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Legal War For WA State Sunshine Law

joeszilagyi writes "In a major battle in Washington State, anti-gay rights groups created and got R-71 on the 2009 election ballot. This is a public initiative to put same-sex civil unions up for public vote. The real legal war then erupted: activists created WhoSigned.org to take advantage of WA state's Public Records Act, and put the names of all people who publicly endorsed R-71 on a public, SEO-optimized website. Lawsuits quickly followed, and today it reached the United States Supreme Court, in a matter of months. The records appear to have always been public, but have only been available in digital form since 2006. An assault on civil rights, an assault on marriage, or an assault on sunshine laws and freedom of information?"

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  1. The Law of Unintended Consequences by wiredog · · Score: 4, Insightful

    is passed in every legislative session.

    1. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by AndersOSU · · Score: 5, Insightful

      this is not an unintended consequence.

      Petitions have always been public, and sunshine laws let the public see public records.

      The only unintended consequence is that some activists are unhappy that they're being associated with the movement they support.

    2. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by commodore64_love · · Score: 5, Insightful

      >>>some activists are unhappy that they're being associated with the movement they support.

      Wow.

      Terrible.

      The horror.

      /end sarcasm. If you support a cause then you ought not be ashamed about it. Hand me that petition; I'll sign it. I don't care if you marry another man, woman, or a whole bunch of women (harem), and I don't care if you find my name on it. It's a free country and you should be free to marry whoever you want to marry. That's what freedom means. ----- Now as for the extra benefits of marriage - those are the things that should be eliminated. A guy and girl who are just living together shouldn't feel pressured to get "married" just to reduce their taxes. Even when married they should still pay the same tax as when they were two singles. I believe in equality - all individuals treated identically.

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      "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it." - historian Evelyn Beatrice Hall
    3. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Late+Adopter · · Score: 4, Funny

      Hand me that petition; I'll sign it. I don't care if you marry another man, woman, or a whole bunch of women (harem), and I don't care if you find my name on it.

      You may want to read the petition first, then, because it's supporting a referendum to REPEAL civil unions in Washington.

    4. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by mrdoogee · · Score: 1

      I'm not a Washington resident, I happen to live in California. However, if we here in CA ever get a petition going around to counteract Prop 8, I'd sign it and gladly let my name be posted. Hell, they can post my name AND photo on the front page of Google for all I care.

    5. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Runaway1956 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The real unintended consequence is, that gay rights activists can come to your place of employment, or to your home, and picket. Signing a petition is very similar to voting - it's no one's business how I mark a ballot, nor is it anyone's business that I signed the petition.

      State officials are responsible for ensuring that signatures are valid. The "opposition" might challenge the validity of signatures, but they have no right to make a list for publication. The ONLY reason for such a list, is future harassment.

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    6. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think he was giving an example of a petition he would sign, so that he could talk about it from the first person.

    7. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by skine · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Just because they don't want their names to be seen does not mean that they are ashamed.

      Perhaps they're afraid of what might happen to them personally if their name is found.

      For example, if a southerner had signed a petition favoring the right of black people to vote, they would damn well hope that it was anonymous. Not out of embarrassment, but out of personal safety.

      Anonymity is the better option in these situations, since it provides an accurate count of how many people actually agree with the cause, not the number of people who will openly admit to it.

    8. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The only unintended consequence is that some activists are unhappy that they're being associated with the movement they support.

      Amen. I too support rather controversial issues. I support the full legalization of marijuana. I also support the movements to legalize and regulate all narcotics. I support gay marriage. I do not participate in drug use, nor am I gay. But I feel these are issues that are very important to society as a whole, and I'm not the least bit ashamed of it, even if a large number of people were to know that I support these views. (Which in reality isn't a shocker, since I already make public these issues, so that most of my friends, family and associates know of it.)

      So the question is, why do these people that support anti-gay marriage legislation not want to be known? What kind of agenda are they following? Saying different things to different parties?

    9. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      As others have pointed out, the petition in question was in support of a "Prop 8" bill, not against.

    10. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by jdgeorge · · Score: 1

      The real unintended consequence is, that gay rights activists can come to your place of employment, or to your home, and picket. Signing a petition is very similar to voting - it's no one's business how I mark a ballot, nor is it anyone's business that I signed the petition.

      Really? It's nobody's business that you're trying to influence legislators to do things that may affect the rights of people other than yourself?

    11. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by mrdoogee · · Score: 1

      Yeah.. I just STFA (skimmed the f'n article) and realized that. But my statement is still apt, I would not be bothered if a PRO-Prop 8 group posted my name.

      No matter how you vote, you should be proud of what you vote for.

    12. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      You know, that would mean alota shit if it weren't for the fact that the 'moral right' has used the method of "shame him! he supported something we are against!" far longer than the 'liberal left'.

      There are groups who still sit in parking lots to take photos of the folk who visit porn shops as they leave and post them online with whatever personal details they can find for the individual in questions.

      What's good for the goose is good for the gander. And honestly, I think at this time and age, it's good for a little "think about who will see your name attached to this" to be involved when people are passing around petitions.

      Lets see how many people want to get behind the hate mongering when they don't have the illusion of anonymity lending them boldness.

    13. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by im_thatoneguy · · Score: 1

      Which is one of the other controversies of this referendum. It was a terribly confusing petition "Do you not, not want them to not be denied rights?"

    14. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by BenSchuarmer · · Score: 1

      Sez Who? The lists have always been public in the past.

      Yes, activists can picket your house or your place of work, but they could also do this based on the fact that you went to a political meeting, church, etc.

      The reality is that it's impractical to do so. Thousands of people signed these petitions, and activists aren't going to be able to bother all of them.

    15. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Chyeld · · Score: 5, Funny

      Yes, because historically we've had mobs of gay rights activists who have rioted, killed, and otherwise physically assaulted and intimidated straight folk. That's what "gay rage" means, right? ...

      What? You mean it doesn't?

    16. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by The+Wooden+Badger · · Score: 1

      "The only unintended consequence is that some activists are unhappy that they're being associated with the movement they support."

      I fundamentally disagree with this statement. I can completely disagree with a movement, but agree with a piece of legislation that movement proposes. Signing the petition to get a proposal on the ballot in no way categorizes someone as a member of the group that is promoting that petition. If I look at the proposed ballot measure on the petition and agree with it and sign it, I am not endorsing them. Take any idea out there that you like and imagine a group that you don't like was trying to get signatures, would you sign? Let's say the KKK is getting signatures to put the fair tax on the ballot. I like the fair tax, but I don't like the KKK. If I sign and someone tags me as a racist because of it, I'm pissed.

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    17. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Runaway1956 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Sorry, you're way off base. A petition is NOT an attempt to influence a legislator. A petition is a CALL FOR A VOTE. Once the issue is on the ballot, then EVERYONE GETS A VOTE. The legislators don't get a say, as legislators - they only get one vote, the same as every other citizen who exercises their right to vote.

      You are obviously confusing a lobbyist with a citizen who signs a petition. Lobbying efforts aren't even transparent (despite laws to the contrary) so why should a petition be any more transparent?

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      "Windows is like the faint smell of piss in a subway: it's there, and there's nothing you can do about it." - Charlie Br
    18. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by acohen1 · · Score: 1

      I'm pretty sure its the OPPOSITE of voting, as in you are putting your name and reputation behind the petition.

    19. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      > The ONLY reason for such a list, is future harassment.

      Sure, that is, until people who never signed it find their name on the list.

      Seriously... if a petition to ammend your state constitution to allow police officers to ass rape anyone they see on the street.... how would you know that your name wasn't improperly added to the list of signers if the list wasn't publically posted?

      What does signature validation consist of anyway? They check the names against the voter roles and addresses? Nice. Does anyone actually bother to mail people and say "Hey, you actually signed this, right?"

      Hell, I could draw up a petition and have a few hundred "signatures" by the end of the day if that is the standard. Omar Ravenhurst wouldn't even need to sign.

      -Steve

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      "I opened my eyes, and everything went dark again"
    20. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by mdm-adph · · Score: 1

      Ah -- and that's why they have a problem with it.

      Imagine that -- people being ashamed of being against gay rights. Honestly, that actually warms my heart a little, to see how things have changed.

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      It is by my will alone my thoughts acquire motion; it is by the juice of the coffee bean that the thoughts acquire speed
    21. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Act'Up in France (except for the killing part). I haven't heard of them in a while. They did more to discredit the homosexuals than all the extreme righters combined.

    22. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by amicusNYCL · · Score: 1

      Either way, the point is that if you're supporting something you should stand behind it, it shouldn't matter that other people know you support it. If you're a homophobe living in Washington and want to make sure that same-sex civil unions don't pass, if you're going to put your name on that paper then you shouldn't try to hide from that. If you don't want to face that publicly, then you shouldn't have supported it in the first place. Likewise, if you supported it then you should have no problem standing up for your point of view publicly, unless you think you have a weak position and don't want to defend it.

      An assault on civil rights, an assault on marriage, or an assault on sunshine laws and freedom of information?

      This isn't an assault on anything, the public has every right to know which among them votes for whatever. Dave Chapelle had it right, this country seems to think that the way you vote is the most private information. That shouldn't be the case, if you're voting in a public election then your vote should also be public. In fact, you should be proud to stand up and say you voted for any one thing. If you're not proud to say that, then why did you vote?

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      "Our two-party system is like a bowl of shit looking at itself in a mirror." - Lewis Black
    23. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      Really? It's nobody's business that you're trying to influence legislators to do things that may affect the rights of people other than yourself?

      Playing devil's advocate here, that's right. It isn't anyone's business. In any sort of participatory social system, it is everyone's task, even their duty, to try to bring about the society they want and establish a new norm. In the US, one of our options is to bring our pet issues to our legislators through referendum and try to get a law.

      We can do that more effectively — you can do that more effectively for your own pet issues — without opponents going after us in person to intimidate us. They can go through the same, defusing channels as anyone else. This business of posting names of supporters of various pro- and anti-civil-union measures is just asking for trouble.

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    24. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1

      "Hell, I could draw up a petition and have a few hundred "signatures" by the end of the day if that is the standard."

      Go for it. Pick an issue, get the "signatures", and submit them to whichever jurisdiction you're interested in.

      Be sure to post back here, and let us all know how it works out. I suspect it is more likely that we will have to find you in the newspapers though. "Wannabe Geek Indicted on Fraudulent Petition Charges"

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      "Windows is like the faint smell of piss in a subway: it's there, and there's nothing you can do about it." - Charlie Br
    25. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by crmarvin42 · · Score: 1

      I don't think the problem is that those signing the petition are being outed, but that they fear they are going to face unlawful retribution as a result of having their names known to the general public.

      I'm a scientist, and I do research that involves the use of Animal Models. You can find my name on my University's website, and it would be trivial for an interested party to ascertain my home address as my last name is fairly unique (No one in my town has it except for me and my family). However, groups like PETA and ELF/ALF have in the past done the research to locate animal researchers and published the information on the web so that their more psycho members could harrass those researchers. Those publishing the information are not considered to be breaking any laws, but it would take a moron to miss the fact that without that information being made easily available to the more radical members of their organization the scientists wouldn't be experiencing harrasment. Some examples of this are the attempted car bombings of animal reasearchers from UCLA

      Also, the retribution does not need to be violent. There is the possibility that someone who signed the petition is a subordinate of a homosexual that visits the site. It would be near impossible to proove that being passed over for promotion is not connected to having signed a petition that is at odds with the political wishes of one's superiors. I'm not saying that I believe homosexuals to be more vindictive than heterosexuals, but they are human and vindictiveness is a common human failing.

      Besides, signing a petition does not make one an acitivist. It simply means that when approached by an activist, they were willing to register their opinion on an issue. I've signed petitions for causes I didn't care about to any large extent, I didn't seek them out or try to convince others to agree with me, I simply read the document and decided whether or not it was in line with my beliefs on the issue and then decided to sign accordingly.

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    26. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by amicusNYCL · · Score: 1

      it's no one's business how I mark a ballot, nor is it anyone's business that I signed the petition.

      I don't see it that way at all. If you're voting on something that affects other people's lives (and most things do), the public certainly has a right to know who voted which way. If you're ashamed to vote for something, then you shouldn't vote for it.

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      "Our two-party system is like a bowl of shit looking at itself in a mirror." - Lewis Black
    27. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      What a ridiculous straw man. If and I do mean IF the KKK passed around a petition for fairer taxes and somehow didn't include something racist or anti-non-protestants in it, and that was the only KKK petition you signed, then even in that Bizzaro world where such things happen AND people care enough to look up who supported the petition to shame them, you would simply need to turn to them and say "Yeah, I have no clue what the KKK was doing but the petition was for a valid law and I thought maybe they were making an attempt at being socially responsible instead of a being a gang of racist thugs. Mea Culpa."

    28. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by doktor-hladnjak · · Score: 1

      Ballots, while anonymous, are generally public records that can be examined by anybody. For example, here's a link to a letter from the Florida attorney general answering a question about ballots in that state being public record. Here's another one in Ohio. Including ballots as part of public records means that outside individuals or groups are free to verify that ballots were counted correctly. In fact, I think several newspapers did just that in Florida for the 2000 Presidential election. Ruling that petitions are confidential would make them less open than actual votes.

    29. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by jk379 · · Score: 1

      I am sorry but your off base on the tax issue:
      'A guy and girl who are just living together shouldn't feel pressured to get "married" just to reduce their taxes. Even when married they should still pay the same tax as when they were two singles.'

      Being married you pay more in taxes, than two single people. We need to get rid of the marriage tax and make 1+1=2.

    30. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      So the question is, why do these people that support anti-gay marriage legislation not want to be known? What kind of agenda are they following? Saying different things to different parties?

      I like crmarvin42's response above. He distinguishes an "activist" from a "supporter." I can support an issue by signing a petition without being willing to go out-and-out activist, without wanting to be drawn into debate, without wanting to be picketed.

      You may feel strongly about your issues, but you must be aware that not everyone feels strongly about their own issues, and you should respect that. Let them have their privacy. Maybe they've got too much going on to spend the energy or time. Maybe they deal with crap all day and don't want any more. Maybe they are fundamentally apathetic.

      And, yes, maybe they do have a public face and a private face. They are allowed. That cuts both ways, you know. A politician may need to maintain a homophobic public face to keep his position, but he uses that position to do a lot of good for the poor and disadvantaged.

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    31. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by tgeller · · Score: 0, Troll

      Oh, right, thanks for reminding me of all the liberal violence out there. Anti-gay activists are being lynched and beaten all the time, just like integrationists in the segregated South. Good job there.

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      Tom Geller
    32. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by virg_mattes · · Score: 1

      > If you're voting on something that affects other people's lives (and most things do), the public certainly has a right to know who voted which way. If you're ashamed to vote for something, then you shouldn't vote for it.

      The problem falls as mentioned above, where retaliation is a threat. I'm sorry, but your argument doesn't stand up to the idea that petitioners could face retaliatory action for petitions, and as such it's just as important as secret ballots. History has amply demonstrated the will of certain groups and individuals to apply force against those whose votes they know about (bosses demanding that their employees vote a certain way on pain of dismissal or thugs beating or killing those who vote against their bosses in elections, death threats against people who sign public petitions for certain things) so in this situation, the privacy of the petitioners needs to be protected for safety. Election officials can verify the validity of petitions without releasing names, and votes and petitions should be private except in cases of elected officials, who agree to public announcements of their voting record as a matter of the job.

      Virg

    33. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by paranoid.android · · Score: 3, Insightful

      This isn't an assault on anything, the public has every right to know which among them votes for whatever. Dave Chapelle had it right, this country seems to think that the way you vote is the most private information. That shouldn't be the case, if you're voting in a public election then your vote should also be public. In fact, you should be proud to stand up and say you voted for any one thing. If you're not proud to say that, then why did you vote?

      There are a few reasons you can't (and shouldn't be able to) tie a name to a ballot: bribery and coercion, to name two.

      If Joe can make a few bucks voting for Mr. A instead of Mrs. B, when he couldn't care less about the outcome of the election, why wouldn't he?

      Should the management of Acme Co. be able to award bonuses to those who vote for a favored candidate, and demote or fire those who don't?

    34. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Khyber · · Score: 1

      "Perhaps they're afraid of what might happen to them personally if their name is found."

      When it comes to semi-religious assholes getting in the way of the rights of others over something found in a constantly modified book, they had better be scared. I have the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, and those fuckers have no right to get in the way of whom I choose to marry.

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    35. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by mapsjanhere · · Score: 1

      Not to mention the possibility of mischief, as easily as I can sign as Mickey Mouse on the ballot I can have the head of the local ACLU chapter sign the pro-death penalty petition and the Baptist minister the pro-gay rights one.

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    36. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1

      I take it then, that you have never voted. Ballots ARE anonymous in the United States. They are guaranteed to be anonymous. It is NO ONE'S business how anyone marks a ballot. I'm not even permitted into the booth to watch how someone marks their ballot. The wife and I are not even permitted to occupy the same booth at the same time. Your understanding of the American voting system is seriously incomplete.

      Now, I happen to be proud of my vote. I TELL people how I voted. Interested? I voted against Bill Clinton every chance I had. I voted for Bush the first time, and voted against him the second time. I voted for Obama. I'm proud of my votes, though I'm less proud of my Bush vote than my other votes.

      But, anonymity at the ballot box is guaranteed for a reason. I could presumably bully my wife into voting my way, or punish her for not voting my way. She's a little bitty woman, it would be no problem to smack her around until she sees reason.

      Do you see the reason for anonymity, now?

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    37. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Historically, there have been reasons why the actual votes someone casts in an election are kept private. In some parts of the world, if it gets out that you voted for Candidate X, then that could mean you've just lost your house, your land, and your family. I'd like to think the US is not one of those places, however there can be other bad things that happen to you if it comes out that you voted one way on something when you'd rather keep that private.

      Now a public petition is another thing, as these things need to be verified that the people that actually signed it exist, and wanted to sign it.

    38. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      you would simply need to turn to them and say "Yeah, I have no clue what the KKK was doing but the petition was for a valid law and I thought maybe they were making an attempt at being socially responsible instead of a being a gang of racist thugs. Mea Culpa."

      Assuming you get the chance to do so, and aren't faced with an angry mob that ain't listening, or a midnight brick through the window.

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      i'd hit it so hard, if you pulled me out you'd be the king of britain [bash.org]
    39. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Blakey+Rat · · Score: 1

      The only unintended consequence is that some activists are unhappy that they're being associated with the movement they support.

      That's not how the Initiative system in Washington works.

      You sign because you want it to go to ballot. It has nothing to do with whether you support it or not. (Although obviously if you do support it, you'd want to sign.)

      That *might* mean you support it. That might also mean you think it'll be so soundly defeated that they'll give up trying to legislate it in the future.

    40. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by rahvin112 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Petitions are no different than gathering in a public square to protest. They are a PUBLIC statement of support for the cause. That's their entire purpose. If they were intended to be private they would have no value. Apparently no one ever taught you what signing a petition means and why even people who support an idea won't sign a petition for it. Petitions have been used throughout their history to persecute the people that signed it. The declaration of independence was nothing more than a forceful petition as the people that signed it didn't truly represent anyone at the time (under English law). Signing a petition is the one of the ultimate forms of support for a cause because it publicly associates your name to the cause so your elected officials know how many people support it. Only voting is anonymous, not petitions nor should they ever be. Without public petitions the petition isn't worth the paper it's printed on as other people could sign your name to it and you would never know.

    41. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by bar-agent · · Score: 2, Informative

      However there can be other bad things that happen to you if it comes out that you voted one way on something when you'd rather keep that private.

      Yeah, and those bad things can still happen if sign a petition and your signature is made public. If you sign in support of something, you'll vote in support of something, and the bad guys will act accordingly.

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    42. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      A fundamentally apathetic person probably wouldn't be signing a petition. And if you don't feel that strongly one way or another on the issue to have your name associated with either side, then maybe you shouldn't sign the petition, and wait for it to come up to the ballot where you can express your support for the issue in private.

    43. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by bar-agent · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Petitions have been used throughout their history to persecute the people that signed it. The declaration of independence was nothing more than a forceful petition as the people that signed it didn't truly represent anyone at the time (under English law). Signing a petition is the one of the ultimate forms of support for a cause because it publicly associates your name to the cause so your elected officials know how many people support it.

      This is a good point. The idea behind the petition is that if a bunch of people feel strongly enough about an issue to put their names and reputations behind it, it is definitely worth checking with the rest of the populace, through a real vote.

      But, I don't know, I think petitions have changed over time. The bunch of people role is taken over by activists, getting their message out there using television and media, rather than a signed letter to an official. Now, petitions are just a second-tier check for broad support, and that can be done by counting valid signatures then tossing the lot.

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    44. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

      It depends on how much money you make.

      Couples with two good incomes pay more, couples with only one good income pay less.

      IMHO in all cases it should be the same tax.

      --
      John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
    45. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      To clarify. the people who signed the law OPPOSE domestic partnership. They don't want their names public because they're being exposed as bigots. The law was passed by the state government and these people petitioned for it to put up to a confusing public vote. YES is you want to expand domestic partnership rights. NO is you want to f over people in domestic partnerships.

    46. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Rick+the+Red · · Score: 1

      You may want to read the petition first, then, because it's supporting a referendum to REPEAL civil unions in Washington.

      Not exactly. First, it's not civil union. The legislature passed a law to give committed homosexual couples the same legal rights as married heterosexual couples (you know, the right to be in the hospital room with them, etc.) -- but without a civil ceremony. Some people objected, so they turned this law into a referendum (distinct from an initiative), which means the public now votes on whether we want this law. This referendum does not repeal civil unions, it grants equal legal rights to homosexual couples.

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    47. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1

      The ballots have no identifying information on them. No one is required to sign their ballot. There is no thumbprint. No computerized notations to identify the voter. Ballots are impersonal scraps of paper (or computerized tallies) that can't be attached to anyone.

      It seems that you have probably not voted in any United States elections, or you would know this.

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      "Windows is like the faint smell of piss in a subway: it's there, and there's nothing you can do about it." - Charlie Br
    48. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For the same reason you post as anonymous coward ;)

    49. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by the_womble · · Score: 1

      The problem is that it opens people to pressure.

      There are good reasons for jointly taxing married couples, the same reason that economists talk of households rather than individuals - they are one unit financially. Inverting it, should the unemployed spouse of a billionaire get welfare? If not, tac should be consistent with benefits.

      Another example, two couples, each with two kids, in one case both people earn $50,000 a year, in the other case one earns $100,000 a year but has a spose that stays at home and looks after the kids, I see no reason the latter ( with the same income for the familly) should pay higher tax.

    50. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Rick+the+Red · · Score: 1

      This is called "Social Engineering." Our Government wants heterosexual couples to marry and have kids, and they want the Mother to stay home to raise the kids while the Father goes to work. That's the way it always has been and always shall be, damnit, and our tax laws will encourage this until the end of time.
       
      Which makes me wonder why they don't want gays in the military, where they're more likely to die. Indeed, you'd think they'd ban heterosexuals from the military, in order to protect our gene pool. I swear the RRR just doesn't think these things through.

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    51. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by amicusNYCL · · Score: 1

      I take it then, that you have never voted...Your understanding of the American voting system is seriously incomplete.

      Thanks, I'm 30 and have voted in several elections.

      I voted for Bush the first time, and voted against him the second time.

      That's interesting phrasing, I was about to say I voted for Kerry but it wasn't so much a vote for Kerry as a vote against Bush.

      Do you see the reason for anonymity, now?

      In the voting booth? Yeah. On the streets when people are walking around asking for signatures? No. I can see everyone else's name on the petition right in front of me, right when I sign it. If you're putting your name and support behind a public initiative, then stand up for it. If you think you're being threatened because of your vote, call the authorities. If the intimidation has worked on you and you're too scared to call the authorities, don't vote. Tampering with elections or influencing a vote is a federal crime, if you beat your wife because of her vote and she reports you, you're screwed.

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    52. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by wastedlife · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I believe that you are mistaking a petition with a vote. Votes are and should be kept as anonymous as possible while still preventing fraud, signing a petition means you are signing that you personally are in support of the cause. If you could anonymously sign a petition, then what is to stop someone from filling a petition with anonymous #1 through #1,000,000? Votes are handled by voting authorities to try to prevent fraud, petitions can be held by the person or group supporting the cause they are petitioning for.

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    53. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by sbeckstead · · Score: 1

      wrong, if you are a supporter of a referendum then you must sign publicly, else we don't count your signature. If you believe strongly enough to sign the petition you should not care who knows that. It is illegal to harass you and there are remedies for that behavior. We are all responsible for ensuring that our names are not used to support something we don't believe in.

    54. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Jarik+C-Bol · · Score: 1

      The problem is, when the public record of who voted for what enables the large scale harassment of individuals, based on the way they voted. I vote the way i do because it reflects what i believe in. In this supposedly free country, i can hold whatever beliefs (religious or otherwise) that i so chose. When the public record leads to someone egging my house, sending threatening letters and making threatening phonecalls in the middle of the night, i would consider my rights as a citizen to have been violated.

      *TLDR VERSION*
      When information is placed in the public record, and it leads to the commission of a crime, should there be consequences for enabling that crime? I think so.

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    55. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Ronald+Dumsfeld · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I have to disagree here, and shake my head sadly at the number of up-modded clueless Slashbots talking on this.

      It is people who wish to restrict gay rights behind this. It is a first in terms of arguing for anonymity in such a way on a petition-backed ballot option.

      Gays who have campaigned elsewhere, and run petitions for ballot items, have put up with their names being publicly available.

      If you're a raging homophobe in private, fine. If you want to sign a petition calling for a ballot on restricting the rights of people you don't like — have the balls to accept the potential consequences.

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    56. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Sir_Dill · · Score: 1

      You may want to read the petition first, then, because it's supporting a referendum to REPEAL civil unions in Washington.

      Actually no.

      You are incorrect.
      The referendum puts the Civil Union law that was enacted by the state legislature to public vote on repealing the law.
      The petition was to put the Civil Union laws on the ballot and let the people choose.
      Granted the sponsor of the referendum is opposed to civil unions but the thing you have to remember is the petition was not to repeal the law, it was to put it up to the voters.
      Reading it the way you wrote it implies that voting for the referendum would repeal the law and that is not the case.

    57. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      Yes because an angry mob is going to form to lynch the people who supported a petition for a law supporting fairer taxes. For fucks sake, do you live in the land of Oz? The scarecrow isn't alive.

    58. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is in fact a large part of what is going on. The topic starting to blow up after the opposition stated that they would take the list of names and addresses for those who signed the petition, then visit them at home to have a conversation with them. Are we to believe that every single person in that group is going to have a civil conversation at these homes, or will something more likely happen? At least one individual stated that, although he wouldn't support it, this is something the opposition should be willing to get violent about.

      With all that being said, someone suddenly realized that there were real threats involved, and possible voter intimidation.

      Like you stated, if this was a petition for african american rights, and the KKK said that they would visit the home of everyone who signed it to have a talk, most of the nation would be behind hiding the list of names.

    59. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      How many people do you think there are that fully support marriage equality (or the right to a civil union as the case may be here,) but really think we should ask the voters if it should be taken away.

      My guess - there's orders of magnitude more people who have no idea what they were signing.

    60. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So this whole issue is a giant mess. Bill 5688 passed some time ago, giving gay couples rights and benefits that anti-gay activists are unhappy about.

      Ref 71 is an attempt to repeal 5688 and remove the rights and benefits that are already law. To get it on the ballot, there had to be a petition with enough signatures. Pro-gay groups were AGAINST the petition (don't put repeal 5688 on the ballot), anti-gay groups were FOR the petition.

      Since the petition got enough signatures, Ref 71 was placed on the ballot. However, the way it is worded, if you vote to APPROVE Ref 71, you are voting to NOT repeal 5688, and maintain the rights and benefits that are currently law. If you vote to REJECT Ref 71, you are actually voting for actoin, to repeal 5688. Understandably, pro-gay groups are FOR approving Ref 71, anti-gay groups are AGAINST approving Ref 71.

      I'm convinced that this was made intentionally as confusing as possibly, but I think it's hurting both sides. Nobody is really sure what they are voting for anymore.

    61. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by blitziod · · Score: 2, Insightful

      well jurors names are public. So I guess these can be. People do sometimes harras or pressure jurrors BUT if caught we throw them UNDER the jail..This makes jury tampering fairly rare( well bribery still happens a lot, but who said people did not give away a toaster for every signature)I say lets treat this the same. You try to intimidate these people from lawfully perticipating in goverment we give you a mandatory 25 to life in prison and a 1 million dollar fine per instance. Your activist group does this and we use RICO to make it triple fines and throw everyone in the group in prison. should solve the problem.

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    62. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Jherico · · Score: 1

      I have a petition of over 7 billion signatures that disagrees with you. Perhaps this illustrates why petitions, unlike voting, can't be anonymous.

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    63. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      Yes because an angry mob is going to form to lynch the people who supported a petition for a law supporting fairer taxes.

      No, but my point is the angry mob might form because they think you're a KKK sympathizer after seeing your name as a petition-signer on a biased anti-KKK website.

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    64. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Omestes · · Score: 1

      I try to sign all petitions, whether or whether not I agree with them, just because I think the public as a whole should have their say, with the caveat that the issue at hand should be an issue for government, and not just some moral or religious mumbo-jumbo, or whatnot. I've signed several hundred petitions for issues I'm rabidly against, just because I think the public should have a say, even if the odds are the public won't agree with me.

      In any case, I don't really care if my name gets publicly attached to the issue, since I have no expectation of privacy when it comes to petitions. Hell, you have to enter your ADDRESS and FULL NAME, this pretty much flies in the face of any expected sense of privacy.

      If you truly believe in something, you should have no problem with attaching your name to it, fear of reprisals or not. If there was a petition going around to legalize marijuana, give money to schools, promote true universal health-care, allow full equal rights to all people regardless of what their sexual preference is (and what religions dislike them for bigoted irrational reasons), disallow the term "terrorism" from the halls of congress, and cause us to withdrawl all influence and aid from Isreal or any other middle eastern country (notice, all of these views are VERY controversial, and might raise ire in some weak minded, violent morons); would sign it, underline my name, and scream this from rooftops, no matter what you may think or do. Why? Because doing the right thing is more important than my safety. If your more worried about harm than your beliefs, you have weak beliefs.

      I wouldn't have signed this petition because it isn't the governments job to inflict Judeo-Christian morality on others.

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    65. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      If it was enacted by the state legislature, and now it's going to a vote, isn't that a measure to repeal a law that's already on the books?

      A quick google confirms that Washington currently offers extensive rights to gay couples with domestic partnerships. If this ballot measure fails to pass, those rights will be revoked.

    66. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by amicusNYCL · · Score: 1

      should there be consequences for enabling that crime

      There should be consequences for committing the crime. The responsibility of the crime rests solely on whoever committed it, they are the only party with responsibility for the crime. If I say that I voted to stop prosecuting people for marijuana use, and some anti-pothead activist kills me, I'm not somehow responsible for my own murder because I informed the guy who killed me how I voted.

      When information is placed in the public record, and someone uses that information to commit a crime, the only responsibility for that crime belongs to the person who committed it. There were several sane people who had access to that same information yet somehow managed to avoid committing a crime.

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    67. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      At which point, one asks oneself, how much of that is the fault of the signing of the petition and how much of it is the fact that you apparently live in a world that has gone so anti-KKK that they've run out of 'legitimate' targets and are now focusing on the people who just 'innocently' signed a KKK petition to support a non-hate mongering law. Keeping in mind that the people who signed this petition live in the same world and thus must have at least a passing knowledge of this more reviled KKK and somehow believe that signing THIS petition would have a greater impact than writing their own..

    68. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      I chuckled a little.

      Imagine, government programs encouraging not only a gay military, but gay nascar, gay oil rig roughnecks, gay crab fishermen. (Next on Discovery follow the crew of the SS Judy Garland as they battle the elements on The Queerest Catch.)

      How long would it be before the religious right was up in arms protesting that we're encouraging the youth to "turn gay" because we're steering them to all the honorable professions.

    69. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do you believe in secret ballots?

      In principle, how is this different?

    70. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Trepidity · · Score: 1

      It's hardly all "activists" or people associated with a movement. I personally sign all ballot-initiative petitions that I run across, because I think having a vote on most issues is a good idea. I may vote against them on the ballot, but I'll sign the petition. (Of course, I didn't sign this particular one, because I don't live in WA.)

    71. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Dude, TFA... the petition was from anti-gay activists. I think they want the petition signed to try to stop the bill (which would make for more equal rights) from being passed. I'm not trying to show you up, but you might want to put some critical thinking into political decisions, because political people will try to manipulate you in any way possible for their own agenda.

    72. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Lord+Kano · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      Leftists don't have a problem with discrimination and harassment, it's just that now THEY want to be the ones to decide the targets.

      LK

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    73. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by rjstegbauer · · Score: 1

      You need to look up the definitions of "tyranny" and "blackmail" and "coercion".

      Randy -- iamnotafraidtosignmyname

    74. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by WNight · · Score: 1, Troll

      I you vote to restrict your neighbors doing something harmless, I'm not sure they shouldn't get to burn your house down...

      Why is telling people who they can "marry" your right? Should I tell you that you can't watch TV simply because I find it mind-numbing?

      Vote *only* on things that directly impact you.

    75. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Drunken+Buddhist · · Score: 1

      This is what happens when you have to explain to people the difference between "freedom of speech" and "responsibility for what you say"

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    76. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by crmarvin42 · · Score: 1

      Ok, the first 3 paragraphs were negated by the last sentence of your post. To sum up what I read:

      I sign any petition regardless of whether or not I agree with it.

      Followed up by,

      I wouldn't sign this petition because I disagree with it.

      Do you understand the definition of contradictory.

      Personally I don't care what your politics are on this particular issue, or any other for that matter. I was trying to correct the impression that the objection to the data being made public was out of shame over their position on the issue, when the true objection was one of fear of reprisal. It's the same reason that Unions have secret ballots when deciding whether or not to unionize (to protect against reprisal from both the Company that doesn't want unionization, and from fellow workers that do want it), and why we have anonymous balloting in elections (to protect the voter from reprisals by those they didn't vote for). That second one is particularly important as in many countries people are killed for voting the wrong way.

      You apparently believe yourself willing to endure any reprisal for your political beliefs. Congratulations, you are either among the bravest people I've come across or too naive for your own good. Since I'm a skeptic so my default assessment is the later. But I'm also willing to leave open the opportunity that you are the former, however unlikely I find it.

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    77. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Etcetera · · Score: 0, Troll

      I you vote to restrict your neighbors doing something harmless, I'm not sure they shouldn't get to burn your house down...

      This is why we don't let Libertarians run rampant. Regardless of whether you agree or disagree with a law, the fact that it restricts something you consider to be harmless (though it doesn't seem to run afoul of constitutional rights -- ie, it's a valid,legal law) does not give you any sort of right (legal, moral or otherwise) to burn someone else's house down.

    78. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oddly older men and women who live together are better off financially not to be married. Being that the reverse is true for younger couples I wonder if it could be called age discrimination.
                        One exception to exposing names on a petition might be for employees who could easily be fired or held back in their jobs if the petition regards their employer.

    79. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by mattack2 · · Score: 1

      I agree with you (which is also why I'm against "hate crime" laws).

      But because most people are not that sane/logical, simply having one's votes private seems like a reasonable safeguard. (I know that this issue is about petition signatures.) Personally, I'm referring to individual citizens. I think that all elected officials' votes (not just votes in the Senate for example, but their election day votes) should be made public, because they're representing us.

    80. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by 10Brett-T · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You do understand precedents, right? Little to no retribution against signers of this petition does not prove that signers of a future, unrelated, and perhaps well-supported petition have nothing to fear from some entrenched opponents. It's necessary to weigh the benefit of publicizing the list of signers of any petition against the possibility of intimidation toward signers of it or any other petition.

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    81. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not sure your point stands, seeing as Libertarians value property rights at least as much as they value personal rights.

    82. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Contrary to your belief people in the South do not generally suffer harm simply for expressing pro civil rights beliefs. If you take the time to study counties in Mississippi an Georgia you will find areas that are overwhelmingly black in population where you will find other counties with 1% or less of black residents. Sadly it is a form of control related to employment. If locals refuse to hire blacks then blacks move to other counties. If the government complains in the areas that have no black residents the businesses can use the excuse that they haven't had a black job applicant in years.
                      And the really sick part is that whites usually do have better communities when blacks are rare in an area. I have lived in the South all my life. My elementary school went from 100% white to 100% black. My high school in Florida was famous for its high quality. Now allowing your child to attend that high school if they are white would be far too dangerous and in reality would be a form of child abuse.A white son or daughter at that school will be beaten down, abused or worse.
                      As much as I like the idea of integration, even knowing that it works well in some areas, it has been an absolute disaster in some areas. In a way integration is very similar to communism. Communism seems to have proven to be the best form of government for some nations whereas it is a disaster in other nations. For the southern United States integration needs to be ceased. It just has not worked and its been a bad 50 year experiment.

    83. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's not that they are ashamed of supporting what they are supporting.
      It's that they are afraid of RETALIATION, by homosexual activists, some of whom are just as nasty, violent and anti-tolerant as the oh-so-terrible "homophobes" they decry.

    84. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Red+Flayer · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Gays who have campaigned elsewhere, and run petitions for ballot items, have put up with their names being publicly available.

      If you're a raging homophobe in private, fine. If you want to sign a petition calling for a ballot on restricting the rights of people you don't like -- have the balls to accept the potential consequences.

      I'm just going to agree with you, and add one more significant item that I think some people are missing...

      Signing a petition is a public, formal, declaration of support for something. That's what a petition is. That's the entire purpose of a petition. Period.

      This is not about sunshine laws or oppression of anyone (gays or homophobes or religious fundamentalists). This whole issue arises from stupid people not understanding what it was they were signing... they signed a public statement of support.

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    85. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by skine · · Score: 1

      That's not what I meant my anonymity.

      I meant that the petition - including names, signatures and contact information - should be made fully available to only those engaged in collecting signatures, and the agency that receives the final collection.

      Any third party, including those signing the petition, should only be allowed to see the full list only at the discretion of those collecting the signatures, or if legally required to do so.

    86. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullshit. I saw some "activist" smashing taillights in walmart of cars having proposition 8 bumperstickers. He left when I threatened him; seems that he only had enough courage to stand up to empty cars, not real people. Yup, hate and threats aren't a right-wing only phenomenon.

      http://www.usatoday.com/news/religion/2008-11-13-Mormon-gay-marriage_N.htm
      http://articles.latimes.com/2008/nov/14/local/me-mormon14
      http://nl.newsbank.com/nl-search/we/Archives?p_product=SJ&s_site=mercurynews&p_multi=SJ&p_theme=realcities&p_action=search&p_maxdocs=200&p_topdoc=1&p_text_direct-0=1248E5FB15F11C78&p_field_direct-0=document_id&p_perpage=10&p_sort=YMD_date:D&s_trackval=GooglePM

      slightly suspicious due to the source http://www.dailynews-record.com/opinion_details.php?AID=33461&CHID=59

    87. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by The+Wooden+Badger · · Score: 1

      So my saying that a group, that some/most people don't like, can't propose a decent ballot proposition is absurd? Is it just my admittedly poorly chosen examples? How about this example? Greenpeace proposes a ballot measure that improves standards of produce sold at supermarkets. I see a problem with the existing standards, but I think Greenpeace are extremists. My name gets published on Sean Hannity's website as a member of Greenpeace. I don't like that. I might agree with the ballot proposal, but I don't want to be identified with the group pushing it.

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    88. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sounds pretty close to World Trade Protesters. Aren't most of them gay?

    89. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      And Sean Hannity could publish your name as a member of Greenpeace simply because you were in the same room as a group of them once. Or because you happen to believe that produce needs better standards.

      That doesn't make his claim valid or the argument that someone could do THAT with the list of names on a petition a good reason to keep them secret. If someone is committing violence or intimidation based on THAT level of investigation, regardless of the illegality of their acts themselves, then their methods are sufficiently crappy that you are exposing yourself to 'danger' just by not being one of them.

    90. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't think the consequences of skine's comments are necessarily a violent mob. There are other consequences, such as economical. What if you work for someone who is gay or maybe supports gay rights?
      The last comment he makes is exactly right. Remember in middle school when the teacher asked you to lower your head when you voted on something?

    91. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      I think if you work for a boss that is going so far as to check his employee's list against a list of people who supported a petition, regardless of the issue being looked at, and acting negatively against those who matched, then you have deeper issues you should be worrying about. Such as why are you working for someone who is clearly unwilling to accept your viewpoint as valid.

      Not to mention that if you were to have reversed the situation (public outing of those supporting gay rights) the majority of the people raising the cry right now would have absolutely no issue letting you go "because you don't represent the values of our company".

      And lets do discuss this implied "OMG, the gays will get us" homophobia that this particular instance of our hypothetical discussion invokes. How many people do you actually think are going to get caught in your hypothetical situation? Hmm?

    92. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Omestes · · Score: 1

      Nice selective reading there... what I said was:

      "I try to sign all petitions, whether or whether not I agree with them, just because I think the public as a whole should have their say, with the caveat that the issue at hand should be an issue for government, and not just some moral or religious mumbo-jumbo, or whatnot".

      This is perfectly congruous with me saying I wouldn't sign the petition in question, being that is has no bearing on the domain of government, and is largely based in religious mumbo-jumbo. I don't see the contradiction there, I sign all petitions that are valid government issues, this one isn't (or at least as far as I can perceive)

      s the same reason that Unions have secret ballots when deciding whether or not to unionize (to protect against reprisal from both the Company that doesn't want unionization, and from fellow workers that do want it), and why we have anonymous balloting in elections (to protect the voter from reprisals by those they didn't vote for).

      Your confusing petitions with ballots here. A petitions is a public display of support, where a ballot is an actual (generally anonymous) vote. One infers support, the other enacts policy. To run with the union example, while the actual union ballots are secret (justifiably so), the people organizing the vote, and supporting unionization or against it, previous to the ballot are NOT anonymous.

      Congratulations, you are either among the bravest people I've come across or too naive for your own good. Since I'm a skeptic so my default assessment is the later. But I'm also willing to leave open the opportunity that you are the former, however unlikely I find it.

      I might not be perfect, and would probably be scared shitless if someone made public they wanted to take my life for disagreeing with them for mere politics, I still would at least ATTEMPT to hold my view. And if I was was in genuine fear of the backlash from my positions I wouldn't put them out publicly, and instead wait for the actual official (secret) vote. Obviously there is a level where my support for an issue is balanced by the potential threat to my life, but this is always going to exist in a public arena.

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    93. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Jherico · · Score: 1

      the people collecting signatures are usually the ones with an agenda, and thus the ones most likely to falsify information. As such they are the least appropriate group to be trusted with putting up roadblocks to validation of that information. As its been said before, a petition signature isn't a vote. It's not anonymous and it shouldn't be.

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    94. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by SleazyRidr · · Score: 1

      Worse than that even. If one party had the 'armed and violent thug' demographic following them, voting for another party may prove rather bad for your health.

    95. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Yes, because historically we've had mobs of gay rights activists who have rioted, killed, and otherwise physically assaulted and intimidated straight folk. That's what "gay rage" means, right? ...

      So you don't think you could find any gay person angry enough to harass these people given the opportunity? Or are gay people the only kind of people who don't riot, kill, or otherwise physically assault other people?

      It's hard to see what other purpose there is behind publishing these names than to incite harassment while keeping their own hands clean. It's sort of like that guy who put up a hit list of abortion doctors. Oh, *he* wasn't going to harm them, but other people...? Who knows what might happen to these folks.

      It's strange how the tune changes depending on which group is harmed.

    96. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Jarik+C-Bol · · Score: 1

      let me rephrase,
      What i really was trying to say (poorly) what should happen when someone takes the publicly available information, puts it on the internet, and advertises "here is a list of the assholes that voted against you!" now, we know that the person that put that list up is not going to go kneecap someone, but by broadcasting it, they give it to the unwashed masses, who have been known from time to time to do some rash and unpleasant things.
      In doing so, they've done something of a dis-service to the people that signed the petition.
      what I'm saying is, I think there should be some logical restrictions of what you can do with that sort of information. yes its publicly available, but does that translate to available for anyone to disseminate to outraged members of this or that group? unfortunately, as it stands, that seems to be the case.

      personally, i think that the information should be semi-restricted. As in, you can go into the office and look at the list, but you can't make copies and take them out. a simple step like this does wonders to ensure that the only mildly enraged masses don't do anything rash.
      sure, there are a few dedicated jerks who will go see the list, memorize a few addresses, and go set a dog turd on fire on a doorstep or worse, but minor restriction of the information does a lot to prevent rash action.

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      I've decided to Diversify my Holdings. I've divided my cash between my left and right pockets, instead of all in one.
    97. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by geekoid · · Score: 1

      Most married people pay more in taxes if both spouses work. Only 1 spouse gets the tax deductions.

      --
      The Kruger Dunning explains most post on /. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect
    98. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by geekoid · · Score: 1

      A petition,by definition, is a public statement of support. PUBLIC. That's the point.

      It's is not the same as a vote, not at all.

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      The Kruger Dunning explains most post on /. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect
    99. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Referendum 71 is anti-gay marriage. Reading comprehension fool.

    100. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1

      Yeah, that's what a bunch of people have said. You're not feeling redundant?

      I say, that is wrong. Signing a petition shouldn't mean that you become a public figure, or that the media should be beating a path to your door. Or, some group of activists who disagree with your opinion.

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      "Windows is like the faint smell of piss in a subway: it's there, and there's nothing you can do about it." - Charlie Br
    101. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Libertarian001 · · Score: 1

      So you're saying that you don't think that government has a vested interest in promoting marriage? Maybe to encourage the current generation to create a new generation of tax payers? Children out of wedlock do this as well, of course, but the difference, to the government, is in the expected tax revenue generated. Just playing Devil's advocate.

    102. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by crmarvin42 · · Score: 1

      Sorry about that, I read the post while on the phone and missed that piece.

      I could probably make an argument that since the government recognizes marriages as a part of policy, it is well within the scope of government to regulate what the definition of marriage is. However, that isn't what this discussion is actually about.

      I also recognize that there are important differences between petitions and ballots. However, while petitions are supposed to be the public lending of support, people should feel safe that they will not be penalized for having lent that support. Prior to the digitization of these sorts of records it was exceedingly rare that anyone would bother to look up who exactly signed what petitions. Now we have to deal with the possibility that activists can publish the home addresses and phone numbers of those that disagree with them for harassment. It can potentially step up the hostility on already divisive issues to dangerous levels. That is what this case is primarily about, not shame.

      There is nothing that says believing something requires you to put yourself up for persecution unnecessarily. These people signed the petition expecting that their signatures would be filed away in a cabinet somewhere. Now they have to deal with their information being accessible on the internet, thus lowering the amount of energy necessary for potential reprisal. I'm not saying that they should win, but it is an important issue that should be addressed so as to prevent future confusion in the future.

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      Bureaucracy expands to meet the needs of the expanding bureaucracy.-Oscar Wilde
    103. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by George+Reilly · · Score: 1

      This is the way such ballot petitions work in Washington state. You vote to repeal an existing law or to approve it. It's not specific to Referendum 71.

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      /George V. Reilly
    104. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by LurkerXD · · Score: 1

      Oh yeah, and as a sidenote, if I remember my US history correctly, all of the above happened on a fairly regular basis before the introduction of the secret ballot. We aren't talking hypotheticals here - there are unscrupulous businesses and politicians out there, and if we can do a little to protect ourselves from them, then we should.

    105. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by riverat1 · · Score: 1

      A referendum refers the legislative bill to the general voting population. You are voting on the original bill passed by the legislature, yes or no. You are not voting on whether to repeal it.

    106. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by commodore64_love · · Score: 0, Troll

      Example: ACORN's collecting of signatures for petitions..... which were later discovered to be filled with lots of non-existent persons. If the petition had been kept secret we'd have never known about those fake names, but thanks to public disclosure we caught the organization red-handed.

      Aside -

      ACORN will be eligible for U.S. government funding again on November 1st. Apparently you ca do illegal things like advise prostitutes how to setup illegal businesses, and lie on IRS tax returns, and not have any real consequences. :-(

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      "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it." - historian Evelyn Beatrice Hall
    107. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by commodore64_love · · Score: 1

      I don't understand why a working husband and working wife would pay more? They could just file separately and therefore fall lower on the progressive tax scale, and pay the same as if they were not married.

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      "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it." - historian Evelyn Beatrice Hall
    108. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The bill already passed. So yes, you are voting whether it should be repealed.

    109. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by commodore64_love · · Score: 1

      If the U.S. government had any intelligence, it would encourage depopulation in order to be better prepared when the oil drought hits (~2020) and people start starving. It's easier to feed 100 million mouths than 400 million.

      --
      "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it." - historian Evelyn Beatrice Hall
    110. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That may be, but it's still confusing as hell.

      I voted to Approve, FWIW.

    111. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >>Yes, because historically we've had mobs of gay rights activists who have rioted, killed, and otherwise physically assaulted and intimidated straight folk. That's what "gay rage" means, right? ...

      In California, they've been going after people who were for Prop 8. No rioting or killing, but vandalism and getting people fired certainly.

      Your activists aren't as honorable as you think they are.

    112. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know you're trying to be funny, but that very thing happened in San Francisco during the Proposition 8 debacle. Gay protesters assaulted Christian protesters while the police stood by and watched.

    113. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Eskarel · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That is sort of true, however there's a difference between a vote and a petition.

      Voting is used to decide the government, petitions are used to sway the government. In a petition you're saying "I the undersigned believe in this cause enough to publicly endorse it", it's supposed to imply that if you were asked to vote on it you would do so, but that's not really the point.

      If you're not comfortable with publicly endorsing the cause of a petition then you shouldn't endorse it, since your public support is the whole point of the exercise. They're not anonymous and shouldn't be. Voting is, and should be.

      Personally, I don't see how these guys have much of a leg to stand on. If you're ashamed of being a conservative bigot then maybe you should stop being one. If you're not ashamed and truly believe in what you petitioned for, then you shouldn't need to be anonymous.

    114. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yea- I think there is some concern for the homophobes and religious fanatics who signed on. It may not be from gay people though. The concern I would have if I was homophobic would be that my employer would fire me over it- or loose a promotion- or something similar. Point is you can be unashamed and still be threatened by others. What will other people think? Sometimes the right thing is not what society accepts either. So while the right thing here is pro-gay and these people should be ashamed it is not always the case.

    115. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by riverat1 · · Score: 1

      No you are voting on whether to accept the bill or not. A NO vote means you are for repealing the bill.

    116. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You know, that would mean alota shit if it weren't for the fact that the 'moral right' has used the method of "shame him! he supported something we are against!" far longer than the 'liberal left'.

      There are groups who still sit in parking lots to take photos of the folk who visit porn shops as they leave and post them online with whatever personal details they can find for the individual in questions.

      What's good for the goose is good for the gander. And honestly, I think at this time and age, it's good for a little "think about who will see your name attached to this" to be involved when people are passing around petitions.

      Lets see how many people want to get behind the hate mongering when they don't have the illusion of anonymity lending them boldness.

      I see.... So you want to be just as judgmental, cruel, and vindictive as the jackals that you describe. In fact, you want to be an even bigger jackal because you realize how wrong the behavior is and want to do it anyway.

      And liberals call themselves tolerant.... The liberals I see on this site, and all around the internet, are as intolerant a bunch as there is. I'm always awed by the intensity of the vitriol and hatred that is so often spewed forth.

      And, yes, I'm a conservative: politically, fiscally, and socially. I even believe in God and creation. However, much to your surprise, I'd never do what you described in your post. That's reprehensible behavior, by anyone, on any side of the issues involved.

      People who do that aren't Christians. They may call themselves that, but they most certainly aren't following the example set by Christ. If you've ever read a Bible you know He actually went to parties--the Bible calls them feasts--with the "sinners". One of the biggest complaints the "political religious right" of the day had with Him was that He "eats with sinners". He didn't demonstrate, yell insults, and dispense hate toward those who didn't live moral lives. He didn't like the sin, but He loved the sinner. He accepted the person where they were when He met them, and the sinners of His day were comfortable around Him. They liked Him well enough to want Him around. The proof? He was invited to the feasts of the "publicans and sinners".

      The only sinners Christ ever put down were the self-important religionists of His day. He rebuked both their hypocrisy and their bigotry, and told them that their religion was a hollow sham as their real spiritual father was the devil, not God.

      I guess I'll always find it amazing how many people conflate a claim with reality. Anyone who claims to be a Christian, but doesn't live the same kind of love Christ displayed isn't a Christian. You can't live and breathe hatred and be a Christian, which be definition is a follower of Christ. The two types of behavior are at opposite ends of the spectrum. They are mutually exclusive.

    117. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by blackest_k · · Score: 1

      Retaliation is a threat that many people have faced and some have paid for with their lives. If you feel strongly enough then stand up and be counted.

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tiananmen_Square_protests_of_1989 have a read of that page and consider the bravery of the people who stood up for what they believed in, there are plenty of examples around the world where people have stood up to be counted in spite of the cost to themselves.

      I'm sure there are a good proportion of people who signed that petition who are willing to stand up and be counted and nothing anyone can say will change their mind.

      I don't agree with their aims, but they can stand up for their views and the rest of us can choose privately to support them or not.

      For me I believe in love and it doesn't discriminate and I am happy for same sex couples to have the same rights as mixed couples. I don't care some homophobic idiot might get upset at me because of it. And no I'm not gay I'm straight.

      What does wind me up are the homophobes and bigots who want to spread poison and not be identified.

    118. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Correct, rejecting the referendum repeals the bill. But you are still voting to repeal or not repeal a bill that has already been voted into law.

      However, the referendum is worded such that it seems like a vote to approve creates new benefits. It doesn't. A vote to approve maintains the status quo.

    119. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      I know that slashdot really absorbed Orwell's lesson vis-a-vis thoughtcrime, and I also know that this is veering dangerously off topic, but hate crime legislation doesn't punish you for thinking bad things. It doesn't even punish you for thinking bad things while you commit a crime.

      It is possible to commit a crime to "send a message." In such a case, there is more than one victim. First there's the person who was directly attacked, and then and there is the community the message was intended for. It therefore follows that violence meant to intimidate and supress an entire community should be more severely punished than simple assult directed at a single individual. That said, not every crime against a minority group is a hate crime, not even every racially motivated assault is a hate crime. District attorneys may be overzealous in applying the hate crime label, but ultimately it's up to a jury of your peers to decide if the charge is appropriate.

      Hate crime legislation doesn't limit your ability to think, it limits your ability to communicate your thoughts through action. In that sense it's more akin to a limitation of your first amendment rights similar to prohibitions on making threats.

    120. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      Take a look at Brandenburg v. Ohio. It's a really important and interesting decision that lays out when the right to free speech ends and becomes illegal threat making.

      Basically, the speaker has to have reason to believe that their speech will result in "imminent lawless action" for it to not be protected.

    121. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      Signing a petition makes you an activist - activists have power through what they do in public - which makes them public figures. If you're not comfortable being an activist, wait for the activists to gather enough public support so you can vote on it anonymously.

    122. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

      Dave Chapelle had it right, this country seems to think that the way you vote is the most private information. That shouldn't be the case, if you're voting in a public election then your vote should also be public. In fact, you should be proud to stand up and say you voted for any one thing. If you're not proud to say that, then why did you vote?

      That's all fine, and then I can check out the records and kill you and your whole nigger-loving family, and there will be fewer people to vote against the next anti-nigger reform to stop those cretins from voting and put them back on the plantations where they belong.

    123. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

      I don't know. I had an interesting dream about this though. I somehow got a girl pregnant and she had a small child; and also, another girl was pregnant with another child of mine.

      Before I woke up, I managed to (successfully) make the legal argument that there's a no-derivatives license on my DNA, and that all derivative works must be destroyed immediately. This resulted in the utter destruction (by fire) of both the child and the pregnant woman (including the thing she had inside her).

      I will never donate sperm, either.

    124. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      "If Joe can make a few bucks voting for Mr. A instead of Mrs. B, when he couldn't care less about the outcome of the election, why wouldn't he?"

      This is my problem with parties that pin their election hopes on expanding social programs. A voter that will benefit from those programs sees dollars in their pocket and votes accordingly.

      Apparently bribing a voter is ok, but only if you are using that vote to increase the scope and power of the government.

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      When the only tool you have is a claw hammer every problem starts to look like the back of someone's skull.
    125. Re:The Law of Unintended Consequences by WNight · · Score: 1

      An unjust law isn't grounds for burning the instigator and beneficiary's houses/etc down? Seems fishy - like a law made by the people who support the original unjust law.

      How about starting one level sooner?

      The fact that you like or dislike something harmless does not give you a right to pass a law that forces other people to act as you find appropriate. Such a law, once passed, is obviously unreasonable because it was made for the purpose of controlling a harmless activity. Unreasonable laws should be fought, at any level, as much as a tyrant king's unreasonable rules should be fought.

      If people, like you, wouldn't insist on the sanctity of the law like some crazy religious thing, this would be obvious. Let me try to reword the issue without your religious trigger words.

      "If I'm doing something the limit of your rights to tell me not to coincide exactly with how much you are being harmed."

      Something harmless, by definition, is something you can't be harmed by. If you insisted on regulating this, how would you not be a tyrant?

      We'd have legal gay marriage (and interspecies marriage to for all it hurts anyone else) if we'd just remove the broken elements of society - those who feel they've got a right to control others.

      Have your opinion, you're welcome to it. But when you vote to commit society's resources to something you're doing more than expressing an opinion...

  2. Political correctness assaulting opposers by piotru · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Since you asked.

    1. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Forge · · Score: 0, Troll

      Gay rights activists go too far. It's one thing to demand a right to do what seams right to you, its another thing to lash out against those who express any kind of disapproval. For some time now, the gay lobby has been trampling on everyone else's first amendment rights. Even going so far as to take on pastors for reading those parts of the bible which explicitly forbid homosexuality and filling legal action against parents who remove their children from the class of a gay teacher.

      This is just another step down that path.

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    2. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Maxmin · · Score: 4, Funny

      Hey, have you ever worked on Sunday? Why hasn't your church stoned you?

      Working on Sunday is explicitly forbidden by the Bible, and the penalty is that your community must stone you to death.

      --
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    3. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by AndersOSU · · Score: 2, Informative

      actually, that's Saturday - and Jesus said it was ok to work - and I don't think the punishment is death.

      Odd though how the sabbath can move, adulterers don't have to be stoned to death anymore, and I can have a ham and havarti sandwich, but the gay is still verboten...

    4. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      Hey, have you ever worked on Sunday? Why hasn't your church stoned you?

      I sure have, and there's no reason I should get in trouble for doing so. The Saturdays that I've worked, on the other hand...

    5. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by buddyglass · · Score: 1, Troll

      Food laws were explicitly repealed in the new testament. The prohibition on homosexuality, however, was reiterated in the new testament.

      The system of punishments which includes stoning for not honoring the sabbath was specifically given to Israel. While there are a few who do, the vast, vast majority of Christians do not consider this system of punishments to be a universal template for all human government. Or that it was ever intended to be used as such.

    6. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That one's up for debate. The bible talks about the seventh day, and you'll notice Jewish people observe Saturday and not Sunday. Since the sabbath has the same root in both religions, makes you wonder why Catholics/Christians observe Sunday?

      Better take Saturday AND Sunday off just to be safe.

      Oh, and let's not even get into whether or not any of us have told a "little white lie" in our lives... "lying" is commandment-level sinning, which is even worse!

    7. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by schon · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Food laws were explicitly repealed in the new testament.

      [citation needed]

      But even if you're right, I thought that the Bible was the inerrant word of God? Delivered directly to publishers via his Holy Fax Machine (or whatever device He uses.)

      If God is perfect, and God wrote the Old Testament, then the Old Testament must therefore still be in effect, right?

      Or was God wrong when He wrote the Old Testament?

    8. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 1
      Fundies do.

      (I almost made a typo: I initially forgot the "n" in "fundies"...)

    9. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by SilverHatHacker · · Score: 1
      HNV: Matthew Chapter 15

      16. So Yeshua said, “Do you also still not understand?
      17. Don’t you understand that whatever goes into the mouth passes into the belly, and then out of the body?
      18. But the things which proceed out of the mouth come out of the heart, and they defile the man.
      19. For out of the heart come forth evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, sexual sins, thefts, false testimony, and blasphemies.

      For the relationship between the Old and New Testaments, read the book of Romans. In a nutshell, the New Testament 'law' is the same concepts expressed in a different way. The Old Testament Law would have been enough if people had been capable of obeying it. But as everyone knows, people never do as they are told. Therefore, the New Testament came as an alternate route, based on love and grace rather than on works. But Paul explains it better in Romans than I do here, IMO.

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    10. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Even going so far as to take on pastors for reading those parts of the bible which explicitly forbid homosexuality and filling legal action against parents who remove their children from the class of a gay teacher.

      Your next post WILL be one of the following:

      1. Concrete proof that those exact events happened precisely as you described them, with corresponding proof that the actors in those events are accurately representative of "gay rights activists" in general
      2. An unconditional and irretractable confession that you are a liar.

      Those are your ONLY possible choices.

    11. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by WilliamBaughman · · Score: 1

      Religious tendencies change over time. I'm not on expert on genealogy, but apparently some of my ancestors left the catholic church after being stoned by their neighbors. They were originally married in a church, but it was later discovered that the building where they were married failed to be a church on some technical ground. It wasn't tall enough, IIRC. When their neighbors discovered that the church they were married had retroactively been downgraded to a regular building, meaning that my ancestors had retroactively been living in sin, they stoned them. Those ancestors escaped with their lives and switched to protestantism.

      Also, I believe the Bible allows work on Sunday if it's of necessity, piety, or charity.

    12. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Black rights activists go too far. It's one thing to demand a right to do what seams [sic] right to you, its [sic] another thing to lash out against those who express any kind of disapproval. For some time now, the black lobby has been trampling on everyone else's first amendment rights. Even going so far as to take on pastors for reading those parts of the bible which talk about Ham's Curse and filling legal action against parents who remove their children from the class of a black teacher.

      This is just another step down that path.

    13. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by jbeaupre · · Score: 3, Informative

      Here's a confusing, but detailed explanation of why Christians can eat pork http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/574145/should_christians_eat_pork.html?cat=34

      I'm not endorsing the author or the views, but it is an interesting read that I found quickly. New law vs Old law confuses a lot of folks. It's not highlighted well in the article, but the main difference is that Old was in place because it was right at the time and only applies to Jews. It was superseded by New law. Kind of like turning 18 and being covered by adult laws. Not combined, as some people try. i.e. The 10 commandments aren't a part of new law. Heck, technically you'd have to be Jewish and Christian to even consider applying old and new simultaneously. Christians still refer to Old testament because, hey, it's still got plenty of interesting theological stuff.

      But, again, people get confused and try to mix the two and end up acting like jerks.

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      The world is made by those who show up for the job.
    14. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not true. SATURDAY is the Jewish sabbath (technically Friday sundown through Saturday night when 3 specific stars appear in the sky). When Christ came the old law was abolished. Christians are not obligated to stone anyone. Please don't post ignorant anti-Christian comments here. +5 Informative my ass.

    15. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey, have you ever worked on Sunday? Why hasn't your church stoned you?

      Working on Sunday is explicitly forbidden by the Bible, and the penalty is that your community must stone you to death.

      This is incorrect. The law for observing the Sabbath does not require stoning or death as punishment for disobedience. The punishment of stoning was merely man's additional interpretation. Look it up! (http://www.biblegateway.com/keyword/?search=sabbath&version1=31&searchtype=all)

    16. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by sbjornda · · Score: 1

      The prohibition on homosexuality, however, was reiterated in the new testament.

      [Citation needed]. (And remember, for something to be a prohibition, it needs to include a verb in the imperative, e.g., "thou shalt not".)

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    17. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey, have you ever worked on Sunday? Why hasn't your church stoned you?

      ...Because this isn't Afghanistan...

    18. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ummm... I think you mean Saturday.

    19. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Elky+Elk · · Score: 1

      Hang on a minute, some other guys said I shouldn't work on Saturday.

      I'm just gonna keep the whole weekend sacred, just to be safe.

    20. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by smmccarty · · Score: 1

      God wrote the 10 commandments and revealed doctrine, He didn't write the Bible. Men did, and to be more explicit, prophets and apostles did. They wrote down the things they learned from God. What's more, the *device* he uses is much more advanced than a fax machine, a satellite, or any other man-made technology. ;)

    21. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Forge · · Score: 1

      It's Saturday, and just last night there was an Adventist Pastor preaching against the evils of Sabbath work.

      They do not open any business they own on Saturday. They also do not seek to compel the rest of us to close shop on Saturday. They simply preach what they think is right.

      Biblical punishments went out with theocracy. That doesn't mean any religious person should be compelled to accept what his faith considers a sin.

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      --= Isn't it surprising how badly I spell ?
    22. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by EaglemanBSA · · Score: 1

      You're missing the whole story. There's the issue of the 'Old Covenant' vs. the 'New Covenant', and how Christ fulfilled the law (this being God's plan all along: see Old Testament discussions of the Messiah). The idea is that there are repercussions for breaking God's laws, and Christ ended up paying the price for us through His sacrifice.

      Perhaps a better understanding of what exactly the Old Testament represents to Christians would provide a better understanding of these conundrums? And perhaps the logic of a being that exists outside even time wouldn't necessarily have the same basis as our reasoning?

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      Quiz: True or False -- On a scale of 1 to 10, what is your middle name?
    23. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by pbhj · · Score: 1

      Informative? You see in Christianity there's this thing called the New Covenant, the clue is right there in the name Christianity - followers or imitators of Christ as opposed to followers of the Judaic law.

      Also the Sabbath is Saturday if you're going to be Mosaic about it.

      Jesus went out of his way to do things that the legalistic religious authorities (pharisees) would consider "work" to show that whilst we should keep a day of remembrance to God we should not be stupid about it. Mark 3; Luke 13, 14; John 7.

      In Christianity it is not by pharisaical obedience to the law that one is reconciled with God but through grace in Jesus and by the Holy Spirit.

      There are no specific New Testament statements requiring the sabbath in order to be a Christian. Then are those who take part in idolatry, say, or adultery or homosexual activities free from the precepts of the Old Testament? Well yes, and you might consider they were no longer bound up in those activities if it weren't that these are things that are explicitly stated as keeping one separated from God and things that one should repent over (1 Cor 6, 10; Col 3; etc.).

    24. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Unless you're of the opinion that the Sabbath is Saturday, outlined in the FIRST CHAPTER OF GENESIS, in which it is forbidden to work on SATURDAY (you're not permitted to even light a fire, or walk more than 30 paces from your home, if you go by strict Judaic principle.)

    25. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by adwarf · · Score: 1

      The message he delivered was what needed to be delivered for that period of time. The people needed the Old Testament to survive (hence the sterner God, and tons of rules which were meant for them to protect themselves from disease, etc). Those were no longer applicable later so he repealed them or something.

    26. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Lord+Kano · · Score: 1

      It's offensive to compare the struggle of black people to that of homosexuals.

      LK

      --
      "Hi. This is my friend, Jack Shit, and you don't know him." - Lord Kano
    27. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      *sigh* - only for orthodox Jews, and, technically it is Saturday that you are referencing. The CHURCH, i.e. - the universal organization created as per the New Testament and Jesus Christ is not bound to the Old Testament law.

      Also, even Christ was accused of working and 'harvesting' (they picked some grain from the field to eat - as per other OT laws) on the Sabbath by the religious leaders of the day and he rebuked them for their religiosity but lack of love for God.

    28. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think you mean Saturday... you know the Sabbath. It looks like there's a lot more stoning to do than you thought :)

    29. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, it is not.
      Please check your Bible.
      On another note, legislation of gay rights will not affect my personal feelings on the matter, but it will affect what is taught to my children.

    30. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I guess you missed all of the stuff Jesus did on the Sabbath...he made it quite an issue.

    31. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Lord+Kano · · Score: 1

      I'm not even a Christian and I know this one.
      1 Corinthians 6:9-10
      Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.

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    32. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Maxmin · · Score: 1

      actually, that's Saturday ... Odd though how the sabbath can move

      s/Sunday/Sabbath/;

      I don't think the punishment is death.

      Exodus 31:15: For six days, work is to be done, but the seventh day is a Sabbath of rest, holy to the LORD. Whoever does any work on the Sabbath day must be put to death.

      There are other, similar references in the Old Testament.

      ... and Jesus said it was ok to work ...

      It's unlikely that Jesus has enough hit-points to cancel spells issued by the Old Testament deity, because he wasn't deified until well after his death.

      As for Jesus being "raised from the dead," I'm rather surprised that people don't immediately see him for what he really is: a zombie.

      ...I can have a ham and havarti sandwich

      I prefer bacon with halva. It's a helluva halva!

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    33. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by buddyglass · · Score: 1

      Actually most fundamentalists probably do not, depending on how you define "fundamentalist". Pick some of the more culturally foreign laws and you'll find that most self-identified fundamentalists would not support their return. The belief that the system of laws and punishments given to Israel was a universal template for human government was mostly popularized by Rushdoony in the 70s. Fundamentalism predates Rushdoony. The small group of folks who agree with him seem to mostly come from the Reformed camp.

    34. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well technically, bearing false witness against someone else is the commandment-level sinning. So that would limit the proscription to lying about someone else and would leave open lying about yourself or an inanimate object in a way that doesn't involve anyone else.

    35. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's one of the key difference between the Quran and the bible. The Koran is written in the first person, the Bible is not. The Bible has never been considered the unaltered word of god.

    36. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by buddyglass · · Score: 1

      Kano points out the verse from 1 Corinthians, but there's also 1 Timothy 1:10. The word translated "homosexual" is arsenokoites. This word is derived from arsen, meaning "man", and koite which is the root for the Latin "coitus". There's also Romans 1:26-27. Now clearly there's some disagreement on what these verses actually mean, but it seems clear to me, at least, that Paul agreed with the Mosaic view that homosexuality was abhorrent to God.

    37. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by VisceralLogic · · Score: 1

      If God is perfect, and God wrote the Old Testament, then the Old Testament must therefore still be in effect, right?

      Or was God wrong when He wrote the Old Testament?

      Nope, he just changed the rules.

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    38. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is some debate regarding this. It forbids working on the Sabbath, which Christians recognize as Sunday, and Jews (remember there are no Christians in the old testament) recognize it as sundown Friday until sundown Saturday. Some even state that Jesus ended the Sabbath (Mark 2:27,28), though this is a Christian belief (of the New Testament).

      One article I read even equated that to the Devil seducing God's true followers into holding the wrong day as the Sabbath, and damming them to hell in the process. Something to think about over your evening prayer, isn't it?

    39. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Working on Sunday is explicitly forbidden by the Bible

      Well no, it's forbidden by the Law of Moses, which was replaced with a higher law when Christ showed up. (It was basically a "letter of the law" vs "spirit of the law" sort of deal.)

      Once you understand that, a rather large swath of complaints about the Bible disappear ;)

    40. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      If God is perfect, and God wrote the Old Testament, then the Old Testament must therefore still be in effect, right?

      Or was God wrong when He wrote the Old Testament?

      Imagine I tell my young children to stay out of my toolbox. Then they get several years older, and I tell them "you can use my toolbox responsibly". By your logic, I've contradicted myself; in reality, I've merely changed the rules because the circumstances have changed. Parents do it all the time - why is it perfectly logical for parents to do it, but it's somehow completely illogical for God to do it?

      God often gives commandments specific to a time or place. The Bible - both the Old and New Testaments - should be taken in that light.

    41. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How is this troll?

      So we can no longer talk candidly about theology? Or only if it doesn't involve one ounce of faith that there is a god or that perhaps he penned a book?

      To each his or her own. To disagree is not the same as to condemn.

    42. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Saturday the sabath is on Saturday.

    43. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Both incest and bestiality are covered in that particular chapter too (Leviticus 18). I suppose you would like those to be legal too? The last of it doesn't say you should be against it per se, but it does say that you should be "cut off from your people." Maybe that means setting up gay communities to avoid oppression?

    44. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      Yeah that's true.

      The general idea of the New Testement that Jesus set up a new more perfect covenant with humanity based mostly on the golden rule. Paul seemingly didn't quite learn the lesson with the lepers and the prostitutes and the tax collectors and the adulterers and the Samaritans and the whole do not pass judgment theme that runs pretty thick in the Gospels.

      We still include his occasionally misogynistic and homophobic works because he, more than any other person including Jesus, was responsible for Christianity becoming a religion.

    45. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by skeeto · · Score: 1

      Then why do christians quote the old testament (Leviticus, specifically) when they are saying homosexuality is wrong? It's just cherry picking the parts they think sound good. I.e. bullshit.

    46. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jesus changed the rules. You would have to follow the old testament to go to God, or you can follow the new testament to go to God Through Jesus (and / or Mary, if you are a Catholic). Its repeated plenty in this thread and throughout the new testament.

    47. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by schon · · Score: 1

      Jesus changed the rules

      Why? If God is perfect, then everything He writes must therefore also be perfect. If they're perfect, why do they need to be changed?

      If there were supposed to be two sets of rules, shouldn't they both have been there since the beginning?

    48. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by schon · · Score: 0, Troll

      Imagine I tell my young children to stay out of my toolbox. Then they get several years older, and I tell them "you can use my toolbox responsibly". By your logic, I've contradicted myself; in reality, I've merely changed the rules because the circumstances have changed.

      So you're saying that the Old Testament only applies to children, and the New Testament applies to adults?

      Or are you saying that prior to 2000 years ago, the world was entirely populated by toddlers? If that was true, how exactly did they procreate if they hadn't hit puberty?

      Parents do it all the time - why is it perfectly logical for parents to do it, but it's somehow completely illogical for God to do it?

      Please show the part of the Old Testament that states "the rules will change once you're old enough". Please show how your absurd analogy is in any way true.

    49. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But, that's an interpretation - doctrine, no? I always thought of doctrine as something that Man imposed on the Bible, without explicit authorization to essentially change the Word of God.

    50. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah man, anyone who believes in any religion in any way must personally agree with everything that any religious book endorsed by that religion states.

      I'm assuming you think anyone who is a member of Islam is a terrorist too, right?

    51. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by compro01 · · Score: 1

      Romans 1:26-27 would be what is referred to. It is not a direct prohibition, but rather a "don't do this or god will turn his back on you and thus condemn you to hell".

      But you can (and some churches (UCC, for example) do) drive trucks through the loophole in that with the wordings "unnatural" and "against nature" (depending on which translation you're using).

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    52. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by ProfessionalCookie · · Score: 1

      It's Saturday, not Sunday, bro :D

    53. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Wow. You're not even trying to understand, are you?

      The New Testament is pretty explicitly clear about the idea that Christ came to fulfill the Law of Moses and replace it with a higher law - e.g. it replaces "an eye for an eye" with "do unto others as you would have others do to you".

      Spiritually speaking, yes, the Israelites were children in Old Testament times. When that changed, Christ showed up to teach them a better way of doing things.

    54. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      "Doctrine" is merely the teachings contained in the Bible. "Interpretation" is another beast entirely.

      One must read scripture in the context in which it was given; the vast majority of misunderstandings come from failure to do so.

      After so much time, it is occasionally difficult to know what the actual doctrine is suppose to be. Fortunately, the Bible itself clearly gives us two methods to know for sure:

      - James 1:5 tells us if we lack wisdom, we should ask God, who gives to all men liberally (i.e. he will answer freely)

      - We are told to beware of false prophets. Logically, that means we should seek out true prophets (otherwise we would have been told to beware of all prophets). Based on Amos 3:7 we can assume prophets know what's what, once we've found them ;) And of course, we know true prophets from false ones by the fruits of their labors.

      Anyway this is all woefully off topic...

    55. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Glenn Beck, is that you?

    56. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Bobb+Sledd · · Score: 1

      FAIL. Not if you're Christian. That's Old Law. This is New Covenant.

      I doubt you care.

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    57. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, much as Adventists aren't forced to open their shops on Saturday, nobody is attempting to force them (or anyone) into homosexual marriage themselves.

      Those same Adventists may rail against other (presumably non-Adventist) shop owners who do open their shops on Saturday, and that is their right, and I'd defend it despite the fact that I consider such views silly. However, if said Adventists should aspire to alter the laws so that nobody can open a shop on Saturday, then I have a serious problem with them. And it doesn't make a whit of difference if shops have always been able to open on Saturday and they want to stop the practice, or if shops have never been allowed to open on Saturday and they want to continue a pointless restriction.

      I'd still support their right to rail against same-sex marriage, because that is their right. I wouldn't expect them to accept it, but they certainly have no reasonable grounds to prevent it, especially by force of law.

      - T

    58. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Gay rights activists go too far.

      Yeah and the anti-gays don't go too far? They are sensible, even handed and fair? Restrained even? Ever heard of "gay bashing"?

    59. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Working on the Sabbath is explicitly forbidden by the Old Testament - which is why many observant Jews in Israel and around the world don't work or exert themselves on the Sabbath (which was Saturday in the Bible, by the way).

      As for Christians, Jesus pointed out several times that it's allowed to perform good on the Sabbath - the Sabbath is for humans, not the other way around.

    60. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey, have you ever worked on Sunday? Why hasn't your church stoned you?

      Working on Sunday is explicitly forbidden by the Bible, and the penalty is that your community must stone you to death.

      LOL. I'm pretty sure you're thinking of the old testament Sabbath, which is Saturday, and also not in effect since Christ was crucified. Still...pretty damn funny.

    61. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The Old Testament Law would have been enough if people had been capable of obeying it. But as everyone knows, people never do as they are told.

      Say a programmer writes a program. Now, this programmer doesn't want his hard drive formatted, but he writes his program in such a way that it can randomly format his hard drive. He runs this program constantly, and lo and behold, one day it formats his hard drive. He gets pissed off and throws his computer out the window. Is that rational? Is it graceful? Is it sane? Most people would consider it none of those things.

      So, God creates a garden with a big mystery tree in the middle. He doesn't want anyone to eat its fruit. Then, he creates man and woman, giving them curiosity, gullibility, and a taste for fruit. He turns them loose in the garden, and lo and behold, eventually their curiosity and gullibility lead them to eat the fruit of the mystery tree at the focal point of the garden. God gets massively bent out of shape about it. He severely punishes them for behaving in exactly the way he programmed them to behave after giving them the resources to do exactly what he didn't want them to do. Is that rational? Is it "graceful" or sane?

      There are all kinds of such stories in the old testament. God doesn't want something to happen, so he sets things up in such a way that their happening is inevitable, and then he gets angry about it and dishes out harsh punishments.

      This God character sounds quite a bit like those insane parents we read about in the news sometimes--the ones who do things like starve one of their kids, and then wait for the kid to "steal" food from the refrigerator, and then use that as an excuse to lock her up in the clothes dryer for three months.

    62. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by SilverHatHacker · · Score: 1

      Say a programmer writes an artificial intelligence program. He writes it so well, it's just like in all the movies - self-aware and such. Is it the programmer's fault if it decides to play Global Thermonuclear Warfare with Russia? Once the program runs, he can't interfere with any decisions it makes without jeopardising the "artificial-ness of the intelligence". He can, however, let it run its course, effectively wait for the in-game world to be destroyed, then redefine the laws that govern its decision-making and re-activate it.

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    63. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know you might be slightly joking but I hear this argument a lot from those who don't understand the Bible and who Jesus really is; hopefully I can help.

      Basically, it comes down to this: Old Testament = show that everybody is a sinner and point to Jesus, New Testament = show how to be forgiven of sins through Jesus.

      So while it does say that if you work on Sunday, you will be put to death (From Exodus 31:14), it also says that Jesus is the Lord of the Sabbath (Mark 2:28) and that as Matthew Henry says "...Man was not made for the sabbath, as if his keeping it could be of service to God, nor was he commanded to keep it outward observances to his real hurt. Every observance respecting it, is to be interpreted by the rule of mercy..."

      Jesus is the fulfillment of the law (Matthew 5:17) therefor we who are born again through Jesus are not subject to it.

    64. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Maxmin · · Score: 1

      Maybe internment camps for gays?

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    65. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Maxmin · · Score: 1

      The punishment of stoning was merely man's additional interpretation.

      Thereby the reason to disbelieve anything in or about the bible: written by men, interpreted by men ... for all you or I know, it's entirely fabrication.

      Oh, I know, you get a *feeling* about it, which tells you its true. God's whispering in your ear, ain't she?

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      O lord, bless this thy holy hand grenade, that with it thou mayest blow thine enemies to tiny bits, in thy mercy.
    66. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Maxmin · · Score: 1

      New Covenant aka Covenant of Peace, iirc.

      Perhaps then you can explain why some Christians prefer to rely on the Old Testament fire-and-brimstone God, and some prefer the New Testament peace-lovin' Jesus? And some both, as convenient, it seems to me.

      How much play is there to interpret the Bible? Is it all interpreted, some, or none?

      It is the varying interpretations, from the many denominations of Christianity that my family attended when I was a child, that for me totally blew out the notion that the Bible's God could have any bearing at all on reality.

      Some said the bible is the literal word of God, that the apostles simply transcribed what was "spoken" to them, while others said it was the interpreted experiences and observations of spiritual men. Which to believe?

      That the creator of this vast universe, if it has such, with its billions of galaxies of billions of stars, would have any interest in the picayune daily activities of the creatures on this particular planet, to the point of logging them for a *later* tribunal determining afterlife entry to eternal paradise or torture ... and oh, that this creature would also happen to look just like us ... still seems absurd, egocentric and infantile.

      Believe it or not, I'm not bating you - just sharing my thoughts. My beliefs today fall along the same lines of Spinoza. I think our universe is so vast that we really are incapable of understanding the totality of it. If there is a deity responsible for it all, I'd like to think it waits for species to ripen and make contact in a meaningful way... kind of like in Sagan's Contact.

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    67. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Forge · · Score: 1

      Like I said in another post on this topic. Where homosexuality is legally protected, pastors have been hauled to court over their refusal to marry gay couples.

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    68. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Forge · · Score: 1
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    69. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You guess again. And this time, do it without lying about what the linked article says.

    70. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The Sabbath falls on a Saturday, heathen.

    71. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Maxmin · · Score: 1

      I hear you, and am quite familiar with those doctrinal concepts, having been an unwilling childhood participant in various christian sects.

      I never could reconcile the widely ranging interpretations of the bible by the various pastors I listened to. Not even the covenant would explain some of what appeared to be big contradictions.

      Some pastors focused on the old testament and its rather hard-line commands and rules, some went easy-peasy with the new testament and its mercies - the fact that it is all open to broad and multiple interpretations, and that there's apparently no reconciliation of these views across sects, and that those ancient texts present a rather constrained worldview esp. of the universe we live in, caused me to start reading philosophy, Spinoza in particular.

      Peace.

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    72. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Gay rights activists go too far. It's one thing to demand a right to do what seams right to you, its another thing to lash out against those who express any kind of disapproval. For some time now, the gay lobby has been trampling on everyone else's first amendment rights. Even going so far as to take on pastors for reading those parts of the bible which explicitly forbid homosexuality and filling legal action against parents who remove their children from the class of a gay teacher.

      This is just another step down that path.

      Black rights activists go too far. It's one thing to demand a right to do what seams right to you, its another thing to lash out against those who express any kind of disapproval. For some time now, the black lobby has been trampling on everyone else's first amendment rights. Even going so far as to take on pastors for reading those parts of the bible which explicitly forbid miscegeny and filling legal action against parents who remove their children from the class of a black teacher.

      This is just another step down that path.

    73. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Maxmin · · Score: 1

      Got any examples, like some links to newstories perhaps? A lawsuit of that kind must have made the news.

      Was this in a state where gay marriage is legal?

      A quick search for pastors or churches who refused to marry gay couples doesn't show much of anything. Please correct that.

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    74. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you do ofcourse mean saturday don't you? or was it friday?

    75. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I've been stoned on Sunday...

    76. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey, have you ever worked on Sunday? Why hasn't your church stoned you?

      Working on Sunday is explicitly forbidden by the Bible, and the penalty is that your community must stone you to death.

      You might try reading the New Testament part of the bible. Whatever you do, don't start to have any faith in it though. It makes the stone throwing (literal or virtual) just that much harder. Posting as A.C. because I'm too lazy to log in.

    77. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Forge · · Score: 1
      Everyone on Slashdot can read and the link dose in deed point to several instances of churches and their members being hauled to court, sometimes successfully for refusal to participate in gay weddings.

      There have been fines, cash awards and even the revocation of none profit status.

      So before you come back to this discussion go and do some research. The cases cited are not the only ones.

      The one that shook me the worst was the photographer who responded to a request to shoot a gay wedding that it doesn't fit with his beliefs and so he won't do it.

      From near the bottom of the same article.

      Wedding services: A same sex couple in Albuquerque asked a photographer, Elaine Huguenin, to shoot their commitment ceremony. The photographer declined, saying her Christian beliefs prevented her from sanctioning same-sex unions. The couple sued, and the New Mexico Human Rights Commission found the photographer guilty of discrimination. It ordered her to pay the lesbian couple's legal fees ($6,600). The photographer is appealing.

      I remember running a photography business over a decade ago. I flatly refused to film certain things. Top of my list was funerals. Apparently, I couldn't do that in NM. Not now. Go figure.

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    78. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by RobinEggs · · Score: 1

      You people mod this a troll!? Seriously? Talk about lashing out.....

    79. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You continue to lie.

      This is what you said that you were called out on:

      Even going so far as to take on pastors for reading those parts of the bible which explicitly forbid homosexuality and filling legal action against parents who remove their children from the class of a gay teacher.

      You claimed that people have been sued for those specific actions. You made that claim even though you knew you had never, ever seen or heard of any such event happening. When I informed you of what your choices were, you cited the wedding story as "proof". You did this in full knowledge that none of the incidents described even remotely resemble the ones you invented out of thin air for the quoted section. You were trying to cover your first lie with a second one, and you did it badly.

      You were informed of your choices. You chose to shriek at the top of your lungs that you lied. And you'll never be able to take that confession back or prove it wrong in any way at all.

      Now you're going to lie again by pretending that you're not screaming with impotent rage at having been forced to face the undeniable fact that you're a liar. That lie will not even fool yourself, let alone anyone else.

    80. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Didn't think so.

    81. Re:Political correctness assaulting opposers by Bobb+Sledd · · Score: 1

      Wait. You've jumped tracks.

      Which Christians use the Old Testament LAW? Jews might? But typically "Christian" means that you recognize Jesus as the Son of God and that you believe he came to save us from the law and its consequences. I'm not sure which (if any) Christians use Old Testament law.

      And then you've gone on to question whether the Bible is interpreted or literal or what?

      Far from that, you've now jumped tracks again with a point of whether God even really exists, and if he does at what level is he involved in our lives?

      That's all fine, and very fair questions to ask. I've had them ALL myself, and still wrestle with them from time to time.

      Here are the bottom line facts that maybe you've never heard from a Christian before.

      1. We don't know all the answers, and the Bible doesn't provide all the answers. Very often the Bible is vague and uses symbology. Anyone who says he has the answers to all of life's questions, even using the Bible, is just plain wrong.

      2. Even in my own house, we have debated the interpretations of what the Bible means on certain things. A really big one is on whether the topic of Communion is literal or symbolic. I believe it is symbolic. My wife believes it is literal. But you know what? It doesn't matter. If there is any peace to be had in my home, you have your belief and I have mine; and that's the way it is.

      3. God has never spoken out loud to me. He's never even spoken to me through a voice in my head. I've never experienced anything that YOU would call a miracle that couldn't be explained by statistical probability or chance. But I have experienced a miracle that was very real and personally tailored to me. It wasn't something anyone else did or was involved in, and I choose to believe that it was God speaking to me in his own way.

      4. I believe that any being on a higher plane than man with sufficient enough technology, adequately fits the definition of "God" -- whether it turns out to be space aliens or the Flying Spaghetti Monster.

      5. Not all Christians believe in the literal "Creation". I personally believe it to be a symbolic representation.

      There is nothing I can ever say to you that will make you agree with my personal beliefs. So, if you TRULY, and HONESTLY, REALLY believe that there is no God of the bible, then I challenge you to do this one test:

      Go somewhere tonight and find a perfectly secluded, quiet place, in the dark. Call out to God. Call to him and say, "OK, God of heaven and earth, here I am! You have my ear! What is it that you want me to hear? What will tell me?"

      Give him two hours to respond to you in a real, definite way that would be enough for you. Really keep an open mind.

      If he doesn't respond, then nothing changes. Life simply goes on and you can feel that much more certain there really never was any God.

      But what if he does respond?

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  3. So? by sanosuke001 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Did anyone really expect their participation to be secret? It's a public vote; they should be tracked for verification. Anyone who signed should have understood that as well-informed adults. Anyone who didn't has no excuse for being upset over this. If they didn't want people to know they support gay rights they shouldn't have signed it.

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    1. Re:So? by sanosuke001 · · Score: 1

      Sorry, should have stated "don't support gay rights" as this is a bill started by anti-gay rights groups.

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    2. Re:So? by characterZer0 · · Score: 1

      It is going to get interesting when people whose names are on the list claim not to have signed it.

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    3. Re:So? by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      I don't think the names should be released, although I do support gay marrage. The reason is the same as the reasoning behind secret ballots when voting for candidate; you're denying people the right to persue referenedums because what whatever notion is popular of the day (or, the person in power has police to "monitor" those that oppose them).

      It really doesn't matter who signed it; there were enough signatures to put the measure up and that's all that matters. The gay rights group are hoping to use intimidation and shame to get their way, and that does not sit well with me.

    4. Re:So? by ls671 · · Score: 0, Troll

      Please sign the petition here...

      And please also fill up this form with your name in capital letters, your social security number, your date of birth and your bank account number for our records so we can demonstrate the number of people having signed our petition is real.

      Thanks for supporting our cause.

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    5. Re:So? by sanosuke001 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      However, for a public office vote, they have ways to verify people's identity (for the most part). With a petition, they have nothing. Their names have to be public record in case some group or organization wants to verify people actually signed it instead of someone making up a list of names. Unintended consequences, maybe; it doesn't negate the need for public access.

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      -SaNo
    6. Re:So? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I don't think the names should be released, although I do support gay marrage. The reason is the same as the reasoning behind secret ballots when voting for candidate; you're denying people the right to persue referenedums because what whatever notion is popular of the day

      This wasn't a ballot, this was a petition to put a question up for vote.

      If you sign a petition, your power comes from your public declaration of supporting that cause. If you want to be anonymous, do it at the voting booth. A petition with 10,000 anonymous signatures is toilet paper.

    7. Re:So? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But this wasn't a secret ballot. That's what makes it different.

    8. Re:So? by Ritchie70 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If people are shamed by having signed the petition then they shouldn't have signed it. The people who are shamed aren't listening to their little voice.

      If they are not ashamed to have signed it then what's the problem?

      I don't know about you, the only petition I've signed as an adult was for a local politician to get on the ballot. Go ahead, put my name on the front page of the newspaper - all I did was agree that this nice guy on my front porch should get his name on the ballot if he wants. I guess it implies I support him, but really, I don't even know what he thinks, just that he seems OK enough to be on the ballot.

      All these people did, when you get down to it, was agree that the question of gay marriage should be on the ballot. Same thing.

      There's the implication that you're in favor of the measure passing, of course - but you shouldn't put your name on a piece of paper if you don't understand what could happen with that list of names.

      I have no sympathy for any of the signers.

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    9. Re:So? by Ritchie70 · · Score: 1

      Sorry, double reply.This just occurred to me.

      Do you really think there was no shame and intimidation involved in getting the signatures? Variations on this probably played out all over the state to get some of those signatures:

      "Hey Bob, isn't it awful how the gays are going to have marriage rights? Turns my stomach."

      "Um, yeah Joe, sure, that's a shame."

      "Well Bob if you agree then why don't you sign this petition? We'll stop them before they ruin our state."

      Bob thinks to himself, "well, it'll probably get enough anyway, and I don't need Joe mad at me, I'll just signs the damn thing" and signs.

      Bob needs to grow a spine if he doesn't really agree, but maybe Joe is his pastor, or his boss, or the neighbor who always loans him tools. Don't want to piss off the guy who lets him use the saw.

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    10. Re:So? by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

      Indeed - in general I'm not a fan of exposing people like this (a similar issue in the UK is the leaking of the BNP member lists), and in general I'd argue for laws protecting privacy. But if they used perfectly legal means to publish the list, well good luck to them.

    11. Re:So? by atchijov · · Score: 1

      You should read more carefully. It is people who OPPOSE gay rights who have issues with they votes to become public.

    12. Re:So? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      You can't spell.

    13. Re:So? by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

      My view is that votes should be private, but my concern is more about other possible cases.

      In this case, we have people voting to take away other adults' rights, on a matter that doesn't affect them. If they're now crying that other people are trying to take away some rights from them, I have little sympathy.

      But the problem of public votes can affect everyone. Indeed, you could have an anti-gay group making public the votes in favour of gay marriage - not to mention more controversial laws (there are many issues where any rational argument is drowned out by hysteria - e.g., "anti-terrorism" laws).

    14. Re:So? by shentino · · Score: 1

      Replace "Gestapo" with "angry moralists" and you'll understand why we vote in secret.

      It's hard enough working up the courage to make a stand on an issue when people who disagree with you are ready to peg you in the eyes with rotten tomatoes.

      Add in the fact that some gaybashers are willing to use deadly force to support their positions and you'll come to appreciate the benefits that anonymous voting provides.

    15. Re:So? by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Indeed. If you are for something, speak out or STFU. There is no reason in today's society to be scared of who might think you're in favor of gay unions. Or anything else. No political system was ever changed by cowards.

      BTW, LEGALIZE REEFER!

      (I add the last as an illustration of someone dangerously making their beliefs known. Yes, my real name is mcgrew.)

    16. Re:So? by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

      Actually it seems I misunderstood - the summary is rather unclear, and I thought it was talking about how people voted in a referendum itself.

      If it's talking about simply people signing a petition, then it ought to be fair game to make the names on it public, at the least. If I sign a petition, I assume that there won't be any privacy protection over my name.

      Petitions are a bad measure for deciding popularity or political decisions anyway, due to their one-sided and often biased nature (even worse than referendums!). But now we're allowed secret petitions? I find that very worrying.

    17. Re:So? by corbettw · · Score: 1

      Maybe they're not ashamed of their signature, but instead are worried they may suffer consequences in their personal and/or professional lives from signing? They believe they were right to "stand up to the gays", but think that the "gay lobby" has a lock on all the good jobs and restaurant reservations or something.

      Actually, now that I think about it, that kind of paranoia shouldn't be coddled. Publish away!

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      God invented whiskey so the Irish would not rule the world.
    18. Re:So? by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 1

      The reason is the same as the reasoning behind secret ballots when voting for candidate; you're denying people the right to persue referenedums because what whatever notion is popular of the day

      No. What you're doing is holding people to account for their political stances and/or vote and doing so is fundamentally and utterly wrong. The purpose for this list is entirely transparent. Entirely. It seeks to intimidate people into not supporting cause they believe in, and to open up their lives to harassment and ostracism because they have gone against societies current grain. This is voter intimidation plain and simple, by the new digital blockleiters; internet distributed harassment and pressure, directly to your neighbours PC.

      People have a right to disagree with gay marriage, and they have a right to campaign against it. If you don't like it, then you can go to the bother of setting up your own campaign instead of trying to short circuit debate and free society by pulling off this angry flash mob bullshit. I support rallies and demonstrations against groups, companies and even churches with whom others might have political or other disagreements. But when you bring it down the the level of individuals, as far as I am concerned, you have descended to the level of brownshirts and should be treated as such.

      What saddens me the most is just how many supposedly educated people support this type of thing. It sometimes seems as though the western public has developed the thought processes of a petulant child; emotional, vindictive, inconsiderate and with total disregard for the accepted decorum of adult debate. When did it become acceptable to stoop to this kind of thing? Are there no reasonable political groups left in the world?

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    19. Re:So? by FatAlb3rt · · Score: 1

      You make the knee-jerk assumption (as did the activists that put the names on the website) that anyone who signed it is in favor of it. A signature simply means that the person feels the issue is important enough that people should vote on it. To assume more makes you the one who's not open minded.

    20. Re:So? by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If they are not ashamed to have signed it then what's the problem?

      Maybe they're afraid that signing may now have left them open to reprisals and other unpleasant repercussions? Maybe they're afraid enough not to sign such a thing again?

      Mission Accomplished.

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      May the Maths Be with you!
    21. Re:So? by amplt1337 · · Score: 1

      Don't want to piss off the guy who lets him use the saw.

      This is how societies institutionalize oppression. There's a relatively small number who are actively supporting $foo-bashing, and a silent majority that sits on its hands and doesn't want to rock the boat, even though they don't really support what's going on.

      Public exposure is nothing more than adding weight to that choice. Are you going to offend the person collecting the signatures, or all the people who'll see you signed? You no longer have the option of pretending you can ignore the oppression of others.
      I don't see that as even remotely unjust.

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      Freedom isn't free; its price is the well-being of others.
    22. Re:So? by natehoy · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I'm a little confused about this, too.

      I live in Maine which is currently undergoing a potential recall on our gay marriage law. The law was (legislatively) enacted in response to a petition, and is being recalled in response to another petition. I signed one of the two petitions (if I state which one I signed, I'll just start a debate about gay marriage itself, so I'll refrain - this discussion is about petitions and not gay marriage).

      Petitions are not private documents, they are a show of public support. I fully expect that my name is out there somewhere on some database, probably on the web, as having signed the petition. If I had signed the other petition, I would fully expect to see my name somewhere in a database as well.

      And I have no doubt that BOTH sides of the issue are pulling these lists of names and telling their supporters to shun the evil bastages who dare disagree with their views. Screw 'em - most of the big organizers and big warchests are out-of-staters who have chosen our state as a battleground to their own ends.

      In the end, it's us locals going to the polls that's going to count. Let the armies of people from away come on in and stay in our hotels and buy meals at our restaurants and spend money advertising their shills and fly in their big-money actors to scream their lies, damned lies, and statistics and try to get people all riled up. The money is good for our coffers, which are pretty empty right about now with the summer guests heading home and winter fast approaching.

      In the end it's about what we, the residents of Maine, want for our state. After November them screamers will all pack up and go home just like the beachgoers and leafpeepers before them, and we'll start working with whatever we decided to do. There'll be some grumbling and bellyaching either way, but we'll settle back down and go back about our business.

      If my vote in the November ballot initiative is made public, then I'd be concerned. Not because I've made some secret of my opinion on the matter - pretty much anyone who knows me well probably has my vote figured, and if anyone asks I'd tell them - but because individual votes in elections are supposed to be secret.

      Of course, when you engage in a petition, there is always some chance someone who disagrees with you on a particular position might see your name and decide not to do business with you, to end your friendship, whatever. That's a risk you take when you take a stand on an issue. If you are concerned about that, don't sign the petition. Just remember that, if you refuse to take a stand for things you believe in, that's taking a stand in and of itself.

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    23. Re:So? by natehoy · · Score: 1

      That's partly why petition lists are frequently made public, so those who are documented as having signed a petition have the ability to say "um, no, I didn't sign that". It's a sad side effect that such information can (and sometimes is) misused by people from "the other side of the issue" to harass or pillory signers.

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    24. Re:So? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I'm all for gay marriage. Well, more exactly, I could care less whether my gay friends are married or "living in sin." They seem to care. So, I would vote to legalize it.

      That said, I would sign a petition for a ballot measure in a heartbeat. Then, it would go for a vote and the people decide. Not the courts. Not the legislature. The people.

      Some people LIKE it when they can vote directly on laws. They may even find this principle more important than any particular law.

      Some one will ask why I post as anonymous coward. It's because I'm too lazy to get an account.

    25. Re:So? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Now they can't go around pretending to be all cool and tolerant. I'd love to see their hipocrit faces when they are judged by the rest of their hipocrit friends who were smart enough not to sign the petition...
      Eat shit motherfuckers!!

      With tolerance like this, who needs the Nazis!...

      And in fairness, "tolerance" has been a by-word for the gay movement for as long as I can remember; even as they practice the same intolerance which you so eloquently spout....

    26. Re:So? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If people are shamed by having signed the petition then they shouldn't have signed it.

      So why do we need secret elections? If people are ashamed for whom they voted, they should have voted somebody else.

      I would prefer if those lists rather don't get republished. As a signer you have to assume that you wont get personally attacked for it.

    27. Re:So? by pleappleappleap · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Wrong wrong wrong. This is a petition, not a vote. A petition that isn't a matter of public record isn't a petition . If you can't stand for your signature on a petition to stand up to scrutiny, you shouldn't have signed the petition in the first place .

    28. Re:So? by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 1

      That's partly why petition lists are frequently made public, so those who are documented as having signed a petition have the ability to say "um, no, I didn't sign that". It's a sad side effect that such information can (and sometimes is) misused by people from "the other side of the issue" to harass or pillory signers.

      Did you ever thing for a second that the anti-gay marriage “forces” will not harass pro-gay marriage???

      The political process is public, so anyone should live with the consequences of their political choices.

    29. Re:So? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If they didn't want people to know they support gay rights they shouldn't have signed it.

      You have it backwards. The people who signed the petition want to take rights away from gay people, but they don't want anyone to know they're bigots.

    30. Re:So? by natehoy · · Score: 1

      I know that both sides will, sadly, probably use the information to harass or pillory the other. That doesn't make it right on either side.

      But petitions are public movements, and are (under current law) signed and supported in public. It's a different standard than a private vote.

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    31. Re:So? by Professional+Slacker · · Score: 1

      Maybe the should have thought of that before deciding to be bigots? If I'm a bad person, people will think less of me, seems pretty straightforward to me.

      Group A does everything in it's power to harass, belittle and diminish the civil rights of group B. And suddenly want to cry foul when some one calls them out in public for it. Arguing that being called out as being a bigoted asshole is harassment seems out of place, if calling them out is harassment how do they handle the cognitive dissonance that sins they're being called out for are far worse?

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    32. Re:So? by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Sure it does. The government can verify the list themselves. Using the last voter registration records would be enough. Even if the list is bogus, does it matter? People still then have to actually vote on the referendum to acomplish anything.

    33. Re:So? by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 2, Interesting

      It seeks to intimidate people into not supporting cause they believe in, and to open up their lives to harassment and ostracism because they have gone against societies current grain.

      And, pray tell, how is this any different from the ordinary, mundane, run-of-the-mill gay-bashing gays are routinely subject to???

    34. Re:So? by pbhj · · Score: 1

      If people are shamed by having signed the petition then they shouldn't have signed it. The people who are shamed aren't listening to their little voice.

      If they are not ashamed to have signed it then what's the problem?

      I think the problem is intimidation by bigots, ie people who will not allow other people their own views. There is a difference between shame and fear.

    35. Re:So? by Alpha830RulZ · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The entire point of a petition is that it's a public statement of opinion. The law regarding signatures on a petition for a referendum in Washington require that the signer be a voter, and that they be identifiable. Petitions need to be public so that opposing interests can contest the signatures if they are demonstrably invalid. That they also publish the identity of the partisans on an issue is an interesting side effect, and not one that I, for one, mind. If you don't want yourself to be identified with the issue, don't sign. There are other, more private channels for getting your way, including contacting your congress-critters, and contributing to the campaigns of candidates or PACs that support your goals. Of course, these have some sunshine laws on them as well, and again, I think that's OK. Citizens should have the right to know who is driving the issues of the land. If you really don't want to state your opinions publically, then just vote, which is absolutely guaranteed to be private.

      I've been on both sides of this. I have supported petition effects and indeed led one some years back. It was entirely public, and -everyone- who signed was quite willing, and indeed eager, to be publicly identified with the issue. In most petition drives, that isn't a problem. If it is a problem, I think that signifies something deeper is gravely wrong.

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      I was taught to respect my elders. The trouble is, it's getting harder and harder to find some.
    36. Re:So? by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      Maybe the should have thought of that before deciding to be bigots? If I'm a bad person, people will think less of me, seems pretty straightforward to me.

      What about the general case? If the petition were against an unjust law, would you want its supporters to be able to harass, belittle, and diminish your civil rights because you want the law gone and because your name was public to them?

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    37. Re:So? by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 1

      Maybe the should have thought of that before deciding to be bigots?

      They have a right to be bigots, but you do not have a right to know about it.

      People are more than their convictions on singular issues, and persecuting them for signing one petition is wrong. I don't care how wronged you think others have been. This is still wrong. This is a dark road which has been walked down many times before to and ill end. Instead of engaging people in debate or trying to make their case in the public arena, people are instead choosing to intimidate their opponents into acquiescence. I cannot see how any honest person can see this as being justified.

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    38. Re:So? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If they didn't want people to know they support gay rights they shouldn't have signed it.

      This is a minor quibble, but if you RTFA, it says that the anti-gay activists are the ones trying to hide their agenda. They want to overturn the recently enacted "Everything but marriage" law.

    39. Re:So? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why do you assume they are ashamed of signing? Isn't it just as likely, or more likely, that they are worried about the repercussions of signing?

    40. Re:So? by jdcope · · Score: 1

      I dont think they expected it to be secret. But for what reason besides harassment would they need their names?

    41. Re:So? by arose · · Score: 1

      The purpose for this list is entirely transparent. Entirely.

      Indeed, this list is a petition and the purpose is to voice public support.

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      Analogies don't equal equalities, they are merely somewhat analogous.
    42. Re:So? by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 1

      I know that both sides will, sadly, probably use the information to harass or pillory the other. That doesn't make it right on either side.

      Sure it does; it is right on the progress’ side.

  4. Sick of the anti-gay groups by ZekoMal · · Score: 1, Insightful
    I saw an article on Yahoo! the other day about an interracial couple being denied their wedding license for being interracial. In the article, it stated that the constitution says that we can marry "whoever we want".

    Shame that's not true. Oh well...as they say, it's the old people that are opposing gay marriage the most. We just have to wait a few years, then we can re-send gay marriage laws all over the country and finally get this biblical fear knocked out. I mean really, what year is it?

    1. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      The Justice of the Peace didn't say they couldn't get married. He said he wasn't going to be the one who did it, then gave them the name of another JotP that would.

    2. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by maxume · · Score: 1

      Measuring from the years marked in the Bible, it is the year 2009.

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    3. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by sanosuke001 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Honestly, I don't have a problem with churches not allowing same-sex marriages. However, the state should have no such rule. It's ridiculous. There is no direct or indirect effect on the state by allowing same-sex couples to marry. I don't see how they could ever win in a court of law.

      It just shows you how biased judges are. If they were unbiased, the same sex marriage ban wouldn't last 5 minutes.

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      -SaNo
    4. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I mean really, what year is it?

      2009. ...

      Oh....

      Was that question rhetorical? Sorry.

    5. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by PiAndWhippedCream · · Score: 1

      Of course the constitution doesn't say that we can marry whoever we want. That would be grammatically in correct, the constitution says we can marry *whomever* we want.

    6. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by OrangeMonkey11 · · Score: 1

      Also the judge had stated that he was denying the couple because he does not believe in interracial relationship and he was looking out for the children

      I guess old school racism isn't so bad when you're doing it for the children

    7. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by ZekoMal · · Score: 1

      Because marrying the same gender is the same as marrying a goat...

    8. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Which is totally unnessary. There was no legal reason for him to make extra work for them, and his "think of the children" bullshit is just that.

    9. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by natehoy · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      "grammatically in correct" is, well, grammatically incorrect. :)

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    10. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by LordAndrewSama · · Score: 1

      same-sex or interspecies, I don't honestly care what my neighbours marry. animal rights activists might, though, unless the goat is all for it.

    11. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's not a "fear." If you are a Christian, it is explicitly forbidden. Read verse 22 here.

    12. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yet another example of Activist Judges making up their own rules based on their own opinions and not the Law's as written. This is the slippery slope we have created for ourselves... once one Judge does it, all the rest can do it based on Precedent.

    13. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Dhalka226 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      However, the state should have no such rule.

      Cannot have such a rule. The anti-gay(-marriage) people will be quick to tell you the Constitution does not forbid discrimination based on sexual preference. Indeed, you won't find the words "sexual preference" or "sexuality" anywhere in the document. But pretending that you can in any way separate sexual preference from gender, against which discrimination is expressly forbidden by the Fourteenth Amendment, is nothing more than parlor-trick hand-waiving by a homophobic community intent on forcing Biblical morality on an entire nation.

      If two people each have the right to marry, they have the right to marry each other. No, that does not somehow open the door to marriages with goats like some people (including, sadly, some in this very discussion) would like you to believe. Does this somehow create a strain on government programs that pay you for being married? Good. Get rid of them. It's ridiculous to incentivize marriage, for straight or gay people.

      I'm sorry if this doesn't fit with some peoples' narrow-minded world view, but I'm tired of gay bashing being the last acceptable form of discrimination in the US. End rant.

      (And sorry to the grandparent; most of this rant was not intended for you, merely used as a jumping-off point.)

    14. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The last time I recall the the JotP does not have to marry anyone. Its a private service. Is it repugnant? Yes.

      If it goes against his religion. Who cares. He did nothing to deny their marriage he got them an JotP.

    15. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 0

      If two people each have the right to marry, they have the right to marry each other. No, that does not somehow open the door to marriages with goats like some people (including, sadly, some in this very discussion) would like you to believe. Does this somehow create a strain on government programs that pay you for being married? Good. Get rid of them. It's ridiculous to incentivize marriage, for straight or gay people.

      I'm sorry if this doesn't fit with some peoples' narrow-minded world view, but I'm tired of gay bashing being the last acceptable form of discrimination in the US. End rant.

      So, why is marriage limited to two people? Why are people who want to marry more than one person discriminated against? What about siblings who want to marry?
      BTW for those of you who say that it is discrimination, gays are allowed to marry. They just aren't (in most states) allowed to marry someone of the same sex, but then neither are straights.

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    16. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The result is essentially the same: No children. The reason we give married couples benefits is because they make children. Gay marriage, by definition, requires that one commit adultery to create children (i.e., procreate with someone outside of the marriage). We, as a society, have separated sex from marriage from offspring whereas along time ago the three were ideally linked together. The reason for government to recognize marriage is literally that, "the children are our future."

      In the past you couldn't look at someone ans say they were fertile. So we subsidized all marriages in the hope that most would provide the next generation. Most benefits for marriage are really meant for the children. I know what's next, what about infertile couples. Those that didn't have children still served a purpose: to show that couples should get together as an example.

      The sad part is that people will not stay in a marriage for the children anymore. Basically, we've become so selfish that marriage isn't about family but about two people having sex. So what gay-marriage advocates are asking is for me to subsidize (social security, healthcare, housing, etc.) their relationship because they want to have sex.

      I would just as soon have government abolish the concept of marriage and treat everyone as a single person. It should redefine benefits for children as being for children so that a married childless couple would have the same benefits as two unmarried people living together.

    17. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

      Was that question rhetorical?

      Yes.

    18. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, it probably is "the same" to that AC. I really believe it was a sincere regret by them. He/she probably didn't want to post under a name because it is probably a crime in their "neck of the woods".

    19. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Dog-Cow · · Score: 0, Troll

      There is also no legal reason he has to perform ANY marriage. Ever.

      He may be a racist bigot, but at least he stands on his own principles.

      To bring this more on-topic: if I were a JotP, I would refuse to perform marriages for gay couples. I don't believe the State need recognize any rights for a union that cannot create a biological family, even in theory. (I know that not all heterosexual couples can or even want to have children, but the law is not about individual cases.)

    20. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by LMacG · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So when did you choose to be a heterosexual?

      Further, why do you think somebody would choose to be gay? Just to enjoy the intolerance of a bunch of religious wackos, be unable to marry the person they love, be able to be fired from their job just because of their homosexuality, be beaten to within an inch of one's life (Google 'Jack Price Queens NY')?

      Yeah, it's a choice.

      Moron.

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    21. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by novakreo · · Score: 1

      Are you really so dense as to be unable to distinguish between a person marrying another person, and a person marrying an animal or object?
      Tell me, though, how is personal responsibility encouraged if a government takes away someone's ability to choose to marry a same-sex partner?

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    22. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Nursie · · Score: 5, Insightful

      What a load of utter bullshit. I'm sorry but rarely have I ever heard such a fountain of total nonsense spew forth, here or elsewhere on the internet (with the possible exception of /b/).

      For laws that are even less specific, would you prefer to have the ability (or let others have the ability) to marry animals or inanimate objects?

      False equivalence. One is a conscious, sentient adult, the other is an animal. Or an inanimate object. You're an idiot.

      agree there is nothing wrong with interracial couples under the premise a person has no control over their race

      So if skin colour was a choice you'd be happy to discriminate? Gotcha. You're a hateful, dumb, bigot.

      I'm also someone who believes a person *does* have control over their sexual preferences

      Totally irrelevant. If it's a choice it's their choice, not yours, and doesn't affect you in any way.

      and therefore should not get special treatment if they choose a preference that goes against societal standards.

      Nobody's asking for special treatment, they're asking for equal treatment, and you're clutching at straws to try and deny it.

      Of course, if you are a liberal who believes there is no personal responsibility and by extension you have no control over your sexual preferences then you believes that you are being treated unfairly in the eyes of the law when you are told you cannot marry someone of the same sex.

      Where to begin?

      Liberal used as an invective (sure sign of an underdeveloped brain), non-sequiturs galore and yet more crap.

      Why is sexual preference linked to responsibility? What is irresponsible about homosexuality? And I'm not inviting you to spew more stereotypical nonsense about promiscuity here, what is irresponsible about the fact of homosexuality itself?

      Basically, you're wrong and pretty dumb. Or a troll, I'm not sure which.

    23. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by RogL · · Score: 1
      Ooh - Bible quote! Fun...

      In addition to banning gay marriage, should we reinstate the penalty for non-virgin brides?
      Here you go: http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy+22:20-22&version=NIV
      Personally, stoning seems a bit harsh, but hey - the Bible says! Save those wedding-night sheets as proof of virginity, kids!
      Seriously, how many Christian brides would be killed if they stuck to their guns and stoned the non-virgins?

      Lots of fun and odd stuff in Deuteronomy. http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy+22&version=NIV

      In fact, I've violated the prohibition: Do not wear clothes of wool and linen woven together.

      But I've never: Make tassels on the four corners of the cloak you wear.

      Odd how most Christians cherry-pick the prohibitions, ignoring the ones that might affect them.

      Does your house have a parapet around the roof? Better build one before condemning others:
      When you build a new house, make a parapet around your roof so that you may not bring the guilt of bloodshed on your house if someone falls from the roof.

      And whatever you do, live by this rule, it's guided many over the years: Do not plow with an ox and a donkey yoked together.

    24. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by biryokumaru · · Score: 1

      I certainly hope they don't eat shellfish or allow little people into the priesthood. And they better keep their slaves properly and sacrifice birds every time they have their period.

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    25. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is no direct or indirect effect on the state by allowing same-sex couples to marry.

      This statement is either disingenuous or stupid. How about these effects: 1.) forcing health insurance companies to provide coverage for your spouse due to marital status (the potential cost of AIDS treatment being the point), and 2.) forcing the State to consign foster children into gay families because of the marital status of the partners.

      You say you're sick of anti-gay groups. I'm sick of gays trying to shove their lifestyle in my face claiming there is no direct of indirect effect on society.

    26. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Then you are a person who doesn't believe in all of the scientific studies that show that a person doesn't have control over their sexual orientation.

      Huh, it's funny how conjecture isn't fact, innit?

    27. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But pretending that you can in any way separate sexual preference from gender, against which discrimination is expressly forbidden by the Fourteenth Amendment, is nothing more than parlor-trick hand-waiving by a homophobic community intent on forcing Biblical morality on an entire nation. -----------

      Whoa there hoss.

      The rhetoric of the LGBT camp is not only that gender and sexuality can be separated, but that they must necessarily be separated. Otherwise it's just the homosexual camp.

    28. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by daem0n1x · · Score: 1

      In my country, that judge would be in jail right now, and for a few years.

    29. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by guruevi · · Score: 1

      Read my sig, that's a (partial) quote from a Supreme Court judge. I couldn't quote it fully because Slashdot doesn't allow long sigs but either way, our lifestyle (whether that is race, religion or sexual preference) is not up for vote, not up for lawmakers to regulate.

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    30. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by NiteShaed · · Score: 5, Insightful

      BTW for those of you who say that it is discrimination, gays are allowed to marry. They just aren't (in most states) allowed to marry someone of the same sex, but then neither are straights.

      And following that logic inter-racial marriage wasn't discrimination either. Blacks weren't allowed to marry outside their race, but then nether were whites.

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    31. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't remember choosing to be straight, do you?

    32. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by daem0n1x · · Score: 1

      So gay couples have more AIDS than straight? I thought that prejudice was overcome decades ago.

    33. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And your argument consists primarily of name-calling.

    34. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      I like how you dodge the infertility flaw in your argument by saying they serve as an example that people can get together. Wow. Gay people sure couldn't do that. Hey, this just in, infertile and/or gay people can ADOPT kids. You just want to find some pseudo social science excuse to be a bigot.

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    35. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by mayko · · Score: 1
      I liked where you were heading with the first part of your comment until I reached this.

      gays are allowed to marry. They just aren't (in most states) allowed to marry someone of the same sex, but then neither are straights.

      This is a common argument, and one I've used myself while playing devil's advocate. However, it doesn't work. If the roles were reversed and someone told you that "You can marry anyone you want, as long as it is someone of the same sex" I doubt you would have the same opinion.

      Whether you agree with it or not you have to understand that opposing gay marriage is fruitless at best. It does nothing to preserve "traditional marriage" and it does nothing but drive rifts through our society. Get over it and go fuck your wife (just make sure it's not from behind... because you'll go to hell for that).

    36. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      No, his argument consists primarily of well-reasoned logic.

      There's just a lot of name-calling, too, because there's no point in being nice to assholes like the previous poster.

    37. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by cryfreedomlove · · Score: 1

      To bring this more on-topic: if I were a JotP, I would refuse to perform marriages for gay couples. I don't believe the State need recognize any rights for a union that cannot create a biological family, even in theory. (I know that not all heterosexual couples can or even want to have children, but the law is not about individual cases.)

      Dog-Cow, how do you feel about adoption? It is most widely practiced from within unions 'that cannot create a biological family'. That should be banned. Right? Since it is all about biological families? My adopted kids feel warm and safe with you making the rules.

    38. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      I'm tired of gay bashing being the last acceptable form of discrimination in the US.

      Where have you been lately? It's not politically correct to bash gays, and is illegal to discriminate against gays in any way. However, it's still OK to bash and discriminate against single people, whether gay or straight. THAT'S the last acceptable form of discrimination.

    39. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      then we can re-send gay marriage laws all over the country and finally get this biblical fear knocked out.
      Re-send them where? Where did we send them in the first place?

      The word you seek is "rescind", meaning to recant, remove, take away, or cancel.

    40. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by CensorshipDonkey · · Score: 1

      ...not so much in the New England states or in San Francisco though...

      Because only if it's a landlocked state it counts? Or, you know, super liberal Iowa! Damn those Iowans, flagrantly trampling on traditional Midwestern values!

    41. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by rantingkitten · · Score: 1

      He also had a comma splice for those who missed it.

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    42. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by CensorshipDonkey · · Score: 1

      So you don't understand the difference between "consenting adult" and "child" or "object"? "Consenting adult" is a very important classification in terms of our laws, gender is pretty damn minor. What bothers you so much about allowing civil unions based on the very well established standard of "consenting adult"?

    43. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      It's ridiculous to incentivize marriage, for straight or gay people.

      A stable marriage leads to a stable family, and it moves up from there. It is absolutely beneficial to society to "incentivize" marriage because it leads to a more stable society.

    44. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Fortunato_NC · · Score: 1

      To bring this more on-topic: if I were a JotP, I would refuse to perform marriages for gay couples. I don't believe the State need recognize any rights for a union that cannot create a biological family, even in theory. (I know that not all heterosexual couples can or even want to have children, but the law is not about individual cases.)

      So I would assume that you are also against marriages involving post-menopausal women? How about men who have had vasectomies?

      I can see the bumperstickers now:

      MARRIAGE = 1 (UNSNIPPED) MAN + 1 (FERTILE) WOMAN

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    45. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by schon · · Score: 1

      If you are a Christian, it is explicitly forbidden. Read verse 22

      I wonder how many of those "christians" support women's lib and emancipation? After all, allowing women a place of authority is explicitly forbidden in 1 Timothy 2:11-12

      Or how many of them shave? That's explicitly forbidden too (Leviticus 19:27)

      Or how many are bankers or moneylenders in general, as charging interest for a loan is explicitly forbidden too (Psalm 15:5)

      Or how many wear shirts made of poly-cotton blends - any fabric made of two materials is explicitly forbidden too (Leviticus 19:19, and Deuteronomy 22:11, although Deuteronomy only specifically mentions wool and linen.)

      Why aren't they out lobbying for laws against these things too? Emancipation is *way* older than gay rights - seems like they should be focusing their efforts there, shouldn't they? Where is the petition to repeal the right for women to hold public office or hold a job?

    46. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by R2.0 · · Score: 1

      "But pretending that you can in any way separate sexual preference from gender, against which discrimination is expressly forbidden by the Fourteenth Amendment, is nothing more than parlor-trick hand-waiving by a homophobic community intent on forcing Biblical morality on an entire nation."

      Huh? Why can't sexual orientation be separated from gender? One can be male, female, intersexed, transexual, etc. and one can be heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, etc. The first is what you are, the second is what (or who) you do. There is a substantial difference.

      This is one of the fundamental issues with the concept of "gay rights". Most protected classes in the US are identified because of what the individual are - black, hispanic, women, handicapped, etc. They are not that way by choice. There are some others that are identified by current or previous actions - veterans and religious groups come to mind - due to historical and policy reasons.

      But sexual orientation doesn't really fit into either that well. At first glance, it seems to belong to the second category - a class identified by their actions, or what they do. But, except for the previously mentioned groups, it is perfectly legal to discriminate on the basis of people's past and current actions. This is the most basic definition of discrimination - choosing one over another. It's perfectly legal to put up a sign that says "Long haired freaky people need not apply", as long as the hair and the freakiness isn't related to religion or a medical condition. It may be stupid or immoral, but it is legal.

      In order to circumvent this, the gay community has pretty much taken the stance that sexual orientation belongs in the first category - that it is a basic part of someones identity. It would be a strong position, but for the the fact that the only way to determine a person's basic sexual orientation is ... their actions. It's not enough to say "I naturally feel attracted to a certain gender" - we don't punish based on thoughts or feelings (not yet anyway), so it's not really proper to protect based on thoughts and feelings. They haven't identified the "gay gene", so how would any 3rd person be able to judge what a person's sexual orientation really is?

      Personally, I don't care who sticks what body part into whom. As for marriage, I've come to the conclusion that civil marriage needs to fundamentally change, because the fundamental underpinnings of what marriage IS have changed. But just dismissing those who "separate sexual preference from gender" as a ruse is both tactically stupid and, I believe, incorrect.

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    47. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Lesbians as a group have a far, far lower risk for AIDs than straight couples. Look it up.

      No doubt your 'concern' for the children is motivated by some half baked theory that sexual orientation is absorbed by some unexplained kind of osmosis, which of course fails to account not only for the simple fact that most gay people come from straight families, but the genetic science of that matter.

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    48. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by PHPNerd · · Score: 2, Insightful

      False equivalence. One is a conscious, sentient adult, the other is an animal. Or an inanimate object. You're an idiot.

      So if skin colour was a choice you'd be happy to discriminate? Gotcha. You're a hateful, dumb, bigot.

      Basically, you're wrong and pretty dumb. Or a troll, I'm not sure which.

      This is what I hate about slashdot nowadays. "You don't agree with me? I'll demean you and make you look stupid, rather than providing an adult conversation." I don't care if the person you're replying to *sounded* stupid. You sound just as stupid when you treat others the way you do. Your point of view looks just as ridiculous when you lower yourself to the level of an insulting jerk. Grow up.

      I'm *so tired* of people who proclaim freedom for all and are against hate and discrimination, but are okay with slandering and maligning those who do not agree with them. It's like saying "No more hate! But if you don't agree with me it's okay for me to discriminate against you, because you're stupid." What do you call that? I call it more of the same hate just turned around, and it has to stop from *both* sides before we can move on in this country. Good grief.

    49. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Taevin · · Score: 1

      The result is essentially the same: No children.

      Who cares? We have plenty. You address infertile couples and say well fine we'll let them keep their useless marriage. What about heterosexual couples who decide they don't want to have children, ever? I suppose we should force them to make babies, huh? I know our country is just dying for more unwilling parents. What about couples that decide not to have children as a conscious, socially-responsible choice to prevent severe inheritable diseases from being passed on (this reduces the burden on society, as well)? Should these people be prevented from getting married?

      What I really wanted to correct you on, however, is this:

      The reason we give married couples benefits is because they make children.

      This is not the only reason to get married and is certainly not the main reason homosexual couples want to be "married." Spouses receive many extra rights, privileges and conveniences not afforded to anyone else, both legally and socially. If my wife becomes a vegetable then I, in the absence of a living will, have the final say about her life support. If my wife is in the hospital, I simply say I'm her husband and I'm ushered right on through to her (unless she's in the OR or something). And on and on with tax filing, estate rights, guardianship over children, etc.

    50. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If we can take the ancient religious and cultural tradition of marriage, which dates back...indefinitely, and pervert its definition, then why can't I decide that marriage can now be between 10 people, not just 2? Or why not between father and adult daughter? Who are you to trample on my incestuous rights to marriage?

      Slippery slopes aren't always fallacies you know.

    51. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by mishehu · · Score: 1

      And to continue on yours and many other intelligent folks' lines of reasoning, it's funny how so many people don't know their history... While I don't know if Alexander the Great himself had homosexual tendencies, I do know that he created a very large empire. Later on the Romans then ended up taking over much of that empire. Both the Greeks and the Romans of 2000-2500 years ago had a lot of homosexual tendencies in their culture, with numerous leaders preferring young boys for sex. Seems like they still built empires and were vastly successful for periods of time.

      I myself have no problem with homosexuals having the right to be married. The only condition that I put on it that it have the same legal ramifications as heterosexual couples would have. For example, Dick and John have been married for over 7 years and now want to divorce? Ok, we'll split up all the assets just like we would with a heterosexual couple...

      On a side note, one thing I remembered from an anthropology class that I had to take in college is that there's a difference between sex and gender. Sex is what physical attributes you have on your body, and gender is what role you participate in. The case study was of some Native American tribes where somebody who is biologically male would assume a female role in the household and/or tribal society.

    52. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by samjam · · Score: 2, Interesting

      All the real arguments are about is the word "marriage".

      I don't mind same-sex unions having all the rights the marriages have, in fact I think the nominal "marriage rights" (as opposed to marriage rites) should be available to any pair, even to a mother and her carer-daughter when they enjoy a regular non-sexual mother-daughter relationship. (In the UK a few years ago,. gay rights activists opposed an amendment which would extend rights to other pair relationships like mother-daughter).

      I just don't think the word "marriage" applies, I think it is redefining the word marriage and that is what I am against.

      Anyone can disagree with me who will, but we're arguing about the legal meaning of a word, not the equal rights or entitlements that would through any registered arrangement or union.

    53. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...If two people each have the right to marry, they have the right to marry each other. No, that does not somehow open the door to marriages with goats like some people (including, sadly, some in this very discussion) would like you to believe.

      But a father should be able to marry his own daughter the day she turns 18, right?

      Or 16, in some states, depending on its age of consent.

    54. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by rudedog · · Score: 1

      I'm sorry if this doesn't fit with some peoples' narrow-minded world view, but I'm tired of gay bashing being the last acceptable form of discrimination in the US. End rant.

      Actually, atheist bashing is still a perfectly acceptable form of discrimination in the US.

    55. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by pleappleappleap · · Score: 1

      Oh come on, people. Parent wasn't trolling.

    56. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by pleappleappleap · · Score: 1
    57. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Nursie · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'm sorry if it offends your delicate sensibilities, but I don't consider it necessary to be civil to intolerant bigots.

      More power to you if you do.

    58. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "For laws that are even less specific, would you prefer to have the ability (or let others have the ability) to marry animals or inanimate objects?"

      If those animals or inanimate objects are conscious, uncoerced, adult, and capable of making an informed decision, yes. It's none of my business who people choose to marry, as long as the participants are consenting adults or the equivalent.

      Now I really must get back to my basement to work on my fembot project.

    59. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by berbo · · Score: 1

      However, the state should have no such rule.

      Cannot have such a rule. The anti-gay(-marriage) people will be quick to tell you the Constitution does not forbid discrimination based on sexual preference. Indeed, you won't find the words "sexual preference" or "sexuality" anywhere in the document.

      Also, the Constitution does not specifically mention red-heads, but I've never heard anyone use that as a reason to discriminate against them.

    60. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      Or how many are bankers or moneylenders in general, as charging interest for a loan is explicitly forbidden too (Psalm 15:5)

      Just to be a bit pedantic, Psalms are in no way considered a source of Jewish law. The actual law (I apologize for being too lazy to look up the exact text) is that Jews are not allowed to charge interest on loans to other Jews (I think the actual text uses the term "brother" or "kin", though those are often used as terms for any Jew). This law may have been rather prejudicial at the time, though there are modern commentaries that hypothesize that the reason was that loans to other Jews in your community were usually to help them buy food and other necessities, while non-Jews living nearby were frequently businessmen visiting or living in the area temporarily, so loans to them would probably be a business investment.

    61. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Abcd1234 · · Score: 1

      Anyone can disagree with me who will, but we're arguing about the legal meaning of a word, not the equal rights or entitlements that would through any registered arrangement or union.

      Wrong. There is no legal meaning of the word marriage, save for the "rights and entitlements" that are implied. ie, from the standpoint of law, a marriage is specifically a) a civil contract, and b) a set of rights and entitlements. Period.

      You, on the other hand, are talking about the religious/cultural meaning of the word "marriage". And that's a whole other ball of wax.

      Which is why I happen to believe *no one* should be able to get a state-recognized "marriage". All unions, between a man and a woman, or a (wo)man and a (wo)man should be labeled "civil unions", and all the same rights and privileges should apply, regardless of the gender of the individuals entering the contract. What you call that union in the privacy of your own home or church is your own business.

    62. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by drsmithy · · Score: 1

      Get rid of them. It's ridiculous to incentivize marriage, for straight or gay people.

      Whoa there, tiger. There's a wealth of evidence indicating that marriage provides an overall net benefit.

    63. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by samjam · · Score: 1

      In some jurisdictions there is a legal meaning for the word marriage.

      However I don't object to such unions as you refer to being legally termed "civil unions" as you suggest;

      so *we* at least have agreement I think for practical purposes; and I think there is lot of cross-divide agreement in this fashion but both sides are fighting shadows over the word "marriage".

      I happen also to think that such legal advantages to those in unions should not be restricted to romantic/sexual unions but any nominated pair - there are plenty of people who forgo marriage to care for sick parents and then get taxed to hell on the "inheritance" for the home they've lived in all their life when their parent dies.

    64. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Jesus_666 · · Score: 1

      Except that you can't just decide to stop beig homosexual. You can try to act like you aren't but then again women can, through dressing and acting appropriately, try to pass off as men - yet this doesn't make discrimination based on sex acceptable.

      The question is whether "something you do" and "something you are" can meaningfully be discerned when you have little or no control over what you do. (Yes, you can just never have any kind of sexual or romantic relationship but that's not an acceptable choice for most people.)

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    65. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Hatta · · Score: 1

      It's also ok to bash fat people and stoners.

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    66. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      It's not a "fear." If you are a Christian, it is explicitly forbidden. Read verse 22 here.

      Most Jews have decided to just ignore the existence of that verse. The Conservative movement passed an opinion a few years ago that allowed homosexuals to be ordained as rabbis and allowed individual rabbis to decide for themselves whether or not to perform homosexual marriages. I haven't read the entire opinion, but I believe the reasoning was that the laws about preserving human dignity should be given greater importance than a single, rather unspecific Biblical verse. The Reform movement, which is by far the largest in the United States, made these decisions several years ago (a quick search gave me 1990 for ordaining homosexuals, and 2000 for accepting homosexual marriages).

      In other words, shut up and give us back our book.

    67. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Another way to think about it:
      They may be treating straights and gays the same, but they're treating men and women differently.
      If a woman is allowed to marry a man, then why shouldn't a man be allowed to marry a man. That's gender discrimination, right?

    68. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      There is also no legal reason he has to perform ANY marriage. Ever.

      Yes, there is, its part of his job.

      He may be a racist bigot, but at least he stands on his own principles.

      What fucking nonsense is this? Standing by his bigotry isn't something to be admired.

      To bring this more on-topic: if I were a JotP, I would refuse to perform marriages for gay couples. I don't believe the State need recognize any rights for a union that cannot create a biological family, even in theory. (I know that not all heterosexual couples can or even want to have children, but the law is not about individual cases.)

      Of course you think this way; you're a racist bigot. How is your point of view any different from Nazism?

    69. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by lwsimon · · Score: 1

      Which is why marriage licenses were first put in place - to allow interracial marriage only on a limited basis.

      Why homosexuals want to be governed by a system intended to limit "undesirable" marriages is beyond me.

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    70. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sorry if this doesn't fit with some peoples' narrow-minded world view, but I'm tired of gay bashing being the last acceptable form of discrimination in the US

      Actually, that would be atheism.

    71. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 2, Informative

      Where exactly do you prefer to set the moral standard for marriage if not between a man and a woman?

      "Between any number of consenting adults of any gender" will do just fine, thanks.

      I agree there is nothing wrong with interracial couples under the premise a person has no control over their race

      So if people had control over their race, interracial marriages would be wrong?

      I'm also someone who believes a person *does* have control over their sexual preferences

      You're just wrong. You can also believe that Earth is flat and is 6000 years old (ouch, sorry, you probably do believe the latter), but that just marks you as intellectually deficient, nothing more. There's no scientific debate over the fact that at least in some cases homosexuality is inborn (as demonstrated by the fact that it's observed in wild animals). There may be some cases where it's not, but it sure as hell isn't all of them.

      should not get special treatment if they choose a preference that goes against societal standards

      Why do you keep thinking that your own misguided beliefs are "societal standards"? Or that giving gays the same rights straight people enjoy is "special treatment"?

      And it is those societal standards that continue to be tested in the West

      Do you mean "USA" when you say "west"? The issue is pretty much settled in other western countries, FYI.

      the people continue to show they are against gay marriage

      "A 2007 University of Washington poll found 73 percent of Washington Voters support legal recognition of same-sex relationships."

    72. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Alpha830RulZ · · Score: 1

      And we're not against bashing the intelligent, experienced and capable. Cf. 'the elites'.

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    73. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      Really if you are pro-gay, why even dispute whether gay couples make their children gay? It wouldn't be a bad thing if they did from your perspective. And despite all of the "science" about sexuality, it is pretty clear that culture changes people's sexual behavior. It's almost unusual nowadays for a woman not to have had sex with and even dated women at some point, just as it was once not unusual for boys in single-sex schools to have engaged in homosexuality. Opponents of gay rights actually have a more liberal view of the flexible nature of human sexual preference than proponents who assume a design predetermined by godlike Biology.

    74. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're being ridiculous. You are saying that gender is not more of biological difference than race is? A black man is no more biologically different from a white man as he if from a white female?

    75. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh why do I have to be a single atheist?

    76. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      You can go on a diet or quit smoking dope, but you can't marry unless you find someone willing to marry you.

    77. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by S7urm · · Score: 1

      YA know, the only thing that scares me, and I in no way mean this as being anti-gay, or anti-black/white/blue/purple, BUT, your comments make me somewhat worry about what WILL be socially acceptable down the road. I understand that Marriage should be defined as Two Consenting adults, however that definition opens the door for Incestous Marriage, and yes I know that has been used as a stop gap to allay the whole hearted bigotry of the whole Anti-Gay marriage crowd, however, 50 years ago, a SIGNIFICANT percent of America's population thought that homosexuality was "morally wrong, and disgusting" (I do NOT agree with that, merely using it as a stepping stone to my next point). So here we are now, 50 years later, saying, not only is being a homosexual not a personal PREFERENCE but actually a Genetic predisposition, but also, that even if it wasn't who am I to tell YOU who you can't marry. Well that's all well and good, but you are giving rise to the "Slippery Slope" effect. I whole heartedly beleive that homosexuals should have every right that anyone else has, and I'd be the first person in line to stand up with them as a straight man and fight for that right, HOWEVER it's a scary thought to have when you see just how far we've slid the Societal norms and Values, and while I do agree with how things are TODAY, I fear that 50 years from now, people will feel that as long as they are consenting and in LOVE, then who am I to tell YOU that you can't marry your blood-sister, or who am I to tell NAMBLA they are wrong.

      Please don't misunderstand my opinion and my concerns. I understand I'll still be pianted with the hatred and bigotry brush, but I merely am trying to point out that at some point, we have things much worse to fear than simple Homosexual marriage, and we are laying the framework today, for tomorrow's freak shows. Marriage should be completely out of the realm of politics, but we do need to (as someone above said) draw a line in the sand that will make this issue JUST about THIS issue, and not lay a foundation for people who are truly Morally wrong (and yes I mean you NAMBLA! I hope one of you sick f$#% is reading this and I hope you DO hate me for what I say) to build their evil intent on.

      I think any legislation passed to allow same sex marriage should have language put in that truly defines marriage as an institution, and makes absolutely NO allowance for any further (mis)interpretation of it's definition.

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    78. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by virg_mattes · · Score: 1

      > For laws that are even less specific, would you prefer to have the ability (or let others have the ability) to marry animals or inanimate objects?

      Completely specious argument, unless animals have suddenly gained the right to own property or sign contracts or whatever else you can attach to adult humans. Comparing gay marriage with these things is a weak argument because animals and objects aren't consenting adults. Please give it up, because only an idiot would try to defend it at this point.

      > Where exactly do you prefer to set the moral standard for marriage if not between a man and a woman?

      I'm going to go back to "consenting adults" on this one. Why should I consider that immoral? Because your holy book says so?

      > I agree there is nothing wrong with interracial couples under the premise a person has no control over their race however I'm also someone who believes a person *does* have control over their sexual preferences and therefore should not get special treatment if they choose a preference that goes against societal standards. And it is those societal standards that continue to be tested in the West and the people continue to show they are against gay marriage (not so much in the New England states or in San Francisco though).

      Since your argument fits perfectly when you substitute "religion", your argument fails the test of Constitutional equality. If you don't like that, Iran would be your best choice, or the Vatican City. And as a side note, gay people do get "special" treatment because of their orientation, it's just negative treatment, just like blacks and Jews used to get.

      > Of course, if you are a liberal who believes there is no personal responsibility and by extension you have no control over your sexual preferences then you believes that you are being treated unfairly in the eyes of the law when you are told you cannot marry someone of the same sex. The lack of personal responsibility is a major issue in American society today that needs remedied, fast.

      "Liberal" isn't a curse word, no matter what Sean Hannity would have you believe. It's a nice try to tie personal responsibility to bias, though. As much as I hate to prove Godwin true, that's pretty much exactly the tack that the Third Reich took, in treating Jews like they deserved the trouble they got by not renouncing Judaism. So, even if you believe that gays have control of their sexual preference, you're still in great company for telling them that they should just accept the discrimination for their choice, and that fighting to change a law they see as unjust is not their place. Well done.

      Virg

    79. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So many assholes, so few mod points.

    80. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by dreamer.redeemer · · Score: 1

      For laws that are even less specific, would you prefer to have the ability (or let others have the ability) to marry animals or inanimate objects?

      False equivalence. One is a conscious, sentient adult, the other is an animal. Or an inanimate object.

      Not that I want to be associated with the anti gay marriage crowd in the slightest.... but humans are animals, conscious/sentient (in the way I presume you intend) are extremely poorly defined, and all mammals I know of have a period of adulthood, many plants do too.

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    81. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by geekoid · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Except the demeaning rebut was deserved. The post he was replying to was full of logical flaws, lies and nonsense.

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    82. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      and if you are gay you can't marry EVEN IF you find someone who wants to marry you. Have you understood that yet?

      Seen the difference yet? You still have the potential of marrying the person you are in love with, and who is in love with you, when you are straight and single. Gay and single has no such potential

      Well, at least in the backwards parts of hte USA.

    83. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, then, if you're a Christian, don't do it. But the law should allow non-Christians (Or Christians who interpret things differently than you do) to marry the person they love, whether you approve or not.

    84. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by glitch23 · · Score: 1

      So when did you choose to be a heterosexual?

      For most people it is the right thing to do. That's like asking when did someone choose to begin stealing or killing. At a certain point in life innocence is lost. Then the choices are made such as whether to be homosexual, partake in bestiality, etc. I don't have to choose to not be a murderer but I do have to choose to murder. The correlation being that in the beginning, at birth, we are all heterosexual. If it was due to genetics people wouldn't choose to revert back to being heterosexual but they can so obviously the genes aren't there. Personally, my belief is that God wouldn't punish someone for being born a certain way. The Holy Bible states that homosexuals will not make it into Heaven. It is our choices that distinguish us from each other. That is why I know people aren't born to be homosexual. You can choose to disagree but that doesn't warrant a Troll moderation (for those who already showed that they disagreed).

      Just to enjoy the intolerance of a bunch of religious wackos,

      Who is showing their intolerance now? I can tolerate homosexuals. They can do whatever they want with their life. What I don't tolerate is the fact they feel they should get special treatment, like someone who is born in a racial minority. They also want others to accept their lifestyle. That isn't my job to agree with what they chose. They have already proved they don't agree with heterosexuals so why should heterosexuals agree with them? I agree there are racial inequalities and I don't agree with them; someone can't help (and they shouldn't have to) what race they are or from what ethnic background they come from. Although Affirmative Action went too far I think in some cases. Someone shouldn't get special treatment for the decisions they make. They also shouldn't have special protections. When you give a group of people who make a certain decision special protections (i.e. the new Hate Crimes bill trying to be passed right now) *that's* when you instill societal inequalities. I don't agree with a homosexual person being almost killed. That person should be charged with attempted murder but that doesn't mean the gay person being beaten deserves special protections to a heterosexual. If they do then that is saying homosexuals are better and more important than heterosexuals and therefore any crime against them deserves to be prosecuted more severely than a crime against a heterosexual.

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    85. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by glitch23 · · Score: 1

      False equivalence. One is a conscious, sentient adult, the other is an animal. Or an inanimate object. You're an idiot.

      It isn't false equivalence. If any given state law doesn't specify a human then there is no reason why both wouldn't be allowed and therefore be rendered equivalent.

      So if skin colour was a choice you'd be happy to discriminate? Gotcha. You're a hateful, dumb, bigot.

      So you are going to hire someone who has been convicted of money laundering to work in your bank? Would you marry someone convicted of mass murder? People make decisions about someone based on their knowledge of that person's decisions all the time. I guess we are all hateful, dumb bigots. Quit being so quick to call someone who opposes homosexuality a bigot.

      Totally irrelevant. If it's a choice it's their choice, not yours, and doesn't affect you in any way.

      No, it doesn't affect me personally but that doesn't mean there are no repercussions at all. You are too short-sighted.

      Nobody's asking for special treatment, they're asking for equal treatment, and you're clutching at straws to try and deny it.

      Marriage isn't a right. Period.

      Liberal used as an invective (sure sign of an underdeveloped brain), non-sequiturs galore and yet more crap.

      Not quite. It was used as a proper noun, and yes without capitalization. Just like a conservative can be a person. Those two nouns have specific connotations. I believe you have no room to talk after calling me a hateful, dumb bigot for no reason. I suppose because I'm *opposed* to *illegal immigration*, not immigrants themselves, then I must be a racist or a bigot. For those who, like yourself, are quick to do the name calling for lack of a counter-argument I can understand why you do so inaccurately. You choose to attack the grammar rather than actual content, and yes there was content, no matter how opposed you are to what it said.

      Why is sexual preference linked to responsibility? What is irresponsible about homosexuality? And I'm not inviting you to spew more stereotypical nonsense about promiscuity here, what is irresponsible about the fact of homosexuality itself?

      Let me spell it out for your underdeveloped brain. It has nothing to do with their behavior so shut up and listen. Liberals largely believe there is no personal responsibility. Let someone else take care of it. It isn't your fault. You were born that way. Let the government take care of you. You can vegetate on the couch while we send you money every month. If you are deemed born as a homosexual then it isn't your fault (i.e. no responsibility) so then the laws must be updated to account for that human deficiency.

      Basically, you're wrong and pretty dumb. Or a troll, I'm not sure which.

      Don't end a sentence with a preposition. It is a sure sign of an underdeveloped brain.

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    86. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I cannot thank you enough for this post. Seriously, it's perfect in every way.

      I'm also someone who believes a person *does* have control over their sexual preferences

      Bullshit. I'm attracted to girls and not to guys. At the same time, I'm currently in the middle of the very difficult process of coming out as MtF transgender. This is not something I have control over, and quite frankly, is something I wish I did not have to go through.

      Consider this: right now if I met the girl of my dreams we could get married and be afforded all of the rights and privileges our society gives to a married couple. Yet this isn't what I want, deep down inside. Believe it or not, forces beyond my control are pushing me down a route from societal norms to a place where my possible dating pool is orders of magnitude smaller and where I wouldn't be able to have the same benefits as I could have right now. Why the fuck would I put myself through any of this if it was a choice?

      (Posting anonymously so as not to accidentally out myself)

    87. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And it is those societal standards that continue to be tested in the West and the people continue to show they are against gay marriage (not so much in the New England states or in San Francisco though)

      Yeah...us kooky Northeast commie-pinko liberal types, cooped up in our offices behind ivy-covered walls. We've really held this country in the dark ages with our disgustingly liberal ideas like:

      Representative Democracy
      Indian equality
      Slave emancipation
      Female suffrage
      Black suffrage
      Miscegenation

      Yeah, yeah, we understand where you are coming from. If somebody isn't like you, that means they are different!

      We just don't think "different" is a bad thing. Historically speaking, you scoff at our crazy notions. Thankfully, your kids have always seen the writing on the wall. End result: you don't change your mind; you die, and your children are embarrassed by your backwards attitudes.

    88. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Tacticus.v1 · · Score: 1

      As long as you watch the adjustments along the way

    89. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For laws that are even less specific, would you prefer to have the ability (or let others have the ability) to marry animals or inanimate objects?

      As far as I'm aware, contracts (marriage included) requires mutual consent. It's a pretty simple contractual arrangement, to be honest. Any two people can engage in a contract, provided they are legally able to consent.

      I'm not aware of any "animals or inanimate objects" capable of consent, are you?

      I'm also not aware of any clause in the constitution that allows the government to restrict contract rights between two willing parties who have legally given consent.

      If you remove the religious connotation and simply refer to it as "a mutual contract", you might start to see the absurdity of your claim.

    90. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by R2.0 · · Score: 1

      I'm not saying it's cut and dried, only that it differs from other situations that have presented itself to US policy, culture, and jurisprudence.

      You illustrate the problem with your last line: "that's not an acceptable choice for most people." Perfectly true - but it IS a choice, unlike race.

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    91. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by Jesus_666 · · Score: 1

      Actually, I'm fairly certain that through surgery and creative use of bleach/pigments one could attempt to mask one's race. That does constitute a chioce, albeit one even more silly than becoming asexual.

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    92. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by glitch23 · · Score: 1

      If you remove the religious connotation and simply refer to it as "a mutual contract", you might start to see the absurdity of your claim.

      Using that logic, by removing the religious aspect of marriage a gay couple can still have a civil union ceremony to recognize their relationship. They have no legal right to a traditional marriage and they shouldn't be trying to hijack the religious institution of marriage, which occurs in the eyes of God, for their perverted reasons. It is absurd to allow them to take a religious institution, whose religious foundation is against homosexuality, and use it as their own.

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    93. Re:Sick of the anti-gay groups by nsteinme · · Score: 1

      You are the first person I have seen to ever use the term "Biblical morality" in a negative sense. Seriously, bravo.

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  5. Buzz Words! by jchawk · · Score: 1

    It's interesting that the poster was quick to point out that the website is SEO-optimized. Taking a look at the HTML it looks pretty clean to me with plenty of links but nothing out of the ordinary. The poster should also point out that the website uses lots of text, favors the color black and leans towards blue-colored-links because it's equally irrelevant.

    I'm not sure what his point is by this other then to make the post sound more emotional. I'm all for a good sensationalize but pointing out SEO-optimization in this context is stupid.

    1. Re:Buzz Words! by i_ate_god · · Score: 2, Informative

      Being SEO optimized == the persons name being indexed and associated with being anti gay.

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    2. Re:Buzz Words! by silentace · · Score: 1

      You could of just called him a douchebag for saying "SEO-optimized"... Maybe after the site was "SEO-optimized" he could go to the "ATM machine" to get some cash out. Then go pick up a "NIC card" to increase his SEO abilities. But your comment was rediculous anyways, because SEO would increase its probability of being more acurating archived/crawled by search bots.

    3. Re:Buzz Words! by jchawk · · Score: 1

      Using that logic posting on slashdot should associate all of us posters with being anti sex

      Oh wait... :-P

    4. Re:Buzz Words! by dzfoo · · Score: 1

      SEO = Search Engine Optimization
      SEO-optimized = Search Engine Optimization-optimized, or perhaps optimized for search engine optimization?

      What the heck does that mean?

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    5. Re:Buzz Words! by Abcd1234 · · Score: 1

      It's interesting that the poster was quick to point out that the website is SEO-optimized.

      Well, that's easy to explain. Now it's News for Nerds!

    6. Re:Buzz Words! by Jesus_666 · · Score: 1

      That the it was written in the HTML language using American ASCII (or possibly Unicode UTF-8 or the international ISO 8859-1) in a way that gives the Googlebot robot and similar HTTP protocol-based spiders easy access. That's a crude kind of SEO optimization but it's much better than wrapping everthing in an SWF Flash movie, for example.

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    7. Re:Buzz Words! by dzfoo · · Score: 1

      *whoosh!*

      My comment was making light of the semantics: SEO-optimization would meant that it is optimized for search engine optimization, not that it is optimized for the engine itself.

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    8. Re:Buzz Words! by Jesus_666 · · Score: 1

      *whooosh*

      If you remove the RAS syndrome jokes my post reduces to "they built a webcrawler-accessible website using regular HTML, which makes the website fairly SEO-friendly".

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  6. Wait a minute here by dkleinsc · · Score: 5, Insightful

    put the names of all people who publicly endorsed R-71 on a public, SEO-optimized website.

    So you're telling me that you can sue someone for publicly telling everyone (via a website) something you publicly told everyone?

    Look, mate, when you sign a petition, what you're doing is saying to anyone who cares to listen in the world that you endorse the views of the petition. If you aren't willing to attach your name to what the petition says, don't sign it.

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    1. Re:Wait a minute here by PhilHibbs · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Maybe they got the impression that voting was anonymous from the fact that it usually is in elections. Secret ballots are necessary for democracy to function free from intimidation - these people took part in a non-secret ballot, and now they are being intimidated, Q.E.D.

    2. Re:Wait a minute here by JerryLove · · Score: 1

      I seems that you can sue someone for a campaign to harrass and intimidate.

    3. Re:Wait a minute here by ZekoMal · · Score: 3, Insightful

      People who hate on gays don't want to be seen as horrible people; they're nice to gays in front of them but try to get them shut down. You know, like that psycho ex-girlfriend who meets up with your current girlfriend and convinces her you're a terrible person even though she hates the girlfriend's guts.

    4. Re:Wait a minute here by quantumplacet · · Score: 3, Insightful

      except they didn't go into a voting both and pull a lever or press a button. when you walk into a closed voting booth, there's a presumption of anonymity. when you sign a petition a street corner, there is not.

    5. Re:Wait a minute here by L4t3r4lu5 · · Score: 1

      Or, they didn't vote at all.

      Sincerely,

      Phil Hibbs ( snarks@@g_m_a_il.c&om )

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    6. Re:Wait a minute here by ThrowAwaySociety · · Score: 1

      People who hate on gays...

      How does one hate on something?

    7. Re:Wait a minute here by DarkOx · · Score: 5, Insightful

      The are not being intimidated. If having your name put on website that lists your participation in a public action counts as intimidation then virtually anything does. I also find the argument people not understanding the difference between a circulating petition and a balloted election a bit of stretch.

      Secret ballot elections make sense, because we want people to be able to vote their conscience free from social pressure. I don't think though anonymity should be an expectation when you are participating in a public debate, and a petition is a form of participation.

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    8. Re:Wait a minute here by Speare · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Signing a petition does not mean that you agree with the views of the petitioner, it just means that you agree that the issue should be brought to a wider vote to decide the matter. I've known plenty of people who would sign pretty much any referendum or initiative in the states that have that process. In their view, it just airs more discussion and opportunities for democracy.

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    9. Re:Wait a minute here by friday_drag.net · · Score: 3, Insightful

      No when you sign a petition you saying that you think the issue is worthy of voting on, not that you agree or disagree - only that you want the matter settled by the voters.

    10. Re:Wait a minute here by RobotRunAmok · · Score: 1, Insightful

      People who hate on gays don't want to be seen as horrible people

      Careful, there's a baby in that bathwater.

      People who are opposed to same-sex marriage don't necessarily "hate on gays." They're just... opposed to same-sex marriage. In fact, it's this broad-stroke-painted stereotype of everyone who opposes gay marriage as no-necked, knuckle-dragging, fag-bashing, Republican-voting, Judy-Garland-hating neanderthals that the peeps who voted for this in Washington state are trying to avoid getting tarred with. Their opposition has done a real good job of perpetuating that stereotype, and it's no more valid than the one of gays as all being lisping, limp-wristed nancy boys.

      You want to know the biggest block of demographic opposition to gay marriage? Blacks and Latinos, particularly Mexican immigrants. And you wonder why Obama has back-burnered GLBT issues now that he's been elected...

    11. Re:Wait a minute here by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The are not being intimidated. If having your name put on website that lists your participation in a public action counts as intimidation then virtually anything does.

      So what was the point of the web site then? Would you hold the same position if an evangelical Christian organization published a web site containing the names of people who signed a pro-gay marriage petition, or would that somehow be different?

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    12. Re:Wait a minute here by shentino · · Score: 1

      There's nothing wrong by itself with supporting a petition.

      The trouble comes when assholes try to use your support of said petition as an excuse to attack you.

      I'm willing to stand up for my views. What I'm *not* as willing to do is be a martyr for my cause.

    13. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      And the difference is..?

      Nothing.

      If you don't think same-sex marriage should happen, then heterosexual marriage shouldn't happen either. Divorces should never be allowed and split marriages should have all their children wards of the state. All unmarried pregnancies must be terminated.

      And so on.

      Either that or there's something you have against gay men and women.

    14. Re:Wait a minute here by vlm · · Score: 1

      Signing a petition does not mean that you agree with the views of the petitioner, it just means that you agree that the issue should be brought to a wider vote to decide the matter.

      Even worse, having your name on a petition, doesn't mean you signed the petition, but it does mean you might be harassed.

      If there is a valid notary stamp next to my name, I can sue the notary for utter failure to verify my identity, instead of the petition organizers for publicly defaming my character. Either way, someone is going to have a very bad day if they can't prove it was me who signed it.

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    15. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 4, Insightful

      People who are opposed to same-sex marriage don't necessarily "hate on gays." They're just... opposed to same-sex marriage.

      Oh really? Name one intellectually honest reason for someone to oppose same-sex marriage that isn't rooted in hate. I've read lots and lots of the PR by the anti crowd and its either obviously hate-based, or completely dishonest (citing the bible with the hypocrisy of picking and choosing which passages are OK to ignore).

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    16. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maybe they got the impression that voting was anonymous from the fact that it usually is in elections.

      Maybe they are idiots.

      They signed their name on the petition. Who signs a secret ballot?

    17. Re:Wait a minute here by amplt1337 · · Score: 1

      Oh Christ. See definition 3.
      Modern colloquial English -- do you speak it?

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    18. Re:Wait a minute here by thisnamestoolong · · Score: 3, Insightful

      People who are opposed to same-sex marriage don't necessarily "hate on gays." They're just... opposed to same-sex marriage. In fact, it's this broad-stroke-painted stereotype of everyone who opposes gay marriage as no-necked, knuckle-dragging, fag-bashing, Republican-voting, Judy-Garland-hating neanderthals that the peeps who voted for this in Washington state are trying to avoid getting tarred with. Their opposition has done a real good job of perpetuating that stereotype, and it's no more valid than the one of gays as all being lisping, limp-wristed nancy boys.

      This is a good point, and an important distinction. However, we do need to be clear about the fact that these people (anti-gay marriage advocates) are looking to have legislation passed to limit the rights of a whole sector of society, and they need to be taken to task for it. That is like saying that Strom Thurmond didn't "hate on blacks" He was just... in support of segregation. Like I said, your point is well taken, and the distinction certainly needs to be taken into account, but there comes a point where we need to draw a line in the sand as to what we will and will not consider to be acceptable behavior in a free society.

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    19. Re:Wait a minute here by amplt1337 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You want to know the biggest block of demographic opposition to gay marriage? Blacks and Latinos

      Right. Those groups have particularly negative views of homosexuality and gay people. This significantly weakens your earlier point about opposition to same-sex marriage not necessarily being opposition to gay people...

      That said, there is no justification for opposition to same-sex civil marriage that doesn't (a) reduce to homophobia or (b) apply equally strongly to anti-miscegenation laws (which are much more widely recognized as undue limitations on freedom). That's where the stereotype comes from. Maybe people who want laws to take away the rights of others would like to think of themselves as perfectly reasonable, nice, principled people; but sadly, that refuge isn't available to you once you're taking away other people's rights, whatever your self-justification.

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    20. Re:Wait a minute here by b4dc0d3r · · Score: 1, Insightful

      If someone asks me to sign, in person, a real live petition, then at least one person saw me sign it. I'm not doing it in a private location, therefore I would have no expectation of privacy. Signing in a private location in front of someone removes the expectation of privacy. Signing something expecting that it will influence politics should remove the expectation of privacy.

      In this case, the process is to submit names and they are collected and verified by the Secretary of State. Unless these people are supremely ignorant, or are ashamed about what they have done, there is no reason for them to even think for a moment they qualify for privacy about this. Anyone can go look them up already, especially those with bad intentions.

      In other words, this changes nothing for the people who signed. This is not a ballot, not signed in a voting machine. If the people who gathered these signatures misled the signators, THAT is the real problem.

    21. Re:Wait a minute here by mpe · · Score: 1

      So what was the point of the web site then? Would you hold the same position if an evangelical Christian organization published a web site containing the names of people who signed a pro-gay marriage petition, or would that somehow be different?

      A petition to have something put to a public vote dosn't tell you have many of the petitioners are pro, how many are anti or how many are undecided but think the issue should be decided by some form of public vote.

    22. Re:Wait a minute here by arb+phd+slp · · Score: 1

      People who hate on gays...

      How does one hate on something?

      Language evolves. This is a relatively new use of an old verb that has entered common usage with relatively little opposition, so I anticipate it will be standard in a generation or so. It's a little slangy now, and the types of people who use that structure are those who you wouldn't want on your lawn.

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    23. Re:Wait a minute here by Tacvek · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Signing a petition does not mean that you agree with the views of the petitioner, it just means that you agree that the issue should be brought to a wider vote to decide the matter. I've known plenty of people who would sign pretty much any referendum or initiative in the states that have that process. In their view, it just airs more discussion and opportunities for democracy.

      That may the biggest issue of all.

      Is it completely implausible that some of the petition signers actually support gay rights, and were pretty confident (perhaps naively) that if it came to a vote, allowing same-sex civil unions would be upheld, making the matter settled?

      The assumption that all signers actually supported ending same-sex civil unions is the real problem. If the website in question gave that impression, then defamation lawsuits (or perhaps even libel lawsuits) may be fully justified.

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    24. Re:Wait a minute here by Duradin · · Score: 4, Insightful

      One could have the view that:

      Marriage is a societal contract. This contract evolved so that offspring would be provided for by the 'father' and to contain the spread of venereal disease. Marriage creates a construct that will allow for public shaming for extra-marital affairs as well as legal consequences. As such, marriage is basically pregnancy insurance.

      The other function of marriage is to allow for easier property transitions after a death of someone in the "family". A boilerplate legal document of sorts that existed before everyone had access to lawyers. Spouse gets X, descendants get Y, state gets Z.

      The concept of romantic (or any other love) is actually foreign to marriage and should not be considered as part of it.

      So to sum up: just because you "love" (or lust after) someone does not mean that you should be married to them. In fact, with modern contraceptive measures, marriage shouldn't be as necessary. Unfortunately religious and romantic ideals have become intertwined with a legal concept.

      Now, for legal benefits that come with a marriage license, those options should be available through other means for people to establish a legal equivalent to a spouse or household.

      Personally, I don't care who marries what, though I do wonder why same sex couples are trying so hard to be as miserable as hetero couples. Work for the legal benefits, avoid the societal drawbacks.

    25. Re:Wait a minute here by Kaboom13 · · Score: 1

      The are not being intimidated. If having your name put on website that lists your participation in a public action counts as intimidation then virtually anything does.

      So what was the point of the web site then? Would you hold the same position if an evangelical Christian organization published a web site containing the names of people who signed a pro-gay marriage petition, or would that somehow be different?

      If I signed a petition of my own free will, in clear understanding of what it was for, in good conscience, then I would not care if they ran tv ads 24/7 on Fox news about it. I don't sign every petition some college kid trying to make a quick buck tosses in my face, so I don't have anything to worry about. I suppose if I signed something I was ashamed of, because it revealed that despite the tolerant face I show in public, I am a close minded bigot that likes to oppress people different from me, I might have a problem with it.

    26. Re:Wait a minute here by Abcd1234 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You want to know the biggest block of demographic opposition to gay marriage? Blacks and Latinos

      So, what... blacks and latinos can't hate gays? Interesting, given both communities are known for being deeply intolerant toward homosexuals (which is sadly ironic):

      Latinos do not differ from Whites and are more tolerant thati Blacks on the morality dimension of attitudes toward homosexuality but are less tolerant than either of the other groups on the dimension measuring approval of civil liberties for homosexuals.

      Citation:

      In fact, even after homosexuals emerged, like Blacks a generation earlier, as an offi-
      cial "minority" (Barron 1975), research has shown that African Americans possess
      disproportionately negative attitudes toward homosexuals (Lorde 1978; Staples 1981).

      Citation:

      So all you've illustrated is that those who hate gays aren't "no-necked, knuckle-dragging, fag-bashing, Republican-voting, Judy-Garland-hating neanderthals"... rather, they're "no-necked, knuckle-dragging, fag-bashing, Republican-voting, Judy-Garland-hating neanderthals", and/or black/latino. They, nevertheless, still hate gays, and their opposition to same-sex marriage is simply a symptom of that fact.

    27. Re:Wait a minute here by mpe · · Score: 1

      Signing a petition does not mean that you agree with the views of the petitioner,

      Unless the petition specifically states this.

      it just means that you agree that the issue should be brought to a wider vote to decide the matter. I've known plenty of people who would sign pretty much any referendum or initiative in the states that have that process.

      A person signing such a petition need have no strong views either way about the issue in question. Just that they want it drawn to the attention of people who do.
      Similarly someone may sign multiple petitions to nominate someone as a candidate on the basis of "the more the better".

    28. Re:Wait a minute here by dkleinsc · · Score: 2, Insightful

      (I'm pro-gay marriage, btw, but this goes for the opposing view as well)

      If I sign my name to a petition, and someone publishes just my name, I have no problem with it. There's actually a benefit to me in some ways: if a news organization starts looking for people with my views and picks someone to talk to at random, then I get a chance to make the best case I can for my position to a public audience.

      Is there a slight risk? Of course. But if I wanted to assume absolutely no risk of retaliation for my political opinions, I'd post as an Anonymous Coward to an Internet forum after going through Tor or some other anonymizer.

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    29. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      Are you responding to my request for a rational reason to oppose gay marriage? Because if you are, I don't see it in your response.

      Your point about societal contract for the support of offspring, prevention of VD via encouraging monogamy all apply to gay marriage too. Its not like gays don't adopt kids, monogamy reduces the spread of vd among gay people too.

      Your point about property transfers applies equally to gay and straight marriage.

      Your point about love marriage versus, what? arranged marraige? is also just applicable to gays as it is to anyone else.

      So, in summary, either you meant to respond to someone else, or you really didn't think your arguments through very well.

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    30. Re:Wait a minute here by mpe · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Name one intellectually honest reason for someone to oppose same-sex marriage that isn't rooted in hate.

      Someone who is against state involvement in people's relationships might well oppose all marriage.

    31. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Name one intellectually honest reason for someone to oppose same-sex marriage that isn't rooted in hate.

      Someone who is against state involvement in people's relationships might well oppose all marriage.

      Then opposing gay marriage without making the same, or even greater level of effort to oppose straight marriage (since it's already established and will require significantly more work to overturn) is intellectually dishonest.

      How is that not obvious?

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    32. Re:Wait a minute here by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      I love the implied premise of social constructivist bigotry. Blacks and Latinos? How could they possibly be as uninformed and ignorant as the ol' standby scapegoat, white males? You know, never mind the gay Mexicans who have sought asylum in the US because they are afraid that in their home country they would be murdered in the street for their sexuality. And everybody knows how gay friendly the black community is, so this is totally about marriage and marriage alone for these saintly, flawless, and open-minded liberal minority demographics.

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    33. Re:Wait a minute here by rantingkitten · · Score: 2, Interesting

      People who are opposed to same-sex marriage don't necessarily "hate on gays." They're just... opposed to same-sex marriage.

      Other than pure spite, what possible incentive or reasoning would someone have for being opposed to gay marriage?

      I've only seen a few arguments and they're all either hateful or just plain goofy.

      One is "It doesn't fit with the tradition of marriage!" That goes into the "goofy" category; marriage was originally a way of joining two estates to secure more or better property rights in a family, or for bartering (your son can have my daughter's hand in marriage if you give me three goats and a cow). Children were raised by the mother, the father if he stuck around, and the community at large. We come from tribal hunter-gatherer ancestors, fellas -- they didn't have all this wedding-and-marriage stuff.

      Many cultures have accepted, or continue to accept bigamy, arranged marriages, forced marriage ("shotgun wedding" type, or slavery type), and other things that we wouldn't consider "traditional". It is only in our fairly modern, WASPy world that we think "marriage is between one man, one woman, and for love only" -- but there is absolutely nothing "traditional" about that.

      The other main argument always revolves around some aspect of "the gay agenda" or, less commonly, "the liberal agenda". Apparently all these gays only want to get married so they can adopt children, turn the children gay (probably using their mystic gay voodoo, passed gayly down from one gay generation to the next), and perpetuate their gayness. Or something. The "gay agenda" or "think of the children" argument is so left-field I can't even really figure out what the hell they're talking about, but it gets brought up every time.

      If someone could come up with a rational reason why gays shouldn't get married, and it actually made sense, wasn't some bigoted crap, and wasn't off in the loony bin, then maybe there'd be some merit to saying "I don't hate gays but I oppose gay marriage." I, however, have yet to see a rational argument, so I ask again: Why would anyone be opposed to gays getting married, except for the sick pleasure of denying someone else a right that most others enjoy?

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    34. Re:Wait a minute here by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Maybe they got the impression that voting was anonymous from the fact that it usually is in elections.

      The it sucks to be them; they should educate themselves. We do have these newfangled things called "books" these days, and I hear there are whole buildings full of them called "libraries". And there's this wierd new thing called "the internet".

      The is no longer any reason for ignorance about matters that concern you.

    35. Re:Wait a minute here by gzearfoss · · Score: 1

      Stupid trigger-happy moderation system, I was scrolling to something else, but accidentally selected off-topic - hence a reply to cancel the moderation.

      That being said, I agree with what you said - by taking an active role in opposing gay marriage, they are "hating on" gays. I agree that most don't fit the stereotype the grandparent post describes, but simply because a person doesn't meet that stereotype does not mean that they can't hate on gays.

    36. Re:Wait a minute here by R2.0 · · Score: 1

      "So, what... blacks and latinos can't hate gays? Interesting, given both communities are known for being deeply intolerant toward homosexuals (which is sadly ironic)"

      Why ironic? It's a natural consequence of identity politics, which is based on the premise that the pie is only so big and somebody else is getting too much of it. The gay community and racial minorities have absolutely nothing in common besides the belief that they have been shortchanged. While they have a "common enemy", there is no reason for them to be friends, ESPECIALLY when resources are viewed as a zero sum game. In that situation, everyone but your own group is a competitor, and the more they get, the less you have. I'd say that the gay community chose to participate in identity politics, but for the fact that the gay community as currently defined didn't EXIST before it started self identifying that way.

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    37. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That said, there is no justification for opposition to same-sex civil marriage that doesn't (a) reduce to homophobia or (b) apply equally strongly to anti-miscegenation laws (which are much more widely recognized as undue limitations on freedom).

      Except there is. As a straight man that has a roommate and friend that's a gay man, and is good friends with two lesbians, I don't believe I'm homophobic. Yet, I don't support gay marriage. It's really nothing personal. The primary reason I oppose gay marriage is because of the huge body of evidence which suggests that single motherhood produces unfit offspring. When you control for all other factors, single motherhood plays a huge role in the success of a child. In my view, many of the same issues that plague children that grow up in single parent households, will also plague those that are raised by same-sex couples. Therefore, given that marriage is designed to encourage family life, I do not support gay marriage as I feel it would be unfair to the child, and ultimately to society as a whole as they will ultimately have to pay for the child.

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    38. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Hate" is a very strong word. Unless you want to claim that everyone opposed to same-sex marriage is in favour of capital punishment for homosexual intercourse it's too strong.

    39. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      I should clarify a bit here. I'm not opposed to gay couples having children, in fact I think in some cases it would probably be beneficial, but I do oppose encouraging it in the general case. Perhaps there should be some sort of fitness test for marriage in general, so that anyone could marry whomever they choose, so long as it is actually in the best interest of society. Certainly there are a large number of homosexual couples that are considerably more able to care for children then some of the heterosexual couples that marry and pump out kids they can't take care of.

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    40. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Apparently you are oblivious. Do you also think horses and cows are of the same species? A PETITION IS NOT SECRET NOR DOES IT TAKE PLACE IN AN ELECTION. Think man, think.

    41. Re:Wait a minute here by Abcd1234 · · Score: 1

      The gay community and racial minorities have absolutely nothing in common besides the belief that they have been shortchanged.

      Shortchanged? You call being oppressed by the majority and denied rights "shortchanged"? Jebus...

      I suppose the Jews were just inconvenienced by Hitler?

      And yes, I just went Godwin on your ass.

      While they have a "common enemy", there is no reason for them to be friends

      Perhaps not. But it *is* pretty ironic that African Americans, that deeply oppressed group that're still climbing out of the hole dug by slavery, are now using their newly won rights to vote and participate in the public discourse to oppress another minority.

      No, wait, strike that. Not ironic. Unbelievably disgusting and hypocritical.

      ESPECIALLY when resources are viewed as a zero sum game. In that situation, everyone but your own group is a competitor, and the more they get, the less you have.

      And that's utterly absurd. What, you're telling me the black community secretly opposes gay marriage because they're afraid that if gays get rights, then blacks will lose theirs? Please.

      Frankly, your entire post is borderline bigoted. The idea that members of an oppressed minority who choose to band together and work as a group to win their rights are participating in "identity politics" is ridiculous, although it's certainly an effective way to trivialize the struggles and efforts of those groups.

      Let me guess: you're part of that nice, safe, white majority, aren't you?

    42. Re:Wait a minute here by dkleinsc · · Score: 1

      The petition in question should then read something like "I support putting a ban on gay marriage on the ballot for the election on Nov XX 200X."

      If you believe this statement, then there should be no shame in attaching your name to that statement.

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    43. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Name one intellectually honest reason for someone to oppose same-sex marriage that isn't rooted in hate.

      I don't believe the government should license marriage. Opposing "gay marriage" is a strategy to force government to abandon this practice.

    44. Re:Wait a minute here by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      Then opposing gay marriage without making the same, or even greater level of effort to oppose straight marriage (since it's already established and will require significantly more work to overturn) is intellectually dishonest.

      But we're talking petitions here. No one is standing on a corner asking for signatures to ban marriage altogether. I certainly see the sense in that position, and if there were such a petition, I could sign it. But there isn't, and I can at least limit the damage by signing the "overturn civil union" petition.

      (Hypothetically, that is. Personally, I'm supporting the civil union law.)

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    45. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      I don't believe the government should license marriage.
      Opposing "gay marriage" is a strategy to force government to abandon this practice.

      I don't believe the government should be in the business of supporting the insolvent.
      Opposing "Temporary Assistance for Needy Families" is a strategy to force government to abandon this practice.
      I'll worry about the hundreds of billions in corporate welfare once TANF is taken care of.

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    46. Re:Wait a minute here by Teetollar · · Score: 1

      I for one would enjoy seeing the empirical evidence that "many of the same issues that plague children that grow up in single parent households, will also plague those that are raised by same-sex couples." But fair enough, let's apply it equally. Given that approximately 34% of marriages end in divorce (thereby potentially leaving a child in a single parent home), let's arbitrarily deny recognition by the state for 34% of all marriages that occur. That should solve that problem, right? And I'm all for parental fitness being a pre-requisite for marriage. I know plenty of straight couples that have done a terrible job raising children.

    47. Re:Wait a minute here by Fished · · Score: 1

      How about this: the purpose of marriage as a social contract is to provide for the care, feeding, and raising of children. Children are a product of heterosexual relationships, not homosexual relationships. Public parity for homosexual relationships with heterosexual is part of a larger weakening of the marriage covenant that has had horrible impacts on children.

      Real example: my wife abandoned me and our 4 children, two of whom have autism. Her excuse? She wanted to be "free to be bisexual." Does that mean that she went for a stable, committed, bisexual relationship? Is there even such a thing? Hardly. What it really meant was that she didn't want to by a parent anymore and the GLBT community tells her she's a hero for walking out on her kids.

      Sorry, but I find the whole thing repulsive. Not because of the "ick factor", but because of the lust factor. Marriage is supposed to be about more than sex, it's supposed to be about children, and gay marriage isn't about that.

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    48. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      And I'm all for parental fitness being a pre-requisite for marriage. I know plenty of straight couples that have done a terrible job raising children.

      Exactly. The problem isn't gay marriage in particular, it's marriage itself. If we are going to provide huge tax incentives for people to marry and have kids, they should apply to everyone that is fit, but only to those that are fit. As far as I can tell there is no empirical evidence either way for same-sex couples, single parenthood is the closest relationship I can draw.

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    49. Re:Wait a minute here by ljgshkg · · Score: 1

      I am one who don't hate gay and oppose to same-sex marriage. And I put the simplist reason is... why it ever existed in the first place. And it's because of the celebration/symbol of the birth of new life. Human wouldn't have male or female if not because of reproduction. And marriage wouldn't exist without that. Same sex can't reproduce naturally, which already break the basic of marrage. I'm fine if you say it's same-sex union or whatever term you want to say. It is something "new" and it's your private life. But it simply doesn't have the ground of "marriage", hence shouldn't be related to "marriage". Different is different. In Chinese history, there're gays all along and some emperors or high officals don't even try to hide it (well, so as the normal gays, but they're not recorded in history clearly, so I wouldn't use those as example). Unlike in the west, Chinese people talk about it for fun but they don't really care about it. Now, if you try to change what "marriage" is, that's totally differnt thing. You need to seperate "private event" and "offical cerimonies" clearly. They may be related, but they are totally different things and have different importance. Offical cerimonies has its place in stablization of society (and its structure). While private things, nobody care except your family and friends. They are not the same thing.

    50. Re:Wait a minute here by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      So, because being a single parent is difficult, there should be laws to prevent households from having two parents.

      Um, yeah

    51. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      No one is standing on a corner asking for signatures to ban marriage altogether.

      So... they are too lazy to put together their own petition for the full abolition of marriage, but signing a petition that only addresses about 2% of the issue and ignores 98% of it is just the amount of level of effort they are willing to commit to. That level of laziness qualifies as intellectually dishonest in my book.

      Besides, the question wasn't about why they signed or didn't sign, it was why they oppose or don't oppose. Opposing all marriage requires no more work than just opposing gay marriage.

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    52. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      Because being raised by a person of only one gender is bad, it very well may be just as bad to be raised by two people of only one gender.

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    53. Re:Wait a minute here by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      I saw a great commercial the other night. I was up in Maine for the weekend, and the argument for banning gay marriage was that children in Massachusetts had started asking their teachers about gay sex, and nobody wants that to happen in Maine. I was almost completely speechless, only managing to say, "Wait, what?"

    54. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      Sorry, but I find the whole thing repulsive. Not because of the "ick factor", but because of the lust factor. Marriage is supposed to be about more than sex, it's supposed to be about children, and gay marriage isn't about that.

      Thanks for demonstrating my point. You are so emotionally wrapped up in your anger at your wife that you can't even put together a logical argument. You equate gay marriage with lust and sex - and yet marriage is not a requirement for lust or sex at all, if anything marriage is the opposite of lust and sex and a commitment to monogamy.

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    55. Re:Wait a minute here by Teetollar · · Score: 1

      Right, but my question is still why you take single parent homes as your analogue? I don't dispute that a child raised by a same-sex couple might face some unique challenges. But I think they would be unique ones, not those analogous with single parent families. Is your argument that same sex couples have a greater rate of parental absenteeism for some reason? I'm not trying to tell you anything, I'm curious what your reasoning is.

      On the larger issue, I agree with your philosophy, but a lack of equal application of the law still exists in the status quo, no? If we're going to accept that this thing called "marriage" exists and grants certain legal benefits to people who are "married", then those benefits ought to be applied evenly across society, not limited without compelling reason. When the day comes to remove marriage recognition across the board, I'll be shoulder to shoulder with you, but until then I don't see a compelling reason to arbitrarily limit the definition of "marriage".

    56. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      Human wouldn't have male or female if not because of reproduction. And marriage wouldn't exist without that.

      Ah, the old marriage is for procreation-only argument. Unless you are willing to deny marriage to infertile couples and those who simply choose not to have children and also forbid adoption by anyone - singles and couples, gay and straight, you are just hiding behind bad logic.

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    57. Re:Wait a minute here by doktor-hladnjak · · Score: 1

      Who would decide whose marriages are "in the best interest of society" and what criteria would be used?

      It would be hard to nail down fair, clear criteria unless it was something very simple like couples can only be married if they are currently raising minor children. Study after study (http://www.apa.org/pi/parent.html) has shown that kids raised by 2 gay parents fare about as well as those raised by 2 straight parents. The more significant component seems to be having two actively involved parents raising a child, rather than their specific gender or sexual orientation. Even then, there are plenty of single parents who do a much better job of raising their children than many couples, even married couples who are the biological parents of the child.

      Most importantly though, it's undeniable that people (straight, gay, single, coupled) are going to continue having children regardless of their ability to marry. Don't those children deserve the protections conferred by the parents raising them being able to marry?

      Even taking children out of the equation, there is a clear case to be made for supporting marriage. I mean, nobody's ever worked hard to ban or dissolve the marriages of people who either could not have or chose not to have children, right? Married people tend to fare better than those who are single with regard to happiness, longevity and health.

    58. Re:Wait a minute here by R2.0 · · Score: 1

      Your reply speaks volumes.

      I won't address your first comment except to say that it takes great big balls, and very few brains, to compare the denial of rights the gay rights community suffers to Jews in the Holocaust. For that matter, if I were you I'd be expecting a visit from the ghosts of all the dead gays that were killed as well - they might want to speak to you about what the word "oppression" really means.

      As for the rest of your response, you complain that it is ironic that other minority groups, having moved up in the world, are now helping keep another minority group down. You apparently expect that other minority groups would use their new found power to help lift others up. I merely pointed out the naivete of that idea. Not only is it completely historically inaccurate, the entire underpinnings of identity politics RELIES on the idea that a gain for someone else is a loss for yourself. It's not about rights - it's about power. Not only is there no reason for blacks to care about gay civil rights, to do so would be to dilute the power they have gained. The leaders of the black community have been playing this game for years - the individuals in their constituency either doesn't care or are actively hostile to gay rights, mostly for religious and cultural reasons. What incentive is there for that leader to try to change their minds?

      As for your last ad hominem, puhleese. "Members of an oppressed minority who choose to band together and work as a group to win their rights" is the very DEFINITION of identity politics, at least when you are operating politically. It defines it, not trivializes it. Identity politics has been massively influential in the shaping of US policy and law for decades, and has gotten a lot of results for both political parties, as well as substantial power gains for various players. While I personally believe that the long term effects of such a strategy are awful, it certainly works for increasing a group's political power in the interim. I just think you need to get off your high horse about the moral qualities of other minority groups.

      Finally, yes, I am male, and white (neither of which are majorities, btw). I am also Roman Catholic, Italian descent, German descent, an engineer, and prematurely gray - also minorities. So what? If I claimed I was handicapped, would that somehow make the facts of what I just said more true?

      Yes, I am a bigot - I believe that the opinions of people who are idiots are not to be given credence. I guess we have something in common then? Lets form a movement.

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    59. Re:Wait a minute here by Abcd1234 · · Score: 1

      Yet, I don't support gay marriage. It's really nothing personal. The primary reason I oppose gay marriage is because of the huge body of evidence which suggests that single motherhood produces unfit offspring.

      Wait wait... what?

      You don't support gay *marriage* because *single parent* households produce "unfit offspring"? Ignoring for the moment your assertion that single parent households are bad (something I suspect is wrong... my guess is that single parent household == "unfit offspring" is a case of correlation without causation), wouldn't allowing gay marriage create more *two-parent* households?

      In my view, many of the same issues that plague children that grow up in single parent households, will also plague those that are raised by same-sex couples.

      Uhuh. Yeah, that's not bigoted at all. ::rollseyes::

      I suppose you have some evidence for this utterly absurd notion? Hell, do you even understand what the "issues" are that "plague children that grow up in single parent households"? Because I do, having grown up in one. The biggest are reduced household income and decreased parental involvement because they're busying making ends meet. A dual-parent, same-sex couple, on the other hand, has all the advantages a hetero couple has: either a dual income, or a single income plus a dedicated parent who can stay at home.

      Therefore, given that marriage is designed to encourage family life,

      It is, is it! Well, shit, I better tell my wife... we don't plan to have kids, but we're married. I guess we better get divorced as, evidently, our marriage isn't meeting the design requirements.

      I do not support gay marriage as I feel it would be unfair to the child

      Uh, what child? The child who lives in a two-parent household where the parents aren't allowed to formalize their relationship? Yeah... good job defending that poor, innocent child.

    60. Re:Wait a minute here by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Look, mate, when you sign a petition, what you're doing is saying to anyone who cares to listen in the world that you endorse the views of the petition. If you aren't willing to attach your name to what the petition says, don't sign it.

      Maybe those who are so upset by this got some 'compensation' for signing. Things they'd rather their family not know about - and firmly sealing their fate by protesting.

      One would have to be pretty wound up to not take, "I thought their issue deserved a fair up-or-down vote," as a principled stance.

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    61. Re:Wait a minute here by pbhj · · Score: 1

      Most laws take away the rights of people. Road laws take away your right to drive high speed through the center of a town, for example. Drug laws take away your right to sell heroin on the street corner, etc..

    62. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      Who would decide whose marriages are "in the best interest of society" and what criteria would be used?

      Not sure who would decide exactly, but I don't see why you couldn't use criteria like annual income after taxes, employment status (how often are you employed), and criminal status (i.e. have you been convicted of sex crimes against children, other crimes).

      It would be hard to nail down fair, clear criteria unless it was something very simple like couples can only be married if they are currently raising minor children. Study after study (http://www.apa.org/pi/parent.html) has shown that kids raised by 2 gay parents fare about as well as those raised by 2 straight parents. The more significant component seems to be having two actively involved parents raising a child, rather than their specific gender or sexual orientation. Even then, there are plenty of single parents who do a much better job of raising their children than many couples, even married couples who are the biological parents of the child.

      I am sure it is, right now. It's considerably more expensive to have children as a gay couple now, than it is as a straight couple. There is the cost associated with artificial insemination, surrogacy, or adoption. It would only make sense that those gay couples that are most fit are those that are having children now. I would expect that their children actually perform better than most, if they don't, it wouldn't bode well for children of same-sex couples.

      Most importantly though, it's undeniable that people (straight, gay, single, coupled) are going to continue having children regardless of their ability to marry. Don't those children deserve the protections conferred by the parents raising them being able to marry?

      By providing tax credits, we promote certain practices. This has real effects on the number of people that engage in a practice. They should still be able to marry, just not receive any tax benefits for doing so.

      Even taking children out of the equation, there is a clear case to be made for supporting marriage. I mean, nobody's ever worked hard to ban or dissolve the marriages of people who either could not have or chose not to have children, right? Married people tend to fare better than those who are single with regard to happiness, longevity and health.

      I'd agree with that, but it's not really marriage that I'm opposed to, it's the tax benefits associated with marriage. If they are unfit parents, they should still be able to commit to each other, just receive no tax benefits for doing so.

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    63. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Within the rights-based understanding of society, you might have a point. But there are other understandings of society that think there is an objectively best form of human flourishing. Within such an understanding, one could say from an analysis of human biology that the ideal form of adult flourishing is a relationship between a man and a woman that includes sex and commitment.

      This does not reduce to (a) nor does it apply to (b). Instead, it builds this on an idea of science. That science being that biologically you need a male and female for genes to survive.

    64. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      Right, but my question is still why you take single parent homes as your analogue? I don't dispute that a child raised by a same-sex couple might face some unique challenges. But I think they would be unique ones, not those analogous with single parent families. Is your argument that same sex couples have a greater rate of parental absenteeism for some reason? I'm not trying to tell you anything, I'm curious what your reasoning is.

      My assertion is that the primary reason children raised by a parent of a single gender are at a disadvantage is because of their limited experience in dealing with people of the gender that their parent isn't. In much the same way, the child of a same-sex female couple would be at a disadvantage because they don't have a male influence. In short, there doesn't seem to be enough empirical evidence one way or the other, so an analogy must be used.

      I think it's quite alright for anyone to marry whomever they choose, so long as there are no tax benefits. As soon as there are tax benefits, we're encouraging a behavior; in this case I believe the behavior would be detrimental. Therefore, in the interest of fairness, anyone should be able to marry anyone, but there should be a fitness requirement to receive tax benefits.

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    65. Re:Wait a minute here by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      Would you hold the same position if an evangelical Christian organization published a web site containing the names of people who signed a pro-gay marriage petition, or would that somehow be different?

      I can tell you that I, personally, would be proud to have my name on such a petition that, apparently, annoyed Christian Right so much that they would bother to create such a web site for it. If they wish to publicize the fact that I oppose them, so much the better; more people will know where I stand (and by their reaction I will know which ones aren't worth the bother of ever interacting with).

      Now, if I started to get intimidating phone calls and such because of such a list, I would definitely pursue all legal means to stop that and punish the people trying to intimidate me. But that's a different story.

    66. Re:Wait a minute here by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      The concept of romantic (or any other love) is actually foreign to marriage and should not be considered as part of it.

      Wake up; this isn't 18th century.

    67. Re:Wait a minute here by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      In my view, many of the same issues that plague children that grow up in single parent households, will also plague those that are raised by same-sex couples. Therefore, given that marriage is designed to encourage family life, I do not support gay marriage

      You have the wrong premise that "marriage is designed to encourage family life", implying children here. This hasn't been true for several decades in the West. For your position, it would be more logical to campaign against gays adopting children, not against gay marriage (especially since they don't need to be married to adopt).

      On a side note, some time ago I actually held views similar to yours - that raising children in a gay marriage is bad for those children and therefore should be banned. However, I had since seen enough studies on the subject to know that this is simply not true: there are no abnormalities in children raised by gay couples, and in particular (the favorite scare point), they aren't themselves more likely to become gay.

      When you control for all other factors, single motherhood plays a huge role in the success of a child.

      I'm not sure how this factors into it at all. It's fairly obvious that any marriage, gay or not, isn't "single", pretty much by definition.

    68. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure how this factors into it at all. It's fairly obvious that any marriage, gay or not, isn't "single", pretty much by definition.

      Single parents and gay parents have one distinct commonality, they are raised by parents of a single gender.

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    69. Re:Wait a minute here by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      Almost all married couples eventually have children. The financial benefits of marriage help support the couple pre- and post-birth. Maybe these benefits should be scaled back or more closely tied to the children, but most gay couples do not adopt, and society should not be paying them to fuck unproductively.

    70. Re:Wait a minute here by samuraiz · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It would, in fact, be different.

      Religious homophobes and religious abortion protesters are intersecting communities- right-wing religious extremists. There's a history of murder and terrorism in America's right-wing religious extremist fringe, and a history of hit lists being posted to the internet, ostensibly to shame but too often resulting in the listed people being targeted for violence.

      When gay marriage activists publish a list, it really is just a shame list.

    71. Re:Wait a minute here by Teetollar · · Score: 1

      Interesting, but parents disadvantage their children in many ways. Your same argument would apply to Black couples, or poor couples. Yet we "encourage" those people to get married, yes?

    72. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In fact, it's this broad-stroke-painted stereotype of everyone who opposes gay marriage as no-necked, knuckle-dragging, fag-bashing, Republican-voting, Judy-Garland-hating neanderthals that the peeps who voted for this in Washington state are trying to avoid getting tarred with. Their opposition has done a real good job of perpetuating that stereotype, and it's no more valid than the one of gays as all being lisping, limp-wristed nancy boys.

      You want to know the biggest block of demographic opposition to gay marriage? Blacks and Latinos, particularly Mexican immigrants.

      OK, I'll agree with you that they don't vote Republican... but what's with all the racist talk? :)

    73. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How about one rooted in love? What if someone believes that you can't get into heaven if you have been involved in a gay-marriage. Therefore that person would see gay-marriage as hurting other people. Since that person loves other people, and doesn't want to see them hurt, they do everything they can to prevent the person from entering into a gay-marriage.

      Of course you would say that that person shouldn't force their beliefs on other people. But the person would say that they to not act in that manner would be hurtful to the other person and not kind.

    74. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      For your position, it would be more logical to campaign against gays adopting children, not against gay marriage (especially since they don't need to be married to adopt).

      Forgot this bit. I have no problem with that, it's not encouraged with tax breaks. I don't think that any particular gay couple is any less fit than any particular straight couple, or any particular single person for that matter. To encourage it through tax breaks, however, I think every married couple should be required to prove fitness.

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    75. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      Therefore that person would see gay-marriage as hurting other people. Since that person loves other people, and doesn't want to see them hurt, they do everything they can to prevent the person from entering into a gay-marriage.

      Just like that justice of the peace in Louisiana. Only looking out for other people, what amazing selflessness.

      Of course you would say that that person shouldn't force their beliefs on other people.

      Uh yeah. Unless this person is happy to accept everyone else in the world forcing their beliefs upon himself, in a loving way of course, then he's a hypocrite.

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    76. Re:Wait a minute here by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      Single parents and gay parents have one distinct commonality, they are raised by parents of a single gender.

      Yes, but this doesn't mean that studies applying to single parents are automatically applicable to gay couples. After all, you do not know if problems that children of single parents have are attributable to gender.

      The correct way to evaluate it is to have a study on both single parents, and gay couples. Both such studies exist, and, so far as I know, no study on gay couples demonstrated any problems in child development in such families.

    77. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      Yet, I don't support gay marriage. It's really nothing personal. The primary reason I oppose gay marriage is because of the huge body of evidence which suggests that single motherhood produces unfit offspring.

      Wait wait... what?

      You don't support gay *marriage* because *single parent* households produce "unfit offspring"? Ignoring for the moment your assertion that single parent households are bad (something I suspect is wrong... my guess is that single parent household == "unfit offspring" is a case of correlation without causation), wouldn't allowing gay marriage create more *two-parent* households?

      There is a clear analogy between a child raised by one parent of a single gender, and two parents of a single gender. Is the problem lack of attention, or lack of exposure to people of multiple genders? There isn't enough evidence either way.

      In my view, many of the same issues that plague children that grow up in single parent households, will also plague those that are raised by same-sex couples.

      Uhuh. Yeah, that's not bigoted at all. ::rollseyes::

      I suppose you have some evidence for this utterly absurd notion? Hell, do you even understand what the "issues" are that "plague children that grow up in single parent households"? Because I do, having grown up in one. The biggest are reduced household income and decreased parental involvement because they're busying making ends meet. A dual-parent, same-sex couple, on the other hand, has all the advantages a hetero couple has: either a dual income, or a single income plus a dedicated parent who can stay at home.

      But only the influence of one gender. Men and women, contrary to political correctness, approach many situations differently. This bias is a disadvantage for a child.

      Therefore, given that marriage is designed to encourage family life,

      It is, is it! Well, shit, I better tell my wife... we don't plan to have kids, but we're married. I guess we better get divorced as, evidently, our marriage isn't meeting the design requirements.

      Isn't that what this is all about, the tax credits given to married couples for children. If it wasn't about money, then wouldn't civil commitment be good enough?

      I do not support gay marriage as I feel it would be unfair to the child

      Uh, what child? The child who lives in a two-parent household where the parents aren't allowed to formalize their relationship? Yeah... good job defending that poor, innocent child.

      The child raised by only men or only women.

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    78. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      The correct way to evaluate it is to have a study on both single parents, and gay couples. Both such studies exist, and, so far as I know, no study on gay couples demonstrated any problems in child development in such families.

      I'd agree with that, and I did take the time to look at some of those studies. The issue that I found with those studies is that they didn't match the socioeconomic background of the parents. At this point, rearing children as a gay couple is both expensive and difficult. Because of this, the majority of the gay couples that are currently raising children are quite fit for the task. By lowering the barriers of entry through tax breaks, tax credits, and the like, child rearing will be open to less fit couples. I'd like to see a study that compares middle-income or lower-income same-sex couples with equivalent heterosexual couples.

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    79. Re:Wait a minute here by Duradin · · Score: 1

      Marriage, as pregnancy insurance, doesn't really apply to the situation.

      Yes, people can adopt, but that is entirely different process that has its own safeguards to be sure society isn't over-burdened by abandoned adoptees.

      Monogamy is choice, whether or not one is married. Being polyarmorous while being married carries legally enforceable penalties which are there to make monogamy more appealing. Being married doesn't make you monogamous, it just makes it possibly very expensive to be otherwise.

      "Now, for legal benefits that come with a marriage license, those options should be available through other means for people to establish a legal equivalent to a spouse or household."

      The legal, religious, and romantic concepts of marriage have unfortunately been inseparably fused. If a couple wants to get married, generally at least two of the three are involved and if the third wasn't initially society will try to force it on the couple eventually. The point was that marriage, as is, doesn't really apply and we don't need to further complicate it by forcing it to cover what is wasn't meant to cover, at least in the legal sense. Religious and romantic contexts can go do whatever the hell they want to since they *shouldn't* being screwing with anyone not directly involved.

      So basically, the argument was gays shouldn't be legally married because marriage doesn't apply. What I didn't posit was that gays shouldn't be entitled to the same statuses and benefits through other means.

      I don't care really. You asked for something not based on hate. I said that one could make the case that marriage doesn't fit and thus itself shouldn't be used.

    80. Re:Wait a minute here by VisceralLogic · · Score: 1

      I think you're stretching the meaning of the word "hate" here. Someone may be against gay marriage because they believe it's sinful, but that doesn't mean they hate the practitioners... just that they want it not to be legal because they think it's wrong. See the difference?

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    81. Re:Wait a minute here by amplt1337 · · Score: 1

      Yes, indeed. However, most laws have a justification for doing so, in the probable harm that can be done by limitless exercise of those rights; and laws which arbitrarily deny a right to one group while permitting it to another, based solely on identity and without bona fide reason, are considered illegitimate.

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    82. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      Absolutely, that's why I believe that anyone should be able to marry, so long as they pass a fitness test. If they don't, they should still be able to commit civilly and receive all of the same benefits, except for any tax relief.

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    83. Re:Wait a minute here by jackbird · · Score: 1

      I knew a lesbian couple with a somewhat similar story - mom 1 left mom 2 in order to be straight, taking their kid (who mom 1 had given birth to) with her. Mom 2, despite having raised the child to the age of 3, was not married to mom 1 in any legal sense, and so now has no parental rights to, and no contact with, her child. Gay marriage, and yes, gay divorce, would have made the situation a lot more bearable for mom 2. PS - I know many members of the GLBT community who would rightly excoriate your ex-wife for her choices.

    84. Re:Wait a minute here by amplt1337 · · Score: 1

      Surely the "ideal form of adult flourishing" (I'm assuming you have controlled, peer-reviewed studies demonstrating this, hmm?) also includes a loving relationship. People who are gay do not generally experience romantic love, or sexual desire, for people of the opposite gender. Thus, regardless of marriage laws, you are stating they are fundamentally capable of experiencing human flourishing. This claim bears a substantial burden of proof.
      In any event, there is no basis for the claim that (legal) marriage is meant to "promote the ideal form of human flourishing." In civil law, it has very well-defined civil benefits having to do with property inheritance, visitation rights, etc.

      The view you propose equally demands laws stating that sexless marriages be forbidden, and that couples who do not intend to have children may not marry. Call me when you're willing to support a law that decides whether you can marry based on how often you have sex and whether you use condoms.

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    85. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      Almost all married couples eventually have children.

      I'm afraid you'll need to back that one up. 19% of women 40-44 are childless in the USA I would be surprised if less than quarter of them were unmarried, and yet that's going to be at least twice the number of potential gay marriages.

      Maybe these benefits should be scaled back or more closely tied to the children,

      Bingo. If marriage is really about kids then tying it to something non-kid is completely hypocritical.

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    86. Re:Wait a minute here by amplt1337 · · Score: 1

      I don't see why you couldn't use criteria like annual income after taxes, employment status (how often are you employed)...They should still be able to marry, just not receive any tax benefits for doing so.

      So, the State decides that you meet the wealth threshold, then gives you an additional tax break for breeding; while people who have children but do not meet the wealth threshold have disproportionately higher tax rates as a result? The people who are least financially equipped to raise children should have an additional financial burden to do so?

      You have not thought this through, methinks.

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    87. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      What I didn't posit was that gays shouldn't be entitled to the same statuses and benefits through other means.

      If it walks like a duck and it quacks like a duck, its a duck. If your only objection is to the NAME of something that is otherwise identical, then you aren't really objecting at all.

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    88. Re:Wait a minute here by amplt1337 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Is the problem lack of attention, or lack of exposure to people of multiple genders? There isn't enough evidence either way.

      Hogwash. Unless the child is raised in a lesbian commune, s/he will be exposed to plenty of people of varying genders -- teachers, non-parental relatives, friends, parents of friends... Many of these people might even have different personalities and identities outside of their gender roles!

      Men and women, contrary to political correctness, approach many situations differently.

      I'm not disagreeing with the assertion, but the problem is that variance within each gender is greater than stable variance between genders. Are you going to next ban marriages where the dad's a bit of a girlie-man?

      Isn't that what this is all about, the tax credits given to married couples for children. If it wasn't about money, then wouldn't civil commitment be good enough?

      Um, no. For one, there's inheritance rights within the couple. Or hospital visitation rights, tax inequality (regardless of the presence of children), right not to testify against a spouse, and a slew of other benefits.
      Gay people don't want marriage rights so that they can have children. (And most gay couples, married or no, are unlikely to have children accidentally...)

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    89. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      They shouldn't be breeding at all. By giving them tax credits, it encourages them to do so, to the detriment of everyone else. Look no further than the inner cities for proof of this, where welfare recipients have too many kids to increase their "paychecks".

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    90. Re:Wait a minute here by argStyopa · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "...the issue should be brought to a wider vote to decide the matter."

      And this is the crux.

      Gay activists do NOT want democracy on this issue. They are a fringe group representing perhaps 10% of the population (in their optimistic numbers), and they know it (not to mention their militancy is driving the broadly tolerant middle ground against them as well).

      They DON'T want a vote.
      The WANT to know who's 'opposing' this signing the petition.
      They have shown repeatedly that they have no problem with using intimidation and scare tactics to silence their opposition.

      I have a very good friend who is openly gay and Republican (yes, I keep telling him that he needs pictures in the wild to prove he's not a hoax). He has told me repeatedly that he is perfectly comfortable being a gay man in any Republican gathering, yet if he dares acknowledge his political views at a Pride rally, he risks his physical safety.

      He's opposed to gay marriage by the way; he said that letting the government have any say in hetero marriages was part of the reason they're so screwed up and valueless today.

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    91. Re:Wait a minute here by amplt1337 · · Score: 1

      it's not encouraged with tax breaks.

      This is actually incorrect, a gay person can file head of household as well as a single straight person. Both people could also claim the adopted child as a dependent.
      Marriage-based tax benefits are not tested according to whether one has children, and child-rearing benefits are not tested according to whether one is married.

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    92. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      I think you're stretching the meaning of the word "hate" here. Someone may be against gay marriage because they believe it's sinful, but that doesn't mean they hate the practitioners... just that they want it not to be legal because they think it's wrong. See the difference?

      Ah, the old hate the sin, love the sinner dodge.

      Also completely hypocritical for lots of reasons. For example people like that can't justify why they hate the sin without running into the original problem of picking and choosing what parts of their holy book they decide to follow and what parts they decide to ignore.

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    93. Re:Wait a minute here by amplt1337 · · Score: 1

      where welfare recipients have too many kids to increase their "paychecks".

      I'd love to see your evidence for that claim. Or even evidence that you've ever had any interaction with the welfare system whatsoever.

      It is absurd to claim that most people's child-rearing behavior is determined by financial concerns. Sadly, most children aren't planned at all; but the very people you accuse of maliciously having children to game the system are the people least likely to be practicing family planning.

      What I see in "the inner city" is people get pregnant, don't have access to abortions (or are infected with the notion that abortions are immoral), and are stuck raising children by themselves, while unable to qualify for anything more than a minimum-wage job which they struggle to keep due to the demands of parenthood.

      I would also suggest you should consider the idea that perhaps single motherhood wouldn't be such a death trap of continuing intergenerational poverty if there were more government support for children and parents who need it. Enforcing broader child-care-work-leave policies, providing child care so parents can have access to higher-paying jobs, and decreasing the costs of educational opportunities would all go a much longer way to improving the "fitness" of the entire population. Though I suppose it lacks social-darwinian appeal...

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    94. Re:Wait a minute here by gknoy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If I felt a petition was necessary to bring an issue to a vote (whether I supported it or not), and signed said petition, that's an expression of even more sincere (and public) support than a bumper sticker, sign on my yard, or banner on my roof. If I sign a petition, I don't care who knows it, because the petition is a way of explicitly saying to the world, "I think this needs to be voted on". ... I don't imagine myself signing a petition for something which I didn't support, though. I'd prefer that things I don't support never got on a ballot. ;)

    95. Re:Wait a minute here by Duradin · · Score: 1

      Names are quite powerful. Do you think the biblethumpers would even notice if any two people could file for "property and inheritance status subsection b paragraph one"?

      There's no holy "property and inheritance status subsection b paragraph one". No sanctity of "property and inheritance status subsection b paragraph one" to protect.

      Anyways, the two are ideas aren't exactly the same. We don't need to keep adding bloat to an already over-bloated definition boundary conditions be damned. The law needs refactoring.

    96. Re:Wait a minute here by skeeto · · Score: 1

      How about this: the purpose of marriage as a social contract is to provide for the care, feeding, and raising of children.

      So you are opposed to a sterile couple getting married too? Or a couple that doesn't plan on having kids? Or maybe your definition is just plain wrong.

      Does that mean that she went for a stable, committed, bisexual relationship? Is there even such a thing? Hardly.

      How the hell would you know? It seems you don't even know what a stable, committed hetero relationship is like either.

      Marriage is supposed to be about more than sex, it's supposed to be about children, and gay marriage isn't about that.

      What about love? Or what about gay couples that adopt?

      You really have no idea what you're talking about. You're just blinded by homophobia.

    97. Re:Wait a minute here by skeeto · · Score: 1

      In my view, many of the same issues that plague children that grow up in single parent households, will also plague those that are raised by same-sex couples.

      So based simply on your opinion, which is not founded by any sort of evidence, just your whim, you will deny someone their rights? That's nice.

      Therefore, given that marriage is designed to encourage family life,

      Wrong!

    98. Re:Wait a minute here by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      People have a right to tax breaks?

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    99. Re:Wait a minute here by skeeto · · Score: 1

      From that angle, straight couples do right now, yes. Your point?

    100. Re:Wait a minute here by xmundt · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Greetings and Salutations....
      While this is a huge discussion, I am moved to address some of the points you raise in this and your subsequent post.

      ...As a straight man that has a roommate and friend that's a gay man, and is good friends with two lesbians, I don't believe I'm homophobic. Yet, I don't support gay marriage. It's really nothing personal.

      Ok....and, my qualifications for holding the following opinions are that I am familiar with single and multi-parent families, and, have a number of friends who work for Department of Human Services. I, also, have a number of gay friends and acquaintances, and, my general opinion is that (gay or straight) what someone else chooses to do with a consenting adult is not only not any of my business, but, in general, is NOT something I want to know about.

      The primary reason I oppose gay marriage is because of the huge body of evidence which suggests that single motherhood produces unfit offspring.

      First off, with this, and a couple of other remarks you make in these postings, that you believe that the only way for the species to continue is through reproduction within the confines of marriage. The good news is that the species will continue, no matter WHAT, and marriage is not now, or ever has been, necessary for that.
      Now...as for the "huge body of evidence". Could you provide some citations for that? i can find a number of discussions and studies across the Net that indicate that a single parent rearing a child has a lot more challenges, but, so far, not one of them has shown that the children are "unfit". I would suggest that a more correct observation would be that "poor parenting" causes "unfit children". (and by "unfit", I mean children that grow up to be antisocial in the extreme, being caught in the net of drug abuse, hate, gangs, etc). All the citations I have been able to find consistently say that a parent who practices good parenting skills such as: maintaining communication with their children; giving them clear boundries and structure while they are growing up; instilling in them good rules for living a positive life, including respect for others, empathy, etc; are far more likely to produce well adjusted adults who fit into society and become good members of it.
      Oh, yes, I know there are likely a number of single FATHERS who might take issue with your insistence on "motherhood"...

      When you control for all other factors, single motherhood plays a huge role in the success of a child.

      As I pointed out above, a more apt way of putting it would be "good parenting plays a huge role in the success of a child".

      In my view, many of the same issues that plague children that grow up in single parent households, will also plague those that are raised by same-sex couples.

      I take issue with your opinion here, because you are comparing apples and oranges. You are comparing a single parent household with a two-parent household. Two parent households tend to be "better", because the two adults can share responsibilities in rearing the children, and, can supply some of the vital support for each other in times of trouble. Also, there is an economic benefit, in that two incomes added together tend to provide more cash at hand than ONE income. It is as if, in your mind, having a same sex couple causes the two people to merge together into a chimera of some sort, and, not maintain their individuality...needless to say, this is unlikely to happen in any kind of an equal relationship.

      Therefore, given that marriage is designed to encourage family life, I do not support gay marriage as I feel it would be unfair to the child, and ultimately to society as a whole as they will ultimately have to pay for the child.

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    101. Re:Wait a minute here by skeeto · · Score: 1

      Exactly! You hit the nail on the head with that!

      There is no reasonable position that specifically opposes gay marriage. The opposition is completely based on mysticism and "ewww, yuck." I think it's insane gay marriage has to even be discussed at all, as it seems blatantly obvious to me.

    102. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The are not being intimidated. If having your name put on website that lists your participation in a public action counts as intimidation then virtually anything does.

      So what was the point of the web site then? Would you hold the same position if an evangelical Christian organization published a web site containing the names of people who signed a pro-gay marriage petition, or would that somehow be different?

      Would *you* still be arguing that it was wrong, if that happened? Or would that somehow be different? Seriously, you're just pissed because your side didn't think of it first - this pretty much sums up how any kind of dissent (anti-Iraq war etc) was treated for the last 8 years. It's a bit late to grow a conscience now...

    103. Re:Wait a minute here by PitaBred · · Score: 1

      I'd hold the same position. Signing a petition is a public attachment of your name to a cause. If you don't want your name attached, don't sign it.

    104. Re:Wait a minute here by virg_mattes · · Score: 1

      > Because being raised by a person of only one gender is bad, it very well may be just as bad to be raised by two people of only one gender.

      You're going to have to back this up with something, because as it stands it's counter to evidence. One of the major problems with single parent households is the need for the parent to be absent (mostly for wage earning) significantly more than two-parent households. Therefore, for the most widely recognized problem facing children of a single parent, your argument falls flat.

      Virg

    105. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Now wait a minute... Petitions are not the same as voting. You show no ID when signing. You can sign up anyone you want, provide their address, sign a fake name, and guess what, now the pointy headed Nazis that are going to harass someone over their belief will show up at your enemies house, place of employment, etc, and harass the living piss out of them.

      NICE..

    106. Re:Wait a minute here by Duradin · · Score: 1

      As the song goes, love and marriage go together like a horse and carriage.

      If it wasn't for the harness and blinders the horse wouldn't normally have anything to do with the carriage.

    107. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She wanted to be "free to be bisexual."

      That's terrible, and it must have been painful (perhaps still is). I'm sympathetic to your situation. But...

      She could just as easily have said "free to be heterosexual with a bunch of guys who aren't you", and she wouldn't have been the first. I imagine that would have been no less gut-wrenching for you and the children. The tragic end of your relationship has precisely nothing to do with same-sex marriage. Preventing same-sex marriage would not eliminate lust, not even the homosexual (or bisexual) variety.

      I genuinely hope things work out for you and the kids. Peace.

      - T

    108. Re:Wait a minute here by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      Ahm the US: an entire country the Dutch can laugh at :) So backwards in their attitudes to sex that even us Brits look progressive!

      (Sexuality, in all forms, is taught from age 5. As is love, relationships, etc. Result? Lowest teen pregnancy rate pretty much anywhere, highest avg age for loss of virginity)

    109. Re:Wait a minute here by geekoid · · Score: 1

      Ironically, in Latino cultures only the catcher is considered gay.

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    110. Re:Wait a minute here by arose · · Score: 1

      This contract evolved so that offspring would be provided for by the 'father' and to contain the spread of venereal disease. Marriage creates a construct that will allow for public shaming for extra-marital affairs as well as legal consequences. As such, marriage is basically pregnancy insurance.

      Then one would have to oppose marriage of couples where one or both partners are infertile (due to genetics, illness, injury or age). It would also follow that couples who have not had children yet and become infertile due to illness, injury or age have their privileges revoked.

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    111. Re:Wait a minute here by VisceralLogic · · Score: 1

      Ah, the old hate the sin, love the sinner dodge.

      Also completely hypocritical for lots of reasons. For example people like that can't justify why they hate the sin without running into the original problem of picking and choosing what parts of their holy book they decide to follow and what parts they decide to ignore.

      Care to elucidate? I can't think of any part of the Bible where it says engaging in homosexual sex is not a sin.

      Furthermore, there is no logical problem with accepting someone while condemning some of their activities. Or are you one of those people who think you are what you do?

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    112. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Since you asked, I'll give you several intellectually honest reasons to oppose same-sex marriage:

      1. Being dishonest about the nature of one's relationship is no way to garner support for your cause, regardless of any underlying merits. Calling it marriage only reinforces the notion that a heterosexual relationship is the ideal, and only delays or denies entirely the public's acceptance of homosexuality. Instead of asking us to accept their relationship as it is, they are asking us to think of it as something it is not. And then wonder why they feel misunderstood.
      2. Moreover it's not really marriage. Marriage in western society has meant the union of one woman and one man for the overwhelming majority of history. Saying two men can marry is like saying pi is exactly 3. While using 3 instead of pi might be accurate enough for putting in a backyard swimming pool, it's not going to work for building something like a 747. Likewise, gays can (and do, I suppose) have close personal relationships, but marriage is much more than merely a close personal relationship. Sadly, most gays (and a few heterosexuals too) think marriage nothing more than a fairy tale ending with lots of sex.
      3. As many have observed, there is a divorce crisis in America. Watering down the definition of marriage will only make this worse, as couples will begin to think of marriage not as a life-long vocation of self-sacrifice and joy, but rather, as merely a formal announcement that they intend to sleep with each other for some as-yet undetermined time.
      4. It makes logical sense for the state to distinguish between relationships arranged for the sake of bringing new life into the world, and those arranged merely for personal pleasure and fulfillment. Even without the moral question of homosexuality, the truth is that these relationships will not increase the population. Because families increase the population, they deserve special benefits and recognition because the procreating couple builds our future society.
      5. Homosexual "marriage" is a matter of public morality. In the same way we would not honor racists and racism (which is morally wrong), we should not, as a society, honor something morally wrong.
      6. Even if one believes homosexuality to be the zenith of enlightenment, there are no rights the state confers on married couples which cannot also be conferred on civil unions. There is no need to call it marriage, unless, of course, the real reasons for doing so are to spite *certain* people.
    113. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0


      but there comes a point where we need to draw a line in the sand as to what we will and will not consider to be acceptable behavior in a free society.

      Which is exactly what the opponents of homosexuality believe themselves to be doing. The issue of what is acceptable in free society is very much a moral issue.

      If you don't believe you should force your version of morality on anyone, alas, you might have someone else attempt force their version on you. Ultimately, society works on a common, shared morality, which is why the moral issue of homosexual marriage is relevant. Without morality, politics is merely a contest of power.

    114. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Perhaps there should be some sort of fitness test for marriage in general, so that anyone could marry whomever they choose, so long as it is actually in the best interest of society.

      So if a brilliant young woman wants to marry a sterile man, you'd prevent it, blocking all applications until she settles on a virile young rocket scientist? Because it is in the interest of society that we (as a society) produce some smart offspring.

      Really, your opinion sounds an awful lot like eugenics. And advocating eugenics enforced by law is much worse than just being anti-gay, since you're just as readily anti-disabled, anti-sick, anti-poor, anti-dumb, anti-insert-whoever-you-think-shouldn't-produce-offspring.

      Posting AC because I dumped a load of mod points in this discussion like 15 hours ago.

    115. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      Care to elucidate? I can't think of any part of the Bible where it says engaging in homosexual sex is not a sin.

      The point is that there are a million other things in the bible that these people almost certainly aren't obeying themselves.
      The most hypocritical being Matthew 7 - judge not lest ye be judged - as in get your own shit together before you start worrying about other people.

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    116. Re:Wait a minute here by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      You are too late to the party. Just about every one of your points has already been brought up and fully shown to be irrational in this thread already.

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    117. Re:Wait a minute here by thisnamestoolong · · Score: 1

      Ultimately, society works on a common, shared morality, which is why the moral issue of homosexual marriage is relevant. Without morality, politics is merely a contest of power.

      It is true that society needs a common, shared morality, but it is certainly not the government's place to mandate it. These issues need to be figured out by individuals and communities, they don't need to be mandated! I can't understand the mindset of a person who would honestly suggest that another human being ought to have their rights stripped away to avoid "feeling icky". If you don't like gay marriage THEN DON'T HAVE ONE. America was specifically designed to be a secular nation, and was specifically designed as a Republic (rather than a true democracy) to avoid the tyranny of the majority sort of shit we see today.

      I think a lot of these problems could be solved by asking one question before a law is passed outlawing any certain behavior -- Will this behavior harm anyone? If so, will it harm anyone other than the person undertaking it, and/or other informed and willing participants? If the answer is no, it is none of the government's business. Gay marriage fails even the first test -- there is not one shred of evidence to even begin to suggest that gay marriage will cause even the slightest harm to ANYBODY -- regardless of what that homophobic demagogue James Dobson has to say about that "sanctity of marriage" bullshit (just watch "The Bachelor if you need clarification as to how stupid this idea is).

      Please also note that as I say this -- I completed and 100% support the rights of the anti-gay marriage people to speak out against it, in the same manner that I would vocally support Cannibal Corpse, William S. Burroughs, or the Westboro Baptist Church. Some of these things I defend because I like, some of them I certainly would be ecstatic if they forever disappeared from the face of the Earth -- but it doesn't matter what I think of what they say, they all have a right to say it, just like I have the right to ignore them and/or ridicule them. In the case of the anti-gay marriage folks, I obviously prefer ridicule. We also must remember that freedom of speech means only that the government cannot mandate speech -- it does not free you from other repercussions, like being ruthlessly mocked for your attempts to bring idiotic, Bronze Age morality from one the worst pieces of fiction I have ever read into the main stage political arena in the 21st century. Oh and as for this little gem:

      If you don't believe you should force your version of morality on anyone, alas, you might have someone else attempt force their version on you.

      Let them try. I will fight them all the way to the Supreme Court, because the law is irrevocably on my side.

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    118. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A petition is not a public debate. It's a call to have a public debate. I don't know that I'd mind my name being made public on any petition I signed. But it seems like for the democratic process to move forward, petition signers shouldn't be made public simply because it can leave them open to repercussions for expressing their opinions, and this tends to hinder free speech.

      Other examples...
      What about signing petitions to legalize marijuana "for medicinal purposes" and employers rejecting any applicants who did so because they have a "drug free" policy?
      Or this one on gay marriage. Should someone be rejected for employment based on how might act?
      Or someone signing a petition to remove a religious symbol from a government office. Will they discriminate against a religious person and, therefore, should not be employed to reduce corporate liability?
      Or a petition to get an enhanced sheriff patrol in a neighborhood where gangs are a problem. What if the gangs then went after every person who signed?

      Are all of the above intimidation? They're at least suppression, as they would certainly quiet a lot of voices. And that is definitely contrary to our system of government.

    119. Re:Wait a minute here by Tenek · · Score: 1

      So, you don't want mothers to be single, and you also won't let them get married. WTF?

    120. Re:Wait a minute here by Tenek · · Score: 1

      Maybe we should let Alabama take a vote on segregation, too.
      People tend to not want their rights subject to a tyranny of the majority, and I can't say I blame them.

    121. Re:Wait a minute here by VisceralLogic · · Score: 1

      The point is that there are a million other things in the bible that these people almost certainly aren't obeying themselves. The most hypocritical being Matthew 7 - judge not lest ye be judged - as in get your own shit together before you start worrying about other people.

      On that point I agree. Although I'm a Christian and hold traditional views, I also believe that what other people do that doesn't affect others is their own business. Honestly, I'm not sure why there's all the outrage against homosexuality, when there are tons of worse things going on all around.

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    122. Re:Wait a minute here by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      Then you misunderstand the BASIC principle of the US' system of states. It's ok, most folks in Washington don't get it either, although I'd suspect a TEENY bit more Republicans might, than Democrats for whom the very idea is the antithesis of their party platform (if only anyone bothered to read it).

      States in the US are not merely administrative subdivisions of the Federal entity, as they are in most countries. US states were meant to be nearly sovereign entities, except in a small, finite number of ways that they submitted to a collective Federal authority, such as coinage, military, and foreign policy.

      The states are otherwise meant to determine their OWN policies and methods within the bounds of the Bill of Rights. A philosophical free market, as it were. If Alabama were to vote that they were some sort of KKK-run racist enclave, it would in very short order be the victim of a torrential brain- and capital-drain, leaving it a meaningless, backward, empty irrelevancy with a horrible standard of living unless and until they decided to pass laws that would be more likely to attract residents and businesses that are the sinews of civilization.

      People are so obsessed with a fear of the tyranny of the majority, they forget that even more insidious is the tyranny of the MINORITY, where paranoid fear of the former paralyzes a democracy. Ultimately, questions must be decided by the will of the majority, as the least-bad solution, or some situations would never be solved.

      As put by Madison in A Memorial and Remonstrance Against Religious Assessments in 1785:
      "We maintain therefore that in matters of Religion, no man's right is abridged by the institution of Civil Society and that Religion is wholly exempt from its cognizance. True it is, that no other rule exists, by which any question which may divide a Society, can be ultimately determined, but the will of the majority; but it is also true that the majority may trespass on the rights of the minority.

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    123. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What? where is this evidence? I'm a product of a single mother and I'll soon be entering grad school.. one of my best friends is the product of two mothers and will soon be graduating with double major in Music and Business..

      Are we just misfits that are a burden to society? Or is this just what you think of everyone who doesn't fit into your personal view of the ideal family and model citizen?

    124. Re:Wait a minute here by problah · · Score: 1

      So it is up to you to decide what is best for someone else's child?

      The psychological research that claims that a single motherhood prevents unfit offspring is the same group that believes that as long as there are two viewpoints of the world (A stern figure, and a tender figure) attribute to a healthy growth environment. They have actually stated that it does not have to be two people of opposite sex. It's the emotive value that is in concern.

      So, effectively, if you have two stern parents, and noone to offer soft emotions, you will potentially have a child who is "unfit" for the "normal" society... But they'd make a great soldier!

      D(B)

    125. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In my view, many of the same issues that plague children that grow up in single parent households, will also plague those that are raised by same-sex couples. Therefore, given that marriage is designed to encourage family life, I do not support gay marriage as I feel it would be unfair to the child, and ultimately to society as a whole as they will ultimately have to pay for the child.

      What same issues are you referencing?

      What makes you think that marriage was designed to encourage family life? It wasn't.

      With marriage you have alimony and child support. When a married couple with children gets divorced, someone is usually forced to pay child support. If an unmarried couple with children get divorced, who pays child support? How does not allowing marriage stop society from paying to raise a child?

      Children with gay parents have a tough life because of people like you who believe that children with gay parents should be treated differently.

    126. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "In my view, many of the same issues that plague children that grow up in single parent households, will also plague those that are raised by same-sex couples."

      [citation needed]

      In my view, you have five heads and eat magma. Oh, what's my evidence? I don't have any, it's just my view.

    127. Re:Wait a minute here by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thats how fags work. They mob and attack. DSM would still categorize their mental illness if they hadn't made an orgnaized mob and attack of the APA from the inside.

  7. No one should have expected by Shivetya · · Score: 5, Insightful

    that their signature remained secret, however no one should have to put up with an organized intimidation process which is the new method of choice. Seeing the pubic exercise their opinion has so offended certain elements out there. As such these same elements intend to use intimidation while expertly avoiding stepping over the line or just not getting caught to get any big names on their to back down or pay up.

    In other words, the names should be protected based on what we know these elements will do with them. We cannot have the democratic process circumvented by threats and intimidation. I am all for treating these signatures like votes, off the public record. keep them private. If only to stop the new tactics.

    This is similar to why Unions want Card Check, to intimidate their way into power. Freedom of expression is freedom from fear

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    1. Re:No one should have expected by Roachgod · · Score: 5, Insightful

      While I wish there wasn't this intimidation process... I don't think a person's rights and privileges are up for "vote". I don't want other people deciding how I can and cannot live my life - CERTAINLY when it doesn't involve them. Voting on who OTHER PEOPLE can and can't marry bothers me on a deep level, far away from whether it is 'gay' rights or 'racial' rights or... I don't know.... 'alien' rights. I am all for life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Voting on other people's marriages seems an offense against all three. Against such a threat... I think anything is justified. Kudos to the intimidators for not just shooting them all.

    2. Re:No one should have expected by muckracer · · Score: 1

      > Seeing the pubic exercise their opinion has so offended certain elements out
      > there.

      That indeed seems to be the crux of the matter: some people being offended by
      the pubic exercises of others. Quite silly if you think of it (IMHO) :-)

    3. Re:No one should have expected by bistromath007 · · Score: 1, Insightful

      "These elements?" Fuck your shit. Those elements are people who are trying to win their own freedom of expression from a giant lobby who want to keep it from them for no reason other than that they can. The first amendment protects your speech from the government. Your speech should not be protected from the consequences of other citizens hearing it. The businessman expresses himself, and his customers express themselves by taking their money elsewhere.

    4. Re:No one should have expected by sanosuke001 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Why should we make an exception for this? We already have laws to stop assault, abuse, and slander. Why do we need to make this exception to try and stop those things from happening? If someone has a problem because of this, file a complaint with the police.

      Hiding public records is how people stack votes; doing that now just because people MIGHT be annoyed with an email or a phone call goes against everything this nation is supposed to stand for. Like I said, if someone has a problem because of this, go to the police. If not, deal with it. They signed a public document, they have no right to ask for it to be protected from scrutiny.

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    5. Re:No one should have expected by plague3106 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I think you have a ways to go though before intimidation or especially violenc gets called up for use. I don't think we've quite reached that level.

      Personally I think I have great way to solve this problem; eliminate completely the concept of legal marriage. Its not needed, and the issue is causing us to waste time better spent on other work. Make it a purely religous or spiritial cermemony, that means nothing legally.

    6. Re:No one should have expected by JerryLove · · Score: 5, Informative

      The discussion is over the legal recognition of said marriage.

      Actually, this discussion is over a website listing in a searchable way those who signed a petition to put gay-civil-unions on a ballot.

    7. Re:No one should have expected by mapkinase · · Score: 1

      "I don't think a person's rights and privileges are up for "vote""

      Who is defining what are the rights and the privileges? Who is interpreting? That's a rhetorical question that every Westerner should be asking himself. If you go to the source of modern Western morals... Well, good luck finding it.

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    8. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's about one side trying to fuck the other over by using "their rights", and the other side trying to fuck them back by using "their rights". Nothing to see here, really.

    9. Re:No one should have expected by plasmacutter · · Score: 4, Insightful

      that their signature remained secret, however no one should have to put up with an organized intimidation process which is the new method of choice. Seeing the pubic exercise their opinion has so offended certain elements out there. As such these same elements intend to use intimidation while expertly avoiding stepping over the line or just not getting caught to get any big names on their to back down or pay up.

      In other words, the names should be protected based on what we know these elements will do with them. We cannot have the democratic process circumvented by threats and intimidation. I am all for treating these signatures like votes, off the public record. keep them private. If only to stop the new tactics.

      This is similar to why Unions want Card Check, to intimidate their way into power. Freedom of expression is freedom from fear

      If it really were a measure of public opinion they would not be so fast to cry foul and scream "intimidation".

      For one, there are laws against anything substantive (vandalism, assault, etc), and for another, if the majority of the public really DOES agree with them there should be no risk of ostracism.

      Of course, they obviously know this is NOT the case, and their efforts to conceal their signatures are no different than the white hoods the KKK used to wear.

      The reality is this referendum doesn't do anything except exploit the "squeaky wheel" phenomenon to oppress gay people. The (silent) majority of the public could care less, so they won't consider it important enough to show up at the polls, allowing the "vocal (and bigoted) minority" to disenfranchise them.

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    10. Re:No one should have expected by canajin56 · · Score: 1

      So you're of the opinion that anything anti-gay or anti-minority should be automatic. Just FAKE a petition, don't even need real names because as long as it's against somebody you HATE then the petition should be classified top secret.

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    11. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Still trying to weasel out of your child support payments, eh?

    12. Re:No one should have expected by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Personally I think I have great way to solve this problem; eliminate completely the concept of legal marriage. Its not needed, and the issue is causing us to waste time better spent on other work. Make it a purely religous or spiritial cermemony, that means nothing legally.

      That would be the ideal, but that would defeat the reason gays want marriage in the first place. If all they were looking for was a symbolic ceremony of their life together, they'd just go down to their local Unitarian Universalist building and get married. They want marriage specifically for the legal protections: so they can force employers to provide health insurance, get estate rights when their partners die, tax breaks, etc. Of course, there's no reason why much of this couldn't be done on a contractual basis in the absence of legal marriage, but the state always finds a way to mess things up and make things difficult for people.

      I'm sure that I will be modded down because it will perceived it as an anti-homosexual comment, but it's not. I believe in the equality before the law for all people, I simply don't think we should have the laws that make this a battle in the first place.

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    13. Re:No one should have expected by dkleinsc · · Score: 1

      Where on the linked site does it advocate organized intimidation? You seem to be implying that publishing someone's name is the equivalent of publishing their name, a picture of them that looks like it's through a gun sight, their home address, their work address, their work hours, and other places where they can be found, and a call to stop them at any cost.

      Going up to someone and asking them to explain their views is not intimidation. Neither is going up to someone and trying to convince them via argument that your view is correct. Unless a threat of force, loss of job, etc is involved, that's called grassroots politics.

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    14. Re:No one should have expected by dmhummel · · Score: 1

      When one votes in a way which significantly limits or changes the way a large population is allowed to live, it must be expected for there to be some form of public response.

      If a proposition was passed allowing coal companies to dump toxic waste in my drinking water, and my child lost all his/her teeth due to heavy metal poisoning, should I not know who voted for or against it?
        http://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/13/us/13water.html

      If a proposition was passed that annulled my marriage to my wife because she is 5 years younger than me as that is *insert conservative reason for this to be sick and wrong*, I would want to reach out to any one who voted for the proposition and make my disappointment known.

      Your republican views have been tailored for you as a good fit for your hatred of homosexuality. However, all you are defending is the right of our elected leaders to act in ways that do not represent their electorate. That is the true republican ideal.

        Imagine the laws restricts your freedom and you may not see it the same way.

    15. Re:No one should have expected by Xeth · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Marriage is, by definition, not a private institution, but a public one. Being married doesn't affect what you do inside your own home (to be taken as an idiom for things that don't affect others), it affects how society interacts with you. I therefore think it is disingenuous to claim that it is not a social issue, outside the purview of societal interest.

      That's not to say that it should be regulated, in this case or any other, but I merely wish to indicate that the question is not itself injurious, as you seem to say.

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    16. Re:No one should have expected by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

      I don't think a person's rights and privileges are up for "vote".

      I agree - and as someone in the UK, I find it astonishing that these things are put to referendum.

      If nothing else, surely there are far more important things to put to the vote - you know, things that actually affect most the population?

      Here in the UK, hardly anything ever goes to a referendum. So my question is, is just about everything put to the referendum in the US? Or if not, how is it decided which questions are asked - and why is it they seem to be used for mostly straight people to decide whether gay people should have their rights taken away, and not for many other issues?

      Maybe I and the rest of the planet should be allowed a vote on whether US citizens should have rights - that's democracy, right?

      Or perhaps someone should propose a referendum on whether people on this list should be allowed rights?

    17. Re:No one should have expected by LMacG · · Score: 1

      > The discussion is over the legal recognition of said marriage

      As somebody else stated, the real discussion is about disclosure of names. But if you want to talk about the referendum itself, it has nothing to do with "marriage", it's about domestic partnerships. Some people are never going to be satisfied - they say "oh you can't be married, that's against our holy sacrament" so Washington state says "OK, let's leave marriage (and religion) out of this and create a CIVIL recognition of partnerships" and these people still can't leave it be.

      Evidently these people's grasp on heterosexuality is quite frail, and even the slightest suggestion or perhaps a Kylie Minogue song is going to make them switch to the other team.

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    18. Re:No one should have expected by ZekoMal · · Score: 1

      I disagree. I think that when the right was finally added in and people are actively moving to take it away, you don't away a few generations to get it fixed. These aren't people being told they can't get married, they're being told they can't even have a civil union! What should they do? Wait until they're dead? Some of the couples getting gay married are well up in their 70's, they can't wait for the opposition to politely die off.

    19. Re:No one should have expected by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

      so they won't consider it important enough to show up at the polls, allowing the "vocal (and bigoted) minority" to disenfranchise them.

      Umm, if someone chooses not to vote, they have disenfranchised THEMSELVES.

    20. Re:No one should have expected by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

      Well, it didn't take long for the children and animals straw man to come along! (Is it legal to marry a man made of straw?)

      Children and animals can't enter legal contracts. Adults can. If you want to claim that some adults can't enter into legal contracts with other adults, then it's up to you to make the case, without nonsensical comparisons to children or animals.

      Right now, your argument is that gay people should be treated like children and animals in terms of their ability to enter a contract - and that says all we need to know about your argument.

      The discussion is over the legal recognition of said marriage.

      Um yes, that's the debate we're having too. And that's what these referendums are about too.

    21. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Shaming someone for their opinion != intimidating them. Shame has always been an integral control mechanism in society, see the methods used by the churches backing putting gay marriage up for a vote, eg. "Brothers and sisters, here at teh altar this morning is a petition against gay marriage. If you care about God and marriage you'll come up here to sign it after the service." The whole point of signing a petition is and always has been to let the rest of the world know you agree with the view expressed in it. We're not talking the Slashdot survey here, this is a legal document that requires signature verification. Addititionally, if fear of shame (intimidation is an adsurdly strong word) is enough to prevent you from expressing a political opinion, maybe you should reassess your position, or grow a spine.

    22. Re:No one should have expected by MrMr · · Score: 1

      restricting adults from marrying 9-year-olds
      Is there a Godwin's law equivalent for that?

    23. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      I am all for treating these signatures like votes, off the public record. keep them private.

      I guess I am not, if I can't verify that the vote actually passed I would at least like to be able to verify that the petition was indeed signed by the required number of citizens. Too much 'black box' and pretty soon we aren't a democracy anymore.

    24. Re:No one should have expected by plasmacutter · · Score: 1

      so they won't consider it important enough to show up at the polls, allowing the "vocal (and bigoted) minority" to disenfranchise them.

      Umm, if someone chooses not to vote, they have disenfranchised THEMSELVES.

      sorry for the lack of clarity.. by them I refer to the target of the referendum (in this case, gay people).

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    25. Re:No one should have expected by AndersOSU · · Score: 5, Insightful

      In a democracy there are two ways to participate in politics. One is to exercise your right to vote in secret. The other is to publicly organize. A petition is not a vote, it's a public statement that "I support initiative X." As a public statement the speaker assumes the risks associated with speaking out in public - such as the possibility that your friends and neighbors will find out your opinions. Intimidation and harassment are illegal and these laws should be enforced, but petitions are public for a reason and should stay public regardless of whether or not some bad actors will do bad things. Participating publicly in politics is risky, which is why you're under no obligation to do so. If signature gathering efforts for ballot initiatives or to get a candidate on a ballot become private they risk becoming about as important as internet petitions and polls. When you sign a petition, you're literally putting your name on the line - which is what gives them the impact that they have - if it's anonymous and cannot be publicly verified no one will believe you when you say we have Y signatures. What's more these are most certainly not new tactics - the declaration of independence was essentially a petition, and the signatories certainly faced consequences for attaching their names to the document. Do you suppose that the declaration would be held in such high esteem had it been signed by BenLightning and SamTEHdrunk?

    26. Re:No one should have expected by vlm · · Score: 1

      Kudos to the intimidators for not just shooting them all.

      Yeah, especially since X percent of the signatures on the list are fraudulent. And I personally think X is a pretty large percentage. Would be a shame if someone shot me merely because someone else found my name in the phonebook, or the parish directory, or the elementary school family book, or the employee contact list, or the ham radio club mailing list, or ... If no pity for me, at least admit it would be a waste of a bullet to mistarget me.

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    27. Re:No one should have expected by HangingChad · · Score: 2, Interesting

      that their signature remained secret, however no one should have to put up with an organized intimidation process which is the new method of choice.

      This wasn't a ballot, I'm not sure where the expectation of privacy comes from. You could argue that trying to create a separate but equal set of rules for a minority population is also organized intimidation. It just depends on which side of the intimidation you're on.

      As it pertains gays, there do seem to be a lot of people determined to see they never get any kind of legal recognition. The people and businesses supporting those legal efforts want some kind of cover, so they don't really have to take a public stand. But if Boeing was trying to fund some kind of anti-union ballot initiative, wouldn't you want to know? Doesn't the public voting on an initiative deserve to know who's behind it? How is this really any different?

      If you take out "gay" and substitute any other minority population, this looks a whole lot different. "...anti-Hispanic rights groups created and got R-71 on the 2009 election ballot." Or "... anti-Jewish rights groups created and got R-71 on the 2009 election ballot." In that light it starts looking pretty damn ugly.

      Overall, I think we're all farther ahead with transparency in the process. If that ballot effort is taking a shot at a minority population, then you can expect them not to like it.

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    28. Re:No one should have expected by sg_oneill · · Score: 1

      I'm sorry if you go out of your way to try and criminalize a natural and harmless thing like being gay you have absolutely no right to complain about "organized intimidation". There is no bigger organizer of intimidation than conservative big government.

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    29. Re:No one should have expected by radtea · · Score: 1

      In other words, the names should be protected based on what we know these elements will do with them.

      Right, and Iran should be bombed back into the stone age based on what we "know" they will do with nuclear technology when they get their hands on it.

      This is cowardice masquerading as amoral pragmatism.

      We do not know what "these elements" will do, and if we suspect they'll do something bad we should be prepared to counter those bad things rather than letting of our fear of what they might do prod us into doing evil ourselves.

      And gosh, we do have exactly those preparations in this case: the rule of law. People who are assualted, defamed, slandered, have the legal machinery of one of the most prosecution-happy nations on Earth to back them up.

      Beyond that, if they don't have the stones to stand up and take the public shaming they are getting for engaging in a shameful act--and surely wilful interference with the freedom of others to enjoy the misery of marriage is a shameful act--then to hell with them.

      The only way to ensure freedom from fear is to not be a coward. No amount of societal fiddling will ever free a coward from fear, and attempting to do so will always produce a police state. No thanks.

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    30. Re:No one should have expected by PincushionMan · · Score: 1

      Only if the 9-year-old is a nazi.

    31. Re:No one should have expected by Carik · · Score: 1

      While I agree that intimidation is wrong, perhaps it's time that the people who are violently opposed to gay rights see the other side. I have a lot of gay friends, and almost all of them have been, at one time or another, harrassed, threatened, or intimidated by people who disagreed with them. Perhaps the people who are responsible for that, and who would deny them basic human rights, should have to consider their own comfort before doing so.

      Intimidation and harrassment are always wrong, but they're sometimes appropriate anyway. (Yes, I know that sounds hypocritical. No, I can't explain it any better.)

    32. Re:No one should have expected by mayko · · Score: 1

      eliminate completely the concept of legal marriage. Its not needed, and the issue is causing us to waste time better spent on other work.

      You can't do that. One of the major arguments coming from the religious groups is that gay marriage is going to destroy their marriage, and subsequently America! This would certainly 'prove' them right. So this will only become an option long after we've legalized marriage for everyone.

    33. Re:No one should have expected by operagost · · Score: 1

      Would you feel the same about two brothers marrying? A brother and a sister? A mother and a son? A healthy person marrying someone in a coma? A ten year old boy marrying a 30 year old man or woman?

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    34. Re:No one should have expected by d3ac0n · · Score: 1, Troll

      I think you have a ways to go though before intimidation or especially violenc gets called up for use. I don't think we've quite reached that level.

      Really?

      Apparently you missed the "prop 8" debacle in California. Sunshine laws were used to create maps to the HOMES of people who donated to support prop 8.

      That's not intimidation?

      Or how about when Vandals sprayed anti-prop 8 graffiti on a church in San Fran?

      That's not intimidation?

      Or how about the tragic story of El Coyote restaurant? and what has happened to the elderly owner because she was following her beliefs. THAT IS NOT INTIMIDATION????

      Or what happened to a group of Christians who were following their beliefs and went out, in kindness of spirit, to PRAY for the Gay community. They were surrounded by an angry mob, had DEATH THREATS hurled against them and were ASSAULTED. That is not Intimidation? That is not VIOLENCE?

      Come on. Where have you been?

      The implications could not be clearer; While supporters of traditional marriage use legal and ethical means to promote their agenda, supporters of gay marriage use illegal and unethical means the moment it appears that doing it the legal way isn't winning support. It was all over California during the prop 8 battle, and now it's going to start in WA. I guarantee.

      P.S. To mods: Negative mod points do not equal "I disagree with you". If you disagree, have the courage to log in and post. You demand sunshine on votes and political support, it's only consistent to shed sunshine on your opinions. Show courage, be consistent.

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    35. Re:No one should have expected by AndersOSU · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The guiding principles of western democracies are Liberté, égalité, and fraternité.

      You'll find no single source, because it's been in constant evolution, but starting with the magna carta and working through the great philosophers of the enlightenment (especially Voltaire) there's been an unmistakable movement from despotism (even the benevolent variety) to open public society and personal freedom. It's hard to argue that either the suppression of government petitions or the continued persecution of gays is in line with the rights and privileges of the western moral system.

      Incidentally, that's why a "strict constructionist" judicial philosophy is really at odds with western values - we don't have sacred texts, we value constantly and continuing expanding personal freedoms.

    36. Re:No one should have expected by Exception+Duck · · Score: 1

      I'm all for gay rights, but saying that "OTHER PEOPLE" should have no say in it sounds fair.

      Saying that the majority of people have no say on how the laws of the society are... really doesn't sound as fair.

      Not that I am comparing the two issues, but I would vote for banning guns. I don't really care about your right to have guns, I just don't want guns, they kill people. So if the majority of the society agrees, we still shouldn't ban guns ?

      By banning I mean "heavily regulated" - only guns to use for hunting.

      I don't live in the USA - where I live guns are heavily regulated and we have a lesbian prime minister :)

    37. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Child support has nothing to do with marriage. Alimony, on the other hand...

    38. Re:No one should have expected by thisnamestoolong · · Score: 1

      Why would we want to keep petition signatures private? The whole point of a petition is to publicly show your support for a given cause! This is not even to mention the questions that will be raised over the legitimacy of such petitions if the names are not public record.

      We have freedom of speech in America, but this does not mean that your opinions are free from criticism. For instance, you have the legal right to participate in a KKK rally, but your freedom of speech will not stop your boss from firing you when he sees you on the news wearing a white robe. To take this further -- if you don't want to be judged negatively in the public eye for holding an unpopular opinion -- DON'T VOICE IT PUBLICLY. These people who signed a petition to put gay marriage to a vote (ostensibly to ban it) need to be able to stand up to harsh criticism, which, from TFA, sounds like just about the worst any of these people are going to have to put up with. (As a side note, I find it ironic that a group of people trying to push forward legislation telling others how to live their lives would complain about their freedoms being oppressed, but I digress.)

      The point is, freedom is a two way street. You have the freedom to say what you want, but everyone else is free to judge you negatively on it if they don't like what you have to say. The most important distinction here is that freedom of speech protects you from government prosecution, it does not give you license to spout nonsense in a public forum without consequence.

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    39. Re:No one should have expected by amplt1337 · · Score: 1

      the names should be protected based on what we know these elements will do with them.

      Which is what, exactly? Claim they've taken action on beliefs they hold?

      You're claiming that a powerful majority group (straight people) is so at-risk that its members cannot even bear being named publicly. Since when have socially privileged actors ever needed protection from a marginalized group?

      Should someone be allowed to create a law specifically limiting the freedoms of other consenting adults, and do so from the shadows, without even having the balls to acknowledge publicly the position they'll take in secret?

      And it's the height of irony that now it's the ANTI-gay folks who want to stay in the closet.

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    40. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Going up to someone and asking them to explain their views is not intimidation. Neither is going up to someone and trying to convince them via argument that your view is correct. Unless a threat of force, loss of job, etc is involved, that's called grassroots politics.

      Yet you are not allowed to ask someone to explain their views near an abortion clinic or publish people's names that entered an abortion clinic.

    41. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Maybe I and the rest of the planet should be allowed a vote on whether US citizens should have rights - that's democracy, right?

      No it's not. To quote wikipedia: "Democracy is a system of government in which either the actual governing is carried out by the people governed (direct democracy), or the power to do so is granted by them (as in representative democracy)." That is, if you are not governed by the USA (and you admitted that is not the case) then you don't get to vote there.

    42. Re:No one should have expected by zerocool^ · · Score: 1

      however no one should have to put up with an organized intimidation process ...

      To paraphrase Franken, these people must be really insecure if they're intimidated by the Terrible Pink Menace, rapidly sashaying their way.

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    43. Re:No one should have expected by Just+Some+Guy · · Score: 1

      I am all for treating these signatures like votes, off the public record. keep them private.

      "I am all for treating these lobbying efforts like votes, off the public record. keep them private." Because that's what petitions really are: lobbying for the government to enact some law or another. So where do you draw the line between, say, the public's right to know what a tobacco lobbyist is up to and a citizen's right not to be held accountable for lobbying to take the rights of others? Answer: you don't. It's all in the public interest and should be open.

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    44. Re:No one should have expected by operagost · · Score: 0, Troll

      The ability for two people of the same sex to marry has never been recognized as a natural right. It's just that simple, and your rhetoric doesn't change that. Of course, in the USA (unlike in the UK) we recognize that the rights not held by the federal government belong to the States or the people.* That's why an amendment would have to be made to the US Constitution to define marriage. As it is, right now that definition is made at the state and local levels. We may be a republic and not a direct democracy (fortunately), but yes, here we believe in having occasional referendums on things that ordinary people might be concerned about rather than ridiculing, abusing, or imprisoning them for having an unpopular view. And no, we don't include the world in our decisions. How does it harm you who is married here? I don't care much for the neofascist thinking that demands we kow-tow to a One World Government.

      * Of course, the progressives disagree and think it's the other way around.

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    45. Re:No one should have expected by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 1

      The referendum is a basic tool of democracy in the US. There needs to be _some_ way to overrule bureaucrats or politicians who ignore the desires of their constituents, lest they simply vote themselves too much power. But it's uncommon: most people have too much to do to be bothered to edit the laws already passed. It usually requires a peition, signed by quite a large number of registered voters, to get a referendum on the voting ballots. And many bureaucracies and governments are extremely effective at delaying or quashing such referendums when it suits them: the referendums don't occur in a vacuum.

      The people on this list are already denied enough rights. The odds of anyone on this list actually being on a trial jury, for example, are about zero because we're too educated.

    46. Re:No one should have expected by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 0, Insightful

      While I wouldn't endorse the behavior of the more extreme activists, at the same time I have a hard time getting upset about it either after all the gay people who have been assaulted and murdered over the years for who they are. If anything the current social climate has enabled the pendulum to swing. Two wrongs may not make a right, but I'm not crying any tears over here.

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    47. Re:No one should have expected by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      The (silent) majority of the public

      My God, I just had a flashback

    48. Re:No one should have expected by Thalaric · · Score: 1

      Spoken like someone who has never had to deal with this issue. The problem is not that the records are public, it's that these websites are endorsing a targeted intimidation campaign against those who signed (or donated) to what they deem is an "evil" cause.

      I personally know someone who was harassed and blackballed in a media company until they resigned. I've also know people who have had their personal beliefs posted on reviews of their businesses to target their livelyhood. I've even seen people taking pictures of those who enter and leave places of worship.

      Sorry, but voting for what you believe in doesn't sound like oppression to me. The above fits the bill though.
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    49. Re:No one should have expected by d3ac0n · · Score: 5, Insightful

      So, because some OTHER people, in the past, have wrongly beaten up and attacked (or, worse, killed) some Gays, then it is OK, to do the same to OTHER completely innocent people who had nothing to do with, nor condone the violence perpetrated against some gays?

      Wow. How humane of you. I assume you also believe in punishing children for the evils of their parents?

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    50. Re:No one should have expected by schon · · Score: 1, Insightful

      They want marriage specifically for the legal protections that straight people already have: so they can force employers to provide health insurance, get estate rights when their partners die, tax breaks, etc.

      There, fixed that for you.

      Is there something so horrible about people wanting equal treatment under the law?

    51. Re:No one should have expected by pleappleappleap · · Score: 1

      If the two brothers are both adults and are not under duress, it's ok. Same with the brother and sister. Or the mother and son. A person in a coma can't consent. Neither can a ten-year-old boy.

      Get a new argument, please.

    52. Re:No one should have expected by mcgrew · · Score: 3, Interesting

      The problem isn't discrimination against gays, it's discrimination against single people whether gay or straight. As a divorced straight guy I face the same discrimination as any gay.

      Why is discrimination based on marital status legal? It's not only legal, it's institutionalized; married paople pay fewer taxes. Take away discrimination against singles and the problem of "gay marriage" goes away completely.

      Why should government have anything to do with marriage? Isn't marriage a religion thing? Doesn't the Constitution protect both religion and its absense? Government should have nothing to do with marriage. I should not need a license, for instance.

    53. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Kudos to the intimidators for not just shooting them all.

      I'd just as soon want people who make this statement shot.

      Funny, I'm also very pro-gay rights. I'm just not a wing nut extremist like yourself. Fucking crazy.

    54. Re:No one should have expected by Totenglocke · · Score: 1

      I agree, then there's also the fact that since the concept of marriage came from religions, the government has no authority to pass laws on marriage in any way.

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    55. Re:No one should have expected by CensorshipDonkey · · Score: 1

      Do you know what a petition is? It's a public document you sign your name to. Whether or not you harbor some hatred for the cause has absolutely no bearing on whether a public document, that was known to be public by the signatories, is in fact public. Troll somewhere else.

    56. Re:No one should have expected by pleappleappleap · · Score: 2, Informative

      This isn't just some random piece of paper a bunch of people signed. This is a petition to the government of the state. It's a matter of public record.

    57. Re:No one should have expected by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      Marriage is an important social institution.

      Married families are more stable and one partner provides a safety net for the other in case of job loss of medical issues so that the state doesn't have to step in. This is equally true for same and opposite marriage. The government should provide incentives such as tax breaks to any two consenting adults who want to make a public commitment to each other.

    58. Re:No one should have expected by Abcd1234 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Sorry, but voting for what you believe in doesn't sound like oppression to me.

      Actually, it is, if it involves voting for a measure that oppresses others.

      Or do you think voting for segregation doesn't qualify as oppression?

      All that said, I happen to agree with you: using intimidation is the wrong thing to do. It's a shame the homosexual community (or, at least, the subset of said community that's involved in this) hasn't learned anything from the words of Martin Luther King.

    59. Re:No one should have expected by N!k0N · · Score: 1

      If you want to claim that some adults can't enter into legal contracts with other adults, then it's up to you to make the case, without nonsensical comparisons to children or animals.

      Those adults who are (severely?) developmentally disabled -- I'm not sure the extent of the laws concerning this though. IIRC the law (concerning marriage) is written such that 2x MR/DD adults can't get married, though they /can/ marry a non-MR/DD person. This could be limited to state law though.

    60. Re:No one should have expected by pleappleappleap · · Score: 1

      You really need to work on your trolling technique. Come back when you're worthy.

    61. Re:No one should have expected by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

      Yes, that was my point - allowing other people to help decide the rights of a minority subset of that group isn't really democratic.

    62. Re:No one should have expected by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

      It doesn't need to be a natural right, anymore than we need an explicit natural right for people with ginger hair marrying. It automatically follows from the ability of adults to make legal contracts with each other - or it should, at least.

      And if you're going to get constitutional, perhaps you should remember the bit that states it does not enumerate all rights (i.e., not being in the constitution doesn't imply people don't have that right).

      I don't see how an amendment would be required. And it seems the only ones trying to make amendments are those wanting to ban it.

      but yes, here we believe in having occasional referendums on things that ordinary people might be concerned about

      I'm just curious why preventing other people from having the same rights you do, is considered more important than all other questions that might be put to a referendum.

      rather than ridiculing, abusing, or imprisoning them for having an unpopular view.

      Who said that?

    63. Re:No one should have expected by AndersOSU · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I do not condone intimidation. However, if you're afraid of the consequences of your political views, you should keep them to yourself.

      There's nothing tragic about the El Coyote story. A woman made her living off of catering to the gay crowd, then publicly supported a movement that succeed in stripping a civil right from her clients. Shockingly, he clientele decided to boycott.

      Finally, the involvement of churches in this political arena is of questionable legality and homophobia has always been immoral.

    64. Re:No one should have expected by njfuzzy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The problem with Referenda on sensitive social issues is that the Consitution is specifically designed to protect minorities against discrimination by majority rule. Just because there are more people who believe something doesn't make it right.

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    65. Re:No one should have expected by martyros · · Score: 1

      Voting on who OTHER PEOPLE can and can't marry bothers me on a deep level

      Is this actually true, or is it really only that you don't have a problem in this specific instance (e.g., homosexual marriage)?

      For instance, would you support marriage laws that allowed closer familial marriages, like father/daughter, mother/son, sister/brother? Those laws certainly come under "who OTHER PEOPLE can and can't marry".

      What about polygamy -- can a man marry two women, or a woman mary two men, or two men and two women all marry in one big "spousal unit",. receiving all of the legal privileges of marriage from the government and employers? That comes under "who OTHER PEOPLE can and can't marry" as well. (In this case, someone may respond "If you're not marrying one person, then it's not actually marriage." To which culturally conservative people can respond, "How is that different than saying, If you're not marrying one person of the opposite gender, then it's not actually marriage".)

      If you would support those things, then you are surprisingly consistent. Most people who say what you said, I suspect, really mean that they don't see any problem with homosexual marriage, and *therefore* it bothers them to see other people interfering with them. (Just like I would be rather bothered to find people concerning themselves with inter-racial marriage, for instance.)

      For the record, I happen to believe that "marriage" means "one man and one woman". But I would support legal domestic unions, with the same legal privileges as "marriage" unions, between two people of whatever gender. Not quite willing to support polygamy yet...

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    66. Re:No one should have expected by Fortunato_NC · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Freedom of speech means that you have the right to express your beliefs secure in the knowledge that the government will not persecute you for your opinions.

      It does not mean that you will be protected from being ostracized by the rest of society, however. Decisions have consequences, and if you decide that your beliefs require you to endorse state-sanctioned bigotry, then when that endorsement is made public, AS IT SHOULD BE, then you are going to have to face the consequences of your decision. If that means you lose business, or that your workplace becomes less welcoming, or that your picture shows up on a website, then maybe you should consider keeping your bigoted opinions to yourself.

      No matter what your pastor says, gay rights ARE civil rights. Period.

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    67. Re:No one should have expected by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1

      Troll somewhere else? You want to censor me? Oh - I see your name now. Oh-kay

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    68. Re:No one should have expected by Taevin · · Score: 1

      The peter-puffers don't need to know WHO, specifically, is opposed to their agenda.

      Really? As a free-thinking citizen of these United States, I can assure you that I do need to know who is attempting to oppress the rights of others. Surely you would want to know who is proposing to lock the people of Westboro Baptist Church away in a mental institution? Or who is proposing that black people are (again) not actual human beings?

      More importantly, these signatures are not votes on a ballot. There is no expectation of privacy when signing a public petition and indeed, there can be none. This is why online petitions are typically useless; I can go create one for any topic I want and write a script to generate as many signatories as I desire. Petition signatures need to be verified to establish that they do reflect the will of a significant percentage of a population.

      All they need to know is, they can't get "married".

      Most gay people that I know don't care about getting "married," they just want the same legal protections guaranteed to heterosexual couples. What this usually means is that they want civil unions or domestic partnerships or whatever other term you want to come up with. Now here's the important part: The State of Washington already offers domestic partnerships. It's not perfect though and that's why the State Senate passed SB 5688 to expand the rights guaranteed by a domestic partnership. So what we're actually talking about here is a group of people trying to take away rights that have already been guaranteed by their governing body.

      The ONLY reason they want to know who signed is to start harassing people.

      Incorrect. A simple name and shame can be quite effective and sufficient (and if you truly believe that some people should have fewer rights simply because their brain is wired differently or were created differently, then why would you be ashamed to have anyone know this? Most bigots are proud of their delinquencies). It's drawing a line in the sand saying put up or shut up. If you don't want to be on the public record for having opposed civil rights, rescind your signature.

      Wanna get married, dude? Go find a woman. Dick are for chicks, you silly faggot.

      Oh, I'm terribly sorry; I thought I was having an adult conversatation.

    69. Re:No one should have expected by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 0

      You're ignoring what I said. 'OK' would be an endorsement. I said I have a hard time being upset about it. These are different states of mind.

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    70. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I can think of several regimes in the world, current and past, who would've greatly benefited from such secrecy and in fact did. After all, when you're signing paperwork to kill, mame, torture, enslave, or disable for life millions of humans, or any group divided any way you like, it's very nice to know people will follow your orders and won't know who you are. Afterall, if they did, they might come kill you.

      That, my friend, is intimidation; the struggle for freedom. It's a good thing we use intimidation, because the alternative; violence; solves nothing and the alternative to that, killing, is messy and often solves problems in the least constructive method.

      The problem here is we're putting too much power in the hands of too few. No one man can understand the needs of millions.

      After all, you'd be let into a hospital to see your wife if the hospital wasn't afraid of being sued for malpractice. Used to work that way; today there are too many variables. Nobody trusts each other or the government; predatory acitivtiy commoditizes trust relationships and we are now at the point those costs have become so great they are prohibitory.

    71. Re:No one should have expected by CensorshipDonkey · · Score: 1

      I called your post a "troll" because the article is about how our civics function. If you cannot understand what a public petition is, then really you cannot contribute to the discussion in a meaningful fashion.

    72. Re:No one should have expected by DaHat · · Score: 1

      If you are going to come up with an example about banning something, you really should pick something that is not a specific enumerated right under not only the federal constitution, but the majority of state constitutions as well.

      Sadly for you... only a constitutional amendment can ban them in the US (even if just for hunting).

    73. Re:No one should have expected by manekineko2 · · Score: 1

      Incidentally, that's why a "strict constructionist" judicial philosophy is really at odds with western values - we don't have sacred texts, we value constantly and continuing expanding personal freedoms.

      Not necessarily. You can be strict constructionalist (and strongly support the rule of law, which is really a big part of what that's about), and support constantly rewriting the laws or Constitution to grant expanding personal freedoms. In many ways, it's pretty unfair to hide the laws within the text of legal cases that no one in the ordinary population reads, rather than applying the laws as written, and then changing them when they become outdated.

    74. Re:No one should have expected by JerryLove · · Score: 1

      The poster said he didn't want any laws passed telling others who they could or could not marry.

      I think that there should be restrictions on marriage. The ability to consent comes to mind as one example.

    75. Re:No one should have expected by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Inter-racial marriage wasn't considered a 'natural right' either until Loving V. Virginia, SCotUS 1967. You might do well to read that decision, and mentally replace the references to race with ones to orientation. See if it makes sense.

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    76. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The point is that marriage isn't a religious ceremony at all, it is a civil contract that was coopted by religious groups a few thousand years ago. In fact, there are major religious groups (in the US) that do not allow "church" marriage, because they reject the idea that marriage is a religious ceremony.

    77. Re:No one should have expected by Zerth · · Score: 1

      Any minority? Cannot resist...

      "...anti-Furry groups created and got R-71 on the 2009 election ballot."
      "...anti-Morris Dancing groups created and got R-71 on the 2009 election ballot."
      "...anti-Necrophilia groups created and got R-71 on the 2009 election ballot."
      "...anti-Pedophile rights groups created and got R-71 on the 2009 election ballot."

    78. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous+Codger · · Score: 1

      This is similar to why corporations don't want Card Check, to intimidate their way into power.

      There, fixed it for you.

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    79. Re:No one should have expected by dissy · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      Is there something so horrible about people wanting equal treatment under the law?

      It is to a bigot. I'd venture a guess that not being able to force their will on those that do not want it is a great offense to those people (That is how they respond each and every time at least) and thusly is horrible.

      I think such behavior is disgusting, but believe that is an answer to your question.

    80. Re:No one should have expected by d3ac0n · · Score: 1

      These are different states of mind.

      True. They are. One state is openly hostile to the idea of freedom. The other is merely indifferent.

      It's much like the difference between beating someone up, and standing by while watching someone get beat up then saying you don't care.

      Either way, you are letting thugs off the hook and innocents are being hurt. No moral high ground there bub.

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    81. Re:No one should have expected by natehoy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      With respect, the vote isn't about how people choose to live their lives, but whether their partnerships get the full legal respect of the law. And that is something that, by definition, must be decided through law. While there are people who would discriminate against a gay couple for living together (and that's wrong), the debate here is about inheritance rights, spousal rights, and legal recognition of union.

      As it stands, for example, inheritance law states that spouses don't need to go through Probate to get their inheritance, because anything owned within the marriage is common property. This is a right unique to marriage, but it's a legal right and in order to determine when it applies you need to have a legal statute defining what constitutes an applicable partnership. Some states have a "common law marriage" that in essence forces hetero couples to be considered "married" if they've lived together for a period of time.

      We have a body of laws that legally define who is eligible for marriage, what it takes to be considered "married," how marriages are dissolved, and what rights and responsibilities are part that institution. If we change the eligibility for marriage, then the relevant laws to do so would need to be changed.

      And it's important to avoid the slippery slope of "anything is justified", because it will. These are tricky issues, because (and this is oversimplifying the issue) it pits newly-enabled rights for one group against core religious beliefs of another, and once emotion and self-righteousness enter the debate, it'll end in tears or blood.

      If you feel you need to resort to intimidation to accomplish your goals, and this goes for both sides of the debate, then you should really look at whether your goals are worth pursuing. Intimidation begets violence.

      For the record, I agree with your overall view on gay marriage - I fully support gays getting the full legal rights currently available to heteros. I signed the petition here in Maine that got the ball rolling, and I will be at the ballot box on November 4 to vote against the recall initiative of the gay marriage law here in Maine.

      However, I must disagree with anyone who has the slightest inkling that debate on this issue needs to resort to intimidation, lies, or violence to get there. The end DOES NOT justify the means. Look up "Pyrrhic Victory" sometime. You might get a law passed, but you'll also show the people on the other side that you had to resort to unpleasant measures to get it, which means they'll be motivated next year to overturn the measure with even more unpleasant means of their own.

      If the law stands, it needs to stand because a majority of people looked at the issue and decided with a clear conscience that it was the right thing to do. If the law falls, it must fall because a majority decided with a clear conscience that it was the wrong thing to do. Not because a bunch of them on either side were intimidated with threats of violence into voting against their conscience.

      If the law is voted down, then that means the people are not ready yet, and another petition will start up to test the waters again, and it'll pass eventually. I think anyone with eyes can see how the tide is flowing. It just takes time, diligence, respect, and patience. All of which are hard.

      If intimidation is a valid answer, you need to look at the question again.

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    82. Re:No one should have expected by mea37 · · Score: 1

      If majority rule is your highest value, then I suppose you have a point.

      "I don't care about your rights, I just want things a certain way" is tyrany. Getting 51% of the people to agree on which tyranical practices to implement doesn't make it ok.

    83. Re:No one should have expected by gorckat · · Score: 1

      Seeing the pubic exercise their opinion has so offended certain elements out there.

      Why, yes...yes it has!

      Best typo this week :P

    84. Re:No one should have expected by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      It should be a pretty simple fix, though. Maybe simple enough that even the federal government can't screw it up. All they have to do is replace "spouse" with "designated person", and allow everyone to designate any person they want. You could designate your spouse, of course, regardless of gender, or you could designate a parent, sibling, roommate, close friend, or even a neighbor.

    85. Re:No one should have expected by u38cg · · Score: 1

      Oh goodness, what fun, let's throw necdotes at each other. Of course the actions you describe are not right. Shockingly, it's what happens when people feel their rights are being trampled on: they occasionally lash out. I don't condone the actions you describe, but I don't see anything to be proud of in opposing equal rights for same sex couples either.

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    86. Re:No one should have expected by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      Married families are more stable

      I think the divorce rate in the United States would like to have a word with you.

    87. Re:No one should have expected by IICV · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So what? Homosexuals are people, not saints. A law was passed with the only purpose of taking away one of their rights. Some of them got pissed off and did shitty things. Yet, I don't really blame them; after all, we haven't seen discrimination of this caliber since Plessy v. Ferguson - except in this case the marriages are separate but unequal.

      I see your sort of response all too often - it's basically "you guys should sit down, shut up, and take whatever we feel like dishing out. Stop protesting for your rights, it's rude. And if some of your group decide to go over the line (which I get to define), it's not just because they're assholes, it's because you're all violent."

    88. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Show courage, be consistent.

      It doesn't take courage to be consistent, only character.

      And yes, I have an account because I thought at the time one would be useful, but I consistently post as AC, so meh.

    89. Re:No one should have expected by drsmithy · · Score: 1

      Personally I think I have great way to solve this problem; eliminate completely the concept of legal marriage. Its not needed, and the issue is causing us to waste time better spent on other work. Make it a purely religous or spiritial cermemony, that means nothing legally.

      That would be *extremely* disruptive to pretty much everyone on multiple levels. Do you have any idea how many legal issues are bound to 'marriage' ?

      On the other hand, simply removing discrimination against homosexuals wouldn't be disruptive to anyone except small-minded bigots. All it would effectively boil down to is a bunch of searching and replacing through existing legislation, rather than revisiting dozens (if not hundreds or thousands) of legal decisions.

    90. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Generally, when people are praying 'for' gay people, many rational people would term it praying 'against' gay people.

    91. Re:No one should have expected by madpansy · · Score: 1

      To be fair, this argument can be applied to voting, which is anonymous and cannot be verified by the general public. If highly visible people want to provide momentum for a movement, they can voice their support to the public on their own. It is possible to hold legitimate elections while respecting the privacy of voters, so the same can be true for petitions.

      I am not saying petitions should be private, however. Disclosing petitioners and donors, unfortunately, is a necessary evil in identifying which groups support various politicians and initiatives.

    92. Re:No one should have expected by flieghund · · Score: 1

      A petition is not a vote, it's a public statement that "I support initiative X."

      Gonna have to disagree with you (and everyone else in this discussion making similar statements). While the above is certainly the common understanding of what it means to sign a petition, from a deliberative process standpoint all it really means is that the question (in this case, "Should same-sex unions share the same rights and privileges as opposite-sex unions?") is worthy of consideration. This is distinctly different than "worthy of support." If you feel strongly about a petition (referendum, ballot measure, whatever) -- either strongly for or strongly against -- you should push to see it placed before voters. If for no other reason than to see where the issue really stands in the jurisdiction. (Maybe the overwhelming majority of Washington voters are raging homophobes -- this referendum will let the non-homophobic residents know where they stand.)

      My point is that "supporting" a petition to get a measure on the ballot is not the same thing as supporting the measure itself. The danger of what these folks are doing is that most people will fail to make that distinction and treat anyone who signed the petition as a homophobe. I am not arguing that the petition signers should not be a matter of public record, only that the public should be educated that there is a distinction between supporting a petition and supporting the referendum.

      I am not a resident of Washington, but if I was then I would sign the petition specifically so I could vote against the referendum. Trying to prevent decisive measures from coming to a vote is a losing proposition that engenders a lot of ill will on both sides. If the "No On R-71" crowd is convinced that they can win, they should push for the referendum to be on the ballot so that the supporters can see just how outnumbered they are.

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    93. Re:No one should have expected by Vendetta · · Score: 1

      I have a really hard time believing that people who intentionally go out into public with the stated intention of praying for the gay community (most likely to pray that they aren't gay anymore) aren't trying to drum up attention. Therefore I have a very hard time feeling sorry for them when they get exactly the type of attention they wanted.

    94. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Simple. just have the government only grant civil unions, whether heterosexual or homosexual. marriage can be whatever is defined by a person's religion.

    95. Re:No one should have expected by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 0

      Time to go Godwin. Let's say I'm a holocaust survivor. I find out that the wife of some SS officer who tortured and killed my family was coincidentally raped and murdered by men in the Russian army. Would you say, in that context, that it is IMMORAL for me to be indifferent to that act?

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    96. Re:No one should have expected by tburkhol · · Score: 1

      How is it intimidating to have your public opinions exposed to the public? This is only intimidating if the people opposing gay marriage believe that opposition is wrong and shameful. Or if much of the public believes it is wrong and shameful. Legislators are there representing their constituents, not their own personal opinions. If there is an issue which they can not proudly support, one way or the other, then they should abstain. Making a secret vote, the consequences of which they're not willing to accept, is contrary to the whole theory of representative democracy.

    97. Re:No one should have expected by akakaak · · Score: 1

      One state is openly hostile to the idea of freedom. The other is merely indifferent.

      Uh, you seem to be confused. The ones fighting for freedom here are those trying to stop these bigoted, constraining laws. Attempting to use the legal system to take away the rights of a minority is the worst kind of violence. I have no sympathy for people who are doing that or their apologists.

    98. Re:No one should have expected by DarenN · · Score: 1

      And, of course, you forgot a major reason that states support marriage, and that is to produce little people that will in the future pay taxes and support old people.

      I don't really see the issue with "gay marriage", but some of the debates have be ludicrous. On at least one occasion, an "anti" activist states that they had no problem with legal civil partnerships between gay couples (ummmm, legally that IS marriage). The "pro" activist lost it. The label seems at least as important as any legal rights to these people.

      The use of the petition to harass people who signed it is sinister and very anti-democratic, and whoever is doing it should be prosecuted.

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    99. Re:No one should have expected by Mr+Otobor · · Score: 1

      But this is completely different than a vote, IMHO. The processes, people, money, etc. that get an initiative/referendum/etc. (insert your state's terminology) need as much light on them as possible. I'm all for the votes being kept secret, when it comes time to voting. This allows for an informed and --hopefully-- clean process.

      Also, I'd like to note the similar situation that came up during the Prop 8 before and after here in CA: A lot of people were angry that names of supporters of Prop 8 were published. And in typical conservative fashion (that is a bit of flame-bait, but I think anecdotal experience and lately medical/psychological studies have begun bearing this out) the reaction is fear, paranoia, and suspicion. This largely fell into two categories, "If people know that I supported this they will not use my service/business/store/etc." and, "Gays could come and get me and my family! They know where we live now!"

      So, in case one, my response is "So what?" It is hilarious to me that people who want to set rules and restrictions (they enforce banning gay marriage) on other people via the government so quickly turn around and cry foul and fearful when even the possibility of individual choice (I choose e.g not to have bigots install my siding.) Hilarious. But, let me make it clear: There is no such thing as a guarantee that I will give you money. It could be because your service sucks, you're Arabic looking, you're openly gay, you support inequality and segregation, etc. It seems that people are always behind that concept until it comes to them.

      Case two is more important. We do need to protect the ability to express and legislate unpopular ideas. But neither one of those has any guarantee or even promise of anonymity. The KKK has a right to march down my street, but everyone still gets to see that they are the KKK. It's always been a difficult balancing act, but that goes with the territory. So... "Suck it up." Additionally, back to the hilarious feelings, I wonder if there has been any well document "retaliatory" or "hate crime" attacks on straight people? I'm sure there must have been at least a few, at least in a bar or something. But I wonder how that stacks up against the various and numerable crimes that have been perpetrated against gays? Beatings, killing, maiming, etc. Is it maybe that the folks most against gay rights feel they have the most to fear only because they see their own reflection in the mirror?

    100. Re:No one should have expected by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 1

      In other words, the names should be protected based on what we know these elements will do with them.

      Impossible. Otherwise, any legislator would simply need to say “I have 200,000 signatures against this or that”, and no one could be able to verify.

    101. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just to be precise, nobody has the right to know how you vote unless you're doing so as part of a public structure, such as the state legislature - that's the "Boss Tweed" law to keep unions and other organizations from forcing people to vote a particular way (and beating them up if they didn't). HOWEVER, signing a petition to get a referendum on the ballot is NOT the same thing as voting. It's publicly giving support to a measure that you want to be put to a vote (and not even guaranteeing that you'll vote for it, just saying you want it on the ballot). And THAT is something that the rest of the public does have a right to know, if for no other reason than to validate that the required number of signatures was collected in a legal manner.

      People challenge signatures on ballot petitions (and candidate petitions) all the time - it's been used both for good (to keep fraudulent signatures from counting) and for bad (to disenfranchise voters) for decades, and I doubt it's going to stop ever. I agree that the people who signed this petition should not be harassed or assaulted in any manner that is against the law, but there's nothing wrong with questioning their signatures, outing closet bigots, and possibly humiliating a few people who really need it (e.g., hypocrites). We already have plenty of laws that restrict harassment and the like, not to mention libel and slander (although the mere fact that one signed the petition has the absolute defense of being truth - if the person didn't actually sign it I would think they'd publicly refute it; if they didn't they can't claim that saying they signed it was defamatory...). Public Records are just that - PUBLIC. There should be NO wiggle room here, and if it wasn't related to such an inflammatory topic I doubt if anyone would have noticed...

    102. Re:No one should have expected by kchrist · · Score: 1

      Gay people in CA already have all the legal rights of straight people. No civil rights were stripped, only special rights unavailable to everyone else. (IE: As a non-gay, I could not marry a man. Only members of the special group had that right. It was clearly unconstitutional, and prop 8 rectified that.)

      Complete and utter nonsense.

      The issue is same-sex marriage; there won't be some sort of "gay test" in order to qualify. If, for whatever reason, you as a straight male wished to marry another man, that would be just fine. Ergo, these are not "special" rights, as the opposition is so fond of claiming.

      The issue is simple: Homosexual couples wish to have the exact same rights as straight couples: A legal marriage with all that legally comes along with it (eg, related to inheritance, hospital visitation, etc).

      My favorite part of your rant is where you claim that equal rights are "unconstitutional", while implying that passing laws that explicitly deny these rights is not only legal but also moral.

    103. Re:No one should have expected by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 1

      Or how about the tragic story of El Coyote restaurant? and what has happened to the elderly owner because she was following her beliefs. THAT IS NOT INTIMIDATION????

      Though fucking noogies. She got what she deserved for blindly following her religion. She attempted to fuck her customers, and her customers took their business elsewhere. At least, she should get the life lesson that

      Why is this any different than rednecks not patronizing a pinko-commie business???

    104. Re:No one should have expected by tsm_sf · · Score: 3, Insightful

      2) Gay people in CA already have all the legal rights of straight people. No civil rights were stripped, only special rights unavailable to everyone else. (IE: As a non-gay, I could not marry a man. Only members of the special group had that right. It was clearly unconstitutional, and prop 8 rectified that.)

      That is a truly bizarre leap of logic.

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    105. Re:No one should have expected by DaHat · · Score: 1

      > Uh, you seem to be confused.

      Actually... you are clearly the one who is that.

      >The ones fighting for freedom here are those trying to stop these bigoted, constraining laws.

      So... one man's freedom fighter is another's terrorist?

      > Attempting to use the legal system to take away the rights of a minority is the worst kind of violence.

      Would you please be so kind so as to point out these 'rights' you speak of... which according to my reading of the law (and that of most other legal scholars and judges)... they already have the same rights, just not all avail themselves of them (understandably).

      What is being sought in Washington, like California was/is additional (ie new) rights, not the same rights.

      More so it is sad that you try to find a moral equivalence between physical violence and rather non-violent legislation.

      >I have no sympathy for people who are doing that or their apologists.

      So you have no sympathy for yourself? I'm very sorry to hear you think so little of yourself.

    106. Re:No one should have expected by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 1

      restricting adults from marrying 9-year-olds
      Is there a Godwin's law equivalent for that?

      Yes, it’s called “islam”

    107. Re:No one should have expected by jambarama · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'm for eliminating state-sponsored marriage. Marriage is two things - a document that giving religious people permission to have sex without feeling guilty, and a set of legal rights. These two parts were given to the state back when the state and church were intertwined. However, the state has an important role in the set of legal rights, but should not have any role in granting permission to have guilt-free sex. Separating the two functions shouldn't eliminate the benefits gays want and would not force the religious to recognize **** relationships as marriages.

      The state should create standardized domestic contracts for consenting adults which give the standard rights of marriage with the standard ways out of the contract (a divorce process with normal characteristics, like an obligation to pay child support for any children in common, equal division of assets, etc). These rights would inhere automatically to long-term relationships, as common-law marriages do now. This takes care of the rights function of marriages. The other function can be taken care of by churches. Churches can bless any contract or relationship they deem appropriate with the title of "marriage" and thus bestow guilt-free sex for religious individuals.

      This is win-win. Gay people get the rights they want. Religious people still get permission to have sex.

      People in gay relationships wouldn't object unless what they really want is for the government to force the religious to recognize their relationships as legitimate. Religious people could only object because they don't want gay people to have the same rights which straight people enjoy, not because they want to define marriage in a particular way. Religious individuals can still believe gay relationships are wrong, and pretend churches which marry these individuals don't have authority to do so. Gay individuals can get the rights they need and the title they want.

    108. Re:No one should have expected by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 1

      While I agree that intimidation is wrong, perhaps it's time that the people who are violently opposed to gay rights see the other side.

      Intimidation is nothing but a tool to ensure social compliance.

    109. Re:No one should have expected by cayenne8 · · Score: 1
      "Not that I am comparing the two issues, but I would vote for banning guns. I don't really care about your right to have guns, I just don't want guns, they kill people. So if the majority of the society agrees, we still shouldn't ban guns ?

      By banning I mean "heavily regulated" - only guns to use for hunting.

      I don't live in the USA - where I live guns are heavily regulated and we have a lesbian prime minister :)"

      I'd rather have guns.

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    110. Re:No one should have expected by jambarama · · Score: 1

      Crap, the four asterisks - **** - should be the word gay. When writing the comment I was using both terms 'homosexual' and 'gay,' so I replaced both with asterisks to remind me to pick one word. I missed replacing the top asterisks with the word 'gay'.

    111. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And using the law to control how other people live is NOT intimidation? The law is far more powerful and damaging than some spray paint and maps (not that I condone either).

    112. Re:No one should have expected by Carik · · Score: 1

      Intimidation is nothing but a tool to ensure social compliance.

      Very true. Are you agreeing with me, or disagreeing?

    113. Re:No one should have expected by Late+Adopter · · Score: 1

      The problem with Referenda on sensitive social issues is that the Consitution is specifically designed to protect minorities against discrimination by majority rule.

      By the Federal government. Aside from enumerated protections in the USC amendments, though, the states can run themselves and their citizens pretty much however they want.

    114. Re:No one should have expected by mapkinase · · Score: 1

      "You'll find no single source"

      Thank you.

      Now. The evolution you mentioned is carried in two ways in Western society: roughly speaking, democratic and liberal.

      First way is the way of majority. For example, majority of Californians do not want gay marriage.

      Second way is the way of expanding the general notion of personal freedom to satisfy demands of an emerging group of society. Basically, if the group becomes vocal enough they can declare that now a right to gay marriage is an unalienable right of a human being.

      Is that what you mean by evolution?

      Do you consider denial of gay marriage a persecution of gays?

      Do you consider denial of consensual polygamy marriage as a persecution of Muslims, orthodox Mormons, heterosexual males, females? Granted that there are only twice less Muslims in US than gay, lesbian or besexual (http://www.adherents.com/adh_dem.html and recent Pew report on Muslim demographics).

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    115. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Generally, when people are praying 'for' gay people, many rational people would term it praying 'against' gay people.

      Because obviously, those "rational" people know better than anyone... Arrogant bastard

    116. Re:No one should have expected by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1

      And, you are obviously blind to the potential for abuse. The citizens who sign a petition will be subjected to harassment and picketing by the gay rights activists. There is no reason why a person who signs a petition should expect his name to go onto a hit list for activist harassment.

      Naming the authors, naming the ACTIVE participants of the petition drive is alright. But a private citizen should lose his privacy for signing a petition. The state officials only need to identify the signatures for verification. Once they are verified, they SHOULD NOT remain "public". Like many court documents, they should be sealed and filed.

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    117. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The discussion is over the legal recognition of said marriage.

      Actually, this discussion is over a website listing in a searchable way those who signed a petition to put gay-civil-unions on a ballot.

      Actually, the discussion is over intimidation tactics used on those signers of said ballot found on said website

      But honestly, do we ever stick to the topic on /.?

    118. Re:No one should have expected by JM78 · · Score: 1

      While supporters of traditional marriage use legal and ethical means to promote their agenda, supporters of gay marriage use illegal and unethical means the moment it appears that doing it the legal way isn't winning support...

      First, I'm not going to debate the merits of either side of the debate. Belief what you will, however...

      If you think for even a moment that supporters of traditional marriage don't break the law and use intimidation your global perspective on this issue is completely fucked. People on both sides are equally guilty of doing awful things to other people. Religious folk (of just about every faith) have centuries of persecution and hateful violence towards non-believers. If you're going to stand up on either side of this debate and call people out to disagree with you directly the least you can do is acknowledge that there are egreious faults on both sides.

      Pointing the finger at either side while maintaining the other is innocent of similar violations is outright ignorant hypocrisy.

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    119. Re:No one should have expected by Hatta · · Score: 1

      I don't think a person's rights and privileges are up for "vote".

      Obviously they are. Have you noticed the war on drug users? Fear-mongering has been used to democratically remove the rights of people for a very long time.

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    120. Re:No one should have expected by Runaway1956 · · Score: 0, Troll

      http://community.seattletimes.nwsource.com/reader_feedback/public/display.php?thread=198053&offset=0&column=create_date&direction=DESC

      Join the discussion. Refute the arguments.

      Name and shame? I'm quite proud that I oppose the gay agenda. Peter puffing ain't American. And, I'll thank you to stop comparing queer to being black, or Baptist, or Catholic, or male or female, or whatever else.

      A "lifestyle" is not an inherited condition of your being.

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    121. Re:No one should have expected by drsmithy · · Score: 1

      The problem isn't discrimination against gays, it's discrimination against single people whether gay or straight. As a divorced straight guy I face the same discrimination as any gay.

      No, you don't. Stop trying to conflate separate issues.

    122. Re:No one should have expected by smmccarty · · Score: 1

      Why do people insist on throwing that word around? Do they actually know its meaning? From Dictionary.com: bigot (bg't) n. One who is strongly partial to one's own group, religion, race, or politics and is intolerant of those who differ. While it may be true that conservatives appear to fit this definition, it is also true that the people on the left who accuse them of it appear to be equally guilty of it, if not more so in some instances.

    123. Re:No one should have expected by DaHat · · Score: 1

      He was wrong on that part... however you are missing the key underlying point that like it or not, on the whole all adults in this country have the same 'right' to marry as the rest of them, be they gay, straight or otherwise.

      What is not liked by the proponents of gay marriage is that this 'right' isn't something that they can as readily take advantage of given their preference for a mate runs counter to what current law allows in most states (ie the right to marry a member of the opposite sex).

      >The issue is simple: Homosexual couples wish to have the exact same rights as straight couples: A legal marriage with all that legally comes along with it (eg, related to inheritance, hospital visitation, etc).

      I think you need to ask yourself a very important question... what is the compelling state interest (look it up) in supporting/endorsing marriage? And no... it's not taxes, clearer inheritance law or hospital visitation. Once you understand this answer, you may just understand better why most states have not enacted specific provisions allowing same sex marriage. Btw... the answer is not "homophobia", "bigotry" or "intolerance" either.

      >My favorite part of your rant is where you claim that equal rights are "unconstitutional", while implying that passing laws that explicitly deny these rights is not only legal but also moral.

      You know... you are doing much what the CA Supreme Court did when they made their ruling which lead to Prop 8... inventing things they wanted to see out of whole cloth... but that's ok, with the cherry picking you did above it's no wonder.

    124. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      married paople pay fewer taxes.

      So that is why they call it the marriage tax penalty? http://marriage.about.com/od/finances/a/marriagepenalty.htm

      At the low end of the income scale married people pay the same taxes. As you move up in the tax brackets the marriage penalty kicks in and gets progressively worse.

    125. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      2) Gay people in CA already have all the legal rights of straight people. No civil rights were stripped, only special rights unavailable to everyone else. (IE: As a non-gay, I could not marry a man. Only members of the special group had that right. It was clearly unconstitutional, and prop 8 rectified that.)

      So if everybody were allowed to marry people of their own gender, regardless of their sexuality, you would be OK with that, right? I mean, then it's not "special rights" for anyone...

    126. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is no such thing as "Supporters of Traditional Marriage" there are only people who are Anti-Gay Marriage. I'm pretty sure not a single support of gay marriage does not also support heterosexual marriage or as you would say "Traditional Marriage" (Although not Bible correct, or historically correct). The moment you start realizing that you are actually against someone else's rights and you aren't actually defending yours is the moment you'll be on the right side of this debate (and history.)

      I don't believe in intimidation and think any actions threatening violence are wrong. But to say anti-gay marriage population is acting in an ethical way is shameful as well.

      Also Petitions are obviously open to the public and need to have signatures readable, otherwise what would the point be?

    127. Re:No one should have expected by DaHat · · Score: 1

      >And using the law to control how other people live is NOT intimidation?

      You mean being simply being gay or being involved in a same sex relationship has been outlawed in California or Washington?

      I must have missed that story on the news.

    128. Re:No one should have expected by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      How would it destroy marriage, since for them marriage is something given from god? The fact that the state doesn't care anymore doesn't magically take away something granted from god.

    129. Re:No one should have expected by DaHat · · Score: 1

      > She got what she deserved for blindly following her religion.

      What evidence do you have that she was "blindly following her religion"?

      For all you know she was following her religion with eyes wide open and full understanding of what she believed and did.

      Chances are I know no more on the subject of her than you... the difference though is that unlike you I am not making specific (bigoted) accusations on the subject.

    130. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think the logic is, if you condemn all gay rights supports for the bad acts of a few, yet ignore the bad acts of the opponents to gay rights...

      then you're a hypocrite full of bullshit.

    131. Re:No one should have expected by sexybomber · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Actually, this discussion is over a website listing in a searchable way those who signed a petition to put gay-civil-unions on a ballot.

      I think that's the wrong way around; if I'm reading the article correctly, the people in question are those who signed a petition to put Washington's version of Prop. 8 on the ballot, i.e. those who are against civil unions.

      This is an important point. If it were pro-equality signatories who were being "exposed", then I'd be a lot more worried about it. Simply put, giving the radical right easy access to a list of people who are pro-equality would be very, very dangerous, much more so than giving "the gays and their allies" easy access to a list of bigots... the reason being that the right-wing reactionaries fighting against gay rights tend to be a whole lot more violent than those fighting for them. Tell me, have you ever heard of a fundamentalist Christian getting brutally beaten, tied to a fencepost, and left to die, just on account of their beliefs? When was the last time a right-wing megachurch got shot up?

      Now, granted, there may be instances where right-wingers have felt intimidated because of their stance against equal rights. There may have been threats made. Someone's feelings may, in fact, have been hurt. But I maintain that any intimidation coming from the pro-rights camp doesn't even begin to come close to that perpetrated by the right wing. I'm sure the poster who was wharrgarbling above about pro-gay intimidation will have something to say to this, but I'll nip it in the bud by requesting that any corroborating links in a reply not come from Michelle Malkin or other shrill, obviously biased, right-wing mouthpieces.

      What's that? Can't find any examples from actual, reputable sources? Well, that's going to be a problem, then, isn't it?

    132. Re:No one should have expected by morganm · · Score: 1

      Apparently you missed the "prop 8" debacle in California. Sunshine laws were used to create maps to the HOMES of people who donated to support prop 8.

      That's not intimidation?

      The article you linked clearly states the maps give the approximate location of the contributor. This information can be used for intimidation, but, speaking as a gay male, it can also be used to withhold my business from the hair stylist up the street that donated, or avoid classes with the teacher, or pick a different carpet cleaner, business analyst, etc.

      I will certainly be checking this mashup before I spend my money with someone that will turn around and spend it to restrict my rights.

      The extreme actions of small fringe groups should not completely overshadow the benefits to the rest of us.

    133. Re:No one should have expected by CraftyJack · · Score: 1

      The guiding principles of western democracies are Liberté, égalité, and fraternité.

      Seriously. Fast-forward twenty years, and this will just be another topic in a civil rights class.

    134. Re:No one should have expected by kenh · · Score: 1

      A petition is in support of a measure going up for a vote. Keeping the list of supporters"private" eliminates the ability to prove that claimed support of the measure actually exists. Imagine if all a group needs to do is hand over boxes of names and claim everyone in those boxes support thier cause, and you, an opponent, are prevented from questioning their claim because the supporters of the cause have a right to privacy. Signing a petition in support of a measure is a public show of support, to make it private defeats that very purpose.

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    135. Re:No one should have expected by Taevin · · Score: 1

      What is being sought in Washington, like California was/is additional (ie new) rights, not the same rights.

      Is there some kind of conservative playbook that teaches you to throw a collection of information into a bottle, shake it, and then present whatever garbage that comes out as the truth? Or is just a side effect of having an underdeveloped cerebral cortex?

      Hold onto your seat, because I'm about to blow your fucking mind. Washington already has domestic partnerships. Right now in Washington, there are many families led by two men and they are raising children. I know, must be terrifying.

      However, even though homosexual couples can enter into a domestic partnership and receive some of the rights heterosexual couples have in a full "marriage," domestic partnerships are still lesser than marriages. That is, many rights are still not afforded to people in domestic partnerships. So yeah, homosexuals are fighting to gain "additional" rights in hopes of coming somewhere close to a heterosexual marriage. Referendum 71 is an attempt to get a vote to repeal these rights already guaranteed. So not only do gay couples not have the same rights, people are fighting to make sure they have zero rights.

      So no, it's not OK for gays to use violence or threats of violence to further their cause. I can't say I blame them though. These people have declare war on their existence and are determined to make sure they are treated as less than human. It's completely unreasonable to expect that homosexuals won't fight back.

    136. Re:No one should have expected by lwsimon · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Yes, it is rather horrible.

      The parent poster and I agree that those legal protections should not exist in the first place. Rather than extend them to another group, we seek to abolish those protections entirely.

      Historically, marriage licenses were required only to marry someone who your were otherwise prohibited from marrying - such as someone of another race. With the civil rights movement, marriage licenses began to be required by all, rather than simply abolishing them.

      The system we have today has its roots in racism, and is now being used to discriminate against another class of people. Instead of seeking inclusion for those people, how about getting rid of the system that has historically been used to discriminate?

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    137. Re:No one should have expected by pbhj · · Score: 1

      They want marriage specifically for the legal protections that straight people already have: so they can force employers to provide health insurance, get estate rights when their partners die, tax breaks, etc.

      There, fixed that for you.

      Is there something so horrible about people wanting equal treatment under the law?

      When homosexual partnerships are legally recognised and offer the same protections then it seems homosexuals still want to be "married" rather than have their "civil union". It's as much about forcing social acceptance as anything else in such places. Marriage is a social construct which has almost universally been considered a benefit to society - same sex unions not so much (not that they haven't in certain contexts, consider say the Sacred Band of Thebes, but often greek same-sex unions it seems were short lived and at the right age [heterosexual] marriage was the norm).

      Personally in financial considerations before the state (in the UK) being married has always been detrimental, in that if ones partner has any means of their own they are weighed against any support from the state one might receive.

    138. Re:No one should have expected by lwsimon · · Score: 1

      The guiding principles of western democracies are Liberté, égalité, and fraternité.

      That would be the guiding principles of the French Revolution. While it certainly influenced the American system, we are not merely a copy, and our reasons were somewhat different. Specifically, "brotherhood" is not something that I would identify with our system of government.

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    139. Re:No one should have expected by Alpha830RulZ · · Score: 1

      Seems to me that the Prop 8 folks got a taste of what it's like to be singled out and harrassed for what they thought should have been private behavior. I have no sympathy.

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    140. Re:No one should have expected by pbhj · · Score: 1

      So basically "unprovoked violence is legitimate if it supports my ends"?

      I find that rather uncivilised.

    141. Re:No one should have expected by Alpha830RulZ · · Score: 1

      So, because some OTHER people, in the past, have wrongly beaten up and attacked (or, worse, killed) some Gays, then it is OK, to do the same to OTHER completely innocent people who had nothing to do with, nor condone the violence perpetrated against some gays?

      Supporting Prop 8 is nothing other than direct discrimination against gays. If you signed the petition, you, not someone else, are saying that -you- want the state to discriminate against gays.

      This has nothing to do with some other person harrassing or beating gays. The signators essentially said, in a public document, that they themselves support harrassing gays. In doing so, they assume part of the responsibility for the violence, because they are endorsing the beliefs that they share with the violent anti gay thugs.

      It's no different than the southern gentry eschewing the beating of negroes themselves, while neglecting to prosecute the lower class whites who did it for them.

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    142. Re:No one should have expected by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Oh ho ho. I wish I could mod you up. However, I'm sure that a bunch of PC police will come along and mod you down because they're afraid of the truth. (Look up the age of Muhammad's youngest wife.)

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    143. Re:No one should have expected by Taevin · · Score: 1
      Here's why you're a hateful bigot:

      What is not liked by the proponents of interracial marriage is that this 'right' isn't something that they can as readily take advantage of given their preference for a mate runs counter to what current law allows in most states (ie the right to marry a member of a different race).

      I think you need to ask yourself a very important question... what is the compelling state interest (look it up) in supporting/endorsing marriage? And no... it's not taxes, clearer inheritance law or hospital visitation. Once you understand this answer, you may just understand better why most states have not enacted specific provisions allowing same sex marriage. Btw... the answer is not "homophobia", "bigotry" or "intolerance" either.

      Really? Here's a compelling State interest: equal rights to all human beings. OK, your implied "compelling interest" is children. Not that this hasn't been countered to death, but maybe you'll be the first person in human history to provide a cogent argument.

      If the compelling State interest to provide additional benefits to couples in the interests of raising children why

      • do unwed couples with children not receive benefits?
      • do wed couples without children receive benefits?
      • do wed couples who refuse to ever procreate (even before marriage) receive benefits?
      • does the State allow divorce?
      • does the State allow abortion?
      • does the State allow adoption?
      • do homosexual couples already raising children not receive benefits?
      • do homosexual couples who desire to help raise foster and unwanted children not receive benefits?
      • do marriages provide thousands of benefits and rights completely unrelated to childrearing?

      I'm sure I could go on all day. So yeah, so far it seems the only reason to oppose homosexual marriage is bigotry. Feel free to craft a real argument, but please skip the slurry of hate and nonsense.

    144. Re:No one should have expected by ImYourVirus · · Score: 1

      ... any person they want. You could designate your spouse, of course, regardless of gender, or you could designate a parent, sibling, roommate, close friend, or even a neighbor.

      How will they know that person said it was consensual as well as the fact I thought you couldn't marry a family member.

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    145. Re:No one should have expected by pbhj · · Score: 1

      their efforts to conceal their signatures are no different than the white hoods the KKK used to wear.

      I thought the US had a notion of voting according to ones conscience and not according to the pressure put on one by threats of violence and intimidation. I didn't realise that all public elections were published - where can I look up how you voted in the last election campaign?

    146. Re:No one should have expected by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      (1/3) Whether the gays came to her establishment or she set up a gay establishment is irrelevant. When the bulk of your business is selling stuff to gay people, you should think long and hard before biting the hand that feeds you. If you are convinced that your stand is honorable, accept your lumps. I do not condone harassment and threats should be taken seriously and investigated, but really, if her business were flourishing it wouldn't be an issue if she got some nasty phone calls. The real problem is that she's essentially out of work.
      (2) Is bullshit, and even if it weren't and this were only about the semantics of the word marriage, you've still got a "separate but equal" problem.
      (4)Churches have tax exempt status that is contingent on their separation from politics. To preach politics from the pulpit and still make use of the tax status is a violation of tax law.
      (5) You have a right to free speech. Law enforcement has an obligation to investigate any crimes committed against regardless of any speech you've made. You do not have a right to not to be called names, picketed, or even shouted at or offended because people don't like your speech (right up to the legal limit of harassment.) If any of those legal forms of counter-speech intimidate or make you fearful, then you do not have the right to speak free of fear or intimidation. The only way for that to be so would be to infringe on the free speech rights of others.

    147. Re:No one should have expected by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      Prop 8 is itself way beyond intimidation to a very disturbing degree. I do not think the responses you described were proportional, but then again it's hard to be sympathetic towards those who want to take the most basic freedoms of their fellow citizens away from them.

      Regarding "peacefully praying for gays" - try getting in the central square of Jerusalem and singing Horst- Wessel-Lied. I'm sure this will be very much appreciated by the local community.

      Like it or not, but Christianity has a long history of hostility towards gays, and so if you're a Christian, then, yes, the implication is that you're on the other side of the barricade - most Christians are, after all, especially the devout kind that is likely to sing Jesus songs and such. It may not always hold true, but if you choose to associate with a religion that is widely known for it, it's up to you to prove that you're not sharing the mainstream views of that religion.

      (That said, I still don't think that hurling death threats at people except when they are actually committing a violent crime is acceptable, under any circumstances.)

      While supporters of traditional marriage use legal and ethical means to promote their agenda

      "Supporting traditional marriage" - which is just conservative-speak for "taking rights away from those we don't like because Bible says so" - is in and of itself highly unethical. Legal, yes - unfortunately, U.S. Constitution at present doesn't seem to have any kind of protection for the minority here. It really should.

    148. Re:No one should have expected by Big+Boss · · Score: 1

      I don't know about the poster you are responding to, but I would support all of the above. While on a personal level, I don't see myself wanting same-sex or polygamy, I don't have a problem with other people doing it. There are some concerns I do have with incest, that it causes physical problems with offspring. I do believe that we should protect the rights of the unborn to some degree, so I would have to disagree with incest so long as offspring can be produced. If it is physically impossible for reproduction to occur in the relationship (one or both are unable to have children) then I see no reason for me to object to it other than "it's gross". As that is merely my opinion of "gross" and it harms no other people, I can't bring myself to object to it in law. I'll just choose not to do it myself. So yes, in that case, I have no problem with a marriage that includes close familial relationships. I don't like it personally, nor would I do it personally, but that's not a good enough reason to use government force to prevent it. Other people are entitled to disagree with me.

      The only other caveat I have with marriage is that all parties are consenting adults. I don't mind polygamy, I DO mind child abuse.

      While I agree that these sorts of changes require some re-working of laws and forms, I think they are necessary if we are to provide "equal protection under the law" for everyone. I also believe that such laws should include a provision that churches only have to perform ceremonies if they wish to. The government is not allowed to force religions to recognize marriages they disagree with or force acceptance of other beliefs on the various religions. That would be, in effect, a state religion. If you don't like the beliefs of a particular religion, you are free to locate another one. There are plenty of them out there. Or start your own I suppose. Whatever.

    149. Re:No one should have expected by xnderxnder · · Score: 1

      You dolt..

      1) Anti-Prop8 graffiti - could have been anyone. Judging the tactics by the religious zealots throughout that campaign, it's equally likely that it was planted. No one was charged.

      2) El Coyote.. tragic? Hah. A restaurant with a large gay clientele until its owner donated money (essentially from that gay clientele) to No on 8.. the backlash is a straightforward boycott. Why would that large gay clientele want to continue giving money to someone who thinks they are second class citizens. That's not intimidation, that's the consequence of making a stupid stupid decision.

      3) The mobbing in San Fran - let's see, what else did this known religious fanatic group expect when they start spouting their bullshit in the Castro? That's like a group of KKK going to a Martin Luther King day event and chanting how all them n*****s should go back to picking cotton.

      Those religious fanatics went into a hostile crowd and incited them. And then cried "oppression" when they met resistance. Hardly "intimidation."

      Wanna try again?

      What the Haters in Washington are trying to accomplish is a subversion of well understood law so they can HATE anonymously. That's deeply unamerican, and cowardly.

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    150. Re:No one should have expected by Just+Some+Guy · · Score: 1

      This is similar to why corporations don't want Card Check, to intimidate their way into power. There, fixed it for you.

      I'm not a corporation, and I don't want it. I'm not keen on the idea of a union steward coming into my office and asking me to vote yay or nay right there on the spot.

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    151. Re:No one should have expected by Taevin · · Score: 1

      http://community.seattletimes.nwsource.com/reader_feedback/public/display.php?thread=198053&offset=0&column=create_date&direction=DESC [nwsource.com] Join the discussion. Refute the arguments.

      Right, because I want to waste my time on a comments roll where the people have this much of a grip on reality:

      What a shock (not) that the lefty loons on the 9th Circuit issued that inane ruling. To hell with voter confidentiality if it flies in the face of their politics, right? I’m glad there’s a Kennedy who does NOT hail from Massachusetts.

      Name and shame? I'm quite proud that I oppose the gay agenda.

      Good for you; I told you bigots were proud of their delinquencies!

      And, I'll thank you to stop comparing queer to being black, or Baptist, or Catholic, or male or female, or whatever else.

      A "lifestyle" is not an inherited condition of your being.

      If no one has a right to be homosexual because it's a "lifestyle" (this term makes no sense), then why does anyone have a right to be Baptist or Catholic? That's also a "lifestyle." Congratulations, you yourself just compared "queer" to being Baptist.

      However, I'm curious: what's your take on the homosexual behavior exhibited by every mammalian species that has been studied in any depth? Those deer watch too much Bravo and decided the "lifestyle" was right for them?

    152. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Please do not use "gay" and "rectify" in the same post.

    153. Re:No one should have expected by xnderxnder · · Score: 1

      Deacon .. Please cite an instance where a straight person has been beaten to death (or near death, or even hospitalized) by a gay person just because they are straight.

      Gays face violence and death everyday in the US for simply existing.

      Your FUD, and that of your hateful religious brethren is tired. No one is suggesting gays do the same thing (beat up, attack kill) to straight people.

      They would just like to be afforded their rights as citizens.

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    154. Re:No one should have expected by thePowerOfGrayskull · · Score: 1
      Let's just throw up a bunch of straw men and hope that a sufficient distraction is created.

      It would be idiotic to vote on who you yourself could marry. So while you could say "placing restrictions on marriage bothers me", it is non-sensical to say what you have.

      Might as well get the insult in there too, right? But seriously, what are you talking about? It's idiotic for one adult to marry another adult, and to have that marriage legally recognized?

      And further I cannot agree with it. Certainly, restricting adults from marrying 9-year-olds is something I agree with.

      I should hope so. But the age of consent has nothing to do with what's under discussion - legal recognition of marriage of consenting adults.

      So if I don't want to give a man the right to take a standard tax deduction as a married couple because he decided to marry a sheep, I should be shot?

      Who's talking about sheep? Again, we're talking about legal recognition of the marriage of consenting adults.

      On the other hand: no one has told you who you can or cannot marry. The discussion is over the legal recognition of said marriage.

      Why yes, yes it is. So why are you trying to turn the discussion away from that point, in practically every other sentence you posted?

    155. Re:No one should have expected by mounthood · · Score: 1

      In a democracy there are two ways to participate in politics. One is to exercise your right to vote in secret. The other is to publicly organize.

      There is a third way: give your opinion when asked. The public opinion poll is a major factor in almost all politics today.

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    156. Re:No one should have expected by martyros · · Score: 1

      however no one should have to put up with an organized intimidation process which is the new method of choice.

      So the problem isn't so much that the information was revealed, but that it was (perhaps) posted in a way designed to foster intimidation? I.e., this is pretty much the same as militant anti-abortion groups posting names, phone numbers, and home addresses of abortion doctors? On the one hand, all you're doing is posting names and addresses, which is to some degree public information. On the other hand, the reason you're posting it is that you know that "someone" "may" cause the person grief of some sort.

      I forget what the precedent was wrt the abortion doctors. Is there actually a law against this kind of thing (and can there be)? Or do you just have to wait until people start threatening you and then pursue legal action?

      Whatever it is, the law needs to be consistent... but ideally, as you say, intimidation shouldn't happen.

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    157. Re:No one should have expected by rpmonkey · · Score: 1

      Ok, so that is a few examples of people whose rights were violated. Yes, that is wrong, and shouldn't have happened. HOWEVER, what you're missing here is that the passage of Prop 8 violated the rights of tens if not hundreds of thousands of gay Californians. The fourteenth amendment of the constitution guarantees equal protection under the law. Gay men and women in California do NOT have equal protection under the law. It is very wrong at a fundamental level when one group of people can vote away the rights of another group of people. That is exactly what they're trying to do in Washington. It is a grave injustice, and I support anything short of violence (or threats of) and property damage against the people who are trying to pass this law.

      I'm a straight, married, father of two children who I do not want to grow up in a world where some people are "more equal than others."

    158. Re:No one should have expected by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      How will they know that person said it was consensual

      How do you know someone has agreed to anything? I'm sure there would be a line on the form for the designated person to sign.

      as well as the fact I thought you couldn't marry a family member.

      That restriction is because of the medical risks to children from genetic defects that may be present in both parents. That law can often be bypassed if there is no possibility of having children; I have a family member who married his first cousin when they were both in their 50's or 60's.

    159. Re:No one should have expected by JerryLove · · Score: 1

      I think that's the wrong way around; if I'm reading the article correctly, the people in question are those who signed a petition to put Washington's version of Prop. 8 on the ballot, i.e. those who are against civil unions.

      Yes, I thinnk someone else mentioned that, though the Slashdot title certainly doesn't read that way. :)

      This is an important point. If it were pro-equality signatories who were being "exposed", then I'd be a lot more worried about it. Simply put, giving the radical right easy access to a list of people who are pro-equality would be very, very dangerous, much more so than giving "the gays and their allies" easy access to a list of bigots...

      So some harrassment is OK but not other harassment? It would seem to me that the intent was the first issue, and the consequence a second.

      I think I feel pretty similar either way. Both sides deserve to be able to petition without drawing harassment.

      What's that? Can't find any examples from actual, reputable sources? Well, that's going to be a problem, then, isn't it?

      A problem for whom? Since I've not cited "might get them lynched" as a reason to oppose the list, it's a non-issue for me.

    160. Re:No one should have expected by Neo+Quietus · · Score: 1

      Oh look, another bigot who has to resort to name calling and vague appeals to "Americanism". Color me surprised.

    161. Re:No one should have expected by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1

      Give me one good reason to believe that gay "marriage" is good for society. One. I will not consider some narcissistic nonsense about "it's my right". You have the rights designated by law, no more, no less.

      You saw that I'm actively engaged in that conversation on the Seattle paper. Refute my objections. No one else attempts to. All I hear are complaints that "I should be allowed to gaze into my navel, or my gaybo buddy's navel, and eat lotus forever if I choose."

      No one suggests that gay marriage will benefit society. No one.

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    162. Re:No one should have expected by JerryLove · · Score: 1

      Let's just throw up a bunch of straw men and hope that a sufficient distraction is created.

      Although I'm certain you intend this as an accusation against my post, I think you'll find that it is you, not I who is doing so. I will specifically illustrate below.

      Might as well get the insult in there too, right? But seriously, what are you talking about? It's idiotic for one adult to marry another adult, and to have that marriage legally recognized?

      That voting only for your own rights and restrictions would be silly. One doesn't need laws to coform their own behavior. The whole point of laws is to control everyone.

      I should hope so. But the age of consent has nothing to do with what's under discussion - legal recognition of marriage of consenting adults.

      The topic discssion is about outing petitioners.

      The comment I responded to was one that said no one should ever restrict anyone else from doing anything.

      Do you agree that no laws should be passed to restrict anything? You don't (as you don't want 9-year-olds to enter into legal contracts), therefore you agree with me.

      I wasn't discussing gay marriage at all. I didn't mention it.

      Your straw-man here is that gay marrage was somehow discussed in my post when it was not. You then defeated the argument I did not make.

      Who's talking about sheep? Again, we're talking about legal recognition of the marriage of consenting adults.

      That's the same straw-man as above. We are not talking about the legal recognition of the marriage of conseting adults.

      The poster above me (who somehow advocated murder and anarchy and got modded 5) said that no one should restrict anyone else at all. I pointed out that such a position was rediculious.

      Why yes, yes it is. So why are you trying to turn the discussion away from that point, in practically every other sentence you posted?

      Actually, I was the first person to bring that up. The original topic was the outing of petitioners, the response was that they should be outed and shot, and that no one should ever restrict any marriages. I pointed out that "no restrictions at all" was not a good thing, and that (despite that) no one was actually restricting marriages (you can go the the church and marry a goat if you like), what is restricted by law is the recognition of said marriages.

      So there are four topics getting juxtiposed together. I was obviously not clear in my initial post in that so many have decided to read into it arguments I did not make.

    163. Re:No one should have expected by S7urm · · Score: 1

      Then along that same vein, why is it ok for people to be told they can't do drugs, or what form of medication they can and can't buy over the counter. What's to stop two consenting Siblings from marrying, or for that matter, what right, in anyway, does the government have, to dictate ANY action I take on my own property or put into my own body, or do to my own family?

      There's the slippery slope for you, when people start screaming about the GOVERNMENT prohibiting them from doing something that only impacts THEM, you open the gates to allow ANYTHING personal, that is prohibited by the Governemtn, to be repealed (which I agree with) BUT I wonder, how many people who use that point, really wanna see Heroin or Cocaine sold in Pharmacy's and convenience stores, And I know we all chuckle when we see the Crack vending machines on Futurama, but when it's real life, will you be soooo quick to say that Government should or shouldn't have some say? I am willing to bet a LOT of people who thump on this ideal would very quickly shy away from repealing Drug laws.

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    164. Re:No one should have expected by mayko · · Score: 1

      You're right, it won't destroy the sanctity of their marriage... but there is probably plenty who think that their tax breaks are God given rights that come with marriage too. Remember... They are the foundation of society...

      I agree with your logical response. But, keep in mind that we're not dealing with logic here (obviously).

    165. Re:No one should have expected by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1

      That's right - Americanism. I am a proud American, and I have the DD-214 to show for it. Don't be surprised at all that men and women who serve are willing to voice their opinions. In fact, we EARNED the right to do so.

      Don't like my opinion? Fine. Vote against my ideas and opinions. But, don't be surprised when you are outvoted, like you were with California's proposition 8. At the ballot box, an activist is just another voter.

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    166. Re:No one should have expected by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      For one, there are laws against anything substantive (vandalism, assault, etc), and for another, if the majority of the public really DOES agree with them there should be no risk of ostracism.

      It doesn't take the majority of the public to fuck up your life. All it takes is an activist minority. Or a couple of guys with anger issues and your name. Or your boss.

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    167. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Marriage is, and has always been, a partnership between two people where, in many ways, they get to act like a single, large individual, in some cases to accomplish something that one person cannot easily accomplish (procreation and child-rearing among them, but not exclusively).

      Are you saying that corporations are somehow "discriminatory" against private business owners? After all, they're treated differently in terms of taxes and the way company property is handled.

      We grant societal benefits to marriages because a) they're an incredibly common two-person partnership, so ubiquitous that legal shorthand is an absolute necessity; and b) because those partnerships tend to be beneficial to society as a whole.

      Sure, there are bad marriages. Can you imagine the chaos if each
      and every one of them had unique contract language to incorporate them? Every third person in America would have to be a Corporate Divorce Lawyer. Our GDP would never recover from the drain.

      Societally, we WANT to encourage people to efficiently co-operate. It's good for all of us.

    168. Re:No one should have expected by ArtemaOne · · Score: 1

      He specifically said "Two wrongs may not make a right" and "I wouldn't endorse the behavior of the more extreme activists", so your entire post is filled with failure.

    169. Re:No one should have expected by virg_mattes · · Score: 2, Insightful

      > This is an important point. If it were pro-equality signatories who were being "exposed", then I'd be a lot more worried about it.

      The problem is that the actual topic is the exposure of petitioners' names in a searchable format. The very problem that worries you becomes much easier if this happens, and I defy you to tell me that the "right wing" that worries you so much won't immediately start using this very law to expose their opponents.

      I'm concerned for the same reason that you're not. This sunshine law is a system that encourages abuse and intimidation of petitioners, thereby interfering with the voting process by suppressing petitions. Anonymity may not be a big concern for this particular petition, but it's a concern for every future petition.

      Virg

    170. Re:No one should have expected by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      the declaration of independence was essentially a petition, and the signatories certainly faced consequences for attaching their names to the document.

      The Declaration of Independence was a letter sent to the King, sent by people with significant influence to state their position. The signatures were an unavoidable side effect, necessary so that the King could see that those people were influential. Sure, John Hancock took distinct pride in his support of the Declaration, but that wasn't why he signed. Nowadays, those people could start a media campaign, and demonstrate their influence directly.

      Petitions have a different role these days. They are analogous to a primary: they act as a gatekeeper to get legislation on the ballot. The names aren't important, just the numbers.

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    171. Re:No one should have expected by Taevin · · Score: 1

      Give me one good reason to believe that gay "marriage" is good for society. One.

      Lower incidence of sexually-transmitted diseases and suicide, particularly among youth (you know, the children you all are claiming to want to protect). STDs place a burden upon society in medical and maintenance costs. Suicide removes potentially useful members who may do "good" for society.

      It should come as no surprise that homosexuals are more likely to respect the bounds of their relationships when the society they live in also treat such relationships with respect. Don't forget, even if HIV and the like are "gay diseases" brought on by God to punish the wicked, they can still spread to the self righteous believers like yourself. I'm one of those terrifying things you dare not conceive: a bisexual. I could take it up the butt from God knows who and then impregnate your wife with my demon seed.

      Monogamous (or at least responsible) relationships encourage the growth of stable individuals whom are a benefit to society. Period.

      I will not consider some narcissistic nonsense about "it's my right".

      That pretty much says all one need know about you.

      You have the rights designated by law, no more, no less.

      This is so wrong I don't even know where to begin. Let me put it to you this way though: you better hope that human rights and dignity come from somewhere other than a scrap of paper somewhere because otherwise we're all fucked. That means 0.00001% of the country's population can grant or retract rights at a whim.

      You saw that I'm actively engaged in that conversation on the Seattle paper. Refute my objections.

      And you saw that I'm actively engaged in the discussion here on this website. Refute my objections instead of attempting misdirection. Why would I go argue on a comment roll that has no thread context, has no community moderation system, is limited in the quantity and format of text allowed, and where the participants don't even appear to know what they're arguing about?

      Seriously, some can't tell the difference between a public statement requesting a measure be put on a ballot and an anonymous vote. Others appear to think that the gay community is behind R71.

      All I hear are complaints that "I should be allowed to gaze into my navel, or my gaybo buddy's navel, and eat lotus forever if I choose."

      No one suggests that gay marriage will benefit society. No one.

      Who cares? If I want to gaze into my "gaybo buddy's" navel, you're goddamn right that I should be allowed to. Last I checked this was still a free country and the burden of proof is on you that I should not have that right.

      Why is the bar set at a benefit for society anyway? Football does no good for society as far as I can tell. It breeds violence, drug use, organized crime, creates poor roll models for children, and as a society we spend an unbelievable amount of money on it--money that could be used to do "good for society." And yet we allow it and in fact, regard little else as more "American."

    172. Re:No one should have expected by virg_mattes · · Score: 1

      > Hiding public records is how people stack votes; doing that now just because people MIGHT be annoyed with an email or a phone call goes against everything this nation is supposed to stand for.

      I'd consider this a great argument if only it was relevant. This has nothing to do with voting (which is secret now); hiding the petitioners' names has no effect on voting. I don't see any problem with anonymity in petitions, because they mean nothing until and unless they pass muster by garnering sufficient votes. Who cares that I don't get to see a list of signers? I can still vote it up or down at my preference and nobody will know which way I voted. Since there's fear that retaliation against petitioners will follow the revelation of names, I'm on the side of protecting these people from unnecessary risk, and I'll get my shot at whatever petitions appear on election day.

      Virg

    173. Re:No one should have expected by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      I should not need a license, for instance.

      You don't; you can live with whoever you want, have sex with whoever you want, have kids with whoever you want, and so on and so forth.

      Nobody is forcing you and your significant other to go get a marriage license - unless you want the government to give you something because of it. And if that's the case, you shouldn't be surprised that the government wants legal documentation of your relationship.

    174. Re:No one should have expected by TheMuon · · Score: 1

      From my understanding, the origins of marriage have less to do with religion and more to do with an exchange of property. As in, I'll give you 7 goats 3 cows and a horse for your daughter.

    175. Re:No one should have expected by gblfxt · · Score: 1

      i think he means straight people should be able to marry gay people if gay people are able too.... which oddly seems to be a common theme to stop gay marriage.....

    176. Re:No one should have expected by sbeckstead · · Score: 1

      Freedom of expression is freedom from fear

      No not true, freedom of speech has consequences. Has always had consequences. You are free to say what you will but you must also then accept the backlash or acclaim that goes with what you just said. Anonymous speech is also protected but there are consequences there as well especially when they find out who you are. You are always free to say what you want just be ready to defend yourself after you say it. This alone should make people think twice about what they say and how they say it. Just because it can be said does not mean it should be said.

    177. Re:No one should have expected by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      The label seems at least as important as any legal rights to these people.

      That's exactly the issue.

      I merely oppose the use of the word "marriage" to describe homosexual relationships. That is all. I support gay civil unions, through which all the same rights can be obtained (at least as far as I'm aware, and nobody has shown me contradictory evidence yet). Yet pro-gay-marriage people hear me say this, and start calling me bigoted.

      They want to use the word "marriage" to describe heterosexual couples, and that's all there is to it.

    178. Re:No one should have expected by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      A law was passed with the only purpose of taking away one of their rights.

      Marriage is not a right. It's a legal status. Just to clarify.

      except in this case the marriages are separate but unequal.

      If civil unions and marriage are unequal, why do people consistently fail to show any rights that heterosexual married couples can obtain that cannot be obtained by gay couples in a civil union?

    179. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The bible does, or we'd all be living in Eden!

    180. Re:No one should have expected by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      How is a gay being discriminated against? It is illegal to discriminate because of sexual orientation these days, you know. But you can deny me a job or housing because of my being single quite legally. And it's not my choice to be single -- I would marry in a minute if I could find a suitable mate.

    181. Re:No one should have expected by DaHat · · Score: 1

      >Is there some kind of conservative playbook that teaches you to throw a collection of information into a bottle, shake it, and then present whatever garbage that comes out as the truth? Or is just a side effect of having an underdeveloped cerebral cortex?

      So rather than discuss you get into labeling, and in a pejorative way no less while engaging in personal attacks? You must be pretty dang confident in your stance when you spend so little time supporting it.

      >Hold onto your seat, because I'm about to blow your fucking mind. Washington already has domestic partnerships. Right now in Washington, there are many families led by two men and they are raising children. I know, must be terrifying.

      I know... I live in Washington. What's your point?

      >So no, it's not OK for gays to use violence or threats of violence to further their cause. I can't say I blame them though.

      You say (correctly) that it's not OK for gays to use violence or threats of violence... but then condone the threat or use of it by some? How noble of you, in fact, you deserve a peace prize for your courageous stand!

      >These people have declare war on their existence and are determined to make sure they are treated as less than human.

      These people? Who are 'these people'? More so, how exactly have 'these people' they declared war on anyone's existence?

      If say... homosexuality was a genetic trait that was passed from parent to child the way skin or hair color is and many homosexuals were reproducing in relationships so as to continue AND they were somehow suddenly banned from reproducing (so as to cause the death of the trait/group/etc)... you might have a case... however given none of the preceding paragraph is true... there isn't as much to fear, and unlike your statement, the preceding is actually based on a reasonable argument.

      >It's completely unreasonable to expect that homosexuals won't fight back.

      There are degrees of fighting, some acceptable, others not and with your implicit support of violence (or threats of violence), you are effectively endorsing (by your own logic) the violence and threats of violence from those who are against gay marriage in the first place.

      It's called tit for tat.

    182. Re:No one should have expected by thePowerOfGrayskull · · Score: 1
      I know what the original article was, but I also know what your replies were - that was the context in which I was responding, and not to the original article discussion.

      So now that I've called you on your tactics, you back off and try to say that I'm clearly the party in error? If in your original post you hadn't brought up marriage to goats and children (in an indirect comparison to gay marriage), I could almost believe your reply to mine.

    183. Re:No one should have expected by schon · · Score: 1

      The parent poster and I agree that those legal protections should not exist in the first place. Rather than extend them to another group, we seek to abolish those protections entirely.

      Except he isn't. He's stating that they shouldn't be there, then stating that this is acceptable because it denies it only to a specific group.

      Either everybody deserves it or nobody does. You don't say "oh we'll remove them from some people first, then maybe sometime in the future we'll remove it from everybody else."

    184. Re:No one should have expected by icebrain · · Score: 1

      The entire reason we have protected rights is to keep the majority from making whatever laws they see fit. "But most people want it" should not be sufficient justification for anything under the sun.

      See, here in the US we once had a significant portion of the population (said portion made up quite a large majority in many states) that wanted to prohibit black people from voting, owning land, or even just going to the same schools as themselves. And for many years, that was the law. Hell, for many years before that, blacks were held as slaves, and regarded as little more than propery. The majority in those states supported that. But does that make it right? Should that have been allowed to stand, just because the majority wanted it to? I didn't think so. And that's where the idea of protected rights stepped in, and said that even though the majority supported those rules, they were still wrong, and were therefore abolished.

      Things that have popular support, by definition, do not need protection from the majority. Any situation where the majority rules unquestioned and absolutely is no better than mob rule.

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    185. Re:No one should have expected by d3ac0n · · Score: 1

      And your evidence to back that up is...?

      You see, if you actually READ the original law, it specifically delineated rights to GLBT people, and EXCLUDED non-GLBT people. Basically, it set up a special "marriage class" in CA exclusively for GLBT people. This is unconstitutional, just on it's face. As are most of the "gay marriage" laws that have been proposed.

      Now, if the law had said "Any consenting human adult may marry any other consenting human adult regardless of sexual orientation or previously existing relationship without discrimination." (or something along those lines) THEN you would have a logical argument to say my statement is bizzare. But the fact of the matter is, this is not the situation that was in place in CA prior to prop 8.

      Prop 8 corrected the law, and it can now be written properly to be fully inclusive and constitutional.

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    186. Re:No one should have expected by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      OK smartass, married people who aren't rich pay lower taxes. And it's WRONG. You have two incomes and I only have one, you have someone to help you with the bills, housework, etc and I don't. But you get the tax break.

      A woman's husband beats her and she divorces him, automatically her taxes go up (unless she's rich, and rich people don't count because there are so few of them comnpared to normal people). How is this in any way fair? How is this not discrimination?

    187. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We don't have laws to stop assault, abuse, or slander. We have laws to punish people after they commit assault, abuse and slander. And how many anonymous muggings or cases of vandalism occur without anyone ever being caught?

      People have said in many situations that the cause they stand for is worth the punishment. So by having the laws, you're protecting no one. You're just saying that if we find it worthwhile to pursue catching the perpetrator, and we manage to do so, he has to pay a fine and sit in jail a day or two.

      People have done worse then assault to keep people from siding against them. They've risked death and hefty prison terms. What on Earth makes you think that the punishment for assault would stop someone from doing it for something they believed in?

    188. Re:No one should have expected by yurtinus · · Score: 1

      I think you're missing a point here... The majority of Marriage benefits have nothing to do with religion. The idea is you have two people who trust each other enough to make potentially very important decisions for each other. Of particular importance are medical decisions. A boyfriend/girlfriend can't make decisions on medical procedures, funeral, etc while a spouse can. Fact is for many legal functions, a married couple is treated as a single entity, with either party able to make decisions for both. This is quite important when it comes to managing a family (dealing with school records, doctors, etcetc). These are the most important benefits that homosexual couples are being denied, and definitely not benefits I would wish to do away with for heterosexual couples. I don't see how it is discriminatory to allow one person to confer that degree of trust on somebody they love. If you're incapacitated, it does no good to keep some of these decisions to your own comatose self.

      That said, I believe you are more specifically talking about the tax benefits. A married couple will generally pay less in taxes than both individuals would combined, but (barring zany tax code backflips) it's still more than either individual would pay alone (I have no numbers on any of this- just generalized assumptions). I suppose that's still a bit discriminatory against singles, but I can't help but feel you're grasping at straws here... I don't hear too many singles complain loudly about the tax benefits but then again I also can't think of any outstanding arguments to support it.

      Marriage should be a *government* concept, not a religious one. Rename it a civil union and remove the term "marriage" from the law books if you need to, but some of contractual rights and obligations are mandatory.

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    189. Re:No one should have expected by JerryLove · · Score: 1

      You may believe or refuse to believe whatever you wish. You've drawn the conclusion because I used the same analogy used by anti-gay-marriage people aruging slippery-slope.

      I was not arguing slippery slope. I was arguing that the person I responded to advocated no rules what-so-ever. He also asserted that homicide was an appropriate response.

      Personally: I think that the government has no business in "marriage" what-so-ever. I think that a package of joint-ownership / inheritence / power-of-attorney when incapacitated contracts would serve the actual needs and remove all of this silly attempt to tie anything to "morality" in some way, shape or form.

      That any arbitray number of compitent adults can enter into such a contract is a no-brainer. It's this silly need by all involved (hetero and homosexuals alike) to have the government validate their "marriage" that stops us from just making a useful and pragmatic solution.

      But if we are going to validate heterosexual marriages, then I think we need to validate homosexual and polygamous marriages as well. I don't see any constitutionally (or morally) valid reason to exclude any of those groups from rights granted to another.

      Finally: I don't believe I've backed off on anything. If you are seeing something different in later posts than in earlier ones it is in the eye of the reader (and perhaps more detailed typing on my part). I am advocating *more* postitions than I did initially, as I've been called to task on things (like gay marraige) I had not originally commented on at all.

    190. Re:No one should have expected by DaHat · · Score: 1

      >Here's why you're a hateful bigot:

      So like so many here, rather than debate you start with a bit of namecalling? Very nice.

      Restate your opening argument without such and you may receive a response.

      >Here's a compelling State interest: equal rights to all human beings.

      FYI: Mantras are not a compelling state interest. Support the ideas of the mantra clearly, don't rely on it to be self describing.

      And yet... that's not what is being advocated for by your own words... children are human beings and are largely unable to marry, married people are human beings and unable to marry (again, prior to termination of the previous one), human beings without sufficient vaccinations for certain diseases are generally unable to marry, most mentally infirm human beings are not able to marry, close blood adult relative human beings are not able to marry.

      I thought you were advocating for equal rights for all adults... and yet I do not see any of the above groups being represented by this push for 'equal rights for all human beings' or from you. Strange that.

      If you want to expand rights to another group... that's fine and dandy, but why they and only they, why not other groups? Anytime you change a line of demarcation, one must be very careful to know that they are moving it just far enough and that it is not likely to be moved again in future... otherwise the meaningfulness of the line is lost.

      >OK, your implied "compelling interest" is children. Not that this hasn't been countered to death, but maybe you'll be the first person in human history to provide a cogent argument.

      I was going to... only you went on another personal attack thus rendering your point moot. You are again welcome to restate it without the attack and may receive a response.

      >I'm sure I could go on all day. So yeah, so far it seems the only reason to oppose homosexual marriage is bigotry. Feel free to craft a real argument, but please skip the slurry of hate and nonsense.

      I always so entertaining how those who are so quick to claim that others are engaging in bigotry, hate, etc are the ones in fact using such tactics personally against those they disagree with.

      I hate to break it to you... but intolerance of perceived bigotry (true or not)... is still bigotry... and while you are free to label me however you like (especially when clearly not understanding my stance)... by doing so and vilifying them as you do, you reveal yourself to be no better than they you are so hateful of.

      Btw... the above was strike three for you, you are free to reply to this post however you will not get a response given your continued inability to maintain a civil tone.

    191. Re:No one should have expected by drsmithy · · Score: 1

      How is a gay being discriminated against?

      Perhaps you missed the main subject of the discussion. They can't get married.

      It is illegal to discriminate because of sexual orientation these days, you know.

      Apparently not only can you, but several states have explicitly discriminatory legislation.

      But you can deny me a job or housing because of my being single quite legally.

      I sincerely doubt you can be (legally) denied a job for that reason. Certainly, when I interview candidates for any of our US positions one of the things I am explicitly not allowed to discuss is marital status. I'm not familiar with rental regulations in the US, but I'd be similarly surprised if someone's application could be rejected due to their marital status.

      And it's not my choice to be single -- I would marry in a minute if I could find a suitable mate.

      You appear to be suggesting that "being gay" is a choice.

    192. Re:No one should have expected by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Marriage is, and has always been, a partnership between two people where, in many ways, they get to act like a single, large individual, in some cases to accomplish something that one person cannot easily accomplish

      Making life easier for them. They have natural benefits, why should they get more?

      Are you saying that corporations are somehow "discriminatory" against private business owners?

      The corporations aren't, but the laws appear to be.

      We grant societal benefits to marriages because a) they're an incredibly common two-person partnership

      That seems a piss-poor reason to give them benefits that less fortunate (single) people have.

      and b) because those partnerships tend to be beneficial to society as a whole.

      Far mor beneficial to the married people themselves than society, even without the legal benefits. So why add even more benefits?

      Sure, there are bad marriages.

      I know, I had one. That's why they allow divorces.

    193. Re:No one should have expected by berbo · · Score: 1

      As such these same elements intend to use intimidation while expertly avoiding stepping over the line or just not getting caught to get any big names on their to back down or pay up.

      In other words, the names should be protected based on what we know these elements will do with them.

      How psychic of you! Care to explain just what these horrible acts of intimidation will be? Or are you just making shit up?

    194. Re:No one should have expected by Trepidity · · Score: 1

      I think you've got it backwards. It's the KKK that used to publicize names of petition-signers in order to intimidate them. I don't recall the NAACP ever doing that.

    195. Re:No one should have expected by Trepidity · · Score: 1

      That's technically the theory, but the way the initiative process has evolve in California and Washington, among other states, the petition-gathering process is more of a bureaucratic hurdle than anything actually resembling a petition. It's not a group of people getting together to make a public statement--- it's a bunch of canvassers at the mall getting random passerby to sign something that they spent 20 seconds reading and considering, which is more akin to a quick poll. I personally sign most initiatives I run across, good idea or not, because I want more things on the ballot to be voted on.

    196. Re:No one should have expected by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 1

      The parent poster and I agree that those legal protections should not exist in the first place. Rather than extend them to another group, we seek to abolish those protections entirely.

      Except he isn't. He's stating that they shouldn't be there, then stating that this is acceptable because it denies it only to a specific group. Either everybody deserves it or nobody does. You don't say "oh we'll remove them from some people first, then maybe sometime in the future we'll remove it from everybody else."

      Except that I am. You're right when you say "Either everybody deserves it or nobody does". I'm in the "nobody does" camp. That way, straight or gay couples can get married in a religious or secular ceremony, and draw up a contract and/or will (like a pre-nup) for property rights. Nobody is forced to supply benefits for anybody, nobody gets special tax breaks, etc.

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    197. Re:No one should have expected by plasmacutter · · Score: 1

      The (silent) majority of the public

      My God, I just had a flashback

      you can't compare quiet, scheming bigots to a whole nation full of war protestors who actually show up themselves, not speak through well funded media mouthpieces.

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    198. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In reality, we have laws that punish assault, abuse, and slander. Which, as any reasoning person can surmise, is too late to help the victim.

    199. Re:No one should have expected by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      I don't see why you can't simply make a living will saying to the effect "if I am incapacitated, X shall meke medical decisions for me" whether or not you're married.

      I'm thinking of my late friend Linda here. After a couple decades of abuse, she finally left her husband, eventually winding up living with me. She'd filed for divorce and he fought it. When she went in the hospital, all of a sudden he was anxious to have the divorce finalized and her reaction was "fuck that asshole".

      He was barred from the hospital, I was allowed there. He wound up with her bills.

      Now, if I weere to wind up in the hospital now, I'd probably want my daughter to take charge, even if I remarried. But I miss being married (even though I don't miss Evil-X). The whole thing is a clusterfuck.

    200. Re:No one should have expected by tsm_sf · · Score: 1

      I think I see what you mean, but I'm having trouble wrapping my mind around the concept of a man claiming he's straight AND wants to marry another man AND that he's somehow being discriminated against. It seems like a great deal of mental gymnastics to try and justify hatred.

      Almost makes you miss the honesty and openness of the old anti-civil rights crowd last century.

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    201. Re:No one should have expected by jayme0227 · · Score: 1

      I agree. There are many benefits to a married couple remaining married.

      1) Increased financial stability
      2) The children of married parents tend to be more emotionally stable later in life.

      Ok, so instead of many I have two. I'm sure there are more, but I'm too lazy to look them up. Either way, you can see why the government would want to encourage marriage. Whether it is "right" to do so, is another question entirely, which is the reason for all of this bitterness and fighting.

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    202. Re:No one should have expected by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      They can't get married.

      Neither can I.

      You appear to be suggesting that "being gay" is a choice.

      No, it isn't a choice, any more than heterosexuality is a choice. I'm saying I have no more choice than a gay man when it comes to marriage, because to get married you have to find someone to marry.

    203. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not true - signing the petition means you believe that the people should vote on it, rather than have the legislature decide. Some of us still belive in democracy, even if we do not win every time.
      A lanslide of the popular vote may carry more weight than a sharply divided congressional vote.

    204. Re:No one should have expected by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      I was referring to the "silent majority" that Agnew kept spouting off about before he went to prison for tax fraud, as if most Americans supported the Vietnam war but kept quiet about it. The fact was, the "silent majority" wanted out of Vietnam as badly as the vocal folks.

      If you're silent, don't expect your voice to be heard or your wishes to be accomodated.

    205. Re:No one should have expected by drsmithy · · Score: 1

      Neither can I.

      What law is stopping you ?

      I'm saying I have no more choice than a gay man when it comes to marriage, because to get married you have to find someone to marry.

      The rather large and fundamental difference being that if you do find someone you want to marry, you can. A gay man cannot because a discriminatory *law* stops him from doing so.

    206. Re:No one should have expected by yurtinus · · Score: 1

      I don't really want to argue against you because I see your point. I do appreciate though that marriage bundles all of that up in one familiar institution versus setting up whatever varied legal documents to serve the same purpose as "these two people are one entity." A family member of mine had an opposite experience when her significant other had a health scare and she was damn near powerless. They had a wedding ceremony but for several reasons decided not to make the marriage official through the state. They married officially after that. I suppose if they had the right legal documents set up they could have avoided a lot of the headache, but that does require quite a bit more up front effort and cost to navigate the legalities of it.

      Couples breaking up will still be clusterfucks, regardless of what contracts they have between them. Fact is if somebody really wants to make your life difficult through the legal system, they can, married or not.

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    207. Re:No one should have expected by Exception+Duck · · Score: 1

      It's not sad for me, I don't live in the USA.

    208. Re:No one should have expected by Exception+Duck · · Score: 1

      I agree, majority rules is flawed in many ways.
      I still think that the people should be able to influence the society they live in. There are higher laws then majority will, protected by the constitution - so if this is unfair under the constitution - get the laws revoked for they violate your rights under the constitution.

    209. Re:No one should have expected by compro01 · · Score: 1

      ummmm, legally that IS marriage

      For state purposes only. It does not cross state lines and is also irrelevant for federal purposes.

      Same-sex civil unions are not equivalent to opposite-sex civil marriages due to how the full faith and credit clause has been interpreted.

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    210. Re:No one should have expected by dissy · · Score: 1

      Hate to break it to you, but left and right sound like political terms.

      At least I have never heard of left or right being terms given to heterosexual or homosexual.

      And I think that perfectly fits the definition. In fact I nearly quoted it. So thanks for backing that point up.

      But we are talking about bigots here. People who can't stand when others don't do exactly what they do, and (as the article suggests) even try to pass laws to stop others from not following their own gods plan or whatever excuse of the month they use to say gays and single people should not have the same rights as married couples.

    211. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I can mod you down and post and have.

      If people wish to support laws they should have the courage to admit they do. I see nothing wrong in them being exposed for the views they hold.

      If they feel intimidated by being identified they should consider their position before signing.

      Frankly they deserve whatever they get.

    212. Re:No one should have expected by Eil · · Score: 1

      Of course, they obviously know this is NOT the case, and their efforts to conceal their signatures are no different than the white hoods the KKK used to wear.

      Well, to be fair, a petition has so far not gone around killing people for sport.

    213. Re:No one should have expected by plasmacutter · · Score: 1

      I was referring to the "silent majority" that Agnew kept spouting off about before he went to prison for tax fraud, as if most Americans supported the Vietnam war but kept quiet about it. The fact was, the "silent majority" wanted out of Vietnam as badly as the vocal folks.

      If you're silent, don't expect your voice to be heard or your wishes to be accomodated.

      under this philosophy, the 9/12 loonies who look up to heaven as they speak breathlessly about glenn beck MUST represent the "majority" view, right?

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    214. Re:No one should have expected by SleazyRidr · · Score: 1

      I don't know anything about the Coyote thing, so I'll just smack you down on the points about which I know.

      2) Gay people in CA already have all the legal rights of straight people. No civil rights were stripped, only special rights unavailable to everyone else. (IE: As a non-gay, I could not marry a man. Only members of the special group had that right. It was clearly unconstitutional, and prop 8 rectified that.)

      Sure you could marry a man, where does it say that only gay men are allowed to marry other men?

      4) The involvement of the church is fully legal and in no way questionable unless you believe that people have no right to a political opinion if they happen to have religion too. Free speech includes political speech. The right to free speech doesn't stop at the church door, and churches, as groups of individuals, have the same rights to free speech as any other group of individuals, AND the same right "to petition the government for redress of grievances" just like any other group. Just because you are a religious bigot doesn't mean your opinion is law.

      Ever heard of the principle we like to call 'separation of church and state?' Basically it means that people are free to follow whatever religion they choose, and no laws should be written to pander to any particular one. So even though Islam prohibits homosexuality, that should not stop followers of more progressive religions from living the lifestyle encouraged by their church. Of course, if a member of a church prohibiting homosexuality tries it on, they could well be excommunicated, but there's no reason for the law to get involved.

    215. Re:No one should have expected by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      You CAN marry if you find a partner.

      Someone who is gay CANNOT marry even if they havea partner because the law states they cannot.

      Surely you cannot fail to see the clear, major difference between the two cases?

    216. Re:No one should have expected by Taevin · · Score: 1

      So like so many here, rather than debate you start with a bit of namecalling? Very nice.

      I'm making the argument that you're a bigot in the hope that you see this and perhaps reconsider your views.
      Bigot

      • a person who is prejudiced in their views and intolerant of the opinions of others.
        • preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or experience

      The term bigot seems an appropriate fit for the persona you have projected thus far. The only argument you had put forth was one not based on reason. Your argument was "they can't marry because they can't." If your only argument against something is that you don't like it, you're a bigot. I'm sorry if this offends you, that's just the definition. The reason I took your statement and substituted in race is that at this point it's well established that arguing against something based on race is bigotry. The argument is the same however: "you can't because you can't."

      If the fact that you're a bigot bothers you, perhaps you should reflect on why you hold the beliefs you do. At least then you might have some evidence to support your oppressive beliefs.

      FYI: Mantras are not a compelling state interest. Support the ideas of the mantra clearly, don't rely on it to be self describing.

      Ask any average American and what's the one line they can recite or paraphrase from their own history? Probably this one from the Declaration of Independence:

      We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.

      The fundamental principle, the one upon which we declared our right to separate from the Crown and form our own nation is that all men are created equal and have certain unalienable rights. I'd say it's a pretty compelling interest to hold onto that ideal, mantra or no.

      To further tie this whole discussion into the racial debate and to show the similarities, what about the famous Loving v Virginia case which overturned all anti-miscegenation (that's anti-interracial-marriage to you and me) laws in the US ? In delivering the opinion of the court, Chief Justice Warren wrote:

      The freedom to marry has long been recognized as one of the vital personal rights essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men. Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival.

      Marriage is a "vital personal right," and one of the "basic civil rights of man." I don't see a * with a footnote reading "* except gay men." The highest court in our land ruled that discriminating against interracial marriage is unconstitutional not because "blacks are OK now" but because marriage is a fundamental right which must be provided equally to all. So why are we still having this debate? Seems to me like it was well resolved over 40 years ago.

      And yet... that's not what is being advocated for by your own words... children are human beings and are largely unable to marry, married people are human beings and unable to marry (again, prior to termination of the previous one), human beings without sufficient vaccinations for certain diseases are generally unable to marry, most mentally infirm human beings are not able to marry, close blood adult relative human beings are not able to marry.

      You left off pedophiles and goats. Seriously, why does gays marrying always have to lead to incest, pedophilia, and bestiality? The fact that we have different words for all these things should be the obvious clue that they are, in fact, quite different things, but I guess not.

      • children are human beings an
    217. Re:No one should have expected by Nakanai_de · · Score: 1

      One of those "enumerated protections" is the due process clause of the 14th Amendment. Which says that, in fact, State governments can't use majority rule to discriminate against minorities, either.

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    218. Re:No one should have expected by empvirus · · Score: 1

      Yeah, welcome to Washington State. Home of awesome apples and the many church-ies. Just the other day in my town I saw a bunch of 'em from the local "community" church waving anti-gay R-71 (say "no" to gay rights or whatever). It's just unbelievable.

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    219. Re:No one should have expected by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 1

      For all you know she was following her religion with eyes wide open and full understanding of what she believed and did.

      If she had her eyes wide open, she certainly had not her mind wide open, and thus didn't see that this would come and bite her arse.

    220. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is absolutely immoral. His wife did nothing to you. To be indifferent to his own pain over the loss of his wife is fine, but you're positing indifference over the act. This shows that you think of the wife not as a person, but as an instrument through which you may enjoy the suffering of one who wronged you. To view his wife that way makes you 100% identical to him in every possible way.

      It makes you filth. It makes you subhuman garbage. It fully justifies any and all acts of violence, cruelty, and terror you will ever receive over the course of your objectively worthless life.

    221. Re:No one should have expected by mpe · · Score: 1

      Some people are never going to be satisfied - they say "oh you can't be married, that's against our holy sacrament" so Washington state says "OK, let's leave marriage (and religion) out of this and create a CIVIL recognition of partnerships" and these people still can't leave it be.

      The bigger issue is that without a constitutional ammendment "Washington" has has no business recognising anyone's "holy sacrament" in the first place.

      Evidently these people's grasp on heterosexuality is quite frail, and even the slightest suggestion or perhaps a Kylie Minogue song is going to make them switch to the other team.

      Maybe they are a bunch of insecure bisexuals.

    222. Re:No one should have expected by iphinome · · Score: 1

      Joint filing of federal income taxes. By any I assume you only needed one, I could list more if you like though it does vary by state as some expressly forbid contracts that simulate benfits granted by marriage.

    223. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just curious...

      I wonder how many of the people feeling "intimidated" now are all for the intimidation of doctors who perform abortions, including the publication of their names, addresses and pictures in websites, how many of them agree with people like Glenn Beck and Rush Limbaugh, who say Barack Obama is a threat to the American way of life and "something" must be done to stop him, or how many of them agree that carrying an assault weapon to a town hall meeting with the president is a simple exercise of constitutional rights.

    224. Re:No one should have expected by iphinome · · Score: 1

      The topic wasn't elections it was petitions. The latter, in the United States at least is by secret ballot, the former is form of public support for something. If it helps you can think of a petition as being like the decleration of independance. The people who signed it made a public stand and accepted any personal consequences that go along with it.

    225. Re:No one should have expected by pbhj · · Score: 1

      The topic of this subthread was not the obvious public nature of petitions but that an attempt to stand privately in support of a particular political position is like being a member of the KKK according to plasmacutter.

    226. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The guiding principles of western democracies are Liberté, égalité, and fraternité.

      Coincidently (or probably not), the French Revolution also made the civil marriage the one that counts, taking away the church's power to decide who can or can not marry.

    227. Re:No one should have expected by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Yes, one is merely illegal, the other is impossible.

    228. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Two things. First: joint tax filing is not a "right", it's a benefit. Second: The trivial fix is to add a "civil union" joint filing status to the federal tax code; redefining "marriage" is a much more difficult (and controversial) way to go about it.

      Point being, there are ways to treat homosexuals fairly without making the rest of us feel like we're being trampled on...

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    229. Re:No one should have expected by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Personally I think I have great way to solve this problem; eliminate completely the concept of legal marriage. Its not needed, and the issue is causing us to waste time better spent on other work. Make it a purely religous or spiritial cermemony, that means nothing legally.

      That would be the ideal, but that would defeat the reason gays want marriage in the first place. If all they were looking for was a symbolic ceremony of their life together, they'd just go down to their local Unitarian Universalist building and get married. They want marriage specifically for the legal protections: so they can force employers to provide health insurance, get estate rights when their partners die, tax breaks, etc. Of course, there's no reason why much of this couldn't be done on a contractual basis in the absence of legal marriage, but the state always finds a way to mess things up and make things difficult for people.

      I'm sure that I will be modded down because it will perceived it as an anti-homosexual comment, but it's not. I believe in the equality before the law for all people, I simply don't think we should have the laws that make this a battle in the first place.

      Gays in Washington already have domestic partnership rights which basically means they have all the legal rights of a married couple without the marriage part so I am not entirely sure what the point of your post was.

    230. Re:No one should have expected by masterzora · · Score: 1

      No, but because some people have wrongly attacked or killed some gays, you should easily be able to see why you are foolish to claim that the people attacking the anti-gays are necessarily representative.

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    231. Re:No one should have expected by smmccarty · · Score: 1

      The point is that to label someone else a bigot, regardless of what group or views the labeler confesses, says just as much about the person weilding the term as it does the person or group they are objecting to. We often find faults in others that we are not willing to see in ourselves. And haven't you been paying attention to history? Again, regardless of which position you support there are laws that have been passed from each end of the spectrum that others disagree with. Laws are meant to restrict the actions of others. They define what behaviors are acceptable to society. So, to say that trying to inhibit the rights of people by passing a law is incorrect is an argument against the legal system in general. All laws and regulations are meant to restrict behavior. By their very nature all laws are discriminatory. That's not always a bad thing.

  8. Clarification by mapkinase · · Score: 1

    I do not know about others, but I have got a wrong impression from this summary that the names have been already made public on the aforementioned "SEO-optimized website". There is no such website yet.

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  9. This is insanity by i_ate_god · · Score: 1, Funny

    Canada legalized gay marriage and now the TSX is 1500 points bigger than the DOW Jones.

    The anti gay movement's logic is just about as valid as what I just said in favour of gay marriage.

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  10. If I signed, I wouldn't care. by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 1

    This is in the context of any issue, not just the issue at hand. I'm not sure what the down side is to being listed on this web site. The site should actually be a recruitment site for those who did sign. I'd be like "Yeah, I signed this petition. Look at all the other people who did too."

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  11. It was on display in the bottom of a locked filing by ecocd · · Score: 1

    While I understand sunshine laws are important, I can't help but think there should be a tag for bewardoftheleopard.

  12. Dear Jesus. by 0100010001010011 · · Score: 1

    Save us from your followers.

    Why is this even an issue?

    I don't want to see you getting it on in public, but that goes for straights too. What you do behind closed doors is none of my business just as what I do is none of yous.

    If nothing else, just be smug about it and think on the inside how there'll be more room in heaven for you and your family.

  13. Thats an easy question... by Ritchie70 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    An assault on civil rights, an assault on marriage, or an assault on sunshine laws and freedom of information?

    It's all about gay marriage. Neither group involved cares about any of the rest of that stuff.

    Personally, I don't get it; so long as you don't make me marry a person of the same gender against my will, why do I care what you do? Don't pretend there aren't same-sex families already; according to one of the links, 18% of same-sex couples in Washington state are raising a child under 18.

    I do have a tiny little bit of sympathy for the signers of the petition; I don't think people really understand the legal details behind the signing of a petition, and many of them many have assumed that it was as anonymous and protected as voting.

    One shouldn't take a stand that involves limiting someone else's rights but only be willing to do it anonymously. That's just chicken shit.

    And if you just shrugged and signed because your neighbor, coworker or fellow church goer asked you too without actually believing it, that's chicken shit too.

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    1. Re:Thats an easy question... by drinkypoo · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I do have a tiny little bit of sympathy for the signers of the petition; I don't think people really understand the legal details behind the signing of a petition, and many of them many have assumed that it was as anonymous and protected as voting.

      I have none. Don't put your name on something whose ramifications you don't understand. I now ask for a copy of the privacy policy before putting my information on ANYTHING. If I don't get a good result, then I make something up (except as prohibited by law, i.e. filling out a government form.) I don't care if I'm at a video store or what.

      One shouldn't take a stand that involves limiting someone else's rights but only be willing to do it anonymously. That's just chicken shit.

      Doing it anonymously is not taking a stand.

      And if you just shrugged and signed because your neighbor, coworker or fellow church goer asked you too without actually believing it, that's chicken shit too.

      Amen to that.

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    2. Re:Thats an easy question... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't pretend there aren't same-sex families already; according to one of the links, 18% of same-sex couples in Washington state are raising a child under 18.

      But pretending that problems don't exist is the American way!

    3. Re:Thats an easy question... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Its about benefits not rights. You have a right to enter into a private contract with anyone of both parties freewill and of age.

      This is not about the right of marriage that gays have. They have that right.

      Its about the licensing via the Government marriage license for Government benefits i.e. taxes more favorable insurance requirements and so on and so forth.
      Frankly so away with marriage licensing altogether and requirements on spouse coverage as move to a flat tax or quasi flat tax even and then issue would die.
      No more children on your tax cut. Start medicare/FICA and to start at $15K rather than 0.

      If insurance companies want to cover same-sex partner etc the can. Oh fix healthcare by govt. getting out of and not more into.

      Both the right and left can't figure less Govt not more would fix this. Actually they have but its bad for "business" so to speak.

    4. Re:Thats an easy question... by elrous0 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The problem is that government sponsored marriage has always been an uncomfortable and troubled fit. It essentially started as secular governments stepped in and usurped a power that had traditionally been controlled by the church (or, after the Reformation, churches). This sounded great to a lot of secular leaders (who had long resented having to concede any power to the church), but it also opened up a legal can of worms. Suddenly the state had to make laws around a traditionally religious institution; establish a whole legal system to deal with divorce, custody issues, etc.; and decide a lot of thorny issues where legality and morality collided (like this issue).

      Personally, I think the government should get out of the "marriage" business altogether. If two of more parties want to sign some sort of cohabitation contract, they should be allowed to do so (and it should be treated like any other contract), but beyond that the government shouldn't be in a position of sanctioning something that should remain in the religious/moral domain. Custody hearings would still be necessary, and divorce hearings would too (but they would be treated merely as breach of contract cases). But it would remove the thorny issues of Uncle Sam having to decide moral questions like "What constitutes a marriage, anyway?" Leave those issues to religious institutions, where they belong.

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    5. Re:Thats an easy question... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      assumptions are the mother of all fuckups

      I have no sympathy for the signers unless they're physically harmed in some way because they signed it.

    6. Re:Thats an easy question... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Personally, I don't get it; so long as you don't make me marry a person of the same gender against my will, why do I care what you do?

      You are obviously a shallow and self-centered thinker. The family is the basic unit of society, and how you define the family will have tremendous consequences on society. Personally, I would rather not have families made up of the intimidating hate mongers who are trying to make "gay rights" the law of the land.

    7. Re:Thats an easy question... by pbhj · · Score: 1

      And if you just shrugged and signed because your neighbor, coworker or fellow church goer asked you too without actually believing it, that's chicken shit too.

      Amen to that.

      Yeah those anti-democratic bastards asking for a public vote, how dare they. Oh wait ...

    8. Re:Thats an easy question... by Do+You+Smell+That · · Score: 1

      Personally, I don't get it; so long as you don't make me marry a person of the same gender against my will, why do I care what you do?

      Personally, I don't get it; so long as you don't make me watch the Star Wars remakes with revised "shoots first" order, and bonus lumbering beasts, why do I care if other people do?

      For many people out there, probably the ones who have the strongest views on "what marraige should be", there's a fear of change and a reluctance to embrace new ideas. Sure, some of these people may not even disagree with the ideas that strongly (though some definitely will), but if nothing else may embrace the "if it ain't broke, don't fix it" mindset. I know plenty of Star Wars geeks who to this day will get upset when you mention the changes made in the 90's re-releases, even though they have no effect on their lives other than changing something which was important to them.

      The biggest difference, of course, is that both versions of Star Wars can co-exist, whereas with "redefinitions" of marraige, it's an either-or situation. If anything this will cement the opposition even further.

      It's OK for different people to have different viewpoints - there's no empirical "right" or "wrong" on this issue.

      As for the rest of your points though, I'd have to say I agree... someone who secretly enjoys the original Star Wars series but will only speak out against the re-releases when they think nobody will know they're doing it clearly is either afraid to embrace their opinion publicly (for whatever reason - it's not my place to decide why someone did something), or didn't hold the position that strongly to begin with.

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    9. Re:Thats an easy question... by Ritchie70 · · Score: 1

      I prefer to define the family in terms of people who love each other.

      I am married (and not gay) but our family definitely has some non-traditional aspects to it. Doesn't make it less of a family.

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    10. Re:Thats an easy question... by j-beda · · Score: 1

      so long as you don't make me marry a person of the same gender against my will...

      This is pretty good: http://www.theonion.com/content/node/30475

      Massachusetts Supreme Court Orders All Citizens To Gay Marry

      February 25, 2004 | Issue 4008

      BOSTON--Justices of the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court ruled 5-2 Monday in favor of full, equal, and mandatory gay marriages for all citizens. The order nullifies all pre-existing heterosexual marriages and lays the groundwork for the 2.4 million compulsory same-sex marriages that will take place in the state by May 15. ...

    11. Re:Thats an easy question... by iphinome · · Score: 1

      You know... this is the first time a slashdot post has changed my mind on something I felt strongly about. I can still watch versions where Han shoots first and it doesn't harm me in any way if other people watch a revised version of the film. Thank you.

  14. My vote, my business by onyxruby · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    This is an appalling attempt at intimidation and coercion of those who would vote a given way. The public has a right to vote any damn way they want, and it has long been precedent that it was no one's business. I'm married, should I somehow be able to demand to know how my wife voted? Of course not, it's not my business, it's hers and hers alone. Similar stunts in the past have cost people vandalism to their home, their jobs, and their businesses. Your vote should be yours alone and not subject to public intimidation. It's your right, it shouldn't cost you to exercise it.

    This is not about how your public representatives voted - public representatives who represent the public should have their votes known. This is a thinly veiled attempt at public coercion of those who don't want to vote a certain way on a certain public issue. The fact that you may happen to agree with the view of those who are pulling this stunt should be put aside. What if it was a conservative state and such a stunt was pulled? All of a sudden your in an area that doesn't approve of your vote and you get to be the one who is harassed by nutcases in the public.

    A vocal minority should never be allowed to control the population, regardless of cause or locality. That's the entire point of putting something like this on a ballot, to show if a certain issue is getting coverage simply because of a vocal minority or media bias, or if that's the way the public really feels. The ballot allows the vocal minority to be exposed and for the public to speak it's will. For example look at approvals for medical marijuana in places like California.

    People need to learn that a vocal minority is just that regardless of the issue and not let such people unduly intimidate the public at large. The issue the vocal minority supports shouldn't matter, it might be one you agree with this time but could just as easily be one you disagree with next time.

    1. Re:My vote, my business by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The point of signing a petition is to publicly state your support for something. In this case, each signer was hoping that enough other people would publicly state their support for putting this referendum on the ballot that the legislature would be required to do so.

      The actual votes on the referendum are secret, as they should be. The petitioners identities are not and cannot not be secret. The forms they signed (and any knowledge of how a petition works) would indicate this.

    2. Re:My vote, my business by plasmacutter · · Score: 1

      A vocal minority should never be allowed to control the population, regardless of cause or locality.

      Exactly, which is why the names should be made public.

      Placing an initiative on a ballot is a legislative process, just like passing a new speed limit or making it illegal to carry an ice cream cone in your pocket.

      I would also be remiss not to mention that those responsible for the referendum are deliberately gaming the election process.

      They know damn well mid-terms have much lower turn-out. The lower the office elected the less people show up.

      The "vocal minority" responsible for the referendum will be disproportionately represented, and the silent majority who are OK with gay marriage but don't care enough to interrupt their day will not be represented at all, allowing an even SMALLER minority to be oppressed.

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    3. Re:My vote, my business by canajin56 · · Score: 1

      If you really think petitions should be top secret, you may change your tune when somebody who doesn't like you take a petition to evict you from your town, signed by every person on town. Remember, to prevent intimidation, it's top secret so nobody is allowed to view it, but trust him, the entire town wants you out, better get packing. If you can't look at names, that's the same as a vote where nobody can count the votes. You pull a lever, and then the president announces he won another term. Trust him, he's the president after all.

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    4. Re:My vote, my business by pregister · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Except this wasn't a vote. Thanks for playing, though.

    5. Re:My vote, my business by jgtg32a · · Score: 3, Informative

      This is a very well written and intelligent post, however there's one small problem with it. There never has been any expectation of privacy on these kinds of petitions. Actually back in the day when petitions like these could carry grave consequences all the name would be publicly listed, the only "privacy" was they wouldn't identify the ring leaders.

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Round-robin

    6. Re:My vote, my business by amilo100 · · Score: 1

      They know damn well mid-terms have much lower turn-out. The lower the office elected the less people show up. The "vocal minority" responsible for the referendum will be disproportionately represented, and the silent majority who are OK with gay marriage but don't care enough to interrupt their day will not be represented at all, allowing an even SMALLER minority to be oppressed.

      Wow. So know you oppose elections because some people who you think will vote the same as you will not show up to vote? If people do not vote on an issue it is their choice.

      If the voting goes against their beliefs (and they didn't vote) it is their problem and they can correct it next time.

    7. Re:My vote, my business by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Women's Suffrage- read up on it.
      Jim Crow laws- read up on them.
      So, it was ok to intimidate/harass/and essentially shove out the minority (being African-Americans or women), and not let them push back by any means to get equality?

      Equality means just that, all are equal. You don't get to tell others how to live their lives (other than don't kill people, or infringe on their rights, and doesn't every "good book" request that anyway?).

      You are fully entitled to not like people, but when you try to take away capabilities that you get, that is where BS needs to be called.

    8. Re:My vote, my business by Urban+Garlic · · Score: 1

      > People need to learn that a vocal minority is just that regardless of the issue

      Indeed. And unless a majority of Washington citizens signed the petition to get R-71 on the ballot, then the signers of the R-71 petitions are also a vocal (or at least public) minority.

      The actual vote takes place later on, and there's no reason to think that won't be a secret ballot.

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    9. Re:My vote, my business by stainless-steel-vash · · Score: 1

      Sorry, I posted this. Needed to save my place while getting work done at the same time.

      I am me, and I endorsed this message.

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    10. Re:My vote, my business by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is an appalling attempt at intimidation and coercion

      Take a good look at the word "this" above. What is an attempt at intimidation? Perhaps you are referring to the fact that this legislative process relies on petitions which have always been publicly, though inconveniently, available. If you think that petitions being a public record leads to intimidation, then maybe your next step should be to pass a constitutional amendment to make petitions secret, and that'll be the last one you ever have to sign .. unless it's a bad idea and the people decide to vote against that proposal because you're really just a vocal minority.

      Your vote should be yours alone and not subject to public intimidation. It's your right, it shouldn't cost you to exercise it.

      Nobody has suggested doing anything to change that.

  15. Ultimately it's about religion by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Get most people talking long enough and it'll come back to "well the Bible says". If this is a religious issue than the laws themselves against gay marriage are illegal. If they insist on being able to push religious agendas in government and law then they need to loose their protections. Tax church property and take away any government protection for religion then you can push your agendas until then shut up and go back to hating people in private the way God intended.

  16. Assault on Rationality by DynaSoar · · Score: 1

    Why is everybody acting within their rights given by law an assault? Has WA legalized assault? Be careful what you wish for and twice for what you accuse.

    From the very first codification of law, that of Hammurabi, marriage has been specified as a contract between two people. Nobody can block that on moral grounds and they'd be hard pressed to nullify a contract of partnership onany grounds without having the business community up in arms. The ceremonies are only that; next time, I'm jumping a broom.

    The license is not a license to get married/contracted/etc., it's a tax stamp. It is the Fuck Tax. Nothing prevents you from fucking, but they want to tax it, same as nothing prevents you from parking your car in your driveway in Virginia, but you have to have your parking sticker up to date or you can get a parking ticket. They'll tax anything that lots of people want or what to do. Fuck the Fuck Tax. Paying a tax doesn't make a marriage "legal", it makes it paid up. A legal marriage is a binding contract of partnership between two people with possessions.

    I am not a lawyer. But I can and have "legally" performed that ceremony for people, "legal" or not, "Fuck Tax" or none, and had to examine the relevant laws. By the way, you want to know how to qualify to "legally" marry people? Say so. The government has no right (they've specifically divorced themselevs from the ability) to dictate, determine or oversee who is and is not "qualified".

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  17. Streisand effect by vlm · · Score: 3, Insightful

    So... my only real religious belief is in the Streisand effect, so someone please provide a torrent and a wikileaks link to the list of names.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Streisand_effect

    Note, that some people on the list did not sign the petition, if you know what I mean. Someone could have sat down with the parish directory, or my kids elementary school family book, or my employers phone directory, or my ham radio club mailing list, etc, and "helpfully" signed me up, to "save me the time of signing myself up". I think that is the real reason they are fighting the publicity, heck, I'd file suit if I learned someone put my name on that list of ignorant hillbillys, as that would obviously defame my reputation...

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  18. Sunshine laws are often used for intimidation by bumfuckedegypt · · Score: 4, Interesting

    In Missouri, federal funding was issued to the ADAP program (AIDS Drug Assistance Program) to provide life giving medicine to people who could otherwise not afford the $4000 a month in medicine bills. Various groups opposed to gays and people with AIDS (including the goobers who think it all a fake disease) would often times use sunshine laws to intimidate such people who received the benefits. Meetings were held to help determine the best way to help people with the meds money and often times, the recipients of the funds were invited to attend since the decisions made impacted their benefits, health, life etc... People with these groups would find out where the meetings were with sunshine law request and then come and photograph everyone there, write down their license plates, etc... They would then publish the information on the internet and in some cases local newspapers. This led to people losing their jobs (unfortunately, in Missouri, it's legal to fire someone based on pretty much anything.) The sunshine law was used for the harassment and intimidation of people. It eventually meant that people stopped coming to meetings. Some of them had families harassed and lost everything due to this harassment. The state now just unilaterally decides for people what they can and cant have. Often turning people away that are in dire need of this medicine to stay healthy. I do believe that sunshine laws have their place but there should be limits. Using them to harass people is wrong and it should be illegal.

  19. International Audience by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

    I'm probably the only one who read the title as beeing about Western Australia's debat about daylight savings.

  20. troll by DoofusOfDeath · · Score: 1

    , an assault on marriage

    It's not often that the posted story qualifies a a troll/flamebate all by itself.

    1. Re:troll by Tim+C · · Score: 1

      You must be new here.

      (Seriously, some editors in the past became notorious for posting little but trollish, flamebait articles)

    2. Re:troll by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Way to pluck a phrase out-of-context for your own fame. Brilliance in action!

  21. Huge differences by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    But when two people marry, I don't have to marry the same person they do, do I.

    Because two women get married doesn't mean my wife has to get married to a woman.

    Because two men get married doesn't mean I have to marry a man.

    If the problem is that there is extra benefit to marriage that will be garnered by same-sex-marriages then there is extra benefit to same-sex marriages which the single are missing out of.

    In which case, it would be "ban marriage".

    Not "ban same-sex marriage".

  22. intimidation indeed by jipn4 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    that their signature remained secret, however no one should have to put up with an organized intimidation process which is the new method of choice

    There is nothing "new" about it: so-called "Christians" and "conservatives"--probably many of the same kind of people who have signed this petition--have been using organized intimidation of minorities for two centuries. And they haven't stopped at intimidation: they have killed, injured, and discriminated.

    Seeing the pubic exercise their opinion has so offended certain elements out there. As such these same elements intend to use intimidation while expertly avoiding stepping over the line or just not getting caught to get any big names on their to back down or pay up.

    That is outrageous. For decades, gay rights activists have put their lives on the line to fight for safety, security, acceptance, and civil rights. Many have been murdered, more beaten up merely for speaking out, and many have lost their jobs. They have been vilified and persecuted. But finally, they have been making some headway.

    Now a minority of bigots wants turn back the clock and they don't even have the decency and honesty to stand up and identify themselves when putting a referendum on the ballot?

    This is similar to why Unions want Card Check, to intimidate their way into power. Freedom of expression is freedom from fear

    This has nothing to do with "freedom of expression". These people can spew their bigotry in complete anonymity if they like; our laws and our Constitution guarantee that.

    But once they want to put a referendum before the voters, they do not have a right to do so anonymously. The public has a right to know where these kinds of referenda come from.

    The people putting this referendum on the ballot are not "the public", they are a bigoted minority. And their attempts to shield their names is like the robes of the Ku Klux Klan. Any legal issues aside, it is despicable, and it is despicable that you would defend them.

    1. Re:intimidation indeed by tophermeyer · · Score: 2, Insightful

      For decades, gay rights activists have put their lives on the line to fight for safety, security, acceptance, and civil rights. Many have been murdered, more beaten up merely for speaking out, and many have lost their jobs. They have been vilified and persecuted. But finally, they have been making some headway.

      Now a minority of bigots wants turn back the clock and they don't even have the decency and honesty to stand up and identify themselves when putting a referendum on the ballot?

      Perhaps that is because the people that signed this petition witnessed the persecution of those gay rights activists, and simply want to ensure that they will not be similarly persecuted.

      The public has a right to know where these kinds of referenda come from.

      Perhaps you should review the concept of rights. People most certainly have basic human rights (including the right to marry), and the right to be made aware of and have the opportunity to vote on legislation. People do not have the right the be provided a list of people that oppose their opinions. That is silly and dangerous.

      their attempts to shield their names is like the robes of the Ku Klux Klan.

      No its not. Wishing anonymity in signing a petition for a referendum to be put to a Public Vote is nothing at all like the atrocities committed by the KKK. Comparing the two is an insult to anyone victimized by the Klan.

    2. Re:intimidation indeed by jipn4 · · Score: 1

      People do not have the right the be provided a list of people that oppose their opinions. That is silly and dangerous.

      People do, however, have the right to see who proposes legislation and referenda, and that is not silly and dangerous. Quite the opposite: it would be silly and dangerous to allow people to propose legislation and referenda anonymously.

      Perhaps that is because the people that signed this petition witnessed the persecution of those gay rights activists, and simply want to ensure that they will not be similarly persecuted.

      Well, they should just get over that. Gay rights activists do not have a history of widespread violence against minorities or opponents; people opposing gay rights do.

      No, what the people who signed this petition are afraid of is that their friends, colleagues, and customers will shun them for it. They are right to fear that, but the law does not, and should not, protect them from that.

    3. Re:intimidation indeed by tophermeyer · · Score: 1
      People absolutely have the right to be made aware of who proposes legislation/referenda. This is not the same as having access to all the people that support that support the referenda. When I walk into my town hall and cast my vote for Proposition X, I have an expectation of privacy. No-one is allowed to force me to divulge how I voted, and I cannot be discriminated against based on my vote. This is a product of a very long civil rights struggle.

      Failing to extend that expectation of privacy to items still being petitioned is a strong-armed tactic aimed at preventing unpopular topics from reaching a public vote.

      Well, they should just get over that.

      Imagine the Gay Rights communities outrage at being told to "get over" their fear of discrimination and persecution. You are right in that the Gay rights community has no history of true violence against opposition, and you are also right that the people who signed this petition are afraid of is that their friends, colleagues, and customers will shun them for it. As an American, I have the right to not be discriminated against based on my political, spiritual, or sexual affiliations.

      The Gay rights community has long been oppressed and not offered this protection. However the way to correct this cannot be to quash the very same rights of those that hold opposing beliefs.

      I'll propose a hypothetical trade. I'll give you a list of all the people in the country that openly and privately oppose gay marriage. You give me a list of all the people in the country that openly and privately support the right for all people to marry. Do you think the people on either list will want to see that list published openly, in a way that can be accessed instantly and anonymously?

    4. Re:intimidation indeed by jipn4 · · Score: 1

      People absolutely have the right to be made aware of who proposes legislation/referenda. This is not the same as having access to all the people that support that support the referenda

      Nobody has access to all the people that "support" the referendum. We do have a legal right to have access to the list of people who want to put the referendum on the ballot. And that's an important right, for no other reason because getting a referendum on the ballot is a one-sided proposition. Without making those names public, some political group could simply pick a hundred thousand names out of the phone book. Elections don't have that problem.

      The Gay rights community has long been oppressed and not offered this protection. However the way to correct this cannot be to quash the very same rights of those that hold opposing beliefs.

      Whether we make those names public or not is not a question of rights, but of policy and laws. We have, in the past, made those names public and I see no reason to change that policy or law. It has worked out fine for civil rights in the end, and I see no reason to change it now.

      And given the kind of people who are behind such referenda, people who spread lies and fear to gain a political advantage and power, it would be particularly dangerous to give them anonymity.

      I'll give you a list of all the people [...] that oppose [...] that support

      Who is saying anything about making public the names of all people who oppose or support a position? This is about making public the names of those people who are dedicated enough to the cause to get a referendum on the ballot. Your vote for or against the referendum is still secret.

    5. Re:intimidation indeed by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      When I walk into my town hall and cast my vote for Proposition X, I have an expectation of privacy. No-one is allowed to force me to divulge how I voted, and I cannot be discriminated against based on my vote. This is a product of a very long civil rights struggle.

      Absolutely, which is why divulging votes is not even on the agenda here. We're rather discussing signatures on a public petition.

    6. Re:intimidation indeed by Hythlodaeus · · Score: 1

      There is nothing "new" about it: people--probably many of the same kind of people who have signed this petition--have been using organized intimidation of other people for 90 millennia. And they haven't stopped at intimidation: they have killed, injured, and discriminated.

      Fixed.

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    7. Re:intimidation indeed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There is nothing "new" about it: so-called "Christians" and "conservatives"--probably many of the same kind of people who have signed this petition--have been using organized intimidation of minorities for two centuries. And they haven't stopped at intimidation: they have killed, injured, and discriminated.

      Please look at the gay marriage initiative (Prop 8 I think it was?) in California and re-write that sentence. Gay groups intimidated & assaulted numerous people who had signed a petition against gay marriage in that state.

      Look at the Tea Parties and health care protests. All peaceful until SEIU folks started showing up, biting off fingers and beating up black conservatives.

      Hell, look at G8 "protest." Violent. Predominantly leftist & liberal.

      There's a hell of a lot more intimidation and violence from the left in the country than from the right.

      -john

    8. Re:intimidation indeed by jipn4 · · Score: 0

      Please look at the gay marriage initiative (Prop 8 I think it was?) in California and re-write that sentence. Gay groups intimidated & assaulted numerous people who had signed a petition against gay marriage in that state.

      You're comparing some graffiti and egg throwing at a demonstration to two millennia of organized persecution, discrimination, and murder of homosexuals and other minorities by Christian churches? In 2007, in Federal hate crime statistics, there were five murders and 242 aggravated assaults against homosexuals and none--zero--against Catholics, and I doubt it was much different in 2008. In many communities, gay men and women have to fear for their life every time they step out on the street.

      There's a hell of a lot more intimidation and violence from the left in the country than from the right.

      You really have no idea what's going on. You're really embarrassing yourself. And you're demonstrating how important it is to get equal rights and hate crime legislation through, so that people are protected from your kind of ignorance and indifference.

    9. Re:intimidation indeed by Eil · · Score: 1

      These people can spew their bigotry in complete anonymity if they like; our laws and our Constitution guarantee that.

      The constitution only guarantees freedom of speech. (And even then, only at the legislative level.) The Constitution does not guarantee anonymity in any case.

    10. Re:intimidation indeed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Perhaps that is because the people that signed this petition witnessed the persecution of those gay rights activists, and simply want to ensure that they will not be similarly persecuted.

      Now why would they fear that? There is no such thing as a "hate crime" so, they have nothing to fear apart from a regular crime obviously not relate to that webpage.

  23. Tiger Woods and Barack Obama by Kupfernigk · · Score: 1
    He suggested it would have a bad effect on any children. Tiger Woods and Barack Obama might just have views on that.

    Or perhaps he really was a good ol' racist boy and was thinking "Geez we sure don't want any more half castes becoming President"

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  24. The road to ruin is paved with... by rickb928 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Statements such as these:

    "Against such a threat... I think anything is justified."

    Public condemnation and exposure is a tactic used by most groups, and particularly favored by those who support Washington Senate bill SB5688, which would institute civil unions in Washington state between persons without restriction on gender.

    Somehow, when it comes to 'outing', it doesn't feel very good after all.

    I personally believe the law permitting access to the signatures should stand. It was a petition, not a ballot. And you should at least have the courage to proclaim your convictions.

    And presenting referenda proposed virtually in secret will lead to more than just increased fraud and abuse of the system. It will virtually invalidate the process.

    One more reason I don't sign those well-meaning but misguided petitions that infest balloting places here in Arizona, and didn't when I lived in Maine, where the initiative is the favorite tool of the intense and driven minority that is convinced they are not merely right, but chosen as the singular instrument of justice on Earth. Such pleas are designed to take full advantage of our misinformation culture. A pox on them. Let them eat the same cake they baked.

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  25. Uhm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm still having a hard time finding any mention of GAY MARRIAGE in R-71. Just a lot about DOMESTIC PARTNERSHIPS. Can't help but feel quite lied-to when I hear the anti-gay crowd saying R-71 is threatening "the sanctity of marriage" somehow.

    1. Re:Uhm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The terms "domestic partnership" and "gay marriage" have been inextricably linked for years now, where have you been?

  26. Signing does not indicate support of gay marriage! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Signing a petition to get a measure put on the ballot for the next election does not indicate support of that measure. I have often signed many petitions just to bring the issue up for vote so that the will of the people can then be heard. Stupid Republicans.

  27. Thanks for explaining the mindset by Kupfernigk · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Of course, if you are a liberal who believes there is no personal responsibility

    How about if you're a normal liberal who does believe in personal responsibility, believes that the scientists are right and that not only are there gay human beings but that many other species have an analog, that this is a result of genetic makeup and prenatal environment, and that gay people can no more help being attracted to the same sex than I, for instance, am attracted to the opposite one? How about if you're a Liberal who believes you right wingers are a collection of mindless buffoons endlessly repeating what your shock radio cheerleaders tell you, and that it's us Liberals who are responsible for almost all human progress, while your lot, from Southern Baptists to the Taliban, want to drag us back screaming and kicking into the Dark Ages?

    Well, then we might think you're just another racist/homophobe spouting a load of offensive bullshit. And your point is?

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    1. Re:Thanks for explaining the mindset by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For the millionth time, studies finding differences between orientations have _never_ been successfully replicated, and the ones finding phenotypic differences make no claims if the change is a cause, effect, or mere correlation with the person's orientation.

    2. Re:Thanks for explaining the mindset by Just+Some+Guy · · Score: 1

      Actually, this exact subject made me realize that I'm a Libertarian. I fell in love, got married, and had kids. I can't imagine how I'd feel if someone told me I wasn't allowed to just because my wife and I are both white, or both have brown hair, or because of some other quirk of genetic luck. With that in mind, how can I tell someone else that they're not allowed to marry the person that they fell in love with?

      I'm not pro- (or anti-)gay. I don't "get" homosexuality because I can't imagine not being attracted to a woman, or being attracted to a man. But as far as I'm concerned, that doesn't matter. Two consenting adults want to be able to enter into an arrangement that I've personally entered into, and I just can't think of a reason why I should be allowed to prevent it.

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    3. Re:Thanks for explaining the mindset by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      right wingers are a collection of mindless buffoons endlessly repeating what your shock radio cheerleaders tell you

      Where the fuck do you get off disparaging "right wingers". I want no involvement of the government in personal lives. 100% economic and personal freedom. You are a fucking asshole hypocrite with no business slinging insults. Generalize much, you fuckface?

    4. Re:Thanks for explaining the mindset by AioKits · · Score: 1

      If I had points to give you good Sir I would, but alas I do not. I hope it is enough that I am nodding in agreement with you, and grinning, just a little grin...

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    5. Re:Thanks for explaining the mindset by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This would be interesting if you could provide some support for that.

      Of course you're still ignoring the humongous gray area of people who are not physically "just male" or "just female".

      What about the runner who recently made the news because "she" was a little too male to compete fairly against other women? Are you going to argue there's no repeatable phenotypical differences between her and other females?

      Or what about the hermaphrodites who have corrective surgery at a very young age and have no idea why they feel like a girl while their body says they're a boy?

  28. Re: public record vs. libel/slander by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The matter of public record is that elected official cast vote X on referendum Y at time Z. Any spoken or published speculation on the reasons for that vote going one way or the other sits precariously on the border of libel/slander.

    For example, suppose Representative Good from District 1234 personally believes A, but his constituents elected him to vote ~A. His vote (I'll let you guess if he voted A or ~A) is a matter of public record, but it's not necessarily an indication of his personal opinion. Now suppose Good is running for re-election against challenger Nefarious. Nefarious advertises Good's voting record and takes personal stabs at Good for voting the "wrong way."

    This is exactly what's happening here. We don't know why someone voted the way they did; all we know is what they voted. Adding speculation beyond the fact of the vote for the purpose of harming the person's reputation is the fucking definition of slander. This is an open and shut case. Sue the bastards who put up the website and get it removed. Then C&D the search engines too.

    p.s. I live in WA, but I don't vote, and I didn't even read TFA. I think all politicians are lying SOBs, so it doesn't matter to me who ends up in office.

  29. Turn the tables by jDeepbeep · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Gay rights activists go too far. It's one thing to demand a right to do what seams right to you, its another thing to lash out against those who express any kind of disapproval. .

    Let's take away your ability to marry, and then see if you might be so inclined to lash out in any way. Perhaps when your loved one is dying in the hospital, and you are not allowed to go see her. Would you sit quietly by? I doubt it.

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    1. Re:Turn the tables by PackMan97 · · Score: 2, Funny

      "Let's take away your ability to marry" Please do...prevent me from making yet another stupid mistake next time I visit Vegas!

    2. Re:Turn the tables by jDeepbeep · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I can't marry my dog, what's your point?

      Same sex marriage is not comparable to marrying your dog. Please troll in a less obvious manner.

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    3. Re:Turn the tables by CensorshipDonkey · · Score: 5, Insightful

      A dog is not a consenting adult. What difference does it make which consenting adult you marry?

    4. Re:Turn the tables by andymadigan · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It's more than that. In NYS there are over 1000 rights (1400 or something?) that are reserved for married couples. The total cost of getting each of them that you can without a marriage is in the thousands of dollars, and it takes *a lot* of time to get done. There are others for which the only legal avenue is marriage. Many private institutions such as employers only recognize marriage for certain benefits, and hide behind the "well you're not really married" defense to cover their bigotry.

      This is in NYS, which has NYC and Rochester, plus Toronto not far away. I can only imagine what it's like in Washington.

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    5. Re:Turn the tables by mixmatch · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I always wondered why marriage has anything to do with the government anyway.

    6. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 0, Troll

      Let's take away your ability to marry, and then see if you might be so inclined to lash out in any way. Perhaps when your loved one is dying in the hospital, and you are not allowed to go see her. Would you sit quietly by? I doubt it.

      How can something be taken away which really hasn't existed historically? I can use a similar argument: "Let's take away your ability to fly by flapping your arms..."

      And to split hairs, homosexuals currently have the right to marry. A homosexual man can marry any woman who sees fit agree, and a homosexual woman can marry any man who sees fit to agree. As a heterosexual man, I do not have the right to marry any man. Seems pretty clear and equally applied. Man marries Woman.

      From my point of view, the state/government should get out of the "marriage" business all together. It should be a religious state. Just have civil contracts to define "partners" rights.

    7. Re:Turn the tables by beerbear · · Score: 1

      Marriage is between a man and woman.... anything else can NEVER be called marriage... Period...

      Oh, now that you explain it so eloquently, I finally see your point. Seriously, why can't it be called marriage? Just because?

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    8. Re:Turn the tables by Thalaric · · Score: 2, Informative

      I don't know how it works in Seattle, but here in Los Angeles that whole sob story about not being able to visit your partner in the hospital is a load of bollocks and sensationalism. In California domestic partners have all the rights commonly whined about, excepting taking their partnership to another state. Sorry that can only be fixed on a federal level, so all these state initiatives don't get you any closer. This entire issue is one of mostly semantics.

    9. Re:Turn the tables by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 2, Informative

      I know right? Just like 'geek' can only mean somebody who bites the heads off of chickens. Language never evolves, terms never change, and people who say they do are just IGNORANT.

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    10. Re:Turn the tables by Rob+Kaper · · Score: 5, Insightful

      From my point of view, the state/government should get out of the "marriage" business all together. It should be a religious state. Just have civil contracts to define "partners" rights.

      Agreed.

      However, governments insist on calling those contracts "civil marriage". And because of that wrong label same-sex couples cannot enter into such a contract together.

      (Personally I don't care whether they fix the criteria or the label.)

    11. Re:Turn the tables by LibertarianWackJob · · Score: 1

      Ding Ding Ding! I believe we have a winner!

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    12. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      allow me to park my car in your garriage.

    13. Re:Turn the tables by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 0, Troll

      When a law is passed, as happened in WA, suddenly a state exists which previously did not. That, by the magical thing called 'time' becomes 'history' whereupon another effort to rescind that state would logically be considered 'taking it away'. Same thing in CA.

      If that stupidity wasn't enough, the next guy to use the symantic asshattery of 'gay people can heterosexually marry anybody they want' gets punched right in the mean bean machine.

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    14. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Marriage used to be between a white man and white woman, or black man and black woman.
      Now you can intermarry...
      The definition has changed before, it can change again.
      They didn't need to come up for a new term when blacks and whites married.

      Definitions change all the time. Whoever makes the marriage is between a man and woman argument is ignorant.
      They are basically saying, it is because it is.

      You say marriage is between a man and woman.... I say voting is for white men who own land, thats the definition.

      You're an idiot and biggot.

    15. Re:Turn the tables by Maxmin · · Score: 5, Informative

      My sister married a gal from a wealthy family. They've spent over $20,000 on legal documents, trusts and related nonsense in order to ensure they have *some* of the rights entitled to heterosexual couples. And that's just for things that matter to courts - they can't change laws which grant rights only straight family members (visitation, child privileges, etc.)

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    16. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In NYS there are over 1000 rights (1400 or something?) that are reserved for married couples.

      It seems that ugly people are not afforded all the rights that attractive people are.

    17. Re:Turn the tables by jones948 · · Score: 4, Informative

      http://blog.mattalgren.com/2009/09/hospital-forces-lesbian-to-die-alone/ "...made the decision not to allow Janice Langbehn, Lisa Pond’s partner, to have standard family access to information, even after receiving durable Power of Attorney and a Living Will naming Janice as legal guardian with authority to make end-of-life decisions."

    18. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      oh, yeah, Rochester, that great metropolis of the north :-)

    19. Re:Turn the tables by BlackSnake112 · · Score: 1

      It is and always has been about money. Do you actually think government, states, hospitals, or any company cares if one is gay or straight? It boils down to money. It was believed that homosexual people were more likely to catch/pass on certain diseases. That is when the rules were set. Prove that this is not true and those rules may change. One has to prove that the lifestyle of people who are gay carries no higher risk then those that are straight. Prove that for all and this issue will go away.

      Religion is a separate issue. There is supposed to be a separation of 'church' and state in the US. And church can be what ever your religion is. One can still get married and not have to go to a 'church' to make it happen.

    20. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 3, Insightful

      1) You've little understanding what rights are. Particularly the difference between Legal and Natural rights.
      2) You engage in name calling and threats of violence against those with whom you disagree.
      3) Demonstrate little understanding of logical fallacies.

      Let's see... You attempt to:

      o brow beat me
      o talk down to me
      o imply I'm illogical
      o imply I'm stupid
      o threaten anybody who further disagrees with you

      Do you want to discuss the topic, or attack the person?

    21. Re:Turn the tables by drsmithy · · Score: 1

      I always wondered why marriage has anything to do with the government anyway.

      Because there are economic incentives and benefits to being married.

    22. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nothing has been taken away from enyone, as homosexuals historically have not had the right to marry. And with a reason.

      One thing is not to hate people with different values or "lifestyle" and another completely is for them to pretend that I own them anything. Gay rights is hipocrisy at its high, as they really don't care to hear the reasonings of the other side and instead resort to feel-good mumbo-jumbo like the hypothetical situation you where stating. I believe gay marriage is negative to the society as a whole and proud to say it. Marriage has a purpose and that purpose is not fulfilled in gay couples.

    23. Re:Turn the tables by pnewhook · · Score: 1

      Marriage is between a man and woman.... anything else can NEVER be called marriage... Period...

      Where exactly did that rule come from?

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    24. Re:Turn the tables by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      I have no problem with civil unions between same sexes. It becomes a problem when they want to call it marriage. Marriage is a religious ceremony, not a state sanctioned union. Many of the Gay rights crowd don't seem to understand this.

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    25. Re:Turn the tables by Fringe · · Score: 1

      Read the initiative. R71 isn't about marriage. It's "everything but marriage". And, oddly, it only covers same-sex couples and couples over age 62; it's oddly biased against young straight couples that want domestic benefits without incurring the federal marriage tax!

    26. Re:Turn the tables by Coren22 · · Score: 0, Troll

      Because marriage is a religious ceremony. If you were "married" before a judge, you had a civil union, stop trying to hijack a ceremony if you don't believe in the religion and there won't be problems with it.

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    27. Re:Turn the tables by Loadmaster · · Score: 1

      Didn't you know, God doesn't recognize anything that isn't first certified by the US Government. It's all in the Gospel of Americus. I'm sorry, I meant the Gospel of The United States of Americus. Wouldn't want to include any other Americii in there. Chapter Two strictly forbids it stating, "North Americus is the only Americus for Jesus and me."

      Anyway, you're right, the government should just use Civil Unions for everyone so they're not certifying anything for God.

    28. Re:Turn the tables by Forge · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You also can't Marry your sister. Even if she is a consenting adult. What's your point?

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    29. Re:Turn the tables by Kierthos · · Score: 1

      Sorry, as far as states and the feds are concerned, a "marriage" before a judge rather then some arbitrary religious authority is a marriage (note lack of quotes). It's the same thing as far as the law is concerned.

      But hey, since you seem determined to completely associate marriage with religion... you do realize that I, having gone to a website and clicked a link (well, there was a little more to it then that), am a minister in the Universal Life Church and can therefore marry people. Doesn't matter that I have all the religious training of a stunned grapefruit. By your reasoning, I can solemnly authorize and validate marriages.

      So, yeah, you're a little loopy in assuming that religion automatically and unilaterally validates marriage.

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    30. Re:Turn the tables by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1, Troll

      You said something somebody didn't have couldn't be taken away, no antecedent explicitly stated. In the context of natural rights, that's debatable, in the context of legal rihgts, it's a mistake or a lie.

      And rather than address my points, you address my manner. Believe me, I know and consciously choose when to lower myself to an ad hominem level and accept all responsibility for it, but you ARE illogical, and I have yet to see any argument constructed by you in your defense. Believe me, I'm waiting for all the tired old bullshit about how gay marriage isn't a natural right but straight marriage is (and if they're both not, then only the legal remains, making the 'taken away' point moot and sealed).

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    31. Re:Turn the tables by omega_dk · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Since the dawn of time, the family, consisting of a husband and his property has been the fundamental unit of society.

      I, for one, am glad that we altered the whole structure of that civilization - why not this one?

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    32. Re:Turn the tables by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 3, Insightful

      It is and always has been about money. Do you actually think government, states, hospitals, or any company cares if one is gay or straight? It boils down to money. It was believed that homosexual people were more likely to catch/pass on certain diseases. That is when the rules were set. Prove that this is not true and those rules may change. One has to prove that the lifestyle of people who are gay carries no higher risk then those that are straight. Prove that for all and this issue will go away.

      Religion is a separate issue. There is supposed to be a separation of 'church' and state in the US. And church can be what ever your religion is. One can still get married and not have to go to a 'church' to make it happen.

      Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit.

      It’s all about religion. And control.

      Religion forbids homosexuality because it robs them of fresh kids to indoctrinate and to swamp the other tribes with.

      It’s about control, too: religion forbids homosexuality because gay men can have all the sex they want without having to contend with headaches nor birth control, and thus make compromises so the wife consents to be fucked. Someone who is not accustomed to make compromises because his sex partner is always willing will be harder to control.

      “Certain diseases gay people have” is only a very recent phenomenon for which technology exists to address.

      The same comment goes for masturbation: one can jerk-off any time he wants for instant sexual gratification. There is no need for someone else, and thus even less compromise than with homosexual intercourse.

      Religion has had thousands of years to rot our brains; any society has a hard time to get rid of it.

    33. Re:Turn the tables by berbo · · Score: 1
      right, next thing you'll see blacks marrying whites, Jews marrying Gentiles..

      Where will it end?!

    34. Re:Turn the tables by Forge · · Score: 1

      I'm pretty sure it's in the Bible somewhere. Are you willing to embed within the law which recognizes gay marriage that Clergy from any religion which forbids Homosexuality cannot be compelled to sanction such a union?

      For the record: Christianity, Islam and Judaism are in that category. Buddhism is not.

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    35. Re:Turn the tables by tsm_sf · · Score: 1

      You people make us all look bad. I wish you'd stop tying your personal biases to our religion. It's mean, it's ugly, and it's ruining people's perception of us.

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    36. Re:Turn the tables by Jesus_666 · · Score: 1

      Except that the term "marriage" is also applied to civil unions. Nobody but civil workers and clergy makes a distinction between civil unions and marriage. In fact, look at forms you fill out. When you state the status you and a potential partner live in (tellingly usually called "marital status"), do you get "in a civil union" or "married"?

      Plus, it's not like same-sex civil unions are in the laws everywhere and it's just the religious ceremony that isn't supported. Same-sex civil unions are rarely supported and when they are they bring significantly fewer additional rights than mixed-sex ones (as, for instance, laws might use the terms "married" or "spouse" instead of "in a civil union" or "partner"). They're even lobbied against on religious grounds.

      There is no practical difference between "marriage" and "civil union".

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    37. Re:Turn the tables by Digital+Vomit · · Score: 1

      Because marriage is actually a legal agreement.

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    38. Re:Turn the tables by Forge · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Right back to my original point.

      Homosexuals attempting to silence other people. Notice the opinion based moderation on this topic. What ever happened to moderating based on the quality of argument rather than weather you agree with it?

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    39. Re:Turn the tables by Mitchell314 · · Score: 1

      Correct

      We have now moved onto bats.

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    40. Re:Turn the tables by Jesus_666 · · Score: 1

      Exactly. Plus, churches can still refuse to do it on religious grounds if they are against it. It's not like everyone's campaigning for a law to for them to wed everyone who wants. It's the legal differences that need to go; the ability to have a ceremony in the church of one's choice is secondary.

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    41. Re:Turn the tables by NiceGeek · · Score: 5, Insightful

      "And to split hairs, homosexuals currently have the right to marry. A homosexual man can marry any woman who sees fit agree, and a homosexual woman can marry any man who sees fit to agree.
      As a heterosexual man, I do not have the right to marry any man. Seems pretty clear and equally applied."

      'And to split hairs, blacks currently have the right to marry. A black man can marry any black woman who sees fit to agree, and a black woman can marry any black man who sees fit to agree
      As a white man, I do not have the right to marry any black woman. Seems pretty clear and equally applied"

      Are you freaking serious?

    42. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Because marriage is a civil union. You have it backwards. The whole church involvement is simply a nice ceremony. It has no authority to do anything until the government validates the marriage. You could get married all day in church and it would mean nothing until you file the proper papers. Try to get married five times and the church wouldn't know you had, and certainly couldn't come after you. The government on the other hand, certainly could.

      Now from the other perspective, if you go the government, and get a marriage performed, there is no church needed.

      See the difference?

      This is the part that the church and organized religion fails to understand. They are taking a civil issue and trying to push their religious views into it. Granting civil unions, or even marriage to two people doesn't harm them in the slightest. It might affront their beliefs, but there is simply no harm done to them personally, and that is an important distinction.

      Separation of church and state doesn't protect the government from religion. It protects you, me, and everyone else from government sponsored religion. That is what makes these "defense of marriage" acts so wrong. There is no provable harm in these civil unions, and when they state that it is 'morally wrong according to the bible', they are essentially forcing government sponsored religion onto US citizens when these acts are passed even if these citizens are not followers of the bible. The 'harm' is stated in a religious document. There is no prove-able harm outside of the bible.

    43. Re:Turn the tables by WilliamBaughman · · Score: 1

      Do you want to discuss the topic, or attack the person?

      Jhon, with all due respect, it doesn't seem like you want to discuss the topic. You trivialize the issue at hand by pointing out that gay people can still enter heterosexual marriage, and then you act offended and surprised when someone threatens online to punch you "the mean bean machine."

      As for your question:

      "How can something be taken away which really hasn't existed historically?"

      The commenter you were responding to was asking about taking away Forge (2456)'s right to marriage, meaning his/her right to marry a heterosexual partner. That right has historically existed. Comparing a heterosexual who can't marry the person they love and a homosexual who can'y marry the person they love is a valid comparison.

    44. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What difference does it make which consenting adults you marry?

      Modified that for you.

      (Seriously, I have no problem with either homosexuality or polygamy, regardless of whether I'm ever involved in either.)

    45. Re:Turn the tables by jayme0227 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      And since the dawn of time, marriage was considered to be for a lifetime, yet anti-gay conservative after anti-gay conservative cheats on his wife and/or gets a divorce. If you were railing against divorce and philandering in defense of the sanctity of marriage, I would have a much easier time listening to your anti-gay rhetoric, but since the only time the "sanctity" of marriage comes up is with regards to homosexuality, I have a hard time respecting that argument. (Here's looking at you, Rush, the three time divorcee, for single handedly making this argument for me.)

      Also, as to your procreation argument, many gay couples often want to adopt children but are forbidden from doing so because of state laws that use bogus logic in order to discriminate. There have been plenty of children who have grown up with gay parents, yet there is still no evidence that this harms the children, whereas there is plenty of evidence that these children are better off than kids in single-parent families and foster homes. Yet people feel that these children should be put in less advantageous positions in foster homes rather than be raised by loving same sex parents.

      Finally, marriage IS a right. If a white man and a white woman were denied their right to marry, there would be holy hell to pay. There’s even a considerable backlash (as there should be), when an interracial couple is prevented from marrying, as was recently the case in Louisiana. Yet when two men decide to marry, many people feel the law should be used to prevent this from happening. This even happens even though there are progressive churches that bless same sex unions.

      Personally, because of all this mess, I think the government should just back off. Marriage should be a religious choice rather than a legal one. Allow anyone to get a civil union and the legal protections afforded by it, and get out of the way when it comes to marriage.

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    46. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Because incest is bad for the gene pool but homosexuality isn't bad for anything.

    47. Re:Turn the tables by Taevin · · Score: 2, Insightful

      What the fuck are you talking about? I'm going to ignore for a moment the fact that that one line in Leviticus is about the only one people follow in the whole damn book. Who said anything about compelling any religious institution to sanction any particular union male/male, male/female, or female/female? Honestly, no one cares what sort of hate you chant in your nuthouse.

      More importantly, why would a homosexual want to be involved with a group that tells them they are going to Hell simply because their Creator says so. Their Creator makes them gay and then punishes them for eternity for it. Yeah, makes a lot of sense.

    48. Re:Turn the tables by Dishevel · · Score: 0, Troll

      Gay rights activists go too far. It's one thing to demand a right to do what seams right to you, its another thing to lash out against those who express any kind of disapproval. .

      Let's take away your ability to marry, and then see if you might be so inclined to lash out in any way. Perhaps when your loved one is dying in the hospital, and you are not allowed to go see her. Would you sit quietly by? I doubt it.

      Gays have the exact same right to Marriage that straight couples have. I as a straight man can marry a woman. If I were a gay man I could still marry a woman. No discrimination here. All people are indeed treated equally. STFU.

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    49. Re:Turn the tables by omega_dk · · Score: 1

      But then you don't have the same rights as a straight woman! She's allowed to marry a man, why can't you?

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    50. Re:Turn the tables by Zordak · · Score: 1

      Um it's not semantic (or "symantic"). I know several openly "gay" (i.e., attracted to the same sex) people who are in happy, monogamous, heterosexual marriages. It's not just a hypothetical construct.

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    51. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You should be able to marry your sister. And if genetic screenings say you won't make web footed duck babies, you should be able to have kids with her too. But you should be able to marry her in any case. Marriage isn't necessarily about procreation, if it were, then barren couples wouldn't be allowed marriage either. Your sister and you are adults, you can consent, why shouldn't you be able to marry? Just because some people think its gross? Some people think mixed marriages are gross, too.

      The institution of marriage has a stabilizing effect on society. This occurs whatever the partners' sexual orientation or capacity to breed. Married couples tend to be more stable and responsible. Marriage is a positive institution. Why deny that to homosexuals?

      You see, you are advocating denying people the right to marry whom they choose. That does not impact anyone else except in indirect but positive ways. You need to justify this abrogation of rights. How will denying homosexuals the rights to marry benefit society? You can't just compare homosexual unions to bestiality or incest without more complete reasoning. You appear to be trying to appeal to emotions rather than using logic. You say, 'you can't marry your sister,' but you don't state why you can't, or how the case of sibling incest is similar to homosexuality. Sure, it's a step up from comparing homosexuality to bestiality, but not by much.

      You are the one making outrageous claims. You are the one advocating harmful actions against oppressed minorities. You need to justify your claims as best you can, rather than making cheap appeals to emotions. If you don't even attempt to justify your position logically, people are correct to disrespect you.

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    52. Re:Turn the tables by Dishevel · · Score: 1

      Marriage used to be between a white man and white woman, or black man and black woman.

      That was a law in some states. The bible never stated that marriage was limited in any way other than between a man and a woman. Now. If you have problems with the way states give special privileges to the married maybe that is what you should be arguing about. But do not try and argue what a marriage is and what it is not.

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    53. Re:Turn the tables by 10Neon · · Score: 1

      Completely ignoring the fact that this isn't the actual reason why marrying your sister isn't legal.

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    54. Re:Turn the tables by iamhigh · · Score: 1

      First off, most of the people you are taunting probably don't give a flying fuck who someone wants to marry. Certainly every relativist is in this category, and I think when it comes to bedroom behavior most of us are relativist (nobody wants the gov't intruding there, right?). Sister, cousin, ape, real doll(TM)... none of it matters to me. As long as you are happy, and not removing any of my rights (or others), we are cool.

      Now, even if you didn't like that reason, here's another: incest/inbreeding does cause harm to future generations, this is fact. Homosexuality however cannot cause this problem as they haven't figured out how to reproduce yet.

      So there is a law somewhat related to this that actually serves to protect society. What's your point?

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    55. Re:Turn the tables by interploy · · Score: 1

      It does in the sense that it's an officially recognized union between two people, and thereby subject to laws pertaining to such couples. The real problem is people confuse marriage in a legal sense with marriage in a religious sense, but the two are, in fact, separate. When it comes right down to it, there is no legal reason why a gay couple shouldn't have the right to get married. None. All objections have so far been based on a so called "moral right", i.e. God hates the gays, therefore letting them get married would be an affront to God.

      Personally, I wouldn't presume to know God's intentions. Maybe He hates them, maybe not, but regardless, He makes it clear that it's His place to pass judgment, not ours. (And before I get haters about that, the "morals" at issue here are based on Christian values, and I'm pretty sure that when Jesus died for our sins, he died for ALL of them, not just a few. And that's assuming homosexuality is indeed a sin, because there are sects of the Christian faith that don't believe it is. And like I said, I don't know. I don't presume such things.)

      However, I do know there is supposed to be a separation of church and state in the US, which everyone here seems to forget about whenever it's convenient. Justice is blind; we shouldn't be creating laws based solely on religious principals (especially ones that aren't even agreed upon within the religious community).

    56. Re:Turn the tables by Dishevel · · Score: 0, Troll

      gay people can heterosexually marry anybody they want

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    57. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And to split hairs, homosexuals currently have the right to marry. A homosexual man can marry any woman who sees fit agree, and a homosexual woman can marry any man who sees fit to agree. As a heterosexual man, I do not have the right to marry any man. Seems pretty clear and equally applied. Man marries Woman.

      That isn't what is meant by homosexuals having the rights to marry, and you know it.

      From my point of view, the state/government should get out of the "marriage" business all together

      The government is the only entity that can define and enforce the laws. And since one gets a great many legal benefits from being married, the government should be involved.

      It should be a religious state.

      To many religions espouse to many contradictory claims on who has the right to do what to whom (and when) to make this feasible.

      Just have civil contracts to define "partners" rights.

      And who is going to enforce these "partners" rights? These rights will depend on the laws of the land, and that means the government.

    58. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      Why isn't it then, o enlightened one.

    59. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Let's take away your ability to marry, and then see if you might be so inclined to lash out in any way. Perhaps when your loved one is dying in the hospital, and you are not allowed to go see her. Would you sit quietly by? I doubt it.

      In order to take something away, you have to have it first. Gays never had the ability to marry. And in every state where it has been put before the people, the people don't want Gays to have that privilege. They are trying to steal something by hook or crook which they have no right to.

    60. Re:Turn the tables by 10Neon · · Score: 1
      Since the dawn of time... what? Any person with a basic knowledge of world cultures throughout history knows that, while common, the "family" as you describe it has not been anything like a "fundamental" unit.

      And, as some of my sibling posters mention, even granting that, just because it has has been the case, does not mean that it should be the case.

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    61. Re:Turn the tables by Taylor123456789 · · Score: 0

      Divorce and adoption are exceptions to the rule. We should not make policy based on the exceptions, but on the rule. For instance, people drive drunk, but that does not mean we should ban driving.

      You make think marriage is a right, but it is called a marriage "license". Procreation within the structure of marriage is a right, but as I said, gays cannot procreate.

    62. Re:Turn the tables by Lord+Kano · · Score: 1

      I always wondered why marriage has anything to do with the government anyway.

      Then you, clearly, haven't spent enough time wondering.

      LK

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    63. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      Because marriage is a religious ceremony. If you were "married" before a judge, you had a civil union, stop trying to hijack a ceremony if you don't believe in the religion and there won't be problems with it.

      Luckily, we have freedom of religion in this country. Christians can't force Muslims to perform Christian ceremonies. Jews can't force Christians to perform Jewish ceremonies. And even religions as ridiculous as Scientology are legally accepted as religions. Meaning, I can define my own religion, which includes gay marriage as a sacrament. And take the actions necessary to get my religion recognized. And I can then perform gay marriages as part of a religion, which has as much legal validity here in the country of FREEDOM OF RELIGION as yours does.

      Nobody wants to force your homophobic church to perform gay marriages, just like the Muslims don't want to force your church to perform Muslim marriages. We just don't want you telling us how we can or can't worship, and who we can or can't marry. Perhaps you wish this was a Christian nation, with religious laws enforced like they do in the Middle East. But it isn't, so if you want that kind of thing, perhaps you should look for it someplace else.

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    64. Re:Turn the tables by Rary · · Score: 1

      Give it another term

      Why? If the word fits, use it.

      don't require a J.O.P. to perform any kind of service

      Why not? That's their job.

      and don't ask any church to sanction it.

      No one ever has. This is, and has always been, about the legal definition of marriage. It has nothing to do with any church.

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    65. Re:Turn the tables by ImYourVirus · · Score: 1

      They never had it in the first place.

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    66. Re:Turn the tables by santiagoanders · · Score: 1

      Do you have no problem with a person marrying his/her consenting brother, or sister, or mother, or father? What difference does it make?

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    67. Re:Turn the tables by Rary · · Score: 1

      Because marriage is a religious ceremony.

      In what parallel universe?

      Marriage existed as a legal institution long before the church ever got involved.

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    68. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      Clergy can't be compelled to perform marriages of any sort now. Nobody has ever talked about changing that, except for paranoiacs who use it as scare tactic. Also, there are plenty of Christian denominations that do not forbid homosexual marriages, You see, the prohibition against homosexuality is in the part of the Bible (the old testament) that Jesus repealed. So in addition to allowing you to eat pork and wear garments made of two different materials, you can also have gay marriages. The early Christian church has records of performing many such homosexual unions.

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    69. Re:Turn the tables by im_thatoneguy · · Score: 1

      This isn't even about marriage! This referendum exposes the obvious dishonesty of the anti-gay marriage movements.
      We keep hearing "They deserve equal rights but marriage is sacred. I'm for equality but not redefining marriage." So the Washington State legislature passes a law which gives civil unions all the same rights as marriage without legalizing gay marriage. But now 'sanctity of marriage' activists are attempting to overturn rights for civil unions too. It's out and out discrimination and if through some trickery they confuse enough people into unvoting this law I hope the WA state supreme court rules it unconstitutional.

    70. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Agreed; unfortunately, too late to fix the system correctly -- by making it so that there are no civil rights conveyed by marriage (due to the religious connotations), and rights are only conveyed by domestic partnership or civil unions.

      Personally, I would love to see an argument go to the Supreme Court complaining that marriage (I'm sure they could find another party who claims that marriage is a religious institution *somewhere*) conveying civil rights is a violation of the first amendment requirement that the government not have any law respecting a religious institution (which is almost literally the wording).

    71. Re:Turn the tables by eepok · · Score: 1

      Funny you mention that. I've been with my significant other for 8 years in November. We don't plan to get married until there is a method of doing so that 100% does not involve the government, but would also be recognized as a legal marriage just the same.

      People will say that marriage is a "contract", and I think it is to a small extent, but more realistically, it's just a promise to be faithful to a person. A government body involved in marriage is there to instill fear in a marriage-- to guarantee that bad things happen to the unfaithful because, presumably, they would be unfaithful without the threat of punishment.

      We don't need threats of punishment to stay faithful. We don't feel the need to be blessed by a church or a legislative body.

      Of course, if she were to be injured, I would have to identify myself at the hospital by the colloquial "boyfriend" and I would not be allowed to see her.

    72. Re:Turn the tables by iamhigh · · Score: 1

      homosexuals historically have not had the right to marry. And with a reason....
      Gay rights is hipocrisy at its high, as they really don't care to hear the reasonings of the other side...
      I believe gay marriage is negative to the society...
      Marriage has a purpose and that purpose is not fulfilled in gay couples.

      And I am waiting for this reason. What are your "reasonings" Mr. AC? I am waiting! How is it negative; what does it not fulfill? You didn't say!

      For the "it's for procreation" people, why haven't we made sterile people marry only other sterile people?

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    73. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      Cart before the horse, man. There are economic incentives and benefits because the government is involved, not the other way around.

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    74. Re:Turn the tables by ThosLives · · Score: 1

      Personally, because of all this mess, I think the government should just back off. Marriage should be a religious choice rather than a legal one. Allow anyone to get a civil union and the legal protections afforded by it, and get out of the way when it comes to marriage.

      This is my personal stance as well. Civil unions should only define the general social aspects like shared benefits, legal responsibility, adoption, etc. I believe, though, that "marriage" is indeed a religious institution, and I would argue that separation of church and state says that the State shouldn't dictate what "marriage" is and is not. I think we ultimately need two terms to distinguish between the civil union aspects of marriage and the religious aspects of marriage.

      There is already precedent for religious organizations being able to promote certain worldviews: nobody (sensible) calls a religion intolerant because they say eating certain types of food is immoral, and you don't see people suing those religious institutions because of their dietary beliefs. If a particular religion wants to say that marriage between two same-sex people is immoral, the government should not intervene any more than it does regarding foodstuffs. (Or for the sake of equality do you want the government to say that you can't have special dietary requirements as well as special lifestyle requirements?)

      While my beliefs mean that I have certain lifestyles I promote and others I do not, that does not mean that we should use any religious belief to direct law, or any law to direct religious belief (even though that's not a popular concept): separation applies both ways, and often times folks forget that the State condemning or opposing a certain religious belief is just as unconstitutional as the State promoting one religious belief over another*.

      *I do realize that there are some complications when religious beliefs may conflict with social constructs like murder, child labor, slavery, crime, and other generally 'criminal' activities, but care must be taken to evaluate those on a case-by-case basis rather than as gross generalizations.

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    75. Re:Turn the tables by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      The quality of a bullshit argument that "you never had that right" or "you can marry, just not the one you love cause you are gay" is defined by the word: bullshit. The moderation of such as bullshit is accurate, valid, and not in any way an attempt to silence a person based on their opinion.

    76. Re:Turn the tables by Alpha830RulZ · · Score: 1

      The bible never stated that marriage was limited in any way other than between a man and a woman.

      Well, there is Leviticus, which says that if a man shall lie with another man, it is an abomination. Of course, it goes it to say that if you eat shellfish, it is an abomination, too.

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    77. Re:Turn the tables by Alpha830RulZ · · Score: 1

      . Their Creator makes them gay and then punishes them for eternity for it. Yeah, makes a lot of sense.

      No less sense than the rest of the doctrine. Their creator makes them sexual, and then damns them for eternity if they act on it. The creator creates people all around the world, and damns most of them for eternity if they don't figure out that the bible has the secret code to avoid eternal damnation. If you don't force the rest of the people in the world to accept -your- beliefs you are condemned to eternal damnation. And so on.

      Making sense is not high on the requirements list for a religion.

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    78. Re:Turn the tables by CensorshipDonkey · · Score: 1

      You, not particularly. Why should I care, they are consenting adults. Not being married won't stop them from having kids if that's what they want to do.

    79. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The commenter you were responding to was asking about taking away Forge (2456)'s right to marriage, meaning his/her right to marry a heterosexual partner. That right has historically existed. Comparing a heterosexual who can't marry the person they love and a homosexual who can'y marry the person they love is a valid comparison.

      I disagree. I believe it is not a valid comparison. I think the problem is you and others are considering the term "marriage" to mean something today that it did not mean historically.

      This isn't about suppressing rights of a minority group -- it's about the creation of a NEW right -- one that didn't exist before -- and in so doing fundamentally change what the meaning of the term/word "marriage" is. I'm all for civil and legal equality for those who are "married" and domestic partners, but I'm against changing what "marriage" means.

    80. Re:Turn the tables by Alpha830RulZ · · Score: 1

      Because it affects your status with regards to the laws that the government makes. That is why the gays want to be able to get married, so that they can enjoy the protection afforded by these laws.

      BTW, I live in Washington, and I look forward to the publication of these names, because I intend to look and see who I know is in there. And I WILL tell them what I think of bigotry and hate.

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    81. Re:Turn the tables by Rary · · Score: 1

      And to split hairs, homosexuals currently have the right to marry.

      That's not splitting hairs, that's being stupid and completely missing the point of the entire debate. The debate is not about allowing individual homosexuals to marry a person they have no interest in marrying. It's about allowing same-sex couples to marry each other. It's not about individuals, it's about couples. Different-sex couples can marry (as in, "each other"). Same-sex couples cannot.

      From my point of view, the state/government should get out of the "marriage" business all together.

      Why? Marriage began as a legal institution. The religious aspect is just an optional add-on. Why should religion get to take it over completely?

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    82. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      Because we've discovered that legally linking two people in such a way has it's uses, people already had a word for it (marriage) and so we used it?

      Seriously, the government is going to be involved in the legal entity that we currently call "marriage" because, well, it's a LEGAL ENTITY. Call it anything else and it'll still be the same exact thing, and all you've done argue semantics. Call it a "civil union", a "marriage", or a "globelsnitchel"; doesn't matter. And it certainly won't matter for the legal debate either. The RELIGIOUS side of marriage isn't regulated at all. Any church that wishes can perform the religious portion of the marriage to a gay couple just fine. People already do that.

      So why bother changing the term when in the end we still haven't accomplished a darn thing except to have people now arguing against gay globelsnitchels instead of gay marriage?

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    83. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The civil union part does.

      Mexico has it right here. There are two ceremonies, one for the civil union, and one optional for the "religious" part. Very similar to getting the "marriage license" here, but the difference is a priest only has authority in binding the religious marriage, not the civil side as it is in the US.

    84. Re:Turn the tables by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Disclaimer: I support gay marriage without reservation, and I am an atheist.

      However, you're either trying to rewrite or ignore the bulk of history. Marriage in the ancient world was entirely an inter-family affair, and government involvement was rare. Religious involvement was also more incidental and less systemic than in the medieval world. That's because polytheism is naturally more pluralistic than monotheism. It wasn't until monotheism that one 'married into the church' per se. (Not that it was uncommon for wives to be expected to follow the religious practices of their husbands, given the patriarchal nature of most of the pre-modern world, but it was less common for them to be expected to give up their own practices, thanks to the aforementioned pluralism.) When monotheism started getting uncomfortably tangled with the apparatus of the government during the transition from the ancient to the medieval periods, not only did it destroy the pluralism, but it made the zones of control of marriage between church and state frequently overlap. As bureaucracy increased and governments succeeded in increasing their control over their populations, this overlap became unbalanced toward uncontested favor of the government. Thus emerged marriage licenses, giving governments primary decision-making authority in marriages.

      So 'control' of marriage has evolved from inter-family/community > church > church+state > state.

      Neither any church NOR any state should have legislative control over marriage, nor should it confer special privileges (which I say as a married man, since those privileges are then used as justification for government control of marriage). Marriage is ultimately between the people who are joined by the event, and nobody else. I should not be able to tell some other couple how their marriage should work, just as I would piss in the eye of anybody who thought they could tell me how my marriage should work.

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    85. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Gay rights did exist historically in Greek/Roman periods. It is the Christians who took away those rights, now fighting to prevent them from being restored.
      The verb "marry" is the problem. Why does a man marrying a woman get a tax break ? Why does a heterosexual couple get rights of visitation in jails, hospitals etc. but not homosexuals ? This is one of the reasons that restricting the word "marry" to heterosexuals is problematic.

    86. Re:Turn the tables by drsmithy · · Score: 1

      Cart before the horse, man. There are economic incentives and benefits because the government is involved, not the other way around.

      Government is involved because there are social benefits to marriage. Therefore, marriages are encourages via economic incentives.

    87. Re:Turn the tables by eepok · · Score: 1

      From my point of view, the state/government should get out of the "marriage" business all together. It should be a religious state. Just have civil contracts to define "partners" rights.

      I'll take it a step further. I think the gov't should get out of the business altogether (like you) and that it should be an *option* to go through a religious organization. Personally, I would prefer a fully social option. Download the document, fill stuff in, have witnesses to the pledge sign, and submit the two of you as "socially bound to a faithful partnership". No fear of retribution of a god or governmental body should be necessary in a contract of devotion and love.

      And I would *love* for the universalization of the term "partner". I'm 8 years on with my "girlfriend" and we're fully committed to each other... but when we go to rent an apartment and we have to introduce each other as "boyfriend" and "girlfriend", they assume it's a risky arrangement for the two of us to be on the lease. "Partners" would best describe us.

    88. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      I'm sure you're right, but realized that you're talking about CALIFORNIA. Probably the most gay-friendly state in the union. I wouldn't be too quick to assume that the rights homosexuals have there are the same rights they have in most of the country. Particularly in the Bible Belt region. Allowing gay marriage? Hell I'm straight myself but get accused of being gay and half ran out of a room as I suggest that maybe, just maybe it's not fair to lynch mob every gay person in sight (or as I've heard suggested, "roundin 'em up and gittin rid of 'em").

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    89. Re:Turn the tables by shutdown+-p+now · · Score: 1

      Marriage is between a man and woman.... anything else can NEVER be called marriage... Period...

      The existing Washington law was carefully worded specifically for pricks and thick-headed morons like you. From the referendum ballot:

      Concise Description: This bill would expand the rights, responsibilities, and obligations accorded state-registered same-sex and senior domestic partners to be equivalent to those of married spouses, except that a domestic partnership is not a marriage.

      Ballot Measure Summary: Same-sex couples, or any couple that includes one person age sixty-two or older, may register as a domestic partnership with the state. Registered domestic partnerships are not marriages, and marriage is prohibited except between one man and one woman. This bill would expand the rights, responsibilities, and obligations of registered domestic partners and their families to include all rights, responsibilities, and obligations granted by or imposed by state law on married couples and their families.

      So you can sleep safe knowing that your God-given heterosexual marriage is still sacred, and no dirty fag can desecrate it by calling the buggery with his so-called partner "marriage". ~

      Me? I wish such laws (equating marriage and domestic partnership in rights) would've been in place earlier. I'm a heterosexual, but I would then still choose partnership just to rub it in the face of people like you.

    90. Re:Turn the tables by ThosLives · · Score: 1

      You see ... is in the part of the Bible (the old testament) that Jesus repealed

      Oddly enough, there's a statement from Jesus in the New Testament that explicitly states he didn't repeal anything from the Law (Old Testament). Something about jots and tittles if you care to look it up.

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    91. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Laws preventing marriage between close relatives is to prevent the deterioration of the genepool. Sure, you could make laws where brothers and sisters could get married but had to swear off getting kids, but it seems a little complex. At least there is a legitimate reason today for banning marriage between blood relatives beyond "it's icky and I don't like it", unlike the banning of marriage between gay couples.

    92. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      Marriage is a religious ceremony, not a state sanctioned union.

      Unfortunately the legal system would beg to differ (as would countless married atheists). Marriage is very much a state sanctioned union, and many, many people who get married never set foot into a religious venue or go through any religious ceremony.

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    93. Re:Turn the tables by Dare+nMc · · Score: 1

      as far as I can tell marriage has always been more about government, long before religion got involved (obviously not in the US, but more a derived thing from the British history.) Governments all started more about how can the powerful control the masses, and when that becomes problematic religion takes over and tries to do the same. It is natural to try and control sex, and become the defacto "granters of permission" to demonstrate power/compassion/giving. So when it becomes obvious that religion and government have the same goals (a content controlled masses, following a consistent set of rules) naturally they are both going to go about doing this in similar manners.

    94. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit.

      It’s all about religion. And control.

      Religion forbids homosexuality because it robs them of fresh kids to indoctrinate and to swamp the other tribes with.

      Actually, religion forbids gay marriage because of property rights. For most of recorded history a woman who was not owned was free to be used by any male that could claim ownership of her. Usually this went: Father->Husband, but other scenarios did exist, and if they resulted in the birth of a child, that child has no rights if the woman's owner didn't acknowledge the birth.

      Once a woman married and gave birth to a son, the property of the father was able to be passed down to the son. Since a guy cannot give birth, and since a woman needed the physical presence of a man to become pregnant for most of history, gay marriage wasn't even a concept worth contemplating in the ancient world.

    95. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1

      You said something somebody didn't have couldn't be taken away, no antecedent explicitly stated. In the context of natural rights, that's debatable, in the context of legal rihgts, it's a mistake or a lie.

      Even in the context of "legal rihgts(sic)", a good argument can be made. In California, for instance, it was the courts who decided this right, which never existed before was somehow always there -- and the numerous efforts by the people of California to prevent it/stop it were each ignored by the courts. It finally took the people of California to change their constitution to prevent the courts from stretching reason to find this "new" right where it never existed.

      And rather than address my points, you address my manner.

      Your manner WAS your point. You had no other point other than to make a personal attack. You all but say this yourself:

      I know and consciously choose when to lower myself to an ad hominem level and accept all responsibility for it

      So, I did address your point.

    96. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Still has some "what ifs" though:

      What if a dude wanted to marry his brother? No gene pool issues there.

      What if he wanted to marry his sister and one or the other were known to be infertile?

      Or more realistically, what about marrying one's cousin? Some states do allow this, and some don't. Birth defect rates from such unions are barely above that of two strangers pairing, and most of the reasons for disallowing it is simple cultural stigma.

      Seriously, in all the above cases there was to be a better reason given than "Ew, gross.", because that's pretty much the reason being given by the homephobic population against gay marriage.

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    97. Re:Turn the tables by superdave80 · · Score: 1

      No one is "taking away the ability to marry". Gays want a new definition of marriage.

      As much as the gay rights groups would like to think that they are treated differently than others when it comes to marriage, they are not. They scream "Straight people can marry whoever they want, and I can't!", and that is just not true. A straight man and a gay man have the exact same restrictions on who they can marry.

      Note: I have no problem with same sex marriage, but I hate ignorant arguments in favor of it.

    98. Re:Turn the tables by ppanon · · Score: 1

      You said something somebody didn't have couldn't be taken away, no antecedent explicitly stated. In the context of natural rights, that's debatable, in the context of legal rihgts, it's a mistake or a lie.

      Indeed. A specific instance of that general case would be saying that someone born in slavery to slave parents can't have their freedom taken away because they were never free to begin with. Most citizens of developed nations would vehemently disagree with that latter statement, which means that they disagree with the general form as well.

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    99. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      When barren couple discover they are barren, they have already married. It's too late to deny them marriage. Pre marriage mandatory testing would be too expensive. It's cheaper to let them marry even though there is no benefit for the society (production of offsprings).

    100. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If a white man and a white woman were denied their right to marry, there would be holy hell to pay.

      Um, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Late_Corporation_of_the_Church_of_Jesus_Christ_of_Latter-Day_Saints_v._United_States

    101. Re:Turn the tables by acohen1 · · Score: 1

      The attitude of religious institutions against gay marriage you express directly from the horses mouth: http://blog.beliefnet.com/kingdomofpriests/2009/06/how-women-will-be-hurt-by-gay-marriage.html

    102. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That's a nice story, but unfortunately, it IS a civil process. It doesn't matter what it was 2000 years ago, 500 years ago, or 5 years ago. It doesn't matter who 'invented' the word "married", or what it meant to Jesus, the planters peanut guy, or whoever.

      What is relevant is what it is right now. As far as the 'church' is concerned, it's just a word. Legally it is a whole other issue which has nothing to do with the Church.

    103. Re:Turn the tables by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      ?

      So you are saying that there was marriage >6000 years ago as a legal status?

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    104. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1

      Indeed. A specific instance of that general case would be saying that someone born in slavery to slave parents can't have their freedom taken away because they were never free to begin with. Most citizens of developed nations would vehemently disagree with that latter statement, which means that they disagree with the general form as well.

      Freedom is a Natural Right. It exists independent of law or politics. That one can be "legally" enslaved does not mean they have not nor never had rights to freedom.

      Your analogy is poor and displays a lack of understand of what "rights" are.

    105. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      Marriage produces benefit for society whether or not there are offspring. Married couples are more stable. Singles are more likely to take unnecessary risks and act in selfish ways that harm society. Married couples make better foster or adoptive families.

      Many individuals know they are barren before they marry. People do get vasectomies before marriage, you know. Are you proposing we outlaw marriage for people who already know they are barren?

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    106. Re:Turn the tables by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but you see, it's not a 'story' it's 'HIstory'. It is the reality of human social development. Marriage is a civil process now because it was hijacked from individuals, families, and communities. The church did it first, then the state, that doesn't make it right. If the injustices regarding gay marriage are to be fixed, so should the whole system.

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    107. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because marriage is a civil union.

      Only because government made it so. I personally don't see even one advantage -- yet I do see many disadvantages -- to allowing government to define and control the concept of marriage.

      But on issues such as this, where you have group A and group B fighting and hating each other over a law -- when the real answer (that nobody wants to consider) is that the law shouldn't exist in the first place -- it gives me a strange bit of satisfaction to see them fight and hate. After all, if you think government is the solution here rather than the problem, then you deserve all the fighting and hatred which you are helping to propagate.

    108. Re:Turn the tables by Mister+Whirly · · Score: 1

      So impotent people, people who have had their uterus/prostate removed, people who have had vasectomies, people on birth control, people who have no interest in having kids - these are all people who should be denied the ability to marry according to your logic. Why do you connect marriage and procreation in your mind? And how do you think "procreation within the structure of marriage is a right"? They have nothing to do with each other. Unmarried people can still procreate, and some married people do not procreate. This is just a very thin justification you have come up with in your own head (possibly to self-deny homophobic feelings).

      Cue the denial.

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    109. Re:Turn the tables by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      I never stated that any religion forces another to do anything. You may not have noticed, but all three religions you named have problems with gay marriage. In the Muslim religion you are stoned to death for "unnatural acts" with other men. In Judaism it is generally frowned upon. As well as the vast majority of organized Christian religions.

      The main problem I have is that the state has been trying to force their own views onto religion. The Democrats have started threatening churches with the loss of their tax exempt status for speaking out against immoral laws because they are major democratic platform points.

      I don't wish this to be a Christian state, I believe firmly in the state staying out of religion, but unfortunately the state can't seem to do that.

      BTW, nowhere in my post did I state that I was christian, the old testament is shared by Judaism, Christianity and Muslims, not just the Christians.

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    110. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So you want government to test every newly formed heterosexual couple to discover whether they are sterile or not before granting them a marriage license ?

    111. Re:Turn the tables by Lord+Kano · · Score: 1

      Since the dawn of time, the family, consisting of a husband, wife, and their children, has been the fundamental unit of society.

      That's not entirely accurate. For a large portion of time, a family consisted of a husband, wives and children.

      Society has a right to determine what relationships it will recognize. The way things stand now, society says that it will not recognize same-sex unions.

      People who disagree with that are free to speak against it, just as people who support the status quo are free to speak in favor of it. Keep the dialog going, allow society to evaluate both points of view and make an informed decision. You do our side a disservice by spouting information that's easily disproved.

      LK

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    112. Re:Turn the tables by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      it was the courts who decided this right, which never existed before was somehow always there

      So, in your mind then, Loving v. Virginia was judicial activism, and bans on inter-racial marriage are ok?

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    113. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      Incest is probably instinctively gross in all its forms because societies/tribes/species that are lax about it have unhealthy gene pools and get selected against. However, there's no evolutionary reason against homosexuality; some even say there's one for it, as it helps relationships outside of mating. It's definitely not instinctively gross as pretty much only Abrahamic religions find it offensive.

    114. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 4, Insightful

      No one has hijacked anything. You can get married tomorrow, and never notify the government. You don't even have to involve them. Of course if you did so you wouldn't get any LEGAL benefits, which is where this is being argued. This has nothing to do with religion.

      Same goes for getting a marriage license from the state. You don't have to involve the church either. The two are totally separate and should remain so.

    115. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      Okay, that makes more sense :) I think marriages create stability for society, whether or not procreation is involved. In your opinion, what are the social benefits of marriage?

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    116. Re:Turn the tables by Mister+Whirly · · Score: 1

      Wait, you actually believe the Earth is more than 6000 years old? Religious Fail. You have angered your gods.

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    117. Re:Turn the tables by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      I honestly believe that most of the bible is stories that were told to make a point.

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    118. Re:Turn the tables by http · · Score: 1

      This is in NYS, which has NYC and Rochester, plus Toronto not far away. I can only imagine what it's like in Washington.

      Toronto? TORONTO? Different nation, different legal system, different society. Do you see us Canucks trying to relate Buffalo to Hamilton?

      Sheesh, I hate to generalize (and this isn't meant to pick on you in particular), but this may be why Americans have such crappy foreign affairs - they don't even know what's foreign.

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    119. Re:Turn the tables by alexo · · Score: 1

      Thereâ(TM)s even a considerable backlash (as there should be), when an interracial couple is prevented from marrying, as was recently the case in Louisiana

      From reading your link, I understand that they were not "prevented" from marrying, just referred to a different JP.

    120. Re:Turn the tables by drsmithy · · Score: 1

      I think marriages create stability for society, whether or not procreation is involved. In your opinion, what are the social benefits of marriage?

      Overall, it creates a 'stronger' community. On a more individual scale, married couples generally live longer, make more money and and have higher employment rates. Additionally children brough up by married couples tend to have better health, better school results and fewer problems with the law.

    121. Re:Turn the tables by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      You know, I think I understand you now. In America, back in the pre-Civil War era South, blacks didn't have rights either. I see how you would say "It isn't about taking away their rights, it's about creating 'new' rights for them". Citizens ALWAYS had rights, after all, that was the definition of a citizen, someone with rights. Those blacks however, they were slaves. We shouldn't be trying to 'change' the definition of citizen to fit those filth, right?

      So, how is the weather down in Hell today? I hear Satan's a bit bitchy this morning.

    122. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is complicated. You take something that was always a religious institution and give it legal benefits. Then you take away the religious authority and you're left with a legal institution that was born of a religious one, but no longer requires religious approval. People are going to be angry and offended no matter how this shakes out.

    123. Re:Turn the tables by melikamp · · Score: 1

      Are you proposing we outlaw marriage for people who already know they are barren?

      They should not receive any economic help. They are already better off than singles because they pull resources together. A single parent is far more qualified for tax cuts and such.

    124. Re:Turn the tables by chrb · · Score: 1

      Well, if incestuous pregnancies are the problem, then that is what should be illegal. Otherwise, what you're suggesting is that marriage between brothers and sisters should be illegal, but the fact remains that it is possible to have children outside of marriage. From the perspective of allowing or disallowing reproduction, what difference does outlawing marriage make?

    125. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Try to get married five times and the church wouldn't know you had

      Then why is the church involved at all? (And what church are you referring to?) I know the Catholic Church and the LDS Church both keep their own records (independent of legal marriage records) to avoid that exact situation.

      That is what makes these "defense of marriage" acts so wrong. There is no provable harm in these civil unions

      That's the misunderstanding - most religious people who oppose gay marriage do not oppose gay civil unions. Most people who are in favor of gay marriage would really be satisfied by allowing gay civil unions.

      This whole stupid debate is nothing more than a gargantuan terminology mismatch. Most religious people couldn't care less if gays can get civil unions (I know I don't), it's just the word "marriage" that they don't think should be applied to such unions. (A gay civil union may resemble a marriage in certain ways, but it isn't a marriage, if you go by the historic definition of "marriage" as it applies to people.) Religious people (and here I'm referring mostly to Christians) put a certain importance behind marriage that is incompatible with homosexuality, and as such they don't want the word to be applied to homosexual couples, but they're not opposed to gay civil unions.

      Gay marriage supporters, on the other hand, don't bother understanding that (and when I've tried to explain it, most can't even grasp the difference), so they just assume that their opposition wants to take away rights (which, again, is generally not the case). (Many anti-gay-marriage people have difficulty understanding the true source of the argument, too, I'm not trying to blame gay marriage supporters exclusively.)

      That's all it is, and I wish people would understand that.

    126. Re:Turn the tables by Mister+Whirly · · Score: 1

      Sure, and was relevant at a time when people though the earth was flat, didn't have refrigeration, didn't know what causes disease, didn't know what the sun, moon, or stars were, etc. and worked well as a simple guide with the limited knowledge humans had at the time. But we don't live in those times anymore, and have access to a whole lot of new information.

      Do you know what they call a species who fails to utilize and adapt to new information it is given? Extinct.

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    127. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1

      Snarkalert:

      So, in your mind then, putting words in people's mouths (straw man) isn't a logically fallacy? /EndSnarkAlert.

      Shall we start with the basics?

      How is race like homosexuality?

    128. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      This entire issue is one of mostly semantics.

      I think I'm going to start crying, I'm so happy. You're the first person I've seen who realizes this.

      (I just replied here saying much the same thing.)

    129. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      Can you show me where the Church owns the word "Marriage"?

    130. Re:Turn the tables by ScottForbes · · Score: 1

      I don't know how it works in Seattle, but here in Los Angeles that whole sob story about not being able to visit your partner in the hospital is a load of bollocks and sensationalism.

      You're right. You don't know how it works in Seattle.

    131. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1

      So... you also don't know the difference between legal rights and natural rights?

      Freedom is a NATURAL right. It exists independent of law or politics -- regardless if someone is "legally" enslaved.

      But, if it suits you to call me "evil" and create this fake image of me in favor of slavery, which you do with your "hell" "civil war" comments, fine. Your answer is to attack the person, not the argument. Got it.

      It's a shame. You started out rational, too.

    132. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You say, 'you can't marry your sister,' but you don't state why you can't, or how the case of sibling incest is similar to homosexuality.

      He didn't have to say why you can't marry your sister. He wasn't arguing for or against, the best I can tell. He was stating a fact. You are not allowed to marry your sister. This is pretty straightforward.

      His odd point about bestiality and homosexuality is only relevant in that they both represent couplings that nature didn't intend. Despite what the fundies say, I don't believe homosexuality is a "conscious decision to sin". I think it's merely a genetic aberration. Despite the fact that now it's pretty well accepted as "normal", why else would someone choose a life like that for themselves? Particularly not-so-long-ago when being gay was a far greater detriment to ones everyday life.

      Personally I can't judge someone based on their genetic makeup any more than I can judge someone for their skin color. I prefer to avoid the "its in my genes" slippery slope whenever possible, but being gay is hardly the same as being a violent psychopath.

    133. Re:Turn the tables by chrb · · Score: 1

      There have been tribal societies where man and wife were considered equals and economically independent. There have also been societies where wife swapping was normal. And societies where one man would have either many wives, or a wife and many girlfriends (remember the old Chinese proverb "A teapot can serve five teacups, but who has ever seen one teacup serving five teapots?"). Many still exist today. The idea of one man and his property (which includes his wife) is not the way things always were for all people.

    134. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If Marriage is seen as a religious act why don't we separate it form our government? Just change the word "Marriage" to "civil union" in all laws and public documents, and leave the use of the M-word to the churches. Let them argue about who can rightfully use the label while no one is discriminated against for their religious beliefs and everyone has the same rights.

    135. Re:Turn the tables by jayme0227 · · Score: 1

      You're absolutely right. They weren't even prevented, but there are still many, many people in an uproar that their rights were infringed upon. There is a reason anti-miscegenation were deemed unconstitutional.

      The point stands: those in government do not have the right to tell others who they may or may not marry, regardless of race or sexual orientation.

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    136. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Your post is a perfect example of the problem with this whole debate:

      Each side is using different terminology.

      People who oppose gay marriage are really only opposing the use of the word "marriage" to describe homosexual relationships; most of us do not oppose gay civil unions. (Unfortunately, most of us are incapable of expressing this without coming across as homosexual haters.)

      People who support gay marriage take what they see as hate for homosexuals and assume we're trying to take away rights, which simply isn't the case. They hear "no gay marriage" (which is an inaccurate statement at best) and assume we're saying "no gay legal relationships", which is not the goal at all. Most of these people would be fully satisfied with gay civil unions.

      Both sides are guilty of hearing the other side's terminology and misunderstanding it.

      Understanding what I just wrote makes your entire post moot, because it removes the source of the misunderstanding - and your post is based entirely on that misunderstanding.

    137. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1

      That's not splitting hairs, that's being stupid and completely missing the point of the entire debate.

      Missing the point of the entire debate is to attempt to equate or confuse marriage (a legal/religious institution) with natural rights (such as freedom and liberty). They are, and should be different.

      To attempt to redefine what "marriage" means reeks of Orwellian think-speak.

    138. Re:Turn the tables by virg_mattes · · Score: 1

      The point is marriage is not a right, it's a license.

      The same logic applies to voting. You miss.

      > The limited purpose of marriage is procreation (although it is not a requirement).

      Fail again. The historical reason for marriage was establishment of lineage and property rights. It had nothing to do with having kids, it had to do with how the laws affected those kids.

      Gays cannot procreate.

      Why not? It's true that a gay couple can't procreate with each other, but there's nothing about being gay that makes a person sterile.

      We also limit marriage so you can't marry mulitple spouses, the same gender, immediate family, animals or objects.

      There are plenty of cultures that practice polygamy. The restriction against homosexual marriage is religious in nature (and parallels the fight against interracial marriage pretty closely, which was also disputed on Biblical grounds). The restrictions against incest are based on medical issues, and the legal construct of marriage makes no sense if one of the participants isn't a consenting adult so mentioning animals and objects is a straw man. All fails in this discussion.

      Since the dawn of time, the family, consisting of a husband, wife, and their children, has been the fundamental unit of society.

      Fail. As above, there are plenty of cultures that don't follow the Christian ideal of the nuclear family. Also, the most fundamental family unit until relatively recently has been the clan.

      Now, gays want to legitimize their recreational lifestyle by demanding marriage.

      Convenient wording, but one could easily phrase heterosexual marriage as a lifestyle as well. There are legal reasons to want to marry another person, and the gender of those people should not figure into that legal construction any more than the race, class or religion of those people.

      You can do whatever you want in the privacy of your bedroom, but we are not going to alter the whole structure of our civilization for your sexual preference.

      Speak for yourself. Equality doesn't discriminate.

      Virg

    139. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      When have Democrats threatened Churches? What 'immoral laws' are you referring to? Maybe you should look at the IRS current guidelines for lobbying by any 501(c)3 tax exempt entity. You simply can not be tax exempt and lobby to change legislation. It has been that way for over fifty years.

      Separation of church and state works both ways. You keep your church out of my state, I'll keep my state out of your church.

      Marriage is both a religious ceremony among a number of different religions, and a civil contract. Gays do not want to change the ceremony part, they do not wish to force churches that hate them to perform marriage ceremonies for them. There are plenty of loving, tolerant churches out there that will marry gays, they don't need to invade your cesspool of hatred.

      You obviously DO want this to be a nation of religious law. You want to impose your religion's morality on everyone else. You write as if your religion were the only legitimate one, let me quote you,

      "Because marriage is a religious ceremony. If you were "married" before a judge, you had a civil union, stop trying to hijack a ceremony if you don't believe in the religion and there won't be problems with it."

      THE religion? There is only ONE religion that performs marriages?

      I have a marriage certificate, not a civil union certificate, and I was not married by a church. You don't get to claim the institution of marriage for your religion exclusively. Seeing as how there ARE religions that perform gay marriage ceremonies, you can not protest on religious grounds unless you claim your religion is the only true religion and all others should be banned.

      You don't want that, right? So you can't deny gays on religious grounds. Simply saying, 'most religions don't allow it' is no justification, if even one completely made up religion allows it, then you have no grounds, as we have separation of church and state here in the land of the free.

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    140. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Marriage is between a man and woman.... anything else can NEVER be called marriage... Period...

      And trolls should ONLY be large lumbering creatures descended from a corruption of elves, or situated under bridges waiting for hapless goats to attempt to cross. Yet, we still give you such a title when you only deserve to be treated like a forgotten, unidentified lump of organic matter, so hey, them's the breaks.

    141. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      There is no practical difference between "marriage" and "civil union".

      True - and yet that's exactly the source of the debate.

      People who oppose gay marriage merely oppose the use of the word "marriage" to describe homosexual relationships. (At least, this is the case if they have bothered to actually think about why they have the opinion they do.)

      People who support gay marriage hear that and assume we mean "no gay legal relationships", which is not the case at all.

      Both sides suck at actually articulating what they mean, and if we could get past that, both sides would be fully satisfied with gay civil unions.

    142. Re:Turn the tables by Glothar · · Score: 3, Insightful

      ...and they'll still have problems in states like Virginia which decided to pass laws which refuse to honor such contracts when they are between two homosexuals.

      If you're saying to yourself: "Wait. How can they do that? Doesn't the constitution prevent them from picking and choosing which contracts they honor?"

      Welcome to Virginia, where a delusional sense of historical importance mixes with long-standing bigotry to create a state where many* people think they should be above the Constitution.

      Virgina: Its for (heterosexual) lovers.

      [*] Note: I am from Northern (aka "Fake") Virginia, where diversity is tolerated and even celebrated. Sadly, we're only about 45% of the state at the moment. Give us another decade so we can try to fix some of our social problems.

    143. Re:Turn the tables by nametaken · · Score: 1

      Seems that's what's going on here. You want to, some people don't. I guess that's the point of petitions and votes. We'll see what happens.

      The point at hand though is whether you must submit to having your personal info cataloged and made available for public derision for signing a petition. It seems that's half the point of a petition though, right?

      One way to put it is that you'd deserve it and should own your beliefs. The other way to put it is that it's a gross violation of your personal privacy and/or an end-run to prevent a safe and private vote.

      Working the crazy-PC angle, we should also consider that, were the roles here reversed, this would be a non-issue. It'd be a privacy violation and potentially inciting hate-crimes.

    144. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      What ever happened to moderating based on the quality of argument rather than weather you agree with it?

      That takes effort ;)

    145. Re:Turn the tables by andymadigan · · Score: 1

      I know very well that Toronto is in a different country. I live in Rochester, I go there all the time. My point was, in terms of gay rights, it's an area you would expect to be pretty liberal. BTW, Toronto is closer to Rochester than NYC. Toronto is about as far from Montreal as Rochester is from NYC in terms of driving time. Culturally, Rochester has more in common with Toronto than NYC too.

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    146. Re:Turn the tables by Glothar · · Score: 1

      That's already the case.

      No clergy can be compelled to sanction any marriage. Catholic priests do it all the time, and for reasons less serious than homosexuality (pre-marital sex, un-baptised partner, "immoral" past, unwilling to promise to raise the children as catholics).

    147. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sure you're right, but realized that you're talking about CALIFORNIA. Probably the most gay-friendly state in the union.

      Perhaps you missed the news about Proposition 8.

    148. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 3, Insightful

      So, you are proposing a second class of marriage for barren citizens, with no economic incentives like tax breaks. That would be fine, if children were the only societal benefit of marriage. To quote drsmithy from this very thread: "Overall, marriage creates a 'stronger' community. On a more individual scale, married couples generally live longer, make more money and and have higher employment rates. Additionally children brought up by married couples tend to have better health, better school results and fewer problems with the law."

      There are other positive externalities of marriage besides children. If nothing else, married couples both gay and straight can provide a better, more stable family for adopted children. But married couples also tend to be better for the community in general, more productive, more stable, contributing more wealth.

      Still, if you would be willing to take a consistent stance and advocate for banning marriage benefits to barren couples, I can accept that. mostly because, if you take that stance, your entire argument will be disregarded by right minded people. So, you can either be a hypocrite, or you can be ignored as a loon. Your choice.

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    149. Re:Turn the tables by Cederic · · Score: 1

      Yes, but only if you are willing to embed in the same law that Clergy from any religion are not permitted to sanction heterosexual union either.

      Homophobic religions are still homophobic.

    150. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Who said anything about ownership?

      In fact I specifically mentioned the "historic definition of the word marriage". I said nothing about a particular church's ownership of a word.

      But you're falling into the very same trap I was describing - you're trying to take the terminology and create an argument out of it, rather than getting past the terminology difference and getting to what people actually want.

      If you want to make any progress at all (regardless of what side of the issue you support), you're going to need to understand the other side's point of view - and arguing about terminology is not going to be helpful.

    151. Re:Turn the tables by nametaken · · Score: 1

      I have no real opinion on any of this, but I've spent too much time in church.

      As such I can say the sanctity of marriage is frequently mentioned, and rarely surrounding gay marriage. It's just that that's an old, old problem that they deal with using your usual sermons. The gay marriage thing is new, and makes headlines.

      Especially when the minority nutbags come out to yell in public.

    152. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      I actually think that would work, but I doubt the religious groups would want to 'give it up' as they feel they 'own' the word marriage.

    153. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1

      Why does a man marrying a woman get a tax break ?

      Why do we give tax breaks to home owners who put in solar panals? Or penalize via taxes smokers?

      Taxes are both a carrot and stick for social behavior modification. It's a different topic.

      Why does a heterosexual couple get rights of visitation in jails, hospitals etc. but not homosexuals ?
      If you are suggesting that this is wrong, I agree. What does that have to do with the topic?

      This is one of the reasons that restricting the word "marry" to heterosexuals is problematic.

      Now you've lost me. It's not limited to heterosexuals. It's limited to man and woman. It becomes problematic when you try to redefine marriage to be a "natural right" like freedom and liberty.

    154. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why would ElectricTurtle imply you were stupid and illogical? You do a much more convincing job than he ever could.

    155. Re:Turn the tables by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Except no one is trying to force gay marriage on religions. Churches currently have the right to refuse to perform a marriage if they don't believe the two participants will live a lifestyle consistent with that church's beliefs, and they continue to have that right where gay marriage is legal. What a church does not have the right to do is actually perform a gay marriage if they so wish. And yes, there are several Christian churches that are perfectly fine with performing a gay marriage.

    156. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If that stupidity wasn't enough, the next guy to use the symantic asshattery of 'gay people can heterosexually marry anybody they want' gets punched right in the mean bean machine.

      And this is why I, as a Libertarian Democrat, have a concealed carry permit. Assholes like you from both sides of the aisle are far too willing to resort to violence when things don't go your way. Grow the fuck up.

      And for some of you on here who think the left is immune to committing violence, you should check out the mobs of bicyclists around Seattle who are all too willing to put a brick through your window as they illegally cut you off, or ELF/ALF assbags who engage in arson and the spiking of trees. Let's not forget the PETA folks who love to hang around spray painting folks wearing fur or leather.

      As I've said, I'm to the left politically.. but: when it comes to mobs, go confront the Minutemen on the southern border. They'll tell you what they're about and not deny it, even if it's a solitaire member. Corner up a leftie: in my experience liberals are more cowardly about 'fessing up to who they are and what they're about unless they're in a group.

      On topic: the libertarian in me wants the government to have nothing to do with marriage, but pragmatically, gays should have the same rights. The mass majority of arguments against gay marriage have their roots in religion, which has no business involving itself in the law of the land. Full stop.

    157. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      No, most of you DO oppose civil unions. You just want to sound tolerant and enlightened, so you claim that would be okay, until it comes up in the polls, and then most of you vote against it. There is no misunderstanding.

      You obviously don't want to ban marriage ceremonies by other religions, right? So, if there were a religion that wanted to perform gay marriages, you wouldn't want to restrict that religion, right? I mean, if we went around restricting one religion, what's to stop us from restricting yours?

      And there are religions that will perform gay marriages, and call them marriages.

      Nobody wants to force your church to perform gay marriages. If your church is not tolerant of homosexuality, why would any gays want to invade that nest of bigots? They wouldn't, any more than Muslims would want to force you to perform Muslim marriages.

      You are being disingenuous, and hypocritical. You want to espouse your bigotry without being called a bigot. You want 'separate but equal,' which we all know is not equal at all. You want to impose your religious intolerance onto other religions, and claim the institution of marriage for your religion exclusively.

      Understanding what I just wrote makes your post moot, because you are a bigot who wants to impose your religious values onto other religions besides your own and wants to dictate what ceremonies other religions are allowed to perform.

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    158. Re:Turn the tables by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      THE religion was meant to specify the religion specifically being talked about, not that there is only one religion. I have said in another post just a little lower that I have no problem with gay marriage, and I really don't. I have a problem with calling it marriage as that is the name of a religious ceremony:

      http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/marriage

      Definition #2 for your edification.

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    159. Re:Turn the tables by omega_dk · · Score: 1

      I don't see any problem with posting the names of people who signed a petition to legalize gay marriage, and don't see it as a privacy violation as it is entirely opt-in.

      I also don't see how it would be a non-issue if roles were reversed - no one is forcing anyone to sign a petition. Signing a petition is an inherently public act - a petition starts, 'We, the undersigned," and as such the undersigned should have an expectation that their name will be viewed on the list. Sometimes, that viewing will have consequences.

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    160. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      All this time, I thought Marriage was stimulus for Divorce Attorneys.

    161. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      Right. A religious ceremony. A ceremony, performed in any number of different ways, by any number of religions. Some religions, including many sects of Christianity, perform gay marriages, and call them marriages. So, unless you want to restrict freedom of religion, you need to STOP trying to say what ceremonies other religions besides your own can and can not perform.

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    162. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Agreed,
      I've been telling friends for years that the government should get out of the marriage business. If you get "joined" by a judge you can call it a civil union. You get "joined" by religious organization you can call it a marriage. I think it would settle things for most people.

    163. Re:Turn the tables by IICV · · Score: 1

      If you were railing against divorce and philandering in defense of the sanctity of marriage, I would have a much easier time listening to your anti-gay rhetoric, but since the only time the "sanctity" of marriage comes up is with regards to homosexuality, I have a hard time respecting that argument. (Here's looking at you, Rush, the three time divorcee, for single handedly making this argument for me.)

      I have to point to this protester: http://scienceblogs.com/dispatches/2009/10/badass_sign_of_the_day.php

    164. Re:Turn the tables by CorporateSuit · · Score: 1

      "Consenting Adult" in some countries is a 14 year old. In some Mexican cities, it's 12. If you want to draw a line in the sand with your "consenting adults", you'll soon see that where you are will quickly become "bigotry and close-minded" and a progressive movement will move to alter the definition of the line you've drawn.

      Besides, the fact that you say "consenting adults" is biggoted, unfair, and close-minded to those who practice beastiality and statutory rape. They are people too, are they not? Who are you to say they can't show their love like you can?

      Face it, when you call someone else a monster, someone behind you is calling you a monster. the only difference is that the person who YOU are accusing is not trying to take some "open-minded" highground.

      Instead of arguing for the right to call a homosexual union a "marriage", the gay rights movement should be arguing for equal treatment of those unions to allow jail visits, hospital visits, burial rites, etc. The Women's Suffrage movement didn't fight so the word "male" would also mean "female". Picking your battles is 90% of the recipe for any political success.

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    165. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      No, what I'm saying is that the church has no legal ownership of the word Marriage. it should have no problem if Gays want to call their union a marriage.

      You stated: "most religious people who oppose gay marriage do not oppose gay civil unions". You're implying that somehow these organized religions somehow own the word marriage and can dictate who can and cannot use it.

      These people just want to be married. They could care less what the church thinks of it. They are looking for the LEGAL benefits of marriage, which only the government can give. The church is irrelevant in the equation as is the word used to describe it. The whole argument that they are fine with 'civil unions' as opposed to 'marriage' is ridiculous as no one owns the word.

      That argument reeks of 'back of the bus' for obvious reasons: "You can have 'marriage lite' and like it."

    166. Re:Turn the tables by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      The line that most people think repeals the law is when Jesus says, "I have not come to abolish the law, but to fulfill it." (Matthew 5:17). However, in the early days of the Catholic Church, the question came up as to who could become Catholic. Specifically, if someone wanted to join the Church, was it necessary for them to be Jewish first, and observe all the things that came with it, like being circumcised and observing Jewish dietary restrictions. Since it was decided that no, one doesn't have to be Jewish before being Christian, many of the things in the Torah were no longer observed. One could argue this would include the ban on homosexuality (which really stems from the commandment Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery).

    167. Re:Turn the tables by acoustix · · Score: 0, Troll

      Good call....because...you know....disease isn't rampant throughout the gay population. *cough*AIDS*cough*

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    168. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That still does not give people the right to grafity your car, post defaming signs in front of your house, or campaign to have you fired from your job. Personal attacks against people who disagree with you are always inappropriate... to answer your question, no I would not sit idly by as people are trying to force on me their views on marriage... I will lobby, I will campaign and I will see to have laws passed to protect my rights... but I also refuse to stoop to the level of personal attacks against people who disagree with me.

    169. Re:Turn the tables by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      You have just managed to agree with me. My whole point is that the state doesn't belong telling any religion what it can or can't do.

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    170. Re:Turn the tables by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      According to that law, you'd have to wait til you're 62. Either that or marry someone's grandparent.

    171. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      Actually you'll find that in many parts of the world (and particularly farther back in time) incest is very, very common. Brother/sister pairings to a lesser extent, but pairings between cousins for example are viewed as completely normal in many parts of the world. Even amongst western society it wasn't really looked down on until relatively recently (Charles Darwin married his cousin for example, as did Albert Einstein). Amongst Egyptians even brother/sister pairings tended to be common. The "gross" factor isn't as instinctive as you might think.

      I think you're falling into the same trap though. You're effectively doing what I said - "Ew, gross.", and then grasping for some logic to validate your view. Most homophobes do the same.

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    172. Re:Turn the tables by melikamp · · Score: 1

      You are making a good point, I'll think about it.

    173. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "There is no provable harm in these civil unions, and...."

      See, that's what I'm not sure about (from both sides of the issue, actually). Plausible arguments exist for why there could be harm; whether they are indeed true is a separate question.

      I've never heard anyone who is "pro" refer to a reputable study that says there is no harm, and I've never heard anyone who is "con" refer to a study that says there is harm.

      From a science point of view, define what can be considered measurable outcomes, let a handful of states allow it, others disallow it and run the experiment. Analyze the results and decide accordingly.

      From an engineering point of view, the burden of proof is demanded from the "pro" side to prove its case. You don't muck around with something that is known to work, until you've thoroughly studied the problem and can be sure that the changes you want to make won't break anything. (And by proof, I mean there has to be agreement about how to design and implement a study, and how to interpret the results...not hand-waving arguments made merely to dismiss concerns.)

      From a political science point of view, pick the most polarized viewpoint, shout about it as loud as you can, and watch while the contributions roll in. The longer you appear to do something while making sure nothing gets done, the more money you get! Understandably, this seems to be the preferred approach on both sides.

    174. Re:Turn the tables by sbeckstead · · Score: 1

      Since the dawn of time we have run around stupping anything that held still long enough. But oddly enough we enacted laws against rape and bestiality. How do you feel about fruit?

    175. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      And you've just managed to agree with me that we can't ban gay marriage, and that civil unions aren't enough, because that would be telling religion what to do. Thanks for the pleasant conversation, glad we agree that we can not ban gay marriage, and that we must be free to call it marriage.

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    176. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      No, most of you DO oppose civil unions. You just want to sound tolerant and enlightened, so you claim that would be okay, until it comes up in the polls, and then most of you vote against it. There is no misunderstanding.

      Allow me to clarify; if a religious person who opposes gay marriage bothers to think about why he or she opposes gay marriage, then they will conclude that they do not oppose gay civil unions.

      If that is not the case, they are simply following someone else's lead. Call me hypocritical for other people's behavior if you want, but I personally don't oppose gay civil unions, and until you can show me exactly how that oppresses gays, then you're merely arguing about terminology.

      You obviously don't want to ban marriage ceremonies by other religions, right? So, if there were a religion that wanted to perform gay marriages, you wouldn't want to restrict that religion, right? I mean, if we went around restricting one religion, what's to stop us from restricting yours?

      I think the word "marriage" should mean what it means - a union between a man and a woman. No religion (or non-religion) should be able to change that.

      Your whole argument is like trying to get people to vote to change the definition of the word "boy" to include "girl". Sure, boys can act like girls in some circumstances, and vice versa, but they're not the same. You shouldn't complain when people don't want you to change their definitions of "boy" and "girl" to suit your whims.

      Nobody wants to force your church to perform gay marriages.

      No... but can you tell me people aren't going to start prosecuting churches who teach "homosexuality is morally wrong" for hate speech?

      Before you say "of course not", remember that legally people can be prosecuted for hate speech against blacks, or jews, or gays, if there's reason to believe it encourages action against that group.

      You want 'separate but equal,' which we all know is not equal at all.

      I have yet to see someone show me a legal right which can be obtained by a heterosexual married couple that cannot be obtained by a homosexual gay couple. If the rights are the same, then it is equal, by definition. If you know of any, please enlighten us.

      To reiterate my earlier example, you may as well complain that we make a legal distinction between "male" and "female" - after all, they have the same rights, so we're artificially creating a "separate but equal" situation, right?

      Of course not! We refer to them differently because they're fundamentally different.

      YOu want to [...] claim the institution of marriage for your religion exclusively.

      I don't think you understand the issue. I don't want to reserve marriage for one religion or other. I want to reserve marriage for heterosexual couples, regardless of religion (or lack thereof). Boys and girls are different, even though they have the same legal rights; I'm merely trying to preserve the semantic distinction between the two words. It's not bigoted to do so.

      because you are a bigot who wants to impose your religious values onto other religions besides your own and wants to dictate what ceremonies other religions are allowed to perform.

      Excuse me... which of us wants to impose a new definition of a word on the other? That's right... you want us to change an existing word to meet your new definition.

      This just goes to show - your entire argument is based on nothing more than terminology. That was my original point, and you're just proving it true.

    177. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree with most of your post but you misunderstand separation of Church and State since there really is not such thing. That is a shorthand way of stating the establishment clause which says that the Congress may not establish a religion. I'm sure case law prevents it by now but the Constitution says nothing about states or even County's establishing a church. It certainly says nothing about religion as the basis for laws.

    178. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 2, Insightful

      But there's a solid biological reason for why incest is a bad thing. Homosexuality being a danger to society or marriage or whatever is vague bullshit.

    179. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Why you rotten... wait, what? Where am I? Who replaced my regular Internet with something civil?

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    180. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't know if you were trying to offer Chinese society as one in which women have not been historically treated as property, but you may want to re-think that assumption.

    181. Re:Turn the tables by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      You're not putting it together. If I put together a contract that says, for instance, 'I will give X to Mr. Y in exchange for $Z' and sign it, that gives both me and Mr. X legal rights. There is no need for a 'license' and in court that contract will be enforced. In that instance the government has a (valid) role, but no initial, potentially preclusive decision-making power.

      Marriage should be the same way, a decision made between individuals that will be later honored in good faith when necessary by the government. Whereas currently unlicensed marriage is only recognized after an amorphous period of time as a 'common law' marriage.

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    182. Re:Turn the tables by sbeckstead · · Score: 1

      I'll go with attacking the person, it's simpler and requires less actual thinking. So were you volunteering to be harassed or assaulted, I'll wait for an answer.

    183. Re:Turn the tables by Ronald+Dumsfeld · · Score: 1

      Do you want to discuss the topic, or attack the person?

      As seen on Usenet...
      Ideas are beautiful and fragile things; attack people, not ideas.

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    184. Re:Turn the tables by gblfxt · · Score: 1

      also there is alot of crap the bible says that no one is enforcing...... religious zealots pick and choose which idiotic ramblings randomly to further their hateful political agendas depending on what day and age it is.

    185. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      it should have no problem if Gays want to call their union a marriage.

      Why do you keep bringing up churches? Forget churches for a moment.

      You're implying that somehow these organized religions somehow own the word marriage and can dictate who can and cannot use it.

      No; I'm implying that religious people merely want to preserve the existing definition of the word "marriage". Furthermore, the government already dictates who can and cannot use it (you have to obtain a government marriage license to be called "married").

      They are looking for the LEGAL benefits of marriage, which only the government can give.

      Exactly! They want the very same benefits they can obtain through a civil union. Why do they go further and insist that the definition of the word "marriage" be modified? They don't gain additional rights.

      The whole argument that they are fine with 'civil unions' as opposed to 'marriage' is ridiculous as no one owns the word.

      Nobody "owns" the word; yet gay-marriage supporters want to impose their definition on the rest of us. Why is it oppressive for a majority to want to preserve an existing definition, but it's not oppressive for a minority to use the legal system to force their definition on the majority, especially when no legal rights are gained by it?

      That argument reeks of 'back of the bus' for obvious reasons: "You can have 'marriage lite' and like it."

      Until you can show me a legal right that can be obtained via marriage but not civil union, then you're merely complaining about semantics. It's not "marriage lite" if the legal rights are identical.

      You may as well complain about the artificial "separate but equal" distinction we make between "male" and "female". Or taken further, you may as well complain that an adult male who surgically alters himself to appear female cannot legally call himself female - sure, he may appear female, but he's not, and it's not really important anyway since he still has exactly the same legal rights.

      Similarly, a homosexual couple may function much like a heterosexual couple, but they don't function identically, and as long as they have identical legal rights there's no reason to complain about a semantic difference.

    186. Re:Turn the tables by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1
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    187. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You almost have it right.

      Gay marriage is a perfect example of why there should be strict separation of church and state.

      Marriage is NOT a civil union. A civil union is something that offered by the state. It is simply a legal contract, nothing more, nothing less. A marriage is something that a church performs when it gives it's blessing to a civil union.

      If it were up to me everyone would get a civil union first, which is just filling out and signing a legal contract. Said legal contract should be able to have a one to one, or a one to many, or a many to many relationship as the signers see fit. If the signers of this civil union want their union to be blessed by a favorite church or Legion Hall, then the signers will need to conform to what the church stipulates. If you don't care about a church blessing your union, then to Hell with them and what they think.

    188. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      I understand separation of church and state very well. It is to protect you and your religious beliefs (or lack thereof) from the government. It is not to protect the government from you and your beliefs.

    189. Re:Turn the tables by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      Good thing I wasn't drinking coffee or I'd to clean out my keyboard. :-D

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    190. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      Look back at my original examples though:

      Homosexual incestuous pairings have no biological hiccups.
      Incestuous pairings where either party is infertile have no biological hiccups.
      Incestuous pairings between cousins have birth defect rates at such a tiny bit higher than normal pairings as to be statistically insignificant.

      Those were the what-if's I presented, and the "solid biological reason"s don't hold water in those cases. Indeed anything other than societal taboo you can cite against the above is simple "vague bullshit".

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    191. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Interestingly, some of the 1st marriages on file. (Egyptian pharaohs) Married their sisters and children! It started to ensure protection of property status and wealth. Not that you wanted to bone them exclusively, or make babies.

    192. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Your not disagreeing with me, so I'm not sure what your angle is here. Your piece about "will be later honored in good faith when necessary by the government" is key. Religious groups would deny this LEGAL recognition for no other reason than the fact that it conflicts with their FAITH.

      When you involve the government, as this issue MUST as it involves legal benefits, then religion should not play a role.

      It sounds like your trying to say the government "shouldn't" be involved without acknowledging the fact that the very basis of these legal challenges is to grant legal benefits to this group of people. There is no way that the government cannot be involved as it is the very basis for these legal challenges.

    193. Re:Turn the tables by Thalaric · · Score: 1

      Looks like I knew exactly how it works in seattle. After reading your legal brief (finally that business law class paid off), the Judge's conclusion shows clearly that she had the domestic partnership right to be in the room, the nurse just dismissed her anyway opening the center up to a lawsuit.

      Here, the issue is whether Hulley's decision to exclude Reed was part of her efforts to treat and care for Ritchie or whether the exclusion was motivated by something other than her medical judgment. If the exclusion was to address Ritchie's medical needs, then Reed's injuries occurred as a result of health care and her common law tort claims are precluded by RCW 7.70.010 and .030. If the exclusion was not based on Ritchie's medical needs, then Reed's common law tort claims remain viable.

    194. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      They are not asking for 'marriage' to be redefined. In it's current definition, it is a legal or binding contact (meaning recognized by law). The church injected this 'man and woman' bit with these defense of marriage acts.

      I don't have to show you anything. There are 40+ states that demonstrate that fact rather plainly where these folks can't even have a civil union as they are treated like second class citizens.

      You're willing to inflict real emotional damage on people over a definition of a word because you don't want someone else using it? You would prefer they accept a lesser yet same definition that is 'no different' except in name?

      Would you accept such a thing? It's very different for people on the other end of that Greater Than > sign.

      Straight > gay
      Marriage > civil union

    195. Re:Turn the tables by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      Really, I'm sure all those slaves down South would have loved to hear that regardless of their situation, they actually had 'freedom' because it was a 'natural' right.

      Lets skip the bullshit shall we? The only difference between a legal right and a natural right is that 'natural' rights are ones that the group you are talking to are willing to pretend are universal to all people and legal rights are the ones they want to hold seperate 'just for them'.

    196. Re:Turn the tables by compro01 · · Score: 1

      Because government was in it before modern religion was. Marriage as a legal concept predates even Judaism by over 1000 years.

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    197. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      I think that is a perfectly reasonable solution if the civil union grants the same rights to anyone who enters into one and everyone who gets one gets a 'civil union'.

      The word used is irrelevant as long as it applies to everyone. No 'marriage' for this group, but this group over here gets a 'civil union'. If they all get 'marriage' or they all get 'civil union', then it is fair to my eyes.

    198. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You don't get to define marriage. Some religions consider a same sex union a marriage. Your definition of marriage is based on your religion.

      As for hate speech, the laws are clear and do not trump free speech rights, except for clearly defined exceptions that already exist. That is, even without hate speech laws I can not advocate for murder without opening myself up to prosecution. Nothing about this situation would change if gays were allowed to marry. What's illegal would still be illegal, and saying that being gay is evil, or minorities are inferior, is not illegal now and it wouldn't be with gay marriage.

      You have no basis for restricting marriage to heterosexual couples except for your religious bias. If you can show a reason to have separate terminology that does not rest on religious reasoning, I'd love to hear it. Otherwise, you are not advocating for purity of language, you are arguing that your religious laws should be the law of the land.

      I've been to a Christian church that accepts gays and supports gay marriage. Not civil unions, gay marriage. Who are you to tell them they are wrong? You are arguing from semantics. If you aren't against gay civil unions, why does the terminology matter so much to you? It isn't a redefinition of the word marriage, that is only your opinion.

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    199. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      A society that doesn't allow incest at all won't allow incest that could produce more birth defects, either. So there's an absolute benefit, even if it's irrational for those who can't produce offspring anyway. That isn't the case for forbidding gay marriage.

    200. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Genetic screenings shouldn't be required to have a child with your sister, if the two of you are married. That would be further discriminatory, since we do not require two individuals who have a very large chance of having a child with some sort of birth defect from having children.

      I've seen a number of medical documentaries describing two married individuals with a set of genes that happen to create a large chance of having children with certain genetic defects. If we would not allow a married set of siblings to have children without genetic screening, we need to require it of everyone, lest we discriminate against a group of people.

      Hell, we allow people who have a history of beating their children to have more children. You can't stop two consenting, married adults, siblings or not, from having children.

    201. Re:Turn the tables by Rary · · Score: 1

      Missing the point of the entire debate is to attempt to equate or confuse marriage (a legal/religious institution) with natural rights (such as freedom and liberty). They are, and should be different.

      The issue is equality in the eyes of society and the law.

      Legal marriage and religious marriage are really two different things. They can be combined, but neither requires the other. This issue is entirely about legal marriage. One group is denying legal privileges that have a very real impact on everyday life to another group purely based on religious reasoning. There is no reason for the law to do that. That is inequality, and should be eliminated from the legal system.

      To attempt to redefine what "marriage" means reeks of Orwellian think-speak.

      Extending a legal privilege enjoyed by one group of people to another group of people in the interest of equality is not Orwellian think-speak. You call this redefining. I call it removing an arbitrary restriction, much like other arbitrary restrictions have been removed in the past, such as ones preventing interracial marriages.

      Laws change all the time. No one is expecting you to change your life, or your marriage, or even your religious convictions, in any way whatsoever. No one is demanding that you think, speak, or act in any particular way. In fact, this has nothing to do with you at all, assuming you're not homosexual. What is so "Orwellian" about laws that have absolutely no impact on you in any way?

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    202. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In an ideal world we would not have barren people marry but since historically they had that right, it's too late to remove it. Besides it would be very difficult to enforce such a ban for an extremely low benefit : 10% of heteroxexual couples are sterile, 100% of homosexual couples are sterile. So the benefit of not permitting homosexual to marry far outweighs the cost (no false positive and very cheap to detect homosexual couples applying for a marriage license).

      But if one find a cheap non intrusive way to detect barenness in heterosexual people and that without destroying medical confidentiality, then yes we could ban marriage between barren people. However, remember that once you have granted an undeserved right, it's politically very difficult to ungrant it.

    203. Re:Turn the tables by Joe+Snipe · · Score: 1

      It's bad for procreation.

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    204. Re:Turn the tables by ProfessionalCookie · · Score: 1
      So back to the GP's point..."I always wondered why marriage has anything to do with the government anyway."

      To clarify, why not just treat each individual as an equally taxable entity? I'm not choosing a side on that one yet but I have to admit, he has a point.

    205. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's my understanding that siblings didn't grow up together in royal families in old egypt. That would certainly take away the familiarity aspect and makes things less "icky".

    206. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      That was an interesting point as well. They give added benefits to married couples that are denied to single individuals.

      I'm not sure what the reasoning is there.

      Anyone who's fluent in history know the answer?

    207. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      As I and others have stated, there are far more societal benefits of marriage than the production of children. Married people tend to be wealthier, contributing more to the economy, and more stable, less apt to engage in destructive behavior. Married people are also better foster and adoptive parents, perhaps unable to have children, but able to raise other people's children to be productive members of society. So, your whole argument is based on a false premise, that the only societal benefit, and thus the only reason to give financial benefits to couples, is the production of children.

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    208. Re:Turn the tables by linzeal · · Score: 1

      Try that in Texas or Alabama or Florida. It ain't going to happen and that is why the federal government once and for all should either get out of the marriage business or open it to all responsible adults.

    209. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      Why exactly?

    210. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Mod me troll but how many consenting adults?

    211. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      I've been to a Christian church that accepts gays and supports gay marriage.

      Religion is meaningless if you change it every time it tells you to do something you don't feel like doing (or to avoid something you really want to do). That's all they've done.

      It's hypocritical to profess to follow a particular set of religious teachings if you're blatantly ignoring the parts of those teaching which are inconvenient for you.

      It isn't a redefinition of the word marriage, that is only your opinion.

      Historically the word "marriage" has not included homosexual couples... therefore it's a redefinition. I think that's about as clear as can be.

      If you aren't against gay civil unions, why does the terminology matter so much to you?

      Marriage has a special meaning for me. Yes, that meaning is religious, and yes, changing the definition of "marriage" would cheapen its meaning to me.

      I realize this is a semantic disagreement. That's sort of my point. But most people involved in the gay marriage debate are arguing about "rights", when in fact to my knowledge nobody has ever demonstrated a legal right that can be obtained by heterosexual married couples that cannot be obtained by homosexual couples in a civil union. Marriage itself is not a legal right, no matter how you try to dress it up as such.

    212. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      even if it's irrational for those who can't produce offspring anyway

      Oh, the irony. So what you're basically saying that even though it's irrational with no biological basis to deny marriage rights to that group, that we still should "for the good of society". Pot, meet kettle.

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    213. Re:Turn the tables by Omestes · · Score: 1

      So what is the difference between a civil union and a marriage? A church? Wouldn't we then define a marriage as a "legally recognized, and legally binding religious right", and a civil union as the same thing, but with the religion stripped from it? So what if there ARE sensible religions who see no problem with gay folk marrying?

      Would a civil union have all the legal perks (and responsibilities) as a straight marriage?

      If yes, then why must we draw a special category for on small subset of the population, to to exclude them?

      I see no difference, outside of reproduction, between you and your wife, and Bob and his husband, and even the reproduction issue is rather dumb, since gay people do have means for acquiring children, and often do, which would make them completely identical to you and your wife.

      Even stripping out the terminology, the issue is completely nonsensical. Granting gay people equal footing with straight people in the marriage arena has no ill effects on society, or individuals. As such, there is no ethical reason to bar it.

      Oh, just in case we drag out "first amendment religious rights" (not to use a strawman, just dragging this out preemptively, in case someone uses it); a lot of churches were forced to marry black, and interracial, couples too, should we bar black and interracial couples marriage because some churches might not agree with it? The rights of actual people is always more important than the rights of some subset of religious institutions.

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    214. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      I don't have to show you anything. There are 40+ states that demonstrate that fact rather plainly where these folks can't even have a civil union as they are treated like second class citizens.

      Then those states need to change - but that doesn't mean you don't need to show how civil unions are inferior.

      If you're going to claim "civil unions provide fewer legal rights than marriages", you're going to have to substantiate that claim, you can't hide behind "well a large portion of the country doesn't even allow gay civil unions".

      You're willing to inflict real emotional damage on people over a definition of a word because you don't want someone else using it?

      To turn your argument around, gay marriage supporters are willing to inflict real emotional damage on people over the definition of the word marriage, so why should they be surprised when their opposition feels the same way?

      You would prefer they accept a lesser yet same definition that is 'no different' except in name?

      The words "different" and "lesser" do not mean the same thing, despite how much you try to make it seem that way.

      You may as well complain that women have fewer legal rights because we make a legal distinction between "male" and "female". Yes, we use different words to describe the two groups of people, but that doesn't make either group less than the other.

      The same applies in the gay marriage debate.

      It's very different for people on the other end of that Greater Than > sign.

      You're the one applying the > sign. I have consistently argued that civil unions are equivalent to marriages; you're the one who claims they're not, yet you refuse to show how they're not equivalent!

      The burden of proof here lies on you, not on me.

    215. Re:Turn the tables by ArmyOfAardvarks · · Score: 1

      They are only different because you've been desensitized to one and still view the other as disgusting.

    216. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In the UK the Church has powers to create laws. Marriage is a religious partnership, supported by law, and is defined as a union between a man and a woman.

      That is why we have 'civil partnerships' for gay couples in the UK. The US Government(being supposedly independant of religions) should allow legal partnerships between any couples(or even more people, if the demand be so) and leave the 'marriage' part(the 'nice ceremony' you describe) to the religions.

    217. Re:Turn the tables by GameboyRMH · · Score: 1

      The Dumb Fuck Book of Irrational Angry Intolerance and Hereditary Prejudices, by D. Baggerson Sr.

      Page eleventy-five.

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    218. Re:Turn the tables by skeeto · · Score: 1

      Just because you made up something doesn't make it true.

      "The sky is purple. It CAN'T be called any other color! Period!"

    219. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 4, Insightful

      You do not get to define religion, sorry. You don't get to say that someone's 'changes' are not legitimate. By your logic, Martin Luther had no right to change things.

      But in any case, Buddhism has never had a ban on gay marriages, so any Buddhist sects performing them would have to be legitimate in your eyes, as they haven't changed anything that was originally in their religion, and they are legitimate religion recognized in the United States.

      You do understand that homosexual civil unions don't exist in most states, right?

      Marriage is a legal right. You see, there are two different definitions of marriage. There is marriage as it relates to the state, and marriage as it relates to a particular religion. While religious marriage might not be a legal right, one does not even need to practice a religion in order to be legally married by the state. That is a right, as recognized by the state, not a particular religion. I was not married in a church, but I am legally married and that status confers certain rights and responsibilities on my partner and I.

      Historically, the word 'marriage' did not include partners of different races. We saw that that was unfair, and changed it. Just because something is a particular way does not make it right, That's known as the 'is/aught fallacy.' We used to consider black people to be property. It was part of the definition of property. We changed that too.

      Your argument boils down to 'this is the way it has always been, and therefore this is the way it should always be.' You do see the problem with that line of reasoning, don't you?

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    220. Re:Turn the tables by Trepidity · · Score: 1

      The consensus among biologists and anthropologists these days is that the incest taboo has very little to do with gene-pool problems, and more due to social benefits conferred by exogamy (marriage forming ties between clans).

    221. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1

      Homosexuality in males may be caused in part by genes that can increase fertility in females, according to a new study.

      Pretty big leap to go from "MAY" as in the article you sort of cite (but obviously didn't read) to "ARE" as you claim. Unfortunately, this falls in line with your displayed inability to avoid logical fallacies. In the future, I would suggest when you include links to prove your point that you include a section of the article which will support you rather than just linking to something and doing the rhetorical equivalent of "SO THERE!"

      Regardless, eye color is genetic, too. I can't WILL myself to have brown eyes if my eyes are green -- even if I declare I have the right to green eyes.

      Sexual preference is not like race or ethnicity. Proof: A homosexual can choose to engage is heterosexual sex -- a black man cannot choose to be Hispanic.

      Again, how are they exactly alike? Hint: A better "analogy" would be to equate sexual preference to gender, but even that is apples and oranges.

      I'm not saying there is anything wrong with any sexual preference. My position is and has been that marriage is not a natural right, but a well defined institution with a long history in our culture. I object to changing what marriage is/means to fit someone elses agenda. Pretending it's a "right" doesn't make it so. Again, I think marriage should be out of any government involvement what-so-ever.

    222. Re:Turn the tables by Trepidity · · Score: 1

      I agree, but then why this pathetic patch on an obsolete institution? Marriage is still fundamentally a conservative institution out of its depth in the modern era. Sure, patching it up to add in gay marriage, by including the largest single currently excluded group, will probably allow it to hobble on for a while longer. But it isn't a solution.

    223. Re:Turn the tables by Trepidity · · Score: 1

      That's what causes the trouble, though. If the purpose of marriage isn't some individual benefit but "social benefits" to the nation at large, it opens up the door for society to decide which marriages it deems beneficial and which it would prefer to exclude.

    224. Re:Turn the tables by Joe+Snipe · · Score: 1

      Because conception doesn't happen through homosexual intercourse? Did you really need me to say that?

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    225. Re:Turn the tables by skeeto · · Score: 2, Informative

      Because marriage is a religious ceremony.

      My wife and I got married before a judge and the legal piece of paper we got for it says "marriage". All of the paperwork says this.

      So no, you're completely wrong. It doesn't matter how hard you wish it to be true because isn't. Here, a marriage is a civil contract that might happen to be celebrated in a religious setting. That means, like always in the US, religion can't legally be used to justify taking away people's rights.

    226. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      No, I'm saying that even though banning all incest isn't strictly rational, it still has an absolute benefit. Banning gay marriage doesn't. Read harder next time.

    227. Re:Turn the tables by ChaosDiscord · · Score: 1

      Preach it, brother! Gay marriage is a new right that changes what marriage means, exactly like woman's suffrage would be a new right that changes what sufferage means!

    228. Re:Turn the tables by TubeSteak · · Score: 1

      I disagree. I believe it is not a valid comparison. I think the problem is you and others are considering the term "marriage" to mean something today that it did not mean historically.

      This isn't about suppressing rights of a minority group -- it's about the creation of a NEW right -- one that didn't exist before -- and in so doing fundamentally change what the meaning of the term/word "marriage" is. I'm all for civil and legal equality for those who are "married" and domestic partners, but I'm against changing what "marriage" means.

      Historical definitions of the word "marriage" do not trump the Constitution's assertion that every citizen gets equal treatment under the law.

      I could make an asinine argument about the definition of "voting" in England being limited to white, titled, land owning,
      males for over a thousand years but I'd say that their society and ours has since moved on from that definition.

      Just to be clear: not allowing all citizens equal rights and protections under the law = suppressing rights.

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    229. Re:Turn the tables by skeeto · · Score: 1

      "Woman" also used to historically mean "property", too. As society advances, definitions change. Your argument holds no weight.

    230. Re:Turn the tables by skeeto · · Score: 1

      It's a shame. You started out rational, too.

      You didn't even start out rationally. Just with obvious, closed-minded homophobia.

    231. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're telling me sticking a cock in a guy's ass isn't gross? What the hell is wrong with you. Sticking it in a woman's ass is gross but not quite as gross.

    232. Re:Turn the tables by Xtifr · · Score: 1

      Well, there is Leviticus, which says that if a man shall lie with another man, it is an abomination.

      Actually it (Lev18:22) says thou shall not. So, for women, straight sex is out--it doesn't say the rule only applies to men! And for men, sleeping with a woman is tempting them into sin (lying with a man), which is itself a sin. Thus, according to the Bible, only lesbian sex is allowed! :)

      (The KJB actually says "mankind", which could be tricky if you mean the whole thing--the largest orgy I've ever been in was a mere ten people, nowhere near all of mankind--or could simply be interpreted as ruling out the really butch lesbians as well.) :)

    233. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1

      Lets skip the bullshit shall we?

      If you were interested in skipping the "bullshit", you would stick to the topic instead of trying to equivocate my position to that of southern slave owners. How is that not attacking the person?

      Marriage is not a right -- and certainly not like freedom or liberty. I think it's silly to make it a right, treat it like a right and get all upset when it's "revoked". I'd rather see business of marriage out of the hands of government entirely and solely a religious practice. Let governments issue civil domestic partnership contracts universally.

    234. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Granting gay people equal footing with straight people in the marriage arena has no ill effects on society, or individuals.

      Studies are divided whether gay marriage has an ill effect on society. Specifically, some studies have shown that the child-rearing environment provided by gay couples is less healthy for children than that provided by heterosexual couples. Similarly, some studies have shown that children raised by gay couples have a far higher tendency to be gay themselves; if homosexuality were merely a genetic disposition, this would not be the case, showing that there is in fact a significant environmental factor.

      I'm not going to source that, because I'm at work, and I shouldn't be doing this anyway ;) My point is, it's more than a little misleading to claim that there are definitively no ill effects, when that hasn't been shown at all.

      The rights of actual people is always more important than the rights of some subset of religious institutions.

      The issue here is not one of rights, it's one of semantics. Legally speaking, there is little difference between a civil union and a marriage, and as far as I'm aware, none of those differences confer extra rights on either group. It is perhaps easier to legally dissolve a civil union than a marriage, but that's hardly relevant.

      Conceivably a difference could come from the Defense of Marriage Act, which stipulates that for all federal legal purposes, "marriage" refers exclusively to unions between one man and one woman. Even so, nobody has shown a legal right lost because of this.

      But even if there were any rights lost, it would be far simpler to pass a law mandating that civil unions receive those same rights than it would be to force the majority of the country to change their definition of the word "marriage".

      Why is it ok for a minority of the country to impose their definition on the majority, but it's not ok for the majority to preserve their definition despite what the minority wants, especially when no rights are lost?

    235. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      Do you seriously believe that gays would suddenly turn straight if homosexuality was illegal? Really?

    236. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      Besides, contraception is bad for procreation too but I don't hear you complaining about condoms.

    237. Re:Turn the tables by hldn · · Score: 1

      marriage : civil unions :: white drinking fountain : colored drinking fountain

      you, sir, are a bigot and an idiot.

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    238. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      By your logic, Martin Luther had no right to change things.

      On the contrary; Martin Luther essentially accused the Catholic Church of deliberately misinterpreting or ignoring various passages of scripture. That's exactly what I'm doing - Christians who support homosexuality are blatantly ignoring the teachings of the book they claim to hold sacred.

      I'm not defining religion. I'm defining hypocrisy.

      Your argument boils down to 'this is the way it has always been, and therefore this is the way it should always be.' You do see the problem with that line of reasoning, don't you?

      That's not my line of reasoning at all; my reasoning is "this is the way it has always been, and since no rights are lost, there's no point in changing it to satisfy the whims of a minority group in the country."

      Show me rights that are lost, and I'll change my stance.

    239. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1

      Instead of name calling, how about argue the points? At least back up your statements.

      How is marriage a "right"? How am I a "homophobe" for arguing that it is NOT a right?

      Marriage isn't something the government should even be involved with. But I guess I'm a homophobe, a racist, sexist or whatever hatemonger label you want to toss at me for DARING to say something isn't a right!

    240. Re:Turn the tables by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1
      It's pretty common for emerging research to be talked about in tentative terms. After all, it takes a lot of time and money to reproduce studies, and in the world of science 'facts' and 'laws' are merely those things which have been tested so many times that they are believed to be true. However that doesn't mean they're never overturned. Point being, in science, everything is a matter of 'may' only the degree is debatable.

      Apparently you've never heard of albinos or vertiligo. A 'black' man can be born 'white' or 'turn white' over time. Eventually, pre-natal genetic selection will allow phenotypes to be chosen, and gene therapy will probably eventually allow people to change some pre-existing phenotypical states.

      My position is and has been that marriage is not a natural right

      Like I said before, if there are no natural rights to marriage, that makes it a legal right only, therefore we are dealing with something being given and taken away. I really don't know why you keep bringing up natural rights anyway, because R-71 is a legal issue from beginning to end. (I find it funny how often to people in this discussion you keep mentioning freedom as natural right, but then deny that people are free to marry who they want or to define marriage in their own way.)

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    241. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      Saying that it's not rational yet has a benefit doesn't prove your point. As another poster pointed out earlier, AIDS and other STD's are more common in the gay couples because anal sex is more likely to transmit the infections than vaginal sex (the lining of the anus is more fragile leading to an increased risk of infection).

      So banning sodomy (and by association, male on male sexual relations) certainly would have some benefit, but that doesn't make such a ban rational, fair, or non-discriminatory.

      I'm not saying I'm against gay marriage. I'm just basically following a path of curiosity in that most people are hypocrites, and understanding that is key. Homophobes see homosexuality as wrong, and won't support it because legalizing it doesn't benefit them, and they see the entire act as nasty. MOST people, even those that perceive themselves enlightened due to being on the oppressed side of the fence on a major issue, will do the same when confronted with something they they don't find appealing, due to equally faulty logic.

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    242. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      Nowhere does it say that marriage is a right. This is a complete misunderstanding. This is like saying that state driver's licenses are a right - They aren't, they are a privilege with specific requirements and guidelines to fulfill. Therefore, it's up to the state to determine what laws apply to all. All laws are based on a moral standard of some kind. Some laws effect different people unfairly, but it's up to the state to make those definitions. While I agree it's unfair that some states don't provide homosexuals with the same options that married couples have, it doesn't mean they have a RIGHT to marriage. Civil unions should be instituted to establish the same thing or the definition of marriage should be changed. I oppose changing the definition of marriage. This doesn't make me a bigot. If a religious people do not want the definition of marriage to be changed, it doesn't mean they are assaulting other people. It means they are defending their belief (and defend is the most appropriate word as the backlash from homosexuals has been incredible). Also, you state that homosexuals don't want to force churches to marry them. This has been proven untrue. Many adoption agencies, doctors, and churches have been sued for similar cases in the United States and outside of the United states. Homosexuals previous to Proposition 8 claimed they didn't want to threaten the tax exempt status of the LDS Church, then immediately after they lost petitions were formed to try and remove the tax exempt status. Also, to suggest that you can't argue a definition based on religion is counter to everything the Constitution does protect. You are allowed to vote based on ANY conviction. Freedom of speech. As Richard John Neuhaus said many years ago, “In a democracy that is free and robust, an opinion is no more disqualified for being ‘religious’ than for being atheistic, or psychoanalytic, or Marxist, or just plain dumb.”

    243. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      If you're going to claim "civil unions provide fewer legal rights than marriages", you're going to have to substantiate that claim, you can't hide behind "well a large portion of the country doesn't even allow gay civil unions".

      For instance, the California 'domestic partnership' law grants almost the same rights as a marriage. It's actually was one of the best union laws, but even it did not go far enough. This one is so easy, even you will understand it right off. What happens when you cross the state line? Oh, I'm sorry, we don't recognize your 'union'. How is that equal to any 'marriage'? What about a divorce? Married couples can divorce anywhere. Civil unions? Not a chance. You have to live in the state in question, in some cases up to a year before you can dissolve the union. What about marrying to a foreign citizen? Doing so with 'marriage' will grant that person immediate citizenship. Not so with a civil union. Taxes? Forget it. The federal government doesn't recognize civil unions. You can't file jointly. There are also over a thousand benefits (yes, that's 1,000+) granted to married couples. Unions in the few states that allow them grant SOME of those, but not all. Not a single state in the union grants all of those protections.

      Still think they are the same?

      Do you seriously thing these civil unions as available today are in any way equivalent to a marriage? It is marriage lite. They should all be treated equally under the law. I don't care what word you use to describe it, be that civil union, or marriage, but it should apply to ALL, not just one class of citizens.

      To turn your argument around, gay marriage supporters are willing to inflict real emotional damage on people over the definition of the word marriage, so why should they be surprised when their opposition feels the same way?

      You forget that the folks who are already allowed to marry are not suffering in the slightest. They can visit their partners in the hospital. They can inherit. They can adopt. They are actively trying to prevent these folks from having the same rights. Do you feel that is right?

    244. Re:Turn the tables by Omestes · · Score: 1

      I believe, though, that "marriage" is indeed a religious institution, and I would argue that separation of church and state says that the State shouldn't dictate what "marriage" is and is not. I think we ultimately need two terms to distinguish between the civil union aspects of marriage and the religious aspects of marriage.

      So, by denying gay marriage, we're restricting the freedom for some churches and religions to marry gays?

      Not EVERY religion is irrationally biased against people because of who they want to have sex with, so by saying that no religion is allowed to marry them, your inflicting your bias on others. Is it also a grievous breach of the constitution to allow interracial marriages, or black/black marriages, even if some churches were (and are) opposed to these ideas?

      Government should completely ignore the wishes of churches, and only focus on individual rights.

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    245. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Bigotry maybe... most likely greed.

    246. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      This is the Internet. When you make outrageous claims such as 'Specifically, some studies have shown that the child-rearing environment provided by gay couples is less healthy for children than that provided by heterosexual couples.' You need to cite those studies. Otherwise, people simply won't believe you. Same thing for your 'raised by gays makes you gay' claim.

      There are definitely no ill effects to being raised by two gay people, outside of the oppression that goes along with being gay. Do away with the oppression, and you've done away with the problem.

      What rights, in what states, do civil unions confer? You don't even know, do you?

      Nobody is forcing anyone to change their definition of the word marriage. You can believe marriage is a bowl of ice cream for all I care. We are asking the government to not exclude homosexuals from being married. Nobody is going to force you to marry a gay.

      We aren't talking about definitions of words, we're talking about laws. People who support gays marrying aren't the minority, people who want to restrict other people's rights are. You and the other religious bigots like to think you are the majority, but you aren't. Look at any polls on the matter and you will see that you aren't. You can go on thinking marriage is whatever you like, nobody is asking you to change your definition. We are saying, you can't dictate what others call marriage. You think it is okay for you to dictate to me what my definition of marriage is, but not the other way around. That's hypocritical.

      You still have not shown any reason to deny gay people the right to marriage. The only reason you have given boils down to, 'it would make me uncomfortable, and I believe the majority of people are just like me.'

      If we did manage to get gay civil unions, which we don't actually have yet, gay people would still say they were married and you would be unable to stop them. They would not say, 'this is my civil partner, Frank.' They would say, 'This is my husband, Frank.' Heck, they do now.

      But how does any of this even impact you? Why do you care? Are you similarly worked up over other redefinitions of words, like how awful used to mean 'full of awe or awe inspiring' and now it means 'terrible,' or how property used to mean 'places, or things, or animals, or black people,' and now it does not include the latter?

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    247. Re:Turn the tables by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      And what intrinsically makes marriage to a loved one not a right in the same sense that your tautological 'freedom or liberty' is a right? "Natural vs Legal" bullshit? If one is 'free' then how do you integrate that into the idea that you want to prevent them from joining in union with their loved ones?

      You think it's silly to treat it as a right, and Southern slave owners thought it was silly to pretend the 'negros' should be treated as free men. You think you are being reasonable and level headed, and so did they. You and they were wrong.

      And marriage "Solely a religious practice"? Screw the atheists and agnostics?

      What I think is silly is that someone thinks religion ought to have any say over what someone who isn't practicing it does concerning 'marriage'.

      What I think is silly is a bunch of people romanticizing 'marriage' to the point where they claim that their limited and ridiculous view of what marriage is not only valid today but is what it's always been.

      It really HAS NOT been that long ago that 'christian' marriage was seen simply as a transfer of property from one man to another. Nor has 'christian' marriage been the predominate form of marriage in history.

      You DO NOT own the word, you DO NOT own it's meaning. STOP attempting to force the rest of us to obey your idea of what marriage should be to the detriment of our own.

    248. Re:Turn the tables by wastedlife · · Score: 1

      It looks to me like ElectricTurtle is trying to say that there should be no special benefits for those that are married and the government should stay out of it as much as possible.

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    249. Re:Turn the tables by skeeto · · Score: 1

      Marriage isn't something the government should even be involved with.

      Saying that government shouldn't be involved with personal relationships is a reasonable position. However, as said elsewhere, specifically opposing gay marriage while giving this as the reason is intellectually dishonest. That's what you're doing.

      How is marriage a "right"?

      Legally, yes, that's what it is. Marriage is a right, but only for straight people. Gay people are not able to marry the person they are romantically in love with but a straight person can. This is the opposite of liberty.

      There is no rational argument for specifically opposing gay marriage. Only arguments based on religion and homophobia.

    250. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      I very much doubt that incest, especially in the immediate family, is anywhere near as ubiquitous as homosexuality in animals and humans, and there's probably a good reason for that. But then again, you're the expert.

    251. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      Please cite where marriage is a right.

    252. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Your definition of marriage is not the definition of marriage. Your religion can define what your religion's version of marriage means, but it can not define what my religion's definition of marriage is, and you can not tell me that my religion isn't as legitimate as yours, that is kind of in the Constitution.

      You realize that what you call 'backlash,' gay people call 'defending their beliefs,' right?

      Also, you state that homosexuals don't want to force churches to marry them. This has been proven untrue. Many adoption agencies, doctors, and churches have been sued for similar cases in the United States and outside of the United states.

      [citation needed] or put another way [you are lying.]

      You can argue from religion. But there are many religions in this free land of ours, and yours doesn't trump anyone else's.

      As I stated before, no 501(c)3 organization, be it educational, religious, or charitable, is allowed to campaign, donate to a campaign, or advocate for changes to the law. That does not apply only to churches, in fact, if churches wanted to give up their tax exempt status they can lobby all they like, and some do. The law applies to anyone claiming tax exempt status. So, either keep your church out of the legislative process like it should be, or lose your tax exempt status like any other 501(c)3 caught cheating.

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    253. Re:Turn the tables by WastedMeat · · Score: 1

      In Arizona at least, it is actually legal for first cousins to marry if one of them is proven infertile (or if they are just older than 65).

    254. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      No; I'm implying that religious people merely want to preserve the existing definition of the word "marriage". Furthermore, the government already dictates who can and cannot use it (you have to obtain a government marriage license to be called "married").

      So, tell me if I have this strait. You're saying that:

      1. The word "marriage" has historically applied only to a legal union between a man and women.
      2. And that if the government also applies the term "marriage" to a legal union between a man and a women, then this will dilute the meaning of the word "marriage".
      3. 'Religious people' believe the word "marriage" to be sacred enough to their religion that allowing the government to influence the historical meaning is unacceptable.
      4. If same sex couples were allowed to enter in to the same contract as the "marriage" contract, with all of the same rights and responsibilities, but they called it a "civil union" (or 'Willy Wonka's Wacky Coupling', etc) instead of "marriage" then the 'religious people' would have no issue.

      I'll admit that I've never actually heard it put quite that way, so I'm curious if I'm following you correctly. If so, it's very interesting and I'm going to have to think on it.

      For reference, here is the first section of the word "marriage" from Merriam-Webster's Unabridged Dictionary:

      Etymology: Middle English mariage, from Middle French, from marier to marry + -age -- more at MARRY
      1 a : the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife b : the mutual relation of husband and wife : WEDLOCK c : the institution whereby men and women are joined in a special kind of social and legal dependence for the purpose of founding and maintaining a family -- see MONOGAMY, POLYGAMY

      And as the Unabridged dictionary simply points the user the the Collegiate version, here is the first section of the term "civil union" from Merriam-Webster's Collegiate Dictionary:

      Date: 1992
      : the legal status that ensures to same-sex couples specified rights and responsibilities of married couples

      If someone has access to the Oxford dictionary, I'm sure that would be much more detailed.

    255. Re:Turn the tables by harl · · Score: 1

      So if someone in the marriage gets a vasectomy, gets a hysterectomy, uses birth control, or is found to be sterile you think the marriage should be dissolved?

      What about post menopause?

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    256. Re:Turn the tables by Omestes · · Score: 1

      It is to protect you and your religious beliefs (or lack thereof) from the government. It is not to protect the government from you and your beliefs.

      Not quite true. If the government has a religious agenda, it should also protect the citizens from this as well. Basically its to keep the government completely secular.

      This is my beef against the anti-gay marriage folks, they are using the government as a vehicle to force their religious beliefs down others throats (same with the lifers, anti-stem cell folks, anti-evolutionists, and all other people trying to force their so-called truths down the throats of others who don't hold care or believe). Its hard to find a non-religious arguement against it, since having two gays married and living next door to you does absolutely negative to you, or society as a whole, barring religious doctrines that a lot of people don't buy.

      Like most things in life: if you don't like it, don't do it. Don't like gay marriage, don't go gay and get married. Don't like abortions? Don't get one. That way you do what you think is best, and everyone else can live their lives as they see fit (as long as they don't harm the individual rights of others). Hell, if your strictly straight marriage works out, perhaps others will learn from you.

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    257. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If they feel that they own the word I say give it to them. Just remove it from government where their religious beliefs effect everyone. Can't we be more like Germany and have civil wedding then a religious wedding if you desire. If the government only recognizes civil unions and sees marriages as civil unions, then the church can keep the label "marriage" and define it as they like. It would end up like other religious labels like 'christian' where every religious group has it's own definition, but with no legal recognition of the word, it can't be used to punish people whom do not share their own ethical views. The first amendment states "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof;" Christians can still have their word, but if it is theirs it can not be part of our government if the constitution still has any meaning at all.

    258. Re:Turn the tables by tiqui · · Score: 1

      Turn the tables, indeed!

      Gay activists published a list of supporters of the anti-gay-marriage ammendment in California in the hope of getting their opponents to be punished (some were fired from their jobs) or intimidated (so they would not participate in such political action in the future), but they ought to have thought this through. Nothing but self-restraint will now keep their opponents from publishing lists of pro-gay-bill supporters in the future which will in-turn help people fire and intimidate them.

      This stuff (publishing lists to help people intimidate/retaliate against political opponents) has the potential to get very nasty indeed and both sides would be well-advised to think before pulling the trigger.

      If you want something on a ballot, you should be able to try to put it there without fear (nobody needs to know who you are), and each voter should feel free to vote for or against it without fear (it should stand or fall on the merits rather than because of who sponsored it/supported it/opposed it)

    259. Re:Turn the tables by Joe+Snipe · · Score: 1

      I'm not complaining about anything. I was making the joke that homosexuality hinders baby production. You are taking life too seriously.

      As an aside, the catholic church complains about condoms for that reason.

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      Sometimes, life itself is sarcasm...
    260. Re:Turn the tables by celtic_hackr · · Score: 1

      On a slightly different note. One man - one woman marriage has only existed since the Pope decreed it to be so back around oh 1400 or so. It was to keep the priests from having too many wives, also, it was the first intrusion of the "State" into what had always been a private civil matter between people. There was no state involved in the sanctifying of marriage before that.

      Furthermore, the government really didn't get involved (except in that one case involving the Pope) in marriage matters until around the 19th century (1793 in France).

      Marriages were private civil contracts for millennium upon millennium, and neither the Church nor the government really should have any say or control in the matter. It belongs rightly as a personal right along with the right to choose or not choose a religion, or to speak freely.

    261. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Show me where in the New Testament homosexuality, including lesbianism, is forbidden. I'll wait while you look that up. I'll want a passage that restricts all forms of homosexuality, not just certain types of sexual practices. Otherwise, we'll need to make some exceptions.

      You do understand that people have differences of opinion over what scripture means, right? Luther thought one thing, the Pope thought something else. Who decides who is right? Last I checked, God doesn't seem interested in making those calls, so it is up to fallible human beings to make the decisions as to the correct interpretation of scripture.

      I already mentioned religions that approve of gay marriage. I assume you would be fine with religions that approve of it performing it and calling it 'marriage.' If not, please explain why fundamentalist Muslims should not be allowed to tell you that your wife needs to wear a bhurka at her marriage. Either you want to dictate what other religions consider marriage, or you don't, and if you do want that, it can work against you far easier than it can work for you.

      I can't 'show you the rights that would be lost' because very few states even have domestic partnership laws. Those that do, do not confer all of the rights of marriage. As far as I'm concerned, the major right that is lost is the right to practice your own religion. If you say that NO RELIGION can practice gay marriage, no matter what their beliefs, you are limiting my religious freedom and infringing on my rights.

      You may change your stance now, thank you very much.

      Freedom of religion is enshrined in the Constitution. My religion recognizes gay marriage. You have no right to limit my practice of religion, according to the Constitution, and my religion practices gay marriage, and calls it marriage. You have no right to limit my freedom of religion, get it? And you have no right to say what is and what is not a legitimate religion, says so in the Constitution.

      I'll be awaiting your change of stance with bated breath.

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    262. Re:Turn the tables by penguinbrat · · Score: 1

      ...because you are a bigot who wants to impose your religious values onto other religions besides your own and wants to dictate what ceremonies other religions are allowed to perform.

      I oppose it and my reasons have zero to do with any religious or spiritual values/beliefes. Going along with the GP's argument, if your after state sanctioned and recognized "unions" that offer the same perks and legal rights as the state recognized and sanctioned "religious" unions - ie: marriage, then that's one thing and it should be recognized but not because your "gay" - but because the individuals involved are citizens of the given state.

      Marriage always has been and always will be a religious matter. Those individuals who are not religious and want the 'perks' of making a commitment to each other - get the states version of marriage which is just a civil union that is happening to be using the same terminology - I'm referring to going to the local court house and getting hitched.

      IF you are only after the 'perks' of the state sanctioned civil union, then this is a deal of the state crossing the line of the separation between church and state - and all federal/state government should scratch using the terminology of "marriage" and simply use "union" instead. If this is not the case, then sadly it's you who is trying to impose your religious values on others.

    263. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're telling me sticking a cock in a guy's ass isn't gross? What the hell is wrong with you. Sticking it in a woman's ass is gross but not quite as gross.

      It's at least as gross! I'd say it's even grosser, because you've got a vagina right there and you're turning it down in favor of excrement! If a man is so interested in butt-sex, why SHOULDN'T he fuck guys? They'll get a lot more out of it than women will.

    264. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      What happens when you cross the state line? Oh, I'm sorry, we don't recognize your 'union'. How is that equal to any 'marriage'?

      First: That's not a legal right.
      Second: It only works for marriages because states already have reciprocal recognition agreements regarding marriages.
      Third: The fix is not to force a new definition of marriage on everyone. The fix is to add civil unions to states' reciprocal recognition agreements.

      Married couples can divorce anywhere. Civil unions? Not a chance.

      First: It's only an issue because civil unions aren't always recognized across state lines. Amending the state reciprocal recognition agreements will fix that.
      Second: Are you seriously complaining that it's too hard to dissolve a civil union? I thought they wanted to marry so they could commit to eachother?

      Doing so with 'marriage' will grant that person immediate citizenship. Not so with a civil union.

      First: That's not a legal right.
      Second: The person can simply go through the normal citizenship process. (I don't think marriage to a citizen should automatically make a person a citizen, so I could make that argument as well.)

      Taxes? Forget it. The federal government doesn't recognize civil unions. You can't file jointly.

      First: Joint tax filing is not a legal right.
      Second: They can usually file state taxes jointly.
      Third: Again, the solution is not to redefine marriage, but to add a "civil union" joint filing status to the federal tax code.

      There are also over a thousand benefits (yes, that's 1,000+) granted to married couples. Unions in the few states that allow them grant SOME of those, but not all. Not a single state in the union grants all of those protections.

      Assuming your number is correct, how many of those benefits are legal rights, as opposed to, say, tax benefits for having children? Can you show me any of those benefits which are actually relevant to a majority of homosexual civil unions? (For example, child tax deductions are completely irrelevant for the vast majority of homosexual couples.)

      (Remember: gay-marriage supporters like yourself complain that gays are losing rights. Tax benefits are not a right, they're merely benefits. If that is your chief complaint, fine, I don't have a problem with you complaining about benefits, but don't call them "rights" when they're not.)

      Do you seriously thing these civil unions as available today are in any way equivalent to a marriage?

      No, of course not; but I've already mentioned the solution: amend state reciprocal recognition agreements to include civil unions. That will solve most of your complaints, and would be far easier for the majority of the country to stomach than redefining something so important to them.

      They can visit their partners in the hospital.

      One hospital's indiscretion should not reflect on the country as a whole. Or should I regale you with stories about people who are discriminated against in the South just because they're Mormon?

      My point is, an anecdote does not give you license to claim there's some rampant mistreatment of $MINORITY going on.

      They can inherit.

      So can partners in civil unions. Not sure where you're getting that. But even if they couldn't the solution would be to change that.

      But even if that weren't an option for some contrived reason, it's literally a trivial matter to write a will giving your possessions anyone you want in the event of your death.

      They can adopt.

      So can gay couples. Or are you referring to specific adoption agencies who won't give kids to gay couples, because they think gay couples can't provide an adequate child-rearing environment? If that's the case, you need to a

    265. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Marriage is not a natural right for anyone. Marriage is an institution/contract designed to set the obligations of both parties to the marriage. Women promises they will bear the child of their husband and men promises they will pay and take care of their common offspring.

      Since in a homosexual marriage, both parties are equal, such a promise is irrelevant making marriage irrelevant.

    266. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Freedom of religion is a right enshrined in the Constitution. My religion practices ceremonies related to marriage, and does so for same sex marriages. By denying my religion the right to practice those ceremonies, you are denying my freedom of religion.

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    267. Re:Turn the tables by bmajik · · Score: 1

      I agree with about 95% of this -- I view homosexual marraige, incestuous marraige, and polyamorous marraige as equivalence classes, and frankly think all of them should be fine.

      However, the part where I disagree is as follows:

      You see, you are advocating denying people the right to marry whom they choose. That does not impact anyone else except in indirect but positive ways. You need to justify this abrogation of rights. How will denying homosexuals the rights to marry benefit society?

      The effect of legalizing homosexual civil unions is the fan out effect this would have because of regulatory law [or even just convention].

      To give you some perspective: i believe that an individual has absolute rights over himself, his home, and his business [collectively, "his property"]. For instance, I take the very unpopular and objectionable view that a resturant owner ought to be able to refuse to serve black people. He's a private actor, it's a private business that he owns, who is anyone to tell him how to run it?

      My _preference_ is that for this business owner to be crushed in the marketplace of ideas and dollars, not to have his mind changed at gunpoint [the same gun that is behind every government regulation, law, or edict]

      So it's easy to see where I would make the following statement: insurance companies shouldn't be legally required to provide any dependant coverage or benefits to people in unions that they do not approve of. Wedding photographers shouldn't be required to shoot homosexual weddings.

      Yet the latter has already resulted in one lawsuit, and the former is certainly on the horizon.

      Essentially, federal recognition of homosexual civil unions expands the anti-discrimination laws [or regulatory law, as is more often/ominously the case] to a new group of people. And i am against ALL anti-discrimination laws that affect private citizens operating in a non-government capacity

      [quick side note: the _government_ must not do any group-identity politics of any kind. And so if some local official in Alabama wants to deny a business license to a gay man, that official ought to be out of a job. Private business does't get to shoot you, government does, and so i hold it to a higher standard and demand that it be fair and free from malice]

      So while i want to agree with you and say that the state shouldn't care who gets married, it currently does, and that furthermore, who it decides is in the "married club" has many ramifications that infringe, via regulation and anti-discrimination statutes, against the rights of individual actors to conduct business according to their convictions. And as such, in today's regulatory and legal climate, I'm not in favor of it.

      I don't expect many people to agree with my POV, but presumably you can surmise that it has some rational heritage, derived from my near-absolute reverence for individual property rights.

      --
      My opinions are my own, and do not necessarily represent those of my employer.
    268. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      Do you seriously thing these civil unions as available today are in any way equivalent to a marriage? It is marriage lite. They should all be treated equally under the law. I don't care what word you use to describe it, be that civil union, or marriage, but it should apply to ALL, not just one class of citizens.

      HeronBladeMaster said:

      Most religious people couldn't care less if gays can get civil unions (I know I don't), it's just the word "marriage" that they don't think should be applied to such unions.... Until you can show me a legal right that can be obtained via marriage but not civil union, then you're merely complaining about semantics.

      So it seems that you've provided examples of how a civil union is less functional than marriage under both federal and state laws. You've also stated you don't care what word is used to describe the couple's union contract. However, HeronBladeMaster has said that 'religious people' simply don't want the term "marriage" used for same sex couples, but are otherwise uncaring.

      It sounds to me like the solution would be to have federal legislation that grants the same privileges and responsibilities to "civil unions" that "marriage" possesses. At the state level I am guessing that this would either require a federal mandate of the same air, or a state by state change of laws. This would ensure equal rights across various unions, while ensuring the word "marriage" does not have its traditional meaning altered.

      Is that correct?

    269. Re:Turn the tables by celtic_hackr · · Score: 1

      You, need to read the laws on those states that allow marrying cousins. You're leaving out a lot of detail. Like no first-first cousin marriages and in the closer affinity ones, some require sterility in one or both partners. I know of no state that allows first cousin marriages where it is possible for there to be off-spring. Please cite for any state you think does.
      As far as second and third degree cousins, you're right, much less chance of serious gene pool damage, but not non-existent. The bad, genetically speaking, practice of too close affinity breeding is well documented across the mammalian animal kingdom, to which we belong (believe it or not). Should be not believe we are part of the "animal" kingdom, there is also abundant proof in human history of the serious problems of in-breeding.

      On same-sex marriage, why is this even an issue? Do the opponents think if they refuse them marriages they will become extinct? Good luck on that one. They used to sterilize homosexuals in England. That didn't work either. People should be free to do what they want so long as it doesn't harm anyone (except themselves, I'm a strong believer in legitimatizing suicide).

    270. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Marriage is between a man and woman.... anything else can NEVER be called marriage... Period...

      Marriage is between a man and a man.

      Marriage is between a woman and a woman.

      Huh! Seems that, despite your use of the word "period," you're still wrong!

    271. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 3, Informative

      Your religion is not the only one, and the Constitution protects all religions equally. My religion recognizes same sex marriages, and performs said ceremonies. By denying me the right to call what my religion does 'marriage' you are infringing on my freedom of religion. Sorry, you lose and my right to religious freedom wins. Ahhhh, love that US Constitution, don't you?

      You guys keep setting them up, I'll keep knocking them down. You can't win. Especially in the long run. You know what your grandkids are going to think of you? Very likely, what the integrated grandchildren of racists think of them. The next generation simply is not frightened of homosexuality and sees no need to make this an issue.

      Just so you know, fifty years from now nobody will even understand how you could have held the position you do now. Bigotry is ending and there isn't a damn thing you can do about it in the long run. It's a done deal.

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    272. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      This is not constitutional. Marriage is a state defined institution therefore it overrules what you've said. It's the same reason that polygamous and incest even within the realms of religion are overruled by state laws. Please cite where marriage is a right.

    273. Re:Turn the tables by Omestes · · Score: 1

      Studies are divided whether gay marriage has an ill effect on society. Specifically, some studies have shown that the child-rearing environment provided by gay couples is less healthy for children than that provided by heterosexual couples. Similarly, some studies have shown that children raised by gay couples have a far higher tendency to be gay themselves; if homosexuality were merely a genetic disposition, this would not be the case, showing that there is in fact a significant environmental factor.

      You have a point there; I was being a bit flippant. I'm (with no valid scientific backing) assuming that there is little, to no negative effect caused by gay couples or marriage. As for child rearing, I don't see children having an elevated chance of being gay as a bad thing, no more than children raised in Catholic households are more likely to be Catholic, or children raised in Liberal/Conservative households are more likely to follow their parents footsteps.

      I'm guessing (again, science be damned! :) ) that this is mostly due to the change in social pressures. I know in the household I grew up in, my becoming gay would be a VERY bad thing, if you removed this anti-gay pressure, you probably increase the likelihood of children becoming gay. This would have nothing to do with environmental or genetic causes of homosexuality, though. Assuming it is genetic, there still are gay people who lived as heterosexuals for a long time, before realizing it isn't their thing, and visa versa (I knew a lot of gay/bi-sexual kids in high school, most of whom are fully straight and happily married by now).

      For the record, and insanely off-topic, I have severe doubts about a purely genetic/innate cause for homosexuality, and I find the attempts to quash anyone saying that sexual preference is a preference rather repugnant. Both sides likes to beat on empirical science to further an agenda. When ideals come to play, truth always suffers.

      I personally agree that the gay rights crowd should be pushing for a universal ideal of a civil union, which would have the exact same privileges and protections as a "straight marriage", instead of going the "marriage or nothing route". A partial victory, in this case, is a VERY big step forward, and probably easier to sell (though still hard, since a large portion of people aren't mad at the marriage thing, but the "gay" thing).

      Though I do think marriage should be allowed too, since there ARE churches and religions that have nothing against gay marriage. As for the "man and a woman" bit, I don't see why that is very important, it, too, is nothing but semantics. If we allow them all the rights, and privileges granted to straight "marriages", why not allow them to use the word too? My gay neighbors claiming to be married doesn't affect my own marriage.

      This, though, is a semantic argument for another day. I don't mind people disagreeing wholly on the "marriage" issue, I only take issue with people who don't want to allow gay couples the full civil union (marriage in everything but name).

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      A patriot must always be ready to defend his country against his government. -edward abbey
    274. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Oh don't pull that "freedom of religion" BS on me.

      What about those religions which practice polygamy, and are jailed for it, even when none of the women are underage? Why aren't you defending their freedom of religion?

      What about religions which regularly use intimidation and social threats to keep people from leaving? Surely you don't think it's perfectly ok for them to do that, since it's their religion?

      "Freedom of religion" should not mean "license to impose your views on others".

      Changing the definition of "marriage" to include homosexual unions is nothing more than you imposing your views on me. Why should you have the right to do that, especially since no legal rights are lost or gained either way?

    275. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I found a picture of your "wife" on facebook. You might want to think twice about whether you married your dog.

      On a more serious note, sex is unfortunately not binary. Species isn't either, but it's a heck of a lot closer. When people start being able to breed with animals then I'm sure we'll have to cross that bridge as well.

      Whether a man can marry a dog is one question. What about their off-spring? Would you let a man-dog vote? Have a right to freedom? Would you let it marry a person? What about letting it marry a dog?

      You might laugh, but that's the real question in gay marriage anyway. There's a whole range of "half-man" and "half-woman". For trolls like yourself, what about a hermaphrodite for whom neither sex organ functions. Can they marry a man? A woman? What sex would you assign to such a hermaphrodite?

      I doubt you'll take the time to think and understand this either, but biology allows for people to be born with one set of sex organs and a different set of hormones. What if your body diverged to grow a penis but your hormones went towards female? You're attracted to men, you have mannerisms of females, but you were unfortunate enough to have a penis. Why should we deny such a person's right to marry?

      We can't even decide sex for runners properly, let alone marriage.

      This is America, we consider it appropriate to have freedom of pursuit of happiness when it does not infringe on other people's rights. If you want a religious fundamentalist society you'll need to move to another country. You might want to try Afghanistan or Iraq, perhaps?

    276. Re:Turn the tables by pnewhook · · Score: 1

      I'm pretty sure it's in the Bible somewhere. Are you willing to embed within the law which recognizes gay marriage that Clergy from any religion which forbids Homosexuality cannot be compelled to sanction such a union?

      I'm not willing to embed within any law religious dogma.

      Marriages were around long before the bible, Koran, whatever, and marriages are performed outside the church system both legally (by a town clerk or ship captain for example) and culturally. The definition of marriage is not controlled by any religious group, however that group should and is able to determine who is to be married within their own belief system.

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    277. Re:Turn the tables by ukyoCE · · Score: 1

      Great post and references, wish I had mod points.

    278. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      I respect your line of reasoning. It is, in its way, very compelling. I, however, do not hold any sort of reverence for abstract property rights. Now, rights to personal property, I respect. But I believe rights to control of the means of production derive not from individual property rights, but from society. The means of production should be under democratic, not individual control.

      You see, respect for property rights above all else leads to evil, in my opinion. As Adam Smith said, "Civil government, so far as it is instituted for the security of property, is in reality instituted for the defence of the rich against the poor, or of those who have some property against those who have none at all. "

      Absolute property rights are just a way of institutionalizing power, by an elite few, over the rest of us, and justifying economic slavery as liberty.

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    279. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      I'll admit that I've never actually heard it put quite that way, so I'm curious if I'm following you correctly. If so, it's very interesting and I'm going to have to think on it.

      That is essentially what I'm saying, yes.

      My argument is that while I have no problem allowing gay couples the same legal rights and privileges as a heterosexual married couple, I simply do not want the word "marriage" applied to such unions, because to me (and the majority of Christians in the country) it would cheapen its meaning.

      Personally I would not mind if the government abandoned all use of the word "marriage" in legal documents, and applied "civil union" to all couples, heterosexual or not. This would allow churches to continue using "marriage" for their own ceremonies (many churches perform their own ceremony separate from the legally binding one anyway) while ensuring that all couples have the same rights.

      However, I don't see that as a likely occurrence, so IMO the next best option is to fix up civil unions without modifying the definition of "marriage".

    280. Re:Turn the tables by ppanon · · Score: 1

      You just confirmed GGP Electric Turtle`s post.

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    281. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      Not a legal right? To be recognized as married by an adjoining state? Are you kidding??

      Join taxes are not a legal right? The government would beg to differ with you. Ask anyone who prepares tax returns and they will tell you that you cannot file jointly unless you are married. In case you hadn't noticed, there are federal taxes in addition to state taxes unless your living somewhere I'm not aware of that doesn't require federal taxes?

      A United States citizen who is married can sponsor his or her non-American spouse for immigration into this country. Those with Civil Unions have no such privilege. This is a legal right granted by the federal government.

      As to the hospital reference, you can't be that obtuse. Do you seriously think this has happened only a single time at some remote hospital. It happens every day.

      Here's a few rights granted to married couples but denied to civil unions:
      Joint parental rights of children
      Joint adoption
      Status as "next-of-kin" for hospital visits and medical decisions
      Right to make a decision about the disposal of loved ones remains
      Immigration and residency for partners from other countries
      Crime victims recovery benefits
      Domestic violence protection orders
      Judicial protections and immunity
      Automatic inheritance in the absence of a will
      Public safety officers death benefits
      Spousal veterans benefits
      Social Security
      Medicare
      Joint filing of tax returns
      Wrongful death benefits for surviving partner and children
      Bereavement or sick leave to care for partner or children
      Child support
      Joint Insurance Plans
      Tax credits including: Child tax credit, Hope and lifetime learning credits
      Deferred Compensation for pension and IRAs
      Estate and gift tax benefits
      Welfare and public assistance
      Joint housing for elderly
      Credit protection
      Medical care for survivors and dependents of certain veterans

    282. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your example strengthens his point rather than weakening it. His argument was this:

      A heterosexual man has the right to marry any woman who agrees.
      A homosexual man has the right to marry any woman who agrees.

      Your argument, on the other hand, was:

      A black man has the right to marry any black woman who agrees.
      A white man has the right to marry any white woman who agrees.

      In his example, the "right" was the same. In your example, it wasn't. Try again.
      Mods: just because an opinion agrees with the Slashdot groupthink doesn't mean it's logically coherent.

    283. Re:Turn the tables by Lord+Kano · · Score: 1

      You should be able to marry your sister. And if genetic screenings say you won't make web footed duck babies, you should be able to have kids with her too.

      Why should anyone have the power to determine who gets to produce children and with whom?

      LK

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      "Hi. This is my friend, Jack Shit, and you don't know him." - Lord Kano
    284. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Well I'm glad you agree that marriage is defined by the state, and not by religions. Therefore, religions should have no say, this is a civil matter. The fact that your religion does not approve of gay marriage has no bearing on whether it should be allowed or not, by your own logic.

      Now, what would you call it, a privilege? If so, why should that privilege be reserved for only certain people? If a privilege, it is one that entails certain advantages, those advantages should be open to all, equally. As we have shown in court in the past, 'separate but equal' is not equal. Drinking from a water fountain isn't a right, either, yet we ruled that everyone, regardless of color, must be allowed to drink from the same fountain.

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    285. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Since the dawn of man, it has been legal and common for gays to "marry". There's record throughout all written history, including that very-recent document the Christians use as their bible.

      Having a state tell people who they can and can't spend their life with is a very recent invention. And a stupid one at that.

      Go ahead and use your "homosexuals can marry" argument for interracial marriage too. "Blacks can marry anyone as long as the person they marry is black", right? Or how about "Blacks can ride any bus as long as they ride in the back of the bus"?

      You're a disgusting troll to even attempt such flagrant "separate but inequal" tricks.

    286. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      I'll want a passage that restricts all forms of homosexuality, not just certain types of sexual practices.

      Wow. So you're saying anything not explicitly prohibited is permitted?

      That totally misses the point of Christ's teachings - obey the spirit of the law. You're merely trying to obey the letter of the law because it suits your purposes.

      If you say that NO RELIGION can practice gay marriage, no matter what their beliefs, you are limiting my religious freedom and infringing on my rights.

      I haven't said no religion may practice gay marriage. I've said the word "marriage" should not be applied to gay couples in any legal context. I fully support civil unions for gay couples - and since you refuse to try to show me rights you claim are lost by gays in that situation, I see no reason to say anything else.

      In other words, there aren't any lost legal rights, and your refusal to point out even one example is merely evidence of that. The burden of proof is on you.

      You have no right to limit my freedom of religion, get it? And you have no right to say what is and what is not a legitimate religion, says so in the Constitution.

      My religion teaches that homosexual marriage will damage the fundamental building blocks of society; as a result of that teaching, I cannot in good conscience vote for it. Who are you to limit my freedom of religion?

      Further, if freedom of religion is so important to you, why aren't you out there defending polygamists who are jailed for merely practicing their religion?

      I would not be opposed to banishing the word "marriage" from all legal contexts, and restricting all couples to "civil unions", whether or not they're heterosexual. That would solve everyone's complaints, because it would leave people free to use the word "marriage" however they see fit without any legal ramifications.

    287. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      Are there examples that would show that a major portion of others working against "marriage" for same sex couples are doing so for semantic reasons? I'm curious because this is the first time I've seen it presented this way, and I'm dubious that adding identical rights to civil unions as to marriages would resolve most of the conflict.

    288. Re:Turn the tables by Jesus_666 · · Score: 1

      The problem is that we can't get rid of the problem without getting rid of the special status marriage has. People don't want to enter a civil union, they want to marry. Even atheists who'd never enter a church get married - at least according to colloquial English.

      The fact that the religious ceremony used the term first doesn't change the fact that "marriage" is the term used to describe civil unions. A bit like how most people only consider a computer a PC if it's running Windows - technically wrong but widespread enough to be effectively authoritative.

      I don't really see a way out of the dilemma that doesn't involve ignoring someone's opinions. We can extend the marriage concept to same.sex couples but then we'd have the religious people run amok over the devaluing of their traditions. We could try to make "civil union" displace "marriage" as the desirable thing but then we'd also have the religious people run amok over the devaluing of their traditions. We can deny homosexuals the "married" title but that's not going to end well, either, and it will require existing laws to be rewritten if we want their civil unions to be legally equivalent to marriage.

      Do you see a somewhat clean way out of this?

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    289. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      You should be able to marry your sister. And if genetic screenings say you won't make web footed duck babies, you should be able to have kids with her too.

      Why should anyone have the power to determine who gets to produce children and with whom?

      LK

      Damn it, they shouldn't! I was trying to head off the 'but think of the resulting web footed duckboys!' arguments that were sure to ensue if I had just said, 'You should be able to marry your sister.' People in these kinds of arguments love to run a tangent completely out of bounds and then claim a touchdown.

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    290. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Well... I would suppose the majority of people on both sides of the argument are merely sheep following someone else's lead.

      But out of those who've actually thought about why they oppose gay marriage, the reasoning will boil down to one of two things:

      - Homosexuality is morally wrong and shouldn't be supported by law.
      - Calling gay unions "marriages" will cheapen the meaning of the word "marriage".

      The first group is, I think, smaller than the second; while I understand it, I can't say "it's morally wrong" is sufficient basis for "it should not be supported by law".

      The second group is, of course, where I fall.

      Again, I'm only talking about people who have actually tried to reason out why they support whichever side they support. It's counter-productive to factor in sheeple ;)

    291. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      First of all, all religious people are allowed to participate in all definitions of state or national law. To argue that a person, because they are religious, can not help define is to remove their freedom of speech. This is the voter intimidation tactic that homosexuals have been employing. Because a topic isn't specifically religious does not determine whether religion can be involved or not. Any person part of the democracy (who haven't had their rights removed and are of age) is allowed to participate in defining the law. No one excluded, whether religious, homosexual, stupid, etc. Marriage is a privilege that everyone is allowed to participate in, assuming they fulfill specific duties. Drivers licenses are the same thing. The people who issue drivers licenses aren't labeled as bigots or hateful. Everyone has to fit to their definition and it's only reserved for "certain people." Having a drivers license has certain advantages that are available to all, supposing they fit the requirements for that state law.

    292. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      I think that would be a fine solution, but I doubt the religious organizations would settle there either. I don't believe this has ever been 'only about the word'. They find it 'wrong' as a core belief. I honestly don't think they could ever abide by it's very existence.

      I most certainly agree that this must be federal mandate, rather than a state one. I just don't see these being treated equally from state to state without federal involvement.

    293. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      Would you be opposed to asking some people at church on Sunday how they would feel about "civil unions" being granted the same rights as "marriages" and see what their reaction is?

    294. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      A United States citizen who is married can sponsor his or her non-American spouse for immigration into this country. Those with Civil Unions have no such privilege.

      Um... what? As far as I'm aware, any adult citizen can sponsor any foreigner for immigration, assuming all the paperwork goes through...

      Here's a few rights granted to married couples but denied to civil unions:

      Virtually everything in the list can be trivially fixed without modifying the definition of "marriage", when they are issues at all. Some of them aren't even legal issues, they're corporate policy issues - joint insurance coverage, for example.

      Social Security and Medicare are both individual benefits that don't have anything to do with whether you're in a marriage or civil union. I'm beginning to suspect you're padding the list with irrelevant items...

      Anyway, assume all of those issues are completely fixed through means other than redefining "marriage". Would you still insist on redefining "marriage"? Why, if everything you're calling "rights" (which are actually benefits, not rights) are identical?

    295. Re:Turn the tables by Lord+Kano · · Score: 1

      because that's pretty much the reason being given by the homephobic population against gay marriage.

      Hey, damn it. I bought a house!

      LK

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    296. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      http://slashdot.org/comments.pl?sid=1410437&cid=29813867

      It appears that both you and HeronBladeMaster would accept this solution. However, he believes this would satisfy the majority of 'religious organizations' while you believe they would remain unsatisfied.

      I guess the next step would be to see how many people would accept this compromise. I would think the best way to find out would be to first find the largest organizations that support preventing "gay marriage", and second to contact them for an opinion on the solution. Would there be a better way?

    297. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Do you see a somewhat clean way out of this?

      Yes, but it's one neither side is proposing: abandon the word "marriage" entirely in a legal context. Replace it with "civil union" for both heterosexual and homosexual couples. Prohibit new laws from using the word "marriage", "husband", "wife", or "spouse", instead using "[civil] union" and "partner".

      That way the word "marriage" can be used by churches (or colloquially by whoever wants to use it) however desired without having any legal connotations.

    298. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Wow. So you're saying anything not explicitly prohibited is permitted?

      I don't know. It's your religion, right? What does it say, hmmmm, you tell me.

      Who are you to decide what the spirit of the law is? I say, the spirit of the law is 'love each other and treat each other as you would be treated,' and you are completely ignoring THAT, the CORE of your religion's value system, so don't even try that argument.

      My religion practices gay marriage. By restricting 'marriage' to only what your religion defines it as, you are imposing your religious beliefs on me, and limiting my religious freedoms.

      You can vote however you like, and espouse whatever kind of bigoted, hateful crap you like. You are even free to cloak it in spurious and unsupported arguments about religion and God, if you like.

      I AM a polyamorist, ten years into a man-woman marriage, two years into a man-woman-man relationship. I DO advocate for poly marriage rights, as much as for gay marriage rights. So, looks like someone kinda got egg on their face there, trying to appeal to a prejudice that simply doesn't exist in me.

      Now, I would be fine with your last suggestion as well, as long as two men married by a church could call themselves married, if they got a civil union from the state and a separate marriage ceremony from their church. There are two parts to marriage, the part the state has an interest in, and the part religion has an interest in. If they were fully separate, I would be fine with that. But my religion is legitimate, and it practices gay marriage, and I will continue to use MY definition of marriage, not yours. You do not get to impose your religious beliefs on my religion, no matter how you try to justify it, you can't do it thanks to the Constitution.

      You say your religion teaches that homosexual marriage will damage the fundamental building blocks of society. Fine, that is a minority opinion even in Christianity, but whatever, people are allowed to be wrong. You don't say how, or why you think that, except that your religion told you so. I say the institution of marriage is a stabilizing factor in society, regardless of the sexual orientation of the participants. Married people are more stable, contribute more to society, are less apt to engage in risky behavior, and care more for their community in general. They provide more stable family situations to any foster or adoptive children they may take in. All in all, marriage is a benefit to society, and there is simply no good reason to restrict anyone who wants to engage in it from doing so. In fact, restricting marriage in any way is against societies best interest.

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    299. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      And of course after replying I realized I'd missed the sentence where you suggested the idea. Silly me ^_^

      Personally I think the religious among us would be more amenable to this idea than to redefining the word "marriage" to include homosexual couples.

    300. Re:Turn the tables by Omestes · · Score: 1

      The bible never stated that marriage was limited in any way other than between a man and a woman.

      Whose bible? I don't believe one bit in the Bible, therefore its rules don't apply to me. If I wrote book promoting gay marriage, and questioning heterosexual marriage, and then formed a legally recognized religion, would you have a problem with me fighting to ban straight marriage?

      The bible has NOTHING to do with politics, there even is a bit in the US Constitution saying so, and where I come from the US Constitution is far more important than the Bible.

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    301. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Sure, I'll see if people will answer me. It's considered vaguely impolite, though not taboo, to ask people political questions at church ;)

    302. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      I think the "straight" crowd has done quite enough to 'cheapen' the word marriage with the gameshows like "The Bachelor", "How to Marry a Millionaire", ad nauseam.

      How much 'cheaper' can you get then a gameshow? I think we've lost all right to refer to the sanctity of marriage.

    303. Re:Turn the tables by j-beda · · Score: 1

      I know of no state that allows first cousin marriages where it is possible for there to be off-spring. Please cite for any state you think does.

      Humm, a google search on "first cousin marriage" turns up

      Where it is stated:

      26 states allow first cousin marriages; most people can marry their cousin in the US.

      No European country prohibits marriage between first cousins. It is also legal throughout Canada and Mexico to marry your cousin. The U.S. is the only western country with cousin marriage restrictions.

      It is estimated that 20 percent of all couples worldwide are first cousins.

      The list at http://www.cousincouples.com/?page=states seems to show a number of states that allow unrestricted marriage between first cousins: AK, AL, CA, CO, CT, FL, GA, HI, MD, MA, NJ, NM, NY, NC, RI, SC, TN, VT, VA and Washington DC, with links to the appropriate state laws on marriage and incest at http://www.cousincouples.com/info/statelaws.htm

    304. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      I know of no state that allows first cousin marriages where it is possible for there to be off-spring. Please cite for any state you think does.

      Sure thing.

      First cousin marriages are legal with no restrictions at all in:

      Alabama - Alaska - California - Colorado - Connecticut - District of Columbia - Florida - Georgia - Hawaii - Maryland - Massachusetts - New Jersey - New Mexico - New York - Rhode Island - South Carolina - Tennessee - Virginia - Vermont

      And with some restrictions (like no double-cousins, age restrictions, sterility, etc) in:

      Arizona - Illinois - Indiana - Maine - North Carolina - Utah - Wisconsin

      http://www.cousincouples.com/?page=states
      http://www.ncsl.org/default.aspx?tabid=4266

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    305. Re:Turn the tables by Omestes · · Score: 1

      I believe gay marriage is negative to the society as a whole and proud to say it.

      Good for you, and I believe in the tooth fairy, and am proud to say it. Which gets me to the exact same place you are. more accurately: I believe straight marriage is negative to the society as a whole and proud to say it*.

      You cannot make an external claim that has a truth value provable by empirical observation, and claim it as a fact, without that observation. In other words: "[citation needed]" And no, saying you believe it, have faith in it, your church, book, parents, favorite radio host, or the tooth fairy said so, doesn't matter. You made a measurable external claim, and thus need to supply some basis for the statement.

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    306. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Nobody is saying trying to limit what you say. You, a human, have freedom of speech. A 501(c)3 corporation is not a human, and has more limited rights. A religious person may help shape the law, a tax exempt religious institution may not, and that IS the law. Your religious institution is not allowed the privilege of tax exempt status while advocating for changes in the law.

      Assuming for the moment that you are right and that marriage is a privilege, you need to show why we should restrict certain people from enjoying that privilege. And, as marriage is a privilege granted by the state, religion has nothing to do with it. It is not a religious matter, marriage is a matter for the state. If you can't show a reason why gays should be restricted from marrying other gays, then you have no case.

      What 'duties' does marriage legally entail, that gays can not fulfill? If you can not show any, then we have to assume your drivers license comparison is spurious, because we can show logical reasons for every person we restrict from having one.

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    307. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      I say, the spirit of the law is 'love each other and treat each other as you would be treated,' and you are completely ignoring THAT, the CORE of your religion's value system, so don't even try that argument.

      I'm not ignoring it, but there is far more to Christianity than "treat people how you want to be treated". I don't think that line of conversation will be very productive, though, all things considered.

      You don't say how, or why you think that, except that your religion told you so.

      No, I didn't, but all you have to do is ask ;) Link: Proclamation on the Family.

      You do not get to impose your religious beliefs on my religion, no matter how you try to justify it, you can't do it thanks to the Constitution.

      Yet it's ok for you to impose your religious beliefs on me?

      Now, I would be fine with your last suggestion as well, as long as two men married by a church could call themselves married, if they got a civil union from the state and a separate marriage ceremony from their church.

      I'm glad we can agree on something :)

    308. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      Unless you hadn't noticed, it's the religious right who is redefining marriage with these 'defense of marriage' acts. They did so after the courts started legally recognizing these gay marriages because there was nothing in the law defining marriage between a man and a woman.

      Do you really believe that just anyone in the US can 'sponsor' someone and get them through immigrations that way? You can via marriage. You cannot simply pick someone and sponsor them in any other manner.

      You seem to be the only one not offering up any facts. Do your own homework.

      What is the difference what word they use. These folks only want the same rights granted to any married couple.

    309. Re:Turn the tables by agm · · Score: 1

      The government (and in this case I'm referring to the US government) is socialist - it seeks to limit the freedoms of otherwise free people. This is but one example. You are right though - marriage should have absolutely nothing to do with the government. It's none of their business.

    310. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      I think the "straight" crowd has done quite enough to 'cheapen' the word marriage with the gameshows like "The Bachelor", "How to Marry a Millionaire", ad nauseam.

      I agree...

      I think we've lost all right to refer to the sanctity of marriage.

      ... but I disagree with this. You're saying other people acting like morons means I can't try to maintain the sanctity of marriage?

    311. Re:Turn the tables by MBGMorden · · Score: 1

      You are correct, though they're in a minority there in placing such a restriction. Most states that do allow it (which a majority do) don't place any restrictions, which is because as I mentioned earlier, from a biological standpoint, it's not as risky as most people think. The children of such a pairing has a have a chance of birth defects compared to other couples that really doesn't warrant any extra concern. It's pretty much a cultural taboo/social stigma against it that doesn't make it more common.

      As I mentioned Charles Darwin and Albert Einstein both married their cousins, and elsewhere in the thread another poster points out that it's estimated that with the practice being far more common in other cultures, as many as 20% of couples worldwide are first cousins.

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    312. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      I believe they are trying to do just that by defining these civil unions in Washington state. It appears the religious groups simply feel they don't have the support to block it because they would appear to be discriminating and taking away rights.

      Time will tell as to what happens.

    313. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Denying marriage to polygamous families is just as wrong as denying it to homosexuals.

      You have it backwards. I don't care how you define 'marriage,' but you are not allowed to impose your definition on me. That is what you are trying to do, and you have the utter hypocrisy to claim that by refusing to let you impose your view on me, I am the one imposing my view on you.

      If you can't see the complete lack of logic there, I can't really help you.

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    314. Re:Turn the tables by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      You sir seem to grasp exactly what I was trying to say, and said it much more eloquently then I could.
      Thank you very much.

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    315. Re:Turn the tables by agm · · Score: 1

      What about bigamy? Why should the state be able to outlaw a "marriage" that involves more than two people? My opinion is that it's none of the state's business, and people should be able to enter into any relationship they like and call that relationship what they like, so long as the people involved are consenting adults.

    316. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      I might remind you that the very thing your asking is what this thread is about. They are asking for 'civil unions' in Washington, and the religious right is still fighting it.

    317. Re:Turn the tables by Coren22 · · Score: 1

      From a non foaming at the mouth religious, I agree with the above statement :)

      I think many people took me to be a raving loony with my above comment, and missed what I was trying to say, and said lower down. I even got a troll mod for it, which I probably deserved. But I fully support civil unions, it is when the word marriage is used that I have an issue.

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    318. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      Because it's the current law. You don't have to come up with "logical" reasons except that the democracy has determined it to be so. If you want to be convincing, you can add logical sense to it but that doesn't mean they are incapable of doing so. This is the same as whether illegal immigrants should be allowed drivers licenses or not. They are fully capable of driving, and some believe they should be allowed to and some don't believe it. Yet the LAW SAYS THEY CAN NOT. Marriage at the moment legally entails that a man and a woman be required to be married. Gays can fulfill this requirement if they wish to be married - but otherwise they are not fulfilling the law. Therefore, my driver's license comparison is not spurious. What this means that the logic for a religion to support marriage as defined, in the state, between man and a woman is as legitimate as any other concern revolving around it. You saying that religion can't be involved (which it can) is saying that religious persons can not vote based on a religious conviction. This is not true. Actually if you read that IRS law it says that institutions CAN participate in advocating positions. However they are limited on the amount of effort they can put into it. Read the law yourself before you go spouting off the same ridiculous arguments that have been heard for months. :)

    319. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Many private institutions such as employers only recognize marriage for certain benefits, and hide behind the "well you're not really married" defense to cover their bigotry.

      As far as employers go, I am fairly confident that most could care less about whether you are gay or not. They use ANY defense to deny benefits because it SAVES MONEY.

      (Not to say that the law isn't wrong).

    320. Re:Turn the tables by Jhon · · Score: 1

      1) "rights" have limits. Don't believe me? Express your 1st amendment right by yelling "FIRE!" in a crowded theater.
      2) Under the constitution, marriage *IS* currently equally applied under the law. I cannot marry a man. All men cannot marry men.

      If you don't like #2, explain how taxes are "equally applied" to everyone in the US? If I earn more, a proportionally greater amount is taken from from me than someone who earns less. How is that applied uniformly? What about my "right" to keep a proportional amount equal to everyone else of what I earn? Isn't that discriminating against class?

      A progressive tax can be and *IS* a social good and has been allowed under the constitution using the exact same reasoning as #2. Likewise, at the federal level, you'll see the exact same treatment of marriage. Just see the recent California ruling from SCOTUS.

      Stop being blinded by ideology and use your brain. Stop trying to paint people you disagree with as evil hatemongers!

    321. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      Is there more information about who is fighting the civil unions other than the creator(s) of the website in question?

    322. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      You cannot simply pick someone and sponsor them in any other manner.

      I know an older couple who spent a few years in the Dominican Republic. While there, they sponsored several Dominicans to travel to the U.S., and I don't mean on vacation. I don't know that any of them applied for citizenship, but that's a relatively small step over getting an extended travel visa.

      What is the difference what word they use. These folks only want the same rights granted to any married couple.

      Well that's exactly the point. Personally, I support civil unions for gays, and if necessary, those civil unions can be fixed to allow the same benefits as a marriage. However, it makes a big difference what word is used for those relationships.

      In addition to cheapening the meaning of the word "marriage" in the minds of many religious people, it could have various legal ramifications against churches that teach homosexuality is immoral.

      For example:

      Churches in the U.S. are currently allowed to have any member of their clergy perform legal marriages in addition to whatever religious marriage rites they may perform. If "marriage" is legally defined to include same-sex couples, then churches that refuse to perform same-sex marriages could lose the ability to perform legal marriages, because it could be considered discriminatory.

      In other words, the government would be dictating what a church has to believe in order to have its clergy officiate marriages. I hope you'll agree that would be discrimination based on religion.

    323. Re:Turn the tables by geminidomino · · Score: 1

      I would not be opposed to banishing the word "marriage" from all legal contexts,

      This.

      Marriage is a religious concept. It has no place in secular law. Let ALL mid-to-long-term parings be "unions" in the eyes of the law, and let the individuals and their own incarnations of Magic Sky daddy worry about whether it's a valid "Marriage" or not.

    324. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      That is what you are trying to do, and you have the utter hypocrisy to claim that by refusing to let you impose your view on me, I am the one imposing my view on you.

      Federal law currently defines marriage as a union between a man and a woman.

      Who, exactly, wants to change it, thus forcing everyone to change their definition of "marriage"?

      You want to force me to change the existing legal definition. If you don't see how that's imposing your views on me, I can't really help you.

    325. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Well, it really is the best way forward on this. The government issues civil union contracts for anyone, granting them all the same rights, like hospital visitation, inheritance, things like that, that are the concern of civil government. Religions that have an opinion on it can issue their own marriage contracts to whoever they feel qualifies, with whatever rights and responsibilities the religion is concerned with. Getting a religious marriage license does not mean you have a civil union in the eyes of the state, or vice versa. If you want both, you get both. There are plenty of churches and pastors out there that will marry gays, right now, today, if you ask them to. 'Marriage,' in that system, would not mean anything special to anyone outside of your religion, it would be a religious agreement. If a particular religion wanted to marry cats and dogs, that would be fine, because the religious contract would carry no legal rights, and 'marriage' would be a legally meaningless concept.

      Ah. You are a Mormon. Just so you know, the man my wife and I are dating was a Mormon. He's still Christian (some would say, NOW a Christian, as most Christians don't think you guys are) but he goes to a more tolerant Lutheran church now.

      We hear ALL about your religion from him. Not that there's anything wrong with it. Just that, you know, all the, hmmm, silly little things your religion advocates? I know ALL about them. Even the patently ridiculous ones you wish people don't know about, the stuff that could get you excommunicated (you guys are plain CRAZY for that one, eh?) for talking about, yeah, we know that stuff.

      Hope the magic underwear isn't bunching up too badly.

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    326. Re:Turn the tables by NiceGeek · · Score: 1

      Logic fail anon. Also at least I have the integrity not to post as a coward.

    327. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Right, so you'd be fine with the country changing its mind and democratically granting the right to marry to anyone. You aren't even presenting an argument anymore, you are just stating, 'this is how things currently are.' Well, duh. Yes, we know that's how things are, and I, for one, have presented an argument, that is, a series of assertions and logical connections leading up to a conclusion, as to why things should change. You, on the other hand, have not presented an argument as to why they should stay the same. Just to be clear, 'that's the way things are' is not a reason why things should stay the same.

      I'm not saying religion can't be involved. I'm saying, tax exempt 501(c)3 corporations, including tax exempt religious institutions, are limited by law in advocating legislation, unless they want their tax exempt privileges taken away. If a religion does not care about 501(c)3 status, it can advocate whatever it likes, but if it goes around collecting signatures to change the law, it is in violation of the law. Which is all the gay activists were pointing out. They just want justice to be applied impartially, and the law is the law, right?

      I mean, let's put things in perspective, YOU were the one bleating about the nasty gay activists trying to silence you, right? Which is a blatant misrepresentation, those gay activists just want the law, as it currently stands, applied impartially, and you, by your own logic, are all for that, so we've got no argument on that count, right? The gays are right and you know it. Tax exempt churches collecting signatures to change laws are breaking the law, and should lose their tax exempt status.

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    328. Re:Turn the tables by Forge · · Score: 1

      Find a city where gay marriage is allowed and homosexuality has full legal protection. Then talk to the clergy in that city.

      There have been lawsuits against clergymen who won't marry gays, against churches that won't make space for such ceremonies, against church run orphanages that will not offer children to gay couples etc...

      Like I said in the beginning. Gays already have the right to be gay and go screw each other (Except in Iran). The debate in the west is about restricting the rights of other people to object.

      BTW: Try to express yourself without foul language. It makes your point look weaker than it has to.

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    329. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Just that, you know, all the, hmmm, silly little things your religion advocates? I know ALL about them.

      I honestly have no idea what you're trying to refer to. Feel free to post a list here, or e-mail me, or whatever.

      Even the patently ridiculous ones you wish people don't know about, the stuff that could get you excommunicated (you guys are plain CRAZY for that one, eh?) for talking about, yeah, we know that stuff.

      I'm unaware of any LDS teachings that I would wish hidden from public knowledge (and I'm quite confident in saying you don't know anything I don't know). Further, I don't think there's anything truthful I could say about the LDS Church that would result in excommunication.

      And, for clarification, there's no such thing as "magic underwear"; if your former Mormon friend calls them that... well, for his benefit, I'll assume he's ignorant, rather than malicious. They serve the same purpose as a Protestant minister's collar - they're simply a reminder to be faithful to God's commandments.

    330. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      I love when people resort to sexual harassment. If you do a brief study of the Bible you'll find that the "magic underwear" is hardly magic, and is a symbol that is consistent with scripture. The Hebrew word that translates into "skins" that Adam and Eve wore also stands for "under garments". Stop talking about peoples underwear in a public setting, I can't imagine anything more rude. Mormon theology is consistent with scripture whatever you might want to think about it. If I wanted to sit around and destroy 'other' Christians it would be too simple to do so.

    331. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      You are stating one thing and then arguing another. YOU CAN PUSH LEGISLATION AND BE A TAX EXEMPT CORPORATION! IT SAYS IN THE LAW ITSELF. You are limited in the amount of funds and effort you put into it, not which laws you are allowed to push for. Therefore the LDS Church broke no laws, and the homosexuals fail to inform their people that the law has not been broken and continues to attack the church on a basis that they themselves claimed was not their purpose for Proposition 8. And no, I wouldn't be fine with the country changing it's mind, because I disagree with it. But if it changed it would be necessary for me to comply with it. You are allowed differing opinions. However, since it's not a RIGHT -- key word here -- that means the state must define what it is and WHAT REQUIREMENTS must be made to qualify for it. If it were a RIGHT then the state could NOT pass laws governing this.

    332. Re:Turn the tables by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      Marriage is a right, but is currently witheld as a license.

      The actual purpose of marriage is to create a more stable society - your fallacy is that it has nothing to do with procreation. That is the *religious* impetus behind it, however religious concerns are of no importance here, whatsoever. Religions co-opted marriage however it is, at heart, civil.

      You have also singularly failed to show any *harm* in this - how does this harm you? And if you cite "lack of offspring" then I assume you wish to annull the marriages of anyone who doesnt produce offspring within, say, 2 years of marriage?

      Straights have royally fucked with marriage, now I want (and actually have done - in the UK) to be able to show you how much better it can be done. Your attempt at pretending it is "recreational" tells more about your lack of emotional or mental maturity than you might expect.

      It is not a preference, it is inate, But then you wouldnt understand that as you have no doubt never actually thought about your own sexuality.

    333. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      I don't want to change people's definitions of marriage, I just want to change the law. You can go on defining it however you like, but I don't want you continuing to impose your definition on me. You are conflating 'definition' and 'law' as if they were the same thing, they are not. The law says a corporation is a person. Would you define a corporation as a person?

      You are trying to continue to limit my freedoms, without justification. I am not trying to impose anything on you, if you want to keep on considering marriage to be between a man and woman only, be my guest. I just refuse to allow you to continue to force your religious beliefs on me.

      Yes, I want to change the law. That's how a democracy works, we get a say in shaping the law. You can advocate to keep it the same. We'll see who wins, won't we?

      But you keep switching back and forth between personal definition and law, between what is and what should be, between democracy and religion, without stopping to consider the boundaries you've crossed as you do so.

      If this is a democracy, and law is only what the citizens say it is, as limited by the Constitution, then you can't claim the moral high ground over the definition of marriage, as that definition comes from a vote, and we can just vote it out. If your side turns out to be the minority, it would be really, really gauche to turn around and try to claim oppressed minority status, to claim that the majority imposed its will on you. Yes, if we do force our will on you, we force our will on you, as intended by our founding fathers. That's how democracy works. You can't pick and choose, upholding it when you win, reneging on the agreement when your side loses. By participating in our Democracy, you agree to follow the laws the majority sets, until and if you can get them changed.

      In the end, I fail to see how changing this law imposes anything real on you. It would mean you need to, OH MY GOD! change the definition of a word. Oh no. Horrible. I'd just kill myself if I had to change my definition of a word! Nothing would require you to actually do anything. Or not do anything. In fact, aside from having to acknowledge that the majority as changed our definition our definition of word, and that the law has changed, nothing at all would be required of you. You wouldn't even need to change your definition of marriage. You could continue to say, 'To me, and to my religion, marriage means one man one woman.' Nobody would stop you. You could even look a gay couple in the eyes and say, 'In my eyes, you two aren't married and you are living in sin.' No one could stop you.

      I have demonstrated that changing the law would not require you to change anything, but would allow others more freedom. And you are against that. While I support your freedom to express your opinion, my opinion is that your position is immoral, tyrannical, oppressive, bigoted, closed minded, petty, and mean.

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    334. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      As the stated reasons for opposition are specifically moral, I think the question would be appropriate.

      This quote, while not by any means a signed and official decleration, is something to be aware of.

      http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/public-issues/same-gender-attraction

      PUBLIC AFFAIRS: Would you extend the same argument against same-gender marriage to civil unions or some kind of benefits short of marriage?

      ELDER WICKMAN: One way to think of marriage is as a bundle of rights associated with what it means for two people to be married. What the First Presidency has done is express its support of marriage and for that bundle of rights belonging to a man and a woman. The First Presidency hasn’t expressed itself concerning any specific right. It really doesn’t matter what you call it. If you have some legally sanctioned relationship with the bundle of legal rights traditionally belonging to marriage and governing authority has slapped a label on it, whether it is civil union or domestic partnership or whatever label it’s given, it is nonetheless tantamount to marriage. That is something to which our doctrine simply requires us to speak out and say, “That is not right. That’s not appropriate.

    335. Re:Turn the tables by Twanfox · · Score: 1

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Separate_but_equal

      When you use different terms for different groups of people, you set the stage for something close, but not quite. It imparts a measure of control to those that define the terms and the rules. With 'marriages' and 'civil unions' as terms in use, I can now say that married couples can have this right, but fail to grant it to civil unions. This is a Very Bad Thing (tm). Either heterosexual couples need to give up the idea of 'Marriage' as a term they live by, or they can grant homosexual couples the same privilege and allow them to use the same term.

      You might think that is just a terminology mismatch, but terminology is very very very important in the legal word. A corporation is a person with respect to the law, even though that term 'person' would never be applied to a corporation in the every day world. Laws must be carefully worded to avoid granting rights to all legal persons if the intent is to apply them only to a flesh-and-blood person. Since this whole debate is surrounding the legal implications of a union between two individuals, the terminology used must be considered.

      The gay community is aware of this Separate but Equal idea, and they're pushing to use the same legal definition so that they cannot be segregated as they know has been done in the past. This is not stupidity on their part, this is a fair bit of wisdom based on the historical behavior of this society. So far, I haven't heard (possibly through simple ignorance) of any locale that has implemented civil unions for homosexual couples granting 100% of the same rights as those heterosexual couples that have been married.

      If you feel compelled to prove me wrong, please also look for the frequency which that occurs. A one-off place that does it would not be sufficient proof that it was implemented properly everywhere.

    336. Re:Turn the tables by virg_mattes · · Score: 1

      > "Consenting Adult" in some countries is a 14 year old. In some Mexican cities, it's 12. If you want to draw a line in the sand with your "consenting adults", you'll soon see that where you are will quickly become "bigotry and close-minded" and a progressive movement will move to alter the definition of the line you've drawn.

      Age of consent is not the same for legal purposes as "consenting adult". Since we're discussing where I'd draw the line for a law, it's reasonable to stick with the definition as it stands in the country in question. Since we're discussing marriage as a legal construct, and "consenting adult" is a legal construct, it's accurate for the purpose.

      > Besides, the fact that you say "consenting adults" is biggoted, unfair, and close-minded to those who practice beastiality and statutory rape. They are people too, are they not? Who are you to say they can't show their love like you can?

      Nice try, but the flip side is what burns you. One half of the bestiality pair isn't "people", so that part falls to pieces. Also, we're discussing marriage, which is a legal construct, so incorporating animals (which can't participate in contracts) and chidren (who can't participate in contracts) doesn't make any sense.

      > Face it, when you call someone else a monster, someone behind you is calling you a monster. the only difference is that the person who YOU are accusing is not trying to take some "open-minded" highground.

      Sorry, but restricting consenting adults from doing something that other consenting adults can do without question is discriminatory. There's no basis for prohibiting same sex marriages between consenting adults when opposite sex marriages between consenting adults is not prohibited. That's the only parallel that fits, and again, your attempt to insert animals and children fails to rebut the actual argument because it's specious.

      > Instead of arguing for the right to call a homosexual union a "marriage", the gay rights movement should be arguing for equal treatment of those unions to allow jail visits, hospital visits, burial rites, etc. The Women's Suffrage movement didn't fight so the word "male" would also mean "female". Picking your battles is 90% of the recipe for any political success.

      I entirely agree, but the word that the law uses for such unions is "marriage" and until that changes for everyone, it's should be available to anyone. Forms from the IRS say "married". Insurance companies say "married". Military benefits say "married". That's the legal term, and civil unions to date have been "seperate but equal" in the same way that the old racial "seperate but equal" constructs were, which is to say not equal at all. If governments are going to insist on using the word, then it should be equal. If not, then governments should eject it from their nomenclature.

      Virg

    337. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      Your whole argument only works if marriage is a RIGHT and not a privilege. You can't argue that we are taking away your freedom when it's a privilege and not a right. In the end, you are still working under the assumption that in any circumstance, everyone should be allowed to marry. That's just not the case. This is the equivalent of arguing that a driver's license is a right, when certain people are restricted from getting one. It's not protected in the constitution and it's not a RIGHT. Cite where it's a right, you have yet to do so. Also, you fail to recognize that changing the law would require significant change for churches. State law can supercede religion and therein lies the problem. Churches would be forced, against their religion, to perform marriages of homosexuals or NOT PERFORM THEM AT ALL. Changing the definition of marriage would affect their rights. I agree with you that there could be a system to protect religion and homosexual civil unions, but re-defining marriage alone does not accomplish this.

    338. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I know what garments do. He doesn't call them magic underwear, I do.

      Anyway, you guys really got your scripture out of a hat? From one guy translating a language no one had heard of before, using magic lenses? And when a clever skeptic claimed to have lost the translation, and asked your dude to retranslate, he got furious and claimed that, because she lost the translation, God had changed things and he couldn't retranslate the same way? And you BELIEVE all this?

      And God Sent Jesus to America, but no one except you guys have ever heard of it? And the 'Red Man' is somehow cursed, and a lesser person, for what reason, exactly?

      You honestly have no idea to what I am referring? No clue why the majority of Christians, let alone anyone else, thinks of your church as a cult that grew too big, a legal hustle for con men, something invented out of whole cloth by a guy who just wanted to marry lots of women? Do they not let you watch TV in the compound? Not to be a bigot or anything, I think most religions are as wacky as yours, but you guys don't have the best reputation amongst other religious types.

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    339. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      A clever skeptic who stole records, manipulated them before asking for another translation, as a device to prove Joseph was wrong even if he re-translated exactly the same again? Yeah, you really convinced me there.

      The Mayans, Incans, and Aztecs all have legends of a Great White God who will visit them -- and many of their descendants have stories and beliefs that it occurred. Many Native American tribes also have similar legends but you choose to be ignorant of that. Apparently they aren't "people" since you refer to them as "no one".

      No official doctrine has said that the "Red Man" is cursed and a lesser person for any reason at all. Cite your source please. Individual people can be cursed for various reasons, that have nothing to do with skin color.

      Many people believe that Christ's church was a cult and that it was becoming a huge legal and political hassle, and they were persecuted for it just as Mormon's are and were.

    340. Re:Turn the tables by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      No, the debate is *why the fuck doi you WANT to restrict it*?

      Seriously - WHY are you so bothered? How does two people living together, creating a stable family home, bother you when its two people of the same gender? And why should I care that you are bothered?

      Essentially - why do you have the right to interfere with others?

    341. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      You guys are BOTH Mormons? I should have guessed. You guys got schooled on the marriage thing WAY back, and if you can't have your fun, why, no one else can, either.

      Wait, sexual harassment? Where did THAT come from? Man you religious types love your persecution complex, don't you? Although, to be fair to the other Christians, I probably shouldn't group you in with them. You know they don't want you guys, right? According to them, you aren't even Christian, you're just some cult that got lucky.

      Look, you Mormons are the ones who think talking about underwear in public is rude, because no matter how you try to defend it, you know how your little customs look to outsiders. Especially Christians.

      We in the modern world have no qualms talking about our underwear. Mine are Haines boxer briefs and they are quite comfortable. Do you know, I'm allowed to take them completely off? Anytime I like? I don't have to wear them around one leg when I'm in the shower. It's awesome. I also don't have to leave one pair around one leg as I start putting another one on the other leg. You see, I don't use my underwear to repel sin, so there is no requirement that I keep at least one pair of magic sin repelling underwear on at all times.

      Okay. I should stop now. I should probably apologize, too. I'm sorry. That was mean. Look, I really try to respect people's religions, even though I don't agree with them, or think they are goofy. Religions are all equally goofy to me, but I'm glad you have one if it makes you happy.

      It's just, you know, you guys have a history of being oppressed for your religion and I'd expect a little more sympathy out of you. Why do you continue to try to fit in to a Christianity that rejects you? Let's team up, we can get gay marriage for the gays and polygamous marriage for you guys!

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    342. Re:Turn the tables by jdcope · · Score: 1

      Let's take away your ability to marry, and then see if you might be so inclined to lash out in any way. Perhaps when your loved one is dying in the hospital, and you are not allowed to go see her. Would you sit quietly by? I doubt it.

      Wait...they have the right to marry anyone they want. Always have. Marriage is the function of the church, not government. Now if you want to benefit from the financial incentives provided by the government, then thats different. But dont say they are not ALLOWED to get married. And not allowing them to visit someone in a hospital is a policy of the hospital, not government.

    343. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      +1 Honest

    344. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Yes... that is certainly something to be aware of.

      I hesitate to publicly disagree with my church leaders, because I strongly believe they are literally chosen by God through direct revelation... and as such if they say "X is unacceptable to God" I must either believe them or be a hypocrite.

      In any event it seems I need to ponder the issue some more...

    345. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      As a Summary:

      1. I agree that homosexuals should be afforded the same privileges as heterosexual couples. This does not have to be done through re-defining marriage.

      2. You still refuse to cite anything that says marriage is a right.

      3. When confronted with the fact that the tax exempt law does not render a corporation unable to push legal legislation, you ignored it and moved in instead of accepting that homosexuals are wrong, and have been wrong, because they haven't read the law themselves.

      4. You refuse to accept that religions and religious people are allowed to vote how they feel on a matter based on a moral perspective.

    346. Re:Turn the tables by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      The right to be with the person you love is a natural right

      Do you even have a logical argument as to why marriage should be so restricted? Or just a knee jerk one based on religious indoctrination that has no place in any rational debate?

    347. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      Okay, I'm willing to agree that marriage is a privilege, granted by the STATE. So, we can use our democratic process to change the criteria for privilege, and you can no longer claim the religious high ground, because you've just discounted it.

      It does not matter whether marriage is a privilege or a right, gays want it, and you haven't stated why gays should be denied the privilege. Remember, 'that's the way things have always been' is not a reason why things should stay that way. And while "I don't like it" is certainly a legitimate personal reason to oppose something, it won't go very far in converting the undecided.

      No, no law could possibly require churches to perform gay weddings against their will. Separation of Church and State. It would require a constitutional amendment, and last time I checked, your side was the one pursuing that option.

      --
      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    348. Re:Turn the tables by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

      No, it is not equal:

      Heterosexuals can marry the person they love

      Homosexuals cannot.

      I pity the US: so backwards.

    349. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      This argument holds no ground in light of the Catholic adoption agencies who were required to shut down or give children to homosexual couples. They opted to shut down, because adoption is a STATE law not protected by the constitution in religious matters.

      This same line of thinking could be applied to marriage, so yes it could happen. It already has. It will continue to do so.

      I can claim the religious high ground. I can completely and utterly support a law on a religious basis alone. I morally (all laws are moral) believe that it is wrong.

      The same thing happened with consented suicide. It was determined that it was wrong. Even though /both/ adults consented to it, it was decided to be wrong. Suicide is decided to be wrong. Yet you can really only consider these wrong from a moral perspective. These examples, in the same essence of homosexuals, do not effect other people except perhaps emotionally. They chose in and of themselves to participate at no harm to anyone else. Abortion laws follow the same line of thinking.

    350. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      Volunteering information about underwear is different than walking up to someone and asking about their underwear. In any workplace environment today you would be INSTANTLY fired for sexual harassment when it was reported and verified. No qualms about it? Yeah right. Get a reality check.

      You show your ignorance and obliviousness by your statements. A person claiming to be a member of the church and having experienced these things would know that you aren't required to always have them on, 100% of the time, even when you're in the shower. You friend, like most ex-Mormons, is stupid and spreads things he knows to be lies. That, or either he or you are liars -- very likely, and you don't have a friend because you've made it clear that you don't know what you are talking about.

      Persecution complex? Have you had the cops escort you out of a city because you were exercising your freedom of speech and religion? When confronted about it, the cops had to let us back into the town. Have you ever been threatened by a man holding a log, with a gun at his fingertips, because of your beliefs? I've had trash thrown at me, insults yelled from cars, and ACTUAL occurrences (most homosexuals live in "fear" of these things happening, and yet I experienced them).

      Mormons were mistreated, and continue to be mistreated. In what way was it right for the homosexuals to break into LDS churches and spray paint and damage them? In what way was it okay for them to call black people "niggers" as a form of retaliation for being called "fags" (which the LDS church has never done)? In what ways was it alright to spray paint the walls surrounding the temple buildings? In what ways is it right to lie and manipulate facts to their followers to get more support?

    351. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      Well, we'll see who wins this fight, won't we? Obviously, you know which side I'm rooting for. In the long run, my side wins. The younger generation just doesn't care. Homosexuality has become commonplace, routine, accepted. They are not growing up with a culture of hate and fear. They accept homosexuality. Your side has already lost. It just might take a generation for it to catch up with you.

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    352. Re:Turn the tables by natehoy · · Score: 1

      Because marriage imparts certain legal, financial, and societal benefits. Among them are:

      1. Common Property: If you are married, your spouse automatically gains control over your common goods and property if you should die or become incapacitated, bypassing the probate/estate system. This means that, as one example - in the case of the death of one parent, the other immediately gains control of all assets so they can continue raising and caring for their children.

      2. Tax incentives: There is usually a "break" given to married couples in their taxes, the theory probably being that getting married means that there is a higher likelihood that one of them will work to support both of them. In case of a loss of one job in a two-person household, it's a lot less likely that one person will go on welfare. There is also an implied societal benefit in a stable household to raise kids.

      3. Access: If your spouse is sick, you are allowed to visit them in the hospital. Many hospitals have "immediate family member only" policies for things like Intensive Care. That is usually defined as a parent, child, sibling, or spouse. In many cases, Girlfriend/Boyfriend/Domestic Partner need not apply.

      4. Insurance pooling: A married couple can purchase family health insurance, which is almost invariably cheaper than two individual plans, and is generally available most affordably though an employer. See #2 - if only one has to earn wages and get health insurance, there's a lower likelihood that the other will have to go on Medicaid as well as Welfare.

      "Marriage" is dual-purpose term. Some see it as a religious term, others as a civil term. In reality, it's both, and has both meanings (in many cases simultaneously).

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      "This post contains words, known to the State of California to cause thought. Wash brain thoroughly after reading."
    353. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Since the government has said corporations are people, does that mean I should be able to marry Google?

    354. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      Okay, point by point.

      1. I agree. But you haven't presented a case NOT to redefine marriage, and I have presented a case for redefining it, which can be encapsulated by 'Separate but equal is inherently unequal.' Look it up, it's kind of a famous case.

      2.) It doesn't matter whether marriage is a right or not. The whole concept of rights is just a semantic game played by the powerless to try to convince the powerful not to screw with them. We are a democracy, so whatever the people say, goes (so long as it follows the constitution. If you want to change THAT, you need a lot more people to agree.) The real issue is the rights that come with marriage, if we can get those, the rest is not as important, except that the definition of marriage as 'one man, one woman' is the law of a particular family of religions, and by imposing that religious definition on all of us, you are restricting our freedom of religion.

      3.) We agree about tax exempt law, okay? 501(c)3 organizations are restricted in what they are allowed to do. Certain people felt that certain 501(c)3 groups that happen to be religious went beyond that, and they brought it to the attention of the authorities. Nobody was trying to restrict religion, just the actions of 501(c)3 organizations they believed were breaking the law.

      4.) I never even implied what you state here. OF COURSE religious people should vote their conscience. BUT, as I said before, tax exempt 501(c)3 organizations can lose their tax exempt status if they cross the line, and that is not persecution of religion, it is THE LAW.

      Well, it's almost time to go home. Lucky for me, I'm a very good sysadmin and most days, I don't have much to do because everything is just running smoothly. It was nice debating with you. While I disagree with you, I'm glad we both live in a country where we can have these kinds of arguments. That is something we can both feel good about. Public policy debate by regular old citizens like you and me is the rock we grow our Republic on. Remember that, whoever wins this one.

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    355. Re:Turn the tables by marshzd · · Score: 1

      Have a great day. :)

    356. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      I could agree with that if there was some great outcry from these same folks when all of those ridiculous game shows hit the air. There was none that I'm aware of.

    357. Re:Turn the tables by spun · · Score: 1

      I thought only pinko lefty hippie PC police were allowed to whine that the phrase 'don't get your panties in a bunch' is sexual harassment.

      If the incidents you mention actually happened, that was wrong. All I can say is, people get angry when they feel that other people are trying to tell them what they can and can't do. Not an excuse, just an observation.

      Most homosexuals I've known have had FAR WORSE things happen to them at least once in their lives.

      Look, I know you aren't allowed to talk about what you really do in your religion, which means you are kind of required to call me a liar, so I forgive you.

      --
      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    358. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Anyway, you guys really got your scripture out of a hat? From one guy translating a language no one had heard of before, using magic lenses?

      Sure, if you count a dialect of Egyptian as "a language no one has heard of before".

      As for "out of a hat", you can believe what you want. We believe Joseph Smith translated the text from plates of gold; three witnesses have their testimony published in every copy, in which they state that an angel showed them the gold plates and told them they were from God.

      All three of those witnesses later left the church over non-doctrinal disagreements; however, all three of them stood by their testimonies regarding the Book of Mormon's origin until their death. One even went to great personal expense to correct a pamphlet claiming he had recanted - he hadn't - despite the fact that he wasn't a member of the church anymore.

      he got furious and claimed that, because she lost the translation, God had changed things and he couldn't retranslate the same way?

      That's not what he said at all. He was fully intent on retranslating the lost text; however, God told him not to, because the old manuscript had fallen into the hands of someone who had modified it in order to "prove" that the text had changed.

      In other words, text A was produced. The current possessor changes it, producing text A'. If Joseph were to produce text A again, the other person could provide A' as "proof" that Joseph produced a different text the second time, even if the second text were the same.

      Further, what he translated next was not a modified version of the original. He merely continued where he left off.

      And God Sent Jesus to America, but no one except you guys have ever heard of it?

      Nobody? On the contrary - there are plenty of native american legends of a white God who visited them, and will visit again. Why do you think they thought the Europeans were gods when they showed up (at least at first)?

      And the 'Red Man' is somehow cursed, and a lesser person, for what reason, exactly?

      That's not doctrine - it's taking scripture out of context and applying it somewhere it doesn't belong. Neither the Book of Mormon nor the LDS Church teach that idea. (I know where the claim comes from, and I'll be happy to elaborate if you wish.)

      something invented out of whole cloth by a guy who just wanted to marry lots of women?

      Are you aware that there is no evidence Joseph ever had sex with anyone other than Emma? Why would anyone marry lots of women and then never sleep with them, if not because God commanded it?

      You can't claim to be in a polyamorous relationship (however you spell that) and then make fun of Joseph for teaching polygamy - it's hypocritical.

      Do they not let you watch TV in the compound?

      Wow. There is no "compound". I really hope you don't actually believe that.

      but you guys don't have the best reputation amongst other religious types.

      That's because they refuse to bother understanding what we believe. For example; plenty of people say we're not Christian; if worshipping Christ as our one and only Savior and Redeemer (and the only path to God) doesn't make me Christian, then nobody on the planet is Christian.

      It's easy to think poorly of someone you don't bother to understand.

      So yes, I understand exactly why people regard my church with disdain. It's because they're too lazy to ask us what we believe - instead they ask people who make it their goal in life to drive people away from our church.

      To make my point clearer: if I want to know something about Coca-cola, should I ask Pepsi? If I want to know something about Obama, should I ask McCain? If I want to know something about Mexicans, should I ask the guy down the street who publishes anti-Mexican propoganda?

      Then why do people refuse to ask Mormons what Mormons believe, and instead ask those who have made it their goal in life to spread confusion and often blatant lies about the LDS Church?

    359. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      From TFA (see the Seattle Times link):

      "A group called Protect Marriage Washington circulated a petition to put the domestic partnership law before the voters. Under the Washington state constitution, voters have the power to reject any law through the referendum process."

      These people are not trying to defend marriage.

      Just in case you missed it in the other link, the folks who put up the website displaying the petition names are actually for civil unions, just to clear that up. I think the intent was to shame the folks who actually signed the petition to get this on the public ballot in hopes of defeating this civil unions bill.

    360. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      It comes from the moral decay of society.

      Once premarital sex was accepted as normal, there was no reason to complain about shows like The Bachelor, since premarital sex cheapens marriage far more than shows like The Bachelor could have.

      Before you ask, yes, my wife and I waited until we were married.

    361. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      "In addition to cheapening the meaning of the word "marriage" in the minds of many religious people, it could have various legal ramifications against churches that teach homosexuality is immoral."

      Again, you are attempting to add a religions 'moral' laws which are religious in nature into a public law, which would be government sponsored religion.

      In every state that has passed civil unions laws, churches have been protected from being forced to perform these unions if it is against their religious beliefs or values. You're throwing up arguments which frankly have no standing.

    362. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      I wouldn't ask such a question. It's none of my business.

      Now I think we're getting to the meat of it. You indicate it's a moral decay of society. Unless I'm unaware of it, there are no laws against pre-marital sex. You are again, trying to force your religious laws into government. If a person does not follow your religion, whatever that may be, or if they follow no religion, you believe they must follow your religious teachings?

      Do you see the quandary in that? No one is forcing you to have pre-marital sex, and by all means don't if that's what you believe is right, just as no one should force them not to have pre-marital sex if they don't believe it's wrong and harms anyone (it doesn't unless you can point out some sort of statistic that indicates otherwise)?

    363. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Sure, those protections might exist currently for civil unions. If, however, existing marriage laws are to be reinterpreted to include homosexual couples, then a church's ability to perform marriages must also be reinterpreted (legally speaking) since it is a law that deals with marriage.

    364. Re:Turn the tables by geekoid · · Score: 1

      There are a number of reason, well documented. Look them up.

      For one, consider that without government involvement, people who do get married wouldn't be married in every state, would be discriminated against by groups who think two specific people shouldn't be married and such.

      --
      The Kruger Dunning explains most post on /. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect
    365. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      By "moral decay" I was simply referring to the moral trends of society over the last 200 years. Moral standards have broken down, relaxed, and in some cases have been removed entirely.

      You can't fault me for simply observing that truth. It's not really specific to religion, it's specific to society as a whole.

      just as no one should force them not to have pre-marital sex if they don't believe it's wrong and harms anyone (it doesn't unless you can point out some sort of statistic that indicates otherwise)?

      I guess teen pregnancy and STDs aren't statistic enough? ;)

      Point being: if nobody had sex until they were married, the STD and teen pregnancy rates would be zero. You'd have to be crazy to say that would be a bad thing.

      (You're going to mention condoms, I'm going to mention psychological issues inherent in young people having sex, etc etc, it goes on forever. Point is, the whole mess can be avoided, and young people don't know the risks well enough to make an informed decision.)

    366. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      Actually they already did include homosexual couples. You forget that states had to pass the DOMA laws to specifically say 'between a man and a woman'.

    367. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      I know what garments do. He doesn't call them magic underwear, I do.

      Those two statements are contradictory, you know. There's nothing magic about them, so if you call them magic then you clearly don't know what they "do".

      Do you call Protestant ministers' collars "magic collars"?

    368. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Technically they didn't exclude homosexual couples. There's a difference. The DOMA merely clarified what was previously thought to be "obvious" (since up until shortly before that time, nobody had thought to apply "marriage" to homosexual couples in a legal context).

    369. Re:Turn the tables by penguinbrat · · Score: 1

      Your religion is not the only one, and the Constitution protects all religions equally. My religion recognizes same sex marriages, and performs said ceremonies. By denying me the right to call what my religion does 'marriage' you are infringing on my freedom of religion.

      Great, I'm happy for you - seriously, you have a belief that your particular religion 100% supports and backs. Although, how can you possibly believe that you are NOT pushing your beliefs and religion onto others when yours is right and every one else is wrong?!?!

      Sorry, you lose and my right to religious freedom wins. Ahhhh, love that US Constitution, don't you?

      Ironically, this does have everything to do with religious freedom, and your again ignoring (or it's escaping you) the issue with terminology and the definition of marriage. Some very prominent religions forbid divorce, while others at the same scale allow it with out any issue what so ever - both having very different definitions of what marriage is suppose to be. As such, your beliefs have introduced another core fundamental difference - which from your use of words is obviously perfectly fine for you but apparently others who believe differently not only are the flat out wrong but they are bigots. Again, your the one forcing your beliefs on others - or they are labeled.

      This is probably going to go over your head, (again) but I'll say it anyway - this is all about terminology. The government crossed the line a ways back when it endorsed, sanctioned and gives breaks to those in such a union - crossing the line when it comes to "separation of church and state". They should have instead had the "civil union" introduced, since in the eyes of the government the backing of a religion should be irrelevant and not tolerated - otherwise you get BS like this. The governments use of the term marriage instead of civil union, is the cause of everything around this. Since it uses a term from religious backgrounds - it merges church and state. As such, since your religion condones acts that fundamentally change the definition of what marriage is for many others, the terminology needs to be addressed as it's not the religious background that is relevant to the government nor should it be.

      As you are proving with the name calling and labeling - ideals, beliefs and religious aspects are being introduced and argued upon solely because you need your beliefs to be accepted by the government due the one word - "marriage". If the government did not use the term, but instead the "civil union" for all religions, this would have come down to yet another splintering of religious sects. But because the gov uses the term, and the term has deep roots in many religions - and because your beliefs differ so much on those core roots, you have no choice but to change those core roots. Your use of name calling and labeling so eloquently proves my point - as petty as it is, your arguing that your beliefs and religion has the right to exist, in which there is no reason why it can't - although it -is- fundamentally different at certain levels and since the government uses the same terminology as this core belief, you have no choice but to re-define this terminology otherwise why in the hell would you care? What did you expect when you tried to redefine such a core belief in so many people? Jeeze, when Pluto was declassified as an actual planet many people flipped out about it and that belief was no where near the scale of what marriage is...

    370. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      Law is never 'obvious'. It is very explicit. The law as it was in these states did not define it between a man and a woman. The religious right did that.

    371. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      You're telling me that a hundred years ago, when laws were written that include the word "marriage", they did not have in mind a heterosexual marriage?

      If you believe that, you really need to brush up on your history.

    372. Re:Turn the tables by Forge · · Score: 1

      Essentially - why do you have the right to interfere with others?

      Because granting legal recognition immediately leads to prosecution of churches who disagree

      --
      --= Isn't it surprising how badly I spell ?
    373. Re:Turn the tables by melikamp · · Score: 1

      To quote drsmithy from this very thread: "Overall, marriage creates a 'stronger' community. On a more individual scale, married couples generally live longer, make more money and and have higher employment rates. Additionally children brought up by married couples tend to have better health, better school results and fewer problems with the law."

      But married couples also tend to be better for the community in general, more productive, more stable, contributing more wealth.

      I had to step back because this statement seems to be very reasonable. Let's just assume that it is true for now and not be overly skeptical. But then it is the classic marriage that does these things for us, not the new marriage being proposed. The stability results, imho, from the common understanding of marriage as a very long term union between one male and one female for the purpose of procreation and child-rearing. To be sure, people marry for other legitimate reasons, but that is irrelevant because we are just looking at the factors which contribute to the economic prosperity of all. It seems to me that this marriage really works as a package and relaxing some of the conditions actually ruins the economic argument, since marriages are only as stable as people believe they should be. In particular, any marriage that does not have a far-reaching, hard-to-achieve communal goal as its core purpose will lack stability. (The argument for a same-sex marriage is therefore weakened because it lacks the procreative function, but I am willing to overlook that because it is more of an issue of technology and price now. That is, in the future, making a new baby won't require "two parents", only two cells or even two data files.)

      There are other positive externalities of marriage besides children.

      So it seems to me that these positive things are externalities of a marriage-for-the-sake-of-raising-children. Let me tell you then what I think should be done, and please do provide some feedback if you feel like it.

      I think that we need to be more careful than ever with this stuff, since there are so many unknown factors we are messing with. Not only we are not justified in propping childless (by design) unions, we are hardly justified in propping the ones with such intent, the way we do it today. We should still do it, imho, but be smarter about it and make adjustments to account for our understanding of the danger of overpopulation. I agree (in contrast with my beliefs a few years ago) that same-sex couples should be treated equally when it comes to child-rearing rights and benefits. There is a bit of an icy slope here I'd like to explore: if we say that two consenting loving adults are a right kind of environment to raise a child in, would it not be true for three or four consenting loving adults? And then, should we have a "civil union of two to five" instead of "man and wife"? I think it follows that we do, but is five the right number? This is a very large social experiment.

      And my other main point is that "civil union" is just so much better than "marriage". This is gotta be the stupidest thing the movement has done: instead of asking for equal treatment, they went for "marriage", which is basically a patched-up male property right. What I envision is a civil union of two (or more?) people who get to be treated as a single unit economically and legally if they so desire. That alone already provides them with an economic advantage, so there is no need to make them even stronger at the expense of the loner. We still need the loner to keep the people market liquid. Some people just like to solo, let them.

      If the union declares an intention of raising children, more help is given, since we all believe that families should raise children, with government being the only default option, and not the choice one.

      But no, that's almost too easy. Instead, the program is to further patch marriage, against the overwhelming

    374. Re:Turn the tables by Taevin · · Score: 1
      OK, I'll post without foul language (gosh I keep thinking Slashdot was an adult place--must have been all the goatse that threw me off).

      Find a city where gay marriage is allowed and homosexuality has full legal protection.

      Well that's the problem, now isn't it? Even when these things are made legal, they still exist in a lesser form to heterosexual marriage. It may be that way in the few states that have legalized gay marriage (like Vermont) but I do not live in those states nor have I conducted enough research to say with confidence that gay couples are equal to straight couples there.

      There have been lawsuits against clergymen who won't marry gays, against churches that won't make space for such ceremonies,

      I have not heard of such a thing happening but if it did, I'm sure the lawsuit fell flat on its face. If it didn't I'll come right out and say that while I support gay marriage, that by no means gives homosexuals or the government the right to dictate how a religion may view a practice or that it must perform a certain ritual on a certain set of people. That's just as wrong as saying gays don't deserve the same legal rights.

      against church run orphanages that will not offer children to gay couples

      I'm fairly certain that while the orphanage may be run by a religious institution, that organization is running it on the behalf of the government which entails certain rules and regulations that must be followed. If the government decides that children may be adopted by homosexual couples, it is discrimination for a government sponsored program to deny that right.

      The debate in the west is about restricting the rights of other people to object.

      No, it's not at all. What you're saying is that your right to object also includes your "right" to restrict the rights of others.

      As I and others have said, no one really cares that you object or find it abominable that gays are having butt sex somewhere. Thank God we live in a country that your right to object is upheld. Perhaps soon we'll also live in a country where a person's right to declare their life partner is also upheld.

    375. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      Homosexuals haven't always been viewed the way you view them now. I would suggest you brush up on your history. It doesn't matter how they were 'viewed'. Unless your claiming the ability to read dead people's minds, then the law as written didn't specify.

      Unless the supreme court comes in at some point and defines it as such, then you really don't have a legal leg to stand on.

      I follow no religion and have no moral obligation to restrict what they do. Are you going to claim your reasoning is not due to your religion? I will ask again: do you think it's right to apply your religion to others who don't follow yours?

    376. Re:Turn the tables by RobinEggs · · Score: 1

      Quit using the tired ad hominem that because some conservative bigots are philanderers no one can calmly or logically disagree with gay marriage.

      Hypocrites are not always wrong, and not all who disagree with gay marriage are philandering hypocrites.

    377. Re:Turn the tables by RobinEggs · · Score: 1

      You should be able to marry your sister. And if genetic screenings say you won't make web footed duck babies, you should be able to have kids with her too

      Actually, some geneticists and anthropologists are starting to wonder if genetic damage and recessive genes are really the underlying reason for the taboo on incestuous marriages. It might just be why we thought the taboo came about. Yes, there are several obvious cases of royal families screwing themselves to hell with inbreeding, but nevertheless inbreeding is not the near guarantee of massive birth defects people think it is. Not even close.

    378. Re:Turn the tables by melikamp · · Score: 1

      First we segregate women, simply because we can. Then we divide them in a way that actually maximizes the number of unions and the genetic variability (good math, men), and finally we pass property laws to protect male bloodlines.

      Back then, from men's point of view, it is imperative to know who the father is, on pain of being a sucker who raises other's child. Hence women became property, not to be shared for any reason. Without sharing, the marriage is the optimal solution as it pairs up everyone in a population where boys and girls are born at the same rate.

      With DNA testing being affordable as it is, this concern no longer exists. With no constraint on women, the genetic variability would peak if no two people had more than one child together. This can be implemented easily by having couples stay together and swapping sperm. Or partners, if you are into that kind of thing ;)

    379. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      Ah, I did miss that, although it doesn't really change anything. (I'm really curious how the name posting lands as it is a privacy issue I've long wondered about, and I am in government.)

      What I really wondered about was how many people is this? Are there 50 people fighting the civil unions, or 50,000? I'm curious just how many people the 'religious right' is that your referring to.

    380. Re:Turn the tables by doktor-hladnjak · · Score: 1
      Two things:
      1. Many gay couples already have and will continue to have children regardless of legal recognition of their relationships.
      2. Most gay couples don't have children and will not have children in the future regardless of legal recognition of their relationships.
    381. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      From the intro, it does not appear that the comments are in any way officially LDS backed comments, rather it is a transcription of a friendly internal interview, and the specific speaker appears to be a few levels from the top. At best, it appears to be the informed opinion of someone familiar with the inner working of the LDS church and gospel. At worst, it is the misled opinion of a man.

      I found the transcription by searching Google for '"civil union" site:lds.org' and that was the only relevant result. That would lead me to believe that the LDS church has no official stance on civil unions.

      I still believe your comments stand, though as a question. Would allowing a contract called "civil union" that is functionally identical to "marriage" dilute the meaning and importance of "marriage"?

    382. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      120,577 required signatures.

      I'm unsure as to how many they actually acquired but it appears they needed at least that many to get on the ballot.

    383. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      I will ask again: do you think it's right to apply your religion to others who don't follow yours?

      I think the only fair way to run a country is for the morals of the majority to apply to everyone.

      It is unfair to force the majority to view (through the law) as "acceptable" a behavior that is a) thought of as immoral by that majority, and b) only practiced by four percent of the population. (Four percent was the figure I found a few months ago. If you have another figure, feel free to present it.)

    384. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      One of the interviewees in the linked article was Elder Oaks, who is a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, which (along with the First Presidency) runs the Church; one would assume he approved of Elder Wickman's comments, given that they were interviewed together.

      In any case, the interview can be taken as the Church's official stance; read the end of the second paragraph (emphasis mine):

      The transcript of the interview appears below in order to help clarify the Church’s stand on these important, complex and sensitive issues.

      The article itself states that its purpose is to clarify the Church's position on these issues. Furthermore, the article is posted on the Church's "Public Issues" site, which states:

      The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has issued official statements regarding many of the social issues of today. Several of these statements are collected here.

      "Same-Gender Attraction" is fourth on the list that follows.

      It is a stretch to take this article as anything but the Church's official position on the matter, so the answer to the question at the end of your post is, from the Church's official standpoint, a resounding "yes".

      I would not have given the same answer earlier today... but who am I to argue with God? ;) As I said in an earlier post, there is much to ponder.

    385. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      So you also believe that African Americans should not marry whites? They were also a majority when those laws were passed.

      I also wasn't aware that any of these laws were 'forcing' you to marry another man or woman of the same sex? How would you feel if the current 'popular' religion said that all men will only have sex with other men? Would you comply because the majority told you it was your moral obligation?

      That nagging 'All Men are Created Equal' nonsense...

      First you argued that civil unions were the same. You've given up on that and tried the 'it's not a legal right' argument. Now you're just saying it should be so, because the religious majority doesn't like it. Religion doesn't dictate law and for a very good reason. Take a look at the middle east if you need a good example of where that leads. You find it convenient because you may be in the 'popular' religion.

      Pity about all those other religions. I guess they will just have to ditch their beliefs and follow yours since just 'right'.

    386. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      First you argued that civil unions were the same. You've given up on that and tried the 'it's not a legal right' argument.

      Well when you keep ignoring me, I have to try another tactic.

      If you're saying it's unfair to impose the morals of the majority on the minority, how is it somehow more fair to impose the morals of the minority on the majority? (Making something law is imposing those morals on everyone.)

    387. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      Ignoring you? I gave you..how many posts of facts? I haven't seen a single one from you, other than the fact that you believe homosexual marriage tarnishes the idea of 'marriage' and some off the wall percent of people who 'practice' homosexuality, whatever that means.

      You would have America run by mob rules? There is a reason for law as there is a reason for separation of church and state. If you can't see the very necessity of that separation, and that it gives you the very rights you would usurp, then I can't help you.

      How is a civil union or equal rights bill forcing you to marry the same sex? Can you point one of those out? I must have missed it. They don't force you personally to marry these folks. They don't force your churches to marry these folks. They don't harm you in the slightest.

    388. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      It wouldn't force me to personally marry another man, no; however, it would force me to accept as a legitimate marriage a relationship which I do not view as a legitimate marriage.

      This becomes problematic in cases like adoption agencies which believe gay couples cannot provide an adequate child-rearing environment. If "marriage" is redefined to include homosexual couples, then those agencies could not use that as a basis for decision - even if it's a legitimate basis - for fear of discrimination lawsuits. (And don't tell me "well good, that is discrimination" unless you can show me evidence that such an adoption agency would be conclusively wrong. Hint: there is no study that would support your claim.)

      If you don't see a problem with shutting down adoption agencies for something like that, then I think we're done here.

    389. Re:Turn the tables by bmajik · · Score: 1

      My contention is that property rights are the justification for the idea that man owns himself. The alternative is that man does not own himself, rather, that he is owned by society.

      I think if one considers that man doesn't own himself, then the discussion about the meritousness of homosexual civil unions cannot have any connotation of individual rights; if man is owned by society then he has no rights; he has only the priviledges that society affords him. And thus, who may have what priviledges is a moving target depending on the whims of society.

      I think at some level, we agree that man owns himself and "some" property.

      Let me attempt to dissuade you from the "means of production" argument. I have been conditioned from experience to immediately associate "means of production" and "democratic ownership" as keywords that indicate socialistic thinking, and tantamount to socialistic thinking is the refutation of the individual [after all, society is superior to the individual, this in essence is the key to socialism]. The illustrative argument here is that suppression of the economic individual for the benefit of society -- undertaken as central economic planning -- must always, without fail lead to totalitarianism. This is the insight of FA Hayek's "The Road to Serfdom", and I am not aware of a credible refutation of his basic argument.

      But warring ideologies aside, I'd contend that the whole "means of production" line of thinking is inappropriate.

      What are the means of production? I would assert that throughout the history of humanity, there has been only one means of production and one avenue of creating wealth or value. And that of course is the ingenuity of the human mind. The soil produces nothing. The factory produces nothing. The hands, ultimately, produce nothing. It is the human mind from which all production, wealth, progress, and value flow. And the key difference is that human ingenuity is [b]unbounded[/b]. This is why wealth is NOT a zero sum game [new ingenuity will always be injected wherever it is not suppressed via coercion].

      The key innovation of the free market system and of property ownership is not that it penalizes the many for the benefit of the well-monied or the property owning class. Rather, it reinforces the truth that a man owns himself, and the most valuable possession of man is his intellect, and its output, his ideas.

      We infact see that in highly-free socities where there is no coercive agent [be it governance, religion, or private cartels [although these latter two are typically powerless without the collusion of the first]] to suppress man's ability to act upon his intellect, that there is an explosion of wealth creation. Not wealth transfer, but new wealth created wherebefore there was none.

      And as such, we also see that unlike continental europe, where the fortune 100 of today might be dominated by the same bloodlines of 100 years ago, that the turnover of wealth through the society and through classes of people is extremely fluid. Many of the richest american companies of today did not exist 50 or in some cases 10 years ago.

      Intellect is a beautiful entropy source for society, as the rich of today cannot imbue their offspring with it beyond the know limits of genetics [interesting side discussion: the legality of maintaining nepotism via genetic enhancement].

      The equivalence of ingenuity and wealth has done more to combat nepotism than any well-intentioned reformer has ever acheived. And so long as the agents of coerciveness -- governance -- let the intellectual man own himself and his ideas, the dystopia you speak of where the few own the many will not come to pass.

      All of this -- all of the value in the history of mankind -- hinge on the ideas of man. Incentivize him to cease thinking at your own peril.

      --
      My opinions are my own, and do not necessarily represent those of my employer.
    390. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      It doesn't force you to accept anything. Your signature is not required on your neighbors marriage license, nor is your consent, as frankly it would be none of your business.

      No study? Seriously, do you even read the news?

      http://prorev.com/2009/09/study-gay-adoption-doesnt-harm.html

      http://www.reuters.com/article/lifestyleMolt/idUSTRE58O3MK20090925

      http://archives.chicagotribune.com/2008/sep/25/local/chi-gay-adoption-25-sep25

      http://www.adoptioninstitute.org/policy/2006_Expanding_Resources_for_Children.php

      Yes, it would be discrimination, just as it would be discrimination to prevent a mixed race couple from adopting. The burden of proof lies on those trying to prevent it. Any non-partisan study you find will show the same result. The children grow up to be normal, well adjusted children with no ill affects.

    391. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      Any non-partisan study you find will show the same result.

      Any study that has contradictory findings must be fatally biased?

      If that's truly your opinion I have no reason to listen to anything else you have to say.

      The second link is simply a news story about a study which concluded "We found that sexual orientation of the adoptive parents was not a significant predictor of emotional problems", which is a far cry from concluding that homosexual couples provide an equivalent child-rearing environment.

      The first link is merely a re-posting of the second link. (Did you just Google something and post the first four links you found? You should at least read your sources before you post them.)

      The third link says only "But findings by a nonpartisan adoption group being released Thursday conclude that gays and lesbians are an important resource for children awaiting adoption." That is not the same thing as "they provide an equivalent child-rearing environment"; it could merely mean "we have too many kids, and it might be better to place them in a sub-par home than make them wait."

      The fourth link you provide is the only really relevant one. Though the author lists studies both for and against gay adoption, some of which reference or contradict each other, his conclusion boils down to this:

      "I believe the pro studies, not the con studies."

      How, exactly, is that an authoritative conclusion? Some guy working for the Adoption Institute says he believes one set of studies over another, so I should just believe him?

      The fact is, there are many studies out there which contradict each other. I told you that you would not find one that conclusively proves your point; none of your links have contradicted that. The fact that some of those studies contradict what you believe does not mean they are biased, partisan, or flawed.

    392. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      Official statements from the LDS church are not given interview style. I read it simply as an interview that was transcribed to help give clarification, but not to state official doctrine.

      For example, these statements were from high up the chain, but are now regarded largely as wrong opinion.
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blacks_and_The_Church_of_Jesus_Christ_of_Latter-day_Saints#.22Curse_of_Cain.22_and_representative_of_Satan

    393. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      If it weren't an official statement, it would not be listed on the Church's website in a list of official statements ;)

    394. Re:Turn the tables by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      And now in typical style, you simply ignore the facts. You don't think any of these studies might note if they found any significant reason for homosexual couples to not adopt? Perhaps it's because they found the children turned out the same regardless of the parents sexual orientation? Did you expect them to become super children or to excel in all areas of learning and emotional growth? They turned out to be normal children as one would expect given a loving home.

      Perhaps you should actually read the studies.

      I found no where in the last link that had contradictory study information.

      Have you even posted a single relevant link to this discussion? By relevant, I mean accepted studies by non-partisan groups. Your arguments lack any foundation in fact. Your dislike of gay marriage is simply because your religion dictates you should. You refuse to accept any facts presented, or rationalize your religious views regardless of the facts presented. This in and of itself is the danger of allowing religion to establish law.

      You're obviously intelligent. I find it curious listening to you rationalize any argument you can come up with against each fact presented to you. You also jump to another topic as soon as facts are posted negating your arguments.

      Here are the findings from the final link. There are no contradictory results:

      In an effort to inform the debate, the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute has conducted an extensive examination of the relevant issues, laws and practices, and available research spanning the last several decades. This effort - which represents one of the broadest, most thorough reviews and analyses to date on gay/lesbian adoption and parenting - is part of a larger, more detailed project that will be completed and released in several months. This paper, meanwhile, is intended as an overview that serves two principal functions: to inform and provide context for the often-fractious debate over gay/lesbian adoption currently taking place in our country; and, most important, to provide information that can be used to shape best practices that focus on providing boys and girls in the child welfare system with safe, committed and enduring families.

      Principal findings

              * Against a backdrop of increasing public acceptance, social science research concludes that children reared by gay and lesbian parents fare comparably to those of children raised by heterosexuals on a range of measures of social and psychological adjustment.
              * Studies are increasing in number and rigor, but the body of research on gay/lesbian parents is relatively small and has methodological limitations. Still, virtually every valid study reaches the same conclusion: The children of gays and lesbians adjust positively and their families function well. The limited research on gay/lesbian adoption points in the same direction.

              * Though few states have laws or policies explicitly barring homosexuals from adopting, some individual agencies and workers outside those states discriminate against gay and lesbian applicants based on their own biases or on mistaken beliefs that such prohibitions exist.

              * Laws and policies that preclude adoption by gay or lesbian parents disadvantage the tens of thousands of children mired in the foster care system who need permanent, loving homes.

    395. Re:Turn the tables by Eskarel · · Score: 1

      Well that's actually not even remotely true. Not all societies are patriarchal, majority patriarchal societies are actually fairly recent in that kind of context.

      The number of wives and/or husbands has differed during that same period, as well as the rights and/or responsibilities of all parties to the marriage have changed, as well as who performed the marriage and under what circumstances.

      At some periods of time in various societies and social groups, marriage to close kin(including siblings) was not only common practice but actively encouraged.

      This idea that marriage has had some single definition since the dawn of time is rather silly and the only way you can possibly believe that is if you view the world from the rather narrow perspective that God created Adam and Eve defined marriage for them in the Christian style and everyone who wasn't Christian(or I suppose Jewish prior to that whole change) just doesn't count. I suppose this works, but by that logic I can argue that people have accepted gay marriage since the dawn of time by defining the dawn of time to be where I want it to be and people to be who I want them to be. My argument doesn't work any better than yours.

    396. Re:Turn the tables by williamhb · · Score: 1

      That's a nice story, but unfortunately, it IS a civil process. It doesn't matter what it was 2000 years ago, 500 years ago, or 5 years ago. It doesn't matter who 'invented' the word "married", or what it meant to Jesus, the planters peanut guy, or whoever.

      What is relevant is what it is right now. As far as the 'church' is concerned, it's just a word. Legally it is a whole other issue which has nothing to do with the Church.

      Actually that's not true. Legally it is seen as both a religious and a civil rite, and that's where the tension lies. Legislation in most countries specifically recognises the right of religious ministers to perform legal marriages (without requiring a separate "celebrant" licence from the government). Even the US, which legally recognises foreign marriages, thus *legally recognises* foreign religious ministers as empowered to conduct marriages by virtue of their religious office. Thus *today*, *legally* it is an issue that certainly does have something to do with the Church.

      In fact, most churches only object to homosexual civil unions, except that equality politics would then push for them to be called "marriages". The issue being that so far as the church is concerned, marriage is specifically a religious sacrament, and a civil ceremony (even between a heterosexual couple) is viewed as less than a Christian marriage. The Christian marriage is between three parties: the husband, the wife, and God -- "...therefore what *God* has joined let no man separate..." whereas a civil ceremony is simply a civil ceremony. Churches haven't objected too loudly about heterosexual civil unions being called "marriages" because historically most civil unions were still religious (marriages at sea were not necessarily atheist) and because they would like to attract the couple into the church and turn it into a marriage. But that's not really possible if the civil union is opposed to church law (homosexual, close-relation, multiple partner, or various other banned unions).

    397. Re:Turn the tables by HeronBlademaster · · Score: 1

      You're obviously intelligent as well, yet I find it curious that you blindly assume that every study that contradicts your opinion must be "partisan". (I think you mean "biased", but even biased studies are relevant, even if they're less relevant than unbiased studies.)

      I didn't say the fourth link itself gives contradictory results; I only said the the report cites studies on both sides of the debate - studies which obviously contradict each other. And yet when the report makes its conclusion, it merely chooses to believe the pro-gay-adoption studies without really explaining why.

      More accurately, the bulk of the report is made up of "there's this study against it, but there's this other study that contradicts the first study, so the second study must be right" - that's hardly concrete logic. I could just as easily reverse the order of the studies and have the report give the opposite conclusion.

      We're not getting anywhere, so I see no reason to continue this discussion.

    398. Re:Turn the tables by lactose99 · · Score: 1

      It's hypocritical to profess to follow a particular set of religious teachings if you're blatantly ignoring the parts of those teaching which are inconvenient for you.

      Most modern religions did exactly this with the same core tenants a LONG time ago.

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    399. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      If you look at the other links in that list, they all follow the form of an actual statement of stance. The "Same-Gender Attraction" link is completely different, and is clearly (IMO) not a statement of stance, but rather some helpful informed opinions.

      In either respect, before you go changing your opinion, you should contact the Public Relations department responsible for that website and verify that page is an official stance of the LDS church. They are open 8:00 AM to 4:30 PM MST at 1-801-240-1000.

    400. Re:Turn the tables by atamido · · Score: 1

      A rather bizarre website, but it's not that interesting to get signatures on a petition. People say all sorts of things to get signatures, so I would guess many of the people that signed did so under a question like, "Do you want to keep the state from taking away marriage? Sign here." The real question is, "how many people have this view" instead of "how many people could they get to sign the petition."

      On interesting thing on the front page of the website is

      SB 5688 is a 110 page document which includes the phrase "marriage shall apply equally to state registered domestic partnerships" 180 times.

      I can't verify if it is true, but it seems as if their issue is the semantics of using the word "marriage". Wouldn't it be easier to drop that verbiage from the bill and pass it? I'm fairly certain that Slashdot is not the source of grand political ideas, so I would think others have thought of it and rejected it for some reason.

    401. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The story at the link you give does not say what you imply. A church (as in a religious group) was not forced to perform a gay marriage. Nothing even close to that happened. The question at issue in the court case was one of the use of public spaces and the definition of what constitutes a public space.

      The particular public space at issue was owned by a religious group and that religious group objected to use of the space by homosexuals to hold a marriage ceremony. The judge ruled that given the nature of the space, it was indeed a public space, regardless of the fact that it was owned by a religious group, and as a public space, to ban the homosexuals from using it was discrimination. I don't know enough about the case to have an opinion about whether or not the judge was right that the space in question is a public space, but no one forced the religious group to hold a gay marriage or any other particular ceremony, nor did anyone force the religious group to recognize the marriage of the homosexual couple.

    402. Re:Turn the tables by 10Neon · · Score: 1
      It's a widely-held social taboo. Incest has been a no-no since before anyone knew anything about a "gene pool" and before it was widely-known that it led to increased rates of deformities. It's not a big deal in some cultures, but in our Western, historically Judeau-Christian culture, there are strong social rules against it. It's more of a religious thing than anything else.

      While I don't deny that there are likely actual biological reasons for people actually not preferring mating with family, the actual reasons for the laws have nothing to do with biology, and everything to do with history.

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    403. Re:Turn the tables by TheTurtlesMoves · · Score: 1

      So if you marry your sister and don't have any kids? So either get the snip or get a genetics test to ensure low risk.

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    404. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of course you are assuming in your analogy that people can choose to be black or white (I've never seen anyone with those skins colours, though some Africans come close to black and some Finnish I've seen are pretty close to white!).

      One can choose what sexual activity one partakes of.

    405. Re:Turn the tables by Vahokif · · Score: 1

      Do you think biology has no influence on history?

    406. Re:Turn the tables by Forge · · Score: 1

      1. that was only the 1st story. Read the rest.

      2. The public space in question is a church. After all the church owns it and keeps functions there, including church services.

      3. They weren't forced to perform a ceremony. The court can't force you do anything (Except die or live in a cage). What it can do is impose consequences on you for failure to do what is commanded. In this case the court ruled that they no longer had none profit status. It is estimated that, that will cost the church $20,000 per year in perpetuity.

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    407. Re:Turn the tables by celtic_hackr · · Score: 1

      Sorry, misinformation. This is not a legitimate cite. Go read the actual laws. None of those states allow fullblood first cousin marriages that would produce off-spring. I've seen this site also, but they don't show you the actual laws. That site is mere hearsay.

    408. Re:Turn the tables by jayme0227 · · Score: 1

      Hypocrites aren't always wrong, but they lose any semblance of credibility on that subject.

      And you're right, all those who disagree with gay marriage are not philandering hypocrites. However, those who make the argument about sanctity of marriage ONLY in reference to gay marriage and ignore the large amount of conservative talking heads that have been caught with their pants around their ankles, are indeed hypocrites. That's like saying "It's ok for Rush, Michael, Glenn & Bill to violate the sanctity of marriage with your divorces and sexually explicit phone calls because you agree with us, but it's definitely not ok for those pervert homos to violate the sanctity of marriage because we don't agree with them."

      If you truly want to benefit the sanctity of marriage, work towards preventing and eliminating divorce. Since the divorce rate hovers around 50%, that would mean that around half the population, or more, is directly affected by divorce. By all counts, a much larger problem than the 4-5% of the population who want to get married to someone of the same sex.

      If you want to defend your sanctity of marriage arguments, make sure you're working towards benefiting the sanctity of marriage on all avenues. Otherwise you're a hypocrite and lose all credibility. If you don't want to hear my same old tired argument, then do something about it.

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    409. Re:Turn the tables by celtic_hackr · · Score: 1

      Sorry, I guess I was wrong.

    410. Re:Turn the tables by j-beda · · Score: 1

      None of those states allow fullblood first cousin marriages that would produce off-spring.

      I know first cousins who have married and have had kids. I know they did some genetic counseling and/or testing beforehand, but I do not know that if that was a requirement of the state that they were married in.

      In any case, if you do not like the citation I gave you, a google search: http://www.google.fr/search?q=restriction+on+marriage+cousins turns up a bunch of others, none of which support your position that no state allows first cousins to marry - most of them seem to say that 19 states allow first cousin marriages without restriction:

      http://archives.cnn.com/2002/LAW/04/columns/fl.grossman.incest.04.09/
      http://marriage.about.com/cs/marriagelicenses/a/cousin.htm

    411. Re:Turn the tables by IKnwThePiecesFt · · Score: 1

      Your divorce analogy is flawed. Divorce is legal in the United States. Separation of church and state.

      The point he's trying to make is that it's perfectly fine for your religion to ban gay marriage but the problem comes in when you're asking the state to ban it. Just like it's perfectly fine to ban divorce within your religion, but not okay to ask the state to ban it.

    412. Re:Turn the tables by RobinEggs · · Score: 1

      Contrary to your defensive posture in the your last paragraph, I'm not here to defend any sanctity of marriage argument; criticizing your argument does not confirm that I'm forwarding the opposite argument.

      And as to the notion of hypocrites having no credibility, sometimes hypocrites have the *most* credibility. Who do you trust more when they tell you not to take methamphetamine: The guy with the million-dollar hair and a PhD in biochemistry or the guy with no hair, no teeth, and no life after 3 years on the pipe? This may or may not be one of those cases, so don't jump to conclusions again that I'm defending 'talking head' philanderers, but hypocrisy is *not* an automatic reason to ignore someone's arguments on a topic.

      "Don't make the same mistake I made" seems like a pretty damn good argument to me, whether or not they're still making said mistake. If they are actively doing what they tell you not to do, then they are a hypocrite, and if they judge you harshly for simultaneously making those mistakes then they are, putting it kindly, a jerk...but their argument may still be 100% valid.

    413. Re:Turn the tables by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. that was only the 1st story. Read the rest.

      None of the rest fit your "prosecution of churches who disagree" lie, either.

      2. The public space in question is a church. After all the church owns it and keeps functions there, including church services.

      It's still a public space. That it's also a church does not magically negate laws governing discrimination in public spaces.

      3. They weren't forced to perform a ceremony. The court can't force you do anything (Except die or live in a cage). What it can do is impose consequences on you for failure to do what is commanded. In this case the court ruled that they no longer had none profit status. It is estimated that, that will cost the church $20,000 per year in perpetuity.

      Those consequences did not result from a refusal to perform the ceremony. They weren't asked to perform the ceremony. You're lying again by attempting to imply that an attempt was being made to force Hoffman to marry a gay couple.

  30. When open records and privacy collide by ArsenneLupin · · Score: 1

    And here in Europe, we have farmer's EU subsidies online. So now each farmer can browse and see how much his neighbor gets! Groovy!

    1. Re:When open records and privacy collide by thunderbird46 · · Score: 1

      We have that in the USA too. http://farm.ewg.org/farm/index.php

  31. Vegas by jDeepbeep · · Score: 1

    Please do...prevent me from making yet another stupid mistake next time I visit Vegas!

    What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas. Couldn't you have left the marriage there? :P

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    1. Re:Vegas by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What happens in Vegas, stays on Youtube

    2. Re:Vegas by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Depending on your church, it can be...

      My congregation, the SubGenius (of which I am a legally-ordained minister) allows me to marry all sorts of things for all sorts of reasons with all sorts of restrictions.

      I "deluxe" married one couple, complete with paperwork legalizing it in my state.

      I've married three couples for the weekend.

      As a result of this story (and the preposterous idea that civil unions have to be between ONLY one man and one woman) I'm now offering marriage services to anyone who wants to marry anything that doesn't decline (and is present). You want to marry a tree, a table, your Ford Taurus, four roommates? No problem!

    3. Re:Vegas by wronskyMan · · Score: 1

      I'm now offering marriage services to anyone who wants to marry anything that doesn't decline (and is present). You might want to add (and isn't drugged or unconscious). Otherwise you might get a flood of Slashdotters with potential brides.

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  32. WTF? by SirGarlon · · Score: 3, Funny

    In September, U.S. District Judge Benjamin Settle temporarily barred state officials from releasing the identities of those who signed the referendum petitions. Settle held that releasing the names could chill the First Amendment rights of petition signers.

    So what Judge Settle is saying here is that First Amendment rights mean that not only can you say whatever the hell you want, but no one is allowed to dislike you for saying it.

    Linux sucks. Software patents are vital to innovation. Comcast provides great service. Long live the RIAA! SCO was right! Don't chill my First Amendment rights!

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    1. Re:WTF? by Late+Adopter · · Score: 1

      First Post!!!

    2. Re:WTF? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So what Judge Settle is saying here is that First Amendment rights mean that not only can you say whatever the hell you want, but no one is allowed to dislike you for saying it.

      Straw man arguments are lies.

  33. Retarded debate by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I say we take away the right to be married from everyone.

  34. it's not about your vote by jipn4 · · Score: 1

    This is an appalling attempt at intimidation and coercion of those who would vote a given way. The public has a right to vote any damn way they want

    You have a right to a secret vote in an election, and you have a right to anonymous speech.

    You do not have a right to put a referendum on the ballot anonymously, and I see no reason why you should have that right.

    A vocal minority should never be allowed to control the population, regardless of cause or locality.

    So, if the majority votes to enslave blacks or exterminate the Jews, that's OK with you? Can the majority vote Mormons or Catholics out of their community? Maybe those things are OK with you, but they are not OK with me or the US Constitution.

  35. What about siblings who want to marry? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    We's in Vurginia are desceminated against becauz we cant marry ours own sisters... they says its illegal.
    THats just rong. If two adults want to marry each other why cant we just because were related?

    So instead most poeple do like the gays and do it on our own.
    You cant tell me I love my sister/wife or children/nieces less than someone else.

    You may laugh and call us names but we will fight until were allowed to legally marry our kin.

  36. Same issue, other direction by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Google Map mashup of those who donated money to California's Proposition 8 (banning same sex marriage): Eight Maps

  37. Just Fear by Fujisawa+Sensei · · Score: 2, Interesting

    These are the same people, or at least same mentality, of who live their lives in fear that the Russians are going to come over here and take their bibles away.

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  38. Wait, what? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    For some time now, the gay lobby has been trampling on everyone else's first amendment rights. Even going so far as to take on pastors for reading those parts of the bible which explicitly forbid homosexuality and filling legal action against parents who remove their children from the class of a gay teacher.

    I do agree that pastors should be able to publicly state their interpretations of the bible. It's their job. I don't think that anyone should take bible's anti-gay phrases any more literally than they should take the phrases about sacrificing goats, stoning to death those who have committed adultery, etc... But if pastors think that people should, they should have the right to say so... within limits. Even so, there are different ways to speak. It is legal to say "I think that the world would be better without gays". It is also legal to say "Based on my interpretation of the bible, I believe that god hates fags.". However, if you are trying to directly incite the crowd to violence against gays, it isn't and shouldn't be legal.

    And how is it expressing your first amendment right to deny your child going near homosexuals for no other reasons than their sexual orientation? It is not as if their orientation had anything to do with their ability to teach math, for example.

    1. Re:Wait, what? by Forge · · Score: 1

      And how is it expressing your first amendment right to deny your child going near homosexuals for no other reasons than their sexual orientation? It is not as if their orientation had anything to do with their ability to teach math, for example.

      This gos into a little bit of science. Slashdot, bear with me.

      Evolution by it's very nature, favors those traits which make procreation more likely. Homosexuality is a trait which makes procreation less likely. As such, Homosexuals in the population should dwindle to a tiny fraction of a percent. Much the same way Hermaphrodites have.

      That of course assumes it's a genetic trait.

      If on the other hand it is learned behavior then one should see the numbers of homosexuals increase in those places where homosexuality is accepted and homosexuals hold positions of authority over children.

      In other words. It's a lot like religion. Children who attend classes tough by nuns and pastors are more likely to adopt Christianity. So far as I know, no christian group has sought to restrict a Muslim parent's right to take his child out of a priest's class, or to withdraw him from public school in favor of a private education. Gays have.

      And with good reason. Nobody wants to be alone and without a strong influence in academia and on TV, the gay population will dwindle.

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    2. Re:Wait, what? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    3. Re:Wait, what? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In other words. It's a lot like religion. Children who attend classes taught by nuns and pastors are more likely to be sexually abused by one of their teachers.

      FTFY.

  39. Oh the irony by Taylor123456789 · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    I find it ironic that the pro-gay-rights faction preaching tolerance is intolerant of those who vote against their position. They are so intolerant that they select those who don't hold their views and ridicule and excoriate them. Isn't that what they are fighting against?

    1. Re:Oh the irony by berbo · · Score: 2, Insightful
      Disagreeing with someone is not 'intolerance'. Calling an act of discrimination 'discrimination' is not intolerance, its a statment of fact. Actually discriminating against a class of people, e.g. taking away their right to marry, is intolerance.

      Please go back to kindergarten and learn the difference.

    2. Re:Oh the irony by Taylor123456789 · · Score: 0

      Publishing the names of those who signed the petition in order to intimidate them is intolerance. When the anti-Prop 8 people did the same thing, it resulted in people losing their jobs, vandalism, and violence for exercising their right to vote. That is intolerance.

  40. Name Verification by yakovlev · · Score: 1

    This is the only good reason I've seen for making the names public, and the solution is relatively simple: have a standard non-disclosure agreement for any person or organization that want to view the list for the purpose of verifying signatures, with significant penalties (jail time AND fines) for disclosure, even through negligence, and even larger penalties if used in the commission of a crime.

    Otherwise, the importance of anonymity serves a much greater role in protecting our freedoms.

    The way such laws always have to be considered is to assume a large, well-funded, and morally corrupt entity (read: organized crime) has vested interests in a particular issue.

    If they are for the referendum, they threaten to kill anyone in a certain area who doesn't sign it. If they are against the referendum, they threaten to kill anyone who does sign it. In either case, the public nature of the referendum gives them significantly more power. A private referendum with the above private disclosure options would reduce the ability to influence in this way. While the private disclosures would still allow some intimidation, the benefits could outweigh the potential abuses.

    Also, a key thing to realize is that, in general, democracy is much better served by referendums calling for a vote favoring passing in error instead of failing in error. Elections are much better protected from external influence than the signature gathering process. Anonymous referendums serve this goal far better than public ones, where people would choose not to sign to avoid their viewpoints on a certain issue being disclosed. If a person wishes it to be public that they favor a certain issue, they are always able to declare their views separately from the referendum process, just as a person is always able to tell others how they choose to vote.

    1. Re:Name Verification by lessthan · · Score: 1

      What about boycott as a reason to see the names? If a major figure for a company signs the petition, shouldn't that be public knowledge?

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    2. Re:Name Verification by yakovlev · · Score: 1

      This is an example of why you do NOT want to allow the names to be public record for a referendum. A major figure for a company has just the same rights to anonymity as you or I do when acting as a private citizen. Signing a petition requesting a vote (as opposed to actively campaigning, or even funding a campaign) is a private act.

      Let's assume your boss likes to wear white shoes after labor day. You, however, think this is so offensive that it should be illegal. If a petition asking for a vote on a law to make this illegal is requesting signatures you should not fear work repercussions for signing that petition. These types of petitions are a key part of American democracy in many areas, and keeping them secret preserves that right for more people.

      Similarly, even the CEO of a corporation should have every right to participate in such a petition. They should be able to do so without the fear of financial repercussions.

      However, if the CEO, for instance, made a large campaign donation then their influence is significantly more than that of an average private citizen. This is when their role should become public record.

  41. damned if you do, damned if you don't by davidwr · · Score: 2, Insightful

    If you tell people their signatures are confidential, that makes it harder for newspapers to double-check for fraud.

    If you tell people their signatures are public, it can create a chilling effect, especially for those whose friends, employers, or supervisors are opposed to the issue on the petition.

    Yes, signing a petition may mean "I think this should be voted on, even if I disagree with it" but your friends, employer, or supervisor may read it as "I agree with the issue" and no amount of explaining will say otherwise.

    Also, if signatures are made public and easily searched, NOT signing a petition may also get you into trouble with friends, employers, or supervisors. Imagine a work environment where NOT signing petitions that relate to certain issues gets you shunned by your peers, with the result that your boss, not knowing what is really going on, thinks you are not a team player and sidelines you and your career stalls.

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  42. Re: public record vs. libel/slander by pleappleappleap · · Score: 3, Insightful

    We're not talking about politicians here, we're talking about private citizens, so yes, it's obvious you didn't RTFA.

  43. get your analogies straight by jipn4 · · Score: 1

    So if I don't want to give a man the right to take a standard tax deduction as a married couple because he decided to marry a sheep

    The only difference between a gay and a straight couple is the gender of the individuals involved. The law prohibits discrimination based on gender, hence gay and straight couples should be treated legally the same.

    Sheep are not persons and not protected by non-discrimination laws, hence the law can discriminate against them.

    Certainly, restricting adults from marrying 9-year-olds is something I agree with.

    That's not analogous either. People who are not adults, by default, do not have the legal capacity to enter into marriages at all; they can only marry under specially created exceptions from the usual rules. Therefore, nobody needs to be "restricted" and no special law is needed to keep 9-year-old from marrying.

  44. Re:The real issue is that it's public! by amplt1337 · · Score: 1

    Except that these are not votes. They're signatures on a petition to schedule a vote.

    Oh you know who else checked who didn't vote for him? Winston Churchill. This system is equal to British democracy during World War II. (What?)

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  45. It is OK to call it marriage by cryfreedomlove · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Marriage is between a man and woman.... anything else can NEVER be called marriage... Period...

    Why can't we call it marriage? I do and 48% of Californians agree with me. Ask us again in 2010 and it will be 49%. Ask us in 2012 and it will be 50.1%. Inevitably, Gay Marriage will be recognized as a right and our grandchildren will be shaking their heads that this was really ever a debate.

    1. Re:It is OK to call it marriage by Curunir_wolf · · Score: 1

      Marriage is between a man and woman.... anything else can NEVER be called marriage... Period...

      Why can't we call it marriage? I do and 48% of Californians agree with me. Ask us again in 2010 and it will be 49%. Ask us in 2012 and it will be 50.1%. Inevitably, Gay Marriage will be recognized as a right and our grandchildren will be shaking their heads that this was really ever a debate.

      What grandchildren?

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    2. Re:It is OK to call it marriage by phorm · · Score: 1

      Not everyone who supports gay rights is in fact a homosexual himself/herself, and thus are likely still capable of reproducing.

      However, this is slashdot... so that (reproduction) might still be an unlikely phenomenoa

    3. Re:It is OK to call it marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Why can't we call it marriage? I do and 48% of Californians agree with me. Ask us again in 2010 and it will be 49%. Ask us in 2012 and it will be 50.1%."

      Are Gays reproducing that fast?

    4. Re:It is OK to call it marriage by fermion · · Score: 1
      You know what. The real problem is that marriage is not currently between a man and woman period, and I do not think there is church in the United States that holds that standard. If it were I would have no problem with limited marriage to a man and a woman. But people who get married often get married again, and then it between multiple men and multiple women. I know that the so-called believers say that divorce is ok, and divorce is forced on us by the state, and divorce is the example of what happens when the state interferes with marriage, but that is not really the case. The state never forced churches to remarry those that divorced. In particular, the state never forced the church to accept and remarry those person's who lied to g-d and got divorced just because they were bored.

      So, if the state defined marriage between one man and one woman period, and did not allow for divorce, i.e. the person would still be responsible for each other, the social security would still go to the wife or husband, not mistress or gigolo, and the original children would still be first in line for the inheritance, I would be fine with that. It would honor the intention of marriage without all the complications by the hypocrite apologists.

      Then we can have civil union. If some churches want to condone and encourage the sin of polygamy, which is adultery, and is condemned in several verses of the bible hebrew and christian testaments[i.e. Romans 7:1-3), then they should have that right. The state does not interfere with religion.OTOH, if some want to marry two people of the same gender, who have not been married to another prior to the marriage, at least not a living person, such a church may do so knowing there are far fewer scriptures being broken.

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    5. Re:It is OK to call it marriage by BoothbyTCD · · Score: 1

      Well shit, I guess that I and my brother, sons of a homosexual man and a straight woman, can't possibly exist, and thus won't be able to produce children and grandchildren to look back on you with contempt.

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  46. I will NEVER sign a petition again by pgmrdlm · · Score: 0

    EVER. I side with the gay community on civil mariage, but I do nto agree with them releasing names of people that signed the peition. Next, they will want the names of people that voted AGAINST what they want in the referendum. Never again will I sign a petition. Thank you gay activits for taking away what I considered a right to privacy for what you consider your right. And yes, I did read the story. I know that these names were public before. Like I said, never again will I sign a peition. Those names should be private, unless needed for verification in the case of fraud.

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    1. Re:I will NEVER sign a petition again by wrook · · Score: 1

      Those names should be private, unless needed for verification in the case of fraud.

      And therein lies the problem. Who should get to verify the petition? Shouldn't *everyone* be able to view the list and verify that it is real? If only the government can see the results of a petition, how will we verify that the government is doing their job properly? How do we know someone in the government isn't just astroturfing?

      Fundamentally this information *must* be public. If you feel strongly that you will not sign a petition if it is made known that you signed it, then I personally think that you shouldn't sign it. Otherwise people would sign any old crap whether they believed strongly in it or not.

    2. Re:I will NEVER sign a petition again by pgmrdlm · · Score: 0

      Those names should be private, unless needed for verification in the case of fraud.

      And therein lies the problem. Who should get to verify the petition? Shouldn't *everyone* be able to view the list and verify that it is real? If only the government can see the results of a petition, how will we verify that the government is doing their job properly? .

      Is it not the goverment that controls recounting of votes if requested? What makes the signiture on a referendum different? If we trust the goverment to count and recount votes which are private, should they not be trusted for verification of signitures when possible fraud is suspected?

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    3. Re:I will NEVER sign a petition again by Hatta · · Score: 1

      If you're stupid enough to think that petitioners deserve the same privacy rights as voters, I'm glad you won't be participating in that process anymore. No good cause needs support from idiots.

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    4. Re:I will NEVER sign a petition again by NiteShaed · · Score: 1

      If you're looking to keep your views private, you shouldn't have been signing a petition in the first place. The purpose of a petition is to publicly declare your support for whatever is being petitioned for.

      Your post makes about as much sense as Bono saying, "I'll never sing on a stage in front of a crowd again. I had no idea those people were listening to me! I am outraged!".

      If you don't want your views known publicly, don't take a public stand.

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    5. Re:I will NEVER sign a petition again by pgmrdlm · · Score: 0

      Speaking of idiots, glad to see you commented. If I want to be known who/what I support, I will write to the paper and put my fucking name to the article. If I want to support any cause, it's NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS unless I WANT IT TO BE KNOWN. Let the fucking cause die then. I don't care if the gays get the right to marriage that much. God damn fucking asshole.

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    6. Re:I will NEVER sign a petition again by Hatta · · Score: 1

      It's none of my business until you sign a public declaration in support of a referendum. Then it becomes the public's business. Petitions are, and always have been every bit as public as a letter to the paper. I don't know why you think it should, or could, be otherwise.

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    7. Re:I will NEVER sign a petition again by pgmrdlm · · Score: 0

      I disagree, but I will not flame out again like I previously did. It's strong arm tatics, black mail by a group of people trying to intimidate others that disagree with them. Items will not make it to be voted on because of tatics like this. Cause's will be lost before they even have a chance to be voted on. So be it, nobody will have my support no matter what the cause via petitions. peace

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    8. Re:I will NEVER sign a petition again by ProfessionalCookie · · Score: 1

      So why do voters need privacy? Yeah.

  47. Re: Next time read the post first. by JerryLove · · Score: 1

    The only difference between a gay and a straight couple is the gender of the individuals involved. The law prohibits discrimination based on gender, hence gay and straight couples should be treated legally the same.

    I agree completely. But that has nothing to do with my response to the poster above me.

    He said he didn't want anyone voting on what rights anyone else would have or any restrictions on the marriage of others.

    Sheep are not persons and not protected by non-discrimination laws, hence the law can discriminate against them.

    I agree completely... but again this has nothing to do with the post I responded to or what I said.

    You put your own context on and falsely assumed I was speaking out against gay marriage. I was not. I was speaking in favor of the existance of some laws about something as opposed to no laws about anything: which is what the poster I responded to advocated.

  48. Legal Issues as Speed-Bumps for the Cause. by Mr.Danza · · Score: 1

    This is the problem with the current state of play for Gay Rights in the United States. Their rights and their struggle for equality too often get folded into broader, basically and wholly unrelated legal issues. This is now a discussion about freedom of information, privacy rights, defamation, etc. The struggle for Gay Rights too often gets shuffled under the rug because of the stress it puts on our federalist, states vs. centralized government republican democracy. During the African-American Civil Rights movement of the 1960's, the high court did the same thing, because the U.S. Supreme Court avoids addressing constitutional questions if they can, and instead defer to the states to determine what is best. Its happening again. I hope the Gay Community takes a lesson from the African American community. They need a leader. They need to rise up, begin a campaign of civil disobedience. Demand equal rights and protection under the laws of the United States. Make it so that the high court can no longer ignore the obstruction of their rights in favor of religious law. Otherwise, these petty and distracting legal issues will continue to burden their cause.

    1. Re:Legal Issues as Speed-Bumps for the Cause. by u38cg · · Score: 1

      Not that I disagree, but what exactly can they do? It's not like gay people are made to sit at the back of the bus.

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    2. Re:Legal Issues as Speed-Bumps for the Cause. by KillerBob · · Score: 1

      Members of the LGBT community still feel they need to fight for their rights, even in regions where they've already won the gay marriage debate (like much of Europe and Canada) because there's elements in society who would take the rights away from them at the first opportunity.

      There *are* people out there who feel that the gay people shouldn't be allowed on the bus at all, let alone making them sit all the way at the back of the bus.

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  49. Re: Read the post next time before responding. by JerryLove · · Score: 1

    Children and animals can't enter legal contracts. Adults can. If you want to claim that some adults can't enter into legal contracts with other adults, then it's up to you to make the case, without nonsensical comparisons to children or animals.

    You paid no attention to what I was responding to and have falsely characterized my position.

    I did not say that two (or three) consenting adults should not be able to get the legal protections of marriage: I said that there should be some limits (as opposed to none) as to what should get those protections.

    Do you actually disagree with my statement?!?

    Right now, your argument is that gay people should be treated like children and animals in terms of their ability to enter a contract - and that says all we need to know about your argument.

    I have absolutely not made any such argument. You are hacking at a straw man.

  50. Brilliant Troll! by Dareth · · Score: 1

    Brilliant Troll! Now that you have made your point, I would move on quickly if I were you. The locals are readying torches and acid as we speak.

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    1. Re:Brilliant Troll! by Jesus_666 · · Score: 1

      I wasn't aware that lynch mobs are better when you're on acid but it definitely sounds worth trying.

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  51. Re: If you had looked at my own response: by JerryLove · · Score: 1

    I immediately replied to my own post with:

    "Actually, this discussion is over a website listing in a searchable way those who signed a petition to put gay-civil-unions on a ballot."

    So yes, I do know I was off topic. I was responding to a different poster who seemed to be advocating anarchy.

  52. Point Proved... by Anyd · · Score: 1

    Voting against another human being's civil rights earns you a spot in the neanderthal group, IMHO.

  53. The land of the free by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    if the majority of the public really DOES agree with them there should be no risk of ostracism.

    So this is what "the land of the free" now becomes. You are free to do whatever you want, say whatever you want, as long as the majority of the public agree with it.

    Whatever happened to the "I don't agree with what you say, but I will defend your right to say it" ideal?

    1. Re:The land of the free by Teetollar · · Score: 1

      I don't agree with what you say AND I don't defend your right to say it anonymously.

    2. Re:The land of the free by plasmacutter · · Score: 1

      if the majority of the public really DOES agree with them there should be no risk of ostracism.

      So this is what "the land of the free" now becomes. You are free to do whatever you want, say whatever you want, as long as the majority of the public agree with it.

      Whatever happened to the "I don't agree with what you say, but I will defend your right to say it" ideal?

      except this isn't "saying" anything at all, it's a LEGISLATIVE effort to strip people of substantive human rights.

      Asking for this is no different than asking for cspan footage of a senate hearing to figure out who to vote out.

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  54. If the term Marriage is the problem by Drummergeek0 · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Use something else.

    Marriage is a term defined by the church and I don't think any union in the government's eye should be called marriage anyway. This should already happen due to Separation of Church and State. This goes for Man and Woman, Man and Man, & Woman and Woman. The government should have no right to determine what the guidelines for civil union are anyway. To the government we are just tax paying numbers, anyway.

    The main point for most homosexual civil unions are to retrieve the same benefits that heterosexual couples receive. Most are not looking to recognized by the church, only the state, and the government should not be able to deny those rights based on religious/bigotted beliefs.

    IMHO that is one of the biggest problem with our government is that so many religious beliefs are used in making these kind of decisions. Look at Pro-Life vs Pro-Choice. Basic human rights should allow for Pro-Choice (with certain guidelines, but things like the morning after pill, and early term abortion should be allowed).

    My views may be tinted by beliefs, or lack thereof, but logically it seems that because of Separation of Church and State that this should not be an issue.

    Just my two cents.

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  55. Ballots are secret, petitions are not. by EWAdams · · Score: 2, Interesting

    You want to keep your opinion secret? Then express it inside the voting booth. When you make it public, you have to answer for the consequences, which may include other people pointing out that you're a complete idiot.

    Petitions are public actions, voting is a secret action. Simple as that. If you aren't prepared to stand up for your opinion, keep your mouth shut -- or write an anonymous flame on the Internet that nobody will care about.

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  56. Pathetic by HubHikari · · Score: 2, Insightful

    And to split hairs, homosexuals currently have the right to marry. A homosexual man can marry any woman who sees fit agree, and a homosexual woman can marry any man who sees fit to agree. As a heterosexual man, I do not have the right to marry any man. Seems pretty clear and equally applied. Man marries Woman.

    You make me sick. Homosexuals currently have the right to marry....only within the context already defined. They do not have the right to marry the person they love. You do.

    1. Re:Pathetic by Jhon · · Score: 0

      Pathetic?

      Said by a white man to a black man: "You already have the right to be black, I don't".

      Is there a "right" to make pi = 3? Is there a "right" to make right angles 87 degrees?

      The answer is NOT to redefine what marriage is -- it reeks of Orwellian think-speak and I think a good argument can be made that the attempt is "pathetic".

  57. Don't see why this is a problem by 42Penguins · · Score: 2, Interesting

    The state has a sunshine law. They used the sunshine law. They shared the results.

    I don't see what is potentially damaging about people knowing you signed it anyway. It doesn't make you a gay-bashing red-necked evil conservative. In fact, it could simply mean that you prefer a direct vote to a vote of representatives.

    1. Re:Don't see why this is a problem by Ranzear · · Score: 1

      Or even, as confusing as the referendum itself is, they didn't even really know what they were signing. Or their intention was merely to put things to a vote without any personal tilt. More spectacular, I find, is the careful organization of the referendum that voting against it will repeal the civil union law and all rights granted. Likely this same underhanded strategy was employed in obtaining signatures, even to the degree of 'sign this petition to initiate a referendum to uphold the rights of same-sex unions', even though its a blatantly anti-gay maneuver.

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  58. Honestly... by e-scetic · · Score: 2, Interesting

    If you ask me, marriage is one of the dumbest inventions of mankind. It was invented by religion, it rarely has anything to do with love in my experience.

    Why on earth would you put arbitrary boundaries and conditions on love? Who are you to dictate to anyone who they may or may not love, when, whyfor and whatever? Moreover, who are you to tell your lover they can't love someone else?

    But forget all that - why enter an "agreement" where both of you have only the vaguest notion of what the other thinks it entails? Way to set yourself up for all sorts of problems.

    No, more...why are you marrying THAT PERSON? Fuck, they just want the ring, house, car, 1.5 kids, it's the status they want, because it's fashionable to be married, or there are financial benefits to it, you're merely secondary to that, collateral.

    It's a pathetically boring script - A meets B, A and B date for a while, A and B get engaged, A and B get married, get a house, car, pop out some kids, etc. Because, well, because that's just how it's done, how everyone else does it, because, y'know?

    1. Re:Honestly... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Congratulations on your seventeenth birthday last week. I see somebody bought you that cartoonishly simplistic worldview you asked for.

  59. Let them marry by Ogive17 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    So that they can be as miserable as the rest of us married folk!

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    1. Re:Let them marry by gblfxt · · Score: 1

      ... or at least have the option of being miserable. kind of like if gay people weren't able to drink mountain dew. some may actually like it, some may consider it essential, but the sane ones will choose the crab juice.

  60. Re: public record vs. libel/slander by Immortal+Poet · · Score: 1

    Perhaps it was you who did not read the entire article. A petition is not some sort of super special secret document that is somehow protected, private information. It's not like voting. It's a public document. And the reason why it's public is because petitions are documents that are proposing substantive legislation.

    I mean, shit. Don't YOU want to know who is proposing legislation that may or may not affect you? Or do you want a bunch of anonymous cowards telling you how to live your life? Because that, sir, is not freedom.

  61. Questioning the underpinning of rep. democracy? by Late+Adopter · · Score: 1

    I don't think a person's rights and privileges are up for "vote". I don't want other people deciding how I can and cannot live my life - CERTAINLY when it doesn't involve them.

    Siblings have hinted that this is about when it *does* involve others (even the Supreme Court has recognized that bans on things that occur strictly privately i.e. sodomy are unconstitutional).

    But the broader issue is, isn't this what a representative government DOES? Isn't its function, in some way, to place limitations on the population at large in response to popular support? Most of the time we don't find these limitations objectionable, though, right? Murder, theft, etc. But at the most basic level a person's rights and privileges are always up for vote.

    Maybe we need a newer form of government that somehow protects the rights of the minority while performing useful governmental functions supported by the majority (or super-majority). The US Constitution is a good stab at it, but the States, aside from enumerated restrictions in the USC amendments, have pretty much free reign to trample all over minorities. I don't know the answer...

  62. we choose our actions by ChipMonk · · Score: 1

    I do not choose to be heterosexual. But I do choose not to indulge my sexuality with every attractive other-gender person I encounter.

    1. Re:we choose our actions by virg_mattes · · Score: 1

      > I do not choose to be heterosexual. But I do choose not to indulge my sexuality with every attractive other-gender person I encounter.

      Gay people wanting to marry are choosing a single partner, not "every attractive [same]-gender person [they] encounter." Your argument fails. Most gay people are no more promiscuous than most straight people.

      Virg

    2. Re:we choose our actions by ChipMonk · · Score: 1

      Most gay people are no more promiscuous than most straight people.

      That's precisely my point; I am affirming what your grandparent post said. Sexual orientation whether straight, bi, gay, is not a choice.

      What we can choose, we do, and that includes the expression of our sexualities. Whether that includes living a heterosexual lifestyle, a gay lifestyle, or an asexual lifestyle, it's still by and large a choice (barring any deep-seated Freudian issues).

      So relax, okay? I'm on your side.

  63. R-71 has absolutely nothing to do with gay marriag by Kate6 · · Score: 5, Informative

    The important thing to know about the situation in Washington is that no one is actually looking to change that. R-71 is not in any way shape or form about gay marriage. It's about domestic partnerships. In May of 2009, Washington governor Christine Gregoire signed into law Senate Bill 5688, the "everything but marriage" bill, which makes it so that within the state of Washington, domestic partnerships will have the exact same legal rights and responsibilities as married couples. Hospital visitation rights, inheritance rights, power of attorney rights, the right to adopt and raise children... All the things that two consenting adults who love each other and are genuinely committed to each other oought to have. This bill did not in any way shape or form suggest that domestic partnerships should be recognized as marriages, though. (See this article and the actual text of the bill).

    And before someone tries to argue with me about the right to adopt... I'd like to point out that the reality of the situation is that there's tons of kids out there growing up in foster care, and that growing up in a home with 3-4 other children you aren't related to, some of whom were taken from their parents because the parents were neglectful or abusive, is known to frequently be a very traumatic experience. Whereas being raised by a gay couple would, at most, subject you to some teasing from other children at school.

    R-71 is an attempt to overturn SB 5688. Plain and simple. It has nothing whatsoever to do with gay marriage. It is not in any way shape or form related to any religious belief. Washington State has never contemplated the issue of gay marriage. I've seen plenty of conservative literature claiming that gays "already have all the same rights" so that the "attack on traditional marriage" has to be about something other than basic human rights.

    Well, at least in Washington, it very definitely isn't. (Oregon has actually had similar legislation in place for a few years now.) Gays are in no way shape or form interested in being allowed to legally use the word "marriage" to refer to our relationships here. We're only interested in having all the equivalent secular, legal rights. And R-71 is a vote about whether or not we should have those rights. But of course... There's a highly deceptive campaign going on with regards to it... And many of the people going in to vote on it may in fact have been led to falsely believe that they're voting on something related to gay marriage.

  64. The thing about this is... by moxley · · Score: 3, Interesting

    The thing about this that really makes it so sad is that a lot of the time the politicians and well known religious spokesmen who are the MOST outspoken against ga rights, and the most fervent in their anti-gay votes and speeches are, more often than not, actually gay themselves, but are in the closet and can't deal with it.

    I don't think that making public records available is a threat. If the people are that concerned about it being known that they support discrimination, then maybe they shouldn;t have signed it.

    It's not like people are making threats. Now if this was private information that was NOT public and it was being released, I would have a problem with that.

  65. Voting != Petition by DJRumpy · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If they were the same it would be called 'voting'. It is not. It is a public record and should be treated as such. If people do not have the strength of their convictions then they shouldn't sign it. That is the point of peer pressure. It molds society into what is acceptable and what is not.

    If someone steps over the line and takes illegal retribution against someone who signed a petition after that info was made public then they would be in the wrong and handled under the law. If someone signs onto a discriminatory petition and is treated badly (but legally) as a result, once it becomes known, then they've reaped what they've sewn.

    1. Re:Voting != Petition by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      I agree with you here. Totally actually. Though I did want to point out that it wasn't until almost 1900 before secret ballots were used over the entire US. It was actually fairly controversial for very similar arguments as you gave for signatures on petitions.

      I might also add, there is the case of being able to find out your name is on a petition that you might not have signed. That isn't even possible if signatures are kept secret.

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    2. Re:Voting != Petition by Spykk · · Score: 1

      That is the point of peer pressure. It molds society into what is acceptable and what is not.

      Just because the majority of your peers feel one way does not make them right.
      Is it a good thing when someone is pressured into racism because they happen to live in a place that is full of racists?

      If someone steps over the line and takes illegal retribution against someone who signed a petition after that info was made public then they would be in the wrong and handled under the law.

      That is all well and good, but it probably won't assuage the family of someone who was beaten to death.

    3. Re:Voting != Petition by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      You forget that your peers are the ones representing you in congress, the ones writing your laws, and the people living next to you. They are indeed important in the law of the land.

      If protections are needed for petitioners, then by all means, but if you read TFA, you'll see that there has been no harm to any who signed, although there has been some embarrassment. No one has broken the law and taken illegal retribution as of yet.

    4. Re:Voting != Petition by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "If someone steps over the line and takes illegal retribution against someone who signed a petition after that info was made public then they would be in the wrong and handled under the law."

      You obviously have no clue how the south worked ... the law was controlled by the abusers.

      In this case people may feel the law will provides little or no protection.

    5. Re:Voting != Petition by ProfessionalCookie · · Score: 1

      If people do not have the strength of their convictions then they shouldn't sign it.

      Yeah, just like voting. Maybe more-so with voting.

    6. Re:Voting != Petition by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "If someone steps over the line and takes illegal retribution against someone who signed a petition after that info was made public then they would be in the wrong and handled under the law. If someone signs onto a discriminatory petition and is treated badly (but legally) as a result, once it becomes known, then they've reaped what they've sewn."

      Following that logic, hate crime laws that provide stronger punishments for assaults against a protected person are unnecessary since assault is already punishable under the law. Are you willing to give up that extra protection?

    7. Re:Voting != Petition by DJRumpy · · Score: 1

      I happen to disagree with hate crimes legislation if there are already laws on the books that handle those crimes. I don't believe that someone should get a greater punishment under the law if the person they killed is gay, of a particular race, or what not.

      I think the punishment should be based on the acts performed and not the race or class of the victim.

    8. Re:Voting != Petition by Libertarian001 · · Score: 1

      I thought that we weren't supposed to give in to peer pressure?

  66. That's the point by zogger · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Look at the larger picture and don't be instantly knee jerk about it, logic it out further jus *one step more*.

      The government should have *nothing* to do with who you live with or "marry" in any outside ceremony. If the straight and gay folks would realize this, that they have a 100% common beef with STATE PERMISSION to marry, they could lobby TOGETHER to get all governmental laws about marriage just removed from the books. Instead, once again like they always do, the governmental goons use that old tired 'divide and keep them conquered' routine to keep you in serfdom.

    Any sort of personal economic or custody issues can be addressed by *private contract*. YOU and your partner(s) decide how to run your affairs entirely, fullstop.

    I mean really, say from the religious and very hetero side, which keeps fighting to stop gay marriage, what business of government is it that you need a PERMIT, permission, and LICENSE to get married? None, you can do it like they did in ye olden days, with your pastor and community, and that's it. The heteros are suffering under that same delusion that they need "permission" to marry, and keep fighting for less freedom for themselves! And now all the gay folks want that same thing?!? Nuts! Crazy! "Please government, we beg you and petition you, take away more of our rights and sell us a piece of paper permission slip, signed by one of your useless kommisars!"

    See how crazy that is?

        Get the stupid state and government out of the marriage "permission" business entirely, FOR EVERYONE, all of the above, "we the people", it is no longer needed, if ever it was, and it should be illegal because of freedom of association born with rights.

        And if you look back in history, a lot of the first state "licenses to get married" were jim crow racist laws designed to prevent interrace marrying, now they are the "norm" when they should have all been repealed. (incidentally the same with some of the earlier "gun laws", they were racist in origin then got extended to the population in general)

    Repeal the marriage "license" entirely, and all the ancillary stupid laws around that, (like tax issues and your hospital visit issues, etc) don't seek and fight and lobby to extend that abomination of statist power and control. What the heck do you want governmental restrictions for? Makes no sense, the better solution is end it entirely.

        Straights, gays, Bis, and all the otherwise out there, the polygamists and polyandrous-ists, all of the above, could all unite behind that, and end this state control nonsense once and for all.

    That's FREEDOM, that's EQUALITY.

  67. SEO optimized by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

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  68. Petition - Voting by bar-agent · · Score: 1

    If they were the same it would be called 'voting'. It is not. It is a public record and should be treated as such. If people do not have the strength of their convictions then they shouldn't sign it. That is the point of peer pressure. It molds society into what is acceptable and what is not.

    Well, you can't get to the safely anonymous "voting" stage without going through the dangerously exposed "petition" stage. Voting is anonymous for good reasons. Why don't the same reasons apply to the petition that allows the voting? Especially since your signature is going to predict your vote.

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    1. Re:Petition - Voting by Chyeld · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Because voting has safeguards that were meant to prevent dead people from voting, live people from voting twice, and imaginary people from even showing up at the polling place. Notwithstanding the matter of the effectiveness of those safeguards or the manner in which our less than upright politicians have attempted to circumvent them, petitions have none of these.

      Additionally, even if these were 'codified' into the manner in which petitions were made, the entire point of a petition is "We proudly support this idea and are the ones that put you in office, do it!" That implies you are willing to take a stand on it.

      PS. You don't have to go through the 'petition' stage to get to the 'voting' stage. It's just as possible for you to walk into your congressman's office and have a nice private chat with him.

    2. Re:Petition - Voting by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1, Interesting

      You seem to be confusing lobbying efforts with the signing of a petition. Walking into your congressman's office is LOBBYING. In that case, you are attempting to influence your congressman.

      In the case of a petition, some minimum number of people voice an opinion that an issue should be VOTED ON, BY THE PEOPLE.

      There is a process to check the validity of the petitioners. Mickey Mouse has signed petitions, and he has been discarded from the petition list, all over the country. Once the validity of signatures is verified, there is no good reason to save that data. No matter the value of the issue, or which side you are on, once the petition is declared valid, the issue goes onto a ballot, and ALL REGISTERED VOTERS will have the same opportunity to express THEIR opinion.

      It's part of the voting process, and should be protected.

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    3. Re:Petition - Voting by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      Because voting has safeguards ... petitions have none of these.

      I'm not saying that petitions are the same as voting. I'm saying both should be anonymous. Anonymity (or the lack thereof) has no bearing on the safeguards you mention.

      the entire point of a petition is "We proudly support this idea and are the ones that put you in office, do it!" That implies you are willing to take a stand on it.

      Sez you. I don't only think of petitions as "proudly support," I also think of them as "fixing what is broken" or "we know you won't touch this issue, so we're forcing it." I may or may not want my name bandied about. Ideally, a petition would have a little opt-in checkbox to allow your signature to be made public.

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    4. Re:Petition - Voting by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      If you don't want your name associated with the cause, then don't sign the petition. A petition only needs a small percentage of the registered voters to get something on the ballot for a reason. And if your cause can't even find that many people willing to stand up and proclaim what you believe in, then maybe that's a good indicator that your position does not have the levels of support needed to win.

    5. Re:Petition - Voting by Stradivarius · · Score: 1

      Perhaps they do not support the cause but do support the right of the people to vote on it. Good luck trying to explain THAT distinction to anyone who is so passionate about the cause that they are going to look at this website to see which of their neighbors are the supposed "bad guys".

    6. Re:Petition - Voting by bar-agent · · Score: 1

      Yeah, this is true. Petitions do work as they are. I think they'd work better anonymously, but if you disagree, that's fine.

      I just noticed, and I think it is telling, that I say "an issue" when you say "a cause."

      I guess I take petitions less personally than you do. That helps explain why you are more against anonymity than I am. If your support involves you, personally, of course it would offend you if others' support is uninvolved and impersonal (i.e. anonymous).

      Interesting bit of human nature, there.

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    7. Re:Petition - Voting by Jarik+C-Bol · · Score: 1

      "It's just as possible for you to walk into your congressman's office and have a nice private chat with him."

      not really. its more like, "its possible for you to walk into your congressman's office and be told to piss off, he has important business to attend to."

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    8. Re:Petition - Voting by Jarik+C-Bol · · Score: 2, Informative

      You make an excellent point. If i had mod points, i'd be modding you up.

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    9. Re:Petition - Voting by Chyeld · · Score: 1

      Not if you show up with a sufficiently large group of constitutes who all agree.

    10. Re:Petition - Voting by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      Well, I believe that the petition is the part where those who strongly believe that the status quo should be changed (or feel really strongly that it should remain the same), and want a decision made on it. The election is for those people who, initially probably have no strong feelings one way or the other, but hearing both sides of the issue make up their mind how they feel.

    11. Re:Petition - Voting by s73v3r · · Score: 1

      The thing is, signing a petition is a show of support for a particular cause, not just a show of support for the rights of people to vote on things. And again, if enough people that actually believe in the cause can't be found to sign the petition, then it doesn't bode well for your chances of winning an election.

    12. Re:Petition - Voting by Lord+Kano · · Score: 1

      PS. You don't have to go through the 'petition' stage to get to the 'voting' stage. It's just as possible for you to walk into your congressman's office and have a nice private chat with him.

      I don't know about where you live, but where I live it takes signatures on a petition to get an issue on the ballot.

      LK

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    13. Re:Petition - Voting by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1

      Great point. One that I should have thought of. I've actually known people who didn't really give a damn about an issue, but were perfectly happy to sign a petition so that people could vote on it. Someone with mod points should give you a few! :^)

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    14. Re:Petition - Voting by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      The whole idea for petitions for ballot initiatives is to determine if there is sufficient public support for an issue before it goes to the ballot. You don't want every issue that some guy thinks is a good idea to be voted on or you might as well not have a representative democracy, and you end up with the mess California is in. The theory is that if an issue has anywhere near 50% support it shouldn't be a problem to find a certain number of people who will stand up publicly and declare their support. If you can't find enough people who care strongly enough about an issue to put their name on the line, it's either not a cause worthy enough to become law, or it's mundane enough that the normal legislative process should handle it.

      One final caveat, petitions and ballot initiatives - especially ones that amend state constitutions, make it substantially easier for democracy to devolve into "three wolves and a sheep voting on what's for dinner." Basic human rights should never be put to a vote.

    15. Re:Petition - Voting by AndersOSU · · Score: 1

      you know...

      The visitors logs for congressional offices is a public record, right?

  69. Are petitions private business? by managerialslime · · Score: 1

    . . . Signing a petition is very similar to voting - it's no one's business how I mark a ballot, nor is it anyone's business that I signed the petition. . . .

    You bring up what may be important questions core to this topic. Are petitions public property or legally private (privileged) information? Is this different from US state to US state? Are the US practices different than those in Canada and Europe?

    I'm not asking about your opinion (which is very clear). I am asking if anyone reading this string actually knows the relevant law. (I don't know and my limited search turned up nothing.)

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  70. Re:It is not OK to call it marriage by ImYourVirus · · Score: 1

    But thankfully it will only be 'recognized' in CA anywhere else with sense will continue to deny you. Just like when you people tried (and failed) to make marijuana legal, just because the state says so doesn't make it so. Federal law trumps state law every time.

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  71. What happened to the Constitution? by cheddarlump · · Score: 2, Interesting

    This entire firestorm is a smokescreen for the real issue: in a democratically elected representative republic, our representatives create laws that are either voted into existance, or dissapear. I'm a conservative, and a resident of WA. I believe that the public petition should be public, as all it does is bring the initiative to the voter. It's conceivable that somebody signed the petition that doesn't agree with R71, just to have it brought before the voter and be dismissed. The entire gay marriage argument is moot, as this ref. has nothing to do with gay marriage, but civil unions. If the gay community wants the laws and traditions of our state to change, they need to change enough minds to make it happen on the ballot, or move to where it's already legal/in place. My beliefs as well as those who disagree with me are irrelevant in our country and state, as beliefs aren't law. You want it changed, change it the legal way. I'm not a bigot, I moved here to raise my children in a way that I want, around people that think like I do, because it's a free country and I sill have the right to do that. I chose this area for a reason, and there are plenty of places in this nation that are not like this place. I didn't stay in a highly liberal area and try to change their minds. I guess my point is that if you don't like the way things are where you are, try to change them the legal way or move. Why is it impossible to believe that there are always going to be different types of people in the country who can't agree on everything? Is it really wrong to live around those who believe likewise by choice, instead of trying to strong-arm those around you into adopting your way of life? Even as a conservative, I make no judgement calls on how others wish to live their lives, I simply choose to live mine differently, and away from those who I disagree with.

  72. Re: Next time read the post first. by jipn4 · · Score: 1

    I agree completely. But that has nothing to do with my response to the poster above me. He said he didn't want anyone voting on what rights anyone else would have or any restrictions on the marriage of others.

    But it does have something to do with it: in a free and just society, a majority cannot simply vote away other people's rights.

    I was speaking out against gay marriage. I was not.

    Neither am I. I'm pointing out that there are many rights in a democracy that a majority of voters simply cannot take away, no matter what.

  73. No one should have expected a fair fight by TiggertheMad · · Score: 1

    While supporters of traditional marriage use legal and ethical means to promote their agenda

    You mean beat, torment, demonize, and murder homosexuals for the last several thousand years while in control of the government's definition of what is 'legal'?

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  74. Re:marriage is a religous thing? by Dare+nMc · · Score: 1

    where do you get that viewpoint from? If marriage were about religion, then you should be fighting why any marriage is allowed outside a religious belief and joining, not just picking and choosing a "oh that sounds in-appropriate" I'll be offended if they use the same term.
    Then again I think gays wanting the "marriage" title, and not just the same rights seams just as stupid. And I do think it is more of a "we hate the typical religions, so were going to shove this in your face for attention" statement by gays than anything else.
    But all history that I find of marriage, and ceremonies seams to be predated by any religious text, by government requirements. Other than a more general religious context of a committed partner, the churches becoming involved has always been a recognization of the governmental bond, not the opposite.

  75. Re:It is not OK to call it marriage by cryfreedomlove · · Score: 1

    Why would 'anyone with sense' deny the right of marriage to a gay couple?

  76. politcally incorrect. by Dare+nMc · · Score: 1

    method of doing so that 100% does not involve the government, but would also be recognized as a legal marriage just the same.

    now that's funney, you want government recognition, without government recognition. FYI sounds like you have a Common-law_marriage If you live in a state with that, all you have to do is submit a tax return (at least in AZ, where I live) as a married couple, and it's legally recognized. So choose whatever hippey gathering, flag burning, anti-government ceremony, or whatever you want, and come April 15th it'll be recognized as a "legal marriage." (assuming by reference to "her" and "significant other" that means a person already legally recognized as the opposite sex as yourself, and not a man who likes it on the bottom, or your not a woman with a strap on, or she doesn't require a occasional re-inflation...)

    1. Re:politcally incorrect. by eepok · · Score: 1

      I understand your confusion, but the desire is to have government recognition, but not government control over the process or effects. It already happens with people married in other countries. Those marriages are recognized but not controlled by the American government.

  77. Re: Next time read the post first. by JerryLove · · Score: 1

    But it does have something to do with it: in a free and just society, a majority cannot simply vote away other people's rights.

    Then, in a free and just society, how are individual rights determined?

    Do I have the right to set my land on fire? How do I determine if I do or do not?

  78. mod up by chrb · · Score: 1

    That is really quite an appalling display of ignorance and lack of compassion. Quite frightening that someone who works as patient support can dismiss an individual's rights with the glib explanation "you are in an anti-gay city and state".

  79. Of course he wants to attack "the person" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is /. not some venue for rationality thought. You might as well as asked, "does he want to discuss the topic, attack the person or marry Cowboy Neil?"

    WOW:
    CAPTCHA: hateful

    I think that is very appropriate all around.

  80. Let's change the context by MushingBits · · Score: 1

    What if this was a petition for a law that would, say, close a legal loophole that allowed corporations to pollute/abuse workers/skate out of large quantities of taxes? We could easily be looking at signers being permanently blacklisted from employment if they sign such a petition.

    Overall I'm a fan of transparency in government processes, but there are very real risks in other contexts that should be considered.

  81. Comfirmation of a petition by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    Reminds me of a local petition that went around to stop some construction project. A small group managed to get the required signatures to delay the privately funded project (but approved by city counsel) and indirectly raised the costs. Once the petition list was made public it was found the first 10 people on the list where dead and well over 100 where people in senior homes who had significantly reduce mental capacity. Some 15% of the people on this list where disqualified when they stopped looking into the petition. Sadly it delayed the project by a month to work it out. In the mean time the same group started to circulate a second petition that was vague and very poorly written. Once again it was thrown out after another month delay. After their third interruption the group was barred by the city. The ‘leader’ of the group tried unsuccessfully again to create another group and circulate another petition. BTW the group consisted of 7 people and delayed a privately funded and city counsel approved project by 6+ months.

    1. Re:Comfirmation of a petition by cheddarlump · · Score: 1

      You must live in California.

  82. Meaning of an initiative by denbesten · · Score: 2, Insightful

    For those looking in from outside the US borders, an initiative petition is a document filed by a group of ordinary citizens asking that a particular issue be put up for election. Amongst other things, it is required that a certain percentage of voters sign the initiative indicating that they feel it should come up for a vote.

    I have signed referendums and initiatives both for causes I intend to vote for and for causes I intend to vote against. My signature on an initiative is an indication that I agree that we should vote on it. It is not an indication of which way I will vote.

    TFA states "signers of the petition fear hostile confrontations". If true, this must be addressed. The courts seem like a good place to determine if the fear is well founded, and if so, the legislature ought to figure out how to address it.

    BTW, I am not a resident of Washington, so my name can not appear on this initiative. Please don't confront me hostily :-).

  83. For The Record by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The rights and privileges had already been passed in what is known here in Washington as the "Everything But Marriage Bill." Governor Gregoire signed the bill this summer. The Referendum 71 Petition would roll-back an already passed bill. Therefore, signing to put "gay marriage" on the ballot via Referendum 71 can only result in either the maintenance of the existing statues, or the retraction of a comprehensive civil unions bill. Those who signed Ref 71 signed a petition aimed to deny rather than expand access to domestic partnerships. I for one revel in the cowardice of those who think it right and good to obsess over the consensual, private affairs of others. "Do as I say, just don't look me in the face!"

  84. I modded you flamebait. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I was one of those who modded you flamebait. Just so we're clear, I understand that "flamebait" does not mean "I disagree."

    The whole tone of your post is incendiary. You have a hypothesis, that the gay marriage issue is all about religion and control, which I partially agree with (the religion part). But then you go on to paint all religious people, a group to which I used to belong, as hell-bent on indoctrination and control. This is either a gross misunderstanding or a deliberate provocation. You leave no room for genuine belief that homosexuality is wrong, no matter how misguided that belief may be. Words like yours only further polarize the positions instead of trying to guide the people who hold those beliefs into a more enlightened practice of their religion.

    You also nullified your whole argument when you brought masturbation into the picture. Some churches do teach against that as well, but by your logic they should be crusading harder against masturbation or single men than anything else, since they are supposedly the hardest to control. Let's not forget the hint of misogyny buried in there as well.

    Your last sentence is unequivocally flamebait, since you apparently fail to recognize that religion has benefits as well as drawbacks, and you show a complete lack of respect for anyone who shows any inclination to religion. That is sad, and represents a prejudice of your own that is as onerous as the one you're railing against.

    Respond if you like, but since I'm AC there's little chance I'll browse this thread again. This was not an act of censorship, but an attempt to use the moderation system correctly; that is, to make the comments with true worth stand out. Phrased differently, yours would have been left alone or maybe even elevated, but as it is, you're spouting bile.

    1. Re:I modded you flamebait. by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 1

      I was one of those who modded you flamebait. Just so we're clear, I understand that "flamebait" does not mean "I disagree."

      LOL! I was modded 3 “insightful” anyways (I'm quoting your whole post so people can see it, mr Coward)

      The whole tone of your post is incendiary.

      Indeed. I cannot stand bullshit, and religion is pretty big on my bullshit radar.

      You have a hypothesis, that the gay marriage issue is all about religion and control, which I partially agree with (the religion part). But then you go on to paint all religious people, a group to which I used to belong, as hell-bent on indoctrination and control.

      It is not all religious people who want control. Many people want control, and religion is a way of controlling people.

      This is either a gross misunderstanding or a deliberate provocation. You leave no room for genuine belief that homosexuality is wrong, no matter how misguided that belief may be.

      I don’t need to give room for that belief, it already has too much.

      Words like yours only further polarize the positions instead of trying to guide the people who hold those beliefs into a more enlightened practice of their religion.

      Not my problem. They decide to to tie-up their brains with their religion, fine. It's like those $RACIAL_EXPLECTIVE who wear pants around their ankles; they decide to hobble themselves, so they cannot win the marathon.

      I am french, and we decided to dump our religion in the garbage heap of History, because it was retarding us. Everyone is free to do the same, and the sooner the better, so there is no way I’m gonna make it easy for someone who’s religious and who won’t dump his stupid religion.

      The religious certainly don’t make it easy for us, so why the fuck should I be holier than them??? It only reinforces their beliefs if I accommodate them.

      You also nullified your whole argument when you brought masturbation into the picture.

      Look, if you have a problem with fapping, it’s **YOUR** problem. Don’t make it mine. I personally have no problem with it, and I have no problem talking about it in person. Heck, I choke my chicken 3-4 times a day, and I do not see anything wrong with it.

      Some churches do teach against that as well, but by your logic they should be crusading harder against masturbation or single men than anything else, since they are supposedly the hardest to control.

      The priests know very well that if they piss-off too much single men, those single men will have their hides Besides, men will seldom admit not being good with women, which masturbation tends to imply, so no one will boast about masturbating, given the stigma it carries.

      Let's not forget the hint of misogyny buried in there as well. Your last sentence is unequivocally flamebait, since you apparently fail to recognize that religion has benefits as well as drawbacks, and you show a complete lack of respect for anyone who shows any inclination to religion.

      I will respect religion when religion will respect science and reality. Which will obviously be when the devil will be speed-skating in a sexy lycra outfit. Religion has no respect for those who do not follow it, so why should it deserve any respect???

      You seem to have been really hooked-up a lot on that religious crutch. But, as I said, it is solely **YOUR** problem. You alone can dump it in the garbage heap of History. Don’t make it my problem.

      That is sad, and represents a prejudice of your own that is as onerous as the one you're railing agains

  85. Simple by ThatsNotPudding · · Score: 1

    Both are about societal command and control.

  86. History of U.S. voting/ballots by ZipK · · Score: 1

    Though I did want to point out that it wasn't until almost 1900 before secret ballots were used over the entire US.

    Indeed. The history of voting and ballots in the U.S. is quite interesting. Check out this article from 2008.

    1. Re:History of U.S. voting/ballots by TheCarp · · Score: 1

      Thank you very much! When I made my comment I had this exact article in mind, but couldn't remember enough about it to find it in a google search. Particularly, this is the passage that I had in mind:

      The word "ballot" comes from the Italian ballotta, or little ball, and a ballot often was a ball, or at least something ballish, like a pea or a pebble, or, not uncommonly, a bullet. Colonial Pennsylvanians commonly voted by tossing beans into a hat. Paper voting wasn't meant to conceal anyone's vote; it was just easier than counting beans. Our forebears considered casting a "secret ballot" cowardly, underhanded, and despicable; as one South Carolinian put it, voting secretly would "destroy that noble generous openness that is characteristick of an Englishman."

      Obviously not everyone feels the same way, or did then. However, its funny how something that came about primarily for pragmatic reasons (ease of counting), can get elevated to "fundamental to our democracy" in peoples minds.

      Not to say it is a bad thing, I have much bigger issues with how we vote than whether or not ballots are secret. Frankly, given the issues involved, I find myself really leaning towards a condorcet method of voting. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Condorcet_method ) because I am fundamentally bothered that my vote for a third party candidate ends up just taking away from the least objectionable of the mainstream candidates and that this is one of the major hurdles towards the adoption of third parties.

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  87. From what I've seen ... by PPH · · Score: 1

    ... of the conservatives here in WA state, some of them are afraid of being outed by their gay lovers. I mean if you give gays the right to marry, some guys are going to expect their sugar daddies to leave their wives, come out of the closet and make 'honest men' out of them.

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  88. Sorry, but you're wrong by sean.peters · · Score: 1

    it's no one's business how I mark a ballot, nor is it anyone's business that I signed the petition.

    In fact, it's everyone's business that you signed the petition... by law. That's what "public record" means. Sorry if that's inconvenient, but it's still true.

  89. Call me when any of these become a real issue by sean.peters · · Score: 1

    When hordes of cousins, sisters and brothers, etc, start demonstrating for the right to get married, we can worry about those questions. In the meantime, there's an entire class of unrelated people who'd like to get married, but are being prevented from doing so because certain religious groups think it's icky. I think it's rather silly to muddy the issue with a bunch of hypothetical problems that are unlikely to ever come up in the real world.

  90. The problem with this... by sean.peters · · Score: 1

    ... is that you need some way of officially establishing your relationship with someone to whom you're not related by blood. Otherwise, 1) how would a hospital decide who could visit a sick person? 2) who could inherit property (without going through probate). You can probably think of other examples. I agree that most of the laws involving marriage mostly amount to cruft... but there's still some value there.

  91. I re-married late by TrogL · · Score: 1

    I'm 53 and my gonads have been exposed to enough environmental issues (like the daystar) that I wouldn't trust them to another roll of the dice. My wife had her tubes tied years ago, having procreated to her satisfaction.

    Would you forbid us matrimony?

    A few years before, I would have been in the same situation, except with a male partner.

    The distinction?

  92. A public, SEO optimized website? by Linux_ho · · Score: 1

    Next thing you know, the story will be picked up by the Mainstream MSM Media.

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  93. Making things difficult? How? by sean.peters · · Score: 1

    They want marriage specifically for the legal protections: so they can force employers to provide health insurance, get estate rights when their partners die, tax breaks, etc. Of course, there's no reason why much of this couldn't be done on a contractual basis in the absence of legal marriage, but the state always finds a way to mess things up and make things difficult for people.

    What? This isn't the state making things difficult for people, it's making things EASIER for people. Sure, you do all the legal legwork required to get contracts in place to cover all of this stuff... or you could just trot down the courthouse and get married, which takes care of all that easily and cheaply. Not to mention the fact that a lot of states now have constitutional amendments the SPECIFICALLY PROHIBIT entering into contracts that are "designed to simulate the benefits of marriage". Which was done specifically to screw with gay people.

  94. I disagree with you by yurtinus · · Score: 1
    And your post is a troll. And it is overrated (Insightful shouldn't mean "I agree with you"). But those weren't my mods, because I have the time to explain why you are being modded down. Perhaps there should be a +1 Ignorant mod so that we could learn from your post...

    The implications could not be clearer; While supporters of traditional marriage use legal and ethical means to promote their agenda, supporters of gay marriage use illegal and unethical means the moment it appears that doing it the legal way isn't winning support. It was all over California during the prop 8 battle, and now it's going to start in WA. I guarantee.

    While the above statement is true, it is also retardedly misleading to support your agenda (read: Troll). Try something more like:

    "While *most* supporters of traditional *or gay* marriage use legal and ethical means to promote their agenda, *some* supporters of either side use illegal and unethical means the moment it appears that doing it the legal way isn't winning support."

    People on both sides of this argument do messed up things. This doesn't make one side right, it just makes a lot of individuals wrong. You would be *extremely* hard pressed to argue that gays haven't been on the receiving end of most of the hardship in this debate. Now, from your post later on in discussion...

    So, because some OTHER people, in the past, have wrongly beaten up and attacked (or, worse, killed) some Gays, then it is OK, to do the same to OTHER completely innocent people who had nothing to do with, nor condone the violence perpetrated against some gays?

    I agree with you here-- Actions of individuals should reflect on actions of the group. For example, a few folks running a name and shame campaign shouldn't necessarily reflect on the entire gay rights movement.

    And lastly the sunshine on my opinions: proposition 8 (along with all anti-gay-marriage efforts) is a blatant attempt for one group of people to deny another group of people rights which they themselves enjoy for *religious* or *personal moral* reasons. I would debate against them for days but in the end concede that it is their right to keep their religious and personal moral opinions on whatever topic. However, I can not and will not concede that it is their right to deny somebody else's rights for religious reasons. I can't condone a name and shame campaign, but the individuals (and particularly politicians and organizations) involved in the anti-gay marriage campaigns have lost sight of the American ideal of liberty and should be ashamed. A gay couple getting married does nothing to impinge upon your rights or the sanctity of your own marriage. Get over it.

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  95. Mod parent Informative by GameboyRMH · · Score: 1

    ...I always see the best posts right after I blow all my mod points.

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  96. Re:It is not OK to call it marriage by ImYourVirus · · Score: 0, Troll

    Because marriage has always been a man and a woman, since the dawn of time, why should it change now?

    Besides if they start getting rights then everyone will want them.

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  97. Re:R-71 has absolutely nothing to do with gay marr by Startrekd · · Score: 1

    R-71 is an attempt to overturn SB 5688.

    Just to clarify and avoid any confusion among potential Washington voters: While the petition signers wanted R-71 to be on the ballot, they are hoping for a "Reject" vote to overturn SB 5688.

    Supporters of domestic partnerships should APPROVE R-71 to preserve the domestic partnership law.

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  98. Re:It is not OK to call it marriage by Omestes · · Score: 1

    By sense, he obviously meant "people who share my beliefs, doctrines, and religious ideology". The reasoning goes: I am smart. Smart people would never willingly believe in something that isn't true. Therefore all my beliefs are true. I believe x. Therefore x is true.

    If x is true, and you don't believe x, there is something wrong with you. Therefore you lack in common sense, while I am currently swimming in it.

    This is pretty universal, no matter what x is.

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  99. Re: Next time read the post first. by jipn4 · · Score: 1

    Then, in a free and just society, how are individual rights determined?

    By the Constitution and the courts, but not by voting.

    Do I have the right to set my land on fire?

    The basic principle is that you can do with your property whatever you like, unless you infringe on the rights of others in doing so.

    How do I determine if I do or do not?

    If you really can't figure it out, ask a lawyer.

  100. I already said... by zogger · · Score: 1

    ...private contracts. As an adult, you make your own decisions. As per the government and Tax BS,, every individual is the same, no advantage OR disadvantage to being in a relationship or not. As to your private business, you negotiate that with your employer, insurer, your estate advisor, whatever you want. A lot of those things can be done just with a notary for that matter, ie., cheap. If you are in a relationship covered by contract, that you are the "closest" next of kin as per a living arrangement and your self proclaimed friendship and love, because you agreed to it, the hospital (one of the examples above as being "unfair") can't deny you visitation. And so on, right down the line.

    It's none of the government's business who you hang out with or sign a contract with, short of you cannot legally sign away your rights, you cannot sell yourself into bondage or slavery or any situation where you lose born with rights. Other than that, they shouldn't have any say in it whatsoever.

    I see no reason to regress, we used to have discriminatory laws on the books about race, gender, etc, and right now, the marriage laws are discriminatory against *everyone*, noit just gays or plurals,, but everyone, because they are predicated on you seeking a marriage permit, the stat'es permission, to do something that is your born with right in the first place, to associate with whomever you like in your private life, and as such, all those discriminatory marriage laws should be stricken from the books. What we DON'T need is MORE discriminatory laws.

        So the answer isn't more laws, it is the same as the others, remove the bogus unfair and unequal and illegal laws that are still on he books. End the discrimination. Extremely traditional hetero couples would want this as well, they shouldn't need some lame government "permission" to get married and have a loving union, that is between those people, and it can be recognized inside their own community, with whatever ritual they want.

      Same with anyone else. If they want zero ceremony, just an official notification of some arrangement, again, just write up a contract with the agreed on parameters and sign the thing in front of a notary, done. If you don't want to do anything, that is your right as well, just live together or whatever. It is no one else's business ethically, so it shouldn't be any government's business either, one way or the other.

    No discrimination, for or against this or that, the laws stays strictly neutral and out of your affairs. There just shouldn't be 1,000 "laws" on the books for a basic human right, freedom to be you and to associate with whomever you want in any manner you want.

    All they need is one law, to right a long overdue wrong, any previous law that has the word "marriage" in it is now stricken, null and void, and it would be that simple. One sentence, clean all this up as pertains the government. You can still "marry", just the government has no say in it one way or the other, and there's no economic or tax or visitation or nuthin discrimination allowed against people then.

  101. lol AC replying to AC. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    No, it's exactly the same. Excuse the oversimplified terms:

    - A black man can marry a woman of the same race; he can not marry a woman of a different race.
    - A white man can marry a woman of the same race; he can not marry a woman of a different race.

    Compare:

    - A homosexual man can marry a woman; he can not marry a man.
    - A heterosexual man can marry a woman; he can not marry a man.

    1. Re:lol AC replying to AC. by wronskyMan · · Score: 1

      Nope, you oversimplified to change the meaning unfortunately. His example was (both black and white men) can marry a black woman since black men have the same rights as white men (both black and white men) can marry a white woman since white men have the same rights as black men (both black and white women) can marry a black man since white women have the same rights as black women (both black and white women) can marry a white man since black women have the same rights as white women Your: - A homosexual man can marry a woman; he can not marry a man. - A heterosexual man can marry a woman; he can not marry a man. simplifies to a man can marry a woman; he can not marry a man. Doesn't discriminate by sexual orientation there.

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  102. ImYourVirus is for slavery. by cryfreedomlove · · Score: 1

    I see, so if something has been true since the dawn of time then we should not change it.

    Let's apply that reasoning to other recent history societal changes. How about slavery? In 1860 I could say the same thing. Slavery has existed since the dawn of time. Why should it change now?

    ImYourVirus is for slavery.

    1. Re:ImYourVirus is for slavery. by ImYourVirus · · Score: 1

      Were all slaves of some sort or another, to money, cars, women, jobs, slavery is still alive and kicking son, no need pretending it's not.

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      Why is common sense called that if it's not common?
    2. Re:ImYourVirus is for slavery. by cryfreedomlove · · Score: 1

      So slavery in bondage, like slaves on a tobacco plantation in Virginia in 1860, is the same as a dude who chases women today?

  103. Re: Next time read the post first. by JerryLove · · Score: 1

    By the Constitution and the courts, but not by voting.

    How is what is in the constitution determined if not by voting? The courts decide against what? The law? How is the law determined if not by voting?

    The basic principle is that you can do with your property whatever you like, unless you infringe on the rights of others in doing so.

    How do we know what the rights of other are if not by law, and how are those laws determined if not by voting?

    Can I build a wall on my land that blocks my neighbor's view? Can I burn trash on my land that fills my neighbor's air with soot? Where are the cutoffs?

    It's fine to expouse a basic tennent: but determinging which tennant will be followed, and the specifics, require a body of laws. These need to be created somehow.

    It is definitional to democracy that they are created by the vote of the people.

  104. Re:It is not OK to call it marriage by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 1

    Excpet it hasn't.

    Marriage has had many, many different forms. Some societies even embraced homosexual couples.

    Sorry to burst your bubble.

    {you also don't havea reason *why* gay couples shouldn't be able to marry, but I guess that might tax those brain cells you're jealously guarding}

  105. A gay battalion is the answer. by HornWumpus · · Score: 1

    Fill it with 'super macho' fags. Recruit at the body builder gym.

    Then we use if for propaganda.

    No dictator's government could survive after their army got their (now reamed out) ass handed to them by the 'pink battalion'.

    --
    John McAfee 'It was like that time I hired that Bangkok prostitute; to do my taxes, while I fucked my accountant'
  106. Oh The Irony! by woolio · · Score: 1

    The only unintended consequence is that some activists are unhappy that they're being associated with the movement they support.

    Yes.. The "rainbow" people are unhappy that the "sunshine" laws are giving them visibility.

    Would they prefer a more "cloudy" and obtuse government?

  107. Re: Next time read the post first. by jipn4 · · Score: 1

    How is what is in the constitution determined if not by voting?

    You seem to have slept through civics: "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." These rights are unalienable and self-evident; they don't derive from voting.

    How do we know what the rights of other are if not by law, and how are those laws determined if not by voting?

    In the US, your rights aren't given to you by law, you are born with them. You have a right to your property and life, and your neighbor has a right to their property and their life. As long as you aren't in conflict, there is no law that can tell either of you what to do. Any law that tried to restrict your or their rights arbitrarily would likely be unconstitutional.

    Can I build a wall on my land that blocks my neighbor's view? Can I burn trash on my land that fills my neighbor's air with soot? Where are the cutoffs?

    The possible choices that laws and voters can make here are pretty tightly constrained by your property rights and the property rights of your neighbor.

    (Maybe what's confusing you about these examples is that any of the choices is a possible choice under some circumstances; however, the choices are not arbitrary.)

    It is definitional to democracy that they are created by the vote of the people.

    No, it is not. Democracy means that the power of government derives from the consent of the people. It does not mean that the majority can vote on everything.

  108. The answer to the question is the sunshine law by ebvwfbw · · Score: 1

    Sometimes people forge signatures. I know, hard for some of you to believe (if your that nieve). I want to be able to find out if my signature was attached to something I didn't sign. There is no reason why we can't do that now. Cut down on fraud.

  109. Re: Next time read the post first. by JerryLove · · Score: 1

    You seem to have slept through civics: "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." These rights are unalienable and self-evident; they don't derive from voting.

    Really? I thought that the declaration of Independance was ratified by a vote of the continental congress. Actually, I'm sure of it.

    In the US, your rights aren't given to you by law, you are born with them. You have a right to your property and life, and your neighbor has a right to their property and their life. As long as you aren't in conflict, there is no law that can tell either of you what to do. Any law that tried to restrict your or their rights arbitrarily would likely be unconstitutional.

    Property wasn't mentioned in your quote from the Declaration of Independance. It's not mentioned until the Constution (highest *law* of the land) which was also voted on by the continental congress and then ratified (by vote) by the states.

    The possible choices that laws and voters can make here are pretty tightly constrained by your property rights and the property rights of your neighbor.

    Which property rights exactly? You've not cited any. I guarentee any you do cite will be bills (or ammendments) that were voted into law.

    (Maybe what's confusing you about these examples is that any of the choices is a possible choice under some circumstances; however, the choices are not arbitrary.)

    The problem being that I am not confused. You are simply ignoring the entire process by which US law is created.

    No, it is not. Democracy means that the power of government derives from the consent of the people. It does not mean that the majority can vote on everything.

    So as long as the people choose to follow their monarch, it's democracy? Of course not.

    Heck, the US isn't even a democracy, it's a republic. Why? Because we don't directly vote on issues, we have representitives. (technically, it's something of a hybrid as we vote on some issues).

  110. MOD PARENT UP!!! by sfsp · · Score: 1

    Disclaimer: I have not read the petition.

    I am not a resident of Washington State, but I might have signed this JUST BECAUSE it deserves to be in the public consciousness, whether I was in favor or opposed.

    <opinion>
    I'm an evangelical Christian. I'm also a libertarian. This means that I hold personal views about behavior and morality that are different from my opinions about behavior and legality. Things I consider immoral may or may not be illegal, and the converse holds as well. But the state is about LEGALITY, not MORALITY.

    I don't think the state should sponsor gay marriage, because I don't think the state should sponsor heterosexual marriage.

    From the state's point of view, these should be considered as contracts between individuals, and the participants in the contract (NEITHER of whom is the state!) can call their relationship whatever they want. All the "benefits" applied to the contractual partners by the state should be applied indifferently to the gender of the participants in the contract.
    </opinion>

  111. Privacy for Tea-Baggers by Lars+T. · · Score: 1

    Edit out all those Tea-Baggers out of the reports on the TEA Parties, lest they feel the wrath of those damn gay Communists.

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    Lars T.

    To the guy who modded me down from perfect to terrible Karma - Apple haters still suck

  112. Sunshine Law vs SuperNova Law by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There is having your name on something public and then there is splashing it on the web for all to see.

    I guess you could say there is sunshine laws and then supernova laws.

    Sunshine is that someone could call the state and ask about petitions i have signed, supernova is that someone takes the mass of 170k names, pumps them up on the web along with my name and address along with how i hate people.

    I might not even have signed the petition out of any other motive then to ensure voters get their say.

  113. Missing the point by ImYourVirus · · Score: 1

    Not chasing, as in does whatever she says, has no will of his own, like a co-dependent almost if not one.

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    Why is common sense called that if it's not common?
    1. Re:Missing the point by cryfreedomlove · · Score: 1

      How is this related to marriage between two consenting adults?

    2. Re:Missing the point by ImYourVirus · · Score: 1

      Nothing you're the one that brought it up.

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      Why is common sense called that if it's not common?
  114. Political Aim by tylikcat · · Score: 1

    How much of the point of this is to suggest that gay folk are scary and threatening, and that social conservatives are oppressed? I don't think the intimidation argument is necessarily invalid in all cases - posting the names and addresses of abortion providers does constitute a threat. I'm not saying this is a parallel, and the petition process is rather different, but it's an interesting line to work through. But. I'm from Washington State. I grew up in the queer district in Seattle. I remember an awful lot of gay bashing. Conservative bashing? Not so much. And that would be news - it's got the man bites dog thing going for it.

  115. Re: Next time read the post first. by jipn4 · · Score: 1

    Which property rights exactly? You've not cited any. I guarentee any you do cite will be bills (or ammendments) that were voted into law.

    Your rights to your property are not created by law, you have them. The framers were clear about this, but the 5th and 14th Amendment explicitly clarify this point. If the government takes your property, it needs to compensate you. And if the government makes laws that affect your and someone else's property or life, it needs to be fair and equitable.

    You are simply ignoring the entire process by which US law is created.

    Look, you can vote on a referendum and you can get laws passed. But you can do that only for laws that are actually compatible with the Constitution, otherwise SCOTUS will just strike down the law. In addition, the Constitution itself can be amended, but that can't be accomplished simply by a majority vote. And if the Constitution is changed in the wrong way, the US would simply cease to be a democracy; yes, democracies can self-destruct through voting, and they do occasionally.

    Heck, the US isn't even a democracy, it's a republic. Why? Because we don't directly vote on issues, we have representitives. (technically, it's something of a hybrid as we vote on some issues).

    Oh, please, don't start that tired argument again. I mean, seriously, how do you think government in Japan, France, Britain, or Germany actually works? All democracies in the world have representatives these days. US representatives actually have less power than in most other democracies, making the US one of the least "republic" democracies in the world.

  116. Re: Next time read the post first. by JerryLove · · Score: 1

    Your rights to your property are not created by law, you have them. The framers were clear about this, but the 5th and 14th Amendment explicitly clarify this point.

    They 5th and 14th ammendments are laws, which were passed by votes of congress and then votes in the sates.

    When you cite the constitution, you cite the law.

    Look, you can vote on a referendum and you can get laws passed. But you can do that only for laws that are actually compatible with the Constitution, otherwise SCOTUS will just strike down the law.

    You are acting as though the Constitution isn't law. You are listing as though it were special, that laws have heiarchies. A county law would also be tossed for conflicting with a state law.

    In addition, the Constitution itself can be amended, but that can't be accomplished simply by a majority vote.

    So your objection is "simple majority"? It's OK, as long as it's a 2/3rds vote.

    yes, democracies can self-destruct through voting

    Of course they can. Simply vote away your right to vote. That would take a 2/3rd majority and radification by the states here.

    Oh, please, don't start that tired argument again. I mean, seriously, how do you think government in Japan, France, Britain, or Germany actually works? All democracies in the world have representatives these days.

    Your dismissal of a simple fact as "tired argument" is irellevent.

    The other countries you mentioned use various parlimentary systems, where there's a head of government (a Prime Minister) and a head of state (a president or monarch). There's a parliment, which is elected by party and percentage of vote. In England there is also a house of lords, which is heriditary.

    Technically, in England, the monarch appoints the PM, but functionally they always appoint candidate given by the ruling party or coalition.

    From there the PM appoints a cabinet. This cabinet basically advises and tubber-stamps the PMs rulings and laws. Stuff ends up in front of parliment, but it's a very different system from ours.

    For countries like Germany, where all positions are elected or appointed by elected officials; you have a republic, like to do in the US (the proper name for "Germany" is "the Federal Republic of Germany". Notice "republic" is in the name).

    All democracies in the world have representatives these days. US representatives actually have less power than in most other democracies, making the US one of the least "republic" democracies in the world.

    On the national level, nothing is done by referrendum or direct vote. I would say our represtitives are the most powerful. In the other countries you mentioned, the PM holds more power then the president (constitutionally) holds here.

  117. You're missing the point... by Fished · · Score: 1

    The point is that by claiming "orientation" as a motivation, my ex-wife is able to find a community that excuses her heinous actions. And this is not rare--there are many, many cases where men and women have walked out on their spouses and children into the arms of the GLBT community, where they found AFFIRMATION for doing heinous emotional and economic damage to those left behind.

    When did sexual satisfaction become more important than caring for your kids and keeping your promises?

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    "He who would learn astronomy, and other recondite arts, let him go elsewhere. " -- John Calvin, commenting on Genesis 1
    1. Re:You're missing the point... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      I don't want to be insensitive to your situation, but I believe we all see your point and recognize that it is still orthogonal to same-sex marriage.

      The point is that by claiming "orientation" as a motivation, my ex-wife is able to find a community that excuses her heinous actions.

      Your wife could have declared her intention to be "free to be with Hell's Angels named Thor", and undoubtedly she would have found a community of outlaw bikers to excuse her actions. It's not hard to find less contrived examples. She wanted to leave, she found an excuse (of indeterminate validity), and it seems she found a community which supported that excuse. That stinks, but it has nothing to do with same-sex marriage.

      And this is not rare--there are many, many cases where men and women have walked out on their spouses and children into the arms of the GLBT community, where they found AFFIRMATION for doing heinous emotional and economic damage to those left behind.

      In your other post you stated "...the GLBT community tells her she's a hero for walking out on her kids". While I have had limited interaction with the GLBT community, I believe that is a mischaracterization. Assuming your statement is literally true, then those individuals are jerks, but in my experience such behavior is not representative. However, it would not surprise me if there were many, many cases of men & women who were unable to confront their own non-heterosexual identity and entered into marriage denying their own sexuality and hiding it from their spouse. Years later, they may find the charade more unbearable than facing their sexuality, and upon "coming out of the closet" one source of support is the GLBT community. Naturally, such situations are likely to end in divorce, although one would hope for more amicable situations than yours. This isn't meant as a discussion of your wife's motivations, but rather to illustrate the difference between the GLBT community's support of those who are belatedly honest about their own sexuality, and you alleging that they support destruction of families. As poster jackbird implied, that's not what the community is about.

      Also, it seems to me that if our society were far less discriminatory about sexual orientation, then more people would be able to face their own sexuality instead of trying to hide it. It would follow that there should be fewer divorces based on one spouse coming out of the closet. Just to be clear, I'm not trying to say anything about the basis of your wife's claims; obviously I know nothing about that.

      When did sexual satisfaction become more important than caring for your kids and keeping your promises?

      When did it become more important? Only individuals can answer that, and perhaps there is no answer your wife could give which you would find satisfactory. Again, some people divorce for these reasons regardless of being sexual orientation. It really has little to do with homosexuality, and nothing to do with same-sex marriage.

      Finally, I don't have kids, but I can personally assure you that a breakup like yours is no less painful when based on purely heterosexual promiscuity.

      - T

  118. Re: Next time read the post first. by jipn4 · · Score: 1

    They 5th and 14th ammendments are laws, which were passed by votes of congress and then votes in the sates.

    No, they are not "laws" in the usual sense, they are amendments to the Constitution. There's a difference between a law and the Constitution. And the 5th and 14th amendment don't grant you those rights, they merely affirm and clarify that you already have those rights. If those amendments were repealed, you'd still have those rights and SCOTUS would still enforce those rights, since the are the underlying basis for the Constitution and assumed to be self-evident and inalienable.

    You are acting as though the Constitution isn't law. You are listing as though it were special, that laws have heiarchies. A county law would also be tossed for conflicting with a state law.

    The Constitution is "law" in the sense that it is legal language, but it isn't "laws" in the sense in which laws that Congress passes during its normal operation. And there is a definite hierarchy: constitutional law is much harder to change than (regular) laws. Constitutional law is also referred to as "supreme law". It overrides any laws passed by Congress.

    Furthermore, when voting on constitutional law, people don't vote on their preferences, the vote on conformance with the self-evident and inalienable rights.

    Of course they can. Simply vote away your right to vote. That would take a 2/3rd majority and radification by the states here.

    Great that we agree on something. What that shows is that the outcome of a democratic vote is not necessarily a democracy. And just like you can turn a democracy into a non-democracy by voting away your own right to vote, you can also turn a democracy into a non-democracy by voting away the self-evident and inalienable rights of others.

    Therefore, a democracy gives you the ability to vote away the rights of others, but since it ceases to be a democracy at that point, you cannot vote away the rights of others in a democracy.

    Your dismissal of a simple fact as "tired argument" is irellevent.

    It's relevant, because (1) it shows you're not along in making that mistake--it's a common mistake, usually linked to some political positions--and (2) you can find plenty of explanations why you're wrong.

    The other countries you mentioned use various parlimentary systems, [etc]

    Yes, and none of that changes the fact that the US is a representative democracy, just like all other modern democracies.

    The term "republic" has two usages, one being the American one ("representative democracy") and the European one ("not a monarchy"). All modern democracies are "republics" according to either usage. And all western republics (including the US) are democracies.

  119. Re: Next time read the post first. by JerryLove · · Score: 1

    They 5th and 14th ammendments are laws, which were passed by votes of congress and then votes in the sates.

    No, they are not "laws" in the usual sense, they are amendments to the Constitution. There's a difference between a law and the Constitution.

    "This Constitution, and the Laws of the United States which shall be made in Pursuance thereof; and all Treaties made, or which shall be made, under the Authority of the United States, shall be the supreme Law of the Land" - The US Constitution, Article VI

    Bluntly, you are just inventing your own definitions of words at this point.

    And the 5th and 14th amendment don't grant you those rights, they merely affirm and clarify that you already have those rights. If those amendments were repealed, you'd still have those rights and SCOTUS would still enforce those rights, since the are the underlying basis for the Constitution and assumed to be self-evident and inalienable.

    How am I supposed to argue with an unevidenced hypothetical. Certainly SCOTUS did not rule granting rights in ammendments before they were passed, which would include the 14th, 19th (women's sufferage), and the 13th and 15th (barring slavery).

    The Constitution is "law" in the sense that it is legal language, but it isn't "laws" in the sense in which laws that Congress passes during its normal operation.

    So things passed in special session aren't "law"? Again, you are just inventing terms and distinctions that don't exist.

    Furthermore, when voting on constitutional law, people don't vote on their preferences, the vote on conformance with the self-evident and inalienable rights.

    Like when they voted in term limits, or voted out alcholol? Prove your claim.

    And just like you can turn a democracy into a non-democracy by voting away your own right to vote, you can also turn a democracy into a non-democracy by voting away the self-evident and inalienable rights of others.

    Olny if said right is a right to vote.

    It's relevant, because (1) it shows you're not along in making that mistake--it's a common mistake, usually linked to some political positions--and (2) you can find plenty of explanations why you're wrong.

    Not true explanations however.

    Yes, and none of that changes the fact that the US is a representative democracy, just like all other modern democracies.

    The term "republic" has two usages, one being the American one ("representative democracy") and the European one ("not a monarchy"). All modern democracies are "republics" according to either usage. And all western republics (including the US) are democracies.

    You are inventing words.

    http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/republic

    "The United States of America (commonly referred to as the United States, the U.S., the USA, or America) is a federal constitutional republic" - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_states

  120. Re: Next time read the post first. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There's nothing more to say other than that you're an idiot who obviously knows nothing about politics or the US political system.