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Women Are Fleeing IT Jobs

Lucas123 writes "An alarming number of women are currently abandoning IT jobs that require workers to be on-call at all hours, according to a story in Computerworld. One study cited in the article states that by 2012, 40% of women now working in IT will leave for careers with more flexible hours. 'I think women in that regard are at a real disadvantage,' said Dot Brunette, network and storage manager at Meijer Inc., a Grand Rapids, Mich.-based retailer and a 30-year IT veteran. She noted that companies can fail to attract female workers, or see them leave key IT jobs, because they fail to provide day care at work, or work-at-home options for someone who leaves to have a child.'"

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  1. Dot Brunette? by GuyMannDude · · Score: 3, Funny

    'I think women in that regard are at a real disadvantage,' said Dot Brunette, network and storage manager at Meijer Inc., a Grand Rapids, Mich.-based retailer and a 30-year IT veteran.

    What a stupid name. Too bad she didn't get married to Jeff Matrix instead.

    GMD

    1. Re:Dot Brunette? by djlowe · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      "Dot" is a nickname - it's short for "Dorothy".

      As for her last name: Brunette is French for "brown", basically:
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brunette

      And it doesn't appear to be that uncommon a last name in Michigan, which isn't all that surprising, considering its history:
      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michigan

      Regards,

      dj

    2. Re:Dot Brunette? by SeaFox · · Score: 1

      ...there's way too much information to decode a Mrs. Matrix. You get used to it, though. Your brain does the parsing. I don't even see the code. All I see is .blonde, .brunette, and .redhead. Hey uh, you want a drink?

    3. Re:Dot Brunette? by maxume · · Score: 1

      He was making a joke...

      And read your link, the entire population of the state in 1830(long after France lost control) was 80,000, and by 1900, the population was in excess of 2 million (http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0004986.html). There is no historical reason to expect Michigan to have any higher portion of French lineage than any other state in the US.

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    4. Re:Dot Brunette? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thanks for the common knowledge, you condescending ass.

    5. Re:Dot Brunette? by Plutonite · · Score: 3, Funny

      by GuyMannDude (574364)
      What a stupid name. Too bad she didn't get married to Jeff Matrix instead.
      GMD This post has been a announcement from the irony-hurts department.

    6. Re:Dot Brunette? by flyingfsck · · Score: 1

      An old HP advert said: Old printers never die, sometimes you just wish they would.

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    7. Re:Dot Brunette? by asninn · · Score: 1

      Indeed - that name almost (but not quite!) beats Ima Hogg. :)

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    8. Re:Dot Brunette? by towsonu2003 · · Score: 1

      I think women in that regard are at a real disadvantage,' said Dot Brunette, network and storage manager at Meijer Inc., a Grand Rapids, Mich.-based retailer and a 30-year IT veteran.
      What a stupid name. Too bad she didn't get married to Jeff Matrix instead
      The fact that parent is #1 post for this news item and rated as "funny", I think women's flight away from IT is not just a result of gender job segregation but also stupid male IT workers (aka sexual harassment)...
    9. Re:Dot Brunette? by sasdrtx · · Score: 1

      Obviously, she should have married somebody named Slash.

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    10. Re:Dot Brunette? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There was another thread I saw the other day where in Australia a new site was launched recently (www.justbe.com.au) that provides advice, jobs and support for women (especially in situations like this). Thought it was interesting that something like that would come about but in speaking to fellow (female) workers, they are excited by the idea of job sharing in IT, etc, so that they dont have to drop their career when families come around.

  2. I don't get it by 0123456 · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Why would companies want to attract people who aren't willing to accept the conditions of the job? If men in the same job are expected to be on call out of work hours, why should women get a free pass?

    I thought we were supposed to have sexual equality, not special treatment for women.

    1. Re:I don't get it by keraneuology · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Special treatment for women IS equal treatment... after all, men always get special treatment, no?

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    2. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Special treatment for women IS equal treatment... after all, men always get special treatment, no?

      No.

    3. Re:I don't get it by yali · · Score: 4, Insightful

      The question is, are women "required" as in required by company policy and/or the way the job is structured? Or required as in, it's a fundamental and inevitable aspect of the job?

      Think of it this way... What if an IT department didn't have women's bathrooms, because it was designed back when only men held IT jobs. So the job "requires" women to go to a different building to use the bathroom. If a women quits because she finds that annoying, it is literally correct to say that she isn't willing to accept the conditions of the job. But obviously no one would defend that situation.

      Back to reality... If it's the case that IT work schedules and conditions happen to have been designed by guys who didn't mind being on call, and the company could change its conditions to make it possible for women (or any employee who's a primary caregiver for kids) to have the job and be effective, then they should change. That's not special treatment for women. That's putting an end to arbitrary conditions that create, in effect, special treatment for young, single men. (Because I'd say that not having to compete with women for your job constitutes special treatment.)

    4. Re:I don't get it by 0123456 · · Score: 1, Flamebait

      The only 'special treatment' men get is in divorce courts where their wife is allowed to take the house, the kids, and most of their income for the rest of their life.

      If a man and a woman both apply for the same job, but the woman refuses to be on call out of work hours, why would any sane company hire her?

    5. Re:I don't get it by 0123456 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      "If it's the case that IT work schedules and conditions happen to have been designed by guys who didn't mind being on call, and the company could change its conditions to make it possible for women (or any employee who's a primary caregiver for kids) to have the job and be effective, then they should change."

      Why should people who don't have kids be expected to work extra hard to cover for the pampering of people who do have kids?

      Look, you're hired to do a job. If you can't or won't do it, find a different job... there are plenty of people who are willing to do the job that they're hired for.

      So I don't see what the problem is.

    6. Re:I don't get it by cyphercell · · Score: 1

      If a man and a woman both apply for the same job, but the woman refuses to be on call out of work hours, why would any sane company hire her?

      I think it's called affirmative action. Equal treatment would be allowing men to work the hours they need to be with their kids after divorce and vice versa.

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    7. Re:I don't get it by Jarjarthejedi · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Back to reality an IT job does require time to be on call at all time. It's really a cut and dry case, servers/other important technology can break at any time and so people have to be on call to fix it at all time. It's much like power/water services, if your power goes out and you call the company (cell phone, before anyone complains about my analogy) you'd expect them to have someone ready to come out even if it was after normal hours wouldn't you? Same deal for IT.

      The on-call constraint isn't arbitrary and so you, in essence, wasted a perfectly good analogy making a point that's functionally useless. You are correct that IF on-call was an arbitrary constraint it should be removed and your analogy is nice but it's not arbitrary and so the IF statement may as well be If(false) consider removing the constraint.

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    8. Re:I don't get it by hobbesmaster · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Of course... Women are completely incapable of taking jobs which require you to be on call most of the day - only young men can do that.

      That must be why nursing is dominated by young men. ;)

    9. Re:I don't get it by 0123456 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      "Equal treatment would be allowing men to work the hours they need to be with their kids after divorce and vice versa."

      Why should any company let their servers go down for hours because people with kids refuse to be on call to fix them?

      It's really that simple: someone has to be on-call to fix things that break if you're providing 24/7 coverage. It's a part of the job that people are hired for. If they can't do their job, they should find another one, not try to offload the work they're paid to do onto others.

      I don't get why anyone thinks that people should be able to arbitrarily refuse to do the job they're hired to do, and then complain about it.

    10. Re:I don't get it by Jimmy+King · · Score: 1

      The thing is, I'd have to argue that in most cases I've seen, on-call and after hours work IS a fundamental aspect of the job. If important server X goes down at 2am someone needs to fix it asap. You could hire someone to work nights but most of the time there isn't actually enough work that needs to be done during those hours to justify paying another person. Due to the way business and life is scheduled you really need most or all of your staff there during the day (meetings, trainings, general communication, more stuff needs to be fixed faster due to other employees using it, more activity to monitor, etc.) and someone just available during the evening/night for just in case, so moving one or two of the current daytime staff to nights is also not the best solution.

      In exchange we frequently get paid more and at every company I've worked at IT also has other perks like frequently getting less restricted access to internet/web (or just getting access to the web at all) while at work.

    11. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They don't. Thats why they're leaving those positions.

      Of course, my wife stays at home with our kids and I'd still quit a job that had my hooked to a pager and carried the expectation that I would drop anything I was doing and rush off to a location. That kind of life just isn't for me.

    12. Re:I don't get it by krbvroc1 · · Score: 1

      The problem is that the market is correcting itself. The consequence of the correction is that as a society we are valuing families less and causes women to switch to some other career. That other career might be less technical in nature and thus our nation is less competitive.

    13. Re:I don't get it by tomhudson · · Score: 1

      Its not just one gender or the other ... its everyone.

      Everyone is fed up with strange hours

      Everyone knows that its getting harder and harder to fill advanced IT jobs.

      Things like "flex time" used to be "perks" - now they're mandatory if you're looking to fill a lot of positions.

      Weather's crappy? Telecommute. Stay in touch via email, phone, ssh, icq, forwarding X, etc.

      Already put in 40 hours or more over 4 days? Long weekend! (but if you're "on a roll" or "in the zone", accumulate the hours and post them next week and take a comp day off.) The 60, 70 and 80-hour week death marches were stupid, unproductive morasses. Getting into them was like getting into Viet Nam - more effort, less results.

      A lot of us take our jobs seriously, to the point where we're thinking about code, implementation details, etc., during what should be our "down time" ... flexibility from management is expected if you want to keep talent that is serious and committed - because if you don't want them, be sure your competition does, and is probably willing to throw in more perks and more money to boot.

      You wanted to be in support? Weeeeelll, that's another kettle of fish. Odd hours and being on call are the nature of the beast. Complaining about that is akin to a taxi driver complaining about having their "space" invaded when they pick up a fare, or a surgeon complaining about the sight of needles and knives and blood making them feel queezy ...

    14. Re:I don't get it by Bogtha · · Score: 3, Insightful

      men always get special treatment, no?

      Yeah, whoever heard of men working long, inflexible hours? They get to go home early because they have penises, right?

      Seriously, if women are quitting the IT industry because of discrimination, that's one thing. But leaving because they don't want long, inflexible hours? Tough. Men have to put up with it. Why shouldn't women?

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    15. Re:I don't get it by Hao+Wu · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Why should people who don't have kids be expected to work extra hard to cover for the pampering of people who do have kids?

      Some parents don't admit to the value of their own kids. They act like their offspring are a handicap and not a blessing.

      The reason childless folks earn more is because they pay the price in loneliness - in childlessness.

      Unless you are going to invite coworkers to spend time with your kids and appreciate them, don't whine that others have it easy or "don't understand" your needs.

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    16. Re:I don't get it by cyphercell · · Score: 1

      (or any employee who's a primary caregiver for kids)

      I appreciate that. Personally, I think the incentives for being on call should be improved. Before I had kids (and got divorced) I would regularly work 12-14 hour days 6 days a week, because I loved the money. Now my experience in the tech world seems to be that people on call are NOT compensated properly at all. The incentives/differential should prompt those that are capable to these jobs that demand more, unfortunately most IT jobs pay the same whether it's 9-5 or on call + 40hrs adjusted to eliminate overtime or worse 50+ hours on-call on salary. For me, a single dad, it's not the hours that have me daydreaming about an exodus, it's the damn paycheck/employer selection.

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    17. Re:I don't get it by max+cohen · · Score: 1

      Eh, the gist of the article was the work conditions for IT jobs were not appealing to many women and that women are leaving the field as a result, even though some companies and organizations WANT MORE women in those jobs and are trying to recruit more of them. It's not just women having kids, its the idea that you're never really away from the immediate, pressing needs of your employer and their demands, and that some women have said enough. So the female side of the IT work force might not grow, it could shrink even more. Hell, even some of us men think IT work conditions suck.

    18. Re:I don't get it by jamestks · · Score: 1

      Believe it or not, most men aren't thrilled about getting call at 1AM (unless it's a booty call). Many medium-size companies have 'Operations' staffs which handle routine IT problems. If you absolutely hate the mid-night phone calls, make sure you ask about them before accepting the job. It's true that you don't see many women in the technical side of IT anymore. All 14 of my co-developers are male ^_^

    19. Re:I don't get it by cyphercell · · Score: 1

      You didn't catch the "affirmative action" bit that answered your question? Anyways, the job I work at now had me in the position of being interviewed for a job, agreeing to those terms and two weeks later watching every single one of those terms turned on its head. The guy that hired me quit that day, otherwise I completely agree with you.

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    20. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Back to reality... If it's the case that IT work schedules and conditions happen to have been designed by guys who didn't mind being on call, and the company could change its conditions to make it possible for women (or any employee who's a primary caregiver for kids) to have the job and be effective, then they should change. That's not special treatment for women. That's putting an end to arbitrary conditions that create, in effect, special treatment for young, single men. (Because I'd say that not having to compete with women for your job constitutes special treatment.)


      This ain't all bad! I'm a 50+ compuer-droid, on call 24 hours a guy. My daily parade gets rained a lot. Sure, 10 years ago I was buff. Less so, no. Sure, I oughta have a fitness cener membership. I've had them in the past, but no more. Their matrix sensors know when you're thinking about doing a workout, the phone rings, end of workout ideas. It happens night after night, and then you're 45+, and it gets worse everey year.

      I totally empathize with women caught up in the crap that's became the US information Crapper.

      OTOH, I babysit their kids while on 2z7 call and take their kids to the office. The older ones fix a lot of stuff, too.

      Pinch me, I'm dreaming, again.
    21. Re:I don't get it by AuMatar · · Score: 2, Interesting

      24 hour support doesn't mean on call- it means you hire 3 shifts of people. SO no, there is no excuse for forcing people to carry a pager.

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    22. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's putting an end to arbitrary conditions that create, in effect, special treatment for young, single men. (Because I'd say that not having to compete with women for your job constitutes special treatment.)

      Ok Einstein women bear children and therefore are superior to men because they might have to be in the hospital for however long it takes to pop out that kid. Men don't. While I believe in the equality of the sexes I have seen many places that make the men do the heavy lifting because Susie is pregnant and we don't want to hurt her. Suzie was hired for the EXACT same job as I was but I have to do the heavy lifting because Suzie decided to tramp around and let someone else's penis to explore her vagina.

      If all things being equal and such I would say that women miss more time from work due to child care and or rearing a child than a man would. Yes there exceptions to this but the way society places motherhood on a pedestal, while wanting equal pay for EQUAL work is bunk. Women can't do the work that they were hired to do ... and they wonder why they don't get equal pay.

      I was single for much of my worklife. I was always asked to fill in when family emergencies came up (yea I know I made that choice to stay single. But my point is my life was different but I was asked to go above the "call of duty" and help the unfortunate "victim out". Was I paid more to assist someone else that was "equally" qualified to do that job? Hell no it was assumed that because I had no family I would have no valid excuse for saying no.
    23. Re:I don't get it by shaitand · · Score: 1

      'Think of it this way... What if an IT department didn't have women's bathrooms, because it was designed back when only men held IT jobs. So the job "requires" women to go to a different building to use the bathroom. If a women quits because she finds that annoying, it is literally correct to say that she isn't willing to accept the conditions of the job. But obviously no one would defend that situation.'

      I fail to see how that scenario has any relation to the current question.

      'That's putting an end to arbitrary conditions that create, in effect, special treatment for young, single men.'

      False. That's putting an end to work demands that create, in effect, special treatment for anyone who is not the primary caregiver for kids. It has nothing to do with gender. Further the company didn't give people without children special treatment. You could claim they gave themselves that advantage by choosing not to have children or you could pass it off on fate if you have trouble owning responsibility for your actions.

      It is illegal to discriminate based upon age, gender, race, or religion. It is neither or illegal or wrong to discriminate based upon dedication. Employees who sacrifice work performance and/or availability for things that are more important to them (doesn't really matter if it's children, family, or something else) are less dedicated to the job than those who do not. You might be justified in that choice, it might be the right choice. Maybe you should put your children and family before your job. But as an employer I'm making a bad business decision if I let understanding and sympathy interfere with choosing a candidate with greater dedication and availability.

      It's really no different than refusing to hire an employee who has a second job because you don't want to schedule around it. The same is really true of daycare and maternity. It makes no more sense for employers to accommodate pregnant women or women who leave for maternity than it makes to accommodate anyone else who was injured outside of work. If a man has a little too much to drink and gets in a skiing accident that will make him unable to work for 3 months there isn't even a guarantee of a job when he returns. Why should a woman who has a little too much to drink gets knocked up be treated any differently?

      Please understand, I am not saying that no companies should have jobs waiting for employees after pregnancy or accidents or accommodate injured employees. I am not saying that employers shouldn't consider providing daycare or work from home options. But it is a choice the company makes and they make those choices for business reasons. They might attract better employees that perform better or be able to pay employees lower salaries (something has to PAY for those accommodations after all). But there is no just reason to force them to provide those things.

    24. Re:I don't get it by Belial6 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      There you have it. The article could just as easily read, 'Women are at such and advantage, that they can afford to quite jobs because the hours are too long, or are too burdensome.' Nobody likes to be on call 24/7, and really, if it necessary for someone to be on call 24/7, your already screwed and don't know it. Now, I can understand why business wouldn't want women shunning them. After all, if I am an employer, I definitely don't want my pool of potential employees cut in half. What this really comes down to.. Is the cost incurred from cutting your potential employee pool in half, greater or less than the cost of implementing improved work conditions like telecommuting, flex hours, proper job coverage and or day care.

      Personally, I hope they choose that they want women in the workforce, and implement better work conditions to do it. While I do telecommute, I have turned down several gigs that would have paid noticeably more, so that I can be at home with my child. I will not, though, agree that the reason women are leaving is because they are at a disadvantage. Saying women are leaving IT because they are at a disadvantage is like saying that billionaires are not working at McDonalds because they are at a disadvantage. Those poor, poor billionaires, loosing out to those McDonalds jobs because of the unfair work environment.

    25. Re:I don't get it by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      No, affirmative action is going out and attempting to attract women or minorities to apply for the job. Maybe even creating positions that cater more to their needs. Hiring a woman over a man or a less qualified person over a qualified person (meeting the hour of the job requirements is a qualification)is called discrimination.

      If the job requirements are to be on call 24 hours a day 2 days a week, and work late if necessary on other day, then anyone not willing to do so don't meet the job requirements. They are not qualified in the same ways even if they have the same degrees but aren't willing to work the hours. It isn't affirmative action in any way. If anything, unless it has to do with some disability, it is discrimination. And the disability might not even be enough to make it work.

      As the parent said, Why would a sane company hire someone not willing to do the job. If the answer is specifically because they are a women or minority and the other candidates aren't, then it is discrimination plain and simple. This is why there is a push to eliminate quotas. It could effectively be discrimination in some situations.

    26. Re:I don't get it by Ubergrendle · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Essentially this will come down to a management problem. At some point, people will avoid IT as a career altogether. And when that happens, demand will go up for people, more money will be offered, and people will hold their noses and come back. In the late 1990s perks for IT were tremendous -- stock options, lots of vacation, huge bonuses. Now IT is treated like 3rd world labour...its a necessary evil for most businesses, they hold their nose and pay for it.

      If you've conditioned your workplace to disinterest women, you've effectively reduced your hiring pool by 50%. That's not a problem right now, but during the next industry crunch you'd f***ed. People management and staff retention is a strategic goal, not a tactical problem...too bad most of the industry right now is being managed quarter-by-quarter.

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    27. Re:I don't get it by nuzak · · Score: 1

      > Why should a woman who has a little too much to drink gets knocked up be treated any differently?

      Maybe because a woman who has to care for a child shouldn't be required to justify the circumstances of the conception. Dumbass.

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    28. Re:I don't get it by bushelpeck · · Score: 2, Insightful

      As a woman in IT, I agree with your position on equality. It's difficult and discriminatory enough without the stigma of special treatment or double standards being hung over my head.

      I'm not on call 24/7 because I chose a job that doesn't require it. If I had I would either put up with it or quit for something I liked better.

      It's not just IT people who have tough time requirements, btw - where I work, many on the business side have to endure punishing travel schedules. They tend to be younger, single men just like the 3am server-crisis guys.

      That said, there's a lot I wish I could change about the "No Girlz Allowed" clubhouse mentality of the IT profession but creating more resentment towards women due to special treatment isn't the way to do that.

    29. Re:I don't get it by nuzak · · Score: 2, Insightful

      > Men have to put up with it. Why shouldn't women?

      Men are as free to leave as anyone else. Women are just doing it more.

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    30. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why would companies want to attract people who aren't willing to accept the conditions of the job?

      Here is a another question. Why do people in IT put up with these hours? It isn't limited to women; the hours just plain suck. Most companies don't provide 3 shifts; they just expect people on the 1st shift to cover a 24x7 operations.

    31. Re:I don't get it by Alchemist253 · · Score: 1

      You do realize that land-line telephones operate essentially independently from the power grid (telecom companies generally must have backup power systems due to 911 in many or most locales) whereas cell phone towers have been known to go down with power failure, right?

    32. Re:I don't get it by roystgnr · · Score: 1

      Why would companies want to attract people who aren't willing to accept the conditions of the job?

      You said it, brother. I mean, if we were talking about jobs which are well-suited to working from home, like construction workers or surgeons, things might be different, but these are IT positions! To allow these women to work from home, we'd probably have to create a whole globe-spanning computer network!

    33. Re:I don't get it by ToasterMonkey · · Score: 1

      Who DOES stick with a crappy IT job that requires you to be on call frequently? I think in general, men work some of the cruddier jobs in the world. Does anyone ENJOY their 24 hour on call IT job? This isn't very surprising, but the headline is crazy.. "Women Fleeing IT Job"s != "Women Leaving IT Jobs That Require On 24hr On-Call Support" I.T. is HUGE.

    34. Re:I don't get it by shaitand · · Score: 1

      'Maybe because a woman who has to care for a child shouldn't be required to justify the circumstances of the conception. Dumbass.'

      The circumstances don't matter. A man who had a skiing accident sober isn't guaranteed a job when he returns either. It doesn't matter why or how it happened, what matters is that the employer isn't responsible for it and the employer shouldn't have to suffer for it.

      Stop thinking of mega corporation X where the money just magically appears and anything that isn't being spent is because corporation x is too cheap. Start thinking of the 4 man office owned by an employer who isn't taking home any more than the employees. The 4 men isn't an arbitrary number, its the minimum number of people who can handle the work load and the maximum number the company can afford to split up the profits between. Now, imagine one of those men has a skiing accident and is going to be out of commission for 4 months. Do you really think that company can afford to go without the 4th guy until he returns? Of course not, they have to fill that position. And they can't afford 5, so that is that. It doesn't matter why the 4th employee will be out of the office for 4 months, whether it is justified or not justified. The business can not survive without that employee and that is why the employee has a job.

    35. Re:I don't get it by Blkdeath · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Men are as free to leave as anyone else. Women are just doing it more.

      Yes, but men have children too. Is that the scapegoat?

      I'm getting mixed messages here. Women demand to become an equal part of the IT industry (the latest in a series of 'boys' clubs') so in they come. Now they're leaving because of the nature of the beast? IT == global == 24/7 requirements. Somebody has to keep the servers running, and somebody has to make the sandwiches.

      Here's an idea; let's make a new set of rules. You get hired based on your experience, qualifications, knowledge, education, and willingness to come to an accord as to the working conditions and requirements. Period. Forget the pigmentation of your skin, the tone of your accent, or the makeup of your chromosomes. If you're not cut out for the job - leave.

      Is this still news? Better still - why is this still news?!?

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    36. Re:I don't get it by Lumpy · · Score: 2, Informative

      the article is biased because of the source. I live in west michigan and all IT people Flee Meijer, Inc because it sucks to work there and they dont pay crap. They refuse to hire the number of people needed for the job there fore you are stuck driving 6-8 hours away at night to fix something at a pissant store because the manager of IT is too stupid to hire someone to cover that region.

      Almost everyone in Michigan knows that you dont work for Meijer in IT unless you are desperate. And then only for a short time.

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    37. Re:I don't get it by c6gunner · · Score: 1

      What if an IT department didn't have women's bathrooms, because it was designed back when only men held IT jobs. So the job "requires" women to go to a different building to use the bathroom. If a women quits because she finds that annoying, it is literally correct to say that she isn't willing to accept the conditions of the job. But obviously no one would defend that situation.
      "no one", eh? Well, I'll give it a shot. Right now I'm living in a dormitory. This building is entirely male, and no females are allowed by regulations. The adjacent building has a floor where the females are housed, and no males are allowed. Yet there are constantly women showering in my building (after certain..."acrobatic" activities), and no males complaining, while if I were to take a shower in the female building, I'd shortly be housed in a holding cell. Not because ALL of the females would be offended, but because one or two would.

      So...if all men are more than happy to share a bathroom, while some women are not, then those women are imposing an unnecessary burden on the employers. Why should they have a "right to employment"? They're inconveniencing everyone else by demanding separate facilities. How is this any different than, say, Muslim women demanding separate swimming pools and gyms? Maybe I should start my own religion that demands I have a washroom separate from anyone else. Then I could sue all future employers for offending my delicate sensibilities.
    38. Re:I don't get it by Blkdeath · · Score: 1

      Why should people who don't have kids be expected to work extra hard to cover for the pampering of people who do have kids?

      While I disagree that people with kids shouldn't be on a different schedule (kids need parental attention) - why is the focus on the women (particularly in this article)? I said it not 10 minutes ago and I'll say it again; men have children too. Married men are 50% of the equation. Single men with custody are 100% of the equation.

      What about compensating people on weird shifts and/or being on call in some way? More money, better office, more perks, more vacation time, access to the CEO's bathroom; whatever. Give them flex time through the week to compensate for being glued to a pager and worrying all the night before. If somebody doesn't want to take their turn and play fair, they get to pee in the dingy johns downstairs.

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    39. Re:I don't get it by VendettaMF · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You're really not getting it.

      Firstly the childfree do not generally get paid more than their benefit sponging, continually "nipping out early", "kiddie sick day" taking co-workers.

      Secondly most childfree are that way by choice, are not lonely and have no desire to have anything to do with other peoples kids.

      The reason most childfree people are childfree is because they were smarter earlier and able to comprehend the needs and difficulties of child-rearing, weighed it against the benefits and decided voluntarily to have nothing to do with it.

      The only thing we want from parents is that we don't have to carry the burden of their problems and mistakes. (Oh, and that they keep the squalling disease ridden fleshloaves away from us).

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    40. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Good point. In my workplace, the workers without children are expected to cover for and fill in for the ones who do have kids any time little Joey has the sniffles, usually without any advance notice.

      Right now, one of these workers with kids just got back from a couple days off while his wife had another baby. It was supposed to be "One day, I promise just one day" that became three days. That guy is going to be taking a couple more weeks off coming up soon. Who will cover? The single, child-free workers. The other workers who have kids will not change shifts to cover for him or anyone else. They have kids. They refuse to change hours.

      So who's left? Call in the single workers! Make them work double shifts! They have no lives. They'll jump through hoops. Dangle the carrot of ... I don't even know what. The OT is not worth the money. And then they grumble at you for having OT anyway.

      There is only so much of this I can take. I am fed up.

    41. Re:I don't get it by Tacvek · · Score: 1

      and at every company I've worked at IT also has other perks like frequently getting less restricted access to internet/web (or just getting access to the web at all) while at work. My guess is that is some companies IT department set the internet policies. No internet access for normal users means less crap to scrape off computers, etc.
      Even when it is a PHB who sets policy, they are more likely to listen to the IT staff, being that the IT staff are the technical experts.
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    42. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The only thing we want from parents
      Maybe from the parents, but from the kids you want their social security, and more and more their universal health care.

      Being childless gets you far more benefits than having children (as your quip about being smarter points out). And those benefits multiply as you reach old age and depend more and more on the taxes of those children you hated to pay for you.

      Face it, all things considered, you are a free loader.

    43. Re:I don't get it by Stephen+Maturin · · Score: 1

      Hmm... Don't you wish your parents felt that way at your age?

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    44. Re:I don't get it by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 1

      Bullshit. If women want to work in the industry, they should have to do the same work as men. Changing the condition of the job so women will do the job is special treatment for women.

      If men have to be on-call, so do women, end of discussion.

      If you don't want to pay the price, don't do the job.

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    45. Re:I don't get it by ErikZ · · Score: 1

      You would think that. But what ended up happening is that the night shift people were only trained to figure out who to call if a problem happened.

      Cheaper that way.

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    46. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, like the women in the article, you could...just leave.

    47. Re:I don't get it by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      The reason childless folks earn more is because they pay the price in loneliness - in childlessness.

      What in the hell are you talking about? Let's review:

      • No child, no SO: Free to do what I want, possibly lonely.
      • No child, SO: Probably have an SO because I want to be with them. Awesome.
      • Child, SO: Probably made this by accident, or horribly idiotic decision to do so on purpose. It's now draining finances, taking away from my time and attention to my SO, annoying me, carrying diseases into my house, doing idiotic things, embarrassing me, grossing me out, and causing excess stress between me and my SO because either we stab the kid in the heart now or we decide to "take care of it" and thus shield it from retaliation by directing all our stress on each other.
      • Child, no SO: Social services will come pick up my body and the child.

      Children aren't a handicap, they're a curse. Dependents lower quality of life and provide tax breaks. The tax breaks aren't worth it. There's a reason I'll never, ever, ever make one of these damn things.

    48. Re:I don't get it by FooAtWFU · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The reason most childfree people are childfree is because they were smarter earlier and able to comprehend the needs and difficulties of child-rearing, weighed it against the benefits and decided voluntarily to have nothing to do with it. Does that always mean they're smarter? One could instead say they're just more self-centered, or materialistic. I know that not everyone is capable of appreciating a potential family as well as others. But to paint that preference as "intelligent" and implying a that the inverse is stupid is uncalled for. In forty years, some of those career-minded people will surely be sad and lonely and wonder how stupid they were to think they were chasing happiness while they were burning themselves out for an empty career. (Some. Others will still be having the time of their lives.)

      I will say that the sad part is when Mr. and Mrs. Career decide that they want to start Raising a Family now as the next thing on their checklist at age 45, and they can't handle rambunctious youngsters (which they don't have the energy to handle) and have gotten so used to everything being about themselves... or, worse, when they try to live vicariously through their kids and pressure them into doing umpteen billion things, instead of letting them choose their life...

      My parents married young, while my dad was in graduate school, and we didn't even have enough money to afford the subway. We made use of the community garden, and my mother did some baking out of our apartment to help support us. I helped pat the dough when I was, like, 2 or 3... my first word was "hot", since the oven was, well, hot... and if you asked them, or anyone of their five kids, if they would have traded away one child for a slightly richer lifestyle, or even just waited another five years or so for something similar, well... No. It wouldn't be worth it. The love in a family can truly be greater more than all the riches in the world. They regret they didn't get married even a little earlier.

      I don't know anyone who regrets having had children. I know they exist, though, and this makes me sad.

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    49. Re:I don't get it by alienmole · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      But leaving because they don't want long, inflexible hours? Tough. Men have to put up with it. Why shouldn't women?
      Actually, men don't have to put up with it, any more than women do. They choose to.
    50. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow. SOMEBODY's full of hate and self-centeredness.

    51. Re:I don't get it by alienmole · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That's all very macho of you, but has it occurred to you to actually question the working environment that so many men are so obligingly putting up with? The news here could be "women are sensible enough to say no". (For the record, I'm a man, but not an employee.)

    52. Re:I don't get it by Coward+Anonymous · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "The reason most childfree people are childfree is because they were smarter earlier and able to comprehend the needs and difficulties of child-rearing, weighed it against the benefits and decided voluntarily to have nothing to do with it."

      Yup, smarter until they turn old, lonely and empty - seeking solace in finding the perfect toy for their cats, the best clothes for their dogs or some other trivial pursuit with utmost seriousness.

      You'll reach that age one day too.

    53. Re:I don't get it by paitre · · Score: 0, Flamebait


      You DO, in fact, get paid more, in a very real sense. Take childcare - I'm out $10,400 a year due to that expense (actually, it's a bit more, but close enough for this). The standard 'deduction' that I receive for having my children is just about 2/3's of that. You don't have that expense, so you have the money in your pocket to spend on part of your monthly payment on that second home, that Porsche or that hooker you call a 'wife'.

      Those sick days that we take to take care of our kids are sick days that WE cannot take if and when we, ourselves are sick. Those vacation days that we have to burn as sick time because of a serious medical issue with a child are less real vacation and relaxation days that we will have. Vacation days, that, if we were to leave for a new job, YOU would receive back as cash, but we would see nothing because we ended up using them for something far more important than another week long liberal/green love fest in Paris. Yet more -real money- that you see, and that we do not, because we chose to have children.

      You are more likely -able- to contribute the MAX amount allowed by law into your 401k. Something I, and many other single parents, and parents in general, are unable to do. You do not have to look forward to paying on student loans for your children to be educated by anti-family, anti-human, racist bastards like yourself. If you can call that an education.

      So yes, you do get paid more. Far more. And then you -=DERIDE=- those of us that have chosen to have children. Those of us that have chosen to do what is absolutely necessary for the survival of our race. Something that you hoity-toity liberal fucks who get snipped at 21 HAVE SELFISHLY CHOSEN NOT TO DO.

      You're gonna call me selfish for HAVING kids? Fuck you. You have no cognitive sense as to the sacrifice and absolute selflessness that one must have in order to be a parent. The world is better off that you shitheads like you never breed. Sadly, it's genetic fuck-ups like you that are educating our children, and convincing them that being a parent is such a heinous, selfish thing to be, when in all reality, choosing NOT to have children is far, far more selfish.

      Again. Fuck you. You have the cognitive abilities of a flea if you cannot comprehend why your stance is untenable for any nation, or race, or family to maintain. Do the world a favor and just off yourself, you colossal waste of oxygen. Maybe then you'll be useful, if your remains don't poison the ground beneath which they are buried or upon which your ashes are scattered.

    54. Re:I don't get it by Mockylock · · Score: 1
      Do you really think that parents want to take days off to take care of their children when problems happen? My wife and I actually have to take time off without pay when our children get sick, because we've used up our sick time or vacation time because of it.
       
      Unfortunately, because neither of us make a huge amount of money, we both have to work and pay over $24,000 a year in daycare as well. We also have to take time off when our daycare goes on vacation to watch the children, and PAY them while they're gone.
       
      I'm not saying it's a burden to have to do things for my children... it's sometimes stressful. And for someone who doesn't have one, or hasn't even been in any situation of the such.. to make ANY JUDGEMENT whatsoever is careless, ignorant and shameful.
       
      Granted, you may have chose to not have children for many reasons. My greatest guess would probably be because of your personality and attitude rather than your choice to not have any.
       
      I'm Sure your parents would really love to read this as well.
       
      I apologize to anyone I may have offended by my rant, but I have a hard time dealing with people who argue against those who try their hardest in life to make sure that their children, the ultimate reward, get the best that they deserve considering they can't take care of themselves. Even if it means taking a couple days off and going without pay... You've got to do what you need to.
       
      God bless the child that's got his own.
       
      And for the record,
       

      The reason most childfree people are childfree is because they were smarter earlier and able to comprehend the needs and difficulties of child-rearing, weighed it against the benefits and decided voluntarily to have nothing to do with it.

      Wrong. Most people who do not have children are that way for a reason. They're either too young, in school or not married because they have personality problems, self-esteem, mental or confidence issues.
      I'm not saying that everyone that doesn't have problems, has children... I'm saying that "MOST" childfree people are not that way just because of choice rather than other reasons. Most acutally couldn't get someone to have kids with them, even if they tried.
       
      I guess since someone already found that sad excuse of a post as "informative" I'm probably going to be repremanded.
        I'm not going to stop from voicing an opinion to some fucktard who used to be a "disease ridden fleshloaf" themself.
       
      I have no clue how that was not flamebait.
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    55. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly. But it's also the reason they deserve the extra money they make... small compensation for not having a family in one's future, but at least they can buy a comfortable life with their money. The last thing they deserve is to pay for other peoples' kids who they can't ever see or talk to, even if they wished.

    56. Re:I don't get it by hazem · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I'm getting mixed messages here. Women demand to become an equal part of the IT industry (the latest in a series of 'boys' clubs') so in they come. Now they're leaving because of the nature of the beast? IT == global == 24/7 requirements. Somebody has to keep the servers running, and somebody has to make the sandwiches.

      The message I'm getting in all these posts is something like this:

      IT jobs treat people like shit. Women don't stay in the jobs because they don't put with up being treated like shit. Men say the women don't belong because they're not willing to be treated like shit - like they themselves are.

      So I ask... why should anyone put up with being treated like shit?

      It makes me so happy that I got into the company I'm currently working for. It's a fortune 500 company and everyone works their asses off. But people come and go when they need to/want to. People are always going to the gym to work out or going to volunteer for charities or meeting each other for coffee/beer in one of the several cafes on "campus". The company is always having large after-work parties, even bringing in bands like Dave Matthews; and they always have interesting guest speakers who are eminent in their fields, such as Peter Senge. It's so awesome to work for a company that really values me and wants me to be happy in my work and my home life.

      That said, I've never worked harder in my life - and I really enjoy it! If you (collectively) don't work for a company that values you, your happiness, and your well-being, you should try it sometime.

    57. Re:I don't get it by paitre · · Score: 1

      And you're welcome to your decision.

      Thankfully you're yet another selfish asshole that will not be contributing his/her genes to the pool.

      Thank God.

    58. Re:I don't get it by Organic+Brain+Damage · · Score: 1

      You don't get it.

      IT people work for Companies. Companies need customers or, in the long run, they will cease to exist. And there go all the IT jobs.

      Women (with 30-90 seconds of assitance from men, early in the process) make the new customers. Without women making new customers, the company has no long-term growth prospects. Women recognize this. Men, as usual, are a bit slow on the uptake.

      It's difficult to be on-call 24/7 and make new customers. New customers are demanding little beasts. Even more than IT bosses. So, women are finding other jobs where they can continue to do something which is, in the long run, far more important than keeping the servers running.

    59. Re:I don't get it by hazem · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If a man has a little too much to drink and gets in a skiing accident that will make him unable to work for 3 months there isn't even a guarantee of a job when he returns. Why should a woman who has a little too much to drink gets knocked up be treated any differently?

      Most localities in the US require this because as a society we value women having babies (even if she was drunk) more than we value men having drunken ski parties. How else are we, as a society, going to stave off those hoards of immigrants?

      But as an employer I'm making a bad business decision if I let understanding and sympathy interfere with choosing a candidate with greater dedication and availability.
      Maybe in the short term. But in the long term, having a business full of people who are happy with their work and home lives has much greater benefits. I find if you treat people well that they are more dedicated. Creating an environment where people are treated well and accommodated well tends to lead to a very happy and productive work force. It's rarely about just on individual - you need a whole company of people to do what you do (or why did you hire them) - and you should want them to not be in conflicts over work and home. Sometimes its inevitable, but as a manager you should be trying to prevent it when possible, not encourage a work culture around sacrificing everything for the company.

    60. Re:I don't get it by Inoshiro · · Score: 1, Insightful

      You are so blind to your own oppression.

      "Seriously, if black people are quitting the IT industry because of discrimination, that's one thing. But leaving because they don't want to be called nappy-headed hos? Tough. Spics have to put up with it. Why shouldn't black people."

      Would it help if I used other racial slurs to illustrate the problem with your statement?

      These kinds of working conditions should not be acceptable to ANYONE. We're not living in 18th century coal mining towns. Progress is about standards of living. My ultimate legacy will be my biological offspring, and anything I happen to create which is of importance to others. While my creations might be forgotten or destroyed, it's unlikely that my DNA will come to a sad end if I raise my children right.

      If you want to work long, shitty hours for someone who'll replace you in a heartbeat, feel free. I'm going to work whatever job lets me live a life. If the job is something I like and believe in, I'll work to support it as fully as I can around that. However, there are boundaries. Work smarter, not harder. I find that works better than the "dig up, stupid" approach of throwing more work at people.

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    61. Re:I don't get it by Inoshiro · · Score: 1

      "Yes, but men have children too. Is that the scapegoat?"

      No. It just means that men, up until now, have either not felt empowered to speak out about their own terrible working conditions, or have been unaware of their own inability to be effective fathers because of the working conditions.

      What's good for the goose is good for the gander. It's stupid to require parents to be away from their children. Children who aren't raised correctly go bad. How bad? How about gun toting killing sprees at schools?

      This is a fairly systemic disease in a lot of first world countries. Japanese people have a word for people who work themselves to death rather than work to build a family. They also have an incredibly high rate of suicide for developed countries, and have other issues (like NEETs and Hikikomoris).

      Do you want that? I don't.

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    62. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you're that selfless, why not devote your time and resources to making the world a better place for the people who are here already, instead of piling more people into a world that already has more than enough humans? Face it, the human race would probably be just fine with half the population we have now. We don't need more humans. There are already over a billion people in the world who don't even have access to safe drinking water. Why don't we address those sorts of issues before worrying about expanding the human population?

    63. Re:I don't get it by lgarner · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Men have to put up with it. Why shouldn't women?"

      They aren't because they are finding other options. Men could also, but there's almost a macho image (well, as macho as it gets in IT, anyway) around working long hours and being on call.

      I think I can translate this article: "Women prefer being at home with their families to being poked with a sharp stick; Men aren't as smart. Video at 11."

    64. Re:I don't get it by Arker · · Score: 1

      Is this still news? Better still - why is this still news?!?

      It's news because a significant portion of the population has drunk the kool-aid so that any time a statistical difference between men and women is spotted there is an assumption this indicates some injustice, and a knee-jerk reaction that this 'problem' must be fixed.

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    65. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What are you doing posting on Slashdot instead of being out making babies? After all, one of them might not want to have not been born, right?

    66. Re:I don't get it by Arker · · Score: 1

      Think of it this way... What if an IT department didn't have women's bathrooms, because it was designed back when only men held IT jobs. So the job "requires" women to go to a different building to use the bathroom. If a women quits because she finds that annoying, it is literally correct to say that she isn't willing to accept the conditions of the job. But obviously no one would defend that situation.

      Actually in much of the world (outside of the US, Saudi Arabia, Iran and the like) segregated bathrooms are not the norm, so this example is almost incomprehensible.

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    67. Re:I don't get it by try_anything · · Score: 1

      It might be why some European countries face nursing shortages and depend heavily on immigrants from poor countries. It might also be why turnover is so high, even though nursing pays well relative to the level of education required.

    68. Re:I don't get it by kcbrown · · Score: 1

      Essentially this will come down to a management problem. At some point, people will avoid IT as a career altogether. And when that happens, demand will go up for people, more money will be offered, and people will hold their noses and come back.

      Er, no. Not anymore. Today, if the demand for people goes up, corporations will strongarm politicians into allowing more H1Bs for jobs that absolutely, positively have to remain in the States, and will ship the jobs in question that don't off to a slave labor economy like China.

      So once IT crashes, it'll remain that way for good, at least until wages in the U.S. (and thus the standard of living) are low enough to be competitive against a slave labor economy. In other words, it'll be a very, very long time.

      In the late 1990s perks for IT were tremendous -- stock options, lots of vacation, huge bonuses. Now IT is treated like 3rd world labour...its a necessary evil for most businesses, they hold their nose and pay for it.

      None of that is relevant anymore. Offshoring and the supreme amount of control corporations wield over the U.S. government (and others, for that matter) will guarantee that anything as essential to business as IT is today will remain cheap no matter what, even if it requires lighting a fire under the INS to approve more H1Bs and the like.

      The rebirth of serfdom is right around the corner.

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    69. Re:I don't get it by lukas84 · · Score: 1

      The only 'special treatment' men get is in divorce courts where their wife is allowed to take the house, the kids, and most of their income for the rest of their life. Marrying without a proper contract is idiocy. In fact, there isn't much need to marry, except some tax cuts maybe.
    70. Re:I don't get it by killjoe · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Why don't the corporations man their data centers 24X7 or outsource?

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    71. Re:I don't get it by lukas84 · · Score: 1

      There's no people with having children. It's just that many of those people who do have children made uninformed decisions.

      Having children is like leasing a car. Leasing a car is a commitment for, e.g. 4 years. You will need to pay for gas, the leasing payments, the insurance, the car service, etc. Lot's of stuff to pay for. You will need to make sure that you have enough money to pay for the car for the full four years, otherwise it can get very, very ugly.

      When you have children, you don't get a 4 year commitment. You get a commitment of AT LEAST 18 years. And you can't just put the children in the garage when you don't have time for them, no, for the first few years they need constant supervision.

      There's nothing wrong with people having children, it's just that they need to make sure that they can AFFORD having children. Which is pretty hard to get right, because prediciting the next 18 years in your life can get kinda difficult - heck, it's even difficult with just 4 years.

      The problem with people who do have children is that they like to blame other people for their uninformed decisions. Companies don't have to cater to their needs (they can, of course, if they think that this makes their shareholders more money).

      Of course, on a global scale, children are very important to continue our society. But is there a need for this to concern me? No, because when this problem reaches it's peak, i will probably be already dead. There are other people, namely politicians, who get paid a heck a lot of money to care about these problems and offer solutions.

    72. Re:I don't get it by lukas84 · · Score: 1

      Most acutally couldn't get someone to have kids with them, even if they tried. I don't know about the US, but here in europe this would usually easily be done by picking up young girls in clubs, spending a bit of money on a few drinks, and then going to a hotel with them.

      Not a lovey-dovey relationship, but you would still have offspring.
    73. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes. There are only 6 billion people on the planet. How very selfish for not wanting to produce more.

    74. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I see your sentiment a lot, but this is a very dangerous route to follow. At least in europe we are dieing out, seriously, childbirth is at an all time low here. I think we should give having children and allowing them to grow up to mentally stable productive adults one of the highest priorities.
      The aging of our population is already causing very serious problems, there aren't enough capable people to fill our jobs anymore. Also, who is going to take care of you when you grow old? (robots?).
      Not having children is distroying our society. I do not think child free people or people with only one child should be coerced or punished, but I do beg them to reconsider their choice. The very least they can do is lend there full cooperation to people who raise children.
      (also, I'm not a parent yet).

    75. Re:I don't get it by JAlexoi · · Score: 1

      I would say that single people bring more value for their salary.
      That is why people that agree to sacrifice some(for /. its probably ALL) social life get MORE money, because they do more good stuff for the company.

    76. Re:I don't get it by jd_esguerra · · Score: 1

      I don't work in IT, but I have noticed a trend: Women who *like* computers and tech, and who engage in traditionally geeky hobbies outside work often have keys to the "No Girlz Allowed" clubhouse. I think what is being overlooked is that the IT profession might not have a "No Girlz Allowed" mentality as much as it has a "No Non-Geeks Allowed" mentality. And I use "geeks" here as a general reference to people who generally live technology-centric lives.

      I know plenty of guys who can't get into the IT clubhouse either, presumably because they don't have the same level of interest in IT and "tech toys" as the rest of the group. And it isn't so much of a communication barrier as it is a lack of bonding with the rest of the group, usually through "pain."

      Just a few of my observations.

    77. Re:I don't get it by pipingguy · · Score: 1

      At some point, people will avoid IT as a career altogether.

      At some point, people won't *need* IT support, they'll be able to take care of it themselves.

      Isn't Linux supposed to be about independence and freedom, or are we being led into some high-priests-of-knowledge nightmare?

      Eventually, IT work is going to become a task that everyone knows how to take care of in addition to their "real" work.

    78. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    79. Re:I don't get it by rizole · · Score: 1

      Everyone seems to get this ass backwards IMO. The whole debate is framed wrong; This shouldn't be about what men and women will and wont do, it's about a system that puts jobs, money numbers and stuff before actual real people. This system is so successful that it has most of you bitching at each other and not at what's broken. Conquer and divide.

      If you go around accepting shitty conditions at work, you legitimize them. If lot's of you do this you make employment in whole sectors of the market a bag of pants. Obviously I'm a bit of a romantic and to get a system that values people before things would require a huge sea-change throughout different layers of society and that's not likely to happen soon, if at all.

      All that is really just a preamble to me saying; Please stop your "if you can't or wont" sniping and whining. I'm not asking you to become a humanitarian or even to smile around the office if you don't want. Just stop adding your own increment of shit on the pile that most of us have to wade through just to make a living.

      Thank you.

    80. Re:I don't get it by shaitand · · Score: 1

      'Most localities in the US require this because as a society we value women having babies (even if she was drunk) more than we value men having drunken ski parties. How else are we, as a society, going to stave off those hoards of immigrants?'

      That's great for society but society should keep its business practices for use in its own businesses and leave everyone else to run their businesses as they see fit.

      'and you should want them to not be in conflicts over work and home'

      Hence the reason you would hire the employee who doesn't have family concerns and can work the hours needed.

      'Sometimes its inevitable, but as a manager you should be trying to prevent it when possible, not encourage a work culture around sacrificing everything for the company.'

      Again, the best way to do this is to not hire people who have those conflicts in the first place.

      'Maybe in the short term. But in the long term, having a business full of people who are happy with their work and home lives has much greater benefits.'

      If you are hiring for positions that need someone on call 24/7 and you hire people who have personal commitments that make them unable to live up to that obligation then there won't be a long term for your business.

    81. Re:I don't get it by Phoobarnvaz · · Score: 1

      I thought we were supposed to have sexual equality, not special treatment for women.

      Not even close. Prime example...selective service registration!!! Need I say more.

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    82. Re:I don't get it by kripkenstein · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yup, smarter until they turn old, lonely and empty - seeking solace in finding the perfect toy for their cats, the best clothes for their dogs or some other trivial pursuit with utmost seriousness.
      It is interesting to speculate about what those 'trivial pursuits' might be for the current generation (and next ones), when they get old enough. Perhaps the internet? For example, a blogging 13-year-old today may be tomorrow's blogging 90-year-old-spinster. That is, meaningless time spent on pets can be replaced with meaningless time spent on the internet.

      What's better for lonely old people, pets or the internet? I don't know. But I hope they still have Slashdot in 30 years, when I am a retired lonely old person (I don't like cleaning litter boxes, and barring hell freezing over, I will be childless and unmarried).
    83. Re:I don't get it by heinousjay · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Selfish from the perspective of your children instead of yourself is still selfish, just displaced. If you were truly selfless, other people's children would mean as much to you as your own. You really prepared to make that statement?

      In other words, fuck you. You're consuming more resources because you've bred, so YOU get to pay for it.

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    84. Re:I don't get it by mackyrae · · Score: 1

      Well if you consider the stupid people who go "condom? oh uh....oops" or don't realize they're pregnant until 5 months into the thing or don't get plan B if the condom breaks and all that stuff....uh, yeah, I'd say people who don't have kids probably are a bit smarter than those who do, because they were at least smart enough to all understand family planning / contraception, which is something only a segment of parents can claim.

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    85. Re:I don't get it by eyeye · · Score: 1

      Unfortunately, because neither of us make a huge amount of money, we both have to work and pay over $24,000 a year in daycare as well.


      Both of you earn more than $24k each a year each, I don't see what your problem is. If one of you doesn't earn more than you are paying on childcare then quit your job and spend it with your precious ones.
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    86. Re:I don't get it by eyeye · · Score: 1

      How else are we, as a society, going to stave off those hoards of immigrants?

      Hey moron, those immigrants are your society - read a history book sometime.
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    87. Re:I don't get it by hotdiggitydawg · · Score: 1

      That's all very macho of you, but has it occurred to you to actually question the working environment that so many men are so obligingly putting up with? The news here could be "women are sensible enough to say no". (For the record, I'm a man, but not an employee.) Your attitude is all well and good when you are secure in the knowledge that you cannot be easily replaced. Unfortunately most IT jobs can now be done by anyone who meets a minimum level of competence, and post-tech-bubble there are now a lot of people above that bar. Very few are in positions where replacing them is not a financially viable option. Not willing to put up with the working conditions? Then we'll find someone who is. And if you can't find another job (because they've all gone to India), well you'll either have to fend for yourself in this world or expect the State to look after you (and your family if you have one). When faced with that choice, most people see staying in their existing job as a secure and preferable option.
    88. Re:I don't get it by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 1

      Excuse me, but it's what they pay us for. If you don't to work during dinner, don't be a waiter. If you don't want to work on Sundays, don't be a minister. If you don't want to get the 3:00 AM call because some core server got hit by a spam wave and exceeded the number of available inodes because you switched form mbox format to MAILDIR last week and some idiot on a mailing list refuses to sort or transfer any of the 10 Gig of mail messages off the primary mail server and into their home directory in direct contravention of published email storage policy, then you don't belong in IT.

      Yes, this has happened in my presence: I was at dinner with the poor engineer who got the panic call and we worked out a solution. He wound up paying for my dinner and a decent bottle of wine in thanks.

    89. Re:I don't get it by NMerriam · · Score: 1

      Of course... Women are completely incapable of taking jobs which require you to be on call most of the day - only young men can do that.


      Since when are nurses "on call"? Like many jobs, hospital nurses (generally) have scheduled, rotating shifts paid hourly. That's a far cry from being on call 24x7 for a fixed salary. Many doctors ARE on call, but only for particular times (one 8-hour period a week was common for residents at my last hospital, radiologists and such did on-call from home every 2-3 days instead of 1 in-house shift because it was easy to log on over the VPN and look at images).

      24x7 salaried on call is pretty unique to the IT industry, and it is certainly an unattractive proposition to anyone other than single young people who have no social lives. I was given a pager once at a salaried IT job -- I joked with my boss that if we ever lost my desk not to worry since we could just call my pager since it was in my top drawer anytime I wasn't in the office.
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    90. Re:I don't get it by bushelpeck · · Score: 1

      There is a "No Non-Geeks Allowed" mentality to be sure, but women who get past it have a lot of additional obstacles to overcome. Read some of the AC comments on this thread if you don't believe me.

      My current IT job will probably be my last. I'm tired of battling all these tinpot dictators who use their technical knowledge to carve out little fiefdoms just to make themselves feel important.

      Good software is all about the end users. Bad software is only about the guy who programmed it.

    91. Re:I don't get it by battjt · · Score: 1

      The problem is that you can't get a feel for an applicant's "experience, qualifications, knowledge, education, and willingness to come to an accord as to the working conditions and requirements" in an interview. It will take a couple months of working with that person to know and then it is very difficult to let them go if they don't fit.

      To help weed some of that out early everyone tends to profile a bit. The young guy with no kids tends to work more hours than the middle age guy with a family of seven. Men tend to not take maternity leave (duh). Ex military tend to have more respect for the org chart. These perceptions increase the efficiency of the hiring process, but aren't "fair". (I've never seen any of this formalized, it is just a natural reaction)

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    92. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Does your company hire everybody and give them work that they enjoy and wages that they are happy with? If so, what company is it? And could it be the case that the supply of such companies/positions is not high enough to meet the demand? In other words, could it be that "trying it sometime" is not as easy for everyone as you seem to think it might be? Or do you actually understand that and are just gloating?

    93. Re:I don't get it by Mockylock · · Score: 1

      I live in DC. $40 is almost nothing out here.

      We have actually thought about it, but we would have to move into smaller housing in a bad part of neighborhood.

      We're not exactly living bad, don't get me wrong. I just think that people should dog parenting if they haven't been there... They may say that it's their choice, but sometimes even good parents didn't actually make the choice have children either.

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    94. Re:I don't get it by humphrm · · Score: 1

      Wow. You've really cemented that dogma in your brain hard, haven't you? You've even come up with a positive euphemism for it, "childfree". Maybe if you light that fire of hatred hot enough, it will carry you through to your older years. Then, instead of being viewed as "passionate" you'll just be called "crotchety". Well, good luck with that, hope it works out for you.

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    95. Re:I don't get it by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

      I'm an only child. I'm trying to find a way to move out so that my parents don't know where I am; they have nothing left I want and the only reason I'm here is because I can't support myself. Once I'm gone, they get back 20-30% of their power bill (I have a 9 amp AC running up here all the time, and 2 computers, and a laptop, TV, game system, surround sound system, non stop; they're all conserving power, I'm trying to not use any more and had to get a flat panel monitor and CFL just to keep th breaker from throwing). They also don't have to feed me any more. They also save a few dollars a day on one complete heating cycle for 150L of 10C water up to 50C (showers). They also don't have to factor in the mess I make of their taxes.

      On the other hand, I'll have to manage to afford my own food, electricity, water, gas, living quarters, and vehicle repairs. This is fine; I'm still here because I can't do that yet. Besides storing up money at $35000/year, I've been working on food, electricity, and gas. I can do breakfast in 15 cents for raw materials (70 cents for 1 dozen eggs; $10 for a bag of pancake mix that can make like a thousand pancakes), and I like ramen and rice.. a little meat would be nice, eggs actually have an extremely high nutrition value but I'll have to slip some real meat in there, I'm sure I can keep it under a dollar a meal still. Electricity I can go solar for, once I have a house (not an apartment); this will knock off a chunk of my electric bill, if I'm lucky it'll zero it out. Gas will come from switching to electric stove/water heat and using an evacuated tube solar collector to heat the water. If I get ground water and septic, I can use a well and eliminate the water and sewage bills; but this adds a 2KW pump onto my electrical infrastructure as well.

      Seriously, when I get out of here I'm gone. Nobody wants or needs me around, and I don't want to be here.

    96. Re:I don't get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't be obtuse. People have kids because of their own egotism and biological imperative.
      I doubt "Suzy Stay-At-Home" worries much about ensuring future generations of citizens...

    97. Re:I don't get it by VendettaMF · · Score: 1

      Woohoo! Bingo!

      And just to note, in addition to all the other benefits you listed for me, my non-wife and I get to have sex anytime, anywhere in our luxury home without having to deal with interruptions.
      And even beyond that there's not the slightest hint of the "hot dog in a hallway" issue.

      And I do not get paid more. I just make better choices as to how I'll use my income. You chose kids (unless you were oopsed, in which case you've got a great line of rationalizing, and my sympathies)

      And lets just note on the side that at no point has anything I have said been in any way construable as racist. Your reading comprehension is lacking.

      I am however anti-human. There are indeed too many of us. By between 2 and 3 orders of magnitude. I've done my bit to reduce this problem. For the greater good of all. You, very selfishly, have apparently decided to let your biological urges over-ride your intelligence.

      Nations, races and too a lesser extent families are a short term item. A nonsense in the grand scheme of things. Humanity in a recognizable form has only just been birthed and unless we get our population in check and under rational control we're going to drive ourselves to extinction in less than a hundredth of what even the dino's managed.

      So, sure, I may screw up your 50 year plan to use the next generation as slaves to support your luxurious decrepitude, but unless a lot more people start thinking with the heads on their shoulders then you're all screwing humanity out of a future.

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    98. Re:I don't get it by VendettaMF · · Score: 1

      What they want doesn't come into the equation. What they _chose_ does. Why should I suffer for others choices? And then be expected to be glad about it? Or criticized for not understanding how difficult it is? The whole point I made was that I looked at it rationally and constructively, weighted the difficulties and made the choice.

      Now I am expected to suffer others problems because they were incapable of doing so? No, I really don't think so, thank you.

      If your kids are the ultimate reward, that you will sacrifice all for etc etc etc blah blah blah broken-record.... ... then why do you feel such need to persuade me of how I am mistaken?

      Are you completely sure it's me you're trying to convince?

      Oh, and as for the "used to be one yourself" routine, I used to be a separate spermatozoa and egg at one point. Doesn't mean I want to be surrounded by unguarded samples of either while I'm eating/working/living, and I certainly don't want to be entertained by your detailed stories about them either.

      Hint to all parents, NO-ONE wants to hear about juniors first unassisted dump. Not even his/her grandparents.

      (Not too mention Bingo!)

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    99. Re:I don't get it by VendettaMF · · Score: 1

      Actually, if you would care to check you'll find I'm more than paying my own fair share into the social structure already. Long before I retire I'll have paid more than enough (even after extracting my share for govt and public works on a day to day basis) to live a retired life of luxury.

      Unfortunately I won't get that life of luxury from the social structures, as the money is being wasted on unprepared parents and their spawn.

      If I could opt out of receiving any retirement benefits in exchange for keeping that money and making my own arrangements I would, and I'd be far better off for it, but no. The childfree have got to pay for the childed's ongoing existence.

      Just who's freeloading and who's pulling the cart? Simple answer : You were factually incorrect in your post.

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    100. Re:I don't get it by VendettaMF · · Score: 1

      The term childfree (Simplistic definition : Childless by choice) has been around for quite a while now, and is not a single doctrine/dogma. There are a variety of routes that lead to the same conclusion.
      They range from the simplistic and accurate ("I don't like children. They tend to be loud and smelly") through to the altruistic and wishful ("World is overpopulated. I'll do my bit").

      As I am a teacher I am by default already crotchety, but thanks for noticing.

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    101. Re:I don't get it by VendettaMF · · Score: 1

      Dangerous in the short term, absolutely crucial in the mid and longer term (though in this context long term is so long term that we can't even really comprehend it).

      The world is diseased. It is flooded with humanity. A top of the food chain critter like us (despite our physical shortcomings for the role) with our huge territorial needs (resource hogging) would be adequately represented on earth by a population of between 1 and 5 million on each continent.

      I've done my bit to help fix this before we breed ourself to extinction, but there's nothing further I can ethically do beyond encourage fence-sitters to do the right thing. For me this was not a big sacrifice. I've never been particularly controlled by the more complex or abstract biological urges, but for most people this is too much of a sacrifice to even consider.

      Far from reconsidering my choice I urge you to think beyond your own immediate economy and pension slave fund.

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    102. Re:I don't get it by VendettaMF · · Score: 1

      Mostly I'd agree with you, but I disagree quite strongly with your last paragraph. On a global scale nothing humanity can do is more important than to on average stop having children.

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    103. Re:I don't get it by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      So I ask... why should anyone put up with being treated like shit?

      For the money. The woman's ego doesn't match the man's, so they are more offended by being treated poorly. Men are usually more able to handle being a nameless, faceless number that is responsible for every problem and "just doing his job" when he saves the day. (but don't get me started on the many things that the male ego is more fragile in relation to)

    104. Re:I don't get it by randolph · · Score: 1

      Why should anyone put up with it?

      Seems to me, if you want someone in on third shift, you pay them that shift time.

    105. Re:I don't get it by SuhlScroll · · Score: 1

      Essentially this will come down to a management problem. At some point, people will avoid IT as a career altogether. And when that happens, demand will go up for people, more money will be offered, and people will hold their noses and come back.

      WRONG; what will happen (as is currently happening) is that people like Bill Gates will go to Congress (or their respective governments) whining that they need more imported (read cheap, captive) H1B/L1 visa (i.e., imported) labor to offset the "shortage of IT workers" (read too many people who know an IT/technology career means getting screwed in the ass financially compared to other careers while people like Uncle Bill become mega-rich at their expense). IT is treated by 3rd world labor for a very good reason ... in a lot of commercial companies it is.

      The plain truth is that companies don't want to pay people who have the intellectual ability to do the kind of work required by an IT career market rates because these companies have gotten used to the labor cost environment put in place in the late 90's/early 00's by outsourcing, importing cheap visa labor and by the labor churn of the post-dot.com crash. Now that the IT labor market is again becoming tighter (both by experienced people leaving and by the refusal of new people to come into the labor market in favor of better careers) we get the "we need unlimited sources of cheap, oops I meant visa labor" from Uncle Billy and his ilk. They don't care about women in the field, they just care about having enough cheap captives. People (both who have been in the field and people who are considering it) know this to be the case after the last decade, so they're not going to come back if they find better alternatives.

    106. Re:I don't get it by alienmole · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      One question is, what are the women doing? Of course, one answer may be that they're staying at home and being supported by husbands, but I bet that doesn't explain the entire trend. Many of them probably move into other areas. Is there something stopping men from doing that? Is it that they love filling out TPS reports so much that they can't imagine any job other than IT? I think the real answer is that most people don't really think about their choices or try very hard, they just stay wherever they ended up and "suck it up", pretending that this makes them tough.

    107. Re:I don't get it by Panzergheist · · Score: 1

      You're missing the point. If the pregnancy was an accident, why should it be treated differently than any other accident. If the pregnancy was planned, why should an employer make special exceptions for the sole purpose of giving special treatment to someone? No one is asking anyone to justify anything. What was being asked is why anyone should have to take responsibility for the choices made by someone else with whom they have no control over.

      In general, those who choose to have children will not be as successful in business as those who choose not to. However, it can be argued that those who choose to have children will have richer lives than those who do not.

    108. Re:I don't get it by Panzergheist · · Score: 1

      The Sarcasm Meter Recalibration Service would like to have a word with you.

    109. Re:I don't get it by Coward+Anonymous · · Score: 1

      "I'm an only child. I'm trying to find a way to move out so that my parents don't know where I am; they have nothing left I want and the only reason I'm here is because I can't support myself."

      Your first sentence sums it all up. You are a self centered, selfish person obssessed with the electric bill, breakfast (and money in general, it appears) as measures of affection/need/onus. Amazingly, you completely fail to recognize in your hinited haze of loathing that your parents do indeed let you stay. Your parents do want you around. If their attitude was equally summed up in "they have nothing left I want...", what would have been easier for them than to kick your egotistical bum out?

      Here's a hint. Being an adult ain't all it's worked up to be. Enjoy your worry free dependent life while it lasts.

    110. Re:I don't get it by Mockylock · · Score: 1

      You're completely fucking pathetic. I can't believe someone actually shit you out of their loins.

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    111. Re:I don't get it by Rakarra · · Score: 1
      It's difficult to be on-call 24/7 and make new customers. New customers are demanding little beasts. Even more than IT bosses. So, women are finding other jobs where they can continue to do something which is, in the long run, far more important than keeping the servers running.


      You could also say new customers are their own 24/7 on-call job, and that women don't want to work more than one on-call 24/7.

    112. Re:I don't get it by Doctor+Faustus · · Score: 1

      I'm a parent, I can get pretty annoyed with the "childfree" movement nonsense, and you do have a point that the people complaining don't seem to notice that the time spent on our kids comes out of our vacations (it's worse if you're still in school -- I ended last year with a smaller time off bank than I started with, and I took no vacations whatsoever).

      That said, please shut up. If you're going to go around calling everyone selfish, I don't want you on my side. There will always be enough people who do want children to avoid population underruns, people who don't want kids aren't going to be good parents, and finally, accusing people of selfishness will win over no one.

    113. Re:I don't get it by falconwolf · · Score: 1

      But leaving because they don't want long, inflexible hours? Tough. Men have to put up with it. Why shouldn't women?

      Because they are smarter and won't put up with being treated like garbage.

      Falcon
    114. Re:I don't get it by falconwolf · · Score: 1

      Look, you're hired to do a job. If you can't or won't do it, find a different job... there are plenty of people who are willing to do the job that they're hired for.

      Perhaps the one who needs to get a new job is the one who can't setup a system that does not need babysitting or doesn't need to be fixed constantly. That's a job no employer should need, do the job right the first tyme!

      Falcon
    115. Re:I don't get it by Nivag064 · · Score: 1

      The people who do not have children will be looked after in their old age by other people's children, and these childless people will be consuming goods produced by other people's children.

      What is the point of amassing fabulous wealth to enjoy in your old age, if there is no one there that you can buy goods & services from? It may seem strange but every working adult is someone's child, that had to be raised and educated.

      It is in the best self interests of childless people to support those who do raise children.

      It is the collective responsibility of all today's adults to help raise today's children, for today's children constitute tomorrows society.

      Childless people who begrudge support for parents, are essentially short sighted free loaders.

      -Nivag

    116. Re:I don't get it by VendettaMF · · Score: 1

      Yay for reasonable and rational discourse.

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    117. Re:I don't get it by acnard · · Score: 1

      Yes, let's question it (the working environment):

      Once upon a time, the men went out to work and the women stayed at home "in the kitchen", and society and the workplace were structured accordingly. The man provided for the family (monetarily) while the woman did the work necessary to make a household run smoothly (and economically! not for nothing do they call it "home economics"), look after the kids and possibly aged relatives, organise everybody's lives and so forth. This was an essential supporting role because, working long (or even normal) hours it's quite hard to have wholesome meals on the table, clean clothes etc. without spending a fortune on third party providers of such services (who will in any case never do certain things as lovingly as a wife or mother...)

      Now however, women also go out to work, often in the same jobs as men, but society and the "rules" of the workplace have not really changed to accommodate this shift, so that in addition to their "official" work hours women tend to also continue doing their former tasks, essentially working if not two, then at least one-and-a half jobs. Consider, from the Fourth European Working Conditions Surveys (2005) :

      - The results show clearly that working women spend more time in unpaid work than do working men in all European countries.
      - While men work longer hours than women in paid employment in all countries, women in fact work more hours than men when paid and unpaid working hours are combined.
      - When considering paid and unpaid work in combination as measured by the European Working Conditions Survey, female part-time workers work more hours in total per week than male full-time workers (56 against 54 hours).

      I believe this added burden of unpaid work is the real reason why women are less tolerant of long hours (in paid work), all the more so where there are children involved. I think this is also why men do not face such a stark choice between children and career as do women: they can probably still rely on their female partners to shoulder the added domestic and family responsibilities, thereby freeing them, the men, to put in longer hours at work. Though, not to belabour the point, the women still end up doing more work overall.

      So for women to really have "equal opportunities" in IT jobs (and elsewhere) would require first of all a societal change, with a more equal distribution of the unpaid work burden between women and men. Obviously, this would mean men in their turn would no longer be able to put in such long hours, and would therefore also require a change in the workplace culture, to one which puts less of a premium on "facetime" and more on actual performance/productivity.

      For the record, I do (as one might suspect) happen to be a woman, I like technology, I used to be an industrial embedded systems developer (a job that put me under the metalworkers union collective contract here in Italy), and firmware/software would be still be my no.1 choice of work if it didn't interfere with picking up my son at 3.30 p.m. from preschool (and if the salaries on offer for an 8-hr day plus commute didn't correspond to only about 30% more than I can make working flexibly freelance from home just 4 hrs a day, though admittedly doing something less interesting).

      Incidentally, I remember that in the hardware-firmware lab where I worked, PC-based software was generally looked upon as a rather 'girlie' endeavour, you know, undertaken by effeminate keyboard-tappers who wouldn't get their hands dirty poking round the innards of the machine... (I am just saying this to show how much unfounded prejudice there can be--within any group--against the members of some other group!)

    118. Re:I don't get it by nacturation · · Score: 1

      Yup, smarter until they turn old, lonely and empty - seeking solace in finding the perfect toy for their cats, the best clothes for their dogs or some other trivial pursuit with utmost seriousness. You say that as if the only source of social contact is one's children. It's similar to saying that the people who do have children will spend their days doing nothing but waiting until the kids come and visit. The assumption that childless people can find nothing at all to do but attend to their pets is rather ridiculous.
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    119. Re:I don't get it by Coward+Anonymous · · Score: 1

      "It's similar to saying that the people who do have children will spend their days doing nothing but waiting until the kids come and visit."
      Have you never visited your grand parents?

      I believe you wouldn't object to characterizing people as social creatures with a desire to find meaning in their lives. In most instances, blood ties more strongly than friendship, even if the tie is perceived as being negative. There are always exceptions to the rule but they are relatively few. As a result, adults without children have a higher chance of finding themselves alone. They also seek meaning in the world they've created for themselves and so they find meaning either in their pets, their hobbies, their churches, etc. and they take it very seriously - as seriously as a parent tending a child.
      This is not to say all christians with pets are childless. The difference is in the intensity - the intensity an adult would typically direct at its child is redirected in the childless adult to something else - whatever is available.

  3. A cynic's answer by Buran · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    The cynic in me says "Why would they care? They'll just outsource a lot of those jobs anyway."

    The other side of me says "I hope not" since I'm trying to find helpdesk work in a certain area so I can make a move, for personal reasons, later this year.

  4. That can't be her real name ... by ScrewMaster · · Score: 1

    Dot Brunette? Seriously?

    Sounds like a veiled reference to Marlo Thomas. "Hey look! It's dot brunette again!"

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    The higher the technology, the sharper that two-edged sword.
  5. I'm not female, but by Jethro · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I am not a woman. And frankly, I would LOVE to flee my IT jobs, ESPECIALLY because of the whole being on-call 24 hours, and all the after-hours work, etc. Yeah, I can move into Management, but at the price of selling even MORE bits of my life away. Honestly, if I had ANY skills other than the pretty small niche of IT I'm in, I'd be fleeing, too.

    You ask me, women are fleeing IT because they're SMARTER.

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    In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is kinky.
    1. Re:I'm not female, but by Luthair · · Score: 1

      Aye, I believe the 24/7 concept plays a big part in the problems of society.

    2. Re:I'm not female, but by AgentUSA · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I'm also not a woman and I'm definitely planning on moving on and leaving IT after 10 years. Very long hours, unrealistic deadlines, lack of resources, bad management, and the 24/7 grind have completely sapped the enthusiasm I once had.

      I'll always be very interested in technology, but as far as my career goes, it's just not worth it anymore.

    3. Re:I'm not female, but by TiCL · · Score: 1

      I am not a woman
      No shit.
    4. Re:I'm not female, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      "ESPECIALLY because of the whole being on-call 24 hours, and all the after-hours work, etc."

      If you're not getting paid for that, then your employer is quite possibly breaking the law. Server/infrastructure support isn't deemed to be exempt work, at least not by any rational reading of the Fair Labor Standards Act - and the exemption for "computer professionals" doesn't necessarily apply, either.

      My current job doesn't require me to be on-call, but, my last one did, and I was paid a weekly stipend to be on-call, in the first place, and was paid overtime when I did get called.

      If you're working a full standard business week, and not being paid to be on call, etc., then you're being abused by your employer, in my opinion, as one that knows better.

    5. Re:I'm not female, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So... what field are you going to move to that doesn't have this?

    6. Re:I'm not female, but by SetupWeasel · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You ask me, women are fleeing IT because they're SMARTER.

      Let's be honest. It is much more socially acceptable for women to "choose family over work" or simply be dependent on family for sustenance. They have more freedom to turn down a job that they don't like. With the state of the economy in this country, men are more desperate for work, and therefore have less leverage to change the shitty conditions they work in.

    7. Re:I'm not female, but by Jethro · · Score: 1

      I appreciate that. Often I get the opposite reaction.

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      In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is kinky.
    8. Re:I'm not female, but by AgentUSA · · Score: 1

      Maybe teaching, project management, auditing, I don't know for sure yet.

      I completely understand that some of the problems like bad management and lack of people are things you have to deal with in any job. But, I really hope I can find a better work/life balance. Hell, I hope I can find any work/life balance.

    9. Re:I'm not female, but by icepick72 · · Score: 1
      I am not a woman.


      Now that you've finally admitted it you must feel a lot better. It'll get easier from here on out.

    10. Re:I'm not female, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "I am not a woman...."
      Why am I surprised to see that on /.?

    11. Re:I'm not female, but by icepick72 · · Score: 1
      Aye, I believe the 24/7 concept plays a big part in the problems of society.


      You mean 24/7 for work right? ... otherwise I don't understand how we're going to make a calendar week shorter without some kind of time warp field.

    12. Re:I'm not female, but by Jethro · · Score: 1

      Actually, the funny thing is people often try to get me to admit the opposite. I mean, you wear a dress ONE TIME and you're branded for life!!!

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      In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is kinky.
    13. Re:I'm not female, but by icepick72 · · Score: 1

      I understand. Been there done that. They don't care if it was only a Halloween costume or stage act! Thank goodness for the Internet. I'm never going into politics.

    14. Re:I'm not female, but by Jethro · · Score: 1

      Exactly! Halloween costume, stage act, it's just more comfortable, nobody listens!

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      In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is kinky.
    15. Re:I'm not female, but by bit01 · · Score: 1

      ... and all the after-hours work,...

      I used to be 24 hour on-call system/network administrator. Not a problem.

      I just designed good, reliable systems so that the odds of being called out after hours was low.

      I didn't install software with reliability problems, I provided tools and documentation so users could help themselves, I made sure that users had all the access they needed to get their job done, I invested the effort in scripting and tools in-hours so that the systems would look after themselves after hours, I made key hardware redundant, not false economizing by underestimating personnel costs (both IT & non-IT), I made sure I had remote reset and administration everywhere etc. etc.. I worked smart rather than hard.

      If you're working in an environment where you don't have control over what makes your job 24 hour then I agree, leave as quickly as possible, you're probably working in a badly managed environment anyway.

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    16. Re:I'm not female, but by Reality+Master+101 · · Score: 1

      With the state of the economy in this country, men are more desperate for work, and therefore have less leverage to change the shitty conditions they work in.

      Desperate? Er, the unemployment rate in this country is 4.4%. Not exactly dire straights. Maybe you live in a crappy area, but the country at large is hardly suffering right now economically.

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      Sometimes it's best to just let stupid people be stupid.
    17. Re:I'm not female, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No they're fleeing because they have a freakin CHOICE.

      A man who doesn't work to provide for his family is considered a loafing bastard. He shows up a 2am, because he knows they'll kick his bum to the street, and his family will follow in short order. Women's Lib gave women the choice to choose a career or be a homemaker. They will be respected either way. They can wear pants or a skirt without anyone batting an eye. If I even mention that I might wear a skirt, ... well... I hear the snickers already.

      Women are leaving IT because it's sucky work and doesn't carry the little prestige that it did have 10yrs ago. Women rights groups like to yell about equal opportunity, but it's always about "let women go where they want, and you men get back to work (oh, and we want our fair share of the promotion...half)"

    18. Re:I'm not female, but by paitre · · Score: 1

      Good luck getting your employer to own up to it, and expect them to give the Feds job descriptions for positions like yours that describe an exempt position rather than the one you're actually doing.

      Odds are, if your employer isn't paying you OT for on-call time or incident response, you're going to have to sue to get it. Maybe it'll be worth it, maybe not, but more than a few companies in this country would be bankrupted if they actually followed the law.

      And it sucks.

    19. Re:I'm not female, but by hazem · · Score: 1

      I'll always be very interested in technology, but as far as my career goes, it's just not worth it anymore.

      Congratulations! It's a scary jump to make. I love technology too, but I decided I liked it better as a hobby when I really enjoyed it. The cool part is that IT touches everything now, so in my current work, I'm able to leverage my skills and experience in IT with great success.

      For example, I'm able to whip up a quick database that demonstrates a proof-of-concept to a non-IT person I need to get buy in from, and I'm able to use it with the *real* IT people to show them what I really want as we're writing up a spec. I heard recently from another director in the company that the director my boss reports to said I'm a "wizard" in my job and do amazing things.

      Try to find a way to leverage your IT experience and background in your new non-IT job and I think you'll find some interesting avenues to success.

      Good luck!

    20. Re:I'm not female, but by CrankyFool · · Score: 1

      Folks, I mean no offense here, but there's a huge assumption that this is the way all IT organizations work. That assumption is false. My guys, for example, are now on-call one week out of five; most weeks nothing happens; when it happens, it's typically about 10-15 minutes of work ("CPU failed" "Oh, fine, reboot with the CPU offlined. Deal with it in the morning." That's the kind of stuff we'll be giving the NOC soon anyway). and they get paid for those weeks they're on-call. Other weeks, our typical load is about 40 hours. Not theoretically, but as in "those who come in at 10 typically leave at about 7". It's not hard to run a sane organization, if you've got sane management.

    21. Re:I'm not female, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      IT project management is even worse than most IT jobs for ridiculous hours and requiring you to be on call. A coworker hasn't had a day off in several months and because most implementation work is done at off-hours you find yourself on 5 hour conference calls at 3 in the morning. You also do the work of 2 to 3 people because of under staffing and the huge amount of reporting you have to do. You also get blamed for everything that goes wrong.

    22. Re:I'm not female, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not a woman either. Er, yes I am! Wait ... is this the internet?

    23. Re:I'm not female, but by try_anything · · Score: 1

      Yeah, it makes you appreciate the women who do feel an obligation to work and support themselves, because it's a self-imposed obligation. I know guys with live-in girlfriends with college degrees who are theoretically self-supporting but who only work the equivalent of two or three full-time months per year because of their long stints of extremely part-time work and their occasional efforts to gain credentials in one professional field or another, which always end in disinterest shortly before they reach fruition. All of this is funded by the boyfriends, of course, who also put up with hints or outright complaints about the couple's inability to keep up with the Joneses.

      Screw that! As with most problems of this type, arguing is futile. Just find a girl who doesn't act that way and show her plenty of appreciation.

    24. Re:I'm not female, but by cerberusss · · Score: 1

      Have you thought moving into the not-for-profit sector?

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    25. Re:I'm not female, but by AgentUSA · · Score: 1

      Thanks! If you don't mind me asking, what type of job did you move into?

    26. Re:I'm not female, but by hazem · · Score: 1

      I'm a supply chain analyst now.

      So the story is kind of like this. I worked until I was about 32 in mostly IT related jobs. Around that time I started taking classes in an MBA program part-time because I was losing interest in working in IT. After a big falling out with my boss, I chose to go to school full-time for a year to get it wrapped up. As the end of the year approached, I had one class left to go... and ended up taking another IT job... in a town 2.5 hours away (dumb, dumb, dumb - though the solitude probably helped me figure other things out). I completed that last class by commuting to my class each week.

      I only stayed in that job for 9 months. I knew early on that I didn't want to live in a tiny town in the middle of no-where, working IT. I took a gamble and quit and moved back to my home. There was one particular company I wanted to work for and I had some money saved, so I was willing to eek it out. I tried, unsuccessfully, for 3 months to get on as at temp - a temp anything but my resume specifically said, "seeking position as an operations/business analyst". I finally asked the temp coordinator about admin jobs. She said I couldn't apply for those unless my resume said I was specifically interested in an admin job. "Is that all?", I asked? And submitted a new resume: "seeking position as an operations/business analyst or admin assistant".

      She called the back next day. Ironically, they had a job in the supply chain group where they didn't know if they wanted another admin or an analyst. I was perfect! After a month temping in that, they realized they needed an admin more than they needed an analyst and let me go. But I was immediately picked up for another temp job in another part of the company. There I worked as an operations analyst - tracking shipments from our factories into our warehouse, making expedite decisions, and eventually taking the forecasts from our demand planners and placing the buys to those factories. I did that for about 11 months when the original office I worked in actually created a new analyst position and they really wanted me back. And that's where I am now and it's been a great year and a half so far.

      For me, I knew I wanted to work for a global organization, and one that was known for trying to do the right thing and also treated its employees well. I was less picky about the specifics of the job as long as it wasn't IT. It was risky, of course, moving back to this town without a job lined up. And I had to swallow my professional pride a bit and take a job that others might regard as "beneath me". But it's paying off so far... though I admit I had a certain amount of luck.

      So the cool benefit of my IT experience is that to automate a big portion of my current job (making operations scorecards), we've been building a database system. It's been really useful because I'm able to create small prototypes and mockups as part of our project specifications. In fact, there were pieces I already wrote code to automate a complex powerpoint-based report that we were able to almost completely re-use in the new project. The job doesn't call for those kinds of skills - it's just working out for us all around.

    27. Re:I'm not female, but by HuguesT · · Score: 1

      The flip coin of this is of course that a self-supporting woman is more likely to leave the couple for any reason. Also there is more to an individual than their ability to make a living, although I would agree this is important ;-)

    28. Re:I'm not female, but by try_anything · · Score: 1

      The flip coin of this is of course that a self-supporting woman is more likely to leave the couple for any reason.
      I see that as a good thing. The non-self-supporting woman is more likely to stay and cheat, and justify the cheating out of her abundant sense of entitlement. Or she'll just stay, resent you, and make you pay somehow -- maybe by spending enough to thwart all your hopes and dreams.
    29. Re:I'm not female, but by SetupWeasel · · Score: 1

      Unemployment is down but the jobs people are taking pay less. People are less secure in their positions and more and more companies are not offering health insurance. The economic recovery is a myth perpetrated by government officials that only offer the convenient statistics. Debt is higher, pay is lower, and the number of uninsured is growing.

    30. Re:I'm not female, but by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "You ask me, women are fleeing IT because they're SMARTER."

      No, it's because they have options (i.e. a husband who will support them while they look for work or take a lower paying job).

  6. Re:forsty piss by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I hope you live in a state with either extremely-strict, or completely-nonexistent, gun-control laws.

  7. Disadvantage? What disadvantage?..... by Slugster · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I tend to wonder if this has more to do with women having higher employment standards than men do--I know in my current employer, it's consistently more difficult to find women willing to work night shifts than it is men.

    And FWIW, I got an assoc and had a couple calls for a networking tech positions.... part-time hours, and on call at times--like evenings and weekends.
    Ummm,,,,,, no thanks.
    Stuck trying to live off an $8/hr job with no way to even well consider a second job? Nope, forget it.

    I never did get a tech job. It was kinda a bummer at the time, but nowadays I don't worry about it that much.
    ~

    1. Re:Disadvantage? What disadvantage?..... by Qzukk · · Score: 1

      and on call at times--like evenings and weekends.

      Stuck trying to live off an $8/hr job with no way to even well consider a second job? Nope, forget it.


      Agreed. If someone wants me on call, that time is on the clock because that's time I could have been doing something, except for the fact that I'm working.

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      If I have been able to see further than others, it is because I bought a pair of binoculars.
    2. Re:Disadvantage? What disadvantage?..... by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 1
      And FWIW, I got an assoc and had a couple calls for a networking tech positions.... part-time hours, and on call at times--like evenings and weekends.

      Ummm,,,,,, no thanks.

      Stuck trying to live off an $8/hr job with no way to even well consider a second job? Nope, forget it.

      $8/hr for a networking tech job? When you can make easily 3x or more as much doing the same thing freelance? No wonder you didn't take it. BTW- where are you so I can avoid your area? - $8/hr for any sort of computer job is awful, sorry to say.

      -b.

    3. Re:Disadvantage? What disadvantage?..... by JustNiz · · Score: 1

      Its because women have more of a chance to marry a partner that will pay for them to live without them having to work.
      That seems to be what most American women spend their time looking for, anyway.

  8. Re:forsty piss by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    WTF does gun control have to do with it? /b/ is down, and all is darkness.

  9. I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by philpalm · · Score: 4, Insightful

    What happened to all those jobs in which you can work at home with? The training that is supposed to support via phone/internet is supposedly right down this type of work. Its not like the boss has to look over your shoulder all the time. Furthermore all e-mails and other work is easily documented isn't it?

    1. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Jimmy+King · · Score: 3, Interesting

      In my experience management doesn't like people to work from home most of the time. They can't see how much time the employee is spending working. Most management I've had cares more about how much time you spend working than how much work you get done.

      To be fair, there is some rationale to that... if it only takes you 3 hrs/day to do all of your work you can for the day and another guy in your department 4 hrs/day to do his work, then the company can get rid of one of you and still get the same amount of work done in an 8 hr day.

    2. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by KoshClassic · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Yes, but if management calls after hours to handle some sort of emergency or unusual situation, should / can they really object if you do that work from home? And if they don't object, is the on call requirement even an issue?

      Also, this whole topic is predicated on the belief that there are no single fathers out there trying to raise their kids. Fewer of them to be sure, but they are out there.

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      Understanding is a three edged sword. - Ambassador Kosh Naranek, Babylon 5
    3. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful

      What happened to all those jobs in which you can work at home with?

      Companies realised that if people can work from home, it's cheaper if those homes happen to be located in India.

    4. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by superpulpsicle · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Most management folks overbook their "business" meetings on golf courses, and nobody can complain about it. Everytime there is an emergency, at least the managers should be on call with the technicians. It simply isn't fair on the IT workforce to have to do 24x7 because management doesn't want to hire a 2nd shift. Having One or two employees for the night is not going to ruin your finance.

    5. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by sumdumass · · Score: 4, Informative

      Well, I'm not sure at home work on certain things can be done let alone safe in some situations.

      Besides the cost of putting up the VPN stuff, Making sure there is high speed access to the Internet or a T1 directly to the building, you now have to worry about enforcing policies on a computer completly out of your site that could be used to compromise everything you spent the last ten year trying to stop from being on the Internet. Meijers does a lot of credit/debit transactions. Has quite a few employees spread across several states and then there is the problems of what needs fixed being part of what gives access to tele-commute.

      It is somewhat scary as well as flaky/inefficient in some situations. I cut an accountant from remote access once because the IDS started wigging out on some ports being scanned. Turns out, she used her family computer for work at home and was logged into the VPN when she walked away letting her kid go online. He proceeded to download some movies and game cracks from IRC networks and got scanned repeatedly by at least 20 different IPs . And yes, I logged the commands being typed, I know this was happening. I just don't know if it was her or her kid. And I had to go on site (35 min away) to block everything and figure out what was going on because the IDS locked everything out once the scanning attempts got so bad. The IDS probably has some anal policies but it was doing it's job and this was an accounting firm.

    6. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by sumdumass · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Why should the management need to be there? They are paying you (the IT staff) to do the work. Not do the work themselves. If they had to be there, then there likely wouldn't be a need for you.

      On a side note, If I was manager and had to go in to babysit the IT staff during an emergency, I would probably be riding their ass for the system breaking. This could even be my fault because I haven't replace aging hardware or something. But I would still be riding you about it breaking and having to go in on my off time. Is this something everyone really wants?

    7. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by philpalm · · Score: 1

      Ah but the amount of satisfied customers increase if you don't outsource the work. Most customers can tell if it is in India or Philippines. And the IT workers may not be that efficient as compared to veteran workers (or workers supervised by veteran/knowlegdable management/supervisors. Competitive IT industries push it to the edge and there is no room for breakdowns and poor customer services,i.e. hence emergency hours that play havoc on child caring parents/workers.

    8. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      To be fair, there is some rationale to that... if it only takes you 3 hrs/day to do all of your work you can for the day and another guy in your department 4 hrs/day to do his work, then the company can get rid of one of you and still get the same amount of work done in an 8 hr day

      That's still inaccurate - how many times have you been home at night or during the weekend, and thought of solutions to a problem? Or, the times when you were not "working" your mind was gelling an idea?

      IT isn't laying pipe or making coffee pots: producing something that has a quantifiable output measure (A poor attempt to do so in programming:KLOCs with bloated code anyone?). Your brain is always at work.

    9. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by BrokenHalo · · Score: 1

      can they really object if you do that work from home?

      Fair enough, but there are lots of aspects of IT work that require you to be on the spot. Which brings up the safety issue. When you have women arriving at or leaving the workplace after dark (as is often the case), you have to have something in place to ensure their safety as they do so. I have worked at a couple of sites where female IT staff were attacked in the car-park just outside the office door.

    10. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      as a manager, you could try a novel approach of: don't be a dick.

      you're not obligated to "riding their asses" if you understood that shit will break, not matter how good the employee.
      also, and in conclusion, fuck off.

    11. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Regardless of what you might believe, no manufacturer of computer hardware produces 100% yield without defects. Often, defects aren't even detected until the device is placed under load, such as.. deployed and in service. The IT staff isn't there to ensure that 100% uptime is achieved, as that is impossible. However, if you've ever heard of the "5 9's", it seeks to achieve 99.999% uptime.

      Basically, even with regular preventative maintenance and live diagnostics (SMART and early failure detection), parts WILL fail. Management makes the decision between money/resources and criticality as to how complex and redundant systems will be made to ensure the best uptime possible.

      Having management present during failures means that they're aware of the situation during incidents and decisions can be made immediately instead of having to wait for them to be called, explain the issue, and receive a decision (if it requires escalation) while systems are brought down by hacker/malfunction/etc. As with other comments, the whole 'Don't be a dick' comes to mind. You retain better people that way.

    12. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by paitre · · Score: 1

      This is why my employer issues managed laptops for all of our remote employees (which account for something like 1/3 of our work force, from what I understand, and -everyone- on the team I work with).

      I use my home, personal pc for home, personal shit, and my work pc is used absolutely strictly for work.

      Can I install outside applications on it? Sure. Aside from tools that I need to do my job, I don't install jack shit on the machine, and I -might- throw a legal copy of a game I have when I have to travel for use in the hotel, and it's removed once the trip is over (never a multi-player game, and absolutely not WoW).

      But anyways, yeah. I'm a big fan of telecommuting, or opening smaller offices outside the major metros, for a variety of reasons.

    13. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by EchoNiner · · Score: 1

      Sorry guys, but I (a guy) also fled from this situation where I needed to be on call all night to handle production issues. I don't care whether the reports that my group published were breaking, I don't want to wake up at all hours of the morning. Maybe this means that women are smarter? They know when to bow out of a stupid job like this.

    14. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by MrZaius · · Score: 1

      In my experience management doesn't like people to work from home most of the time.

      If you meant that in the context of this article, and being on-call 24/7, it's time for you to experience new management. They can reasonably expect the one or the other, but not both. If you want me to be on call 24/7, fine, but you'd better not expect me to go to the office at 2am if it's something I can do from home. I would expect that sentiment to be fairly common, and it's been accepted and echoed by every manager I've ever met.

    15. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by hazem · · Score: 1

      Everytime there is an emergency, at least the managers should be on call with the technicians

      Do you REALLY want the managers around, especially on a late night call? I think they're likely, even if they're a "good manager", to make a situation where you're tired, cranky, and under pressure even worse.

      When I was in the army, I ran a sat-com system. I specifically chose the night-shift on exercises because all the people who thought they were important were there during the day. There were far fewer nosy officers, NCOs, and visiting dignitaries about at night than the day. Who wants to work with the people who think they're too important to work at night and high enough in rank they CAN get their beauty sleep?

    16. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by CrankyFool · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Actually, management loves for people to work from home. They just don't like it being the way people work during the day.

      (The distinction is actually important -- I've only worked in one IT shop where remote access was tightly managed and most IT people didn't have it. If you work 8-10 hours a day on-site, mgmt doesn't have a problem with you going home and working again -- it's just that it's a bonus).

    17. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by The-Ixian · · Score: 1

      This is what VMWare ACE was designed for. Add in a Citrix Access Gateway and some intelligent policies you got yourself a very secure remote workforce.

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    18. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by CrankyFool · · Score: 1

      I don't know about you, but back when I was an engineer, having my manager there over my shoulder made me wonder if he doubts my ability to deliver for him. My guys know that they can call me 24x7 if they need anything from me; they also know that my intention is to staff and plan so emergencies don't make them always have to do 24x7 duty. They don't need me watching over their shoulder asking "is it fixed yet? is it fixed yet?" to know I support them.

    19. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by try_anything · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Maybe this means that women are smarter? They know when to bow out of a stupid job like this.


      First thing I thought: Men are easy to trick into thinking, "I work sixty hours a week for a wage that barely supports my lower-middle-class lifestyle, but I'm AWESOME! I'm a Perl NINJA!"

      How many IT guys work crappy jobs for crappy pay because the work makes them feel smart and powerful? The only women I can think of who do similar things are models, who work a crappy job for crappy pay for similar delusions of status.
    20. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by lgarner · · Score: 1

      That's probably true too often. There's another consideration, though. Managers might not actually dislike home workers; my former boss promoted it. Of course, he lived several states away, so virtually every interaction was via some type of telecommuting.

      The problem is that managers can't see and hear you, nor see how you interact with others. Telecommuting may not hurt your current employment, but it might hinder promotions that are based on more than the number of routers configured, or the number of lines of code written. You miss out on the personal touch.

      As more companies are embracing IM, videoconferencing and other tools, I hope that telecommuting can become more accepted. I'm currently spending 4 hrs daily commuting. When I telecommute, I *do* get more done and tend to work longer hours, since I don't have to rush out to beat the traffic.

    21. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by afidel · · Score: 1

      I guess I'm really lucky because when I have to do afterhours work my Director of IT is often right there with us either working or providing support like arranging meals or handling vendors. He has a couple dozen direct and indirect reports yet he doesn't shrink from responsibility. Actually he is ALWAYS on call, while the tech staff takes a once per 4 week rotation his Blackberry is always on and receives all of the alert emails and SMS's. Of course since we have had 4 unscheduled outage events in 9 months I guess it isn't a major burden, it pays for him to hire good staff =)

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    22. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by lukas84 · · Score: 1

      So you're saying that women need special protection or what?

      Wasn't there something about "gender equality"?

    23. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by xENoLocO · · Score: 1

      Welcome to a day and age where "Equality" doesnt mean everyone starts with the same opportunities... it means they bend the rules so that everyone ends up with the same win/loss ratio.

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    24. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by urbanRealist · · Score: 1

      "Cats are smarter than dogs. You can't get eight cats to pull a sled through snow."

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    25. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by cheater512 · · Score: 1

      I think in reality, people who work at home actually do work but while they are at work they play solitaire.

    26. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Rakishi · · Score: 1

      Then you get to spend the next 2 days straight fixing what the incompetent night shift who rarely have to actually work and likely can't get a day job fucked up in trying to fix the problem.

    27. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Kymermosst · · Score: 1

      Do you REALLY want the managers around, especially on a late night call? I think they're likely, even if they're a "good manager", to make a situation where you're tired, cranky, and under pressure even worse.

      That's precisely why, where I work, we have two calls going on during system outages and the like. One call is the technical call, and one call is the management call. One manager stays on the technical call but does not interfere except to ask for clarification on what's happening every now and then. Every so often that manager reports to the management call what the status of the technical work is. The manager is also available to get anyone needed, relay information, etc.

      It's much better than the old system of having six technicians plus their managers, directors, and occasionally vice presidents on the call.

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    28. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So you're saying that women need special protection or what?

      Sounds to me like only women deserve safety.

    29. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by jtheisen · · Score: 1

      "I work 24 hours a day 7 days a week at no official sallary at all, but I'm a good mother." may get increasingly unpopular, but there are still more of them around that IT-geeks I would have thought.

      In both cases, one should appreciate their efforts.

    30. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by lilo_booter · · Score: 1

      There's a flaw in this argument - as someone who works from home, I freely admit that my most productive time is generally between 7am and 2pm (though often I start flagging before 2). In fact, I would go as far as to say that my productivity tails off somewhere around 11am.

      Now, if I were working in an office and my commute took me an hour during the time that my mind is most active, my employer looses out.

      To my mind, the commute and 9 to 5, are anachronisms which telecommunicating lays to rest (though not without some adjustment on both parts). And that's before you mention the social interaction that an office entails (there's no guarantee that close proximity with your work mates is going to be beneficial from anybody's point of view - as the saying goes, familiarity breeds contempt :-)...)

    31. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by isorox · · Score: 1

      Having One or two employees for the night is not going to ruin your finance.

      I've worked a shift pattern, including weekends and nights, with 7 nights every 6 weeks. I much prefer doing 8/9/10 til 4/5/6, even 7, 5 days a week, and get called outside of hours once a month with something I can almost always fix from home, It means I actually get to see my fiancee!

    32. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >Maybe this means that women are smarter?

      Nope. It just means that there are more women than men who can rely on their partner to finance their choice of not staying in a horrible job.
      Usually, men just have to suck it up in order to make sure theres enough bacon on the table.

    33. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Antique+Geekmeister · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I've issued and been issued such laptops. Then I had to evade the security on them to be able to access the remote network and my local network printer simultaneously, or to access local and remote storage at the same time.

      There's a real performance hit for most of us doing tele-commuting.

    34. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by couchslug · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "It simply isn't fair on the IT workforce to have to do 24x7 because management doesn't want to hire a 2nd shift. Having One or two employees for the night is not going to ruin your finance."

      The reason they give you money to do a job is that it is a JOB, not "happy fun day". If you feel treated unfairly, be so capable that you can move on.

      As for women or anyone else bailing out of IT, those that stay should understand that their competition is leaving. The more people that do what you do, the less what you do is worth.

      As an employee, I'd rather be so rare and valuable that I have my employer by the short hairs. To hell with idealism. If I'm maintaining ANYTHING, I want to be the sole source of info on the system, document as little as possible, and generally rule the roost since no one else knows how. I'm friendly, have good social skills, humor the boss, etc. but it's all about me.

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    35. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by EsbenMoseHansen · · Score: 1

      Besides the cost of putting up the VPN stuff,

      In our company, "VPN" is sshd and httpsd (apache). Not exactly costly.

      Making sure there is high speed access to the Internet or a T1 directly to the building,

      In most civilized countries, most people have broadband privately. The company usually gets tax breaks to supply a basic connection if you wish.

      you now have to worry about enforcing policies on a computer completly out of your site that could be used to compromise everything you spent the last ten year trying to stop from being on the Internet.

      In my humble opinion, hiding behind firewalls just invites slovenliness. Defend in depth and all that. (Keep the firewall, it cuts down on noise, but don't depend on it for security).

      Meijers does a lot of credit/debit transactions. Has quite a few employees spread across several states and then there is the problems of what needs fixed being part of what gives access to tele-commute.

      Sure, but we are discussing IT people telecommuting. Presumably, IT people can handle ssh and basic security :)

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    36. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by ralphdaugherty · · Score: 1

      Well, I'm not sure at home work on certain things can be done let alone safe in some situations.

            Prior posters you're responding to didn't even understand (or care) the issue being written about was after hours on call emergency work. That quite frankly isn't limited to IT, but issue is real and hard on IT people overall.

            In general people will migrate to less crazy hours if they can. This should be no great revelation. Men will do same thing given the chance.

            Note that this is one of those jobs that are difficult to outsource overseas, one of the "safe" jobs we're supposed to be privileged to have.

            It's no wonder people are staying away from IT.

        rd

    37. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by pcardno · · Score: 1

      Most companies' telecommuting / working from home policies state that you can't work from home to look after kids. Being a parent to kids during the day is a full-time job and by saying that you need to be there you're essentially saying that you need to be there to do things other than work. There's also the variable nature of kids, e.g. some days you might get a full day's work done, others you might spend all day looking after a sick kid. There's normally other processes / allowances for sickness.

      The usual suggested solution is to instead work reduced hours (e.g. 9-3) or reduced days (Tuesday-Thursday), with extra vacation for during the school holidays.

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    38. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      *obviously*

      this is because so many computer guys are dating models!!!

    39. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Panzergheist · · Score: 1

      What happened to all those jobs in which you can work at home with?

      Companies realised that if people can work from home, it's cheaper if those homes happen to be located in India.

      This happens to be one of those comments where there should be an, "Underrated" tag.

    40. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How about porn stars?

      I'm hacking mindless code at a disreputable company right now, but someday I'd like to get into real programming. I'll change my name, and hope my future wife doesn't find out about my shady past (hence the anonymity).

    41. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      3hrs + 4hrs

      so if yu know this you should take 5 hrs instead of 3 and it doesn't matter to get fired because one would have been axed

    42. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by try_anything · · Score: 1

      Most parents think they're among the very best parents in the world, and they're almost all wrong, but I don't think that's why they chose to have kids in the first place. I don't have kids myself, so I don't really know. If that's why people have kids, then for most people it's the biggest misjudgment they'll ever make.

      Second, I don't think I need to appreciate the efforts of everyone who's underpaid and abused with their consent. I only appreciate such people when they do so in order to perform a service they feel that society undervalues, like teaching and social services. Corporations do not undervalue email and internet access. They would gladly pay two or three times what they currently cost, and anyone who doubts that has been bluffed. There is no virtue in being an underpaid IT geek.

    43. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by westyx · · Score: 1

      Because the IT staff can diagnose problems and propose solutions, but it's management that are paid to make the call. They're the ones that once the problem is known and solutions have been devised, need to weigh up the pros and cons of each solution and work out which is best. *that is why management need to be contactable*

    44. Re:I thought IT workers can telecommute to work? by BrokenHalo · · Score: 1

      So you're saying that women need special protection or what?

      In this case, yes.

      If you want to being gender equality into it, consider this: is the likelihood of being attacked in a dark car-park equal for a man or woman? If you're prepared to answer that honestly, then you've answered your own question.

  10. or by circletimessquare · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    Fraklin Com

    she could register mrs.com

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  11. Women and men are different... by Giometrix · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Women and men are different, we just think different and enjoy different things. Men tend to enjoy playing with the latest and greatest toys, and IT lends itself to playing with the latest and greatest toys. I really don't see that in most women. That's not to say that many women in IT don't enjoy the work, but something tells me lots of women in IT got into the field in the late 90's when any joe schmoe (or in this case jane schmoe) in IT could make money. Now that there's not quite as much money flowing, there's much less of an incentive to stay in a career they weren't enjoying to begin with.

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    1. Re:Women and men are different... by SuperMog2002 · · Score: 1

      I gotta be honest, as much as I enjoy playing with the latest and greatest toys during the day, at 3 AM, I'd MUCH rather be sleeping than diagnosing some random server failure.

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    2. Re:Women and men are different... by Tickletaint · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Finished cleaning out the grease pans early tonight, did we, Mr. Summers?

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    3. Re:Women and men are different... by umbrellasd · · Score: 1

      The rationale here is not correct in my experience. I've been in IT for 10 years. I barely tolerate it, but I manage because I don't have a family to look after, I'm payed extremely well, and I won't have to do it much longer. As a man, I find the latest and greatest toys to be about the most irritating thing in the universe because experience tells me that the latest and greatest is the buggiest most unreliable crap that will make my life a hassle. I know plenty of men that have said see ya later to IT as well and for pretty much the described reason. A relentless schedule with lots of chaos, unclear deliverables, management that can't handle the pressure on them and pass it to their employees, and unrealistic hours for an activity that requires a high degree of mental activity...that's many IT workplaces.

      I don't know why the trend observed exists or even if it's accurate. I do know that I've worked with a female developer one time in 10 years on quite a few teams and she was the husband of another developer and they'd both come over from India. No idea what that data point means either. But personally, if I were a woman, I'd be into another job the first time my male manager treats the team like crap and provides completely unclear random objects and then looks at me disapprovingly as if it's my failing he hasn't managed to create an actual schedule in 3 years...

      Uhm...anyhoo! Once you get a distribution in any work area that is predominantly one gender, it gets weird and difficult to balance out because gender starts to become an issue. I worked in health care and there were some areas which were all female and some were all male and that's how those areas stayed year after year with a few oddball exceptions.
    4. Re:Women and men are different... by Hoi+Polloi · · Score: 1

      Actually I don't care about the latest toys (I don't excited about a new server). I do like analyzing problems and playing detective. Hunting down bugs and optimizing code like some hotrod mechanic. The thing I miss most in my job is that I wish I dealt with people more.

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  12. Good for them! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    bad for us :(

  13. Re:forsty piss by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You WOULD hope that you statist!

  14. It's the cellphones again! by alienmole · · Score: 5, Funny

    So the problem is that women in IT are on call at all hours, which means that cellphones have a lot to do with this. But it goes deeper than that: cellphones are also causing honeybees to disappear. Notice a pattern here?

    These women are obviously going wherever the honeybees went: obviously, a peaceful cellphone-free land, populated with women and bees, a land of milk and honey, one might say.

    1. Re:It's the cellphones again! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The women in this strange land you speak of.. they are likely very horny.

      I think I want to find this land. Would you like to join me, brother?

      On second thought, get lost... I will go alone!

    2. Re:It's the cellphones again! by khallow · · Score: 1

      I don't buy it. As I recall hearing, the bee disappearances occur in rural areas (with much lower cell phone coverage) too. Keep in mind that there are a large number of nasty parasites and diseases going around right now. It puzzles me that one can somehow detect a faint correlation from cell phone towers in all that noise. Oh wait, the bees are going where the women are going... makes sense now especially since most bees are female.

  15. Re:This is a good thing! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I am not a sexist

    Indeed. You are a moron.

  16. Perhaps it's the men... by tinrobot · · Score: 3, Funny

    ...in IT jobs who've never seen a woman naked outside of an LCD screen.

    1. Re:Perhaps it's the men... by Datamonstar · · Score: 5, Funny

      There are CRT's out here still, ya know.

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    2. Re:Perhaps it's the men... by Empiric · · Score: 1

      Dear +4... Insightful...:

      At least one person out there did, in fact, get this.

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    3. Re:Perhaps it's the men... by Doctor+Faustus · · Score: 1

      There are CRT's out here still, ya know.
      You forgot the "You insensitive clod" part.

  17. I Like The On Call Pay... by NeverVotedBush · · Score: 2, Informative

    I am in IT and I have to take on call. We rotate it. But we also get an extra bump when we are on call - whether we get called in or not. But sometimes we end up spending all night and all weekend having to fix stuff and that does get real old really fast. I had to miss my fiancee's sister's birthday because I was on call and got called in.

    Now, management sees the on call pay as an expense they would like to cut. When/if they cut it, I think the on call response is going to get a lot worse. A lot worse.

    "Oh, a double-disk failure? Darn..."

    1. Re:I Like The On Call Pay... by tsstahl · · Score: 1

      Cutting Call pay is inversely proportional to cell phone and pager dead coverage areas. For proof, ask anyone who has lived through the phenomena.

    2. Re:I Like The On Call Pay... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Same here... I get paid very well for on-call work. This is seen as an expense but we're taking the approach to minimize the need for on-call work, rather than to penalize those doing the work. Because when it comes down to it, I'm already getting paid below market rate, my contract says I put in my best effort during business hours, and if they don't like it they'll need to hire two people to replace what I do. Speaking of which, time to re-negotiate my contract.

    3. Re:I Like The On Call Pay... by Avatar8 · · Score: 1
      You are very fortunate that your company still pays on-call pay.


      I used to received such "overtime" pay as well about four-five years ago. Most companies now simply expect that responding to calls after hours and having to come in to repair something for several hours is just part of your salary.

      Big difference is typically whether you're hourly or salary.

      If you're hourly, I think there are still regulations that enforce on-call and after-hours pay; if you're salary, the company owns you.

      If you're hourly, I wouldn't be surprised that they soon move you to salary and then do away with on-call pay.

      As for response decreasing when the extra pay disappears... expect anyone not responding to those calls to disappear shortly afterwards. The company will not accept a lack of response. If you won't respond, I'm certain they'll find someone a bit more desperate for a job who will work for less than you do and won't mind taking after hours calls.

      Welcome to IT.

  18. Re:This is a good thing! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The only downside of this that I can see is that IT can be a pretty difficult place to meet a partner unless you're a gay guy who likes geeks with no fashion sense. Well, by you logic, if your a gay guy. you probably think on an emotional level too and are inferior, so you shouldn't be in IT either.
  19. Solution: Only give H1-B Visas to Women by Proudrooster · · Score: 1

    So, if we have a deficit of women in IT, how about we just give the H1-B's to women?

  20. News Flash! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful


    You do not see a whole lot of women in the construction business either. Not stereotyping but women don't fight for jobs they don't care anything about. I would LOVE to see at least 50% women mixed in at every job stratum but face it..there are some jobs women don't give a shit about and would rather fight for other lucrative positions.

    I don't see an overwhelming majority of women fight for selective service either for that matter.

    1. Re:News Flash! by westlake · · Score: 2, Interesting
      You do not see a whole lot of women in the construction business either.

      In 1997 about 150,000 women held non-traditional jobs in the construction industry, Women and Nontraditional Occupations Production and craft work, operators and so on.

      But there isn't much incentive for women to enter a market where wages are depressed:

      Women posted a net increase of 1.7 million jobs paying above the median salary, while men gained a net increase of just over 220,000...according to a Bureau of Labor Statistics report for the years 2000-2005. Women outpaced men in obtaining work that pays in the top quarter of all jobs, primarily positions in the health-care, financial and managerial fields... At the end of 2005, 1.1 million more of those jobs were held by women, while 200,000 fewer men held such jobs as widespread layoffs cut manufacturing employment. But the wage gap persists...
      During the study period...the number of construction jobs grew by nearly one million. Though construction is often thought of as providing higher-earning jobs, the report showed construction work accounted for many of the new, lower-paying jobs filled by men.
      Jared Bernstein, an economist at the Economic Policy Institute, said an increase in unskilled, immigrant labor might explain the downward trend in construction wages. Women Outpace Men In Number of New Jobs

    2. Re:News Flash! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree.

      Women as doctors are above 50% in recent years. You don't hear about how men are leaving medicine. Now, it is a capped industry (only so many slots open in medical school), yet they are accepting more women over men.

      Medical student women often pick primary care as doctors which has more flexible hours, but many do not. And all have to go through residency. But nearly every field, maybe except psychologists, even primary care (your family doctor), there are on-call hours in a practice that gets rotated through.

      iow, how come in one field that attracts women, on-call is standard practice and accepted, even part of being accepted in the profession (i.e. residency), but with IT, it's seen as inflexible and driving them away? Sounds to me like a double-standard or the work ethic curve after the creme of the crop falls off sharply.

      btw, if someone wants to bring up daycare, most private practices don't provide daycare. Some hospitals do. Just as I imagine larger IT places provide daycare, smaller shops don't.

      Fact is, the crappiest doctor still makes bucketloads over the crappiest IT job, as well as generally has a far higher reputation/esteem factor of their position than any IT job. The issue is reward, not on-call or the long hours. Hell, any medical student and resident can generally tell you the hours flat out suck--not talking just long work weeks, but keeping abreast of all health news, papers, education too--even when off work, you're studying something and not getting paid for it (similar to IT in many ways here too).

  21. Proof that women are smarter. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Seriously.

    Leaving unrewarding jobs where they are treated like dirt at any hour of the day or night?

    Sounds to me like women are just less willing to deal with the generally poor quality of the job and its compensation than men are.

    (Never going back into IT. More money in better jobs with better hours and more respect.)

  22. In other news... by matthewcraig · · Score: 4, Funny

    In other news, scientists finally prove women smarter than men. Film at eleven.

    1. Re:In other news... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In other news, scientists finally prove women smarter than men. Film at eleven.

      Yeah, but it's male scientists who proved it. This brings to mind the old conundrum, "If a man speaks in a forest, and there is no woman around, is he still wrong?"

  23. 24 hour? by johansalk · · Score: 1

    What kind of IT work require 24 hour on-call?

    1. Re:24 hour? by SeaFox · · Score: 1

      Email server admin, for one. Being available to react to a server of any sort paging you because its going down. I dated a woman who had a job administering an email server, and she got a call once late at night while we were having sex (No, she didn't answer it till later). It wasn't even a server paging her, it was the junior admin calling her because the spam filter was having some kind of issue that was causing email to be sent over and over again endlessly and he didn't know how to stop it.

      Being on call seems like an unreasonable request I find except that e-commerce sites are made to be available 24/7 and every hour they're down is money lost for the company, and the website itself is the storefront for the retailer pretty much. Having issues not dealt with in a timely manner gives people a bad impression about the health/professionalism of the company.

    2. Re:24 hour? by broKenfoLd · · Score: 1

      "What kind of IT work require 24 hour on-call?"

      The kind where you actually have to fix something that breaks.

      Managers and many consultants, who only talk about fixing things, have the luxury of waiting until 8am before pushing hot air around(this does not include time spent in the mirror practicing buzzword-filled catch phrases of course)

    3. Re:24 hour? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... while we were having sex

      you wish!

    4. Re:24 hour? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Where do you work that management comes in that early?

    5. Re:24 hour? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Being on call seems like an unreasonable request I find except that e-commerce sites are made to be available 24/7 and every hour they're down is money lost for the company

      Are you an idiot? You see no reason for on-call for anything other than e-commerce? So, if out manufacturing tracking system goes down at 2am, and I don't come in until 9am, it's no big deal? We can just miss our contractual deadlines, not to mention pay machine operators to stand around doing nothing all night? Yeah, that sounds reasonable.

    6. Re:24 hour? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yup.. 24 hour on call with a 15 minute SLA. That's typical IT. At my current company we rotate the duty phone through 4 admins, so this happens once a month. During the on-call week I'd get an average of two calls at night, usually simple stuff, but enough to wake you up.

    7. Re:24 hour? by El+Mariachi+94 · · Score: 2, Funny

      Wow. She sounds like the female nerd version of Jack Bauer. Imagine if she loved her job so much, she did answer the phone in the middle of sex. And left too! Pinnacle nerdness!

    8. Re:24 hour? by ColaMan · · Score: 1

      I left that kind of crap 10 years ago.

      I now have a job that :
      - Does 12 hour shifts, with 4 days on, 4 days off, 4 nights on, 4 days off,etc.
      - Six weeks a year of holidays. With the 4 days off every 4 days, I seriously have trouble using them all up.
      - 5 days a year paid sick leave.
      - Pays more than twice the national average (AUD105,000)

      And the best part of it?

      I go home after my shift, and no-one calls. Ever.
      I laze about on my days off and I don't get asked to do overtime. Ever.

      Why?

      Because there is SOMEBODY ELSE TO DO THE WORK WHEN I'M NOT THERE.

      It's the best part of the job. The simple pleasure of handing ongoing work off to another person so you can have a break is great. It might get handed back to you tommorrow, or when you come back 4 days later, but again, you get a break from it and the work gets passed along until it's finally complete.

      Yes, yes, so you (not personally you, parent poster) are a big tough man and can hack it and the rest of them are pussies. Thing is, you don't need to. Get some decent conditions. Someone up further mentioned unions. This is where you need one - so you don't get exploited like this, and you are being exploited. Women seem to have it figured out. Just about every other industry figured it out nearly a century ago. How long will it be before people in IT realise it?

      The IT industry really needs to sort its shit out.

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    9. Re:24 hour? by SeaFox · · Score: 1

      Are posting anonymously to hide what an arse you are?

      I wasn't saying that ecommerce sites are the only reason, it was just the most obvious situation that came to mind. I'm sure there are many IT jobs that have the stupid on-call stipulation for businesses that really would be okay if it was the next morning before it got fixed.

    10. Re:24 hour? by Hydrian · · Score: 1

      Many admins are oncall 24/7 and it was never in the job description. Ever have a screaming CEO/CTO calling at the wee hours of the morning because their crack-berry wasn't getting e-mail.

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    11. Re:24 hour? by Avatar8 · · Score: 1
      Typically anything dealing with infrastructure for a company that considers itself to be a mission critical company. (Only companies I consider mission critical are hospitals and emergency services; everyone else is just making money.)


      If you work on networks (routers, switches, firewalls), servers (core, file, application, database, web) or the applications on those servers, then likely you are expected to be on-call in case something fails. If you're in a large enough company, you get to share that responsibility and actually get sleep one or two weeks out of the month. If you're in a small company and you are the IT department, sleeping at your desk during business hours is probably permissible. :-)

  24. Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Women have the world by the balls.

    In our sexist society (biased towards the female gender), they've never had it easier. They enjoy freedom of choice in the job market, or can opt to stay at home and raise children (or do both). They are perfectly free to use marriage and divorce as businesses, enriching their personal fortunes by doing nothing more than providing sex. They are allowed to manipulate men with sex and tears to get whatever they want. They have been granted permission to usurp traditional male jobs yet still -- with bold-faced hypocrisy -- expect men to finance their social lives. They can choose to serve in the military without fear of losing their lives in combat. They expect to be able to denigrate the male gender and treat men like emotional punching bags without protest. They force men to endure "sensitivity training" to pressure them into becoming more like women.

    In short, they are pampered, coddled to, and told that they deserve everything without any implication or obligation of giving anything in return.
    what women want
    Modern women demand all the privileges afforded their sisters in bygone eras, yet still insist on the freedoms granted by a liberated society. In other words, they want to have their cake and eat it, too; they want equal rights until the check comes.

    At the heart of this mess is so-called "feminism." The post-war culture of the 1950s and '60s spawned an affluent, egocentric culture of "consciousness-raising" and liberation, spurred on by such seminal feminists as Betty Friedan (who saw the traditional wife and homemaker as a prisoner chained to the stove, hobbled by men from achieving success in the business world).

    Almost overnight women wanted to work and go to college; they decided their husbands should help with cooking, cleaning and child care. Liberated women lobbied for gender equality: equal pay for equal work, equal educational and career opportunities and equal treatment under the law.

    They no longer wanted to be seen by men as "sex objects," but instead as individuals independent of their gender; persons in their own right.

    On the surface, this was all well and good. In a modern society, women should be treated with equality; they should be allowed to pursue whatever course they choose.

    But feminism made one crucial mistake -- it failed to take into account the fundamentally self-serving nature of the female gender. For the average woman, "feminism" shortly became nothing more than a convenient excuse for getting what she wanted (usually from a man's hard work). Women began expecting to have things handed to them on a plate just because they were born female.

    The battle cry of "feminism" abruptly changed from "equal pay for equal work" to "you go, girl -- you deserve it" (no matter how you get it). Suddenly it was all about "me, me, me" -- the self-indulgent bawl of a spoiled brat.

    And this is exactly the problem. Modern women have demanded -- and won -- equal rights and equal pay. But they're too greedy, too materialistic, too self-absorbed, too immature, and too accustomed to using men to do anything with these rights but shoot themselves in the foot with them.

    It's all come too easily for them, and, like children who have been handed everything on a plate, they've matured into abusing their privilege and demanding more and more and more.
    from the mouth of a feminist
    Feminist author Susan Maushart (What Women Want Next) writes: "Now that women have been more or less successfully mainstreamed, the achievement feels unexpectedly hollow. For one thing, we are tired. If doing what men do on top of what women have always done is Having It All, most of us have decided we'd prefer a smaller portion."

    Feminism has fizzled; it's crumbled under the weight of its own shaky foundations. So does this mean that women should go back to the kitchen? Is this where they belong, forever chained to the stove and the bedpost?

    The answer -- fundamentally -- is "no." But a very cautious "no."

    1. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by ShieldW0lf · · Score: 4, Insightful

      An entire continent of women were abandoned for the better part of a decade while their men went off to war, then came back shell shocked and broken to women who'd had their families providers ripped away long ago and weren't the tender nurturers they used to be. A unique cultural trauma in the world. For both genders.

      Try to be philosophical about it. Other cultures will rise.

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    2. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh fergodsake, don't feed the trolls.

    3. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Rukie · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Although I think you have gone a little far with your statement (and have become flamebaited) I must agree that all this "retribution" is getting a little out of hand. Unfortunately, a man (like myself) can say nothing about it without be called a sexist. On the squawkbox or whatever news channel that is, there was recently a WOMAN complaining about the government getting in the affairs of women and how much they get paid. The govt wants to help women have increased wages so that they earn the same amount as a man. However, what hasn't crossed their minds is that the kind of work they do is FAR different from the average work of a man. Many men work in dangerous jobs such as construction, roofing, etc. Many women work as clerks/teachers/support calls/etc and work with more flexible hours.
      I do realize that there are quite a few single mothers out there (of course, one could also blame the teenagers that are having sex at such a young age). In fact, I recently discovered that two of my former gradeschool classmates (like, from 4 years ago? I'm senior in highschool now) are pregnant, and one of which for the second time!
      I personally think retribution is going a little too far for sexism. I mean, look at these women who marry millionaires and famous actors, then divorce, and NEVER get another job so they can just soak up their divorced husbands money. However, these are the women that do not care about equality, but rather themselves. Many of the women that are concerned about equality are those that do not have it.
      Unfortunately, some take equality to the extent of give us everything so that we dominate males.
      I do not think that daycare is something the business should have to pay for. You should be PREPARED to have a child, and not already knowing of a neighbor or a daycare center in the area is a serious lapse in judgement. But who am I but a senior in highschool. I say it as I see it.

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    4. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by got2liv4him · · Score: 1, Informative
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    5. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Old+Benjamin · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Equality these days essentially means that one group is given an unfair advantage over another: It might be women who expect to work fewer hours and get the same pay, or it is things like affirmative action. In both those cases, and others , the action is self defeating: if the group demands help to be equal it undermines the cause because it doesn't make them equal, it just gives them an unfair advantage over others, and admits that the group being helped is lesser because they need help.

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    6. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by buswolley · · Score: 3, Funny

      Well.. One thing is now certain about Geek IT culture... There goes the Geeks only chance of meeting a woman..

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    7. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      Sentiments like that are way Europeans are dieing out on their own continent. Why breed the next generation of your people/culture when you can make a bit more money working for an asshole boss who has more money to pay because *he* doesn't have kids (because he's sterile)?

    8. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      s/way/why . It's very late at night here.

    9. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by afidel · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I know it's a stereotype but almost all of the geek's I know are in stable long term relationships, either married or live in SO's. The people I see who are all alone in their parent's basement are simply nerds, they don't appear to have any real amount of skill or focus, just a lack of social adjustment. I think once they get out of HS most geeks blossom somewhat and are able to make a connection with people not intimately involved with their geeky subjects (or perhaps involved in secondary geeky subjects like say renfairs). Of course the internet and the fact that the richest people in the world have been geeks for a couple decades has probably helped the situation for Gen X geeks.

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    10. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Jah-Wren+Ryel · · Score: 1

      Wow, that sounds so ... FAMILIAR!

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    11. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Rakishi · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Or Europeans don't want to have to live in a 5'x5' room their whole lives due to overcrowding. Of course Europeans also get 2+ months of vacation time a year, have very good job protection (if they can get a job that is), work 35- hour weeks and spend their lives looking forward to retirement.

      I guess you may have meant American's in your post but we bread rather well Granted US "culture" is such a shit hole right now that I wish more Americans wouldn't do that for the world's sake if nothing else.

    12. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by solios · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I'm fine with the whole "gender equality" thing. Men suck. Women suck. They just happen to suck differently.

      Case examples (which I've encountered on a monthly-to-weekly basis since around the time I hit that puberty thing: Men muttering (or bellowing) ZOMG WILL YOU LOOK AT THAT ASS?! or otherwise spluttering when some moderately pleasant whatever walks past. I'm a guy, and I find that shit disgusting. Stop it. Women getting pissy and grumpy and muttering (or bellowing) WELL I GUESS CHIVALRY IS DEAD, ISN'T IT?! when you don't hold the door for them, give up your place in line for them, or otherwise bend over backwards for them? You wanted equality, you got it. You can't have it both ways, lady.

      Aside, I think anyone who wants to be in the kitchen belongs in the kitchen. A good friend of mine is a far better house-husband (a "mister mom" if you will) than his wife ever was - he's a far better cook, he's much better with the kids, and he likes doing it. And his wife happens to be a far better wal-mart manager than he ever would be. Marxism on a micro-scale.

      A few thousand years on and society is still in the zits-and-rat turd mustache part of puberty. If we're still acting like this in a thousand years, then we definitely have a problem.

    13. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This type of behaviour makes a very self-destructive society.

    14. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by mackyrae · · Score: 1

      Women don't make less than men because they have different career paths. Two people (one male, one female) with the same position in a company will not be paid the same. The man will make more.

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    15. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not in any business I've ever worked in, and they wont when I run my own business. Pay will be set according to ability and reliability. What else would I possibly care about, as an employer?

    16. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Lavene · · Score: 1

      Parent is modded flamebait but as a woman I want to say that to some extent I agree. I'm not a modern feminist. Feminism was a good thing until it reached a point where the feminists went into denial about the responsibilities nature has put on our gender. We happen to be the gender that carry and gives birth to children but these days women should 'dispose' of their children as soon as possible.Kindergarten, daycare, after school activities. Let the 'society' rise our children so you can put in long hours and compete for the top jobs.

      Biologically we are most fit for having babies at the approx age of 20 yet young girls are constantly told to prioritize a career, get a good education so you can get a top job - *then* you can think about making a family. It's just that then you're approaching 40!

      I'm all for equal rights, equal pay etc but damn it, I refuse to pretend I'm a man!! It's time for the feminist movement to stop and take a long look at our biological history. I'm a woman. I'm proud of it and I'm proud of the responsibilities and abilities nature has given me.

    17. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by towsonu2003 · · Score: 1

      One thing is now certain about Geek IT culture... There goes the Geeks only chance of meeting a woman..
      One thing is now certain about your conception of the Geek IT culture -it doesn't allow women to exist in it.


      Don't worry, you are not alone.

    18. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Haha. pwned.

    19. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by NMerriam · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Two people (one male, one female) with the same position in a company will not be paid the same. The man will make more.


      That's very rarely true on a literal basis. Any "interchangeable" jobs are usually hourly, and every cog in the machine gets paid the same thing.

      If you're working on salary, then there's rarely such a thing as the "same position" despite lots of folks having the same title -- and salary is negotiable. For a multitude of reasons (some historically sexist, others not), men do tend to negotiate more and harder over salary.

      Much like car prices offered to women buyers (which have been studied quite extensively as it's much easier to isolate than salaries), there's a lot of chicken and egg going on in terms of where the fault lies -- do women accept worse offers in negotiations because they're conditioned to or feel they have no choice, or do worse offers get made and stood by simply because negotiators know women will more frequently accept them?
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    20. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by ralphdaugherty · · Score: 1

      Wow, that sounds so ... FAMILIAR! [askmen.com]

            It's doubtful that the author posted his piece here anonymously, otherwise an AC has cut and paste someone's work here and been modded first Flamebait and now Interesting, but should be Interesting Plagiarism.

            A Slashdot editor should edit in real author's name and fair use attribution. Also hopefully real author will have a chance to respond if he wants.

        rd

    21. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by beaverbrother · · Score: 1

      A large example for me is the military draft. If it ever becomes effective, only men will be sent abroad. Woman want to have equality but from my experience do not seem at all interested in accepting the responsibility of being part of the draft.

    22. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by rhyder128k · · Score: 1

      There are lots of factors that skew the stats on an issue such as this. There are lots of protections for women and if women feel that they are *provably* being paid less than their male counterparts, they can.

      Apart from anything else, the guy who works a 55 hour week and who has just put in a solid 15 years at the job gets paid more, in total and per hour, than a woman who did five years, took seven years out and then came back three years ago to do a 30 hour week. It's fair.

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    23. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by techilleterate · · Score: 1

      Bravo, Anonymous Coward. I'm a woman who grew up in the "Anything a guy can do a woman can do better" era. I've witnessed the change from the demand for equal rights (a worthy cause) to an unequal men-are-scum mentality by at least some women. I'm fortunate to be married to a man who grew up in a household where the women were subservient but who is now playing Mr. Mom while I attend school full time. He's marvelous and I appreciate him tremendously. When other women in my classes complain about their husbands I brag about mine. Many times these women simply don't see all their husbands/significant others do. Several years ago I wrote an essay for an English class outlining the changes mentioned above. Many women want equal rights but see those equal rights as having their cake and eating it too. Rising to the top of the corporate ladder? Wonderful. Women have the capability. Making the sacrifices necessary to climb the ladder and stay at the top? Nope. And women should be allowed to leave the higher level jobs and return to the workforce years later at the same level. So the story goes. Many men do try to be equal partners today but find their efforts are criticized. The dishes are washed wrong, the laundry isn't correctly folded, vacuuming should go against the nap rather than with it, etc. More and more men are taking at least an equal share of caring for their children but in a divorce situation who usually gets custody? That's right...mom. Women want to look attractive and dress accordingly but if a man gives her the once over more than once he's a sexist pig. On the other hand men find it a compliment to be told they have a nice butt or something similar. And watch out if a woman says she's been sexually harassed at any time anywhere. The man is forever suspect even if (and it's a big if even when the allegations are false) he's found to be completely innocent. I know of one man, a wonderful teacher and all around great guy, who spent time in jail when he was found guilty of sexually abusing his step daughter. Yes, it's a horrible crime but what was not allowed in court was the fact that the mother had used her daughter in the same tactic with a previous husband. The teacher was reinstated at his job and had plenty of support from his co-workers throughout the process but he's not the same man willing to spend all the time it takes to help a struggling student. Equal rights means just that...equal. Not equal when it suits me or change the rules to benefit me, but equal. Sorry for the long post. As you can tell, this is a soapbox issue for me.

    24. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by jaelle · · Score: 0, Redundant

      Amazing--the fact is women in America are *not* getting equal pay for equal work--thereby proving your entire base assumption false, and blowing your entire argument out of the water.

      Try exposing yourself to something besides Faux News and Rush Limpdick.

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    25. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by c_sd_m · · Score: 1

      There's a reason that warriors have historically been male. If you kill off too many women you can't restore the loss in population of your tribe/country/whatever. If you kill off too many men the remaining ones are just very happy.
      Consider the post-WWII baby boom, we might want to consider adjusting the draft to deal with modern society's post-war responses.

    26. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by pottymouth · · Score: 1


      Though I agree with much of what you say your conclusion is flawed.

      Men and women have never been equal and never will (or could) be. Any boob (no pun intended) can take one look at women and men and see (drum roll please) that MEN ARE PHYSICALLY STRONGER THAN WOMEN! WOW! That means that there are a whole slew of things that men are more suited to doing than women. Allowing women to push their way into these roles makes everyone else pay for their arrogance. Feminisms (and homosexuality's) solution to this is to mentally castrate men and convince them their the same (equal) to women. The more society buys this lie the worse things will get for men. The ultimate conclusion of this is, of course, that we become so weakened that our enemies will find us easy prey. The current world politics bare this out. Consider some of the threats made by middle eastern countries. No President of the first half of the 20th century would have taken these insults and provocations without some retaliation. Now a piss ant country like Iran takes hostages and we try to talk them into giving them back. The female influence on modern politics. Ultimately resulting in confusion for weaker countries and their place in the world resulting in wars and death.

      Sorry ladies, some things in life are a mens only club and, like it or not, that's not gonna change.

    27. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by NDPTAL85 · · Score: 1

      "Case examples (which I've encountered on a monthly-to-weekly basis since around the time I hit that puberty thing: Men muttering (or bellowing) ZOMG WILL YOU LOOK AT THAT ASS?! or otherwise spluttering when some moderately pleasant whatever walks past. I'm a guy, and I find that shit disgusting. Stop it."

      No. I won't stop it. Now do you mind telling me why you find it so disgusting? I don't bellow by the way, that would be rude but when they're out of ear shot who the hell does it harm?

      By the way, how is the above any different from you having pictures like this on your website?
      http://amongthechosen.com/candy/cat_candy.php

      Hypocrite much?

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    28. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by pottymouth · · Score: 1


      You're correct. In almost every circumstance they get paid better than their male counterparts.

    29. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by pcardno · · Score: 2, Informative

      Erm. You've used the word "European", but I think you meant "French". Or maybe "Spanish".

      In the UK you get a mandated 4 weeks holiday a year, but a lot of places do give 5. I wish for the joys of a 35 hour week. Our limit, unless you choose to be exempt, is 48 hours per week (monitored across a 12 week period). Only unionised employees have very good job protection, and they should expect to give a ton of their salary away for the pleasure of being used in political games by the union leaders.

      Yes, we get more vacation than the US, but we also get paid less and taxed more. And you can't even buy Mountain Dew here.

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    30. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Case examples (which I've encountered on a monthly-to-weekly basis since around the time I hit that puberty thing: Men muttering (or bellowing) ZOMG WILL YOU LOOK AT THAT ASS?! or otherwise spluttering when some moderately pleasant whatever walks past. I'm a guy, and I find that shit disgusting. Stop it."

      I find that disturbing if it's flat out obnoxious and the woman is clearly annoyed, and it doesn't stop. But everyone's different. I've seen situations of obnoxious behavior as you describe that returned smiles.

      I was always rather quiet talking about women with friends, well into my mid 20s. Then, I became a little more outspoken about my likes and dislikes--and I found women *really* like attention and to be admired, if done low key or respectfully. (And that's not much different than any other human or social animal.) Note that I knew this innately, just I was a much more reserved person early on in my life; it can completely turn a relationship or interaction around.

      One day, a friend (male) and I were sitting in a city park, taking a break from walking around the city and seeing its landmarks. Very attractive woman walks by, about 20 feet away, georgeous legs, and I turn to my friend and mention it as such ("wow, absolutely georgeous legs"). Said it louder than I expected by accident (we were resting, hadn't talked in about 3 minutes, loud city that hit a dull, quiet point), and she turns, and flat out smiles at us and ends up admiring us for about 100 feet as she walked away and we're watching her.

      Of course, like the average /. reader, dumbass, socially inept, nerd/geek, we didn't pursue, but that's another well-known matter.

    31. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by jaelle · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      In my lifetime, I've been a machine designer, dog groomer, IT pro and electronics engineer--in spite of not being allowed to take "boys'" classes in high school, and my mother being told "She's a girl, she'll never need math!"

      The only 'career' that paid well enough to raise and homeschool five kids was dog groomer. Men do not take women seriously no matter how well-educated, expert, efficient and competent they are. I have never made enough ever be able to retire, in spite of being more productive than any man I've ever worked with. The only people that have *ever* matched my productivity were other women.

      The reality is that if you're a 'traditional woman'--the odds are very high that you will die in poverty. If you are NOT a traditional woman--the odds are not quite as high that you will die in poverty, but they're still much higher than mens. The entire system is still structured that the only women who are not likely to die in poverty are professionals--doctors and lawyers--and golddiggers.

      http://www.alternet.org/workplace/50528/

      Men set the system up; they work very hard to perpetuate it. All this idiotic ranting about "women have it better than ever" simply ignores that fact that what women have now still sucks. Economically, the US ranks *below* Lithuania and and Estonia for women's economic success. Damned impressive, guys.

      http://www.alternet.org/workplace/50528/

      And what's really interesting is that men cut their own throats with these attitudes. Societies that have high levels of sexual equality are more successful economically, and males are healthier. It's women that determine children's health--and women that have the resources do a much better job than women that are oppressed. Boys grow up bigger, stronger and healthier in societies where their moms are successful. There is also much less crime and greater economic stability in countries where women are equal to men in numbers and power in government.

      Dr. Barres had it right--if a woman wants to succeed, she has to change into a man.
      http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2 006/07/13/BAGIDJU67A1.DTL

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    32. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 3, Informative

      When you do a study of average wages, adjust for average hours worked and adjust for work experience and education, you discover that the wage gap is 6.2% (http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qa3678/is_2 00010/ai_n8912803). I have seen some articles that suggest that even this is high, but I can't find those articles at the moment. Please note that this article points out that this does not adjust for career choice. Studies have repeatedly shown that women are less likely than men to choose jobs that are extremely physically demanding and/or highly dangerous (this doesn't mean that women can't or don't do those jobs, just that they choose to do so at a much lower rate than men do).

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    33. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      WTF? If I remember correctly the American casualties in WW-II were about 200k that fucking pales in comparison to Germany, SSSR and probably other countries like Finland and the UK. You had it great in comparison to some nations.

    34. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by sgt_doom · · Score: 1
      Darn, why does Rush Limbaugh always sign on under Anonymous coward???

      Can't he figure out how to log in under his own name, DopeHeadDick????

    35. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They are perfectly free to use marriage and divorce as businesses, enriching their personal fortunes by doing nothing more than providing sex.


      did you use "marriage" and "provide sex" in the same sentence?

      this is a dead giveaway that you have never been married.

      want to know how to tell if a mod has never been married?

      they mod this post funny.
    36. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by dheera · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Most of Europe except the UK gets longer breaks. In Germany the average is about 6 weeks and in Italy the average is about 8 weeks. In the USA, the average is about 11 days granted, most of which doesn't actually get taken. I can't remember the source, but google for it. The USA is by far the country with the least vacation time in the world -- much lower than most third-world countries.

    37. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Perhaps it's about having the option to 'dispose of their children'? You know - so people of either gender who want to 'compete for the top jobs' can, and people of either gender who do not wish to do so can do whatever else floats their personal boat?

      I will never understand why people feel the need to try to paint-by-gender ('take a look at our biological history'!) Nature gives us all sorts of, and this is the mad thing, personalised abilities - and, yeah, responsibilities. Society and culture add up to form something vastly more complex than a one-size-fits-all, which appears to be what you're arguing for, or at least what you seem to feel exists?

      Perhaps you're surrounded by people who wish to push one possible path over another, but you are able to make your own decision. Don't act like the 'feminist movement' is damaging your ability to do that.

      Personally, I refuse to 'pretend I'm a [my gender]'. And there are a few reasons for that, of which the foremost is that frankly, that set includes half the damn human race. You'd need more than the rudiments of method acting for that role.

    38. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Taagehornet · · Score: 3, Informative

      The USA is by far the country with the least vacation time in the world -- much lower than most third-world countries.

      If you live in Taiwan, Hong Kong, Singapore and Mexico you'll only get 7 days. Chinese workers probably envy their neighbors, assuming that this page can be trusted ...it's not without errors though, here in Denmark we've only got five weeks and not six.

    39. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Men suck. Women suck. They just happen to suck differently.

      I think this pretty much sums up the reason why women stay away from male geeks. (Tongue firmly in cheek). (Oh shit, I just did it, too!)

    40. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by dheera · · Score: 1

      Really? I've lived in Singapore and people at my work place got 18 *work* days off per year and could take off additional days as unpaid days, and was told that this was the norm.

    41. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by dheera · · Score: 1

      According to http://www.ilr.cornell.edu/library/research/questi onofthemonth/aug03.html 7 days is the minimum mandated, not the average. The average is generally much higher for most skilled jobs afaik.

    42. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by solios · · Score: 1

      Don't be a shit.

      It's one thing to draw pr0n, it's another thing to megaphone its existance at people who aren't interested. :P You're comparing assholes and apples here. And I don't respond with "What are you, some kind of fuckin' faggot?!" when somebody ignores my gallery.... unlike the construction worker / hornball types (such as yourself) who take any response deemed inappropriate as a personal attack on all that is Right and Good.

    43. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by number1scatterbrain · · Score: 1

      I've thought about this quite a bit over the years. I think that women are less assertive when negotiating for salary on a general basis and this is why they're paid less than men. They settle for less to get a job.

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    44. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by 0xdeadbeef · · Score: 1

      It's a vagina, not a clown car.

      Sorry. I just don't know what you're so indignant about, few people here of either gender have the means to live comfortably while raising five children. I'm looking for evidence of chauvinism but I'm hearing a sense of entitlement.

    45. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by 0xdeadbeef · · Score: 1

      Just link the loser who wrote it: http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_100/149_dat ing_advice.html

      If you want my advice, stop spouting that kind of nonsense and you might get laid.

    46. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by 0xdeadbeef · · Score: 1

      Someone should mod the parent up, before anyone else comes to this thread late and embarasses themselves by reposting the link.

    47. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Socially, it's not fair because men are conditioned to think it's okay to leave the wife to lose 7 years of experience to care for kids that belong to two people.

      Mind you, I don't want to lose my employability to have kids, I don't want to be stuck at home with a whinny child, eventually end up with a divorce and a husband that makes more because he was smart enough to not take time off work. Screw that, i'm getting a nanny and we can both pay for the nanny or my husband can give up his employability. I'm not risking mine to become a cliché.

      oh, and I work in IT, from home, but not because of kids, but because I go to school.

    48. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Marxism *only* works on a micro-scale.

    49. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by westlake · · Score: 3, Insightful
      Of course the internet and the fact that the richest people in the world have been geeks for a couple decades has probably helped the situation for Gen X geeks.

      The Forbes U.S. Top Ten:

      Bill Gates
      Warren Buffet
      Sheldon Adelson (casino gaming)
      Paul Allen
      Michael Dell
      The Walmart heirs

      This is fundamentally a list of first and second generation entrepreneurial capitalists. The money isn't in the technology , it's in marketing the technology.

    50. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "But they're too greedy, too materialistic, too self-absorbed, too immature, and too accustomed to using men to do anything with these rights but shoot themselves in the foot with them."

      I think this is half the problem, generalizing about 'women' and generalizing about 'men'.

      Every woman you know cannot possibly be immature, self-absorbed and greedy. I am sure that some are and some aren't, just like most men you know.

      You truly are sexist if you believe that you can discribe a person based on their gender.

    51. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by ShieldW0lf · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Dude, the point is that they didn't have any violence at home, they just up and picked up all the men and put em in boats and carted em off for years and years. It's not a pissing contest.

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    52. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by michield · · Score: 1

      I do not think that daycare is something the business should have to pay for. You should be PREPARED to have a child, and not already knowing of a neighbor or a daycare center in the area is a serious lapse in judgement. But who am I but a senior in highschool. I say it as I see it. I agree, but probably not entirely as you intended. You're sentence starting "You should be PREPARED" seems to be aimed at women. The You is a They. However, what I agree with is that Anyone who becomes parent should be PREPARED.

      As a result, it would be useful if that is accounted for by businesses. It's a fact of live that (most) people have children at some point and have the responsabilities involved with that, no matter what their gender. Therefore, men should get paternity leave as much as women get maternity leave, as it's just a fluke of nature that it's only women, who physically have to give birth, but it's still two parents involved in the process. Men, way too often, drop their responsabilities in child raising by blaiming the boss. I think businesses should accept this as part the cost of being a business.

      Would be nice to get some input from Norwegian parents, where I believe parental leave for child birth can be split between fathers and mothers quite equally.
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    53. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Rukie · · Score: 1

      Actually, there is a long term substitute position nearby because the teacher left on paternity leave (his wife is about to give birth, or has).

      I do think that maternity/paternity leave should be allowed for BOTH genders (maybe more for the female because there is definitely a lot more strain IMO for the female in child birth ;)

      also, I did not mean "YOU" as in females, I ment as in all people. I know too many teenage parents, some try to be responsible, some don't care. (I mean, two kids before your 18, thats ridiculous)

      I do think many women are treated unfairly. In waitressing jobs/waitering jobs, men often get tipped more because its a natural instict of "men are the caregivers and need money."
      It was also mentioned that men and women of the same position get paid differently. That may be true in some circumstances, but not always. Men and women often choose different career paths too, which is why averages can be down. I believe it was reported the female makes 75cents to every dollar a man makes. meh, what do I care, no woman will ever want to marry me so I'll never have to get into this argument! :-(

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    54. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Alex+Belits · · Score: 1

      to raise and homeschool five kids


      Does someone really think that a person who decides to raise FIVE KIDS and give them education using THE MOST EXPENSIVE AND INEFFICIENT METHOD AVAILABLE without being in some extremely privileged position in the society, can be described as anything less than insane?
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    55. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by deltacephei · · Score: 1

      The female influence on modern politics.

      Oh, you are so right. The male way of genocide, nuclear war and all manner of "my dick is bigger than yours" strutting and stand-offs has obviously been such a better way to assert dominance and beat down all those stupid countries!

    56. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      Actually, the USA birth rate is 2.07 children per woman, just 0.03 under the replacement rate. If you took the immigrants away, we'd appear dying just like Europe, Japan and Israel.

    57. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm a 26-year-old woman. I put myself through school without outside any support to get my computer science degree. I currently work full-time as a web designer and developer, and do similar freelance work part-time on top of that. I have a 19-month-old daughter, and I am the main source of income for both her and her father, who dropped out of college and works various general labor jobs. I am not greedy, materialistic, self-absorbed, or immature. I am hard-working mother and tech industry employee who has struggled out of poor childhood and is working like hell to make a better life for my daughter. No one has given me a damn thing.

      Don't talk down to me. Don't condescend to me. Don't take a story about a genuine problem and use it as a platform for your own ignorant rant. Making blanket judgments like this, and using these kind of insults to describe women, is disgusting. Basically, I've done everything you recommend and more, but you don't even try to temper your prejudice to allow for the fact that some women in the world have accomplished this.

      Oh, and "the fundamentally self-serving nature of the female gender?" Right. Because that's what motherhood is all about, self-serving. What an idiotic thing to say. Give birth to a kid sometime, and see how self-serving you get to be.

      On a positive note, though - thanks to everyone who has stood up against this. It is definitely appreciated.

    58. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by mstahl · · Score: 1

      you can't even buy Mountain Dew here

      lucky. . . .

    59. Re:Women Belong In The Kitchen by pottymouth · · Score: 1


      Yeah, talking worked so well for Neville Chamberlain didn't it?

      What is it with women and the "dick is bigger" thing. A hell of lot more women get their breasts enlarged than men get penis implants. That tells me who is worried about size more and who has the more shallow view of themselves and others.

      That aside, those that think we can talk or negotiate or appease our way to safety or security are simply foolish and unfamiliar with history and preditory behaviour. Unfortunately, because women are weaker physically, they tend to default to a stance of negotiation rather than meeting agression with agression. A stance of non-agression is great when your enemy is weak and can be ignored. Our enemies are not weak and cannot be ignored. If we don't aggresively defend ourselves we will lose this war. In any real world situation there are those that are dominant and those that are subservient. Don't care if you don't like it. That's how it is and, despite what many women seem to like, being on the dominant side is safer and more comfortable.

  25. More career options than Men by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Alexander Boot, a Russian by birth, left for the West in the 1970s, only to discover that the West he was seeking was no longer there. This led him to write the book How the West Was Lost. I disagree with his criticism of post-Enlightenment civilization in general. Still, he is articulate and original, which makes him worth reading.

    Boot believes that democracy, or in the words of Abraham Lincoln, the government of the people, by the people and for the people, has been replaced by glossocracy, the government of the word, by the word and for the word.

    Modern glossocracy can be traced back at least to the slogan of the French Revolution, "Freedom, equality, brotherhood." As it later turned out, this meant mass terror, martial law and authoritarian rule. According to Boot, the more meaningless the word, the more useful it is for glossocrats. The impulse behind Political Correctness consists of twisting the language we use, enforcing new words or changing the meaning of old ones, turning them into "weapons of crowd control" by demonizing those who fail to comply with the new definitions:

    "Like the Russian intelligentsia of yesteryear, the glossocratic intelligentsia of today's West is busily uprooting the last remaining vestiges of Westernness. The press is one gardening implement they use; education is another."

    One example of how language is power is given in Alice's Adventures in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll:

    Humpty Dumpty"'When I use a word,' Humpty Dumpty said in rather a scornful tone, 'it means just what I choose it to mean - neither more nor less.' 'The question is,' said Alice, 'whether you can make words mean different things.' 'The question is,' said Humpty Dumpty, 'which is to be master - that's all.'"

    According to Boot, glossocracy depends upon a long-term investment in ignorance: "A semi-literate population is a soft touch for glossocratic Humpty Dumpties insisting that words mean whatever they want them to mean."

    As I've said before, Political Correctness was pioneered by feminists, including the totalitarian changing of the language to make it more gender-neutral and less "oppressive." Those who successfully manage to enforce their definition of words win the ideological contest.

    The New TotalitariansThere was an interesting book called The New Totalitarians written by British historian Roland Huntford about Sweden in the early 1970s. It is especially noteworthy how the Socialist government deliberately broke down the nuclear family. This was presented as liberation from the oppression of women, but was in reality about tearing down the religious fabric of society and eliminating the Church and Judeo-Christian thinking as ideological competitors.

    It was also about increasing state control over all citizens by breaking down a rival institution that obstructed the uninhibited state indoctrination of children. Besides, the state could foment animosity between men and women and step in as an arbitrator, thus further enhancing its powers. During the past few elections in Sweden, there has been virtually no debate about mass immigration, but a passionate debate about "gender equality" in which almost all contestants call themselves feminists, and only debate which ways to implement absolute equality between the sexes.
    - - - - - - - - - -
    Mr. Huntford demonstrated how, when it was decided that a woman's place was not at home but out at work, there was a rapid change in the language. Page 301:

    "The customary Swedish for housewife is husmor, which is honourable; it was replaced by the neologism hemmafru, literally 'the-wife-who-stays-at-home', which is derogatory. Within a few months, the mass media were able to kill the old and substitute the new term. By the end of 1969, it was almost impossible in everyday conversation to mention the state of housewife without appearing to condemn or to sneer. Swedish had been changed under the eyes and ears of the Swedes. Husmor had been discredited; the only way out was to use hemmafru ironically. Connecte

  26. Let us be politically correct... by FMota91 · · Score: 0

    Surely you mean femme and butch personalities.

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  27. Re:This is a good thing! by SixFactor · · Score: 2, Insightful

    It was unfortunate that you had to re-work the code of your colleague - but incompetence knows no gender bounds.

    I have worked with women in IT who were dedicated, technically adept, and most importantly, customer-focused. Mind you, this was at a nuclear power plant, which is a machine that is continuously operating for up to two years, and this places some serious demand for IT support (yes, it was/is an MS-based house, but that's another issue). Approaching it from a cultural standpoint, operators (mostly male) are required to have the utmost confidence that they can handle the beast at all times, and this often manifested itself as massive chips on shoulders, and demands of flawless execution on just about anything. Having women in IT 'gentled' the testosterone-charged atmosphere, and that helped just getting the job done. In comparison, the IT departments at other plants in the fleet were male-dominated, and for some reason were a lot less effective. Could have been a competence issue - but IMHO, it was cultural.

    Finally, regarding the quest for a prospective partner: I believe it unwise to date someone at work. Think in terms of consequences if things go awry.

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  28. Because civilization depends on having children by ahbi · · Score: 3, Informative

    Because civilization depends on having children. How many new workers entering the workforce will you have in 20 years? Well it depends on how many kids are born today. Workers, citizens, et al, have a 20 year pipeline. And yes we can import immigrants but how many? And can we assimilate them?
    You bitch about offshoring and H1-B visas. Well the solution is to have more kids. The ideal solution would have been to have more kids 20 years ago.

    Demographics is destiny. If you don't reproduce your world view won't be around when you are not.

    The design flaw of the secular social-democratic state is that it requires a religious-society birthrate to sustain it. Post-Christian hyperrationalism is, in the objective sense, a lot less rational than Catholicism or Mormonism. Indeed, in its reliance on immigration to ensure its future, the European Union has adopted a 21st-century variation on the strategy of the Shakers, who were forbidden from reproducing and thus could increase their numbers only by conversion. The problem is that secondary-impulse societies mistake their weaknesses for strengths--or, at any rate, virtues--and that's why they're proving so feeble at dealing with a primal force like Islam.

    What's the better bet? A globalization that exports cheeseburgers and pop songs or a globalization that exports the fiercest aspects of its culture? When it comes to forecasting the future, the birthrate is the nearest thing to hard numbers. If only a million babies are born in 2006, it's hard to have two million adults enter the workforce in 2026 (or 2033, or 2037, or whenever they get around to finishing their Anger Management and Queer Studies degrees). And the hard data on babies around the Western world is that they're running out a lot faster than the oil is. "Replacement" fertility rate--i.e., the number you need for merely a stable population, not getting any bigger, not getting any smaller--is 2.1 babies per woman. Some countries are well above that: the global fertility leader, Somalia, is 6.91, Niger 6.83, Afghanistan 6.78, Yemen 6.75. Notice what those nations have in common?

    Scroll way down to the bottom of the Hot One Hundred top breeders and you'll eventually find the United States, hovering just at replacement rate with 2.07 births per woman. Ireland is 1.87, New Zealand 1.79, Australia 1.76. But Canada's fertility rate is down to 1.5, well below replacement rate; Germany and Austria are at 1.3, the brink of the death spiral; Russia and Italy are at 1.2; Spain 1.1, about half replacement rate. That's to say, Spain's population is halving every generation. By 2050, Italy's population will have fallen by 22%, Bulgaria's by 36%, Estonia's by 52%. In America, demographic trends suggest that the blue states ought to apply for honorary membership of the EU: In the 2004 election, John Kerry won the 16 with the lowest birthrates; George W. Bush took 25 of the 26 states with the highest. By 2050, there will be 100 million fewer Europeans, 100 million more Americans--and mostly red-state Americans.

    As fertility shrivels, societies get older--and Japan and much of Europe are set to get older than any functioning societies have ever been. And we know what comes after old age. These countries are going out of business--unless they can find the will to change their ways. Is that likely? I don't think so. If you look at European election results--most recently in Germany--it's hard not to conclude that, while voters are unhappy with their political establishments, they're unhappy mainly because they resent being asked to reconsider their government benefits and, no matter how unaffordable they may be a generation down the road, they have no intention of seriously reconsidering them. The Scottish executive recently backed down from a proposal to raise the retirement age of Scottish public workers. It's presently 60, which is nice but unaffordable. But the reaction of the average Scots worker is that that's somebody else's problem. The average German worker now puts in 22% fewer hours

    1. Re:Because civilization depends on having children by nuzak · · Score: 1

      > That's to say, Spain's population is halving every generation. By 2050, Italy's population will have fallen by 22%,

      I guess what they say about Catholics just isn't so.. <smirk>

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    2. Re:Because civilization depends on having children by philpalm · · Score: 1

      For those who don't know about the Shakers, they are an off shoot of the Quakers and lead by a Woman. In some ways they were fed up with the marriage system. Running life without marriage increased their productivity.

      But in the long term reduced fertility is strongly correlated with the industrialization of a nation. However if a child friendly government is voted into office you can see some increase in population (Germany and Russia are increasing incentives to reproduce)

      Interestingly enough is the pro children policies of Mormons, Catholics, Tenrikyo(Japan) and other religious beliefs. I may sound a bit like the crazy Mr. Cho but in some ways the decadence of hedonism will contribute to low birth rate also. Those non-sacrificing hedonist co-workers? They are contributing to IT Women quiting.

    3. Re:Because civilization depends on having children by GnuDiff · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Not to say that your view is unfounded, but you are ignoring at least 2 other important aspects.

      >>"Replacement" fertility rate--i.e., the number you need for merely a stable population, not getting any bigger, not getting any smaller--is 2.1 babies per woman. Some countries are well above that: the global fertility leader, Somalia, is 6.91, Niger 6.83, Afghanistan 6.78, Yemen 6.75. Notice what those nations have in common?

      Yes. They are torn by wars. Beside fertility rate, there are such things as child mortality rate and life expectancy.

      Check out http://tools.google.com/gapminder/ for data views. Basically we get around 200/1000 child die in Niger, versus around 7/1000 in the US and Estonia. Niger also has about half the life expectancy compared to any of them. If those people didn't breed at that rate, they'd be extinct by now.

      It has always been that nations with low life expectancy and high mortality rates have high child birth rates. Else they wouldn't be around.

      As regards the more peaceful parts of Africa and Asia (and the world in general) check out http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/view/id/92 , as well as http://www.gapminder.org/downloads/presentations/h as-the-world-become-a-better-place-2005.html

    4. Re:Because civilization depends on having children by AaronLawrence · · Score: 2, Informative

      Planning to get sued by WSJ?

      Blatant copy of
      http://www.opinionjournal.com/extra/?%20id=1100077 60

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    5. Re:Because civilization depends on having children by autophile · · Score: 1

      Because civilization depends on having children.

      I'm kinda hoping that this dependency is mooted by the Singularity in about 40 years. It's a gamble I'm willing to take. And if it doesn't work out, there's always cats.

      --Rob

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  29. Why are women hired ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    To motivate their male counterparts. Girl: darling... please do it for me Boy: yes my dear..I'll do all the work with day in and night out and on weekends we will go somewhere. They hire 1 woman per 4 men..so that the competition is healthy.

  30. Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by weston · · Score: 4, Insightful

    To quote Philip Greenspun:

    "Pursuing science as a career seems so irrational that one wonders why any young American would do it. Yet we do find some young Americans starting out in the sciences and they are mostly men... A lot more men than women choose to do seemingly irrational things such as become petty criminals, fly homebuilt helicopters, play video games, and keep tropical fish as pets (98 percent of the attendees at the American Cichlid Association convention that I last attended were male). Should we be surprised that it is mostly men who spend 10 years banging their heads against an equation-filled blackboard in hopes of landing a $35,000/year post-doc job?

    Having been both a student and teacher at MIT, my personal explanation for men going into science is the following:

          1. young men strive to achieve high status among their peer group
          2. men tend to lack perspective and are unable to step back and ask the question "is this peer group worth impressing?"

    It is the guys with the poorest social skills who are least likely to talk to adults and find out what the salary and working conditions are like in different occupations. It is mostly guys with rather poor social skills whom one meets in the university science halls...

    What about women? Don't they want to impress their peers? Yes, but they are more discriminating about choosing those peers. I've taught a fair number of women students in electrical engineering and computer science classes over the years. I can give you a list of the ones who had the best heads on their shoulders and were the most thoughtful about planning out the rest of their lives. Their names are on files in my "medical school recommendations" directory."

    - Women in Science

    1. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by bluej100 · · Score: 1

      Having been both a student and teacher at MIT, my personal explanation for men going into science is the following: 1. young men strive to achieve high status among their peer group 2. men tend to lack perspective and are unable to step back and ask the question "is this peer group worth impressing?" It is the guys with the poorest social skills who are least likely to talk to adults and find out what the salary and working conditions are like in different occupations. It is mostly guys with rather poor social skills whom one meets in the university science halls...

      What a depressing assessment. Couldn't men be more interested in science for science's sake, and moreso than women? It doesn't make women dumber or less important to be more focused on the proximate and practical.

    2. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by xenocide2 · · Score: 1

      I think that's the point: men associate with people with similar interests, forming a peer group. And I think that people concerned about impressing peers do better than those maximizing return on their investment (chasing after high value jobs).

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    3. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by bky1701 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I think that this guy is overlooking a few things to make an anti-male statement.

      I am male and am interested in engineering, computers and math. Why? Not because I am trying to impress people, but because that's my skill. I am good at fixing things and seeing how things are supposed to work and like to do that. If I wanted to impress people I'd become a jock, not a nerd. I do what I do because I like it.

      On the other hand, most women I have seen dislike their jobs and do them just to make money. They are mainly interested in social activity for pleasure, while men tend to be interested in accomplishments in their jobs (be it working for a company or just trying to do something no one else has).

      Therefore, it's understandable why men would stick to a field they like, even if it is inferior, where women would go to something else just because it pays more and expects less. They already don't care what they do.

      Then again, I only got this from observations, and I have seen many exceptions, this just seems to be the norm.

    4. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by daigu · · Score: 1

      It is the guys with the poorest social skills who are least likely to talk to adults and find out what the salary and working conditions are like in different occupations.

      Quick! Everyone in a science department send a mass email to everyone you know telling them about this amazing old resource called the Occupational Outlook Handbook - where they can find out the differences of pay and working conditions not only in science - say biological scientists vs. chemists - but also how they match up to other lines of work such as floral design. And you don't even need to talk to anyone!

      I guess my point here is that you don't necessarily need social skills to find out about alternatives. You also don't need social skills to be effective at life planning - which is a different skill set, one that women get socialized into early. You can even be a physician with poor social skills, just when you decide to try your budding life planning skills, pick the right sub-speciality like pathology.

    5. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by umbrellasd · · Score: 1

      I can give you a list of the ones who had the best heads on their shoulders and were the most thoughtful about planning out the rest of their lives.
      Please do! And also, numbers!
    6. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by Khomar · · Score: 1

      This has absolutely nothing to do with who is "smarter" than the other, and I am so sick of seeing this tripe about women's superiority to men that it makes me sick. If this post were reversed, there would be an uproar and lawsuits, but if you denegrate men, well, then you get a prize.

      The fact is that in general men are risk takers. Women, on the other hand, tend to favor things that give them security. Thus, to women, many of the things that men do seem ridiculous... even "stupid"... because they are not safe and secure. Does this mean that we as a society should just roll over and play it safe and secure to make the women happy? I submit that this is exactly what we are doing today. We are no longer taking risks. Instead we always take the safe and easy way. We are more concerned with being secure than being free. We are more concerned about losing soldiers than trying to find solutions to the world's problems. We are more concerned about preserving our lives than stopping a rampaging madman from killing our friends. (I am probably being too harsh here, but the incident in Virginia Tech has really made me think of what I would have done and what I should have done had I been there -- and they are unfortunately probably not the same thing). We have grown so worried about our self preservation that we won't even take action as we watch our nation and world sink into the abyss of violence and hatred.

      This is not to say that men are better than women either. We need that check from the women to keep us from the brink when we take risks that we really should not be taking. Women also, because of their drive for safe and secure, create the best environment to raise kids. When they are young, kids need to feel safe, comfortable, and loved -- right down the mother's alley. As they get older, they need to be taught by their father to take those risks that will eventually get them out on their own -- but they always have their mother to comfort them when things go wrong.

      What am I saying here? I am saying that men and women are wonderously different. Neither one is smarter or better than the other. Sometimes you need to take risks to survive and sometimes you need to play it safe to avoid catastrophe. Unfortunately, we as a society and a country have favored the latter too much. We need to remember that often success only comes by taking risks.

      Back on topic, I think that women are fleeing IT jobs because they are not the jobs that they really enjoyed in the first place. IT is not generally the field of choice for those who are social in nature, but if you thrive on the challenge of working with computers and technology, it can be very rewarding. Should we be concerned that women are leaving the field? I'm not. I trust that they are finding jobs that they enjoy more or possibly (*gasp*) they are deciding to raise a family. I could start another rant on how our society has looked down upon traditional homemakers (WHY?!), but I think this post has enough ranting already. :-)

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    7. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...the incident in Virginia Tech has really made me think of what I would have done and what I should have done had I been there -- and they are unfortunately probably not the same thing

      Don't sell yourself short, dude. At least you seem to be honest with yourself and the fact is that no one knows what they would do in those circumstances unless they go through them.

      Also, I agree with everything in your post and would mod it up if I could.

    8. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by FrankNputer · · Score: 1

      You need to meet more women.

      Seriously - "they already don't care what they do" - ? What utter bullshit. Women most certainly do care about what they do, as much as men if not more. And I know plenty of men who would drop their jobs in a heartbeat if it meant more money & fewer expectations - hell, show me where that job is & I'll heartily recommend you to my employer.

    9. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by weston · · Score: 1

      This has absolutely nothing to do with who is "smarter" than the other, and I am so sick of seeing this tripe about women's superiority to men that it makes me sick

      Easy there, Tiger. Take the casting that "Women are Smarter than Men" with a grain of salt -- it's not Greenspun's real point. His point is to highlight that because the economic incentives are mostly bare to modest, choosing something else other than a technical/scientific career is a very intelligent choice, unless you already know you're going to love your work so much that the other stuff isn't going to matter. If you do it, it should be more like the decision to become a writer, or a guitar player, or an artist -- it's tough to make it, but people do and find that rewarding, too. Some people literally can't choose anything else. Nothing wrong with that.

      It's on topic with the fine article because it says the same thing: lifestyle pressures are moving women out of IT. Well, duh. This is observing the canary when the coal mine's falling in. Lifestyle pressures are moving lots of people who weren't in IT for the love of it out. And even some who were, but find they can enjoy it more as a hobby. Because in most cases, the economic incentives are bare to modest, and the demands are high.

    10. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by weston · · Score: 1

      I think that this guy is overlooking a few things to make an anti-male statement.

      The article isn't really about male inferiority. It's a rhetorical device to highlight the economics of sci/tech career choices. See this other comment I just made for a fuller explanation.

      Therefore, it's understandable why men would stick to a field they like, even if it is inferior, where women would go to something else just because it pays more and expects less. They already don't care what they do.

      Greenspun has something to say about these people:

      "Some scientists are like kids who never grow up. They love what they do, are excited by the possibilities of their research, and wear a big smile most days. Although these people are, by Boston standards, ridiculously poor and they will never be able to afford a house (within a one-hour drive of their job) or support a family, I don't feel sorry for them."

      Nothing wrong with doin' it for the love.

    11. Re:Maybe it's because Women are Smarter than Men by jaelle · · Score: 1

      I am a woman, and I AM JUST LIKE YOU. I'm interested in the same things and always have been. But getting into and making it in technical fields has been an uphill, and very unsatisfying experience. I love tinkering, figuring stuff out, all the things you love. Try doing those things for a company that *also* expects you to answer phones and file stuff and act like a receptionist at the same time, simply because you are not male. And of course they see no reason to pay you equally for your technical work because you are required to also do non-technical work.

      That's the default assumption of male bosses toward female techs. And if you object--well, they can always find a male...

      I have managed to subvert that tendency to some degree, by being really, really BAD at filing and answering phones, and being so good at the technical work that I've pretty much gathered up all of it. But the perception that I'm some sort of fallback secretary still persists, and the pay has never reached the levels it should because of it.

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  31. Re:This is a good thing! by aveldina · · Score: 1
    I mean, this is the sort of thing that would be flat out obvious to a male developer.

    Is that the case, or does it have something to do with that male programmer's previous experience? Are some of these places hiring women just to fill female gap with little regard to the amount of experience that person should have resulting in these types of situations? How many mistakes do your male developers make? It may be easy for you to sweep those examples of poor programming under a rug, but when a female programmer makes a mistake.. well they shouldn't even have a job anymore. After reading these types of comments on Slashdot I'd question why a women would want to enter IT when this type of attitude has already been set against her from the very beginning.
  32. Re:Why are women hired ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I someone wants to leave their job to have a kid, that was a choice. If the job is more important than having a kid, dont have kids.
    If the kid is more important and you want to stay home with it, dont complain about it
    I fail to see the logic in providing child care at work. Sure its nice if the employer does it but require it.....

  33. Confused, also.... by Itninja · · Score: 1

    So men and women are different and should be treated accordingly right? But also be treated equally? So we should embrace diversity while simultaneously demanding equality? I guess that's why there are rarely 'deadbeat moms' in the news or 'crack-whore dads'.

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    1. Re:Confused, also.... by flyingfsck · · Score: 1

      Deadbeat moms? I guess it is mainly because the guys don't bother complaining about it.

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  34. The new plumbers by michaelmalak · · Score: 2, Informative

    It's much like power/water services, if your power goes out and you call the company (cell phone, before anyone complains about my analogy) you'd expect them to have someone ready to come out even if it was after normal hours wouldn't you? Same deal for IT.
    It didn't used to be that way. People say to me, "you have a master's degree -- why do you have to work odd hours?" I tell them it used to be that way, but since the Internet came along, my profession got downgraded to the equivalent of plumber -- a blue collar worker -- more maintenance and administration and less research and development.

    But in all honesty, my computer work was 24 hours before the Internet, too. It was just called a "BBS" and I didn't get paid for it.

    1. Re:The new plumbers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's worse than being a plumber. As far as I know, most plumbers are NOT expected to be on call, and furthermore, probably get at least time and a half for having to work later hours or weekends.

                On the other hand, people in IT seem to typically have one of two situations. Either they're paid per hour, but not time-and-a-half or anything for nights and weekends. Or, they are salaried but expected to be on call 24x7x365. The $/hour is rather low considering there are 61320 hours in a year. Well, personally, I would not mind being technically on call if realistically I get called in a few times a year. On the other hand, I keep hearing about IT shops that just expect people in on weekends, and will call them in late at least once a week. Fuuuuuuuuck that. These shops really should have a night & weekend crew. I'm not a chick, but I would not work under those conditions either.

    2. Re:The new plumbers by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 1
      On the other hand, people in IT seem to typically have one of two situations. Either they're paid per hour, but not time-and-a-half or anything for nights and weekends.

      Most plumbers are freelance/own their own shops after finishing their apprenticeships. So they can charge what the market will bear. If you want time and a half, emulate that business model. (Technically, even easier with IT since IT doesn't require licensure, etc.) You'll have to be your own bookkeeper, PR, advertising, etc at the beginning, but the result may be financially as well as personally rewarding.

      -b.

    3. Re:The new plumbers by xdroop · · Score: 1

      I tell them it used to be that way, but since the Internet came along, my profession got downgraded to the equivalent of plumber -- a blue collar worker -- more maintenance and administration and less research and development.
      You, sir, get it.

      We are actually comparable to practically any trade -- skilled, responsible for the guts of how business happens, yet resented for our very existence.

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    4. Re:The new plumbers by jackl420 · · Score: 1

      Not to nitpick, but while I agree with the point you're making, there are 8,760 hours in a year.

  35. sigh by pak9rabid · · Score: 2, Interesting

    What is the big f'ing deal with the whole "lack of women in the IT industry" fad? Why doesn't the hair salon industry get this much publicity for it's lack of men working in it? Seriously, it's stupid. Women do what they're good at, and men do the same. Everyone meets in the middle eventually in executive and management land.

    1. Re:sigh by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Obviously you've never looked in the phone book under "Barber", otherwise you'd realize how many males are in the hair styling industry.

  36. It's not restricted to women by femto · · Score: 3, Insightful

    A number of my friends with children are looking to get out of the drudgery of abandoning their families for 60% of their waking hours.

    These are the people working a 55 hour week in a "9 to 5" job, with an hour of commuting each way. They are typically engineers or other professionals working in jobs where technology companies demand that the product be in the market yesterday. Their (ex) colleagues have been "downsized" and the company is too tight to employ replacements or there just aren't the qualified people out there. Consequently they are each doing one and a half jobs. Flexible hours policy is "We don't mind what hours you work as long as the job gets done", which translates to "55 hours".

    These friends are figuring out that they are missing out on being part of their family growing up while earning 2-3 time the average wage. Often they are concluding that they are better to move to a part time job, earn a little above an average wage and be part of the family growing up. If the change requires a change of employer or profession then they are prepared to do it. When pushed the better employers realise that they are better to have a part time expert than no expert.

    1. Re:It's not restricted to women by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      An hour commute each way? There's a bit part of the problem. You take away 1/12 of your day (or 1/8 if you actually sleep) and you waste that time going to and from work. The problem isn't the job, the problem is the lifestyle. Move closer to work or work closer to home. It'll improve your life immediately.

    2. Re:It's not restricted to women by Avatar8 · · Score: 1
      Indeed.

      Over the past several years I've been doing my best to improve my career so that I could be with my family more often.

      During one job they sent me out of town for a solid month and then for weekdays over the next four months. This occurred while our daughters were three and six. My wife worked, too, so this period nearly pushed her over the edge of sanity. I changed jobs ASAP.

      IT today definitely seems to be geared towards the single male with little or no social life. I remember seeing jobs that would be great... if I were single: 80-100% travel, all expenses paid, bleeding edge technology and always doing something new in a new location.

  37. Re:This is a good thing! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    I had a similar experience with over-emotional female co-workers. I worked as part of a team developing the back end for a major online store. In that team there were three developers, myself and two women. One of these women was constantly making private calls about her abusive boyfriend and constantly missed deadlines (if the guy was such a jerk why didn't she leave him? that would have been the logical thing to do). The other would meet deadlines about 50% of the time, but her coding style was very confrontational, using K&R-style indentation deliberately in contravention of the coding standards and using multiple inheritance injudiciously.

    I ended up taking up the slack, doing loads of extra hours and re-working these two women's code and as a result suffered a severe case of burnout.

    I now make a point of not working on any programming projects where there are a significant number of women involved. It's simply not worth sacrificing my health for.

  38. me too by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    although I am not a woman. :)
    I was sick and tired of having to be available 24/7. So now I got a another job and my income is down by 20% but it is worth it. It wasn't good for my health either.

  39. meh by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you don't like IT, go into nursing. You'll be just as overworked except the gender ratio is opposite.
    Who gives a flying fuck in the end? Do the job that interests you and move on.

    1. Re:meh by Greg_D · · Score: 1

      No you won't. You'll be compensated very handsomely and offered raises from competing hospitals like it's going out of style. Most nurses alternate 3-12s and 4-12s every other week. They might not get a standard weekend (unless they ask for it), but they get shift differential for working at night and because they are valued so highly because of the nursing shortage, they can tell their bosses to go screw when called in to work for someone else and they'll still have their job when they get back. Both my sisters are nurses. They have a sweet job and they know it.

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  41. Re:This is a good thing! by shaitand · · Score: 1

    'Well, by you logic, if your a gay guy. you probably think on an emotional level too and are inferior, so you shouldn't be in IT either.'

    If that were the case then he would be saying those who think on an emotional rather than cold logical level are inferior. And he's right. He's also sexist, not all women (or gay men) think on an emotional level. The ones who do are inferior along with all the straight men who do so.

    If you don't think you will find equal proportions of cold logic and warm emotion among straight men, gay men, and women then YOU must be the sexist... or maybe, just maybe, there can both be exceptions AND stereotypes can sometimes coincide with mean averages.

    Now for the next great mystery that plagues mankind. Why is it that a black man will laugh with you if you make a crack about him liking KFC when not all black men like KFC? Why will that same black man get angry if you say that blacks have nappy hair when the lack of oil and frizziness it is a genetic trait that is an undisputed part of the definition of the black race?

    For the record I am a young white male with a solid heinz 57 of European ancestry. That means I am a minority. I am the only race/gender/background combination that isn't allowed to talk about ANYONE. Its even racist if I refer to MY OWN RACE/GENDER. Yet somehow, all other races/genders are allowed to make fun of my race/gender all day long. I'm also broke, I want all that economic advantage they use to justify hiring a minority (which consists of EVERY other group/gender) over me.

  42. Thank you by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Most people seem to think there are only single mothers out there. I'm a single dad (2 preteen daughters) and it can be quite challenging at times. Not just the flexible hours or being on call -- when the kids get sick I'm just expected to be in 2 places at once. And I don't mind being called at 3AM and telecommuting at all (I'd do it everyday if they wanted me to), but finding a babysitter at 3AM is just not an option.

    One just has to find the job with a more flexible schedule... It's a bit harder to find, but there are some out there.

  43. It is called political correctness, it is evil by jmorris42 · · Score: 0, Troll

    > Look, you're hired to do a job. If you can't or won't do it, find a different job...

    Exactly. Even Zonk got this one right when he picked the Dept for this article. This IS the Free Market in action. Women are putting different priorities on the work/family problem and coming up with different choices. I thought that was what we all wanted, freedom to choose our own course through life. Women are DIFFERENT, guess some people are just noticing that isn't just a case of some people having boobies and some not. I say whatever works for them, regardless if HR people have nightmares because it is messing with their quotas. (That they don't have of course.)

    The suggested 'solution', grossly inflating the compensation packages and reducing the job description for a position based on gender, should be seen as a condescending insult. But of course it won't. In fact it is exactly what will be done because it is ALL about the numbers.

    Just another anchor large operations get to carry around in the global marketplace to satisfy PC stupidity. In a way it is their own fault because large corporations love to use the power of the State to keep competitors small, problem is a government big enough for that is also big enough to be used for PC silliness by OTHER special interests. Won't matter though, small nimble upstarts continually chew up and recycle old stale corps.... and become new megacorps who beat down thier competition with similar tactics, become old and lumbering, repeat.

    [yes, if I don't get modded troll for what follows I'll be disappointed] ;)

    Of course what is really throwing the sand in the vaginas of the feminists is how this represents yet another sign of the total failure of their philosophy. They had a dream. Men and women were interchangable units, not just equal but identical in ability, ambition and goals... if only they could deprogram women from their incorrect notions.. and convince them that their only unique role in propagating the species was childbirth.

    And for a generation it almost worked. Women bought the pitch and entered the workforce and the professions with a will, many forgoing children entirely and the rest tossing their kids into daycare (or buying a nanny for the upperclass feminist leaders) as soon as they recovered from delivery enough to work again. And it was working! The glass ceiling was only a speed bump, another generation and total victory was in sight.

    Then something unexpected happened. Those abandoned kids grew up. Disfunctional in ways never seen, but apparently not willing to repeat the mistakes of their parents. Looking at THEIR offspring it is apparent that most haven't a clue HOW to parent, but they are trying. In a world gone stark raving mad, still bent on destroying the notions that make a traditional family impossible by law, policy, custom and culture more and more of em seem determined to try. Guess it is now the counter culture thing to do? Being 'normal' is now an act of rebellion?

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    1. Re:It is called political correctness, it is evil by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      There was an interesting book called The New Totalitarians written by British historian Roland Huntford about Sweden in the early 1970s. It is especially noteworthy how the Socialist government deliberately broke down the nuclear family. This was presented as liberation from the oppression of women, but was in reality about tearing down the religious fabric of society and eliminating the Church and Judeo-Christian thinking as ideological competitors.

      It was also about increasing state control over all citizens by breaking down a rival institution that obstructed the uninhibited state indoctrination of children. Besides, the state could foment animosity between men and women and step in as an arbitrator, thus further enhancing its powers. During the past few elections in Sweden, there has been virtually no debate about mass immigration, but a passionate debate about "gender equality" in which almost all contestants call themselves feminists, and only debate which ways to implement absolute equality between the sexes.

      Mr. Huntford demonstrated how, when it was decided that a woman's place was not at home but out at work, there was a rapid change in the language. Page 301:

      "The customary Swedish for housewife is husmor, which is honourable; it was replaced by the neologism hemmafru, literally 'the-wife-who-stays-at-home', which is derogatory. Within a few months, the mass media were able to kill the old and substitute the new term. By the end of 1969, it was almost impossible in everyday conversation to mention the state of housewife without appearing to condemn or to sneer. Swedish had been changed under the eyes and ears of the Swedes. Husmor had been discredited; the only way out was to use hemmafru ironically. Connected with this semantic shift, there was a change in feeling. Women who, a year or so before, had been satisfied, and possibly proud, to stay at home, began to feel the pressure to go out to work. The substitution of one word for the other had been accompanied by insistent propaganda in the mass media, so that it was as if a resolute conditioning campaign had been carried out. Very few were able to recognize the indoctrination in the linguistic manipulation; in the real sense of the word, the population had been brain-washed."

      For my own part, I find it interesting that the same people who, in the 60s and 70s, broke up the traditional family structure in Western countries and warned people against the dangers of overpopulation, telling people to lower their birth rates, come back a few years later and say that we have to import millions of immigrants because we have such low birth rates.

      Betty FriedanAuthor Daniel Horowitz has written about the highly influential American feminist Betty Friedan, whose 1963 book "The Feminine Mystique" is widely seen as marking the beginning of the Second Wave of feminism. Horowitz documents how Friedan had for decades before this been a hardened Marxist. It is revealing that she tried to hide her background, presenting herself only as an average suburban housewife. In the early drafts, Friedan quoted Friedrich Engels, but these quotations were cut out before the book was published. In the Communist Manifesto, Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels had called for the abolition of family. Friedan denounced the American suburban family household as "a comfortable concentration camp."

      Roland Huntford noticed that the teaching of history was severely curtailed in Swedish schools because it was "impractical." Religion, and Christianity in particular, was presented as superstition designed to fool the masses, which had been liberated from this ancient oppression by the Labor movement.

      As he noted, "Scrapping historical knowledge deprives pupils of the instrument for criticizing society here and now. And perhaps that is the intended effect." Journalist Christopher Hitchens later wrote that "For true blissed-out and vacant servitude, though, you need an otherwise sophisticated society where no serious history is taught."

      Ingvar Carlsson"

    2. Re:It is called political correctness, it is evil by plasmacutter · · Score: 1

      because we all know the judeo-christian church was so much better when it wielded influence.

      it must be nice being able to ignore hundreds of years of dark ages for the sake of political ideology.

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    3. Re:It is called political correctness, it is evil by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It does not make sense to be a housewife. Most of the people i know with stay-at-home moms, even in their mid-20s, can't do basic household chores because they never learned, and even in the home, their fathers are useless, they can't do the simple feeding, clothing and cleaning of themselves. Basically, the premise was to get women dependent on men and men dependent on women to decrease the divorce rate. It's stupid, what's more, it screws over women because when a woman decides or is manipulated to stay at home, she's the one that is going be broke and homeless after a divorce or death. Her ex-husband will just be able to hire a maid.

  44. Re:My woman is required to be barefoot and naked by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    what, supper and dinner, but no lunch?

  45. I'll probably get modded to hell for this... by Biff+Stu · · Score: 4, Interesting

    Utility companies need to have staffing for 3 shifts and pay overtime when they call extra people in for emergencies. IT techs just suck it up. Guess who's unionized?

    1. Re:I'll probably get modded to hell for this... by freeweed · · Score: 1

      You say that like it's a good thing.

      Personally, I'd MUCH rather work a 9-5 job, and carry a rotating pager every few weeks (and get woken up a couple of times a month). The alternative (2 in 3 chance of being moved to the night shift) appeals to me about as much as a root canal. Working in a unionized environment, I'd last about 2 weeks before needing to burn out 95% of my brain cells with alcohol - or a bullet.

      To each their own, however.

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    2. Re:I'll probably get modded to hell for this... by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 1

      Let's trade jobs. I am on call every three days and get woken up at least once a night when on call.

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    3. Re:I'll probably get modded to hell for this... by fabs64 · · Score: 1

      Unionisation is purely about collective bargaining, there's no reason you couldn't collectively bargain to have an on-call situation.

    4. Re:I'll probably get modded to hell for this... by HuguesT · · Score: 1

      Exactly, please mod up !

    5. Re:I'll probably get modded to hell for this... by Rakarra · · Score: 1

      Does that happen because something of yours breaks or someone else's junk messes up?

    6. Re:I'll probably get modded to hell for this... by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 1

      Not my stuff, usually. Unless the developers have been at it again. I get paged when someone else' junk screws up and it effects my application, even when it is known that is is someone else's junk and there is nothing I can do about it.

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  46. EVERYONE is leaving IT by gelfling · · Score: 1

    Working god awful hours was fine 10 years ago when they were shoveling money at people. But between a decade of wage stagnation, job cuts and off shoring, what is the goddamn point any more? Who needs it? Regardless of what automation tools they give you the support ratios keep climbing anyhow. They demand 10% 'efficiency' off the top automatically year over year before they even mention 'cost challenge'. Turnover is way way up and anyone who sticks around for 4 years will have trained several generations of people.

    1. Re:EVERYONE is leaving IT by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 1

      What you have just said and mismanagement are the reasons I am leaving my current job.

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    2. Re:EVERYONE is leaving IT by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's the exact reason I left my IT job at an investment bank after 4 years....

    3. Re:EVERYONE is leaving IT by Avatar8 · · Score: 1
      I agree, and I'm doing my best to depart IT ASAP.

      For years I worked my way up the chain, learning new technologies, staying on top of things, sacrificing sleep and family time for companies all for what? A 4% pay raise every three years... maybe.

      Typically the only way I get a raise is to interview at a new company and show them what I've learned at the previous job. The current company doesn't care how much of myself I've re-invested into the company or that my family life is going to pot because I dedicate myself to the company.

      The only good quote I ever heard from a former company president was "We work to live; we don't live to work." Damn straight and that's why I left that company - because that quote didn't apply to IT, customer support, system builders or shippers - it only applied to salespeople and management.

  47. It is not restricted to IT by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I saw an article by a woman talking about why women are paid less than men. She figures it is because women go for the quality of life jobs while men go for the money. Women will take lower paying jobs with higher job satisfaction, better hours, etc. while men will kill themselves for the big buck.

    No surprise that women are leaving IT when the jobs suck more and more.

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    1. Re:It is not restricted to IT by evilviper · · Score: 1

      I saw an article by a woman talking about why women are paid less than men. She figures it is because women go for the quality of life jobs while men go for the money.

      It isn't just one woman's opinion. There have been in-depth studies to prove it.

      Never the less, none of the politicians want to be honest, and risk making female voters angry, so those political causes continue, despite reality.

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    2. Re:It is not restricted to IT by Renraku · · Score: 1

      Here's a perfect example.

      Woman works hard. Gets degree in IT-related field. Goes into IT.

      She's making great pay, but is on-call 24/7. The bosses are annoying. The guys look at them and treat them like goddesses, worshiping the ground they walked on last week. The departmental funds are low. Management is out of touch.

      To say that this creates a hostile work environment is an understatement.

      So after a good year of every guy they work with treating them like a princess, after they see that the field they went into sucks as far as work environments, and that there are so many jobs with better environments, they leave.

      They find a guy who's in IT and makes a shitload of money, and they take up a nice quiet job as a technical writer or admin. assistant someplace. After all, there are thousands and thousands of guys within a mile of her that would be willing to work 15 hours a day to keep her happy.

      She has a family, holds down the fort, and pursues her interests with a lot less stress and hassle.

      Now, lets fast forward to her male counterpart. He's one of 20 people in the department. He has to keep this job because he knows that living with his parents will make him a loser and virtually no female within a fifty mile radius would give him a second look. He knows the pay isn't too great, the hours suck, and work is stressful. But he does it anyway, because that is what is expected of him. His boss is fresh out of the marketing department and only knows how to please his bosses with uninformed promises and decisions. Pretty much everyone is intimidated by him.

      What recourse does he have? He's not going to be able to go out and find a self-respecting girlfriend who's going to take care of him and accept that he has very little ambition to move up past something like a technical writer. He feels pressured to go and work those 10 hours a day. Society is pressuring him to shut up and 'take it like a man'. And if he does manage to get married and have kids, he'll be pulling the cart for at least a few weeks while she takes care of herself, the birth, and the baby.

      That's the difference right there. Its not about intelligence, its about strong pressures forced upon us from society.

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    3. Re:It is not restricted to IT by pablodiazgutierrez · · Score: 1

      I don't get it. If men kill themselves for the big buck, why should they stay in it any longer than women when the jobs suck more and more and the pay lowers?

    4. Re:It is not restricted to IT by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      That's the difference right there. Its not about [insert lame excuse here], it's about strong pressures forced upon us from society.

      You are absolutely correct. In fact, I was just telling other people almost the same thing while discussing Virginia Tech shootings. They say he was alienated as if he had all the control. Wrong. Society alienated him - pushed him over the edge but they say it is all his fault because he fell of the edge (or through the cracks).

    5. Re:It is not restricted to IT by whitis · · Score: 1

      Part of the reason (heterosexual) men will go for the job that pays well or negotiate more strenuously may be that they have to or they are royally screwed in the dating game.

      Men tend to be more mercenary in the workplace while women tend to be more mercenary in social spheres. Men are "provider objects".
      When a man and woman meet, there is a high probability that he will be judged on how much money he makes and a low probability that she will be
      judged on how much money she makes. Some men are even intimidated by a woman who makes more money than they do so a woman making a good salary
      might even be at a disadvantage. Men generally could care less if a woman owns a house. Men don't tend to care if a woman lives in a one room
      apartment. Men generally don't expect women to buy them drinks, dinner, or gifts of any value. And women are more likely to find a man to take
      care of them in a time of financial crisis than vice versa. If a man is forced to move in with his parents, he is toast; a woman in the same
      situation will be at a slight disadvantage, mostly due to concerns about parental meddling. Women are almost never asked by their partners parents
      how they will provide for the partner. If she can't afford a kid, she can choose to have an abortion; men can get saddled with child support payments
      and can actually be put in jail if they can't afford to pay them, even when unemployed (which hurts their possibilities for future employment).
      While there are many women who are not this mercenary, the dating game tends to be constructed in such a way as to reduce the positive effect for both
      the men and the women.

      This mercenary dating can hurt women, too. Men who make more money often do so by screwing over other people and this can carry over into the relationship.
      The man who spends the fruit of other peoples labors on a woman is, ironically, perceived as generous compared to the man who makes considerable self
      sacrifice for the greater good. And the men who spend money on women tend to expect something in return.

      The dating game tends to favor superficial qualities. Looks in women and money in men. If you are a woman who is not attractive or a man who doesn't
      have a lot of money, you are at a significant disadvantage. Some men (such as artists and musicians) can escape it because they have a chance to display their positive qualities before the financial triage occurs. If a woman is a lesbian, was born with bad genes in the looks department, or has lost her looks due to neglect and/or age, then she loses a lot of the advantages which is why a lot of the early feminists fell into those categories, leading to "ugly" or "lesbian" stereotypes. Men who are looking for traditionally female roles get screwed all around.

      Gender roles can hurt both genders.

  48. There are women in IT jobs? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

    Im not being funny, i genuinely find it surprising to find out that there are women in IT. I spent 5 years in the business without encountering a single one.

    1. Re:There are women in IT jobs? by Avatar8 · · Score: 1
      They are few and far between.

      In 23 years of working in IT, I've encountered three women (including my wife) who I considered actual IT professionals (working on hardware or software in some fashion). There are plenty of women in IT-related positions (logistics, help desk/customer service, procurement, management, etc.), but very, very few who do something technical.

  49. Re:This is a good thing! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Umm...black isn't a race, or an ethnicity, it's simply a categorization racists use to put "them" in another group from "us". So as long as we have people saying shit like "it is a genetic trait that is an undisputed part of the definition of the black race", we have people who miscategorize race and ethnicity via their own beliefs. And unless you spent today applying for jobs, stop complaining about economic advantages for hiring.
     
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  50. Women with brains by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    An alarming number of women are currently abandoning IT jobs that require workers to be on-call at all hours

    Smart women! I think the men should follow their lead.

  51. At a disadvantage? Hardly... by swordgeek · · Score: 1

    Women are refusing to burn themselves out. That might appear to be a very short-term disadvantage, but if there's any difference, it's only that the men in IT are a few years behind. By 2009, the men who aren't quitting now will either be dead (or disabled), will have left the industry, or will have demanded proper treatment.

    I quit my last job two months ago, when I realised that charging more money (doubletime? Tripletime? Travel expenses?) for overtime wasn't making it go away, and I hadn't had a weekend in three months. I'm now getting paid about $15k less for more complex work, and am much happier. And I'm still in IT.

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  52. Sorry guys ... by Chris+Daniel · · Score: 3, Funny

    This was my fault. I'll take more showers.

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  53. They need a union by Animats · · Score: 1

    This is the sort of thing unions were created to fix. Crunch time means crunch pay.

    Sysadmins need something like the IATSE Hollywood Basic Agreement, which covers most people working on a movie shoot other than the actors. When film productions go into crunch mode, pay goes through the roof. There's overtime. There's double overtime when hours per day go up. Emergency calls in the middle of the night carry a minimum of 4 hours of pay at double the normal rate, plus there's pay for being on-call.

    Which is why producers and studios spend time on doing good film scheduling. When management screws up, management pays the bills.

  54. childlessness != loneliness by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I have no children. I will never have children. In fact, I am unable to have biological children. This is fine with me, because I do not like children. That I have no children does not make me lonely. I prefer adult company, thank you very much.

  55. Re:This is a good thing! by flyingfsck · · Score: 1

    Think you have a hard time? A friend of mine complained that being a Jewish African American White made it impossible to find a job anywhere except in New York...

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  56. Careerist women get hit the hardest. by Kadin2048 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    If women want freedom and equal rights, then they have to grow up. Equality does not mean self-entitlement, and liberation cannot be just a convenient excuse for unbridled narcissism. Men and women should be equal partners in this world, but such a lofty goal can only be achieved if women start acting like equal partners -- that is, giving instead of constantly demanding and taking.

    Although I don't necessary agree with many of your premises, nor your conclusion, I do agree with that particular statement (well, not the generalization that all women today are necessarily "constantly demanding and taking," and I think the tone is a bit strident -- did you just get out of a bad divorce or something?).

    I think the people who get screwed worse than just about anyone, under our current system, are the women who really want to compete on a level playing field; either they get hobbled, or they get tossed crutches they don't need and don't want (and which cause them to be discriminated against).

    An easy example of this is with child-care policies at work. Some workplaces have very biased policies surrounding parenting; they have maternity leave without any corresponding paternity or adoption leave, etc. What this does is make women, in general, much less attractive employees to lower and middle management. If you're taking on someone into a management or competitive career track (think junior partners in big law firms), who are you going to pick: the male employee, who's going to work his ass off, and then work his ass off some more, or the female employee, who's going to work her ass off, but then quite possibly go take six or nine months off to have a kid, and then only want to come back on a reduced schedule? It's a no-brainer, and this is why there's a culture of discrimination in many of those workplaces.

    The people who this really hurts, though, are the women who aren't interested in having children, and aren't going to ever exercise their maternity leave, and are going to work the same 60-hour weeks for as many years as their male counterpart would, and not expect any quarter on account of sex. They really get hosed, because they get discriminated against without any good reason, due the cultural stereotype that all women want to be nurturing mother-figures, when there are definitely women out there who have zero interest in it.

    I've met a lot of aggressive, careerist women in my life, and a whole lot of them are pretty bitter that they always get pigeonholed in the "so when are you going to get pregnant?" box. Conversely, I've met a few men who are pretty clearly looking to be primary caregivers and bitter about the flack they get for asking for child-care and leave, or for not being as aggressively career-oriented as others around them. So it cuts both ways.

    I think there are really two fair solutions: you can make all policies gender-neutral, and encourage male employees to take the same sort of leave, when they're adopting or their partner is pregnant, that a female employee would take for a pregnancy, so that in hiring or placing people, managers can't just assume that "male employee = no leave" and "female employee = leave" (although if you have more female employees taking leave, then you'll still have discrimination). Or, you pick some sort of well-known, performance-based metric to do your advancement/firing based on, tell people they can take as much leave as they want, whenever they want, but if their performance suffers too badly, they'll get canned, and let the pieces fall where they may. Since I think the latter plan is probably illegal in the U.S. and other "pro-family" countries, I think we're stuck with the former.

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    1. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by turtledawn · · Score: 3, Interesting

      hear hear.

      I am so sick and tired of people asking when I'm going to have children. My former gynecologist - a FEMALE gyno- refused to even discuss the option of a hysterectomy with me despite my very firm decision not to have children and a family history of various cancers- because I would "change my mind about having children." Sorry, no. Even if I did, there's adoption.

      Now when people ask about kids I tell them I already have two- their names are Foucault and Raistlin, and they have adorable pointy ears and and fuzzy tails. Then I drag out the cat pictures. If my coworkers and every other person under the bleeding sun is going to make me look at their snotty brats they can bloody well look at my kittens.

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    2. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by jaelle · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Do I sympathize with that! After I had my first child, I hunted high and low for someone willing to tie my tubes. No dice. Ended up raising five kids. Birth control? Uh huh...

      Sorry, it wasn't universally available back in the 70's and it's even less available now in many places.

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    3. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by SuhlScroll · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Here, here ... well said.

      Keep in mind though that it works on the other side as well; I've found in several positions that people get taken aback when (as a man) you mention to people at work that you're over 30/35/40 and don't have any children (or worse, are not married). I had a female colleague (who also is not married nor has any children) tell me once that in her experience employers/management love to hear employees mention one or more of the following:

      a) they're getting/got married,
      b) are buying/bought a house,
      c) are having a/another child

      The real reason of course is that the employer/management isn't really happy for you; they're happy for them, because all of these occurrences give them more reason to think you (financially) need your job even more than before and thus are in less of a position to accept unfair expectations on their part/demand more compensation on your part/leave your current employer. It's also been my experience that people who don't have "socially complex" lives often don't get promoted into positions of responsibility because they're considered by management "not to have as much at stake". The real issue is of course that they know they can't really "squeeze" someone who can flip them the bird and walk out the door.

    4. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I wanna look at your kittens

    5. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by hxnwix · · Score: 2, Interesting

      There's really no getting around the fundamental problem: women are our only source of new people. Until all humans come from vats and are raised by robots, we will NEVER really resolve this issue.

      This issue produces conflict when the demands of creating and raising children require people to decide between maximum job performance and maximum child rearing performance.

      However, there is a sort of solution to this problem: hysterectomies. Women can get them in their 20's, when they still believe that it is not their concern that our genetic heritage dies with them. The government could issue these women special certificates of eligibility for involved, technical jobs in which they could then be counted on to reliably attend. Of course, this would force women to make the choice between motherhood and employability in high end jobs where cutthroat competition necessitates male-normalized culture, which is clearly unacceptable.

      Alternately, we could recognize that women just tend to fucking disappear - and for very good reasons, and pay them accordingly.

      Perhaps we could all chip in and help to pay the difference in these employee's salaries so that they could feel affirmatively equal if it's so fucking important to us. Or, all women could get hysterectomies and we could have one generation of equality.

      *sigh*. After writing all this schlock, I realize that I also want kids, job be damned. God damn you, empathy, emotions and DNA!

    6. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Thank you. I'm not going to have children either, and I resent that BABIES are the only reason that women hate "flexible" work schedules. Personally, I hate having shifting hours, because it messes with my ability to sleep at night, not because of the expectation to become a baby machine.

      Please consider that there are some women out there that do not want children, and that children may not factor into our decisions. I think this article is making a huge generalization about women in general, not to mention IT women, who are less likely to even have children in the first place.

      Ever think that it is the hours themselves that would put a person off of wanting to take/stay at that job? Put yourself in those shoes, and think of having to come to work on-call at 5am when your shift starts at 3pm, and consider how you'd feel about it.

    7. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think a hysterectomy is a bit over the top as long-term contraception, it's usually used for medical reasons (a family cancer risk is probably not sufficient). I'm sure if you're old enough you can have a tubal ligation, which will have far fewer side-effects.

      As a guy, I don't get asked when I'm going to have children all that much, it seems people will assume that eventually some girl will pressure me into having them. I do clearly tell girls that I don't want children, and I'm considering a vasectomy both in order to underscore the point that this is non-negotiable and to choose an effective contraceptive method for long-term relationships with negligible side-effects.

    8. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by Guntram+Shatterhand, · · Score: 1

      As a man, I'll back you on the hours thing. IT is just a thankless job and I'm surprised that both genders aren't leaving. The true pity is that it's hard to find an IT position and then it's hard to deal with it. Considering the importance of it, I'm shocked more employers haven't started making teams to cover it instead of the occasional person. And often for a limited amount of pay. Honestly, this isn't a female issue; this is an American issue. We're working ourselves to death for peanuts.

    9. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by Guntram+Shatterhand, · · Score: 1

      Very true. My last job was exactly like this: unionized, bitter work environment, and a lot of people for the union were ineffective doing anything because the management would easily fire them to make their own lives easier. Unfortuately for them, as a single/no-kids/apartment dweller, I didn't care one way or the other since I was just slumming until I could get more money to move out of the state. I was gone within three months: two of them badgering me on everything, and one of me finding a better paying job by working part-time(!) and telling them to get stuffed. How this can be legal or even tolerable is beyond me.

    10. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by GlacierDragon · · Score: 1

      Thank You! Did she also give you the "You'll change your mind when you meet the right man." Speech? I got that from mine. ALSO a female gyno. I was so mad I didn't respond. Seems to me the right man doesn't want kids, either. (Or he's okay with adopting an older child, I just do not like any infants.) And in my case I'll never have kids without a lot of expensive time with an endocrinologist according to her diagnosis, so it's not like it will ever accidentally happen. So just take it out already! (Love your "kids" names, by the way. Mine are Demon Shadow the Gatekeeper, Kaji and Styx.)

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    11. Re:Careerist women get hit the hardest. by Uzuri · · Score: 1

      Amen, sister. Same problem here. Only way you can get a hysterectomy without having cancer or something is to do it yourself, and you know... that's just no fun.

      I'll never take maternity leave, and there's no danger of me cutting off early because my cat needs picked up from school ;)

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  57. Re:forsty piss by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginia_Tech_massacr e

    Maybe this will help you understand his logic.

  58. Management by DirtyShaman · · Score: 1

    In the company I work for at least, Management is always in the trenches right along with those of us who are on call. I've been on many a conference call at 3am with my boss, his boss, and sometimes even the their collective boss. As for why women are leaving these type of jobs, I think a lot of women are fleeing jobs like these because it is very, very stressful for the unprepared.

  59. Dear god, why do we keep worrying about this. by kinglink · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Let's be honest here, Women don't want to be in IT. I've never seen an normal IT room that says "we don't want women". The only time someone would say that is because they swear a lot and that can be handled by a woman who's welcome to that.

    The fact is that IT isn't "easy". It's the same reason you don't see many female stock traders (there's some, but not many). The simple fact is there's a commitment to the industry that must be made. Not just the time to learn the trade but when they understand there's late nights and long hours, as well as the dreaded crunch. I see "old timers" (5-10 years) in the game industry who just say "I can't do this any more". Imagine not only being in the industry that long but also dealing with the biological clock.

    That doesn't mean IT shouldn't have woman, that just means that instead of worrying about how to attract women to the industry ask "do women want to be in the industry?" The answer seems to be no. Why are we trying to force women into roles they don't want? Or is there something in the industry that doesn't attract normal people but the people in the industry are already accepting of it, if so identifying that would be worthy, but this big question "how do we get more female programmers" isn't helping anyone.

    1. Re:Dear god, why do we keep worrying about this. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "It's the same reason you don't see many female stock traders "

      I don't understand your point - are you under the mistaken impression that stock traders work long hours or something? Well they don't - the markets are only open about 5-6 hours a day in two sessions with most activity occuring at the start and end of each session. I doubt if you have any personal experience of that industry at all.

      Yes trading is very stressfull, and very demanding physically and mentally, but it is also extremely sexist and a brutal, macho environment.

      And women *do* have the requisite commitment to the business (which you'd know if you'd ever worked for a female boss in that industry which I have). Many women who work in that industry actually work in support roles, and work longer hours than traders.

      The only reason why there are fewer of them is that it is a macho, sexist, brutal culture that is unattractive to many women. Working hours have nothing to do with it.

    2. Re:Dear god, why do we keep worrying about this. by Catbeller · · Score: 1

      "The fact is that IT isn't "easy". "

      Carry a bowling ball in your bladder for nine months, then try pissing it out.

      As for your long days, you chose to submit to authority rather than unionize and tell your company to hire more people and take a little less profit this year.

      Ah, the poor white males who make lots of money. No one is left to speak for them.

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    3. Re:Dear god, why do we keep worrying about this. by kinglink · · Score: 1

      Actually I do have quite a bit of experience with financial trading and if you think you only work when the market is open and you quit when the market is closed you're sorely mistaken. I'm guessing you've never spent any time on a trading floor. Most of the trader barely step away from their desk because they are always working.

      But go ahead and think that it's easy, then the real question is since there's so much money made by stock traders why aren't you doing it? Blaming it on the culture over and over, doesn't work because that culture is not in every trading office. The fact we keep using that as a crutch is sad.

    4. Re:Dear god, why do we keep worrying about this. by ciggieposeur · · Score: 1

      But go ahead and think that it's easy, then the real question is since there's so much money made by stock traders why aren't you doing it?

      Because I would rather do a job I like than one that makes me more money.

    5. Re:Dear god, why do we keep worrying about this. by kinglink · · Score: 1

      But apparently women don't have that right because a certain amount must become stock brokers or IT personnel?

      If there was millions of women who wanted to get into IT or any field then this would be a problem. But there's no glass ceiling in IT, there's just less interest.

      It's the same reason there's less male nurses, there's no problem with the field, there's just less desire for men to do that job. Feel free to try to change perception but constantly complaining it isn't helping.

  60. I got your +5 Insughtful by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I work the hours I want to and will have nothing to do with a cell phone. You're all a bunch of suckers and you fuck up the curve for everyone else with what you are willing to accept. Assholes, don't cry about how hard you have to work - be a man. Especially since you perpetuate an attitude that makes it your own fault, constantly lip servicing what a hard worker you are and how tough you got it.

  61. Wait...what about all of the societal backsliding? by Natomui · · Score: 1

    It really frightens me that the tone of the article depicts all IT related women as doting career moms who are only waiting for an easy out to go home and take care of Father Jr. This backslide into 1950s pre-feminist movement status scares me. Why can't the IT dad have to worry about day-care and being on call 24 hours a day because he has to take care of his children too? Why have we set up yet another situation for detached parenting that falls prey to the same social normality that we've been trying to eradicate for decades to pave the way for something far more beneficial - a well rounded parental structure that depicts both parties as nurturing. I'm male, and I'm all for women's rights and the advancement of the sex and gender - and this article seems to paint a very different picture - one that I'm not sure most professional, career-driven IT women would agree with. What scares me is that no one else in this discussion has really grazed this aspect of the topic.

  62. Doesn't have to be that way. by Kadin2048 · · Score: 1

    I disagree that you need to constantly expand your population to stay competitive. Historically, that's been true, but that's really driven by the number of manual-labor jobs that were around.

    If you can decrease your population while maintaining or increasing economic output, then you can continue to increase real per-capita GDP, and continue to raise living standards, which is what pretty much everyone wants. People don't care that much about per-capita GDP per se, what they want is to know that their standard of living is going up and up, relative to their parents, or 20 years ago, etc.

    I think the long-term solution in the U.S. isn't to "encourage" people to have children -- people who really want to have children are going to have them regardless of the outside incentives you provide, and the people with that level of commitment are really the only ones you want having kids in the first place; it's not healthy for society to encourage people to pop out a few so they can collect a cheque from the government each week -- the solution is to stabilize the population at or slightly below the replacement rate, and make sure we're innovating enough to keep per-capita GDP on an upward march. Immigration policies should be tailored to only bring in the best and brightest, and predominantly from countries where there is a culture and history of secularism and democracy (because importing a lot of people who think that a non-secular government is just grand is going to cause some serious social problems here, like serious KKK-type problems).

    The growth that has driven the U.S. throughout the 19th and 20th century just isn't sustainable, politically or ecologically. We need to stop trying to expand, and start looking to consolidate our gains; we're going to have to make some pretty severe choices, because we're not going to be able to play the Social Security shell game anymore (because S.S. relies on there being a bigger pool of workers down the road to pay you back what's being taken from you now, to give to people whose benefits are due today; without expansion it collapses). Fixing some of the things that were put together in the early part of last century, without much thought for their long-term sustainability, is going to be painful. But the sooner we fix -- and by "fix," I mean "dismantle," at least in their current form -- them, the better.

    Of course, if you look at where this goes, you end up with a relatively small U.S. population controlling a huge amount of the world's wealth and resources. But that's kind of the point: if every couple has only one child, and puts behind that child the combined resources of two people, they have a lot more going for them than a child in a society where each couple has three, four, or eight children. In the very long run, it might be militarily unsustainable for the U.S. to stay on top with a very small population, but I think you'd be talking about many generations -- terrorism might become a real problem, since being a nation of 'golden children' isn't going to help our image any, but we'd still have a planet-annihilating nuclear arsenal squirreled away; it would really just mean the end of aggressive "force projection" and foreign adventuring.

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    1. Re:Doesn't have to be that way. by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      So as population grows small, per-capita GDP grows large? Have you noticed what happens when you take the limit of that expression with respect to time?

      Population: 0
      Per-capita GDP: Infinite.

      So we get infinite wealth enjoyed by literally nobody. Except that wealth requires humans to value it and trade for it. Hence, a population larger than a single economic unit is necessary for GDP or per-capita GDP to be defined at all.

    2. Re:Doesn't have to be that way. by Kadin2048 · · Score: 1

      Well, yeah, the limiting case is absurd, but thankfully it's not possible (you'd run out of genetic diversity and all turn into slobbering retards before you got down to zero people).

      I'm not thinking on that scale, so talking about the limiting cases is reductio ad absurdem; I'm thinking about keeping the population somewhere near where it currently is (300M or so?) and slowly coasting it down, while innovating to maintain net real GDP at its current level.

      There's obviously some limit where you wouldn't be able to reduce the population any further while maintaining output, and you'd compromise per-capita GDP as a result, but I think it's quite a ways down. Historically, labor shortages are good for innovation, while labor surpluses quash new ideas and new thinking (because then, rather than having that invention be a benefit and its inventor lauded, it just takes jobs away from workers who need them and the inventor gets the pitchfork-and-hammer-handle act).

      We can always watch Japan, or some of the other declining-population countries that are resistant to immigration, as a bellwether for when that limit starts to get close. But if you look at historical examples, like right after the plague went through Europe, the labor shortage was a blessing in disguise, because it allowed a lot of innovation to take place that had been held back by lack of demand.

      (Incidentally, this is one of the reasons why I don't buy the argument put forth by proponents of increased unskilled-labor immigration, that those workers only take jobs that "Americans won't do" or other nonsense; setting aside the fact that people will literally swim in feces if you pay them enough, this argument ignores the beneficial effects of a labor shortage on other sectors of the economy.)

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    3. Re:Doesn't have to be that way. by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      I'm not thinking on that scale, so talking about the limiting cases is reductio ad absurdem; I'm thinking about keeping the population somewhere near where it currently is (300M or so?) and slowly coasting it down, while innovating to maintain net real GDP at its current level. Except that the limiting case is not absurd, because without a certain level of population our civilization simply won't run. You need people to work all the infrastructure, and you also need people to keep the rest of the world from flooding in a stripping your country dry ("There are only 300,000 people in the nation, who's gonna miss this 'Statue of Liberty' thing?").
  63. Bitter bitter man by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sorry women but Ive heard enough. SUCK IT UP AND SHUT UP. I bust my balls 12 hours a day and what do I get? Nothing but the salary Im owed. I get to spend all of my salary buying YOU meals and YOU drinks so I can get YOUR attention MAYBE. Sexist? Only as sexist as your continued demands for special treatment. You wanted equality. You got it. Now deal with it and break a sweat like every man out there has to, and thank your lucky stars at the end of the day, if you show a guy a little cleavage and make no kinds of promises you can still get a free meal and drinks out of it and still end up having way better days than any of us ever will.

  64. Re:GOOD! by igny · · Score: 1

    More jobs for me!!!

    How selfish. More jobs for all Slashdotters!

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  66. Anyone who calls you at 3 in the morning is... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    http://niniane.org/gds.html

    Andrew: Last Halloween I was a pilot, and I had eight stewardesses with me.

    Me: Wow! How did you manage that?

    Andrew: It was me. It didn't take very long.

    Me: Was Jennifer jealous?

    Andrew: Yeah! It was right before we started dating.

    Me: Did she do anything to make you jealous?

    Andrew: [thinks for a while] Yeah, actually, she met some guy at a wedding and told me about it. She called me up at 3 in the morning!

    Ben: Anyone who calls you at 3 in the morning is into you.

    John: Except to say 'You're a bastard; I hate you.'

    Ben: Or 'The content ad mixer is down.'

  67. Brilliant! by joebagodonuts · · Score: 1

    An excellent point.

    The article was from the point of view of managers who say they want to hire more women to diversify their teams. However they are finding it difficult to find women willing to "just suck it up" as you so aptly put it. Too bad for them. I guess something will have to change: either they can shit-can the diversity, or they will have to give up the whole "Do more with less/let's grind 'em into the ground" mentality of business IT.

    My first thought when I read the headline was "Once again, we see that women are much smarter than men."

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    1. Re:Brilliant! by hazem · · Score: 1

      My first thought when I read the headline was "Once again, we see that women are much smarter than men."

      That was my first thought too.. then most of the posts are of the mind: "Yup IT jobs treat you like shit. Women who can't hack it should just leave anyway." The undertone that they fail write out is, "I like being treated like shit, and if you value yourself, your life, and your happiness, then you have no business working here."

      And you're right... here's a chance for companies to raise the bar and make the jobs more enjoyable for everyone. If people are quitting your company because you treat them like shit, I'm not sure the answer is to hire more embittered people who will put up with being treated like shit.

      It makes me even happier that I work where I do now. They really push making work a good experience and as flexible as possible. This year, we are doing "summer hours", where everyone is encouraged to go home on Friday at noon. They're pushing this from management down (who's going to leave if their manager stays?) - and we're all probably getting our 40 hours in by then anyway. It's just one cool example of what we do. I love it!

      Why would anyone want to stay in a job where they are treated like shit? I was in that once and it extracted a heavy toll from me. I would never do it again.

    2. Re:Brilliant! by try_anything · · Score: 1

      You don't get it. The "challenging" working conditions make me feel super hard core, like an elite commando, and the long hours protect me from exposure to my cooler, better-paid age peers. If it were just another low-paying job, and I had to invent excuses to stay in front of a computer all evening, I'd feel... not very smart and successful.

    3. Re:Brilliant! by hazem · · Score: 1

      I get that completely. I used to be that way... getting respect and admiration from my peers for the long hours I put in, the sacrifices I made, etc.

      Now I see it as a failure. If I have to make these heroic efforts on a regular basis, something is not right - either in the job that's been given me, or how I execute it, or in the systems in which I must work.

  68. Re:Children != Stupid Choice by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Your dad sounds like a nice guy.

    Hope he didn't let his crotchfruit crawl around the goddamned restaraunt like a fucking animal.

  69. Good! by Robber+Baron · · Score: 1

    Women should stay at home and look after their families!
    You're gonna go out to work and then have to spend that money hiring someone to look after your kids?!? How stupid is that???

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  70. Excellent by flyingfsck · · Score: 1

    More work opportunities for the rest of us.

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  71. Wow by Rix · · Score: 1

    6 billion people alive on the planet, more than the combined total of all who have died, and yet you think we're going to run out.

    Ignorance like that doesn't just happen. You must have worked very hard at it.

    1. Re:Wow by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      He doesn't think we'll run out of people. He thinks we'll run out of people descended from members of First World secular-democratic cultures.

      The annoyingly-religious shall inherit the Earth.

    2. Re:Wow by plasmacutter · · Score: 1

      thus another revolution of a never ending cycle..

      idiots cause society to collapse
      the collapse changes the opinion of some idiots, and they choose to get smart
      those smart people fight and eventually beat back the idiots
      technology and society move forward
      the idiots who by now are born in this stability demand control, eventually leading to step 1

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    3. Re:Wow by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      No, it seems to be more like "Smart people decide that having children is for idiots. Goto step 1."

      We'd have plenty of smart people around if they weren't so worried about ending the Global Overpopulation that Third-World countries perpetrate.

  72. Number goody on belt by baomike · · Score: 1

    Maybe they have just figured out that the pager on their belt (in purse) is just an electronic leash.

  73. Slogans by Animats · · Score: 1
    • "Eight hours for work. Eight hours for rest. Eight hours for what we will!"
    • "Unions. The people who brought you the weekend."
    • "One out, all out".
    • "Solidarity forever!"
  74. I do get it by singingarc · · Score: 1

    If you are insecure in your skills, you will work 80 hours a week. Because you are insecure, your employer is taking advantage of you, demanding "long, inflexible hours."

    Don't we somehow have the power to send the message to IT Management that they need us more than we need them? Regardless of what's between our legs?

    1. Re:I do get it by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Don't we somehow have the power to send the message to IT Management that they need us more than we need them? Regardless of what's between our legs?

      You? By yourself? Enjoy your very long vacation, they'll find someone else.

      Now, if everyone were to get together, and all of us demand that 24x7 on call has to stop, that might turn heads.

      If only someone had a way to get everyone together... what would we call that?

  75. Re:This is a good thing! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Oh come on, a lot of psychological data leads to the point that women ARE inferior in a logistics standpoint, while men are inferior in an emotional standpoint. Men and women ARE different, and each have their advantages and disadvantages. However, I do disagree that all women are bad developers. The good ones are just hard to find :-)

  76. Childfree! Childfree! by sarge+apone · · Score: 1

    I agree! It is about time that we further differentiate ourselves into sub-sub-groups of a ./ superiority lifechoice.

    Please, won't someone think of the childrenfree!
  77. Overheard at the office... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Where da whITe women at?

  78. Re:My woman is required to be barefoot and naked by toadlife · · Score: 0

    Lunch is had with coworkers at the strip club.

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  79. That business has already failed by Rix · · Score: 1

    If it can't accommodate someone being out of the office for a few weeks due to injury, how would it accommodate one being out for months on maternity leave?

    1. Re:That business has already failed by Shadowruni · · Score: 0

      He wouldn't have to, the law covering that was designed for EXACTLY that situation. To be subject to the FLMA (Family leave and medical act) an employer must have at least 50 employees within 75 miles. At anything less, you're not required to comply. This is a federal law so it doens't matter what state you're in for this to be true. Know your subject matter BEFORE commenting.

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    2. Re:That business has already failed by lukas84 · · Score: 1

      It can't. And that's his point. They will have to hire someone new.

    3. Re:That business has already failed by Rix · · Score: 1

      But he's already said they can't afford to hire someone new, since they are legally required to maintain her employment through maternity.

  80. holy shit, you're retarded by apparently · · Score: 1
    If you don't want to pay the price, don't do the job.


    is the title of the fucking article not "women are fleeing IT jobs?"? that's the fucking point, numbnuts.

    1. Re:holy shit, you're retarded by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 1

      Look, dipshit, I was replying to Yali's idiotic statement that the rules should be changed for women so they wouldn't flee IT jobs. Maybe you should get your fucking head out of your fucking ass and read the parent of my post.

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    2. Re:holy shit, you're retarded by NMerriam · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I was replying to Yali's idiotic statement that the rules should be changed for women so they wouldn't flee IT jobs.


      Except that there's nothing idiotic about it -- it's the entire point of the article!

      Companies want more women. Women want X. Companies who want women have to offer X. If you disagree with X, feel free, but that doesn't make the article or comment any less accurate.
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    3. Re:holy shit, you're retarded by deimtee · · Score: 1

      Hey, quit the fucking swearing, you're upsetting all the women.

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      I'm guessing that wasn't on their radar screen...
  81. Mod Parent Up!!! by sauge · · Score: 1

    Oh where are my mod points when I need them!

    Hell yea women are less willing to put up with bullshit and we men should be too.

    What the industry has been turning into is ridiculous. We have these young kids thinking all this is normal and they are turning into managers who think this is normal. Meanwhile I have seen software turn into bigger and bigger pieces of complex garbage whipped out in half the required time demanding more and more of people's lives. It is not right.

  82. Funny me. by pizzach · · Score: 1

    I had thought the women were leaving because the nerdy pick-up lines are _that_ horrible. I suppose I will have to think of better metaphors than hard drives and computer racks.

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  83. The women understand ... now for the men ... by TihSon · · Score: 1

    After my brief foray in the IT world, I describe the computer industry as an industry which makes used car sales look like an honest profession. Few other industries are as heavily subsidized by the charity of their staff as IT, and if it were not for the fact a lot of well trained people from all over the world want to live in North America, well, let's just say we might need a lot more free software just to keep us in iPods and Alligator shirts. (In case you are wondering, I live in Canada, so I can't speak to the situation in the U.S. with any authority)

    I will know the industry has cleaned up it's act when our businesses are able to hire ... wait for it ... a second shift!

    Sorry. Feeling a bit revolutionary this evening.

    Anyway, venting aside, I suspect the the higher pressures women face with the added burden of kids and family life ... which many men are still sadly unwilling to assist with to any meaningful degree ... they simply do not have the luxury of martyring themselves for the sake of a slightly less buggy productivity suite.

    Maybe the parent should have been titled "Men still haven't figured out how the IT industry screws them over" ... although I suppose it's not as catchy.

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    1. Re:The women understand ... now for the men ... by DaveAtFraud · · Score: 1

      After my brief foray in the IT world, I describe the computer industry as an industry which makes used car sales look like an honest profession.

      Fortune says: The difference between a car salesman and a computer salesman is the car salesman knows when he's lying.

      Cheers,
      Dave

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    2. Re:The women understand ... now for the men ... by Dr+Damage+I · · Score: 1

      Anyway, venting aside, I suspect the the higher pressures women face with the added burden of kids and family life ... which many men are still sadly unwilling to assist with to any meaningful degree ... they simply do not have the luxury of martyring themselves for the sake of a slightly less buggy productivity suite. Or maybe the men are married to women who "sacrificed" their career for lower pay, shorter hours and don't have the luxury of doing the same because the family would quickly become insolvent. We shouldn't assume that because women are doing more work in the home and less breadwinning while men are doing less work in the home and more breadwinning, that it is because the men are all lazy bastards who don't love their children.
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    3. Re:The women understand ... now for the men ... by TihSon · · Score: 1

      Don't mean to pick a fight or anything, but who said anything about women doing less bread winning?

      There are plenty of jobs that are far more adult (mature?) than IT in terms of flexibility, hours, etc., and which pay just as well. In terms of it's labour practices IT is still an industry in it's infancy as far as I am concerned, and when it grows up it's staff will know that the boss who demands 60hrs a week, plus 24/7 on call, and expects you to do that for what amounts to zero extra pay ... well ... perhaps what I mean to say is that current IT staff expectations are in their infancy.

      Of course, if you are living the iLife, then you probably won't have much choice about the kind of hours you will need to put in to pay for it.

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  84. What's the problem again? by TheLink · · Score: 2, Insightful

    "An alarming number of women are currently abandoning IT jobs that require workers to be on-call at all hours,"

    I think it's only alarming if the number is zero ;). After all, how many people actually like such jobs? And how much do such jobs pay? So to me it's a good sign that women are finding better things to do with their lives than being "on call" just to make the 1-2% rich (who own 50% of the wealth) richer.

    And what's with everyone trying to encourage women to move into IT, when:
    1) Most women aren't interested in the first place
    2) The jobs aren't valued highly by Management and tend to get outsourced.
    3) The jobs aren't that _wonderful_ in terms of pay, security etc. (They're ok if you actually like IT stuff a lot, but see 1) )
    4) An "alarming number" are moving out. ;)

    From the article:
    "I had a 14-year-old daughter that I didn't want to leave alone at 3 a.m.,".

    Oh wow, an alarming number of women have got their priorities right?

    Compare this with:
    "I have to babysit these flaky 24/7 app servers at 3 am"

    It better be something like a wonderful charity's donation server at say "tsunami time" for you to have a greater chance of being proud of doing that at the end of your life, when you choose to do that instead of being able to have normal hours and thus spend more time with your kids (and try to brainwash them before MTV etc do).

    Whereas if it's just to make a bunch of Machiavellian rich guys richer and more powerful, you better know what you are doing and why.

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    1. Re:What's the problem again? by kitanai · · Score: 1
      It's not just women with children that have their priorities straight.....

      I'm a 24 year old childless woman who works as a programmer for a small IT company.
      There have been situations when I have been required to work out of hours.
      This is not something I have not enjoyed, and after being called every weekend for a couple of months, I finally spoke to my manager about it.

      My reasons:
      My partner, friends and family are more important to spend time with on the weekends than work.
      Sleep is more important than work.
      Having time at home to cook a meal, play WoW(self admitted addict), read a book and enjoy a movie is more important than work.

      Three very simple reasons that I think you will find not only put women off being in IT but also some men, especially those in relationships. I know so many single guys in IT it's a running joke that they need to find a geek girl like me who might actually understand.

      I believe that the industry itself must change all practices pertaining to on-call hours, with staff specifically dedicated to covering the graveyard shifts, or a rotating roster where when a person is on-call for the night/weekend they do not have to work during the day either.

      Unfortunately, management never ever see it this way - when I decide to have children I will change to contracting in non-technical positions to work around my family. And then there will be yet another gap on the technical side that some other poor soul will have to fill.

  85. "to be on-call at all hours" by l3v1 · · Score: 1

    IT jobs that require workers to be on-call at all hours

    Yeah, and you wonder about that, cause I don't. I would also run from such a job. Well, to be honest, I probably wouldn't, cause I wouldn't take such a job in the first place. Additionally, "IT jobs", could you be broader than that ? :P

    IT is very much a culture and it consumes a lot of time

    Ahm... ok, how very much interesting. Uhmm... and I thought dumbly very well-paing job worth doing consumes a lot of time. Is it a culture ? Well, if you insist on that...

    Anyway, where's the point ? People _should_ try to find a job that best possibly suits their expectations. Yes, it's a somewhat utopian dream, but hey, if you don't even try... People don't take jobs for life these days, workforce is in constant change and flow. Maybe those who have jobs that don't consume a lot of time and have time to care, do care, but otherwise, what's the news in that ? Oh, it's because they talk about women ? Well, I also would like to work among more women, if that's the point, still, just because some women prefer more flexible work hours that doesn't make it something sensational.
     

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  86. women? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    perhaps it has to do with the female lack of spatial and logical reasoning...or i could be wrong in this liberal leftist society that shuns any truly open-minded ideas in the guise of open-mindedness......

  87. Re:Children != Stupid Choice by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Hope he didn't let his crotchfruit crawl around the goddamned restaraunt like a fucking animal.


    Oi, show some respect. I read the entire grandparent post and your post is an insult to animals.
  88. Stability NUKED by Tablizer · · Score: 1

    Amen! IT has never been a stable career, and thus is not "family friendly". Technology changes too often, creating boom-bust cycles, the need to move to different cities, and now the threat of globalization. IT is best for bohemians.

  89. Fair... by nick_davison · · Score: 1

    It simply isn't fair on the IT workforce to have to... If it's truly unfair, why on earth are you stupid enough to be in the situation?

    There's no caste system that holds people to a given role by dint of birth. With minimal exceptions for those who have the money to actually start the companies, the wealth of the family you're born in to doesn't seem to preclude management.

    If there's no external force keeping people in roles, supply and demand based equilibrium takes over. If the rewards of management minus the costs of getting there and staying there are really that much better than the onerous existence of the poor, slavish techs, why the hell aren't the techs ditching it for the relatively easily accessible easy life?

    Even if we accept the hypothesis that you're a masochistic martyr, determined to stay on and suffer, no matter how unjust, if one set of benefits clearly outweighed the other, wouldn't we see a massive shift of people from IT to management?

    We saw it in to IT when the dotcom bubble made it hugely profitable. We saw it out of IT when the bubble burst. If equilibrium works every other time, it's curious it doesn't work this time.

    Or, as an alternative hypothesis: Management has some rewards, some costs. Non managerial tech jobs have some rewards, some costs. The rewards are different: Managers get to go to golf courses, techs don't have to suck up to people they don't like as much, don't have to worry about ensuring people get to keep their jobs, avoid overtime exemption (if the law's applied correctly), etc. That people aren't surging from one to the other as the equilibrium rights itself implies that, while different, it is actually fair.

    Of course, it's still human nature to bitch. Everyone else is always a worse driver, other people always take more advantage at work... It's amazing how 95% of individuals are a better person than 95% of other individuals.
  90. Re:This is a good thing! by shaitand · · Score: 1

    'Umm...black isn't a race, or an ethnicity, it's simply a categorization racists use to put "them" in another group from "us".'

    Perhaps you are behind the times, black is the current politically correct term. African-American is out.

    As far as categorizations go, race IS an arbitrary categorization. There really is no such thing as a race so the definitions for races are moving lines. Lets see, let me make one up. Okay, how about fair-skinned, red-heads with freckles. We will call them 'reds' or Irish-Americans since some of them know they have Irish ancestors. Lets give them a culture too, they feel they were oppressed because everyone called their ancestors potatoheads when they came over after the potato famine. We shall forget that half the reds migrated after the potato famine because they choose to join in with the other reds.

    Of course, now we need to see how many colleges admit reds in relation to 'others'. If a college admitted significantly more 'others' it couldn't merely be chance or unrelated factors, the school is clearly prejudiced against reds. What if there are fewer executive reds? What if those executive reds on average make less money than 'others'? What if these statistics don't show anything at all because there is no valid reason to single out reds in the first place and no particular reason to think that a random sample of people would perform comparably to the rest of the population?

    Races do not exist, there is no such thing. Therefore, there is no correct or incorrect definition of a race, there is no racist or non-racist definition. If you want to get technical, anyone who has ever referred to race is a racist since races are not valid groupings to begin with.

    'And unless you spent today applying for jobs, stop complaining about economic advantages for hiring.'

    Why shouldn't I (and everyone else classified the same way as me) complain about being selected based upon meaningless physical traits to be singled out and given a disadvantage when it comes time to go to college, get a job, receive funding to start a business, receive grants to go to school, receive government funding for... anything?

  91. Sigh. I hope most women in my IT dept flleet! by PtrToNull · · Score: 0

    I work in the IT department of a large utility company (government really) in Kuwait, we have around 35 employees, of whom 5 are men, the rest are woman. Just by being a woman, you are granted to so many privilges that I developed pussy envy. They can come 30 mins AFTER official work hours and leave 30 mins BEFORE it's done (8 AM - 2 PM, how hard can that be?). There are a couple of woman engineers that I rare see in the department because the keep getting pregnant (= 3 months full salary, 3 months half salary).

    It's absolutely impossible to tell them to stay after ours (against tradition!) , and it's impossible to tell them to go to locations. In short, we can never depend on them, most of them (including men too) take too many sick leaves per year that none can accomplish a single project.

    The end result is that work "real" work is accomplished by own 5 or 6 people, most of whom are men. Mind you, there are VERY active and sincere female computer engineers (actually, just 2 in my case), and there are very lazy men (some I don't see them for months at a time). But I can't believe how much leeway is given to women. The management can't do shit about it since this is how things work in a 3rd world country with too much money to spare. Nevertheless, I bet working here is the most relaxed anywhere in the world.

    1. Re:Sigh. I hope most women in my IT dept flleet! by ciggieposeur · · Score: 1

      Out of curiosity: do you think this happens because the women in Kuwait are socially advantaged, or because they are expected to be home more than men are? As in, are they even ABLE to work as much as men are?

      Not trolling, I just don't know.

    2. Re:Sigh. I hope most women in my IT dept flleet! by PtrToNull · · Score: 0

      Well, women do enjoy plenty of social advantages, and there is just more leeway if you're a woman. Also, it doesn't have to do with being at home, because that assumes that woman DO work at home, which they don't, 99% of all Kuwaiti women have servants that do everything with the exception of sex.

      So yes they're able to work as much as they can, and a few do, but most just don't care since they'll receive their salary by the end of each month no matter what. I forgot to mention that you can't get fired in Kuwait unless you committed some sort of crime, or haven't been to the job for two weeks without notice.

    3. Re:Sigh. I hope most women in my IT dept flleet! by ciggieposeur · · Score: 1

      99% of all Kuwaiti women have servants that do everything with the exception of sex.

      Are all these servants male? Or are you implicitly limiting all of this analysis to a specific class, e.g. middle class and above?

  92. Re:Children != Stupid Choice by umbrellasd · · Score: 1

    This illustrating that the reason for overpopulation is peoples' fear of a miserable old age. A fine reason to burden the planet with 7 addition replacement units for yourself and your wife.

  93. Natural consequence of demographics by Bearhouse · · Score: 1

    What is the woman are planning to change jobs because they are going to start a family? That's logical, and happens in many industries. The study would be interesting if was about falling female participation in CS degrees etc.

  94. Re:Children != Stupid Choice by Hawke666 · · Score: 1

    Do you even know the definition of filial?

    So those seven children of your grandfather's are his children? I never would have guessed.

  95. Too bad for women then by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Jobs can't adept themselves to the people, some jobs require stuff that womans may not be able to give because they want to remain woman.

    I reacted to this:
    "She noted that companies can fail to attract female workers, or see them leave key IT jobs because they fail to provide day care at work, or work-at-home options for someone who leaves to have a child."

    Is she blaiming the work places for the lack of interest in IT women have? It's not like everything in this world can be sunshine and candy. =P

  96. That is not the point of the op by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I think the point was, the having or not having child should not have any bearing on how long you stay at work, when you get holiday, and how often yu can stay home for private reason without warning first. Let me get my own example :

    Somebody at work told me that they were overworked and they had 4 children so I should let them have some slack. WTF. If you can't do the job w3ith the number of hours, then get a job with less hours or half time.

    Another example : on a previous job I was asked "nicely" (sarcasm) when making the holiday plan, to leave the month of july and august to people with children (and to be relegated to june and september).

    Also some people just have to say "my children were ill" and so no question asked they can get late.

    I am exagerating a bit, but not too much. The bottom line is that parents and women in particular are IMHO given too often a free pass over childless/male worker. This is not exactly the definition of equality I have in mind.

  97. Re:Children != Stupid Choice by jez9999 · · Score: 1

    Well, that's a lovely story.

    I think it's quite irresponsible to promote the idea of having 7-10 children, though. The planet is already overpopulated, and 2 is enough. Quite apart from the fact that you need to find a woman who wants to have unprotected sex with you shortly after childbirth, 6 or more times. Not everyone is so lucky.

    </bitter>

  98. What are you outside of this company? by master_p · · Score: 1

    So you work really long hours, perhaps spend a couple of hours commuting, then some extra hours socializing with other members of the big company you work for...where does that put you? the biggest part of your day is the company; if this company suddenly disappeared, where would that leave you? do you have a life outside of it?

    The point of this is that big companies today are like mini-countries: they don't only offer social security (at least in USA), they also offer entertainment, socializing, and a way of thinking. And the ultimate purpose of all that is to allow the CEO to have $1,000,000,000 in the bank, a yacht, several houses in the best resort all over the globe, and a collection of cars.

    I prefer the other model: I work my ass off for 8 hours, with a 10-minute break for launch and for visiting the bathroom, but that's about it. The rest of the day is mine, and mine alone.

    1. Re:What are you outside of this company? by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 1
      I prefer the other model: I work my ass off for 8 hours, with a 10-minute break for launch and for visiting the bathroom, but that's about it. The rest of the day is mine, and mine alone.

      I prefer model #3 -- I'm freelance, work around 6 hr a day on average for small companies/startups, and bill 2-3x as much for my services as I would get if I were working as an employee. And I've met some really interesting people at some of the companies that I've done work for...

      -b.

    2. Re:What are you outside of this company? by hazem · · Score: 1

      the biggest part of your day is the company; if this company suddenly disappeared, where would that leave you? do you have a life outside of it

      For me specifically? Well, I forgot to mention that my company is also helping me continue my post-graduate studies (part-time). If the company disappeared, or I had to leave, I'd probably try to push that up to full-time study and try to get into a PhD program.

      And for me, I do feel I have plenty of life outside of work. I have my studies, which I enjoy, and I'm also an amateur musician, and when I have time, I like to paint.

      As for the CEO that's between him and the board. I'm paid pretty well, treated very well, feel like my work has a purpose, and I have a lot of control over how I do my work. That's pretty good for a job.

  99. The purpose of life is not to impress the others. by master_p · · Score: 1

    The purpose of life is not to impress the others. It's more important to leave something meaningful behind, and the field of science is a good candidate for that. Under this perspective, are females really more clever? in the long run, what is more important? to leave your stub in history in the field of science, potentially helping future generations or live an ultra-rich life where everyone envies you for your wealth but you are long forgotten once you pass away?

    Of course not all men want that. There is a good percentage of men that their only interest is the latest sports car, impress their buddies, get to bed with a hot model (not because they particularly enjoy it, but because they will impress their buddies), or get insane amounts of money (in order to impress their buddies and society; and to feel powerful).

  100. Serious issue by towsonu2003 · · Score: 1

    She noted that companies can fail to attract female workers, or see them leave key IT jobs because they fail to provide day care at work, or work-at-home options for someone who leaves to have a child.
    In English, that's called gender discrimination, plain and simple.
    1. Re:Serious issue by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hey theres no day care for the men IT employees either hows that fair?

    2. Re:Serious issue by towsonu2003 · · Score: 1

      Hey theres no day care for the men IT employees either hows that fair?
      Day care services for men and women would be nice. But yours is another reverse-discrimination argument that doesn't make sense... Men do not need day care services as much as women because men are not exploited thru sexist / patriarchal stereotypes that force them to look after their children... As a result of persistence stereotypes and cultural roles assigned to women (that function to make it easier to exploit them thru unpaid work), when day care services are not available to employees, women are the ones who are victimized the most, hence gender discrimination...
    3. Re:Serious issue by JustNiz · · Score: 1

      I agree completely about the horrible degree of sterotyping. From the male perspective we have to put up with a lot of unfair crap too.

    4. Re:Serious issue by SpinyNorman · · Score: 1

      What a bunch of feminist crap.

      A child has two parents, and it's between those two parents to decide whether they can afford a child in the first place, and if so what that entails in terms of jobs. Ideally the mother would stay at home and look after the child (better yet in a fantasy world if both parents could stay at home), but whatever they choose is between that couple and no-one else. If a couple decide to have kids but both still need to work (bad decision IMO, but each to their own), then THEY need to make appropriate child care arrangements. A company offering you a job has no responsibility (moral or otherwise) to give you anything other than a paycheck and a sane 9-5 work week (or whatever you signed up for).

    5. Re:Serious issue by Catbeller · · Score: 1

      Companies are licensed to exist via corporate charter by the American people, and do indeed have legal and moral responsibilities to do what ever we tell them to do. They are not feudal baronies.

    6. Re:Serious issue by Doctor+Faustus · · Score: 1

      because men are not exploited thru sexist / patriarchal stereotypes that force them to look after their children.
      Well, yes, but that's not something companies are responsible for.

  101. Re:Children != Stupid Choice by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I think it's quite irresponsible to promote the idea of having 7-10 children, though. The planet is already overpopulated, and 2 is enough. Quite apart from the fact that you need to find a woman who wants to have unprotected sex with you shortly after childbirth, 6 or more times. Not everyone is so lucky.

    It doesn't actually have to be the same woman each time. You don't have to wait for one to give birth before impregnating the next one either. I guess you left school before they started sex education?
  102. Love em n leave em... by LordGoofus · · Score: 1

    I work for a rather large and well known company, and quite a while ago management realised that men drastically outnumbered women in their IT department (as in, 3 women for every 50 guys or so). They made it company policy to hire more women, to the point where they appointed a manager specifically because she was the only female to apply for the position, even though the person in question had no formal IT qualifications, no IT experience and was coming from a retail sales background. Shortly afterwards the company did had a recruitment drive, and hired approx 20 additional people, of which 6 were female. Four months later, 3 out of 14 guys have quit, and 4 out of 6 women have left. Whereas males tend to be more willing to sacrifice a work/life balance, women are less tolerant and simply look for something better when they wake up one day and realise that work IS their life. My work environment is very demmanding, with the company openly admitting that they expect people to burn-out within 2 years. Long hours, at weird times (the joys of 24/7 operation), lack of sleep resulting in poor health and a struggle to maintain any sort of social life. If you talk to literally anyone within my business area, they will all say the same thing "I'm here because the pay is good and because the company name will look good on my resume". We've all long accepted that this job is just a step up the ladder, and 1-2years of struggle will be worth the payoff in the end (if we can hold out). Women tend to be less willing to make such huge sacrifices for something that may or may not provide significant benefits a few years down the track. In one respect this makes them smarter than men, and in another, not quite so smart. It all depends on your perspective. The IT industry as a whole needs to take a step back and seriously re-examine how it runs its day to day business. I think it's pretty much agreed across the board that IT is very stressfull, requires at times extremely long hours, hard work and in a large percentage of cases, the willingness to sacrifice your own quality of life/lifestyle for your job. Companies would rather have one person absolutely flat-out the entire day, than two people working at a comfortable pace (and staying in the company for a number of years). After all, if the person burns out, they aren't cut out for the industry and there's plenty of people willing to replace them...right?

  103. Why does everyone care about this? by core_dump_0 · · Score: 1

    I don't understand.

    If someone wants to go into IT, he or she goes into IT.
    If someone doesn't want to go into IT, he or she doesn't go into IT.
    If someone wants to raise a family instead of working, ...

    Why must there be an "effort" to "attract women" to IT when they already can decide for themselves?
    This isn't like one of those Muslim countries where everything is sexist and women have no rights.
    Anyone can go into any job they choose, regardless of gender.

  104. Affirmative action. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Women are leaving IT because they have the option. Men do not. That is just the way the job market is today. If I weren't a white man, I'd have it made.

  105. Re:Wait...what about all of the societal backslidi by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I cannot agree more to that. My peers and neighbors are not my friends, they are perpetuating the past. And, the company referred to in the header has a lousy reputation among the past and present IT workers I have met.

  106. This is so wrong, so many ways by notnAP · · Score: 1
    The discrimination described by this article is against women.


          The discrimination implied by the article is against men.


          As the primary care taker for my two young girls, and as the IT Manager in a small-medium sized business, I am very happy to be working in a company where my manager, the VP of Ops, has no problem with me leaving because my kids' day care is closing.


          Men can be parents too. Those who don't believe so should try it some time while they still can. I hate to say Thinkofthechildren here, but this one is legit. And if that phrase turns you off, try thinking of yourselves instead.

  107. Maybe it's because posters aren't Smarter than... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "I think that this guy is overlooking a few things to make an anti-male statement. "

    And you're overlooking something to make an anti-jock comment.* Sounds like your no better than the OP. Jocks can get into sports for the same reason you got into IT. They're good at it and they like doing it. To impress others is a side-benefit.

    *Oh right, anti-women too.

  108. They need cheaper movies. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Which is why producers and studios spend time on doing good film scheduling. When management screws up, management pays the bills."

    And then we get to listen to slashdot complain about the high cost of movies (theater, DVD, etc).

  109. The Company is the father, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The Company is the mother.

    It's a monoculture, really.

  110. Re:This is a good thing! by ciggieposeur · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Its even racist if I refer to MY OWN RACE/GENDER.

    No, it's not. It's racist to assume that while ISN'T a race, that whiteness does NOT immediately provide privilege. Please, by all means continue to refer to yourself as white and a member of the white race.

    I'm also broke, I want all that economic advantage they use to justify hiring a minority (which consists of EVERY other group/gender) over me.

    Sorry, white males have insisted for centuries that they lived in a merit-based society that justified their disproportionate social and economic power. Now their white male descendants have to pay the piper. I was broke too once. But I do not blame the black or female students just out of college for it, because unlike them I've still got more access to better-paying jobs than they do.

    Anecdote: I knew two people right out of college who got their first real jobs at Fortune-10 companies. After four years, one of them had purchased a car, a truck, a house, and eliminated almost 70% of his college debt. The other purchased a car, a townhouse, a wedding, and put about $130,000 in the bank. One was white with an MIS degree, one was black with a CS degree, both were similarly skilled, with the white one having the "easier" and supposedly less valuable degree. However, the white one got "set" for life because he "fit in" to the culture of his company so well that they gave him a once-in-a-lifetime type opportunity to save about $200,000 in three years. The white one is now a manager at age 30, the black one is a senior developer at age 31. The plural of anecdote is not data, yet I cannot imagine ANY similar circumstances that the black developer could have similarly benefitted from.

  111. Why do they think only women want flexibility? by teflaime · · Score: 1

    Or people with children?? I am male, with no children, but I would love to have a telecommuting job. With flexible hours. It's almost enough to make me consider taking up farming.

  112. Re:Wait...what about all of the societal backslidi by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Ever think that not all women are interested in "eradicating" the traditional roles of mothers?

    The reality that I see among women my age is that a lot of them are choosing to prioritize their families and children over what the old-line feminist movement might consider important. And what's wrong with that? It's a choice, and if you don't like it, don't follow their example in your family. It's not some sort of societal crisis that women are making decisions that you don't personally agree with.

  113. Re:Wait...what about all of the societal backslidi by JustNiz · · Score: 1

    >> I'm male, and I'm all for women's rights and the advancement of the sex and gender -

    Me too and I agree, except for the advancement of women's rights (only). I think this is also about men's rights but that never seems to get discussed.

  114. Silence, you leech. by FatSean · · Score: 1

    Why should I work hard so low-buck chumps can get 'Child Tax Crdits' and 'Earned Income Credits' to finance their spawn? Your child, your problem. We have plenty of immigrants who don't make ridiculous child-related demands on society like native americans do. They're willing to live a lesser lifestyle to have their children. You're pricing yourself out of the market.

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    1. Re:Silence, you leech. by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      Leech? You're trolling, right? When I have children, I will pay for them myself. But the fact that kids cost doesn't give you or society any excuse to penalize me for creating someone who will support your ass next generation.

  115. Re:Children != Stupid Choice by VendettaMF · · Score: 1

    Stockholm's syndrome variant.
    It's amazing what we can persuade ourselves we agree with/enjoy/approve just because we get trapped and there's no moral way out.

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  117. Mothers make people; diplomats make customers. by tepples · · Score: 1

    Women (with 30-90 seconds of assitance from men, early in the process) make the new customers. Without women making new customers, the company has no long-term growth prospects. As I see it as of 2007, diplomats and philanthropists make the new customers by encouraging the less developed countries to become more developed, which increases global demand for a product or service. Mothers make new people; diplomats make them into potential customers.
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  120. Re:Nitpicking Moron by Hawke666 · · Score: 1

    Yes, there is such a concept as "filial responsibility" or "filial duty" and I am well aware of that.

    But "filial" refers to the relationship. "filial duty" means "the duty of a child [to its parent]". Notice how filial describes the duty, not the child.

    To describe children as filial is redundant and stupid. Children are implicitly filial.

  121. Working in IT by Panzergheist · · Score: 1

    The article makes no point that women are not allowed to work in the IT field. It makes the point that many women don't like the hours and requirements of working in the IT field. In any profession, there are sacrifices that a person makes to further his or her career. It just so happens that the IT field requires sacrifices on a level unheard of outside of the medical field.

    1. Re:Working in IT by Guntram+Shatterhand, · · Score: 1

      At this point, I can see the point. When I applied at Google I skipped out going to their IT department and focused on other places. Why? Because they were advertising for people to live there and to constantly work and basically reshape their lives around a job. I can't blame women here. Heck, I can't blame men here. A job is there to make sure you can provide for your life, not usurp it. And 24/7 in a server room dealing with some fairly heavy work with the workload and half the salary of a doctor isn't the life I would want to lead, either. I like computer work, I like IT, but expecting people to work hours and hours without the compensation or job security as a doctor is simply not going to happen. It's not that people are lazy, but people know that jobs aren't forever. And trading that off for a life with your family, friends, and various loved ones is a raw deal. The real question isn't why women are running away from IT; it's why isn't everybody else. It's an thankless job sometimes.

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  123. Re:This is a good thing! by bigtangringo · · Score: 1

    Newsflash: Women, men, and different races have very common genetic differences. Sure there are variances, but making a statement based on genetics or history is not completely wrong. I'm of the opinion that we should celebrate and embrace our differences.

    Women, it seems, tend to be more emotional creatures. While men, it seems, tend to focus more logic based creatures.

    In regard to "blacks liking KFC", I believe there is a historical cultural reason for that. I'd imagine the majority of the black population in the US is descendant from former slaves. I am also under the understanding that fried chicken was highly popular in the southern states. Given much of the population of the southern states was black slaves, it stands to reason that they ate fried chicken often; which would be passed down culturally through the generations.

    One of the key aspects of sexism or racism is to discriminate, hate, or distinguish superiority or inferiority. Using historical and/or scientific observation to identify common traits is not sexism or racism in and of itself; so stop implying it is.

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  124. Heh by Greyfox · · Score: 1

    I'm a guy and I'm fleeing those jobs too. Fuck those companies. You can actually find an IT job where you can work reasonable hours, it just takes a little looking. I'm more than willing to put in overtime for my company occasionally if they ask, but I'm not going to work 60 or 80 hour weeks for them for months on end because they're too cheap to hire another person.

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  125. Re:Wait...what about all of the societal backslidi by Natomui · · Score: 1

    No, you're entirely right - it's all about choice, but the way this article is depicting women it reinforces the lack of choice that women have. It's setting them into the mentality that their *only* option is to go home and care for the family, and that's why they have to give up their career. I'm with you - if you want to take care of your family at home, then more power to you, but let people truly have a choice.

  126. But maybe they're on to something here... by Iriel · · Score: 2, Insightful

    If women don't want IT jobs that require you to be on call literally every moment of the day, everyday, all year without some assistance, I think they're pretty smart.

    Yeah, yeah, "global economy means new requirements for business", "give the client their value's worth", etc... bullshit.

    America has one of the most -if not the most- unhealthy work ethic in world. The IT and web-tech fields reign as king among the most grueling professional jobs out there. When I was working contracts for several years, the vast majority of the companies burn out their employees within two years. I worked with a lot of permanent employees getting paid 45K a year in the Detroit area to work 14-16 hours a day M-F and at least 20 hours over the weekend with no overtime pay. And this was for a web design firm. For myself and most of the people I've worked with, no amount of perks can account for giving your life to your company. Loyalty is one thing; indentured servitude is quite another.

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    1. Re: But maybe they're on to something here... by qilin_keeper · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I agree with you. I'm a single childless woman who would not want to work exorbitant hours or be constantly on-call. I'm not sure why men would be any more willing unless they're desperate for money. As it happens, my job sort of does require me to be constantly on-call, but because the part of the system I maintain is fairly small and non-critical in the short term, I seldom have to do anything on weekends or after hours.

      IMO, modern American society is a failure in terms of work ethic. As society progresses, people should be working less for more money and more leisure, not the other way around.

    2. Re: But maybe they're on to something here... by theelectron · · Score: 1

      IMO, modern American society is a failure in terms of work ethic. As society progresses, people should be working less for more money and more leisure, not the other way around.
      That is not hard to obtain in America. Move out of the urban areas to 'smalltown, midwest'. Ok, you only make 35k a year instead of 45k, but you only work, 40-50 hours a week. Food costs less, and if you settle for an older (>20 years old) house you can live VERY comfortably. I think the problem arises when the 'Starbucks generation' (not that you are, but those people make the same complaints) finds it unacceptable to make 10k less a year and can't find a Panera and Starbucks on every city block, even when it costs >15k less to live there. Everything may not be as shiny, but at least you have to time and opportunity to actually enjoy life.
    3. Re: But maybe they're on to something here... by qilin_keeper · · Score: 1

      I actually do work only 40 to 50 hours a week (usually no more than 40), make around $45k a year, and have time to enjoy life. It helps that my parents are well-off and generous with their money. I also live in Los Angeles.

      I don't believe that people should have to get lucky, move to a small town or the Midwest, or settle for an old house to have more leisure. The entire country's goal should be to achieve more money and more leisure, with work approaching zero as much as possible. (Intelligent robots, anyone?) That's called progress, and it makes modernization worthwhile.

      I also happen to be a woman in IT who would leave the profession entirely if I could make money by myself on the Internet or through investments, though I would probably still do software and web development on the side just to keep my skills sharp.

  127. I believe it. by Kadin2048 · · Score: 1

    Yeah, I've known people with similar experiences; actually I had an acquaintance who only managed to get a hysterectomy by telling everyone involved that she was a lesbian, and cutting her hair short and wearing masculine clothes. Without doing that, she couldn't get any doctor to take her at her word that she didn't want to get pregnant. But by claiming to be and looking like a stereotypical lesbian, she found some progressive clinic that would do it. Truly bizarre, but I've been led to believe that such things are pretty typical/widespread, either because most physicians are inherently very biased about women, or they're afraid somehow of being sued later (I think the latter is the excuse used for the former).

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    1. Re:I believe it. by turtledawn · · Score: 1

      You're right, that is bizarre. :/ Especially given the number of butch lesbians out there with kids.

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  128. Hmmmm... I wonder why women get paid less. by insomniac8400 · · Score: 1

    Women won't do crappy work, like physical labor and clearly working shitty hours. It is their fault they have crappier pay. It has nothing to do with descrimination. And because men are willing to do things like relocate and work crappy hours, it makes more sense there are more men in upper management. I have an aunt that relocated and travels alot for her job, she is moving up fast.

    1. Re:Hmmmm... I wonder why women get paid less. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes. Because you never, ever see women in really crappy jobs...

      Please. You're on crack. Someone's been feeding you misogynist bullshit way too long.

    2. Re:Hmmmm... I wonder why women get paid less. by insomniac8400 · · Score: 1

      Look at all the crappiest/dirtiest jobs. Men have them. If you can't see that, your an idiot. Dirty Jobs for example, lots of men on that show.

  129. I'd quit that kind of job also by VGfort · · Score: 1

    Anything more than 40hrs a week is unacceptable to me. Sorry I'm not a workaholic. And before WW2, in the aftermath of the Great Depression, America was thinking of making the work week to 30-35hrs a week.

  130. Fatal Flaw in your Argument by skeeterbug · · Score: 1

    the fatal flaw in your argument is that you assume everyone else is a narcissist like yourself. this isn't true. i have a kid and he's one of the most important and cherished things in my life.

  131. Parent is a troll by themusicgod1 · · Score: 1

    I prefer to argue with actual people, myself, but...
    "The design flaw of the secular social-democratic state is that it requires a religious-society birthrate to sustain it."
    bud, this is /.
    Society doesn't need a religious-society birthrate, we need R&D into robotics. Technology and the application of reason is the solution, not more idiots to waste precious resources, and break beer bottles everywhere. South Korea and Japan are already ahead of the curve here(funny; these two have some of the greyest populations of all countries). You are expecting to find liberals here, but have instead found technoprogressives(well, some of us, anyway).

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  132. EXACTLY!!! by jwiegley · · Score: 1

    Thank you for expressing the same insight I had!

    Let's see... hey little girl do you want a job that:

    • You work more than ten hours a day regularly.
    • Saturday and Sunday as well, in addition to the other five days.
    • You get to be on call at 3:00am, after having just left work at 10pm.
    • All of your non-tech co-workers, and especially your boss/owner, view your skills on the same level as those of a janitor. I mean it's just a computer, I can buy one at Office Depot and do what you do, right?
    • Your boss will view you as a very red line-item, you don't actually produce any value.
    • You have no hope of moving into management because tech. people can't possibly possess "people" skills.
    • You fixed the mail server! You can also fix the microwave in the breakroom, right?
    • You get to produce miracles... Marketing told the client they could have that feature (that requires a complete architecture redesign) by Friday. You're so clever, if they can imagine it, then you can surely build it.
    • Can you say "Dot.Com". You dream of gold or platinum parachutes but, alas, your's is a lead-parachute.
    • Everyday somebody in your company is thinking about how to outsource your job.
    • You get to learn new skills everyday... In fact you get to learn every single system the company every uses. Why is that every tech. I know can use MS Excel better than every marketing weenie and almost every accountant?

    I mean come on, I tagged the main article as "duh" because it's obvious to me why women are leaving. What would have been interesting is an article that started out "Why aren't men leaving tech. jobs?" Now there's a psychology paper waiting to be written.

    For my CS students: You have desirable skills and are valuable in a broad range of industries. There are jobs that don't have the above expectations/values. Choose those jobs and do not settle for the type of job I described in the above list. Change jobs immediately if they turn into that sort of shit. It makes a world of difference in your happiness, your health and all other aspects of life in general.

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  133. Re:On Overpopulation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You would solve both overpopulation and spreading ones ideas via adoption, but otherwise you seem to have thought things through.

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  135. Clue: by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Programmers who are happy are productive. Programmers who work reasonable hours are healthy.

    At my company, lots of women leave after a relatively short time (a couple months to a couple years). They're also some of the better programmers we've ever had, and we're sorry to see them leave.

    The men tend to tough it out. Several of them have ended up in the hospital with heart trouble; I suspect sitting in front of a computer drinking energy drinks for 18 hours a day isn't helping their health. Then they burn up and leave anyway. Or stick around but are so drained and jaded that they don't do any real work.

    Based on what I've seen at this company, I'd rather have more women than burned-out unhealthy men. If you treat people OK, they'll be around for the long-haul, and low turnover is good for business. Besides, this isn't special treatment: it's humane treatment. They say "you train people how to treat you"; men in IT jobs are really good at training people to treat them like shit at work. We *should* be equal, not by treating women worse, but by treating men better.

    (Interestingly, even though they tell us to work long hard hours, I don't know that anybody was ever fired for working a normal 40-hour week, like I do.)

  136. I don't want to sound sexist... by guruevi · · Score: 1

    ... but I think, if women are running from such jobs, they shouldn't have taken those jobs in the first place OR should have thought about not having kids when pursuing said career.

    For either male or female it's unreasonable to sit in the 24/7 support cycle AND have an 8 hour job AND try to start a family with kids and all. The males can afford it better, although it's not healthy for personal or family life, females are meant to have the children and thus have to nurture and feed them. So do fathers but they are not as involved in that process as are the mothers (both biologically and psychologically).

    I think it would be a courtesy to the kids for businesses and schools not to offer child daycare at all and cut females (and responsible fathers) with children off from responsibilities which suck a lot of energy that should be spent towards the kids like 24/7 on-call. That you get paid less because you don't have 2 hours extra overtime is something that you calculate before you decide to stop birth control. On the other hand, flex-hours and remote offices should become more common and accepted (younger management starts to understand it) than it is now, that would relieve a burden from families and improve work performance at the same time.

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  137. stay at home dads by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    Also, this whole topic is predicated on the belief that there are no single fathers out there trying to raise their kids. Fewer of them to be sure, but they are out there.

    Actually there are more and more Stay at home dads. My brother-in-law is one. While my sister works in her office where she and some of her friends started an accounting business, she's a CPA, he stays home taking care of their 3 year old daughter. He may be working from home now, I don't know if he still does, but he used to work from home as a day trader.

    Falcon
  138. To those women who think they should make more: by plasmacutter · · Score: 1

    men are often charged more for essential services than women.

    good examples are auto, health, and life insurance, among other things.

    the difference is often more than the documented difference between mens and womens wages.

    if women were paid the same nominally they would end up with more real income than men for the same job.

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    1. Re:To those women who think they should make more: by dhasenan · · Score: 1

      Women live longer than men and have different health risks and (demographically) different behaviors. This affects the insurance rates. You'd be a damn fool to think that sex is the motivation for these differences, and certainly not an actuary.

      Suffice it to say, if a woman is likely to incur less cost to an insurance company, she'll get better premiums. If Asians are likely to incur less cost, they'll get better premiums. Any factors that can be analyzed, the insurance companies analyze at great cost and charges its customers appropriately.

      Is it unfair? Perhaps. Is there a better system? Not a capitalist one, at least, and the US is unlikely to go with a socialist system of healthcare (at least one that's generally available).

    2. Re:To those women who think they should make more: by Some_Llama · · Score: 1

      "men are often charged more for essential services than women."

      It cuts both ways my friend, Women pay more for dry cleaning and clothing, and a lot more for "maintenance" items like makeup, haircuts, etc...

  139. Not Just Women by beerdini · · Score: 1

    I work in a bank environment and it isn't just women leaving the 24x7 on call environments, its men too. Mainly in our case it is due to idiot users that find it easier to call the on call tech all night long to do the parts of their job that they have been taught at least a hundred times before. I completely dread the weeks that my I'm on call. I already have to be in early, about 7 a.m. work until 4 p.m. which gives me an hour to get home before on call starts. At that point I may or may not get calls until about midnight, then wake up at 6-ish to do it again. Most of the calls that I get are routine things that happen every day, but for some reason the operator can't remember what to do, goes into panic mode and runs to the phone instead of asking one of the 10 other operators. There is nothing worst than getting that call after midnight, sleepily remote into the person's system and walk them through what they need to do, only to hear "oh yeah...I can do that can't I?" Companies really need to address 24x7 environments and better compensate their on call operators for the crappy hours that we end up working, and the life we need to give up. I didn't realize how much of a life I actually had until I started working on call and can't do the things I like to do anymore.

  140. Re:This is a good thing! by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 1
    Finally, regarding the quest for a prospective partner: I believe it unwise to date someone at work. Think in terms of consequences if things go awry.

    Meh: it depends on the circumstance entirely. Think of it this way -- you spend around 1/2 of your waking life at work. There's a good chance that you'll meet a compatible person there, especially if you're working at the right place. Should you write a potential lover/partner off just because she happens to work at the same place as you do?

    Besides, it's generally easier to find a new job if things go awry than the right partner if you pass up someone who's really cool.

    -b.

  141. who are you going to choose? by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    If you're taking on someone into a management or competitive career track (think junior partners in big law firms), who are you going to pick: the male employee, who's going to work his ass off, and then work his ass off some more, or the female employee, who's going to work her ass off, but then quite possibly go take six or nine months off to have a kid, and then only want to come back on a reduced schedule? It's a no-brainer, and this is why there's a culture of discrimination in many of those workplaces.

    Several years ago my sister started an accounting business with some friends of hers. Then three years ago she gave birth to her daughter. She worked until the day she delivered then went back to work within days. While her husband stays home taking care of their daughter she puts in 50+ hours a week in the office, works from home, and runs a talk radio show she owns.

    Falcon
  142. Dont count Mexico by xtracto · · Score: 1

    I am from Mexico and we have plenty of vacations. First, we have the government vacations (christmass, new year, some national days here and there), then we have the odd day and then by law you have 1 week (first year), 2 weeks(2snd year) 3 years(3rd year) and 4 years(4th year) or smoething similar.

    Of course, if you are a teacher or work in the government you will get *more* vacations, oh, and you have the Semana Santa (easter) vacation, Jueves Santo and Viernes Santo.

    Sorry pal, you are screwed =oP

    cheers,
    Pacho Sombrero
    (a bit drunk, sorry)

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  143. Re:Intelligent Choices by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I think the real point was that a lot of people have children for the wrong reasons.

  144. What happened to all those work at home jobs? by glrotate · · Score: 1

    They were outsourced to India.

  145. youre forgetting something about "religious" types by plasmacutter · · Score: 1

    The design flaw of the secular social-democratic state is that it requires a religious-society birthrate to sustain it.


    you forget a compensation for this "design flaw", and it's been in action in the US for at least 3/4 of a century now:

    secular social-democratic members of society abhor and avoid war, while religious-society members charge gung ho into the maelstrom, pairing down their numbers.

    it's been a traditional cycle throughout history:

    secular and open minded people give rise to and maintain a society.
    that society allows everyone.. including the irrational.. to reproduce.
    the irrational, being irrational, have higher birthrate because they dont think about the consequences of rutting constantly.
    before the days of osha, this used to be countered (most of the time) by the irrational reaching the pearly gates with stories like "had the walkman on, didnt hear the train".
    nowadays, we have safety regulations, thus to the irrational taking over, but a new force has arisen to counter this.
    once the irrational take over they begin provoking wars based on their irrationality, and killing each other until rationality takes hold again in respective nations.

    unfortunately, this "cancellation process" was rather destructive a little over 1500 years ago, leading to a very dark time for western civ, but usually (like earthquakes) it happens more gradually with less intensity.
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  146. What do you think your purpose in life is? by WebCowboy · · Score: 1

    Unfortunately I won't get that life of luxury from the social structures, as the money is being wasted on unprepared parents and their spawn.

    I actually kind of feel sorry for you if this is truly your outlook on life. It seems rather selfish and it unfortunately reinforces the stereotype that those who choose to not have children are selfish. The selfish, resentful tone in your posts really is a bit depressing. You are working hard so that you can live a "retired life of luxury" and seem bitter that your hard-gotten earnings must be spent to support freeloading "unprepared parents and their spawn". You don't seem to have any respect for the fact that parents of today are building the society of tomorrow. We can't ALL live childless "retired lives of luxury" or the human race would head towards a miserable extinction.

    I haven't seen anything at all in your posts that gives insight into what kind of legacy you would like to leave behind once your earthly existence ends. What kind of lasting contributions, memories, achievements would you like to leave this world that could out-survive you? Do you really think of life's purpose is merely to acquire the most "stuff" and live a life of luxury, and that supporting child-rearing people is some kind of inconvenient challenge against that goal? I know a lot of childless adults that don't think that way and accept without any problems at all that parents have to get their kids to school in the morning or get away from work early to do parent-teacher interviews or telecommute if they have to stay home to care for a kid home sick from school.

    The childfree have got to pay for the childed's ongoing existence.

    Of course you have to. It is kind of a moral obligation don't you think? SOMEONE has to raise the kids that'll eventually grow into the young adults that will build your mansion, tend to your yard and pool, cook your food, provide your security, change your depends when you get REALLY old...as you live your "retired life in luxury" right? Do you not feel that you should maybe help those "childed people" do that? Or perhaps you feel that robots will be invented that can do it all for you with out the messy inconvenience of having to make these disease-ridden flesh-loaves and grow them into annoying people that have to talk to you and eat and live somewhere and maybe even make more of those ghastly babies?

    Just who's freeloading and who's pulling the cart? Simple answer : You were factually incorrect in your post.

    I'm still not convinced of who is freeloading here--it certainly isn't simple for me and I know far too little about you or the parents you seem to resent. Even if someone works 80 hours a week to fill in for those parents who dare to avoid overtime so they can see their kids grow up, and pull in an impressive wage and make their employer's shareholders rich too...I can't help but think there has to be some degree of freeloading there in many cases. Prepared or not, parents are doing an important job--they are creating more people...and ultimately there is little more important than that for ensuring the continuity of society. What are YOU doing towards that end, besides grudgingly making mandatory financial and professional contributions? Do you help produce our food? Do you help build houses for people to live in? Do you help sick and injured people heal? Do you help educate young people? If you do, that's great! Just remember to keep into perspective that it all starts with *people*, and all people do start off as children you know.

    Don't feel too bad though--society at large has lost perspective...those who care for children are in the same company as teachers, farmers, nurses, and many others that are far too under-appreciated and underpaid considering the importance of their contribution to society.

    1. Re:What do you think your purpose in life is? by VendettaMF · · Score: 1

      Do you help educate young people?

      Yes.

      I am in fact a teacher, mostly on the grounds that while people will insist on over-populating I can throw my weight behind the best efforts to ensure the population is capable of reason and logic.

      And once one thinks beyond their own retirement plans it'd pretty easy to see that the world needs several generations of negative population growth, making specifically not having children far more important than having them in terms of social continuity.

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  147. freelance by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    I prefer model #3 -- I'm freelance, work around 6 hr a day on average for small companies/startups, and bill 2-3x as much for my services as I would get if I were working as an employee.

    Not having worked in more than 10 years, I'm on disability but want to start working again ASAP, and because of my disability the only way I think I'll be able to work is if I freelance or start my own business, become selfemployed. Even if I wanted to, I don't think I would be able to work fulltime at least not without a lot of assistance to start with.

    Falcon
  148. just read this journal entry of yours. by plasmacutter · · Score: 2, Interesting
    just read this journal entry of yours.

    my how hyppocritical you are, comming from a political position with pundits like bill "STFU" oreilly, whose debate technique consists of shouting people down, and fox news, which apparently operates under the strategy of "speak a lie long enough and everyone will think its true". I think its time for you to actually read "lies and the lying liars who tell them" instead of WSJ's reviews of the book.

    I'll give you rational liberal arguments against conservatism major point by major point:

    1 - reaganomics, also known as "supply side" economics.

    any economic policy which benefits companies or owners at the expense of their workers ignores two important economic concepts(which are not stressed enough in econ curriculi). The first is moral hazard. Conservatives call liberals "blind idealists" but ignore the fact theyre giving huge financial gains to the wealthy and idealistically counting on them to pass that along instead of hording it in their own circles (these people make more than they can ever spend.. giving more to them simply drains that cash from the economy). Moral hazard asserts, and correctly so, that given the opportunity to abuse someone's trust with little to no consequence, a party will.
    The second is the GDP equation. The most important factor to economic expansion in that equation is consumption, because once you boil it down it's only consumption which contributes to profit. When you try to "boost" the economy by adopting these policies you attack consumption by pushing wages through the floor, and in the process attack your own long term profits. Thus the reason why every time reaganomics is put into effect a recession follows shortly (a couple years) upon it.

    2 - smaller government.

    we had a smaller government for about 170 years before basic safety nets and proper labor standards were put in place. The result of complete government nonintervention was a horrible standard of living(median housing didnt have insulation or indoor plumbing), gilded age political machines, and eventually horrific depression. The provision of basic safety nets and labor standards gave rise to and keeps preserved the most important factor to economic growth and a healthy democratic state, a large and stable middle class (who have both money to consume and free time in which to spend it on things like education). Additionally, it reduces the disincentives for those who might otherwise not risk starting a company for fear of becomming one of the statistical 2/3 entrepreneurial failure.
    Granted, it's being abused (by both government and the public), but the solution is not to toss it out. When your computer gets infected with spyware, you fix it, you don't just reject technology and go mennenite.
    as for pork.. i think both parties can get behind elimination of pork.

    3 - religion.

    contrary to popular conservative belief, spirituality does not require religion, nor does morality. religion should not be enforced by or even endorsed by the state, it should be treated like eating habits.. that is accomodated as is necessary and otherwise left alone. most importantly it should be divorced from all state actions. the government is not a person, it is a mechanism for governing the nation, and unlike their human counterparts machines do not worship god.

    4 - "family values"

    in a nation premised around the idea of every individual's right to "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness", no amount of legislation or government action will magically make those you consider "amoral" change their way of life. this thought brings us to...

    5 - foreign policy.

    republican approaches to foreign policy are the real reason our government is so huge and expensive. military spending, even for wwII, was breaking even within a few years of a war's end, and part of this was because we only went to war when we actually were threatened, rather than just paran

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    1. Re:just read this journal entry of yours. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your interpretation of foreign policy and war is so incredibly naive. Spoken like a truly closed minded liberal, like so many that I meet.

      Try thinking about this for a minute:
      The very thing that these terrorists hate the most about our country, and other western countries, is our moral freedoms. These are the very freedoms you most likely, as a liberal, value greatly. Sexual freedom, birth control, abortion rights, freedom of religion (well you may or may not like this one) are the things these terrorists hate the most. Most terrorists are religious zealots, interpreting the Muslim faith in a way that can only be characterized as twisted and evil! As twisted and evil as Hitler was. (Note I do not say all, but the ones involved in Iraq and Afghanistan most certainly are)

      You can continue to delude yourself that somehow that if only we could show them that we don't mean them any harm they would leave us alone. Or are you willing to open your mind and see what is actually going on without the filter of your prejudices?

      BC

  149. replacement rate for humans by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    The planet is already overpopulated, and 2 is enough.

    Actually the replacement, or fertility, rate is more like 2.6 children per couple. Some countries, like Sweden and the USA, are seeing a drop in native born citizens and the only way they can maintain the same level of population is by allowing more and more immigrants to settle in the country. Even the two most populous nations in the world, China and India, are seeing their populations leveling off. Though I don't have a link, I think some were in The Economist , I've read of studies that showed within a generation there will be fewer people in China supporting more old people there.

    The best way to control the amount of people there are is to increase both education and equality. As the educational level improves the people are able to get better paying jobs and equality allows females not to only get an education but also get a ob outside the home. And as income raises people have fewer children.

    Falcon
    1. Re:replacement rate for humans by John+Jamieson · · Score: 1

      Well written, I cannot believe the uneducated comments on this site pertaining to population growth. Two of the worst countries I know of for a low birth rate are Italy and Canada.

      Italy is really at risk, and Canada - well if you go to Toronto or Vancouver you might as well be in Asia, because everyone there has immigrated in the last 25 years. (a slight exageration but not much. It does make for a more diverse selection of food usually. Well execept in TO especially around UofT, There used to be great Greek food trucks, now I notice they are ALL Chineese - that is not variety)

      The best birth control is EDUCATION! It has been proven time and time again.

    2. Re:replacement rate for humans by falconwolf · · Score: 1

      Two of the worst countries I know of for a low birth rate are Italy and Canada.

      Though I don't recall the town one town in Italy started a tax on single adults a few years ago. The idea was to pressure singles to get married. However I bet it backfired, I'd think such a tax would drive singles away from the town.

      if you go to Toronto or Vancouver you might as well be in Asia, because everyone there has immigrated in the last 25 years.

      With the handover of Hong Kong back to China quite a few fearing the handover moved to Vancouver. Why there I don't know but it was a popular destination for Chinese fleeing Communist China. I heard Montreal also had a number of Asians move there. I'd love to go there for the Jazz festival.

      The best birth control is EDUCATION!

      Agreed.

      Falcon
  150. Let me guess by Wansu · · Score: 1


      "One study cited in the article states that by 2012, 40% of women now working in IT will leave for careers with more flexible hours."

    So let me guess, we need more H1-B visas, right?

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  151. making it on your own by falconwolf · · Score: 1

    On the other hand, I'll have to manage to afford my own food, electricity, water, gas, living quarters, and vehicle repairs. This is fine; I'm still here because I can't do that yet. Besides storing up money at $35000/year

    You're saving $35,000/yr and you can't make it own your own? My income is less than half that, I'm on disability and don't work. Forget if my income was $35,000, if I were able to save I'd be able to save and invest that much and still have plenty of spending money then after a few years I'd have enough saved up to buy a duplex, triplex, or quadraplex and live in one apartment while renting out the others. Actually that's the plan for me now. I have an apartment in a quadraplex my sister owns, and when she builds up enough equity in the building she plans on selling it to me. I'll assume the morgage. Then I'll basically be living free.

    Falcon
  152. who fucking cares by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Women don't like IT and are leaving. So what! If they find a job that they like better, I say go for it. Why do some people care so damn much about the gender balance in various professions? As long as the people involved in the job produce quality work, who cares if it's a man or a woman? The user of the program won't know. Some people need to get a fucking life.

  153. Do you track populations of Developed Countries? by John+Jamieson · · Score: 1

    Over population is not a problem in the developed world. Instead the problem is under procreation, and when there is procreation, it is usually by the wrong people in the wrong environment.

    Firstly, the birth rate of developed nations does not sustain the population base. That is why there is rampant immigration. Unfortunately, this is often not selective enough, and we bring the problems from the original countries.

    Second, when we do procreate, it is often by the "welfare sluts". Great, now the large families all have five different fathers, few of whom spend any time with the childern, many of them just abusing. These poor kids have more hurdles to overcome than I can imagine.(my hat off to those who do overcome)

    Yes, we need more professionals making the VERY LARGE sacrifice of having childern and raising the WELL.

  154. 40% of women leaving.. but not men? by shalla · · Score: 1

    From the summary: by 2012, 40% of women now working in IT will leave for careers with more flexible hours.

    Versus what percentage of the men now working in IT? The article doesn't say. That would be a useful comparison. I wouldn't be surprised if it were a fairly high percentage too.

    The older I get, the more men I know in IT have kids and families and do the same thing. For most people there's a point where those hideous hours aren't worth the pay anymore when you don't get to see your spouse and kids, so you look for a different job with more regular hours.

    I imagine it's probably more noticeable with women in IT because culturally right now, women are more likely to be single parents and not have the option of relying on a spouse to sometimes watch the children.

    I don't really think this is a "man vs. woman" thing. I think it's about people maturing and looking at the health of their families. Some people can afford to keep the long on-call hours up if they have a reliable family network. Others don't have that family safety net for whatever reason--divorce, deaths, relocations, etc., and they find that another job gives them better hours for close enough pay (or worse pay, but more take-home pay since they aren't paying for child care with their better hours.)

  155. Re:Women Belong ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    Let me get this straight. Guys who spend most of their time toiling away in a field full of same sex guys and who have a gurlfriend are geeks (good) and those guys in the same field who don't have a gurlfriend are nerds (bad). Is that right? If so, I would guess that it was a gurl who made that up.

    [shameless plug for IT workers]Ladies, why settle for just the technology when you can also get acquire your very own and personal technology specialist? Get your temporary job in the IT field today and get your pick of many promising geeks to be. The nerd you save today may be the geek who saves you tomorrow.[/shameless plug for IT workers]

  156. I worked there! by John+Jamieson · · Score: 1

    I did a contract for Meijer IT on Walker in Grand Rapids a few years ago. This is a classic case of a brilliant Man (Fred Meijer) who built a multi billion dollar empire, and now, the greedy (harvard educated?) kids are running it, trying to bleed out every red cent. There is no such thing as enough money, so the IT staff have faced wage freezes, the great onsite cafeteria (no nearby eateries) basically shut down etc. In the mean time, they had shoved people into managing IT projects that should not have even been allowed in the seperate IT building(another mistake I think). Some of the best contractors I knew there were pushed out because they were smarter than the boss. All in all, a typical disfunctional IT department. The only reason they have any staff left is because the IT economy sucks in the area (mostly rinky dink MS stuff, almost like they have never heard of Java etc.), and somehow the other two larger employers seem not to hire staff from Meijer and vice versa. The story is reported that there is an agreement not to hire from each other to keep the wage rates down. Like many others, my first thought reading the intro was "So, women are smart enought to get out of a cruddy field. Try medicine, where being average is definitely NOT harder than being good at IT, but it is sure a lot more rewarding." I even know of a guy who didn't make it into medicine, but is making just as much selling for a drug company.

  157. re who's stronger: Bzzzzt! Try Again. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    "men are stronger than women"

    Nope. Sorry, Charlie, not so fast. Men have better upper body strength. Women, by and large have greater flexibility. Men have larger muscle mass. Women do better at high G-forces. And so on. Both have advantages for not only different aspects of in-person combat but for other types of frontline jobs. Some experts have been saying that women, once we know how to accomodate them, will turn out to be better fighter pilots. Jeebus! Heinlein was pointing this out in Starship Troopers in the fifties. This is nothing new.

    Follow-up studies have demonstrated that women respond to strength exercise in the same rate as men (Westcott 1991). They are therefore not the weaker sex. They are the smaller sex, but on a muscle-for-muscle basis, women are just as strong as men..

    Lighter bones, smaller muscles and higher fat ratios make women more suitable for swimming, where buoyancy is an issue. More body fat means more fuel to burn in endurance pursuits like running, cycling, swimming and hiking. Smaller tendons and ligaments along with less bulky muscles allow for greater potential for flexibility. This is a favorable situation for pursuits like gymnastics and rock climbing where flexibility is at a premium.

    In other cases, I agree that there are physiological differences, but there, too, it gets kinda messy and the wise experts agree that in some ways what we're seeing is data from male athletes, who have at least five thousand years of expertise behind their training techniques, and women, whose techniques have only been getting suited to their bodies in the past forty years.

    I'm a big, hearty fella. Probably bigger than you. And I have very clear memories of sparring sessions where a tiny woman used her superior agility to simply not be where I hit. I went for her, she dropped, rolled, came up somewhere else. And part of it was simply that she was down below where I was used to striking a given blow.

    And moving on from there, have you seen all the recent studies about "mean girls"? Funny thing, now that we're finally starting to get useful data, waddayaknow, women aren't always "nicer" than men, they just conceal the blow better. As with my old sparring partner, they hit ya where you're not looking. If you think that this isn't applicable to warfare then you don't know a lot about war.

    Lastly, you think that we're "being pussies" because women have a responsible role in society? What a load of crap! The U.S. was letting France and England push us around for years before and after 1812. Korea seized and killed the crew of the Sherman and it took us eleven years, until 1871, iirc, to get around to reprisals. The "backwoods" Seminoles and Cajuns kicked the ass of all Federal interlopers in the Florida swamps for decades before the "revenooers" just gave up and left them alone. Shit, son, there was a period that we were afraid that Venezuala's navy was going to kick our butt. Never in our history, not under Teddy Roosevelt, not under Jackson, have we had a White House as belligerent as the one we've got right now. Why do we have to play it safe with Iran? A.) All of our troops are committed to Iraq and other "War on Terror" stuff to the point that we no longer have, for example, a full strength available Rapid Deployment Force. B.) Ahmedinijad was screwing around, like Quaddaffi before him, as many foreign policy people have suspected all along, C.) England, hard though you may it find to understand, actually is a sovereign nation with their own foreign policy and military and everything. It's not our job to get their soldiers back. D.) IRAN HAS NUKES, YOU DIMWIT!

    Your premise is faulty, your data is false, and your conclusions are invalid. Here's a nickel, boy. Buy a clue.

    1. Re:re who's stronger: Bzzzzt! Try Again. by pottymouth · · Score: 1

      Next time you're stuck on the third floor of a burning building I'll be sure to send a 5' 2" (90lb) beauty to carry you on down.... Don't be stupid. You can site all the great studies of how women are tougher, take pain better, can do so many things that men can't and at the heart of all of them you will find a dedicated nut pounding a round peg of an idea into a square hole. The fact that your reactions weren't quick enough to deal with a particular female is meaningless (maybe you're a little slow, you sound like it). You should consider the fact that she was in total defense mode while you were on the attack. Thousands of years of human history will not be nullified by idiotic studies to prove up is down and black is white and women are tougher than men. If they were they would have been dominating society from day one rather than wait for men to invent birth control and tampons.

      I'm a fairly large fellow myself but it hardly matters. Even if I were 5' 10" and 150lbs (average) the "average" women wouldn't stand a chance. Sure, there are women that could kick my ass, but the typical man is stronger and more physically able than the typical woman and the strongest of men will always be stronger than the strongest of women. Always has been, always (despite the feminist onslaught of disinformation) will be.

      As to agression, I have to agree with you. Being the father of sons and daughters I can tell you first hand the boys can't hold a candle to the intense nastiness a young lady can unload. Boys get mad and fight and get it over with (normal ones). Girls get even.... Sometimes repeatedly and with great vigor....

      As to the war. Geez, where do I start! I notice you had to go back to the 19th century (before we were a super power) to cite incidents. Of course we had to take it. We had no means of retaliating in the 1800's (not reasonably). Now we are the last super power and everybody wants to take on the big guy. If the big guy bends over and smiles they'll be more than happy to do the rest. That's what we've been doing and that's why guys like Ahmadinejad can spit at us and WE apologize for provoking him! That's what I'm railing about.

      As to NUKES and DIMWIT's, well, man, you really need some help. Here, let me give YOU a clue. Iran doesn't have nukes beyond the most basic components, if they did, Isreal would destroy them (with a little covert help from us) before you even knew they existed. Even if Iran were allowed to develop an actual weapon they still don't have any way to deliver them (not a trivial problem). Granted the former Soviet Union could sell them something but considering the required sophistication to make it work I doubt we have much to worry about. That's also disregarding the airborn laser and other anti-missle systems that have come online in the last 6 months. They're made just for pissant losers like Ahmadinejad that think they can hold the world hostage with an armory of 1 or 2 nuclear missles. Let him try.... Please....

      I'd offer you a nickle so that you could buy a clue but I'm afraid it would cost a lot more than that to put wisdom in your head son. Do a little more study before you try to instruct others.... I also suggest you work on your speed and try wearing a cup. If little women are giving you trouble, and you're a big guy, maybe physical type stuff isn't your game.... Try board games, at least they're fun!!

  158. So you won't take the child credits, eh? by FatSean · · Score: 1

    You'll just let the government keep that money, eh? Somehow I doubt that.

    Let me explain again...your breeding is not necessary to keep the country running. Immigration is what we need...because native Americans won't work for a sustainable wage. Since we don't need your breeding, we shouldn't be giving you money via the tax code to raise children.

    You Leech.

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    1. Re:So you won't take the child credits, eh? by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      So I'm a leech because I don't want my population replaced by Mexicans, Indians, Chinese and anyone else who works for ridiculously low wages?

      Yeah, apparently I'm a leech for wanting to keep my population in the evolutionary game. I'm a leech because, unlike you, I evolved properly.

  159. NATIVE AMERICANS?!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Native Americans?? I take it by native americans you mean white guys (from overseas) who killed most of the real natives?

    1. Re:NATIVE AMERICANS?!! by dhasenan · · Score: 1

      In other words, people who were born in, and thus are native to, America. Though that encompasses two continents, so the grandparent meant "United States natives", but that's awkward to state.

  160. Re:This is a good thing! by shaitand · · Score: 1

    'Sorry, white males have insisted for centuries that they lived in a merit-based society that justified their disproportionate social and economic power.'

    No. PEOPLE did bad things. White male is not a valid classification, the color and gender of those people is not relevent. The people who did those things were individuals and individually responsible for their actions. I am not one of those individuals and am neither responsible or liable for their actions.

    'It's racist to assume that while ISN'T a race, that whiteness does NOT immediately provide privilege.'

    It's never racist to not think in terms of race. It is always racist to think in terms of race.

    'I was broke too once. But I do not blame the black or female students just out of college for it, because unlike them I've still got more access to better-paying jobs than they do.'

    I don't blame black or female students for my economic status. I don't even blame the laws that give them an advantage simply because they were lucky enough to be born with the right color skin. I take responsibility for my own financial status as you should. I don't have access to better paying jobs than a female black student. I do however protest the laws because they give unfair advantage based upon criteria that is utterly ridiculous.

    'Anecdote'

    Absolutely meaningless. That is not a white guy and a black guy. That is two individuals. A black man can fit in with the culture of his company just as easily as a white man. It doesn't matter what color you are, you have to fit in, conform, and kiss ass to get ahead.

    First, it wouldn't matter if your conclusions were correct since there are just as many incidents that go the other way. Here in Miami it is not at all uncommon for Hispanic businesses and clients to chose Hispanic service providers over anyone else.

    Second, there are numerous other factors you ignore. Simply because one is black and one white does not mean that being black or white has anything to do with the result. The result could have been because of job performance. The black individual could have insisted on maintaining his 'blackness' by adhering to street culture. Sorry, the rest of us have to give up our fun pet cultures and music when we stop being teens and grow up. Or, the most likely of all, the white guy was in the right place at the right time and/or knew the right people.

    I am confident that in addition to these two people you could probably name lots of white guys who didn't get this once in a lifetime opportunity as well. Perhaps you'd like to give an anecdote where you mention this lucky guy and this other white college who didn't get the opportunity so that you could demonstrate... what excuse for the result would you give there?

  161. Re:This is a good thing! by shaitand · · Score: 1

    'One of the key aspects of sexism or racism is to discriminate,'

    You are discriminating when you assume someone shares a characteristic because you have grouped them based upon race. Races aren't real, they are arbitrary collections of non-functional genetic characteristics. You could randomize the characteristics and switch them around and the result would be no more consistent or meaningful.

    It is racist to believe someone is probably good at sports due to blackness (and contrary to popular belief, your just as racist if you are a black man coming to that conclusion). It is no more racist to believe a black man is lazy due to blackness.

    'Women, it seems, tend to be more emotional creatures. While men, it seems, tend to focus more logic based creatures.'

    I wouldn't mention that belief to a logical woman. She will probably get quite emotional.

    'I'm of the opinion that we should celebrate and embrace our differences.'

    I agree. So long as we don't group ourselves and develop culture based upon non-functional physical traits like skin-color and eye-color.

  162. Big surprise by McGurk · · Score: 1

    After the big push attempting to get more women into IT via artificial incentives, when those incentives are gone alot of these same women find no compelling reason to stay. Is this a surprise? I'm in this business because I get to work with computers (kewl!), make stuff (which is great cause I don't have a womb), and play on the internets (cause its hard to get a vagina when you don't have one). Those are the built-in incentives to IT work. They are always present. That's why I'll probably stay in the field for a long time. If I was lured into the business by offers for free porn, and didn't find the built in ones fulfilling enough, when the free porn is gone so am I. Simple. In the end, does it really matter? The whole push to get more women in IT was fucking stupid in the first place. It would be like pushing to get more whites in the MBA. Those with the inclination to make it will be drawn. Those who do not will go where their inclinations take them. Its not a crying shame; its life. Stop trying to control other people's lives so much. Sheesh.

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  163. Re:This is a good thing! by ciggieposeur · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    White male is not a valid classification, the color and gender of those people is not relevent.

    White and male are perfectly valid classifications, else the words themselves would not exist. And white as a 'race' (a social division) most certainly exists: one only has to head to the KKK website or google for "whiteness studies" to see people refer to it. Better than that would be to google for "unpacking the invisible knapsack" for a decent essay about whiteness.

    However, since you do not acknowledge that you live in a social world and hence none of the benefits of being white or male even exist, there is no point in responding to the rest of your post.

  164. Sustainable wage? by Thomas+Shaddack · · Score: 1
    Will *you* work for what you call "sustainable wage", or is it a provision only for the "others"? How much is "sustainable"? What do you think you will you be able to buy for such money, what level of lifestyle?

    Also, if everyone does the same, how many people will be able to do all the unrestrained consumption that keeps your economy afloat?

  165. Re:This is a good thing! by shaitand · · Score: 1

    'However, since you do not acknowledge that you live in a social world and hence none of the benefits of being white or male even exist,'

    Living in a social world and believing that race gives one white males a benefit are not mutually inclusive. There are clear benefits to NOT being a white male. Those benefits are coded into law and regulations. I can honestly say that being a white male has never been of any benefit to me. Perhaps it could be helpful at a KKK rally (do they even still exist in substantial numbers? I would be surpised if there were more than 20,000 KKK'ers and neo-nazi's in a nation of 200,000,000) but there are no shortage of gang gatherings and neighborhoods where being of another 'race' would carry an equal benefit.

    'to see people refer to it.'

    Nobody could dispute that there are many idiots who believe in the concept of race and therefore that there are many idiots who refer to race, write papers about race, discuss the qualities of races, etc. That does not make racial lines objective and valid constructs or mean that white males have an advantage in life.

  166. Re:youre forgetting something about "religious" ty by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Obviously written by someone who only thinks they know history. What about Hitler and Stalin to name a few? These were social democracies run by secular people and were responsible for more deaths than a significant number of religious wars and it took them only about 15 years to do it! (approx 62 million between them)

    I have heard this kind of bias before, and it is founded in a holier than thou bigotry that would make any religious zealot proud! Same mind, just applied differently.

    BC

  167. Re:Do you track populations of Developed Countries by VendettaMF · · Score: 1

    First item : We have one world. Developed World/Undeveloped world/Developing world.... That's a nonsense. One world. That's all we actually get.

    And in order to solve the problem of over-population you suggest having more children? Have you really thought this all the way through? Having more children solves nothing, and following your assumptions and the behavior that follows will ensure only that some of the billions that die in horrible circumstances as the ecosystem collapses under the weight of humanity are (potentially) better educated than the screaming masses around them.

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  168. Re:Do you track populations of Developed Countries by John+Jamieson · · Score: 1

    There is no Underdeveloped world or Developing world, it is just one world? You do not travel much do you. Tell the people that in Haiti etc. They are very much stuck in the third world, and they CANNOT get out. Most of them would love to work in a sweatshop things are so bad. Even in one of the better countries (Venesuela) I saw kids scavaging for food in the a garbage dump right near downtown(Caracus).

    Lets get one thing straight... THERE IS NO PROBLEM WITH OVERPOPULATION! The problems we have are
    1) Western Society consumes like there is no tommorow
    2) We don't give a Crap about developing the third world or improving the conditions there
    3) There is tons of food, just no reason to distribute it properly. (no profit in that)
    4) Third world governments often prevent thier own people from producing properly and/or instability keeps the people from being able to care for themselves.

    Question... If you really care, what do YOU do to help those people who you pretend to know something about. Will you match my giving to groups that work in these lands to better the lives. (A few thousand gives you benifits at tax time as well) World Vision etc. do very good work.

    Bottom Line, the truth still remains:
    The developed world is underprocreating at an alarming rate(to fast of a shrink does not produce a stable society). The underdeveloped world needs help, and they will keep procreating until they get educated.

    (By the way, claiming that I said that having more childern solves overpopulation is a nice Strawman. )

  169. Women are EQUAL, are they not? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Do men get "day care at work, or work-at-home options for someone who leaves to have a child"? Fuck no. Why should women expect to work the same job as a man at the same pay, but get extra time off and consideration because they are female? Dot Brunette, you can't pick and choose the areas in which you want to be treated equally! How something this moronic even makes it out of the mouth of a "30 year IT veteran" is a mystery.