annuncio/ann0.net has lost email privileges on the servers I run.) However, eBay has also sent their 'survey' spams direct. It's those we still see here from time to time.
  126. as a 'general proposition'... by SethJohnson · · Score: 1


    Here's a most interesting little admission from EBAY's privacy policy:

    As a general proposition, we do not sell or rent any personally identifiable information about you to any third party.

    This is like Wallmart saying they stock American-made products "whenever they can".

    This is another strong example of how ludicrous TRUSTE is. For EBAY to be TRUSTE certified and for that certification to carry any weight, this phrase should be "We do not sell or rent any personally identifiable information about you to any third party without your approval. As it stands now, who knows what they're doing? Just e-bay and 'the highest bidder'.



    Seth
  127. So. by scott1853 · · Score: 1

    Maybe they did screw up the defaults and they figure you're a stupid user like most of the people on the net. At least they informed you and gave you time to change it.

    Isn't /.'s motto "News for Nerds. Stuff that Matters". I guess it matters if a moderator has the same thing happen to him.

    What the hell are we suppose to discuss about this anyways? Do you have any proof that they didn't have the defaults screwed up?

    In the time it took you to load /. and post the story, you could have gone to e-bay and flipped the switches off.

    Not that I don't see how it's a stupid action, I just think you two are whining a little too much about it.

    1. Re:So. by AstynaxX · · Score: 2

      The issue is having to worry about them doing this more in the future. Now, I do think its a bit reactionary to drop them for one instance of this, as it may well be some legit problem, but if it were to occur repeatedly? And that is the fear, that everyone who has a matched set of 'no' in their prefs will get 'there was an error and we reset everything to yes' once a month till they leave or allow SPAM. Give them a few months, if the behavior continues, then roast them.

      P.S. No site would likely ever do this, but I personally wish they defaulted to 'no' in the first plae.

      -={(Astynax)}=-

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  128. That "default" spam opt-outer in full by squiggleslash · · Score: 5

    Reproduced here as formatted on eBay's sign-up form...

    Do you want to receive junk mail from eBay?

    No--> o
    o<- PattBuchannan
    Yes-> o

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  129. Sources of Spam by DerekLyons · · Score: 1

    She complains about the amount of spam she gets, and yet she merrily enters her real unobfuscated e-mail address into every website, newsgroup, *everything*. She hasn't yet made the connection.

    I wonder sometimes about where spammers actually get their adresses from. The poster here cites newsgroups... I've been active on Usenet since around 1994. He cites websites, I've been using the same adress on websites for about the same period. Both my persona and business adresses are blatantly visible on their respective webpages...

    And yet between the two adresses I get less than 30 pieces of spam a day. Either I have a real high tolerance for annoyances, or the oft-cited sources of spammers getting your email adress is wrong.

    Oddly enough, when I set up a spambucket adress at Yahoo!, even with very little use that box gets upwards of 50+ pieces of spam a day.

    1. Re:Sources of Spam by BigBlockMopar · · Score: 2

      And yet between the two adresses I get less than 30 pieces of spam a day. Either I have a real high tolerance for annoyances, or the oft-cited sources of spammers getting your email adress is wrong.

      Oh, no. 15 pieces of spam per e-mail box per day is not unreasonable. No. That's not a pain in the butt.

      Oddly enough, when I set up a spambucket adress at Yahoo!, even with very little use that box gets upwards of 50+ pieces of spam

      Yeah, I can't account for that experience, though. I get a few spams here and there through my Yahoo accounts, but it's not bad. Less than one in the average week. Fortunately, Yahoo has a Spam-Guard service as part of their e-mail. As long as you log in from the web access every week to make sure no important e-mails have accidentally been filtered that way, it's great.

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  130. eBay, preferences, SPAM, and one final chance by ikaros · · Score: 1

    Well, I got an email from eBay Marketing today, whom I honestly believe are the ones at the heart of this bonehead maneuver. What I found profoundly disingenuous was that I was told I had opted to receive their junk mail.

    Nothing could be further from the truth. In simple fact, I was never given the opportunity to opt out in the first place. Finding the preferences was less than a pleasant affair. And I know that any response from me to any offer to turn spam back on will be routed through my lawyer, not my mail server.

    This is highly unethical business behavior, and I'm honestly surprised that eBay is doing it. My hope is that someone in eBay upper management will pink-slip the Pointy-Haired Marketer who approved this bit of lunacy and take a high-ground position about commercial mail. eBay has a big enough name to make that meaningful, or at least to make it noticed.

    And yes, I too will go elsewhere should they decide to change my selections for me. eBay is just a place to find neat $#!+. But there are still garage sales and flea markets at which I can find neat $#!+, and they don't email me to tell me about other stuff that I don't want.

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  131. An HTML observation by fishbowl · · Score: 2

    I just checked ebay to make sure my correct
    preferences were selected, and realized something about radio buttons.

    It is not per any HTML DTD spec to have a
    group of Radio Buttons in which no button
    is checked by default. I understand how
    inconvenient that spec may seem to some
    designers, but, if the implementation were
    to spec, this ambiguous situation of "No default button" would not have been possible.

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  132. Ha ha ha by Golias · · Score: 1
    I don't know what is funnier, the way they treated all no responses as an "error", or the fact that they had the balls to send such an irritating message out to spam-averse customers.

    The management at eBay is either really stupid, or else they just don't give a rats ass about people who don't accept spam. Either way, I got a good laugh out of it.

    Come to think of it, that would be a fun question to ask a marketing rep from eBay... "You recently sent out a message that can not possibly result in anything other than infuriating your customers. Do you dislike your them, or have you just failed to understand them?" Could we set up a Slashdot interview? :)

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  133. Re:What's the big deal? by Katya · · Score: 1

    "I don't think it should be blown up to be a case of 'violation', spam is just annoying, not violating. "

    It may not be a violation of earth-shattering proportions, but its certainly a violation of trust of at least some weight. They asked the question before if people wanted information sent to them, good or bad, and people sent "no." The biggest issue with all this is the paper-thin excuse (if, indeed, this is not a hoax) that eBay seems to be floating to people: that due to an "error." What a crock! The fact that they would be attempting to pass off such an obvious lie just to meet their marketing quotas increases the underhandedness of the deed. I mean, its one thing to say: "We need the money!" versus "OOps! Obviously there was a problem because you don't want to hear from us!"

    An action like this begs to ask why do they even give people the chance to opt out of correspondence, if they can change the rules whenever they want. Other than trying to pull a fast one over people's eyes.

  134. Re:When you receive the emails... by strredwolf · · Score: 2
    I'm similar, too, with my settings. I also allow them to waste their money sending me eBay snail mail.

    But then, I haven't gotten a voluntary peep out of them other than the policy changes that happened last year and the bid/sell notices. No snail mail! They have the permission to do so. Maybe it's just that it costs money (or the family just throws it out anyway)...



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  135. They Changed the 'defaults' by Ronin+X · · Score: 1
    Well, they are really changing the 'defaults' because someone no doubt noticed that it was stupid to default everything to 'NO'. Then they got the bright idea of grandfathering existing users who might have just blindly submitted the form.

    At least they're using a 'grace period' before they open the floodgates.

    As long as they don't sent me notices about auctions for University Diplomas, internet spy software, and pop-up-laden pr0n, I won't be TOO annoyed.

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  136. It's Nice To See... by Steve+B · · Score: 4

    ...that the Palm Beach County election board have found themselves a new job.
    /.

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    1. Re:It's Nice To See... by Saige · · Score: 1

      ...but how soon until the US Supreme Court rules that it was wrong to allow users time to opt back out again and makes new law stating that all ebay users must get all the spam?
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  137. Re:Right. by MAJ+Rantage · · Score: 1
    You may be weak-willed, but that doesn't give you the liberty to extrapolate that to everybody else.
    Why not? It seems to be an inherent right of Jon Katz and a vast majority of Slashdot posters, no?
    In fact, one of the strongest geek personality types, INTP, is known for being notoriously stubborn, to the point of cutting of their hand rather than do something or support something they don't agree with.
    Geeks (and especially good coders) are also notoriously lazy, hence their hatred of reinventing the wheel and their support of code reuse.
  138. Sony Pictures Entertainment too. by duketor · · Score: 1
    I tried to get off their spam list by unsubscribing. After three "this user is not on this mailing list" replies, a note to their upstream provider got the job done quickly...

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  139. Right. by MAJ+Rantage · · Score: 4
    So, today, eBay lost at least me as customer. .
    Sure. Who are we kidding here?

    Technophiles are notoriously weak-willed when it comes to resisting the allure of the new, shiny, and automated. We may talk a good game, but the majority of us still buy CDs, go to movies, passively support the use of Microsoft products (even purchase them), etc. etc. etc.

    I'm sorry to be the cynical black cloud here, but "let's rage against everything corporate and wrong in this world" idealism has gotten tired. It's got heart, it's got courage, but it doesn't have a brain -- a brain that knows that Joe Consumer will repeatedly allow himself to be shat upon if he can get the Next Greatest Thing(TM).

    eBay won't suffer from this, and I wouldn't be surprised if you frequent their site again within a few months.
    1. Re:Right. by kaitos · · Score: 1

      yes. but the whole point is not to try to bring down ebay, everyone here knows that that will just not happen. its about living by what we feel is right, and if we feel ebay is wrong, then we will not use it. aka, if you fuck with me then fuck you.
      this sig is funny. laugh.

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    2. Re:Right. by TekPolitik · · Score: 1

      Not me - I've personally pulled hundreds of thousands of dollars of revenue from companies that have spammed in less offensive ways than this.

    3. Re:Right. by TekPolitik · · Score: 1
      Sure. Who are we kidding here? Technophiles are notoriously weak-willed when it comes to resisting the allure of the new, shiny, and automated

      You may be weak-willed, but that doesn't give you the liberty to extrapolate that to everybody else. In fact, one of the strongest geek personality types, INTP, is known for being notoriously stubborn, to the point of cutting of their hand rather than do something or support something they don't agree with.

      The fact of the matter is some people will discontinue dealing with ebay forever over this, even if you, personally, don't have the spine to do so.

    4. Re:Right. by BSDevil · · Score: 1
      So my name is Mr. eBay. Today, I lost the custom of four guys who read Slashdot and are outraged that their email settings got deleted. Remind me again why I care? I have a huge number of customers who love me - why will the departure of a bunch of self-confessed 'nerds' hurt me?

      Face it - eBay dosne't need your custom. They need the custom of the masses, who love directed email and anything with the word "special" in it that makes them feel unique. Bottom line is that you may feel you're making a statement by quitting, but Mr. eBay don't care about you or your used computer parts, and more-than-likely won't miss you.

      Dan.

      This isn't flamebait - it's the truth.

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  140. How long do we stand for this? by Muddie · · Score: 1
    There is a quote from the movie Bob Roberts that I'm going to butcher. It's the 'frog-in-boiling-water' syndrome happening. If you boil a pan of water and put a frog in, the frog is going to leap right back out again because, lets face it, the water is *HOT*. However, if you put a frog in a pan of cold water and then turn the heat on low, when the water is boiling, the frog will still be in there, boiled to death. When you completley change something that many depend on (generic example...I wouldn't consider eBay a 'need'), they will go bollistic. If you slowly tweek it, they won't even notice. With the threat of a possible recession on the horizon and a drastic economic slowdown already upon us, you'd figure that a business which relies not only on people coming to them, but also is in the grouping with the most frail stock on the market would pimp their own sister or brother before even thinking about messing with customers. It makes me want to scream. No means NO!

    Larry Reckner

    larryr@DAMN.HORMEL.linux.com

  141. If you hate spam by LennyDotCom · · Score: 3

    This doesn't apply to ebay but if you hate spam
    the bets thing to do is reply to it

    follow my sig. for details

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    1. Re:If you hate spam by jqh1 · · Score: 1

      If you hate spam, use a good filtering service like www.spamgourmet.com... I sign up for goofy stuff all the time now, and haven't seen a spam increase (except on the ticker on that website...). With a site like ebay, you'd have to tweak the sender rules a bit to make sure the important messages got through, but, other than that, these services are actually getting easier to use than not.

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  142. Such a difficult Task... by antis0c · · Score: 1

    When has pressing the delete key on email you don't want become such a difficult task that people nearly have a stroke when something like this happens.. I do see how eBay is trying to get more people to receive emails from 3rd parties, but they aren't forcing you. Especially with todays technologies and being able to filter email into the "Trash" folder, what is such the big deal? I live in an apartment, and I have one of those tiny apartment mail boxes, and every day I get some kind of catalog, or Penny Saver thing with ads on it, what do I do? I throw it away, but in computers when someone gets one peice of spam, its the end of the world. I can see getting upset about Porn Spam, or spam where you are getting an email every hour on the hour, but getting something once a week, that I can easily press that key labeled "Del", its right under the "Insert", I fail to see the earth shattering problem.

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    1. Re:Such a difficult Task... by Todd+Knarr · · Score: 1

      After the 37th e-mail I had to hit the delete key on in one day, is when it became such a difficult task. The straw that broke the camel's back, it was. Once a week from a company times a hundred companies is 14-15 a day.

    2. Re:Such a difficult Task... by Black+Pete · · Score: 1

      You underestimate the power of spam.

      Try signing up on AOL. Post your email address on an usenet post somewhere (preferably in one of the pron groups). Or anything that'd expose you to bulk emailers.

      Now, when you're getting 400+ spam emails a day (yes, PER DAY), let's see if you're still singing the same tune. You're effectively forced to wade through 400+ emails for that ONE email from your dearest relative.

      I don't know about the USA, but up here in Canada, I can actually ask the post office to NOT deliver junk mail to my mailbox. I can't say the same for my ISP (and frankly, I can't seriously expect them to block every single piece of spam without blocking the entire internet).

      What's the big deal? The big deal is this: if we don't fight spam, then you're likely to receive unsolicited mail from just about EVERY SINGLE DOTCOM. In that light, even 400 emails seem like just a drop in the ocean....

      Yes, go right ahead and waste your time hitting delete 400+ times a day (while being careful not to delete any important mail!) No big deal, right?

      You think I exaggerate? Look at Usenet. People have all but given up on it due to spam.

    3. Re:Such a difficult Task... by prisoner · · Score: 1

      I agree that spam is a pain but it doesn't irritate me near as much as the junk I get via snail. I had to buy a seperate trash can just for this shit. At least with email, there's normally an unsubscribe mechanism. With snail spam (TM) there isn't any such. People who disagree with me will say that snail spam(TM) subsidizes the post office, etc but I could care less. I'd guess that 70% of the mail delivered winds up in the trash within 1 minute. All that shit goes right to the landfill.....there is no "delete" key in meatspace.

    4. Re:Such a difficult Task... by j_snare · · Score: 1

      Exactly where did anyone say anything about 1 spam a week? Not only do you get usually at least one spam a day, they share your address with anyone who wants it. And they send you one every day or so, as well as passing it on themselves.

      You typically don't see any large increase immediately, but you'll definately see an increase over more time, on an exponential curve.

      Plus, ever run a mail server on your home system? That's disk space being taken up, my friend. No cost to the spammer (in fact, once you track them down, you find that most of them haven't paid for their services for some time), and exponential cost to you (see above).

    5. Re:Such a difficult Task... by geomcbay · · Score: 1
      A lot of the resentment towards spam is not based on the level of spam today, but of years past. Don't get me wrong...spam is still undoubtably a problem. But it seems to me there's far less spam today than in the past. There's likely a number of factors as to why this is true: new laws, less tolerance for spam from ISPs, the emergence of spam-block blacklists, and companies realizing that blanket, undirected spamming is not a very effective way to market to customers, etc. Nevertheless, many of us have such strong feelings towards spam that were cultivated in the days when you couldn't open an email box anywhere on the net without getting 70 spam mails a day. Hitting the delete key 70 times in one day IS kind of a big deal, especially when you need to go and manually sort through the useful mail from the crap. (And no, I've never found an automatic mail filter that I've been completely pleased with).

      Another issue that I have with spam, that I'm sure many people share, is that I miss the days when I could use my actual email address on Usenet or other internet forums, or give it out freely in the hopes that people that wanted to reach me for legitimate purposes and discussion could.

    6. Re:Such a difficult Task... by Milican · · Score: 1

      Well I post to usenet all the time and I use my real e-mail address. I get maybe five spams a day or so. However, I have also signed up to a free spam filtering service at Brightmail. I recommend everyone else do the same. Their filters don't catch everything, but its free and it helps.

      JOhn

  143. Double standard? by MAJ+Rantage · · Score: 1
    Well I hope you display this same level of outrage when /. posts stories that assume that your beliefs regarding...
    • Copyright protection
    • Patent issues
    • Encryption legislation
    • Software development
    ...and a host of other things are in line with the "Slashdot-Approved" mentality. If not, then you're raging at the wrong person my friend.
    1. Re:Double standard? by festers · · Score: 1

      Slashdot authors haven't posted any stories that declare "All geeks are pro-decss" or "All /. readers are against patents." I will agree that there is certainly a bias from the authors in *what they choose to post*, but so far, not one of them has ever put words in my mouth. This guy we are talking about had the nerve to say all geeks were "weak-willed." Go ahead and label yourself if you so desire, but don't lump me into your own catagory.


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  144. bcentral anyone? by prisoner · · Score: 2

    I had signed up for bcentral when I started my website a couple of years ago so I could use the banner exchange system. I quit using it completely about a year ago. I got sick of the daily email "updates" (full of crap) and also unsubscribed from that - twice. After unsubscribing the first time, the "daily updates" stopped for about a month and then restarted. The second unsubscribe didn't even faze them.

  145. Just Over One Piece of Mail?!? by IanCarlson · · Score: 4

    Many times, E-Bay's been a place for me to find junk that just can't be found in my neck of the woods. I think cancellation of your account is kind of an overreaction to the situation. E-Bay's given you the option of setting your preferences back to the way they were, and you won't recieve anything until 1/23, anyway. Set them back yourself, and if they perform a stunt like this again (which I don't think they will) then leave E-Bay.

    I think that E-Bay will be well aware of the anxiety this e-mail caused, and avoid situations such as these in the future.

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  146. When you receive the emails... by Thalia · · Score: 5

    I believe the difference between your settings and mine may only be that I have the following two set to yes:

    Legal Notices

    User Agreement Changes
    Receive notice from eBay if the current User
    Agreement changes.

    Privacy Policy Changes
    Receive notice from eBay if the current Privacy
    Policy changes.

    I want to know if their policies change in either of those two areas. I don't want any other junkmail. And I didn't get one of those letters.

    But it is certainly odd that they'd assume it was an "error" especially if you've had these settings for some months.

    Thalia

  147. Re:This doesn't bother me one iota - It bugs me by Xenomech · · Score: 1

    One question: what have you done to stop junk mail from coming to your home? Anything?

    I don't get any anymore.

    Of course, unsolicited real-mail is a different topic altogether. Not nearly as bothersome, time consuming to get rid of, or dangerous (ie. virii) as unsolicited email. Then again, maybe that's just my experience.

  148. Nothing new... by Eggplant62 · · Score: 2

    Though I'm not a subscriber to Ebay's service, I've seen other people complain about this on news.admin.net-abuse.email. Check out these deja.com discussions and you'll see that it's been a problem at least since early December 2000.

    The only difference between spammers and Ebay is that spammers are just a bit more ruthless.

  149. AOL Presents eBay? Did AOL buy eBay? by ayden · · Score: 1

    Has anyone else noticed the banners on eBay's search result pages now show

    AOL Presents eBay

    The individual items in search results have ebay.aol.com in the URL.

    See http://www.ebay.aol.com/

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  150. What about Yahoo!? by iamriley · · Score: 1

    From what I understand, they don't even charge to list items. I know the buyer base isn't as large, but if Ebay starts losing customers, then maybe they will stop sending spam.

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    1. Re:What about Yahoo!? by cpt+kangarooski · · Score: 2

      they just started charging, sorry.

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  151. Re: they'll have to get by with 3,499,999 users by justahack · · Score: 1
    you are missing the point. this 'all or worthless' attitude is the problem. it would have to start with a few doing this, then a few more, until you make a sizable dent. each one can add up, especially when you are saying it on a place that gets the kind of hits slashdot does. it's an age old dilemna...a bit of a paradox when ya think about it. anyway, these are very sad types of actions on the part of corporations (not surprising, though). they are beginning to really anger some groups...though they usually keep it more to themselves, holding that, 'if it goes too far, then we will do something about it'. then again, i'm getting kinda off topic here...apologies. anyway, i agree with his having said that. myself, i will continue to use it. one more of these, though, and it constitutes a trend, and i shall also cease.

    just a few thoughts...

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  152. This e-mail is an invitation to hack attacks by Max+Webster · · Score: 1
    Notice the URL helpfully provided that goes to the form to change your preferences. The first thing the form does is ask for your ID and password. Gee, isn't this just like the e-mail that came from the phony Paypal site (PaypaI.com)?

    Being paranoid, I started at www.ebay.com and navigated to the form to change preferences. The URL was not quite the same as given in the e-mail. It certainly looks like it came from eBay, but what if it really came from some similar-spelled site (e.g. e8ay.com) and hundreds of people fell for it?

    Maybe this e-mail was legitimate, but given the stupidity of the message "you made a mistake by opting out of spam", how are we to ever trust any future e-mail that directs us to a sign-in form?

  153. Re:This doesn't bother me one iota - It bugs me by erat · · Score: 1

    You don't get ANY unsolicited snail mail? That's impressive...

    My personal experience is that it's quicker to hit a delete key to get rid of an unwanted message (or to tag a list of them and delete them all at once) than it is to get rid of snail mail, but that's just my experience. And besides, snail mail means someone has my home address, which gives me more heebie jeebies than someone having my email address.

    Again, these are just personal opinions. Everyone is entitled to their own...

    (I will restate to those who think at this point that I endorse spam: I am severely opposed to spam, and I have no intention of endorsing it. I do, however, believe that it is unavoidable at this point, or if there is a way to get rid of it, it will find its way back in your mailbox if you don't constantly fight it. I hate to say it, but that's where I think we are at this point. It's a plague that will never completely go away...)

  154. Re:I wish there was an alternative. by HardCase · · Score: 1

    Ummm...waaaaah?

  155. AOL did this a while back... by joseph+schmo · · Score: 1

    ... so I unnerstand how you feel. I think they may reset theirs once a year. (And no, don't ask me why I have an AOL account. Bottom line is I don't pay much for it and I don't rely on it for anything important :p )

  156. I must be special then by idekine · · Score: 1

    Apparently I'm the only one in the world who has neither received the email nor had any email notification settings changed (not yet, at least). Either there actually was a bug, or ebay just feels like toying with a few users at a time, so that the outroar doesn't all occur at once.

  157. email redirect? :) by henkslaaf · · Score: 1

    Well, that's another three lines in my procmailrc :)

    :0:
    * ^Return Path:
    /dev/null

    Allard

  158. Way to go, ace. by matt-fu · · Score: 3

    I haven't gotten that email, and a quick poll of some ebay users that I'm friends with indicate that I'm not alone. Have you ever thought that maybe a drive died somewhere and they had to restore from tape, resetting your settings or something like that? Maybe you should consider it next time before you start with this "I think I'll use my slashdot gun to get back at them for such an irritation", Hemos. Children like you shouldn't have such power.

    Anyway, if you're pissed at the ebay/spam connection, there are much better things to raise your hackles about.. such as spammers getting email addresses from ebay.

  159. me too by GuNgA-DiN · · Score: 1
    So I get the letter today too and it smelled like a bad marketing stunt straight from the advertising dept. So the "error that occured" on some 5,000,000 ebay people who opted-out from the start was they weren't getting spammed like good little ebay monkeys should.

    I went and opted-out *again* and these are the categories where the default was set to "YES":

    Other Emails:
    Special Promotions, Offers and Events Receive notices about special offers for eBay members.

    eBay Product Surveys:
    Take part in occasional surveys to help us evaluate new features and proposed changes to our services.

    Daily Status Emails
    Receive a daily email status on auctions for which you are a bidder or seller.

    Auction Watch Reminder
    Receive daily lists of all items in your watch list that will end within 36 hours

    Other Contacts

    Telemarketing
    Receive calls on behalf of eBay regarding eBay related products and services.

    Direct Mail
    Receive eBay's product and service related direct mail(through the postal service).

    All I got to say is that these guys got balls the size of a small planet. The nerve! I opt-out and tell them "don't spam me". To which they reply: "sorry, we didn't hear you -- did you say 'SPAM ME' ??"

  160. Re:I wish there was an alternative. by Lotek · · Score: 1
    Oh, now really. That was harsh.

    Accurate, honest, and true. But harsh.

  161. Why, exactly, is this surprising? by RareHeintz · · Score: 1
    For the record: I agree that this is a shitty thing for eBay to do, and that this is not the first shitty thing they've done.

    That said, what is all this whining about? Did you really think that setting a bit in someone's database - especially a known privacy sink like eBay - was going to protect your privacy, or that a company like eBay would even make an attempt to honor your wishes if they thought they could tighten their bottom line?

    I really hope all this shocked outrage I'm seeing here and on K5 is just curmudgeonly posing, because if it's actually genuine surprise, it represents a depth of naivete that boggles the mind.

    It's business, and it is without a concept of honor or morality. Unless you make a law that holds representatives of the business personally accountable - as in jail time - they're going to do this again and again as long as it benefits them. Self-regulation doesn't work.

    OK,
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    1. Re:Why, exactly, is this surprising? by platos_beard · · Score: 1
      I don't see what is so shitty about what ebay did in the first place.

      The way I read the quote above, they discovered that for some period of time, their preferences form for new users had the wrong (i.e. off) defaults for subscribing. Users who signed up during that period may simply have not set any of the subscription settings, just used the defaults. EBay can't tell who DELIBERATELY decided to opt out and who just didn't decide, so they change the settings that MIGHT be default and give you a couple weeks to deliberately opt out if that's what you want. What's the big deal?

      (BTW, I've opted out and haven't received any such letter, so it's certainly not been done to everybody.)

      They did NOT, as so many seem to think, treat all opt-out selections as errors.

      Sure, they want to make money and they can make more money be sending out notices. Good for them. I want internet companies to make money -- better that than more banner ads -- or worse, adding interstitial ads.

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  162. Don't suspend your account... by Edward+Teach · · Score: 1
    reset the email address on it to billg@microsoft.com. Why not have a little fun with all of this?

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  163. If there really was an error... by WinDoze · · Score: 1

    Wouldn't it have been nicer to send out a message saying "Sorry to bother you, but we experienced some file system problems, and just wanted to make sure you wanted these preferences set to 'NO'. If you'd like to receive our messages please click HERE and change them to 'YES'". Actually changing the preferences seems like a big no-no.

  164. Re:Let's give them a chance by Left+Of+Center · · Score: 1

    I'm inclined to agree. I have my preferences set similarly, and recieved no e-mail.

    I also agree with the point-- corporate america may not always be ethical. But usually, when they're being evil, they're smarter about it than this.

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  165. Re:I disagree. by cyg1 · · Score: 1

    We just need to wait for the case law to catch up with the medium.

    Oh, like we had to wait for the Microsoft antitrust? Or, do you mean patent laws?

    I'm not trying to be combative, I just think that spam is inevitable since most politicians and lawmakers consider unsolicited advertising a necessary evil(in whatever form, I don't think anyone wants to see or hear commmercials on TV, radio or anywhere else). You didn't sign up to see commercials on TV when you went out and bought that DSS system. And you didn't tell any of the magazines you subscribe to to sell your name to phone solicitors (I think this is the most like email spam). This is perfectly legal, done without your consent, and happens all the time. You can tell phone solicitors not to call you, but inevitably one will again, because your name and number was sold to yet another solicitor.

    Unfortunately, this is how business has adapted to the web - it participates in the same business practices as it had offline (in general, I mean, I'm not saying that Ebay existed offline, but the people who run Ebay had to come from *somewhere* else). Yes, it's underhanded; "business ethics" is an oxymoron. But they wouldn't have unsolicited advertising practically everywhere if it didn't work at all.

    If you think having an email address is any different from having a snail mail address or phone number, it isn't. By law you are not granted any additional liberties in having an email address; if anything, the anonymity of an email address can hinder the liberties you enjoy on the phone or from a snail mailbox. Ebay will not be considered anything close to a spammer since it is considered reputable and provides the services it advertises.

  166. Sadness by rnbwpnt · · Score: 1

    In protest of Ebay's anti-spamming policies (or lack thereof), I created a special address -- ebay@mydomain.wherever -- that I used to bid in an auction that I lost exactly one time. Today, that address gets 5-10 spams per day, although I have only once used it, and that time on an auction I lost. Still, spammers harvested and apparently now sell my email address. So every time I get one, I forward it to safeharbor@ebay.com. I figure if *I* have to be annoyed at their failure to protect my email address, they should be too.

  167. Unfortunately.... by Masem · · Score: 2
    First, I do think that Ebay has a right to change your user preferences when they feel like it, as long as you still have the option to change them back; it's their server. Yes, it's a stupid little thing only meant to increase their own ad revenue, but legally, they've done nothing wrong.

    Unfortunately, the US Gov't in the recent privacy discussions probably feels that Ebay could do this normally. While they are going to come down on sites that don't have good privacy info, or that do not adhead to standards, the gov't seems fine to let the standard "opt-in" for web registrations continue unchecked, despite many computer and rights groups arguing for out-out as default. Mind you, I have found commercial sites that I use where opt-out is the default, and require you to click to sign in, but 90% of the rest of the sites are the reverse. Is it wrong? No. Is it immoral? Hard to say, since I can't opt-out of junk snail mail, though there's no direct cost to me with that. Is it poor customer service? Yes, for sure.

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  168. About.com do this too (sort of) by Mr_Silver · · Score: 1
    I have had a similar problem with About.com (a service I stupidly subscribed to years ago and have never used since).

    In a nutshell they keep sending me crap, despite the fact that my mailing preferences are are set to "do not email this to me". This isn't a case of changing my preferences to yes, just ignoring them totally.

    I've tried unsubscribing, emailing them polite messages (up until the last three which were progressivily harsher and ruder) and now I just bounce anything I get from them back with a fake "no such email address" message.

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  169. Sorry, that should have been... by TDScott · · Score: 1

    "They altered your preferences, and plan to start..."

  170. Interesting observation by Aquafina · · Score: 1

    You guys notice that eBay seems to have a big probelm keeping hard drives running, keeping their site up, and stuff like that? Wasn't that long ago that I kept reading about how eBay's servers died for over 8 hours at a time.

    Also note how coincidental their announcement is to another bad news from Yahoo. Just a couple of days ago Yahoo told all their members that they'll be charging for auctions. What? Use Yahoo's bad news to sneak in another one, hoping to get away with it?

    Lame...

  171. Oh wow.. by Rombuu · · Score: 1

    I mean, that's why they are my preferences. So, today, eBay lost at least me as customer. .


    Oh man, I guess they'll have to get by with 3,499,999 registered users instead of their 3.5 million.... I hope I have time to short their stock before the market reacts to this.

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  172. No does not mean no. by flounder99 · · Score: 1

    No does not mean NO!
    Look at they way you were dressed, You were asking for it!

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  173. The real reason they send the e-mail... by wolf2q · · Score: 1

    ... E-bay had troubles with their servers. (NT,IIS). :>}
    The preference settings got all screwed up and rather then admitting it, they set ALL the users to yes! When you go back, you are just testing their system.

    Sounds good to me!

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  174. And in other news... by wowbagger · · Score: 2

    ebay announced that they have been contracted to run the next elections in Florida....

  175. More than one reason... by parasite · · Score: 1

    This just ads to my growing list of reasons to stay away from ebay. My main problem with them derrives from their continual corporate suckage. Instead of helping their customers sell stuff, be it legitimate or not - they suck up to the companies that would rather it not be sold. Of course these "companies" have an interest vested in such a thing, the resell of a used item is often the loss of a sale of a new item. Last year I tried to sell a near worthless genuine copy of Win 95 in the original box and all. After a few bids my auction was canceled and good-ole Microsoft informed me that if I wished to sell it on ebay I would have to FIRST ship it to them so they could verify the legitimacy of it, and also include an original recipept. Do you think I have an original recipet for Win95?? Ridiculous. Not to mention its not exactly worth the postage to send it to MS and back to get permission from them, "god" apparently, to sell my item. The other problem with ebay is the continually growing list of banned items. They don't care AT ALL about freedom so to hell with them.

  176. What about wolves by woolytsheep14 · · Score: 1

    they are capable of mating with dogs and they are a diferent species ;'cannis lupus' (or similar spelling) as oposed to 'cannis cannis' for dogs.

  177. Keep eBay users in line? by Xerithane · · Score: 2
    I now have a mental imagery of a Catholic nun walking down the cubicle rows slapping young online bidders on the wrists to keep them in line with other eBay users.

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  178. Metric tons of Spam on my Doorstep... by lconover · · Score: 1
    Now, I'm not sure if my experience has been the same as every eBay seller/buyer, but for the past six-eight months I've been getting a "Get Rich Quick" spam-mail at least once a day addressed to "Dear eBay User..."These emails almost always originate from a bogus email account that vanishes within a day or so.

    My impression is that it is caused by people using a search routine to troll through eBay's databases and search engines to get my email address. When I'm selling items, I don't list my email address as part of the listing nor as part of my listing, nor is it part of my login name. But it's annoying all the same that they do not apparently protect against such abuses of their own system.

    Emails to them go ignored - I can't think of anyone I hate more than dealing with eBay's customer support as a seller.

    Is there any way I can protect my email address from spam without making my buyers not be able to contact me?

    It offends me deeply that eBay has arbitrarily forced me to 're-opt-out' of their email spam when I'm already getting spammed because of their negligence in securing the email addresses of their users.

  179. That's just the tip of the iceberg by rs79 · · Score: 1

    I created a separate mailbox for eBay stuff and found that I get maybe one announcement a month from eBay and they were at least semi-interesting.

    But, I get about 20 spams a week to that account which is only published on eBay. Bottom line: eBay announcements don't hold a candle to the amount of spam you get from eBay derived addresses.

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  180. ebay has TRUSTe by kryzx · · Score: 1

    Ebay is a TRUSTe Licensee, which means they have to conform to a bunch of privacy policy requirements. Send your complaints to TRUSTe and try to get their TRUSTe privileges revoked.

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  181. Solution: Multiple Email Addresses by Zordok · · Score: 1

    Its not very difficult to get free email addresses... Microsoft, Netscape, and many others, will give you a plethora of email address to use if you're afraid of getting your "real" email full of canned meat.

  182. E-Mail by vbrtrmn · · Score: 1

    I didn't get that e-mail, maybe you selected:
    Do you NOT want to receive a bunch of crap
    * No, send me a bunch of crap.

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  183. No notice here, they didn't touch my account by Rurik · · Score: 1

    Because I use eBay regularly, there are things I need from it, so I had yes to:
    Listing Confirmations
    Bid Notices
    Outbid Notices
    User Agreement Changes
    Privacy Policy Changes
    and Daily Status Reminders

    Geez, as slashdotters that are worried about TOS and privacy policies, I'm surprised that it seems so many of you set "Privacy Policy Changes" and "User Agreement Changes" to NO! Maybe the management thought that something really was in error, because people either want to hear about their auction updates, or they want to hear about corporate changes that affect them. Someone not wanting to hear anything is a bit odd, I must say.

  184. Where you gonna go? by brogdon · · Score: 1

    For all your talk about "eBay losing you as a customer", what are you going to do about it? Yahoo auctions? Amazon.com? I hope you like the items you're trying to sell getting viewed by all of three people.

    For all the anti-monopoly sentiment that gets thrown around on /., you don't see much getting directed at eBay, even though they complete dominate their market, and can pull stuff like this crap without too much worry. I wonder why.


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  185. Insight.com does the same crap... by Randy+Rathbun · · Score: 2

    And it managed to get them on the RBL. Looks like ebay may find themselves there too if they are not careful.

  186. I too am cancelling my eBay account... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

    ...because they sold me a defective cowbell.

    - Homer Simpson

  187. You do have filters in your e-mail program... by COBOL/MVS · · Score: 1

    Even Outlook Express allows you to set up rules to direct incoming mail. And don't come back to me saying "But I shouldn't have to set up a filter to block unsolicited mail blah blah blah" because that's exactly what filters are for. And, all you *nix gearheads probably have mail programs with a lot better filtering capablities than OE. Use 'em.
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  188. Re:Bother... by cicho · · Score: 1

    It is egregious. If there was a processing error on their part, fine - tell people they had a bug and "if you DO want to receive email from us, please go to (url here) and change your preferences." That too hard to do?

    And, you don't get 2 weeks to re-customize: THEY get 2 weeks to process the change you make in your prefs.

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  189. And when you do change your preferences: by indiigo · · Score: 1

    "Thank you for letting us know which types of eBay communications you'd like to receive.
    Your preferences have been saved. Please note that changes to your preferences may take approximately 14 days to be reflected in our communication to you."

    Ah, 14 days... This is internet time, eh?

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  190. Blown out of proportion? by egon · · Score: 1
    Am I the only one who this this has been blown out of proportion?

    Yeah, I understand. You don't want to receive email from them. They messed up from a marketing perspective and made "no" the default, so now they do something mildly slimy.

    At least they're being honest about it.

    In the immortal words of Eric Cartman, "What's the big fuckin deal, bitch?"

    First off, it's not like you can't go back in and turn it off. This takes what, all of 60 seconds? Secondly, they're giving you two weeks to do it before they start sending you stuff.

    It just seems kind of overreactionary to me.

    Just my $.02 :)

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  191. Re:What's the big deal? by Black+Pete · · Score: 2

    Yes, let's look at the big picture, why don't we?

    When I signed up for eBay, I selected NO to all the spam. I don't want spam. Period.

    Now they're saying that it looks like an error if everything was selected as "no", and therefore they need to put you "in line" with the others.

    Now... they've already proven that they've done this once. What about the NEXT time when they "notice" that all your selections are set to NO?

    What about the next newbie who signs up for eBay service? Will s/he have to go through the same thing at some point in the future? If s/he does, will everyone else have to go through the same thing AGAIN? Will it become company policy to periodically reset your preferences because they look like an "error"?

    If they keep resetting my preferences in order to send me spam, that's unsolicited mail. What's worse, they are SPECIFICALLY opting me back in without my permission. And if they're going to do this periodically, this makes it even worse. Eventually, they're going to catch me while I'm gone on vacation, and I won't be around to reset my preferences before the deadline expired.... HELLO SPAM!

    No thanks, I am *NOT* going to put up with that. It looks like that in order to opt-out of eBay spam, I have to completely opt-out of eBay altogether.

  192. Re: So then why do you hide your email? by COBOL/MVS · · Score: 1

    You will see my email address above. Now, the question is why did you post anonymously?
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  193. Gotta Love It by Omicron · · Score: 1

    Nothing like having a company tell you how to think. "We noticed you didn't want to receive anything.....so we put you in line with the rest of the community." Gee...sorry for thinking for myself, and not like a bunch of sheep. It's good to know that the companies out there are respecting our opinions. I have an ebay account, but I didn't seem to get that email yet. Kind of odd, I just placed a bid on something yesterday.

  194. Some nerve... by sunhou · · Score: 1

    I got that e-mail last night too. Ok, it's annoying that they reset my preferences. If they had simply said something like "we think you may really be interested in our special promotions, so we're signing you up for them; if you still don't like them, you can unsubscribe again" at least it would have been honest, although still annoying.

    But to claim that opting out of their promotions is an error that they have corrected for me really takes some nerve. If they had computer problems and lost my preferences that would be acceptable too. But the e-mail says an error occurred "during your registration process". So basically they are telling me it was a mistake for me to say "no". That's what really ticked me off about this.
  195. Bother... by SmokeSerpent · · Score: 1

    Why am I always having to explain these things to you people?

    eBay is not saying that your opt-out choices are an error, they are saying that their defaults were in error. Still, it is questionable for them to reset the accounts that were affected by this "error", but note that you have two weeks to re-customize your preferences before they start sending you emails based on the reset preferences. This letter is yet another example of how the corporate mentality allows for rough treatment of customers to attempt to recover profit opportunities lost through their own mistakes, but its not such an egregious assault as y'all make it out to be.

    With all the companies that have lost Hemos' business, its no wonder we're experiencing an economic downturn. :)

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  196. Glad I am not dating them by sherpajohn · · Score: 1

    There was an error in processing your answer to our question "would you like to have sex?"...we thought we heard you say "No". To bring you in line with all our past dates, we are going to starting f***ing you now. Of course, we want you to retain choice, so you can tell us what position you want us to give it to you in.

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  197. <RESET> by Khopesh · · Score: 1

    ...I got that message and clicked the link to change all those spam settings back to the way they should be.

    In doing so, I noticed that there is no 'End of Auction Notices' selection except for my pager. That's the one email I need...

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  198. Subscribe eBay admins to some other lists by X.25 · · Score: 1

    Well, you subscribe them to few thousands of mailing lists (they'll love linux-kernel one), and send them a notification that they can unsubscribe at any time.

    Sounds fair to me...

  199. Re:What's the big deal? by Faulty+Dreamer · · Score: 1

    I disagree. If you say 'no', how does that constitute and error?

    And the fact that they LET you have a choice doesn't matter if your choice is "say yes" or "say no and get told you meant yes". That sounds about like the choice between Bush and Gore. And I know I keep rehashing this, but a choice between two options that leave you in the same state is not really a choice. And that is the big picture.

    I don't think it should be blown up to be a case of 'violation', spam is just annoying, not violating. But it should be addressed. And a company that is knowingly doing such things (and I really doubt that this is done without anyone in the company having knowledge of it) should have its customers say, "What's going on?" at the very least.

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  200. Give Hemos 48 hours by eclectro · · Score: 2

    Then he'll be back. Ebay is like crack when you want to find something. Unfortunately, there are no other solid alternatives.

    You have Amazon, but supposedly everybody gave up on them when they raped the privacy policy.

    Also, Ebay probably has giggles when they get mad customer emails, because they know that few mad customers are like drops in the ocean of consumers willing to roll over.

    Rather than the half-ass lame "they lost me as a customer" a far more potent (but requires work) is to get legislation passed that prevents companies from spamming you, or using personal data that you don't want them too. If you can find a congressperson who isn't 0wn3d already (hard in itself).

    Then once you have the legal recourse, you get hold of some attorneys and file a class-acion lawsuit for some big bucks. Again this requires more effort/money.

    So its a long road to hoe. But only when companies are about to get there ass blown off financially will they pull there head out. Until then, lame "they lost me as a customer" only makes them laugh.

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  201. What else might they change? by rosvicl · · Score: 4

    Okay, fine, it's business. They basically offer a service which includes a bunch of yes/no choices: do you want to receive this, that, and the other.

    All of a sudden, they're saying "we know you said you don't want this, but we don't believe you meant it. Let us know if you did."

    The point isn't setting up filters. (It isn't even that filters mean the stuff is still going through your ISP.) The point is trust.

    Would you do business with a car dealership that sent you a letter saying they were altering your lease, and call by the end of the month if you don't want to pay more? Sure, you have the chance to keep it the way it is. But you shouldn't have to go to extra trouble to get them to stick to an agreed-on set of rules.

    This month, they're saying they'll spam people unless they opt out again. A company that would do that is entirely capable of sending out email saying "we noticed an error in your registration. Please log in and go to thus-and-such if you really don't want us selling your name and address."

    Yes, eBay has a good record so far. They also have no actual product--they're an intermediary between buyers and sellers. If they lose trust, they're hosed. And this sort of behavior does not inspire me to trust them.

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  202. ebay spam by mirrorz · · Score: 1
    So, today, eBay lost at least me as customer.

    is this to say that if nabisco sends you some junk mail you won't eat oreos anymore ? ....

  203. Techies.com by Seumas · · Score: 1

    eBay is only one of many that do that sort of thing. I and a lot of other people I've talked with have had similar problems with places like techies.com, which is a major recruiting monster.com-like technical site. If you opt-out of their mailing lists, they continue to email you, but from other regions. For example, I signed up on the Portland Oregon site. Then I opted out of their mailing lists. They stopped sending the spam, but then I suddenly started reciving spam from places like their Kentucky server.
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  204. Re:Not such a big deal. by mckyj57 · · Score: 1
    If they did this once a year, it won't be a big deal, but if they do it every month it would be a PITA.

    Well, if EBay is the only company you deal with, I agree that it is not that big a deal. However....

    I deal with dozens of different companies, and over time have purchased from hundreds. If every damn one of them sent me one or two of these a year, it would be a big problem.

    Barnes and Noble is amongst the most rude, IMHO. It was confided to me that if you haven't ordered from them for three months, they figure they have lost you and that they may as well spam you against your preference in case you have forgotten them and will then order. If every company operated this way, email would be unusable.

    That is why a preference once expressed should remain the preference forever. If you screw up the database and spam your customers you should be sanctioned like any two-bit MMFer.

  205. Not such a big deal. by n3bulous · · Score: 1

    The text they sent along was pretty much BS, but they do notify you 2 weeks before anything is supposed to go into effect.

    If they did this once a year, it won't be a big deal, but if they do it every month it would be a PITA.

    There may be some underhanded tracking going on as everyone logs back in to set their prefs to "no", but in general, it is a very slight annoyance. They are only insulting your intelligence, not violating your rights.

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  206. Re:What's the big deal? by British · · Score: 2

    I noticed in the email they considered your choices of "NO" everywhere to be a "default".

    Of course, RealPlayer does this too. If you uncheck all their spamming options, you'll get a popup window asking you if you are really sure you wanna do that. I also think there's no button that says "unselect all" but there is one to check all the damn boxes.

  207. Re:Right???? by bapink01 · · Score: 1
    That's not what Martin Luther King Jr. would have done.
    Or Ghandi
    Or nader(although I liked exploding cars)

    George Washington didn't put up with crap. We do I?

    This isn't idealism. This is the everyday struggle that good men must fight to keep from having a jack boot on your throat.

  208. e-bay and the darkside by enrico_suave · · Score: 1

    LANDO: You said my E-bay references would be left in the city under my supervision.

    VADER: I am altering the deal. Pray I don't alter it any further.

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  209. Here's what I do by thilmony · · Score: 1

    I have my own domain, so when I sign up for stuff, I use their domain@my domain.com. For example, I used to get crap from Microsoft sent to "sidewalk.com@thilmony.com". When it started to irritate me, and they wouldn't unsubscribe me easily, I just set up my smtp to redirect "sidewalk.com@thilmony.com" to "spam@microsoft.com". I haven't heard from them since.

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  210. Let's give them a chance by y6y6y6 · · Score: 2

    If it isn't a spoof I have to think that whoever came up with this stupid idea will be fired rather quickly. Let's give them a chance to denounce this.

    The first time I read this I just assumed it was a spoof. Can we even verify that this is genuine? It's so ludicrous that I can't believe the company, any company, would stand behind it.

    I admit companies will play very fast and loose with the rules to get their message into my in-box, but the wording here sounds like it's almost trying to incite a riot.

    "Many of your Notification Preference defaults were set to "no" rather than to "yes", which means that unlike other eBay members, you're not receiving these types of communications."

    This is just stupid. It's got to be a spoof. "We feel you made an error when you asked us not to send this email."

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  211. Re: So then why do you hide your email? by COBOL/MVS · · Score: 1

    You're right. I'll change it to the right one. Thank you for pointing that out.

    I'm not against writing a rule to direct my mail. Anyone who complains about it should either

    1. Take five minutes to learn how to do it, or
    2. Don't use email.

    Again, I apologize for not practicing what I preach.

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  212. Maybe there was a problem by eXtro · · Score: 1
    Before jumping to conclusions maybe there was something that indicated there may have been a problem. I've been an eBay user for years, have the bare minimum of email notices set (I only want to know if I'm outbid, if I win an auction etc) and didn't get this 'spam'.

    It could've been handled better (ask you to double check your settings) but since not everybody received the message indications would be that for some reason they thought there might be a problem.

  213. Re:What's the big deal? by yulek · · Score: 1

    that's why they're in the RBL...
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  214. What's the problem? by ShieldWolf · · Score: 1

    It seems to me that their system screwed up, so they no longer know the correct state of a few fields, so they set them back to the defaults. Sure that might be annoying but they also offer for him to set them back himself:

    However, we want you to choose your Notification Preferences rather than rely on our standard defaults and will therefore not include you in any communications until 1/23/01. This will provide you with some time to evaluate these choices and modify your Notification Preferences.

    Why doesn't he just go in and set them back? Is it really that big of a deal?
    BTW - this is the reason I keep my XXX@netscape.net account - it's a spam recepticle rather than a daily use account. ;)
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  215. Change your email address to no@spam.please by @i2d · · Score: 1

    That's what I did on Travelocity. It worked!

  216. it could just be... by Seany-Heady · · Score: 1

    That when eBay went down the other day some files got corupted etc, and when they came around to restore every thing they just hit the 'default' button and reset every thing to default. if slashdot lost all of it's users prefs, but not the users passwords etc. what would be easyest, to email every one of them and ask them to fix it. or reset every thing to default?
    Seany

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  217. Oh, FFS.... by smaugy · · Score: 1

    ... why is everyone assuming that eBay thinks that choosing all 'no's in the signup pages is what they meant? What likely happened is that you forgot to fill something in, went back a page ("error - please enter a valid name", etc), carried on, and they thought that you may have forgot to choose "yes" to the questions.

    It's perfectly logical: you might have forgotten something or your browser may have reset the options to "no" as you went back a page. Would you rather not have the opportunity of being updated when their privacy policy changes or whether they'll start charging extra?? With sending this email they can now say "well, we wanted to warn you of the 10 per cent price increase, but you selected the option for us not to email you when you signed up", which is a perfectly reasonable thing to say. Jeez.

  218. Waaaaah by mholve · · Score: 1
    Hemos, don't be such a whiner.

    At least they sent you an Email letting you know what they were doing, and how to correct it, should you wish to change it.

    Granted, setting it all to "yes" is a little bold - but for most users, they probably want it this way. "Oooh, more info - sure, send it!"

    If they hadn't told you about it, I'd be a little more worried. No harm done - just go and set your preferences back.

  219. Typical by Schmecky · · Score: 1

    What do you expect from a country that puts people in jail because of what vegetables they consume. When the government sets brain dead examples by saying they know what is better for you than you do yourself, and threaten that judgment with punishment, companies are sure to follow the leader and set brain dead policies that threaten you in some way.

  220. Privacy Illusion Cracked- Film At Eleven by tenzig_112 · · Score: 1
    As soon as you sign up, they begin collecting all kinds of re-saleable information: bidding history, HTTP REF, whether or not your circumcised- stuff like that. It's awful.

    www.ridiculopathy.com

  221. Perhaps accountability is necessary...? by cr0sh · · Score: 4

    It gets tricky - your data on their servers is being modified by them, because they didn't like your ideas about what you wanted to receive from them. Some would say "But wait, it is their machines, and they can do with the data as they please." - right? Perhaps if you aren't paying for it, but you are, indirectly, by being willing to look at thier banner ads, which you pay for (once again, indirectly) with bandwidth.

    Very grey area, to say the least. But what happens in the future...

    Dear user,

    We are sorry to inform you that your recent email written using BigCorp ASPMailClient did not get sent. In fact, we deleted it, because it said disparaging things about our sister company, SmallCorp. Please refrain from saying bad things we don't like. Remember, we have your credit card number...


    Seem impossible? If the dream of ASPs come true, you will pay to see, access, and alter your data, stored remotely on a server not under your control. They may do what they wish with the information, and as current law stands, not by liable for anything they do with it, because the law is in such a grey area over who owns it.

    Worldcom - Generation Duh!

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  222. I disagree. by y6y6y6 · · Score: 2

    I disagree. We just need to wait for the case law to catch up with the medium.

    If you directly tell a telemarketer to remove your information and not contact you again, they have to comply or your have legal recourse. They can be fined.

    eBay is a big company. Enough PO'd users could equal a class action law suit. And it's even easier with spam. You have a paper trail. If you set your preferences and they set them back..... Seems like a slam dunk law suit. Provided the case law catches up.......

    Jon Sullivan

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    Jon Sullivan
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