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Google To Add Pay To Cover a Tax For Gays

GrApHiX42 writes "Starting on Thursday, Google is going to increase the salaries of gay and lesbian employees whose partners receive domestic partner health benefits, largely to compensate them for an extra tax they must pay that heterosexual married couples do not. Google is not the first company to make up for the extra tax. At least a few large employers already do. But benefits experts say Google's move could inspire its Silicon Valley competitors to follow suit, because they compete for the same talent."

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  1. Why so discriminating? by bbqsrc · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Why is it okay to discriminate against people in such an expensive way? That's like taxing tampons or pads because they know that 50% of people need them. It conflicts with the Christian moral agenda in the first place in so many ways...

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    1. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Christianity is a dumb one to mention, seeing as the bible is clearly anti-asspounding. You might as well complain about the government not giving special tax breaks for all the other "sins" too.

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    2. Re:Why so discriminating? by unixcrab · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I'm pretty sure the inequality imposed on them is a direct result of the imposition of Christian 'morals'

    3. Re:Why so discriminating? by txoof · · Score: 5, Interesting

      This is the angle I can never figure out. Homosexuality isn't like robbery or assault, it doesn't affect anyone except for those that participate in it. And, no, alternative sexual orientation is not a crime. The argument that a extending rights such as marriage to gay couples somehow lessens the social value of marriage is ridiculous. Following that same logical path, all those that do not practice christian marriage (Jewish, Islamic, Navajo) are also decreasing the social value of "christian" marriage.

      I hope that Google's position in this matter will help influence other companies and eventually federal and state policies positively. If enough companies throw their weight behind this issue, it will become standard to offer a salary benefit for gay partners to cover the tax difference. Once it becomes standard, you can bet that companies will start lobbying congress to solve this problem in order to save them money.

      Aside from the tax issues, how can anyone that appreciates the freedoms offered by our constitution and the rationale backing it in the declaration of independence, willfully discriminate against another based solely on private, personal preference? After all, "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all [people] are created equal."

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    4. Re:Why so discriminating? by funkatron · · Score: 1

      Stop pretending. The "christian moral agenda" is only ever used retrospectively when it happens to agree with the laws of the day.

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    5. Re:Why so discriminating? by AnonymousClown · · Score: 2, Funny
      Yeah, tell me about it!

      When I beget my girlfriend, we couldn't get benefits - I had to go and marry her!

      The other thing that sucks in this society, you can't beget girls like you could in the Bible - you know, girls who just had their first period - 13 year olds. That's prime childbearing age! What the heck!

      Anyway, I don't know why Google just doesn't save money and stone the gays to death just like the Bible tells us to!

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    6. Re:Why so discriminating? by CProgrammer98 · · Score: 0

      it's less than 50% - young girls/old women don;t need them and the male population is slightly greater than the female population.

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    7. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Probably is if you're a Christian.

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    8. Re:Why so discriminating? by CharlyFoxtrot · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Christianity is NOT anti gay, some (most) of the christian churches are anti-gay. They base this on a selective reading of the Old Testament which they use to justify an opinion they already held previously. The "christians" who use their faith to justify anti-gay bigotry should be told to read Leviticus in its entirety and fuck off. Especially those in US churches that look more like Old Testament eschatological cults than anything teaching the New Testament values of love and forgiveness.

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    9. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      When I beget my girlfriend

      Your girlfriend is also your daughter that you gave birth to? That's pretty messed up.

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    10. Re:Why so discriminating? by Krahar · · Score: 2, Insightful

      After all, "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all [people] are created equal."

      It's men and not people, and at the time of writing I'm guessing it really did mean actual males and not men as in mankind which includes women, since women couldn't vote then and clearly weren't equal. Even ignoring that, I've always found that sentence to be deeply suspect. When it was first written, they somehow managed to have it not include slaves.

    11. Re:Why so discriminating? by rjch · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Anal-abusing males and group-masturbating females (commonly known as lesbians) do not contribute children towards the population of Planet Earth and USA in particular.

      Contributing children towards Planet Earth is something that governments in general are going to have to discourage. At least one country on Earth already does. The planet simply cannot sustain a growing population indefinitely.

      I should also note that many gay or lesbian couples do adopt children, or undergo fertility treatment to have children.

      Since it is the job of the future generation to care about the current generation when it becomes elderly, people who do not contribute DNS to the future generation, shall be required to shoulder extra burden for the common good of the society.

      In general, the elderly that the current generation care for are their own parents, not other "generic" elderly people. Given your logic, then gay and lesbian people are doing themselves a disservice by leaving themselves without someone to care for them when they grow older.

      In Europe and South America many countries actually had taxes for healthy 25+, who were unmarried and 30+ still without kids.

      Whilst I've never heard of such a tax, I suspect that "had" is the operative word if such taxes did actually exist. We are already straining environmental resources significantly with the population we have. We do not need more to contribute to the problem.

    12. Re:Why so discriminating? by sqrt(2) · · Score: 4, Informative

      I always say, if people go to hell for sodomy, then you're going to hell for shaving and wearing a cotton-poly blended T-shirt - both things mentioned in Leviticus...I don't think it specifically mentions T-shirts though.

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    13. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You can try to twist it all you want, but Sodomy has that name for a reason. There is also at least one passage in the New Testament that decries homosexual relationships, not to mention a few that denigrate women.

      Note that I'm not even a Christian any more, but I find it pathetic that people are trying to twist the bible to suit their own agendas and make it more politically acceptable rather than just standing up for what it says. At least when I was religious I stood up for my beliefs. I can respect people who stand up for themselves in the face of oppression.

      PS I've "read Leviticus in its entirety" several times.

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    14. Re:Why so discriminating? by couchslug · · Score: 1

      "It conflicts with the Christian moral agenda in the first place in so many ways..."

      Not in practice, by which one should judge religions. Religionists wish to be judged according to theory cherry-picked from their fantasy books, instead of what their movement does.

      God Hates Fags, so reject religion.

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    15. Re:Why so discriminating? by paiute · · Score: 1

      You can try to twist it all you want, but Sodomy has that name for a reason.

      PS I've "read Leviticus in its entirety" several times.

      Blasphemy also has that name for a reason.

      Leviticus 24:16 And he that blasphemeth the name of the LORD, he shall surely be put to death, and all the congregation shall certainly stone him: as well the stranger, as he that is born in the land, when he blasphemeth the name of the LORD, shall be put to death.

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    16. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Even the new testament criticises homosexual relationships (and the only laws of the old testament that were "updated" in the new testament were ones to do with sacrifices and what you could put into your body).

      I just Googled to find passages and opinions on it. One site tries to say that the bible is simply criticising non-Christian worship practices when it complains about same sex relationships, but that's clearly a load of horse shit. It would just say so if that was the case.

      It also tries to claim that the passage about Sodom and Gomorrah is nothing to do with Sodomy and that "know" literally means know rather than "have sex with", when Lot clearly offers his daughters to "do with what you will" instead of the men.

      I don't believe in any of it any more, but like I said I find it pathetic when people try to twist their own scriptures to make them more politically correct instead of just manning up. If you don't agree with your scriptures, then stop worshipping your bigoted God.

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    17. Re:Why so discriminating? by obarthelemy · · Score: 2, Interesting

      your reasonning
      1- assumes children is the only thing people can contribute to society. How about the guy that decrypted Nazi communications in WW2, and so on ?
      2- assumes all children are a good thing. They may all have the potential to be, but in the end, some are clearly not, and not only will not contribute anything to your retirement fund, but will take a faire bit from it, or kill you.
      3- does not handle the case of heterosexuals who can't have kids.. same treatment for them, then ?
      4- forgets that some or most homosexuals would like to have, or foster, kids, while at the same time plenty of kids are missing parents.

      Other than that, it's a very good reasoning, not oversimplified at all...

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    18. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is the angle I can never figure out. Homosexuality isn't like robbery or assault, it doesn't affect anyone except for those that participate in it. And, no, alternative sexual orientation is not a crime. The argument that a extending rights such as marriage to gay couples somehow lessens the social value of marriage is ridiculous. Following that same logical path, all those that do not practice christian marriage (Jewish, Islamic, Navajo) are also decreasing the social value of "christian" marriage.

      Well, churches aren't too happy about polygamous marriages either, even religious polygamous marriages. They have a view on the kinds of marriage God approves of, so they express it. And church members use their democratic votes and constitutionally protected freedom of speech as the law permits.

    19. Re:Why so discriminating? by anitadobson01 · · Score: 0, Offtopic

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    20. Re:Why so discriminating? by MattSausage · · Score: 1

      Because it was something they did in Sodom?

    21. Re:Why so discriminating? by dave420 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So sterile people shouldn't be allowed to adopt? Or are you saying that homosexuality is somehow "picked up" by kids? Ignorant asshole.

    22. Re:Why so discriminating? by Hognoxious · · Score: 3, Funny

      Yes - and they all caught Gomorrahrear.

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    23. Re:Why so discriminating? by AlterEager · · Score: 2, Funny

      people who do not contribute DNS to the future generation, shall be required to shoulder extra burden for the common good of the society.

      But what about gay people who do register internet domains?

      Or to be less flippant - where do you get the wierd idea that gay people can't have children?

    24. Re:Why so discriminating? by c_forq · · Score: 1

      Not only did it leave out slaves, it also left out anyone who didn't own property.

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    25. Re:Why so discriminating? by macs4all · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Anal-abusing males and group-masturbating females (commonly known as lesbians) do not contribute children towards the population of Planet Earth and USA in particular.

      I can't find the cite right now, but I have heard that something like 60% of gay males have one or more biological children.

      Next?

    26. Re:Why so discriminating? by edumacator · · Score: 2, Interesting

      What most people don't know is that almost all churches have charters that deal with the complexities evident in the old testament. In those charters they directly or indirectly decide what they are going to accept from the old testament, so there is always interpretation and a desire to sculpt religion into something socially palatable. Do you think Christ was born on December 25?

      Not arguing, just expanding.

    27. Re:Why so discriminating? by selven · · Score: 2, Insightful

      This is the angle I can never figure out. Homosexuality isn't like robbery or assault, it doesn't affect anyone except for those that participate in it.

      Logic and sanity have been kicked the bus ever since Prohibition and then the War on Drugs.

    28. Re:Why so discriminating? by Rogerborg · · Score: 5, Insightful

      We hold these truths to be self-evident, that [the robber-barons in our Country Club are just as good as any ennobled British lord or monarch]."

      Fixed that for them. That is precisely what they meant, after all: that any rich white man was as worthy as any noble white man, not some laughably ridiculous notion that blacks or women had any worth.

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    29. Re:Why so discriminating? by AngryNick · · Score: 1
      This is all about the taxing of employee benefits, not some Christian conspiracy. Most employer-sponsored health insurance in the US is paid for (in part or whole) by PRE-tax salary deductions. Meaning, the $500/month taken out of my paycheck for "family coverage" of my wife and kids is not counted towards my total taxable income at the end of the year. My colleague with a same-sex domestic partner can get the same coverage, but the government only allows the portion of the premiums paid for the employee and his/her children to be deducted...leaving about $100/month that is included as income and taxed at the end of the year. Obama and friends tried to get that corrected in the healthcare bill but it had to be removed to appease the nut jobs.

      Corporations have been stepping up and doing the right thing for these families. The next problem they need to address is the existence of "mixed-sex domestic partners" so that any employee in a relationship can cover their lover.

    30. Re:Why so discriminating? by Vintermann · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The proper approach to this question is to examine other societies, past and present, with respect to both Christianity and homosexuality. You will find that anti-gay sentiments are all over the world, and pretty independent from religion.

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    31. Re:Why so discriminating? by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 4, Informative

      Homosexuality isn't like robbery or assault, it doesn't affect anyone except for those that participate in it.

      It affects the people who are offended by it. They are offended--outraged even. And in a democratic society, these outraged people have a voice, and these voices in total are loud enough to force governments to punish the people who's behavior caused the offended people to become offended.

      In fact, offense doesn't even really come into it. You can just have enough people who simply don't like another group and who will vote in punitive laws that will punish that group for simply existing. This is Democracy 101, otherwise known as the Tyranny of the Majority or at least the tyranny of the people who control the majority.

      And this is largely how democracy is practiced today. And in case you think this only works one way, consider other things which have been banned/restricted like indoor smoking, fox hunting and chemical equipment ownership. In an age where the will of the people is absolute, people get what they vote for; or what other people paid to get them to vote for.

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    32. Re:Why so discriminating? by bcmm · · Score: 3, Interesting

      They base this on a selective reading of the Old Testament which they use to justify an opinion they already held previously

      All Christians believe whatever they want, and justify it by selective reading of the Bible. Perhaps the fact that so many end up with "New Testament values of love and forgiveness" is comforting evidence that not everyone's inherent tendencies are towards violent opposition to people unlike themselves, but I don't think it has any bearing on what "correct" Christianity is.

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    33. Re:Why so discriminating? by Rogerborg · · Score: 5, Informative

      [Anti-gay Christians] base this on a selective reading of the Old Testament

      • Gen 19:5-8: "and they called to Lot and said to him, 'Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us that we may have relations with them.' But Lot went out to them at the doorway, and shut the door behind him, and said, 'Please, my brothers, do not act wickedly.'"
      • Lev 18:22-23: "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."
      • Lev 20:13: "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death."
      • Cor 6:9: "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals"
      • Tim 1:9-10: "realizing the fact that (civil) law is not made for a righteous man, but for those who are lawless and rebellious, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers and immoral men and homosexuals and kidnappers and liars and perjurers"
      • Rom 1:26-27: "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error."

      Now, I fully agree with you that the majority of anti-gay Christians are anti-gays who use the above passages to justify their bigotry, but hey, it's called bigotry for a reason.

      However, I'll have to challenge you to select other passages from the bible that contradict or refute the ones quoted above. Sure, that filthy hippy Jesus waffled some peacenik tree hugging propaganda about loving and forgiving sinners, but I don't recall him saying that it wasn't a sin.

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    34. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I always say, if people go to hell for sodomy, then you're going to hell for shaving and wearing a cotton-poly blended T-shirt - both things mentioned in Leviticus...I don't think it specifically mentions T-shirts though.

      Luckily, I am not gay and don't shave.

    35. Re:Why so discriminating? by Nuskrad · · Score: 4, Informative

      That's like taxing tampons or pads because they know that 50% of people need them.

      In the UK (and I believe the rest of the EU) they DO tax sanitary products. It took quite a lot of campaigning to get them placed in the 'reduced' rate of tax (5%) rather than the 'luxury' rate (currently 17.5%, soon to be 20%) as well. See here for example.

    36. Re:Why so discriminating? by QuantumRiff · · Score: 5, Insightful

      A guy in CA was collecting signatures for a bill to really protect the value and sanctity of marriage. He was trying to ban divorce.

      Strangely, not many of these people were willing to sign.

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    37. Re:Why so discriminating? by Nyder · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Even the new testament criticises homosexual relationships (and the only laws of the old testament that were "updated" in the new testament were ones to do with sacrifices and what you could put into your body).

      I just Googled to find passages and opinions on it. One site tries to say that the bible is simply criticising non-Christian worship practices when it complains about same sex relationships, but that's clearly a load of horse shit. It would just say so if that was the case.

      It also tries to claim that the passage about Sodom and Gomorrah is nothing to do with Sodomy and that "know" literally means know rather than "have sex with", when Lot clearly offers his daughters to "do with what you will" instead of the men.

      I don't believe in any of it any more, but like I said I find it pathetic when people try to twist their own scriptures to make them more politically correct instead of just manning up. If you don't agree with your scriptures, then stop worshipping your bigoted God.

      Ya, them daughters of Lot. Nice ladies. They are very faithful to their dad. After all, he's the father of their children.

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    38. Re:Why so discriminating? by Ihmhi · · Score: 1

      If your girlfriend reads that post you won't begetting any tonight, that's for sure...

    39. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are plenty of passages written by, or attributed to Paul, that are explicitly against homosexuality in the New Testament.

    40. Re:Why so discriminating? by AnonymousClown · · Score: 1
      My inspiration was sleep deprivation and Gene Simmons of KISS.

      When Simmons was on Fresh Air with Terri Gross, she asked him about marrying his long time girlfriend. He replied - to paraphrase - Why? There wasn't any marriage in the Bible. There was all this begetting.

      He;s right. Folks were just screwing and having kids. And if you consider what it was like back then with women dieing giving birth, general life expectancy, etc... if one wanted to father a child, you had to beget a child with a teen age girl. Pedophile by today's standards.

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    41. Re:Why so discriminating? by aliquis · · Score: 1

      I would assume ass-pounding is more common among all the heterosexuals than the homosexuals.

      Point taken though. I don't see what religion got with anything to do, can't understand why the American president talk about god all the fucking time either. Maybe it's in some old rules of the country that the president must be a christian? Our king had to too I noticed, pretty retarded, good that's not the case for anyone with political power, here that is.

    42. Re:Why so discriminating? by thijsh · · Score: 2, Interesting

      One site tries to say that the bible is simply criticising non-Christian worship practices when it complains about same sex relationships, but that's clearly a load of horse shit. It would just say so if that was the case.

      There might be more truth in it than you know. If you place these scriptures in the context of the time when they were written. Christians were basically a new sect who stood up against 'the man', the Romans at that time. A lot of passages from the new testament are thinly veiled references to the evils of the Roman empire. These are the same Romans who we all know loved to pound ass, so it's fairly logical to also point this out as another 'evil' thing to do... it's a basic method of undermining your enemy by attacking their culture, it happened then and it happens today.

    43. Re:Why so discriminating? by Kharny · · Score: 1

      So, who translated those passages from whatever original language? were they written down immediately?

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    44. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      3 of 4 your arguments for sure were shared by emancipated and educated elite of Roman Empire (they only didn't know about Turing), and who speaks Latin now?

    45. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, since people don't donate enough money to AIDS research , we tax those who indulge in the cause of the spread (granted we haven't figured out how to tax hard drug users yet). Kind of like the cigarette tax going to fund medical research and cover costs. So if you like to ruin your lungs with Camels or are a man lusting after hairy man butt, you can pay for the downside of your self damaging desires. So go ahead and light up or sink into your buddy, the tax has you covered.

    46. Re:Why so discriminating? by WCMI92 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      If we are going to "right" discrimination, with respect to tax inequality, then why won't Google pay UNMARRIED employees more money to make up for the fact that tax law unfairly discriminates against them in favor of married people who have children?

      I mean, it's wrong to discriminate, right?

      Of course, the whole reason why this exists is to encourage HAVING CHILDREN. Last time I checked, homosexuals lack both types of plumbing to pull this off. So why should they get the tax benefits of married people, if I, as an unmarried single person without kids cannot?

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    47. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I guess I don't care that some jack nuts want to stone me after I am dead. What is it the Klingons say - something like, "the body is just a shell; do with it what you will."... These guys plan to kill me and then stone me. Dorks. They should do it the other way around - it hurts more.

    48. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The value of marriage, compared to homosexuality, is that it usally leads to children, which will grow up and then pay taxes that are necessary sustain our standards of living in the long term.

      That's the basis for all pro-family / pro-marriage / etc. policies.

      It's not a moral debate, just a social one.

    49. Re:Why so discriminating? by damaki · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I did not hear about such a tax and it could not possibly exist in European Union because discriminating laws are forbidden. Though some european country (France does) give tax cuts to couples with children to encourage procreation and thus reduce the population aging.

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    50. Re:Why so discriminating? by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 4, Informative

      I'm not much to argue about the finer details of those particular scriptures; but I'd appreciate it if people recognized why Sodom and Gomorrah had to be expunged from the earth. The place was full of assholes! At one point they tortured some 11 year old girl to death for giving a starving man bread, because the girl was nice to someone (what a crime!). They tormented those in need. Any time someone new showed up, they turned a sadistic eye towards them immediately.

      I think this is the most important lesson here. They didn't come to "have sex with" the newcomers; they came to brutally rape them.

    51. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Any normal marriage gets the tax cuts. Group marriages, homosexuals, zoophiles and pedophiles do not.

      The only inequality there is that single parents do not get those tax cuts.

    52. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your reasoning

      1)Assumes that because there are other good things besides having children, that having children is not a good thing. These are not exclusive principles.

      2) Assumes that because a person does not provide you with a specific measurable value that they are not a good thing. You are dehumanizing criminals or the mentally handicapped in the worst way possible.

      3) Why not?

      4) You have no idea how hard it is to adopt and how many people want to adopt and can't. There is not some huge surplus of kids in a bin somewhere. There are very few to go around to those who want them.

      Other than simply expressing ANOTHER set of ignorant views on the world, it's very good reasoning, not oversimplified at all..

    53. Re:Why so discriminating? by ultranova · · Score: 1

      Christianity is a dumb one to mention, seeing as the bible is clearly anti-asspounding.

      Yes, I believe the passage forbidding that was somewhere between the ones condemning eating shrimp and wearing clothes made from multiple different fabrics.

      You might as well complain about the government not giving special tax breaks for all the other "sins" too.

      A government needs to treat its citizens equally. It either gives tax breaks for couples or it doesn't, but only giving them to heterosexual couples is unfair.

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    54. Re:Why so discriminating? by mr+exploiter · · Score: 1

      The argument that a extending rights such as marriage to gay couples somehow lessens the social value of marriage is ridiculous.

      Are you sure? If gay couples can get tax benefits, why not single males or women? Why do they deserve tax breaks and singles no? I think the logical next step is extending the tax benefits to everyone and then, straight couples will no longer be special.

      I'm not against that, in fact I'm against tax benefits to marriages, but in either direction the end result will be the same: everyone will be equal.

    55. Re:Why so discriminating? by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 1

      Or to be less flippant - where do you get the wierd idea that gay [couples] can't have children?

      Well, to be quite scientific about it, they actually can't. They can adopt another couple's child, or one member of the couple can produce a child with a third party, but biologically, a gay couple can't have children by themselves.

      Maybe it's not politically correct to say, but this is simply a fact of biology.

    56. Re:Why so discriminating? by groslyunderpaid · · Score: 1

      selective reading of the Old Testament...the New Testament values of love and forgiveness

      Romans 1:26-32

      "...even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature...And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly...without natural affection...Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them."

      1 Corinthians 6:9,10

      "...neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate...shall inherit the kingdom of God"

      If you are going to argue against it, it helps to be valid in your argument.

    57. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Contributing children towards Planet Earth is something that governments in general are going to have to discourage. At least one country on Earth already does. The planet simply cannot sustain a growing population indefinitely.

      I should also note that many gay or lesbian couples do adopt children, or undergo fertility treatment to have children.

      Do I need to point out that the birth-rate for every western nation has been below replacement (2.1 children per woman) for decades?

      You may have a point about a growing population being unsustainable. Unfortunately, the recipients of that kind of propaganda are usually not residents of countries where that is a problem. If you're really concerned about population, you'd be better off if you quit donating to Save-the-Ethiopians causes, and quit pestering people living in advanced industrial societies.

    58. Re:Why so discriminating? by supercrisp · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I know a guy who's a former rabbi and is currently a professor of religion. He told me that the Sodom and Gomorrah story is about hospitality law and not homosexuality. Basically, you don't just rape strangers. You take them in, feed them, and so on. Even offer them one (or some) of your women. He told me a lot more about it, but I'm afraid that I can't recall all of it. I'm not offering this as a counter-argument, just as a possible interesting avenue to consider.

    59. Re:Why so discriminating? by Concern+Is+A+Faggot · · Score: 0

      I can't find the cite right now, but I have heard that something like 60% of gay males have one or more biological children.

      Next?

      Next indeed. I bet the "next" thing you're going to tell us, in an attempt to have it both ways, is that homosexuality is the result of genetics, not a lifestyle choice.

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    60. Re:Why so discriminating? by supercrisp · · Score: 1

      Um, the story of Sodom and all predates the Roman period by a significant margin.

    61. Re:Why so discriminating? by bluefoxlucid · · Score: 1

      WHAT other religions?

      We can map the ancient Greek mythos to the Norse mythos... Odin vs Zeus, Mars vs. Aries, etc. The stories map pretty well, too. Funny thing, we can also map these to the gods of the Celts, who each had many, many names. Also T'ir na n'Og maps pretty well to "Valhalla" while still leaving us with the Grey Lands for the dead.

      It turns out, though, that we can also start lining the whole map up to Christianity and Judaism. Remember the name of Lucifer is the name of one of the higher angels working as a servant of Jehovah... but he was a jerk and lost favor. So now we have a collection of angels/demons and a being at the top... king of the gods, Odin, versus lord of the angels, Jehovah. And the Celtic and Greek and Norse gods all have analogs as angels and demons; the holidays carry over; the mythos carry over...

      This has far-reaching implications, doesn't it?

    62. Re:Why so discriminating? by delinear · · Score: 1

      I honestly don't know how they reconcile their belief and their failure to follow the strict rule of their god. I don't have any firm religious beliefs (I'm not atheist, I don't disbelieve and I'd like to believe I'm open to the idea of a god, I just lack the blind faith requirement) but it seems to me that if I knew in my heart that there was an all powerful being who could send me to burn for eternity, I'd do whatever that bastard told me to. A few years of self privation in this life to negate an eternity of pain seems like a pretty good payout, and yet I see many Christians who blatantly ignore or give very wide interpretation to what the Bible tells them, almost always in favour of how they want to live their lives. Either these people don't really believe, or they believe but they think their god is lying about the whole eternity bit, or their own ego is so great that they just think god'll forgive them all their transgressions, but somewhere along the way something just doesn't add up, here.

    63. Re:Why so discriminating? by uncledrax · · Score: 1

      All I said was this piece of Halibut was good enough for Jehovah!

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    64. Re:Why so discriminating? by TheCarp · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I don't remember exactly how it came up, but a particular jewish friend of mine and I ended up talking about the Lot story.

      She was stunned to hear how Christians taught the story and pulled up the Torah, read the passage and pretty much translated it word for word the way I had it in the English. Then she became absolutely adamant that the intended meaning was that the men from the town wanted to beat the men up, not have sex with them.

      Her claim was that it was not about homosexuality but a city with gangs that didn't like outsiders. I can't say as I have studied it enough to have my own opinion, but that was her take on it.

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    65. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Possibly. I have a friend who's recently realised he's gay, but he's still not really into the whole anal sex idea so far!

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    66. Re:Why so discriminating? by UCSCTek · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Usually leads to children" -> see Idiocracy

      "and then pay taxes" -> look up "poverty" and the tax code

      Anyway, that's certainly not the reason citizens would support such policy, that's just straight-up bigotry. Example, my father said he would move to a new state if his state legalized gay marriage. And there are a lot of others like him...

    67. Re:Why so discriminating? by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      I'm pretty sure the inequality imposed on them is a direct result of the imposition of Christian 'morals'

      Well, but that's kind of the problem with Christian morals - they're largely contradictory.

      Jesus sat down with lepers and whores. Didn't treat anyone terribly badly. Didn't discriminate. Wanted to get his message out to pretty much everyone. The Bible's got that whole message of do unto others as you'd have them do unto you and being a good Samaritan and all that...

      But then you see 'Christians' aggressively pushing this 'moral' agenda and harming their neighbors in the process.

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    68. Re:Why so discriminating? by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      That's all fine and well. They just shouldn't be allowed to adopt children, as such a practice might perpetuate a purely social lifestyle that has no biological or evolutionary purpose (other than to naturally remove each partners genes from the pool).

      How does that make any kind of sense at all?

      If you're adopting a child, the kid already exists and you aren't actually reproducing. So you're already looking at a choice that has no biological or evolutionary purpose.

      And what of folks who are sterile? They can't reproduce... So, what, they shouldn't be allowed to adopt because they can't participate in biological reproduction?

      Or is it all about the choice? You think that gay folks are making a choice not to reproduce, and such a horrible decision might get passed on to their kids? You think their gayness might rub off or something?

      Well, what about folks who've taken vows of celibacy? That's an actual choice. You aren't worried that such an anti-evolutionary choice as a vow of celibacy will rub off on the kids?

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    69. Re:Why so discriminating? by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 2, Informative

      Three of your examples (Cor 6:9, Tim 1:9-10, Rom 1:26-27) come from the New Testament.

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    70. Re:Why so discriminating? by UCSCTek · · Score: 1

      So the Visigoths are going to come wipe us out now? It's very difficult to draw good 2000-year-old analogies...

    71. Re:Why so discriminating? by KiloByte · · Score: 1

      Others have refuted your claim about "selective" reading, so let's go talk about you hating "bigotry". How is condeming an unnatural (even if largely harmless) activity bad if the politically correct group ("liberal" in a perverted sense of that word) you promote declares group marriage and pedophilia evil, often in the same sentences they bash homophobia?

      Group marriage is fully natural, and encouraged by some major cultures. It is not really compatible with the western world, since allowing 1:4 marriages but not 4:1 or 2:2 would be inconsistent and discriminative, but unlike homosexualism it does not hamper biological functions in any way.

      Some parts of pedophilia, namely those where the younger partner is between puberty and the "legal age of consent" is fully natural too. In fact it's the current law what is a perversion -- it bans a fully healthy behaviour and punishes it harsher than murder. Too bad, it would be unwise to change that law without amending related parts as well -- the root issue comes from people below 18 being "children" without being allowed to take on any responsibility and then suddenly fully grown at then magic age. If they are sheltered from any "evils" like pornography or reading about violence, how are they supposed to handle these issues when they are adult?

      So uhm, "homosexualism good, group marriage bad". I hope you can see what's wrong here.

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    72. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Heh. I was expecting quite a few outraged replies out of the 13 or so I've got so far, but most of them have been quite thoughtful. Yes, it's slightly strange that things like Easter and Christmas were originally pagan festivals that people have claimed as Christian holidays.

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    73. Re:Why so discriminating? by Schadrach · · Score: 1

      I don't know, if we're referencing Leviticus here it says that you should not lie with mankind as you would with womankind. I'm pretty sure a gay guy doesn't, he just lies with mankind as someone else would with womankind and vice versa. I could clearly see the argument of it being anti-bisexual though, since there's no way to interpret it otherwise.

    74. Re:Why so discriminating? by jombeewoof · · Score: 1

      The benefit is to reduce the tax burden on married gay couples. There is no burden for single people or straight married couples.

      Single person == Contributions to health insurance are not taxed.
      Single Person w/Children == Contributions to health insurance are not taxed.
      Married Straight Couple == Contributions to health insurance are not taxed.

      Married/Cohabitating Gay Couple == Contributions to health insurance are taxed.
      Unmarried straight couple == Contributions to health insurance not taxed.

      Unmarried straight couples can... get married to avoid this tax. Gay couples can not.
      Before my wife and I were married she was on my insurance as a domestic partner and I did pay the tax.
      When we got married, I no longer had to pay the tax.

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    75. Re:Why so discriminating? by FeepingCreature · · Score: 1

      The NT examples are themselves interpretations of earlier texts .. I know all of the bible is supposedly "divinely inspired", but surely there must be a difference in "quality of inspiration" between "word of Jesus" and "word of some apostle with a cause".

      The Sodom example has been explained elsewhere; wrt the Leviticus text I just want to note that these laws were never meant to apply to the gentiles.

    76. Re:Why so discriminating? by Rantastic · · Score: 5, Funny

      Sure, that filthy hippy Jesus waffled some peacenik tree hugging propaganda...

      Actually, Jesus was a tree killer, not a tree huger.

      Matthew 21:18: Early in the morning, as Jesus was on his way back to the city, he was hungry. Seeing a fig tree by the road, he went up to it but found nothing on it except leaves. Then he said to it, "May you never bear fruit again!" Immediately the tree withered.

      Just sayin

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    77. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Are you saying that I should be scared for denouncing God, or that the GGP should be scared for claiming God is okay with gays..? I got to the stage where I thought that even if God is real, I wouldn't worship him - because if the bible is true, he's a major douchebag on several counts.

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    78. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Or perhaps you were just saying that Christians should still be putting people to death. Well, the new testament gets round that by Jesus saying to turn the other cheek, forgive, etc. Though I don't understand why Jews don't still don't seem to do all the sacrificing and stoning and such..

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    79. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They already have pre-school books introducing children to homo families (princess marries a princess) so excuse me for not wanting gay marriage so my 4 year old isn't sexually confused. Leftists always start small (like promising federal income tax would never be >3%) then the problem skyrockets immediately after...

      I'd like to raise my own children when it comes to sexuality instead of our dysfunctional government...

    80. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They base this on a selective reading of the Old Testament which they use to justify an opinion they already held previously. The "christians" who use their faith to justify anti-gay bigotry should be told to read Leviticus in its entirety and fuck off.

      You sir don't know what your talking about. Try reading the bible before parroting nonsense. Try these NEW testament verses for a start.

      1 Corinthians 6:9-10 (NAS) Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God ? Do not be deceived ; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.

      Romans 1:25-27 They have exchanged the truth of God for falsehood, by worshipping and serving created things, rather than the Creator - praised be he for ever. Amen. This is why God has given them up to degrading passions; so that their women exchange natural sexual relations for unnatural; and likewise the men, giving up natural relations with the opposite sex, burn with passion for one another, men committing shameful acts with other men and receiving in their own persons the penalty appropriate to their perversion.

      Read Also:
      1 Timothy 1:10

      Lastly the word fornication means sexual intercourse between two persons not married to each other. There is zero biblical examples of homosexual marriage, but there are examples (yes in the old testament) of god destroying towns do to their perversity (which was men having sex with men, aka Sodom).

    81. Re:Why so discriminating? by delinear · · Score: 1

      Yeah, you see I don't buy that. If it were purely a social debate, you'd see countries with population issues encouraging homosexual behaviour to reduce childbirth. The UK is pretty much at peak population, but I didn't see any of the major political parties offering tax cutting incentives to homosexuals. Furthermore, it's inherently wrong to assume a homosexual can somehow stop being gay so that he can go live a fulfilling life with a wife and children (that's not to say many don't try, for whatever reason, they just tend to come up short on the fulfilling part), and patently ridiculous to think a slight tax break would be sufficient to sway them to even try - look at it from the other perspective, if you're a straight man would you enter into a homosexual relationship in order to pay less tax? No, whichever way you paint it this boils down to people A don't like people B and have a big enough majority to enact laws to punish them. That's how democracy works, but people A could at least have the decency to be honest about it and not try to pretend it's part of some grand scheme to embiggen us all.

    82. Re:Why so discriminating? by Astatine · · Score: 1

      I agree with you except, please don't lump indoor smoking in with the others there. Passive smoking causes cancer; the law should give me the right to insist that my coworkers don't kill me slowly!

    83. Re:Why so discriminating? by whisper_jeff · · Score: 1, Insightful

      ...how can anyone that appreciates the freedoms offered by our constitution and the rationale backing it in the declaration of independence, willfully discriminate against another based solely on private, personal preference?

      My favourite example of this was watching the news during (iirc) the Prop 8 debate and seeing an interview with a black woman who was speaking out against gay marriage rights.

      A black woman.

      This woman has had thousands and thousands and thousands of people fight for her to have rights as a person _on two fronts_ - first as a woman and then as an African American - and she has the audacity to oppose the rights of anyone else?? The utterly disgusting hypocrisy of it infuriated me (and still does). I will never, ever understand how this woman was so profoundly ignorant as to not see the similarities between the _TWO_ movements that provided her with the rights she now enjoys and the movement to provide gays with the rights that they deserve. Human rights are human rights.

      Regardless of your background, heritage, sex, religion, or whatever, anyone who opposes gay rights is a disgusting human. Period.

      The woman I saw being interviewed simply added hypocrite to the list.

    84. Re:Why so discriminating? by jombeewoof · · Score: 1

      Are you retarded?
      If you're single with no children you don't pay the fucking tax. There is no tax to pay if you're single with or without children.

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    85. Re:Why so discriminating? by Hylandr · · Score: 1

      Christianity is grossly misrepresented by the majority of the bible thumpers that have made themselves more visible by their extremism. Hate in any fashion was never preached by Jesus.

      Those that vilify buggery and discriminate against those unaligned with their gender are not to be considered Christian.

      Just sayin.

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    86. Re:Why so discriminating? by thijsh · · Score: 1

      Yeah, that story (like many in the bible) predates Jesus by millennia. The only reason it's in the new testament is because Jesus referenced it as an example. So they frowned upon sodomy back then, as well as a lot of other retarded stuff (often named in one sentence). That does give passages from the new testament more relevance. I'm just saying that if you read this, and lots of other non-homosexuality related things from the new testament as hidden attacks against Rome it makes a lot more sense sometime. To completely disregard the historic context of any written work is to limit yourself to not understanding any of the deeper meaning.

    87. Re:Why so discriminating? by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      Anal-abusing males and group-masturbating females (commonly known as lesbians) do not contribute children towards the population of Planet Earth and USA in particular.

      Let's ignore the fact that plenty of homosexual couples use fertility treatments to conceive children of their own...

      But priests who've taken vows of celibacy do not contribute children towards the population of Planet Earth. Nor do folks who just happen to be sterile for whatever reason. Nor do folks who simply choose not to have children.

      Should we discriminate against all of them?

      Are we going to start mandating that everybody conceive a child?

      Are we going to force people to reproduce?

      Since it is the job of the future generation to care about the current generation when it becomes elderly, people who do not contribute DNS to the future generation, shall be required to shoulder extra burden for the common good of the society.

      I assume you're referring to something state-funded, like Social Security?

      Because in general, folks take care of their own elderly, not just random old people on the street. In which case it's my own damn fault I didn't produce kids when I get old and decrepit and there's nobody around to care for me.

      In Europe and South America many countries actually had taxes for healthy 25+, who were unmarried and 30+ still without kids. You had to bring sworn witnesses to say you were refused engagement at least 3 times in the previous year, due to ugliness, if you wanted to skip the tax. The state provided funds to poor girls so they could marry and those having a medical excuse were offered to adopt a child or pay the tax.

      I suspect that those taxes probably no longer exist, as most places (Japan excluded) have more than enough people right now. Many places are feeling the pressure of having too many people and not enough jobs or housing.

      But, assuming those taxes still exist... I would certainly hope they're applied across-the-board. Especially to any religious groups that encourage their priests to take vows of celibacy.

      Regardless, I think it's a miserable idea. Folks should be free to choose what they want to do in life. If I don't want to reproduce, regardless of my sexual orientation, that should be my choice.

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    88. Re:Why so discriminating? by Schadrach · · Score: 1

      I assume that part of his comment was directed at 1 Corinthians Chapter 6.

    89. Re:Why so discriminating? by shentino · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      The bible isn't the only textual work that people will bend to their own use.

      See also copyright and patent law.

    90. Re:Why so discriminating? by Schadrach · · Score: 1

      Evangelical Christianity pushes the whole "you will be forgiven anything if you just ask" thing awfully hard, so I'd guess your last option.

    91. Re:Why so discriminating? by Schadrach · · Score: 1

      The US President isn't required to be Christian, but he is required to be elected, and there's enough of a Christian majority that a clearly non-Christian candidate simply won't get elected.

      All the while fundamentalist Christian groups claim how oppressed they are when Christianity isn't given special privileges over other faiths.

    92. Re:Why so discriminating? by nyctopterus · · Score: 1

      If that were the case, why not just provide tax breaks to couples with children? I tell you why, because in the yes of an awful lot of people, homosexuality is 'icky', and should be discouraged (yeah, that's gonna work!).

    93. Re:Why so discriminating? by sheph · · Score: 1

      It doesn't sound like you have a very good understanding of the Bible, or Christianity. The old testiment is included for a reason. It demonstrates God's holiness; His high standard, and mankind's neverending failure to meet that standard. Hence the need for love, forgivenss, as well as a Savior to bridge that gap. Christ came to uphold the law not abolish it. He gives us a way back from sin, not a free license to engage in it. We are called to love the sinner, and hate the sin. The Bible does say that homosexuality is a sin, and that it is actually a consequence of rebelion. That doesn't mean that it can't be forgiven, but it also doesn't make it acceptable. It's pretty clear in both the old testiment as well as the new. Now I know I'll probably get modded down because people can't handle the truth, but that's really what it is. I didn't make the rules I just refuse to turn a blind eye to them. As far as this so called tax is concerned, it's no different for two heterosexuals living together for convenience. It's a break for those who are married, not a tax on gays. If google wants to give that break to gays that's kind of their business. On a personal level I find it misguided, but at the end of the day Google is not a religious organization, and it's their company.

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    94. Re:Why so discriminating? by internewt · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The trolling GP states that homosexuality has "no biological or evolutionary purpose (other than to naturally remove each partners genes from the pool)", but does it?

      Homosexuality appears all across human ethnic groups, I think at about the same kind of rate. Seeing as modern societies have only existed for a fraction of the time humans have existed, and an even smaller fraction of time that the homo genus has existed, I think it is probably pretty likely that homosexuality does serve some purpose. Maybe not directly for the homosexual individual, but for the species.

      I think the purpose homosexuality serves is so that a group of humans (eg a tribe) will contain adults that are very unlikely to breed. If breeding humans with children from the group die, there are spare humans in the social group who can step in and do (more[1]) parenting. This means children of the breeding humans stand a better chance of making it to adult hood, and passing on their genes.

      Seeing as how members of tribal-type societies are much more closely related to one another than more modern human societies, the homosexual individual's genes will get passed on to quite some degree when they help in the raising of children.

      [1] Modern western societies are rather odd in their patterns of raising kids, where most of it is done directly by TV^H^H the parents, and specific institutions (schools). Other societies seem to have much raising of kids done by the extended family.

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    95. Re:Why so discriminating? by Vintermann · · Score: 1

      WHAT other religions?

      All other religions, obviously.

      We can map the ancient Greek mythos to the Norse mythos...

      Not really. Indo-European religions are related, this is nothing new (and while there are mappings between individual myths, they aren't nearly as good as some authors would have you believe. IMO they have little better than horoscope-level accuracy.)

      It turns out, though, that we can also start lining the whole map up to Christianity and Judaism. Remember the name of Lucifer is the name of one of the higher angels working as a servant of Jehovah...

      The wink-wink-nudge-nudge school of religious criticism isn't particularly worthwhile listening to. The name "Jehovah" is medieval speculation. The name "Lucifer" in the Bible is used in reference to a Babylonian king, not an angel, this is also a product of later theology. You shouldn't just swallow everything Freke & Gandy & co. tell you.

      All of which has very little to do with attitudes to homosexuality.

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    96. Re:Why so discriminating? by Concern+Is+A+Faggot · · Score: 1

      And while they're at it, why don't they give a raise to single people, who aren't getting any tax breaks either?

      Raaaaacists!!

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    97. Re:Why so discriminating? by lowrydr310 · · Score: 1

      The planet simply cannot sustain a growing population indefinitely.

      No, but regrettably many economic models and social programs depend on exponential population growth. I have a funny feeling the world is going to be a very different place when I'm an old man, that is of course if a giant asteroid doesn't hit the planet in 2012.

    98. Re:Why so discriminating? by networkBoy · · Score: 1

      It's simple really.
      If you are trying to convert the pagen masses, then you'd better incorporate their holidays/festivals, lest you find yourself with people who are only token worshipers as evidenced by their continuing to celebrate their old beliefs festivals. The solution is to move your celebratory dates to match theirs, thus they can appear to be following the new religion whilst still quietly celebrating the old, but it's not so obvious any more. Where else did the Christmas tree come from?

      Obviously the Catholic church invented the PHB with blinders from Dilbert. (now if only they'd assert prior art).

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    99. Re:Why so discriminating? by arcsimm · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Not so strange. It shouldn't be much of a surprise that the early Catholic missionaries would choose to co-opt pagan holidays (and rites, for that matter -- what do you think pine trees have to do with the baby Jesus, anyway?) rather than try to eliminate them. Claiming to reveal a hidden or alternate meaning to an established religion gives you a foot in the door where you might not otherwise have one. Hell, the apostle Paul pulls one of these in Acts when he tells followers of a Greek mystery religion that Christ was their "unknown god" revealed.

    100. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think you're approaching the problem wrong. You're hoping people who feel a certain way will change because you reason with them on an issue they believe has a fundamentally correct answer. That's stupid. The correct answer is not for Google or anyone else to counter-discriminate in order balance out some other discrimination but for the government to quit governing groups of people and start governing individuals. Tax everyone as an individual. Treat everyone as an individual. Uphold secular contracts such as wills and partnerships and ignore things such as marriage and ethnicity and sexual orientation entirely (in law). The concept that marriage has government benefits is not just discriminatory against gays but also against single people. The fact that hate crimes murders are punished more severely than regular murders cheapens the lives of "ordinary" murder victims. People can't be color blind but the law at least can be written in such a way as to promote it as much as possible and that's where we should be putting our efforts.

      Oh and while I strongly support everyone having the same rights under the law as evidenced by my position on how you functionally accomplish that, your declaration quote is about intrinsic worth of a human not about whether or not you can react differently to different actions an individual takes such as marrying cross-gender or not. However I suspect you know that and are just misusing it because you care more about your point than being intellectually honest.

    101. Re:Why so discriminating? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 2, Funny

      I am tired of people saying that gays do not have the same marriage rights as everyone else. I don't know if you have noticed, but every place that does not allow gay marriage also prohibits heterosexuals from marrying someone of the same sex as well.

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    102. Re:Why so discriminating? by Aceticon · · Score: 1

      Let me explain:
      - There are two types of people, those who think "My set of moral and ethic rules should be followed by everybody" and those who thinks "Everybody should find and follow their personal moral and ethical compass"
      - The first type, being incapable of immediatly forcing their morals on the majority of people will instead start by trying to have them enforced on a minority, preferably an group which is considered "different" by most other people and thus will not be naturally defended by the majority.

      Moralistic laws that discriminate against a specific group, for example gay couples, are not an end in itself but just a stepping stone into further laws imposing a given set or moral rules to a bigger group of people - in any country where a battle to impose moral rules on a specific group is won by the moralists, the war just moves on into imposing yet further moral rules to the same group or even on a bigger minority group: the final objective really is to force everybody to follow a specific set of moral rules (whether they agree with it or not).

      Just look at the most pious islamic countries where, having achieved things like prison sentences (or even death sentences) for "sodomy", the local moralists went further into things like forbiding women to show their faces in public.

      At the moment, the biggest source of "moral rules" are certain religious groups (for example certain Cristian groups in the US, Ultra-Orthox Jewish groups in Israel and Wahabist/Salafist groups in North-Africa and Asia) but religion is not the only source of those people, look at the more extreme examples of political ideologies (such as Communism, Capitalism, Anti-statism) and you will find plenty of people with a similar "i know best how everybody should conduct themselves" mind-set.

    103. Re:Why so discriminating? by Rogerborg · · Score: 1

      Which just makes my point stronger, since the GP restricted his specious argument to the Old Testament.

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    104. Re:Why so discriminating? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 0, Troll

      There are no similarities between the movement for black civil rights and the movement for homosexual "civil rights". One is a movement that is about what someone is born like (with very dark skin). The other is a movement about what someone does (have sex with people of the same gender).

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    105. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Christianity is grossly misrepresented by the majority of the bible thumpers that have made themselves more visible by their extremism. Hate in any fashion was never preached by Jesus.

      Having spent over 20 years of my life attending church, and personal reading of the bible, I can say that a lot of these "bible thumpers" are accurately portraying the laws of the bible.

      Yes, Jesus in the bible was not about the hate and the punishment, and taught to love your neighbour, enemies and sinners. But there are passages in both the old and new testament that specifically mention homosexual acts, and they are seen as something to be "discouraged" shall we say..

      Those that "villify buggery" are no different from those that despise liars and murderers, from a biblical point of view. I can respect that they're standing up for their beliefs rather than pandering to the world, even if their beliefs are dumb. I used to do the same. I'm not sure if the fact that my brother turned out to be gay had anything to do with me losing my faith, I think it probably did. Even when I thought what he was doing was wrong, it didn't make me discriminate against him.

      Jus' sayin ;)

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    106. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Since when do homosexuals have any less rights than anyone else? Just because what marriage is doesn't happen to fit with their personal preferences doesn't mean that we have to change our definitions just so they can be happy.

      Really, though, I'm much the libertarian myself, and I don't see why marriage is something that the government should be recognizing anyways. I'll tell you what degrades marriage, and it's not a few people going their own perverse way with it. It's the government treating it as nothing more than a tax technicality.

    107. Re:Why so discriminating? by Rogerborg · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Oh, sure, if you apply a selective reading of the Bible, you can ignore whatever 95% of it that you don't like. Good luck getting anyone else to agree with you on which 5% constitutes "Christianity" though.

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    108. Re:Why so discriminating? by medcalf · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I'm all for getting the State out of marriage. That should be a religious proposition, rather than a civil one. Benefits, taxes and the like should simply not take into account people's marital status, and instead should treat each adult as an independent entity. If you want to create a default "we share everything" contract, that allows for things like making decisions about childcare, powers of attorney and the like automatic, and that any set of people can go down to the justice of the peace and obtain for a nominal fee, I see no problem with that. It would provide the benefits marriage now provides, without the State getting involved in people's relationships.

      However, your read of the Declaration is way off. It was an argument against private judgement, but an argument against class. By declaring that all men are created equal, the Declaration says that the circumstances of your birth (the wealth of your parents, the color of your skin, physical handicaps and so forth) do not change your value as a person. In other words, aristocracy is (if you accept the Declaration's self-evident truths) inherently a perversion of natural law, setting some above others by the mere circumstances of their birth.

      The immediate problem that arises is "what about slavery?" If we're all supposed to be created equal, why did that not apply to slaves. The answer is not a moral answer, but a crass political answer. The economy of the South was predicated on slavery; take away slavery and the South would have sunk into deep poverty. (Even if not true, and I am not convinced that it is true, it was a view nearly universally held by Southerners in the 1780s, when the Constitution was written.) The question of allowing slavery was thus an existential question for the South: if slavery were not allowed, the southern states could not be part of the United States and continue to exist with any hope of prosperity. For the North, slavery was not an issue, simply because their economy was predicated on shipping and trade instead of pre-industrial agriculture. So for the northern states, the imperative was to hold the states together into a single country, to avoid the constant warfare that existed in Europe from the fall of Rome to the end of WWII. Essentially, the South would not yield on slavery, and the North would not yield on there being a single nation in the former colonies. The obvious compromise was to allow slavery, despite the fact that it was a contravention of the principles of the Declaration of Independence.

      If you see in that the setup for the Civil War, congratulations. It has been said that all of American history can be summed up as "Pickett's Charge, the events leading to it and the consequences thereof." This misunderstanding of the principles of the Declaration of Independence, along with the death of Federalism (particularly subsidiarity) and the triumph of the French Enlightenment over the English Enlightenment, are some of the sadder of those consequences.

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    109. Re:Why so discriminating? by ceoyoyo · · Score: 4, Funny

      The passages in liviticus are surprisingly clear for the bible. The Sodom and Gomorrah story doesn't necessarily have anything to do with homosexuality though. Trying to rape gods kid would surely qualify for extermination even if it weren't homosexual rape.

      This was actually a fun conversation I had with the local jehova's witness lady who seemed to think an unmarried guy living with female roommates was somehow at high risk for "catching gay" along with other seemingly incompatible sins.

    110. Re:Why so discriminating? by medcalf · · Score: 1

      Gah! It "was not" an argument against private judgement.

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    111. Re:Why so discriminating? by metlin · · Score: 1

      Well, this has less to do with being gay or lesbian.

      When I wanted to include my fiancée in my health benefits plan, I would still had to pay taxes because we weren't married.

      So, ideally Google should compensate all couples that are not married who are subjected to such taxes.

      Why stop only at same-sex couples? The rest of us pay the same tax. :-)

    112. Re:Why so discriminating? by noidentity · · Score: 1

      Why is it okay to discriminate against people in such an expensive way? That's like taxing tampons or pads because they know that 50% of people need them.

      I can understand the tampons, but pads? I'm sure an Apple fanboy would say he needs his iPad, but I doubt he really needs it.

    113. Re:Why so discriminating? by kj_kabaje · · Score: 2, Informative

      It isn't strange at all. It's a long-standing practice within many religions. It's called syncretism. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Syncretism

    114. Re:Why so discriminating? by KarrdeSW · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Even the new testament criticizes homosexual relationships

      While I definitely accept this as one possibility. I have a problem with people stating it as fact. From what we know, all references to homosexuality were written by Paul and were originally put down in Greek. The Greek language did not actually have a word for homosexual at the time so Paul utilized two different ones. The first one was Pederraste (meaning Pedophile) which definitely raises concerns about how it was translated to an entirely different word: 'homosexual'.

      The second word used is arsenokoitai (spelling probably terrible), which Paul actually just made up, and didn't explicate further. It literally translates as "man bed". While I can accept that someone might utilize those terms to create a word for homosexual, I do not think it makes sense to say it conclusively.

      So as far as I'm concerned, the New Testament says nothing of note about homosexuality.

      PS - Not a Christian, just a textual analysis nerd.

    115. Re:Why so discriminating? by networkBoy · · Score: 1

      ya know.
      I give up.
      I've spent the last 15 min looking at bash.org searches about hell, looking for the one where some guy got the "niceness" bot to kick the bible quoting bot for swearing. Now, while I've reaffirmed my feelings of humanities depravity, I have failed to find the one funny example I was looking for.
      -nB

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    116. Re:Why so discriminating? by ceoyoyo · · Score: 1

      1. Maybe god didn't like them trying to rape his kid, never mind the homosexuality.

      2 & 3. Good luck with that. You can't have homosexual sex the same way you have heterosexual sex. There's a part missing.

      4-6. So homosexuals don't get into heaven. They probably wouldn't want to go there anyway. That doesn't excuse persecuting them here on earth.

      The bible is almost always nonspecific and fuzzy, which is the only reason anyone sane can justify following it today. It's not hard to twist the actual words to support almost any position you care to take.

    117. Re:Why so discriminating? by CraftyJack · · Score: 1

      the law should give me the right to insist that my coworkers don't kill me slowly!

      Not with smoke, at least. I'm sure they've got other means.

    118. Re:Why so discriminating? by AlterEager · · Score: 1
      So you change my words in order to refute a point I didn't make.

      Brilliant.

      And you whine about "politcal correctness" as well.

      Moron.

    119. Re:Why so discriminating? by Eravau · · Score: 1

      When I beget my girlfriend...

      Your daughter is your girlfriend? To quote The Princess Bride... "Why do you keep using that word? I don't think it means what you think it means."

      beget: tr.v.1. To father; sire. (The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition)

    120. Re:Why so discriminating? by schon · · Score: 1

      I'll have to challenge you to select other passages from the bible that contradict or refute the ones quoted above. Sure, that filthy hippy Jesus waffled some peacenik tree hugging propaganda about loving and forgiving sinners, but I don't recall him saying that it wasn't a sin.

      How about Matthew 19:19?

      "Love your neighbor."

      See? He doesn't just say "it's OK", he commands you to do it!

      And don't say that "love" doesn't mean what we all know it means, or that he might be talking about women - men are neighbors too (and whenever the Bible talks about other people, they're assumed to be men unless otherwise specified.)

    121. Re:Why so discriminating? by stealth_finger · · Score: 0

      but I find it pathetic that people are trying to twist the bible to suit their own agendas and make it more politically acceptable rather than just standing up for what it says.

      Better get used to it. People have been doing that probably since it was written. And will do for a long time to come.

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    122. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Moses is the supposed author of Genesis and Leviticus. The other quotes are all letters so yes they were all written down "immediately".

      AFAIK the translations are done from earliest source where possible. The ministers of the denomination I used to belong to often had studied Hebrew, Greek etc. Christians should quit trying to weasel out of any passages they're uncomfortable with. The sentiment behind these passages is clear.

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    123. Re:Why so discriminating? by koreaman · · Score: 1

      If the younger partner is over puberty, it's not pedophilia, by definition. If you change "pedophilia" to "underage sexual relationships" or something, you have a valid argument :)

    124. Re:Why so discriminating? by HungryHobo · · Score: 1

      1: so it is irrelevant.

      2: it is however even more stupid to imply that encouraging people to have hordes of kids for no particular reason is stupid.

      3: because.

      4: And yet there's pleanty of kids in the foster system looking for a home. it's hard to adopt because they try to be damned careful that they're not handing kids over to someone who will beat or rape them and will definitly be able to provide properly for them and the bar is set very high.

    125. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 1

      When you kick the bus, does the driver get out and yell at you, or does he dispatch a Transit Police Officer?

    126. Re:Why so discriminating? by schon · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Homosexuality isn't like robbery or assault, it doesn't affect anyone except for those that participate in it.

      It affects the people who are offended by it.

      Yes, just like desegregation affects racists who are offended by blacks.

    127. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      The bible doesn't really mention pedophilia AFAIK, though I have heard some say that Mary (ie the mother of Jesus rather than any of the others) was something like 14/15 when she had Jesus. Getting married young was pretty common back then.

      Also here in the UK 16 is the age at which you're allowed to have sex. It's all pretty abitrary..

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    128. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 1

      Exposure to nail polish fumes cause cancer, too. Why aren't you fuming with outrage at that receptionist over there painting her nails in public?

    129. Re:Why so discriminating? by digitig · · Score: 1

      The New Testament position on homosexuality is nowhere near as clear as either side of the argument would have you believe. In almost all the places where there is a reference to it in English-language Bibles there are serious questions about the correct way to translate the passage, and both sides have good arguments for how they translate them. It really isn't certain which side is right. The only exception is Romans 1, which pretty certainly refers to homosexual sex, but there the interpretations differ. It refers to men and women abandoning heterosexual relationships for homosexual relationships, but many lesbian and gay people argue that they never had any such heterosexual inclinations in the first place so they haven't abandoned them. In any case, the passage describes this as a consequence of sin, not as sin itself.

      That's only relevant to those Christians who consider the Bible to be authoritative in such matters, anyway. It's not relevant to the many Christians who don't see the Bible that way or, of course, to those who are not Christian at all.

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    130. Re:Why so discriminating? by jenn_13 · · Score: 1

      AFAIK, they're not actually applying a special tax to people because they're gay. It's putting kind of a fine point on it, but actually, they just give tax breaks to people for being married, and unfortunately, our government doesn't allow same-sex marriage. IMO, TRWTF is that the govt has any involvement in marriage at all. Only slightly less WTF-y is our tax code...

      disclaimer: I'm a Libertarian, so I consider at least 90% of the government to be a huge WTF...

    131. Re:Why so discriminating? by HungryHobo · · Score: 1

      Ah I see you couldn't handle your bullshit being called so you changed the quote.

      Gay people are quite able to have children.
      Gay couples have to come to some arangement with either a sperm bank or a woman willing to carry the child.

      But so do pleanty of straight couples(or are they unworthy to marry as well?).

    132. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You forgot St. Paul's letter to the church at Rome: "Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion" (chapter 1, 26-27)

      And his letter to the church at Corinth: "Neither the sexually immoral nor idolators nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor theives nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God" (I Cor 6:9)

      All new testament stuff. So, no, an anti-homosexual sentiment is not simply old testament. That said, the classic response is that the real Christian is one who may find the actions abhorrent, but wants to convince the actor of his/her wrongness. You can't do that by mistreating people, no matter what they do. Simply put - homosexuality is wrong, it's the Christian's duty to point it out, but up to God to punish it if He wants to. (And don't give me that genetic crap - there's a genetic component to schizophrenia, and likely to addiction disorders, too, but no one seems to think that these are somehow "normal" and not in need of treatment.)

    133. Re:Why so discriminating? by CharlyFoxtrot · · Score: 1

      When I said "selective reading" I meant that they do not follow all the other laws laid down in the old testament.

      Now of those passages New Testament none are from the 4 canonical gospels. They are from the pauline epistels which are letters by the first century church leader Paul to his churches. They should be placed in their historical and geographical context. Furthermore the translation is contested.

      However, I'll have to challenge you to select other passages from the bible that contradict or refute the ones quoted above. Sure, that filthy hippy Jesus waffled some peacenik tree hugging propaganda about loving and forgiving sinners, but I don't recall him saying that it wasn't a sin.

      If He didn't say anything about it it must not have been a big issue. After all if he found the time to say it's easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of heaven surely he could have said something ? It's precisely because Jesus was silent on the matter we rely on Paul's interpretation as he communicated it to his churches.

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    134. Re:Why so discriminating? by BarryJacobsen · · Score: 2

      To completely disregard the historic context of any written work is to limit yourself to not understanding any of the deeper meaning.

      Look, the word of God is timeless, now get back to stoning blasphemers to death!

    135. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 0, Troll

      "Man bed" seems pretty clear cut to me..

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    136. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They're taxed the same as most other merchandise in most U.S. states, typically 4-6%.

    137. Re:Why so discriminating? by badfish99 · · Score: 2, Funny

      So how many of his women did he offer to you?

    138. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      It helps to know what the quote was. Searching for "saddle" gets it right away.

      "Numbers 22:21 -- And Balaam rose up in the morning, and saddled his ass, and went with the princes of Moab."

      http://www.bash.org/?178890

    139. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bakkster · · Score: 1

      Either these people don't really believe, or they believe but they think their god is lying about the whole eternity bit, or their own ego is so great that they just think god'll forgive them all their transgressions, but somewhere along the way something just doesn't add up, here.

      Or, you know, our scripture says it's so. Romans 3:21-28:

      But now a righteousness from God, apart from law, has been made known, to which the Law and the Prophets testify. This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood. He did this to demonstrate his justice, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished— he did it to demonstrate his justice at the present time, so as to be just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus.
      Where, then, is boasting? It is excluded. On what principle? On that of observing the law? No, but on that of faith. For we maintain that a man is justified by faith apart from observing the law.

      I don't see where you feel ego enters into it, since this viewpoint requires an admission of powerlessness. I know you don't agree, but this isn't some topic that has been swept under the rug and ignored. It's been confronted pretty much head on, and is the basis of the faith.

      Car analogy time: it's like your dad telling you he will pay any traffic ticket or bail for troubles you get into, because he loves you. That's a guarantee that can't be taken away, regardless of what you do. Out of your love for your dad, you should try not to get in trouble and depend upon your dad's money.

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    140. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Nah it wasn't "God's kid" in Sodom, unless you mean kid kind of like "God's boy" in the gangsta sense.

      an unmarried guy living with female roommates was somehow at high risk for "catching gay"

      That's hilarious :D

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    141. Re:Why so discriminating? by Johann+Lau · · Score: 1

      Contributing children towards Planet Earth is something that governments in general are going to have to discourage. At least one country on Earth already does.

      If you're referring China, I've just heard someone on the BBC say recently that this policy has been silently dropped, since they NEED young people to have any chance to compete, say, with Indian technology etc.

      The planet simply cannot sustain a growing population indefinitely.

      Having less kids is not the only solution: not growing so old would be another one. Just sayin'.

    142. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 1

      So what you're saying is that whatever feels good to a person should be their 'moral compass.' That there is no social role for defining our common values. Anything goes, whatever any individual wants.

      you will find plenty of people with a similar "i know best how everybody should conduct themselves" mind-set.

      I think I found one, right in the person who wrote the comment I am replying to.

    143. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Not to mention the rabbits and eggs at Easter as a celebration of fertility rather than a symbol of the rock being rolled from Jesus' tomb.

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    144. Re:Why so discriminating? by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      It's anti-shaving, too -- it says a man's not supposed to make himself look like a woman, and facial hair is a secondary sexual characteristic. The difference between shaving and a radical mastectomy is tits don't grow back. In short, shaving is a sin. And if Christianity has anything to do with it, why is adultery legal almost everywhere, while prostitution is not? The bible doesn't come down on prostitutes (although it's harsh on pimps and especially men who sell their daughters), but adultery is one of the ten mortal sins (no there aren't seven, you silly Catholics, there are ten).

      It's also against worship of money, and the necktie is the symbol of wealth and power, but judging by the TV preachers, they're almost all clean shaven and wearing an expensive suit and tie (I call neckties "satan's leash").

      The bible is far more agaisnt these things than it is against Homosexuality, and besides, the core tenet of Christianity is that your sins are forgiven.

      As to discrimination, why is being single a legal basis for discrimination? Someone with a partner to help with bills and chores gets a tax break, while I'm paying 100% of my way and pay more in taxes than they do. I can understand tax breaks for people with dependant children (gay or straight), but why should someone get a tax break simply because of marital status?

      If we ended the singleton tax, the gay marriage "problem" would vanish.

    145. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Gay marriage won't cause your four-year-old to be sexually confused.

    146. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      Moses is the supposed author of Genesis and Leviticus.

      Quick correction here. Genesis is long before Moses is born. Exodus is more or less the story of his life, through the first year or so of the trip from Egypt to Israel. Leviticus and Numbers are basically just lots of laws with some occasionally interesting history, and Deuteronomy is his final speeches. As for the author of each section, that's a deeply examined and widely debated issue.

    147. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      One is a movement about what someone is born like (with very dark skin). The other is a movement about what someone is born like (sexual orientation).

    148. Re:Why so discriminating? by Robyrt · · Score: 3, Interesting

      He told me that the Sodom and Gomorrah story is about hospitality law and not homosexuality.

      This is supported by Ezekiel chapter 16:

      Behold, this was the guilt of your sister Sodom: she and her daughters had pride, excess of food, and prosperous ease, but did not aid the poor and needy. They were haughty and did an abomination before me.

      The men of Sodom were certainly sodomites, but that's not why their city burned.

    149. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's discriminatory in the sense that placing a ban on worshiping on Sundays would be discriminatory against Christians. Hey, you'd have the same right to worship on any other day that all the other religions would have.

      It's also discriminatory on a sexual basis - if I have the right to marry a woman, why doesn't my female friend?

    150. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      While I'm all for literal reading of the bible, I think trying to be overtly literal is just as bad (just like lawyers finding loopholes to allow things that clearly go against the spirit of a law).

      IMO the intention of that statement is very clear. It would be like saying "modern society has abandoned the use of horses for the motorcar" - even if you've never personally used a horse, you are still included in that statement if you drive a car.

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    151. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bakkster · · Score: 1

      And don't say that "love" doesn't mean what we all know it means, or that he might be talking about women - men are neighbors too (and whenever the Bible talks about other people, they're assumed to be men unless otherwise specified.)

      The Greek have 4 words that we translate as 'love' in English. The word used in this verse is agapao, a conjugation of agape which is spiritual unconditional love. He does not use eros, which is the intimate (and oftentimes sexual) love you are referring to.

      So yes, 'love' doesn't mean what you think it means in this context.

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    152. Re:Why so discriminating? by digitig · · Score: 1

      Well, Jesus referenced the inhabitants of Sodom as bad people to whom bad things happened, but did not mention what they did wrong. The author of Jude wrote "In a similar way, Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding towns gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion. They serve as an example of those who suffer the punishment of eternal fire.", which (if you accept the story) is pretty uncontroversial. There are surely few who would try to argue that heterosexual rape and attempted homosexual rape are not "sexual immorality and perversion". And don't forget that in Ezekiel we have "Now this was the sin of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters were arrogant, overfed and unconcerned; they did not help the poor and needy." The locals in the movie "Deliverance" "gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion", but if somebody think that movie was solely about homosexuality or that it's relevant to caring consensual homosexual relationships then they have some serious hangups.

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    153. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Hetero rape is only frowned upon in the Bible if the man is raping a married woman.

    154. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Yep but Moses is the guy that was meant to have written down the first 5 books of the bible, and he was supposedly on speaking terms with God, so you'd think he'd get it right?

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    155. Re:Why so discriminating? by KarrdeSW · · Score: 1

      "Man bed" seems pretty clear cut to me..

      Other people have translated the same word in the bible during various generations to mean: masturbater, adulterer, promiscuous man, and male prostitute. There are likely others that nobody really knows about.

      I find pretty much all of these just as likely as the other, especially since Paul never references any other material to supply additional context, nor does he really bring up the word again in a different fashion so that we can adequately compare. Just because you live in a societal context where many biblical interpretations are anti-homosexual doesn't make it any more likely to be accurate. Hell, Michel de Montaigne wrote about witnessing a church-sanctioned gay marriage during the 1500s. If the biblical scholars at that time were convinced homosexuality was wrong then I think that would have been difficult to pull off, much less document.

    156. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He isn't saying that, no.

    157. Re:Why so discriminating? by AmazinglySmooth · · Score: 0, Troll

      Have you ever heard the phrase, "Love the sinner, hate the sin."? All the Christians I know (and I know a few) hate sin (the acts) but would welcome all individuals. The problem for many homosexuals is that they let their activity define who they are--no heterosexual adulterer would ever do that. Both are sexual acts, why does the homosexual let their acts define them? We all struggle with some sort of activity that God considers bad (i.e. sin); why should we wear our sins openly? I don't go around announcing I like to ; no one wants to know anyway.

    158. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      The passage from Genesis is irrelevant, since it isn't a commandment about homosexuality, but a story about mistreatment of visitors. The verses from Leviticus are translations from the Hebrew, and there's been a decent amount of debate about exactly how to translate it.

    159. Re:Why so discriminating? by Jawnn · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Oh, sure. Typical gay-agenda, liberal bleating about the rank hypocrisy that pervades most of what passes for Christianity in the U.S. today. How dare you call attention to such inconvenient contradictions in their book of folk tales... er, holy writ? A lot of people have paid a lot of good money to good Christian leaders like Ted Haggerty and George Rekers so that they can feel good about hating gay people. And now you want them to start hating shell-fish eaters and wearers of poly-cotton blends?
      You insensitive clod.

    160. Re:Why so discriminating? by Schadrach · · Score: 1

      You apparently haven't read All You Zombies (http://ieng9.ucsd.edu/~mfedder/zombies.html). Clearly the GP is Jane. =)

    161. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think by selective he meant they don't apply the same rigorous enforcement to other rules/laws in the told testament.

    162. Re:Why so discriminating? by SatanicPuppy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Silly. Most developed countries have trouble keeping their population steady without extra immigration. Hell, Russia was running a government thing a few years back that if you had a kid that was conceived inside a specific set of months, you got a free washing machine, or something similar.

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    163. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, but you (potentially) pay higher taxes in general, because the brackets are much lower (so you're more likely to be in a higher tax bracket given a particular income).

    164. Re:Why so discriminating? by discord5 · · Score: 1

      You take them in, feed them, and so on. Even offer them one (or some) of your women.

      BEST... RELIGION... EVER! That's some hospitality right there. Where do I join, and who can I be a stranger to today?

    165. Re:Why so discriminating? by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      Because That person that crafted that memo at Google hates gay people.

      It's a bullshit move to generate hatred against the homosexuals. Otherwise they would increase costs because in general healthcare costs went up.

      It's horrible, whoever crafted that memo and approved it needs to be fired.

      It is no different than increasing the prices because "our black employees cost more to insure"

      It's flat out discrimination and creating a hostile workplace.

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    166. Re:Why so discriminating? by SLi · · Score: 0

      Interesting post. I usually try to stay out of the religious discussion on slashdot, because, really, it's full of people who have heard some arguments against Bible and think they are experts on the subject even without having ever read it. Invariably none of them have heard of the rather clear distinction between moral law (that is supposed to be eternal) and the ritual law that forbade the Israeli from e.g. mixing separate materials in clothing in some ways, to remind them of their covenant with God - which the New Testament has made abundantly clear is not God's current covenant with people (there's a reason it's called the Old Covenant). But no, bashing the Bible with poor reasoning appears to be so fun that anyone should do it, regardless of whether they've ever read it. Come on, people, you can find better arguments against the Bible, they certainly do exist, and you can figure them out. Of course that might require, heavens forbid, actually researching stuff instead of just blindly bashing and repeating arguments invented by equally ignorant people.

      But I'm not blaming you for all that. I get the feeling your post contains kind of authentic puzzlement about the behavior of us Christians. That's good. I think it deserves an answer. I'll do my best to explain in the hope that you find some kind of answer to your puzzlement in my words.

      What you are wondering about is one quality that I believe truly sets Christianity apart from other monotheistic religions. What you describe is, I believe, actually quite close to Islam (and I'd say that Islam and Judaism are much closer to each other than either to Christianity). Islam teaches us thus, simplifying things a bit: If you can believe in God (Allah), that's undoubtedly good; but even if you can't, the most important thing is that you submit. The literal translation of the word "islam" is "submission" (and "muslim" = "one who submits"). This is reflected in popular muslim names like Abdullah, "slave of Allah".

      The relationship of God to people, as reflected in the Old Testament, is somewhat like that, but my feeling is that it's not that strict in a sense. The emphasis, in any case, is on good deeds, and to an extent obeyance. Somewhat in contrast to Islam, the Old Testament still talks about God adopting Israel as its people, and giving them his good law because he knows, like a father setting limits to his daughter, that it's good to the people. Even in the OT, it's more of a parent-child relationship than master-slave. In the Old Testament, the child is the people of Israel.

      In the New Testament, the death of Jesus changes things materially. It begins a New Covenant, replacing the old one that the people of Israel had broken so many times anyway. The death of Jesus provides a complete atonement of the sin of mankind. The Bible literally promises that to those who believe, all their sins are forgiven because of the blood of Jesus. In fact, this is a core tenet of Christianity: That every person, no matter how Christian, is a sinner, and repeatedly commits sin; that nothing they do themselves can redeem themselves. However the Bible also promises that we can leave all our sins to Jesus, and he will wash them away. It's not a matter of ego, as you say:

      Either these people don't really believe, or they believe but they think their god is lying about the whole eternity bit, or their own ego is so great that they just think god'll forgive them all their transgressions

      Indeed, it's hard to believe that God forgives all our transgressions, but that's what the Bible says about the matter. It also says that if the death of Jesus did not atone some of our sins, there would be no way to heaven for any of us. Yes, to a Christian life is a journey towards life less controlled by sin, but nobody will become so good that he would not need God to wash away his sins. This may seem like excusing doing anything at all, because we know we will be forgiven. That's half true - we know we will be fo

    167. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      Not just Christian, but Protestant. We've only had one Catholic president, and he didn't even survive it.

    168. Re:Why so discriminating? by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      Dude. stop equating the Catholic modified bible with christanity.

      Christ's teachings have NOTHING to do with most of the fake crap stuffed in there by the early Catholic Church.

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    169. Re:Why so discriminating? by Keebler71 · · Score: 1

      Isn't that assuming that homosexuality is genetic? While I believe that people are certainly born as homosexuals, I've never seen difinitive proof that there is a genetic predisposition toward homosexuality. Developmental (pre and post natal) and environmental factors could be in play as well. If so, there wouldn't *have* to be an evolutionary purpose...

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    170. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The New Testament has some pretty choice words for gay behavior, too. And early Christian writers were unanimous in their condemnation of homosexual sex. You really can't be gay and be a Christian, they're incompatible.

      The easiest thing is for gays to wake up to this fact and abandon Christianity en masse and join a more tolerant religion. Or better yet, none at all.

      (I say this as a former Christian who's now an avowed atheist. Once you really understand what religion preaches, there's really no point in continuing the charade; you just need to dump it completely.)

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    171. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bakkster · · Score: 2, Insightful

      When I said "selective reading" I meant that they do not follow all the other laws laid down in the old testament.

      Now of those passages New Testament none are from the 4 canonical gospels. They are from the pauline epistels which are letters by the first century church leader Paul to his churches.

      Here's one, straight from Jesus' mouth: Mark 10:6-9

      But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.”

      Taken alone, this doesn't prove homosexuality is wrong, but it does show that the 'opinion we held previously' seems to be God's opinion as well. I find it disingenuous to ignore this inherent blessing upon heterosexuality (and heterosexuality alone) when reading passages that may or may not apply to homosexuality. The passage might not say homosexuality is a sin, but I'm unaware of anywhere that says it isn't a sin. Personally, I give the benefit of the doubt toward Genesis' account that the suitable helper for Adam was neither animal nor another man, but woman.

      YMMV

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    172. Re:Why so discriminating? by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Note that I'm not even a Christian any more, but I find it pathetic that people are trying to twist the bible to suit their own agendas and make it more politically acceptable rather than just standing up for what it says.

      Pat Robertson has converted more Christians to Athiesm than all the athiests at slashdot combined. That man and his ilk are Satan's tools.

    173. Re:Why so discriminating? by Cornelius+the+Great · · Score: 1

      So you're claiming that sexual preference is a choice? While simply "being gay" can be hidden easier than "being black" (in most cases), both are traits that people can't really change.

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    174. Re:Why so discriminating? by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      Read the original and not the corrupted translation.

      Honestly, people REALLY need to suspect a lot of what is in there. The Catholic church and early church modified a lot of the bible. Even reading a middle english translation to a King James version has Significant changes.

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    175. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      "Jehovah" is from the Hebrew name used in the Torah. The only speculation is about the vowels.

      I don't know about Lucifer, but Satan is a Hebrew name that means "Adversary" or "Accuser".

    176. Re:Why so discriminating? by m0ve · · Score: 1

      google discriminates heteros ?! so if i apply for a job at google, i've to tell them i was gay to get equal money? weird world...

    177. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 1

      Why stop only at same-sex couples? The rest of us pay the same tax. :-)

      Because you have the option of getting married to avoid the tax; they don't. Don't try to compare your brief inconvenience with their lifetime of state-sanctioned bigotry.

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    178. Re:Why so discriminating? by violasvegas · · Score: 1

      Wow. This would nearly make sense (sad though it may be that a majority of people in this country might still cling to the belief that it is somehow bad or wrong to be gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender) if the majority actually got what they wanted on most issues. If that were the case, we'd have universal health care (look at the volumes of data from places that do legit polling, like Pew, Quinnipiac, and Gallup, not the major news outlets that are really only good for showing pictures of people with health care protesting universal health care for others), we'd be out of Afghanistan (again, the majority of public opinion favors getting out), we wouldn't have given billions of dollars of bailout money to the banks that collapsed the global economy, and Bush never would have been elected in 2000 (remember, the larger number of votes, aka "majority" didn't vote for him.) And those are just the glaring examples.

    179. Re:Why so discriminating? by digitig · · Score: 1

      I honestly don't know how they reconcile their belief and their failure to follow the strict rule of their god. I don't have any firm religious beliefs (I'm not atheist, I don't disbelieve and I'd like to believe I'm open to the idea of a god, I just lack the blind faith requirement) but it seems to me that if I knew in my heart that there was an all powerful being who could send me to burn for eternity, I'd do whatever that bastard told me to.

      That wouldn't be worship of God, that would be appeasement of a demon,

      A few years of self privation in this life to negate an eternity of pain seems like a pretty good payout, and yet I see many Christians who blatantly ignore or give very wide interpretation to what the Bible tells them, almost always in favour of how they want to live their lives. Either these people don't really believe, or they believe but they think their god is lying about the whole eternity bit

      I suspect that they do really believe, but they don't believe what you think they should believe. Specifically, they don't believe that what you think is "the strict rule of their god" actually is "the strict rule of their god". That is in no way incompatible with Christianity as defined, for example, by the major Christian creeds such as the Apostle's Creed or Nicene Creed, neither of which identifies the Bible as "the strict rule of their god".

      or their own ego is so great that they just think god'll forgive them all their transgressions

      Well, that they are likely to believe if they believe the traditional creeds.

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    180. Re:Why so discriminating? by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      This was actually a fun conversation I had with the local jehova's witness lady who seemed to think an unmarried guy living with female roommates was somehow at high risk for "catching gay" along with other seemingly incompatible sins.

      she was afraid you would become lesbian!

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    181. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I don't think you appreciate what a huge step forward that was, in and of itself. The idea that human value came innately to all men regardless of privilege of birth was earth shattering in its time. Yes, it took a while to get people on board with the idea that other races had the same rights; and a while longer for women to join the club. But not knock the importance of what the Founders started just because they didn't go all the way.

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    182. Re:Why so discriminating? by jamesh · · Score: 1

      Even the bible says "Love thy fellow man". Now there's a passage more Christians should take literally.

    183. Re:Why so discriminating? by Lumpy · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Yup

      http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sodomy

      It seems your education about linguistics needs to be updated.

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    184. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      (granted we haven't figured out how to tax hard drug users yet)

      Nor have we figured out how to tax gay people who don't practice safe sex or who have random sexual encounters. Being gay is different from "indulging in the cause of the spread of AIDS," especially for those in monogamous relationships.

    185. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 1

      To support your position, you'd have to show that gay couples historically adopted orphans at greater frequency than hetero couples. I don't think you can show that conclusively.

      However, I did see an article several years ago that showed a link between gay men and their straight sisters having more children than average. The net result is that the grandparents ended up with more grandchildren than they would have if the son had married and had children of his own. Since there's a net positive in offspring, the gene involved (which is theorized to cause not just the homosexuality in the son but the extreme fecundity in the daughter) would continue to be passed down the female line.

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    186. Re:Why so discriminating? by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      Back then? It's still common to marry off your 12 year old daughter in huge swaths of the planet.

      The tiny world that is the americas, and western Europe is not what most of the planet does.

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    187. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      When you say Catholic do you just mean Catholic, or Roman Catholic? Because I was a Protestant (or a pretty fundamental denomination, the Free Church of Scotland).

      The Old Testament is pretty clear on homosexuality being a sin as well, and that stuff definitely wasn't added on by Christians.

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    188. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bakkster · · Score: 1

      I'm all for getting the State out of marriage. That should be a religious proposition, rather than a civil one. Benefits, taxes and the like should simply not take into account people's marital status, and instead should treat each adult as an independent entity. If you want to create a default "we share everything" contract, that allows for things like making decisions about childcare, powers of attorney and the like automatic, and that any set of people can go down to the justice of the peace and obtain for a nominal fee, I see no problem with that. It would provide the benefits marriage now provides, without the State getting involved in people's relationships.

      I agree, mostly. The state should not be involved in marriages, but in civil unions alone. That's what a marriage is already, for the most part, the only time any judgment is placed on a couple is divorce hearings (in MD, for example, you can't get divorced until you haven't had sexual contact for a full year).

      The benefits are there for both sides. The state can no longer harm the sanctity of marriage (since they don't officially recognize it), and non-secular definitions of proper marriage no longer get legislated into our secular legal code. It also provides a way to provide powers of attourney and other benefits for live-in caretakers and other legal commitments.

      There are issues (like rewriting most of our legal code to ignore the 'marriage' aspects of a civil union), but in the long run it seems to be best.

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    189. Re:Why so discriminating? by whisper_jeff · · Score: 1

      Ah, now I see why I've been modded flamebait so far - people like you are modding my post.

      You don't see a similarity? You don't see the similarity between a movement who's goal was to ensure equal rights for all people regardless of sex/skin colour and a movement that is attempting to obtain equal rights for all people regardless of sexual orientation?

      Perhaps you'd like to invest a bit more time thinking about the subject before posting. Equal rights are equal rights. They know no colour, religion, sex, age, nor anything else, including sexual preference. Otherwise, they are not _EQUAL_ rights.

    190. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 1

      I recently had a friend argue with me that he opposes gay marriage because "marriage is supposed to be about having kids", and that homosexuality is "immoral". Nevermind that he and his wife have been together for 10 years, have no children, and have no intentions of having children. What's more, they're swingers who swap partners with other couples on a regular basis. He's now officially the Biggest Fucking Hypocrite I know (and yes, I told him that to his face, in front of other friends, but because we both respect that we're willing to stand up for our beliefs we're still friends).

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    191. Re:Why so discriminating? by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      So based on limited and biased exposure, you find that what your teachers taught you is right.

      Based on my experience with education at universities and Seminary the Bible is horribly corrupted by the church of the past. Lots of contradictions and obvious insertion of things that do not belong. Read the bible in it's original languages and suddenly the modifications become glaring. The Reformation exposed a lot of this and perpetuated a lot of it. Some of luthers writings talk about what he saw was wrong and was perverted by previous monks and church heads.

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    192. Re:Why so discriminating? by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      I can definitely see that as being the case. The story has two angels (disguised as human travelers) coming to Sodom and Gomorrah and stopping by Lot's house. He takes them in, feeds them and generally treats them well. A mob forms outside his house demanding that Lot give them the travelers so they can beat/rape them. Lot refuses and even goes so far as to offer his daughters instead (meant to show how much he would protect these strangers from the mob). In the end, he and his family is saved (minus his wife who disobeys the "don't look back" rule) and the towns are destroyed.

      There are certainly anti-homosexual references in the Bible, but I don't think Sodom and Gomorrah is one of them.

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    193. Re:Why so discriminating? by ArhcAngel · · Score: 1

      To answer your question you must look at the law in question and go back to its origins and the culture at that time. The law in question gives a tax break to a MAN who is MARRIED because he is supporting TWO people on ONE income. At least that's why the law was enacted. Obviously society doesn't resemble anything like that these days. In most relationships today both individuals are employed. Despite this fact the law remains because it would be political suicide to even suggest the law be abolished. So what to do? Let's lobby to expand the unnecessary law to include more groups thus nullifying the law while keeping it in tact. We'll just raise another tax somewhere less "sensitive" and nobody will be the wiser. Why don't we lobby for removing the current tax credit instead of adding more complexity leading to more real world Chuck & Larry scenarios? I say that as a married man who enjoys the tax credit. I doubt that would gain traction because the group lobbying to be added to the tax credit use it as a political tool of their own to force Americans to accept their lifestyle.

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    194. Re:Why so discriminating? by ricosalomar · · Score: 1

      All the evidence shows that ...kids raised in gay households are 2-3x as likely to consider themselves gay as kids raised in a straight household.

      I know this is troll feeding, but GADDAMMIT!! NO IT FUCKING DOESN'T. Here and here and here. You fucking asshole.

      ALL of the evidence shows EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT YOU SAID.

    195. Re:Why so discriminating? by Chowderbags · · Score: 1

      Or offer your daughters to a crowd of rapists so that angels don't get raped. Yeah. Apparently God can nuke a city, but can't precision snipe. Or maybe he just like the Mythbusters philosophy of "How big of a boom can I get away with?"

    196. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's very clear that you are using a recent (and by recent, I mean post 1900s) translation of the Bible if the word "homosexual" appears in passages you are citing.

      The term homosexual was not in use before the mid 1800s - a brief look into the etymology of the word in numerous places can show you that.

      It's erroneous to use these newer translations as evidence of bias against homosexuality in the Bible. Since the word "homosexual" was inserted INTO these passages sometime after the mid-19th century, and since the word took on a negative connotation rather quickly (it was looked at as a medical ailment), it is obvious that churches as the time were trying to retrofit the Bible to their current beliefs, not the other way around.

      There are plenty of places in the Bible that would could use to argue its bigotry towards gays and lesbians, but using passages that have obviously been altered in modern times to be anti-homosexual isn't the best way to point that out.

    197. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Jesus was an asshole.

    198. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      What exactly about that article am I meant to be looking at? It seems to agree with me that Sodomy is so named because of Sodom and its sexual practices.

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    199. Re:Why so discriminating? by discord5 · · Score: 1

      This was actually a fun conversation I had with the local jehova's witness lady who seemed to think an unmarried guy living with female roommates was somehow at high risk for "catching gay" along with other seemingly incompatible sins.

      Yeah, you have to be careful with talking to Jehova's witnesses though. You don't know where they've been, and you might catch something from them. ;)

      Over the course of 10 years they've wasted a lot of my time. Ringing at the door in evening, stopping me at the shops, trying to have conversations with me in parks, handing out flyers at malls, trying to sell me subscriptions to their magazine, etc etc etc. One evening 3 years ago I just got tired of it. They rang my doorbell, I was in a nasty mood and didn't have a lot of time that day, and I simply said "You know, I AM really interested, but right now I have to take one of my kids to the doctor, and I'm a bit in a rush. Would you mind coming back at a later time?" (Please note that I do not have any children)

      A week later, the pair showed up again, ringing my doorbell. I had completely forgotten about it until I saw them, and opened the door. "Oh hi, you know I was just thinking of you guys, but my boss called a minute ago, and I've got to deal with an emergency at work. I know this is really annoying, but could you come back at a later time?". Both gentlemen were still smiling and polite, but of course there was no emergency at work.

      Another week passed, and yet again both gentlemen were at my door. "Oh, hello again. How nice to see you. I was kind of expecting that the both of you had given up by now, so I'll be upfront and admit that I'm not interested at all." Both gentlemen had a highly annoyed look on their face, which I'm sure is not very typical. I then said "Well, it was nice seeing you gentlemen again. Please have a nice day, and feel free to come by again next week" and closed the door while smiling sympathetic to their devotion.

      It has been 3 years since one of them has shown up at my front door, so I can only guess that I've ended up on some blacklist of incorrigible sinners, homosexuals and devil worshipers. Oh yes, I am quite aware of what an enormous dick I was, but I've got to admit that it was strangely satisfying to waste their time for once.

    200. Re:Why so discriminating? by msuarezalvarez · · Score: 1

      It would probably be good for your health to ask your doctor what are the ways you can contract AIDS, for you seem to be rather misinformed... On the other hand, it might be that it is better for humanity that you don't.

    201. Re:Why so discriminating? by stdarg · · Score: 1

      It's also banned it in areas where *everybody* wants to smoke.

    202. Re:Why so discriminating? by CohibaVancouver · · Score: 1

      seeing as the bible is clearly anti-asspounding

      No, fundamentalist Christians are, not the bible. You ever read the New Testament? Good stuff in there...

      Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets.
      - Matthew 7:12

      Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness's sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
      - From the Sermon on the Mount

      Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you.
      - Matthew 7.1

    203. Re:Why so discriminating? by Schadrach · · Score: 1

      I'm just waiting for a discrimination suit over it. You know it's coming -- "He's getting a pay raise because he's gay" and all that, regardless of the intent behind it.

    204. Re:Why so discriminating? by Retric · · Score: 1

      That's a fairly odd interpretation of those words. Are you part of "all who believe" aka do you have the correct belief including all relevant details and do you actually believe it or do you just parrot the words? How would you quantify and verify that? After all get it wrong and you suffer for eternity, after all if there is a one chance in a in a googolplex that you are wrong your making a really bad bet etc.

      Going from what was said, to what was written, to a translation of that, to an interpretation of that, to a car analogy is a little much don't you think? Could that just be your Ego talking?

    205. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Homosexuality isn't like robbery or assault, it doesn't affect anyone except for those that participate in it.

      Unless those Christians are right, and homosexuality will bring hellfire and brimstone on the nation that tolerates sin. But you'll just assume that they're all wrong, and assert that government policy should be based on your religion and not theirs.

    206. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      Thus proving that God hates figs.

    207. Re:Why so discriminating? by JAlexoi · · Score: 1

      You had and have that option, they don't.

    208. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Oh no, I don't believe that the bible is true at all, but based on my own reading of it (which is hardly "limited" considering I've read all of its passages at least twice, and many of them many more than twice) there are many things which are clearly stated which people try to twist to their own ends.

      The Free Church of Scotland (my old denomination) is probably one of the most "reformed" in the world, they don't even allow instruments or hymns in public worship, nor woman praying/preaching in public, etc. and don't have all the extra books that the Roman Catholics do. Even so, there are still obvious contradictions to be seen - though with enough faith and wishful thinking you can almost twist any passage to mean whatever you want it to. If you start from the assumption that there is a God, and that he is perfectly loving etc, you have no choice but to keep twisting and re-interpreting what you are reading until it makes sense as something that a loving God would say, which is why so many people who agree with the current sentiment of homosexuality being okay try to change what the bible says to agree with that sentiment.

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    209. Re:Why so discriminating? by CharlyFoxtrot · · Score: 1

      The passage might not say homosexuality is a sin, but I'm unaware of anywhere that says it isn't a sin.

      That passage might not say eating twinkies is a sin, but I am unaware of anywhere that says it isn't a sin. They must be the devils food. Funny logic.
      The passage is a straight answer on a question if it's OK to divorce, it has nothing whatsoever to do with the sinfulness of same sex relations.

      YMMV

      It sure does.

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    210. Re:Why so discriminating? by JAlexoi · · Score: 1

      father said he would move to a new state

      Would he build it? Carve it out of an existing state? Raise the sea floor? Or wait till Puerto Rico becomes a state? I hear Iran is welcome relief to people like that...

    211. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      None of that says that being gay is okay. It just says you shouldn't hate on people for being gay. Any Christian should be "fundamental", ie work from the teachings of the bible. Being fundamental would involve following the teachings of Jesus just as much as believing that homosexual relations are a sin.

      Now, again I'll add the qualifier that I don't believe any of this any more, but yes I've read the new testament many times.

      PS The bible has plenty of bloody vengeance being rained down on sinners. You ever read the Old Testament? Good stuff in there..

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    212. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      except that the original velium scripts do no mention homosexuality. the church however did alter a passage saying that same sex incest was bad into being a homosexual is bad. how do we know this? because we have the original scrolls.

    213. Re:Why so discriminating? by thijsh · · Score: 1

      I honestly can't fully distill from your post what your exact stand is here... But you are wrong. ;)

      There is no 'original' bible, most of the stories from the bible are millennia old and have obviously changed over history, Genesis for example has existed for more time before the bible than after... The success of Christianity is based solely on the combination of ideas and stories that already existed (with some selective picking being applied then too). With the right memes combined you can have a force more powerful than anything in the history of human culture.

      The catholic church realized this and just did what was already done to the 'original' bible, they selected what served their purpose. To insist the bible is a non-changing book that will remain forever the same is terribly naive. Catholics only were the latest to the party of re-use for own gain, there is no definitive way of saying they 'corrupted' it, unless you are a purist and really believe this is the word of God exactly as it should be, and in that case I would have to point out that the history does not stop at the year 0, and neither did the ever changing evolution of our culture (and religion).

    214. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Before or after they came out of the closet?

    215. Re:Why so discriminating? by misexistentialist · · Score: 1

      Clearly there is a disproportionate number of women and/or male slackers in LA.

    216. Re:Why so discriminating? by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      cotton-poly blended T-shirt

      Huh? Could you point me to the specific passage? Now the necktie, yes -- it's a symbol of wealth and power; all bankers, lawyers, and politicians wear them, and "the love of money is the root of all evil" (Timothy 6:10). The New Testament (in Jesus himself's words) comes down hard in many places on those who value money too highly. "It's easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven," for example.

    217. Re:Why so discriminating? by Chibi+Merrow · · Score: 1

      The law should not give you the right to tell a business owner he cannot cater to smokers. No one is forcing you to be in an establishment that allows smokers. Go elsewhere. Even before these "indoor smoking bans" were passed there were no shortage of places that did not allow smoking.

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    218. Re:Why so discriminating? by webheaded · · Score: 1

      Except that the way our government functions is supposed to prevent the Tyranny of the Majority rather specifically. The will of the majority does not trample the RIGHTS of the minority. That's the important part. Everyone has rights and it isn't supposed to be based on their color, sex, or sexual orientation. That's what this country is supposed to stand for. It doesn't matter how offended these bigots are because their opinion is of no consequence to people's rights. It's ridiculous this anti-gay culture still prevails in this day and age. The fact that Obama pretty much refused to comment on gay rights during the debates and stuff is deplorable (and hell, I like the guy). All politicians have to either divert or proclaim they aren't going to let the gays marry or find some politically correct way to say "don't worry, I won't let those homos marry each other." I've heard the argument that it makes normal marriages worth less and I seriously want to scream. It enrages me in a way I cannot describe. I'm married to a woman and I find no problems letting a man marry another man or a woman marry another woman. They're people too, are they not? The very fact anyone would find that offensive pretty much means they find being gay at all offensive. They try to dress it up with pretty words but people aren't stupid. I have gay friends and if they want to marry each other, that's awesome. I just don't understand why people are so fucking concerned with what OTHER people are doing. It's none of your god damn business and it shouldn't matter anyway.

      It's funny because it's the same sort of discrimination that black people endured for so long and yet that same group of people is perfectly fine with the gays being denied rights too. The hypocrisy is just sickening. All around. Christians are supposed to love their fellow man and treat them well. Or something. I don't know, I'm not a Christian. It sure as hell doesn't look that way to me. I know a person that is struggling with the fact that he's gay but is Christian at the same time and is literally afraid of being gay. He's starting to come around and stop trying to make himself conform, but I still think it's sad that he lived so long thinking he was doing something evil. It's not okay. It really isn't. Making someone feel that way for being born a certain way is one of the worst kinds of evil.

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    219. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bakkster · · Score: 1

      That's a fairly odd interpretation of those words.

      The interpretation I provided comes from here and elsewhere. I can give more references if needed.

      Are you part of "all who believe" aka do you have the correct belief including all relevant details and do you actually believe it or do you just parrot the words? How would you quantify and verify that? After all get it wrong and you suffer for eternity, after all if there is a one chance in a in a googolplex that you are wrong your making a really bad bet etc.

      Paul already answered that one too: Romans 8:8-10

      But what does it say? “The word is near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart,” that is, the word of faith we are proclaiming: That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved.

      I think that trims up the 'all relevent details' quite well.

      Going from what was said, to what was written, to a translation of that, to an interpretation of that, to a car analogy is a little much don't you think? Could that just be your Ego talking?

      I never implied the car analogy to be what you (or anyone) should follow, just a tool to explain. Jesus used parables frequently for the same purpose, and a parable is just an extended analogy.

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    220. Re:Why so discriminating? by Siberwulf · · Score: 1

      Actually, the Bible does have much to say about "Single-Partner, Long-term, Public" homosexual relationships. Often when you find mentions of homosexuality, it is in the same sentence or passage with rape and incest.

      If you come across a Bible Thumper, you should really ask them if their hard-line, book-waving stance on homosexuality is preached with the same fervor as all the other teachings of the Bible. Ask them how they feel about Women's Hairstyles (Longer is better!) or about how they should plant their crops. (Two types of seed in the same vineyard is really, really bad.)

      I think Betty Bowers has the best take on it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OFkeKKszXTw

    221. Re:Why so discriminating? by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      I believe you're missing the point. It is simply that the policies produced by democracies are not inherently good, only as good as the majority of the society that produces them.

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    222. Re:Why so discriminating? by MartinSchou · · Score: 1

      Religion isn't like robbery or assault, it doesn't affect anyone except for those that participate in it.

      It affects the people who are offended by it. They are offended--outraged even. And in a democratic society, these outraged people have a voice, and these voices in total are loud enough to force governments to punish the people who's behavior caused the offended people to become offended.

      Well ... one can wish, right?

    223. Re:Why so discriminating? by webheaded · · Score: 1

      Who said anything about kids? You get a tax break for having kids...why do you get the benefits just for being married? If you want to have kids, yes, I can somewhat agree with giving tax breaks...kids are expensive. But a tax break just for being married? Why, exactly? To encourage people to have kids? I don't know about you, but I don't really think it's the government's place to do that, just like it isn't the government's place to tell people whether or not it is okay to be gay in the first place.

      Really this all just falls back to the fact that the government really shouldn't be regulating marriage in the first place. If they need a legal way of binding people (for benefits, kids, etc), then they need to make something that everyone has access to. Don't call it marriage and make EVERYONE use the same process. Something you can't ban the gays, blacks, Mexicans, or anything else from. You can use Civil Unions if you like, but you make the straight people get them too if they want legal benefits. In other words if you want to actually get MARRIED, you can walk down to your church and do that. Then you can apply to the state for a civil union. If you're gay, you can find a church that will take you if you want to get married or if you just want legal benefits, you go to the same office and get the same civil union. These things need to be separated. Why is the government sticking it's nose into marriage and WHY, if it is sticking it's nose in, is it discriminating people for it? Separate but equal was stricken down a pretty long time ago. This has happened before...don't people learn from history? Pull your bigoted heads out of your asses for a minute.

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    224. Re:Why so discriminating? by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Behavior is irrelevant if genetic material doesn't survive, so your theory fails on a very basic level. However, there is emerging research that makes more sense.

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    225. Re:Why so discriminating? by Tack · · Score: 1

      (I'm not atheist, I don't disbelieve and I'd like to believe I'm open to the idea of a god, I just lack the blind faith requirement)

      Atheists aren't necessarily closed to the idea of a god. I'm sure there many who are, but those whose atheism follows from a scientific skepticism (which is typically the case for the so-called "new atheist" movement) are open to anything for which sufficient evidence can be presented.

      As for disbelief, I've noticed that the weaker form of agnostic unbelief is usually operationally indistinguishable from disbelief.

    226. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'd have to say that if Jesus didn't mention it, it couldn't have been much of a sin. He wasn't shy about talking about sin, sexual sin included, so I'm just going to say that the man didn't give two shits about homosexuality. You can't say it's a sin just because he didn't specifically say it was OK (which, no, I totally get that's not what YOU think, but rather the "devil's advocate" argument you're making here).

    227. Re:Why so discriminating? by rjch · · Score: 1

      If you're referring China, I've just heard someone on the BBC say recently that this policy has been silently dropped, since they NEED young people to have any chance to compete, say, with Indian technology etc.

      A little Googling seems to reveal that the policy may have been modified to two children per couple, where both parents have no siblings. Whilst I do believe that population control is absolutely required, I'm not certain that China's approach is the best one. It's the kind of thing that very careful consideration will be required for.

      Having less kids is not the only solution [to population control: not growing so old would be another one. Just sayin'.

      I agree. Having watched two grandparents rot away from alzheimer's, one grandparent spend two weeks in severe pain followed by six weeks of mostly drugged stupor and with a number of my friends being aged care nurses, I'm a very firm believer in the right to die.

    228. Re:Why so discriminating? by osgeek · · Score: 1

      Rom 1:26-27: "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural

      Anybody else get a little wood from this part? Just me? Okay... I'll be in my bunk.

    229. Re:Why so discriminating? by mea37 · · Score: 1

      "but that's clearly a load of horse shit. It would just say so if that was the case."

      If that's the depth of your understanding of the texts, then it's no wonder you've given up on them. Here's a hint: they were written for a different culture at a different time in a different language, and have since been reinterpreted and translated by people with their own agendas.

      You make exactly the same mistake as the most dangerous types of religious fundamentalists: you put too much stock in the wording of (the version you've seen of) the religious texts.

    230. Re:Why so discriminating? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 0, Troll

      No, I am saying that who you have sex with is a choice. For that matter whether or not you have sex is a choice (except for rape victims, but I don't consider someone homosexual because someone of the same sex raped them). As far as I'm concerned, if you have never had sex with someone of the same sex, you are not homosexual (even if you would like to).

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    231. Re:Why so discriminating? by dkleinsc · · Score: 2, Interesting

      The other interesting bit about the story of Lot at Sodom is that the story is hardly unique to the biblical reference. The basic story shows up in lots of other cultures and goes something like this:
        - 2 divine figures are traveling around looking for righteous people disguised as poor wanderers.
        - Most everyone in town reject them, and treat them badly.
        - One family takes them in and takes care of them to the best of their ability.
        - The divine figures reward that one family, and punish the rest of the populace.

      This story shows up in Ovid and in the Poetic Edda, for instance.

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    232. Re:Why so discriminating? by Late+Adopter · · Score: 1

      Yes, just like desegregation affects racists who are offended by blacks.

      It does, and that demonstrates exactly what GP was saying. The civil rights bill passed in the 60s was enormously unpopular in some areas, and resulted quite a bit of political fallout for the Democratic party.

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    233. Re:Why so discriminating? by Taevin · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Language is defined through its use. It's undoubtedly true that the word "sodomy" holds the meaning it does because people used it to refer to some form of "sexual deviancy." Consider also how in modern times the phrase "begging the question" has all but lost its original meaning and now is a synonym for "raising the question." That it is now used incorrectly does not change the original meaning.

      Ironically, you're begging the question (petitio principii--assuming the initial point) with your argument. You're saying that 1. the word sodomy (modern) means "unnatural sex," 2. the word derives from the Latin meaning "sin of Sodom," 3. therefore the people of Sodom practiced sodomy. There's a disconnect there because you're assuming that the "sin of Sodom" is "unnatural sex," but this is an unproven claim.

      If the "sin of Sodom" is instead an extreme lack of hospitality, then the word sodomy should refer to that, but will still be used improperly to refer to "unnatural sex" (and homosexual sex in particular) because that is the common meaning. Just like begging the question.

    234. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, that interpretation doesn't really help, now does it? Sure, you should not rape strangers, but on the other hand suddenly not only it is ok to give women away like they are property, but it should also be seen as a gesture of kindness?

    235. Re:Why so discriminating? by fishexe · · Score: 1

      Christianity is a dumb one to mention, seeing as the bible is clearly anti-asspounding. You might as well complain about the government not giving special tax breaks for all the other "sins" too.

      I, for one, call for a 100% tax on Avarice.

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    236. Re:Why so discriminating? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 0, Troll

      Yes, I see a difference between a movement that is about equal rights for all people regardless of who they are versus a movement that wants to give people "equal rights" regardless of what they do.
      Whether or not one is homosexual is determined by what actions a person takes. A person who has sex with people of the same gender is homosexual. A person who does not have sex with people of the same sex is not homosexual, whether they find people of the same sex attractive or not.

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    237. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bakkster · · Score: 1

      The passage might not say homosexuality is a sin, but I'm unaware of anywhere that says it isn't a sin.

      That passage might not say eating twinkies is a sin, but I am unaware of anywhere that says it isn't a sin. They must be the devils food. Funny logic.

      Not at all. I simply say that God approves of (and explicitly creates) heterosexuality, and I am certain of that. I use this to attempt to understand the intent of later verses. When I read something that could have two interpretations like Lev 18:22-23 (is it part of the Law of cleanliness which was abolished, or is it a sin) or Rom 1:26-27 (a sin, or simply a reaction against following common Roman practices), I know that the answer must agree with the rest of the Bible. I think it makes more sense that if God says 'heterosexuality is good' and it applies for all time, that when he says 'homosexuality is bad' it probably applies on the same time-frame as the first.

      Relating to twinkies, if I felt there was an applicable verse saying 'don't eat food that doesn't rot', then I would agree it was the devil's food. Instead I see "But food does not bring us near to God; we are no worse if we do not eat, and no better if we do." in 1 Corinthians 8, and as such twinkies (in-and-of themselves) are not sinful, even though junk-food itself is never called out specifically. I fail to see this as somehow intellectually dishonest.

      The passage is a straight answer on a question if it's OK to divorce, it has nothing whatsoever to do with the sinfulness of same sex relations.

      Look where Jesus was quoting; Genesis 1 and 2.

      The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."
      Now the LORD God had formed out of the ground all the beasts of the field and all the birds of the air. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds of the air and all the beasts of the field.
      But for Adam no suitable helper was found. So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh. Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.
      The man said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called 'woman,' for she was taken out of man."
      For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.

      I picked this passage because you mentioned the 4 canonical gospels. The blessing of heterosexuality takes place in Genesis (above), Jesus simply reaffirms it at the same time as expanding upon it (no divorce).

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    238. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jesus fuck *puff puff*. I'm trying..... Man

    239. Re:Why so discriminating? by dkleinsc · · Score: 1

      Indoor smoking affects those who aren't participating in it or even offended by it. Just like your right to move your fist ends at my nose, we've decided your right to put nicotine and tar into your body ends when you're also doing the same to mine. You'll note that smoking in your own home is generally legal as well (although probably stupid due to the health effects on any kids).

      Yes, it's unpleasant for smokers, especially in the winter, but there's a real reason behind it.

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    240. Re:Why so discriminating? by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Sixty-four nations have fertility rates below replacement, and almost every nation on earth has seen a reduction in fertility in the last 50 years (play around with that spreadsheet, it's an eye-opener). All of the most populous developing nations have seen fertility fall by 2-3+ children per woman. However because this reality conflicts with the political agenda of the green cult, many people are still burying their heads in the sand steadfastly believing that a Malthusian disaster is right around the corner.

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    241. Re:Why so discriminating? by fishexe · · Score: 1

      ...(and the only laws of the old testament that were "updated" in the new testament were ones to do with sacrifices and what you could put into your body).

      AND where and when you should pray and how you should pray and how inviolable the sabbath is and who is allowed in the kingdom and whether you need to get circumcised and oh, by the way, 8 of the 10 commandments are now just redundant clarification...but other than that, yeah, they didn't change anything!

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    242. Re:Why so discriminating? by FluffyWithTeeth · · Score: 1

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    243. Re:Why so discriminating? by AhabTheArab · · Score: 1

      Yes, but you have the option to get married. If you don't want to pay those taxes, go to the county courthouse and get married. Problem solved. Homosexual couples don't have that option in most states.

      I realize some heterosexual couples are together for years or even their whole lives without getting married, but again this is by choice. So just because a couple does not get married (by choice, or because they are not allowed to by law), they are ineligible for hundreds of legal, economic, and social benefits.

    244. Re:Why so discriminating? by fishexe · · Score: 1

      And this is why the heads of BP and Halliburton should be charged with sodomy.

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    245. Re:Why so discriminating? by dkleinsc · · Score: 1

      Link for the curious: http://rescuemarriage.org/

      Satire is a wonderful tool, that's for sure.

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    246. Re:Why so discriminating? by fishexe · · Score: 1

      You can try to twist it all you want, but Sodomy has that name for a reason.

      Because people are gullible and ignorant?

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    247. Re:Why so discriminating? by Johann+Lau · · Score: 1

      the thing about China was something along the lines of "while they've not offically admitted it as a mistake, they have internally". sounded like they'll try to steer away from it without losing face.

      but I was really just listening to radio while doing something else, so who knows ^^ but it made/makes sense to me... it's pretty easy to get rid of people, much harder to create them =/

    248. Re:Why so discriminating? by AhabTheArab · · Score: 1

      Except the United States is not a Democracy. It is (supposed to be) a Republic. The RIGHTS of minorities are supposed to be protected. My rights and freedoms trump your right to not be offended. While I don't necessarily agree with smoking bans or fox hunting bans, at least a case can be made to support them aside from "I don't like it".

    249. Re:Why so discriminating? by aliquis · · Score: 1

      I read some interview with some homo-organization-dude-in-UK, and according to him most most people where into fingering but not that many into actual penetration. I guess orals may be more regular and masturbation the most common thing.

      I think the pressure is quite high on the ladies when it comes to anal-sex, and most guys probably want to try it out, or atleast many enough that the ladies get the question every one in a while atleast.

      Personally I don't know. Porn makes anal-sex with a female seem pretty normal but with a guy things would look different ... As in both cases but .. I know some men who's probably edging the "choices" seem comfortable with she-males, and I guess I may have been to, though in real life the whole idea it's a fag/man trying to look and behave like a girl may likely had ruined it.

      As a receiver however I would believe it's better with a man than with a girl wearing a strap-on. A penis got warmth and some give to it, a piece of silicone or whatever does not. The control is most likely better of the penis to. How it would work in the mind is another question ..

      Same goes for double penetrations and threesomes. While I would most likely feel envy for those who get them / sex at large I would be too shy in the situation and maybe not very fond of the idea either.

      I think one earns in not thinking so much and being to restrictive and not just let things happen though.

      I think admiration for a male body, a human mind and sexual comfort may be quite a few different things. For instance most people probably felt somewhat uncomfortable the first time they had their regular hetero-sex to. Or atleast where when they where younger.

    250. Re:Why so discriminating? by aliquis · · Score: 1

      Worse with our kings and queens though:
      http://sv.wikipedia.org/wiki/Successionsordningen
      "En medlem av kungahuset måste vara av evangelisk-luthersk tro enligt den oförändrade Augsburgiska bekännelsen av år 1593 annars är rätten till tronen förverkad. Detta gäller såväl monarken som prinsar och prinsessor. När det gäller successionsordningens äktenskapsbestämmelser är inte monarken bunden av dessa utan kan ingå äktenskap med vem han eller hon vill. En prins eller prinsessa måste däremot ha monarkens godkännande samt även regeringens godkännande för att kunna ingå äktenskap utan att förlora rätten till tronen. Det finns inget hinder för en prins eller prinsessa att gifta sig med vem han eller hon vill - men arvsrätten till tronen går förlorad om inte monarken och regeringen gett sitt tillstånd.

      En medlem av kungahuset får inte utan monarkens och riksdagens medgivande bli regent i utländsk stat, oavsett det sker genom arv, giftermål eller val. Den medlem av kungahuset som gör det tappar rätten till kronan för sig själv och sina efterkommande."

      Google translate:
      "A member of the royal family must be of the Lutheran faith as the unchanged Augsburg Confession by the year 1593 is otherwise the right to forfeit the throne. This applies both to the monarch as princes and princesses. With regard to succession rules marriage is not bound by the monarch but they can marry who he or she wants. A prince or princess must however have the monarch's approval and even the government's approval to marry without losing their entitlement to the throne. There is no obstacle to a prince or princess to marry whoever they want - but the succession to the throne would be lost if not the monarch and the government has given its permission.

      A member of the royal family may not, without the consent of the monarch and Parliament to become ruler of a foreign state, whether it be through inheritance, marriage or choice. The member of the royal family that will lose the right to the crown for himself and his descendants."

      Though of course it will only matter for them so won't affect me much .. Still stupid imho.

    251. Re:Why so discriminating? by fishexe · · Score: 1

      I should also note that many gay or lesbian couples do adopt children, or undergo fertility treatment to have children.

      Not if the Texas Republicans have anything to say about it...

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    252. Re:Why so discriminating? by fishexe · · Score: 1

      Anal-abusing males and group-masturbating females (commonly known as lesbians)...

      But what about anal-abusing females and group-masturbating males?

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    253. Re:Why so discriminating? by bm_luethke · · Score: 1

      No one is taxing gay people, they do not get a tax write off for being married, unmarried heterosexual couples or single people do not get it either. Now, we can argue (and I'll often agree) that tax breaks for marriage is stupid and wrong, but no one has a single person tax let alone a "gay" tax on the books. Indeed, due to the fact that they often share resources that I have to purchase for my self (and those resources not scale linearly with the amount of people using them) married people already enjoy the fact that by pooling their money each pays less to live than they would singly.

      Further I do not think our govt ought to be in the business of marriage anyway. Make them do civil unions that have to deal distribution of your estate upon death, powers of attorney, and the other legal things. This is simply paperwork that is filed with the state. If someone wants married then let the non-govt entities deal with it, maybe a group of Atheist want to have a ceremony, a Catholic an elaborate service, or some nature religion go roll around in some leaves and fling dirt in the air - who cares?

      But, of course, for most wanting to argue about it the question isn't really one of getting the same liberties as much as it is about control and any solution that doesn't address the need to stick it to the other side is vehemently opposed.

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    254. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 2, Funny

      If by "extreme lack of hospitality" you mean "going round to someone's house and demanding to rape their guests", then I concede your point.

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    255. Re:Why so discriminating? by Mongoose+Disciple · · Score: 1

      A problem with the New Testament in general, I think, and with proscriptions of homosexuality in it in specific, is that what Jesus has to say about how you should live and what Paul has to say are pretty different.

    256. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 0, Troll

      Most of those are related (ie the what you can put in your body relates to how "clean" things are, which was also related to the Jews/Gentiles divide), but fair point. It's been a while since I've thought of any of this stuff, and it's all just intellectual masturbation to me at this point.

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    257. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jefferson authored it and he did include slaves. The plantation owners of the southern colonies had issues with this and were going to refuse to sign. This is just politics 101, they had to compromise. Jefferson and a small handful of others were not too happy about it but it was either play along or just give up and they had sacrificed too much as it was. Why do you think politicians in the US haven't ever been that different than one another? Since day 1 they've compromised on issues dear to their heart rather than stand firm. The only difference is we seem to be lacking truly great people recently.

    258. Re:Why so discriminating? by smaddox · · Score: 1

      It would just say so if that was the case.

      What bible are you reading?

    259. Re:Why so discriminating? by Hells+Ranger · · Score: 1

      It's also in a form in Doctor Who. When the Doctor and Donna go in pompei.

    260. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      Yep, new sexual experiences are probably just as awkward/embarrassing no matter your orientation. I know I found the whole thing rather awkward considering I'd been "religious" for so long, it was a huge psychological issue for me, but now that I'm not a virgin I'm not all that bothered by sex and am pretty much enjoying the same lifestyle that I had before, but with the bonus that I'm not wondering what I'm missing out on ;)

      One of the guys here in the office pretty much bases his whole life around random sex (3 people in one night recently, one of whom was in the street and resulted in a warning from the Police!), whereas I'd rather only have sex with people I'm in a relationship with, and I'd rather only have a relationship with women that interest me both intellectually and physically - and there really aren't many women like that around.

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    261. Re:Why so discriminating? by NoSleepDemon · · Score: 1

      http://www.bash.org/?178890 You're welcome ;) (did you try to search in the quote number box by any chance? I keep doing that and forgetting that 'search' is actually a link)

    262. Re:Why so discriminating? by Taevin · · Score: 1

      Hah, yeah that's why I threw the "extreme" in there because just "lack of hospitality" sounded a bit... ridiculous ("extreme lack" too but at least it's somewhat humorous).

      Though I have also heard it said that the intent of the men was to assault the guests, not rape them. Doesn't really matter though because anyone that reads it will see whatever they want to believe (myself included) so there's little point in arguing about it.

    263. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      Please do note as well, that Cor, Tim, Rom, and others were written by Saul/Paul - formerly a Jew and persecutor of Christians. It seems logical that his understanding of Christianity would lean harder towards the Old Testament than even that of Christ himself. Saul never met Christ, nor heard him speak, so there's a definite dose of 'consider the source' going on here, in my opinion.

      Also note that whatever came out of Christ's visit to this planet that was NOT influenced by Saul was either persecuted into oblivion or willfully excluded during the canonization process.

      My own view of events is thusly:

      1) God speaks to the Hebrews, etc, and they begin to form a religion

      2) Time passes and man's hubris massively screws up the message

      3) Christ comes with the original, true message, and 'reboots' the religion back to what it was meant to be

      4) Saul and company go to work about corrupting it back to what it was before Christ came

      5) Once things are corrupted enough by the followers of Christianity, Christ will come again

      In this view, I recommend focusing on that which Christ did and said, and reading as little of what Saul wrote as is humanly possible.

    264. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Remember, in evolution traits don't need to serve a purpose, they just need to not confer a disadvantage. As individuals, homosexuality does confer a disadvantage in reproducing, but as a social group, it largely doesn't. Thus, it can be a common evolutionary outcome but not serve a purpose.

      It could just be margin of error for evolution. I don't mean this offensively, although I can certainly understand people taking it that way. The error is in actual successful reproduction, not any other aspect of humanity.

    265. Re:Why so discriminating? by NoSleepDemon · · Score: 1

      For the lazy

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    266. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 0, Troll

      I understand what you're saying, but there are several passages that talk of same sex relationships being wrong. Pulling the "oh but the culture has changed now" or "the interpretation obviously is wrong" card in this case is just as I said, horse shit. I am aware of many more of the cultural differences back then than most Slashdotters considering I sat through >20 years of sermons, which did explain cultural context and were given by many guys who could read the original Greek, some who could read the Hebrew etc.

      There were some many more fundamental things I had issues with, say for example God creating fallible creatures then punishing them for failing. Say the bible is true, what would have happened if nobody had sinned for hundreds of generations, what would have happened then? And surely if God is omnipotent and omniscient then he'd know beforehand exactly when/how/where his creations were going to sin, according to the original parameters he set when creating them? If I wasn't so interested in AI then perhaps that kind of thing wouldn't have been an issue, but I think that if the God of the bible exists and is all knowing, then everything that has happened in the Universe is his responsibility. From there I stopped worshipping him, and since then it's easy to see that Christianity is just as made up as any other religion. If you approach any religion from the point of view that it isn't true then it's easy to notice the flaws, and you don't have to make stupid excuses for them like you do if you're approaching it from the point of view that it's already true. Any true religion shouldn't have to make excuses (nor would it only have been given to one race while millions of others were and still are being punished eternally despite not even being given a choice - this is another one that people make excuses for, but it's stupid - if you don't even need to hear of the religion to be saved, then why bother evangelising?). From the tone of your post you may not even be religious, but I think that anyone who is serious about their beliefs should be a "fundamentalist".

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    267. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      4-6. So homosexuals don't get into heaven. They probably wouldn't want to go there anyway. That doesn't excuse persecuting them here on earth.

      This lines up with what Christ would say as well, from my understanding of it. Seeing something as sinful and wrong for yourself doesn't and shouldn't invite a real Christian to sin. Could you imagine Christ himself advocating the suffering of these people? I cannot. This kind of judgement is for God and God alone.

    268. Re:Why so discriminating? by ternarybit · · Score: 1

      Sorry to break the Slashdot cliche of Christian-bashing, but we aren't all bigoted hatemongers.

      Every Christian church I've ever attended ascribes to the idea that we should "hate the sin, love the sinner," and, as such, welcomes and loves gays with Christlike love. I have gays in my family who I love wholeheartedly. I have had close friendships with gays, and known them in the work environment, and always given them the respect every human deserves.

      New Testament theology (the New Covenant in Jesus' blood) places all of us humans on equal plane of guilt in sin before God, and in equal need of the forgiveness that Jesus brings. I am a recovering addict and alcoholic saved by that grace, keenly aware of my former guilt, so I consciously and adamantly extend that grace to everyone...even gays.

    269. Re:Why so discriminating? by whisper_jeff · · Score: 3, Informative

      You are a pathetic, disgusting human being. That you would support depriving people of equality because they do something you dislike is utterly repulsive. Even operating with your utterly flawed logic (and it is utterly flawed), you are supporting depriving people of the rights that others enjoy simply because they do something you do not like. They are doing it consensually, breaking no laws, and harming no person nor thing, yet you support depriving them the right to live a committed and loving life with someone else and enjoy the same benefits (and requirements) that we all enjoy.

      I say again, you are a pathetic and disgusting human being.

    270. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jesus would have been homophobic.

      Remember that he was a conservative Jew living in a Roman occupied country. Homosexuality was considered an abhorrent Greek/Roman practice at the time, and Jesus would have hated it.

    271. Re:Why so discriminating? by Danse · · Score: 1

      Others have refuted your claim about "selective" reading, so let's go talk about you hating "bigotry". How is condeming an unnatural (even if largely harmless) activity bad if the politically correct group ("liberal" in a perverted sense of that word) you promote declares group marriage and pedophilia evil, often in the same sentences they bash homophobia?

      Group marriage is fully natural, and encouraged by some major cultures. It is not really compatible with the western world, since allowing 1:4 marriages but not 4:1 or 2:2 would be inconsistent and discriminative, but unlike homosexualism it does not hamper biological functions in any way.

      Some parts of pedophilia, namely those where the younger partner is between puberty and the "legal age of consent" is fully natural too. In fact it's the current law what is a perversion -- it bans a fully healthy behaviour and punishes it harsher than murder. Too bad, it would be unwise to change that law without amending related parts as well -- the root issue comes from people below 18 being "children" without being allowed to take on any responsibility and then suddenly fully grown at then magic age. If they are sheltered from any "evils" like pornography or reading about violence, how are they supposed to handle these issues when they are adult?

      So uhm, "homosexualism good, group marriage bad". I hope you can see what's wrong here.

      I don't see any problem with group marriage. Pedophilia, when acted upon, even with the stated consent of the child, is considered wrong because children are not considered capable of consenting to sexual activity. I believe there is plenty of research on brain development to support this, despite the fact that they may be fully sexually mature in the physical sense. We are more protective of their emotional well-being these days than in the past, and more inclined to err on the side of caution.

      I do agree with you though that having the "bright line" drawn at a specific age as we do can lead to problems as well. There should be more ability to let them gradually accept more responsibility and adult rights and privileges rather than having it all fall on them on their 18th birthday.

      The only real issue to me is how you handle the rights granted to married couples when you get into situations like group marriages. It looks messy and likely to cause a lot of unintended consequences. That'll take some time to work out.

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    272. Re:Why so discriminating? by Taevin · · Score: 1

      Reproduction is not dependent on sexual desire or even intercourse. See artificial insemination.

      Furthermore, male sexual function is not necessarily dependent on interaction with desired sexual partners (i.e. it's possible for a heterosexual man to achieve an erection and ejaculate without a heterosexual women present or involved. An erection is also not necessary for ejaculation). See also female-male rape, prison rape, and the prevalence of teenage boys experimenting with each other (mutual masturbation, etc.).

      Of course even beyond all that, you're missing the point of "gay rights." It's not (just) that homosexuals can't live a life resembling a "normal hetero" one, it's that they shouldn't have to if they don't want to. Whites and blacks could have been content with marrying people of their own color, and blacks could have been content just being alive despite being discriminated against and/or enslaved. That's not the way it should be though.

    273. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      The context here is that of a family, and towards procreation. 'Leave his father and mother' has a meaning, placing the origin of the human within a family. Or are we to assume Christ thought it was non-obvious that males and females are the only source of offspring? Since homosexual unions cannot produce offspring, it inherently follows that heterosexual marriage would be encouraged. Further, children are better prepared psychologically when interacting with role models from each gender.

      I read it as homosexuality being folly and heterosexuality being the perfect union. This doesn't, though, mean that homosexuality is wrong any more than it is wrong to do any other non-optimal thing. And as a society we ought to encourage the optimal things, surely, but that doesn't mean we prohibit the other choices, per se.

    274. Re:Why so discriminating? by Just+Some+Guy · · Score: 1

      Anal-abusing males and group-masturbating females (commonly known as lesbians) do not contribute children towards the population of Planet Earth and USA in particular.

      Neither do infertile people; stone them.

      Next argument?

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    275. Re:Why so discriminating? by ricosalomar · · Score: 1
      Most of the smoking bans that I am familiar with involve workplace environments, which are held to a slightly different standard than simple public places.

      So, a business owner who allows smoking is subjecting his/her employees to carcinogens at potentially very high concentrations.

      I can see that there is a distinction there. Not sure I support smoking bans, necessarily, but it's a hell of a lot nicer to go to a bar that doesn't allow smoking. Even though I smoke.

    276. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      (I say this as a former Christian who's now an avowed atheist. Once you really understand what religion preaches, there's really no point in continuing the charade; you just need to dump it completely.)

      You actually appear to be saying it out of the need for psychological reinforcement. If people agree with you, you've made the right choice, and all that.

      I can see no logical reason why the presence of human corruption in religion automatically means that there is no basis for it. Other information could be used to come to that conclusion, surely, but the evidence you're presenting here does not add up logically. I read your argument as 'since human-made malware can corrupt computers and cause great harm, then operating systems do not exist'.

    277. Re:Why so discriminating? by KiloByte · · Score: 1

      By the original definition, you're right. Too bad, in most popular usage, this term's meaning was extended to include ephebophilia -- the latter term being nearly completely unknown by the general public. Heck, it is lacking from Firefox' spell checker for example.

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    278. Re:Why so discriminating? by UCSCTek · · Score: 1

      The process would probably involve shotguns and slander.

    279. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      A government needs to treat its citizens equally. It either gives tax breaks for couples or it doesn't, but only giving them to heterosexual couples is unfair.

      This is the truly interesting bit, isn't it?

      You are correct in that there exists non-equivalence between the two, but your application of the word 'unfair' may or may not follow. The tax breaks for couples are there to encourage behavior, just as tax breaks for green cars or whatever other arbitrary thing. At this level your argument becomes, 'it is unfair for the government to encourage behavior', and that would invite the corollary of 'it is unfair for the government to discourage behavior' - which is the VERY PURPOSE of government!

      It really is a neat puzzle, is it not?

    280. Re:Why so discriminating? by networkBoy · · Score: 1

      Yeah I was searching for ass and that didn't go so well...

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    281. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If I'm going to worship a God, I'd prefer one who watches Mythbusters.

    282. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The argument that a extending rights such as marriage to gay couples somehow lessens the social value of marriage is ridiculous. Following that same logical path, all those that do not practice christian marriage (Jewish, Islamic, Navajo) are also decreasing the social value of "christian" marriage.

      Ok look, I have nothing against being gay, at all. Seriously it doesn't bother me in the least, and I don't actually feel there truly IS such a things as "gay" or "straight". Life rarely, if ever, operates in such black and white absolutes.

      Having said that, you statement is plain retarded. Marriage is for making babies, and that requires a man, and a woman. Two women can not bear child, neither can two men. And don't try to throw in surrogates or artificial insemination, those are red herring arguments. Marriage is also used to make sure your kids don't end up fucking each other, which tends to result in birth defects, especially in small gene pools. The last purpose of marriage is property rights and inheritence, which just ties right back into the whole children bit.
      Almost all cultures have marriage, with the exception of a few isolated tribes stuck in the Stone Age (not an insult, that's a literal statement). And in all those cultures, Marriage requires at least one of each. (some cultures allow more than one woman per man- reason being that the man can father multiple kids at the same time, no reason to leave a good breeding stud idle for 10 months) . Even the Greeks, and the Romans, who embraced homosexuality. It was felt by the Greeks that no heterosexual relationship could feel the depth of love & commitment which two Men could share... yet even they only counted Marriage as the union of a man and woman. It was entirely normal for the married men to have a male companion for exactly that purpose- Marriage is DUTY, not love, or pleasure. They weren't alone- the Japanese are very similar.

      The problem comes from the government getting involved in the whole Marriage business to start with. Marriage is a combination of a multicultural utilitarian bond, and a religious institution. So the solution is simple- get the government out of the marriage business entirely. Instead of creating "Civil Unions" for gay people, create "Civil Unions" for ALL couples, and let the religious people keep the word Marriage for their religious purposes. That way, everybody gets equal treatment under the law, and anybody who wants to go around saying "we're married" can do so... and we get to kick the government out of the bedroom permanently.

      The thing that astounds me about this, is that people have been gay for as long as there have been people. It is incredibly arrogant to think that nobody in history has ever thought about this. It's actually a rather telling indicator of exactly how ignorant the general population is about history and human culture... this whole debate is stupid. No matter how hard people try, or how much they want to pretend, a gay couple, on their own, will NEVER be able to have the same type of union that a straight couple will... it's simply a biological impossibility.

      The reason that 'married' couples get a small tax break (and only recently when they eliminated the so-called marriage "penalty" taxes), and more breaks for having kids, is simple. The government wants you to breed more workers, consumers, and soldiers in order to drive the economy and military complex, and this encourages such behavior. So why would they offer such a break to a couple who aren't capable of producing their own children?

      But here's what REALLY pisses me off about the whole issue... unmarried heterosexual couples are getting shafted. No marriage breaks from the governments, and no same-sex-union breaks from the employers. Just level the damn playing field and get the whole mess out of the hands of government- tax everyone individually, if two people get joint custody of a child they each get 1/2 credit. But that would defeat the purpose of both sides- the religiou

    283. Re:Why so discriminating? by camperdave · · Score: 1

      But the book of Romans doesn't.

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    284. Re:Why so discriminating? by MoriT · · Score: 1

      Exactly. The Bible also supports slavery, murder in the name of god, rape, and polygamy. What the Bible actually says is far less important than what modern-day Christians say. Bigotry should not be allowed to hide behind anything, including the subjective interpretation of the politically-motivated translations of an edited collection of ancient documents.

    285. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      Yeah, that was the first thing I tried, too. Definitely not a narrow set of results.

    286. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      On a related line, someone recently told me Jack Tripper was not really gay. Is this true?!?

    287. Re:Why so discriminating? by MoriT · · Score: 1

      Mark 12:29 And Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord: 30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. 31 And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.

      Then again, my personal theory on Corinthians is simply, "Paul was an asshole." It explains everything.

    288. Re:Why so discriminating? by sveinungkv · · Score: 1

      It's erroneous to use these newer translations as evidence of bias against homosexuality in the Bible. Since the word "homosexual" was inserted INTO these passages sometime after the mid-19th century, and since the word took on a negative connotation rather quickly (it was looked at as a medical ailment), it is obvious that churches as the time were trying to retrofit the Bible to their current beliefs, not the other way around.

      The Bible was not written in English. It is translated to it. English is a living language. Sometimes a new word, like "homosexual", appear in English. That new word can make translating the Bible easier. In the original Greek you have the term "arsenokoites". It comes from the terms "arrhen" and "koite" that, according to Strongs dictionary, has the meaning "male (as stronger for lifting):--male, man" and "a couch; by extension, cohabitation; by implication, the male sperm:--bed, chambering, X conceive". Strong explains "arsenokoites" as "a sodomite:--abuser of (that defile) self with mankind." The 1611 King James Bible translate "arsenokoites" in 1. Tim 1:10 as "them that defile themselves with mankind". In current English the more precise term "homosexual" exist. So a translation to modern English should use it.

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    289. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bakkster · · Score: 1

      I read it as homosexuality being folly and heterosexuality being the perfect union. This doesn't, though, mean that homosexuality is wrong any more than it is wrong to do any other non-optimal thing. And as a society we ought to encourage the optimal things, surely, but that doesn't mean we prohibit the other choices, per se.

      Agreed, but as I said this verse is not meant to, taken alone, be used to show homosexuality is wrong. Rather, it corroborates with the other verses which seem to say that homosexuality is wrong/incorrect/a sin.

      Likewise, taken alone I think it makes sense to interpret Romans 1:26-27 as relevent only to those he was speaking to (the homosexuality was a result of previous sin, but not a sin itself). However, when every other mention of proper sexuality is man and wife and every mention of homosexuality is improper, that interpretation seems less likely.

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    290. Re:Why so discriminating? by badran · · Score: 1
    291. Re:Why so discriminating? by RobertM1968 · · Score: 1

      Perhaps the fact that so many end up with "New Testament values of love and forgiveness" is comforting evidence that not everyone's inherent tendencies are towards violent opposition to people unlike themselves, but I don't think it has any bearing on what "correct" Christianity is.

      [citation needed]

    292. Re:Why so discriminating? by MoriT · · Score: 1

      Pedophilia is a matter of power imbalance and consent; exploiting children, and one can not help but exploit children, is evil. On the other hand, plenty of people, plus the Bible, don't think group marriage is illegal, but it has been thrown under the bus in the attempt to convince straight people to stop trying to convert through force gay people. Eventually, group marriage will be judged by the same standards regular marriage is: is it coercive, unequal and exploitative? Or is it a loving association of consenting adults?

    293. Re:Why so discriminating? by RobertM1968 · · Score: 1

      selective reading of the Old Testament...the New Testament values of love and forgiveness

      Romans 1:26-32

      "...even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature...And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly...without natural affection...Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them."

      ...which is sick, no matter how you look at it. Let's leave out the homosexual aspect and put it into context in just the heterosexual aspect. The "natural use of woman" was (a) breeding stock, (b) subjugated property, (c) sex slave, and (d) property not worthy of a voice in any matter being discussed by men.

    294. Re:Why so discriminating? by badran · · Score: 1

      1. Heterosexual relationships cause as much VD as Homosexual relationships.

      2. Smokers die at an earlier age, because of that they are less of a burden on society.

    295. Re:Why so discriminating? by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      It conflicts with the Christian moral agenda

      There is no one agreed "Christian moral agenda".

    296. Re:Why so discriminating? by Princeofcups · · Score: 1

      However, I'll have to challenge you to select other passages from the bible that contradict or refute the ones quoted above. Sure, that filthy hippy Jesus waffled some peacenik tree hugging propaganda about loving and forgiving sinners, but I don't recall him saying that it wasn't a sin.

      Those are all potential mistranslations. Please submit the original Greek/Hebrew, etc., and let's see that the passages really say.

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    297. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Gays are far more likely to be paedophiles than heterosexuals.

      Gays are less than ONE PERCENT of the male population.

      So what percentage of the victims of paedophiles are boys? Well, we all know it's a hell of a lot more than one percent.

      It's amazing how much the Jews have brainwashed idiotic Americans into believing that gays are actually normal, and not sick, depraved perverts who would do literally anything to get their rocks off...

    298. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Your friend apparently does not know any biblical Hebrew.

      Gen. 19:5: bring them out to us, that we may be intimate with them (heb. ve-neidah, word root yod-dalet-a'in)
      Gen. 19:8: Look, I have two daughters who have not known a man. (heb. lo-yade'u, word root yod-dalet-a'in)

      Unless one is prepared to say that the Lot's daughters have not seen a male in their lives, the word with the Hebrew root yod-dalet-a'in which also means "to know" should be translated as "being intimate; to have sex" in both cases. What was exactly the sin of Sodom is not clear, but it is probably a combination of a lack of hospitality, rape, and male homosexuality, since these three are not separated in the story and go under the general title of "an outcry that reached God"

    299. Re:Why so discriminating? by BJ_Covert_Action · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The basic story shows up in lots of other cultures and goes something like this:

      That's the case for most stories in the Bible. The Bible, like almost all other important cultural works, pulled upon and drew from its predecessors for inspiration and content. There is very little, if any, original material (in terms of anecdotes) in the Bible. I'm not saying this to thrash the Bible, just to point out that it, like so many other books, is a great reference for the evolution and mixing of various human cultural themes.

    300. Re:Why so discriminating? by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      There is also at least one passage in the New Testament that decries homosexual relationships

      The most popularly cited ones in that regard are matters where the interpretation is far from clear; of the two main types I've seen cited, one consists of what is explicitly in the source material specific condemnation of the keeping of catamites -- generalizing from that to a condemnation of homosexual relationship is a fairly gigantic leap -- and the other is inclusion of homosexual behavior in a set of behaviors that, taken together, are said to mark out a group of people that are being condemned (but aren't pointed to as the things that they are condemned for, just a set of things that together calls attention to them as being part of that group), and which is arguably a condemnation of a existing social group in which that set of traits would have been familiar to the contemporary reader.

    301. Re:Why so discriminating? by eharvill · · Score: 1

      The UK is pretty much at peak population,

      Really? How do you figure?

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    302. Re:Why so discriminating? by groslyunderpaid · · Score: 1

      The "natural use of woman" was (a) breeding stock, (b) subjugated property, (c) sex slave, and (d) property not worthy of a voice in any matter being discussed by men.

      1 Peter 3:7

      "..giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life;.."

      Ephesians 5:25,28,33

      "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;"; "So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.";"Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband."

      Colassians 3:18,19

      "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them."

      I'm not sure that really jives with what you are saying, so original point still stands. Their "place in society" was more a product of the times and culture than of the teachings of the bible itself.

    303. Re:Why so discriminating? by fm6 · · Score: 1

      Because only married couples are entitled to the deduction. I personally support same-sex marriage, but you may have noticed that there are one or two people who are less open to the idea.

      Cue the Bill Murray riff...

    304. Re:Why so discriminating? by camperdave · · Score: 0, Troll

      The Dead Sea Scrolls found in the 1940s and 1950s prove that the old testament books were passed on unaltered from the time of Jesus until now. There are apparently enough quotations of the new testament in ancient writings that it can be almost entirely reconstructed. Sure, there may be minor variations in spelling, word order, and the occasional missing phrase. These are listed in the footnotes of most bibles. There is no evidence whatsoever for any alteration of doctrine. Furthermore, the bulk of the new testament is in the form of circulation letters ("copy and pass along"). It would be impossible to change them.

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    305. Re:Why so discriminating? by Sancho · · Score: 1

      Yes, but the passages in the New Testament which condemn homosexuality did not.

    306. Re:Why so discriminating? by moosesocks · · Score: 1

      Trying to rape gods kid would surely qualify for extermination

      Ah. The Dalek interpretation of the Old Testament...

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    307. Re:Why so discriminating? by Sancho · · Score: 2, Funny

      The peanut has its name for a reason, too. But it's still not a nut.

    308. Re:Why so discriminating? by Sancho · · Score: 1

      In theory, this is why we have a democratic republic. So that when the idiot masses come up with something stupid that they want (e.g. infringing on civil liberties) the representative can tell them to fuck off.

    309. Re:Why so discriminating? by spike+hay · · Score: 1

      Marriage is for making babies, and that requires a man, and a woman. Two women can not bear child, neither can two men. And don't try to throw in surrogates or artificial insemination, those are red herring arguments. Marriage is also used to make sure your kids don't end up fucking each other, which tends to result in birth defects, especially in small gene pools. The last purpose of marriage is property rights and inheritence, which just ties right back into the whole children bit.

      No. This is an absolutely nonsensical argument. This reasoning has actually been refuted in court rulings. First of all, by your definition, infertile couples should not be able to marry. Also, marriage isn't to keep your kids from screwing each other. That has such a low probability in the first place. How often do you actually hear of that happening despite so many children being born out of wedlock?

      Gay couples can raise children (and do so exactly as ably as straight parents) and this requires inheritance rights.

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    310. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 1

      I can see no logical reason why the presence of human corruption in religion automatically means that there is no basis for it.

      That would be true if we were talking about something that wasn't a construct of humans. Because there is no outside force creating religion, you can only look at humans for validation of religious beliefs. Since all humans are fallible, I see no reason to take what one person says about the nature of the universe at face value. Anyone making such claims has to be able to back them up with something more than "God said so".

      Unless you have some evidence for the existence of a god(s) that doesn't involve:

      1: Subjective feelings (God's real because I can feel his presence in my life)
      2: Tautologies (The bible is true because the bible says it's true)
      or 3: Relying on coincidence (I prayed for a job, then I got a job; God must have helped me, not those 50 resumes I emailed out)

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    311. Re:Why so discriminating? by ultranova · · Score: 1

      The tax breaks for couples are there to encourage behavior, just as tax breaks for green cars or whatever other arbitrary thing.

      The problem with this argument is that it's easy to see how green cars would be good for all of us: after all, who liks to breath toxins? On the other hand, it's very hard indeed for me to see why I should care if any particular couple is composed of a man or woman, two men or two women.

      Of course, by the exact same logic, there's no real reason to prefer couples to triples or various larger communes; in fact it can be argued that "the more the merrier", since a threesome can share a single washing machine and other resources, making them more resource effective and thus better from society's viewpoint.

      Then again, I'm a firm believer that people should be able to arrange their lives as they best see fit, with the minimum interference from either governmental, religious or corporate interests. It's only the disproportionate power of the last that sadly makes me convinced that the first is needed to protect people from the predations of robber barons.

      It really is a neat puzzle, is it not?

      "Neat" is not a word I'd use for tax, inheritance or almost any other law. "Puzzle", however, is spot on.

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    312. Re:Why so discriminating? by smithmc · · Score: 1

      Why is it okay to discriminate against people in such an expensive way? That's like taxing tampons or pads because they know that 50% of people need them. It conflicts with the Christian moral agenda in the first place in so many ways...

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    313. Re:Why so discriminating? by serano · · Score: 1

      I'm only responding to the first three due to time constraints.
      Gen 19:5-8: "and they called to Lot and said to him, 'Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us that we may have relations with them.' But Lot went out to them at the doorway, and shut the door behind him, and said, 'Please, my brothers, do not act wickedly.'"
      The very next verse includes this:
      Don't do [this] evil, my brothers. Look, I've got two daughters who haven't had sexual relations with a man. I'll bring them out to you, and you can do whatever you want to them.
      Does this really seem like a moral source you want to draw on to condemn gays, a source that literally in the next breath has a father sending his young daughters out to be raped? Incidentally, that passage isn't about homosexuality, but rape and as another commenter pointed out hospitality.

        Lev 18:22-23: "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."
      This passage is from a whole string of commands about who you should not have sex with, including family members, your neighbor's wife, women who are menstruating, and others. The punishment for any of these is essentially excommunication from society: 'such persons must be cut off from their people.' Our views on many things have evolved, including on adultery having sex with women who are near their mensuration cycle, and gays.

      Lev 20:13: "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death."
      Consistency aside (death sounds a lot worse than the excommunication punishment outlined just a few paragraphs earlier), other things that warrant the death sentence include worshiping other gods, improper eating of ritual offerings, gathering sticks on the Sabbath, and ineligible people acting as priests. This sounds a lot like the Taliban to me, and not at all a society most Western people actually support.

      The bottom line: the Bible was written 1500 - 1800 or so years ago and reflects a very primitive and authoritarian set of values. Many of those values are immoral by our views today. The people who are selecting passages to support anti-gay views, anti-black views, pro-slavery views, whatever, always ignore the inconvenient passages.

    314. Re:Why so discriminating? by RobertM1968 · · Score: 1

      The "natural use of woman" was (a) breeding stock, (b) subjugated property, (c) sex slave, and (d) property not worthy of a voice in any matter being discussed by men.

      1 Peter 3:7

      "..giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life;.."

      Ephesians 5:25,28,33

      "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;"; "So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.";"Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband."

      Colassians 3:18,19

      "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them."

      I'm not sure that really jives with what you are saying, so original point still stands. Their "place in society" was more a product of the times and culture than of the teachings of the bible itself.

      First, I specified women, not wives.

      Secondly, (1) a parent (father, ie: the male) could sell their daughters into slavery or arrange their marriages.

      (2) The list that goes contrary to your interpretations goes on and on from there:

      - "for indeed man was not created for the woman’s sake, but woman for the man’s sake." 1 Corinthians 11:9

      - "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him."" Genesis 2:16-18 (not an equal. a helper)

      - "For a man is the image and glory of God; but the woman is the glory of man." 1 Corinthians 11:7

      - Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Ephesians 5:22-24

      - "I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you." and "Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded you, 'You must not eat of it,' "Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your life. It will produce thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the plants of the field. By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return." Genesis 3:16-19
      -- This one is particularly interesting since god spoke to ADAM about not eating the fruit of the forbidden tree, HE relayed it to Eve, and then took her advice and ate from it as well. So, Eve got second hand instructions, while Adam heard it from the horse's mouth - yet Eve gets the worst punishment (all the same ones as Adam, PLUS the ones female specific). That's worst than a double standard.

      - Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. 1 Timothy 2:11-12

      - But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. 1 Corinthians 11:3

      - Let your women keep silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak; but they are to be submissive, as the law also says. And if they want to learn something, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is shameful for women to speak in church. 1 Corinthians 14:34-35

      - And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression. 1 Timothy 2:14
      --Anyone who knows the story knows that it was truly Adam who was deceived, because at that time, god was speaking to ADAM, and NOT Eve. Adam was relaying god's words to Eve. So, though Eve convinced him to "partake..." and such, Adam should have known better since god had spoken to him directly. Yet ano

    315. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      Since all humans are fallible, I see no reason to take what one person says about the nature of the universe at face value.

      This, of course, is logical. It would likewise include your own pro-atheist statements, would it not?

      Whatever your answer, lets stay on topic. The unsupported statement you made was:

      Once you really understand what religion preaches, there's really no point in continuing the charade; you just need to dump it completely.

      Human fallibility is a given, and since even atheists are human, cannot itself be a basis for atheism, can it?

    316. Re:Why so discriminating? by RobertM1968 · · Score: 1

      The "natural use of woman" was (a) breeding stock, (b) subjugated property, (c) sex slave, and (d) property not worthy of a voice in any matter being discussed by men.

      1 Peter 3:7...

      And more:

      http://www.humanismbyjoe.com/christianity_and_women.htm

      And even more...

      http://www.bible.ca/f-women-speak-in-church.htm

    317. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There absolutely is NOT anything about homosexuality in the New Testament. There is a reference to being effeminate, but that is it.

    318. Re:Why so discriminating? by BJ_Covert_Action · · Score: 3, Insightful
      You know, I've discussed this issue with my mother and some of my closest friends quite often. You see, being raised in the country, I was subjected to a lot of typcal, 'orthodox' Christian upbringing. I was always taught homosexuality was wrong and blah blah blah...When I grew up I got a brain and started thinking for myself. So then I started discussing these matters, with more rigor and critical thought than previously, with my family and friends. My mother and a few of my friends are, quite openly, appalled by homosexuality. As such, I have tried to discuss with them, many times, what kind of logical reasoning they can use to discriminate against homosexuals. After various discussions where I shot the, 'sanctity of marriage, unhealthy lifestyles, think of the children,' and other such reasons full of logical holes, I was pretty convinced that I had demonstrated, successfully, that there was no good, objective reason to oppress homosexual rights. I was pretty proud of this matter because I've never enjoyed the idea of targeting a specific group for being different (part of growing up in a subculture click of friends I suppose).

      So, after all that, I figured those folks I'd talked to would change their mind. Did they? Nah. When it boiled down to it, after all that, I got this simple, one line answer:

      I don't care what anyone says, homosexuality is just plain wrong. That's all there is to it!

      So in the end, this kind of stubborn bigotry isn't founded on logic or intelligence. It's not well-reasoned or thought out. It's simple, biased, self-comforting, fear-of-change, stubbornness. Looking for an angle, or trying to figure out why folks want to put down homosexuals is folly for that reason alone. There is no logic to it. It's simple faith-based stupidity. This one simple fact is probably the single largest contributor to making me abandon my own faith a few years back. In the end, it was all just a bunch of silly crap.

    319. Re:Why so discriminating? by ceoyoyo · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Just answer the door naked.

      My roommate (male) answered the door for some Mormons once. Of course it was two hot girls so he let them tell him whatever they wanted, took their literature and pretended to be VERY interested.

      Naturally they sent someone else around to follow up. Except the followup as a couple of skinny guys. My other roommate (female) answered. Her sister had just converted to Mormonism because she was marrying a Mormon and my roommate was very unimpressed with various aspects of Mormonism, including baptizing family members in absentia against their wishes, not allowing non-Mormon family members into the temple to see the wedding, etc. I think those two guys got an earful.

    320. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      The problem with this argument is that it's easy to see how green cars would be good for all of us: after all, who liks to breath toxins? On the other hand, it's very hard indeed for me to see why I should care if any particular couple is composed of a man or woman, two men or two women.

      Draw your family tree. Move up one level from yourself. Notice the male and female.

      Is it easier to see now?

      Seeing as each of us was a baby once, born of a mother, from a father, it is really the very definition of a no-brainer to support this activity going forward.

      Of course, by the exact same logic, there's no real reason to prefer couples to triples or various larger communes

      This seems true, on the face of things, but few western societies can make it work. Threesomes in our culture usually involve taking turns while the odd-man-out watches. Or didn't you see Friends?

      Then again, I'm a firm believer that people should be able to arrange their lives as they best see fit, with the minimum interference from either governmental, religious or corporate interests.

      Ah, now, don't go changing the topic. We were originally discussing encouraging behaviors, not prohibiting them. The phrase 'people should be able' absolutely does not preclude people being incentivized to do the opposite thing. Both parties are able, one encouraged, one not, but still equal in ability.

    321. Re:Why so discriminating? by camperdave · · Score: 1

      Well said!

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    322. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bakkster · · Score: 1

      Have you ever heard the phrase, "Love the sinner, hate the sin."?

      You mean the quote from Mahatma Gandhi? It doesn't apply, here.

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    323. Re:Why so discriminating? by CharlyFoxtrot · · Score: 1

      I do not take Genesis literally, it is a creation myth. But if we take the general view that all is somehow God's creation and leave the how aside then he sure did create a lot of this thing he does not like. Not only in humans, who are sinful, but also in animals which the catholic catechism describes as "... God's creatures. He surrounds them with his providential care. By their mere existence they bless him and give him glory"

      In the end I think the whole discussion is pretty much irrelevant. People are not here to judge (that's someone else's job), we are here to forgive each other's trespasses as best we can and help each other through this thing called life. That's the way it was taught to me at least.

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    324. Re:Why so discriminating? by Retric · · Score: 1

      You did not understand what I wrote. I could restate part of the question as "How do you know you actually believe anything?" but language is ambiguous and the idea is complex so who knows if you get my point.

      Or even three questions: "do you know what belief is?" followed by "do you understand what 'Jesus is Lord' means?" Followed by "do you have that belief?" but even that's extremely vague.

      Anyway Parables are a great way for someone to completely miss the point while thinking they understand what you area saying. It's possible that God does not care about the minor details (and it's a reasonable argument to make), however that's also a massive assumption. (Both in how God feels and what's minor.) (EX: "Is eating specific things at specific times important or minor?" is really two question "is it minor?" and "Is it important?")

      PS: My point is simply one of clarity. It's easy to shape what you read/hear/see to fit your prior assumptions, but be careful when you assume you completely understand a given sentence let alone a book and or things of importance.

    325. Re:Why so discriminating? by the_womble · · Score: 1

      The easiest thing is for gays to wake up to this fact and abandon Christianity en masse and join a more tolerant religion.

      Like what? In practice Christianity is the most tolerant of homosexuality of the major religions, except possibly Judaism (well, some types of Judaism anyway).

      I live in a Buddhist country and sodomy is a criminal offence here. In Hindu India cinema's huge protests were made against a film (Fire) that depicted Indian lesbians. As for most Muslim countries.... I am not sure what they do to gays in Saudi, but I am sure its not nice.

      Once you really understand what religion preaches, there's really no point in continuing the charade; you just need to dump it completely.

      Anyway, like most Atheists, you are illogical. You cannot conclude that something is true of false because you dislike its conclusions. You needed to start by examining premises and then arguments.

      That said, Christians disagree about homosexuality. I am undecided, but I know a good many gay Christians, including one of the best priests I have ever met.

    326. Re:Why so discriminating? by ElliotLee · · Score: 1

      The United States is a grand experiment in freedom. We do not have a democracy. We have a Constitutional Republic. True democracy results in exactly what you described: a slide into tyranny (of the majority). A Constitutional Republic, on the other hand -- if we were to actually follow the Constitution of the United States -- actually protects the rights of its citizens, and it protects them from encroachment by the majority-controlled government.

    327. Re:Why so discriminating? by jahudabudy · · Score: 1

      So as long as same sex couples have sexless marriages, then you're all cool with them having the same rights as other couples? WTH?

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    328. Re:Why so discriminating? by Atario · · Score: 1

      Fertility rates are primary inversely dependent on the empowerment of women. If you want to avoid a Malthusian disaster, give women education, a voice in the public sphere, and the power to decide their own reproductive course.

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    329. Re:Why so discriminating? by jahudabudy · · Score: 1

      It's also discriminatory on a sexual basis - if I have the right to marry a woman, why doesn't my female friend?

      Why is this the first time I have heard that argument?! It's brilliant. When phrased that way, I don't see any easily available counter-arguments.

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    330. Re:Why so discriminating? by DwySteve · · Score: 1

      Even the new testament criticises homosexual relationships (and the only laws of the old testament that were "updated" in the new testament were ones to do with sacrifices and what you could put into your body).

      Incorrect - it was decided that new converts to Christianity who weren't Jews didn't have to follow ANY of the Jewish laws.

      It also tries to claim that the passage about Sodom and Gomorrah is nothing to do with Sodomy and that "know" literally means know rather than "have sex with", when Lot clearly offers his daughters to "do with what you will" instead of the men.

      'Know' in the Bible means have carnal relations with - I agree with you there. But according to Jewish interpretation of the Sodom and Gomorrah incident says that the sin of those cities was that they were unwelcoming of strangers - not necessarily teh buttsecks. Lot was allowed to live because he invited the angels in, fed them and protected them from the crowd who wanted to rape them. I guess if the crowd had chatted them up a bit before bringing up the topic of 'knowing' them it might have been better...

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    331. Re:Why so discriminating? by DwySteve · · Score: 1

      You take them in, feed them, and so on. Even offer them one (or some) of your women.

      BEST... RELIGION... EVER! That's some hospitality right there. Where do I join, and who can I be a stranger to today?

      No! Don't join! If you join you're not a stranger! Just visit once in a while and... enjoy ;)

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    332. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 1

      It would likewise include your own pro-atheist statements, would it not?

      My central argument is that there is no evidence for a god, therefore all religion is a human construct, therefore all religion is flawed. You seem to think that "atheism" is a religion. It is not. It's not even a philosophy. It's just a way to label someone who has no delusions about the fact that there is no evidence to support the concept of a deity. That's all.

      Human fallibility is a given, and since even atheists are human, cannot itself be a basis for atheism, can it?

      Know how I can tell you're religious? You love circular arguments.

      I'm not wasting any more of my valuable time on you. Go learn what real logic is, learn you can't prove a negative, then maybe we'll talk. Because at that point, you'll have renounced any faith in a deity and will be an atheist yourself.

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    333. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 1

      Like what?

      Wicca, maybe. They seem like a tolerant bunch.

      Anyway, like most Atheists, you are illogical.

      Inigo Montoya frowns on your shenanigans. Enthymemes, like my statement about what religion teaches, are not illogical; they just skip a lot of steps in showcasing the logical progression.

      Religion, any religion, preaches that you must believe in something without any evidence of that thing existing. That is the height of illogical thought. For you to chastise me while embracing your delusions as though they're real means you're either insane or disingenuous. Which is it? Are you crazy, or a liar? There really is no third option in this debate. (For myself, I was a liar when I was religious; I was so good at it I lied to myself and believed every word of it.)

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    334. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      My central argument is that there is no evidence for a god, therefore all religion is a human construct, therefore all religion is flawed.

      This is based in faith, as you can never have any facts to support it. Ergo, as it pertains to spirituality, it is religious.

      You seem to think that "atheism" is a religion. It is not. It's not even a philosophy. It's just a way to label someone who has no delusions about the fact that there is no evidence to support the concept of a deity. That's all.

      If this were true, it wouldn't require a label, and people wouldn't feel the need to badge themselves with that label on slashdot.

      Lack of evidence is hardly the only criteria for 'delusions', yet this dogmatic rhetoric belies the intention to assert your faith onto others.

      Know how I can tell you're religious? You love circular arguments.

      I can tell you're religious because you labeled yourself as an atheist. Didn't take me nearly as long as it did you.

      I'm not wasting any more of my valuable time on you. Go learn what real logic is, learn you can't prove a negative, then maybe we'll talk. Because at that point, you'll have renounced any faith in a deity and will be an atheist yourself.

      You yourself could give excellent tips on ad hominem attacks, but your logical constructions fall flat.

      If ever I renounced all faith in a deity, I'd have the good sense not to simply swap my faith over to the atheist religion either. I'd just be Bob, believing what I do as I see it, just as I am today.

    335. Re:Why so discriminating? by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 1

      In this view, I recommend focusing on that which Christ did and said, and reading as little of what Saul wrote as is humanly possible.

      You've demonstrated to anyone who is actually familiar with scripture you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.

      Jesus: 36 "Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?" 37 Jesus replied: " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.'[a] 38This is the first and greatest commandment. 39And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'[b] 40All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments."

      Paul: 8Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for he who loves his fellowman has fulfilled the law. 9The commandments, "Do not commit adultery," "Do not murder," "Do not steal," "Do not covet,"[a] and whatever other commandment there may be, are summed up in this one rule: "Love your neighbor as yourself."[b] 10Love does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.

      Sounds pretty consistent to me...

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    336. Re:Why so discriminating? by balbus000 · · Score: 1

      It's not selective as in other passages contradict it. It's selective as in there are other passages they ignore on unrelated topics. Such a list could go on quite long, but take for example passages about how slavery is okay.

    337. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      The mechanics of salvation described in the Bible state explicitly that sin is not a factor in damnation. True, sin is a central issue in the relationship between man and God, however no human is punished in the afterlife or sent to hell because of sin.

      Don't worry about misunderstanding this though. Many churches get this wrong too, even though the text is quite specific about the details. With all the false advertising and judgemental self righteous rhetoric promulgated by the most vocal of churches these days it is no wonder the actual text is so maligned, misunderstood, and marginalized.

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    338. Re:Why so discriminating? by treeves · · Score: 1

      For those who don't get the reference, (Paul's letter to the) Romans (specifically chapter 1) (in the NT right between Acts (of the Apostles) and I Corinthians) specifically condemns homosexual behavior.

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    339. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We hold these truths to be self-evident, that [the robber-barons in our Country Club are just as good as any ennobled British lord or monarch]."

      Fixed that for them. That is precisely what they meant, after all: that any rich white man was as worthy as any noble white man, not some laughably ridiculous notion that blacks or women had any worth.

      Don't be silly, black people were worth a full 3/5 of a poor white man or woman in deciding how many rich white men got to go and decide how to divide up the national resources for the benefit of the rich.

    340. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      Considering the works were canonized into the same book, I'd be shocked if you weren't able to find consistencies in the text. What's your point?

      Are you purporting that Christ advocated a strict adherence to the old law? Because Paul certainly did. He spent a lot of time writing letters to people about it. Christ, not so much.

    341. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bakkster · · Score: 1

      Anyway Parables are a great way for someone to completely miss the point while thinking they understand what you area saying. It's possible that God does not care about the minor details (and it's a reasonable argument to make), however that's also a massive assumption. (Both in how God feels and what's minor.) (EX: "Is eating specific things at specific times important or minor?" is really two question "is it minor?" and "Is it important?")

      I can agree that it is an assumption. However, I disagree on the risk. We're talking about the risk that God would send his son Jesus to teach partly through parables and to die by crucifixion while we were still unsaved, only to exclude people purely on a 'gotcha!'

      So what exclusions are you anticipating would exclude a person? Are they consistent with the principle that sinful man is incapable of doing anything by himself to be worthy of salvation?

      PS: My point is simply one of clarity. It's easy to shape what you read/hear/see to fit your prior assumptions, but be careful when you assume you completely understand a given sentence let alone a book and or things of importance.

      But this isn't my original assumption. It's not even my second or third assumption. I'm constantly looking at my faith critically, and have lost count of the number of times I've realized I was previously wrong. For example, I originally assumed that being 'bad' would be reason to lose forgiveness, but I have since determined through further study that this isn't what the Bible teaches. I would be willing to concede if presented with a convincing argument, but I'm not seeing that here.

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    342. Re:Why so discriminating? by ultranova · · Score: 1

      Seeing as each of us was a baby once, born of a mother, from a father, it is really the very definition of a no-brainer to support this activity going forward.

      Actually, not only does that conclusion not follow logically from the premise, but some societies - such as China - are actively trying to limit population growth for perfectly rational reasons.

      Ah, now, don't go changing the topic. We were originally discussing encouraging behaviors, not prohibiting them. The phrase 'people should be able' absolutely does not preclude people being incentivized to do the opposite thing. Both parties are able, one encouraged, one not, but still equal in ability.

      Except that we're not "incentivizing" heterosexual coupling, we're simply penalizing it less than homosexual one. Also, it's somewhat unclear whether "incentive" and "lack of penalty" can ever really be considered different, any more than "lack of incentive" and "penalty" can.

      Also, none of this changes that the society has made living as a heterosexual couple cheaper than a homosexual one. Assuming that being mainly attracted to your own gender or the opposite isn't a matter of choice - that is, that you can't choose your sexual turn-ons - it's rather hard to see this as anything but unfairly discriminating against homosexuals.

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    343. Re:Why so discriminating? by sumdumass · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure there is a specific Gay Tax and I know it isn't discrimination at all. The problem seems to be that Gays who cannot marry want the same things that married people seem to get because they are pretending to be a family (by necessity of not being allowed to marry). However, this discrimination isn't pointed at the gays, it's not really discrimination at all. What it is- is favoritism to married people.

      Really, if you are straight or gay, you pay the same. If you have a live in lover, again either straight or gay, you pay the same taxes. If you get married, the taxes change a bit and you get extended benefits like spousal coverage and family coverage on insurance. But just like the gay person, the straight person living with someone doesn't get those benefits either. Just like the Gay person, the straight person living by themselves do not get the benefits. So this isn't discrimination against gays at all, it's favoritism towards married people.

      Now it's being presented as discrimination due to sexuality, but that's only a perversion of the facts to advance a cause. Otherwise the push would be to get these same benefits for live in girlfriends and so on as well. Th legal restriction does not create a situation of discrimination in other areas outside of the restriction. It simply creates a special advantage to those who are not subject to the restriction and take advantage of it. In other words, They are treating unmarried people like unmarried people and married people with extra benefits. It's not discrimination against gays, it's discrimination against unmarried people if any discrimination is going on.

    344. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      Anti-gay christians have a serious problem. Namely, they ignore all of the other sins that they and others commit and focus singly on the issue of homosexuality and assign to it a place of prominence above that which the bible intended.

      I do not see these same people threateninig, protesting, and ostracizing liars or adulterers in the same way as homosexuals, yet those activities are listed in the same passages with homosexuality. Just remember, most people can't be bothered with actually reading the Bible in a way that conveys real meaning. Besides, it might contradict what they want it to say so completely they would have to face their own hypocracy, and that is never a pleasant thing. Doubly so for the self righteous and convinced.

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    345. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      [Anti-gay Christians] base this on a selective reading of the Old Testament

      • Gen 19:5-8: "and they called to Lot and said to him, 'Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us that we may have relations with them.' But Lot went out to them at the doorway, and shut the door behind him, and said, 'Please, my brothers, do not act wickedly.'"
      • Lev 18:22-23: "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."
      • Lev 20:13: "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death."
      • Cor 6:9: "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals"
      • Tim 1:9-10: "realizing the fact that (civil) law is not made for a righteous man, but for those who are lawless and rebellious, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers and immoral men and homosexuals and kidnappers and liars and perjurers"
      • Rom 1:26-27: "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error."

      Now, I fully agree with you that the majority of anti-gay Christians are anti-gays who use the above passages to justify their bigotry, but hey, it's called bigotry for a reason.

      However, I'll have to challenge you to select other passages from the bible that contradict or refute the ones quoted above. Sure, that filthy hippy Jesus waffled some peacenik tree hugging propaganda about loving and forgiving sinners, but I don't recall him saying that it wasn't a sin.

      That's right if the Bible doesn't say it just rewrite it. The word homosexual does not occur in the bible only in the translations written within the last few years!

    346. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      Also, none of this changes that the society has made living as a heterosexual couple cheaper than a homosexual one. Assuming that being mainly attracted to your own gender or the opposite isn't a matter of choice - that is, that you can't choose your sexual turn-ons - it's rather hard to see this as anything but unfairly discriminating against homosexuals.

      Except, that from a societal point of view, homosexuality provides nothing of value outside of that relationship. Heterosexual pairings frequently provide additional taxpayers.

    347. Re:Why so discriminating? by XxtraLarGe · · Score: 1

      Are you purporting that Christ advocated a strict adherence to the old law? Because Paul certainly did.

      You mean this Paul? Acts 21:20-21:

      20 When they heard this, they praised God. Then they said to Paul: "You see, brother, how many thousands of Jews have believed, and all of them are zealous for the law. 21 They have been informed that you teach all the Jews who live among the Gentiles to turn away from Moses, telling them not to circumcise their children or live according to our customs."

      You don't know what you're talking about.

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    348. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      "You really can't be gay and be a Christian, they're incompatible."

      This sentence, and the thoughts behind it, are just plain silly and convey a lack of understanding of Christianity at the most fundamental level.

      True, homosexuality is a sin according to the bible, but so is gossiping, lying, running people down, feeling jealous, guilty, or bitter, and being implaccable in your personal relationships. None of those sins, or any of the other more "serious" sins like theft, rape, murder, etc. will exclude someone from being a Christian. Far from it.

      Christianity is a belief in a God that understands the human condition completely and as a result has found a way, through the work of Christ, to bridge the gulf between Himself, a perfect, sinless diety, and sinful, imperfect mankind. Considering homosexuality, or any sin for that matter, as an insurmountable obstacle between man and God is completely antithetical to the entire message of the Bible.

      Now don't take this as me trying to convince you to believe in God or the Bible as the holy word of God. That is up to you to make a determination for yourself, and it seems you have. However, at the very least you should be accurate and informed about the text and the message that is contained within it. It would be good for many Christians to take that same advice as well. For one, it would eliminate all of this commotion about homosexuality immediately.

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    349. Re:Why so discriminating? by drsmithy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The value of marriage, compared to homosexuality, is that it usally leads to children, which will grow up and then pay taxes that are necessary sustain our standards of living in the long term.

      Which is irrelevant, since homosexuals being married doesn't prevent any of that.

      That's the basis for all pro-family / pro-marriage / etc. policies.

      They're not "pro-marriage", they're "anti-gay". If they were just "pro-marriage", then they wouldn't give a damn about the gender of the two people getting married, since the likelihood of a married and unmarried gay couple producing children is the same, and has zero impact on whether or not a heterosexual couple will produce children (within marriage or otherwise).

      It's not a moral debate, just a social one.

      It's absolutely a moral debate. There's no social reason to prevent homosexuals from marrying.

    350. Re:Why so discriminating? by 2obvious4u · · Score: 1

      A reduction in fertility isn't enough to stop exponential growth. 500 million, 2 billion, 5 billion, 10 billion... Global population since the industrial revolution. citation

      But as a counter to my own point. xkcd

    351. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 0, Troll

      The ones that say stuff like "thou shalt not worship false idols" or "don't worship false gods" etc, ie the AV, KJV and NIV were common. There was also a gaelic one but I don't know gaelic so it wasn't much use.

      If their sin was simply worshipping other gods he could just say that rather than go into specifics of mentioning sexual "deviancy". The fact that he did go into specifics makes it seem like those specifics themselves are considered wrong.

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    352. Re:Why so discriminating? by drsmithy · · Score: 1

      I think the purpose homosexuality serves [...]

      What is the basis of your assumption that it must serve a purpose ?

      Homosexuality is likely a simple random mutation, which is why it shows up at roughly the same rate regardless of other factors, and why that rate doesn't change over time.

    353. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why is it okay to discriminate against people in such an expensive way? That's like taxing tampons or pads because they know that 50% of people need them. It conflicts with the Christian moral agenda in the first place in so many ways...

      Why is it ok for Christians to force the government to discriminate against gays?

    354. Re:Why so discriminating? by Bakkster · · Score: 1

      I do not take Genesis literally, it is a creation myth. But if we take the general view that all is somehow God's creation and leave the how aside then he sure did create a lot of this thing he does not like.

      It is a myth, which doesn't depend on the truth or untruth of the story for its message. So let's leave the discussion of whether creation happened in 7 24-hour periods 6000 years ago for another time, it's irrelevent to the discussion at hand.

      That said, if you think God's creation can't in-part include things he does not like, you should have bigger issues with the creation story. For example, the serpent. That said, after the fall of man, there is no assumption that creation is perfect in any way (see the creation of a new Heaven and new Earth in Revelation).

      Not only in humans, who are sinful, but also in animals which the catholic catechism describes as "... God's creatures. He surrounds them with his providential care. By their mere existence they bless him and give him glory"

      How did we go from a discussion on what the Bible says, to one backed up by the Catholic Catechism? If that Catechism is fair game, then the act of homosexuality is a sin, end of discussion.

      Even your reference does not say that all (or any) animal behaviors are appropriate for humans. Rather, find me something in the Bible that says (or can even be interpreted) to mean 'because some animals are gay, it's alright for a human to be gay as well'.

      In the end I think the whole discussion is pretty much irrelevant. People are not here to judge (that's someone else's job), we are here to forgive each other's trespasses as best we can and help each other through this thing called life. That's the way it was taught to me at least.

      That depends. Forgiveness for those who seek it, yes. However, those who pursue a sinful lifestyle are different. They should first be gently rebuked and counseled (Galatians 6:1-2), yet if they are unrepentant they should be removed from the church (1 Corinthians 5). Note the difference is pride in the actions. Galatians speaks of teaching each other to live free from sin, with an echo of the grace and forgiveness they have already received from God. In Corinthians, we are speaking of unrepentant sin (and sexual sin at that, making the determination of the sinfulness of homosexuality incredibly important) from those who refuse to acknowledge their sin. Also note that there is an exclusion for those who are not Christians, since they will already be judged for their sins, they need no additional guilt.

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    355. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      You don't know what you're talking about.

      Citations aside, sticking to the gospels is definitely the way to go.

    356. Re:Why so discriminating? by smithmc · · Score: 1

      Sure, that filthy hippy Jesus waffled some peacenik tree hugging propaganda...

      Actually, Jesus was a tree killer, not a tree huger.

      Matthew 21:18: Early in the morning, as Jesus was on his way back to the city, he was hungry. Seeing a fig tree by the road, he went up to it but found nothing on it except leaves. Then he said to it, "May you never bear fruit again!" Immediately the tree withered.

      Just sayin

      Sheesh, that Jesus. What a petty, vindictive jackass. Who'd base their whole belief system around such a jerkoff?

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    357. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Basically, you don't just rape strangers. You take them in, feed them, and so on. Even offer them one (or some) of your women.

      Exactly! It's all about luring them into a false sense of security, is what I've always said. First you're nice, you feed them, offer them a place to rest, give them some wine... then WHAM! Give 'em your wife, and head for the hills!

      Sadly, it hasn't worked for me yet. Seems to be a dealbreaker when they first hear her bellow, or see her face. Total strangers can run like gazelle, lemme tell ya - even that one legged guy. I'm not sure how I can get any sneakier, but I'll keep trying!

    358. Re:Why so discriminating? by smithmc · · Score: 1

      A government needs to treat its citizens equally. It either gives tax breaks for couples or it doesn't, but only giving them to heterosexual couples is unfair.

      Unfortunately, a government doesn't "need" to do anything as long as its sheeple "citizens" are willing to put up with it.

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    359. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's also possible that homosexuality serves no natural purpose at all other than some people enjoy it.

      Most recreational actives serve no natural purpose and I can't imagine that homosexual intercourse is any different.

      Hell, even most heterosexual intercourse is for recreational purposes only and measures are taken to prevent the natural purpose from ever coming to fulfillment.

    360. Re:Why so discriminating? by zeroshade · · Score: 1

      You assume that the movement about what someone does (have sex with people of the same gender) has nothing to do with what they are born like. The entire point is there is no difference between removing civil rights for someone who is black, for someone who is a woman, and for someone who is homosexual. In all three cases you are removing rights from a person on the basis of something they were born with. As the GP says, regardless of your background, heritage, sex, religion, sexual preference, you should be allowed to get married.

    361. Re:Why so discriminating? by Spykk · · Score: 1

      You really can't be gay and be a Christian, they're incompatible.

      It should be mentioned that while the bible says homosexual activity is a sin, it also says that all men are sinners. If people who sin are incompatible with christianity then no one is compatible with it.

    362. Re:Why so discriminating? by smithmc · · Score: 1

      Of course, the whole reason why this exists is to encourage HAVING CHILDREN. Last time I checked, homosexuals lack both types of plumbing to pull this off. So why should they get the tax benefits of married people, if I, as an unmarried single person without kids cannot?

      I guess you've never heard of adoption? Do you know how many abandoned, unloved children there are in this world, who would be infinitely better off as the adopted child of a gay couple than tossed into the foster-care system?

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    363. Re:Why so discriminating? by retchdog · · Score: 1

      2-3. Thank you: a splendidly humorous bit of rules-lawyering! I'll have to remember that one in case it ever comes up...

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    364. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah it's Statutory Rape, which they treat as being as bad as pedophilia.

      About the time I was leaving high school there was a big push about statutory rape and how you needed to find out a girl's age so you weren't the 19 year old guy going away to prison for banging the wrong girl.

      Not that it affected me, I'm living in my mom's garage, didn't have sex until I was 23 and haven't had any in 2 years anyhow!

    365. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 1

      None of those sins, or any of the other more "serious" sins like theft, rape, murder, etc. will exclude someone from being a Christian. Far from it.

      I guess "go and sin no more" means something else to you than anyone else who reads that sentence.

      You can't live a life of "sin" and be a Christian. It's completely anathema to what the religion teaches and was founded upon. While all men (and women) fail to live a perfect life, any preacher will tell you you can't purposefully keep doing the things your god say you shouldn't and expect to get into heaven.

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    366. Re:Why so discriminating? by Miseph · · Score: 1

      The story of Sodom and Gomorrah has nothing to do with consensual adult relationships. It is thoroughly irrelevant to the question of gay marriage, and serves only as a red herring.

      The clearest prohibition, from Leviticus, is wedged in between eating pork and picking up sticks on the Sabbath, and uses the same Hebrew adjective "toevah" as many, largely ignored, Levitical prohibitions. My experience is that those people who view homosexuality as inherently immoral read the Bible as confirming such belief, while people who do not view it as one more item on the list of fulfilled Law.

      There are far more, and far clearer, prohibitions against heterosexual intercourse and the acquisition of material wealth. The latter was, in fact, one of the key points in the ministry of Jesus of Nazareth... when all of the Christians start advocating for the renunciation of wealth and start giving away their money and possessions freely to those in need, I'll consider taking seriously their cries about the evils of homosexuality: until then, it's just hypocrisy bigotry.

      Of course, none of that matters, because the US is not a Christian nation. Explicitly. The Treaty of Tripoli, a ratified foreign treaty legally equivalent to The Constitution itself as the highest law of the land, makes it so. Biblical law has no relevance in the law and governance of these United States.

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    367. Re:Why so discriminating? by DriedClexler · · Score: 1

      ROFL at whatever story was behind getting tampons classified as a luxury.

      Was it a Mr. Burns-like superwealthy idiot who couldn't understand this "new" contraption, but enjoys his delicious "iced cream"?

      Was it an old spinster who considers any woman to be "pretty well off for herself" if she can still bear children?

      Was it a really old woman who gauges things as luxuries based on how easy they were to obtain while living on a farm in rural England in the 30s?

      Do tell!

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    368. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      (and the only laws of the old testament that were "updated" in the new testament were ones to do with sacrifices and what you could put into your body).

      Isn't homosexuality (and sexuality in general) all about what you put into your body?

    369. Re:Why so discriminating? by Lord+Kano · · Score: 1

      base this on a selective reading of the Old Testament

      I hope you realize that you quoted New Testament verses as well.
      You do realize that, right?

      LK

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    370. Re:Why so discriminating? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure what rights you are talking about. Under current law, anybody is allowed to marry any person of the opposite sex who is not related to them or married to someone else who is willing to marry them. So what right(s) that everyone else has is it that you want to give to homosexuals?

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    371. Re:Why so discriminating? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      What rights that everyone else has are homosexuals deprived of?

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    372. Re:Why so discriminating? by ultranova · · Score: 1

      Except, that from a societal point of view, homosexuality provides nothing of value outside of that relationship. Heterosexual pairings frequently provide additional taxpayers.

      Since 10+% unemployment seems to be a permanent feature of modern capitalism, I'd say that it's not a matter of providing taxpayers, but of not creating social security -getters.

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    373. Re:Why so discriminating? by BobMcD · · Score: 1

      Except, that from a societal point of view, homosexuality provides nothing of value outside of that relationship. Heterosexual pairings frequently provide additional taxpayers.

      Since 10+% unemployment seems to be a permanent feature of modern capitalism, I'd say that it's not a matter of providing taxpayers, but of not creating social security -getters.

      Okay, but that's sort of a non-point as well. As evidenced by the desire to give citizenship to illegals it should be clear that the present government wants to add to the census numbers. For better or worse, this certainly seems clear.

    374. Re:Why so discriminating? by yyxx · · Score: 1

      It's not a "democratic society" if offended people can oppress minorities. A democracy does not give you the right not to be offended. In fact, any political system that protects people from being offended simply cannot be democratic.

    375. Re:Why so discriminating? by mattack2 · · Score: 1

      This was actually a fun conversation I had with the local jehova's witness lady who seemed to think an unmarried guy living with female roommates was somehow at high risk for "catching gay" along with other seemingly incompatible sins.

      So Mr. Roper was a Jehovah's Witness?

    376. Re:Why so discriminating? by yyxx · · Score: 1

      Of course, the whole reason why this exists is to encourage HAVING CHILDREN.

      Yeah, like a planet with 6 billion people and a nation with 330 million people needs more CHILDREN.

      Besides, if marriage were about having children, why not just give benefits to couples with children? Why should childless marriages or women past menopause receive any benefits?

      So why should they get the tax benefits of married people, if I, as an unmarried single person without kids cannot?

      Probably because your assumption about the reasons for legal support of marriage are wrong. It's not about children, it's about creating a legal framework for partnerships because that's arguably a good thing. And having stable gay relationships is just as beneficial to society as having stable straight relationships, regardless of whether there are kids involved or not.

      So, either (1) abolish legal marriage altogether and treat everybody equally, (2) provide tax and legal benefits only for couples with children, or (3) provide tax and legal benefits to all stable, committed couples. None of those depend on the gender of the partners involved.

    377. Re:Why so discriminating? by yyxx · · Score: 1

      The Malthusian disaster is already here; we're in the middle of a mass extinction and are consuming resources at a totally unsustainable rate.

      A sustainable and reasonable world population is under one billion; there is no reason to have a world population larger than that. And the only way to get there is to have fertility rates below replacement for an extended period of time.

    378. Re:Why so discriminating? by whisper_jeff · · Score: 1

      The right to be treated like everyone else in society. Have you not been paying attention?

    379. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My statement, as you and many others quoted, wasn't addressing the origination of any would-be adopted child. I was simply stating that homosexual couples, in my opinion, should not be eligible to adopt. Without any research or stats (both of which can be twisted), is it not logical to assume that any child raised by homosexual parents is LIKELY to find homosexuality socially acceptable? I believe it is logical to assume just that. And taking that further, this child will grow up and likely perpetuate such an attitude. Thus, an increase in adoptions by homosexual couples could result in a higher social acceptance of homosexual behavior.

      I find homosexuality to be wrong because it just doesn't make sense. It's not meant to happen, it's not what we are built to do. I've seen many argue against this with documented homosexual behavior in animals, but the difference is that we KNOW better. Even the child that is born gay learns and understands that he/she is not normal in the context of a very basic human attribute. For clarification, I am an atheist, so religion has no bearing on my opinions.

      If someone is born gay, that person is not meant to have children.

      When it comes down to it, this is really about agendas. Logic will never prevail in social matters, and "survival of the fittest" will continue to fade into irrelevance. It's not about punishment or persecution, it's about taking responsibility for what and who you are.

    380. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      whoever marked these "troll", you're an idiot. I don't have a problem with homosexuality, but I do believe that Christians should stand up for their scriptures rather than wussing out whenever the bible says something that the public might take offence at.

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    381. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      First, the sentence you refer to does not say anywhere "if you sin you are going to hell." In fact, no sentence in the Bible says this. So, apparently, the sentence you quote means something different to you than it means to anyone else.

      If you want to quote scriptures though, we can do that. Do you remember, "all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." If sinning means you are going to hell then everyone is going to hell. How about the verse every young child has drilled into their heads (if they go to protestant churches that is): "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." It does not say "...that whoever stops sinning shall not perish..." More directly, Revelation 20:13 states those not provided salvation by the imputation of the righteousness of God through belief in Christ(written in the book of life) will be judged according to their works. Notice it does not mention sin anywhere in that sentence. It is because sin was removed from the equation purpousely by God through the work of Jesus Christ.

      Furthermore, there are passages that deal with the ongoing problem of sin and describe the mechanics of how Christians can maintain daily fellowship. For instance: "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness." Notice again that this does not say "...and let us in to heaven" because the problem of sin was resolved once and for all by Christ's spiritual death and propitiatory sacrifice while on the cross.

      "any preacher will tell you you can't purposefully keep doing the things your god say you shouldn't and expect to get into heaven."

      Any "preacher" who intentionally contradicts the explicit text of the Bible in this way is not a person I would listen to and nor should you.

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    382. Re:Why so discriminating? by jwhitener · · Score: 1

      Is this incorrect?

      "The world's current (overall as well as natural) growth rate is about 1.14%, representing a doubling time of 61 years. We can expect the world's population of 6.5 billion to become 13 billion by 2067 if current growth continues. The world's growth rate peaked in the 1960s at 2% and a doubling time of 35 years."

      http://geography.about.com/od/populationgeography/a/populationgrow.htm

    383. Re:Why so discriminating? by roadkill-maker · · Score: 1

      If this were true, it wouldn't require a label, and people wouldn't feel the need to badge themselves with that label on slashdot.

      Lack of evidence is hardly the only criteria for 'delusions', yet this dogmatic rhetoric belies the intention to assert your faith onto others.

      If you look at the definition of religion, and the definition of atheism, its clear that atheism is not a religion.

      http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/religion

      http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/atheist

      I don't really get why your against giving a name to way people describe what they think on a given topic. It seems you'd rather everyone explain their ideas in full, even when a single word describing it would do equally well.

    384. Re:Why so discriminating? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      regardless of your background, heritage, sex, religion, sexual preference, you should be allowed to get married.

      You are, according to the same rules that apply to everyone else.

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    385. Re:Why so discriminating? by nacturation · · Score: 1

      If we ended the singleton tax, the gay marriage "problem" would vanish.

      You could support both a singleton and multiton tax via an abstract tax factory.

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    386. Re:Why so discriminating? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      In what way are homosexuals treated differently then everyone else in society?

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    387. Re:Why so discriminating? by SpaceCadets · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Here in Aussieland, one supermarket chain (can't remember which) pays the GST (Goods and Services Tax) for us. Basically when the GST came out, they kept the 'sanitary products' the same price on the shelf, so we didn't have to pay the 10% extra.

    388. Re:Why so discriminating? by whisper_jeff · · Score: 1

      Clearly, you aren't paying attention. Or you're a troll. Either way, bye.

    389. Re:Why so discriminating? by Etcetera · · Score: 1

      Homosexuality isn't like robbery or assault, it doesn't affect anyone except for those that participate in it.

      You're beating a dead horse... laws against "homosexuality" are void due to Lawrence v. Texas (2003). The question at issue is how and whether society provides some sort of benefit to certain social structures -- and whether private employment law does or does not correlate with that.

    390. Re:Why so discriminating? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      You are right. I am aware of how homosexuals are treated differently. It is acceptable for them to be much more obnoxious than straights.

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    391. Re:Why so discriminating? by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      I think you're missing the point.

      I think the idea is that the religion recognizes that everyone sins at some point, because humans are imperfect and make mistakes. So sinners are supposed to be accepted, but they're supposed to be repentant. However, someone who continues to willfully practice sinful behavior is obviously not repentant, and therefore isn't accomplishing anything by going to church.

      For instance, if you kill someone (not in self-defense), you've sinned. But supposedly God forgives, so you can still be a Christian (while in prison of course), and supposedly go to heaven, but you have to be repentant and remorseful, and (if Catholic) ask for forgiveness. But while the guy who got mad and killed someone once may be able to go to heaven, the guy who keeps going around killing people gleefully is a different case, because he obviously isn't repentant. Any preacher/priest is going to turn away from this killer.

      It's the same thing with practicing homosexuals. If having a gay partner is a sin, and you keep doing it because it makes you happy and you love him/her, then you're obviously not repentant of your supposedly sinful lifestyle, and aren't doing anything to try to get "closer to God" (i.e., magically developing an interest in the opposite sex, getting married, and having babies).

      The parent poster is exactly right. You can't be gay and Christian (or Muslim). They're incompatible, as long as those religions claim that homosexuality is a sin. It's like trying to be a career criminal and a Christian.

      If you want to be religious and homosexual, you need to find another, more tolerant religion. I hear the Unitarians are pretty accepting, if Wicca is too weird for you.

    392. Re:Why so discriminating? by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      As long as the general population has voting rights, without restriction, there's no way to protect the rights of minorities in practice.

    393. Re:Why so discriminating? by spauldo · · Score: 1

      People who didn't own property were not barred from becoming landownders; it was hard, but not impossible, for the poor to rise to the level of the rich. This is unlike the feudal system, where the landowners were the nobility and one could not rise to their level without special appointment from the king.

      The rules about landowners were put in there because the founding fathers felt the average American wouldn't understand politics and voting would be meaningless. At the time, most Americans read at what today would be a third grade level, if at all, and communication between the colonies was slow and error-prone. It was assumed the landowner class would be better informed and able to make proper judgments when voting.

      The landowning requirements were removed once it was realized that by only allowing the rich to vote, the laws would be bent to only helping the rich at the expense of the poor. We still suffer from the problem of uninformed voting.

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    394. Re:Why so discriminating? by spauldo · · Score: 1

      Where do you get the idea there wasn't marriage in the bible?

      There wasn't _legal_ marriage in the bible like we have today (unless you count the tax registration required by the romans), but it was most certainly there. The semitic cultures all had their various dowry and inheritance laws. Actual wedding ceremonies aren't laid down in the bible, but I've always assumed that's because it's unnecessary; everyone knew marriage rituals, since weddings were a major social event.

      A few specific cases:

      Jacob, Leah, and Rachel

      Solomon's 700 wives and 300 concubines

      The wedding at Cana

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    395. Re:Why so discriminating? by spauldo · · Score: 1

      Wow, it's like you've not paid any attention to the last twenty years. Way to keep up.

      AIDS being common in the gay community has more to do with a particular subset of gay culture of the time, where communal bathhouses were a common meeting place for gays in places like San Francisco. Most gay men didn't frequent them anyway, and you don't see those any more specifically because of the AIDS problem. Today the vast majority of AIDS patients are heterosexuals.

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    396. Re:Why so discriminating? by gig · · Score: 1

      > seeing as the bible is clearly anti-asspounding

      No, it's not. Somehow, Jesus of Nazareth managed not to say a single fucking thing about homosexuality even though HE LIVED IN FUCKING ANCIENT ROME.

      And no, that one tired line from Leviticus is NOT IN THE FUCKING CHRISTIAN BIBLE YOU MORON.

      So grow up.

      And to the other moron who wrote the parent post: anti-discrimination measures are not discriminatory. Heterosexuals are not a fucking minority. The government is taking money from homosexuals and giving it to heterosexuals, including the heterosexuals who work at Google. That is an incontrovertible fact of accounting science. Taking steps to nullify that is not tipping the scales in favor of homosexuals, it is balancing the scales.

    397. Re:Why so discriminating? by euroq · · Score: 1

      Do not be deceived ; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.

      That's not what the bible says. It's what NAS says. The actual word that was translated into the word "homosexual" was actually a male prostitute; male prostitutes would have had sex with men and women. But prostitute is much more appropriately what was meant in the year ~100 AD than the what the word "homosexual" means in 2010 AD.

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    398. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 1

      By your understanding of the bible one could go about murdering with impunity and yet still go to heaven because they believe in Jesus. Perhaps you should go read James' epistle before spouting such nonsense.

      In no way can someone maintain a life of sin and be considered a Christian. If you have a problem with this, stop being a Christian and embrace the "sin". It's a lot more fun!

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    399. Re:Why so discriminating? by shermo · · Score: 1

      Did anyone else double take on this guy's username?

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    400. Re:Why so discriminating? by Shihar · · Score: 1

      Democracy implies absolutely nothing about rights of the minority. Democracy is purely 50% + 1 = right and might. We screw around the formula to prevent exactly that. There is a reason why the US is called a Republic and NOT a democracy. The US is a republic because the US has a lot of anti-democratic things in that spell out pretty clearly when the 50% + 1 can go take their majority and shove it. The Bill of Rights in particular spell out clearly when Democracy can go fuck off. The unelected Supreme Court with its ability to override the legislative and executive branches is also a completely anti-democratic institution.

      Democratic institutions are not a bad thing. Stuff that engages the citizenry in political decisions is not all evil. While democratic principles make a pretty decent structure for making decisions, you need more. You need protection for minorities. You need limits on what a majority can do. You probably need a few completely anti-democratic institutions (like a Supreme Court or Bill of Rights) that can whack the government when its democratic excess become too much.

      Frankly, I think the rah-rah for "democracy" has resulted in laziness in terms of our political thinking. I want to see some non-democratic forms of government tried on occasion. How about a system where random citizens are simply drafted by lottery for government positions instead of having elections? What about a system where you don't vote, but simply let a proxy work as your representative. In other words, if 10,000 people say that John Doe is their representative, John Doe has 10,000 votes in the senate. No elections, just convince people to give you their vote.

      I'm just tossing out ideas, and like what we have now, I am sure all of those ideas have weaknesses. The point is that we have stopped trying. How many more developing nations need to have failed corrupt democracies before we try something new?

    401. Re:Why so discriminating? by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Looks like Leviticus 19:19.

      That's good enough to warrant a T-shirt.

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    402. Re:Why so discriminating? by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Rom 1:26-27: "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural

      Anybody else get a little wood from this part? Just me? Okay... I'll be in my bunk.

      Is this the 'God hates dildos' verse?

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    403. Re:Why so discriminating? by uninformedLuddite · · Score: 1

      The lack of hospitality was not allowing them to rape their guests

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    404. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      that one tired line from Leviticus is NOT IN THE FUCKING CHRISTIAN BIBLE YOU MORON.

      It's not just one line, and the "CHRISTIAN BIBLE" is both the Old and New Testaments. I should know after 23 years of church (before I somehow managed to break free of the brainwashing). I'd do some research before calling others morons. Also if you grew up yourself you might not resort to name calling.

      Jesus managed not to say a lot of stuff. He wasn't really into criticism apart from his spaz attack on the guys selling stuff in the temple.

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    405. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      A somersault is a flip, not a twist. You can add in twists if you want of course.

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    406. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      your argument is weak. a heterosexual man has not more legal stance to marry another man than homosexual man. same for lesbians. straight females don't have anymore option to marry females than lesbians. you're doing an apples and oranges comparison, not apples to apples.

    407. Re:Why so discriminating? by Chrisq · · Score: 1

      I always say, if people go to hell for sodomy, then you're going to hell for shaving and wearing a cotton-poly blended T-shirt - both things mentioned in Leviticus...I don't think it specifically mentions T-shirts though.

      There is not a single Christian that some other Christian would not see as "bound for hell". Delightful religion ;-)

    408. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anzya · · Score: 1

      I'm sorry but I think you're a bit off when it comes to Easter. English is one of the few countries where it is even called Easter as seen in this wiki article. In Sweden for instance it's called Påsk.

      Easter was something the Jews celebrated long before Jesus lived. Jesus, being a Jew, is said to have been celebrating Easter before he was taken away.

      Sure, there is a lot of pagan trappings and fertility symbols around it, eggs for instance, but that is not anything any church I've been to have claimed is Christian.

      But Christmas was just like you said an holiday modified from the pagans rituals as was Hallows-eve.

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    409. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anzya · · Score: 1

      If I could I would have modded you up. IIRC, what they called homosexual in ancient Rome was not what we would call it today. Back then it was mostly about having sex with young boys. Just like you said, a long way from consensual homosexual relationships.

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    410. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anzya · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure that you are right at all points but I can't understand why you where modded troll?

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    411. Re:Why so discriminating? by somersault · · Score: 1

      You're thinking of the "Passover" which is a Jewish festival commemorating the Angel of Death killing all the firstborn children in Egypt. Christians don't celebrate Passover.

      Looking at your article it does say that Easter has come from the passover, I wasn't aware of that. It also does mention the Germanic goddess Eostre though, and that article mentions that she can be thought of as a fertility goddess, and that the eggs thing is of Germanic origin.

      I have heard some people say the eggs are meant to symbolise the rock that was rolled from Christ's tomb, and some people roll eggs down hills. But obviously the whole egg thing did not come from there, and neither did worship of the Easter Bunny :p

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    412. Re:Why so discriminating? by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Uh, yes, it is enough. What part of 'sixty-four nations below replacement' and everybody else on the way didn't you understand? Let me try to spell it out for you: more than a quarter of the nations on earth are shrinking, and the other 75%, while still growing, are seeing that rate of growth decrease steadily. If that trend remains true, it is a simple mathematical fact that growth will stop. The end.

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    413. Re:Why so discriminating? by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Mass extinctions enabled you to exist. Mass extinctions are in many ways the engine that drives evolution in punctuated equilibrium. Without environmental pressure, what is going to select the most robust forms of life? There are a lot of things that can survive only in resource saturated biospheres, and through every major change these life forms die. 99% of all species that have ever existed on earth are extinct, the vast majority without any help from us. Whether we are causing extinctions or not is immaterial, species will die regardless, as they always have and always will.

      We, if anything, are getting in the way of new paradigms in the biosphere with our retarded, paternalistic idea of 'conservation' as though this is the one perfect biosphere and there is no way that old species would have to give way to newer species. We are trying to stand in the way of evolution itself, crying 'save this, save that!' That's not how life develops. SOME THINGS MUST DIE IN ORDER FOR OTHER THINGS TO LIVE.

      The whole thing about resources is bullshit too. The earth is, for all intents and purposes, a closed system. All the metals we've pulled out of the ground aren't going anywhere. Your trashcan is not a magical portal to another dimension. I'd be extremely surprised if in the next century there were not efforts to exhume landfills just to recover all the raw materials that people were previously too lazy to bother with. Fossil fuels are the only truly non-renewable resource, but there's so much energy around us we're really just using them because we're lazy. The technology for replacement all exists now, we're just not in any hurry to implement it.

      One billion? You really are a neo-Malthusian. Of course, why shouldn't the grand, all-wise yyxx determine the value of human life arbitrarily for the entire world. Fuck all those people who want to have the freedom to decide what kind of family they want. You probably don't even have kids and have no frame of reference for the experience, but you think you can decide for the whole world what they should and shouldn't do. What monumental, disgusting conceit.

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    414. Re:Why so discriminating? by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      The key phrase there is 'if current growth continues' which means if the rate of growth remains static. A really silly thing to say especially since the piece itself acknowledges that the growth rate was twice as high mere decades ago, and the current rates of growth are shrinking worldwide. So, yes, it's technically correct, if you live in the magical fairy land where rates never change and decades-long trends come to a grinding halt for no apparent reason.

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    415. Re:Why so discriminating? by butterflysrage · · Score: 1

      The same Paul who advocated hatred and discrimination against women? Sounds really Christ-like to me... *eyerolls*

      There is a reason why discrimitroy christians are called "paulians".

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    416. Re:Why so discriminating? by mounce · · Score: 1

      Hey, pay increase, wait-a-sec, I'm gay, and so's my wife!

    417. Re:Why so discriminating? by jahudabudy · · Score: 1

      I said couples; married couples have all sorts of rights that non-married couples do not. If you are homosexual, you do not have the option to marry. Ergo, heterosexual couples have access to rights homosexual couples do not. However, your definition of homosexual (must have sex) means that two men that were a couple but not having sex would not be a homosexual couple. Would it be ok for two men in this arrangement to receive the same rights as a husband and wife?

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    418. Re:Why so discriminating? by yyxx · · Score: 1

      Mass extinctions enabled you to exist. Mass extinctions are in many ways the engine that drives evolution in punctuated equilibrium.

      Quite right; and I'd like for this equilibrium not to be punctuated for many millions of years longer so that the human race actually has a chance to grow up.

      We, if anything, are getting in the way of new paradigms in the biosphere

      You bet we are getting in the way. That's because the "current paradigm" is our paradigm. If the "current paradigm" is replaced by a new one, we and all of our primate and mammalians relatives are going to go with it.

      The earth is, for all intents and purposes, a closed system. All the metals we've pulled out of the ground aren't going anywhere.

      Elemental abundance is not the limiting factor for raw materials, ease of extraction is. Using resources means transforming them from a comparatively easily accessible form into a nearly useless form.

      One billion? You really are a neo-Malthusian. Of course, why shouldn't the grand, all-wise yyxx determine the value of human life arbitrarily for the entire world.

      It's you who devalues human life by arguing that people should procreate like lemmings with no regard to consequences.

      Fuck all those people who want to have the freedom to decide what kind of family they want. You probably don't even have kids and have no frame of reference for the experience, but you think you can decide for the whole world what they should and shouldn't do. What monumental, disgusting conceit.

      No, the "monumental, disgusting conceit" is that you are arguing for selfish, unlimited reproduction in the face of extreme global poverty and suffering.

    419. Re:Why so discriminating? by Dread_ed · · Score: 1

      I have read James' epistle. I don't think it means what you think it means, and systematic theology doesn't either. As for murdering people, David (as in Star of) did murder people with impunity (and premeditation and evil intent) and he will be in heaven, so I can't understand where you get your ideas from. It isn't the Bible.

      The Bible deals with this subject plainly and simply and yet people still get it mixed up. Temporal discipline for belivers out of fellowship through sin is a major topic throughout the entire text. Even the ultimate punishment for a believer out of fellowship for a prolonged time is discussed and repeatedly demonstrated. This punishment has nothing to do with hell, though. These fully developed concepts run throughout the Bible and are not only repeated in anecdotes, explanation, and instruction, but are the basis for other accepted and easily verifiable doctrines. So you see, it is not just one passage that directly contradicts the ideas you present.

      A study of the concept of grace would probably help you understand, though I am beginning to perceive you do not want to understand. I am feeling you would rather publicly bash a strawman than learn what the truth is. Or possibly you would rather spread innacurate information that is easily ridiculed out of some distaste for the Bible. If either is true, and I hope it is not, you are only mocking yourself.

      As for me embracing "sin," I have, and to a much greater level than most. It is just like any other addictive habit, fun in small doses but increasingly burdensome when you indulge too much. Eventually it will erode your volition and your enjoyment and all you have left is empty repetition, lacking both pleasure and meaning. From my experience there are much higher pursuits than hedonism, regardless of your disposition towards Christ. Additionally, it is just good practice to avoid mental attitude sins like jealousy, vindictiveness, pride, implacability, and bitterness. They are the direct path to self-induced misery.

      I leave you with this: "For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith--and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God" Again, salvation discussed yet no mention of sin. In fact, this passage reveals the way in which God approaches all of mankind: through grace. Once you understand the idea that God does all the work necessary for mankind to have salvation, and that He gives this salvation to anyone freely without them having to work for it, then you have the cornerstone of the concept of grace. We, as humans, do nothing to earn or deserve the salvation we have available to us, nor do we have to work to receive or keep that salvation. Christ did everything necessary to remove the barrier of sin and the accompanying condemnation while on the cross. All men need to do is acknowledge that work to receive the fruits of His labor.

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    420. Re:Why so discriminating? by yyxx · · Score: 1

      Democracy implies absolutely nothing about rights of the minority. Democracy is purely 50% + 1 = right and might.

      Well, centuries of social and political thought disagree with you.

      We screw around the formula to prevent exactly that. There is a reason why the US is called a Republic and NOT a democracy.

      Oh, please, not that b.s. again. The US is a representative democracy, just like most other modern Western nations. "Republic" is just a more generic and traditional term.

      Frankly, I think the rah-rah for "democracy" has resulted in laziness in terms of our political thinking.

      Nothing "lazy" about it; we constantly tinker with our system of representation. That's why people elect senators now, why California has referendums, why we have primaries, etc. Those are all fairly recent innovations. And I'm sure more things will change this century.

    421. Re:Why so discriminating? by ElectricTurtle · · Score: 1

      Humans are not hyperadapted to the current biosphere. In case you hadn't noticed, we're not all that different from our ancestors in the late Pleistocene. Many extinctions have happened over the course of human and pre-human existence, and we have survived them all. We used to eat mammoths, but their extinction did not cause ours. Humans are more adaptable than any animal before us ever has been because we solve problems critically. Humans are dependent not a resource, or a handful of resources, like a specialized animal, but instead we can use damn near any resource in (relative to other animals) virtually unlimited ways. The only way to kill humans would be to attack the biological complexity of the organism itself, because shifting the resources we consume would just inconvenience us and make us use our secondary or tertiary choices for things we would normally do.

      Ease of extraction my ass. Ask a metallugist if it's easier to get aluminum from ore or from a discarded soda can. In the latter case all of the heavy lifting has been done, it costs far less to reprocess than to extract. Of course not all materials are so easy, but you see that's how thresholds work, as soon as it becomes more difficult to extract from the ground than from discarded materials, instantly you will see an industry form around recovering the discarded materials. 'Uselessness' is entirely relative to demand, and as reprocessing of each material is developed, the technologies required are refined and cheapened, ultimately driving the efficiency up and the cost down for recovered materials. The problem solves itself.

      I expected the usual Malthusian morality of 'population causes poverty'. What unmitigated shit. Try to wrap your head around this: the population of the world had more impoverished people per capita at 1 billion than it does now at over 6 billion. This is a pure and simple fact. In absolute terms there may be more poverty, but the ratio of the impoverished to those above poverty is incontrovertibly better today than at levels of lower population. So, you would have people sacrifice their freedom and their happiness to retrogress the whole humanity to a state where a greater portion is impoverished, just so long as the absolute number is lower? Pathetic.

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    422. Re:Why so discriminating? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      So basically you are suggesting that we make marriage be something that involves any two people? I don't see any reason to apply a word with perfectly understood meaning (a particular type of relationship between a man and woman) to a new social construction. Why don't we develop a new term for this new idea, like maybe "domestic partnership"?

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    423. Re:Why so discriminating? by ozphx · · Score: 1

      But not knock the importance of what the Founders started just because they didn't go all the way.

      Started? They didnt start a movement deliberately, they just wanted the British to fuck off so they could keep all the plantations and slaves and shit.

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    424. Re:Why so discriminating? by Draykwing · · Score: 1

      There is a crucial flaw in your argument: Neither animals nor children can give informed consent, and that is why marriages with them are not permitted. I don't think anyone can argue that homosexual persons are incapable of giving informed consent.

      (Group marriages are an entirely different issue, because society has come to associate them both with shady tax manipulation as well as underage 'marriages'. Those were the reasons they were made illegal, rather than any inherent issue. I personally have no interest in group marriages, but feel that they should be permitted provided that 1.) They provide no financial benefit beyond what a single marriage provides [thus eliminating the shady tax manipulation] and 2.) that they follow the existing laws regarding informed consent [thus eliminating the pedophilia sub-issue])

      tl;dr:
      1.) Restrictions who is eligible for marriage should be limited to issues of consent
      2.) Financial benefits from marriage should be identical in all cases

      Anything beyond that is not the government's business.

      On a side topic, I find myself wondering how long the Republican Party can continue to exist as a single entity, when it has two diametrically opposed motivations. Motivation #1 is 'small government' - that the government should stay out of citizens' private lives. Motivation #2 is the 'moral crusade' - the portion of the party that feels that gay marriage is immoral, etc. These motivations are opposed because while #1 decries any invasion of individuals' right to make their own choices, #2 requires such invasions to succeed.

    425. Re:Why so discriminating? by yyxx · · Score: 1

      Humans are not hyperadapted to the current biosphere.

      Hyperadaptation has nothing to do with it. In past mass extinctions, dominant classes changed, and with them many species became extinct.

      In case you hadn't noticed, we're not all that different from our ancestors in the late Pleistocene. Many extinctions have happened over the course of human and pre-human existence, and we have survived them all. We used to eat mammoths, but their extinction did not cause ours.

      We're in the middle of a mass extinction; you can't infer anything about the long term effect of mass extinction based on whether we survived short term, local extinction effects.

      Humans are dependent not a resource, or a handful of resources, like a specialized animal, but instead we can use damn near any resource in (relative to other animals) virtually unlimited ways.

      Western nations can currently get away with monocultures and effectively chemically synthesizing food because of the use of vast amounts of energy per capita. That's not sustainable. If we had unlimited amounts of energy, we wouldn't have to drill through miles of rock in the Gulf in order to tap oil reserves there.

      Ease of extraction my ass. Ask a metallugist if it's easier to get aluminum from ore or from a discarded soda can. In the latter case all of the heavy lifting has been done,

      And soda can recycling is a great idea. Unfortunately, the heavy lifting it becomes undone as soon as you mix that soda can with tons of other trash and bury it in a landfill for a few decades.

      than at levels of lower population. So, you would have people sacrifice their freedom and their happiness to retrogress the whole humanity to a state where a greater portion is impoverished, just so long as the absolute number is lower? Pathetic.

      Decreases in poverty are largely the result of technological progress; that progress occurred in nations with lower population growth. If we hadn't had population explosions in Africa and Asia over the last century, we'd now be doing much better both in absolute numbers and in percentages.

      Even if population growth were an answer to poverty, it is simply impossible to sustain a 1-2% percent growth rate per year (world population growth rate over the last century) indefinitely. That's not a Malthusian consideration, it's simply physically impossible.

      Humans are more adaptable than any animal before us ever has been because we solve problems critically.

      Some apparently less so than others...

    426. Re:Why so discriminating? by corbettw · · Score: 1

      I'll grant that the correct balance between grace and walking the straight and narrow path is a deep and long theological discussion; one which has been debated for 2000 years. What you're advocating is a kind of Antinomianism, which was denounced as a heresy by the early Christian church when the Gnostics first suggested it. It lay dormant for 1500 years until Martin Luther resurrected it. It's still a bitter point of debate and arguably the main cause of the schism in the Western Christian church (the supremacy of the Pope was a secondary cause for much of the Protestant Reformation outside of England).

      Before you go around insisting that your view of the bible is the "one true way", you should have a better understanding of the debate you're entering into. In no way can it be said categorically that Christians are saved through their faith alone, simply because the text can be read in two different ways.

      Which of course strikes at another matter: if the text of "god's inspired word" is so vague on such an important matter, why should it be trusted to give an accurate portrayal of any kind of afterlife, or the means by which to achieve said afterlife? Simply speaking, it cannot. It is an untrustworthy guide at the best of times and outright dangerous at the worst.

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    427. Re:Why so discriminating? by zeroshade · · Score: 1

      regardless of your background, heritage, sex, religion, sexual preference, you should be allowed to get married.

      You are, according to the same rules that apply to everyone else.

      Technically that is incorrect when the "rules that apply to everyone else" specifically state that you are not allowed to get married if you are homosexual.

      Unless you plan on arguing that they are allowed to get married, just not to the person they love. Which is just utter bullshit.

    428. Re:Why so discriminating? by Ricwot · · Score: 1

      The new testament is so full of metaphor it's ridiculous. Jesus is called the word, way, truth and light by John in appeal to different sects, not because it was in any way the revealed word of god, because god doesn't exist. It's probably the best piece of writing in there, and shows the kind of skill displayed by other brilliant classical writers like Cicero and the Greek bucolic poets.

      Lets all just be happy that it's a pile of nonsense: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f40TRJl5vvI

    429. Re:Why so discriminating? by AhabTheArab · · Score: 1

      Pure democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for dinner. That isn't the way the US is supposed to work. The Constitution is specifically designed to protect minorities. Inalienable rights that ALL men possess. Admittedly, it wasn't perfect in the beginning (women, racial minorities), but those issues have been fixed.

    430. Re:Why so discriminating? by AhabTheArab · · Score: 1

      Replying to myself (I know, lame). People have lost sight of the meaning of freedom. I should be able to pursue happiness however I want, so long as I don't impede on your rights to life, liberty and your own pursuit of happiness.

      If I want to get married to a man, and stay home all day so we can jab syringes full of heroin into each other's cocks, why can't I do that? It doesn't affect you. It doesn't affect anybody except me and my man lover. If we OD, or get addicted or whatever - that's our problem not yours. There should be no legal consequences to doing that. Societal punishment is understandable, I'd expect to be treated differently from society at large, but that's no need to lock me and my man lover up.

      But now, everybody wants to legislate everything so they can either:
      1. Profit or..
      2. Push their morals on me

      I don't need you to protect me from myself or save my soul.

    431. Re:Why so discriminating? by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      The problem is that the Constitution is easily changed by elected politicians. Theoretically, it could be amended to not protect minorities, just by the voters demanding it. Obviously, that's easier said than done, but they did pass the 18th Amendment after all.

      The thing that was different about the US in its early days was that only a portion of the population was allowed to vote: educated, land-owning men (not always white men, but usually; varied by state). Now, any idiot can vote, and I think this is causing a lot of our troubles. Some way needs to be found to restrict voting to educated people only, but of course that invites problems in determining what qualifies as properly educated.

    432. Re:Why so discriminating? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not really. It just points out that human psychology can produce some superficial similarities in the myths it develops, regardless of culture.

  2. Andrew by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    ... a tax for gays? w...why?

    1. Re:Andrew by r00t · · Score: 5, Funny

      Sure, why not? We tax alcohol and tobacco too. Are you suggesting that this is a sin tax error?

    2. Re:Andrew by Nitage · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I think what happens is that health benefits to your spouse are tax free. Health benefits to your partner to whom you're not married are not - and gay couples can't get married. Of course this screws over the non-married heterosexual couples - maybe Google should just pay the tax for everyone who gets charged it.

    3. Re:Andrew by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      oh well done. well done.
      you get the cheesiest joke in the thread award!

    4. Re:Andrew by Vectormatic · · Score: 1

      You sir, have made my day! help yourself to one complimentary free internets!

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    5. Re:Andrew by icebraining · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Of course this screws over the non-married heterosexual couples

      But they can get married, so why don't they?

      If they don't want to get married, but think unmarried gay couples shouldn't get benefits they don't have, the solution is obvious: lobby for gay marriage.

    6. Re:Andrew by Per+Wigren · · Score: 1

      But they can get married, so why don't they?

      Maybe because they aren't religious?

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    7. Re:Andrew by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      maybe Google should just pay the tax for everyone who gets charged it.

      This is the only "fair" and "right" thing to do.

      Of course, they also should offer benefits to non-married heterosexual couples.

      Anything else is unfair and discriminatory.

    8. Re:Andrew by wickerprints · · Score: 1

      The problem with the claim that non-married heterosexual couples are discriminated against because they are not offered the same tax breaks as married couples is that they CAN be legally married (whereas same-sex couples cannot gain federal legal marriage status no matter what they do). They simply choose NOT to, for whatever reason; but there are also gay couples who choose to maintain separate legal statuses.

      The claim of discrimination under US federal law due to different treatment of opposite-sex couples and same-sex couples is a valid one because among those couples of either orientation that wish to enter into a binding legal partnership with all its rights and responsibilities, only the former is permitted to do so. However, the claim of discrimination because married opposite-sex couples get certain legal rights that unmarried opposite-sex couples do not is a fallacy, because the latter group HAS the option of filing for legal recognition. They need only apply. But they often don't, because a legally married status is not without its responsibilities and liabilities. If you divorce later on, then alimony is a possibility, for example. So to say that unmarried couples are discriminated against because they can't have the same benefits of married couples is a very distorted understanding of what marriage as a legal construct entails.

      People seem to be under the misapprehension that being legally married is all about benefits, when it's really about becoming unified as a legal entity. Yes, the benefits are significant--they obviously must be, since so many couples do it. However, the preponderance of advantages does not change the fact that the consequences of that unification in the eyes of the law is a double-edged sword.

      I say let same-sex couples marry. They have just as much right to make each other absolutely miserable as straight couples do.

    9. Re:Andrew by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 2, Informative

      Marriage was a civil instritution first, long before it was religious.

    10. Re:Andrew by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

      Of course we should have no sympathy for unmarried opposite sex couples who are against gay marriage.

      But for those who do support gay marriage - there are plenty of reasons why people might not want to get married. Are you seriously suggesting that one must get married just for a tax break?

      People might not believe in or agree with the concept of marriage; they might not want a lifelong commitment yet; they might be polyamorous; they might not agree with all the legal issues that apply when you're married.

      The simplest and best answer is to treat people the same - creating a double-class system is also still bad for gay people, as it perpetuates the idea that they must be treated differently. It also means they have to out themselves at work in order to take advantage of the benefit.

      I'd also argue that we shouldn't have tax breaks that treat married couples different to unmarried ones full stop. Just as you (rightly) call for people who complain to lobby for gay marriage, are you also going to lobby for the tax system to not treat marriage differently?

    11. Re:Andrew by Bill_the_Engineer · · Score: 1

      If they don't want to get married, but think unmarried gay couples shouldn't get benefits they don't have, the solution is obvious: lobby for gay marriage.

      A more practical solution would be for an employee to sue Google for discrimination based on sexual preferences.

      Also you assumed that all gays want to get married. Despite their intention to get married they get the benefit of providing insurance to their partner. Are straight couples who have no intention of getting married afforded this benefit?

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    12. Re:Andrew by Bigbutt · · Score: 1

      Makes me rethink what "Abort, Retry, Ignore?" might actually mean.

      O_o

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    13. Re:Andrew by icebraining · · Score: 1

      Oh, sure, ending marriage benefits as a whole is a good solution too.

      In some countries, they're doing the opposite: they're giving benefits (not only tax breaks) to people that live together, even if they aren't married. Here in Portugal you just have to live with someone for more than two years to get them.

    14. Re:Andrew by icebraining · · Score: 1

      To reiterate, here in Portugal in 2008, there were 23800 civil marriages versus 19200 catholic marriages. Other religions' marriages aren't recognize as official before the law, so people marry as civil too, but those numbers are insignificant.

    15. Re:Andrew by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Neither my wife nor I are religious. There was no mention of any god in our vows.

    16. Re:Andrew by jack2000 · · Score: 1

      Since when is it required to be religious to marry some one? You can get a federal marriage( or equivalent in your country ) where your married-status is legalized before the state.
      No one forces you to get a church wedding after that...

    17. Re:Andrew by canajin56 · · Score: 1

      No it doesn't. If you aren't married, but are living together and getting spousal benefits, you are considered married for tax purposes. Unless you are gay, then you have to pay taxes on those benefits.

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    18. Re:Andrew by euroq · · Score: 1

      Of course, they also should offer benefits to non-married heterosexual couples. Anything else is unfair and discriminatory.

      Well, sorta. The problem all lies with the fact that heterosexuals can marry, and gays can't. So your suggestion would not make everything balanced, it would just create a 3rd category. I believe most gays don't want multiple categories, they want just 1 category.

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    19. Re:Andrew by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Gah, I had to parse that twice to get both meanings.

    20. Re:Andrew by icebraining · · Score: 1

      I think someone should sue the State for discrimination based on sexual preferences first.

      Having a law against discrimination based on sexual preferences and then discriminating based on exactly that in another law is completely hypocritical.

    21. Re:Andrew by Bill_the_Engineer · · Score: 1

      I agree, and as far as I know it has already been done. I think everybody is waiting for SCOTUS' ruling on "Perry v. Schwarzenegger" (the Prop 8 lawsuit).

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  3. Well, heck! We can all be gay! by r00t · · Score: 0

    Got a friend? Want more money?

    If need be, you can use half the money to rent a friend.

    1. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by somersault · · Score: 1

      You can probably do the same thing with opposite sex friends too.

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    2. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by macara · · Score: 3, Funny

      Bromance, now pays better than expected.

    3. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by FuckingNickName · · Score: 2, Insightful

      This. All I see is an article about how the government intrudes into family lives, giving particular benefits to two heterosexuals living together in a particular sort of arrangement but not to singles, homosexuals or people living together under other arranegments. And Google has decided to follow the government's lead by discriminating against everyone whose lifestyle is not that of a particular steady homosexual partnership, e.g. people who remain single / practice polyamory / shack up in a massive commune / sleep around / anything else.

      All this crap about the moving helping in "competing for the same talent" implies that everyone is either in a gay marriage[tm] or straight marriage[tm].

    4. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by CharlyFoxtrot · · Score: 2, Informative

      You really want to be gay-for-pay ?

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    5. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by TheRaven64 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      That was pretty much my reading too. I think the correct solution is to give in to the Christians wanting the state not to recognise gay marriage and go a step further - the state should not recognise any kind of marriage. If you want to sign a contract for shared ownership of possessions and to cohabit with someone, that's possible without marriage law. If you want to get this agreement blessed by your favourite religion, that's not the state's business.

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    6. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by will_die · · Score: 1

      Better yet auction it off on e-bay.
      Have excellent health care plan, sell the partner part for extra cost plus 10-20%. Be sure to get a contract written up that they pay for any deductibles and you good to go.

    7. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by MattSausage · · Score: 1

      I'd mod you up if I could. Either give marriage to all, or remove it to all. Living in rural KY, when I suggested this over a lunchtime discussion of this matter, I thought the guy I was 'discussing' this with was going to choke on his mutton sandwich.

    8. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Weezul · · Score: 1

      You know, people have been marrying for money and security for centuries right? And it's not always that much money, or even that much security.

      Google's health benefits for homosexual couples will require that relationships are serious, well maybe they even ask if you've ever had a commitment ceremony. I'm doubtful many google employees would lie about their relationships for $1k per year, maybe some lie for the health care already, but whatever.

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    9. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Geeky · · Score: 1

      You can probably do the same thing with opposite sex friends too.

      Yeah, like we've got any of those.

      Or even same sex friends for that matter.

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    10. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Hognoxious · · Score: 1

      You know, people have been marrying for money and security for centuries right? And it's not always that much money, or even that much security.

      I'm sure Thomas Jefferson would strongly disapprove.

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    11. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Marriage has certain benefits which cannot be obtained through a contract. The main one is spousal privilege, which prevents someone from being compelled to reveal the content of private communication with their spouse.

    12. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Ihmhi · · Score: 1

      Maybe this could be approached in a Creative Commons, GPL, etc. way?

      Create an open-source "co-habitation contract" that would define all the terms of a modern "marriage". That could be used as a model for legislation to that effect in more liberal states.

    13. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by AnonymousClown · · Score: 2, Funny

      Got a friend? Want more money?

      If need be, you can use half the money to rent a friend.

      After the expenses of Lady Gaga mp3s or Cher (for older partners) of course.

      Gotta have the image.

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    14. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by TheRaven64 · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure about the USA, but in the UK we have standard contracts for various things that you can pick up (not sure if they're free or just really cheap) in the local post office. For example, the standard tenancy agreement is a fill-in-the-blanks agreement for renting a house or flat. There's no reason why you couldn't do the same thing with marriage - produce a standard template contract and have people just tweak the settings that they want.

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    15. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by couchslug · · Score: 1

      Agreed, and I'm a married hetero. People should separate their superstition from law in a secular democracy.

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    16. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Theaetetus · · Score: 3, Insightful

      That was pretty much my reading too. I think the correct solution is to give in to the Christians wanting the state not to recognise gay marriage and go a step further - the state should not recognise any kind of marriage. If you want to sign a contract for shared ownership of possessions and to cohabit with someone, that's possible without marriage law. If you want to get this agreement blessed by your favourite religion, that's not the state's business.

      Actually, it's absolutely the state's business. You're not seeking simply cohabitation or shared ownership, you're seeking a legal agency relationship that trumps the rights of blood relatives, allows for probate-free inheritance, etc. Since the state normally enforces probate and intestate succession, they absolutely must be involved in marriage. When the state is not involved - i.e. common law marriage - the couple does not get these probate benefits, nor do they get to be legal and medical proxies for each other.

      The church has no business being involved, however. They perform weddings and join people in wedlock, which is a purely religious ceremony.

    17. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Depends on the pay. Everyone has their price.

    18. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by ciderVisor · · Score: 1

      Living in rural KY

      Tee hee. Snigger.

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    19. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      I have never heard of a place that forbids homosexuals from marrying just like everyone else. It is just that, like everyone else, they are not allowed to marry someone of the same sex.
      That being said, I believe that Christian Churches should stop recognizing the government's authority to "bless" marriages.

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    20. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by FuckingNickName · · Score: 1

      You're not seeking simply cohabitation or shared ownership, you're seeking a legal agency relationship that trumps the rights of blood relatives,

      Why can't this be arranged in a similar way to Power of Attorney?

      allows for probate-free inheritance, etc.

      You're already introducing a Christian moral principle in considering that a person should be able to give their stuff tax-free to a single qualified other. Then it can be abused anyway by marrying to pass on an inheritance. Then exceptions can be created to minimise abuse. Etc.

      Why can't I marry two people and let them each get half tax-free? Ten for a tenth each? Why can't I marry my son just so he can safely inherit my farm? What is the non-religious principle here?

    21. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by SatanicPuppy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The problem is, that's ALREADY the way it is!

      You can be "secular married" by walking in front of a judge and signing a piece of paper. And indeed, if you're church married, after your church wedding you have to go to the courthouse to sign a legal marriage certificate.

      But you can't do that if you're gay. The problem isn't even religion! Plenty of churches will gay marry a couple, so if all you want is the religious bit, you're fine. But if you want the legal status, you're fucked.

      What gay people want is the right to visit their partners in the hospital, the right to deal with their estate, take care of their kids, all the shit that straight people get for free.

      I'm not gay. Hell, I don't even have any gay friends who aren't total closet cases. But that this shit has managed to stay an issue for this long blows my fucking mind. It's pure discrimination, and it should not be fucking tolerated.

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    22. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by jack2000 · · Score: 1

      Speak for yourself. I know people with very intimate same sex friends.

    23. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      You're not seeking simply cohabitation or shared ownership, you're seeking a legal agency relationship that trumps the rights of blood relatives,

      Why can't this be arranged in a similar way to Power of Attorney?

      Because a Power of Attorney is more like a two-party contract between you and your designated agent. You give that person power to enter into obligations on your behalf, but that's pretty much it. It has no power over other people.
      This is in contrast to a marriage, which is closer to a three-party contract between the two spouses and the state. The state is also bound to certain obligations by the marriage certificate, and thus can be obligated to enforce the marriage against the wishes of next of kin or other blood relatives.

      Additionally, marriages are like insurance: the real benefits don't appear until after something horrible has happened. When your spouse gets hit by a bus and is in a coma, you're the one who can make medical decisions, even over the wishes of their parents. It's tough to get them to sign a power of attorney at that point, however, and how many cohabitating 20 or 30 year olds do you know that have filled out all of the paperwork to create an agency relationship with someone?

      allows for probate-free inheritance, etc.

      You're already introducing a Christian moral principle in considering that a person should be able to give their stuff tax-free to a single qualified other.

      What? That's not Christian... that comes from the relationship of spouses as a single legal entity. Marriage for inheritance purposes predates the Christian church being involved in marriage by more than a thousand years. The church wasn't involved until the Council of Trent.

      Then it can be abused anyway by marrying to pass on an inheritance. Then exceptions can be created to minimise abuse. Etc.

      Why can't I marry two people and let them each get half tax-free? Ten for a tenth each? Why can't I marry my son just so he can safely inherit my farm? What is the non-religious principle here?

      Two things... First, in a marriage, each spouse owns 100% of the common property, not 50%. Thus, if you marry ten people, all ten own 100%, not 10%. Accordingly, when a spouse dies, the remaining spouse inherits tax-free because they already own everything. That's not a big deal for polygamy, just correcting your statement.

      The bigger issue for polygamy is that a spouse is also the legal and medical proxy for an incapacitated spouse. What happens in a three-way marriage when one spouse is in a coma, spouse B says "pull the plug," and spouse C says "keep A alive at any cost"? Under current marriage laws, the hospital must obey the wishes of both B and C, which is clearly impossible.

      Here's the deal - there's nothing inherently wrong with polygamy. It just doesn't fit under current law. New laws, probably based on the Uniform Partnership Act to cope with the above situation and ones like it would need to be written first, because current marriage law would create impossible contradictions.

    24. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Jason+Levine · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I think we need two words for marriage. There's Religious Marriage which involves going to a church/temple/whatever and having your priest/rabbi/whatever declare you husband and wife in the eyes of your religion's god/gods/goddess/etc. Then there's Civil Marriage which is a legal contract which grants spouses rights not normally granted to non-blood relatives (and, in fact, rights greater than blood relatives). The latter can be obtained during the course of a Religious Marriage or by simply seeing a Justice of the Peace who effectively stamps a few forms and says "you're married."

      I don't think there should be any governmental pressures on Religious Marriage. If a church doesn't want to marry Tom and Joe or Mary and Jane then those couples can find another church that will or just not have a Religious Marriage. Meanwhile, Civil Marriage should have no limits so long as the two people being joined in marriage are consenting adults. So Tom and Joe should be able to get a Civil Marriage even if they've never set foot in a church.

      The problem is that the word "marriage" has been used for both types of marriage up until now and neither side (Civil or Religious) is going to give it up for an alternative word.

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    25. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Schadrach · · Score: 2, Interesting

      That is true.

      The answer is this then -- civil union. No, not as an alternative to marriage for gays, but as a replacement. Separate legal marriage from religious marriage completely. Civil unions get "cut and pasted" in place of marriage in all the laws, and add a clear protection that protects all religious groups from having to perform marriage/union ceremonies of any kind for any one for any reason at their discretion.

      There, there is no longer a legal difference between one couple and the next because one is gay and the other is not, it's clearly and explicitly stated that your church doesn't have to marry gays if it doesn't want to in clear black and white, and if you really feel like it, you can say that because they weren't married according to your faith that they aren't "really" married.

    26. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Theaetetus · · Score: 3, Informative

      I think we need two words for marriage.

      We already have them. There's "marriage", a contractual relationship between two consenting adults and the state that has existed for thousands of years. There's also "wedlock", a religious institution. You can be married without ever entering a church or temple, but you are not wed. Similarly, you can be wed by a priest but if you never visit a town hall to sign the certificate, you're not married.

      The problem is that the word "marriage" has been used for both types of marriage up until now and neither side (Civil or Religious) is going to give it up for an alternative word.

      Not true. The term "marriage" has only been used interchangeably with "wedlock" since the Council of Trent, during which, in response to their declining power, the church decided to take over many aspects of the secular government. We should restore "marriage" to its original meaning, bereft of religious interference.

    27. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by dfenstrate · · Score: 1

      Actually, it's absolutely the state's business. You're not seeking simply cohabitation or shared ownership, you're seeking a legal agency relationship that trumps the rights of blood relatives, allows for probate-free inheritance, etc. Since the state normally enforces probate and intestate succession, they absolutely must be involved in marriage. When the state is not involved - i.e. common law marriage - the couple does not get these probate benefits, nor do they get to be legal and medical proxies for each other.

      That's quite an inversion from a few hundred years ago, when it was the business of the church only, and not of the states, who got married. If I remember correctly- and I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong, because that's what happens here- the state only got in the business of marriage licenses to prevent the races from intermarrying.

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    28. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      Actually, it's absolutely the state's business. You're not seeking simply cohabitation or shared ownership, you're seeking a legal agency relationship that trumps the rights of blood relatives, allows for probate-free inheritance, etc. Since the state normally enforces probate and intestate succession, they absolutely must be involved in marriage. When the state is not involved - i.e. common law marriage - the couple does not get these probate benefits, nor do they get to be legal and medical proxies for each other.

      That's quite an inversion from a few hundred years ago, when it was the business of the church only, and not of the states, who got married. If I remember correctly- and I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong, because that's what happens here- the state only got in the business of marriage licenses to prevent the races from intermarrying.

      Nope, you're almost entirely, 100% backwards. Marriage was exclusively the business of the state for more than a thousand years until the Council of Trent. There, in response to their declining power, the church decided to take over many aspects of the civil government, including marriage. That lasted until King Henry split with the Catholic church because they refused to grant him a divorce, at which point he said, "screw you, I'll start my own church, with hookers and blackjack." The protestant church retained its ability to perform marriages, but only with consent of the state.

      So, in summary, the original, traditional definition of marriage, to which we should return, is an exclusively secular contractual relationship between two consenting adults and the state.

    29. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by FuckingNickName · · Score: 1

      The state is also bound to certain obligations by the marriage certificate, and thus can be obligated to enforce the marriage against the wishes of next of kin or other blood relatives.

      But that's only an exception to another exception. If the state didn't already give special powers to blood relatives, it wouldn't have to give an exception to marriage in this case.

      Marriage for inheritance purposes predates the Christian church

      Of course it does: it predates Christianity. But today it sticks to Christian principles on sexuality and monogamy, among other things.

      Accordingly, when a spouse dies, the remaining spouse inherits tax-free because they already own everything.

      Assuming a jurisdiction where this is true, this principle cannot be extended to polygamous marriages. I'd just marry everyone on this planet preemptively (you know you want to!) so none would have to pay inheritance tax on my estate. Hence my alternative suggestion.

      Under current marriage laws, the hospital must obey the wishes of both B and C, which is clearly impossible.

      This could be handled in the same way as multiple Power of Attorney, again without the next-of-kin override clauses which may exist in your jurisdiction. For example, if there is no consensus, do the same thing you'd do if the spouse wasn't available for comment.

    30. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      The state is also bound to certain obligations by the marriage certificate, and thus can be obligated to enforce the marriage against the wishes of next of kin or other blood relatives.

      But that's only an exception to another exception. If the state didn't already give special powers to blood relatives, it wouldn't have to give an exception to marriage in this case.

      I'm not sure what you're suggesting - the abolishment of any and all intestate legal relationships? Yeah... I don't think you'll find much support for that anywhere.

      Marriage for inheritance purposes predates the Christian church

      Of course it does: it predates Christianity. But today it sticks to Christian principles on sexuality and monogamy, among other things.

      No, monogamy in marriage has also existed a lot longer than the Christian church. Do our criminal laws "stick to the Christian principle of 'thou shalt not kill'"? No - just because Christians claim some of the same things doesn't mean that we're somehow adhering to Christian principles.

      Accordingly, when a spouse dies, the remaining spouse inherits tax-free because they already own everything.

      Assuming a jurisdiction where this is true, this principle cannot be extended to polygamous marriages.

      Bingo. Hence why polygamy needs new legislation to enable it.

      Under current marriage laws, the hospital must obey the wishes of both B and C, which is clearly impossible.

      This could be handled in the same way as multiple Power of Attorney, again without the next-of-kin override clauses which may exist in your jurisdiction. For example, if there is no consensus, do the same thing you'd do if the spouse wasn't available for comment.

      That's one way, sure. It's not the law, however. That's why you need new legislation specific to polygamy.

      No offense to you, but I'm really getting tired of this red herring argument. In every discussion of gay marriage, there's inevitably someone who says "oh, yeah? What about polygamy, then?" And it's a red herring because, frequently though not always, that person is not actually in favor of polygamy but are attempting to use it as an analogy to denying gay people equal rights because they assume that people will argue against polygamy for moral reasons, thus allowing them to argue against gay marriage for moral reasons.
      Thing is, it's a bad red herring, because most people in favor of gay marriage have no problem with polygamy. It's different, however, and would require new legislation. And when this fact is pointed out to the person who raised the polygamy issue, they invariably ignore it, like you did, making suggestions that would be fine in new legislation, but are counter to current marriage law.

      So, look, it's very easy: polygamy requires new legislation. Your suggestions could be in said legislation. Polygamy cannot however work under existing marriage law, because of the myriad conflicts and contradictions it would create. And this is all just a threadjack and has nothing whatsoever to do with gay marriage.

    31. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by fishexe · · Score: 1

      Bromance, now pays better than expected.

      But then you have to go on mandates...

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    32. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by FuckingNickName · · Score: 1

      the abolishment of any and all intestate legal relationships? Yeah... I don't think you'll find much support for that anywhere.

      Between competent adults? Who is going to object? "No, he didn't give me explicit permission, but I think I should have it anyway." To take the classical, "Should we switch off life support?" question, here's a reasonable list of people who get to choose this, in advance if necessary:

      (1) The guy on life support.

      Anyone else? No. If he hasn't said anything, assume exactly what you'd assume if there was no family around to decide. Which, hopefully, should be, "Keep me alive as long as you can!"

      No, monogamy in marriage has also existed a lot longer than the Christian church.

      And polygamy came before monogamy, and asexual reproduction came before polygamy. But it doesn't matter what came first. What matters is why we have today's rules now - if we don't identify what's propping up current legislation, we can't hope to change it.

      Your Trent hobby-horse fails to recall that laws had been written and upheld for centuries before based on Christian principles, and punishments for fornication and sodomy were based on Christian principles. Why did Islamic states admit multiple wives for their men, even states which were Christian before? Because their state was no longer based on Christianity.

      Do our criminal laws "stick to the Christian principle of 'thou shalt not kill'"?

      There are philosophical foundations for no-murder which have been fairly lengthily sounded out and applied in forming younger nations, e.g. Republican France and US, and these foundations shape much law in those nations. If we wanted to change murder law, we'd have to look at those foundations, not at Christianity.

      Thing is, it's a bad red herring, because most people in favor of gay marriage have no problem with polygamy

      We're discussing Google, not "most people". Google haven't provided a framework of benefits for polygamous relationships, but for gay monogamous couples. Google are highlighting a particular sort of relationship as somehow worthy for special privilege out of a huge list of possibilities. The relationship is: Christian marriage + modification to admit same-sex partners brought about by successful lobbying for gay rights.

      But no-one here is denying that current Western laws may not be suitable for polygamous relationships, just as they're often not suitable for monogamous gay relationships. There are still gender-specific privileges which affect a family unit from obvious discrepancies such as "maternity" rights all the way to the possibility in most countries of only men being enslaved in a Draft.

    33. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      We're discussing Google, not "most people". Google haven't provided a framework of benefits for polygamous relationships, but for gay monogamous couples.

      Yes, because gay people are unable to enter into the same institution which straight people can, and are thus denied those benefits. Currently, there is no institution which polygamous people are denied entry to, but others are not.

      Google are highlighting a particular sort of relationship as somehow worthy for special privilege out of a huge list of possibilities.

      Google is highlighting a particular sort of relationship as equally worthy of privilege as the one the state currently grants the privileges to.

      The relationship is: Christian marriage

      That's odd. I didn't know jews, muslims, hindus, and atheists couldn't get married in California.

      + modification to admit same-sex partners brought about by successful lobbying for gay rights.

      Yes. And?

      But no-one here is denying that current Western laws may not be suitable for polygamous relationships, just as they're often not suitable for monogamous gay relationships. There are still gender-specific privileges which affect a family unit from obvious discrepancies such as "maternity" rights all the way to the possibility in most countries of only men being enslaved in a Draft.

      You may be confused... we're talking about marriage law, not family law. See, it's possible in this country for people to be married, but have no children. It's also possible for people to have children, but never be married. The two are unrelated. Your examples of maternity law and selective service do not require participants to be married. In fact, marriage has no bearing on them whatsoever.

      Do you have any that relate to the topic at hand? Is there anything you can point to marriage law that is "not suitable for monogamous gay relationships"? The short answer is "no". The longer answer is "absolutely not, and this is been litigated in several states already." But feel free to supply your own answer, with examples.

    34. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Let's throw marriage away. I know many younger couples that live together but won't marry because they'd have to give up their individual government bennies that are based on income, etc. Why pay for medical insurance when the government will provide it to a "single" mother even though that mother is living with the father. I know one such mother that gave birth to a disabled child and is getting so much from the government that she was able to quite her job.

    35. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by karcirate · · Score: 1

      See: Boston Legal, last episode(s).

    36. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Absolutely. Why should I have to get married with the state if I want to get married in church?

    37. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by FuckingNickName · · Score: 1

      Yes, because gay people are unable to enter into the same institution which straight people can,

      Gay people have always been able to get married. It's just that marriage has been defined as a union between one man and one woman, and gays didn't get to redefine it.

      Currently, there is no institution which polygamous people are denied entry to, but others are not.

      Let's take the "institution" that is a Californian state jail offering conjugal visits. As the 13th male member of Hacksaw Heidi's harem, I'm outta luck. But as of June 2007, were I the first female, erm, member, 't'd be cool.

      Google is highlighting a particular sort of relationship as equally worthy of privilege as the one the state currently grants the privileges to.

      No, Google is discriminating in response to particular market pressures. If it had genuinely started pontificating on matters of personal relationships, I'd be more worried.

      I didn't know jews, muslims, hindus, and atheists couldn't get married in California.

      They can all experience the state's recognising a tweaked version of Christian marriage (and divorce). But a Muslim, for example, will not have the full Muslim marriage (and divorce) experience recognised by the State, only those parts which coincide with the state's view of what marriage is.

      You may be confused... we're talking about marriage law, not family law.

      Sir, you're worse than a politician. Stop telling people what the issues are and what it is they should be talking about - it's too hot today to gather straw anyway.

      See, it's possible in this country for people to be married, but have no children. It's also possible for people to have children, but never be married. The two are unrelated.

      Just because A doesn't necessarily imply B, and B doesn't necessarily imply A, it does not mean that the two are unrelated. This is an almost painful fallacy.

      Think carefully to see if you can find a relationship between the existence of a stable, loving couple and the bringing up of children. Start with biological advantages if you want, but then think in more sophisticated logistical terms. Incorporate emotion if you are able.

      IOW, loving couples often want and have kids. By contrast, Theaetetus, single virgins tend not to suddenly find themselves bringing up a child on their own. What biological, sociological and legal reasons could there be for this?

      Your examples of maternity law and selective service do not require participants to be married. In fact, marriage has no bearing on them whatsoever.

      Maternity law: It's traditionally considered a lot easier to properly look after a very young child when at least one parent is given a legally protected break from her career. This law needs modification for a two-male partnership.

      Draft: in the case that neither partner has children: a home can be kept in good order when not every resident is away at war. This might not be relevant to /you/, but IME it's very relevant to the morale of many servicemen. It's also quite relevant to the ability of the couple to settle back into civilian life after everyone's finished playing with his gun.

      Traditionally it was assumed that the young man went out to fight while the woman stayed at home, fitting in neatly with the notion of marriage as a union between one man and one woman. You may say "that's nothing to do with marriage law!" but it doesn't matter one bit what category your copy of Fighting Legal Arguments on the Internet in 24 Hours files it under. What matters is how the law affects the married in a way related to their gender.

      (Otherwise I shall argue that what happens to your stuff when you die is not marriage law but inheritance law, and what happens when you're ill is just medical law.)

      Is

    38. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by MattSausage · · Score: 1

      touche pedantic-man.

      But if we get really specific, heterosexuals can marry anyone they want, while homosexuals can't.

      I hope me putting it that way doesn't offend homosexuals.

    39. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      Yes, because gay people are unable to enter into the same institution which straight people can,

      Gay people have always been able to get married. It's just that marriage has been defined as a union between one man and one woman, and gays didn't get to redefine it.

      Not according to the Supreme Court, which has said that the right to marriage isn't just the right to sign a piece of paper, but the right to marry whom you choose. Gay people can't do that.

      Currently, there is no institution which polygamous people are denied entry to, but others are not.

      Let's take the "institution" that is a Californian state jail offering conjugal visits. As the 13th male member of Hacksaw Heidi's harem, I'm outta luck. But as of June 2007, were I the first female, erm, member, 't'd be cool.

      And if you were the second female member, you'd be outta luck. See? No difference. There are no institutions which polygamous people are denied entry to but others are not.

      I didn't know jews, muslims, hindus, and atheists couldn't get married in California.

      They can all experience the state's recognising a tweaked version of Christian marriage (and divorce). But a Muslim, for example, will not have the full Muslim marriage (and divorce) experience recognised by the State, only those parts which coincide with the state's view of what marriage is.

      That is quite possibly the poorest stretching of logic I've ever seen, and it still fails to address atheists. The state is not "recognizing a tweaked version of Christian marriage" unless your definition of "tweaking" means "stripping away everything that makes it Christian or religious". Also, what is a "full Muslim marriage experience"? I think you're back to be confused about the distinction between "marriage" and "wedding".

      You may be confused... we're talking about marriage law, not family law.

      Sir, you're worse than a politician. Stop telling people what the issues are and what it is they should be talking about - it's too hot today to gather straw anyway.

      See, it's possible in this country for people to be married, but have no children. It's also possible for people to have children, but never be married. The two are unrelated.

      Just because A doesn't necessarily imply B, and B doesn't necessarily imply A, it does not mean that the two are unrelated. This is an almost painful fallacy.

      This "painful fallacy" was part of the opinion by the California Supreme Court in In Re Marriage. The two institutions are unrelated, in spite of your insistence.

      Think carefully to see if you can find a relationship between the existence of a stable, loving couple and the bringing up of children.

      Think carefully to see if you can find a requirement that a stable, loving couple be married. Think carefully to see if you can find a requirement that a stable, loving married couple have children. Neither exist. Your tenuous argument for correlation is not the law, as held by the Supreme Court of California.

      IOW, loving couples often want and have kids. By contrast, Theaetetus, single virgins tend not to suddenly find themselves bringing up a child on their own. What biological, sociological and legal reasons could there be for this?

      Legal? None. You didn't even create a legal distinction between "loving couples" and "single virgins" in your hypothetical. You didn't say "married couple" vs. "unmarried virgin". Why? Because it has no bearing on it. The reason virgins aren't parents is because they're virgins, NOT because they're not married.

      Oh, wait a second... Is that news to you? I just realized that you may not know where babies come from. This would definitely cause some confusion on y

    40. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      If churches are somehow offended that certain groups can now marry (be they gay couples or interracial couples as was the problem not so long ago in the US), they can, if they wish, rename their "marriage" to something else. Of course, if the couple wants to be recognized as legally married, they would still have to have a regular civil "marriage" license, but they could call it whatever the hell they want to privately.

    41. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      Heterosexuals can only marry someone of the opposite sex who is of legal age, not married to someone else or related to them and who is willing to marry them. Heterosexuals are not allowed to marry someone of the same sex even if they want to. They are also not allowed to marry their sibling. So, they can't marry anyone they want.

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    42. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by FuckingNickName · · Score: 1

      Not according to the Supreme Court, which has said that the right to marriage isn't just the right to sign a piece of paper, but the right to marry whom you choose. Gay people can't do that.

      Your summary of the Supreme Court's opinion is so vague as to be meaningless. With it, I choose to marry you.

      What you mean is that the Supreme Court, which has no business defining marriage in the first place, recently decided to define marriage. Before that, the states defined marriage. And they defined it as I describe, no matter how annoyed that makes you.

      And if you were the second female member, you'd be outta luck. See? No difference. There are no institutions which polygamous people are denied entry to but others are not.

      What? What has gender got to do with it? As a polygamist I want to enjoy my time with Heidi. Are you about to make an argument based on only taking account of the rights of the person with multiple partners, rather than the multiple partners themselves?

      The state is not "recognizing a tweaked version of Christian marriage" unless your definition of "tweaking" means "stripping away everything that makes it Christian or religious".

      What about the union of precisely two consenting adults isn't extremely Christian about marriage? Are you so parochial as to not recognise that marriage is often arranged, often polygamous, and often comes with more or fewer prerequisites, privileges and restrictions?

      Also, what is a "full Muslim marriage experience"?

      To give one of a hundred examples, one in which I can state "I divorce you" thrice and become divorced from you, girl, but not from my two other wives.

      Your tenuous argument for correlation is not the law, as held by the Supreme Court of California.

      Rather than paraphrasing badly what you'd have liked the Court to imply, why don't you quote precisely the decisions you find pertinent? The Supreme Bankruptcy of California has made some funny decisions, but "there is no relationship whatever between marriage and children" would just be a blind denial of reality.

      Think carefully to see if you can find a requirement that a stable, loving couple be married. Think carefully to see if you can find a requirement that a stable, loving married couple have children. Neither exist.

      A correlation does not imply a requirement. The existence of a host of benefits often taken up does not imply a requirement. Go back to your classics; bone up on logic.

      The reason virgins aren't parents is because they're virgins, NOT because they're not married.

      Ad - op - tion.

      I just realized that you may not know where babies come from.

      Angry. Lame.

      Maternity and Paternity law allow a parent of either gender to have that legally protected break from his or her career.

      And that's great (i) where it exists; and (ii) in equal measures, IOW when the law has already been specifically changed. When I last looked into it a couple of years ago, the FMLA only covered unpaid leave, with only California in the US having specific laws providing for paid paternity leave ("family leave"). It looks like WA and NJ have also made some developments, but that's it. To reiterate why I brought this up too many posts ago:

      current Western laws [are] often not suitable for monogamous gay relationships

      Of course, since we're redefining what a parent is - from biological to adopting male/female in marriage to one of two adopting adults in a particular partnership - it's worth noting that it's still gotta be one of two people.

      Look, gramps, there hasn't been a draft in decades. And, you may not realize this, but there are many, many married couples in the military.

      What

    43. Re:Well, heck! We can all be gay! by MattSausage · · Score: 1

      I should know to never underestimate pedantic-man.

      Fair enough. Gay People have one further restriction on them than heterosexual people. They cannot marry a person they truly love.

      And the only.. ONLY possible reason for this that stands up to even the most cursory logic test is: "The Bible says it's wrong." Followed closely by: "And it's icky."

      This is a pretty blatant action by the majority to restrict the rights of the minority through legislation targeted specifically at naming a right only to restrict it.

  4. Still unfair.. by Pvt_Ryan · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Unmarried hetro couples are now discriminated against. They should get the same as the Gay/Lesbian couples, some people may not believe in marrage or may not want to get married for one reason or another. Why should they be forced to marry just to avoid a tax?

    1. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

      Damn straight, because it's all about the heteros, because they're so discriminated against and are lacking in lots of rights...

    2. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "some people may not believe in marrage"

      You don't believe in getting a certificate from a non-religious Justice of the Peace? Sorry, but suck it up, princess.

      "may not want to get married"

      Then don't. Straight people are being discriminated against? Forgive language better suited to sites other than Slashdot, but give me a fucking break. Oh, we poor heterosexuals, what with our option to actually get married if we choose.

    3. Re:Still unfair.. by Nitage · · Score: 0, Troll

      Put a sock in it. Your government discriminates against unmarried people of all sexualities, Gogole discriminates against unmarried heterosexual people.

    4. Re:Still unfair.. by dingen · · Score: 5, Funny

      Just convince your employer that your girl is actually a dude. Photoshop could help out, but maybe it's not even needed.

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    5. Re:Still unfair.. by gutnor · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Marriage is a tax and legal affair. It is like creating a company or a trust with a business partner : Both of you can stay independent self-employed and do the same job but you will not get the same benefits. (and constraints)

      Marriage is the mechanism to subscribe to the benefits you feel discriminated against - just like filling you tax return. Marriage is not a declaration of Love or some blood pact before ${diety}, it is a legal contract and nothing more.
      The only real discrimination was to restrict this legal contract to people of specific sexual orientation.

    6. Re:Still unfair.. by stephanruby · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      Unmarried hetro couples are now discriminated against.

      Nothing prevents an unmarried hetero couple from entering a civil partnership with each other (just go to city hall and have a judge do it). The real victims here are the overwhelming majority of slash-doters, that are 30+ years old that are still living with their mom, and that couldn't get laid with a female (or a male) even if their very lives depended on it (unless it's on some virtual MMORPGs).

      And unless marriages in MMORPGs become legal, with all the legal fringe benefits of marriage, without the scary prospect of ever having to meet your virtual wife (or gay partner/husband) in real life; I'm afraid most of us will always be discriminated against.

    7. Re:Still unfair.. by L4t3r4lu5 · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      Troll. Mod to death.

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    8. Re:Still unfair.. by Yvanhoe · · Score: 1

      If you don't believe in the sanctity of marriage, getting married becomes just an administrative task. And complaining about it is protesting against unefficiency and wasted time (opinion with which I wholeheartedly agree) but this is not discrimination.

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    9. Re:Still unfair.. by Xarius · · Score: 3, Interesting

      In your country, a heterosexual couple can actually get married.

      A gay couple can't, the unmarried heterosexual couples are depriving themselves of the benefit this type of contract provides by choice.

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    10. Re:Still unfair.. by Vectormatic · · Score: 1

      for bonus points, hit up the gag-shop for a fake mustache just before the annual company (with partner) party/dinner

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    11. Re:Still unfair.. by Pvt_Ryan · · Score: 1

      I am in the UK not the US.

      I live with my partner and have done for the last 5years but we have no intention of getting married.

      Even to do it cheaply is over £200, I'd rather spend that money on our child or perhaps put it towards a holiday.

      I believe that we quailfy under UK law as a Common Law Couple, though tbh I am not really sure I benifit, I think it just makes it easier for her to get 50% if we split.

      I was pointing out the "fair" thing to do would be for google to lobby the government for a change in the law to allow gay marriage or what ever it is they don't do. Not to just pay them extra cash for being gay because all that does, is highlight / enforce the view, that they are different and should be treated differently.

    12. Re:Still unfair.. by obarthelemy · · Score: 1

      there's a difference between paying the "non-married" tax for people who CAN'T get married, vs for people who WON'T get married.
      i'm sure if gays can ever marry, google will stop paying their "non-married" tax.
      i don't see what the problem is

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    13. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But you're incorrect.

      As others have pointed out, gay couples are being denied the ability to marry by the government.

      Straight unmarried couples (who don't count as de facto) are denying themselves the benefits of marriage. The option is open to them.

      You have just basically stated that you would rather lose possibly thousands in taxes than spend a few hundred on a marriage licence (if you lived in the US).

      It's not anybody's fault that you are stupid, but you.

    14. Re:Still unfair.. by IainCartwright · · Score: 1

      what you say would be true - if straight couples were not permitted to marry.

    15. Re:Still unfair.. by Any+Web+Loco · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Marriage is not... blood pact before ${diety}

      Actually, arguably it is in some jurisdictions. Here in the UK for example there is no separation of Church and State. In effect that means that the marriage contract, whether conducted in a Church or registry office, is still being sanctioned by the Church. Which makes it a pact before ${diety} whether you like it or not.

    16. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's not entirely true. For example, suppose an elderly brother and sister, neither of whom married (or did but are widowed) decide to share a home in their declining years. Why does the law deny them the legal benefits of marriage? Clearly it's not their sexual orientation that's the problem.

    17. Re:Still unfair.. by Jagen · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I believe that we quailfy under UK law as a Common Law Couple, though tbh I am not really sure I benifit, I think it just makes it easier for her to get 50% if we split.

      There is no recognition under UK Law for anything other than Marriage or Civil Partnership. Neither of you have any more more rights or benefits than two random people who happen to share the same house. "Common Law Marriage" does not exist in the UK.

    18. Re:Still unfair.. by Nitage · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Most heterosexual couples wait several years in between starting their relationship and getting married - during which period they won't be entitled to this perk, but homosexual employees will. It's not really a problem though - more like replacing a discriminatory policy with a small effect with another discriminatory policy with a tiny effect. Not an especially big deal, but certainly a big enough deal to make the grandparent's "give me a fucking break" unjustified.

    19. Re:Still unfair.. by maxume · · Score: 1

      Only nominally.

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    20. Re:Still unfair.. by icebraining · · Score: 1

      The solution is to allow homosexual couples to get married, or end marriage as a whole. It's not Google's call, it's the voters.

      Considering the circumstances, Google's doing the right thing, imho.

    21. Re:Still unfair.. by Pvt_Ryan · · Score: 1

      Didn't know that. Thanks.

    22. Re:Still unfair.. by locofungus · · Score: 1

      He said "common law couple" rather than "common law marriage".

      While "common law couple" is not a phrase I've seen before, he's correct in that living with someone and having children with them tends to mean that you acquire some of the rights and obligations you would acquire if you were married.

      At the moment there are two diametrically opposed camps - one that says that (excluding the complication of children) two people ought to be able to be in a "no obligation" relationship regardless of the length of the relationship and the other that says that, particularly after living together for a long period, people should have some responsibility to one another and not just be able to throw someone out in the street.
      (There are, of course, extremists on each side - I'm really only considering the ones who have rational, coherent arguments to support their views)

      It's more usually the man who brings the most assets to a relationship and the man who wants the "no obligation" type of relationship so this is often characterized as "oppression of women".

      Slashdot, being heavily biased towards American readers will obviously come down on the "it's no obligation, why the hell should the woman get anything" without being able to conceive that there is a whole spectrum of cases and there is no "one size fits all" solution.

      The OP that started this subthread clearly understands that the relationship he has decided to get involved with has (probably) introduced some obligations to his partner that are not explicitly stated in law.

      Tim.

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    23. Re:Still unfair.. by MrNemesis · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Unmarried people in the US are taxed extra? Why?!

      The conservatives in the UK have been going on about bringing back tax breaks for married couples (and civil partnerships, but those aren't available to heterosexual couples here yet - I'm also one of those people that doesn't agree with marriage but support the idea of civil unions) - I really don't see what the hell marriage is supposed to achieve, and add to that the UK having the highest divorce rate in europe I don't see any form of tax break as going to make "families" more "stable".

      Stupid political posturing. Why can't the state just treat people as individuals?

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    24. Re:Still unfair.. by Nyder · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Unmarried hetro couples are now discriminated against. They should get the same as the Gay/Lesbian couples, some people may not believe in marrage or may not want to get married for one reason or another. Why should they be forced to marry just to avoid a tax?

      Thats all "legal" marriage is. A tax break.

      Love has nothing to do with marriage, regardless what the world wants to believe.

      Sure, you can say marriage is the public commit process of your love. And maybe it is. But you have to go sign legal documents, that bonds you and your partner together, in a contract, that comes down to money.

      Get divorced? It's all about the money split.
      Partner goes into debt, oh ya, they just put you in debt also. legally.

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    25. Re:Still unfair.. by TheRaven64 · · Score: 2, Informative

      In tax law, single people, irrespective of sexual orientation, often lose out.

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    26. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nothing prevents an unmarried hetero couple from entering a civil partnership with each other (just go to city hall and have a judge do it).

      Not here in the UK. straight couples can only get married and gay couples can only get a civil partnership.

      http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2009/nov/24/straight-civil-partnerships

    27. Re:Still unfair.. by TheRaven64 · · Score: 1

      Absolutely untrue. Common law marriages are not recognised for tax purposes, but they are (in certain situations) recognised for deciding ownership of things if you split up.

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    28. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Indeed. To me, it would be fair if we simply got rid of all tax deductions for being married, children, home loan interest, etc. and just have an overall lower tax rate. I paid my home off by making sacrifices, yet I pay more taxes because I was responsible enough to do so. And why should I subsidize someone else's children? I don't have kids, so I pay yet higher taxes than those who decided to procreate. If you want kids, fine, have them, but a tax deduction for children is no different than me giving you a hand out for the effort.

      In a nutshell, I pay way more taxes because I am financially responsible and have no kids. And before those with kids (and deductions) say "But you don't understand how expensive it is to have kids", I would remind them that it was their choice, not mine, and there is no sense of fairness in me having to pay for part of raising their kids.

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    29. Re:Still unfair.. by Animaether · · Score: 1

      Most heterosexual couples wait several years in between starting their relationship and getting married - during which period they won't be entitled to this perk, but homosexual employees will.

      There's a flaw in that argument, which becomes clear if you re-introduce the redundancy:

      homosexual employees will be entitled to this perk during the period in which homosexual couples wait several years in between starting their relationship and getting married

      Whoops. Homosexual couples still can't -get- married in most states.. most notably California.

      I do agree that Google's stance on heterosexual couples is oversimplifying the issue...

      heterosexual couples can avoid the added tax by marrying

      Although I do see many couples marrying, divorcing, re-marrying, divorcing, and so forth and so on, I still don't think that marriage - or rather, any union which comes with legal and corporate ramifications abound, should be treated so callously.

      But the basic problem is that homosexuals cannot get married or signed into a union that is (federally) recognized and comes with the exact same benefits -and- obligations as a marriage between heterosexuals.
      Fix that one, and the issue described in this article becomes moot.

      The larger issue of whether or not two people living together and who get some benefits (the domestic partner health benefits) should, in fact, be similarly exempt from this tax, is a bit more difficult to figure out. Apparently those taxes are linked directly to those health benefits.. so one way not to pay them is by rejecting those health benefits. Something tells me that it'd be wiser to stick with the benefits and deal with the taxes. Question is.. why do those taxes magically disappear once you're married?

    30. Re:Still unfair.. by tomhath · · Score: 2, Insightful

      You have it backwards; this isn't discrimination, it's social engineering to encourage a particular behavior. Almost all tax law does that to some degree (think about 401K, long term vs. short term capital gains tax, depreciation, tax shelters, etc).

      The purpose of tax breaks for home mortgages and married couples is to encourage raising children in stable, two parent households with one parent at home. If you're not married or not expected to breed with your spouse the incentives to raise children in the approved manner don't apply to you. The same can be said about maternity leave; conventional wisdom was that the mother should stay home and care for her baby rather than return to work. (And yea, I know the arguments about elderly or infertile couples. Save your electrons).

    31. Re:Still unfair.. by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      Marriage is not... blood pact before ${diety}

      Actually, arguably it is in some jurisdictions. Here in the UK for example there is no separation of Church and State. In effect that means that the marriage contract, whether conducted in a Church or registry office, is still being sanctioned by the Church. Which makes it a pact before ${diety} whether you like it or not.

      Only relatively recently. Prior to the Council of Trent, the Church had nothing to do with marriage, even in the UK. It was strictly a secular contract. We should return to that original, multi-thousand year definition of marriage.

    32. Re:Still unfair.. by Funky+Weasel · · Score: 1

      Marriage is not a declaration of Love or some blood pact before ${diety}

      I know that there's occasionally some concern about fitting into a wedding dress, but I agree that resorting to the dark arts is a bit extreme.

    33. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Knowing slashdotters and the girls they have managed to score, that shouldn't be too hard.

    34. Re:Still unfair.. by Jagen · · Score: 2, Informative

      Absolutely untrue. Common law marriages are not recognised for tax purposes, but they are (in certain situations) recognised for deciding ownership of things if you split up.

      No, the term does not exist (in the UK), splitting property simply comes down to what you can prove. You paid for it by yourself, it's yours. You paid jointly without something to show how much came from each person you own it jointly. The point is cohabiting with someone you consider your partner confers no benefits or rights beyond cohabiting with friends or random people when you were a student. If you can find anything to the contrary I'll happily recant.

    35. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      want everyone to be equal? I'd abolish any special privilege associated with marriage.

      that goes triple for any monetary incentives.

    36. Re:Still unfair.. by nosferatu1001 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      No it is not, as the civil marriage laws have nothing relating to a religious observance in them.

      In fact civil partnerships have absolutely no "standard" wording at all, unlike civil marriages, meaning you can actively denounce religion if you want and it is fine (as long as the registrar doesnt panic, that is....) - we were told we could write our entire service if we wanted.

      Yes the nominal head is both State and Church, but the actual PM is purely a civil role.

    37. Re:Still unfair.. by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      Unmarried hetro couples are now discriminated against. They should get the same as the Gay/Lesbian couples, some people may not believe in marrage or may not want to get married for one reason or another. Why should they be forced to marry just to avoid a tax?

      I have absolutely no idea what kind of policy Google is implementing, since I didn't even bother to read the article...

      But if they're paying more specifically to cover Domestic Partner medical insurance (which costs more than married/family medical insurance), and you list your significant other in an unmarried hetero relationship as a Domestic Partner and receive Domestic Partner medial insurance, I would suspect that you would also be compensated for it.

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    38. Re:Still unfair.. by Ephemeriis · · Score: 1

      Marriage is a tax and legal affair. It is like creating a company or a trust with a business partner :
      Both of you can stay independent self-employed and do the same job but you will not get the same benefits. (and constraints)

      Marriage is the mechanism to subscribe to the benefits you feel discriminated against - just like filling you tax return. Marriage is not a declaration of Love or some blood pact before ${diety}, it is a legal contract and nothing more.

      The only real discrimination was to restrict this legal contract to people of specific sexual orientation.

      Which is why I get so sick and tired of religious folks complaining about gay marriage destroying marriage in general.

      Marriage hasn't been about religion in decades. It's about tax benefits and joint ownership of property and having the right to visit your spouse in various circumstances and whatever else.

      Frankly, I think we should do away with "marriage" entirely.

      Create some kind of domestic partnership to completely replace marriage. Make gender completely irrelevant to domestic partnership. Make any tax breaks or spousal benefits or whatever based on the domestic partnership.

      Let churches have their marriage. Let them choose to marry whoever they want, or refuse to marry whoever they want. But make that marriage basically irrelevant. If you want to get married, go right ahead. If you want a tax break, get a domestic partnership (in stead of, or in addition to, marriage).

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    39. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      i have an idea that fixes the problem. lets cut useless (ie military) spending and then you can have your precious tax cut so you dont feel so "discriminated" against because you couldnt find a wife and have children with her.

    40. Re:Still unfair.. by delinear · · Score: 2, Funny

      Well that leaves them with discriminating against socially awkward people who can't find a partner of either sex. Fortunately Google employs a lot of developers who aren't noted for scoring high in that particular demographic. Oh, wait...

    41. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "put a sock in it"

      as a single person, who has been sympathetic to the issues gays face, I'm not real happy about the government's desire to steer life-style with the carrot/stick approach, via taxing some individuals while not taxing others.

      i don't believe churches should get tax breaks.

      i don't believe married people should get tax breaks.

      that's stealing.

      and your "put a sock in it" comment, has finally got me off the fence on this marriage thing.

      you can go fuck yourself. you now have another person who will join the ranks of those who will stand up and oppose this.

      you had your chance. you could have stood with us who opposed all inequality, but you chose to support benefits for a specific group, so that they be equal to some other group.

      well i'm done with this. i'll oppose your views. and that will be that.

    42. Re:Still unfair.. by forand · · Score: 4, Informative

      By and large I agree with you, however, you have benefited greatly from a society which chooses to educate children. So while I don't see why you should pay MORE to educate the children of the US I believe you should pay an equal share because the benefit is for society not just the parents.

    43. Re:Still unfair.. by delinear · · Score: 1

      It does seem counter-intuitive that marriage is seen as important by the devoutly religious, and the way politicians win their votes is by offering tax breaks for married people. Reducing the status of marriage to a financial incentive doesn't really re-inforce its importance, not when it's trivial to then get divorced and find someone else when you're both sick of each other. Nor is making divorce more difficult the answer - nobody should be trapped in an unhappy relationship. It seems to me the way to make marriage more important is to make it more difficult to get married in the first place, make sure the couple really understand the implications and are happy with the commitment and are even suited to live together. Assigning an arbitrary cash value isn't the way to give something real value.

    44. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Taxes and marriage will always be unbalancing with different marginal tax rates either in the direct comparison of taxes without marriage or comparing one family to another with the same family income. As to kids, they will pay for your future social security, etc (it is a pyramid scheme after all) so some level of support makes sense.

    45. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A gay couple can get married, just not to each other. That's probably not a choice they'd make but it certainly is an option.

    46. Re:Still unfair.. by kj_kabaje · · Score: 1

      This guy absolutely wins romantic of the year. Imagine the proposal:

      Him:Hey woman, do you want to sign a legal document to get a tax break? We might even procreate to garner further tax exemptions.

      Her: Um...

    47. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The solution is simple. Make taxes voluntary. That way, if I support the war, I can write a check for it. If I don't support the war, you don't come point a gun at my face and put me in jail for not paying taxes. Forced taxation is simply a form of violence.

    48. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      Education is not paid for with income tax, it is paid for (primarily) by state taxes, either property tax (Texas and others) or the general fun, like here in NC. The federal government has some programs to put money in schools, but the feds have no business interfering with schools anyway, that is something the states can handle by themselves just fine.

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    49. Re:Still unfair.. by jellomizer · · Score: 1

      Marriage is still part of religion. That said separation of church and state should mean that if you are going to tax and give legal benefits to someone who is married due to a religious right. Then you should be able to offer the same benefits of people with different faiths or none at all.

      I alway Liked the concept of the Civil Union and where 2 people get married it is a religious experience. Then they apply for a civil union for the Tax and Legal benefits.

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    50. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      In tax law, single people, irrespective of sexual orientation, always pay the highest rate of tax.

      Fixed that for you. I personally don't like the government telling me I should be straight or married or have kids. The government needs to stick to what the constitution says it is supposed to be doing: paving interstate highways, national defense, regulate commerce that crosses state lines.

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    51. Re:Still unfair.. by scorp1us · · Score: 1

      Largely you are right, but you have to see the bigger picture. We have those deductions so we can afford houses, which serves to lock us in place, o make us predictable and lazy, and easy to govern. But we also have those deductions because people (or only the rich) could afford a house otherwise. The real problem here is the income tax rate, and that we need it to be lessened overall. If you reduced everyone's tax rate so that on average, you essentially gave everyone a deduction (of about 15k a year) then you'd really be on to something far greater than just tax sense. We'd pay car loans off sooner, houses too. We'd really have a more prosperous society.

      But don't kid yourself, that's not going to change anytime soon. We've still got people pushing the a public option and government run everything. Everyone wants a government job too, because of the great pension and benefits. We're f'd.

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    52. Re:Still unfair.. by west · · Score: 1

      > And why should I subsidize someone else's children?

      Because children are, in part, a public good. Without them, the nation or society of which you are apart would soon cease to exist. Since most people are pretty partial to their nation continuing to exist, (and before the immigration argument starts up, pretty partial to their culture continuing to exist), most governments decide to subsidize children to at least some extent.

      Now indeed, you may perhaps not see your nation, culture, or society as worth preserving. Perhaps you are content to see your society cease to exist when you do. Regardless, while there are many who hold those views, they are pretty much a minority view at the moment, and being a democracy, we roughly conform to the majority's opinions.

      Or to use an analogy, the reason you have to pay more taxes than the guy who gives to charity is because the majority of the population thinks that giving to charity should be encouraged. Well, the majority of the population also wants to see other people have children. (Something about planning to retire some day, no doubt...)

    53. Re:Still unfair.. by SatanicPuppy · · Score: 1

      Unrelated, but it's silly to completely pay off your house. If you finance it at 4% interest and you invest that money in a long term CD, you'll be making 2% MORE than the interest on the home loan over the same period, and that doesn't even count the tax benefit.

      Use that money. Don't let it sit and rot.

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    54. Re:Still unfair.. by foo+fighter · · Score: 1

      Our society has decided we want to encourage marriage between different-sex couples and that we want to encourage procreation. That encouragement takes the form of tax breaks.

      You disagree, fine. But you need to change our society's collective mind. In our society that's accomplished through lobbying, cash donations, and (mis-)education of the public, and voting.

      We're currently in the middle of such a debate about encouraging marriage between same-sex couples. This will probably happen at some point because there is no real reasons not too.

      But I don't think you're going to have much success convincing people that we shouldn't encourage, or should actually discourage, stable households and the continuance of our species.

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    55. Re:Still unfair.. by corbettw · · Score: 1

      Whine bitch moan. If you don't like it, go get married. Gay couples don't have that option, so Google is trying to help them out.

      Quit your bitching and go put a ring on it.

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    56. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      But I don't think you're going to have much success convincing people that we shouldn't encourage, or should actually discourage, stable households and the continuance of our species.

      Come on now, I'm pretty sure that the continuation of our species is not dependent on having tax cuts for married people. Considering that OVER 50% of marriages end in divorce, perhaps the government should get completely out of the marriage business, let simply let anyone get married who wants to, straight or gay. It is fine to consider the marriage a legally binding contract/corporation, which is currently the way it is, but the government isn't helping continue anything by giving tax cuts to married people.

      People got married before taxes were instituted. They do it because they generally want to start a family, or just a life together. Ending unfair tax advantages to married people will not change this.

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    57. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      Largely you are right, but you have to see the bigger picture. We have those deductions so we can afford houses, which serves to lock us in place, o make us predictable and lazy, and easy to govern.

      If you can't afford a particular house without tax cuts, then maybe you should set your goals a bit lower. That is *exactly* why we are in the mess we are in financially, because people bought more house than they can afford, depending on tax benefits which diminish over time, and lower intro rates that go up over time.

      On your other points, I agree that government likes the populous fat and complacent. Religion is also handy as an opiate for the masses. Both of these do make governing easier, but are counter to the idea of liberty.

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    58. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I would be willing to allow "gay marriage" if they redefined many of the benefits. Most benefits granted to married couples are granted with the expectation that they will procreate. Most benefits given to married couples are for the children, not for two people who really love each other. For example, why would we give a housing break to two people who are perfectly capable of working to pay for a house. If anything, give it to the single person who will probably never see the income of two married people. But a married couple with children are investing in our future and as a result have less to spend on a house which they are more likely to need. Giving them a housing grant invests in our future as well.

      Since gay couples cannot reproduce without going outside of the marriage, if marriage is redefined to accept gay couples then the benefits of marriage should also be redefined to reflect a substantial percentage of marriages are destine to be childless. After all, my mom says two can live as cheap as one and our tax law should reflect it.

    59. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They have the choice to get married to avoid the tax, gay and lesbian couples do not.

    60. Re:Still unfair.. by Monchanger · · Score: 1

      Well put but it's not "another discriminatory policy". It's a corrective action to address a perceived problem. Public officials are allowed to engage in this to a certain degree, and where they overstep their bounds SCOTUS has ruled to that effect.

      As a private company it's Google's prerogative to do so, as long as it's legal. Last I heard US anti-discrimination laws discussing wages stop at gender and don't extend into sexual orientation the way hiring law does.

    61. Re:Still unfair.. by markfinn · · Score: 2, Informative

      Two alternate stating of the facts:

      You chose to pay off your house despite that not being the optimal economic strategy. Between low mortgage rates, tax deductions, and the (average) high return of the market, you should have gotten the largest mortgage you could, and invested the money over the minimum payments in the market. You instead made a choice to sacrifice return on investment for peace of mind. This is the same choice I'm making, but it is a choice. The homeowner tax deduction theoretically improves social stability, which or elected officials think is in our best interest. Is it? I Don't know, but stop whining about the choice you made given the rules of the game we are currently playing.

      With kids I felt the same way for a long time, but again, you're not seeing it from a 'neutral' point of view. There is no deduction for children, and you aren't subsidizing anything. Every PERSON gets a roughly $4000 exemption, and taxpayers (adults) can claim a standard or itemized deduction that has nothing to do with children. You can argue about the child tax credits, but that is a separate issue attempting to ameliorate poverty, where income limits apply. In general we have a progressive tax system to account for the diminishing incremental usefulness of money. The Y intercept of that progression starts around $4000 per person.

    62. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      Now indeed, you may perhaps not see your nation, culture, or society as worth preserving.

      Strawman arguement. The preservation of my culture and nation are not dependent on tax cuts for having children. I would add that there is no evidence that tax cuts for children have helped anyone except those getting the tax cuts.

      Additionally, taking the approach that "if you don't want tax cuts for having children, then you don't love America and want to preserve it" is as lame as "Think of the children!! You don't hate children, do you?" which is marched out everytime one group wants to exploit another. The statement is an insult to any thinking person, and is just an attempt to oversimplify and demonize someone with a differing opinion.

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    63. Re:Still unfair.. by Gordonjcp · · Score: 1

      there's a difference between paying the "non-married" tax for people who CAN'T get married, vs for people who WON'T get married.

      There's nothing to stop gay couples getting married. If they choose to live in a country that outlaws it (like Afghanistan, or the United States) then it's a problem of their own making.

    64. Re:Still unfair.. by computational+super · · Score: 1
      because they're so discriminated against

      Yep, as long as a group has historically not been discriminated against, they can never be discriminated against.

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    65. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Marriage is a tax and legal affair.

      Ummmm, actually marriage is taxed in some cases. My wife wouldn't believe it when we first got married so for the first couple of years I did our (U.S.) income taxes as "married filing jointly" and as two separate "single" returns (easy to do with software). In short its costing us in excess of $2000/year to be married. That's money paid to Uncle Sam as a married couple that we would keep if we just lived together in what the Faux News crowd would describe as "in sin"(1). By the time our kids are grown, the marriage tax penalty will have cost us the equivalent of a year's worth of college expenses for our kids.
      (1) Makes you wonder about their "pro-family values" politicians when they tax married folks more than the supposed amoral people they dislike....

    66. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      There are other things to do with your money besides putting it in CDs, and the average home mortgage over the last 10 years has been between 6-7%, not 4%. Stocks, bonds, investing in your business, collectibles, anything that pays more than a CD.

      Everyone touts "but you can save $10000 in taxes each year!", while forgetting that to get that, you must pay in $40000 in interest only. A typical mortgage on my house would be $3500 a month, or $42,000 a year. If that was all interest, it would put $11,000 in my pocket, but my net cost out of pocket would be $31,000. Paid only on interest, not adding to the value, period. No matter what anyone tells you, paying off a house might look "bad" on paper, but in reality is the best thing you can do financially.

      As a side note, I *do* have an equity line of credit on the house, for when I buy a car, etc. Because the house is paid and my credit is good, I currently pay 2.9% interest on any money I borrow against it. The interest is deductible, although I pay everything off fast by keeping my expenses well under my income, and have done so for a couple of decades.

      Remember, all those people telling you how to invest and get "maximum value for your dollars" are making a living by getting a cut, when when you lose money.

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    67. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What about marriage where more than 2 people are involved? Two men, one women and a dog?

    68. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I believe you should pay an equal share because the benefit is for society not just the parents.

      But the EITC doesn't go to help pay for education. In fact, we are already taxed evenly for education out of our standard federal tax (and home tax, and whatever local taxes a community uses, etc). The EITC is money that is given directly to the parents for no other reason than they have a child. That's called redistribution, no matter how you slice it.

    69. Re:Still unfair.. by swb · · Score: 1

      The only real discrimination was to restrict this legal contract to people of specific sexual orientation.

      I'm actually opposed to domestic partnership and more in favor of homosexual marriage (same benefits, same cost, gay or straight).

      That being said, it's just as discriminatory to deny marriage to polygamists as it is to homosexuals; homosexual marriage is no more justifiable than plural marriage.

      Limiting marriage to two people is just as arbitrary and judgmental as not allowing homosexuals to marry.

    70. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Technically it would be that the contract is only enterable by those of the opposite gender. Two heterosexual men cannot get married to each other. So technically everyone has the same right regardless of orientation, the right to marry someone of the opposite gender. In practice, gays feel this is discriminatory towards them since they don't want to marry someone of the opposite gender.

    71. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I would remind them that it was their choice, not mine, and there is no sense of fairness in me having to pay for part of raising their kids.

      You must have missed the whole 'moving wealth across generations' concept from your comment's grandparent. Whether or not you choose to have kids, your nation need to invest in its future. Fair to you? No. Smart choice for society? Yes.

    72. Re:Still unfair.. by fishexe · · Score: 1

      Sure, you can say marriage is the public commit process of your love.

      You can tell this is Slashdot by the use of the phrase "commit process" where "commitment" might do just fine. Good luck ever finding that kind of love in your source tree, buddy.

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    73. Re:Still unfair.. by fishexe · · Score: 1

      ...I'm also one of those people that doesn't agree with marriage but support the idea of civil unions...

      I don't think anybody should get married, either. Civil unions for all!

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      "I don't care about the Constitution!" --Bill O'Reilly, November 17, 2009
    74. Re:Still unfair.. by west · · Score: 1

      From the article I replied to:

      And why should I subsidize someone else's children?

      Perhaps I misconstrued. I take the following sentence to mean that you resent paying for schools, child-directed anti-poverty programs, child-directed medical subsidies, and in fact any program directed at children rather than citizens, per se.

      Tax cuts are a pretty much insignificant portion of the subsidization of children that occurs. However, without *any* subsidization, I (and most economists) think there would be a *lot* fewer children.

      If your sentiment was entirely confined to tax cuts, then my apologies for my over-the-top rhetoric, although the base point stands. We use the tax code to subsidize behavior we want to see more of, and the majority of society feels we all benefit from more children, just as we all benefit from more charity.

    75. Re:Still unfair.. by jfoobaz · · Score: 1

      that is something the states can handle by themselves just fine.

      This is hilariously wrong. There's plenty of states that can't do an even halfway adequate job of handling education, and it's absurd to disadvantage children in those states because of the incompetence, parsimony, or moral bankruptcy of their parents and legislators.

    76. Re:Still unfair.. by dreamchaser · · Score: 1

      set interfaces couple1 family matrimony unit 0
      commit confirmed

      been reading too many Juniper cli docs...

    77. Re:Still unfair.. by TavisJohn · · Score: 1

      It is unfair to prevent gays from getting married. Let gays get married, and enjoy the tax breaks, and THEN everything will be on equal ground.

      That way unmarried couples (Regardless of sexual orientation) can enjoy being taxed equally.

    78. Re:Still unfair.. by matunos · · Score: 2, Interesting

      It is unfair. For this reason, unmarried hetero partners should get out there and support gay marriage.

    79. Re:Still unfair.. by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Damn straight, because it's all about the heteros, because they're so discriminated against and are lacking in lots of rights...

      I'm a straight hetero and I am being discriminated against, not because of my sexual preferance but because I'm single. I can see why people with children, whether single, married, gay, or some combination, should get tax and benefit breaks, but why should a married childless couple get tax breaks and insurance benefits? For God's sake, they have two incomes and a helpmate to get them through life; they don't NEED the breaks.

      It's not being gay that's causing this discrimination, it's not being married that causes the discrimination, which is the main reason gays want to marry each other (note I didn't say the only reason).

    80. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Screw whats best for society. The government shouldn't encourage certain ways of living (having kids, etc). Would you disagree that if we stopped bailing people out that make bad decisions they would continue to always make those decisions (having kids they can't support)?

      The bottom line is that you are forcing (stealing from) people to pay for others kid's education. A woman I worked with and all her siblings went to a private school growing up, yet her parents still had to pay for public education! If your going to rationalize using the good of society to permit stealing from others then you can fuck off.

    81. Re:Still unfair.. by Taevin · · Score: 1

      If you reduced everyone's tax rate so that on average, you essentially gave everyone a deduction (of about 15k a year) then you'd really be on to something far greater than just tax sense. We'd pay car loans off sooner, houses too. We'd really have a more prosperous society.

      You don't really believe that, do you? People are spending more than they bring in after taxes now, so lowering taxes will somehow fix this? For the vast majority of people, that deduction would simply be another 15k to spend on a slightly more luxurious lifestyle.

    82. Re:Still unfair.. by scorp1us · · Score: 1

      On the surface, your assertion makes sense, but again, you miss the reality of the situation.

      I bought my house in 2001. There were no government programs used or even offered to purchase it. It is a modest house by today's standards: 50 years old, no dishwasher, less than 1200sq ft. I had come from renting a small apartment (over 1200 sq ft, dishwasher). It was a about equal, but definitely a step down in lifestyle, but a step up in payments. The tax breaks I get - the mortgage interest deduction - gets soaked up by property taxes and insurance, and the fact that I am on the hook for all maintenance costs.

      Contrast that to my former apartment complex, where I still payed property taxes and interest, yet they were socialized through the building management. Having high-density living makes the costs more affordable. If we followed your advice, everyone would just be renters, and only a few would own property. There would be no way to keep the rent hikes in check. You need home owners to keep the market balanced. And during the boom, thanks to cheap money, that's what we got. Cheap mortgages kept rent down.

      "Buying more house than you can afford" did get us here, but the tax incentives don't matter to people who buy more house than they can afford anyway. A payment just isn't P&I, it is Principal&Interest&PMI*PropertyTaxes&Insurance, which adds $100s on top of the P&I. But everything other than P&I is variable, and invariably goes up.

      If you want true liberty, you would follow the Buddhist teachings of detachment and owning nothing. But it is not a wise idea over the long run, particularly when you have a family.

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    83. Re:Still unfair.. by Princeofcups · · Score: 1

      Unmarried hetro couples are now discriminated against. They should get the same as the Gay/Lesbian couples, some people may not believe in marrage or may not want to get married for one reason or another. Why should they be forced to marry just to avoid a tax?

      In California there are laws for just that situation. Let's hope the rest of the country catches up some time soon.

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    84. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He's not suggesting eliminating taxes that go to pay for education, or that people without kids should pay less in taxes. He's saying they shouldn't pay *more* in taxes. Currently, people with kids (dependent spouses, home mortgages) get tax breaks - they pay less $ in taxes then people who don't have kids.

    85. Re:Still unfair.. by scorp1us · · Score: 1

      You forget ho tax deductions work. Out of that 15k, you only see about $5k to spend, assuming an effective tax rate of 33%

      That $5k would go far in terms of affording vehicles, houses and homes. Regardless of what it is spent on, it raises the standard of living.

      As tax collections since WWII have skyrocketed, our standard of living has plummeted. Less and less married couples are buying houses... and it is acceptable to be 25 and still living with their parents. And in 2010, more and more people in their 30s are living with mom & dad. mean while moms got part-time jobs, and now even more have full-time work, just to make the bills. The idea of the nuclear family - one bread winner, one home maker and kids is completely shattered. There is no way to afford it on the average $62,000 income per family. That income per family is both parents working, and any reported income from the kids.

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    86. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you have benefited greatly from a society which chooses to educate children

      So, if you come and fertilize my lawn without me asking, I'm supposed to be thankful just because it benefits me? I think there's something woefully lacking in your idea of ethics, namely, consent.

      Are you going to tell me that you're forcing me to do something for my own good? How noble of you to know what's best for me.

    87. Re:Still unfair.. by Taevin · · Score: 1

      I was responding to the idea that people would be paying off their debts with the extra income. For the most part, people in that kind of debt are living beyond their means. That is, they could spend less now with some self control and not have a "need" for the extra 5 or 15k. I posit that these same people when given extra income will continue to be financially irresponsible and spend it on increased luxury rather than needs, like paying off debts.

      I wasn't really intending to get involved in a tax debate, but I don't agree that taxes caused the current situation where two parents are required to work to provide for a family. Taxes really haven't changed all that much, but pay (or effective pay taking into account external factors like inflation) has decreased. For example, if an extra $5k (or $15k income of which the family would supposedly receive $5 ?? 66% tax rate ??) would make a huge difference in society, why can companies not pay their employees an extra $15k per year? Sure, it will hurt the bottom line but why is that such a big deal? ExxonMobil brought in $20 billion in net income last year and they employ approximately 80k people. A $15k raise for every single one would cost them about $1.2 billion, a mere 5% of their net income...

    88. Re:Still unfair.. by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      Straights can get married or have a civil union in all 50 states, and in all states heterosexual couples are required to be married or in a civil union to get partner benefits. It's the same in states where gay couples can get married or enter into civil unions; domestic partner benefits require that they do so.

      If the base law - marriage - weren't discriminatory in the first place - you wouldn't have the so-called discrimination against unmarried heterosexuals you're complaining about. Or let everyone claim their housemates as partners for the point of benefits regardless of status. I personally don't think that would be a big thing.

      Actually, if we had proper health care in the US, it wouldn't be an issue at all.

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    89. Re:Still unfair.. by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Most heterosexual couples wait several years in between starting their relationship and getting married

      Without citation I'm calling bullshit. Most people I know were either married the first or second year together, or married when she got pregnant. I've known people who lived together for decades without getting married. One woman in a bar was complaining to me that her SO had been promising marriage for fifteen years, and they'd had 4 kids together. The effect is nowhere near tiny. If I were motivated enough I'd go to census.gov and see if they have the stats.

      But that aside, I'm sure that Google's policy is "cohabitating", since otherwise they run afoul of some antidiscrimination laws. I'm sure California has laws against discriminating against someone because of sexual orientation, and if google gives breaks to cohabitating gays but not cohabitating straights, they'd be running afoul of that law.

    90. Re:Still unfair.. by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      Well, even though I can understand tax breaks for dependant children (buut I agree they shouldn't be there), married but childless couples should not get tax breaks. Worse is home loan interest, that is regressive to the point of classism. The landlord takes out a loan and rents the property out, his renter pays the interest and principle as part of his rent, and the landlord gets to deduct the interest (and deductions for propery tax) that the poor renter paid for him.

      The less you earn, the higher your total tax bill. The poor slob working the McDonald's cash register is paying more in taxes than me! That's just not right; the less you have, the less benefit you get from government.

    91. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And why should I subsidize someone else's children?

      Because society (humanity... no... all life in general), as a whole, needs children. Furthermore, society needs healthy and educated children to continue to function with equity.

    92. Re:Still unfair.. by exx1976 · · Score: 1

      How does getting a tax deduction for having kids equate to education? School taxes are separate, and are levied by the local government, they don't have anything to do with the exorbitant federal writeoffs that families get. I, too, have no children, and what do I get for it? Apparently, I have earned the right to pay for your children. Bullshit. If you want kids, you pay for them. If I wanted them, I'd have them, and no amount of tax writeoff is going to incenticize me to do so. Children should be a lifestyle choice, not a financial one. BTW - to say that I've benefitted from a society that educates it's children is a joke all by itself. Apparently you haven't spoken to many children recently.

    93. Re:Still unfair.. by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      And how am I supposed to get married when I can no more find a suitable woman than a gay man can? The fact is, I'm being discriminated because I can't find a suitable mate, and damn it, it's just plain wrong.

      Cohabitating gays at least have partners, which is more than I can say for myself.

    94. Re:Still unfair.. by Atario · · Score: 1

      Actually, this constitutes gender discrimination, twice over. It's saying men are not allowed to do something women can do: marry a man. And women are not allowed to do something men can do: marry a woman.

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    95. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      life isn't fair.

      -mom

      P.S. because i said so.

    96. Re:Still unfair.. by scorp1us · · Score: 1

      I advise you to read:
      Donald Duck

      According to tax historian John Witte, "In 1939 about 15% of the people paid income tax. That's all, period. At the end of the war, we had 80% of our families paying income tax." Along with Der Fuehrer's Face, another Donald Duck propaganda film The New Spirit was even nominated for an Academy Award in documentary short subjects in 1943!

      So from 15% to 99% today. Also see the tax table on the page.

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    97. Re:Still unfair.. by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      I feel sorry for you. It's a bonding of two humans in every possible way. Marrying for money is pathetic. As The Who pointed out in the song The Best I Ever Had, "one and one don't make two, one and one make one" (and in binary arithmetic, the statement is still true).

    98. Re:Still unfair.. by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      The purpose of tax breaks for home mortgages and married couples is to encourage raising children in stable, two parent households with one parent at home.

      If that's true, then why do a childless married couple who both work and whose combined incomes match my own pay less tax than me? Why does a couple who get married long after her last egg has shed get the tax breaks?

      And yea, I know the arguments about elderly or infertile couples. Save your electrons

      Don't worry, I have quintillions of electrons, I can spare a few. Perhaps you might stop ignoring all the elephants in your living room and explain why the discrepancy?

    99. Re:Still unfair.. by Taevin · · Score: 1
      The magic year in that... page is 1913. Before 1913 no one except the ultra rich and non-citizens had to pay tax! The page makes it out like the government is illegally collecting taxes and we were all swindled into it by Walt Disney... or we could note that the 16th Amendment was ratified on February 3, 1913. Nope, no mention of that though, except the very end were the writer pretends it doesn't exist:

      No part of the Federal Government is constitutionally permitted to levy such a direct tax on citizens of States and no amendment to the Constitution has changed that, not even the 16th amendment.

      Er, well the 16th amendment did change the Constitution to allow it, and courts have confirmed that it applies to wages and other income.

      The article does point out that the increasing taxes were enacted to help pay for the war and so they were in full effect during the 50s. This is the same 50s during which the concept of a "nuclear family" really took off. Somehow in the golden era of the nuclear family they did just fine paying the taxes with only one parent (the father) bringing home the bacon. So why is it that today a nuclear family struggles with both parents working?

    100. Re:Still unfair.. by Lost+Race · · Score: 1

      A dog can't be party to a legally binding contract. Only adult humans can.

      I see no reason to restrict marriages to exactly two people. Households with more than two adults have been common everywhere forever -- traditionally some of those adults are close genetic relatives but that doesn't need to be the case as long as the relationships are clearly established by contract or custom.

    101. Re:Still unfair.. by scorp1us · · Score: 1

      I'm going to ignore the whole 16th amendment argument and go with the pragmatic approach of "we pay today".

      It is because the thresholds were never changed yet inflation continued. So as time crept a long, the dollar fell, more and more people came above the threshold. Meanwhile the effetive tax rates increased. Even though the /rates/ during and immediately after the war were close to today, fewer people made money that was reported.

      The in the 70s, the IRS required SSNs for dependent deductions. That brought the generation Xrs into the system from birth because their parents needed SSNs to get the deduction. So even more people got pulled in who would otherwise be outside the system.

      When the income tax started in 1913 it was 1% over $250,000 (in today's dollars) now you can't make more than $600 without paying 15%.

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    102. Re:Still unfair.. by BarryJacobsen · · Score: 1

      That's because the UK has sane laws. He was probably talking about the US. I can very much attest to the fact that letting someone of the opposite sex live with you for too long can fuck you over when they go crazy.

    103. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      The less you earn, the higher your total tax bill.

      Another reason I believe in making uncooked food stuffs (from the grocery, not McD's) sales tax free. It is (was?) that way in Texas, and NC has much lower sales tax. The most basic needed things would best be sales tax free simply because it is a larger degree of a poor person's income, and it would encourage thrift, as precooked foods would still be taxed. Of course, the problem is that our economy is currently dependent on people spending more money than they have.

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    104. Re:Still unfair.. by yyxx · · Score: 1

      Google is likely offering domestic partner benefits, which means it also applies to unmarried heterosexual couples.

      But assuming they don't, why should they be forced? Because they can get married. It's not like gay couples don't want to get married, they are prohibited by law. As soon as that prohibition is lifted, Google will scrap those extra benefits. The fact that some people who might not marry if they could happen to fall under this special policy doesn't make it "discrimination", it just makes it an imperfect, temporary solution.

    105. Re:Still unfair.. by yyxx · · Score: 1

      Which is why I get so sick and tired of religious folks complaining about gay marriage destroying marriage in general.

      But it is! All those closeted gay religious folks would just abandon their spouses and go into same sex marriages if it became legal! Just look at Ted Haggard and those people, they are already taking the first step in anticipation!

    106. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      I accept that my point might have come across wrong. Most schools are paid by state tax, not federal income tax. Over 90% I believe (and the feds have no business being in the local school biz anyway). I have NO problem with federal programs *if* they are designed to either 1) help people help themselves, or 2) help those who can't help themselves. I was speaking solely of the tax deduction credits for income tax, ie: the basis of someone with two kids is $8k less than my basis, even if we make the same income.

      I agree we currently use the tax code to encourage/discourage. I just believe that social engineering in this way shouldn't be the job of the government. Tax cigarettes higher because they cause more medical costs to everyone? Ok, I buy that. I just think that taxing something *solely* to encourage or discourage an activity might be outside the constitution (ie: counter to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness).

      The fact that the government has done it (or anything) for so long is not a valid argument for continuing to do so. The same could have been said of slavery or civil rights.

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    107. Re:Still unfair.. by west · · Score: 1

      Tax cigarettes higher because they cause more medical costs to everyone? Ok, I buy that.

      Careful, if you are going to associate taxes with cost to the government, then what about children, who, if they are average tax payers, will pay about 25K each per year ($2.5 x 10^12 total revenue / 10^8 tax payers).

      Over 40 working years, the average taxpayer is worth about $1,000,000 to the government over their lifetime minus the cost of schools and manifold other benefits governments provide children.

      I'd say if you think taxing things that cost the government money is okay, consistency demands you provide tax cuts for things that give the government money...

      If your argument is consistent, you'd also have to be against a tax break for charitable donations, which is, after all, a lifestyle choice as well. Do you think that tax breaks for charitable donations should be abolished?

      Would we as a society be better of for such an abolition? It would lower our tax rates a bit.

    108. Re:Still unfair.. by west · · Score: 1

      I just believe that social engineering in this way shouldn't be the job of the government.

      Wait a moment - Consistency check!

      Another reason I believe in making uncooked food stuffs (from the grocery, not McD's) sales tax free. It is (was?) that way in Texas, and NC has much lower sales tax. The most basic needed things would best be sales tax free simply because it is a larger degree of a poor person's income, and it would encourage thrift, as precooked foods would still be taxed.

      That's social engineering, pure and unadulterated. In the same thread, no less!

      Tsk, tsk.

    109. Re:Still unfair.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I just refinanced like a month ago, and now it's like 3.5%

      And your math is terrible. If your house is worth 200,000, and you finance it for 30 years at 5%, and you invest the same 200,000 dollars in a long term investment with a guaranteed rate of return at 7% (like a CD), then how are you NOT making money? The mortgage tax break is more than enough to cancel out the capital gains on the investment, the interest for each is compounded exactly the same.

    110. Re:Still unfair.. by Uberbah · · Score: 1

      Thats all "legal" marriage is. A tax break.

      It's a lot more than just that. Like inheritance. And hospital visitation. And making medical decisions for your s/o if they are incapacitated.

    111. Re:Still unfair.. by gig · · Score: 1

      > Unmarried hetro couples are now discriminated against

      No they are not. Unmarried heterosexual couples are free to get married any time they like. Unmarried homosexual couples are forbidden from getting married. This is not about married-by-choice versus unmarried-by-choice, it's about married versus unmarried-because-they-are-forbidden-from-being-married.

      > some people may not believe in marrage or may not want to get married for one reason or another

      Others want to get married and are forbidden from getting married. That is what is being addressed here.

    112. Re:Still unfair.. by PrecambrianRabbit · · Score: 1

      Just to place your opinion in context, are you against progressive taxation in general?

      My thinking on the child tax credit is that it normalizes the marginal value of a dollar between a household with children and one without. I.e., if one makes $50k/year and has 2 children, an extra $1000 is considerable more helpful than if one makes $50k and has no children.

    113. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      That's social engineering, pure and unadulterated. In the same thread, no less!

      Not taxing food is not designed to encourage or discourage anyone from eating. It would also apply to everyone equally since everyone eats. That isn't remotely the same thing as social engineering by encouraging or discouraging activity based on taxes on VOLUNTARY activities, such as tobacco, alcohol, luxury goods, home ownership, etc.

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    114. Re:Still unfair.. by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Two single people making $40,000 each will pay more taxes married than single. A single person making $80,000 and a person making $0 will pay more cumulative taxes single than as a married couple. The law is designed to "encourage" married couples to leave one parent at home or with less work in order to spend more time raising the family (though originally it may have just been done because it was more fair that way when women were much less likely to work).

    115. Re:Still unfair.. by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Most places with common law marriages in the US have removed or weakened the laws. I don't know if there is any place left where you can be considered married because of a common law marriage unless the two of you present yourselves as a married couple.

    116. Re:Still unfair.. by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Fixed that for you.

      And made it false. A married couple where both make exactly the same (And it's high enough) pays a higher rate than a single person. It's only when there's an income disparity between the two where the married couple gains the benefit.

    117. Re:Still unfair.. by west · · Score: 1

      Come on! Surely you understand the equivalence?

      I have two people. One decides to eat fresh food, the other not. One pays less tax, the other doesn't.

      I have two families. One decides to have children, the other not. One pays less tax, the other doesn't.

      They're *exactly* equivalent! You want people to VOLUNTARILY eat more fresh food. The government wants people to VOLUNTARILY have children.

      If anything the food tax cut is more generous, as you get the tax cut instantly, and it doesn't require you to have taxable income in order to enjoy the tax cut.

      I have to admit, it takes chutzpah to actually defend your claim that your against social engineering when you've been caught red handed. I certainly would be back-pedaling furiously now.

      If you want to attack tax-cuts for kids, I'd suggest going for the fact that perhaps they don't work (i.e. the subsidy is not enough to induce people to have kids) or that the goal of people having more kids is not one you share. Personally, it looks to me like your against social engineering of goals you don't share. Fair enough, I'm the same way. But while we're both for social engineering to get more of things we like, only one of us is claiming we're against social engineering as a principle.

    118. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      Nope. A married couple making 100k combined pay LESS tax than a single person making 100k. If both are making 200k combined, then of course they pay more than someone making 100k, but they pay less than if they file individual. If they didn't they would file as "married but filing separately" anyway.

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    119. Re:Still unfair.. by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      You are 100% wrong. Two people dating making 100k each pay less in taxes than if they married. Everything else you said is just cover up for not knowing what you are talking about. Married people pay more, not the singles.

      Of course, as you said, two people making 50k each will pay less married than a single person making 100k, but that's unrelated to my statements or my proof that your correction took a correct statement and turned it into a lie.

    120. Re:Still unfair.. by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      Two people married making 200k are put into the highest tax bracket, paying the second 100k at the higher 25 and up to 38% rate. The math really isn't that hard, talk to a CPA.

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    121. Re:Still unfair.. by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Yes, I understand. You are 100% wrong in your statement: "In tax law, single people, irrespective of sexual orientation, always pay the highest rate of tax." Two married people making the same amount (e.g. both making 100k each) will always pay more than when they were single (and still making 100k each). The math isn't hard. You are now, and always were, 100% wrong. And the funny thing is, you were being an ass about it with the stupid "there, fixed that for you" crap in order to break a true statement and turn it false.

  5. Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by frovingslosh · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Boy, do I see a lawsuit brewing here. How can they legally justify paying straight people less than gays, if all other factors are equal? I don't care about any tax issues. Does Google pay an apartment dweller more just because they don't get a mortgage write-off? Do they pay a single person more because he can't claim to be a head-of-household under IRS rules like a married person does? Do they pay a blind person less because they get two personal exemptions rather than one on their ISR 1040? If their pay policy doesn't address these and a lot more tax inequities, then I hope that they get sued big time for a pay policy that actually favors gays over straight people. In short, it's not for Google to start correcting the unfairness of the tax system, and to do so in a discriminatory manner that favors gays over straights just isn't right or smart.

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    1. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by bersl2 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      So, the government can discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation (prevent a same-sex couple from attaining the same marriage a differing-sex couple is entitled to), but a private-sector company cannot?

    2. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by lena_10326 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      OK. So, you are upset google is compensating gays in long term relationships for a tax code that is discriminatory against gays and you wish to eliminate unfair wages based on sexual orientation. So then by implication I can assume you are also wishing to legalize gay marriage so that we can eliminate the federal tax code discrimination against long term gay relationships in order to stamp out google's wage discrimination which is based on countering the federal tax code discrimination against gays?

      Hint: if you're against one form of sexual discrimination, then you MUST be against another form of sexual discrimination in order to maintain a consistent logical argument.

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    3. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, the idea is that employers should not be able to discriminate to make up for some other discrimination the employer perceived. Two wrongs don't make a right. The heterosexual employees are not discriminating against the gay employees, so why should they pay the price?

    4. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So a private-sector company can discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation, but a private-sector company cannot discriminate on the basis of "race"?

      The answer is the same to both questions and the relevant term is "protected class" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Protected_class.

      Like it or not, we are not all equal under the law and the relevant law that defines when we are not equal is different in different jurisdictions.

    5. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by sqrt(2) · · Score: 3, Insightful

      consistent logical argument
      US politics abandoned that quaint idea decades ago.

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    6. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 0

      Hint: if you're against one form of sexual discrimination, then you MUST be against another form of sexual discrimination in order to maintain a consistent logical argument.

      I doubt you really believe that. How about pedophiles in a kindergarten?

    7. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Let's hope there is a lawsuit. This has nothing to do with homosexuality. If the state does not recognize your marriage, the IRS will tax your benefits from your partner. This is a tax on your beliefs and is unconstitutional.

      Maybe Google can put an end to this 22 year old IRS ruling when Clinton could not.

    8. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by L4t3r4lu5 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      No, the government can't and you should collectively stop them doing it.

      Wait, you're not gay and don't care about gay rights unless you're on the losing end? Hypocrites.

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    9. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So, the government can discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation (prevent a same-sex couple from attaining the same marriage a differing-sex couple is entitled to), but a private-sector company cannot?

      The government does have the advantage of making the rules...

    10. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by sqrt(2) · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Minors can't (by definition) render legal consent so I fail to see the point you're trying to make.

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    11. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by jimicus · · Score: 1

      Actually, that's probably true in more-or-less any country that gives tax breaks to married couples but doesn't allow gay couples similar breaks.

    12. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Burpmaster · · Score: 1

      Hint: if you're against one form of sexual discrimination, then you MUST be against another form of sexual discrimination in order to maintain a consistent logical argument.

      I doubt you really believe that. How about pedophiles in a kindergarten?

      Keeping pedophiles out of kindergarten isn't sexual discrimination. Try again.

    13. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      The point I'm making is that I'm guessing you are not in favor of employing pedophiles in kindergartens, even if they promise not to engage in inappropriate conduct with the children. I could be wrong about that, but suppose I'm not. Then you are promoting a form of sexual discrimination that applies only in particular for pedophiles, which is inconsistent with your previously stated position.

    14. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Posting=!Working · · Score: 1

      "In short, it's not for Google to start correcting the unfairness of the tax system, and to do so in a discriminatory manner that favors gays over straights just isn't right or smart."

      So the correct way to deal with an unfair tax system is to live with it? Employers are limited in their method of compensation?

      Google is free to compensate any way they want. They're not paying employees more money for being gay or lesbian, they are compensating their employees who pay this unjust tax. They didn't cut anyone's salary, it's not discrimination, it's a benefit. They have free laundry, if they then offered free dry cleaning and an employee doesn't own a suit or anything that needs it, the employee is not getting screwed even though this effectively gives an extra $1,000/year to an employee who wears suits everyday.

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    15. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by sqrt(2) · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Being a pedophile isn't against the law, if it were that would be thought-crime, as pedophilia is just an attraction to children. Child molestation IS a crime, and if someone commits that crime they'll be put in jail. When they get out they will be discriminated against because of the crime they committed, not their sexual preference.

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    16. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by frovingslosh · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So do you believe it is always OK for businesses to discriminate on the basis of sexual preference, or only do so when it favors homosexuals? I strongly suspect that you are a hypocrite and would be protesting any stated policy that advocated paying homosexuals less than straights rather than more.

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    17. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Which is why a lot of countries are remedying that inequality.

    18. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by David+Jao · · Score: 1

      So then by implication I can assume you are also wishing to legalize gay marriage so that we can eliminate the federal tax code discrimination against long term gay relationships in order to stamp out google's wage discrimination which is based on countering the federal tax code discrimination against gays?

      No. There is another, better solution. Eliminate all consideration of marriage in the tax code. Many countries (e.g. Canada) already do this -- you file your income taxes individually regardless of your marriage status. The same answer, by the way, applies to most of the examples of tax discrimination mentioned by the GP. For example, the ideal response to the mortgage interest tax deduction is not to pay renters a higher salary to compensate. The ideal response is to eliminate the mortgage interest tax deduction.

      The question of whether gays should be legally allowed to marry is an independent question. It should not be bundled with tax issues.

    19. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      I'm against Google paying extra money to gays. The reason for the extra money is that they are in a gay relationship.

      Quite simply, Google is paying gay people more money for the same work. The reasoning behind it is noble, but the end result is corporate discrimination to counter government discrimination. Only corporate discrimination matters to the person with the smaller paycheck.

    20. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      I agree with what you wrote. You dodged the issue. Are you in favor of employing openly pedophile people in kindergartens, even if they have not molested any children?

    21. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      Since we are talking about sexual orientation rather than gender, I do believe that by sexual discrimination he means discrimination based on sexual orientation not gender. Denying pedophiles employment in kindergartens absolutely is discrimination based on sexual orientation.

    22. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by sqrt(2) · · Score: 1

      The question is whether their sexual preference alone is the criteria for discrimination. In such a case, I would say no, I would not allow open pedophiles to work with kids because it would endanger the children, and their own safety/future freedom.

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    23. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1
      My point was then that anyone who believes that probably does not agree with this:

      if you're against one form of sexual discrimination, then you MUST be against another form of sexual discrimination in order to maintain a consistent logical argument.

    24. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by w00tsauce · · Score: 0

      This isn't about whats fair and not fair. Think about how much time a strait guy spends during the day thinking about tits. Ok now replace that time coming up for new ideas to help google.

    25. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      there is NO law that says one can not discriminate based on sexual preference. This is a common misconception, the law says you can not discriminate based on SEX (male and female) it says nothing about preference.

    26. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by selven · · Score: 1

      In short, it's not for Google to start correcting the unfairness of the tax system

      Look. We have Google, a large corporation, standing up for the rights of its employees. They certainly consulted their lawyers, who probably them it was legally risky, but they went ahead anyway. And you're complaining about this? As far as I'm concerned, a company standing up for the rights of its employees should be praised, especially since it's risking a lawsuit by doing this. Most companies just operate to maximize profit, but that is not the way it should be.

    27. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not against zoophilia. Would they pay more for the rights of zoophilic partnerts?

    28. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by bcmm · · Score: 1

      I doubt you really believe that. How about pedophiles in a kindergarten?

      In a relationship between a paedophile and a child, one party is very obviously more powerful and the other very obviously an unwilling (or incapable of consent) victim. The same is not true of a homosexual relationship between adults.

      It is right and proper for the State and others to leave alone those who don't harm others, and act against those who do.

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    29. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Nyder · · Score: 1

      Boy, do I see a lawsuit brewing here. How can they legally justify paying straight people less than gays, if all other factors are equal? I don't care about any tax issues. Does Google pay an apartment dweller more just because they don't get a mortgage write-off? Do they pay a single person more because he can't claim to be a head-of-household under IRS rules like a married person does? Do they pay a blind person less because they get two personal exemptions rather than one on their ISR 1040? If their pay policy doesn't address these and a lot more tax inequities, then I hope that they get sued big time for a pay policy that actually favors gays over straight people. In short, it's not for Google to start correcting the unfairness of the tax system, and to do so in a discriminatory manner that favors gays over straights just isn't right or smart.

      You bring up a good point.

      I guess if your a "think only of himself" sort of straight person, then yes, you are getting shafted. Of course, i'm sure you'll figure out that maybe it would be better if you lied about being gay, so you could get more money.

      And you do realize that google can keep that from happening by having people who paid more taxes for healthcare for partners, actually bring in forms and be reimbursed. That way they aren't paying anyone any more money then themselves.

      And seeing as corporations have more power then people these days, there is nothing wrong with them doing that. Unjust laws are that, unjust. Google sees that and is doing what they can about it, for their employees.

      In short, it's not your place to say what sort of decision Google can make regarding the tax system, seeing as they pay more in a year then you have earned so far in your life.

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    30. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have to concur. Furthermore, there is only a tax benefit to being married to a certain extent, but there are also disadvantages. Certain tax write offs and exemptions carry the same limits whether they are for single or married payers. Plus, if they are increasing base salary for homosexuals, whose to say that they don't just increase their tax benefited retirement contributions? I mean, many employers base their retirement matches on your salary, so they have essentially indicated that they will give them more for their retirement contributions. No?

    31. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      That is at the same time true and irrelevant to the discussion at hand. Pedophiles are not the same as child molesters. Pedophiles are people who are sexually attracted to children. It is a sexual orientation, it is not a crime. The point is that we want to exclude people with this sexual orientation from working in kindergartens. Thus we want to engage in discrimination based on sexual orientation, and yet we probably all believe that this is consistent with opposing many other forms of discrimination based on sexual orientation. So we and probably the grandparent don't really believe what the grandparent wrote.

    32. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Ihmhi · · Score: 1

      Whoever would sue over this would be the king of idiots. The bad press alone is enough to give a P.R. agent a stress aneurysm just thinking about it.

    33. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      Actually you didn't state at any point in your post that you disagreed with me. My post was written with the assumption that you believed that what you wrote was in opposition to what I wrote, even though it wasn't.

    34. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree with what you wrote. You dodged the issue. Are you in favor of employing openly pedophile people in kindergartens, even if they have not molested any children?

      Personally, I'd have no more problems with it than I do about hiring heterosexual males to work at hooters as managers. The vast majority are capable of being physically attracted to someone else without ever even considering molesting them. I'm sure you do it every day. Do attractive women that work next to you have something to fear because you just might lose it when day?

    35. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Oligonicella · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Your argument only works if you consider women to be emotionally, intellectually and physically equivalent to children.

    36. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by kthejoker · · Score: 1

      I'm glad you brought the legal ramifications of this to Google's attention! Here they were just blithely going around instituting policies without any sort of labor attorneys providing counsel, so it's a good thing you showed up to set them straight (no pun intended.)

      Seriously, though, as a straight guy, I would never complain about this. I'm not even sure you could win a discrimination lawsuit, since your net income is the same. But the tax is unfair, and I don't want to be the guy with "loves to take advantage of his privileged status" on his resume.

    37. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by CrimsonAvenger · · Score: 1

      So, the government can discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation (prevent a same-sex couple from attaining the same marriage a differing-sex couple is entitled to), but a private-sector company cannot?

      Governments can discriminate whenever and however they wish. That's the advantage that goes with the ability to write the laws.

      On the other hand, in the USA, the private sector cannot, since the government wrote an assortment of laws making that sort of thing illegal.

      Note that if you're looking for consistency in the government, you might want to start with the Congresscritters that exempt themselves from pretty much every law that might invite lawsuits (yes, congresscritters are statutorially exempted from anti-discrimination laws, sexual harassment laws, that sort of thing).

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    38. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Bill_the_Engineer · · Score: 1

      Actually I'm for gay marriage. Why should we heterosexuals keep all the fun of being married to ourselves?

      For most of my marriage I've been penalized by the tax code. In fact the marriage penalty returns in 2011 unless congress renews the "Working Families Tax Relief Act".

      Marriage has more to do with estate than with taxes. In the case of death, the surviving spouse is offered protections that are not available to a non-married couple. Sure a will can offer some protections, but what about when that will is contested? I've heard horror stories where a vindictive family will pretty much leave the surviving gay partner "out in the cold".

      I think Google's actions amount to nothing more than discrimination based on sexual orientation and they may very well rightfully find themselves in court.

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    39. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by iceperson · · Score: 1, Troll

      Straight people can't marry people of the same sex either...

    40. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hint: if you're against one form of sexual discrimination, then you MUST be against another form of sexual discrimination in order to maintain a consistent logical argument.

      Yeah, but gheyz are "icky" - Mike Huckabee told me so! Maybe all that buttseks gives them cooties.

    41. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Bill_the_Engineer · · Score: 0, Troll

      Your argument looks good except for the fact that the two similar looking issues are actually to very different things.

      So, you are upset google is compensating gays in long term relationships for a tax code that is discriminatory against gays and you wish to eliminate unfair wages based on sexual orientation.

      Yes, because Google is actively defying fair labor laws in order to push their agenda. Will Google rescind this liberal salary policy when the "Working Families Tax Relief Act" is not reauthorized and the marriage penalty returns (or actually returns to its pre-2003 level since the marriage penalty didn't fully disappear)?

      So then by implication I can assume you are also wishing to legalize gay marriage so that we can eliminate the federal tax code discrimination against long term gay relationships in order to stamp out google's wage discrimination which is based on countering the federal tax code discrimination against gays?

      Well actually I'm for gay marriage.

      However your argument is invalid because I could be for the enforcement of fair labor laws and against the legalization of gay marriage. They are two different topics. A bigot could take the position that he is not only against gay marriage but he is sickened by the thought that Google is paying them extra to be gay.

      So I conclude that the following statement:

      Hint: if you're against one form of sexual discrimination, then you MUST be against another form of sexual discrimination in order to maintain a consistent logical argument.

      is invalid since you mixed up the topic of fair labor practices with the more personal topic of gay marriage. Nice try though.

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    42. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      The government does not discriminate on the basis of who you like to have sex with. Heterosexuals are also not allowed to marry someone of the same sex.

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    43. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Burpmaster · · Score: 1

      The actual issue is gender discrimination. A marriage is either allowed or not allowed based on the gender of the two people getting married. Though the law was motivated by a prejudice against gays, the actual law, as codified, is a law that discriminates based on gender.

    44. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      And the difference, for those who can't see it, is that a heterosexual male can legally go home and find release with a consenting partner. That's still not to say every heterosexual male would attack female co-workers, or even that anything more than a small minority would, if they didn't have this release, but if one were pre-disposed to this behaviour it would certainly exacerbate the chances of said attack happening, to have daily temptation and no way of blowing off steam.

    45. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by yoha · · Score: 0, Troll

      Sexual preference is not a protected class, so it is actually okay to discriminate. It's the law of the land.

      Anyway, Google is a private business, and if you do not like their policies, then you may choose to neither work there nor purchase their products.

    46. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by SatanicPuppy · · Score: 1

      They believe the tax is unfair, and they're compensating their employees who have to pay it.

      Seems legit to me: not like there is a law that says everyone has to be paid the same if they do the same work...If I'm working next to a guy who's worked at the company for the same amount of time as me, who made a better deal when he got hired and now makes more than me, I should be able to sue? (I wish: I am a shitty negotiator)

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    47. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by OhHellWithIt · · Score: 1

      IANAL, but I don't believe that tax status (i.e., mortgage deduction) is a protected class. Also, the EEOC q-and-a page doesn't list sexual orientation as being a class that is protectedby federal law, although some states and localities offer such protection. (I'd be surprised if Californica weren't one of these states.)

      Whatever, I salute Google for having the cojones to make this move. Besides, it should be entertaining just for all the heat and light that will be generated. I'd love it if Facebook were to follow suit.

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    48. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by stdarg · · Score: 1

      Google is free to compensate any way they want.

      Not in a way that discriminates on the basis of sexual orientation.

      They didn't cut anyone's salary, it's not discrimination, it's a benefit.

      "We pay men more because they have families to support. It's not discrimination, it's a benefit of being a man."

    49. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by whisper_jeff · · Score: 1

      How can they legally justify paying straight people less than gays, if all other factors are equal?

      All other factors are NOT equal.

      Take a moment to read that again.

      Until any and all laws against gay marriage are abolished, all other factors are not equal. Once all factors are equal - once gay couples are treated no differently than straight couples - then your point is valid and gay couples will no longer deserve extra pay to compensate a tax that they, and only they, have to pay.

    50. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Idarubicin · · Score: 2, Insightful

      So do you believe it is always OK for businesses to discriminate on the basis of sexual preference, or only do so when it favors homosexuals? I strongly suspect that you are a hypocrite and would be protesting any stated policy that advocated paying homosexuals less than straights rather than more.

      If that were the case, it would indeed be an ugly hypocrisy.

      Of course, your inflammatory strawman argument is irrelevant to the present discussion. What Google is doing here is ensuring that same-sex couples receive the same benefits package for the same price as their heterosexual coworkers. At the end of the day, the straight couples and the gay couples get the same health care and enjoy the same take-home pay after taxes. What is unfair or discriminatory about that?

      Surely you're not arguing that same-sex couples should pay higher taxes than heterosexual couples on identical benefits?

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    51. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Its discrimination if it's against a minority.

      Its reparations if it's against the majority.

      Same thing with vendor lock-in. If you are sufficiently large, it is seen as monopolistic abuse, but if it is a small company, the same actions are fair play.

      I really don't see the majority winning a lawsuit against a minority (hetero vs homo in this case).

    52. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by hedwards · · Score: 3, Insightful

      What discrimination? For crying out loud, they aren't being allowed to keep the money, that money is going to the IRS for use by the federal government.

    53. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by lena_10326 · · Score: 1

      I doubt you really believe that. How about pedophiles in a kindergarten?

      You aren't the first asshole to draw a connection between homosexuality and pedophilia.

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    54. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Boy, do I see a lawsuit brewing here. How can they legally justify paying straight people less than gays, if all other factors are equal?

      Well, you see, all other factors are NOT equal.
      That apartment dweller has the OPTION to buy a house. That single person has the OPTION of getting married. Blind people have a disability which gives them a tax write off, you have the OPTION of blinding yourself to get that if you so feel like it.
      However, gay and lesbian couples do not have the OPTION of marrying nor do they have the OPTION of claiming the same tax as a straight married couple.

      If I were aware of a gay guy getting more than me simply to compensate for the unfair tax, it would irk me, but I'd still think it a fair compromise. That compromise made by an employer instead of the government indicates that the employer cares about fairness across the board and doesn't say 'oh well, nothing we can do about it'.

    55. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      I doubt you really believe that. How about pedophiles in a kindergarten?

      You aren't the first asshole to draw a connection between homosexuality and pedophilia.

      You aren't the first asshole to completely be unable to think for yourself you fucking moron. If you had stopped to think even for a second or if you had read my responses to the other posts then you would have discovered that the entire point here is that homosexuality is not like pedophilia in that homosexuality is just fine and pedophilia isn't, and so not all discrimination based on sexual orientation is a problem even if discrimination against homosexuals is a problem. The only one talking about and advertising a connection here between homosexuality and pedophilia is you.

    56. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      I'm sure the law mentions gender, but the law does not treat women and men differently. The law is about sexual orientation because it is people of a certain sexual orientation that it treats differently, not people of a certain gender. Homosexual is a sexual orientation and not a gender last time I checked.

    57. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ever heard of the legally-allowed positive discrimination? Nope? Didn't expect that you would have.

      Bravo, Google, may you be amongst the start of many!

    58. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Posting=!Working · · Score: 1

      It doesn't discriminate based on sexual orientation. It's determined by whether or not you pay a tax that the company thinks is unfair. You don't get this if you're a single gay or lesbian employee. Just as my laundry example is not discrimination of those who do not wear suits, reimbursing an employee for a tax that you are not subject to is not discrimination.

      "We pay men more because they have families to support. It's not discrimination, it's a benefit of being a man."

      This is not an analogous example at all.

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    59. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by ImprovOmega · · Score: 1

      Actually, in California a company cannot discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation. It's a bit of an expanded version of federal law. I think a case probably could be made that they're discriminating against heterosexuals with this policy, but given the current political atmosphere I doubt such a case would get off the ground.

    60. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by ImprovOmega · · Score: 1

      Sexual preference is a protected class in California. They take it a few steps further than federal law.

    61. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Except they aren't paying ALL homosexuals more than heterosexuals. Only those in domestic partner situations where, were the laws not discriminatory, they would have the same benefits at the same price as a married couple. They aren't giving it to people just for being gay. The single or non-domestic partnered homosexuals are not receiving this pay increase.

      Just to put into perspective, for a while my registered domestic partner was receiving his benefits through me, The cost to me was about $50-$60 (forget exact number) per paycheck (bi-weekly) more than if one of us was female and could enter into a marriage contract. So basically we were getting taxed an extra $100 a month because we are gay.

    62. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by wiredlogic · · Score: 1

      Google is clearly blatantly discriminating here but it is for the purpose of making a point about an unfair system. Conveniently there are no laws prohibiting pay discrimination based on sexual orientation (race and gender? watch out). Consider it a form of corporate civil disobedience. They have enough clout to influence their industry and the government. Google is to be commended for truly living up to the obligations of being a corporate *citizen* and not just a money making machine.

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    63. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by fishexe · · Score: 1

      My point was then that anyone who believes that probably does not agree with this:

      if you're against one form of sexual discrimination, then you MUST be against another form of sexual discrimination in order to maintain a consistent logical argument.

      I agree!

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    64. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ah, but our government hasn't passed the Employee Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) yet, which would ban businesses from discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation, including heterosexuality. Therefore, I hope you will join us in trying to get such important legislation passed, but until then businesses can still fire people for being gay just as much as they can pay their gay employee's more. It goes both ways. (pun intended)

    65. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by fishexe · · Score: 1

      So do you believe it is always OK for businesses to discriminate on the basis of sexual preference, or only do so when it favors homosexuals? I strongly suspect that you are a hypocrite and would be protesting any stated policy that advocated paying homosexuals less than straights rather than more.

      Actually, if there were a government tax on being straight, I would be all for companies paying more to offset the tax.

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    66. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by tthomas48 · · Score: 1

      I hate to point out the flaw her, but all those things you listed actually happen and are legitimate. Many employers I've worked for give free health benefits to the employee and match some amount of a couple or family's plan! That would be exactly what you're describing. Many employers offer eye care benefits even though some people don't have to wear glasses!! Some employers offer child care subsidies even though some of their employees don't have children!!!

      This would only be illegal if Google said, "Hey, you're gay, have a raise!". If they're essentially offering to compensate for differences in costs of benefits, I don't see how that would be any more discriminatory than any other pay package in existence.

    67. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      Great! :)

    68. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by matunos · · Score: 1

      Yeah, if only there were some sort of federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act that could protect us breeders from discrimination like this.

    69. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Of course, your inflammatory strawman argument is irrelevant to the present discussion. What Google is doing here is ensuring that same-sex couples receive the same benefits package for the same price as their heterosexual coworkers. At the end of the day, the straight couples and the gay couples get the same health care and enjoy the same take-home pay after taxes. What is unfair or discriminatory about that?

      Let's assume that per tomorrow, gays get a tax break of some sort. Would you consider it fair if Google would respond by paying gays less, such that they enjoy the same take-home pay after taxes as non-gays?

    70. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Burpmaster · · Score: 1

      The law does treat men and women differently. Only men are allowed to marry women. Women can't. And only women are allowed to marry men. Men can't.

      The issue parallels segregation, but with a bizarro twist where people from each population are forbidden from intermingling with their own group instead of the other group. The notion that men and women have the same rights under a gay marriage ban makes as much sense as the "separate but equal" argument.

    71. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Taevin · · Score: 1

      No, it's decidedly not about sexual orientation. The law says that if you are male, you cannot marry another male (and the same with females). For example, a homosexual male could marry a homosexual female without violating the law.

      Personally, I find that very humorous because that seems to me to actually be "degrading to the sanctity of marriage." Here we have to people that loathe the thought of being intimate with one another but they are man and woman so it's OK. How that is less degrading than two men or two women declaring their love for one another in body and spirit, is quite beyond my understanding.

    72. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      No, it's decidedly not about sexual orientation. The law says that if you are male, you cannot marry another male (and the same with females).

      I take it you don't see a contradiction between these two sentences. In that case I don't know what more there is to say.

    73. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Took the words right out of my mouth

    74. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by MattskEE · · Score: 1

      Google is correcting their paychecks to be the same amount after taxes, because they have decided that they want to pay their employees on the basis of merit and experience, not sexual orientation. With the reduced tax withholding on a straight employee's check, it could even end up being the exact same value as a gay employee's check, assuming they make the same amount per year.

      What is effectively happening is that in order to pay a fair wage to Google's employees, Google must pay a tax to the government for hiring gay people. Blame the government for enforcing this discrimination, that is the root of the problem.

    75. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's hilarious that you think "haha, you should support gay marriage" is some kind of witty comeback. Especially since the OP's use of terms like "unfairness" suggests that he/she probably already does.

    76. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Taevin · · Score: 1
      I'm not sure why you're still arguing this point, it makes no sense.
      • A homosexual man cannot marry another man (of any orientation).
      • A heterosexual man cannot marry another man (of any orientation).
      • A man of any sexual orientation cannot marry another man (of any orientation).

      On the other hand, a homosexual man can marry a woman (of any orientation). So, while I agree with you that the net effect is that of the groups discriminated by the law, the group "same-sex homosexual partners wishing to marry one another" is the most represented, it's not the only case either. The law discriminates against all men of any belief or persuasion from marrying another man.

      Take the sentence you quoted from me:

      No, it's decidedly not about sexual orientation. The law says that if you are male, you cannot marry another male (and the same with females).

      Your inference is that a male marrying another male must be homosexual and the law prevents one male from marrying another male, thus the law discriminates against homosexuals. The conclusion is true but not exclusive (as it also potentially discriminates against other demographics). You premise is unnecessarily exclusive (i.e. it is not necessary that both or even one of the male/female parties in a same-sex marriage be homosexual).

      In case it's still not clear, two buddies that have zero sexual interest in each other or sex with men in general and have never desired anything but a woman but decide to get married for shits and giggles would also be prevented by the law because the law says two people of the same sex cannot be married. If it said that homosexuals cannot marry people of their own sex, that would be discriminating based on sexual orientation and in that case the two buddies would be allowed to get married because they are heterosexual.

    77. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In the end, what Google is doing will balance out both straight and gay couple incomes. After taxes, they will both get the same. I don't see why that is so hard to understand.

    78. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by exx1976 · · Score: 1

      Hell yes gays should be allowed to get married!! Why shouldn't they be allowed to be as miserable as hetero married couples?

    79. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The government isn't discriminating against gays, they're discriminating in favor of married couples. And seniors, and children. And current and former members of the military. Etc

      As a straight person, I'm confused why two people who are gay should get a bigger tax break than me and my girlfriend.

    80. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by evilviper · · Score: 1

      [...] and enjoy the same take-home pay after taxes. What is unfair or discriminatory about that?

      I'm single. My taxes are MUCH higher than someone who is married, with multiple dependents. I also rent instead of owning a home, which means I don't get those tax breaks either.

      Now, I don't think there should be a tax on being gay, but why wouldn't Google pay ME more to cover my additional tax burden? Why only for sexual preference?

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    81. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      The discrimination isn't against gays, it's against singles. There are gay men married to women (often if not usually leading to divorce, unfortunately) who get the marriage tax breaks. I, however, can't find a suitable mate.

      If Google is treating cohabitating straight people the same as cohabitating gays, I don't see the problem (except of course that they're still discriminating against singles, both straight and gay, but that's legal).

      And the government can indeed get away with crap the private sector cannot; for example, you can't sue a government worker or the government for damages unless you can prove the government or the worker has broken a law.

    82. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So two wrongs make a right? I think the entire tax system that has been set up is B.S. Not just on this issue. Does this mean I don't pay my taxes? Hell no. That would be stupid. Just because you don't agree with a law doesn't give you the right to break it.

      Tax laws are the rules the government has set in place. Right or wrong (in your opinion), it is the law. Vote some people into office who really will promote change if you disagree with the current government.

      There are also laws in place that say people should be paid the same for the same job. Regardless of gender, race, etc... Look on the posters that your employer is required to display. That's how big of a deal this is.

      Google IS discriminating against straight people by giving gays a higher salary. They are starting down a dangerous path, IMO.

      So, breaking one law is okay, but not another? You sound like a hypocrite.

    83. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How can they legally justify paying straight people less than gays, if all other factors are equal? I don't care about any tax issues.

      That are some interesting logical gymnastics for you. "How can Google justify this if I ignore the entire reason that they're doing this?". Well, uhh, duh, they can't with that thinking.

    84. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by stdarg · · Score: 1

      It doesn't discriminate based on sexual orientation. It's determined by whether or not you pay a tax that the company thinks is unfair.

      But if there's a strong correlation, that's pretty much the same thing. What percentage of people who benefit from this will be gay or lesbian? If it *just happens* that most of them are, that's pretty clear evidence that Google made this decision for their benefit. There are plenty of things people pay with after-tax income in this world, and for Google to pick and choose which ones to "correct" is unfair if it benefits one group significantly more than others.

    85. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by ljgshkg · · Score: 1

      Every time I see people talking about gay marrage, I see they talk about fairness in tax. But you got to know WHY married couples get some tax benefit at first. It's because governments want to encourage people to get marry AND give birth. Now, if you say, gay couples are adopting a child. You'll get your benefit of adopting child as normal couples. But the reasoning of giving tax benefits to married couples is to decrease the financial stress of marriage and is actually targeted at *give birth*.

    86. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Idarubicin · · Score: 1

      [...] and enjoy the same take-home pay after taxes. What is unfair or discriminatory about that?

      I'm single. My taxes are MUCH higher than someone who is married, with multiple dependents. I also rent instead of owning a home, which means I don't get those tax breaks either.

      Now, I don't think there should be a tax on being gay, but why wouldn't Google pay ME more to cover my additional tax burden? Why only for sexual preference?

      For better or for worse, it has been decided that there is a social benefit to easing the tax burden on individuals who have dependents (generally dependent children). This actually does make sense to some extent, as those children do provide indirect benefits to all of us, and it makes sense to defray some of the costs associated with raising them. (When they grow up and pay taxes of their own, it's everyone's social security they'll be paying for. You're paying a premium now to not have to shell out to raise the kids who will fund your retirement.)

      Perhaps more important, the decision to have children (or not) is one that is open to everyone. (Even the infertile can choose to adopt.) The decision to rent accommodation or to buy a home is open to everyone. (Yes, you may have to make other choices, about your education, about places you are willing to live, about careers and salaries you are willing to work for.)

      On the other hand, sexual orientation isn't a choice. These people were being penalized for a fundamental part of who they were; for something that they can't change no matter how hard they work or what other decisions they might make in life. That is why Google is paying same-sex partners more.

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    87. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Ibix · · Score: 1

      Boy, do I see a lawsuit brewing here. How can they legally justify paying straight people less than gays, if all other factors are equal? I don't care about any tax issues.

      Easy: all other factors are not equal - ignoring tax does not make it go away (I share your dream, however). Effectively, you are arguing that it is legal for Google to choose equal gross pay, but not for them to choose equal net pay.

      Does Google pay an apartment dweller more just because they don't get a mortgage write-off? Do they pay a single person more because he can't claim to be a head-of-household under IRS rules like a married person does?

      These are choices that people make (often for reasons of failure of foresight, I'll admit), but they choose to put themselves in circumstances that lead to them paying more tax. Is gay a lifestyle choice? Remember that to win a lawsuit on these grounds, you'll have to prove in court that the answer is "yes" and, so far as I am aware, the evidence is not strong in either direction.

      Do they pay a blind person less because they get two personal exemptions rather than one on their ISR 1040?

      This one is not a lifestyle choice[1], but is easily defensible on grounds of additional costs experienced by disabled people in general. (such as a guide dog, equipment modifications and extra peripherals). Being gay or straight doesn't necessarily cost more, given the existence of adoption agencies.

      ...In short, it's not for Google to start correcting the unfairness of the tax system...

      I think you hit a different nail from the one you were aiming at, but you're right on it's head. The tax system is unfair. Google's decision to correct for it doesn't favour gays or straights in terms of take-home pay, and this is all they need for defence because anti-discrimination laws all have exceptions for "genuine operational reasons" (for example, police attempting to infiltrate a white supremacist group can legally reject a black applicant based only on the colour of his skin). Google wishes to equalise take-home pay across protected characteristics (such as sexual orientation) while acknowledging extra costs faced by some groups (such as the disabled - which is independent of sexual orientation). That sounds like a genuine operational reason to me. The only argument[2] I can see against it requires you to say that "...wishes to equalise gross pay..." is legal while "..wishes to equalise net pay..." is not - which is quite a difficult argument.

      I could be wrong,
      Ibix.

      [1] Unless you put your own eyes out - but allow me this one assumption.

      [2] The only non-homophobic argument, I should say, but the way you use "unfairness" and "correct" in your last sentence suggests to me that that's not your driver.

    88. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by lena_10326 · · Score: 1

      You aren't the first asshole to completely be unable to think for yourself you fucking moron. If you had stopped to think even for a second or if you had read my responses to the other posts then you would have discovered that the entire point here is that homosexuality is not like pedophilia in that homosexuality is just fine and pedophilia isn't, and so not all discrimination based on sexual orientation is a problem even if discrimination against homosexuals is a problem. The only one talking about and advertising a connection here between homosexuality and pedophilia is you.

      I had read your other posts; you simply don't get it. You made the the case that pedophilia is a form of sexual orientation on par with homosexuality and heterosexuality.

      Denying pedophiles employment in kindergartens absolutely is discrimination based on sexual orientation.

      You are the one who injected pedophilia into a conversation on homosexuality and heterosexuality. You are the one who is seemingly ignorant of the history of the despicable propaganda machine portraying homosexuals as stalking perverts determined to molest and rape your kids. What you are missing is that I categorically reject the entire premise that pedophilia is a sexual orientation in the first place because THAT argument has been used time and time again to equate homosexuality with sexual deviancy--pedophilia in particular. The mere mention of pedophilia within the context of this discussion was a colossal display of abject ignorance and an enormous insult to those of us who are GLBT. Every fucking time homosexuality is brought up some jackass has to bring up pedophilia and try to treat it as an orientation akin to homosexuality. Do you have any damned clue how insulting that is? Do you even know where that propaganda comes from?

      The reason I called you an asshole is you are spewing this bullshit non-science crap without any consideration that what you said is highly inflammatory and insulting to GLBT's. Pedophilia is NOT a sexual orientation just as the desire to rape adult women is NOT a sexual orientation. Pedophiles do not pursue consensual relationships. What they do is rape and molest. Pedophiles get what they want by manipulation, coercion, threats, and physical force against the most vulnerable and innocent. I am not going to sit by and be quiet while you try to blather on with this "pedophilia = sexual orientation" theory of yours. I am going to call you out on it.

      http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html

      Another problem related to terminology arises because sexual abuse of male children by adult men is often referred to as "homosexual molestation." The adjective "homosexual" (or "heterosexual" when a man abuses a female child) refers to the victim's gender in relation to that of the perpetrator. Unfortunately, people sometimes mistakenly interpret it as referring to the perpetrator's sexual orientation.

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    89. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Uberbah · · Score: 1

      Except all those tax benefits apply to heterosexual couples who marry in their 80's. Or for couples that are infertile.

      Nice try.

    90. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      You made the the case that pedophilia is a form of sexual orientation on par with homosexuality and heterosexuality.

      I'm blown away by this. On one hand, I don't understand how there could possibly be any kind of an argument that pedophilia is not a sexual orientation. On the other hand, I never made any sort of claim that practicing pedophilia is on par with practicing homosexuality or heterosexuality. In fact, I made an argument whose entire point revolves around this not being the case. You got it completely backwards and it's mystifying to me how you could continue to get it so backwards after having it so carefully explained.

      It seems to me from your posts that you are very sensitive to equivocating homosexuality and pedophilia, and for that reason you are seeing it occur in places where no person without such an issue would see it occur. In this case you are reading this equivocation into a post that is in fact based on recognizing that practicing pedophilia is despicable while practicing homosexuality is not.

      You seem to be so hung up on this that you even continue this line of thought after having your mistake carefully explained to you. I'm not writing this to aggravate you, I'm writing this in the perhaps naive hope that you can view what you are doing from a perspective that is not distorted by your past experiences which it seems are quite hurtful indeed.

      It seems you believe that calling pedophilia a sexual orientation is somehow saying a positive thing about pedophilia, because it puts pedophilia into the same category as non-problematic things such as heterosexuality and homosexuality. Being a sexual orientation is not a badge of honor, it's just a category of things some of which are problematic and some of which are not. If that's not clear, here is an example that I hope you can read in the intended way: I'm guessing that Hitler, Osama bin Laden and many other terrible people eat breakfast and that Jesus also ate breakfast (assuming such a person existed). This puts Hitler and Osama bin Laden in the same category of people as Jesus, namely the category of people who eat breakfast. The appropriate answer to something like that is not to somehow attempt to prove that obviously Hitler and Osama bin laden don't eat breakfast because they are so evil that they can't possibly be in any category that Jesus is in. The appropriate response is to just recognize that there are categories that include both evil and decent people, and eating breakfast is one of them. That doesn't insult Jesus, it's just a fact, and denying it doesn't lead to anything good. In the same way the category of sexual orientations include things that are problematic and things that are not.

      In your post you make an argument that pedophilia cannot be a sexual orientation because it's really just about committing horrible crimes. E.g. you say that pedophiles do not pursue consensual relationships - what they do is rape and molest. This line of reasoning shows a misunderstanding of what the word pedophile means and what a sexual orientation is. A pedophile is not someone who has sex with children, a pedophile is someone who is aroused by children and who for that reason feels an urge to have sex with children. A pedophile does not have to act on that urge, just as you or I don't have to attempt to have sex with someone just because we'd like to have sex with that person. So it is true that raping children (i.e. having sex with them) is not a sexual orientation, because that is an actual action while a sexual orientation is not an action. In the same way being a man and having sex with women is not a sexual orientation, but being a man and feeling a desire to have sex with women does constitute a sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is about desire and not actions, and so the consequences of actually acting on that desire is completely irrelevant to classifying something as a sexual orientation or not. For that precise reason calling something a sexual orientation is not endorsing that thing, and it is not saying something negative about other things that are also sexual orientations.

    91. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      I'm not sure why you're still arguing this point, it makes no sense.

      We are going to have to agree on that sentiment.

    92. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      In fact the marriage penalty returns in 2011 unless congress renews the "Working Families Tax Relief Act".

      A single-income family will pay less in taxes than the two people as singles. That's how it is now, and that's how it always has been. A middle class or higher married couple with both making the exact same amount and deductions anywhere near normal would have paid more before that act, after that act, and after that act expires.

      The "marriage penalty" is a farce. It's a nonsensical term invented to confuse people about the issues. The tax code is not the same between married people and singles. For whatever reason, the code has long been written to penalize marriages where the woman works (with the sexist presumption that the male is the primary breadwinner). The law eliminating the "marriage penalty" didn't address this. The code punishes couples with working women. But stating it that way is somehow a bad thing, but lying about some fabricated "marriage penalty" law that magically fixes everything without actually equating a married couple to two singles is ok (not that you are lying, but that the politicians are when they name things so they look like they are doing something).

      I think Google's actions amount to nothing more than discrimination based on sexual orientation and they may very well rightfully find themselves in court.

      For what? Is it illegal there to discriminate based on sexual orientation? It isn't illegal in many places. I watched Anchorage vote down an ordinance that would have included sexual orientation in their anti-discrimination laws. So I presume their actions would be explicitly legal there, since the lawmakers decided that it shouldn't be illegal to fire someone or refuse housing to them based on sexual orientation. But CA is considered more liberal, so I have no idea what the rules are there.

      Not to mention that Affirmative Action is both racist and legal at the same time, so Gay Affirmative Action should fall along the same lines, right?

    93. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Many countries (e.g. Canada) already do this -- you file your income taxes individually regardless of your marriage status.

      That's impossible with the US tax code. It would be nearly impossible to fix that without a total rewrite. And everyone has at least one deduction they like in the tax code, so you'd have to get rid of most of the current politicians to get that through.

    94. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      I don't understand how there could possibly be any kind of an argument that pedophilia is not a sexual orientation.

      Is bestiality a sexual orientation, or a fetish? Are you honestly unable to even understand if someone were to assert that homosexuality, heterosexuality, and bisexuality are the only "orientations" and all other variations are distinguished with different wording, such as calling them fetishes or such?

      And, in any case, homosexuality acted on doesn't harm anyone. But sexual abuse of a child is a crime that causes harm. That's why using one to talk about the other is so offensive. And I don't understand how you can not get that.

    95. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      I don't understand how there could possibly be any kind of an argument that pedophilia is not a sexual orientation.

      Is bestiality a sexual orientation, or a fetish? Are you honestly unable to even understand if someone were to assert that homosexuality, heterosexuality, and bisexuality are the only "orientations" and all other variations are distinguished with different wording, such as calling them fetishes or such?

      Yes, in many cases it is up to you to if you want to call something a fetish or a sexual orientation. No, pedophilia is not a fetish though that is a clever attempt. What is more to the point is that even if you insist on classifying pedophilia as a fetish, using the word sexual orientation about pedophilia as opposed to fetish is not offensive, and the statement made by Lena that this is supposed to be about is still clearly wrong even if pedophilia wasn't a sexual orientation - which of course it is.

      And, in any case, homosexuality acted on doesn't harm anyone. But sexual abuse of a child is a crime that causes harm. That's why using one to talk about the other is so offensive. And I don't understand how you can not get that.

      Sigh, I'm not doing that and so what you are saying is irrelevant and I don't understand how it is possible to miss that. Pedophilia is an easily understood (or so I thought) counterexample to a statement Lena made that isn't even explicitly about homosexuality. It's not hard to understand and it's only offensive to someone who is very confused or looking to take offense based on a keyword match. If you would read what I've been saying rather than going on what other people imagine me to be saying, you would see that.

    96. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Yes, in many cases it is up to you to if you want to call something a fetish or a sexual orientation. No, pedophilia is not a fetish though that is a clever attempt.

      Never mind. Someone who asserts their unsupported opinion as fact is someone looking to pontificate, not discuss. Yes you are right, words mean what you claim, and nothing else, even if everyone else on the planet were to disagree with you.

      Pedophilia [...] isn't even explicitly about homosexuality.

      No, it's implicitly about homosexuality. You either know that and are ignoring it because you think logic should trump reality, or you are too ignorant to bother having a conversation with.

      If you would read what I've been saying rather than going on what other people imagine me to be saying, you would see that.

      I understand what you are saying, and I disagree. Stating it repeatedly isn't going to convince me. I read what you wrote. You are so busy becoming defensive that you are operating under the assumption that you are infallible. When 1000 people think you are wrong and you are the only one who thinks you are right, you might want to take a second and reexamine your assumption of infallibility.

      Your "logic" regarding your comparison of homosexuality and pedophilia (oh wait, since you define it as an orientation, perhaps it should be pedosexuality) may be sound. But the offensive nature of it will never get anyone to examine the logic. And the fact that you assert what "orientation" is without support and in direct violation to what's commonly said by the rest of the planet doesn't help your case. You are defending your logic when no one ever questioned it. They questioned your judgment, your motives, your empathy, and such. To which, you stuck your head in the sand and repeated "my logic is sound." And that demonstrates plenty of other flaws that others have then pointed out. But your logic? That's sound. It's your premise, your assumptions, your attitude, and your implications which people object to. It seems clear to me, why can't you see that?

      But don't worry, no one will ever be able to convince you that you are wrong, even when you are. So you'll get to count this as a case where everyone just misunderstood you, because everyone knows "if they just understood what I meant" everyone would always agree with you.

    97. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1
      Most of your post is contentless ad hominem venting that it's pointless to address. It seems mostly directed at making you yourself happier, which I guess I support so good for you.

      Pedophilia [...] isn't even explicitly about homosexuality. No, it's implicitly about homosexuality.

      I never made the statement you attribute to me - the [...] you use is dishonestly used. However, I do agree that pedophilia isn't about homosexuality. In you contending that it is, we are entering a weird world where you are advertising that homosexuals are indeed inextricably linked to pedophilia, and you are doing this to in some way defend homosexuality from people like me who have no problem with it. If that is the case then your sensibilities have been traumatized so throughly by people out to vilify homosexuality that you are now unwittingly doing their bidding.

      Just a recap: Lena wrote that you can't oppose one kind of discrimination based on sexual orientation and then be in favor of another kind, because then you position is logically inconsistent. That's easily seen to be false, and an easy way to see that is to point out that most people would not favor employing pedophiles in a kindergarten, which is a kind of discrimination based on sexual orientation, yet I'm sure we can all agree that it is not logically inconsistent to e.g. be in favor of gay marriage and oppose pedophiles in kindergartens.

      If, based on that, you go off the handle and think that such an argument contains a statement that homosexuality is at the same moral level as pedophilia (as Lena did), then it is you who are the problem. There is no such statement embedded in that argument. However, once you aggressively extract such a statement, when it isn't there, you are for one showing a great defensiveness on the subject that extends to situations entirely unrelated to it. That does nothing to dismiss the claim you are trying to attack - on the contrary. You end up advertising a contention that had never been brought up and never would have been brought up until you yourself (well, Lena) did.

      My point is that not only does this superfluous offense taking and subsequent attack-mode not succeed in the goal of defending homosexuality, in fact it only succeeds in the opposite goal of further linking homosexuality and pedophilia by advertising that bizarre idea. Further, it paints people who support homosexuality as a mob of rabid attack dogs ready to pounce on any imagined slight. I support homosexuality and I don't need that kind of publicity, and neither do the great number of well-balanced homosexuals out there.

    98. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      My point is that not only does this superfluous offense taking and subsequent attack-mode not succeed in the goal of defending homosexuality,

      But no one cares what you think. You have stated you are inconsiderate and proud of it. But then, you didn't ever address my actual questions about how you draw the line between orientation and fetish, and how you reconcile the fact that most people think there are three and only three orientations (or two and a gray scale between them) and that your asserted orientation isn't on the list. Why do you get to make up new orientations? Oh wait, asking you a question must be an ad hominem, as you just ignore all actual questions addressed to you and whine about being a victim.

      Just a recap: Lena wrote [...]

      What do I care? I only car about what you said. If I cared about what she said, I'd have responded to her and not you. Responding to someone who's wrong doesn't mean you can be even more wrong. No free pass for you. And I'm addressing the basics, like defining orientation. You are asserting a definition that's non standard and backing it up with "she's wronger than me." Again, I don't care. I read what you wrote, and it is wrong. I'm addressing your words, not hers. And you can't even define orientation.

      However, I do agree that pedophilia isn't about homosexuality. In you contending that it is,


      I never contended it is. I contended that others have, in an attempt to malign homosexuality have invoked pedophilia, and as such it is at best an inappropriate comparison. Not incorrect. Just bad judgment.

    99. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1
      I'm sorry, my other response was undeservedly and inappropriately polite. The truth is, it's just not worth my time to continue a discussion with someone who displays a level of reading comprehension that makes a statement like this possible:

      You have stated you are inconsiderate and proud of it.

      and this:

      You are asserting a definition that's non standard and backing it up with "she's wronger than me."

      and this:

      (dishonest quote by way of being made up)
      Pedophilia [...] isn't even explicitly about homosexuality.

      No, it's implicitly about homosexuality.

      [...] However, I do agree that pedophilia isn't about homosexuality. In you contending that it is, [...]

      I never contended it is. I contended that others have, in an attempt to malign homosexuality have invoked pedophilia, and as such it is at best an inappropriate comparison.

      I'm willing to believe that normally you are a well-balanced and delightful fellow. However, there is no talking to you on this subject, and so I won't. I bid you good day.

    100. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Posting=!Working · · Score: 1

      According to this logic, every benefit that doesn't benefit every employee is discrimination. Maternity benefits discriminate against those who won't or can't have kids. You have to be able to have children to benefit. Post-menopausal women and people who don't like or aren't ready for kids are being discriminated against, even though they won't have to pay the costs or need as much time off as parents with a newborn. It just happens that most beneficiaries of this are women or couples of child-bearing age, therefore it's pretty clear evidence that Google made this decision for their benefit. Health insurance benefits the frequently sick more than the perpetually healthy. Etc. etc.

      Fair treatment is not the same as equal treatment, equal treatment is very often unfair. If you don't understand this, then ladies, there's the urinal, and guys, here's your tampon.

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    101. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      I'm willing to believe that normally you are a well-balanced and delightful fellow. However, there is no talking to you on this subject, and so I won't.

      I guess I just get frustrated when you make up definitions contrary to the rest of the planet, then when I ask for justification, you attack me. When I report what others state and think (which you know because I wasn't the only reply) you claim that I brought it up and that it's my stance. Apparently, you can't separate when I'm stating what others think (references to pedophilia in regards to homosexuality conjure specific images and smear campaigns), vs when I'm stating what I think (I know they aren't related, but I know others relate them, so my argument that discussions about them are related while the desire and acts themselves aren't related). And when I make distinctions, you ignore any such explanatory wording to continue bashing what I'm saying I didn't say, then I do get frustrated.

      But I lose patience when someone makes up words and then applies them contrary to how anyone else on the planet would apply them and follow that up with a complete lack of justification for their unique stance and defensiveness and prestidigitation to prevent anyone from noticing that you are making up words to fit your incorrect opinion. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation Sexual orientation is essentially gender identity only. That you've been corrected multiple times and continue to assert that pedophilia is a sexual orientation indicates that you are either insane or a liar. You have been informed you are wrong. Nothing anywhere agrees with you. And yet, you go out of your way to make an offensive and incorrect analogy. And when informed you are wrong by others, you insist you are correct. So you either have some neurosis that prevents you from seeing the truth, or you know the truth and lie about it in order to slander homosexuals.

      Go ahead, reconcile your statement, "I don't understand how there could possibly be any kind of an argument that pedophilia is not a sexual orientation." with the available definitions of "sexual orientation" such as the definition I provided in this post (the first search result for "sexual orientation" so It wasn't like I cherry picked anything). Perhaps the fact is you take that phrase with specific meaning to be "sexual" (regarding sex) "orientation" (preference) while being purposefully obtuse that there's a phrase "sexual orientation" that is, if you like, an idiom unrelated to the individual definitions of the words. It's not quite a compound word, but you'll note that dashboards are not intended to obstruct dash, nor are boards, but "dashboard" is used none the less. And you'll note that "sexual orientation" is closer in definition to "gender identity" than it is to "sexual desires" even if the individual words would separately lean towards the opposite one.

      But then, defining words you are using seems offensive and condescending. I hung back from that because I pretty much have to call you an idiot to tell you that you don't know what "sexual orientation" means. But, since you've never answered any questions about it (other than to assert you are right and I'm wrong when everyone else on the planet agrees with me), I have to assume you just don't know what "sexual orientation" means, but are willing to post about it on the Internet. So you are either incurably stupid or a calculated liar. Because I've pointed out multiple times "sexual orientation" doesn't mean what you assert, and you ignore that. Instead, you go off on something or the other to distract from the fact you are misusing English.

    102. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      The link to Wikipedia is the only constructive thing I've seen from you - it was one good move, at least. The essence of the concept of sexual orientation is those things that a person can involuntarily be sexually attracted to and that take a general enough form that it can't be described as a mere fixation or fetish. It seems indeed that I was wrong, because the distillation of this essence in English speaking countries has apparently morphed into a list of a few approved things for people to be attracted to. So there simply is no word for things that people are attracted to that rise beyond a mere fetish, at least not if you want to be politically correct. I was unable to imagine this level of political correctness until some actual evidence opened my eyes. I still have a hard time with the cognitive dissonance of something like that being true of a language like English.

      I'm just glad that this is an anonymous forum since otherwise I'd have images of mobs burning down my house. The appropriate response to a language mistake of this nature is to say "Actually, sexual orientation is defined in a very specific way. Here's a link. So your example does not count as a counterexample." What I got was "pedophilia is bad so you are both wrong and evil." Which still makes no sense.

      I see that by your reasoning this makes me "incurably stupid". Not that you care, but I'm only writing this post because right is right. That you happen to be right in particular about the definition of sexual orientation does nothing to change my opinion of your behavior in this discussion.

    103. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      I see that by your reasoning this makes me "incurably stupid".

      When 1000 people say you are wrong and no one says you are right, then stating "I'm right and all of you are wrong" without even the basic checks (I sent you the first line from a Google search on "sexual orientation", it wasn't rocket science) seems deliberate. At least I didn't link to http://lmgtfy.com/?q=sexual+orientation .

      That you happen to be right in particular about the definition of sexual orientation does nothing to change my opinion of your behavior in this discussion.

      Is English your native language? You speak of it like there's some morphing of the language in English that doesn't happen in other languages. My behavior is that you made an incorrect and offensive comparison. People other than me corrected you and pointed out your error for both your offensiveness and your misuse of the term that you stood behind as justifying your offensive behavior. Let me make this clear, even if the definition had supported you, you would still have been offensive. That you don't even see that after so many people have pointed it out indicates your level of deliberate stupidity. I can prove you wrong with links for the definition of a phrase you obviously don't understand. I can't link to anything that "proves" you an ignorant and offensive ass. But, from your post, that's how you come across. You incorrectly use a phrase to compare homosexuality to pedophilia, even if just in an analogy. That's like talking about gas chambers with Jews and claiming that if they are offended it's their own damn fault. Some of them are a little touchy of associating the two (so much so that such comments could be illegal in some areas because of historical reasons). So to claim "it's just an analogy" or such wouldn't remove the offense. But, like your grossly incorrect and easily verified misuse of "sexual orientation", you state you are correct and everyone else on the planet is wrong. Proving you wrong with use of the phrase "sexual orientation" is trivial. Proving that actual offense is felt and that it's justified is impossible because you won't allow it. I can't change your opinion. I can just inform you that it is wrong. You have no empathy. You refuse to understand what the other people are saying (well, you understand the words, but you don't internalize them). Your opinion of what should offend people is somehow more important and correct than the sum of all the other people on the planet. Do you not feel it a coincidence that lots have declared you wrong and not a single person defended you? Why might that be?

      My behavior is simple. A person posted something incorrect and offensive. Then became a defensive ass when this was pointed out to him. So I stepped in to back up those who had already pointed out your error you were unwilling to see. You were, at best, ignorant of the English language, insensitive, and egotistical. Since that was proven by your words before my first reply ever came, I responded in kind to your displayed tone. I am curious now, how someone could understand such big words, but not understand such a simple phrase. That, and your wording is what makes me think that English was not your first language. And if that is the case, then the fact you were arguing with a pile of native speakers over the meaning of something would make you incurably stupid. Sure, we can cure this one instance, but there's absolutely no evidence you've learned any lesson from this. You are fallible. You make mistakes. When lots of people say you made a mistake, perhaps it makes more sense to assume they might be right and verify your words. When you are proven wrong on a two-part argument, perhaps the second part is also wrong. But no, you won't concede that either. You haven't learned anything, you just got corrected on just one word, and everything else you were correct on and anyone that responded to you was an as

    104. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A complete misinterpretation -- how it reached 5 is beyond my imagination. What the GP is saying is that neither is correct. No more, no less.

    105. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      No, the concept of "orientation" is one of gender preference and nothing else.

      Yes, that seems to be the public definition. Though actually, from the way people here and in the Wikipedia talk page use the word, it seems that for something to be a political orientation means for it to be on the approved list of general things to be attracted by (general as in not just a fetish). It just so happens that the only approved things on that list are variations of being attracted to males or females.

      An example of this is how it was continually pointed out that I was wrong because pedophilia is bad. That only makes sense if sexual orientation is about being approved of rather than being just a fixed thing about gender. In the Wikipedia talk page, one person is pointing out that asexualism (being sexually attracted to nothing) is sometimes being included in sexual orientation because there is no duty to have sex with anyone. I.e. the argument is that asexualism should be on the approved list because it isn't bad.

      That seems like an interesting thing to discuss, though I think even you can see that it's not a discussion I'm going to want to have with you. So I bid you good day.

    106. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      I had read your other posts; you simply don't get it. You made the the case that pedophilia is a form of sexual orientation on par with homosexuality and heterosexuality.

      I have since learned that "sexual orientation" does, strangely, connote approval, and that homosexuality, heterosexuality and bisexuality are the only approved sexualities. Thus to say that pedophilia is a sexual orientation actually does imply that pedophilia has achieved a level of recognition on par with homosexuality, which of course it hasn't. So you are right that saying "sexual orientation" does make what one is saying about homosexuality, and putting pedophilia into that context is indeed offensive - it was my mistake.

      That being said, a response as from a member of an angry mob still isn't a good way to point out a language mistake, but at least now I know where that came from.

    107. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      Except my argument doesn't work because pedophilia is not a sexual orientation. The statement I was arguing against is still ridiculous, but it's not shown to be wrong by the particular argument that I made against it.

    108. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      Except my argument doesn't work because pedophilia isn't a sexual orientation.

    109. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      I think it has more to do with getting votes from married people and a religious Christian notion that marriage is good.

    110. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      An example of this is how it was continually pointed out that I was wrong because pedophilia is bad.

      And I didn't see that ever stated. I saw it stated that it seemed crafted to associate homosexuality and pedophilia, which is offensive. To which your response was "orientation is orientation" or something to that effect. You took their "others have done that with purpose to malign homosexuality" as "pedophilia is bad." Those are not the same, and it seemed clear to me that they were definitely not what you state now.

      That only makes sense if sexual orientation is about being approved of rather than being just a fixed thing about gender.

      You assert different meaning to "fetish" than I do as well. You take it to mean a passing or low level interest in something that is unusual (or so I take from what you've said so far). But I would give it a much broader range to include everything you put under "orientation" that was being objected to. But again, when fetish was brought up, you gave one and only one definition of it and absolutely defined. I didn't feel like adding that into the battle of English. Saying people have a "foot orientation" is absurd sounding. But a "foot fetish" is understood. Yet there exist people who can't get sexual gratification without the involvement of feet. They would have a "foot orientation" based on your definition, and couldn't be considered to have a foot fetish because fetish isn't a strong enough word.

      In the Wikipedia talk page, one person is pointing out that asexualism (being sexually attracted to nothing) is sometimes being included in sexual orientation because there is no duty to have sex with anyone. I.e. the argument is that asexualism should be on the approved list because it isn't bad.

      You would see it that way. But that's just because adding to orientation to be "male, female, both and neither" would support my assertion, and "heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, and asexual" where you consider them a list of strong interest would support yours and allow for other things to be added. But they are all the same. They are exclusive. You can't be heterosexual and homosexual at the same time. Asexual as they mean it is exclusive of both of the previous as well (though I'd almost make it the same as bisexual where you it's a continuum from hetero to homo and level of degree, as some are asexual but don't object to the act, and many aren't interested in the act at all, even if they really want to be with the person that requires it of them). It isn't a list of multiple interests. It's one and only one interest that has multiple words based on where in the "interest continuum" one fits.

      But note, those are all exclusive orientation of gender desires (or lack thereof) and unrelated to any other possible definitions. Bestiality, feet, candles, children, whatever. But again, you define things and see things in a manner that make you at least partially right, even though you misused the language to offend people. Their offense is their fault. You are blameless. And it's English's fault for not using the words the way you'd like them to. Everything you say is a hedge of admitting an error without being wrong. You have a long and fruitful career ahead of you at BP.

      Yes, that seems to be the public definition.

      Ah yes. It's that evil "public" that broke the word, otherwise you'd be right. You have no duty to know what words actually mean, but just use words how you think they should mean, and it's the public's fault if they changed the word out from under you. And the silliest thing about it is that you seem to not even understand that you are inserting such undermining words in order to make your 100% wrong definition someone else's fault. Every acknowledgement of error comes with blaming someone else. You used words in a completely incorrect manner, and did so in an offensive way. And you still defend that usage and complain that anyone who feels offense at your offe

    111. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1
      Argh, I can't help myself. You sure do like to watch yourself type. I skimmed some of what you wrote, and you actually managed to write this:

      Yes, because I'm being too direct about your errors, forcing you to address them.

      If you believe that, then you are farther gone than I had thought, and that's pretty far gone already.

    112. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Yes, it's somehow my fault you don't understand English and assert it's everyone else in the world's fault for agreeing on word definitions without consulting you. Or that the definition is internally and externally consistent, despite your attacks on it, and there are other words you don't like to mean what you want, but you don't use them because, again, you choose unique definitions of words. Yup, it's all the evil world out to get you, the one linguist purist so pure you use words in a manner no dictionary ever defined them. And that's my fault.

      Would you like to borrow my nails and hammer to nail yourself to the cross? They are all out to get you, you might as well put that attention to good use. It's not like the alternate hypothesis, that you made an error, could hold water. And you claim I'm the one that's far gone.

    113. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      Your posts have increasingly attributed opinions to me that I don't hold. Your latest post has finally achieved perfection in being 100% not about what I actually think. Good job.

    114. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      When asked what you think, you don't answer. So of course people misunderstand you. When you never assert your opinion, you can never be wrong. And that's your personal goal, right?

      All I know is that you have a unique definition of "sexual orientation" and when corrected, you get defensive. You use it in an offensive manner, and when that's pointed out, you get defensive. All I can tell is that you have never stated a true or correct thing in your life, but that it's always the fault of everyone else for misunderstanding you, and never because you are an ineffective communicator.

      Here's a chance for you to share, rather than just claim I don't know anything about your or your thoughts: How old are you? What's your highest year of education completed? What's you living situation (mother's basement, alone, dorm, married with 300 kids)?

      Go ahead, since you claim I don't know anything about you and how you think, share. Otherwise, you are just an ass that plays rhetorical games to defend an overly large and delicate ego that's unrelated to actual abilities. Oh, a mischaracterization? Then correct me. Just whining about it makes me sound more and more right, and the more you complain the more I sound right.

    115. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      All I can tell is that you have never stated a true or correct thing in your life

      Oh yes, this is certainly what good debate is made of. You even state that you believe that pointing something like that out makes you seem more right. That's not how the world works, but thank you for playing.

      My personal characteristics is irrelevant and I can't see a reason for you to ask other than because everything is associated with a stereotype and every stereotype has some negative trait that you could then paint me with. Let us see. I have a PhD in a technical field.

    116. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      My personal characteristics is irrelevant and I can't see a reason for you to ask other than because everything is associated with a stereotype and every stereotype has some negative trait that you could then paint me with.

      So you refuse to answer because you don't want to let anyone have anything they could use against you. That also doesn't let anyone find a common ground. And your refusal to comment indicates something about you, and not any worse than if you had said something incriminating...

    117. Re:Paying straight people less, lawsuit? by Krahar · · Score: 1

      I'll cease to feed the troll now since you attempts have grown so weak that it is no longer amusing.

  6. What? by matthiasvegh · · Score: 1, Interesting

    Why do gay couples pay more tax?

    1. Re:What? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Because they can't marry, and marriage confers tax benefits.

    2. Re:What? by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      They don't. A single gay man in Illinois making the same income as me pays the same amount of tax. A gay man married to a woman (and don't kid yourself, lots of closeted gays are married) pays the same tax as a married straight couple, which is a lot less than I or a single gay man pays.

      It isn't discrimination against gays, it's discrimination against singles. And I, for one, am sick of it. Married people have partners to help with the bills, I don't. And I can no more find a suitable woman to marry than a gay man can.

    3. Re:What? by euroq · · Score: 1

      It isn't discrimination against gays, it's discrimination against singles. And I, for one, am sick of it. Married people have partners to help with the bills, I don't. And I can no more find a suitable woman to marry than a gay man can.

      I hear you... as a gay man, I do have a serious problem with the government taking sides on the argument about whether or not a church should be allowed to have gay marriages. That being said, it's just political pandering to one subset of the population. The most fair way to do it would be to have everyone, regardless of ANYTHING, to pay the exact same percentage of taxes.

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    4. Re:What? by mcgrew · · Score: 1

      The most fair way to do it would be to have everyone, regardless of ANYTHING, to pay the exact same percentage of taxes.

      Well, I wouldn't go so far as that; I'm for the graduated income tax on the grounds that the rich get far more benefit from the government than the poor, who get almost nothing out of government. The more you earn and have, the more you need government. And a graduated tax also makes up for the fact that the poor are paying their landlord's property tax in their rent, and pay a far higher percentage of their income in sales and excise taxes.

      But I would like to see all deductions done away with, as well as the government having anything to do with marriage. If your church allows gay marriage (and if I were gay I'd seeek out such a church) the government shouldn't have a say. You shouldn't need a license to get married.

  7. Mothers! by RivenAleem · · Score: 2, Funny

    "Do you know your Sons might be Lesbians?"

    1. Re:Mothers! by rjch · · Score: 1

      "Do you know your Sons might be Lesbians?"

      I certainly am. I only like women.

  8. Old news by djupedal · · Score: 1

    It's just another way to hilight what Google feels is a better place to work. Sweeten the pot and hire workers before your competition. Nothing new in that regard - just publicity.

    At someone's expense, of course, but hey, you can't owe your soul to the company store if it's not open..

  9. Re:far less than 50% by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    are you some kind of moran... =p

  10. Five months maternity leave? by xaxa · · Score: 3, Interesting

    From the article:

    Working for a company as rich as Google comes with an incredible number of fringe benefits: the free food, the free laundry, the doctor on duty at company headquarters and the impressive five months of maternity leave with full pay and benefits, to mention a few.

    Five months is impressive? 26 weeks (almost 6 months) is a legal right over here. In some countries it's much, much more!

    1. Re:Five months maternity leave? by sqrt(2) · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Maternity leave is one area where the US is particularly behind the rest of the world. In general US labor laws are tilted in favor of the business you work for, what will be most profitable for them, unlike much of Europe where the employees actually have more power in many situations than their employers (as it should be).

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    2. Re:Five months maternity leave? by HopefulIntern · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I notice you posted a link but I will jump at a chance to promote my country anyway:

      Norway: ONE YEAR! Thats right, one year on your ass if you pop one out. And if that's not enough, we got paternity leave too. Daddy gets to take time off! It is teh win.

    3. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yep, in Brazil it is 12 months maternity leave and 6 months paternity leave WITH FULL PAY. And unemployment over there is only 5% while in the US it remains above 12%. And don't come with all the BS about Brazil being poor and such. They are not poor, they used to be. Now they are the safe harbor of worldwide investors and they are the second country in number of billionaires after the USA.
      I know that because Brazilian billionaires just bought the company I work for and are buying all the companies here in South Florida, and they got this incentive plan if we want to learn Portuguese and work in Brazil for 1 year.

    4. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      Oh the US isn't that far behind in maternity leave. It's still pretty substantial.
      Where the US is behind is in paid vacation and paid sick leave. The US is the only industrialized nation in the world
      that does not guarantee either by law. Your employer in the US doesn't have to give you any paid vacation and thus what
      you usually get isn't much. Many companies only give 10 days, and you're considered lucky to get an absurdly low 15 days with no separate sick leave either! In Europe 25+ days paid vacation is the standard and you aren't forced to use up your vacation days when you fall ill.

      Th
       

    5. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Not just in Europe, apparently. Most countries in north and south America are only a bit worse than the European average. Only the US has 0 weeks (really? hard to believe).

      And my country's 16 weeks isn't all that much compared to many other European countries. (And that's for women only. Men get 2 days. We need to use vacation days if we want to take care of our bed-ridden wife after childbirth. It's ridiculous.)

    6. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Please get your facts straight on maternity leave in the UK. You only get 6 weeks at 90% of your normal weekly pay. The rest is at about £120 which is way below most people's normal income. Let's not even get into paternity leave in the UK.

      5 months on full pay is extremely impressive and far better than what most people here in the UK get.

    7. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Anyone else notice that Chileans also get a free cup?

    8. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Nitage · · Score: 2, Informative

      It says five months of maternity leave with full pay. In the UK, it's 6 weeks at 90% salary, 33 weeks at £124.88 or 90% of salary (whichever is lower) and 13 weeks unpaid. Google's terms are much, much better than most of Europe. There are exceptions - but only a handful (Lithuania gives 100% salary for 52 weeks + 85% for 52 weeks - but that's almost twice as generous as the next best).

    9. Re:Five months maternity leave? by The+Jynx · · Score: 1

      From the article:

      Working for a company as rich as Google comes with an incredible number of fringe benefits: the free food, the free laundry, the doctor on duty at company headquarters and the impressive five months of maternity leave with full pay and benefits, to mention a few.

      The benefit is five months FULL pay and benefits, UK law does not entitle you to that. As with all UK benefit it's a step system 6 weeks at 90% of full pay and remainder at a flat rate (as of 2009 = £123.06) or 90% of your salary if that is less than the flat rate.

    10. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      With a risk of sounding presumptuous to our Little Brother, Norway, Sweden has even more, 480 days,
      but with a more important twist, it is split in the middle by default!
      Half for the woman, half for the man.
      Equality works both ways! (with the addition of homosexuality, 4 ways, or is it 3?)

      Btw. if you are sitting your ass one year, your doing it wrong.
      I was on a 4 hour feeding-changing circle and could not wait to get back to the safety of my cubicle....
      And now I do not think that my wife is sitting on her beautiful ass all day...

    11. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Ihmhi · · Score: 1

      To be fair, we Yanks get just as many things right as other countries get wrong.

    12. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Ihmhi · · Score: 1

      One year maternity leave, awesome Viking women, and boatloads of good metal music? WHERE DO I SIGN UP?!

    13. Re:Five months maternity leave? by xaxa · · Score: 1

      Sorry, I didn't notice that bit. You're correct, it's a good benefit.

      (Although I think I'd rather have more time off at less pay, if more time off at full pay isn't an option.)

    14. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Xest · · Score: 1

      You're absolutely right, but to be fair, most companies give you much better terms than that in the UK. So although the GP was wrong to assert that the legal baseline in the UK is 6 months full pay, that is a pretty common amount to be granted by companies here in the UK. This is probably largely driven by the fact we have such a large public sector, and in most parts of public sector such as councils you tend to get something like 6 months full pay, and upto 6 more months half pay, and private sector has to compete with that so often gives similar levels of benefits.

      For comparison, I don't know if Google's maternity leave is particularly unusual in the US, or if it's pretty much run of the mill too. Any idea?

    15. Re:Five months maternity leave? by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      480 days paid leave shared between the parents over here, with 30 days dedicated to each parent. The leave can be distributed as the parents wish over the first years of the child's life. And fathers do take leave as well, 80% of them, and if I have kids I will too, nothing can replace the months of being away from your newborn.

    16. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      To be fair, we Yanks get just as many things right as other countries get wrong.

      No, sadly, we really don't. Our country's in a shambles, basically since Reaganites took over and wrecked the place.

      Modern American conservatism is probably the most pernicious force at work in the world today. It's made the Middle East less stable, it's helped screw the world economy up, it promotes theocratic dominonists here in the US and whatever local tinpot dictators abroad serve the interests of the movement.

    17. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      UK 26 weeks is not required to be at full pay though. (and currently it is 9months with another 3 with no pay)
      "Statutory Maternity Leave is for 52 weeks. You may be entitled to receive Statutory Maternity Pay for up to 39 weeks of the leave." on the linked page

      How much SMP do you get

      If you qualify for SMP, it is paid:

              * for the first six weeks at 90 per cent of your average gross weekly earnings with no upper limit
              * for the remaining 33 weeks at the lower of either the standard rate of £124.88, or 90 per cent of your average gross weekly earnings

    18. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Jason+Levine · · Score: 1

      I wish the US were so enlightened. When my first son was born, I took a week off to help my wife. When my second son was born, I took a few days off and went back to work.

      All the time I took off came from my standard vacation time. If I had no vacation time saved up, I could have taken up to 12 weeks off as per FMLA. Here's the twist, though. That time would be unpaid. What normal family can survive for 12 weeks without any income? Especially a family with a new child? So rather than helping my wife during the first few weeks of my babys' lives, I had to go into the office (most times on an hour or two of sleep).

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    19. Re:Five months maternity leave? by HopefulIntern · · Score: 1

      Nowhere, just show up. Norway has pretty lax immigration laws.

    20. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sure the US and the rest of "the west" weren't at all complacent about their economies just before they all tanked in the rush to attract those same investors. If there's one thing that attracts investors its low yield "safe harbour" investments. I'm sure things will work out great :)

    21. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't this that's correct, you can claim a statuary base amount from the Government for 6 months, but a company does not have a requirement to pay more than a month (it may actually be even less). They choose to pay for longer as an incentive, 6 months full pay is actually quite impressive compared to lots of places in the UK

    22. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sorry base amount set by the Government but not paid by them from the Wiki that the guy above linked to, shame that he did not actually read the info in the table

      Currently 39 weeks paid, due to rise to 52 weeks paid from April 2010, although delayed indefinitely[11] (6 weeks at 90% of full pay and remainder at a flat rate (as of 2009 = £123.06) or 90% of your salary if that is less than the flat rate) so as I said above 6 months full pay is actually bloody good!

    23. Re:Five months maternity leave? by HopefulIntern · · Score: 1

      This is the thing that is so nice about Norway. It is very family oriented (that includes so-called "unorthodox family units" if you know what I mean) and is especially supportive of young families (for each baby, in addition to government mandated paid maternity/paternity leave you also get a nice benefit package from the gov). And all this without being crazy christian fundies. It seems amusing that The US (republicans), preaching so often about the sanctity of the family unit and christian marriage and so forth, give so little support to their supposed demographic. I guess it comes back to the same problem as the healthcare bill, people preferring to pay their own way and avoid a tax hike to "pay for other people".

    24. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Schadrach · · Score: 1

      Heh, I get 10 days vacation + 10 hours doctor's visits + sick leave that is complicated...being out sick up to X days (I think three, would have to check my employee handbook to verify though) comes from vacation, then it comes from a separate pool to a maximum of Y days. Without a special management meeting being held, we cannot exceed 10 sequential business days off aside from extended illness (as in vacation + holidays + weekends greater than 14 days).

      At 7 years employed we get another 5 vacation days. At 15 years employed it goes up another 5 beyond that. One of the guys that closing in on retirement and has been around since he was 18 had one of those special management meetings regarding his vacation and basically took from the week of thanksgiving till new years off in a stretch since his particular job was supposed to be slow for a while (they put a condition on it -- that they be able to call him back in if they needed him, with that vacation day being paid for in addition to his time -- they called him in three days out of that span, two of them because the other guy who did the same job as him had to be out).

    25. Re:Five months maternity leave? by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      Wait no separate sick leave? Do you guys never get sick, or do you go to work even if you've got the flu? One flu-season and all your vacation days would be used up if you're unlucky...

    26. Re:Five months maternity leave? by xaxa · · Score: 1

      I'm 24, I've been working here about 16 months. I get 30 days vacation (though 25 would be more usual, and 20 is the legal minimum -- NB add the 8 public holidays to all these figures). It goes up, but not very much (staff who've been here for ages have ~33 days or something).

      I don't get "sick time", if I'm ill I'm expected to stay at home so I don't make anyone else ill, and rest and recover. The first time I was ill I came to work after missing two days as I thought I was OK (I'd have gone to lectures), but was sent home by my manager.

      If the illness is less than five days (regardless of whether I'd be working on those days) I just have to sign an internal form to declare I really was ill, if it's longer than five days I need a letter from a doctor.

      All leave is with my manager's permission, but there's a guideline that she'd need a very good reason to refuse if I give four times the length of the leave's notice (i.e. to take a week off I should give a month's notice). This applies for up to 10 business days off in a row. Above that is only OK if it doesn't compromise stuff -- a colleague recently took a whole month off after finishing a project, before starting the next one.

    27. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Mongoose+Disciple · · Score: 1

      Five months is impressive?

      In the US it's not bad.

      My wife gets something like six weeks paid and can opt to take another six unpaid. As a father I'm not entitled to any time off at all.

    28. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Really? Sooo someone should invest huge amounts of time into building a business, wait years before it becomes profitable, go into debt, spend less time with their family, and the employees should have more power than the employers? here is my analysis. 1. you don't own your own business. 2. you voted to obama. 3. you def wanted obamacare. 4. you think health care is a right. 5. you're pro union. How about the reasoning that having a child is a choice and if you choose to have a child over going to work then thats fine, just don't expect to be paid for getting knocked up or that your employer doesn't have the right to fire you. Should you get paid while you eat lunch too? or should you get paid if a family member dies and you're away at their funeral? NO. Saying you have a right to be paid or are immune from being fired because you got pregnant makes as much since as getting pregnant so you get more welfare money. The only RIGHTS you have are your natural rights. Not all rights have to be listed in law but why don't you go back in time and ask Socrates if maternity leave is a right. Its employer privilege. if you don't like it then start your own business and make your own rules. And when you get pregnant and have to put your business on hold, i'm sure the maternity fairy will show up to pay you the money that your business isn't bringing in or just manage the business for you.

    29. Re:Five months maternity leave? by moosesocks · · Score: 1

      Oh the US isn't that far behind in maternity leave.

      Just because "12 weeks seems like a lot to me" doesn't change the actual fact.

      Look at the data, and see for yourself. The US offers 12 weeks of unpaid leave, which puts it basically at bottom of the pile, even if you consider 3rd-world nations.

      I'll concur with you about the absurd vacation leave situation though. I get ~12 days per year with no sick leave, and my supervisors make comments like "I'm not sure that's a great idea" every time I ask to redeem a vacation day.

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    30. Re:Five months maternity leave? by Schadrach · · Score: 1

      I left out holidays, we get 11 of those at my employer. As well as a profit-sharing incentive bonus every quarter which is often pretty substantial.

    31. Re:Five months maternity leave? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      In the US, "combined leave" is the popular method. It makes it look like more because they are added together, and people work sick to make sure they have time to go on vacations. But it prevents people from getting "sick" lightly. I got the flu at such a place, and I took a total of two days off. Sure, it made the flu last longer to work sick and because there is no incentive to get tested or such, I can't say for certain that I had H1N1 swine flu, but someone that got it from me (I spread it from the time I contracted it to the time I was symptomatic, I wasn't an ass spreading it at work, no one there got it from me, despite the fact I worked sick) did get official tests done with those results.

    32. Re:Five months maternity leave? by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      That's just unacceptable, how can people accept this? Why don't you fight it? This is the entire point of unions! Stand up and fight!

      Over here, sick leave is completely separated from vacation time by law. (available paid vacation time is minimum 5 weeks or 25 working days)

      The employer is required to pay full salary for up to 2 weeks of sick leave. (after the first week, medical documentation is required)
      If you're sick longer than that, you will get 80% of your income from the government for up to 364 days (again, obviously, with medical documentation).

    33. Re:Five months maternity leave? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      That's just unacceptable, how can people accept this? Why don't you fight it?

      Corporations have all the rights of a person, but without any responsibilities at all, and with no real punishment when caught and convicted (note, Microsoft was convicted of antitrust violations in the US and their punishment was functionally nothing).

      But me personally? I'm apparently the only American interested in getting out. I moved, and people assume I'm Canadian just because American's don't move. There's a rabid nationalism that's destroying the country. People refuse to work to fix it because they believe it perfection.

  11. Re:far less than 50% by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You clearly know nothing about "periods" (menstruation) and birth control. Menstruation should happen every 28 days in theory but this is not the case in practice and many women have an irregular cycle that is not normal. Birth control pills regulate the cycle and most of other birth control methods have no influence (eg.: condoms).

  12. Re:far less than 50% by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Discriminating against a small minority isn't really any better than discriminating against 50% of people

  13. Women & social security benefits by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Women live longer than men, and therefore on average receive more social security benefits than men (because it starts at the same age for both). Therefore, should it not be OK to pay men more to compensate them for the missed benefits? (The benefits received is not based on amounts paid in after a very low threshold is met.)

    1. Re:Women & social security benefits by firex726 · · Score: 1

      Don't forget, they can also retire sooner too... So they can retire sooner and receive benefits longer.

  14. Two wrongs don't make a right by Moraelin · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Sorry,two wrongs don't make a right. Plus, spare me the BS please. He's not proposing to deny you gay marriage or anything, he's just just saying basically that compensating that tax for one particular slice is still leaving out a whole other lot of slices which, for all practical purposes, are just as married.

    It seems strange to me to see reactions basically boiling down to "booyah, now it's your turn to suck it up." Unless he is one of those that actually did anything against you in the first place, two wrongs just don't make a right.

    And basically you're trying to prove what? That gays can be just as much self-centered pricks as the fundies on the other side? We already knew that. After all the most vehement anti-gay preachers turned out to _be_ gay.

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    1. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Psaakyrn · · Score: 0

      Two wrongs doesn't make a right, but it can be used to balance it up (roughly) until the original wrong is fixed

    2. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Moraelin · · Score: 1

      Nobody said not to balance. All that the OP was saying is that it still leaves a bunch of the population for which nothing is balanced.

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    3. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Vectormatic · · Score: 1

      in this case, the positive effects of the second wrong doesnt entirely cover the victims of the first wrong, thus creating a third group which has been left out twice, proper balance would require even more wrong-doing...

      There is no such thing a positive discrimination

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    4. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Because stray people deserve to suffer though most did nothing to the gay community? That argument is absurd. By the same logic if you killed my son I'd be within my rights to kill yours to "balance it up."

    5. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How many more planes must crash onto building to balance all the worng done to secure usa's wealth? You dont undo worng by allowing more worng doing. You admit the error and ask for forgivness. What kind of sick moralfag are you?

    6. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Please provide a sound, logical and moral example.

    7. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Zantac69 · · Score: 1

      Two wrongs may not make a right...but three lefts certainly do.

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    8. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Seems the sensible thing would be to just do away with the tax. The other thing to note is, if the punishment of gay couples element is removed from the tax, it then becomes a tax against people who don't have religion (since they're more likely to not see the point in a marriage ceremony), which is just as insiduous.

    9. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by hedwards · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It's not equivalent. In the vast majority of America, there is no same sex marriage or equivalent and in all of America there isn't a federally recognized union. Straight folks OTOH that are just in committed relationships have the option of getting married and collecting both the benefits as well as the responsibilities of being married. As long as it's not available to same sex couples it's not the same thing as choosing not to be.

      The other thing is that the couples end up more or less exactly where they would be were it not for a bunch of bigots refusing to grant equal rights under the law. Perhaps you should do some research rather than making bigoted claims over the internet. I assume that you're going to go back and ask David Duke what the rest of his argument goes like.

    10. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by elrous0 · · Score: 1

      It's not Google's place to do serve that function by discriminating against their straight employees. If they really want to help and still be fair to all their employees, just take that money and put it towards a lobbying effort to change the law (so that the extra pay won't be needed in the first place). Paying gays more to "compensate" them sends a bad message and only encourages resentment among straight employees who don't get this bonus.

      As the GP said, two wrongs don't make a right. You can't (or certainly *shouldn't*) fight one discrimination with another discrimination.

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    11. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Only for certain values of left . . .

    12. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I wish I had mod points. +1 insightful

    13. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by gig · · Score: 1

      > Sorry,two wrongs don't make a right

      This is *not* 2 wrongs.

      Two wrongs would be if you put a 1 kilo weight on one side of a scale and tipped it in favor of heterosexuals, and I put a 2 kilo weight on the other side and tipped it in favor of homosexuals. We would both be trying to tip the scale in that case and we would both be wrong.

      But if you put a 1 kilo weight on one side of a scale and tipped it in favor of heterosexuals, and I put a 1 kilo weight on the other side and rebalanced the scale, then only you are wrong. Only you were trying to tip the scale. I merely undid your tipping and made the scale accurate again. That is what Google is doing here. They are not reducing the salaries of heterosexual employees that are benefiting from government discrimination against homosexuals, they are increasing the salaries of homosexual employees to compensate. They are rebalancing the scale, making it accurate again, not tipping it in favor of homosexuals.

       

    14. Re:Two wrongs don't make a right by Pvt_Ryan · · Score: 1

      So what you are saying is that all hetros should claim to be gay so that they can get a bonus.. Genius..

      Even then (if i read the article correctly) it is still unfair as they are using the average figure. So if one bunch of homosexuals would only be taxed £500 then they are essentially getting a $500 pay raise for being gay, others at the other end of the scale (assuming a tax of $1500) are $1000 better off but are still being taxed $500. So they are still being wronged.

  15. Re:far less than 50% by TheRaven64 · · Score: 1, Insightful

    It's much better. If you discriminate against 50% of people, they might vote you out at the next election. If you discriminate against a small minority, everyone else says 'well, I'm not one of those (Jews, Communists, Gays, Gypsies, whatever), so I don't care' and lets you stay in power.

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  16. Is there a way to exploit this? by Liambp · · Score: 1

    I am not familiar with US taxation and benefit systems but I wonder is there a way to fiddle this by pretending to be gay just to get a pay rise?

    1. Re:Is there a way to exploit this? by HopefulIntern · · Score: 1

      Well, if youre not already married to a lady, then I dont see why not. Its not like theyre gonna come round to your house and check that you are indeed in it for the bumsex.

    2. Re:Is there a way to exploit this? by L4t3r4lu5 · · Score: 1

      Sure! Just start having relationships with men while secretly lusting for women, and you'll be good to go!

      Good luck staying sane. Oh, and if you get found with a female hooker you'll probably be done for tax fraud.

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    3. Re:Is there a way to exploit this? by uncledrax · · Score: 1

      It could be exploited more to essentially provide (at best) 'free' health care coverage to a same-sex individual.. assuming you're not already married, and you meet the requirements the employer puts forth for domestic partner benefits; which at my place of work requires things like 1yr+ of a joint bank account, and other tihngs you wouldn't normally extend to someone you don't trust.

      Based on how Google appears to be doing it, they are just covering the difference in the taxation of the benefits received (apparently in domestic-beneficiary programs, your benefits are considered taxable income)

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    4. Re:Is there a way to exploit this? by delinear · · Score: 1

      I don't see why, plenty of married men get caught out in the reverse scenario, I don't think they lose their tax benefits (well, not until after the divorce, anyway).

    5. Re:Is there a way to exploit this? by euroq · · Score: 1
      This is mistakenly presuming that you can tell your employer you are gay and that you would like more money. At my work I needed both an notarized document and have to be paying for my partner's health benefits.

      It costs me $200/month to have a domestic partner in health benefits, so I doubt anyone would want to do that. I don't know for sure, but I figure the extra taxes have to do mostly with health care.

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  17. Health care taxes done rigght & not an issue by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    People who say it is wrong for the Google to do this because it is discriminatory against heterosexuals and others who don't get other types of tax write offs miss the point. A family created between people by whatever means people choose should be recognized by the government. Anything otherwise is discriminatory. It isn't necessarily discriminatory to give write offs to family though over individuals. We live in a welfare state and certain benefits are provided to you. Schooling, tax write-offs to your parents, etc. You received these once too even if it was indirectly. If I create a family with another man (I'm a guy) and raise a child with him than why shouldn't I also be entitled to the same tax write-offs and health benefits that any other hetrosexual family is entitled to? And the same thing basically applies to other write-offs for many other things like disabilities, etc. There may be things that the government allows you to write off that you shouldn't be able to write off or is discriminatory against the poor/rich classes. For instance if they allowed only high ticket items to be deductible for tax purposes and only taxed the lower part of your income. In effect making the poor pay the taxes and the rich pay nothing. Or possibly the exact opposite. In any case this issue is clear cut. Gays shouldn't pay more than anybody else. That's just wrong. If you want to tax the childless population- because they have a larger disposable income-maybe we can figure something out- but don't do it based on the Gay population- there is an identical family structure here that is utterly discriminatory.

  18. Re:far less than 50% by L4t3r4lu5 · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    Next, it is not natural for a woman to have a monthly period. That's a side effect of birth control. Go all natural, and you probably get a couple periods every couple years.

    I'm going to go out on a limb here, and say that this lack of basic knowledge of the human female reproductive system is strongly correlated with the fact that you have a 5-digit user ID.

    Unless you think the vast majority of women on the planet are being surreptitiously fed contraceptive pills by some clandestine government agency, the statistics point to an average 1-month menstrual cycle. Bear in mind that records began before we knew about such things as the corpus luteum, oocytes, and probably back when we all blamed Eve for original sin and the bleeding from her hoo-hoo was the punishment.

    Abnormal levels of oestrogen is linked to an increased risk of breast cancer, though.

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  19. In Reggae (no pun intended) terms... by Anyd · · Score: 1, Interesting

    Legalize it... Fixes the whole problem (and makes us look a little less like rednecks to the civilized world.)

  20. Funny by srussia · · Score: 1

    Oops. Posting to undo fat-finger mod.

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  21. Re:far less than 50% by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I think the point was that if you "go all natural", you'll get pregnant way more often, and thus "get a couple periods every couple years."

    But, what do I know? I'll return to my basement now.

  22. not really, because everybody benefits by r00t · · Score: 4, Insightful

    No law can be defect-free, but consider the fact that every member of a Gay/Lesbian couple was once a child.

    Some mostly-correct assumptions are implicit in the law. Kids are known to do better in intact families. (even kids that grow up to be gay) Kids do better with a stay-at-home parent, traditionally the mom. Hetero couples generally produce kids. Legal issues related to kids (inheritance, etc.) are easier with a married couple.

    Even totally single people benefit from marriage-related tax breaks. Oh sure, having benefited as a child it would be mighty nice (totally selfish) to throw away the tax advantages for the generation that follows. Your childhood is comfy, and screw the next generation, hmmm?

    It's kind of like social security, moving wealth across generations. The kids are at least a good investment; they cost less and aren't just waiting around to die. Better food or additional at-home parental time would do some good.

    Think of the children, Gay ones included.

    1. Re:not really, because everybody benefits by delinear · · Score: 2, Interesting

      It seems from your argument that kids in marriages already have the breaks of a stable home life, and that the tax breaks should therefore go to unmarried people with kids - they're likely to have a harsher upbringing so they need all the help they can get, no?

    2. Re:not really, because everybody benefits by TedTschopp · · Score: 1

      Your universal statement about no law being defect free is unprovable, but I get your point. You are saying that laws proceed from certain universal principals that can not take into account the details of every specific situation.

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    3. Re:not really, because everybody benefits by r00t · · Score: 1

      The problem there is that children benefit from laws that encourage families to stick together and provide full-time parenting. The tax breaks help make it possible for a mother to stay home, and this helps the family to stay intact. Helping the unmarried people with kids would create a perverse incentive, leading to more broken families.

      Again, no law can be defect-free.

  23. Hush now dear! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They are from United States of America.

    It is not nice to make fun of disadvantaged people like that.

  24. Flawed marriage law - Google isn't helping much by Alien1024 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Either legalize same-sex marriage, or just do away with any kind of legal marriage at all. The latter is what I would do if I had my way. Why does the state meddle in what should be a commitment between two people?

    And Google isn't helping same-sex couples much. Sure, they are making up for some tax exemptions those couples don't have, but in a wider view they are helping maintain the status quo of marriage laws that are flawed in the first place, in addition to discriminating against heterosexual unmarried couples.

    1. Re:Flawed marriage law - Google isn't helping much by erroneus · · Score: 1

      They are helping much.

      1. They are calling clear attention to the matter and showing that they understand the situation and are opposed to it and are prepared to throw money at it.
      2. They are NOT playing the political games where they might otherwise throw money at the politicians to get the laws changed which is also wrong and feeds the actual problem.

    2. Re:Flawed marriage law - Google isn't helping much by Theaetetus · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Either legalize same-sex marriage, or just do away with any kind of legal marriage at all. The latter is what I would do if I had my way. Why does the state meddle in what should be a commitment between two people?

      Because the state is enforcing that relationship. If one spouse is in an accident and goes comatose, the other spouse is the medical and legal proxy and gets to decide whether or not to pull the plug, even over the wishes of blood relatives of the first spouse. Without marriage, that second spouse would not have rights that trump the rights of blood relatives. Same goes for probate-free inheritance and intestate succession. Marriage is not a "commitment between two people", it's a contract between two people and the state.

    3. Re:Flawed marriage law - Google isn't helping much by Alien1024 · · Score: 1

      1. They are calling clear attention to the matter and showing that they understand the situation

      Yes, they are calling attention to the issue and that is a good thing, but they should think of other ways to do that.

      They shouldn't throw extra money at anybody (let alone politicians).

      This is a band-aid attempt at a solution which doesn't get to the root of the problem. That's not a good idea, especially when it implies discriminating against unmarried hetero. I doubt this will make politicians care more about the matter.

    4. Re:Flawed marriage law - Google isn't helping much by Alien1024 · · Score: 0, Troll

      Either legalize same-sex marriage, or just do away with any kind of legal marriage at all. The latter is what I would do if I had my way. Why does the state meddle in what should be a commitment between two people?

      Because the state is enforcing that relationship. If one spouse is in an accident and goes comatose, the other spouse is the medical and legal proxy and gets to decide whether or not to pull the plug, even over the wishes of blood relatives of the first spouse. Without marriage, that second spouse would not have rights that trump the rights of blood relatives. Same goes for probate-free inheritance and intestate succession. Marriage is not a "commitment between two people", it's a contract between two people and the state.

      That's the way it is now in your jurisdiction. Whether is should remain like that is debatable. In some jurisdictions, all those things can be signed without a marriage, and undone without a cumbersome, painful divorce. Anyway, that's peripheral to my main point: that marriage law or lack thereof, should be the same for all couples, straight and same-sex.

    5. Re:Flawed marriage law - Google isn't helping much by Theaetetus · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Either legalize same-sex marriage, or just do away with any kind of legal marriage at all. The latter is what I would do if I had my way. Why does the state meddle in what should be a commitment between two people?

      Because the state is enforcing that relationship. If one spouse is in an accident and goes comatose, the other spouse is the medical and legal proxy and gets to decide whether or not to pull the plug, even over the wishes of blood relatives of the first spouse. Without marriage, that second spouse would not have rights that trump the rights of blood relatives. Same goes for probate-free inheritance and intestate succession. Marriage is not a "commitment between two people", it's a contract between two people and the state.

      That's the way it is now in your jurisdiction. Whether is should remain like that is debatable. In some jurisdictions, all those things can be signed without a marriage, and undone without a cumbersome, painful divorce.

      Well, not really - you can (at some expense) have a will, and a living will, and a medical and legal proxy document, and have an executor for your probate, etc., etc. However, these can all be challenged by your heirs much easier than a marriage, primarily because they're more akin to two-party contracts, while a marriage is akin to a three-party contract - the two spouses and the state, who is a party and consents to take on certain obligations. Because of the state's participation, it's much easier to then bind the state to enforce your marriage against the wishes of your heirs.

      Additionally, most people don't think about these things until they're impending. Do you have a will and the other documents? Do most cohabitating people, particularly those in their 20s or 30s? The real benefits of marriage are like insurance... you don't necessarily appreciate them until you need them, and by then it's too late.

      Anyway, that's peripheral to my main point: that marriage law or lack thereof, should be the same for all couples, straight and same-sex.

      Agreed... I'm just on the side that it should exist for everyone.

  25. It pays to be GAY after all by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Just sayin, Cmdr Taco!

  26. Re:Health care taxes done rigght & not an issu by NNKK · · Score: 1

    People who say it is wrong for the Google to do this because it is discriminatory against heterosexuals and others who don't get other types of tax write offs miss the point. A family created between people by whatever means people choose should be recognized by the government.

    Um, no.

    I'm with Google on doing what we can to alleviate the discriminatory burden, but it's really you who is missing the point. The only "government recognition" of a "family" that should occur is establishing who is legally responsible for any minor children (and then only if there is a practical issue that needs to be resolved). Past that, the government needs to stay the hell out of "recognizing" *anything*.

    There is no way for the government to "recognize" families in a non-discriminatory way, because there's always going to be a situation that doesn't conform to the government's view on what constitutes a "family", no matter how broad that view tries to be. The correct solution is to eliminate the recognition entirely.

  27. Re:Health care taxes done rigght & not an issu by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You're missing the point. Everything you say about how it "should" be may be correct. But it isn't that way, and it's not for Google to discriminate one way to counteract the way it is vs. the way it should be. Why should *I* personally pay for the sins of *our* government?

  28. HE''S RIGHT: PREGNANT WOMEN DON"T HAVE (dots) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The morons are those who are looking for morons. A pregnant woman won't, so once or twice a year is correct if this woman is anything like the women on the weather channel.

  29. Re:far less than 50% by indeterminator · · Score: 1, Insightful

    So what would you use that "human female reproductive system" for?

    Parent's point being, there's no period when you're pregnant.

  30. Re:far less than 50% by Krahar · · Score: 1, Insightful

    If you are pregnant you don't have periods. Now read his post again.

  31. Benefits experts by Kreeben · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Damn lazy immigrants! Or who are we talking about?

  32. example for those who didn't get the point by r00t · · Score: 2, Informative

    A woman gets one or two periods, and then she's pregnant.

    Roughly 9 months go by with nothing.

    A baby is delivered. I suppose you could call that a period, maybe.

    Breastfeeding suppresses the menstrual cycle. The woman can almost certainly go 6 months without a period, and stands a decent chance of going 18 months or more.

    So there you go. Regular periods are NOT natural. They are a side effect of birth control.

    Each kid born, and each kid nursed, reduces the risk of breast cancer. It's a 5% drop and a 7% drop, or the other way around. Assuming every kid is nursed, that should be about 12% to 13% risk reduction per kid. A woman naturally has about a dozen kids. Breast cancer is quite rare in countries where women birth early and often.

    BTW, another side effect specific to the pill: reduced sex drive.

    1. Re:example for those who didn't get the point by olderchurch · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      A woman gets one or two periods, and then she's pregnant.

      Depending if she is having sex or not.

      Breastfeeding suppresses the menstrual cycle. The woman can almost certainly go 3 months without a period, and stands a decent chance of going 18 months or more.

      Fixed that for you. Found a site here: http://www.babycentre.co.uk/baby/youafterthebirth/startingperiodsq/. My wife had here period after less then two months after giving birth

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    2. Re:example for those who didn't get the point by L4t3r4lu5 · · Score: 1

      You're assuming that a woman is having sex if she's not pregnant.

      A female human who is not pregnant and not on contraceptive medications has an average period of 1 month between menstrual cycles (ovulation to ovulation).

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    3. Re:example for those who didn't get the point by Broken+scope · · Score: 1

      BTW, another side effect specific to the pill: reduced sex drive. Which would never pass muster for a male birth control product. I mean, we can't sell something to men that might make them less horny. However ladies, nah they don't even like sex, and probably only have sex to keep there man happy.

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    4. Re:example for those who didn't get the point by perp · · Score: 1

      A woman naturally has about a dozen kids. Breast cancer is quite rare in countries where women birth early and often.

      That is probably because she is dead before she has a chance to develop it.

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    5. Re:example for those who didn't get the point by drsmithy · · Score: 1

      Each kid born, and each kid nursed, reduces the risk of breast cancer. It's a 5% drop and a 7% drop, or the other way around. Assuming every kid is nursed, that should be about 12% to 13% risk reduction per kid.

      Pity about all those other life-threatening complications that can occur during pregnancy.

      A woman naturally has about a dozen kids. Breast cancer is quite rare in countries where women birth early and often.

      And what's the average life expectancy of women in those countries ?

  33. Re:far less than 50% by paiute · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    Next, it is not natural for a woman to have a monthly period. That's a side effect of birth control. Go all natural, and you probably get a couple periods every couple years.

    I'm going to go out on a limb here, and say that this lack of basic knowledge of the human female reproductive system is strongly correlated with the fact that you have a 5-digit user ID.

    Hello? Slashdot? There are loud whooshing noises in my thread.

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  34. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by barzok · · Score: 4, Informative

    What business does Google have to snoop into it's employee's sexual preferences?

    The employee would have to declare that they need domestic partner health benefits. Google isn't "snooping", it's information the employee is providing.

    What about Google employees who are straight who live with someone who they are not married, they going to see extra pay?

    If they qualify for domestic partner health benefits, I should think so.

  35. it hurts those it's intended to help by r00t · · Score: 4, Insightful

    European companies are really hesitant to hire people because it's so damn hard to get rid of people.

    Places that think they can get away with it will particularly avoid those who seem likely to take advantage of the benefits.

    WTF is with people thinking they should get paid for nothing and/or have a right to get back a job they abandoned for half a year? Everybody else at that company gets hurt, especially the substitute worker who'd really like to keep the job.

    1. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by maxume · · Score: 1

      You are very good at compartmentalizing. Above, you argue that marriage tax breaks benefit children, so we shouldn't touch them. Here, you ignore the fact that the maternity and paternity leave granted in Europe are largely intended to help the children.

      I'm not sure I think the European countries get it right, but I'm also pretty sure that "Business, FUCK YEAH!" is not a good core organizing principle for a society.

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    2. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by 10101001+10101001 · · Score: 1

      European companies are really hesitant to hire people because it's so damn hard to get rid of people.

      Compared to the US, where they'll hire anyone at the drop of a hat. Oh, no, US companies are still rather hesitant to hire people too; the degree difference to Europo doesn't seem to be that great. It's because of...

      Places that think they can get away with it will particularly avoid those who seem likely to take advantage of the benefits.

      Like a wage/salary for not doing the work. Once you're convinced you need a person to work, the benefits cost are shifted into the price of goods, just like taxes, increases in the price of raw goods, etc. All of that appears as a loss on the companies balance sheets, but...

      WTF is with people thinking they should get paid for nothing and/or have a right to get back a job they abandoned for half a year?

      They're not being "paid for nothing". Society, as a whole, benefits as a result of having such benefits applied to its citizenry. It's functionally no different than taxes. Now, one can argue whether or not and how much these specific maternity benefits help society and hence whether they should or should not be lengthened/shortened, but clearly the objective of us laws is for the utilitarian good of society. Of course...

      Everybody else at that company gets hurt, especially the substitute worker who'd really like to keep the job.

      Rather true. Such a scheme tends to create more temp workers who migrate from company to company filling job positions, probably more poorly than the original worker. But, so long as every company is in the same general boat, then they all suffer equally. In the end, btw, nearly all companies are there precisely because they benefit others: in the production of goods, the employment of people, and the benefits those companies provide. If legislation breaks a company where it can no longer function, then clearly all those benefits are lost. But, as a company is a means to an end and not an end in itself, the core concern should be all the people who are effected, not merely the health of one company or its owners.

      Of course, if your concern is merely that companies are run by people and the liberty of people are interfered with to be forced to provide such benefit, then I can understand your position of disliking such things. But, from a utilitarian perspective, I'm not quite sure what the real concern is. Perhaps it's because most companies are, again, specifically designed to effect others. Is it any wonder then that society would wish to regulate what those companies end up doing?

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    3. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by priegog · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Quite simply, because in our role in a society, being productive is important, but producing offspring is much more important (in a long term kind of way). And a society who has foresight would be wise to protect this matter, because companies (who think short-term and in any case don't care about society in general) sure as hell won't.
      The matter of companies over here being hessitant to hire is indeed a problem but IMO it's leaps and bounds better than the alternative (ie: to let them can women just because they want to have children, and all of the consequences that that would bring). The "hiring difficulties" eventually get counteracted by the NEED to have employees, and quite honestly I don't think the number of jobs that would be created by easier firing procedures would be so great so as to even consider it. We are all (or were, we're really coming out of it) in an economic crisis, and to blame the unemployment on these laws is being myopic at best. In any case, to have an atmosphere of job insecurity and "trash contracts" is not precisely ideal.

      WTF is with people thinking they should get paid for nothing and/or have a right to get back a job they abandoned for half a year? Everybody else at that company gets hurt, especially the substitute worker who'd really like to keep the job.

      Aside from what I just said:
      a) Having a kid is not "abandoning" your job
      b) Why does everybody else get hurt, except (and very marginally) the company's profit, when having to pay for the substitute's salary?
      c) Even if the rest of the staff were made to pick up the slack, it'd be "for a bigger cause" and sure as hell they'll be able to enjoy the same "support" when they decide to have a kid. But since you seem to be such a diehard capitalism purist, I'll put it in terms you'll like: As long as they're in work hours, the company OWNS their time, and as such they should just think of it as work as usual... and if any extra hours are derived from it (totally optional, as per the law) they'll be rightly compensated for it.
      d) The substitute does not deserve the job. That's why she's a substitute. If she did, she'd HAVE said job. Usual capitalism and job market rules apply. And besides, she TOO would be able to benefit from maternity leave when she needed it. It's not beneficial for anybody (except the company) for the workplace to become a jungle where it's either eat or be eaten.

    4. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by Securityemo · · Score: 1

      This works better than you think, because (speaking as a swede) the nordic countries are much more homogenous and stable than the US. It's easier for a person born here to feel obligated towards their workplace, and towards the government. I don't neccessarily agree with this situation, and the reason many youths voted in a more liberal (as opposed to socialist democrat) government is to shake things up a bit. It's hard to re-sculpture a frozen crystal of iron, wood, coffee, melancholy and warmed-over 60s socialist ideals. You need to heat it up a bit, especially if those poor sods from warmer countries are going to reliably find any broken lattices to hang on to.

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    5. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      and the reason many youths voted in a more liberal (as opposed to socialist democrat) government is to shake things up a bit.

      Even in the last election, young people voted about split equally right-left, and that was the maximum for the right wing ("liberals", conservatives, homophobic "democrats", and rednecks, a weird bunch that), after that it's been all downhill among young people.
      http://www.svd.se/nyheter/politik/valet2010/unga-valjer-de-rodgrona-i-valet_4929783.svd

    6. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by ImprovOmega · · Score: 1

      Because there's a net benefit to society when a child grows up well adjusted, and that's much more likely to happen if they're well cared for during their formative years, particularly the first year of life. They're not getting paid for nothing, they're getting paid to get their child started off right. And while not everyone does so, there's an overall net gain.

    7. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      European companies are really hesitant to hire people because it's so damn hard to get rid of people.

      No it is not, not really.
      I can't understand why people often think it is a good thing that they can be fired/quit at an instant.
      It does how ever create a market for consultants.

      I have 3 months notice, THAT my friend is Good For The Company(tm) as well as me,
      since if I choose to leave, I have at least a possibility to do a handover to some one else,
      and I can not loose my job on a day to day basis.

      WTF is with people thinking they should get paid for nothing and/or have a right to get back a job they abandoned for half a year?

      During my paternity leave (yes, there is countries with this), I was paid 80% of my salary by the state, see it as a tax return.
      That was MY money coming back to ME.
      0% by the company.
      I had to give notice several months in advance though.
      If the company is healthy, they can handle my absence.

      Everybody else at that company gets hurt, especially the substitute worker who'd really like to keep the job.

      You could see it as a chance for the substitute worker borrowing my job that I otherwise would not have give away like that.

      In your scenario, I go back to work directly and you can babysit my child while you hope to land my job.

    8. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Agreed.

      I'm surprised at all the responses to this post. If a company wants to pay for maternity/paternity benefits, cool. But having the government require companies to support half a year of maternity leave? My god.

      Sorry but using the "good of society" as a reason to justify such a practice is outlandish. I'm going to make life a bit more difficult for you guys for 6 months while I have my baby but it's OK it's for the benefit of society! If your co-workers didn't like you enough I'm sure you will just love coming back to work. That is, if you don't work with a bunch of collectivists who are all for self-sacrifice in the name of "the benefit for society".

    9. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by r00t · · Score: 2, Insightful

      producing offspring is much more important (in a long term kind of way). And a society who has foresight would be wise to protect this matter

      OK, I agree, but that leads to a different conclusion. The mother should not go back to work. Her child needs her. No day-care worker will love the child like the mother, nor provide the discipline and emotional security that the child needs.

      Having a kid is not "abandoning" your job

      And neither is going off to Africa for half a year for missionary work? And neither is spending half a year at home playing Everquest? And neither is taking a job with the competition for half a year?

      Why does everybody else get hurt

      Financial harm to the company hurts all employees. Maybe it's the last straw leading to layoffs or even bankrupcy.

      The substitute does not deserve the job. That's why she's a substitute. If she did, she'd HAVE said job.

      Look, I've seen this. We all wanted to give the substitute the job because she was way better. Because of the law, we had to let a crummy employee have her job back. Of course, that just means we'll get rid of her in some other way.

    10. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by r00t · · Score: 1

      I agree: quit the job. Mothers should take care of the kids. (could flip that around, but men don't breastfeed very well)

      No daycare worker can provide parental security and love. Kids without stay-at-home moms do worse in life. (education, drugs, violence, those high-school pregnancies, etc.)

    11. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by r00t · · Score: 1

      Above, you argue that marriage tax breaks benefit children, so we shouldn't touch them. Here, you ignore the fact that the maternity and paternity leave granted in Europe are largely intended to help the children.

      The tax break helps mom stay home for good. It helps keep the family together.

      Maternity leave leads to latch-key kids raising themselves on the streets. Mom has no need for Dad anymore, so she can toss him out of the house and go screw somebody else.

      It should be obvious which situation is better for the kids.

    12. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by priegog · · Score: 0

      OK, I agree, but that leads to a different conclusion. The mother should not go back to work. Her child needs her. No day-care worker will love the child like the mother, nor provide the discipline and emotional security that the child needs.

      No, it does not lead to a different conclusion, if you pay attention to what developmental psycologists and science in general tells you. The MOST important stage in development is the first year. If you REALLY want to reduce that, it'd be the first 6-8 months. That's why scandinavian countries have it right. Don't introduce such ridiculous points into an otherwise serious discussion. It only makes you look either stupid, douchebaggy or desperate.

      And neither is going off to Africa for half a year for missionary work? And neither is spending half a year at home playing Everquest? And neither is taking a job with the competition for half a year?

      Same deal. You're making me start to wonder why I'm even bothering. Do you want to discuss the matter or not? Would you really compare spending half a year playing everquest to raising a child, in the terms of the benefits to society?

      Why does everybody else get hurt

      Financial harm to the company hurts all employees. Maybe it's the last straw leading to layoffs or even bankrupcy.

      Look, if you're going to strip my rethorical question, we're back at the beginning. I already gave the answer to that. Financial harm to the company does NOT hurt the employees (unless they are also shareholders). If the company is in such a situation where giving maternity leave to an employee (small shop) or to a certain percentage of them a year (huge megacorp) will bankrupt them, then it's a sad situation, but definitely not the woman's fault. At that point any other infinitesimal change in the market or whatever would have made it bankrupt and really, if the situation is like that everyone should have been on notice that this could happen and they should be all jumping ship. I gotta say, this mentality of yours of "putting the wellbeing of the company before the individual" really worries me. A company should not be an end in and on itself, but rather a mean to be a possitive thing to society, by providing jobs, whatever service they provide (and yeah, even making its owner filthy rich).

      Look, I've seen this. We all wanted to give the substitute the job because she was way better. Because of the law, we had to let a crummy employee have her job back. Of course, that just means we'll get rid of her in some other way.

      You've seen it, huh? Are you sure you didn't mean the substitute was way "nicer" instead of "better"? Or hotter? Or flirtier? I'm having a really hard time believing employees at a company would "want to give the substitute the job" because the other one way creating economic inefficiencies for the company. Oh, there's my confirmation. You used the word "crummy" to describe her. I'm sorry, but how much you like a person doesn't (or shouldn't because it DOES happen, as you said: "you'll get rid of her in some other way") play a part on whether she should have the job or not. But before you respond that she indeed was a worse worker, realise this: Then the fact that she has the job in the first place should be investigated. The HR guy who hired should get canned, and you could give his job to the hot, sassy, flirty temp!
      Really now. If everytime a better candidate showed up for a job companies were to can the old employee, this would be a FUCKED UP WORLD (well, I know it does happen, because of people who think like you, but thankfully we have LAWS that at least make this a little bit harder). How would you feel if you got fired for some guy who does whatever you do way better? I very much doubt you're THE BEST in your field (out of statistical improbability, it's not an insult), so it could happen. And I very much doubt you'd just go "hey, such is life! time to find a new job!", and leave the old company alone (legally speaking)

    13. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by maxume · · Score: 1

      I don't understand your connection between maternity leave and latch-key kids.

      Also, how does paternity leave factor into that?

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    14. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by r00t · · Score: 1

      I don't understand your connection between maternity leave and latch-key kids.

      It supports the notion that one can be a part-time parent. It encourages mothers to return to work right before the leave runs out, to avoid losing the job. (they may be uncertain if they wish to return; if they don't return on time then they lose the option and thus they feel a need to return at that time)

      Also, how does paternity leave factor into that?

      In a family that flips the traditional roles around, it amounts to the same thing. (not that I suggest flipping the roles, at least for babies, because formula feeding reduces IQ in the baby and fails to protect the mother from cancer)

      If you meant BOTH parents being home for a while, that's just weird. I've never met a guy who wouldn't be embarrassed to do that. There is a feeling that it is being a slacker, letting your coworkers down, and taking unfair advantage of the system.

    15. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by r00t · · Score: 1

      The MOST important stage in development is the first year.

      What about the second most important stage, the third most important stage, and so on? Why short change the child? Doesn't the child deserve a full-time mother?

      Would you really compare spending half a year playing everquest to raising a child, in the terms of the benefits to society?

      Not seriously, but I would compare those things in terms of fairness to other employees.

      Are you sure you didn't mean the substitute was way "nicer" instead of "better"? Or hotter? Or flirtier?

      That too, but more importantly NOT LAZY and NOT RUDE. For a random office helper (book travel, keep the snacks in stock, run out to buy office supplies, etc.) it is important to be polite and have a can-do attitude. Yes, that means likeable; she's not paid for manual labor or engineering talent. When highly-paid engineers would rather do her work themselves because the she is too painful to deal with, there is a problem.

      Then the fact that she has the job in the first place should be investigated. The HR guy who hired should get canned

      Maybe the job had to be filled quickly. Maybe there were few candidates who qualified (seriously: many fail the background check) In any case, a candidate isn't going to announce that they are a lazy bitch.

      Having hired the person and paid the training costs, getting a replacement isn't cheap. There is even a chance that the replacement will be worse. As long as the lazy bitch does the bare minimum, finding a replacement is too much effort and expense to bother with.

      Of course, once we're forced to find somebody else and that person turns out to be wonderful, everything changes.

      And I very much doubt you'd just go "hey, such is life! time to find a new job!", and leave the old company alone (legally speaking)

      WTF? Why not? I'm not saying I'd be happy of course, but I certainly don't have a right to the job. I could even be slightly pissed off, but seriously NOBODY OWES ME A JOB. How can you possibly think otherwise? That's a disturbing sense of entitlement you have.

    16. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by priegog · · Score: 1

      What about the second most important stage, the third most important stage, and so on? Why short change the child? Doesn't the child deserve a full-time mother?

      It's a simple matter of cost/benefit. It wouldn't be reasonable (nor healthy) to have a woman doing absolutely nothing but "looking after" her children for 18+ years. Specially in those last few years, it would be counterproductive. Now, before I go on, I want you to know I didn't answer because I mistook your question as being serious. I did just so you can visualise the level of absurdity that you are reaching with what you no doubt consider your "brilliant wits and unstoppable rethoric". Hyperboling into absurdity is not clever insight, it's what kids use to ridicule each other in the playground.

      Not seriously, but I would compare those things in terms of fairness to other employees.

      Again with the fairness. I thought I had already tackled that so I won't repeat the same argument here, but don't worry, I'll touch on it on my next point.

      That too, but more importantly NOT LAZY and NOT RUDE. For a random office helper (book travel, keep the snacks in stock, run out to buy office supplies, etc.) it is important to be polite and have a can-do attitude. Yes, that means likeable; she's not paid for manual labor or engineering talent. When highly-paid engineers would rather do her work themselves because the she is too painful to deal with, there is a problem.
      (and the rest of your post)

      Agreed, there is a problem there. And if her job description included "being nice and all that", then she could be effortlessly canned for breach of contract without any legal (or ethical, for that matter) repercussions. But I'm guessing her job description didn't include any of that. So I repeat, the HR guy (who wrote up the contract)should be canned instead. It's not that I feel a job is owed to me or that once I got it it should be mine forever; but I do expect that if a company has been using my "services" for a certain amount of time (time which could be potentially spent on another company doing greater and better things), they sure as hell will need to justify their actions whenever they feel like firing me. And it's not just my crazy ideas, it's the law (yes, even in the most capitalist country in the world). That is ALL i'm saying, not that they should keep this woman forever until she dies of old age. The "entitlement" you speak of, is nothing more than what an indefinite services contract makes me (or you, or whomever) entitled to. If you say you'd just accept being fired because you weren't liked there (regardless of whether or not you'd like working in such an enviroment, please realise this is not the point before answering), then you're just being dumb. And not just "noble dumb" but dumb in the sense that thanks to people like you companies allow themselves to treat people like shit.
      As for the situation with this woman and the temp, please just stop deluding yourself. You do want the new, perky, flirty chick. If the woman currently employed does the job she was hired to do, then there's no reason to fire her. She might be doing a crappy job, but alas. As I said, you should be angry at the HR guy, not at her.
      See, what gets me is precisely this contradiction: you say a job is nothing more than a job, that job hours belong to the company, that companies should be allowed to fire people at will and all that... And yet you complain because this woman doesn't say "please" and "thankyou"? What makes you think the company owes you a perfectly idylic work enviroment (or in a more humanistic approach, why is your confort at the job more important than this woman's livelyhood?)?
      Should I assume then, that you are very much for a happy work enviroment (despite the obvious inconsistencies that I just pointed out)? So how would that work out? You are all great friends at the office, until one of the gals decided to get pregnant... Then it all goes sour b

    17. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by r00t · · Score: 1

      It's a simple matter of cost/benefit. It wouldn't be reasonable (nor healthy) to have a woman doing absolutely nothing but "looking after" her children for 18+ years. Specially in those last few years, it would be counterproductive. Now, before I go on, I want you to know I didn't answer because I mistook your question as being serious. I did just so you can visualise the level of absurdity

      Absurdity, hmmm?

      Both my grandmothers did exactly that. One had a college degree. The other had a HS diploma, which was quite fancy for a female who grew up in the Great Depression. My mother did nearly that, except for a bit of part-time work near the end. My wife is a full-time mother. AFAIK, all of her friends are full-time mothers.

      It's not counterproductive. It produces decently educated people who stay out of prison.

      And if her job description included "being nice and all that", then she could be effortlessly canned for breach of contract without any legal (or ethical, for that matter) repercussions. But I'm guessing her job description didn't include any of that.

      Your "job description" sounds like a union concept. It's static. The employer gets in trouble if I tighten a screw on my desk because I'm not in the union with the contract to tighten screws on desks.

      In the sane world, a job description is an approximate description used for hiring. The employee is generally expected to do whatever is asked. He can of course refuse because he is not a slave, but then of course he may lose his job.

      It's people like you who support the parasitic army of lawyers that is choking our economy. It's people like you who would have me sit idle for weeks while waiting for somebody with the proper job description to get around to unpacking my computer. That union attitude is an anti-productive poison that will ultimately sink our economy below that of places that don't put up with such nonsense.

    18. Re:it hurts those it's intended to help by priegog · · Score: 1

      Absurdity, hmmm? Both my grandmothers did exactly that. One had a college degree. The other had a HS diploma, which was quite fancy for a female who grew up in the Great Depression. My mother did nearly that, except for a bit of part-time work near the end. My wife is a full-time mother. AFAIK, all of her friends are full-time mothers.It's not counterproductive. It produces decently educated people who stay out of prison.

      Yeah, I agree for the most part. You seemed to ignore where I said "in those last few years", where, I'm sure you'll also agree it would be counterproductive to have an overvigilant, overbearing mother wathing over you from, say 15-18. Not that your case (and that of your matriarchs) was what we were discussing exactly. If you have the means to permit the woman not to work, that's perfect and all the better for the kids. But we were discussing the case of the majority of the population where the woman DOES need to work, and what would be the best period (from a cost/benefit PoV for society) would be to give women as paid leave. So don't make points where there are none. Altho, judging from the pieces of my posts you decide to reply to, I see (and therefore understand) that you don't have many counterpoints to make.

      Your "job description" sounds like a union concept. It's static. The employer gets in trouble if I tighten a screw on my desk because I'm not in the union with the contract to tighten screws on desks.

      In the sane world, a job description is an approximate description used for hiring. The employee is generally expected to do whatever is asked. He can of course refuse because he is not a slave, but then of course he may lose his job.

      No, I'm not saying a job description should be neither static nor inflexible. But if "being nice" is so paramount to her job as you make it out to be, you'd think it'd be included there, right? I just think you're trying to justify to yourself (legally, ethically, and perhaps even morally) your wanting to fire her, when, in reality, as you yourself admitted, she is doing her job adequately. Maybe not the way you'd like her to (specially since the new hot one has been introduced to you), but she IS doing it, which is the point. There is no reason to fire a person who gets the job done. Hence my "fixation" with job descriptions (which you've yet again hyperboled into absurdity).

      Allow me a little divagation before carrying on. Being the (mostly) good person that I am, I'm going to help you out to discern between what is ethical and what is not because (as you'll see) I have experience in the matter. In the hospital where I worked for a while, we had an ethics commitee (I know, right? Who knew doctors don't actually make really important decisions according to what comes out of our asses?), and I got to participate in it a couple of times. When deciding if some solution to a problem is ethic or not, we have a few key points to reflect on to use as criteria (you can look this up). One of those points is "public scrutiny" which means you have to imagine trying to explain your proposed solution to everyone and anyone (including your family) and see how that makes you feel. If you feel unconfortable with that idea, it generally means that that particular solution is a poor ethical choice. Maybe you'd like to do the same and imagine yourself trying to explain all of this to your stay-at-home wife? (I'm not joking or making fun of you, this is really how decisions {more important ones, granted} are made. Sorry beforehand if you feel I crossed some line there).

      Now let's continue.

      It's people like you who support the parasitic army of lawyers that is choking our economy. It's people like you who would have me sit idle for weeks while waiting for somebody with the proper job description to get around to unpacking my computer.

      Those are some harsh (and very missinformed) assumptions. I'll have you know, I dislike unions probably every bit as mu

  36. One man's benefit is other man's discrimination by drewhk · · Score: 2, Informative

    Well, this is all in the eye of the beholder:

      - Gay couples pay extra tax
      vs.
      - Non-gay couples get tax benefit

    Or

      - Non-Gay employees are negatively discriminated
      vs.
      - Gay employees are compensated

  37. Re:Health care taxes done rigght & not an issu by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm with Google on doing what we can to alleviate the discriminatory burden, but it's really you who is missing the point. The only "government recognition" of a "family" that should occur is establishing who is legally responsible for any minor children (and then only if there is a practical issue that needs to be resolved). Past that, the government needs to stay the hell out of "recognizing" *anything*.

    Well, being married does set some legal defaults that can be convenient. E.g. your spouse gets your stuff if you die and you don't have a will. Your spouse gets to make decisions for you if they have to be made and you are incapacitated in some way, e.g. if you are in a coma. But yeah, those things could be kept without impacting your deeper point that the state shouldn't give tax breaks and such to married couples. Then setting or changing these legal defaults could be no more of a chore than getting your driver's license renewed is now.

  38. As a non-US resident... by MrNemesis · · Score: 1

    ...why are google covering a "tax for gays"? Why are gay people being taxed more in the first place?

    FTA: "Google is going to begin covering a cost that gay and lesbian employees must pay when their partners receive domestic partner health benefits, largely to compensate them for an extra tax that heterosexual married couples do not pay."

    To me this sounds like gay people are charged money when their (civil?) partners receive some form of benefit, but when heterosexual couples do the same thing they're not charged money? Can someone put this in terms a commnie socialist brit can understand?

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    1. Re:As a non-US resident... by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      In commie senses, either you tax everyone the same, married or unmarried, or you allow people to select their own partners. In the US, they subsidize marriages by considering the couple to be a single tax entity (like a corporation) and a benefit paid to either of the individuals is paid to the marriage and thus deductible or excludable from taxes. We love corporations and capitalism so much that we try to make our relationships look like them. But gays aren't allowed to have such corporations recognized, because that would degrade the status for all the other corporations by making them look like corporations. As such, paying a benefit to the partner of a gay person is legally the same as giving it to a random person on the street.

      So, in the US, the payment to the partner is not taxed if the partner is part of a marriage, but the payment to the partner is taxable income to the employee in the case where they are not married.

  39. God hates shrimp by AlterEager · · Score: 5, Funny
    1. Re:God hates shrimp by fractoid · · Score: 4, Funny

      Now you're just being shelfish.

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    2. Re:God hates shrimp by happydan · · Score: 2, Funny

      I sea what you did there...

    3. Re:God hates shrimp by nottheusualsuspect · · Score: 4, Funny

      Man, I really wish that you would stop trying to mussel your way into the conversation.

    4. Re:God hates shrimp by somersault · · Score: 4, Funny

      As long as you're not watching pr4wn

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    5. Re:God hates shrimp by pablodiazgutierrez · · Score: 1

      Don't be a dumb bass.

  40. civil marriage versus religious marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The term "marriage" is used to conflate two different meanings, "civil marriage" and "religious marriage".

    Civil marriage refers to laws and practices of state institutions.

    Religious marriage refers to laws and practices of religious institutions.

    One way to make the distinction clear, would be to change "marriage" to "civil union" everywhere in government laws, and leave "marriage" entirely to religious institutions.

    1. Re:civil marriage versus religious marriage by icebraining · · Score: 1

      In Portugal (dunno if it's true in other Portuguese speaking countries) we actually have a distinction, although not truly understood by all, of civil vs religious marriage.

      "Casamento" is defined by the dictionary as "contract between two people[1] that institutes conjugal duties".

      While "Matrimónio" is defined as "Sacrament of the Church that validates before God the conjugal union between a man and a woman"

      1]this used to be "men and woman", afaik. It changed recently when it the "different sex" requirement was taken from the law, enabling homosexual marriages.

  41. The US doesn't have an NHS. by Kupfernigk · · Score: 1

    That's basically it.

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  42. Disclosure? by omni123 · · Score: 1

    Is it just me or does anyone else find the need to disclose your sexual preference to your employer a little bit uncomfortable? I'm all for Google covering a ridiculous tax but it requires their employees to disclose the information before hand which opens them up to even more discrimination.

    A catch 22 in an extremely retarded situation.

  43. Interesting... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    A definition of perversion, or pervert, is the act of misusing something; to interpret incorrectly; misconstrue or distort.
    If we see someone using a screw driver to pry with; applying a lot of force while the face is hanging over the work to be performed, we all cringe.
    We are awaiting the inevitable outcome of the screw driver slipping off of the focus of the work, and jabbing the person in the eye.

    There is a proper tool for this work, that would take all the risk away -- using a screw driver for this job is perverting the use of that tool.

    In this article, the tax difference appears to be something like about $1000 dollars?
    Given the qualifications of the Google employees, this would seem to be a drop in the bucket.

    So, what is it that employees are really asking for? Is it more money, because they are having a hard time making ends meet with this "extra burden"?
    Or, is that that they are wanting to make a statement, and have more "proof" that this behavior is not *really* perversion?

    The interesting thing, is that there is no current law stating that a person may not, under any circumstance, use a screw driver as a pry bar.
    But that's not really what the worker is asking for -- it seems to me that the worker wants us all to go a step further.
    They would like us to do the following:

      -- Don't tell me that using a screw driver to pry with is wrong, or even a bad idea; keep my "opinion" to myself -- OK, done.
      -- Remove all warnings from package, stating that using this tool as a pry bar is incorrect, and may result in serious injury -- OK, getting there.
      -- Prepare statements, advertisements, bill board ads, leaflets to hand out, press conferences, teach it to small children, change books in the library, change laws, etc, etc; all to say that using this tool as a pry bar is not only totally correct, but that it causes no problems whatsoever, and is actually the healthy and correct way to use this tool -- Hmm... Apparently getting there as well.

    I am confused... Aside from any moral argument on the subject, why is this necessary?
    Again, nobody is currently telling you how you *must* use this tool, yet your perception is telling you that you have to force everyone around you pat you on the back and give you a thumbs up on your project.
    The way I see it, if you don't want the knee jerk reaction when people first see you about to stick a screw driver in your eye, stop doing that.
    Or, get used to the reaction and quit trying to force everyone else to join you in your alternate reality.

    1. Re:Interesting... by euroq · · Score: 1

      You just made a whole bunch of counter-argument to an argument that isn't being made. Besides your weird statements about your perceived persecution, the answer to your question "why is this necessary" is that, it is not necessary. It's just that, some gay employees used to make less money because of tax laws than their straight counterparts. Google change its pay structure to attempt to have gay employees make the same amount as their straight employees. Existence is not, by definition, alternate reality. There's only one real reality.

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  44. Re:far less than 50% by Com2Kid · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    I'm going to go out on a limb here, and say that this lack of basic knowledge of the human female reproductive system is strongly correlated with the fact that you have a 5-digit user ID.

    Actually, and I hate to say this, he is right. He just seriously lacks in communication skills, even given slashdot's very low standards.

    This was actually a story on /. a year or two back.

    What he MEANT to say is that prior to the modern industrial world and prior to family planning (not just birth control pills, but all forms of family planning) women spent the majority of their reproductive years either pregnant or nursing, which suppressed the menstrual cycle.

    When someone in acadamia had an "ah hah! No shit sherlock" moment awhile back, he (and I am guessing it was a he, only a guy could be that stupid...) crunched the numbers and realized that all this talk about women "abusing" birth control pills to suppress their menstral cycle being potentially "dangerous" was actually bullshit, since such behavior more closely approximated what had been "natural" for thousands of years.

  45. Help Us Grammar Nazi's; You're Our Only Hope. by ObsessiveMathsFreak · · Score: 1

    G to A to C a T for Y.

    Meaning presumably,

    $NOUN1 to $VERB1 to $VERB2 a $NOUN2 for $NOUN3.

    ....If I got that right.

    Can anyone suggest how punctuation or outright surgery can make this headline better, because it just melted into a puddle of of words the first few times I read it. By the way, it's not just Slashdot that's prone to constructing these liquidized headlines. You even see this sort of confusing thing in the BBC News headlines.

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    1. Re:Help Us Grammar Nazi's; You're Our Only Hope. by Kredal · · Score: 1

      First off, it's "Grammar Nazis". Sorry.

      Second off, you missed the word "Pay" in the headline.

      Who is adding something? Google.
      What are they adding? Pay.
      Why are they adding pay? To cover a tax.
      What tax? A tax for being gay.

      As long as you read all the words, you can break it down to make sense of it.

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    2. Re:Help Us Grammar Nazi's; You're Our Only Hope. by zill · · Score: 1

      The headline is not a complete sentence so it does not need punctuation. In most cases headline are not full sentences.

    3. Re:Help Us Grammar Nazi's; You're Our Only Hope. by fishexe · · Score: 1

      I blame Alexander Haig.

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    4. Re:Help Us Grammar Nazi's; You're Our Only Hope. by Tacvek · · Score: 1

      The sytntax is:
      NOUN [is] VERB1 NOUN1 ([in order] VERB2 a NOUN2 (for NOUN3))

      The verb "is" is implied. this is the Zero copula, although its use in this manner is considered questionable as legal grammar but is common in headlines.

      VERB1 is an infinitive, used with the implied "is" to create a future tense (like in he sentence "john is to leave tonight". In some regions, my own included, the alternative construction "is going" + infinitive sounds more natural, but is equivalent.)

      NOUN1 is the direct object of VERB1.

      ([in order] VERB2 a NOUN2 (for NOUN3)) an adverbial clause, of the purpose type, modifying VERB1, and using an implied conjunction of "in order to" (but that two is part of the following verb. It uses an implied subject of "Google".

      VERB2 is the verb or the adverbial clause, and is in the form of the infinitive as required by the implied conjunction used.

      "a NOUN1" is the direct object of VERB2.

      "for NOUN2" prepositional indirect object.

      So if we re-add implicit words where possible we get the sentence "Google is to add pay in order to cover a tax for gays". There is still an implicit subject in the adverbial phrase, but we would need to chane the construction to add an explicit subject. The only thin left to chane is to switch to the more common "is going to add" rather than "is to add".

      So we get: "Google is going to add pay in order to cover a tax for gays." Now that is readable.

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  46. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by NekSnappa · · Score: 1

    What about Google employees who are straight who live with someone who they are not married, they going to see extra pay?

    They say no. Because hetero couples can get married to avoid the tax that this is meant to compensatecfor,

    My question though is why is there this extra tax on supplying health insurance for domestic partners?

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  47. Discriminating??? How about single people? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is BS. I'm not married and not gay so I am being discriminated against by this new "benefit."
    They all get more money than me simply because they exist. If that's not Discrimination I don't know what is.

    1. Re:Discriminating??? How about single people? by euroq · · Score: 1

      No, dumbass, read it again. Gays were making less money than you, and now they will make the same amount of money as you. Not more. Also, it relates to taxes on domestic partner benefits. Unless you are paying for your girlfriend/boyfriend's health insurance, which is rare, then it wouldn't even apply to your situation.

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  48. Re:far less than 50% by Hognoxious · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    If you're really clever you can play the minorities off against each other - even if they theoretically add up to a majority.

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  49. Google rocks! by Nyder · · Score: 1

    for all the crap about google being evil, they sure seem to take care of their employees better then other companies.

    While I am not gay, transgendered, or a sexual minority (whatever that means), I have no problem with people being who they are, as long as it's not causing damage/hurting others. I wish more people would be like that, seeing as we are all human and stuck living on this planet.

    I do hope though, google pulls out of china, since they are the ones who are trying to change things for the better.

    Is profit more important then humanity and human rights?

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  50. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by PoderOmega · · Score: 4, Informative

    There isn't an extra tax. Domestic partners health premiums cannot be paid pretax like a spouse or child's can. The part of the premium for the partner is considered income (imputed income).

  51. No concern for privacy by H3xx · · Score: 1

    This is a blatant violation of the privacy of non-heterosexual Google employees. What right does Google even have under the law to ask them something like that? Seriously.

    ... But I guess Google isn't really that concerned with privacy of its users, much less its employees.

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    1. Re:No concern for privacy by Krahar · · Score: 1

      I doubt gay employees are required to disclose that they are gay. Obviously then Google can't reimburse them, but then Google probably doesn't mind not reimbursing the gay people who do not want it to be known that they are gay.

  52. Discrimination is sad by argStyopa · · Score: 1

    So when is Google going to 'gross up' the pay of hetero employees that have to pay a higher tax rate due to the 'marriage penalty'?

    From wiki: "In the U.S., income averaging (i.e., the "married filing jointly" status) was advantageous to a married couple with disparate incomes. To compensate for this somewhat, the U.S. provided a higher tax bracket for the averaged income of a married couple. While income averaging might still benefit a married couple with a stay-at-home spouse, such averaging would cause a married couple with roughly equal personal incomes to pay more total tax than they would as two single persons."

    So because my wife and I have comparable incomes, we have to pay MORE than would two gays living together. Is the oh-so-enlightened management at Google also going to mount a social crusade to fix my tax woes?

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    1. Re:Discrimination is sad by TrekkieGod · · Score: 1

      So because my wife and I have comparable incomes, we have to pay MORE than would two gays living together. Is the oh-so-enlightened management at Google also going to mount a social crusade to fix my tax woes?

      Uh...no, you don't. You are not required to file jointly. This is like the choice between itemizing or not itemizing your taxes. Sometimes one is more beneficial than the other, and you need to figure out which is which before you file if you want to get the best deal.

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    2. Re:Discrimination is sad by stdarg · · Score: 1

      I think these kinds of decisions need to be made just looking at consequences, not trying to divine the motivation of everybody involved. Do you really want to get into the business of deciding what is choice and what isn't? In a discussion about homosexuality?

    3. Re:Discrimination is sad by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're missing the point. You have the option to be married or not, depending on which would be better for you. Gays do not.

    4. Re:Discrimination is sad by euroq · · Score: 1

      I agree that it sucks that you have to pay more taxes because you are married.

      I still think it is appropriate to attempt to have gay couples take home the same amount at straight couples, which is what Google is attempting to do. Your problem only lies in tax laws, gay peoples problems are in many, many other areas of law.

      The real answer is to end all types of discrimination in the law, without regards to marriage, gays, etc. Google can't do that... yet.

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    5. Re:Discrimination is sad by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      I get it; you're saying that they can pursue their lifestyle choice, and be compensated where they end up short for it - but hetero's cannot. Sure, perfectly fair.

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  53. Civil and Church union. by AnonymousClown · · Score: 1
    Then why is folks get married by the state and then go and have a church ceremony? Like Prince Charles and Diana (RIP).

    I get the impression that there's a Civil Union and then a Church union in the UK.

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  54. Google has no gay employees by harlows_monkeys · · Score: 2, Funny

    If there were gays at Google, they would have a lot more beautiful site design.

    1. Re:Google has no gay employees by giuda · · Score: 1

      like Apple? :D

  55. I thought this was a technology site by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I haven't scanned this site in over a week so the first story is some Pollyanna homo story. followed of coarse by the obligatory fags are people too and copious amounts of christian bashing. Its nice to know that you are sticking to your new naval gazing faggots that think they are geeks format so i have one less tech site i have to monitor...

  56. Well, google is in california by SmallFurryCreature · · Score: 1, Interesting

    Google is in California, so instead of stoning gays, they get stoned and have their first gay experience.

    Ain't it funny, South Africa, a nation beseth with difficulties and racial tensions has a more civilized attitude towards gays then the US of A.

    And you forget the best about a girl of 13, if you turn her over, she looks just like a boy of 13. Bonus!

    Ooh I am going to get it for that one. Petrus is going to spank my ass, the big hunk.

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    1. Re:Well, google is in california by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ain't it funny, South Africa, a nation beseth with difficulties and racial tensions has a more civilized attitude towards gays then the US of A.

      Like the "corrective rape" applied on lesbians?

      http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/mar/12/eudy-simelane-corrective-rape-south-africa

  57. sue pls by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I like google.. but I hope someone sue's over this.

  58. Simple solution by SmallFurryCreature · · Score: 1

    Do what every civilized country has done, legalize gay marriage.

    Problem solved.

    And yes, every single civilized country has done this, countries that haven't ain't civilized.

    Amazing that so many people who worry the government is putting fluride in their water find it perfectly okay that the same government regulates who you can marry.

    Good for you Google (and the other companies that do this), fuck the hillbillies and welcome to the modern world in which all people are equal. Not just the bits the nazi child-rapist pope approves of.

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  59. Heterosexual Partners by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What about those Heterosexuals that are not married and have partner benefits? I am one of them, on my girlfriend's insurance, she pays this tax also...

  60. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by kno3 · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Doesn't really matter which way round it is taken, it still costs more for domestic partners than married partners. You can call that extra tax.
    Anyway, that's beside the point. Fact is it costs more, and that is discriminating against both homosexuals and people who just don't believe in marriage.

  61. Re:far less than 50% by groslyunderpaid · · Score: 1

    whoosh

  62. Google by Thuo · · Score: 1

    Sodom and Gomorrah in making? or it's were already there.

  63. Pride by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    At the Chicago Pride, Google had a float in the parade, everyone was wearing shirts with two Androids holding hands, one holding a rainbow flag. It looked pretty cool, I want one.

    I am all for gay marriage. I fit into the non-married heterosexual single category, but if two people of the same sex can fall in love, they're doing a much better job than I am. At least someone is in love, right? Being gay doesn't make you any less of a human being, I don't understand why we treat the GLBTQ community like they are less of a human being.

  64. I don't trust translations... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    PS I've "read Leviticus in its entirety" several times.
    Unless you read it in its original writing, I'm still not convinced.. how's your Greek + Latin + Aramaic + Hebrew?

    1. Re:I don't trust translations... by digitig · · Score: 1

      Er -- why would he need Greek, Latin or Aramaic to read Leviticus "in its original writing"?

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    2. Re:I don't trust translations... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      how's your Greek + Latin + Aramaic + Hebrew?

      Flawless.

    3. Re:I don't trust translations... by eharvill · · Score: 1

      Plus the dozens, if not hundreds or thousands, of changes/updates/deletions/etc that each ruling party at the time has made over the last 1000 or so years.

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  65. Re:far less than 50% by L4t3r4lu5 · · Score: 1

    That makes a lot more sense now. Doctors do recommend that women using cycle-suppressive hormone pills to come off them for a couple of months a year, presumably for the reasoning in your last paragraph.

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  66. Married to dolls DISCROMINATION !! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What about me ? I'm married to my Real Doll, why can't I have a salary raise too ? DISCRIMINATION !!!!

  67. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Zantac69 · · Score: 1

    So I have to get married because its an economic decision?

    Bullshit.

    I got married because I love my wife, not because I get a tax break.

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  68. Re:It is unnatural by Yosho · · Score: 1

    Normal ('straight') employees are now penalized for not acting unnaturally. (For the obtuse: for doing the same work & hours & etc, the normal employee will get less income).

    I haven't done the exact math, but it seems like the intent here is to make up for the extra tax that unmarried couples have to pay, so in the end, heterosexual and homosexual employees should be taking home the same amount of money. Why do you believe the straight employee will get less income?

    For what matter, what do you mean by "unnatural"? Is that in the same sense that your polyester clothing or the computer you're sitting at are unnatural, or in the sense of the genetically modified corn that's used as a binding agent in practically everything you can buy at the supermarket...?

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  69. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by mdwh2 · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Indeed - I think it would be much better to offer the extra benefit to any unmarried partners. It solves several problems:

    * It's not then unfair to people who are unmarried with opposite sex partners.
    * It avoids the sticky question of whether this might be illegal discrimination. It's an interesting problem - whilst it's trying to address the original discrimination that exists, which I think is good for them to do, it's now reasonable for someone to argue that how they pay their employees is discrimination (I don't know if sexuality is a protected class for employment discrimination in the US?) Whilst technically they would still be discriminating against people who are married, this is far less repugnant (since marriage is a choice), and has far less risk of being illegal.
    * Gay people don't have to out themselves - they simply say they've got an unmarried partner.

    TFA says:

    The extra compensation to cover the domestic partner tax will apply only to same-sex domestic partners, Mr. Bock said, because heterosexual couples can avoid the added tax by marrying.

    That may be true, but there are plenty of reasons why opposite sex couples may not wish to get married (e.g., they don't want to enter in a contract for life, with all the implications and connotations that brings). An equal system must treat people the same, not create a separate class system for gay people (another example is here in the UK where we have civil partnerships for gay people - I believe that gay people should be able to get married, but it's also a problem that straight people can't have civil partnerships - not because I'm thinking "oh no, think of the poor straight people", but it's emphasising that gay people should be treated differently).

    Of course, it would be a lot simpler if gay people could get married, so I hope any straight people thinking this is unfair is in favour of gay marriage.

  70. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Dun+Malg · · Score: 1

    I got married because I love my wife, not because I get a tax break.

    Same here... because we actually don't get a tax break. We're both employed and have our own insurance, and since a married couple is essentially treated as a single entity, we took a significant tax hit. Instead of paying as two separate people making $50K each with one deduction, we now pay as one person with two deductions making $100K. The tax paid on post-tax benefits would be chickenfeed in comparison.

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  71. /. has many thinkers, but... not all. by OldHawk777 · · Score: 1

    The dogma affected will never reason effective.

    Bigotry decisions indicate a dogma affect.
    Bigotry is the effect of applied dogma logic.

    Bigotry evolves from a fallacious premise that supports straw-man arguments for flawed evil people.
    [Hitler, Farwell, all bible/koran thumpers and other pick-pocket clergy bullshit artist]

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  72. GW Bush: if you feed a terrorist or help a by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    GW Bush: if you feed a terrorist or help a terrorist, you're a terrorist.

    Plus: that SCANDALOUS King and I "Getting to *know* you" song. Or Abba: "Knowing me, knowing you".

  73. So get the tax break repealed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So get the tax break repealed. After all, it's possibly just making people marry for monetary purposes and it wasn't why YOU got married, so why is it there?

    So get rid of it.

  74. Marriage Tax Mitigation by Zequel · · Score: 1

    Are they going to compensate married people for the marriage tax? And yes, it does exist, just do the tax return for married vs head of household+single and you'll see that HoH+Single does better.

  75. thanks scrooge by circletimessquare · · Score: 3, Insightful

    you know, some of us actually believe the point of life is not to labor as a wage slave. that if society were set up in such a way to maximize individual happiness instead of profit, corporations would take a dent, but capitalism would go right on ticking, and we would be happier people with richer lives. exactly what is wrong with that goal?

    meanwhile, you seem wedded to the ravenous idea that toiling for the corporation should be the end-all consume-all point of life

    "Everybody else at that company gets hurt, especially the substitute worker who'd really like to keep the job."

    well yeah, if the point is to run at maximum capacity possible, all the time, like we are at war with something. there is no slack to pick up if there is no tension in the rope. relax the goddamn rope, you don't have to run full bore all the fucking time. go about your company's business leisurely, let things go a little slower, and calm the fuck down

    if all your competitors labor under the same respect the individual's happiness rules, there's no competitive disadvantage

    or, move to china, where the wage slaves are committing suicide in mass numbers

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foxconn#Employee_suicides_and_deaths

    and forming unions (in a communist country, irony)

    http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/21/world/asia/21chinalabor.html

    to agitate for the respect from the government and companies that i am agitating towards you: the individual's happiness is the paramount concern, not the fucking company

    really, asshole

    " "At this festive season of the year, Mr. Scrooge", said the gentleman, taking up a pen, "it is more than usually desirable that we should make some slight provision for the poor and destitute, who suffer greatly at the present time. Many thousands are in want of common necessaries; hundreds of thousands are in want of common comforts, sir."
    "Are there no prisons?", asked Scrooge.
    "Plenty of prisons", said the gentleman, laying down the pen again.
    "And the Union workhouses?", demanded Scrooge. "Are they still in operation?"
    "They are. Still", returned the gentleman, "I wish I could say they were not."
    "The Treadmill and the Poor Law are in full vigour, then?", said Scrooge.
    "Both very busy, sir."
    "Oh! I was afraid, from what you said at first, that something had occurred to stop them in their useful course", said Scrooge. "I'm very glad to hear it."
    "Under the impression that they scarcely furnish Christian cheer of mind or body to the multitude", returned the gentleman, "a few of us are endeavouring to raise a fund to buy the poor some meat and drink, and means of warmth. We choose this time, because it is a time, of all others, when want is keenly felt, and abundance rejoices. What shall I put you down for?"
    "Nothing!", Scrooge replied.
    "You wish to be anonymous?"
    "I wish to be left alone", said Scrooge. "Since you ask me what I wish, gentlemen, that is my answer. I don't make merry myself at Christmas and I can't afford to make idle people merry. I help to support the establishments I have mentioned--they cost enough; and those who are badly off must go there."
    "Many can't go there; and many would rather die."
    "If they would rather die", said Scrooge, "they had better do it, and decrease the surplus population. Besides--excuse me--I don't know that."
    "But you might know it", observed the gentleman.
    "It's not my business", Scrooge returned. "It's enough for a man to understand his own business, and not to interfere with other people's. Mine occupies me constantly. Good afternoon, gentlemen!"
    Seeing clearly that it would be useless to pursue their point, the gentlemen withdrew. Scrooge resumed his labours with an improved opinion of himself, and in a more facetious temper than was usual with him."

    fuck you fucking corporatists,

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    1. Re:thanks scrooge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you know, some of us actually believe the point of life is not to labor as a wage slave

      Exclude yourself from this group. Paying for the rest of your post costs half my salary and will delay and impact my retirement/vacation/gobacktoschool time.

      You are quite right about not being a cog. Cogs are useful.

    2. Re:thanks scrooge by Atario · · Score: 1

      You're my hero for today. Fight the good fight!

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    3. Re:thanks scrooge by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Guess I won't employ you then.

    4. Re:thanks scrooge by r00t · · Score: 1

      you know, some of us actually believe the point of life is not to labor as a wage slave. that if society were set up in such a way to maximize individual happiness instead of profit, corporations would take a dent, but capitalism would go right on ticking, and we would be happier people with richer lives. exactly what is wrong with that goal?

      Nothing. I agree.

      It is important for people and corporations to have low costs related to job changes. This keeps things efficient.

      BTW, it entends beyond employment: it should be much cheaper and faster to buy/sell a house, and there shouldn't be any tax incentive (property tax oddities for example) to avoid moving as required to get better employment.

      meanwhile, you seem wedded to the ravenous idea that toiling for the corporation should be the end-all consume-all point of life

      Nope. You seem wedded to the idea that everybody has to have all the latest toys and entertainment, or perhaps you think that fathers are not valuable. A proper family has one wage earner and one homemaker. In so many ways (education, violence, drug abuse, girls getting pregnant in high school, etc) the traditional family has proven superior for kids. Sell the McMansion, sell the second (third???) giant luxury SUV, ditch the cable TV and costly cell phone plans, and forget about travelling around the world. You don't need to keep up with the neighbors; they are drowning in debt and have no time for day-to-day family life.

    5. Re:thanks scrooge by priegog · · Score: 1

      Nope. You seem wedded to the idea that everybody has to have all the latest toys and entertainment, or perhaps you think that fathers are not valuable. A proper family has one wage earner and one homemaker. In so many ways (education, violence, drug abuse, girls getting pregnant in high school, etc) the traditional family has proven superior for kids. Sell the McMansion, sell the second (third???) giant luxury SUV, ditch the cable TV and costly cell phone plans, and forget about travelling around the world. You don't need to keep up with the neighbors; they are drowning in debt and have no time for day-to-day family life.

      Where does he say everyone should have the latest and greatest toys, travel around the world (this one is funny, since I don't know how in your view of the world you'd be able to travel AT ALL with 10 days of vacation), have an SUV and a bazillion dollar cellphone plan? He hasn't said otherwise, but I wouldn't be surprised if he was precisely against american-style consumerism.
      I agree that a "traditional style" family where one stays at home is better for everybody (and psychology agrees too), but in the real world, much of the time this just ISN'T POSSIBLE. Spin it how you like, but in the end this sad situation we're in is partly (at least) due to this "CAPITALISM, FUCK YEAH" mentality you ironically have. Exploiting workers and paying them the bare minimun you can get away with is the reason shit is the way it is. At least in the middle class this is the case. It used to be that mom and pop shops would have been able to be run by the single person, while his wife was at home (or helpig around sporadically, but the main idea is the family-owned business) in comes walmart, puts them out of business, and now BOTH of them have to go work there to earn a fraction of what they did originally. While all the benefits are siphoned off to the shareholders or whatever. But you get the point.

    6. Re:thanks scrooge by r00t · · Score: 1

      He's here on slashdot, so it's highly likely that he earns more than enough to support a family on a single income. If he feels that he can't, then the problem is almost certainly his expenses.

      For the couple who work low-paying jobs, it's different of course. Childcare can easily cost more than one of them earns. While that can mean that staying home is a financial win, more likely it just means that they can't afford to have kids.

      I happen to think this is a sad situation, but we've made life unaffordable with luxury legislation. Consider that Ford's original Model T is cheap to produce, but illegal to sell as a new car. It's like that with everything: homes (building code), medicine, food (FDA), the environment, child labor, social security, worker safety, etc. All these luxuries are nice, and perhaps individually affordable, but in total they make life unaffordable. (your house costs more, etc.) We'd be in trouble even if we weren't stuck competing with countries that don't care about that stuff.

    7. Re:thanks scrooge by priegog · · Score: 1

      He didn't say HE PERSONALLY had that kind of problem. In any case you're making a lot of assumptions.

      But with the rest of it I do agree. I've often thought about this situation and about what has really changed since, say, the 50's, when a man's salary was more than enough to support a family. I have not come up with concrete or definite answers, but one of the factors involved seems to be indeed mindless and ruthless corporativism. Back then there weren't any huge-ass megacorps, maybe a couple or airlines and banks (both of which payed suffiently well to their employees).
      The problem is, I don't know how we could ever go back. This isn't even a US only problem, the same thing happens on this side of the pond.
      Do you have a clearer view on the reasons for the current state of the matter?

    8. Re:thanks scrooge by r00t · · Score: 1

      There are two sides to the mindless and ruthless corporativism. Poor people benefit tremendously from the way it pushes down prices at Walmart.

      The source of the problem is elsewhere. We're expecting more, and often requiring it by law. For example, cars are more expensive because we require air bags and emissions controls. All sorts of laws (safety, environment, etc.) are driving up costs; any cost paid by a corporation is really paid by the customers. We have also made manual labor nearly worthless via automation, illegal immigrants (slaves nearly) and outsourcing.

  76. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by PopeRatzo · · Score: 1

    I got married because I love my wife, not because I get a tax break.

    Of course, you don't get married to get a tax break.

    You have kids to get a tax break.

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  77. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by somersault · · Score: 1

    discriminating against both homosexuals and people who just don't believe in marriage.

    Who cares if you don't "believe" in it. If someone told me there was some form I could fill in to get more money by proclaiming that I am a loyal subject of the FSM, I'd do it.

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  78. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by somersault · · Score: 1

    But then it's unfair to those of us who can't find partners!

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  79. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    So Google piling on another layer of discrimination, this time against the non-gays, is supposed to 'fix' the problem?

  80. Google needs to check its math by jimbolauski · · Score: 1

    How are they discriminated against? If two gays are living together and one gets the head of household deduction $8,350 (if they don't claim a domestic partnership and have kids) or $5,700 if not and the other will get the $5,700, while married couples get $11,400 filing jointly or $5,700 filing separately, so gay couples get the same deduction or higher based on circumstances then married couples . Now for the tax schedule two gays making $100,000 each in taxable income pay $21,709 or $43,418 together while a married couple filing separately pay $22,122 each or $44,244 together or if they file jointly they pay $44,244. The only way married couples might come out ahead in the tax game is when one spouse makes significantly more then the other and files jointly. So a married couple where one stays home and has 100k in taxable income will only pay $17,363 while the gay couple pays $21,709 but the non working gay could fie a return and get money back so even this discrepancy in taxes paid probably is not there. Looks like Google needs to give married couples a raise for the horrible tax discrimination they receive.

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    1. Re:Google needs to check its math by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Did you read the article? It's pretty explicit about what extra tax gay couples face: domestic partner benefits (unlike spouse benefits) are taxable income.

    2. Re:Google needs to check its math by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Besides missing the point, your numbers are (deliberately?) misleading. While it's true that a bit under half of married couples will face a slightly higher tax, it's also true that slightly over half of married couples will face a lower tax as a result. It's a blade that cuts both ways, so characterizing it as you do is just plain misleading.

    3. Re:Google needs to check its math by madbrain · · Score: 1

      You are making assumptions that there are kids involved. There are not, in over half of gay couples. Check your math where both gay partners file as single.
      Also, the health insurance benefits cause not only federal tax to go up, but also social security, medicare, and in California state income tax and state disability taxes. I work at Cisco, which already pays the extra tax for the benefits on my domestic partner's benefits. This results in $320.44 extra income, which comes in a separate paycheck every 2 weeks, with the value of the after-tax benefits being $212.28, and the tax $108.16. In other words, the tax rate on the benefits is 108.16/212.28 = 50.95% . Yes, over 50%.

      Heterosexual couples don't have to pay that $108.16 of tax every paycheck. And they also have a much more favorable tax table. Being able to file jointly would allow us to save an additional $250 every paycheck in taxes.

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  81. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by tweek · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I wish. I joked with my wife about the tax benefits of our two kids. Being a math geek, she started to do the math taking into account the new birthdays, additional holiday gifts..on and on. Let's just say it didn't end up much of a benefit in the fiscal sense.

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  82. YMMV - Marriage Penalty for heterosexual couples by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I think that a gay couple with a similar financial situation would be better off than a me and my wife. For starters, they wouldn't be subject to the marriage penalty (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_penalty) but in many cases would still be able to get employer health benefits for their Same Sex Domestic Partner (one of us works for a very well-known US software company that is the subject of frequent Slashdot rants which will cover SSDPs but not opposite sex partners unless legally married).

    Last year, my wife and I (we're a heterosexual couple with two salaries) had a church ceremony etc., but did *not* obtain a marriage license beforehand so that our marriage would be considered invalid in the eyes of our home state and therefore in the eyes of the IRS, thereby allowing us to file as single for one more year (marital status on 12/31 is all that matters). After the new year we had a simple civil ceremony (in Las Vegas, of course). The difference in taxes paid for the trip plus a lot more...

    It's the phaseouts (deductions for certain investments like rental properties which I could take as a single person but our combined income would make me ineligible for) and limits (capital losses for stocks $3k for a single or $3k for a married couple) that can make a big difference but are often overlooked. The marginal rates also make a difference since one spouse's income will get pushed into a higher bracket. Not everyone's tax situation is the simple case, a politicians love to "support" marriage and will drag out a well-chosen example to show how tax policy benefits married couples.

    The marriage penalty still exists and in many cases there's a financial disincentive for marriage.

  83. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by kno3 · · Score: 1

    No of couse it doesn't fix the problem. Its just a response to problem to try and reduce its affect. Everybody ends up getting the same amount of money, surely that is better?

  84. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by PoderOmega · · Score: 1

    I'm not arguing it either way, just answering the question: "My question though is why is there this extra tax on supplying health insurance for domestic partners?"

  85. The only way to not discriminate by scorp1us · · Score: 1

    Is to either cancel the instant action, or:

    To give the same benefits to everyone, straight couples AND SINGLES. What I mean by this is to have the legal staff at Google prepare and file a trust and estate, and optional powers of attorney, etc.

    These legal documents usually cost about $2-5k total, depending on how complex they are. Google should be doing the same for all their employees. It could be part of the employee packet you get when you start work there, with some additional obligation for the legal staff to offer classes and additional help.

    These instruments can benefit straight couples and singles just as much as GLBs.

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  86. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by corbettw · · Score: 1

    So I have to get married because its an economic decision?

    Historically, that's all it was, anyway: a way to ensure inheritance, which is a kind of economic decision (estate planning and all that). So really, what's the big deal?

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  87. Hebrews 13:8!!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My brother worked at a hospital and everyday he saw an old lady take to cover off her meal and shout "Hebrews 13:8!!!" and slam down the cover.

    He looked it up one day and it said "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever ."

  88. So if you work at Google get a roommate... by John+Hasler · · Score: 1

    ...and get a raise.

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  89. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I wish. I joked with my wife about the tax benefits of our two kids. Being a math geek, she started to do the math taking into account the new birthdays, additional holiday gifts..on and on. Let's just say it didn't end up much of a benefit in the fiscal sense.

    That's because she forgot to count the Long Term Care costs (http://www.longtermcare.gov/LTC/Main_Site/Paying_LTC/Costs_Of_Care/Costs_Of_Care.aspx) you won't have to pay because your kids (or their spouses if you only have sons) will provide you with the LTC for free. You'd have to spend like a Kennedy on birthday and holiday presents to outweigh saving $200 per-day during the last couple years of both of your lives.

    You wife might be a math geek, but she is not an accounting geek.

  90. Re:It is unnatural by stdarg · · Score: 1

    Well, your salary should be decided on your work, not on what you do at home. What you're saying is the same argument used by people to pay men more than women ("they're more likely to be the sole bread winners" etc).

  91. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by edmicman · · Score: 1

    I was going to say the same thing, wondering where this married person tax break is that everyone speaks of. Before we got married, everyone said we'd get economic benefits. So far, the only way I see that actually being the case is if one partner stays home or makes minimal income. If you're married and both professionals making roughly the same decent income, the government bends you over and makes you collectively their bitch.

  92. God Hates Figs by GoodBuddy · · Score: 4, Funny

    Yes, this is the origin of the saying "God Hates Figs" The Westboro Baptist Church just got things messed up in their minds.

  93. Canada is the answer by Idarubicin · · Score: 1
    The best solution is to move to Canada! If you shack up together for one year -- opposite-sex or same-sex, doesn't matter -- then you're common-law spouses as far as the Canada Revenue Agency (their version of the IRS) is concerned.

    Can't wait a year to start filing joint tax returns? Go ahead and get married. Gay, straight, somewhere in between, it doesn't matter; it's legal! (Just one spouse per person, however. They're still picky about that.)

    Of course, your health insurance is going to be a lot less expensive anyway -- visits to your doctor are covered by the government.

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  94. Explicit vs Implicit by TravisO · · Score: 1

    Funny, but on a more serious note, during the time of the Bible, people had no way to access the oceans depths needed to reach lobster, shrimp and crab (ok, there are some land crabs). So anything they could access in the upper parts of the water with a net, that didn't have scales & fins were unsafe to eat (ex: jellyfish).

    1. Re:Explicit vs Implicit by AlterEager · · Score: 1

      So you are claiming that god didn't know the shrimp was there?

  95. STDs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Some companies charge extra for smokers to get health coverage or give a "discount" to non-smokers, whatever. Shouldn't we charge gays extra for coverage too? Of men infected with STDs in 2007, ~69.9% were gay or Bi (of those, 10% were ALSO needle-users, so perhaps a better estimate is roughly 2/3). Studies show that about 10% of people are homosexual/Bi. So, statistically you are roughly 18 times more likely to have an STD by being gay or Bi. I honestly don't mind if they provide tax benefits for gays - makes sense to me. However, they should discriminate fairly and charge them more for healthcare (or give heterosexuals a "discount").

    1. Re:STDs by euroq · · Score: 1

      1. How much do you think the clap costs? Gonorrhea? Pretty much nothing. Only HIV costs a lot.
      2. Your statistics are stupid and irrelevant. I am gay and have never any STDs, except crabs once which isn't really a disease, more like an STI. I am not 18 times more likely than a straight person to get them, because of many factors other than gayness. Over HALF of my friends (straight) have STDs of some form.
      3. Why not charge black people more because they are more likely to be poor and eat worse and live worse and not have full families, etc. etc.?
      4. So your stupid-ass comment is basically saying that gay people should be taxed more, in order to pay for a different group of people (people with STDs). Although 66% of the population has some form of an STD, you think gay people should pay more for them than straight people should.

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    2. Re:STDs by euroq · · Score: 1
      Another thing to your stupid-ass pussy comment. It doesn't cost the company more or less to pay healthcare for gay people. Everyone costs the same, and the risk is distributed evenly throughout a large pool of employees. It would technically cost the health care company more.

      I've got even more to your shit-for-brains comment (how does someone as stupid as you not only read Slashdot, but figure out how to post comments?). Even if, statistically speaking, the huge group of people which checks "gay" on the sheet might be .0001% more expensive (and no, not 1800% more expensive dumbass), this is nowhere near anything of what the true cost of healthcare is. 95% of all healthcare money is spent in the last few years of life. Being gay, if it DID actually cost anything (and I figure it costs less, given the less-likely chance of having extra family members to pay for), is a drop in the bucket.

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    3. Re:STDs by euroq · · Score: 1

      Ugh I still have more to talk about your stupid-ass comment. You said 70% of men with STDs are LGBT. That is such bullshit. You got that from some church's website. 2/3rds of all Americans have an STD of some form, and I really really doubt 69.9% of 2/3rds of all Americans are LGBT. I'm one of those lucky 1/3rd that doesn't have an STD.

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    4. Re:STDs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Disease Control: http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/surveillance/basic.htm. No, 2/3 of Americans do NOT have STDs. My friend, THAT is bullshit.

    5. Re:STDs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. Ok
      2. Your personal experience is more relevant than statistics? No
      3. Because that's stereotyping about something someone does NOT have a choice about. If you "chose" to commit gay acts it's like "chosing" to smoke.
      4. My comment is more about why smokers are taxed and not fat people (like myself) or gay people (like you) - that's discriminatory.

    6. Re:STDs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Now you're just rambling - U mad?
      The company pays more for it's pool based on the number and amount of it's claims - corporate healthcare 101, kid. Also, many companies are self-insured - UHC, Wellmark or Blue cross, etc administer the benefits and process the claims, but the money comes from a company fund.
      You're probably right that healthcare costs more at the end - but 95% is a number-out-of-ass statistic. If smokers get charged more, so should gays and fat people. You're right about the no-family bit - but at the same time, dependents are typically rather cheap (aside from the actual birth), which is why healthcare options only charge a small additional fee to cover any number of dependents in family-plans - but, this cost IS covered by that "additional" fee. Therefore, gays should also have an additional fee.

    7. Re:STDs by euroq · · Score: 1

      That link is about AIDS, not STDs.

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    8. Re:STDs by euroq · · Score: 1

      Now you're just rambling - U mad?

      Yes, I was when I first read all this crap.

      Smoking is a direct cause of additional health care costs. Being gay is not the direct cause of additional health care costs.

      Being fat is sometimes a direct cause (and effect) of additional health care costs. Being gay is not the direct cause of additional health care costs.

      Your metaphor makes sense with fat people and smokers. It doesn't make sense with black and gay people.

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    9. Re:STDs by euroq · · Score: 1
      2. No, it was an example. I am trying to make you see why your statistics aren't being applied properly. Gay is not the appropriate category, promiscuous is. I should not be forced to pay for promiscuous people because I am gay.

      3. Choosing to commit gay acts makes no difference in health care costs. This is the part that makes me mad; you are trying to correlate a higher incidence of STDs with gay people, and therefore that being gay means you are less healthy. There's nothing unhealthy about being gay. There is something unhealthy about many things that some gay people do, yes, (same as straight people), but there is nothing unhealthy about me and my partner.
      4. See above comments. Fat/smokers/etc. is a category which directly causes health costs. Being gay or being black does not directly cost anything.

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    10. Re:STDs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Responding in one post:
      You're right, just AIDS, not STDs, but that's the only expensive one according to you anyway, and it doesn't take a really bright person to understand that other STDs would follow a similar pattern.
      Younger drivers get charged more for auto insurance, older people get charged more health insurance, and home owners in Lousiana often can't pay enough to aford flood insurance if it's an option at all - these "penalties" are all based on statistics just like the risk of smoking. It's not legal to discriminate by age, but insurance companies don't have to - they simply follows statistics. While you're absolutely right that promiscuous behavior is the problem (not homosexuality - and I commend you for being the exception here), the relevant statistics clearly point to a 18x risk factor to contract AIDS (not STDs as you correclty pointed out) for those who are gay or BI, so yes, it does matter. Consider the young driver paying twice the auto-insurance. Because he is young, does that make him a reckless driver? Or because he likes red cars, does that make him a reckless driver? No, but they are both statistical factors which indicate a higher risk.
      Btw, thanks for calming down - it's easier to debate when there's less rambling ;-).

    11. Re:STDs by euroq · · Score: 1

      Btw, thanks for calming down - it's easier to debate when there's less rambling ;-).

      Sorry about that.

      Anyways, Google is not a healthcare provider. They have nothing to do with charging more for healthcare. What they did was change their pay structure so that gay couples, in the end, get the same amount as straight couples.

      Onto the separate question of whether or not health insurance companies should charge more for gays because of the AIDS correlation: I do not think they should charge more to gay people, they should charge more to people with AIDS. Same thing goes for black people, Jewish people, Eastern Europeans, etc. Don't charge the correlation, charge the cause.

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    12. Re:STDs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're right - it's difficult to argue google's actions as unfair in that respect - but my point is that they have not really helped the situation unless they want to also provide extra pay to heterosexuals to compensate for healthcare costs that are higher than they should be considering they are less risky. While they're at it they should pay skinny people and non-smokers more also (which they might already do, where I work it's $50 a month to be a non-smoker).
      As far as charging for the cause (only those who contract lung cancer, AIDS, etc) - that's what deductibles are for. Additionally, individual insurance premiums (non-group) get more expensive with more claims, but due to federal laws insurance companies are not allowed to do the same with group insurance. While what you're saying makes sense (pay penalties for the sickness - not the risk), it sort of defeats the purpose of health insurance.
      Hey, if you add something particularly interesting, I'll respond, otherwise I'll give you the last word - and thanks for the discourse. Let me just end on this note: I do not have a problem with gay people. I had some friends (old jobs) that were gay and great guys - though I do not approve of the act - but my point again is only that if google wants to balance unfair laws it should be to fair to everyone instead of catering to a single group.

    13. Re:STDs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      only if we can charge more for members of the three major Desert Death Cults (Judaism, Christianity, and Islam) for being more likely to kill themselves or others.

    14. Re:STDs by euroq · · Score: 1

      but my point again is only that if google wants to balance unfair laws it should be to fair to everyone instead of catering to a single group.

      Soon, Google will be able to change laws as they see fit. (insert scary music here)

      Anyways, you've made your point and I mine. I basically jumped at the thought of "me" being a higher-risk category. I never thought you had any non-logical problems with gays; the conversation has been reasonable (despite me disagreeing, and I was pretty grumpy this morning).

      There are two things, which I don't think we should have conflated together: taxes and healthcare. I vehemently disagree that the government (i.e. taxes) should ever discriminate about who pays more or less in taxes, but it does via the whole marriage thing. What Google did was in response to that aspect, but not healthcare.

      As for the healthcare argument, you are saying that the pay/taxes sorta bleeds into the healthcare costs (also part of everyone's salary), and that, taking everything into account, the the gays healthcare is more expensive than the straights. My main point is that I don't want gays or blacks or Jewish Koreans or whatever to be a "category" for higher costs; gay/black/Korean/etc. is not a choice (acting out on gay desire are technically choices, but please let's not go there, it will create a different argument which doesn't relate to this one). You believe that it should be, and I disagree because I don't find the "smoker" category the same as the non-choice "gay/black/etc." category. Even though I am statistically at a higher risk, I personally am not at a higher risk of anything because I am gay as opposed to straight. The same would not true if I said "smoker as opposed to non-smoker". And seriously, please replace "gay" with "black", and think about that argument... yes, it's true black people are statistically higher costing that white people, but that's ridiculous to expect the healthy black group be segregated from the healthy white group just because the ratio of healthy white:non-healthy white is higher than healthy black:non-healthy black.

      While what you're saying makes sense (pay penalties for the sickness - not the risk), it sort of defeats the purpose of health insurance.

      I agree; if you want me to start paying for people with AIDS, but not you, then it sort of defeats the concept of pooled-risk group health insurance. You want ME to pay for someone else, but not YOU. Well, that's what group health insurance is... paying for someone else!

      OK I probably typed too much for someone who is supposed to be finishing the argument. Take it easy.

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    15. Re:STDs by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They say the mind is a great weapon - and I would like to engage you in a mental duel. However, I generally won't strike an unarmed person.

  96. how to prove you are gay by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And how does a person go about proving that they are gay in order to receive this salary increase? Some people might say they are just for the money.

    1. Re:how to prove you are gay by euroq · · Score: 1

      I work for a company that does this (T-Mobile). You have to get a document notarized, and also have a domestic partner, both of which are not as simple as lying. Having a domestic partner costs a lot of money, from the health insurance stand point. For me, it costs approximately $200/month to have a domestic partner, and you get paid approximately $40/month in extra money to pay for the taxes.

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  97. modest question by aminorex · · Score: 1

    talent for what exactly?

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  98. T-Mobile has done this for years by euroq · · Score: 1

    T-Mobile has done this for years. Not sure why this is such big news.

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  99. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Runaway1956 · · Score: 1

    Corbettw deserves insightful mods.

    Marrying for love is a relatively recent development in history. Marriage has always been about creating business and political alliances, right after the requirement to ensure that your offspring get your toys.

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  100. Who wrote your entries on the New Testament? by Xaedalus · · Score: 1

    Are you absolutely sure that it was Paul who wrote Corinthians and Romans? Biblical scholars are pretty sure that Paul only wrote 8 of the numerous tracts ascribed to him. Also, they're pretty sure that Timothy didn't write Timothy. Much of the New Testament was ghost-written - meaning literate scribes wrote under the pseudonyms of their favored apostles to promote their own view, and since literacy was rare, most illiterate believers tended to treat such letters as real.

    That undermines your argument. I will concede that it is well known that Paul was virulently anti-gay, but I suspect it was in the manner of a closeted gay man who got off on self-anguish and torment

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    1. Re:Who wrote your entries on the New Testament? by Attila+Dimedici · · Score: 1

      Biblical scholarss overwhelmingly agree that Paul wrote 10 of the books in the New Testament. And yes, Timothy was certainly not written by Timothy since it is addressed to Timothy. Most Biblical scholares agree that the two letters to Timothy and the letter to Titus were written by Paul, although there is a significant number who beleive there is reason to question that.
      Your idea that the reason that letters written by someone claiming to be someone else were accepted because of illiterate believers flies in the face of the fact that A:) they were intended to be read and B:) those letters are mentioned numerous times in the writtings of early second century writers who mention them as being written by the person they claim to be written by.

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  101. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by rickb928 · · Score: 1

    "and people who just don't believe in marriage"

    And this is related to the discussion how? How about people who just don't believe in health insurance? Shall we give them a break on hospital charges 'cause they are disadvantaged by paying full price for a hospital visit? People who don't believe in auto insurance should not have to pay for damages if they cause an accident? People who don't believe in passwords should just be given their money back when their bank account is cleaned out?

    Well, I'm being a little extreme, but the argument continues to be illogical. If you don't believe in marriage, why do you expect the benefits of marriage? Does it matter how those benefits are acquired?

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  102. Is google going to even out the pay? by tompaulco · · Score: 1

    Is google going to even out the pay when Obamacare goes into affect and your medical benefits cease to be tax free (for everyone, homo, hetero, or other)? Quoting Reuters, in 2011: "Employers are required to disclose the value of health benefits on employees' W-2 tax forms."

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  103. Absolutely correct. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So, the government can discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation (prevent a same-sex couple from attaining the same marriage a differing-sex couple is entitled to)

    That's absolutely correct. The government can indeed do just exactly that under current law.

    Whether or not you feel that's "right" or not is an entirely a different issue. If you don't like the current laws, then you are free to begin the arduous journey to try to have the law changed. However, today in 2010 the overwhelming vast majority of *all* voting Americans, nationwide, still prefer the law to say that marriage is between one man and one woman, so you will have an uphill battle despite how strongly that certain pockets of concentrated population centers in big cities feel that "traditional" marriage laws shouldn't apply to them anymore.

  104. Re:It is unnatural by Yosho · · Score: 1

    What you're saying is the same argument used by people to pay men more than women ("they're more likely to be the sole bread winners" etc).

    What? That's not the same at all. This isn't some philosphical argument about who deserves to be paid more. The fact is that married heterosexual couples get a tax credit that homosexual domestic partners do not because the state has decided not to recognize homosexual marriages. Google is attempting to ensure that the actual amount of money homosexual employees take home is equal to what heterosexuals take home by compensating for the government's discrimination.

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  105. And then the new benefits will be taxed more... by Compaqt · · Score: 1

    2. necessitating additional salary to offset the additional tax
    3. necessitating additional salary to offset the additional tax
    4. necessitating additional salary to offset the additional tax ...
    n^x. Profit?

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  106. Guys... Guys... Listen... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Right or wrong, not a single one of us (non-gays) can admit that too dudes banging each other in the ass isn't sick!

    Not trolling, just sayin' what everyone's thinking. Is it my business? Absolutely not? Is it grosser than gross? Absolutely.

    Sooner or later we're going to find out it's not genetic, but instead a matter of brain chemistry and it will be correctable and then the REAL battle begins about whether or not it's ethical to correct it if people are happy with their lives.

    1. Re:Guys... Guys... Listen... by euroq · · Score: 1
      Lots of people think a dude banging a girl in the ass is sick, too.

      It certainly is a matter of brain chemistry, just like left-handedness. The idea of it being "correctable" is like saying left-handedness needs to be "corrected" because left-handed people are sinister, devil people.

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  107. So you wouldn't have bought them gifts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So you wouldn't have bought them gifts if you hadn't had a tax break??? Because that's the only way your tax break could be a neutral financial proposition: if that cost were one you would not have to make if you were not the parent of the children.

  108. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Bing+Tsher+E · · Score: 1

    More for person xx always means less for some other person yy. Nobody ever 'gets the same amount of money' in any commercial organization. Nobody ever should.

  109. Nope, that isn't required by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Nope, that isn't required. All that's required is that homosexuality be seen in natural creatures and that shared parenting of children by the nonbreeders of a group is advantageous.

    BOTH have been seen in almost every single pack-oriented life.

  110. Be careful... by dreamchaser · · Score: 1

    You haven't see their women yet! Of course, you're a slashdotter so you might not care what they look like as long as all the parts work.

  111. Why don't they pay me to live w/my girlfriend? by frist · · Score: 1

    Why don't they pay extra to people who shack up with their girlfriends? Why do the gays get special treatment?

    1. Re:Why don't they pay me to live w/my girlfriend? by euroq · · Score: 1
      Gays get "special treatment" because we're discriminated against (in law). You can get married, I can't.

      Also, read the article carefully. Gays don't, in the end, get more than straight people. Gays, in the end, get the same amount as straight people, after the taxes are taken into account.

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  112. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What about Google employees who are straight who live with someone who they are not married, they going to see extra pay?

    If they qualify for domestic partner health benefits, I should think so.

    You would think so, but TFA says otherwise. Their argument is, straight domestic partners have the option to marry for tax benefits, so they don't get this new thing. Only gay couples. Kind of unfair actually.

  113. Re:It is unnatural by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    For what matter, what do you mean by "unnatural"?

    The GP means it's unnatural as in homosexuality does not occur in nature. Oh, wait ... it does.

  114. silly rabbit by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "go about your company business leisurely"? ookaay. lets say i have a dry cleaning business and i go about it "leisurely." I tell customers that i'll have their things back to them in 2 days. Meanwhile the dry cleaner across the street hauls ass because he is not an idiot and realized that capitalism (how our economy works, as well as any other successful economy in history) is based on competition. Turns out is turn around time is 1 day. Also turns out he just put you out of business because you went about it leisurely. What now? I bet your solution is to have the government step in and make rules about how much and how fast people can work.

  115. Every day I love you by paxcoder · · Score: 1

    less and less

  116. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by jythie · · Score: 1

    Because our government, over and over, harps that marriage is a religious institution, and not everyone is comfortable faking it in order to get a tax break. There used to be systems in place to get marriage benefits without marriage but those have been slowly removed over the years as states worry about 'the gays' sneeky getting benefits through them. So marriage benifits have become even more linked to religious institutions over the last 30 years...

  117. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by smithmc · · Score: 1

    I got married because I love my wife, not because I get a tax break.

    Of course, you don't get married to get a tax break.

    You have kids to get a tax break.

    Meh. Buying a house is an even better deal (unless you have a few kids).

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  118. yes by circletimessquare · · Score: 2, Informative

    the government should step in and put the brakes on the excesses of capitalism, absolutely

    remember children toiling in factories? remember pinkertons goons kneecapping union organizers? remember mandatory 60 hour workweeks? all for pennies?

    never hear do the gilded age, huh? out of your ignorance of economic history you want repeat our past mistakes?

    if the government does not step in and put limitations on what a company can demand from an employee, and demand rules of fair compensation, then the company will gladly work employees to death as slaves and pay them nickles, in the name of competition, just as you say. this is historical fact

    so thanks for being an asshole who hasn't learned from history

    start here, you corporatist asshole:

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Labour_and_employment_law

    it's all about hard fought for protections of THE INDIVIDUAL'S LIBERTY from outright abuse by powerful, unregulated corporations

    LEARN YOUR HISTORICAL FACT SO YOU DO NOT REPEAT PAST MISTAKES YOU FOOL

    we NEED government regulations to SAVE us from the excesses of corporations, which are a FAR greater threat to your liberties and freedoms than any government ever could be. read your history, you uneducated goon

    and this is where you call me a fascist or a communist, when i'm just talking about regulationg C-O-R-P-O-R-A-T-I-O-N-S, not individuals, you propagandized ignorant asshole

    corporation != individual

    corporate threat to individual > government threat to individual

    LEARN YOUR FUCKING CONCEPTS, UNLEARN YOUR PROPAGANDIZED ASSOCIATIONS, THEN SPEAK

    corporations, NOT governments, will happily destroy your freedoms. your democratically elected government is your only tool to protect yourself from them. THESE ARE FACTS OF LIFE. enough with the free market fundamentalist social darwinist libertarian fantasy fiction!

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    1. Re:yes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Want to learn from history do you?

      http://rexcurry.net/socialism-red-flags-socialists1c.jpg

      I would love to go on a much more detailed rant, but from the quality of your post I can see it only being a major waste of my time. You know that under a "Libertarian Fantasy" you would be free to create your own collectivists community if you wanted, then you could really prove us wrong with your "facts of life".

    2. Re:yes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Really? Hitler? I mean come on, are you that stupid? Hitler was by no means a Socialist, the name "National Socialists" had about as much meaning as "Democratic Republic of Korea". Hitler put socialists and communists to death for their beliefs damn it. Read up on you fucking history you ignorant American.

  119. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by rickb928 · · Score: 1

    "those have been slowly removed over the years as states worry about 'the gays' sneeky getting benefits through them"

    I'm pretty certain that recent efforts in some states have been to make benefits MORE available. Redefining marriage is not being used to minimize benefits, but to prevent expanding the definition of marriage itself. Now, we see some backlash as benefits are turning out to be expensive, and some states/communities are rethinking the whole partners benefits thing. But that's economic, not merely moral. I have never worked for an employer that even offered the benefit.

    But my question stands. If you don't believe in marriage, why are you looking for the benefits of it? Is that fair? Logical? Sounds like having your cake and eating it too.

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  120. yes, i am a socialist by circletimessquare · · Score: 1

    i believe in the common good

    socialism is a concept that has a positive meaning in most of the advanced industrialized nations

    but for some reason, a certain group of mindless conservatives in the usa think the word "socialist" serves as some sort of epithet

    you're propaganda image, for example, shows 3 people, two of whom are communists, one of whom is a fascist

    if i took a picture of gw bush, osama bin laden, and hello kitty, and wrote in all caps "AMISH", that picture would have the same level of intelligence

    do you know what socialism is? no, i mean the actual intellectual concept, not as defined by your tired empty propaganda. try thinking about what socialism really means. use your brain, open your mind, detach from your simplistic braindead associations

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    1. Re:yes, i am a socialist by SwedishPenguin · · Score: 1

      Mod parent up!
      And yes, I am a socialist too and I am in no way ashamed to say it.

  121. dear make-believe jebbus and idiot believers by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=ezekiel+23:20

    Ezekiel 23:20 (New International Version)

    There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses.

  122. you do realize by circletimessquare · · Score: 1

    what life was like for workers in the gilded age, before things like a 40 hour work week law, right?

    there's no validity at all in your mind to the government putting the brakes on corporations devouring your entire life?

    you think perhaps the idea of "balance" comes into play somewhere? or can you only think of my words in terms of the most far out preposterous communist idiocies?

    you wouldn't like another week of vacation? really? you wouldn't like to stop worrying about healthcare and education costs? really?

    i prefer the world to be centered on the happiness of the individual, not the bottom line of the ledger sheet. sorry if this offends you, because i'm not happy being just a cog in a machine

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  123. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by iamhassi · · Score: 1

    "The employee would have to declare that they need domestic partner health benefits. Google isn't "snooping", it's information the employee is providing."

    And what is the procedure to verify they need domestic partner health benefits? Do they "test" for gayness? Here's a statement some employers make employees sign:

    "--Have lived together at least six months.
    --Are both age 18 or older.
    --Share a close personal relationship and are responsible for each other’s common welfare.
    --Are exclusive.
    --Are not married to anyone else.
    --Are not related by blood closer than would bar marriage in the state.
    --Share the same regular and permanent residence, with the current intent to continue doing so indefinitely.
    --Are jointly financially responsible for "basic living expenses," defined as the cost of basic food, shelter and any other expenses of a domestic partner because of the domestic partnership. (Domestic partners need not contribute equally or jointly to the cost of these expenses as long as they agree that both are responsible for the cost.)
    --Were mentally competent to consent to the contract when the domestic partnership began."

    I'm not gay but I've had male roommates and if I can get a few more dollars per hour (average $1,069 a year according to the article) by signing by all means I'm going to do that. Can someone be denied domestic partner health benefits? If a co-worker believes someone is scamming the system, are Google managers prepared to call employees into their office and tell them they're not gay?

    I can't see this ending well

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  124. Re:far less than 50% by zeroshade · · Score: 1

    It is not natural for a woman to have a monthly period? Are you serious? The side effect of many birth control pills is to PREVENT the monthly period and shorten it to only once every few months. Naturally women have a monthly period. Just ask any teenage girl going through puberty, or any woman who is not taking birth control.

    Fucking troll.

  125. And that about brings us up to speed by Super+Marx+Brothers · · Score: 0

    Pro-homosexual marriage ad-hominem against scripture quoters. Anti-homosexual marriage tirade against pro-homosexual marriage supporters regarding tax laws. Occasional vituperative call-to-action for a ban of all marriages. (Repeat as-needed)

  126. polgamy by r00t · · Score: 1

    Here's the deal - there's nothing inherently wrong with polygamy.

    Polygamy benefits low-quality women and high-quality men. The high-quality women and low-quality men suffer.

    Every society with polygamy has an excess of frustrated men. (the less desirable ones) This causes huge problems.

    1. Re:polgamy by Theaetetus · · Score: 1

      Here's the deal - there's nothing inherently wrong with polygamy.

      Polygamy benefits low-quality women and high-quality men. The high-quality women and low-quality men suffer.

      Every society with polygamy has an excess of frustrated men. (the less desirable ones) This causes huge problems.

      Polygamy that is purely one-man/multiple-women suffers from this. Every society with polygamy has also been patriarchal. The problem is not polygamy - it's with patriarchy.

    2. Re:polgamy by FuckingNickName · · Score: 1

      Polygamy that is purely one-man/multiple-women suffers from this. Every society with polygamy has also been patriarchal.

      Hmm. Tibetan fraternal polyandry was patriarchal, but what about the Nayar Hindu caste?

      NN.

  127. Re:It is unnatural by stdarg · · Score: 1

    The fact is that married heterosexual couples get a tax credit that homosexual domestic partners do not because the state has decided not to recognize homosexual marriages.

    Yes, and it's just as much a fact that men are more likely to be the sole bread winners than women. And that as heads of households, they have more expenses than single people and dual income people.

    Externalities at home, whether family or government related, should not affect your salary at work. For Google to attempt to correct imbalances imposed by those external forces is discriminatory, because it's down to their biased judgment what gets corrected and what doesn't.

  128. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by ryanov · · Score: 1

    It's an interesting problem - whilst it's trying to address the original discrimination that exists, which I think is good for them to do, it's now reasonable for someone to argue that how they pay their employees is discrimination (I don't know if sexuality is a protected class for employment discrimination in the US?)



    Not yet: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Employment_Non-Discrimination_Act
  129. 6,000,000,000+ people == highest in history by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Erm, yeah. We currently have the largest human population ever in history, so I'm pretty sure we don't need to worry about fertility just yet — or for hundreds of years.

    Keep flying that paranoid flag high, psycho.

  130. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by nacturation · · Score: 1

    I wish. I joked with my wife about the tax benefits of our two kids. Being a math geek, she started to do the math taking into account the new birthdays, additional holiday gifts..on and on. Let's just say it didn't end up much of a benefit in the fiscal sense.

    Not to mention that people failed to tell me I'd need to feed them too! Man, what a money pit that has turned out to be.

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  131. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Etcetera · · Score: 1

    An equal system must treat people the same, not create a separate class system for gay people...

    This is the most retarded meme that has ever been accepted as "fact". There is *no* "separate class system for gay people" because "gay people" (which I'm defining as "those who are sexually attracted to their own sex") are not discriminated against. The argument isn't about straight people vs. gay people, it's about what the definition of "marriage" is. Please remove your head from Marx's butt and stop thinking in class terms.

    If you don't believe me, ask yourself this: Marriage laws currently (and at common law) define a marriage as something between two persons of opposite sex. Is the prohibition against "marriage" between two persons of the same sex an instance of sex discrimination or is it an instance of sexual orientation discrimination. Think carefully.

  132. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    >

    What about Google employees who are straight who live with someone who they are not married, they going to see extra pay?

    If they qualify for domestic partner health benefits, I should think so.

    Straight people who are unmarried do not get the benefit because they have the option of getting a federal tax break by simply getting married. Gays are not allowed the option to get married in most states (including California now). Even if gays get married (in one of the few states that support gay marriage), their marriage is not recognized by the federal gov't and they do not qualify for the tax breaks.

    The better question to ask is "if the Federal gov't recognizes gay marriage and grants gays equal rights including these tax breaks, then will google stop providing this benefit to unmarried gay couples" and I think the answer would be yes.

  133. Leviticus in its entirety? by reiisi · · Score: 1

    How do you get around ch. 20 v. 13?

    Or are are you just saying that the entire old law is done away with?

    Or are you talking about "gay" in the other senses? Happy, liberal, talkative, ostentatious, wearing pink shirts, generally able to share (specifically, non-sexual) affection with people regardless of gender?

    Just asking.

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  134. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

    I agree that single people shouldn't be discriminated either, though it's not clear to me how the law works for them in the US? I mean, it talks of an additional tax that unmarried partners have to pay, which doesn't seem relevant?

    Although yes, all these kind of complex issues do make me think it best if marriage didn't have tax benefits at all.

  135. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by mdwh2 · · Score: 1

    The argument isn't about straight people vs. gay people, it's about what the definition of "marriage" is.

    It's about the benefits that the Government gives. If it does so in a discriminatory fashion, then it's discrimination. I don't care what your definitions are.

    Not sure what Marx has to do with this. In general, I note you are unable to argue your case without resorting to insults.

    Marriage laws currently (and at common law) define a marriage as something between two persons of opposite sex.

    Yes we know what the law is in many countries/states, that's what people are arguing against.

    Is the prohibition against "marriage" between two persons of the same sex an instance of sex discrimination or is it an instance of sexual orientation discrimination.

    I'm not sure why it matters? What is your point?

  136. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    More for person xx always means less for some other person yy. Nobody ever 'gets the same amount of money' in any commercial organization. Nobody ever should.

    If person xx was getting screwed over by some ridiculous law, then giving them more seems justified. Doesn't mean they'll be getting the same as person yy. If person yy is more valuable to the company, they should still be making more.

  137. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by mcubed · · Score: 1

    Heterosexual unmarried couples in CA can't register as domestic partners (except for couples over the age of 62). That's why Google's new policy applies only to same-sex couples who are registered.

    The registry itself is an attempt, by the state, to extend many of the rights and benefits available to married heterosexual couples to same-sex couples whose marriages are not recognized by the state. But there are numerous rights and benefits it does not (and can not, because of federal law) extend. A heterosexual married Googler can opt to extend Google's employee health insurance benefit to that Googler's spouse, and a homosexual domestically partnered Googler can opt to extend Google's employee health insurance benefit to that Googler's domestic partner. However, the cost of doing so for the gay Googler will be significantly higher, because the benefit the gay Googler gets (for the domestic partner) is considered taxable income. The benefit the heterosexual married Googler gets (for the spouse) is not taxable income.

    All Google is doing is making up the cost differential. It isn't discriminating against anybody. You could certainly make the argument that the state is discriminating in at least two ways: 1) not recognizing the marriages of same-sex couples; 2) not allowing unmarried heterosexual couples under the age of 62 to register as domestic partners in lieu of getting married. But I doubt the state would even bother with a domestic partnership registry if the marriages of same-sex couples were on the same footing with the marriages of opposite-sex couples. Really, what would be the point?

    Gay people have already outed themselves by registering their domestic partnership. Further, they out themselves by paying for the health insurance benefit for their domestic partner. Google's new policy isn't requiring any additional "outing."

    I agree that it would be much simpler if the state would simply recognize same-sex marriages, rather than create a whole parallel system for dealing with same-sex couples. (Note: Gay people can, and do, get married all the time, in both religious and civil ceremonies, and have been doing so in this country for 40-50 years or more. The state can not and never has prevented gays from marrying; it does, however, refuse to accord those marriages the same status it accords opposite-sex marriages.) Another option would be to ignore the term "marriage" altogether and simply treat anyone who wants to register their relationship with the state as domestic partners or civil partners. But these things are out of Google's control, and I think Google is doing the right thing here in redressing one imbalance that is within its power to redress.

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  138. Re:So Much For Employee Privacy! by Etcetera · · Score: 1

    If it does so in a discriminatory fashion, then it's discrimination.

    Is the prohibition against "marriage" between two persons of the same sex an instance of sex discrimination or is it an instance of sexual orientation discrimination.

    I'm not sure why it matters? What is your point?

    My point is that you don't get to simply declare that something "is discrimination" (much less equate it to racism) if you can't define what type of discrimination you're talking about -- namely, what you're discriminating against.

  139. Impressive amount of spin by Malibee · · Score: 1

    I see nothing that indicates these benefits apply solely to same-sex domestic partnerships. Heterosexuals in a domestic partnership appear to be covered as well. If not, I think there's a large number of heterosexuals in domestic partnerships that would cry "foul", and with good cause--equality isn't a synonym for preferential treatment.

    This is good for an entirely different reason, though. If this trend continues, the financial incentives for state-sanctioned marriage are reduced, which makes people less likely to be concerned with obtaining that marriage certificate. Maybe, given time, the idea that the state has any business being involved in such an intensely personal issue will fade away, and a person's marital status won't affect their tax status at all.

    This has the nifty side-effect of making the gay marriage question absolutely irrelevant, which would be a huge relief. I see that issue being used quite indiscriminately as a political lever by both sides, and frankly it disgusts me.

  140. Re:far less than 50% by Mr2001 · · Score: 1

    Well, it depends how you define "natural".

    A healthy woman who is not on birth control and is abstinent will have a monthly period, that's true.

    But in nature, most individuals are not abstinent. Throughout history, most women had far fewer periods, because they were having sex without contraception, which meant they spent a lot of time pregnant. That's what the GP meant by "you also get adorable little babies".

    Of course his bit about "enormous reduction in breast cancer risk" is misleading, because he's ignoring the fact that pregnancy and childbirth are actually quite hazardous. Women had much shorter life expectancies when they were having all that unprotected sex, especially before modern medical hygiene practices (like washing your hands before delivering a baby).

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