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Social Side-Effects Of Internet Use

venicebeach writes "The World Internet Project has released its third annual report on internet usage. It contains few surprises, but lots of interesing stats - for example the most experienced internet users spend an average of 15.8 hours online per week. CNN is running a story on the social findings - "New study shatters Internet 'geek' image." Apparently they are suprised to hear that internet users are more social than non-users: internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities."

476 comments

  1. Less TV == more social by glinden · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Considering that the average American watches four hours of television per day, I'm not sure the average person has much time left for socializing. Anything that reduces the amount of TV watched, including using the Internet, is likely to improve how social that person is.

    1. Re:Less TV == more social by BlewScreen · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I'm not sure how that makes your point. If you replace an hour of TV with an hour of the Internet, you haven't exactly gained time for social activities...

      -bs

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    2. Re:Less TV == more social by The+Clockwork+Troll · · Score: 3, Funny

      And considering the average family has 2.6 children i can't imagine how they have time for any of this nonsense, since I imagine the average medical bills to care for a 0.6 child must be astronomical, typically.

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    3. Re:Less TV == more social by xSquaredAdmin · · Score: 3, Interesting

      Well, that depends on whether you count Internet chat-rooms/IM services as social activities. If you do, then it does increase the time, otherwise, you're right.

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    4. Re:Less TV == more social by locutus_borg · · Score: 0

      Simply interacting with a person over the net would be being more social, would it not? More so that watching TV in any case.

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    5. Re:Less TV == more social by aardvarkjoe · · Score: 5, Funny

      It is if posting on slashdot counts as a social activity...

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    6. Re:Less TV == more social by dustmote · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I can't imagine watching that much television. Now that I've finally gotten used to not watching it (for about three years now, with occasional watching when at other peoples' homes) I can't stand to watch the "evil box" for very long. Every time I sit in front of it for very long at all I become very conscious of the amount of time that I am wasting on it, time that could have been used doing so many much more constructive things. (Or just surfing the net)

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    7. Re:Less TV == more social by Rallion · · Score: 5, Insightful

      For me, the internet is a primarily social entity. I use it to communicate and to talk to people, to speak my ideas and see others. My time online is far more social than an equal amount of time in front of the boob tube.

    8. Re:Less TV == more social by jhines0042 · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Unless you are being social on the internet.

      I organize lots of outings with my friends through e-mail. Isn't that being social?

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    9. Re:Less TV == more social by c_jonescc · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Except, I can surf when it's convenient to my social schedule. TV viewers are usually locked up from 7 to 11 in the evening. I think that's the most likely reason.

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    10. Re:Less TV == more social by photoblur · · Score: 4, Insightful

      In the last few decades, TV became the common ground that brought much of our society together... disparate groups of people didn't have much in common, except TV. As TV began to model more and more content after our culture, we began to model our lives after what we saw on TV. Sooner or later we were bound to reach a point where life and TV were nearly interchangable... why go outside and meet people when you can just "meet" someone new on TV? And it's so much easier to "meet" someone that way.

      Thankfully, the internet came along to provide a dissenting fracture to the TV as life/life as TV spiral. The internet encourages interaction between people. The internet makes diversity within society easier to accomplish, while at the same time providing a common ground that can bring people together. As the next step in our culture's social model, the internet is a positive step forward.

    11. Re:Less TV == more social by NanoGator · · Score: 1

      "I'm not sure how that makes your point. If you replace an hour of TV with an hour of the Internet, you haven't exactly gained time for social activities..."

      You've gained intereaction with other people, which can lead to more social activity. Thanks to TiVo, we can still maintain our 4 hours a day of TV.

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    12. Re:Less TV == more social by Fulkkari · · Score: 2, Insightful

      ...unless you have been using that time chatting on IRC.

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    13. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0


      Move to Canada. Medical is free and taxes aren't as high as US media tells you.

    14. Re:Less TV == more social by spacecowboy420 · · Score: 2

      ...and not looking at more advertising. I have become used to the process of using the internet. I do what I gotta do and I am in full control. On the tv, we are at the mercy of the broadcasters who decide to interupt their content with commercials and "Station Identification". Yes there is advertising on the net, but it doesn't force me to stop what I am doing and either leave or endure their plugs.

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    15. Re:Less TV == more social by DenOfEarth · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Considering that the average American watches four hours of television per day

      What's really crazy about those four hours is that 45 minutes of it is probably commercials!! I'm not sure if that's accurate or not, but the commercials are the entire reason why I don't watch television anymore (well, except for hockey games of course).

    16. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      propz for coolest sig evar

    17. Re:Less TV == more social by Trigun · · Score: 1

      I don't know about social skills, but my right bicep has grown two inches since I got internet access. Once the Paris Hilton video finishes downloading, I'm going to switch arms and try to balance out.

    18. Re:Less TV == more social by daveo0331 · · Score: 4, Informative

      It's worse than you think. A typical 30 minute TV show is actually 21 minutes of program and 9 minutes of commercials. That's 18 minutes per hour, or 72 minutes over 4 hours (in 1 week, that's 504 minutes = 8h24m of ads).

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    19. Re:Less TV == more social by g-to-the-o-to-the-g · · Score: 1
      Yes, but keep in mind, television is a brainless activity. You can't socialize while you watch the idiot box. On a computer on the other hand, you can spend that entire 15.8 hours talking to as many people as you choose. There are also multiplayer games, forums (maybe ever slashdot), and a host of other things which can all be considered socializing. As well, how does the information online get around? You read it.

      On another note, I have noticed that I read a lot more books these days, and I definately do not watch very much TV. Sometimes I watch a hockey game or the news or something, but thats it.

    20. Re:Less TV == more social by Slightly+Askew · · Score: 5, Insightful
      I would much rather my child take his cues on how to act socially from Clifford or Sesame Street than from the community in which I live. I have seen him interact with many children of different ethnicities and disabilities, and have never been embarassed by some social gaffe. I owe this to the fact that his mother and I never pointed out that being black or asian is any different than being blond or tall, and also to the fact that Barney, Big Bird, and the like always had mixed racial friends. If it was left up to my "village" to raise my "child", I have no doubt he would be an ignorant, bigoted redneck like the rest of them.

      Watching television does not reduce the sociability of a person. It can teach them how to be a reponsible citizen. I'd rather my child be in front of a TV watching Caillou than being social with the other kids while chucking rocks at the Mexican kids.

      No, it is not coincidence that the television shows I listed are on PBS

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    21. Re:Less TV == more social by dustmote · · Score: 5, Interesting

      Tell me about it. Is it just me or has television advertising gotten more poorly done and more desperate in the past five years? "Hi! Please for the love of god pay attention to me! Buy this product! Do something! Anything! Look! I'm acting crazy! I'm not making sense! Please don't turn off the TV and use the internet! PLEEEEEEEAAAASE" *click* And that's half of why I don't watch it anymore. It's all noise, no signal.

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    22. Re:Less TV == more social by Grrr · · Score: 1

      There's the obvious joke lurking here about "internet time" being faster than real time, just biding its time...

      lt;grrrgt;

    23. Re:Less TV == more social by lukior · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Actually i used to view television primarily for the news. Now what would have taken me four hours channel surfing for relevant news i can easily get in an hour on the net freeing up 3 hours for social activities.

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    24. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I can't remember the US media ever telling me anything about Canada's taxes. I do know that nothing is free, though. You are paying for that Medical somehow. Well maybe not you but your parents.

    25. Re:Less TV == more social by benzapp · · Score: 4, Insightful

      This is very true, not merely funny.

      I can't count how many times I have tried to call a friend and been told to call after show X is finished.

      Or people who don't want to go to the bar because they need to see Show Y.

      People really do plan their lives around TV, it is very sad.

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    26. Re:Less TV == more social by Octorian · · Score: 1

      I was really annoyed by having that situation myself. That's why I love now having a TiVo so much. I can watch TV when I want to, not when a show is on, so I never have to even think of planning my life around TV.

    27. Re:Less TV == more social by VivianC · · Score: 1

      I owe this to the fact that his mother and I never pointed out that being black or asian is any different than being blond or tall, and also to the fact that Barney, Big Bird, and the like always had mixed racial friends.

      I agree. People should be judged by how they act and interact rather than how they look. My daughter loves Little Bill and Dora regardless of the fact that they are a different color or speak a different language.

      I'd rather my child be in front of a TV watching Caillou

      Caillou is where I draw the line. I don't want her that accepting of French people! They should make it more clear that he is Canadian. ;)

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    28. Re:Less TV == more social by whathappenedtomonday · · Score: 1

      freeing up 3 hours for social activities.

      like surfing for relevant pr0n?

      SCNR ;)

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      I hope I didn't brain my damage.
    29. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Amen brother. TV-free since 1998!

    30. Re:Less TV == more social by Hittite+Creosote · · Score: 1
      It is if posting on slashdot counts as a social activity...

      Social or antisocial. I can't quite decide which.

    31. Re:Less TV == more social by nelsonal · · Score: 3, Insightful

      And you can cram 4 hours of TV into 2.5 hours of TiVo.

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    32. Re:Less TV == more social by Kethinov · · Score: 1

      Is having 2.6 children anything like having a 2.6 kernel? o.O

      *rimshot*

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    33. Re:Less TV == more social by jandrese · · Score: 1

      You need to introduce your friends to TiVo. It lets you do thing when you want to, yet still see your favorite shows. Sounds to me like TiVo would be a complete lifestyle changer for your friends, probably for the better.

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    34. Re:Less TV == more social by MissMarvel · · Score: 1

      Commercials drove me away from TV 15 years ago when I shifted my attention to the computer. I still hate telephones, I still hate snail-mail, and I still hate loud restaurants and noisy parties. However, I do enjoy interacting on /dot. Does this mean I'm a hopeless geek?

    35. Re:Less TV == more social by jafuser · · Score: 1

      That's the best description of television that I've ever read =D

      Going on about 3 years myself since I stopped watching TV.

      For those who still watch TV regularly: you don't realize how bad it really is until you step away for a while and then come back. Give it a try and you'll probably be quite disgusted...

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    36. Re:Less TV == more social by Syberghost · · Score: 1

      Anything that reduces the amount of TV watched, including using the Internet, is likely to improve how social that person is.

      Replacing four hours of TV with four hours of pr0n isn't socialization.

    37. Re:Less TV == more social by Rostin · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Watching television does not reduce the sociability of a person.

      That's kindof a tricky statement.

      Watching television does not reduce the sociability of a person compared to sitting in a quiet room staring at the wall. Yeah, that makes sense. There are a wide variety of activities that would make a person less social than watching TV.. you're going to have to pick one to make your point. You tried to do that by talking about the racist neighbor kids, but I think you're mistaking social skills for morality in that case.

      Yeah, I might keep my kid (supposing I had one) in the house to watch Big Bird if I thought he was going to throw rocks at the Mexican kids, but I would do so in the belief that hurting people and racism is wrong, and not that he is learning greater social acumen by watching a faceless, glowing box that he can't communicate with. Clearly if he was out running with the neighbor kids he would at least learn things like which people it is socially acceptable to make fun of (What he decides to do about that is a separate issue, imo).

    38. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      wrong. 451 is only half true.

    39. Re:Less TV == more social by Acidic_Diarrhea · · Score: 1
      "that depends on whether you count Internet chat-rooms/IM services as social activities"
      I don't.
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    40. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Insightful
      I owe this to the fact that his mother and I never pointed out that being black or asian is any different than being blond or tall

      Don't worry, someone else will teach him to be racist. I learned all about racism in my Baltimore middle school. Our black female Librarian taught all of us that there are only 2 races, black and non-black. (That is right, I learned rasicm from a black woman.) If you are non-black you are a narrow minded racist pig and you have victimized blacks for generations. Regardless of where you or your ancestors were born you enslaved black people and you owe them.

      I learned the lessons of the 70s left very well. And, my parents didn't have to teach me. Certainly not the lessons they would have taught me. The personal is political. Even today, I look at a TV commercial and identify the racial/sexual makeup of the ad and determine which group is being made fun of (usually the white male, BTW).

      Don't worry even if you don't teach your kids this, someone will come along a teach your kids how to view people as just a demographic to hate or feel sorry for.

    41. Re:Less TV == more social by UserGoogol · · Score: 1

      That's why TiVo and Video on Demand are so awesome.

      (Video on Demand is a service provided by some Digital Cable companies, where you can watch shows "on demand" whenever you want to over your cable. It works by having a server at your cable company store a bunch of TV shows on it, which are streamed to you whenever you want to watch them. It's still doesn't have a huge variety of shows, but my family got it a bit ago, so I've been watching Excel Saga on the Anime Network's "channel.")

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    42. Re:Less TV == more social by Mysticalfruit · · Score: 1
      I use it to communicate aka bury a rail gun slug in their head
      and talk to people as in You suck man meat, bitch monkey!
      to speak my ideas as in How does it feel to be ridin, bitch! and see others, as in... Ah, there they are, running around trying to find the rail gun I just picked up...

      All jesting aside, I do agree with you. Sitting alone in a room watching TV is a rather antisocial activity. Now watching a marathon of "Tremors: The series" with a whole bunch of other people, that's social...

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    43. Re:Less TV == more social by Kenshin · · Score: 1

      I'm Canadian, but I'd say that in the dead of winter, stuck in boring-as-hell suburbia, wtaching tv is one of the few activiities I feel up to.

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    44. Re:Less TV == more social by shubert1966 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I killed my TV in 1998. It was because of something I noticed while watching the NFL's "Sunday Ticket". You know, you just sit around all day Sunday and watch 3 three-hour games and 2 hours of pre/post game. 11 hours of beer and football - I was sick.

      The final straw came when I noticed something. I could switch to another secondary game when mine went to commercial, and then switch back to the primary game when the commercial was over. What was important was that I just 'knew' when the commercials were over - without checking. I realized that my subconcious was counting the 2 or 3 minutes that a "TV Timeout" takes, and was telling me to return just as the fade-in occured. I tested the hypothesis for weeks, and even proved it to my friends.

      Then I remembered Pizza Delivery. As a driver, I would oftentimes knock on the door of someone watching TV. If the TV was visible from the door, I would feel the tug of my eyes to glance over at it. While I could control it rather easily - the fact that it was 'calling' to me freaked me out. It has little to do with content though.

      Programs go to commercial at given times. While commercials are often even better to view than the shows, there's a stigma attached to commercials as 'garbage'. It seems like a classic example of reward and punishment - regardless, it does condition us. Good or Bad are irrelevant at that point - just the effect was enough for me to kill it.

      Parent however, do use TV to occupy their kids. Arguably better than video games. TV is a remarkable medium, and I used to watch PBS religiously. Anymore I think their kinda bland.

      Anyway, that's my testimonial: I got rid of TV and
      1) went to 65 hours a week at work,
      2) took classes,
      3) joined a community group
      - all at the same time, and still had time to program and surf.

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    45. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So true, it's come to the point (I've actually not watched TV regularly for over 7 years now) where I can come back to regular TV and just be appalled, flabbergasted, and yes, even amused by the ads and the desperation seen in them, to the point where I can even lose interest in the actual show and just watch the ads (briefly, until nausea sets in)!

    46. Re:Less TV == more social by Rallion · · Score: 1

      Wait...are you monitoring my keystrokes or something? Hey...

    47. Re:Less TV == more social by Slightly+Askew · · Score: 2, Interesting
      (What he decides to do about that is a separate issue, imo).

      Now you're making the tricky statements. You're implying that it is ok to subject a child to any social situation, regardless of its moral value, and leave it up to each child to make their own distinction on whether that situation is correct or incorrect. This implies that morality is not a learned trait, but an in-born one. I can guarantee that a baby born into a community of criminals and never introduced to any other examples of social behavior, will commonly become a criminal himself. In those instances where he does not, it is usually because of a mentor or some other positive moral example. My wife and I are only one small positive model for our child to emulate. Any other positive example of morality (especially when they are as cool as Elmo) can only improve the morality of a child and, by learning what is right and wrong, that child will be more successful in socializing with his peers.

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    48. Re:Less TV == more social by alaric187 · · Score: 1

      Or with the powers of TiVo, 0 minutes of commercials per hour for a total of 0 minutes of ads per week. MMmmm. TiVo.

    49. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Do you also discount letter writing, sending postcards, greeting cards, and voice phone calls? If not, what is the qualitative difference?

    50. Re:Less TV == more social by FroMan · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Assuming you make $85000 US (Michgan) or $85000 CN (Ontario):

      From doing quick back of a napkin work:

      Paying in US: $18270 (21%)
      Paying in CN: $24740 (29%)

      Also, keep in mind I did not figure for deductions at all (even standard deductions in US)(or Canadian since I do not know their tax system well enough).

      But looking at this, the first 12.6 minutes of each hour is spent working for the government in the US, the first 17.4 minutes are working for the Canadian government. I know which one I prefer.

      I also know my taxes in the US will be lower, since I did not do any deductions (even standard deduction, and also charity, mortgage interest, etc...). I would assume Canadian would have similar deductions though.

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    51. Re:Less TV == more social by xkenny13 · · Score: 1

      I was really annoyed by having that situation myself. That's why I love now having a TiVo so much. I can watch TV when I want to, not when a show is on, so I never have to even think of planning my life around TV.

      Yes and no, it depends on your level (and type) of social interaction. Friends of mine used to get reasonably annoyed (and vice versa) when a show would come on and we'd be all ready to discuss it the next day ... only to find out the other had taped it, and not watched it yet. Sometimes it'd take a few days to "catch up", but by then sometimes the material isn't as fresh for the other person.

      Of course, if this means THAT much to you, then yeah, you should probably get out more ... but even on a pure hobby level, there are definate reasons for watching the shows when they come on (or at least, before the next day if possible).

    52. Re:Less TV == more social by pokeyburro · · Score: 1

      The difference is, you can use the Internet at work. TV, not so much. (Unless you work at a TV station, or your boss is some hippie who's never around.)

      So you've replaced an hour of work with an hour of Internet, and an hour of TV with an hour of socializing.

      And yes, I'm being facetious. A lot of work gets done on the net...

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    53. Re:Less TV == more social by kolbeinn · · Score: 1

      Sure. You can surf for an hour at work. This leaves more free time for when you get home.

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    54. Re:Less TV == more social by Parsa · · Score: 1

      You took my post!! I *love* my TiVo. It has helped me get out more. I spend more time in the bookstore and with friends than I did before. And it has even freed up time to get a little exercising in!

      The OP definitely need to get his friends looking at one!

      J

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    55. Re:Less TV == more social by skorpion_of_ranax' · · Score: 1

      Multitask... Combine your surfing and tube watching in the same time frame... Get more done and learn less simultaneously.

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    56. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Same with Slashdot.

    57. Re:Less TV == more social by prockcore · · Score: 1

      TiVo makes you social.

    58. Re:Less TV == more social by dustmote · · Score: 1

      Agreed. In "In The Beginning There Was The Command Line", it was pointed out that for people who are not heavy readers (or not yet), Disney and its ilk are pumping out lots and lots of moral "lessons" on tolerance and responsibility. These are things that television can do well for our children, provided they watch the right television. I don't have kids, though, so I prefer not to watch it right now.

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    59. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Once the Paris Hilton video finishes downloading, I'm going to switch arms and try to balance out.

      what a skanky looking, spoiled brat, I don't know how anyone could be turned on by her.

    60. Re:Less TV == more social by Rostin · · Score: 1

      You're implying that it is ok to subject a child to any social situation, regardless of its moral value, and leave it up to each child to make their own distinction on whether that situation is correct or incorrect.

      No, I'm not. You are reading that in to what I said. If I understand properly, you were trying to claim that watching PBS made your kid more social because the neighbor kids that he would otherwise be hanging out with are jerks. I was just pointing out that while watching TV may result in his being more moral, it would not make him more social. In essence, I was just asking you to distinguish between morality and social skills. When I said that how he decides to respond to peer pressure to do bad stuff is a "separate issue," I was pointing out that this is fundamentally a MORAL issue, and not a social one. I wasn't trying to provide child-rearing advice.

      I think we aren't communicating well here because even in this post, you aren't really distinguishing between good social behaviors, which might be things like looking at people when they talk, not interrupting others when they are talking, not dominating a conversation, which topics are appropriate at different stages of a relationship, etc. We aren't comfortable around people who violate those rules, and we may tend to avoid them (we say they have no social skills) but we don't call them immoral. Or if we do, we don't mean it in the same sense as "Racists are immoral" or "Thieves are immoral."

      I admit that not every behavior can be clearly identified as being "moral" or "social." One thing you mentioned is that you've never had to worry about whether your kid would say something inappropriate to a disabled person. My gut feeling is, staring at a disabled person is both rude (contrary to normal rules of politeness, not "social") AND immoral. So in that narrow sense, I'll have to concede to you - seeing a disabled person on TV would probably help your kid to later behave in a more socially acceptable fashion toward real life disabled people.

      Anyway, this is getting really rambly.

    61. Re:Less TV == more social by mikewolf · · Score: 1
      actually, now your're making the tricky statements.
      I can guarantee that a baby born into a community of criminals and never introduced to any other examples of social behavior, will commonly become a criminal himself. you almost had a good point, but then you brought up "criminals".

      just because someone is considered a "criminal" by their government or engages in "crminal activity" (whatever that might), does not make someone morally negative.

      you are confusing legality and morality...
    62. Re:Less TV == more social by BenEnglishAtHome · · Score: 1

      I can't believe there's not a Tivo commercial already posted in this spot.

    63. Re:Less TV == more social by YukioMishima · · Score: 1, Insightful

      It may be that Sesame Street provides a wonderful shelter for your child's development; however (one would hope) your child must leave that shelter and enter the real world. I'm all for great programing, but to say that TV is going to produce your responsible citizens is just as erroneous as the argument that videogames make people violent - it's the ability or inability to interact well with society that determines either of those two actions. Let your kids watch a little TV, but when it comes to raising them, take them out into the community and spend time with them while they're there. Then, you (rightfully) have no one to blame, or praise, but yourself.

    64. Re:Less TV == more social by dameon · · Score: 1

      Well, the sad fact is that as one medium becomes more popular, so too will advertising on that medium become more invasive. Look at how things have developed over time, when the Internet started coming to people's homes banner ads were all the rage for companies. Now, when I want to look at pr0n I gotta deal with thousands of pop-ups to get to the good stuff.

      I know that there are ways around all that, but the fact of the matter is that when you compare the cost of Internet advertising to television advertising, the choice is clear. Plus, with the Internet you reach a much larger audience.

      Especially when you consider the Do-Not-Call list here in the states, we should look for more and more of a focus on the Internet as an advertising medium. And also, look for more creative ways for advertising companies to circumvent our prevention of the advertising.

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    65. Re:Less TV == more social by netsharc · · Score: 1

      I dunno about the rest of the decaying civilized world (hey we're talking about TV here), but the latest thing with commercials in Germany is to cut a film scene right in the middle and show ads!! It's so fucking annoying. One film I remember they started doing this was "Keeping The Faith", 2 guys go to pick up a girl (a character who's going to show up for the first time in the movie in this scene) at the airport, they get there, they say "So where is she? Is that her?" Cut.

      Normally you'd expect the scene to go on, just the camera angle to change and show the arrival gate with the girl walking through it. But no, it cut and had the TV station logo and the cheesy music and "Werbung"!!! (German for "Commercial") FUCK FUCK FUCK! It was so fucking annoying.

      Just too good I don't watch too much TV anyway, and have video-on-demand (100 Mbps DormNet) when I want to watch films.. fuck the TV stations.

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    66. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What about those of us that watch TV while they browse the internet?

    67. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Too bad there's not much to experience in the PH-video.

    68. Re:Less TV == more social by Trepalium · · Score: 1

      One minute of commercials for every two minutes of show.... It's so incredibly sad, and advertisers wonder why people don't pay attention to their television ads, and why some even actively try to remove them.

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    69. Re:Less TV == more social by Monsieur_F · · Score: 1

      I don't post on /., I am simply reading.

      Oh, wait!...

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    70. Re:Less TV == more social by ktanmay · · Score: 1

      I'm reminded of one of those programs that can simulate a chat-room environment. If a person can get fooled by the AI, does that count as genuine social interaction?
      I don't think that online interaction is necessarily social in nature, one does not have to think about consequences and can remain anonymous.

    71. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That "hacker emblem" in ASCII just makes me think "damn, that's a bunch of ogres".

    72. Re:Less TV == more social by betis70 · · Score: 1

      I was TV free for about 2 years, then came back to it because I started getting heavily into hockey ...needed to watch the games on TV, that sort of thing.

      It's funny, but I get pissed when there is no game on and all the other shows stink. "Why am I paying for 200 channels of shit?"

      Then see a great goal by Pavel Datsyuk or a great hit by Rob Blake and go "Oh yeah, that's why".

      Otherwise my TV would never have been bought.

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    73. Re:Less TV == more social by Monsieur_F · · Score: 1

      Are you comparing US dollar vs Canadian dollar ?

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    74. Re:Less TV == more social by Monsieur_F · · Score: 1

      It makes it harder to talk about "what you did yesterday evening" during coffee break the next day at work

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    75. Re:Less TV == more social by caluml · · Score: 1

      You're joking about this, aren't you? About the 1 min/2 min thing?

    76. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Hi! Please for the love of god pay attention to me! Buy this product! Do something! Anything!"

      TV? I thought you were talking about the SCO stories posted here on Slashdot.

    77. Re:Less TV == more social by 88NoSoup4U88 · · Score: 1

      Yes, and before you know, they say you don't start raping people when you played GTA3.

    78. Re:Less TV == more social by Dave_bsr · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I'm not a liberal.

      You, however, are not reasonably correct. Social can mean any sort of gathering and communicating...and certainly chat rooms an email fit the bill. So do the slashdot forums.

      Now you can be anti-social in a chat room or IM conversation...but that's just another story.

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    79. Re:Less TV == more social by Acidic_Diarrhea · · Score: 1
      I thought that by making such a short reply that did not effectively communicate my actual thoughts, since I didn't back the statement up with any reasoning, that everyone would get the joke I was making - social interaction on the Internet can sometimes be more about being anti-social and rude to people than by having a real social interaction. I guess my little joke was a bit too avant garde for most though.

      Thanks for the insight but I already thought that the Internet is a fine means for social interaction.

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    80. Re:Less TV == more social by ninel · · Score: 3, Informative
      You're pretty close. According to a PhaseOne Communications study release last month:
      the four major networks air an average of 52 minutes of promotional clutter along with their programming from 8-11 PM, up 8% from 2000 and up 36% from 1991.

      [...]

      Although networks are using fewer commercial breaks during primetime than in previous years, the average length of each break continues to rise, to an all-time high of 3.05 minutes, up 41% from just five years ago.

      [...]

      Among the four major networks, ABC ranked highest in both number of spots (152) and promotion time (54.6 minutes). FOX aired the fewest spots (130), but CBS had the least amount of promotion time (50.8 minutes). NBC had the fewest commercial breaks, but also the longest break times at an average of 3.6 minutes.

    81. Re:Less TV == more social by Trepalium · · Score: 1

      No. A show that's scheduled in a 30 minute time slot is actually only 20-22 minutes long. Likewise, a 1 hour timeslot tends to be only 40-44 minutes long.

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    82. Re:Less TV == more social by epiphani · · Score: 2, Interesting

      My brother and I grew up with TV being a limited asset. Our parents severely restricted our TV time, as it were. My little sister however, was not so closely monitored, as my parents had to get full time jobs to support the three of us. She is now reaching the early teen years, is far more astute to the world around her. She is up on the newest fasions, knows the newest phrases, and wants all the new toys in the commercials.

      In short, TV has successfully brainwashed her into the ideal little consumer.

      Watching television doesnt teach a person shit about being a responcible person. It teaches them how to be a responcible capitalist consumer.

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    83. Re:Less TV == more social by rifter · · Score: 1


      That's the best description of television that I've ever read =D

      Going on about 3 years myself since I stopped watching TV.

      For those who still watch TV regularly: you don't realize how bad it really is until you step away for a while and then come back. Give it a try and you'll probably be quite disgusted...

      You aren't this guy, are you? :)

      But seriously, TV is mostly crap. Lately it has gotten so bad that you can't get news anymore and everything is a commercial. I watch some of the documentary-type channels, but otherwise mainly do the net. TV is ok for mindless entertainment once in awhile, but even then there is slashdot instead, so why bother?

    84. Re:Less TV == more social by FroMan · · Score: 1

      Comparing a flat number... would you like me to redo it with a conversion between US and CN dollars? It will make the CN tax rate higher, not lower.

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    85. Re:Less TV == more social by xankar · · Score: 5, Insightful

      It may not be social activity, but trying to say something informative/insightful/funny in the eyes of others every time you post is definitely an exercise in understanding people, and thus an exercise in social skills.

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    86. Re:Less TV == more social by cfuse · · Score: 1
      I'm not sure how that makes your point. If you replace an hour of TV with an hour of the Internet, you haven't exactly gained time for social activities...

      Tell that to my sister. She recently discovered the joys of chat, and is online every spare minute she gets. I'm just hoping that she isn't talking to german cannibals.

      Internet use can be just as passive as watching the TV, or as active as any other social pursuit. I personally hate chat, as it is difficult to communicate subtlety, irony and humour - all the things that make communication rich. Frankly this: :-) doesn't cut it for me.

    87. Re:Less TV == more social by Anthony+Stuckey · · Score: 1

      there's a stigma attached to commercials as 'garbage'

      Ummm ... maybe because they are?

      95% of product commercials tell you nothing useful. Either you've already seen the commercial, in which case it's useless and redundant, or you're not in the market, or something. Case and point -- the last car that I bought was in 1998. Hopefully the next car that I buy will be sometime after 2008. Every car commercial that I see in the intervening years are pretty much useless.

      The only vaguely interesting commercials are those for other shows or events.

    88. Re:Less TV == more social by zoney_ie · · Score: 1

      I just wonder why anyone in Britain ever complains about the BBC. Regardless of the few bits of nonsense they have, taken as a whole they produce oodles of good material compared to the imported tripe we're all too frequently subjected to!

      Mind you, I'm biased in that BBC have me both ways, net and telly - BBC News Online is my most frequently visited site.

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    89. Re:Less TV == more social by TachyonAT · · Score: 1

      Good point, i do spend most of my time on the Internet IMming while im doing other things although TV is mostly a sit and stare activity. I pretty much don't watch TV anymore partly for that reason, but also i find movies can be more social. No ones gonna come over to watch tv, but i have people over to watch movies from time to time, so that could be considered somewhat more social than wasting away in front of the tv

    90. Re:Less TV == more social by murdocj · · Score: 1

      A lot of the online interaction in games or chatrooms consists of "wtf!" or "sez you". I'm not sure that qualifies as "socializing".

      On the other hand, when my wife and I watch an interesting tv program we're often left with something to chat about after (or during the commercials).

      On the 3rd hand, I've been skipping commercials long before tivo. There's this little known tool called the vcr. Works great. I've amortized the initial investment over the last 15-20 years that I've had it.

    91. Re:Less TV == more social by anomalous+cohort · · Score: 1

      At first glance, it seems to be noise but there is method to the madness. The books I have read on how to improve your memory say to associate what you want to remember with a crazy image.

      They want you to remember the brand. So they do something that will stick out in your mind. Words get intensionally misspelled. Wacky and unusual situations abound. It is a battle over mindshare.

    92. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      This is how it's always been in the USA.

      For decades. Shows here are written PLANNING for commercial cuts in the middle so that they can capture your suspense.

    93. Re:Less TV == more social by BillX · · Score: 1

      Unless, for example, you use (G)AIM/ICQ/etc. to keep in touch with family and friends back home (which for some, is hundreds or thousands of miles)...or you use that hour to take care of some otherwise (more) time-wasting tasks, e.g. pay bills, shopping, and so forth, so that you have time to go out drinking with the guys later.

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    94. Re:Less TV == more social by 00420 · · Score: 1

      I would say for the majority of /.ers that engage in actual discussions, they are being social.

      Of course there are trolls who are being antisocial, but I personally would rather those people sit at home and post "BSD is dead" posts than go out and be antisocial in the streets.

    95. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      According to the study, 41.7 percent of Italian men are online compared to 21.5 percent of Italian women.

      Thats because Italian women are too busy in the kitchen cooking for their husbands.

    96. Re:Less TV == more social by TSNV · · Score: 0

      agreed: it is difficult to use chat to communicate certain subtleties - but it is not impossible. consider the difference between "..hello.", "hello!", "hello..?" and others. there is of course no doubt that it isn't as easy as face-to-face communication is, but then it's SIGNIFICANTLY harder than it is to communicate subtlety and irony and such through a TV.

      stuff to think about.

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    97. Re:Less TV == more social by serutan · · Score: 1

      A lot of Internet activity involves interaction (email, IM, message boards, etc) with other people. Even if it's not face to face communication, or even realtime, any kind of outgoing behavior is probably more socializing than passively watching tv.

    98. Re:Less TV == more social by TheDarkener · · Score: 1

      The difference is, you can use the Internet at work.

      Yes, this is true. I've been at work for 2 hours and 15 minutes, and I've replaced just about 2 hours of work with 2 hours of Internet.

      A lot of work gets done on the net...

      True again, but as I said, I've replaced 2 hours of work with 2 hours of Internet (Read: Slashdot). =)

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    99. Re:Less TV == more social by Jo+Owen · · Score: 2, Insightful

      But what you also have to add into that equation is the fact that in canada you will get free health care, Better free schooling, and a host of other 'free at point of delivery' services for which you have to pay in the U.S.

    100. Re:Less TV == more social by TheDarkener · · Score: 1

      Watching television doesnt teach a person shit about being a responcible person. It teaches them how to be a responcible capitalist consumer.

      But the important question is, did it teach her how to spell responsible? ;)

      Spelling rants aside, that is a very interesting situation you and your siblings are in. I could see a movie being made about something like that, and it being very good.

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    101. Re:Less TV == more social by Talinom · · Score: 1

      Yup. I spend a great deal of time telling my friends:

      And then there was this one time, when I was on Slashdot...

      Obviously this is more relevant and interesting than:

      And then there was this one time, when I was watching this movie about band camp...

      Honestly, I can tell by their wide eyed glassy stare and their slackjawed expression.

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    102. Re:Less TV == more social by Politas · · Score: 1

      Ah, so you're one of those people who believe that humans are innately evil and violent, and it is only the moralising touch of society that stops us from beating each other's brains out for a cookie.

      How sad. I don't believe it myself. Look at other primates.

      Personally, I think there are other ways of teaching respect and tolerance to your children than sitting them down in front of Sesame Street. How about talking to them? Invite the local "mexican" kids over for "play dates" when your child is too young to see any difference.

      Not that Sesame Street is evil or anything; I watched it as a kid, and I haven't become a homocidal maniac or anything. Turning off the TV was one of the best decisions I ever made, though. I only use my TV for watching DVDs and videos, these days.

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    103. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Sounds like every youngest child I've ever met. I think it's genetic.

    104. Re:Less TV == more social by nEoN+nOoDlE · · Score: 2, Funny

      Haha, your friends are dumb. Show Z is obviously the only one worth watching of the three.

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    105. Re:Less TV == more social by SacredNaCl · · Score: 1

      You're implying that it is ok to subject a child to any social situation, regardless of its moral value, and leave it up to each child to make their own distinction on whether that situation is correct or incorrect. This implies that morality is not a learned trait, but an in-born one. I can guarantee that a baby born into a community of criminals and never introduced to any other examples of social behavior, will commonly become a criminal himself. In those instances where he does not, it is usually because of a mentor or some other positive moral example.

      The single largest predictor of the absence of criminal behavior is a father in the home. It also doubles the chance a kid will complete college, finish high school, and reduces the odds of girls getting pregnant in their teen years by 40%. The numbers hold pretty constant regardless of income, race, or location. Mentor indeed.

      TV is a poor substitute for a father. Don't underestimate YOUR influence.

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    106. Re:Less TV == more social by Qacker · · Score: 1
      Libertarian here

      *waits for the flames*

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    107. Re:Less TV == more social by Chatmag · · Score: 1

      The Pew Internet Life Project issued a similar report recently, suggesting that Internet chat usage had shown only a modest increase.

      We recently published our years end list of top ten chat topics for 2003, and have seen a very good growth both in Chatmag and Internet chat and discussion sites in general. Two years ago, our estimate of functioning chat rooms were at about 750,000. End of 2003 estimates are at about 1,325,000. Online game playing, while not in itself "chat" offers players the opportunity to talk to each other. According to statistics from 2002, an estimated 50 million people around the world were playing online games that year, and the number is expected to grow to 114 million by the year 2006.

      According to Alexa, the two year ranking for Slashdot rose from a low of about 1750 to todays rank of 881. In that same time, Chatmag's rank was at about 230,000 two years ago, with todays ranking of 43,656. Other social networking sites have shown a similar increase in users.

      When Pew and The World Internet Project look at usage, they do not consider sites such as Slashdot, Kuro5hin, Ryze, or Ecademy as "chat" sites, although the primary function of such sites are to promote dialog.

      Social interaction is evolving from the traditional IRC chat room toward more focused integrated sites, such as Slashdot.

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    108. Re:Less TV == more social by benzapp · · Score: 1

      This is a problem I have noticed with chicks more than guys. The girls I know would never be able to work a TIVO, guaranteed.

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    109. Re:Less TV == more social by Moofie · · Score: 1

      I disagree.

      There are numerous social activities one can enjoy on the Internet. Some of them don't even involve masturbation.

      In all seriousness, I can have a rich, fruitful conversation with my friends in a chat room. And the beer in my fridge is cheaper than the beer at a pub. Is it as social as going to a restaurant with friends? No, but it's infinitely more social than watching Friends on TV.

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    110. Re:Less TV == more social by Moofie · · Score: 1

      I often start a meatspace discussion with an article I read about on /. How is this different from talking about something one read in the paper?

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    111. Re:Less TV == more social by photoblur · · Score: 1

      case and point: here I am, interacting with you on a somewhat superficial level. That's more social interaction than Joe Banger gets from watching his nightly WWF, right? I will go out on a limb here and propose that over time, some of these superficial interactions with people could evolve into relationships... and what do you know, spending four hours a day on internet forums and message boards provides more social interaction than watching your soaps.

      Than's all I'm trying to say...

      However, this "social interaction" here at slashdot doesn't come close to you buying me a beer at the local tavern... I guess the 'net is merely the lesser of two evils, socially speaking.

    112. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Internet time includes IM and IRC time. Not your traditional "hey, neighbor, what'cha workin' on?" but it still counts as social time.

      If it doesn't, then neither do phone calls and letters do not have any effect on social bonds between people.

    113. Re: Less TV == more social by Black+Parrot · · Score: 1


      > the four major networks air an average of 52 minutes of promotional clutter along with their programming from 8-11 PM

      Notice that that's an average. The worst I've measured was a Simpsons rerun, that clocked out at 11 minutes of commercials for its 30 minute slot.

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    114. Re:Less TV == more social by Xrikcus · · Score: 1

      So much so I watched the simpsons yesterday via Sky rather than the BBC, and noticed that not only did they have ads seconds into the programme, but they appeared to have skipped the title sequence and replaced it with those ads.

    115. Re:Less TV == more social by Xrikcus · · Score: 1

      I'm getting increasingly irritated at the number of complaints that noone watches BBC digital, so apparently that's a good reason to ditch it. Even though when you look at the financing, it costs the BBC next to nothing to run - maybe the fact that it has no good programmes (ie none that they pay a lot for, because there are few viewers) is one reason nonoe watches it?

    116. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Case _in_ point, goddamnit.

    117. Re:Less TV == more social by jadavis · · Score: 1

      Slashdot itself stimulates the brain a lot more than any TV program. I've noticed that dispite the countless hours I've spent watching the History channel, I somehow end up totally ignorant of the subject (even the stuff that's on all the time, like WW2 stuff).

      The internet, being a full-duplex network, is infinately more social and stimulating than T.V., a half-duplex network.

      Imagine if a show like "The O'Reilly Factor" was a bunch of stories on slashdot. All the B.S. that flies around could be hashed out in a slashdot-style discussion, and that's WAY better than banging your head against the wall as the argument turns toward irrelevencies and you can't do anything but email him and hope.

      Hey, speaking of which, are there any good liberal websites? Conservatives seem to love to hash out their ideas in a central place and they have a pretty uniform internet presence. Liberal stuff is only an article here or there with no real chance to get any information. There's liberal news, there's liberal people's websites, but what about a central place where they take on the conservatives? Dean's website makes no real arguments, they're just a bunch of visions. If lean conservative on an issue, there's no way I can seek out an opposing view. I've tried. I want real arguments, in plain english, like a bunch of columnists or something.

      If you think I'm making this up, try googling for:
      (1) "conservative columnists" - first link is townhall.com, a good place for all the conservative platforms, and all the arguments in step with modern events. You don't have to agree that the ideas are good, but at least there are ideas, and valid arguments there (among bad, but that's to be expected).
      (2) "liberal columnists" - I find no useful links. Is liberal a bad word now? What's the deal?

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    118. Re:Less TV == more social by Vertice123 · · Score: 1

      i rarely watch television, as my fingers get itchy and i just need some interactivity.

      I do spend large amounts of time watching things like farscape and the like.. but that's still not in a broadcast form.

      divx has set me free

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    119. Re:Less TV == more social by dustmote · · Score: 1

      Yes, but as people get less and less responsive to traditional advertising techniques, desperation seems to have set in. That was what I was going for, I think. A lot of commercials are all crazy images, not enough brand name to make the connection.

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    120. Re:Less TV == more social by jandrese · · Score: 1

      Although the TiVo can be difficult for some people to set up, I've never met anybody who had trouble using the interface. Some people don't use most of the features, but they can watch TV and tell TiVo to record their favorite shows.

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    121. Re:Less TV == more social by JerkBoB · · Score: 1

      The girls I know would never be able to work a TIVO, guaranteed.

      Either you're hopelessly mysoginistic, or you really need to stop hanging out with barnyard animals. TiVo is much simpler than a VCR. It's barely more complicated than watching TV by itself.

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    122. Re:Less TV == more social by darkmeridian · · Score: 1

      Well, the cost of weight loss programs for the 1.7 child isn't much lower than the medical expenses of the 0.9 child.

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    123. Re:Less TV == more social by HeyLaughingBoy · · Score: 1
      Give it a try and you'll probably be quite disgusted...

      I guess it all depends what you like to watch. Easily 70% of what we watch is the Food Network (I like to cook), to the point where my 3 year-old can tell when the channel changes "that food network." The rest of the time if we're not watching either IFC (Independent Film Channel),Sundance or Cartoon network, it's tuned into Animal Planet.
      Discovery channel, TLC, Travel channel have all turned into one form of "extreme show" or the other and are now almost completely unwatchable anymore (tho Blue Planet or whatever that ocean show is can be good sometimes).

      TV News? Don't make me laugh! I don't think I've seen a broadcast TV program in over a year and I gave up on the 4 networks long before that! All the local news I need comes from Minnesota Public Radio and national news from NPR or online.
    124. Re:Less TV == more social by benzapp · · Score: 1

      Either you're hopelessly mysoginistic, or you really need to stop hanging out with barnyard animals.

      Actually, I hang out with a lot of party girls that would rather party and have sex than fuck around with some geek toy. In fact, I hope I am wrong about TIVO. Maybe it will take off. I hate having some stupid TV show interfere with my desire to get laid.

      By the way, the word is spelled misogynistic.

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    125. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      actually i'd probably be really creeped out if you bought me a beer at the local tavern. there's some sketchy people over there.

    126. Re:Less TV == more social by BadTuna · · Score: 1

      Agreed. What's the diff between this Boodtube or the one with the remote?

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    127. Re:Less TV == more social by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Only on a website like Slashdot could this kind of whining be modded up as insightful.

      Quit your bitching. There's a whole lot more valid things to be complaining about than the way that white males are portrayed on television.

    128. Re:Less TV == more social by reeve · · Score: 1

      That depends on your viewpoint. The way I look at it, if you're in a chat room with people you haven't talked to before, it's just like if you went out and talked to people you don't know.

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    129. Re:Less TV == more social by reeve · · Score: 1

      Actually, I'm the youngest in my family (only one sibling, an older sister) and it's reversed. She is the one who is very concerned with "fads" and believes she is incapable of doing things on her own; while I've been called "eccentric" by most people, and not only am capable of doing things on my own, but actually prefer to, to the point that I will not ask for assistance and many times will refuse it if offered. I should point out that I was not treated like a "normal" youngest sibling though, because my sister was very sick when she was born and as such, my parents were much more attentive to her than me from the time I was born, so I quickly learned to enjoy solitude, even as an infant. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I was neglected, I'm glad they left me to myself, though my psychology studies seem to indicate that my "freedom" as a child is the root cause of my aversion to socializing. Anyway, I'm getting way too introspective here, so just to reiterate my original point, not all youngest children end up the way you were saying.

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    130. Re:Less TV == more social by kinzillah · · Score: 1

      ...and you'll only have to sit bleeding in the ER waiting room for 10 hours! I'll pay, thanks.

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    131. Re:Less TV == more social by kzadot · · Score: 1

      I learned the lessons of the 70s left very well. And, my parents didn't have to teach me. Certainly not the lessons they would have taught me. The personal is political. Even today, I look at a TV commercial and identify the racial/sexual makeup of the ad and determine which group is being made fun of (usually the white male, BTW).

      Interesting. Here in Germany most ads feature healthy looking blue eyed blonde white families sitting in a field having a picnic to represent the consumer. The few ads featuring black people have them in straw hats playing the banjo (or similar stereotypical nonsense) to merely entertain the white families. And the asian people have big front teeth and glasses like on the bifi ad, and talk funny.

      I have never seen a mixed race family represented on German television ads, but you can on the Austrian channels.

      This was a huge shock compared to New Zealand where I come from, where advertisers go to extreme lengths to almost include one of each race in their ads.

      I cant decide which ones worse.

    132. Re:Less TV == more social by bkr1_2k · · Score: 1

      "...but trying to say something informative/insightful/funny in the eyes of others every time you post is definitely an exercise in understanding people, and thus an exercise in social skills."

      Maybe that's what I've been doing wrong. I don't post to be insightful or funny, I just post. I don't give a damn what anybody else thinks about what I have to say.

      --
      "Growing old is inevitable; growing up is optional."
  2. Major sideeffect... by Dragoonkain · · Score: 0, Funny

    SLASHDOT FP TROLLING!!!!

  3. 15.8hrs/week! by JohnGrahamCumming · · Score: 5, Funny

    That's more like my daily Internet use :-)

    I wonder what percentile the average /.er is in?

    John.

    1. Re:15.8hrs/week! by ndrw · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I wonder if they count time at "work" in this average as well? I'd be up to around 10 hours a day if so, but less on weekends (when I'm doing all that "socializing").

      I guess my average would be about 55 hours/week then. I bet there's people around here with a lot more though - and probably someone with more than 50 hours a week just on slashdot?!!

    2. Re:15.8hrs/week! by Slack0ff · · Score: 2

      Only people who are able to be online more then /.ers are probally pr0n addicts. I wouldnt be supprised if some /.ers Are over 50 hours a week.

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    3. Re:15.8hrs/week! by 3dLuke · · Score: 1

      well on average i spend about 10 hours a day on the internet so i guess that my usage is about 70hrs a week!

      --
      world's biggest red bull drinker
    4. Re:15.8hrs/week! by JohnGrahamCumming · · Score: 4, Funny

      > Only people who are able to be online more then
      > /.ers are probally pr0n addicts.

      Damn, my secret is out.

      John.

    5. Re:15.8hrs/week! by tedtimmons · · Score: 4, Interesting

      Also, what quantifies "internet use"? For this study, I'm assuming that means time spent in front of a web browser. Does ssh'ing into a linux box halfway across the world count? What if it's across the same city? What if it's under my desk?

      Does checking email count? What if I download my email and read it offline? What if I print out my email and then read it? (no, I don't do this, but I know execs that do)

      What if I'm at my computer, playing nethack, but I'm signed into Trillian?

    6. Re:15.8hrs/week! by Rallion · · Score: 1
      I wouldnt be supprised if some /.ers Are over 50 hours a week.
      Raises hand meekly
    7. Re:15.8hrs/week! by sonpal · · Score: 2, Interesting

      We should make this a poll topic!

    8. Re:15.8hrs/week! by ArmenTanzarian · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Often surveys will knock out answers too far outside of the mean as people who took the survey as a joke. I imagine we would fall into those categories that are eliminated because they're considered (by non /.'ers) too high to be factual.

    9. Re:15.8hrs/week! by grub · · Score: 1


      Damn, my secret is out.

      Oh? That's not your name but a statement?
      [rimshot]

      --
      Trolling is a art,
    10. Re:15.8hrs/week! by Creepy · · Score: 1

      Never met an Evercrack, er quest, addict, have you?

      My connection is always on... I'm online 168 hours a week!

      Seriously, it's probably closer to 30, much of it doing 'research' at work (like on Slashdot :)

    11. Re:15.8hrs/week! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's more like my daily Internet use :-)

      So that explains your pear-shaped mid-section, partially balding hair, greasy pasty white complextion, and lack of interaction with females (that are not your mom).

    12. Re:15.8hrs/week! by dopefish3 · · Score: 1

      I'm 17.
      I get on for about 30 minutes during free time during school, per day. I get home at lets say...2:30 and am online virtually non stop until 10PM (homework stop), so thats 7.5 hours. Total of about 8 hours per day. I sleep for about 5.5-6 hours so its still nice to know that during the week most of my time is still spent offline. (being about 10 hours). Weekends its more like 10 hours sleep, 10 hours net and the remaining sprinkled throughout.
      Its a social tool for me really. I'm not much of a talker offline, but online I have no problem getting stuff off my mind. However! I know I have to get out at some point during the day, my body/mind can't handle a lack of real human interaction.

    13. Re:15.8hrs/week! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What if your working as a sales rep, on a cash register, that uses the internet for credit card authorization, does that count? Also, if I'm on dialup instead of my T1 line, does time move slower for me?!

    14. Re:15.8hrs/week! by msimm · · Score: 1

      Trolling 55%
      Complaining 25%
      Resumbitting/Posting old stories 10%
      Bashing Microsoft 5%
      Bashing Linux users for bashing Microsoft 5%
      Goatse linking 5%
      Trying to think of something witty to post 3%
      Moaning about lack of voting choices 2.5%
      Reading stories links in main articles +/- 1%


      Submitting non-sensical posts with made up facts and off topic trivia? 110.5% +/- 1%

      Oh, wait, you didn't mean me specifically?

      --
      Quack, quack.
    15. Re:15.8hrs/week! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If pr0n addicts are able to be "online" for that long, they must be buying a lot of pills from spammers.

    16. Re:15.8hrs/week! by rusty0101 · · Score: 2, Funny

      Does ssh'ing into a linux box halfway across the world count? What if it's across the same city? What if it's under my desk?

      ssh into a box halfway across the world, across the same city, and under your desk only counts if you have opened a ssl vpn to your sdf account, sshed to the mail server then sshed to your pc to do a rsync of your /var/mail/spool/[$userid] mailbox.

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    17. Re:15.8hrs/week! by sofakingl · · Score: 1

      I use Mozilla Firebird as my main browser, and I almost always have a tab open with Slashdot in it. Thus, I'm on slashdot almost as much as I'm on the internet.

  4. 15.8 hours online per *week* ?? by tuxette · · Score: 4, Funny

    Amateurs! I know people who are on for longer than 15.8 hours per day!

    --
    People say I'm crazy, I got diamonds on the soles of my shoes...
    1. Re:15.8 hours online per *week* ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you count work I spend 8 + 4-6 hours online per day.
      sick sick sick
      -Scott

    2. Re:15.8 hours online per *week* ?? by michaelhood · · Score: 1

      We, as the most experienced internet users, have already gone through the peak of 15.8 hours per day and now LOATHE computers. ;) I'm thinking this study only includes hobby time or something? I'm on the intarweb 6*8/week at least.

    3. Re:15.8 hours online per *week* ?? by smacktits · · Score: 1

      Yes, and I am one of them. From uni to at home, I estimate my daily net* usage to be in the region of 17 hours.

      * = browsing, e-mail, SSHing, IM, IRC etc. Not just browsing, I get bored of that after ten minutes. unless it's /. of course ;D

    4. Re:15.8 hours online per *week* ?? by AllUsernamesAreGone · · Score: 1

      In which case you get bored after.. ah, sod it, can't be bothered..

    5. Re:15.8 hours online per *week* ?? by CFTM · · Score: 1

      Back when I used to MUD, there were weeks where I'd be on 17 hours a day, seven days a week, wow those were scary times. Now I just use slashdot to entertain myself at work when I have no work to do. Once I go home I don't really touch the net anymore, it got really boring to me. I think I'd rather go out with friends and drink beer ... wait a minute maybe the net WAS healthier

    6. Re:15.8 hours online per *week* ?? by hetairoi · · Score: 1

      most of my friends are on for about that per day. The admin's among us are generally using the net in some way for 8 hours at work and my friends still in college are playing Call of Duty or Unreal Tournament for a minimum of 12 hours/day. Of course, the rest of us usually join in after work. Does that count as social activity? I sure hope so, cause I rarely ever go outside anymore.

      FWIW, I have two pc's on my desk here at work to go with two T1 lines. At home I have 3 pc's doing various things (messageing, emule, bit torrent, web server, blah, blah, blah) but they can do their thing even when I'm not there. I also have a TV in sight that's always on and tuned to espnews but muted unless I see something interesting. Can you say 'information overload'? I knew that you could.

      --
      you're all figments of my deranged imagination
    7. Re:15.8 hours online per *week* ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's nothing, I think I've managed more than 24 hours in a day.

      Ah, daylight savings...

    8. Re:15.8 hours online per *week* ?? by odeee · · Score: 0

      When planetarion used to exist I was online 24 hours a day...

      What... it's back again... no-one told me that... oh well... sleep is over-rated anyway!

    9. Re:15.8 hours online per *week* ?? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Ha I'm online 24/7

  5. WTF?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    I spend approx. 6 hours in front of my computer after work. That's 42 hours/week.

    I multitask between a TV-card window, IRC, web and xterms.

    I bet this is yet another of those "if you drink more than 3 beers/day you're an alcoholic" crap studies.

    1. Re:WTF?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      I bet this is yet another of those "if you drink more than 3 beers/day you're an alcoholic" crap studies.

      If I drink more than 3 beers a day but *don't* go to meetings, am I still an alcoholic?

    2. Re:WTF?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Well, that's the difference between an alcoholic and someone who's just having fun.

      Alcoholics go to those stupid meetings.

    3. Re:WTF?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      umm dude, if you drink more than 3 beers a day you probably are an alcoholic.

    4. Re:WTF?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      And your source for this particular limit is...?

      Over here in Europe they recommend 2-3 beers or 1-2 glasses of wine per day.

    5. Re:WTF?! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Over here in Europe they recommend 2-3 beers or 1-2 glasses of wine per day

      Tell me about it! I spent a summer in Sweden last summer and I couldn't believe what I saw. Goddamn teenagers running blind drunk on the city streets every friday.

      No wonder your continent is going to hell both intellectually and morally.

  6. interesting results... by Schwartzboy · · Score: 5, Funny

    internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities.

    Next week, we'll hear that it's recently been discovered that internet users simply lie for the purposes of polls and statistics more than non-users do, and those that don't lie outright simply know how to crack the World Internet Project's records and alter their annual reports to be more favorable to the 'net-bound...

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    "Linux doesn't exist. Everyone knows Linux is an unlicensed version of Unix"- Kieren O'Shaughnessy
    1. Re:interesting results... by RebelWithoutAClue · · Score: 1

      Or maybe many people have _no_ idea how much time they spend online. I don't.

      --
      "However beautiful the strategy, you should occasionally look at the results" - Winston Churchill
    2. Re:interesting results... by snarkh · · Score: 5, Funny

      Right. According to a new survey of internet users, more than 50% of the surveyed lie on their survey questions.

    3. Re:interesting results... by tomhudson · · Score: 1
      internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities."
      Here's the real reasons:
      1. watch less television because they're glued to their computers. cheating on their spouses, etc. no surprise there
      2. read more books because they're constantly going through all sorts of manuals, guides for idiots, dummies, etc trying to get their frigging computer to #%$@# work!
      3. more social because they're using the net to pretend they're 30 years younger/100 pounds lighter trying to find a "social" life

      So how, exactly, was this news, or non-obvious?

    4. Re:interesting results... by TopShelf · · Score: 1

      Well, and who's not to say that the results weren't just made up anyway? Why rely on lying survey participants, when you can just make up the numbers yourself? That saves everybody a lot of time...

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    5. Re:interesting results... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      What counts as "more social"? If you have 80 people that you talk with on your contact list in your instant messaging client, does that count as much as social interactions with 80 people in real life? Or is there a certain ratio? I don't think that being social with 5 online people is equal to being social with 5 people in person.

      I telecommute and never leave my house. I am online approximately 90 hours per week and not only do I have zero social interactions in real life, I almost never leave my house (once every two months I guess). The only social internet people i know are ones who are already social in real life and merely use the internet as a means to contact those real life people more. Plus, lots of people hook up locally through local chatrooms. It's nasty and gross, but they do.

    6. Re:interesting results... by Llyr · · Score: 2, Interesting
      What counts as "more social"? If you have 80 people that you talk with on your contact list in your instant messaging client, does that count as much as social interactions with 80 people in real life? Or is there a certain ratio? I don't think that being social with 5 online people is equal to being social with 5 people in person.

      Also, should we really count all of the 80 people on a list when most of them lurk? Am I really talking to *all* members of Slashdot just now, or just the AC whose post I'm responding to?

      Probably somewhere in the middle, but it's also still not the same as having an actual conversation.

    7. Re:interesting results... by fishbonez · · Score: 4, Funny
      Mark Twain said, "There are three kinds of lies: lies, damn lies, and statistics." I think we need a corollary that covers surveys:

      "Surveys are lies compounded by statistics."

      --
      Frylock: That's not a toy!
      Master Shake: You say that about everything you own. You should own toys. They're fun.
    8. Re:interesting results... by SpaceRook · · Score: 1

      Next week, we'll hear that it's recently been discovered that internet users simply lie for the purposes of polls and statistics more than non-users do, and those that don't lie outright simply know how to crack the World Internet Project's records and alter their annual reports to be more favorable to the 'net-bound...

      I believe the results of the poll. When I surf the web, I'm constantly finding things I want to do. I get a million ideas for books to read, or projects to undertake ("Gee, a lot of people here mention PHP. Maybe I should check that out?"), or hobbies to look into. TV is all about keeping your ass in the seat. God forbid you turn off the tube for a little while. There is only group of stations that encourages you to think and read, and that is the C-SPANs.

    9. Re:interesting results... by blixel · · Score: 1

      Or maybe many people have _no_ idea how much time they spend online. I don't.

      That's a good indication that it's too much.

    10. Re:interesting results... by apatrick · · Score: 1

      In 1997 I published a study in Communictions of the ACM that showed the same results. Then we were studying a local FreeNet system and asking users what affect getting online had to the time that they spent on various activities. TV watching was the most reduced activity, following by sleeping and playing computer games (this pre-dates online games). Listening to the radio and socializing with friends (off-line) were the two activities that showed an increase after users went on-line. So if people are lying about their activities, at least they are doing it consistently.

    11. Re:interesting results... by WuphonsReach · · Score: 1

      While /. has it's downsides, it does serve as a useful place to:

      - get multiple viewpoints or background, reasonably quickly
      - check your worldview against others
      - find out if your writing style is flamebait / trollish / or reasonable

      The moderation levels are nice for clearing out the deadwood. I shudder when I go to a site like Groklaw / FPS forum / etc., see 200+ responses to a topic and know that half of them are going to be "me too!" posts.

      Now if someone would just invent a +2 filter for dealing with the public...

      --
      Wolde you bothe eate your cake, and have your cake?
    12. Re:interesting results... by peter_gzowski · · Score: 1

      The survey was as follows:

      How many times per week do you masturbate?
      a) 0: Too busy getting laid.
      b) 0: Too busy playing NetHack.
      c) 1: Every Sunday during Alias.
      d) >= 2: My Mom says it's natural.

      Results:
      68% answered a).
      31% answered b).
      1% wrote in to ask where the CowboyNeal option was.

      --
      "Now gluttony and exploitation serves eight!" - TV's Frank
    13. Re:interesting results... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If I had my own news show, instead of showing survey results day after day, I wouldn't even mention the results and I would only focus on its design and its hidden biases. Unfortunatly, surveys tell us more about the survey designer than anything else.

  7. Re:f post by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0, Funny
    i represent the 209 and since you failed it we just jumped you out which means we killed you and stole your bling.

    word is bond

  8. We've learned nothing. by Em+Emalb · · Score: 5, Funny

    The credibility of information published on the Internet also received a surprising boost.

    Despite the existence of countless spoof Web sites and message boards that carry oddball political rants, more than half of Internet users surveyed said "most or all" of the information they find online is reliable and credible.


    New medium, same gullibility.

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    1. Re:We've learned nothing. by kwpulliam · · Score: 1

      Actually - 90% of the information I find (and read) online I do consider reliable. If I didn't consider it so, why would I waste my time attempting to grok it. Perhaps this is a self fulfilling question. - What percent of your online reading / information gathering is useless? 1-5%? If it's greater than 10% then you need help with your BS detector.

    2. Re:We've learned nothing. by jdavidb · · Score: 1

      I would say the information I find online is reliable, but I wouldn't mean all the information. What I would mean is that I can usually find a reliable answer by looking in many places, comparing what I find, and evaluating their relative claims to try to get an idea of the truth. Whereas in previous mediums lots of "facts" known only by word of mouth were commonly presented as "truth," on the Internet there is usually somebody who actually does know the real truth that will surface in a Google search.

      I recently went looking for a webpage to confirm that "duck tape" is a corruption of the correct "duct tape" and was surprised to discover that I was completely wrong; the tape was originally called "duck tape."

    3. Re:We've learned nothing. by rzbx · · Score: 1

      I understand your comment was meant as a joke, but I'd like to add a little. It isn't only a "new" medium, but a different one. TV, Radio, Newspaper, Magazines, etc. are all mostly one way communication mediums and are as diverse as the journalists, reporters, editors, and others that work for that medium. The internet allows for more participation and a more diverse amount of information. Although people trust most of the information online, those same people trust older media probably as much if not more so. Unlike a newspaper or the television, if one has a question then they have the ability to look for answers almost immediately. Slashdot is a prime example of how much better this medium is compared to television and newspaper. Here we see many comments about articles, papers, or even products. Sure, much of it is redundant, uninsightful, or even completely unreasonable hate. We must all still remember that the internet is growing and we are still learning to filter out what we don't want or need. How many times have you read slashdot and found some comments more insightful than the article or maybe some comments disagreeing with some or all parts of what an article or paper says? We are all gullible at times, but at least on the internet we can ask questions and find answers that one medium simply can't answer.

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    4. Re:We've learned nothing. by graniteMonkey · · Score: 1

      I would say we've generally regressed, too.

      The primary reason for this is the cost of publishing a message. At least if you wanted to send garbage to people over mail/radio/tv, you had to pay a fairly substantial sum of money to reach your targets.

      With the internet, publishing is practically free, and the number of people you reach is based on getting your URL listed in Google or /., etc. It's really deplorable how many people will just believe whatever they read on the information super-thingy.

      The worst part is with e-commerce. Where I work, we regularly get calls from banks and people where the people actually went to our website, typed in their credit card number, insurance information, and pretty much anything else you could want, then FORGOT THEY DID IT!

      "I don't remember spending money at your site!"

      "WTF? Our company name was in your freakin' URL bar the entire time you were at our site!"

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    5. Re:We've learned nothing. by TimboJones · · Score: 1
      we regularly get calls... where the people actually went to our website, typed in their credit card number... then FORGOT THEY DID IT!

      Those people come in four categories:
      1. Those actualy affected by credit card fraud/theft (Yes, this does happen. I once found one of my credit cards maxed out with charges to an online bookie service, and I've never so much as put money in an office football pool.)
      2. Children who've stolen their parents' credit card
      3. Spouses who haven't communicated with each other about their online purchases
      4. Those who changed their mind about spending money on your service/product and figure lying is the easiest or most effective way out of paying.
      5. Those who can't count
    6. Re:We've learned nothing. by Blackhalo · · Score: 1

      I was inclined to call bullshit, but Google proved me wrong. I still find it hard to belive that some similar form of adhesive tape was not used before the military application and naming.

      --
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    7. Re:We've learned nothing. by jdavidb · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I was surprised, too.

  9. A Stereotype isn't accurate! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My worldview is shattered!

  10. More social? That's understandable... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...because when you spend 15.8 hours a week dodging The Hole, you tend to want to leave the house more often!

  11. How's this for a side-effect by sugapablo · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I got a wife and kid now. :) Met my wife on IRC 6 years ago. We now have our first kid and have been married 3.5 years. And I probably spend 10 hours a day online. :P

    1. Re:How's this for a side-effect by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      That's just wrong.

      People who meet girlfriends online have serious problems. And I sure wouldn't trust any girl that met me over the internet and hooked up with me, to not meet someone else and hook up with *them* over the internet. You're going to see MUCH MORE of this over the next 15 years. Too much temptation and everyone seems 10 times cooler online.

    2. Re:How's this for a side-effect by Lane.exe · · Score: 1
      I sure wouldn't marry a girl that I met in a bar then, because she might meet someone else at a bar and hook up with them! Or I won't date girls I meet at concerts/work/school/etc anymore because they might meet someone else there!

      Socialization is socialization bud. If they're gonna leave you for someone, it doesn't matter how they meet them.

      And I disagree with your everyone seems 10 times cooler online statement. Maybe when you're talking about gullible 14 year olds... but mature people know that the person on the other end could be a nutcase or a nerd just as well as they could be cool.

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    3. Re:How's this for a side-effect by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      And I probably spend 10 hours a day online

      Just pray you don't get an email that says "1 w4n+ 4 d1v0rz04z"

    4. Re:How's this for a side-effect by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny


      I got a wife and kid now. :) Met my wife on IRC 6 years ago.


      What a concidence! I met your wife on IRC 2 monts ago too!

    5. Re:How's this for a side-effect by Lenbok · · Score: 1
      We now have our first kid
      [...]
      I probably spend 10 hours a day online.

      Don't forget to spend time with the kid.

    6. Re:How's this for a side-effect by Slack3r78 · · Score: 3, Funny

      Ahhh IRC - where men are men, women are men, and women under 18 are FBI agents. =P

    7. Re:How's this for a side-effect by Svartalf · · Score: 1
      "Socialization is socialization bud. If they're gonna leave you for someone, it doesn't matter how they meet them."


      Just wanted to repeat that profound statement- far, far too many people do horrible things to each other in the name of "jealousy" or "protecting the one they love"...
      --
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    8. Re:How's this for a side-effect by sugapablo · · Score: 1

      Well geez dude. It's not like we chatted, I proposed, and she flew out for the wedding. We met in #pittsburgh. We chatted for a while. We started hanging out, seeing each other at #pittsburgh gatherings, dated for 3 years THEN got married. I met lots of people through #pittsburgh actually. What the hell is wrong with that?

    9. Re:How's this for a side-effect by nlindstrom · · Score: 1

      I met my wife on ICQ, when we lived on opposite sides of the United States. I'm a UNIX admin, so I spend 90% of my day online. My wife is a financial consultant, and spends a great deal of her time online. We routinely chat during our work days via Jabber. I rarely watch TV, but am an avid reader -- as is my wife. We typically read one to two paperback novels apiece during a given week, and I'd say Netflix is definitely edging out broadcast TV when we do watch the idiot box.

    10. Re:How's this for a side-effect by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Most people stop hanging out in bars so much after they're hooked up and married. Wouldn't your wife be a little curious if her husband was running out to a singles-scene/meat-market a couple times a week where the entire goal of the evening for 95% of the people in it is to hump each other on the dance floor, get drunk and go back to someone's pad and screw?

    11. Re:How's this for a side-effect by dreamchaser · · Score: 1

      Hello fellow Pittsburgher. I live in the North Hills actually. I also met my wife online. We started as friends and didn't get romantic until we'd met in person and friendship turned into more. We've been married for over six wonderful years now.

      She wasn't a computer geek really, but she worked at a University so had Internet access before most non-geeks did. I'm glad she did!

  12. Re:I PLAY STAR WARS GALAXIE IN TEH NUDE!!~1` by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    How is this a troll? I'd say it certainly qualifies as a "Social Side-Effect Of Internet Use".

  13. hmm by Joe+the+Lesser · · Score: 4, Funny

    do D&D sessions count as social gatherings, cuz if so then sure, this works.

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    1. Re:hmm by ch-chuck · · Score: 1

      D&D sessions count as social gatherings

      or time spent in your quake clan? I've been getting back into quake and trying to improve team play in capture the flag game, approx 1.5hr / night.

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    2. Re:hmm by Have+Blue · · Score: 1

      Does playing Diablo 2 count as D&D?

    3. Re:hmm by EverDense · · Score: 1

      do D&D sessions count as social gatherings, cuz if so then sure, this works.

      To answer that, first I have to ask this question:

      "Are there going to be girls there?"

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  14. TV by jhines0042 · · Score: 4, Interesting

    I watch less than 1 hour of TV per week. Unless I or my wife are not feeling well. Then it goes up to an hour or two per day.

    Most of the rest of the time we are working, sleeping, cleaning the house (laundry etc), hanging out with friends, reading books, watching movies, pusuing a hobby or playing games.

    The Internet gives us the content we want, when we want it, where we want it. TV just can't do that.

    --
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    1. Re:TV by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      watching movies counts as watching tv.

      if you are looking at the boob-toob then it counts as TV.

      Unless you have a 35mm projector,screen and big cans of film laying around your house.

    2. Re:TV by Milo+Fungus · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Same here, but even less. We don't even have a TV in the house. No need.

      Not only does the internet give you "the content we want, when we want it, where we want it," but it also makes it much easier to avoid the content you don't want, when you don't want it, and where you don't want it. There is a lot more violence and sex on TV now than there was just a few years ago when I was a teenager, and a lot of it is in commercials. That's not as big of a problem on the web, especially if you use Mozilla with AdBlock, and have it set to block popups. I almost never see anything I don't want to see while browsing around.

    3. Re:TV by theNeophile · · Score: 1
      I almost never see anything I don't want to see while browsing around.

      You must be new here.

    4. Re:TV by jlleblanc · · Score: 1

      You must be new here.

      Or he just browses at +2.

    5. Re:TV by sik0fewl · · Score: 1

      The Internet gives us the content we want, when we want it, where we want it. TV just can't do that.

      Then order the playboy channel. Duh.

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      I remember when legal used to mean lawful, now it means some kind of loophole. - Leo Kessler
  15. True... True by locutus_borg · · Score: 0

    I believe this to be true in MMORPGs. People seem to be more social, granted you have to sift through the... "1 4M L33T H4X0rZ!!!!! STFU n00b!!!!" types. If we could just to away with those people the internet would be a much better place.

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  16. Geeks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Geeks run the Intarweb. Everyone else is a "user".

    1. Re:Geeks by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Geeks run the Intarweb. Everyone else is a "user".

      Watch out for TRON. He fights for the users.

  17. usage by 3dLuke · · Score: 0, Redundant

    "15.8 hours online per week" I spend that amount of time a day reading slashdot!

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    world's biggest red bull drinker
  18. Geeks are now networked recluses by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    Apparently they are suprised to hear that internet users are more social than non-users: internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities.

    Hmmm. I guess computer geeks still sit in empty darkened rooms. It's just that they're in contact with hundreds of others while they're sitting there. Counterintuitive but makes sense.

    Pretty cool.

  19. Not surprised. by LowTolerance · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I used to be an anti-social geek until I discovered the internet. Upon discovering how easy it is to communicate with people when not face to face, I learned to like people and interact with them. I was able to hide any apprehension, and by subverting this I gained real confidence in myself. This of course translated over well to the real world, and now I consider myself a people person. And no one thinks I am a geek. So this article comes as no surprise to me, and I'm sure that I'm not the only person in this boat.

    1. Re:Not surprised. by ParadoxicalPostulate · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I agree.

      Although I consider my self to be fairly competent when it comes to conducting myself socially IRL, when it comes to meaningful discussions the net is the way to go - even when I am talking to people I know IRL.

      From my observation, the biggest reason your confidence gets boosted when on the net is because you don't have to worry about the person's initial reaction - i.e. you don't see facial expressions, hand movements, etc. Thus, you are not continuously evaluating your "speech" to see if they care. That leaves a lot more room for confidence and attention to what you do mean to say.

    2. Re:Not surprised. by dustmote · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yeah, this roughly parallels my experiences. I had already run into a lot of the common pitfalls of the social experience, via flamewars and the like, by the time I was ready to interact with people. Most of the growth then required was personal growth, rather than interpersonal. Well, more of it than I would have thought, anyway. I wonder if this is the new generation of geekdom, some sort of change in the traditional isolation? Doesn't seem to help love lives much, but most of the geeks I know nowadays have fairly large social support networks, as opposed to my non-geek friends.

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    3. Re:Not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Interesting. *I* have found that internet people (the more social ones) tend to be sluttier, more promiscuous and more desperate. I'm an internet person but I would never want to build a friendship with someone I met first on the internet and I would ABSOLUTELY NEVER form a "relationship" with a woman that I first met online.

    4. Re:Not surprised. by justMichael · · Score: 4, Funny

      ...I learned to like people...

      Do you have the URL for that HOWTO?

      I've been trying for years to like people and it just seems tougher than finding a decent ATI driver for X11 ;-)

    5. Re:Not surprised. by Monoliath · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I agree with you as well. I wont go as far as saying that I was once an anti social person and the internet changed that, because that isn't my case, but I can say that interacting with people across the internet is much easier than in the real world, like someone said in a post above, you don't have to deal with all of the external social scrutiny that takes place in a first time physical meeting. On the web, the interaction is purely mental, it?s almost as if it's more of a direct connection between two minds, because only language is the medium of communication, words to be more specific (body language, voice tones, facial expressions can't be mis-interpreted, because they're not there in the first place)

      On the other hand, this also creates a much larger problem, the issue of authenticity of the interaction from the ground up. In reality, we all use those conversational elements such as vocal tone, facial expressions and body language to judge the credibility of the communication, and how true it is, because this is the only character information you can gather from them at the time (apart from the actual conversation), coming from the individual. Of course, both of these scenarios would apply best to someone you're meeting for the first time, if it's someone you know, the process for calculating the credibility of what you're hearing becomes much more complicated; variables such as how long you've known the person, if they lie a lot etc, come into play.

      While the internet has made it much easier to interact and meet new people by shedding the stigmas of the social world, it also provides a much better mental rock to hide behind when wanting to swindle or mislead individuals in any case.

    6. Re:Not surprised. by Have+Blue · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Plus, you get much more time to think about what you're going to say. Ever been in a real-life conversation where the other party tolerated a 20-second delay in your response?

    7. Re:Not surprised. by jdavidb · · Score: 1

      I met my fiance online. It was good to communicate only through text the first month or so we knew each other, and our online socialization carried over well into real life when we met each other.

      Even still the Internet is a valuable part of our communication, like the telephone is to some people. In fact, I just sent her a link to this article. :)

    8. Re:Not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I consider myself a people person. And no one thinks I am a geek

      How would you know? You haven't left your Mom's basement for 6 years!

    9. Re:Not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      From my observation, the biggest reason your confidence gets boosted when on the net is because you don't have to worry about the person's initial reaction - i.e. you don't see facial expressions, hand movements, etc.

      Sounds like Asperger's to me...

    10. Re:Not surprised. by eatdave13 · · Score: 1

      Someone with Asperger's wouldn't likely notice the quick facial expression changes that are what would worry a socially nervous but otherwise normal person. Read before you post.

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      "Verbing weirds language." -- Calvin
    11. Re:Not surprised. by ashitaka · · Score: 1


      It's a link on the site for the Like Yourself HOWTO.

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      If you don't want to repeat the past, stop living in it.
    12. Re:Not surprised. by jonasj · · Score: 1

      Yes, I have.

      --
      You know, Microsoft's street address also says a lot about their mentality.
    13. Re:Not surprised. by nlindstrom · · Score: 1

      You are also often granted the time to carefully weigh and formulate an answer, and not be interrupted or have the topic abruptly changed on you. This various of course, depending on the communication medium. IRC is probably the worst, and e-mail the best; IM technologies would fall in the middle, IMHO.

    14. Re:Not surprised. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      HOW TO Like People

      In order to like people you must first realise the following-

      1. Most people are okay, i.e. not psycho-/-socio-paths, most will not do or even wish you any harm.

      2. Most people are uninformed and unable to justify much of what they think in a logical coherent manner, that's not to say they are stupid, unable to learn or think, they just havent been presented with the opportunity to learn how, this is something that has been picked up by many people from Noam Chomsky to George Soros, these people can be helped, if you want you can invite them round to warch a Matrix and Manufacturing Consent double-bill one evening.

      3. Most people believe things, whether or not there is evidence for them, do not bother arguing, only try to realise the truth, you have an advantage, being the evidenced based geek you are.

      4. People, are more interesting to hack than computers.

      5. Girls are people too (see 4)

      6. You can learn from everyone, even the real screw ups, even if it's how not to do things.

      7. Relax, they are (mostly) harmless.

  20. backwards? by tedtimmons · · Score: 2, Interesting

    So do internet users read more, or do readers watch less TV?

    What a surprise. Some people want more intellectual stimulation than TV provides. Not that South Park and the Daily Show aren't intellectual, but they aren't exactly on the same level as Jared Diamond's "Guns, Germs, and Steel".

    1. Re:backwards? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Jared Diamond's "Guns, Germs, and Steel".

      Well that depends on your perspective. Diamond is now a geography prof at UCLA and has the "hot" session at the AAG every year just on name alone. Unfortunately, his research is very euro-centric and a bit too "pop." The line to gut him in Q&A is out the door.

    2. Re:backwards? by tedtimmons · · Score: 1

      euro-centric? Are we talking about the same book? The majority of the book talks about studies of the pacific islanders. If anything, he's trying hard *not* to be euro-centric.

    3. Re:backwards? by metulj · · Score: 1

      Not that South Park and the Daily Show aren't intellectual, but they aren't exactly on the same level as Jared Diamond's "Guns, Germs, and Steel".
      Bad geography from a good writer. Not unlike Robert Kaplan's "Balkan Ghosts" in its "wornoutness." The research Diamond did for that book is like shooting fish in a barrell. Of course, we must remember that the New World gave us syphilis. So, I guess is was right for all Europeans to head East. Damn those Arawaks are bio-terrorists to be eradicated!

    4. Re:backwards? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think that comment was meant "in general" by the previous AC. James Blaut even wrote a book called "8 eurocentric historians" and put Diamond front and center. Anyhow, Alfred Crosby (The Columbian Exchange) made all the points that Diamond made 30 years ago. Any pop geography is usually WAAAY off from where the research is today. 60 minutes had a piece on landscape reading. Umm, that's classic Carl Sauer from the 30s. Snore.

    5. Re:backwards? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Of course, we must remember that the New World gave us syphilis. So, I guess is was right for all Europeans to head East.

      I think you mean 'west'. And you have to be reaching really hard to read GGS as European apologetics.

    6. Re:backwards? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No, he's right. Syphilis has it's origins in the New World. The first epidemic of the "French Disease" hit Southern Europe in 1493 and "the weeping pox" was unheard of before the Columbian contact (See Alfred Crosby). As for GGS as European apologetics, I think what is meant is that Diamond has been heavily criticized for a lot of his work as being Euro-centric. Mainly, it carries a particular tone that people outside of the discplines he works in wouldn't notice as being, well, just plain old school. Environmental determinism is one charge. Europeans were destined to be great by their geography. The alternative isn't as sexy (dumb luck and good guesses) because of all kinds of culturally hegemonic understandings we practice (sometimes without thinking). It really smells like Samuel Huntington. Yikes. "Clash of Cultures." Now that's hard hitting stuff....

    7. Re:backwards? by metulj · · Score: 1

      Yes. West! Arbitrary-ordained-by-the-pope horseshit anyhow! ;-)

  21. Aware of Current Events by TekZen · · Score: 5, Interesting

    I would be really interested to see a study seeking to find a link between internet usage and awareness/involvement in current events.

    Many of my friends who aren't on the internet very much are always asking me what's going on in the world. Though I am not sure if it is internet users or memigo users.

    -Jackson

    1. Re:Aware of Current Events by KFK+-+Wildcat · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Strange, it's kind of the opposite for me.

      I used to watch news on TV and read the papers, now I browse most of the time.
      I have good knowledge of tech news and important international events, but I find that I'm not really aware of local news anymore. In fact, "local" here means anything from the city to the country (Canada).

      The information is available, it's just that I don't really care much...

    2. Re:Aware of Current Events by WuphonsReach · · Score: 1

      The closest I get is because I use My Yahoo! as a home page and the (3) nearest big cities all have newsfeeds. But I agree, I'm well up on national/global news, but pretty sparse at what's going on 2 blocks from here.

      I never watched local news, but back when I wasn't working from home I'd stop at a local diner on the way to work and always read the morning paper. Haven't read a newspaper in probably 2 years now, maybe 3.

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      Wolde you bothe eate your cake, and have your cake?
  22. Internet use is commonplace by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Apparently they are suprised to hear that internet users are more social than non-users: internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities.

    Ummm... duh? Internet users = people who have enough money to afford a computer and internet service. Internet is no longer some kind of geek activity, everyone uses it these days. It's no surprise.

    1. Re:Internet use is commonplace by Llyr · · Score: 2, Interesting
      Also, the use of the internet is causing all sort of people to identify themselves as "geeks" just due to their internet/chat use (it's finally cool to be a tech geek, so alll sorts of people call themselves one even when all they're doing is chatting and downloading files). This skews the statistics.

      However, it should also come as no surprise that internet users read, and talk to each other.

    2. Re:Internet use is commonplace by Wedge1212 · · Score: 1

      I hate when people do that. they're definately not geeks if they use the internet purely for social interaction. Or the people who thing the world wide web is teh intarweb. They also think IE is the internet :)

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    3. Re:Internet use is commonplace by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well geek is one of those words that will fluctuate especially as things change.

      People sometimes say they are "geeked out" when they are on drugs such as cocaine.

  23. Nothing to see here! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Quick, slashdot them before the general public finds out that all of our geek stereotypes are false!

  24. More social? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How does long internet use makes the user more social? On what? IRC chatting? I would only consider social activity as something physical or face to face, not just stting in front of computer typing away.

  25. Education by eille-la · · Score: 1

    If you think internet or anything cause bad social-side effects to society, you simply have to improve the education level about the "problems" in the schools, at every levels. It may not be easy, but why not fix the problem at its root? Lets adapt us to the changes.

  26. Uh Oh... by Wheaty18 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    If the 'most experienced' internet users spend an average of 15.8 hours a week online, what the hell does that make me? (Most Experienced)?

  27. But some conversations... by HepCatA · · Score: 1

    I don't watch much TV anymore, as I spend time on the net and watching DVDs. But it seems that worktime lunch conversations always start up about some TV show and how funny it was. Shows like ...shudder... Friends.

    It's sort of fascinating to see everyone light up and talk about something familiar such as last night's TV programs...

    1. Re:But some conversations... by dustmote · · Score: 1

      It's the great normalizer, or it used to be. Did you ever notice how the kids who didn't have TVs in their homes when they were growing up were socially out of touch with the other kids? Same with most of the homeschooled kids. I think television is pretty crappy entertainment for adults, but for kids I think it's part of what joins them together in a common culture. Up until very recently, it was this way for adults, too. Still is, in some circles. I still have those conversations at work, mind you, and I always wince when they come up.

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      -1, "1337" speak
  28. is this so surprising? by Metallic+Matty · · Score: 4, Insightful

    Mostly this article just reinforces what I already knew about myself and my online associates. Honestly, the whole geek image has been one of stereotype since the beginning. Not everyone who uses computers and goes online frequently has thick glasses and no girlfriend, sitting around playing EverQuest all day. (This isn't an attack on EQ players, I am one.)

    Most of my friends who can be found sitting behind their computer all day watch little to no television, and spend a great deal of their time reading (I personally find e-books easier to read than real books, and do so often.) I would say the internet is a far better medium to immerse yourself in than television or radio.

    1. Re:is this so surprising? by ParadoxicalPostulate · · Score: 1
      I personally find e-books easier to read than real books, and do so often.
      Same here. I have a library on my hard drive, literally.

      The only thing you have to watch out for is the eyes. Sometimes I'm forced to get off just because my eyes can't take it anymore.

      But yeah, the main reason to get on the internet is information. Even people that start off as pure gamers eventually move on to being newsgroup/forum type people in some respect (i.e. slashdot).
    2. Re:is this so surprising? by Saeger · · Score: 1
      I have a library on my hard drive, literally.

      As do I, but it depresses me that this is more information than I can absorb in a couple lifetimes without the aid of near-future intelligence amplification technology.

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    3. Re:is this so surprising? by obnoximoron · · Score: 2, Insightful

      > Honestly, the whole geek image has been one of stereotype since the beginning. Not everyone who uses computers and goes online frequently has thick glasses and no girlfriend, sitting around playing EverQuest all day.

      Do you realize that you just replaced one stereotype with another. Not everyone wearing thick glasses and/or with no girlfriend is a geek.

    4. Re:is this so surprising? by Rysc · · Score: 1

      I remember the pristine moment when I realized, to my dismay, that I had accumulated such a backlog of downloaded information (which I had not been keeping up with) that if I devoted myself to it as a full time job it would take me /years/, upwards of a lifetime, to read/sort through it all.

      That's when I adopted my current methodology: Save local copies of fewer things, hit the highlights unless it really interests you. There's just not enough time in the world to know it all.

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      I want my Cowboyneal
  29. Social side effects? Nothing more serious than a.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...craving for more cowbell.

    I got the fever.

    Walken

    Teh Spoke.

    Boo-yah.

    Out.

  30. Liars by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 4, Funny

    Who is really going to answer 'I sit unwashed in a darkened room masturbating and hitting refresh entirely too often.'

    P.S. Reading books is not a social activity. What exactly are these unspecified 'social activities?' Is posting to message boards considered 'social.'

    1. Re:Liars by mph · · Score: 1
      Reading books is not a social activity.
      Yours is the second comment I've seen that implies that the article refers to book-reading as a social activity. It does not. It lists three different ways of spending time (watching TV, reading books, engaging in social activities).

      If it said that Internet users eat fewer beans, sleep later, and mow the lawn more often, would people think it was saying that sleeping was a kind of lawn-mowing? I don't see what's so confusing about the sentence.

    2. Re:Liars by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny
      Who is really going to answer 'I sit unwashed in a darkened room masturbating and hitting refresh entirely too often.'

      Damn, I thought I was the only one. And should I go into details about how tabbed browsing of Mozilla has considerably improved my life?

    3. Re:Liars by warpSpeed · · Score: 1
      If it said that Internet users eat fewer beans, sleep later, and mow the lawn more often, would people think it was saying that sleeping was a kind of lawn-mowing?

      I guess that depends on what you mean by "mowing the lawn"...

    4. Re:Liars by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I sit unwashed in a darkened room masturbating and hitting refresh entirely too often.

      Best Regards,
      Anonymous Coward

    5. Re:Liars by GoofyBoy · · Score: 4, Funny

      >Who is really going to answer 'I sit unwashed in a darkened room masturbating and hitting refresh entirely too often.'

      I bet if this was on a slashdot poll this option would the overwheming winner.

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  31. Social... by MP3Chuck · · Score: 5, Funny

    "internet users watch less television,"
    Download the episodes...

    "read more books"
    And/or lots of Linux docs...

    "and engage in more social activities"
    Do LAN Parties count?

    1. Re:Social... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hell YEah! that's me all the way. Linux doc after Linux doc, plus a little slashdot... some literature about SCO... i've never read so much in my life before.

    2. Re:Social... by nlindstrom · · Score: 1
      From what I've gathered in talking with non-geek friends, acquaintances, and coworkers, atypical "social" activities would include:

      Going to a bar with >= 1 friend of the same sex (getting injured in a barfight, and/or getting sufficiently drunk to vomit on your friend, are all considered 'male bonding experiences.'

      Getting so drunk with >= 1 friend of any sex that you can't remember the rest of the evening, or even of driving home that night.

      Going with friends to watch a gaggle of baffoons chase a little white spot all over the greensward (viz., Golf)

      The above, but actually chasing said white speck all over the grass

      Going with friends to one of those ridiculous events wherein you pay good money to sit on an exposed terrace, with the sun baking your brains, while watching a tiny collection of distant humans -- no larger than ants from you elevation -- engage in some kind of frippery involving a sphere or ovoid that two logical groups are insistent upon removing from the other's posession

      Going with friends to observe a group of fools race their cars 'round a track, when one could enjoy more speed and carnage merely by standing next to a given stretch of Highway 17*

      Etc, etc, etc.

      * A highway which runs south of Silicon Valley to Santa Cruz in California, known for its idiotic drivers, frequent accidents, widely-ignored speed limit, insane switchback curves, and sheer dropoffs.

      Oddly enough, going on a date does not seem to count as a "social activity", I would assume since it tends to exclude other parties from the activities. However, a double-date might count. Going to a Star Trek convention does not count. Going to the Opera does, and generally grants you at least +5 Charisma with all female companions.

  32. Sounds like a USA Today graphic by AmosOtis · · Score: 1

    What is the definition of a "the typical Internet user?" Seems like if they define it as people who have regular access to the 'net, then they're talking about people working in offices rather than, say, at McDonald's...

  33. Of course they are more social by Savatte · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Everyone uses the internet. This includes both social and unsocial people. The internet has a much wider and broader appeal than say, reading books, which may not appeal as much to kids and teenages.

  34. shouldn't be TOO surprising by Tumbleweed · · Score: 4, Funny

    Unlike TV, you have to at least be able to READ to get much out of the Internet. :)

    1. Re:shouldn't be TOO surprising by miyako · · Score: 4, Insightful

      I know the parent poster was intending to be funny, but I think there is a lot of truth to the statment.
      At least in the social ciricles of which I am a part , or an observer of, there seems to be a sort or line by which you can divide people into two groups. The first group pride themselves on intelligence, or at least in learning about new things, keeping up with world events, and in general being well rounded people. The other is the group which prides themselves on ignorance, these are the people who are proud that they cannot set the clock on their VCR. It is the former group which I think tends to spend more time online, seeing it as a valuable resource for information and for the communication of ideas in an open forum (be it IRC, newsgroups, /. or whatever), this is the same group which tends to read more often, and whatch less TV. The latter of the groups, while not illiterate (at least not the majority), seem to think that there is a finite amount of thinking they are born with, and are being very careful not to use it all up. This group is unconserned with expanding their own horizons, and as such have little use for the majority of the content available on the internet. It is this group which tends to spend more time watching TV, which provides a form of entertainment(if you can call most tv entertaining) that requires very little thought.
      It seems to me that everyone has some amount of time is spent non-socially. It is this time which those intent on learning and the like spend on the net, and those content to live in a happy stupor spend watching TV. Of course the average net user spends less time on the net than the average TV viewer spends watching TV because the net user has more options available to him or her. For those wishing to use their brain as little as possible, the majority of that non-social time can be spent watching tv, movies, and thats about it. For the group who likes to learn and expand their mind however, the choices for that non-social time include being on the internet, reading, drawing, playing music, and a number of other artistic or challenging activities.

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    2. Re:shouldn't be TOO surprising by Rysc · · Score: 1

      You're more or less right.

      When I started using the net, at the ripe old age of 15, I was a lousy speller and a worse typist. My reading was fine, because I found a use for books, but I had never previously had occasion to do anything with writing.

      Enter chat rooms. Trying to keep up with fast-flowing lines of chat whilst simultaneously not making too many embarrassing mistakes taught me (1) to spell well (2) to type fast.

      I can honestly say I wouldn't be the irrating english nazi I am today without the internet.

      (Note: Any spelling mistakes herein which make me sound extremely foolish are not germane. The other thing I eventually learned in those chat rooms was (3) nobody cares how you spell, except the english nazis. So now I don't bother to be careful.)

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    3. Re:shouldn't be TOO surprising by myklgrant · · Score: 1

      Most insightful post on this story. We often lose sight of the fact that being on the Internet is reading. 5 hours a day on the Internet might seem excessive, but it is actually 5 hours of reading (or writing - as now). Any reading is good.

    4. Re:shouldn't be TOO surprising by Fr33z0r · · Score: 1
      seem to think that there is a finite amount of thinking they are born with, and are being very careful not to use it all up. This group is unconserned with expanding their own horizons
      Every time there's a major boxing match on, I go round to my best friend's dad's house with my friend and his brother to watch it, we're in the UK so the fights don't normally air here until the early hours of Sunday morning (like 4am) so we go round on Saturday night for beers first (their parents split up when they were really young, and they stayed with their mum most of their lives - so it's always nice to go round and catch up with his dad).

      Anyway... I think it was the night of the Lewis/Tyson fight, we were all sitting around listening to music comfortably drunk at around 2am, just waiting for the fight to come on and chatting, I like to think I'm pretty smart, as is my friend, but his brother definitely falls in the category you defined in your post, and blessed us with one of the best, and dumbest quotes ever...

      My friend put on a Starsailor CD, and his brother had never heard them before, and having his inhibitions (and motor functions) substantially reduced by the alcohol he started enthusing over how much he likes listening to new music, telling us "I've been trying to listen to as much different music as I can lately, I'm getting fed up of listening to the same old stuff so I've been listening to as wide a variety as possible"

      To which his dad prompted, "Oh yeah? Broadening your horizons?"

      Fantastically, his response was "No, I've never heard of them, are they good?"

      Oh how we lolled.
  35. Whew!! by Neurotoxic666 · · Score: 4, Funny

    the most experienced internet users spend an average of 15.8 hours online per week

    I read "offline" the first time. I thought it was an okay average...

    And actualy, I think the it's the time we spend offline that socialy affects us. I mean, how can your friends contact you if you're not on MSN??

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  36. In my case... by blixel · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Apparently they are suprised to hear that internet users are more social than non-users:

    internet users watch less television
    .. True

    read more books ... True

    and engage in more social activities. ... Definitely false. Unless IRC and Instant Messaging is now considered a social activity.

    1. Re:In my case... by mattdm · · Score: 1

      In what way are IRC and Instant Messaging *not* social activities? Unless you're spending all your time interacting with bots, I mean.

    2. Re:In my case... by Radish03 · · Score: 1

      Unless IRC and Instant Messaging is now considered a social activity.

      I consider any activity where people are interacting with each other a social activity. Using irc, IM, a phone, they're all pretty much the same thing. Even when a bunch of my friends and I meet up for a game of starcraft, it's very much a social activity, not that much unlike all of us heading to one person's dorm to hang out and play risk or monopoly.

    3. Re:In my case... by blixel · · Score: 1

      In what way are IRC and Instant Messaging *not* social activities? Unless you're spending all your time interacting with bots, I mean.

      I guess there is just something about sitting at my computer in my pajamas, typing text messages to people that lacks the "social" feeling I use to get when my girlfriend (now wife) and I would invite our friends over to our house for an evening of backyard BBQ, music, dancing, and of course drinking.

      But that's just me.

    4. Re:In my case... by Chibi · · Score: 1
      and engage in more social activities. ... Definitely false. Unless IRC and Instant Messaging is now considered a social activity.


      While I think online interaction is a form of social interaction, I don't think people should use it as a substitute for interaction in the real world. I think, sadly, there are quite a few people that place more value in an online relationship that they really should. Not to say online relationships are no good, but they just lack something.

      I once told a few friends online that my dog had run away (we eventually found him thanks to his tags), but having people try to console me with "/me hugs Chibi" and ":((((((((((" just seemed kind of shallow (but well-intentioned) to me.

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    5. Re:In my case... by Jin+Wicked · · Score: 2, Interesting

      and engage in more social activities....

      This can be true for many. I know it is for me. I was always a bit of a hermit and have had a hard time meeting people I got along with enough to spend much time with, but since I started using things like livejournal and instant messaging, it's resulted in being involved with several groups of friends that I know very well, and we go out and do things like get coffee, shoot pool, and just hang out. I regularly go out and have lunch to meet new people, other artists, writers, whatever, that I've encountered online. So I am definitely more social now that I participate in many online communities. Most of them translate over into "real world" relations quite easily.

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    6. Re:In my case... by blixel · · Score: 1

      I consider any activity where people are interacting with each other a social activity. Using irc, IM, a phone, they're all pretty much the same thing. Even when a bunch of my friends and I meet up for a game of starcraft, it's very much a social activity, not that much unlike all of us heading to one person's dorm to hang out and play risk or monopoly.

      I agree with the latter part of your statement but not the former. Getting together with your friends for a night/weekend of Starcraft is pretty social. I agree with that.

      But IRC, Instant Messaging, and talking on the phone are all "unattached" forms of "socializing". They *can be* just fine as long as they don't completely replace you actually getting together with your friends and doing other things. (In fact, for day to day stuff, I definitely prefer unattached communication.) But completely replacing normal communication is what I was getting at. And that is what has happened in my case. I moved out of state so I no longer see my friends 1 on 1. We still stay in contact every day of our lives via IM'ing but it's just not the same as getting together and going to see a movie and then hanging out at Denny's afterwards until sunrise. Or having a bunch of people of mixed gender over to the house and drinking yourselves stupid. Or getting together and going to an amusement park. Etc...

      I never realized that for the most part all of the friends that you will know in life have been determined by the time you are about 16. I've met new friends since I was 16 but they have come and gone. But my closest friends that I've known since I was 14 or so are the only ones I still stay in touch with to this day. Unfortunately they are all 1,000+ miles away now.

    7. Re:In my case... by jdavidb · · Score: 1

      Is drinking a social activity? Because as near as I can tell, every member of the online Perl community except Damian Conway enjoys getting together often for drinks.

    8. Re:In my case... by blixel · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Is drinking a social activity? Because as near as I can tell, every member of the online Perl community except Damian Conway enjoys getting together often for drinks.

      I think "getting together" is one of the key things in determining what is social and what is not. (Though getting together is not in and of itself the sole determining factor. Joining a monastery isn't exactly a social thing.)

      But sitting in front of your computer in your underwear for 12 hours a day in an IRC chat room just doesn't seem to qualify as a social thing by the common sense definition of the word. Maybe some people are so completely introverted that they want to believe that IRC is social. I guess that's fine if it works for them. But I miss the days when I would hang out with my friends out in the real world, doing real things away from the computer.

    9. Re:In my case... by mattdm · · Score: 1

      Sure, it's *different*, but it's still social. The barbecue, drinking, etc., is nice and all (personally, I'll all for it) but that doesn't mean chatting online can't be social too.

  37. "Book-reading" social activity? by 0x0d0a · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I'm just curious -- unless you're, say, a parent reading to their child, how exactly is book reading a social activity?

    1. Re:"Book-reading" social activity? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0


      > how exactly is book reading a social activity?

      You do it while someone else holds your cock.

    2. Re:"Book-reading" social activity? by happyfrogcow · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I'm just curious -- unless you're, say, a parent reading to their child, how exactly is book reading a social activity?

      Book reading as a social event:

      Read a book. Tell your friends what you thought of it and if they should or should not read it. Once they read it, or even while they havn't finished it yet, discuss the book. I have a book I read a few months ago. I finished it and passed it along to a friend. Each of her parents read it, and her friend and mother read it as well. We've talked about it a lot of random times.

      In the event that you don't have any book reading friends, find a book club or hang out at a bookstore. Books can be catalysts for socializing.

    3. Re:"Book-reading" social activity? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Can I get an AMEN brother! The two make for an excellent combination.. except that munchies always seem to come at the most interesting part of the book.

    4. Re:"Book-reading" social activity? by Fr33z0r · · Score: 1

      And there are a huge number of occasions where I've discussed TV shows with my friends, when I go out for beers with one of them we invariably end up playing "Simpsons Trivia", trying to think of questions the other peson can't answer (we're both big fans).

      I guess in that respect it's Books:1, TV:1. A dead heat.

  38. meh...I don't like the outside world... by greymond · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I watch very little tv (no pre-set shows i watch/like)

    I read books often (1 every month or so)

    I only "go out" on weekends

    I spend the majority of my time at work chatting online and surfing the net, then I come home and play FFXI.

    Why should I go outside? I get hay fever or cold or could get in an accident. It's not warm enough to use the pool yet, and the jacuzzi is nice, but I get cold when I get out.

    I think i'll just stay in and continue my life.

    1. Re:meh...I don't like the outside world... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Is that you Woody Allen?

    2. Re:meh...I don't like the outside world... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > I read books often (1 every month or so)
      That is not often! Most of my friends (admittedly most of my friends were met through SF circles) read several books a week: I'm the most illiterate, taking two or three weeks to finish a short genre novel.

    3. Re:meh...I don't like the outside world... by chrisbro · · Score: 2, Informative

      This article actually goes into the science and statistics of people who are like you - who are risk-averse and might actually end up worse because of it. It's an interesting read, even if you don't agree with it - sort of goes along the same vein that the only way to get the most out of life is to not do the things that you do ;)

    4. Re:meh...I don't like the outside world... by kwpulliam · · Score: 1

      A book once a month is often?

    5. Re:meh...I don't like the outside world... by Tralfamadorian · · Score: 1

      That would depend on the books he reads.

    6. Re:meh...I don't like the outside world... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      I read books often (1 every month or so)
      Damn, it must be easy on the wallet limiting yourself to a book a month. My bibliophile habit is a book a day, plus comics once a week.

      Damn, I wish they would find a cure for sleep. It's a chronic, debilitaing disease and needs to be stamped out. I don't care that it's normal. Dying is normal and I don't want to do that either!
  39. EQ by AndreyF · · Score: 1

    does EQ count as socializing?

    1. Re:EQ by mcflaherty · · Score: 1

      EQ counts as socializing in the same way hanging out in bars with other alcoholics does. That being said, can I bum a SoW?

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    2. Re:EQ by AndreyF · · Score: 1

      lol /agree

  40. Extra extra! by pogle · · Score: 1

    Net users aren't lusers! Multinational study confirms what most everyone already knows! Overrated geek stereotypes shattered! Everyone will forget this shortly however!

    Frivolity aside, I am confused by the increase in 'trusted' content perception of most people surveyed...as the 'net has grown larger, most geeks trust less and less of the content, in my experience. The more that any old Joe is allowed to just throw online, the higher the signal to noise ratio goes...

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  41. 90% of people masturbate... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...and the other 10% are so busy masturbating to the internet that they couldn't be bothered to respond to the survey.

  42. hmm, strange. by JavaLord · · Score: 1

    If anything since I was first "online" in 1993-4. I've slowly become less social. Of course, aging from 18-28 can do that also I guess.

    Anyone else think the internet in general has made them less social?

  43. Internet TV Time by rogabean · · Score: 1

    hmmm how do they figure in all the time I spend watching Internet TV stations while on the web? I may only watch 1 hour (or less) of regular TV every few days, but i easily log 25+ hours of Internet based TV a week. does that count as TV time or Internet time?

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    1. Re:Internet TV Time by AKAImBatman · · Score: 1

      I've heard other people talk about Internet TV, but I haven't seen any concrete examples yet. And sites like IFilm are really just collections of clips. What Internet TV stations do you watch?

    2. Re:Internet TV Time by rogabean · · Score: 1

      alternative.nu is one i watch regularly. actually if you install winamp it actually will give you a list of stations running that work with winamp (alternative.nu not being one)

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    3. Re:Internet TV Time by AKAImBatman · · Score: 1

      I'm surprised you spend that much time with these. Alternative.nu looks like an online MTV station, and last I checked, the Winamp stations were simple video loops of stuff that people thought would be cool to put online. Has something changed?

    4. Re:Internet TV Time by rogabean · · Score: 1

      alternative.nu is kinda like an online MTV in some respects. but I dont have cable either ;) i also watch alot of news stations online. the winamp example was just that an example. most of those are just loops with the exception of maybe the NTV J-Pop station. I actually watch that one quite a bit. But once again, kinda like a MTV only its Japanese music. the thing about the Internet TV stations is when good ones go up with good programming, they typically go broke fast.

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    5. Re:Internet TV Time by rogabean · · Score: 1

      those without cable cant be too picky ;)

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    6. Re:Internet TV Time by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      those without cable cant be too picky ;)

      Sure you can. Pretty much any TV actually worth watching (and a lot that isn't) is on the Net.

  44. parameters? by kobaque · · Score: 1

    I read through the article but didn't notice, Is this on personal time, or does this include all the salary time spent on sites like /. appearing to be the productive worker?

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  45. Side-Effects of Internet Use by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    34% of the survey respondent's palms were so hairy, the #2 pencils could not be properly gripped. Velcro pens were substituted in those cases.

  46. I am not suprised by KD7JZ · · Score: 5, Interesting

    This is the same effect that has been discussed here often. Heavy internet users are likely to be people who are interested in life. They want to learn, do new things, try new things, know how things work..

    1. Re:I am not suprised by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Or... heavy internet users are more likely to spend 12 hours a day in The Sims Online, Everquest, Ultima Online, AOL chat rooms, IRC...

  47. Dewey Defeats Everquest! by wondafucka · · Score: 2, Funny
    Obviously if they can't interview evercrack addicts because they are stuck in a timesink, their opinions can't be included in any statistic.

  48. Does sitting on my hand... by FatSean · · Score: 0

    ...so that it goes numb and feels like someone else's hand count?!

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    1. Re:Does sitting on my hand... by eatdave13 · · Score: 1

      The Stranger doesn't count, but The Reverse Stranger does.

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      "Verbing weirds language." -- Calvin
  49. correlation does not imply causality by superwiz · · Score: 1

    It merely suggests it. This is becoming an all-too-common scientific "proof" today. Just because 2 things occured at the same time doesn't mean that one caused the other. This is as ridiculuous as finding out that 30% of people who are depressed use social drugs to cope with their depression and then reporting that 30% of drug users are depressed. The misinformative part of this kind of reporting is in that the depression caused the drug use not the other way around.

    How is this at all related to this article? It is entirely possible that people who are already social use Internet as a more effective way to communicate with people they would socialize with ragardless of whether the Internet was there or not.

    News reporters (read communication: majors who couldn't hack a real degree) love these kinds of reports since "gluing" two types of events with a simple correlation statistic prevents them from having to actually research and try to understand what are the real roots of the problem/behavior/event that they are reporting on.
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  50. What about both? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

    I wonder if they considered people who both surf the net and watch tv at the same time?

  51. Is is adjusted for SES ? by rcastro0 · · Score: 5, Insightful
    Apparently they are suprised to hear that internet users are more social than non-users: internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities.
    This leads you to think that if you surf the internet you become more prone to social interactions and you read more books. However all of these things are probably related to something else.

    The article is not clear about it, but I would guess they did not adjust for Socio-Economic Segments (SES). SES would reflect mainly an individual's income and education level.

    Internet usage of course begun in the higher SES levels (having started mainly in the academic world) -- and has ever since penetrated more the top levels than the bottom ones (this has in turn given risen to the term digital divide). On the other hand, guess which SES reads more books and has a richer social experience ?
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    1. Re:Is is adjusted for SES ? by unsung · · Score: 1


      Yep. Plus, I really don't know a single person who doesn't use the internet. In fact, a 15.8 hours/week user covers just about anyone who works in an office environment. Hard laborers are the only ones who may not make the cut.

  52. Dorks of the Internet, Unite! by imadork · · Score: 1
    Well, it's all official but for the Netcraft survey: there are no true geeks left on the Internet. *GEEK is dying, or something like that.

    All of us Dorks on the internet need to unite -- form a union or something -- lest we suffer the same cruel fate!

  53. New study shatters Internet 'geek' image by dswensen · · Score: 1

    New study shatters Internet 'geek' image

    Let's get one thing clear right now... if you researchers think that's going to stop or even slow down the tide of 'virgin comic book guy living in his parent's basement' jokes around here, you are sadly mistaken!

    We won't let you destroy our beloved tradition!

  54. LAN Parties by c0bw3b · · Score: 1

    It seems like any time I have a couple of people over to hang out at my apartment, at some point everyone whips out their laptops to check email, livejournal, slashdot, IM other people in the room suggestively and surreptitiously, etc. I guess this could be considered a LAN party, though we're not playing Quake...

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    1. Re:LAN Parties by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I guess this could be considered a LAN party, though we're not playing Quake...

      Don't kid yourself. You are just a bunch of dorks.

  55. 15.8 hours online per week by Pyrosz · · Score: 1

    Is it a problem when I have spent more time online than that, just today?

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  56. more stats by lonb · · Score: 2, Funny
    "...average of 15.8 hours online per week"

    Let me break down further:
    0.1 hours shopping on eBay
    0.2 hours deleting spam
    0.4 hours reading /.
    15.1 hours spent looking at pr0n

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    "Ain't I a stinka..." - Bugs
  57. Shouldn't it say ... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Instead of "read more books", shouldn't it say "read books"? I'm not an avid reader but I've managed to read at least 1 book per month for the last few years. (A few years back I set that as a goal for myself after realizing I hadn't read a book in years.)

    But most people I know (including my past self) don't even read 1 book in a year. They aren't illiterate or anything. They read bumper stickers, billboards, and the menus at a fast food place, but actually picking up a book and reading it for "entertainment" is unthinkable.

  58. 16hrs per day (I win! =) by B5_geek · · Score: 5, Funny

    Yeah, I am in the same ball-park.
    16hrs per day (sitting in front of a PC)
    = 112hrs/week

    I wonder if that includes all the remote boxes I have going at once.

    4 SSH sessions to other servers running 24x7
    2-3 ftp sessions d'loading shareware ~ 12 hrs/day
    NewsBin D'loading newsgroups = 24x7
    BitTorrent = 24x7 (x 3 computers)
    email client is running 24x7
    various coding and design stuff = 4hrs/day

    All total I am responsible for 232Hrs/day of computer use. Man, I need a nap. =)

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    "The price good men pay for indifference to public affairs is to be ruled by evil men." ~Plato (427-347 BC)
  59. Internet Stats by mfisher · · Score: 1

    Its in my opinion a internet user is more socialy inclined then a non-internet user because of the popularity of IM Chats and IRC.. There is more of a personal social life on the internet nowadays then before and that is carried to the real life too.

  60. Binge-drinking frat-boy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    Let me guess.

    A binge-drinking frat-boy regurgiating (=spouting, for you low-brows) a joke you heard somewhere?

    1. Re:Binge-drinking frat-boy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I know I shouldn't feed the trolls, but not all frat-boys are binge-drinking asshats. In fact, most are outstanding guys and it's likely that you're just jealous of us.

    2. Re:Binge-drinking frat-boy by Vindicator9000 · · Score: 1
      I know I shouldn't feed the trolls, but frat-boys' assuming that others are jealous of them is a major cause of the asshat reputation that they as a group receive.

      /me prepares for the inevitable -1 Offtopic

  61. Less G. W. Bush == More Democracy (+1, Patriotic) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    Space: The Final Frontier or What's Between
    G. W. Bush's ears.

    Thanks in advance,
    Kilgore Trout

  62. internet users are more social by whathappenedtomonday · · Score: 1
    you mean, internet users as opposed to /. folks? come on! start reading at -1 by habit, you'll see what i mean.

    "Most Internet users generally trust the information they find online"

    now, if that doesn't explain a LOT :)

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  63. Geezuz! by msimm · · Score: 1

    There are only two types! Internet users and TV users. Aren't you paying attention?!!

    ;-)

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  64. Correction on URL: (+2, Hyper-patriotic) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0


    That should be G. W. Bush

    Again, thanks,
    Kilgore

  65. wooo by Eluding+Reality · · Score: 1

    I guess that means we /.ers are in a whole league of our own... we are off the chart of internet use!
    15.8 hours a week?? Yup that sounds about right... if the world ends at midnight one Monday that is.

  66. This fits me well... by antdude · · Score: 4, Interesting

    ... because I have a speech impediment so I can't communicate verbally very well. Internet and BBS were a big welcome to my life. I rarely even use telephones and don't need TDD devices anymore.

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    1. Re:This fits me well... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      iintersteringly, i have the oppossitte problem.

    2. Re:This fits me well... by davidmacq · · Score: 1

      What is TDD Time Delay Device? Do you suffer from stuttering? :)

      Just kidding, don't hit me!

  67. That's pretty spot on by Phoenix · · Score: 1

    What I read in the article is pretty dead on to who and what I am, since becoming an active member of the 'net community. I don't watch much in the way of TV anymore as most of it is crap. I read books (John Ashcroft would be shocked). I have an active social life.

    I do performing arts, I'm in the SCA, I 'hang out' with my friends.

    Thus stands the reason of the difference between the concept of the 'nerd' and the 'geek'.

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  68. read more books? by zontroll · · Score: 1

    "Apparently they are suprised to hear that internet users are more social than non-users: internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities."

    Since when is reading books a social activity? Also, just because you watch less television doesn't automatically make you more social. There is definitely a disconnect in the logic of that statement -> 2/3 of supporting statements don't have anything to do with the original premise.

  69. Looking at ourselves as we are by HWheel · · Score: 1

    A number of years ago in a statistics class, we discussed sampling methods. When a completely valid sample of users were asked how often they brushed their teeth and how much toothpaste they used, the extrapolated result would have almost doubled the actual sales of toothpaste. We really want to brush twice a day with a big gob of Crest (and read two books a month and watch less TV - I won't go into how Tivo might affect these numbers - and socialize with our friends, neighbors, and families for two hours a day, etc.), but good studies have ways around these "rate yourself" responses and "adjust the numbers." I can't tell if this has been done for this study.

  70. No kidding! by ShockerFan · · Score: 1

    I read the article on cnn earlier today. I was especially surprised at the gender gap in Italy. I could just picture an Italian guy chasing his ragazza away from the computer while shouting "Cara, perche vuoi romperi i coglioni?"

    Besides, there are so many other social consequences to the Internet, or as farkers call it, teh Intarweb. For example, how many of us would have ever heard of The Shocker were it not for our beloved Internet?

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  71. HA! by Tanlis · · Score: 1

    I think this requires a nice "Kiss my Ass" to any who used to mock us that spent a large amount of time on the net.

  72. *I* am an individual by sam_handelman · · Score: 1

    Unlike you sheep, I watch a lot of television, print is dead, I never leave my apartment and I have no friends.

    In your *face*, you frauds!

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    The good and new comes from no quarter where it is looked for, and is always something different from what is expected.
  73. see? by pizza_milkshake · · Score: 1

    i told my parents i'm way more social locked in the basement on the computer 16+ hours/day but they didn't believe me!

  74. JohnGrahamCumming? by John+Courtland · · Score: 1

    Then it's not just a clever name? (with apologies to Wayne's World).

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  75. That sir, is bullshit by m4g02 · · Score: 1

    As an average Internet addict i must say... Please tell me where can I download social life!!!

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    Sigs are for morons... Wait a minute...
  76. Trust the information by mj2k · · Score: 1

    "Most Internet users generally trust the information they find online," he wrote via e-mail... I guess should've ordered that official MIT nuclear engineering diploma for $14.95 offered in that email a couple a months... But damn I must've deleted it. I guess now I'll have to go back to class next week. So much for the easy way...

  77. Also, More Democracy == Less Bush by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    Dubya has done one good thing during his presidency: He taught me that it is very, very important to VOTE!

    Don't be caught napping this November, people!

    1. Re:Also, More Democracy == Less Bush by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      it is very, very important to VOTE!

      Indeed it is. It is very important to vote for him.

  78. don't affect me by Vinnie_333 · · Score: 1

    lol. me & my ppl are on da net 24/7. I nevar notice no effect (IMHO) ;-)

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    "We shall party like the Greeks of old! You know the ones I mean." - HedonismBot
  79. Books are not by default better than TV by Slightly+Askew · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I get so tired of this assumption that just because a person reads a lot, they are automatically more intelligent. I happen to read quite a bit, but I know people who spend way more time than most people watching TV, yet are very intelligent. Specifically, I know of a college professor that could out debate anyone on Crossfire, and does nothing all evening but watch History and PBS.

    Also, what's with the assumption that any reading material is automatically more valuable than any television show? I can learn more watching 30 minutes of TLC, Discovery, A&E, Biography, History Channel, or PBS than I can in spending three hours reading whatever trash Oprah is recommending this week. I do agree that reading increases vocabulary, but I would also argue that television is much more conducive to other areas of learning, as it delivers its message via sight and sound.

    As for the social aspect, many of us are forced into social situations all day long. We do not need to spend our times outside of the office, carpool, school, college, whatever to increase our social skills. However, we do need "alone time" so that we can regroup and prepare for the next day.

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    1. Re:Books are not by default better than TV by StarManta · · Score: 0

      Specifically, I know of a college professor that could out debate anyone on Crossfire, and does nothing all evening but watch History and PBS.

      ....Congratulations, you've proven that someone who watches a lot of TV is smarter than a certain other part of TV.
      That's like saying Checkers players aren't stupid because they can beat other checkers players.
      Not put them in a debate with someone who's NOT dumb enough to go on TV.

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      StarManta
      I don't think BMW has ever complained about their 2% marketshare. Neither has Apple.
    2. Re:Books are not by default better than TV by greg_barton · · Score: 1

      It's not TV watching per se that can be detrimental. It's how you react to what you watch.

      If you stick your average TV watcher up to an EEG and read their alpha wave state, the brainwave generally associated with imagination and mental imagry, you generally get a virtual flatline. Do the same with someone reading a book and you get lots of activity.

      Now, that doesn't mean that you can't use your imagination while watching TV. It just means that you don't have to. Reading requires you to create your own mental image of the events depicted. TV does not. Thus, while watching TV you don't have to exercize your brain, and we all know that if you don't use it...you lose it...or never gain it in the first place.

    3. Re:Books are not by default better than TV by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Books/TV/movies/other media... all just a means of communicating information. Each has its advantages and disadvantages.

      Books force you to use your imagination... great. One of the disadvantages of books is that you are restricted to your own experiences. TV/Movies allow you to experience somebody elses imagination which can be exciting and force you to rethink things. ie Tim Burton's approach to Batman, very dark, very different from most people's views.
    4. Re:Books are not by default better than TV by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      TV is great for when you don't want to think.

      If you don't understand, you may be a humanities major.

    5. Re:Books are not by default better than TV by greg_barton · · Score: 1

      I understand completely. I'm a computer programmer. :)

  80. What's "hours online"? by cicho · · Score: 1

    When I was on a metered dial-up, I would (a) connect, get email, download usenet news, (b) disconnect, read and respond to email and news, gather URLs for some sites I wanted to browse, (c) reconnect, send email and usenter f-ups, download and save web pages, (d) disconnect...

    How long was I "online"? Does the time reading and responding to email counts? Or was it just the relatively short time I was physically online?

    Now that I have cable, I am physically online as long as I'm awake. But I spend more or less the same amount of time reading and typing up email and news, or reading web stuff.

    Am I "online" while wget is spidering a website for me, does that count? Or does the time I spend reading some of the already-downloaded stuff count as me being "online"?

    Other than that... what's this "television" thing? I wish articles explained terms that might be new to people.

    --
    "Only the small secrets need to be protected. The big ones are kept secret by public incredulity." - Marshall McLuhan
  81. Baloney by tmark · · Score: 4, Informative

    De novo, given the penetration of the Net into most of the countries surveyed, I'd say the results as presented would mean nothing.

    But given that the survey comes from an Internet advocacy group (from their site : "the originators of this project believe that the Internet ... will transform our social, political and economic lives"), I'd say the results mean even LESS than nothing. I doubt such a group would put out a study saying "heavy net users are social outcasts".

    - it's nearly obvious that a person who spends 15 hours on the Net a week would spend less time watching TV - if only because that person has less hours in his day to do so. Let me see TV-watching statistics as a proportion of free time NOT spent on the Net.

    - it's also obvious that Net users are more affluent, which correlates strongly with having better paying jobs and with having higher education levels, just like say, owning a BMW. So it's more likely they're going to spend more time reading, because i) they're more likely to be literate, ii) they're more likely to need to read as a function of their work. Let me see what Net usage looks like for owners of different cars, and then let's argue about what these statistics mean.

    - because of an nearly implied level of affluence, people who can afford a Net connection are also likely to have more leisure time in general than non-Net users. It's hard to be out there socializing when you're a blue-collar joe working two jobs to make ends meet for your family of six. Do you think such a person spends much time on the Net ?

    This study is useless as presented, and I frankly don't believe it. Just look at all the TV-related love-ins (Farscape/Tivo/STTNG/Futurama/etc.) here and ask whether you really believe Net users watch more TV ON AN ADJUSTED BASIS than non-Net users. The problem is that specification of a Net user is confounded with all sorts of variables.

    What I want to see are numbers that show hours of "social" activity related to leisure hours NOT SPENT ON THE INTERNET. I bet they'd tell a different story. I'd bet that heavy Net users spend FAR less time doing socializing/exercising/being outside than people who use the Net moderately or less.

    1. Re:Baloney by StarManta · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      Let me see what Net usage looks like for owners of different cars, and then let's argue about what these statistics mean.

      Okay, here's a good first nugget for you: I have a '90 Toyota Camry, light blue, desperately in need of a car wash.
      I spend very nearly every waking moment I'm not in class online - most days, that's upwards of 14 hours.
      I think what you were hoping for is that better car = more internet? I think I've single-handedly demolished that claim... oh wait, there's more. Of the first 4 friends of mine to pop into my head:
      1) '91 Camry, spends all of his free time online, probably about 8 hours a day
      2) No car, spends all his free time online.
      3) No car, spends all his free time online.
      4) No car, spends about 5 hours a day online.

      Now what point WERE you trying to make?

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      I don't think BMW has ever complained about their 2% marketshare. Neither has Apple.
    2. Re:Baloney by StarManta_2 · · Score: 1
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  82. Obligitory Breakfast Club Quote by HMA2000 · · Score: 5, Funny

    John Bender: So it's social then. Pathetic and sad... but social.

    1. Re:Obligitory Breakfast Club Quote by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You know what's even worse.. You are using the internet and yet you cant even check your own quotation for correctness... Using the net might not make you more or less social, but it has made some people far too lazy.

      It's "It's social. Demented and
      sad, but social."-John Bender (The Breakfast Club)

  83. Easily by appleLaserWriter · · Score: 1

    I'm not sure how that makes your point. If you replace an hour of TV with an hour of the Internet, you haven't exactly gained time for social activities...

    If I want to find out what is happening in the world, it takes half an hour of CNN headline news to find out. The remaining half hour might be spent looking for something else to watch. It takes less than five minutes to catch up on Slashdot, CNN.com, Plastic, Kuro5hin, Metafilter, and Fark. Give 10-15 more minutes to read some articles and I still have half an hour to send email and instant messages to my friends.

    The key here is the email and instant messages. With TV, there is no bidirectional communication. On the internet, I'm often messaging people who live across the street and across the world while I'm browsing CNN.com or slashdot.

    1. Re:Easily by rifter · · Score: 1

      'm not sure how that makes your point. If you replace an hour of TV with an hour of the Internet, you haven't exactly gained time for social activities...

      If I want to find out what is happening in the world, it takes half an hour of CNN headline news to find out. The remaining half hour might be spent looking for something else to watch. It takes less than five minutes to catch up on Slashdot, CNN.com, Plastic, Kuro5hin, Metafilter, and Fark. Give 10-15 more minutes to read some articles and I still have half an hour to send email and instant messages to my friends.

      The key here is the email and instant messages. With TV, there is no bidirectional communication. On the internet, I'm often messaging people who live across the street and across the world while I'm browsing CNN.com or slashdot.

      I'm sorry, but there is absolutely no news on CNN headline news anymore unless you count Britney's new album and Michale Jackson's Prince Albert as news. Almost 100% of their time is now taken up by advertisements for Time Warner AOL products including their "news." Also, whereas BEFORE AOL took over CNN's format was to put an entire line of news from headlines to sports in 30 minutes, that is no longer the case. Now they will typically give you 2 hours of teasers that they might actually tell you something useful and important and if they actually ever get to that story it will be a restatement of the teaser blurb and no more.

      Their ticker is the height of annoyance. It usually has more interesting news than the ads the newscasters spout, but there is no more data. Check cnn.com and there is still no more data. I find CNN is too frustrating to watch though cnn.com is okay for news.

      Incredibly, FOX is now the only channel that actually gives realtime news anymore and usually reports NEWS, not new products. Granted they are biased as hell on purpose, but at least the freaking DATA are there. They will report stories that CNN will never pick up that are relevant and important, while CNN tries to grok that new videogame from some Time Warner subsidiary.

      CNN is now officially slower than SLASHDOT and less informative! This is pretty bad. For instance they just finally picked up TODAY on the story that pirated movies on the net are frequently leaked screeners. There is no excuse for that given their primary line of business.

      I try to read the bbc and cnn websites as often as I can, and slashdot. But I think eventually I am going to get together a list of alternative news sources and put them in some sort of rotation. Maybe I could script it or something so the news just displays automatically on the screen one story after another.. oh wait. :)

  84. "Truth" vs Reality by DaytonCIM · · Score: 1

    Apparently they are surprised(sp) to hear that internet users are more social than non-users: internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities."

    Is it fact that Internet users are more sociable or is that just how people filled out their questionnaire?

  85. Bad statistics? (Probing education level) by gnalle · · Score: 2, Insightful
    I cannot access the new report, but here is a pages with some of their former reports: 2000 -2002. My impression is that you cannot conclude very much from these reports. Let's take the US 2002 report as an example. They have collected data from 2000 households in America. Using these data they can compare the households with internet access to households without internet access.

    The problem is that internet access is correllated to education level. Furthermore a person with a high education will tend to read more books. In other words it is not very surprising if internet users read more books. Similar arguments can be applied to many of the other conclusions in the report.

    In conclusion this report does not tell us if internet use changes the life style of a person.

  86. Social Side-Effects Of Internet Use? by Autonomous+Cowherder · · Score: 0, Redundant

    Pretty obvious isn't it? Wankers wrist!

  87. It makes perfect sense. by Loopy · · Score: 1

    Sitcoms are populated by people with a dizzying array of strange and/or disturbing personality traits. Most regular folks are...well, regular folks. Once you get away from the barrage of inanity that is regular network (and to some extent now, cable) TV and start participating in and paying attention to the unfiltered goings on of the REAL world (NOT "REALITY" TV, FOR THE 'TARDS AMONG US), you gain a much more well-rounded perspective on nearly everything. No wonder it seems like internet users appear more knowledgeable and sociable.

    When Dan Rather tells you George Bush is a homicidal maniac bent on purifying the world in holy nuclear fire so he can buy more oil for his deer-antler-adorned SUV fleet, what other TV channel will present the opposite viewpoint? [crickets...] That's what I thought. On the internet, however, a quick Google search will turn up any number of alternate viewpoints and probably evidence to support each of them.

    1. Re:It makes perfect sense. by PhxBlue · · Score: 2, Funny

      When Dan Rather tells you George Bush is a homicidal maniac bent on purifying the world in holy nuclear fire so he can buy more oil for his deer-antler-adorned SUV fleet, what other TV channel will present the opposite viewpoint?

      Fox News, of course! They're Fair and Balanced(TM), right?

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  88. Did anyone else notice by nelsonal · · Score: 4, Interesting

    How much more popular radio was with experinced users than non users, in almost every case, radio was much more commonly used, more important to older (been online a long time not age) interent users than noobs. Either the old guard loves Rush, or it's just something that doesn't require eyes, but that is odd. Who'd have thought that an older technology would benefit from the rapid adoption of a newer one leaving the middle tech aced out.

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    1. Re:Did anyone else notice by odin53 · · Score: 1

      Well, it looks like radio is more popular for experienced users as an information source, and less so as a source of entertainment.

      I think this makes sense. The more educated people are, the more they use the Internet. NPR and other sources of talk radio seem to be much more popular among the more educated. Thus the correlation.

      I wonder if there's another reason lurking in the shadows: that the more one uses the Internet as an information source, the more likely one is to be addicted to the constant information flow, and thus, the more likely one one will listen to information-rich radio (at least in situations where you can't get to the Internet). In other words, most of the time, certain people will opt to use the Internet rather than watch TV for news, but when they can't get either, and they need their information fix, they'll listen to the radio. Frankly, that's what I do -- I couldn't even bear driving to the grocery store without at least checking what's on NPR and the AM news stations.

      BTW, of all the radio (i.e., NPR) listeners I know, none listen to Rush Limbaugh. Everyone listens to NPR.

    2. Re:Did anyone else notice by nelsonal · · Score: 1

      I know I listen to AM radio while I surf, I didn't think about NPR either it makes sense, I was surprised that I wasn't the only one. The only other surprise to me was the big increase in very conservative users this year (2001-2002 12%-23%), odd that it would be the only real change and would happen so quickly, possibly sept 11 related, depending on the timing of the studies.

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    3. Re:Did anyone else notice by roman_mir · · Score: 1

      Interesting. I almost completely stopped watching TV over six months ago, don't even have a set. I do, however, listen to the radio talk shows all the time that I am driving. Of-course these talk shows are the best for driving - you do not have to look at anything, yet you are getting various info and opinions, many times I call into the shows, even tonight... (Mark Elliot show, Toronto, CFRB 1010). I have been on the net for nine years now.

  89. I want to see by Cyno · · Score: 2, Funny

    A study of the social side-effects and environmental impact of commercialism and capitalism.

  90. Yet still.... by verbatim_verbose · · Score: 1

    Somehow, nobody is suprised that internet users can't spell.

  91. but being online is a social activity in itself! by graveyardduckx · · Score: 0

    It's a global community! Full of online dating junkies, IRC whores, AIM whores, Yahoo whores, ICQ whores, and MSN whores. Thanks to these great people I still have a social life while working third shift! God bless the internet for helping my social life!

  92. According to GW Bush... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    It makes you the "mostester experienced"!

    Wonderful how our wonderful new language is able to handle these situations, isn't it?

  93. If it's not social... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    What is it? Is it just you typing text and sending it into oblivion, getting unexpected packages of chocolate back through the wormhole?

    I think it IS a social activity, because you're not just talking to yourself... Well... Unless you're logged in twice on your IM client and talking to yourself...But then you're just weird.

    Ah, but not as weird as I am, because I'm actually talking to myself!! Bwahaha.... yEs.... o_O

    1. Re:If it's not social... by blixel · · Score: 1

      What is it? Is it just you typing text and sending it into oblivion, getting unexpected packages of chocolate back through the wormhole?

      Blah ... read my other replies. I've already answered why *I* don't think it's social in the common sense definition.

  94. Well Duh! by SomeOtherGuy · · Score: 3, Insightful

    Apparently they are suprised to hear that internet users are more social than non-users: internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities."

    That's because I can find out anything RIGHT now by clickety clicking....rather that sitting in front of my TV and listening to the sound bite commercials from the news channells all night waiting to "find out at 10..."

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  95. HowTo: Stay aware of local events by TekZen · · Score: 1

    I use feedster to search for Nashville (where I live). It has become part of my daily browsing. I learn all kinds of things about what is going on in my area this way.

    Hint: Add a google news feed of a search for your local to feedster and you get all the google news stories too. Don't know how to get a RSS feed of Google News? Check out gnews2rss.

    -Jackson

  96. Lesseee...time on internet per week by Kickstart70 · · Score: 1

    Even discounting work-time (8 hours of internet per day, 5 days per week), I spend 5.5 hours per weekday and about 8 per weekend day. That makes 27.5 + 16= 43.5 hours!

    Keerist I'm a geek. I need to get out more.

  97. No, but... by Svartalf · · Score: 1

    ...unless you're hopelessly addicted to the Internet, like many people are with the Boob-tube, the one hour is less likely to translate into two, three, and so forth. With TV, people tend to veg-out and keep watching and watching and watching.

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  98. Yes. by Svartalf · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I was one of the people arranging social events via Chrysalis, one of Dallas' premier bulletin board systems in the days before the Internet took over.

    Met my wife that way... :-)

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  99. Communication... by Garwulf · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Well, the Internet is sort of a good news/bad news situation when it comes to communication and being social. The good news is that it allows you to do it far more frequently. The bad news is that it doesn't allow you to do it terribly well.

    If you actually break down communication, only about 25% or less is actually verbal. This makes it very difficult to tell the subtext of what somebody is saying.

    For example, let's say you're chatting with somebody and they type "I REALLY like you." It could be enthusiasm...or it could be sarcasm. The two would look identical on the screen. Inflection becomes very important (and makes up about another 25% of communication).

    To make matters even worse, another 50% or more is body language. If the body language isn't there, even the inflection can fail.

    When you're on the 'net, all you have is the verbal component. So, you can communicate with far more people than you would be able to otherwise, but the odds of making a true connection are actually quite slim - you just don't have enough information to really do it.

    (Aside from which, when it comes down to it, when you're chatting on the 'net, or typing something into a forum, you're still sitting by yourself in front of a keyboard. There is something missing.)

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    1. Re:Communication... by Bigman · · Score: 1

      Well, as someone who has spent a lot of time in chatting to people over the years (Hey I was on Compu$erve!), I can say I have made many friends online, many I've met, talked to on the phone, or exchanged letters with. I've even had relationships with girls I've met online. You do get a connection.. with someone you talk to a lot you get to understand what they're saying subliminally by the way they type. Some of my friends I can spot in a chat room even when they're using a different name, by the way they chat. I can tell what mood there in, even if they're trying to hide it. In my experience we all reveal far more about ourselves by the words we choose and the way we use them than we realise.
      Like in most walks of life, online you get out what you put in. If you can't be bothered to put in the effort to 'know' someone then you never will. That applies if you're hanging in chatrooms, bars or classes.
      The biggest problem with the detachment of online chat is people tend to be more aggressive than they would be IRL. It's easier to try to appear cool by cutting other people down than to actually be cool by listening and appreciating other peoples opinions may have some value, even if you don't agree.

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      *--BigMan--- Time flies like an arrow.. but personally I prefer a nice glass of wine!
  100. What does online mean? by T-Ranger · · Score: 3, Insightful
    I have a DSL connection at home, and I work from home. My router/firewall/server and desktop are always turned on. I always have a copy of mozilla running, and evolution is up most of the time.

    Does that count as being online 168 hours a week?

    If Im working on some programming project for, say a 4 hour streach, and Im flipping back and forth to a browser pointed at some online documentation, does that count as 4 hours online? Or (pulling a number out of my ass) is only 10% of that online?

  101. Or not... by Abcd1234 · · Score: 2, Insightful

    ... doing a survey of the population of Internet users is more than a little selective. I'd guess Internet users are probably also better educated and more affluent. Does that mean the Internet *made* them more educated and affluent? No. It means more educated, affluent people use the Internet. The same goes here. *shrug*

    1. Re:Or not... by cavac · · Score: 1

      > ... doing a survey of the population of Internet users is more than a little selective. Did you notice: Most of the countries they surveyed are currently re-running at least 3 of that annoying american-style no-plot-whatsoever soaps made in the early '80 (like Dallas, Falcon Crest, AL Bundy). Of course nobody WANTS to watch TV anymore. Well, there are still the news, but they should be more correctly named "scarry olds". Like "guess what, Bush is attacking another country ... again *sigh*" or "guess what, some fella from a country we can't pronounce died of a mysterious illness... that will later get identified as a bottle of Jack Daniels" or "SCO's managers still couldn't find a shred of proof so they are threatening even more companies to hide that fact"... Sick, really :-)

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  102. Wait a minute... by pragma_x · · Score: 1

    You mean to tell me that you can use the TV for something *other* than videogames?!?!? Non-interactive television... now who's sick, twisted idea of fun is that? %lt;/sarcasm>

  103. Religion not "banned" in China (though censored) by divec · · Score: 1
    According to the study, Chinese Internet users say they rely on the medium to interact with others who share their political interests, hobbies and faith. [...] "It's more than in any other country and a significant figure for citizens of a nation in which religion is officially banned," the study said

    Religion is not "officially banned" in China. OK, you're only allowed to follow one of the official state religions, whose institutions are all politically neutered, e.g. the Chinese Patriotic Catholic Association, which has no links with the Vatican. But that's different from saying religious conversations can only be had online, however repressive it may be.
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  104. Wait, what do I do? by CatPieMan · · Score: 1

    "internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities"

    No I don't. But, this would have been true had you asked me more than a couple months ago (started a new job).

    -CPM

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  105. Re:No, I'm New Here by theNeophile · · Score: 1

    Wow, you created that account just to make that joke. My hat is off to you, sir.

  106. It's just there... by slittle · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I've had a permanent connection for many years - back as far as permanent dialup. I've long stopped thinking in terms of online or offline, Internet use is just another seamless part of daily computing.

    Trying to count how long geeks spend online daily would be as stupid as trying to count how long non-geeks spend using electricity each day.

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    1. Re:It's just there... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My friend, a non-geek, uses about three hours of electricity daily.

  107. Repo Man quote too by soxos · · Score: 1


    95% of television out there is mindless garbage. I don't mind watching tv so much, but it sure does seem like it makes time go too fast. I mean I sit in front of a show or two, and boom and hour is gone.

    I'm hitting in my late 20's and see the days going faster and faster. I'll quote Outkast: "I'm just looking for something to slow things down."

    As much as I hate most of what tinsel town puts out (see the abominable writing of the television version of My Big Fat Greek Wedding for a prime example), commercials are what really get to me.

    I have given up on TV completely and only use my idiot box for DVD content.

    Best thing I've ever done BTW. Sure, my idiot friends can't "watch the game" over at my place, but that's what bars are for, right?

    I'll get off my soapbox in a sec, but I'm sure I'm not telling /. members anything new. /. people tend to be thinkers as opposed to your avg American who is upset by thinking. This is where the whole stereotype of the nerd is rooted. Why it's considered a bad thing to be a geek, whatever geek you be. The status quo doesn't like passion. I say fugg them. If you want to watch TV, go for it. If you want to.... WTF I'm rambling now.

    BTW, "Repo Man" adds another quote:

    "I get all my best thinking done on the bus. The more you drive, the less intelligent you are."

  108. I believe this study by pantycrickets · · Score: 1

    1'v3 b33n us1ng th3 1nt3rn3t f0r 10 y34rz and l00k 4t m3, 1'm f1n3!!!!!!!!!

    1. Re:I believe this study by cavac · · Score: 1

      ROFL

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  109. Re:16hrs per day (I win! =) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    >2-3 ftp sessions d'loading shareware ~ 12 hrs/day

    Shouldn't that be more like:

    2-3 ftp sessions d'loading 'shared'wares ~ 12 hrs/day

    I mean common, there isn't that much shareware out there to consistantly have the level of downloading, unless you are redownloading a new copy of the software daily.

  110. what's "offline"? by Doc+Ruby · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I stare at my computer screen for scores of hours a week. I spend lots of time reading documents pulled from the Net, either webpages or downloaded docs (apt-get install ; man ). The actual Net transactions are very short compared to my reading time: I read at about 4800bps and download at about 3Mbps. When am I online? What is "offline"?

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    make install -not war

    1. Re:what's "offline"? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You read over 600 characters per second?

      I'd like that speed reading program.

    2. Re:what's "offline"? by Doc+Ruby · · Score: 1

      OK, 600bps.

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  111. TV today is pure crap by bytesplit · · Score: 0

    Pure and simple. It is the news, where they spin everything then change the facts without acknowledging an informational screw-up. It is the stupid "reality" show crap, where NONE of it is reality. It's all scripted theatrics, anyone that has watched a lot of television and knows how shows are put together knows this fact. Ever watch the Crocadile man (that silly man who held his baby's hand while feeding the aligator) show on Animal Planet? It's scripted. The aligators are real, but the crowd and his exaggerated commentary are all scripted. Every show has a gozillion commercials. You can't even watch a sports event on television now, without 20 freaking television timeouts. So, other than "Everybody Loves Raymond" and "King of Queens" and watching my UK Wildcats (men's college hoops), I stay away from the television as far as I can.

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  112. Why is it so important to be social? by Adolph_Hitler · · Score: 1

    Not every human enjoys the company of other humans. Some humans think that most humans are annoying as hell and don't want to be around them. Why is being social so important that its worth ruining your life just to be popular?

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  113. Re:16hrs per day (I win! =) by B5_geek · · Score: 1

    Of course.
    =)

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  114. Computers made me social. by Pig+Hogger · · Score: 1
    30 years ago, I was so geek that it was the other nerds that were bullying me up (ordinary bullies were simply on another plane of existence so they never were a problem).

    Needless to say, I was a wee-bit paranoid.

    But after I discovered programming, in order to get my fix, since I could not afford a programmable calculator, much less a minicomputer (micros were unheard of yet), I had to develop the social skills to enable to leech some device access...

  115. Yes, it does. by Colosse · · Score: 1

    And it's very interesting because you do lots of stuff with your companions : Kill dragons, explore bothomless pits of hell and meet cute elven chicks!

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  116. i would like to agree. by thegnu · · Score: 0

    but i can't.

    see, i think that pretty much a reader is by default stimulating parts of the brain that rarely if ever get touched by tv viewing. i'm not saying that there aren't a lot of crap novels out there, but reading is uses more interpretive skills, grammar, and imagination. even crap novels.

    that being said, there are worthwhile things on tv you won't find other places. tv, when used properly, provides a format that nothing else available does. it's very transparent and because of its simplicity can present complex ideas in an easy to digest manner.

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  117. Re:GODDAMN WAR CRIMINAL BUSH IS SPEAKING by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    >>I'm too goddamn stoned and drunk to comprehend...

    You'd think that would help.

  118. well of course by thegnu · · Score: 0

    you're not going to shower before you masturbate at your computer. it's twice the work.

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  119. Good study... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Hello! Welcome to 1992.

  120. i think SOMEONE is missing something. by thegnu · · Score: 0

    don't you get the sociopolitical significance of kenny dying EVERY episode?

    geez.
    [answer: it's kind of funny]

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  121. causality? by convolvatron · · Score: 2, Insightful

    "Apparently they are suprised to hear that internet users are more social than non-users: internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities."

    apparently the authors are a little confused about causality

  122. Who's the parent here? by lull+it+to+sleep · · Score: 1

    Skimming over this (and maybe that's where I made my mistake: not reading thoroughly enough) all I gathered was the argument that television can enhance children's lives and teach them responsibility, tolerance and how great PBS is. But what I'm wondering, and call me an idealist, is why the hell aren't people instead spending that television time to directly and personally teach their kids these values rather than leaving it up to shows involving big yellow muppets? I don't even let my children watch the TV unless I am there, talking to them and teaching them about every little thing that goes on. I'm not saying that you implemented that you sit your kids in front of the TV and let it raise them - I'm just suggesting that that hour watching Sesame Street and Caillou should be spent otherwise, with parents and people they can trust and really learn from. There are much better and more interactive ways, ways that stick with children better, than having Chloe and whoever else tell my dear children about morals. Elmo doesn't know my Jane, and she doens't know the best way to teach Jane how to be a responsible citizen like I do. Don't "leave it up to" anyone! Village or TV! Do it yourself! Television has its up and downs, but they've got nothing to do with raising our children if we do it right. I see so many children raising themselves and doing a real shitty job. There is no excuse.

    1. Re:Who's the parent here? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      fuck off

    2. Re:Who's the parent here? by lull+it+to+sleep · · Score: 1

      Woah that was totally mature and insightful. My life will be a better and more intelligible place because of played out comments like "fuck off". thanks so much for broadening my horizons!... ..oh.. and um, fuck off, cool kid.

  123. tv? books? by wisdom_brewing · · Score: 1

    question... since when is reading more books being in any way sociable? its just goes further to push the geek issue into the spotlight... sure there are many people who use the net to socialise (students using im's etc...) but true "internet users" shouldnt be considered part of that...

  124. wrong quote! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Mark Twain may have said that, but he wasquoting English statesman Benjamin Disraeli http://www.bartleby.com/66/99/16799.html

  125. better quote (statistics==bikinis) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    "Statistics are like bikinis. What they reveal is suggestive, but what they conceal is vital." ~Aaron Levenstein

  126. PBS is showing a good series on DNA by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    There's good stuff out there. But like good software, most of it is provided by a socialistic approach than a capitalistic one.

    Capitalism is unparalleled at developing resources, not good at lots of other things. Modern TV is the science of developing the resource -- you -- into a commercial-watching fear-based consumption machine. The customer is the advertiser, not the viewer.

  127. internet usage shrinking? by bob_jenkins · · Score: 2, Interesting

    The traffic on my web site and the amount of (non-spam) email I get are less than half of what they were a year ago. The topics I'm interested in (hash functions, regression testing, voting, orbital mechanics) are mentioned on Usenet less frequently than they were a year ago.

    What's up? Is there less software being developed now than a year ago? Has spam made the internet yucky? Has the internet fad passed? Or is it just me?

    1. Re:internet usage shrinking? by cavac · · Score: 1

      I'd say: The more universities offering computer sciences courses that teach *real* computer science (as opposed to teaching how to use WinWord), the more your traffic will drop. See the positive side: You will have to spend less time writing beginner tutorials :-)

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  128. doo dah, doo dah by the0ther · · Score: 0

    In your face! Conventional Wisdom! Take that! And that!

  129. OT - sig by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Update to your sig -

    "All great truths begin as alt.blasphemies posts" -George Bernard Shaw 2.0

  130. Re:16hrs per day (I win! =) by drooling-dog · · Score: 1

    Just be sure to leave enough time before you die so you can look at, read, listen to, and/or play with all of that stuff!

  131. A Healthy Balance.. by coronaride · · Score: 1

    I know that, to some people, this might go without saying, but what about the lessons that you, yourself teach your children? What you write seems to imply that the bulk of how kids learn to be social comes from either the television or from hanging out with their racist friends. I'm not entirely against TV but if you have little social interaction outside of it, you're going to make your own prejudices against people; not necessarily about race, but definitely about other things.

    For example, why don't the boys/girls at school look nearly as attractive as the ones on "Friends"? And while we're on the subject of "Friends", how about lifestyle discrimination (I'm not referring to homosexuality, but general lifestyle decisions)?

    Kids need a fair balance when it comes to learning behavior, but I believe that the majority of it should come from the parents. I plan on taking my kids to social events with me so that they can see real life examples of social behavior. I'm not just going to leave it up to their friends and I ESPECIALLY will not leave it up to Barney.

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  132. No TV by RoadkillBunny · · Score: 0

    Of course I don't watch TV. That time can be spend on the internet.

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  133. moderators made a mistake.. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    this should have been moderated as funny..

  134. Re:16hrs per day (I win! =) by B5_geek · · Score: 1

    After spending all my money on computers, I have to leave _something_ to my kids in the will. ...To my wife, I leave all the Celine Dion mp3's ...To my kids, I leave all the games. ...To my brother I leave all the p0rn.

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  135. wow by themusicgod1 · · Score: 1

    for a moment there, i thought you were describing my little sister, and family. because that's exactly how things are here.

    she thinks' shes stupid. she's the younger sibling of a family of three...i'm a 2nd year CS student (and honestly, am kind of bright. Underacheiver, but bright nonetheless), my brother is a punk-musician who may or may not be touring the province at any time...but either way is extreemly talented...she was cut from the same stone as we were...yet she thinks she's a talentless slob that has nothing better to do with her time than watch television. granted, she's a 16 year old girl, who is in good shape(because of my family's barbaric metabolism)...but this firm belief is about to no doubt become self-fufilling. it's so sad. especially considerring that if she needed help with some things she has two brothers to help her (ie maths, or whatever) whereas i (the elder child) got to struggle awkwardly through the mazes of thought afront of me.
    but generally, take the above poster serious, this is a definitely noticible phenomenon.

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    1. Re:wow by burbilog · · Score: 1
      it's so sad. especially considerring that if she needed help with some things she has two brothers to help her (ie maths, or whatever) whereas i (the elder child) got to struggle awkwardly through the mazes of thought afront of me

      That's the problem. She did not have to struggle and find solutions as kid, she won't do that in the future. And you've got the crucial experience exactly because nobody helped you.

  136. i don't believe you. by themusicgod1 · · Score: 1

    but it's interesting nonetheless. do you have a source?

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    1. Re:i don't believe you. by jdavidb · · Score: 1

      You could try googling for it...

  137. 10 times cooler by themusicgod1 · · Score: 1

    if i were 5-10 times cooler, i could get and keep a girlfriend. i can say the same for many other geeks out there. we *need* all the help we can get.

    it's not like *oh but we are going to lose the girls as they find someone and can't resist the temptation* as much as it is *i would have never of met my last 3 girlfreinds, and i would still be a virgin if there were no internet*

    besides, why be so greedy? women should be free to sleep around, shouldn't they? break free of the love meme, don't let it do to you what it's done to me :P

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  138. Re:16hrs per day (I win! =) by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    >2-3 ftp sessions d'loading shareware ~ 12 hrs/day

    Downloading shareware, my ass!

  139. But... by dJCL · · Score: 1

    I read plenty of books, not all sci-fi or fantasy(and no porn). I have an active social life and I maybe watch abou 2-4 hours ot TV a week(sometimes none). I'm on the net around 15-20 hours a week. This article sounds like me.

    But!

    Both my friends(inc. GF) and myself consider me to be a Geek.

    I guess the image really is changing.

    So what do we start calling the people who spend all their waking time in a dark basement on their computers, either gaming or otherwise distracted? What about the difference between ones makeing money(or not needing to make money due to previous wealth(no mommy and daddy)) and the ones who are leaching off society(mommy and daddy or the government)? (Yes I live at home, and I pay rent to do so, my parent profit from me being here, and I really want out but have to kill debt first)

    We need a better term for those who used to be what we called Geeks, as Geeks are becoming too much mainstream. Everyone needs to feel special.

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    1. Re:But... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      I read plenty of books, not all sci-fi or fantasy(and no porn). I have an active social life and I maybe watch abou 2-4 hours ot TV a week(sometimes none). I'm on the net around 15-20 hours a week. This article sounds like me.


      Comic Books don't count.


      But!


      Both my friends(inc. GF) and myself consider me to be a Geek.


      No, your two friends ("both my friends") consider you a FREAK... it's easily mistaken for GEEK when you're not paying attention... Damn those comic books.


      I guess the image really is changing.


      No, your mirror is just dirty.


      So what do we start calling the people who spend all their waking time in a dark basement on their computers, either gaming or otherwise distracted? What about the difference between ones makeing money(or not needing to make money due to previous wealth(no mommy and daddy)) and the ones who are leaching off society(mommy and daddy or the government)? (Yes I live at home, and I pay rent to do so, my parent profit from me being here, and I really want out but have to kill debt first)


      Um, in your case, I think that statement might be the POT calling the KETTLE BLACK.

    2. Re:But... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      So what do we start calling the people who spend all their waking time in a dark basement on their computers, either gaming or otherwise distracted? What about the difference between ones makeing money(or not needing to make money due to previous wealth(no mommy and daddy)) and the ones who are leaching off society(mommy and daddy or the government)? (Yes I live at home, and I pay rent to do so, my parent profit from me being here, and I really want out but have to kill debt first)

      We have a name for people like that here.

      Losers.
      Seems like you might fit with them.
      No run along and play like a good little loser.

    3. Re:But... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      We have a name for people like that here. Losers. Seems like you might fit with them. No run along and play like a good little loser.

      This really proves that this guy's a loser.
  140. pr0n addict? by Lord_Dweomer · · Score: 1
    "Only people who are able to be online more then > /.ers are probally pr0n addicts."

    In all seriousness, does anybody else feel they've become addicted to porn because of the net? I definitely do, and because i'm on a high speed network, I tend to browse through the TGPs very quickly....and I've in fact found I get very tired of the same girls very quickly, and am always in need of a fresh new face.

    I've started to wonder if this affects my social life, because I start getting bored with a girl right after I start to get to know her. This isn't meant as a funny comment...and I would rather have your comments than your mod points especially if you have any resources for me to look into about this issue.

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    1. Re:pr0n addict? by HeyLaughingBoy · · Score: 1
      I've started to wonder if this affects my social life, because I start getting bored with a girl right after I start to get to know her

      How good is she in bed?
  141. I wonder what the social side-effect of zoo.pl are by Trolling4Dollars · · Score: 1

    Considering that the Zoo system on /. seems to allow people to filter out what they do and don't want to hear, there's probably some socializing going on that would or wouldn't otherwise happen. It would be interesting to see what effects /. itself has had on the social aspect of its readers. I find myself interacting a little too much with people here some times. :)

  142. Have to Read to be able to use the Internet by f0rt0r · · Score: 1

    Hmm? What are all those letter shaped things on the screen? I click on the bright underlined thingies and the screen changes, cool. Look at all those flashing banner ads, pretty pictures, ...ohhhh...a flash movie. Are you sure you need to be able to read to use the internet?

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  143. Surprised ? by DataCannibal · · Score: 1

    Apparently they are suprised to hear that internet users are more social than non-users: internet users watch less television, read more books and engage in more social activities.

    Surprised ! That's often the case when something is actually researched, instead of just being made up on the spot to meet some stereotype.

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  144. changes to my behaviour... by Unominous+Coward · · Score: 1

    Yeah, whatever. Leave me alone, I'm on the computer.

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  145. Re:Boob tube? by jdvuyk · · Score: 1

    Boob tube? If only! I could spend ALOT more time in front of this boob tube!

  146. ahh by themusicgod1 · · Score: 1

    but you have more at stake if you are directly lying, than google does if it's results are skewed. i like my oponents made of flesh, not straw and or silicon.

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  147. TV broadcasts are BAD! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    i run a internet cafe 12 hours a day.
    very interesting what kind of people you get to
    meet. also it is very educational because you
    get the uber geek user ("hey have you tried
    this program? do you know this game?") to user
    with no clue AT ALL (sitting at the XP welcome
    screen which says "click your user name" and
    they would ask "what do i have to do?")...

    but since i'm a kid that grew up watching cartoons
    on sunday morning starting 7 a.m. i'm addicted
    to TV for life.

    i can't however watch regular TV shows or news
    anymore. the use of the internet has "broadend"
    my horizon and i just plain simply get paranoid
    after watching 5 min of CNN.TV ("Is the news
    girl acctually talking to me?"-kinda thing).

    but after i get home i still watch a good movie
    on DVD or plain ol' VHS until 4 in the morning.
    this and a couple of beers let me sleep thru the
    night ...

  148. Swedes the most sceptical by Ed+Avis · · Score: 1
    From the article:
    The most trusting users are in South Korea while Swedes are the biggest skeptics about the veracity of Web news.

    Probably they are still mindful of the Swedish Lemon Angels recipe cited as an example of untrustworthy web content. (Idiot ZDnet broke the link to the article: see here instead.)

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  149. STOP by krusader · · Score: 1

    STOP!

    Just STOP already.

    I'm sick of these articles proclaiming that you are going to be a social person because you use AIM. I'm also sick of those people who say "The Internet is wonderful, it taught me how to talk to people because I used AIM."

    Give me a break. When you rely on instant messaging as the means for communicating about important issues with someone just leads to a lack of social ability in the real world. Do you think your boss is going to IM you if you mess something up at work? How about if you get in a fight with your significant other? They aren't going to send you an IM, they are going to say it to your face.

    Interacting with people is not that damn hard. Grow some courage and learn how to talk face to face. You'll be better off in the long run.