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Yahoo Reminds Users That 'No' Doesn't Mean 'No'

rawg writes "Looks like Yahoo is resetting their 'Marketing Preferences' again. In an email I received from Yahoo today it states, 'Starting January 1, 2004, Yahoo! will begin to send you messages, via email or postal mail, about our own products and services. You can control the types of messages you receive by visiting your Marketing Preferences at any time'. It also states, 'And, as always, you can delete your Yahoo! account altogether at any time, for any reason, by going to the deletion page.' I deleted my Yahoo account a month ago. I guess they are lying, because I'm still getting their SPAM."

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  1. "No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 3, Funny

    After 15 years of marriage I am well aware of "No means No" !

    1. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Too easy. Ever heard of a guy saying "no" in that context? See?

    2. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because the stats show that the average altlifestyle couple fucks around on each other a lot. Like 5-6 times per year.

    3. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      it's always better than to be the cock sucking faggot that YOU are

    4. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Funny

      not so fast cowboy! could be a chick married to a chick!

      (in that case: SEND PIX! ... please)

    5. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Aw, people can come up with statistics to prove anything, Kent. Forty percent of all people know that.

    6. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      And often times, even "Yes" means "No"

    7. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The stats also show that 99.99999999999999999% of Anonymous Cowards are repressed, self-hating homosexuals who act out on this self-suppression a lot. Like 50-60 times a year.

    8. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I wonder why it is that guys get hot over the thought of two girls together, but girls never get hot over the thought of two guys together. Huh.

    9. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      They do.

    10. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Too much foreskin.

    11. Re:"No" by Snake_Plisken · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Gee, that's funny. I'm married and I get it constantly. Sounds like you need to look at how you are presenting yourself to women.

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    12. Re:"No" by slaker · · Score: 0, Troll

      Yup, this is OT. Fuck you. I modded myself down.

      My ex- did that.

      We were together 12 years, perfectly happy and one night at a party she had a couple of drinks, kissed another girl and had an orgasm instantly.

      She told me, a few days later, that she had never in her life felt lust before that instant, and that much as she loves me, she didn't want to live without that feeling.

      How can I blame her for that?

      Anyway, the total kick in the ass is that the woman my ex- finally hooked up with looks A LOT like me (overweight, pasty, geeky). I had never met her, but I attended their handfasting ceremony (which is a sort of pagan wedding-like ritual), and everyone was asking how I was related to the, er, bride. The other side effect is that my ex- remains about 95% closeted, so I was the only person from her old life who attended... along with about 20 women who fit every bad stereotype of "butch" you can think of, many of whom were actively hostile to my presence.

      My point is, I don't know if women marrying women is something to joke about. The fact that my ex's true sexuality was so deeply buried she was almost 30 before she figured it out is a tragedy in and of itself, but so is the fact that I spent 12 years without ever realizing it either.

      Much as I like to talk about porno there's no way I'd find a joke like that funny again. Girls who like girls don't really look like the ones on the internet, or in movies, and almost every coming-out story I've ever heard has involved a heterosexual partner getting hosed emotionally and psychologically. I certainly am.

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    13. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Note to self: Make sure to harass slaker about his wife leaving him for a woman on a daily basis.
      Thanks

    14. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sorry for that, sir. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

      Anyway. Isn't it painfully obvious for everyone who's smart that marriage isn't the way to spend your life if you still want to do interesting things (like tinkering with technology and science - even in your free time) when you're older? Why do geeky people marry? What the hell do they get out of it?

    15. Re:"No" by simcop2387 · · Score: 0

      what we couldn't get in high school

    16. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The simplest answer is usually the correct one. Most of us computer nerds don't have much game (maybe not any). When it's pretty hard to pick up chicks, and so instead of one night stands you're moving from long term relationship to long term relationship, it is pretty easy to get attached, but even easier to start really guarding that relationship - you start to not want to lose the chick because you don't know when you'll be able to get another one.

      Doesn't sound like a good reason to get married? IT'S NOT. Lesson painfully learned through divorce. I'll bet a lot of others here have similar stories though.

    17. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why don't you try arousing her?

    18. Re:"No" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't think it gets much worse than having to sleep with the same ugly hag for 15 years (FIFTEEN! JESUS FUCKING CHRIST! IMAGINE THAT!

      Yeah, that's like four years longer than you've been alive. Holy shit!

  2. Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by strredwolf · · Score: 1

    I mind the electronic spam -- my Yahoo! Mail account keeps getting clogged. Don't mind the paper, though, because they're paying the bulk of the cost anyway and I have recycling at home.

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    1. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by jpsst34 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I mind the paper. Even though it's easy enough to throw it in the recycle bin and wash my guilty conscience of it, I'd still feel better if it were never created in the first place.

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    2. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Even though it's easy enough to throw it in the recycle bin and wash my guilty conscience of it, I'd still feel better if it were never created in the first place.

      Exactly. Let's not forget that it's "Reduce" first, then "Reuse" (ever use scrap paper for taking phone messages?), then "Recycle".

    3. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by johndoesovich · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I have enough crapmail I receive at my house, I don't need more. When I visited the marketing preferences page and told them no for a second time, this is what I was returned

      Thank you, your changes have been saved. Please allow approximately 5 days for this change to take effect.

      Why would it take 5 days to remove me from a friggin mailing list? A simple delete query should remove me from the database immediately.

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    4. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by sporty · · Score: 1

      Says the person with a normal size mailbox. I recently had to call a dept store to tell them to not mail me their catalogues. I get one for me, one for the woman, in this tiny little apartment building box.

      Yes, I *COULD* get a postbox, but my mail box is meant for mail, not bulky items that bend and fill it up.

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    5. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by banzai51 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It's all bullshit. They only have to sell your name once in order to start recieving spam and junk. Note to the clue impaired: They "sell" your name when you create the account, before you say no to spam and junk.

    6. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by Hollins · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I agree with you. Even though it takes more effort to throw out a credit card offer than delete an email, the fact that they had to pay around $0.30 to send it in paper and bulk mailing costs makes me not mind. Bulk email, which approaches free, has entirely different economics which makes it much more insidious by my perspective.

      However, I don't feel the same about telephone solicitations. They've always outraged me, even though there is a cost involved. Before DNC was implemented, I encouraged everyone to keep phone solicitors on the line as long as possible without purchasing anything. I hoped that the ratio of per call cost to hit rate could be increased sufficiently to make the process no longer worthwhile. Others advocated this also, but it never seemed to catch on.

    7. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by thomas.galvin · · Score: 1

      I mind the electronic spam -- my Yahoo! Mail account keeps getting clogged. Don't mind the paper, though, because they're paying the bulk of the cost anyway and I have recycling at home.

      I'm the exact opposite. I can filter my spam, and click "delete" if that doesn't work. Bulk mail sits around until I take out the grabage, and irks me a bit more.

    8. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by simcop2387 · · Score: 1, Interesting

      thats why i always use fake names and addresses when i sign up for stuff, boy do i feel sorry for the guy living at '123 Fake st. Springfield, Ill.'

    9. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by freeweed · · Score: 1

      Don't mind the paper, though, because they're paying the bulk of the cost anyway and I have recycling at home.

      I mind the paper.

      Recycling or not, until you have a closed, 100% efficient system, printing something and then recycling it is still wasteful.

      And even if they pay for it, who do you think ends up bearing the brunt of the cost? Their customers. A group that I am often included in, long before they decided to mail me.

      I've also had times where the post office has held some of my mail because our mailbox fills with ulk mail in about 2 days on average. THAT is a hell of a lot more of a burden on my time than deleting some emails.

      Mind you, I hate all of it. I'm an intelligent person, I can find out about your company on my own if I want to, thank you very much.

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    10. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by vida · · Score: 1

      What the fsck do we care? I cannot believe there's one of you guys that put your real address on any type of online form that doesn't involve shipping/payment... or maps.

      -Facun.
    11. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      Good thing I live in Springfield, New Jersey.

    12. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by ckaminski · · Score: 1

      Right, but marketing is all about selling us shit we don't need. Educated consumers are a manufacturers worst enemy...

    13. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by OMEGA+Power · · Score: 2, Funny

      Personally, I always use horror movie villians for website registration. Although I can't help but worry that maybe Freddy Krueger wouldn't have killed all those people if he wasn't getting all my SPAM and junk mail

    14. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by 00420 · · Score: 1

      Are you talking about Yahoo's Spam? In the email they sent out yesterday there was a link straight to your prefrences page so you could click No to everything. It takes about 30 seconds total. Sure it kinda sucks that you have to do anything to not get spam from them, but at least it's easy to stop.

      As far as other spam, yahoo has a pretty good filter. I use my yahoo email when I give out my address online and pretty close to 100% of unwanted stuff gets blocked (about 400 a day), while I have very rarely had a false positive (which is easily correctable).

    15. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by Disavian · · Score: 1

      hmm, so those 50 or so yahoo mail accounts I have made (not to spam, mind you... for things like Magic Online, etc) with their fake names and addresses... they're all going to get mail sent to those fake addresses? Ooops. Not my problem. Hmm... how does that affect the economics of this? not very much, probably... $0.30*50=$15 per mailing :D =enough to get me a six-month subscription to deviantart.com

    16. Re:Mind the electronic spam, don't mind the paper. by csirac · · Score: 1

      Actually, IIRC, they distribute the spam on behalf of their clients, so only Y! has you address.

  3. Full text of the Yahoo! Message by JoshuaDFranklin · · Score: 5, Informative

    Dear Yahoo! Member,

    Last year we announced changes that affect how we communicate with Yahoo! members about Yahoo!'s own products and services. However, we have not yet implemented those changes for all our registered members. Because of your previous account settings, Yahoo! has not yet sent you marketing communications under the new program. Before we do, we want to remind you how to set your preferences, and let you know what has changed and what is not changing.

    Background Information
    Over the years, we've sent emails to some registered Yahoo! members about Yahoo! products and services. We've also delivered promotional messages to Yahoo! members on behalf of our marketing partners. When you first registered with us and created your Yahoo! ID, our system presented a single "Yes" or "No" option for receiving all types of marketing communications. At some point you said "No," and after that we no longer sent any of these types of messages to you.

    In March 2002, we began rolling out an updated marketing communications system. Instead of just a single "Yes" or "No" choice, we created a new Marketing Preferences page where you decide:

    * whether you want to hear from Yahoo! about our own products and services, and separately, whether you want to hear from Yahoo! about the offerings of our marketing partners;

    * whether you want to hear from Yahoo! about certain types of Yahoo! products and services but not others (For example, you can select specific categories such as "Managing personal finances" or "Using Yahoo! for research and surfing the Web," and de-select other categories that might not be of interest to you.);

    * whether you want to hear from Yahoo! (or not) by postal mail or telephone, in addition to email.

    When this updated system was first announced in March 2002, we told you we'd begin sending you messages about Yahoo! products and services across all categories, even though you had said "No" to messages under the old single choice system. We also told you that you could still say "No" to these messages by visiting your Marketing Preferences. But we did not completely implement this change until now.

    What's Changing on January 1, 2004
    Starting January 1, 2004, Yahoo! will begin to send you messages, via email or postal mail, about our own products and services. (We will not send you postal mail if you have given us a mailing address and have opted out of contact via postal delivery.) You can control the types of messages you receive by visiting your Marketing Preferences at any time.

    What's Not Changing on January 1, 2004
    As in the past, you will not be sent messages on behalf of our marketing partners. We will not call you on the telephone to market products or services. If you ever change your mind about any of these choices you can let us know by visiting and updating your Marketing Preferences at any time. Every marketing email you receive from Yahoo! will continue to include instructions for how to unsubscribe from more marketing email. And, as always, you can delete your Yahoo! account altogether at any time, for any reason, by going to the deletion page.

    Please visit our Frequently Asked Questions page for more information. We look forward to serving you.

    Sincerely,

    Yahoo!

    1. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by the+morgawr · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Before this change you could specify if you wanted them to email you. Now you can do control how (and if) Yahoo contacts you on specific issues. From their point of view they are probably hoping that people will leave one or two things on instead of turning it all off. I doubt it will work though

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    2. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by dubiousmike · · Score: 3, Insightful

      what is apaling, is that instead of going from one "no" to many "no"s or at least one "no" to one "no" and a bunch of "yes"s, they simply change your preference to not hear from them at all, to hearing from them and everyone who gives them a ducket or two.

      It is clearly about money and much, much less about doing what is right.

    3. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What is appalling is your spelling and grammar.

    4. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It is clearly about money and much, much less about doing what is right.

      It always is. It's not even "much, much less" about doing what's right. It's not at all about doing what's right. That's corporatism.

    5. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by ak_hepcat · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Somehow I got around this by specifying my primary email address as 'noemail@nodomain.no'

      It's never been an issue for me, thankfully..

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    6. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Terms of Service:

      3. YOUR REGISTRATION OBLIGATIONS

      In consideration of your use of the Service, you represent that you are of legal age to form a binding contract and are not a person barred from receiving services under the laws of the United States or other applicable jurisdiction. You also agree to: (a) provide true, accurate, current and complete information about yourself as prompted by the Service's registration form (such information being the "Registration Data") and (b) maintain and promptly update the Registration Data to keep it true, accurate, current and complete. If you provide any information that is untrue, inaccurate, not current or incomplete, or Yahoo! has reasonable grounds to suspect that such information is untrue, inaccurate, not current or incomplete, Yahoo! has the right to suspend or terminate your account and refuse any and all current or future use of the Service (or any portion thereof).


      You're a dickhead.

      Oh, and I loved your work in the A-1 Janitorial commercial -- a regular tour de force.

    7. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I got around it by registering my Yahoo! account years ago, and then changing ISP. They can spam the address they have all they like.

    8. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Why don't you work in a gulag?

    9. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by Gunzour · · Score: 1

      Hmm, when I got this email I went back and checked all of my preferences and they all still said no. Yahoo hasn't reset anything, no still means no, so I don't see what the issue is here.

    10. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Same with me, BTW.

    11. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by 87C751 · · Score: 1
      The preferences management page has 13 categories under which Yahoo! may send you email. I just checked, and all 13 (along with the choice for 3rd-party junk) on my account are still set to 'No'. The physical address and phone number are a bit out of date, though. ;) Guess I'll have to check back around year's end, though.

      Really, the only reason I even have a Yahoo! Account! is for a few mailing lists, cuz the only way to actually recieve Yahoo! mailing lists as mail is to have an account. In the past month, 4 of them have bailed over to their own servers. There are 4 more that I'd like to keep, but would like to see move off of Yahoo!. Time to start evangelizing.

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    12. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by dubiousmike · · Score: 1

      they hadn't changed it either from when I edited them about 8 months ago, but prior to that, they had "added more options" and changed me from a single no to a multiple yes. I had to opt out of everything. It wasn't much trouble to do, but had I not started to receive mail from folks they brokered my email addy to, I might not have noticed so quickly. On top of that, when they bought out HotJobs and Launch, they took my account info from those places, created a yahoo account for me and opted me into all of the stuff. One company had the same email address as I used with Yahoo, so they nixed that new account, but the other (Launch, I think) used a different email than Yahoo had seen before.

      I subscribe to the belief that I will trade my personal data (to a point) when getting value in return, but I don't like it when they change their mind without notice. This time they are telling people - last time, they didn't with me.

    13. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by ckaminski · · Score: 1

      I cried... literally cried... the day egroups sold out to yahoo...

      Anyone notice lately how Yahoo! Mail is starting to filter Yahoo! Groups mail digests as spam?

    14. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Anybody know anyone who's had their account terminated for providing inaccurate registration information? I don't really have much respect for rules/laws that aren't enforced.

    15. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by Yakko · · Score: 1

      I stopped using relays.osirusoft.com as an RBL when they put Yahoo Groups in the list. It wouldn't've bothered me, really, but when my users are missing their list mail, that's kinda different.

      (I dunno if Yahoo Groups is still blackholed, but I didn't bother checking back after that stunt.)

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    16. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by karnal · · Score: 1

      God dammit.. you guys don't fucking read, do you?

      "What's Changing on January 1, 2004
      Starting January 1, 2004, Yahoo! will begin to send you messages, via email or postal mail, about our own products and services. (We will not send you postal mail if you have given us a mailing address and have opted out of contact via postal delivery.) You can control the types of messages you receive by visiting your Marketing Preferences at any time."

      You'd think that 1/2 of the posts would'nt be like this....

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    17. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by 87C751 · · Score: 1
      God dammit.. you guys don't fucking read, do you?
      God dammit.. you don't fucking read either, do you?
      Guess I'll have to check back around year's end, though.
      It's not my first week on Yahoo, buster. But yes, I did half-expect them to reset my prefs early, given that they've done it before.
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    18. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ITYM "appealing".

    19. Re:Full text of the Yahoo! Message by ak_hepcat · · Score: 1

      Ooh, i've got a fanboy! Yay!

      Too bad you missed my Action Security commercial.
      I thought that was much more true to the artform.

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  4. I got the same email.... by puppetman · · Score: 0, Redundant

    There's a link to go to your account preferences.

    I'd set mine to "no contact" when the issue came up a while back; it hadn't changed, so I expect I'll see no spam.

    I was expecting that they'd have changed them to send me spam, but it was a somewhat pleasant surprise that they hadn't.

    1. Re:I got the same email.... by pixelpusher220 · · Score: 0, Redundant

      Ditto for me. Sorta wondering what I'm missing, or are they resetting as of Jan 1?

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    2. Re:I got the same email.... by LC+Gundo · · Score: 1
      Right,

      They haven't changed mine either.

      They said

      "But we did not completely implement this change until now"

      and

      "Starting January 1, 2004, Yahoo! will begin to send you messages . . ."

      so I guess what the announcement means is that Yahoo's spew mongers are going start cranking out the old mainsleaze in earnest come new years.

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    3. Re:I got the same email.... by Zeinfeld · · Score: 4, Interesting
      There's a link to go to your account preferences.

      Which only works if you can remember what the account you might have is. I don't know which account I made the mistake of giving an honest email address for. I am pretty sure it is not the one I use these days.

      The point is that I ONLY gave Yahoo! my email address because they promised not to spam me. Now they have BROKEN that promise.

      If they lie to their customers they are probably lying to their accountants and shareholders as well. With hindsight it is pretty easy to see that the manipulation of the California energy market by Enron should have been a warning that maybe they were manipulating other things.

      Jim Cramer has a note on his monitor, 'financial irregularities means sell'. I suggest folk add another 'Broken undertakings means sell'

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    4. Re:I got the same email.... by Santos+L.+Halper · · Score: 3, Informative

      I'm in the same situation from an account I created like 5 years ago. However, I found that if click on the account settings link, it takes you to a web page with an options that says something to the effect of "This account is not mine." I clicked on that, and the page said they would stop sending any mail to my address.

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    5. Re:I got the same email.... by Zeinfeld · · Score: 1
      I'm in the same situation from an account I created like 5 years ago. However, I found that if click on the account settings link, it takes you to a web page with an options that says something to the effect of "This account is not mine." I clicked on that, and the page said they would stop sending any mail to my address.

      That does not change the fact that I should not need to take any effort simply to ensure that Yahoo! keeps a promise that it has previously made.

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    6. Re:I got the same email.... by hitchgoat · · Score: 1

      I also set all of my preferences to "Don't bother me" when they first brought this up, and I've never gotten a word of spam from them. This message itself wasn't spam, you'd all be way more furious if they'd changed their privacy policy or opt-out policy without telling you. There are a ton evil services out there that bug the crap out of me with spam, Yahoo isn't one of them.

    7. Re:I got the same email.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Then you should send a nice calm letter to the FTC explaining this. The FTC will have a firm talk with Yahoo! if people complain.

    8. Re:I got the same email.... by stfvon007 · · Score: 1

      At least they arnt like Microsoft Hotmail that sells your email address to spammers without telling you. (except for 1 sentence in the privacy policy)

      Anyway with yahoo I did an experiment starting about 2 1/2 years ago. I made 3 email accounts. 1 I give out freely to whoever wanted it and posting it wherever I felt like. Another I was more choosly about giving out, and though i did post it, I always used some kind of spam filter (like replacing the "@" with "#" and the like. Didnt even go as far as slashdot does with mixing up "yahoo" and "com". The third e-mail address i didnt give out to anyone, and have never posted it. The first email got innudated with spam, and now recieves about 30 spam messages a day. Yahoo filters about 2/3 of the spam into the bulk mail filter and 1/3 makes it to the inbox. The second e-mail has surprisingly not recieved any spam. Shows that spammers are too lazy to replace "#"'s with "@"'s and that those kinds of filters work, Or that my email was just lucky. The last email address has recived 5 emails total. (4 from yahoo itself and one from me just to see if it was actually working)

      (started this about 2 years ago, 6 months after the yahoo experiment started)
      In the meantime I did an experiment with hotmail, though just with 2 email addresses. One I gave out freely, and the other I didnt tell anyone about. Within 6 months both were recieving tons of spam. (first one recieving about 45 spam mails per day, second one about 30 about half made it to the inbox.) After the 6 months I just let these accounts die and have refused to use hotmail since.

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    9. Re:I got the same email.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I never trust anyone "giving away a service", so I gave Yahoo! a Hotmail address I have since abandoned. Oh, and my mailing address is in Kabul.

  5. Cancel your Yahoo account. by damu · · Score: 1

    Tell your friends to cancel it, don't use Yahoo messenger, don't stop at their webpage, hopefully they will get that point.

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    1. Re:Cancel your Yahoo account. by Zed2K · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Or you can just ignore it, move on with your life and don't complain about something that is free.

    2. Re:Cancel your Yahoo account. by mek2600 · · Score: 1

      You commuinist!

      Moving on with your life and not complaining about something that's free is simply un-American.

    3. Re:Cancel your Yahoo account. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      just because it's free doesn't mean you have no right to expectations on how it should work, how you've agreed to work, etc.

      just because you're a volunteer and doesn't get paid doesn't mean you can skip to voluteer whenever your want or not do the proper job while volunteering.

    4. Re:Cancel your Yahoo account. by SurgeonGeneral · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Or you can just ignore it, move on with your life and don't complain about something that is free.

      Let me introduce a new word into your vocabulary.

      Apathy
      ap-a-thy
      noun.
      1. Lack of interest or concern, especially regarding matters of general importance or appeal; indifference.
      1. Lack of emotion or feeling; impassiveness.

      Since when does "it was free" become an excuse for apathy and laziness?

      Children are free.

      Your argument is that just because we CAN ignore things, we should? Or should we actually show some backbone and not let entities make promises and contracts which they can break on a whim because people like you will just "move on with your life" anyways?

      Apathy makes me sick.

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    5. Re:Cancel your Yahoo account. by Zed2K · · Score: 1

      People who complain about such trivial things because they have nothing better to do in their life except complain about trivial things, make me sick.

    6. Re:Cancel your Yahoo account. by andrew_0812 · · Score: 1

      So what is wrong with Apathy?

      It has its uses.

    7. Re:Cancel your Yahoo account. by SurgeonGeneral · · Score: 1

      People who complain about such trivial things because they have nothing better to do in their life except complain about trivial things, make me sick.

      So whats "trivial" for you ? Mega-corporations making contractual promises to their clients and then later recinding them? This is trivial? Lies are barely tolerated on the micro level (between people like you and me) so why should they be tolerated on the macro level?

      You may not realize it, but by voicing our opinions on this popular and well-known message board we are in fact having an impact on "public opinion" even if it is only in a most minor way : by adding to it. Furthermore, by reading and writing in the boards (which you scold us for in a most steretypical way, saying we have "nothing better to do") one can expand the range of opinions that they normally incorporate in their judgements. Its not complaining, its taking advantage of the modern discourse, and for this only those who discourage should be scolded. Now if you'll excuse me, I have to go vomit some more.

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    8. Re:Cancel your Yahoo account. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Children are free.

      My kids have cost a bucketload of money since before they were even born.... and I still ignore them!

      Seriously though, equating the importance of your children with the importance of free email is a bit much, don't you think? Besides Yahoo's TOS gives them the right to do whatever the hell they want and you know it. Since Yahoo is trying to make a buck or two, you shouldn't be suprised.

      Besides, when did they ever 'promise' to never bug you about wanting to sell your info? They didn't. Now they're asking to sell your info again and giving you almost two months to opt out of the new 'service' and OMFG!..... Those lying capatalist bastards! Two months isn't enough time for you to check a few boxes? You whining jerkoffs are pathetic!

      Gimme a Break!

    9. Re:Cancel your Yahoo account. by Zed2K · · Score: 1

      Whats trivial is you complaining about something that did not happen for a product that you don't pay any money for.

      Yahoo did not all of a sudden change all of a users saved prefs for spam. They notified people to again check them and adjust accordingly. Plus the fact that it is a free service they provide and yet people still seem to think they are owed something. Give it to me for free and give me more seems to be a common thought among all of the armchair tech people out in the cheap seats that think they are fighting for a good cause, when in reality all they are doing is whining and crying making themselves and the people who have legit complaints get lost in the noise.

      When someone gives you a piece of candy for free do you throw it back in their face because its not your favorite candy?

    10. Re:Cancel your Yahoo account. by SurgeonGeneral · · Score: 1

      Are you missing the point here? Its not the product offered that we are complaining about, its the broken contract.

      You say that because you cant place a quantitative value on it, it suddenly becomes totally irrelevant?

      You're arguement is that because there was no MONEY involved, I shouldnt care. Because its FREE, it means nothing. Can you think of anything free in your life that you care about it? I have already offered children as an example, but may I now suggest the ENVIRONMENT?

      By your ethical standards its perfectly ok for me to make promises and lie to everyone around me as long as there is no cash riding on it. By extension, a corporation can make a promise to a community not to destroy their natural parklands, but since there was no money involved, the promise means nothing and can be broken at any time.

      That is the most perverse arm-chair morality I have ever heard. (to borrow your expression.)

      If someone gave me a peice of candy for free I would certainly not throw it back in their face, no matter what I thought of the object. However if later they were to say "Oh by the way about that candy, etc etc" I would induce vomit and pick it out of the spuminess. Objects mean nothing to me, but trust and honor does.

      I suggest you shake your head and have a good think about whats important to you. If you really believe that money supersedes morality.... I'm not just disappointed in you, but in the whole culture that could produce such an individual.

      I signed up for a service based on certain conditions. Yahoo has broken those conditions and I'm angry about it.

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      -- "Man is born free, and everywhere he is in chains." Jean Jacques Rousseau
  6. I got one of these as well by Hayzeus · · Score: 5, Funny

    Amusingly enough, though, SpamAssassin filtered it out and it ended up in my spam folder.

    1. Re:I got one of these as well by JuggleGeek · · Score: 3, Interesting

      They may well have tested on SpamAssassin prior to sending the mail. They very likely *want* their mail to get caught by spam filters. That way, people don't see the mail, and therefore don't go and change all of the "Yes you can sell my personal info" flags off again.

    2. Re:I got one of these as well by gss · · Score: 1

      My default install of SpamAssassin only rated it at 2 so I doubt you're right.

  7. That sucks but... by SpaceCadetTrav · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If you don't like it, let them know and take your money somewhere else. If you're not paying for it, then you don't have anything to complain about.

    1. Re:That sucks but... by johndoesovich · · Score: 2, Interesting

      You're saying because Yahoo! provides a free service that gives them the right to ignore the request to not receive spam from them? If this is the case, I am setting up a free webmail service. Of course you will have the ability to opt out of future communications, however, in the next few months I plan to change that and sell all your information so I can make a profit. Regardless if they keep the correspondence internal or if they sell your information to a third party, they are going against your wishes to be contacted.

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    2. Re:That sucks but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1

      Sounds fine to me. My choice is to never sign up for your crappy service in the first place. And if I did before you told me that, I'd just cancel it. Too bad, so sad, and I'm out nothing at all.

    3. Re:That sucks but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      If you're not paying for it, then you don't have anything to complain about.

      Bull.

      Unfair trade practaces are still illegal even if no money changed hands. I think the FTC needs to have a talk with yahoo.

    4. Re:That sucks but... by drooling-dog · · Score: 2, Informative
      If you're not paying for it, then you don't have anything to complain about.

      Wrong. I got one of these letters too, and I've never had an account there!

    5. Re:That sucks but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Even if you pay no money to Yahoo, you still pay for all the spam that they send you. Reading through and deleting all of the crap costs you time.

    6. Re:That sucks but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      And if I did before you told me that, I'd just cancel it.


      That's the point dumbass, you can't cancel it.

      Are you fucking retarded?
    7. Re:That sucks but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >If you're not paying for it, then you don't have anything to complain about

      I'm not paying the people who try to sell me penis enlargements either. Does that make it OK?

    8. Re:That sucks but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      OK, go ahead. I'm waiting.

      Not that I will sign up for it when you are done. And not that I would use my real personal information if I did.

    9. Re:That sucks but... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So now we're arguing about how you can't cancel a service that a guy didn't sign up for because it doesn't actually exist.

      Awesome.

    10. Re:That sucks but... by Suppafly · · Score: 1

      If you don't like it, let them know and take your money somewhere else. If you're not paying for it, then you don't have anything to complain about.

      Except you don't really have a choice if you happen to get your dsl or dialup from one of the many ISP's that are teamed up with yahoo for the email and webcontent.

    11. Re:That sucks but... by Snaller · · Score: 1

      So if you don't pay me for hitting over the head with a shovel you have nothing to complain about?

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    12. Re:That sucks but... by SpaceCadetTrav · · Score: 1

      That's funny... I didn't know that being connected to the Internet requires you to use your ISP's email system.

  8. Yahoo didn't reset anything by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Didn't change any of my marketing preferences at all. All still say "no".

    1. Re:Yahoo didn't reset anything by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Is it fucking January 2004 yet?!?!? JEEZ

    2. Re:Yahoo didn't reset anything by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Are you the dumbfuck who submited the article? Go read the fucking email you stupid piece of shit. Nowhere does it say they are reseting anything. THE SUBMITTER DOESNT EVEN HAVE A YAHOO ACCOUNT.

  9. Who uses Yahoo & why? by Chris_Stankowitz · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    Who is still using Yahoo? Its not for their serach engine and I've never cared for or used any of their other services. Can anyone give me just 1 good reason to use yahoo for anything.

    1. Re:Who uses Yahoo & why? by Slider451 · · Score: 1

      1. It's whimsical
      2. It's not Hotmail.

      Oh, you asked for one.

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      Nostalgia isn't what it used to be.
    2. Re:Who uses Yahoo & why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      >Can anyone give me just 1 good reason to use yahoo for anything.

      groups.yahoo.com

      I'm not happy about them but the groups
      and pretty vital.

    3. Re:Who uses Yahoo & why? by ViolentGreen · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I like yahoo news. Unlike google news, it does not link to the webpage with the news on it. Instead it put's the text onto the news.yahoo.com domain. It makes for a consistant experience. It doesn't have a huge amount of sources but there are a decent selection of stories including an own page for opensource/linux stories and another for apple stories.

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    4. Re:Who uses Yahoo & why? by realdpk · · Score: 1

      I chat on Yahoo's network with Gaim and Trillian, which is nice. But I do agree, Yahoo has become irrelevant in every other way. I know there were signs of their decline beforehand, but when they started accepting pop-under ads from X10, there was no longer any hope whatsoever.

    5. Re:Who uses Yahoo & why? by jpsst34 · · Score: 1

      Nostalgia isn't what it used to be.

      Well, I'm guessing that's because someone shot nostalgia in the back.

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      How are you going to keep them down on the farm once they've seen Karl Hungus?
    6. Re:Who uses Yahoo & why? by zapp · · Score: 1

      http://tv.yahoo.com/

      http://finance.yahoo.com/

      good for findin out what's on tv, and lookin up stock info.

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    7. Re:Who uses Yahoo & why? by zapp · · Score: 1

      Another one:

      maps.yahoo.com/

      I prefer their map service over mapblast, mapquest, etc.

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    8. Re:Who uses Yahoo & why? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Yahoo was my first "real" e-mail account; since college about a decade ago. My family and long time (or long lost) friends can always reach me using that account.

      I had about 50 other accounts that opened and closed, at various ISP, jobs and cities. I am so careful with the Yahoo account that after all those years I get less SPAM in my Yahoo account that any "regular ISP" e-mail after a year.

      So yes, I love my Yahoo account, read it twice a week, but use it to write twice a year as I answer back with my "of the moment" ISP account.

  10. Whatever by Quasar1999 · · Score: 4, Funny

    Yahoo ignores my preference to not get spammed by them, I ignore all software EULA's that I click through... I think it's a fair trade... :)

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    1. Re:Whatever by dubiousmike · · Score: 1

      They think so too, as it means you missed the part where they installed Gator on your machine.

    2. Re:Whatever by ergonal · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yahoo provides a free, stable, POP3 service. Their "Yahoo! Delivers" advertising emails are very easy to filter out, so it's a very effective free POP3 IMO. Just filter their bullshit, and you will have no problems.

    3. Re:Whatever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Oh yeah?! Well, I'll just sign this contract without reading it! Take that!"

      I hope you use a fork with a cork on it, just to be safe.

    4. Re:Whatever by dolo666 · · Score: 1

      "I ignore all software EULA's that I click through"

      Just when I went to click to add you as a friend for saying this, I noticed that you already are one!

      I ignore all EULA's as well. What's the point? They all say, don't do anything wrong or we'll sue. Okay, I won't do anything wrong, so they won't sue. Simple enough.

      Every living creature knows right from wrong. (Except maybe Darl McBride.)

    5. Re:Whatever by benploni · · Score: 1

      They used to provide free POP3. Now they charge for that as an extra service.

    6. Re:Whatever by ergonal · · Score: 1

      I've been using smtp.mail.yahoo.com.au for years without any hickups.

    7. Re:Whatever by mkettler · · Score: 3, Informative

      Correct. I'm a paid POP3 subscriber on my yahoo account (a whopping $19.95/yr).

      They have not messed with my marketing preferences so far.. I just checked them today.. all still set to "no" and no notice sent. We'll see if they reset only the preferences of free users or all users..

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    8. Re:Whatever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, but the EULA tells you what they think is right. To bring up Godwin's law, Hitler thought he was right, and he was a living creature.

    9. Re:Whatever by cei · · Score: 1

      Do they have a free POP3? Looks to me like they charge $29.95 a year to use POP3... If you can point me to something that says different, I'd appreciate it, because I was looking for that...

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    10. Re:Whatever by chgros · · Score: 1

      They all say, don't do anything wrong or we'll sue. Okay, I won't do anything wrong, so they won't sue
      I know you haven't read the corresponding part in the windows "supplemental" EULA (that comes with every single patch), but how is disclosing benchmark results wrong????

    11. Re:Whatever by maxpublic · · Score: 1

      I ignore all EULA's as well. What's the point? They all say, don't do anything wrong or we'll sue. Okay, I won't do anything wrong, so they won't sue. Simple enough.

      You aren't translating Legalese correctly. In plain English most EULAs say "you're our bitch now! Bend over and grab your ankles, you little consumer whore!"

      Max

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    12. Re:Whatever by dolo666 · · Score: 1

      Yes, I agree with you. But because I didn't read it, I can't be associated with it. So I release them whenever I want. You see, by generalizing EULA's, I have an arguement if I happen to violate them.

      I don't have three years to read every EULA for every prog I run, so I put it in my head that they all have the same exact EULA. Don't steal the software and resell it, or hack it and sell the secrets to how it works, unless it's to make it *better*.

      Let's face it, the day I'm sued for disclosing benchmarks on the net, is the day the company suing me goes belly up (mo: SCO will die off soon for suing themselves out of all their profits).

    13. Re:Whatever by hitchgoat · · Score: 2, Informative

      I'm a "free user", never paid Yahoo a cent, and they've never sent me a piece of spam.

    14. Re:Whatever by 87C751 · · Score: 2, Informative
      Yahoo provides a free, stable, POP3 service. Their "Yahoo! Delivers" advertising emails are very easy to filter out, so it's a very effective free POP3 IMO.
      /me shakes head to clear the effects of the timewarp.

      You are aware that Yahoo stopped the free POP3 service a couple of years ago, right? That's a $19.95/yr premium service now. And no, they didn't grandfather anyone in, because I used to use the POP3 service all the time (with a filter to autodel the required spam). I was disappointed (but not pissed, because it was free) when they stopped it.

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    15. Re:Whatever by linuxcoder · · Score: 0

      Thank you for bringing this to our attention.

      -- Yahoo! Marketing

    16. Re:Whatever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yahoo provides a free, stable, POP3 service.

      I agree, compared to hotmail, in particular, yahoo is the one I'm the most happy with

    17. Re:Whatever by Gunfighter · · Score: 4, Interesting

      I, on the other hand, was extremely pissed when they stopped the POP3. A couple of years ago, I went ahead and paid Yahoo! to register a domain name for my "premium service" personalized mail address. I even renewed it for a second year. When I received the "no more POP3" notice in my inbox, I assumed that didn't apply to me because I was already a premium user. Wrong! They still wanted to dip into my wallet a little deeper and charge extra for POP3. There's already enough vendor lock-in in the world. The last thing I need is another company trying to nickel & dime me (I get enough of that with my mobile phone bill).

      What morons. Giving POP3 access away for free saves them server space and bandwidth, so the only explanation I can come up with is that they want more eyeballs on the ridiculously huge ads they embed in their webmail interface. Screw that. I have better things to do with my time than wade through Flash ads while I'm trying to read email.

      I canceled the premium service, switched the domain away from Verisign (I'll tell you where you can shove your damn SiteFinder), and now Yahoo! doesn't get a single cent from me... EVER AGAIN. Now I can check my email via webmail, pop3, or imap4 and I have better virus and spam controls than Yahoo! ever offered (thank you Spamassassin).

      I feel sorry for the non-geeks out there who put up with crap like this from the likes of Yahoo!, AOL, Microsoft etc. because they don't have the time or patience to investigate the alternatives.

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      /. ID under 2,000. I feel old now.
    18. Re:Whatever by griffjon · · Score: 1

      I checked my spam preferences upon receiving this in Y! and found no changes to them. Perhaps it is not switched over, but let's not bitch and moan too much. They're better than hotmail (not saying much), and they do give a lot for free.

      Hell, use a Y!-provided filter to filter Y!, good for the problem, and supports irony in the universe.

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    19. Re:Whatever by LC+Gundo · · Score: 1
      ergonal is right.

      I just finished signing up - web access/pop/smtp or mail forwarding - no charge at yahoo.com.au, just like U.S. yahoo used to be.

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    20. Re:Whatever by LC+Gundo · · Score: 1
      Okay, just go:

      here and click Learn More

      You may have to sign out from Yahoo first.

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    21. Re:Whatever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You feel sorry for the non-geeks out there who put up with crap like this from the likes of Yahoo!, AOL, Microsoft etc. because they don't have the time or patience to investigate the alternatives.

      I feel sorry for those of us geeks who seek out and use alternatives, because the likes of Yahoo!, AOL and - particularly - Microsoft setting "standards" make it extremely difficult for those of us who choose to use something else.

    22. Re:Whatever by cei · · Score: 1

      Well, that means that Yahoo can import mail from other POP3 accounts, but doesn't let you use a POP3 mail reader to pull down your Yahoo mail...

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    23. Re:Whatever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm getting more "radical" as well. In Germany, there's a freemailer called GMX. They put huge ads - about 6 lines - under each email sent via their webmail service. After warning people to cease using it, I have now blocked it alltogether on my servers. Pissed a lot of people off, but I feel much better now. I don't care what anybody says, but I will not endure unsolicited advertisement any longer.

      Next on my list: I will begin to take action against anybody who abuses my mailbox as a garbage can for their advertisement despite the huge "NO ADVERTISEMENTS" stickers.

      And if I have to incite a revolution, I swear, I will make them stop. I have had it. I am totally fed up with all the idiotic direct and semi-direct marketing companies. Advertisement is evil and should be ranked as a crime right up there with rape and genocide.

    24. Re:Whatever by LC+Gundo · · Score: 1
      No, I'm not that ignorant.

      It really means you can use a POP3 mail reader to pull down your (Australian) Yahoo mail. I did that today -- from a brand new free Yahoo account.

      Of course you can also have Yahoo POP your other accounts, as you pointed out.

      Honest, mail.yahoo.au.com actually provides free POP mail accounts just like U.S. Yahoo used to.

      I just signed up for it today and have POPed my new free Yahoo e-mail account using Thunderbird and Mozilla Mail.

      Aussie Yahoo even provides SMTP, but my mail clients only accomodate a single SMTP server so I haven't tried it out.

      Read the link again. If you want a free Yahoo POP account, you can still do it at mail.yahoo.com.au.

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    25. Re:Whatever by cei · · Score: 1
      Still not seeing it. And the .au is in the URL, so I should be seeing the same thing you are...

      Yahoo! Mail is one of the Internet's most popular free e-mail services.

      Access your e-mail account from anywhere

      With Yahoo! Mail, you have access to your email from any Internet-connected computer in the world. Whether you are at a cafe, in a library, at work or at home, with Yahoo! Mail, your email address is the same and your account is accessible from all locations. In addition, you can use your Yahoo! Mail account to access mail sent to your other email accounts (such as a work or home account) by using our External Mail feature.

      Get a permanent e-mail address

      You will be able to keep your Yahoo! Mail account as long as you continue to use Yahoo! Mail. Your address will be the same even if you move, leave school, change Internet Service Providers or jobs. You have one permanent email address for life.

      Yahoo! Mail is loaded with great features including:

      4MB FREE Storage:

      Lots of space at no charge, with the option for power users to increase to 25MB for only $19.99 per year.

      SPAMGUARD(TM):

      This proprietary system is intended to radically reduce the amount of spam you receive in your inbox. Spamguard(TM) is designed to direct most spam to your Bulk Mail folder, to help you better manage your mail.

      POP Access to External Mail:

      You can configure Yahoo! Mail to retrieve messages from most External Mail accounts to which you have POP access. An account with POP access is one that you are able to access through an external email client such as Outlook, Eudora, or Netscape Mail.

      Virus Scan:

      This feature offers Yahoo! Mail users a fast, free and effective anti-virus tool to protect them from known viruses sent and received via e-mail file attachments. Virus scan is seamlessly integrated into Yahoo! Mail, and automatically scans all outgoing e-mail file attachments such as documents, spreadsheets, zip files, presentations and executable files. People can also choose to scan incoming e-mail file attachments.

      File Viewer:

      The easy-to-use file viewer feature enables Yahoo! Mail users to take a "sneak peak'' at attachments they have received without having to actually download the file. This offers additional convenience for those who may want to quickly look at an attachment without the added step and time of downloading it.

      Personal Address:

      The new Personal Address feature allows Yahoo! Mail users to quickly and easily register for their own personalized e-mail address and domain. Users can send, receive and manage e-mail from their personalized domain, using the same powerful tools and features that Yahoo! Mail currently offers.
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    26. Re:Whatever by LC+Gundo · · Score: 1
      Uh, maybe I am that ignorant.

      You're right about the link, cei. It just means you can have Yahoo POP your other accounts.

      But you really can POP free Aussie Yahoo accounts.

      Yeah, I just took my own advice and read the link again myself. But I did not lie when I said I signed up for a free Aussie Yahoo account and pulled down mail from it with my POP client.

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    27. Re:Whatever by LC+Gundo · · Score: 1
      You can only see this once you've signed up and clicked "Options" but here is where it says what you have been looking for:

      Mail Delivery Status

      Yahoo! Mail gives you even more flexibility with two free features! As a Yahoo! Delivers member (you asked to receive special offers via Yahoo! Mail when you registered with us), you can take advantage of email forwarding and POP access. Each one is free, exclusively for Yahoo! Delivers members.

      Of course, I could have typed this myself, but I'm so lazy I'm surprised I've even made this many posts on this topic.

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    28. Re:Whatever by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      so the only explanation I can come up with is that they want more eyeballs on the ridiculously huge ads they embed in their webmail interface. Screw that. I have better things to do with my time than wade through Flash ads while I'm trying to read email.

      Mozilla -> find ad -> right click -> block images from this server

      This works great for me. Very few sites serve up ads from the same server as the images I need to see.

      As for Flash, I have it installed in Internet Explorer. I only use IE for sites that require Flash, such as eagames.com.

  11. Spam by default by cloudless.net · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The default preferences assume that you want to receive spam. But I'm not complaining, because it is a free service.

    1. Re:Spam by default by seanmeister · · Score: 4, Informative

      I'll second that... I received the update notification yesterday, and I figured I'd have to go click a zillion "no" boxes to get everything straight again. I was pleasantly surprised to see that everything was still opted out. No complaints here!

    2. Re:Spam by default by dubiousmike · · Score: 0

      But how much value do you actually get? I don't mind when Ziff Davis companies (EWEEK, Baseline, CRM, ect) send me 5 emails a day with special offers. Becuase inevitably, they also include free subscriptions to magazines. See? Send me free shit and you can make money by marketing to me...

    3. Re:Spam by default by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What part of "Starting January 1, 2004" don't you understand?

    4. Re:Spam by default by cdc179 · · Score: 1

      No complaints here. As pointed out you are using this services for free.

      One thing I do to eliminate the time of checking my yahoo account is by using YoSucker. YoSucker pops your yahoo account and can be set up to empty the Spam folder. I have it running every 5 mins along with fetchmail so that all my mail is at my server.

      http://yosucker.sourceforge.net/

    5. Re:Spam by default by SamThePondScum · · Score: 2, Informative

      Yep. I changed all my settings to "No" ("Hell No" wasn't an option) back when this was first announced, and when I checked after receiving this notice they were still set as I desired.

      This appears to be a simple repeat of their first warning because they claim to be actually implementing some/all of the various options you say yes or no to.

      I was already pissed back when I had to go change everything to "no", so I didn't bother getting pissed again for this reminder.

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    6. Re:Spam by default by txsable · · Score: 1

      For those who think they're safe because their marketing preferences are still set to "NO", I suggest you read this line at the bottom of the "Special Offers" section (immediately above the header "How may we contact you?"). Note that special offers are separate from product newsletters. Newsletter Subscriptions can be managed here. When I clicked the link, I got another list of "Newsletter Subscription" options, none of which were selected as Yes or No. I don't know if those are related to the new spams, but just to be safe I set them all to NO. Also, there is a link to "Edit your subscription to the Yahoo! Newsletter" at the bottom of that page...

    7. Re:Spam by default by TPFH · · Score: 1

      Yep. I changed all my settings to "No" ("Hell No" wasn't an option) back when this was first announced, and when I checked after receiving this notice they were still set as I desired.

      Well, I say that isn't good enough!
      I think we need to petition them to make "Hell No!" an option too.

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  12. Government regulation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    I'm sure I'll be called a pocket socialist, but this sort of thing should be regulated. When you opt out there isn't anything that states it's temporary, and when you delete your account there's nothing that says it's not really deleted, only moved to a different bin. Yahoo is lying out it's butt and I for one would like to see some accountability.

    1. Re:Government regulation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Make the government do your own dirty work? Lazy bastard. If they piss you off, stop using them.

      You: Doctor, it hurts when I do this.
      Doctor: The government should pass a law to stop you from doing that.

      That just doesn't seem right.

    2. Re:Government regulation by nebaz · · Score: 1

      Chances are though that regulations would have loopholes, like this whole "DO NOT CALL" list. I still get plenty of phone calls from "non-profit" organizations trying to sell me something.

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    3. Re:Government regulation by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      A page which is linked to from their privacy policy states that deleted accounts may not be deleted at all (although in most cases, your data will remain in their databases for an average of 90 days). The privacy policy also states that they "reserve the right to send you certain communications relating to the Yahoo! service, such as service announcements, administrative messages and the Yahoo! Newsletter, that are considered part of your Yahoo! account, without offering you the opportunity to opt-out of receiving them " (Emphasis mine). Your preferences really are what you prefer, not binding to Yahoo like the average user appears to believe.

  13. o_0 by nubbie · · Score: 5, Funny

    Internet portal Yahoo may want to think about changing its advertising slogan from "Do You Yahoo?" to "You DO Yahoo."

    More like "Yahoo DO You."

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    1. Re:o_0 by casio282 · · Score: 0

      What, no "In Soviet Russia..."? Or is that just a given now?

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    2. Re:o_0 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Better than "Did Yahoo do you?"

    3. Re:o_0 by JayJay.br · · Score: 1

      You mean Yahoo is moving to Soviet Russia?

      Sorry, had to say.

    4. Re:o_0 by defaultXIX · · Score: 1

      but only in Soviet Russia...(ducks) ;)

    5. Re:o_0 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do you Yahoo?

    6. Re:o_0 by Snaller · · Score: 1

      More like "Yahoo DO You."

      Isn't that in Russia?

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    7. Re:o_0 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      More like Yoo hoo! Doo-doo.

  14. that does it! by Savatte · · Score: 4, Funny

    I'm going back to using the telegraph and smoke signals.

    1. Re:that does it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      careful with those smoke signals, there are a lot more 'no smoking' tree hugging hippies then there where back then.

      just let me keep my drugs, damn tree hugging hippie!

      -- Drug (ab)user Hippie

    2. Re:that does it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Unfortunately, the spam equivalent of that is thousands of people coming round and smoking you out of your house...

    3. Re:that does it! by Elwood+P+Dowd · · Score: 4, Funny

      unfortunately comma it is entirely impossible to make telegraph jokes on slashdot stop lameness filter encountered stop post aborted emphasis reason colon dont use so many caps stop its like yelling stop

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    4. Re:that does it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      a friend recently commented he's developing a Morse-code link layer protocol. He thinks he'll publish the RFC on 1 April sometime in the next few years.

    5. Re:that does it! by spezz · · Score: 1
      I tried the smoke signals for a while, but I was having a hard time waving the blanket with one hand.

    6. Re:that does it! by banzai75 · · Score: 1

      That'd be embarrassing to get spam via a smoke signal:

      Joe: Hey Bob, I think that message is for you.

      Smoke Signal: Bob, are you not satisfying your wife with your small penis?

      Bob: <sigh>

    7. Re:that does it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      that made me laugh out loud. thanks.

    8. Re:that does it! by Haeleth · · Score: 1

      You must be rich if you can afford to waste words like that.

      Try: "regret telegraph jokes impossible stop lameness filter thinks caps yelling stop".

      Who says lossy compression is a modern idea?

    9. Re:that does it! by McLoud · · Score: 1

      Don't forget the morse code for /. posting

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    10. Re:that does it! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      suck it, kris kringle

    11. Re:that does it! by Peteresch · · Score: 1

      Smoke signals? Ha!

      Then spamming would be as simple as starting a flame war!

  15. Sure? by jabbadabbadoo · · Score: 1, Funny
    "I deleted my Yahoo account a month ago. I guess they are lying, because I'm still getting their SPAM."

    Are you _sure_ you pressed the hidden "I'm sure" button?

    1. Re:Sure? by rawg · · Score: 1

      I can't log in, so I guess my account is deleted, but my spam preferences are not.

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  16. Spam filtering by pdrome4robert · · Score: 2, Informative

    You can mark e-mail as Spam in Yahoo! e-mail. When you do that, you can create a filter or send the e-mail to Yahoo!. Will Yahoo! allow their own homemade spam to be treated the same way? What would happen if everyone sent the spam back to Yahoo!?

    1. Re:Spam filtering by amplt1337 · · Score: 1

      Actually I've been reporting Yahoo!'s messages as spam as long as I've had the account (about 3 mos). They haven't seemed to get the point yet, alas...

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    2. Re:Spam filtering by sct · · Score: 1

      I don't know how Yahoo! does it- but MSN/Hotmail does not allow "admin@hotmail.com" or whatever their internal spammer address is to be added to the spam mail filter. That is anoying since I send all mail to my junk mail folder unless it is on my white list. Just because they own the system they think they can bypass my spam email checks. :) I just delete it without looking at it.

    3. Re:Spam filtering by u-235-sentinel · · Score: 1

      "What would happen if everyone sent the spam back to Yahoo!?"

      Most likely you would end up in court for spamming them.

      Some months ago on slashdot there was an article about antispammers signing up some spammer in chicago I believe. I've been reading up now and then on the case. Apparently he has sued the antispammers for all the junk mail he's getting in the mail box.

      Amazing. He doesn't like it either. Go figure.

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    4. Re:Spam filtering by 87C751 · · Score: 1
      Will Yahoo! allow their own homemade spam to be treated the same way?
      No. I just finished cleaning out my inbox, which included the Yahoo spam. Check all, hit 'Spam' button, and the Yahoo piece was still there.
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    5. Re:Spam filtering by MechaStreisand · · Score: 1

      Some months ago on slashdot there was an article about antispammers signing up some spammer in chicago I believe...

      I don't believe that. If antispammers are signing up a spammer for junk mail, then that means that they know his address. Whenever anyone learns of a spammer's address, junk mail is the least of his problems... The constant harassment and death threats are more like it.

      Suing people for sending you junk mail, under those circumstances, just wouldn't make sense.

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    6. Re:Spam filtering by u-235-sentinel · · Score: 1

      You're right. In nearly every article about spammers mentioned this. Here is what I was referring to

      And this one also

      And finally this one

      Basically they were receiving junk mail filling their box. That last article is what I belive you would be interested in. Especially this part:

      "Ralsky is indeed annoyed. He says he's asked Bloomfield Hills attorney Robert Harrison to sue the anti-spammers."

      Can't take their own medicine. Pity.

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    7. Re:Spam filtering by LC+Gundo · · Score: 1
      Are you kidding?

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  17. Not "Again" by wren337 · · Score: 5, Informative

    The email was a reminder to change your preferences if you don't want to be marketed to. When they changed them to yes (a year ago?) they didn't actually act on the change. Now that people have had a year to reset their preferences, they are going to start marketing.

    Not that it doesn't suck, but the article header is wrong. They changed your preferences once, a long time ago.

    1. Re:Not "Again" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      I don't know tho... From Yahoo's notice:
      What's Changing on January 1, 2004
      Starting January 1, 2004, Yahoo! will begin to send you messages, via email or postal mail, about our own products and services.

      I had changed all my preferences just after they set them all to "yes". So are they still going to spam me come January? My preferences were not changed recently -- they're still set to "no". Who knows...
      Just once, I want a "FUCK OFF" radio button to click.
    2. Re:Not "Again" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yes, if you take that sentence out of context it looks like Yahoo is getting ready to shove advertising down your throat. Read Yahoo's message in its entirety however, and you'll find that it's just a reminder to change your preferences if you haven't already.

      Another knee-jerk reaction story on Slashdot that has little to do with reality. (And no, I'm not new here.)

  18. a real user-friendly feature for Yahoo mail by NumLk · · Score: 5, Interesting
    I use yahoo mail myself, and saw the message yesterday. Quite honestly, it doesn't bother me, companies evolve, businesses change, etc. etc. etc. Sometimes policies need to be updated, and, as long as it isn't a weekly thing, I'm ok with it. What I would like is a 100% simple, opt-me-out-of-all-marketing button. I.E. make the "This message is Spam" button in Yahoo automatically take me off Yahoo's mailing list if I mark one of their messages as Spam. Quick, concise, user-friendly, achieves the same result as going through the various screens to set my user preferences.

    Ok, rant off.

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  19. Blacklist by Angry_Admin · · Score: 1

    I just sent out a nice little e-mail to Yahoo and one of their upstreams regarding this change in policy reminding them that spamming a military e-mail account (mine) is a very big no-no and that I will gladly persue this with my local OSI officer (Office of Special Investigation) and, as an admin here on a military installation, I'll be happy to block any and all e-mail comming from their domains.
    Do I expect them to do anything about it? Certainly not, but I'll still have fun blocking them when they go ahead and start spamming everyone on my base. Where do they get the idea that, because I opted out of ALL of their spam before, I want to receive MORE spam from them now? Why should users have to jump through hoops for these people???

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    1. Re:Blacklist by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Are you paying for their service? If so, super. If not, maybe you should stop your bitching, eh?

    2. Re:Blacklist by Theaetetus · · Score: 2
      Where do they get the idea that, because I opted out of ALL of their spam before, I want to receive MORE spam from them now?

      1) This one wasn't spam - this was Yahoo letting you know that they're finally going to act on their spam policy that they told us about a year ago. You agreed to them sending you service announcements in the EULA when you first signed up - thus, while you can happily block their domains, there isn't really anything you can do about them sending you this email.

      2) If you had bothered to click on the link in the email, you'd find (as I did) that when you opted-out a year ago, they haven't changed anything: you're still opted-out. I fully expect to not receive anything further from them.

      -T

    3. Re:Blacklist by neomiasma · · Score: 1

      Whoa, there fella. Why not take a deep breath and count to 10? It's only spam if you didn't ask for it. If Yahoo! has sent an e-mail to your military e-mail account, the most likely reason is that you've listed that address as an alternate e-mail address in your Yahoo! preferences. Take that out, and they won't have an excuse. Yahoo! itself can send whatever it likes to your Yahoo! account, though. Just like my company sends out all-employee bulletins for planned system outages, policy changes, and company events. And just like my users at work, I'd much rather Yahoo! send me notices about changes before they happen than not send me anything at all.

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    4. Re:Blacklist by Zed2K · · Score: 1

      I would hope you wouldn't waste my money by sending an OSI officer to investigate spam email. Talk about wasting tax payers money.

    5. Re:Blacklist by Angry_Admin · · Score: 1

      It's a threat, dipshit. It doesn't mean I'm going to act on it. I just threw it in there to maybe get them to think about it, which I'm sure they won't.

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    6. Re:Blacklist by Angry_Admin · · Score: 1

      1) This one wasn't spam - this was Yahoo letting you know that they're finally going to act on their spam policy that they told us about a year ago. You agreed to them sending you service announcements in the EULA when you first signed up - thus, while you can happily block their domains, there isn't really anything you can do about them sending you this email.

      I'm talking about their sending me spam in the future. If you stopped to think about it, you would have understood that.

      2) If you had bothered to click on the link in the email, you'd find (as I did) that when you opted-out a year ago, they haven't changed anything: you're still opted-out. I fully expect to not receive anything further from them.

      My point is that I shouldn't be forced to jump through their hoops to change something back to what I wanted originally. No means no, it's that simple.

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  20. No means um maybe by falcon5768 · · Score: 4, Funny

    no really we KNOW you want to say yes, wait you said no??? huh I cant here you it sounded like yes. whats that? you said no you would love to have our spa.. er I mean emails sent to you well you asked for it....

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    1. Re:No means um maybe by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Slashdot, where saying something everyone hates turns you into a Troll even if it makes a point."

      That's not Slashdot, brother, that's life.

  21. At least they are consistant by dubiousmike · · Score: 1

    They did the same thing when they bought Launch and Hotjobs. Those two companies started to send me spam immediately when Yahoo bought them.

    I just don't get how they can make wholesale changes to your preferences (not necessarily the privacy policy). If I say I don't want to be contacted, that doesn't change just because they want it to.

    But Yahoo is fairly useless to me these days. Unless I want to play pool or free fantasy sports.

    But then again, Yahoo is super shady in other areas. Good luck if you use their web store stuff. Once you are signed up, good luck hearing from them before your ship sinks.

  22. Not that I like Yahoo, but... by nemui-chan · · Score: 1

    Not that I really like yahoo, I kind of think they suck, but I need easily accessible from anywhere email... but my marketing preferences have not been changed since I set them when they first came out. I've never had a problem with yahoo sending me spam... its everywhere else that sends me spam that I have a problem with. nemui

  23. eGroups by Chibi+Merrow · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Yahoo bought eGroups a while back, so those of us who are maintainers of mailing lists that used that free service are kinda stuck with them. There's really not an easier way to get a free mailing list setup that I've found.

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    1. Re:eGroups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Did you even listen to the song? It's:

      "You're so vain, I'll bet you think this song is about you..."

    2. Re:eGroups by dubiousmike · · Score: 1

      But now what will Yahoo do with all of the user data they have from your list? Market to them of course. Just as they did when they bought Launch and Hotjobs.

      Geesh, I got an email from Disney about changes in their privacy policy. Basically, if you don't click to agree to the changes, they still abide by the old agreement. You might just not have full access to their sites. But at least (in theory), they are honoring their original agreement with you instead of simply changing the entire intent of it because they say "we reserve the right to change it when we want".

  24. Yahoo Groups by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yahoo has some niche discussion groups that are useful. I wish they were not on Yahoo, but I can't change that. I setup a yahoo mail account just so I could sign up for these groups.

    Strangely enough, just lakst week I tried to login to my Yahoo mail account and found a message that the mail account had been deleted because I had not logged in for more than 6 months.

  25. Yahoo Spam filtering System by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    The really weird thing is whenever I try to forward
    Yahoo generated spam to the Yahoo! spam filtering
    system the Yahoo! spam doesn't get deleted and sits
    their in my inbox unscathed.

    weird.

    - Moomin

  26. Well, I guess it is time... by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 0, Offtopic
    Well, I guess it is time for all good men to take hold of their trusty shotgun, and go on a rampage where any kind of marketeer should be shot on sight.

    Kill all those goddammed cocksucking sonovabitches!!!

    1. Re:Well, I guess it is time... by DavidTC · · Score: 2, Funny
      No, first, we kill all the laywers.

      Then we kill the marketers.

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    2. Re:Well, I guess it is time... by El · · Score: 1
      "The first thing we do, let's kill all the lawyers." -- Shakespeare

      Please try to keep your priorities straight. Marketers are at best second on the list of people up against the wall when the revolution comes.

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    3. Re:Well, I guess it is time... by TPFH · · Score: 1

      Marketers are at best second on the list of people up against the wall when the revolution comes.

      What about the marketing division of the Sirius Cybernetics Corporation?

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    4. Re:Well, I guess it is time... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      What about the marketing division of the Sirius Cybernetics Corporation?

      Well, that was before the "New Conservatism" (which bears a remarkable resemblance to the old "Mindless Greed" and is best characterized by the phrase "Every man for himself!").

      Now the marketing division of the Sirius Cybernetics is just one part of the group of mindless jerks that deserves a reservation at said "wall".

  27. Does this surprise anyone? by IWorkForMorons · · Score: 1

    This doesn't shock me at all. Yahoo has been in the spam business for quite a while now. I've abandoned my mail account because of it, despite the fact that I've clicked that "Do Not Send Me Anything" button. Mail.com is getting just as bad now. I see this as a sign that companies are getting desparate to increase their revenues in any way possible, knowing most people will put up with the BS and a small percentage will buy into it.

    1. Re:Does this surprise anyone? by hawaiian717 · · Score: 1
      Mail.com is a disaster. I've had a free account with them since the iName days (back then, they advertised that POP was available, but they didn't mention that it was a pay-extra service). Multiple banners, plus popups and most recently, interstitals. It's just painful to browse with IE, and only slightly better with a popup-blocking browser. I use the account as basically a black hole, every few days I log in, hit the global-check button, scan the subjects to make sure there isn't any real email in there, then hit "delete" and go onto the next page.

      After free iTools became expensive .Mac, then Smail.info vaporized, I gave up and paid for a Lycos Mail account. Been pretty happy with that. I did have to disable the spam filter though, because the false positive rate was much too high; many YahooGroups emails were getting rerouted (which you don't notice when you mostly use POP).

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  28. Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Houn · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Alright, I think I've had about enough. My first e-mail address was from usa.net, who was purchased by netaddress.com. I liked it because it was free, simple, and had pop access. When netaddress purchased it, and a few months later turned it into a pay service, I decided it was time to switch.

    After some research, I found that Yahoo had the largest storage size AND pop access at the time. So, I hopped on and singed up.

    And now here we are, a few years later. No more pop access, constant attempts to spam me - I think I've about exausted my patience after getting this e-mail from them this morning. So, I guess I'll do a mini Ask-Slashdot for all the peeps using Yahoo:

    What E-mail Service do YOU use/recommend?

    Or, alternatively, how much of a hastle would it be to just run my OWN mailserver? I've got a box I could do it on, but I'm worried that it'd be a pain keeping spammers from using it for outgoing if it was found (granted, I know nothing about running a mailserver).

    Anyway, for myself and all those like me, suggestions?

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    1. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by stipe42 · · Score: 4, Informative

      1. Register a domain for $50 for a couple years.
      2. Host it on Pair for $8/month including ssh access.
      3. You now can securely check your email via SSH anywhere that you have a network connection. Since you own the domain, you don't have to worry about your email address changing two years down the road.

    2. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by mckniglj · · Score: 1

      I use MyWay. It's better than Yahoo at everything I need it for.

      Plus, no banners or pop-ups. I have received a single spam there in over 6 months.

      It's blazingly fast, too.

    3. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Running your own mail server, would require you to own a domain, and run DNS for it amongst many other things. This of course can be free if you get a domain free somehow.

      Easier solution is to find a decent pay mail service :P because all the good free ones are gone.

      Last solution is to find someone you know that has thier own domain and is paying for hosting with a hosting company. Buy up your own domain, or obtain one however you wish, and have it parked on top of your friends domain by the host. Often hosts do this for free (since it takes them all of two minutes maybe). This way you have your own domain for email, and an hopefully reliable host that you don't have to worry about administering.

    4. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      how much of a hastle would it be to just run my OWN mailserver?

      There are two major problems with running your own mailserver:

      1. You have to have a 24 hour connection, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. Extended power outages, communication failures and hardware failures are a pain.
      2. If your IP shows up as a dial-up, you'll be blocked by many lists. Also, your ISP may block port 25 (incoming OR outgoing), forcing you to use their facilities instead of your server. Even if they allow it today, their policy may change tomorrow. If that happens, your email address(es) suddenly die.
    5. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by kirun · · Score: 1

      So you're asking for a service that's both high quality and totally free?

      Good luck!

      These services have to be paid for somehow. If you're not prepared to look at ads, you have to open your wallet. You may find a service that's "free" now, but it will close, gain ads or charge at some point.

      1&1 offers 3 POP accounts, with virus checker, 6 pounds 99 p a year with a domain. I host with them, and a happy customer.

      Oh, and a side note, why doesn't &pound; work in comments?

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    6. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      beucase this isnt fucking england?

    7. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I like fastmail.fm. You get 10MB storage for free, with IMAP and Webmail access. If you pay, you can get POP3 and advanced SPAM filters (basic SPAM filtering is always activated).
      They got a lot of other domainnames as well btw.

    8. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by TACD · · Score: 1

      This is the correct answer. http://www.myway.com/

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    9. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Dhalka226 · · Score: 1

      I've had good experiences with MyRealBox and Softhome.net. Softhome is a bit more restrictive about what you can send and how often; MyRealBox is technically a test server for some Novell software, but the downtimes haven't inconveinienced me. Both are free and have POP access.

    10. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by pohlman0 · · Score: 1

      Not a big help, but I pay for and use netaddress. I think it is about $30 for a year and is worth it to me. I've had it for three years and have never received a single spam in that whole time. And I think it's been down for maybe two hours total during that time. And I've never had a problem using hotmail for a junk account. Regardless of the accusations made against hotmail, if you don't use a name that will be hit by a dictionary attack, you'll never get a spam until you give the address to the wrong person. I've had the same hotmail address for two years now and haven't seen a spam in over a month. I don't know if Mailwasher deserves the credit or if it's just my girlfriend keeping me off porn sites...

    11. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by kacp · · Score: 1

      Softhome is what I use. Web based and pop, free with tiered payment upgrades.

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    12. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by mobets · · Score: 1

      I got a domain and use postfix to run a mail server. Configuration wasn't that bad. Only took a few days to figure out. I'm pretty sure it won't relay from outside as it refuses me when I try to send an e-mail through it from school. Of cource you would need a dedicated IP address...

      Or if you are feeling sadisctic, you could try and configure sendmail...

      Any way, unlimited e-mail with unlimited diskspace that will never go away as long as you own the domain is cool

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    13. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by mOdQuArK! · · Score: 1

      Spamcop.net. They cost $30/year, but I can access them anywhere on the net (either by POP3 or Web mail, and through SSL).

      They'll get email via POP3 from any of my other accounts, or you can forward your "normal" email addresses to them for filtering. You can choose whether or not to apply SpamAssassin and/or various RBLs as filters to your incoming mail. Plus a fair number of spammers filter out any spamcop destination email addresses, since it means they'll get reported to the abuse departments that much sooner.

      Of course, you occasionally have to deal with a DDoS attack on the main servers, but it never caused me a significant problem.

      You still have to use a local SMTP server for outgoing mail, but there's usually always something available from your ISP (and sometimes they require that you use their SMTP servers...).

    14. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by tetranz · · Score: 1

      Get a domain from GoDaddy for (on special right now) $6.95 USD per year. This includes free email forwarding. They have mailboxes from $9.95 per year.

    15. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Wakkow · · Score: 1

      As someone else mentioned, get your own domain and host the site somewhere. You can domains as low as $5 a year and host it anywhere from $10/yr (for a cheapo company that won't be around in a year) to $10/mo and up.. If you just want email, dont pay any more than $10/mo, if not less.

      Then you can set the email addresses yourself from a simple web interface and if the host has a good spam system in place, you wont have to deal with that either.

      Also, ask people you know for suggestions.. Don't go to those "10 best hosting companies!" as they're pretty much all paid placement. If you really care where you're going, browse Webhostingtalk and look for people that post often and are helpful. I figure if they're willing to help others on their own time, they'll help you out when you're a paying customer..

    16. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by YrWrstNtmr · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I've had good experiences with XxXxxxXxx...

      Shhh! You'll let the secret out and it won't be so good anymore!. I've used that for years, and have very, very few problems.

    17. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by herrvinny · · Score: 1

      If you have spare bandwidth and a box to run the mailserver, try Apache James. Fast, efficient, easy to use, and well documented. Better yet, if you know Java, you can customize James to your heart's delight. If not, it's okay, because James offers a lot of features straight out of the box. I'm using James to test an email application I'm writing, and I just can't recommend it enough. Also, if you have any POP accounts with any other company, James can download them as well, and put them into one mailbox.

    18. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      The best of all these FOR FREE, is www.hotpop.com. You get FREE POP3 and SMTP, I rarely get bothered by them, and no freaking ads on site. To check your mail on the web, use www.mail2web.com

    19. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by manifest37 · · Score: 1

      www.dreamhost.com

      same as the other suggested domain hostings. free domain for the first year 500mb storage 25gb transfer per month and only 9.95 a month (with a 25$ activation) and a ton of mailboxes (60 to be exact)

      execellent company run by geeks who graduated from hmc.edu

    20. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      1. Register a domain for $50 for a couple years.
      2. Host it on Pair for $8/month including ssh access.


      I'm doing that... but at the $8 level you can't delete spam from the server (i.e., you can't run your own instance of SpamAssassin).

      They have a shared version of SA that's pretty good, but it just tags the spam and you still have to dl it.

    21. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by bis · · Score: 1

      ok, now that is just scary.... because after investigating all the email options I could find, hosting with Pair is the solution I came up with. The reason I chose Pair over other services was that Pair does IMAP (though not secure IMAP, alas), and I could not (easily) find anything else that did IMAP at a reasonable price. Funny thing, a few days after I signed up, another ISP called me to try to get me to switch to them, and I had to explain to the guy on the phone what IMAP was before he would let me go.... Pair also has a web interface (https) for mail, runs SpamAssassin and procmail. I am pretty sure that this morning's mail from Yahoo was not flagged as being spam though...

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    22. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Or try 1and1.com; it's full domain hosting free for 3 years, with mailboxes and plenty of other features. If there's a catch, I couldn't find it.

    23. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Gunzour · · Score: 1

      No more pop access, constant attempts to spam me

      Name one time Yahoo has ever sent you spam.

      What E-mail Service do YOU use/recommend?

      I still recommend Yahoo. Pretty decent spam filters, easy access from anywhere, filtering capability, and you can't beat the price. If you want POP access you can pay their yearly price (something like $14/year, pretty cheap) to get POP access along with more storage, etc.

      Yes you can setup your own mail server (I used to run one using qmail). It gives you the ultimate flexibility if you're willing to spend the time to set it up and maintain it. Any decent mailserver will deny relaying by default these days, so you don't really have to worry about that. One nice thing about qmail is that you can use an infinite number of extensions to your username. gunzour-slashdot@yahoo.com could be the email address I give out on slashdot; gunzour-nytimes@yahoo.com coule be the one I give when I register at nytimes.com. That way if I ever get spam, I know exactly who they got my email from. And it makes it easy to filter. I believe Yahoo is getting ready to offer this functionality to paying users, since they use qmail themselves.

    24. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      http://www.myway.com - No Banners, No Pop-ups, No Kidding.

    25. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      By far the best Email service I have ever seen is fastmail.fm it has a free version that you can sign up for that is much much better then yahoo or hotmail, or any of the big names, at least as far as I can tell. The free version does not offer POP but it offers IMAP. and for like 20 a year you get POP access. you should check it out. ohh, also I have literally never, ever received spam with either of my fastmail accounts. which is probably the main reason I have started using it. that and more space, and no adds. anyway, check it out

    26. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by ericspinder · · Score: 1

      Realilize that while you might be able to get a free lunch today, you might not tomorrow. Sorry, but the dot com boom came and went, so did a lot of the benifit of free VC money. Web Page advertising money is getting worse, and they get nothing if they allow POP3 access (unless you allow them to spam you). Even then, what is the click rate of spam? Maybe some guy in Nigeria can suvive on .01% response rate, but I doubt if Yahoo can.

      Buy a domain, heck, go in with a couple of family members and get a "family" domain and you can be "john@doe.us". Don't pay more than $10 yr. Get an email hosting plan. I have seen good ones with anti-spam, anti-virus, for $5/month for 5 accounts (really there are many out there, shop around*). It is very nice to have access to an SMTP server (but your ISP might not allow the traffic). Split the cost with 4 family members and your cost would be only $14/year total (less than $1.25/month, or 4 cents a day) for your own vanity domain and a bigger mailbox, plus when you get sick of them just buy a different service and take your mail with you!

      Also an email address with a family name might be a good Christmas gift!

      *on a related note, don't just go for the cheapest, but the one with the most details for a reasonable price. Also, most likely it's a good idea to keep your hosting and your Domain registar separate, they could be related companies, but don't do it as a package. You might not like the service and it would be one step harder to move.

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      The grass is only greener, if you don't take care of your own lawn.
    27. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by DoorFrame · · Score: 2, Informative

      I've had problems with MyRealBox.net's uptime. Since they are a test server they will regularly take them down without notification and don't really bother to get everything back up and running fast. If mail is lost, oh well. I'd avoid them if you like getting your email on a regular basis.

      On the upside, they are free.

    28. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Try fastmail.fm (free limited good service).

    29. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by nicky_d · · Score: 3, Informative

      I can recommend fastmail.fm - I found it via a /. comment, in fact. Web interface and IMAP access (working fine with Mac Mail), and a range of prices from free upwards. If you pay more, you get more space / functionality and access to the fastmail SMTP server, for ISP independence. I'll be paying for it soon, I'm sure. Since the goons at work implemented their 1/4-assed mail filter, it's been a godsend. The web interface is also nice and clean, and the whole thing has a nice white-hat feel to it. Check it out, anyway; I'll be recommending them when asked from now on.

    30. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by dze · · Score: 1

      Try YahooPOPs which emulates POP access to Yahoo. You can use this with pretty much any mail reader I believe. I use this and it works very well.

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      "Luck is the residue of design" -- Branch Rickey
    31. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by Carnildo · · Score: 1

      I use MyRealBox for mail lists I'm subscribed to. Down time and the occasional missed message usually don't matter then.

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      "They redundantly repeated themselves over and over again incessantly without end ad infinitum" -- ibid.
    32. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by sdibb · · Score: 1

      I was gonna say MyWay Mail, but this idea is actually much better... plus, as long as you don't post your email address anywhere, and send all other emails to the domain to blackhole, you'll be good to go.

    33. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by MythMoth · · Score: 1

      Pay for a mail address with spamcop.

      http://www.spamcop.net/

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    34. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by ErixTr · · Score: 1

      I'm using Myrealbox account just for forums, discussion boards and things like that.

      You shouldn't rely on a free account for anything important. And certainly posts coming from Slashdot and like does not belong to important category.

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      less is more
    35. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by wmspringer · · Score: 1

      Unfortunately for the family domain idea, there are too many companies looking to make money off of it :-p

      I was looking into that earlier and I have the misfortunate of having a common last name....springer.com, springer.net, springer.org, springer.us, are owned by 3 different companies, at least 2 of which want to sell you email :-p

    36. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by ericspinder · · Score: 1
      yea, I see what you mean, I did a quick check on registerfly and found only springer.nu and springer.bz left (and both of those want nearly $30/yr)

      But..
      Springer-family.us is open. In fact registerfly only charges $5.99 /yr for .us domains. Maybe, I should register it, hummm....

      just for the record, <rant>one jerk with the same last name as me, is just sitting on the pinder.com, .net, and .org. Why does he need three domains just to park his content-less website, and he just renewed each of them for another two years.</rant> Other pinder domains are unavailable as well. Usually you need to "add a little" to get the address or go with an uncommon TLD (like .biz, .us, or .info)

      News Flash -- .name TLD opening up early next year, the format is different, they keep the domain name and sell the "server names", and they expect the name like: [FirstName].[LastName].name but I can easily see it to be [LastName].[location or other word].name (like springer.usa.name so that you could be Jerry@springer.usa.name or Jerry@springer.my.name or Jerry@springer.our.name Jerry@springer.giveMeBackMy.name

      hope that helps your search!

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    37. Re:Good Yahoo Alternatives? by wmspringer · · Score: 1

      I was thinking about using some of the country codes. Then I could have an email address like William@Spring.er

      Might confuse people though.

      I used to run the website www.wnohgb.com (it was a game magazine) When I stopped publishing I accidentally let the domain lapse, and it got snapped up by a porn site :-p

  29. Am I missing something? by jpmahala · · Score: 3, Interesting

    Why does YAHOO! get such a bad rap from Slashdot? They run almost all of their services on FreeBSD and are a huge advocate, supporter, and patron of the FreeBSD foundation. Why does the majority of Slashdotters despise them?

    1. Re:Am I missing something? by Ukoku · · Score: 3, Funny

      Probably because they're still a big, faceless corp. I think we all feel a little bitter towards BFCs, because somewhere in the back of our minds, we know we're getting screwed.

    2. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Because they make money using computers, and for most people on Slashdot that is a big fucking no-no.

    3. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Uhhh... Probably because their service sucks.

    4. Re:Am I missing something? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Right, that makes sense.

      They use *BSD? We LOVE them, they'll cool!

      They use neither that nor Linux? They suck!! Losers! Boycott them!!

    5. Re:Am I missing something? by r_cerq · · Score: 1

      So using OSS is now enough to be "one of the good guys"? Hah!
      I use, defend, and contribute to open-source because I believe it's a sound and effective development model, and produces better software. That doesn't mean I'm willing to lower my pants and get spam shoved up my ass by a guy/corporation who has the same belief, as I happen to be one of those guys who wants all spammers hung by their nuts

  30. umm by HBI · · Score: 1

    Hasn't everyone stopped doing business with Yahoo yet?

    When my email box was full of spam that they basically wouldn't do anything about, I terminated my account with extreme prejudice. Sure, the wallet was handy for buying phone cards and for dealing with my favorite Taiwanese reseller of motherboards, but I can type in my credit card number rather than deal with their boatloads of spam.

    The thing I hate about Yahoo, most of all, is that they make it as difficult as possible to find a customer service contact. Any business that doesn't give a shit about its customers is doomed ultimately - Yahoo is pretty much headed that way.

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    1. Re:umm by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I keep my Yahoo account as a throw-away address for singing up to get hardware drivers from the driver-database email harvesters. I never check it otherwise.

  31. Filtering out Yahoo spam using Yahoo email filter by Mon_Slashdot · · Score: 1

    wonder if that could work ..hmmmmmmmmmm ;-)

  32. These People... by polyp2000 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Peoples Mums and Dads,
    Peoples Aunts and Uncles,
    Clueless PHB's and Office Clerks.

    Loads of people use it, that much is obvious there are other people in the world apart from clever techies like you and me!

    Anyhow your message was clearly flamebait and I took it hook, line and sinker!

    nick .

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  33. Flamebait? He is right......! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    Why is this flamebait? He is right, what has yahoo got to offer that they can have such a bad privacy stance and still have people use their services?

    Annon coward because I fear the wrath of the same stupid mods that moded the parent down.

  34. Set your email prefs... by Dave21212 · · Score: 5, Informative


    Set your email prefs... I have mine as alerts-feedback@yahoo-inc.com - this way, they spam their own inbox...
    Note that you will need to add the address as an "alternate email address" for it to be available in the selection box.

    How may we contact you?
    Please verify your contact information. It will only be used consistent with the Yahoo! Privacy Policy and your preferences. Please note that Yahoo!'s ability to accurately honor your choices above, including a preference not to receive certain types of communications, depends on up-to-date addresses and phone numbers in your Account Information. If your Account Information is no longer current, please edit or update using the links below.

    Email - please select which address we should send email to:
    alerts-feedback@yahoo-inc.com

    --
    "Whoever would overthrow the liberty of a nation must begin by subduing the freeness of speech."--Benjamin Franklin
    1. Re:Set your email prefs... by Zed2K · · Score: 4, Funny

      Whats even better is set your addresses (home and work) to yahoo's addresses.

      Home Address:
      106 Front Street East
      Toronto, Ontario M5A 1E1
      Canada
      416-341-8605

      Yahoo! Inc.
      701 First Avenue
      Sunnyvale, CA 94089
      United States
      408-349-3300

    2. Re:Set your email prefs... by Evil+Adrian · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If you don't agree to the terms of service, then you shouldn't be using the service.

      Why the fuck is everybody always scheming to get a free ride?

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    3. Re:Set your email prefs... by FattMattP · · Score: 1
      Set your email prefs... I have mine as alerts-feedback@yahoo-inc.com - this way, they spam their own inbox... Note that you will need to add the address as an "alternate email address" for it to be available in the selection box.
      Nice try but that won't work. They send a verification message to the address you enter so that you can respond and verify it. Since you don't get mail at alerts-feedback@yahoo-inc.com you can't respond and verify it.
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    4. Re:Set your email prefs... by skelley · · Score: 1

      I like this better -

      Name: Mr Evil President
      Home Address: 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW
      Washington, DC 20500
      United States
      Phone: 202-456-1414

    5. Re:Set your email prefs... by JuggleGeek · · Score: 1
      If you don't agree to the terms of service, then you shouldn't be using the service.

      However, if you agree to the terms of service, which say that you can choose not to have all of your personal info marketed, and then they change the TOS and change your settings to say "Market to me by phone, email, and snail mail" then it doesn't matter what you agreed to, because they ignored that agreement and made up their own.

    6. Re:Set your email prefs... by bach37 · · Score: 1

      Nice try but that won't work.

      It works. Worked fine for me. Just changed the email address and clicked "finished" or "done" or whatever at the bottom, and now it's all set.
      Scott

    7. Re:Set your email prefs... by Herkum01 · · Score: 1

      I also ask that email be sent to root@127.0.0.1 that I ensure that they know that their email service is working. I wouldn't want it to be any other way.

    8. Re:Set your email prefs... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      just block it
      dear henry
      dear henry
      dear henry
      just block it
      dear henry
      just block it

    9. Re:Set your email prefs... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Why the fuck is everybody always scheming to get a free ride?"

      Well see normal people have a different definition of "free", it's those marketers, lawyers, and white rich old wrinkly men that stretch the definition to new bounds that pisses Joe-Average off.

      Twisting my entry into a free contest/service/backrub into "yes I want to spend money, and sure tell your friends even though that's not what I want" is not only evil, it's common. Whatever happened to trust, fair deals, and honesty? It went out the fucking window a long time ago..."Exploit early, exploit often," right?

      The reason people want a free ride when offered a free ride that's not really free is simple: They believe in trust, honesty, and fair deals. When they find out that those three traits have been bastardized for decades, they want revenge. And it is revenge they will get.

    10. Re:Set your email prefs... by sipy · · Score: 1

      I didn't agree to any terms of service to be SPAMMED. I agreed to have my email-capable PAGER sent alerts on certain news articles. I *NEVER* asked or allowed them to send me any SPAM.

      RTFM is all well, and good, but I have turned off these alerts ALMOST A YEAR AGO, yet I'm getting their warning saying they'll spam me now, unless I sign on and tell them not to.

      Those bastards lied - LIED - about the EULA. They said I could terminate my account. THEY kept it after I terminated it, reactivated it, and used it to SPAM ME!

      This is abuse. Pure and simple. It has nothing whatsoever to do with my agreeing with (or not reading) any now-changed license agreement.

      Deleting my account, having them reactivate it and use it's information to spam me is NOT ETHICAL.

      Period.

  35. Driving me nuts.... by bobthemuse · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I still receive spam from Yahoo under an account name I deleted several years ago. The email informs me that I may login under the userid listed in the email and change my preferences. When I go to login, it tells me that the account doesn't exist and asks if I would like to sign up under that name.

    Since Yahoo spams tend to be more legitimate than the usual penis extension mailings, I find that I feel better after going to the advertisers website, making a list of all the email addresses, and writing to them to inform them that I will be signing up for free pencams, PDAs drawings, and porn-a-day lists.

    1. Re:Driving me nuts.... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't understand... You gave Yahoo another one of your email addresses? Whatever for? Doesn't Yahoo spam go to Yahoo addresses? Since you deleted your account, how are you still getting spam from them?

    2. Re:Driving me nuts.... by bobthemuse · · Score: 1

      When you sign up for an account, you can put in a secondary email address for notifications, forgetten password emails, etc. Foolishly, I put one in, and now they're spamming it.

      Yes, you'd think that once the account was deleted, they'd stop with the spam, but they haven't.

    3. Re:Driving me nuts.... by KUHurdler · · Score: 1

      This worked out to my advantage. I still use my Yahoo account, but they send spam to my (primary) college address that got deleted when I graduated.

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  36. And exactly where are they sending this? by Steve+Ballmer's+Fat · · Score: 3, Interesting
    I deleted my Yahoo account a month ago. I guess they are lying, because I'm still getting their SPAM."
    Yahoo is sending these emails to Yahoo (email) accounts. I use several different Yahoo services, including the email, and I've never had to supply them with an alternate email address. Is the author saying that he/she received this at a personal account or what? I find that hard to believe.
    1. Re:And exactly where are they sending this? by DarkBlackFox · · Score: 1

      Not really. I have a hotmail account, and I got the Yahoo news there. Email is just one "service" Yahoo offers. They can also render their other "services" to other email addresses, much like Microsoft's Passport email address service. Any address can become involved with Yahoo, not necessarily just their own.

    2. Re:And exactly where are they sending this? by mbbac · · Score: 1

      No, they're sending it to any e-mail account they have on file in your account settings.

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      mbbac

    3. Re:And exactly where are they sending this? by rawg · · Score: 1

      Yes, I'm receiving this email at my personal account. I do not have a Yahoo email account. I was a registered user for years. Never had email, but I used their maps and news groups. I dumped my account last month after receiving yet another spam message where I had to go and select NO to whatever new spam category they came up with. Now that I'm off their system, account deleted, I'm still going to receive spam. The biggest worry I have is that I can't turn it off because I can't log into Yahoo without an account.

      I'll just keep reporting it to SpamCop.

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      The above is not worth reading.
    4. Re:And exactly where are they sending this? by Steve+Ballmer's+Fat · · Score: 1

      Ahh, I see. Maybe the moral of the story is to NOT provide them with an alternate email address. Then you could drop them like a bad habit whenever you want. Can't say I'm terribly surprised that people are having spam issues, but for me this has been the best, most spam free year with Yahoo. I was about to dump them early this spring, but then they introduced the 'spam reporting' feature and it has worked wonders for my account. Whatever works, if I was in your situation I'd do the same thing.

    5. Re:And exactly where are they sending this? by rawg · · Score: 1

      I don't think you understand. I did not have a email account with Yahoo. Never had one. My email address was on my yahoo profile. I also had Yahoo Chat. But not anymore.

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  37. Reminds me of the cable company by Garwulf · · Score: 1

    This does remind me of when the cable companies up here in Ontario tried to get away with negative billing - "if you don't want us to give you these new channels and charge us extra for it, you have to tell us not to." I wonder if there will be a similar backlash...

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    Robert B. Marks
    Author, Demonsbane in Diablo Archive
    1. Re:Reminds me of the cable company by kin_korn_karn · · Score: 1

      My company did the same thing with the 401k. they stole a bunch of my money without asking me if I wanted to be on the plan or not.

  38. I didn't get the message. by princewally · · Score: 1

    There's a reason I register for everything with a throwaway email address. My hotmail account is whitelisted. If there's a registration email that I need to see, I can check the junk senders folder.

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    "Vengeance is fine," sayeth the Lord.
  39. Remember in highschool there was this really cute by eclectro · · Score: 5, Funny


    girl that everybody liked. But she told you "No" and you wondered if "No" really meant "Yes" afterall.

    But her parents had to call your parents to clarify that "No" really meant "No" for really positive for sure.

    It's like that.

    Maybe it was just me.....

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    Take the cheese to sickbay, the doctor should see it as soon as possible - B'Elanna Torres, "Learning Curve"
  40. so let them spam you.. but not really. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    just redo your account settings with their address, and their corporate phone number. make sure you say you want mail and phone contact from both them and their marketing partners. that way they'll mail themselves and call themselves and you won't get any of it.

    go one further, set your alternate email address as abuse@yahoo.com and then make it default. their spam will go to their own abuse center. after all, we all use free webmail accounts just to collect spam, right? so who cares what gets sent to them!

  41. No still means No by alanjstr · · Score: 5, Informative

    They're not resetting your preferences, just reminding you to check them. And if you had checked them instead of running to Slashdot, you'd see that they're still the same. They just aren't going to start using those preferences until next year.

    1. Re:No still means No by claud9999 · · Score: 1

      Amen and agreed. Another /. paranoid episode / troll.

    2. Re:No still means No by fred+ugly · · Score: 1

      They just aren't going to start using those preferences until next year.

      So... "No" actually doesn't mean "No" until next year. And Yahoo! reminded its users of that.

    3. Re:No still means No by Slime-dogg · · Score: 1

      The guy didn't even have a Yahoo! account, he had deleted it a month ago. :rolls eyes: He just assumed that Yahoo! had changed everyone's preferences without verifying it first.

      What a pud.

      --
      You need to restart your computer. Hold down the Power button for several seconds or press the Restart button.
    4. Re:No still means No by CrazyTalk · · Score: 1

      not true in my case. I has always opted out of receiving any email, and when I went to check my "new" preferences, I was pre-selected to receive EVERYTHING. I had to go through and uncheck everything all over again. If I had just deleted the yahoo message without bothering to read it, I never would have known that I was being added to Spam lists without my permission.

    5. Re:No still means No by kesuki · · Score: 1

      the preference checkboxes are the same as the last 2-3 times this story aired on slashdot -- I know because I changed them all from yes, to no, the first time this story ran on slashdot, and they're still all set to no.
      This is just a typical slashdot dupe, only in this case, it's wired that duped the story... about a year late lol...

  42. This is not new, really. by VirtualAdept · · Score: 3, Informative

    I'm not sure this is such a huge deal. What happened was back in March of 2002, Yahoo! created a whole new set of opt-out options with the intention of driving their marketing emails based off of those. The bad was, however, that they defaulted everyone to receive emails from every category. A scandal broke, please see: http://slashdot.org/articles/02/03/29/1833235.shtm l?tid=111 for more details on that scandal. Yahoo apparantly decided they weren't going to start sending mail based on those new preferences for a while. They've decided recently, though, that that policy is going to change. So anyone who did reset their preferences back in 2002 is safe. I know when I went in, my preferences were just the way I had them. That said, its still odd that they defaulted everyone to 'yes'. And that shopping from a Yahoo! merchant will get your mailing address onto that form.

  43. Stop overreacting; this isn't spam by eaolson · · Score: 1
    Yahoo has said that now, to use their free email service, you must consent to having emails for Yahoo products sent to you. It's no more spam than the Slashdot banner ads are. (Ad blockers notwithstanding.) They will send you third-party advertising, too, if you haven't opted-out.

    I forget exactly, but it looks like the big change is that they changed the option from a single Yes/No option to multiple, categorized Yes/No option quite some time ago, and are just now implementing the change. Furthermore, one of the categories is for the Yahoo messages, so it still looks like you can opt-out of it.

    Spam [*] is unsolicited commercial/bulk email. This is not unsolicted, as you're using the Yahoo service to begin with.

    [*] A gentle reminder: it's "spam" not "SPAM" . I don't know why people keep thinking it's an acryonym.

    1. Re:Stop overreacting; this isn't spam by SharpFang · · Score: 1

      Stupid People AdvertiseMent
      A backronym.

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      45 5F E1 04 22 CA 29 C4 93 3F 95 05 2B 79 2A B2
    2. Re:Stop overreacting; this isn't spam by gral · · Score: 1

      > [*] A gentle reminder: it's "spam" not "SPAM" . I don't know why people keep thinking it's an acryonym.

      SPAM is an acronym:

      Soliciations Posing As Mail ;-)

      --
      Scott Carr
  44. Money For Nothing? by Gothmolly · · Score: 5, Insightful
    Lets examine the service that Yahoo provides, to users who take full advantage of it (dons tinfoil hat).
    For free, you get:
    • 6 MB webmail, with antispam
    • customizable home page with your news about your personal intrests pulled together and grouped by category
    • weather & stock info
    • access to "groups" which are like Usenet, but not really
    • a maps/driving directions page that remembers all 'your' locations

    All of this for 0 USD a month, and now they're suggesting that they may "clear" your nospam preferences, unless you turn it back on again.

    How is this evil? I've had a Yahoo profile since 1997, its been invaluable. Heck, I feel guilty not paying them a dime!
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    I want to delete my account but Slashdot doesn't allow it.
    1. Re:Money For Nothing? by Mr.+Darl+McBride · · Score: 3, Interesting
      Bullshit.

      Yahoo! blasts you with non-stop advertising while you use the service. I had to uninstall Flash in IE and get a flash blocker for Mozilla just to be able to use the damned site without distractions. But, that aside --

      I use Yahoo! bill pay, which costs me $5/month. I use Yahoo! wallet with shop.yahoo.com for most of my online shopping so I've got all the carts in one place and all my order history in one place. Yahoo gets a cut out of every sale there as well (not to mention the monthly fees the stores pay). That's cold, hard cash they're earning -- not just ad impressions.

      I just checked and my marketing prefs haven't been turned back on. If they are, it's good-bye Yahoo!. If the Yahoo! folks are reading this, I *strongly* suggest you think twice about bending your paying users over the table.

    2. Re:Money For Nothing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      How is this evil? I've had a Yahoo profile since 1997, its been invaluable. Heck, I feel guilty not paying them a dime


      You must feel guilty too for not paying to listen to Howard Stern in the morning as well. I do not *ever* feel guilty for not paying for anything when I'm forcefed advertising. When that happens when I actually am paying, I close off all contact.

      I cancelled my baseball season tickets when they started putting ads on the f'ing seats in front of me.

    3. Re:Money For Nothing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Cancel your account, see if anyone cares.

    4. Re:Money For Nothing? by ChefInnocent · · Score: 1

      I use Yahoo! Bill pay, but it doesn't cost me anything. I of course use the smaller payment list. If you compare that $5/month, it is cheaper than many of the other similar services.

      Yahoo wallet doesn't cost.
      The Yahoo stores do cost, but that is a service the vendors choose. It is like putting a store in a Mall instead of a stand alone. Malls cost more for rent than stand alone stores. The advantage of a Mall is that you will get more traffic. The advantage of a yahoo store is that you will get more traffic. You may choose not to go the the mall and you may choose not to use yahoo. However, Malls & Yahoo are very viable locations for that 80% market.
      The way I look at it, is that Yahoo is a business. It is through thier benevolence and best interest that they offer free services such as Mail.

      If you really want to not see thier adds, use FetchYahoo.

    5. Re:Money For Nothing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm sure yahoo is quaking in their boots at the thought of losing that $5 a month. Wherever will they find a userbase to make up the gap.

      Meanwhile I guess you could always use Hotmail, they're spam-free and ad-free and gosh, they're just fucking great.

    6. Re:Money For Nothing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Can you honestly say that you really pay attention to advertising anymore? I don't. Yahoo is my primary email provider. I checked my email about 10 minutes ago, and I can't even tell you what adverts were there. I don't care. I don't pay attention to them. If the emails I get aren't from someone I know, I delete them.

      Just do what most of the population does. Ignore the advertising. Or, if your feeling militant, active avoid the products of those advertised. And cancel your $5/month bill pay. If you knew anything about billing, you'd shit about how much more than $5/month it costs. Your getting a fucking bargain.

    7. Re:Money For Nothing? by kolevam · · Score: 1

      as far as ads are concerned ... if you just want the basics and don't mind lack of security ... you can always go super lite.

    8. Re:Money For Nothing? by ShadowDrake · · Score: 1

      Many banks will do bill-pay through their own sites. I believe USD 5 a month to be typical; some will waive it if you're getting a paycheque direct-deposited.

      --
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    9. Re:Money For Nothing? by DrEasy · · Score: 1

      You'd think they would at least stop subjecting their paying subscribers to ads.

      (BTW same thing can be said about pay TV or anything else that you don't get for free)

      --
      "In our tactical decisions, we are operating contrary to our strategic interest."
    10. Re:Money For Nothing? by Mr.+Darl+McBride · · Score: 1
      Advertisers don't like it when you clip off the users who seem to actually spend money online.

      Doubleclick (and possibly others) actually have a policy against letting sites offer to remove ads as a paid option.

    11. Re:Money For Nothing? by Mr.+Darl+McBride · · Score: 1

      I get over a thousand pieces of spam a day. These are filtered out by spamassassin, but now and then legitimate email ends up in that pile as well.

  45. Nothing to see here by rev063 · · Score: 1
    This didn't change anything. Yahoo notified its users months ago about the messaging preferences page, and if you opted out then you *still* won't get emails from them. I don't think I've ever had a commercial email from Yahoo (at least, one identifiable as such) in all that time, and I did have one category enabled (for travel offers).

    As I understand it, if you hadn't yet opted out, they plan to start emailing next year. (This explains why I haven't had any travel offers yet.) You've had at least SIX MONTHS to opt out, so don't start whining now. For a free service, this seems perfectly fair to me. If you don't like it, don't use their services.

  46. Important Question by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How do you delete an account?

    I have never really had any problems or annoyances with any accounts through Yahoo, except one thing:

    Trying to get off of something.

    Not too long ago, I tried to get taken off of a newsgroup, and couldn't, because it said I wasn't subscribed. It was maddening, because I was getting these emails from a newsgroup I had subscribed to, and when I went to remove myself, it said I needed to subscribe first to unsubscribe myself. WTF?

    Now I can't seem to figure out how to delete my account. Navigating the account options is insanity-inducing.

  47. Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by nytmare · · Score: 5, Informative

    I get Yahoo's spam at a MindSpring email account.

    Yahoo requires you to sign in to your Yahoo account in order to delete that account. Since I don't know what username or password or birthdate they have on file for me, it is impossible for me to sign in and impossible to cancel the spam or delete the account. It is also impossible to contact a live human at Yahoo regarding this problem.

    The design is thoroughly irresponsible, yet they've had it this way for years.

    1. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      all-worldwide@yahoo-inc.com

      works wonders, and its real too .

      I say goatse em :D
      This is a real email drop , im not shiting you.

    2. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I got lots more information on the internal structure of yahoo-inc

      If you want it, hollar :D

      I even know aliases of employees in Cali and which rooms they frequent.

    3. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by Dhalka226 · · Score: 1

      Yahoo requires you to sign in to your Yahoo account in order to delete that account. Since I don't know what username or password or birthdate they have on file for me, it is impossible for me to sign in and impossible to cancel the spam or delete the account. [. . .] The design is thoroughly irresponsible, yet they've had it this way for years.

      It is irresponsible to assume you must be able to prove you own an account before you can have them delete it?

      Okay, if they DON'T require your username and password before permitting you to delete an account, and failing that your DOB to retreive your password, how are they supposed to do it? "Enter the username you want deleted here. Don't worry, we won't ask you to verify it's your account!"

      If you lied on the registration information and don't remember which lie you used, they also provide a way of getting a new password mailed to you.

      It is as responsible and accessible a way of doing things as can be expected, unless of course you think that you should be able to call up Yahoo, give them exactly none of the information on file for your account, and have them tell you the info.

      What is the problem here?

    4. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Also, Yahoo's databases are like the Hydra. Even if you remove your data from one of them, there always seem to be more databases which have your info. Try looking for yourself in Yahoo PeopleSearch after deleting your Yahoo account...

    5. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by bottlerocket · · Score: 1

      Since I don't know what username or password or birthdate they have on file for me...

      You don't know your own birthday? I think you have larger problems than just spam...

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      where the comment ends and sig begins
    6. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You use you're REAL info on yahoo?

      You stand alone.

    7. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Then don't complain when they ask for a part of your "info" to cancel the account.

    8. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by vees · · Score: 1

      I'm in the process of doing the exact same thing. They want me to remember a stupid secret question/answer that seemed obvious in 1999....

    9. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      I'm in the process of doing the exact same thing. They want me to remember a stupid secret question/answer that seemed obvious in 1999....

      Well now, using your SSN for everything doesn't seem so stupid now, does it?

    10. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yeah, well, they're not the ones that forgot their username and password and their own fucking birthday, dipshit.

      If you're going to be clever and pass out false information to online services, make sure you have the sense God gave a walnut first.

    11. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by nytmare · · Score: 1

      For all I know someone else may have created the account. I have no pertinent info except my own email address, but Yahoo does not consider an email address by itself to be enough info for them to bother sending me the "forgotten" password.

    12. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ha ha ha ... I've seen some pretty smart walnuts too.

    13. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by T-Ranger · · Score: 1
      You dont know your own birthday?

      Oh, you lied to them, you forgot your lie, and now your screwed. And its their fault?

    14. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by dvdeug · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yahoo requires you to sign in to your Yahoo account in order to delete that account.

      My accidental solution--my account filled up with patches from Microsoft (which I still haven't found a way to install under Linux), and later I got a message from Yahoo saying that they had shut off my services because of the bounces, and they would turn them on if I reactived my account. Even if I had wanted to reactivate the account, I didn't have the password to do so.

    15. Re:Yahoo doesn't allow you to delete your account by dvdeug · · Score: 1

      Even if I had wanted to reactivate the account, I didn't have the password to do so.

      But don't think that'll stop them. They've started spamming me again.

  48. Yahoo just blows... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If I see that damn pop up again that tells me to reconfigure my browser to all thing Yahoo, I swear I'm going to do something. I don't know what...maybe shake my fist menacingly at the screen or something else. What I do know is Yahoo blows.

  49. /etc/badmailfrom by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This is an easy fix. Just reject email from yahoo.com

    I'm not sure about postfix or sendmail but I know that with qmail it will bounce the message back saying that the email was rejected because the address appears in the badmailfrom file.

  50. Yahoo was MADE for spam by Dynamic+Ranger · · Score: 1

    I keep multiple accounts and use Yahoo for stuff on the internet where you have to enter your email and you KNOW they're just kidding about "privacy."

    In fact, I used it to sign up for /. and I'm very happy /. hasn't offered my any "marketing preferences."

  51. Gonna have to pay postage on that snailspam by Croaker · · Score: 1

    Heh... considering on the two or three accounts with Yahoo I created, I always set my address to be someplace in Albania or some even more out of the way place, I suspect Yahoo will opt-out of sending my accounts snail mail spam on their own.

    Silly Yahoo, real addresses are for lusers.

    I got this e-mail as well, and it handily had a link that said "this e-mail address is not associate with a yahoo account." When Yahoo started their whole "Oh, we're gonna change your 'marketing preferences' for you because we know better' bullshit, I scrambled the info in my main Yahoo account, since I couldn't delete it. (I couldn't delete it because Yahoo claimed my account's password too short for their current standards, and their software couldn't change the password after they upped the minimum number of characters required). So, now that account will be free of Yahoo spam, as well.

  52. now seems to be standard practice by Hollins · · Score: 1
    It seems this is becoming pretty much standard practice. There are two ways many websites refuse to respect users' opt-out wishes:
    1. The settings mysteriously get reset periodically. For some sites it seems to be once a year, for others, once a quarter.
    2. New mailing lists, which are simply modified or more specialized versions of existing mailing lists are created and everyone is opted in by default

    The two worst cases for me are Canon, which sends me new product notifications once a month and has an opt-out link on the bottom of every email which seems to do nothing and ACDSee, which makes nice software but pretty much has ignored all my opt-outs.

    I have my own domain and create a new address for every vendor so it's easy enough to turn off messages from sites that fail to follow their own privacy guidelines. If you don't respect my wishes, all of your emails are ignored.

  53. Irony by sterno · · Score: 1

    Their e-mail to me got trapped by my spam filter.

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  54. Mod parent down, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    You forward the spam to slashdot and get +5 informative? Mod this spam down. If you use yahoo you'll see the message. No need to repeat their marketing here, please.

  55. Delete page???? by motorsabbath · · Score: 1

    Where is the freakin' delete page????

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  56. At least they warn first. by Shaper+of+Myths · · Score: 1

    Unlike so many services out there and I have to respect them a bit for that. Personally, I pay for my access to Yahoo. The calendar, notepad, bookmark, etc features are just so valuable to me that I felt I should give them something back. Especially since I discovered their Palm sync software. Very handy. I know a lot of people have bad blood with them but some of us find them extremely valuable and enjoy the convience of their portal. It may not be open source or non-commercial, but that doesn't automaticlly mean they are abhorrently evil. =)

    YMMV of course...

  57. They didn't change mine by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Mine haven't changed. Maybe this is only for people who never adjusted the marketing preference page with 20 dozen options ?

    1. Re:They didn't change mine by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Perhaps they are waiting until January 2004 to change the settings. Oh! You didn't read that far, I see...

  58. Re:Remember in highschool there was this really cu by Otter · · Score: 1

    Finally, at least SOMEBODY here is talking some sense!

  59. MSN, AOL, and Yahoo by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yahoo, MSN, and AOL are now making a butt load of money via selling the spam. The funny thing is that MSN and AOL actually use their own client's IP and logins to make it look like an infected system is causing it (Infections cause a lot as well). In one case that I know of, a spam company approached a very large DSL-based isp and wanted to pay them 2 million/month to use their lines to do the same. Apparently, MSN was upping the charge to 5Million to do the same amount.
    There is a lot of humour in hearing Bill Gates, Yahoo and AOL CEO complain about spam while they are busy spamming each other and making a killing at it.

  60. What am I missing? by shawn(at)fsu · · Score: 1

    I deleted my Yahoo account a month ago

    If you deleted your account how are you getting your deleted accounts mail?

    I have or at least I should still have a yahoo account but I didn't get any Spam really because I never check the account. It's a "if a tree falls in the woods" type of thing.

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    1. Re:What am I missing? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Yea, this entire thread seems to be bogus from the starting premise that spam can come from a closed account.

  61. Re:Filtering out Yahoo spam using Yahoo email filt by El · · Score: 1

    The hotmail filters refuse to block email from hotmail staff, so good luck...

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  62. my preferences never changed. by kalieaire · · Score: 1

    I checked my set preferences and they're still NO for everything. Do they change automatically in 60 days or something? Requiring me to THEN adjust them to NO again? or do they only reset for some people, or are people getting confused by that email, and that their preferences aren't really changed?

  63. January 1st anyone? by TubeSteak · · Score: 1
    Maybe I'm missing something here, but i'm pretty sure the article mentioned January first... I'm going to step out on a limb and guess that you didn't need to change your preferences because...... Its not January yet!!!!!

    +1 Informative
    -1 Flamebait
    I'll let the mods fight it out

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    1. Re:January 1st anyone? by MonkeyCookie · · Score: 3, Informative

      The message clearly states that the marketing messages start getting sent out on January 1st, but you can change your preferences *now*.

      They aren't going to change the preferences to "Yes" on January 1st.

      I'm on Yahoo and all my preferences are still set to "No". If I want to get any of those marketing messages that start on January 1st, I can change the preferences ahead of time, because I sure wouldn't want miss any of those oh-so-good informative messages!

    2. Re:January 1st anyone? by JuggleGeek · · Score: 1
      They aren't going to change the preferences to "Yes" on January 1st.

      How do you know that? This is at least the second time they've been reported as doing this kind of thing. What makes you believe that they won't change the preferences again in the future?

  64. [do not] Mod parent down, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    And if you don't subscribe to yahoo, you'll have no idea what's going on- I prefer to see the message.

    1. Re:[do not] Mod parent down, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you don't subscribe to yahoo, then this doesn't affect you.

    2. Re:[do not] Mod parent down, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Unless you plan to subscribe to Yahoo! in the future, in which case it DOES matter.

      Just because it doesn't matter to someone NOW doesn't mean it doesn't matter to someone LATER.

  65. Re:Look Out! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    A very clever enemy who knows that we don't have the best intelligence in the world

    -- Brig. Gen. Mark Kimmitt, the U.S. military deputy director for operations

    Good summary on the Iraqi and the Americans. Certainly, IQ of the Americans is far from the best.

  66. Can anyone tell me where to click.... by SpikyTux · · Score: 1

    ... that fucking 'Marketing Preferences' link. I click it on the email. For the first Yahoo email account I use, it works fine, I can edit it (it defaults to receive SPAM from Yahoo, by email or postal). Then for the second account, when I receive the email, and click 'Marketing Preferences' in that email, it ask me to login again and I can't find that stupid 'Marketing Preferences' link.

  67. Re:Ignore this post by Frostalicious · · Score: 1

    I accidentally modded parent redundant, so I'm posting here to counteract that....sorry

  68. Are they really being reset? by zsazsa · · Score: 3, Insightful

    The Wired article linked to is from 2002. Maybe they're finally going to start spamming/calling/junkmailing people after giving them almost two years' notice. I think that's awfully nice of them.

    I just checked and everything I clicked "No" on back in 2002 is still there. I think the headline is wrong and misleading. I've never gotten any spam from them both before and after I set my preferences.

    1. Re:Are they really being reset? by Frobnicator · · Score: 1
      Perhaps you haven't used them lately, but they *DID* just send out yet another release, and they do currently have a default value of "SEND ME SPAM!" (er, contact me and affiliates can contact me), and that does return to the default value if you don't reset it every time you change a setting.

      Yes, they did implement the system in 2002, but they are making changes to the system, and want to make sure that people know that the spam you are getting really was solicited.

      Their letter actually says:

      In March 2002, we began rolling out an updated marketing communications system. Instead of just a single "Yes" or "No" choice, we created a new Marketing Preferences page where you [choose which set of spam you want]

      'When this updated system was first announced in March 2002, we told you we'd begin sending you messages about Yahoo! products and services across all categories, even though you had said "No" to messages under the old single choice system. We also told you that you could still say "No" to these messages by visiting your Marketing Preferences. But we did not completely implement this change until now.

      What's Changing on January 1, 2004

      Starting January 1, 2004, Yahoo! will begin to send you messages, via email or postal mail, about our own products and services. (We will not send you postal mail if you have given us a mailing address and have opted out of contact via postal delivery.)"

      What this really means is that a bunch of people will be spammed about new yahoo services, since in the past they didn't spam their own customers about their own services. Now they will start doing that, so they're trying to give you some warning.

      At least, that's my take on it. YMMV.

      frob

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  69. MyWay.com by flandar · · Score: 1
    Perhaps some of you should switch to a compators service. MyWay.com was setup as an ad free alternative.

    I tried the transition, but I found that I had grown too accustomed to Yahoo. So I guess I"m stuck.

    1. Re:MyWay.com by maxpublic · · Score: 1

      Here's my '2' rating to bump this up. I like Yahoo, and you get what you pay for, so all this righteous indignation is enough to put me off my feed. Don't like Yahoo? Don't use it, you twits.

      Even so, I've had one too many porn ads slide past my bulk mail filter and end up in my inbox recently. Not sure why these people think I want porn since I've never signed up for a porn site at any time in my life, but what the hell....

      Rambling on, I just signed up for a MyWay account. Damn me, but I do like it. Very sleek in an extremely utilitarian sort of way. If you want bells and whistles MyWay isn't your ticket, but I just want plain ol' functionality without having to compromise my own IP address. And MyWay seems to be the ticket here.

      Definitely check this one out, if you're a Yahoo or Hotmail user and are getting tired of people begging to enlarge your penis or supply you with pictures of bound Malaysian hotties.

      Max

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    2. Re:MyWay.com by WuphonsReach · · Score: 1

      Mmmm, I have a yahoo! address (My Yahoo actually makes a decent home page with good customization features)... used to get a spam every 3 days or so. But since late October, the amount of spam that I get has increased 10-fold (mostly porno spam).

      On the plus side, only 1 of those has slipped past the spam filters in the past month... unfortunately, they also treat e-mail from Newslinx as spam (I'm constantly rescuing those e-mails from the bulk folder).

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  70. Takes 90 days to delete a yahoo account! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I deleted my Yahoo! account yesterday when they sent me the e-mail. I promptly deleted my account and was led to a page that says it takes them 90 days to delete an account, in the meantime I may still get promotional materials. Now I can't even access my account (disabled) to change the preferences if I wanted to!

    So it's okay for them to give us 40 days notice that they're changing their policy, but it takes 90 days to get out of it?

    This is like, what, the third time they've pulled this garbage since buying egroups? They've proven the dollar is mightier than their respect for your privacy. How long do you really think it will be before they start selling their lists outright to spammers, mass postal mailers, and (gasp) telemarketers?

  71. mind the paper. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I actually love getting all the credit card applications. They, along with any other spam snail mail which includes a "no postage necessary" envelope, are a convient way to recycle. I strip off any identification marks on the ads which may let them trace to my address and stuff them full of all the other garbage that comes to my address and send it back to them. If I could find thin lead bars to fit in the envelope, that would be more fun but at least this way my recycling bin is nearly empty.

    1. Re:mind the paper. by bersl2 · · Score: 1
  72. If yahoo sucks so much, why are you using it? by XCorvis · · Score: 3, Interesting

    I think yahoo mail is great. I've never gotten an ounce of spam from them. Once a year or so I go check my marketing preferences. In fact, when I got that email, I found that all of my marketing preferences were still EXACTLY as I had left them - all "no". It's funny how people bitch about having to check marketing preferences so they don't get spam, but when those preferences aren't even offered, we hear nothing. Go sign up for a hotmail acct and see how much spam you get. Even when you turn off their "marketing preferences", you still get messages from them about once a month. Not to mention they don't have any spam filtering. Or a calendar. Or that nifty notepad.

    1. Re:If yahoo sucks so much, why are you using it? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It's funny how when they say that the preferences change in January 2004 people still think they'll be changed today. OF COURSE your preferences haven't been changed, bud! Why not wait until January 2004 to check, according to the article? Ya think? Doesn't take a lot of brain power to figure that out...

    2. Re:If yahoo sucks so much, why are you using it? by XCorvis · · Score: 1

      Actually, it doesn't say they will be changed in January. It doesn't say the prefs are changed at all. It just says they'll start *sending* messages as of January, presumably based upon your marketing preferences at the time. Did that take enuf brain power for you?

  73. HogRinse! by KrackHouse · · Score: 1

    I pay for an upgraded version of Yahoo mail and I still got the message.

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  74. that's not the point by dubiousmike · · Score: 3, Informative

    see, just by signing up with them, they have something they can monitize - my information.

    Instead of saying, to be able to get free email, free gmaes, free claendars, music, ect you must allow for us to market to you, they think its ok to just change their word (word is SUPPOSED to be bond). But tell me that and don't tell me you wont sell my information and the DO IT!

    I don't know about you, but I take it personally when someone tells me one thing and does another.

    1. Re:that's not the point by Gunzour · · Score: 1

      Slashdot folks sure like to get all worked up about perceived injustices. But nothing has been done wrong here. Despite the submitter's allegation, Yahoo did not reset anybody's "no" preference to "yes" (as far as I know), nor have they sold anybody's personal information. If there is evidence to the contrary, fine, let's hear it. But don't jump to that conclusion just because Yahoo is doing the Right Thing by notifying us of their intentions. If their email is to be believed -- and so far I see no reason not to believe it -- they are fully intending to honor the preferences Yahoo users have set.

    2. Re:that's not the point by PyromanFO · · Score: 1
      Starting January 1, 2004, Yahoo! will begin to send you messages, via email or postal mail, about our own products and services. You can control the types of messages you receive by visiting your Marketing Preferences at any time'. It also states, 'And, as always, you can delete your Yahoo! account altogether at any time, for any reason, by going to the deletion page.' I deleted my Yahoo account a month ago. I guess they are lying, because I'm still getting their SPAM."
    3. Re:that's not the point by dubiousmike · · Score: 1

      When I logged in today (after reading the article), my preference hadn't been changed from about 8 months ago. But 8 months ago, I started to receive email, saying I had gotten it because I was a Yahoo member. When I logged into my account, the single line I had checked to NOT share my data with third parties had changed to multiple options that were all checked off as yes. So, yes, today my preferences were the same, but not before I had to re-opt-out.

      When Yahoo bought Launch and Hotjobs, they took my accounts from them and created Yahoo accounts with my being opted into everything prior to my logging into it for the first time.

      So I figure it is likely that some of the spam I get is as a result of being made available for sale on their lists. A company that big takes weeks to remove you from all of their lists, but while email addresses are usually brokered through a third party, direct mail lists are not.

      I don't mind Yahoo making some money for the value they offer. I just don't like the way they have gone about things. Because of who they are, they rely upon branding heavily. Messing with privacy policies in a bad way does not win you positive mindshare. Look at Tivo. They are doing fine, but many of their customers were left with a bad taste when they shared large chunks of customer data with Hollywood.

      So Yahoo sending out this email today certainly doesn't make up for their transgressions 8 months ago.

    4. Re:that's not the point by LC+Gundo · · Score: 1
      Gunzour, you are right. Yahoo is honoring the preferences users have set, but only those preferences that have been set *since* March 22, 2002, when Yahoo set all users' single "NO" preference to a bunch of "YES"s.

      I think slashdot folks already got worked up about that "injustice" a year and a half ago.

      The only thing new here to get worked up about is Yahoo's notice that says in effect:

      "Remember when we told you a year and a half ago that we were going to send you spam, even though we may have promised not to, unless you go to our web site and click a bunch of radio buttons?"

      "Well, even though we could have been spamming the hell out of you this whole time, we haven't spammed you as much as we intend to."

      So, starting new year's day, we're going to send you all the crap we could have been sending you anyway, but didn't."

      "Anyway, if you want to miss out on that spew once our mainsleaze spam department *really* goes to town, you can still click a bunch of radio buttons and we won't send it to you after all."

      Whether having to click a bunch of radio buttons a year and a half ago after already going to the considerable time and expense of clicking a single button six years before that is an "injustice" or not is a matter of personal judgement.

      Personally, I LOVE to get worked up about things. So, even though it's been 19 months since Yahoo broke their solemn bond, I am *enaraged* anew at having to be reminded that I had to endure this "injustice" in return for the dubious utility the receipt of seven years of free e-mail service has given me.

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    5. Re:that's not the point by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I lie when they ask for information.

    6. Re:that's not the point by qtp · · Score: 1

      Yahoo did not reset anybody's "no" preference to "yes" (as far as I know)

      Well, if you read the article and the Yahoo spam (posted in the comments by a helpful reader), it appears that they did exactly that. The author had requested to recieve no spam from them and they sent him spam advertising thier new services informing him that he would have to visit his preferences page to disable individual types of spam. Not only that, but that he would laso have to go to a different page in order to opt out of spam that was beuing sent by Yahoo, and that he would need yet another page to prevent Yahoo from sending junk mail to his home address.

      I do think that people are a little rediculous when it comes to complaining about a free service, but Yahoo's actions are even more rediculous in that they offered a service under specific terms, and then behave as if those subscribers to that service are somehow taking advantage.

      Reccomending that people not use Yahoo is something I've done ever since Google came about I didn't know that they offered email at the time, but that a company that has home pagethat looks like this would use thier offered email service as a spam magnet should come as no surprise. Reccomending people off that crack they are offering is a much more valuable service than that company has offered in many years, and is as much a kindness as anyone can expect from thier fellow netizens.

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    7. Re:that's not the point by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think you should know WTF you're talking about first before you give some useless advice. It's clear you have no idea what's going on and are obviously talking out of your ass, so you can just STFU now.

      p.s. Go back to 3rd grade and learn how to fucking spell ridiculous.

  75. No Problem by AnalogDiehard · · Score: 1
    Yahoo insists on an alternative email when signing up to view groups. My ISP allows me up to six email accounts. Fully aware of their history of resetting preferences, I gave them a disposable email account which is used for nothing but Yahoo. Yahoo spams it, I delete the email account. Problem solved.

    My real email accounts have been spam free since 2000.

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  76. Re:Government regulation (paraphrase) by Tsali · · Score: 1

    Yahoo is lying out it's butt and I for one would like to see some accountability.

    I, for one, would welcome our accountability overloads.

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  77. Dont like Yahoo, use Hotmail... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    didn't thins so, so stfu.

  78. You use Yahoo! It's not spam. by SawChain · · Score: 1

    If you're using Yahoo!, you have no recourse for complaint regarding email you receive from them. Don't like it? Go somewhere else (I hear MSN and AOL are accepting users). The part that I don't like is that they don't allow me to pay to not receive these emails. I am willing to pay a nominal subscription fee to maintain my account at Yahoo!, without requiring that I be sent any emails. Yahoo! Please, let me pay you for my subscription!

  79. Re:Remember in highschool there was this really cu by dubiousmike · · Score: 1

    This is the Dad of the girl.

    Its not just you, EVERYONE likes her. ....and no still means no....

  80. Re:Filtering out Yahoo spam using Yahoo email filt by Student_Tech · · Score: 1

    If you play with it you can get it to catch it, this seems to work for me, and it gets tossed into the junk mail folder.
    Deliver mail that contains staff@hotmail.com in the from addr to my Junk Mail folder.
    Deliver mail that contains staff@hotmail.com in the from name to my Junk Mail folder.

  81. Yahoo must not go to the same nightclubs I do by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...where apparently "no" means "Ask me again and I'll have the bouncer throw you out of here." Who would've thought?

  82. Re:Look Out! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Higher than yours, gene trash.

  83. hotmail by sewagemaster · · Score: 1

    how about hotmail continously spamming its users and there's no way to block or unsubscribe their mail in any way.

  84. I have paid, and won't anymore by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    I have a Yahoo email account, free. I also have purchased airline tickets through Yahoo. For that reason, they have my home address.

    Thus, I have paid for my yahoo account, by giving them my travel business, and I am not happy about getting spammed because of it, or having to endlessly reset my preferences. I'm now purchasing tickets from another source. I'll close the account entirely once I've copied out a few old emails.

  85. Re:Remember in highschool there was this really cu by Lxy · · Score: 4, Funny

    Putting linux on a girl's computer without her consent is a bad rap for the open source movement. Educate her, yes, but forcing her to switch after she said no is bad karma.

    Wait... we're talking about linux, right?

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  86. That is absolute BS by FreeUser · · Score: 3, Insightful

    If you don't like it, let them know and take your money somewhere else. If you're not paying for it, then you don't have anything to complain about.

    Bullshit. Zero cost does not give someone license to behave in a despicable manner. If someone offered a free cleaning service for your home or office and then used their access to rape your spouse, you would be perfectly in your rights to complain bitterly and have them arrested (hell, if you catch them in the act, you have the right to shoot them dead in most states, and rightly so). If someone offered a free food service and fed you bad food that put you in the hospital, you could bring them up on charges of violating safe food laws, and sue for civil damages.

    Someone offering a free web service or free email service does not entitle them to no complaints when they use that service to abuse their customers. SPAM, by any sensible definition, is abuse, and while it may not be as abusive as, say, rape or contaminated food, it is abuse nevertheless.

    What is really appalling is how Yahoo abuses the resources of others. This isn't SPAM going to yahoo mailboxes exclusively (or even mostly), it is SPAM going to everyone who ever used their online clubs, whoever browsed a web page they required one to register for (clubs, etc.) even in passing...most of whome pay for email service, storage, and bandwidth elsewhere, only to have it abused by Yahoo (and, of course, other similiar low lifes peddling Penis extentions, Viagra, child pornography, and bulk mailing software).

    Worse, most of these people signed up and made their preferences known, and were offered the "service" under those conditions and that understanding. Yahoo is once again, retroactively, changing their side of the bargain, and doing so at the financial expense of the recipients.

    They deserve to be treated no differently than any other spammer, free service or no.

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    1. Re:That is absolute BS by Suppafly · · Score: 1

      (hell, if you catch them in the act, you have the right to shoot them dead in most states, and rightly so).

      Actually, in most states, you can't shoot them dead if you catch them in the act.

    2. Re:That is absolute BS by revery · · Score: 1

      Bullshit. Zero cost does not give someone license to behave in a despicable manner. If someone offered a free cleaning service for your home or office and then used their access to rape your spouse, you would be perfectly in your rights to complain bitterly and have them arrested (hell, if you catch them in the act, you have the right to shoot them dead in most states, and rightly so). If someone offered a free food service and fed you bad food that put you in the hospital, you could bring them up on charges of violating safe food laws, and sue for civil damages

      What?!! You are comparing unwanted email between a service provider and their client to rape and food poisoning? ACK! I'm reporting you to the analogy police, buddy. :)

      What is really appalling is how Yahoo abuses the resources of others. This isn't SPAM going to yahoo mailboxes exclusively (or even mostly), it is SPAM going to everyone who ever used their online clubs, whoever browsed a web page they required one to register for (clubs, etc.) even in passing.

      I would wager that most people getting email from yahoo have never canceled their accounts/club membership/etc. And when they joined, their agreement said that the terms could change at any time.

      If you agree to Yahoo's terms, you are saying you are willing to put up with the fact that they may change their policies at any time. You're saying their services are worth that risk.

      If you don't want to take that chance, don't use their service.

      You're right though, it doesn't have anything to do with the service being free. It's just that with yahoo, you can't vote with your wallet, because you never paid them anything.

      The one thing I agree with you over, is if course you have a right to complain. Raise a holy stink over it, and maybe Yahoo will change their minds...

      But I can still laugh when you compare email to rape...

    3. Re:That is absolute BS by rmohr02 · · Score: 1

      Crime of passion--you'll still get charged but you have a good chance in front of a jury.

    4. Re:That is absolute BS by rmohr02 · · Score: 1

      Umm...how exactly are rape and spam related? I agree with your points, but not with how you made them. Please use more appropriate comparisons.

    5. Re:That is absolute BS by jjhlk · · Score: 1

      It would appear he thinks they are both a violation of your rights, in this context. The hyperbole is just to point out the fundamental problem of them spamming you after prior agreements.

    6. Re:That is absolute BS by ryanwright · · Score: 1

      Actually, in most states, you can't shoot them dead if you catch them in the act.

      More bullshit. Most states have laws allowing you to kill another person to defend yourself, family member, or another person in your presence from bodily harm. I'd say rape qualifies.

      In my state, I can defend anyone in this manner. If I'm walking down the street and I see a man chasing someone with a weapon, raping someone in an alley, you name it, I can drop him dead with my .45. And I would. You'll find similar laws in most of the 50 states.

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    7. Re:That is absolute BS by TPFH · · Score: 1

      Maybe a better analogy would be:

      Someone offers to clean your house for free, and while cleaning your house robs you of all your valuables.

      That isn't exactly related to spam either. Both are pointing out that free services does not give you license to abuse.

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  87. 10 Things that mean "No" in marriage by siskbc · · Score: 3, Funny
    After 15 years of marriage I am well aware of "No means No" !

    There are a lot of things that mean "No" in a marriage...

    10. "No,"
    9. "Maybe,"
    8. "I have a headache,"
    7. "It's that time of the month,"
    6. "It's your turn to change diapers,"
    5. "My mother's coming to the house tomorrow,"
    4. "Did you take out the trash?,"
    3. "I just want to cuddle,"
    2. "Could you give me a backrub?,"
    1. "Yeah, that's what we need, another kid,"

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    1. Re:10 Things that mean "No" in marriage by PourYourselfSomeTea · · Score: 1, Offtopic

      It's offtopic, I know, but it's not for this thread, and you guys obviously need some help.

      4 "Nos" that become "Yes" with a skillful lover. First of all, these are not magic tricks. They won't work if you don't care about your wife. They may not get you sex THAT NIGHT. But you will get it more often, and your wife will think more of you and not nag you as much about things you don't do because you're remembering to do the things that matter most to her.

      4. "Yeah, that's what we need, another kid" Guys. There's a real easy way to erase this one from the books. If you're done having kids, go make that trip to the Dr. You know what I mean. Snip snip. It doesn't hurt for long, and it doesn't destroy your sex drive. It just doesn't. You're still a man, get over it.

      3. "I have a headache." If this is not a migraine (my wife gets these-- they're hell) draw a hot bath for her, preferably with bath salts, then rub her temples and scalp. Talk real nice. Be sweet. Then offer to massage her shoulders and back, arms, and feet.

      2. "I just want to cuddle." Ok. Fine. Cuddle. If you can't get there from here, you're just as frigid as her. Massage, coo, talk, talk about her, then move to talking sexy (this does not mean "you don't know how much I want to fux0rz y0ur h07 b0d")

      1. "Could you give me a backrub" Oh come on. This is practically an invitation. Especially because any good backrub will involve eventually getting her bra and shirt off. Get out the lotion and give her a backrub for god's sakes!! Then, after you've eased her muscles with deep muscle rubs, you can lighten your touch and massage her neck and shoulders lightly. Play with her hair. Make her feel like you love her. You do right? This is your wife, right?

      There are so many good books on massage at Amazon, I can't even reccommend just one. Hell, there are so many that Jeff Bezos could probably patent one-click sex-therapy! Pick one that looks good. Buy it. Read it. Practice it. Often. She will love you.

    2. Re:10 Things that mean "No" in marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      Get out the lotion and give her a backrub for god's sakes!!

      Hehehe. It will apply the lotion now!!

    3. Re:10 Things that mean "No" in marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ah, love

    4. Re:10 Things that mean "No" in marriage by SheldonYoung · · Score: 1

      Things that mean "No" in a marriage:

      10. "I need to take a shower."
      9. "The dog needs to go outside."
      8. "He's just a friend."
      7. "I don't believe you that she's just a friend."
      6. "What's for dinner?"
      5. "You just got it last week."
      4. "But the dog can see us."
      3. "Stop hogging all of the covers."
      2. "Welcome home dear, how was your day?"
      1. "Yes, I'll marry you."

    5. Re:10 Things that mean "No" in marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      4 "Nos" that become "Yes" with a skillful lover.

      Unfortunately, this is subjective. I take time, I do what she says she'd like me to do, I touch. But she says she's just getting sore.

      4. "Yeah, that's what we need, another kid"

      Haven't gotten this one yet. Not a problem.

      3. "I have a headache."

      Ditto. No problem. Sometimes I have the headache. At least we can be forthright about what we want or don't want.

      2. "I just want to cuddle."
      1. "Could you give me a backrub"


      Unfortunately, I get this one a lot. I cuddle, I rub her back, I play with her hair. It just makes her feel relaxed and ready to sleep. She says she loves it, so I do it, but I know it's not a ticket to sex. If I try to turn it sexual, she turns off. Cuddling to her is not sexual.

      Sex is important. It sucks having an imbalance and not feeling like you're getting enough in a relationship. Makes you start thinking about looking elsewhere... Since cuddling is not sexual to her, maybe she won't mind if I do it with someone else.

      Erg.

    6. Re:10 Things that mean "No" in marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So you have to work for it...
      Earn it.....pay for it, if you will.

      Doesn't that just make them prostitutes then?

      If you have to put up with moods & whims that lead to no-nooky - she should give you that same respect and give a quicky now and again...unless she is a prostitute and will only do it for some form of 'pay' (and the fact the act itself isn't pay for her is another issue - maybe you should reply to some viagra of those SPAM :)

      It's a 2 way street..

    7. Re:10 Things that mean "No" in marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      pussywhipped :)

    8. Re:10 Things that mean "No" in marriage by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well, it's not quite so straightforward... women look at sex and experience it differently than men do.

    9. Re:10 Things that mean "No" in marriage by nels_tomlinson · · Score: 1
      Some are answers to give her, some are commentary.

      If you're recently married, you should read these; they've all worked for me on occasion.

      10. "No,"
      This could well mean ``NO''.

      9. "Maybe,"
      That's a definte ``yes''. See number 2.

      8. "I have a headache,"
      Not a problem, you're interested in the other end. See number 2.

      7. "It's that time of the month,"
      Reply: We can take a shower afterwards.

      6. "It's your turn to change diapers,"
      As soon as the littel bugger is asleep ...

      5. "My mother's coming to the house tomorrow,"
      Reply: Then we'd better get it out of our systems tonight!

      4. "Did you take out the trash?,"
      Reply: I'll tell you as soon as we're done.

      3. "I just want to cuddle,"
      Reply: We can cuddle before, during and after.

      2. "Could you give me a backrub?,"
      You're in luck, bucko! That's the best sort of foreplay.

      1. "Yeah, that's what we need, another kid,"
      Reply: If he gets through the condom, we'll name him Houdini.

  88. Re:Haha by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    No, not doing anything makes you whiny.

    Guess you don't have any principles then, do you?

  89. All Rights Reserved by CDR1313 · · Score: 1

    Yahoo: We reserve the right to change the way we contact you as part of the services we provide.

    Member: You reserve the right to wine and moan that the free service you are receiving is overpriced.

    Me: I feel bad for the peole who pay for Yahoo services.

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  90. MOD PARENT UP. He's 100% right! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    DO NOT marry. Ever.

    Thank God I didn't have kids.

  91. SBC and YAHOO by g00bd0g · · Score: 1

    I had a yahoo account from years back. I had SBC DSL from years back. One day SBC asked me to upgrade to Yahoo DSL, and game me some perks to do so. So I did. It asked if I'd like to merge my old yahoo acount with the new SBC/Yahoo DSL account? Sure I said. 6 months later I switch to another DSL provider. My Yahoo account is no longer available, they want $9.99/month to access my yahoo account, they will not relase it. Funny, I can create a new account for free, but I cannot use my old account unless I pay, almost like extrortion, yes?

  92. No Problems. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Funny, I put all my legitimate information in my Yahoo! account and never once have received a piece of spam, junk snail mail, or phone call. I'm very pleased with Yahoo!. I find most spam "fanatics" don't know what they are talking about and have made an error on their part to receive said SPAM.

    1. Re:No Problems. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow, you must be the only person with an empty Bulk Mail folder!

  93. Spammers spamming spammers by mark_space2001 · · Score: 1
    When I signed up for Yahoo!, I gave them my throw-away Hotmail account. Then I made a throw-away Yahoo! account and set my Hotmail to point there. So basically each of these guys can send as many "important promotions" as they like, I don't get a one.

    All's fair in love and war, eh?

  94. Changing other preferences resets it back to YES by JustAnotherReader · · Score: 2, Interesting
    I just went to the page that the email referred me to and turned all ths "Notify me on this uselss spam" type of messages off and clicked the Save button.

    Then I noticed that my email address in the preferences was my "safe" address. The one where I never get spam. So I changed it to my "send all spam here" email and clicked save.

    Then I went back to the first page ane guess what? All the "Send me spam" opt in choices were reset to YES again. Well that sux. I changed it back to NO NO NO NO NO NO NO and Fsck No! and clicked Save again. I hope it decided that No means No this time. But resetting to a default of YES when I changed something else seems pretty sleezy.

  95. oops by BigBir3d · · Score: 2, Funny

    I got that email Wednesday... completely forgot about it! Anyway, this is what they just told me after changing my marketing prefs:

    "Thank you, your changes have been saved. Please allow approximately 5 days for this change to take effect."

    That must be a very slow database they use....

  96. Yahoo! Ignores removal requests? by MattGWU · · Score: 2, Informative

    No. They just make you work for it.

    I had this problem a long time ago. I would get a spam letter from Yahoo! with a link for removal. Of course you never click on those, but this is Yahoo, a more or less legitimate business. I found that clicking on the link and filling out the form or whatever didn't work. It didn't work the first time, and it didn't work the n-1th time.

    That nth time came one day at work. I clicked the removal link, and something about the URL struck me as odd. It was so long ago, I unfortunately can't tell you what so you can do the same. But I changed that thing, and it went to *another*, different removal page.

    This one worked. It actually worked.

    The moral of the story is: look at that URL. Unless they changed the procedure since, of course. I wouldn't know, because I haven't gotten a message from them until this heads-up from the marketing department.

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  97. Is this what you are looking for? by abhikhurana · · Score: 3, Informative

    This seems to work fine for me.

  98. As always, lack of revenue is driving this... by bs_02_06_02 · · Score: 1


    It's really simple:
    Yahoo needs revenue to maintain Wall Street expectations.
    The quickest way to gain revenue is by advertising. I.E. selling subscriber email addresses to "marketing partners."
    Everyone does it. AOL did it. Then the partner "sells" those email addresses, or some employee takes them home on disc, sells them to spammers, and that's it. I'm actually surprised that Yahoo told the users to indicate they will be changing.
    I suppose that they don't want a ton of angry emails from the users. After they realize how many users will leave, they'll try to put a stop to it by making bold announcements to the press, but the cat will be out of the bag. Nothing changes... you can't offer too much free stuff and expect to stay in business unless you've got the best product with the best services.

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  99. Can someone explain to me... by wo1verin3 · · Score: 1

    This isn't an intentional troll but want someone to explain...

    I deleted my Yahoo account a month ago. I guess they are lying, because I'm still getting their SPAM."

    How is he getting Yahoo e-mailed his Yahoo account if he deleted it.... and if he deleted an account, why is he attempting to use it .... I would be upset my account wasn't deleted, not at the fact that it exists and is getting spam.

  100. Re:I got the same email....Buy vs Sell by HermanZA · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Regarding analyst's recomendations: Buy and sell only means buy and sell if you are an insider. For common shareholders, Buy means Sell and Sell means Buy. The reason they want you to buy, is 'cause they want to sell...

  101. to all those "hey it's free" guys by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    A bullet can be had for free in your local 'hood. Would you complain about a "free" service?

    1. Re:to all those "hey it's free" guys by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'd never sign up for a bullet in the first place. In case you forgot, you have to sign up for Yahoo's service. HTH

  102. Not that big a deal for me... by rscrawford · · Score: 1

    I have a Yahoo account because I manage a couple of different listservs through their site, but I never use my yahoo.com e-mail address. It's a spam bucket, so that's where I have Yahoo send their marketing materials.

    Still... this bothers me. At least there's some accountability, though; you can complain about Yahoo spam to a cusomter service rep, even if they won't do anything about it.

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  103. The best way to delete your account by objekt · · Score: 2, Funny

    At the end of the email they sent me, it read:

    "... This is a service email related to your use of Yahoo!. This email was sent to ___@xxx.xxx for the Yahoo! ID ___. If this ID doesn't belong to you, click here."

    So I clicked on the link provided and they now think they have the wrong person and will never bother me again. :-)

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    1. Re:The best way to delete your account by Frobnicator · · Score: 0, Flamebait
      So I clicked on the link [that I didn't own the account] and [they] will never bother me again.
      Great! You told tham that your account was created fraudulently.

      They'll now send you spam immediately, rather than in January, since you aren't the one who told them not to. Also, you can expect to be served with legal papers regarding your fraud -- thereby funding Yahoo! through your expected settlement. Why not just write them a check now for $3500 to head the whole thing off? :-)

      frob

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    2. Re:The best way to delete your account by objekt · · Score: 1

      I deny everything!

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  104. Well, you see.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "deleting" your account isn't accurate. they render it 'inactive', but it's still there, hogging the use of the name amongst other things.. for eternity (or at least 2 years)

  105. 1&1 by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    1 & 1 Internet Inc. is offering three years free on their hosting plans. Domains are ~$5 a year.

    Buying a domain and hosting plan has been the most flexible and powerful solution I've found to spam problems.

  106. Re:Remember in highschool there was this really cu by objekt · · Score: 1

    Yes, and I saw her last week. It turns out she likes girls more than boys.

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  107. Re:"Just damn!" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Just how bad are you? I've actually dated a lesbian and taken her away from her girfriend! She thought it was great. She gets the tongue and the dick.

    Guys, learn to use your tongue or risk losing your lady. And be nice, for God's sake. Women are not just physically different from us. They need attention and tenderness, not just a dick ramming in and out. Remember that foreplay is a 24/7/365 job.

  108. It isn't that bad by pmz · · Score: 1


    There was like four links to their preferences page in the e-mail, and it was very clearly worded.

    What do you really expect?!? Yahoo! is a free service!

    1. Re:It isn't that bad by Da+VinMan · · Score: 1

      I would agree with you, except for the fact that I'm one of their paying customers ($30/year) and I also got this letter from them. Granted, $30 is no king's ransom, but I really do wish they would lay off on the advertising with their paying customers at least. I suspect that they would have a few more takers on the paid plan if they did that.

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  109. Free of charge... by Ieshan · · Score: 0

    I'm going to stab you with my large and rusty knife, free of charge!

    And I better not catch you complaining, either.

  110. Re:Remember in highschool there was this really cu by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    So you got lucky, then?

  111. If the account is deleted, preferences are unknown by cjmnews · · Score: 1

    In response to the original poster: Yahoo isn't lying, you deleted your account, so they can not determine your preferences so must assume you want to receive their email!

    In response to the person who wanted to know what the best free email service is: I'd say Yahoo!

    I love it. I used to use Netscape's free email when it had filters enabled. But since they removed that functionality and email address aliases, that account has become my sacrifice account. Everything that needs an email address gets that one (even Slashdot!)

    I prefer Yahoo's service since it has spam blocking virus scanning for attachments, and aliases in the address book.

    I did not recieve this message from Yahoo (yet) but then I have all my preferences set to do not contact. I do not have an alternate email set for them to see. I never see spam from Yahoo, ever.

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  112. It's modded funny but I only know this from /. by nlinecomputers · · Score: 1

    Seriously, POPfile nabbed it and just pulled it out of my spam can. I would have missed it otherwise. Most all of my Yahoo/SBCdsl is so loaded with advertising that I miss things like service annoncements, billing, etc...

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  113. Fool Yahoo! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I wonder if you are getting postal spam from yahoo? If so then just give them a false address. It is really strange that you give your email to an online merchant when placing an order, and they just think it is their father's property.

  114. OR you could just use your freakin' brain... by mgoodman · · Score: 0

    and NOT use yahoo. they clearly suck.

    just get your own domain and hosting. its cheap as dirt nowadays.

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  115. Ah, Yahoo.. by Dr.+Photo · · Score: 1

    It's times like this that I'm glad I gave a fake name and address. Some post office in Beverly Hills (chosen for its easily-remembered zipcode) is probably choking on a huge pile of undeliverable junk mail addressed to Haywood Jabloughmi. :)

  116. Refer to the Data Protection Act 1998 provisions. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Quite simple really - Data Protection Act 1998 quite clearly allows you to stop Yahoo from direct marketing. It also allows you penalties for non-compliance. Obviously doesn't apply to Federal Socialist countries like the USA where big business and big goverment control all aspects of your lives. The day you can get a beer without showing ID is the day you can say you are free.

  117. For full comedic effect by seebs · · Score: 1

    I used to have a Yahoo! account with the account ID "nospamever_assholes". I asked them to close it. They said it was closed, but now they're spamming the address it forwarded to.

    But since I tossed all the account info, I can't log in to set my prefs back, and they refuse to close it for me.

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  118. Roll your own by vandan · · Score: 1

    Spam is the main reason I scored an old box from work and set it up as a mail / web server.
    There'e nothing more satisfying than watching the mail logs when spammers are being defeated by spamassassin / mimedefang. I'm starting to get friends and family sign up, partly because of the spam & virus filtering, partly because they can switch ISPs and not email addresses ( the main reason people use web mail, I think ), and partly because I offer IMAP over SSL access ( the other reason people use web mail - access from anywhere you can get on the net ).

    I have honestly never had such a spam-free experience. It's well worth it...

  119. Complaint to Truste by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I know that privacy seal programs suck, but how can Truste pass off on this? I say that we all file complaints with Truste and force them to do something.

    http://www.truste.org/

  120. XMail.net better than Yahoo by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I dumped Yahoo after I set up an XMail.net account, 20MB mailbox and 20MB web space for free. I particularly like the whitelist feature that blocks 99.9% of spam. They also offer free VOIP but I haven't used it yet.

  121. Works for me by mschuyler · · Score: 1

    It may be unusual, but I've had a Yahoo account for years and NEVER receieved any spam until they changed to their "Bulk Mail" folder system a short time ago. Now the spam just sits there and erases itself, so no big deal.

    But I also received the policy change, checked my preferences, and found that ALL of them were STILL checked as "No" They made me look, but I didn't have to do anything but confirm everything was still set to "No"

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  122. Missing the point by metamatic · · Score: 1

    If you had bothered to click on the link in the email, you'd find (as I did) that when you opted-out a year ago, they haven't changed anything: you're still opted-out.

    I have never at any point opted *in* to receive marketing info from Yahoo. I opted out via all mechanisms available to me at the time I signed up.

    Therefore, if Yahoo start sending me marketing messages via e-mail, it is spam. I don't care that they're Yahoo, I don't care if they're giving me a working opt-out link; "spamming with opt-out links" is no more acceptable than any other kind. I will treat them like any other spammer.

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  123. Free Kobe!! by t0ny · · Score: 0

    Even Kobe know that "No" doesnt really mean "No"!!

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    1. Re:Free Kobe!! by jo42 · · Score: 1


      Then there is "Freak" Jackson...

  124. Yahoo spam ? by baomike · · Score: 1

    I don't know if this will work in the long run but the
    email we got did not come from yahoo.com.
    Looking at the headers it came from "dms.netcenter.com" . "dms.netcenter.com"
    is now on my sendmail access REJECT list.
    I can still access yahoo.com . Doing a dig on
    dms.netcenter.com gives an owner of Netscape...
    How the mighty have fallen.

    Mike

  125. The prefs are NOT the same by metamatic · · Score: 1

    The preferences are not the same. They've added a bunch of checkboxes saying that I've agreed to receive spam in a dozen different categories. That is simply not true. Those checkboxes were never there when I signed up; I set my preferences on sign up not to receive spam from them.

    Spamming someone does not suddenly become acceptable simply because you give people a way to opt out.

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    1. Re:The prefs are NOT the same by CaptainSuperBoy · · Score: 1

      Those checkboxes have been there for like a year. Trust me, I remember clicking each one back then. It's stupid of them to do this, but at least they didn't reset them.

    2. Re:The prefs are NOT the same by metamatic · · Score: 1

      I know they've been there for a while. I signed up before that, however, so I did NOT agree to the things those preferences say I agreed to.

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    3. Re:The prefs are NOT the same by Tokerat · · Score: 1


      I think since the spam comes from Yahoo and is stored on Yahoo's own servers, it really is of no inconvinience to you other than to go uncheck some boxes and delete a few e-mails, then get on with your life.

      If you have a POP account with them however, this presents a problem. I don't see why they'd want to span their POP users because IIRC you pay for that service so they're already making money that way.

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  126. Easy POP access to Yahoo and Hotmail. by JKConsult · · Score: 1
    If you want POP access to Yahoo! mail, you could always use Yahoo! POPs. It allows you POP access to download your mail directly to whichever client you use (with some exceptions, of course), and to send outbound mail from the same account. I don't use Yahoo! mail, but I do use Hotmail, and Hotmail Popper works wonders for me. I just set up an additional account in Mozilla Mail, set the server address to 127.0.0.1 (obviously, the address is completely user-configurable), and have it, once it downloads the mail from the server, move it into my main account, using the Moz's bayesian filtering along the way. The only downside to these is that you can't run them through your local SpamAssassin, though maybe you can, since I haven't really tried hard enough, and besides, you're still getting your messages straight off the server and opening up space on your account, something you couldn't do before.

    I heartily recommend both of these, Hotmail Popper from personal experience, and Yahoo POPs from others'.

    1. Re:Easy POP access to Yahoo and Hotmail. by tuxdude · · Score: 1

      A *nix equivalent would be fetchyahoo http://fetchyahoo.twizzler.org/

    2. Re:Easy POP access to Yahoo and Hotmail. by ScreamingSlave · · Score: 1

      Or YoSucker! http://yosucker.sourceforge.net/

  127. On 1 January 2004, Yahoo becomes a criminal by Animats · · Score: 3, Interesting
    Yahoo is a California-based company. They're clearly subject to California's anti-spam law.

    They are going to get sued. Many times. At $1000 per spam.

  128. fastmail.fm by milgr · · Score: 1
    The fastmail developers are responsive on an active forum: Fastmail Forum

    email forums has plenty of information about other email providers as well.

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  129. Fake email by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I also received that email in my hotmail account. Funny, because I've never given that address to yahoo! I also received that fake paypal email the other week, and the links both go to the same place: 65.54.246.250... interesting. I'm assuming it's from a real spammer, trying to get peoples yahoo passwords when they log in?? I get so much spam in my hotmail account and I'm very careful about who I give my email address to. Yahoo spam filtering works so much better!!

  130. Perhaps this one should have ....... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    been from the alt.yahoo.opt-out.opt-out.opt-out dept.

  131. Re:"Just damn!" by Chop · · Score: 1

    I agree 100%, Trust me on this. Trust Me!!!

  132. if you control your own mail server, block these by Indy1 · · Score: 4, Informative

    this is all the bulk servers yahoo uses to spam. Block em and you wont have to worry about their spammy crap again, but it wont block legit email from them.

    66.218.73.32/27
    216.136.172.244
    216.136.172.247
    66.218.69.17
    66.218.69.14
    216.136.172.246
    216.136.173.191
    66.218.69.16
    66.218.69.27
    66.218.69.21
    216.136.172.243
    216.136.172.241/28
    66.218.69.5
    66.218.69.2
    mailer7.bulk.scd.yahoo.com
    mailer4.bulk.scd.yahoo.com
    mailer2.bulk.scd.yahoo.com
    qmail1.bulk.yahoo.com

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  133. Who's watching the watcher? by CheapScott · · Score: 2, Informative

    Yahoo recently implemented DEAs (disposable email addresses) for their premium (paid) service. It's supposed to protect you from spam by allowing you to keep from giving out your personal email address. Who keeps Yahoo from sending you spam?

    Yahoo is seemingly as bad as the rest, and maybe worse. Do they eat their own dogfood and promise to contact you only via the DEA that you give them? (I doubt it.)

    Who are these people that think this is really what the customer wants? Yeah, yeah, I know...it's what they want that really counts: money.

  134. Phone number! by seebs · · Score: 2, Informative

    I got an actual phone number.

    Call Yahoo! at 408-349-3300 if you want to talk to a real person.

    Since it's a toll call, I'm posting a partial map of the voice mail system.

    Extension 2 for Yahoo! customer support, then option 2 for customer support. This will tell you to use the web page for free support. They don't want you to talk to a real person. Sub-option 5 (report abuse) tells you to send email, and does not let you talk to a real person. Sub-option 4 puts you on hold with a recorded message saying "Prodigy values your membership. Please hold for the next available agent." I've now been on hold for maybe 15 minutes with this... This is a bad option if it doesn't get you to the right person. I hung up and tried again... This time it worked.

    They will not close an account for you. If someone has created an account which forwards to you, but you don't have all the personal information, there is nothing you can do. They don't care.

    Also, they claim that this account was created in September of this year - actually, it wasn't, it was created a long time ago to sign up for a Yahoo! group, around 2001. So, they're recreating old accounts!

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    1. Re:Phone number! by seebs · · Score: 1

      I may be wrong; it looks like this account was created recently. Now I'm confused; I don't go to Yahoo!, so I don't think it was me. I wonder what happened.

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  135. MOD PARENT UP by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yes, yes, he understands! Do all the poor emotionally stunted /.ers a favor and mod this guy's post up.

  136. Yahoo by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yahoo blows

    -1 Obvious

  137. I which case "No" means "yes" by Snaller · · Score: 1

    ...to the divorce.

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  138. "SSN"? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    That's SS A N, you buffoon!
    Yes, there actually is a mystical, bountiful retirement account out there... with your name on it! *misty-eyed, far-off look*

  139. If you preasure a girl... by digitalgimpus · · Score: 1

    ... as much as Yahoo presures people... it's sexual harassment.

    Ya-ho.... oooh.... oooh... ahh... oh... uh....wow. ;-)

  140. They're bombing dead accounts by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    I have accounts that have been dead for at least 4 years. My system is older than that, but I don't have logs of exactly when some of these guys got deleted before 2000. Yahoo has been mailing a bunch of my long-time dead accounts this week.

    In the old days, I used to just shrug off the user unknown errors. In this modern age, those accounts are now all spam traps. Yahoo is getting their outgoing mail servers blocked from mailing me, and I don't have to lift a finger.

    Just how many 5xx errors do they need to see?

  141. No SPAM here... by spleck · · Score: 1

    I signed up for a Yahoo account long ago. I tied it in with a yahoo email account, then cancelled the email account. For years now I've had access to all the Yahoo features and clubs with nary an email. When I sign up for clubs, it still thinks I have a @yahoo.com account. I just read the messages on the site.

  142. Lawsuit Potential by thepuma · · Score: 1

    If I check a box in my Yahoo profile which asks me to state that I don't want to receive any communication from Yahoo, and then they go ahead and send me a communication, they are essentially violating their own agreement, and I would say that automatically qualifies this communication as spam. In which case Yahoo would be violating the law on a grand scale by sending out millions of UNSOLICITED emails. Oce could even argue that it is somehow worse than unsolicited, if there is such a thing, because I EXPLICITLY told them that I did not want to recieve any communication from them! How much clearer can you be?

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  143. How does he know by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "I deleted my Yahoo account a month ago. I guess they are lying, because I'm still getting their SPAM."

    My only question is, how does he know it's Yahoo's spam out of all the other spammers out there?

  144. Hold on before you try that by PourYourselfSomeTea · · Score: 1

    If it's this bad to you, you two need to sit down. You may even want to consider a marriage counselor.

    Some women, especially those brought up in conservative households have guilt issues with having sex for fun. If this is the case, she needs to seek counseling to deal with the guilt.

    If this is not the case, there may be other things that are worrying her or stressing her out that are affecting her sex drive. Stress is the biggest turn-off period. Sit down with her and talk about your sex-life when you aren't feeling aggressive and/or horny and be sure to let her know that you're not being threatening -- you are not mad at her nor dissappointed in her (even if you are, try to let it go for this talk, because she needs the understanding when put in this position).

    Sometimes it may be that the general things just don't work on her (like touching, caressing), and she's turned on by something else. Or it may be that she has worries and stressors that you don't know about but can help her with if she tells you about them.

    That's the best advice I can give you over the slashdot commentary. Good luck with you and your wife, and I hope you pull through this.

    And before you start sleeping around. Talk to her about that too. I'm not here to judge what limits people have on thier marriage. She may be fine with you doing it with certain constraints, and you should know and abide by those if they exist. Sex may be just another activity to her and she may not consider extramarital sex as a breach of trust, so talk to her about it, if you see this as the only solution.

    1. Re:Hold on before you try that by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Actually, we're trying the counselling thing, even though we're not even married (the earlier poster was the married one). But it doesn't seem to be helping. The visits became in frequent pretty quick, and now she's actually cancelling them for work and whatever that creeps up.

      I don't want to give up on her because I've invested so much into the relationship. We've been together for a long time, have similar views, similar long term goals ( though there is some friction there, and that may have been one of the original roots of the problem).

      But I also don't see many more options. We talk about it, though never so directed... I think she just sees it as "my little problem" rather than something that's wrong with the relationship.

      Erg.

  145. Easy solution by Pharmboy · · Score: 1

    'And, as always, you can delete your Yahoo! account altogether at any time, for any reason, by going to the deletion page.' I deleted my Yahoo account a month ago. I guess they are lying, because I'm still getting their SPAM."

    you must not have read the simple solution to the problem you are complaining of.

    "To stop receiving emails regarding your deleted account, just log in and change your preferences to reflect this..."

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  146. No will mean No if the Anti-Spam List bill passes. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    It will be hilarious to see someone getting $2M from Yahoo because Yahoo spammed their own yahoo account that was on the FTC's Do-Not-SPAM list.

  147. GET A FUCKING LIFE YOU LOSERS by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    What's the big deal? All you have to do is click on the little "Marketing Preferences' hyperlink in the email that they sent you and click "No" to each category. It took all of 15 seconds.

    Christ you degenerate freeloaders. It's not like you're paying anything for yahoo email service as it is. What a bunch of whiners.

  148. So give them an appropriate email address! by Stormbringer · · Score: 1

    That's what I did, having gone round and round those pages looking in vain for a "delete this account AGAIN" checkbox or button (I got a confirmed delete back when I stopped moderating maillists there a few years back, but hey, Halloween wasn't so long ago, it must've risen from the grave or something).

    They can now send all the spam they like to the new address: uce@ftc.gov

  149. One last thought on your woes: Depression by PourYourselfSomeTea · · Score: 1

    Depression affects 70% of women at some time in their lives. It is perfectly treatable with non-addictive medicines and therapy. Depression has been thought to be a leading cause in divorce.

    Please read this site depression.org and try to watch for these symptoms. If they fit, you two need to have a talk. You may be doing her the biggest favor of her life.

    Guilt is a primary feeling in depression, so if you suspect she is, you HAVE to make sure to not make her feel guilty about being so when you bring up the subject. It's not her fault. It's not your fault. If depression is the case, let her know that you love her, are there to help her, that she is not crazy, that you do not think less of her and that there is help for her -- these are all things that she will be feeling.

    Once again, good luck

  150. At least they told you by Aerion · · Score: 2, Interesting

    At least Yahoo was nice enough to let you know when they're going to start spamming, and to remind you to check to make sure you've selected all 70001 of the "no" radio buttons. At least they didn't change their policy or your preferences without telling you.

    Automatically killing anyone who sends you an e-mail mentioning "marketing communications" (insert other euphemisms for spam here) is probably not a good reflex. Some of them, like Yahoo!, might actually have some ethics.

  151. Wasn't aware yahoo were such scumbags by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0



    Merging merchant info with the yahoo email info?

    I wasn't aware that yahoo execs are the slimeball lowlifes in the same class as penis enlargement spammers and 419 scammers.

    Thanks for the heads up. I won't be using yahoo for anything anymore, and yahoo merchants won't be getting any of my business anymore.

  152. Truth in Marketing by elfuq · · Score: 1

    In the Bay Area, they market SBC/Yahoo! DSL as 'The Internet that logs on to YOU!'.

    Creepy enough for me to stick with Speakeasy, thank you very much.

  153. Better than Norton... by wirelessbuzzers · · Score: 1

    ... you can't set the spam prefs until after you create an account, they start on, and changes take 90 days to take effect. But they say, we don't spam, you got this because you agreed to it. Bastards.

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  154. teach them by porkface · · Score: 1

    Someone should setup 1,000,000,000 Yahoo accounts that use 1,000,000,000 different Hotmail accounts as their email on record. And then do the same in the reverse.

    And then to be nice, set them all to not send all this junk. It won't become a problem until Yahoo or Microsoft make it a problem.

  155. and the problem here is...? by jet_silver · · Score: 1

    So all yahoo has is my yahoo email address which they know anyway (the one I signed up with was on usa.net which went TU), and I looked at the marketing preferences which were all set to 'no' as in don't send it; and I freely admit I lied like a rug when they asked me for my physical address and stuff like that as I lie to everyone about my physical address and stuff like that.

    It is the initial loss of control of your information that you should worry about. Subsequent changes are to be expected. Just lie, and maintain a throwaway email account.

  156. Remember Geocities..? by fadeaway · · Score: 1

    Years and years ago I had a Geocities web site. When Yahoo aquired Geocities, they forced all current account holders to agree to new terms of service. The new terms were presented to you first thing when you logged in. In short, to be in compliance with Yahoo's new TOS, you would have to waive all rights to the content on your website, and allow Yahoo to use it for any purpose they saw fit.

    This TOS did not have an "I do Not Agree" checkbox. You couldn't delete your site without agreeing. In order to ever access your webspace or files again, you were forced to comply with the new TOS and give Yahoo rights to your content.

    So.. am I surprised at Yahoo ignoring users email preferences and sending spam? Hell no. They're a shifty, no good business that think providing "free" services allows them to abuse their users. As far as I'm concerned, they're worse than MS.

    Oh, and I never agreed to Yahoo's TOS.. so the content is still legally mine. They still haven't deleted the website.. maybe they're hoping I'll break one day. ;)

    1. Re:Remember Geocities..? by VirtuaKnight · · Score: 1

      What if you give the password to somebody else and THEY agree to the TOS? There wouldn't really be any legal obligation between Yahoo and you.

  157. Here's another Yahoo ripoff by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yahoo! 'Personals' rip-off...this is the tip of the iceberg! They're ripping off hundreds, maybe thousands of people this way!

    Last December (2002) I signed up for the Yahoo Personals "30-Day Trial". I thought it would be a neat way to meet people with common interests. Little did I know that this so-called "Trial" would cost me more than $200.00 *and still counting*, in spite of *numerous* attempts to cancel my subscription.

    My problem begins with Yahoo's 'opt out' policy (cleverly hidden in the small print of their "Free Trial" offers) is an "opt-out" policy. If one doesn't go in and actively cancel a subscription after the free trial period expires, Yahoo! continues to bill your card. This is a clever (slimy?) way to nickel-and-dime consumers who are either ignorant of this becoming-all-too-common-marketing-tactic, or not accustomed to reading fine print.

    However, this is where it just starts to get interesting.

    After using the service for a few weeks, I decided it wasn't worth the money, and having given Yahoo! my credit card number, figured that as long as I didn't go in to "cancel" a subscription (that I was not even aware that I had made), I would *not* continue to be charged $19.95 per month for the service. How wrong I was.

    A few months later I noticed that Yahoo! had continued to charge my credit card. I called them to ask for a cancellation. They wanted me to provide them with a password (long since forgotten, this was a trial offer, after all - and I hadn't used the service in months). Having forgotten my password, Yahoo! asked for personal information (ZIP and date of birth).

    When I signed up for the trial, I had purposely not given Yahoo accurate 'personal' information because I didn't want to be "marketed to", whether or not I chose to keep the service. This is common practice by consumers who don't want to be bothered by email spam.

    Also, in the interim between the time of my original subscription and the time I noticed the unexpected charges, my bank (BofA)had issued a new bank card with a new expiration date (the acct.# remained the same, however).

    Thus, at every point I was frustrated by not having the necessary information to cancel my account.

    So, I called my bank...the Bank of America.

    I told BofA of my plight, and the customer service rep there set up a 3-way call among himself, Yahoo!, and me.

    The BofA rep guaranteed the Yahoo customer service rep that I was indeed who I said I was, but Yahoo! refused to cancel my account. They said that the only way they would cancel my account was to have BofA put a block on my card payments to Yahoo!, and send an additional request to Yahoo! for a refund (which Yahoo! denied, by-the way).

    I also pleaded with a Yahoo supervisor to reverse this policy, but to no avail.

    BofA complied with the Yahoo! request to put a block on my card for further payments to Yahoo!. Guess what? Yahoo! continued to charge my bank card.

    For the second time, I complained to BofA. The customer service rep (BofA) said had seen this happen before, and was appalled at the number of hoops that Yahoo! was putting me through just to cancel my account.

    So, BofA again put a block on my account for any payment to Yahoo!, and again Yahoo! continued to charge me.

    Today (11/15), I called BofA for the third time. hey told me that because I had given Yahoo! my check card number (a check card is commonly offered to vendors as a means to payment), instead of a conventional credit card # (even though a check card is often used as a credit card for online and other payments) that Yahoo! had a way to circumvent the BofA block, and continue to charge my card. BofA said that the only way that I could be assured of relief would be to cancel my bank card, and have a new one issued. However, BofA warned me that if Yahoo! persisted, they would even be able to continue to charge the new bank card.

    The BofA supervisor said that she thought this practice was reprehensible, but tha

    1. Re:Here's another Yahoo ripoff by reiggin · · Score: 1
      When I signed up for the trial, I had purposely not given Yahoo accurate 'personal' information because I didn't want to be "marketed to"...
      "Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." Seems to me you got yourself into a pickle. That should teach you to go "love-hunting" online.

      Have you seen Punch Drunk Love? You're that guy.

  158. don't forget your geocities account by hazem · · Score: 1

    If you delete your yahoo account and you were silly/stupid/drunk enough to set up a geocities website, make sure you delete that web content first.

    If you're like me, you give yahoo fake information on your account, so after I deleted my account, I could not get yahoo to delete my geocities webpage, nor re-instate my account.

    I finally got action by contacting the "copyright violations" people. I told them that that content was mine and that I no longer wanted it on their site. They took it right down! It's hard to believe that was yahoo!

    So, don't forget those co-branded services when deleting your yahoo account.

  159. Same thing happened to me by filmsmith · · Score: 1

    I contacted their customer service (support@hotjobs.com (my beef was with HotJobs, but after they joined Yahoo!) every single time it happened detailing, at great length and aggrivation, my situation as well as contents of the messages and past case numbers (so they could follow the trail). THEN I would mark their message as spam on my end (for the filters) and bounce the message back.

    After they refused to cooperate with me, I threatened litigation and reporting them to various blacklisters (and would have followed through). Fortunately, I finally got them to quit mailing me.

    It's been 6 months and I haven't heard a peep from them.

  160. Chimics? by RoadkillBunny · · Score: 0

    I always thought NO means Nitrogen Oxide...

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  161. Yahoo - an apt name by queenb**ch · · Score: 1

    I have never had much respect for Yahoo. I had an experience with them early on where I reported a site that they were hosting (then free) for spamming me. I was informed that they had no control over the websites that they hosted and flatly refused to make one of the them stop spamming me. I replied to them that if they didn't stop the spam, I would be doing some spamming of my own, by posting their reply, in full, to all the usenet news groups. They did reply after that they would be shutting the site down.

    More recently (last month), we had a 14 year old girl post to one of the security mailing lists
    that I'm on. Her best friend moved out of state and their parents both bought web cams so that the girls could remain in contact. She was on line using the Yahoo service to chat with her friend when a man broke into their chat session and started trying to get the girls to remove their clothing.

    She was able to obtain some information from this induhvidual that was quite interesting - apparently Yahoo's service will allow other the people to come in over the wire and turn on your web cam remotely WITHOUT your knowledge or consent. It will allow them to monitor your conversations again WITHOUT informing you.

    This particular man had been watching both the girls for months. He also particpated in a chat room that swapped URL's of Yahoo user's web cams. According to the man that she spoke with, she and her friend had achieved rather high ratings in this chat room, which lead him to try contacting the girls directly.

    Fortunately, this young lady had the presence of mind to contact her parents who were able to coach her off camera on how to deal with this pervert to obtain as much information as possible.
    Yahoo, when contacted, said that they do not currently have any plans to upgrade their service to stop this kind of incident from happening to anyone else. They were very informative about the fact that this has been a "known issue" with their web chat service for "quite some time".

    Moral of the story - dictionary definition of yahoo - A crude or brutish person. Go check www.dictionary.com.

    3 cents,

    Queen B

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    1. Re:Yahoo - an apt name by John+Bodin · · Score: 1

      This is alto the service that it takes 5 days for your options to be made effective.

      Go in to marketingpreferences nad dont even change anything just click save. next screen your settings will be effective in 5 days.

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    2. Re:Yahoo - an apt name by Tukla · · Score: 1

      That's awfully slow. Maybe they should try using computers to keep track of these options.

  162. You mean you actually gave them the Info? by C.+Alan · · Score: 1

    I feel sorry for anyone who actualy gives out there real personal information to websites. Unless it is someone I expect be dealing with on a financial level, I fake my real name, address, and back-up email address.

    However, over the years, I am sure that 'smith@aol.com' is getting tired of getting spam intended for me.

  163. problem deleting yahoo account by weathergeek · · Score: 1

    (probably just a coincidence) I followed their delete-your-account link from that email they sent out (i.e. https://edit.yahoo.com/config/delete_user). After that page loaded up, my computer locked-up. Only thing that responded was the mouse. I was using Opera 7.21 on Debian. Anybody else have this problem? irritating.

  164. Yahoo! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yahoo! has so many problems. Not only their customer service, but how easily accounts are stolen. I don't need the listed alternative e-mail address to get access to accounts.

  165. Doesn't Affect Me by billstewart · · Score: 1

    Why? They don't have my real address. Because the main Yahoogroups account I've got is for reading yahoogroups on the web, and the email's pointed at my old excite.com address (which probably doesn't exist any more, but I certainly don't read it), while the yahoo mail account that's attached gets any groups announcement and yahoo-announcements and a small amount of real spam, and I clear it out occasionally but don't read it. I've got another yahoo account I use to send anonymous coward mail, which I only read when I'm expecting a response.

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  166. No F*ing S* by Niscenus · · Score: 1

    I know I deleted all the accounts I used in the early days no later than 2 1/2 years ago! Thank god (never thought I'd say this) that theglobe.com went under, because the other two were there!

    I apologise to the new theglobe company, specifically, if there is a user "ericzen" there.

    Seriously, though, what the F* is up with Yahoo! anyhow? I really, honestly did consider emailing some appropriate FCC-related department about this. Maybe I should be thinking BBB. I tried to login, and I was told to fuggoff; I tried deleting, I was told to login; I tried clicking the "got this in error" link, and I was told "uh-uh, we know you just tried logging" message (connotative interpretation).

    Yahoo! needs to be phased-out.

    F* Yahoo! F*'em up their stupid F*ing A*es! CockF*ers!

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  167. Re:"Just damn!" by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I've actually dated a lesbian and taken her away from her girfriend! She thought it was great. She gets the tongue and the dick.

    You misspelled "I've actually installed Debian on my computer thingy! I think it's great! It needs tons of space on the harddisk though"

  168. myrealbox.com - run by novell. by anakin357 · · Score: 1

    nt

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  169. What does 5 days mean? by Mezzrow · · Score: 1

    I've got an account on Yahoo where I've received their 'special' yahoo marketing mail, with a reminder that if I don't want to receive this, I should go to their marketing page. I've done so, been informed that it might take 5 days to process (by hand no doubt, in triplicate). That was about a month and a half ago, and every week, I still receive marketing email from them. Anyone else had this problem?

    Yes, I have double checked my marketing preferences.
    -Mezz

  170. ummm... how are you getting their spam... by CatOne · · Score: 1

    if you deleted your yahoo account?

    I don't understand.

  171. For paper spam (slightly offtopic) by Presence1 · · Score: 1

    For annoying paper spam, one thing you can do is to increase their costs. Return the Business Reply Mail envelope (after removing anything that might identify you). The sender is required by law to pay the return postage.

    For the truly offensive, such as scam artists, return something more substantial. Find some lead sheet or flashing (good source is Home Depot in the roofing dept) and cut out some envelope-sized pieces, as much as you can fit in the BRM envelope. Tape it so it won't shift and tear the envelope. This reply mail alone won't cost them enough to go broke, but it at least provides some satisfaction, and if even a small percentage of people did it....

  172. It doesn't even affect me by yog · · Score: 1

    I have a paid Yahoo account because I like the extra storage space and features. For $30/year I get like 25 megs of space which is more than enough, plus pop3, extra filters, etc.

    I never give out the email address; I merely forward mail from my primary account so that I can read HTML and MIME attachments. On my primary account I read mail in Emacs and have macros that strip out all the HTML and mime crud.

    My forwarding script (procmail) puts a key word into the subject before forwarding; at the Yahoo end, I put in the trash anything without this key word. When I am done with whatever I have forwarded, I simply delete it. All my mail is preserved at the other account.

    I used to post on Usenet a few times with this address so it does get a lot of spam but I never see it; everything goes into trash unless I specifically forwarded it. Even Yahoo's notification email will go in the trash, as will any other marketing stuff they send me.

    Yahoo is a great company; I use several of their services every day and I think they do a really good job overall, though some may complain about limitations with the free email service. They don't have the sleazy, one-sided feeling that Hotmail and other Microsoft services seem to have and are more platform agnostic than MS, naturally. Their free email is double the storage of Hotmail's; what's not to love?

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  173. Give Yahoo your email address? by Zilfondel2 · · Score: 1

    Isn't that why YAHOO gives free email accounts out? When I signed up for yahoo, I gave them my yahoo email account, and all of the rest is bogus information. I'm sorry, but if you are stupid enough to trust these companies in lieu of all the marketing going on in the US today, then don't complain - unlike Microsoft's Hotmail, YAHOO does not covertly change all of your settings to 'on,' but leaves them off if they were already. In fact, in all the years I've had a YAHOO account, I have never had 1 piece of spam.

  174. Re:Remember in highschool there was this really cu by that+_evil+_gleek · · Score: 1

    Huh?
    I think it's about groups. And the fact that, groups became a way to harvest people's
    email. And Yahoo is perhaps too polite. Not that I'm perfect, but I can read between the lines... eventually anyway.
    Anyway... What I hate is when I never, /NEVER/ speculated about that maybe, because I didn't believe there was any maybe there at all... AND then the woman and the little girl and my english writing class colluded to have me out in the hallway where she could describe exactly, in no uncertain terms why SHE would never go out with me. Of course, after that I realized it was like some horrible story, where 'leading someone down the garden path' is explained -- She didn't care 1 bit, and she proved it to me. AND then made damn sure I had to hire an escort to go to prom, but luckily for top dollar you can find one that can act ;-]

  175. Just say 'No'! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Forward any of the spam that gets through to abuse@yahoo.com. Flood their inboxes with garbage and see how they like it. Of course you could also do some snooping around and find some yahoo exec emails and forward them there.

  176. Re:wade through Flash ads by Technician · · Score: 1

    Ever since Yahoo started putting up Macromedia advertisements without a simple STOP button on it, (blinky,flashing,dashing,wiggling,zooming,can't make it stop distractions) I yanked out Macromedia from the machine. When a right click on an unwanted possibly noisy advertisement doesn't bring up the play, loop, rewind, forward options, it's broken. I operate my computer. Programs that won't properly shut down when requested are out of control and not to be trusted.

    Until Macromedia is more interested in end users than advertisers and other force feed content creaters, flash stays off my machine.

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