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Student, Denied Degree For MySpace Photo, Sues

gwoodrow writes "We've all heard the 'fired because of MySpace' stories, where a simple blog or picture gets someone canned. But now one of the targets is fighting back. (The offending picture in this case was a snap from Halloween 2005 of the student in a pirate outfit drinking from a cup.)" From the article: "Teacher in training Stacy Snyder was denied her education degree on the eve of graduation when Millersville University apparently found pictures on her MySpace page 'promoting underage drinking.' As a result, the 27-year-old mother of two had her teaching certificate withheld and was granted an English degree instead. In response, Snyder has filed a Federal lawsuit against the Pennsylvania university asking for her education diploma and certificate along with $75,000 in damages."

823 comments

  1. umm by otacon · · Score: 4, Insightful

    2005 was 2 years ago, and she's 27 now, that makes her 25 in the photo...how is this underage drinking again?

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    1. Re:umm by hackstraw · · Score: 4, Insightful

      2005 was 2 years ago, and she's 27 now, that makes her 25 in the photo...how is this underage drinking again?

      Wrong. The cup was clearly full of liquid LSD, which is a federal felony.

      I just don't get the human race. It just seems clear that no matter what century it is, there is some kind of witch hunt or persecution of somebody for something. Is there anybody that has read something about this human phenonemon? Is there going to be a time when humans just don't do this kind of thing?

    2. Re:umm by Johnny5000 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      2005 was 2 years ago, and she's 27 now, that makes her 25 in the photo...how is this underage drinking again?

      I'm sure they originally thought she was 20 in the picture, and wanted to withhold her teaching certificate for underage drinking. Then when they found out she was 25 in the photo, they changed their story to not wanting anyone who has had alcohol touch their virgin lips to be teaching young children, rather than admitting they were wrong.

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    3. Re:umm by subterfuge · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Is there going to be a time when humans just don't do this kind of thing?

      no

    4. Re:umm by Knight+Thrasher · · Score: 2, Insightful
      Not to mention that if you read the cup, it's a cup advertising Chocolate. Nothing about beer is mentioned in the picture. Now, I COULD be mistaken, but I'm fairly positive Hersheys Mr Goodbars contain NO alcohol.


      =_= Unless...

      ... this isn't about alcohol at all! Instead, a conservative right-wing conspiracy covering up the left-wing media frenzy over HOT CHOCOLATE!

    5. Re:umm by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 0

      Teachers are held to a different standard than the rest of the student body.

    6. Re:umm by maxume · · Score: 4, Funny

      Are they not allowed to use cups?

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    7. Re:umm by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 1
      They are saying (I think) that she is going to teach children and she is dressed in a costume that kids like, so they will think it's cool to drink and be a pirate.

      Besides, is the university the right organization to police who's appropriate to get an education degree? An education degree signifies that she has successfully completed her course work in education, no more, no less. If the State wants not to grant her a teaching license, that's a different story, but that's probably subject to some legal means of appeal and due process.

      -b.

    8. Re:umm by Yvanhoe · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      *cough* biggots *cough*

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    9. Re:umm by TapeCutter · · Score: 5, Insightful

      This whole thing is simply idiotic, it seems obvious someone is out to "get her" and has convinced enough people to start cranking the wheels of "the complaint process". If it's fair game to investigate this womans life then what about the person(s) who put in the complaint, do they have alternative motivations? - Religion, revenge, nappy-wearing-jelousy?

      A system of formal complaints that can screw up your life must be accountable, if formal complaints are to be taken seriously then abuse of the system needs to be puni$hed.

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    10. Re:umm by inviolet · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I just don't get the human race. It just seems clear that no matter what century it is, there is some kind of witch hunt or persecution of somebody for something. Is there anybody that has read something about this human phenonemon? Is there going to be a time when humans just don't do this kind of thing?

      You already understand that humans are utterly self-centered. Yet many of them have that irresistible desire to control others. It's a paradox, but still frighteningly logical...

      Humans seek to control in others what they wish they could control in themselves.

      They hate it when other people are having more fun than they are.

      And they will cling to their moral rules even after those rules have lost their basis. (Certainly the mutual enforcement of morality is justifiably important in any family, tribe, or society, and certaintly this is an unending chore. But still: moral rules exist to maximize something; they are not divine ends-in-themselves.)

      The current war against birth control illustrates all three phenomena of control:

      1. "I hate my profligate urges, but at least I can feel better about them by cracking down on yours."
      2. "Hey, no fair getting laid twice a week! My husband barely wants me once a month!"
      3. Them: "Promiscuous behavior is immoral because it creates unintentional babies."
        You: "But birth control ends that risk; therefore, there is no longer any basis for condemning promiscuous behavior. Your moral rule is obsolete."
        Them: "Then to protect morality, we must ban birth control."
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    11. Re:umm by toleraen · · Score: 1, Interesting

      No, I'm guessing that in the other pictures (since we only get to see the least offending picture of the bunch) show underage drinkers at the party. If someone with a teaching degree (or voc rehab, etc) is caught providing alcohol to minors, they get their certification revoked. I had a roommate in college with that situation...which got very annoying.

      Still, since I'm guessing the 'underage' drinkers at the party weren't holding their IDs out in the picture, it makes for a ridiculous accusation that the school could take away her degree without proof that there were underage drinkers there.

    12. Re:umm by got2liv4him · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The current war against birth control illustrates all three phenomena of control:

      1. "I hate my profligate urges, but at least I can feel better about them by cracking down on yours."
      2. "Hey, no fair getting laid twice a week! My husband barely wants me once a month!"
      3. Them: "Promiscuous behavior is immoral because it creates unintentional babies."
        You: "But birth control ends that risk; therefore, there is no longer any basis for condemning promiscuous behavior. Your moral rule is obsolete."
        Them: "Then to protect morality, we must ban birth control."

      Isn't that what they call a straw man argument... I mean look at number two, you are invoking your opinion on why people believe certain things (it must be that they aren't getting any, so they don't want me to). You have put those with different opinions than you in a box, and then made up there thoughts so you can be better than them... isn't that what your post was complaining about in the first place?

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    13. Re:umm by mikael · · Score: 5, Informative

      This is the picture that is actually in dispute, described in this news article

      Apparently, Conestoga Valley School District were threatening to not recruit any more teachers from her university, unless she was punished in some way.

      Regardless of the picture, the School District or college have no right to amend her graduation qualifications, based on a single party photograph.

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    14. Re:umm by Short+Circuit · · Score: 1

      Besides, is the university the right organization to police who's appropriate to get an education degree? An education degree signifies that she has successfully completed her course work in education, no more, no less. Not entirely correct. Educational institutions also have rules which dictate what constitutes acceptable behavior. Some are more strict than others, and some universities include in their degrees a reputation for high standards of character and behavior.

      It's the difference between a degree from UoM and MIT. Both are universities of high caliber, but with student bodies of different reputation. (I, for one, never heard about a riot on MIT's campus following a football game.)

      If the student in question violated their college's acceptable behavior policy, and was stupid enough to have that violation documented in a photo supported by anecdotal evidence, then the university may be in the right. However, if that cup contained anything other than alcohol, like, say, cider, then she's definitely on solid ground.

    15. Re:umm by got2liv4him · · Score: 0

      where did you see anything about religion in the summary or the article?

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    16. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's what you get for faking the age on your id.

      i kid, i kid

    17. Re:umm by Wookietim · · Score: 1

      Same thing I was thinking... I guess it's that "New Math" that we have heard so much about!

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    18. Re:umm by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 1
      Not entirely correct. Educational institutions also have rules which dictate what constitutes acceptable behavior. Some are more strict than others, and some universities include in their degrees a reputation for high standards of character and behavior.

      I've never heard of an university that considered drinking alcohol by someone *of legal age* to be unacceptable behavior, as long as they weren't rioting/being rowdy, going to class drunk, or driving drunk.

      -b.

    19. Re:umm by laray88 · · Score: 1

      Dumbass - the whole point here is- myspace is a public forum and you need to use common sense when you post in myspace or do anything in public. when you leave your digital fingerprint you don't know where it will show back up. A litle understanding of what is happening in your world and not going "Forrest Gump" like forward would help a lot of folks. Thats too much to ask for most folks.

    20. Re:umm by bkr1_2k · · Score: 1

      Nice to get both sides of the story for once. Someone mod parent up.

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    21. Re:umm by Paulrothrock · · Score: 1

      Then when they found out she was 25 in the photo, they changed their story to not wanting anyone who has had alcohol touch their virgin lips to be teaching young children, rather than admitting they were wrong.

      I had teachers who smoked like chimneys and had bottles of scotch in their desks, and I turned out alright. Heck, most of my classmates senior year were drunk in class, having smuggled it in inside of iced tea.

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    22. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Informative

      Is there anybody that has read something about this human phenonemon? Is there going to be a time when humans just don't do this kind of thing?

      Yes. Carl Sagan wrote about this, in "The Demon-Haunted World". Excellent book. It put together witch hunts, alien abductions, and "remembered traumas" that never happened, into a theory of human consciousness. Very well written.

    23. Re:umm by Short+Circuit · · Score: 1

      If there's no specific rule against it, it falls under the elastic clause of "Behavior unacceptable of a student of XXXX".

    24. Re:umm by Himring · · Score: 1

      Lewis's paradox: the great need humanity has to be moral and their utter failure in so doing....

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    25. Re:umm by durin · · Score: 1

      Wow.

      That's the best and most insightful comment I've read yet in the birth control/morality debate.

      And on slashdot no less. There's hope yet for mankind.

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    26. Re:umm by Saxerman · · Score: 5, Informative

      I'm guessing that other pictures show underage drinkers at the party.

      That's what I though too, and since I figured at least one of us needed to actually RTFA I did. Strangely, that archive doesn't mention any other pictures:

      So what, you're probably asking yourself, could have been in this picture that was so abhorrent as to make Stacy Snyder unworthy of teaching children? Was she force-feeding a 6-year-old bourbon from a bottle or spiking a middle school dance's punch? Not even close. The picture in question turned out to be of her at a Halloween party in 2005 dressed as a pirate and drinking an indeterminate liquid "from a plastic 'Mr. Goodbar' cup." But underneath was a caption which read "Drunken Pirate" and that caption apparently lead faculty to assume she was too "unprofessional" to educate young minds. Word was sent to the Millersville administration, and Snyder's "lifelong dream" of being a teacher ended less than a day before being achieved.

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    27. Re:umm by paeanblack · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Regardless of the picture, the School District or college have no right to amend her graduation qualifications, based on a single party photograph.

      They do, however, need to consider her serious lack of judgement and forethought in handling the photo. The fact that she got drunk and someone snapped a photo is no big deal. The fact that she thought it would be a good idea to publish that photo to the entire world is a completely different matter.

      Teachers, like many others, must maintain separation between their personal and professional lives. How is this any different from her standing in front of a classroom talking about how hammered she got the night before? It's just not even remotely appropriate for her to publicize her nightlife, especially in places where students will find it.

    28. Re:umm by pnewhook · · Score: 4, Funny

      I'm sure they originally thought she was 20 in the picture, and wanted to withhold her teaching certificate for underage drinking.

      Well the solution is simple. Adopt a drinking age of 17/18 like here in Canada. She definitely doesn't look 18.

      Then when they found out she was 25 in the photo, they changed their story to not wanting anyone who has had alcohol touch their virgin lips to be teaching young children, rather than admitting they were wrong.

      Alcohol?? Forget the alcohol. Statistically at least half of the female teachers would be performing oral sex on their husbands / boyfriends. And they are worried about alcohol on their lips?

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    29. Re:umm by dbitch · · Score: 1

      Wow - I like your list of three; I second the "insightful" comment. Especially #3. That's scary accurate.

    30. Re:umm by TobascoKid · · Score: 1

      I, for one, never heard about a riot on MIT's campus following a football game

      Surely, that has more to do with the types of students who are attracted those universities, rather than any particular code of behaviour?

      However, if that cup contained anything other than alcohol, like, say, cider, then she's definitely on solid ground

      Depends on the cider (where I live, all cider contains alcohol)

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    31. Re:umm by Phyvo · · Score: 3, Insightful

      The fact is, children require sacrifice, and when given the option many people will just avoid sacrificing. This is why in Europe and Japan population is declining, and why, unless a new pro-family and pro-child secular ethos is created, religious people will be the ones keeping society going.

      Now, I'm not saying that birth control is all a bad thing. My parents used birth control (but they still had 3 kids), my sister and her husband are using "natural" birth control (because she's allergic to something, I think). But it has had bad unintended consequences. A society with no children is a society with no future.

    32. Re:umm by Jaysyn · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Since you want to call people names, dumbass, the point is she was doing something completely legal & is getting punished for it using an arbitrary rule created on the spot to punish her. I know it's bizzaro-cool for us socially inept geeks to ridicule anything having to do with MySpace or "social networking" but they are trampling on this young lady's rights.

      I hope she takes them to the cleaners.

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    33. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      oh well what's the big deal then, it's just a fat chick.

    34. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      I think it is more the case that children absorb as right the behaviors and ideas they are exposed to. When they grow up, there is a deep emotional attachment to those well worn ruts in their mental road, and to leave them behind is emotionally painful. Additionally, it is normal that many of those ideas are about who is bad and deserves to be punished... transgressions eliciting a strong anger and outrage.

    35. Re:umm by kimvette · · Score: 0

      as 19034305 said, she's 27 now, which makes her 25 in 2005. Does this mean that teachers are not allowed to drink at all? How do we know alcohol is in that cup? Or is it the possibility that there might have been underage drinkers at that party?

      Does this mean that Conestoga Valley polices their teachers, and if they are caught at bars or pubs or any kind of restaurant where alcoholic beverages are served and there is even the SLIGHTEST chance that an underage person MIGHT be drinking there, those teachers are immediately terminated for merely being on premises? If not, then what makes this situation any different?

      I hope she sues Conestoga Valley for libel and harassment. Fucking self-righteous bastards.

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    36. Re:umm by aplusjimages · · Score: 4, Funny

      wrong. There will be a time. It's called the Extinction Period.

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    37. Re:umm by dlsmith · · Score: 1

      And they will cling to their moral rules even after those rules have lost their basis. . . . Them: "Promiscuous behavior is immoral because it creates unintentional babies." Why says that this is the basis? Unintentional babies are certainly one reason to object to promiscuity on moral grounds, but there is much more to it than that.
    38. Re:umm by insanemime · · Score: 1

      Ok, am I the only one who doesn't see the blatant images of alcohol consumption? All I see is somone having a good time at a party. Anything could be in that Mr. Goodbar cup. So teachers are not allowed to have fun and socialize? I had no idea that all teachers were supposed to be priests and nuns. Even if she WAS drunk, which I do not think the pictures prove, so what? As somone pointed out above, the math does not add up to being underage.

    39. Re:umm by TheNinjaroach · · Score: 1

      The fact that she got drunk and someone snapped a photo is no big deal. The fact that she thought it would be a good idea to publish that photo to the entire world is a completely different matter. How do you figure this is a completely different matter? She published a picture of herself drinking and having fun, it's not like she was nude and smoking a bong.
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    40. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Except for the fact that she is *NOT* a teacher yet. Having a lawyer or ethical counselor explain this concept to her prior to receiving the degree is punishment fit for the crime. Revoking her earned degree is abuse.

    41. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Informative

      Isn't that what they call a straw man argument... I mean look at number two, you are invoking your opinion on why people believe certain things (it must be that they aren't getting any, so they don't want me to).

      Speaking from experience, my "let 'em burn" attitude toward others "getting any" sharply reversed when I actually became capable of it. While I can't do justice to the training I got in a Slashdot post, the average geek would improve remarkably just by following these rules:

      1) Don't be afraid to approach people in a friendly manner. You don't need fancy pick-up lines. Seriously.
      2) Commit (e.g. sit down with them instead of hovering over) and get committment out of them (tell their own stories, jokes, buy you stuff in return for you buying them stuff).
      3) Don't be afraid to reveal attraction.

      It's true that not everyone opposes promiscuity for that reason, but I'd bet there's a strong correlation. In fairness, of course, birth control does not eliminate the risk of unwanted babies. Think about all the mouth-breathers who are supposed to apply it properly. It ultimately comes down to how big you think the magnitude of the negative event (one additional unwanted baby is), which reasonable people can disagree about.

      *posting A/C for a reason*

    42. Re:umm by Snarkhunter · · Score: 0

      Humans seek to control in others what they wish they could control in themselves.
      I've never heard it put better.
      +1 enlightened
    43. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      3. Them: "Promiscuous behavior is immoral because it creates unintentional babies."
      Don't forget another "moral" reason why they condemn promiscuous behavior-- it breaks bloodlines. When you can't tell who sired which child, the whole basis for patriarchal or matriarchal transfer of property, names, titles, etc. is nullified. Can't have that.
    44. Re:umm by toleraen · · Score: 0, Troll

      Good call...thanks. The link with the main story was blocked (thank you blog.washingtonpost...), so I couldn't RTFA. TFS said 'pictures', so that was my best guess.

    45. Re:umm by smchris · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Funny and very likely insightful. I bet she can prove that. Should have upped her damages claim.

      Many years ago I went to an evangelical Lutheran teachers college for two years. Among their many amusing mores: no smoking for women, no drinking anytime, anywhere no matter how old you were, students of the opposite sex could be in your room every other Sunday from 1 p.m.-4 p.m. with your door open, all overnights were signed out, the RA would unlock your door around midnight to see that you were there Friday and Saturday nights, no dancing during lent and everything, library included, closed every morning M-F for chapel. AND 7 AM classes. But Freshman hazing was OK.

      The other two years were at a state college where pretty much anything the dorm floor tribe approved of was OK as long as non-consentual personal injury didn't result. The atmosphere was SO much more normal and SELF-controlled. Believe me, I would MUCH rather trust a child's mental growth to one of them than the evangelicals.

    46. Re:umm by vboulytchev · · Score: 1

      maybe we are all missing a simple factor... the geographical location of the university... I am most likely wrong, but...not trying to be biased... or "flame-baity", but there are some areas of Pennsylvania, that this doesnt really surprise me. You will always find areas in any part of this world, that do not conform to the "standards"... maybe its a conservative community, maybe the school is full of Neidermeyers...

    47. Re:umm by gfxguy · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      I have to be honest... I didn't know there was such a big kerfufle over birth control.

      I mean, I know the Catholic church frowns on it, and I know a lot of people (religious and otherwise) don't care for public funding of it (and giving it out, in whatever form, in public schools), but I didn't know there was this whole big issue with people saying you shouldn't be allowed to use it or anything.

      And no, I'm not be facetious... I know some people have issues about it, but I never thought it was a huge thing (like the abortion issue).

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    48. Re:umm by profplump · · Score: 1

      This is different from her standing in from of a classroom talking about being hammered because *that* would be a lack of seperation between her professional and personal life. She'd be taking time out of her profession to address her personal life, and that lack of a boundry would be a problem.

      But I don't see why it's a problem for a teacher to get drunk from time to time, or why it's a problem that her students may be aware that she gets drunk from time to time. Would it be "even remotely appropriate" for her to publish pictures showing her smoking or is it just drinking that gets you all riled up?

    49. Re:umm by loconet · · Score: 1

      "Teachers, like many others, must maintain separation between their personal and professional lives. How is this any different from her standing in front of a classroom talking about how hammered she got the night before? It's just not even remotely appropriate for her to publicize her nightlife, especially in places where students will find it."

      I understand your point but how does that encourage underage drinking any more than the kids' own parents or other family members drinking or kids watching people on tv, movies, literature, or on the streets where people may consume alcohol? If kids are going to be picking up the bottle because they saw a picture of their teacher drinking from a cup while acting silly, there is bigger problem here.

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    50. Re:umm by aplusjimages · · Score: 1

      My friends a teach (as the kids call him) and he also has a myspace account. The school did ask all teachers to set their accounts to private to prevent students from seeing anything past the default picture any blogs, comments, videos, or music that could cause parents to complain. Simple solution. He's also got a gamertag for the 360, which he does give out to some students, so they can teach us to be better players at Gears of War.

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    51. Re:umm by jhol13 · · Score: 1

      They hate it when other people are having more fun than they are. Puritanism: The haunting fear that somebody, somewhere, may be happy. (H.L. Mencken)
    52. Re:umm by 427_ci_505 · · Score: 1

      Wrong. The cup was clearly full of liquid LSD, which is a federal felony.

      It comes in pints?

    53. Re:umm by BytePusher · · Score: 1

      I'm probably one of "them" from point 3:

      #3 Them: "Promiscuous behavior is immoral because it creates unintentional babies."

      We consider promiscuous behavior to be immoral because we believe it hurts people, not because of unintentional babies. "We" generally consider babies to be a good thing intentional or not and life in general to be a moral good. God commanded, "Be fruitful and multiply." That's one of the reasons why "we" generally don't support abortion. The ways in which promiscuous behavior hurts people can be debated, but birth control is definitely not justification for promiscuous behavior.

    54. Re:umm by 99BottlesOfBeerInMyF · · Score: 1

      If there's no specific rule against it, it falls under the elastic clause of "Behavior unacceptable of a student of XXXX".

      Exactly, which of course is why the school will lose this lawsuit. Businesses can make all the rules they want, but if they enforce them unequally then, they are going to lose in court. I'm sure people will be able to dig up plenty of other photographic evidence of other students and faculty drinking and the fact that they only went after this one woman, will result in much the same result as if they ahd no rule in the first place.

    55. Re:umm by Wolfger · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Teachers, like many others, must maintain separation between their personal and professional lives.
      Uh... A MySpace page is definitely personal, and not professional. I don't think that this poor lady has any problem whatsoever making a distinction between personal and professional. I think it's the school, the initiator of the complaint, and apparently you who have problems with maintaining that separation. It's already hard enough to get good teachers, without asking them also to give up their humanity for the sake of the job. What any teacher does on his or her personal time, whether or not they talk about it or post pictures on their personal website, is their own damn business.
    56. Re:umm by Shakrai · · Score: 1

      it's not like she was nude and smoking a bong.

      Yeah, cuz think of how much it would hurt the children to see tits.... can't have that, they'll never recover. Course they can go watch TV and see Jack Bauer torture somebody. But that's ok because violence isn't as damaging as tits.

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    57. Re:umm by UbuntuDupe · · Score: 3, Interesting

      You can correct the relative population growth rate by increasing reproduction rates of the non-religious, OR by increasing the death rate of the religious.

      So I guess it's not such a bad thing that red-staters are the first to volunteer for wars ...

    58. Re:umm by magarity · · Score: 1

      They hate it when other people are having more fun than they are.
      "Hey, no fair getting laid twice a week! My husband barely wants me once a month!"

       
      Umm, so... do I sense someone projecting here?

    59. Re:umm by phaggood · · Score: 1

      >Regardless of the picture, the School District or college have no right to amend her graduation qualifications, based on a single party photograph.

      Good thing no-one in the Bush administration had access to this home video of Secretary Rice @ a college party, otherwise her stellar career might have been derailed like Ms. Snyder's.

    60. Re:umm by hunterkll · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Okay, So you have a problem with it.....

      I don't have a problem with you having a problem with it, just don't legislate away things just because you have a problem with something....

      I can understand if it's seriously detrimental (Like theft and such), but other than that...

      Don't legislate my freedoms away because of your opinions.

    61. Re:umm by rmadmin · · Score: 1


      <action type="knee jerk">
      Well, if the person reporting it was on myspace they OBVIOUSLY were there for one reason, and one reason only, the sexual solicitation of minors! They must be stripped of all basic human rights and treated as the leper they are!
      </action>

    62. Re:umm by AndersOSU · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It's usually a big thing when coupled with AIDS, particularly in Africa. People say silly things like we can't give prostitutes condoms because then they might use them. Then African bishops spread FUD about condoms, and meanwhile millions of people die.

      Although lately a similar issue has sprung up with a human papaloma vaccine. Is giving your daughter a vaccine for a STD at 11 condoning sex?

    63. Re:umm by pipatron · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Check out http://www.vhemt.org/ for some thoughts about a future without children.

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    64. Re:umm by amcdiarmid · · Score: 1

      I was wondering: Can I photoshop pictures of the school administration into similar poses & have them all summarily fired?

    65. Re:umm by spx · · Score: 1

      There are idiots among us! With hunts will always happen b/c again, idiots are among us. And to answer the last question: no.

    66. Re:umm by pipatron · · Score: 3, Funny

      ...matriarchal transfer of property To be honest, it's not very often you hear about someone giving birth to a child without knowing who the mother is.
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    67. Re:umm by anagama · · Score: 1

      I don't see how birth control could affect matriarchal lineage -- I mean, seriously, it might be hard(ish) to figure out who the dad is, but it's darn obvious who the mother is.

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    68. Re:umm by eck011219 · · Score: 3, Funny

      Yeah. Not all photos get you exiled for life, though. In the case of the photo I linked to, it's quite unfortunate.

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    69. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No no no, you can be sent out to die for your country, but you can't have a beer? thats the way they like it.

    70. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      How do you define 'seriously detrimental' ffs. Everyone just wants to do things their own way. Don't pretend you are 'free' because of your opinions either.. lol

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    71. Re:umm by pipatron · · Score: 3, Interesting

      God commanded, "Be fruitful and multiply." To who did God say this? Did God say how long we should multiply? Until there is no more room left on land? Until there is no more food left? Humans have multiplied for many years, maybe God think it's enough now? Without knowing much about when God gave this command, I can still be quite sure we have multiplied by at least a factor of one million since then, eradicating many species since then. Was this what God intended?
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    72. Re:umm by pipatron · · Score: 1

      and I turned out alright Funny thing to say while posting a slashdot comment.
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    73. Re:umm by James_Duncan8181 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Of course, the fact that it's not your life would mean that you should frankly STFU and stop attempting to impose your own morality through bad law. That's the essence of a theocracy, you know...

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    74. Re:umm by morgan_greywolf · · Score: 1, Insightful

      1) Don't be afraid to approach people in a friendly manner. You don't need fancy pick-up lines. Seriously. 2) Commit (e.g. sit down with them instead of hovering over) and get committment out of them (tell their own stories, jokes, buy you stuff in return for you buying them stuff). 3) Don't be afraid to reveal attraction.
      1) But you do need to appear confident. Confidence is attractive to both sexes, so this applies whoever you are. 2) Learn how to make idle conversation. Find people who you have something in common with. Join a book club, a hobby group, go to a convention, anywhere there are many people of the appropriate sex that have something in common with you. It makes it easy to start a conversation when you already know that you and the person you'd like to meet have similar interests. 3) Yes, but don't over-do it or be annoying about it either. -- a geek happily-married for two years. ;)
    75. Re:umm by Hal_Porter · · Score: 1

      Don't you think that medical science will compensate for this though?

      I can imagine stem cells or something might make it possible to stop or reverse aging within the lifetime of most thirtysomethings for example.

      Ok, perhaps that's wishful thinking, but I can imagine something more prosaic happening that causes the current trend to an aging population to accelerate. And it doesn't take much to compensate for the low fertility rates in most of Europe. Maybe effective treatments for heart disease and lung cancer could tip the balance, or more immigration, or a mixture of both.

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    76. Re:umm by porcupine8 · · Score: 1
      It's also hard to prove from photos that she provided any of the alcohol, or (in pictures such as that one) that there was alcohol involved at all. If an 18-year-old goes to a party and drinks, is everyone over 21 who is at that party legally responsible?

      But who knows, maybe there's a picture of her pouring a beer into the mouth of a guy reading a "Happy 20th Birthday" card.

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    77. Re:umm by foniksonik · · Score: 1

      Let's extend this a little and see what you think:

      ME: "Birth control mitigates the risk of unintentional babies which follows that the vast majority of babies conceived in a society where birth control is available are intentional, therefore there is no longer any basis for allowing abortion of intentionally conceived babies through any other means than pre-conception birth control. We should ban abortion and instead promote full pre-conception birth control for all.

      You: "But but but that was a freedom to have accidents and not be held accountable when we messed up"

      Me: "Sorry you had the opporunity to prevent unintentional pregnancy but chose to be both lazy and irresponsible... request denied. You can give the baby to a family that wants to raise it if you're not ready."

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    78. Re:umm by jonadab · · Score: 2, Interesting

      > Is there going to be a time when humans just don't do this kind of thing?

      Perhaps surprisingly, such a time is indeed spoken of in the Bible, in the book of Revelation, a time in the future when the Christ returns, takes over, and rules for a thousand years. However, apparently nobody really likes it very much, because after a thousand years of it when Satan is let loose, the bulk of the population immediately rallies behind him to rebel against God in the battle of God and Magog. So apparently people will only put up with peace and good behavior if you force it upon them, and as soon as they see a chance they rise up against it.

      I have often wondered how long it took Adam and Eve to rebel. Genesis does not say how long they were in the garden before the little incident with the fruit. If I had to guess, based on my observations of modern humans, I give them about a week and a half, tops.

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    79. Re:umm by norman619 · · Score: 1

      Nope. Not w/o some genetic engineering. This is onlt one of the many pieces og genetic baggage we need to shed to make the human race a rational one as a whole.

    80. Re:umm by elrous0 · · Score: 1, Troll

      Man, I feel so sorry for those poor kids that get home-schooled, sent sent to some Bible-thumper college, and then sent straight into a marriage. They miss out on the best time of their lives and they never even know it (until it's WAY to late). Is it any wonder they end up all fucked up and homicidal?

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    81. Re:umm by porcupine8 · · Score: 1

      That photo still doesn't have any proof that there was either alcohol or underage drinkers involved. Apparently some of her "unprofessional behavior" was letting students go to her MySpace page - as though they wouldn't have found it on their own anyhow. If a teacher wants to keep something on the public web private from their students, they'd better not use their real name. If they do use their real name, they might as well use it as a tool to connect with their students (and make sure they don't have anything bad on it - y'know, like a goofy picture that MIGHT have involved alcohol).

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    82. Re:umm by Hal_Porter · · Score: 1

      You know, I think the religious are onto something. Cultures that breed fast and fight wars to proselytize are likely to overwhelm cultures that breed slowly and keep to themselves.

      I'm not suggesting they're better, far from it, just that they may be better from a Darwinian point of view, which is somewhat ironic.

      Mind you, slow breeding cultures are likely to be richer and thus have access to higher technology which should even the playing field, assuming they aren't so pacifist that they refuse to defend themselves.

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    83. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 0, Troll

      Why is it automatically 'bad law'. A theocracy doesn't sound bad to me as long as the government is just following a good set of beliefs rather than creating new ones. I'm not trying to impose my morality or pass laws here, just saying what I believe, so I will politely ask you to STFU too. Oops, I'm now trying to force on you my belief that you should STFU.

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    84. Re:umm by buckadude · · Score: 1

      my guess would be that she was at a college party were others, (presumably under the drinking age) were photographed consuming booze. In most cases, if a party of that nature (one with under age kids drinking) were to have cops introduced, the people who are of age, would most likely be charged with contributing to the delinquency of a minor. However seeing as the campus is not empowered with prosecutorial function, unless they arrested her at the party with say their campus police, I'm not sure how that would play out. Yet in this situation they probably have contractual power over her, as she most assuredly signed a contract to be there, and involved with the program. I wish her luck, but in the end...RTFC-

    85. Re:umm by DeadChobi · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Actually, this kind of excessive force against teachers has been going on for about 200 or so years. For example, back in the late 1800's, women teachers weren't allowed to marry, and male teachers weren't allowed to have their hair cut in a barber shop in Philidelphia. Teachers aren't allowed to have social lives in the public eye. It's a good way to get fired, even though you're not doing anything to harm the students and may be the best teacher they've ever hired. Even after social liberation late last century, there's still a culture lag for teachers.

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    86. Re:umm by compro01 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The fact that she got drunk and someone snapped a photo is no big deal

      and where exactly is there any evidance that she was actually drunk?

      i see a plastic cup, which no evidance that there is anything alcoholic in it and she doesn't seem to be drunk in the picture either.

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    87. Re:umm by TheGavster · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Except that promiscuous behaviour isn't immoral because of unintentional babies at all.

      You have missed the point of the argument. A group opposes promiscuity on moral grounds. Moral grounds are not a valid reason to pass a law, so they develop a related social issue, unintentional babies. When their social issue is ameliorated while still allowing people to partake in the "immoral" activity, they try to ban things in an effort to restore the social problem.

      In any case, not everyone who has sex for pleasure is doing it as a fling. Many people in committed relationships simply do not want children, and thus partake in sex via safe means.

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    88. Re:umm by k12linux · · Score: 1

      it seems obvious someone is out to "get her"

      Or a major case of CYA. Instead of saying, "We screwed up," the decision makers are defending their original mistake. Why? Fear of losing a job? Fear of "admitting" to something that may get them sued?

      Who knows. But this whole inability to take responsibility for your actions (individual or group) isn't limited to teens anymore.

    89. Re:umm by ceoyoyo · · Score: 1

      You might be right about 1 and 2, but his argument 3 is an obvious circular argument that I have actually heard used by lots of conservative Christians.

      I expect it just goes back to our social monkey underpinnings. The exercise of power over others cements your position in the social hierarchy which is good for your survival.

    90. Re:umm by mwvdlee · · Score: 1

      Exactly what is she drinking anyway?

      It's a cup. It could have easily been a cup of water or a cup of soda. Since I'm not seeing any liquid on the photo, it could even have been empty.

      My guess is, they wanted to deny her the degree for some non-grade-related reason and this was just a convenient excuse.

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    91. Re:umm by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It's immoral to people that consider that you should dedicate yourself to a relationship with one person.

      It is perfectly fine for you to decided that you want to dedicate yourself to a relationship with one person. If you ask my opinion about the potential pitfalls along that approach, I'll tell you want I think, but tell you, "knock yourself out - whatever works for you".

      It is not ok for you to decide that I should dedicate myself to a relationship with one person; you don't get to dictate what style of relationship makes me happy, any more that you get to decide what sort of music makes me happy. You are free to report your own experiences, preferences, even speculations: but when you attempt to tell me how I "should" love, you've left the realm of useful discourse. And when attempts are made through public policy to dicate how people "should" love, a sane society would hand those poltiicans a whuppin'.

      People don't outlaw breaking and entering because they are jealous that they can't crack safes, etc.

      Non sequitor. B & E is a violation of the rights of others; if my girlfriends and I decide to have open relationships, that's not a violation of anyone's rights.

      I have no problem with birth control myself, but I do have a problem with people being promiscuous,

      What in the world does that mean, that you "have a problem" with other people's personal sexual choices? How does my choice cause you any problem?

      I think it's extremely shallow, and in the end just leads to loneliness.

      I hear a lot more discussion and thought from the polyamoury community about the nature of relationships than I do from most folks, so charges of "shallow" fall flat. And I see honest non-monogamous models working quite for many people - certainly much better than the dishonest non-monogamous model that condemnation like yours pushes people into.

      Again: whatever works for you, fine and dandy. But your opinions about the choices of others seem based on faulty data.

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    92. Re:umm by DeadChobi · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      I'd say that giving a herpes vaccine to women at 11 is protecting their future babies from a life of blindness, and horrible scarring. Oh, it also protects them from cervical cancer. But that's just me.

      Personally, I blame peoples' inability to look past themselves and understand other people. They try to control other people because they know that the other person has feelings and compulsions, but they haven't gotten to the point where they realize that the other person also has enough of a brain to know when those compulsions are appropriate.

      Sometimes you just have to trust other people even if the consequence is betrayal. It's part of life, but when we lose the ability to trust others we give up our own innocence.

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    93. Re:umm by toleraen · · Score: 1

      If an 18-year-old goes to a party and drinks, is everyone over 21 who is at that party legally responsible?

      Whoever's house/apartment it is gets the big ticket. Everyone else there can get the "contributing to the delinquency of a minor" ticket too, if they don't run fast enough. At least that's how it was in the college town I lived in (Wisconsin).

    94. Re:umm by kalaf · · Score: 2, Insightful

      My experience with teachers is that they tend to party pretty hard. You don't know about that when you are 8, but by the time you are 12-14 you pick up on it pretty quick. Oral sex with a boyfriend is also pretty tame compared to what's happened at some of the TGIF parties they have after school :-)

      As an aside, I think it's the requirement to act moral all the time that causes this behaviour. You see the same thing with police officers, lawyers, etc. People who can be themselves at work don't generally display a huge moral swing when the client leaves the building.

    95. Re:umm by Sassinak · · Score: 1

      Given the caption that was under said photo was "drunken pirate" I'm surprised the RIAA and MPAA are not suing her for being involved in possible piracy. And Goodbar (Hershey's I believe) for possible defamation of character.

      There is a whole lot of "love" to be spread around.. Excuse me a second, I want to go call my lawyer.

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    96. Re:umm by geobeck · · Score: 0

      But I don't see why it's a problem for a teacher to get drunk from time to time...

      Being a former junior high teacher, I'd say the real danger would be if teachers were not allowed to get drunk and let of steam quite frequently. Trust me, no one drinks like a gang of junior high teachers on a Friday night--or needs to.

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    97. Re:umm by Rycross · · Score: 1

      Although lately a similar issue has sprung up with a human papaloma vaccine. Is giving your daughter a vaccine for a STD at 11 condoning sex?

      The whole papaloma thing is both amusing and intensely depressing at the same time. What does it say about your parenting abilities if you have to resort to threatening your child with horrible diseases to keep them in line? People who try to codify their particular morals into laws "for the children" might as well tattoo "I'm a bad parent" on their foreheads.

    98. Re:umm by operagost · · Score: 1

      But birth control REDUCES that risk
      Fixed that for you.
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    99. Re:umm by COMON$ · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It is human nature to hate, about 2K years ago an extremist preached this. People just killed him and went on scratching their heads.

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    100. Re:umm by inviolet · · Score: 1

      Umm, so... do I sense someone projecting here?

      Nope, I'm actually a promiscuous lesbian. And that is what gives me such a cynical view of my straight, married, monogamous sisters. They've accepted their fetters because they cannot understand, or will not see, or are pressured on all sides to unsee, the alternatives.

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    101. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      Exactly. Roman Catholics are opposed to birth control for very tenuous religious reasons. I'm not a roman catholic anyway. Moral grounds seem to me to be entirely the reason we have laws in the first place, what other grounds are there? Personally I think it's perfectly fine to practice safe sex (though neither do I want to do that just so I can be promiscuous). I think you are missing the point a bit too, I don't anyone wants to create more bastards, I think they are just being a bit overzealous/stupid.

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    102. Re:umm by gillbates · · Score: 1

      Them: "Promiscuous behavior is immoral because it creates unintentional babies."
      You: "But birth control ends that risk; therefore, there is no longer any basis for condemning promiscuous behavior. Your moral rule is obsolete."
      Them: "Then to protect morality, we must ban birth control."

      Ok, I'll bite. This is the most convoluted misunderstanding of morality I've seen yet on slashdot, and that's saying a lot.

      The reason promiscuity is immoral is because it typically results in children growing up without fathers in the house, and the reasoning is that it is immoral to use a woman for sex without being willing to make a lifelong committment to the woman or assume the responsibilities of fatherhood.

      The reason birth control is immoral is because it suppresses a woman's sexuality and her desire for children. It also gives rise to men using women strictly for sexual pleasure, without any intention of making a loving, lasting committment.

      These kinds of prohibitions come about because men have this habit of fulfilling their carnal desires without thought of the impact on others. The prohibitions against promiscuity and birth control seek to balance the wants of men with the legitimate interests of women.

      And quite frankly, sex without the possibility of children is boring. If you look at how birth control works - the two most popular methods either mask the feeling, or cause weight gain - you realize that it really does take something away from the experience.

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    103. Re:umm by Johnny5000 · · Score: 1

      Funny and very likely insightful. I bet she can prove that. Should have upped her damages claim.
      Many years ago I went to an evangelical Lutheran teachers college for two years. Among their many amusing mores: no smoking for women, no drinking anytime


      See, I think at least with that, when you attend that school you know what you're getting into.
      I think those kids are missing out on a lot of fun times that they could be having if they didn't have their head so far up God's ass and if they went to a normal university, but that's their own choice to make. I can see one of those schools being within the bounds of their authority to withhold a degree from someone caught drinking alcohol.

      I checked up on Millersville University (the school involved in this story) and it is a public university, and I couldn't find anything on their webpage about a restrictive code-of-conduct or anything that would lend credibility to their case against this woman.

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    104. Re:umm by laray88 · · Score: 1

      oh - i am on her side and she should take them to the cleaners, but you missed the point. She is a dumbass for even posting something like that in the first place and putting herself in a position that she is in now. Lets think about it for a second. Myspace is not in your control, (you may think so, but I assure you it is not) It is public- so anyone can see. You are in or want a respectful position in whatever. A picture on my space of you doing a bong hit rarely works to your favor. In fact, if you we're smart about it, you would use myspace to your advantage based on the fact that it is a public forum. But, if you were smart you wouldn't be using myspace to begin with. The mere fact that you use myspace says a lot about anyone, irrelevant of the page content.

    105. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is just plain ridiculous. It's not because she was 25, they aren't saying she was underage. They are saying (I think) that she is going to teach children and she is dressed in a costume that kids like, so they will think it's cool to drink and be a pirate. IT'S PLAIN FUCKING STUPID! The religious wrong in this country is just yet again trying to control every aspect of personal life with their stupid "think of the children" whine. She doesn't even have a beer bottle in her hand, it's a PLASTIC CUP! WTF?!?!?

      She's dressed like a pirate. A blatant attempt to subvert innocent minors to infringe on copyright. Obviously anyone morally corrupt enough to don a pirate costume is not fit to be a teacher. //MAFIAA
    106. Re:umm by Wakko+Warner · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You have put those with different opinions than you in a box, and then made up there thoughts so you can be better than them... isn't that what your post was complaining about in the first place?

      Is it really that hard to believe that people who hold certain opinions and then attempt to force those beliefs onto others really are shittier people?

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    107. Re:umm by BakaHoushi · · Score: 1

      Sorry, but, as an American, I feel obligated to take all my solutions in pill form. Don't you have some kind of confidence boosting pill I could take?

      Anyway, back on topic, the teacher-to-be in question, from what I can tell, was the appropriate age at the party. I mean, unless she was handing out spiked punch to 19 year olds hanging around, she did nothing illegal. Or, even immoral, as far as most people will be concerned. So, how exactly was she "promoting underage drinking?" We get a lot of stupid lawsuits in this country, but if she did nothing wrong, this isn't one of them.

    108. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If it's fair game to investigate this womans life then what about the person(s) who put in the complaint

      Get us a name...

    109. Re:umm by malsdavis · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Getting woman is extremely easy, you just have to remember one simple rule:

      Woman (and I guess men) only care about themselves. If you want to get a woman, simply spend the whole time talking about them and stuff which concerns them. It's easy.

      Unfortunately, it is also extremely boring! But that's how you get girls. simple!

    110. Re:umm by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      This is why in Europe and Japan population is declining, and why, unless a new pro-family and pro-child secular ethos is created, religious people will be the ones keeping society going.

      Oh, nonsense. The planet is well beyond its sustainable carrying capacity. Having fewer children is absolutely one of the best things you can do for the long-term health of human civilization; it is "pro-family" and "pro-child" to choose to have fewer, or even no, children.

      Japan is crowded. A population decline means more land, more energy, more of every natural resource, per person. The population decline caused by the plague was one of the factors leading to the Renaissance.

      Unfortuntely, we have an economic system based on the fiction that eternal growth is possible and desirable; so long as that unrealistic assumption persists, a stable or declining population will be seen as a problem.

      A society with no children is a society with no future.

      A society with a mildly declining population for a while is hardly a society with no children.

      A society that uses up all its resources, is a society with no future.

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    111. Re:umm by Torvaun · · Score: 2, Funny

      You do realize that by using the words 'promiscuous lesbian' on /., you have successfully drawn the attention of everyone without getting any of them to finish the comment.

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    112. Re:umm by Library+Spoff · · Score: 2, Funny

      What about the year 2525?

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    113. Re:umm by canajin56 · · Score: 1

      You missed the memo, it's not torture unless the bad guys do it to Jack Bauer. It's "innovative interrogation techniques."

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    114. Re:umm by wgaryhas · · Score: 1

      WTF does breathing through your mouth have to do with anything you just said?

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    115. Re:umm by Torvaun · · Score: 1

      Does that mean that you'd also be happy in accepting no birth control, but abortion clinics popping up like Starbucks? After all, there are unintended pregnancies that would not be prevented by spreading the word that birth control is good. Rape is probably the one most likely, followed by the 1% or whatever the actual number is of condoms that fail. Someone could have done everything right, but still end up with a child she didn't want. In the case of a rape victim, she could end up with this living breathing reminder of what happened to her that night. That doesn't spell excellent care for the child.

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    116. Re:umm by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      We consider promiscuous behavior to be immoral because we believe it hurts people

      Do tell. Please, how exactly does my having more than one sexual relationship hurt anyone?

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    117. Re:umm by trewornan · · Score: 1

      I wouldn't feel too confident about having access to higher technology. Historically, civilisations have been overrun by less advanced invaders pretty frequently.

    118. Re:umm by Jarjarthejedi · · Score: 1

      Wait, so now writing joke captions can get you in trouble? Uh...I've got to go...

      Seriously though, isn't this the definition of free speech? I mean, if she went up to other students and showed the picture in RL and said "Look, a drunken pirate" I highly doubt anything would've been made of it.

      The American school system is just plain messed up right now. This is the second story on /. about a student who committed no crimes and is being punished by the school system because of it...what's up with that!? I mean, shouldn't the schools have to at least be able to point to a law that the student could be breaking? Why is it that people get all upset when religious people try to impose some of their morals on others without the backing of the law and yet schools are able to do it freely? I mean, I get the whole private property/you don't have rights for some odd reason even though this place is payed for by the government, the same government that grants you those rights. But really, since when can you be punished because the administrators aren't happy with something you've done? This is really quite absurd, if you don't commit a crime then you shouldn't be punished period. If one of the teachers isn't happy with the disturbing essay/counter-strike map/amusing caption on a MySpace page then that's too bad for them, none of those are even remotely illegal and so you have no right to punish them for them.

      Ugh...schools are once more on top of my list of top 10 stupidest groups of people in the US, they've passed the RIAA again...

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    119. Re:umm by Kadin2048 · · Score: 5, Insightful

      A theocracy doesn't sound bad to me as long as the government is just following a good set of beliefs rather than creating new ones.

      And that, right there, is what I find most terrifying. People think that an arational theocracy is OK, if the beliefs that it's imposing on others is "good" in their estimation -- meaning that it's their set of beliefs. Of course, What's "good" is highly subjective. There are a lot of people in the world who think that Sharia law is just fine and dandy, and we'd all be a lot better if we buried cheating women up to their heads in sand and stoned them to death. Once you've accepted the premise that arationality is acceptable in government, it's just a matter of degree how far you decide to go in impressing your superstitions on everyone else. You may draw the line at just telling people who they can have sex with, while someone else may go further and tell them what clothes they can wear -- there's no difference in kind there, just of degrees.

      Either you reject theocracies on premise, or you have to accept nearly all of them, since there is no rational basis for presuming that any one set of superstitions is superior to any other.

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    120. Re:umm by TheGavster · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Roman Catholic opposition to birth control is based on very strong religious reasons: they believe that sex is immoral, and should be engaged in only for creating more followers of the Church and even then should not be enjoyed.

      Moral reasons are not why we have laws; laws are passed to ensure the safety and stability of society. We prohibit theft not because taking from others for your own benefit is immoral (we actually have laws explicitly designed to take from some groups and give to others), but because if people cannot be assured of the fruits of their labors they would be less inclined to be productive. Thus, the Church and other groups oppose promiscuous sex not by saying that it is immoral or shallow, but on the grounds that it produces a population of children without a father figure (which it is then presumed makes them less able members of society). Arguments against the use of birth control attempt to maintain this social cause to discourage sex for pleasure, despite technological developments making it not a social issue.

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    121. Re:umm by Cornflake917 · · Score: 1

      It would just get bored if it was the same female all the time, but kept going when presented with new ones *shrug* Keep on slagging my opinions and claiming I have faulty data, while you yourself are spouting a load of subjective nonce.. it's always amusing to see people try that on (especially when they can't spell non sequitur) You might want to use paragraphs and check your posts for run-on sentences before you start pointing out spelling errors.

    122. Re:umm by Joe+Random · · Score: 1

      A theocracy doesn't sound bad to me as long as the government is just following a good set of beliefs rather than creating new ones.
      Religion, by definition, takes things to be true on faith. A theocracy, then, would pass laws based on faith rather than on reason. For instance, a Catholic theocracy might ban all birth control for being "immoral". Likewise, in a theocracy, it's a very small step to forbidding anyone of the "wrong" religion from holding office, or even forcing everyone to at least pretend to be the national religion.
    123. Re:umm by Torvaun · · Score: 2, Interesting

      You know, one of the best teachers I ever had was my high school Economics teacher, but he taught so much more than economics. He taught life. Many of his stories involved things that he could not recommend we do, given that he was a teacher.

      Example: In class, we were learning about things that can increase production. One of the things on the list was more educated/intelligent employees. Then he started with a story about when he worked on a machine where he would have to take bundles of cardboard, stuff them into the shredder, and repeat this for his 8 hour day. Now, it didn't take him long to figure out how to be a little too enthusiastic stuffing cardboard into the shredder, and jam the whole thing up. When that happened, he'd have to go outside, climb the ladder up to the roof, and fix the clog. So, when it was a nice day outside, and sweltering inside, there was a much greater chance of him 'accidentally' jamming the machine, going outside, climbing up to the roof, and relaxing until he started hearing boots on the ladder, which was his signal to fix the problem before his supervisor caught him wasting time in the sun.

      A teacher is not supposed to recommend learning how to cheat your employer to students. People would probably call it unprofessional. But if people had stopped him from getting his teaching certificate, that would have been a far greater problem.

      --
      I see your informative link, and raise you a pithy comment.
    124. Re:umm by Kadin2048 · · Score: 1

      Do tell. Please, how exactly does my having more than one sexual relationship hurt anyone?

      Well, clearly, it hurts him, because you're having a lot more fun than he is. By controlling you, he maximizes his own happiness. Quite simple, really.

      --
      "Ladies and gentlemen, my killbot features Lotus Notes and a machine gun. It is the finest available."
    125. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 0

      I forgot about putting in the br tags, sorry. And those are grammar, not spelling, maybe I don't care about grammar :P

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      which is totally what she said
    126. Re:umm by Torvaun · · Score: 1

      The picture is captioned: Drunken Pirate.

      --
      I see your informative link, and raise you a pithy comment.
    127. Re:umm by networkBoy · · Score: 1

      Um...
      Yeah, letting you kid know of the badness that is out there to be had by having sex earlier than is "good" (arbitrary, I know) is not being a bad parent.

      My daughter is only 4 and so I have some time till I need to worry directly about such things, but even so, I've tried to instill a sense of openness in her such that any punishment is always less (and obviously so) if she comes to me rather than me catching her or finding out later. Hopefully this openness will extend to sex, though obviously I can not count on it, thus a solid education about the possible pitfalls will be part of her upbringing.

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    128. Re:umm by Kadin2048 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      See, I think at least with that, when you attend that school you know what you're getting into.
      I think those kids are missing out on a lot of fun times that they could be having if they didn't have their head so far up God's ass and if they went to a normal university, but that's their own choice to make. I can see one of those schools being within the bounds of their authority to withhold a degree from someone caught drinking alcohol.


      I agree. While personally, the idea of going to such a place holds about as much appeal to me as does being put in a burlap sack and beaten with a piece of rebar for several years, if that's what someone really wants to do, more power to 'em. (That goes for both activities -- hanging out with a bunch of crazy Christers or getting beaten with rebar.)

      However, the problem that occurs is when people like that, who have spent their lives doing their religious thing, decide that nobody else should have any fun, either, and begin trying to impress their value system on society as a whole. Now, I'm not saying that all religious people do that, but a sizable percentage of them seem to, and that's just not acceptable.

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    129. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      I don't have much knowledge about the roman catholic tradition, but I find it incredulous to believe that they think sex itself is immoral, when it is a God-given gift. You're either exaggerating or Roman Catholicism is even more of a joke than what I already thought of it.. Song of Solomon itself is a book which celebrates human relationships and sex (apparently Jews used to not be allowed to read it until they were 30 - heh :D ). If you are a Christian then you would believe that God created male and female to be together, to complement each other and having loving relationships - God even uses marriage as an illustration of the relationship between him and the church. Anyway, getting waaaay offtopic here.. I just call bullshit on anyone who thinks sex is 'immoral' o_0 I hate it when people just believe what they are told without question.

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    130. Re:umm by TheLink · · Score: 2, Informative

      Read it yourself:
      http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=gen%20 1&version=31

      Gen 1:27-28

      27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.

      28 God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground."

      Personally I think we are close to the "fill the earth and subdue it" part, unless our technology improves we won't be able to sustainably fill the earth with 10 x more humans.

      And subdue != destroy the last I checked :).

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    131. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I just don't get the human race.
      I believe you mean "human species".
    132. Re:umm by networkBoy · · Score: 1

      WTF?
      It is not for the government to follow a set of beliefs, other than those of common law.
      You can not legislate morality and be a democracy.
      A theocracy is inherently bad government, as it is not tolerant of those of different belief systems.
      -nB

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    133. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      "It is not for the government to follow a set of beliefs, other than those of common law."

      Just saying what I thought a true theocracy should be. If you said 'a' government then you'd be making more sense, but still not really making any point..?

      I'm not really that interested in politics either, I've yet to utilise my right to vote. I also heard recently that people in dictatorships tend to be happier than those in democracies, and I can see that being true :P Just be happy I'm not your leader (not that I could be any worse than Bush).

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      which is totally what she said
    134. Re:umm by one_in_a_milli0n · · Score: 2, Funny
      There will be a time. It's called the Extinction Period.

      No, it won't be called at all unless the 'roaches learn how to talk by then.

    135. Re:umm by br0d · · Score: 1

      What the fuck is up with youngish people on myspace and that seemingly insatiable need to upload pictures of themselves making that cheesy, purse-lipped "blue steel face?

    136. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We get a lot of stupid lawsuits in this country"

      Not to mention stupid age limits. After spending the past year at college on exchange in Europe I almost feel like crying for my friends back at home who still aren't allowed to drink despite being aged 19-20!

      I know everyone at college in the US does drink (at least they all did at mine), but it is so much better being able to walk down the local bar (or Pub here in England) and order a beer without worry. There are loads of places which cater specifically for students also with nice and cheap drinks.

    137. Re:umm by Hal_Porter · · Score: 2, Insightful

      That's what I mean about the pacifism point.

      k Strategy civilistions have the technology to defend themselves from R strategy ones, the question is whether they actually recognize the threat. If they don't see themselves as being better, and don't see k Strategy values as being worth fighting for, then they will likely be overwhelmed

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    138. Re:umm by Miseph · · Score: 1

      You have know idea what polyamorous relationships are like or how they work, and are simply inserting your own assumptions and biases in the place of reality. Polyamory is not just having sex with more than one person, and polyamorous people don't necessarily even have more sex than those of us who are not... there are even single polys, or polys who are exclusive when it comes to intercourse, or have all sorts of other rules or agreements; very rare is the open relationship where both parties just say "just go out and fuck whatever you want whenever you want... hell, that's what open relationships are about!" and trying to cast all polyamoous relationships as such is just silly. You just can't imagine it working, and have never seen a working example, and extend this into saying it can't work and working examples don't exist. The argument from ignorance is invalid, and you should stop using it while you still have some shreds of credibility.

      I'm not poly, by the way, I'm just very close to a large poly community. I made a conscious decision not to be poly because I don't feel that I'm personally able to deal with it. I'm currently in a closed relationship, and my girlfriend and I are both happy with it. Other people are always going to make choices that are different than mine on this and many other issues, and that is OK.

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      Try not to take me more seriously than I take myself.
    139. Re:umm by TheLink · · Score: 2, Insightful

      They've accepted their "fetters", cannot understand, will not see?

      Why are you so sure that your "sisters" are so ignorant/"uneducated" of the alternatives?

      If you think the straight can/should change their preferences, maybe you're not so much different from those who think the not-straight can/should change their preferences. Like those "annoying guys trying to convince lesbians to be straight/bi".

      Many lesbians want others to respect their choices, I figure the choices of their straight and maybe not-so-straight sisters should be respected too.

      I'm a straight guy and I respect the choices of straight, bi and lesbian ladies to NOT prefer me :p. I must say some of them do make some rather strange choices though, but I'm not sure if that's good or bad news for me!

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    140. Re:umm by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I said exactly what I mean, that I don't consider it right for other people to be polygamous, they can do it if they want, but it doesn't mean I have to like it.

      There's a large difference between "it's not right" and "I don't like it".

      My mother is a big Barry Manilow fan. I don't like that. I don't care for his music, it even makes me a little sad that she spends money going to his concerts.

      But that fact that I don't like my mother's being a Barry Manilow fan, in no way implies that being a Barry Manilow fan is ethically wrong.

      If you want to say that polyamory is somehow distasteful to you, fine. I can no more argue with your taste in love-styles than argue that Bach should be more to your liking than Brahms. But you do have the obligation to accurately understand the love-style before deciding if it's to your taste or not, just as you have to hear both Bach and Brahms before rendering your musical judgment; your comments show that you do not.

      If you want to argue that polyamory is wrong, though, you'll need something more than "I don't like it". You'll need a coherent ethical framework, and an argument within it.

      I also just see it causing pain to a few people that agree to the whole open relationships thing, but then end up getting too attached to one person and becoming jealous/whatever.

      What, no one gets hurt, attached, jealous, et cetera in monogamous (or attempted monogamous) relationships?

      Yes, people get hurt in romantic and sexual relationships. The best way to reduce the risk of that is to put aside social conventions and assumptions, and honestly work out with other people what sort of relationships you want.

      Judgmental rhetoric about how what other people want in a relationship is "wrong", makes it that much more difficult for others to put aside assumptions and be honest. Your condemnation makes it less likely that people will be honest and thoughtful, and more likely that they will be hurt.

      Please, stop engaging in behavior that makes it more likely that people will be hurt.

      I don't see any proper 'deep' relationships happening if you are only having the multiple relationships for sexual purposes rather than for emotional support and so on.

      People can have multiple relationships that involve both emotional support and sex.

      I heard (don't have a link or proof) that they did a test on a male rat...

      Don't you think half-remembered experiments on rats are a poor way to inform your thinking about human relationships?

      Many long term relationships doesn't make sense to me, as I'm the sort of person that is very focused in whatever I do.

      Bully for you. Whatever floats your boat. I wish you much happiness in whatever sort of relationship(s) work(s) for you. Just don't project your preferences on to others. Is that too much to ask?

      (You might even find that your preferences, or your understanding of them, changes over time.)

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    141. Re:umm by compro01 · · Score: 1

      and what proof is there that the caption has any relation to anything factual?

      it's at a Halloween party for $DEITY's sake!

      i suppose that a guy dressed as a brain-eating zombie should be charged with "desecration of remains".

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    142. Re:umm by mpe · · Score: 1

      2005 was 2 years ago, and she's 27 now, that makes her 25 in the photo...how is this underage drinking again?

      It's also impossible to tell what liquid (if any) might have been in the cup. Even if it were transparent that wouldn't have helped much....

    143. Re:umm by bbsnews · · Score: 1

      According to the Conestoga High School District, they DID NOT threaten to not accept any other teachers due to the Stacy Snyder issue. Since they were not named in the suit they provided a pretty detailed amount of information about the story. I also spoke to Millersville University and they said that Ms. Snyder was NOT denied a teaching certificate solely because of the photos. In our story it makes clear the totality of what has been termed "unprofessional" behavior. Ms. Snyder had also written an apology to both the school district and the university about the MySpace incident so there is a lot more to this story than meets the eye. In other words there was text with the photo we posted with the story that goes into a lot more detail, plus as far as I know we are the only news outlet who is carrying the real photo in question rather than the one that most news orgs first ran. Michael Hess Editor, BBSNews http://bbsnews.net/

    144. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      *cough* spelling *cough*

    145. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      Who said I'm projecting them onto others ffs? I'm simply stating what I think, as you are. You seem more inclined to be trying to tell me that it's great to have multiple simultaneous romantic relationships, which I believe will end up involving a lot more pain, unless you can keep yourself from getting too attached to any one person, which will of course result in you being hurt if you want to spend more time with them, but they're busy with others. You need to stop being so hypocricitcal. Of course people get hurt, attached and jealous in normal one to one relationships, but somehow you think that having many to many relationships is going to make that less likely? I hold honesty in high regard too, and I have been more honest with my girlfriend than anyone else.

      And again it's obvious that spending less time with more people will result in 'shallower' relationships than spending more time with less people, that's just how things work. You'll probably even get on better with those people just because you aren't so attached, and so you won't notice or have problems as a result of your differences. You can act how you like, I'm not trying to change it. As I said, I don't have to think of it as morally correct, or agree with it, as you have kindly re-re-re-re-re-re-re-re-re-re-re-re-informed me.

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      which is totally what she said
    146. Re:umm by geminidomino · · Score: 4, Funny

      I have a picture I captioned "Lord and Master."

      I've yet to receive any taxes from my serfs...

    147. Re:umm by Moofie · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      "Sorry, but, as a coward, I feel obligated to take all my solutions in pill form."

      Fixed that for you.

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      Why yes, I AM a rocket scientist!
    148. Re:umm by sanityfeactory · · Score: 0

      Maybe they should cut both ways and offer her a Math degree?

    149. Re:umm by inviolet · · Score: 1

      If monogamy was the natural condition of humans, we would not need marriage, nor would we hear the constant protestations of fidelity. If monogamy was the natural condition of humans, we would each wake up one day, look at our partner, and boom, we're bonded for life. Like eagles do.

      The desire to play, and to stray, arises naturally in (as far as I can tell) virtually all of us. That is why such unnatural effort, such willpower and laws and rituals and social pressure, is needed in order to resist it.

      Now I'm the first to denigrate "natural" modes of living as irrelevant, because who the hell cares what Mother Nature intended? After all, she intended for us to die at age twenty of some horrible disease, or in the jaws of wolves. Screw her and her intentions. But that doesn't make monogamy superior: it seems to come with some serious costs, and its benefits are not clear to me... especially now that we have birth control.

      Here is a thought problem that can reveal your true motivations on this issue. Imagine that in the future, all communicable diseases are wiped out, and fertility can be perfectly controlled by each individual. There are no longer any negative physical consequences to being promiscuous. Now. Do you still feel the urge to condemn it? Do you still find yourself searching for some harm that it could be imagined to cause? Or do you celebrate our newfound freedom to have pleasure?

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    150. Re:umm by dubl-u · · Score: 1

      I just don't get the human race. It just seems clear that no matter what century it is, there is some kind of witch hunt or persecution of somebody for something.

      Just so you're not doing the same thing, you should read the other side of the story. Personally, I still suspect the college was probably wrong, but not blatantly wrong like TFA suggests.

    151. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 0

      I can imagine it working, sure, I just really don't want to be like that, and I don't consider it healthy for anyone else either. Unless they're not looking for lifelong companionship, which by the sounds of it they're not. I've always wanted that though, and so I guess I just won't be able to truly understand anyone wanting anything different. And I think you mean 'no idea'. You talk about being able to 'deal with it', that's exactly what I mean. Unless you don't get very close to each person in this relationship, you're going to end up getting hurt if you grow to really like someone and are not able to get as close as you want. I would expect that with time, all these people in their poly relationships will grow to have a favourite, and unless their feelings are reciprocated, they are going to go through at least a small amount of pain and hurt. Sure it's okay for people to exercise their free will, how many people need to point this out? It's obvious that some courses of action are more harmful than others though, and I don't see any long-term benefits from polyamory. I'm single right now so I'm kinda used to being attached to more than one person at the same time, but when I was going out with my (only) girlfriend for 2 years then I was committed to her. Any couple that are truly in love are just going to hurt each other if they let themselves get into a romantic relationship with someone else. If you're just together for the company, for the sex, whatever, then polyamory would be a nice fluffy shallow way to live, but it just sounds like 'something' would be missing.. to me there's something about being committed to one person that is appealing. It is of course possible for people to have affairs and all that crap, and I've never wanted to be the type of person that has affairs or enters into relationships without any intension of commitment. I think my problem is that I was too committed though, I should have been spending more time with my friends as well as my gf, but that's another issue! :P Anyway, rant over.. I think I generally agree with what people are saying here, that they are entitled to their opinion, and I can see some short term positives in having multiple romantic relationships, but it just sounds like a bad idea to me.

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    152. Re:umm by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

      The fact is, children require sacrifice, and when given the option many people will just avoid sacrificing. This is why in Europe and Japan population is declining, and why, unless a new pro-family and pro-child secular ethos is created, religious people will be the ones keeping society going.


      No, the reason European and Japanese population is experiencing negative natural growth is that advanced modern societies with strong social safety networks don't make having children important as a source of personal support later in life (which is also, on the flip side, why developing nations tend to have high birthrates.)

      Whereas even wealthy societies with weaker social support structure and greater wealth inequality continue to create pressures on individuals to produce many children not as a "sacrifice" for some "pro-family ethos", but simply out of simpler economic motives.

      Now, I'm not saying that birth control is all a bad thing. My parents used birth control (but they still had 3 kids), my sister and her husband are using "natural" birth control (because she's allergic to something, I think). But it has had bad unintended consequences. A society with no children is a society with no future.


      A society experiencing a short-term negative natural population growth because the economic pressures that lead to unbounded and dangerous population increases have been curbed and therefore the population is returning to a more comfortable equilibrium is not a society with no children, and probably has a much brighter future than a society with aggregate wealth that has failed to deal with the pressures that lead to unending population growth (given that all kinds of misery positively correlate with population density.)

    153. Re:umm by CrazyTalk · · Score: 1

      It's not. The fear is that this picture will PROMOTE underage drinking in others by legitimizing getting drunk with the picture of the boozed-up teacher.

    154. Re:umm by Moofie · · Score: 1

      "I've yet to utilise my right to vote. I also heard recently that people in dictatorships tend to be happier than those in democracies, and I can see that being true "

      I heard that you are a crazy person, and that's borne out by your line of "reasoning".

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    155. Re:umm by Moofie · · Score: 1

      "I hate it when people just believe what they are told without question."

      You said above that you believe that people are happier under a dictatorship, and that you believed that because you were told it. I hate it when people can't be bothered to think through the simplest consequences of their beliefs and thought processes.

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    156. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Human Race???!!! don't you mean that subset called Americans this would be a non story/non event in Canada and probably anywhere in Europe a non story because the woman would have received her teacher certificate and gone out to celebrate her graduation with friends with their booze of choice!

    157. Re:umm by Moofie · · Score: 1

      Perhaps they've "accepted their fetters" because they have a different system of value than yours, and choose to follow their own values rather than subject themselves to yours?

      Is there room for that possibility in YOUR value system? If not, I call it flawed.

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    158. Re:umm by Adambomb · · Score: 4, Funny

      Don't worry, the damned dirty apes will be there to mock it.

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    159. Re:umm by KingArthur10 · · Score: 1

      I'm thinking the "be fruitful and multiply" part was more of a curse than anything. God figured, he's tired of having to take care of the two of them like they were children, so he cursed them to be parents themselves ;-). And here most people figured it was a blessing.

      --
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    160. Re:umm by Torvaun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Look, you asked why everyone was assuming there was alcohol in the cup. I pointed out that the caption placed on said picture by the person depicted strongly suggests use of alcohol. You rebutted that she may have lied on the caption, and provide a zombie metaphor. I am now explaining that she's not getting in trouble for murder on the high seas, she's getting in trouble for promoting underage drinking. I agree that she shouldn't be getting in trouble for this, but you're not making good arguments.

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      I see your informative link, and raise you a pithy comment.
    161. Re:umm by Torvaun · · Score: 1

      The question isn't whether she's a real pirate. The question is whether she's promoting underage drinking, which can be done even if she wasn't holding a cup. I agree that this whole thing has been blown way out of proportion by the university, and that they overreacted. She should get the degree she's earned. But please find better arguments.

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    162. Re:umm by m0rph3us0 · · Score: 1

      For it to be a straw man argument you would have to prove that a fallacy exists and has been attributed to the "straw man". The parent's argument might be a "straw man" but with out refuting his argument it is not. Since I have refuted or at least proposed a refutation regarding your argument about, it could be argued that you are refuting using a straw man argument vis a vi by refuting his argument by a straw man straw man.

    163. Re:umm by Plutonite · · Score: 1

      Please understand that Christians are not the only people in the world with views on sexual ethics (..you insensitive clod!).

      The dishonor/disliking/utter hatred inherent in many cultural dispositions on the issue of promiscuity all around the world, suggests that there may be an evolutionary benefit to be had from not engaging in this conduct. People everywhere, despite extremely divergent belief systems, seem to agree that long lasting relationships are acceptable premise for sex whereas stand-ups aren't. In some places, the father of the bride will stand guard outside her bedroom (where she is being.. screwed) yet the same father would violently attack that same girl and a lover if they were in a casual-relationship situation. Even in the western parts of the globe where people are now habituated to the erotic/sex culture thing, the feelings persist.

      Indoctrination is one way to explain this, but given the similarities in entirely unrelated regions, I would say it's probably because long-term relationships have a far better chance of allowing the offspring to prosper and survive, whereas casual sex is generally a "mess". This is true until today, no matter how many condom adverts are put up and sex education classes are taught. Humans are stupid, impulsive beings for the most part. This instinct may be a good thing.

    164. Re:umm by Rycross · · Score: 1

      I agree with that. Letting children know the consequences is good.

      However, purposely denying them access to a vaccine so that a horrible consequence sticks around is horrible. Denying them information about how to possibly mitigate the consequences is bad parenting. Denying them the opportunity to mitigate or prevent disease or pregnancy because you want more leverage in a "sex is baaad, mmkay" crusade is wrong.

      I don't know if I will ever have children, but if I did, their education concerning this would include the consequences, plus ways to protect themselves. They'd know that I wouldn't approve of them being sexually active, but if they chose to do so I would want them to protect themselves, having full knowledge of the consequences.

    165. Re:umm by DavidShor · · Score: 2, Insightful
      'seriously detrimental activity' - An activity that actively harms those who did not wish to participate.


      Theft falls under that, promiscous sex does not.

    166. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You already understand that humans are utterly self-centered. Yet many of them have that irresistible desire to control others. It's a paradox, but still frighteningly logical...


      the common thread is selfishness and love for self above others.

      Humans seek to control in others what they wish they could control in themselves.


      among other things.

      They hate it when other people are having more fun than they are.


      often times, any fun at all.

      And they will cling to their moral rules even after those rules have lost their basis.

        (Certainly the mutual enforcement of morality is justifiably important in any family, tribe, or society, and certaintly this is an unending chore. But still: moral rules exist to maximize something; they are not divine ends-in-themselves.)


      but they exist to maximize god's divine end. peace, happiness and joy *can't* exist when everyone acts primarily selfish.

      The current war against birth control illustrates all three phenomena of control:


      birth control isn't a "morality issue." many folks are ignorant of this, but ignorance can't be the foundation of a true morality.

      1. "I hate my profligate urges, but at least I can feel better about them by cracking down on yours."


      i have no doubt this occurs, but that doesn't make selfish excess morally right. again, peace, prosperity and joy is not attainable for the person and the community when people think primarily of themselves. this world we live in is absolute proof of that. for those too blind to see it, and they are out there, the proof will come in the form of world annihilation. fortunately, god will intervene just prior to our killing ourselves off the planet.

      2. "Hey, no fair getting laid twice a week! My husband barely wants me once a month!"


      you mispelled "wife." sure, some guys are like that, but this is primarily a woman's issue 95% of the time. they get their financial comfort and turn into an ice queen - a very self centered and selfish action. you know, the kind that can't co-exist with peace and harmony?

      3. Them: "Promiscuous behavior is immoral because it creates unintentional babies."

      You: "But birth control ends that risk; therefore, there is no longer any basis for condemning promiscuous behavior. Your moral rule is obsolete."

      Them: "Then to protect morality, we must ban birth control."


      the problem is that the immorality of promiscuous behavior extends well beyond children born out of wedlock. if you want lots of love, get committed and get married. use birth control. if you don't want the commitment, then you become a high probability disease host and a low probability producer of children out of wedlock and outside of a commitment. when you have 100s of millions of people breaking this morality then low probability equates to millions of kids born out of wedlock and outside of a commitment to raise them. is this your recipe for success?

      again, this is selfish and will lead to structural problems and much pain.
    167. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      Yep it's true :)

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    168. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      I questioned it when I heard it, and the person explained to me that when people such as those in Iraq are 'freed', that they often prefer things the way they were before. Sure there are brutal massacres of those that rebel, but for those that play nice, life isn't that bad. Americans have this stupid act all about 'freedom' and dying for it which I've never quite understood, and find laughable considering the way the government acts in America, with the 'Patriot' Act, Guantanamo Bay, etc, how is America promoting 'freedom' exactly?

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    169. Re:umm by siriuskase · · Score: 1

      It's the costume. the RIAA is into everything

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    170. Re:umm by Jaysyn · · Score: 1

      I've been using MySpace to get back into & keep in touch with friends from high school so you can pretty much go fuck yourself if you really think that someone is defined by the social networking service they use.

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    171. Re:umm by HiThere · · Score: 1

      It never was. I suprised that you thought that (at some time) only teenagers tried to deny responsibility. Watch either young children, captains of industry, or movie stars. They all try to deny responsibility, and shift to blame to someone else.

      For that matter, watch you boss. Carefully.

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    172. Re:umm by Xiaran · · Score: 4, Informative

      I was raised a Catholic and from what I recall(its been a while) the opposition to contraception is based on the position that man doesn't have the right to judge weather someone can live or die. Only God has that right. Hence the church opposes capital punishment, abortion and birth control. The birth control argument is that man is interfering with the natural course of God plan... or whatever. I don't agree with their stance n birth control or abortion but I can have some sympathy for the capital punishment one.

      Also I think most Catholics, at least in the west, pretty much ignore the whole no condom/no pill business. I know most of my (pretty Irish catholic) extended family do.

    173. Re:umm by IP_Troll · · Score: 1

      While you could be right that there is a maleviolent factor, I think the more likely factor is incompetence.

      There is an old adage: "Those who can't do, teach" (I don't agree, but this saying exists. This is not a dig at professors, teachers or other competent people, let me finish)
      I would like to replace that adage with this: "Those who can't do, become administrators"

      Anyone who has had to be disciplind by college administration, (Dean of Students, associated underlings, or otherwise) may have noticed that they are typically: less educated than you, were the kids that screwed around in school, have an inferiority complex, and are paid based on "results" i.e. giving out punishments.

      This combination means that if your name comes across your desk, you get the book thrown at you. Because if you don't get the harshest punishment possible, then they aren't doing their job. They have that job because they didn't work as hard as you, and they know it.

    174. Re:umm by Deagol · · Score: 1

      Here is a thought problem that can reveal your true motivations on this issue. Imagine that in the future, all communicable diseases are wiped out, and fertility can be perfectly controlled by each individual. There are no longer any negative physical consequences to being promiscuous. Now. Do you still feel the urge to condemn it? Do you still find yourself searching for some harm that it could be imagined to cause? Or do you celebrate our newfound freedom to have pleasure?

      Let me pop a couple of soma, and I'll get back to you with an answer. ;)

    175. Re:umm by Interfect · · Score: 1

      Exactly. And when did this school develop the technology to read the alcohol content of a photographed cup?

    176. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      from that post , thanks for helping me make my point

    177. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There are always two sides to every story...

      The parent article reports that during Ms Synder's student teaching assignment she "invited
      students to log on to her myspace account."

      If this is true, then Ms Snyder has ZERO credibility. She has not lost her credential due
      to any violation of her civil rights, but rather her own stupidity and lack of judgement.

      I for one, would not want Ms Snyder near my kids. She can do whatever floats her boat on her own
      time, but when she "invites" her students to take a look she has crossed a very bright line.

    178. Re:umm by Moofie · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Point 0: Iraq was a disaster.
      Point 1: Living under a dictatorship in Iraq is worse than living in a liberal democracy. I happen to think that living under a dictatorship (or a theocracy, which amounts to the same thing) is always worse than living in a liberal democracy, even a flawed liberal democracy (like the ones in the US and most of the Western world)
      Point 2: Living under anarchy in Iraq is arguably worse than living in a dictatorship in Iraq.

      I leave the remainder as an exercise for the class.

      "how is America promoting 'freedom' exactly"

      In this case, the American government is not promoting freedom. That is the problem.

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    179. Re:umm by k12linux · · Score: 1
      I thought twice about putting last bit about teenagers in. There have always been people who avoid responsibility at all levels. Teens, as a group, just tend to fit that category more often.

      The fact is that it's becoming epidemic these days. 35 year old man - "I blew off my hand with a homemade bomb. It's the fault of the people who sold me fertilizer, fuel oil and plumbing supplies." (No, dumbass... it's your fault for building a bomb.)

      Of course these days he'd also be put in jail as a terrorist for wanting to blow up a stump.

    180. Re:umm by SillyNickName4me · · Score: 1

      Yeah, letting you kid know of the badness that is out there to be had by having sex earlier than is "good" (arbitrary, I know) is not being a bad parent.

      The issue here however is that the danger is not in when but how they have sex, or specifically, if they use proper protection or not. If in that case an age based argument is used then yes, you are being a bad parent.

      My daughter is only 4 and so I have some time till I need to worry directly about such things, but even so, I've tried to instill a sense of openness in her such that any punishment is always less (and obviously so) if she comes to me rather than me catching her or finding out later. Hopefully this openness will extend to sex, though obviously I can not count on it, thus a solid education about the possible pitfalls will be part of her upbringing.

      Sounds all pretty healthy, but keep in mind that by the time sex becomes an issue, you are also dealing with a person who is on her way to being independent, so you might not get much of a say in it. Thats of course why being open and discussing the dangers (as well as the nice things) of sex is a good idea.

    181. Re:umm by Solandri · · Score: 1

      This is the picture that is actually in dispute, described in this news article

      Apparently, Conestoga Valley School District were threatening to not recruit any more teachers from her university, unless she was punished in some way.

      Hmm, seems like there's more to this story. Here's the lawsuit and photo as claimed by Ms. Snyder. Different picture.

      I agree the photo provided by Conestoga Valley School District shows her in a worse light, but the fact that (1) the photo was provided by CVSD and (2) it's in black and white implies some info which neither side is telling. Apparently someone at CVSD felt strongly enough about the photo to print it out and save a copy; perhaps to document a report on Ms. Snyder? CVSD is downplaying their involvement in this case, but their possession of the photo (or a related photo) would seem point to them being very involved in the decision to deny her her teaching certificate.

    182. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      We all will die of stupidity in a few years if we keep going at rate.
      We need to get our collective sanity put some sanity back into society less we the human race becomes extinct because of our own stupidity.
      What does a cup, of unknown substance, has to do with a teaching credential not to mention anything else? How do you know what is in that cup? I can go to an bar and get an ginger-ale in a Budweiser cup so will they think I have beer or something else?
      My guess this is one of those ultra-conservative, Christian colleges where anything type of vice is not allowed so she is punished for this. I'm a Christian but there are limits to this and sometimes the Christians destroy their own creditability because of these ultra-conservative views but I see some of these are hypocritical. I hate to say how many of these ultra-conservative people preach their views to others but the same preachers and elders do those "evils" themselves.
      The current ultra-conservative "Christians" are being like the Catholics and its Inquisition in the dark ages.

    183. Re:umm by xero314 · · Score: 1

      Your obvious misunderstanding and misdirected hatred against people who are in monogamous relationships seems to cloud your vision and judgment of your fellow people. Have been in both an open relationship and a monogamous one (both containing the same primary partner) I can tell you that I have found no cost to monogamy and significant benefit, but I can also see how someone that has never experienced it would see it the other way around. Monogamous relationships can be very enjoyable, and there is a thrill associated with maintaining that enjoyment with a single other person, and sharing the effects of that enjoyment with those around you. Learning and working on ways to keep another person satisfied enough with their life that they do not see relationships with other people as a way to break free from some self imposed limitation.

      For some reason, which I am not able to understand, you equate pleasure with promiscuity, yet pleasure can be found in so many different places and ways that promiscuity should not be a requisite for pleasure. I'm not knocking promiscuity, or even polygamy, just trying to get you to open your eyes and realize that your hatred of those who chose to be monogamous is no better then the hatred that some may have expressed towards your life style.

    184. Re:umm by $uperjay · · Score: 1

      Me: "The condom broke."

      My friend from down the street: "The pill didn't work."

      You: "No abortions..."?

    185. Re:umm by Viper+Daimao · · Score: 1
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    186. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      These irrational witch hunts are one of the hallmarks of class society. They will stop when we achieve communism through revolution.

    187. Re:umm by Kemanorel · · Score: 1

      So, correct me if I'm wrong, but you are saying that there are no women who choose to engage in recreational sex? That a woman's sexuality and desire to procreate are inseparable?

      Wow... I think the 1900's called. They want their attitudes back. I've had the pleasure of knowing a few women who enjoyed sex for the pleasure it gave her first and something to share second. It's not just men who have carnal desires.

      By the by, the weight gain from birth control medication averages between 5-15 lbs. (I think). A little bit of extra curvature is not a bad thing. It's not like birth control will take a slim woman and turn her into an obese one. Sheesh... Get over needing to be with a stick figure and find out more about your partner. You might enjoy being together that much more.

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    188. Re:umm by Elektroschock · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      The question is why don't you leave that repressive environment to save your mental health?

    189. Re:umm by compro01 · · Score: 1

      1. i would seem to me (most other people here) that the caption is just a caption. she was dressed as a (possibly drunken) pirate at a Halloween party. that does not imply to me in any manner that she actually is drunk or that there is an alcoholic beverage in that cup.

      2. she is not underage by a long shot, so i see no possible way, short of extremely convoluted non-logic, that she could be "promoting underage drinking".

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    190. Re:umm by edwdig · · Score: 1

      Roman Catholic opposition to birth control is based on very strong religious reasons: they believe that sex is immoral, and should be engaged in only for creating more followers of the Church and even then should not be enjoyed.

      Sorry, but you're completely wrong on that. The Roman Catholic church strongly encourages sex, but strictly within marriage. They actually emphasize it a lot during the marriage preparation stuff.

    191. Re:umm by Torvaun · · Score: 2, Insightful

      1: Fine, but you gotta admit that it doesn't take extremely convoluted non-logic to see the other side of that argument.

      2: I'm not trying to say that she was promoting underage drinking, I'm saying that that's what the university says she's doing. I mentioned that it is possible to promote something without doing it yourself. Example: If I make beer, and I use Bugs Bunny and other cartoon characters in the commercials doing plenty of drinking, I could easily find myself being accused of promoting underage drinking. The fact that I didn't depict kids drinking is irrelevant.

      Again, I'm on her side. The university is out of line. But I didn't see enough devil's advocates weighing in, so I stepped up to the plate.

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    192. Re:umm by Miseph · · Score: 1

      No, really, you just don't get it.

      Close, lifelong polyamorous relationships exist and they work no worse (or better, to be sure) than exclusive ones.

      You are making assumptions about the motivations and concerns of polyamorous individuals that are neither valid nor relevant; they are just as complex as "normal" relationships, and are no more or less likely to succeed or fail. Frankly, so many exclusive relationships are twisted, bizarre, deceptive, or otherwise problematic that I find it hard to take the idea that polyamorous ones could be any worse seriously.

      Your continued use of the word "shallow" leads me to believe that you don't understand what makes any relationship, romantic or otherwise, "deep", so my best guess is that you think it's a matter of exclusivity... I assure you that it is not.

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    193. Re:umm by lgw · · Score: 1

      Our population is quite sustainable at current levels. It's easily sustainable at 10 times current levels with existing technology. Where does this bizarre idea come from?

      Of course exponential population growth will always become a problem eventually, but humans have already stopped that (out of simple selfishness).

      The only resource we actually "consume" in the sense of destroying is (usable) energy, and the Sun provides way more than we need, even if the entire existing population used energy at American levels. The amount of food calories per acre we know how to produce is ridiculously high, to the point that the amount of available farmland is just not a limiting factor any more. Living space is just a matter of building up.

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    194. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      To whom did God say this?

      God is the subject, not the object.

    195. Re:umm by Eccles · · Score: 1

      Mind-boggling.

      A clue for you: both men and women enjoy sex. Any statement about "men using women" without the converse is thus absurd, 19th century thinking. "Suppresses a woman's sexuality"? What is this nonsense?

      And quite frankly, sex without the possibility of children is boring.

      Then you're doing it wrong. And my wife has been on (and very occasionally off) the pill for the past 21 years, and has not had any significant weight gain. Vasectomies also have little or no health impact save the initial discomfort.

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    196. Re:umm by masterhibb · · Score: 1

      A system of formal complaints that can screw up your life must be accountable, if formal complaints are to be taken seriously then abuse of the system needs to be puni$hed.

      You've obviously never been to an American college.

    197. Re:umm by Kingrames · · Score: 1

      I'm fairly certain that even after human beings are extinct, morons will still be fucking up the galaxy.

      These people don't follow with the rules of reality, you know.

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    198. Re:umm by miskatonic+alumnus · · Score: 1

      Expressing an opinion is one thing. Using the legal system to force your skewed "morality" onto the masses is something else entirely.

    199. Re:umm by spun · · Score: 1

      Sexually compulsive behavior leads to loneliness. I've had several promiscuous encounters that led to long term relationships. I'm not sexually compulsive, in that I've never endangered or diminished any other part of my life for sex. I just have a very high sex drive. I've had many partners, both short, medium and long term. Very few that I didn't know their name, and yes, those were unfulfilling. But plenty where we were just friends with privileges, and most of those were very nice.

      Sex can be all kinds of things. I've practiced tantric sex, and that can be very spiritual. I've also had lots of rough sex, where some outside observer might think I was degrading my partners. But the parameters of the situation were mutually agreed on, and we both would have been turned off if anyone's feelings or body were really hurt. I've also had sex where it wasn't much more than friendly, pleasant exercise. Even then it's nice.

      My point is that you can't equate all promiscuity with compulsive, unhealthy sexuality. Some of us are naturally promiscuous, some of us aren't but act that way out of hurt. There's a world of difference, and the fact that you appear unable to look at that rationally suggests that yes, you are in fact jealous that there are people out there getting off in all kinds of kinky ways, having worlds of fun that you'll never have. All you can do is call sour grapes on the situation, claiming that all promiscuity is empty, shallow, and meaningless.

      As for dedicating yourself to one person, I've been in polyamorous relationships that were far healthier and more stable than most monogamous relationships. If you have trouble forming relationships, you'll have trouble being monogamous, too. if you form relationships easily and openly, you can easily have more than one close, loving, committed relationship. My wife and I are doing just that, and it's working fine for us.

      I can be a better partner to more than one person than most men can be to a single partner. Explain to me why it's immoral for me to have deep, loving, committed relationships with two women where everyone is getting their needs met. Then explain why Joe Sixpack, who has a monogamous relationship with the wife he beats daily, is more moral than I am. Go ahead, I'm waiting.

      If you invoke God in your explanation, please prove to me that God wants what you think He wants.

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    200. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well the solution is simple. Adopt a drinking age of 17/18 like here in Canada. She definitely doesn't look 18. In Quebec, the legal drinking age is just a suggestion!
    201. Re:umm by Slashdot+Parent · · Score: 1
      Oh, but it happens.

      Three years later, the mother of the nine pound baby sued the presumed father for child support. The father denied paternity, so the court ordered a DNA test. The results of the test showed that neither the man nor the woman was the parent of the child.
      Go figure. ;)
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    202. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It seems that 'acting confident' is often misunderstood. Being loud, dominating, cracking jokes every two seconds, is not confidence... confidence is not second-guessing yourself, to put it simply. It seems like a cultural trait that we feel we need to act a certain way in order to appear confident. I think a lot of the world's problems would be solved if 'confidence' weren't mistaken in this way :)

    203. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > To be honest, it's not very often you hear about someone giving birth to a child without knowing who the mother is.

      Not very often, no, but it has happened in the past. Especially in cases where mother(s) die in childbirth.

    204. Re:umm by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

      Is there going to be a time when humans just don't do this kind of thing?

      Yes, when the [fill in blank] overlords takes over.

      Until then, the place is run by humans, so this will continue to happen.

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    205. Re:umm by Darby · · Score: 1

      Moral grounds seem to me to be entirely the reason we have laws in the first place, what other grounds are there?

      It is not possible for you to be more wrong than you are with this statement.
      You could equal it, but it is not even theoretically possible for you to be farther from the truth.

      Morals have nothing to do and can not possibly have anything to do with the law in a free society.
      This is the fundamental defining concept of America. That is what "American Values" means.
      Our laws are (or are supposed to be... treasonous religious nuts notwithstanding) based entirely upon *reason*.
      Murder is illegal because it's not your life to take. Theft is illegal because somebody else has the right to that property.

      It's all about rights, property, and rational arguments.

      That is the only basis for a free civil society.

      The single thing that set America apart at our founding was the complete and utter rejection of *any* religious basis for law or government. That was a shocking thing at the time, but it has proven to be the single overriding requirement for a free society. You can't have freedom in a theocracy.

      So, no laws are not based on morals. How could they be? There are as many different morals as there are people in the world.
      There is nothing even approximating an absolute moral code to base anything rational on. Why do you think there are so many religious wars between factions of the same freaking religion.

      Seriously, do some reading, pay some attention and for the love of all that is holy, learn *something* about the basis of the system of government you live under before spouting such blatantly false crap which is trivially easy to learn in minutes if you have any interest in it.

    206. Re:umm by Goth+Biker+Babe · · Score: 1

      You are just so so wrong. Okay polyamorous relations need more work and a certain kind of sensibility but they work just as well as monogamous ones. In fact the moment you no longer have a problem with having more than one partner many walls are broken down. No you don't have shallower relationships. You have stronger ones because of the lack of walls.

      I live with my two girlfriends. We share a bedroom. We do an awful lot together. I can talk a possible through with them because I know they will not be jealous. They know they have no right to be jealous since they can do the same. Since everything is in the open there is no distrust, no secrets, no infidelity. I often go abroad to work. I know my two girlfriends will look after one another while I'm gone. Similarly if one of them goes away I have one of my partners still at home. Also while I'm away I don't get worried but who they're with while I'm away. I know who they're with.

    207. Re:umm by Bent+Mind · · Score: 1

      I'm sure they originally thought she was 20 in the picture, and wanted to withhold her teaching certificate for underage drinking.

      Reading through the comments and looking at the story, I'm left wondering how underage drinking warrants the removal of a certification that has been earned and paid for. Drinking under the legal age is generally punished by issuing a fine, not revoking your academic credentials. Now I might understand this a bit better if Millersville were a religious school. No one wants nuns in training to be caught sinning. However, it doesn't seem to be.

      At this point, Millersville seems to be implying that she didn't earn her certificate. The have a statement on their site. However, they are being very tight-lipped about it. If the school loses the case, I'd strongly suggest that anyone not wanting to attend a school with such unprofessional regard for their students avoid Millersville.

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    208. Re:umm by Darby · · Score: 1

      I just really don't want to be like that, and I don't consider it healthy for anyone else either.

      And that right there is why you keep catching so much shit on this issue.

      You are not a doctor. You do not know the people in question.

      You know nothing about the subject, the people involved, or anything health related about the entire subject.

      You opinion is utterly without value. It is meaningless and contains no information content whatsoever.

      You're welcome to not like how other people live their lives. You're welcome to live yours another way.

      You are not welcome to spout misinformed ignorant drivel as if it had any merit whatsoever.
      When you do that you make yourself look like a fool. You also give fuel to the sick wackos who like to take ignorant crap like that and use it as if it were gospel in order to shove it into law in violation of every principle this country was based on all in order to "protect their health" or similar lies.

      You are totally unqualified to judge the healthiness of that sort of behavior, so please do not spout such ignorant crap.
      You think it's bad for their health, but you don't know a fucking thing about it or them so your opinion is *worse* than useless.

      See how clear and simple that is?

    209. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm not the GP.

          I suspect only a fool would disagree with you .

          -- a devout coward

          [ -3 for troll ]

    210. Re:umm by pbhj · · Score: 1

      >>> "How does my choice cause you any problem?"

      When you sleep around, get disease and my work pays for your treatment. That's one way. Suppose your choice was as a pedarast or zoophile that might cause me concerned action to protect vulnerable people / animals. Suppose your choice was public sexual activity (cottaging or dogging) that would be an infringement of my enjoyment of public space. I could go on about HIV-AIDS and it's destruction of whole societies including those who haven't been promiscuous but I think really you know how personal sexuality can infringe on other peoples liberty.

      I gather from your link that you're buddhist? How does polyamoury meet with your moving towards celibacy as an upasaka

      HH Dalai Lama: "If you just think, 'Sex is not good. Buddha prohibited it, so I can't do it,' then it is very difficult to control your desire. On the other hand, if you think of the basic aim, the basic purpose--nirvana--then you will understand the reason for the precept and it will be easier to follow it. When you do more analytical meditation on the Four Noble Truths, you will gain conviction that the first two truths are to be abandoned and the last two to be actualized. Having examined whether these negative emotions--the cause of suffering--can be eliminated, you will become confident that they can. You can see clearly there is an alternative. Now the whole practice becomes meaningful. Otherwise, keeping precepts is like a punishment. When you do analytical meditation, you will realize there is a systematic way to reduce the negative emotions, and you will want to do that because your aim is nirvana, the complete elimination of negative emotions." [ http://www2.hawaii.edu/~tsomo/ordination/hh_q_a.ht ml ]

      Incidentally I know he's a Tibetan buddhist but assume that sex is considered a route towards negative emotion (jealousy etc.) in all branches. Please correct me where appropriate.

    211. Re:umm by PCM2 · · Score: 1

      Moral grounds are not a valid reason to pass a law

      They're not? So all those laws against rape and murder are based upon some sort of socio-economic theory? Statistical analysis or something?

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    212. Re:umm by NMerriam · · Score: 1

      Sorry, but, as an American, I feel obligated to take all my solutions in pill form. Don't you have some kind of confidence boosting pill I could take?


      Most adult gathering places sell fake confidence in a convenient liquid form called "beer", and it is remarkably effective as long as you aren't a morose drunk :)
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    213. Re:umm by NMerriam · · Score: 1

      The prohibitions against promiscuity and birth control seek to balance the wants of men with the legitimate interests of women.


      LOL, you need to meet some more interesting women :)

      And I can assure you that the side effect of hormonal birth control of adding a few pounds to the butt and breasts of the average young woman (as well as clearing up skin) is no burden on most young women's attractiveness OR sexual desire.
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    214. Re:umm by BakaHoushi · · Score: 1

      Actually I'm 20 years old, and I don't drink. Not because of the age limits, but just because I've tasted some beer, and... I think it tastes awful. (Also, I'm pretty sure at this point, someone is supposed to respond with "American beer is shit," "You need to try ________ instead," etc. but honestly, I don't care. My father's been an alcoholic, my grandfather, my uncle... it's all over my family, and I don't care to try. Did I mention I have problems with my pancreas which may not like alcohol and I have asperger's disorder so I don't get out and socialize anyway?)

    215. Re:umm by teknosapien · · Score: 1

      Actually I would think that you would want a teacher to know how your kids interact and use the tools at hand. Being a parent of Two fairly brilliant and fun (one an engineer for Mercedes, other getting ready to graduate in a few years) I would want this type of person teaching my kids. Why? Because shes in tune and relates with the groups shes teaching. Her very job description is that of relaying knowledge. This means she has to relate with them. The only danger is that of the perceived one, and not the real danger which is ignorance!

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    216. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >Roman Catholic opposition to birth control is based on very strong religious reasons:
      >they believe that sex is immoral, and should be engaged in only for creating more followers
      >of the Church and even then should not be enjoyed.

      This is not accurate. Look into Pope John Paul II's Theology of the Body. There's a lot of material covered in the 129 lessons that together are known as TotB, and I am unable to provide a direct reference to supporting text, but my understanding of the teachings are that sex is a unifying act for married couples, not just the means of procreation.
    217. Re:umm by got2liv4him · · Score: 1

      Wow... a lot of replies, and some very interesting posts, who would have thought on Slashdot where the group think is usually prevalent

      As for as "skewed morality" I think that is an interesting point. Its not clear to me if you are talking about the right or left being skewed, or which one has the proper morality, but I am assuming you mean the "religious". If you really think about it the debate is really not a closed one, both sides have interesting facts and points. The pro-abortionists don't necessarily see the baby as alive, the pro-lifers do. The argument has always been where life begins. The point that most pro-lifers have with birth control is not usually birth control in itself (not anymore anyway), but with certain forms. If you believe that life begins with conception, then there are forms of birth control that kill the embryo and therefore is taking life. Sounds pretty logical to me. The otherside makes logical points as well, I am not saying they don't. It just seems easier for some to dismiss those that oppose their views by calling them illogical, stupid, or prudes instead of listening or thinking for yourself.

      And if you really think about it, all sides of many groups try to legislate their morality. Think of the Plan B drug being forced on Catholic Hospitals, which are private entities, etc. Anyway, the way I see it is both sides have a little work to do on being less bigoted and more open-minded.

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    218. Re:umm by vux984 · · Score: 1

      But you do have the obligation to accurately understand the love-style before deciding if it's to your taste or not, just as you have to hear both Bach and Brahms before rendering your musical judgment; your comments show that you do not.

      I disagree with your example. An obligation to accurately understand something does not compel you to immerse yourself in something. No more than a vegetarian needs to eat a hamburger in order to understand eating meat. A thought experiment is enough to make valid commentary.

      As to the issue at hand, open relationships mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people.

      Open relationships defy precise definition:
      Is a committed threesome an open relationship?
      Is comitted couple couple that engages in swinging or wife-swapping an open relationship?
      Is a couple where the husband has a mistress an open relationship? What if the wife knows and has accepted it?
      Is a couple that permits the members to have extramarital encounters, but under the condition they be discreet and not mention them open?
      Is an individual who refuses to commit, but instead floats from relationship to relationship an "open" individual coping with non-open partners?

      I think many versions *are* harmful, and in some cases even self-destructive. I think some versions are theoretically ok.

      I personally find it difficult to really believe deep down that at least some individuals involved aren't repressing guilt, jealousy, or other pain by having the open-ness 'imposed' on them; especially as proponents tend to make rubbish arguments about how its more 'enlightened' and that finding it distasteful represents a personal failure of character -- but I understand that some people may genuinely be able to make it work.

      That said, I find it dubious that those same people could not make a monogamous relationship work for them too if they chose to; after all there is no social prohibition on having as many close friends as you like. So perhaps its best for the well being of society for monogamy to persist.

    219. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I also heard recently that people in dictatorships tend to be happier than those in democracies, and I can see that being true

      Assuming you're serious, go ahead and move to one of those countries (not just visit, become a citizen) for a few years, then get back to us on how happy everyone there is and how wonderful life is for the ordinary (without connections to the dictatorship) person. Good luck with that.

      - T

    220. Re:umm by mikael · · Score: 1

      At the end of the last term of the year, the head, assistant-head and another female had this skit in which they pretended to have a love-triangle tiff resulting in an argument, and the head pulling out a bottle of Vodka from the broom cupboard. The giveaway was that there was a video camera (large clunky 80's type) with the recording light on.

      They were under considerable pressure - three teachers had left due to rising property prices, and each had to supervise two classes at the same time (hopping from one classrom to another), if they weren't being harassed by Dadzilla's wanting a guarantee that his son's/daughter's education wasn't going to be affected by this situation.

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    221. Re:umm by ultranova · · Score: 1

      The birth control argument is that man is interfering with the natural course of God plan... or whatever.

      The idea that a thin piece of latex any human could tear apart with his bare hands could in any way interfere with the plan of an omnipotent being is ridiculous. Is there any catholic theologians here willing to explain the matter here ?

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      Forget magic. Any technology distinguishable from divine power is insufficiently advanced.

    222. Re:umm by BluBrick · · Score: 1
      If, as you indicate, the fabric of your family is shot through with alcoholism, you would be well advised to continue to stay right away from booze. Trust me, alcoholism and Asperger's is not a pretty mix, particularly when you are given to isolation.

      And do yourself a huge favour, call it Asperger's syndrome rather than any sort of "disorder". That way you'll have less chance of convincing yourself to play the victim if it doesn't sound like a disability. Alcholism + isolation + victim mentality = MuchDoublePlusUnGoodliness

      Good luck.

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      Ahh - My eye!
      The doctor said I'm not supposed to get Slashdot in it!
    223. Re:umm by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      When you sleep around, get disease and my work pays for your treatment.

      It is much more likely that you will get heart disease from bad diet and I'll have to pay for your treatment, than that someone non-monogamous but taking elementary precautions (regular testing and proper condom use) will contract and spread a serious STD. (That's a generic you, I have no idea how you specifically eat). If you're going to call my sexual behavior non-private because of the risk of STDs, the same argument about health costs applies to just about every area of human behavior, and leaves nothing in the realm of private choice.

      As for sexually abusing children or animals, neither of those is a consensual choice, so is clearly outside the scope of this discussion; public sex is clearly not a private choice, again already excluded.

      STDs, abusive sex, and public sexual behavior are also found among people practicing serial monogamy.

      I gather from your link that you're buddhist? How does polyamoury meet with your moving towards celibacy as an upasaka

      I suppose if you wanted to label me a Buddhist, I'd have a hard time refuting the charge, but I identify as a Zen Pagan Taoist Atheist Discordian.

      Who says I want to be an upasaka? I want to save all sentient beings, that's all. Sex can be a tool towards that end.

      Buddhist teachings on sex vary widely; HH the DL hardly speaks for everyone. Google Ikkyu and red thread Zen. I discuss my own interpretation of the precept regarding sexual behavior at the link I gave before, here.

      As for polyamory and Buddhism, it's interesting that polygamy was not unknown in the Buddha's time, and as far as I know he did not speak out against it for his lay followers. He was however opposed to the exploitive relationship of keeping concubines.

      Incidentally I know he's a Tibetan buddhist but assume that sex is considered a route towards negative emotion (jealousy etc.) in all branches. Please correct me where appropriate.

      While (just about) every Buddhist would agree that sex, like any desire, can be a source of suffering and should be handled with care, beyond that teachings vary. Many Tantric Buddhists think it's a "bad thing" but can be used to good ends in this "degraded" age. Many monastically-centered Theravedans would say that the only way to freedom is renunciation of sex. The "Red Thread" Zen tradition says sex is just as much Buddha-nature as anything; as Ikkyu put it, "The autumn breeze of a single night of love is better than a hundred thousand years of sterile sitting meditation."

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      Tom Swiss | the infamous tms | my blog
      You cannot wash away blood with blood
    224. Re:umm by fm6 · · Score: 1

      Apparently, Conestoga Valley School District were threatening to not recruit any more teachers from her university, unless she was punished in some way.
      You say that with such a sense of certainty, even though the very article you link has them denying it.

      Regardless of the picture, the School District or college have no right to amend her graduation qualifications, based on a single party photograph.
      And how do we know that that's what happened? So far we only have the lady's allegations that this was the case. The school district is saying it's not true, and the university (like anybody who's being sued) is keeping quiet.
    225. Re:umm by Ian+Alanai · · Score: 1

      That is the bit I always found bizarre about that piece of Catholic theology. God can forcibly impregnate a *virgin* but a condom is too hard to break?? Just plain nuts.

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      Whichever way you look at it, it's true. I'm not.
    226. Re:umm by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      An obligation to accurately understand something does not compel you to immerse yourself in something.

      Agreed, you do not have to immerse yourself in something to understand it.

      As to the issue at hand, open relationships mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people.

      Yes, so its up to each couple/trio/network to come to their own understanding.

      I personally find it difficult to really believe deep down that at least some individuals involved aren't repressing guilt, jealousy, or other pain by having the open-ness 'imposed' on them; especially as proponents tend to make rubbish arguments about how its more 'enlightened' and that finding it distasteful represents a personal failure of character -- but I understand that some people may genuinely be able to make it work.

      An imposed "openness" is no openness at all.

      I don't hear poly folk calling polyamory "more enlightened". I do hear them saying that honest, open, non-prejudicial discussion of relationships is "more enlightened"; and that being open to your neighbor making different choices is "more enlightened". But I've never heard anyone argue that those who prefer monogamous relationships for themselves are somehow backward.

      That said, I find it dubious that those same people could not make a monogamous relationship work for them too if they chose to; after all there is no social prohibition on having as many close friends as you like.

      Actually many monogamous relationships run into problems when one partner gets too close to a friend, even if they are sexually exclusive with their partner.

      Regardless of who you go to be with, if one is polyamorous - that is, wired so that you are sometimes in love with more than one person - pretending that you only love one person is living a lie.

      So perhaps its best for the well being of society for monogamy to persist.

      Has anyone suggested that it's going to go away? If you want it, choose it for yourself. Just don't try to choose it for me.

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      Tom Swiss | the infamous tms | my blog
      You cannot wash away blood with blood
    227. Re:umm by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      Our population is quite sustainable at current levels.

      Not with current technolgy and lifestyle choices; if it were, we would not be witnessing environmental degredation.

      The only resource we actually "consume" in the sense of destroying is (usable) energy, and the Sun provides way more than we need

      We do not yet have a practical method of extracting solar energy.

      Topsoil and clean fresh water are being consumed. Of course the atoms and molecules are not destroyed, but the resources are rendered unusable.

      The amount of food calories per acre we know how to produce is ridiculously high

      High yield farming requires petrochemical feedstocks, high energy inputs, leads to pollution, and consumes topsoil and water. Current mainstream farming practices are in no way sustainable.

      Living space is just a matter of building up.

      Living space is more that enclosed area to warehouse bodies. Most people want sunlight, fresh air, some presence of a natural environment.

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      Tom Swiss | the infamous tms | my blog
      You cannot wash away blood with blood
    228. Re:umm by HugeFatty · · Score: 1

      To be honest, it's not very often you hear about someone giving birth to a child without knowing who the mother is.

      I had a dream about that once. In typical dream fashion, it made perfect sense to me that I could be the father of the baby and have no idea who the mother was. I just thought "hmm, that's odd...I don't remember having sex with anyone. But that baby sure looks like me, so he's clearly mine."

      Needless to say, I was highly amused when I woke up and realized how nonsensical that was.

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      I am clearly fatter than you.
    229. Re:umm by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      You seem more inclined to be trying to tell me that it's great to have multiple simultaneous romantic relationships

      I'm not telling you that it's great for you to have multiple simultaneous romantic relationships. That's for you to decide. Do as thou wilt - it's not not a good idea, it's the Law.

      I am telling you that some people have found it great for them to have multiple simultaneous romantic relationships; that is a simple report of fact.

      And I am telling you that to label this as "morally incorrrect" is at best confused, at worst actively harmful; that is an analysis.

      And again it's obvious that spending less time with more people will result in 'shallower' relationships than spending more time with less people, that's just how things work.

      You assume that the depth of a relationship is solely a function of time spent together, and a monotonically increasing one at that. Neither is true.

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      Tom Swiss | the infamous tms | my blog
      You cannot wash away blood with blood
    230. Re:umm by realityfighter · · Score: 1

      Good god, where are my mod points? This is right on the nose.

      In the same vein, most people are against social support for teenage mothers (which would keep the family out of poverty, improve the childs chances of success on all fronts and lessen the number of teen births in the next generation), simply because they don't want to reward the immorality of teen sex. Many American families would disown a daughter who had a baby in her teens, and many would disown a daughter who had an abortion. Some would do both. Neither of these stances is in any way conducive to solving any social problems.

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      A strain of paranoid prevention can be worse than the disease, whate'er the intention.
    231. Re:umm by Zixia · · Score: 1

      We'll have the hottest dos alive!

    232. Re:umm by BakaHoushi · · Score: 1

      Fortunately, I'm also a cheapskate, and booze costs money. :)

      But don't worry. I've always varied in how I refer to asperger's. But I don't look at it as being a victim. It just means I'm more of a loner type, and I'm fine with that.

    233. Re:umm by vux984 · · Score: 1

      Yes, so its up to each couple/trio/network to come to their own understanding.

      That's sort of beside the point. When discussing the nature of open relationships the mind set of the people discussing it can have very different mental pictures of what is involved; a committed threesome is not the same as a couple who engage in an endless series of transient affairs. (Interestingly both have elements more commonly associated with monogamy than 'open relationships'.)

      An imposed "openness" is no openness at all.

      Agreed.

      But I've never heard anyone argue that those who prefer monogamous relationships for themselves are somehow backward.

      I have. From refering to monogamy as a failure to rise above ones animalistic instincts, primitive jealously, childish possessivness, to calling the whole concept little more than a religious tradition with no rational justification. Calling it conformist, calling it an irrational self denial of happiness.

      Actually many monogamous relationships run into problems when one partner gets too close to a friend, even if they are sexually exclusive with their partner.

      Right Intimacy and Sexuality are different. (And as an aside, perceived infideltiy is just as damaging as actual infidelity; it really doesn't matter in the slightest what actually went on if honesty, perception, and trust break down. That's true of any relationship, open or closed, intimate or casual.)

      Regardless of who you go to be with, if one is polyamorous - that is, wired so that you are sometimes in love with more than one person - pretending that you only love one person is living a lie.

      Hmmm. Beyond here be dragons...

      Seriously though; what does it really mean to be 'wired so that you are sometimes in love with more than one person'; and what does that really have to do with polygamy vs monogamy. If I'm shopping for a home and I find two separate houses that are perfect in every way... am I living a lie by choosing one. Am I 'pretending' anything about my feelings? Or have I simply made a choice and committed to one place to live vs another? If I move into one home and pine for the other does that mean I'm hardwired to want to live in two places, or do I just need to learn to live with the decisions I've made?

      Frankly I think love is a lot like that. A monogamist doesn't 'stop' loving everyone else in their life, or pretend that they don't care about others, but they choose to focus on one relationship, to make it their 'home', and they choose to let their feelings for others recede into the background, as a consequence of that focus.

      Can you really focus on multiple relationships the same way you can focus on one? Perhaps. Perhaps not. Can you have more than one home? Sure you can have more than one house; but are they all really 'home'? Is any of them really home? Is there a point at which you don't really have a home, and just flit around homeless seeking out new partners, not because you are somehow 'wired' to love more than one person, but because you simply refuse to make a choice and dedicate yourself to it, having deluded yourself that such a choice is impossible, and at best would be 'living a lie'?

      Of those who have found a working open arrangement, that's great, but I remain doubtful that its the only configuration in which they could be happy. I know I can hypothesize inifitely other configurations in which I could be happy.

      Has anyone suggested that it's going to go away? If you want it, choose it for yourself. Just don't try to choose it for me.

      *If* it were found to be destructive to society, why not? Or at least why not exclude you from society? You remain free to form your own in your own space. (Though I grant that finding space is a separate, and perhaps unsolvable problem.)

      I also concede that its a big *IF*. I don't think it necessarily is bad for society. But at the same time, what if the pendulum did swing the other way - where even committed threesomes w

    234. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      I know that some people bond better than others, and that in the short term that having multiple relationships can be good for people. Yet it is rather obvious that *over time* this will only result in pain, unless they can stop from getting overattached to one person, in which case it's fine for them yes. How likely is it that all parties involved will keep wanting to partake in polyamorous relationships for their whole life though? Will they not end up gravitating towards one person and get hurt when that person doesn't reciprocate?

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      which is totally what she said
    235. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      Not very. I know plenty about mental health, thankyou very much, and it doesn't take a genius to figure out that this kind of activity will end up with someone getting hurt. It could work for some people sure, but it *obviously* increases the potential for jealousy, and people feeling rejected if they get too attached to any one person. There may be some sociopaths who are happy to not get too attached, of course. Why don't you give some vague examples of situations like this that actually work, and result in every single party involved leading a happy and fulfilling life, at least as far as their romantic relationships are concerned? It doesn't sound like the sort of thing that people would engage in after the age of 40.

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      which is totally what she said
    236. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      Because rationally, why does anyone deserve their rights, unless you realise that it's good and proper for them to have them, which to me is a moral judgement.

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      which is totally what she said
    237. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      How the heck did beating get into this? That's the same as saying "I'm in a committed monogamous relationship with one woman and we're both having our needs met. Now explain to me why Joe Sixpack with his polyamorous relationships and physically abusive nature is having more fun than me". You're not making any sense there. Anyway, if it's fine for you, go ahead and do it, though don't come crying when it ultimately causes pain. I acknowledge your differentiation between a high sex drive and sexually compulsive behaviour though. If I was going to be bitter it would probably be because I know I'm a compulsive person with an addictive personality, and I know that is one of the key factors in at least one ruined relationship for me. Yes I have been jealous of people in the past for leading a 'promiscuous' lifestyle, but I also know that if I were to do that that I'd end up with more problems than less. After splitting up with my last girlfriend I actually wish we'd spent less time being physical together because then I wouldn't have got so attached (and I should have known that things weren't going to work and just not have gotten so attached in the first place, but I'm too optimistic)

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    238. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      That's one of the most sensible answers yet, thanks. Yes, maybe I don't understand what makes a relationship deep. I thought my last relationship was very close, committed, and for sure it was deeper than any other relationship I've ever had, but my girlfriend eventually realised she wasn't even being honest with herself, so there was no way she was going to be able to be honest with me. I'm a very open person, I find it very easy to get attached to people, and I think people like how open I am (my last girlfriend certainly commented on it). I think depth in a relationship comes from honesty and just basically putting the other person before you. I can see how being polyamorous would make the honesty thing easier, though it would make prioritising other people more difficult.

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      which is totally what she said
    239. Re:umm by TapeCutter · · Score: 1

      Well spotted, I dropped out of high school in '76 and followed my raging hormones wherever they wanted to go. Later in life I went to an Australian Uni. (88-91), in between I spent 10yrs raising a family the hard way. When dealing with people always remember educated != smart != sane.

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      And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? - Pink Floyd.
    240. Re:umm by Zider · · Score: 1

      Are you my long lost twin brother (or sister)? I've got AS as well, and can't stand beer.. (I do love whisky tho, and other strong beverages ;))

    241. Re:umm by tedgyz · · Score: 1

      Is there going to be a time when humans just don't do this kind of thing? Only when our brains grow to twice their current size. Then, we will develop telepathy and torment each other without speaking.
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      "No matter where you go, there you are." -- Buckaroo Banzai
    242. Re:umm by Darby · · Score: 1

      Because rationally, why does anyone deserve their rights, unless you realise that it's good and proper for them to have them, which to me is a moral judgement.

      "Good and proper" really don't have much place in human relations. I'm not saying they shouldn't, just that to assume that they do or have historically is hopelessly naive.
      People "deserve" their rights because you want yours. It's basic enlightened self interest, and that's exactly how we ended up getting them.

    243. Re:umm by Darby · · Score: 1

      I know plenty about mental health, thankyou very much,

      But clearly nothing about it in relation to this topic. You are offering your uninformed speculation up as if it had any merit which it doesn't. You don't like it, therefore it must be bad. That's the sole extent of your argument.

      it doesn't take a genius to figure out that this kind of activity will end up with someone getting hurt.

      As will damn near everything else in the world. Your point is entirely without merit once again unless you want big nanny state government to wrap us all up in Nerf so we can never get hurt.

      It could work for some people sure, but it *obviously* increases the potential for jealousy, and people feeling rejected if they get too attached to any one person.

      It's actually not at all obvious given that you don't know the people in question.
      I had a girlfriend in high school who was more jealous than all the other girls I've dated in my life put together. Some people are that way, some aren't and most fall distributed along that spectrum.

      It doesn't sound like the sort of thing that people would engage in after the age of 40.

      Which, again, does nothing but demonstrate your ignorance.

      Nobody is trying to convince you to take up a lifestyle you're not comfortable with. Nobody is even trying to convince you that you should "approve" or stop expressing your disapproval.

      But stick to facts, don't just spout ignorant baseless speculation on a topic you, by your own admission, don't know a damn thing about.

    244. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      Yeah I'm not assuming that they always do, and it would be stupid to assume that people do things inherently out of the good of their hearts rather than self interest. I don't know what's so 'enlightened' about it mind you, maybe more civilised but 'enlightened'? Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you sounds good to me anyway.

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      which is totally what she said
    245. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      I was giving my opinion, why do you have to act like I think I'm stating facts? I know people over 40 can still engage in strange open relationships, I don't want a nanny state nor have I said that I'd prefer people were legally obliged to be monogamous, etc, etc, stop trying to be so condescending. I take it by Nerf you mean foam, Nerf is a brand and not a material As Far As I Know. Look, I did it again, I used my judgement and memories rather than going to google and searching for facts, oh noes! I am ignorant about a lot of things, I'll admit I'm not interested in quite a lot of facets of life, including sports, random TV trivia. I have however, a brain, a couple of years worth of psychology study, and 23 years worth of life experience, which while limited, allows me to point out that people are *more* likely to get hurt in long term open relationships than they are with a long term monogamous one, as the relationships are by definition more complicated. Yes, they could work better than a lot of 'normal' relationships. Yes, some people can deal with them. My OPINION is that it's still a bad idea, your mileage may vary, but if I were a betting man I'd be betting that if it were possible to have an objective scale, that on average, a good set of polyamorous relationships would be less fulfilling than a good marriage. It all depends on what you define as 'good' though, and I expect what most people think of as a good relationship is likely different from what I consider good. That is the crux of the matter.. so stop trying to point out how 'ignorant' I am that other people can be happy with this. Though again, apart from hippies in the 60s, I don't think this kind of thing will have been going on for a long time, and nobody has presented any data on what tends to happen in these polyamorous relationships, beyond saying that it's nice that they don't have to lie to each other, and that they have nice sex with people. Something that you don't need a polyamorous relationship to be able to do if you actually put any effort into your relationship with a single person, but I guess that's just too much hassle in todays consumerist atmosphere.

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      which is totally what she said
    246. Re:umm by Xiaran · · Score: 1

      Hey Im raised Catholic and even I cant understand it too well :) One of the odd things about being educated in a Catholic school in a liberal western democracy(I was educated in Australia by the MSC order - a french missionary order that arent really that strict like say The Christian Brothers) is that I often found Priest and Brothers teaching me that were of the opinion that some of Romes theology was pretty nuts. I was taught by one priest in particular(who happened to have something like two PhDs and 4 masters degrees in things ranging from History to Philosophy to Psychology) who was pretty firmly against the birth control doctrines and while not being completely pro-choice was very close too it.

      Catholics are a pretty diverse bunch... from say those guys that reproduce the crucification every easter using real nails in (I think) the Philippines to people like me that think those people are nuts :)

    247. Re:umm by TheLink · · Score: 1

      AFAIK people can have pleasure whether they are single, monogamous or promiscuous :).

      And in the future it may be even more so. Just wire yourself up to your "tasp" and you can have as much pleasure as you want and for as long as you want (whether it's good for you would probably be debated by the usual suspects).

      Now if you are talking about having good _relationships_ then it gets more complicated since there's more than one person involved. Sure some people can manage polyamorous relationships, but I'm willing to bet that most can't.

      I believe a large proportion of people are wired for jealousy. Whether it's genetic or otherwise, denying it is futile. I don't think I'm the jealous sort, but I've definitely seen other people who are. So even if there are no physical consequences to promiscuity there would most probably still be undesirable nonphysical consequences.

      My religious beliefs (I'm a christian) would indicate that promiscuity is not a good thing. At the same time, my religious beliefs are that Jesus came to save the world and to spread the message of Love, not to condemn it. So I find it quite strange and disturbing that many apparent Christians focus on spreading a message of hate, condemnation and judgement, when they're supposed to spread the Good News (the last I checked anyway ;) ). Makes me wonder sometimes whether it's the same religion and same Christ we're following.

      As for marriage, even from a secular point of view, it appears widespread across so many cultures, especially the cultures that have passed the test of time AND appear to have _thrived_ instead of being in danger of dying out. And many people still want some form of it - whether secular or not, hetero or not. So I would say it's not something to discard/dismiss lightly.

      Just because someone _willingly_ chooses to draw a line somewhere does not make that person less a free person, especially given the finite world we live in, with our limited abilities and lifespans. Of course we could choose to make no promises and not risk breaking any.

      Some people choose to attempt difficult tasks/projects. While they may fail, it might still be a worthy endeavour (I must say many are crazy though, but some turn out crazy lucky ;) ).

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    248. Re:umm by TheLink · · Score: 1

      Some people definitely think their children are a blessing. And some think they are a curse. And some probably think they are both. Same goes for Life I guess.

      The great thing about free will is you get the freedom to make the wrong choice ;).

      Whether the story is symbolic or not, there were two special trees in the Garden of Eden.

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    249. Re:umm by Darby · · Score: 1

      ...allows me to point out that people are *more* likely to get hurt in long term open relationships than they are with a long term monogamous one, as the relationships are by definition more complicated.

      But none of that does anything toward reaching that conclusion from that premise, because the one doesn't imply the other.
      More complicated implies more interactions between the individuals positive *and* negative. The increased positive could have an ameliorating effect to cancel out the increased negative interactions and then some. It could go the other way or any of a number of different things.

      It does not in any way imply that they are more likely to get hurt, since everyone in monogamous relationships gets hurt as well anyhow and without measuring that for a baseline you don't even have anywhere to start coming up with a hypothesis, let alone draw your certain conclusion.

      That was just faulty logic.

      I don't think this kind of thing will have been going on for a long time

      Wow....Just wow.

      How many wives did Soloman have?
      Ever heard of the Greek and Roman empires?

      They were all quite famous for quite a bit of all that.

    250. Re:umm by spun · · Score: 1

      Beatings came into it because you said that promiscuity was immoral to persons who believe that one should dedicate one's self to a single person. I was merely pointing out that dedicating one's self to a single person was not necessarily morally superior.

      Anyway, now I feel like a dick because I was taunting you, and you turned out not to be a repressed and unaware individual in need of a good shaking up, but an introspective and self aware person who has made different choices than I due to different circumstances.

      As for my choices ultimately causing pain, I don't doubt they will. They already have. Pain is part of growing. Unnecessary pain is bad. Muscles pain from excercise is not bad, and neither is emotional pain that comes from conscious and considered choices directed towards personal growth.

      I doubt that is what you meant though. I think it was more along the lines of, "things will end badly and people will be unnecessarily hurt." That may well happen, but I doubt it. I've never had a single polyamorous relationship end badly. Hell, I've never had a relationship end badly. I'm still on good terms with all my ex partners. I'm very, very good at relationships.

      I'm a compulsive person with an addictive personality, too. Luckily, I'm far too lazy to put much effort into any of my addictions, and far too easily bored to stay addicted to any one thing for too long. I've done all kinds of things that other people get addicted to, and I never have, except for two things: cigarettes, which I just kicked, and video games, which I've managed to keep under control.

      You get attached from being physical with someone? Are you sure you're a guy? Heh, I'm joking. I do that too. In fact, I've always used sex as a shortcut to emotional intimacy. I fall in love easily and quickly, but I don't mind getting my heart broken because I know I can go out and do it again.

      The thing is, for me, it's not about monogamy but fidelity. Going out and doing it again takes time, and work. Building a relationship takes work. Why throw out all that work just because someone new comes along? I guess that was my "Joe Sixpack" point: you can be monogamous without being faithful and true to your partner, and you can be faithful and true without being monogamous.

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      - None can love freedom heartily, but good men; the rest love not freedom, but license. -- John Milton
    251. Re:umm by Ian+Alanai · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I went to Catholic school too. A little odd given I was a Presbyterian. All my old school mates are Catholic, even the ones that don't believe, it's a cultural thing. I never understood The Guilt though.

      Still I got to see two sides of Christian theology, many weird and interesting things I learnt. I was an Atheist by the time I was 16.

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      Whichever way you look at it, it's true. I'm not.
    252. Re:umm by Xiaran · · Score: 1

      There is no better way to make an atheist than to send them to Catholic school :)

    253. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      Thanks, I don't like being told that I don't think about things, because my problem tends to be that I *overthink* everything. I was trying to use sexual things as a shortcut to intimacy in my last relationship, where my girlfriend had told me that she wanted to marry me, but wasn't 'ready'. I was expecting getting more physical to make her feel more comfortable, but I think the opposite became true, because as a person she genuinely isn't interested in sexual things, she was hardly even interested in kissing! She'd always planned to live alone 'until she met me', but in the end I always felt when she talked about the future that she was going to be alone, and there were just a whole lot of weird things about her that I won't go into.. heh :S

      The idea of having to do everything again is a scary one, my gf and I were contemplating splitting up as it seemed the best thing to do, but after being together for 2 years I just suddenly realise how much I was taking her for granted and started to see positives instead of negatives, but it was unfortunately too late for that. I still think fondly of her and keep having to remind myself that our personalities just didn't work together. She is now contemplating not ever speaking to any of her friends again (not really because of what happened with us, but I'm sure that had an influence), and is starting off doing that with all her 'complicated' relationships, of which I am one. You could say we're on 'good terms' but she doesn't want to speak to me. Very strange girl, which has probably messed up my own views on relationships.. I was thinking that it was me that was causing the problems in the relationship until I realised how much of an effect her not being interested in physical things (or anything actually.. can you imagine someone not being interested in a Wii? Even all my non geeky family and friends loved it, but my gf was pretty apathetic.. a lot of the things I tried to do with her ended up falling flat on their face) was having. Anyway enough about me, I am introspective as you say, the problem is that I don't just keep it all inside, I end up selfishly telling people.

      I still think it's unfair to add beating into the equation. You can have beatings in any relationship, it shouldn't be a factor in deciding how any type of relationship is superior to others in any way. I was thinking about all this stuff last night and there would be benefits to polyamoury, and it probably is all just down to personal preference. For me I love having one person that I share something 'special' with, I'd probably be too jealous to be able to have successful polyamorous relationships. Though agreeing to have open relationships would take the jealousy factor out of it to an extent, but it also seems that there would by definition have to be less commitment and trust, because you can't always rely on the other person to be there for you? I'm the sort of person that needs security and attention. It takes a while for me to actually feel secure, but I achieved it with my last gf. I was totally shocked when things ended, I was naively thinking that we were actually still going to get married someday even if I didn't see that day coming anytime soon.

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      which is totally what she said
    254. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      Solomon was a king, not really the best comparison to a the modern IT (or whatever) worker. It was quite common for leaders especially to have multiple wives and concubines in those days. I would point out that that was one male with many females rather than the type of polyamory we seem to be discussing here.. and the orgies in Greek and Roman times were just for sex rather than companionship, which again is different. Maybe there was more to it though, I never studied history (cue "you're so ignorant" comment).

      Was thinking more about this last night in relation to how polyamory has more potential for pain and hurt; what kind of legal ramifications would it involve if you were married (sounds totally against the point of polyamoury to me, but someone here mentioned that they were married and do this, maybe it was you, can't remember) but in a polyamorous relationship, and got divorced? What happens if you have kids? As long as your other girlfriends/boyfriends are good to the kids and are there for them then that could be okay. By definition you're going to be with different people at different times and will find it more difficult to support any one of your partners emotionally. That's just a fact. It's maybe not likely that they'll both experience a personal crisis at exactly the same time, and you could say that they will have others to support them due to the nature of this relationship. But then that's why I say these relationships are more 'shallow'. You can't rely on someone 100%. It's easy to have happy relationships if you are never getting too close. If you're not expecting someone to be there for you, then you won't be sad when they're not there. You may personally see that as a positive point, but I don't, so it's all just down to preference again. I don't see it as a positive because I think trust is a big part of a relationship, and trust seems to be something that a couple of /.ers have managed to make a non-issue by engaging in these relationships. They like how they no longer have any secrets from their friends. Guess what? I can be honest with my friends without having to have all of us having open relationships! I was committed to my girlfriend, I was honest with her if I felt we were having problems. I didn't feel I wanted someone else to make up for her lack of interest in the physical aspects relationships. Maybe that's a situation where it would have been good to be engaged in polyamoury of course, because you can't magically make someone interested in sex if they're not wired that way :P

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      which is totally what she said
    255. Re:umm by BakaHoushi · · Score: 1

      Well, my biological brother is a redneck who loves to drink, smoke, and is about everything I am not. (I'm in college, he got a GED. I hate manual labor, and he wants to do it for a living... or for fun.)

      So, if I were your long lost twin brother, it'd certainly explain a lot. Though if I were your twin sister, that'd just be even more confusing.

    256. Re:umm by Darby · · Score: 1

      Solomon was a king, not really the best comparison to a the modern IT (or whatever) worker. It was quite common for leaders especially to have multiple wives and concubines in those days.

      Which is meaningless. It was *and still is* quite common for men to have multiple wives. You are trying to claim that just because you find a certain lifestyle to be fine for you that therefore everyone in the world should live that way and that their lifestyle choices are *wrong*.
      See, you've jumped way over the line from rational expression of a reasonable opinion to ignorant judgmental prick when you start trying to claim that other people's lifestyles are wrong *for them*. You have no way of knowing shit about that, so the fact that you even bother to offer an opinion that you know full well is utterly worthless demonstrates that.

      The fact that you are so out of touch with reality as to assume that *extremely* recent attitudes toward relationships are somehow magically the "right" ones ignoring damn near the entirety of human history just because that's how you were raised demonstrates your tenuous grip on reality.

      Maybe there was more to it though, I never studied history (cue "you're so ignorant" comment).

      So you know damn well that you are ignorant of the subject, yet you won't STFU.
      Why do you insist on continually demonstrating that not only are you ignorant, but you don't give a flying fuck about how ignorant you are and will loudly proclaim your opinions which you have admitted to knowing are utterly worthless since you're ignorant of pretty much everything that could inform your opinion.

      That's what you just said You don't know shit. You know that you don't know shit, yet you will not shut the fuck up about what is better for other people who you don't even fucking know.

      That's exactly the delusional asshatted thinking that leads to the fucked up nanny state laws we're plagued with.

      You have no worthwhile knowledge of the topic. You have admitted this freely.
      Given this a sane rational person with any integrity at all would shut their mouth instead of continuing to go around telling other people how to live their lives.

      By definition you're going to be with different people at different times and will find it more difficult to support any one of your partners emotionally. That's just a fact.

      No, it isn't a fact. You just pulled that out of your ass without anything to back it up.
      You've already admitted to being ignorant of every topic which would enable you to know anything about the topic, so you have no way of knowing what even is a fact or not. This type of nonsense makes you look like a fool, and a pigheaded one at that.

      You can't rely on someone 100%. It's easy to have happy relationships if you are never getting too close. If you're not expecting someone to be there for you, then you won't be sad when they're not there. You may personally see that as a positive point, but I don't, so it's all just down to preference again.

      I don't see it as a positive or negative. I see it as some stupid ignorant bullshit you spouted knowing full well that you're too ignorant to even form a valid opinion. That's a tremendous difference.

      They like how they no longer have any secrets from their friends. Guess what? I can be honest with my friends without having to have all of us having open relationships!

      Wow, so fucking what? Nobody is running around telling you that the know what's best for you and you should live their lives according to your personal moral code which you've already demonstrated to be completely fucked.

      Other people aren't you and so for you to get all judgmental about things which you do not understand is really stupid and sleazy.
      Just deal with the fact that other people enjoy living their lives in a way that makes them happy and you're irrelevant to that.

      Given how ignorant you are by your own admission about everything around this topic, why are you so determined to keep pushing your totally unsupported "morals" on other people? Your morals are obviously shit if they allow you do be so deeply dishonest, so keep them to yourself or get some that actually work.

    257. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      "You are trying to claim that just because you find a certain lifestyle to be fine for you that therefore everyone in the world should live that way and that their lifestyle choices are *wrong*."

      When did I ever say that? I can't even be bothered to read the rest of your comment, I'm at work and I have stuff I need to do in the next 45 minutes. You are sitting there trying to criticize and belittle my *opinion* while claiming that I am wrong to hold that opinion, and that I'm trying to force it onto you. I am not trying to force it onto you, I've simply been trying to explain why I hold the opinion I do. Even if it's due to 'ignorance', I find it hard to believe that you aren't ignorant of a few of the facts yourself. If you want some slightly more jocular evidence as to why this type of relationship is bad for you, go here http://www.theregister.co.uk/2007/05/10/special_ru mpy_terrible_price/ . Now please kindly stop trying to troll me.

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    258. Re:umm by lgw · · Score: 1

      What environmental degradation? In India? Sure, some days you can't even see the building across the stree the air quality is so low, but that's an economic choice, not a technological limitation. In America? Forests have reclaimed much of America for the past 50 or so years, as the land needed for farming has fallen so dramatically.

      Sure, we use "petrochemical feedstocks" as simply the cheapest way to add massive amounts of nitrogen to the soil for high-yeild crops, but oil is not all all the only viable approach. "Consumes topsoil"? Well sure, if you don't add fertilizer - but then most moder crop won't grow at all in unfertilized soil, so it's kind of a non-sequiter. "Consumes water"? Perhaps you've notice what 70% of the Earth's surface is covered with? It's all a question of energy.

      Solar energy is vast. With current solar cells (which still have plenty of room for improvement) we could provide for all of America's power simply by converting all existing parking spaces into covered parking topped by solar cells. Of course, from an economic perspective, it would be far cheaper to just use nuclear power, which is sustainable over the time period our species is likely to care about (though we would of course be consuming uranium, which is a limited resource).

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      Socialism: a lie told by totalitarians and believed by fools.
    259. Re:umm by Phyvo · · Score: 1

      What you say is true, and you probably said what I meant to better than I did, but I wasn't saying that having kids is always a good thing, or that it was equal to the pro-child pro-family ethos. I just see birth control as an element which allowed people to more readily act on their wishes to not have children or a family. It's a tool like any other, with both good and bad points.

      Hopefully I've explained myself better this time. I'm still not very good at this...

    260. Re:umm by Darby · · Score: 1


      When did I ever say that?


      Repeatedly. That's basically the only thing I've been complaining about.

      You are sitting there trying to criticize and belittle my *opinion* while claiming that I am wrong to hold that opinion, and that I'm trying to force it onto you. I am not trying to force it onto you, I've simply been trying to explain why I hold the opinion I do. Even if it's due to 'ignorance'

      Your opinion that it wouldn't work for you is perfectly fine.
      Your opinion that it's wrong for others is not perfectly fine. It's ignorant because you've never been involved in such a relationship and therefore it's not even possible for you to form an opinion that has any value. Spouting your worthless opinion about how other people choose to live their lives when it has no possible effect on you proves you to be an ignorant judgemental asshole. That is my only problem with you as I've repeated several times. Just grow up and start acting like a mature person instead of like an ignorant child.

      Now please kindly stop trying to troll me.

      I'm not trolling anyone. You are an ignorant fool. You have not only proven that many times in the course of this conversation, but you seem to have a militant death grip on your ignorance.

      Just deal with the fact that you are spouting off about bullshit that you know nothing about and quit spouting off your idiotic nonsense about how you know best how others should live their lives.

    261. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      I get your point, but I don't think you have any right to complain about being 'judgemental'. My opinion entitles me to think it's bad for others too, you seem to be very offended that I think your way of life will cause you problems. If you're so sure then why are you getting up tight about it? You are trolling, because I've not tried to get you to change, I just explained why Iiiiiii think it wouldn't work, of course for people less jealous than me, it seems it could. Or possibly the way you're acting on /. shows why you need multiple relationships you do seem kind of insecure (overly defensive). I'm insecure too but I admit it and I can't readily change it. I still don't care about being overly ignorant of your way of life, because I really don't want to treat people like you. Sorry if there's any mistakes in this post, wrote it on me phone. I understand ur point fully, but you need2stop accusing and making snap judgements yourself, and understand if u want2say that other people can think what they want 'as long as it doesn't affect you' or whatever, then it doesn't mean that you complain about them being ignorant just because they don't agree with you or don't think something will really work. I have a different definition of what 'work'ing means in this case, that is the problem. Now, go take out your insecurities on someone who else. The captcha is 'bulled', how appropriate..

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    262. Re:umm by Darby · · Score: 1

      I get your point, but I don't think you have any right to complain about being 'judgemental'.

      I have a right to complain about anything I please. The fact that I am correct in that assessment means that my opinion on that has value. I backed it up with facts. That's the difference.

      My opinion entitles me to think it's bad for others too, you seem to be very offended that I think your way of life will cause you problems. If you're so sure then why are you getting up tight about it?

      Where did you get the idea that I engage in that lifestyle? I never even tried to offer an argument in support of it. I was merely pointing how your points were totally uninformed and therefore worthless. Your opinion doesn't entitle you to shit. The value that the society you live in places on free speech entitles you to have *and* express any opinion you care to. None of that has any bearing on the fact that your opinion on the effects of a lifestyle you have no experience with on people you don't know is less than worthless. Given that fact and the fact that you know that that is true if you had any integrity at all you wouldn't bother spouting off your less that worthless opinion.
      That is the point. You don't know shit about the issue, so don't spout off your meaningless drivel. It's quite simple, honest, and polite.

      You are trolling, because I've not tried to get you to change, I just explained why Iiiiiii think it wouldn't work, of course for people less jealous than me, it seems it could. Or possibly the way you're acting on /. shows why you need multiple relationships you do seem kind of insecure (overly defensive).

      No, I am not trolling. You really need to grow up and realize that pointing out gaping holes in your logic is not trolling. However, continually spouting bullshit that you know full well that you have no way of even assessing the validity of *is* trolling. You might want to go look up the definition.

      You didn't explain why you thought it wouldn't work. You explained how it was wrong and couldn't work. That's something you are incapable of assessing. That ignorant idiocy is my sole complaint with you.
      It has nothing to do with insecurity, and I'm married to one woman in a non open relationship, so the rest of that made up crap is likewise meaningless.

      I still don't care about being overly ignorant of your way of life, because I really don't want to treat people like you.

      Again with the delusional nonsense.
      Be as ignorant as you like, but show some simple basic courtesy and STFU about it.

      I understand ur point fully, but you need2stop accusing and making snap judgements yourself, and understand if u want2say that other people can think what they want 'as long as it doesn't affect you' or whatever, then it doesn't mean that you complain about them being ignorant just because they don't agree with you or don't think something will really work.

      I'm not making any snap judgments. That would be what I'm complaining about you about.
      The only "accusations" I've made I backed up with facts and you've admitted to all of them. Your continual refusal to take that admission and try to do something worthwhile with it does speak to massive character flaws on your part. Again, those are facts, not baseless accusations.
      It has nothing to do with agreeing with me. I've never even put forward a position on the poly lifestyle. My sole complaint with you is your continual pushing of a position of which you are entirely ignorant. You have nothing to back up your position, so a decent person would just STFU in that situation.

      Now, go take out your insecurities on someone who else.

      You're the only one threatened by things you don't even know anything about. Here's an idea: How about you refrain from forming opinions on topics you don't understand. Either inform yourself about the issue, which in this case means spending a few years involved in poly relationships, or stay the fuck out of it since you've refused to inform yourself about it.

      If more people would act like decent human beings instead of blindly ignorant, judgmental pricks like you have proven yourself to be the world really would be a better place.

    263. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      *sigh* I guess I should clarify everything for you should I? "I don't think this kind of thing will have been going on for a long time" that was meaning in recent history. In western civilisation. It will still occur in eastern cultures, though it will not be 'polyamoury' either, it will be polygamy. I've got time to go through all your derogatory remarks just now, so I'll go read that comment I didn't have time to the other day, since I'm getting pretty offended at the way you're acting, though I know I'm 'ignorant' of polyamory, but what do you want me to do if you don't explain more? Go to swingers.com? There hardly seems to be a set of rules either, it sounds like it can vary from married people deciding they want other partners (presumably because their marriage sucks, and they were idiots to get married in the first place), to a bunch of friends who want to have sex anytime they feel like it. I don't care if I'm sounding immature here, I can be immature at times, and you have been trollish by saying that I'm trying to convince other people this is a bad idea. I'm saying it *sounds* like a bad idea, and it sounds like it will be bad for anyone in the long run, you've got around that by saying that all relationships hurt. Congratulations. Using your strange example of Solomon, I seriously doubt that there wasn't a lot of jealousy and pain among all his women. Also in older cultures guys used to take on more wives if their first wife couldn't bear children (or they'd use their maids), and that's hardly going to foster a happy relationship between the women either. It's totally different to the situation that other people seem to be describing of them and a bunch of friends agreeing to have multiple romantic relationships. It sounds more like the roman/greek empires where people just gave into their greed and lust in sexual and gastronomical orgies, though they also didn't think anything of paedophilia, or watching lions eat people for fun. I have been using my own knowledge of the world, which may be more limited than yours with regards to sexual and other romantic relationships, but the way you're trying to convince me to learn more about it really isn't helping, if anything it's just making me think you're a twat.

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      which is totally what she said
    264. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      Hmm. So I make some logical points and you ignore them. Like not being able to be there for someone if you have multiple relationships that you need to commit to. And you call me 'dishonest'. I always try to be as honest as I can, that's why I'm in this mess with you, because I say what I think. I said I never studied history, that doesn't mean I "dont know shit" about it, it just means that I found geography more interesting and we only had 2 of the courses at college. You'll probably be happy to hear that I'm a Christian because no doubt you'll want to slag me off for that too, engaging yet again in more hypocrisy of pretending that you play to the rules of all the Political Correctness bullshit about being tolerant of others, yet in reality you're still trying to get me to conform to your point of view (without actually reasoning). People have also had monogamous marriages for thousands of years too, your points about polygamy seem pretty dumb unless there are polygamous marriages with many males and many females (there maybe are, I don't know, but I've never heard of them, doesn't mean tey don't exist). Why should I keep it to myself? You probably would proclaim loudly some PC 'free speech' bullshit if someone tried to say that to you. You're also saying that my morals 'dont work'. You, my good asshat, are a hypocrite...

      I am quite open minded, even though I do have my own beliefs. As a Christian I believe I should love people even if I don't agree with them. And as a Christian I know a fair bit about ancient history as I've read through the old testament a coupla times and heard loads of sermons (which obviously talk about history from a Christian bias so you probably won't consider any of what I 'know' as valid anyway). I gave you reasons for why I thnk what I do and you're like "so what" and stuff rather than trying any of the logic you thought was so important when you thought that I was too stupid to be able to understand logic. I've been programming for over a decade, my logic is pretty damn good thanks very much.. POLYGAMY IS OBVIOUSLY MORE COMPLEX THAN MONOGAMY BECAUSE OF MORE PARTS. MORE COMPLEX SYSTEMS ARE LESS RELIABLE BECAUSE THEY HAVE MORE CHANCE OF FAILING. What is so illogical about that? I know that polyamory works for some people, but those people have different goals in life than me. I'm sorry that you find it so offensive that I dared to give my opinion and try to explain it even though I "don't know anything about it", though I don't know how you expect me to without informing me, and I don't see how people are ever meant to grow if they don't try to explore areas that they don't know about. Everyone is a noob at something. I don't even know why I'm wasting my time trying to convince you that I have a valid opinion, I guess it's because I'm insecure and defensive as I mentioned before, and as you obviously are *shrug*. Calling me dishonest is one of the worst things anyone could do to me anyway, because as I've said I always try to be honest. None of what I've said so far is 'dishonest' because I believe it. It's possible to believe the wrong things, but as long as you believe what you say you're being honest. *sigh*

      "By definition you're going to be with different people at different times and will find it more difficult to support any one of your partners emotionally. That's just a fact."

      If you don't see that's a fact, then you don't really understand what it is to support someone. That's probably why you want these relationships, so that you have less responsibility. I'm just saying that derogitarily cuz you've been pissing me off, and so I now think of you as selfish, pathetic and shallow, and I'd like to hear you say how having multiple relationships actually enables you to give more to other people to convince me otherwise, because otherwise you're just doing it all for yourself, and relationships work better if you try to give as well as receive.

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      which is totally what she said
    265. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      I did realise later that you could be the person who said you don't take part in this lifestyle. That also makes you opinions pretty worthless by your reasoning, because you don't really know that it 'works'. I've been thinking about it all (as usual), and it just makes a joke of the traditional idea of love. I can't imagine wanting to have other relationships if I really loved someone, in fact I largely tend to stop finding other people attractive when I'm in 'love' with someone.

      u suggesting that lawyers and judges should spend a few years being a criminal before they're allowed to become lawyers? Bit of an extreme example, but I don't have to be a 'poly for a few years' to decide whether or not it would work. I have flaws, as do anyone, and I still consider myself to have my integrity. You don't have to know facts to have an opinion, though yes you have to know them to have what you would consider a 'valid' one. I keep on talking because when people get all abusive in their attitude like you are doing then it pisses me off and I feel I have to justify my position. Because there are reasons for me having them. I gave the reasons but you still don't think they are valid, so you just are incapable of using your mental functions to draw conclusions without experiencing everything firsthand it appears, so somehow I don't think I'm the one that's immature.. (yes it was immature to say that too, I'm having too much fun here, maybe I really am turning into a troll). This is Slashdot, most people here spout their opinions without knowing anything about the subject, at least I listen to other opinions and try to take them on board. You don't seem to know anything about polys yourself cuz you haven't actually said anything other than people can be 'happy' in that lifestyle. People can be happy for a short while being promiscuous, but I've never heard of that lifestyle ultimately making people happy, because it doesn't have any permanency. Keep slagging me off for being an ignorant cretin all you want I guess, I am entitled to my opinion, and I am considering things that you don't seem to understand, you just like being some kind of vigilante thought police o_0 I don't want to STFU about it because I have been learning from other people, but you can't seem to get over yourself and do something to improve the situation rather than just complain about it? If someone is ignorant, teach them, otherwise you are just promoting the situation. There will be plenty of things in life which you think you have a valid opinion on, but you'd find out that you were completely wrong if you learned about them *shakes head*, you just won't know what they are until someone points it out. And still, to me, and to *all* of the people I know, Christian and non Christian, and anyone else brought up with traditional ideas of relationships (which I get you're pointing out is just a society thing), this really isn't something that would make them 'happy'. Plenty of people would joke about it but in the end they just want one person to love. Taking the permanent companionate love element out of a romantic relationship means it becomes pretty much all just about sex and having fun together when things are good, and giving up when things go bad *shrug* if people want that then good for them.

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    266. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      It's 12:35AM, I'm waiting for a server to reboot, and again I'm thinking about all of this, may as well post. First of all I don't even see how I'm being 'judgemental' here, but you'd think you'd like me using my judgement by the sounds of things. I can't even say that having multiple wives is morally wrong, as you pointed out that Jewish kings did that kind of thing, but I think they were rebuked for it anyway. Okay.. since you either haven't thought of these things, or have just been trying to kick dirt in my face for fun: These are going to assume that you actually *want* to keep a relationship with someone, rather than just dump them at the first sign of problems, which I consider shallow. It seems like this form of relationships is tailor made for being able to just do whatever makes you happy in the short term, but lets assume not. Firstly, ammunition for arguments. You and one of your partners is arguing. You will be tempted just to go off and see another partner who you are on good terms with. Sometimes this could be good as you will be able to come back later after having cooled off and apologised. On the other hand, if you are seen to be leaving for another partner at the first sign of trouble then the original partner will be even more pissed and possibly jealous. Unless they don't care, in which case I would again say that is shallow. You may choose to call it 'mature' though. I don't see the reason that both people would try and work through major issues if they have all these other partners anyway - if they're that bothered about making things work with each other, why do they have other partners? You could say that's judgemental *shrug*. Some people in poly relationships *will* be shallow people, others may try hard for all of their poly partners. Most 'committed' type people will be committed to one person though, leaving people from the in the middle to the shallow end of the scale being mostly in this type of relationship. No, I don't have facts to back this up - I'm simply using logic and reason, I don't care what you think about my powers of reasoning, I know they work fine from experience, and you don't know me at all. Another thing, more people in a relationship means you have less time for each person. Maybe it wasn't you that said closeness in a relationship is not a direct function of time. Maybe so, but it definitely involves time. Spending time one to one with a person is the easiest way to get to know them. In a crazy example, if you had 10,000 partners (not including their partners), it would be impossible to get to know each one. On a more normal level, 2 partners is fine, 3 is still okay but starting to get more awkward to please everyone, and you are bound to leave someone feeling 'left out', if they care. I am being pretty simplistic here, one possible reason for poly relationships could be that one person fulfils you intellectually, one emotionally, one sexually and so on, but relationships are better if they involve more than one of these things, and women will tend to be less interested in the sexual side of things and more interested in being emotionally fulfilled and cherished (there are exceptions of course, but in general this is true). When you start taking into account all your partners partners then you have a lot of potential for personality clashes, arguments, jealousy, fights, whatever. It's more complicated, it's *more* likely to cause pain, and it is in my opinion aye baaaaad idea. Sure it will be fun, and it could work great for some people, but these people wouldn't tend to be looking for lifelong companionship, in my opinion. What happens if one person moves away? Do they go with them? Do they just sever the tie? It's all very complicated, and *more* likely to be hurtful. Get it yet? FFS I have to spell everything out for you and you still think that just because I haven't been seeing people simultaneously that I don't have the capacity to 'judge' whether this is a good idea in the first place. Not to mention the biological reasons that were shown in that article I li

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    267. Re:umm by Darby · · Score: 1

      I did realise later that you could be the person who said you don't take part in this lifestyle.

      That was the first time I said it. You must be thinking about somebody else.

      That also makes you opinions pretty worthless by your reasoning, because you don't really know that it 'works'.

      If you actually used your brain and learned to read, you'd have noticed that I never expressed an opinion. I merely proved that your opinion was worth less than nothing. Mine would be worth little more on that topic which is why I refrained from expressing an opinion that I knew was total bullshit.
      My purpose here is merely trying to convince you to do the rest of the world the same favor.

      I've been thinking about it all (as usual), and it just makes a joke of the traditional idea of love.

      Well, maybe you should start dealing with the fact that the "traditional idea of love" you're talking about is a joke anyhow. The traditional idea is that the woman is the man's slave and can be beaten or killed at will.
      Perhaps you shouldn't take a recent idea and pretend that it has some sort of exalted status in the massive variety of human relationships.

      u suggesting that lawyers and judges should spend a few years being a criminal before they're allowed to become lawyers?

      You really are a deeply stupid person, aren't you.
      Lawyers opinions on criminals are meaningless. Their job is to make arguments based on the law either to force a person to be locked in a cage or murdered regardless of guilt or to get a person set free regardless of their innocence. That's the case for criminal attorneys anyhow.
      So your example has no relation to the subject at all.
      The fact that you think such ridiculous bullshit even makes sense proves you to be really fucking dumb.

      but I don't have to be a 'poly for a few years' to decide whether or not it would work.
      Not to decide if it would work for you. You're correct in that case as I've said many times.
      In order to do what you're trying to do though which is deciding what will and will not work for others, you would have to to even begin to start forming a basis for a reasonable opinion. The fact that you are only you and not every single person in the world would doom you to failure in your attempt to make absolute statements.

      You don't seem to know anything about polys yourself cuz you haven't actually said anything other than people can be 'happy' in that lifestyle.

      Which matters not a bit because I'm not expressing any opinion on them. My sole issue this entire conversation has been the same. Your failure at basic critical thinking skills and your militant asshattery.

      People can be happy for a short while being promiscuous, but I've never heard of that lifestyle ultimately making people happy, because it doesn't have any permanency.

      And Monogamy does? Ever looked at the divorce rate and the rate of unfaithfulness?
      Seriously, you're trying to argue a position a monkey wouldn't take up. Mostly because that monkey is too busy fucking groups of other monkeys.

      If someone is ignorant, teach them, otherwise you are just promoting the situation.

      I've tried, but you have a militant death grip on your ignorance.
      You can't stop trying to claim that you know how to run everybody in the world's lives better than they do themselves.
      That's idiotic beyond belief and a sure sign of a diseased mind.

      Taking the permanent companionate love element out of a romantic relationship means it becomes pretty much all just about sex and having fun together when things are good, and giving up when things go bad

      So rather than think, you're still making up bullshit and claiming that's the destiny of anybody who can't cram themselves in the little box you have prepared for them.
      Thanks for nothing shithead.

    268. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      "The traditional idea is that the woman is the man's slave and can be beaten or killed at will."

      "You really are a deeply stupid person, aren't you."

      Hmm.. I don't think I need to say any more. I said a few things which I still stand by, I didn't explain the context very well, at least to people who don't take things in context (like you f'rinstance), because you started going on about polygamy rather than polyamoury, which seems to be a 'postmodern' type of thing. Since this is /. I don't mind posting my random opinions, and they do seem to hold more value than yours, because you don't sound like you know what you're talking about either. Women are traditionally the subservient side of a relationship sure, but the 'idea' is not to just beat and kill them, the 'idea' in a relationship is to benefit each other. Just because wives/servants come under a man's property (something you think is the only way to be able to solve disagreements and so on), doesn't mean that there shouldn't be any love. You sound a bit bitter about the whole thing.

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    269. Re:umm by somersault · · Score: 1

      "If someone is ignorant, teach them, otherwise you are just promoting the situation. I've tried, but you have a militant death grip on your ignorance. You can't stop trying to claim that you know how to run everybody in the world's lives better than they do themselves. That's idiotic beyond belief and a sure sign of a diseased mind."

      I can claim anything I want. I just said it's a bad idea in the long run, and that's because it has much more potential for bad situations arising. It would be nice in the short term, but having a long term polyamorous relationship *sounds* like a bad idea, and nobody has said anything otherwise so far. People are allowed to form opinions and hypothesis before they learn more about something. I am open to learning more about it. You are being an ass who thinks that people have to experience something before forming an opinion on it. From your vigilante attitude then it's safe to say that you are american, and that you support the invasion of Iraq (maybe that's not the case, but it seems *likely*, which is how I form my opinions). It is unlikely that you have lived in Iraq, or that you have ever been a dictator, so who are you to form any kind of opinion for or against the invasion of Iraq. Similarly, how can you be allowed to vote for who you think should be President, if you've never been president yourself? How can you live each day if you've not already lived it, surely it would be too much for you to have to *think* about anything and deduce what the best course of action could possibly be? You picked up on some offhand comments I made while on a short browse of /. and expect me to go live a polyamorous lifestyle before I'm allowed to post any comments about it.

      "Thanks for nothing shithead." No problem, Mr Troll. You started off sounding like a reasonable person, it's funny to watch your 'reason' descend into "I'm better than you and I want to stop you from expressing your opinions on a subject I know nothing about". You are *not* helping if you are not willing to educate what you regard as ignorant people, you're just creating potential for arguments and negative attitudes towards yourself. I may try to clarify what I'm saying further in future though because obviously some people just don't take things in context.

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    270. Re:umm by afidel · · Score: 1

      No, western society is NOT sustainable at todays resource usage rates. If all of the arable landmass in the world were used to produce energy from solar insolation we would need to have a process that was 70% net efficient to power the current world population at the rate of energy consumption in the US. While there are non bio-fuel ways of capturing sunlight for energy none are currently to the level where we could even hope to use them for deployments big enough to offset even a couple percent of our current fossil fuel energy usage.

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  2. No BS please by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    No bullshit please, clearly she was denied her degree due to pressure from the RIAA. Dressing as a pirate and so on...

    Arrr.

    1. Re:No BS please by MishgoDog · · Score: 5, Funny

      Actually, it was the Flying Spaghetti Monster who saw her wearing the holy garb, and thus must give up her life of 'teaching' and preach the good word.

      So, not for the first time, he noodled the School Board...

    2. Re:No BS please by swissfondue · · Score: 1
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    3. Re:No BS please by deviceb · · Score: 1

      ha... yarR pirate booty!
      how absurd.. i hope she goes for more than 75..

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    4. Re:No BS please by larsroe · · Score: 1

      She received a grade of "R" for her professionalism. Seriously: http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/years/2007/04 26072pirate4.html

  3. Define "promoting"? by VE3OGG · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I would like to see the page in question, since "promoting" and "here's a picture of people with a beer" are two very different things (but of course, can be interpreted any way the viewer wishes). Sigh -- MySpace to the rescue of society's morals an ethics again...

    1. Re:Define "promoting"? by Bastard+of+Subhumani · · Score: 1

      It was a few years back, but basically depicting or mentioning are now synonymous with promoting. I probably have the memo somewhere...

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    2. Re:Define "promoting"? by Alchemar · · Score: 1

      I don't have a link, and it has been a while, but when I saw the picture, there was nothing in the photo itself to indicate there was any alcohol. The picture was titled "Druken Pirate" and had a picture of her in a pirate costume drinking from a plastic tumbler. That is why this case is making the news. She was denied her credentials because of promoting "underage drinking" and she was of legal age, and no definitive proof as to wether the "drinking" was beer, root beer, or even water.

    3. Re:Define "promoting"? by CastrTroy · · Score: 1

      Canadian beer/alcohol commercials aren't allowed to actually show people drinking. They are allowed to show people having a good time with the product in their hand, but they aren't actually allowed to drink the stuff.

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    4. Re:Define "promoting"? by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Follow the links, the pic is there. The school is absolutely in the wrong. The university system in the US is attempting to become morals police. Unfortunately, they're hypocrits, as they use suppressive 'morals' in their attempt to squash out anything they feel inferior. Look at the recent introduction of community service as a course requirement.

    5. Re:Define "promoting"? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      In this article, linked by mikael(484), it says that the high school where she student taught often repremanded her for becoming too friendly in a non-professional way with some of her students, and encouraging them to visit her MySpace.

      http://bbsnews.net/article.php/20070502234811315

      Considering the "drunken pirate" photo, I can sort of understand how this invitation to look her up would cause some concern. Still, there's no reason to deny her a degree, just let her get out into the real world and get fired for being unprofessional then. These things usually sort themselves out.

  4. Finally! by mdahl · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    A genuine re-use of the dumbestideaever tag!

  5. She was not denied her degree by Timesprout · · Score: 0, Troll

    She was granted an English degree and had her teaching certificate withheld. Also it appears more related to the 'Drunken Pirate'caption which accompanied the picture rather than the picture itself.

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    1. Re:She was not denied her degree by subterfuge · · Score: 5, Funny

      If its about the pirate thing they should encourage this behaviour as the decline in pirate population is the cause of global warming...

    2. Re:She was not denied her degree by eck011219 · · Score: 4, Interesting

      She was denied the degree she was expecting to get and had worked toward -- I'm not sure why they would change her degree like that, unless the education degree includes the teaching certificate as well. Either way, it's a seemingly arbitrary change by the administration to the outcome of her education that will affect her in her chosen profession.

      It's lunacy -- I heard the story a few days ago and figured there must be more to it, but having read more about it now, I don't think there is. Apparently if you have any semblance of an adult life outside school, you're unfit to teach (according to the Morals Police).

      Reminds me of the Sprout Goodnight Show host and her firing -- she'd been in some short PSA spoofs about sex SEVEN YEARS before she worked at Sprout (which is a 24-hour PBS Kids network), but parents pressured PBS to fire her and they did so. I guess all that matters is that someone thinks something is bad -- that's now apparently enough to make it true. Here's the Sprout story, by the way. My kid didn't seem to care, but I'm sure others did.

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    3. Re:She was not denied her degree by Timesprout · · Score: 1

      Not to mention the way kids are struggling with the three ars in school today.

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    4. Re:She was not denied her degree by fermion · · Score: 1, Interesting
      Teaching certificates are wielded like blunt objects. For better or worse, they are considered the best way to insure the safety of children. They are not a right, but a privilege. Pretty much, there are many ways to lose a teaching certificate, and not everyone is going to get one. This can be good as it not only protects children, but keep teacher pay high by filtering out the less serious practitioners. A certificate, unlike a degree, is at the pleasure of the state.

      Without taking sides, I can see in the thinking of the board. If the teacher thought underage drinking was cool at 25, then is there reason to believe that the attitude has changed now? Kids have sufficient access to alcohol without teachers supplying it.

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    5. Re:She was not denied her degree by digitalderbs · · Score: 1

      I think you're right. The picture itself isn't offensive in any way, and the under-age drinking clearly has nothing to do with with her specifically -- she was 25 at the time. I speculate that it had something to do with the kids she was going to teach and possibly giving them booze. There's more than meets the eye.

    6. Re:She was not denied her degree by JoeD · · Score: 1

      Correction. Parents did not pressure PBS to fire her. PBS decided to do it on its own.

      I was really torn by this.

      On the one hand, it really sucked that she got canned for something like that. It had no bearing at all on what she did and how she did it, and enough time had gone by that people had pretty much forgotten about the "Technical Virgin" videos.

      On the other hand, I -hated- her onscreen persona. Way way too smiley and perky and saccharine and cloying. I couldn't take more than a minute or two.

      On the gripping hand, the persona wasn't aimed at me, but at my kids, and they seemed to like her.

    7. Re:She was not denied her degree by Bastard+of+Subhumani · · Score: 1

      If the teacher thought underage drinking was cool at 25,
      A fairly big if, since there's absolutelely no evidence for that at all.
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    8. Re:She was not denied her degree by hey! · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Oh, I think it is for the worse.

      Irrational harshness is a sure sign of incompetence. We don't know how to protect kids, but we'll cover up our complete ignorance of anything that might do any good by setting up anybody who comes across our desk as an example. Nobody can say we don't care if we indulge ourselves with in an appalling tantrum.

      Just don't ask us to think, evaluate evidence, or have a real strategy. We're reacting here.

      Let's not root out the bad or abusive teachers. That's too much work. Let's string up some student for dressing up like a character from a Disney theme park.

      There is no evidence that this person thought "underage drinking was cool at 25". There is no evidence that she was drunk. There is no evidence that she has alcohol in that cup. The only thing she did was put a comical caption on a picture of herself.

      This kind of foolishness is indefensible. It is not only unjust to the prospective teacher, it is not only unjust to the students who might have benefited from her service, it mollycoddles incompetent bureaucrats posing as moral crusaders.

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    9. Re:She was not denied her degree by swissfondue · · Score: 4, Informative
      To read about more than meets the eye: Check out this link to blogher.

      Excerpt: "However, school district solicitor Howard L. Kelin said Tuesday that criticism of the teachers contained in the lawsuit is unfair.

      Kelin disputes the allegations the teachers, Deann Buffington and Nicole Reinking, influenced the college to withhold the degree.

      Snyder was given a poor evaluation based on her performance while teaching at the high school and was warned not to direct students to her MySpace page, which contained the questionable photographs, Kelin said.

      Despite being warned to maintain a professional relationship with her students Kelin said, Snyder continued to direct students to her Web page.

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    10. Re:She was not denied her degree by TobascoKid · · Score: 1

      If the teacher thought underage drinking was cool at 25,

      I thought the drinking age in the US was 21, so how can a 25 year old be underage?

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    11. Re:She was not denied her degree by Sosetta · · Score: 1

      There are a lot of cowards in management. Even more in education management.

      Parents get cranky. They send their best children to a school and they want to believe that that school is the absolute best for their children, even when they are not themselves the best for their children. When parents get together to talk about teachers, any rumor isn't off limits, and if enough of them get together, they will talk to the board of education. If the teacher isn't fired, the administrator will be.

      You can't make everyone happy all the time, but some administrators try. They're the bad ones, and will lose their job regardless.

      In this case, you have a school administrator who is afraid that they will get canned because a teacher that they graduated cast their school in a less-than-perfect light.

      Is there a personal vendetta here, and this is merely an excuse to do what they wanted to do? I see the pirate hat, but no evidence to show that what she's drinking out of the cup is beer or any other alcoholic beverage. She could be drinking water, for all we can tell.

      She's got a case, to be sure, and I wouldn't be suing for $75,000. I'd be suing for $750,000.00 at least.

      Sosetta

    12. Re:She was not denied her degree by eck011219 · · Score: 1

      I seem to recall that when it happened, there was talk of parent groups being involved (sfgate article notwithstanding). I could be wrong, though. Either way, you're right -- it stinks.

      I thought I hated her persona as well, until they got this new one who is even worse (who, I am told, was a customer on Miami Ink -- that'll catch up with her). There was a stretch there where the guy from Oobi and Bear in the Big Blue House was doing it, and that was just weird.

      I think the point is, though, that in the drunken pirate thing and these PBS things, legislating morality on behalf of someone else's kids is getting out of hand. It used to be that there was some common sense -- now we assume that other parents can't be trusted and attempt to protect their children from even the mildest material.

      Personally, I think the whole flap about TV and video games being so violent is missing the point -- the "moral majority's" lack of perspective makes everything seem equally bad, and everyone gets all confused and scared. Suddenly a picture of a teacher with a cup (and a caption that doesn't even begin to compare with the drunken comedy content of half the Warner Brothers cartoons I watched growing up) becomes as bad as X-rated content and is punishable by destruction of a career.

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    13. Re:She was not denied her degree by LifesABeach · · Score: 1

      There is something missing from this story. I believe that the story of HOW, and WHY the school administrators got the information for their actions would be very telling. Also, the obvious violation of an adult's first amendment rights with respect to the Punitive Damages that are going to follow will be very telling.

    14. Re:She was not denied her degree by bkr1_2k · · Score: 4, Informative

      Actually someone else posted this elsewhere in the thread, but there is definitely more to it.

      http://bbsnews.net/article.php/20070502234811315

      Seems she'd been reprimanded as a student teacher several times and she knew she was in the wrong. It doesn't seem to be as cut and dried as the original article would have us believe. Also, the picture posted in the original article is different than the one in the above article. Two very different images that give completely different impressions of a "teacher" if seen by students.

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    15. Re:She was not denied her degree by SomeoneGotMyNick · · Score: 4, Funny

      She was granted an English degree

      But what can you do with an English degree? It she doesn't teach, the only other thing she could probably do is open a Poem Repair shop.
    16. Re:She was not denied her degree by falcon5768 · · Score: 2, Informative
      This is a interesting quote

      Due to federal student privacy restrictions, the University is unable to directly respond to media accounts related to the case.
      Over the age of 18 this only counts to academic scores and record, meaning either something else was afoot, or they REALLY want to trash her while looking like they are protecting her since they know they fucked up and dont want it to be known.
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    17. Re:She was not denied her degree by Skater · · Score: 1

      According to an MTV article that's linked in the Post blog comments, the school said they did it for "academic reasons" - i.e., insinuating she didn't pass some courses. Aside from the fact that's a pretty nasty thing for them to say, I have trouble understanding how you'd pass well enough to get an English degree but not a teaching degree, since you probably wouldn't have enough credits to get the English degree if you failed one of your teaching-only courses. (Unless she had a lot of extra credits or something.) Moreover I can't see why the school thought that would be an acceptable solution - English probably wasn't her declared major.

      Also, the school mascot is the "Marauder" which seems to take the form of... a pirate!

      I considered Millersville when I was picking colleges... I'm glad I went to Clarion instead! (Of course, at my graduation, they gave an honorary doctorate to Regas of Adelphia cable, who is now serving a jail sentence for embezzlement or something of that company.)

    18. Re:She was not denied her degree by eck011219 · · Score: 1

      So noted. Still, that's quite an empty statement from the university. Maybe they're hamstrung, but I guess we'll find out about everything if this ever gets to court.

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    19. Re:She was not denied her degree by loconet · · Score: 2, Funny

      Those who can't do nor teach work as administrators at educational institutions.

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    20. Re:She was not denied her degree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Education degree is a degree in a major with additional requirements (such as an FBI background check, student teaching, and evaluation of a teacher's "disposition"). For whatever reason -- and the school cannot legally say why -- she did not meet the "additional requirements", and so she was just awarded the degree in her major.

      What she is alleging is troubling, if true. But it has the perfect storm of A) our prejudices against rural school districts, B) cutting-edge technology issues and C) a woman in a pirate hat consuming alcohol.

      So we have no way of knowing whether it's true. But none of the stories that have come out seem to imply that she was otherwise an exemplary student-teacher (quite the contrary), so this sounds like there will be more issues than that. I'll believe it when I see the court testimony.

    21. Re:She was not denied her degree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "I have trouble understanding how you'd pass well enough to get an English degree but not a teaching degree, since you probably wouldn't have enough credits to get the English degree if you failed one of your teaching-only courses."

      Internships. I had a friend who dealt with a very similar scenario, he was eligible for a degree other than Education (I forget which one) but could not get his teaching degree because he missed the deadline for applying for an internship. Had he chosen to wait a year, he could have done the internship and received his teaching degree.

    22. Re:She was not denied her degree by Skater · · Score: 1

      Ah, okay, thanks. Not being in the teaching field I'm not familiar with the programs.

      I do remember a couple math ed people at college that got all the way to student teaching in their fourth year and discovered they didn't like teaching. That'd be pretty depressing, I think.

    23. Re:She was not denied her degree by Fujisawa+Sensei · · Score: 4, Insightful

      So she was reprimanded, did she get a passing grade? If yes, then give her the cert, if not deny her the cert. And just because she gets her cert doesn't mean they have to give her a recommendation or hire her.

      But if they pull that BS she should get enough money from the school system so she doesn't have to work, the people recall most of the school board and the superintendent is forced to resign. Its called you screwed somebody's life over, now you get to pay.

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    24. Re:She was not denied her degree by FooAtWFU · · Score: 1

      It's lunacy -- I heard the story a few days ago and figured there must be more to it, but having read more about it now, I don't think there is. Apparently if you have any semblance of an adult life outside school, you're unfit to teach Actually, I've been informed by a friend who is going into public school teaching that, for their first year or so, new teachers are advised to find someone else to do their laundry: they probably won't have enough time, otherwise.
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    25. Re:She was not denied her degree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Academic reasons now? The school officials seem to be having trouble getting their story straight.

    26. Re:She was not denied her degree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      How dare you temper the righteous outrage of the Slashdot community with FACTS!

      Someone mod this guy troll so we can go back to ignorantly denouncing the school administrators.

    27. Re:She was not denied her degree by bkr1_2k · · Score: 1

      I don't know for sure but I don't believe student teaching requirements are a pass/fail thing. I think it's just putting in the time as dictated by whatever state certification is required. Some arbitrary number of hours "student teaching", which as far as I can tell usually means grading papers and not actually teaching for most of it.

      As for the whole "you screwed somebody's life over" I'll respectfully disagree. She was specifically reprimanded and didn't improve her performance, according to the school board. She may or may not have had good grades, but a student teacher who can't even perform the basic tasks of that job without reprimand and needing "significant remediation" in several of those tasks shouldn't get a cert. At the very least she should be required to perform more time as a student teacher and show improvement before getting her cert. Education shouldn't just be something we allow people to do by getting all the boxes checked.

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    28. Re:She was not denied her degree by porcupine8 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      She was reprimanded for giving out her myspace page to students - if she hadn't, they would have found it anyhow. She might as well use it as a way to connect to them. And the new picture is slightly goofier than the old one, but still fairly innocuous. Sure, she probably didn't show the best judgment, but if she already had tenure (ie, worked in a district for 3-5 whole years) there's no way she could even be fired for this, let alone have her certification stripped. No one involved has to give her recommendations when she tries to get a job, but if she fulfilled the certification requirements she should be certified.

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    29. Re:She was not denied her degree by borkus · · Score: 1

      if she already had tenure (ie, worked in a district for 3-5 whole years) there's no way she could even be fired for this, let alone have her certification stripped. Which is why the younger teachers are often the most uptight - they're underpaid and under constant scrutiny. The older ones have tenure and if they're smart, they've got some dirt on the principal as well.
    30. Re:She was not denied her degree by jcnnghm · · Score: 1

      Tell me about it. I walked into the CS advising office one day, and the receptionist was bitching to someone that the students acted like they exist to serve them. I'm pretty sure that would be part of the job description.

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    31. Re:She was not denied her degree by hsqueak · · Score: 2, Interesting

      FERPA applies to all students, and covers more than just academic scores and academic file. It can also include whether or not a student is enrolled, their name, status, class, any contact information, and a lot more. In certain cases a school cannot even confirm whether or not someone is a student there.

    32. Re:She was not denied her degree by loconet · · Score: 1

      Yup, I find it fascinating when people who work in educational institutions think they are doing us a favor. Listen, I pay out of my ass for tuition, I am your costumer, treat me with respect and do your job period.

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    33. Re:She was not denied her degree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That still doesn't explain it. Are they afraid the students will find out their teachers are human? I was a neighbor with two of my teachers, so I was well aware they were human. Should the teachers have been forced to move away from any students lest the students discover this horrible fact?

    34. Re:She was not denied her degree by db32 · · Score: 2, Funny

      AAAH I get it. In the picture she is a "drinking pirate" so she they assumed she was incapable of using correct english! I side with the university now.

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    35. Re:She was not denied her degree by TheLink · · Score: 1

      Yeah you go give them a good dressing down! Or up... :)

      BTW which schools did you attend ;)

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    36. Re:She was not denied her degree by outlander78 · · Score: 1

      Objection! Your facts are destroying my case!

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    37. Re:She was not denied her degree by King_TJ · · Score: 1

      Umm.... I'm sorry, but when did it become "unprofessional behavior" to direct some of one's students to a perosnal MySpace page? In today's society, MySpace is part of the popular culture. It strikes me that this is about as "unprofessional" as recommending that some of your students "give a listen to your favorite classic rock or pop band when they get a chance".

      If she really was given poor evaluations, strictly based on her teaching skills (or lack thereof), fine. But this whole MySpace photo thing should have never come up at all. The very fact that it did calls everything else about her evaluations into question.

    38. Re:She was not denied her degree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "She was reprimanded for giving out her myspace page to students - if she hadn't, they would have found it anyhow."

      That's is quite possibly the stupidest thing I've ever read, and that's saying a lot on slashdot. There is a profound difference between actively encouraging students to seek something and doing something they can find. Your logic extends as follows "She was reprimanded for flashing the students, if sh hadn't they could have just peeped her anyway" and is simply idiotic.

      STFU before you say something else amazingly dumb, you fat cunt.

    39. Re:She was not denied her degree by isa-kuruption · · Score: 1

      In order to complete your degree in education in PA, you have to complete, successfully, a certain number of hour student teaching. The result of her final student teaching semester was an overall performance rating of unsatisfactory by the administration of the high school she was student teaching as (keep in mind, the high school uses the same form to evaluate student teachers as normal teachers with an added on questionnaire, usually, from the university). So, because this student teacher received an unsatisfactory performance review from the high school, she did not complete the necessary number of credits to receive her degree in education.

      The solution? Go back another semester to do your student teaching over again to get your credits and move on. Instead, she sues and makes a big deal, which means every school in the U.S. will think twice about hiring her.

      (FYI... my girlfriend got her degree in education in PA as well, and we discussed this and all student teachers know how the process works for their evaluation).

    40. Re:She was not denied her degree by Fujisawa+Sensei · · Score: 1

      She was specifically reprimanded and didn't improve her performance, according to the school board. She may or may not have had good grades, but a student teacher who can't even perform the basic tasks of that job without reprimand and needing "significant remediation" in several of those tasks shouldn't get a cert. At the very least she should be required to perform more time as a student teacher and show improvement before getting her cert. Education shouldn't just be something we allow people to do by getting all the boxes checked.

      As I said, if she met the student teaching requirements, (which can include many things), and passed, she should graduate and get her cert. In addition there is a process to show she did or didn't meet those requirements and that is reported that back to her school and her adviser. If they don't follow the process they're "screwing somebody's life over", is they do follow the process, "she screwed her own life over".

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    41. Re:She was not denied her degree by Fujisawa+Sensei · · Score: 1

      See this part of my above comment:

      did she get a passing grade?
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    42. Re:She was not denied her degree by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Umm.... I'm sorry, but when did it become "unprofessional behavior" to direct some of one's students to a perosnal MySpace page?"

      From the beginning. I doubt you have any idea what "professional" means based on your comments.

      "In today's society, MySpace is part of the popular culture."

      Completely irrelevant to the discussion at hand.

      "It strikes me that this is about as "unprofessional" as recommending that some of your students "give a listen to your favorite classic rock or pop band when they get a chance"."

      That's because you're stupid, and you're leaving something out. Add "and then meeting your students at a concert for a band you both like and getting blasted in front of them" to more accurately gauge the level of her actions.

      You're looking for excuses for unprofessional behavior, but the fact that you don't like the decision changes nothing. This IS unprofessional behavior (and no, HAVING a Myspace page is not, but directing students to a place where they can see you intoxicated IS, see the difference?) whether you like it, whether you agree, or not.

    43. Re:She was not denied her degree by Alchemar · · Score: 1

      And the big difference is .... da dum ... a peace sign. Thank goodness that the university is protecting are wonderfull children from all those hippy pirates. And she was directing children to her website to, and as proof they have a post directly from her saying .. she thinks some of her students might be reading her post and that is OK because she has nothing to hide. I guess that using the same logic that drinking from a cup while 25 is promoting underage drinking, that actknowleging a suspicion that a student might be reading your website means that you "directed" them to it. Afterall, these are students, and no student has every been smart enough or curious enough to type their teachers name in google to see what might pop up, so she must have been the one to make them do it. I feel so safer knowing that they have protected all the innocent minds.

  6. Well by El+Lobo · · Score: 5, Interesting
    I for once am sick of this new wave of neo-moralism which is invading the USA, but sadly also Europe. It has gone so long now that there have been students in trouble (and expelled from an university), here in Sweden for just ben caught drinking a beer when they are 17. Can you imagine? A beer can compromise the future of a person... Long gone are the merry days of the hippy culture when things were so uncomplicated...

    But I must be thankful that the new wave of religious moralism has not (yet) arrived here from America... But sadly, I expect it to arrive very soon...

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    1. Re:Well by braintartare · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It is not neo-moralism as much as it is simple cowardice. People in authority today, more than ever before, are doing the CYA thing regardless of the consequences to those under their authority. This judgement is sad, sick, absurd, wrong. But the people who made the judgement ( withhold her certificate ) thought that this was the safe course of action, that they were protecting themselves from any political fallout. As I suspect we will soon see, they couldn't BE more wrong. /chandler bing

    2. Re:Well by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It has gone so long now that there have been students in trouble (and expelled from an university), here in Sweden for just ben caught drinking a beer when they are 17. Can you imagine?
      Sorry I don't believe you unless you can provide some referense. Universities doesn't even expel students who cheat.

      Now, if you're talking about a "folkhögshola" and not a "högskola" that is a totally different ball of yarn. "Högskola" -> University, "Folkhögskola" -> Folk High School (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Folk_high_school. A Folk High School Sweden doesn't have to abide to any central teaching plans and have highly individual profiles (and therefor a Folh High School diploma isn't anywere as respected as a univeristy one because can't relly tell what it means). Moreover about 2/3 of all Swedish Folk High Schools are run by non-profit organisations and their values are allowed to be a major part of their profile as long as it's not legally discriminatory. Many of them have strict no-drugs rules and in those drinking definitly risks you getting thrown out on your ass. But they have nothing to do with swedish universities.

      Just because someone said it on /. doesn't make it true.
    3. Re:Well by TheWoozle · · Score: 5, Insightful

      You don't have to be religious to be self-righteous, authoritarian, or just a plain old bastard.

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    4. Re:Well by KokorHekkus · · Score: 1

      Sorry I don't believe you unless you can provide some referense. Universities doesn't even expel students who cheat.

      Now, if you're talking about a "folkhögshola" and not a "högskola" that is a totally different ball of yarn. "Högskola" -> University, "Folkhögskola" -> Folk High School (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Folk_high_school... ...But they have nothing to do with swedish universities.
      Except perhaps that many of them offer preparatory courses for those who lack qualifications to apply to the university. Most of those who take the preparatory classes are adult (ordinary) high school dropouts etc.
    5. Re:Well by ArhcAngel · · Score: 1

      But I must be thankful that the new wave of religious moralism has not (yet) arrived here from America... But sadly, I expect it to arrive very soon...

      This has very little to do with religion or morality other than fear that a lawyer will see an opportunity to make a buck by opening a class action lawsuit against the university for giving a certificate to such an "amoral" individual. Imagine the "Think of all the students who were scarred for life because of the example this teacher was setting" lawsuit this might cause the university. This is more a response to frivolous lawsuits than it is morality.

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    6. Re:Well by koreaman · · Score: 1

      It's not necessary, but it sure does make it easier.

    7. Re:Well by Gordonjcp · · Score: 1

      This has very little to do with religion or morality other than fear that a lawyer will see an opportunity to make a buck by opening a class action lawsuit against the university for giving a certificate to such an "amoral" individual

      You use the word "amoral" there. How does that make it "very little to do with... morality"?

      And another thing, why are people in the US so mortally frightened of alcohol?

    8. Re:Well by durin · · Score: 1

      No, but it sure helps a lot.

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    9. Re:Well by Lumpy · · Score: 1

      you must be incredibly young. All of what you see is not new in any way.

      People have been screwing each other cicne the beginning of time. If you leave evidence of your private life out in public someone is going to come by and use it against you.

      This has been a way of life and solid fact for the past 10,000 years. at least.

      Don't want to get hung for what you did? then DON'T DISPLAY IT IN PUBLIC! If you think having a public exposure of your private life is important to you, then be absolutely ready for it to bite you in your ass from 1 to 50 years later.

      I caught my daughter smoking. How? she posted photos of her doing it on hey myspace page. I looked at her after scolding and handing down the 2 week grounding and asked. "Did you even think? posting anything in public like that is exactly like running around the neighborhood screaming at the top of your lungs "I AM UNDERAGE AND SMOKING! YIPPIEEE!"

      She learned something important, be careful of what you post on the internet, it will BITE YOU IN THE ASS!

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    10. Re:Well by Carewolf · · Score: 1

      Well, that's his own damn fault for living in Sweden! ;)

      Now move to Denmark or any other country in Europe with sane alcohol laws (remember to avoid Norway too).

    11. Re:Well by Sigmon · · Score: 1

      Neo-moralism? Hey.. From what I understand about this, I agree... It's stupid. A picture of a girl drinking from a cup with a pirate hat on seems pretty innocent to me. But, I'd say we COULD stand to have a little more 'moralism' in U.S. society today; A society in which a wealthy brat Paris Hilton is made a celebrity because of acting out.

      On a side note... I really wonder HOW the school became AWARE of the mySpace photo in the first place - student revenge maybe?

    12. Re:Well by CmdrGravy · · Score: 1

      That's rubbish, there's nothing wrong with having a drink or being drunk - provided of course that one isn't constantly drinking and drunk to the exclusion of all else so I find it highly unlikely that the University is avoiding giving certificates to anyone of it's students who has ever had a drink.

      I know lots of teachers and most of them dedicate a fair amount of time to drinking but I don't think any of them actually run courses on it in the class room and personally I'd much rather a drunk was teaching my kids than some fundamentalist religious nutcase.

    13. Re:Well by RiddleofSteel · · Score: 1

      Yes but it helps. :P

    14. Re:Well by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      True, but if you can quote scripture written by bronze age goat herders, you have better change to be taken seriously and doing more damage.

    15. Re:Well by scottblascocomposer · · Score: 1

      Indeed. I would say that the religious who really take their religion seriously will tend to be none of the above. Those who rather use it as a justification for unrelated (and conflicting) ends will tend to be precisely all of the above.

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    16. Re:Well by P3NIS_CLEAVER · · Score: 1

      I wouldn't be surprised if universities have been sued when a student is injured or dies due to underage drinking.

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    17. Re:Well by ArhcAngel · · Score: 1

      I didn't say she was amoral.....the university implied it.

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    18. Re:Well by spankey51 · · Score: 1

      I call it: "the age of liability."
      Everyone is afraid of being sued by people who are incapable of accepting the consequences for their mistakes. So there is this paranioa everywhere you go... "caution, wet floor" "caution, this coffee is HOT" "caution, do not try to stop chainsaw chain with hand"
      It makes life so much less entertaining... You see someone do something stupid and all you can think of is the legal recourse.
      I am a pilot, and because of the insane cost of everything in aviation, I have seen potentially the most dramatic shift in liability-driven paranoia... The stuff we used to do back in the 80's would land us in jail today. Everything is so much less fun: you have to really worry about things like noise-abatement over sensative areas where rich assholes live.

      I agree, it is cowardice. And it's nice to see it blow-up in their faces. I'm hoping that sooner or later, a balance will be struck between the fear of being sued for someone's mistake, and the outrageous measures taken to prevent said person from making the same mistake.

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    19. Re:Well by Darby · · Score: 1


      I caught my daughter smoking. How? she posted photos of her doing it on hey myspace page. I looked at her after scolding and handing down the 2 week grounding and asked. "Did you even think? posting anything in public like that is exactly like running around the neighborhood screaming at the top of your lungs "I AM UNDERAGE AND SMOKING! YIPPIEEE!"


      Damn, Dude.
      2 weeks for smoking is fine and all, but what about another 2 months for being dumb about it ;-)

    20. Re:Well by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You don't have to be religious to be self-righteous, authoritarian, or just a plain old bastard. ...but it helps.
    21. Re:Well by asninn · · Score: 1

      As the signs go: "you don't have to be crazy to work here... but it sure helps a lot!"

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  7. So what they're saying here is... by Churla · · Score: 5, Funny

    "It's OK for a drunken pirate to have a pretty useless degree, but we'll be damned if we're going to enable a drunken pirate to get a low paying stressful thankless job by giving them a certificate!"

    Obviously ninja have infiltrated the schools administrative staff...

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    1. Re:So what they're saying here is... by EveryNickIsTaken · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      ..low paying.. You clearly do not pay property taxes. Teachers now make more than the private sector, and in many instances, significantly more. Coupled with essentially "free" benefits for life, and it's quite the cushy job.
    2. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Churla · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Actually, I do pay property taxes as a home owner. I also know people who work in the teaching profession in the same city in which I pay these strangely high taxes. And in my brain I've made a note to someday figure out where the money is going because it's not going to the teachers.

      And whereas yes they do get 3 months a year off, most of the don't make enough to avoid needing to get a summer job. Many of them are either working on grading papers and preparing lesson plans at home, or they're putting 12 hour days in at the school keeping up with some of it. The worst part is knowing how many of them honestly want to instill that vital critical thinking nugget in the heads of kids, but then get beaten down with the fact that they have to teach to a standardized test because that's what they'll be reviewed over.

      Maybe where you're at the teachers job is a cushy one, but from my observations in a non suburb city it isn't. The only teachers I know who are thriving and loving the job all teach at private schools, and there aren't enough of those jobs to go around.

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    3. Re:So what they're saying here is... by BobPaul · · Score: 1

      How does ones profession effect their property taxes? Or can teaches claim some sort of special deduction in your state?

    4. Re:So what they're saying here is... by EveryNickIsTaken · · Score: 1
      A relative of mine teaches in Kingston, NY in the ghetto. He'll be making over $55k this year, with tenure as a math teacher now after only 2 years out of college. Teachers get paid *good* money now, with phenomenal benefits (which they were initially given to offset poor pay). Because of the strength of the teaching unions, their payrate continues to increase at a rate much higher than the national average. Also, typically private schools pay less, and have worse working conditions.

      Regardless, the real problem that they face is an over-abundance of elementary-ed majors getting out of college with no jobs to place them in.

    5. Re:So what they're saying here is... by 246o1 · · Score: 1

      "Teachers now make more than the private sector, and in many instances, significantly more. Coupled with essentially "free" benefits for life, and it's quite the cushy job."

      You clearly have never been a teacher. It's hard work, there's very very little prospect of significant financial gain, and in many many schools it's a completely thankless job.

      I assume by 'the private sector' you mean teachers at private (religious) schools, who often do even worse than the average teacher (but work in those schools out of dedication to their missions or somesuch). Everybody makes more than SOMEBODY in the private sector, which is why your comment was stupid/pointless/confusing.

      I'm going to go out on a limb and assume that your dislike of teachers is thanks to the constant negative press teacher's unions get, and not completely random. Here's not the place to discuss whether the unions are good or bad for education, but I would ask you to keep in mind that even if the union has some political power, that doesn't mean individual teachers are doing well financially. They aren't.

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    6. Re:So what they're saying here is... by ATMAvatar · · Score: 1

      What does the amount of property tax you pay have to do with the salary of teachers in your area, much less those in the rest of the country?

      That's like saying the little Thai kids who make shoes must be living a cushy lifestyle because you paid $150 for your Nike sneakers.

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    7. Re:So what they're saying here is... by EveryNickIsTaken · · Score: 1

      School tax is lumped into our property taxes here in New Jersey. Due to the broken state pension system (of which teachers are a part), and the constant haggling by the teachers unions, they're among the highest in the nation. I do know that they've certainly risen the most in the past 10 years.

    8. Re:So what they're saying here is... by EveryNickIsTaken · · Score: 0, Troll

      there's very very little prospect of significant financial gain

      In New York & New Jersey, a Masters Degree equates to a teaching salary of approx. $55k-60k a year. Unions have negotiated this. Given that the schools will pay for the degree, many teachers either get it online or at night.

      I hate to break it to you, but $55,000 a year is well over the national salary average.

    9. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Bastard+of+Subhumani · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Ah, but is it over the national average for people with a Master's? Compare like with like.

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    10. Re:So what they're saying here is... by ack154 · · Score: 1

      I think he's saying that when you pay your property (school) taxes, that's the money that helps to pay teachers' salaries.

    11. Re:So what they're saying here is... by EveryNickIsTaken · · Score: 1

      That's irrelevant to the discussion at hand. If you're making $55-60k/yr, you are not "low paid" or without potential for financial gain.

    12. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Churla · · Score: 1

      DING I think you mentioned a magic word in there.

      Not all states are union states. Texas, for instance, has teachers organizations calling themselves "unions" but they don't seem to carry the clout that unions up north do because of Texas laws involving unionization. This would make sense and explain the differences we're seeing I do believe.

      As much as I am not a big supporter of unions, this is a case where I think a stronger union would benefit things.

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    13. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Chris+Mattern · · Score: 1

      You've got it the wrong away around. What the OP is saying is that one's profession affects *other people's* property taxes. In the US, the public schools are run and paid for by the local government, which gets most of its revenue from property taxes. The schools are generally far and away the biggest item in the local government budget, so it is not too inaccurate to regard the teacher's salaries as being paid for by the local property tax.

      Chris Mattern

    14. Re:So what they're saying here is... by pirho666 · · Score: 0

      Yeah teaching the the ghetto, where you have to worry about your kids shooting you or getting knifed in the hallway. The teacher pay varies tremendously by state, and in many places the average teacher pay is going down not up. Imagine at your job, you get a 3% pay raise only to then take what amount of 4% more of your salary to cover your benefits, that you did not have to pay before. That amounts to a 1% cut in pay. If I were a professional and the management came up to me and said that I was going to be paid 1% less, I would probably laugh in their face.

    15. Re:So what they're saying here is... by koreaman · · Score: 1

      I guess the problem is that standardized tests don't measure critical thinking. But any test that did so would need a bit more brainpower to grade than the wisdom of the venerable Scantron, so there are none.

    16. Re:So what they're saying here is... by bkr1_2k · · Score: 1

      Care to site some statistics with that statement? I have several good friends who are teachers and none of them are making more than "the private sector" and certainly not "significantly more". These are in several different school districts in the DC Metro area and around the country.

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    17. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Troll

      That's in NY. YMMV.
      My wife, will have her Masters Degree in a few months and with that pay increase, *might* crack $30k. Maybe. If she were work at a private school, she would instantly get a $10k - $13k raise, just from the difference in pay scales.

      Teacher Unions do not exist in all states. In Missouri, for example, it is illegal for teachers to unionize.

      What you think it the "real problem" is only one of many. Honestly, where you live there might be an over-abundance of elementary teachers with no jobs, but here in the Mid-West, you can find any district in the state looking for at least a few teachers. If you don't want to teach elementary, that's fine, pay the $250, take the test and become certified to teach something else.
      I'd say NCLB, standardized testing, long hours and piss poor pay for everyone except administrators are larger problems than too many teachers, but I only know what's going on in Missouri.

    18. Re:So what they're saying here is... by shawngarringer · · Score: 1

      You write that like $55,000 in New York state is a lot...

      So, what is a fair amount of money for people who shape the youth of our country then?

      Would you be happier if he was just barely above the poverty line?

      Don't you think we should be paying enough to get _good_ people in to teach instead of people who have no other options and can settle for some low-wage job?

      I wouldn't mind if teachers made twice that figure right out of college, to be completely honest with you. Teachers unions have lots of problems (mostly protecting those teachers who deserve to lose their jobs) but fighting for higher pay is NOT one of them.

    19. Re:So what they're saying here is... by AlgoRhythm · · Score: 1

      Oh, shit, someone is teaching and actually getting paid a fair wage! Sound an alarm!

      And for something as boring and unnecessary as MATH for chrissakes!

      I don't know where your living, but while $55K is certainly a decent wage, I wouldn't call it GOOD. Particularly not when your job is to teach math in the ghetto. Teachers should be paid at least that much for teaching ANYWHERE, but if you look at the average teacher income around the country you'll find that it's MUCH lower (poking around google it appears to be in the $40k range, more or less depending on grade, specialization and location).

    20. Re:So what they're saying here is... by spikedvodka · · Score: 1

      2 things:
      1) Math teachers are in *VERY* short supply across the country, and some school boards have authorized starting math teachers at higher steps on the pay scale, as well as signing bonuses in some cases.
      2) My wife and I, who both work for a public school (She Teaches, I work as support staff) don't bring home $55,000 Combined!

      I'm sure you've seen the posters hanging in Guidance offices in High Schools across the country saying "Average salary without a Highschool diploma... With a Highschool Diploma... With an Associates Degree... etc" Now remember that Maine is starting a $30,000 MINIMUM teachers salary... Where does that fit on that salary scale?

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    21. Re:So what they're saying here is... by senrable · · Score: 1

      Having taught in Baltimore, MD with a Masters Degree, I was only paid $34,000/year. I make far more with no (relevant) Master's in industry using my (undergrad) math degree. Though, if the "private sector" is Mickey D's, then I certainly made more than the average burger flipper.

    22. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ah, not from the Bay Area I see.

    23. Re:So what they're saying here is... by porcupine8 · · Score: 1

      Average teacher pay is $47K. And the Master's isn't irrelevant - you take out those loans and then see if you think it's irrelevant. I have more loans from my 2 years of M.A.Ed at a public school - even WITH an assistantship to cover tuition - than I do from my 5 years at one of the top (and most expensive) private universities, due to lack of need-based grant aid for Master's students. Most schools don't offer assistantships to Master's students either, making the load even heavier. A teacher can easily have enough loans to reduce their salary by $15K a year. (And yes, in some places a teacher makes more for having a Master's - but in some places, like New York, a Master's is required for all teachers.)

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    24. Re:So what they're saying here is... by topside21 · · Score: 1

      I'm taking down my Pirate photos on MySpace account before Ninja's make me lose my job...

    25. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Churla · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The unfortunate fact is the test to if a child has really learned critical thinking is how well they do once school is no longer a part of their lives.

      My wife and I are working on having a spawn of minions right now and I fully expect that it will be "informational tidbits you learn at school, thinking you learn at home". Not because the teachers can't teach it, but because they don't have time. I am just mildly bitter because I feel I got a leg up on life because of a few teachers who really cared and made me learn to think, once I knew how to think, and how to find answers actually "learning" anything became exponentially easier.

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    26. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Red+Flayer · · Score: 1

      I am just mildly bitter because I feel I got a leg up on life because of a few teachers who really cared
      Sorry to pull that quote out of context, but it struck me as very amusing. I too am bitter about the special advantages I had as a child. /sarcasm :)
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    27. Re:So what they're saying here is... by blueskies · · Score: 1

      Do you think they could afford to pay more if they fired the "lifers" that can't be fired?

      In some sick sense, it seems like by paying paying less you hold onto teachers that really want to teach and have less people enter that want to make tenure and ride out making money. I wonder if that works better then paying a decent salary and attracting better talent.

      I think that there is a glut of teachers and only the ones that really want to teach will keep teaching because of the poor salaries.

    28. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Oligonicella · · Score: 1

      Really? Then you and your wife are at the low end. This from the AFT page. "... the average teacher salary was $47,602."

      They then state they would like to see a 30% pay increase.

    29. Re:So what they're saying here is... by phantomlord · · Score: 1
      You act like NYS automatically implies New York City... There is an entire state outside of the city. In my town in western NY, the median HOUSEHOLD income is a little over $51k. Teachers in my district start at $32k and within 5 years, they're up over $40k. By 10, they're over $50k. Also factor in that they get another $10k in medical/dental benefits the day that they start, the school pays their pension for them (which can result in them retiring as early as 55 with full benefits and pay (with yearly cost of living adjustments for the rest of their life). A lot of teachers also coach a sport or academic team and that throws a little more money their way (and teachers will get first priority as a coach since it means a little less cost for the school compared to hiring an outsider).

      There is an absolute glut of people who have a teaching certificate but can't get a job here but they stay and keep trying because of the ridiculous standard of living it provides compared to the jobs everyone else has. I have three friends myself who have their certificate and are already wrapping up their master's degree while they've been waiting for a non-substitute job to open up. When someone retires, dozens and dozens of people apply for that job. Nobody gets fired either. They hired a drunken drummer (he would routinely come late in wearing sunglasses on days where he had a gig the night before) to teach math back in 1992 while I was still in school. He's not only still there, he's now the head of the math department despite keeping a bottle of whiskey in his desk and routinely turning math class into a study hall since he doesn't feel well enough to teach.

      Short of a handful of small business owners, the teachers are the only people in town who earn that kind of money in town. You're lucky if you can get a job paying $10/hr and some minor benefits here. The median household income is elevated by the number (the majority) of people who have to drive 25 miles to the nearest city to be lucky to earn what a teacher fresh out of college gets paid here. My town has 7200 people in it, about 2100 of them under 18, and a $29 million school budget that goes up 3-10% every year and nobody can do anything about it due to unfunded mandates and a teachers' union that cares more about the teachers than the students. $140,600 of next year's $29.4 million budget is slated for actually buying books. That is $14k per student that we're paying right now and that is actually a little deflated since not all of those 2100 kids are old enough to be in school.

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    30. Re:So what they're saying here is... by ucblockhead · · Score: 1

      I always hear this "3 months off" thing and get completely confused, given that my wife's school shuts down in the middle of June and classes start the last week in August. If you count the prep work she does every August, she actually only gets a month and a half off.

      My salary as an engineer is 2.5X hers. She also pays somewhere around $500/year out of her own pocket on supplies.

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    31. Re:So what they're saying here is... by BendingSpoons · · Score: 1

      If we're comparing like to like, we should be looking at other degrees as worthless as a Masters in pedagogy. Every teacher I know (in NJ/PA) is pursuing a graduate degree, not to advance intellectually, but to receive a higher salary. Personally, I think it's absurd. Do you really need a PhD in History to teach fifth-graders about the American Revolution?

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    32. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Castar · · Score: 1

      My wife and I are working on having a spawn of minions right now...

      And posting on Slashdot at the same time! What talent!

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    33. Re:So what they're saying here is... by sgarringer · · Score: 1

      Well they're welcome to come to Iowa. Here we pay our teachers some of the lowest salaries in the nation (for teachers) and when I was in highschool (7 years ago) the average age of a teacher wasn't much higher than the average age of a student. Most of the teachers who I had who hadn't retired from a different job (Computer Science instructor was a software engineer at Apple and retired, English teacher retired from University of Iowa English department, etc) or married to someone who makes a good living have long since quit to work in the real world where they can actually make enough to support a family. Apparently New York state has some f'ed up teaching policies, but don't think for one minute that its like that across the entire country. My science teacher barely made $12,000/year teaching, and she had two (young) kids. She couldn't even afford a babysitter with 100% of her salary. The teachers I knew well enough to discuss finance were all on food stamps... But yet, still, I plan to go (back) to school and become a teacher in this state...

    34. Re:So what they're saying here is... by phantomlord · · Score: 1
      I'm not trying to make a generalization about every teacher in the country being overpaid, just saying that in my area, they certainly are paid well above every other job in town, especially when you factor in that their jobs are 100% secure. A fifth year teacher makes more money than any other town level employee (including the superintendents of the highway and water departments who have 20+ years experience each and one of whom is elected every 4 years). There are probably about 25 businesses in town to support that population of 7200 businesses precisely because taxation is so bad here businesses will develop in every town around us but ours. Our school has also gone from a NYS School of Excellence back in the 80s and 90s to one of the worst in the county now so you can't even say the ~100% budget increase in the last 10-15 years have been effective.

      I support my dad and I on about $30k a year here. It isn't unusual for a teacher's family to make $80-100k working here (especially if two teachers are married to each other, which isn't uncommon). That's the main reason why I responded to you... You made it sound like $55k a year in NYS is horrible. Once you get away from the city and the Hudson River area, $55k is pretty damn good. A lot of upstate NY is leaving because the economy is so bad, you're happy to make $25-30k a year with a degree. Long gone are the golden days of getting a well paying lifetime job at Kodak or Xerox in the Rochester area (and Buffalo/Syracuse have suffered similar fates). The primary job sector which is growing is government and that can only last so long before the economy completely collapses under the weight of the public sector (especially with the state run pension plans that most government employees are a part of.) I can see the writing on the wall and I'm dying to get out myself but I've got too many family ties holding me here right now.

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    35. Re:So what they're saying here is... by Bastard+of+Subhumani · · Score: 1

      It's completely relevant, you can't compare apples and oranges and you can 'prove' anything by cherry-picking specific cases.

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    36. Re:So what they're saying here is... by shawngarringer · · Score: 1

      If what you describe is even 50% accurate, and that's common anywhere outside of where you live too, the country is considerably more f'ed up than I could have ever even imagined. I knew Shrub screwed up this country bad -- no idea it was THAT bad.

    37. Re:So what they're saying here is... by phantomlord · · Score: 1

      Western NY has been on a steady decline for most of my life (I'm 30). I personally started to witness it with Kodak and Xerox in the late 80s/early 90s. It didn't have so much to do with how things are/were run at the federal level and almost entirely how things were done at the state/county/city level (as well as managerial mistakes made in the case of Kodak).

      People have been steadily leaving the area for opportunities elsewhere for a good 15-20 years now... and a lot of the people leaving are 18-25. They go away to college and never come back or come here for college, look at the job market and leave immediately after. The result is that the future of the area is being washed away leaving the area with an aging population, a large number of disabled people (who lack the ability to leave), and the established welfare base. There is no entertainment unless you're into clubs/bars or high end artsy stuff... factor it all in and the social lives of a lot of 20-30 somethings suck putting even more pressure on them to want to leave.

      So, their solution to the rising needs of government (to care for the elderly, disabled and welfare moms left behind) is to raise taxes... which in turn causes more existing businesses to want to move out and prevents people from starting new businesses here. The government has continued to grow and grow (and I believe it is now the largest employer in the area... the University of Rochester overtook Kodak as the largest non-governmental employer recently as Kodak sent even more jobs to other countries.) My property taxes (on a 2000 sq ft, 3 bedroom 1 bath house) were $500 in 1985 when we bought it and have now climbed to about $2200 even with my dad getting an extra ($600ish) discount for being disabled. That's in addition to sales tax going up from 7% to 8.25% (and there is a call for Rochester's county to go up another 0.25%). We're already one of the highest taxed areas in the country and they can't figure out why everyone is leaving when the solution is more taxation. We just had an average of a 15% increase in the assessed values of our houses last year. If the 15% more taxes the school received from that wasn't enough, the budget proposal (to be voted on next tuesday) has an additional 4.7% tax hike (4.3% if it is voted down but that means they will take away after school activities like sports, academic clubs, etc in an effort to bludgeon people into passing the full budget).

      If it wasn't for the fact that I take care of my dad and I would be taking him away from all of his family (not to mention my sister just had his first grandkid), I'd be gone in a heartbeat. Short of splitting off into a new state (all of the state level politicians are from the downstate area and while they give lip service to those of us upstate, they don't really give a damn about us), getting rid the entitlement mentality (plus the politicians who foster it), and getting the taxation issues fixed, I'm not sure that there is any saving the area. Sooner or later, there isn't going to be anyone left to pay for the bloated government and their union employee salaries.

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  8. A picture's worth a 1,000 words ... by WrongSizeGlass · · Score: 2, Interesting

    ... and that picture says "Argh, matey, I'm mighty thirsty", but that's about it.

    Perhaps some bored grad students at Millersville University, those who aren't working on OSS projects of course, will snap a few pic's of the University's administrators so others can jump to conclusions about them too.

    1. Re:A picture's worth a 1,000 words ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, next time my teacher has a tired look on his face and takes a sip from his mug, I'm gonna snap a picture of him and use the caption "Is there vodka in that mug!?!"

      I'd love to see how a school would handle that one...

    2. Re:A picture's worth a 1,000 words ... by Sobrique · · Score: 1

      Sadly, you'd probably find the teacher going through industrial tribunals, employment hearings, or other things to seriously trash their career, depending on exactly where this happened.

  9. Obviously! by Freaky+Spook · · Score: 4, Funny


    Students only go to uni to leech movies and music and drink underage, getting a degree is just a bonus!!!

    1. Re:Obviously! by Don_dumb · · Score: 5, Funny

      Let me correct that for you: -

      only students in the US go to uni to leech music and movies and drink underage, students everywhere else go to uni to drink.

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    2. Re:Obviously! by Space_Balls · · Score: 1

      Exactly. One of my TAs here told us to bring some beers to class the other day. And there is no such thing as an Underage Student here.

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    3. Re:Obviously! by Pope · · Score: 1

      Here in Ontario, high school kids usually graduate at 17 or 18, and the drinking age is 19. A whole lot of frosh are underage when they start classes in the fall. So once again, the ignorant are free to comment stupidly on the rest of world.

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    4. Re:Obviously! by Carewolf · · Score: 1

      Here in Europe the "drinking age" starts when you are born.

    5. Re:Obviously! by backwardMechanic · · Score: 4, Funny

      Except in Germany, where it's younger.

    6. Re:Obviously! by Don_dumb · · Score: 1

      Ontario has a drinking age of 19?
      Sorry, when I said "everywhere else", I meant "everywhere else in the free world"

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    7. Re:Obviously! by donscarletti · · Score: 1

      Yeah, and in Saudi Arabia, you can never drink at all. The rest of the world clearly means the bulk of the world. Ignorance is a word used too much these days, usually it is a particularly arrogant way to say that you disagree with someone, but sometimes it is used because someone is trying to make a good point about American drinking ages without enough deference to Canadian administrative regions.

      But anyway, I can't see why the Ontario drinking age will remain at 19 for much longer now the last year of your schooling has been dropped, the rest of Canada is drinking at 18 IIRC.

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    8. Re:Obviously! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That was one of the funniest comment I read and I am a regular editor!

      Thanks!

    9. Re:Obviously! by Staplerh · · Score: 1

      No, most of Canada is also nineteen. Only Alberta, Manitoba and Quebec have a drinking age of 18 if I remember correctly off the top of my head.

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  10. hmm by cordsie · · Score: 4, Insightful

    When I see clearly absurd stuff like this, I tend to wonder whether there are other aspects to the story that we're not being told about.

    I'm not judging either way, but is it not a possibility that the 'victim' here is screaming loudly about a single innocuous piece of evidence while failing to mention any of the other relevant details or bits of evidence in the 'case'?

    1. Re:hmm by Cauchy · · Score: 5, Interesting

      There was more. The school district where she was a student teacher was the impetus behind this. The district told the university that if she was awarded a teaching certificate, the district would stop using student teachers from the university. I'm guessing that the university felt it needed the school district for the broader good of its other teaching students. I'm not saying the university was right to not fight the district to the death, but clearly it was a more rational choice. The school district, however...

    2. Re:hmm by niceone · · Score: 2, Informative

      Well the university's response is here: http://www.millersville.edu/announcements/snyder.p hp

      They hint at some other problem which they can't go into because of 'federal student privacy restrictions'. I guess you'd expect them to say something like that though.

    3. Re:hmm by Mr.+Droopy+Drawers · · Score: 1, Insightful

      References please?

      I agree; there's something fishy here. I, too, would like to know more about this.

      Anyone got a snapshot of the MySpace page?

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    4. Re:hmm by larsroe · · Score: 1

      They hint at some other problem which they can't go into because of 'federal student privacy restrictions'.
      But if she had other academic problems, why did they grant her an English degree? It seems like a vague statement from the university meant to delay criticisms.
    5. Re:hmm by theckhd · · Score: 3, Informative

      Conestoga Valley officials told the college their students wouldn't be allowed to perform student-teacher requirements there if Snyder was not punished, according to the lawsuit.

      From Lancaster Online, a local news outlet. In addition, the article talks about her being "unprofessional" during her student teaching, though whether that was determined before or after the picture was discovered isn't entirely clear:

      Girvin also issued a final student/teacher evaluation of Snyder and granted "superior" or "competent" ratings in all areas except "professionalism." He gave Snyder and "unsatisfactory" rating, according to the lawsuit.

      Buffington also accused Snyder of "incompetence" and "claimed she should have been removed from her student-teaching position months ago."

      Having grown up in the area (several of my friends went to Millersville; at my high school it was often thought of as the 13th grade because so many students from our district went there), this doesn't really surprise me. The stories I've heard from friends who got their degrees at Millersville generally indicated that the school was a pain to deal with on administrative issues, particularly in some departments. I guess the Ed. department is one of them.
    6. Re:hmm by niceone · · Score: 1

      Yes, I agree.

    7. Re:hmm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The university is trying to say (in a legal manner) that she can snipe all she wants at them in the media, yet they are not able to defend themselves because of student privacy laws.

    8. Re:hmm by digitig · · Score: 1

      Well, there's certainly a disconnect somewhere. The article mentions "pictures" (plural) but then only references one picture. Has anybody looked up her Myspace page? I don't know Myspace well enough to find it.

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    9. Re:hmm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      From your link:
      The University notes, however, that all of its educational decisions are based on a full range of academic performance issues, not solely on a student's personal website or social networking site.

      So they do not rule out "website" as a basis for a degree decision. That is so asine.

    10. Re:hmm by TorKlingberg · · Score: 1

      The University notes, however, that all of its educational decisions are based on a full range of academic performance issues, not solely on a student's personal website or social networking site. Oh, I'm so relieved to hear that the university does not base its educational decisions entirely on what the students put on their myspace pages.
    11. Re:hmm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Freaking Pennsylvania.

      I'm a Millersville graduate (English/Business). My father taught there for 30 years.

      I don't have any insight in this case, other than disappointment at the excessive moralizing inherent in that part of the world. There are several fundamentalist religions in the area, and God is pervasive.

      I moved West 20 years ago, and haven't missed it even one day.

      I hope that she sues and wins. The school district administrators who put forth the ultimatum should be cited as defendants, too.

      I knew of a student teacher who was fired for having consensual sex with her high school students. Naturally, when she was found out, she was denied her teaching certificate. And I swear, I never told a soul! ;-)

      My V-word is "believes." That's apt for a case where religion is dictating the classroom.

    12. Re:hmm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I so agree with the previous statement. Not only do I hope the school district is included in the lawsuit, I hope she wins even more than the $75,000. The fact of the matter is that if she was unfit to be a teacher and no one did anything about it, using one picture on myspace as justification in the end is not the way they should have gone about it. They were asking for publicity for this! I hope the school has to pay up and rely on the parents donations from the kids selling bibles door to door to pay for the new computers they need and can't afford. Okay, that was a bit harsh and sarcastic.

      I grew up in a very religious home, but at the same time I was taught tolerance. I don't want to get into a religious debate. I just think whoever uses religion as the means to justify the end - at least in most cases - is a couple quarts low.

    13. Re:hmm by bkr1_2k · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That allegation has been denied by the school district in question. The article below also mentions that she was reprimanded several times (for the same offense) as a student teacher and that she needed "significant remediation" in several areas of her teaching abilities. There is more to the story, but it's generally being told (at least on slashdot) from a one-sided perspective. Here is another side: http://bbsnews.net/article.php/20070502234811315

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    14. Re:hmm by Mr.+Droopy+Drawers · · Score: 2, Interesting

      That was a lawsuit allegation. Any sources besides the disgruntled student?

      She wasn't denied her teaching certificate due to this photograph.

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    15. Re:hmm by Cauchy · · Score: 4, Insightful

      That was actually quite an interesting article. I found the following excerpt particularly enlightening:

      "...One of the concerns that Ms. Snyder's cooperating teacher, Nicole Reinking, expressed to Ms. Snyder throughout the semester was the importance of maintaining a professional working relationship with students and not to become overly familiar with them regarding her personal life. Among other things, Ms. Snyder had been inviting students to log onto her MySpace Web site, and Ms. Reinking counseled her repeatedly to stop doing so."

      If this is the case, perhaps the school district and the university were quite well justified. In this case, the issue wasn't the website or the photo, but her conduct in the classroom and with the students related to the website. One might even say that her conduct was encouraging underage drinking not because she drank or took pictures, but because she in essence said to students, "Look, I'm cool, I get drunk at parties." That's much more nuanced than just the fact that she put the pictures up online since it involves actively promoting the pictures in the classroom.

    16. Re:hmm by Abcd1234 · · Score: 1

      Umm, she was not "reprimanded several times (for the same offense)", she was asked to stop directing students to her MySpace page, as they felt it wasn't sufficiently professional, and that she was becoming "too familiar" with the students. Further, while they didn't make clear the nature of the "remediation" they felt she needed, I got the distinct impression it was, again, related to her level of perceived professionalism. But does that warrant denying her a teaching degree? I'm not sure... I guess it depends on how "professional" you feel a teacher should be.

      Anyway, thanks for posting the link, it does add additional context to the story (good to see *someone* is still interested in being, you know, a journalist).

    17. Re:hmm by bkr1_2k · · Score: 1

      Reprimanded may have been too strong of a word, but that's how I read it, knowing how reports tend to be weakened to give the person being nailed a little wiggle room when the supervisor knows the person's intent wasn't bad. Especially in that type of environment, where someone is in essentially a student position that is intended to teach them, not destroy them. I also got a different impression than you about the remediation. I guess that just goes to show perspective is a relative thing.

      As for the non-bias, I have to agree it's a good thing. I actually snagged the link from another poster in the thread somewhere, but couldn't find the post again to credit. I'm getting really tired of one-sided journalism.

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    18. Re:hmm by bkr1_2k · · Score: 1

      One might even say that her conduct was encouraging underage drinking not because she drank or took pictures, but because she in essence said to students, "Look, I'm cool, I get drunk at parties." That's much more nuanced than just the fact that she put the pictures up online since it involves actively promoting the pictures in the classroom.

      My thoughts exactly. All the slashdotters are getting up in arms about this when they're only getting one side of the story. While I'm not sure the action was completely necessary, I think at least some action was justified. I would have thought they should make her do further student teaching but offer her the degree without the cert. I'm sure that would have brought another big controversy though, so essentially the school was in a no-win situation. I think they made a strong decision and it'll be interesting to see how it all turns out.

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    19. Re:hmm by Scrameustache · · Score: 1

      Girvin also issued a final student/teacher evaluation of Snyder and granted "superior" or "competent" ratings in all areas except "professionalism." He gave Snyder and "unsatisfactory" rating, according to the lawsuit.
      Translation: "She was a very good teacher, but she did not RESPECT MAH AUTHORITAY!!! Therefore, she needs to have her life ruined by the small powers I am able to abuse."
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    20. Re:hmm by theckhd · · Score: 1

      That was a lawsuit allegation. Any sources besides the disgruntled student?
      I was just responding to the parent, who asked for sources. An alternative point of view is given in a BBSNews article that contains parts of a press release by Conestoga Valley School District, which was linked several posts down. In it, Conestoga explicitly denies that they threatened not to use Millersville student teachers in the future. There's also Millersville's response, which is less than forthcoming.
       

      She wasn't denied her teaching certificate due to this photograph.
      I never meant to imply that she was. It certainly sounds like she had established a pattern well before the image was discovered. Especially if you believe the content in the BBSNews article.
    21. Re:hmm by theckhd · · Score: 2, Insightful

      To be fair, professionalism is important as an educator. There's a distinct difference between being well-mannered and being chum-my with students. Learning the difference is one of the toughest parts of an education curriculum, primarily because the student teachers aren't that much older than the students they're teaching. The natural urge to be "buddy-buddy" with the students in order to seem cool is something that you need to suppress as much as possible. In general, you earn a lot more respect from students by being professional and fair than you do by being their friend.

      Not that there aren't teachers with the Cartman Complex [(c) 2007 theckhd if nobody else has taken it yet!] who would go as far as to abuse their powers for petty, stupid reasons. I've seen a lot of those too. It's just not clear that this is necessarily one of them.

    22. Re:hmm by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Buffington also accused Snyder of "incompetence" and "claimed she should have been removed from her student-teaching position months ago."

      Great, so instead of firing an incompetent teacher for being an incompetent teacher, she is allowed to teach. The district that continued to "employ" the student teacher thought she shouldn't be a teacher. Her supervisor thought she shouldn't be a teacher. However, they took no action to fail her, fire her, or do anything of the sort. There are rumours they pressured her school to take some action, and her school denied her the teaching certificate based off a picture and some hearsay from the people that should have taken the action.

      She should sue and win. The people that should have taken the action did not. The school district should have fired her while she was a student teacher and given her unsatidfactory marks. Instead of doing the right thing, they didn't want the conflict on their hands and passed it off to her college to take action. When you establish rules then don't follow them yourself, expect to be sued. Whether she should or shouldn't be a teacher, the school district should have blocked her when they had the chance or let it go, and her college shouldn't take a request from a school district regarding disciplinary action (especially when the district immediately claims it never happened).

    23. Re:hmm by theckhd · · Score: 1

      Great, so instead of firing an incompetent teacher for being an incompetent teacher, she is allowed to teach. The district that continued to "employ" the student teacher thought she shouldn't be a teacher. Her supervisor thought she shouldn't be a teacher. However, they took no action to fail her, fire her, or do anything of the sort.
      A student teacher isn't employed by the district, and can't be fired. She is of course being evaluated however. And the supervisor did in fact take action on that front, which was the only avenue available to her.

      From the BBSNews article:

      "Ms. Snyder's lawsuit admits that the school district's mid-semester evaluatin of her student teaching identified many areas where Ms. Snyder required 'significant remediation.' Indeed, her evaluation reflected serious performance problems..."

      From the Lancaster Online article:

      Girvin also issued a final student/teacher evaluation of Snyder and granted "superior" or "competent" ratings in all areas except "professionalism." He gave Snyder and "unsatisfactory" rating, according to the lawsuit.

      It should probably be noted here that I think the Lancaster Online quote is slightly incorrect -- Girvin is a professor at Millersville, while Deann Buffington is the supervising teacher at Conestoga. While it isn't uncommon for the professor to issue an evaluation of a student-teacher, usually most of the in-class performance evaluation is done by the supervising teacher. It's not clear from this excerpt whether Girvin simply signed off on Buffington's assessment, or added thoughts of his own.
       
       

      There are rumours they pressured her school to take some action, and her school denied her the teaching certificate based off a picture and some hearsay from the people that should have taken the action.
      These rumors were denied by the school district in the BBSNews link. Of course that doesn't make them true or false, merely unconfirmed.

      She should sue and win. The people that should have taken the action did not. The school district should have fired her while she was a student teacher and given her unsatidfactory marks.
      The school district cannot fire a student teacher, as they are not employed by the district. They did give her unsatisfactory marks in "professionalism" according to the articles, which is the area in which they found her sub-par.

      Instead of doing the right thing, they didn't want the conflict on their hands and passed it off to her college to take action. When you establish rules then don't follow them yourself, expect to be sued. Whether she should or shouldn't be a teacher, the school district should have blocked her when they had the chance or let it go, and her college shouldn't take a request from a school district regarding disciplinary action (especially when the district immediately claims it never happened).
      I think you're jumping to conclusions here. It is not within the school district's power to grant or refuse to grant the student a degree or a teaching certificate -- that is up to the college's education department to decide. The school district has no way to "block her" from getting a degree, though giving her exceptionally bad marks on her evaluation may persuade the college to do this. The school district (or more accurately, the supervising teacher) did the only thing they could do: give the student bad marks and (probably) write a poor recommendation on her evaluation.
    24. Re:hmm by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      The school district cannot fire a student teacher, as they are not employed by the district.

      So, if a teacher were found to be, say, molesting children, what actions (other than the obvious call to the police) can be taken to remove a student teacher from the classroom?

      The school district has no way to "block her" from getting a degree, though giving her exceptionally bad marks on her evaluation may persuade the college to do this.

      Then I am at a loss why this would be a requirement. I had requirements for my degrees. If a required class weren't passed, then I'd not have received my degree. If the student teaching is unrelated to the conferring of a certificate, then it is a worthless requirement. They are required to do it, but not required to pass it. That's not the way it works here, nor the way it works in TX, where I'm from. I understand I displayed some confusion on the matter, mainly because I am familiar with teacher requirements elsewhere, and they do not match the procedures followed here.

    25. Re:hmm by DrCode · · Score: 1

      Well, yes, the real reason she's being denied is because she's a pirate. You know, the sort that fires cannons at cruise ships, rapes and pillages, and shares MP3's!

    26. Re:hmm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Then her certificate should have been withheld based on the review of her performance in the classroom, not the contents of her MySpace page. The contents of her page should have never even been mentioned as one of the reasons if her performance was poor enough to justify withholding the certificate.

      Remember, the purpose of the certificate is to show one has the skills to teach, not the lifestyle the university feels a teacher should have.

    27. Re:hmm by theckhd · · Score: 1

      So, if a teacher were found to be, say, molesting children, what actions (other than the obvious call to the police) can be taken to remove a student teacher from the classroom?
      (I assume that by "if a teacher" you mean "if a student teacher", because otherwise your comment doesn't make sense to me.)

      I didn't say that the district cannot remove a student teacher from the classroom. I said they cannot fire a non-employee.

      If a student teacher is so disruptive that learning cannot take place, a school district is well within their right to refuse them access to the premises, and give them a poor or failing evaluation. Of course if a student teacher is breaking the law, the police most certainly will become involved. In this case, the school could have failed the student teacher halfway through the semester and refused them access, which perhaps is what you meant in the first place. But using the term "fire" implies that the student teacher is actively employed by the district, which is demonstrably false.
       
       

      Then I am at a loss why this would be a requirement. I had requirements for my degrees. If a required class weren't passed, then I'd not have received my degree. If the student teaching is unrelated to the conferring of a certificate, then it is a worthless requirement. They are required to do it, but not required to pass it. That's not the way it works here, nor the way it works in TX, where I'm from. I understand I displayed some confusion on the matter, mainly because I am familiar with teacher requirements elsewhere, and they do not match the procedures followed here.
      Whoa, you're reading too much into what I said (or meant, anyway). My point is this:

      The supervising teacher evaluates the student teacher. This evaluation may be in the form of a letter grade, or a pass/fail, or any other form the university might want to use. That evaluation goes to the student teacher's professor at the university, who takes that into account when he or she issues a final course grade for the practicum component of the class.

      Note that in the above scenario, the supervising teacher does not issue the final course grade! In fact, the supervising teacher can't since they aren't an employee of the university. Now, in most cases, if the supervising teacher fails the student, the professor will too, and they'll have to re-take the class or switch majors or whatever. However, there are always exceptions to the rule.

      For example, what happens if you get a student teaching assignment with a supervisor who's awful to begin with, or doesn't get along with you. As a result, the supervisor grades you poorly even though you put forth an excellent effort. Maybe you've been coming to your professor regularly to discuss how unhappy you are with your assignment and how poor your supervisor is. Maybe they check with other teachers at the school that you may have worked with, and find out that all of those teachers give you a glowing recommendation. Maybe it's the first (and probably last) time that they've ever given a student to this particular supervisor, and only now realize that he's terrible, and thus don't value the supervisor's evaluation of you very highly. In this scenario, you may almost fail the student teaching requirement, but still receive your degree and your certification, because ultimately the university is the entity that decides whether you receive it, not the school district. And that's exactly how it should be.

      Of course, I doubt that's true for this particular case. It sounds from the articles like she's just not a very good candidate for becoming a teacher. But without access to all the first-hand information, it's not really possible to make that call definitively. If it becomes clear during the court case that the teacher is a bonehead who got her panties in a bunch over a stupid myspace picture, then I hope she cleans Millersville out and the court awards her the degree and certification she earned.
  11. math is hard by tomstdenis · · Score: 1

    27 now, 2 years ago ... that makes her? 16? 33? ooooh gosh this is hard...

    How is it promoting underage drinking if she was 4 years older than the legal age requirement?

    Tom

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    1. Re:math is hard by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 1

      Little Johnny could come across his teacher's MySpace page and come to the conclusion that drinking is perfectly acceptable. Although kids usually learn that from their parents first.

    2. Re:math is hard by tomstdenis · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yeah but that's neither illegal or immoral. As a society we allow and tolerate adults drinking, even, gasp, for recreation.

      It'd be like the teacher having a blog talking about her sex life. Are we now to disallow teachers from copulation as well? Well we don't let kids vote either. So teachers shouldn't vote. And most kids can't drive. Therefore no driving, etc...

      TEACHERS ARE NOT [supposed to be] KIDS!

      Tom

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    3. Re:math is hard by Ngarrang · · Score: 1

      Little Johnny could come across his teacher's MySpace page and come to the conclusion that drinking is perfectly acceptable. Although kids usually learn that from their parents first. Amen to that. Or, the parents let the TV teach their kids that is okay to drink. Considering how dangerous MySpace can be to kids (with the predators), are parents still letting their kids use MySpace to even find this teacher's pic?
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    4. Re:math is hard by Rob+the+Bold · · Score: 1

      Yeah but that's neither illegal or immoral.

      It is to the fundies.

      Damn, I'm old enough to remember when that term only referred to underwear for two.

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    5. Re:math is hard by Midnight+Thunder · · Score: 1

      Little Johnny could come across his teacher's MySpace page and come to the conclusion that drinking is perfectly acceptable. Although kids usually learn that from their parents first.

      Is there an under age drinking law that also applies to non-alchohic drinks now? ;)

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    6. Re:math is hard by __aaclcg7560 · · Score: 1

      TEACHERS ARE NOT [supposed to be] KIDS!

      They shouldn't be but too often they are treated no differently by the administrative staff. A quick Google search indicates that teachers are fired for mentioning the bible in biology classes, displaying questionable artwork, being too fat, having topless photos on the Internet or being in a porn movie years before.

    7. Re:math is hard by CastrTroy · · Score: 1

      Are you smarter than a 5th grader?

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    8. Re:math is hard by Loconut1389 · · Score: 1

      I agree wholeheartedly- but I read somewhere in this thread (substantiated or not) that she had been pointing students towards her web page.

      I think there's some distinction between keeping a low profile on myspace and kids finding it, and saying 'hey I'm on myspace'. On the other hand, as a student (10 years ago in HS), I would have thought it was pretty cool that she had a night-life and wouldn't have even considered the possiblity that I should be drinking at my (then) age.

      As others have said, there's no proof of whats in the cup- it could have just as easily been taken on halloween in a classroom with her pretending to be drunk for the picture just to be silly. Sure, maybe in hindsight an action like that (if in a classroom) would be in poor taste, but who really cares? Kids are supposed to be smart enough to understand (and learn from their parents) that you drink when you get to college/turn 21.

      This is yet another attempt to shield kids from the real world, when instead parents should be continually pointing out that other people do things that are bad, or do things that they're not allowed to do yet.

  12. Drunken Sailor by zakeria · · Score: 0

    so all my primary school teachers in the early 80's where really telling me how great it is to get smashed!! damn http://www.tremolocowboys.com/Lyrics_R/Rovers_Iris h_Lyrics/Drunken_Sailor_Song_Lyrics.html I knew someone was to blame

  13. Wow. by geekmux · · Score: 5, Funny

    I thought I was the only one who got hammered off those Goodbar shooters. Whew, that's a relief.

  14. What is the problem? by edbob · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I looked at the picture. I shows an obviously of-legal-drinking-age adult woman in a pirate hat drinking from a plastic cup with no indication of the contents of said cup. How this promotes underage drinking is beyond my ability to comprehend.

    1. Re:What is the problem? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

      It wasn't that picture in particular, it was just that that picture was the only one safe for work. The others show her obviously intoxicated and doing jello-shots off the chest of a well-endowed naked black man.

    2. Re:What is the problem? by PrinceAshitaka · · Score: 1

      The caption for the picture as "drunken pirate". I am not saying that what they did was right but one can assume that there was alcohol in said cup.

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    3. Re:What is the problem? by Spacezilla · · Score: 1

      It shows an obviously of-legal-drinking-age adult woman... She's 16 and suffers from progeria, you insensitive clod!
    4. Re:What is the problem? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The caption for the picture as "drunken pirate". I am not saying that what they did was right but one can assume that there was alcohol in said cup.

      Um, no you can't. There are lots of other reasons, like the caption author was trying to be funny.

    5. Re:What is the problem? by R2.0 · · Score: 1

      I've been to Millersville - she'd more likely to have been chugging beer from an Amishman's hat that been within 50' of an African American. Hispanic, perhaps.

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    6. Re:What is the problem? by mbrubeck · · Score: 1

      The caption for the picture as "drunken pirate". I am not saying that what they did was right but one can assume that there was alcohol in said cup. And that she's really a pirate!
  15. Not getting a couple things here... by laughingcoyote · · Score: 4, Insightful

    • If the picture is from "Halloween 2005", and she's 27, would she not have been 25 at the time of the photo? How exactly is that promoting "underage" drinking? Am I just really bad at math today, or did they change the drinking age while I wasn't looking?
    • There's not even any clear indication the caption isn't satirical. You can't tell what she's drinking, there are no bottles of liquor anywhere to be seen, and the cup is opaque.
    • Even if she were underage in the photo, and were obviously drinking alcohol, what's that have to do with anything? If you're under the illusion that every teacher in your child's school never touched a drop of alcohol until they were 21, you're deluded, quite dangerously so.
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    1. Re:Not getting a couple things here... by zerocool^ · · Score: 1



      # Even if she were underage in the photo, and were obviously drinking alcohol, what's that have to do with anything? If you're under the illusion that every teacher in your child's school never touched a drop of alcohol until they were 21, you're deluded, quite dangerously so.

      Yes. This. Exactly this.

      It's like assuming your grandparents didn't do the baloney mambo. Get over it, man. Everyone has done everything.

      ~X

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  16. Underage hot chocolate drinking? by El_Muerte_TDS · · Score: 4, Funny

    Well.. that's what the cup says anyway. No sign of beer or stronger stuff. It's not even hot coffee.

    The only reason I could think of to punish her is for the bad pirate costume, and the fact that the plastic cup is out of character.

    1. Re:Underage hot chocolate drinking? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The only reason I could think of to punish her is for the bad pirate costume, and the fact that the plastic cup is out of character.

      Indeed, drinking good liquor from a plastic cup is clearly alcohol abuse and should be severely punished. Don't abuse alcohol, drink it from a GLASS glass like God intended! What's wrong with her?

      -mcgrew

  17. Re:Sometimes you need to think about your future by Megaport · · Score: 2, Insightful

    For fucks sake, you think she needs counselling or an ethics class over a picture of her in a pirate hat drinking a cup of drink?

    -M

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  18. It's the cup by techmuse · · Score: 2, Funny

    Isn't it obvious? People who are underage may only drink from clear, plastic bottles! By using a cup, she was promoting drinking from opaque liquid carrying devices.

    1. Re:It's the cup by MichaelSmith · · Score: 4, Funny

      Isn't it obvious? People who are underage may only drink from clear, plastic bottles! By using a cup, she was promoting drinking from opaque liquid carrying devices.

      And by being a mother of two she is promoting under age sex as well.

    2. Re:It's the cup by Wizzar · · Score: 1

      I just wanted to share something I noticed. This was in the BBSNews article "a single mother of two sons". While you probably won't see it mentioned, that had something to do with this as well. My wife originally started college intending to get a degree in education. After learning about all the politics and other BS she switched majors. You'd be surprised how any 'average' college behavior can jeopardize any teaching career. Sex before marriage, if it is found out, can be enough reason in some areas. There are a lot of parents that would complain that the teacher wasn't a good role model, and thus a bad teacher, solely for that reason.

      There might be more at play in this particular incident, but it takes very little to lose any prospect of teaching even if you manage to get your degree.

    3. Re:It's the cup by Rob+Kaper · · Score: 1

      You'd be surprised how any 'average' college behavior can jeopardize any teaching career. Sex before marriage, if it is found out, can be enough reason in some areas.


      I'm not, because it works both ways. Some jobs just blend better with a certain lifestyle than others. It's not surprising or worrisome at all that the field of education aims at 'clean' people, there are plenty of jobs in industries (recreation, entertainment) where the rest of us can work. And to be honest, if all employers are going to be like this they'd be running out of employees quite soon. People who haven't had at least one out of sex, drugs or booze in high school let alone college are a minority (especially here in Europe).
    4. Re:It's the cup by PMuse · · Score: 1

      Under _what_ age, exactly?

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  19. drinking.. but what?? by Rocketman56 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Hmm, there has to be more to the story than the picture..

    That's an opaque cup and could contain ANYTHING.. (Even DiHydrogenMonoxide, insidious stuff that it is..)

    If the picture is all the University powers-that-be went on.. They deserved to be slammed for everything
    she can get out of them.. If there's more to the story, (and NOT fictional documentation by the school),
    then she's got another issue.

    Good luck to Mrs. Snyder..

    Rocketman56

  20. Sue for Religious Discrimination by lbmouse · · Score: 1

    She just needs to claim she's a Pastafarian. Arrr!

  21. Ah yes, Pennsylvania by smooth+wombat · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Where our school taxes run deep, Philadelphia and Pittsburgh are leeches and our governor is doing his best to increase the New Jerseyfication of the state.

    I've told people for the longest time, any time PA is in the national news, it can't be a good thing.

    Personally, I don't agree with Millersville (not too far from me) since the activity took place away from school and the teacher to be, as far as I know, has never advocated to anyone that getting drunk is a good thing.

    Further, as others have pointed out, how is she promoting underage drinking if a) she was above the legal drinking age at the time the picture was taken and b) we have no idea what was in her cup.

    Besides, if Millersville is going after her because of something she may have done, are they going to rescind degrees from those who have graduated and are later found to be doing something similar or are convicted of other crimes? Say, child molestation, rape or robbery? What if someone posts a picture of themselves in a thong at a party (as a guy) or some skimpy, revealing outfit (for a woman)? Are they going to withhold degrees for that too?

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    1. Re:Ah yes, Pennsylvania by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Philadelphia and Pittsburg, also the only haven for commerce and jobs within this shithole otherwise known as Pennsyltucky.

      P.S. In PA school taxes are a local tax, not a state tax. Philadelphia pays for Philadelphia and RichWhiteSuburbia pays for RichWhiteSuburbia. This is why RichWhiteSuburbia highschools have inlaid marble floors and a field for every sport while Philadelphia highschools are in 75 year old elementary schools with condemned auditoriums. I grew up in Philadelphia and now live outside of the city and my school tax bill comes directly from my township, not the state.

    2. Re:Ah yes, Pennsylvania by fraudrogic · · Score: 1

      I think you will find this daily show clip funny. Apparently the "Gates of Hell" that McCain referenced in the R Prez debates is located in Pennsylvania. (warning: forced video ads in the link)

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    3. Re:Ah yes, Pennsylvania by smooth+wombat · · Score: 1

      With 406 murders last year in Philadelphia and 128 this year already (as of 4/24), it wouldn't surprise me.

      Philly streets are horrible, the drivers aren't much better, and there is massive corruption at all levels of government. Yeah, can't imagine why Satan didn't put an entrance there.

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    4. Re:Ah yes, Pennsylvania by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Heh. I moved to PA from western NY. Your taxes and leech cities have nothing on NY state.

    5. Re:Ah yes, Pennsylvania by RamonetB · · Score: 1

      Further, as others have pointed out, how is she promoting underage drinking if a) she was above the legal drinking age at the time the picture was taken and b) we have no idea what was in her cup. It's promoting underage drinking by a role model of students, the teacher, showing off a picture of her drinking something and implying it is alcohol and that she is drunk. Thusly, in the student's mind, this is saying it's okay for ANYONE to drink. You know, because the students would NEVER learn that behavior from ANYONE else, like their parents or peers or movies or because it's been done time immemorable. Stuff like that just doesn't happen. It only comes from teachers.
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    6. Re:Ah yes, Pennsylvania by Vegeta99 · · Score: 1

      Dude, the Gates aren't in Philly. Or Pittsburgh. They're in that town about half-way between the two that I was born in, Williamsport.

      The gates are beneath Lamade Stadium, where they kick out kids from the Little League World Series because they're from the city and might cause trouble.

      (I'm 20 and long escaped that shithole)

    7. Re:Ah yes, Pennsylvania by Bloke+down+the+pub · · Score: 1

      I'll tell you what, I'd rather my kids were taught be her than by someone with your incredible lack of critical faculties and logic.

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  22. When will people learn. by joerdie · · Score: 2, Insightful

    While I agree that the school is acting outside of there bounds, why is it that people are still so obsessed with posting there "party" pictures on the web?!? Does anyone really care? If all of this says anything to me it's this. Now that the web is made up of "user generated content" it is staring to feel a little too much like MTV. Does anyone remember when the internet and computers where un-cool and we spent all of our time talking about why Picard could kick Kirks ass?

    1. Re:When will people learn. by Peverbian · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Oh come on, Kirk could so kick that wrinkled old Picard ass. And he'd give that smarmy smile while he did it and probably pick up two hot alien chicks, one that's green and one that's red, just 'cause it was Christmas.

    2. Re:When will people learn. by joerdie · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Now see, THATS MORE LIKE IT! uhhh. Picard would like, totally win?

    3. Re:When will people learn. by bkr1_2k · · Score: 1

      The internet has always been "made up of 'user generated content'". The difference now is that it's easier to create said content and it's more accessible to people who actually have social lives outside the ability to talk about Star Trek.

      So parts of the web are a bit too much like MTV, so what. Don't visit them. The point is that there is something for everyone out there, some you'll like and some you won't. For example, I hate reading slashdot articles and comments with poor grammar and misused words, but I overlook that for the content (most of the time). I don't use myspace however, because the content isn't worth wading through all the flashing blinking junk that makes me want to gouge my eyes out. Other people have a different perspective.

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    4. Re:When will people learn. by raddan · · Score: 1

      Are you 4? Yeah, there's a lot of stupid shit on the Internet. But there's a lot of really great stuff, too. Here you have a medium that-- finally-- can capture huge swaths of the human experience, without having to worry about whether it is marketable. Some of what people do is stupid. The stupid-shit-on-MySpace phenomenon is not the Internet's "problem", it is your neighbor-who-has-a-bug-up-his-ass's "problem". This is what humans do. Stopping people from talking about it isn't going to stop people from doing it.

  23. Cue the part where... by Optikschmoptik · · Score: 1

    Someone gets a +5 for saying

    "listen, now that we have the internet, there's no privacy anymore, ok? If you want some hotsy-totsy job or career or livable wage, then stop going out, having a non-Disney social life and letting people take pictures of you, I mean jeez. If I can do it, so can you."

    Sorry, I guess I've been reading slashdot(myspace/privacy) discussions for too long. I hope the woman gets the degree she actually worked for. Unfortunately, If the photos are a problem for her students, she'll be the first to know about it.

  24. Only denied Teaching Degree by MishgoDog · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Now, I disagree completely with what has happened here, but wanted to clarify some things...

    The 'Promoting Underage Drinking' argument isn't about her age, obviously - that's why they didn't block her English degree.

    It's because students (you kids can laugh all you want) view teachers as role models - thus if a kid gets on the net, goes 'Hey, miss so-and-so is a drunk!' it changes the perception in their mind slightly that 'drinking is a bad thing'. Hence the promoting-underage-drinking.

    Oh, and the article doesn't say this, but I read an article on this (in Australia!?!) a week or three ago, and it mentioned that part of the degree was something to do with 'being of good character'. Which is where their argument, I believe, comes from.
    Note: that last paragraph comes from my own, alcohol-abused memory, so it may be slightly off. Lucky I'm not a teacher... oh wait...

    1. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by GearheadX · · Score: 1

      The problem being that 'good character' is not something that one generally hears tell about when you go for a degree. Hell, if good character were an issue 75% of pre-law guys I knew in college would've never graduated.

    2. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by 0123456 · · Score: 2, Interesting

      "It's because students (you kids can laugh all you want) view teachers as role models - thus if a kid gets on the net, goes 'Hey, miss so-and-so is a drunk!' it changes the perception in their mind slightly that 'drinking is a bad thing'. Hence the promoting-underage-drinking."

      When I was at school our chemistry teacher used to swig pure alcohol from the science supplies, and our maths teacher took us to the pub when we were 16 or 17 to celebrate our exam results (legal age is 18 here). So the idea that kids will be irrevocably damaged by seeing a picture of their teacher drinking seems ludicrous to me.

      I'm still amazed how puritanical America is compared to Britain (which has become puritanical enough itself in the last few years).

    3. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by TobascoKid · · Score: 2, Informative

      Hence the promoting-underage-drinking.

      Surely, it only promotes overage drinking, as the teacher in question is of legal age. Which means she's promoting an activity as legal as, say, firing off a few rounds down at the local gun club.

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    4. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by dour+power · · Score: 1

      It's because students (you kids can laugh all you want) view teachers as role models - thus if a kid gets on the net, goes 'Hey, miss so-and-so is a drunk!' it changes the perception in their mind slightly that 'drinking is a bad thing'. Hence the promoting-underage-drinking.
      Sounds like the teachers aren't doing a good job of teaching critical or independent thought if those high school kids are so susceptible to the power of suggestion from those in authority. When I was that age, my initial reaction to the views/actions of authority types was not to emulate them, but to disagree with them. Maybe I was just lucky to have a better education system in my community.
    5. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by Scudsucker · · Score: 1

      1) you can't tell she's even drinking
      2) there are no kids in the photo
      3) it's perfectly legal for her to have a drink

      They might as well punish her for promoting adolescent promiscuity, when they found out that she had kids, and thus, had to have had sex at least once.

    6. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by tbriggs6 · · Score: 3, Interesting

      You are exactly right. The Commonwealth of Pennsylvania placed high standards on our teachers, including requiring them to maintain a certain degree of virtue and decorum in their private lives. In fact, any teacher found committing even a misdemeanor even in a non-public forum can be stripped of their credentials at anytime. Further, the entire text of the article explained that there were some concerns raised by her practicum advisers. The implication being that she wasn't really up to par after all. So, while Millersville University took a harsh approach to this one candidate, I actually applaud their efforts. As little as 20 years ago in Pennsylvania and across the country, Universities maintained the right of "in loco parentis" (sp?). Now, Universities are petrified of ticking a student off and incurring the inevitable litigation. Maybe the pendulum will begin to swing back toward some serious ass-kicking on students. Professors are NOT there to baby sit. Professors do NOT have to "give A's" to everyone. Students are NOT entitled to a degree. Students who work full-time so they can afford a nice car, cheap booze, and loads of pot are going to have serious difficulty maintaining any academic standing. So, go MU, I think you sent a strong message to students. I just hope it doesn't go too far. P.S. Teachers aren't the only individuals expected to maintain social decorum - so are commonwealth employees.

    7. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by koreaman · · Score: 1

      If you lived in a country founded by religious fanatics, you'd have the same problems.

    8. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      I'm still amazed how puritanical America is compared to Britain
      Why does that surprise you? That's who got sent over to start this place.

      Have we thanked you for that lately?
    9. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by Sobrique · · Score: 1

      Babies come from sex? Damnit, I've been putting food out for the stork for the last 16 months.

    10. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by bkr1_2k · · Score: 1

      While I don't disagree with the sentiment of your statement, I'd like to say that not all of us who work[ed] fulltime during school did so for the benefit of nice cars, booze or drugs. Some of us, like the lady from the article, do it to raise families.

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    11. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by tedric · · Score: 1

      Drinking is not a bad thing, getting drunk is a bad thing. Teachers are no saints. I agree teachers are role models, but there is no harm done going to a costume party, having fun and a drink or two.

      Pretending not to do something which could, if exaggerated, be hazardous for your health, is a bad thing. Drinking and partying responsibly is the better role model.

    12. Re:Only denied Teaching Degree by Animedude · · Score: 1

      I would agree with you - if it was a picture of the teacher-to-be in an alcohol coma with puked-on clothing, or a video of her downing a whole bottle of Schnapps or something like that. But it is a picture of her drinking from a plastic cup, and you cannot even identify WHAT it is she is drinking. For all we know, it could be orange juice in there. I simply cannot see anything bad about that picture.

  25. missteps in logic by scatbomb · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Teacher in training Stacy Snyder was denied her education degree on the eve of graduation when Millersville University apparently found pictures on her MySpace page 'promoting underage drinking.' As a result, the 27-year-old mother of two had her teaching certificate withheld and was granted an English degree instead. There seems to be a couple missteps in their logic. 1. How does a picture of an adult drinking from a plastic cup while wearing a pirate costume constitute promoting underage drinking? 2. Giving her an English degree instead of a teaching certificate seems like a weird way to punish this offense.
    1. Re:missteps in logic by Adam+Hazzlebank · · Score: 1

      There seems to be a couple missteps in their logic. 1. How does a picture of an adult drinking from a plastic cup while wearing a pirate costume constitute promoting underage drinking? I guess they felt that telling her students to visit her myspace page did. http://bbsnews.net/article.php/20070502234811315
  26. Pete Townsend? by kernel_pat · · Score: 2, Funny

    I got fired from my job as a kindergarten teacher because I was a part time pete townsend impersonator.

    1. Re:Pete Townsend? by otacon · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      I laughed real hard when I read that. I can only hope it was true. It's still funny regardless.

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    2. Re:Pete Townsend? by kernel_pat · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      unfortunatly not, although I wish it was true then I could make FP of slashdot :) BTW to anyone else Pete Townshend is the guitarist from the Who, who is now on the sex offenders register for "researching" child pornography.

    3. Re:Pete Townsend? by advocate_one · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      you're stuffed if you were stupid enough to have gotten a Gary Glitter tattoo when Glittermania was all the rage...

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    4. Re:Pete Townsend? by kernel_pat · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      A big sketch of him on your back with "Part of the Gang" in olde english underneath.

  27. If anything ... by LordKaT · · Score: 1, Insightful

    If anything, they should have just reminded her to quietly take down the picture, so she would not go through the hell of having her students find out about her 20-something escapades.

    But no, when small-town redneck buttfuck USA sees anything that goes against Bible 2.0, you're screwed. If you do anything but suck Jaysus' cock in these towns you're a t'rrist and don't deserve to be treated like one of them.

    Shit, I've had some bad photos taken of me. There's probably still a midget with a bondage fetish out there jerking off to that set of pictures.

    1. Re:If anything ... by Adam+Hazzlebank · · Score: 1

      If anything, they should have just reminded her to quietly take down the picture, so she would not go through the hell of having her students find out about her 20-something escapades.
      They did. http://bbsnews.net/article.php/20070502234811315

      But no, when small-town redneck buttfuck USA sees anything that goes against Bible 2.0, you're screwed. If you do anything but suck Jaysus' cock in these towns you're a t'rrist and don't deserve to be treated like one of them.

      Shit, I've had some bad photos taken of me. There's probably still a midget with a bondage fetish out there jerking off to that set of pictures. And if you directed school kids too those pictures (which is what they say she was doing) would you expect to get fired?
  28. And they know what she was drinking how? by farker+haiku · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Looks like a fairly opaque cup to me. Sue the bastards. Then sue the school district for defamation of character. That ought to teach the fundies (and the people who kowtow to them) to mind their own fucking business.

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    1. Re:And they know what she was drinking how? by geekoid · · Score: 1

      NO it won't. Fndies are speaking for God, as such, everyone else is always wrong all the time.

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    2. Re:And they know what she was drinking how? by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      That's exactly the kind of unthinking and uncritical knee-jerk reaction we need! Because, obviously, there couldn't possibly be any more to the story!

      That photo isn't the only one. And there is some history here - aparrently she was directing students to her homepage that had the other photos on it, had been asked to stop, and refused to do so. It wasn't "Oh, you have pictures on your myspace and students found them" it was "please stop directing children to inappropriate and unprofessional photos of yourself that will compromise your ability to do your job."

      An individual behaving in an unprofessional manner may be subject to having professional credentials held hostage.

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    3. Re:And they know what she was drinking how? by n6kuy · · Score: 1

      Millersville is a fundie university?

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  29. This is Pennsylvania, remember by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 5, Interesting
    The place where you can be:

    (1) Arrested in the hospital for public drunkenness and underage drinking after you are taken to the hospital for alcohol poisoning a day before your 21st bday. This actually happened to a friend. I guess that it's far better to let students with alcohol poisoning choke on their own vomit than go to the hospital and risk getting arrested.

    (2) Arrested for felony riot for telling a cop who had just hit a fellow student in the face at a Red Cross benefit show that he'd be better off helping clean up NYC after 9/11 than harrassing students who ARE actually trying to help. This actually happened to me a few weeks after 9/11/2001, and fucked with my life for the next few years (difficult to get a job, probation basically required for me to move out of state).

    In short; to Hell with the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania and the puritanical prigs who seem to run the government and apparently non-governmental organizations as well.

    -b.

    1. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by dunkelfalke · · Score: 1, Troll

      I guess that it's far better to let students with alcohol poisoning choke on their own vomit than go to the hospital and risk getting arrested.

      actually yes, it is - they surely deserve a darwin award.

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    2. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by Hatta · · Score: 1

      (2) Arrested for felony riot for telling a cop who had just hit a fellow student in the face at a Red Cross benefit show that he'd be better off helping clean up NYC after 9/11 than harrassing students who ARE actually trying to help. This actually happened to me a few weeks after 9/11/2001, and fucked with my life for the next few years (difficult to get a job, probation basically required for me to move out of state).

      WTF, they convicted you for that? Don't tell me you pled.

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    3. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by ONOIML8 · · Score: 1

      I had no idea it was that bad there.

      Then again, be thankful you're not here in Mormon Idaho. The Utah mafia runs the government here and I would gladly trade them for "puritanical prigs".

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    4. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 1
      WTF, they convicted you for that? Don't tell me you pled.

      Actually, there were four charges:

      (1) Felony riot
      (2) Disregarding an official order (forget the exact phrasing, serious misdemeanor)
      (3) Harassment
      (4) Disorderly Conduct

      The first two were dropped at the arraignment by the judge. Unfortunately, instead of fighting it, the attorney that I hired (recommended by the school, no less) recommended that I plead "no contest" to the last two charges instead of fighting them tooth and nail. So I got a program called ARD which got me 6 days of community service -- aka "county chaingang" -- and a year's probation, in exchange for the record being expunged in a few years, which it in fact was.

      However, the newspaper articles remained online, and the felony arrest record also remained until expunged. Also, the State didn't let me take my Fundamentals of Engineering ("EIT") exams until the record was expunged. Ultimately, the joke's on them though, since I'm probably making more money as an independent consultant in NYC than I would ever have as an employee.

      Had I been a bit older and smarter, I'd have fought those arseholes tooth and nail. After all, the maximum penalty for either of the offenses that remained was something like a $300 fine and 15 days in jail. I'd have probably also tried to press Federal charges against them for conspiracy to violate constitutional rights.

      -b.

    5. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 1
      I had no idea it was that bad there.

      It's not all bad, BTW. I've had some great experiences and met some interesting and nice people while at college. But this article brought out some not-so-nice memories of the place.

      BTW- Idaho/Utah have Mormons, PA has Quakers. Remember that Quakers invented the "separate" prison system, where convicts sat in their cells 23 hrs. a day and weren't allowed to talk to anyone (they were supposed to repent and get in peace with God). Only problem: it drove a lot of them mad.

      -b.

    6. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by Hatta · · Score: 1

      Had I been a bit older and smarter, I'd have fought those arseholes tooth and nail.

      No kidding. The practice of plea bargaining is an outrage against justice. It amounts to nothing less than punishment for exercising your right to a trial.

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    7. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Hey guess what? The day before your 21st birthday you're underage. Underage drinking is underage drinking up until you're actually 21. If you don't want to get caught for underage drinking, use your freaking brain. Don't drink till you get alcohol poisoning and stay the heck inside and out of trouble. It's not that hard.

    8. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 0
      The day before your 21st birthday you're underage.

      Oh for fuck's sake, dude. This was ~11:30pm on the day before his 21st bday. And he didn't drink at all before, so he probably didn't know his limitations.

      -b.

    9. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by DaveV1.0 · · Score: 1

      Arrested in the hospital for public drunkenness and underage drinking after you are taken to the hospital for alcohol poisoning a day before your 21st bday. This actually happened to a friend. I guess that it's far better to let students with alcohol poisoning choke on their own vomit than go to the hospital and risk getting arrested.


      Hey, here is a novel idea. Don't drink underage. Then they don't have to worry about getting arrested, alcohol poisoning or choking on their own vomit.

      Now stop bitching that your friend got busted for breaking the law.
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    10. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by mabinogi · · Score: 1

      you know, in a lot of countries, underage drinking isn't actually a crime.
      providing a minor with alcohol is, but the act of drinking it is not.

      not to mention that in most of those countries, they figure that if you're old enough to vote, go to prison and die for your country (not necessarily in that order), then your old enough to drink yourself into oblivion too.

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    11. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by Alaria+Phrozen · · Score: 1

      He couldn't wait 30 minutes? Wow. At least he enjoyed his first experience.

    12. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Hey guess what? The day before your 21st birthday you're underage. Underage drinking is underage drinking up until you're actually 21.

      Thankfully, underage drinking isn't necessarily illegal in TX. Though it is in other places. I was handed alcohol as an "underage" person and legally consumed it. Perhaps that's one reason why I didn't bother to get drunk in college. There wasn't any mystery in the toxins so many chose to consume.

    13. Re:This is Pennsylvania, remember by BendingSpoons · · Score: 1
      Well, I've always liked Pennsylvania, but those two semi-incoherent annecdotes were enough to change my mind.

      In short; to Hell with the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania and the puritanical prigs who seem to run the government
      I'm not really sure if two encounters with random police officers qualifies as a Puritanical Government Conspiracy.

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  30. Image is... something. by blcamp · · Score: 0


    In an era of instant information and broader access to it, this lady should have been more careful. Forget the moralistic implications for a minute, because clearly there's nothing immoral about what she did, as an adult.

    But for crying out loud. She's trying to be a school teacher... in contact with children. Obviously she wouldn't drink beer and wear a pirate suit in the classroom... but is this the image she wants to communicate with your classroom, who surely will see this at some point in time? How about the parents? How are they going to feel, knowing that she's a party girl? I'm not so sure they would want an "uptight" person as their kid's teacher, but how about someone who might be coming to work all hung over, or at a minimum, "unfocused" on occasion?

    Not only should she be thinking about the parents, how about a prospective employer?

    If I were a school district, not only would I be thinking about the drinking and partying, I would also be looking at what appears to be an out-and-out "I don't give a damn who sees this" attitude.

    I wish her well in the lawsuit, but I think that if she really wants this career, she should take the following steps:

    1. Take down all the party stuff from her MySpace page, and anywhere else that portrays her in this unfavorable light.
    2. Take a year or two off, let the story fade.
    3. Build a new, more serious and mature image.
    4. Reassess and if teaching is still in the cards, then pursue it.
    5. (No "????") Have fun, have a good career, and enjoy life, just don't be irresponsible and flaunt something that can damage your career and reputation.
    6. Profit (from being successful).

    Good luck.

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  31. would be nice by jzuska · · Score: 1

    Would be nice if some other school would step in and issue her a teaching certificate.

  32. Frivolous by packetmon · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    After she's done suing MySpace, she can sue Anheuser Busch for making the beer... ABC showing cool commercials, and so on... I say sue em all. Then sue /. for posting her (by then) copyrighted name without her consent.

    1. Re:Frivolous by C_Kode · · Score: 0

      Your post is frivolous because you didn't read the story. She isn't suing MySpace. She is suing the university.

  33. Do you go round ALL your friends by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    and show them your pictures, or put them somewhere on a website of yours so that they can see them no matter how far apart you are?

  34. Pennsylvania by DaMattster · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I am from and live in, Pennsylvania. Pennsylvania has a strange attitude towards alcohol. It is remarkably easy to get a license to serve alcohol yet liquor is a state run enterprise. It is kind of a schizophrenic balance of control and freedom. If only you should have seen the public outcry when the state liquor store was going to have hours on Sunday. I was vaguely amused because many of those in the public outcry, I am sure, went to buy a bottle of wine on Sunday. This girl is going to win her lawsuit, hands down. What Millersville University did was attempt to flex its muscle. In doing so, that attempt just went way too far and will end up generating negative publicity for an otherwise, fine state school. I hope Millersville's administrators are arrogant and blind enough to see this to a public venue. Universities are supposed to be about academic freedom and thought freedom . . .or maybe once upon a time they were. The egregiousness of this is simply shocking.

    1. Re:Pennsylvania by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Your misuse of the comma placement in the "otherwise fine" phrase marks you as a Kutztown University graduate. ;-D

      Incidentally, the mascot of Millersville is, of all things, a pirate! "The Millersville Marauder" he is called, and he looks suspiciously like Captain Morgan, of rum bottle fame.

      I suspect that somewhere, a ninja laughs.

    2. Re:Pennsylvania by durin · · Score: 1

      Pennsylvania has a strange attitude towards alcohol.

      That goes for the rest of the US, as well as quite a few other countries around the world.

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    3. Re:Pennsylvania by Jthon · · Score: 1

      Obviously you haven't been to WI where the liquor flows plentifully and cheap.

    4. Re:Pennsylvania by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is remarkably easy to get a license to serve alcohol

      It depends on the township and/or how much money you are willing to spend to get it.

      I've heard that it costs roughly $100,000 to get a liquor license in PA.

      I know of at least two restaurants in the state that would love to have one, but can't get one. Neither is in a "dry" township (which we also have in the state. Good luck getting a liquor license in one of those.)

      It gets stranger. Beer distributors can sell cases, but not six packs. Only bars can sell six packs. For a long time, distributors were not allowed to be open on Sundays, but bars were. A law was proposed to allow distributors to be open on Sundays. Bar owners heavily lobbied against it. They wanted you to have to go to a bar if you wanted to buy beer on a Sunday (for obvious reasons). Fortunately the law passed anyway.

  35. The longer I live... by cnelzie · · Score: 5, Funny

    ...the more I understand as to why nobody in Europe wanted those pesky Puritans around and thus kicked them all to the US.

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    1. Re:The longer I live... by Alsee · · Score: 2, Insightful

      nobody in Europe wanted those pesky Puritans around and thus kicked them all to the US. Sometimes, I really dislike the behavior of some of my fellow Americans.

      Me too. I find myself more and more wanting to move to Australia. At least they were founded as a penal colony.

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    2. Re:The longer I live... by koreaman · · Score: 1

      Move to Europe then. Who says you have to be tied to your nationality (arbitrarily assigned at birth) for the rest of your life?

    3. Re:The longer I live... by Nimey · · Score: 1

      Precisely what makes you think Oz is better than the USA? Their government's noses are up ours' arses.

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    4. Re:The longer I live... by catdevnull · · Score: 1

      heh. you said penal.

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    5. Re:The longer I live... by Lord+Ender · · Score: 1

      I have a French girlfriends. She keeps remarking on how strange it is that the country with the most noble constitution, founded on principles of freedom and separation of church and state, is constantly restricting freedom and using religious justification to do so.

      I just keep telling her this is all Europe's fault for shipping all their religious loonies over here.

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    6. Re:The longer I live... by Alsee · · Score: 1

      To be honest the only particular reason I selected Australia the place to escape to was because the "criminals being a step up from religious-nuts" was too good a gag to pass up. I agree with you that the Aussy government are often spineless puppets to ours, but at as I understand it I don't think they have anywhere near the religious nut problem we do. For example Australia has more than double the rate of evolution acceptance than we do. And as far as I am aware, their head of government never asserted that God personally assigned him to run things, and I don't think they have a large block of voters who primarily decide who to vote for based upon which candidate claims to be more feverently and fundamentalistly religious.

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    7. Re:The longer I live... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, come here. You'll be wellcome.

      Puritans suck, really.

      Can vote but cant drink a beer? nonsense.
      Can enrol military, go to war, kill people and cannot have a single cup of wine? stupid
      Can drive a car at 16, in full adolescence, powered by hormones and at 20 are not mature enough to drink alcohol?
      Can have a weapon but can't have a beer?

    8. Re:The longer I live... by 808140 · · Score: 1

      I think the GP's point is that Australia has increasingly been pandering to US interests to such a degree that it seems to much of the local population that the Aussie government is putting the US's interests over the interests of its own people. Indeed, this seems to be true. And while Oz is on the whole much less religious than the US, this is changing; John Howard attends church and what's more makes something of a public affair of it, from what I understand. This is widely seen as a political tactic to secure the support of an increasingly religious Australia. Keep in mind, still nothing like the fundamentalist fanatics that are endemic in the US, but the landscape is nonetheless changing.

      Australia seems to have (and feel free to correct me, as I am not Australian, I've just spent some time there) something of the Big Brother mentality that the UK does, but thankfully is too sparsely populated to really see its ideas through to the same extent. These days it seems that New Zealand is the place to go if you value your freedom; they seem to be sane and relatively libertarian. But they're also isolated, have crappy weather (depending on where you're from in the US, you may disagree) and the local dialect is nearly unintelligible, even to many Australians.

    9. Re:The longer I live... by dbIII · · Score: 1

      It is weird that what would have been considered radical heresies under a less tolerant system are making the system less tolerant and branding themselves "conservative". What's conservative about putting a fatwah on another country's electected president or blaming 911 on lesbians? There really are some radical loonies out there that think God does what he is told.

  36. Re:Sometimes you need to think about your future by segfault_0 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Nonsense, there nothing wrong with drinking or posting a picture of you doing it. The only thing that would justify their claim is if there were children around her during the drinking - in the picture or described in the caption/accompanying text. There is nothing morally wrong with dressing up for Halloween and having a few drinks with friends and sharing your good times with your online friends. If glamorizing is defined as not doing it in a closet with the lights off where no one can see - guess its time to move to Canada cause who wants to live in a country like that. Whoever made this decision should lose their job IMHO. I leave it as an exercise to the reader to find a picture of our current president with a beer in his hand (hint: try google image search, a name, and the word drinking). Hope shes wrings them dry in the courts and uses some of the money to gets drunk on them.

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  37. Talk about missing the point ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "It's OK for a drunken pirate to have a pretty useless degree, but we'll be damned if we're going to enable a drunken pirate to get a low paying stressful thankless job by giving them a certificate!"

    Errr, no. What they're saying is "It's OK for a drunken pirate to have a pretty useless degree, but we'll be damned if we're going to enable someone who (in our opinion) can't show proper discretion with alcohol to be around children where her lack of good judgment could have a significant negative impact".

    Given the number of teachers/parents who've been busted of late giving/allowing their school age kids access to alcohol, this isn't exactly shocking. And no, I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, simply saying that you have to look at the context in order to start to understand why the officials are thinking the way they are.

    1. Re:Talk about missing the point ... by AGMW · · Score: 1
      Given the number of teachers/parents who've been busted of late giving/allowing their school age kids access to alcohol, this isn't exactly shocking. And no, I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, simply saying that you have to look at the context in order to start to understand why the officials are thinking the way they are.

      They are talking about changing the law in the UK to make it illegal to provide alcohol to kids at home now - or at least the anti-drinking lobbies are making some noise about it! Just plain stupid I think! It's got to be better to allow kids to have alcohol in a controlled environment to learn about the effects etc, when the parents/guardians are around to make sure you don't do anything really stupid, than for kids to wander off to the local bus stop/shopping centre and guzzle their alcopops on their own! Not to mention that most kids are going to get hold of alcohol anyway, so what good does criminalising them do? Rant and rave all you like about the evils of alcohol and you're more likely to drive the kids to the off-licence, whereas if you just treat it like no big deal they'll be cool about it too.

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  38. Proof of identity... by Glove+d'OJ · · Score: 1
    Can they prove it was her page? Hell, can they prove it was her?


    If she has not represented that it was her page (i.e., either in legal documents or with emails that say "hey, look at my mypsace page at http:///") can they definitively prove that it was either her page or even a picture of her?


    If not, and the certificate prohibition still stands, then I think that a new Fark contest could be photoshopping the administrators who took steps to relieve her of the teaching certificate into, um, "compromising positions."


    Heh-heh.

    1. Re:Proof of identity... by Bastard+of+Subhumani · · Score: 1

      If not, and the certificate prohibition still stands, then I think that a new Fark contest could be photoshopping the administrators who took steps to relieve her of the teaching certificate into, um, "compromising positions."
      Good idea - better yet, give bonus points for including the King of Thailand.
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  39. Denial of Freedom of Religion by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Obviously, she's a Pastafarian - pirate costume says it all. She's been touched by his noodly appendage!

    And to think that the Flying Spaghetti Monster started as a protest to the Kansas Board of Education... conincidence or cons.piracy? You be the judge!

  40. What We Need by N8F8 · · Score: 1

    Is a "Hooters University". All the teachers are hot chicks who dress skimpy and pass out hot wings between classes.

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    1. Re:What We Need by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ... are hot chicks who ...

      Apparently, you've never actually been to Hooters before....
  41. Is this even legal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Fuck this shit is just amazing.

    She did nothing illegal, yet was still denied a license to teach?

    Moral Oppression of the people?

    Sad.

    So when Muslims oppress based on their virtues its bad? But when its done on some crazy fundamentalist christian virtues, its A-OK and cost someone her future job. Ahaha, oh jesus-on-a-stick thats crazy.

    1. Re:Is this even legal? by Darby · · Score: 1


      That's just made me wonder, had the Romans impaled Jesus vertically, would the religion have become as popular?


      Given that the Romans didn't use crosses and did impale people vertically, the answer is obvious.

  42. So she's punished for doing something legal? by AmericanPegasus · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Ok, so as I see it, the 'problem' is this: They say they won't give her a teaching degree because the very fact that she was *photographed* with a cup of beer in her hand makes her an unacceptable teacher. You can't do that. This institution cannot impose it's own moral guidelines on it's graduates regarding something that is completely LEGAL. Well, maybe they can, but they can also lose their ACC accreditadion. What if she had been photographed smoking, or watching a rated-R movie, or any other number of legal activites? You can't just deny someone a degree they have worked for years to get, just because you don't approve of their personal choices. I hope she sues the pants off of this college and they award her triple the sum she's asking for. This is blatantly immoral and wrong of the college and I hope they learn their lesson.

    1. Re:So she's punished for doing something legal? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Forgive me for posting as an Anonymous Coward; but, I too am a teacher and would like to continue as such.

      Anyway, America is a strange country, we place teachers upon a pedestal, holding them accountable for every action on or off campus, and yet pay us miserly wages. The President of the United States can have sex with an intern in the oval office and nothing happens, but if a teacher manages to offend the sensibilities of their community -- perceived or otherwise -- they are removed from their chosen profession. The contrast here is simply amazing. In the former, the act was excused as a personal matter; in the latter, every act, or perception of an act, is a matter of public scrutiny and subject to dismissal.

      In this particular instance, the university decided what was or was not acceptable behavior. In doing so they overstepped their boundaries and need to held accountable. The unfortunate consequence of whole matter is that, assuming she receives her certification, she will be unable to find a position due to the amount of publicity this matter has received.

    2. Re:So she's punished for doing something legal? by blcamp · · Score: 1


      A school district may pick and choose whomever it chooses to employ, subject to prevailing law. Anything beyond that, and it is "at-will", barring the grant of tenure.

      As far as the University goes... let's see what happens in the lawsuit.

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  43. It keeps teacher pay high? by ClayJar · · Score: 1

    Pretty much, there are many ways to lose a teaching certificate, and not everyone is going to get one. This can be good as it not only protects children, but keep teacher pay high by filtering out the less serious practitioners. What world do you live in where "teacher pay" can even be used in the same sentence as "high"? Frankly, that's the least-informed argument I've heard yet.

    1. Re:It keeps teacher pay high? by Dragonslicer · · Score: 1

      What world do you live in where "teacher pay" can even be used in the same sentence as "high"?
      A world where you have to be high to think that good teachers get paid enough?
    2. Re:It keeps teacher pay high? by eharvill · · Score: 1

      Pretty much, there are many ways to lose a teaching certificate, and not everyone is going to get one. This can be good as it not only protects children, but keep teacher pay high by filtering out the less serious practitioners.

      What world do you live in where "teacher pay" can even be used in the same sentence as "high"? Frankly, that's the least-informed argument I've heard yet.
      Not necessarily agreeing with his statement, but in the Atlanta area, most teachers starting salary is between $30-$35k a year. Not a bad gig considering you work roughly 9 months out of the year and get every major holiday off. They also have lots of incentives to get higher level degrees. I know several teachers in their late 20s, early 30s making close to $50k. Plus good benefits and a government retirement plan. Also, if they continue up the administration path it gets even better. Not too shabby if you ask me.
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    3. Re:It keeps teacher pay high? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      In many area, starting teacher's pay is well within the median income. Some of this is due to the fact that income, as a whole, has fallen, some of it has to do with the fact that teacher's pay has in fact risen considerable, as an average, over the past decade. Teacher's cannot afford many luxuries, but neither can most other people. For instance, the base teacher pay in NYC is around 45K, while the median income is often states as 50K, or 90% of median. The maximum pay is 1.5% the median, which puts one firmly in the very top middle.

      A big problem with teacher pay is that the current milestone, 100K, is not reachable as a classroom teacher. There is no reason why a teacher with 25 years experience should not make 100K in the classroom. It would not cost all that much money. It merely indicates that the school does not want experienced teachers in the classroom.

  44. And we care..why ? by HomeLights · · Score: 1

    Why is a 25 year old using Myspace anyhow? Maybe she needs to grow up a bit? Suing for $75k - how does she come to this number? She still got a degree. Get over it.

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    1. Re:And we care..why ? by Sosetta · · Score: 1

      She wants to be a teacher. You cannot do this without a teaching certificate. They're withholding that which she needs to get the job that she wants (and the reason for her attending the university in the first place)

      $75k is a little light. She could find justification for $750k if she tried just a little bit harder.

    2. Re:And we care..why ? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, an English degree. Wouldn't you be pissed if you worked on a chemical engineering degree and ended up with a BA in psychology?

  45. Don't you mean by jonathan3003 · · Score: 5, Funny

    Arrr.IAA?

    1. Re:Don't you mean by jimbojw · · Score: 1

      You can't spell "pIRAte conspirAcy" without "RIAA crypto spine".

    2. Re:Don't you mean by jwiegley · · Score: 1

      And just how long have you been waiting for the right moment to use that gem??

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  46. Re:Image is... something. by TobascoKid · · Score: 4, Insightful

    How are they going to feel, knowing that she's a party girl?

    Yeah, because only the truly debauched party at Halloween.

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  47. Re:Image is... something. by evilviper · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Obviously she wouldn't drink beer and wear a pirate suit in the classroom... but is this the image she wants to communicate with your classroom, who surely will see this at some point in time?

    A picture demonstrating that you're not a joyless machine doesn't make you a bad teacher.

    I've had plenty of teachers who dressed up in costumes from time to time, whether based on the subject at hand, or just for classes on Halloween...

    As for "beer," well... She's drinking out of a cup, there's no indication whether she's drinking beer, milk, soda, slim-fast, etc.

    And even if there was, there's absolutely nothing illegal, or morally wrong about drinking beer, or being seen drinking beer by people of any age... Now, if it was a beer bong, or drinking a full bottle of hard liquor, or something else clearly suggestive of irresponsible behavior, then you might have something. As is, from her picture I see nothing to suggest anything but a responsible adult.

    What's next, should we throw out teachers that put up pictures of themselves at a target-shooting competition, or driving in a professional or armature car race, because it promotes minors using guns, and speeding?
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  48. Let's see... by Count_Froggy · · Score: 1

    - Picture at a Halloween party - Picture in a plastic pirate's hat - School in question has a Pirate mascot - Cup in hand from a LOCAL CANDY COMPANY (Hershey, you listening to the disparagement of your products? How about taking a position on this?) - no indication if the stuff in the cup is more than water - Of legal drinking age (anyway) - fully dressed - no sign of intoxication, etc. - denied teachers certification on PICTURE discussed above????? SUE THEIR ASS FOR: - Tuition Reimbursement (Student AND any and all Children's education at a reputable school) - Lost Wages - Attorney's Fees - Defamation of Character - Pain and Suffering of the Student - Pain and Suffering of her children - Mocking the 'educational institutions of PA' - Defaming Hershey products (the REAL crime in PA) - Mocking of all other students of the school as 'Goody Two Shoes without a life.'

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    1. Re:Let's see... by locokamil · · Score: 1

      As a matter of fact, $75000 seems a little on the low side. Someone should encourage her to go for at least a couple of million dollars.

    2. Re:Let's see... by TheGuano · · Score: 1

      In fact, it's the lowest side possible--that's the jurisdictional amount threshold for filing a claim in Federal court. IMO it supports the idea that she's not in it for the money.

    3. Re:Let's see... by locokamil · · Score: 1

      If that's her intent, good for her... clearly she's a better member of society than the moral police who are persecuting her.

  49. Re:Image is... something. by jafiwam · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Coming from a guy that is overweight has terrible taste in web site colors, scamming his visitors for his pile of shit web site and quite obviously a pill popping faggot you got a lot of nerve making those assumptions.

  50. Fear the Moral police by AndOne · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The real problem is that there is a generational shift in attitudes and opinions in the US. And it scares the shit out of the older crowd. People have more sex, drink more freely and are generally more open about everything. Honestly, if I were a parent I'd reserve judgment for those teaching my kids based upon my childrens progress and learning. It scares me that so many people think that children should somehow get their morals from people they'll see actively for maybe a year or two. Any kid that bases his decision to drink on what his teacher did in a photo on myspace deserves the hangover.

    On a side note my 5th grade teacher told us about how he used to hunt jackrabbits from the back of a speeding pick up truck with his ex military brother. God that would've been a picture to see. A 35+ year old 5th grade teacher in the bed of a pick up with a high powered rifle. I wonder if that would've gotten his teaching license revoked. That sort of stunt could lead to far worse than drinking before you're 21.

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    1. Re:Fear the Moral police by locokamil · · Score: 1

      What makes it seem even more hypocritical to me is that the people in charge now are the same ones who were drunk, high and categorically not worried about AIDS through most of the 60s and 70s...

    2. Re:Fear the Moral police by 808140 · · Score: 1

      They may have been unconcerned about AIDS in the 60s and 70s because the first confirmed case was in 1981. Of course, there had been cases of HIV infection before that, but they were so sporadic that no one knew what they were and so they were not identified as such. For all intents and purposes, every kind of VD except herpes was curable in the 1960s and 1970s. Condoms do little to protect against HPV anyway. You can't really blame people for being unconcerned about a disease they didn't even know existed, and was so rare anyway that it might as well not have.

  51. You've got to be kidding me! by SweetComputerGuy · · Score: 1

    You mean she was denied her degree because of that pic? How the F!@K is that promoting underage drinking especially if she was 25 at the time. Second of all what was the university doing going through myspace? Third of all they're going to have to do better than that because how the f!@K can you see that she's drinking an alcoholic breverage? For all we know, she can be drinking milk, water, juice. So it wasn't because she was promoting underage drinking, that is the excuse that the university is using for like the other thread said she was wearing a pirate outfit and someone at the university didn't like it. Well so what, she has a life for god sakes, and obviously the university thinks you shouldn't. I hope someone from the university is reading this thread and if so let me be the first to say, "Not only should you award her degree, you SHOULD pay her back every dime she paid to attend your fu!@ing university to begin with, plus extra" Well I just needed to add this little bit, because I just think that's totally obsurd to do that to someone.

  52. Re:Image is... something. by Compholio · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I'm not so sure they would want an "uptight" person as their kid's teacher, but how about someone who might be coming to work all hung over, or at a minimum, "unfocused" on occasion?
    I know plenty of people that are just about to go into the workforce as engineers that have WAY worse photos on facebook. What if they go to work all hung over and build a building that falls down and kills a bunch people? Most people realize that those kind of activities occur after the work week is over. People need to realize that many people have lives outside of their jobs and that it is inappropriate to judge them based on their personal life.
  53. Every picture tells a story... by Sherloqq · · Score: 1

    ... and to me this one says "I could teach you many great things, not just social studies or history!"

    And I'm sure she could make a lot more money that way, too...

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  54. "Somebody think of the children" by Knutsi · · Score: 4, Insightful

    It's not encoureaging underage drinking, it's more of a sympthom of a society soaked in paranoia, unrealistic expectations and simplistic views of the world that clash with a modern age where a person's life and living will be more exposed and available.

    So we have two choices now: a.) remove the access to insight into our lives, or restrict it radically, or b.) realise that the people that take care of your children are humans too, with all that entails. There are no saints here. It's not a bad thing.

  55. What if we're missing something? by 91degrees · · Score: 1

    Perhaps she was asked to take the photo down, and refused. Perhaps she then launched into a tirade about how she should have the right to encourage kids to drink, and told them how she got a load of underage frat boys drunk and how she liked to drink and it never caused a problem, and alcohol keeps the kids relaxed (and please don't shout I've got a hangover). The board realised that she really shouldn't be teaching with this attitude, so they took this action. They don't comment on these matters and she contacted the newspapers and spun it as being all about the photo.

    Not saying this did happen, but if it did then how would we know?

  56. Re:Informative? by AbRASiON · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    ^^^^^ Aforementioned black man, trying to lay low.

  57. whoaaaa ... thwack by hpavc · · Score: 1

    clearly a ninja conspiracy.

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  58. Punitive damages by Dog-Cow · · Score: 1

    Not only do I hope she wins, I hope the Jury/Judge slaps the University with several million in punitive damages.

    It wasn't all that many years ago that drinking at any age was acceptable and normal. Only since clean drinking water and pasteurized milk has been available (200 or so years?) has alcohol NOT been the normal drink.

    1. Re:Punitive damages by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      agreed. the compensatory damages at 75k would be a pittance compared to what it will take to get this sort of lunacy under control. Hit them where it hurts and set a good precedent and maybe we can stop hearing about this type of thing happening every other week.

  59. let em know how you feel... by pfrCalif · · Score: 1
    Asshats. I love that they are hiding behind the affected student's right to privacy, yet wtf would they give her a different degree if it was an Academic issue? It makes no sense.

    Due to federal student privacy restrictions, the University is unable to directly respond to media accounts related to the case. The University notes, however, that all of its educational decisions are based on a full range of academic performance issues, not solely on a student's personal website or social networking site. The University is committed to maintaining the academic integrity of its academic programs and degrees and will vigorously defend itself and the actions of its employees in legal proceedings related to the lawsuit.
    Comments Page: http://www.millersville.edu/comments.php
  60. weird professors by scatbomb · · Score: 1

    So... before graduation do the professors have a big get-together and look up all their students' myspace profiles? Was one of her teachers a stalker? What the hell was their motivation for looking up her myspace page in the first place?

  61. Re:Image is... something. by Rob+the+Bold · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I wish her well in the lawsuit, but I think that if she really wants this career, she should take the following steps:

    By posting this, you are leaving evidence of your "I have better judgment than you" attitude on the internet. Have you considered the impact this will have on your career? And I'm showing my "attitude", too.

    It might be a good idea for all potential employers, whether would-be puritans or scowlers, to consider that any "attitude" gleaned from the web about someone could be a fictitious persona. To overlook good candidates for reasons like this is just a sign that it's a bad place to work. Because, unlike internet personas, that attitude taints an entire organization. And it leaves the good candidates to work for Cogswell Cogs, instead.

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  62. You obviously don't know any teachers by spamking · · Score: 1

    Where I live most teachers fresh out of college make a whopping $24-27K/year. So I'm not exactly sure what "private sector" you're referring to, but if I had to guess it'd be the manager of your local bowling alley.

    Back to the article in question . . . our society has become way over-reactive about this type of thing. Last time I checked, teachers are human (most of them anyway) and have every right to dress up like a freakin' drunken pirate (is there anyother kind?) if they want. Heck, I'd encourage it. It might've made 8th grade English more interesting.

    Sheesh people, chill out and let folks live their lives.

  63. OK? by kurtis25 · · Score: 0

    Her school is doing nothing more than punishing her except it happens to be near graduation. There isn't a free for all buffer around graduation if you violate the school policies close to graduation you may well get punished just like it was the middle of the year and get kicked out. I can't speak for her schools but there are schools that kick students out for having pictures like hers, she did something that would have gotten her kicked out if it was seen in October and now that it's May she is getting punished for it. The punishment shouldn't change because it's close to graduation. School policy doesn't read no drinking between September and March in April its ok to drink since we won't be able to punish you in the same way we could in October. She did something that was a violation of policy and the school is carrying out a standard punishment. Yes a few questions are raised: 1) Is a myspace photo of you being a drunken pirate equal to promoting underage drinking? 2) Is a myspace photo of you being a drunken pirate equal to public intoxication? 3) How should colleges handle discipline shortly before graduation? If I get drunk in October I would get kicked out of school but what should happen 5 days before graduation if I get drunk?

    1. Re:OK? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      She did something that was a violation of policy and the school is carrying out a standard punishment.
      So you say, but why should we believe a twice-convicted pedophile like you?
  64. Personal Responsibility by acoustix · · Score: 1

    Something isn't right with this story and I don't think we know both sides of the story yet. This whole MySpace, Facebook, etc... crowd is probably hurting themselves more by using these services than doing good. I know that my company checks all of the "social networking" sites when someone applies for a job and more times than not, their online profiles cast them in a negative light.

    Now before anyone accuses me of being a prude, I've done most things shown on myspace. I had a great time at college(s). There is a time and place to be crazy. When it's time to look for a job it would be best to clean up the online profiles or at least make them private.

    Nick

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    1. Re:Personal Responsibility by TobascoKid · · Score: 1

      I know that my company checks all of the "social networking" sites when someone applies for a job and more times than not, their online profiles cast them in a negative light.

      What do they expect? What people get up to in their off hours tends to be somewhat unprofessional. A company wouldn't inspect a potential employees homes, so why are they inspecting their social networking profiles?

      Very rarely does a person's private life significantly impact what they do at work in a negative way. Even things that are often promoted as "positive" (such as family or religious beliefs) could have a negative impact on an employee's performance. You can never be sure if what might not cause a problem with one person won't cause a problem with someone else. Sometimes something that would cause a problem with one employee will actually increase another employees performance.

      I think it's best for companies to keep their noses out of employee and potential employee private lives unless it is absolutely essential (which it's not, in most cases).

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    2. Re:Personal Responsibility by acoustix · · Score: 1

      Should employers do background checks? If my current employer has an applicant from Acme, Inc. and I used to work at Acme, Inc. does the employer have the right to ask me about my experience with the applicant?

      Seems to me that an employer has every right to decide what kind/type of person will be working for them.

      Nick

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    3. Re:Personal Responsibility by Adam+Hazzlebank · · Score: 1

      Something isn't right with this story and I don't think we know both sides of the story yet. This whole MySpace, Facebook, etc... crowd is probably hurting themselves more by using these services than doing good. I know that my company checks all of the "social networking" sites when someone applies for a job and more times than not, their online profiles cast them in a negative light. I dunno, some article say she was sending students to her myspace page. http://bbsnews.net/article.php/20070502234811315 Even so, people get fired/reprimanded for all sorts of reasons. Most of the time not really for the reason stated but for a arbitrary "how to we get rid of this person" reason. If she was directing her students to her myspace page (and seriously, that obviously not a good idea. I mean I personnally don't care but it's obviously something you could get in trouble for) then I can believe she was doing other things which warrant no awarding her the certificate.
    4. Re:Personal Responsibility by TobascoKid · · Score: 1

      does the employer have the right to ask me about my experience with the applicant

      But that is entirely work based and related to the job - looking at what somebody gets up to in the 16 hours of the day that aren't working is different.

      Seems to me that an employer has every right to decide what kind/type of person will be working for them.

      In which case, you'll end up allowing unfair discrimination. Let's say someone doesn't like black people, homosexuals and christians (and especially black homosexual christians) - do they have a right to not hire someone who is black and/or homosexual and/or christian simply because of they are black and/or homosexual and/or christian? After all, they aren't the kind of people they want working for them.

      Other than for matters that directly affect the applicant's ability to do a job, what does the "kind" of person they are matter?

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    5. Re:Personal Responsibility by acoustix · · Score: 1
      In which case, you'll end up allowing unfair discrimination. Let's say someone doesn't like black people, homosexuals and christians (and especially black homosexual christians) - do they have a right to not hire someone who is black and/or homosexual and/or christian simply because of they are black and/or homosexual and/or christian? After all, they aren't the kind of people they want working for them.

      Discrimination is apart of every hire for every company whether you like it or not.

      Nick

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    6. Re:Personal Responsibility by TobascoKid · · Score: 1

      Discrimination is apart of every hire for every company whether you like it or not.

      But not unfair discrimination.

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  65. School Spirit by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Millersville's mascot is a marauder. She's basically just showing school spirit--that Mr. Goodbar cup probably contains grog.

  66. Pirates were underaged ? by unity100 · · Score: 1

    I didnt know ...

    Im sure blackbeard, captain blood, francis drake, hawkins and others would disagree.

  67. Well then by styryx · · Score: 1

    By that reasoning (fhink of teh childwen) what the hell would you do with THIS GUY?

  68. Re:Sometimes you need to think about your future by koreaman · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    No, it's like eating a plate of food, you retarded asshole. Learn the difference between nouns and verbs.

  69. Re:Image is... something. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    > I know plenty of people that are just about to go into the workforce as engineers that have WAY worse photos on facebook.

    Insensitive clod! Links?

  70. HR Perspective by crashley · · Score: 1

    Several people I know from HR have mentioned that the act of looking at websites with the intention of looking up applicants is not legal. This is because the hiring agent has a chance to learn more about the applicant than they should know for job purposes such as age, if they are married, have kids, are homo/heterosexual, have drinking problems etc. All of these are questions that cannot be asked in an interview because they could possibly lead to discriminating against the applicant. The same becomes true if someone researches an applicant online.

    The young lady in the story has a very strong case for discrimination, maybe the people who originally saw the page are against drinking, or maybe they felt that she has a drinking problem and might come to work drunk. So because of their personal feelings towards alcohol they presented a case to have her teaching credentials stopped. The plaintiff has a strong argument because proving that you were not discriminated against is pretty difficult.

    I know that many companies do use websites to investigate future employees, but when it happens you don't ever admit to it. Or you open yourself up to the same kind of lawsuit.

    1. Re:HR Perspective by geekoid · · Score: 1

      I doubt it is illegal to look people up. I would like to see a link.

      However, it does open them up for lawsuits. SO it is certianly a good policy not to do look people up.
      But policy doesn't not equal the law. As some HRs seem to think.

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  71. Digging a little deeper by Mortanius · · Score: 4, Interesting
    A little more digging turns up some of the finer points of the fight that aren't necessarily reported in the Washington Post article. For example, this article from the Sydney Morning Herald states:

    Snyder did her student-teaching at Conestoga Valley High School in 2006.

    Conestoga Valley officials told the college they would stop accepting student-teachers from Millersville if she went unpunished, the lawsuit said.

    Which leads one to believe that the university was being pressured from the district to do something about her and let them save face. Presumably the district feels they're in a position of enough power (taking on most of their students for their student teaching assignments?) that they could do this.

    However, if you look at the response from Conestoga Valley, available on their website here, they state that's untrue, and include some more information not linked in the Washington Post article, including what they claim is the offending Myspace blog post which is not the picture hosted by thesmokinggun.com which the WP article links to. It could be a little damning towards her if you believe the district that she was actively encouraging the kids to go to her Myspace page, but then, not knowing what her page is (I would imagine by now it's either been deleted or locked down anyway) it'd be hard to say whether the content therein is really unacceptable for the students to see.

    One quote from their response troubles me to some degree though, from her cooperating teacher, Nicole Reinking:

    One of the concerns that Ms. Snyder's cooperating teacher, Nicole Reinking, expressed to Ms. Snyder throughout the semester was the importance of maintaining a professional working relationship with the students and not to become overly familiar with them regarding her personal life.

    Certainly that can be taken any number of ways, some good, some bad, but taking it simply at face value, it saddens me to see where education has gone these days. Growing up in rural Maine (not that there's really any other kind of Maine :-P) we were all very friendly with our teachers, they would regularly invite our classes to their houses for cookouts and such, we didn't turn out so bad. But that's an entirely different discussion.

    Regardless, in the end I'm a little surprised and frightened that a university feels they have the ability to do this. That after someone has paid them tens of thousands of dollars for their education, and has presumably satisfactorily completed the academic requirements, they can one day before graduation tell you "Yeah, we're not going to give you the degree you wanted, have this English degree instead." What's to keep them from doing that to someone else because they don't like brunettes or people from Alaska? (Don't answer that, I know it's a stupid question. :-P) At the very least, if her performance in the field so to speak was the cause of their decision, say so. Naturally (as would be standard practice at any univeristy, I'd assume) the only mention of it on their website at the moment is a brief aside that they can't say anything publicly.
    1. Re:Digging a little deeper by b0s0z0ku · · Score: 1
      Growing up in rural Maine (not that there's really any other kind of Maine :-P) we were all very friendly with our teachers, they would regularly invite our classes to their houses for cookouts and such, we didn't turn out so bad.

      Same with quite a few teachers and coaches in not-so-rural NJ. No that reason teachers shouldn't be able to treat their pupils as humans rather than a mere product of the machine.

      -b.

    2. Re:Digging a little deeper by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      Growing up in rural Maine (not that there's really any other kind of Maine :-P) we were all very friendly with our teachers, they would regularly invite our classes to their houses for cookouts and such, we didn't turn out so bad.

      There's a difference between that kind of interaction and the kind where you direct your students to photos of you drunk on the web. Aparrently she had been directing students to her myspace page where photos other than the one in the article were hosted, had been asked to stop doing so, and kept refusing.

      I agree that there can be a great benefit in personal relationships between students and teachers, but there are boundaries of appropriateness. Crossing those boundaries can greatly reduce the ability of a teacher to be effective at their job.

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    3. Re:Digging a little deeper by borkus · · Score: 1
      Actually, the key quote from the article is this -

      Snyder received "superior" or "competent" ratings on her final student-teacher evaluation in all areas except "professionalism," in which she was labeled "unsatisfactory," according to the suit filed last week. Student teaching is generally not graded, but you do have at least pass it. I think that a rating of unsatisfactory even in one area would be enough to "fail". Also, you usually have interim evaluations, so this shouldn't have been a surprise to Snyder. If Snyder's cooperating teacher observed and documented other instances of unprofessional behavior, then the Myspace pic is merely icing on the cake. In short, Ms. Snyder failed the one class she needed to pass to get her teaching degree.

      It is also possible that Snyder and her cooperating teacher were a bad match - some folks just don't get along. But like any boss/employee relationship, the responsibility ultimately lies on the employee to make it work. Based on my own experience's as a student teacher as well as my fellow student teachers', some coordinating teachers are easier to work with than others.

      Even if she had passed her student teaching, the picture was a bad idea. Any principal considering her would immediately imagine the conversation he'd have with some irate (albeit wrongheaded) parent and determine that she wasn't worth the hassle.

    4. Re:Digging a little deeper by Mortanius · · Score: 1

      There's a difference between that kind of interaction and the kind where you direct your students to photos of you drunk on the web.

      There definitely is, and yes, she did cross the line with that. Perhaps I'm reading too much into the quote, but I'm just concerned by the wording allegedly coming from the other teacher, almost that she's telling her not to get involved with the children is all.
    5. Re:Digging a little deeper by Mortanius · · Score: 1

      It all sounds like yet another continuation of the separation of work and personal life.

      She's certainly free to have a myspace account and post whatever she wants in it, but if she leaves it wide open then she should be prepared to face consequences for it because yes, someone may find it and it may well influence a hiring decision.

      Though she did take it a step further, advertising it to the children and the teachers at the school, pretty much forcing the issue.

      To me, it sounds like she may have just been an overzealous I-can-do-what-I-want-and-you-can't-touch-me slightly naive college grad (albeit with two kids, you'd hope that she'd have learned that's not always the case already.) To me, it would seem the happy ending would be she learns her lesson, demonstrates such, and is able to redeem herself to the university and the school she was teaching at, gets her degree, goes on her way and goes on to educate our kids and set good examples for them. That's of course assuming the lawsuit is just posturing on her part and it ends in a simple settlement or just gets dropped altogether. Given the day and age, I don't have a lot of faith that it will though, unfortunately.

    6. Re:Digging a little deeper by thesandtiger · · Score: 1

      In most instances, I'd say that a teacher being asked to not get involved is a bad thing - but in most instances, the teachers in question have an understanding of what appropriate behavior and boundaries are. In this case, the teacher in question may very well not have that understanding.

      So, generally, yeah - you're definitely right. In this case... Well, we have a shortage of teachers, and she wants to be a teacher - maybe letting her teach but suggesting she should keep the relationship strictly schoolroom is a better approach.

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    7. Re:Digging a little deeper by JosefK · · Score: 1

      To me, it sounds like she may have just been an overzealous I-can-do-what-I-want-and-you-can't-touch-me slightly naive college grad

      Or she may have been an overzealous, hey-kids-look-I-have-a-myspace-page-and-put-stupid -pictures-of-myself-on-there-too-so-I'm-cool-and-y ou-can-be-my-friend naive college grad.

    8. Re:Digging a little deeper by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If she had failed the evaluation, then one would assume that would be more than sufficient reason for her not receiving the teaching certificate. Why would the MySpace photos even have to be mentioned? It almost seems like someone is trotting out that evaluation as a bit of "damage control".

  72. Re:Image is... something. by Peeteriz · · Score: 1

    On the other hand, teachers (just as any other people) should be able to openly, publicly party, drink, have wild promiscuous sex, and do any other legal activities as soon as their workday has ended - and not have to fear about her job or degree.
        The school and parents can decide the rules for behaving and dressing in the classroom, but it's not appropriate, (IANAL) not legal, and not moral for them to have any say whatsoever about what she does in her private life.
        And her private life (that's supposed to be none of her employers business) includes things that she does openly, in public places, or on the internet, or on public TV, as long as they are allowed by law.

  73. Those kids are lost anyway by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I'm very positve that the parents of most of the kids she's going to teach, were engaded in sexual intercourse! What can you expect from children, whose parents engage in sexual intercourse?

    Doesn't matter if they are taught by someone who drank alcohol. They are lost anyway.

  74. How is it a crime? by Try+a+little+harder · · Score: 1

    Have they looked? She's drinking from a cup of Goodbar chocolate milk!

  75. Re:Image is... something. by Steve525 · · Score: 1

    I see your point about a teacher creating the proper image both in and out of the classroom. But for crying out loud, what to expect a 20 something person to do in her spare time? Do you expect her to spend her weekends crocheting, or out with her friends having a good time like every other person her age?

    OK, maybe it wasn't the best judgement for her to put a picture up of herself having a good time on the web for everyone to see. (We wouldn't want to ruin our fantasy of teachers spending their weekends crocheting). The original picture had a caption under it which said "Drunken Pirate", which some could construe that implies that it's fun to get drunk. Personally, I think it's just a silly joke, and a silly joke the likes of which any kid (who has internet access and some freedom) has already been exposed to 100's of times.

    I think a lot of this problem is due to a culture clash. Kids and young adults are used to putting up pictures and stuff on the web to share their good times with their friends. Older adults aren't used to this, and make too big a deal about it. To some extent the older adults are trying to impose their order (and view of how the world should be) on the younger generation. Same story with every generation.

  76. The great minds of tomorrow by delire · · Score: 2, Funny
    1. Re:The great minds of tomorrow by catdevnull · · Score: 1

      I wish I had mod points today. +5 for funny.

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  77. Begs a different observation by HangingChad · · Score: 1

    This whole trend of trying to regulate what people do on their on their own time is getting totally out of hand. In business, government and academia. Why would it be so hard just for everyone to accept that some of their employees are going to do embarrassing things and sometimes end up on the internet? Or that they're going to hold political opinions that might not be shared by their employer?

    If it were up to me, as long as it's not illegal it shouldn't be grounds for termination. Everyone's all for free speech as long as it doesn't apply to their employees or students. Baloney. Time to grow up and accept that people are allowed to say and do things you might find distasteful, even if you're their employer. Unless it's a threat of violence or libel, free speech should win out over corporate image.

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    1. Re:Begs a different observation by MikeBabcock · · Score: 1

      In fact, even if it is illegal, it shouldn't be grounds for termination. Only if it prevents you from doing your job properly should it be an issue at all. If you lost your license due to a DUI and you're a driver for a living, you'll get fired. If you got a DUI and you work as a check-out clerk at W*lmart, what's it to them?

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  78. Huh. by GoblinJuice · · Score: 1

    My gut reaction to this story is "there's gotta be more to this." Also, my gut wants a Choco Taco.

  79. Re:Sometimes you need to think about your future by Carewolf · · Score: 1

    Maybe it's more like grubing a plate of grub?

  80. Legal drinking inherently promotes illegal drinkin by skorf · · Score: 1

    All people who drink, especially when they are over the age of 21, are promoting underage drinking. Drinking makes you look like a cool adult to underagers. Underagers want to be cool adults; therefore, you MUST be promoting it. Infallible logic fellas.

  81. She was lucky... by vorlich · · Score: 1

    stopped her from experiencing years of unadulterated misery as it gradually dawned on her that a) school is prison and b) those who are condemned to live shall have their heads stuffed.

    Universities should do this on a grand scale - helping to eliminate this sort of thinking in a single generation. Next target will be people who "walked on the cracks in the pavement", people who look "funny"and anyone who says "bottom".

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  82. One bad choice can ruin your entire life. by LWATCDR · · Score: 1

    That is just a statement of fact. If you decide to drive drunk, have unprotected sex, or even speed it can ruin your life and or somebody else's.
    Getting kicked out of a university for drinking a beer seems extreme but are they expelled for life or just a semester? If it was just a semester and it was a published rule then hey he decided that a beer was worth getting kicked out. He is in university now not kindergarten.

    Now the kid the got put into a special school for making a game map of his high school is just wrong. What rule did he break? What crime? None that I know of.

    As for the merry days of hippie culture? They are a myth. Many women ended up being single parents when the summer of love was over. Then you have the Rolling Stones deciding that Hell's Angels make great concert security... The 60s where at time of self indulgent drivel that went on into the 70s and ended with the mega greed of the 80s. Do the math if you want proof. 18 in 1965 28 in 1975 38 in 1985. The end result of hippie culture is the greed is good culture of the 80s.

    Everything looks better in retrospect.

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  83. Re:umm - throwing the BS flag by Bob-taro · · Score: 1

    1. "I hate my profligate urges, but at least I can feel better about them by cracking down on yours."
    2. "Hey, no fair getting laid twice a week! My husband barely wants me once a month!"
    3. Them: "Promiscuous behavior is immoral because it creates unintentional babies."
    You: "But birth control ends that risk; therefore, there is no longer any basis for condemning promiscuous behavior. Your moral rule is obsolete." Them: "Then to protect morality, we must ban birth control."
    News flash: birth control doesn't eliminate the risk. It greatly reduces it, but does not eliminate it. Only abstinence eliminates the risk of STDs and pregnancy. And just because you don't understand the reason for a rule (moral, law, whatever) doesn't necessarily mean there isn't a reason. I'm not even against birth control, but I am against BS, and someone telling my kids, "if you use birth control you eliminate the risk" is irresponsible B.S.!
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  84. I bet this won't make it to trial... by kannibul · · Score: 1

    The thing I see is a woman with a mock pirate hat on, drinking from a cup. What's in the cup? Tea, milk, water, pop, juice...

  85. Why this girl? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There are millions of drunk college kids who graduate every year...

  86. New definition of underage drinking. by insanemime · · Score: 1

    This is a lesson to everyone who goes to parties and has someone take their picture. Wearing a pirate hat while holding a cup and giving the "peace" sign constitutes underage drinking no matter what age you are. Beware, peace sign giving, cup holding, pirate hat wearing can lead to harder things like Tumbler holding and even beanie wearing. Just say no kids.

  87. I could be terribly wrong... by LLKrisJ · · Score: 1

    ... but wasnt the American President George W. Bush known to snort a good deal of coke back in the day??? Not two mention both of his dumbass doughters and their love for lady alcohol. They deny a simple girl her precious certificate and yet you make a mentally challenged former cokehead one of the most powerfull people on earth? This scrares the s**t out of me :s Go figure...

  88. civil discovery is fun by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Plaintiff's Requests for Production of Documents

    1. Any and all photographs of any member of the faculty possessing or consuming alcohol.

    2. All receipts for alcohol purchased for any university event.

    3. A list of all meetings, including times and locations, with any representative, administrator, or board member of the Conestoga Valley School District, including but not limited to dinners, lunches, and receptions.

    YIIALBIANYL. GYOGDL. YMNO.

  89. Re:umm - throwing the BS flag by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    News Flash:Hyperbole

    Because someone says "all" doesn't mean they mean "all" or "every". It would be like myself saying "I always catch a ball if it's thrown at me". It doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand that they don't mean 100%, but most people have the common knowledge that birth control is around 99% effective(if taken properly), which for some people is "good enough" to constitute the use of the word "all".

    You don't need to be a technical Nazi to also understand that his statements are in quotes and are meant to give more of a narrative 'human' response and is not meant to be a technical specification for research analysis. Or did you forget you're posting on /.?

  90. NYC Teaching Union by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Um... No. At least, it can go too far in the other direction. It's so hard to fire a teacher in New York that there's a building where they send teachers who they can't possibly keep in a classroom with children. The worst of the worst, I suppose you might say. They get paid, because they can't be fired, but they're not teaching anything, and it wouldn't be responsible--or even safe--to let them.

  91. News is wrong! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I go to Millersville, and am an Education Major there as well. They DID NOT take away her degree, the STATE OF PENNSYLVANIA did. It's part of the "PA State system of teaching and ethics." Millersville did NOT find the photos, the teacher for Conestoga valley did. She did not lose her degree, she lost her certification (which she didn't have yet, it would be like failing student teaching).

    This student WAS WARNED on several occasions to take down her pictures, she did not, thus the consequences.

    When you sign up to be an education major, you basically agree you will not make any posts, including pictures, or videos that show you drinking, using drugs, etc... something a student in your school would find. She posted the picture with the caption "drunkin pirate".

    There have been many other students that have been denied their education certifications base on many smaller factors, so her case is no different. Why make an exception for her?

    She's a single mother, with 3 kids working as a nanny, she's looking for upwards of a 1/2 million dollars. Which is absolutely ridiculous.

    I hope any judge throws this case out the window.

    1. Re:News is wrong! by fishbowl · · Score: 1


      "She's a single mother, with 3 kids working as a nanny, she's looking for upwards of a 1/2 million dollars. Which is absolutely ridiculous."

      From her point of view, a state institution abridged her First Amendment Rights.
      She could be asking for billions.

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    2. Re:News is wrong! by Bloke+down+the+pub · · Score: 1

      I go there too, and you're a lying cunt.

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    3. Re:News is wrong! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      An AC who claims to be an education student at Millersville writes: When you sign up to be an education major, you basically agree you will not make any posts, including pictures, or videos that show you drinking, using drugs, etc... something a student in your school would find.

      I can understand asking education students not to post photographic proof of their engaging in illegal activity (using drugs or personally engaging in underage drinking), but what would make any school think it has the right to prevent an education student from posting a picture of him or herself engaged in completely legal activity, and one that is extremely normal in every part of the country to boot?

      Why would someone care if a student saw a picture of an instructor engaged in a legal activity? Furthermore, I don't care if instead of having a picture of herself holding a container of an unknown beverage, she had an extensive screed advocating the lowering of the drinking age to 12, she's doing it on her own time.

      Other schools have tried this kind of thing and guess what, they lose.

  92. Lets see... legal standpoint from a non lawyer... by AlthalusUK · · Score: 1

    Ok, so ... how to rip this apart...
    1... She's 27, this was 2005.. making her... 25 ... drinking age in the US is 21... making her 4 yrs older than the legal limit... now, I'm not a major in math (so my math here could be... ok, so it's not wrong :P) but surely... being over the legal age makes one legally allowed to drink at a party ..
    2... she's drinking coolaid. (proove it)
    3... There has to be some obscure state law where she is allowing pirates to consume rum after 7pm or something! I mean, hell in Morrisvill, PA You need a permit to wear make-up if your a woman Here
    4... It should not be the place of the educational intitution to decree what is morally acceptable for an adult, it is for society as a whole to judge ... if she went to work in a school and offered a child some alcohol then fine, sack her... but until then she's done nothing wrong (innocent until proven guilty!)
    I'm sure someone will add more funny reasons why this is going to get laughed out of court.. should be entertaining to see :)

  93. Re:umm - throwing the BS flag by elrous0 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Only abstinence eliminates the risk of STDs and pregnancy.

    No it doesn't. There is still a 0.001% chance of contracting an STD from a gynecologist visit, a 0.0012% chance of contracting genital warts from a toilet seat, a 0.0019% chance of becoming pregnant while being unconscious and raped during any given hospital stay, etc.

    The only SURE way to avoid STD's and pregnancy is a successful suicide. So I would like to encourage my right-wing religious friends to consider that as an option--if you TRULY want to remain pure, that is. It's the only way to be sure.

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  94. Teachers and Myspace by csavage · · Score: 1

    Having a wife in education, and after reading this article (http://bbsnews.net/article.php/20070502234811315) , I would agree with the discipline of the student teacher. My wife is going through something very similar now, where a student teacher posted very negative comments about a student on her myspace page. It would seem there is more to the issue here than just a picture of a woman drinking. All of you reactionaries who are declaring that puritanism is back, really need to research beyond the submitter's original submission. The aforementioned news story from the town this occurred in says this woman encouraged children to have personal contact with her outside of school. That's a no-no for any school district, and common sense for any teacher because of all the problems that can occur. This wasn't just about myspace, it was about maintaining a proper student-teacher relationship, something that will impact this woman's future in teaching.

    1. Re:Teachers and Myspace by kobaz · · Score: 1

      The aforementioned news story from the town this occurred in says this woman encouraged children to have personal contact with her outside of school. That's a no-no for any school district

      Uhh, I don't know where your from, but where I went to high school it was pretty common (for me anyway) to get a teachers home phone if you were very friendly with them. Although this wasn't some random teacher, they were people I had known for a number of years who shared very similar interests and happened to make very good friends with. So I wouldn't say it would be "common sense" for a teacher to avoid that type of thing. But I would say they should use common sense during interactions. There is nothing inherently wrong with teachers interacting with students outside of class.

      I've had teachers throw barbeque's after the semester ended, hold little parties if they were moving away... although only students who had a personal rapport would have been invited.

      I don't see any reason for a broad thing against teachers having personal interaction with students outside of school as long as the teacher isn't molesting or anything.

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    2. Re:Teachers and Myspace by quag7 · · Score: 1

      This reminded me of a teacher I had in high school was was, more than most, buddy-buddy with students. He was the basketball coach and coaching basketball was clearly his greater love, rather than teaching. In the beginning of each class, one of two things would happen which would waste well over 9 out of 10 classes in terms of getting anything done -

      #1, someone would bring up basketball, which often led to a period-long argument about it. Pressing this guy's buttons was easy when it came to sports, and people would do it.

      #2, I would engage him in an infuriating political argument because for some reason this guy, jock to the core, had strong political principals (he was a liberal - at the time, I was not. This was in the late 80s.) Often we'd go back and forth for 40 minutes.

      Eventually he would have to give a test and he would spend the night before the test reading the questions from the test and covering everything on it bullet-point by bullet-point, which made studying...a breeze. (This was a social studies class)

      Anyway, during one of these period-long digressions from the curriculum, someone brought up Welcome Back, Kotter. For those who haven't seen this show, it was a 70s TV show about a teacher in Brooklyn who went back to teach at the same school he, himself, was a student at. His students would regularly visit him at his apartment. Someone asked this teacher (a well-liked guy, even by me) how he would react if students or his basketball team dropped by or otherwise encountered him outside of school.

      He said that he'd close the door in the face of anyone who dared try to find him at home. I don't think anyone was offended. I cannot understand how or why a teacher would have any interest whatsoever in encountering students outside of the classroom, especially socially.

  95. r-K selection by SgtChaireBourne · · Score: 1

    The fact is, children require sacrifice, and when given the option many people will just avoid sacrificing.

    Actually, not always. The groups that breed like cockroaches don't necessarily invest heavily or even much in their offspring. r-K selection is an aspect of natural selection described by one of two extremes. In an r scenario, high volume, high churn is the name of the game: produce as many as fast as possible and some will live to reproduce. In a K scenario, emphasis is on a longer development and is more useful in a more stable environment: produce only a few, but make sure they're really good.

    These strategies apply to primates as well.

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  96. I give her credit, too. by luckingfame · · Score: 1

    It would have been really easy for her to turn this around and sue for some ridiculous amount of money, but $75k is pretty modest for the most part. Probably the same amount that one would spend getting a teaching degree from a private institution.

  97. At least drinking is better than smoking.. by Glove+d'OJ · · Score: 1
    At least drinking is better than smoking...


    Cigars.


    And lying about it.


    Ok, so "smoking" isn't completely accurate... but you get the picture.


    (Shudder.)


    Ok, DON'T picture it...

  98. It wasn't the picture - read the article by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    It was the fact that she repeatedly encouraged students to visit her myspace page, even after she was told to stop. In so doing she was not maintaining the line between her personal and professional life.

    The way that that picture promotes underage alcohol use is that she was encouraging underage students to see pictures of her drinking, which they might imitate. It isn't addressed in the article, but I'd suspect that they also didn't really like the fact that students could find out that she was a single mom of two. (Might give some teenagers the idea that they could swing that as well.)

    Having seen that, I have to say that I understand why they did what they did. I disagree with it, but that is more because I disagree with the rule than because I think the rule was unfairly enforced.

    1. Re:It wasn't the picture - read the article by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Then they should have made the reason for withholding the teaching certificate be solely her academic/professional performance (aka grades, result of internships, etc), with no mention of the content of her MySpace page. That someone is rolling out the "poor performance" reason now looks suspecious, even if it was the motivating factor, because someone dropped the ball originally by mentioning the contents of the MySpace page.

  99. She WAS denied her chosen livelihood... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    Having read some of the associated articles, it sounds like her mentor at Conestoga HS had told her that she had to maintain a more professional image in front of her students. There was apparently a specific objection to her maintaining a MySpace web presence that was visited by at least one student. Presumably the pirate photo was used as an example of this broader behavior.

    My thinking is that social networking through MySpace and similar web sites, and also blogging, are too new for anyone to be making determinations about what constitutes appropriate behaviors on them. However there is clearly one teacher at Conestoga HS who has decided that it is unprofessional for a teacher to have such a web presence that students could easily access; that this bordered on fraternizing with the students. And this one teacher has been able to persuade the credentialing body at uni to withhold her Teaching Certificate.

    I think it is unfortunate that any representative of the teaching profession feels that the only contact a professional teacher should have with any student is in the classroom. This is a confusion of specific, limited roles (teacher, student) with the holistic individuals who play those roles for only a few hours a day, a few days each week. I think most teachers are bright enough to find other ways of using their professional persona, without crippling the other aspects of their life.

    Having spent a miserable Senior year at Conestoga HS, I can state that it was one of the most overtly racist and class-conscious institutions I have encountered in my 50+ years. It is also the only place where I have ever heard faculty describe their institution as a "factory" whose purpose is to churn out "quality product". I can well imagine that faculty at Conestoga are having difficulty coming to terms with web technology, where the age, sex, race, style of attire, and other clues to social status of persons you might exchange emails with are not available.

    Racism and class consciousness are not part of the internet experience: you, Dear Reader, have no clue to my race, social standing, etc, etc, beyond what I might choose to tell you (and even then you have no way to verify). The racism and class consciousness that so badly mars that part of Pennsylvania (the Main Line suburbs of Philadelphia) cannot survive without those little clues. People who willingly participate on the web are a direct threat to a very narrow and ugly way of life there.

  100. Re:Image is... something. by blcamp · · Score: 1


    I wasn't questioning her judgment for drinking and partying, but the fact that she posted it online for the whole world to see, including any prospective school (employer), it's students, thier parents, and others who may be interested.

    I'm not suggesting that having a good time on your own time is wrong, by any stretch of the imagination. Rather, that she should have thought about the implications of publicly documenting her personal activities where it could come in potential conflict with that of her profession.

    Like it or not, right or wrong, everyone makes judgements. And you sure as hell don't want to be on the wrong end of an unfavorable one from your employer, because that will hit you directly where you live.

    As for your assessment of my original post as an "I have better judgment than you" attitude on the internet... the nature of your own response comes off to me as a proverbial Pot Calling The Kettle Black.

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  101. The only thing wrong with her suit is... by mikerich · · Score: 1

    ...she's not demanding enough. $75,000 damages? In this day and age? In America? What sort of lawyers has she got? Let's add a couple of zeroes to that number - then we'll be talking about teaching the university a lesson it won't forget.

    1. Re:The only thing wrong with her suit is... by TheGuano · · Score: 1

      $75,000 (or rather, "in excess of") is the minimum "jurisdictional amount" of damages you must claim to bring a case in federal court.

      It doesn't sound like she's after the money, she just wants justice (and her degree).

  102. chocolate milk in the cup! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    plausible denial.

  103. Not a straw man by Per+Abrahamsen · · Score: 5, Insightful

    > Isn't that what they call a straw man argument...

    Nope. It would be a straw man argument if he claimed these were the spoken arguments against birth control. But he doesn't, he speculate that these are the unspoken reasons (at least #1 and #2).

    It does show a total lack of respect for the opponents. Nothing wrong with that. The official spoken arguments for certain positions, such as alien visitors, creationism or the immorality of birth control are utterly insane. Trying to counter them with rational arguments are a total waste of time, as they are not based on rational thinking.

    It is much more productive to try to analyze which emotional needs makes people hold to these irrational positions. Once you understand the true reasoning behind them, you can start working on filling the emotional need the motivates them, and the positions become irrelevant.

    > You have put those with different opinions than you in a box, and then made up there thoughts so
    > you can be better than them... isn't that what your post was complaining about in the first
    > place?

    Nope, he was complaining about people trying to control others behavior. Not about people trying to change others opinions.

    1. Re:Not a straw man by grassy_knoll · · Score: 1

      It is much more productive to try to analyze which emotional needs makes people hold to these irrational positions. Once you understand the true reasoning behind them, you can start working on filling the emotional need the motivates them, and the positions become irrelevant.


      So, you're implying that people act more on emotion than on rational choices?

      That scares me, so you're wrong.

      [yes... it's a joke.]
    2. Re:Not a straw man by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It does show a total lack of respect for the opponents. Nothing wrong with that. The official spoken arguments for certain positions, such as alien visitors, creationism or the immorality of birth control are utterly insane. Trying to counter them with rational arguments are a total waste of time, as they are not based on rational thinking.


      while i will not defend most creationists, creationism, in and of itself, is not irrational. some of its advocates are - that's for sure.

      here's why i believe in creationism.

      1. the law of biogenesis. is taking a stand opposing a law that has borne out over the entirety of all human knowledge rational?
      2. th eworld we live in is discrete, not continuous. macro-evolution points toward a continuous world, not a discrete one. it has no answers for the discreet world we live in.
      3. macro-evolution should lead to numerous transitional entities THAT EXIST TODAY. the idea that EVERY SINGLE TRANSITIONAL ENTITY is automatically put into extinction is, frankly, irrational. a cat and a dog don't have the same adaptability to a given environment, YET THEY BOTH SURVIVE JUST FINE. so, where is the transitional cat? where is the transition dog? repeat about a million times. nada, zip, zilch, zero.
      4. the fossil record is weak. http://research.unc.edu/endeavors/spr97/bird.html . Archaeopteryx is usually one of the first alledged "proofs" of a transitionary entity, yet, a staunch evolutionist basically points out that idea is, well, a bit irrational.
      5. macro-evolutionists point to animals moving from land to sea... yet they never discuss an advantage of a hybrid land/water based ear to a land dweller or a sea dweller. the fact is, a hybrid ear IS A DISADVANTAGE in either environment and should, according to darwin's macro-evolutionary ideas, hit the round file of history. NO WONDER NO SUCH EAR HAS EVER BEEN FOUND TO EXIST. the macro-evolutionists don't need no stinking evidence! it just happened, TRUST US.

      now, i'm not saying macro-evolution doesn't exist in one form or another. maybe, maybe not. the evidence is weak, imho. when your entire foundation is based on an opposing view to one of the most well established LAWS, i wouldn't run around claiming to be the holy grail of rationality. you would, but not i.

      now, getting all the worthless stuff out of the way, the creator is about relationships. relationships can potentially last forever - so that's where the creator invests himself. there is a way of life that leads to happiness, joy, prosperity and peace for both the person and the community and there is your way of life that doesn't. and my way of life that doesn't.

      it is easy to prove jesus and the bible wrong. if the world could selfishly live in peace and harmony, god would be proven to be wrong. as it stands, nearly 200,000,000 died in wars over the last century. ~10,000 people die of starvation each and every day - TODAY.

      this was predicted 2,000 years ago, in spite of the also predicted information revolution. he knew the flaw wasn't in knowledge, or the lack thereof, rather, it was a fundamental character flaw in humanity.

      lucky guess, right? funny, though, he's right and humanity can't prove him wrong - even if they tried. why? he's 100% right.

      i have no issue with your FAITH that the law of biogenesis is a fraud. but don't start calling other people irrational when your pot is so black.
    3. Re:Not a straw man by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Nope, he was complaining about people trying to control others behavior. Not about people trying to change others opinions.

      And by changing someone's opinion, you are hoping to influence his behavior, and when influencing, you always have an end in mind, therefore you must of meant control.

    4. Re:Not a straw man by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      The official spoken arguments for certain positions, such as [...] the immorality of birth control are utterly insane.

      Logically speaking, cows and pigs are much more intelligent and autonomous than the average newborn baby, so why is it okay to kill them and not the child?

      Perhaps a good place to draw the line is if the creature can pass the mirror test. If something is self-aware, it's wrong to kill. Makes sense. And human kids can't pass the mirror test until they're 1.5 to 2 years old, so that's where we should draw the abortion line.

      If you say that humans deserve special consideration, then I'd say you're arguing out of emotion instead of reason.

      Drawing the line at the second trimester is just as illogical as drawing the line at conception. It's just that the former is far more convenient.

      (And I actually am pro-abortion. I'm just not a smug elitist about my arbitrary line in the sand.)
    5. Re:Not a straw man by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      So you think sperm is self-aware?

      Unless I'm missing something, the discussion was about the immorality of birth control, not abortion. There's a bit of a difference.

    6. Re:Not a straw man by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      Where have you been? Rational behavior in humans is so rare as to be an aberration.

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    7. Re:Not a straw man by Redlazer · · Score: 2, Funny
      but don't start calling other people irrational when your pot is so black.

      Hey now.

      No need to bring racism into this.

      -Red

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    8. Re:Not a straw man by warpSpeed · · Score: 1
      Unless I'm missing something, the discussion was about the immorality of birth control, not abortion. There's a bit of a difference.

      Unless you consider abortion as a form of birth control. It does not sound pretty, but it is what many women (if not most) use it for.

    9. Re:Not a straw man by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      You're obviously trying to push an agenda here. No woman in her right mind would get pregnant and have an abortion if a contraceptive is available and works properly.

      The parent poster was obviously talking about contraceptives, not abortions. Stop trying to insert your opinion somewhere where it's not relevant.

    10. Re:Not a straw man by jkauzlar · · Score: 1

      ...therefore, the only plausible alternative is that God (i.e. the Christian God) created Adam and Eve and blah blah blah... yes, very rational.

    11. Re:Not a straw man by ScrewMaster · · Score: 1

      Quoting The Bishop lecturing to Slippery Jim DiGriz (a.k.a. The Stainless Steel Rat): "Man is a rationalizing animal, and requires training to become a rational one."

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    12. Re:Not a straw man by rjhubs · · Score: 1

      Several problems with this post:
      You say cows and pigs are "much more intelligent" than newborns. You then go on to imply that it either a. it should be acceptable to kill babies that can't pass the mirror test or b. it should be unacceptable to kill cows and pigs.
      First to address the latter, the line you propose to draw is if a creature can or can't pass the mirror test. Yet in the wikipedia article you link, it gives no indication that pigs or cows can pass that test. So without any other evidence, I have to assume you feel a. that it should be acceptable to kill babies that cannot pass the mirror test.

      Now this has problems of its own, who is to say that passing the mirror test makes something self-aware. Is being able to visually identify oneself enough to justify self-awareness? Assuming the mirror test does always indicate self-awareness, that does not mean failing it indicates a lack of awareness. As you say, babies can't visually identify themselves.. but neither can the blind, or people who suffer from other kinds of brain or maybe just damaging an eye such as visual agnosia (The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat).

      I've met blind people that are plenty self-aware as well are the people with brain damage in that book. So, as your wikipedia article says, perhaps this isn't a good place to draw the line as there are more ways to be self-aware than just visually.

      Which brings me to my bigger point, how can we safely say if anything is self-conscious or not and then use that as a basis of saying whether it is okay to kill. Do you really know that a 6-month year old isn't conscious.. sure enough to kill? How about a 1 month? How about when they are still in the womb? Can we even say plants aren't conscious? Perhaps a tree is aware of itself in a way we just can't understand or even in a way we can understand but just don't see it that way because of our biases about consciousness (I can support this statement if someone desires)

      So no, your post failed at being logical.

    13. Re:Not a straw man by rjhubs · · Score: 1

      Somehow my link got eaten: The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat

    14. Re:Not a straw man by grassy_knoll · · Score: 1

      That whooshing sound you heard? Yeah, that was the joke going over your head.

    15. Re:Not a straw man by warpSpeed · · Score: 1
      You're obviously trying to push an agenda here. No woman in her right mind would get pregnant and have an abortion if a contraceptive is available and works properly.


      I am not pushing an agenda... I am actually pro-choice. However I think that you are mis-informed if you think abortion is not used as a "birth control of last resort". To state that "No woman in her right mind would get pregnant and have an abortion if a contraceptive is available and works properly" is to not have a full grasp of why abortion is used so frequently. I would venture to say that a majority abortions are a result of accidental/unintended pregnancies where contraceptives were not given a thought. To have an abortion should be the womans choice, and she can deal with the moral issues herself.

    16. Re:Not a straw man by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      I agree with all of this. However, I disagree with why you brought it up in the first place. The discussion was just about "birth control", which in context meant normal contraception.

      I do wonder, however, how many abortions are caused by not using contraceptives at all, vs. how many are caused by the contraceptives failing. I've heard of many cases, first-hand, of people who had kids because the woman was on the Pill, but had to take some medication (usu. an antibiotic I think) and the stupid doctor didn't bother to warn them that it would make the Pill ineffective. You would think, if it's a female patient, that the likelihood of her being on the Pill would be significant and that this warning should be issued, instead of "don't ask, don't tell".

    17. Re:Not a straw man by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      It's not really whoosh, so much as a sputter.

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    18. Re:Not a straw man by Uzuri · · Score: 1

      Wow, what kind of idiot doctor made that mistake? I want his name so I can avoid him.

      I've been on the pill for a long time (for a hormone problem, not so I can sleep around, mind), and any time I need to go on an antibiotic I'm warned at *least* three times -- by the doctor, the nurse, and my pharmacist when I pick up the meds. Maybe I just lucked out and ended up with all the right people, I dunno.

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    19. Re:Not a straw man by Grishnakh · · Score: 1

      You definitely got the right people. I've heard of several cases (personal acquaintances) of this happening.

  104. Hey douche by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How about you read the whole story and the STFU? What does it take to get you morons to stop jumping to conclusions? You're as bad as the fundies.

  105. more pictures, or bad journalism?? by jrhawk42 · · Score: 0

    Anybody notice the article goes from stating "pictures" (as in more than one) to only mentioning the pirate picture. There could of been an overall "party" type theme to her myspace that would make the argument stronger. Of course I still don't see that as being enough to change her degree or even stop her from teaching. Everybody has skeletons in there closet but that shouldn't stop people from being able to have a certain career (just look at our last two presidents).

  106. Die of dehydration? by ukemike · · Score: 3, Interesting

    What's to say that this isn't water? Are teaching students supposed to swear off all liquids? Even assuming it is 120 proof grain alcohol, does that school have a rule against adult students drinking?

    I keep thinking that Rod Serling is going to step out from behind a door and say, "A quiet campus in a quiet town becomes the stage for tragedy when teetotalers go on a witch hunt, in the Twilight Zone."

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    1. Re:Die of dehydration? by paeanblack · · Score: 0

      What's to say that this isn't water? Are teaching students supposed to swear off all liquids? Even assuming it is 120 proof grain alcohol, does that school have a rule against adult students drinking?

      It's not the actual drinking that's the problem...that's nobody else's business. It's the teacher publicizing her personal life without discretion. That's the unprofessional behavior here.

      If the teacher had printed out flyers with photos of herself getting drunk and dropped them off in the school computer lab, most people would think that would be pretty inappropriate. What is so different about a MySpace page that does the same thing?

    2. Re:Die of dehydration? by Bloke+down+the+pub · · Score: 3, Insightful

      What's different is that the page (at least the photo I saw) shows nothing of the sort.

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    3. Re:Die of dehydration? by orgelspieler · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I have a teacher friend who had to make her MySpace profile private for this very reason; her boss saw it as unprofessional. There weren't pictures of her getting stoned at a party or anything; her principal just thought she should have such a visible private life. Additionally, several school districts even go so far as to have "no public drinking" policies. So if she was in one of these districts (I know, I know, RTFM), that could be reason enough. I hate it that employers think they can control every aspect of your life, but if you sign the contract it's your own damn fault.

    4. Re:Die of dehydration? by aztektum · · Score: 3, Insightful

      If you're referring to the article itself, this lady isn't even employed by a district. This is about her living her life and someone else trying to dictate a level of "professionalism" upon her. This is ridiculous and I hope she wins.

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    5. Re:Die of dehydration? by teknosapien · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It's not the actual drinking that's the problem...that's nobody else's business. It's the teacher publicizing her personal life without discretion. That's the unprofessional behavior here. I'm curious as to what is not appropriate about a picture in this space? Many of my daughters teachers have myspace areas for the purpose of homework assignments and such. A picture of her in a pirate hat (well not really but for arguments sake it is). on Halloween? if anything it shows that a person that will be teaching children is actually in tune with their social structure and how it works. She should be applauded for having the foresight to use this technology to get through to students. There was nothing inappropriate here other than the University's lack of foresight and integrity.
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    6. Re:Die of dehydration? by Eivind · · Score: 0, Troll

      Alternatively, if you vote for politicians which vote for laws giving employeers such unlimited powers, it's your own damn fault.

    7. Re:Die of dehydration? by TWX · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Additionally, several school districts even go so far as to have "no public drinking" policies. So if she was in one of these districts (I know, I know, RTFM), that could be reason enough. I hate it that employers think they can control every aspect of your life, but if you sign the contract it's your own damn fault."

      This woman wasn't even working though, she was a student finishing her teaching degree at a university. She was 27 years old when she was denied her degree, and 25 when the image was created that led to the denial of her degree. Her action was not illegal in any way, nor does it reflect anything that is generally societally unacceptable. Even worse, she was censored by the SCHOOL, not by an employer of any kind...

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    8. Re:Die of dehydration? by skogs · · Score: 1

      Well...lets take this thru to the obvious conclusion...

      All of the people, and I mean ALL (lets be fair now), that have nice Law Degrees from Ivy League schools should now be stripped of their license if they had a compromising photo...or any photo really in a public place.

      Now I'm sure we can count on the legal profession to take care of this themselves since they are obviously trying to uphold a most professional air.

      Thats right...your Harvard education doesn't mean anything because you have a photo of yourself on the internet or your dormroom wall that shows you with a cup in your hand and the following Captions:

      "Drunken Pirate"
      "Big Dawg Johnson"
      "Carpet Layer"
      "Lady's Man"
      "Butch"

      Oh yeah...I can see the world now...no attorneys!

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    9. Re:Die of dehydration? by PetoskeyGuy · · Score: 1

      All of the people, and I mean ALL (lets be fair now), that have nice Law Degrees from Ivy League schools should now be stripped of their license if they had a compromising photo...or any photo really in a public place.
      My wife has kept a picture of some guy drinking while dressed up in a cow suit for exactly this reason. The guy sincerely thought he was going to be president one day and turned white when she said she would keep the picture just in case.
    10. Re:Die of dehydration? by siriuskase · · Score: 1

      I'm glad engineering colleges don't have this "no degree for drinkers" policy. There's not enough H1B visas in the world to deal with that situation. Besides, Indian engineers probably drink, too. It's necessary for properly assimulating the complex math, science, and etc.

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    11. Re:Die of dehydration? by CriminalNerd · · Score: 1

      If a level of professionalism expected and required for a position, I do not think she has a choice in the matter if she wants to pursue that specific career.

    12. Re:Die of dehydration? by TWX · · Score: 1

      Thing is, flat out there would be no one in any profession at all except for a couple of people in Salem, Massachusetts if this sort of thing prevented people from working... I could understand a future employer asking her to recaption the photo or to place it in an area of her MySpace page that requires "friends" to be logged in to see it, but I know a teacher who was in Girls of the PAC 10 in Playboy, and it's not a problem...

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    13. Re:Die of dehydration? by orgelspieler · · Score: 1
      well, like I said, I hadn't RTFM, but I have now. :-) The point is the same whether it's a school district or a licensing board (as in this case). I don't think it's right for people in authority to try to enforce professionalism away from the office/classroom, but they do. And if you agree to be part of the organization in question (business, university, school district, professional board, etc.), then you have to play by their rules. If you don't like the rules, go work at a place that isn't so draconian.

      I'd imagine the people who didn't think she was professional enough felt bound by the NEA code of ethics. Specifically, an educator "Shall not assist any entry into the profession of a person known to be unqualified in respect to character, education, or other relevant attribute." My guess is they consider drunken pirates to be of unqualified character. To bad there's not a line in there requiring a sense of humor. I'd imagine that's a pretty "relevant attribute" when your dealing with snotty-nosed brats that can't tie their own shoes.

      While I find this case pretty stupid, the parent in me was wondering what my child would think if he saw his teacher drinking at a party. Then I remembered I'm not a puritan and will probably end up taking my kid to at least one party where I get hammered in a pirate suit. So he'll probably just think, "Oh look! Ms. Snyder has the same hat as daddy!"

    14. Re:Die of dehydration? by afidel · · Score: 1

      How the fuck is it "unprofessional" for an adult to drink at a party?!?!? God damn, the teatotalers really are being successful in bringing back prohibition through the back door. This time it won't be the government imposing it, it will just be the companies. I can see drinking alcohol being prohibited by employment contracts at any company run by a good upstanding "conservative".

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  107. Re:umm - throwing the BS flag by operagost · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    There is still a 0.001% chance of contracting an STD from a gynecologist visit, a 0.0012% chance of contracting genital warts from a toilet seat, a 0.0019% chance of becoming pregnant while being unconscious and raped during any given hospital stay, etc.
    ... and about 99.9% chance of being trolled by some fool on Slashdot.
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  108. Millertime by boater+rich · · Score: 1

    It's because she was drinking coors and not the university approved beverage of choice...

  109. I hate myspace by hexed_2050 · · Score: 1

    I can't understand why people use these things. Myspace, facebook, whatever... they are all a big waste of time.

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  110. it goes on by White+Yeti · · Score: 1

    This reminds me of something in the news in Houston. A teacher and her principal are in hot water after the teacher took some leave to appear on the TV show "The Bachelor". It seems like a vocal minority of parents didn't want their kids being taught by some floozy. It just seems like the complainants, once their initial complaints are met by "no harm, no foul", are picking through technicalities looking for any possible ammo.

  111. insight in the american psyche by N3wsByt3 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Your comment is truelly remarkable and gtives an idea of the completely screwed up mentality USa people have (at least, a part of it, and most likly the bible-belt part).

    In my country, nobody would give a rats' ass if a teacher DId say she/he got drunk the night before. What, you think pupils or students are going to get traumatised? Seems to be going on a lot of traumas, lately, including 'online rape'. For Gods' sake; when are you guys going to get a grip? Your problems mainly stem just *because* you treat youth as if they were some alien beings who can have no idea what's the real world all about. Of course, they DO know all to well, but because of the paniced reactions everywhere, they never have learned how to deal with it in a normal fashion.

    To be 21 before you can sip a glass of alcohol...meh; ridiculous. In most european countries, you can drink alcohol when you're 16. and when your parents let see sip from their beers, even when you're only nine, no-one makes any fuss about it - because it isn't. the rerality is, if ypou treat drinking beer as no big deal, and you let them taste it, they usually go: "yukkie, that's awful." and don't want to try it out anymore. Also, when you drink with kids in a social context (e.g. not binge drinking stuff), they are more inclined to follow that pattern. If you treat it as something special, it gets 'forbidden fruit' status, and if they only have peers to look how to act when confronted with alcohol, that's when shit happens.

    In france, kids often drink 'table-wine' (wine with moderate alcohol-level) as a normal thing, in Belgium the same with table-beer, etc. do they have more drunks and alcohol-problems there, then in the USA with its 21-year law? Not at all. In fact, the prevalence of problematic drinking (like binge-drinking) is way LOWER there than in anglo-saxon countries, where the restriction to alcohol is much more severe. The whole concept of 'save the children' in the USA has gone way overboard, to the detriment of the youths themselves.

    In a reasonable country, the fact that a teacher was drunk has nothing to do with her professionalism *unless* she was drunk during the course of her work, obviously. But if she got drunk outside her professional hours, even if she puts hundreds of photos about it on the net, it doesn't say anything about her capacities as a teacher. It's the same crap and obsession of the USA with irrelevant nonsense as back with Clinton getting a blowjob, over and over again. What you do in your private life - EVEN if it comes out in the open (as long as it's legal) - DOES NOT and SHOULD NOT have any bearings on how you are treated while exercising your profession.

    In the USA, I wonder if a teacher can say something which is scientifically true but socially/politically-incorrect, like stating that moderate consumption of alcohol is actually healthy. These days, especially in the bible-belt states, I think no teacher can say that without risk of being fired or being severly reprimanded. Please correct me if I'm wrong in this. That obsession of weeding out the political incorrect and having to 'cry wolf' with all the other wolves (the prevailing mentality) is sickening.

    In summary:

    1)Drinking is no big deal
    2)Posting pics about it is no big deal

    Conclusion: as long as whatever she does is not illegal and does not affect her actual professionalism in the classroom, there is no reason why she should be treated the way she was. And even if it was illegal and did affect her teachings, then still it should be determined if it was severe enough to warrant the withdrawal of her diploma.

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    1. Re:insight in the american psyche by multipartmixed · · Score: 4, Interesting

      > In the USA, I wonder if a teacher can say something which is scientifically true
        > but socially/politically-incorrect, like stating that moderate consumption of alcohol
        > is actually healthy.

      In certain parts of the USA, teachers may not even teach the theory of evolution, or that the earth is more than 6,000 years old!

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    2. Re:insight in the american psyche by dills · · Score: 1

      Very well put, even for an obviously non-native speaker! If I had any moderation points I'd bump you up for being insightful. You put your finger on one of my least favorite aspects of my country and culture.

    3. Re:insight in the american psyche by N3wsByt3 · · Score: 1

      I have a feeling that if I hadn't been too lazy to spell-check, it might have been less obvious ;-)

      Or maybe not, because the USA mentality really ticks me off. That's to say...I'm well aware there are states where the people have more open-minded and modern ideas too, but all those bible-belt states full of redneck-mentality 'reborn christians' are gaining far too much power in dictating peoples' life in the USA, IMHO.

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    4. Re:insight in the american psyche by houghi · · Score: 1

      Mod this up.

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    5. Re:insight in the american psyche by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't disagree with much you have to say except the "online rape" occurred in Brussels:

      http://yro.slashdot.org/article.pl?sid=07/05/04/15 25222

    6. Re:insight in the american psyche by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You seem to get your info about the US from slashdot? If so, it's far from the best place for doing so. It's so biased and narrow, take it with a large grain of salt.

    7. Re:insight in the american psyche by elgatozorbas · · Score: 1

      In most european countries, you can drink alcohol when you're 16. and when your parents let see sip from their beers, even when you're only nine, no-one makes any fuss about it - because it isn't. the rerality is, if ypou treat drinking beer as no big deal...

      Unless, of course, you post to /. while drunk and make one typo after another...

    8. Re:insight in the american psyche by stormcoder · · Score: 1

      Every country has its problems; France especially so. I'd tend to agree with your assessment but you come off so arrogant and self aggrandizing that I can't bring myself to agree with you. I'd go flame your ass but you'd just surrender. :D

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      Sorry my bullshit sensor overloaded.
    9. Re:insight in the american psyche by GodfatherofSoul · · Score: 1

      Mod parent UP. I'm an army brat and went to high school in Italy. This is exactly the experience I had with alcohol. Not that I don't go out drinking and sometimes a lot, but I grew up with a higher drinking-IQ than any of my peers in college. In high school I could walk into any store and buy anything from beer to Everclear, but the exposure made drinking no big deal. Unlike a lot of stateside-raised kids who think of alcohol as some sort of cool taboo that they guzzle at moronic rates leading to lots of stupid decisions under the influence.

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    10. Re:insight in the american psyche by N3wsByt3 · · Score: 1

      lol. I knew I that was comming, when I saw my typo's. ;-)

      I'm not a native english speaker, but it's true I could have gotten rid of the majority of the typo's if I had done 'preview'. I just kinda typed it in the 'spur of the moment'.

      Seeing it afterwards, I regret it...but I have had this before; I'm just cought up in the 'wave' of writing something as fast as my ideas about it pop up. It's difficult to stop and calmly check for spelling-errors, in those instances. (Maybe that's a polite way of saying I'm sometimes lazy. ;-)

      But still... now it looks like I'm only as good a writer as the average redneck in the USA...

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    11. Re:insight in the american psyche by N3wsByt3 · · Score: 1

      " I'd tend to agree with your assessment but you come off so arrogant and self aggrandizing that I can't bring myself to agree with you."

      Sorry!

      I know I sometimes come over as someone who thinks he's always right, but that's only because I'm right 99,9% of the time! I can't help it! :-p

      hmm...I had a lot more written down, but I should first ask if you're american or not, because otherwise, it might be irrelevant anyway.

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    12. Re:insight in the american psyche by elgatozorbas · · Score: 1

      I'm not a native english speaker

      Neither am I, which may be the reason why we both thought the same (and noticed the typos in the first place :-). Belgian, nice to meet you. Now I'll go and get a beer...

    13. Re:insight in the american psyche by miskatonic+alumnus · · Score: 2, Insightful

      The whole concept of 'save the children' in the USA has gone way overboard, to the detriment of the youths themselves.

      Well, the whole thing is a sham. When the precious children turn 18, they are ripe for sending overseas with a gun, or thrown into jail for smoking crack. You see, the people in the US don't really care about the children as human beings, for if they did care, the children would be regarded with the same protective attitude when they reach adulthood. No. The people here care about the idea of children --- proxies for their own vanished innocence, naivete, potential, and youth.

    14. Re:insight in the american psyche by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sometime, one of the polls could be about, where most readers of /. come from.

  112. Land of The Free(tm) Indeed by shplorb · · Score: 1

    I'm sure somebody has already covered it and it hasn't been modded up to the level I read at, but I'm glad I live in Australia where you can at least have a beer before you get sent off to die fighting for your country.

    Yeehaw, you're 18! Drive a car, get married, stick a bun in the oven and then go to Iraq and blow away some dirty sand nigger terrorists, but don't you dare have even a drop of refreshing icy cold beer after a hard day's shooting in the desert heat until you're 21!

    I shudder to think about the reaction these people would have upon being told that the high school I went to has a functioning vineyard and winery and teaches kids how to make wine. (A surprisingly scientific endeavour!) =]

  113. Lots we don't know. by rayvd · · Score: 1

    Seems all that is really known is the girl's side of the story and whatever hearsay and sensatiolism can be drummed up stemming from the fact that this may involve MySpace.

    This statement seems to imply that there were a lot of other factors involved. Lies? Maybe. Who knows. I'm confident the court proceedings will bring the truth out though.

    Since /. has gotten us all hyped up about this and most automatically assume the school is in the wrong, I do hope they'll follow-up later--especially if the facts show that perhaps the school was in the right on this.

  114. The cup she's drinking from.. by StoatBringer · · Score: 1

    The plastic cup clearly says "milk chocolate" on it. I fail to see how they determined that she was drinking alcohol.

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  115. I'm glad my school isn't crazy by edizzles · · Score: 1

    I lvoe the fact that there is not a single acoholic refrence in that entire photo. I have to agree with most of the posters, this just goes to show that latly that any institution would rather screw over one of its students rather than deffend them. 10$ bucks says she is a good teacher but goes against the grain. She probly pissed off somer old friged woman who then complained, found the picture and with bible in hand set out to ruin this pore girls life. Teachers are hummans first, teachers second. They have sex, drink, and party just like the rest of use.

  116. Did anyone else think of these? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Not the sort of noodling I would be hoping for... http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots0020.html

  117. revoked MIT degree by peter303 · · Score: 1

    The MIT degree of student who embezzled nearly $100K from the student newspaper was revoked, and his convicted pre-degree associates lost all their course credits. However this is extremely rarely done only in the case of a campus-related felony conviction. I recall a similar debate about a Harvard student convicted of murder two years ago, and a Harvard freshemen who hid a teenage murder conviction on her application.

    But we are just talking about a suggestive picture, no conviction in this case. The ridicule should be enough punishment.

  118. The Only One by element-o.p. · · Score: 1

    Yeah, I'm sure she is the only person who ever got drunk while attending that college. I attended two colleges on the way to my degree, and I never saw anyone -- especially anyone under age 21 -- drink or get drunk.

    Oh, wait.....

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  119. That picture is cropped by Morinaga · · Score: 1

    It looked cropped to me. Perhaps there's more to that picture? Or as the story seems to indicate, the University is completely clueless. I'd bet there are two sides to that story.

  120. Thats just wrong... by thorkyl · · Score: 1

    Now you can loose your job, degree and whatnot but you still have to repay the student load....

    I hope she wins, I hope she nails their asses to the wall.

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  121. Donna Martin graduate ! by stud9920 · · Score: 1

    Donna Martin graduate! Donna Martin graduate!

  122. we have become more victorian over time by Yonder+Way · · Score: 1

    Circa the late 1980's through early 1990's there was a teacher at Sun Valley High School in Aston, PA (very close to the Conestoga school district spoken of in TFA) who had posed nude in Playboy magazine. She had Playboy logo items on her desk. There was nothing scandalous about this, though it was considered a bit titillating. It really didn't get in the way of the educational process.

    This photograph is far less damning than a nude spread in an adult magazine. The girl in question is holding a cup that might be iced tea for all we know. She's dressed in a costume, as many teachers choose to do in school on Halloween. Even if the cup contained beer, there is absolutely nothing scandalous about this photograph.

    Why is this nation descending further and further into such prudish and impossible standards? How can we cry out for more people to take up teaching while holding them to very high moral/behavioral standards and simultaneously paying them so poorly?

    I'm an IT guy who has considered bailing out of this line of work to take up teaching. But I do enjoy beer, and I do get a little crazy at St Patty's Day and so on. Hell, I even like brewing my own beer from time to time. So maybe I should look into some other line of work since beer is evil and so is adult partying.

  123. Re:Image is... something. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It's just as simple as that.

    If for anyone isn't, please, impeach President Bush because of allowance of his daughters actions involving alcohol and/or drugs. Ooops, and his own actions involving drugs and lottttsss of alcohol.

  124. To Teach Children, You Must Never Go Outside Ever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I had a young teacher, fresh out of uni, in high school. My friends and I would see him at the local punk and hardcore shows, with his wife, drinking and having a good time with his friends. Should someone who has a social life be considered unfit for teaching children?

    How about the teacher that I would always run into at the grocery store. In her cart, she always had tampons and cat food. Should someone with cats and a bleeding vagina be teaching kids?

    So how about the teacher who went to a party with some friends, and someone saw her there?

    And how about the teachers who have pictures of them nude, clutching a bottle of Jack, and blowing a dog? So what if those pictures are not on the internet. Shouldn't school officials search every teachers house and personal effects to make sure that they only ever sit at home quietly?

    Hell, I had an English teacher who was hated (because he was "too hard", which is code for "we don't like to read books") and consequently his address was known by a lot of his students, you know, so people could vandalise it, and so on. To put a stop to it, he would chase kids off his property nude and with a loaded shotgun. He was never fired, and went on to become my personal hero.

  125. "Condoning" by mengel · · Score: 5, Insightful
    Giving someone a vaccine against a virus is not "condoning" anything.
    • Wearing a seatbelt is not "condoning" unsafe driving.
    • Putting up a lightning rod is not "condoning" thunderstorms.
    Anyone who uses that reasoning is seriously confused.

    Similarly, teaching kids about how their reproductive system works, and about contraception, is not "condoning" promiscuity, any more than teaching someone about locks, safes, and keys is "condoning" thievery.

    Certainly, promiscuity provides a disease vector, both for diseases we know about, and ones we don't yet.

    So does sneezing.

    Humans appear to have a limited ability to resist either of these urges. So for one we have condoms, and for the other, Kleenex(tm) (or your elbow).

    Do these same people argue that we shouldn't have tissues, because you should instead fight the urge to sneeze?

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    1. Re:"Condoning" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Humans appear to have a limited ability to resist either of these urges. So for one we have condoms, and for the other, Kleenex(tm) (or your elbow).

      I'd say Kleenex works for both of those urges.

    2. Re:"Condoning" by fuzz6y · · Score: 1

      Giving someone a vaccine against a virus is not "condoning" anything.

      It's certainly enabling it. Remove a negative consequence of a choice makes that choice much more attractive.

      • Wearing a seatbelt is not "condoning" unsafe driving.

      That's not the same because, rightly or wrongly, nobody strongly connects the quality of their driving with their potential for dying on the highway. It's all those other idiots, or that wet spot I couldn't have seen, or whatever.

      • Putting up a lightning rod is not "condoning" thunderstorms.

      It is nonsensical to speak of "condoning" an event which is not an act of a person capable of moral thought.

      Refusing to help someone because they caused their own suffering is deplorable. I certainly don't want to suffer for every immoral thing I've done. Keeping your children healthy is well worth letting them see your tacit acceptance of their sex life, but don't pretend when you tell them "this is so you won't get sick when you have sex" that what they're going to hear isn't "have sex."

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    3. Re:"Condoning" by lgw · · Score: 1

      Teenagers don't believe their unsave driving will result in accidents, and in exactly the same way they don't believe they will catch an STD. Will you make your children wear safety belts even if they claim they will always drive safely? Will you immunize your daughter against a possible STD even though she claims she'll wait till she's 40 to start having sex? Why at these cases any different at all?

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    4. Re:"Condoning" by mstahl · · Score: 1

      Do these same people argue that we shouldn't have tissues, because you should instead fight the urge to sneeze?

      YES

    5. Re:"Condoning" by Cthefuture · · Score: 1

      They are thinking "out of sight, out of mind" which as any advertiser will tell you does have a valid basis.

      I'm pretty sure that's the underlying emotion with issues like this even though it make not always make sense.

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    6. Re:"Condoning" by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      It's certainly enabling it. Remove a negative consequence of a choice makes that choice much more attractive.

      If you remove all the negative consequences, what then? If 12 year olds could go off and play like that, would you let them?

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    7. Re:"Condoning" by ssstraub · · Score: 1

      "Refusing to help someone because they caused their own suffering is deplorable. I certainly don't want to suffer for every immoral thing I've done. Keeping your children healthy is well worth letting them see your tacit acceptance of their sex life, but don't pretend when you tell them "this is so you won't get sick when you have sex" that what they're going to hear isn't "have sex."
      Wouldn't it be easier and just as truthful to call it a vaccine necessary to prevent the spread of a virus/disease, just as the flu shot is? The "condoning sex" argument is weak at best, and extremely harmful at worst.
    8. Re:"Condoning" by Darby · · Score: 2, Insightful

      It's certainly enabling it. Remove a negative consequence of a choice makes that choice much more attractive.

      Right, so the normal natural healthy choice is more attractive. That is entirely a good thing.

      Keeping your children healthy is well worth letting them see your tacit acceptance of their sex life, but don't pretend when you tell them "this is so you won't get sick when you have sex" that what they're going to hear isn't "have sex."

      Which means what? Your kids will have sex. That's a fact. It's an entirely normal healthy thing.
      So talking about how they *will* have sex is the only decent moral course of action.
      Anything else is flat out lying.

      Pretending it won't because *you* are too weak to deal with reality is an entirely *bad* course of action with no possible positives.

    9. Re:"Condoning" by pbhj · · Score: 1

      Well I kinda follow.

      "So, right, stealing is a bad thing. First you'll need to learn to pick locks so you can do it lots and not get caught. But we're going to give you lessons on doing it - we're even going to practice in class to make sure you know how to pick the locks, we're not actually going to let you steal though. Now, of course it's illegal for you to steal. But, if you wear gloves and a hoodie then you probably won't get caught. If you do get caught well just let us know and we'll get you out of prison the next day."

      That's not condoning stealing in the same way as we don't condone promiscuity.

      No I'm not trying to say sex is wrong.

      Oh and can you tell me how you involuntarily cause yourself to have sex with someone [sneeze]?

    10. Re:"Condoning" by lmpeters · · Score: 1

      "So, right, stealing is a bad thing. First you'll need to learn to pick locks so you can do it lots and not get caught. But we're going to give you lessons on doing it - we're even going to practice in class to make sure you know how to pick the locks, we're not actually going to let you steal though. Now, of course it's illegal for you to steal. But, if you wear gloves and a hoodie then you probably won't get caught. If you do get caught well just let us know and we'll get you out of prison the next day."

      Not the same thing at all. Learning how to pick locks doesn't make you better able to use locks. But there are plenty of other things where knowing how they work DOES make you safer. Sex is one such thing; understand the risks and you can protect yourself against them (face it, most people can't or won't abstain from sex). Securing your computer against hackers is another; if you can hack a computer, you can protect your computer against the techniques you use. Even driving a car counts; know what the car can do and you can be safer by not trying to do things that it can't do.

    11. Re:"Condoning" by pbhj · · Score: 1

      The analogy went something like: lock-picking and stealing (having sex), gloves and hoodie (contraception), getting caught (getting pregnant), getting out of jail (having your blastocyte/fetus/child terminated).

    12. Re:"Condoning" by mengel · · Score: 1
      Oh and can you tell me how you involuntarily cause yourself to have sex with someone [sneeze]?
      • get raped
      • be a teenager on prom night.
      It's a lot easier to fight back a sneeze than to not give into the rapist with the knife to your neck...

      It's very difficult for a teenager in love to resist the advances of an attractive person they have strong feelings for. This is why "Virginity Pledge' programs don't work so well, at least for reducing disease risk.

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  126. Obviously... by Cervantes · · Score: 1

    Obviously, if she'd just dressed up like a Ninja instead, everything would have turned out fine...

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  127. The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by alexhmit01 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    You know, I think the religious are onto something. Cultures that breed fast and fight wars to proselytize are likely to overwhelm cultures that breed slowly and keep to themselves.

    Some historians point to a declining birthrate as the cause of the fall of the Western Roman Empire. Decadence and homosexuality (which avoided children) caused massive drops in birth rates, and eventually Rome collapsed.

    If you think about the economics of inheritence, it's even more stark. Now we split inheritence by all children (traditionally only male, or lesser shares for daughters), but the number of children determines the wealth build up. A family with 4 heirs will pass along half the wealth as a family with 2 heirs. The secular families not only fail to maintain their share of the population, they build up wealth quickly over a few generations. Now we have wealthy children with trust funds... they aren't likely to take up arms and defend Rome... Rome's vassal system of poor soldiers from slave colonies and client-kingdoms let by officers of Roman stock simply collapsed when there weren't younger sons of aristocrats willing to become officers searching for glory. Apparently with enough wealth, one need not have glory.

    I'm not suggesting they're better, far from it, just that they may be better from a Darwinian point of view, which is somewhat ironic.

    Not terribly ironic, how did the Abrahamic faiths spread to cover half the world. The rules are quite simple:

    1. Take virgin wives, be fruitful and multiple with them
    2. If you don't have a child within 10 years, she's infertile, dump her
    3. Don't have gay sex (which doesn't create children), but have lots of sex with your wife/wives about 10 days after her menstruation (when she's fertile)
    4. Never use birth control, keep having children
    5. Preserve and build the community, the community trumps the individual

    That is a methodoly for taking over the world.

    Contrast that with the secular ethos:

    1. Sex is fun, have it as much as you want as often as you want, preferably for years (the most fertile ones), but make sure to use a condom
    2. Marriage is something risky, push it off a while, just keep having sex for recreation first
    3. More education is better... Age 16 isn't enough, a high school diploma @ 18 isn't enough, a college degree at 22 isn't really enough, how about some grad school (24-28)... DO NOT GET MARRIED BEFORE YOU FINISH OR WE TAKE YOUR FUNDING AWAY
    4. Start your career before starting a family, wait a few more years
    5. Don't have more than 2 kids, you're a breeder and sucking up resources... Let's cap every woman at 2 kids, and not wonder what happens when not all women have kids
    6. Spoil your children, so they push off real life an extra few years...
    7. Oh, and gay sex should be idealized, not stigmatized, and considered an innate behavior
    8. Screw the community, individual liberty is all that matters, whatever makes you happy.

    Which one will take over the world in a few generations?

    The only reason I bring up the gay sex is that while I don't really care what people do, it certainly isn't a precreation-supported behavior. While a certain amount of sexual desire is innate and certainly biological, there is definitely some social shaping of it... Bisexuality amongst women moved from taboo to "sexy" and a MUCH higher percentage of teenagers poll as "bisexual" than the general population... Doesn't mean that they are acting on it for real, but social factors can certainly influence behavior. A man who mostly feels urges towards men but occaisionally does towards women might be able to marry and have a family if under social pressure to do so, but if gay sex is an equally valid option will most likely go that route and probably be happier... if you goal is individual happiness, than gay rights is a civil right, if your goal is societal growth, then it's to be condemned (perhaps by

    1. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by Hal_Porter · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Not terribly ironic, how did the Abrahamic faiths spread to cover half the world. The rules are quite simple:

      1. Take virgin wives, be fruitful and multiple with them
      2. If you don't have a child within 10 years, she's infertile, dump her
      3. Don't have gay sex (which doesn't create children), but have lots of sex with your wife/wives about 10 days after her menstruation (when she's fertile)
      4. Never use birth control, keep having children
      5. Preserve and build the community, the community trumps the individual


      I wonder how Buddhism and Eastern religions fit into all this. They seem pretty relaxed about sex, and tolerant of homosexuality. Actually I reckon that homosexuality isn't as big a problem as you make out. Historically, most people who had homosexual relationshops when young ended up having heterosexual relationships later.

      1. Sex is fun, have it as much as you want as often as you want, preferably for years (the most fertile ones), but make sure to use a condom
      2. Marriage is something risky, push it off a while, just keep having sex for recreation first
      3. More education is better... Age 16 isn't enough, a high school diploma @ 18 isn't enough, a college degree at 22 isn't really enough, how about some grad school (24-28)... DO NOT GET MARRIED BEFORE YOU FINISH OR WE TAKE YOUR FUNDING AWAY
      4. Start your career before starting a family, wait a few more years
      5. Don't have more than 2 kids, you're a breeder and sucking up resources... Let's cap every woman at 2 kids, and not wonder what happens when not all women have kids
      6. Spoil your children, so they push off real life an extra few years...
      7. Oh, and gay sex should be idealized, not stigmatized, and considered an innate behavior
      8. Screw the community, individual liberty is all that matters, whatever makes you happy.


      I'm very much secular, but I don't agree with 8. 7 is complex - I think it's not something which should be encouraged or discouraged. 5 is probably not a bad thing. Most countries have gone through a phase transition where family sizes drop at a certain level of wealth. If this didn't happen, then the world would be screwed due to overpopulation. Mind you, places like Africa which are far from ever achieving this seem to have other things like Aids which limit population

      Perhaps the religious leadership isn't QUITE as ignorant as you think.

      Oh, I think they are. The religious leadership didn't invent this stuff or understand it, they just parrot what they learned at a religious school because they think it will make them go to heaven. Natural selection means that the religions which get the formula right to grow quickly will be more common than ones that don't. Possibly there were mutations along the way to - the religion split over some doctrinal difference and then the fork with the more evolutionarily fit beliefs out competed the other.

      Richard Dawkins has more or less stated that religion is a nasty parasitic meme in general. And if you look at the religions that are propagating fastest at the moment, they seemed to be the nastiest of all.

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    2. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by Ioldanach · · Score: 1

      Most gay rights advocates like to point out that the number of gay people is a larger portion than we think and growing... They also like to claim the most people are not 100% in either direction... The irony being, from a social growth point of view, birth control, homosexuality, delayed marriage, and abortion are ALL negatives if you want positive population growth. All are seen as individual liberties to be protected for the individual. It's EXTREMELY ironic that America, founded by champion's of liberty, has such a large religious population that it's the only "western" nation where the pillars of modern secular individualism are challenged.

      There's one thing which I'd be curious to see how it sorts out:

      IF homosexuality is a genetic trait, AND IF homosexuality becomes socially accepted to the point where someone entirely homosexual does not produce offspring, THEN incidence of the genetic trait of homosexuality will plummet in just a few generations.

      On the other hand, if it is a social phenomenon, then if it becomes widely accepted it is possible that the entire population will see a drop and incidence of homosexuality will continue to show a substantial presence, percentagewise.

    3. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by alexhmit01 · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Perhaps the religious leadership isn't QUITE as ignorant as you think.

      Oh, I think they are. The religious leadership didn't invent this stuff or understand it, they just parrot what they learned at a religious school because they think it will make them go to heaven. Natural selection means that the religions which get the formula right to grow quickly will be more common than ones that don't. Possibly there were mutations along the way to - the religion split over some doctrinal difference and then the fork with the more evolutionarily fit beliefs out competed the other.

      Spoken as someone without a religious background. Real religious study is not simple, is not parroted. Each group has their own approach.

      Judaism (Orthodox) -- Laity receive religious education through at least age 18, preferably with some afterwards, with basic grounds in Hebrew, Torah Laws, Rabbinic Laws, and some introductory Talmudic study. Those that go on to study for Smeicha (Rabinnic ordination) receive detailed extensive learning and testing. Learning is not memorization, but rather logical arguments to learn to issue a ruling. Ordination (Smeicha) is essentially a Jewish law degree, one is then qualified to sit on a Beit Din (House of Law) and render legal decisions. This involves learning the law, learning the debates of the Talmud, when to pull a minority opinion to issue lenient rulings, etc. Read some of the rulings of Rav. Moshe Feinsten who was America's leading Rabbinic authority for his generation, challenges some relatively long standing understandings (permitted shaving with certain electric shavers, for example), but had an extensive knowledge base to do so. The common religious Jew has a basic understanding of how to live a Jewish life, but nothing that deep.

      Jewish (Sephardic) -- Now borrowing heavily from the Orthodox Ashkenazi Yeshiva model, but traditionally required father-to-son transmission of the basics of Judaism, with some of the more intelligent children studying with their Rav, and the best and brightest traveling to learn with other Rabbanim. Because of the heavy influence of the Rambam's works (especially in the Yemenite communities), heavily based upon rationalism and logic, less about simply relying on Mensorah (tradition) to establish behavior. Much less doctrinaire than the Orthodox Ashkenazi approach, but a simpler yet stricter approach to Jewish law... less about understanding the loopholes and exceptions through learning than about preserving customs and mysticism... Kabbalah study is routine here.

      Jewish (non-Orthodox) -- Laity receive cursory education in reading Hebrew from ages 10-13, some do a high school after-school program. Religious leadership focuses on pastoral training with minimal advanced learning -- much more like the Protestant Churches -- learn the doctrine. If you are exemptionally interested, you may get involved in committees that make rulings, but generally focus on pastoral training.

      Christianity (Protestant) -- Laity receive no education, interact with ministers with cursory knowledge of theology. Matches your understanding pretty well, very few really learn.

      Christianity (Denomination Study) instead of taking pastoral positions, go into research into matters of theology. Will research positions, understand historical and theological underpinnings. Very rare, but it's their research that empowers the pastoral leaders to handle issues.

      Christianity (Fundamentalist) -- heavy on the learning, lots of bible studies, but done largely without commentary. Much more legal than Protestants, but with literalism and without lots of scholarship. No organized denominational structure for issuing legally binding rulings, independents are empowered to make their own determinations and choose who to follow.

      Catholicism -- Laity receive basic education (how to get to heaven), Priests can become pastoral or theological. Pope John Paul II was a pastoral priest and applied theologi

    4. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by GlobalEcho · · Score: 1


      Buy yes, the ABSOLUTELY funniest part of the issue is that pro-Creationist, anti-Evolution religious types are the ones acting to best preserve their genetic material from an evolutionary point of view, while the anti-Creation, pro-Evolution atheist-led movements encourage behavior that causes their DNA to be deselected...


      Of course, genetic transmission does not imply memetic transmission (though they are obviously highly correlated). You could argue that, on the one hand, you have communities and societies that are fecund, but scientifically (and hence economically) backward. On the other, you have the "enlightened" communities and societies with success in achieving happiness and progress for their members, but with low reproductive rates.

      One might argue that, to the extent the latter communities and societies can invite and assimilate members from among the population of fundamentalists, they will ultimately prove successful.

    5. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by amRadioHed · · Score: 1

      I wonder how Buddhism and Eastern religions fit into all this. They seem pretty relaxed about sex, and tolerant of homosexuality. Buddhist views very quite a bit, but for the most part promiscuity is considered unwholesome behavior but sex within a stable monogamist relationship is fine. I'm not sure what the Buddhist teachings on homosexuality are. I can't imagine it would be strongly condemned however AFAIK it is still not widely accepted in Chinese culture. I think this is more from the Confucian influence then from Buddhism however.
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    6. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by Danny+Rathjens · · Score: 1

      Oh, I think they are. The religious leadership didn't invent this stuff or understand it, they just parrot what they learned at a religious school because they think it will make them go to heaven. Natural selection means that the religions which get the formula right to grow quickly will be more common than ones that don't. Possibly there were mutations along the way to - the religion split over some doctrinal difference and then the fork with the more evolutionarily fit beliefs out competed the other.
      I think you are mostly correct. But I think religious leaders who made some of the rules in the first place understood their effects. e.g. I suspect they came up with a rule against eating pork, because even though they were unaware of trichinosis, they were capable of noticing people were more likely to die when they ate pork. I don't think they randomly mutated an aversion to pork... ;) Also, a vow of celibacy has pretty straightforward repercussions into how much time the clergy can devote to the religion and proselytization.
    7. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by businessnerd · · Score: 1

      You're comment on homosexuality being genetic is probably correct, but I think you're oversimplifying by assuming that if it can be proven that homosexuality is something you're born with is the same as being genetic. In a Biology class I took a year ago, the professor mentioned that there is a gland that is normally bigger in men than in women. However, in the cases of some homosexual males, this gland was smaller, indicating that it is more in line with a female. This could suggest that homosexuality is something you are born with. It does not, however, imply that it is genetic, as in something your parents pass down to you. This could be an environmental factor during pregnancy, or a random mutation, or a number of other things.

      Note: I am not a Biologist/Doctor. I only took one college Biology class because it was required course to graduate. Some of my facts might be slightly incorrect, but the concept should be right. If you are an expert in genetics, homosexuality or any other topic relating to my post, please comment with corrections and or additions as I would be very interested.

      --
      "It's not whether you win or lose, it's how drunk you get." -- H. J. Simpson
    8. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by Ioldanach · · Score: 1

      Good point. I was very specific in my initial conditions, and other possible initial conditions could exist as well, greatly modifying the outcome.

    9. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by skiflyer · · Score: 1

      IF homosexuality is a genetic trait, AND IF homosexuality becomes socially accepted to the point where someone entirely homosexual does not produce offspring, THEN incidence of the genetic trait of homosexuality will plummet in just a few generations.

      Not exactly how genetics work, but nice try.
    10. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by Ioldanach · · Score: 1

      Ignoring the possibility of a random mutation causing the same genetic code and that I've painted with a simplified, broad brush, and that I imply the genetic inclination is likely to be displayed (not entirely recessive), where does it go wrong? In the case that a particular trait is carried in the genetic code and that particular trait is allowed to prevent reproduction, wouldn't that genetic code, and thus that trait, become less frequent?

    11. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's pretty much the thing about religion (any of them). It doesn't matter how rationaly you study it, you're still a credulous fool if you belive - and studying harder just makes you more of a loser.

      At least the losers who spend 10 years studying Star Trek don't try to use that as a basis for legislation!

    12. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by ShooterNeo · · Score: 1

      Your argument is all correct.

      I think the Western World will win any conceivable contest, anyway, because of technology.

      Technology in key areas is a few generations from making this entire people breeding contest moot.

      1. Genetic engineering : while creating outlandish things will not be possible for many years, OPTIMIZING humans so that the children that these "secular" folks have pack the IDEAL traits for everything would give them a huge advantage in quality, if not quantity.

                      There's genes that control how thick the myelin sheaths are around every neuron : adjust these, and the resulting human would have quicker reflexes and faster thinking for everything. There's more, yet unknown, that control how readily the neurons interconnect : tweak these, and their brain will have extra folds and be capable of higher level reasoning more easily.

      Further, gene by gene manipulation isn't always necessary : we can create a probabilistic map comparing the genomes of people with various traits, and then assign gene versions to our designer embryo for each gene or gene set that has a high probability of something.

      Basically, the result would be EVERY kid would have the intelligence of a prodigy and the athletic ability of a professional athlete, as well as being 6'6" for high self confidence.

      2. Artificial intellgence : this might be a long time away. It might be 50 to 100 years. But once machines are smarter than any conceivable person, it's game over. Whoever controls the machines, wins. Again, Western societies would have a few of their members who could afford to have the expensive surgeries to wire themselves directly to these thinking machines. They would be able to out-compete everyone else on earth.

    13. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by Slashdot+Parent · · Score: 1
      Problems:
      1. Something can be biological, but not genetic. For instance, the odds of a child being a gay male increase the later he is born in birth order. This would obviously not be genetic--same parents. But it still could be biological (or social for that matter).
      2. If it is social, why are there still gay people? I mean, if 90% of society is straight, why after generations and generations are there still gay people at all?
      3. Genetics doesn't work that way. What you describe is true for any given gene, but how do we know that, assuming homosexuality is genetic at all (as opposed to biological in some other way), sexual preference is controlled by a single gene?

        What if it is caused by the combination of one trait from the mother and one unrelated trait from the father, neither of which on its own makes a person gay, but if you get both, you're gay?

        Surely two straight parents can have a gay kid. The child of one or two gay parents won't necessarily be gay, either.
      The bottom line is that we don't really know yet what causes homosexuality.
      --
      They don't grade fathers, but if your daughter's a stripper, you fucked up. --Chris Rock
    14. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by skiflyer · · Score: 1
      where does it go wrong?

      You imply that the phenotype is required to pass on the genotype, and that's not accurate. Think of it this way
      • It's genetic for a species to have 10% sterile offspring.
      • It's genetic for the species to pass on this percentage to the remaining 90% of the species
      Now... what are the percentage changes in sterile offspring in resulting generations? what the changes in absolute numbers of sterile offspring in resulting generations?
    15. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by NMerriam · · Score: 1

      Perhaps the religious leadership isn't QUITE as ignorant as you think.


      Ironic that people so often use "stupid" to mean only ignorant, while you made the inverse mistake. Just because the religious views may have a net positive effect on reproduction doesn't preclude ignorance, all you're claiming is that their behavior isn't as foolish or stupid as some may think.

      It's also ironic that the religious view, as you've examined, is ultimately limited by the view of man as a mere animal, limited to the natural world for its means of reproduction and dominance (ironic because they claim it is the secularists who degrade us by viewing humanity as merely animals).

      For a small historical period at the beginning of the modern scientific understanding of biology your comparison was valid, but that was because the advantages of being a scientific secular society had not yet overcome the immediate disadvantages of dramatically lowered reproduction. This was mitigated by the fact that social change happened slower than scientific change, so eventually we experienced a great birth boom worldwide as the traditional religious and biological reproductive needs were expressed through the birth of many children, while at the same time the scientific advantages began ramping up -- instead of having 12 children of whom 9 died before maturity, you could have 12 children of whom 9 lived thanks to better medicine, nutrition, etc. Since historically no family really expected to have more than 2-4 children (if that) ever grow up, people quickly curtailed their behavior to adapt to the new biological reality.

      Now we've reached the point where yes, people in the most advanced societies are only choosing to have 1 or 2 children in their entire lifetime, but those children are virtually guaranteed to live to maturity. And we now have women who had no hope of reproduction giving birth to triplets or sextuplets thanks to fertility treatments.

      We are quickly entering a world where men and women will commonly live to be 100 years in age, and can have children at 50 or 60. Soon parents will be able to both select for genetically desired traits as well as clone without requiring any notion of conventional fertility. Beyond that we'll likely be able to house and reproduce the minds of all those secular humanists in mechanical hybrid bodies that are, relatively speaking, immortal.

      The traditional animalistic methods of reproduction could never hope to overcome such a tremendous advantange in strength, survivability and reproduction that future technologist society could be based on. The secular/technologist society can (and already does) build GPS-guided smart missiles and robot warriors to fight battles, and the traditional religious societies have to rely on high birthrates to compensate for war, famine, disease.

      I don't have much hope that crusading against birth control will in any way allow a group an ultimate evolutionary advantage against the society that can destroy millions of evolutionary rivals by merely pushing a button.
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    16. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by Hal_Porter · · Score: 1

      But dietary laws are subject to mutation. Jews and Muslims still have the objection to pork, but Christians seem to have lost it at some point, despite the fact that they all descend from the same Abrahamic root. It's a bit fanciful, but you could argue that as Christianity spread out of hot countries, the risk of eating pork dropped off and mutations in the doctrine that allowed eating it were allowed to survive.

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    17. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by realityfighter · · Score: 1

      I'm afraid the spread of creationist, anti-birth control, narrowly defined evangelical Christianity is not as cancerous as you'd think. They proselytize so heavily because their faith has a very poor retention rate. 1/3rd of evangelicals leave the religion by the time they graduate high school, and half by middle age. Moreover poor Evangelicals, who make up the bulk of the market for televangelism, radio evangelism and other broad-base strategies, will have more children, but less chance of having a successful child - just like all poor people, their children will have poor education and job opportunities, and are more likely to commit crime. Poor children also die sooner - I wish this were not so, but it is statistically true. The evangelical movement, despite its claims to generate Providence for its members, tends to make them poorer, not richer - partly thanks to money spent directly on worship, but also because it encourages parents to produce more children than they can realistically support.

      On the other hand, mothers over 30 are highly likely to raise children who become financially, academically, and socially successful, but more likely to raise fewer children. Since these women almost certainly use birth control to delay having children, they are almost certainly not evangelicals.

      These are two entirely different strategies for procreation. One procreates quickly and abundantly, the other builds up resources and invests them in a few offspring. Both of these are valid strategies. But when you combine the high mortality rate of poor children with the low retention rate of Evangelism in general, you can see why the faith recruits so vigorously; the chances of a middle-class Evangelical family producing one adult offspring who will pass their beliefs and practices on to the grandchildren is not so high; probably about as high as in a middle class non-Evangelical family. Evangelicals do create more offspring in numbers, but in terms of the movement replicating itself, it doesn't work so well.

      For those wondering where I get all these statistics and assertions, they come partly from Bob Altemeyer's The Authoritarians, and partly from Levitt and Dubner's excellent book Freakonomics, although Chris Hedges' American Fascists also adds some context to Altemeyer's numbers. I also used a little bit of logical glue here and there, but I hope that will be acceptable.

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      A strain of paranoid prevention can be worse than the disease, whate'er the intention.
    18. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by ultranova · · Score: 1

      Genetic engineering : while creating outlandish things will not be possible for many years, OPTIMIZING humans so that the children that these "secular" folks have pack the IDEAL traits for everything would give them a huge advantage in quality, if not quantity.

      Not this eugenics shit again. Didn't humanity learn nothing from the previous tries ?

      And you can't make something that's ideal for everything, simply because different things require different traits.

      There's genes that control how thick the myelin sheaths are around every neuron : adjust these, and the resulting human would have quicker reflexes and faster thinking for everything.

      If thicker myelin sheats are a purely positive trait, why hasn't evolution already maximized them ?

      There's more, yet unknown, that control how readily the neurons interconnect : tweak these, and their brain will have extra folds and be capable of higher level reasoning more easily.

      Or maybe it will cause their neurons to connect too easily, short-circuiting their brains.

      Basically, the result would be EVERY kid would have the intelligence of a prodigy and the athletic ability of a professional athlete, as well as being 6'6" for high self confidence.

      Not unless they actually bothered practicing that ability, even if your scenario actually worked.

      Again, Western societies would have a few of their members who could afford to have the expensive surgeries to wire themselves directly to these thinking machines. They would be able to out-compete everyone else on earth.

      Hanging on the Internet hasn't increased my chances of reproducing any. Chances are being directly linked wouldn't help them either.

      --

      Forget magic. Any technology distinguishable from divine power is insufficiently advanced.

    19. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by ShooterNeo · · Score: 1

      1. Evolution is horribly sloppy and messy. 2. Genetic engineering is to eugenics as surgery is to butchery with dirty knives. 3. The person wouldn't be wired just to the internet. Their brain itself would use a computer to do portions of it's thinking. The computer would simulate many trillions of additional neurons being attached to their brain, allowing them vastly more memory, higher level modes of thinking, and thinking speed. The person would be able to perform man centuries of engineering and technological development work in a matter of weeks. They would be able to control multiple, probably hundreds, of telepresense robots at the same time.

    20. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by ultranova · · Score: 1

      1. Evolution is horribly sloppy and messy.

      True.

      2. Genetic engineering is to eugenics as surgery is to butchery with dirty knives.

      Doesn't matter. The problem is not in the method but in the goal. "IDEAL traits for everything" is simply an impossible goal since the ideal set of traits for different things are different. Furthermore, if for example a new disease breaks out, it could well turn out that whatever was the ideal set of traits in the previous set of circumstances is now the worst possible set.

      The person wouldn't be wired just to the internet. Their brain itself would use a computer to do portions of it's thinking. The computer would simulate many trillions of additional neurons being attached to their brain, allowing them vastly more memory, higher level modes of thinking, and thinking speed.

      What does "higher level mode of thinking" mean ? And is there any evidence that this is possible ? Finally, would you want to risk getting a computer virus into your thinking processes ?

      The person would be able to perform man centuries of engineering and technological development work in a matter of weeks.

      And it would still feel like centuries, thanks to your accelerated mode of thinking. Besides, if only the rich can afford to have their brains hooked up, why would they work ? You don't see them doing engineering or technological development now, do you ?

      --

      Forget magic. Any technology distinguishable from divine power is insufficiently advanced.

    21. Re:The utter irony of feminism and secularism... by ShooterNeo · · Score: 1

      Still feel like centuries? Obviously, if we can make this sort of acceleration happen at all, we'll have the technology to adjust our perception of time and our patience.

      High level mode of thinking - integrating ideas at a higher level than is normally possible. Nothing unlike the way you or I already think, just using more knowledge than would normally be feasible. What sort of parallels and ideas would you be able to come up with if you could search for common themes from reading every single book in the library of Congress on a particular subject? I don't know, and no human has a practical way of finding out.

      What sort of skill would you gain after performing the equivalent of man centuries of engineering work? Again, we don't know, but it's easy to specualate that after a while, one's thinking would be very different from that of a stock human being.

      Further, what would it be like thinking as a collective of merged personalities? Again, this IS a different mode of thought, and it IS possible.

      WHY would a rich man do engineering? POWER. Rich people who are self-made seek money because it gives them power. They gain power far, far quicker in today's world by wheeling and dealing and ordering others to do work.

      But breakthrough technology would grant power and wealth far more readily than telling any number of humans what to do. After all, technology itself would give birth to more technology - the person wouldn't need human beings anymore to accomplish things. Upgrading his army of bots would be more effective.

  128. That *must* be illegal... by fm6 · · Score: 1

    This girl is going to win her lawsuit, hands down.
    And your legal theory for this is...

    Don't assume that something is illegal just because it's unfair. A lot of stuff has been made illegal because it's unfair, but there's no general legal principle about it.

    I'm not saying that there's no law that protects costumed education students from kneejerk moralized. But I can't think of one. And, I suspect, neither can you.

    Unless you want to argue that this is religious discrimination. I mean, the woman certainly dresses like a Pastafarian...
  129. Objective criteria by 2901 · · Score: 1

    At my school we had examinations at the end of every year. When we came to sit public examinations aged 16 it was not too big a shock. The head master gets to track progress. Progress of students obviously, but also of teachers. Did the class come on as well as expected? as well as they did in other subjects.

    It seems very natural to test the pupils of a student teacher, before and after, and see it she has been successful during her school placement. Conestoga Valley have defamed Snyder by saying that she is a bad teacher. Presumably they intend to defend any resulting legal action by claiming that their defamatory comments are true, but there is no mention of any tests results. I wonder if the courts will allow teachers to be called good or bad without regard to whether their pupils learn?

  130. Millersville Uni by hachete · · Score: 1

    A tad incompetent. They wait until virtually just before the certificate award to deliver the bad news. You'd'a thought they would would have spotted "bad apples" *way* before this point.

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    Patriotism is a virtue of the vicious
  131. Here's how it can hurt... by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 1

    Do tell. Please, how exactly does my having more than one sexual relationship hurt anyone?

    Easy - if it results in kids then who is going to look after them? Chances are it will end up with a single parent family that will need considerable support from society and that means that the rest of us end up paying for your behaviour.

    ...and before you say "oh but I am always careful about birth control". Birth control is not 100% effective even when properly used. Would you let people ride motorbikes without helmets if they promised to be careful and not have an accident knowing that public health care (at least outside the US) would be footing the bill if they did have an accident?

    Now of course you could extend this type of argument to things like eating at McDonalds (at least in countries with public health care) so I am not AT ALL suggesting that laws should be changed outlaw such behaviour: everyone needs some freedom to choose their own life. However it is a fallacy to think that promiscuous behaviour cannot hurt society and so it is not unreasonable to expect other people to have an opinion about it.

    1. Re:Here's how it can hurt... by Mr.+Slippery · · Score: 1

      if it results in kids then who is going to look after them?

      This is not relevant to the question of how many sexual partners I have. People who have only one lover can still have unplanned pregnancies. Even statistically, if I have two lovers but have sex with each only half as often as someone with one partner, the odds of pregnancy are the same.

      Your argument, such as it is, applies to all non-marital sex - a man should only be permitted to have sex with a woman to whom he has made a financial commitment, on the off chance that she gets pregnant.

      (Hmm, you've just given me an idea: private pregnancy insurance.)

      Amyway, if one of my lovers gets pregnant by me and chooses to have a child, then I will provide financial support. Heck, I'd proably get sued for child support anyway.

      So your objection has no bearing on the issue at hand. Try again.

      Birth control is not 100% effective even when properly used.

      Aborting a pregnancy is a sure way to control births, though of course has risks and costs and should only be used if safer and cheaper contraception fails.

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    2. Re:Here's how it can hurt... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ...and before you say "oh but I am always careful about birth control". Birth control is not 100% effective even when properly used. Would you let people ride motorbikes without helmets if they promised to be careful and not have an accident knowing that public health care (at least outside the US) would be footing the bill if they did have an accident?

      Ah, but in this analogy, birth control is the equivalent of the helmet for motorcycle riders. Effectively, you're saying that people shouldn't be allowed to ride motorcycles, even if they wear a helmet, because they just might get in an accidentt where the helmet isn't enough to protect them.

    3. Re:Here's how it can hurt... by Roger+W+Moore · · Score: 1

      This is not relevant to the question of how many sexual partners I have. People who have only one lover can still have unplanned pregnancies. Even statistically, if I have two lovers but have sex with each only half as often as someone with one partner, the odds of pregnancy are the same.

      Not quite: you cannot get "extra" pregnant when you are already pregnant so even if you have sex at the same frequency there will be an increase in children because two women can now give birth.

      Amyway, if one of my lovers gets pregnant by me and chooses to have a child, then I will provide financial support. Heck, I'd proably get sued for child support anyway.

      Yes and who will pay for the court case? In same cases it will end up being funded by legal aid or if not will you have enough money to pay support after the lawyers have taken their cut? With multiple women involved you have an increased risk of several children and to different women. Do you earn enough money to support two women living in different houses each with a child? Not only that but suppose it is the woman who has multiple partners. Who is the father? Yes you can do genetic testing but that requires finding the potential fathers and possibly taking them to court to force a DNA sample. Who will pay for all of this?

      Aborting a pregnancy is a sure way to control births...

      ...and, despite the ethical arguments, who has to pay for this?

  132. The reasoning behins this by Askmum · · Score: 1

    I expect the reasoning behind this is that since she wants to be a teacher, everything she does is an example to kids. So drinking is promoting underaged drinking. Well, being 25 (or 27 now) she very likey has a drivers licence and owns a car, so she is promoting underaged driving as well. What makes matters even worse for her, she has two children. What signal does that give to underaged children, that it's alright to have sex?

    Man, this woman is depraved! She should be jailed for life!

  133. Smoke screen by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I sure they had absolutely no issue with the underage drinking issue. It was because of the hat she was wearing. Duh.

  134. Underage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What's wrong with underage drinking?

    When I was in school, I drank every single day, and you know what??? It kept me from getting thirsty!!!

    SOMEONE needs to start thinking about our little tykes' thirst, and I don't think it would be a good idea to introduce intravenous watering mechanisms.

    It's like they say. "If you don't say anything when they come for your water, what's to stop them from coming back for your food?"

    Oh, wait a second! That's a Mr. Goodbar cup. Did you know those things have SUGAR in them??? She's promoting people eating SUGAR!!!

    Sorry, I take it all back.

  135. Why try to apply logic by Goose3254 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Why try to apply logic to a bureaucracy? They continue only through inertia, much like a totally off-topic thread on /...

    From information gathered after reading other sources on this issue, it seems that Ms Snyder's issue stems from one of her advisers at the school where she did her student teaching had found the photo and reported it up to her student adviser at Millersville. The adviser at Conestoga Valley High School (where Stacey had apparently been described as "one of Millersville's finest graduates") called Stacey to tell her that there was an "issue" with the picture and Stacey's adviser at Millersville told her that she "might lose her teaching certificate" over the issue.

    Millersville's mascot is a pirate. In modern pop culture, the "drunken pirate" is ubiquitous. Stacey's wearing of a pirate hat is not unexpected, due to her being a student at school where the mascot is, in fact, a pirate. Stacey is drinking from an opaque plastic cup whose contents cannot be discerned. If she was similarly dressed, drinking from the same cup, with the same caption, and the picture would have been of her DRIVING A SCHOOL BUS, then MAYBE there might be some validity to this knee-jerk reaction. Otherwise it's much ado about nothing. And that is EXACTLY the type of issue that those entrenched in a bureaucracy LOVE to champion; let's get behind a policy that sounds good on paper but is inherently flawed from the moment of it's inception. These guys have a bright future, if the college admin field doesn't pan out for them, then there is always the RIAA, the MPAA, or Microsoft. I'm sure there are quite a few more grandmothers out there to prosecute and persecute, more criminals to create.

    I hope she sues these pretentious prigs into bankruptcy and expands her damage claim to include personally, the Dean of students at Millersville, her student adviser, J. Barry Girvin, and the adviser at Conestoga Valley High School. Further, if a single person in her graduating class accepts a degree from this so-called institution of higher learning then they are the worst kind of hypocrite, by demonstrating they actually know nothing of right and wrong and are too weak to make a stand based on conviction and reason.

  136. How come? by anonieuweling · · Score: 1

    Is this modern times? Is this modern times the USA way? Or what is the reason for people reacting this way to photo's like this one?

  137. Only if man is still alive by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Only if woman can survive

  138. That's not the peace sign by multipartmixed · · Score: 1

    The peace sign has the palm of the hand facing the receiver.

    That's actually the Australian and New Zealander equivalent of The Finger.

    Which, BTW, Bush gave to the Aussies on his first tour. Gets off the plane, boom, up goes The Aussie Finger.

    Imagine what would have happened if John Howard got off the plane in Washington and flipped y'all the bird? Jesus H. Christ, you guys probably would've nuked them back to the stone age!

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  139. GOOD FOR HER by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    WOW - Frivolous lawsuits STAND ASIDE and let this one through. I hate what our society is turning into.

  140. Slashdot effect: by pecosdave · · Score: 2, Insightful

    My guess is getting Slashdotted is probably the best thing going for this woman. Two things can buy justice in American courts, money and eyeballs. Money makes the world go round and with the exception of certain eyeball cases is all that is needed for a victory. Eyeballs on the other hand guarantee that if a court gives a fucked up ruling they'll suffer for it.

    It's unfortunate it comes down to needing one of the two for justice to happen.

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  141. hmmm... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Legal age adult.
    Picture from a Halloween party.
    Dressed as a pirate.
    Drinking from a 'cheerful' plastic cup with no indications of alcohol.
    Once again, legal age adult allowed to drink alcohol photographed drinking an unspecified and unidentified substance, if you ASSUME the cup isn't empty. (A not uncommon event at parties when someone is about to take a picture.)
    Caption reading 'Drunken Pirate'.

    Well, lets see. Whenever anybody dressed as a pirate drinks anything, the standard joke is drunken pirate, and 'is that yer rum?' if it's in a bottle, or 'drinking yer grog ration agin I seez...' if it's a cup or mug. Probability of that being either rum or grog, just about nil. Nobody would be drinking rum from that plastic cup, not even a frat boy. And as to grog, nobody drinks that at a party. Grog is definitely not something to celebrate with. Bread beer is (slightly) better. Most people would rather drink nightquil and mouthwash than grog. (If they've ever tasted grog.)

    Ok, short version, the educators need to be taught a lesson in civil and legal responsibilities. I'm amazed the plaintiff is only asking for diploma, certificate, and $75,000.
    (I'm guessing she's also going for legal costs as well.)

    I guess she's lucky she didn't brandish that plastic cutlass. Then the school might turn her in for being a TERRORIST...

  142. Yay, Bible quotes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    wooohooooo bible quotes. Old testament even. I'll Play.

    Leviticus hmmmm I'll first few. Its all about animal sacrifice. Pure Satanic crap (Bow down to Set i tell ya) if you ask me i mean read this:
    "3:5 And Aaron's sons shall burn it on the altar upon the burnt sacrifice, which is upon the wood that is on the fire: it is an offering made by fire, of a sweet savour unto the LORD." Creepy I tell ya.

    And what about this?
    "3:16 And the priest shall burn them upon the altar: it is the food of the offering made by fire for a sweet savour: all the fat is the LORD's." mmmmmmm fat *drool*

    And yes, before anyone ask, I am going through the Skeptics Annotated bible. (skepticsan...dbible.com ??? nice abbreviation slash) Let us continue

    26:16 I also will do this unto you; I will even appoint over you terror, consumption, and the burning ague, that shall consume the eyes, and cause sorrow of heart: and ye shall sow your seed in vain, for your enemies shall eat it. The bible says everyone must get stoned

    -Your friendly neighborhood Anonymous Cowper's Gland

    ps, my spell checker tells me curseth is spelled wrong. should be curse th . Take that Left hand of God bible writers!
    pps this is not a troll

    1. Re:Yay, Bible quotes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Holy mother of Judas. I messed up my editing and left out

      20:9 For every one that curseth his father or his mother shall be surely put to death: he hath cursed his father or his mother; his blood shall be upon him

      i think my arrows made comment tags. :-( Damn you slash not. *shakes fist and crys out noooooooooo0ooooooo0ooooooooooo* There was supposed be a link that said Biblical Justice: Everybody must get stoned It all looked right in the preview, but slashcode must of bent me over. :-( Quick, check the html code, the message might still be there.

      -Your friendly neighborhood Anonymous Cowper's Gland

  143. CORRELATION != CAUSATION!!!!!!!1111one by 808140 · · Score: 1

    When will you slashdotters evr lrn?!

    1. Re:CORRELATION != CAUSATION!!!!!!!1111one by asninn · · Score: 1

      Oh, come on... you didn't actually take the GP's post serious, did you? (If you didn't and if your post was only intended to be a joke as well, I've got to say it was a pretty weak one.)

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    2. Re:CORRELATION != CAUSATION!!!!!!!1111one by 808140 · · Score: 1

      Jokes you don't get always seem weak, I'm afraid.

    3. Re:CORRELATION != CAUSATION!!!!!!!1111one by asninn · · Score: 1

      Oh, not at all, actually - I'm often a bit thick when it comes to jokes, but in many of those cases, I do find them funny after they're being explained.

      Thinking about it, there probably is a difference between not getting a joke and not getting that there *is* (supposed to be) a joke; in the latter case, I'd agree, yes, but the statement pretty much becomes a tautology then. If I read something and don't get that it is supposed to be a joke, that implies that I don't consider it funny in any way, so naturally I will consider it weak if I'm told it is supposed to be a joke after all.

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  144. We Xenites... by quixote9 · · Score: 1

    always persecute the *same* thing. (Unmatched socks coming out of the dryer, when MATCHED ONES WENT IN.) Makes everything much simpler.

  145. Jumping to conclusions, the Slashdot way! by baboo_jackal · · Score: 2, Insightful
    I don't think we have enough of the facts about this story to be demonizing the university and spreading FUD about the mySpace Police just yet.

    What we know:

    From Millersville University's website:

    The University notes, however, that all of its educational decisions are based on a full range of academic performance issues, not solely on a student's personal website or social networking site. The University is committed to maintaining the academic integrity of its academic programs and degrees and will vigorously defend itself and the actions of its employees in legal proceedings related to the lawsuit.
    The University claims that Snyder didn't receive her degree for academic performance issues. Snyder claims that she didn't because of the mySpace picture. I found another article that said this:

    Stacy Snyder, a 27-year-old single mother of two, was a student-teacher at Conestoga Valley High School at the time she posted the picture on her "MySpace" account last May. Earning her teaching degree at Millersville University, she was all but done with her requirements before graduating. But then, her cooperating teacher at Conestoga Valley found out about the posting, and confronted her. "'(She said) There's a problem with your professionalism. You're not able to attend our school. You can't come back,'" said Snyder from her Strasburg home.
    So what it sounds like is that she got booted from her student-teacher internship at Conestoga for the photo. I assume that the Millersville then decided that because she didn't complete her internship, a requirement for graduation as a teacher, that she didn't merit a teaching degree. If there's any "mySpace police" in this story, it's not the university - it's a school, who can certainly have their own standards to which they require their teachers to uphold.

    What we don't know:

    1) We have no idea of Snyder's actual academic record at Millersville. She could very well have had a spotty record, and getting booted from an internship was "the last straw" for the Teaching Dept at Millersville. Or she could have had an exemplary record, and getting booted from the teaching program was a weird administrative requirement. Point is, we don't know.

    2) We have no idea of whether or not Snyder could, if she chose to remain, complete another internship to get her teaching degree. All we know is that she can't get it *now* because of the internship. She could very well be able to re-do the internship, but is just too impatient and thinks that suing is easier than teaching. Or she may not be able to do that, and is totally screwed out of her degree. Point is, we don't know.

    So, all I'm trying to say is that I think we're jumping to a whole lot of conclusions without enough facts.
  146. Assimilation and import by alexhmit01 · · Score: 1

    Of course, genetic transmission does not imply memetic transmission (though they are obviously highly correlated). You could argue that, on the one hand, you have communities and societies that are fecund, but scientifically (and hence economically) backward.


    Right, but if I'm simply an animal, and not a human being endowed by my creator, and I'm not a creation in God's imagine, but rather a result of natural selection over generations, shouldn't I focus entirely on passing my DNA along? Isn't man's "wiring" for promiscuity stem form a desire to spread their seed, a desire the that Hebrew Bible merely channeled by declaring each woman his bride and obligating him towards them.

    It's EXTREMELY ironic, in my opinion, that the more one accepts religious dictates, the more likely one is to behave in a manner consistent with evolution theory, and the more one rejects those dictates and accepts science as the core value, the more likely one is to behave in a manner inconsistent with evolution theory that they "accept" and "believe" in.

    One might argue that, to the extent the latter communities and societies can invite and assimilate members from among the population of fundamentalists, they will ultimately prove successful.


    Correct, the secular enlightened societies can compensate for low birthrate by pulling in the people from the religious communities. The problem with this is you need them to come AND assimilate into the culture, increasing your stock of people for your culture. As the EU has seen with their North African immigrants, and the US has seen with SOME groups of immigrants, there is an increasing trend of mass immigration that combined with multiculturalism that decries forced assimilation, is resulting in these immigrant groups joining the country and economy as cheap labor, receiving citizenship of the adopted nation, but not assimilating into the culture.

    Unless nation-state immigration policies begin to incorporate cultural assimilation, I think that it is far more likely that the expanding cultures will simply over-run the nation-states, grabbing control via Democracy instead of outright invasion.
    1. Re:Assimilation and import by GlobalEcho · · Score: 1

      Of course, genetic transmission does not imply memetic transmission (though they are obviously highly correlated). You could argue that, on the one hand, you have communities and societies that are fecund, but scientifically (and hence economically) backward.


      Right, but if I'm simply an animal, and not a human being endowed by my creator, and I'm not a creation in God's imagine, but rather a result of natural selection over generations, shouldn't I focus entirely on passing my DNA along?


      I see two problems with that argument. First, you cannot in principle get an "ought" from an "is" (this is a well-pedigreed philosophical principle). Just because you, say, have the urge to pick your nose, or beat up your subling or whatever, doesn't mean you ought to do it. Second, it presumes that the essence of your individuality is expressed solely in your genes. That completely ignores both the epigenetic and (more important) memetic components of you. For example, I would feel continuity off self were I to undergo a transplant of reproductive organs, and even, I believe, were my consciousness (my memetic self) to be transferred to a robot.

      Memes are both more ambiguous and fluid than genes. They also evolve more quickly. It is quite possible that, once the genetic and cultural substrate for vibrant memetic evolution has been established, genes become almost irrelevant.

      Isn't man's "wiring" for promiscuity stem form a desire to spread their seed, a desire the that Hebrew Bible merely channeled by declaring each woman his bride and obligating him towards them.


      I quite agree. Evolutionary psychology has quite a few interesting things to say about culture and monogamy.
  147. student teacher sent students to her myspace by wallybat · · Score: 2, Informative

    http://local.lancasteronline.com/4/203603 i guess the issue was more that she was posting to her student's websites and promoting her own myspace to them. Also she had other images on her site other than the seemingly innocuous one where she was making gestures etc. She was asked to stop conversing with her students online and did not stop. So this was not a single incident. She was also getting bad evaluations as a student teacher outside of this issue. So this doesn't seem to be just about someone having a myspace that was found by an employer.

  148. Personal Grudge? by Taelron · · Score: 1

    Seams this whole thing against her is more vindictive than a justifiable issue. More likely either a facilty member or a fellow student who reported her to the facilty had a personal grudge with her and is using some trumped up alligations to keep her from achieving her goal of becoming a teacher herself.

    Could be something as simple as personalities clash or she spurned someones advances... Who knows, but this is clearly another example of the system being abused to punish someone else because of some other irrelevant personal issue. If its a facilty member then we are also looking at abuse of power or position...

    Regardless, the school has errored in its action and its likely she will win her case. Sadly the damage is done and this all public record so she'll still have a hard time finding a job teaching anywhere...

  149. Of course she was wrong by n6kuy · · Score: 1

    ... to encourage underage drinking.

    My God, people! Don't you know that nearly 100% of hardened criminals and drug and alcohol abusers started out by drinking milk? That's what she was drinking in that photo, right?

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  150. The trouble with taking over the world by breeding by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The trouble with taking over the world by breeding is that eventually, you run out of world.

  151. Re:umm - throwing the BS flag by freakmn · · Score: 1

    ... and about 99.9% chance of being trolled by some fool on Slashdot. Crap. Nobody told me that you could get pregnant or diseases from that. The public school system has failed me!
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  152. WHERE ARE THE MODERATORS by mstahl · · Score: 3, Insightful

    This comment is way way way way way off-topic. Seriously now. We're talking about underage drinking, freedom of expression, and puritanical outlooks on life that make no damn sense.

    Who is out there modding this insightful? Come over here. You're 'bout to get stabbed in the jaw.

    1. Re:WHERE ARE THE MODERATORS by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

      Oh, for Pete's sake, welcome to Slashdot. Topics wander all over all the time - there's a clear thread from the root to this fella's comment. Which group that's going to bring about the fall of the Republic that he criticized are you a member of that you want to get all though-police on him?

      If you want to argue that mod points are only appropriate to comments which directly address the story, fine, but that's not how things work.

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    2. Re:WHERE ARE THE MODERATORS by mstahl · · Score: 1

      I know, I know. I'm newer here than you are but not that new ;). I just sleep better at night knowing my +5 cancels out his +5 somehow.

  153. We are way OT here but just to help you out.... by COMON$ · · Score: 1
    Personally I have a fairly good grip on the debate at hand, and while you build a weak straw man as indicated by another poster I think it may because you are misunderstanding why people are against BC.

    People are against BC because they believe either

    a: Marriage is to procreate

    or

    b: they believe that the BC in question destroys a human life (the believers that Humanity begins at conception with the unique DNA fingerprint).

    Also most anti BC people are all about the sex, more the better as well, better chance of procreation. This knocks down all three of your assumptions and replaces them with more substantial versions.

    However, even a non Christian (as it seems Christians are at the head of the anti BC debate) can admit that BC directly reduces the chances of babies so out of wedlock people can have more sex. Sex out of wedlock statistically is causing an exponential increase in STDs, which in turn increase the chance that a non sexually active person will get an STD accidentally or an STD will be carried over into a marriage.

    Personally I am a fan of BC, allows me to plan my family better and keeps poorer families from slipping into poverty (which I believe was the original intention of BC). I am picky about my birth control though through a well though out process I believe. I have many friends who are consistent anti birth control, where Natural Family Planning is out of the question as well.

    But this post has gotten long enough and I hope it clears a bit of your anoyances with the debate up, and if you do have friends/family that believe what you posted, I sincerely feel they should be on birth control to save their children from their line of thinking.

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  154. Re:Rome by The+Angry+Mick · · Score: 1

    Some historians point to a declining birthrate as the cause of the fall of the Western Roman Empire. Decadence and homosexuality (which avoided children) caused massive drops in birth rates, and eventually Rome collapsed.

    Personally, I think Rome's collapse had a lot more to do with its rulers being batshit crazy, but, that's just my opinion. ;-)

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  155. underage drinking? by razpones · · Score: 1

    First of all, who cares what she does on her spare time, second she is not underage or was at the time, third she paid her school in time (I asume), and pass her classes. So they should give her the diploma of what she was studying. As long as she wasn't drunk in class, they (school admin.) have nothing to say.

  156. Re:umm - throwing the BS flag by LSanchez · · Score: 2, Funny

    You forgot about the .00001% chance of a necrophiliac robbing your grave and raping you.

  157. father figure? by pbhj · · Score: 1

    >>> "Thus, the Church and other groups oppose promiscuous sex not by saying that it is immoral or shallow, but on the grounds that it produces a population of children without a father figure (which it is then presumed makes them less able members of society)."

    The Church (the followers of Jesus Christ that is) oppose promiscuous sex because God says it's wrong. Period.

    The fact that promiscuous sex spreads disease, leads to unwanted children being conceived, breaks up families and distracts people from living a fulfilled life (you may disagree with this last one) is not the reason. It is not about logic it is about obedience. We can attempt to justify the morality /ex post factum/ (and do) but you are confusing the motive with a worldly justification.

    Corinthians 6 (http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?book_id=53&c hapter=6&version=31) says that when we have sex with someone we're united with them. Here and elsewhere we are told to be only united with God and our spouse.

    Also, I think you're way off base with this "father figure" idea. Promiscuity and paternity aren't mutually exclusive. Moreover for Christians God is the supreme father figure and the church community would offer a proliferation of male role models. This means that if it were down the the morality that you propose there would be a way to maintain the father figures for children (and perhaps increase the access of children to male role models) and still sleep around.

    FWIW.

  158. Reductio ad absurdum by Sun+Rider · · Score: 1

    If her fellow teachers really support her, maybe they can do some sort of DDOS defense: all supporting teachers on the state have themselves photographed when drinking and publish the pics on the internet. They can't ban all the teachers of a state. If her fellow teachers don't want to support her, then maybe they all deserve to live in that kind of society.

  159. My letter to the University by einhverfr · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Hi;

    While I recognize that you cannot comment on the ongoing federal lawsuit, I would like to send my sincere thanks to your institution for teaching us all a very valuable civics lesson regarding the current state of our Constitutional liberties in our great republic.

    As a state university, your officers are agents of the state. Just as the Bush Administration (like the Clinton administration before it) has gone out of their way to suggest that any of their compelling interests (like the appearance of security) take precidence over our essential liberties, so too have you shown that you the once-cherished Freedom of Speech seems to be dead if one might misinterpret the ideas as supporting even in the abstract the possibility of lawless action.

    I would sincerely hope you start encouraging law schools to omit Brandenburg v. Ohio (and the previous cases such as Yeates and Whitney) from their curriculums since these might too be taken as supporting ideas which are dangerous to our sense of right society. Once we can ensure that these pesky precidents are forgotted about, we can get back to the business of creating a society of pleasant appearance, free from those pesky liberties which are the source of all bad choices.

    And no, I am not a lawyer :-)

    Best Wishes,
    Chris Travers

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  160. Relatively speaking... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    2005 was 2 years ago, and she's 27 now, that makes her 25 in the photo...how is this underage drinking again?
    My money's on the time dilation effect. I'm damned if I can figure out whether you, she or Millersville University was the one travelling at something approaching the speed of light though.
  161. Millersville Student by Screamest · · Score: 1

    Being a Millersville University student, I find this to be ridiculous. Lets just hope she wins and sticks it to "the man".

  162. money-making opportunity for administrators' kids by bill_mcgonigle · · Score: 1

    Yeah, next time my teacher has a tired look on his face and takes a sip from his mug, I'm gonna snap a picture of him and use the caption "Is there vodka in that mug!?!"

    If one of the rebelious children of any of the administrators who brought this action want to dig through their parents' photos and find a similar or more 'interesting' photograph of the administrator, I'm sure among the slashdot crowd we could scare up a grand in $1 donations for a copy of said picture.

    This would just be a karma-enforcement action.

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  163. Picture proves she is qualified! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Maybe her dream was to teach pirates. The picture is more than enough proof to show the she is well qualified!

  164. Illogical? by WK2 · · Score: 0

    The official spoken arguments for certain positions, such as alien visitors...

    I can still feel the probe up my butt, you insensitive clod.

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  165. Not a real pirate .... by HW_Hack · · Score: 1

    First off .... That is not a real Pirate hat. Secondly Pirates DO NOT drink from Mr. GoodBar cups.

    Any questions ??

    She will win her suit - get her certificate - and finally be able to buy a real Pirate hat and goblet

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  166. Interesting comparison with Japan by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I teach at elementary schools in Japan right now, and I can say that their attitude about drinking is a little different. One thing that surpirsed me a lot when I came here is that it is legal to drink in public. I was talking with some of my fellow teachers about this, and they were like "Yeah, sure, go drink in the park, whatever. If a cop sees you he might ask if you have a job but if you do it's no problem." The thing that really amazed me, though, is that, at local festivals, flower viewing parties, etc. on the weekends, it is not that big a deal for a teacher to be stumbling down the street shit drunk with a beer in his hand in broad daylight, even if his students are at the festival. One of the funniest things i have ever seen was the expressions on everyone's faces, when, after a night of bar crawling following an official work party, all of the male teachers were stumbling out of a hostess bar in the red light district, and ran into the head of the PTA and a couple of his cronies stumbling out of a somewhat more risque establishment across the street at the same time. Nothing ever came of it, though. Just the PTA head and the vice principal looking really really embarassed and bowing at each other for a while.

  167. So employers do own us after all. by jotaeleemeese · · Score: 2, Insightful

    It is not enough to show up in the office, work diligently during our working hours and then some.

    We are also suppossed to behave in a way our feudal lords, sorry, employers, deem appropriate in accordance to their more out of office hours, in our private time.

    Charming concept.

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  168. re: hardly worth replying, but.... by King_TJ · · Score: 1

    Despite you opting to "take the low road" and attack me anonymously:

    1. MySpace being part of the popular culture IS completely relevant to this discussion. I had plenty of teachers when I was in school who referenced aspects of "pop culture", just to make themselves more human and "accessible" to the class. If you're going to be part of a captive audience, listening to the same person teach for at least an hour every day of the week, it's *normal* to want to learn a little bit about what their personal interests and beliefs are. It makes it easier to interpret some of the statements they make in class when you have a better handle on who they are as an individual.

    2. No, it's NOT professional to go out and get drunk with your classmates - but I didn't think that was the issue here? The photo everyone was getting upset about was simply captioned "drunken pirate" and showed the teacher in a Halloween costume, holding up a glass. That means zilch! I bought a bunch of Halloween goblets a few years ago myself... ghoulish plastic cups that we usually just drink water out of. If I'm in *costume* as a vampire holding one, and a caption on my photo says "Enjoying a glass of blood!" - does that mean that's REALLY what I'm doing?

  169. Good theocracies are the ones one believes in. by jotaeleemeese · · Score: 1

    Bad ones are all the rest.

    If you can't see what this is flawed, move to Iran or Saudi Arabia and ask them what is their opiion of having a Christian government.

    Honestly guys, religious types should ensure their goverments are atheist, at least you all would have a fighting chance to be ignored in equal measure....

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  170. Er, humm, no. by jotaeleemeese · · Score: 1

    The Catholic Church sees pleasure for pleasure's sake as sinful.

    Call it sex, glutony, or anything else really.

    Sex by itself is immoral if it is pursued only by a means to attain pleasure (masturbation is heavily discouraged as well for the same reason).

    Sex enjoyed when doing it for procreation is perfectly fine since pleasure is not the end itself.

    ALl is nonsense frankly, but as somebody reaised as a Catholic I think you are mistaken.

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  171. Re:umm ... thanks for your post by pbhj · · Score: 1

    If you're ever in South Wales I'll buy you a $beverage and we can have a chat.

  172. Other Side? of the Story? by DrAwesome · · Score: 1

    I've got a few ties in the area and have an idea what might actually be going on A few URLs that are useful: Actual text of the lawsuit (which seems to be the basis of most of the news stories): http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/years/2007/04 26072pirate1.html Public statement from the high school involved: http://www.cvsd.k12.pa.us/DS/tempNews/snyderLawsui t05_07.pdf Now consider 1) The picture swap. According to the lawsuit: " To date, Defendants have not provided Plaintiff with a copy of the picture in question. However, a similar picture is attached hereto..." Pretty sneaky, considering the plaintiff must know full well what the picture (it was on her page) was and seemingly has substituted a much more innocuous one as a substitute. 2) Only the plaintiff claims the picture is the reason the teaching certification was not granted. Lack of professionalism is the reason that is on paper. 3) According to the high school, the plaintiff was directing her high school students to her myspace page, it wasn't just "found" by someone out to get her. 4) The documentation from the high school seems to indicate the plaintiff was criticizing someone at the high school (presumeably one of her supervisors) on the myspace page. My deduction (induction?) - the plaintiff was actually complaining to the class about her supervisor (their teacher) in a way she thought the teacher wouldn't notice. The picture was submitted as supporting evidence and has been used as a red herring to confuse the real issue. What do you think? 2)