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Teen Creates Device to Track Speeding

An anonymous reader writes "A teen in Massachusetts has created a device that he hopes will help prevent traffic fatalities among teenagers. The unit plugs into a car and uses GPS to track and report on speeding — but only while the car exceeds a limit set by parents, so as to minimize invasion of the teen's privacy."

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  1. Untill... by Spad · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Parents set limit to 5mph - track kids everywhere they go.

    1. Re:Untill... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      Parents keeping track of their kids, you say?! THIS IS TRUE LUNACY!

    2. Re:Untill... by D-Cypell · · Score: 5, Interesting

      This is exactly what I would do. Get job, buy and maintain own car, earn privacy. Besides, there is a huge difference between knowing where your car (and child) is and evesdropping on their conversations etc.

      Even at the age of 25 I am starting to think that the world we be better off if children had a few less freedoms. I probably would have felt different 10 years ago however :).

    3. Re:Untill... by palad1 · · Score: 5, Funny

      Then smart kids will drive backwards.

      (I know, I know... gps, vectors, maths, yadda yadda)
    4. Re:Untill... by D-Cypell · · Score: 4, Funny

      I can just see hundreds of parents congratulating themselves on doing such an excellent job because their son/daughter drives at -120MPH.

    5. Re:Untill... by ravenshrike · · Score: 0

      No, the smart kid will short out the GPS unit.

    6. Re:Untill... by GoatMonkey2112 · · Score: 1

      Plus it will take miles off the car!

    7. Re:Untill... by discord5 · · Score: 4, Insightful
      Parents set limit to 5mph - track kids everywhere they go.

      Child has device rigged by friend with knowledge of electronics... Parents baffled.

      Never underestimate the great lengths kids will go through to do something they're not supposed to and get away with it. In fact, adults probably'd do the same.

    8. Re:Untill... by bitflip · · Score: 5, Funny

      Why drive backwards? Just turn the GPS unit around so it's facing the other way...

    9. Re:Untill... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Or even better, head to a dyno and spin those wheels!

    10. Re:Untill... by Casca1 · · Score: 0

      ...The grubberment decides it's necessary. Oh, the phrases will be different, but a device like this is dangerous. We are supposed to obey the laws of the nation, but the police have radar to ensure we aren't speeding. Now, they won't even need to get out of the station house.
      Your car will politely inform the police you have been speeding, when, where, and how fast.
      Think I'm crazy? What about the EBR, now mandated to be in each new vehicle sold in the US by 2011? There are times we need these kinds of devices; with someone that has proven they are not to be trusted...
      I have teenage children, too, and one side of me thinks this is a useful device. For spying on my children, not to mention giving me another stick to beat them with. Sound like a recipe for happiness to you?
      Wait till the grubberment wants it in your car. You will quickly feel the iron heel.

    11. Re:Untill... by indifferent+children · · Score: 1
      No, the smart kid will short out the GPS unit.

      The really smart kid will make a tinfoil GPS coozie.

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    12. Re:Untill... by VAXcat · · Score: 1

      If I was a kid and had one of these doohickeys installed on my car by my parents, I'd disconnect it and take it to the local general aviation airport, and have someone there take it up for a brief 200mph flight...then stick it back in the car...

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    13. Re:Untill... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hahahaha, post of the day! :-)

    14. Re:Untill... by gentoo_moo · · Score: 1

      Children don't have a right to privacy _from_ thier parents. Until they turn 18. they are wards _of_ their parents. As my dad once said after he smacked me in the side of my head for smarting off: "You don't like it ? Here's the phone. Call the police." You want privacy ? Turn 18 and move the f*** out. As long as you live under my roof, its MY RULES. My old man also had the best GPS system around: Get in the second car and follow me. It took me a few times of getting busted, even trying to out-fox the old man, to realize he had this innate sense of direction and could find me no matter where I went. Oh, that and the town was only 44,000 so there weren't many places to hide. He also had a great plan to prevent speeding. It was a pre-emptive plan and went something like this: First ticket means YOU get a job and start paying insurance, second ticket means you lose privileges to drive any of my cars. At 33, I would think he'd lift that restriction.

    15. Re:Untill... by qazwart · · Score: 1

      > Even at the age of 25 I am starting to think that the
      > world we be better off if children had a few less freedoms.

      I feel the same way. I don't feel kids my children's age should be kept under a tighter leash.

      But then, my kids are your age.

      Never understood what you whippersnappers sees in all that rock music anyway. All that hootin' an hollerin' by that group Simon and Garfunkle.

      Now be a good boy and run off and let Pa get his nap. Why don't you go off and play with those Internet Tubes I bought for you?

    16. Re:Untill... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      > Even at the age of 25 I am starting to think that the world we be better off if children had a few less freedoms. I probably would have felt different 10 years ago however :).

      Don't worry, children will have many fewer freedoms -- when they become adults. Welcome to the new America.

    17. Re:Untill... by GmAz · · Score: 1

      Exactly my thought. Let them go out and work for a summer or two and buy their own 1982 Honda Civic that barely runs. The car will be a piece of crap, but it will be theirs. If they want to speed, fine. They can pay their tickets. And after enough tickets, their insurance will kick them and no more car for them. Then lets see them speed on their old BMX. I work at a high school and its shocking the cars these kids drive. Brand new Chevy Silverados, Mustang GTs, Integras with a lot of expensive mods on them. No wonder kids don't appreciate what they have. A mere 6 years ago when I was in high school, there were only a few cars like this at my high school. And we all knew them because they were the rich kids. But I see people who definitely don't fit in that catagory driving these nice cars and trucks. My first vehicle was a 1983 Chevy Silverado with over a hundred thousand miles. It ran decently and its paint job wasn't the worst. But it was mine and I loved it. Kids now days would rather sell their one or two year old vehicle for a new model or have their parents do it and give them a new car. They don't know the value of what they have.

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    18. Re:Untill... by MobileTatsu-NJG · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Parents set limit to 5mph - track kids everywhere they go."

      +5 Insightful? Okay, can anybody actually imagine this happening in real life? Not only would the kids not even bother with the car, but that's frickin dangerous. Even an over-zealous parent would find this silly.

      Maybe I'm just misinterpreting this post, but insightful is pretty far down on my list of adjectives for this line of reasoning.

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    19. Re:Untill... by lambadomy · · Score: 1

      you're misunderstanding the post and the device. It does not limit speeds, it only reports. It is designed to only report when they go over "speed X". The idea being that speed X would be 65 or 75 or whatever speed the parents considered to be report-worthy. If they set it 5mph, they would always know where the kid is, as it would report nearly constantly. So the post is pretty insightful, and I don't see how it would be dangerous to know that information.

    20. Re:Untill... by p51d007 · · Score: 1

      AMEN to that! Privledges should be EARNED.....abuse the privledges, take them away. Only way you will TEACH responsibility, is to let them know that their actions have consequences. When I was in my teens, I thought my parents were the worst parents in the world. Wouldn't let me do the "cool things" everyone else did. I thank god every day that they raised me the way they did. I can go back to my old hometown that I left 26 years ago, and STILL find a few of "the cool kids" doing basically the same thing they were doing when I was in school! I don't "blame" the kids for being rude, disrespectful etc 100% of the time, because their stupid parents didn't teach/raise them

    21. Re:Untill... by treeves · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Exactly. Since when do parents not have a right to know where their kids are, especially when they are paying for the car, insurance, gas, etc.?
      If you want privacy, get a job, move out and get your own place. If parents would stop abdicating their role as parents and stop acting like their children's buddies/peers, the children would be much better off.

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    22. Re:Untill... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How many of those children have cell phones? So they have already submitted to a "leash", if the phone rings, don't answer it, especially if its your folks.

    23. Re:Untill... by autophile · · Score: 1

      Or turn the GPS on its back so it looks like you're going for a moon shot.

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    24. Re:Untill... by MobileTatsu-NJG · · Score: 1

      "It does not limit speeds, it only reports"

      Doh, dammit. I got this confused with another story about a speed inhibiter.

      You're right, my bad.

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    25. Re:Untill... by hetfield · · Score: 1

      How would it be dangerous to have a tracking device start recording anytime the car moves faster than 5mph? On the flip side, so what if they set it to 70mph? Doing 65 in a 25 zone is way more dangerous than doing 75 in a 65. This thing seems mostly irrelevant unless it can be made smarter.

    26. Re:Untill... by TheoMurpse · · Score: 1

      Or put a Faraday cage around the unit, why not? I learned about those in junior high. Surely most 16 year olds would know this. Either that, or the smart ones would earn some cool points at school.

    27. Re:Untill... by MobileTatsu-NJG · · Score: 1

      "How would it be dangerous to have a tracking device start recording anytime the car moves faster than 5mph? "

      I read a similar story about a speed inhibitor not too long ago. I didn't RTFA and confused this story for that one. Honestly, somebody with a mod point should over-rate or off-topic my previous post. It was a stupid error.

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  2. Noble cause, completely terrible idea. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    nt

  3. In more recent news... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

    said teen is tracked down and given a beating for being such a snitch. Film at eleven.

    1. Re:In more recent news... by MercuryLime · · Score: 1

      Yeah, remember, he lives in Massachusets. Anybody from there? His invention stopped teens from speeding, but even being run over at 50 mph was still too much when they came for him.

  4. So? Unplug it. by ettlz · · Score: 1

    Really, unless this thing hooks the ECU to mandate its use. Or does it work on parental faith alone?

    1. Re:So? Unplug it. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting

      First, it's a GPS device. It doesn't need to be connected to the car to measure how fast it's going. Second, it could record when it's connected/disconnected from the car (to avoid that the teen leaves it at a friend's house while going on a speeding tour.) Alternatively it could simply be bolted on an run on battery. GPS trackers aren't exactly battery hogs.

    2. Re:So? Unplug it. by Fred_A · · Score: 1
      Alternatively it could simply be bolted on an run on battery. GPS trackers aren't exactly battery hogs.
      But then all it takes is to remove the battery. Or wrap it in tin foil or something.

      Parent: Where the hell did you go, the GPS website couldn't find you ?

      Teen: mumblemumble there were lots of tunnels...
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  5. Parental Control by triorph · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Yes because we can so trust the parents to have the teenager's interests in mind when it comes to these things. Anyway aren't there like different speed limits per area? what if a parent were to set it to 50 and you were bleeping as speeding around in the country.

    1. Re:Parental Control by brian.glanz · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Setting it to 50 is not necessarily to assume and report all driving above 50 as speeding. If an interested party set it to 50: they'd not be assuming the driver can never legally exceed 50, but that whenever the driver is exceeding 50 they are concerned enough to want speed data correlated with location and limit. BG

    2. Re:Parental Control by Schraegstrichpunkt · · Score: 2, Insightful
      Yes because we can so trust the parents to have the teenager's interests in mind when it comes to these things.

      Teens are generally not responsible adults. The ones who are are capable of moving out on their own, and getting their own car.

      If the parents aren't considering the teenager's interests, then that teenager is probably already screwed beyond repair, and a GPS device isn't exactly going to make the situation worse.

    3. Re:Parental Control by thePowerOfGrayskull · · Score: 1
      Yes because we can so trust the parents to have the teenager's interests in mind when it comes to these things

      Yeah. 'cause my parents were sociopathic killers who stalked me whenever the opportunity.

  6. ever tried getting speed information from a GPS? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If you've ever tried to get speed information of out a GPS when its got a weak signal or looses signal tempoarily you'll know it can often calculate excessively high speeds. So whats the chance of the GPS spitting out an incorrect speed ocassionally saying your doing say 100mph and telling your parents this.

  7. kid be cautious !!! by b1ufox · · Score: 2, Funny
    He should worry too because, his mom may pin his invention under his car :)

    Or may be he knows how to find a workaround to protect his privacy...

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    1. Re:kid be cautious !!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oh, I don't think he need worry about that so much. A GPS unit wouldn't have much chance of working if it was pinned under a car - they generally need a pretty clear view of the sky. Perhaps there's some way for Mom to surreptitiously stick the antenna on the car roof, and the unit underneath, but there's always the pesky problem of the cable in between.

  8. not perfect by joe+155 · · Score: 4, Insightful

    couldn't you just take the thing out or un-plug it? then it'd look like you never drove over the speed limit : )

    More seriously this relies on the people who are driving (you can do it from 16, right?) being rational and sensible. If they were rational and sensible they wouldn't do it because it would make them look bad to their parents, but they wouldn't do that anyway because they wouldn't want to break the law and risk their lives. If the people weren't rational and sensible they would drive like an idiot anyway and not thing of the consequences (something I think is far more likely).

    Further I'm not even convinced that speeding is that dangerous, drink/drug driving is far more likely to result in a fatal accident - and I have met people who do just that for fun. It's idiocy but these are just the people who you'd need to deal with...

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    1. Re:not perfect by ettlz · · Score: 0
      Further I'm not even convinced that speeding is that dangerous, drink/drug driving is far more likely to result in a fatal accident - and I have met people who do just that for fun. It's idiocy but these are just the people who you'd need to deal with...

      Quite. Crap driving is the biggest cause of accidents, and speeding is just one part of that. (According to the UK's TRL, some figure in excess of 90% of accidents are due to human error.)

    2. Re:not perfect by arivanov · · Score: 1

      I have to agree with you. A very small proprotion of the people who speed on a motorway or a country road around where I live are teenagers.

      Now driving without due care and attention, talking on the phone, overtaking right in front of a car in the opposite lane, pulling out without looking for traffic, jumping red lights, ignoring "no left/right turn" signs and otherwise driving while in a "brain impaled on the penis" state - that is definitely the norm (when I see teenager rates for car insurers, I cannot blame the insurers, the rates nowdays are mostly based on stats and the stats are selfexplanatory).

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    3. Re:not perfect by CodeDragon · · Score: 1
      Further I'm not even convinced that speeding is that dangerous, drink/drug driving is far more likely to result in a fatal accident - and I have met people who do just that for fun. It's idiocy but these are just the people who you'd need to deal with...

      Speeding does make accidents more likely, or at least less easy to avoid. Increasing your speed increases your stopping distance and also decreases the amount of time you have in which to react to a given set of circumstances.

      Moreover, the results of a higher-speed accident are usually more severe. Just look at the difference in injuries between a child hit at 30mph (usually survivable if we're to believe the literature) and one hit at, say 60mph (usually fatal, IIRC).

    4. Re:not perfect by electronerdz · · Score: 1

      Most teenagers these days wouldn't know a alternator from a radiator. And with the large amount of electrical sensors under most hoods of new cars, you never know what you are unplugging.

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    5. Re:not perfect by tehwebguy · · Score: 1

      indeed, while i guess this could be something worth using if you know that your kid is a leadfoot, it is hardly a fix for the problem.

      the problem in florida would be solved by making the driving test actually test you. you can pass it with your eyes closed, hell -- even i can admit i should not have had my license when i got it.

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    6. Re:not perfect by Jussi+K.+Kojootti · · Score: 1
      Further I'm not even convinced that speeding is that dangerous, drink/drug driving is far more likely to result in a fatal accident
      More likely, yes. On the other hand drunk driving is rare (less than 0.2% of drivers around here) and excessive speeding even in urban areas is quite common.

      FYI, speed has been found to correlate quite clearly with accident rate in urban areas, and lowering the speed limit often, although not always, lowers the accident rate significantly. (sorry no references in english, you'll have to trust me :)

    7. Re:not perfect by Eivind · · Score: 1
      Improving the tests won't help.

      Teenagers don't generally crash more than others because they are technically unable to drive properly. They crash because of a combination of two things:

      First, they *opt* to not drive properly, despite knowing better.

      Two, they lack experience, which means they are more likely to overestimate themselves, or oversee the warning-signs.

      All teenagers *know* that the safest way to drive isn't double the speed-limit, in the dark, on wet roads, when drunk, with loads of distractions in the car, while talking on the mobile-phone, without hands-free and a disco in the backseat.

      They *know* this. They just fail to *act* on that knowledge. Some of them do some of the time anyway.

      A more strict test won't fix this. It's a fair bet they'll show up sober, stay within the speed-limit, reduce speed when its slippery or vision is poor, turn their handy off, put their seatbelt on and so on for the duration of the test.

      Tests would help if lack of knowledge was the problem. Most of the time though, lack of *responsibility* is the problem.

      People don't steal because they are unaware that it's a crime. People don't drive while drunk because they are unaware that this is a crime. (any dangerous too) People don't go 100mph in town because they are unable to read the numbers on the signs.

      That said, any technological fix for a psychological problem will fall short.

      It's like the difference between the kid which doesn't touch the electrical outlet because if she does, mommy gets mad, and the kid that doesn't touch the electrical outlet because she realizes the actual danger of doing that. The difference is that the latter kid is safe even when unsupervised. The first one is not.

      Same here. A kid that drives legally because otherwise dad would get mad is in danger the moment it thinks that dad won't discover. The kid, on the other hand, who understands the reality of the dangers will tend to be more careful regardless of if they're feeling observed or not.

      I know *exactly* what single happening the most influenced my driving-style. I was on my first vacation with a car after getting my license, together with my girlfriend at the time. On some boring stretch of the road she fell asleep. Lateron the same day, she told me that shed never fallen asleep when someone her age was driving before, but she always felt so secure and safe when I was driving.

      Ok, so simple self-preservation should've been enough for anyone to drive carefully. When you're young it frequently isn't though. However, having the girl youre madly in love with get real cuddly and explain to you how she likes it when you make her feel safe and secure is (was in my case anyway) a very efficient motivator for a male of a certain age.

    8. Re:not perfect by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Speeding (violating the posted limit) by itself is not unsafe. Usually, if many people are 'speeding' on a road, its because the state intends that road to generate revenue in the form of tickets. The limit is actually set dangerously low, and raising it would actually make the road safer. Not paying attention is another matter... but that will cause an accident no matter what speed you're going.

      We have 40 years of research telling us how to set speed limits that are safe; the problem is that speeding is an easy revenue for the state.

      I know this is anecdotal, but I'm sure others will have similar experiences. I usually travel 10 - 15 miles above the limit, and have had only one accident which was not my fault, and there was nothing I could do to avoid it.

    9. Re:not perfect by kinadian · · Score: 1
      Further I'm not even convinced that speeding is that dangerous, drink/drug driving is far more likely to result in a fatal accident - and I have met people who do just that for fun. It's idiocy but these are just the people who you'd need to deal with...


      I firmly believe that (to a point) driving too slow is more dangerous than driving too fast. Most of the people who drive well under the limit are either older and not capable of reacting fast enough or just scared of the vehicle. For the most part, when someone is driving too fast they are paying attention. Usually this is because they are trying to get around the slower moving traffic (ie. the people driving the speed limit). Most of the people I see driving under the limit aren't paying attention at all. They don't even flinch when I honk at them.

      For reference, I'm talking about driving 90Kph or less on a 100Kph highway. This is far more dangerous than driving 120Kph on the same highway.

      And don't get me started on the people who have no idea the concept of merging onto a highway.
    10. Re:not perfect by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Speeding does make accidents more likely, or at least less easy to avoid.

      WRONG! They did studies about this 10 years ago and the studies showed that raising speed limits did NOT have any impact on accident rates.

      There are also studies showing that speed limits which violate the 90th percentile rule are actually MORE likely to cause accidents than if the speed limit was at the higher rate.

      Not exactly intuitive I know, but there was a time when it wasn't intuitive that the earth revolved around the sun. We have 40 years of study backing up what I've said. Go do some research.

      Moreover, the results of a higher-speed accident are usually more severe. Just look at the difference in injuries between a child hit at 30mph (usually survivable if we're to believe the literature) and one hit at, say 60mph (usually fatal, IIRC).

      This is the only part of your post which is correct. No one is saying we don't need limits; however to think that most limits are the safest limits is incorrect. There's also a simple method to keep kids from being hit. Teach them not to run into the road!

      I've NEVER been almost hit by a car driving down the road, because when I was younger, adults helped me learn how to cross the street. Teach kids how to cross the street, and to stay out of it at all other times, and obey the pedestrian signals if they are present.

    11. Re:not perfect by hotdiggitydawg · · Score: 2, Informative
      look at the difference in injuries between a child hit at 30mph (usually survivable if we're to believe the literature) and one hit at, say 60mph (usually fatal, IIRC).


      There's an ad campaign running over here in the UK that quotes an 80% survival rate for children hit at 30mph, and an 80% fatality rate for children hit at 40mph.
    12. Re:not perfect by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      FYI, speed has been found to correlate quite clearly with accident rate in urban areas, and lowering the speed limit often, although not always, lowers the accident rate significantly. (sorry no references in english, you'll have to trust me :)

      Sorry you're wrong. There's no references because you are incorrect. The 'safest' speed limits are set according to the 85-90th percentile rule. Any lower than that INCREASES the risk of an accident.

    13. Re:not perfect by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Girlfriend? GIRLFRIEND?! Sir, your geek license has just been revoked. Congratulations! ;)

    14. Re:not perfect by CagedBear · · Score: 1

      I wouldn't be so sure about that. When I was a kid we goofed around with carburators and timing trying to get more power. Those who could afford it (not me) were swapping cams and shaving pistons. Now they are hooking them up to laptops and adjusting fuel mixtures and timing that way. Not too mention hooking up rather complex stereo systems. I bet the number of kids who at least have a general idea of what the wires and sensors do in their Honda Civic would surprise you.

      Certainly many of them would be able to fool this device. The wireless model might be tricky, but unless there is some serious encryption on the SD card model, they will pop the card in a laptop and modify the data to fit what mom and dad are expecting to see.

    15. Re:not perfect by CodeDragon · · Score: 1
      We have 40 years of study backing up what I've said. Go do some research.

      Or, conversely, how about you point me to a relevant piece of research to back up your point?

      Note that I said "or at least less easy to avoid." Under the same set of circumstances (say a child / stationary car / cow in the middle of the road, 50 yards after a blind bend) and accident would be easier to avoid at 30mph than it would at, say, 50mph, simply because you have more time to react to it.

    16. Re:not perfect by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      It has also been shown that nobody has ever died driving a ford pinto over 300mph (sorry no references in any language, you'll have to trust me :)

    17. Re:not perfect by wralias · · Score: 1
      Further I'm not even convinced that speeding is that dangerous, drink/drug driving is far more likely to result in a fatal accident - and I have met people who do just that for fun.
      When I was sixteen, my friend of the same age was speeding down a winding road, crashed head-on into a tree, and was killed instantly. He was "straight-edge" - i.e. no drugs or drinking. He just liked to speed and did it all the time. This device will succeed IMHO if it prevents just one other teen from such a death.
    18. Re:not perfect by SnapShot · · Score: 1

      ...90% of accidents are due to human error.

      Agreed, but one of the most common errors is driving too fast for the conditions or your skill level. In my experience, most teenagers (most people in general) have a unrealistic view of their own prowess behind the wheel.

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    19. Re:not perfect by Mattwolf7 · · Score: 1

      Aren't 100% of all car to car accidents caused by human error?

    20. Re:not perfect by Don853 · · Score: 1
      Speeding (violating the posted limit) by itself is not unsafe. Usually, if many people are 'speeding' on a road, its because the state intends that road to generate revenue in the form of tickets. The limit is actually set dangerously low, and raising it would actually make the road safer. Not paying attention is another matter... but that will cause an accident no matter what speed you're going.

      We have 40 years of research telling us how to set speed limits that are safe; the problem is that speeding is an easy revenue for the state.


      Do you have any references you can supply to back this up? It boggles the mind that driving too slowly could ever be unsafe, unless by that you mean "driving at 45 on I-95 when everyone else is doing 80", which is a completely different situation from driving at 35 instead of 55 on a two-lane country blacktop. At lower speeds, you can cut the wheel harder without spinning, and your braking distances are far improved.
    21. Re:not perfect by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      For reference, I'm talking about driving 90Kph or less on a 100Kph highway. This is far more dangerous than driving 120Kph on the same highway.

      That's just silly, illogical, irrational. Driving slow doesn't mean you're not paying attention, and driving fast doesn't make me pay any more attention. You're not going to cause an accident by going too slow, unless you're on a high speed highway going stupidly slow (e.g., 30 in a 60). In Illinois omn the interstate highways (no intersections, 4 or more lanes w/ divider), the lower limit (we have minimum speeds here, as well as maximum) is 45 mph (72 kph), the upper limit for tractor-trailers is 55 (89) while the upper limit for cars is 65 (105).

      These highways are about as safe as you can get; you really have to be driving stupid to die on an interstate (and I agree with you about merging; there are a lot of idiots out there). On a 2 lane road, however, you would be nuts to go much more than 5 mph over the limit. There are curves you can't see around, and more importantly intersections. You can't judge the speed of an oncoming object, so if the limit's 30 and you're doing 60, I'll likely pull out in front of you, not knowing you're stupidly going twice the limit.

      I don't see anybody in this thread that sounds much like a highway engineer. Those are the folks who set speed limits, and they set those limits rationally and logically. Usually, in town, you can get all the lights green simply by staying within 5 mph of the speed limit; your real speed limit in the city is set by the timing of the traffic lights. It pisses me off when some dumbass (you?) blasts past me in town, racing to the red light, so I have to stop for a green light. It's usually the assholes in SUVs, I've noticed, that drive like that.

      I keep my speed on the interstate below 60 unless I'm in a hurry; over 60 and my gas mileage goes way down. I'm not about to spend MY money because YOU'RE in a hurry. It's bad enough I have to waste my gas in town stopping unnecessariily because some dumbass is in a hurry to get to the next red light.

    22. Re:not perfect by Kadin2048 · · Score: 1

      I agree. The driving tests in most places in the U.S., at least in any places where I've lived, are a complete joke.

      And I second the notion that being able to pass a driver's test certainly didn't mean that I really had any clue how to operate a car. The problem is not one of competence: there is no reason why someone who is 15 or 16 years old cannot operate an automobile -- it's really not that hard, but the requirements for doing so are so lax, that it's no wonder we have a ton of really shitty drivers on the roads.

      Quite frankly, if people wanted to really make our roads safer, they would make the driving tests tougher; require driving under simulated less-than-ideal conditions and in accident/panic scenarios. It doesn't make any sense to make people drive down a road at 25 MPH, turn around, park, and drive back, and then say that they're qualified to pilot a 6,000-pound SUV at 75 MPH in the driving rain or snow, at night, on an interstate highway. It's madness.

      A true test of driving ability ought to require that you test in the type of car you want to drive (and taking a test in a Geo Metro does not make you qualified to drive a Ford Expedition), and that you demonstrate how to maneuver the car through panic stops, emergency lane-changes, and on reduced-traction surfaces. Many accidents that occur today would be avoidable with better driver education and training, we just don't do it.

      Also, periodic retesting seems to me to be a no-brainer. We know that people become less safe on the road as they age, and although I respect elderly people's desire for independence, they have no right to drive beyond the point where they are physically and mentally competent to do so. Having a drivers license last 5 or 10 years would do a lot to make sure that people (all people, not just elderly drivers) don't just forget how to properly drive once they become licensed, and it would also be a vehicle for updating techniques and encouraging retraining. Most skilled professions require this, and driving a motor vehicle shouldn't be an exception.

      Young drivers take a lot of blame (much of it deserving) but unfortunately, we as a society let them on the road not when they actually know how to drive, but when they're just competent enough to not be an overwhelming hazard to others, in the hope that they'll be able to actually learn how to drive on their own. Replacing this system with a comprehensive driver-education regime would dramatically improve the safety of our roads.

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    23. Re:not perfect by kinadian · · Score: 1

      As I said in my original post, I believe this is true up to a point. I agree with you concerning twice the speed limit. If you are going that fast, then yes you are far more dangerous than someone doing 80 or 90 Kph.

      Now my only real experience is here in Ontario. Here most drivers on the 400-series highways (similar to interstates) drive between 110 and 120Kph (the official speed limit is 100Kph). In this instance, the drivers going 80 or 90 Kph are more dangerous, from what I've seen. It's even worse if you are driving that slow in the left hand lane (the passing lane). Here is illegal to pass on the right (though people do it and I haven't heard of anyone getting ticketed for it). So the leftmost lane is supposed to be used for passing not driving steadily at 80.

      The biggest problem with the way a lot of people try to merge onto a highway is their speed. If they get up to at least 90 before attempting to move over onto the highway, most wouldn't have a problem at that point.

      In the city, it's not as big of a deal. Yes it can be annoying to sit behind someone doing 30 (most city streets have a limit of 50). But it's not as dangerous. I tend to drive around 10 over the limit no matter where I am. This is not far from the 5 over that you mention you do.

      So I'm not liking to be the guy screaming past you just to wait for that next red light. It's idiotic in my eyes as well. That and I don't like SUVs. I prefer more fuel efficient vehicles. :)

    24. Re:not perfect by Sage+Gaspar · · Score: 1

      The biggest problem with the way a lot of people try to merge onto a highway is their speed. If they get up to at least 90 before attempting to move over onto the highway, most wouldn't have a problem at that point.
       
      I gotta think some of the merges in America have to be leading causes of accidents. Once you're on the highway, unless you run into some sort of slick on the ground or fall asleep, it's pretty easy to avoid trouble. Some of the merges, though...
       
      Near where I used to live there's a highway that's jam packed with people going 65 or 75 mph. There's one on-ramp where you go up a curvy hill, get to the top, and boom, you're at the highway. Not 100 feet in front of you is an off-ramp. I can't even count all the times I've been merging there only to have the guy in front of me slam on the brakes because he couldn't get a merge. So you also have to deal with the guy in front of you jamming on the brakes while you're trying to find the elusive opening for yourself in your five second window, and meanwhile other people could be exiting the highway in front of you, too. I honestly stopped using that on-ramp because I'm convinced if I kept doing it, my luck would run out eventually.

    25. Re:not perfect by bhpratt · · Score: 1
      couldn't you just take the thing out or un-plug it? then it'd look like you never drove over the speed limit : )
      Actually, if you would read the kid's website, he actually thought of that:
      Alerts for: Highway speeding, secondary road speeding, antenna block and power disconnect
      So if your teenager unplugs it (or blocks the antenna on the wireless model), it will be logged and you know they were doing something they didn't want you to know about. So you don't give them the car keys if they don't play by the rules.
    26. Re:not perfect by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      You can start here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Speed_limit#85th_perc entile_rule

      And research from there on your own. The logic is sound; most people don't want to crash, and thus will select a speed they feel is reasonable, and most people are good at selecting said speed. This applies to all drivers on all roads, not just highways.

    27. Re:not perfect by Richy_T · · Score: 1

      If you are doing 35 in a 55, you are inviting people to overtake you (itself a maneuver which carries risks). If you are doing so on a road which is long and which doesn't have many good places to overtake, you are encouraging boneheaded overtaking.

      The responsibility for safe overtaking is with the overtaker to be sure but there's a reason why TN law states that if you are travelling slower than 10mph below the speed limit and there are cars behind you, you should pull over or off the road (if only cyclists would take note).

      Rich

    28. Re:not perfect by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Its called the 85th - 90th percentile rule. Look it up yourself. It takes into account highways and residential areas and is proven to work.

    29. Re:not perfect by Richy_T · · Score: 1

      "Won't somebody think of the children?"

      Vomit

    30. Re:not perfect by poot_rootbeer · · Score: 1

      people who are driving (you can do it from 16, right?)

      Varies from state to state. In New Jersey, which has some of the most densely-trafficked roads and most agressive motorists in the country, I believe that at age 17 one can apply for a limited permit, which allows one to operate a vehicle when accompanied by an experienced driver, and at age 18 apply for a permit which allows unaccompanied driving.

    31. Re:not perfect by PieSquared · · Score: 1

      Mechanical failure. Example: my breaks, which I have had reguarally checked, just gave out at a statistically improbable time and I rear-ended the guy in front of me. Also, I just got hit by a tree/falling rock/bird/deer/meteor, causing me to slam into another person.

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    32. Re:not perfect by hotdiggitydawg · · Score: 1

      Forget the kids - think of the adults. The fatality rate at 40mph is 80% for kids but rises to 90% for adults.

    33. Re:not perfect by myth24601 · · Score: 1
      Varies from state to state. In New Jersey, which has some of the most densely-trafficked roads and most agressive motorists in the country, I believe that at age 17 one can apply for a limited permit, which allows one to operate a vehicle when accompanied by an experienced driver, and at age 18 apply for a permit which allows unaccompanied driving.

      There is full reciprocity between states in the US though so somone with a valid license at age 16 in their home state would be able to drive in a state that didn't grant 16 year olds drivers licenses.

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    34. Re:not perfect by Uzuri · · Score: 1

      "Also, periodic retesting seems to me to be a no-brainer. We know that people become less safe on the road as they age, and although I respect elderly people's desire for independence, they have no right to drive beyond the point where they are physically and mentally competent to do so. Having a drivers license last 5 or 10 years would do a lot to make sure that people (all people, not just elderly drivers) don't just forget how to properly drive once they become licensed, and it would also be a vehicle for updating techniques and encouraging retraining. Most skilled professions require this, and driving a motor vehicle shouldn't be an exception."

      I can both agree and disagree with this -- and I'd totally agree with it if Ohio would cut their stupid "manueverability" test out of the reqs for driving. I know for a fact I wouldn't be able to pass that stupid thing now, after 6 years from my test (I was 18... didn't need to until then), but I can park my truck wherever I need to and squeeze it into spots that I'd rather not when I absolutely have to.

      The manueverability test, for those that don't know, requires going backward and forward through 5 cones in a way that's *supposed* to simulate parallel parking (I think) but in reality presents a scenario that no one will ever really encounter while driving. I'd rather see the rough road simulation stuff than that garbage.

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  9. Re:ever tried getting speed information from a GPS by QuantumG · · Score: 1

    I more thought it would work like the code that detects speed hacks in MMORPGs. You got from point A to point B in X amount of time. The minimum possible speed without teleporting is Y. X Y, therefore you teleported or otherwise speed hacked the client.

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  10. Off button? by Ghost+Hedgehog · · Score: 1

    And what will prevent the teenager to turn it off? Unless you wire it into car electronic system, it will not have much use if you can simply turn it off. Or do parents get the location where the device is shut down?

    1. Re:Off button? by dohzer · · Score: 1

      Wouldn't it just have a logger to record if it has been shutdown/modified? Parents see their child has tampered with the device and decide not to let them out in the car again.

    2. Re:Off button? by ColaMan · · Score: 1

      Couldn't be bothered reading TFA.

      Solution :

      1. Drive into covered car park at mall.

      2. Fit alfoil to GPS antenna.

      3. Proceed to drive as fast as you want, wherever you like.

      4. Drive back to mall.

      5. Remove alfoil from antenna.

      6. Drive home.

      7. Tell parents you spent a few hours lounging listlessly at the mall, suffering in your teenage angst.

      If it logs ignition on time, it would be trickier. But not that much trickier for the average teen.

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    3. Re:Off button? by kyrre · · Score: 1

      Controlling parents could then go into the garage and compare millage on the GPS and the car. Teen lose car and is grounded for 3 years or so.

    4. Re:Off button? by Erwos · · Score: 2, Informative

      First off, this is a trust _verification_ mechanism. If you've got such issues with your kid that you think they're going to start pulling stuff like you just described, the obvious answer is to just not hand them the car.

      Making the assumption that all you can do is disable the GPS antenna, and not actually tamper with the logs or the device physically, don't you think the parent might notice something when the device points out that they didn't have a GPS lock (or even PRN sighting) at any time during their little trip? In other words, your scenario wouldn't work against an even-somewhat well designed device.

      It surprises me how Slashdotters give teenagers the brilliance and skills of MacGyver, where no security measure could possibly work against them. Of course, it also makes me think there's a decent percentage of them who hated their parents, and considered themselves much, much smarter than them, which could be correlated with their apparent revulsion to just telling a kid "no, you can't".

      It's sad and pathetic, honestly. My parents and I had an excellent relationship - I knew what they would say no to, so I didn't ask to do that stuff, and more importantly, I didn't actually do it, either. They trusted me because of that, so the sphere of "no" was relatively inconsquential anyways. It's a lesson many of my peers never really figured out.

      -Erwos

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    5. Re:Off button? by Scutter · · Score: 1

      But not that much trickier for the average teen.

      Eaten fast food lately? The average teen can't make change without using the cash register computer. I think you overestimate the average teen's abilities.

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    6. Re:Off button? by tomjen · · Score: 1

      The reason we give teens good skills is the same reason RIAA cannot make a decent DRM system - It takes one person to break it and then everyone can show it to their friends.

      Second of all - slashdotters are geeks and we hate things that prevent us from doing what we want.

      I happend to like finding ways to prevent things like this from working. Hmm maybe I could be popular if I publish a simple guide to disabeling systems like this.

      In Denmark some politicians have installed an anti childporn filter. So the first thing that was discussed (on any techni board worth its salt) was how to get around it - not because we want to look at nude children but because there is something about beating The Man.

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    7. Re:Off button? by ColaMan · · Score: 1

      Making the assumption that all you can do is disable the GPS antenna, and not actually tamper with the logs or the device physically, don't you think the parent might notice something when the device points out that they didn't have a GPS lock (or even PRN sighting) at any time during their little trip? In other words, your scenario wouldn't work against an even-somewhat well designed device.

      If you seriously think a GPS system is able to sight through a solid carpark covering, then think again. A simple ploy like that - going to a location that loses lock and claiming that you were parked there all the time is quite plausible. Disabling the speed sensor on a recent vehicle takes 20 seconds of fumbling under the car (or a few hours of installing a speedo signal line kill switch) and allows the odo readings to match up nicely.

      I won't comment on MacGyver-like abilities of kids these days, but quite a few of my rev-head friends would have been quite capable of doing it when we were that age. And rev-heads are the ones most likely to be wanting to tool around the place un-monitored, and most likely to be ones targeted by parents wanting to keep track of their hijinks.

      But yes, technical merits aside, the whole trust thing is the issue. If you really can't trust your kids enough to be in charge of a potentially lethal object.... don't lend them the car and hopefully, they'll be older and wiser by the time they can afford their own. Hopefully.

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    8. Re:Off button? by rbarreira · · Score: 1

      As if calculation abilities were required for thinking.

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  11. Oh, please. by Triv · · Score: 4, Insightful

    I don't want to know how fast my (hypothetical) kid is driving 99% of the time. It's not my business, it's really not, unless he gets hurt, hurts someone else, damages MY property or gets in trouble with the police. I don't care what he does until something happens. THAT'S when I spring into dad-mode. THAT'S when I start to ask questions and yell and devise new and cunning punishments. Until then, it's up to him what he does. Hopefully I'd've raised him smarter than to put himself and his passengers into danger, and I'll assume I did until he proves me wrong.

    It's called trust. Remember that?



    Triv

    1. Re:Oh, please. by Chaffar · · Score: 5, Insightful
      It's called trust. Remember that?
      You'd trust your kids if you actually bothered educating them about what's right and what's wrong. But most parents have outsourced that function to a third entity (School/ Friends/ Neighbours/ TV/ All of the above). We don't educate our kids anymore, we give them Ritalin.
    2. Re:Oh, please. by Firehed · · Score: 5, Interesting

      I'd kill for a mod point right now. And by kill, I mean some sort of responsible alternative, since my morals thankfully weren't outsourced.

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    3. Re:Oh, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're an irresponsible idiot. The alternative to finding ways to know about rule violations without invading the teen's privacy is to look over his shoulder personally. Teens do stupid things, especially in cars. There's no exception. It's important to give feedback before the teen hurts himself or others.

    4. Re:Oh, please. by Chanc_Gorkon · · Score: 4, Insightful

      Yes. It is called trust. However, trust is not something anyone should automagically get....even your kid. Trust is something that's earned. In the case of my son, he won't DRIVE if he does something I don't agree with. All of this is conditional though. Everyone has an occasional slip. Speeding tickets are just that. If he gets more then one or continues to have an issue, he's done. No monitoring needed......he won't drive until we say so. Why? Because I AM THE PARENT. So long as he lives in my house, it's my rules in and out of the house. After he leaves, he can get his privacy but not until then.

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    5. Re:Oh, please. by Kamiza+Ikioi · · Score: 5, Insightful

      As for me, it certainly is my business. They are a "kid", a child, not an adult. Parents have the right to know where, when, who, etc. A parent has the right to tell their child, for instance, that they can't leave the state or city. A parent has the right to tell their child they can't go to a party where liquor is being served or drugs are being used. A parent has the right to tell their child that they cannot speed.

      I'm not saying I'd track the kid, but I will tell them to drive the speed limit, and whether they get in trouble or not, I expect them to follow my rules. Otherwise, you're telling your kid, "Hey, as long as you don't get caught, I don't care if you [insert illegal activity here]." Children need sensable boundaries along with the freedom to be themselves.

      Forget kids, if I lone my car out to anyone, I have the right to know where they are going, who will be going with them, and that they are obeying all traffic laws while using MY car.

      I'm all for privacy, but call me old fashioned. Children living in MY house live under MY rules. As my father told me and his father before him... you are free to do whatever you please after you move out. This may offend some younger /.r's, but a 16 year old who just got their license is certainly NOT a mature adult capable of making their own rules up. With age and maturity comes more freedom. But for a young new driver, I can't see an almost no rules environment where the one rule is "I'm not getting bailed out of jail".

      Would I actually put a GPS bug in my child's car? No. I would rather buy a pre-paid cellphone and hide it somewhere in the interior of the car with a power adapter spliced to the wiring, and let my child know about it. This for safety, not privacy invasion. Car gets stolen or child comes up missing, one phone call by the police to the cell phone company will locate the car.

      Also, let's not confuse child privacy with adult privacy. I find no moral or legal grounding for a child's right to privacy from their own parents. Those who say otherwise are either trying to be the "cool" parent or are not a parent. "I don't care what he does until something happens. THAT'S when I spring into dad-mode." I'm not telling you how to raise your children, because that is certainly not my business. But, since it is your "(hypothetical)" kid, I can already guess you want to be the "cool" parent. Just realize it's a little late to spring into dad-mode when they hit a telephone poll at 100mph killing their girlfriend and paralyzing themselves, because his "best bud" wants to look the other way until something bad happens. There is no "dad-mode". You are either a dad, or you are not.

      That's equivalent to not telling your child to not play with the stove until they get 3rd degree burns on their hands. I'd be interested to hear your comments when you actually have a 16 year old with a license.

      It's called parenting. And you haven't learned that yet.

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    6. Re:Oh, please. by tomjen · · Score: 1

      I could not agree with you more - If your cannot trust your child to drive carefully, you have failed as a parent and you have bigger issues than this. All the electric gismoes in the world would not help you if you cannot trust you child, because if you cannot trust him/her how should the rest of society be able too?

      At a certain point you just have to say - okay i have no reason to assume my kid is not responsible enough to have X, so that is not a reason why he should not have it. As you raise your kid, X grows bigger and bigger - someday it will be his/her own life (and that is one of the few things you cannot prevent).

      Anyway my hat is off for you.

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    7. Re:Oh, please. by Schraegstrichpunkt · · Score: 1
      I'm not telling you how to raise your children, because that is certainly not my business.

      Arguably, it is to some extent, if those children are going to participate/vote/etc in your society.

      Otherwise, I agree completely.

    8. Re:Oh, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't want to know how fast my (hypothetical) kid is driving 99% of the time.

      I have an easier solution.

      I don't allow my hypothetical kid to drive at all... Keeps hyptothetical insurance premiums down, at leat hypothetically.

    9. Re:Oh, please. by lgftsa · · Score: 3, Insightful

      Just realize it's a little late to spring into dad-mode when they hit a telephone poll at 100mph killing their girlfriend and paralyzing themselves

      Killing themselves is simply evolution in action. The girlfriend is complicit in her own fate, unless she was held in the car against her will. It's the oncoming vehicles/pedestrians/etc who are innocent bystanders who you should feel sorry for.

      I can't understand the hand wringing over the hoons who kill themselves, and I include the passengers in that category. If the driver is unsafe, don't be in the car.

      Perhaps I have a overdeveloped sense of self-presevation, but I don't allow someone to endanger me even if they are one of the "cool crowd" or a "friend".

    10. Re:Oh, please. by Twylite · · Score: 1

      Yeah, because the moment I do know my (hypothetical) kid is breaking the law, it becomes my legal obligation to (a) report the crime, and (b) take action to prevent my property from being used in the commission of future crimes of this sort. So unless I ground the kid or take appropriate action to "reeducate" him/her/it not to repeat the crime, I share in the criminal liability.

      So no, this isn't good for anyone.

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    11. Re:Oh, please. by jamesh · · Score: 1

      I'd trust my kids to do the right thing, but i'd not necessarily trust them to always have a balanced idea of what the right thing is.

      The funny thing about kids is that they tend to be very impulsive (some more so than others) and very easily swayed by peer pressure. At 5am, after partying for 8 hours and consuming even a small amount of alcohol, the 'right thing' can be pretty hard to define for an 18 year old.

      Also remember, a 6am knock on the door by a police officer is not the way you want to find out that you couldn't trust your kid so much afterall.

    12. Re:Oh, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      But (multiple) speeding tickets (if 10mph over limit) are just bad luck almost anybody can get. I mean, I could get 1 every day of the year (never have yet) and is usually just a spin of the wheel who the cop aims the speed gun at.... 90% of the people on the road don't go the speed limit.

    13. Re:Oh, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Hence why your kid is still hypothetical.

    14. Re:Oh, please. by dreamchaser · · Score: 1

      It's obvious that said kids are hypothetical, because it most certainly IS a parents job to know where their kids are, who they are with, and what they are doing. It's part of this thing called 'responsible parenting', which is sadly an increasingly rare commodity.

    15. Re:Oh, please. by Zoxed · · Score: 1

      > I don't care what he does until something happens.

      By which time it is too late. Thanks.

    16. Re:Oh, please. by jacobw · · Score: 1

      I don't want to know how fast my (hypothetical) kid is driving 99% of the time. It's not my business, it's really not, unless he gets hurt, hurts someone else, damages MY property or gets in trouble with the police. I don't care what he does until something happens.

      Could you e-mail me your address? I want to send your hypothetical kid a hypothetical box of matches.

      Don't worry--I'll let you know as soon as he burns your house down.

    17. Re:Oh, please. by kahei · · Score: 1


      It's not my business, it's really not, unless he gets hurt, hurts someone else, damages MY property or gets in trouble with the police. I don't care what he does until something happens.

      You're right. We should never try and prevent bad things. We should never inform ourselves. We should wait till something happens. Hey, maybe it never will, and our irresponsibility will go undetected! We could get lucky!

      It's called trust.

      Let me fix that for you:

      It's called... uhh... my brain hav stop, I canot think.

      There. Always a pleasure :)

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    18. Re:Oh, please. by ZiakII · · Score: 1

      90% of the people on the road don't go the speed limit.

      This is true and depending when and where you are driving, going the speed limit could very well put you in more danger then speeding to keep up with traffic.

    19. Re:Oh, please. by LaughingCoder · · Score: 1

      It's called parenting. And you haven't learned that yet.

      You nailed it. And of course if something horrible did happen, I suspect "dad-mode" probably means castigating local authorities, blaming anybody but their own kid, and suing everybody even tangetially involved.

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    20. Re:Oh, please. by Jeff+DeMaagd · · Score: 1

      Trust is something that naive people have.

    21. Re:Oh, please. by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      They are a "kid", a child, not an adult.

      Please tell me, what's the difference between a 16 yr old and an 18 yr old? Do you think that there are that many fundamental differences between someone 16 and 18? Do they, in those two years, somehow magically become responsible. If you can't trust your kid by 16, you have serious relationship issues when them, end of story. And your distrust of your kid may keep him alive, but it certainly won't leave him capable of making smart decisions or functioning correctly in relationships with others.

    22. Re:Oh, please. by argStyopa · · Score: 1

      Huh?

      I don't care what he does until something happens. THAT'S when I spring into dad-mode. THAT'S when I start to ask questions and yell and devise new and cunning punishments.

      Nice blindside for the kid.

      Let's see, he'll just do 'whatever' until he crosses some imaginary behavioral line, THEN his Dad will spring out yelling and inventing 'cunning punishments'? That's not parenting, that's like some twisted psychological experiment. All it's going to teach the kid is
      a) rules are arbitrary and unpredictable
      b) paranoia

      That's actually rather cruel.

      Maybe you wouldn't have to yell or invent punishments as much, if you'd lay out expected behaviors in advance? Perhaps reward positive behavior as well as correcting behavior that's vectored to cross the line BEFORE it becomes a punishment situation?

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    23. Re:Oh, please. by vidarh · · Score: 1
      Also, let's not confuse child privacy with adult privacy. I find no moral or legal grounding for a child's right to privacy from their own parents. Those who say otherwise are either trying to be the "cool" parent or are not a parent.

      Or they accept that rights should apply to everyone unless there are exceptional circumstances. It is fair enough to accept some limitations of privacy, such as preventing a child from going wherever they want.

      However in many countries there is a significant legal basis for a childs right to privacy from their own parents in many cases. In Norway, for instance, a parent that opens and reads a locked diary could find themselves in court if the child seeks legal assistance, and a parent reading a childs addressed mail is just as much a criminal as a stranger reading your mail.

      The rationale is that as for adults, if a child has no expectation of privacy in such cases they're unlikely to write the stuff the parents are really after in the first place, so carving out exceptions to a childs right to privacy have few compelling benefits at the cost of depriving the child of rights that we wish for everyone to learn to expect as fundamental rights.

    24. Re:Oh, please. by ryturner · · Score: 1

      Yes, there can be a huge difference in maturity between 16 and 18. Also between 18 and 20.

    25. Re:Oh, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I agree setting up limitations to the child is what needs to be done, and you should also trust that your upbringing should give them the foundation to make good solid decisions. If you believe in your child to follow your rules you should not have to shadow over top of them and "make sure" they are following your rules. That is certainly your right if you wish to do so. I believe that trust should be givin to a child because they should have earned it growing up in your house under your rules. If they haven't they don't get to drive. When they earn your trust then they get to drive or drive again. Thats the order of things in my house. I think it works well because you could be tracking your kid doing 150MPH and whats that going to do, if you haven't established a boundry with them they arn't going to follow what you have set for a speed limit.

    26. Re:Oh, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't want to know what is happening in my infant's diaper. It's not my business. It's really not unless he gets hurt, hurts someone else, damages MY property or gets in trouble with the police. I don't care what he does until something happens. THAT'S when I spring into dad-mode. THAT'S when I change his diaper. Until then, it's up to him what he does. Hopefully I'd've raised him smarter than to put himself and his pants into danger, and I'll assume I did until he proves me wrong.

      Stupid argument.

      Children are not short adults. If you have an 18 year old and have built that trust since he started driving, then your attitude is commendable. If you just handed a 16 year old the keys and said "I trust you, so I don't want to hear about how you drive" then you and your son are a menace to society.

      Sufficient judgement behind the wheel to be a safe driver must be developed. It doesn't just spring into existence the day your child gets a license. If you don't work with your child in developing that judgement than you/he are a danger to us all.

      It is called immaturity. Remember that? (hint: it is your job to assist him in growing out of it)

    27. Re:Oh, please. by theLOUDroom · · Score: 1

      Yes. It is called trust. However, trust is not something anyone should automagically get....even your kid.

      But if you don't trust your kid they shouldn't be driving in the first place.
      This device won't actually prevent them from running someone over, it will just teel you how fast they were going when they did it.

      They should earn your trust with you in the car.
      If you raise your kid right, you sould have no trouble by the time they're 16.
      I plan to start teaching my kid when they are 14 or 15, including taking them to a track so they can get some of the desire to speed out of their system. I also plan to buy a car that needs a significant amount of work done to it so that they both actually know something about cars and really value their own car.

      Because I AM THE PARENT. So long as he lives in my house, it's my rules in and out of the house. After he leaves, he can get his privacy but not until then.

      Which is fine so long as you don't actually care about your relationship with your child or how he turns out. You may be the parent, but he's a human being and soon to be a legal adult. You should acknowedge this fact if you want him to. That, or he could just decide to leave. Maybe not finish high school. He wouldn't be in your house anymore so he doesn't have to respect what you tell him, after all that's what you taught him: Respect is earned via ownership of property, not by acting like a responsible adult who reasons out his actions and seeks the best for those around him!

      --
      Life is too short to proofread.
    28. Re:Oh, please. by sckeener · · Score: 1

      So long as he lives in my house, it's my rules in and out of the house. After he leaves, he can get his privacy but not until then.

      to quote Publilius Syrus (~100 BC), Maxims The loss which is unknown is no loss at all.

      While I agree that it is your house and your rules, a parent should take away all of their children's rights at some point in the child's life. The children need to understand that they should want those rights returned. They need to earn those rights....they need to understand that somethings are worth fighting for...

      --
      "Only one thing, is impossible for god: to find any sense in any copyright law on the planet." Mark Twain
    29. Re:Oh, please. by jacquems · · Score: 4, Insightful

      It's called parenting.

      I think the ultimate goal of parenting is to help your children learn how to make good decisions. The only way to do that is to let them make some and experience the logical consequences of their actions. For example, if your kid leaves his bike outside in the rain and it rusts, he gets a much clearer message about why it's important to put the bike away than if you simply tell him to put it away "because I said so". I do draw the line at safety issues, but even then I don't have iron-clad rules enforced by punishment. I let my daughter know what is the safe thing to do and why (i.e. "Your head can get hurt if you fall off the bike. Always wear a bike helmet.") and help her do it until she's ready to do it on her own.

      Children also need to feel worthwhile and valued in the family. When children feel that they are worthwhile human beings, they are more likely to act with their safety in mind, and to want to please their parents. More than anything, I think the feeling that my parents cared about my well-being was what made me want to be a safe driver as a teenager. I knew that people often got hurt or killed while driving, and I did my best to make sure it wouldn't happen to me (at least not through my own fault).

      Parents need to guide and advise their children - by sharing their values and stating their expectations - but in the end children need to learn to think for themselves. Hopefully by the time a child is old enough to drive, he/she will have had enough practice making good decisions about other things to also make smart choices when driving. If not, all the high-tech parental spying gadgets in the world aren't going to help.

    30. Re:Oh, please. by pointbeing · · Score: 1
      Trust is something that's earned.

      And in my house a driver's license wasn't a rite of passage, it was a privilege to be earned. When my youngest decided at age 17 that he no longer required an education and dropped out of high school I went to the local office of the department of motor vehicles and had his license revoked.

      Turns out at least in this state if a parent withdraws consent for the kid to have a driver's license the DMV will revoke said license.

      --
      we see things not as as they are, but as we are.
      -- anais nin
    31. Re:Oh, please. by skorch · · Score: 1
      I don't want to know how fast my (hypothetical) kid is driving 99% of the time. It's not my business, it's really not, unless he gets hurt, hurts someone else, damages MY property or gets in trouble with the police. I don't care what he does until something happens. THAT'S when I spring into dad-mode. THAT'S when I start to ask questions and yell and devise new and cunning punishments. Until then, it's up to him what he does. Hopefully I'd've raised him smarter than to put himself and his passengers into danger, and I'll assume I did until he proves me wrong.

      It's called trust. Remember that?


      So basically you (or hypothetical parents who use this strategy) have set up your child-rearing strategy around the philosophy that it's okay to do whatever you like, and it's only wrong if you get caught. Your entire strategy is to teach the child not to avoid bad/irresponsible/dangerous/stupid behavior, but to be more creative in hiding it. Sure it's important to trust your child, but it's more important to show that you care what they do even when it doesn't affect you.

      If you only start caring once you hear about things, that says you only care enough not to have to be bothered by it again. Trust should be earned by proven responsible behavior, not granted for free until it is revoked for stupid behavior. By the time you find out, it's usually already too late: your child has already learned that it is "ok" to be stupid, and it is just "not ok" for daddy to find out.

      Fortunately for children, you can start earning trust from an early age, because by the time they reach driving age, a responsible parent should have a good idea of what sort of a person their child is, and how much they can be trusted on the road. Then again, I've known too many parents who refuse to believe they've raised a troublemaker. Then again, they subscribed to the exact philosophy shown above.
    32. Re:Oh, please. by bilbravo · · Score: 1

      "I don't care what he does until something happens. "

      You don't care he totalled that car you bought for him? And it was his fault? Now your insurance goes through the roof? Man, if you had just cared about what your kid was doing BEFORE something bad happened, maybe it wouldn't have happened!

      As someone else said, it's easy to assume who here has kids or are a kid themselves. (BTW, I'm a 23 year old single male... guess I defy my own stereotype!)

    33. Re:Oh, please. by brunes69 · · Score: 1

      So long as he lives in my house, it's my rules in and out of the house. After he leaves, he can get his privacy but not until then.

      It's that kind of speaking that has the number of runaway and emancipated teens so high nowadays.

      Justtify your actions with reasoning, not with "while you're under my roof" BS. The kid will just take off.

    34. Re:Oh, please. by UbuntuDupe · · Score: 1

      Children living in MY house live under MY rules. As my father told me and his father before him... you are free to do whatever you please after you move out.

      That's true, they are in your house, BUT the flip side is that for most of his growing up, he's not even able to do that (to leave and earn enough to live on his own) so it's a false choice. I don't think anyone should implement this rule rigidly unless you are doing your best to teach him what he needs to live on his own.

    35. Re:Oh, please. by Manchot · · Score: 1

      Oh please. You sound just like Bob Dylan. As a whole, parenting hasn't really changed in the past 30 years, and kids aren't any better or worse than their parents' generation. You've just got a case of old fogeyism.

    36. Re:Oh, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      close, but it's a responsibility, not a right. I think parents should be responsible for their children's behavior. And before the crying liberals go off on that, there is already a mechanism to take care of terrible kids. You can, in most if not all states, surrender your children to the custody of the state. However, how many more parents would care about their kids if their welfare check depended on more then just staying in school, or if they'd get an overnight in jail for their kids misdemeanors.

    37. Re:Oh, please. by DieByWire · · Score: 1

      It's called trust. Remember that?

      Trust, but verify.

      Ron

      --
      Never shake hands with a man you meet in a fertility clinic.
    38. Re:Oh, please. by trcooper · · Score: 3, Interesting

      I don't have a hypothetical kid. I have a real kid. And as a parent I know it's my responsibility to be aware of when my son is doing stupid which could harm him. It's not a lack of trust, it's a realization that kids do things that are dumb regardless of how responsible they or their parents think they are. I know that when I was a teen I did things I should not have, and would have been better off avoiding. I also remember thinking that I was much more responsible and mature than my peers. I now know that I didn't have a clue, and that my parents were right the vast majority of the time.

      What teens don't realize is their situation is hardly unique. One of the things you start to realize as you mature is that you and your parents aren't so different. My parents grew up in the 40's & 50's, I grew up in the 80's and 90's. Even with that type of difference in age I realize now the same issues I faced, they had bee through 3 or 4 decades earlier. Parents do have good advice and insight to give their children, if they'll actually listen. Problem is, kids in every generation think they're the only ones with these particular issues or problems, and they're flat out wrong.

      Teens want freedom. That's natural. But with freedoms come responsibility that most kids just aren't able to see the entire scope of. That's where parents come in and take some of that responsibility upon themselves to curb their childrens freedoms when neccessary. A parent should never at any point say, well, you're X age, I've done what I can, good luck. I still take advice from my old man. And appreciate it more now.

      Of course teen /.rs reading this will disagree... I probably would have, had /. been available via gopher.

    39. Re:Oh, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My parents were like you (I'm 23 now).

      I wish a whole lot more parents were like that.

      Too many kids have too many f'd up lives because they're parents wanted to be "cool" and be their friends. My parents didn't become my friend until I grew up. It wasn't a specific age or a set time - I just demonstrated (through taking care of myself at college/getting good grades/finding a job) that I can take care of myself. Now, they are my friend. It was a weird transition at first, but it's also now that I realize how good my parents really were.

      Good job to you, sir. It sounds like you have the best parent mindset. And screw what the "younger /.rs" think.

    40. Re:Oh, please. by MasterKlaus · · Score: 1

      Exactly. I can drive whenever I want, but if my dad says he wants to sleep early and doesnt want me coming home and wake him up, I have to come home. If not, no driving. After all, it's his house, and he's paying my insurance. If I get a ticket, I pay the full insurance, including the extra rate. Big incentive not to speed. Biiiiig incentive.

    41. Re:Oh, please. by TheSkyIsPurple · · Score: 1

      Ah, because in the pristine 50s there were fewer parents with strict "under my roof" rules?

    42. Re:Oh, please. by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      There can be; in almost all cases though there is little to no difference.

    43. Re:Oh, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      So now he is driving without a license. I bet that makes you feel much better.

    44. Re:Oh, please. by Popsmear · · Score: 1

      The key line in your oh so wise paragraph is "my (hypothetical) kid". Raise one first.

    45. Re:Oh, please. by pointbeing · · Score: 1

      Since he's no longer living in my house it doesn't bother me at all.

      --
      we see things not as as they are, but as we are.
      -- anais nin
    46. Re:Oh, please. by gknoy · · Score: 1

      Would I actually put a GPS bug in my child's car? No. I would rather buy a pre-paid cellphone and hide it somewhere in the interior of the car with a power adapter spliced to the wiring, and let my child know about it. This for safety, not privacy invasion. Car gets stolen or child comes up missing, one phone call by the police to the cell phone company will locate the car.

      I wouldn't be so sure. When I lost my cellular phone, the company could not (or would not?) tell me any info about where it was "last seen". All they could tell me was info on the last phone call I made. While this couldbe handy if it had been stolen and then used, it didn't help to know that I'd called Sonic for directions.

      Don't do some half-assed "Wire in a prepaid cell phone" if you're serious about this. Buy a damn Lo-Jack. I realize that it's effectively all they are, but still -- get the real thing.

    47. Re:Oh, please. by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      Did you match your description of 18-year-olds when you were 18?

    48. Re:Oh, please. by autophile · · Score: 1
      And as a parent I know it's my responsibility to be aware of when my son is doing stupid which could harm him.

      Better than dope, better than crack, better even than ecstasy... it's STUPID!

      --Rob

      --
      Towards the Singularity.
    49. Re:Oh, please. by Dhalka226 · · Score: 1

      It's not my business, it's really not, unless he gets hurt, hurts someone else, damages MY property or gets in trouble with the police.

      By which point it may be too late. Once your first (non-hypothetical) kid kills himself by wrapping his car around a tree several times, we'll see whether or not you'll feel that method of parenting is appropriate to use for your second.

    50. Re:Oh, please. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I was raised by a third party, and I believe I turned out all right.

      When my mother had the choice to either continue her executive position at BP and hire a nanny, or be a stay at home mom, she chose the nanny. My father was a college proffessor, so he would of been unable to support the family with his work alone.

      I was raised by a different nanny each year, so I learned not to overly bond with a person. I also was exposed to about a dozen different cultures, cullinary styles, wisdom, and knowledge. My stable friends were books. If I misbehaved, I would be sent out back to cut my own switch.

      And I consider myself lucky. I am well educated, well read (though a piss-poor speller), a fine cook, and possesing a code of honor long since lost by others of my generation. I am a student of chemistry, have long since reached financial independance, have my own apartmant, and live with my girlfriend of three years. I find that parents who "educate" their children try to protect them from the world. They are coddled into mediocrity. They are the useless generation.

    51. Re:Oh, please. by TheoMurpse · · Score: 1
      For example, if your kid leaves his bike outside in the rain and it rusts, he gets a much clearer message about why it's important to put the bike away than if you simply tell him to put it away "because I said so".
      Or how about the parent say, "Put your bike away because it will rust if it rains otherwise"? That's how my parents and my girlfriend's parents raised us, respectively, and neither of us have been incarcerated, we graduated from college ranked quite high, are both in grad school, and are very happy with our lives. I tend to think it was our parents' ability to raise us right, and this includes explaining why they set the rules they did. Give your kids a little credit, they'll understand much of the time if you explain your rules instead of just setting them. If they don't, then you can give 'em four across the eyes. Or a good belt whoopin' with salt on the metal part. Or throw a football at their arse.
    52. Re:Oh, please. by nude-fox · · Score: 0

      ohes noes another parental wankfest just make him pay for his tickits and the higher insurance but remeber just keep screaming your the parent and dont use any insight just starts screaming about how he wont ever leave the hous again till hes 18 blah blah blah just tell him/her if he gets a tickit hes paying for his own insurance and the tickit

    53. Re:Oh, please. by pointbeing · · Score: 1
      Justtify your actions with reasoning, not with "while you're under my roof" BS. The kid will just take off.

      Although reasoning with a child is nice it's not a requirement. If the child doesn't understand or agree I'm still the parent.

      My oldest child is now 31 and the youngest is 23. They are not and never will be my peers - they are my children and I am their father. I treat them as adults but we will never be equals.

      --
      we see things not as as they are, but as we are.
      -- anais nin
  12. Speed limit of the Road by SurfSlade · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The device don't know the speed limit of the road he's on. He can go 70 mph on a 20 mph road. The device won't know.

    1. Re:Speed limit of the Road by Hittite+Creosote · · Score: 1
      The device don't know the speed limit of the road he's on. He can go 70 mph on a 20 mph road. The device won't know.
      But if the parents have set a speed limit of 55mph, then it uses GPS to record both the speed and the position. The parents then look up the position on Google Maps, say "hey, I know that road, that's a little suburban street, not a freeway" and take the keys.
    2. Re:Speed limit of the Road by rolfwind · · Score: 2, Informative

      Plus the speed limit is painfully slow in some areas. Everybody goes 65-75 on my local "55"mph highway. How will the teen react if the device is set to 55mph, will s/he follow it out of obligation and get themselves killed*

      I'd much rather have a built in car device that detects the blood-alcohol level of the driver (any driver, not just teens) and not start the car. Once the car is started, I think any dumb device like this is dangerous for all involved. I mean, by the time your kids start driving, they will be going out of the house to college in 2 years, where you have no control. Give them some measure of freedom or don't let them drive at all.

      *Statistically, it's safer to go 10mph faster than the speed limit than at the speed limit or 10mph below it. Speed alone doesn't kill, not going along with the normal traffic patterns does, go with the flow. Some experienced drivers still are unaware of this, to the detriment of all around them.

    3. Re:Speed limit of the Road by chengmi · · Score: 1

      Ok, so the kid goes 50mph in a 20mph zone... The point is that recording a high absolute speed is only useful in certain situations (freeway driving?). For other situations, like mountain roads or school zones, 40mph or even 30mph could be unsafe as well.

    4. Re:Speed limit of the Road by Aarron · · Score: 1

      Route planner systems are GPS and know what road you are on. A speed limit database is just a simple extension to this.

      Add in wifi and your local government has an automated speeding ticket delivery system.

      You speed and the GPS records it.
      You pass through a wifi hotspot and you get a ticket in the post ... ... or a court summons depending on how quick you were going.

      Aarron

      --
      I doubt, therefor I may be
    5. Re:Speed limit of the Road by gsslay · · Score: 1
      *Statistically, it's safer to go 10mph faster than the speed limit than at the speed limit or 10mph below it.

      You got data to back that up??

      Speed alone doesn't kill, not going along with the normal traffic patterns does, go with the flow.

      And the proof of that would be multiple vehicle pile-ups. The ultimate going with the flow.

    6. Re:Speed limit of the Road by puhuri · · Score: 1

      And one must take account also weather: on road that has, say 80 km/h speed limit, even speed of 50 km/h may be dangerous. Also, you can do stupid tricks in slow speeds too.

    7. Re:Speed limit of the Road by rolfwind · · Score: 1
      Well, excuse me if I don't feel like digging up the USA Today article I read this years ago but I have a few websites:

      http://sense.bc.ca/disc/disc-05.htm

      http://digg.com/tech_news/What_happens_when_you_dr ive_the_speed_limit_

      And the proof of that would be multiple vehicle pile-ups. The ultimate going with the flow.


      That's inane. I lived in Germany long enough to experience the joys and wonders of the autobahn, one of the safest systems in the world known for not having speed limits (well, some sections:), and despite that, when they have pile-ups, it really is piled up, with dozens upon dozens of cars. And these were not in the sections with unlimited speed, it happened just as often in the 100-120kph areas.

      Pile-ups is a function of tail-gating, following too closely the vehicle in front of you for the speed and conditions you are driving in and is the exact opposite of what I mean going with the flow.

      But perhaps you don't know what I mean "going with the flow" - going down an entrance ramp at a constant 30mph (which the traffic sign dangerously suggests in many areas) until you hit the 65mph traffic on the interstate is not going with the flow. There is no more dangerous common situation I know of than, thanks to this slowpoke, being stopped at the end of the ramp without any room to accelerate other than the freeway itself.
  13. Wouldnt This be Great... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 2, Funny

    If you slapped it on a dog and your nosey parents see you as driving through all the neighbors lawns, maybe a school yard or two.

    My only regret would not being able to see their faces as this happened

    1. Re:Wouldnt This be Great... by crimperman · · Score: 1
      If you slapped it on a dog and your nosey parents see you as driving through all the neighbors lawns, maybe a school yard or two.

      My only regret would not being able to see their faces as this happened


      Or the look on the dog's face as you plugged the power lead into the only available socket.
  14. Why only for teens? by OscarBlock · · Score: 5, Insightful

    Maybe this should be fitted to the cars of adults - the results could be sent to their local schools to show that they are setting a good example.

    1. Re:Why only for teens? by dohzer · · Score: 1

      I guess that would work if they cared about what children thought. But if they did, the probably wouldn't be speeding anyway.

    2. Re:Why only for teens? by Chanc_Gorkon · · Score: 1

      Not a bad idea. Fortunately for my wife who JUST GOT A TICKET, my son was in the car....now he reminds her about it! :D My wife was horrible with this, but then everyone who drives on this street is. It's a busy throughfare with a 25 MPH limit, but I have routinely seen people going 45+ on this street.

      --

      Gorkman

    3. Re:Why only for teens? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      now he reminds her about it!

      And you're letting a kid show disrespect to his mother this way? Beat him hard, take his allowance away and if it's not enough, make him trash his Playstation with a hammer or rip his favourite books apart. Kids need to understand who's the boss right away, the harsher the punishment, the better.

    4. Re:Why only for teens? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Maybe this should be fitted to the cars of adults - the results could be sent to their local schools to show that they are setting a good example.
      That's fine with me, but then again, I'm the dickhead in the "passing" lane that's doing the speed limit with 10 cars behind me. Seriously folks, "passing lane" doesn't mean "speeding lane". You can pass cars doing under the speed limit in the other lanes, but you can't exceed the speed limit to pass so don't get your panties in a bunch if everyone is doing the speed limit and blocking YOUR progress.
    5. Re:Why only for teens? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Maddox, is that you?!

    6. Re:Why only for teens? by Maximum+Prophet · · Score: 1

      Why stop there? Lets put this in the cars of all the politicians that vote for the speed limits and the penalties for violating them, then publish the results periodically. Want to run for office? You have to consent to be monitored. Same with the personal cars of the police and other government officials. If they haven't done anything wrong, why wouldn't they want the public to know?

      --
      All ideas^H^H^H^H^Hprocesses in this post are Patent Pending. (as well as the process of patenting all postings)
    7. Re:Why only for teens? by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      Laws vary from state to state, but in some states it's illegal to use the passing lane while not passing. In most, if not all, other states the law strictly requires "slower traffic move right" and "passing" lanes are referred to as "fast lanes". Regardless of the state, you are most certainly in violation of the law.

      In Texas, state law does not explicitly recognize the posted speed as the maximum allowable speed (posted limits are guidelines). If it can be shown that the posted speed is not justifiable then it is irrelevant (for example). Your claim that "you can't exceed the speed limit to pass" is simply incorrect. Besides, as a driver you aren't empowered to decide for others. You are required by law to yield right-of-way to faster traffic and we each have the freedom to choose our speed. Drive as slow as you want but get out of the fast lane.

      As a driver, nothing entitles you to judge others or to drive deliberately discourteously. Remember that when you are rushing your loved one to the hospital.

    8. Re:Why only for teens? by Richy_T · · Score: 1

      If we're going to put it in politicians' cars, might be an idea to add in a sound recording device too... link

  15. Privacy? by alzoron · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I'm assuming they're driving this car in public. Unless they're driving through their room with the door shut how could this be a violation of privacy?

    The car is legally the parents responsibility. The teen is legally the parents responsibility. Kids expect so much privacy these days.

    1. Re:Privacy? by kfg · · Score: 1, Interesting

      The car is legally the parents responsibility.

      My first car, bought when I was 16, was paid for with my own money, earned at my own full time job. Same for the insurance. My license was at my parent's behest, but not my car.

      The teen is legally the parents responsibility.

      This is likely true, but not necessarily. And a seperate issue. In any case the teen almost certainly has the right to come and go as s/he pleases at 16, whether the parent realizes this or not.

      Teach your parents well.

      KFG

    2. Re:Privacy? by Pofy · · Score: 1

      >The car is legally the parents responsibility.

      In what way? For most things, the driver is responsible for his actions for example.

      >The teen is legally the parents responsibility.

      Ehh, if we disregard the fact that most countries (although not all) has the same age limit for driver license as for becoming adult (in a legal sense), there is still the case that in most countries parents are not legally responsible for all their children do.

      >Kids expect so much privacy these days.

      Parents trust their kids so little these days. I wonder if it can have anything to do with how one raises ones children...

    3. Re:Privacy? by Schraegstrichpunkt · · Score: 1
      In any case the teen almost certainly has the right to come and go as s/he pleases at 16, whether the parent realizes this or not.

      I would replace "come and go" with "go".

      At the same age that the child can legally "come and go as s/he pleases", that child can be kicked out of the house. If the 16-year-old "adult" (hah!) wants to live in the parents' house, s/he can live by the parents' rules.

    4. Re:Privacy? by Uninvited+Guest · · Score: 1

      Indeed? And, from what do you suppose a teen derives such rights? Not from the US Constitution. The US Supreme Court has ruled over and over that the 4th, 5th, and 14th ammendments give parents wide responsibilities and latitudes over their own children. Even if a child's earnings are all or most of a family's income (such as is often the case with child entertainers), the proceeds are typically held in trust or managed by the parents until the child reaches the age of majority. Likewise, the freedom to come and go at will is a right purely at the discretion of the parents. Parents can seek help from the legal system (the juvenile court system) when their children violate the parents' rules for leaving home (i.e., runing away, staying out late, or even leaving without permission). The only legal recourse minors have for such rules is to seek legal emancipation.

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    5. Re:Privacy? by kfg · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      If the 16-year-old "adult" (hah!) wants to live in the parents' house, s/he can live by the parents' rules.

      Parents have rules as well.

      KFG

    6. Re:Privacy? by kfg · · Score: 1

      Indeed? And, from what do you suppose a teen derives such rights?

      Local law. You clearly need to read some of your own.

      I think you'll find that minors come into most or all of the rights you cite at . . .16. They can drop out of school at 16 because. . .the juvenile authorities no longer have jurisdiction over them and the criminal authorities only have jurisdiciton over them for criminal code issues.

      Hence if a minor leaves the house without "permission" there is no authority for the parent to turn to.

      The only legal recourse minors have for such rules is to seek legal emancipation.

      In my particular state this does not even exist, because the minor already has the relevant rights without court intervention. In states that have emancipation it is not simply a matter of the minor obtaining rights (they already have many), but the method by which the parents are obsolved of responsibility, which is a different legal issue.

      KFG

    7. Re:Privacy? by maxpublic · · Score: 1

      Kids expect so much privacy these days.

      The problem with this attitude is that the little brats grow accustomed to being constantly monitored by Daddy. Once they turn 18 they'll happily accept similar monitoring from Daddy Government, and why shouldn't they? So far as they're concerned it's the natural order of things, and anyone who objects to being monitored 'has something to hide'.

      Max

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    8. Re:Privacy? by Uninvited+Guest · · Score: 1

      They can drop out of school at 16 because. . .the juvenile authorities no longer have jurisdiction over them and the criminal authorities only have jurisdiciton over them for criminal code issues.

      Have you read the cumpulsory education laws? They're worded to compel the parents of minors to send the children to school, because an elementary education is a right of the child. Under compulsory education law, the children aren't compelled to attend school; the parents are compelled to send them (or to education them somehow). Compulsory education laws typically end at age 16-18, because the state feels no child has an inherent right to further education after that. Truancy laws were written to turn attendance over to the juvenile court system when parents failed to uphold their responsibilities under the compulsory education laws. Once again, the aim is to insure the child's right to an education is upheld, no matter how irresponsible the parent is in honoring that right.

      Juvenile Emancipation is explictly a system in some jurisdictions for granting certain legal rights to minors that are normally reserved for adults, which juveniles would normally enjoy only at the age of majority.

      The juvenile court system was created to protect minors from the full force of the adult legal system, since juveniles were believed to be not fully capable of taking responsibility for their illegal actions. The term "juvenile delinquent" actually refers to the parent, who was considered "delinquent" in taking responsibility for the child. Children below the age of majority do not automatically have the rights they earn at the age of majority, and courts all the way up to the Supreme Court have held that parents retain wide latitude to control their childrens' freedoms as part of the parental responsibility for child raising.

      Rights are freedoms that cannot be taken away. For example, everyone has a right to their own opinion. Legal rights are freedoms that cannot be taken away by law, or by due process proscribed in law. Adults have the legal right to do anything that is not restricted by law. Children have some legal rights under the law. Compulsory education is an example. Every other freedom children enjoy (except those encoded in the law), they enjoy at the discretion of the parents. Any other reading of the law is just wishful thinking.

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    9. Re:Privacy? by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      Are you saying you have no claims to privacy while you are in public?

    10. Re:Privacy? by kfg · · Score: 1

      Have you read the cumpulsory education laws?

      I have been the subject of their violation (my case in the 60s helped spur the legal homeschooling programs of my state), my family and I have helped a number of minors leave home and I have appeared in family court as a friend on their behalf in those instances when a complaint was filed before they turned 16 and left home (after 16 no such complaint can even be filed). I have read all of the relevant code in my state, a fair bit of case and at least some of the relevant code in all of my neighboring states.

      If you are not in school, but cannot be declared truant; and are not at home, but cannot be declared runaway, you are. . .

      Free.

      Law is what law can legally enforce.

      At that point the parent/child relationship must be negotiated, just as spouses must negotiate their relationships. That is not to say that a parent does not have a great deal of coercive power in this negotiation, but that's what it is, coercive power, not a matter of law.

      Coercive power can be used sparingly and wisely. . .or not.

      KFG

    11. Re:Privacy? by Schraegstrichpunkt · · Score: 1
      If the 16-year-old "adult" (hah!) wants to live in the parents' house, s/he can live by the parents' rules.
      Parents have rules as well.

      And? Is that supposed to mean something?

      (Methinks the moderator who modded the parent comment "Offtopic" is smarter than he looks.)

  16. Yup by Moraelin · · Score: 4, Funny

    That's what I was thinking. My parents were such control freaks, that I had one of them or grandma on my back pretty much the whole time. Even in about half the summer camps or such, one would actually take a vacation to come keep an eye on me. I have no doubt that if such a device had existed, they'd have set the speed limit to 1 mph just for tracking sake.

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    1. Re:Yup by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 5, Funny

      How dare you speak about me and your mother like that!

    2. Re:Yup by Mr.+Underbridge · · Score: 1

      Did you deserve it?

  17. So you also believe in the easter bunny, right? by Edman · · Score: 1

    It's a nice try from the kid, but
    a) who wants to speed, will find a way
    b) too anxious parents will ruin this nice idea by abusing it as a standard tracker (boy am I happy my parents never knew how and where I used to party)
    c) and if the parents will not, the authorities will abuse this fine device

    Great idea to invent a tracking system in a world full of observation. Is this guy somehow related to big brother (not the show, read "1984" to know what I'm talking about)?

    1. Re:So you also believe in the easter bunny, right? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If he were related to BB that would be doubleplusungood.

  18. So how is his different from all the other... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ...black boxes various authorities and corporations are hawking? Or is this a marketing ploy: "Hey kids, this was invented by a teenager, so it must be cool, right? Order now, and be the first in your gang to have the greatest thing since that iPod doohickey!"

  19. How? by onion2k · · Score: 2, Insightful

    The device, which plugs into the electrical outlet in a car and sits on the dashboard, will monitor a car's speed only when the driver exceeds a specified limit.

    Is it a magical device? Because I don't see how it can only monitor the speed of the car only when the car is speeding. It'd need to monitor the speed of the car all the time to know when it starts speeding. I can see that it might only log the GPS location of the car when the speed exceeds a certain amount .. but that's not what the article says.

    1. Re:How? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you're a pedantic fucking cunt and represent everything that is bad about being a geek.

    2. Re:How? by Red+Flayer · · Score: 1
      Is it a magical device?
      Yes, yes it is. It runs on smoke, which is good, because it uses the waste smoke to signal back to HQ the location of the vehicle. If you let all the smoke out, it will stop working.

      Because I don't see how it can only monitor the speed of the car only when the car is speeding.
      Well, maybe you need to better assess the meaning of the word 'monitor' in the context. 'To monitor' properly includes the action of recording -- which makes the usage perfectly correct.

      So I'd just like to say, that before you get your panties all in a bunch, that you make sure you're not the one who's off base before you make a stink about improper usage.
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      "Trolls they were, but filled with the evil will of their master: a fell race..." -- J.R.R. Tolkien on Olog-hai
    3. Re:How? by warkda+rrior · · Score: 1
      Is it a magical device? Because I don't see how it can only monitor the speed of the car only when the car is speeding.
      In my understanding, the device has a button that the teenager has to press when he/she is ready to start speeding.
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  20. spanfastic by sporkme · · Score: 3, Insightful

    I think this is wonderful. The news is not about tracking teens, nor is it about snooping governments. This is a success story for an young engineer. This kid has seen his invention from conception, through development and prototype, all the way to investment. He has polled his resources and called upon special talents: (from TFA) "Jon's sister, Julie, 21, helped coin the device's name, and Jon's uncle, Kurt Lanza, helped with the computer programming." He has a specific goal in mind. "His program weeds out extra information from the GPS, protecting teens' privacy. Their parents can see what they're doing only if they break the rules set by the parents." IMHO Jonathan Fischer may be a Benedict Arnold to some "Speed Demon" kids, but to proponents of safe driving and to parents who have buried their children, he is a Benjamin Franklin.

    Keep going, Jon. Call me if you need a good email checker-er-er.

    1. Re:spanfastic by Capt+James+McCarthy · · Score: 1

      I don't think anyone is questioning his initative to build a product. Nor do I think that this will be for parents use only. This product will fall in line with the black boxes that are being placed in vehicles. It will be an insurance industry tool to better screw it's customers. Yes, you could potentially use these devices to assist law enforcement to determine fault of an accident, but it will be used to run odds for insurance rates. "You travel 3 of the states most traveled roads 5 days a week for which we'll have to up your rates. Secondly, you exceed the limit on said roads 3 times a week which will increase your rate. It is noted that you travel to a mass transit facility which has a higher rate of stolen vehicles which will increase your rates."

      Personally, I'd rather take my chances in a court for the results of an accident. But I guess it's too late for that option.

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      There are no loopholes. It's either legal or it's not.
  21. Device only works on dumb kids... by ME-tan · · Score: 1

    ...because GPS cannot get a signal through tinfoil. Even if the device reports you for cutting its power how will it know where it is going?

    1. Re:Device only works on dumb kids... by Uninvited+Guest · · Score: 1

      Only a dumb kid would defeat the monitoring device that lets their parent trust them with a car and freedom. The parent may not know where the car went on that trip, but the parent will know exactly where the car will be on the next trip: in the garage.

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    2. Re:Device only works on dumb kids... by ME-tan · · Score: 1

      Only if the kid gets caught with the tinfoil ;)

    3. Re:Device only works on dumb kids... by vidarh · · Score: 1

      Or if the device reports how long it's been without a signal and you don't have a very credible story that can't be easily proven wrong by the parent driving to the location you claimed to have been parked or driving around for hours without getting a signal.

  22. Mothering, the necessity of invention? by SlashSquatch · · Score: 1

    Goddamn Nurds, always coming up with new ways to get the crap kicked out of them.

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  23. Might as well use magnets by Peter+Cooper · · Score: 1

    Years ago we had these digital speedometers that used a magnet on the wheel to detect speed. No need for GPS nonsense.

    1. Re:Might as well use magnets by chengmi · · Score: 1

      And how much money/time did it take to install?

  24. This is appalling by Toby+The+Economist · · Score: 2, Insightful

    We learn what we *do*.

    What's a teenager doing when he's being monitored by his parents?

    What he's doing is not being trusted. So he's learning that his parents do not trust him, and he's learning that they will forcefully impose themselves into his life to coerce his behaviour; he's learning to resent them and he's learning that speeding is only wrong because it is prohibited by parents.

    1. Re:This is appalling by Schraegstrichpunkt · · Score: 1
      What he's doing is not being trusted. So he's learning that his parents do not trust him

      Since when does parenting involve trusting teens without limit?

      and he's learning that they will forcefully impose themselves into his life to coerce his behaviour

      Damn right.

    2. Re:This is appalling by Mainusch · · Score: 1

      He's learning that his parents love him.

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      Joe Mainusch http://www.weber-amps.com
    3. Re:This is appalling by Macthorpe · · Score: 1

      Maybe, if he wasn't being a rebellious little prick and his parents explained it to him, he'd notice that his parents actually had his best interests at heart.

      No, kids should not be trusted up to a certain age because they don't know any better. Your parents can only help you learn from your mistakes if they know where you're making them. So instead, when I was a kid, of my parents saying that I couldn't use the car because I'm not responsible enough, theoretical teenagers parents now say "You can use the car, as long as you're responsible with it, and we'll be making sure of that until such time as you've proved you are". In my view, they are actually giving their kid more freedom, not less.

        Isn't this what people have been demanding all along? That parents take responsibility for their offspring? I know I have.

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      "It does not do to leave a live dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him." - Tolkien
    4. Re:This is appalling by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I have grown up with an over protective and intefering father who has made me ultimately resent him and I do not tell him things like where I am going or even about private jobs I may undertake for fear of a confruntation or disaproval.

      It is extremely uncomfortable and ultimately frustrating task dealing with him.

      My mother is amazing and knows about some things I have done, as a young adult I dabled in drugs and I told her because I felt I could trust her to try and understand without suffocating me. She didn't aprove and talked with me sensibly about it and that then means she knows what I am up to and that felt a lot better for me knowing she knew what I was doing. I am not the type of person to continue doing bad stuff, after a while I grow stronger and understand more about myself - knowing that it is not someting I want to be a apart of me anymore.

      If I had told my father I would have probebly been beaten or at minimum the house smashed up and I would have been even more unhappy and probebly done more to counteract it. (not knowing that infact drugs makes the problem worse, at that time).

      I am only 25 now and still with parents, I suffered depression and ended up moving back home and even now, this man stands in my way often.

      When I was growing up he never treated me with inteligence, I was always a "doughnut" and a useless xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx im sure you get the idea. Every time he was peaved off about something he would talk down at me and my mum, we are idiots we are stupid etcetc.

      When I was 15 years old I made a concious decision to nurture an ability to be sympathetic and understanding of people, be it when dealing with their behaviour or feelings. I wanted to make people happy, I guess that now looking back it was simply because I was unhappy. 10 years on, I understand most people quite well and in the past year or so have studied hypnosis where I wish to help victims relating to serios trauma. It is a hard subject to tall about but rape and sexual abuse are at the forefront in my mind to help, but I will help smokers to quit smoking and stuff too.

      I think to sum up, I have learnt to stay within rules purely on the ground that if my father found out he would then smash the house up or unbelievable shouting and he would blame me for it - some how twist it so that I have to feel guilty for him upsetting my mother.

      He talks to her like shes thick all the time and hes unbearable most times, only sometimes the kind loving father comes through.. There might be a period where he is great with me but I feel it is because I now react unpleasantly back at him - I am no longer scared, I wish he was dead sometimes and he had a stroke recently ... I was hoping it would somehow cool his temper, no such luck.

      He might mean well at best, and im sure he thinks he is doing the right thing but I have 4 brothers who get sick of him too and they have fallen out with my father.. he has disowned them and they are very bad people at best but he doesn't see how he may have contributed to some of it.

      Anyway, take care all.. just needed to vent some stuff :)

    5. Re:This is appalling by goldspider · · Score: 1

      Cue the numerous "If you don't trust your teenage child implicitly, you have failed as a parent." analyses from people who don't have teenage children or are themselves teenagers.

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    6. Re:This is appalling by a+whoabot · · Score: 1

      This is the bigotry of parents, at least, of this type of parent.

      They believe "they know" and their kids don't: because they're kids and have not had enough experience. I suppose 90 year olds should dictate to everyone then, or maybe bred and groomed princes of a ruling class... This is because they do not think that their kids are actual full people, but just objects for their gratification.

      This is the initial reason for having kids. Kids fill some void in their life; usually to be a sign that life is good, so parents can take the sign to be actual reality which lets them make-believe that life is good. I mean, if life is good, then we should make more of it, so, therefore, if we make more of it, then life is good! It's not so much the result of bad reasoning, which it is, but the result of desperation to find happiness in their own life.

      Your child never asked to be born into this world, maybe you should be nice to him and just give him what he wants, regardless of what you you think his "best interests" are. Only in parent make-believe fascist land could giving them less freedoms be construed as giving them "more freedom." That's because, as bigot parent you define what the child's "best interests" are, and so, what his "freedoms" are.

    7. Re:This is appalling by Dhalka226 · · Score: 1

      They believe "they know" and their kids don't: because they're kids and have not had enough experience.

      It's not entirely an issue of whether or not they believe their kid has enough experience. It's a belief that kids--even really smart and responsible kids--make crappy, impulsive and generally really bad decisions. And they are correct. You can go look for any number of studies that show that kids' brain development, in terms of risk evaluation and the like, simply isn't there at 16, or even 18 (I think--but don't quote me--that it really starts to fill in around 20ish).

      The kids "know" too, and the parents know their kids know. The kids know speeding lowers reaction time, they know it can lead to more accidents and more severe accidents. They know, relatedly, that drinking and driving is dangerous. They know many drugs can be dangerous. They know all sorts of things, and they do them anyway.

      The "kids think they are invincible" mantra has been used well past the point of cliche, but it's essentially true and not just anecdotally. Kids do stupid things for no other reason than that they are kids and their brains don't work the same way they will in adulthood. That's simply fact.

      Does this apply equally to every kid? I doubt it. I'm sure some kids' judgement centers develop faster than others in the same way that any area of the brain may develop faster (or slower) for some than others.

      I suppose 90 year olds should dictate to everyone then

      This is true in many parts of the world. "Respect your elders." It isn't just a cutesy phrase telling you to be nice to old people--it's telling you that old people have knowledge and experience to impart to you if you'll put aside the aversion most people seem to have to being given advice, particularly by people who don't specifically know you.

      or maybe bred and groomed princes of a ruling class

      I have absolutely no idea how you made this leap. Being old means you have experience. It may be valuable or it may not, but that's the way it works. Being bred into a ruling class means nothing other than that you were bred into a ruling class. You may be fantastic at it or you may suck. This is an absolutely ridiculous statement.

      This is the initial reason for having kids.

      I'd say the biological imperative is the initial reason for having kids. Species' that don't care whether or not they reproduce are going to die off. Humans care, in may ways and on many levels. The most base level is, of course, it involves sex--and sex feels good. It's not an accident or a byproduct that it feels good, it works that way specifically to make us want to have sex. Sex, in terms of reproduction, could be equally effective if it hurt like hell--but then not nearly so many people would do it.

      I'm only 22 years old--unmarried--and I already want kids. Most people do. It isn't because I'm not happy or to fill some hole in my life. Can I be perfectly happy without children? Yes. Do I still want children? Yes.

      Your child never asked to be born into this world, maybe you should be nice to him and just give him what he wants, regardless of what you you think his "best interests" are.

      Congratulations. You've won the "stupidest statement I've seen on Slashdot this year" award, and that is saying something.

      If, hypothetically, my 9-year-old wants a loaded gun, I should just give it to him right? He didn't ask to be born into this world, and who cares what I think is in his best interests?

      If he wants to lie in bed all day playing video games instead of going to school, that's fine. The kid never saked to be born into this world, and who cares what I think is in his best interests?

      Give me a break. It is your responsibility as a parent to take care of your children, and that includes much, much more than just providing the bear necessities. When the kid grows up he's free to make his own decisions, as good or bad as he likes. Until then, it's the job of his parents.

    8. Re:This is appalling by Macthorpe · · Score: 1

      The only thing more unbelievable than the fact that you actually believe any of this is that one day you might give birth and inflict this absurd reasoning on the rest of your forsaken community.

      So your plan, if you ever raised a child, is to kowtow to what he wants rather than try and teach him how to be a good person? That disciplining a child is "bigoted" and "fascist" because it's not what they want you to do? So, if your child set your sofa on fire (an example) you would say "Well done! That's what you wanted to do and therefore we applaud it!"

      Wow. Just... wow. I hope you become sterile in a set of very fortunate circumstances. Fortunate for the rest of us, that is.

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      "It does not do to leave a live dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him." - Tolkien
    9. Re:This is appalling by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're absolutely right!

      Next time my 7-year-old son asks for a gun or a flamethrower, I'll just give it to him. Hey, it'll help un-do the horrible crime of bringing him into the world (or, if not him, maybe someone else's kids!) When he doesn't want to go to school, I'll just stop oppressing him and let him play PS2 all day.

      And when my 3-year-old daughter throws a tantrum and says she wants to stay up later, or not eat anything but candy, or wear filthy clothing, or wants to go hang out with some creepy guy in a van, I'll just let her.

      I've got a 16-year-old daughter, too - and hey, if she wants to drink, smoke and get knocked up, who the hell am I to tell her to be careful with her choices?

      In other words, you're a fucking moron.

    10. Re:This is appalling by a+whoabot · · Score: 1

      "Give me a break. It is your responsibility as a parent to take care of your children, and that includes much, much more than just providing the bear necessities. When the kid grows up he's free to make his own decisions, as good or bad as he likes. Until then, it's the job of his parents."

      I agree it is your responsibility to take care of your child, a definite moral one. And I agree it is much more than just providing the bread and water.

      You just haven't convinced me why the parent's idea of what's good for the kid is better than the child's idea.

      Take your hypothetical situation of your 9-year old. I would ask, why not give it to him?

      He is asking for it, and you can supply it. You created him, so it's your responsibility to look to his interests. His interest is getting that gun, which is immeadiately apparent because he's asking for it.

      You decide that he shouldn't get it, though, because you don't like his opinion. And that's exactly what bigotry is: "stubborn and complete intolerance of any creed, belief, or opinion that differs from one's own." Dictionary.com

      I don't see how you can justify limiting your meetings of your child's demands without accepting bigotry. I'm sure the former entails the later. You must necessarily stand for your idea of what the child's interests are and not for his.

    11. Re:This is appalling by Macthorpe · · Score: 1

      It is not 'intolerance of other's opinion' to deny your child something which he could potentially hurt you or other people with if you don't believe he's intelligent or responsible enough to use it. It is common fucking sense.

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      "It does not do to leave a live dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him." - Tolkien
  25. I wonder... by no.17 · · Score: 2, Informative

    So the device plugs into the electrical outlet...surely any teen that's going to go off speeding would simply reverse slowly out of the driveway of their parents house, wave goodbye, drive cautiously round the corner- unplug the thing and dump it in a hedge- speed like mad for the next five hours then pick it up on the way back...

    Or am I just too much of a miscreant?

  26. Dude... by theonetruekeebler · · Score: 3, Funny
    He is so getting his ass kicked in school tomorrow.

    That said, this is probably the best incentive a teen ever had to get a job, save money, and buy his own damn car.

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    1. Re:Dude... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      He'll be lucky to still have an ass to be kicked by tomorrow. Being a nerd is already reason enough to beat the shit out of him, after this stunt he's in for a world of pain.

    2. Re:Dude... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      How true .... inventing this device is not the best way for a kid to become popular with his classmates.

  27. Way to shoot yourself in the foot by NMerriam · · Score: 5, Funny

    Should be titled "Teen creates device to prevent himself from ever being invited to parties".

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    1. Re:Way to shoot yourself in the foot by Schraegstrichpunkt · · Score: 4, Funny
      Should be titled "Teen creates device to prevent himself from ever being invited to parties".

      Where do you think this teen got the free time to create this device? Perhaps it was from already not being invited to parties?

      Step 1. Jocks refuse to invite geek to parties
      Step 2. Geek sells GPS device to jocks' parents.
      Step 3. Fun and Profit!

    2. Re:Way to shoot yourself in the foot by Johnny5000 · · Score: 1

      This was probably invented by the same kid who reminds the teacher that she forgot to assign homework.

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    3. Re:Way to shoot yourself in the foot by Uninvited+Guest · · Score: 1

      Or, "Teen creates device for going to out-of-town concerts; popularity skyrockets"

      If a parent can trust their child to be safe and responsible, the parent can give the child the freedom to do the things the child wants to do. This device makes it possible for a parent to trust their child with driving, because the parent can verify that the child has driven responsibly in the past.

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      Sometimes I worry that I'll develop Alzheimer's disease, but no one will notice.
    4. Re:Way to shoot yourself in the foot by cptgrudge · · Score: 2, Funny

      So the moral of this story is that jocks should be keeping the geeks laid and happy.

      I for one welcome our new benevolent, cheerleader bestowing, jock overlords.

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      Qualitas edurus commercium, nullus penitus net rimor, nullus deus beneficium
  28. It sounds like EVERYTHING is recorded... by asn · · Score: 1

    "His program weeds out extra information from the GPS, protecting teens' privacy" -- sounds like the GPS unit actually records all the data, but it is isn't until the parents try to view it on the computer that the software blocks out certain data...

    The biggest design flaw though has to be that it plugs into the power outlet inside the cabin... just pull it out, and off you go. "Look Mom! no data! I've been good...."

  29. unplug or... by AZskylineGTR · · Score: 1

    As everyone said, either turn it off, or toss it in some kind of faraday cage or lead box or something, then the device is still on, but it cant track you...

  30. Invention indeed! by Aldric · · Score: 1

    Most vehicle trackers can do exactly what this does. I could produce a system to do this in about an hour, using a permanent covert-install tracker. Not to mention how ridiculously easy it is to block GPS.

  31. Speed the problem? by matw8 · · Score: 1

    This is based entirely on the premise that speeding is the problem, when in fact in most cases it's not. Inexperience, fatigue and alcohol and drug use can all cause accidents both above and BELOW the speed limit. Almost all "speed related" accidents also involve one of the above issues. So why the focus on speeding? Well it's the easiest to target and generate revenue from. It's also a win-win for the government due to the following two arguments. 1) fatalities decrease - "ticketing speeders works to lets increase enforcement (and revenue)" 2) fatalities increase - "we need more enforcement to combat speeding (and generate revenue)" Call me cynical but I'm from Victoria, Australia where speed cameras are proliferating and the tolerance is 3km/h!!! All in the name of safety???

  32. Irish Insurance Company by rivalgangs · · Score: 1

    An Irish insurance company had already implemented this technology, using a gps tracker in your car it would track your speed and if you went over the speed limit more than 3 times in any month it would firstly give you warnings then cancel your insurance. It would reduce your insurance but they seem to have stopped using the technology as young male drivers (who were the only ones ment to use this service) didnt sign up in their thousands. I wonder why...

    1. Re:Irish Insurance Company by DrXym · · Score: 1
      As it happens, Ireland is actually a place where the system should have stood a good chance of working. Car insurance is extremely expensive for young male drivers. A system that could cut the bills in half should be seen as a good thing. I doubt the bad drivers would go for it, but the good ones in normal vehicles could.

      BTW the reason that insurance is expensive is because there are a lot of chavs / monkeys in that age bracket who stand a good chance of crashing, killing or maiming. The funniest thing I ever saw was a protest against high car insurance for young drivers. It passed through the town I was in at the time. Without exaggeration, every single driver in the parade was a monkey in a Astra GT (or cars of similar ilk) modded with spoilers, paintjobs, loudspeakers, custom horns etc. This parade of idiots made the insurance companies' case for them.

  33. A better idea by msafri · · Score: 1

    Instead of keeping a static limit on speed there should be a wireless system for each area that broadcasts a constant signal for speed limits and associated area code. This could be accomplished with existing telecom infrastructure already in place (WiFi, WiMax, Mobile network). The vehicle need only be aware of its current location using GPS, from which it can determine the area code and match that with the wireless reception. An automated speed governor would be more effective that way. This sort of system would be useful not only for teens but overspeeding adults, for eg. those already indicted in traffic violations as a mandatory requirement from traffic courts.

    1. Re:A better idea by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      No need for the WiFi (hi-fi, sci-fi) connections as you can simply upload limits' data from a central DB to the device when car's at home (once per week/month/year), unless ofc. your teen decides to drive it to another country...

    2. Re:A better idea by ReptileQc · · Score: 1

      That would be pretty easy to circumvent this. Use a laptop/pda/router/basically any wi-fi device and tweak it to send the speed data that YOU want to use and there you go!

      You still have to be careful though, you don't want to have to explain why you were driving at 155 km/h in a zone restricted to 150 km/h. :)

      reptileqc

  34. I'm not sure that's the answer by symbolic · · Score: 5, Interesting

    Much of teen driving problems come from two sources: overconfidence, and distractions. Some states have laws that permit only a certain number of people in the car at certain stages of the licencing process- and they do that for a reason. Teens are notorious for packing friends into a car to go out and 'have a good time', but the passengers become a major source of distraction. Despite what young drivers may think of their abilities, they need to concentrate on driving, and worry about having 'fun' after they exit the vehicle.

    1. Re:I'm not sure that's the answer by Uninvited+Guest · · Score: 1

      Teen driving problems come from distractions, lack of skill/experience, appeal of risky behavior, and (of all things) drowsiness (because teens need more sleep than adults, but typically get less). Restricting teen drivers with passengers helps. Restricting mobile phone usage while driving would also help. The device in the article addresses teens' tendency to seek risky behavior; i.e., speeding.

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    2. Re:I'm not sure that's the answer by hal2814 · · Score: 1

      While speeding can be risky behavior, I'd be much happier if the device were based on RPM instead. High RPMs on an automatic transmission means that someone is flooring the gas pedal. I'd much rather know about my child attempting burnouts or racing some other car than I care if they go 10MPH over on the Interstate. And I for one would be willing to subject myself to the same device (or even a speed-based device). I believe firmly in leading by example.

    3. Re:I'm not sure that's the answer by Uninvited+Guest · · Score: 1

      RPMs or acceleration calculations would be an interesting addition. Perhaps, it should add an accelerometer, to detect fast starts, quick stops, and careening around curves. Speeding is still important to track for teens, in particular, because it's such a big contributor to fatal teen collisions. Among male drivers between 15-20 years of age who were involved in fatal crashes in 2003, 39% were speeding at the time of the crash (NHTSA 2004a).

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  35. Re:ever tried getting speed information from a GPS by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    My guess is that the device reads the vehicle speed directly from the on-board diagnostic (OBD) computer. It's already calculating speed and other things in order to keep the engine running properly, so there's no point in using potentially-unreliable GPS data to calculate speed when you can simply plug in to the OBD port and have accurate data provided for you.

  36. Not always speed by Trailwalker · · Score: 5, Informative

    I work for a large cemetery. Every year, we have two periods when teens are killed in automobile accidents. The few weeks after school starts and the few weeks after school is out.

    These accidents seldom involve speeding. They usually happen in the teens own neighborhood. Losing control of the vehicle and hiting something solid or rolling over cause the fatalities.

    Better driver education, more emphasis on seatbelt use, etc. would save more lives than any speed recorder.

    1. Re:Not always speed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      IT guy for the cemetary? Working on that inter-life communications device? Ethernet drops in every coffin? What is it that you do there?

    2. Re:Not always speed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Funny

      Yes, every coffin gets a connection; unfortunately its dialup. Every body gets a FREE AOL disc.

    3. Re:Not always speed by Average_Joe_Sixpack · · Score: 1

      I have a feeling it is a BSD shop

    4. Re:Not always speed by stubear · · Score: 1

      "Losing control of the vehicle and hiting something solid or rolling over cause the fatalities."

      Neither of these precludes speed as a contributing factor. In fact, even driving 10-15mph over the speed limit greatly decreases control one has over their vehicle.

    5. Re:Not always speed by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      "In fact, even driving 10-15mph over the speed limit greatly decreases control one has over their vehicle."

      What kind of fact is that? What does the speed limit have to do with the amount of control a driver has? Are you saying that lowering the speed limit lowers drivers' control over the vehicle? That's exactly what your "fact" says.

      If we set the speed limit to 0 all our traffic injuries would be solved, right?

    6. Re:Not always speed by Inda · · Score: 1

      It's always speed. There aren't any other factors.

      After every crash ask yourself one question "If the driver was going slower could he have stopped in time?"

      "The other driver just pulled out on me! I couldn't stop!" - You could have stopped if you were going slower.

      "I didn't see the deer until it was too late!" - You could have stopped if you were going slower.

      "The tyre burst! I lost control! There was nothing I could do!" - You could have stopped if you were going slower.

      "I fell asleep at the wheel! The multiple pileup was the other drivers fault!" - You're a twat. And if the other cars were going slower they could have stopped.

      No accidents are caused by stationary cars travelling at zero mph... apart from stopping on level crossings, airport runways etc. And even then, if the plane or train was going slower could it have stopped in time?

      Speed limits. Just because it says 60mph on the sign doesn't mean it's safe to do 60mph. If you cannot stop in time then YOU'RE GOING TO FAST.

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    7. Re:Not always speed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      There was an incident a few years ago on 695, north of Baltimore MD. A pedestrian bridge was clipped by an improperly loaded truck, which collapsed a few minutes later. It -landed- on one vehicle, and a few others crashed into it. One fatality (the car that it landed on.)

      I guess the guy it landed on was going too fast to stop in time...

    8. Re:Not always speed by stubear · · Score: 1

      Ever heard of reaction time jackass? The faster you are traveling the shorter amount of time you have to react to changing conditions. Unless you've discovered a way to ignore the laws of physics reaction time, decreased when you increase speed, is a contributing factor in accidents. Reaction time is a fact. Nowhere did I suggest we decrease speed limits, I merely pointed out that both his examples did not preclude speed as a contributing factor and in fact speed was often a contributing factor in those types of accidents due to decreased reaction time.

    9. Re:Not always speed by RShizzle · · Score: 1

      Actually, in some of the deer infested portions of the world (like Northern Minnesota, where I'm from), it isn't unheard of for the traffic accident to involve the deer hitting you... not you hitting the deer. You might very well have just stopped the car, and it's just then that the deer decides to bolt across the road. Into your passenger side door. They're truly brilliant animals. (This is obviously a corner case).

      However, you also miss the fact that driving at a certain speed could be much to slow for safety. For example, note the minimum speeds on interstate highways. Although it is almost always the case that accidents can be avoided with increased attention paid to road safety laws... the speed isn't neccessarily too high.

      What you start arguing at the end gets a little ridiculous.

      No accidents are caused by stationary cars travelling at zero mph... apart from stopping on level crossings, airport runways etc. And even then, if the plane or train was going slower could it have stopped in time?

      Yes... it is true that if two objects exist at different physical locations will not collide... and that having different velocities will contribute to them not being at a physical location (at a particular point in time) that would allow a colloision... but doesn't the argument get a little trite there?

      But I am serious about the deer thing.

    10. Re:Not always speed by bmajik · · Score: 1

      Neither of these precludes speed as a contributing factor.

      Agreed
      In fact, even driving 10-15mph over the speed limit greatly decreases control one has over their vehicle.

      This is not only incorrect, but provably false.

      The speed limit on many sections of road has an arbitrary or politicized aspect to it.

      Suppose that I am willing to accept your premise that "driving over the limit decreases my control". Let's say the limit is 30, i am driving 40, so i have "n" units of decreased control.

      Scenario 1: municipality changes the limit from 30 to 25. I am now going 50% "more" over the limit than I used to be. Has my amount of control over the vehicle changed? I claim that it has not.

      Scenario 2: municipality elects some non-panties-wadded libertarian candidates to office; draconianly low speed limit revoked and changed to 40mph.

      I am now not exceeding the speed limit at all. Has my control over my vehicle improved?

      The point here is - the speed limit is not _the_ determinant factor regarding the safety of a particular driving profile, mostly because the speed limit is often poorly chosen.

      Bonus question: what is the relationship between having _no_ speed limit and vehicle control.. as we see on about 30% of Germany's Autobahn system? Are those vehicles being operated in infinite or perfect safety? (as an aside, i've driven on this road system with vehicles at Vmax for extended periods of time.. IME, it's much safer than setting cruise control on a US interstate's posted speed limit.. due to factor #1 and #4 below)

      The key determinants in what constitutes a "safe" speed are:
      driver awareness
      driver capability
      vehicle capability
      environment issues (visibility corridor, etc)

      You would have been correct if you had approached this from a physics perspective (small increases in speed cause sigificant increases in stopping distance; small increases in speed cause significant increases in KE, and thus damage imparted in a collision) but your post, as worded, is simply incorrect and confuses the issues.

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    11. Re:Not always speed by mbsatgt · · Score: 1
      It's always speed. There aren't any other factors.

      This is a ridiculous argument. Yes, speed is involved in all automobile accidents, and yes a lower speed (i.e., 0) can prevent all automobile accidents. It is NOT - nor can it ever be - the ONLY factor. Speed is one control point of a vehicle; there are two (plus warning indicators), and steering is the other. What you are ignoring is that all driving (i.e., speed being higher than 0 mph) is a calculated risk. This risk is worth something. Obviously sitting in the driveway at 0 mph doesn't get the young one to school. Walking across the street to the bus stop could also get them hit. Nothing about traffic accidents requires high speeds, and with the large masses of vehicles, (particularly these days) low speeds don't even assure that injuries don't occur when an accident does occur.

      As far as I am concerned, speed isn't even the major factor in accidents, the major factor is distractions. When someone is sitting at a red light and thinks the light turned green and presses the accelerator, rear-ending the person in front of them still stopped for the plainly green light, speed is not a factor.

    12. Re:Not always speed by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      Yes I have, "jackass". What does the speed limit have to do with reaction time? Does lowering the speed limit raise reaction time?

      I'll remind you again, this is what you posted:

      "In fact, even driving 10-15mph over the speed limit greatly decreases control one has over their vehicle."

      It is a fact that higher speeds limit what a car is capable of doing, but speed limits have nothing to do with that. Reaction times are a constant and do not affect the amount of control a driver has over his vehicle. I can't help it if you aren't able to commumicate effectively, but what you said is nonsense.

      "...reaction time, decreased when you increase speed, is a contributing factor in accidents. Reaction time is a fact."

      Sorry, another ignorant statement from you. Reaction times remain relatively constant and do not decrease with increasing speed. If only they would.

      "...n fact speed was often a contributing factor in those types of accidents due to decreased reaction time."

      Also ridiculously incorrect. Reaction time is constant. Learn your terms.

      Speed is always a contributing factor in accidents. If everyone was going 0 mph there would be no accidents. That point is inarguable and that's why police and insurance companies love it.

    13. Re:Not always speed by 955301 · · Score: 1

      No he's saying roads have a natural speed limit - if you exceed that roads limit you lose the capacity to maneuver on it. Case in point - try doing 25mph in a cul-de-sac. Or 35 at a 90 turn. The speed limit is supposed to reflect the suitable speed for the road and therefore, yes, exceeding that limit implies exceeding the roads natural limit.

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    14. Re:Not always speed by Drachemorder · · Score: 1

      "Actually, in some of the deer infested portions of the world (like Northern Minnesota, where I'm from), it isn't unheard of for the traffic accident to involve the deer hitting you... not you hitting the deer."

      We have that here in Mississippi too. We call it fast food.

    15. Re:Not always speed by wgaryhas · · Score: 1

      I think the grandparent post was using the wrong term. Yes, a person's reaction time stays relatively the same, but the time you have to react is reduced based upon how fast you are going. If it takes someone .4 seconds to realize they need to turn and to do so; they would need 14.7 ft to aviod a collision at 20 mph, but 25.7 ft at 35mph. To avoid the collision at a speed of 35mph at a distance of 14.7 ft would require a reaction time of 0.3 seconds. (most numbers pulled out of thin air)

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    16. Re:Not always speed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "The other driver just pulled out on me! I couldn't stop!" - You could have stopped if you were going slower.

      I refute this on the basis of simple physics: If your reaction time is, say, 200 ms, and the car pulls out in front of you with less than 200 ms of distance between you and him, you will hit him no matter what your speed is (unless it is 0, in which case, well, I can attest that sofas make more comfortable seats).

      "I didn't see the deer until it was too late!" - You could have stopped if you were going slower.

      Some animals run towards cars. I suppose negative speed *is* technically slower, but if that were good reasoning, then doing -100 km/h on city streets would be very safe. Furthermore, again, see my argument on reaction time above.

      "The tyre burst! I lost control! There was nothing I could do!" - You could have stopped if you were going slower.

      If the car chooses to accelerate in a sideways direction (a possible result from a tire popping), explain to me how you would stop the car any faster than a standard skid. Assuming something is close enough that your skid lasts long enough you hit it, you will hit it. Realize I didn't mention speed. Again, unless your speed is 0 you will hit that thing. Even if it were 1 km/h, you would hit said thing.

      "I fell asleep at the wheel! The multiple pileup was the other drivers fault!" - You're a twat. And if the other cars were going slower they could have stopped.

      Again, reaction time. However, if you fall asleep at the wheel, it not only may be from no fault of your own (yes, if you have that condition, driving may not be for you, but it could be undiagnosed) but could easily result in you no longer having control of the vehicle no matter what speed it was going originally, even 0, assuming you have a manual out of gear, or an automatic in gear, and the brakes are not applied.

      No accidents are caused by stationary cars travelling at zero mph... apart from stopping on level crossings, airport runways etc. And even then, if the plane or train was going slower could it have stopped in time?

      It can take several kilometers for a train to stop going at a regular pace. At a slow pace, it can still take severl hundred meters. Again, unless the train does not move, a collision will take place on any blind intersection (and there are plenty of these).

      If you expect the entire world to stop moving, literally, I suggest you re-think your priorities, as it is unlikely you will convince anyone that driving at 0 km/h or riding trains at the same speed is at all reasonable.

      If you cannot stop in time then YOU'RE GOING TO FAST.

      I counter: If you cannot stop in time then your reaction time is too slow. Not that this is something you are in great control of. Unfortunately, presented like that, it doesn't make a sensationalist headline.

      Also, if you are in great need of "proof" of this opinion, I would point you to my local area's statistics which show that, in fact, according even to the police investigators themselves (who all too often tout that speed is the most likely cause of accidents, against what their own reporting shows), speed is simply not a factor in the vast majority of accidents. See Table 2.8 on ORSAR.

      For your reference I reproduce it below, adjusted to percentages:

      Driving Properly - 49%
      Following Too Close - 8%
      Speed Too Fast - <1%
      Speed Too Fast for Conditions - 5%
      Speed Too Slow - <1%
      Improper Turn - 4%
      Disobey Traffic Control - 3%
      Fail to Yield Right of Way - 8%
      Improper Passing - <1%
      Lost Control - 7%
      Wrong Way on One Way Road - <1%
      Improper Lane Change - 3%
      Other* - 6%
      Unknown - 6%

      Hopefully that data will help you reconsider the unlikely notion that speed actually is generally the cause of accidents. It

    17. Re:Not always speed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Losing control of the vehicle and hiting something solid or rolling over cause the fatalities.

      Ok, right. So is it the fault of the vehicle or the fault of the solid thing? Wait, I'm wrong, it may be because of the kid's destiny, of course. Poor perfect kid who didn't do anything wrong. Let's apply the same reasonment to everything in life, and sue the car manufacturer for the so-difficult-to-control vehicule, the state for the "solid" trees or houses near the road, and while we are at it let's sue God for the fatalities.

      If you lose control, you did something wrong. Everybody does errors. No fatality here. Just accept it.

    18. Re:Not always speed by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      Clearly he is, but his original post mentioned nothing of reaction time. That's simply another absurd error he made in defending his senseless position.

      Speed limits have no bearing on the control you have of your vehicle. On the contrary, your ability to control your vehicle may be what determines the speed limit. In practice it does not. Most speed limits are set arbitrarily low to encourage a sufficient proportion of speeding. Ignoring that obvious bit of corruption, visibility and overall conditions generally determine what the maximum safe speed really is, not what the ultimate performance of the average vehicle can deliver. Exceeding the speed limit by 10 or 15 mph (the original poster's example) is, in fact, expected in the US since it's well established that limits are intentionally set low by that amount. As a result, there's no reason whatsoever to believe that such a speed jeopardizes the driver's ability to control the vehicle.

      In an ideal world, traffic laws would be just and speed limits appropriately set. There would be 100% compliance and essentially no collisions except for mechanical failures. 100% compliance would mean no traffic tickets and the result would be insufficient revenues and lost ability to judge the performance of traffic officers. In the real world, traffic cops are measured by their ability to meet quotas and local governments are partially and sometimes totally funded by traffic ticket revenues. Cops are poorly educated and poorly paid but pursue their careers because of the power trip it affords them. Traffic laws are not at all uniformly enforced since most fail to generate revuenue.

      It is well known that when speed limits are set reasonably there is near total compliance and when they are totally unreasonable they are largely ignored. Limits are set somewhere in between so that there is only partial compliance and officers are afforded discretion. That's how speed limits work. They have essentially nothing to do with how much control you have over your car.

      Near where I lived, a large blvd was opened to through traffic and the local residents were extremely mad about it. In order to placate them, speed limits were set to 35 mph even though 45 would have been expected (and 55 was easily supported by visibility). Traffic was horribly slow and every day, at the same spot, there was an assembly line of traffic tickets being handed out by the same group of police. After about 6 months of this the speed limits were raised, the cops disappeared, and congestion improved. Apparently they stopped the wrong guy or the judge had seen enough. Sadly, this is the norm for our society, not the exception. Anyone who thinks speed limits are set scientifically is a fool.

    19. Re:Not always speed by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      He needs to say what he intends to say. If it's so obvious what he really meant then perhaps there was no need to say it at all.

      Regarding the "natural speed limit", that is generally a function of visibility more than it is vehicle capability. In your example, it is probably true that the vehicle itself limits speeds, but most roads have hazards that you can easily outdrive without pushing your car's limits. For example, Formula 1 races are set on city streets and therefore provide ample evidence that a car *could* go 150+ mph in those areas. No way they would be doing that if grandma were backing out onto the course from your driveway.

      Finally, there is only a loose correlation between "natural speed limits" and posted ones. Drivers, except the most inexperienced ones, have a natural feel for what speeds are safely supported by conditions. Speed limits are generally set much lower than that (at least in the US). One can only conclude that exceeding the posted limit by a modest amount is unlikely to ever result in a compromise in vehicle handling. That is what the original poster *intended* to say IMO and it's simply incorrect. Cars, over the years, have made great improvements in handling safety and roads have generally improved. Sadly, speed limits have not gone up as a result (freeways excluded).

    20. Re:Not always speed by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      Ahhh some people get it and some don't.

      If only we set speed limits to 0 everywhere. Then everyone who drove would be infinitely lacking control over their vehicles. What an unsafe world we would live in then.

    21. Re:Not always speed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "Yes, every coffin gets a connection; unfortunately its dialup. Every body gets a FREE AOL disc."
      Yeah, but fortunately, all you have is time, so the slow connection doesn't really matter.

    22. Re:Not always speed by myth24601 · · Score: 1
      What does the speed limit have to do with the amount of control a driver has?

      I am not an expert on how much control you loose but at 15MPH over the speed limit means your going 22' farther per second then you would if you were going the speedlimit. That gives you more time to react if something does happen. So in a neighborhood 22' might be a long way when a car suddenly pulls out in front of you or a kid runs out in front of your car. Then there is the fact that the stopping distance will be longer when going faster too.

      I have been in a neighborhood and had a kid run out in front of me and thought, I sure am glad I wasn't going a lot faster.

      Back when I was 16, a buddy of mine flipped his moms car when he swerved to miss a bag that blew accross the road but he said he thought it was a dog. A more expireance driver would have probibly not been going as fast and probibly would have opted to run over a dog/bag rather than attempt a dangerous evasive manuver. If a kid runs out in front of you the split second desicion becomes harder (hit the kid or swerve into a tree or into a parked car or into the oposing lane where there may be a car coming so that 22' per second from going slower would come in handy)

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    23. Re:Not always speed by myth24601 · · Score: 1
      I guess the guy it landed on was going too fast to stop in time...

      No. He was going too slow, should have gotten a turbo model.

      Feel free to mod me down for bad taste.

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    24. Re:Not always speed by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      There is control, there is speed, and then there is the speed limit. While speed and control are related, the speed limit is not. Get it? The government can change speed limits all they want and the control of my car is unaffected.

      As for your example in a neighborhood, it's not control that is the problem, it's visibility. Visibility is the issue with stopping distances as well.

      No speed is a safe speed when a kid jumps out in front of your car. The only answer to that case is to not drive.

  37. How does it protect against tampering? by Hast · · Score: 1

    Several ways to tamper with the device has already been mentioned. But how about just removing the SD card and removing the violations?

    Since it doesn't seem to track the actual speed limit (that would be quite a bit more complex) it seems like it would need a pretty high preset limit. (Or a limit for in city driving.)

    It's a pretty neat project though. And making your own hardware box like that is not a small feat for anyone.

  38. Impractical idea, concept doesn't work well by EmagGeek · · Score: 1

    Ok, so say the parents set the speed limit at 55... so what if the speed limit is 25? The kid can go 30MPH over the speed limit and the parents would be none the wiser. What about smoking the tires at a red light, or racing? This won't pick it up at all.

    I developed a system for a friend of mine to put in his kid's car that uses a MEMS accelerometer. We don't care so much about speed, but rather when the kid is accelerating, either longitudinally or laterally, at unacceptable levels. Basically, if he guns it, takes corners too fast, or brakes hard, we know about it. These factors are far more associated with reckless driving than is velocity. My device also logs the positions of all three pedals and also what gear the gearbox is in.

    This not only keeps the kid driving safe, but also allows him to analyze his kid's Solo-2 runs.

    1. Re:Impractical idea, concept doesn't work well by ferrgle · · Score: 1

      I agree - The reckless driving is the problem not how fast you go, per se.
      Accelerating to 10Mph very quickly and then hitting a child is more dangerous that crusing along at 20Mph and avoiding the child.
      At the end of the day - speed doesnt kill people - people not driving with due care and attention kill people.

  39. yea... by Heem · · Score: 1

    That kid is SO gonna get beat up at school.

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  40. Highway speed limits in us by bxbaser · · Score: 1

    are up to 75 mph in some states. So unless you want your kids doing 50 mph on the highway you let them go 75 in the city.

    1. Re:Highway speed limits in us by multipartmixed · · Score: 1

      If you live in NYC, your kid has no business being on the interstate in Montana without you knowing about it.

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  41. Corrections by infernow · · Score: 1

    One, I accidentally posted anonymously before. I suppose that's what I get for posting while tired.

    Two, after reading TFA a second time, I see that I was wrong about it plugging in to the OBD port. Looks like it just plugs into a 12V outlet for power. I guess not having to deal with lots of different connector cables was more important than having increased data accuracy.

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    1. Re:Corrections by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      GPS is sufficiently accurate, if you know how to interpret the data. Good GPS trackers record the number of satellites and/or accuracy for every data point. If you have that information, it's trivial to only use readings below a certain error threshold. If you only have the location data, then you can still filter out readings which deviate too much from a sliding average. You can't go 35mph one second, then 60mph, and then 50mph in the opposite direction the next second. Just take a look at a typical tracklog, you'll see what I mean. GPS doesn't handle acceleration and deceleration well because of the coarse sampling rate (1/s usually), but averages over a few seconds of constant speed driving are plenty accurate, because, while GPS readings are not very accurate, they are very precise (meaning that a GPS reading may be several meters off from the actual position, but the relative error is almost the same as for other readings around the same location and around the same time).

  42. Unnecessary features? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I can accept some intrinsic value to trying to curb speeding. But the "foggy windshield detector"? That just seems spiteful...

  43. Re:Offtopic: Lunenburg by twistedsymphony · · Score: 1
    This is completely off topic, but I feel it is worth mentioning that the teen is from Lunenburg, Nova Scotia, Canada.
    Really? because the summery says: "A teen in Massachusetts... "

    As someone who was born and raised in Massachusetts I think it would be a disgrace to the great country of Canada mixing them up like that.
  44. The Problem with GPS and Speending... by Brother+Dysk · · Score: 1

    The problem with GPS and speeding is that it detects when you go above a speed limit (whether it be the one defined by traffic law, or in this case by your parents) but it cannot tell why. What if it's because you're overtaking? In that situation you want to go quite fast (above the limit almost certainly) in order to get back into the correct lane (and in many cases out of the way of oncoming traffic). But with a GPS device like this (and many many others like it that try to counteract speeding) you end up on the shitter for it - even if you were overtaking someone going 20 under the limit so that you could cruise along, unobstructed, at 10 below the limit. Seriously, GPS for the whole speeding thing? Not an ideal solution...

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    1. Re:The Problem with GPS and Speending... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Interesting
      The problem with GPS and speeding is that it detects when you go above a speed limit (whether it be the one defined by traffic law, or in this case by your parents) but it cannot tell why. What if it's because you're overtaking?

      Then the GPS will record it, and when your parents ask you about it you tell them the reason. In fact, if your GPS is as sensitive as mine you'll be able to see the lane change on the map.

      I already have a GPS which tracks me every time I drive my car. I'd gladly let my wife or my son see the whole thing - I don't see the big deal.

  45. Re:Offtopic: Lunenburg by Sushhh · · Score: 1, Funny

    You're right, that's absolutely completely off topic.

  46. Re:Offtopic: Lunenburg by ewisnor · · Score: 0

    Seeing how this particular news site is local to Massachusettes I can't say I agree with you. Also, the article doesn't state anything about Nova Scotia, but talks about him going to Washington D.C. to collect money from some sort of contest that he won and mentions the "University of Massachusetts Traffic Safety Research Program".

    Besides... young programmers in a backwater Nova Scotia fishing village? Eh? Isn't that town still on dial-up?

  47. Of course! by hcdejong · · Score: 1

    Everyone knows speeding is the only possible cause of traffic accidents. (/sarcasm)

    This sort of thinking bugs me no end. Accident statistics clearly show that speed is a contributing factor in a minority (maybe 20%) of accidents and the sole cause of an even smaller percentage. Driving while distracted causes many more accidents.
    Yet, where I live, >95% of traffic citations are for speeding. For the last few years, we've had more speeding tickets per year than we have licensed drivers, meaning that on average, everyone who has a license now gets one speeding ticket/year. The majority of these tickets are for minor offences (10 km/h on roads outside built-up areas).

    1. Re:Of course! by Dachannien · · Score: 1

      The idea is that (a) speeding is easy to catch, (b) more tickets means increased revenue for the city, and (c) people who flout the speed limit are likely irresponsible drivers in other ways as well.

    2. Re:Of course! by hcdejong · · Score: 1

      But the message it sends is 'do whatever you want, we don't care as long as you do it below the speed limit'. A message that's received loud and clear by the general public, if our roads are any indication. So traffic safety ends up being no better than before, which leaves revenue generation as a main reason to continue this tactic.

  48. You learn through mistakes by brunes69 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    People who coddle their children have them grow into misfits, because they don't know how to act in the real world. On the other hand, people who let their kids run wild have them grow to be criminals and outcasts, because the kids grow witht he notion that it doesn't matter what they do since no one cars.

    You should raise a child with plenty of freedom, but make sure the child knows they will be held responsible for their own mistakes. I was given my own car when I was 16 - but I had to pay my own insurance. And I knew if I trashed the thing, or got tickets so my insurance would go up, etc - that Mommy and Daddy would *not* be bailing me out.

    1. Re:You learn through mistakes by D-Cypell · · Score: 5, Insightful

      I couldn't agree more. However, I think it is very important to let the reins out slowly. The jump from getting everywhere on foot (or bicycle) to driving is a huge one in terms of responsibility and freedom. This device seems to be a good way to break up this huge jump by saying, "Yes you can now spread your wings a little, but we will be checking exactly where you are spreading them until you earn the right to take the next step. I wouldn't class this as 'coddling' but more as demonstrating that certain rights have to be earned. I have known several people who killed themselves on the road within a year of getting their driving license and many more who (in my opinion) are lucky to be alive. I was often laughed at for driving at reasonable speed and following basic road rules but if my circle were going anywhere and there were a few cars to travelling in... mine was always full :).

      Managing the jumps in freedom is one of the biggest parental responsibilities. This is clearly demonstrated by all the students who gain their first feeling of independance when they go to university and decide that the best thing to do would be to drink themselves to death.

    2. Re:You learn through mistakes by ggKimmieGal · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I absolutely agree. Too much of a good thing is a very bad thing. My parents also made me pay my insurance, but by paying, I earned the right to drive wherever I wanted. I decided to go to a very tiny private school for college. First semester there I found I didn't have a lot in common with about 90% of the student body. None of them had ever worked or even so much as paid for their own cell phone plan.

    3. Re:You learn through mistakes by plague3106 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There's a problem with this however. You assume that slower = safer. It does not. Many localities set speed limits lower than the speed recommended by a traffic engineering study. Doing so results in an unsafe speed limit which will actually raise the chances of having an accident.

      Add to the fact that many localities also now do an end run around the constitution by saying speeding is a 'civil' violation and do other things to stack the deck in their favor, you soon realize that modern speed limits have nothing to do with safety and are in fact just a way to generate revenue for the state.

      To really address the safety issue we need to fix the laws and how speed limits are set. Issuing tickets does absolutely NOTHING to address safety. Nobody stops speeding because of tickets and paying the fine is supporting the arbitrary unsafe limit.

    4. Re:You learn through mistakes by plague3106 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      You ignore the fact that you are instilling a sense of distrust in your kid. You don't really trust them, and thus they will not trust you. They'll also likely have problems trusting everyone, since if your own parents can't learn to trust you, how can you possibly trust anyone else?

      If by the age of 16 you still can't trust your kid, I think you have serious problems in your relationship with them.

    5. Re:You learn through mistakes by tsa · · Score: 1

      I have known several people who killed themselves on the road within a year of getting their driving license and many more who (in my opinion) are lucky to be alive.

      After riding with my friend a few times when he just had his license I refused to get into a car that would be driven by him for a long time. The guy is still alive and one of my best friends, but he had a few close calls. Driving after a few beers etc... grrr...

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    6. Re:You learn through mistakes by GeckoX · · Score: 5, Insightful

      _giving_ a 16 year old a car is the STUPIDEST thing ANY parent could do at that point.

      For SOO many reasons.

      Driving a vehicle is a huge responsibility, one which most 16 year olds are not fully ready for, PARTICULARLY if they're just handed the keys...they have no concept of the repercussions. They have no respect for vehicles. They have no concept of the financial end of things. And by GIVING them a car, you take away the chance for them to learn these things.

      I never had my own car until I worked my ass off long enough to buy my own, and pay for my own insurance.

      I was able to borrow my parents car, on occasion, but certainly not regularly. And even then, I had to pay for my own insurance.

      I've never wrecked a car. I've never been reckless with a car. My sister, my wife, her brother...all similar circumstances growing up. ALL of us have respect for vehicles.

      Just about everyone I know though that was given their first car ended up totalling it in one way or the other.

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    7. Re:You learn through mistakes by GeckoX · · Score: 5, Insightful

      There's trust, and there's trust.

      Trust your 16 year old to be good, honest etc etc.

      Don't trust your 16 year old to make the right decision the first time they're at a friends house, have a couple drinks with the older brother, and have their shiney new car you bought them sitting outside.

      Trust must be earned, and is not a blanket that covers everything all in one go.

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    8. Re:You learn through mistakes by Ubergrendle · · Score: 1

      I think its good to raise your children with a sense of distrust in the world -- trust has to be earned. Far too many children have been victimised by authority figures simply because they had a unfounded sense of trust in their role: scout leaders, teachers, priests, family membres, even police officers.

      Until a child is 18, they are a minor and are NOT entitled to many of the freedoms afforded to full fledged members of society (e.g. adults). Some rules are fairly stupid, like you can fight and die for your country but you can't legally drink or smoke. Others aren't freedoms at all, they're privileges -- driving being one.

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    9. Re:You learn through mistakes by plague3106 · · Score: 2, Informative

      How is it off topic? The goal of this device is to stop speeding, which is violating the posted limit. How that posted limit is set is the issue here.

      You're a liar. One ticket and you never did it again? Ya, ok.

      Its funny, because in PA near Philadelphia, the limit on the interstates is 55. Yet traffic flows quite nicely around 75 mph. Yet there was not carnage everywhere, as you claim to think. And yes, in that case the ass going 55 while everyone around is doing 75 IS MORE DANGEROUS. But you probably don't even realize that some states have a MINIMUM limit on interstates as well. Gee, why would they do that? Forcing people to go AT LEAST a speed!? So dangerous!!

      I never said to abolish speed limits, I said most are set to generate revenue, and set unsafely LOW. The safe speed for a road can be determined through a scientific study.

      This device is attempting to solve the wrong problem; careless teens cause accidents and this device (like modern speed limit enforcement) does nothing to solve the problem.

      The problem with speed limits is that you just assume that going X when the limit is Y means its more dangerous, which is not the case. It'd be kinda like punishing someone for being a sex offender, if the only thing you need to do to become one would be to buy a Playboy.

      The law is not infallible; the state doesn't always have OUR best intrests at heart. A state setting limits lower than an engineering study is doing so to generate money because its PROVEN that setting anything lower than the study says is unsafe. You are free to ignore 40 years of traffic engineering studies. Do you still believe the sun revolves around the earth too? Oh no, someone's breaking an unjust law! The horror!

      Its people like you that are sliding our country closer and closer to facism.

    10. Re:You learn through mistakes by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      > You need to move to afghanistan or iraq or something where you don't have to
      > worry about 'The State' giving you speeding tickets for BREAKING THE LAW.

      Or Montana.

    11. Re:You learn through mistakes by CastrTroy · · Score: 2, Interesting

      It's only unsafe when lowering the speed limit, because nobody listens, and nobody enforces it. Then you when you get somebody who actually obeys the limit, it causes chaos. Just an example. I live in Canada, and many of the 4 lane roads (not highways) that commuters take to work have a 50 km/h speed limit. Nobody obeys the limit, and everybody drives around 70 km/h. Nobody get's ticketed for driving 70 km/h. Now, because everybody is driving 70, it's very easy for the cops to find a person driving 80, and give them a ticket for going 30 over the limit. Really he isn't going that much faster than everyone else, but he is going significantly over the "limit". I think it's completely crazy that drivers put up with this kind of situation, where they set the limits too low, and can basically give you a ticket whenever they want. The province even states that you can get a ticket for travelling 16 km/h over the limit, and get 3 demerit points.

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    12. Re:You learn through mistakes by bilbravo · · Score: 1

      It must be a very slippery slope to go from "knowing where your kids are" to "coddling them" into misfits.

      I think this poster had a point... it's good to know where your kids are, and to be interested and concerned in their lives. That proves to make better children than just ignoring them and/or letting them do whatever their hearts desire.

      I think this device is a great idea... after all, unless the kid is paying for his or her own car/insurance/gas, then the parents have every right to know what the kid is doing with their (the parents') money.

    13. Re:You learn through mistakes by misfit815 · · Score: 1

      Putting a kid behind the wheel without any oversight is not simply a matter of trust. There is an overwhelming temptation to abuse that trust, and any human being, no matter how virtuous, is not perfect. I'd trust my kids not to smoke crack, too, but I'm not going to leave my daughter in a room by herself with a crack pipe. Too often, we like to find out how close to the fire we can get before being burnt, when we should actually just stay as far away from the fire as we can get.

      I was out with the President of my company at lunch once. He drove his nifty little Porsche. When leaving the restaurant, he asked if I'd like to drive it. I immediately declined, joking that it was a matter of job security. Personally, I'd love to put that car through its paces. Instead of getting behind the wheel and hoping I could suppress my normal (ok, Andretti-like) driving habits, I just stayed the hell away. It was a minor thing, and funny more than anything, but a clear example of how to deal with these situations.

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    14. Re:You learn through mistakes by ashooner · · Score: 1

      Yes, you say you trust your son immediately after listing behavior your son would rightly perceive as you as distrusting him. pick one

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    15. Re:You learn through mistakes by AusIV · · Score: 1
      Your son gets his third speeding ticket in the six months since he got his license. In general, he's a good kid, he works hard in school, has a steady girlfriend, and has a job to pay for his car, but just can't keep that pedal off the floor. With this latest speeding ticket, he can no longer afford to pay his insurance, and asks you to help him out.

      Lots of parents would just say "nope, you're out of luck." But a lack of a car would mean he couldn't get to his job or take his girlfriend out. You decide to give him two choices: he loses his car, or you help pay for insurance, and in exchange he has to accept one of these devices in his car.

      In a case like that, I'd be happy to have my parents put one of those devices in my car. I'd be glad that they trusted me enough to help with my insurance, and very glad to still be driving. I'd probably be more cautious of a driver just to maintain my parents trust, regardless of what consequences my parents might put in place for speeding.

      Yes, if you put this in your kid's car before they have an opportunity to betray your trust, you have trust issues. But if you know your kid has a habit of speeding, it seems like a nice alternative to not having a car at all.

    16. Re:You learn through mistakes by bilbravo · · Score: 2, Interesting

      I'm torn... I agree with what the other guy says (I have gotten a few tickets, and do not speed--note that speeding here generally means excessive speeds and/or all the time--I try to at least go with the flow in areas you discuss). Nobody can claim to only go the speed limit and nothing above it. It's nearly impossible.

      However, 55 MPH on the beltway in D.C. and Baltimore is insane. First, nobody does it... even I, the non-speeder maintain a comfortable 60-65. However, the roads here are not meant to or are they in condition to handle speeds much higher than 75-ish. Not to mention the fact that the ones doing this are generally (sorry for the stereotype) aggressive drivers who are swerving around 4 lanes of traffic, or are some young teenager who thinks that he/she is invincible.

    17. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      At first, when I read your post, I was thinking, "well, my parents paid for everything until I was out of college, and I'd like to think I have respect for my vehicles". Then I thought about it. I never piled up any of my cars, nor got any speeding tickets (although I'm only 27, so I've got plenty of time to get nailed yet).

      You're right, I think I did probably drive a lot more wrecklessly when I was younger. In fact, I know I did. It didn't take a wreck to convince me, it took a few too many close calls. I happened to be lucky enough to avoid disaster, but I think it helped me straighten up.

      My wife would still say I drive wrecklessly. Perhaps I do. I tend to have a lead foot. I think speed limits are set artificially low to increase revenue. I'm not *against* speed limits, just unreasonable ones. Why do I have to drive 15 mph past a *high school* that happens to border a *highway* when "children" are present??

    18. Re:You learn through mistakes by b0bby · · Score: 1

      You know what? My kids are great, but I expect that when they're 16 I won't trust them to always make good decisions. I sure as hell didn't at 16. So, before letting them out into a situation where they will have the power to kill themselves or others as a result of a momentary lapse of judgement, I'm going to do whatever I can to minimise the risks. That means teaching them how to drive well, and may well include some kind of technology like this. I "trust" that my kids are nice & well meaning, but I don't "trust" them to fly an airplane or drive an 18-wheeler. Setting sensible restrictions on a kid doesn't mean you don't trust them, they're just not ready for certain responsibilities.

    19. Re:You learn through mistakes by toofast · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I don't think it's a sense of distrust... But then again, when I got my license to drive at 17, my
      parents only very reluctantly lent me their car twice. Despite being on my best behaviour both times, they made it clear that if I wanted to drive, I would have to buy my own car.

      So I got a part time job, borrowed money from Dad and bought a decent used car, and paid back every penny of my loan. And hey, the car was mine, so I was free to do as I please. Abuse it? Break it? Too bad, I had to fix it.

      Despite that, I still managed to earn a college diploma and today, at 33, I have a wife, kids, 3 cars, a nice house that's paid for and a great job.

      I think letting your kids drive around in a vehicle that doesn't belong to them reduces their incentive to work and pay for what they want. Has nothing to do with responsibility. You want it, earn it!

    20. Re:You learn through mistakes by dup_account · · Score: 1

      Just an FYI. I suspect that this device gets set to a *single* maximum speed. So if the parents decide the kid can't go over 45 (keep em off the highways), then that kid can go 44 MPH everywhere...

      This kind of device is really just a pacifier for the parents... So they can feel better if something bad happens... "But we set Johnnies max speed to 45!"

    21. Re:You learn through mistakes by shaneh0 · · Score: 1, Troll

      This is actually amusing. Your argument is that speed limits are "unsafely low." As evidence, you suggest that the person driving the speed limit is at a higher risk then those driving twenty miles over the limit. But, as you have kindly explained, it's unsafe to drive the speed limit ONLY because the drivers around you are SPEEDING.

      That was some interesting logic you used, but I don't buy it. Yes, the guy doing 20 miles less then the traffic flow IS an obstacle. But it's not his fault. It's people like you, who feel you're entitled to drive 75 in a 55, who look at the guy driving 55 as the problem.

      I have to agree that it sounds like you're just a little bitter over some speeding tickets. Yes, they're a revenue-generator. No, that is not a bad thing.

      Let me ask you 2 things:

      1) If they set the limit to 75, do you think people would stop speeding? I don't think they would. I think you'd have people doing 85-90.
      2) Even if everyone did stop violating the limit, do you think the government will operate w/ less revenue? I think you'd see them make up for it elsewhere. Higher fees on licenses, license platers, sales taxes, property taxes, etc.

      But what do you think?

    22. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're a moron. You say that if one person is going the speed limit and everyone else speeds then it is HIS fault if something happens. Your logic is a bit twisted, and this is completely false. Do lots of people speed on the interstate? Yes, and anyone who drives on ANY interstate knows that. But to say that it would be dangerous if EVERYONE went the speed limit on an interstate is just plain asinine. The REASON going 55 on an interstate is dangerous is because of the people that speed, not because of the person going 55.

      Are the roads built for going faster? Yes.
      Can everyone go 75 comfortably? No. Hell, some cars will barely even go that fast.

      If you want to raise the speed limits, go lobby your local reps -- don't complain about the people that obey the law.

    23. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      you shouldn't be allowed to smoke once you turn 18 either.. you shouldn't be allowed to smoke period - it infringes the rights of non-smokers

      chew your tobacco

    24. Re:You learn through mistakes by indifferent+children · · Score: 3, Funny
      Or Montana.

      No, too many armed crazies in Montana. Stick with Iraq or Afghanistan.

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    25. Re:You learn through mistakes by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      I was never given a car, but I had free usage of my parents cars. I've never gotten into an at-fault accident (I have had other morons hit me), I've had one speeding ticket my entire life (5 over... I was farking going downhill! anal cop!), etc.

      PS: if all of traffic is going 75 in a 70 zone, except you who is going 70 - it is you who is, strictly speaking, the traffic hazard

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    26. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I'm a former DOT (Michigan) employee. The speed limits were most assuredly not created for safety reasons. This was a side effect - sure - but speed limits mostly had to do with....

      Gas mileage!

      Speed limits came about (at least the 55 mph) during the US's first energy crisis...

    27. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      An unsafe speed is not one "set" to low. An unsafe speed is one that significantly differs from the average or a mixture of different speeds. In your example sited, a majority is probably driving 50 and the speed limit is maybe 25. If 50% are trying to drive 50mph and 50% are trying to maintain 25mph, you will have major problems and can this can be very unsafe. This increases the lane changes, causes sudden slowdowns and disrupts the normal flow. If everyone actually drove 25mph, the overall safety would increase compared to if everyone drove 50mph. To get everyone or a vast majority to go the posted speed is a different issue and this is where the engineers and the local government must work together. You can really see this concept on interstates near big cities. At night when there is less traffic, it is very common for all four lanes in the same direction of a highway to be bumper to bumper and everyone going 85mph. As you approach an exit or a slower vehicle, you will notice people scrambling for lanes and a lot of brakes and acceleration changes. This dynamic condition is the major cause of accidents. Assume for a minute that everyone was going 55mph. You would still have the same scrambling but at a much lower speed, it WOULD be saver for everyone at that slower speed. In either case, some idiot trying to go 25mph in the fast lane is almost certainly going to be the indirect cause of an accident just as someone going 125mph in those same conditions.

      In summary, your statement about the speed limit being to low causing more accidents is not quite correct, there is more to that statement and the lower limit is not the direct problem. The problem is a higher percentage of people that ignore the lower limit and then share the road with people that do obey it. That turbulent mix of the two causes problems. In some cases, raising the limit may reduce the turbulance but that may cause other side effects like more people getting hit in the cross walks or getting rear ended when they pull out of the side streets in a business district.

    28. Re:You learn through mistakes by Atheose · · Score: 1

      The posted speed limit isn't just there to reduce the amount of car accidents, but also to reduce the severity. A higher speed limit may not mean more accidents, but the accidents that do happen are going to be far more lethal.

    29. Re:You learn through mistakes by GooberToo · · Score: 1

      You obviously don't have kids. Trust is earned. Period. Lack of trust is not always an issue of the relationship. Often, it's an issue of the child's behavior and track record. If a child is lacking trust in the parent/child relationship, more than likely, it's because the child has been screwing up...and often they know it. At the same time, since they are a teenager (16, as you cited), while they know they have to earn that trust back, doesn't mean they understand how to do it or always have that in the forefront of their mind while they are plotting how to screw up again.

      When you have good parents, a lack of trust is almost always because of a child's previous performance. Generally speaking, a child has to have been trusted to be in a position where (s)he is no longer trusted. And no surprise, teenagers suffer from a form of brain damage until they hit 20-25. So it's no real surprise that issues like this pop up.

    30. Re:You learn through mistakes by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      "Troll" ... Hilarious! Don't worry, you'll be meta-moderated unfair.

    31. Re:You learn through mistakes by op2hacker · · Score: 1

      I think people are missing the point here.

      Yes, I do agree that speeding is dangerous.. what makes it dangerous is the DIFFERENCE in speeds between two vehicles. If all vehicles went the same speed it'd be pretty safe (well, with exceptions such as at cross streets - you have to be able to slow down in a reasonable amount of time).

      Am I saying we should raise the speed limit to 90 and then everyone should go 90? No, but some speed limits are just plain TOO SLOW. I really feel this in the UP of Michigan (look at a map, hopefully the map actually has the UP on there - many don't) as there is only one freeway in the ENTIRE UP (which goes from Sault Ste Marie to the Mackinac Bridge into Lower Michigan - I don't live even remotely close to that). All the other federal and state roads are mostly 2 to 4 lane non-divided highways with few turn-offs. All are posted at no higher than 55 MPH. The highways can definitely handle vehicles travelling on them at faster than 55 (and many people do.. especially the TV news crews, going about 75-85). The bottom line is that going the speed limit (like I do, I don't feel like getting a ticket since there are plenty of 'fun' speed traps near where I live) just takes a long time. The UP is a few hundred miles long from west to east (Ironwood to DeTour/Drummond Island). Even from where I live (central) it probably takes 6 hours to get to Ironwood.

      If they increased the legal speed limit on rural highways to 65 or 70 I really don't think that we would have more accidents. People would go the speed limit and get where they need to be faster.

      The limit wouldn't need to, and shouldn't be increased in more populated areas.

      Would the minority of people still speed? Yes, I'm sure of it, but for the majority of people it would just improve things as it wouldn't take so long to get from place to place.

    32. Re:You learn through mistakes by GeckoX · · Score: 1

      What the hell is going on?

      One side of this discussion has been completely modded up, and the other has been flagged troll out of existence...but hardly any of the posts flagged as troll were even REMOTELY trolling?

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    33. Re:You learn through mistakes by mickisdaddy · · Score: 1

      The speed limit outside of the cities (rural areas) in Colorado is 75 and people drive 85-90 mph.

    34. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You should be able to do whatever you want as long as you're not hurting someone else.

      e.g., smoking in restaurant = bad
      smoking in a smoking area = fine
      smoking by yourself at home = fine
      smoking in a crowded place = bad

      Regardless of age.

    35. Re:You learn through mistakes by GeckoX · · Score: 1

      Maybe so you have a chance to react if one of said children does something stupid like walk out into the street without looking?

      Sure, maybe it's something that ideally you wouldn't have to deal with, but do you want to try falling to sleep at night, every night, for the rest of your life with nothing but the image of a child rolling across your hood to comfort you?

      Sheesh. Does everyone _have_ to get everywhere Right Now, or could we maybe take our time once in a while, if even only for a FEW SECONDS AT A TIME.

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    36. Re:You learn through mistakes by shreak · · Score: 1

      You said
      "Its funny, because in PA near Philadelphia, the limit on the interstates is 55. Yet traffic flows quite nicely around 75 mph"

      Then ride in the right lane. The people going 75 are doing it in the faster lanes. This is not unsafe unless you are one of those morons that likes to go 75 in the slow lane.

      Second:
      From the article:
      "His program will let Speed-Demon users view a Google map of the time, location and path of the car when the speeding occurred. If no speeding occurs, parents will not be able to see the path of the car at any time"

      So if parents agree that on I-95 going 55 is the wrong thing to do, the info is there.
      "I was on 95, you know it's nuts to go 55 there!"
      " True 'dat my boy, True 'dat"

      =Shreak

    37. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Meh, personal experience, not all that insightful. I was given my first car the day I turned 16. I got one speeding ticket a few months later, learned my lesson, haven't had one since (going on six years), and I've never been in an accident. I'm glad the method your parents choose worked for you, but the elevated opinion of yourself that you now have really isn't worth it (:

      On the other hand, I knew a girl in high school whose father owned a car dealership and between 16 and 19 she totaled I think four cars.

    38. Re:You learn through mistakes by nolife · · Score: 1

      I agree as well but taking your car away from your 16 year old son because he was driving 110mph is not coddling. A mistake by an inexperienced driver (or any driver for that matter) at that speed is unfortunately not something many people have a chance to learn from. Of course if you ask almost any 16 year old boy, they will tell you they are experienced and can drive good.
      We are not talking about sneaking in some porn online or drinking an inch from your vodka bottle. To each his own I guess.
      I give my kids a lot of freedom and they have got burned by not listening to advice and I've got burned as well assuming they were doing something wrong when they were not. Adjustments to our rules are made as required and individualized on a per kid basis as they grow and learn. There is no blanket method to determine what is acceptable and what you will punish for.

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    39. Re:You learn through mistakes by rnelsonee · · Score: 1

      I would agree that giving a teen a car will probably result in a lack of respect for the car, but saying you should *never* give a teen a car is wrong in my opinion. How else was I supposed to get to work without a car? I wanted to have fun in high school, which means I needed to get a job. I worked to pay the insurance and gas for the thing, and kept the extra for fun. And yes, I was a little reckless - I got in an accident with it, which caused a jump in the insurance as well as a nice $2,000 repair bill. But I was able to pay it off by working. Maybe you're referring to giving a kid a car, plus paying all expenses, but even then, as long as the kid faces reprecussions for accidents/speeding tickets, which I'm sure they would, what's wrong with trusting your teen to respect their property and their money?

    40. Re:You learn through mistakes by adamjaskie · · Score: 1

      I agree. This device would be better if it somehow tracked attentiveness, tailgating, cutting people off, use of turn signals, not running red lights or stop signs, keeping right except to pass, and how fast or slow the child was going in relation to other cars on the road. All of these have much more of an effect on driving safety than a simplistic measure of speed. The problem isn't going faster than the speed limit, the problem is going faster or slower than the cars around you. If you are on the highway, and everyone is going 80, while the speed limit is 70, the safest speed is 80.

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    41. Re:You learn through mistakes by OverlordQ · · Score: 1

      No, were not missing the point.

      You're saying that it's the fault of the law-abiding citizen and not the law-breaking citizen.

      We're saying you're a moron for thinking that.

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    42. Re:You learn through mistakes by daivzhavue · · Score: 1

      Sadly, those days of "Reasonable and Prudent" are behind us. Fun while it lasted though. :)

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    43. Re:You learn through mistakes by Don853 · · Score: 1

      Seconded. If someone who has [a lot] of mod points could fix this, it really is a problem.

    44. Re:You learn through mistakes by adamjaskie · · Score: 1

      Yeah, it is a good idea for that. If set at a reasonable speed, it is only going to trigger when Johnny does something really stupid. There is absolutely no reason Johnny should be going over 90, for example. There are highways around here where traffic flows in the 80s, but 90 is pretty rediculous.

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    45. Re:You learn through mistakes by Larkvi · · Score: 1

      Having just driven Toronto-San Francisco and back, almost the entire time at speed limit or speed limit +5, I must say that, having encountered limits from 45-75 mph on the highway, people were exceeding all of them by the same margins. The biggest danger I regularly faced on those roads were people who thought it was somehow either okay or safe to tailgate someone going highway speeds, just because they did not want to go 100 (kph) in a 70 (kph) zone. Luckily, I never had an animal walk in front of me while tailgated, but that was amazing, given the number of animals that I had to dodge on that trip (and the racoon and the ssquirrel that I was too slow on).

      Speed limits are hardly uiversally too slow--they are a speed which everyone should be able to drive safely, not just young, cocky, caffeinated jerks in late model-year cars. While some of the speed limits I encountered (the Upper Peninsula of Michigan and mmuch of Ontario come to mind), there were some that were also set much too high (any rural highway in Manitoba comes to mind--an the speed limits are not even particularly high, the roads are just dangerously laid out).

      Having had a fundamental realization that 1. traffic tickets are expensive and 2. I really didn't want to get in another accident (not related to speeding, but going slower would have helped), I keep to the speed limit, and I will say that neither my schedule nor my sanity suffer from it. I mean, how often is it deadly important that one gets home 2-3 minutes earlier on a 40-minute commute? Even cross-country, I might have saved a day in eleven, which I could easily have mad up by choosing a more direct route. The savings most people make are chump-change compared to the additional risk, and a device like this (if it can actaully change based upon the local speed limit) is a good start in reigning in notoriously dangerous teen drivers (I know I used to regularly do 80-85 in a 65 zone travelling to and from my undergraduate university, and it had nothing to do with whether my parents trusted me, as I was in all other ways a model youth.

    46. Re:You learn through mistakes by Don853 · · Score: 1
      Philadelphia strikes me as a poor example of your point. The traffic on the interstates in Philly rarely flows nicely - especially the Schuylkill, Blue Route, and I-95 - and you had better be paying constant attention with a foot over the brake because Philly drivers will slow down to 45 on a dime to rubberneck at anything. Except at off hours, I almost never am above 55 on 76/476/676 or 65 on 95 simply because the flow of the road makes it impossible.

      You are free to ignore 40 years of traffic engineering studies.
      You've cited this in almost every one of your posts without providing any evidence as to where one might find these studies.

      Its people like you that are sliding our country closer and closer to facism.
      Gee, this isn't a baseless troll remark. I'd come up with something creative linking [high speed driving - interstate - autobahn - hitler - fascism] but I don't feel like it.
    47. Re:You learn through mistakes by GalacticCmdr · · Score: 1

      I am still a bit off from that (my oldest is 5), but when I reached that age my deal was the following. I got my dad's car (my dad bought himself another car). I paid for all my gas, 1/2 of my insurance (assuming I kept a B average so the rates were lower), all of the normal service, 1/2 of major service that was not caused by my own mistakes (drop reverses ruining the trans = my fault = I paid in full).

      However, in exchange for that my car was also my dad's emergency car and his need for it trumped my own. It was a pretty good deal overall. I did have the option of buying the car from him for the KBB value and paying everything 100% of the way - in which case my car would not be considered my dad's emergency vehicle. But the first option gave me a bit more spending cash and in 3 years with that car he needed less than a dozen times.

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    48. Re:You learn through mistakes by arminw · · Score: 1

      ......MOST people simply CAN NOT HANDLE FASTER SPEEDS.....

      BS to the highest degree! I am currently here in Germany (visiting) and most people drive insanely fast, and it's completely legal, especially on their freeways (Autobahn). Even though I am used to the snail paced speeds of the US, I have had no problem doing 140MPH along with the other traffic here. It's kind of fun to fly along like that, passing trucks as if they were parked. However, driving here is a full time job. Passengers, even by just talking to the driver when flying down the road at near takeoff speed of a jetliner, make for a dangerous, distracting situation. Sections of the Autobahn have posted limits, some of them indicated by electric signs sensitive to traffic and other safety considerations. Germans also drive faster on secondary and city roads that we would at home in similar situations. Posted limits on the roads are about equivalent, but fewer Germans pay attention to the posted limit.

      I see no reason why, especially in the sparsely populated western states there should be general speed limits, especially on freeways. Post limits in metro areas, but let people drive at whatever speed they feel is safe for them. For some of such lonely stretches I have traveled, I have never seen a police patrol nor a driver pulled over.

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    49. Re:You learn through mistakes by IQpierce · · Score: 1

      I don't think that you're an idiot, but I think you're off-base.
      1. This article really ISN'T about government-posted speed limits at all, so this is a little off-topic (though not completely). The "speed limit" as determined by this device is determined by the parents. For instance, my dad probably would have set this thing to 65mph. Some fathers would set it to 85, to make sure their kids aren't drag-racing anywhere. Again, it has nothing to do with the state-posted speed limit, so you arguing about a topic that's only peripherally relevant to this article.
      2. Saying that "plenty of accidents happen that don't involve speeding" and then concluding "this device is, therefore, useless" is illogical. Plenty of accidents happen that DO involve speeding. No one claimed that this device was a "silver bullet" that would prevent all teen car-related deaths, and there's no reason to dismiss it completely because it's not that. It's a potentially useful tool for parents (the owners of the cars) to keep their kids accountable for going unsafe speeds in certain situations.
      3. Wow, you already enacted Godwin's Law. Don't you think that it's a bit of a jump from "a device that will tell me when my car is going over a certain speed, and will therefore help me keep my child accountable when they are driving my care" to a fascist state? How the crap do you people manage to take arguments about TRAFFIC LAWS and end up making accusations of fascism? Get some perspective.
      4. Why do I have the feeling that you're one of those people who have a "broad view" of life, and can see the moral ambiguities, and can see that the laws are probably unjust, and that much of the system is corrupt... and then they use that as an excuse to break the speed limit whenever the crap they want? And rant about "the corruption of the American justice system" and "scientific studies of the safe speed for the road" when they're pulled over doing 50 in a school zone?

      Mind you, I'm not certain that you're one of these people... that's just an impression. But I exhort you: do not be so open-minded that your brain falls out.

    50. Re:You learn through mistakes by mvnicosia · · Score: 0

      So you propose adding a Breathalyzer to the ignition? please...let your children live their lives. Education stops people from making mistakes (or, at least, repeating them), not tracking devices.

    51. Re:You learn through mistakes by jkmiecik · · Score: 1

      That's when I get on my bike and flip you the (figurative) finger.

      See also, go around with my friends whose parents aren't being overprotective and insane.

    52. Re:You learn through mistakes by wgaryhas · · Score: 1

      How about a bike? That's what I did. Rode my bike 3 miles to get to work, the summer months sucked but I survived just fine.

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    53. Re:You learn through mistakes by jnik · · Score: 1
      The jump from getting everywhere on foot (or bicycle) to driving

      Actually, one of the problems with our streets is that there's no traffic safety or law education between "look both ways" and "let's learn to throw two tons of steel around." If you teach a kid to use a bicycle right and expand their horizons as their cognition increases, it's a much more gradual increase in responsibility. Alas, we usually don't, and we have middle school students running down little old ladies on the sidewalk....

      Hopefully the Safe Routes to Schools program in the US will help a bit (and build a more savvy pedestrian).

    54. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I think you are putting to much faith in that study.

      For example in the area I live (NC) there is one road through the middle of the city and one that goes around.

      The one that goes through the middle of the city is set to 45. You *COULD* in theory go through there at about 90 and not miss a beat. However it is set to 45. Why? There is an exit about every 2 blocks. Most cars can get up to 35-50 fairly quickly. But say the speed was 75 in there. My car can do it in 5-7 seconds. A Geo on the other hand will never get up to 75 in a reasonable amount of time.

      Remember studies can be junk too. Remember the dig in boston? They spent QUITE a large amount of time using glue for bolts. Yet most civil engs came and looked at with peer review and say 'glue bad'. Not all science is good science. If you start out with a bad set of assumptions you end up with crap.

      Also have you been on some rural highways in the US? Some of these roads are the 'main drag' though the area. There are combines going down the highway... MANY MANY MANY blind entrances. It is actually safer to drive in the passing lane in some of these highways.

      I think you are just trying to justify your speeding. But maybe a scientific study would be in order. Stop being a prat and just obey the speed limit like everyone else... It is not for you it is for the rest of us. Do not be so selfish.

    55. Re:You learn through mistakes by CubicleView · · Score: 1

      I happen to agree that it's wrong to give a kid a car when they're 16. But I do not agree that by doing so they will never have respect for it and go on to recycle it as a lamp post warmer or whatever. If you had won a car when you were 16, do you honestly believe that you would drive any differently now? Personally I feel a parent who would give away a car so readily have "probably" also spoiled the child throughout his/ her life. From my own experience, I believe my behaviour and personality was remained more or less unchanged since before my mid teens, giving me a car then, would have been nice but nothing more. As an aside, I'd also like to mention that "responsible" parents who give their kids nice safe bicycles as an alternative often neglect to make their kids wear nice safe helmets.

    56. Re:You learn through mistakes by letxa2000 · · Score: 2, Insightful
      You ignore the fact that you are instilling a sense of distrust in your kid. You don't really trust them, and thus they will not trust you.


      Oh, B.S. What kind of new-age shrink talk is that?

      Children shouldn't be trusted to make the right decisions all the time because they're inexperienced. You can trust them as children and as good people, but that doesn't mean you let them do everything they want. Trust should be earned by children. As they demonstrate they can be trusted with more responsibility, you give them more trust in their ability to handle that responsibility.

      When I got my license at 16, my parents let me start borrowing the car. Initially I had to be in by 10pm--and I'd be home each time at literally 9:59pm. Soon the curfue was extended to 11pm, then midnight (and I always was home on time), and soon I had no curfue at all. I got no tickets and was always at home on time. I demonstrated that I could handle the responsibility, and my parents acted accordingly. I never distrusted my parents--their rules, though limiting for a youngster, seemed fair. They explicitly told me at the beginning that if I demonstrated responsibility, my curfews would get later and later. And that's exactly what happened. I acted responsibly and my parents kept their word and extended (and eventually eliminated) my curfew.

      This nonsense that you should automatically trust your 16-year-old child with over a ton of steel going down the road at 50mph is nonsense. It's also nonsense that if you slowly trust your children with more and more responsibility that they aren't going to trust you. Only a child that has been brought up wrong will react that way. Gaining more and more trust and responsibility is just a part of growing up, and they should learn that from an early age. At first they don't get to cross the street without holding your hand, but eventually they are allowed to cross the street as long as they look both ways. Everything in life is about learning and demonstrating what you have learned. If you, as a parent, are fair and rational with your children--both when they screw up and when they do right--your children will respect you.

      As for knowing where your children go, that's just a no-brainer. Heck, even when I was 22 and still living with my parents, when I'd leave and no-one was home, I'd leave a note to tell them where I had went and about when I'd be back. My parents did the same thing. And now my wife and I always call each other to let the other know where the other is going, etc. It's not because we're "tracking" the other person, but it's so the other person doesn't worry, or does worry and have some clue as to our general whereabouts if we don't show up at the expected time. It's just common sense and there's absolutely nothing wrong with a parent knowing exactly where there child is 24/7. That doesn't mean you're listening in on their conversations, but even that is justified if you have reason to believe that your kid is getting himself into trouble.

    57. Re:You learn through mistakes by FishWithAHammer · · Score: 1

      I live in Maine (and I'm 18 now). The closest place of employment I could find was nearly twenty miles away.

      Yeah, bikes don't work up here; everything's too remote. (And I totaled my first car, too--didn't have the experience necessary, panicked, and locked up the brakes. Taught me a lot about safe driving.)

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    58. Re:You learn through mistakes by kcbnac · · Score: 1

      On that same note...insurance discount after time? Tie it in, if you can prove that it was 'installed' all the time, and then show them the online configuration showing its configuration settings...get a reduced rate for someone who fell under the above situation?

    59. Re:You learn through mistakes by darthnoodles · · Score: 1
      PS: if all of traffic is going 75 in a 70 zone, except you who is going 70 - it is you who is, strictly speaking, the traffic hazard
      Completely and utterly wrong! The people going 75 have created a traffic hazard. You can't try and blame the person following the rules of the road for creating dangerous situations.
    60. Re:You learn through mistakes by Richy_T · · Score: 1

      No, he was saying it is the fault of the artificially low speed limit which causes the law abiding citizen to go at a speed less than is safe in the general flow of traffic.

      Raising the speed limit, you would still have speeders but the speed differential would be less.

      I can think of several places where the road dictates speeds slower than the speed limit and guess what? People slow down at those places. Setting the speed limits appropriate to the conditions is the sane thing to do.

      Rich

    61. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You realize that the posted speeds are "Km/H", right?

      140kmh would be 87mph. That's about right from my experiences in Germany.

      Faster than the US, certainly, but not as much of a difference as you seem to think.

    62. Re:You learn through mistakes by cptgrudge · · Score: 1

      I knew a guy in HS that got given a brand new SUV (some black Ford, I think) for his 16th birthday by his parents, then somehow rolled it on top of a railroad track. Totalled it. Showed up the next week in another brand new SUV (this one was white in color, though).

      It was the wrong message to send.
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    63. Re:You learn through mistakes by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      actually you're wrong - infact in many states the law even agrees with me - the person not going with the flow of traffic is the one created the hazard. I have known people to get out of traffic tickets because of the fact that they were going with the flow of traffic - especially when the flow of traffic is traveling at the engineering study rating of the road and the road's speed limit is posted under what the engineering studies rated it for.

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    64. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If you are from the Philly area, I don't think you have a right to give your opinion on traffic law. I've been to Philadelphia. They have absolutely THE worst and most aggressive drivers in the world.

    65. Re:You learn through mistakes by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Sorry, your 'logic' is the amusing one. You assume that without limits people will just drive as fast as their car can take them. That's simply not true. People will select a speed that is reasonable to them. Its called the 85th percentile rule, and its PROVEN to work.

      So what if people start going 90 MPH? You act as if there'd be total carnage, but that would not be the case (it certainly wasn't the case before we had tight speed limit laws).

      Your argument about taxes is silly. It would generate revenue to tax people for breathing, so in your mind that seems to be ok. If you can't agree on the basic premise of what our government should and should not be able to do, I don't think we can have much more of a discussion. The basic philosophy behind my argument applies to many other things: People should not be punished for doing reasonable things. If everyone is violating the speed limit, apparently the consensis is that its reasonable to go at the higher speed.

    66. Re:You learn through mistakes by Chirs · · Score: 1



      My parents had no problem lending me the car.

      But they made me track how far I drove it, and I had to pay for my share (pro-rated by amount driven) of the full costs of driving--gas, insurance, maintenance, etc.

      I think it's a reasonable compromise.

    67. Re:You learn through mistakes by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      No, we've been saying its the fault of the state for setting the lower limit, knowing that some will follow but most will not, for the sake of generating more revenue at the risk there being more accidents.

    68. Re:You learn through mistakes by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Why keep the kid off the highway? Its a skill they'll need to learn, and the only place they will learn it is on the highway. Highway driving, city driving and country road driving are all very different and require different skill sets.

      I actually feel safer driving on the highway than in a city because with the highway I just need to worry about other cars; in the city, I need to worry about parked cars, bikes, pedestrians, people running lights, etc.

    69. Re:You learn through mistakes by cloak42 · · Score: 1

      Well, if you've never been in an accident, then of course you're driving "wrecklessly." But that's got nothing to do with driving "recklessly". ;)

      Sorry, I had to. The whole meaning of your post changes with just the addition of that one w. :)

    70. Re:You learn through mistakes by Gman14msu · · Score: 1
      _giving_ a 16 year old a car is the STUPIDEST thing ANY parent could do at that point.

      Absolutely not, there are plenty of people that at the age of 16 can handle the responsibility of a car. Just because you think you or some people you know couldn't handle it doesn't mean the same for everyone. It's the parents decision whether or not their child can handle the responsibility. Yes we all have stories about teenagers wrecking cars etc at a young age but of course MOST people can handle it, you just don't hear about it. If they couldn't handle it the laws would have been changed long ago. But for you to make a sweeping generalization about 16 year olds because of a few personal experiences is just wrong. Not to mention the added benefits of actually having the car which can include transportation to a job which is an excellent way to be more responsible and learn about life.

    71. Re:You learn through mistakes by GeckoX · · Score: 1

      It's been shown time and again that fewer people choose to drive in Germany BECAUSE of this.

      If you're not a good driver, you will not be able to drive in Germany very successfully. A lot of people are simply afraid to drive there, so they don't.

      In NA, everyone and their near dead grandmother drive, anywhere, and everywhere, at whatever speed. Good driver or no.

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    72. Re:You learn through mistakes by derF024 · · Score: 1

      This is actually amusing. Your argument is that speed limits are "unsafely low." As evidence, you suggest that the person driving the speed limit is at a higher risk then those driving twenty miles over the limit. But, as you have kindly explained, it's unsafe to drive the speed limit ONLY because the drivers around you are SPEEDING.

      That was some interesting logic you used, but I don't buy it. Yes, the guy doing 20 miles less then the traffic flow IS an obstacle. But it's not his fault. It's people like you, who feel you're entitled to drive 75 in a 55, who look at the guy driving 55 as the problem.


      Speeding isn't particularly dangerous, it's just the easiest thing to measure and enforce. Most accidents are a result of carelessness or inattentiveness, and would happen at any speed. However, with the exception of DUI, it's difficult to ticket people for being careless or inattentive. Changing lanes without looking, taking your eyes off the road, following too closely, making abrupt changes in direction without signaling. Those actvities are many times more dangerous than going 10 or 20 mph over the limit, yet no one seems to realize it. I've known people who were completely incapable of maintaining a consistant speed and direction in a car, and couldn't go 5 seconds without fiddling with the radio or their cell phone, but that complained about people exceeding the speed limit being dangerous. And their logic? Fiddling with the radio or cell phone isn't illegal, but speeding is. Therefore, speeding is evil.

    73. Re:You learn through mistakes by GeckoX · · Score: 1

      I haven't actually voiced my opinion on this tracking device, nor made any such suggestion as you mention.

      Our children don't need to be 1984'd to death, of course. But they DO need to be parented.

      Why do you think insurance for 16 year olds is astronomical? Because the industry is just milking this market segment? This segment that has basically no income? lol.

      Read some statistics people! Vehicles + 16 year olds = a high death rate.

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    74. Re:You learn through mistakes by rnelsonee · · Score: 1

      Well yeah, that works for some. My original post had my mileage to work (20 miles, in a uniform that was basically a tuxedo without the jacket), so that wasn't an option.

    75. Re:You learn through mistakes by CmdrGravy · · Score: 1

      I remember my friends when they got their first cars at 18, some of them drove responsibly but a fair proportion of them got up to some very silly things, e.g. driving home down the pavement because they were too drunk to drive on the road, driving around with people on the roof of the car and hanging out the windows, driving under the influence of various drugs ( not often alcohol mind you ) - "Oooh, are the street lights supposed to have massive trails coming off them like that ?", attempting to demonstrate that they were not driving dangerously by swerving around a dual carriageway in the rain and accidentally doing a 180 degree skid onto the pavement etc etc.

      I don't think this device would stop any of those kinds of activities and I'm sure my friends weren't alone in being extremely naive about the dangers of roads and cars once they'd passed their test. Luckily everyone is still alive today to tell the tale and are now nice, safe, responsible drivers but getting there has just been a matter or experience and learning which is a process everyone has to go through for themselves.

    76. Re:You learn through mistakes by Americano · · Score: 1
      I'll agree with you, to a point... if at the age of 16, your kid can't be trusted, yeah, you've got problems. But even "good kids" with "good parents" mess up and make mistakes. When the consequences of a mistake behind the wheel of the car can be so devastating and permanent, it's not unreasonable for a parent to take steps to ensure that the child is using the car safely, and imposing consequences if the child doesn't use the car safely.

      The parents also have to be trustworthy, and NOT monitor their kid everywhere they go. I see a reasonable deal being something like this: "Take the car, go where you like. You will be home by _some_curfew_. If you go over 50 mph in the car, we will know it, and you won't be allowed to use the car for some period of time. Have fun, drive safe, and call us -- don't speed -- if you're running late coming home."

      "It's still trust but verify. It's still play, but cut the cards. It's still watch closely, and don't be afraid to see what you see."
      Ronald Reagan's Farewell Address to the Nation, January 11, 1989

      You extend trust, but you don't do it blindly. Allowing your child the freedom to learn, make mistakes, and learn from them & bear the consequences of them is important, but when a mistake can cost your child their life, and the life of other children with them, it makes sense to monitor them, and hold them accountable if they are making stupid choices.
    77. Re:You learn through mistakes by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      You make a good point. Most accidents are not directly caused by speeding. However, the severity of the accident is almost entirely based on speed and the weight of your vehicle. If I make one of the mistakes you list going 55 the consequences will be far less then if I make the same mistake doing 80.

    78. Re:You learn through mistakes by Afrosheen · · Score: 1

      "Vehicles + 16 year olds = a high death rate"

        Mad props to Darwin's law. BTW it's not necessarily the death rate, it's the accident rate that causes the insurance companies to freak out and have high rates. Who's more risky, a noob or a 30 year veteran? Noobs have no history so you can't judge their abilities, so they're instantly high risk..same goes for creditors.

    79. Re:You learn through mistakes by siriuskase · · Score: 1

      There's trust, and there's trust.

      Even a good 16 year old is only 16 years old. The most advanced 16 year old still has a lot to learn about using his new freedoms wisely. Yes, he should have some freedom, but mostly to make mistakes that can be fixed. Most people do not drive as well as they think they do. This is especially true for teenagers who just don't have as much experience.

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    80. Re:You learn through mistakes by affliction · · Score: 1

      > You need to move to afghanistan or iraq or something where you don't have to
      > worry about 'The State' giving you speeding tickets for BREAKING THE LAW.

      Or Montana.


      That is not the case as of 1999. The highway speed limit is now 75. Unfortunately, the law went into effect the year before I got my license, so I never got to take advantage of it.

      But, even then, the "reasonable and prudent" limit only applied on the interstate, not on 2 lane highways and in town. There is also no evidence in the past 7 years that setting the speed limit at 75 has made the highways any safer. The death tolls are still the same as far as speed related accidents go. Drinking and driving on the other hand....
    81. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      If I make one of the mistakes you list going 55 the consequences will be far less then if I make the same mistake doing 80.


      But you and anyone else involved still has a very good chance of being killed. The difference between dead and splattered over 1/4 mile of road is huge to observers, but to the dead it doesn't really make a difference.

    82. Re:You learn through mistakes by Sparr0 · · Score: 1

      Vehicles + humans driving = a virtually equally high death rate.

      Until we have automated cars (or car-like transportation devices) there will be too many accidents. People cite statistics like "50% of all accidents are caused by drunk drivers", "20% of all accidents involve a teenage driver" etc... Well, hows this one: 99% of all accidents are caused by humans driving with insufficient skill or attention. The other 1% are true accidents, mechanical failures, tire blowouts, etc. And even part of that 1% would be better handled by a computer.

      And no, I am not advocating installing Windows, or even Linux, in your car. Real life/death situations require an OS that doesn't crash, like QNX, or another truly secure and stable system.

    83. Re:You learn through mistakes by Brickwall · · Score: 1
      Spot on! Before the "energy crisis", speed limits were 70 mph in Ontario on controlled access highways. The dreaded "double nickel" came about to (supposedly) save gas.

      And those were cars without antilock brakes, 3 point seatbelts, airbags, and crumple zones. Cars are much safer now than they were, and capable of travelling at 70 mph quite easily without endangering anyone. As you noted, traffic does move at around 70-75 mph on highways throughout the US and Canada; whether you get a ticket is dependent on whether the officer has met his quota or not.

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    84. Re:You learn through mistakes by GooberToo · · Score: 2, Interesting

      Statistically, the noob is far more risky... Did you really have to be told that?

      Here's the facts:
      Females are the absoluete worst drivers, by far. They have more accidents than males. Having said that, male drivers drive much more aggressively than female drivers. So when a male driver is involved in an accident, it tends cost a lot more and the injurry and death rate tends to be much, much higher. Likewise, statistically, teenage drivers are second ONLY to elderly, post retirement age, in their rate of accidents.

      Noobs have no history so you can't judge their abilities

      So you are actually very incorrect in your assement of the facts. Insurance companies use statisitcs as the basis of their rates. Statistically, the three categories which cost insurance companies the most are: elderly driver (I don't think gender comes into play here), teenage male driver, teenage female driver, all other drivers (assuming all other things being equal).

    85. Re:You learn through mistakes by Afrosheen · · Score: 1

      How am I incorrect in saying that noobs without history are a higher risk? If you can't judge a driver by their driving record (since they don't have one), that equates to them being a high risk just by having no history. Like I said before, the credit industry treats noobs the exact same way. If they don't know they can trust you, by default, they won't and your rates suffer as a result.

        You are correct in saying that teenage drivers have high accident rates though, but my original point was that being a noob had dual implications, one being that statistically you're likely to have a wreck, the second being that you have no history to feed the great statistics computer. I imagine that a first time driver, regardless of age, has rates equal to that of a teenage driver.

    86. Re:You learn through mistakes by canadian_right · · Score: 1

      So? I rode a bike to work for years, about 10 miles in city traffic. 20 to 25 minutes to get to work, a little longer on the way home as it was more uphill.

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    87. Re:You learn through mistakes by GooberToo · · Score: 1

      Because personal history is not a factor until one is established. And even after one is established, statistics are still the primary focus for insurance companies.

      Also, no driving record does not equate to high risk. By default, what makes them a high risk, first and foremost, is the fact that they are a teenager. Not that they have don't have a driving history. Commonly, insurance companies are starting to give discounts to teenagers with high grades. This is because, statistically, kids with good grades are not as high a risk as others. Also, in some states, teens can start driving as early as 13 or 14. These kids still pay high teenage rates until they fall outside the bracketed age group. This means they are not discounted for their experience. This, again, invalidates your position. Furthermore, drivers which start driving later in life (e.g. 30-40s, etc.), do not pay higher rates. I know this because I've had two neighbors where their wifes fit this situation. One was from another country where women didn't drive and the other was from New York. You may think this is odd, but people that grow up in places which have mass transit and move elsewhere, are often forced to obtain a driver's license to get around by driving. Again, this invalidates your position.

    88. Re:You learn through mistakes by Baloo+Ursidae · · Score: 1
      The jump from getting everywhere on foot (or bicycle) to driving is a huge one in terms of responsibility and freedom.

      From getting everywhere by foot, maybe, but not by bicycle. Anything you can get a ticket for while driving, save for driving without a seatbelt, gets enforced for bicycles as well. If you can't pass a driver's test, you probably don't belong on a bicycle, either, because you don't know the rules of the road.

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    89. Re:You learn through mistakes by CyborgWarrior · · Score: 1

      I call bullshit. Here's my proof, where's yours?

      http://www.ibiblio.org/rdu/sl-irrel.html

      Read up on what you're trying to argue before you try to postulate something. For those who want a brief summary, traffic studies have shown that traffic tends to flow at the safe speed. Raising or lowering speed limits results in only minor changes. While I have no problem with the guy going 55, and understand that he is trying his best to be a good driver even against massive peer pressure, scientific studies have proven that the limit set is erroneous and IS set to generate revenue.

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    90. Re:You learn through mistakes by Riverman2 · · Score: 0

      My little brother killed himself driving in the rain when he was 16. An accident like his may be totally unpredictable, but it is predictable that your kids will want to see how fast they can go, or they think they can drive like in action movies. I did. Melted the engine on my first car going 110mph down PCH (the oil line burst). I never managed to kill myself, but I was damn stupid. So it may not all be about how you learn to drive, what kind of driver you grow up to be, but whether you grow up at all.

      I'd prefer a device that had a remote shutdown feature, for when I have kids. It's all fine and good that your kids WANT to go fast, I think it's in a boys nature, so you really just have to disallow it completely.

      In fact, they aught to put speed governors on cars, mandatory, like they do airbags. That would save lots of teenagers. Why haven't they done that? Is there some practical reason?

    91. Re:You learn through mistakes by potat0man · · Score: 1

      In most of New Mexico the interstate is set at 75. I've done lots of driving on it on my 250cc motorcycle that has a top speed of about 80.

      What I notice is that most people drive at or under the limit. Sure, once in a while a guy will pass you going 85 or 90, but it still feels safe. There's no wildlife to jump into your way and no blind corners. - Nothing but horizon.

      But in my experience the majority of people in a 75 mph zone are at or within 5 mph of the limit. I don't think you can say the same thing about most 55 mph zones.

    92. Re:You learn through mistakes by alienw · · Score: 1

      Uh, no. That is coddling. I've known people with helicopter parents, and they grow up to be seriously fucked up. There is a time to let go, and 16-18 years old is that time. If you raised your kids properly, they won't be doing stupid shit. If not, this device isn't going to solve anything. Besides, "speeding" does not cause or increase accidents. Lack of attention does. It doesn't matter whether you are going at 20 or 80 miles per hour, if you regularly talk on a cellphone you will get into an accident because of it.

    93. Re:You learn through mistakes by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      Yes, the guy doing 20 miles less then the traffic flow IS an obstacle. But it's not his fault. It's people like you, who feel you're entitled to drive 75 in a 55, who look at the guy driving 55 as the problem.

      They covered this exact thing in driver's ed: yes, it is his fault for not driving the normal speed because it creates a dangerous situation.

      If they set the limit to 75, do you think people would stop speeding?

      They'd go the same speed they did before.

      do you think the government will operate w/ less revenue? I think you'd see them make up for it elsewhere.

      I'd rathr they were honest about it; perhaps they can cut the budget for traffic cops, since they seem so bored thay pull people over for driving fast.

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    94. Re:You learn through mistakes by Descalzo · · Score: 1

      I think one reason that they don't sell governors in cars is because of the entire way cars are sold today. They are speed machines. Just watch a commercial. The whole idea of governors doesn't jive with the philosophy behind those commercials. Safety sells, yes, but only after speed and manliness.

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    95. Re:You learn through mistakes by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      I don't have any sources, but I know once you go above 70 the speed to fuel used ratio starts to rise dramatically. As somone who has driven from Austin to Houston many times going 95 to 105 mph for extended periods where there are few towns to pass through to slow down, I know unless your car has exceptional handling (I drove a Pontiac Grand Prix) it requires a lot more attention to detail when driving at such speeds. Remember slowing from 100 as opposed to 55 or 65 takes almost twice as long, and even when there may be only a handful of cars on the road there will always be times when you need to slow down quickly.

    96. Re:You learn through mistakes by cbhacking · · Score: 1

      I got my license at 18, not 16 (yes, in the US) and even though I had NO American driving record, I saved a considerable amount of cash. Premiums are higher for 16-year-old than for 18-year-olds, period. Some companies may differ on this, but as the parent post said, statistics show 16 and 17 year old drivers are relatively likely to have accidents. My personal gues is that it's an issue of maturity... I know there are times I was temped to race other cars (not drags, just don't let them pass me) and similar dumb stunts when I was younger. I was also more likely to be distracted. As the subject says, you learn through mistakes... but you never have the chance to learn anything from a fatal one. Driving is a huge responsibility, and I have no issues whatsoever with my parents knowing if I'm going over 70 (actually, I don't care if they know I'm going over 20, but we have a pretty good relationship).

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    97. Re:You learn through mistakes by arminw · · Score: 1

      .....You realize that the posted speeds are "Km/H", right.....

      Of course I do. I was talking about driving 230Km/H at times. That is still slow compared to the ICE trains, which is the way to go for people traveling alone. ICE goes past 300Km/H at times.

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    98. Re:You learn through mistakes by arminw · · Score: 1

      ......A lot of people are simply afraid to drive there, so they don't.....

      I guess you have not been in a German "STAU" (traffic jam). We came just two days after school let out for vacation in some of the German states and the Frankfurt AutoBahn was plugged up just as tight as LA or Seattle. Maybe some Americans are too chicken to drive in Germany, but other Europeans, such as from Scandinavia, where they do have limits similar to the USA don't seem to be. Many of them fly down the Autobahn to the sunny places in Italy.

      Of course it requires much more skill to zoom along at 220-230Km/H than to dawdle along at a leisurely 90-100Km/h which is the speed limit for trucks. So any foreigner who is afraid or unable to pilot a car at jet take-off speed can just stay in line with the trucks in the right lane. There are columns of them many kilometers long. Driving a nice BMW or Mercedes at 200+ is a lot of fun actually, but rather strenuous for long. However, since Germany is smaller than Oregon, where we live, it is not necessary to spend all that much time behind the wheel in order to get places at such speeds. The 120km trip from where we are staying to the town where some of my ancestors are buried took only 45 minutes or so. We were zooming along pretty good in very sparse traffic, but there were still some cars passing us as if we were parked.

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    99. Re:You learn through mistakes by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      FWIW, there is a road in TX which has its speed limit set at 90 MPH. For long, flat stretches of road, what is wrong with 90?

    100. Re:You learn through mistakes by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Then ride in the right lane. The people going 75 are doing it in the faster lanes. This is not unsafe unless you are one of those morons that likes to go 75 in the slow lane.

      Don't you think its dangerous that one lane over people are doing 75, when in the right lane people are doing 55? How about EVERY lane go about the same speed, seems to me that would be safest.

      You've obviously never been in Philly either; there are parts that are THREE lanes each direction, and guess where the slow people end up. The MIDDLE lane! Exteremly unsafe. Now if they raised the limit, things would flow more naturally.

      Second:
      From the article:
      "His program will let Speed-Demon users view a Google map of the time, location and path of the car when the speeding occurred. If no speeding occurs, parents will not be able to see the path of the car at any time"

      So if parents agree that on I-95 going 55 is the wrong thing to do, the info is there.
      "I was on 95, you know it's nuts to go 55 there!"
      " True 'dat my boy, True 'dat"


      The problem is that this device does nothing to prove safe driving. Going fast on roads which can handle it is perfectly safe. Going 90 on a road were most reasonable people would do 45 is unsafe. However, many more things contribute to accidents than speed. These have been covered. So a device that measures speed and reports back is useless in determining if the driver is acting safely.

    101. Re:You learn through mistakes by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      Philadelphia strikes me as a poor example of your point. The traffic on the interstates in Philly rarely flows nicely - especially the Schuylkill, Blue Route, and I-95 - and you had better be paying constant attention with a foot over the brake because Philly drivers will slow down to 45 on a dime to rubberneck at anything. Except at off hours, I almost never am above 55 on 76/476/676 or 65 on 95 simply because the flow of the road makes it impossible.

      In rush hour, I was on 76 / 476 (NE Ext). For the most part, traffic moved pretty quick, but it wasn't 'nice' because of the absurdly low limits. I have been on 676 during the lunch rush hour and just after rush hour, and it seemed to move fine. Most of the problems where people driving too slow and in the center lanes. Having the slowest cars in the center lane seems exteremly unsafe; I'd rather see more enforcement of the 'keep right except to pass' rule.

      At any rate, traffic flow can be affected by congestion. No one said speed limits were at fault for that. Assuming no congrestion though, my points stand (even if there is no congestion; people aren't going to be able to do 55 if everything is stopped).

      You've cited this in almost every one of your posts without providing any evidence as to where one might find these studies.

      Look up the 85th - 90th precentile rule. I honestly had no idea how unknowledgable people are on this subject. I supsect it has something to do with the state spouting its propganda (speeding = evil!) and no one really thinking how the limits are set. I guess they just assume they are set properly. Guess we need more distrust of government :-)

      Gee, this isn't a baseless troll remark. I'd come up with something creative linking [high speed driving - interstate - autobahn - hitler - fascism] but I don't feel like it.

      Gee, ya don't think I included that to show how silly the OP's comments about me moving to Iraq are? Guess you must have missed that.

    102. Re:You learn through mistakes by plague3106 · · Score: 1

      1. This article really ISN'T about government-posted speed limits at all, so this is a little off-topic (though not completely). The "speed limit" as determined by this device is determined by the parents. For instance, my dad probably would have set this thing to 65mph. Some fathers would set it to 85, to make sure their kids aren't drag-racing anywhere. Again, it has nothing to do with the state-posted speed limit, so you arguing about a topic that's only peripherally relevant to this article.

      Not off base. Going above a set limit isn't inherently unsafe depending on conditions. Speeding doesn't cause accidents, no matter what the police say (they have a vested interest in making people think that way though). This device is as useless as most speed limits, because speed does cause accidents, other factors do.

      2. Saying that "plenty of accidents happen that don't involve speeding" and then concluding "this device is, therefore, useless" is illogical. Plenty of accidents happen that DO involve speeding. No one claimed that this device was a "silver bullet" that would prevent all teen car-related deaths, and there's no reason to dismiss it completely because it's not that. It's a potentially useful tool for parents (the owners of the cars) to keep their kids accountable for going unsafe speeds in certain situations.

      However setting too low of a limit actually causes more accidents. Accidents aren't caused by people speeding (usually; going 60 around a sharp curve will cause an accident, but reasonable people won't do that anyway). All this device will do is re-enforce the idea that whatever limit is set is valid, without question. This is a problem, because we really do need more reformed speed limit laws.

      3. Wow, you already enacted Godwin's Law. Don't you think that it's a bit of a jump from "a device that will tell me when my car is going over a certain speed, and will therefore help me keep my child accountable when they are driving my care" to a fascist state? How the crap do you people manage to take arguments about TRAFFIC LAWS and end up making accusations of fascism? Get some perspective.

      Thanks for not noticing the OP saying I should move to Iraq. My comment was meant to show how silly HIS comment was. Going over a set limit is no indication at all if the driver is being careful or not. Although I would think purposefully attempting to criminalize all citizens is a step toward facism, wouldn't you say? Why is it ok for the state to punish you for acting reasonably with a fine? As long as they don't toss you in jail its no big deal? I think you need more prespective than I.

      4. Why do I have the feeling that you're one of those people who have a "broad view" of life, and can see the moral ambiguities, and can see that the laws are probably unjust, and that much of the system is corrupt... and then they use that as an excuse to break the speed limit whenever the crap they want? And rant about "the corruption of the American justice system" and "scientific studies of the safe speed for the road" when they're pulled over doing 50 in a school zone?

      Should you obey laws of a clearly unjust and corrupt government? I thought the idea our founders had was that should such a government come to be you throw it off? At any rate, I can see that you're clearly one of those people that demonize speeding. When did I ever say going 50 in a school zone would be ok? I'm arguing for REASONABLE limits that don't crimialize the majority and are PROVEN safer, and you try to paint me out as some maniac going 90 down every city road plowing over poor Suzie ever chance I get. Get a grip dude.

      Mind you, I'm not certain that you're one of these people... that's just an impression. But I exhort you: do not be so open-minded that your brain falls out.

      I really can't see how you get that impression; I'm arguing for reasonable and safer limits. It seems to me there's some distortion going on when your mind interperates my post, b

    103. Re:You learn through mistakes by adamjaskie · · Score: 1

      Nothing. But there aren't too many of those around here. The safe speed is the speed at which other people on the road are travelling. Some roads around here the fastest people hit 90, but most people are going 80-85, and the speed limit is 70. The safest speed is 80-85 in that case.

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    104. Re:You learn through mistakes by Fivo · · Score: 1

      My 17 year old trusted her best friend, who promptly wrecked MY car. Yep, you sure know kids well, mate!

  49. Maybe not by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Yeah, much safer that kids drive slowly through crack neighbourhoods on their way to buy drugs

  50. Better Solution by kurtis25 · · Score: 1

    Make your kids pay for gas; they would have to work an hour (probably more) as the local burger flipper just to pay for 2 gallons of gas which means they won't be traveling all that far in the Guzzler you bought them. Thus their driving is restricted and your not the one that did it, thus you are safe for criticism and they won't be leaving the area. QED

  51. Re:Offtopic: Lunenburg by corychristison · · Score: 1

    My mistake.
    I read Lunenburg and immediately though of Lunenburg in Canada. Being Canadian, I'm not exactly in sync with all of the cities in the US of A. :-P

  52. it's coming by sdnoob · · Score: 1

    we got all those "little black boxes" in new cars nowadays.. it won't be long before they're gps-enabled and the cops & insurance companies want to tap into them 24/7 so they can harrass anyone doing 56 in a 55.

  53. That's great, now how about one for you, dad? by Hamster+Lover · · Score: 1

    If I was a teenager I would only agree to use the device if my parents agreed to put one in their vehicles as well; put everyone in "the circle of trust". I doubt that would go down well with the parents.

    This device also undermines the development of a teenagers ethical sense in that they are no longer responsible to themselves in making driving decisions now that the machine is making that decision for them. At some point in a person's life the parents have to let go and leave their child to learn to be responsible to themselves. Hopefully those lessons have been learned under the guidance of a parent, but machines like this one simply delay that lesson until the device is removed and the child begins to learn on their own. It's like alcohol consumption. When I was around twelve my parents began to allow a drink of wine at Christmas and holidays. Gradually, I was permitted a beer and eventually, around sixteen or so, my dad and I would have a beer fairly regulary after a hard day working in the yard, cutting down trees, or whatever. When I got to university at 19 and was legally allowed to drink, my friends would get crazy drunk and I would laugh and call them retards.

    Parents like to think they're protecting their children with devices like this, but it's like sending a soldier to war without ever handling a rifle.

    1. Re:That's great, now how about one for you, dad? by Dachannien · · Score: 4, Insightful

      If I was a teenager I would only agree to use the device if my parents agreed to put one in their vehicles as well;

      Hope you like walking, then, son.

    2. Re:That's great, now how about one for you, dad? by potat0man · · Score: 1

      Two words: Menendez Brothers

    3. Re:That's great, now how about one for you, dad? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If I was a teenager I would only agree to use the device if my parents agreed to put one in their vehicles as well; put everyone in "the circle of trust". I doubt that would go down well with the parents.

      I already have a GPS in my car. I'd gladly share the results with my son - he's not old enough to speak yet so I'll wait a few more years. I really don't see what the big deal is.

      Trust goes both ways. If I give my son the car I'm trusting him not to drive recklessly. Now he should trust me by letting me know how he's been driving.

      Your deal would be fine with me if you were my son. In fact, we could sit down after a few weeks and compare GPS logs.

    4. Re:That's great, now how about one for you, dad? by Dachannien · · Score: 1

      If that's your solution, speeding in your dad's car is the least of your worries.

  54. Backwards by Savage-Rabbit · · Score: 2, Funny

    Then smart kids will drive backwards.

    Are you sure that is a good idea? There was a gear-head in Germany (IIRC) who reversed the superstructure on his WV Beetle so that the boot was at the front and he looked out what used to be the rear window while driving. He was eventually banned from driving the car due to the fact that the wierd way it looked caused so many accidents.

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  55. Ghostriding the whip by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    They usually happen in the teens own neighborhood. Losing control of the vehicle and hiting something solid or rolling over cause the fatalities.

    Their own neighborhood? What the hell were they doing?! 'Ghostriding the whip'?!

    1. Re:Ghostriding the whip by OverlordQ · · Score: 1

      Forgot to tell them when to go.

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  56. Is it only kids? by Null537 · · Score: 2, Interesting

    I took an internship this summer that forced me to drive a 1/2 hour to work. When you're cutting through a city and then taking the interstate highway every day you tend to see a lot of cars and a lot of crazy driving. I fail to see how children are the only problem, when people from every demographic seem to speed, and not just a little. Is it because the kids are getting hurt? Could that have something to do with inexperience? Or is it just that adult speeding isn't getting reported because they get out of speeding tickets more often (no basis for fact here, just a possibility).


    In terms of the specific unit from TFA, Delorme has come out with something that can do relatively the same thing, minus the phoning home. The data it collects can be used in an Atlas or GIS program to do pretty much the same thing as this new unit. The tools have been out there, this teen just used one in a way that would ensure he wouldn't get laid.

    1. Re:Is it only kids? by Detritus · · Score: 1
      As an "old fart", I'd say that safe driving is based on three things, education, maturity and experience. The problem with many young drivers is that they lack maturity and experience. Even if they have the maturity, they don't have the experience. It takes time to become a good driver. It's a learning process. You learn from your mistakes. Hopefully, without getting involved in any serious accidents. Sadly, many older drivers also lack the maturity to be good drivers and don't learn from their mistakes. Education is important. The principles of defensive driving that I was taught in High School have been very useful on the road.

      Safety should be rule one. You are not Richard Petty and the road is not a race track. Assume that all other drivers are blind and stupid. Leave your ego at home. Know the limitations of your vehicle, especially in poor driving conditions. Be predictable, don't surprise other drivers. Take your time and be aware of your surroundings.

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    2. Re:Is it only kids? by triffid_98 · · Score: 1
      That is what annoys me the most about speed laws. Many many people are driving cars with very poor handling characteristics (SUV,trucks,minivans,etc) but they drive them like they've got a hot rod. Consequently they crash into things, surprise surprise.

      If it's considered 'safe' to drive one of those at 65, how is it unsafe to drive a decent handling car at 75? I'm not saying it's smart to buy your kid a porsche, but for god's sake put the 'net-nanny' products on the shelf and teach him/her how to drive within their vehicle's limits. Sooner or later they really will need to know this stuff, if only to avoid the village idiots as per above.

      Know the limitations of your vehicle, especially in poor driving conditions. Be predictable, don't surprise other drivers. Take your time and be aware of your surroundings.
  57. Preview, Preview, Preview by thePowerOfGrayskull · · Score: 1

    That should have been: "Yeah. 'cause my parents were sociopathic killers who stalked me whenever they had the opportunity.

  58. Ask the factory. by Gordonjcp · · Score: 1

    I haven't seen a car made in the past 10 years that uses a mechanical speedo. One of mine has a mechanical speedo cable that goes to a splitter gearbox, that then drives a sensor and a mechanical governor for the power steering, but that's about it.

  59. Meet the least popular teen EVER! by 192939495969798999 · · Score: 1

    This makes the kid asking the teacher if there's more homework look like the coolest kid in school!

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  60. Already Been Done by joek1010 · · Score: 1

    Hasn't this been done before? I swear I saw this in skymall last time I was flying (I love that magazine). If I remember right, it beeped loudly when the driver exceeded a set speed limit or accellerated to quickly. It also could diagnose 4 of the check engine codes.

  61. Slower speeds make safer drivers? by Daytona955i · · Score: 1

    Interestingly enough, I just read an article on NJ's increase in traffic fatalities. Here's the most interesting quote from that article:
    Inattentive driving was blamed for 20 percent of the fatal accidents that occurred on interstate highways in 2004. Excessive speed was named in only one.
    (from this story)

    Also I think this device is kindof pointless, the parents that would want to monitor their child's speed, probably don't care about their privacy in the first place so they would probably rather choose something that would constantly monitory their speed. (and location)

    And I mean come on, like kids aren't going to be able to figure out how to block the reception.

    1. Re:Slower speeds make safer drivers? by vidarh · · Score: 1
      You miss the point. While excessive speed may not be a significant contributor to the number of accident, higher speeds are a significant contributor to the number of injuries and fatalities in accidents.

      As for "blocking out the reception" - all it takes is for the device to report on suspiciously long periods without reception.

      The trickier aspect would be preventing it from simply being removed from the car and placed somewhere "acceptable" (like in a friends garage).

    2. Re:Slower speeds make safer drivers? by Daytona955i · · Score: 1

      Actually I think you are missing the point. My point is this:
      1. Traffic fatalities are up in NJ. (note, this is number of accidents... no one knows why, just that they are up)
      2. Of the increased fatalities in NJ, speeding was listed as the cause for 1 of them. - note, that's 1 out of however many we've had so far.
      3. 20% has been attributed to inattentive driving

      So out of all the accidents in NJ, excessive speed has been blamed for 1, count them 1 fatality. The rest were due to something else. (The article cites 20% as inattentive driving). These statistics have nothing to do with the number of accidents.

      If you are claiming that higher speeds means people get hurt in an accident well duh... of course I'd say this goes for anything over 30 mph. Maybe we should change all the speed limits to 30mph.

      Or maybe we could look at other countries like Germany who has no speed limits on certain sections of the the Autobahn yet is the safest highway system in the world. Of course I believe that it is safer because it is much harder to get your license and driving is treated much more seriously than it is here.We should stop handing out licenses like they were candy and make it harder (not easier like most places are doing) to get your license.

    3. Re:Slower speeds make safer drivers? by dfghjk · · Score: 1

      "all it takes is for the device to report on suspiciously long periods without reception."

      you mean like when it's parked in a garage?

      I would expect my son's response to such a challenge would be "It must not work right". What are you going to do?

      Frankly, I wouldn't be bothered to check such a device each time my child drove, just like I won't check security cameras. Too much trouble for questionable gain. What will you do with the information? It's a fantasy to think that you have control over your teenager.

      Many teens aren't easily influenced by anything their parents will do anyway. Such was the case with my son. Of those that can be influenced, I question whether such a device is really useful. Besides, excessive speed while driving isn't what I'd be most concerned about. Drug/alcohol abuse and constant distractions (phone, friends, music) make teens bad drivers. Yes, some teens will drive excessive speeds but, frankly, I don't see how this device will have the slightest impact on that. They are liars, rebels, and cheats. I know because I had one.

  62. Re:Offtopic: Lunenburg by Pikoro · · Score: 1

    "Besides... young programmers in a backwater Nova Scotia fishing village? Eh? Isn't that town still on dial-up?"

    Appearantly you believe that no programming took place before broadband was available.

    Wow, if only 90% of slashdotites had experienced the 80s and early 90s as a teen or an adult instead of an infant.

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  63. Exactly! by DeadCatX2 · · Score: 1

    That's exactly how I learned to be a responsible adult. My parents gave me my car, but I paid for insurance, etc.

    I always advocate giving your children the freedom to make mistakes. Let them know what the mistake will be beforehand, yes, but then let them learn from it if they insist.

    Mom 'n' dad also never really cared if I stayed out, once I had my car. The only thing I had to do was call them - "hey guys, I won't be coming home tonight." "Okay sweetie have fun." Do you know how awesome it is when you never have to ask your parents for permission, and you just notify them? It makes life great, and makes friends jealous. And then you feel good about your parents (positive relationships with parents? *gasp* these days that seems pretty rare), and as long as you don't abuse the privilege they let you keep it. Sure, sometimes it was to get drunk, but I knew if I screwed up and got caught that the privilege would be lost, so I just kept that in mind and learned the meaning of "moderation" to ensure I didn't screw up.

    I see too many parents control every aspect of their children's lives with an iron fist. They aren't allowed to go anywhere, or hang out with anyone their parents don't like (usually for superficial reasons). All of their decisions are made for them, without even telling them why or trying to explain a reasoning. "Because I said so."

    Why must they insist on "protecting" their children? My parents gave me the tools necessary to "protect" myself. When their parents are no longer active in their life, what tools will they use?

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  64. This device already exists! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    I saw a device that did this plus some at Upper Edge Security at the Westminister Mall in Westminister, CO. This unit was for sale back in 2001 & 2002 even. The unit used GPS tracking as well. It would log where and when the person went, What their speeds were and you could remove it from the vehicle and connect it to your PC and it would give you a print out of this stuff. I hope this kid doens't try to patent this thing as he will be opening himself up for lawsuits - big time.

  65. Where to set the limit by Random832 · · Score: 1

    If the reporting limit is set to 55 (after all, that's a safe speed - some places), does that mean it won't report them when going 55 in a 20mph zone?

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    1. Re:Where to set the limit by Secrity · · Score: 1

      I won't be buying one of these things; but if I did buy one, I would expect that it would have a database that would provide speed limit information for the given location.

    2. Re:Where to set the limit by spidkit · · Score: 1

      I'd set the speed limit to come one for yellow lights at intersections (all ages) - Man would you see those brakes lights glow.

  66. A better solution by jesterpilot · · Score: 1

    - remove safety belt from drivers seat;
    - replace airbag from steering wheel by a 200 mm long, 15 mm thick stainless steel rod;
    - sharpen the outer edge of the rod.

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    1. Re:A better solution by o-hayo · · Score: 1
      I remember that TV show too. The quote was something like, "imagine if we replaced all the worlds airbags with spikes that would impale the driver if they so much as tapped something at 1 MPH - how different do you think people would drive then?"

      More of the episode studied how roads in America have wide lanes compared to Europe and that these lanes give people the bad perception that they can drive *faster* because there is more room for error. Some high-speed but long corners on American roadways were something like 50% wider than similar corners on European highways.

      I wish I remember the name of that program, it was well done. The best part was when they were interviewing an 'expert' on traffic saftey or something and they were doing the interview while he was driving. The man kept going on and on about distractions and people not paying attention while driving. Suddenly he takes off his glasses and grabs the steering wheel with his knees, then uses his available hands to clean the glasses with his shirt and puts them back on and continues his rant.

  67. A Balance by biggomez777 · · Score: 1

    I see a point to this device, but not as a blanket solution. Yes, you own your own car, you pay your own insurance, you can blow down the highway at 140mph all you want. Because when the PD decide to pull a felony arrest assuming you're running drugs, it's your ass. However, when it's mommy and daddys car, mommy and daddy's insurance, and kiddo over there can't seem to stop getting speeding tickets, I see this as a useful tool as a last ditch alternative to pulling a car(which in some cases is bad for both parents and kids, as the parents don't really want the kids around all the time, but can't afford all the damned tickets). It gives the kids a long term chance to redeem, and the parents some data to go off of. I like it, and I'm only 23.

  68. OK then... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    ... so you won't mind your boss tracking you as well, just to ensure you don't call in sick when in fact you just felt like taking a day off to go to the beach or go see a ball game. And you won't mind if the DOT tracks you as well with even more sophisticated technology in order to automatically ticket you any and every time you speed, run a red light, or fail to come to a complete stop at a stop sign. The city can also track you and automatically issue parking tickets the INSTANT your meter runs out. And you won't mind your spouse tracking you to make sure you come straight home from work or just to check up on where you've been lately.

    Any of these entities can claim a similar right based on their relationship with you (employer, government, spouse, etc.) And if you don't like it, you can just go find yourself another job, spouse, mode of transportation, and place to live.

    1. Re:OK then... by TheSkyIsPurple · · Score: 1

      ... so you won't mind your boss tracking you as well, just to ensure you don't call in sick when in fact you just felt like taking a day off to go to the beach or go see a ball game.

      Why should my boss care if I'm actually sick or not?
      Most places I have worked have an actual number of sick days you are allowed... go over that and things get more interesting. There's never an automatic firing or anything, but you start needing doctor's notes, etc to show why you should be allowed to deviate from your workplace agreement.

      See, no need to track me =-)

      And you won't mind if the DOT tracks you as well with even more sophisticated technology in order to automatically ticket you any and every time you speed, run a red light, or fail to come to a complete stop at a stop sign. The city can also track you and automatically issue parking tickets the INSTANT your meter runs out. And you won't mind your spouse tracking you to make sure you come straight home from work or just to check up on where you've been lately.

      And none of these organizations is responsible for my actions. I, however, am responsible for what my kids do legally...

      Any of these entities can claim a similar right based on their relationship with you (employer, government, spouse, etc.) And if you don't like it, you can just go find yourself another job, spouse, mode of transportation, and place to live

      Employer => nope... you agree to working conditions when you start... if you don't like them, don't agree to them. They are not responsible for you, and so you're right to privacy trumps their potential right to track you.

      Gov't => nope... that pesky constitution thing gets in the way there... at least in theory =-(

      Until you are 18, you're parent's are responsible for what you do. When they sign that form saying you can have a license, they are also agreeing to be liable for any and all actions you take while driving.

  69. Let the blue smoke out by Secrity · · Score: 1

    Hello 12 volt tracking device, meet 120 volt house current.

  70. "minimize invasion of the teen's privacy" by moracity · · Score: 1

    What privacy?? Sorry, but kids living at home are not entitled to any privacy except that which is granted to them by their parents.

    So, this is where all the privacy cries are coming from. Schools are teaching kids that they have some inherent right to privacy...welcome to the real world, people. There is no such thing as privacy. It is possible to live with a certain degree of privacy, but you will have to give up many of the creature comforts provided by todays technology.

  71. Just build a GPS jammer by xtal · · Score: 1

    Just jam GPS signals locally. Problem solved. Others created. :)

    http://www.landfield.com/isn/mail-archive/2003/Jan /0093.html

    If you know enough to make that work, you can identify several modifcations to make it much more effective.

    Obviously, the legal implications of doing such are left as a exercise to the reader.

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  72. Don't worry by slysithesuperspy · · Score: 1

    just make parents more aware of Ritalout.

  73. Re:Offtopic: Lunenburg by WilliamSChips · · Score: 1

    Before broadband was available dialup didn't eman crippled. Duh.

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  74. Use GPS to track things? :o by Dersaidin · · Score: 1

    I dont think tracking the location of a Car with GPS is very special. Neither is using the formula speed = distance / time. Sorry, not much of a creation.

  75. Ooohhh err! by no.17 · · Score: 1

    Maybe there should be some sort of trade off- the device also relays CCTV footage of what's going on at home when the teen isn't there. Then lets see how many parents want to fork out for one...!

    1. Re:Ooohhh err! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly what do you expect to be going on at home that the parents should be ashamed of? Parent and child are not equals. Teen does not get to implement IParent. (Um, except for teen parents)

    2. Re:Ooohhh err! by no.17 · · Score: 1

      Moment of confusion there when clicking on the 'Reply to this' link there was a sudden and immediate urge to click on the 'Parent' one. As for what parents should be ashamed of, speeding in the home of course (up/down stairs, with scissors etc..), honestly, you let them out of your site for one moment and all hell breaks loose!

  76. Jealousy by TheStonepedo · · Score: 0, Offtopic

    Just because your friend's parents gave him a brand new sports car when he earned his driver's license and you saved up $200 for a used pile of sluggish rust doesn't mean you should hold it against said friend.

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  77. No privacy! by Oz0ne · · Score: 1

    I would not mind seeing an option on reporting the actual location, for adults at least. Otherwise I don't see any privacy concerns. Speed limits are there for your safety and that of those around you. How fast you were going is never a matter of privacy.

    1. Re:No privacy! by geekoid · · Score: 1

      "Speed limits are there for your safety and that of those around you."

      no, it's there as a revenue generator.

      Otherwise, they could just have someone driving the speed limit drive up and down the roads.

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  78. Speed limit by anomaly · · Score: 1

    It's true that alomst everyone speeds.

    Your assertion about safety is not supported by facts - it's mere rationalization by people who want to speed.

    I live in a major metropolitan area. I don't drive over the speed limit, and I pass people on the highways regularly. I have not had more "close calls" than I did when I drove aggressively - in fact, my experience is that I have fewer.

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  79. Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 5, Insightful

    I ask my son to see his report card, I don't take his word for it. If he's supposed to be home at midnight, I stay up until he gets home, I don't take his word for it. I make him keep his bedroom door open when he has his girlfriend over to "do homework."

    I trust my son. I let him borrow my car. I trust him to watch his sister. I trust him to stay at home overnight by himself on occassion.

    But if you think a 16 year old won't lie through his teeth to get out of trouble, you're insane. There is no question about this.

    Your comments suggest to me that you're either a child yourself, or you've never raised a child yourself. Nothing personal, but if you "trust" your teenager to act like a responsible adult, you're probably making a mistake. There's a reason that 18 is the age of majority, and not 15, 16, or even 17. If you quit parenting at 16 because you think you've done a good enough job so far, you're just begging for trouble.

    1. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by bilbravo · · Score: 1

      Excellent post. I commend you on your concern for your kid as well.

    2. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by drunkennewfiemidget · · Score: 5, Insightful

      Bull. It depends on the kid. At 16, I had all the freedoms in the world. I went where I wanted, I did what I wanted, and I acted as I pleased. I had earned it, and my parents knew I would behave myself.

      And I did.

      My son is only 5 now, but if I think I can trust him to behave himself at 16, I'll give him the freedoms that comes with it.

    3. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 0, Flamebait

      that entire "keep your door open" blah blah blah

      stupid.. seriously... grow up - zomg 16-year-old tommy is kissing 16-year-old jane, the world is going to end!

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    4. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Kissing's fine - it's the unwanted pregnancies that make mom n' dad grumpy.

    5. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 0

      apparently you've never heard of condoms.. and if you seriously think your 16-year-old and their bf/gf are going to have sex with their parents in the house then there is absolutely nothing that is going to stop them from having sex, just change the time of it.

      I didn't have sex the first time until I was 17... my parents never had to do that "zomg keep your door open" shit

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    6. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Raistlin77 · · Score: 1

      I'll have to keep your comment in mind when my 16 year old son impregnates your 15 year old daughter. You gonna raise the child? I didn't think so.

    7. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by slantyyz · · Score: 1

      You're on the mark there. You can trust them, but checks and balances will keep the 16 year old honest.

      While I had free reign when I was 16, the world is not the same place today as it was 20 years ago. No YouTube, Jackass, MySpace, Cell Phones or IM to contend with. Heck, the average 16 year old has the skills to make a report card forgery that would dupe many parents.

      The checks and balances are necessary so that they understand that broken trust has negative consequences.

    8. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by kalirion · · Score: 4, Insightful

      There's a reason that 18 is the age of majority, and not 15, 16, or even 17.

      Ah, the magical switch that flips when a kid turns 18, making him a responsible adult....

    9. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Oooh, kinky.

    10. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      From the tone of your posts, I'm guessing you're 20-25 and don't have any children of your own. All I mean by this is that your perspective on these things changes as you raise a child.

      It's about sending a message. Explaining through clearly defined rules that him having sex with his girlfriend is not responsible behavior at his age. And the bedroom door rule isn't just to prevent sex. It's also drinking, smoking cigarettes and smoking ANYTHING for that matter.

      Yes, he is going to have sex if he wants to. He's human, he's a sexual being, and when you're a 16 y/o boy you're about as sexual as a being gets. He took his first playboy from my closet. I let him keep it. I took him to Walgreens when he was 15 and I made him buy a box of condoms.

      What you seem to overlook is that it's about protecting his future. I don't want his dreams to be ruined because he gets his 16 year old girlfriend pregnent. And actions speak louder then words. If I say "Be responsible, don't have sex, but if you have sex, use protection" and then I let him take his gf upstairs and give them complete privacy, what message is that REALLY sending?

    11. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Disavian · · Score: 1

      There are kids at 15 that are more mature than many kids at 18. The "magic light switch" at 18 and 21 makes no sense. If they want booze/cigarettes/"adult material," they can ask an older friend for them.

      If, however, these rights were given based upon an impartial test... or when you turned 17, whichever came first... that would make a little more sense.

      Then again, no child has any rights (or maturity) as long as they're living with their parents. I've seen it happen; one of my friends commutes to school from his parents' house, and he hasn't matured at all since high school. He hasn't been forced to grow up in the way that living on your own does. :(

    12. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by somersault · · Score: 1

      "But if you think a 16 year old won't lie through his teeth to get out of trouble, you're insane. There is no question about this."

      That's a bit of a gross generalisation.. some kids actually don't want to 'get into trouble' in the first place, and don't. Maybe I'm just weird though, I am kind of different from most I guess, in that I prefer to tell the truth, usually drink sensibly, and am not gonna have sex before marriage, no matter whether the bedroom door is open or closed.

      You can obviously trust people for different things, say you could trust someone with your life in some situations, but maybe they're a cleptomaniac (in an extreme case, hehe..). I do still think you're overgeneralising saying all 16 year olds are bald faced liars though, I personally find that a pretty insulting statement.. some 16 years olds are more boring and honest, like I was :p I preferred to play Counter-Strike and code, rather than go out and get paralytic with most of the other idiots..

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    13. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      Of course there's no "magic switch." I didn't say there was. All I said was that there is a reason for the age of majority being set at 18. The way I see it, it's about averages.

      Like everything else, maturity is a bell curve. Some kids are as mature as an average adult when they're 14. Some aren't that mature until they 24. But most will mature somewhere in the middle.

    14. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 0
      From the tone of your posts, I'm guessing you're 20-25 and don't have any children of your own. All I mean by this is that your perspective on these things changes as you raise a child.


      and it's arrogance to assume that someone who hasn't yet doesn't know anything.

      It's about sending a message.


      yes it is, and the message it sends is prudish, and instills a sense of distrust

      Explaining through clearly defined rules that him having sex with his girlfriend is not responsible behavior at his age


      I completely disagree with this - because it's a blanket statement. Some people are mature enough for intimiate relationships by the age of 16 - in that case protected (IE with a condom) sex isn't a problem.

      And the bedroom door rule isn't just to prevent sex. It's also drinking, smoking cigarettes and smoking ANYTHING for that matter.


      if they can smuggle alcohol into the room past you then you're inattentive, and if you have to worry about them doing so then you have serious issues with your child - you failed to create a trusting relationship with your child and effectively communicate why underage drinking is bad

      if you cannot smell tobacco or cannabis smoke through a closed bedroom door then you have a poor sense of smell, and if your child is smoking either you have yet again failed to effectively communicate why those are bad - my find both absolutely disgusting and instead of simply "blah blah blah don't do that" to my children I will prevent them ever being interested in it by promoting them being athletes and instilling in them the same attitude of "that is disgusting" (and I grew up with my father smoking in the house.. he finally quit last week after 39 years!)

      Yes, he is going to have sex if he wants to. He's human, he's a sexual being, and when you're a 16 y/o boy you're about as sexual as a being gets. He took his first playboy from my closet. I let him keep it. I took him to Walgreens when he was 15 and I made him buy a box of condoms.


      atleast you're more realistic and much more mature than some parents, kudos to you for that.

      What you seem to overlook is that it's about protecting his future. I don't want his dreams to be ruined because he gets his 16 year old girlfriend pregnent.


      i thought you said you taught him about condoms?

      If I say "Be responsible, don't have sex, but if you have sex, use protection" and then I let him take his gf upstairs and give them complete privacy, what message is that REALLY sending?


      that you trust them to be safe if they do choose to do so. all your previous good work is destroyed if you don't give them trust.

      Like i said before - if you REALLY have to worry about your child having sex with their SO right under your nose in their bedroom upstairs, simply because you told them to close the door, then you have trust issues

      if they're upstairs and you're downstairs do you REALLY think that merely having the door open is going to stop things? have you ever heard of a quickie? seriously.
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    15. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      Re-read the first line of my post. Your perspective on this changes as you raise a child. All this post has done is further cement the accuracy of that statement.

      Give it up.

    16. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      any daughter I have wouldn't sleep with the spawn of scumbags :D j/k

      you've never heard of a condom have you?

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    17. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 0, Troll

      How about trying to actually refute my point by point?

      Your statement is presumptious and arrogant. You are assuming that one cannot have knowledge without 1st hand expirience which is patently false. Maybe I'm just more observant than you but I can learn from the mistakes of those around me so that I never make those mistakes myself, and I can read the research of the best child behavioralists and developmental psychologists on the planet.

      All your posts has done is to further perpetuate the arrogance of "I'm a parent and therefore I'm automatically right"

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    18. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by gfxguy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      I agree that arbitrary ages are not the best way to decide when someone is an adult, when they can vote, when they can drink, when they are the age of consent...

      However, at 18 a "child" in no longer the legal responsibility of the parents. But there is a flip that gets switched... it's the one that says "I'll go to jail, not juvi, if I do something wrong, " and the one that says "my parents are not legally responsible for me anymore."

      The only problem is that parents have to let their kids know that. "I've bailed you out of trouble so far, but now you're on your own."

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    19. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by c_forq · · Score: 1

      And what kind of test are you going to give? And how are you going to identify those that have passed the test? Seriously, think hard about trying to legislate anything different, and think hard about the cost of instituting the program compared to the gains.

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    20. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      I agree with you, but imagine the complexity and cost of another governmental agency to monitor "maturity". They've implemented things the only practical way possible.

      The only disagreement I can reasonably see is with the arbitrary ages they set... you're mature enough to fight and die for your country and vote at age 18, but we don't trust you to buy a drink.

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    21. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Well said. I had half-expected to back your comment up with my own posting, since averaging to create a 'milestone' at 18 is the obvious reason.


      Of course, there are too many kids around here so this kind of topic stings a little. Anyways, well said and well posted.

    22. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Disavian · · Score: 5, Insightful
      Preface: sorry if I'm a little harsh. This is meant in good faith, and is not intended to be a personal attack. I am attempting to describe issues I have strong beliefs on/in.

      I ask my son to see his report card, I don't take his word for it.
      A wise choice. Nothing keeps him from forging it, though.

      If he's supposed to be home at midnight, I stay up until he gets home, I don't take his word for it.
      Kinda creepy... midnight's pretty early, too. Seriously, extend the deadline until 1AM and see what happens. Nothing out of the ordinary, I bet. He's going to have to handle staying out late when he leaves home, you might as well teach him how to do it.

      I make him keep his bedroom door open when he has his girlfriend over to "do homework."
      That's just stupid. If you want to make a kid hate you, that's the way to do it. Give up on trying to keep him from having sex; he's going to have it one way or another. A parent promoting abstinance is like nailing jello to the wall. Instead, make sure he (they) has (have) ready access to contraception.

      I trust my son. I let him borrow my car. I trust him to watch his sister. I trust him to stay at home overnight by himself on occassion. But if you think a 16 year old won't lie through his teeth to get out of trouble, you're insane. There is no question about this.
      You'll trust him with someone else's life, but you won't trust him with his own? And when was the last time you saw someone telling "the truth" just because they were an "adult"? Your defense of your actions has nothing to do with the issue at hand; that is, is he mature enough to handle the responsibilities and freedoms of being an adult. Is he mature enough to use contraception, to do his homework, and to maintain his judgement in the face of peer pressure?

      Those are skills you can't teach him; you have to let him learn for himself.

      Your comments suggest to me that you're either a child yourself, or you've never raised a child yourself.
      Have you ever heard of an "ad hominem" attack? It's called a logical fallacy for a reason.

      Nothing personal, but if you "trust" your teenager to act like a responsible adult, you're probably making a mistake.
      Trusting anyone is a mistake, but we have to if we want to live like normal people.

      There's a reason that 18 is the age of majority, and not 15, 16, or even 17.
      Oh really? Tell me why. I honestly want to know why the lightswitch of maturity magically flips when a human has been on this rock for eighteen orbits around a small, yellow sun. Although it is tangental, I suppose you also support the drinking age of 21, and will say that is there for a reason. You would be correct-- it's there becuase federal government funds don't go to states that have drinking ages lower than that. Don't you remember how the drinking age was 18 in most states when you were a kid? If a state feels like standing up for VOTING CITIZENS against the US theocracy, they could. However, the kind of need the money more.

      If you quit parenting at 16 because you think you've done a good enough job so far, you're just begging for trouble.
      Yes. But the pussification of America's youth is complete; we don't let them grow up for themselves. That recent story about UGA students having coupons for booze passed out to them -- oh noes, alcohol! Grow the fark up.

      In summary -- we don't let our kids "grow up" any more. We somehow got the idea that we have to "help" them, when what they really need is to be left alone, and possibly guided. This tool is a symptom of the disease that is parenting in America. If your child can't handle being alone in a room with a girl at 16, what makes you think he'll be any different at 18? Because his prefrontal cortex will be 18% larger? He may be busy with school and activities, but real maturity doesn't come from a textbook, and you know it.
    23. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by teflaime · · Score: 2, Insightful

      There's a reason that 18 is the age of majority, and not 15, 16, or even 17. What is that reason? No, really. I want to know.

      It's just an arbitrary age that Americans chose at some point. Probably because our educational system at one point ended for the vast majority of us around that age. Are you going to bump the "age of majority" to 22 now that so many of us are going to college? Are you going to bump it to the early 30s because that's when the last vestiges of the deifferences between the "adolescent" and "adult" brains disappear?

      The real problem with American teens, and most Americans overall, comes down to the fact that personal responsibility hasn't been a tenet of the American upbringing since Dr. Spock wrote his (in)famous book.

    24. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Baorc · · Score: 1

      Can't you all agree that it depends on the individual teenager rather than trying to generalize the whole 16 year old world population (or American, whatever)?

    25. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Disavian · · Score: 1

      We're able to restrict driving priveliges. Not entirely effectively, but it's the same idea.

      Want to smoke? Prove to me you know the health effects.
      Want to drink? Prove to me you can enjoy alcohol without getting trashed.
      Want to vote? Prove to me you know what's going on in the world.

      Although I'd want an organization other than the DMV to do it, the driving tests they give are too easy for things this important. An organization that the government, preferably, does not control; in the same sense that the Fed is in charge of money.

      And what keeps them from distributing smart IDs with your "rights"? If you've got the tools to hack that, nothing would have kept you from making a fake ID beforehand. Although this would cost a lot more than just lowering the ages in question...

    26. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Rocquestar · · Score: 1

      Yeah, I learned all about them from your daughter.

    27. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      being that I don't have a daughter....

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    28. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by jmhoule314 · · Score: 1

      Becuase we all know that it is a well known scientifically proven fact that 'children' become completely mature 'adults' the day they turn 18? 18 just seems really arbitrary to me and i think that by telling kids that you cant do this and that until you are 18 just encourages them to act immature when they are younger than 18 and contributes to emotional problems when they are 18 and later on in life. I dont have the hard facts and am currently too lazy to get them bowerver; i do beleive that in most of europe where they have lower or no drinking age there are far fewer alcholics.

    29. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Opie812 · · Score: 1

      Well, responsible enough to die for his country (in most places), but not responsible enough to have a drink at dinner (in other places).

      Odd, if you ask me.

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    30. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Geoffreyerffoeg · · Score: 1

      Well that explains why you don't feel the irrational protective instinct that every parent feels. I'm nowhere close to having a child either but I do have the sense to listen to the experiences of those who have.

      How about you go have a daughter, wait 16 years, and let her be by herself with a guy. Then come back and try to post about how Tommy kissing Jane isn't the end of the world.

    31. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by TheSkyIsPurple · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I completely disagree with this - because it's a blanket statement. Some people are mature enough for intimiate relationships by the age of 16 - in that case protected (IE with a condom) sex isn't a problem.
      i thought you said you taught him about condoms?

      It doesn't sound like his child is in a position to have responsible sex. Condoms aren't 100% effective. They break sometimes, they aren't always kept in the proper conditions, applied properly, etc.

      The kid is not living on his own, and not providing hit own way, nor I'm guessing is he prepared to do so.

      Putting those two together, the kid would be exposing himself to a better than 1 in 50 chance of getting a girl pregnant in good circumstances, and having to deal with the consequences... consequences which would also affect the kid's parent as well.

      It would be irresponsible to take an action for which there is an expected response that you are not capable of handling. Wouldn't it? Especially when that response directly affects the life of another.

      I agree: trust your teen
      But: There's a reason auto insurance rates don't drop until you're 25 though... trust your teen to lie to your or be stupid from time to time. Create an environment in which they can talk to you about their screw-ups, but do your part to ensure those screwups aren't as likely to happen also.

    32. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      From reading further down, I just wanted to say that it sounds like you're doing a good job. This is basically how my parents raised me, and at 23 I think I have a much more balanced view on life than most of the kids that had free reign.

    33. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      I didn't refute you "point by point" because you didn't make any valid points.

      I'm sorry that you think it's arrogance. Personally, I think it's realism. Raising a child teaches you a lot about yourself, life in general, human nature, and making mistakes. You're kidding yourself if you don't think that these experiences changes your opinion on a lot of different things.

      When you have a child, I hope your parenting philosophies (sp?) work for you. I've raised an honor-student eagle-scout varsity baseball player. He's got his faults, I've certainly made mistakes along the way, but I've proven my mettle.

    34. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by rhaig · · Score: 2, Informative

      look jackass... he said that your perspective changes on this as you raise a child.

      how about trying to refute that? (since you're apparently all about the point by point, but skip the points you cant refute) Get back to us when your oldest child is say... 15.

      "your perspective changes" is all he said. he didn't say you're full of shit.

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    35. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      having those irrational urges doesn't mean they're justified in acting on them. As I told someone else - it's arrogance to say that someone cannot have a valid opinion without being a parent - see my other post.

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    36. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by c_forq · · Score: 1

      Want to drink? Prove to me you can enjoy alcohol without getting trashed.

      Again, think about actually enacting this, how the hell do you do this? How the hell do you make sure the person acts the same when unmonitored? With a group of peers yelling chug? Once a person passes the test, how can you identify their passing? What prevents others from faking said proof of passage? How do you handle people from out of state or out of country?

      Want to vote? Prove to me you know what's going on in the world.

      If you look at the history of tests required to vote, they have always been used as a tool for the majority to gain greater control and power. Also this is as against modern democracy as requiring potential voters to own land.

      An organization that the government, preferably, does not control

      How the hell is this going to be enforced if it is non-government? NGO's are unable to make laws, and more importantly unable to enforce laws. Seriously, I don't you've thought much about how your hypothetical system would actually work. For policy to have any effect it needs large sums of cash incentive or enforceable negative consequences.

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    37. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Geoffreyerffoeg · · Score: 1
      From the tone of your posts, I'm guessing you're 20-25 and don't have any children of your own. All I mean by this is that your perspective on these things changes as you raise a child.
      and it's arrogance to assume that someone who hasn't yet doesn't know anything.
      No it isn't. To use an analogy that this site's readership would know, it's like Tanenbaum complaining to Linus about using a monolithic kernel. Sure, Tanenbaum is the most famous theoretical CSist in OS, and sure he did implement his own OS (Minix), but that still doesn't give him a bean of experience in telling Linus what to do. Tanenbaum never aimed for Minix to become as commonly used as Linux is - in fact, the goal of Minix was to perfectly implement theory.

      And then there's the Hurd. Followed all the theoretical precepts and guidelines. Got nowhere. Nobody's interested in working on it, and those who are aren't making any progress...but at least it's a microkernel.

      It's a problem of things differing in theory and practice, and theoreticians never having practiced. Your points are right in theory, but you forgot to account for emotion (both parent-child and boyfriend-girlfriend) and morality (which ought to be slightly more than logic strictly requires). And there's no way to account for those factors in theory, because they only arise in practice.
    38. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1, Interesting
      I didn't refute you "point by point" because you didn't make any valid points.


      bullocks, perhaps you should try reading and processing the information in my post. However your Inpenetrable Shield of Arrogance apparently is preventing that.

      Personally, I think it's realism.


      I'm not disagreeing with you about it being able to change persepctive, I'm disagreeing with your implication that one's opinion is not valid simply because they haven't expirience something.

      I haven't expirienced infection with AIDS - does that mean my opinion that AIDS is bad is invalid?
      I haven't expirienced incarceration for committing a crime - does that mean my opinion that committing a crime is a bad thing? ... ad nauseum ...

      I'm sorry that you think it's arrogance.


      then don't act arrogant

      I've certainly made mistakes along the way


      such as enrolling your child in a program run by the Bigot Scouts of America, I hope he didn't have any anti-religious-minority (anti-non-religious) and anti-homosexual attitudes from them.
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    39. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      ....rather than trying to generalize the whole 16 year old world population

      Arabs are terrorists.
      Niggers are lazy.
      Jews are evil.


      Why should teenagers be regarded any different?

    40. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      You will note I objected to the blanket statement, and you're giving specific-case that you have in mind of someone who isn't. Not exactly a level argument eh?

      But: There's a reason auto insurance rates don't drop until you're 25 though... trust your teen to lie to your or be stupid from time to time. Create an environment in which they can talk to you about their screw-ups, but do your part to ensure those screwups aren't as likely to happen also.


      yup, and those of us under 25 with better driving records than you pay more because of that kind of blanket statement thinking, and quite frankly that should be illegal - if the state is going to require me to have insurance on my vehicle (for good reason) then they should require that my driving record is treated fairly.
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    41. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      I NEVER had to lie when I was 16. My parents never placed restricitons on me, rather they always told me that I was responsible for my own actions. I always felt a sense of trust with my parents, and I never violated that trust. I had to be home by midnight and my parents never stayed up to make sure I was home by then, but for some odd reason I was always home on time.

      My parents never had to ask to see my report card because they could trust me when I told them what my grades were (of course having mostly As with one B was nothing to lie about). I never drank alcohol either.

      Now reading all of this you might think I never had fun, however that's not the case. I had a lot of fun as a kid, participating in activies like Hockey, Motocross, Hunting, Fishing, Rock Climbing, Kayaking, Cycling, etc. I also did my share of partying when I went to college at 18. I've partied hard at times, though I managed to stay out of trouble because I knew my limits.

      Not all 16 year olds are liars and troublemakers, and good parenting can make a huge difference. I think I turned out OK and I commend my parents for doing a good job raising me.

    42. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by letxa2000 · · Score: 1, Insightful

      Your parenting attitude, my friend, is exactly why America is turning out so many screwed up kids. Thanks a lot!

    43. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Disavian · · Score: 1

      Glad to help. :)

    44. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're a moron. You think you're all grown up at 22? The biggest mistakes of your life still lie ahead of you.

      What's arrogance is a 22 year old who thinks he's all grown up. What's arrogance is a 22 year old who thinks he knows better for someones child then the person who RAISED the child. What's arrogance is opening your mouth and offering opinions about things you've never experienced.

      When you're a student, you see a lot of teachers. You can describe their job. You can explain their responsibilities. A student can emulate his teacher. A student can occassionally even teach his teacher. But that doesn't prepare a student to *be* a teacher. That isn't an insult to the student, it's just a fact of life.

      Someday you'll be a teacher. That day is not today.

    45. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by IgLou · · Score: 1

      I'd like to lend my support here. I can't agree with you more. Trust has to be earned. I'll trust my kids (3 and a half for one and 8 weeks for the other but I plan to trust them). But that doesn't mean that in having my trust that they get all the freedom of an adult. After all, I'm legally responsible for them.

      This whole bigbrother arguement is lame. If I get either of my boys a car when they are ready or if they drive my car you better be sure that I'd have a GPS or any other type of monitoring device on it initially. Especially if it's my car! I have the right to know how it's being used. Also, if something were to happen it would be my ass that got sued.

      Anyways, I've been on the choir long enough.

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    46. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      It's a problem of things differing in theory and practice, and theoreticians never having practiced.


      and contrary to the arrogant assertions ot the practicioners that doesn't automatically make the theoreticians incorrect - infact in almost every field I know the theoreticians are the smarter ones who are right more often, the practicioners merely attempt to implement the ideas of the theoriticians.

      Your points are right in theory, but you forgot to account for emotion (both parent-child and boyfriend-girlfriend)


      no I didn't fail to account for them, I just expect people to be able to make rational decisions despite their emotions - all my friends are capable of doing so, and my children will be taught to be capable of doing so.

      and morality (which ought to be slightly more than logic strictly requires).


      argument from morality get us no-where - especially since much of america runs on authoritarian morality with no logic behind it and my "moral system" is 100% based upon logic and human rights

      And there's no way to account for those factors in theory, because they only arise in practice.


      apparently you're unfamiliar with the fields of psychology and sociology.
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    47. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 4, Informative

      This was originally posted by an A.C. as a reply to one of your other posts, but I'm going to repost it here. I agree totally.

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      You're a moron. You think you're all grown up at 22? The biggest mistakes of your life still lie ahead of you.

      What's arrogance is a 22 year old who thinks he's all grown up. What's arrogance is a 22 year old who thinks he knows better for someones child then the person who RAISED the child. What's arrogance is opening your mouth and offering opinions about things you've never experienced.

      When you're a student, you see a lot of teachers. You can describe their job. You can explain their responsibilities. A student can emulate his teacher. A student can occassionally even teach his teacher. But that doesn't prepare a student to *be* a teacher. That isn't an insult to the student, it's just a fact of life.

      Someday you'll be a teacher. That day is not today.

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    48. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by rubycodez · · Score: 1

      what do you mean, our 18 year olds in the military stationed in foreign countries can and do get booze, hookers, smokes....You want to quickly get into the most serious aspects of the adult world, by all means enlist, kids.

    49. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      he didn't say you're full of shit.


      ever heard of implication?
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    50. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by letxa2000 · · Score: 1
      If I say "Be responsible, don't have sex, but if you have sex, use protection" and then I let him take his gf upstairs and give them complete privacy, what message is that REALLY sending?


      Jeez, I'm in my thirties and I can't figure out what message that is really sending! And you want a teenager to figure it out? I guess there's a possibility he could think "Wow, they really trust me, isn't that swell" and then behave like a mature adult or like "The Beaver". Or maybe, "Hmmm, they said don't have sex, but they armed me with a box of condoms and sent me upstairs with my girlfriend behind closed doors." Add a few hormones to the equation and you do the math what kind of "beaver" that kid is going to be following after. After all, the kid apparently didn't have to do anything to earn that trust so there's no sense of what it means to lose it (until they do, at which point it's too late).

    51. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Wow I really wish I had mod points. Good post.

    52. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 0, Troll
      Wait for your day, son.


      and this is the most telling of all - you cannot actually handle debating with someone so instead you start demeaning them based upon their age.

      That's very mature of you. I hope you taught that to your son, arrogance and ageism will really help him protect himself from reality in later life.
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    53. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by TheSkyIsPurple · · Score: 1

      You will note I objected to the blanket statement, and you're giving specific-case that you have in mind of someone who isn't. Not exactly a level argument eh?

      I picked the specific case of the parent poster's response. That poster was referring to his kid, and so did I.
      in the specific case I made (about sex), I would venture to say nearly no 16 year old is able to have sex responsibly.
      Nearly enough as to allow others to actually use "no 16 year old"... Since in order to be responsible sex, you have to be able and willing to support the results of an unintended pregnancy, and that's pretty rare for a 16 year old these days.

      yup, and those of us under 25 with better driving records than you pay more because of that kind of blanket statement thinking, and quite frankly that should be illegal - if the state is going to require me to have insurance on my vehicle (for good reason) then they should require that my driving record is treated fairly.

      Insurance companies have lots of records of accidents, and that's the age they've worked out statistically where the danger is lower... Competitive Insurance rates work by grouping common factors so that they can try to comptetively lower rates while limiting their exposure to actually having to pay out.
      They have to be able to discriminate based on some things, and being under 25 seems reasonable to me.
      As long as they can show statistically there is a correlation (causation is largely irrelevant in this case), in order to show they aren't just out to screw folks... then i'm OK with it.

      Don't like it? There's a hundred other insurance companies that build their tables in different ways... go get competitive rates from them.. maybe they've found some sub grouping of under-25 year olds for which they can drop rates more.

    54. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by cg0def · · Score: 1

      Wow ... did your parents beat you up when you were a kid? You mu friend have some serious issues and while letting your kid do whatever he'she wants won't solve them, there are some pretty good doctors that can. Anyway, this "invention" is about the dumbest way to spend money. If you really have to track your kid then you've missed out on some quality parent-child time. Yes, you do have to set limits for your children and teach them about honesty, responcibility, respect, and the likes but playing The Man with them is the fastest way to loose your parental respect. ( but them you already have ) Oh and 18 is really not the age that people reach maturity. For different people comes at a different time and this is why parents should be careful even after 18. Also parenting should not and does not mean guarding or stalking or spying. But then if you are really a parent you should know that ( or maybe you forgot too fast what it was to be a kid ).

    55. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by rhaig · · Score: 1

      you're awfully defensive... having problems beliving your own argument?

      Back to the point by point rebuttals... what about the point by point on how your perspective changes as you raise a child?

      what? there isn't one?

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    56. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Straif · · Score: 1

      and apparently your never heard that the failure rate of pretty much all contraceptives is five times higher amoung teens than non-teens.

      All Shanho and the others are advocating is taking some reasonable precautions as opposed to simply releasing your child into the wild and hoping for the best. The exact types of precautions to be used are more of a case by case basis. Where I grew up speeding was not a major issue so a GPS unit would be overkill but teenage drinking on the other hand was a very regular occurrence so in some cases I could see a parent installing one of those breathalyser units instead. It's all a matter of individual circumstances.

      That's not to say that many parents don't go too far but simply requiring the bedroom remain open is hardly a case of extreme parental control.

      I'd be interested in hearing your opinion on allowing your child, when you ever have one, to have a computer with internet access in their room.

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    57. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 3, Insightful

      I've taught my son humility. I've taught him that he isn't always right. I've taught him to respect his elders. I've taught him that he's going to be wrong more often then he's going to be right.

      You're 22 fricken years old. You're SIX YEARS OLDER then the child we're discussing here. How do you think you're AT ALL qualified to raise a 16 year old when you're 22? Give me a break, man.

      You don't think I'd like to be 22 again? Of course I would. And if we were debating the finer points of picking up women at a dance club or dorm-life in america today, you'd have the upper hand. But you're just not equipped for this debate. It's outside your area of expertise.

      Really, let it go. You've posted 30 comments in this thread and I haven't seen a single one modded up. Do you think all the mod's are "ageists?" Perhaps they've just recognized your posts as trolling for an argument.

      It doesn't seem to me like you're mature enough to even handle slashdot, let alone raising a teenager.

      I don't think you understand just what we're talking about. A little mini-man who feels like he's all grown up, who feels like he's got the world by the balls. A boy old enough to look in the mirror and see the face of a man. It's not easy today to raise a child to be a good person. There are 100 different things trying to pull him from the path that his mother and I have set him on.

      This has been a fun way to waste a morning. I'll talk about my kids any chance I get. What I won't do, however, is give unsolicited parenting advice. I suggest you do the same.

    58. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      no there really isn't - all the insurance companies are ageist bigots who charge less for people twice my age with recent at-fault accidents than they charge people my age who have perfect, spotless, driving records - or if there is one I've certainly never heard of them

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    59. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

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      game. set. match.

    60. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      there you go tossing around personal insults again. I would say that you're the one not mature enough for slashdot. My karma happens to be excellent, and if some moderators want to get chewed up by the metamoderates by marking my posts as flamebait then they can be my guest. Apparently the honest opinion of someone CAN be flamebait as well - because I sure have started a flamewar with my only semi-serious comment about the fact that "keep the door open tommy" seems a little bit puritanical and helicopter-parenting (hovering) to me.

      Yes i'm 22 fricken years old, but I also have been dating the same woman for 4 years, am getting married to her in 3 months. I am an uncle, I have several of male coworkers as examples of fairly good parents, I have observed the mistakes and successes of my parents with my brother and myself. I have my own expirience when I was 16, I have the mistakes and succeses of those around me to learn from.

      Knowledge and wisdom doesn't require first hand expirience - the only thing I haven't yet expirience is the emotional part of it, and I am not given to letting my emotions have any role in my decision making what-so-ever, except where it has a valid part. Determining if I can trust any offspring I have in the future is completely a logical decision, not an emotional one, so emotion will not have a voice in the decision.

      I would once again remind you, you're the one that turned it into a personal insult match.

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    61. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by TheSkyIsPurple · · Score: 1

      no there really isn't - all the insurance companies are ageist bigots who charge less for people twice my age with recent at-fault accidents than they charge people my age who have perfect, spotless, driving records - or if there is one I've certainly never heard of them

      They are ageist, but that should tell you about just how much of an extra risk your age group is. (I was there not too long ago)
      They're playing the odds.

      Number crunchers have poured through the hundreds of thousands of accidents correlating all kinds of factors, trying to find some measurable way to drop rates without going bankrupt, and no company has been able to make a significant dent in the groups. Insurance companies just can't stay in business without doing that really.

      However, I can refer you to a legal insurance agency (I've not yet seen a compulsory insurance statute that didn't list them as a possibility) that would not discriminate against you. => You.
      You are free, in any state that I've seen, to self-insure. It normally requires having a bond posted somewhere and carrying around certification of that bond.
      Expensive? hell yes. That's why insurance companies are usually a better deal.

      They're aggregating risk of that bond being used among all their customers. Some exceptional ones get screwed... some exceptional ones get away with murder... but on average it works out. That's life.

    62. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Alioth · · Score: 1

      You know, if I ever have kids, I'd be relieved if they turned out to be gay - no unexpected teenage pregnancy risk then!

    63. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 0, Redundant

      try looking elsewhere in the thread. Furthermore implying that a changed perspective means your opinion changes 100% of the time is also a fallacy. I find it highly unlikely that any additional perspective that I will gain from entering the breeding community will significantly change my opinions on the matter because my opinions are based on a great ammount of observation - and I'm not one given to letting my emotions rule my decisions.

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    64. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Belial6 · · Score: 1

      Every insurance company discriminates based on age. The problem with this is that we, as a society, have said that discrimination based on age is wrong. Just as discrimination based on race, religion and sex is wrong. If the insurance company found that people of Mexican decent were 6% more likely to have an accident, and had the statistics to back it up, would you be ok with charging these people higher rates just because of their ethnicity? Now, I now your going to play the "but the children" card. For hundreds of thousands of years, human have reached adulthood by approximatly the age of 13. Unless your genetic line has had exposure to some severe gene altering environmental factor, 13 is still the age of adulthood. No wonder we have problems with 'teenagers'. We take adults and tell them that for the next 5 years, you don't have to accomplish anything, and someone else is responsible for your actions. How many people do you know would be a problem if they were told that at 35? The 16 year old not being 'responsible' enough to care for a child is not a genetic issue, but instead is caused by a problem legal structure. We have created an almost 100% welfare state for adults between the ages of 13 and 18.

    65. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      Some exceptional ones get screwed... some exceptional ones get away with murder... but on average it works out. That's life.


      that's me, being forced by the state, to pay for the mistakes of others. which we can all agree that is wrong.
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    66. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Geoffreyerffoeg · · Score: 1

      I just expect people to be able to make rational decisions despite their emotions - all my friends are capable of doing so, and my children will be taught to be capable of doing so.

      Have you never fallen in love?

    67. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Rakishi · · Score: 1

      Psychologically and neurologically the brain is not mature till around 20 or a bit after, so using 18 is rather arsine from a scientific point of view. From what I've seen 18 is NOT the average for maturity, ever seen how college students act?

    68. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      Irrelevant. "Falling in Love" isn't a decision, and it is actually the realm of emotion - not to realm of decision making and logic.

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    69. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      "Knowledge and wisdom doesn't require first hand expirience"

      This, my dear old friend, is where you're wrong. There are somethings that this applies to. I think you used AIDS as an example. You don't need to have AIDS to know that it's bad.

      But parenting is not one of these things. You can't read a book on parenting and know how to be a good parent. Funny enough, it's like driving. What if I told you that I've never ACTUALLY driven, but I HAVE seen a lot of people do it. I happen to have coworkers at work who are good drives. I'm a passenger, I've been inside a car before. I've even read BOOKS about driving.

      How safe would you feel getting in my car for a roadtrip?

      That's what I thought.

    70. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by scwizard · · Score: 1
      Re-read the first line of my post. Your perspective on this changes as you raise a child. All this post has done is further cement the accuracy of that statement.
      This is undeniably true, I'm still trying to figure out how it changes though, being a 17 year old child myself.
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    71. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Rakishi · · Score: 1

      Well I'd damn well make sure my daughter knows about safe sex. It's not like I can really stop her from having sex if she really wants to, the most one can do is to limit the bad that can ahppen and try to be aware of what is going on. And honestly if I had a daughter I'd prefer she fuck some 16 year old than some 25 year old in a motel room.

    72. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by jZnat · · Score: 1

      If any teens are like what I was in high school (which was only a couple years ago anyhow), they'll be too busy or too lazy to even bother finding their report card in the mail let along forging it.

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    73. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by rhaig · · Score: 2, Interesting

      lots of observation is a good start. The part that is greatly different is the actual participation in the act of raising a child. It's good that you're learning about these things through observation. Try volunteering with some youth groups. It's a start into the participation without becoming a breeder. Once you've invested yourself in a child, your perspective changes. Your opinion may or may not change (you inferred incorrectly from the perspective statement) but your perspective certainly will.

      I'm not implying that volunteering with youth is the same as being a parent, but it will let you have a different perspective. I was a Boy Scout leader for 4 years and saw and helped boys turn into young men. I played a miniscule part in their lives compared to their parents and teachers, but I was there and made a difference.

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    74. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Alioth · · Score: 1

      Yes, you ARE grown up at 22, fully responsible for your own actions. Even the nanny state agrees that you're grown up at 22. You may not necessarily be particularly experienced - almost certainly not of child-rearing, but you ARE an adult and you ARE grown up - you are not a child at 22.

    75. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Rakishi · · Score: 1

      and apparently your never heard that the failure rate of pretty much all contraceptives is five times higher amoung teens than non-teens.

      Nothing magical about them being teens, simply that they used them improperly. Most likely they had shit for sex-ed and never learned in the first place.

      All Shanho and the others are advocating is taking some reasonable precautions as opposed to simply releasing your child into the wild and hoping for the best.

      Honestly if you can't trust your kids and they can't trust you then restrictions won't do much.

      That's not to say that many parents don't go too far but simply requiring the bedroom remain open is hardly a case of extreme parental control.

      The kid will simply have sex someplace else, I remember quite a few cases of that in my HS bathrooms.

    76. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by jZnat · · Score: 1

      i do beleive that in most of europe where they have lower or no drinking age there are far fewer alcholics.

      This is especially true in places like Italia where kids are exposed to alcohol (mainly wine and soft liqueurs) at an early age as a part of meals. Children learn to drink responsibly far before they start driving or operating other dangerous machines, so we end up with far less alcohol-related problems.

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    77. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      Operating a motor vehicle is a physical coordination task - not analogous to raising children in any way.

      If you cannot learn how to be a good parent before hand via second hand knowledge, then there would be no such thing as a good parent. Where did you learn what you used to parent?

      My entire point is - by the time your son is 16 you should be able to trust him to have the door closed without him doing things you don't want him to. If you cannot trust him to do that then you cannot trust him to go over to his friend's place, to be out of your supervision after school, etc.

      As someone else pointed out - human biological maturity is achieved at 13 - they failed to point out that neurological maturity is somewhere between there and about 22. I know plenty of people my age who I wouldn't trust with a decision worth are damn - including people who have graudated with 4-year-degrees. I also know some people the age of your son that I would trust at the console of a nuclear missile silo with superuser access.

      A good parent should be able to trust their 16 year old to follow their guidance, even with "the door closed" (literally and figuratively) if that parent's teachings are reasonable. (However if the parents teachings are not reasonable, I think many 16 year olds are mature enough to know better and will defy their parents - but I also know many 16 year olds who are mature enough to know their parents are wrong: but not mature enough to do the right thing in the guidance vacuum)

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    78. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by richlv · · Score: 1
      I ask my son to see his report card, I don't take his word for it. If he's supposed to be home at midnight, I stay up until he gets home, I don't take his word for it. I make him keep his bedroom door open when he has his girlfriend over to "do homework."

      although i am not arguing that absulte ignorance & freedom is a must, this sounds somewhat too restrictive and more looks like a control issue.
      there are people who like to keep everything under control, especially other people (i know, i am guilty in this...) - but you (or i, or everybody) have to step back somewhat. overcontrolling other people tends to make it worse (and this is true for both teenagers and adults).

      first, this makes them less responsible and able to adapt to the world once your control diminishes (which is the idea you should be comfortable with. are you ?). i'd say i have suffered from this and still have some problems with this... no, i don't live in a basement or something ;)
      it's more subtle than living with parents at a relatively old age.

      second, once they feel that the control, the power you have over them has lessened - it will be double irresponsibility and doing stupid things - because they have not had the chance to do stupid things in small doses. and this happens together with the first set of problems, making it even worse, as it is harder to clean up after the mess themselves.

      now, i'll try to pick on your text a bit ;)

      I ask my son to see his report card, I don't take his word for it.

      this is not an awful thing, given how many interesting things there are to do ;)
      but have you tried taking his word for it a couple if times to show that you can trust him ? you could subtly check at some point later, so if you see that he indeed has told lies to you, you can note that he has betrayed your trust. oh, and being polite helps to tell the truth, even it is not extremly pleasant ;)

      If he's supposed to be home at midnight, I stay up until he gets home, I don't take his word for it.

      he's 16, right ? weeeell... you could control him now and then, but this seems to be somewhat picky.

      I make him keep his bedroom door open when he has his girlfriend over to "do homework.

      ok, this is just silly :D
      what, the poor girl has a dog necklace and there is no other place they could meet ?
      first, you should be able to talk to your kids about sexuality. zealous christianistic denial of sexuality has done enough bad already, no need to drive it further.
      second, this shows extreme distrust - and makes them both lose respect for you, not to mention you looking silly.

      btw, if your son has a computer, he probably is reading all this - and no, i am not him :D

      as for the original article... i suppose these things will get cracked, attached to parent's cars and such. probably in the first month, being very generous.
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    79. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Geoffreyerffoeg · · Score: 1

      Irrelevant. "Falling in Love" isn't a decision, and it is actually the realm of emotion - not to realm of decision making and logic.

      Very relevant. Falling in love itself is, of course, emotion. Acting upon it (asking her out, getting in a relationship, whatever else) is clearly a decision. I saw in another post that you're getting married sometime soon. Did you go through a spreadsheet of potential mates and identify the optimum one? Or did love have anything to do with it? If the latter, as I suspect, then you made a very important life decision rooted in emotion.

    80. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Rakishi · · Score: 1

      Re-read the first line of my post. Your perspective on this changes as you raise a child. All this post has done is further cement the accuracy of that statement.

      Give it up.


      So you're saying that once you have a child you will have an emotional vested interest which keeps you from being able to logically consider the situation and find the best solution (instead going for the one that makes you feel most fuzzy inside even if not best for the child)?

    81. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      I'm sorry, but I just refuse, on principle, to listen to the advice of anyone who participated in the Boy Scouts of America - unless that person demonstrates they have bucked that organizations bigotry in their own personal lives (IE taught their children to know better if their child was involved, or in your case didn't enforce the bigotry of the BSA)

      That organization is actively engaged in encouraging bigotry - including against me, my wife, and any children we have (atheists/agnostics) as well as some of our acquaintances (homosexuals).

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    82. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by General+Melchett · · Score: 0

      I get the 'omg' bit, but whats the 'z' at the start of it in aid of? Have a missed something?

    83. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by togtog · · Score: 1

      Are you a teacher perchance?

    84. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      I was imprecise in my explaination before, and that is my fault and is what has created the apparent contraction in my statements you see. I have two basic categories of decisions: ones where emotion can properly play a role, and ones where emotion cannot properly play a role and should be excluded.

      The former are things like getting married, dating, etc. The latter are things like "is this true?", "is this the best way to do X?", "do I trust this person", etc.

      I put decisions about the best way to raise a child into category 2

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    85. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      "zomg" is kinda like.. adding emphasis... a person who says "zomg!" is freaking out... not sure the source.. it's a net thing

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    86. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Where did I learn to be a good parent?

      On the job training. There is no other way.

      Give. It. Up. You do not know as much about raising children as a parent does, ESPECIALLY a parent that's been a parent for 16 years. I'm really, really sorry that feel that's unfair. It's just how it is. There is NOTHING, N-O-T-H-I-N-G to prepare a person for parenthood. It's a totally different beast then ANYTHING you've ever done or ever will do. Just accept that fact and move on.

      Driving isn't much like parenthood, but it is similar in one important way: You can't get good at either of them without actual experience.

      I'm finding it hard to believe you're even 22. You're acting more like 14. Call it what you want, but you've got a lot of growing up to do. I work with people your age who i respect and admire. I don't think anything of the fact that you're 22. I do think something of the fact that you're 22 trying to educate a 42 year old on life. How would you feel if a 12 year old tried to educate you on the ways of the world? Would you tell him he's got some growing up to do? I think you would. Now put yourself in my shoes.

      If you were really as mature and grown up as you claim we'd never have had this conversation. The only "attack" I've made against you is labeling you as immature. You've made it glaringly obvious that I was correct in my assumption. It didn't begin that way, in the beginning the only assumption I made was that you didn't have kids. I didn't claim you were immature at first ...no... you had to convince me of that.

    87. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by TheSkyIsPurple · · Score: 1

      > that's me, being forced by the state, to pay for the mistakes of others. which we can all agree that is wrong

      Nope, we can't agree on that at all. You're a human, so you are assumed to be susceptible to the same things other humas are, so in a general sense, others actions as a group can tell us a little about how you are likely to act... you were raised with other people weren't you?

      I could write a nice long reasoned response with examples of how other innocent people get screwed by people who think they'll always have a perfect driving record because they've always had one... by people who think they will always be able to handle every situation that comes up with perfect response and clarity under every circumstance, but I don't think it would make a difference.
      Past performance is not a guarantee of future performance.

      So, which innocent should have to pay? The one who already had insurance, and now has higher premiums because of the uninsured motorist? Or the uninsured motorist for not planning responsibility for actions that are foreseeable? Or all taxpayers, so the gov't is now responsible for our actions on the road instead of the individuals.

      Out of those choices, I much prefer for the people driving to show financial responsibility for actions that may occur while they're driving.

      I think everyone should have some sort of proof of financial responsibility when they drive.
      Most people can't afford to have enough cash on hand to pay for things as they come up, so in steps the insurance company.
      Now the problem is how to determine rates... group people.
      How?

      well...
      1) We're all mambers of the human group, so we all pay the same rate... which means most people are getting screwed.
      2) Look at accident statistics and try to determine sub groups for which we can assign their own risk, and thus set their rates... But because of the limited information we have about all accidents, and about personal information on individuals... and because people lie about their info as well and they won't let the companies monitor them, there's a limit to how granular they can get.

      Just deal with it... yeah, in an ideal sense it's wrong.
      But we live in the real world where things have to actually be able to function.

    88. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      No, I didn't write that comment, I just reposted it.

    89. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Based on my own experiences falling in love, I've come up with a number of (very) hueristic and intuitive rules that govern it and allow it to be accounted for in the theory of things.

      Yes, it doesn't operate in the usual domain of logic. No, that doesn't mean it can't be understood and compensated for.

    90. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Geoffreyerffoeg · · Score: 1

      Which brings us back to the original point. If emotion can play a role in dating, how do you know that emotions + hormones won't overpower the best training and trust you can give your kids? And even if you don't care about your kids losing their virginity during teenage, there's always the practical risk of pregnancy and STDs. Even with protection. The best-laid (no pun intended) plans, as they say. It's possible to trust your kids to know what's right without entirely trusting them to do what's right.

      Besides, "do I trust this person", although not directly an emotional question, is an analysis of the emotional factors affecting the other person. I wouldn't trust Alan Greenspan to invest a nickel of my money if I couldn't trust him to actually go and invest it, regardless of how well he understands the market. Same here - you should know that teenaged kids are going to have certain desires, regardless of whether you want them to and even whether they want themselves to.

    91. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by susano_otter · · Score: 1
      Ah, the magical switch that flips when a kid turns 18, making him a responsible adult....


      The switch flips somewhere between 14 and 21 for most people, I think, with the majority flipping somewhere between 16 and 17.

      We give the slow starters an extra year to get up to speed, on account of there seems to be a consensus among the responsible adults that it's better to hold back the rare mature 14 year-old than to give an immature 17 year-old adult responsibility before he's had a chance to learn whatever valuable life lesson it is that will (hopefully) flip that switch for him in the coming year.

      It's not so much that there's a switch at all, though. It's more like we give people a good long window in which to mature, before we give them the responsibilities of a mature adult. Of course there are statistical outliers, but mostly the system works out pretty well.
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    92. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      There is no end to your ineptitude.

      I'm proud of the work that it took for my son to reach the rank of Eagle scout. I was a US Marine, another orginzation that has problems with (openly) gay men. Does this make me a homophobe? Of course not. Is my boy a homophobe because he was involved in the BSA? Of course not.

      I could not be more proud of the company my son is now part of. Do a google search for famous eagle scouts. Among the scores of recognizable names, you'll see Presidents, Astronauts, Generals, Colonels, Congressmen, Supreme Court Justices, US Senators, celebrities, businessmen, and clergy.

      I wish you good luck if you ever do decide to raise children. It seems to me like you're going to need it.

    93. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by DangerousBeauty · · Score: 1

      I have to agree with the above comment. I'm a teacher, and I took courses, and read the books, and all the blah blah blah theoretical stuff. And none of it completely prepared me for what I experienced in my first day of class teaching a bunch of rowdy first graders. Obviously yes, you can learn a multitude of useful things from books, and I don't discount that at all. Eveything I learned did help me to some degree, but none helped as much as actual hands on, being there experience. I could read every book in the world on aviating, and play with a flight simulator until my eyes bugged out, but I sincerely doubt that anyone would lend me a jet with only that backing me up. Learning through reading, etc. has its place, and I'm not trying to argue that it doesn't. But it can only prepare you so much. It may help you out immensely. But it still can't replace actual experience.

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    94. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      I encourage you to read the discussion about this as opposed to this singular post. While I appreciate your concern, it's wholly unfounded. Setting a curfew and expecting it to be followed is not overcontrolling. Letting my son have his girlfriend in his bedroom as long as they keep the door open is certainly not overcontrolling.

      I don't need to explain my parenting philosophy to you, largely because it's already spelled out in this very thread. But suffice it to say that my views of teenage sexuality are particularly enlightened compared to many of my peers.

    95. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      How would you feel if a 12 year old tried to educate you on the ways of the world? Would you tell him he's got some growing up to do? I think you would. Now put yourself in my shoes.


      don't presume to project your arrogance onto me. I would not tell a 12 year old to simply "grow up" - I would atleast give them the respect of giving them a point by point refutation of why they're wrong instead of simply saying "i'm older than you therefore i'm right".

      The fact that you're 42 means absolutely nothing. I know 50 year olds that I know more about good parenting and maturity than and they've raised children (who are all now fucked up in various ways).

      No, your presumptious self-defensive arrogance of "you cannot possibly know anything about raising children without doing so" is nothing more than arrogance. Don't attempt to project it onto others, don't attempt to make it sound like anything else.

      You are arrogant. Live with it.
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    96. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Point from a neutral observer - it takes two to flamewar. He's not the only immature one. I'd think a 42 year old with over 16 years of marriage (?) would have learned when to stop arguing. Granted, it's a more worthy cause than arguing religion.

      Now, my two cents - As an 18 year old, I have less experience than either of you. I understand from my own experience with relationships that there are some things which are "different beasts". I don't know if this is related enough to be worth anything, so I'll look at a different aspect.

      Through this whole thing, you're dealing with a 16 year old. If you can't explain your reasoning well enough to satisfy a 22 year old, it probably won't satisfy a 16 year old. Like you mentioned, emotion is a tricky beast. I know from my experience as a 16 year old that even the perception of parental distrust can be a tremendously undermining feeling. That said, parental inattention can be just as undermining. There's a very thin line that requires the parent to have *intimate* understanding of the emotional state of their child.

      Basically, if your child doesn't mind the restricions, it's probably okay. If they chafe and feel that you distrust them, maybe it's time to give them a bit more slack. It seems from my experience that parents often treat their kids a year or two too young. If you've rasied your kids correctly, loosening restrictions shouldn't be a problem. If you haven't, then there's nothing you can do, because they will find a way to circumvent any restrictions.

      Again, this is an 18 year old - I'm closer to the child than the parent here, so that's where my sympathies tend to lie.

    97. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You're a moron. You think you're all grown up at 22? The biggest mistakes of your life still lie ahead of you. What's arrogance is a 22 year old who thinks he's all grown up.

      What's arrogance is assuming that you're more grown up because you're older. I've met people at 22 who are more grown up than others will ever be. I've known kids who have been through more shit in their lives by the age of 18 than you ever will in your life.

    98. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      and keeping the door open does nothing to those desires. If you cannot trust your child with their door closed in your own house, while you are there, then you cannot trust them at all.

      Be realistic - They will go out and do it anyway somewhere that you cannot supervise.

      all you can do is arm them with knowledge, beyond that you really cannot control what they do, so attempting to is overbearing

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    99. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Cthefuture · · Score: 3, Informative

      I wouldn't say they are a moron. This is typical of that age group. From 18-25 or so you think you have grown up and know what you are doing. You realize there are things you don't know about but at the same time you think you know what they are and can handle them. It's the age of what I would call adult arrogance (versus teen-age arrogance). You think you are humble but really you have no idea what it means.

      It's only once you get past 25 or so (depending on experience) you realize what it means to be humble. As the OP stated, there are a lot of humbling experiences to be had in the 18-25 ages and these change you. You realize that you truly don't know anything and will experience many more humbling moments. It's at that point you become what I consider an adult.

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    100. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by TheSkyIsPurple · · Score: 1

      > The problem with this is that we, as a society, have said that discrimination based on age is wrong

      Did we say discrimination based on age is wrong for anything, or only for firing old people?
      We generally require 16 to be able to drive, and 21 to drink, and 18 for contracts, 13 for any sort of outside work, so there's age discrimination right there.
      We recognize that age is a factor when determining the ability to be responsibile for things

      > The 16 year old not being 'responsible' enough to care for a child is not a genetic issue, but instead is caused by a problem legal structure.

      But, that's the structure under which that person's 16 year old was raised in.
      If you raise your child so that at 16 they are earning their own keep and can afford a child of their own, then they can have sex all they want... the point's the same. Live within your sphere of responsibility.

    101. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      Denouncing an organization that actively engages in bigotry is not


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      Please know what the fuck the word you're using means before you use it.

      Is getting to be an Eagle Scout hard work? yes, and hard work is to be respected, cheers to him - especially if he only learned the good and left the trash - and if your troup didn't follow national and didn't excluse people more power to them.

      It's a pity that organization has to destroy all respect that they should get with their bigotry. No organization that actively promotes bigotry is acceptable - any good thing they do is destroyed by their encouraging bigotry.

      Ask yourself this: would you vote against equal marriage rights for gays? would you vote against someone simply because they're an atheist? do you think atheists objection to "under god" in the pledge is nonsense?

      now ask yourself these same questions about your son.

      If you answer yes to any of them: you are a bigot, if you think your son would answer yes to any three of them then you need to have a conservation with him.

      I was a US Marine, another orginzation that has problems with (openly) gay men.


      a jarhead.... that explains a lot :D

      you ever stay at camp lejeune in the late 90s/eary 00s? If so: I hope you liked getting your butt handed to you by my brother in war games over and over

      (82nd Airborne>jar heads)
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    102. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by steveo777 · · Score: 1
      I think you're lying to yourself if you honestly believe that you're not going to "wing it" with your childe when he grows up. I'm willing to bet, but not put all my chips on, that you had a good relationship with your parents.

      My parents allowed me every freedom they could offer, but if I abused any of them without coming straight out and telling them what was going on, I'd never see it again. They trusted that I was realy going to my friends' houses. They trusted me to tell the truth about what I was doing, and were ready to make me back it up if they had reason to be suspicious. My parents didn't have a problem with me staying at a friend's place on a school night because they required to have their phone number and talk with their parents, at their leisure, which they did. It also required that I was at school, on time, the next day. Which they would verify if they had reason to doubt. So my mom or dad was at least familiar with where I was at all times.

      With the advent of cheap cellular phones and cheap GPS, I'm not sure how I'll handle parenting my kids, but I certainly don't want my kids to feel they're being teathered, to me. But I want them to know I am paying attention.

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    103. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by richlv · · Score: 1

      I encourage you to read the discussion about this as opposed to this singular post.

      i partially did. it evolved in personal attacks, lots of repeating and bashing.

      Setting a curfew and expecting it to be followed is not overcontrolling.

      expecting - yes. but allowing the freedom to submit to rules without direct and visible control can be much, much more beneficial. as all things, in sane amounts :)

      Letting my son have his girlfriend in his bedroom as long as they keep the door open is certainly not overcontrolling.

      i must admit, this seemed like the worst of the three examples to me. it does not achieve anything (world is bigger than a single room), it probably tells him to avoid these subjects with you and makes him feel overcontrolled, even though you don't see it like that.

      But suffice it to say that my views of teenage sexuality are particularly enlightened compared to many of my peers.

      that's nice, but it also is somewhat frigtening...

      note, i'm not trying to bash you personally (even though it probably looked like that :) ) - it's just that it really seemed to be quite strick control to me. allowing partial self control (which can be reduced if it is not sufficient) can save from a disaster later.
      the main thing is - what is the message a particular measure sends, what is it supposed to accomplish and what will it accomplish ? to the third example i'd give "have to avoid my parents on this matter", "no irresponsible sexual relationship", "more irresponsible sexual relationship everywhere else there's no all-seeing eye".

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    104. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      No, what I'm saying is that children challenge a parent in ways that are unforseen and unexplainable. What I'm saying is that the act of being responsible for another persons life and existence from day 1 makes you grow, change, and mature. What I'm saying is that raising a child was a bigger learning experience in my life then 4 years of college and 3 years in the USMC combined.

      What I'm saying is exactly what I said: Your perspective on things changes.

    105. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by ins0m · · Score: 1

      I'm 24.

      You're still a moron.

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    106. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1


      Me: Son, you're too young to have sex. You are not equipped to deal with the consequences. It would destroy your life. But, if you do decide to have sex, you should use protection. It will be your job to purchase such protection, because that is part of the responsibility of the act.

      This is the message I want to communicate. Now if I send him upstairs with his g/f of the week and give him all the privacy and trust in the world, what message does that send? You tell me. Do you think he's going to think "wow, Mom and Dad really trust me. I'd never let them down. They're right, I shouldn't have sex, I'm too young." I'd LOVE IT if that's what he thought. And in reality, I think he WOULD think that. Right up to the point where his girlfriend put her arm around his waist, or kissed him. His sixteen year old dick would stiffen in record speed and the best 16 yearold in the world would be hard-pressed to do what he considers "right."

      It's about endorsing the behavior or not endorsing it. If he knocked the girl up what would I be able to say to him, to the girl, to the girls parents? Well, I trusted his hormone-enfused body so much that I didn't think there was any downside to them spending hours in his room with the door closed. I didn't think anything would happen. I trusted him. We have good communication."

    107. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by P3NIS_CLEAVER · · Score: 1

      It is called learning self control and restraint. I had a friend whos mom let him curse whenever he wanted. I cursed when I wasn't around my parents. Net result I could go to a job interview without cursing and he couldn't stop.

      I could go crazy with this as an anology but i am sure you get the point.

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    108. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Rakishi · · Score: 1

      No, what I'm saying is that children challenge a parent in ways that are unforseen and unexplainable. What I'm saying is that the act of being responsible for another persons life and existence from day 1 makes you grow, change, and mature. What I'm saying is that raising a child was a bigger learning experience in my life then 4 years of college and 3 years in the USMC combined.

      What I'm saying is exactly what I said: Your perspective on things changes.


      Ah but none of those require one to be a parent, simply to have known responsibility and even observing it yields very similar information. As I said in my post, being a parent may very well make you LESS able to discuss this issue correctly. While you do have some extra knowledge it is mired with your own perceptive of things, ego and emotions. Your view of things is constricted and narrowed as a result, and will be for many years to come. It seems that parents also become often enough obsessive over their children's short term "safety" without realizing the potential long term dangers such actions may cause.

    109. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by canadian_right · · Score: 1
      So true. Parenting cannot be learned from a book, or remembering your experience with your own parents as a child. As a new parent I did read many books, and considered myself a reasonable, patient, well prepared parent. HA HA HA HA!

      I have three teenagers. I learned so much about parenting as my oldest went through his teenage years that I handled the next two kids much better. I almost feel sorry for my oldest as I could have done a better job dealing with a few stresful issues, but it was a learning experience for both of us. The key things I learned are to be more patient, not take offense too easily as they start to express themselves more strongly, keep your temper, and do not over punish. What I did right was to always listen to my kids, and to calmly explain why their behaviour was wrong. It just took a while for me to learn that the getting furious step should be replaced with the getting slightly angry for a for short time (minutes) step, or skipped altogether. A long lecture is punishment enough :)

      Trust. All good parents trust their kids, but they also verify that things are going as well as the child claims. If lies are found out the trust level does drop. You explain that the trust level has dropped and that the child should work on regaining that trust. I let the child see that I am more closely verifing claims until the trust is back to where it should be. The main reason kids lie is to avoid getting in trouble, right now. They don't think ahead. They don't see that little problems being lied about now will become bigger problems in the future. They don't think "well this can't be hidden for more than a week so I better 'fess up and deal with it now". No, they think "if I say nothing maybe it will go away".

      But when your child does reward the trust your have built up by admitting to a problem or mistake you have to very careful to not over react. You may have to punish the child, but don't over do it. For exampe, adults know that an education is important, but that is a very abstract concept to most young teenagers. It is counter productive to ground a kid for a month because they skipped a weeks school. And for myself, having a long fuse but a horrible temper when I finally do lose it, I really had to watch my temper. Kids can put up with a lecture and a short yelling, but if they know they will have to face a furious parent they will try very hard to avoid that, with lies if neccessary.

      When there is trust between a parent and child the child may still lie about little things. Don't sweat the little things. It is much more important to have a good relationship so that if there is a big problem the child trusts YOU to help them deal with it and not just yell at them. My eldest did go through a very bad year and half, but during a calm father son talk he finally admitted to me a number of things in his life that were going wrong. Dearly bought experince had by this point taught me that I had to suppress my instinct to lecture (or yell), and just help my son. This was a turning point in his life. He had admitted that there was problems, and he was ready to accept my help. This point was reached because their was mutual trust. And I was able to help my son.

      Make reasonable rules. Give the kids more lenient rules as they get older. Give them more freedom, and more responsabilities as they get older. As the kids get older they get more chores, relaxed curfews and more freedoms. Do not make rules about unimportant things. Try to compromise on the little things, and only insist on truly important rules being followed. What a teenager wears or how they cut or colour their hair is not that important. Doing your chores, getting to school, doing school work, keeping promises, and being honest are important. In our home lying is the worst thing you can do.

      I wouldn't bother with one of the gps things. Driving is so dangerous that unless I was very confident that my child could drive safely without me looking over their shoulder I would not lend them my car. If they work, and buy and insure their own car I would not try to ban them from driving, but I would try to talk them into delaying driving until they were ready, and of course, they would get constant safety lectures.

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    110. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      Let me guess: You do not have children? You think that parents are so emotional that they become batshit crazy and are unable to see thru their emotions? That's asinine. My youngest sibling is 12 years older then I am. When I was 20 they were 8. I grew up around children and that did very little to prepare me for actual parenthood.

      Re-read those things that I wrote. Let me repost a section:

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      what I'm saying is that children challenge a parent in ways that are unforseen and unexplainable. What I'm saying is that the act of being responsible for another persons life and existence from day 1 makes you grow, change, and mature. What I'm saying is that raising a child was a bigger learning experience in my life then 4 years of college and 3 years in the USMC combined.
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      You think you can glean that from OBSERVATION?

      I'm sorry, that's just not possible.

    111. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by canadian_right · · Score: 1
      The physical part of driving can be learned in a few hours. The hard part is the judgement part. When to slow down, how fast can you safely go on this road, in this traffic, in this weather. Can I safely change lanes? Can I expect the driver ahead to stop or turn suddenly. I am nearing a park full of kids - do I slow down? A car stops suddenly. Do I pass on the right, stop, or slow down? Why might they be stopping? Being a good driver is 99% judgement and 1% physical skill. A good driver never gets into a situation where super reflexes are required - just normal reflexes. Normal driving is not racing.

      Most people should be ready to drive at 16. But if your child is not ready I hope you don't lend them your car.

      You can get some basic knowledge of parenting from books and recalling how your own parents acted, but parenting is one of those things that you learn by doing. I have three kids and I was a much better parent with the two youngest because I learned so much with the first child. Bit hard on the oldest.

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    112. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by canadian_right · · Score: 1
      This guy is SO right. Parenting is one of those things you learn by doing. Getting married does NOT change your life much. Becoming a parent does. Learning to be a good parent cannot be learned from books. As a parent of three teenagers I could not agree more.

      This doesn't mean you should not read parenting books. They do help. It is just that there is no way to be fully prepared to be a parent ahead of time.

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    113. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      You mean the Boy Scouts of America isn't a utopia of acceptance, love, peace, joy, and salvation? Why didn't someone tell me sooner!

      Do you have any idea of the values that BSA teaches it's scouts? All you seem to know is the news accounts you read. Some gay scout master somewhere prohibited to participate. Do you think that the kids are involved with that? Do you think the kids leave their meetings and think "good thing no fags were allowed in tonight?" Of course they don't. It's not even on their radar.

      And that is the whole point. Insulate these boys from some the more complicated aspects of our modern world. Keep things simple for as long as we can.

      Like it or not, the country has a problem with gay men working in youth-oriented positions. How many openly gay coaches are there? Does that make team sports biggoted? Should kids avoid high-school sports altogether? How about compulsory education? There are very few OPENLY gay teachers in Americas grade schools. There are just some parts of society where sexuality does not belong.

      This is such a joke. You are so hellbent on debating how other people raise their children that you pulled this conversation from driving to the morality of the boy scouts. As if they hand out bigotry merit badges. As if any of the reasons you hate the BSA were even part of the kids lives.

      Here's a newsflash: There is nothing taught in the BSA that is objectionable or illegal. The kids have no clue what the national organization does.

      The kids and just be kids. That's the beauty of it.

    114. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      "do you think atheists objection to "under god" in the pledge is nonsense?"

      I missed this one. Yes, this is nonsense. You live in a country that was founded by people looking for religious freedom. Sorry about your luck. Many countries have a state-sanctioned church. In America all you have to deal with is "Under God" and "In God We Trust." Learn to deal with it.

      If I'm a bigot because I don't care that the pledge contains a reference to God, then I guess I'm just a bigot in your eyes. You're mister "accept everyone for who they are" why can't you accept that some people see this subject different then you. You're allowed to label people but nobody else is? Puh-leese.

    115. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by noSignal · · Score: 1

      It's not about freedom; it's about the inability of the teenage mind to really comprehend risks http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A526 87-2005Jan31.html. You may have a very mature 16 year old but he will never be able to process the danger like someone with a developed brain. A teenage kid may not understand that driving like a maniac is dangerous, but he will understand that he's gonna be in some serious trouble when his folks find out.

    116. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Gr8Apes · · Score: 1
      Like i said before - if you REALLY have to worry about your child having sex with their SO right under your nose in their bedroom upstairs

      Umm, they're 16. They don't have SOs. They have crushes. Mostly.

      And an open door is a good thing. Like Open Source. (Just to tie it back to geek-dom)
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    117. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Slash dotters as good parents? OMFG ahahahahahahahahaha
      I can't stop laughing....

      Those poor kids would be bug eyed little freaks by 16 whoops those
      kids were born bug eyed little freaks.

      Anyway parenting advice from slash dot, what a joke.

    118. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You aren't expert on anything simply from having done it a couple of times. Parent twenty kids, and I would start valuing your input simply from this fact. Otherwise, you might just as well have done it wrong every single time.

    119. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      You completely ignored the part where I pointed out they also descriminate against atheists and agnostics (my self, my soon-to-be wife, and any children we have) which DOES make it illegal for them to receive government funding.

      Oh and I know several scouts and scout leaders
      I also helped several of my friends who are scout leaders (mormon ones at that!) take their troup out on a rock climbing expedition.

      Here's a newsflash: There is nothing taught in the BSA that is objectionable or illegal.


      Nazi propaganda isn't illegal in america either? what's your point
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    120. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      Then perhaps you should read the constitution again. Religious freedom includes the freedom to be non-religious. "Congress shall make no law respecting the establishment of religion, nor the free exercise thereof"

      Under the Lemon Test ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lemon_v._Kurtzman ) "under god" in the pledge and "in god we trust" on the money violates this clause of the 1st ammendment to the US Constitution. It Fails atleast two of three clauses of the lemon test, and probably all three. Furthermore the official motto of the United States is "e pluribus unum" which goes perfectly well on the money, and is a much more accurate description of the spirit of the United States.

      This country was founded by a mix of christians, deists, agnostics and atheists. 16% of americans today are atheists/agnostics. All of them, without exception, agreed that the seperation of church and state, as embodied in the 1st ammendment to the US constitution, was absolutely essential.

      Your justification of "many countries have state churches, but we just do X" doesn't make X right. Furthermore the united states doesn't just have X - we have people who vote to insert their religion into government. "Under god" and "in god we trust" are defacto establishments of religion and under the Constitution are illegal. The court has only sidestepped these specific issues and not actually addressed them.

      why can't you accept that some people see this subject different then you.


      who said I didn't? you did
      accepting that they see the issue different doesn't involve defering to them as correct.

      Under the Establishment and Free Exercise clauses of the Constitution of the United States of America the phrases "under god" and "in god we trust" on government documents are illegal.

      PS: Infact the original author of the pledge feld that the insertion of "under god" was wholly inappropriate, and he was a pastor!
      PPS: Constitutional law related to religion is one of my specialities, kinda has to be considering how often my rights are violated in this country
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    121. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      um... don't know where you come from but 16-year-olds can have significant others very easily.

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    122. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      My parents did the same thing till I was 18, though they made me wake them up to tell them I got home instead of staying up themselves... Constant calling to check up if I were out, inform the neighbors if I were to watch my brother and sister, sometimes check to see if I was actually sleeping in my room at night and not out somewhere, if I wanted to go to the movies I better have brought back a ticket to prove it. I was pretty shocked the day they gave me actual scissors to cut with instead of the damn plastic ones. Though honestly I did jack shit during those years and that ended up getting to me. By 17 though I started to, I guess party with friends whenever I had the chance. At the time all that went threw my mind was 'they think I'm so untrustworthy why shouldn't I be'. Anyways as soon as I hit 18 I pretty much got a bunch of facial piercing, tattoos, staid out till 6 or 7 in the morning, drank, and numerous other things. A big fuck you to them which probably could have had some big consequences. Now out of habit I guess I don't see them much anymore...

      Your parenting may not be like what I grew up with but it sounds like there's similarities. Your intentions may be right but loosen up a little, your kid may have or be building some suppressed anger about how you treat him... this is especially true over leaving his door open if he happens to have a girl over I guarantee you he fells pure hatred towards you when ever you have to remind him. And reading back on what I just wrote probably doesn't put me in the best light makes it sound like I turned out pretty messed up, I don't think that's true but some may disagree with me based off my appearance. I don't regret those times so maybe I should thank my parents, I had a lot of fun and I'm living comfortably now though things could easily have ended deadly and I doubt many parents want to see their child go a similar path.

    123. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      No, "under god" et al are only unconstitutional according to YOUR INTERPRETATION of the lemon decision. If the court had ruled on these things, there would be no further debate. The only debate would be whether or not to change the constitution.

      The Establishment clause was designed to prevent a state-sanctioned church. Using the word "God" does *NOT* promote one religion over another. If it said "In catholicism we trust" it would be different.

      I was alive during Kurtzman. I remember the case well. It, along with Tinker and Hazelwood were a very big deal. When the court rules that "Under God" is unconstitutional, then it will be removed. Until then, deal with it.

      You consider this a violation of your rights? Hearing the word "God" is a violation of your rights? Why don't you talk to some people who have REALLY had their rights violated and see what they think about your "under god" problem. ESPECIALLY considering that most people--our Congress and Court included--don't consider this to be 'supporting religion'

    124. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Dad?

    125. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      Putting those two together, the kid would be exposing himself to a better than 1 in 50 chance of getting a girl pregnant in good circumstances, and having to deal with the consequences... consequences which would also affect the kid's parent as well.

      Hmm... 2% per year chance of pregnancy while getting freaky? I'll take those odds. Of course, some RU486 would make things even better.

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    126. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      Using the word "God" does *NOT* promote one religion over another


      not only are you incorrect, you are incorrect in several ways.

      1st: the word "god" in both cases is known to be an implicit reference to the christian god
      2nd: you forgot about non-religious individuals - even if 1 was not true, then you're promoting religion over non-religion

      You consider this a violation of your rights?


      According the the constitution, it is. I am an atheist, I supposed to have the freedom of religion, and my government is supposed to not favor religion A over religion B, religion over non-religion or non-religion over religion.

      Why don't you talk to some people who have REALLY had their rights violated and see what they think about your "under god" problem


      I talk to them everday - they're called atheists, agnostics, muslims, jews, hindus, buddhists, homosexuals, and the list goes on.

      . ESPECIALLY considering that most people--our Congress and Court included--don't consider this to be 'supporting religion'


      1st the court hasn't ruled on it, it's sidestepped it
      2nd the court isn't falliable
      3rd "most people" is argumentum ad populum
      4th "our congress" is a fallicious argumentum ad verecundiam - congress are most certainly NOT experts on constitution law - infact most of them have no more functional knowledge of it than you have shown yourself to have.

      oh btw - let me quote Article XI of the original Treaty with Tripoli - unanymously approved by the very same men who framed the constitution and the ammendments

      "As the Government of the United States of America is not in any sense founded on the Christian religion - as it has in itself no character of enmity against the laws, religion or tranquillity of Musselmen - and as the said states never have entered into any war or act of hostility against any Mahometan nation, it is declared by the parties, that no pretext arising from religious opinions shall ever produce an interruption of the harmony existing between the two countries."


      PS: you want to be haughty about parenting, I get to be haughty about this - this is my territory know, and I know if very well - i have 8 years of debating this subject under my belt.
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    127. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Don't you find it uncomfortable to walk by you son's room and see him making out with his girlfriend?

    128. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Gr8Apes · · Score: 1

      They think they've got SO's, they don't. I have yet to meet a 16 year old that really had an SO. Heck, I have yet to meet someone that started a relationship @ 16 years of age that latest even 10 years. For that matter, most I know that started relationships even in their early 20s didn't last 10 years. It has to do with maturity and the fact that you don't reach it until much later. Ever wonder why you have to be a minumum of 35 to be president and 30 to be a senator?

      Basically, your SO should be someone that's more than a fleeting bit of your life. While my arbitrary 10 years above may qualify, the point is that until someone becomes a significant part of your life, they can't really be a SO, no matter how important they are to you right this second. Those are called crushes, puppy love, whatever, and gee, isn't it cute?

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    129. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by h4ck7h3p14n37 · · Score: 1
      However, at 18 a "child" in no longer the legal responsibility of the parents. But there is a flip that gets switched... it's the one that says "I'll go to jail, not juvi, if I do something wrong, " and the one that says "my parents are not legally responsible for me anymore."

      Maybe you haven't heard, but in the U.S. kids under 18 _do_ go to jail for crimes. IIRC, there have been twelve year olds that have been tried as adults. Sure, you sit in juvi until you're eighteen and then get transferred to the adult jail for the rest of your sentence (life?).

    130. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      not everyone is the same

      It has to do with maturity and the fact that you don't reach it until much later.


      not everyone reaches maturity at the same rate - some people are faster, some are closer

      the age of consent, and public drinking, is 16 in germany for example.

      I know several people who started relationships in middle school and are togeather (10 years later for them.. they're 22 like me).

      Your "time" restrain however doesn't qualify for the technical definition of "significant other" - both in pyschological terms, and in common terminology. I was using the common terminology - in that it is just a non-gender-specific term for (boy|girl)friend.
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    131. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      In America all you have to deal with is "Under God" and "In God We Trust." Learn to deal with it.

      Why should I have to deal with some christian dogma on my money (and shoehorned into the pledge of allegiance)? This is not a christian country, it's a country with a lot of christians in it.

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    132. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Parent twenty kids, and I would start valuing your input simply from this fact.


      . . .you might just as well have done it wrong every single time.


      If your gonna contradict yourself, you're probably better off staying out of the discussion.

      There are tons of "inner city" people who have parented twenty kids. Do you value their input simply from that fact?
    133. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Fulcrum+of+Evil · · Score: 1

      The world is not the same place today as it was 20 years ago. No YouTube, Jackass, MySpace, Cell Phones or IM to contend with.

      You had Jackass - it was some guy down the street pulling stunts just to see if he could.

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    134. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by h4ck7h3p14n37 · · Score: 1

      First of all, I agree with your message 100%; heck, I'm 30 and I don't necessarily feel comfortable sleeping with women since even with birth control there's a chance of pregnancy.

      My parents never made me keep my bedroom door open when I had girls over, but I attended a residential high school and they _did_ have that policy (in addition to signing the person into your residential area). I'm not sure what the point was so far as trying to prevent intercourse, since it's not like two people can only have sex in a bedroom. What it did do was cover the school's ass should something happen.

      Unfortunately for parents, there's not a whole lot they can do to stop a child that's determined to have sex. Even your open door policy doesn't ensure that you won't have to have that talk with some girl's parents. I believe this is the point that one of the other respondants was trying to make; you can prevent him from having sex in your home, but you can't prevent him from having sex. I know people may have a problem with this, but I think the best one can do is ensure that their daughter is using birth control even if they don't think she's having sex.

    135. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by h4ck7h3p14n37 · · Score: 1

      FWIW, condoms break; if you're lucky you realize it broke before you ejaculate. Don't count on being lucky every time. You need to have a backup plan like both people using birth control.

      I didn't have sex the first time until I was 17... my parents never had to do that "zomg keep your door open" shit.

      OMFG! You had sex outside of marriage?! :p I also was seventeen, it was the summer before my senior year, and my parents _never_ had The Talk with me. Now that I'm older I realize that even at 30 I'm not really prepared for a sexual relationship since I have no desire to risk getting a woman pregnant and certainly don't want some clingy girlfriend trying to get me to marry her (the last one wanted to marry me and have my kids). I know, unlike a seventeen year old, that I'm prepared financially, but I'm not willing to make the necessary sacrifices to raise a child. If you're not willing to raise a child you really shouldn't be having sex.

    136. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      A wise choice. Nothing keeps him from forging it, though.
      Well, nothing except getting involved in your kids school and knowing what report cards look like. Also, if your school is set up (as ours is) to get online grade reports, then you check those (like we do).
      Kinda creepy... midnight's pretty early, too. Seriously, extend the deadline until 1AM and see what happens.
      Caring about the safety of your children enough to be awake when they get home to make sure they aren't injured is creepy? And I'm sorry, who are you to set the curfew time for my children? And what makes your 1AM deadline any less arbitrary?
      That's just stupid. If you want to make a kid hate you, that's the way to do it. Give up on trying to keep him from having sex; he's going to have it one way or another. A parent promoting abstinance is like nailing jello to the wall. Instead, make sure he (they) has (have) ready access to contraception.
      As this is a moral argument I refrain from comment on the subject matter. However, I will say that if something this trivial (forcing the door to remain open) causes hate in your children, then there is something wrong with the way they are being raised, or something emotionally disturbed wihtin them.
      Is he mature enough to use contraception, to do his homework, and to maintain his judgement in the face of peer pressure?
      This is a case by case issue, not every child is the same when being measured aginst these questions. If your experience is that you can hand out condoms at 16 because "they are going to do it anyway" that does not necessarily mean that it applies to all situations. Some teens voluntarily wait to have sex, and that's their personal decision and as such should be supported.
      Trusting anyone is a mistake, but we have to if we want to live like normal people.
      Not only is this sad commentary on how you view your social situation, if you are rasing children to trust no one because it's a "mistake" then you are the one who is in the wrong. As the parent poster said, trust is earned, and should be given when it is. It can also be taken away when violated. I think your point of view is very sad. And it makes for some very, very sad children.
    137. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Lodragandraoidh · · Score: 1

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    138. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by h4ck7h3p14n37 · · Score: 1

      I took him to Walgreens when he was 15 and I made him buy a box of condoms.

      *LOL* I can remember how uncomfortable I was the first few times I bought condoms.

    139. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      "the word "god" in both cases is known to be an implicit reference to the christian god"

      This is what your agument amounts to. Unfortunately, the law doesn't work that way. Nothing is implied.

      The government has made no law concerning the establishment or promotion of religion. Religion can be seperated from God (see: scientology) and God can be seperated from Religion (See: In God We Trust).

      When you convince me that religion is the same as God, and that "God" promotes a RELIGION, then I will believe you. But you've got a lot of convincing to do.

      By the way, I love the sig. You should go look up "arrogance." It actually has nothing to do with the meaning you give it. But you're not too concerened with the way things ACTUALLY are. Not that I mind. Yuo can proclaim your ignorance to every /.'er and I promise you, there's nothing I will do to stop you.

      If you've been debating this for 8 years then you MUST have at least a somewhat convincing argument.

    140. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by pnuema · · Score: 1
      I had used my last mod point to mod you as flamebait, but I decided to take the time to respond to you instead.

      I'm a pretty liberal guy. Card carrying Bush hater, yellow-dog Democrat. I'm probably defined as agnostic/Bhuddist, and I did professional theatre for several years, so homophope I am definitely not. I'm also an Eagle Scout, and Cub Scout leader for my adopted son's pack.

      Your characterization of the Boy Scouts as a bigotted organization is grossly over-simplified. Here are the way things really work in the scouts: a group of parents in a local area get together to form a pack or troop. They have contact with the national organization once or twice a year, through one individual (the committee chair), usually involving money (pack registration, etc.). Leaders have to go through a one time training (mainly concerning how to avoid getting sued - i.e. never be alone with a boy, etc.). No one else has anything to do with the national council.

      No one asks you whether you are gay when you sign up to be a scout. No one asks you your religion either - the only time religion becomes a major factor is when you try to get your Eagle Scout - which less than 1% of scouts achieve. The only time this would ever come up is when someone of your pack would complain over the heads of the local committee that a member happens to be gay. Then the member would have to admit it before being removed.

      The national council was forced to adopt this position when a lawsuit was brought against them when a regional council expelled a gay leader (James Dale) in 1990. Before this, there was no national policy. The regional council pointed to the "morally straight" clause in the scout oath as justification for the expulsion. The National Council at this point was forced into a decision - not to fight the case, and watch membership and donations plummet, or to fight the case. You know the outcome.

      A resolution was released from the National Council in 2002 that banned gay and atheist members. Today was the first day I have ever seen it, and I have been actively involved in scouting for nearly all my life (I was acutally surprised to find anything). Many scouters, myself and all I know included, disagree with the ban. However, the fact of the matter is that scouting has a large Christian base, and would be hurt badly if they took any other position. It is true that scouting has a large portion of homophobic members. However, you just described 70% of the country. As my daddy used to day, there are assholes everywhere. :)

      My point is that saying all Boy Scouts are bigotted is well, bigotted. It's like saying all Muslims hate America, or all Democrats are baby killers, or all atheists are immoral.

    141. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      By the way, I'm not being "haughty" about parenting. In fact, I'm not even sure that "Haughty" makes any sense when used in this way. Haughty means "proud" and it wasn't really abourt pride. It was about the fact that over the next 20 years of your life, you're likely to grow and change in ways you don't yet realize.

      C'mon, man, let's for a single moment accept your argument as true. That means that over the next 20 years of your life, as you experience life and maybe even raise children, that you won't learn anything, that you won't gain any new perspective, that your opinions won't grow in any way.

      I'm sorry that you feel the injustice of a world that doesn't take the word of a 22 year old as gospel. You're basically still a child. I know it must frusterate you to no end to hear that, but it does happen to be true. Five years ago you were still your parents responsibility. You have been in control of your own destiny for such a pittifully small amount of time that you don't even know what you don't know.

      In twenty years you WILL grow. You WILL mature. You WILL look back at your 22 year-old self as what you actually are. A child. With childish behavior.

      You can accept today that people 20 years older then you have 20 years of more experience, or you can just wait 20 years and see for yourself. But nevermind, I'm sure you'll be fine. After all, you're an Uncle. You have coworkers with children. You're basically a Senior Citizen! Let me call my alma matter and insist you be made an honorary PhD!

      You're opinions are about as enlightened as your average high school student. Step down from your horse and look around. You'd be surprised how much you can learn that way.

      I suppose I'm preaching to the choir though (man, using that term is ironic) after all, you already know everything.

      If you didn't fit so nicely into the "know it all brat" category this wouldn't be so easy for me, but really, you are their poster boy after this thread.

    142. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Gr8Apes · · Score: 1

      age of consent, drinking, etc, is pretty much irrelevant. Yes, some mature faster, and you will not know for a while yet what I'm talking about. I didn't realize it until much much more recently, after looking back at changes in my personal life. (Let's say I'm older than you and leave it at that;)

      At 22, the world's still a wide-open book. You're still changing, learning, and adapting. Your brain's still growing significantly, or at least the rest of us hope so.

      FYI - I knew quite a few folks who started relationships in middle school. They even got married somewhere between 18-22 (the latest one I knew about). Not a single one of them stayed married through 28. I only know 1 person that got married at 22 to a relatively recent acquaintance that is still currently married, and they went through hell and almost divorced.

      Everyone else that I know that got married and stayed married was 25 or older. That's just my personal experience. (Note: my particular circle of friends don't believe in staying together for the children, or because you'll go to hell, or whatever. If the love leaves the relationship, the relationship's dead)

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    143. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      16 and mature on the same line, let alone next to each other. I think this guy is 16 folks.

    144. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      There's a reason that 18 is the age of majority, and not 15, 16, or even 17.
      What kind of an argument is that? People become of age at less than 18 in countries other than the US and they're not swamped in additional problems from it.
    145. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      I was safe my first time, fortunately

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    146. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      I said the organization is bigoted - as I stated elsewhere, i'll make exceptions for individuals when they demonstrate to me that they are not.

      since the organization is bigoted I will oppose it's continued existance to the death, and challenge any government funding to it as uncosntitutional

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    147. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by MerrickStar · · Score: 1
      I feel I've read the majority or this banter and am ready to comment on it. I myself am not much older, I'm 23. I feel that in many situations I can be a decent parent. This situation has changed twice in the past few years.

      Personally, I felt for quite some time that I could be a great parent. I "grew up" if you will at a young age and didn't thing parenting would be all that most parents I knew made it out to be in terms of difficulty. I felt that I would be a good parent. Then I married my wife who already had a young daughter. Only the act of actually raising a child can adequately express how intricate and delicate of a balance parenting can be. I have not raised a teenager, but I have assisted younger friends on the path to maturity. I do not expect these two things to be at all alike. Being an authority and being a friend are very different matters. Yes a parent can be a friend, but ultimately, if they're worth their salt, they're an authority figure.

      So if it helps you understand at all from someone closer to your age... You do not know what you're talking about, you are making yourself look immature, and helping everyone in your age group do the same. Knock it off! You do think you know what you're talking about, and like every other immature adult I know, are refusing to take the advice of your elders because they are just that.

      Contrary to what you said earlier
      Knowledge and wisdom doesn't require first hand expirience
      wisdom does, by definition, require experience. The only effective way to get parenting experience, is by being the parent, as in any other method, you are not the parent, so you are getting babysitting experience, which is, ultimately, different.

      Refute my points if you like. Point by point if you desire, since that seems to be your theme. But for one, that is not the only way to argue a topic (get a new debate teacher). More importantly however, you can argue that second hand knowledge is good enough till you're blue in the face, but come back when you've got a toddler, and you'll realize how ridiculous you seemed then.
    148. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      and like every other immature adult I know, are refusing to take the advice of your elders because they are just that.


      Don't project your passed immaturity on me. I'm refusing to accept peoples statements as valid merely because they're older than me - that's different from refusing to take their advice because they're older than me. If they can establish that they're correct, and I'm not, rationally - without resorting to ageism and insults then I will listen to them.

      However the arrogance and presumption of your side of the argument is appauling, and yet you try to take the high ground and claim that I am the immature one. Nope, sorry - doesn't work that way. Knowledge can be acquired in many ways, don't presume to project your own limitations on others

      More importantly however, you can argue that second hand knowledge is good enough till you're blue in the face, but come back when you've got a toddler, and you'll realize how ridiculous you seemed then.


      Arrogance.

      I will not listen to your arrogance. I don't care that you are only one year older than me - see my new signature.

      I consider your behavior immature, and the behavior of others immature - to assume that since you didn't know that other people cannot know is the ultimate in arrogance. 25 years from now, when I have children and they're around 18 I will have the proof to show you that you are arrogant - but by then I'm sure I will have forgotton about you. Quite frankly I'm suprised I'm still replying - generally I dismiss arrogant individuals and ignore them - however this is one of the few subjects where persistent arrogance and and the belittling of other people as "immature" for pointing out your arrogance is seen as acceptable.

      It's not.
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    149. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Kolgoth · · Score: 1

      Wow! Typically I don't respond to most comments like this; but I'm glad someone said it correctly. I've seen so many parents shelter their kids, and as soon as they go off to college, they become wild...

      The stereotype about the "peacher's daughter" exists for a reason... Shelter someone their entire life and they're eventually going to want to break out of that shell! Give them the freedom they've earned, but don't be blind about it.

      As it was already said once I'll repeat it again for emphasis: "Trust, but verify"

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    150. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by solus1232 · · Score: 1

      How children act often reflects the actions of their parents. Take a look in the mirror and ask yourself whether or not you would trust yourself in the same situations. Sometimes it is a better solution to try to set a good example yourself rather than punishing your child for something that they probably see you doing on a regular basis.

    151. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by ScrewMaster · · Score: 1

      When I was very young, my father's attitude towards his children was to treat them like adults, adults with some limitations. If we screwed up, we got in trouble but we weren't presumed to be imbeciles either.

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    152. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by MerrickStar · · Score: 1

      if you're going to continue complaining, please at least stop selectively reading. I did not say knowledge only comes with experience, I said wisdom does. I did not say I didn't know soemthing at your age, I did, I had a child then. You do not. This is not "Ageism". I'm with you, I went through school being more intelligent than many of my teachers. Discriminating based on age is no better than discriminating for any other reason. Your age is not the issue, that is precisely what I was trying to point out. Your level of maturity and refusal to accept the knowledge and wisdom (emphasized for your convinience) is. Just as discrimination due to youth is bad, so is your "I don't like what you have to say so I deem it arrogance" style. Arrogance is not arrogance if it is founded. Parents know more about parenting than you. Stop fighting for every inch, you're (theoretically) an adult now. If you start to act like one, and become willing to actually discuss things with people, you will find them a lot more receptive. If you stop acting like a child, it won't seem like people are talking down to you. This is not arrogance, this is someone explaining to you that you're acting like you keep accusing everyone else of.

    153. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by To+the+pain · · Score: 1

      Alright look you little snot. You want to look at it that way? I'm 22. I have a 4 year old daughter, and you my friend, are full of shit. You think this is easy? On top of that I care for my teenaged brother. I thought I'd be such a better parent than mine. That it couldn't possibly all that hard. I was sadly mistaken, and you will be to. At least, for your future children's sake I hoped you will be. Wisdom... and respect for that matter, are earned, not given freely to some little pimple faced brat just out of school who thinks he's king of the freaking world. Get a real job, get some real freaking responsibilty, and give your right hand a break. I hope your poor girlfriend wakes up soon... if she exists that is.

            I know I'll likely be modded down for this, but someone had to say it, and I don't mind being the fall guy.

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    154. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      Your comments suggest to me that you're either a child yourself, or you've never raised a child yourself.

      Have you ever heard of an "ad hominem" attack? It's called a logical fallacy for a reason.

      Perhaps you should learn what "ad hominem" is. It is not a logical fallacy to insult someone. It is if you use that to refute an argument. He made an observation about you. That is not saying anything about your arguments being right or wrong, but that based on what you are saying he is making a guess about your status. He didn't say you were wrong because you are childless, which would have been a fallacy, but he just stated that you spoke as if you were childless. Given the dodge of the question and subsequent attack against him, I'd say that was an accurate description.

    155. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      If the insurance company found that people of Mexican decent were 6% more likely to have an accident, and had the statistics to back it up, would you be ok with charging these people higher rates just because of their ethnicity?

      If we could be reasonably sure that this was more than just a fluke anomaly, and there was no way to more finely categorize things, then sure, I'd be OK with it. Same thing with sex and religion descrimination. If men drive more aggressively, charge 'em more. If atheists tend to get in lots of accidents, make 'em pay for it.

    156. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by AK+Marc · · Score: 1

      So, which innocent should have to pay?

      The only "fair" way is to set the number to a specific amount for all drivers with a clean record. Then, when something makes the record "unclean" through the actions of the driver, all factors come into play. That way, liability will be the same for a 16 year old new driver, as long as that driver makes no mistakes, as all other clean drivers out there. I've never had my insurance pay a claim based off my actions, and I've had insurance for about 20 years now. I've paid in enough to buy a few nice cars. Making the playing field level is more fair to all than grouping based on age. That certainly is more in line with the "innocent until proven guilty" philosophy. Especially since the more granular insurance gets, the less beneficial it is. When DNA tests are required for health insurance and the results determine whether you will be accepted or not, then we will have a "better" system for evaluating risk, but will it be a better system for the people it serves?

    157. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      You have to distinguish between what's good for you as a parent and what's good for the child, though.

      Bear with me for this analogy, please: Let's say you're in charge of interrogating POWs, and just to quell one argument, let's say this is in a universe where torture is 100% effective... but still inhumane. Now, if someone comes in and tells you that you shouldn't torture prisoners, is his opinion invalid because he hasn't been in your shoes? Does someone have to be a torturer himself to have an opinion on torture? No. Because although torture might help you do your job, there are larger concerns here than just your job. He's arguing from the perspective of human rights, and from his POV (as well as many others'), preserving those prisoners' rights is more important than making it easy to get information out of them.

      Here's another just for good measure: say you're an environmentalist hippie, protesting against factories that pollute the water... until one day you inherit one of those factories from your great-uncle, and realize it can make you a ton of money. Now those expensive pollution controls don't sound so hot. Your perspective has shifted, but the underlying facts are still the same. Your old position wasn't necessarily wrong, even if as a hippie you had no idea how expensive the pollution controls were, because the price of the pollution controls is irrelevant to someone who cares more about the environmental impact than the financial workings of the factory.

      Something similar is going on here. A parent wants to limit his kids' actions and invade their privacy because it helps him as a parent, but others believe the kids' rights to have privacy and control over their own lives are more important than how easy it is for parents to raise them. Even if your personal perspective changes as you stop being a kid under your parents' thumb and eventually become a parent with kids under your own thumb, that doesn't mean your old perspective was wrong. It just means your personal focus has shifted from what makes a kid's life easier to what makes a parent's life easier.

    158. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Just because your perspective changes doesn't mean your new perspective is more correct than the old one. It looked to me like that's what he was implying.

      An environmentalist who inherits a profitable but dirty factory might suddenly decide a comfortable income is more important than clean air, but he'd still be an idiot to turn around and say "Look, hippies, don't tell me what gases I should or shouldn't release until you've run your own factory, OK? You don't know what it's like."

    159. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Meph_the_Balrog · · Score: 1
      Ah, the magical switch that flips when a kid turns 18, making him a responsible adult....


      I see your point, but where do you draw the line? Its a "best fit" scenario, and you can never please everyone all the time.

      Sure you might have a 15 or 16 year old with the maturity of an 18 year old, but you also have 23 year olds that act like they're 12. Sometimes you have to set the bar at an arbitrary level and stick to it, regardless of how everyone feels about it.
    160. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by edunbar93 · · Score: 1

      Ah, the magical switch that flips when a kid turns 18, making him a responsible adult....

      There is, on the other hand, a magical switch that flips when a kid rents his own apartment, has to get his own ass out of bed to get it into work every morning, and at the same time ensures that he eats and pays his bills.

      One of my coworkers had this magical switch flipped when he was 13. At the time, he had a job and his Dad insisted he pay his share of the rent. 100% of it, in fact. The resulting argument ended with an eviction, after which he was still paying 100% of the rent, but elsewhere.

      He's now a millionaire of his own device.

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    161. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by ultranova · · Score: 1

      I make him keep his bedroom door open when he has his girlfriend over to "do homework."

      So instead of having sex in the safety of his room, he's going to be having it under the bridge, in the bushes, or some other location where there's a very real chance of some psycho finding them when they're incapable of defending themselves. A excellent plan, that.

      Oh, and you're also making sure that if he needs advice on, say, how to use contraceptives, you are one he can't ask for it. Which means it's going to be his friends or porn mags. Or Internet's seedier sites. Nice going.

      I understand that the thought of their children having sex is a horrifying one to the parents - altought I've never understood why, unless this is some echo of "sex is evil, and so is enjoying yourself in any way" mentality from the nastier perversions of christianity - but please use your brains. You can't stop it from happening, you will only make things harder and more dangerous to everyone involved if you try. Oh, and you'll also propably give the poor bastard the idea that sex is shamefull, which won't stop it from happening but will cause all kinds of nasty mental damage and weird perversions.

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    162. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by ultranova · · Score: 1

      A good driver never gets into a situation where super reflexes are required - just normal reflexes.

      Yeah. Because when you're a good driver, a car going the opposite way never suddenly loses control and slides to your line, a moose doesn't come running from the forest, and a tree couldn't possibly fall over to the road in front of you. Nor will anyone else ignore red lights or any other traffick rules; a truck doesn't suddenly come from the left and turn to the road in front of you without bothering to wait until you've passed. You have this magical aura that keeps any freak accidents or coincidencies from happening. Because you're a good driver, and the very laws of physics and propability bow down to your l33tn3ss.

      Clearly, if the road suddenly collapses under your tires (happened to my mother once), that's because you weren't a good enough driver - a good driver could have reversed gravity and kept the car from falling down when there's nothing under the wheels.

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    163. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Thecarpe · · Score: 1

      Do you have children yourself?

    164. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by gfxguy · · Score: 1

      Yeah, but it depends on the nature of the crime. You're not going to jail if you're caught speeding without a license... well, you might be at a detention center until the dust settles, but you wouldn't get sentenced to jail unless you were a multiple offender. At which point... well, too bad.

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    165. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Something you're coming face-to-face with, here:

      Parents do NOT like their parenting abilities or authorities questioned. They don't even like the HINT of their parenting abilities or authorities questioned. Something about the way American society treats kids and parents causes people to go weirdly psychotic when they have kids.

      One of the previous posts was dead-on -- these people ceased considering their old perspective as children the moment they became parents. It's all about control and power, disguised as "responsibility" and "love". And it practically *HAS* to be this way, because anyone who DOESN'T act that way gets bullied by society and called "a bad parent" until they toe the line.

      Kids get the short end of the stick, and that's just the way it is. Your "youthful immaturity" is due to the fact that you remember what it was like being a kid, and have not yet been given a child of your own to bully, which will instantly override those experiences. And rest assured, it WILL happen. One day you'll wake up, realize what a complete asshole you were to your 13-year-old-son the night before, and it will dawn on you: "Oh fuck, I've just become my parents". And there's nothing you can do about it; you WILL continue to be petty, cruel and authoritarian, and you WILL infect your children with a slow time-bomb of the same behavior, which will trigger the moment they have their own kids.

      And half of why these people are bitching at you is because they're panicked - deep down, we all know there's no such thing as "a good parent", and it's utter random chance that keeps our own little Timmies and Suzies from turning into psychotic serial killers - but the moment we face that fact, we're overcome with such an overwhelming terror that we HAVE to attack whatever's forcing us to face it. In this case, that would be you.

      I hope this helped.

    166. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by TheUnknownOne · · Score: 1

      As a Boy Scout, I feel that I must respond to your comment to give you some ideas why this "Bigotry" is there, why there is nothing wrong with these policies and other things. First off, the BSA is a private organization and is thusly permitted to have membership requirements. Restrictions such as these are only in place because people that do not meet them would be unable to take the oath and law to heart. A Scout is Reverent. A scout should show respect towards a God, whatever religion that they may practice or believe in. Even though a belief in God is expected of all members of this organization, the idea that others who do not believe are inferior is not impressed at all. This would go against another two parts of the scout law, A scout is curteous and a scout is kind. It would not be curteous or kind of me to treat you with disrespect because I disagree with your views. Homosexuality follows the same lines, a scout should not be disrespectful to any person for any reason, Scouts are not bigots and they are not taught to be bigots. I have friends that fall into both of these categories, and yet I have been involved with the BSA since CubScouts. For an organization that teachs young men so many useful things, and exposes them to things that they would not have the chance to expierence otherwise, the BSA is picked on quite a bit. You are not alone in your beliefs, I have had a personal issue with someone expressing similar beliefs. I became interested in scouting after reading a paper passed out to all students of scouting age at my elementary school, which happened to also be my troops host. That was several years ago. The current principal of that school refuses to permit us to distribute papers because she believes we are bigots and we do not except gays or atheists. My troop still conducts their meetings inside the school because it is in a central, easily excessable location and she has not expressed any desire for us to leave. (unfortunetly due to the decreasing number of incoming scouts, my troop's size is dwindling, and may not exist a few years from now.) To sum it up: Please don't consider scouts bigots, or completely disregard anything said by a scout for that reason, as by doing so you are only showing your ignorance for other peoples ideas, and values. I would never disregard what you say or believe because you are an atheist or because you are gay, why should you disregard what I say because I am a scout? Proud to be a Scout Rob

    167. Re:Have you raised a teenager? by LordKazan · · Score: 1
      first off - being a private organization doesn't excuse bigotry. second that private organization receives public funding - it is illegal for them to do so due to their bigotry against non-religious individuals

      "the idea that others who do not believe are infoerior is not impressed at all"

      no, they're just excluded - that doesn't instill a belief that they're inferior at all [/sarcasm]

      A scout is curteous and a scout is kind

      then your own oath is in contradiction of itself - you cannot both be a bigot and be curteous

      It would not be curteous or kind of me to treat you with disrespect because I disagree with your views.

      then stop doing so - stop being a bigot, stop excluding people because they're not religious and because they are born different (the latter being homosexuals if you don't know about the Xq28 mutation)

      Scouts are not bigots and they are not taught to be bigots

      Scouts are apparently also not liars [/sarcasm] - you are lying right now, you are engaged knowingly in intellectually dishonest discourse. You exclude people who do not believe the same things as you, and who are not born as you. Consult the dictionary definition of bigot.

      I have friends that fall into both of these categories, and yet I have been involved with the BAS since CubScouts

      and racists used to protest "i'm not racist! i have black friends!". You are guilty by participation

      For an organization that teachs young men so many useful things, and exposes them to things that they would not have the chance to expierence otherwise, the BSA is picked on quite a bit.

      appropriately so - they are actively engaged in promoting bigotry. They deserve not only ridicule, but to have the entire organization razed to the ground.

      You are not alone in your beliefs you're right - i'm not. 16% of americans are atheist/agnostic (which is a LACK of belief btw). However, your implication that my statement that the BSA is bigoted is "merely a belief" is entirely intellectually dishonest - it is a FACT that the BSA is bigoted. Reference the dictionary definition of the word bigot.

      I became interested in scouting after reading a paper passed out to all students of scouting age at my elementary school, which happened to also be my troops host.

      that's irrelevant. and if any school distributes such material to my children they will find themselves in the receiving end of an establishment clause lawsuit for providing material support to an organization that discriminates on the basis of religion

      The current principal of that school refuses to permit us to distribute papers because she believes we are bigots and we do not except gays or atheists.

      good for her - and it's not a belief - It's a fact that the organization is bigoted. Go grab a copy of the Oxford's English Dictionary and read the definition of bigot.

      unfortunetly due to the decreasing number of incoming scouts, my troop's size is dwindling, and may not exist a few years from now.

      do you expect me to somehow not be elated by the fact that an organization that actively promotes bigotry is being rejected?

      To sum it up: Please don't consider scouts bigots

      I will do so until they stop being bigots.

      or completely disregard anything said by a scout for that reason, as by doing so you are only showing your ignorance for other peoples ideas, and values

      No, I show a complete and total understanding of your values - infact I even said that if you PERSONALLY demonstrate to me that you are not a bigot I will listen to that person. However your previous statements in your post preclude that as you engaged

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  80. Now if we could just ... by phoenixdna · · Score: 1

    ... implant a chip in their brain that tracks when they have unprotected sex and drink alcohol and do drugs and smoke and and and and ...

  81. Re:ever tried getting speed information from a GPS by blackest_k · · Score: 1

    yes GPS does mess up I actually use a Garmin Etrex which maintains a recent record of where when and how fast.

    Glitches occur but normally its a speed of around 400 to 700Mph also the track ignores roads completely.
    So glitches are pretty obviously glitches.

    On the otherhand this device is irrelevent. children do not drive cars, adults do.

    16 is not a child but a young adult. Old enough to enlist in most countrys. If someone drives like an idiot then it isn't up to the parents to take the keys away. The State should take the licience away.

    If your going to give someone adult responsibility then treat them like an adult!

  82. Logical Conclusion by Valacosa · · Score: 1
    Even at the age of 25 I am starting to think that the world we be better off if children had a few less freedoms. I probably would have felt different 10 years ago however :).
    Now that I am president I am starting to think that the world we be better off if citizens had a few less freedoms. I probably would have felt different 20 years ago however.
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  83. Wow by John+Betonschaar · · Score: 1

    So basically he took a GPS unit and did distance / time, then checked this against a used defined speed. How novel...

    Seeing that PDA's with GPS receivers and hackable/programmable satnav systems are already available for years, I fail to see why this is so special. A lot of cars even record trip speeds in the onboard computer anyway

    Also, kids under 18 shouldn't be driving anyway (like it is in the rest of the world), and above 18 they are supposed to be responsible enough not to need parental monitoring and control for such things anyway.

    1. Re:Wow by TheUnknownOne · · Score: 1

      Unfortunetly the US presents an interesting situation involving this matter. Depending on where you live in the United States, a motor vehicle may be required for such simple tasks as getting to your neighbors house. There are parts of this country where the nearest house to yours is several miles away. While this may be rare, a considerably more common issue would be that while other people are nearby, the closest stores and other meeting places are miles away.

      Public transportation is almost non-existant in many areas (I can think of a couple of areas within 100 miles of New York City that suffer from this) and bicycle riding would be unsafe (Ever take a bicycle on a road with a 55MPH speed limit where everyone does 65? {No shoulder, and you would get a ticket for riding there if it did, plus the people in cars believe you don't belong there so they would not be curteous enough to avoid you}) this leaves only one way for teens to see each other, parents. Who in all probability are BOTH working. This takes away any independence from teens, and now when they move out to go to school they have to start providing for themselves (buying simple things such as toothpaste etc. ) while they have never had the chance or capability to do this before hand. Besides this, having teens learn to drive under the governing eye of someone older is a good thing (although far too often it doesn't happen, or those supervising should not be teaching anyone their bad habits) is a good thing. (IT should still be suplimented with an EXTENSIVE driver training course, which it is not in the United States.)

      What works in one country, does not always work in another country!

  84. What would count as "deserved" there? by Moraelin · · Score: 1

    I'm not sure for what kind of behaviour would that count as "deserved". My whole life until finishing university was basically a prison sentence. And, no, I'm not exaggerating. I don't feel like going into all the details -- and it would end up a tome-sized message if I did -- but let's just say I'm not exaggerating.

    So what evil deed wouly you count as "deserving" something like that? Because we let murderers and rapists get away with lighter sentences. So what _can_ a kid do that's worse than that?

    I'm pretty sure I didn't beat anyone up, didn't steal, etc. Not that I'd have had an opportunity to. But again, even for those we let people get away with lighter sentences.

    Oh, I did go out of guidance as soon as I was out of surveillance range, out of sheer lack of clue. I almost never had to function without a parent telling me _exactly_ what to do, when and how. (And then telling me how horrible shitty job I had done. They didn't really believe in positive feedback.) So, yes, I did all sorts of stupid things on the rare occasions when I was outside my parents' "remote control" range.

    Does that "deserve" even more surveillance there? How does that solve the problem? Because from where I stand, it looks like that's what caused the problem in the first place.

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    1. Re:What would count as "deserved" there? by SatanicPuppy · · Score: 2, Insightful

      Yea, I've seen a lot of that stuff in my life...I had pretty much the opposite situation, which meant, of course, that I dicked around, got mediocre grades, got in trouble, ran amok, etc.

      Then I hit a point where I got concerned about the rest of my life, got my crap together, and started making an effort...I was around 16 or 17 (I understand this is not common).

      So I go to college, and I do fine, because I'd always had to motivate myself, and I'd always had to prioritize my time, and I'd always had freedom so it didn't go to my head, and I understood how to balance life and work...Whereas all the "good" kids who people had been held up to me as a positive example didn't perform half as well when they were out of range of supervision for the first time in their lives.

      There is definitely a happy medium. You need to give your kid enough freedom so that they understand how to make their own descisions, and how to accept the consequences for those descisions, but they also need rules.

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    2. Re:What would count as "deserved" there? by Mr.+Underbridge · · Score: 1

      Easy there. Some kids get treated like that because they beat kids up, do tons of drugs, get pregnant/get others pregnant, bust curfew, drink, drive, join gangs, etc. If that wasn't you, then no, you didn't deserve it.

    3. Re:What would count as "deserved" there? by siriuskase · · Score: 1

      Were you trustworthy? I know that it is very difficult to earn the trust of some people, but trust is a 2 way thing. You say that you had opportunities to violate their trust. How did you use those opportunities? Did you use them as opportunities to earn their trust? It is very hard to trust a kid or an adult for that matter who takes advantage of lack of supervision to do the sort of things that they wouldn't do when supervised.

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  85. The Bush administration has won! by scorp1us · · Score: 1

    The government through government schooling has bread the pinnacle of government agendas: The citizen who spies on himself. If fact it is so successful that in the absence of a government monitoring device, that the citizen will create one just for being monitored.

    I have been told that in Russia people must register with the government any time they leave their local jurisdiction for more than 3 days. When the USSR collapsed, there was no registration. But the people cried out for it. How was the government to provide for them if they didn't register?

    Now I ask how does the government know you're not a criminal or terrorist unless you constantly monitor yourself can can funrish records upon request? How much trouble will you be in if you can't explain gaps in your monitoring?

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  86. More morons alive by __aamnbm3774 · · Score: 1, Funny

    This is a pure "survival of the fittest" situation. With this device in place, there will be a lot more morons walking around. (who will probably end up killing themselves doing something else retarded) What we need to do is make ejectable seats that spring out when a collision is imminent. (but first make sure nothing is above you)

  87. Paranoid and pessimistic by Alchemar · · Score: 1

    I think that using the device in accordance with the media spin in the article is a good thing. I think that parents have the right to revoke any constitutional or privacy rights that a child might otherwise have. What I a problem with is the whole "think of the children" spin, without consideration of what else it might be used for. What is to prevent an employer, an abusive spouse, or an insurance agency from requiring it. If you are driving on company time, or in a company car, it is there right; but more and more, I see companies that want to control a persons life outside of work in order to protect the comany image. Companies that have banned all workers from smoking, even in there own homes on there own time. If they could limit it's use to a child and parent I am all for it

  88. Design flaw by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    From TFA:

    The device, which plugs into the electrical outlet in a car and sits on the dashboard, will monitor a car's speed only when the driver exceeds a specified limit.

    His program weeds out extra information from the GPS, protecting teens' privacy. Their parents can see what they're doing only if they break the rules set by the parents.

    "Some people think (my plan) is bad, and I'm on the parents' side," he said. "Teens should still be able to have their privacy -- and they'll get it if they drive safely.

    or if they unplug the device...
  89. A link to links by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    http://www.motorists.org/issues/speed/index.html

    These people seem to have compiled and summarized a whole bunch of research about what speed limits should be set to and what actually causes accidents.

  90. I'd like something like it for myself by markus_baertschi · · Score: 2, Insightful

    I'd like a device like this for myself. It would need to know the speed-limit of all roads and warn me when I'm over the limit. There could even be a speed-limiter (easily to disable, if necessary).

    Not that I'm speeding a lot, but once in a while I find myself too fast because I'm not aware of the limit.

    Markus

    1. Re:I'd like something like it for myself by eTechSupport.net · · Score: 1

      I just curious, is it going to help drunken drivers those usually go over limit during driving. My point is whether they are going to notice the warning ?

    2. Re:I'd like something like it for myself by markus_baertschi · · Score: 1

      I suppose it depends how the device works. I'd imagine something like a red warning light in the speedometer and an optional sound. The speed limiter would prevent accellerating beyond the speed limit. An override, a bit like the kick-down on automatic transmissions would allow to override the limiter when necessary (overtaking, for example).

      I haven't seen anything like it yet. The biggest challenge is to collect an reliable database with speed limits.

      Markus

  91. Parents don't want black boxes for themselves, by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 1, Insightful

    but want tracking devices for their kids. If you really think you need one on your kid's car then don't let them drive. I have to share the road with your kids.

  92. Massachusetts by colin8651 · · Score: 0, Redundant

    Of course this is from Massachusetts, that state will do anything in its power to "Save just one child".

  93. Already a commercial product in Canada (Otto) by goertzenator · · Score: 2, Interesting

    This kind of product has been commercialized in select cities in Canada for a while now. The Otto has a map of speed limits, intersections, photoradar, etc. http://www.myottomate.com/

  94. Parents can be dopes both ways by anomaly · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Either by ignoring their kids or crushing them with the weight of monitoring and impossible expectations. Sounds like your parents were closer to the latter camp than the middle. Sorry about that.

    My job as a dad is to become less and less controlling with my kids - to give them enough lattitude to make errors where the consequences are minimal. I knew a guy in HS whose uncle bought him a Corvette at 16. He totalled it, and his uncle bought him another one! DUMB!

    I allow my kids as they mature to have more freedom - when they blow it with bad judgment, I discipline them to help them learn to use better judgment next time.

    By the time they leave my house, they should have the skills to operate successfully in the world - personal integrity, honesty, work ethic, compassion for others, operation of basic power tools, operation of a motor vehicle, discipline about sleep, discipline about eating, conflict resolution, know the importance of relationships with others, and the ability to self-educate.

    Until that time, I believe strongly in "trust, but verify." I have no issue at all with tracking a kid using my car, my gas, my insurance, living in my house. In general, I will be able to ignore the logs because I have enough RELATIONSHIP with my kids to have a pretty good idea about how trustworthy they are. If the systems I put in place to check up on them show me that my trust is misguided, then I have an opportunity to shapre their character with additional discipline.

    Within the bounds of the limits I set up for them, they have complete freedom! They will (and do) get MUCH more by living within the fairly wide open spaces I define for them than they could "get away with" by lying and breaking my rules.

    Finally, I'd like to point out that biologically, kids brains are not at full maturity until the early-mid twenties - specifically the part of the brain that influences reasoning and judgment is still in development at 16. This is a BIG factor in kids making good choices, and I need to protect them as they don't yet have the strong skills to navigate the rough waters they are in.

    Once again, I apologize for overbearing, critical, controlling parents. They obviously didn't know what they were doing.

    Respectfully,
    Anomaly

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  95. Mach 3 in a minivan? by AJ+Mexico · · Score: 1

    You can't put perfect faith in this type of technology, for any purpose. On one car trip, my GPS recorded a max speed over 2000 mph. It apparently dropped a bit in longitude. The track showed that I moved a couple hundred miles west for the duration of one GPS update -- then it got a correct update, and I moved back, just as quickly. (Boy will dad be mad when he finds out I broke the sound barrier again. :)

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  96. way to go by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    jackass

  97. Mod this down by archeopterix · · Score: 1
    1. Re:Mod this down by Unski · · Score: 0, Offtopic

      If I had the points, I'd mod you down for actually knowing that you sad little /. obsessive.

    2. Re:Mod this down by avronius · · Score: 1

      And the circle continues...

      I feel that I must ask, "why would you make such a vicious and unsubstantiated comment?" You have cast aspersions on the parent poster, when all that they are guilty of doing is fleshing out a karma whore...

      Your sig states, "Mention 'Occams Razor' one more time & I'm gonna slash you a new dot with it."
      What is 'Occams(sic) Razor'? Do you mean 'Occam's razor'?
      Are you aware that your comment to the parent poster violates the rule of Occam's razor?

      It's too bad that you weren't awarded the "Troll" modifier.

  98. Garmin GPS does this (sort of) by LaughingCoder · · Score: 1

    We have a Garmin C320 GPS in our car. Our teenagers really love it because it keeps them from getting lost, and it helps them to make curfew (it tells estimated arrival time). We (the parents) love it because it has a (not so obvious) screen that shows the maximum speed, trip length, time stopped, etc. Every once in a while I check it "just to make sure". Now, it is easy for them to a) turn it off or b) reset the max speed. The former I can't prevent. As for the latter, well, I always know what the maximum speed was (down to a tenth of an mph) so if they reset it and then it shows a lower number than it had been previously, I can tell.

    So far we've only had to make an issue of this once -- when it read 111mph! Turns out it is a portable GPS and they had put it in a friend's car (a vintage Trans Am), and he had gone on a drag track with it. Now I know alot of you are thinking "you bought that line?", but I seriously doubt our 7 year old minivan with 125K miles on it could go that fast even if it wanted to. Ditto for the '97 4 cylinder beater they drive. Anyhow, it spawned a nice discussion about the dangers and risks of driving really fast.

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  99. Or use this USB GPS Recorder by mrops · · Score: 1
  100. Everybody State Your Business by kthejoker · · Score: 1

    I think in discussions like these, you should reveal your age, whether you're married, and whether or not you have any children. So at least we can separate out actual parents, potential parents, and all the teenagers.

    I think we'd find a clear delineation of what the words "trust", "parenting", "privacy", and "responsibility" mean along these strata.

    I am 23, married, and I have no children.

    I think that this particular idea isn't the best one, but the idea that parents should simply rely on their teenager's good judgment is fairly ridiculous. My parents "bought" me a car with my college savings to reward me for earning a full-ride scholarship. By then I had earned their trust by borrowing their car for a year and returning it every night in good condition.

    Automobiles are very dangerous - often times through no fault of the driver. Little things can have major consequences. EVERY first-time driver should be an extra-defensive driver. This goes against the natural instincts of putting people in cars (witness the first time you put a kid in a go-cart, or on a bike, or any other vehicle.) So literally, an instinct must be tamed, and this requires time and effort. It is not something you magically acquire on your 16th birthday.

    1. Re:Everybody State Your Business by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      "I think in discussions like these, you should reveal your age, whether you're married, and whether or not you have any children."

      Don't forget your race and religion. Those Muslims could never understand what it means to care for a child (since all their kids go into bombmaking).

  101. anoyance at best... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Im 16, i drive,
    if i was not trusted i would not be allowed to drive my parents car.
    i would be expected to by my own, pay rego, insurance, speeding fines.
    it would not be hard to disable a divice like this. there would be 4 "targets" where it got its information (the speedodomiter), the batterey (power), the antanna and the divice mich accdently have coolent(offen mattalic baised to improve heat absorbtion) spilt on it.

  102. Old news...saw this on TV 3 years ago by cjmnews · · Score: 3, Funny

    A parent demonstrated the same device 3 years ago on TV. Showed that he caught his son doing 42 in a 35 zone.
    Seems like the older device was better as it somehow showed the speed limit of the road with the speed of the car.

    I don't see how this MA kid recently "invented" this device.

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    1. Re:Old news...saw this on TV 3 years ago by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

      Exactly. How is this an invention again?

    2. Re:Old news...saw this on TV 3 years ago by RapmasterT · · Score: 1

      If you read the article:

      "Speed-Demon is not the first speed monitor, but it is the first product that tracks speed only when drivers exceed a limit that parents or someone else can set, instead of tracking speed and location all the time. "

      so what he's invented is a "policy" not a new product. Wow, bar is set pretty low for inventions these days. I set up an inbox rule to delete mail from my ex girlfriend, should I alert the media?

  103. Only tracks when and where teh speeding occurred by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    If this thing only tracks where and when the speeding occurs (and so doesnt record data the rest of the time) what's the difference between unplugging the device and staying within the speed limit??!

  104. Benedict Arnold! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Traitor!

  105. I just don't get some people by l0rd · · Score: 1

    If I read this correctly said device was designed by a teen.........Having being a teenager myself (as many of you have) I must ask myself what kind of moron creates this kind of technology to screw his fellow teenage kind. I mean, honestly....

    If you think your kid should be monitored 24/7 maybe it isn't a good idea to let him/her have a car in the first place. They way people learn is by making mistakes (in this case having (hopefully minor)accidents). After getting my own license I drove a car total loss before learning my own personal lesson (pouring rain, old tires, sharp corners & stupid poles in the middle of nowhere don't mix).

    Let your children make mistakes or they'll never grow up.

  106. While I generally agree with you... by nathan+s · · Score: 1

    ...I should point out that despite paying my own insurance and working my ass off to purchase my own first (second-hand) vehicle, I ended up totalling it. Not because of particularly reckless driving, but because I didn't have the experience to recognize that swerving to avoid an animal is not worth it.

    So it's no guarantee of safety, but it definitely makes you somewhat less reckless than you might otherwise be, I'd say.

  107. Privacy? Get your own car! by fahrbot-bot · · Score: 1
    ...so as to minimize invasion of the teen's privacy.

    Privacy? While driving a car the parents probably paid for, under the parents insurance. If the kids want privacy, let them buy their own car and pay their own insurance... and rent too! geeesh.

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  108. Back to the basement for you, Tommy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Sheesh. Slashdot--where unemployed seventeen-year-olds give parenting advice.

    1. Re:Back to the basement for you, Tommy by LordKazan · · Score: 1

      actually mr AC - where 22 year old full time employed software developers who will be married in 3 months give parenting advice.

      nice try though

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  109. Sauce for the goose by njdibfm · · Score: 1

    If we accept, for the sake of argument, that use of this device could reduce the rate of traffic accidents, then why should it be used only between parents and their children? After all, we made speed limits an enforceable legal requirement -- so if children are responsible to their parents, why shouldn't their parents be responsible to the civil authorities (and thereby their fellow citizens) in the same way? Why not rig the device to report your position and speed to law-enforcement officers, so they can question you or send you a ticket? Why not put them in every car, and require each driver to "log in" before going someplace?

    I think it's a terrible idea, and I would not use such a device with my own children. People of all ages will take risks and sometimes have accidents, but that is part of the responsibility we must each take for ourselves. If I didn't believe my children would drive responsibly, I wouldn't permit them to use my car. But "safe and responsible driving" is more than just obeying the speed limit and staying in your lane -- it also requires awareness of your surroundings, and attention to the other drivers on the road. Every day I encounter adults on the road who, by that standard, ought to have their licenses revoked. I don't believe that we can make anybody a better driver by giving them an electronic Jiminy Cricket...it's just another distraction to make the driver to pay more attention to the dashboard than to the road.

  110. If it were me... by rAiNsT0rm · · Score: 1

    If I were a teen and my parents had this and set the limit at say 80MPH, you can be damn sure I'd be driving 79MPH at every chance I got.

    I drive a ton on the roadways for work and in my commute and I can say that the top three causes of wrecks I personally witness (which is close to one a day) are:
    1. Speeding/Weaving in heavy traffic
    2. No turn signal use
    3. Distractions: Cell phone, Kids, eating a bowl of ceral at 70MPH (no shit actually saw that one)

    And while many like to rag on SUV's, I will say that a large majority of the above activities are seen most by me in SUV drivers. I believe it is a false sense of superiority and safety that these drivers think they have.

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  111. Speaking as the parent of a teenage daughter... by symlink · · Score: 1

    If he could invent something similar that activates when the panties come off, he might be on to something..

    1. Re:Speaking as the parent of a teenage daughter... by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      "That was my Virgin Alarm. It's programmed to go off before you do."

      But seriously, what were you like as a teenager?

    2. Re:Speaking as the parent of a teenage daughter... by symlink · · Score: 1

      I was my own (current) worst nightmare.

      Quite ironic, really.

    3. Re:Speaking as the parent of a teenage daughter... by Eli+Gottlieb · · Score: 1

      Distrust begets rebellion begets recklesness begets mistakes begets distrust. Thus does the Wheel of Dharma turn.

  112. Stupid soccer mom solution by ModernGeek · · Score: 1

    What kid won't either unplug the unit, or make up a GPS jammer to keep it from doing its job? These people aren't even trying to circumvent the minds of the younguns. It needs to be mounted under the hood hooked up to the battery. On top of that, the hood needs a key-locking mecanism by the pull lever on the driver side so that the teen can't circumvent this technology.

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  113. MOD PARENT UP!! by Valacosa · · Score: 1

    Why are all the draconian loonies getting modded to +5, insightful? Please mods, moderate on the side of reason.

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  114. Wow, what a target by teflaime · · Score: 1

    Can you imagine how often this kid is going to get beat up if parents start using this tech? I expect some jock has this kid's head shoved down a toilet for just thinking about developing this.

  115. As a teenage driver... by ModernGeek · · Score: 1

    ...I find my mom in the passenger seat on her cellphone to be more distracting than anything. When I have fellow teens in the car, I tell them to shut the hell up. I didn't pay for the car, only the insurance, but my mom wrecked it when we first got it off the lot. I'm 19 now, got the car when I was 15 (didn't even have a permit) and have kept it in mint condition. Some think that it's brand new, and are appauled to learn that it is almost half a decade old :D I take pride in the things that are given to me or earned by myself.

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    1. Re:As a teenage driver... by symbolic · · Score: 1

      Make no mistake about it - there are plenty of young adults, and even older adults that refuse to exercise good jugement while operating a motor vehicle. As a group though, the problems with teen drivers are evident from the high rate of accidents, and their overall severity. Of course, there are always exceptions, and it sounds like you may very well fall into that category.

    2. Re:As a teenage driver... by ModernGeek · · Score: 1

      and as a volunteer firefighter, and not a teenager than time, it seems that old people seem to have just as many if not more bad wrecks than teenagers. With old people, it seems that they have problems paying attention to what they are doing (for example, leaving a car in reverse and running while stepping out of it to check the mail, or running into a guardrail at a deadend at 35mph). With guy teenagers, it's always some punk kid in a brand new car (old older civic with a body kit) that trys to take a corner too fast and apexes it and front ends someone.

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  116. So basically it would be always on? by Tweekster · · Score: 1

    Because everyone speeds by atleast a mile over the limit everywhere they go...except for old people, then it is just a left blinker on.

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  117. What a business opportunity! by jcr · · Score: 1

    Let's see... A countermeasure for this device should be as simple as a litle RF generator that fuzzes out the GPS over a short range. .1 watts should be plenty. I'm sure a lot of kids would pay fifty bucks for that.

    -jcr

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  118. Yeah it's been done before... by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    http://www.drdetailshop.com/v200.htm

    Plus more, this one will even call your cell phone if a set speed has been exceeded.

  119. and then.... by Churla · · Score: 1

    Some kid hacks the programs and is able to pull off the following :

    "Yeah, I smell like Pot, but you can check the GPS records, we were transported by aliens to amsterdam where all kinds of things are legal and I was just trying to embrace and experience the local culture... See, right there, I drove around Amsterdame for a solid 6 hours tonight."

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  120. Good idea but... by Fnkmaster · · Score: 1

    There already is such a product on the market called the CarChip. I am a partner in an exotic car rental company and we use them to scan for potential abusive driving of cars if cars are returned with mechanical damage.

    You can set the CarChip to monitor RPM, acceleration, speed, etc. They record data at 1 second intervals, store 300 hours of drive-time data, they are absolutely tiny and thus can be surreptitiously placed in cars, they plug into the industry standard OBDII port which all model year 1996 or newer cars have, and they report incidences of being disconnected so you know if somebody has tampered with them.

    You just disconnect them and plug them into a USB port to download all the data to the included software.

    The fully featured models cost about 300 bucks.

    Not perfect, but it's a pretty damned good solution if you want to monitor your teenager's driving. I would recommend disclosing it to them and just telling them that if they disconnect it you will consider it just as bad as if you catch them doing 120 on the highway, and that you will see any disconnect events in the log.

  121. Yes there is by SuperKendall · · Score: 1

    Ah, the magical switch that flips when a kid turns 18, making him a responsible adult....

    Yes, it's called "lack of legal liability on the part of the parents".

    At 18, he can pay his own lawsuit fees thank you very much. If in eightneen years he or she has not leanred enough self control to not need to do so, then good luck...

    but really sixteen is not a good age to turn over the reigns of responsibiltiy because hormones are still somewhat new to a lot of people. A few years of guidance from parents and then they are going to be as ready as they can be.

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  122. bah by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    How dare you come here and pretend you know all the answers! If you knew anything about parenting*, you'd know telling a kid not to do something is the surest way to get it to do exactly that. (Unless, of course, severe emotional penalties were guaranteed if the kid f___s up - which would be unnecessary in the first place if things are done right.)

    The key to a child's weel-being is something other than parenting - the key words are raising and bringing up. Tell a child fire burns, spreads and consumes, let him have a chance to see it, he'll know when fire is safe and unsafe - and what's more, he'll understand by himself when he understands it well enough to handle it. Tell a child a knife can cut you, show him how to handle a knife safely and that a dull knife is a dangerous knife - the child will treat knives with caution.

    On the other hand, throw a child into some sort of emotional dependency, looking to his parents to see if any endeavour he indulges in is ok - you'll have an emotional wreck by the time the child turns twenty. The child will rightly question why he shouldn't be trusted for many, many years, and eventually take for granted he's in no place to question authority.

    Furthermore - if the parents have done the right groundwork - once the child hits the teens, it will be much less prone to doing stupid things for three reasons: It knows its own limits, it has a stronger grasp on what it wants, and it's sure enough of itself that it doesn't need to run around proving itself to people yonder and sundry.

    Again, the key words are raising and bringing up - which together lay a great foundation for education. "Parenting" is but a muddled expression of emotional entanglement.

    *) I do not acknowledge parenting to be more of a word than boo-boo and pee-pee, in fact even less. It lacks the precision to express anything useful and only serves as a way to obscure the fundamental issues in an attempt to establish the moral high ground.

  123. Once Again Amateur Radio Already Has This by twostar · · Score: 1

    Automatic Position Reporting System (APRS) Designed by Bob Bruninga http://eng.usna.navy.mil/~bruninga/aprs.html it uses a GPS, an encoding circuit and a radio. Reports position and speed onto a national frequency with digital repeaters and Internet gates. Most systems also report speed and some people have set up their digipeaters to send out alerts if someone goes past a set speed. In most metros and everywhere else all the data is logged and posted online. http://www.findu.com/ The system has been expanded to include weather reports and other data as users see fit on the network.

    With this I have LIVE position and speed reports from the car. I don't have to worry about it getting "knocked loose" or something else "happening" to the unit, I've got it installed in the car nice and secure.

    If you want to give them similar features to this other "new" gizmo, install a TinyTrak http://www.byonics.com/ and set it to only report when going over a set speed.

  124. Driving wrecklessly is good by benhocking · · Score: 1

    Driving recklessly, however, is bad. ;)

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  125. Trust and Parenting aren't mutually exclusive by Java+Ape · · Score: 1
    First, my son just wrecked his second car in under a month, so I'm well aware of the dangers to both children and property. Second, he's almost 19, and hasn't had so much as parking ticket in the previous three years.
    That said, I see a lot of comments here that are obviously from young folks that have never raised a child. Every child is different, and trust isn't a boolean operation, it's a float. I've never had to worry about my son getting in fights, doing drugs, or making out with his girlfriends -- he's been exemplary in all these areas. I trust him more than most adults, and we have a great relationship. On the other hand, he likes to drive fast. I DON'T trust his decision making when he's driving (especially with friends) because he likes to show off.

    The bottom line is that everybody has areas where they excel, and areas where they need some help. I trust my daughter's driving, but worry about her choice in friends. My co-worker is a Window's genius, but I wouldn't trust him to patch Solaris. A parent's job isn't to trust blindly, it's to extend trust when it's deserved. My son is a great guy, and it would be nice to let him take the car for the weekend, knowing I'd get an IM/email anytime the car went over 75mph. In some cases this device could be beneficial. After all, your kid might be on the road the next time my kid gets behind the wheel -- wouldn't we both feel better if he weren't going 120 mph?

  126. Being a 16 year old... by xdavexxx · · Score: 0

    ...myself, in particular one who is about to receive a car of my own (15-16 is learner permit age, 16-17 is full licence age, varying by state), this story hits very close to home.

    It goes without saying that the parents have the right to put the tracking device in their own car when giving it to their kid. The problem comes in when they try to put the device in the teenager's own car, one that the teenager was either given as a gift (and had all the ownership papers transferred to them, etc, etc) or paid for in their own cash. I think, at 16, you have the right to control what you own.

    My reasoning is that at 16 and 17, you start gaining other rights and responsibilities, such as the right to move out, and the responsibility to be tried as an adult in court. While your parents may still be supporting you at that age, they also lose the right to control you. Freedom alone does not make for a sense of responsibility, but it just isn't morally right to allow parents full control over their kids at that kind of age. Things like hidden cameras and GPS tracking systems are available to the public these days - I think it's of increasing importance to establish these principles as law.

    Full disclosure: I have never done the proper legal research on this.

    I find this new kind of technology very scary, because of it's potential for spying and control from afar. There are many, many more moral ways to keep your kid out of trouble, albeit with more work on the parent's part.

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  127. Conditioned for life under a microscope by Bones3D_mac · · Score: 1

    This is just one more example of the direction our country is going. The government is already pre-emptively watching our every move without any legal justification. Whether its logging our phone calls and internet activity, or monitoring our financial records, you can't hide anymore.

    Now, suddenly, we're getting bombarded by ads for devices to track and control what our children can or can't do, under the guise of convenience. Many of these items have been around for nearly 5 years, so why is it only now that they are getting around to pushing these tools on parents?

    Parents are already afraid to spank a child for getting into trouble, so who wouldn't snatch up all these new tools to pre-emptively ensure their child can do no wrong? If children can't get into trouble, you don't have to risk confronting them directly... right?

    In the meanwhile, the child in question is quickly becoming more and more desensitized to living in a world of constant mistrust and surveillance. By the time these children become adults, will our government's monitoring techniques be seen as justified through transference, after having been constantly monitored in a similar fashion by their own parents?

    If we, as adults, don't start demanding government limitations on what can and can't be monitored, freedom as we know it will be lost by the time the next generation is in control of things.

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  128. You are a teen and your parents put one in the car by f8sclown · · Score: 1

    Just unplug it.

  129. Speed != Accidents by schwinn8 · · Score: 1

    Too bad this kid is just another one of the brainwashed masses following the IIHS and NHTSA. The FACT is, speed does NOT "kill" as people like to simplify. This has been proven when the National speed limit was repealed. All the "speed kills" masses said we would have thousands more highway fatalities... it didn't happen, and, in fact, highway fatalities have been reducing ever since. It just pisses me off when a kid who knows too little (and is in it for the money, as he clearly states) gets publicity for being a lemming.

    1. Re:Speed != Accidents by /dev/trash · · Score: 1

      yeeeeeeah. it's little green men that kill

    2. Re:Speed != Accidents by jabelar · · Score: 1

      I think tailgating is much more dangerous. Speed in its own right is not necessarily risky, but having limited stopping distance is. The systems that warn when you're outdriving your stopping distance (by laser distancing objects in front) seem the way to go to really help people drive safely.

  130. Obedience to stupid laws is not just by nsayer · · Score: 1

    I remember a while ago (this was when the speed limit was still 55), we had a "Civil Obedience day" where a number of folks all got together as a convoy and drove the speed limit. The resulting traffic jam made the point better than any speech ever given on the subject.

    Here's a history lesson: once upon a time, the law was that you had to drive at a safe and prudent speed. That worked until the podunk sheriff who wanted to make a little extra cash decided that safe and prudent on a 4 lane road was 15 mi/h. Speed limits were invented as a curb against overzealous law enforcement. If you were driving under the posted speed limit and there were no extenuating circumstances, you could be presumed to be driving safely. But then those podunk sheriffs realized that they could paint anything they want on the sign. This is how El Camino Real between Santa Clara and South San Francisco - a road whose essential character remains unchanged as a 6 lane thoroughfare for its entire length - can have the speed limit change at least once every 10 miles.

    When speed limits are set correctly - at the 85th percentile speed observed in a neutral traffic survey (not uniformed officers holding radar guns, like they do in L.A.), that's one thing. But when the limit on Interstate 280 between San Francisco and Cupertino is 65 mi/h, that's just ignoring reality.

    1. Re:Obedience to stupid laws is not just by /dev/trash · · Score: 1

      Please show me where there's a 4 lane highway marked at 15MPH????

    2. Re:Obedience to stupid laws is not just by nsayer · · Score: 1

      You didn't read very carefully. I never said it was. I said that back before there were speed limits, the local authorities could decide that if you were driving faster than that you were not driving safely and prudently.

  131. Secure Digital Card by jarg0n · · Score: 0
    One uses a Secure Digital card that can be inserted into a computer after a teenager comes back from a drive

    Coulden't you just take out the card format it and put it back in the box?

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  132. maybe i missed something by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    how bout i just unplug the thing?
    physical security vs. digital security... gotta love it.

  133. whos side is this kid on? by mseidl · · Score: 1

    Seriously, it's bad enough that parents want to track kids. Now kids are helping parents track kids.

    Wake up!

    1. Re:whos side is this kid on? by atlasdropperofworlds · · Score: 1

      There is nothing wrong with parents tracking their kids. Parents supply them with food, shelter, education, and (often) money. Like it or not, kids belong to their parents until they decide to leave home.

      If you don't like being monitored by your parents (which is responsible for them to do - you should see wtf teens do around my neighborhood at night), move out. If you want to be treated like a responsible adult, then become one.

      Most "kids" and "teens" take issue with being monitored because they are want to go out and do things they aren't supposed to. My parents required me to call in all the time if I was out, at least until I was 17.

      Parents should have the ability to monitor everything their kids do, including TV shows, browsing, computer/console game use, location (are they safe? are they kidnapped?), etc. Kids, now more than ever, need to be watched over, and they NEED to be disciplined!

    2. Re:whos side is this kid on? by mseidl · · Score: 1

      WHAT? Look, if I wanted to goto prison, I'd commit a crime. I think parents should have some overview of kids. But, when is enough enough? Why can't I have any privacy? And, for your information, I moved out the day I turned 18. The parents should have some type of relationship with the children so they can teach them the right way.

      For instance - My parents always stressed the difference between real life and video games. I played mortal kombat and every other violent game you could think of. And, did I need to be monitored? No, because I never did anything bad. Because I knew the difference. So, do I want my parents to see everything I do? No. They trusted in me to do the right thing.

    3. Re:whos side is this kid on? by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
      Like it or not, kids belong to their parents until they decide to leave home.

      "Decide", huh? Guess you've been living under a rock: when a kid decides to leave home, that's called "running away". The police find them and bring them back, as if they were escaped slaves in the 1800s. Stop pretending there's anything voluntary about it.
  134. Not always by phorm · · Score: 1

    Sometimes it's unsafe to go slow because others are speeding, but other times it's because it backs up traffic and causes other related issues. When you've got a major roadway which fills up at a particular time (say when everyone goes to or gets off of work), having cars proceeding slowly allows for less intake of vehicles towards the rear. This in turn leads to clogged onramps and general traffic buildup. Of course, this would still be somewhat ok if not for the fact that people do stupid things, but in the even where somebody feels he/she must get somewhere, he/she will take the chance of cutting others off and doing other stupid traffic stunts, even if not actually speeding.

  135. Big Brothers dweeby younger brother by Thundercleets · · Score: 0

    Everyone must of have known kids like this highschool, you know the billwg wannabes.

    The dweeb has said "Some people think (my plan) is bad, and I'm on the parents' side," he said. "Teens should still be able to have their privacy -- and they'll get it if they drive safely. It's not so much to get kids in trouble as it is to open lines of communication with parents."

    What a load of crap, what he and the rest of the track your life crowd are hoping for is either a self-rightous politician or an insurance company to come by and mandate these kinds of things for everyone or at least for drivers under the age of 24 (age discrimination).

    Lets hope the captain of the football team gets caught and causes some locker filler time to happen to "Mr. Fischer". Then maybe he will come to his senses and go to where the big money is, "white collar" crime.

  136. I don't like you... by scwizard · · Score: 1
    If he's supposed to be home at midnight, I stay up until he gets home, I don't take his word for it. I make him keep his bedroom door open when he has his girlfriend over to "do homework."
    That is really creepy of you...

    I wish I had mod points so I could mod this down.

    But I don't, so I guess I'll just set you to foe.
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    1. Re:I don't like you... by warsql · · Score: 1

      I'm glad you don't have mod points then. Don't mod down just because you disagree. Mod down if the comment is off topic, flaimbait, or otherwise inappropriate.

      If you simply disagree, state your case and add to the discussion.

      Thank you.

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  137. It's about personal responsibility by phorm · · Score: 1

    It's not how you get the car, it's how you respect it. I know plenty of people that bought their own vehicles and then sent them to car-heaven. Heck, my own cousin I wouldn't let within 50 feet of the driver's seat.

    I also know plenty of people who had cars bought for them and respected the vehicle, no crashes. There is a line, but it doesn't start at buying the vehicle. Some parents that will happily and repeatedly bail their kids out of automobile issues (crash car, parents pay to fix it or buy a new one), and even an experienced driver might be a but lead-footed if they were given (or bought) a viper or other such vehicle. I was bought my first car, it wasn't too flashy (88 Camry) but it was a stick so it had some juice to it, and I didn't do anything stupid enough to pile it into a cliff. I respected my vehicle, because I knew it was the only one I was getting, but more importantly because I didn't want to end up in the hospital or the morgue.

    Nowadays, I've actually been finding that most bad drivers are not kids, and I've seen lots of bad drivers. The situation is aggravated by people who subject themselves to continual distractions while driving (cellphone, DUI, superloud stereo etc). There are plenty of adults out there who run lights, lane-change unsafely, and (my personal pet-peeve) block up the roads with their 3-car-length motorhomes towing SUV's and driving 30km under the limit.

    Essentially, it's not an issue of being given a car, it's being given more than you can handle. John Doe might not be able to handle driving a flashy sports car, regardless of whether it was gifted or earned. That you were able to earn your own vehicle and drive it safely speaks for your personal maturity, but doesn't indicate that you would have been a terrible driver had it been gifted to you.

    Also, one should keep in mind that the idiot drivers who buy their own car and total it aren't drivers for sometime afterward for the simple fact that they often can't afford another vehicle.

  138. Oblig. Ronald Reagan quote by The_REAL_DZA · · Score: 3, Interesting

    "Trust, but verify."

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  139. The parents always lose to a determined child. by FatSean · · Score: 1

    When you realize that your child wants their freedom, and you have tried many technique...I suggest you just back off. Unless, that is, you want to poison the relationship and die alone in a nursing home or something.

    It also helps if you have logical reasons for forbidding certain behavior. Definately don't use religious excuses...kids these days aren't buying that supersticion anymore.

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    1. Re:The parents always lose to a determined child. by letxa2000 · · Score: 1
      When you realize that your child wants their freedom, and you have tried many technique...I suggest you just back off. Unless, that is, you want to poison the relationship and die alone in a nursing home or something.


      Thanks, I'll do what's in my child's best interest, not my best interest. You aren't really saying that you'd let your kid do whatever he wants so that he'll take care of you when you're old, are you?

      It also helps if you have logical reasons for forbidding certain behavior.

      If there's no logical reason to forbid it, don't forbid it.

      Definately don't use religious excuses...kids these days aren't buying that supersticion anymore.

      Not if they're brought up in Godless families, no.

  140. "invention" by zippthorne · · Score: 1

    I'm confused. Did he invent APRS? Or did he invent "turning on a gps reciever and putting it in automatic waypoint mode?"

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  141. I see nothing created here? by insomniac8400 · · Score: 1

    No teen created gps, and anything you can do with gps is pretty self explanatory. This teen has created nothing. This is a service, that if was in any way popular would easily be taken over by a real company. Plus, with software any cellphone could easily already do this and more.

  142. But by Shadyman · · Score: 1

    If it plugs into a cigarette lighter and sits on the dash...

    Why not just unplug it?

  143. One Small Problem Here by Nom+du+Keyboard · · Score: 1
    One immediate problem is that, driving 45mph through a 25mph zone is just as dangerous and foolish as doing 95mph on the Interstate, but only the latter might be caught.

    An improvement to the system would be to take the GPS location, check it against known local speedlimits, and then register any driving +10mph over the local limit.

    Another nice feature would be to report when the car travels more than a set radius of miles from home. If the kids are sneaking over the border for illicit activities, parents might wish to know this.

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  144. Teens should only have limited privacy by atlasdropperofworlds · · Score: 1

    They are still only adults in training, and quite frankly, they are terrible at it.

    I think parents should have full access to knowing their children's whereabouts and activities 24/7, 365 days per year (366 on leap years) until their children leave home. Teens are adults in training, not adults.

    1. Re:Teens should only have limited privacy by openldev · · Score: 0

      I agree that teenagers don't always make the best decisions ... I was just one a few years ago. But that attitude is what causes teenagers to rebel against their parents. They shouldn't be treated as adults, but if you don't trust them, they will just do stupid things. I agree that parents should have full access to their children's whereabouts, but there comes a point where parents have to realise that in a few short years, that is going to be abruptly cut off. If you don't have a reason to not trust the child, why should you? Besides ... contrary to what most adults think, not all teenagers are bad. And those who are, where do you think they learn it? The parents of course!

    2. Re:Teens should only have limited privacy by atlasdropperofworlds · · Score: 1

      There is a difference between trusting your teens and keeping an eye on them. Frankly, I've known so few teenagers who are worthy of the "trust" given to them (most just abuse it) that I give absolutely no credance to your argument that teens do stupid things when not trusted.
      Trust is earned. The best way to earn the trust if your parents would be to show them you are responsible when they aren't present. They can only do that if they are monitoring you to some degree, without your knowlege.
      The teens I see acting like idiots do so because they are allowed to, (usually) not because of their parents. Teens learn things from each other more than they learn them from their parents - teen years are all about peer influence.

    3. Re:Teens should only have limited privacy by openldev · · Score: 0

      Yes, but even if they learn something from another teen ... it had to come from somewhere at some point. I'm not trying to bait a flame & I understand where you are coming from. I realize that a lot of teenagers do a lot of stupid things, but as one of the good ones in my day, I didn't really appreciate people assuming I'm irresponsible just because of my age. I think monitoring should be allowed, a parent should just only use extreme measures if they have reason to do so.

  145. Yeah by m2k1 · · Score: 1

    Reminds me of the song "Speed Demon" by The Dwarves. But it's not about speeding I presume...

  146. no privacy by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Let them get use to not having any privacy in this new world order of ours.

  147. odd teenage motivations by georgesdomains · · Score: 1

    Seriously who is it out there who is 15 and sitting around thinking to himself "hmmm...I wish my parents could watch me more...maybe I should solve their problems for them with an electronic device"...this guy doesn't deserve to have the lunch money that will inevitably get taken from him

  148. You can buy stuff to do this. No news here. by dlleigh · · Score: 2, Insightful

    Try google: http://www.google.com/search?q=gps+speed+monitor

    Rental car companies have gotten into trouble for trying to fine drivers who exceed some limit.

    The first teen driver monitor I saw was from Autotap and was code-named "narc on Lisa" because the inventor wanted to make sure his daughter Lisa wasn't doing anything bad. This one plugged into the car's OBDII port, monitored various vehicle parameters such as speed, ignition state and the current time, could sense if it had been disconnected and record that fact.

    The "invention" in the original article is neither original nor noteworthy.

  149. Sounds like a Catch-22 by Moraelin · · Score: 1

    Ah, trust... that's a funny concept. See, the funny thing is that at least mom actually trusted me and my brother. Or claimed to. I think we were pretty trustworthy kids, too, since basically (A) we didn't get enough time on our own to do anything bad anyway, and (B) for all other faults our education might have had, it was almost caricaturally Lawful Good.

    Mom and dad were, and largely still are, complete nerds, and nerds often end up fond of distorted caricatures utopic ideals. Mom would have made a perfect D&D Paladin. Lawful Good to the bone, and willing to fight to death for the Right Thing. Regular knight in shiny armour, sworn to do her duty, and all that.

    So we too got educated to honesty believe that kind of a distorted utopia. Don't lie, don't do anything bad, the good guys always win, etc. I _still_ have problems even playing an evil character in a video game like Knights Of The Old Republic, so I have trouble imagining that I would have been an evil backstabbing SOB as a kid.

    Unfortunately if you've ever read about Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder, by now you also see the problem there. There's a name for that black-and-white good-vs-evil view of the world, and it's OCPD. OCPD people see very few shades of grey, if any. They live by the rules, do The Right Thing (TM), and anything less than a _perfectly_ done job is crap.

    And so it came to apply to being a parent too. In mom's knight-in-shiny-armour view of the world, there were (and still are) no shades of grey between being completely uninvolved and smothering the living sanity out of us. Anything short of being 100% involved in 100% of what we ever do, would have counted as having failed her duty.

    The same, incidentally, applied to everything we did too. Even a misplaced comma counted as a badly done homework in mom's view of the world. Hence the neverending negative feedback, and occasionally even more annoying consequences. She tried to turn us into, well, something that fit her black-and-white view of the world, and clearly in the white category at that.

    I guess her being an Asperger's case there doesn't help either.

    At any rate, rest assured that it wasn't lack of trust that basically cost me and my brother some 24 years each out of our lives. On the contrary. We were the most trusted prisoners ever. But, nevertheless, had a childhood and teenage life that is best compared to life in a federal prison.

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  150. You are wrong. by rantingkitten · · Score: 1
    Study after study shows several things.

    1. The ideal speed limit is the 85th percentile of driver speed.
    2. Raising and lowering the speed limit has little to no effect on the speed people will actually drive.
    3. Most places set the speed limit at the 45th percentile or so.

    These are facts. A study by the DoT says so, not me.

    From this can we not conclude that lowering the speed limit, which the government is well aware will be ignored, is only a revenue-generating tactic?

    Furthermore, can we not conclude that, since we KNOW people will drive at whatever speed they deem reasonable (the 85th percentile), lowering the speed limit to something far lower than this causes problems? Specifically, there's always going to be a few people who follow the posted limit, but they are suddenly slow-moving, unexpected obstacles in a river of fast-flowing traffic.

    Please feel free to look at the research yourself, but don't just assume that Big Brother Knows Best and the speed limits are there for safety. In fact,
    # Accidents at the 58 experimental sites where speed limits were lowered increased by 5.4 percent. The level of confidence of this estimate is 44 percent. The 95 percent confidence limits for this estimate ranges from a reduction in accidents of 11 percent to an increase of 26 percent.

    # Accidents at the 41 experimental sites where speed limits were raised decreased by 6.7 percent. The level of confidence of this estimate in 59 percent. The 95 percent confidence limits for this estimate ranges from a reduction in accidents of 21 percent to an increase of 10 percent.
    Seems that raising the limit, to remove the annoying blockheads who are going 20mph slower than everyone else, actually makes the roads SAFER. You'll also find that raising the limit does not cause everyone to start driving really fast, contrary to what you claim above. You can state your "I think" all day long, but experimental data overrides you.
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  151. A little Foil will do ya good. by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Remove Tin Foil hat and use it to cover the GPS antenna. Suddenly you are going 0 Mph. Unless this stuff is built into the car's electronics system, kids will be smart enough to bypass it's features. Unless you can audit the GPS unit with the odometer, you can't trust that it isn't being jammed/foiled. If you created a device that would project meatspin or goatsemarathon on the windshield if you drove over 55, it would be much more successful.

  152. Reversed VW's by smellsofbikes · · Score: 1

    There are a lot of those running around. There are two here in Denver, Colorado, and I've seen them in California and Oregon.
    The coolest one I've ever seen was in Christchurch, NZ: it was dual-ended. Both the front and rear were VW front ends. It was really spooky.
    One of the ones here in Denver I've seen over a period of three years, so I'm guessing nobody has a problem with it.

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  153. Speed limit? by cartel · · Score: 1

    Is this just a set speed (e.g., 70Mph), or can it actually tell if the car is exceeding the current speed limit? How could it know what that is (didn't see it in TFA)?

  154. Just as one more detail by Moraelin · · Score: 1

    Just as one more detail as to how far that trust went. Mom apparently trusted me enough to tell me all her secrets. Other people go to church to confess, mom used me for that. I'd say that's pretty trusting.

    What she couldn't do, really, was _delegate_. It's a pretty common symptom in OCPD, actually. Basically it's not as much about whether you believe someone is "trustworthy" as such, but whether you believe that they'll get something done to your unrealistic standards.

    For example she just couldn't "delegate" that I just pack my own flipping suitcase for a summer camp. It's not as much a matter of "trust" or "trustworthy." It's a matter of "trust" when you suspect that the little evil bastard would, say, smuggle a bottle of booze (or drug or porn or whatever) into the suitcase. It's a matter of "delegating" when you do it because you just know that he, honest and trustworthy as he may be, wouldn't pack the _right_ sweater or exactly the right amount of clean socks.

    Have you seen a suitcase packed by an OCPD case? It has to contain the _perfect_ mix that covers any possible situation, including two weeks worth of snowstorm in July. It also weighs half a ton. (Or it seems that way when you have to drag it around as a kid.)

    Ironically enough, she was probably right there, in a sick and twisted way. Since I had never been allowed to do it, I would have probably botched it. It's a bit of a vicious circle, you know?

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  155. CORRECTION! by LordKazan · · Score: 1

    BAH need to proofread more

    s/2nd the court isn't falliable/2nd the court is fallaible

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    Check it out: linky

  157. Dude!! Way to whore up some karma!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Nice!!!

  158. Poor bastard by ender-iii · · Score: 1

    This kid could make millions, but no one is going to want to be his friend.
    Every time someone gets busted for speeding he gets a wedgie.
    Good thinking.

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  159. There is one point everyone is missing . . . by dmadzak · · Score: 2, Interesting

    Parents are financially responsible for the screw ups of their kid. If their kid is not responsible the parent will get their ass sued off. I'm not saying that this is the right solution, but since a parent is financially responsible for when their kids screw up they should have resources available to know what their kid is up to.

    We know how lawyers are, imagine this scenerio, "Your kid caused a major accident because of speeding. How come you did not use this device to control his driving habits?" as the parent gets nailed for punative damages.

    This device sucks, but until kids start acting reasonable, parents need to account for what they are doing.

    Let the flames about how I am a ideal kid begin.

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    1. Re:There is one point everyone is missing . . . by tehcyder · · Score: 1
      If their kid is not responsible the parent will get their ass sued off... for punative damages.
      Do you not have proper car insurance in the US, or something?
      Also, in the UK if you are old enough to be legally driving, you're the one responsible for your actions behind the wheel.
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  160. Re:[Idiots] should only have limited privacy by moeinvt · · Score: 1

    Next time someone gives you the: "If you're not guilty, you should have nothing to hide"

    argument in response to criticism about government spying, show them this little gadget. Then, tell them that they must therefore be willing to have one installed on their car and empower local or state police to constantly monitor the signal. Using GPS and data about speed limits on certain roads, police computers will automatically send out speeding tickets to the person whose name is on the registration whenever the sensor detects the speed of the vehicle exceeding the posted limit. We could probably balance the budgets of all 50 states in no time! Of course this mandate will only apply to the idiots who publicly espouse that viewpoint. Call it the "Big Brother" tax.

  161. Velocity Taxes by Jerry+Rivers · · Score: 1

    Actually, this device could protect you from unethical cops who lie about how fast you were going so they can meet their ticket quota.

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  162. rental car companies by dumbfounder · · Score: 1

    oh god I hope they don't start using these devices to charge us more for improper use of their vehicles. What next? odor sensors to see when I am peeling out? I bought their damn insurance, that gives me the right to take their chevy malibu offroading in a corn field and e-braking it into trash cans setup like bowling pins!

  163. WHAT A FUCKING BANDWAGON AGRUMENT!!! by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0
    We don't educate our kids anymore, we give them Ritalin.

    I'm tired of hearing regurgitated bullshit like this. What does Ritalin have to do with education?

    Nigga, please!!
  164. Reminds me of my mom... by Burning1 · · Score: 1

    I recently got a new Cougar, and took my mom out driving.

    I'm doing 60 in a 35 zone, when she politely suggests I buy a radar detector. I think she's earned her "World's best mom" coffee mug.

  165. Parents? by syousef · · Score: 1

    I think this kid's parents must be the insurance industry. That's who'll want to use this device.

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  166. Sounds kinda like... by D14BL0 · · Score: 1

    Sounds kinda like an article I read on /. about a year ago saying that Canada's going to test out a new system similar to this, but it will actually impair your ability to push down on the accelerator once you reach a certain speed.

  167. Nothing new, this product is already in the market by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    This tech has been around for a while; is currently being sold by an Australian company, and is being tested out in central B.C. Canada. Apologies for not having the exact details.

  168. Re:Nothing new, this product is already in the mar by DragonWriter · · Score: 1

    Its also been used by rental car companies to track speeding (pretty much the exact application described in the summary, with "parents" replaced by "owners" and "teens" replaced by "renters"), although I seem to remember at least one legal decision striking down the use as illegal.

    At any rate, you are correct, this is a decidely non-novel "invention" that is already in use; I wouldn't be surprised if something either like this or transponder-based wasn't in the next couple decades required for all cars by the government just as license plates are, and used not only to monitor speeding, but also to assess road tolls, and for more intrusive law enforcement purposes.

  169. Why is this news? by sokoban · · Score: 1

    I really cannot see what is so newsworthy about this. GPS based governor devices are an old idea, and more simple systems have been available for many years. In fact, it seems like a GPS wouldn't be the best system to use for this since the car already has a device in place to measure its speed. Also, if the GPS is calculating speed based on an observed change in position over a known time, it may not be able to really capture the true speed of the car. I could see switchback and country roads being especially rough on this kind of system due to the constantly changing direction.

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  170. Re:[Idiots] should only have limited privacy by atlasdropperofworlds · · Score: 1

    The government does not put food in my mouth or a roof over my head - last I checked, I pay them for "service". This is not "Big Brother", this is giving parents the tools they need to do supervision - It's oranges to the "Big Brother" topic being apples.

  171. Easily bypassed by Anonymous Coward · · Score: 0

    Wrap it in a few layers of tin foil... Volia! No GPS gets in... And since it's only reporting on speeding incidents, if the P's don't see anything in there, they assume all is well...

  172. important question for parents by briancnorton · · Score: 1
    I am appointing myself spokesman for all drivers everywhere. I'm going to phrase this question bluntly to get my point across.

    If you don't trust your child to drive safely, WHY ARE YOU LETTING THEM DRIVE ALONE? Don't take this the wrong way, but I don't care if your kid careens off of a cliff and dies in a ball of fire. That however is FAR less likely than them careening into ME, and I do care about me. You know your kids best. If they shouldn't be driving (alone) PLEASE DONT LET THEM.

    Remember, you're putting MY life in their hands.

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  173. Sure by Unski · · Score: 0, Flamebait

    It's a little extreme, but I'm an extreme guy.. No, wait. That's your sig. A blatant lie might I add, if your website is anything to go by. The parent poster - you stuffy, pompous /. retard - would have to spend way too much time here to notice this particular indiscretion. In my opinion, that is a far worse crime. Thank-you for your apostrophe pedantry. It adds to your quiet dignity. You made the point succinctly IMO.

    1. Re:Sure by avronius · · Score: 1

      Stuffy? Hardly. Pompous? Not particularly. Retard? Perhaps, in context, this might apply.

      Do you really believe that your acerbic comments add to the discussion at all? Or do you just enjoy stirring the pot, scouting for a flame war?

      As for your observation about the parent poster in question, I disagree. You need only be able to remember something that you read 15 minutes earlier. Perhaps it's out of vogue, but I try hard to remember what I've read, and I suspect that others do likewise.

      You have made a valid point about my sig. While I do have extreme viewpoints about some subjects, I am a reasonably well adjusted person. I will update it shortly to more accurately reflect my beliefs.

      Perhaps it will say something about karma.

      Remember, you reap what you sow.

  174. You call bullshit? Try READING your study! by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

    Did you actually read your study? If you did, I think you should sharpen those reading comprihension skills.

    Let's take a look, shall we?

    1) This study was done on NON-LIMITED ACCESS ROADS. That means it was not done on the interstate highway system. Considering this thread was about the interstates, this isn't an apples to apples comparison. To wit: "The objectives of this research was to determine the effects of raising and lowering posted speed limits on driver behavior and accidents for non-limited access rural and urban highways." and also "the major emphasis of this research is on streets and highways that were posted between 20 and 55 mi/h"

    2) This study concludes that lowering the speed limit increases accidents. Consider that for a moment. Law abiding citizens adjusted their speed to the new, lower speed limit. However the majority of (law breaking) citizens did not decrease their speed, causing a larged disparity between the fastest and slowest drivers on a given road. Once again, you're blaming the citizens that follow the speed limit for this when you should be blaming the citizens that were breaking the law.

    3) No allowance given to habit. If I lived near a testing site and I always drove 65 down the 55mph road I'm not likely to change my speed when the study starts. First, I might not be aware of the speed change for some time after the beginning of the study. Second, it's my observation that most of us drive by "feel." That is, I'm not likely to monitor my speedometer while driving unless prompted by a slow or fast moving vehicle or law enforcement. This prevents the study from illustrating what would happen over a long period of time, say 20 years, during which the people driving on the road daily "cycles" due to death, relocation, reaching legal driving age, etc.

    4) Upper Bounds of Speed Increases. As stated, the emphasis of this study is on roads with limits between 20 and 55mph. The maximum increases tested by the study are were +15mph. I couldn't find any specific information on site increases, but it's my guess that they didn't turn many non-divided country roads into 70MpH raceways. It seems to me most likely that the 15mph increases were reserved for the routes with slower speeds at the beginning of the study. Even if I am incorrect, this study is not applicable to the interstate system, the majority of which already operates at 65Mph or higher. There is a difference between a max posted speed of 65 (55Mph originally plus 10MpH adjustment) and a max speed of 80 (65mph plus a 15mph adjustment)

    Incidentally, there are a number of factual and typographical errors in the report that piqued my interest. An example:

    "Vehicles with a length less than 20 ft (5.1 m) were classified as short vehicles. Vehicles greater than 20 ft (6.1 m) in length were classified as short vehicles. "
    There are a number of problems with this statement. First, the number of meters in 20 feet change from one sentence to the next. Second, both groups are classified as "short" despite what I deduce as the intention of the sentence.

    In conclusion, this study is not very applicable to our discussion. You should probably read these things for their CONTENT and not just for the parts that back up whatever point you're trying to make.

    So, there's my proof. Would you like to eat your crow now or should I put it in a doggy-bag?

  175. No, *YOU* are wrong on this one. by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

    First, you claim "study after study" but you posted ONE STUDY.

    Second, you posted the same link that someone else did. After reading the study, I replied to him with this post, cut and pasted here for your enjoyment:

    Did you actually read your study? If you did, I think you should sharpen those reading comprihension skills.

    Let's take a look, shall we?

    1) This study was done on NON-LIMITED ACCESS ROADS. That means it was not done on the interstate highway system. Considering this thread was about the interstates, this isn't an apples to apples comparison. To wit: "The objectives of this research was to determine the effects of raising and lowering posted speed limits on driver behavior and accidents for non-limited access rural and urban highways." and also "the major emphasis of this research is on streets and highways that were posted between 20 and 55 mi/h"

    2) This study concludes that lowering the speed limit increases accidents. Consider that for a moment. Law abiding citizens adjusted their speed to the new, lower speed limit. However the majority of (law breaking) citizens did not decrease their speed, causing a larged disparity between the fastest and slowest drivers on a given road. Once again, you're blaming the citizens that follow the speed limit for this when you should be blaming the citizens that were breaking the law.

    3) No allowance given to habit. If I lived near a testing site and I always drove 65 down the 55mph road I'm not likely to change my speed when the study starts. First, I might not be aware of the speed change for some time after the beginning of the study. Second, it's my observation that most of us drive by "feel." That is, I'm not likely to monitor my speedometer while driving unless prompted by a slow or fast moving vehicle or law enforcement. This prevents the study from illustrating what would happen over a long period of time, say 20 years, during which the people driving on the road daily "cycles" due to death, relocation, reaching legal driving age, etc.

    4) Upper Bounds of Speed Increases. As stated, the emphasis of this study is on roads with limits between 20 and 55mph. The maximum increases tested by the study are were +15mph. I couldn't find any specific information on site increases, but it's my guess that they didn't turn many non-divided country roads into 70MpH raceways. It seems to me most likely that the 15mph increases were reserved for the routes with slower speeds at the beginning of the study. Even if I am incorrect, this study is not applicable to the interstate system, the majority of which already operates at 65Mph or higher. There is a difference between a max posted speed of 65 (55Mph originally plus 10MpH adjustment) and a max speed of 80 (65mph plus a 15mph adjustment)

    Incidentally, there are a number of factual and typographical errors in the report that piqued my interest. An example:

    "Vehicles with a length less than 20 ft (5.1 m) were classified as short vehicles. Vehicles greater than 20 ft (6.1 m) in length were classified as short vehicles. "
    There are a number of problems with this statement. First, the number of meters in 20 feet change from one sentence to the next. Second, both groups are classified as "short" despite what I deduce as the intention of the sentence.

    In conclusion, this study is not very applicable to our discussion. You should probably read these things for their CONTENT and not just for the parts that back up whatever point you're trying to make.

    So, there's my proof. Would you like to eat your crow now or should I put it in a doggy-bag?

  176. Sir by /dev/trash · · Score: 1

    The horse is dead. will you stop beating it.

  177. Will GPS work by LRBenson · · Score: 1

    To help get him out of the dumpster he will now find himself thrown into everyday at school?

  178. Oooh...so sensitive! by FatSean · · Score: 1

    You had no problem barking at someone who disagreed, and you do the same to me. Have you ever thought that if you piss your child off enough that he wants nothing to do with his parents...that perhaps that is not in his best interest? It'll give him relationship issues for the rest of his life, and the 'lessons' you taught him might produce the opposite result.

    I don't understand how you can say you won't forbid things unless their is a logical reason, and then go on to imply your household is not 'godless'. That's pure humor right there!

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  179. Pfft. by rantingkitten · · Score: 1

    First, you claim "study after study" but you posted ONE STUDY.

    Yeah, sorry I didn't provide a mountain of research there. Google "85th percentile" and see for yourself. The study I posted was authoritative enough.

    1) This study was done on NON-LIMITED ACCESS ROADS. That means it was not done on the interstate highway system. Considering this thread was about the interstates, this isn't an apples to apples comparison.

    I have no good reason to think that people's driving habits suddenly and radically alter when they get on the freeway, do you? Show me evidence to the contrary and I'll accept it but on the face of it your assertion is ridiculous.

    Once again, you're blaming the citizens that follow the speed limit for this when you should be blaming the citizens that were breaking the law.

    No, I'm blaming the speed limit for being in place when it is a known fact it will be ignored. There is no point whatsoever in creating a law you know will be ignored, and then getting upset when people ignore it. The goody two-shoes who actually follow the speed limit are technically following the letter of the law, but not the spirit, and are consequently more of a burden to society than the ones who are "breaking" the law by going at a reasonable speed.

    Second, it's my observation that most of us drive by "feel." That is, I'm not likely to monitor my speedometer while driving unless prompted by a slow or fast moving vehicle or law enforcement.

    So you admit that you basically ignore posted speed limits and just drive however fast feels right.

    Which is exactly what the study showed -- people ignore posted speed limits and drive however fast feels right.

    Now you want to lash them at the stake for doing this because they're demons on wheels.

    Not uncoincidentally, the state, well aware of this fact, promptly posts limits well below what the average "feels right" speed is, so they can nail people for speeding and collect more money, which is what the study was all about, as well as this discussion -- wherein you assert that the speed limit is some kind of binding, always-correct mandate handed down from Mount Sinai. It's not. It's a silly number posted by greedy assholes who can make you pay money for ignoring it because they have more guns than you do. So, are you quite done making an ass of yourself?

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    1. Re:Pfft. by shaneh0 · · Score: 1

      Nice way to take my "drive by feel" comment out of context. Perhaps you can put words in others' mouths, but not mine. I drive by feel on roads where I KNOW the speed limit, and I keep my car at that speed or within 5-7 miles over.

      And yes, I believe that driving is SIGNIFICANTLY different on interstates then it is on non-limited access roads. It's all about the perception of safety. When a highway was expanded in my home town a few years ago, no guard rails were installed in the new "clover leaf" interchange. The reason given is that there are fewer accidents and fewer deaths when there are no guardrails because people are more carful and they drive slower. Guard rails, they explained, give people the ILLUSION of safety while offering very little actual safety for cars traveling at high speeds.

      On the interstate, if you post a speed limit of 80, people will drive 90. If you don't believe me, re-read this thread. Someone mentions this same scenario. I work in Michigan, where the interstate speed limit is 70. Nobody does 70. Everyone does 80, because you won't be ticketed unless you're doing more then 10mph over the limit. Once traffic gets to Ohio, where I live, people slow down to 75, 10 miles over the limit. They don't drive 80 in Ohio because it "feels safe" -- they don't want to be ticketed.

      The illusion of saftey that an interstate provides would cause people to drive 100 if the limit was 90. At least enough of the people to cause serious problems.

      Tell me, what is the "spirit" of the speed-limit law, if not to limit your speed? Laws are laws. Speeders like yourself justify it by claiming the people within the law are the problem. The reason you have to justify it, is because nobody believes that. It's never the case. It's like saying the people that DON'T do cocaine are the problem. If EVERYONE would just do what FEELS GOOD and do cocaine, then there would be no drug problem. That's rock-solid logic, my friend.

      People don't drive what feels right. They drive what they think they can get away with.

      You think I'm making an ass of myself? Look at your post, my friend. You pulled out a study that is 1) old and 2) not applicable to interstate driving, and you throw in some bass-ackwards logic to fill in the cracks.

      And before you say that the age of the study doesn't matter, think about it. It's all about the perception of safety. And anti-lock brakes, traction control, side airbags, safety cages, crumple zones, five star ratings, etc, have all been introduced to the mass market AFTER the study was created. All of these things contribute to UN SAFE SPEEDS.

      Good luck in traffic court. If I were you, I'd bring a copy of the study with you. I'm *certain* a judge would find it complete justification for your lawlessness.